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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a hard conversation feel safe enough to start?",
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      "text": "What makes a hard conversation feel unsafe before it even begins?",
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      "text": "What timing helps you stay open during a difficult conversation?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_004",
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      "text": "What timing almost guarantees a difficult conversation will go badly?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_005",
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      "text": "What words help you know I am trying to understand, not attack?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_006",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What words make you brace for a fight?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_007",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I ask before bringing up something serious?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_008",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should you ask before bringing up something serious with me?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_009",
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      "text": "What is one hard topic we should approach more gently?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_010",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one hard topic we should approach more directly?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_011",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does good listening look like when the topic is uncomfortable?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_012",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes you feel unheard during a hard conversation?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_013",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I repeat back when you share something difficult?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_014",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I avoid doing when you share something difficult?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_015",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "How do you know I am listening with care?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_016",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "How do you know I am listening defensively?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_017",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you keep listening when you feel criticized?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_018",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps me keep listening when I feel criticized?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_019",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What question would help us slow down and understand each other?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_020",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one sign that we are talking past each other?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_021",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What truth feels hard to say because you worry about my reaction?",
      "depth": 3,
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        "hard_talks"
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_022",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What reaction from me makes honesty harder?",
      "depth": 4,
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        "min_length": 1,
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_023",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What reaction from me makes honesty easier?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_024",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of honesty do you want more of from me?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_025",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of honesty do you want to offer me more often?",
      "depth": 2,
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      "tags": [
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_026",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What fear shows up for you during difficult conversations?",
      "depth": 2,
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_027",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What fear do you think shows up for me during difficult conversations?",
      "depth": 3,
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        "min_length": 1,
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_028",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you avoid saying to protect the peace?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_029",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we should stop avoiding to protect the relationship?",
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      "tags": [
        "avoidance"
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        "min_length": 1,
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_030",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make honesty feel less dangerous between us?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "honesty",
        "anger"
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        "min_length": 1,
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_031",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What tone helps you stay open these days?",
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        "tone"
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_032",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What tone makes you shut down?",
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        "tone"
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        "min_length": 1,
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_033",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one early sign that our conversation is escalating?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_034",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we do when that early sign appears?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_035",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What phrase can we use when the conversation starts getting too sharp?",
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_036",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What body language from me makes a hard talk feel worse?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_037",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What body language from me makes a hard talk feel safer?",
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        "hard_talks"
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_038",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can we disagree without sounding contemptuous?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_039",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can we express anger without trying to wound each other?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_040",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we never say just to win a moment?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_041",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes you feel defensive with me?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_042",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you soften when you feel defensive?",
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        "defensiveness"
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_043",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes me seem defensive to you?",
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        "defensiveness"
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        "min_length": 1,
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_044",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps me soften when I seem defensive?",
      "depth": 2,
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      "tags": [
        "defensiveness"
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        "min_length": 1,
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_045",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can I take responsibility without feeling like I am accepting blame for everything?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_046",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can you take responsibility without feeling blamed for everything?",
      "depth": 4,
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        "difficult_conversations"
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        "min_length": 1,
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_047",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing I should own more clearly?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_048",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you want to own more clearly?",
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_049",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us shift from defending to understanding?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_050",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one defensive habit we should interrupt kindly?",
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        "defensiveness"
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_051",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What old conversation still affects how you hear me now?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_052",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What old hurt should we revisit with more care?",
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        "hurt"
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_053",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What part of that hurt feels unfinished?",
      "depth": 5,
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        "hurt"
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_054",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would help us talk about old pain without reliving the whole fight?",
      "depth": 1,
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        "difficult_conversations"
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    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_055",
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      "text": "What need is hardest for you to name out loud?",
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      "text": "What need do you think I wish you noticed sooner?",
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      "text": "What topic feels sensitive because it touches your self-worth?",
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      "text": "What topic feels sensitive because it touches your past?",
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      "text": "What topic do you want me to treat with extra care?",
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      "text": "What topic would bring us closer if we handled it well?",
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      "text": "What does accountability from me look like in a hard conversation?",
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      "text": "What does accountability from you look like in a hard conversation?",
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        "accountability"
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      "text": "What is one behavior I should acknowledge without explaining it away?",
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      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one behavior you want to acknowledge without explaining it away?",
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      "text": "What helps accountability feel like repair instead of punishment?",
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      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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      "text": "What follow-through would show that I really heard you?",
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      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What follow-through would show that you really heard me?",
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      "tags": [
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      "text": "What is one promise we should make only if we can keep it?",
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      "text": "What does your silence usually mean during a difficult conversation?",
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      "text": "What do you think my silence usually means during a difficult conversation?",
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      "text": "When does silence help you think?",
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      "text": "When does silence feel like punishment?",
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      "tags": [
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      "text": "How should we pause without abandoning the conversation?",
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      "text": "How should we come back after a pause?",
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      "text": "What should I not assume when you get quiet?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_128",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should you not assume when I get quiet?",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_129",
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      "text": "What helps you return to a hard conversation after space?",
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      "text": "What helps me return to a hard conversation after space?",
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      "text": "What helps you hear hard feedback without collapsing into shame?",
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      "text": "What helps me hear hard feedback without collapsing into shame?",
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      "text": "What is one vulnerable truth you think I want handled gently?",
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      "text": "What helps you stay present when you feel exposed?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_137",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps me stay present when I feel exposed?",
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      "tags": [
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "text": "What is one thing we should never mock, dismiss, or use against each other?",
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      "text": "What would help us protect tenderness during hard topics?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "text": "What does courage look like in our difficult conversations?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "text": "What difficult conversation have we handled better than before?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_142",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helped us handle it better?",
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      "tags": [
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "text": "What difficult conversation still needs practice?",
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      "text": "What skill should we build before our next hard season?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "text": "What hard topic would you like us to approach as teammates?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "text": "What would make you proud of how we communicate under pressure?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "text": "What is one sign that a hard talk made us stronger?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_148",
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      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one sign that a hard talk needs repair afterward?",
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        "min_length": 1,
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        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
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      "text": "What do you want our hard conversations to feel like one year from now?",
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      "text": "What is one small step we can take toward that this week?",
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      "text": "What helps you start a difficult conversation?",
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      "text": "What helps you stay open to hard feedback?",
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      "text": "What usually escalates a hard talk?",
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      "text": "What usually de-escalates a hard talk?",
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      "text": "What makes accountability easier to receive?",
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      "text": "What makes an apology feel real?",
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      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
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      "text": "What makes an apology feel weak?",
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        "apology"
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          "id": "no_change",
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      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What do you need when you feel defensive?",
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      "tags": [
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      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_pause",
          "text": "A pause"
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        {
          "id": "gentler_wording",
          "text": "Gentler wording"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_reminder_of_care",
          "text": "A reminder of care"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_chance_to_explain",
          "text": "A chance to explain"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_161",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What do you need when I seem defensive?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_pause",
          "text": "A pause"
        },
        {
          "id": "less_explaining",
          "text": "Less explaining"
        },
        {
          "id": "more_listening",
          "text": "More listening"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_clear_question",
          "text": "A clear question"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_162",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the best place for a hard talk?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "setting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "at_home",
          "text": "At home"
        },
        {
          "id": "on_a_walk",
          "text": "On a walk"
        },
        {
          "id": "in_the_car_parked",
          "text": "In the car parked"
        },
        {
          "id": "somewhere_neutral",
          "text": "Somewhere neutral"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_163",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the worst time for a hard talk?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timing"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "late_night",
          "text": "Late night"
        },
        {
          "id": "before_work",
          "text": "Before work"
        },
        {
          "id": "during_stress",
          "text": "During stress"
        },
        {
          "id": "in_public",
          "text": "In public"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_164",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you hear my side?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "listening"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "calm_tone",
          "text": "Calm tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "clear_examples",
          "text": "Clear examples"
        },
        {
          "id": "less_pressure",
          "text": "Less pressure"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_heard_first",
          "text": "Feeling heard first"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_165",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps me hear your side?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "listening"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "calm_tone",
          "text": "Calm tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "clear_examples",
          "text": "Clear examples"
        },
        {
          "id": "less_pressure",
          "text": "Less pressure"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_heard_first",
          "text": "Feeling heard first"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_166",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we do when we repeat ourselves?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stuck"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "pause",
          "text": "Pause"
        },
        {
          "id": "summarize",
          "text": "Summarize"
        },
        {
          "id": "ask_what_is_missing",
          "text": "Ask what is missing"
        },
        {
          "id": "come_back_later",
          "text": "Come back later"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_167",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we do when emotions spike?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "emotions"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "breathe",
          "text": "Breathe"
        },
        {
          "id": "pause",
          "text": "Pause"
        },
        {
          "id": "lower_voices",
          "text": "Lower voices"
        },
        {
          "id": "name_the_emotion",
          "text": "Name the emotion"
        }
      ]
    },
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_168",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is hardest to say?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "honesty"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_was_hurt",
          "text": "I was hurt"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_was_wrong",
          "text": "I was wrong"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_need_help",
          "text": "I need help"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_am_afraid",
          "text": "I am afraid"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_169",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is hardest to hear?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "listening"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_hurt_me",
          "text": "You hurt me"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_need_change",
          "text": "I need change"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_disagree",
          "text": "I disagree"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_am_not_okay",
          "text": "I am not okay"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_170",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a hard talk feel productive?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "productive"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "clarity",
          "text": "Clarity"
        },
        {
          "id": "kindness",
          "text": "Kindness"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_next_step",
          "text": "A next step"
        },
        {
          "id": "mutual_ownership",
          "text": "Mutual ownership"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_171",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a hard talk feel pointless?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stuck"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "no_listening",
          "text": "No listening"
        },
        {
          "id": "no_change",
          "text": "No change"
        },
        {
          "id": "blame_loops",
          "text": "Blame loops"
        },
        {
          "id": "unclear_issue",
          "text": "Unclear issue"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_172",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What repair action matters most after hard talks?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "check_in_later",
          "text": "Check in later"
        },
        {
          "id": "change_behavior",
          "text": "Change behavior"
        },
        {
          "id": "offer_comfort",
          "text": "Offer comfort"
        },
        {
          "id": "make_a_plan",
          "text": "Make a plan"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_173",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When we disagree, what do you need protected?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "respect"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "respect",
          "text": "Respect"
        },
        {
          "id": "voice",
          "text": "Voice"
        },
        {
          "id": "time",
          "text": "Time"
        },
        {
          "id": "connection",
          "text": "Connection"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_174",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you talk about old hurt?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "old_wounds"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "gentle_pace",
          "text": "Gentle pace"
        },
        {
          "id": "no_interruptions",
          "text": "No interruptions"
        },
        {
          "id": "clear_purpose",
          "text": "Clear purpose"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_safe_ending",
          "text": "A safe ending"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_175",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes old hurt harder to discuss?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "old_wounds"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "defensiveness",
          "text": "Defensiveness"
        },
        {
          "id": "minimizing",
          "text": "Minimizing"
        },
        {
          "id": "rushing",
          "text": "Rushing"
        },
        {
          "id": "counterattacks",
          "text": "Counterattacks"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_176",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is most important during a hard decision?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "decisions"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "fairness",
          "text": "Fairness"
        },
        {
          "id": "honesty",
          "text": "Honesty"
        },
        {
          "id": "patience",
          "text": "Patience"
        },
        {
          "id": "shared_values",
          "text": "Shared values"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_177",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you pause without feeling abandoned?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "set_a_return_time",
          "text": "Set a return time"
        },
        {
          "id": "reassurance",
          "text": "Reassurance"
        },
        {
          "id": "physical_space",
          "text": "Physical space"
        },
        {
          "id": "short_message",
          "text": "Short message"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_178",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you return after a pause?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "clear_time",
          "text": "Clear time"
        },
        {
          "id": "softer_tone",
          "text": "Softer tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_summary",
          "text": "A summary"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_repair_attempt",
          "text": "A repair attempt"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_179",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes silence feel safe?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "silence"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "agreed_pause",
          "text": "Agreed pause"
        },
        {
          "id": "kind_tone",
          "text": "Kind tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "clear_return",
          "text": "Clear return"
        },
        {
          "id": "no_punishment",
          "text": "No punishment"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_180",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes silence feel painful?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "silence"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "no_explanation",
          "text": "No explanation"
        },
        {
          "id": "coldness",
          "text": "Coldness"
        },
        {
          "id": "long_delay",
          "text": "Long delay"
        },
        {
          "id": "avoidance",
          "text": "Avoidance"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_181",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we clarify before hard talks?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "clarity"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "the_topic",
          "text": "The topic"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_goal",
          "text": "The goal"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_timing",
          "text": "The timing"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_boundary",
          "text": "The boundary"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_182",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we avoid during hard talks?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "name_calling",
          "text": "Name-calling"
        },
        {
          "id": "threats",
          "text": "Threats"
        },
        {
          "id": "old_pile_ons",
          "text": "Old pile-ons"
        },
        {
          "id": "mind_reading",
          "text": "Mind-reading"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_183",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you believe we are on the same team?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "shared_goal",
          "text": "Shared goal"
        },
        {
          "id": "gentle_touch",
          "text": "Gentle touch"
        },
        {
          "id": "kind_words",
          "text": "Kind words"
        },
        {
          "id": "mutual_ownership",
          "text": "Mutual ownership"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_184",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which answer fits best here: dismissal or sarcasm?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "loneliness"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "dismissal",
          "text": "Dismissal"
        },
        {
          "id": "sarcasm",
          "text": "Sarcasm"
        },
        {
          "id": "coldness",
          "text": "Coldness"
        },
        {
          "id": "no_curiosity",
          "text": "No curiosity"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_185",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which answer fits best here: curious or specific?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "questions"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "curious",
          "text": "Curious"
        },
        {
          "id": "specific",
          "text": "Specific"
        },
        {
          "id": "gentle",
          "text": "Gentle"
        },
        {
          "id": "non_blaming",
          "text": "Non-blaming"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_186",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which answer fits best here: accusing or loaded?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "questions"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "accusing",
          "text": "Accusing"
        },
        {
          "id": "loaded",
          "text": "Loaded"
        },
        {
          "id": "vague",
          "text": "Vague"
        },
        {
          "id": "repeated",
          "text": "Repeated"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_187",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us end a hard talk well?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "ending"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_summary",
          "text": "A summary"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_hug",
          "text": "A hug"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_next_step",
          "text": "A next step"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_kind_sentence",
          "text": "A kind sentence"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_188",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we do if a hard talk goes badly?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "pause_and_repair",
          "text": "Pause and repair"
        },
        {
          "id": "apologize",
          "text": "Apologize"
        },
        {
          "id": "reschedule",
          "text": "Reschedule"
        },
        {
          "id": "write_down_the_issue",
          "text": "Write down the issue"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_189",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is your first sign of overwhelm?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "overwhelm"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "tears",
          "text": "Tears"
        },
        {
          "id": "anger",
          "text": "Anger"
        },
        {
          "id": "silence",
          "text": "Silence"
        },
        {
          "id": "fast_talking",
          "text": "Fast talking"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_190",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should I do when I notice that sign?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "support"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "slow_down",
          "text": "Slow down"
        },
        {
          "id": "ask_gently",
          "text": "Ask gently"
        },
        {
          "id": "offer_a_pause",
          "text": "Offer a pause"
        },
        {
          "id": "reassure_you",
          "text": "Reassure you"
        }
      ]
    },
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_191",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should be off-limits during hard talks?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "insults",
          "text": "Insults"
        },
        {
          "id": "threats",
          "text": "Threats"
        },
        {
          "id": "mocking",
          "text": "Mocking"
        },
        {
          "id": "private_vulnerabilities",
          "text": "Private vulnerabilities"
        },
        {
          "id": "old_unrelated_issues",
          "text": "Old unrelated issues"
        },
        {
          "id": "public_arguments",
          "text": "Public arguments"
        }
      ],
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        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_192",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a hard talk stay respectful?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "respect"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "calm_tone",
          "text": "Calm tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "taking_turns",
          "text": "Taking turns"
        },
        {
          "id": "specific_examples",
          "text": "Specific examples"
        },
        {
          "id": "pauses",
          "text": "Pauses"
        },
        {
          "id": "no_name_calling",
          "text": "No name-calling"
        },
        {
          "id": "clear_goal",
          "text": "Clear goal"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_193",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes hard talks easier to start?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "start"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "planned_time",
          "text": "Planned time"
        },
        {
          "id": "soft_wording",
          "text": "Soft wording"
        },
        {
          "id": "privacy",
          "text": "Privacy"
        },
        {
          "id": "reassurance",
          "text": "Reassurance"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_clear_topic",
          "text": "A clear topic"
        },
        {
          "id": "no_distractions",
          "text": "No distractions"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_194",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What topics need extra care?",
      "depth": 2,
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      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do you trust our ability to have hard conversations?",
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        "privacy"
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        "min_scale": 1,
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        "scale_step": 1,
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        "max_label": "Very well"
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      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we follow through after hard talks?",
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      "tags": [
        "follow_through"
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        "min_scale": 1,
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        "scale_step": 1,
        "min_label": "Not well",
        "max_label": "Very well"
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_232",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much courage do you feel in our communication?",
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      "tags": [
        "courage"
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        "scale_step": 1,
        "min_label": "Very little",
        "max_label": "A lot"
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    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_233",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much tenderness survives our hard conversations?",
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      "tags": [
        "tenderness"
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        "min_scale": 1,
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        "scale_step": 1,
        "min_label": "Very little",
        "max_label": "A lot"
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_234",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much resentment is waiting to be discussed?",
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      "tags": [
        "resentment"
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        "min_scale": 1,
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        "scale_step": 1,
        "min_label": "None",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_235",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident are you that our next hard talk can go better?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "growth"
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        "min_scale": 1,
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        "scale_step": 1,
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        "max_label": "Very confident"
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      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "For hard talks, which helps more?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timing"
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          "id": "plan_ahead",
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          "id": "bring_it_up_naturally",
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      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "When emotions rise, which should we do first?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause"
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      "options": [
        {
          "id": "pause",
          "text": "Pause"
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        {
          "id": "slow_down_together",
          "text": "Slow down together"
        }
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    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_238",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "For feedback, which lands better?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback"
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        {
          "id": "gentle_wording",
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        {
          "id": "direct_wording",
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_239",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "For old hurts, which helps more?",
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      "tags": [
        "old_wounds"
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        {
          "id": "talk_in_pieces",
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        {
          "id": "talk_all_at_once",
          "text": "Talk all at once"
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      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "When stuck, which should we ask?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "clarity"
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        {
          "id": "what_are_you_feeling",
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        {
          "id": "what_do_you_need",
          "text": "What do you need?"
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      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "For repair, which matters more?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair"
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        {
          "id": "changed_behavior",
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        {
          "id": "spoken_apology",
          "text": "Spoken apology"
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    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_242",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "During disagreement, which protects us more?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "disagreement"
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        {
          "id": "clear_boundaries",
          "text": "Clear boundaries"
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        {
          "id": "extra_reassurance",
          "text": "Extra reassurance"
        }
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    },
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_243",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "When one of us is defensive, which helps more?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness"
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      "options": [
        {
          "id": "pause",
          "text": "Pause"
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        {
          "id": "gentle_question",
          "text": "Gentle question"
        }
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    },
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_244",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "For sensitive topics, which matters more?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensitive_topics"
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      "options": [
        {
          "id": "privacy",
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        {
          "id": "timing",
          "text": "Timing"
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_245",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "When we disagree, which should lead?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "values"
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      "options": [
        {
          "id": "curiosity",
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        {
          "id": "honesty",
          "text": "Honesty"
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    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_246",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "After a hard talk, which helps more?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare"
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      "options": [
        {
          "id": "affection",
          "text": "Affection"
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        {
          "id": "action_plan",
          "text": "Action plan"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_247",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "For big decisions, which matters more?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "decisions"
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        {
          "id": "shared_values",
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        {
          "id": "practical_details",
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    },
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_248",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "When someone gets quiet, which should we assume first?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "silence"
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      "options": [
        {
          "id": "needs_time",
          "text": "Needs time"
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        {
          "id": "needs_safety",
          "text": "Needs safety"
        }
      ]
    },
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_249",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "For emotional honesty, which helps more?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "honesty"
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      "options": [
        {
          "id": "ask_gently",
          "text": "Ask gently"
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        {
          "id": "listen_quietly",
          "text": "Listen quietly"
        }
      ]
    },
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_250",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "For our next hard talk, which should we protect first?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "respect"
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          "id": "respect",
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        {
          "id": "connection",
          "text": "Connection"
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}
