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    "description": "Questions about disagreements, repair, triggers, boundaries, emotional regulation, and handling tension with care.",
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      "multi_choice": 20,
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    {
      "id": "conflict_001",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one small conflict habit we handle better now than before?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "growth",
        "reflection"
      ],
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        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
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    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_002",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you stay calm when we disagree?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "calm",
        "self_regulation"
      ],
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        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_003",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing I do during conflict that helps you feel respected?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "respect",
        "conflict"
      ],
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        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_004",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing I do during conflict that makes you feel dismissed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "dismissal",
        "conflict"
      ],
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        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_005",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we do when a small disagreement starts getting bigger?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "escalation",
        "pause"
      ],
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        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_006",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one topic where we usually need extra patience?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "patience",
        "topics"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_007",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one topic where we should slow down before responding?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "pause"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_008",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one phrase that helps you feel less attacked during disagreement?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "language",
        "safety"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_009",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one phrase that makes you feel blamed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "blame",
        "language"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_010",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can I bring up a concern without making you feel cornered?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "soft_start",
        "concern"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_011",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can you bring up a concern in a way I am more likely to hear?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "soft_start",
        "listening"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_012",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does a fair argument look like to you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "fairness",
        "conflict_rules"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_013",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does an unfair argument look like to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "fairness",
        "conflict_rules"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_014",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary we should have during heated talks?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "heated_talks"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_015",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one sign that you need a pause during conflict?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "signals"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_016",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one sign that I need a pause during conflict?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "signals"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_017",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should we restart a conversation after taking a break?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "pause"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_018",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you believe that I am trying to understand, not win?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "understanding",
        "teamwork"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_019",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes it feel like I am trying to win instead of understand?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "winning",
        "defensiveness"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_020",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we should never say just to hurt each other?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "harm",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_021",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we do when one of us feels flooded or overwhelmed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flooding",
        "self_soothing"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_022",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel safe enough to admit you were wrong?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
        "safety"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_023",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you feel safe enough to hear that I was hurt?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hurt",
        "safety"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_024",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can disagree and still feel close afterward?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "closeness",
        "disagreement"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_025",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does repair after conflict usually need from me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "needs"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_026",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does repair after conflict usually need from you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "ownership"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_027",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one apology behavior that feels real to you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "apology",
        "repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_028",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one apology behavior that feels empty to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "apology",
        "repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_029",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we should apologize for faster?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "apology",
        "timing"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_030",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we should stop apologizing for without changing?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "accountability"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_031",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one conflict pattern you want us to notice sooner?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "patterns",
        "awareness"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_032",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one conflict pattern you think we are already improving?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "growth",
        "patterns"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_033",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What tends to make you defensive with me?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "triggers"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_034",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What tends to make me defensive with you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "reflection"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_035",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can I respond when you are defensive without escalating?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "deescalation"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_036",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can you respond when I am defensive without escalating?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "deescalation"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_037",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of criticism hurts you most?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "criticism",
        "hurt"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_038",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of feedback helps you grow without feeling attacked?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "growth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_039",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one complaint you wish I could hear as a need?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "needs",
        "complaints"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_040",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one complaint from me that may hide a deeper need?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "needs",
        "complaints"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_041",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you avoid shutting down when things get tense?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "stonewalling",
        "tension"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_042",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps me avoid shutting down when things get tense?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "stonewalling",
        "reflection"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_043",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does it feel like when I go quiet during conflict?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "silence",
        "impact"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_044",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does it feel like when you go quiet during conflict?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "silence",
        "self_awareness"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_045",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would help silence feel like a pause instead of punishment?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "silence",
        "repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_046",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we can do before a conflict becomes disrespectful?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "respect",
        "deescalation"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_047",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one sign that our tone is becoming the real problem?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "awareness"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_048",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What tone from me makes it hardest for you to stay open?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "openness"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_049",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What tone from you do you want to be more careful with?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "ownership"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_050",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can lower the temperature in the room?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "deescalation",
        "calm"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_051",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one issue we keep arguing about because we have not named the real problem?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "root_issue",
        "patterns"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_052",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What do you think the real problem might be underneath that issue?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "root_issue",
        "reflection"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_053",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one old argument we should finally retire?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "old_arguments",
        "closure"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_054",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would help us retire that argument respectfully?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "closure",
        "repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_055",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one recurring conflict where we need a new agreement?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "agreements",
        "recurring_conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_056",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would a better agreement look like?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "agreements",
        "solutions"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_057",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one area where you feel I do not accept your influence enough?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "influence",
        "respect"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_058",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one area where you want to accept my influence more?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "influence",
        "growth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_059",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can make decisions without turning them into power struggles?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "decisions",
        "power"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_060",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one power struggle we should stop feeding?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "power",
        "patterns"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_061",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we can do when we both think we are right?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "perspective",
        "humility"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_062",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you consider my perspective during conflict?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "perspective",
        "listening"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_063",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps me consider your perspective during conflict?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "perspective",
        "reflection"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_064",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing I misunderstand about your anger?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anger",
        "understanding"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_065",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you misunderstand about my anger?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anger",
        "understanding"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_066",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one feeling underneath your anger that I should understand?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anger",
        "vulnerability"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_067",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one feeling underneath my anger that you think I should name more clearly?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anger",
        "vulnerability"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_068",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way fear shows up in our conflicts?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "fear",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_069",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way hurt shows up in our conflicts?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hurt",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_070",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way stress shows up in our conflicts?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_071",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way exhaustion changes how we argue?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "exhaustion",
        "timing"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_072",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we avoid discussing when we are hungry, tired, or rushed?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "stress"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_073",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one better time or setting for hard conversations?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "setting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_074",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one rule we should make about conflict in public?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "public_conflict",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_075",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one rule we should make about conflict around family or friends?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_076",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one painful argument we need to understand instead of repeat?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "painful_arguments",
        "patterns"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_077",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What did that argument reveal about what you need from me?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "needs",
        "reflection"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_078",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What did that argument reveal about what I may need from you?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "needs",
        "reflection"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_079",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing I do that feels like criticism even if I mean it as a concern?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "criticism",
        "intent"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_080",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you do that might land as criticism even if you mean it as honesty?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "criticism",
        "ownership"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_081",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way contempt can sneak into our tone or words?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "contempt",
        "awareness"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_082",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us replace contempt with respect in hard moments?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "contempt",
        "respect"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_083",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one sarcastic comment we should stop making during conflict?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sarcasm",
        "respect"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_084",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When does humor help us repair, and when does it dodge the issue?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_085",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way I can show accountability without collapsing into shame?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
        "shame"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_086",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way you can show accountability without becoming defensive?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
        "defensiveness"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_087",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we should validate before trying to solve?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "validation",
        "problem_solving"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_088",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one solution I push before you feel heard?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "solutions",
        "listening"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_089",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one solution you push before I feel heard?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "solutions",
        "listening"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_090",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one topic where winning the argument costs us connection?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "winning",
        "connection"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_091",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would choosing connection over winning look like there?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "connection",
        "repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_092",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one conflict where both of us have a valid point?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "perspective",
        "validity"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_093",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is the most generous version of my side in that conflict?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "generosity",
        "perspective"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_094",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is the most generous version of your side in that conflict?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "generosity",
        "perspective"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_095",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you wish I understood about your trigger before reacting to it?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "triggers",
        "understanding"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_096",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing I wish you understood about my trigger before reacting to it?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "triggers",
        "understanding"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_097",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one trigger we need to treat with more care?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "triggers",
        "care"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_098",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one conflict behavior that reminds you of past pain?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "past_pain",
        "patterns"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_099",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one conflict behavior from you that you want to unlearn?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "unlearning",
        "ownership"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_100",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one conflict behavior from me that I should work to unlearn?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "unlearning",
        "reflection"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_101",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What did your family teach you about arguing?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family_patterns",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_102",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What did your family teach you about making peace?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family_patterns",
        "repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_103",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What conflict habit from your past no longer serves us?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "past_patterns",
        "growth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_104",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What repair habit from your past could help us?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "past_patterns",
        "repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_105",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can disagree without threatening the relationship?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "security",
        "disagreement"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_106",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What words or actions make conflict feel like abandonment to you?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "abandonment",
        "security"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_107",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What words or actions make conflict feel like rejection to you?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "rejection",
        "security"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_108",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What reassurance helps you stay present during conflict?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reassurance",
        "presence"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_109",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What reassurance feels unconvincing during conflict?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reassurance",
        "trust"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_110",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we should do if a conversation becomes too intense?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "intensity",
        "safety"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_111",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we should never do when one of us asks for a pause?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_112",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make a pause feel respectful instead of avoidant?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "respect"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_113",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should the person who calls a pause be responsible for?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "responsibility"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_114",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should the other person be responsible for during the pause?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "responsibility"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_115",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one repair attempt from me that you want to notice more?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair_attempts",
        "noticing"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_116",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one repair attempt from you that I may miss?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair_attempts",
        "noticing"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_117",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What gets in the way of accepting repair when it is offered?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "barriers"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_118",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps you soften after feeling hurt?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "softening",
        "hurt"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_119",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps me soften after feeling hurt?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "softening",
        "reflection"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_120",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one area where resentment could grow if we stay quiet?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "resentment",
        "prevention"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_121",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What conversation would help prevent that resentment?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "resentment",
        "conversation"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_122",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one compromise that would feel fair instead of forced?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "compromise",
        "fairness"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_123",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one compromise that would feel like self-abandonment?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "compromise",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_124",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary that protects love during conflict?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "love"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_125",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary that could become avoidance if we misuse it?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "avoidance"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_126",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can we tell the difference between a boundary and a wall?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "walls"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_127",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one topic where we need outside support someday, not because we failed but because it matters?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "support",
        "humility"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_128",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one conflict goal for the next month?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "goals",
        "growth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_129",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What progress would tell us we are arguing in healthier ways?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "progress",
        "growth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_130",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing I can practice during our next disagreement?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "practice",
        "growth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_131",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you can practice during our next disagreement?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "practice",
        "ownership"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_132",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we celebrate when we handle a conflict well?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "celebration",
        "growth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_133",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one conflict where we need to replace blame with responsibility?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "blame",
        "responsibility"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_134",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What part of that responsibility belongs to me?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "responsibility",
        "reflection"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_135",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What part of that responsibility belongs to you?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "responsibility",
        "ownership"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_136",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one conflict where we need clearer expectations?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "expectations",
        "clarity"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_137",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What expectation should we state plainly instead of assuming?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "expectations",
        "clarity"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_138",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one conflict where timing keeps making things worse?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "patterns"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_139",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What timing agreement would help us there?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "agreement"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_140",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one conflict where tone keeps making things worse?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "patterns"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_141",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What tone agreement would help us there?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "agreement"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_142",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one conflict where old hurt keeps entering the room?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "old_hurt",
        "patterns"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_143",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can we respect that old hurt without letting it run the whole conversation?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "old_hurt",
        "repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_144",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we need to forgive but not ignore?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "forgiveness",
        "accountability"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_145",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing we need to remember but not weaponize?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "memory",
        "safety"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_146",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can leave a hard conversation with dignity?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "dignity",
        "closure"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_147",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would help us end conflicts with a clear next step?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "next_steps",
        "closure"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_148",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one promise about conflict that you want us to keep?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "promise",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_149",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of partners do we want to become when we disagree?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "identity",
        "future"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_150",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way we can protect respect even when we strongly disagree?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "respect",
        "strong_disagreement"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 1000,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_151",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When conflict starts, what helps you most first?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "start",
        "support"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_calmer_tone",
          "text": "A calmer tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_clear_pause",
          "text": "A clear pause"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_direct_question",
          "text": "A direct question"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_little_reassurance",
          "text": "A little reassurance"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_152",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What usually escalates conflict fastest for you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "escalation",
        "triggers"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "feeling_blamed",
          "text": "Feeling blamed"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_ignored",
          "text": "Feeling ignored"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_rushed",
          "text": "Feeling rushed"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_misunderstood",
          "text": "Feeling misunderstood"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_153",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you hear feedback best?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "openness"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "specific_examples",
          "text": "Specific examples"
        },
        {
          "id": "gentle_tone",
          "text": "Gentle tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "time_to_think",
          "text": "Time to think"
        },
        {
          "id": "reassurance_first",
          "text": "Reassurance first"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_154",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes an apology feel most sincere?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "apology",
        "repair"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "clear_ownership",
          "text": "Clear ownership"
        },
        {
          "id": "changed_behavior",
          "text": "Changed behavior"
        },
        {
          "id": "emotional_warmth",
          "text": "Emotional warmth"
        },
        {
          "id": "no_excuses",
          "text": "No excuses"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_155",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What do you need after an argument?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "after_conflict",
        "needs"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "space",
          "text": "Space"
        },
        {
          "id": "comfort",
          "text": "Comfort"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_plan",
          "text": "A plan"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_normal_moment_together",
          "text": "A normal moment together"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_156",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is hardest during conflict?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "difficulty",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "staying_calm",
          "text": "Staying calm"
        },
        {
          "id": "being_honest",
          "text": "Being honest"
        },
        {
          "id": "not_shutting_down",
          "text": "Not shutting down"
        },
        {
          "id": "not_getting_defensive",
          "text": "Not getting defensive"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_157",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is your default conflict response?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "style",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "talk_more",
          "text": "Talk more"
        },
        {
          "id": "go_quiet",
          "text": "Go quiet"
        },
        {
          "id": "defend_myself",
          "text": "Defend myself"
        },
        {
          "id": "try_to_fix_it_fast",
          "text": "Try to fix it fast"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_158",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you come back after taking space?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "return"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_specific_time",
          "text": "A specific time"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_gentle_message",
          "text": "A gentle message"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_calm_tone",
          "text": "A calm tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_clear_apology",
          "text": "A clear apology"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_159",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What type of repair works best for you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "style"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "words",
          "text": "Words"
        },
        {
          "id": "actions",
          "text": "Actions"
        },
        {
          "id": "physical_closeness",
          "text": "Physical closeness"
        },
        {
          "id": "giving_it_time",
          "text": "Giving it time"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_160",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we prioritize in conflict?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "priorities",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "understanding",
          "text": "Understanding"
        },
        {
          "id": "solving",
          "text": "Solving"
        },
        {
          "id": "calming_down",
          "text": "Calming down"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_close_again",
          "text": "Feeling close again"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_161",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we avoid most during conflict?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "avoidance",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "name_calling",
          "text": "Name-calling"
        },
        {
          "id": "old_arguments",
          "text": "Old arguments"
        },
        {
          "id": "threats",
          "text": "Threats"
        },
        {
          "id": "silent_punishment",
          "text": "Silent punishment"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_162",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you lower your guard?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "safety"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "kind_tone",
          "text": "Kind tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "owning_one_part",
          "text": "Owning one part"
        },
        {
          "id": "no_interruptions",
          "text": "No interruptions"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_slower_pace",
          "text": "A slower pace"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_163",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes you feel attacked?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "attack",
        "triggers"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "labels",
          "text": "Labels"
        },
        {
          "id": "raised_voice",
          "text": "Raised voice"
        },
        {
          "id": "assumptions",
          "text": "Assumptions"
        },
        {
          "id": "being_interrupted",
          "text": "Being interrupted"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_164",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes you feel respected during disagreement?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "respect",
        "disagreement"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "being_heard",
          "text": "Being heard"
        },
        {
          "id": "being_asked",
          "text": "Being asked"
        },
        {
          "id": "being_given_time",
          "text": "Being given time"
        },
        {
          "id": "being_taken_seriously",
          "text": "Being taken seriously"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_165",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is most useful when we are stuck?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stuck",
        "solutions"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "take_a_break",
          "text": "Take a break"
        },
        {
          "id": "name_the_real_issue",
          "text": "Name the real issue"
        },
        {
          "id": "ask_what_each_person_needs",
          "text": "Ask what each person needs"
        },
        {
          "id": "pick_one_next_step",
          "text": "Pick one next step"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_166",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is your biggest conflict growth area right now?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "growth",
        "self_awareness"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "tone",
          "text": "Tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "timing",
          "text": "Timing"
        },
        {
          "id": "listening",
          "text": "Listening"
        },
        {
          "id": "accountability",
          "text": "Accountability"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_167",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of disagreement feels easiest to handle?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "ease",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "logistics",
          "text": "Logistics"
        },
        {
          "id": "plans",
          "text": "Plans"
        },
        {
          "id": "money",
          "text": "Money"
        },
        {
          "id": "feelings",
          "text": "Feelings"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_168",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of disagreement feels hardest to handle?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hard_topics",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "logistics",
          "text": "Logistics"
        },
        {
          "id": "plans",
          "text": "Plans"
        },
        {
          "id": "money",
          "text": "Money"
        },
        {
          "id": "feelings",
          "text": "Feelings"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_169",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we do when we both feel right?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "perspective",
        "humility"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "slow_down",
          "text": "Slow down"
        },
        {
          "id": "list_both_needs",
          "text": "List both needs"
        },
        {
          "id": "find_shared_goal",
          "text": "Find shared goal"
        },
        {
          "id": "pause_and_return",
          "text": "Pause and return"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_170",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you accept influence?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "influence",
        "openness"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "feeling_respected",
          "text": "Feeling respected"
        },
        {
          "id": "seeing_logic",
          "text": "Seeing logic"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_loved",
          "text": "Feeling loved"
        },
        {
          "id": "having_time",
          "text": "Having time"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_171",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What most often hides under your anger?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "anger",
        "emotion"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "hurt",
          "text": "Hurt"
        },
        {
          "id": "fear",
          "text": "Fear"
        },
        {
          "id": "stress",
          "text": "Stress"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_unseen",
          "text": "Feeling unseen"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_172",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What most often hides under my anger?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "anger",
        "reflection"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "hurt",
          "text": "Hurt"
        },
        {
          "id": "fear",
          "text": "Fear"
        },
        {
          "id": "stress",
          "text": "Stress"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_unseen",
          "text": "Feeling unseen"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_173",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a pause feel safe?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "safety"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_return_time",
          "text": "A return time"
        },
        {
          "id": "kind_words",
          "text": "Kind words"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_hug_first",
          "text": "A hug first"
        },
        {
          "id": "knowing_we_will_finish",
          "text": "Knowing we will finish"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_174",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a pause feel unsafe?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "fear"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "no_return_time",
          "text": "No return time"
        },
        {
          "id": "cold_silence",
          "text": "Cold silence"
        },
        {
          "id": "leaving_suddenly",
          "text": "Leaving suddenly"
        },
        {
          "id": "ignoring_messages",
          "text": "Ignoring messages"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_175",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the best place for a serious talk?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "setting",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "at_home",
          "text": "At home"
        },
        {
          "id": "on_a_walk",
          "text": "On a walk"
        },
        {
          "id": "in_the_car_parked",
          "text": "In the car parked"
        },
        {
          "id": "somewhere_neutral",
          "text": "Somewhere neutral"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_176",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the worst time for a serious talk?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "late_at_night",
          "text": "Late at night"
        },
        {
          "id": "before_work",
          "text": "Before work"
        },
        {
          "id": "when_hungry",
          "text": "When hungry"
        },
        {
          "id": "right_after_stress",
          "text": "Right after stress"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_177",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you stay on one topic?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "focus",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "writing_it_down",
          "text": "Writing it down"
        },
        {
          "id": "taking_turns",
          "text": "Taking turns"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_time_limit",
          "text": "A time limit"
        },
        {
          "id": "repeating_the_question",
          "text": "Repeating the question"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_178",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What pulls us off topic fastest?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "focus",
        "patterns"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "old_issues",
          "text": "Old issues"
        },
        {
          "id": "defending_details",
          "text": "Defending details"
        },
        {
          "id": "tone_arguments",
          "text": "Tone arguments"
        },
        {
          "id": "assumptions",
          "text": "Assumptions"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_179",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What feels like real accountability?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
        "repair"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "naming_the_harm",
          "text": "Naming the harm"
        },
        {
          "id": "no_excuses",
          "text": "No excuses"
        },
        {
          "id": "changed_behavior",
          "text": "Changed behavior"
        },
        {
          "id": "checking_back_later",
          "text": "Checking back later"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_180",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What feels like fake accountability?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
        "avoidance"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "quick_sorry",
          "text": "Quick sorry"
        },
        {
          "id": "blaming_stress",
          "text": "Blaming stress"
        },
        {
          "id": "changing_subject",
          "text": "Changing subject"
        },
        {
          "id": "acting_annoyed",
          "text": "Acting annoyed"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_181",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you believe repair is possible?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "hope"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "consistency",
          "text": "Consistency"
        },
        {
          "id": "softness",
          "text": "Softness"
        },
        {
          "id": "humor",
          "text": "Humor"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_clear_plan",
          "text": "A clear plan"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_182",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What usually blocks repair?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "barriers"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "pride",
          "text": "Pride"
        },
        {
          "id": "exhaustion",
          "text": "Exhaustion"
        },
        {
          "id": "fear",
          "text": "Fear"
        },
        {
          "id": "still_feeling_unheard",
          "text": "Still feeling unheard"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_183",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we do when one person cries?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "emotion",
        "care"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "pause_and_comfort",
          "text": "Pause and comfort"
        },
        {
          "id": "keep_talking_gently",
          "text": "Keep talking gently"
        },
        {
          "id": "ask_what_is_needed",
          "text": "Ask what is needed"
        },
        {
          "id": "give_space",
          "text": "Give space"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_184",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we do when one person raises their voice?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "safety"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "pause",
          "text": "Pause"
        },
        {
          "id": "lower_voices",
          "text": "Lower voices"
        },
        {
          "id": "name_it_calmly",
          "text": "Name it calmly"
        },
        {
          "id": "take_space",
          "text": "Take space"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_185",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we do when one person shuts down?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "shutdown",
        "repair"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "pause",
          "text": "Pause"
        },
        {
          "id": "reassure",
          "text": "Reassure"
        },
        {
          "id": "ask_one_simple_question",
          "text": "Ask one simple question"
        },
        {
          "id": "return_later",
          "text": "Return later"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_186",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we do when one person gets defensive?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "defensiveness",
        "repair"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "slow_down",
          "text": "Slow down"
        },
        {
          "id": "own_one_part",
          "text": "Own one part"
        },
        {
          "id": "restate_the_concern",
          "text": "Restate the concern"
        },
        {
          "id": "ask_what_felt_unfair",
          "text": "Ask what felt unfair"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_187",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes conflict feel like teamwork?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "shared_goal",
          "text": "Shared goal"
        },
        {
          "id": "kind_tone",
          "text": "Kind tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "both_own_a_part",
          "text": "Both own a part"
        },
        {
          "id": "clear_next_step",
          "text": "Clear next step"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_188",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes conflict feel like a battle?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "battle",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "winning_language",
          "text": "Winning language"
        },
        {
          "id": "threats",
          "text": "Threats"
        },
        {
          "id": "scorekeeping",
          "text": "Scorekeeping"
        },
        {
          "id": "mocking",
          "text": "Mocking"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_189",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps us end a conflict well?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "closure",
        "repair"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_summary",
          "text": "A summary"
        },
        {
          "id": "an_apology",
          "text": "An apology"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_hug",
          "text": "A hug"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_next_step",
          "text": "A next step"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_190",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should happen after a big conflict?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "check_in_later",
          "text": "Check in later"
        },
        {
          "id": "do_something_normal",
          "text": "Do something normal"
        },
        {
          "id": "revisit_the_agreement",
          "text": "Revisit the agreement"
        },
        {
          "id": "give_extra_kindness",
          "text": "Give extra kindness"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_191",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things help calm conflict? Select all that apply.",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "calm",
        "tools"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "lower_voices",
          "text": "Lower voices"
        },
        {
          "id": "take_a_pause",
          "text": "Take a pause"
        },
        {
          "id": "name_the_real_issue",
          "text": "Name the real issue"
        },
        {
          "id": "use_kind_words",
          "text": "Use kind words"
        },
        {
          "id": "drink_water",
          "text": "Drink water"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 5
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_192",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which behaviors make conflict worse? Select all that apply.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "escalation",
        "behaviors"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "interrupting",
          "text": "Interrupting"
        },
        {
          "id": "blaming",
          "text": "Blaming"
        },
        {
          "id": "bringing_up_old_issues",
          "text": "Bringing up old issues"
        },
        {
          "id": "sarcasm",
          "text": "Sarcasm"
        },
        {
          "id": "walking_away_without_return_time",
          "text": "Walking away without return time"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 5
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_193",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which repair actions matter most to you? Select up to three.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "actions"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "clear_apology",
          "text": "Clear apology"
        },
        {
          "id": "changed_behavior",
          "text": "Changed behavior"
        },
        {
          "id": "reassurance",
          "text": "Reassurance"
        },
        {
          "id": "physical_affection",
          "text": "Physical affection"
        },
        {
          "id": "following_up_later",
          "text": "Following up later"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_194",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs show you are getting overwhelmed? Select all that apply.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flooding",
        "signals"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "going_quiet",
          "text": "Going quiet"
        },
        {
          "id": "talking_faster",
          "text": "Talking faster"
        },
        {
          "id": "tearing_up",
          "text": "Tearing up"
        },
        {
          "id": "wanting_to_leave",
          "text": "Wanting to leave"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_numb",
          "text": "Feeling numb"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 5
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_195",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs show I may be getting overwhelmed? Select all that apply.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flooding",
        "reflection"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "going_quiet",
          "text": "Going quiet"
        },
        {
          "id": "talking_faster",
          "text": "Talking faster"
        },
        {
          "id": "repeating_myself",
          "text": "Repeating myself"
        },
        {
          "id": "getting_sharp",
          "text": "Getting sharp"
        },
        {
          "id": "looking_away",
          "text": "Looking away"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 5
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_196",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which topics need gentler timing? Select all that apply.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "topics"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "money",
          "text": "Money"
        },
        {
          "id": "family",
          "text": "Family"
        },
        {
          "id": "intimacy",
          "text": "Intimacy"
        },
        {
          "id": "plans",
          "text": "Plans"
        },
        {
          "id": "household_work",
          "text": "Household work"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 5
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_197",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which rules should we use for hard talks? Select up to three.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "rules",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "no_name_calling",
          "text": "No name-calling"
        },
        {
          "id": "one_topic_at_a_time",
          "text": "One topic at a time"
        },
        {
          "id": "pause_when_flooded",
          "text": "Pause when flooded"
        },
        {
          "id": "no_threats",
          "text": "No threats"
        },
        {
          "id": "return_after_a_break",
          "text": "Return after a break"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_198",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things help you receive feedback? Select all that apply.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "openness"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "specific_examples",
          "text": "Specific examples"
        },
        {
          "id": "kind_tone",
          "text": "Kind tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "privacy",
          "text": "Privacy"
        },
        {
          "id": "time_to_process",
          "text": "Time to process"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_clear_request",
          "text": "A clear request"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 5
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_199",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things make feedback hard to hear? Select all that apply.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "barriers"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "harsh_tone",
          "text": "Harsh tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "public_setting",
          "text": "Public setting"
        },
        {
          "id": "old_examples",
          "text": "Old examples"
        },
        {
          "id": "labels",
          "text": "Labels"
        },
        {
          "id": "no_appreciation",
          "text": "No appreciation"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 5
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_200",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which feelings often show up under conflict? Select all that apply.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feelings",
        "underneath"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "hurt",
          "text": "Hurt"
        },
        {
          "id": "fear",
          "text": "Fear"
        },
        {
          "id": "loneliness",
          "text": "Loneliness"
        },
        {
          "id": "stress",
          "text": "Stress"
        },
        {
          "id": "shame",
          "text": "Shame"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 5
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_201",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which needs are often underneath our conflicts? Select up to three.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "needs",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "respect",
          "text": "Respect"
        },
        {
          "id": "security",
          "text": "Security"
        },
        {
          "id": "help",
          "text": "Help"
        },
        {
          "id": "space",
          "text": "Space"
        },
        {
          "id": "appreciation",
          "text": "Appreciation"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_202",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which conflict habits should we practice? Select up to three.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "practice",
        "growth"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "soft_start",
          "text": "Soft start"
        },
        {
          "id": "reflect_back",
          "text": "Reflect back"
        },
        {
          "id": "ask_for_needs",
          "text": "Ask for needs"
        },
        {
          "id": "take_pauses",
          "text": "Take pauses"
        },
        {
          "id": "repair_quickly",
          "text": "Repair quickly"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_203",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which conflict habits should we reduce? Select up to three.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "patterns",
        "growth"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "interrupting",
          "text": "Interrupting"
        },
        {
          "id": "defending",
          "text": "Defending"
        },
        {
          "id": "shutting_down",
          "text": "Shutting down"
        },
        {
          "id": "scorekeeping",
          "text": "Scorekeeping"
        },
        {
          "id": "assuming_motives",
          "text": "Assuming motives"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_204",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which forms of aftercare help after conflict? Select all that apply.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "repair"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "check_in_message",
          "text": "Check-in message"
        },
        {
          "id": "quiet_time_together",
          "text": "Quiet time together"
        },
        {
          "id": "hug",
          "text": "Hug"
        },
        {
          "id": "plan_change",
          "text": "Plan change"
        },
        {
          "id": "kind_routine",
          "text": "Kind routine"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 5
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_205",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which words should we use more during conflict? Select all that apply.",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "language",
        "repair"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_feel",
          "text": "I feel"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_need",
          "text": "I need"
        },
        {
          "id": "help_me_understand",
          "text": "Help me understand"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_hear_you",
          "text": "I hear you"
        },
        {
          "id": "can_we_pause",
          "text": "Can we pause"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 5
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_206",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which words should we avoid during conflict? Select all that apply.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "language",
        "harm"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "always",
          "text": "Always"
        },
        {
          "id": "never",
          "text": "Never"
        },
        {
          "id": "whatever",
          "text": "Whatever"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_are_just_like",
          "text": "You are just like"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_do_not_care",
          "text": "I do not care"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 5
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_207",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things help us stay on the same team? Select up to three.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "connection"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "shared_goal",
          "text": "Shared goal"
        },
        {
          "id": "kind_tone",
          "text": "Kind tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "taking_turns",
          "text": "Taking turns"
        },
        {
          "id": "owning_impact",
          "text": "Owning impact"
        },
        {
          "id": "ending_with_a_next_step",
          "text": "Ending with a next step"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_208",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things make you feel unsafe in conflict? Select all that apply.",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "safety",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "yelling",
          "text": "Yelling"
        },
        {
          "id": "mocking",
          "text": "Mocking"
        },
        {
          "id": "threats",
          "text": "Threats"
        },
        {
          "id": "cold_silence",
          "text": "Cold silence"
        },
        {
          "id": "private_information_used_against_me",
          "text": "Private information used against me"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 5
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_209",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which repair attempts are easy to miss? Select all that apply.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair_attempts",
        "noticing"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_softer_tone",
          "text": "A softer tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_joke",
          "text": "A joke"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_small_touch",
          "text": "A small touch"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_question",
          "text": "A question"
        },
        {
          "id": "doing_a_helpful_task",
          "text": "Doing a helpful task"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 5
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_210",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which outcomes would make conflict feel productive? Select up to three.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "outcomes",
        "productive_conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "feeling_heard",
          "text": "Feeling heard"
        },
        {
          "id": "clear_next_step",
          "text": "Clear next step"
        },
        {
          "id": "better_understanding",
          "text": "Better understanding"
        },
        {
          "id": "apology",
          "text": "Apology"
        },
        {
          "id": "less_fear_next_time",
          "text": "Less fear next time"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_211",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe do you feel bringing up hard topics with me right now?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "safety",
        "hard_topics"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe",
        "max_label": "Very safe",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_212",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we pause before conflict gets too heated?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "deescalation"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Poorly",
        "max_label": "Very well",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_213",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How respectful does our tone feel during disagreement lately?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "respect"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Not respectful",
        "max_label": "Very respectful",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_214",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How quickly do we repair after conflict?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "timing"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Not quickly",
        "max_label": "Very quickly",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_215",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How heard do you feel during disagreements?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Not heard",
        "max_label": "Very heard",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_216",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do I take responsibility during conflict?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
        "reflection"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Not well",
        "max_label": "Very well",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_217",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do you take responsibility during conflict?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accountability",
        "ownership"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Not well",
        "max_label": "Very well",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_218",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often do we stay on one topic during conflict?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "focus",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely",
        "max_label": "Very often",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_219",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do old arguments affect current disagreements?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "old_arguments",
        "patterns"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "Very much",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_220",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it for us to apologize sincerely?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "apology",
        "repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_221",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it for us to accept repair attempts?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair_attempts",
        "acceptance"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard",
        "max_label": "Easy",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_222",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much does stress affect our conflict style?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "Very much",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_223",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident are you that we can handle disagreement well?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Not confident",
        "max_label": "Very confident",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_224",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often do you feel blamed during conflict?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "blame",
        "impact"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely",
        "max_label": "Very often",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_225",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often do you feel respected during conflict?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "respect",
        "impact"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely",
        "max_label": "Very often",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_226",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do we try to understand instead of win?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "understanding",
        "winning"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "Very much",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_227",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we handle pauses during conflict?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "return"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Poorly",
        "max_label": "Very well",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_228",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How emotionally close do you feel after we repair?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "closeness",
        "repair"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Distant",
        "max_label": "Close",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_229",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How clear are our conflict boundaries?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "clarity"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Unclear",
        "max_label": "Very clear",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_230",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often do we use humor helpfully during tension?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "tension"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely",
        "max_label": "Often",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_231",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do you trust our ability to talk through hard things?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "trust",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "Very much",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_232",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we avoid hurtful words when upset?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "harm",
        "self_control"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Poorly",
        "max_label": "Very well",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_233",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How fair do our disagreements feel?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "fairness",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Unfair",
        "max_label": "Fair",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_234",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much progress have we made in conflict this year?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "progress",
        "growth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "None",
        "max_label": "A lot",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_235",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How ready are we to create a better conflict agreement?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "agreement",
        "readiness"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min_scale": 1,
        "max_scale": 5,
        "min_label": "Not ready",
        "max_label": "Very ready",
        "scale_step": 1
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_236",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Pause first or talk through it now?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "pause"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "pause_first",
          "text": "Pause first"
        },
        {
          "id": "talk_now",
          "text": "Talk now"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_237",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Comfort first or solution first?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "support",
        "solutions"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "comfort_first",
          "text": "Comfort first"
        },
        {
          "id": "solution_first",
          "text": "Solution first"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_238",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Gentle honesty or direct honesty?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "honesty",
        "tone"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "gentle_honesty",
          "text": "Gentle honesty"
        },
        {
          "id": "direct_honesty",
          "text": "Direct honesty"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_239",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Discuss at home or on a walk?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "setting",
        "conflict"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "at_home",
          "text": "At home"
        },
        {
          "id": "on_a_walk",
          "text": "On a walk"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_240",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Repair with words or repair with actions?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "style"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "words",
          "text": "Words"
        },
        {
          "id": "actions",
          "text": "Actions"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_241",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Name the issue or name the feeling first?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "clarity",
        "emotion"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "issue_first",
          "text": "Issue first"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_first",
          "text": "Feeling first"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_242",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Take space alone or sit quietly together?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "space",
        "connection"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "space_alone",
          "text": "Space alone"
        },
        {
          "id": "quietly_together",
          "text": "Quietly together"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_243",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Apologize first or explain first?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "apology",
        "explanation"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "apologize_first",
          "text": "Apologize first"
        },
        {
          "id": "explain_first",
          "text": "Explain first"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_244",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Focus on impact or focus on intent?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "impact",
        "intent"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "impact",
          "text": "Impact"
        },
        {
          "id": "intent",
          "text": "Intent"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_245",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Set a boundary or ask for reassurance?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "reassurance"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "set_boundary",
          "text": "Set boundary"
        },
        {
          "id": "ask_reassurance",
          "text": "Ask reassurance"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_246",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Let it cool down or resolve it tonight?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "closure"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "cool_down",
          "text": "Cool down"
        },
        {
          "id": "resolve_tonight",
          "text": "Resolve tonight"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_247",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Write it out or say it out loud?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "expression",
        "format"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "write_it_out",
          "text": "Write it out"
        },
        {
          "id": "say_it_out_loud",
          "text": "Say it out loud"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_248",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Clarify expectations or accept differences?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "expectations",
        "differences"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "clarify_expectations",
          "text": "Clarify expectations"
        },
        {
          "id": "accept_differences",
          "text": "Accept differences"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_249",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Start with what hurt or start with what you need?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hurt",
        "needs"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "what_hurt",
          "text": "What hurt"
        },
        {
          "id": "what_i_need",
          "text": "What I need"
        }
      ]
    },
    {
      "id": "conflict_250",
      "category_id": "conflict",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Protect peace or address the issue?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "peace",
        "honesty"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "protect_peace",
          "text": "Protect peace"
        },
        {
          "id": "address_the_issue",
          "text": "Address the issue"
        }
      ]
    }
  ]
}
