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{
"category" : {
"id" : "communication" ,
"display_name" : "Communication" ,
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"description" : "Natural, useful questions about everyday conversation, listening, asking clearly, tone, timing, texting, misunderstandings, and the habits that help couples understand each other." ,
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"access" : "mixed" ,
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"icon_name" : "chat_bubble_outline" ,
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"schema_version" : "question_v2" ,
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"metadata" : {
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"total_questions" : 150 ,
"free_questions" : 45 ,
"premium_questions" : 105 ,
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"type_counts" : {
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"written" : 5 ,
"single_choice" : 30 ,
"multi_choice" : 90 ,
"scale" : 15 ,
"this_or_that" : 10
} ,
"depth_counts" : {
"1" : 32 ,
"2" : 60 ,
"3" : 51 ,
"4" : 7
} ,
"light_depth_questions" : 92 ,
"light_depth_percentage" : 61.3 ,
"content_version" : "communication_v2_final_review" ,
"batch_size" : 25 ,
"review_policy" : "Rebuilt in six controlled 25-question batches, then independently reviewed in a targeted second pass; only documented failures were changed." ,
"mass_rewrite_exception" : "Approved rebuild: the source contained 250 questions, including 150 written prompts, and repeated listening, timing, check-in, texting, and clarity questions that conflicted with the current 150-question and 0-5 written-question standard." ,
"related_pack_boundary" : "Owns how couples exchange information: everyday talking, listening, asking, explaining, tone, timing, texting, clarification, and communication habits. Emotional_intimacy owns feeling known and emotionally close; conflict owns disagreement dynamics; conflict_repair owns reconnecting after conflict; boundaries owns limits and privacy; trust owns confidence after breaches." ,
"source_question_count" : 250 ,
"source_written_count" : 150 ,
"final_validation" : "pass" ,
"second_pass_changed_questions" : 16 ,
"second_pass_focus" : "Corrected awkward check-in wording, point-of-view and option-fit issues, obvious-answer mechanics, negative framing, therapy-coded language, texting drift, conflict overlap, and unnatural closing questions; then re-ran all schema and duplication checks."
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}
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} ,
"questions" : [
{
"id" : "communication_001" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "When does talking with me feel easiest?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"daily_talking" ,
"timing" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "during_a_drive" ,
"text" : "During a drive"
} ,
{
"id" : "while_we_make_food" ,
"text" : "While we make food"
} ,
{
"id" : "late_at_night" ,
"text" : "Late at night"
} ,
{
"id" : "when_nothing_else_is_competing" ,
"text" : "When nothing else is competing"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_002" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes an everyday conversation feel good to you?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"daily_talking" ,
"ease" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "we_are_not_rushing" ,
"text" : "We are not rushing"
} ,
{
"id" : "we_both_get_to_talk" ,
"text" : "We both get to talk"
} ,
{
"id" : "there_is_room_for_jokes" ,
"text" : "There is room for jokes"
} ,
{
"id" : "we_actually_look_at_each_other" ,
"text" : "We actually look at each other"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_003" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which check-ins feel natural instead of forced?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"check_ins" ,
"daily_talking" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "how_are_you_doing_really" ,
"text" : "How are you doing, really?"
} ,
{
"id" : "anything_you_need_from_me" ,
"text" : "Anything you need from me?"
} ,
{
"id" : "what_was_the_best_part" ,
"text" : "What was the best part?"
} ,
{
"id" : "want_to_talk_or_just_relax" ,
"text" : "Want to talk or just relax?"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_004" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How easy is it for us to start talking lately?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"daily_talking" ,
"ease" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "It takes some effort" ,
"max_label" : "It happens naturally"
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_005" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Quick check-in or long catch-up?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"check_ins" ,
"fun_first" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "quick_check_in" ,
"text" : "Quick check-in"
} ,
{
"id" : "long_catch_up" ,
"text" : "Long catch-up"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_006" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What gets you talking after a long day?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"daily_talking" ,
"after_work" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_little_quiet_first" ,
"text" : "A little quiet first"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_snack_and_a_seat" ,
"text" : "A snack and a seat"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_specific_question" ,
"text" : "A specific question"
} ,
{
"id" : "something_funny_to_break_the_ice" ,
"text" : "Something funny to break the ice"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_007" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which opener sounds most like us?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"daily_talking" ,
"couple_voice" ,
"fun_first" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "tell_me_everything" ,
"text" : "Tell me everything"
} ,
{
"id" : "give_me_the_headline" ,
"text" : "Give me the headline"
} ,
{
"id" : "what_happened_today" ,
"text" : "What happened today?"
} ,
{
"id" : "okay_what_is_the_real_story" ,
"text" : "Okay, what is the real story?"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_008" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What should I ask when you seem quiet?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"check_ins" ,
"quiet" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "are_you_tired" ,
"text" : "Are you tired?"
} ,
{
"id" : "do_you_want_company" ,
"text" : "Do you want company?"
} ,
{
"id" : "is_something_on_your_mind" ,
"text" : "Is something on your mind?"
} ,
{
"id" : "should_i_check_back_later" ,
"text" : "Should I check back later?"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_009" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which little conversations help you feel connected?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"daily_talking" ,
"fun_first" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "sharing_something_funny" ,
"text" : "Sharing something funny"
} ,
{
"id" : "talking_through_tomorrow" ,
"text" : "Talking through tomorrow"
} ,
{
"id" : "telling_each_other_small_news" ,
"text" : "Telling each other small news"
} ,
{
"id" : "comparing_random_opinions" ,
"text" : "Comparing random opinions"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_010" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Quick talk or deep dive?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"daily_talking" ,
"fun_first" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "quick_talk" ,
"text" : "Quick talk"
} ,
{
"id" : "deep_dive" ,
"text" : "Deep dive"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_011" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes you want to keep a conversation going?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"daily_talking" ,
"engagement" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "you_ask_a_good_follow_up" ,
"text" : "You ask a good follow-up"
} ,
{
"id" : "you_share_something_back" ,
"text" : "You share something back"
} ,
{
"id" : "you_seem_genuinely_interested" ,
"text" : "You seem genuinely interested"
} ,
{
"id" : "the_conversation_takes_a_funny_turn" ,
"text" : "The conversation takes a funny turn"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_012" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What kind of daily update do you prefer?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"daily_talking" ,
"preferences" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "the_full_play_by_play" ,
"text" : "The full play-by-play"
} ,
{
"id" : "just_the_important_parts" ,
"text" : "Just the important parts"
} ,
{
"id" : "mostly_the_funny_parts" ,
"text" : "Mostly the funny parts"
} ,
{
"id" : "whatever_is_still_on_your_mind" ,
"text" : "Whatever is still on your mind"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_013" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which topics are easiest for us to talk about?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"daily_talking" ,
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"topics" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "things_we_are_planning" ,
"text" : "Things we are planning"
} ,
{
"id" : "people_and_stories" ,
"text" : "People and stories"
} ,
{
"id" : "ideas_and_opinions" ,
"text" : "Ideas and opinions"
} ,
{
"id" : "what_happened_during_the_day" ,
"text" : "What happened during the day"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_014" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes a check-in feel caring to you?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"check_ins" ,
"care" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "you_remember_to_ask" ,
"text" : "You remember to ask"
} ,
{
"id" : "you_listen_to_the_answer" ,
"text" : "You listen to the answer"
} ,
{
"id" : "you_do_not_make_it_dramatic" ,
"text" : "You do not make it dramatic"
} ,
{
"id" : "you_follow_up_later" ,
"text" : "You follow up later"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_015" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Morning check-in or bedtime check-in?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"check_ins" ,
"timing" ,
"fun_first" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "morning_check_in" ,
"text" : "Morning check-in"
} ,
{
"id" : "bedtime_check_in" ,
"text" : "Bedtime check-in"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_016" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "When we have ten minutes, what should we talk about?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"check_ins" ,
"fun_first" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "how_we_are_doing" ,
"text" : "How we are doing"
} ,
{
"id" : "what_happened_today" ,
"text" : "What happened today"
} ,
{
"id" : "what_we_need_tomorrow" ,
"text" : "What we need tomorrow"
} ,
{
"id" : "something_fun_and_completely_unnecessary" ,
"text" : "Something fun and completely unnecessary"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_017" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps conversation feel like a break, not another task?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"daily_talking" ,
"ease" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "no_pressure_to_solve_anything" ,
"text" : "No pressure to solve anything"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_relaxed_place_to_sit" ,
"text" : "A relaxed place to sit"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_little_humor" ,
"text" : "A little humor"
} ,
{
"id" : "knowing_we_can_keep_it_short" ,
"text" : "Knowing we can keep it short"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_018" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How understood do you feel in our everyday conversations?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"daily_talking" ,
"understanding" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not very understood" ,
"max_label" : "Very understood"
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_019" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which habits make us better talkers as a couple?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"daily_talking" ,
"habits" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "putting_phones_down_sometimes" ,
"text" : "Putting phones down sometimes"
} ,
{
"id" : "asking_instead_of_assuming" ,
"text" : "Asking instead of assuming"
} ,
{
"id" : "letting_each_other_finish" ,
"text" : "Letting each other finish"
} ,
{
"id" : "circling_back_when_life_interrupts" ,
"text" : "Circling back when life interrupts"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_020" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What kind of question usually gets your real answer?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"questions" ,
"daily_talking" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_direct_question" ,
"text" : "A direct question"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_gentle_question" ,
"text" : "A gentle question"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_funny_question" ,
"text" : "A funny question"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_question_with_a_little_context" ,
"text" : "A question with a little context"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_021" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "written" ,
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"text" : "What is one question you wish I asked more often?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"questions" ,
"written" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"max_length" : 500
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_022" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which daily details do you like sharing with me?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"daily_talking" ,
"sharing" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "the_thing_that_annoyed_you" ,
"text" : "The thing that annoyed you"
} ,
{
"id" : "the_thing_that_made_you_laugh" ,
"text" : "The thing that made you laugh"
} ,
{
"id" : "the_thing_you_are_thinking_through" ,
"text" : "The thing you are thinking through"
} ,
{
"id" : "the_thing_you_are_looking_forward_to" ,
"text" : "The thing you are looking forward to"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_023" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes a conversation feel most like us?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"couple_voice" ,
"daily_talking" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "we_lose_track_of_time" ,
"text" : "We lose track of time"
} ,
{
"id" : "we_laugh_halfway_through" ,
"text" : "We laugh halfway through"
} ,
{
"id" : "we_jump_between_five_topics" ,
"text" : "We jump between five topics"
} ,
{
"id" : "we_say_what_we_actually_mean" ,
"text" : "We say what we actually mean"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_024" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps us talk when life is busy?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"busy_life" ,
"daily_talking" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_five_minute_check_in" ,
"text" : "A five-minute check-in"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_message_during_the_day" ,
"text" : "A message during the day"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_planned_catch_up" ,
"text" : "A planned catch-up"
} ,
{
"id" : "talking_while_we_do_something_else" ,
"text" : "Talking while we do something else"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_025" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which tiny signals mean “I want to talk”?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"conversation_openers" ,
"daily_talking" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "come_sit_with_me" ,
"text" : "Come sit with me"
} ,
{
"id" : "can_i_tell_you_something" ,
"text" : "Can I tell you something?"
} ,
{
"id" : "you_have_a_minute" ,
"text" : "You have a minute?"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_have_a_story_for_you" ,
"text" : "I have a story for you"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_026" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What tells you I am really listening?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
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"feeling_heard" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "i_remember_details_later" ,
"text" : "I remember details later"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_ask_a_good_follow_up" ,
"text" : "I ask a good follow-up"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_do_not_interrupt" ,
"text" : "I do not interrupt"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_respond_to_the_part_that_mattered" ,
"text" : "I respond to the part that mattered"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_027" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which listening habits matter most to you?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"habits" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "letting_you_finish" ,
"text" : "Letting you finish"
} ,
{
"id" : "looking_up_from_my_phone" ,
"text" : "Looking up from my phone"
} ,
{
"id" : "not_rushing_to_fix_it" ,
"text" : "Not rushing to fix it"
} ,
{
"id" : "checking_that_i_understood" ,
"text" : "Checking that I understood"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_028" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes it easier to finish your thought?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"patience" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_little_patience" ,
"text" : "A little patience"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_guessing_where_you_are_going" ,
"text" : "No guessing where you are going"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_calm_reaction" ,
"text" : "A calm reaction"
} ,
{
"id" : "enough_time_to_find_the_words" ,
"text" : "Enough time to find the words"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_029" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How often do you feel fully heard by me?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"feeling_heard" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not often" ,
"max_label" : "Very often"
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_030" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Questions first or quiet listening first?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"preferences" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "questions_first" ,
"text" : "Questions first"
} ,
{
"id" : "quiet_listening_first" ,
"text" : "Quiet listening first"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_031" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What should I do when your story has many turns?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"stories" ,
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"fun_first" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "let_you_tell_it_your_way" ,
"text" : "Let you tell it your way"
} ,
{
"id" : "ask_who_everyone_is" ,
"text" : "Ask who everyone is"
} ,
{
"id" : "laugh_at_the_right_parts" ,
"text" : "Laugh at the right parts"
} ,
{
"id" : "wait_for_the_ending_before_reacting" ,
"text" : "Wait for the ending before reacting"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_032" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which response makes you feel most heard?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"responses" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "that_makes_sense" ,
"text" : "That makes sense"
} ,
{
"id" : "tell_me_more" ,
"text" : "Tell me more"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_can_see_why" ,
"text" : "I can see why"
} ,
{
"id" : "do_you_want_my_take" ,
"text" : "Do you want my take?"
}
]
}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_033" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps you know I understood your point?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"clarity" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "i_say_it_back_clearly" ,
"text" : "I say it back clearly"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_respond_to_what_mattered" ,
"text" : "I respond to what mattered"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_ask_before_giving_advice" ,
"text" : "I ask before giving advice"
} ,
{
"id" : "my_next_action_matches_the_conversation" ,
"text" : "My next action matches the conversation"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_034" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which things make listening harder for you?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"barriers" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "being_tired" ,
"text" : "Being tired"
} ,
{
"id" : "feeling_rushed" ,
"text" : "Feeling rushed"
} ,
{
"id" : "trying_to_do_two_things" ,
"text" : "Trying to do two things"
} ,
{
"id" : "thinking_of_your_reply_too_soon" ,
"text" : "Thinking of your reply too soon"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_035" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Say it now or bring it up later?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"preferences" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "say_it_now" ,
"text" : "Say it now"
} ,
{
"id" : "bring_it_up_later" ,
"text" : "Bring it up later"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_036" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps you stay present when I am talking?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
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"presence" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "knowing_what_i_need_from_you" ,
"text" : "Knowing what I need from you"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_clear_point_to_follow" ,
"text" : "A clear point to follow"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_calm_pace" ,
"text" : "A calm pace"
} ,
{
"id" : "being_able_to_ask_questions" ,
"text" : "Being able to ask questions"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_037" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "When I am venting, what should you assume first?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"support_preferences" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "i_want_to_be_heard" ,
"text" : "I want to be heard"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_want_ideas" ,
"text" : "I want ideas"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_want_reassurance" ,
"text" : "I want reassurance"
} ,
{
"id" : "you_should_ask_me" ,
"text" : "You should ask me"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_038" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which follow-up questions feel caring, not nosy?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"questions" ,
"listening" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "what_part_matters_most" ,
"text" : "What part matters most?"
} ,
{
"id" : "what_happened_after_that" ,
"text" : "What happened after that?"
} ,
{
"id" : "do_you_want_to_talk_more" ,
"text" : "Do you want to talk more?"
} ,
{
"id" : "is_there_anything_i_can_do" ,
"text" : "Is there anything I can do?"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_039" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes advice easier to hear?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"advice" ,
"listening" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "you_ask_before_giving_it" ,
"text" : "You ask before giving it"
} ,
{
"id" : "you_keep_it_practical" ,
"text" : "You keep it practical"
} ,
{
"id" : "you_offer_choices" ,
"text" : "You offer choices"
} ,
{
"id" : "you_leave_room_for_me_to_decide" ,
"text" : "You leave room for me to decide"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_040" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which signs tell you I have stopped listening?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"awareness" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "i_repeat_a_question_you_answered" ,
"text" : "I repeat a question you answered"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_jump_in_too_fast" ,
"text" : "I jump in too fast"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_change_the_subject" ,
"text" : "I change the subject"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_start_solving_the_wrong_problem" ,
"text" : "I start solving the wrong problem"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_041" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What is your preferred “I am listening” signal?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"signals" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "eye_contact" ,
"text" : "Eye contact"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_quick_touch" ,
"text" : "A quick touch"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_small_verbal_response" ,
"text" : "A small verbal response"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_signal_just_attention" ,
"text" : "No signal, just attention"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_042" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps you listen when you are tired?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"tired" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "keeping_it_short" ,
"text" : "Keeping it short"
} ,
{
"id" : "sitting_down_together" ,
"text" : "Sitting down together"
} ,
{
"id" : "knowing_whether_it_is_urgent" ,
"text" : "Knowing whether it is urgent"
} ,
{
"id" : "taking_a_few_minutes_first" ,
"text" : "Taking a few minutes first"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_043" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How well do we notice when the other needs listening?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"attunement" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "We often miss it" ,
"max_label" : "We usually notice"
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_044" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which stories do you especially want me to remember?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"stories" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "things_from_your_childhood" ,
"text" : "Things from your childhood"
} ,
{
"id" : "people_who_shaped_you" ,
"text" : "People who shaped you"
} ,
{
"id" : "moments_you_were_proud_of" ,
"text" : "Moments you were proud of"
} ,
{
"id" : "stories_you_do_not_tell_everyone" ,
"text" : "Stories you do not tell everyone"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_045" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps a serious answer feel safe to give?" ,
"depth" : 4 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"safety" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "you_do_not_rush_me" ,
"text" : "You do not rush me"
} ,
{
"id" : "you_stay_curious" ,
"text" : "You stay curious"
} ,
{
"id" : "you_do_not_turn_it_into_a_debate" ,
"text" : "You do not turn it into a debate"
} ,
{
"id" : "you_keep_the_moment_private" ,
"text" : "You keep the moment private"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_046" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "written" ,
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"text" : "Tell me about a time you felt completely heard by me." ,
"depth" : 4 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"memory" ,
"written" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"max_length" : 500
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_047" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What kind of listener do you need after bad news?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"bad_news" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "quiet_and_steady" ,
"text" : "Quiet and steady"
} ,
{
"id" : "warm_and_reassuring" ,
"text" : "Warm and reassuring"
} ,
{
"id" : "practical_and_helpful" ,
"text" : "Practical and helpful"
} ,
{
"id" : "ready_to_distract_me_later" ,
"text" : "Ready to distract me later"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_048" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What should I do if I lose the thread?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"clarity" ,
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"fun_first" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "ask_you_to_back_up" ,
"text" : "Ask you to back up"
} ,
{
"id" : "tell_you_where_i_got_lost" ,
"text" : "Tell you where I got lost"
} ,
{
"id" : "let_you_finish_first" ,
"text" : "Let you finish first"
} ,
{
"id" : "make_my_best_guess" ,
"text" : "Make my best guess"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_049" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which reactions make you want to share more?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"engagement" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_real_laugh" ,
"text" : "A real laugh"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_thoughtful_pause" ,
"text" : "A thoughtful pause"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_curious_question" ,
"text" : "A curious question"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_response_that_shows_you_remembered" ,
"text" : "A response that shows you remembered"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_050" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes listening feel mutual between us?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"listening" ,
"mutuality" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "we_both_get_a_turn" ,
"text" : "We both get a turn"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_ask_about_each_other" ,
"text" : "We ask about each other"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_share_without_competing" ,
"text" : "We share without competing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_remember_what_mattered" ,
"text" : "We remember what mattered"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_051" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "How do you prefer to ask for something important?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"asking" ,
"needs" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "say_it_directly" ,
"text" : "Say it directly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "give_some_context_first" ,
"text" : "Give some context first"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "write_it_out" ,
"text" : "Write it out"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "bring_it_up_during_a_calm_moment" ,
"text" : "Bring it up during a calm moment"
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}
]
}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_052" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps you say what you need clearly?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"asking" ,
"needs" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "knowing_you_will_not_judge_it" ,
"text" : "Knowing you will not judge it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "having_time_to_think" ,
"text" : "Having time to think"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "using_simple_words" ,
"text" : "Using simple words"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "knowing_you_can_hear_it_without_agreeing" ,
"text" : "Knowing you can hear it without agreeing"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_053" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which requests are easiest for you to make?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"asking" ,
"requests" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "help_with_something_practical" ,
"text" : "Help with something practical"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_little_reassurance" ,
"text" : "A little reassurance"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "more_time_together" ,
"text" : "More time together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_change_in_plans" ,
"text" : "A change in plans"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_054" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How comfortable are you asking me for what you need?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"asking" ,
"needs" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Still a little hard" ,
"max_label" : "Very comfortable"
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_055" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Direct request or gentle hint?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"asking" ,
"preferences" ,
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"fun_first" ,
"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "direct_request" ,
"text" : "Direct request"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "gentle_hint" ,
"text" : "Gentle hint"
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}
]
}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_056" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes a request feel respectful to you?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"asking" ,
"respect" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "it_is_clear" ,
"text" : "It is clear"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_leaves_room_for_an_answer" ,
"text" : "It leaves room for an answer"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_explains_why_it_matters" ,
"text" : "It explains why it matters"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_is_not_buried_in_criticism" ,
"text" : "It is not buried in criticism"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_057" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which phrase makes asking feel easiest?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"asking" ,
"phrases" ,
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"communication"
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "could_you_help_me_with_this" ,
"text" : "Could you help me with this?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "can_i_tell_you_what_i_need" ,
"text" : "Can I tell you what I need?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "would_you_be_open_to_something" ,
"text" : "Would you be open to something?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_have_a_small_request" ,
"text" : "I have a small request"
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}
]
}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_058" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps you explain something complicated?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"explaining" ,
"clarity" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "starting_with_the_short_version" ,
"text" : "Starting with the short version"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "using_an_example" ,
"text" : "Using an example"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "saying_what_part_matters_most" ,
"text" : "Saying what part matters most"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "letting_you_ask_questions" ,
"text" : "Letting you ask questions"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_059" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which needs are hardest to put into words?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"asking" ,
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"needs" ,
"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "needing_space" ,
"text" : "Needing space"
} ,
{
"id" : "needing_reassurance" ,
"text" : "Needing reassurance"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "needing_more_help" ,
"text" : "Needing more help"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "needing_a_different_approach" ,
"text" : "Needing a different approach"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_060" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Ask directly or hope they notice?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
"asking" ,
"assumptions" ,
"fun_first" ,
"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
"id" : "ask_directly" ,
"text" : "Ask directly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "hope_they_notice" ,
"text" : "Hope they notice"
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}
]
}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_061" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps a “no” still feel caring?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"asking" ,
"responses" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_kind_tone" ,
"text" : "A kind tone"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_short_reason" ,
"text" : "A short reason"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "another_option" ,
"text" : "Another option"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "reassurance_that_the_request_was_okay" ,
"text" : "Reassurance that the request was okay"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_062" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "When you need help, what should I ask first?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"asking" ,
"support" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "what_would_help_most" ,
"text" : "What would help most?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "how_soon_do_you_need_it" ,
"text" : "How soon do you need it?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "do_you_want_help_or_company" ,
"text" : "Do you want help or company?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_part_feels_hardest" ,
"text" : "What part feels hardest?"
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}
]
}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_063" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which phrases make a request easier to receive?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"asking" ,
"phrases" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "would_you_be_willing_to" ,
"text" : "Would you be willing to…"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "could_we_try" ,
"text" : "Could we try…"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_would_help_me_if" ,
"text" : "It would help me if…"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "can_we_find_a_way_to" ,
"text" : "Can we find a way to…"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_064" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes an explanation feel complete to you?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"explaining" ,
"clarity" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "the_main_point_is_clear" ,
"text" : "The main point is clear"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "you_know_why_it_matters" ,
"text" : "You know why it matters"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "there_is_a_real_example" ,
"text" : "There is a real example"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "you_know_what_i_am_asking_for" ,
"text" : "You know what I am asking for"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_065" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which habits help us avoid guessing games?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"clarity" ,
"assumptions" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "saying_what_we_mean" ,
"text" : "Saying what we mean"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "checking_our_assumptions" ,
"text" : "Checking our assumptions"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "asking_one_more_question" ,
"text" : "Asking one more question"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "admitting_when_we_are_unsure" ,
"text" : "Admitting when we are unsure"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_066" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "What is the best way to clarify a vague request?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"clarity" ,
"requests" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "ask_for_an_example" ,
"text" : "Ask for an example"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "ask_what_success_looks_like" ,
"text" : "Ask what success looks like"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "offer_two_possible_meanings" ,
"text" : "Offer two possible meanings"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "repeat_what_you_heard" ,
"text" : "Repeat what you heard"
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}
]
}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_067" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes it easier to admit “I do not know”?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"clarity" ,
"uncertainty" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "no_pressure_for_a_quick_answer" ,
"text" : "No pressure for a quick answer"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "room_to_think_out_loud" ,
"text" : "Room to think out loud"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "knowing_uncertainty_is_okay" ,
"text" : "Knowing uncertainty is okay"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_question_that_narrows_it_down" ,
"text" : "A question that narrows it down"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_068" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How clear are we about what we want from conversations?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"clarity" ,
"conversation_goals" ,
"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Often unclear" ,
"max_label" : "Usually very clear"
}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_069" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which conversation goals should we name more often?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
"conversation_goals" ,
"clarity" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "i_want_you_to_listen" ,
"text" : "I want you to listen"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_want_your_opinion" ,
"text" : "I want your opinion"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_need_help_deciding" ,
"text" : "I need help deciding"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_just_want_to_share_this" ,
"text" : "I just want to share this"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_070" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps you correct me without feeling rude?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"clarity" ,
"correction" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_quick_simple_correction" ,
"text" : "A quick simple correction"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_little_humor" ,
"text" : "A little humor"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "explaining_what_i_missed" ,
"text" : "Explaining what I missed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "knowing_i_will_not_take_it_personally" ,
"text" : "Knowing I will not take it personally"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_071" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which details help you understand a request faster?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"requests" ,
"clarity" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "why_it_matters" ,
"text" : "Why it matters"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "when_it_needs_to_happen" ,
"text" : "When it needs to happen"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_part_is_flexible" ,
"text" : "What part is flexible"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_you_want_me_to_handle" ,
"text" : "What you want me to handle"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_072" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "What should we say when a hint is not landing?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"asking" ,
"humor" ,
"fun_first" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "let_me_say_that_more_directly" ,
"text" : "Let me say that more directly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_am_actually_asking_for_something" ,
"text" : "I am actually asking for something"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "can_i_try_that_again" ,
"text" : "Can I try that again?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "okay_here_is_the_plain_version" ,
"text" : "Okay, here is the plain version"
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}
]
}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_073" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes it easier to share an unpopular opinion?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"opinions" ,
"clarity" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "knowing_disagreement_is_allowed" ,
"text" : "Knowing disagreement is allowed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_calm_opening" ,
"text" : "A calm opening"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_teasing_while_i_explain" ,
"text" : "No teasing while I explain"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_real_chance_to_finish" ,
"text" : "A real chance to finish"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_074" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which kinds of examples help you understand me?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"explaining" ,
"examples" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_recent_situation" ,
"text" : "A recent situation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_made_up_example" ,
"text" : "A made-up example"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_comparison" ,
"text" : "A comparison"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_specific_version_of_what_i_mean" ,
"text" : "A specific version of what I mean"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_075" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps us turn complaints into clear requests?" ,
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"depth" : 4 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"requests" ,
"clarity" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "naming_what_would_help" ,
"text" : "Naming what would help"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keeping_it_about_one_issue" ,
"text" : "Keeping it about one issue"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "dropping_the_exaggeration" ,
"text" : "Dropping the exaggeration"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "making_the_request_doable" ,
"text" : "Making the request doable"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_076" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which tone helps you stay most open?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"tone" ,
"openness" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "calm_and_direct" ,
"text" : "Calm and direct"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "warm_and_gentle" ,
"text" : "Warm and gentle"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "light_with_a_little_humor" ,
"text" : "Light with a little humor"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "matter_of_fact" ,
"text" : "Matter-of-fact"
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}
]
}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_077" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What affects how you hear my words?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"tone" ,
"context" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "my_tone" ,
"text" : "My tone"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "my_timing" ,
"text" : "My timing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "my_facial_expression" ,
"text" : "My facial expression"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_happened_right_before" ,
"text" : "What happened right before"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_078" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which conversation times usually work best for you?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"timing" ,
"context" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "before_the_day_gets_busy" ,
"text" : "Before the day gets busy"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "after_we_have_eaten" ,
"text" : "After we have eaten"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "during_a_drive" ,
"text" : "During a drive"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "once_the_house_is_quiet" ,
"text" : "Once the house is quiet"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_079" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How well do we choose the right moment to talk?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"timing" ,
"awareness" ,
"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "We often miss it" ,
"max_label" : "We usually get it right"
}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_080" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Talk now or schedule a better moment?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
"timing" ,
"preferences" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "talk_now" ,
"text" : "Talk now"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "schedule_a_better_moment" ,
"text" : "Schedule a better moment"
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}
]
}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_081" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes “not right now” feel respectful?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"timing" ,
"respect" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_clear_reason" ,
"text" : "A clear reason"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_better_time_offered" ,
"text" : "A better time offered"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_warm_tone" ,
"text" : "A warm tone"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "reassurance_the_topic_matters" ,
"text" : "Reassurance the topic matters"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_082" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which setting makes a hard topic easier?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"context" ,
"hard_topics" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sitting_side_by_side" ,
"text" : "Sitting side by side"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "taking_a_walk" ,
"text" : "Taking a walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "talking_in_the_car" ,
"text" : "Talking in the car"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "talking_at_home_with_no_distractions" ,
"text" : "Talking at home with no distractions"
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}
]
}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_083" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes direct feedback easier to hear?" ,
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"depth" : 4 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"tone" ,
"directness" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_calm_voice" ,
"text" : "A calm voice"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_loaded_language" ,
"text" : "No loaded language"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_clear_point" ,
"text" : "One clear point"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_reminder_that_we_are_on_the_same_side" ,
"text" : "A reminder that we are on the same side"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_084" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which tones make you stop hearing the message?" ,
"depth" : 4 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"tone" ,
"barriers" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sarcasm" ,
"text" : "Sarcasm"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_sharp_edge" ,
"text" : "A sharp edge"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "talking_down_to_you" ,
"text" : "Talking down to you"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "fake_calm_that_feels_cold" ,
"text" : "Fake calm that feels cold"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_085" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How easy is it for us to reset our tone?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"tone" ,
"awareness" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Still difficult" ,
"max_label" : "Usually easy"
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_086" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What should we check before starting a serious talk?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"timing" ,
"hard_topics" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "do_we_have_time" ,
"text" : "Do we have time?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "are_we_both_able_to_focus" ,
"text" : "Are we both able to focus?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "is_this_private" ,
"text" : "Is this private?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "does_it_need_to_happen_now" ,
"text" : "Does it need to happen now?"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_087" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which opener makes an important talk feel least dramatic?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"conversation_openers" ,
"tone" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "i_need_a_real_conversation" ,
"text" : "I need a real conversation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "can_we_talk_about_something_important" ,
"text" : "Can we talk about something important?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_have_something_on_my_mind" ,
"text" : "I have something on my mind"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "this_is_not_bad_but_it_matters" ,
"text" : "This is not bad, but it matters"
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}
]
}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_088" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes humor helpful during a conversation?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
"tone" ,
"fun_first" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "it_lowers_the_tension" ,
"text" : "It lowers the tension"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_feels_like_us" ,
"text" : "It feels like us"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_is_not_aimed_at_either_person" ,
"text" : "It is not aimed at either person"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_does_not_dodge_the_point" ,
"text" : "It does not dodge the point"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_089" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When is it usually a bad time to talk?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"timing" ,
"awareness" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "right_before_sleep" ,
"text" : "Right before sleep"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "while_someone_is_rushing_out" ,
"text" : "While someone is rushing out"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "in_front_of_other_people" ,
"text" : "In front of other people"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "when_one_of_us_is_already_overloaded" ,
"text" : "When one of us is already overloaded"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_090" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps a conversation feel private enough?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"context" ,
"privacy" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "no_one_else_can_hear" ,
"text" : "No one else can hear"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "phones_are_not_pulling_attention" ,
"text" : "Phones are not pulling attention"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_know_we_will_not_be_interrupted" ,
"text" : "We know we will not be interrupted"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_can_speak_without_watching_the_clock" ,
"text" : "We can speak without watching the clock"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_091" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "What usually softens your tone fastest?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"tone" ,
"awareness" ,
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"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_slower_pace" ,
"text" : "A slower pace"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_little_reassurance" ,
"text" : "A little reassurance"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_sincere_question" ,
"text" : "A sincere question"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "realizing_we_misunderstood_each_other" ,
"text" : "Realizing we misunderstood each other"
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}
]
}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_092" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which openings make you brace for bad news?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"conversation_openers" ,
"tone" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "we_need_to_talk" ,
"text" : "We need to talk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "do_not_get_mad_but" ,
"text" : "Do not get mad, but…"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "you_always_do_this" ,
"text" : "You always do this"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_should_not_have_to_say_this" ,
"text" : "I should not have to say this"
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}
] ,
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"min_selections" : 1 ,
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"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_093" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How often does our tone match what we actually mean?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
"tone" ,
"clarity" ,
"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not often enough" ,
"max_label" : "Almost always"
}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_094" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps you tell whether I am joking?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
"clarity" ,
"fun_first" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "my_face_gives_it_away" ,
"text" : "My face gives it away"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_situation_makes_it_obvious" ,
"text" : "The situation makes it obvious"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_say_i_am_kidding" ,
"text" : "I say I am kidding"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "you_know_my_usual_humor" ,
"text" : "You know my usual humor"
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}
] ,
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"min_selections" : 1 ,
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"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_095" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which context should I give before a request?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"context" ,
"requests" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "why_i_am_asking" ,
"text" : "Why I am asking"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "how_urgent_it_is" ,
"text" : "How urgent it is"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_i_have_already_tried" ,
"text" : "What I have already tried"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_part_i_need_from_you" ,
"text" : "What part I need from you"
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}
] ,
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"min_selections" : 1 ,
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"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_096" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "written" ,
"text" : "What phrase helps you know a serious talk is still safe?" ,
"depth" : 4 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
"tone" ,
"hard_topics" ,
"written" ,
"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"max_length" : 500
}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_097" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What keeps a direct conversation from feeling cold?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"tone" ,
"directness" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_warm_opening" ,
"text" : "A warm opening"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_normal_voice" ,
"text" : "A normal voice"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_little_appreciation" ,
"text" : "A little appreciation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "time_to_respond" ,
"text" : "Time to respond"
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}
] ,
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"min_selections" : 1 ,
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"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_098" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which pace helps you think while talking?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"pace" ,
"preferences" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "fast_and_lively" ,
"text" : "Fast and lively"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "steady_and_focused" ,
"text" : "Steady and focused"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "slow_with_pauses" ,
"text" : "Slow with pauses"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_mix_depending_on_the_topic" ,
"text" : "A mix depending on the topic"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_099" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps when one of us needs more time to answer?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"pace" ,
"processing_time" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "no_filling_the_silence" ,
"text" : "No filling the silence"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_smaller_question" ,
"text" : "A smaller question"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "permission_to_come_back_later" ,
"text" : "Permission to come back later"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "knowing_a_pause_is_not_avoidance" ,
"text" : "Knowing a pause is not avoidance"
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}
] ,
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"min_selections" : 1 ,
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"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_100" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which signs mean the timing is actually good?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"timing" ,
"awareness" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "we_are_both_present" ,
"text" : "We are both present"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_one_is_rushing" ,
"text" : "No one is rushing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_topic_fits_the_moment" ,
"text" : "The topic fits the moment"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_have_enough_energy_to_answer_honestly" ,
"text" : "We have enough energy to answer honestly"
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}
] ,
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"min_selections" : 1 ,
2026-06-22 08:20:22 -05:00
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_101" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What kind of text from me makes your day better?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"digital" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "something_funny" ,
"text" : "Something funny"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_sweet_check_in" ,
"text" : "A sweet check-in"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_quick_update" ,
"text" : "A quick update"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_message_that_says_i_was_thinking_of_you" ,
"text" : "A message that says I was thinking of you"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_102" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes texting feel clear between us?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"clarity" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "enough_context" ,
"text" : "Enough context"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_direct_question" ,
"text" : "A direct question"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_guessing_at_tone" ,
"text" : "No guessing at tone"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "following_up_if_something_sounds_off" ,
"text" : "Following up if something sounds off"
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}
] ,
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"min_selections" : 1 ,
2026-06-22 08:20:22 -05:00
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_103" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which things are better said in person?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"channel_choice" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "anything_easy_to_misread" ,
"text" : "Anything easy to misread"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "big_decisions" ,
"text" : "Big decisions"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "sensitive_feedback" ,
"text" : "Sensitive feedback"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "long_explanations" ,
"text" : "Long explanations"
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}
] ,
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}
} ,
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"id" : "communication_104" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How well do we understand each other over text?" ,
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"tags" : [
"texting" ,
"clarity" ,
"communication"
] ,
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "We misread a lot" ,
"max_label" : "We usually get it"
}
} ,
{
"id" : "communication_105" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Voice note or long text?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"digital" ,
"preferences" ,
"fun_first" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "voice_note" ,
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} ,
{
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"id" : "long_text" ,
"text" : "Long text"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
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"id" : "communication_106" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which messages deserve more than a one-word reply?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
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"responses" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "something_vulnerable" ,
"text" : "Something vulnerable"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "an_important_question" ,
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_plan_that_needs_an_answer" ,
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_story_you_clearly_care_about" ,
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}
] ,
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"min_selections" : 1 ,
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}
} ,
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"id" : "communication_107" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What should “K” mean in our relationship?" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"humor" ,
"fun_first" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "okay_got_it" ,
"text" : "Okay, got it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_am_busy_not_mad" ,
"text" : "I am busy, not mad"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "this_conversation_is_over" ,
"text" : "This conversation is over"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_should_never_be_trusted" ,
"text" : "It should never be trusted"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_108" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps a text sound warm instead of blunt?" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"tone" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_greeting" ,
"text" : "A greeting"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_little_context" ,
"text" : "A little context"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_extra_sentence" ,
"text" : "One extra sentence"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "an_emoji_that_actually_fits" ,
"text" : "An emoji that actually fits"
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}
] ,
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"min_selections" : 1 ,
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"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
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"id" : "communication_109" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which texting habits cause the most confusion?" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"clarity" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "answering_only_one_question" ,
"text" : "Answering only one question"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "changing_the_subject_mid_thread" ,
"text" : "Changing the subject mid-thread"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "leaving_out_key_context" ,
"text" : "Leaving out key context"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "assuming_silence_means_something" ,
"text" : "Assuming silence means something"
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}
] ,
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"min_selections" : 1 ,
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}
} ,
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"id" : "communication_110" ,
"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How easy is it to tell when a text needs a call?" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
"texting" ,
"channel_choice" ,
"communication"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "We often guess wrong" ,
"max_label" : "We usually know"
}
} ,
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"id" : "communication_111" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes a daytime check-in feel good?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"check_ins" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "it_is_low_pressure" ,
"text" : "It is low pressure"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_shows_you_remembered_me" ,
"text" : "It shows you remembered me"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_gives_me_something_to_smile_about" ,
"text" : "It gives me something to smile about"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_does_not_demand_an_immediate_answer" ,
"text" : "It does not demand an immediate answer"
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}
] ,
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"min_selections" : 1 ,
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"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
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"id" : "communication_112" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which reply delay needs the least explanation?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"expectations" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "while_working" ,
"text" : "While working"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "while_driving" ,
"text" : "While driving"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "while_with_family" ,
"text" : "While with family"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "any_delay_when_we_already_know_the_reason" ,
"text" : "Any delay when we already know the reason"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
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"id" : "communication_113" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What should we do when a text sounds wrong?" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"clarity" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "ask_what_you_meant" ,
"text" : "Ask what you meant"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "assume_the_best_first" ,
"text" : "Assume the best first"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "call_if_it_matters" ,
"text" : "Call if it matters"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "wait_until_we_can_focus" ,
"text" : "Wait until we can focus"
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}
] ,
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"min_selections" : 1 ,
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"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
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"id" : "communication_114" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which digital habits help us stay connected?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"digital" ,
"habits" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sending_small_updates" ,
"text" : "Sending small updates"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "sharing_something_funny" ,
"text" : "Sharing something funny"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "letting_each_other_know_when_we_are_busy" ,
"text" : "Letting each other know when we are busy"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "actually_answering_important_questions" ,
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}
] ,
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"min_selections" : 1 ,
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"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
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"id" : "communication_115" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes a voice note better than a text?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"digital" ,
"voice_notes" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "you_can_hear_the_tone" ,
"text" : "You can hear the tone"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_story_is_easier_to_tell" ,
"text" : "The story is easier to tell"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_feels_more_personal" ,
"text" : "It feels more personal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_saves_a_wall_of_text" ,
"text" : "It saves a wall of text"
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}
] ,
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"min_selections" : 1 ,
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"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
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"id" : "communication_116" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What is the best use of our shared chat?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"digital" ,
"couple_voice" ,
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"fun_first" ,
"communication"
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] ,
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"options" : [
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"id" : "plans_and_reminders" ,
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{
"id" : "jokes_and_random_thoughts" ,
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} ,
{
"id" : "photos_and_little_updates" ,
"text" : "Photos and little updates"
} ,
{
"id" : "all_of_the_above_chaos" ,
"text" : "All of the above chaos"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_117" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which messages make you feel remembered?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"thoughtfulness" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
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"id" : "a_reference_to_an_earlier_conversation" ,
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{
"id" : "a_picture_of_something_you_would_like" ,
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} ,
{
"id" : "a_good_luck_message" ,
"text" : "A good-luck message"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_follow_up_about_something_important" ,
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_118" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How often do our texts match our real-life tone?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"tone" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Not very often" ,
"max_label" : "Almost always"
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}
} ,
{
2026-07-12 16:02:05 -05:00
"id" : "communication_119" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What information should a planning text include?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"planning" ,
"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
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"id" : "the_actual_time" ,
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{
"id" : "the_actual_place" ,
"text" : "The actual place"
} ,
{
"id" : "what_still_needs_deciding" ,
"text" : "What still needs deciding"
} ,
{
"id" : "whether_you_need_an_answer_soon" ,
"text" : "Whether you need an answer soon"
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] ,
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_120" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which texts should wait until we can really talk?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"channel_choice" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_major_decision" ,
"text" : "A major decision"
} ,
{
"id" : "sensitive_feedback" ,
"text" : "Sensitive feedback"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_long_explanation" ,
"text" : "A long explanation"
} ,
{
"id" : "anything_easy_to_misread" ,
"text" : "Anything easy to misread"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_121" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "written" ,
"text" : "What is one text from me you still remember?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"memory" ,
"written" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"max_length" : 500
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}
} ,
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"id" : "communication_122" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which details belong in a follow-up text?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"follow_up" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "it_refers_to_what_we_discussed" ,
"text" : "It refers to what we discussed"
} ,
{
"id" : "it_checks_whether_anything_changed" ,
"text" : "It checks whether anything changed"
} ,
{
"id" : "it_answers_the_part_left_open" ,
"text" : "It answers the part left open"
} ,
{
"id" : "it_suggests_when_to_talk_again" ,
"text" : "It suggests when to talk again"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_123" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which emoji causes the most unnecessary confusion?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"humor" ,
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"fun_first" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "the_thumbs_up" ,
"text" : "The thumbs-up"
} ,
{
"id" : "the_plain_smile" ,
"text" : "The plain smile"
} ,
{
"id" : "the_eye_roll" ,
"text" : "The eye-roll"
} ,
{
"id" : "the_mysterious_single_heart" ,
"text" : "The mysterious single heart"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_124" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What should we clarify about texting expectations?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"texting" ,
"expectations" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "how_quickly_replies_matter" ,
"text" : "How quickly replies matter"
} ,
{
"id" : "when_a_call_is_better" ,
"text" : "When a call is better"
} ,
{
"id" : "how_we_signal_being_busy" ,
"text" : "How we signal being busy"
} ,
{
"id" : "which_topics_need_real_time" ,
"text" : "Which topics need real time"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_125" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which digital moments make conversation feel more personal?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"digital" ,
"connection" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_thoughtful_voice_note" ,
"text" : "A thoughtful voice note"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_photo_from_your_day" ,
"text" : "A photo from your day"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_late_night_message" ,
"text" : "A late-night message"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_link_chosen_just_for_me" ,
"text" : "A link chosen just for me"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_126" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What usually causes our smallest misunderstandings?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"misunderstandings" ,
"clarity" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "missing_context" ,
"text" : "Missing context"
} ,
{
"id" : "different_assumptions" ,
"text" : "Different assumptions"
} ,
{
"id" : "bad_timing" ,
"text" : "Bad timing"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_tone_that_lands_wrong" ,
"text" : "A tone that lands wrong"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_127" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps us catch a misunderstanding early?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"misunderstandings" ,
"clarity" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "asking_what_you_meant" ,
"text" : "Asking what you meant"
} ,
{
"id" : "noticing_a_weird_reaction" ,
"text" : "Noticing a weird reaction"
} ,
{
"id" : "repeating_the_main_point" ,
"text" : "Repeating the main point"
} ,
{
"id" : "stopping_before_adding_assumptions" ,
"text" : "Stopping before adding assumptions"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_128" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which assumptions should we check more often?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"assumptions" ,
"clarity" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "what_the_other_person_meant" ,
"text" : "What the other person meant"
} ,
{
"id" : "whether_something_is_urgent" ,
"text" : "Whether something is urgent"
} ,
{
"id" : "whether_advice_is_wanted" ,
"text" : "Whether advice is wanted"
} ,
{
"id" : "whether_silence_means_anything" ,
"text" : "Whether silence means anything"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_129" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How quickly do we usually clear up confusion?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"misunderstandings" ,
"clarity" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "It can linger" ,
"max_label" : "We clear it up quickly"
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_130" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Clarify now or sit with it first?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"clarity" ,
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"fun_first" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "clarify_now" ,
"text" : "Clarify now"
} ,
{
"id" : "sit_with_it_first" ,
"text" : "Sit with it first"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_131" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes a clarification question sound respectful?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"clarity" ,
"questions" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_neutral_tone" ,
"text" : "A neutral tone"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_hidden_accusation" ,
"text" : "No hidden accusation"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_specific_point" ,
"text" : "A specific point"
} ,
{
"id" : "real_curiosity" ,
"text" : "Real curiosity"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_132" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which phrase stops assumptions fastest?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"clarity" ,
"phrases" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "what_did_you_mean_by_that" ,
"text" : "What did you mean by that?"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_may_be_reading_this_wrong" ,
"text" : "I may be reading this wrong"
} ,
{
"id" : "can_you_say_that_another_way" ,
"text" : "Can you say that another way?"
} ,
{
"id" : "let_me_check_what_i_heard" ,
"text" : "Let me check what I heard"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_133" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps when we remember a conversation differently?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"misunderstandings" ,
"memory" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "focus_on_the_main_point" ,
"text" : "Focus on the main point"
} ,
{
"id" : "admit_memory_can_be_imperfect" ,
"text" : "Admit memory can be imperfect"
} ,
{
"id" : "avoid_turning_it_into_a_courtroom" ,
"text" : "Avoid turning it into a courtroom"
} ,
{
"id" : "decide_what_matters_now" ,
"text" : "Decide what matters now"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_134" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which conversation habits deserve a regular tune-up?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"habits" ,
"communication_growth" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "how_we_interrupt" ,
"text" : "How we interrupt"
} ,
{
"id" : "how_we_ask_for_attention" ,
"text" : "How we ask for attention"
} ,
{
"id" : "how_we_give_updates" ,
"text" : "How we give updates"
} ,
{
"id" : "how_we_end_unfinished_talks" ,
"text" : "How we end unfinished talks"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_135" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How confident are you that we can clear up mixed signals?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"tags" : [
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"misunderstandings" ,
"confidence" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Not very confident" ,
"max_label" : "Very confident"
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_136" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps you admit you misunderstood me?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"misunderstandings" ,
"humility" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "no_teasing_about_it" ,
"text" : "No teasing about it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_chance_to_correct_it_quickly" ,
"text" : "A chance to correct it quickly"
} ,
{
"id" : "knowing_i_will_not_pile_on" ,
"text" : "Knowing I will not pile on"
} ,
{
"id" : "remembering_it_happens_to_both_of_us" ,
"text" : "Remembering it happens to both of us"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_137" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which restart sounds most natural after a misunderstanding?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"clarity" ,
"misunderstandings" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "let_me_say_that_differently" ,
"text" : "Let me say that differently"
} ,
{
"id" : "what_did_you_hear_me_say" ,
"text" : "What did you hear me say?"
} ,
{
"id" : "we_are_talking_past_each_other" ,
"text" : "We are talking past each other"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "can_we_back_up_a_minute" ,
"text" : "Can we back up a minute?"
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}
]
}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "communication_138" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which unfinished conversations should we circle back to?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"tags" : [
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"follow_up" ,
"unfinished_talks" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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{
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"id" : "a_question_that_never_got_answered" ,
"text" : "A question that never got answered"
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"id" : "a_decision_still_hanging" ,
"text" : "A decision still hanging"
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"id" : "something_important_interrupted" ,
"text" : "Something important interrupted"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_topic_one_of_us_asked_to_pause" ,
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}
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] ,
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}
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} ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes a follow-up feel thoughtful?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"follow_up" ,
"thoughtfulness" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"id" : "you_remember_without_prompting" ,
"text" : "You remember without prompting"
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"id" : "you_ask_at_a_good_time" ,
"text" : "You ask at a good time"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "you_refer_to_the_real_detail" ,
"text" : "You refer to the real detail"
} ,
{
"id" : "you_listen_to_what_changed" ,
"text" : "You listen to what changed"
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}
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] ,
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} ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which things are worth saying twice?" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"clarity" ,
"repetition" ,
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"communication"
] ,
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"id" : "something_important" ,
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_reassurance_that_did_not_land" ,
"text" : "A reassurance that did not land"
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}
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] ,
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}
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} ,
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"id" : "communication_141" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"habits" ,
"communication_growth" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"id" : "fewer_assumptions" ,
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{
"id" : "clearer_requests" ,
"text" : "Clearer requests"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "more_follow_up" ,
"text" : "More follow-up"
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}
]
}
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} ,
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"id" : "communication_142" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps us keep conversations from becoming monologues?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"mutuality" ,
"habits" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"id" : "asking_each_other_questions" ,
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"text" : "Pausing for a response"
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{
"id" : "not_repeating_the_same_point" ,
"text" : "Not repeating the same point"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "noticing_when_the_other_person_checks_out" ,
"text" : "Noticing when the other person checks out"
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}
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] ,
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}
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} ,
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"id" : "communication_143" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How balanced does our communication feel lately?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"mutuality" ,
"communication_growth" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
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}
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} ,
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"id" : "communication_144" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which small habits make communication warmer?" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"habits" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"id" : "saying_hello_like_we_mean_it" ,
"text" : "Saying hello like we mean it"
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{
"id" : "using_each_other_s_names_kindly" ,
"text" : "Using each other’ s names kindly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "adding_appreciation" ,
"text" : "Adding appreciation"
} ,
{
"id" : "ending_with_a_clear_next_step" ,
"text" : "Ending with a clear next step"
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}
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] ,
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}
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} ,
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"id" : "communication_145" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps us disagree about facts without getting personal?" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"clarity" ,
"opinions" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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{
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"id" : "check_the_information" ,
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"text" : "Separate facts from guesses"
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{
"id" : "stay_on_the_one_point" ,
"text" : "Stay on the one point"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "make_it_okay_to_be_mistaken" ,
"text" : "Make it okay to be mistaken"
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}
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] ,
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}
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} ,
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"id" : "communication_146" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "written" ,
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"habits" ,
"written" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"max_length" : 500
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}
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} ,
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"id" : "communication_147" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which signs show our communication is getting stronger?" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"communication_growth" ,
"progress" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"id" : "we_ask_more_direct_questions" ,
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_recover_from_confusion_faster" ,
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} ,
{
"id" : "we_can_say_what_we_need" ,
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} ,
{
"id" : "we_do_less_mind_reading" ,
"text" : "We do less mind-reading"
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}
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] ,
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}
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} ,
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"id" : "communication_148" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What should our unofficial communication motto be?" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"couple_voice" ,
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"fun_first" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"id" : "ask_before_assuming" ,
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"id" : "say_the_actual_thing" ,
"text" : "Say the actual thing"
} ,
{
"id" : "kind_and_clear" ,
"text" : "Kind and clear"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_can_try_that_again" ,
"text" : "We can try that again"
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}
]
}
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} ,
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"id" : "communication_149" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What should show up more in the way we talk?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"couple_voice" ,
"communication_growth" ,
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"communication"
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"id" : "more_humor" ,
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"id" : "more_honesty" ,
"text" : "More honesty"
} ,
{
"id" : "more_curiosity" ,
"text" : "More curiosity"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "more_room_for_different_styles" ,
"text" : "More room for different styles"
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}
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] ,
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}
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} ,
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"id" : "communication_150" ,
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"category_id" : "communication" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which communication habits could we actually stick with?" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"habits" ,
"commitments" ,
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"communication"
] ,
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"id" : "ask_instead_of_guess" ,
"text" : "Ask instead of guess"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "say_when_the_timing_is_bad" ,
"text" : "Say when the timing is bad"
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"id" : "come_back_to_important_topics" ,
"text" : "Come back to important topics"
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"text" : "Do not let silence tell the whole story"
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}
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] ,
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}
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}
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