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{
"category": {
"id": "sexual_preferences",
"display_name": "Sexual Preferences",
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"description": "Playful, private, consent-first questions about desire, flirting, initiation, boundaries, feedback, aftercare, and sexual confidence for adult couples.",
"access": "mixed",
"icon_name": "favorite",
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"schema_version": "question_v2",
"metadata": {
"total_questions": 150,
"free_questions": 54,
"premium_questions": 96,
"type_counts": {
"single_choice": 150
},
"sex_counts": {
"neutral": 110,
"female": 20,
"male": 20
},
"desire_sync_pairs": 20,
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"content_version": "sexual_preferences_revised_v3",
"batch_size": 25,
"special_pack_exception": "150 single-choice questions retained for current Desire Sync compatibility; female/male keys form 20 paired yes/no entries.",
"targeting_note": "Neutral questions work for all couples. Female/male values are retained only as current Desire Sync pairing keys; paired wording is role-based and non-stereotyped."
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}
},
"questions": [
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_001",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which flirting style gets your attention fastest?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"flirting",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sweet_and_obvious",
"text": "Sweet and obvious"
},
{
"id": "playful_teasing",
"text": "Playful teasing"
},
{
"id": "quiet_and_intense",
"text": "Quiet and intense"
},
{
"id": "bold_and_direct",
"text": "Bold and direct"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_002",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of kiss makes you forget what you were saying?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"kissing",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "slow_and_lingering",
"text": "Slow and lingering"
},
{
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"id": "soft_and_unexpected",
"text": "Soft and unexpected"
},
{
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"id": "deep_and_focused",
"text": "Deep and focused"
},
{
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"id": "mischievous_and_lingering",
"text": "Mischievous and lingering"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_003",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which first move feels sexiest to you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"initiation",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "pull_me_closer",
"text": "Pull me closer"
},
{
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"id": "whisper_what_you_want",
"text": "Whisper what you want"
},
{
"id": "kiss_me_first",
"text": "Kiss me first"
},
{
"id": "ask_me_directly",
"text": "Ask me directly"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_004",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What kind of touch makes you melt quickest?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"touch",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "hands_in_my_hair",
"text": "Hands in my hair"
},
{
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"id": "a_hand_on_my_waist",
"text": "A hand on my waist"
},
{
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"id": "a_slow_back_rub",
"text": "A slow back rub"
},
{
"id": "neck_and_shoulders",
"text": "Neck and shoulders"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_005",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How much teasing feels good before things become more direct?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"teasing",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "love_the_anticipation",
"text": "Love the anticipation"
},
{
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"id": "sometimes_if_the_mood_fits",
"text": "Sometimes, if the mood fits"
},
{
"id": "only_a_little",
"text": "Only a little"
},
{
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"id": "not_really_for_me",
"text": "Not really for me"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_006",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What mood brings out your most playful desire?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"mood",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "soft_and_romantic",
"text": "Soft and romantic"
},
{
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"id": "mischievous_and_flirty",
"text": "Mischievous and flirty"
},
{
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"id": "bold_and_confident",
"text": "Bold and confident"
},
{
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"id": "slow_and_quiet",
"text": "Slow and quiet"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_007",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which line would make you smile and lean in?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"words",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "come_here",
"text": "Come here"
},
{
"id": "i_want_you",
"text": "I want you"
},
{
"id": "kiss_me",
"text": "Kiss me"
},
{
"id": "tell_me_what_you_want",
"text": "Tell me what you want"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_008",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How do body compliments usually land for you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"compliments",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "they_make_me_glow",
"text": "They make me glow"
},
{
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"id": "only_when_they_are_specific",
"text": "Only when they are specific"
},
{
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"id": "it_depends_on_my_mood",
"text": "It depends on my mood"
},
{
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"id": "i_prefer_other_compliments",
"text": "I prefer other compliments"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_009",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What kind of praise makes you feel most wanted?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"compliments",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "something_about_my_body",
"text": "Something about my body"
},
{
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"id": "hearing_how_much_i_am_wanted",
"text": "Hearing how much I am wanted"
},
{
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"id": "a_very_specific_detail",
"text": "A very specific detail"
},
{
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"id": "how_i_make_you_feel",
"text": "How I make you feel"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_010",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which pace feels best when intimacy is just beginning?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"pace",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "very_slow",
"text": "Very slow"
},
{
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"id": "a_steady_build",
"text": "A steady build"
},
{
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"id": "follow_the_chemistry",
"text": "Follow the chemistry"
},
{
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"id": "direct_after_a_clear_yes",
"text": "Direct after a clear yes"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_011",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What helps you say exactly what you want?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"communication",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_pressure",
"text": "No pressure"
},
{
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"id": "being_asked_gently",
"text": "Being asked gently"
},
{
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"id": "a_playful_mood",
"text": "A playful mood"
},
{
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"id": "complete_privacy",
"text": "Complete privacy"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_012",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How should your partner ask what feels good?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"feedback",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "softly_in_the_moment",
"text": "Softly in the moment"
},
{
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"id": "directly_and_clearly",
"text": "Directly and clearly"
},
{
"id": "before_anything_starts",
"text": "Before anything starts"
},
{
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"id": "let_me_bring_it_up",
"text": "Let me bring it up"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_013",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What style of sexy talk feels most natural to you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"sexy_talk",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "soft_and_suggestive",
"text": "Soft and suggestive"
},
{
"id": "bold_and_clear",
"text": "Bold and clear"
},
{
"id": "playful_and_teasing",
"text": "Playful and teasing"
},
{
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"id": "not_really_my_thing",
"text": "Not really my thing"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_014",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What daytime message would make you smirk?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"messages",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "thinking_about_you",
"text": "Thinking about you"
},
{
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"id": "i_cannot_wait_to_kiss_you",
"text": "I cannot wait to kiss you"
},
{
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"id": "save_some_energy_for_later",
"text": "Save some energy for later"
},
{
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"id": "a_private_inside_joke",
"text": "A private inside joke"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_015",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What kind of flirting should happen before anything sexual starts?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"flirting",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "playful_banter",
"text": "Playful banter"
},
{
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"id": "long_eye_contact",
"text": "Long eye contact"
},
{
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"id": "small_welcome_touches",
"text": "Small welcome touches"
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},
{
"id": "a_clear_invitation",
"text": "A clear invitation"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_016",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which setting helps you relax into desire?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"setting",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_cozy_bedroom",
"text": "A cozy bedroom"
},
{
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"id": "a_quiet_couch",
"text": "A quiet couch"
},
{
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"id": "a_warm_shower",
"text": "A warm shower"
},
{
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"id": "anywhere_truly_private",
"text": "Anywhere truly private"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_017",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which privacy condition helps you stay present?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"privacy",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_locked_door",
"text": "A locked door"
},
{
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"id": "phones_put_away",
"text": "Phones put away"
},
{
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"id": "plenty_of_unhurried_time",
"text": "Plenty of unhurried time"
},
{
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"id": "a_quiet_house",
"text": "A quiet house"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_018",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How does eye contact feel when things get intense?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"eye_contact",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "very_connecting",
"text": "Very connecting"
},
{
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"id": "sexy_in_small_doses",
"text": "Sexy in small doses"
},
{
"id": "depends_on_the_moment",
"text": "Depends on the moment"
},
{
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"id": "i_prefer_less_of_it",
"text": "I prefer less of it"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_019",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which desire style feels most like you lately?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"desire_style",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "slow_burn",
"text": "Slow burn"
},
{
"id": "spontaneous_spark",
"text": "Spontaneous spark"
},
{
"id": "romantic_build_up",
"text": "Romantic build-up"
},
{
"id": "direct_heat",
"text": "Direct heat"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_020",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What makes your partner's desire feel unmistakable?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"feeling_wanted",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "desiring_words",
"text": "Desiring words"
},
{
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"id": "focused_touch",
"text": "Focused touch"
},
{
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"id": "thoughtful_planning",
"text": "Thoughtful planning"
},
{
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"id": "undivided_attention",
"text": "Undivided attention"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_021",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "When do you most enjoy letting your partner lead?",
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"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"roles",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "after_a_clear_invitation",
"text": "After a clear invitation"
},
{
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"id": "when_i_feel_fully_relaxed",
"text": "When I feel fully relaxed"
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},
{
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"id": "during_playful_moments",
"text": "During playful moments"
},
{
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"id": "i_prefer_sharing_the_lead",
"text": "I prefer sharing the lead"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_022",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What kind of confidence feels sexy instead of pushy?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"confidence",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "attentive_and_responsive",
"text": "Attentive and responsive"
},
{
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"id": "decisive_after_checking_in",
"text": "Decisive after checking in"
},
{
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"id": "playful_and_warm",
"text": "Playful and warm"
},
{
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"id": "clear_about_wanting_me",
"text": "Clear about wanting me"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_023",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes initiation feel inviting instead of pressuring?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"consent",
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"initiation",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "an_easy_no",
"text": "An easy no"
},
{
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"id": "a_warm_tone",
"text": "A warm tone"
},
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
},
{
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"id": "interest_without_expectation",
"text": "Interest without expectation"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_024",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How would you rather signal that you need a pause?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"consent",
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"pause",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "say_pause",
"text": "Say pause"
},
{
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"id": "use_a_safe_word",
"text": "Use a safe word"
},
{
"id": "tap_or_squeeze",
"text": "Tap or squeeze"
},
{
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"id": "ask_to_slow_down",
"text": "Ask to slow down"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_025",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What response should always follow a pause signal?",
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"depth": 5,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"consent",
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"pause",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "stop_and_listen",
"text": "Stop and listen"
},
{
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"id": "slow_down_and_check_in",
"text": "Slow down and check in"
},
{
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"id": "create_some_breathing_room",
"text": "Create some breathing room"
},
{
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"id": "switch_to_nonsexual_closeness",
"text": "Switch to nonsexual closeness"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_026",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which after-intimacy moment sounds best?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"aftercare",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "cuddling_quietly",
"text": "Cuddling quietly"
},
{
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"id": "talking_and_laughing",
"text": "Talking and laughing"
},
{
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"id": "getting_water_or_a_snack",
"text": "Getting water or a snack"
},
{
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"id": "a_little_space_to_settle",
"text": "A little space to settle"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_027",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How long do you usually want aftercare to last?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"aftercare",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_few_minutes",
"text": "A few minutes"
},
{
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"id": "until_we_fall_asleep",
"text": "Until we fall asleep"
},
{
"id": "until_i_feel_settled",
"text": "Until I feel settled"
},
{
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"id": "it_changes_each_time",
"text": "It changes each time"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_028",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What kind of affection feels good after you say no?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"consent",
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"reassurance",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_reassuring_hug",
"text": "A reassuring hug"
},
{
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"id": "a_kiss_with_no_agenda",
"text": "A kiss with no agenda"
},
{
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"id": "kind_words",
"text": "Kind words"
},
{
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"id": "space_without_hurt_feelings",
"text": "Space without hurt feelings"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_029",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What makes turning down initiation feel safest?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"consent",
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"boundaries",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "no_guilt_afterward",
"text": "No guilt afterward"
},
{
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"id": "a_warm_response",
"text": "A warm response"
},
{
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"id": "no_repeated_asking",
"text": "No repeated asking"
},
{
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"id": "an_easy_change_of_plans",
"text": "An easy change of plans"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_030",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How do you feel about surprise affection that might become more?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"spontaneity",
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"boundaries",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "i_enjoy_the_possibility",
"text": "I enjoy the possibility"
},
{
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"id": "only_with_a_check_in",
"text": "Only with a check-in"
},
{
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"id": "only_when_i_am_relaxed",
"text": "Only when I am relaxed"
},
{
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"id": "keep_surprises_nonsexual",
"text": "Keep surprises nonsexual"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_031",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which kind of build-up deserves more time?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"build_up",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "kissing",
"text": "Kissing"
},
{
"id": "massage",
"text": "Massage"
},
{
"id": "cuddling",
"text": "Cuddling"
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},
{
"id": "slow_full_body_affection",
"text": "Slow full-body affection"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_032",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What is most likely to shut down your desire?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"turn_offs",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "feeling_rushed",
"text": "Feeling rushed"
},
{
"id": "bad_timing",
"text": "Bad timing"
},
{
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"id": "skipping_affection",
"text": "Skipping affection"
},
{
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"id": "not_enough_privacy",
"text": "Not enough privacy"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_033",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How do you feel about flirting before you are alone?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"anticipation",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "it_builds_great_tension",
"text": "It builds great tension"
},
{
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"id": "only_if_it_stays_subtle",
"text": "Only if it stays subtle"
},
{
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"id": "depends_where_we_are",
"text": "Depends where we are"
},
{
"id": "i_prefer_to_wait",
"text": "I prefer to wait"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_034",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which kind of anticipation works best for you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"anticipation",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "flirty_messages",
"text": "Flirty messages"
},
{
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"id": "knowing_looks",
"text": "Knowing looks"
},
{
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"id": "small_private_touches",
"text": "Small private touches"
},
{
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"id": "knowing_there_is_a_plan",
"text": "Knowing there is a plan"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_035",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What helps you feel free to be a little silly?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"playfulness",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "trusting_i_will_not_be_judged",
"text": "Trusting I will not be judged"
},
{
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"id": "knowing_laughter_is_welcome",
"text": "Knowing laughter is welcome"
},
{
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"id": "having_plenty_of_privacy",
"text": "Having plenty of privacy"
},
{
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"id": "starting_with_something_familiar",
"text": "Starting with something familiar"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_036",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How would you like to be invited tonight?",
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"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"invitation",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_direct_question",
"text": "A direct question"
},
{
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"id": "a_lingering_kiss_then_ask",
"text": "A lingering kiss, then ask"
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},
{
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"id": "a_playful_message_first",
"text": "A playful message first"
},
{
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"id": "let_me_make_the_first_move",
"text": "Let me make the first move"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_037",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which phrase best communicates that you are unsure?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"communication",
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"consent",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "i_need_a_minute",
"text": "I need a minute"
},
{
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"id": "maybe_but_go_slowly",
"text": "Maybe, but go slowly"
},
{
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"id": "can_we_check_in_first",
"text": "Can we check in first?"
},
{
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"id": "i_am_not_ready_to_decide",
"text": "I am not ready to decide"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_038",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What role should laughter play during intimacy?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"humor",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_lot_it_keeps_things_fun",
"text": "A lot—it keeps things fun"
},
{
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"id": "a_little_when_it_happens",
"text": "A little, when it happens"
},
{
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"id": "only_after_awkward_moments",
"text": "Only after awkward moments"
},
{
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"id": "i_prefer_a_more_serious_mood",
"text": "I prefer a more serious mood"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_039",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What makes a private moment feel most like us?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"connection",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "our_inside_jokes",
"text": "Our inside jokes"
},
{
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"id": "a_familiar_ritual",
"text": "A familiar ritual"
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},
{
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"id": "trying_something_we_chose_together",
"text": "Trying something we chose together"
},
{
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"id": "being_completely_unhurried",
"text": "Being completely unhurried"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_040",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which kind of pursuit feels most flattering?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"pursuit",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "clear_and_direct",
"text": "Clear and direct"
},
{
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"id": "slow_and_patient",
"text": "Slow and patient"
},
{
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"id": "playfully_persistent_after_encouragement",
"text": "Playfully persistent after encouragement"
},
{
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"id": "waiting_for_me_to_initiate",
"text": "Waiting for me to initiate"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_041",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How should intimate plans usually happen?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"planning",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "planned_in_advance",
"text": "Planned in advance"
},
{
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"id": "spontaneous_when_the_mood_hits",
"text": "Spontaneous when the mood hits"
},
{
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"id": "a_loose_plan_with_room_to_change",
"text": "A loose plan with room to change"
},
{
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"id": "a_mix_depending_on_the_week",
"text": "A mix depending on the week"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_042",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "When are you naturally most open to intimacy?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"timing",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "morning",
"text": "Morning"
},
{
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"id": "afternoon",
"text": "Afternoon"
},
{
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"id": "evening",
"text": "Evening"
},
{
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"id": "it_varies_completely",
"text": "It varies completely"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_043",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What helps you switch from daily stress into desire?",
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"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"transition",
"stress",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_shower",
"text": "A shower"
},
{
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"id": "quiet_time_alone",
"text": "Quiet time alone"
},
{
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"id": "affection_without_expectation",
"text": "Affection without expectation"
},
{
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"id": "flirting_that_starts_slowly",
"text": "Flirting that starts slowly"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_044",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which nonsexual affection makes the best beginning?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"affection",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_long_hug",
"text": "A long hug"
},
{
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"id": "cuddling_close",
"text": "Cuddling close"
},
{
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"id": "a_shoulder_massage",
"text": "A shoulder massage"
},
{
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"id": "holding_hands_and_talking",
"text": "Holding hands and talking"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_045",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How do quick intimate moments usually sound to you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"quick_intimacy",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "exciting_when_spontaneous",
"text": "Exciting when spontaneous"
},
{
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"id": "good_only_when_planned",
"text": "Good only when planned"
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},
{
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"id": "fine_if_we_still_connect",
"text": "Fine if we still connect"
},
{
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"id": "usually_not_my_preference",
"text": "Usually not my preference"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_046",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What would make a short private moment actually work?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"quick_intimacy",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "guaranteed_privacy",
"text": "Guaranteed privacy"
},
{
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"id": "a_clear_mutual_yes",
"text": "A clear mutual yes"
},
{
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"id": "no_pressure_to_perform",
"text": "No pressure to perform"
},
{
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"id": "time_to_reconnect_afterward",
"text": "Time to reconnect afterward"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_047",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What protects your desire after an exhausting day?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"energy",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_little_recovery_time",
"text": "A little recovery time"
},
{
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"id": "help_clearing_mental_clutter",
"text": "Help clearing mental clutter"
},
{
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"id": "gentle_affection_first",
"text": "Gentle affection first"
},
{
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"id": "knowing_there_is_no_expectation",
"text": "Knowing there is no expectation"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_048",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What most helps desire return after a quiet stretch?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"desire_changes",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "low_pressure_closeness",
"text": "Low-pressure closeness"
},
{
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"id": "feeling_pursued_again",
"text": "Feeling pursued again"
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},
{
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"id": "honest_conversation_outside_the_moment",
"text": "Honest conversation outside the moment"
},
{
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"id": "a_fresh_shared_experience",
"text": "A fresh shared experience"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_049",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What helps you feel attractive before intimacy starts?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"body_confidence",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_sincere_compliment",
"text": "A sincere compliment"
},
{
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"id": "seeing_my_partners_reaction",
"text": "Seeing my partner's reaction"
},
{
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"id": "wearing_something_i_love",
"text": "Wearing something I love"
},
{
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"id": "feeling_relaxed_in_my_body",
"text": "Feeling relaxed in my body"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_050",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which look from your partner would catch your eye fastest?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"appearance",
"flirting",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "dressed_up_and_polished",
"text": "Dressed up and polished"
},
{
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"id": "casual_and_confident",
"text": "Casual and confident"
},
{
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"id": "fresh_from_the_shower",
"text": "Fresh from the shower"
},
{
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"id": "something_chosen_just_for_me",
"text": "Something chosen just for me"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_051",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What kind of music best fits a private night?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"music",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "slow_and_moody",
"text": "Slow and moody"
},
{
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"id": "playful_and_upbeat",
"text": "Playful and upbeat"
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},
{
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"id": "a_familiar_favorite",
"text": "A familiar favorite"
},
{
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"id": "no_music_at_all",
"text": "No music at all"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_052",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which lighting helps you feel most comfortable?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"lighting",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "lights_off",
"text": "Lights off"
},
{
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"id": "very_low_light",
"text": "Very low light"
},
{
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"id": "warm_soft_light",
"text": "Warm soft light"
},
{
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"id": "enough_light_to_see_each_other",
"text": "Enough light to see each other"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_053",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which scent would add the most to the mood?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"scent",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "fresh_clean_sheets",
"text": "Fresh clean sheets"
},
{
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"id": "a_favorite_candle",
"text": "A favorite candle"
},
{
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"id": "my_partners_usual_scent",
"text": "My partner's usual scent"
},
{
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"id": "no_added_scent",
"text": "No added scent"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_054",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What room temperature feels best for getting close?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
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"comfort",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "cool_with_blankets",
"text": "Cool with blankets"
},
{
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"id": "comfortably_warm",
"text": "Comfortably warm"
},
{
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"id": "a_little_cooler_than_usual",
"text": "A little cooler than usual"
},
{
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"id": "i_barely_notice_temperature",
"text": "I barely notice temperature"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_055",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which planned evening would feel genuinely sexy?",
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"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"date_setup",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "dinner_followed_by_private_time",
"text": "Dinner followed by private time"
},
{
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"id": "a_stay_at_home_date",
"text": "A stay-at-home date"
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},
{
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"id": "a_night_away",
"text": "A night away"
},
{
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"id": "a_surprise_with_an_easy_opt_out",
"text": "A surprise with an easy opt-out"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_056",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What change of scenery would feel most exciting?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"novelty",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_hotel_room",
"text": "A hotel room"
},
{
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"id": "a_cozy_cabin",
"text": "A cozy cabin"
},
{
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"id": "a_different_room_at_home",
"text": "A different room at home"
},
{
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"id": "i_prefer_our_usual_space",
"text": "I prefer our usual space"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_057",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "When does making time for intimacy feel easiest?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"scheduling",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_weekend_morning",
"text": "A weekend morning"
},
{
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"id": "an_unhurried_evening",
"text": "An unhurried evening"
},
{
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"id": "after_a_date",
"text": "After a date"
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},
{
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"id": "whenever_we_unexpectedly_get_privacy",
"text": "Whenever we unexpectedly get privacy"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_058",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What would make the next morning feel especially good?",
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"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"next_morning",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "sleeping_in_together",
"text": "Sleeping in together"
},
{
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"id": "breakfast_and_teasing",
"text": "Breakfast and teasing"
},
{
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"id": "a_warm_check_in",
"text": "A warm check-in"
},
{
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"id": "returning_to_our_day_without_fuss",
"text": "Returning to our day without fuss"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_059",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which playful warm-up sounds the most fun?",
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"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"games",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_flirty_question_game",
"text": "A flirty question game"
},
{
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"id": "choosing_a_song_for_each_other",
"text": "Choosing a song for each other"
},
{
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"id": "a_playful_bet",
"text": "A playful bet"
},
{
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"id": "trading_three_bold_compliments",
"text": "Trading three bold compliments"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_060",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which private dare sounds genuinely fun?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"dare",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "hold_eye_contact_longer",
"text": "Hold eye contact longer"
},
{
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"id": "say_what_you_want_out_loud",
"text": "Say what you want out loud"
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},
{
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"id": "let_your_partner_choose_the_music",
"text": "Let your partner choose the music"
},
{
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"id": "share_one_curious_idea",
"text": "Share one curious idea"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_061",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How does role-play sound when both people choose it?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"role_play",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "exciting_and_playful",
"text": "Exciting and playful"
},
{
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"id": "interesting_with_clear_boundaries",
"text": "Interesting with clear boundaries"
},
{
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"id": "only_in_a_very_light_version",
"text": "Only in a very light version"
},
{
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"id": "not_appealing_to_me",
"text": "Not appealing to me"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_062",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What would make role-play feel comfortable enough to try?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"role_play",
"boundaries",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "agreeing_on_the_scene_first",
"text": "Agreeing on the scene first"
},
{
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"id": "keeping_it_humorous",
"text": "Keeping it humorous"
},
{
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"id": "having_a_stop_phrase",
"text": "Having a stop phrase"
},
{
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"id": "knowing_we_can_drop_it_anytime",
"text": "Knowing we can drop it anytime"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_063",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What conversation style would make fantasy-sharing easiest?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"fantasy",
"communication",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "as_a_playful_hypothetical",
"text": "As a playful hypothetical"
},
{
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"id": "in_a_private_message",
"text": "In a private message"
},
{
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"id": "during_a_calm_conversation",
"text": "During a calm conversation"
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},
{
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"id": "i_would_rather_keep_fantasies_private",
"text": "I would rather keep fantasies private"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_064",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What makes sharing a fantasy feel low-pressure?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"fantasy",
"safety",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "no_promise_to_act_on_it",
"text": "No promise to act on it"
},
{
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"id": "no_judgment",
"text": "No judgment"
},
{
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"id": "permission_to_stay_vague",
"text": "Permission to stay vague"
},
{
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"id": "taking_turns_sharing",
"text": "Taking turns sharing"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_065",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How do you feel about bringing toys into intimacy?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"toys",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "curious_and_open",
"text": "Curious and open"
},
{
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"id": "only_if_we_choose_together",
"text": "Only if we choose together"
},
{
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"id": "maybe_after_talking_first",
"text": "Maybe after talking first"
},
{
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"id": "not_something_i_want",
"text": "Not something I want"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_066",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How should a new toy first enter the conversation?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"toys",
"consent",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "shop_for_it_together",
"text": "Shop for it together"
},
{
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"id": "mention_it_outside_the_moment",
"text": "Mention it outside the moment"
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},
{
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"id": "start_with_a_simple_option",
"text": "Start with a simple option"
},
{
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"id": "let_me_bring_up_the_idea",
"text": "Let me bring up the idea"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_067",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which sensory experiment sounds most appealing?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"sensory_play",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_soft_blindfold",
"text": "A soft blindfold"
},
{
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"id": "different_textures",
"text": "Different textures"
},
{
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"id": "temperature_changes_kept_gentle",
"text": "Temperature changes kept gentle"
},
{
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"id": "i_prefer_no_sensory_play",
"text": "I prefer no sensory play"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_068",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which reassurance matters most before trying a blindfold?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"sensory_play",
"trust",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "agreeing_on_every_boundary_first",
"text": "Agreeing on every boundary first"
},
{
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"id": "keeping_one_hand_connected",
"text": "Keeping one hand connected"
},
{
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"id": "frequent_verbal_check_ins",
"text": "Frequent verbal check-ins"
},
{
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"id": "being_able_to_remove_it_myself",
"text": "Being able to remove it myself"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_069",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which power dynamic sounds most natural to you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"power",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "one_person_leads_gently",
"text": "One person leads gently"
},
{
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"id": "one_person_leads_confidently",
"text": "One person leads confidently"
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},
{
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"id": "we_switch_back_and_forth",
"text": "We switch back and forth"
},
{
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"id": "neither_person_takes_control",
"text": "Neither person takes control"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_070",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How would you like leadership to change during intimacy?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"power",
"roles",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "switch_when_the_mood_shifts",
"text": "Switch when the mood shifts"
},
{
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"id": "take_turns_by_agreement",
"text": "Take turns by agreement"
},
{
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"id": "let_one_person_lead_throughout",
"text": "Let one person lead throughout"
},
{
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"id": "keep_everything_fully_shared",
"text": "Keep everything fully shared"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_071",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How do you feel about consensual roughness?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"roughness",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "interested_within_clear_limits",
"text": "Interested within clear limits"
},
{
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"id": "only_mildly_and_occasionally",
"text": "Only mildly and occasionally"
},
{
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"id": "curious_after_a_detailed_talk",
"text": "Curious after a detailed talk"
},
{
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"id": "i_would_rather_skip_it",
"text": "I would rather skip it"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_072",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which check-in makes intensity easiest to adjust?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"intensity",
"feedback",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "ask_for_a_number_from_one_to_five",
"text": "Ask for a number from one to five"
},
{
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"id": "use_softer_or_stronger",
"text": "Use softer or stronger"
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},
{
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"id": "pause_and_ask_directly",
"text": "Pause and ask directly"
},
{
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"id": "let_me_guide_with_my_hands",
"text": "Let me guide with my hands"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_073",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What is your reaction to pet names in private?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"pet_names",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "very_sexy",
"text": "Very sexy"
},
{
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"id": "sweet_more_than_sexy",
"text": "Sweet more than sexy"
},
{
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"id": "only_certain_names_work",
"text": "Only certain names work"
},
{
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"id": "i_prefer_my_actual_name",
"text": "I prefer my actual name"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_074",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which kind of name sounds best in the moment?",
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"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"names",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "my_usual_nickname",
"text": "My usual nickname"
},
{
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"id": "a_private_pet_name",
"text": "A private pet name"
},
{
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"id": "my_full_first_name",
"text": "My full first name"
},
{
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"id": "no_name_at_all",
"text": "No name at all"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_075",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which discreet public flirt would make you smirk?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"public_flirting",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_knowing_look",
"text": "A knowing look"
},
{
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"id": "a_hand_at_my_lower_back",
"text": "A hand at my lower back"
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},
{
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"id": "a_private_whisper",
"text": "A private whisper"
},
{
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"id": "a_message_only_i_can_see",
"text": "A message only I can see"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_076",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which public-flirting limit would help you relax most?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"public_flirting",
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"boundaries",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "keep_it_invisible_to_others",
"text": "Keep it invisible to others"
},
{
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"id": "no_sexual_touching",
"text": "No sexual touching"
},
{
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"id": "no_private_details_aloud",
"text": "No private details aloud"
},
{
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"id": "ask_before_trying_anything_new",
"text": "Ask before trying anything new"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_077",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What keeps flirty messages feeling private and fun?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"digital_privacy",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "no_messages_on_shared_screens",
"text": "No messages on shared screens"
},
{
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"id": "use_harmless_code_words",
"text": "Use harmless code words"
},
{
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"id": "ask_before_sending_anything_bold",
"text": "Ask before sending anything bold"
},
{
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"id": "agree_what_gets_saved",
"text": "Agree what gets saved"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_078",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How do intimate photos fit into your comfort zone?",
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"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"photos",
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"privacy",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "comfortable_when_we_both_agree",
"text": "Comfortable when we both agree"
},
{
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"id": "only_non_explicit_photos",
"text": "Only non-explicit photos"
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},
{
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"id": "only_photos_kept_on_one_device",
"text": "Only photos kept on one device"
},
{
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"id": "they_do_not_fit_my_comfort_zone",
"text": "They do not fit my comfort zone"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_079",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What would make sharing a private photo feel safest?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"photos",
"consent",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "asking_before_every_photo",
"text": "Asking before every photo"
},
{
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"id": "agreeing_where_it_is_stored",
"text": "Agreeing where it is stored"
},
{
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"id": "never_showing_anyone_else",
"text": "Never showing anyone else"
},
{
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"id": "deleting_it_whenever_requested",
"text": "Deleting it whenever requested"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_080",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which new idea would need the most advance discussion for you?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"consent",
"new_experiences",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "trying_a_new_role",
"text": "Trying a new role"
},
{
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"id": "adding_a_toy",
"text": "Adding a toy"
},
{
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"id": "increasing_intensity",
"text": "Increasing intensity"
},
{
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"id": "recording_anything",
"text": "Recording anything"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_081",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which feedback phrase would be easiest to say aloud?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"feedback",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_little_softer",
"text": "A little softer"
},
{
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"id": "keep_doing_that",
"text": "Keep doing that"
},
{
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"id": "slower_please",
"text": "Slower, please"
},
{
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"id": "i_want_something_different",
"text": "I want something different"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_082",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which physical cue should your partner learn to read?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"body_cues",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "pulling_closer",
"text": "Pulling closer"
},
{
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"id": "becoming_still",
"text": "Becoming still"
},
{
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"id": "changing_my_breathing",
"text": "Changing my breathing"
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},
{
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"id": "guiding_their_hand",
"text": "Guiding their hand"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_083",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "When should your partner check in about pace?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"check_ins",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "whenever_something_changes",
"text": "Whenever something changes"
},
{
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"id": "when_my_body_language_shifts",
"text": "When my body language shifts"
},
{
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"id": "at_a_few_natural_pauses",
"text": "At a few natural pauses"
},
{
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"id": "only_when_i_ask",
"text": "Only when I ask"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_084",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What should happen if you change your mind midway?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"consent",
"changing_mind",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "stop_without_debate",
"text": "Stop without debate"
},
{
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"id": "ask_what_i_want_now",
"text": "Ask what I want now"
},
{
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"id": "switch_to_nonsexual_touch",
"text": "Switch to nonsexual touch"
},
{
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"id": "give_me_space",
"text": "Give me space"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_085",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What response makes a clear stop feel fully respected?",
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"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"consent",
"stop",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "immediate_stillness",
"text": "Immediate stillness"
},
{
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"id": "a_calm_verbal_acknowledgment",
"text": "A calm verbal acknowledgment"
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},
{
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"id": "no_questions_until_later",
"text": "No questions until later"
},
{
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"id": "reassurance_without_pressure",
"text": "Reassurance without pressure"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_086",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What helps most when an intimate moment turns awkward?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"awkward_moments",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "laugh_together",
"text": "Laugh together"
},
{
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"id": "pause_and_reset",
"text": "Pause and reset"
},
{
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"id": "talk_about_it_gently",
"text": "Talk about it gently"
},
{
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"id": "cuddle_and_move_on",
"text": "Cuddle and move on"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_087",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What helps you stay confident in your body during intimacy?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"body_confidence",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "warm_lighting",
"text": "Warm lighting"
},
{
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"id": "enthusiastic_attention",
"text": "Enthusiastic attention"
},
{
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"id": "no_critical_comments",
"text": "No critical comments"
},
{
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"id": "freedom_to_choose_what_stays_covered",
"text": "Freedom to choose what stays covered"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_088",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How do you like your partner to admire you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"admiration",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "say_exactly_what_they_notice",
"text": "Say exactly what they notice"
},
{
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"id": "look_without_saying_much",
"text": "Look without saying much"
},
{
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"id": "touch_me_while_complimenting_me",
"text": "Touch me while complimenting me"
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},
{
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"id": "save_the_praise_for_afterward",
"text": "Save the praise for afterward"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_089",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which way of guiding your partner feels most natural?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"guidance",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "move_their_hand_gently",
"text": "Move their hand gently"
},
{
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"id": "say_what_i_want_softly",
"text": "Say what I want softly"
},
{
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"id": "give_clear_directions",
"text": "Give clear directions"
},
{
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"id": "show_them_another_time",
"text": "Show them another time"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_090",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How do you prefer receiving guidance from your partner?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"guidance",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_quiet_suggestion",
"text": "A quiet suggestion"
},
{
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"id": "a_direct_request",
"text": "A direct request"
},
{
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"id": "their_hand_guiding_mine",
"text": "Their hand guiding mine"
},
{
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"id": "a_conversation_before_intimacy",
"text": "A conversation before intimacy"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_091",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What removes the most pressure around orgasm?",
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"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"orgasm_pressure",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "not_treating_it_as_the_goal",
"text": "Not treating it as the goal"
},
{
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"id": "no_pretending",
"text": "No pretending"
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},
{
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"id": "freedom_to_stop_trying",
"text": "Freedom to stop trying"
},
{
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"id": "focusing_on_pleasure_instead",
"text": "Focusing on pleasure instead"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_092",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What can make intimacy satisfying without a big finish?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"satisfaction",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "feeling_deeply_connected",
"text": "Feeling deeply connected"
},
{
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"id": "lots_of_affectionate_touch",
"text": "Lots of affectionate touch"
},
{
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"id": "playful_exploration",
"text": "Playful exploration"
},
{
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"id": "ending_whenever_it_feels_right",
"text": "Ending whenever it feels right"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_093",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How should we handle nights when our desire levels differ?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"desire_mismatch",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "choose_nonsexual_closeness",
"text": "Choose nonsexual closeness"
},
{
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"id": "let_the_interested_partner_ask_once",
"text": "Let the interested partner ask once"
},
{
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"id": "make_a_plan_for_another_time",
"text": "Make a plan for another time"
},
{
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"id": "give_each_other_space_kindly",
"text": "Give each other space kindly"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_094",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What helps you recover after an interruption?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"interruptions",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_few_quiet_minutes",
"text": "A few quiet minutes"
},
{
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"id": "start_over_with_kissing",
"text": "Start over with kissing"
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},
{
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"id": "laugh_and_reset",
"text": "Laugh and reset"
},
{
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"id": "save_the_mood_for_later",
"text": "Save the mood for later"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_095",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which emotional tone makes intimacy feel richest?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"emotional_tone",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "tender_and_connected",
"text": "Tender and connected"
},
{
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"id": "playful_and_carefree",
"text": "Playful and carefree"
},
{
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"id": "intense_and_focused",
"text": "Intense and focused"
},
{
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"id": "calm_and_reassuring",
"text": "Calm and reassuring"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_096",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How would you most like a private moment to wind down?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"ending",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "slow_affectionate_touch",
"text": "Slow affectionate touch"
},
{
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"id": "a_final_playful_kiss",
"text": "A final playful kiss"
},
{
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"id": "quiet_closeness",
"text": "Quiet closeness"
},
{
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"id": "a_clear_goodnight_and_rest",
"text": "A clear goodnight and rest"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_097",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What do you usually need before falling asleep afterward?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"sleep_after",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "close_cuddling",
"text": "Close cuddling"
},
{
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"id": "a_little_conversation",
"text": "A little conversation"
},
{
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"id": "water_and_a_bathroom_break",
"text": "Water and a bathroom break"
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},
{
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"id": "some_personal_space",
"text": "Some personal space"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_098",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What kind of next-day check-in feels best?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"next_day",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_sweet_message",
"text": "A sweet message"
},
{
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"id": "a_quick_was_that_good_question",
"text": "A quick was-that-good question"
},
{
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"id": "a_playful_callback",
"text": "A playful callback"
},
{
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"id": "no_formal_check_in_unless_needed",
"text": "No formal check-in unless needed"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_099",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "When should conversations about sexual frequency happen?",
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"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"frequency",
"communication",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "during_a_calm_private_talk",
"text": "During a calm private talk"
},
{
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"id": "as_part_of_regular_check_ins",
"text": "As part of regular check-ins"
},
{
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"id": "only_when_one_of_us_is_unhappy",
"text": "Only when one of us is unhappy"
},
{
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"id": "by_focusing_on_quality_not_numbers",
"text": "By focusing on quality, not numbers"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_100",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Before trying something unfamiliar, what would give you the most confidence?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"new_experiences",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "both_people_sound_genuinely_interested",
"text": "Both people sound genuinely interested"
},
{
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"id": "clear_limits_are_agreed",
"text": "Clear limits are agreed"
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},
{
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"id": "there_is_an_easy_stop_option",
"text": "There is an easy stop option"
},
{
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"id": "no_one_feels_rushed",
"text": "No one feels rushed"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_101",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which voice tone makes a simple invitation feel irresistible?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"voice",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "low_and_quiet",
"text": "Low and quiet"
},
{
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"id": "warm_and_affectionate",
"text": "Warm and affectionate"
},
{
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"id": "playful_and_mischievous",
"text": "Playful and mischievous"
},
{
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"id": "direct_and_confident",
"text": "Direct and confident"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_102",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What signal from across the room feels most exciting?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"signals",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_long_look",
"text": "A long look"
},
{
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"id": "a_private_smile",
"text": "A private smile"
},
{
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"id": "a_subtle_gesture",
"text": "A subtle gesture"
},
{
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"id": "a_message_sent_from_nearby",
"text": "A message sent from nearby"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_103",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which anticipation game would you happily play?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"games",
"anticipation",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "choose_a_secret_time",
"text": "Choose a secret time"
},
{
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"id": "trade_one_tempting_clue",
"text": "Trade one tempting clue"
},
{
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"id": "pick_each_others_first_move",
"text": "Pick each other's first move"
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},
{
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"id": "make_a_playful_promise_for_later",
"text": "Make a playful promise for later"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_104",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How much clothing usually helps you feel most confident?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"clothing",
"body_confidence",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "dressed_up_at_first",
"text": "Dressed up at first"
},
{
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"id": "something_comfortable_and_flattering",
"text": "Something comfortable and flattering"
},
{
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"id": "as_little_as_feels_natural",
"text": "As little as feels natural"
},
{
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"id": "it_depends_entirely_on_the_day",
"text": "It depends entirely on the day"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_105",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How do mirrors affect your comfort during intimacy?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"mirrors",
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"body_confidence",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "they_can_feel_exciting",
"text": "They can feel exciting"
},
{
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"id": "only_in_low_light",
"text": "Only in low light"
},
{
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"id": "i_usually_ignore_them",
"text": "I usually ignore them"
},
{
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"id": "i_prefer_not_to_have_one_visible",
"text": "I prefer not to have one visible"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_106",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "How talkative do you like intimate moments to be?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"talking",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "a_lot_of_honest_feedback",
"text": "A lot of honest feedback"
},
{
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"id": "a_few_clear_words",
"text": "A few clear words"
},
{
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"id": "mostly_playful_sounds_and_reactions",
"text": "Mostly playful sounds and reactions"
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},
{
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"id": "very_little_talking",
"text": "Very little talking"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_107",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What kind of silence feels sexy rather than uncertain?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"silence",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "focused_eye_contact",
"text": "Focused eye contact"
},
{
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"id": "relaxed_breathing_together",
"text": "Relaxed breathing together"
},
{
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"id": "a_reassuring_touch",
"text": "A reassuring touch"
},
{
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"id": "silence_after_a_clear_check_in",
"text": "Silence after a clear check-in"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_108",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What makes a familiar routine feel fresh again?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"variety",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "changing_the_pace",
"text": "Changing the pace"
},
{
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"id": "starting_somewhere_unexpected",
"text": "Starting somewhere unexpected"
},
{
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"id": "taking_turns_choosing",
"text": "Taking turns choosing"
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},
{
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"id": "adding_one_jointly_chosen_detail",
"text": "Adding one jointly chosen detail"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_109",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which kind of adventure stays inside your comfort zone?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"adventure",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "trying_a_new_mood",
"text": "Trying a new mood"
},
{
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"id": "changing_the_setting",
"text": "Changing the setting"
},
{
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"id": "exploring_a_shared_curiosity",
"text": "Exploring a shared curiosity"
},
{
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"id": "making_the_usual_feel_more_playful",
"text": "Making the usual feel more playful"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "sexual_preferences_110",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
"sex": "neutral",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which answer would you most hope your partner notices?",
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"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"reveal",
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"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "how_i_like_to_be_approached",
"text": "How I like to be approached"
},
{
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"id": "what_makes_me_feel_wanted",
"text": "What makes me feel wanted"
},
{
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"id": "where_my_boundaries_are",
"text": "Where my boundaries are"
},
{
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"id": "what_i_secretly_want_more_of",
"text": "What I secretly want more of"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_001",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would receiving a boldly flirty message during the day excite you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"messages",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_002",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would you enjoy being pulled closer after giving a clear yes?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"initiation",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_003",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would letting your partner choose the music for a private night appeal to you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"music",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_004",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Does hearing unmistakable desire in your partner's words excite you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"words",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_005",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would a gentle morning invitation appeal to you once you are fully awake?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"morning",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_006",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would you enjoy letting your partner plan the whole private evening?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"planning",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_007",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would being guided with clear, welcome direction feel exciting to you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"guidance",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_008",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would you enjoy your partner taking the lead after checking in?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"power",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_009",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would being teased slowly over several hours appeal to you?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"anticipation",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_010",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would you be open to your partner suggesting a toy to choose together?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"toys",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_011",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would wearing a blindfold feel exciting after clear agreement and boundaries?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"sensory_play",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_012",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would a long, unhurried massage help awaken your desire?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"massage",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_013",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Would you enjoy your partner choosing a playful role for themselves?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"role_play",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_014",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would detailed praise about your effect on your partner turn you on?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"praise",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_015",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Does a thoughtfully planned date with a no-pressure exit sound exciting?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"surprise_date",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_016",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would you enjoy giving your partner the kind of aftercare they request?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"aftercare",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_017",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Would inviting your partner to share a fantasy first feel comfortable?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"fantasy",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_018",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would you feel good slowing down when your partner's cues change?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"responsiveness",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_019",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would offering your partner the lead partway through appeal to you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"power",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_female_020",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"sex": "female",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would you enjoy explaining afterward what made you feel most wanted?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"feedback",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_001",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would sending a boldly flirty daytime message feel exciting to you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"messages",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_002",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would pulling your partner closer feel sexy after they clearly agree?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"initiation",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_003",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would choosing the soundtrack for a private evening appeal to you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"music",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_004",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would putting your desire into direct words feel exciting?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"words",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_005",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would you enjoy offering a gentle invitation after your partner is fully awake?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"morning",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_006",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would planning every detail of a private evening feel exciting to you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"planning",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_007",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would giving clear, welcome direction during intimacy appeal to you?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"guidance",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_008",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would taking the lead feel good after your partner welcomes it?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"power",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_009",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would building anticipation for your partner over several hours excite you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"anticipation",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_010",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Would suggesting a toy for both of you to choose feel comfortable?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"toys",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_011",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would using a blindfold with your partner feel exciting after setting clear limits?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"sensory_play",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_012",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Does giving your partner a slow massage help build your own desire?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"massage",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_013",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would choosing a playful role for yourself make intimacy more fun?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"role_play",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_014",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would giving detailed praise about your partner's effect on you feel sexy?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"praise",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_015",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Would you enjoy secretly organizing a date your partner can easily decline?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"surprise_date",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_016",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Would receiving the aftercare you ask for help you feel closer?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"aftercare",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_017",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would sharing a fantasy first feel comfortable when your partner invites you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"fantasy",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_018",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Would it help if your partner slowed down when your body cues changed?",
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"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"responsiveness",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_019",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would accepting the lead partway through an intimate moment appeal to you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"power",
"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
},
{
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"id": "sexual_preferences_male_020",
"category_id": "sexual_preferences",
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"sex": "male",
"type": "single_choice",
2026-07-11 18:11:31 -05:00
"text": "Would hearing what made your partner feel most wanted afterward appeal to you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
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"feedback",
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"desire_sync",
"paired_preference",
"sexual_preferences",
"consent_first"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
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"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
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"id": "no",
"text": "No"
}
]
}
}
]
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