Closer/seed/questions/emotional_intimacy.json

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      "id": "emotional_intimacy_001",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which small things make you feel emotionally close to me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "everyday_closeness",
        "little_things",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_remember_a_detail_i_mentioned",
          "text": "You remember a detail I mentioned"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_reach_for_me_without_a_reason",
          "text": "You reach for me without a reason"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_make_me_laugh_when_i_am_tense",
          "text": "You make me laugh when I am tense"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_notice_when_my_mood_changes",
          "text": "You notice when my mood changes"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_include_me_in_a_small_decision",
          "text": "You include me in a small decision"
        }
      ],
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          {
            "id": "you_remember_a_detail_i_mentioned",
            "text": "You remember a detail I mentioned"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_reach_for_me_without_a_reason",
            "text": "You reach for me without a reason"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_make_me_laugh_when_i_am_tense",
            "text": "You make me laugh when I am tense"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_notice_when_my_mood_changes",
            "text": "You notice when my mood changes"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_include_me_in_a_small_decision",
            "text": "You include me in a small decision"
          }
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        "max_selections": 3
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    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_002",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "After a rough day, what kind of welcome feels best?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "rough_days",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_long_hug_before_any_questions",
          "text": "A long hug before any questions"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_warm_hello_and_a_little_space",
          "text": "A warm hello and a little space"
        },
        {
          "id": "something_funny_to_break_the_tension",
          "text": "Something funny to break the tension"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_quiet_drink_or_snack_beside_you",
          "text": "A quiet drink or snack beside you"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_long_hug_before_any_questions",
            "text": "A long hug before any questions"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_warm_hello_and_a_little_space",
            "text": "A warm hello and a little space"
          },
          {
            "id": "something_funny_to_break_the_tension",
            "text": "Something funny to break the tension"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quiet_drink_or_snack_beside_you",
            "text": "A quiet drink or snack beside you"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_003",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to tell me when you need extra tenderness?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "asking_for_closeness",
        "tenderness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not easy yet",
        "max_label": "Very easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_004",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a compliment from me really land?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "compliments",
        "feeling_known",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "it_is_specific_to_something_i_did",
          "text": "It is specific to something I did"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_sounds_spontaneous_and_unplanned",
          "text": "It sounds spontaneous and unplanned"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_notices_more_than_my_appearance",
          "text": "It notices more than my appearance"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_comes_with_affectionate_eye_contact",
          "text": "It comes with affectionate eye contact"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_reflects_something_you_truly_know_about_me",
          "text": "It reflects something you truly know about me"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_is_specific_to_something_i_did",
            "text": "It is specific to something I did"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_sounds_spontaneous_and_unplanned",
            "text": "It sounds spontaneous and unplanned"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_notices_more_than_my_appearance",
            "text": "It notices more than my appearance"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_comes_with_affectionate_eye_contact",
            "text": "It comes with affectionate eye contact"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_reflects_something_you_truly_know_about_me",
            "text": "It reflects something you truly know about me"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_005",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Quiet understanding or playful reassurance?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "reassurance",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "quiet_understanding",
          "text": "Quiet understanding"
        },
        {
          "id": "playful_reassurance",
          "text": "Playful reassurance"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "quiet_understanding",
            "text": "Quiet understanding"
          },
          {
            "id": "playful_reassurance",
            "text": "Playful reassurance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_006",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When do you feel most deeply known by me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "being_known",
        "ordinary_moments",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_predict_what_you_are_about_to_say",
          "text": "I predict what you are about to say"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_remember_what_usually_wears_you_out",
          "text": "I remember what usually wears you out"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_know_when_you_want_company",
          "text": "I know when you want company"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_bring_up_something_you_care_about",
          "text": "I bring up something you care about"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_understand_a_joke_nobody_else_would",
          "text": "I understand a joke nobody else would"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_predict_what_you_are_about_to_say",
            "text": "I predict what you are about to say"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_remember_what_usually_wears_you_out",
            "text": "I remember what usually wears you out"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_know_when_you_want_company",
            "text": "I know when you want company"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_bring_up_something_you_care_about",
            "text": "I bring up something you care about"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_understand_a_joke_nobody_else_would",
            "text": "I understand a joke nobody else would"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_007",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one recent moment when you felt understood by me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "recent_memory",
        "understanding",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 500,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_008",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When you are quiet, which kinds of closeness still feel good?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "quiet_closeness",
        "low_pressure",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "sitting_near_each_other_without_talking",
          "text": "Sitting near each other without talking"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_hand_resting_on_your_leg",
          "text": "A hand resting on your leg"
        },
        {
          "id": "doing_separate_things_in_the_same_room",
          "text": "Doing separate things in the same room"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_brief_check_in_with_no_follow_up_pressure",
          "text": "A brief check-in with no follow-up pressure"
        },
        {
          "id": "sharing_music_in_comfortable_silence",
          "text": "Sharing music in comfortable silence"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sitting_near_each_other_without_talking",
            "text": "Sitting near each other without talking"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_resting_on_your_leg",
            "text": "A hand resting on your leg"
          },
          {
            "id": "doing_separate_things_in_the_same_room",
            "text": "Doing separate things in the same room"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_brief_check_in_with_no_follow_up_pressure",
            "text": "A brief check-in with no follow-up pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "sharing_music_in_comfortable_silence",
            "text": "Sharing music in comfortable silence"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_009",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of check-in feels most natural to you?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "check_ins",
        "natural_connection",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "how_are_you_really_doing",
          "text": "How are you really doing?"
        },
        {
          "id": "need_anything_from_me_tonight",
          "text": "Need anything from me tonight?"
        },
        {
          "id": "what_part_of_your_day_stuck_with_you",
          "text": "What part of your day stuck with you?"
        },
        {
          "id": "want_company_or_some_breathing_room",
          "text": "Want company or some breathing room?"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "how_are_you_really_doing",
            "text": "How are you really doing?"
          },
          {
            "id": "need_anything_from_me_tonight",
            "text": "Need anything from me tonight?"
          },
          {
            "id": "what_part_of_your_day_stuck_with_you",
            "text": "What part of your day stuck with you?"
          },
          {
            "id": "want_company_or_some_breathing_room",
            "text": "Want company or some breathing room?"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_010",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes affection feel emotionally meaningful to you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "meaning",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "it_happens_outside_romantic_moments",
          "text": "It happens outside romantic moments"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_matches_the_mood_i_am_in",
          "text": "It matches the mood I am in"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_is_offered_without_expecting_more",
          "text": "It is offered without expecting more"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_feels_personal_rather_than_automatic",
          "text": "It feels personal rather than automatic"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_continues_after_a_difficult_day",
          "text": "It continues after a difficult day"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_happens_outside_romantic_moments",
            "text": "It happens outside romantic moments"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_matches_the_mood_i_am_in",
            "text": "It matches the mood I am in"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_is_offered_without_expecting_more",
            "text": "It is offered without expecting more"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_feels_personal_rather_than_automatic",
            "text": "It feels personal rather than automatic"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_continues_after_a_difficult_day",
            "text": "It continues after a difficult day"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_011",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How connected have you felt to me lately?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "current_closeness",
        "connection",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "A little distant",
        "max_label": "Very connected"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_012",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs tell you I am paying attention to your inner world?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "attention",
        "inner_world",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_ask_about_something_you_mentioned_earlier",
          "text": "I ask about something you mentioned earlier"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_notice_when_your_energy_is_different",
          "text": "I notice when your energy is different"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_remember_what_you_were_worried_about",
          "text": "I remember what you were worried about"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_celebrate_things_that_matter_to_you",
          "text": "I celebrate things that matter to you"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_give_you_room_when_you_are_thinking",
          "text": "I give you room when you are thinking"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_ask_about_something_you_mentioned_earlier",
            "text": "I ask about something you mentioned earlier"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_notice_when_your_energy_is_different",
            "text": "I notice when your energy is different"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_remember_what_you_were_worried_about",
            "text": "I remember what you were worried about"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_celebrate_things_that_matter_to_you",
            "text": "I celebrate things that matter to you"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_give_you_room_when_you_are_thinking",
            "text": "I give you room when you are thinking"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_013",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you doubt yourself, what kind of reassurance helps most?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "self_doubt",
        "reassurance",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "remind_me_what_i_have_already_handled",
          "text": "Remind me what I have already handled"
        },
        {
          "id": "tell_me_what_you_genuinely_see_in_me",
          "text": "Tell me what you genuinely see in me"
        },
        {
          "id": "stay_close_while_i_find_my_footing",
          "text": "Stay close while I find my footing"
        },
        {
          "id": "help_me_laugh_at_the_worst_case_story",
          "text": "Help me laugh at the worst-case story"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "remind_me_what_i_have_already_handled",
            "text": "Remind me what I have already handled"
          },
          {
            "id": "tell_me_what_you_genuinely_see_in_me",
            "text": "Tell me what you genuinely see in me"
          },
          {
            "id": "stay_close_while_i_find_my_footing",
            "text": "Stay close while I find my footing"
          },
          {
            "id": "help_me_laugh_at_the_worst_case_story",
            "text": "Help me laugh at the worst-case story"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_014",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you receive comfort without feeling crowded?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "receiving_comfort",
        "personal_space",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_ask_before_giving_advice",
          "text": "You ask before giving advice"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_let_me_choose_how_much_to_share",
          "text": "You let me choose how much to share"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_keep_your_voice_calm_and_normal",
          "text": "You keep your voice calm and normal"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_stay_nearby_without_hovering",
          "text": "You stay nearby without hovering"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_do_not_treat_my_mood_like_an_emergency",
          "text": "You do not treat my mood like an emergency"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_ask_before_giving_advice",
            "text": "You ask before giving advice"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_let_me_choose_how_much_to_share",
            "text": "You let me choose how much to share"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_keep_your_voice_calm_and_normal",
            "text": "You keep your voice calm and normal"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_stay_nearby_without_hovering",
            "text": "You stay nearby without hovering"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_do_not_treat_my_mood_like_an_emergency",
            "text": "You do not treat my mood like an emergency"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_015",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which everyday gestures make you feel chosen?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "feeling_chosen",
        "daily_life",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_save_you_a_spot_beside_me",
          "text": "I save you a spot beside me"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_look_for_you_when_something_funny_happens",
          "text": "I look for you when something funny happens"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_bring_you_into_a_conversation",
          "text": "I bring you into a conversation"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_check_what_you_would_enjoy_too",
          "text": "I check what you would enjoy too"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_greet_you_like_i_am_glad_you_are_here",
          "text": "I greet you like I am glad you are here"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_save_you_a_spot_beside_me",
            "text": "I save you a spot beside me"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_look_for_you_when_something_funny_happens",
            "text": "I look for you when something funny happens"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_bring_you_into_a_conversation",
            "text": "I bring you into a conversation"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_check_what_you_would_enjoy_too",
            "text": "I check what you would enjoy too"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_greet_you_like_i_am_glad_you_are_here",
            "text": "I greet you like I am glad you are here"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_016",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you being a little vulnerable with me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "vulnerability",
        "comfort",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Still cautious",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_017",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps a serious feeling from becoming too heavy between us?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "emotional_weight",
        "gentleness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "knowing_we_can_pause_whenever_needed",
          "text": "Knowing we can pause whenever needed"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_little_warmth_in_the_way_we_speak",
          "text": "A little warmth in the way we speak"
        },
        {
          "id": "not_having_to_explain_every_detail",
          "text": "Not having to explain every detail"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_touch_of_humor_at_the_right_moment",
          "text": "A touch of humor at the right moment"
        },
        {
          "id": "ending_with_affection_instead_of_picking_it_apart",
          "text": "Ending with affection instead of picking it apart"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "knowing_we_can_pause_whenever_needed",
            "text": "Knowing we can pause whenever needed"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_little_warmth_in_the_way_we_speak",
            "text": "A little warmth in the way we speak"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_having_to_explain_every_detail",
            "text": "Not having to explain every detail"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_touch_of_humor_at_the_right_moment",
            "text": "A touch of humor at the right moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "ending_with_affection_instead_of_picking_it_apart",
            "text": "Ending with affection instead of picking it apart"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_018",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "If you want closeness without a big talk, what sounds best?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "low_pressure_closeness",
        "simple_needs",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "curling_up_together_for_one_episode",
          "text": "Curling up together for one episode"
        },
        {
          "id": "taking_a_slow_drive_with_music",
          "text": "Taking a slow drive with music"
        },
        {
          "id": "holding_hands_while_we_do_something_ordinary",
          "text": "Holding hands while we do something ordinary"
        },
        {
          "id": "lying_together_for_a_few_quiet_minutes",
          "text": "Lying together for a few quiet minutes"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "curling_up_together_for_one_episode",
            "text": "Curling up together for one episode"
          },
          {
            "id": "taking_a_slow_drive_with_music",
            "text": "Taking a slow drive with music"
          },
          {
            "id": "holding_hands_while_we_do_something_ordinary",
            "text": "Holding hands while we do something ordinary"
          },
          {
            "id": "lying_together_for_a_few_quiet_minutes",
            "text": "Lying together for a few quiet minutes"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_019",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which actions leave you feeling emotionally appreciated?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "appreciation",
        "emotional_value",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_thank_you_for_the_invisible_things",
          "text": "I thank you for the invisible things"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_notice_the_effort_behind_what_you_do",
          "text": "I notice the effort behind what you do"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_tell_other_people_something_i_admire",
          "text": "I tell other people something I admire"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_acknowledge_what_a_day_cost_you",
          "text": "I acknowledge what a day cost you"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_make_sure_your_feelings_are_not_an_afterthought",
          "text": "I make sure your feelings are not an afterthought"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_thank_you_for_the_invisible_things",
            "text": "I thank you for the invisible things"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_notice_the_effort_behind_what_you_do",
            "text": "I notice the effort behind what you do"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_tell_other_people_something_i_admire",
            "text": "I tell other people something I admire"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_acknowledge_what_a_day_cost_you",
            "text": "I acknowledge what a day cost you"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_make_sure_your_feelings_are_not_an_afterthought",
            "text": "I make sure your feelings are not an afterthought"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_020",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of your day do you most enjoy sharing with me?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "sharing_daily_life",
        "curiosity",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "the_funniest_thing_that_happened",
          "text": "The funniest thing that happened"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_part_that_drained_me",
          "text": "The part that drained me"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_thought_i_could_not_stop_having",
          "text": "A thought I could not stop having"
        },
        {
          "id": "something_small_i_am_proud_of",
          "text": "Something small I am proud of"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_moment_i_wished_you_were_there",
          "text": "The moment I wished you were there"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_funniest_thing_that_happened",
            "text": "The funniest thing that happened"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_part_that_drained_me",
            "text": "The part that drained me"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_thought_i_could_not_stop_having",
            "text": "A thought I could not stop having"
          },
          {
            "id": "something_small_i_am_proud_of",
            "text": "Something small I am proud of"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_moment_i_wished_you_were_there",
            "text": "The moment I wished you were there"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_021",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which surprise from me would brighten your day most?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "surprises",
        "warmth",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_text_about_something_specific_i_love_about_you",
          "text": "A text about something specific I love about you"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_memory_that_made_me_think_of_us",
          "text": "A memory that made me think of us"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_small_plan_built_around_your_mood",
          "text": "A small plan built around your mood"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_voice_note_because_i_missed_you",
          "text": "A voice note because I missed you"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_text_about_something_specific_i_love_about_you",
            "text": "A text about something specific I love about you"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_memory_that_made_me_think_of_us",
            "text": "A memory that made me think of us"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_small_plan_built_around_your_mood",
            "text": "A small plan built around your mood"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_voice_note_because_i_missed_you",
            "text": "A voice note because I missed you"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_022",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes our private world feel special to you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "private_world",
        "couple_identity",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "the_phrases_only_we_use",
          "text": "The phrases only we use"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_looks_that_say_a_whole_sentence",
          "text": "The looks that say a whole sentence"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_stories_we_tell_differently_than_anyone_else",
          "text": "The stories we tell differently than anyone else"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_way_we_can_be_ridiculous_together",
          "text": "The way we can be ridiculous together"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_version_of_ourselves_that_comes_out_at_home",
          "text": "The version of ourselves that comes out at home"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_phrases_only_we_use",
            "text": "The phrases only we use"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_looks_that_say_a_whole_sentence",
            "text": "The looks that say a whole sentence"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_stories_we_tell_differently_than_anyone_else",
            "text": "The stories we tell differently than anyone else"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_way_we_can_be_ridiculous_together",
            "text": "The way we can be ridiculous together"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_version_of_ourselves_that_comes_out_at_home",
            "text": "The version of ourselves that comes out at home"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_023",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When life feels heavy, what helps you feel less alone with me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "hard_times",
        "companionship",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_sit_with_me_before_trying_to_fix_anything",
          "text": "You sit with me before trying to fix anything"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_remind_me_we_can_handle_one_piece_at_a_time",
          "text": "You remind me we can handle one piece at a time"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_take_one_small_burden_off_my_plate",
          "text": "You take one small burden off my plate"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_stay_affectionate_even_when_i_am_withdrawn",
          "text": "You stay affectionate even when I am withdrawn"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_check_back_later_instead_of_assuming_i_am_fine",
          "text": "You check back later instead of assuming I am fine"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_sit_with_me_before_trying_to_fix_anything",
            "text": "You sit with me before trying to fix anything"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_remind_me_we_can_handle_one_piece_at_a_time",
            "text": "You remind me we can handle one piece at a time"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_take_one_small_burden_off_my_plate",
            "text": "You take one small burden off my plate"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_stay_affectionate_even_when_i_am_withdrawn",
            "text": "You stay affectionate even when I am withdrawn"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_check_back_later_instead_of_assuming_i_am_fine",
            "text": "You check back later instead of assuming I am fine"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_024",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you need encouragement, what do you want first?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "encouragement",
        "support_preferences",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "confidence_that_i_can_handle_it",
          "text": "Confidence that I can handle it"
        },
        {
          "id": "permission_to_be_tired_for_a_minute",
          "text": "Permission to be tired for a minute"
        },
        {
          "id": "help_seeing_the_next_small_step",
          "text": "Help seeing the next small step"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_reminder_of_why_it_matters_to_me",
          "text": "A reminder of why it matters to me"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "confidence_that_i_can_handle_it",
            "text": "Confidence that I can handle it"
          },
          {
            "id": "permission_to_be_tired_for_a_minute",
            "text": "Permission to be tired for a minute"
          },
          {
            "id": "help_seeing_the_next_small_step",
            "text": "Help seeing the next small step"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_reminder_of_why_it_matters_to_me",
            "text": "A reminder of why it matters to me"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_025",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a hug feel emotionally comforting to you?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_comfort",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "it_lasts_long_enough_for_me_to_settle",
          "text": "It lasts long enough for me to settle"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_happens_before_either_of_us_explains",
          "text": "It happens before either of us explains"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_hold_me_firmly_but_not_tightly",
          "text": "You hold me firmly but not tightly"
        },
        {
          "id": "there_is_a_soft_word_or_kiss_with_it",
          "text": "There is a soft word or kiss with it"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_let_me_be_the_first_to_pull_away",
          "text": "You let me be the first to pull away"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_lasts_long_enough_for_me_to_settle",
            "text": "It lasts long enough for me to settle"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_happens_before_either_of_us_explains",
            "text": "It happens before either of us explains"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_hold_me_firmly_but_not_tightly",
            "text": "You hold me firmly but not tightly"
          },
          {
            "id": "there_is_a_soft_word_or_kiss_with_it",
            "text": "There is a soft word or kiss with it"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_let_me_be_the_first_to_pull_away",
            "text": "You let me be the first to pull away"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_026",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel remembered when we are apart?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "apart",
        "being_remembered",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_message_tied_to_something_we_talked_about",
          "text": "A message tied to something we talked about"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_photo_of_something_that_made_you_think_of_me",
          "text": "A photo of something that made you think of me"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_quick_update_from_the_middle_of_your_day",
          "text": "A quick update from the middle of your day"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_song_that_reminded_you_of_us",
          "text": "A song that reminded you of us"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_plan_for_when_we_are_together_again",
          "text": "A plan for when we are together again"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_message_tied_to_something_we_talked_about",
            "text": "A message tied to something we talked about"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_photo_of_something_that_made_you_think_of_me",
            "text": "A photo of something that made you think of me"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_update_from_the_middle_of_your_day",
            "text": "A quick update from the middle of your day"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_song_that_reminded_you_of_us",
            "text": "A song that reminded you of us"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_plan_for_when_we_are_together_again",
            "text": "A plan for when we are together again"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_027",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of “I miss you” feels best to receive?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "missing_each_other",
        "messages",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_simple_text_with_no_extra_explanation",
          "text": "A simple text with no extra explanation"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_funny_callback_to_our_last_time_together",
          "text": "A funny callback to our last time together"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_voice_note_that_sounds_genuinely_affectionate",
          "text": "A voice note that sounds genuinely affectionate"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_specific_thing_you_miss_about_having_me_there",
          "text": "A specific thing you miss about having me there"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_simple_text_with_no_extra_explanation",
            "text": "A simple text with no extra explanation"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_funny_callback_to_our_last_time_together",
            "text": "A funny callback to our last time together"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_voice_note_that_sounds_genuinely_affectionate",
            "text": "A voice note that sounds genuinely affectionate"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_specific_thing_you_miss_about_having_me_there",
            "text": "A specific thing you miss about having me there"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_028",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes you feel proud to be with me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "pride",
        "admiration",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "the_way_i_treat_people_when_nobody_is_watching",
          "text": "The way I treat people when nobody is watching"
        },
        {
          "id": "how_i_keep_going_when_something_is_difficult",
          "text": "How I keep going when something is difficult"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_things_i_care_deeply_about",
          "text": "The things I care deeply about"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_version_of_myself_i_have_grown_into",
          "text": "The version of myself I have grown into"
        },
        {
          "id": "how_openly_i_love_the_people_who_matter_to_me",
          "text": "How openly I love the people who matter to me"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_way_i_treat_people_when_nobody_is_watching",
            "text": "The way I treat people when nobody is watching"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_i_keep_going_when_something_is_difficult",
            "text": "How I keep going when something is difficult"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_things_i_care_deeply_about",
            "text": "The things I care deeply about"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_version_of_myself_i_have_grown_into",
            "text": "The version of myself I have grown into"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_openly_i_love_the_people_who_matter_to_me",
            "text": "How openly I love the people who matter to me"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_029",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to let me celebrate you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "celebration",
        "receiving_praise",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "A little awkward",
        "max_label": "Very easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_030",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of yourself feel easiest to show me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "authenticity",
        "being_yourself",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "my_silly_side",
          "text": "My silly side"
        },
        {
          "id": "my_ambitious_side",
          "text": "My ambitious side"
        },
        {
          "id": "my_sensitive_side",
          "text": "My sensitive side"
        },
        {
          "id": "my_uncertain_side",
          "text": "My uncertain side"
        },
        {
          "id": "my_completely_unfiltered_side",
          "text": "My completely unfiltered side"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "my_silly_side",
            "text": "My silly side"
          },
          {
            "id": "my_ambitious_side",
            "text": "My ambitious side"
          },
          {
            "id": "my_sensitive_side",
            "text": "My sensitive side"
          },
          {
            "id": "my_uncertain_side",
            "text": "My uncertain side"
          },
          {
            "id": "my_completely_unfiltered_side",
            "text": "My completely unfiltered side"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_031",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A thoughtful text or a surprise hug?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "affection",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_thoughtful_text",
          "text": "A thoughtful text"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_surprise_hug",
          "text": "A surprise hug"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_thoughtful_text",
            "text": "A thoughtful text"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_surprise_hug",
            "text": "A surprise hug"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_032",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When words are not enough, what still helps you feel loved?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "nonverbal_love",
        "care",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_stay_close_instead_of_filling_the_silence",
          "text": "You stay close instead of filling the silence"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_do_one_kind_thing_without_making_a_production_of_it",
          "text": "You do one kind thing without making a production of it"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_look_at_me_with_real_softness",
          "text": "You look at me with real softness"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_make_the_room_feel_calmer",
          "text": "You make the room feel calmer"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_reach_for_my_hand",
          "text": "You reach for my hand"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_stay_close_instead_of_filling_the_silence",
            "text": "You stay close instead of filling the silence"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_do_one_kind_thing_without_making_a_production_of_it",
            "text": "You do one kind thing without making a production of it"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_look_at_me_with_real_softness",
            "text": "You look at me with real softness"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_make_the_room_feel_calmer",
            "text": "You make the room feel calmer"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_reach_for_my_hand",
            "text": "You reach for my hand"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_033",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which small ritual would make us feel closer?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "connection",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_real_hello_when_we_reunite",
          "text": "A real hello when we reunite"
        },
        {
          "id": "one_honest_question_before_bed",
          "text": "One honest question before bed"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_weekly_song_picked_for_each_other",
          "text": "A weekly song picked for each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_quiet_cup_of_something_together",
          "text": "A quiet cup of something together"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_real_hello_when_we_reunite",
            "text": "A real hello when we reunite"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_honest_question_before_bed",
            "text": "One honest question before bed"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_weekly_song_picked_for_each_other",
            "text": "A weekly song picked for each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quiet_cup_of_something_together",
            "text": "A quiet cup of something together"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_034",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What tells you I enjoy who you are, not only what you do?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "being_valued",
        "identity",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_want_your_company_when_nothing_needs_doing",
          "text": "I want your company when nothing needs doing"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_ask_what_you_think_just_because_i_am_curious",
          "text": "I ask what you think just because I am curious"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_laugh_at_the_way_your_mind_works",
          "text": "I laugh at the way your mind works"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_notice_your_personality_in_ordinary_moments",
          "text": "I notice your personality in ordinary moments"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_make_room_for_the_interests_that_are_yours_alone",
          "text": "I make room for the interests that are yours alone"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_want_your_company_when_nothing_needs_doing",
            "text": "I want your company when nothing needs doing"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_ask_what_you_think_just_because_i_am_curious",
            "text": "I ask what you think just because I am curious"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_laugh_at_the_way_your_mind_works",
            "text": "I laugh at the way your mind works"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_notice_your_personality_in_ordinary_moments",
            "text": "I notice your personality in ordinary moments"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_make_room_for_the_interests_that_are_yours_alone",
            "text": "I make room for the interests that are yours alone"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_035",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one part of you that you wish I noticed more often?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "being_noticed",
        "personal_depth",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 500,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_036",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which kinds of emotional closeness feel romantic to you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "emotional_closeness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "being_looked_at_like_you_still_cannot_believe_i_am_yours",
          "text": "Being looked at like you still cannot believe I am yours"
        },
        {
          "id": "talking_quietly_after_everyone_else_is_asleep",
          "text": "Talking quietly after everyone else is asleep"
        },
        {
          "id": "hearing_what_you_admire_about_my_inner_life",
          "text": "Hearing what you admire about my inner life"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_wanted_on_an_ordinary_day",
          "text": "Feeling wanted on an ordinary day"
        },
        {
          "id": "sharing_a_memory_that_still_has_a_pull_between_us",
          "text": "Sharing a memory that still has a pull between us"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "being_looked_at_like_you_still_cannot_believe_i_am_yours",
            "text": "Being looked at like you still cannot believe I am yours"
          },
          {
            "id": "talking_quietly_after_everyone_else_is_asleep",
            "text": "Talking quietly after everyone else is asleep"
          },
          {
            "id": "hearing_what_you_admire_about_my_inner_life",
            "text": "Hearing what you admire about my inner life"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_wanted_on_an_ordinary_day",
            "text": "Feeling wanted on an ordinary day"
          },
          {
            "id": "sharing_a_memory_that_still_has_a_pull_between_us",
            "text": "Sharing a memory that still has a pull between us"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_037",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often do you feel like I genuinely enjoy who you are?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "delight",
        "feeling_wanted",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not often lately",
        "max_label": "Very often"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_038",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a message from me feel like I genuinely missed you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "missing_each_other",
        "meaningful_messages",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "it_names_something_specific_about_you",
          "text": "It names something specific about you"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_arrives_without_needing_a_reply",
          "text": "It arrives without needing a reply"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_sounds_like_my_actual_voice",
          "text": "It sounds like my actual voice"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_brings_up_a_moment_we_shared",
          "text": "It brings up a moment we shared"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_makes_our_next_reunion_feel_closer",
          "text": "It makes our next reunion feel closer"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_names_something_specific_about_you",
            "text": "It names something specific about you"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_arrives_without_needing_a_reply",
            "text": "It arrives without needing a reply"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_sounds_like_my_actual_voice",
            "text": "It sounds like my actual voice"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_brings_up_a_moment_we_shared",
            "text": "It brings up a moment we shared"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_makes_our_next_reunion_feel_closer",
            "text": "It makes our next reunion feel closer"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_039",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of shared memory feels most emotionally powerful?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "memories",
        "shared_history",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_time_we_laughed_until_we_could_not_breathe",
          "text": "A time we laughed until we could not breathe"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_difficult_season_we_made_it_through",
          "text": "A difficult season we made it through"
        },
        {
          "id": "an_ordinary_day_that_became_unforgettable",
          "text": "An ordinary day that became unforgettable"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_moment_one_of_us_felt_deeply_cared_for",
          "text": "A moment one of us felt deeply cared for"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_time_we_laughed_until_we_could_not_breathe",
            "text": "A time we laughed until we could not breathe"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_difficult_season_we_made_it_through",
            "text": "A difficult season we made it through"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_ordinary_day_that_became_unforgettable",
            "text": "An ordinary day that became unforgettable"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_moment_one_of_us_felt_deeply_cared_for",
            "text": "A moment one of us felt deeply cared for"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_040",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes laughter feel intimate between us?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "laughter",
        "playful_closeness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "we_can_laugh_at_ourselves_without_embarrassment",
          "text": "We can laugh at ourselves without embarrassment"
        },
        {
          "id": "one_look_can_restart_an_old_joke",
          "text": "One look can restart an old joke"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_know_when_humor_will_help_and_when_it_will_not",
          "text": "We know when humor will help and when it will not"
        },
        {
          "id": "our_funniest_moments_happen_when_nobody_else_is_around",
          "text": "Our funniest moments happen when nobody else is around"
        },
        {
          "id": "laughter_brings_us_back_to_being_ourselves",
          "text": "Laughter brings us back to being ourselves"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "we_can_laugh_at_ourselves_without_embarrassment",
            "text": "We can laugh at ourselves without embarrassment"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_look_can_restart_an_old_joke",
            "text": "One look can restart an old joke"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_know_when_humor_will_help_and_when_it_will_not",
            "text": "We know when humor will help and when it will not"
          },
          {
            "id": "our_funniest_moments_happen_when_nobody_else_is_around",
            "text": "Our funniest moments happen when nobody else is around"
          },
          {
            "id": "laughter_brings_us_back_to_being_ourselves",
            "text": "Laughter brings us back to being ourselves"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_041",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Being gently teased or openly adored?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "affection_style",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "being_gently_teased",
          "text": "Being gently teased"
        },
        {
          "id": "being_openly_adored",
          "text": "Being openly adored"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "being_gently_teased",
            "text": "Being gently teased"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_openly_adored",
            "text": "Being openly adored"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_042",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes home feel warmer when we’re together?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "home_warmth",
        "belonging",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "the_way_we_greet_each_other",
          "text": "The way we greet each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "our_familiar_background_noises",
          "text": "Our familiar background noises"
        },
        {
          "id": "knowing_i_can_fully_exhale_around_you",
          "text": "Knowing I can fully exhale around you"
        },
        {
          "id": "small_affection_while_we_pass_each_other",
          "text": "Small affection while we pass each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_feeling_that_we_are_on_the_same_side",
          "text": "The feeling that we are on the same side"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_way_we_greet_each_other",
            "text": "The way we greet each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "our_familiar_background_noises",
            "text": "Our familiar background noises"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_i_can_fully_exhale_around_you",
            "text": "Knowing I can fully exhale around you"
          },
          {
            "id": "small_affection_while_we_pass_each_other",
            "text": "Small affection while we pass each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_feeling_that_we_are_on_the_same_side",
            "text": "The feeling that we are on the same side"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_043",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you share good news, what reaction do you want first?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "good_news",
        "celebration",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "big_obvious_excitement",
          "text": "Big obvious excitement"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_proud_smile_and_a_long_hug",
          "text": "A proud smile and a long hug"
        },
        {
          "id": "questions_that_show_real_interest",
          "text": "Questions that show real interest"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_playful_plan_to_celebrate",
          "text": "A playful plan to celebrate"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "big_obvious_excitement",
            "text": "Big obvious excitement"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_proud_smile_and_a_long_hug",
            "text": "A proud smile and a long hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "questions_that_show_real_interest",
            "text": "Questions that show real interest"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_playful_plan_to_celebrate",
            "text": "A playful plan to celebrate"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_044",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When you are excited, what helps you feel free to show it?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "joy",
        "emotional_freedom",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_match_my_energy_instead_of_calming_me_down",
          "text": "You match my energy instead of calming me down"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_let_me_tell_the_story_in_my_own_order",
          "text": "You let me tell the story in my own order"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_ask_about_the_part_that_matters_most_to_me",
          "text": "You ask about the part that matters most to me"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_celebrate_before_pointing_out_practical_details",
          "text": "You celebrate before pointing out practical details"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_remember_the_news_later",
          "text": "You remember the news later"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_match_my_energy_instead_of_calming_me_down",
            "text": "You match my energy instead of calming me down"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_let_me_tell_the_story_in_my_own_order",
            "text": "You let me tell the story in my own order"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_ask_about_the_part_that_matters_most_to_me",
            "text": "You ask about the part that matters most to me"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_celebrate_before_pointing_out_practical_details",
            "text": "You celebrate before pointing out practical details"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_remember_the_news_later",
            "text": "You remember the news later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_045",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When do you feel most emotionally in sync with me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "same_wavelength",
        "couple_sync",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "free",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "we_notice_the_same_funny_detail",
          "text": "We notice the same funny detail"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_both_know_when_it_is_time_to_leave",
          "text": "We both know when it is time to leave"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_say_the_same_thing_at_nearly_the_same_time",
          "text": "We say the same thing at nearly the same time"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_understand_what_the_other_needs_without_a_speech",
          "text": "We understand what the other needs without a speech"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_turn_toward_each_other_during_a_crowded_moment",
          "text": "We turn toward each other during a crowded moment"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "we_notice_the_same_funny_detail",
            "text": "We notice the same funny detail"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_both_know_when_it_is_time_to_leave",
            "text": "We both know when it is time to leave"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_say_the_same_thing_at_nearly_the_same_time",
            "text": "We say the same thing at nearly the same time"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_understand_what_the_other_needs_without_a_speech",
            "text": "We understand what the other needs without a speech"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_turn_toward_each_other_during_a_crowded_moment",
            "text": "We turn toward each other during a crowded moment"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_046",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel loved when neither of us is at our best?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "imperfect_days",
        "steady_love",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "we_stay_kind_even_when_we_are_tired",
          "text": "We stay kind even when we are tired"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_do_not_demand_the_best_version_of_each_other",
          "text": "We do not demand the best version of each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_recover_from_small_off_moments_without_making_them_bigger",
          "text": "We recover from small off moments without making them bigger"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_still_find_one_moment_of_affection",
          "text": "We still find one moment of affection"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_remember_that_a_hard_day_is_not_the_whole_relationship",
          "text": "We remember that a hard day is not the whole relationship"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "we_stay_kind_even_when_we_are_tired",
            "text": "We stay kind even when we are tired"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_do_not_demand_the_best_version_of_each_other",
            "text": "We do not demand the best version of each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_recover_from_small_off_moments_without_making_them_bigger",
            "text": "We recover from small off moments without making them bigger"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_still_find_one_moment_of_affection",
            "text": "We still find one moment of affection"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_remember_that_a_hard_day_is_not_the_whole_relationship",
            "text": "We remember that a hard day is not the whole relationship"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_047",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which part of emotional closeness do you want more of lately?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "current_needs",
        "closeness_preferences",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "feeling_more_noticed",
          "text": "Feeling more noticed"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_more_comforted",
          "text": "Feeling more comforted"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_more_playful_together",
          "text": "Feeling more playful together"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_more_emotionally_wanted",
          "text": "Feeling more emotionally wanted"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "feeling_more_noticed",
            "text": "Feeling more noticed"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_more_comforted",
            "text": "Feeling more comforted"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_more_playful_together",
            "text": "Feeling more playful together"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_more_emotionally_wanted",
            "text": "Feeling more emotionally wanted"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_048",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes it easier to let me see your softer side?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "softness",
        "vulnerability",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_do_not_rush_me_to_explain",
          "text": "You do not rush me to explain"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_respond_warmly_rather_than_dramatically",
          "text": "You respond warmly rather than dramatically"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_treat_tenderness_like_something_normal",
          "text": "You treat tenderness like something normal"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_keep_the_moment_private",
          "text": "You keep the moment private"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_stay_the_same_with_me_afterward",
          "text": "You stay the same with me afterward"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_do_not_rush_me_to_explain",
            "text": "You do not rush me to explain"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_respond_warmly_rather_than_dramatically",
            "text": "You respond warmly rather than dramatically"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_treat_tenderness_like_something_normal",
            "text": "You treat tenderness like something normal"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_keep_the_moment_private",
            "text": "You keep the moment private"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_stay_the_same_with_me_afterward",
            "text": "You stay the same with me afterward"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_049",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A quiet “I know” or a detailed “tell me more”?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "understanding_style",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_quiet_i_know",
          "text": "A quiet “I know”"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_detailed_tell_me_more",
          "text": "A detailed “tell me more”"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_quiet_i_know",
            "text": "A quiet “I know”"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_detailed_tell_me_more",
            "text": "A detailed “tell me more”"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_050",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs tell you we have emotionally found our way back to each other?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "emotional_return",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "our_tone_sounds_warm_again",
          "text": "Our tone sounds warm again"
        },
        {
          "id": "affection_stops_feeling_careful",
          "text": "Affection stops feeling careful"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_start_sharing_small_thoughts_naturally",
          "text": "We start sharing small thoughts naturally"
        },
        {
          "id": "humor_returns_without_being_forced",
          "text": "Humor returns without being forced"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_room_feels_easier_when_we_are_together",
          "text": "The room feels easier when we are together"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "our_tone_sounds_warm_again",
            "text": "Our tone sounds warm again"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection_stops_feeling_careful",
            "text": "Affection stops feeling careful"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_start_sharing_small_thoughts_naturally",
            "text": "We start sharing small thoughts naturally"
          },
          {
            "id": "humor_returns_without_being_forced",
            "text": "Humor returns without being forced"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_room_feels_easier_when_we_are_together",
            "text": "The room feels easier when we are together"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_051",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes you feel emotionally wanted instead of merely included?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "belonging",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_seek_me_out_when_you_do_not_need_anything",
          "text": "You seek me out when you do not need anything"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_make_room_for_my_reaction_before_deciding",
          "text": "You make room for my reaction before deciding"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_look_genuinely_happy_when_i_join_you",
          "text": "You look genuinely happy when I join you"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_invite_me_into_the_parts_of_life_you_enjoy",
          "text": "You invite me into the parts of life you enjoy"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_choose_closeness_when_convenience_would_be_easier",
          "text": "You choose closeness when convenience would be easier"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_seek_me_out_when_you_do_not_need_anything",
            "text": "You seek me out when you do not need anything"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_make_room_for_my_reaction_before_deciding",
            "text": "You make room for my reaction before deciding"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_look_genuinely_happy_when_i_join_you",
            "text": "You look genuinely happy when I join you"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_invite_me_into_the_parts_of_life_you_enjoy",
            "text": "You invite me into the parts of life you enjoy"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_choose_closeness_when_convenience_would_be_easier",
            "text": "You choose closeness when convenience would be easier"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_052",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When I can tell something is off, what response feels best?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "mood_awareness",
        "support_preferences",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "ask_once_and_let_me_decide_how_much_to_say",
          "text": "Ask once and let me decide how much to say"
        },
        {
          "id": "offer_comfort_before_asking_what_happened",
          "text": "Offer comfort before asking what happened"
        },
        {
          "id": "stay_normal_but_a_little_more_attentive",
          "text": "Stay normal but a little more attentive"
        },
        {
          "id": "give_me_space_and_check_back_later",
          "text": "Give me space and check back later"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_once_and_let_me_decide_how_much_to_say",
            "text": "Ask once and let me decide how much to say"
          },
          {
            "id": "offer_comfort_before_asking_what_happened",
            "text": "Offer comfort before asking what happened"
          },
          {
            "id": "stay_normal_but_a_little_more_attentive",
            "text": "Stay normal but a little more attentive"
          },
          {
            "id": "give_me_space_and_check_back_later",
            "text": "Give me space and check back later"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_053",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you know your feelings matter to me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "feelings_matter",
        "care",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_remember_the_feeling_after_the_facts_have_passed",
          "text": "I remember the feeling after the facts have passed"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_do_not_argue_with_how_something_affected_you",
          "text": "I do not argue with how something affected you"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_adjust_something_small_when_i_can",
          "text": "I adjust something small when I can"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_ask_what_part_was_hardest_for_you",
          "text": "I ask what part was hardest for you"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_treat_your_reaction_as_worth_understanding",
          "text": "I treat your reaction as worth understanding"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_remember_the_feeling_after_the_facts_have_passed",
            "text": "I remember the feeling after the facts have passed"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_do_not_argue_with_how_something_affected_you",
            "text": "I do not argue with how something affected you"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_adjust_something_small_when_i_can",
            "text": "I adjust something small when I can"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_ask_what_part_was_hardest_for_you",
            "text": "I ask what part was hardest for you"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_treat_your_reaction_as_worth_understanding",
            "text": "I treat your reaction as worth understanding"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_054",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to accept comfort from me when you are upset?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "accepting_comfort",
        "openness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Usually difficult",
        "max_label": "Usually easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_055",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of your inner world would you like me to know better?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "inner_world",
        "curiosity",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "the_ideas_i_keep_returning_to",
          "text": "The ideas I keep returning to"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_fears_i_rarely_say_out_loud",
          "text": "The fears I rarely say out loud"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_things_i_secretly_hope_for",
          "text": "The things I secretly hope for"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_memories_that_shaped_how_i_see_myself",
          "text": "The memories that shaped how I see myself"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_small_joys_other_people_overlook",
          "text": "The small joys other people overlook"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_ideas_i_keep_returning_to",
            "text": "The ideas I keep returning to"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_fears_i_rarely_say_out_loud",
            "text": "The fears I rarely say out loud"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_things_i_secretly_hope_for",
            "text": "The things I secretly hope for"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_memories_that_shaped_how_i_see_myself",
            "text": "The memories that shaped how I see myself"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_small_joys_other_people_overlook",
            "text": "The small joys other people overlook"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_056",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A soft question or a familiar touch?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "tenderness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_soft_question",
          "text": "A soft question"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_familiar_touch",
          "text": "A familiar touch"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_soft_question",
            "text": "A soft question"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_familiar_touch",
            "text": "A familiar touch"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_057",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a tender moment feel natural instead of staged?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "tender_moments",
        "authenticity",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "it_happens_in_the_middle_of_ordinary_life",
          "text": "It happens in the middle of ordinary life"
        },
        {
          "id": "nobody_is_trying_to_say_the_perfect_thing",
          "text": "Nobody is trying to say the perfect thing"
        },
        {
          "id": "there_is_room_to_laugh_if_it_gets_awkward",
          "text": "There is room to laugh if it gets awkward"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_affection_fits_what_we_are_feeling",
          "text": "The affection fits what we are feeling"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_let_the_moment_end_without_overexplaining_it",
          "text": "We let the moment end without overexplaining it"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_happens_in_the_middle_of_ordinary_life",
            "text": "It happens in the middle of ordinary life"
          },
          {
            "id": "nobody_is_trying_to_say_the_perfect_thing",
            "text": "Nobody is trying to say the perfect thing"
          },
          {
            "id": "there_is_room_to_laugh_if_it_gets_awkward",
            "text": "There is room to laugh if it gets awkward"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_affection_fits_what_we_are_feeling",
            "text": "The affection fits what we are feeling"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_let_the_moment_end_without_overexplaining_it",
            "text": "We let the moment end without overexplaining it"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_058",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which compliment feels most emotionally intimate?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "compliments",
        "intimacy",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_make_me_feel_more_like_myself",
          "text": "You make me feel more like myself"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_trust_the_way_you_see_the_world",
          "text": "I trust the way you see the world"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_love_who_you_are_when_nobody_is_watching",
          "text": "I love who you are when nobody is watching"
        },
        {
          "id": "life_feels_warmer_with_you_in_it",
          "text": "Life feels warmer with you in it"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_make_me_feel_more_like_myself",
            "text": "You make me feel more like myself"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_trust_the_way_you_see_the_world",
            "text": "I trust the way you see the world"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_love_who_you_are_when_nobody_is_watching",
            "text": "I love who you are when nobody is watching"
          },
          {
            "id": "life_feels_warmer_with_you_in_it",
            "text": "Life feels warmer with you in it"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_059",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What lets you know I can handle your honest feelings?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "honest_feelings",
        "emotional_capacity",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_do_not_make_your_emotion_about_me",
          "text": "I do not make your emotion about me"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_can_stay_calm_without_becoming_distant",
          "text": "I can stay calm without becoming distant"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_let_mixed_feelings_exist_at_the_same_time",
          "text": "I let mixed feelings exist at the same time"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_do_not_demand_an_immediate_solution",
          "text": "I do not demand an immediate solution"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_remain_affectionate_after_hearing_something_difficult",
          "text": "I remain affectionate after hearing something difficult"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_do_not_make_your_emotion_about_me",
            "text": "I do not make your emotion about me"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_can_stay_calm_without_becoming_distant",
            "text": "I can stay calm without becoming distant"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_let_mixed_feelings_exist_at_the_same_time",
            "text": "I let mixed feelings exist at the same time"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_do_not_demand_an_immediate_solution",
            "text": "I do not demand an immediate solution"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_remain_affectionate_after_hearing_something_difficult",
            "text": "I remain affectionate after hearing something difficult"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_060",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is something about you that I understand better than most people do?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "deep_understanding",
        "personal_story",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 500,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_061",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel connected when our energy levels do not match?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "different_energy",
        "adaptability",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "we_choose_something_neither_person_has_to_force",
          "text": "We choose something neither person has to force"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_quieter_person_is_not_treated_like_a_problem",
          "text": "The quieter person is not treated like a problem"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_more_energetic_person_can_still_be_themselves",
          "text": "The more energetic person can still be themselves"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_find_one_small_point_of_connection",
          "text": "We find one small point of connection"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_agree_that_closeness_can_look_different_that_day",
          "text": "We agree that closeness can look different that day"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "we_choose_something_neither_person_has_to_force",
            "text": "We choose something neither person has to force"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_quieter_person_is_not_treated_like_a_problem",
            "text": "The quieter person is not treated like a problem"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_more_energetic_person_can_still_be_themselves",
            "text": "The more energetic person can still be themselves"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_find_one_small_point_of_connection",
            "text": "We find one small point of connection"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_agree_that_closeness_can_look_different_that_day",
            "text": "We agree that closeness can look different that day"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_062",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How accepted do you feel by me when your feelings are complicated?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "emotional_welcome",
        "belonging",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "I still feel guarded",
        "max_label": "Fully accepted"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_063",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When you feel lonely, which kinds of closeness help most?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "loneliness",
        "comfort",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_conversation_that_goes_beyond_logistics",
          "text": "A conversation that goes beyond logistics"
        },
        {
          "id": "physical_affection_with_no_pressure_attached",
          "text": "Physical affection with no pressure attached"
        },
        {
          "id": "being_invited_into_whatever_you_are_doing",
          "text": "Being invited into whatever you are doing"
        },
        {
          "id": "hearing_that_my_presence_matters_to_you",
          "text": "Hearing that my presence matters to you"
        },
        {
          "id": "making_one_small_plan_to_look_forward_to",
          "text": "Making one small plan to look forward to"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_conversation_that_goes_beyond_logistics",
            "text": "A conversation that goes beyond logistics"
          },
          {
            "id": "physical_affection_with_no_pressure_attached",
            "text": "Physical affection with no pressure attached"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_invited_into_whatever_you_are_doing",
            "text": "Being invited into whatever you are doing"
          },
          {
            "id": "hearing_that_my_presence_matters_to_you",
            "text": "Hearing that my presence matters to you"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_one_small_plan_to_look_forward_to",
            "text": "Making one small plan to look forward to"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_064",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of attention feels especially personal?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "personal_attention",
        "being_known",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "remembering_an_exact_detail_from_weeks_ago",
          "text": "Remembering an exact detail from weeks ago"
        },
        {
          "id": "noticing_a_change_i_did_not_announce",
          "text": "Noticing a change I did not announce"
        },
        {
          "id": "asking_about_something_i_care_about_deeply",
          "text": "Asking about something I care about deeply"
        },
        {
          "id": "knowing_what_will_make_me_laugh_today",
          "text": "Knowing what will make me laugh today"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "remembering_an_exact_detail_from_weeks_ago",
            "text": "Remembering an exact detail from weeks ago"
          },
          {
            "id": "noticing_a_change_i_did_not_announce",
            "text": "Noticing a change I did not announce"
          },
          {
            "id": "asking_about_something_i_care_about_deeply",
            "text": "Asking about something I care about deeply"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_what_will_make_me_laugh_today",
            "text": "Knowing what will make me laugh today"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_065",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes it easier to share joy with me, not only stress?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "sharing_joy",
        "positive_connection",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_let_me_be_excited_without_teasing_it_down",
          "text": "You let me be excited without teasing it down"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_ask_for_the_full_story",
          "text": "You ask for the full story"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_celebrate_before_discussing_the_next_step",
          "text": "You celebrate before discussing the next step"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_remember_what_the_win_means_to_me",
          "text": "You remember what the win means to me"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_bring_the_good_news_up_again_later",
          "text": "You bring the good news up again later"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_let_me_be_excited_without_teasing_it_down",
            "text": "You let me be excited without teasing it down"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_ask_for_the_full_story",
            "text": "You ask for the full story"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_celebrate_before_discussing_the_next_step",
            "text": "You celebrate before discussing the next step"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_remember_what_the_win_means_to_me",
            "text": "You remember what the win means to me"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_bring_the_good_news_up_again_later",
            "text": "You bring the good news up again later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_066",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Being quietly understood or enthusiastically encouraged?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "support_style",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "being_quietly_understood",
          "text": "Being quietly understood"
        },
        {
          "id": "being_enthusiastically_encouraged",
          "text": "Being enthusiastically encouraged"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "being_quietly_understood",
            "text": "Being quietly understood"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_enthusiastically_encouraged",
            "text": "Being enthusiastically encouraged"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_067",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs make affection feel genuine to you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "genuine_affection",
        "authenticity",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "it_is_not_limited_to_certain_moods",
          "text": "It is not limited to certain moods"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_reflects_what_you_know_i_actually_like",
          "text": "It reflects what you know I actually like"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_shows_up_when_nobody_else_can_see_it",
          "text": "It shows up when nobody else can see it"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_is_not_used_to_avoid_a_real_feeling",
          "text": "It is not used to avoid a real feeling"
        },
        {
          "id": "it_feels_freely_given_rather_than_performed",
          "text": "It feels freely given rather than performed"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_is_not_limited_to_certain_moods",
            "text": "It is not limited to certain moods"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_reflects_what_you_know_i_actually_like",
            "text": "It reflects what you know I actually like"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_shows_up_when_nobody_else_can_see_it",
            "text": "It shows up when nobody else can see it"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_is_not_used_to_avoid_a_real_feeling",
            "text": "It is not used to avoid a real feeling"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_feels_freely_given_rather_than_performed",
            "text": "It feels freely given rather than performed"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_068",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you are emotionally tired, what sounds most restorative?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "emotional_fatigue",
        "restoration",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "quiet_company_with_very_few_questions",
          "text": "Quiet company with very few questions"
        },
        {
          "id": "gentle_affection_and_an_early_night",
          "text": "Gentle affection and an early night"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_familiar_activity_that_requires_nothing_from_me",
          "text": "A familiar activity that requires nothing from me"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_little_laughter_that_changes_the_atmosphere",
          "text": "A little laughter that changes the atmosphere"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "quiet_company_with_very_few_questions",
            "text": "Quiet company with very few questions"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_affection_and_an_early_night",
            "text": "Gentle affection and an early night"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_familiar_activity_that_requires_nothing_from_me",
            "text": "A familiar activity that requires nothing from me"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_little_laughter_that_changes_the_atmosphere",
            "text": "A little laughter that changes the atmosphere"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_069",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel like all sides of you are welcome with me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "whole_self",
        "acceptance",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_welcome_both_my_confidence_and_uncertainty",
          "text": "You welcome both my confidence and uncertainty"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_do_not_expect_me_to_stay_in_one_mood",
          "text": "You do not expect me to stay in one mood"
        },
        {
          "id": "my_interests_do_not_have_to_become_yours",
          "text": "My interests do not have to become yours"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_can_change_my_mind_without_losing_your_respect",
          "text": "I can change my mind without losing your respect"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_do_not_have_to_be_useful_to_feel_lovable",
          "text": "I do not have to be useful to feel lovable"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_welcome_both_my_confidence_and_uncertainty",
            "text": "You welcome both my confidence and uncertainty"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_do_not_expect_me_to_stay_in_one_mood",
            "text": "You do not expect me to stay in one mood"
          },
          {
            "id": "my_interests_do_not_have_to_become_yours",
            "text": "My interests do not have to become yours"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_can_change_my_mind_without_losing_your_respect",
            "text": "I can change my mind without losing your respect"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_do_not_have_to_be_useful_to_feel_lovable",
            "text": "I do not have to be useful to feel lovable"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_070",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things make my admiration easiest to feel?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "admiration",
        "recognition",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_watch_me_do_something_i_am_good_at",
          "text": "You watch me do something I am good at"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_ask_for_my_perspective_because_you_value_it",
          "text": "You ask for my perspective because you value it"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_name_a_quality_you_hope_never_changes",
          "text": "You name a quality you hope never changes"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_look_proud_when_i_talk_about_what_matters",
          "text": "You look proud when I talk about what matters"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_notice_the_courage_behind_a_choice_i_made",
          "text": "You notice the courage behind a choice I made"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_watch_me_do_something_i_am_good_at",
            "text": "You watch me do something I am good at"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_ask_for_my_perspective_because_you_value_it",
            "text": "You ask for my perspective because you value it"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_name_a_quality_you_hope_never_changes",
            "text": "You name a quality you hope never changes"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_look_proud_when_i_talk_about_what_matters",
            "text": "You look proud when I talk about what matters"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_notice_the_courage_behind_a_choice_i_made",
            "text": "You notice the courage behind a choice I made"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_071",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us stay emotionally close while life is changing?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "continuity",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "we_keep_one_familiar_ritual",
          "text": "We keep one familiar ritual"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_say_what_feels_different_instead_of_pretending",
          "text": "We say what feels different instead of pretending"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_keep_learning_who_the_other_person_is_becoming",
          "text": "We keep learning who the other person is becoming"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_make_room_for_grief_and_excitement_together",
          "text": "We make room for grief and excitement together"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_protect_affection_even_when_routines_shift",
          "text": "We protect affection even when routines shift"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "we_keep_one_familiar_ritual",
            "text": "We keep one familiar ritual"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_say_what_feels_different_instead_of_pretending",
            "text": "We say what feels different instead of pretending"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_keep_learning_who_the_other_person_is_becoming",
            "text": "We keep learning who the other person is becoming"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_make_room_for_grief_and_excitement_together",
            "text": "We make room for grief and excitement together"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_protect_affection_even_when_routines_shift",
            "text": "We protect affection even when routines shift"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_072",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of our history make you feel anchored to us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "shared_history",
        "emotional_anchor",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "the_early_moments_when_we_chose_each_other",
          "text": "The early moments when we chose each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_hard_years_that_proved_our_endurance",
          "text": "The hard years that proved our endurance"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_ordinary_traditions_that_became_ours",
          "text": "The ordinary traditions that became ours"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_ways_we_have_changed_side_by_side",
          "text": "The ways we have changed side by side"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_stories_our_family_and_friends_know_by_heart",
          "text": "The stories our family and friends know by heart"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_early_moments_when_we_chose_each_other",
            "text": "The early moments when we chose each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_hard_years_that_proved_our_endurance",
            "text": "The hard years that proved our endurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_ordinary_traditions_that_became_ours",
            "text": "The ordinary traditions that became ours"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_ways_we_have_changed_side_by_side",
            "text": "The ways we have changed side by side"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_stories_our_family_and_friends_know_by_heart",
            "text": "The stories our family and friends know by heart"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_073",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a deeper question from me feel welcome?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "deeper_questions",
        "readiness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "the_timing_feels_private_and_unhurried",
          "text": "The timing feels private and unhurried"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_sound_curious_rather_than_concerned",
          "text": "You sound curious rather than concerned"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_know_a_short_answer_is_acceptable",
          "text": "I know a short answer is acceptable"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_question_is_about_knowing_me_not_correcting_me",
          "text": "The question is about knowing me, not correcting me"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_are_willing_to_answer_it_too",
          "text": "You are willing to answer it too"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_timing_feels_private_and_unhurried",
            "text": "The timing feels private and unhurried"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_sound_curious_rather_than_concerned",
            "text": "You sound curious rather than concerned"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_know_a_short_answer_is_acceptable",
            "text": "I know a short answer is acceptable"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_question_is_about_knowing_me_not_correcting_me",
            "text": "The question is about knowing me, not correcting me"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_are_willing_to_answer_it_too",
            "text": "You are willing to answer it too"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_074",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel tender toward me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "tenderness",
        "fondness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "seeing_a_side_of_you_other_people_rarely_see",
          "text": "Seeing a side of you other people rarely see"
        },
        {
          "id": "remembering_how_young_we_both_once_were",
          "text": "Remembering how young we both once were"
        },
        {
          "id": "watching_you_care_about_something_deeply",
          "text": "Watching you care about something deeply"
        },
        {
          "id": "noticing_the_effort_behind_your_brave_face",
          "text": "Noticing the effort behind your brave face"
        },
        {
          "id": "catching_a_familiar_expression_i_have_always_loved",
          "text": "Catching a familiar expression I have always loved"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "seeing_a_side_of_you_other_people_rarely_see",
            "text": "Seeing a side of you other people rarely see"
          },
          {
            "id": "remembering_how_young_we_both_once_were",
            "text": "Remembering how young we both once were"
          },
          {
            "id": "watching_you_care_about_something_deeply",
            "text": "Watching you care about something deeply"
          },
          {
            "id": "noticing_the_effort_behind_your_brave_face",
            "text": "Noticing the effort behind your brave face"
          },
          {
            "id": "catching_a_familiar_expression_i_have_always_loved",
            "text": "Catching a familiar expression I have always loved"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_075",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which kinds of kindness matter most between us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "emotional_generosity",
        "care",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "giving_each_other_the_benefit_of_the_doubt_on_a_hard_day",
          "text": "Giving each other the benefit of the doubt on a hard day"
        },
        {
          "id": "making_room_for_a_feeling_that_arrives_at_a_bad_time",
          "text": "Making room for a feeling that arrives at a bad time"
        },
        {
          "id": "offering_warmth_without_waiting_to_be_asked",
          "text": "Offering warmth without waiting to be asked"
        },
        {
          "id": "letting_the_other_person_have_the_bigger_moment",
          "text": "Letting the other person have the bigger moment"
        },
        {
          "id": "choosing_kindness_when_a_sharper_answer_would_be_easier",
          "text": "Choosing kindness when a sharper answer would be easier"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "giving_each_other_the_benefit_of_the_doubt_on_a_hard_day",
            "text": "Giving each other the benefit of the doubt on a hard day"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_room_for_a_feeling_that_arrives_at_a_bad_time",
            "text": "Making room for a feeling that arrives at a bad time"
          },
          {
            "id": "offering_warmth_without_waiting_to_be_asked",
            "text": "Offering warmth without waiting to be asked"
          },
          {
            "id": "letting_the_other_person_have_the_bigger_moment",
            "text": "Letting the other person have the bigger moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "choosing_kindness_when_a_sharper_answer_would_be_easier",
            "text": "Choosing kindness when a sharper answer would be easier"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_076",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which subtle signs usually mean you could use more care from me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "subtle_signals",
        "care",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_get_unusually_quiet",
          "text": "I get unusually quiet"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_become_more_practical_than_emotional",
          "text": "I become more practical than emotional"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_keep_repeating_that_i_am_fine",
          "text": "I keep repeating that I am fine"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_lose_interest_in_things_i_normally_enjoy",
          "text": "I lose interest in things I normally enjoy"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_stay_busy_so_i_do_not_have_to_slow_down",
          "text": "I stay busy so I do not have to slow down"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_get_unusually_quiet",
            "text": "I get unusually quiet"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_become_more_practical_than_emotional",
            "text": "I become more practical than emotional"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_keep_repeating_that_i_am_fine",
            "text": "I keep repeating that I am fine"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_lose_interest_in_things_i_normally_enjoy",
            "text": "I lose interest in things I normally enjoy"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_stay_busy_so_i_do_not_have_to_slow_down",
            "text": "I stay busy so I do not have to slow down"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_077",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "After you open up and feel a little exposed, what helps most?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "after_vulnerability",
        "care",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_warm_response_without_making_it_a_huge_moment",
          "text": "A warm response without making it a huge moment"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_little_affection_and_a_change_of_subject",
          "text": "A little affection and a change of subject"
        },
        {
          "id": "hearing_that_you_are_glad_i_told_you",
          "text": "Hearing that you are glad I told you"
        },
        {
          "id": "being_treated_normally_while_you_stay_close",
          "text": "Being treated normally while you stay close"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_warm_response_without_making_it_a_huge_moment",
            "text": "A warm response without making it a huge moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_little_affection_and_a_change_of_subject",
            "text": "A little affection and a change of subject"
          },
          {
            "id": "hearing_that_you_are_glad_i_told_you",
            "text": "Hearing that you are glad I told you"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_treated_normally_while_you_stay_close",
            "text": "Being treated normally while you stay close"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_078",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes you feel cared for without feeling managed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "emotional_protection",
        "autonomy",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_defend_my_dignity_when_i_am_not_present",
          "text": "You defend my dignity when I am not present"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_keep_private_moments_private",
          "text": "You keep private moments private"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_support_me_without_taking_over",
          "text": "You support me without taking over"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_warn_me_gently_when_something_may_hurt",
          "text": "You warn me gently when something may hurt"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_respect_that_i_still_make_my_own_choices",
          "text": "You respect that I still make my own choices"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_defend_my_dignity_when_i_am_not_present",
            "text": "You defend my dignity when I am not present"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_keep_private_moments_private",
            "text": "You keep private moments private"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_support_me_without_taking_over",
            "text": "You support me without taking over"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_warn_me_gently_when_something_may_hurt",
            "text": "You warn me gently when something may hurt"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_respect_that_i_still_make_my_own_choices",
            "text": "You respect that I still make my own choices"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_079",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you letting me see you disappointed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "disappointment",
        "vulnerability",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Usually guarded",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_080",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of being known feel most intimate to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "being_known",
        "intimacy",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_know_what_i_mean_before_i_finish",
          "text": "You know what I mean before I finish"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_recognize_when_i_am_covering_hurt_with_humor",
          "text": "You recognize when I am covering hurt with humor"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_understand_what_i_need_after_social_time",
          "text": "You understand what I need after social time"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_remember_the_younger_version_of_me",
          "text": "You remember the younger version of me"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_know_which_dreams_i_have_not_given_up_on",
          "text": "You know which dreams I have not given up on"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_know_what_i_mean_before_i_finish",
            "text": "You know what I mean before I finish"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_recognize_when_i_am_covering_hurt_with_humor",
            "text": "You recognize when I am covering hurt with humor"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_understand_what_i_need_after_social_time",
            "text": "You understand what I need after social time"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_remember_the_younger_version_of_me",
            "text": "You remember the younger version of me"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_know_which_dreams_i_have_not_given_up_on",
            "text": "You know which dreams I have not given up on"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_081",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A private nickname or a meaningful look?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "private_affection",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_private_nickname",
          "text": "A private nickname"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_meaningful_look",
          "text": "A meaningful look"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_private_nickname",
            "text": "A private nickname"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_meaningful_look",
            "text": "A meaningful look"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_082",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel close again after a lot of social time?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "after_socializing",
        "reconnection",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_private_recap_on_the_way_home",
          "text": "A private recap on the way home"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_few_minutes_alone_together_before_bed",
          "text": "A few minutes alone together before bed"
        },
        {
          "id": "talking_about_the_funniest_moment",
          "text": "Talking about the funniest moment"
        },
        {
          "id": "checking_whether_either_of_us_felt_left_out",
          "text": "Checking whether either of us felt left out"
        },
        {
          "id": "returning_to_one_familiar_little_routine",
          "text": "Returning to one familiar little routine"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_private_recap_on_the_way_home",
            "text": "A private recap on the way home"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_few_minutes_alone_together_before_bed",
            "text": "A few minutes alone together before bed"
          },
          {
            "id": "talking_about_the_funniest_moment",
            "text": "Talking about the funniest moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "checking_whether_either_of_us_felt_left_out",
            "text": "Checking whether either of us felt left out"
          },
          {
            "id": "returning_to_one_familiar_little_routine",
            "text": "Returning to one familiar little routine"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_083",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of emotional closeness feels most romantic lately?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "romantic_intimacy",
        "current_preferences",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "feeling_completely_noticed",
          "text": "Feeling completely noticed"
        },
        {
          "id": "being_openly_admired",
          "text": "Being openly admired"
        },
        {
          "id": "sharing_something_private",
          "text": "Sharing something private"
        },
        {
          "id": "being_cared_for_in_a_quiet_way",
          "text": "Being cared for in a quiet way"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "feeling_completely_noticed",
            "text": "Feeling completely noticed"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_openly_admired",
            "text": "Being openly admired"
          },
          {
            "id": "sharing_something_private",
            "text": "Sharing something private"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_cared_for_in_a_quiet_way",
            "text": "Being cared for in a quiet way"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_084",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us keep tenderness when one of us is stressed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "tenderness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "we_do_not_mistake_a_short_mood_for_rejection",
          "text": "We do not mistake a short mood for rejection"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_use_affection_that_asks_for_nothing_back",
          "text": "We use affection that asks for nothing back"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_keep_our_words_gentler_than_the_day_was",
          "text": "We keep our words gentler than the day was"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_notice_effort_even_when_the_result_is_imperfect",
          "text": "We notice effort even when the result is imperfect"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_make_room_for_a_small_laugh_if_it_fits",
          "text": "We make room for a small laugh if it fits"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "we_do_not_mistake_a_short_mood_for_rejection",
            "text": "We do not mistake a short mood for rejection"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_use_affection_that_asks_for_nothing_back",
            "text": "We use affection that asks for nothing back"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_keep_our_words_gentler_than_the_day_was",
            "text": "We keep our words gentler than the day was"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_notice_effort_even_when_the_result_is_imperfect",
            "text": "We notice effort even when the result is imperfect"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_make_room_for_a_small_laugh_if_it_fits",
            "text": "We make room for a small laugh if it fits"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_085",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one way you have changed emotionally since we became a couple?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "growth",
        "shared_journey",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 500,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_086",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs tell you I am emotionally available to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "emotional_availability",
        "presence",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_look_up_and_give_you_my_full_attention",
          "text": "I look up and give you my full attention"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_do_not_rush_your_answer",
          "text": "I do not rush your answer"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_can_hear_a_feeling_without_immediately_fixing_it",
          "text": "I can hear a feeling without immediately fixing it"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_follow_up_after_the_moment_has_passed",
          "text": "I follow up after the moment has passed"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_make_room_for_your_experience_beside_mine",
          "text": "I make room for your experience beside mine"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_look_up_and_give_you_my_full_attention",
            "text": "I look up and give you my full attention"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_do_not_rush_your_answer",
            "text": "I do not rush your answer"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_can_hear_a_feeling_without_immediately_fixing_it",
            "text": "I can hear a feeling without immediately fixing it"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_follow_up_after_the_moment_has_passed",
            "text": "I follow up after the moment has passed"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_make_room_for_your_experience_beside_mine",
            "text": "I make room for your experience beside mine"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_087",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do you think I understand what drains you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "emotional_drain",
        "understanding",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very well yet",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_088",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which feelings are easiest for you to let me see?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "visible_feelings",
        "openness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "excitement_that_makes_me_talk_too_fast",
          "text": "Excitement that makes me talk too fast"
        },
        {
          "id": "sadness_that_makes_me_quiet",
          "text": "Sadness that makes me quiet"
        },
        {
          "id": "frustration_that_needs_a_little_distance",
          "text": "Frustration that needs a little distance"
        },
        {
          "id": "nervousness_before_something_important",
          "text": "Nervousness before something important"
        },
        {
          "id": "tenderness_that_catches_me_off_guard",
          "text": "Tenderness that catches me off guard"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "excitement_that_makes_me_talk_too_fast",
            "text": "Excitement that makes me talk too fast"
          },
          {
            "id": "sadness_that_makes_me_quiet",
            "text": "Sadness that makes me quiet"
          },
          {
            "id": "frustration_that_needs_a_little_distance",
            "text": "Frustration that needs a little distance"
          },
          {
            "id": "nervousness_before_something_important",
            "text": "Nervousness before something important"
          },
          {
            "id": "tenderness_that_catches_me_off_guard",
            "text": "Tenderness that catches me off guard"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_089",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which feeling would you most want me to gently ask about?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "emotional_curiosity",
        "being_noticed",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "the_worry_behind_my_overthinking",
          "text": "The worry behind my overthinking"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_hurt_behind_my_silence",
          "text": "The hurt behind my silence"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_loneliness_behind_my_independence",
          "text": "The loneliness behind my independence"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_hope_behind_my_hesitation",
          "text": "The hope behind my hesitation"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_worry_behind_my_overthinking",
            "text": "The worry behind my overthinking"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_hurt_behind_my_silence",
            "text": "The hurt behind my silence"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_loneliness_behind_my_independence",
            "text": "The loneliness behind my independence"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_hope_behind_my_hesitation",
            "text": "The hope behind my hesitation"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_090",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel emotionally close after a busy week?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "busy_weeks",
        "reconnection",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "catching_up_on_what_actually_mattered",
          "text": "Catching up on what actually mattered"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_slow_morning_with_no_urgent_decisions",
          "text": "A slow morning with no urgent decisions"
        },
        {
          "id": "one_affectionate_moment_that_is_not_rushed",
          "text": "One affectionate moment that is not rushed"
        },
        {
          "id": "hearing_what_you_missed_about_me",
          "text": "Hearing what you missed about me"
        },
        {
          "id": "doing_something_familiar_that_feels_like_us",
          "text": "Doing something familiar that feels like us"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "catching_up_on_what_actually_mattered",
            "text": "Catching up on what actually mattered"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_slow_morning_with_no_urgent_decisions",
            "text": "A slow morning with no urgent decisions"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_affectionate_moment_that_is_not_rushed",
            "text": "One affectionate moment that is not rushed"
          },
          {
            "id": "hearing_what_you_missed_about_me",
            "text": "Hearing what you missed about me"
          },
          {
            "id": "doing_something_familiar_that_feels_like_us",
            "text": "Doing something familiar that feels like us"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_091",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A long hug or a long conversation?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "comfort_style",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_long_hug",
          "text": "A long hug"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_long_conversation",
          "text": "A long conversation"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_long_hug",
            "text": "A long hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_long_conversation",
            "text": "A long conversation"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_092",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you enjoy your accomplishments with me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "self_pride",
        "acceptance",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_do_not_turn_the_moment_into_a_competition",
          "text": "You do not turn the moment into a competition"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_ask_what_the_accomplishment_meant_to_me",
          "text": "You ask what the accomplishment meant to me"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_let_me_enjoy_praise_without_brushing_it_off",
          "text": "You let me enjoy praise without brushing it off"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_notice_the_work_behind_the_result",
          "text": "You notice the work behind the result"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_remind_me_confidence_looks_good_on_me",
          "text": "You remind me confidence looks good on me"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_do_not_turn_the_moment_into_a_competition",
            "text": "You do not turn the moment into a competition"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_ask_what_the_accomplishment_meant_to_me",
            "text": "You ask what the accomplishment meant to me"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_let_me_enjoy_praise_without_brushing_it_off",
            "text": "You let me enjoy praise without brushing it off"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_notice_the_work_behind_the_result",
            "text": "You notice the work behind the result"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_remind_me_confidence_looks_good_on_me",
            "text": "You remind me confidence looks good on me"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_093",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of “I love you” feels most convincing?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "love_expressions",
        "meaning",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "one_said_in_the_middle_of_an_ordinary_task",
          "text": "One said in the middle of an ordinary task"
        },
        {
          "id": "one_connected_to_something_specific_about_me",
          "text": "One connected to something specific about me"
        },
        {
          "id": "one_whispered_during_a_quiet_affectionate_moment",
          "text": "One whispered during a quiet affectionate moment"
        },
        {
          "id": "one_shown_through_a_thoughtful_follow_through",
          "text": "One shown through a thoughtful follow-through"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "one_said_in_the_middle_of_an_ordinary_task",
            "text": "One said in the middle of an ordinary task"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_connected_to_something_specific_about_me",
            "text": "One connected to something specific about me"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_whispered_during_a_quiet_affectionate_moment",
            "text": "One whispered during a quiet affectionate moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_shown_through_a_thoughtful_follow_through",
            "text": "One shown through a thoughtful follow-through"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_094",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps emotional closeness alive during ordinary seasons?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "ordinary_seasons",
        "sustaining_closeness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "we_keep_asking_each_other_new_questions",
          "text": "We keep asking each other new questions"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_do_not_save_affection_for_special_occasions",
          "text": "We do not save affection for special occasions"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_share_small_reactions_throughout_the_day",
          "text": "We share small reactions throughout the day"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_make_room_for_who_we_are_becoming",
          "text": "We make room for who we are becoming"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_still_act_interested_in_each_other",
          "text": "We still act interested in each other"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "we_keep_asking_each_other_new_questions",
            "text": "We keep asking each other new questions"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_do_not_save_affection_for_special_occasions",
            "text": "We do not save affection for special occasions"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_share_small_reactions_throughout_the_day",
            "text": "We share small reactions throughout the day"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_make_room_for_who_we_are_becoming",
            "text": "We make room for who we are becoming"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_still_act_interested_in_each_other",
            "text": "We still act interested in each other"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_095",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which shared experiences make you feel most bonded to me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "bonding",
        "shared_experiences",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "solving_a_problem_side_by_side",
          "text": "Solving a problem side by side"
        },
        {
          "id": "laughing_through_something_that_went_wrong",
          "text": "Laughing through something that went wrong"
        },
        {
          "id": "seeing_somewhere_new_together",
          "text": "Seeing somewhere new together"
        },
        {
          "id": "caring_for_someone_or_something_as_a_team",
          "text": "Caring for someone or something as a team"
        },
        {
          "id": "having_a_quiet_moment_in_a_busy_place",
          "text": "Having a quiet moment in a busy place"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "solving_a_problem_side_by_side",
            "text": "Solving a problem side by side"
          },
          {
            "id": "laughing_through_something_that_went_wrong",
            "text": "Laughing through something that went wrong"
          },
          {
            "id": "seeing_somewhere_new_together",
            "text": "Seeing somewhere new together"
          },
          {
            "id": "caring_for_someone_or_something_as_a_team",
            "text": "Caring for someone or something as a team"
          },
          {
            "id": "having_a_quiet_moment_in_a_busy_place",
            "text": "Having a quiet moment in a busy place"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_096",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you stay open to affection when your mind is elsewhere?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "preoccupation",
        "receiving_affection",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_gentle_touch_that_does_not_interrupt_everything",
          "text": "A gentle touch that does not interrupt everything"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_clear_signal_that_nothing_more_is_expected",
          "text": "A clear signal that nothing more is expected"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_little_time_to_finish_the_thought_i_am_in",
          "text": "A little time to finish the thought I am in"
        },
        {
          "id": "affection_that_feels_familiar_and_grounding",
          "text": "Affection that feels familiar and grounding"
        },
        {
          "id": "being_asked_whether_closeness_would_help",
          "text": "Being asked whether closeness would help"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_touch_that_does_not_interrupt_everything",
            "text": "A gentle touch that does not interrupt everything"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_clear_signal_that_nothing_more_is_expected",
            "text": "A clear signal that nothing more is expected"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_little_time_to_finish_the_thought_i_am_in",
            "text": "A little time to finish the thought I am in"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection_that_feels_familiar_and_grounding",
            "text": "Affection that feels familiar and grounding"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_asked_whether_closeness_would_help",
            "text": "Being asked whether closeness would help"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_097",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When you are stressed, which kinds of emotional attention feel best?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "stress_support",
        "attention",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "noticing_without_making_me_explain_immediately",
          "text": "Noticing without making me explain immediately"
        },
        {
          "id": "reminding_me_what_can_wait_until_tomorrow",
          "text": "Reminding me what can wait until tomorrow"
        },
        {
          "id": "offering_one_concrete_form_of_care",
          "text": "Offering one concrete form of care"
        },
        {
          "id": "keeping_me_company_while_i_decompress",
          "text": "Keeping me company while I decompress"
        },
        {
          "id": "checking_whether_i_want_comfort_or_distraction",
          "text": "Checking whether I want comfort or distraction"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "noticing_without_making_me_explain_immediately",
            "text": "Noticing without making me explain immediately"
          },
          {
            "id": "reminding_me_what_can_wait_until_tomorrow",
            "text": "Reminding me what can wait until tomorrow"
          },
          {
            "id": "offering_one_concrete_form_of_care",
            "text": "Offering one concrete form of care"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_me_company_while_i_decompress",
            "text": "Keeping me company while I decompress"
          },
          {
            "id": "checking_whether_i_want_comfort_or_distraction",
            "text": "Checking whether I want comfort or distraction"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_098",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes you feel like I know the person behind your mood?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "moods",
        "deep_understanding",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_remember_that_irritation_may_mean_exhaustion",
          "text": "I remember that irritation may mean exhaustion"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_do_not_define_you_by_one_difficult_moment",
          "text": "I do not define you by one difficult moment"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_recognize_the_values_underneath_your_reaction",
          "text": "I recognize the values underneath your reaction"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_know_what_usually_helps_you_return_to_yourself",
          "text": "I know what usually helps you return to yourself"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_can_see_your_good_intentions_even_when_delivery_is_messy",
          "text": "I can see your good intentions even when delivery is messy"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_remember_that_irritation_may_mean_exhaustion",
            "text": "I remember that irritation may mean exhaustion"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_do_not_define_you_by_one_difficult_moment",
            "text": "I do not define you by one difficult moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_recognize_the_values_underneath_your_reaction",
            "text": "I recognize the values underneath your reaction"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_know_what_usually_helps_you_return_to_yourself",
            "text": "I know what usually helps you return to yourself"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_can_see_your_good_intentions_even_when_delivery_is_messy",
            "text": "I can see your good intentions even when delivery is messy"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_099",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes emotional moments with me feel unhurried?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "unhurried_closeness",
        "ease",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_do_not_fill_every_silence",
          "text": "You do not fill every silence"
        },
        {
          "id": "there_is_no_hidden_goal_for_the_conversation",
          "text": "There is no hidden goal for the conversation"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_can_circle_back_after_thinking",
          "text": "I can circle back after thinking"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_are_not_watching_the_clock",
          "text": "We are not watching the clock"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_moment_can_be_meaningful_without_becoming_serious",
          "text": "The moment can be meaningful without becoming serious"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_do_not_fill_every_silence",
            "text": "You do not fill every silence"
          },
          {
            "id": "there_is_no_hidden_goal_for_the_conversation",
            "text": "There is no hidden goal for the conversation"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_can_circle_back_after_thinking",
            "text": "I can circle back after thinking"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_are_not_watching_the_clock",
            "text": "We are not watching the clock"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_moment_can_be_meaningful_without_becoming_serious",
            "text": "The moment can be meaningful without becoming serious"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_100",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which kinds of care make you feel cherished?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "feeling_cherished",
        "love",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_care_for_you_when_you_feel_least_impressive",
          "text": "I care for you when you feel least impressive"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_remember_a_preference_you_never_had_to_repeat",
          "text": "I remember a preference you never had to repeat"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_make_your_comfort_part_of_my_thinking",
          "text": "I make your comfort part of my thinking"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_speak_about_you_with_warmth_when_you_are_absent",
          "text": "I speak about you with warmth when you are absent"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_treat_your_happiness_like_something_worth_protecting",
          "text": "I treat your happiness like something worth protecting"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_care_for_you_when_you_feel_least_impressive",
            "text": "I care for you when you feel least impressive"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_remember_a_preference_you_never_had_to_repeat",
            "text": "I remember a preference you never had to repeat"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_make_your_comfort_part_of_my_thinking",
            "text": "I make your comfort part of my thinking"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_speak_about_you_with_warmth_when_you_are_absent",
            "text": "I speak about you with warmth when you are absent"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_treat_your_happiness_like_something_worth_protecting",
            "text": "I treat your happiness like something worth protecting"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_101",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes you feel emotionally pursued in a long-term relationship?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "emotional_pursuit",
        "long_term_love",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_keep_discovering_new_things_about_me",
          "text": "You keep discovering new things about me"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_initiate_affection_without_waiting_for_a_signal",
          "text": "You initiate affection without waiting for a signal"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_plan_something_around_what_i_would_enjoy",
          "text": "You plan something around what I would enjoy"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_tell_me_why_you_still_choose_me",
          "text": "You tell me why you still choose me"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_treat_my_attention_like_something_you_want",
          "text": "You treat my attention like something you want"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_keep_discovering_new_things_about_me",
            "text": "You keep discovering new things about me"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_initiate_affection_without_waiting_for_a_signal",
            "text": "You initiate affection without waiting for a signal"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_plan_something_around_what_i_would_enjoy",
            "text": "You plan something around what I would enjoy"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_tell_me_why_you_still_choose_me",
            "text": "You tell me why you still choose me"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_treat_my_attention_like_something_you_want",
            "text": "You treat my attention like something you want"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_102",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you are having a good day, how do you most want me to join it?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "shared_joy",
        "good_days",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "match_my_excitement_and_make_it_bigger",
          "text": "Match my excitement and make it bigger"
        },
        {
          "id": "ask_what_made_the_day_feel_so_good",
          "text": "Ask what made the day feel so good"
        },
        {
          "id": "turn_it_into_a_small_celebration_together",
          "text": "Turn it into a small celebration together"
        },
        {
          "id": "simply_enjoy_the_lighter_version_of_me",
          "text": "Simply enjoy the lighter version of me"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "match_my_excitement_and_make_it_bigger",
            "text": "Match my excitement and make it bigger"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_what_made_the_day_feel_so_good",
            "text": "Ask what made the day feel so good"
          },
          {
            "id": "turn_it_into_a_small_celebration_together",
            "text": "Turn it into a small celebration together"
          },
          {
            "id": "simply_enjoy_the_lighter_version_of_me",
            "text": "Simply enjoy the lighter version of me"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_103",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do I notice the emotional details that matter to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "emotional_details",
        "being_noticed",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very well yet",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_104",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a reunion after time apart feel emotionally satisfying?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "reunions",
        "apart",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "we_pause_for_a_real_greeting",
          "text": "We pause for a real greeting"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_tell_me_one_thing_you_missed",
          "text": "You tell me one thing you missed"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_share_the_parts_of_the_time_apart_that_mattered",
          "text": "We share the parts of the time apart that mattered"
        },
        {
          "id": "there_is_affection_before_we_return_to_routine",
          "text": "There is affection before we return to routine"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_make_the_first_hour_feel_like_ours",
          "text": "We make the first hour feel like ours"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "we_pause_for_a_real_greeting",
            "text": "We pause for a real greeting"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_tell_me_one_thing_you_missed",
            "text": "You tell me one thing you missed"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_share_the_parts_of_the_time_apart_that_mattered",
            "text": "We share the parts of the time apart that mattered"
          },
          {
            "id": "there_is_affection_before_we_return_to_routine",
            "text": "There is affection before we return to routine"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_make_the_first_hour_feel_like_ours",
            "text": "We make the first hour feel like ours"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_105",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of curiosity from me feels most loving?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "loving_curiosity",
        "being_known",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "asking_what_has_been_on_my_mind_lately",
          "text": "Asking what has been on my mind lately"
        },
        {
          "id": "wanting_the_story_behind_one_of_my_opinions",
          "text": "Wanting the story behind one of my opinions"
        },
        {
          "id": "checking_whether_an_old_dream_still_matters",
          "text": "Checking whether an old dream still matters"
        },
        {
          "id": "wondering_how_a_recent_experience_changed_me",
          "text": "Wondering how a recent experience changed me"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "asking_what_has_been_on_my_mind_lately",
            "text": "Asking what has been on my mind lately"
          },
          {
            "id": "wanting_the_story_behind_one_of_my_opinions",
            "text": "Wanting the story behind one of my opinions"
          },
          {
            "id": "checking_whether_an_old_dream_still_matters",
            "text": "Checking whether an old dream still matters"
          },
          {
            "id": "wondering_how_a_recent_experience_changed_me",
            "text": "Wondering how a recent experience changed me"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_106",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which memories best remind you that we understand each other?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "shared_memories",
        "understanding",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_time_one_of_us_knew_what_the_other_needed",
          "text": "A time one of us knew what the other needed"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_joke_that_landed_during_a_difficult_moment",
          "text": "A joke that landed during a difficult moment"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_choice_we_made_without_needing_much_discussion",
          "text": "A choice we made without needing much discussion"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_night_when_conversation_felt_effortless",
          "text": "A night when conversation felt effortless"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_moment_we_protected_each_other_from_embarrassment",
          "text": "A moment we protected each other from embarrassment"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_time_one_of_us_knew_what_the_other_needed",
            "text": "A time one of us knew what the other needed"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_joke_that_landed_during_a_difficult_moment",
            "text": "A joke that landed during a difficult moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_choice_we_made_without_needing_much_discussion",
            "text": "A choice we made without needing much discussion"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_night_when_conversation_felt_effortless",
            "text": "A night when conversation felt effortless"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_moment_we_protected_each_other_from_embarrassment",
            "text": "A moment we protected each other from embarrassment"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_107",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel like your softness is valued?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "softness",
        "being_valued",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_never_use_it_to_make_me_feel_weak",
          "text": "You never use it to make me feel weak"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_respond_with_care_instead_of_surprise",
          "text": "You respond with care instead of surprise"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_notice_the_courage_it_takes_to_stay_tender",
          "text": "You notice the courage it takes to stay tender"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_protect_the_moment_from_outside_attention",
          "text": "You protect the moment from outside attention"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_meet_softness_with_softness_of_your_own",
          "text": "You meet softness with softness of your own"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_never_use_it_to_make_me_feel_weak",
            "text": "You never use it to make me feel weak"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_respond_with_care_instead_of_surprise",
            "text": "You respond with care instead of surprise"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_notice_the_courage_it_takes_to_stay_tender",
            "text": "You notice the courage it takes to stay tender"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_protect_the_moment_from_outside_attention",
            "text": "You protect the moment from outside attention"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_meet_softness_with_softness_of_your_own",
            "text": "You meet softness with softness of your own"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_108",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you telling me when you feel left out?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "feeling_left_out",
        "openness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "I usually hold it in",
        "max_label": "I can say it openly"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_109",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When we are physically apart, what keeps emotional closeness alive?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "distance",
        "ongoing_connection",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "sharing_one_unfiltered_part_of_the_day",
          "text": "Sharing one unfiltered part of the day"
        },
        {
          "id": "keeping_a_familiar_joke_going",
          "text": "Keeping a familiar joke going"
        },
        {
          "id": "knowing_when_we_will_talk_next",
          "text": "Knowing when we will talk next"
        },
        {
          "id": "sending_affection_that_does_not_require_a_conversation",
          "text": "Sending affection that does not require a conversation"
        },
        {
          "id": "making_the_distance_feel_temporary_rather_than_defining",
          "text": "Making the distance feel temporary rather than defining"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sharing_one_unfiltered_part_of_the_day",
            "text": "Sharing one unfiltered part of the day"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_a_familiar_joke_going",
            "text": "Keeping a familiar joke going"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_when_we_will_talk_next",
            "text": "Knowing when we will talk next"
          },
          {
            "id": "sending_affection_that_does_not_require_a_conversation",
            "text": "Sending affection that does not require a conversation"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_the_distance_feel_temporary_rather_than_defining",
            "text": "Making the distance feel temporary rather than defining"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_110",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which emotional habit would you most like us to strengthen?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "emotional_habits",
        "growth",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "noticing_each_other_sooner",
          "text": "Noticing each other sooner"
        },
        {
          "id": "celebrating_each_other_more_openly",
          "text": "Celebrating each other more openly"
        },
        {
          "id": "asking_for_comfort_more_directly",
          "text": "Asking for comfort more directly"
        },
        {
          "id": "returning_to_warmth_more_quickly",
          "text": "Returning to warmth more quickly"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "noticing_each_other_sooner",
            "text": "Noticing each other sooner"
          },
          {
            "id": "celebrating_each_other_more_openly",
            "text": "Celebrating each other more openly"
          },
          {
            "id": "asking_for_comfort_more_directly",
            "text": "Asking for comfort more directly"
          },
          {
            "id": "returning_to_warmth_more_quickly",
            "text": "Returning to warmth more quickly"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_111",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes you feel like I’m attracted to who you are, not just how you look?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "emotional_attraction",
        "being_wanted",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_are_drawn_to_the_way_i_think",
          "text": "You are drawn to the way I think"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_enjoy_the_intensity_of_what_i_care_about",
          "text": "You enjoy the intensity of what I care about"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_find_my_tenderness_appealing",
          "text": "You find my tenderness appealing"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_want_access_to_my_private_thoughts",
          "text": "You want access to my private thoughts"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_seem_captivated_when_i_am_fully_myself",
          "text": "You seem captivated when I am fully myself"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_are_drawn_to_the_way_i_think",
            "text": "You are drawn to the way I think"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_enjoy_the_intensity_of_what_i_care_about",
            "text": "You enjoy the intensity of what I care about"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_find_my_tenderness_appealing",
            "text": "You find my tenderness appealing"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_want_access_to_my_private_thoughts",
            "text": "You want access to my private thoughts"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_seem_captivated_when_i_am_fully_myself",
            "text": "You seem captivated when I am fully myself"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_112",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Being remembered or having a need anticipated?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "care_style",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "being_remembered",
          "text": "Being remembered"
        },
        {
          "id": "having_a_need_anticipated",
          "text": "Having a need anticipated"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "being_remembered",
            "text": "Being remembered"
          },
          {
            "id": "having_a_need_anticipated",
            "text": "Having a need anticipated"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_113",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs tell you our emotional chemistry is strong?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "emotional_chemistry",
        "connection",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "conversation_can_become_meaningful_without_effort",
          "text": "Conversation can become meaningful without effort"
        },
        {
          "id": "affection_and_humor_move_easily_together",
          "text": "Affection and humor move easily together"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_can_be_intense_without_losing_warmth",
          "text": "We can be intense without losing warmth"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_notice_each_other_across_a_room",
          "text": "We notice each other across a room"
        },
        {
          "id": "time_alone_together_changes_the_way_we_both_feel",
          "text": "Time alone together changes the way we both feel"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "conversation_can_become_meaningful_without_effort",
            "text": "Conversation can become meaningful without effort"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection_and_humor_move_easily_together",
            "text": "Affection and humor move easily together"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_can_be_intense_without_losing_warmth",
            "text": "We can be intense without losing warmth"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_notice_each_other_across_a_room",
            "text": "We notice each other across a room"
          },
          {
            "id": "time_alone_together_changes_the_way_we_both_feel",
            "text": "Time alone together changes the way we both feel"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_114",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of quiet moment feels most intimate?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "quiet_intimacy",
        "stillness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "waking_up_before_the_day_starts",
          "text": "Waking up before the day starts"
        },
        {
          "id": "sitting_together_after_everyone_leaves",
          "text": "Sitting together after everyone leaves"
        },
        {
          "id": "holding_each_other_without_talking",
          "text": "Holding each other without talking"
        },
        {
          "id": "sharing_a_view_neither_of_us_needs_to_describe",
          "text": "Sharing a view neither of us needs to describe"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "waking_up_before_the_day_starts",
            "text": "Waking up before the day starts"
          },
          {
            "id": "sitting_together_after_everyone_leaves",
            "text": "Sitting together after everyone leaves"
          },
          {
            "id": "holding_each_other_without_talking",
            "text": "Holding each other without talking"
          },
          {
            "id": "sharing_a_view_neither_of_us_needs_to_describe",
            "text": "Sharing a view neither of us needs to describe"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_115",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which patterns make our connection feel emotionally steady?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "steadiness",
        "security",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "my_care_does_not_disappear_when_moods_change",
          "text": "My care does not disappear when moods change"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_can_have_separate_days_and_still_feel_connected",
          "text": "We can have separate days and still feel connected"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_know_affection_is_not_a_reward",
          "text": "You know affection is not a reward"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_return_to_familiar_warmth_after_stress",
          "text": "We return to familiar warmth after stress"
        },
        {
          "id": "our_closeness_does_not_depend_on_being_impressive",
          "text": "Our closeness does not depend on being impressive"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "my_care_does_not_disappear_when_moods_change",
            "text": "My care does not disappear when moods change"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_can_have_separate_days_and_still_feel_connected",
            "text": "We can have separate days and still feel connected"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_know_affection_is_not_a_reward",
            "text": "You know affection is not a reward"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_return_to_familiar_warmth_after_stress",
            "text": "We return to familiar warmth after stress"
          },
          {
            "id": "our_closeness_does_not_depend_on_being_impressive",
            "text": "Our closeness does not depend on being impressive"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_116",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to tell me when your need for closeness changes?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "changing_needs",
        "asking_for_closeness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "I tend to hide it",
        "max_label": "I can say it easily"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_117",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes it easier to receive love on days you do not feel lovable?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "receiving_love",
        "hard_self_image_days",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_do_not_try_to_talk_me_out_of_every_feeling",
          "text": "You do not try to talk me out of every feeling"
        },
        {
          "id": "your_affection_stays_simple_and_believable",
          "text": "Your affection stays simple and believable"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_remind_me_of_one_quality_you_know_is_real",
          "text": "You remind me of one quality you know is real"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_care_for_me_without_needing_a_big_response",
          "text": "You care for me without needing a big response"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_let_the_day_be_hard_without_treating_me_as_hard_to_love",
          "text": "You let the day be hard without treating me as hard to love"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_do_not_try_to_talk_me_out_of_every_feeling",
            "text": "You do not try to talk me out of every feeling"
          },
          {
            "id": "your_affection_stays_simple_and_believable",
            "text": "Your affection stays simple and believable"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_remind_me_of_one_quality_you_know_is_real",
            "text": "You remind me of one quality you know is real"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_care_for_me_without_needing_a_big_response",
            "text": "You care for me without needing a big response"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_let_the_day_be_hard_without_treating_me_as_hard_to_love",
            "text": "You let the day be hard without treating me as hard to love"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_118",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which part of your inner world would you most like to share more often?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "inner_world",
        "sharing_more",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "the_future_i_imagine_when_i_am_hopeful",
          "text": "The future I imagine when I am hopeful"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_thoughts_i_have_when_i_cannot_sleep",
          "text": "The thoughts I have when I cannot sleep"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_stories_i_tell_myself_about_who_i_am",
          "text": "The stories I tell myself about who I am"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_private_things_that_make_me_feel_alive",
          "text": "The private things that make me feel alive"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_future_i_imagine_when_i_am_hopeful",
            "text": "The future I imagine when I am hopeful"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_thoughts_i_have_when_i_cannot_sleep",
            "text": "The thoughts I have when I cannot sleep"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_stories_i_tell_myself_about_who_i_am",
            "text": "The stories I tell myself about who I am"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_private_things_that_make_me_feel_alive",
            "text": "The private things that make me feel alive"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_119",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What tells you I respect your emotional pace?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "emotional_pace",
        "respect",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_do_not_turn_hesitation_into_a_deadline",
          "text": "I do not turn hesitation into a deadline"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_am_okay_with_you_sharing_things_a_little_at_a_time",
          "text": "I am okay with you sharing things a little at a time"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_accept_that_some_feelings_need_privacy_first",
          "text": "I accept that some feelings need privacy first"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_do_not_confuse_slower_sharing_with_less_love",
          "text": "I do not confuse slower sharing with less love"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_stay_interested_without_pushing",
          "text": "I stay interested without pushing"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_do_not_turn_hesitation_into_a_deadline",
            "text": "I do not turn hesitation into a deadline"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_am_okay_with_you_sharing_things_a_little_at_a_time",
            "text": "I am okay with you sharing things a little at a time"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_accept_that_some_feelings_need_privacy_first",
            "text": "I accept that some feelings need privacy first"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_do_not_confuse_slower_sharing_with_less_love",
            "text": "I do not confuse slower sharing with less love"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_stay_interested_without_pushing",
            "text": "I stay interested without pushing"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_120",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which imperfect parts of yourself feel most accepted by me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "imperfection",
        "acceptance",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "the_part_that_overthinks",
          "text": "The part that overthinks"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_part_that_needs_reassurance_sometimes",
          "text": "The part that needs reassurance sometimes"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_part_that_gets_tired_and_withdrawn",
          "text": "The part that gets tired and withdrawn"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_part_that_wants_more_than_it_admits",
          "text": "The part that wants more than it admits"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_part_that_has_a_hard_time_accepting_love",
          "text": "The part that has a hard time accepting love"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_part_that_overthinks",
            "text": "The part that overthinks"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_part_that_needs_reassurance_sometimes",
            "text": "The part that needs reassurance sometimes"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_part_that_gets_tired_and_withdrawn",
            "text": "The part that gets tired and withdrawn"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_part_that_wants_more_than_it_admits",
            "text": "The part that wants more than it admits"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_part_that_has_a_hard_time_accepting_love",
            "text": "The part that has a hard time accepting love"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_121",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of shared silence feels best?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "shared_silence",
        "comfort",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "the_quiet_after_a_meaningful_conversation",
          "text": "The quiet after a meaningful conversation"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_calm_of_doing_separate_things_nearby",
          "text": "The calm of doing separate things nearby"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_stillness_during_a_long_embrace",
          "text": "The stillness during a long embrace"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_peaceful_ride_home_after_a_good_day",
          "text": "The peaceful ride home after a good day"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_quiet_after_a_meaningful_conversation",
            "text": "The quiet after a meaningful conversation"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_calm_of_doing_separate_things_nearby",
            "text": "The calm of doing separate things nearby"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_stillness_during_a_long_embrace",
            "text": "The stillness during a long embrace"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_peaceful_ride_home_after_a_good_day",
            "text": "The peaceful ride home after a good day"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_122",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel like I understand the importance of your past?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "personal_history",
        "understanding",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_remember_which_experiences_still_affect_you",
          "text": "I remember which experiences still affect you"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_respect_the_people_and_places_that_shaped_you",
          "text": "I respect the people and places that shaped you"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_notice_when_an_old_memory_enters_a_new_moment",
          "text": "I notice when an old memory enters a new moment"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_do_not_reduce_your_past_to_one_simple_lesson",
          "text": "I do not reduce your past to one simple lesson"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_understand_that_growth_does_not_erase_history",
          "text": "I understand that growth does not erase history"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_remember_which_experiences_still_affect_you",
            "text": "I remember which experiences still affect you"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_respect_the_people_and_places_that_shaped_you",
            "text": "I respect the people and places that shaped you"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_notice_when_an_old_memory_enters_a_new_moment",
            "text": "I notice when an old memory enters a new moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_do_not_reduce_your_past_to_one_simple_lesson",
            "text": "I do not reduce your past to one simple lesson"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_understand_that_growth_does_not_erase_history",
            "text": "I understand that growth does not erase history"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_123",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which moments help you feel least guarded with me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "less_guarded",
        "ease",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "when_we_are_laughing_late_at_night",
          "text": "When we are laughing late at night"
        },
        {
          "id": "when_you_listen_without_changing_your_expression",
          "text": "When you listen without changing your expression"
        },
        {
          "id": "when_affection_feels_completely_ordinary",
          "text": "When affection feels completely ordinary"
        },
        {
          "id": "when_i_know_nothing_needs_to_be_decided",
          "text": "When I know nothing needs to be decided"
        },
        {
          "id": "when_you_share_something_vulnerable_first",
          "text": "When you share something vulnerable first"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "when_we_are_laughing_late_at_night",
            "text": "When we are laughing late at night"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_you_listen_without_changing_your_expression",
            "text": "When you listen without changing your expression"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_affection_feels_completely_ordinary",
            "text": "When affection feels completely ordinary"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_i_know_nothing_needs_to_be_decided",
            "text": "When I know nothing needs to be decided"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_you_share_something_vulnerable_first",
            "text": "When you share something vulnerable first"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_124",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel loved when you are not very expressive?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "low_expression",
        "being_loved",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_notice_the_smaller_ways_i_reach_toward_you",
          "text": "You notice the smaller ways I reach toward you"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_do_not_demand_a_matching_level_of_enthusiasm",
          "text": "You do not demand a matching level of enthusiasm"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_trust_that_quiet_affection_can_still_be_real",
          "text": "You trust that quiet affection can still be real"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_ask_what_would_feel_good_without_taking_it_personally",
          "text": "You ask what would feel good without taking it personally"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_leave_room_for_me_to_warm_up_in_my_own_way",
          "text": "You leave room for me to warm up in my own way"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_notice_the_smaller_ways_i_reach_toward_you",
            "text": "You notice the smaller ways I reach toward you"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_do_not_demand_a_matching_level_of_enthusiasm",
            "text": "You do not demand a matching level of enthusiasm"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_trust_that_quiet_affection_can_still_be_real",
            "text": "You trust that quiet affection can still be real"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_ask_what_would_feel_good_without_taking_it_personally",
            "text": "You ask what would feel good without taking it personally"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_leave_room_for_me_to_warm_up_in_my_own_way",
            "text": "You leave room for me to warm up in my own way"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_125",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes emotional closeness feel playful without becoming shallow?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "playful_intimacy",
        "depth",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "jokes_that_reveal_how_well_we_know_each_other",
          "text": "Jokes that reveal how well we know each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "flirting_that_still_feels_emotionally_personal",
          "text": "Flirting that still feels emotionally personal"
        },
        {
          "id": "silly_questions_with_surprisingly_honest_answers",
          "text": "Silly questions with surprisingly honest answers"
        },
        {
          "id": "affection_that_makes_serious_days_feel_lighter",
          "text": "Affection that makes serious days feel lighter"
        },
        {
          "id": "private_traditions_that_carry_real_meaning",
          "text": "Private traditions that carry real meaning"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "jokes_that_reveal_how_well_we_know_each_other",
            "text": "Jokes that reveal how well we know each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "flirting_that_still_feels_emotionally_personal",
            "text": "Flirting that still feels emotionally personal"
          },
          {
            "id": "silly_questions_with_surprisingly_honest_answers",
            "text": "Silly questions with surprisingly honest answers"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection_that_makes_serious_days_feel_lighter",
            "text": "Affection that makes serious days feel lighter"
          },
          {
            "id": "private_traditions_that_carry_real_meaning",
            "text": "Private traditions that carry real meaning"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_126",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you let your guard down without regretting it later?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "letting_guard_down",
        "aftercare",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_respond_without_treating_me_as_fragile",
          "text": "You respond without treating me as fragile"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_keep_what_i_share_in_the_right_context",
          "text": "You keep what I share in the right context"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_do_not_bring_the_moment_up_carelessly_later",
          "text": "You do not bring the moment up carelessly later"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_allow_me_to_keep_some_parts_unfinished",
          "text": "You allow me to keep some parts unfinished"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_make_vulnerability_feel_respected_rather_than_examined",
          "text": "You make vulnerability feel respected rather than examined"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_respond_without_treating_me_as_fragile",
            "text": "You respond without treating me as fragile"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_keep_what_i_share_in_the_right_context",
            "text": "You keep what I share in the right context"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_do_not_bring_the_moment_up_carelessly_later",
            "text": "You do not bring the moment up carelessly later"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_allow_me_to_keep_some_parts_unfinished",
            "text": "You allow me to keep some parts unfinished"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_make_vulnerability_feel_respected_rather_than_examined",
            "text": "You make vulnerability feel respected rather than examined"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_127",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you feel discouraged, which response makes you feel most known?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "discouragement",
        "being_known",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "remind_me_what_usually_brings_me_back",
          "text": "Remind me what usually brings me back"
        },
        {
          "id": "name_the_strength_i_cannot_see_in_myself",
          "text": "Name the strength I cannot see in myself"
        },
        {
          "id": "acknowledge_why_this_matters_so_much_to_me",
          "text": "Acknowledge why this matters so much to me"
        },
        {
          "id": "stay_beside_me_without_trying_to_improve_my_mood",
          "text": "Stay beside me without trying to improve my mood"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "remind_me_what_usually_brings_me_back",
            "text": "Remind me what usually brings me back"
          },
          {
            "id": "name_the_strength_i_cannot_see_in_myself",
            "text": "Name the strength I cannot see in myself"
          },
          {
            "id": "acknowledge_why_this_matters_so_much_to_me",
            "text": "Acknowledge why this matters so much to me"
          },
          {
            "id": "stay_beside_me_without_trying_to_improve_my_mood",
            "text": "Stay beside me without trying to improve my mood"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_128",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident are you that I know when to comfort you and when to give you space?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "comfort_or_space",
        "partner_knowledge",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Still learning",
        "max_label": "Usually accurate"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_129",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of our emotional connection have improved over time?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "relationship_growth",
        "emotional_progress",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "we_notice_each_other_more_quickly",
          "text": "We notice each other more quickly"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_are_less_afraid_of_awkward_tenderness",
          "text": "We are less afraid of awkward tenderness"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_recover_our_warmth_more_naturally",
          "text": "We recover our warmth more naturally"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_understand_each_others_quiet_moods_better",
          "text": "We understand each other’s quiet moods better"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_show_appreciation_with_fewer_reminders",
          "text": "We show appreciation with fewer reminders"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "we_notice_each_other_more_quickly",
            "text": "We notice each other more quickly"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_are_less_afraid_of_awkward_tenderness",
            "text": "We are less afraid of awkward tenderness"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_recover_our_warmth_more_naturally",
            "text": "We recover our warmth more naturally"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_understand_each_others_quiet_moods_better",
            "text": "We understand each other’s quiet moods better"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_show_appreciation_with_fewer_reminders",
            "text": "We show appreciation with fewer reminders"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_130",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel loved after you have disappointed yourself?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "self_disappointment",
        "compassion",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_separate_one_mistake_from_who_i_am",
          "text": "You separate one mistake from who I am"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_remind_me_of_progress_i_tend_to_forget",
          "text": "You remind me of progress I tend to forget"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_let_me_be_accountable_without_becoming_ashamed",
          "text": "You let me be accountable without becoming ashamed"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_do_not_make_me_earn_your_affection_back",
          "text": "You do not make me earn your affection back"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_trust_me_to_learn_without_lecturing",
          "text": "You trust me to learn without lecturing"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_separate_one_mistake_from_who_i_am",
            "text": "You separate one mistake from who I am"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_remind_me_of_progress_i_tend_to_forget",
            "text": "You remind me of progress I tend to forget"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_let_me_be_accountable_without_becoming_ashamed",
            "text": "You let me be accountable without becoming ashamed"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_do_not_make_me_earn_your_affection_back",
            "text": "You do not make me earn your affection back"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_trust_me_to_learn_without_lecturing",
            "text": "You trust me to learn without lecturing"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_131",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which emotional signal from me is easiest for you to recognize?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "partner_signals",
        "emotional_awareness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "the_look_that_means_i_need_comfort",
          "text": "The look that means I need comfort"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_tone_that_means_i_am_overwhelmed",
          "text": "The tone that means I am overwhelmed"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_humor_that_means_i_am_trying_to_reconnect",
          "text": "The humor that means I am trying to reconnect"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_quietness_that_means_i_am_still_thinking",
          "text": "The quietness that means I am still thinking"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_look_that_means_i_need_comfort",
            "text": "The look that means I need comfort"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_tone_that_means_i_am_overwhelmed",
            "text": "The tone that means I am overwhelmed"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_humor_that_means_i_am_trying_to_reconnect",
            "text": "The humor that means I am trying to reconnect"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_quietness_that_means_i_am_still_thinking",
            "text": "The quietness that means I am still thinking"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_132",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes you feel like we are emotionally on the same team?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "emotional_teamwork",
        "mutual_care",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "we_care_without_pretending_we_control_it",
          "text": "We care about each other’s happiness without pretending we control it"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_protect_each_others_dignity_during_vulnerable_moments",
          "text": "We protect each other’s dignity during vulnerable moments"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_make_room_for_two_different_reactions",
          "text": "We make room for two different reactions"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_notice_when_one_person_needs_more_care",
          "text": "We notice when one person needs more care"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_want_to_understand_before_deciding_what_something_means",
          "text": "We want to understand before deciding what something means"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "we_care_without_pretending_we_control_it",
            "text": "We care about each other’s happiness without pretending we control it"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_protect_each_others_dignity_during_vulnerable_moments",
            "text": "We protect each other’s dignity during vulnerable moments"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_make_room_for_two_different_reactions",
            "text": "We make room for two different reactions"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_notice_when_one_person_needs_more_care",
            "text": "We notice when one person needs more care"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_want_to_understand_before_deciding_what_something_means",
            "text": "We want to understand before deciding what something means"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_133",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How free do you feel to change and still be known by me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "being_known",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "A little boxed in",
        "max_label": "Free to keep growing"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_134",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which forms of tenderness would you like more of?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "tenderness_preferences",
        "more_closeness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "affection_in_the_middle_of_ordinary_tasks",
          "text": "Affection in the middle of ordinary tasks"
        },
        {
          "id": "gentle_words_when_i_am_being_hard_on_myself",
          "text": "Gentle words when I am being hard on myself"
        },
        {
          "id": "longer_eye_contact_when_we_reunite",
          "text": "Longer eye contact when we reunite"
        },
        {
          "id": "small_messages_that_feel_emotionally_personal",
          "text": "Small messages that feel emotionally personal"
        },
        {
          "id": "being_held_for_a_moment_before_sleep",
          "text": "Being held for a moment before sleep"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "affection_in_the_middle_of_ordinary_tasks",
            "text": "Affection in the middle of ordinary tasks"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_words_when_i_am_being_hard_on_myself",
            "text": "Gentle words when I am being hard on myself"
          },
          {
            "id": "longer_eye_contact_when_we_reunite",
            "text": "Longer eye contact when we reunite"
          },
          {
            "id": "small_messages_that_feel_emotionally_personal",
            "text": "Small messages that feel emotionally personal"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_held_for_a_moment_before_sleep",
            "text": "Being held for a moment before sleep"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_135",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A remembered detail or an unexpected compliment?",
      "depth": 1,
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "feeling_seen",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_remembered_detail",
          "text": "A remembered detail"
        },
        {
          "id": "an_unexpected_compliment",
          "text": "An unexpected compliment"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_remembered_detail",
            "text": "A remembered detail"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_unexpected_compliment",
            "text": "An unexpected compliment"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_136",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What shows you that I know who you are now, not only who you used to be?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "current_self",
        "ongoing_curiosity",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_notice_which_priorities_have_changed",
          "text": "I notice which priorities have changed"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_ask_about_new_interests_without_comparing_them_to_old_ones",
          "text": "I ask about new interests without comparing them to old ones"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_update_the_way_i_support_you",
          "text": "I update the way I support you"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_recognize_strengths_you_developed_later",
          "text": "I recognize strengths you developed later"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_leave_room_for_opinions_that_have_evolved",
          "text": "I leave room for opinions that have evolved"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_notice_which_priorities_have_changed",
            "text": "I notice which priorities have changed"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_ask_about_new_interests_without_comparing_them_to_old_ones",
            "text": "I ask about new interests without comparing them to old ones"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_update_the_way_i_support_you",
            "text": "I update the way I support you"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_recognize_strengths_you_developed_later",
            "text": "I recognize strengths you developed later"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_leave_room_for_opinions_that_have_evolved",
            "text": "I leave room for opinions that have evolved"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_137",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "If life became much busier, which kind of closeness would you protect first?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "protecting_closeness",
        "busy_life",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "a_real_greeting_and_goodbye",
          "text": "A real greeting and goodbye"
        },
        {
          "id": "one_honest_daily_check_in",
          "text": "One honest daily check-in"
        },
        {
          "id": "regular_affection_without_a_schedule",
          "text": "Regular affection without a schedule"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_weekly_moment_that_belongs_only_to_us",
          "text": "A weekly moment that belongs only to us"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_real_greeting_and_goodbye",
            "text": "A real greeting and goodbye"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_honest_daily_check_in",
            "text": "One honest daily check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "regular_affection_without_a_schedule",
            "text": "Regular affection without a schedule"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_weekly_moment_that_belongs_only_to_us",
            "text": "A weekly moment that belongs only to us"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_138",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you let a good moment with me fully sink in?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "savoring",
        "positive_moments",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "we_pause_instead_of_immediately_moving_on",
          "text": "We pause instead of immediately moving on"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_say_out_loud_that_the_moment_matters",
          "text": "You say out loud that the moment matters"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_take_a_photo_without_living_through_the_camera",
          "text": "We take a photo without living through the camera"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_revisit_the_memory_a_few_days_later",
          "text": "We revisit the memory a few days later"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_enjoy_it_without_trying_to_make_it_bigger",
          "text": "We enjoy it without trying to make it bigger"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "we_pause_instead_of_immediately_moving_on",
            "text": "We pause instead of immediately moving on"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_say_out_loud_that_the_moment_matters",
            "text": "You say out loud that the moment matters"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_take_a_photo_without_living_through_the_camera",
            "text": "We take a photo without living through the camera"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_revisit_the_memory_a_few_days_later",
            "text": "We revisit the memory a few days later"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_enjoy_it_without_trying_to_make_it_bigger",
            "text": "We enjoy it without trying to make it bigger"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_139",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things make our bond feel private and irreplaceable?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "unique_bond",
        "private_connection",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "the_exact_history_behind_our_ordinary_phrases",
          "text": "The exact history behind our ordinary phrases"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_way_our_humor_has_changed_over_the_years",
          "text": "The way our humor has changed over the years"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_parts_of_each_other_few_people_get_to_see",
          "text": "The parts of each other few people get to see"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_comfort_built_from_thousands_of_small_moments",
          "text": "The comfort built from thousands of small moments"
        },
        {
          "id": "the_particular_way_we_return_to_one_another",
          "text": "The particular way we return to one another"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_exact_history_behind_our_ordinary_phrases",
            "text": "The exact history behind our ordinary phrases"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_way_our_humor_has_changed_over_the_years",
            "text": "The way our humor has changed over the years"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_parts_of_each_other_few_people_get_to_see",
            "text": "The parts of each other few people get to see"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_comfort_built_from_thousands_of_small_moments",
            "text": "The comfort built from thousands of small moments"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_particular_way_we_return_to_one_another",
            "text": "The particular way we return to one another"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_140",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How warm has our emotional connection felt lately?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "current_warmth",
        "connection",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "A little cool",
        "max_label": "Very warm"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_141",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you are carrying something privately, which invitation feels best?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "private_feelings",
        "invitation",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_am_here_if_you_want_company",
          "text": "I am here if you want company"
        },
        {
          "id": "you_do_not_have_to_explain_but_you_do_not_have_to_be_alone",
          "text": "You do not have to explain, but you do not have to be alone"
        },
        {
          "id": "would_comfort_distraction_or_space_help_most",
          "text": "Would comfort, distraction, or space help most?"
        },
        {
          "id": "tell_me_whenever_the_words_are_ready",
          "text": "Tell me whenever the words are ready"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_am_here_if_you_want_company",
            "text": "I am here if you want company"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_do_not_have_to_explain_but_you_do_not_have_to_be_alone",
            "text": "You do not have to explain, but you do not have to be alone"
          },
          {
            "id": "would_comfort_distraction_or_space_help_most",
            "text": "Would comfort, distraction, or space help most?"
          },
          {
            "id": "tell_me_whenever_the_words_are_ready",
            "text": "Tell me whenever the words are ready"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_142",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you say that you need more emotional closeness from me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "asking_for_more",
        "emotional_needs",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "knowing_i_can_ask_without_proving_something_is_wrong",
          "text": "Knowing I can ask without proving something is wrong"
        },
        {
          "id": "having_simple_words_for_what_i_want",
          "text": "Having simple words for what I want"
        },
        {
          "id": "trusting_that_you_will_not_hear_it_as_criticism",
          "text": "Trusting that you will not hear it as criticism"
        },
        {
          "id": "being_able_to_request_one_small_change",
          "text": "Being able to request one small change"
        },
        {
          "id": "hearing_you_ask_for_closeness_sometimes_too",
          "text": "Hearing you ask for closeness sometimes too"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "knowing_i_can_ask_without_proving_something_is_wrong",
            "text": "Knowing I can ask without proving something is wrong"
          },
          {
            "id": "having_simple_words_for_what_i_want",
            "text": "Having simple words for what I want"
          },
          {
            "id": "trusting_that_you_will_not_hear_it_as_criticism",
            "text": "Trusting that you will not hear it as criticism"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_able_to_request_one_small_change",
            "text": "Being able to request one small change"
          },
          {
            "id": "hearing_you_ask_for_closeness_sometimes_too",
            "text": "Hearing you ask for closeness sometimes too"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_143",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs tell you I am curious about who you are becoming?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "becoming",
        "curiosity",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "i_ask_what_feels_different_inside_you",
          "text": "I ask what feels different inside you"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_notice_new_confidence_or_new_hesitation",
          "text": "I notice new confidence or new hesitation"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_want_to_know_what_you_are_outgrowing",
          "text": "I want to know what you are outgrowing"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_listen_for_dreams_that_were_not_there_before",
          "text": "I listen for dreams that were not there before"
        },
        {
          "id": "i_do_not_assume_your_old_answers_still_fit",
          "text": "I do not assume your old answers still fit"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_ask_what_feels_different_inside_you",
            "text": "I ask what feels different inside you"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_notice_new_confidence_or_new_hesitation",
            "text": "I notice new confidence or new hesitation"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_want_to_know_what_you_are_outgrowing",
            "text": "I want to know what you are outgrowing"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_listen_for_dreams_that_were_not_there_before",
            "text": "I listen for dreams that were not there before"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_do_not_assume_your_old_answers_still_fit",
            "text": "I do not assume your old answers still fit"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_144",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "After we have lived in separate worlds all day, what brings emotional closeness back?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "separate_days",
        "returning_together",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "sharing_the_one_moment_that_affected_us_most",
          "text": "Sharing the one moment that affected us most"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_few_minutes_with_no_screens_or_multitasking",
          "text": "A few minutes with no screens or multitasking"
        },
        {
          "id": "affection_that_marks_the_shift_back_to_us",
          "text": "Affection that marks the shift back to us"
        },
        {
          "id": "hearing_one_thing_the_other_person_thought_about",
          "text": "Hearing one thing the other person thought about"
        },
        {
          "id": "doing_something_small_at_the_same_pace",
          "text": "Doing something small at the same pace"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sharing_the_one_moment_that_affected_us_most",
            "text": "Sharing the one moment that affected us most"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_few_minutes_with_no_screens_or_multitasking",
            "text": "A few minutes with no screens or multitasking"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection_that_marks_the_shift_back_to_us",
            "text": "Affection that marks the shift back to us"
          },
          {
            "id": "hearing_one_thing_the_other_person_thought_about",
            "text": "Hearing one thing the other person thought about"
          },
          {
            "id": "doing_something_small_at_the_same_pace",
            "text": "Doing something small at the same pace"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_145",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which caring gesture feels most romantic?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "romantic_care",
        "emotional_romance",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "remembering_what_i_was_nervous_about",
          "text": "Remembering what I was nervous about"
        },
        {
          "id": "defending_time_for_something_important_to_me",
          "text": "Defending time for something important to me"
        },
        {
          "id": "checking_on_the_part_of_me_nobody_else_noticed",
          "text": "Checking on the part of me nobody else noticed"
        },
        {
          "id": "making_me_feel_wanted_when_i_am_not_dressed_up",
          "text": "Making me feel wanted when I am not dressed up"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "remembering_what_i_was_nervous_about",
            "text": "Remembering what I was nervous about"
          },
          {
            "id": "defending_time_for_something_important_to_me",
            "text": "Defending time for something important to me"
          },
          {
            "id": "checking_on_the_part_of_me_nobody_else_noticed",
            "text": "Checking on the part of me nobody else noticed"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_me_feel_wanted_when_i_am_not_dressed_up",
            "text": "Making me feel wanted when I am not dressed up"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_146",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you believe tenderness is welcome between us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "welcoming_tenderness",
        "emotional_openness",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "you_do_not_joke_away_every_tender_moment",
          "text": "You do not joke away every tender moment"
        },
        {
          "id": "affection_does_not_have_to_lead_anywhere",
          "text": "Affection does not have to lead anywhere"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_can_ask_for_comfort_without_apologizing",
          "text": "We can ask for comfort without apologizing"
        },
        {
          "id": "emotional_moments_are_not_treated_as_inconvenient",
          "text": "Emotional moments are not treated as inconvenient"
        },
        {
          "id": "both_of_us_are_allowed_to_initiate_gentleness",
          "text": "Both of us are allowed to initiate gentleness"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_do_not_joke_away_every_tender_moment",
            "text": "You do not joke away every tender moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection_does_not_have_to_lead_anywhere",
            "text": "Affection does not have to lead anywhere"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_can_ask_for_comfort_without_apologizing",
            "text": "We can ask for comfort without apologizing"
          },
          {
            "id": "emotional_moments_are_not_treated_as_inconvenient",
            "text": "Emotional moments are not treated as inconvenient"
          },
          {
            "id": "both_of_us_are_allowed_to_initiate_gentleness",
            "text": "Both of us are allowed to initiate gentleness"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_147",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which moments make you feel like we still surprise each other?",
      "depth": 2,
      "tags": [
        "surprise",
        "ongoing_discovery",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "one_of_us_reveals_a_story_the_other_never_heard",
          "text": "One of us reveals a story the other never heard"
        },
        {
          "id": "a_familiar_person_reacts_in_an_unexpected_way",
          "text": "A familiar person reacts in an unexpected way"
        },
        {
          "id": "we_discover_a_new_shared_opinion",
          "text": "We discover a new shared opinion"
        },
        {
          "id": "one_of_us_becomes_brave_in_a_new_area",
          "text": "One of us becomes brave in a new area"
        },
        {
          "id": "an_ordinary_conversation_turns_unexpectedly_intimate",
          "text": "An ordinary conversation turns unexpectedly intimate"
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            "id": "one_of_us_reveals_a_story_the_other_never_heard",
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            "id": "a_familiar_person_reacts_in_an_unexpected_way",
            "text": "A familiar person reacts in an unexpected way"
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            "id": "we_discover_a_new_shared_opinion",
            "text": "We discover a new shared opinion"
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          {
            "id": "one_of_us_becomes_brave_in_a_new_area",
            "text": "One of us becomes brave in a new area"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_ordinary_conversation_turns_unexpectedly_intimate",
            "text": "An ordinary conversation turns unexpectedly intimate"
          }
        ],
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_148",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things do you think help me feel closest to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "partner_prediction",
        "emotional_needs",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "feeling_fully_listened_to",
          "text": "Feeling fully listened to"
        },
        {
          "id": "receiving_affection_without_having_to_ask",
          "text": "Receiving affection without having to ask"
        },
        {
          "id": "knowing_my_inner_life_interests_you",
          "text": "Knowing my inner life interests you"
        },
        {
          "id": "feeling_accepted_when_my_mood_is_complicated",
          "text": "Feeling accepted when my mood is complicated"
        },
        {
          "id": "sharing_humor_and_lightness_with_you",
          "text": "Sharing humor and lightness with you"
        }
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          {
            "id": "feeling_fully_listened_to",
            "text": "Feeling fully listened to"
          },
          {
            "id": "receiving_affection_without_having_to_ask",
            "text": "Receiving affection without having to ask"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_my_inner_life_interests_you",
            "text": "Knowing my inner life interests you"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_accepted_when_my_mood_is_complicated",
            "text": "Feeling accepted when my mood is complicated"
          },
          {
            "id": "sharing_humor_and_lightness_with_you",
            "text": "Sharing humor and lightness with you"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "emotional_intimacy_149",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which kinds of memories would you like us to make more often?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "future_memories",
        "emotional_experiences",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "nights_when_we_lose_track_of_time_talking",
          "text": "Nights when we lose track of time talking"
        },
        {
          "id": "moments_when_one_of_us_feels_deeply_celebrated",
          "text": "Moments when one of us feels deeply celebrated"
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        {
          "id": "quiet_days_that_feel_unusually_close",
          "text": "Quiet days that feel unusually close"
        },
        {
          "id": "adventures_that_reveal_a_new_side_of_us",
          "text": "Adventures that reveal a new side of us"
        },
        {
          "id": "times_we_choose_tenderness_in_an_ordinary_place",
          "text": "Times we choose tenderness in an ordinary place"
        }
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "nights_when_we_lose_track_of_time_talking",
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            "id": "moments_when_one_of_us_feels_deeply_celebrated",
            "text": "Moments when one of us feels deeply celebrated"
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          {
            "id": "quiet_days_that_feel_unusually_close",
            "text": "Quiet days that feel unusually close"
          },
          {
            "id": "adventures_that_reveal_a_new_side_of_us",
            "text": "Adventures that reveal a new side of us"
          },
          {
            "id": "times_we_choose_tenderness_in_an_ordinary_place",
            "text": "Times we choose tenderness in an ordinary place"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
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      "id": "emotional_intimacy_150",
      "category_id": "emotional_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you hope we never stop knowing about each other?",
      "depth": 3,
      "tags": [
        "enduring_knowledge",
        "written_reflection",
        "emotional_intimacy"
      ],
      "access": "premium",
      "sex": "neutral",
      "answer_config": {
        "min_length": 1,
        "max_length": 500,
        "placeholder": "Write your answer..."
      }
    }
  ]
}