diff --git a/seed/questions/couple_intimacy.json b/seed/questions/couple_intimacy.json index e7c63542..e678dc14 100644 --- a/seed/questions/couple_intimacy.json +++ b/seed/questions/couple_intimacy.json @@ -2,7 +2,7 @@ "category": { "id": "couple_intimacy", "display_name": "Couple Intimacy", - "description": "Adult, consent-first questions that help couples talk about closeness, desire, affection, privacy, boundaries, aftercare, and keeping intimacy playful.", + "description": "Warm, adult, consent-first questions about affection, desire, emotional closeness, privacy, feedback, aftercare, play, and growing intimacy together.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "favorite", "schema_version": "question_v2", @@ -11,3689 +11,841 @@ "free_questions": 60, "premium_questions": 240, "type_counts": { - "written": 180, + "written": 12, "single_choice": 60, - "multi_choice": 30, - "scale": 15, - "this_or_that": 15 + "multi_choice": 168, + "scale": 42, + "this_or_that": 18 }, "sex_counts": { - "neutral": 290, - "female": 5, - "male": 5 + "neutral": 300, + "female": 0, + "male": 0 }, - "note": "Converted from legacy audience/tier/format/question schema to standard question_v2 schema for the seed database." + "content_version": "couple_intimacy_v3_final_review", + "batch_size": 15, + "review_policy": "20 batches of 15 with pack-wide repetition checks and 60-question checkpoints", + "mass_rewrite_exception": { + "used": true, + "reason": "The source pack had a shared root failure across more than 60% of the content: 180 written prompts, repeated template blocks, and basic preferences that did not earn typed responses.", + "preserved_fields": [ + "300 total questions", + "IDs couple_intimacy_001 through couple_intimacy_300", + "60 free / 240 premium", + "category id", + "question_v2 schema" + ] + }, + "type_distribution_note": "This 300-question special pack scales the standard v6 type ratio to 168 multi-choice, 60 single-choice, 42 scale, 18 this-or-that, and 12 written.", + "content_scope": "Shared couple intimacy: mutual affection, desire, consent, communication, privacy, aftercare, repair, play, and long-term closeness. It avoids unnecessary gender targeting and keeps all questions neutral.", + "final_review_note": "A final independent review patched subtle consent, prompt-option fit, scope overlap, free/premium placement, and natural-language issues in 15-question batches." } }, "questions": [ { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which everyday gestures make you feel quietly loved?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "everyday_affection", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_kiss_before_leaving", + "text": "A kiss before leaving" + }, + { + "id": "a_hand_on_my_back", + "text": "A hand on my back" + }, + { + "id": "sitting_close_on_purpose", + "text": "Sitting close on purpose" + }, + { + "id": "a_thoughtful_check_in", + "text": "A thoughtful check-in" + }, + { + "id": "a_long_hello_hug", + "text": "A long hello hug" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, "id": "couple_intimacy_001", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of closeness makes you feel most like we are a couple, not just roommates?", - "depth": 3, "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What affectionate moment would improve an ordinary morning most?", + "depth": 1, "tags": [ - "closeness", - "relationship", + "morning_affection", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_sleepy_cuddle", + "text": "A sleepy cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "a_real_goodbye_kiss", + "text": "A real goodbye kiss" + }, + { + "id": "sharing_coffee_in_bed", + "text": "Sharing coffee in bed" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_compliment", + "text": "A warm compliment" + } + ] + }, "id": "couple_intimacy_002", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What small touch makes an ordinary day feel more intimate?", - "depth": 2, "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When we reunite after work, what helps you feel welcomed?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "touch", - "daily_life", + "reunion", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_full_attention_hello", + "text": "A full-attention hello" + }, + { + "id": "a_lingering_hug", + "text": "A lingering hug" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_kiss", + "text": "A playful kiss" + }, + { + "id": "a_few_quiet_minutes_together", + "text": "A few quiet minutes together" + }, + { + "id": "hearing_that_i_was_missed", + "text": "Hearing that I was missed" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, "id": "couple_intimacy_003", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of flirting still works on you?", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much does casual touch matter to your sense of closeness?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "flirting", - "fun", + "casual_touch", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very little", + "max_label": "A great deal" + }, "id": "couple_intimacy_004", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel wanted without feeling pressured?", - "depth": 4, "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes sitting together feel more intimate?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "wanted", - "pressure", + "shared_space", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { + "options": [ + { + "id": "leaning_into_each_other", + "text": "Leaning into each other" + }, + { + "id": "holding_hands", + "text": "Holding hands" + }, + { + "id": "sharing_one_blanket", + "text": "Sharing one blanket" + }, + { + "id": "putting_phones_away", + "text": "Putting phones away" + }, + { + "id": "talking_without_rushing", + "text": "Talking without rushing" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, "id": "couple_intimacy_005", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a kiss feel connected instead of automatic?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Pick the small touch that feels most naturally romantic.", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "kissing", - "connection", + "romantic_touch", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fingers_intertwined", + "text": "Fingers intertwined" + }, + { + "id": "a_forehead_kiss", + "text": "A forehead kiss" + }, + { + "id": "a_hand_at_my_waist", + "text": "A hand at my waist" + }, + { + "id": "a_slow_shoulder_rub", + "text": "A slow shoulder rub" + } + ] + }, "id": "couple_intimacy_006", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of private time helps you relax into me?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kinds of affection feel good during a busy day?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "private_time", - "relaxation", + "busy_day", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_quick_kiss", + "text": "A quick kiss" + }, + { + "id": "a_flirty_message", + "text": "A flirty message" + }, + { + "id": "a_reassuring_squeeze", + "text": "A reassuring squeeze" + }, + { + "id": "a_sincere_compliment", + "text": "A sincere compliment" + }, + { + "id": "a_brief_cuddle", + "text": "A brief cuddle" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, "id": "couple_intimacy_007", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one little thing I do that makes you want to be closer?", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which bedtime habits help us feel like a couple?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "closeness", - "small_actions", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_008", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps affection feel playful between us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "affection", - "play", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_009", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "When do you feel most comfortable reaching for me?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "comfort", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_010", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of hug makes you feel cared for?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "hugs", - "care", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_011", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of attention makes you feel attractive to me?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "attention", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_012", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you move from stress into closeness?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "transition", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_013", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes cuddling feel 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+ "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_015", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of hello or goodbye affection do you like most?", + "text": "What affectionate habit of ours would you love to bring back?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "affection_memory", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 400 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_009", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does a hug feel especially caring?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "hugs", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_lasts_long_enough", + "text": "It lasts long enough" + }, + { + "id": "it_arrives_at_the_right_moment", + "text": "It arrives at the right moment" + }, + { + "id": "the_other_person_is_fully_present", + "text": "The other person is fully present" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_no_rush_afterward", + "text": "There is no rush afterward" + }, + { + "id": "it_fits_my_mood", + "text": "It fits my mood" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_010", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Where would a welcome kiss feel sweetest?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "affection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_016", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a night together feel private, even if it is simple?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "date_night", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_017", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of compliment makes you feel desired?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "compliments", - "desired", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_018", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you say yes honestly?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "yes", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_019", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you say no without guilt?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "no", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_020", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you hear no without feeling unwanted?", - "depth": 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"neutral", - "tags": [ - "play", - "intimacy", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_024", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of privacy do you need before you can fully relax?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "relaxation", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_025", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes being close feel natural instead of scheduled?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "natural", - "connection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_026", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch helps you feel grounded?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - 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"category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make kissing feel more like us this month?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "monthly", - "identity", - "kissing", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_172", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make cuddling feel more like us this month?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "monthly", - "identity", - "cuddling", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_173", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make flirting feel more like us this month?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "monthly", - "identity", - "flirting", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_174", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make private time feel more like us this month?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "monthly", - "identity", - "private_time", - "privacy", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_175", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make desire feel more like us this month?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "monthly", - "identity", - "desire", - "desired", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_176", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make touch feel more like us this month?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "monthly", - "identity", - "touch", - "physical_closeness", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_177", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make aftercare feel more like us this month?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "monthly", - "identity", - "aftercare", - "care", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_178", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make trying something new feel more like us this month?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "monthly", - "identity", - "novelty", - "curiosity", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_179", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make body confidence feel more like us this month?", - 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"type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel most wanted?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can affection stay warm without becoming automatic?", "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "wanted", + "intentional_affection", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "words", - "text": "Words" + "id": "changing_the_timing", + "text": "Changing the timing" }, { - "id": "touch", - "text": "Touch" + "id": "making_eye_contact", + "text": "Making eye contact" }, { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" + "id": "adding_a_few_words", + "text": "Adding a few words" }, { - "id": "planning", - "text": "Planning" + "id": "following_the_other_person_s_mood", + "text": "Following the other person's mood" + }, + { + "id": "letting_it_linger", + "text": "Letting it linger" } - ] - } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_012", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_186", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which mood helps intimacy most?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "mood", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet", - "text": "Sweet" - }, - { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" - }, - { - "id": "romantic", - "text": "Romantic" - }, - { - "id": "spicy", - "text": "Spicy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_187", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps a yes feel honest?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_188", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you say no kindly?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "simple_words", - "text": "Simple words" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "another_closeness", - "text": "Another closeness option" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_189", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which aftercare sounds sweetest?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How connected do our everyday affection habits feel lately?", "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "aftercare", + "affection_check", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cuddles", - "text": "Cuddles" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_words", - "text": "Sweet 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"couple_intimacy_191", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which ordinary moment could use more affection?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "morning", - "text": "Morning" - }, - { - "id": "goodbye", - "text": "Goodbye" + "id": "morning_routines", + "text": "Morning routines" }, { "id": "coming_home", "text": "Coming home" }, { - "id": "bedtime", - "text": "Bedtime" + "id": "cooking_together", + "text": "Cooking together" + }, + { + "id": "watching_something", + "text": "Watching something" + }, + { + "id": "getting_ready_for_bed", + "text": "Getting ready for bed" } - ] - } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_014", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_192", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of anticipation do you like most?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does nonsexual affection feel satisfying on its own?", "depth": 3, + "tags": [ + "nonsexual_affection", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_hidden_expectation", + "text": "No hidden expectation" + }, + { + "id": "enough_time_to_enjoy_it", + "text": "Enough time to enjoy it" + }, + { + "id": "warm_words_with_it", + "text": "Warm words with it" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_emotionally_present", + "text": "Feeling emotionally present" + }, + { + "id": "it_can_stay_exactly_as_it_is", + "text": "It can stay exactly as it is" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_015", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which playful energy makes affection more fun?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "playfulness", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_jokes", + "text": "Private jokes" + }, + { + "id": "playful_challenges", + "text": "Playful challenges" + }, + { + "id": "silly_compliments", + "text": "Silly compliments" + }, + { + "id": "unexpected_dancing", + "text": "Unexpected dancing" + }, + { + "id": "teasing_that_stays_kind", + "text": "Teasing that stays kind" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_016", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which flirty move would make you smile fastest?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "flirting", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_knowing_look", + "text": "A knowing look" + }, + { + "id": "a_bold_compliment", + "text": "A bold compliment" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_text", + "text": "A playful text" + }, + { + "id": "a_slow_kiss_in_passing", + "text": "A slow kiss in passing" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_017", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does teasing feel exciting instead of annoying?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "teasing", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_tone", + "text": "A warm tone" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_when_to_stop", + "text": "Knowing when to stop" + }, + { + "id": "flirting_back_and_forth", + "text": "Flirting back and forth" + }, + { + "id": "no_embarrassing_audience", + "text": "No embarrassing audience" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_018", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How playful does our affection feel right now?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "playful_affection", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very playful", + "max_label": "Very playful" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_019", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What tiny games could make private time more fun?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "private_games", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "take_turns_choosing_music", + "text": "Take turns choosing music" + }, + { + "id": "trade_specific_compliments", + "text": "Trade specific compliments" + }, + { + "id": "guess_each_other_s_favorite_kiss", + "text": "Guess each other's favorite kiss" + }, + { + "id": "pick_a_surprise_cuddle_spot", + "text": "Pick a surprise cuddle spot" + }, + { + "id": "create_a_private_signal", + "text": "Create a private signal" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_020", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of laughter feels most natural during intimate moments?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "laughter", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_giggles", + "text": "Soft giggles" + }, + { + "id": "big_shared_laughs", + "text": "Big shared laughs" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_through_an_awkward_moment", + "text": "Laughing through an awkward moment" + }, + { + "id": "very_little_unless_it_happens_naturally", + "text": "Very little unless it happens naturally" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_021", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which flirty messages would brighten your day?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "flirty_messages", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_specific_compliment", + "text": "A specific compliment" + }, + { + "id": "a_memory_of_last_night", + "text": "A memory of last night" + }, + { + "id": "a_simple_i_want_you", + "text": "A simple 'I want you'" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_invitation", + "text": "A playful invitation" + }, + { + "id": "an_inside_joke_with_a_hint", + "text": "An inside joke with a hint" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_022", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can a private game stay comfortable?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "game_safety", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "skipping_is_always_allowed", + "text": "Skipping is always allowed" + }, + { + "id": "rules_are_clear_first", + "text": "Rules are clear first" + }, + { + "id": "either_person_can_pause", + "text": "Either person can pause" + }, + { + "id": "the_mood_stays_kind", + "text": "The mood stays kind" + }, + { + "id": "no_surprise_escalation", + "text": "No surprise escalation" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_023", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "written", + "text": "What is one playful thing we have done that you would gladly repeat?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "playful_memory", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 400 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_024", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which forms of anticipation feel fun to you?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ "anticipation", "couple_intimacy" @@ -3701,494 +853,711 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "texts", - "text": "Texts" + "id": "a_flirty_text", + "text": "A flirty text" }, { - "id": "looks", - "text": "Looks" + "id": "knowing_looks_across_a_room", + "text": "Knowing looks across a room" }, { - "id": "touches", - "text": "Touches" + "id": "a_planned_private_night", + "text": "A planned private night" }, { - "id": "plans", - "text": "Plans" + "id": "small_touches_during_the_day", + "text": "Small touches during the day" + }, + { + "id": "a_secret_countdown", + "text": "A secret countdown" } - ] - } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_025", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_193", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which physical affection feels easiest in public?", + "text": "Pick the invitation that sounds most playful.", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "public_affection", + "invitation", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" + "id": "come_steal_a_kiss", + "text": "Come steal a kiss" }, { - "id": "quick_kiss", - "text": "Quick kiss" + "id": "meet_me_somewhere_private", + "text": "Meet me somewhere private" }, { - "id": "arm_around", - "text": "Arm around" + "id": "i_have_an_idea_for_us", + "text": "I have an idea for us" }, { - "id": "none", - "text": "None" + "id": "want_to_be_a_little_distracted", + "text": "Want to be a little distracted?" } ] - } + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_026", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_194", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which physical affection feels best in private?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What could make an at-home night feel flirtier?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "private_affection", + "home_flirting", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "long_hug", - "text": "Long hug" + "id": "dress_up_a_little", + "text": "Dress up a little" }, { - "id": "slow_kiss", - "text": "Slow kiss" + "id": "choose_a_mood_playlist", + "text": "Choose a mood playlist" }, { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" + "id": "trade_bold_compliments", + "text": "Trade bold compliments" }, { - "id": "massage", - "text": "Massage" + "id": "turn_off_the_television", + "text": "Turn off the television" + }, + { + "id": "make_dessert_together", + "text": "Make dessert together" } - ] - } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_027", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_195", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it for us to be silly without losing the mood?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "silliness", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not easy", + "max_label": "Very easy" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_028", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What small surprises would feel exciting?", + "depth": 3, + "tags": [ + "surprises", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_favorite_outfit", + "text": "A favorite outfit" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_note", + "text": "A private note" + }, + { + "id": "a_changed_up_setting", + "text": "A changed-up setting" + }, + { + "id": "a_new_playlist", + "text": "A new playlist" + }, + { + "id": "a_favorite_treat_waiting", + "text": "A favorite treat waiting" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_029", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does playful competition feel attractive rather than tense?", + "depth": 3, + "tags": [ + "competition", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "low_stakes", + "text": "Low stakes" + }, + { + "id": "lots_of_laughter", + "text": "Lots of laughter" + }, + { + "id": "no_keeping_score_afterward", + "text": "No keeping score afterward" + }, + { + "id": "a_shared_treat_afterward", + "text": "A shared treat afterward" + }, + { + "id": "easy_permission_to_quit", + "text": "Easy permission to quit" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_030", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps your body relax when the day has been heavy?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "stress_relief", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_time_first", + "text": "Quiet time first" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_shower", + "text": "A warm shower" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_touch", + "text": "Gentle touch" + }, + { + "id": "help_with_one_task", + "text": "Help with one task" + }, + { + "id": "a_calm_conversation", + "text": "A calm conversation" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_031", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes an intimate moment feel safe?", + "text": "Pick the comfort that feels best before closeness.", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "comfort", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "being_held_quietly", + "text": "Being held quietly" + }, + { + "id": "having_space_first", + "text": "Having space first" + }, + { + "id": "talking_things_through", + "text": "Talking things through" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_playful_distraction", + "text": "A little playful distraction" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_032", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When stress is high, what affection still feels welcome?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "stress_affection", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_brief_hug", + "text": "A brief hug" + }, + { + "id": "holding_hands", + "text": "Holding hands" + }, + { + "id": "a_forehead_kiss", + "text": "A forehead kiss" + }, + { + "id": "sitting_shoulder_to_shoulder", + "text": "Sitting shoulder to shoulder" + }, + { + "id": "a_gentle_back_rub", + "text": "A gentle back rub" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_033", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much does stress affect your interest in intimacy?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "stress_effect", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hardly at all", + "max_label": "A great deal" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_034", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does closeness feel soothing rather than demanding?", "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "safety", + "soothing_closeness", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "checking_in", - "text": "Checking in" + "id": "no_expectation_of_more", + "text": "No expectation of more" }, { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" + "id": "a_slow_pace", + "text": "A slow pace" }, { - "id": "slow_pace", - "text": "Slow pace" + "id": "asking_before_touching", + "text": "Asking before touching" }, { - "id": "easy_stop", - "text": "Easy stop" + "id": "being_able_to_change_my_mind", + "text": "Being able to change my mind" + }, + { + "id": "attention_to_my_breathing", + "text": "Attention to my breathing" } - ] - } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_035", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_196", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes an intimate moment feel fun?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", + "text": "After a draining day, what kind of connection sounds best?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "fun", + "draining_day", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "laughter", - "text": "Laughter" + "id": "quiet_cuddling", + "text": "Quiet cuddling" }, { - "id": "teasing", - "text": "Teasing" + "id": "a_playful_reset", + "text": "A playful reset" }, { - "id": "playful_touch", - "text": "Playful touch" + "id": "a_meaningful_talk", + "text": "A meaningful talk" }, { - "id": "surprise", - "text": "Surprise" + "id": "early_sleep_together", + "text": "Early sleep together" } ] - } + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_036", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_197", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which confidence boost works best?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "compliment", - "text": "Compliment" - }, - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "being_pursued", - "text": "Being pursued" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_198", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps awkwardness pass fastest?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "awkwardness", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "laugh_gently", - "text": "Laugh gently" - }, - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "talk_softly", - "text": "Talk softly" - }, - { - "id": "try_later", - "text": "Try later" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_199", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which signal sounds easiest?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "signals", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "come_closer", - "text": "Come closer" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "not_now", - "text": "Not now" - }, - { - "id": "keep_going", - "text": "Keep going" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_200", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should intimacy feel like first?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What signs tell you that you need gentleness?", "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "intimacy", + "gentleness_signals", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "safe", - "text": "Safe" + "id": "i_become_quiet", + "text": "I become quiet" }, { - "id": "wanted", - "text": "Wanted" + "id": "i_pull_away", + "text": "I pull away" }, { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" + "id": "i_ask_for_slower", + "text": "I ask for slower" }, { - "id": "connected", - "text": "Connected" + "id": "my_body_feels_tense", + "text": "My body feels tense" + }, + { + "id": "i_stop_responding_playfully", + "text": "I stop responding playfully" } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_201", + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_037", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which desire difference needs the most tenderness?", - "depth": 5, "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "mismatched_desire", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "frequency", - "text": "Frequency" - }, - { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" - }, - { - "id": "pace", - "text": "Pace" - }, - { - "id": "initiation", - "text": "Initiation" - } - ] - } + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_202", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a sexy conversation feel safe?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "no_judgment", - "text": "No judgment" - }, - { - "id": "easy_no", - "text": "Easy no" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_203", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps fantasy talk feel safe?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "fantasy", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes_no_maybe", - "text": "Yes / no / maybe" - }, - { - "id": "one_at_a_time", - "text": "One at a time" - }, - { - "id": "written_first", - "text": "Written first" - }, - { - "id": "not_ready", - "text": "Not ready" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_204", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps trying something new feel safe?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "novelty", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_first", - "text": "Talk first" - }, - { - "id": "start_small", - "text": "Start small" - }, - { - "id": "easy_stop", - "text": "Easy stop" - }, - { - "id": "aftercare", - "text": "Aftercare" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_205", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which boundary matters most in this area?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "easy_no", - "text": "Easy no" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_206", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a private photo conversation safest?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_photos", - "text": "No photos" - }, - { - "id": "ask_every_time", - "text": "Ask every time" - }, - { - "id": "no_saving", - "text": "No saving" - }, - { - "id": "not_for_us", - "text": "Not for us" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_207", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of initiation feels best?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When you feel overwhelmed, what makes affection easier?", "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "overwhelm", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fewer_questions", + "text": "Fewer questions" + }, + { + "id": "one_simple_choice", + "text": "One simple choice" + }, + { + "id": "low_lighting", + "text": "Low lighting" + }, + { + "id": "no_time_pressure", + "text": "No time pressure" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_option_to_be_alone", + "text": "A clear option to be alone" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_038", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "written", + "text": "When you are stressed, what should I remember about closeness?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "stress_written", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 400 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_039", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you shift from responsibilities into couple time?", + "depth": 3, + "tags": [ + "transition", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "finishing_one_last_task", + "text": "Finishing one last task" + }, + { + "id": "changing_clothes", + "text": "Changing clothes" + }, + { + "id": "taking_ten_quiet_minutes", + "text": "Taking ten quiet minutes" + }, + { + "id": "sharing_a_snack", + "text": "Sharing a snack" + }, + { + "id": "starting_with_nonsexual_affection", + "text": "Starting with nonsexual affection" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_040", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which calming touch would you choose first?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "calming_touch", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hair_stroked_slowly", + "text": "Hair stroked slowly" + }, + { + "id": "a_hand_held_firmly", + "text": "A hand held firmly" + }, + { + "id": "a_shoulder_massage", + "text": "A shoulder massage" + }, + { + "id": "a_long_full_body_hug", + "text": "A long full-body hug" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_041", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps tiredness from turning into distance?", + "depth": 3, + "tags": [ + "tiredness", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "saying_what_we_have_energy_for", + "text": "Saying what we have energy for" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_affection_simple", + "text": "Keeping affection simple" + }, + { + "id": "not_taking_no_personally", + "text": "Not taking no personally" + }, + { + "id": "planning_another_time", + "text": "Planning another time" + }, + { + "id": "ending_the_day_kindly", + "text": "Ending the day kindly" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_042", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How safe do you feel asking for less intensity?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "lower_intensity", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very safe", + "max_label": "Completely safe" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_043", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kinds of care make desire feel more possible?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "desire_return", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_rested", + "text": "Feeling rested" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_appreciated", + "text": "Feeling appreciated" + }, + { + "id": "having_privacy", + "text": "Having privacy" + }, + { + "id": "being_emotionally_settled", + "text": "Being emotionally settled" + }, + { + "id": "receiving_affection_without_pressure", + "text": "Receiving affection without pressure" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_044", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When neither of us has much energy, how can we stay close?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "low_energy", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "touching_while_resting", + "text": "Touching while resting" + }, + { + "id": "sharing_one_good_conversation", + "text": "Sharing one good conversation" + }, + { + "id": "a_short_cuddle", + "text": "A short cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_together", + "text": "Laughing together" + }, + { + "id": "making_a_plan_for_later", + "text": "Making a plan for later" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_045", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does initiation feel inviting to you?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ "initiation", "couple_intimacy" @@ -4196,663 +1565,73 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "direct", - "text": "Direct" + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" }, { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" + "id": "a_warm_confident_tone", + "text": "A warm confident tone" }, { - "id": "slow", - "text": "Slow" + "id": "an_easy_way_to_decline", + "text": "An easy way to decline" }, { - "id": "asked_first", - "text": "Asked first" + "id": "starting_with_affection", + "text": "Starting with affection" + }, + { + "id": "noticing_my_response", + "text": "Noticing my response" } - ] - } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_046", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_208", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a no easiest to receive?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", + "text": "Which first move feels most attractive?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "no", + "first_move", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" + "id": "a_direct_invitation", + "text": "A direct invitation" }, { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" + "id": "a_long_kiss", + "text": "A long kiss" }, { - "id": "other_closeness", - "text": "Other closeness" + "id": "being_pulled_closer_after_a_yes", + "text": "Being pulled closer after a yes" }, { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" + "id": "a_quiet_whispered_question", + "text": "A quiet whispered question" } ] - } + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_047", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_209", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a yes feel most chosen?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How do you like desire to be shown?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "yes", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - }, - { - "id": "clear_desire", - "text": "Clear desire" - }, - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_210", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when one of us wants more closeness than the other?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "mismatched_desire", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "other_closeness", - "text": "Other closeness" - }, - { - "id": "try_later", - "text": "Try later" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_211", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of body talk feels safest?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "body_confidence", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "compliments", - "text": "Compliments" - }, - { - "id": "no_comparing", - "text": "No comparing" - }, - { - "id": "specific_kindness", - "text": "Specific kindness" - }, - { - "id": "avoid_body_talk", - "text": "Avoid body talk" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_212", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of eye contact feels best?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "eye_contact", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft", - "text": "Soft" - }, - { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" - }, - { - "id": "intense", - "text": "Intense" - }, - { - "id": "not_too_much", - "text": "Not too much" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_213", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps intimacy after conflict?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "conflict", - "repair", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "space_first", - "text": "Space first" - }, - { - "id": "apology_first", - "text": "Apology first" - }, - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "slow_start", - "text": "Slow start" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_214", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps intimacy after stress?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "help_first", - "text": "Help first" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_time", - "text": "Quiet time" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "flirting", - "text": "Flirting" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_215", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps intimacy after distance?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "distance", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_start", - "text": "Soft start" - }, - { - "id": "honest_talk", - "text": "Honest talk" - }, - { - "id": "date_night", - "text": "Date night" - }, - { - "id": "slow_affection", - "text": "Slow affection" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_216", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which private game sounds fun?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "games", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "truth_or_tease", - "text": "Truth or tease" - }, - { - "id": "yes_no_maybe", - "text": "Yes / no / maybe" - }, - { - "id": "kiss_countdown", - "text": "Kiss countdown" - }, - { - "id": "spin_wheel", - "text": "Spin wheel" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_217", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of playful rule sounds fun?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "play", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_rushing", - "text": "No rushing" - }, - { - "id": "compliments_only", - "text": "Compliments only" - }, - { - "id": "ask_before_kissing", - "text": "Ask before kissing" - }, - { - "id": "surprise_me", - "text": "Surprise me" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_218", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which aftercare helps most after trying something new?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cuddles", - "text": "Cuddles" - }, - { - "id": "talking", - "text": "Talking" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_219", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of feedback feels easiest?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "feedback", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "what_i_liked", - "text": "What I liked" - }, - { - "id": "one_request", - "text": "One request" - }, - { - "id": "later_not_now", - "text": "Later, not now" - }, - { - "id": "written", - "text": "Written" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_220", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes intimacy feel less routine?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "routine", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "flirting", - "text": "Flirting" - }, - { - "id": "new_setting", - "text": "New setting" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "more_play", - "text": "More play" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_221", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of romantic setting helps you open up?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "setting", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "low_lights", - "text": "Low lights" - }, - { - "id": "music", - "text": "Music" - }, - { - "id": "clean_room", - "text": "Clean room" - }, - { - "id": "locked_door", - "text": "Locked door" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_222", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of touch needs a clear yes?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "touch", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "anything_new", - "text": "Anything new" - }, - { - "id": "rougher_touch", - "text": "Rougher touch" - }, - { - "id": "intimate_touch", - "text": "Intimate touch" - }, - { - "id": "all_of_it", - "text": "All of it" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_223", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should never be used as pressure?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "pressure", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "guilt", - "text": "Guilt" - }, - { - "id": "past_yes", - "text": "A past yes" - }, - { - "id": "comparison", - "text": "Comparison" - }, - { - "id": "relationship_status", - "text": "Relationship status" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_224", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes desire feel respectful?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "respect", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - }, - { - "id": "checking_in", - "text": "Checking in" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_preferences", - "text": "Remembering preferences" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_225", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which private memory should we recreate gently?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "memory", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "first_spark", - "text": "First spark" - }, - { - "id": "favorite_kiss", - "text": "Favorite kiss" - }, - { - "id": "cozy_night", - "text": "Cozy night" - }, - { - "id": "surprise_me", - "text": "Surprise me" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_226", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of intimacy should we protect long-term?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "future", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" - }, - { - "id": "romantic", - "text": "Romantic" - }, - { - "id": "safe", - "text": "Safe" - }, - { - "id": "honest", - "text": "Honest" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_227", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel wanted exactly as you are?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "body_confidence", + "showing_desire", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -4862,781 +1641,53 @@ "text": "Specific words" }, { - "id": "gentle_touch", - "text": "Gentle touch" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_228", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a bold move feel safe?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "boldness", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_yes", - "text": "Clear yes" - }, - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "slow_start", - "text": "Slow start" - }, - { - "id": "easy_stop", - "text": "Easy stop" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_229", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a quiet moment feel intimate?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "quiet", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "being_held", - "text": "Being held" - }, - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "hand_touch", - "text": "Hand touch" - }, - { - "id": "breathing_together", - "text": "Breathing together" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_230", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we ask before assuming?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "assumptions", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "are_you_in_mood", - "text": "Are you in the mood?" - }, - { - "id": "want_touch", - "text": "Want touch?" - }, - { - "id": "need_space", - "text": "Need space?" - }, - { - "id": "want_to_talk", - "text": "Want to talk?" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_231", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel desired without feeling rushed?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "female", - "tags": [ - "female", - "desired", - "pressure", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_touch", - "text": "Slow touch" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_words", - "text": "Sweet words" - }, - { - "id": "clear_privacy", - "text": "Clear privacy" - }, - { - "id": "checking_in", - "text": "Checking in" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_232", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which compliment makes you feel most beautiful and wanted?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "female", - "tags": [ - "female", - "compliments", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "beautiful", - "text": "Beautiful" - }, - { - "id": "sexy", - "text": "Sexy" - }, - { - "id": "wanted", - "text": "Wanted" - }, - { - "id": "all_of_you", - "text": "All of you" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_233", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel safe asking for exactly what you want?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "female", - "tags": [ - "female", - "communication", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_judgment", - "text": "No judgment" - }, - { - "id": "playful_tone", - "text": "Playful tone" - }, - { - "id": "partner_listens", - "text": "They listen" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_234", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of attention helps your body relax first?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "female", - "tags": [ - "female", - "relaxation", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kissing", - "text": "Kissing" + "id": "focused_eye_contact", + "text": "Focused eye contact" }, { "id": "slow_touch", "text": "Slow touch" }, { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" + "id": "making_private_time", + "text": "Making private time" }, { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_235", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes being pursued feel good to you as a woman?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "female", - "tags": [ - "female", - "pursuit", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "clear_desire", - "text": "Clear desire" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_236", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel wanted instead of expected to initiate?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "male", - "tags": [ - "male", - "desired", - "initiation", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "partner_starts", - "text": "My partner starts" - }, - { - "id": "clear_desire", - "text": "Clear desire" - }, - { - "id": "compliments", - "text": "Compliments" - }, - { - "id": "touch_first", - "text": "Being touched first" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_237", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which compliment makes you feel most confident and desired?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "male", - "tags": [ - "male", - "compliments", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_look_good", - "text": "You look good" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_you", - "text": "I want you" - }, - { - "id": "your_body", - "text": "Your body" - }, - { - "id": "how_you_touch_me", - "text": "How you touch me" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_238", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel comfortable being guided?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "male", - "tags": [ - "male", - "guidance", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "playful_tone", - "text": "Playful tone" - }, - { - "id": "no_criticism", - "text": "No criticism" - }, - { - "id": "praise_too", - "text": "Praise too" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_239", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you slow down and enjoy the build-up?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "male", - "tags": [ - "male", - "pace", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kissing", - "text": "Kissing" - }, - { - "id": "teasing", - "text": "Teasing" - }, - { - "id": "clear_yes", - "text": "A clear yes" - }, - { - "id": "not_rushing", - "text": "Not rushing" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_240", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes being pursued feel good to you as a man?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "male", - "tags": [ - "male", - "pursuit", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "partner_initiates", - "text": "My partner initiates" - }, - { - "id": "flirty_words", - "text": "Flirty words" - }, - { - "id": "being_pulled_close", - "text": "Being pulled close" - }, - { - "id": "clear_desire", - "text": "Clear desire" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_241", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps intimacy feel welcome?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "welcome", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "playful_mood", - "text": "Playful mood" - }, - { - "id": "asking_first", - "text": "Asking first" - }, - { - "id": "low_pressure", - "text": "Low pressure" + "id": "playful_pursuit", + "text": "Playful pursuit" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 - } + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_048", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_242", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which kinds of closeness do you want more often?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How comfortable are you initiating closeness lately?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "closeness", + "initiation_comfort", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hugs", - "text": "Hugs" - }, - { - "id": "kissing", - "text": "Kissing" - }, - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "flirting", - "text": "Flirting" - }, - { - "id": "talking_close", - "text": "Talking close" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not comfortable", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_049", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_243", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes desire feel safe?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "safety", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "easy_no", - "text": "Easy no" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "no_judgment", - "text": "No judgment" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_244", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when you are not in the mood?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "no_guilt", - "text": "No guilt" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "another_closeness", - "text": "Another kind of closeness" - }, - { - "id": "try_later", - "text": "Try later" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_245", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes intimacy feel playful?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "play", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "laughter", - "text": "Laughter" - }, - { - "id": "teasing", - "text": "Teasing" - }, - { - "id": "private_games", - "text": "Private games" - }, - { - "id": "flirty_texts", - "text": "Flirty texts" - }, - { - "id": "dancing", - "text": "Dancing" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_246", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What lowers closeness when life gets busy?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "busy_life", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "exhaustion", - "text": "Exhaustion" - }, - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "no_privacy", - "text": "No privacy" - }, - { - "id": "phones", - "text": "Phones" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_disconnected", - "text": "Feeling disconnected" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_247", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps after an awkward intimate moment?", + "text": "What signals help you feel genuinely wanted?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "awkwardness", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "laugh_gently", - "text": "Laugh gently" - }, - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "reassure", - "text": "Reassure" - }, - { - "id": "cuddle", - "text": "Cuddle" - }, - { - "id": "try_later", - "text": "Try later" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_248", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kinds of affection feel easy in public?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "public_affection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" - }, - { - "id": "quick_kiss", - "text": "Quick kiss" - }, - { - "id": "arm_around", - "text": "Arm around" - }, - { - "id": "standing_close", - "text": "Standing close" - }, - { - "id": "none", - "text": "None" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_249", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel wanted before sex is even mentioned?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "wanted", "couple_intimacy" @@ -5644,821 +1695,616 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "compliments", - "text": "Compliments" + "id": "they_say_it_clearly", + "text": "They say it clearly" }, { - "id": "kissing", - "text": "Kissing" + "id": "they_make_time", + "text": "They make time" }, { - "id": "help_with_stress", - "text": "Help with stress" + "id": "they_notice_details", + "text": "They notice details" }, { - "id": "focused_attention", - "text": "Focused attention" + "id": "they_stay_present", + "text": "They stay present" }, { - "id": "flirting", - "text": "Flirting" + "id": "they_respond_to_my_cues", + "text": "They respond to my cues" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 - } + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_050", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_250", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Pick the invitation that gives you the most room to answer honestly.", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "honest_invitation", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "would_closeness_feel_good", + "text": "Would closeness feel good?" + }, + { + "id": "may_i_kiss_you", + "text": "May I kiss you?" + }, + { + "id": "want_some_private_time", + "text": "Want some private time?" + }, + { + "id": "what_kind_of_affection_sounds_good", + "text": "What kind of affection sounds good?" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_051", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes aftercare feel good?", + "text": "When does being pursued feel exciting?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "aftercare", + "pursuit", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" + "id": "confidence_without_pressure", + "text": "Confidence without pressure" }, { - "id": "sweet_words", - "text": "Sweet words" + "id": "a_playful_build_up", + "text": "A playful build-up" }, { - "id": "water_or_snack", - "text": "Water or snack" + "id": "feeling_emotionally_connected", + "text": "Feeling emotionally connected" }, { - "id": "quiet_rest", - "text": "Quiet rest" + "id": "enough_privacy", + "text": "Enough privacy" }, { - "id": "laughing", - "text": "Laughing" + "id": "being_able_to_slow_it_down", + "text": "Being able to slow it down" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_251", + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_052", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should always be true before trying something new?", - "depth": 5, "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "novelty", - "consent", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "both_want_it", - "text": "Both want it" - }, - { - "id": "clear_limits", - "text": "Clear limits" - }, - { - "id": "easy_stop", - "text": "Easy stop" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "aftercare", - "text": "Aftercare" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_252", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes fantasy talk safer?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "fantasy", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_judgment", - "text": "No judgment" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure_to_do_it", - "text": "No pressure to do it" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_questions", - "text": "Gentle questions" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance_after", - "text": "Reassurance after" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_253", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps with mismatched desire?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "mismatched_desire", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kind_no", - "text": "Kind no" - }, - { - "id": "no_guilt", - "text": "No guilt" - }, - { - "id": "other_closeness", - "text": "Other closeness" - }, - { - "id": "honest_talk", - "text": "Honest talk" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_254", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which topics need extra kindness?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "sensitive_topics", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "frequency", - "text": "Frequency" - }, - { - "id": "rejection", - "text": "Rejection" - }, - { - "id": "body_confidence", - "text": "Body confidence" - }, - { - "id": "fantasy", - "text": "Fantasy" - }, - { - "id": "past_experiences", - "text": "Past experiences" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_255", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes a yes feel fully chosen?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "yes", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - }, - { - "id": "clear_desire", - "text": "Clear desire" - }, - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_256", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps a no still feel loving?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "no", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "no_pouting", - "text": "No pouting" - }, - { - "id": "try_later", - "text": "Try later" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_257", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What builds body confidence between us?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "body_confidence", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "compliments", - "text": "Compliments" - }, - { - "id": "no_comparing", - "text": "No comparing" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_touch", - "text": "Gentle touch" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_connected", - "text": "Feeling connected" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_258", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What protects privacy in intimacy?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_sharing_details", - "text": "No sharing details" - }, - { - "id": "ask_before_photos", - "text": "Ask before photos" - }, - { - "id": "private_app_only", - "text": "Private app only" - }, - { - "id": "no_jokes_later", - "text": "No jokes later" - }, - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_259", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes feedback feel kind?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "feedback", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific", - "text": "Specific" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_tone", - "text": "Gentle tone" - }, - { - "id": "praise_too", - "text": "Praise too" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "no_defensiveness", - "text": "No defensiveness" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_260", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes initiation feel inviting?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "playful_tone", - "text": "Playful tone" - }, - { - "id": "easy_no", - "text": "Easy no" - }, - { - "id": "clear_desire", - "text": "Clear desire" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_261", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us reconnect physically after distance?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "reconnection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_start", - "text": "Soft start" - }, - { - "id": "honest_talk", - "text": "Honest talk" - }, - { - "id": "date_night", - "text": "Date night" - }, - { - "id": "slow_affection", - "text": "Slow affection" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_262", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps intimacy feel like something we build together?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "both_initiate", - "text": "Both initiate" - }, - { - "id": "both_can_say_no", - "text": "Both can say no" - }, - { - "id": "talking_kindly", - "text": "Talking kindly" - }, - { - "id": "making_time", - "text": "Making time" - }, - { - "id": "noticing_stress", - "text": "Noticing stress" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_263", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps desire survive stressful seasons?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "less_pressure", - "text": "Less pressure" - }, - { - "id": "more_affection", - "text": "More affection" - }, - { - "id": "help_with_tasks", - "text": "Help with tasks" - }, - { - "id": "private_time", - "text": "Private time" - }, - { - "id": "flirting", - "text": "Flirting" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_264", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes private games feel fun?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "games", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "skip_allowed", - "text": "Skipping allowed" - }, - { - "id": "playful_tone", - "text": "Playful tone" - }, - { - "id": "clear_limits", - "text": "Clear limits" - }, - { - "id": "laughter", - "text": "Laughter" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_265", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes a bold moment feel safe?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "boldness", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_yes", - "text": "Clear yes" - }, - { - "id": "start_slow", - "text": "Start slow" - }, - { - "id": "easy_stop", - "text": "Easy stop" - }, - { - "id": "trusted_partner", - "text": "Trusted partner" - }, - { - "id": "check_after", - "text": "Check after" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_266", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps intimacy stay warm when sex is not happening?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "nonsexual", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "kissing", - "text": "Kissing" - }, - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_267", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes anticipation work for you?", + "text": "Which things quietly build desire during the day?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "anticipation", + "daily_desire", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "texts", - "text": "Texts" + "id": "thoughtful_attention", + "text": "Thoughtful attention" }, { - "id": "looks", - "text": "Looks" + "id": "flirty_messages", + "text": "Flirty messages" }, { - "id": "touches", - "text": "Touches" + "id": "shared_laughter", + "text": "Shared laughter" }, { - "id": "plans", - "text": "Plans" + "id": "seeing_each_other_confident", + "text": "Seeing each other confident" }, { - "id": "privacy_ready", - "text": "Knowing privacy is set" + "id": "small_welcome_touches", + "text": "Small welcome touches" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 - } + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_053", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_268", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us avoid routine?", + "type": "written", + "text": "When have you felt most intentionally chosen by me?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "routine", + "chosen", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "flirting", - "text": "Flirting" - }, - { - "id": "slowing_down", - "text": "Slowing down" - }, - { - "id": "new_setting", - "text": "New setting" - }, - { - "id": "talking_more", - "text": "Talking more" - }, - { - "id": "bringing_back_memories", - "text": "Bringing back memories" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } + "max_length": 400 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_054", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_269", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes an intimate memory worth recreating?", + "text": "When does spontaneous intimacy work well for you?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "memory", + "spontaneity", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "it_felt_easy", - "text": "It felt easy" + "id": "both_people_are_clearly_interested", + "text": "Both people are clearly interested" }, { - "id": "it_felt_playful", - "text": "It felt playful" + "id": "there_is_enough_time", + "text": "There is enough time" }, { - "id": "it_felt_safe", - "text": "It felt safe" + "id": "privacy_is_secure", + "text": "Privacy is secure" }, { - "id": "it_felt_hot", - "text": "It felt hot" + "id": "stopping_stays_easy", + "text": "Stopping stays easy" }, { - "id": "it_felt_like_us", - "text": "It felt like us" + "id": "the_mood_already_feels_connected", + "text": "The mood already feels connected" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 - } + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_055", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_270", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Pick the initiation style that feels most like us.", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "initiation_style", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_and_obvious", + "text": "Sweet and obvious" + }, + { + "id": "playful_and_teasing", + "text": "Playful and teasing" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_and_slow", + "text": "Quiet and slow" + }, + { + "id": "bold_but_attentive", + "text": "Bold but attentive" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_056", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should always be easy to communicate during intimacy?", + "text": "What helps when one person wants closeness first?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "different_timing", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_gentle_invitation", + "text": "A gentle invitation" + }, + { + "id": "no_repeated_asking", + "text": "No repeated asking" + }, + { + "id": "another_kind_of_affection", + "text": "Another kind of affection" + }, + { + "id": "a_plan_to_reconnect_later", + "text": "A plan to reconnect later" + }, + { + "id": "no_sulking_afterward", + "text": "No sulking afterward" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_057", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How wanted do you feel in our relationship lately?", "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "communication", + "wanted_scale", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very wanted", + "max_label": "Deeply wanted" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_058", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which compliments create attraction for you?", + "depth": 3, + "tags": [ + "attraction_compliments", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "something_about_my_appearance", + "text": "Something about my appearance" + }, + { + "id": "something_about_my_energy", + "text": "Something about my energy" + }, + { + "id": "something_about_our_chemistry", + "text": "Something about our chemistry" + }, + { + "id": "something_very_specific", + "text": "Something very specific" + }, + { + "id": "something_about_how_i_affect_you", + "text": "Something about how I affect you" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_059", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does desire feel mutual rather than performed?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "mutual_desire", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_people_can_initiate", + "text": "Both people can initiate" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_can_decline", + "text": "Both people can decline" + }, + { + "id": "feedback_is_welcomed", + "text": "Feedback is welcomed" + }, + { + "id": "no_one_rushes_the_response", + "text": "No one rushes the response" + }, + { + "id": "affection_matters_either_way", + "text": "Affection matters either way" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_060", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a yes feel honest and freely chosen?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "consent_yes", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "enough_information", + "text": "Enough information" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure_to_decide_fast", + "text": "No pressure to decide fast" + }, + { + "id": "trust_that_no_is_welcome", + "text": "Trust that no is welcome" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_emotionally_present", + "text": "Feeling emotionally present" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_i_can_change_my_mind", + "text": "Knowing I can change my mind" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_061", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which phrase feels easiest when you need to pause or stop?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "pause_phrase", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause_for_a_second", + "text": "Pause for a second" + }, + { + "id": "can_we_slow_down", + "text": "Can we slow down?" + }, + { + "id": "i_need_to_stop", + "text": "I need to stop" + }, + { + "id": "can_we_just_cuddle", + "text": "Can we just cuddle?" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_062", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How should a pause be handled between us?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "pause_response", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "stop_right_away", + "text": "Stop right away" + }, + { + "id": "listen_without_arguing", + "text": "Listen without arguing" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_feels_okay_now", + "text": "Ask what feels okay now" + }, + { + "id": "offer_space", + "text": "Offer space" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_making_it_personal", + "text": "Avoid making it personal" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_063", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it to change your mind during intimacy?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "change_mind", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very hard", + "max_label": "Completely easy" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_064", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does saying no feel emotionally safe?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "consent_no", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_kind_response", + "text": "A kind response" + }, + { + "id": "no_guilt_afterward", + "text": "No guilt afterward" + }, + { + "id": "no_repeated_request", + "text": "No repeated request" + }, + { + "id": "affection_stays_optional", + "text": "Affection stays optional" + }, + { + "id": "my_reason_is_not_demanded", + "text": "My reason is not demanded" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_065", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "After a no, what response would feel most reassuring?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "no_response", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "thanks_for_telling_me", + "text": "Thanks for telling me" + }, + { + "id": "no_problem_at_all", + "text": "No problem at all" + }, + { + "id": "would_you_prefer_space_or_another_kind_of_closeness", + "text": "Would you prefer space or another kind of closeness?" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_here_if_you_want_company", + "text": "I am here if you want company" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_066", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which check-ins sound natural rather than clinical?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "check_ins", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "still_good", + "text": "Still good?" + }, + { + "id": "more_or_less", + "text": "More or less?" + }, + { + "id": "want_me_to_continue", + "text": "Want me to continue?" + }, + { + "id": "do_you_want_something_different", + "text": "Do you want something different?" + }, + { + "id": "need_a_pause", + "text": "Need a pause?" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_067", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should always remain easy to communicate?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "communication_basics", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -6472,317 +2318,2258 @@ "text": "No" }, { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" + "id": "slower", + "text": "Slower" }, { - "id": "keep_going", - "text": "Keep going" + "id": "different", + "text": "Different" }, { - "id": "different_touch", - "text": "Different touch" + "id": "i_changed_my_mind", + "text": "I changed my mind" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 - } + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_068", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_271", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected does our physical closeness feel lately?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", + "type": "written", + "text": "What response from me helps you trust that your no is safe?", + "depth": 5, "tags": [ - "closeness", + "no_trust", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 400 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_069", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How do we keep consent clear when the mood is playful?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "playful_consent", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "checking_before_escalating", + "text": "Checking before escalating" + }, + { + "id": "paying_attention_to_hesitation", + "text": "Paying attention to hesitation" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_safe_words_serious", + "text": "Keeping safe words serious" + }, + { + "id": "avoiding_surprise_restraints", + "text": "Avoiding surprise restraints" + }, + { + "id": "stopping_immediately_when_asked", + "text": "Stopping immediately when asked" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_070", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which signal would you prefer as a backup to words?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "backup_signal", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_double_tap", + "text": "A double tap" + }, + { + "id": "a_hand_squeeze", + "text": "A hand squeeze" + }, + { + "id": "moving_a_hand_away", + "text": "Moving a hand away" + }, + { + "id": "no_backup_signal_words_only", + "text": "No backup signal—words only" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_071", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can a new idea stay optional rather than expected?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "optional_novelty", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talking_about_it_beforehand", + "text": "Talking about it beforehand" + }, + { + "id": "no_surprise_use", + "text": "No surprise use" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_no_option", + "text": "A clear no option" + }, + { + "id": "no_disappointment_if_declined", + "text": "No disappointment if declined" + }, + { + "id": "letting_the_idea_stay_hypothetical", + "text": "Letting the idea stay hypothetical" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_072", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How confident are you that a pause will be respected immediately?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "pause_confidence", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not connected", - "max_label": "Very connected" - } + "min_label": "Not confident", + "max_label": "Completely confident" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_073", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_272", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What behaviors protect trust after a boundary is named?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "boundary_trust", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "remembering_it_later", + "text": "Remembering it later" + }, + { + "id": "asking_before_revisiting_it", + "text": "Asking before revisiting it" + }, + { + "id": "not_teasing_about_it", + "text": "Not teasing about it" + }, + { + "id": "not_bargaining", + "text": "Not bargaining" + }, + { + "id": "appreciating_the_honesty", + "text": "Appreciating the honesty" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_074", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How playful does intimacy feel between us right now?", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "After intimacy stops unexpectedly, what keeps you connected?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "stopping_connection", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_calm_check_in", + "text": "A calm check-in" + }, + { + "id": "nonsexual_touch_if_wanted", + "text": "Nonsexual touch if wanted" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_space", + "text": "A little space" + }, + { + "id": "reassuring_words", + "text": "Reassuring words" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure_to_explain_immediately", + "text": "No pressure to explain immediately" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_075", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When is feedback about intimacy easiest to give?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "feedback_giving", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_calm_moment", + "text": "A calm moment" + }, + { + "id": "specific_questions", + "text": "Specific questions" + }, + { + "id": "no_defensiveness", + "text": "No defensiveness" + }, + { + "id": "starting_with_what_works", + "text": "Starting with what works" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_change_is_welcome", + "text": "Knowing change is welcome" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_076", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When would you rather discuss a preference?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "play", + "preference_timing", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "before_private_time", + "text": "Before private time" + }, + { + "id": "in_the_moment", + "text": "In the moment" + }, + { + "id": "right_afterward", + "text": "Right afterward" + }, + { + "id": "on_a_separate_relaxed_day", + "text": "On a separate relaxed day" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_077", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which feedback phrases feel kind and useful?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "feedback_phrases", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_little_slower", + "text": "A little slower" + }, + { + "id": "keep_doing_that", + "text": "Keep doing that" + }, + { + "id": "could_we_try_this_instead", + "text": "Could we try this instead?" + }, + { + "id": "that_feels_really_good", + "text": "That feels really good" + }, + { + "id": "i_need_something_different", + "text": "I need something different" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_078", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How comfortable are you naming what feels good?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "naming_good", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not playful", - "max_label": "Very playful" - } + "min_label": "Not comfortable", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_079", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_273", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to ask for affection?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When feedback is hard to hear, what keeps it from feeling like criticism?", + "depth": 4, "tags": [ - "communication", + "feedback_hearing", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_gentle_tone", + "text": "A gentle tone" + }, + { + "id": "specific_guidance", + "text": "Specific guidance" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance_of_attraction", + "text": "Reassurance of attraction" + }, + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "room_to_ask_questions", + "text": "Room to ask questions" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_080", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": 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"neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_276", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to talk honestly about intimacy?", + "text": "How well do we listen when intimacy feedback surprises us?", "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "safety", + "feedback_surprise", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe" - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_277", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much pressure do you feel around intimacy?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "pressure", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "None", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_278", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we handle mismatched desire?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", 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"access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does a kiss feel emotionally connected?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "kissing", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "unhurried_attention", + "text": "Unhurried attention" + }, + { + "id": "eye_contact_first", + "text": "Eye contact first" + }, + { + "id": "warm_hands", + "text": "Warm hands" + }, + { + "id": "a_meaningful_moment", + "text": "A meaningful moment" + }, + { + "id": "no_expectation_afterward", + "text": "No expectation afterward" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_091", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Pick the kind of kiss you would choose tonight.", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "kiss_choice", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_and_lingering", + "text": "Slow and 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"sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much do kissing habits affect your sense of romance?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "kissing_scale", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" - } + "min_label": "Very little", + "max_label": "A great deal" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_094", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_280", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which cuddle positions help you relax?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "cuddle_positions", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "face_to_face", + "text": "Face to face" + }, + { + "id": "spooning", + "text": "Spooning" + }, + { + "id": "head_on_a_chest", + "text": "Head on a chest" + }, + { + "id": "legs_tangled", + "text": "Legs tangled" + }, + { + "id": "side_by_side_with_hands_touching", + "text": "Side by side with hands 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"couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "changing_the_timing", + "text": "Changing the timing" + }, + { + "id": "trying_a_different_pace", + "text": "Trying a different pace" + }, + { + "id": "kissing_somewhere_unexpected", + "text": "Kissing somewhere unexpected" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_together", + "text": "Laughing together" + }, + { + "id": "letting_one_kiss_linger", + "text": "Letting one kiss linger" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_097", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which kinds of touch pair well with cuddling?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "cuddle_touch", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hair_stroking", + "text": "Hair stroking" + }, + { + "id": "back_rubbing", + "text": "Back rubbing" + }, + { + "id": "holding_hands", + "text": "Holding hands" + }, + { + "id": 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"access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "aftercare", + "cuddle_discomfort", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_trapped", + "text": "Feeling trapped" + }, + { + "id": "too_much_heat", + "text": "Too much heat" + }, + { + "id": "pressure_for_more", + "text": "Pressure for more" + }, + { + "id": "not_enough_space", + "text": "Not enough space" + }, + { + "id": "ignoring_body_language", + "text": "Ignoring body language" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_102", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How satisfied are you with our nonsexual touch lately?", + "depth": 3, + "tags": [ + "nonsexual_touch_scale", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not cared for", - "max_label": "Very cared for" - } + "min_label": "Not satisfied", + "max_label": "Very satisfied" + }, + 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}, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does affection feel complete even when it stays nonsexual?", + "depth": 3, + "tags": [ + "complete_affection", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "enough_time", + "text": "Enough time" + }, + { + "id": "focused_attention", + "text": "Focused attention" + }, + { + "id": "warm_words", + "text": "Warm words" + }, + { + "id": "mutual_choice", + "text": "Mutual choice" + }, + { + "id": "a_relaxed_ending", + "text": "A relaxed ending" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_105", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which privacy details help you relax into closeness?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ "privacy", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "A little", - "max_label": "A lot" - } + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_locked_door", + "text": "A locked door" + }, + { + "id": "phones_put_away", + "text": "Phones put away" + }, + { + "id": "no_expected_interruption", + "text": "No expected interruption" + }, + { + "id": "enough_time", + "text": "Enough time" + }, + { + "id": "a_comfortable_temperature", + "text": "A comfortable temperature" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_106", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_285", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would a new intimacy ritual help us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which setting feels easiest for honest intimacy talks?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "rituals", + "talk_setting", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_quiet_bedroom", + "text": "A quiet bedroom" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_walk", + "text": "A private walk" + }, + { + "id": "the_couch_after_dinner", + "text": "The couch after dinner" + }, + { + "id": "a_calm_drive", + "text": "A calm drive" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_107", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which details make a room inviting for private time?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "setting", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_lighting", + "text": "Soft lighting" + }, + { + "id": "fresh_sheets", + "text": "Fresh sheets" + }, + { + "id": "a_comfortable_temperature", + "text": "A comfortable temperature" + }, + { + "id": "music_we_both_like", + "text": "Music we both like" + }, + { + "id": "no_visible_chores", + "text": "No visible chores" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_108", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How important is guaranteed privacy to your ability to relax?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "privacy_scale", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } + "min_label": "Not very important", + "max_label": "Essential" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_109", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_286", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Cuddling or kissing?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which distractions pull you out of the moment fastest?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ - "closeness", + "distractions", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "phone_alerts", + "text": "Phone alerts" + }, + { + "id": "noise_outside", + "text": "Noise outside" + }, + { + "id": "worry_about_time", + "text": "Worry about time" + }, + { + "id": "an_uncomfortable_room", + "text": "An uncomfortable room" + }, + { + "id": "unfinished_responsibilities", + "text": "Unfinished responsibilities" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_110", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What lighting helps you feel most comfortable?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "lighting", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "very_dim", + "text": "Very dim" + }, + { + "id": "warm_and_soft", + "text": "Warm and soft" + }, + { + "id": "a_small_lamp", + "text": "A small lamp" + }, + { + "id": "enough_light_to_see_each_other", + "text": "Enough light to see each other" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_111", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can planned private time feel romantic instead of scheduled?", + "depth": 3, + "tags": [ + "planned_private_time", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "anticipation_during_the_day", + "text": "Anticipation during the day" + }, + { + "id": "a_flexible_plan", + "text": "A flexible plan" + }, + { + "id": "a_thoughtful_setting", + "text": "A thoughtful setting" + }, + { + "id": "no_rushing", + "text": "No rushing" + }, + { + "id": "something_chosen_for_both_of_us", + "text": "Something chosen for both of us" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_112", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which boundaries protect our intimate privacy?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "privacy_boundaries", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_sharing_details_with_friends", + "text": "No sharing details with friends" + }, + { + "id": "ask_before_saving_photos_or_recordings", + "text": "Ask before saving photos or recordings" + }, + { + "id": "keep_intimate_photos_off_shared_devices", + "text": "Keep intimate photos off shared devices" + }, + { + "id": "delete_anything_when_asked", + "text": "Delete anything when asked" + }, + { + "id": "never_joke_publicly_about_private_moments", + "text": "Never joke publicly about private moments" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_113", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "written", + "text": "What detail makes a private space feel safest to you?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "safe_space_detail", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 400 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_114", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which conditions make a new setting comfortable enough to try?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "new_setting", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_privacy", + "text": "Clear privacy" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_we_can_leave_anytime", + "text": "Knowing we can leave anytime" + }, + { + "id": "bringing_familiar_comforts", + "text": "Bringing familiar comforts" + }, + { + "id": "agreeing_on_boundaries_first", + "text": "Agreeing on boundaries first" + }, + { + "id": "starting_with_something_simple", + "text": "Starting with something simple" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_115", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Pick the private-time soundtrack that sounds best.", + "depth": 1, + "tags": [ + "music", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_and_moody", + "text": "Slow and moody" + }, + { + "id": "soft_and_romantic", + "text": "Soft and romantic" + }, + { + "id": "a_familiar_favorite", + "text": "A familiar favorite" + }, + { + "id": "no_music", + "text": "No music" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_116", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does a hotel or getaway night feel low-pressure?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "getaway", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_fixed_expectation", + "text": "No fixed expectation" + }, + { + "id": "plenty_of_rest", + "text": "Plenty of rest" + }, + { + "id": "a_shared_plan", + "text": "A shared plan" + }, + { + "id": "easy_permission_to_change_course", + "text": "Easy permission to change course" + }, + { + "id": "affection_that_is_enough_by_itself", + "text": "Affection that is enough by itself" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_117", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How present do you feel when phones are out of reach?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "phones", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "No different", + "max_label": "Much more present" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_118", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which practical details quietly support intimacy?", + "depth": 3, + "tags": [ + "practical_support", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "enough_sleep", + "text": "Enough sleep" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "time_without_rushing", + "text": "Time without rushing" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_clean_and_comfortable", + "text": "Feeling clean and comfortable" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_responsibilities_are_handled", + "text": "Knowing responsibilities are handled" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_119", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does a surprise setting change feel welcome?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "surprise_setting", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_stays_private", + "text": "It stays private" + }, + { + "id": "it_is_easy_to_decline", + "text": "It is easy to decline" + }, + { + "id": "nothing_is_booked_or_paid_for_yet", + "text": "Nothing is booked or paid for yet" + }, + { + "id": "it_fits_my_energy", + "text": "It fits my energy" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_return_to_the_familiar", + "text": "We can return to the familiar" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_120", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you feel attractive during private moments?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "body_confidence", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_compliments", + "text": "Specific compliments" + }, + { + "id": "patient_attention", + "text": "Patient attention" + }, + { + "id": "comfortable_lighting", + "text": "Comfortable lighting" + }, + { + "id": "no_comparisons", + "text": "No comparisons" + }, + { + "id": "touch_that_follows_my_cues", + "text": "Touch that follows my cues" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_121", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Pick the compliment that supports your confidence most.", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "confidence_compliment", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_look_incredible", + "text": "You look incredible" + }, + { + "id": "i_love_being_close_to_you", + "text": "I love being close to you" + }, + { + "id": "i_love_how_you_respond_to_me", + "text": "I love how you respond to me" + }, + { + "id": "you_make_me_want_you", + "text": "You make me want you" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_122", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does body-focused attention become uncomfortable?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "body_discomfort", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_much_focus_on_one_area", + "text": "Too much focus on one area" + }, + { + "id": "jokes_about_appearance", + "text": "Jokes about appearance" + }, + { + "id": "comparisons", + "text": "Comparisons" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_watched_instead_of_appreciated", + "text": "Feeling watched instead of appreciated" + }, + { + "id": "ignoring_my_reaction", + "text": "Ignoring my reaction" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_123", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How comfortable do you feel being fully seen by me?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "being_seen", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not comfortable", + "max_label": "Completely comfortable" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_124", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which kinds of reassurance feel genuine?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "reassurance", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "warm_eye_contact", + "text": "Warm eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "specific_praise", + "text": "Specific praise" + }, + { + "id": "unhurried_touch", + "text": "Unhurried touch" + }, + { + "id": "kindness_outside_intimate_moments", + "text": "Kindness outside intimate moments" + }, + { + "id": "respect_when_i_need_space", + "text": "Respect when I need space" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_125", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How would you rather receive a body compliment?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "compliment_delivery", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "whispered_privately", + "text": "Whispered privately" + }, + { + "id": "said_while_holding_me", + "text": "Said while holding me" + }, + { + "id": "sent_in_a_message", + "text": "Sent in a message" + }, + { + "id": "kept_playful_and_brief", + "text": "Kept playful and brief" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_126", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How do you stay present instead of judging your body?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "presence", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "focusing_on_sensation", + "text": "Focusing on sensation" + }, + { + "id": "slower_pacing", + "text": "Slower pacing" + }, + { + "id": "supportive_words", + "text": "Supportive words" + }, + { + "id": "dimmer_lighting", + "text": "Dimmer lighting" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_emotionally_connected", + "text": "Feeling emotionally connected" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_127", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which partner behaviors build body trust over time?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "body_trust", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_teasing_about_insecurities", + "text": "No teasing about insecurities" + }, + { + "id": "consistent_affection", + "text": "Consistent affection" + }, + { + "id": "listening_to_boundaries", + "text": "Listening to boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "compliments_beyond_appearance", + "text": "Compliments beyond appearance" + }, + { + "id": "never_using_private_details_in_conflict", + "text": "Never using private details in conflict" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_128", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "written", + "text": "When do you feel desired without feeling watched or evaluated?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "desired_not_inspected", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 400 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_129", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does undressing feel comfortable?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "undressing", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "taking_our_time", + "text": "Taking our time" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_my_own_pace", + "text": "Choosing my own pace" + }, + { + "id": "warm_lighting", + "text": "Warm lighting" + }, + { + "id": "affection_before_and_during", + "text": "Affection before and during" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure_to_perform", + "text": "No pressure to perform" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_130", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of attention feels most affirming?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "affirming_attention", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "warm_admiration", + "text": "Warm admiration" + }, + { + "id": "playful_desire", + "text": "Playful desire" + }, + { + "id": "tender_appreciation", + "text": "Tender appreciation" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_focus", + "text": "Quiet focus" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_131", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would help on a low-confidence day?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "low_confidence", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "keeping_things_gentle", + "text": "Keeping things gentle" + }, + { + "id": "leaving_some_clothes_on", + "text": "Leaving some clothes on" + }, + { + "id": "more_verbal_reassurance", + "text": "More verbal reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_nonsexual_closeness", + "text": "Choosing nonsexual closeness" + }, + { + "id": "letting_me_lead", + "text": "Letting me lead" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_132", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How supported do you feel about your body in our relationship?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "confidence_support", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very supported", + "max_label": "Very supported" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_133", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Specific praise or quiet admiration?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "praise_choice", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "specific_praise", + "text": "Specific praise" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_admiration", + "text": "Quiet admiration" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_134", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should our intimacy help us feel about our bodies?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "body_messages", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_are_welcome_here", + "text": "You are welcome here" + }, + { + "id": "nothing_must_be_hidden", + "text": "Nothing must be hidden" + }, + { + "id": "comfort_matters_more_than_performance", + "text": "Comfort matters more than performance" + }, + { + "id": "desire_can_be_gentle", + "text": "Desire can be gentle" + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_do_not_reduce_attraction", + "text": "Boundaries do not reduce attraction" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_135", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which kinds of aftercare help you feel settled?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "aftercare", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -6792,270 +4579,1465 @@ "text": "Cuddling" }, { - "id": "kissing", - "text": "Kissing" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_287", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Sweet or spicy?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "mood", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet", - "text": "Sweet" + "id": "reassuring_words", + "text": "Reassuring words" }, { - "id": "spicy", - "text": "Spicy" + "id": "water_or_a_snack", + "text": "Water or a snack" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_rest", + "text": "Quiet rest" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_laughter", + "text": "A little laughter" } - ] - } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_136", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_288", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Flirty words or flirty touch?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What do you usually want first afterward?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "flirting", + "aftercare_first", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "flirty_words", - "text": "Flirty words" + "id": "physical_closeness", + "text": "Physical closeness" }, { - "id": "flirty_touch", - "text": "Flirty touch" + "id": "a_quick_check_in", + "text": "A quick check-in" + }, + { + "id": "practical_care", + "text": "Practical care" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_personal_space", + "text": "A little personal space" } ] - } + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_137", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_289", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Slow build-up or sudden spark?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does aftercare feel caring rather than required?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "anticipation", + "aftercare_care", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "slow_build", - "text": "Slow build-up" + "id": "it_matches_my_mood", + "text": "It matches my mood" }, { - "id": "sudden_spark", - "text": "Sudden spark" + "id": "i_can_ask_for_space", + "text": "I can ask for space" + }, + { + "id": "it_is_not_rushed", + "text": "It is not rushed" + }, + { + "id": "we_check_what_each_person_wants", + "text": "We check what each person wants" + }, + { + "id": "it_does_not_assume_one_answer", + "text": "It does not assume one answer" } - ] - } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_138", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_290", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How important is aftercare to your overall experience?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "aftercare_importance", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very important", + "max_label": "Extremely important" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_139", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Private talk or private game?", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which words feel good after vulnerability?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "aftercare_words", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_am_glad_you_told_me", + "text": "I am glad you told me" + }, + { + "id": "you_are_safe_with_me", + "text": "You are safe with me" + }, + { + "id": "i_loved_being_close_to_you", + "text": "I loved being close to you" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_no_rush", + "text": "There is no rush" + }, + { + "id": "tell_me_what_you_need", + "text": "Tell me what you need" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_140", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Pick the aftercare style that sounds most comforting.", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "play", + "aftercare_style", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "private_talk", - "text": "Private talk" + "id": "quiet_and_cuddly", + "text": "Quiet and cuddly" }, { - "id": "private_game", - "text": "Private game" + "id": "warm_and_talkative", + "text": "Warm and talkative" + }, + { + "id": "light_and_playful", + "text": "Light and playful" + }, + { + "id": "spacious_but_reassuring", + "text": "Spacious but reassuring" } ] - } + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_141", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_291", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What practical care feels thoughtful afterward?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "practical_aftercare", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bringing_water", + "text": "Bringing water" + }, + { + "id": "adjusting_the_room", + "text": "Adjusting the room" + }, + { + "id": "finding_a_blanket", + "text": "Finding a blanket" + }, + { + "id": "checking_comfort", + "text": "Checking comfort" + }, + { + "id": "handling_cleanup_together", + "text": "Handling cleanup together" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_142", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Ask first or read the moment?", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "After trying something new, what support feels best?", "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "consent", + "new_aftercare", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" + "id": "a_calm_check_in", + "text": "A calm check-in" }, { - "id": "read_moment", - "text": "Read the moment" + "id": "reassurance_without_overanalyzing", + "text": "Reassurance without overanalyzing" + }, + { + "id": "naming_what_worked", + "text": "Naming what worked" + }, + { + "id": "permission_not_to_decide_anything_yet", + "text": "Permission not to decide anything yet" + }, + { + "id": "extra_tenderness", + "text": "Extra tenderness" } - ] - } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_143", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_292", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "More romance or more play?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", + "type": "written", + "text": "What should I know about the kind of aftercare you need?", + "depth": 5, "tags": [ - "mood", + "aftercare_written", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_romance", - "text": "More romance" - }, - { - "id": "more_play", - "text": "More play" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_293", + "max_length": 400 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_144", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Planned night or spontaneous moment?", - "depth": 3, "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "planning", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "planned_night", - "text": "Planned night" - }, - { - "id": "spontaneous_moment", - "text": "Spontaneous moment" - } - ] - } + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_294", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "More anticipation or more aftercare?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When might space be the best aftercare?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "desire", + "space_aftercare", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "more_anticipation", - "text": "More anticipation" + "id": "when_i_feel_overstimulated", + "text": "When I feel overstimulated" }, { - "id": "more_aftercare", - "text": "More aftercare" + "id": "when_i_need_to_process_quietly", + "text": "When I need to process quietly" + }, + { + "id": "when_touch_feels_like_too_much", + "text": "When touch feels like too much" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_ask_directly", + "text": "When I ask directly" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_need_sleep", + "text": "When I need sleep" } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "couple_intimacy_295", + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_145", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Compliments or eye contact?", - "depth": 2, "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "connection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "compliments", - "text": "Compliments" - }, - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - } - ] - } + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_296", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Bold invitation or soft invitation?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How should we check in the next day after a new experience?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "initiation", + "next_day", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "bold_invitation", - "text": "Bold invitation" + "id": "a_simple_text", + "text": "A simple text" }, { - "id": "soft_invitation", - "text": "Soft invitation" + "id": "a_short_private_talk", + "text": "A short private talk" + }, + { + "id": "ask_one_clear_question", + "text": "Ask one clear question" + }, + { + "id": "agree_that_either_person_can_bring_it_up", + "text": "Agree that either person can bring it up" } ] - } + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_146", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_297", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make aftercare feel wrong for the moment?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "aftercare_miss", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "assuming_cuddling_is_always_wanted", + "text": "Assuming cuddling is always wanted" + }, + { + "id": "demanding_reassurance", + "text": "Demanding reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "turning_it_into_a_critique", + "text": "Turning it into a critique" + }, + { + "id": "ignoring_a_request_for_space", + "text": "Ignoring a request for space" + }, + { + "id": "leaving_without_a_word", + "text": "Leaving without a word" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_147", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "New idea or favorite old spark?", - "depth": 3, "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it for you to ask for aftercare?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "ask_aftercare", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very hard", + "max_label": "Very easy" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_148", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Cuddles afterward or quiet space nearby?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "aftercare_choice", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cuddles_afterward", + "text": "Cuddles afterward" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_space_nearby", + "text": "Quiet space nearby" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_149", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs show that aftercare matched what you needed?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "aftercare_match", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "my_body_feels_settled", + "text": "My body feels settled" + }, + { + "id": "i_feel_emotionally_close", + "text": "I feel emotionally close" + }, + { + "id": "nothing_feels_rushed", + "text": "Nothing feels rushed" + }, + { + "id": "i_could_ask_for_something_different", + "text": "I could ask for something different" + }, + { + "id": "i_feel_comfortable_afterward", + "text": "I feel comfortable afterward" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_150", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When our interest levels differ, how can we stay close?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "mismatched_desire", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_kind_no", + "text": "A kind no" + }, + { + "id": "no_personal_blame", + "text": "No personal blame" + }, + { + "id": "another_form_of_closeness", + "text": "Another form of closeness" + }, + { + "id": "a_plan_to_reconnect_later", + "text": "A plan to reconnect later" + }, + { + "id": "room_for_disappointment_without_punishment", + "text": "Room for disappointment without punishment" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_151", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which response to declined initiation feels most loving?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "declined_initiation", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "thank_you_for_being_honest", + "text": "Thank you for being honest" + }, + { + "id": "no_problem_come_cuddle_if_you_want", + "text": "No problem—come cuddle if you want" + }, + { + "id": "i_understand_we_can_reconnect_later", + "text": "I understand; we can reconnect later" + }, + { + "id": "i_care_about_you_either_way", + "text": "I care about you either way" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_152", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps rejection from becoming distance?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "rejection", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "affection_without_expectation", + "text": "Affection without expectation" + }, + { + "id": "no_sulking", + "text": "No sulking" + }, + { + "id": "clear_reassurance", + "text": "Clear reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "respecting_space", + "text": "Respecting space" + }, + { + "id": "talking_later_if_needed", + "text": "Talking later if needed" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_153", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well do we handle differences in desire?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "mismatch_scale", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very well", + "max_label": "Very well" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_154", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can frequency conversations feel less painful?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "frequency", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_comparison_to_other_couples", + "text": "No comparison to other couples" + }, + { + "id": "no_scorekeeping", + "text": "No scorekeeping" + }, + { + "id": "talking_when_calm", + "text": "Talking when calm" + }, + { + "id": "separating_desire_from_love", + "text": "Separating desire from love" + }, + { + "id": "looking_for_shared_solutions", + "text": "Looking for shared solutions" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_155", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Pick the alternative that feels best when interest does not match.", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "alternative_closeness", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cuddling", + "text": "Cuddling" + }, + { + "id": "a_date_without_sex", + "text": "A date without sex" + }, + { + "id": "a_massage_with_clear_limits", + "text": "A massage with clear limits" + }, + { + "id": "separate_rest_with_reassurance", + "text": "Separate rest with reassurance" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_156", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which assumptions should we avoid about lower desire?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "lower_desire", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_means_less_love", + "text": "It means less love" + }, + { + "id": "it_means_less_attraction", + "text": "It means less attraction" + }, + { + "id": "it_is_always_about_the_partner", + "text": "It is always about the partner" + }, + { + "id": "it_needs_an_immediate_fix", + "text": "It needs an immediate fix" + }, + { + "id": "it_gives_permission_to_pressure", + "text": "It gives permission to pressure" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_157", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can affect desire without being anyone's fault?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "desire_factors", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "stress", + "text": "Stress" + }, + { + "id": "sleep", + "text": "Sleep" + }, + { + "id": "health", + "text": "Health" + }, + { + "id": "body_confidence", + "text": "Body confidence" + }, + { + "id": "relationship_tension", + "text": "Relationship tension" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_158", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "written", + "text": "When your desire is lower than mine, what helps you still feel loved?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "lower_desire_written", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 400 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_159", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can the higher-desire partner protect closeness?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "higher_desire", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "accept_no_the_first_time", + "text": "Accept no the first time" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_bargaining", + "text": "Avoid bargaining" + }, + { + "id": "keep_affection_non_transactional", + "text": "Keep affection non-transactional" + }, + { + "id": "manage_disappointment_kindly", + "text": "Manage disappointment kindly" + }, + { + "id": "ask_about_another_time_once_not_repeatedly", + "text": "Ask about another time once, not repeatedly" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_160", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which phrase makes a mismatch easier to hear?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "mismatch_phrase", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_care_about_you_i_am_not_up_for_this", + "text": "I care about you; I am not up for this" + }, + { + "id": "i_want_closeness_just_not_that_tonight", + "text": "I want closeness, just not that tonight" + }, + { + "id": "my_energy_is_low_not_my_love", + "text": "My energy is low, not my love" + }, + { + "id": "can_we_plan_something_for_another_time", + "text": "Can we plan something for another time?" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_161", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does the lower-desire partner feel safest speaking honestly?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "speak_honestly", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_fear_of_conflict", + "text": "No fear of conflict" + }, + { + "id": "no_guilt_afterward", + "text": "No guilt afterward" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure_to_promise_later", + "text": "No pressure to promise later" + }, + { + "id": "permission_to_be_unsure", + "text": "Permission to be unsure" + }, + { + "id": "trust_that_affection_will_remain", + "text": "Trust that affection will remain" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_162", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How clearly can we discuss sexual interest without treating it as proof of love?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "love_desire_separate", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not clearly", + "max_label": "Very clearly" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_163", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Reconnect gently now or plan private time later?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "reconnect_choice", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "reconnect_gently_now", + "text": "Reconnect gently now" + }, + { + "id": "plan_private_time_later", + "text": "Plan private time later" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_164", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would help us handle desire differences as a team?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "shared_problem", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "compassion", + "text": "Compassion" + }, + { + "id": "flexible_expectations", + "text": "Flexible expectations" + }, + { + "id": "honest_health_context", + "text": "Honest health context" + }, + { + "id": "working_as_a_team", + "text": "Working as a team" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_165", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps when an intimate moment becomes awkward?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "awkwardness", + 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"category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "After a misunderstanding, which repair feels most natural?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "repair_style", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_sincere_apology", + "text": "A sincere apology" + }, + { + "id": "a_calm_explanation", + "text": "A calm explanation" + }, + { + "id": "a_reassuring_hug_if_wanted", + "text": "A reassuring hug if wanted" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_time_then_a_talk", + "text": "A little time, then a talk" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_171", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should a thoughtful repair apology include?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "intimacy_apology", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "owning_the_impact", + "text": "Owning the impact" + }, + { + "id": "no_excuses", + "text": "No excuses" + }, + { + "id": "respect_for_the_boundary", + "text": "Respect for the boundary" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_change", + "text": "A clear change" + }, + { + "id": "no_demand_for_quick_forgiveness", + "text": "No demand for quick forgiveness" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_172", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can we protect intimacy during relationship conflict?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "conflict_protection", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "never_use_private_details_as_weapons", + "text": "Never use private details as weapons" + }, + { + "id": "do_not_use_sex_as_a_shortcut_to_reconciliation", + "text": "Do not use sex as a shortcut to reconciliation" + }, + { + "id": "respect_separate_sleep_if_needed", + "text": "Respect separate sleep if needed" + }, + { + "id": "repair_emotionally_first", + "text": "Repair emotionally first" + }, + { + "id": "keep_affection_optional", + "text": "Keep affection optional" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_173", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "written", + "text": "After distance, what makes reconnecting feel safe?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "reconnecting_written", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 400 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_174", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When feedback accidentally hurts, what helps us recover?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "feedback_hurt", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "acknowledge_the_sting", + "text": "Acknowledge the sting" + }, + { + "id": "clarify_the_intent", + "text": "Clarify the intent" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_defensiveness", + "text": "Avoid defensiveness" + }, + { + "id": "take_a_break_if_needed", + "text": "Take a break if needed" + }, + { + "id": "return_with_kindness", + "text": "Return with kindness" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_175", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "After a vulnerable moment, what reassurance lands best?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "vulnerable_reassurance", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_am_not_judging_you", + "text": "I am not judging you" + }, + { + "id": "thank_you_for_trusting_me", + "text": "Thank you for trusting me" + }, + { + "id": "nothing_has_to_happen", + "text": "Nothing has to happen" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_go_at_your_pace", + "text": "We can go at your pace" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_176", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can turn embarrassment into connection?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "embarrassment", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_humor", + "text": "Gentle humor" + }, + { + "id": "no_teasing_later", + "text": "No teasing later" + }, + { + "id": "normalizing_imperfection", + "text": "Normalizing imperfection" + }, + { + "id": "warm_affection_if_wanted", + "text": "Warm affection if wanted" + }, + { + "id": "a_simple_change_of_subject", + "text": "A simple change of subject" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_177", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How confident are you that private mistakes stay private?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "private_mistakes", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not confident", + "max_label": "Completely confident" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_178", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Talk right away or reconnect after a little space?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "repair_timing", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_right_away", + "text": "Talk right away" + }, + { + "id": "reconnect_after_some_space", + "text": "Reconnect after some space" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_179", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which habits keep one awkward night from becoming a lasting story?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "lasting_story", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "do_not_retell_it", + "text": "Do not retell it" + }, + { + "id": "do_not_label_anyone", + "text": "Do not label anyone" + }, + { + "id": "focus_on_what_was_learned", + "text": "Focus on what was learned" + }, + { + "id": "return_to_normal_affection", + "text": "Return to normal affection" + }, + { + "id": "try_again_only_if_both_want_to", + "text": "Try again only if both want to" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_180", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which qualities make a new intimate idea worth exploring?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ "novelty", "couple_intimacy" @@ -7063,76 +6045,1473 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "new_idea", - "text": "New idea" + "id": "mutual_curiosity", + "text": "Mutual curiosity" }, { - "id": "old_spark", - "text": "Favorite old spark" + "id": "clear_boundaries", + "text": "Clear boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "an_easy_opt_out", + "text": "An easy opt-out" + }, + { + "id": "a_trusted_setting", + "text": "A trusted setting" + }, + { + "id": "starting_small", + "text": "Starting small" } - ] - } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_181", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_298", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Touch first or words first?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How would you rather hear a new idea?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "communication", + "new_idea_delivery", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "touch_first", - "text": "Touch first" + "id": "in_a_relaxed_conversation", + "text": "In a relaxed conversation" }, { - "id": "words_first", - "text": "Words first" + "id": "as_a_playful_question", + "text": "As a playful question" + }, + { + "id": "in_a_shared_yes_no_maybe_list", + "text": "In a shared yes/no/maybe list" + }, + { + "id": "after_being_asked_if_i_am_open_to_ideas", + "text": "After being asked if I am open to ideas" } ] - } + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_182", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_299", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Hold me tighter or give me room?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What protects trust when discussing fantasies?", "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ - "space", + "fantasy", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hold_me_tighter", - "text": "Hold me tighter" + "id": "no_assumption_we_will_do_it", + "text": "No assumption we will do it" }, { - "id": "give_me_room", - "text": "Give me room" + "id": "no_judgment", + "text": "No judgment" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure_for_details", + "text": "No pressure for details" + }, + { + "id": "privacy_afterward", + "text": "Privacy afterward" + }, + { + "id": "permission_to_stop_the_conversation", + "text": "Permission to stop the conversation" } - ] - } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_183", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" }, { - "id": "couple_intimacy_300", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Quiet closeness or electric closeness?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How curious do you feel about trying something new together?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "closeness", + "curiosity", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not curious", + "max_label": "Very curious" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_184", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which small changes sound interesting without feeling overwhelming?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + 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"Anything involving another person" + }, + { + "id": "anything_in_a_new_location", + "text": "Anything in a new location" + }, + { + "id": "anything_already_named_as_a_boundary", + "text": "Anything already named as a boundary" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_190", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What level of novelty fits you best lately?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "novelty_level", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "familiar_favorites", + "text": "Familiar favorites" + }, + { + "id": "one_small_change", + "text": "One small change" + }, + { + "id": "something_clearly_new", + "text": "Something clearly new" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_not_looking_for_novelty", + "text": "I am not looking for novelty" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_191", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can curiosity stay connected to care?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "careful_curiosity", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "checking_emotional_comfort", + "text": "Checking emotional comfort" + }, + { + "id": "respecting_hesitation", + "text": "Respecting hesitation" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_intensity_from_becoming_the_goal", + "text": "Keeping intensity from becoming the goal" + }, + { + "id": "talking_afterward", + "text": "Talking afterward" + }, + { + "id": "valuing_closeness_over_novelty", + "text": "Valuing closeness over novelty" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_192", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How safe do you feel sharing an idea that may never happen?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "sharing_fantasy", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe", + "max_label": "Completely safe" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_193", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "A familiar favorite or one small new twist?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "familiar_new", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_familiar_favorite", + "text": "A familiar favorite" + }, + { + "id": "one_small_new_twist", + "text": "One small new twist" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_194", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Talk through a fantasy or keep it as imagination?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "fantasy_choice", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_through_a_fantasy", + "text": "Talk through a fantasy" + }, + { + "id": "keep_it_as_imagination", + "text": "Keep it as imagination" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_195", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How do you like anticipation to build before private time?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "anticipation", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "flirty_messages", + "text": "Flirty messages" + }, + { + "id": "a_planned_evening", + "text": "A planned evening" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_looks", + "text": "Knowing looks" + }, + { + "id": "small_touches", + "text": "Small touches" + }, + { + "id": "a_shared_secret", + "text": "A shared secret" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_196", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which ritual would help us shift into couple time?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "ritual", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "change_the_lighting", + "text": "Change the lighting" + }, + { + "id": "share_a_shower", + "text": "Share a shower" + }, + { + "id": "choose_music_together", + "text": "Choose music together" + }, + { + "id": "sit_close_without_phones", + "text": "Sit close without phones" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_197", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps a planned night from feeling like an obligation?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "planned_night", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "flexible_expectations", + "text": "Flexible expectations" + }, + { + "id": "no_required_outcome", + "text": "No required outcome" + }, + { + "id": "room_to_cancel", + "text": "Room to cancel" + }, + { + "id": "affection_first", + "text": "Affection first" + }, + { + "id": "a_plan_both_people_shaped", + "text": "A plan both people shaped" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_198", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much does anticipation affect your desire?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "anticipation_scale", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very little", + "max_label": "A great deal" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_199", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which small rituals create emotional closeness?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "emotional_rituals", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_hello", + "text": "A long hello" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_toast", + "text": "A private toast" + }, + { + "id": "a_shared_playlist", + "text": "A shared playlist" + }, + { + "id": "a_few_honest_minutes_at_night", + "text": "A few honest minutes at night" + }, + { + "id": "a_slow_goodnight_kiss", + "text": "A slow goodnight kiss" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_200", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What signal would you enjoy using for 'I am interested'?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "interest_signal", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_specific_phrase", + "text": "A specific phrase" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_emoji", + "text": "A private emoji" + }, + { + "id": "a_certain_look", + "text": "A certain look" + }, + { + "id": "a_hand_squeeze", + "text": "A hand squeeze" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_201", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How do we keep a flirty countdown fun?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "countdown", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_clear_plan", + "text": "A clear plan" + }, + { + "id": "playful_messages", + "text": "Playful messages" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure_if_the_mood_changes", + "text": "No pressure if the mood changes" + }, + { + "id": "a_small_surprise", + "text": "A small surprise" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_it_private", + "text": "Keeping it private" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_202", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which traditions could help intimacy survive busy seasons?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "busy_rituals", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_weekly_cuddle_night", + "text": "A weekly cuddle night" + }, + { + "id": "a_monthly_private_date", + "text": "A monthly private date" + }, + { + "id": "goodbye_kisses", + "text": "Goodbye kisses" + }, + { + "id": "ten_phone_free_minutes", + "text": "Ten phone-free minutes" + }, + { + "id": "a_relaxed_talk_about_what_we_want", + "text": "A relaxed talk about what we want" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_203", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make a morning ritual feel intimate?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "morning_ritual", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "lingering_in_bed", + "text": "Lingering in bed" + }, + { + "id": "sharing_coffee_close_together", + "text": "Sharing coffee close together" + }, + { + "id": "a_long_hug", + "text": "A long hug" + }, + { + "id": "a_sweet_message_after_leaving", + "text": "A sweet message after leaving" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_a_tiny_ritual_for_the_day", + "text": "Choosing a tiny ritual for the day" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_204", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which end-of-day signals help you feel chosen?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "end_day", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "putting_phones_away", + "text": "Putting phones away" + }, + { + "id": "turning_toward_each_other", + "text": "Turning toward each other" + }, + { + "id": "greeting_each_other_warmly", + "text": "Greeting each other warmly" + }, + { + "id": "offering_a_cuddle", + "text": "Offering a cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "saying_what_i_appreciated", + "text": "Saying what I appreciated" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_205", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which private tradition sounds most sustainable?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "sustainable_ritual", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sunday_morning_cuddles", + "text": "Sunday morning cuddles" + }, + { + "id": "a_weekly_flirty_text", + "text": "A weekly flirty text" + }, + { + "id": "a_monthly_at_home_date", + "text": "A monthly at-home date" + }, + { + "id": "a_nightly_goodnight_kiss", + "text": "A nightly goodnight kiss" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_206", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does a ritual start feeling like a chore?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "ritual_risk", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "treating_it_like_a_quota", + "text": "Treating it like a quota" + }, + { + "id": "ignoring_changing_moods", + "text": "Ignoring changing moods" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_score", + "text": "Keeping score" + }, + { + "id": "never_changing_it", + "text": "Never changing it" + }, + { + "id": "assuming_it_must_lead_somewhere", + "text": "Assuming it must lead somewhere" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_207", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How protected does our couple time feel from everyday demands?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "protected_time", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not protected", + "max_label": "Well protected" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_208", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Build anticipation all day or keep the moment spontaneous?", + "depth": 3, + "tags": [ + "anticipation_choice", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "build_anticipation_all_day", + "text": "Build anticipation all day" + }, + { + "id": "keep_it_spontaneous", + "text": "Keep it spontaneous" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_209", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "A reliable ritual or a changing surprise?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "ritual_surprise", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_reliable_ritual", + "text": "A reliable ritual" + }, + { + "id": "a_changing_surprise", + "text": "A changing surprise" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_210", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kinds of intimacy still fit a very busy week?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "busy_week", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_goodbye_kiss", + "text": "A long goodbye kiss" + }, + { + "id": "ten_minutes_of_cuddling", + "text": "Ten 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"multi_choice", + "text": "How do we keep intimacy from becoming another task?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "not_task", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "keeping_plans_flexible", + "text": "Keeping plans flexible" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_low_effort_closeness", + "text": "Choosing low-effort closeness" + }, + { + "id": "no_guilt_if_plans_change", + "text": "No guilt if plans change" + }, + { + "id": "making_room_for_play", + "text": "Making room for play" + }, + { + "id": "not_tracking_frequency", + "text": "Not tracking frequency" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_213", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much energy do you usually need before intimacy feels appealing?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "energy_need", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very 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"answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "focused_attention", + "text": "Focused attention" + }, + { + "id": "one_long_kiss", + "text": "One long kiss" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_laughter", + "text": "A little laughter" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_it_is_enough", + "text": "Knowing it is enough" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_216", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can intimacy survive irregular schedules?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "schedules", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "planning_a_window", + "text": "Planning a window" + }, + { + "id": "using_small_moments", + "text": "Using small moments" + }, + { + "id": "being_honest_about_energy", + "text": "Being honest about energy" + }, + { + "id": "not_assuming_rejection", + "text": "Not assuming rejection" + }, + { + "id": "protecting_one_recurring_time", + "text": "Protecting one recurring 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"long_stress", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "nonsexual_touch", + "text": "Nonsexual touch" + }, + { + "id": "kind_words", + "text": "Kind words" + }, + { + "id": "shared_humor", + "text": "Shared humor" + }, + { + "id": "brief_dates", + "text": "Brief dates" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure_for_more", + "text": "No pressure for more" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_219", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can we make room for closeness without forcing it?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "make_room", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "offer_choices", + "text": "Offer choices" + }, + { + "id": "plan_loosely", + "text": "Plan loosely" + }, + { + "id": "start_with_affection", + "text": "Start with affection" + }, + { + "id": "check_energy_first", + "text": "Check energy first" + }, + { + "id": "accept_a_change_of_mind", + "text": "Accept a change of mind" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_220", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which quick connection would you choose during a packed day?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "quick_connection", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_two_minute_hug", + "text": "A two-minute hug" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_compliment", + "text": "A private compliment" + }, + { + "id": "a_slow_kiss", + "text": "A slow kiss" + }, + { + "id": "a_hand_squeeze", + "text": "A hand squeeze" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_221", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What conditions make desire more possible after burnout?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "burnout", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "real_rest", + "text": "Real rest" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_supported", + "text": "Feeling supported" + }, + { + "id": "reduced_pressure", + "text": "Reduced pressure" + }, + { + "id": "emotional_connection", + "text": "Emotional connection" + }, + { + "id": "time_without_responsibilities", + "text": "Time without responsibilities" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_222", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How balanced does intimacy feel with the rest of our life?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "life_balance", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Out of balance", + "max_label": "Well balanced" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_223", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "A brief moment tonight or protected time this weekend?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "timing_choice", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_brief_moment_tonight", + "text": "A brief moment tonight" + }, + { + "id": "protected_time_this_weekend", + "text": "Protected time this weekend" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_224", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Quiet closeness or playful distraction after a hard day?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "hard_day_choice", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -7142,11 +7521,2498 @@ "text": "Quiet closeness" }, { - "id": "electric_closeness", - "text": "Electric closeness" + "id": "playful_distraction", + "text": "Playful distraction" } ] - } + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_225", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which memories still bring back attraction for you?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "attraction_memory", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_first_kisses", + "text": "Our first kisses" + }, + { + "id": "a_favorite_trip", + "text": "A favorite trip" + }, + { + "id": "a_time_we_both_felt_confident", + "text": "A time we both felt confident" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_night", + "text": "A playful night" + }, + { + "id": "a_time_we_felt_deeply_understood", + "text": "A time we felt deeply understood" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_226", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which memory would you most enjoy recreating?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "recreate_memory", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_slow_romantic_night", + "text": "A slow romantic night" + }, + { + "id": "a_spontaneous_moment", + "text": "A spontaneous moment" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_date", + "text": "A playful date" + }, + { + "id": "a_peaceful_morning", + "text": "A peaceful morning" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_227", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes an intimate memory worth keeping?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "memory_value", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_safe", + "text": "Feeling safe" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_desired", + "text": "Feeling desired" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_together", + "text": "Laughing together" + }, + { + "id": "trying_something_mutually_chosen", + "text": "Trying something mutually chosen" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_completely_present", + "text": "Feeling completely present" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_228", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much do shared memories strengthen your attraction?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "memory_scale", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very little", + "max_label": "A great deal" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_229", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which older habits might still have some spark?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "old_habits", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "long_make_out_sessions", + "text": "Long make-out sessions" + }, + { + "id": "flirty_notes", + "text": "Flirty notes" + }, + { + "id": "dressing_up", + "text": "Dressing up" + }, + { + "id": "slow_dancing", + "text": "Slow dancing" + }, + { + "id": "unplanned_cuddling", + "text": "Unplanned cuddling" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_230", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What would be most fun to bring back for one night?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "bring_back", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "an_old_playlist", + "text": "An old playlist" + }, + { + "id": "a_favorite_outfit", + "text": "A favorite outfit" + }, + { + "id": "a_former_date_spot", + "text": "A former date spot" + }, + { + "id": "a_forgotten_inside_joke", + "text": "A forgotten inside joke" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_231", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can nostalgia stay warm instead of pressuring?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "nostalgia", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_comparison_to_the_past", + "text": "No comparison to the past" + }, + { + "id": "no_expectation_to_recreate_everything", + "text": "No expectation to recreate everything" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_one_detail", + "text": "Choosing one detail" + }, + { + "id": "appreciating_how_we_have_changed", + "text": "Appreciating how we have changed" + }, + { + "id": "letting_the_new_version_be_different", + "text": "Letting the new version be different" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_232", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What moments have made you feel most chosen by me?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "chosen_memories", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "when_i_made_time", + "text": "When I made time" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_defended_our_privacy", + "text": "When I defended our privacy" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_noticed_your_mood", + "text": "When I noticed your mood" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_initiated_affection", + "text": "When I initiated affection" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_respected_a_boundary", + "text": "When I respected a boundary" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_233", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What details make a romantic memory vivid?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "memory_details", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_certain_song", + "text": "A certain song" + }, + { + "id": "a_scent", + "text": "A scent" + }, + { + "id": "the_setting", + "text": "The setting" + }, + { + "id": "specific_words", + "text": "Specific words" + }, + { + "id": "how_my_body_felt", + "text": "How my body felt" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_234", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can old memories teach us about current intimacy?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "memory_lessons", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "what_pace_works", + "text": "What pace works" + }, + { + "id": "what_makes_us_laugh", + "text": "What makes us laugh" + }, + { + "id": "what_builds_trust", + "text": "What builds trust" + }, + { + "id": "what_settings_help", + "text": "What settings help" + }, + { + "id": "what_affection_we_miss", + "text": "What affection we miss" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_235", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Pick the keepsake that would best represent our chemistry.", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "keepsake", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_photo", + "text": "A photo" + }, + { + "id": "a_song", + "text": "A song" + }, + { + "id": "a_handwritten_note", + "text": "A handwritten note" + }, + { + "id": "a_place_we_revisit", + "text": "A place we revisit" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_236", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which new memories would feel meaningful this year?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "new_memory", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_private_getaway", + "text": "A private getaway" + }, + { + "id": "a_brave_conversation", + "text": "A brave conversation" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_experiment", + "text": "A playful experiment" + }, + { + "id": "a_simple_recurring_ritual", + "text": "A simple recurring ritual" + }, + { + "id": "a_deeply_relaxed_night", + "text": "A deeply relaxed night" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_237", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How satisfied are you with the new memories we are making?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "new_memory_scale", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not satisfied", + "max_label": "Very satisfied" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_238", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Recreate a favorite moment or invent a completely new one?", + "depth": 3, + "tags": [ + "recreate_new", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "recreate_a_favorite", + "text": "Recreate a favorite" + }, + { + "id": "invent_something_new", + "text": "Invent something new" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_239", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Old love song or a new private playlist?", + "depth": 1, + "tags": [ + "music_memory", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "an_old_love_song", + "text": "An old love song" + }, + { + "id": "a_new_private_playlist", + "text": "A new private playlist" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_240", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What emotional moments make physical closeness easier?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "emotional_closeness", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_understood", + "text": "Feeling understood" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_together", + "text": "Laughing together" + }, + { + "id": "repairing_a_disagreement", + "text": "Repairing a disagreement" + }, + { + "id": "receiving_appreciation", + "text": "Receiving appreciation" + }, + { + "id": "sharing_something_vulnerable", + "text": "Sharing something vulnerable" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_241", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of attention makes you feel most cared for?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "emotionally_chosen", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "undivided_listening", + "text": "Undivided listening" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_a_detail", + "text": "Remembering a detail" + }, + { + "id": "making_time_for_me", + "text": "Making time for me" + }, + { + "id": "checking_in_without_fixing", + "text": "Checking in without fixing" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_242", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does intimacy feel like connection rather than performance?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "connection_not_performance", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "being_able_to_slow_down", + "text": "Being able to slow down" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure_to_impress", + "text": "No pressure to impress" + }, + { + "id": "honest_feedback", + "text": "Honest feedback" + }, + { + "id": "warm_eye_contact", + "text": "Warm eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_accepted", + "text": "Feeling accepted" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_243", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How emotionally connected do you feel during intimacy lately?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "emotional_scale", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very connected", + "max_label": "Deeply connected" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_244", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs show that emotional trust is present?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "emotional_trust", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_fear_of_ridicule", + "text": "No fear of ridicule" + }, + { + "id": "easy_honesty", + "text": "Easy honesty" + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_are_remembered", + "text": "Boundaries are remembered" + }, + { + "id": "silence_feels_comfortable", + "text": "Silence feels comfortable" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_can_be_imperfect", + "text": "Both people can be imperfect" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_245", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which conversation creates closeness fastest?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "closeness_talk", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_shared_memory", + "text": "A shared memory" + }, + { + "id": "a_sincere_appreciation", + "text": "A sincere appreciation" + }, + { + "id": "a_future_hope", + "text": "A future hope" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_confession", + "text": "A playful confession" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_246", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does vulnerability bring us closer?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "vulnerability", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "being_believed", + "text": "Being believed" + }, + { + "id": "being_thanked", + "text": "Being thanked" + }, + { + "id": "no_immediate_advice", + "text": "No immediate advice" + }, + { + "id": "privacy_afterward", + "text": "Privacy afterward" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_closer_not_exposed", + "text": "Feeling closer, not exposed" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_247", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which forms of appreciation strengthen intimacy?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "appreciation", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "noticing_effort", + "text": "Noticing effort" + }, + { + "id": "praising_character", + "text": "Praising character" + }, + { + "id": "naming_attraction", + "text": "Naming attraction" + }, + { + "id": "thanking_small_care", + "text": "Thanking small care" + }, + { + "id": "celebrating_growth", + "text": "Celebrating growth" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_248", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kind of affection works after an emotional conversation?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "post_talk_affection", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "asking_before_touching", + "text": "Asking before touching" + }, + { + "id": "a_slow_hug", + "text": "A slow hug" + }, + { + "id": "sitting_close", + "text": "Sitting close" + }, + { + "id": "a_reassuring_kiss", + "text": "A reassuring kiss" + }, + { + "id": "giving_space_first", + "text": "Giving space first" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_249", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does eye contact feel connecting rather than intense?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "eye_contact", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_warm_expression", + "text": "A warm expression" + }, + { + "id": "looking_away_is_allowed", + "text": "Looking away is allowed" + }, + { + "id": "it_happens_naturally", + "text": "It happens naturally" + }, + { + "id": "the_pace_is_slow", + "text": "The pace is slow" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_emotional_trust", + "text": "There is emotional trust" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_250", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Pick the feeling you most want private time to create.", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "desired_feeling", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort", + "text": "Comfort" + }, + { + "id": "excitement", + "text": "Excitement" + }, + { + "id": "tenderness", + "text": "Tenderness" + }, + { + "id": "deep_connection", + "text": "Deep connection" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_251", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When do we feel most like partners in intimacy?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "partnership", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "shared_decisions", + "text": "Shared decisions" + }, + { + "id": "taking_turns_initiating", + "text": "Taking turns initiating" + }, + { + "id": "both_receive_care", + "text": "Both receive care" + }, + { + "id": "both_can_pause", + "text": "Both can pause" + }, + { + "id": "both_feel_appreciated", + "text": "Both feel appreciated" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_252", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it to stay emotionally present during physical closeness?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "presence_scale", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very difficult", + "max_label": "Very easy" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_253", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Heart-to-heart first or affection first?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "order_choice", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "heart_to_heart_first", + "text": "Heart-to-heart first" + }, + { + "id": "affection_first", + "text": "Affection first" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_254", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Quiet tenderness or playful chemistry?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "chemistry_choice", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_tenderness", + "text": "Quiet tenderness" + }, + { + "id": "playful_chemistry", + "text": "Playful chemistry" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_255", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which private mini-dates sound genuinely fun?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "mini_dates", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "dessert_in_bed", + "text": "Dessert in bed" + }, + { + "id": "a_candlelit_playlist_night", + "text": "A candlelit playlist night" + }, + { + "id": "slow_dancing_at_home", + "text": "Slow dancing at home" + }, + { + "id": "a_blanket_and_movie_cuddle", + "text": "A blanket-and-movie cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "a_dress_up_dinner_indoors", + "text": "A dress-up dinner indoors" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_256", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which tiny challenge would feel flirty, not forced?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "flirty_challenge", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trade_three_compliments", + "text": "Trade three compliments" + }, + { + "id": "hold_eye_contact_for_ten_seconds", + "text": "Hold eye contact for ten seconds" + }, + { + "id": "choose_each_other_s_song", + "text": "Choose each other's song" + }, + { + "id": "plan_one_surprise_date_detail", + "text": "Plan one surprise date detail" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_257", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does a couple game feel playful without feeling childish?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "adult_game", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_chemistry", + "text": "Good chemistry" + }, + { + "id": "private_humor", + "text": "Private humor" + }, + { + "id": "simple_rules", + "text": "Simple rules" + }, + { + "id": "consent_built_in", + "text": "Consent built in" + }, + { + "id": "no_embarrassing_dares", + "text": "No embarrassing dares" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_258", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much do you enjoy playful structure in private time?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "game_scale", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not at all", + "max_label": "Very much" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_259", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which low-pressure dares would you actually enjoy?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "dares", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "give_a_slow_compliment", + "text": "Give a slow compliment" + }, + { + "id": "choose_a_place_to_cuddle", + "text": "Choose a place to cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "pick_the_next_song", + "text": "Pick the next song" + }, + { + "id": "share_a_favorite_memory", + "text": "Share a favorite memory" + }, + { + "id": "ask_for_one_kind_of_touch", + "text": "Ask for one kind of touch" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_260", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What shared ending sounds best after a playful challenge?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "shared_prize", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_cuddle", + "text": "A long cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "dessert_together", + "text": "Dessert together" + }, + { + "id": "a_massage_trade", + "text": "A massage trade" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_the_next_date", + "text": "Choosing the next date" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_261", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps a teasing game from going too far?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "teasing_limits", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_stop_word", + "text": "A stop word" + }, + { + "id": "no_humiliation", + "text": "No humiliation" + }, + { + "id": "no_public_play", + "text": "No public play" + }, + { + "id": "clear_time_limits", + "text": "Clear time limits" + }, + { + "id": "immediate_respect_for_discomfort", + "text": "Immediate respect for discomfort" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_262", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which playful choices could help us learn preferences?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "preference_games", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_yes_no_maybe_list", + "text": "A yes/no/maybe list" + }, + { + "id": "pick_one_of_four_kisses", + "text": "Pick one of four kisses" + }, + { + "id": "choose_a_mood_card", + "text": "Choose a mood card" + }, + { + "id": "choose_a_favorite_kind_of_affection", + "text": "Choose a favorite kind of affection" + }, + { + "id": "build_a_shared_idea_jar", + "text": "Build a shared idea jar" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_263", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make a private scavenger hunt feel romantic?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "scavenger", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "notes_with_compliments", + "text": "Notes with compliments" + }, + { + "id": "a_favorite_snack", + "text": "A favorite snack" + }, + { + "id": "a_meaningful_location", + "text": "A meaningful location" + }, + { + "id": "a_final_slow_dance", + "text": "A final slow dance" + }, + { + "id": "a_no_pressure_ending", + "text": "A no-pressure ending" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_264", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which themes could make an at-home night fresh?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "themes", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "first_date_replay", + "text": "First-date replay" + }, + { + "id": "favorite_decade_music", + "text": "Favorite-decade music" + }, + { + "id": "dress_up_dinner", + "text": "Dress-up dinner" + }, + { + "id": "spa_night", + "text": "Spa night" + }, + { + "id": "phone_free_hideaway", + "text": "Phone-free hideaway" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_265", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Pick the playful signal that should mean 'come closer'.", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "come_closer_signal", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_certain_smile", + "text": "A certain smile" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_phrase", + "text": "A private phrase" + }, + { + "id": "a_hand_offered", + "text": "A hand offered" + }, + { + "id": "a_favorite_song_started", + "text": "A favorite song started" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_266", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does surprise affection feel fun?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "surprise_affection", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_stays_within_known_boundaries", + "text": "It stays within known boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "the_timing_is_considerate", + "text": "The timing is considerate" + }, + { + "id": "it_is_easy_to_decline", + "text": "It is easy to decline" + }, + { + "id": "it_feels_personal", + "text": "It feels personal" + }, + { + "id": "it_does_not_interrupt_something_important", + "text": "It does not interrupt something important" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_267", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How playful would you like our intimacy to feel this month?", + "depth": 3, + "tags": [ + "playful_month", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very playful", + "max_label": "Very playful" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_268", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "A flirty game or a slow private date?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "game_date", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_flirty_game", + "text": "A flirty game" + }, + { + "id": "a_slow_private_date", + "text": "A slow private date" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_269", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Trade compliments or trade gentle massages?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "trade_choice", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trade_compliments", + "text": "Trade compliments" + }, + { + "id": "trade_gentle_massages", + "text": "Trade gentle massages" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_270", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps attraction alive in a long relationship?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "long_term_attraction", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "continued_curiosity", + "text": "Continued curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "individual_confidence", + "text": "Individual confidence" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "repairing_hurt_feelings", + "text": "Repairing hurt feelings" + }, + { + "id": "making_private_time", + "text": "Making private time" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_271", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which long-term habit protects romance best?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "romance_habit", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "regular_dates", + "text": "Regular dates" + }, + { + "id": "daily_affection", + "text": "Daily affection" + }, + { + "id": "flirty_messages", + "text": "Flirty messages" + }, + { + "id": "honest_desire_talks", + "text": "Honest desire talks" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_272", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which habits make intimacy feel routine?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "routine", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "always_the_same_timing", + "text": "Always the same timing" + }, + { + "id": "skipping_connection_beforehand", + "text": "Skipping connection beforehand" + }, + { + "id": "no_anticipation", + "text": "No anticipation" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_rushed", + "text": "Feeling rushed" + }, + { + "id": "treating_it_as_an_obligation", + "text": "Treating it as an obligation" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_273", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How fresh does our intimate connection feel lately?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "freshness", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very routine", + "max_label": "Very fresh" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_274", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which changes deserve extra patience over the years?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "life_changes", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "health_changes", + "text": "Health changes" + }, + { + "id": "body_changes", + "text": "Body changes" + }, + { + "id": "hormonal_changes", + "text": "Hormonal changes" + }, + { + "id": "parenting_demands", + "text": "Parenting demands" + }, + { + "id": "stress_and_grief", + "text": "Stress and grief" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_275", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Where would you most like our intimacy to grow?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "growth", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_honest_communication", + "text": "More honest communication" + }, + { + "id": "more_playful_affection", + "text": "More playful affection" + }, + { + "id": "more_confidence_naming_boundaries", + "text": "More confidence naming boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "more_intentional_time", + "text": "More intentional time" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_276", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How do we adapt without losing closeness?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "adaptation", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_about_changes", + "text": "Talk about changes" + }, + { + "id": "let_preferences_evolve", + "text": "Let preferences evolve" + }, + { + "id": "keep_nonsexual_affection", + "text": "Keep nonsexual affection" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_comparisons_to_the_past", + "text": "Avoid comparisons to the past" + }, + { + "id": "find_new_shared_rhythms", + "text": "Find new shared rhythms" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_277", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs suggest our intimacy needs attention?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "attention_signs", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "affection_feels_absent", + "text": "Affection feels absent" + }, + { + "id": "conversations_feel_unsafe", + "text": "Conversations feel unsafe" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_avoids_initiating", + "text": "One person avoids initiating" + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_are_forgotten", + "text": "Boundaries are forgotten" + }, + { + "id": "resentment_is_growing", + "text": "Resentment is growing" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_278", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should never become a scorecard?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "scorecard", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "frequency", + "text": "Frequency" + }, + { + "id": "who_initiates", + "text": "Who initiates" + }, + { + "id": "who_says_no", + "text": "Who says no" + }, + { + "id": "who_plans_dates", + "text": "Who plans dates" + }, + { + "id": "who_needs_more_reassurance", + "text": "Who needs more reassurance" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_279", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What supports intimacy through major life transitions?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "transitions", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "realistic_expectations", + "text": "Realistic expectations" + }, + { + "id": "flexible_definitions_of_closeness", + "text": "Flexible definitions of closeness" + }, + { + "id": "more_communication", + "text": "More communication" + }, + { + "id": "extra_kindness", + "text": "Extra kindness" + }, + { + "id": "outside_professional_help_when_needed", + "text": "Outside professional help when needed" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_280", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Pick the shared promise that would best protect long-term intimacy.", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "shared_promise", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_can_always_pause", + "text": "We can always pause" + }, + { + "id": "we_will_keep_learning_each_other", + "text": "We will keep learning each other" + }, + { + "id": "no_private_detail_becomes_a_weapon", + "text": "No private detail becomes a weapon" + }, + { + "id": "affection_never_creates_debt", + "text": "Affection never creates debt" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_281", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Why does growing older together still feel attractive?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "aging", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "shared_history", + "text": "Shared history" + }, + { + "id": "deep_trust", + "text": "Deep trust" + }, + { + "id": "comfort_in_our_bodies", + "text": "Comfort in our bodies" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_each_other_s_cues", + "text": "Knowing each other's cues" + }, + { + "id": "still_surprising_each_other", + "text": "Still surprising each other" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_282", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How confident are you that our intimacy can keep evolving?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "evolving", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not confident", + "max_label": "Very confident" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_283", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Protect a favorite ritual or invent a new one?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "ritual_evolution", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "protect_a_favorite_ritual", + "text": "Protect a favorite ritual" + }, + { + "id": "invent_a_new_one", + "text": "Invent a new one" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_284", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well does our current intimacy fit this stage of life?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "life_stage_fit", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not a good fit", + "max_label": "A very good fit" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_285", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What do you hope our intimacy includes more of next year?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "future", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "emotional_closeness", + "text": "Emotional closeness" + }, + { + "id": "unhurried_time", + "text": "Unhurried time" + }, + { + "id": "honest_conversations", + "text": "Honest conversations" + }, + { + "id": "new_shared_experiences", + "text": "New shared experiences" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_286", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which future intimacy goal feels most meaningful?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "future_goal", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_safer_to_speak", + "text": "Feeling safer to speak" + }, + { + "id": "making_more_time", + "text": "Making more time" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_attraction_playful", + "text": "Keeping attraction playful" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_cared_for_afterward", + "text": "Feeling cared for afterward" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_287", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What parts of our current connection deserve appreciation?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "current_appreciation", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_affection", + "text": "Our affection" + }, + { + "id": "our_honesty", + "text": "Our honesty" + }, + { + "id": "our_humor", + "text": "Our humor" + }, + { + "id": "our_ability_to_repair", + "text": "Our ability to repair" + }, + { + "id": "our_respect_for_boundaries", + "text": "Our respect for boundaries" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_288", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our intimate future?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "hope", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not hopeful", + "max_label": "Very hopeful" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_289", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which shared intentions could strengthen closeness?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "intentions", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_more_curious_questions", + "text": "Ask more curious questions" + }, + { + "id": "protect_private_time", + "text": "Protect private time" + }, + { + "id": "offer_affection_without_expectation", + "text": "Offer affection without expectation" + }, + { + "id": "try_one_small_new_thing", + "text": "Try one small new thing" + }, + { + "id": "celebrate_what_already_works", + "text": "Celebrate what already works" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_290", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What do you hope we remember years from now?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "future_memory", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_stayed_kind", + "text": "We stayed kind" + }, + { + "id": "we_kept_flirting", + "text": "We kept flirting" + }, + { + "id": "we_respected_every_no", + "text": "We respected every no" + }, + { + "id": "we_never_stopped_learning", + "text": "We never stopped learning" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_291", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which parts of the way we handle intimacy make you proud?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "pride", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_can_be_honest", + "text": "We can be honest" + }, + { + "id": "we_respect_boundaries", + "text": "We respect boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "we_recover_from_awkwardness", + "text": "We recover from awkwardness" + }, + { + "id": "we_make_each_other_laugh", + "text": "We make each other laugh" + }, + { + "id": "we_keep_choosing_connection", + "text": "We keep choosing connection" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_292", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which qualities do you want us to protect no matter what?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "protect", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "mutual_choice", + "text": "Mutual choice" + }, + { + "id": "freedom_to_change", + "text": "Freedom to change" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_293", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What could help us feel more connected over the next few months?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "next_season", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_new_ritual", + "text": "A new ritual" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_getaway", + "text": "A private getaway" + }, + { + "id": "better_stress_support", + "text": "Better stress support" + }, + { + "id": "more_daily_affection", + "text": "More daily affection" + }, + { + "id": "a_brave_conversation", + "text": "A brave conversation" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_294", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which appreciation would you most like to hear from me?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "appreciation_hear", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_love_how_easy_honesty_feels_with_you", + "text": "I love how easy honesty feels with you" + }, + { + "id": "i_love_our_chemistry", + "text": "I love our chemistry" + }, + { + "id": "i_notice_how_you_care_for_me", + "text": "I notice how you care for me" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_grateful_we_can_grow_together", + "text": "I am grateful we can grow together" + }, + { + "id": "i_still_choose_you", + "text": "I still choose you" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_295", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which small promise feels realistic for this month?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "monthly_promise", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_private_date", + "text": "One private date" + }, + { + "id": "more_goodbye_kisses", + "text": "More goodbye kisses" + }, + { + "id": "one_relaxed_talk_about_what_we_want", + "text": "One relaxed talk about what we want" + }, + { + "id": "ten_phone_free_cuddle_minutes", + "text": "Ten phone-free cuddle minutes" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_296", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would help us keep intimacy from becoming invisible?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "visibility", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "naming_what_works", + "text": "Naming what works" + }, + { + "id": "celebrating_small_moments", + "text": "Celebrating small moments" + }, + { + "id": "planning_time_before_we_are_depleted", + "text": "Planning time before we are depleted" + }, + { + "id": "continuing_to_flirt", + "text": "Continuing to flirt" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_check_ins_brief_and_natural", + "text": "Keeping check-ins brief and natural" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_297", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How appreciated do you feel for the closeness you bring to our relationship?", + "depth": 4, + "tags": [ + "appreciated_scale", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very appreciated", + "max_label": "Deeply appreciated" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_298", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "More tenderness or more adventure in our next chapter?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "next_chapter", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_tenderness", + "text": "More tenderness" + }, + { + "id": "more_adventure", + "text": "More adventure" + } + ] + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_299", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" + }, + { + "type": "scale", + "text": "How similar do our hopes for future intimacy feel?", + "depth": 5, + "tags": [ + "alignment", + "couple_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very different", + "max_label": "Very similar" + }, + "id": "couple_intimacy_300", + "category_id": "couple_intimacy", + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral" } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json b/seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json index c19b1453..2968a313 100644 --- a/seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json +++ b/seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json @@ -2,7 +2,7 @@ "category": { "id": "physical_intimacy", "display_name": "Physical Intimacy", - "description": "Warm, consent-safe questions that help couples talk about hugs, kissing, cuddling, touch, affection, comfort, playful closeness, and physical boundaries.", + "description": "Warm, playful, consent-first questions about everyday affection, hugs, kissing, cuddling, touch comfort, sensory preferences, physical boundaries, and nonsexual closeness.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "volunteer_activism", "schema_version": "question_v2", @@ -16,7 +16,21 @@ "multi_choice": 20, "scale": 25, "this_or_that": 15 - } + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 28, + "2": 64, + "3": 64, + "4": 64, + "5": 30 + }, + "content_version": "physical_intimacy_guide_reviewed_v2", + "batch_size": 15, + "review_policy": "Ten 15-question written batches, then guided-choice batches of 20 or fewer, with cumulative repetition, option-fit, consent, and related-pack checks.", + "mass_rewrite_exception": "Applied because repeated written stems, mirrored touch scenarios, body-language assumptions, and neighboring paraphrases affected more than 60% of the source experience.", + "related_pack_boundary": "Owns nonsexual affection, touch comfort, cuddling, kissing, sensory preferences, physical accessibility, and everyday physical boundaries. Desire dynamics belong in sex_and_desire; specific sexual activities belong in sexual_preferences; broad sexual intimacy and aftercare belong in couple_intimacy.", + "post_draft_corrected_questions": 36, + "final_validation": "pass" } }, "questions": [ @@ -24,12 +38,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_001", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of hug makes you feel most at home with me?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "Think of a spontaneous hug from me that you still remember. What made it land so well?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hugs", - "comfort", + "memories", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -40,11 +53,10 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_002", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of hand-holding feels most natural to you?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "Which tiny touch from me says “I’m here” better than words, and why?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hands", "everyday_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], @@ -56,12 +68,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_003", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small touch that instantly makes you feel cared for?", + "text": "Where were we the last time holding hands made an ordinary moment feel special?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "touch", - "care", + "memories", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -72,12 +83,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_004", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When do you most enjoy being close on the couch?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "Tell me about a time my affection made a rough day feel lighter.", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "cuddling", - "home", + "comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -88,12 +98,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_005", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps cuddling feel relaxing instead of too much?", + "text": "Which hello or goodbye ritual feels most like us, and what makes it matter?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "cuddling", - "comfort", + "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -104,12 +113,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_006", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of kiss feels sweet without needing to lead anywhere?", + "text": "What photo of us best captures the way we naturally fit together?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "kissing", - "nonsexual", + "memories", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -120,12 +128,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_007", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of kiss gives you butterflies?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "When has simply sitting close to me mattered more than either of us said?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "kissing", - "butterflies", + "quiet_closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -136,12 +143,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_008", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes physical affection feel playful between us?", + "text": "What is a time laughter turned a cuddle into one of your favorite moments?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "play", - "affection", + "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -152,12 +158,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_009", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one touch you wish happened more often during normal days?", + "text": "Which affectionate habit from our early days is still worth keeping?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "touch", + "relationship_history", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -168,12 +173,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_010", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes sitting close feel comforting to you?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What small touch from me has felt unexpectedly romantic?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "closeness", - "comfort", + "romance", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -184,12 +188,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_011", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel comfortable asking for affection?", + "text": "When has being held by me helped you feel protected without feeling crowded?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "affection", + "comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -200,12 +203,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_012", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you say not right now without feeling guilty?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What physical gesture do I do in a way that feels uniquely mine?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "consent", - "no", + "couple_identity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -216,12 +218,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_013", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you hear not right now without feeling rejected?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which affectionate moment during a busy day made you stop and notice us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "consent", - "rejection", + "daily_life", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -232,12 +233,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_014", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch helps you calm down when life feels heavy?", + "text": "Paint me a quick picture of the coziest scene that feels unmistakably like us.", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "comfort_touch", - "stress", + "cozy_closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -248,12 +248,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_015", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch feels best when you are tired?", + "text": "If you could replay one sweet physical moment between us, which would you choose?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "rest", - "touch", + "memories", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -264,12 +263,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_016", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of affection helps you feel connected after a long day?", + "text": "How can I make a comfort hug feel different from a celebration hug?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "connection", - "daily_life", + "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -280,12 +278,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_017", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a goodbye kiss feel meaningful?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "Imagine we have been apart all day. What would make our reunion feel especially warm?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "kissing", - "daily_life", + "reunions", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -296,12 +293,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_018", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a hello hug feel special?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What detail makes holding hands on a walk feel connected instead of automatic?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hugs", - "daily_life", + "hand_holding", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -312,12 +308,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_019", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one affectionate habit we could bring back?", + "text": "How do you like me to reach for your hand when we are sitting together?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "habits", - "affection", + "hand_holding", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -328,12 +323,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_020", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes physical closeness feel safe with me?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes a goodbye kiss feel warm without making the goodbye harder?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", - "closeness", + "kissing", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -344,12 +338,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_021", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch helps you feel seen, not just touched?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Tell me about a quick kiss that made an ordinary moment unexpectedly sweet.", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "attention", - "touch", + "kissing", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -360,12 +353,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_022", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a back rub feel loving?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What does a forehead kiss mean to you when it comes from me?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "massage", - "care", + "kissing", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -376,12 +368,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_023", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of playful touch makes you smile?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How would you like a long hug to end so it never feels abrupt or awkward?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "play", - "touch", + "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -392,12 +383,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_024", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps physical affection feel mutual?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What kind of hug fits a moment when we are celebrating something together?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "mutual", - "affection", + "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -408,11 +398,10 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_025", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can be more affectionate without overwhelming you?", + "text": "After a disappointment, what would help a hug feel comforting rather than overwhelming?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "affection", "comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], @@ -424,12 +413,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_026", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What does a respectful pause in physical affection look like to you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What secret hand squeeze or small signal could mean “I’ve got you”?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "consent", - "pause", + "signals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -440,12 +428,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_027", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of shoulder or back touch feels comforting?", + "text": "Where does an arm around you feel most natural—walking, sitting, or somewhere else?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "touch", - "comfort", + "everyday_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -456,12 +443,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_028", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a quick kiss still feel intentional?", + "text": "What sitting position makes side-by-side closeness feel easiest for you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "kissing", - "intention", + "closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -472,12 +458,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_029", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of cuddling makes you feel most loved?", + "text": "When words are unnecessary, what greeting touch would you enjoy from me?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "cuddling", - "love", + "greetings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -488,12 +473,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_030", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of affection feels easiest in public?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps public hand-holding feel easy instead of performative?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "public_affection", - "comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -504,12 +488,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_031", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of affection do you prefer to keep private?", + "text": "What morning affection ritual could make even a rushed day start sweeter?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "privacy", - "affection", + "morning", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -520,12 +503,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_032", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes touch feel like connection instead of routine?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What bedtime touch ritual would feel comforting without getting in the way of sleep?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "connection", - "routine", + "bedtime", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -536,12 +518,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_033", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one physical comfort you like when you are sad?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How would you arrange our ideal couch cuddle so both of us stay comfortable?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sadness", - "comfort", + "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -552,12 +533,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_034", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one physical comfort you like when you are stressed?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "While we cook together, what small affectionate moment would make the kitchen feel romantic?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress", - "comfort", + "home", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -568,12 +548,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_035", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one physical comfort you like when you are happy?", + "text": "What kind of closeness feels natural during a long car ride when we are both relaxed?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "joy", - "touch", + "travel", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -584,12 +563,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_036", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you relax into a long hug?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What passing-in-the-kitchen touch would make you smile without interrupting what you are doing?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hugs", - "relaxation", + "daily_life", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -600,12 +578,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_037", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of physical closeness makes you feel protected?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would a perfect ten-minute phone-free closeness break look like at home?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "protection", - "closeness", + "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -616,12 +593,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_038", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes touch feel flirty but still comfortable?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "On a rainy day, what kind of physical closeness sounds genuinely cozy to you?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "flirting", - "comfort", + "weather", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -632,12 +608,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_039", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of affection should happen more during ordinary moments?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What cold-weather affection ritual would you happily repeat every winter?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "affection", + "weather", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -648,12 +623,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_040", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small physical gesture that says I love you without words?", + "text": "When it is too hot to cuddle, how could we still feel physically connected?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "love", - "touch", + "comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -664,12 +638,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_041", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch helps you feel like we are on the same team?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What sleepy form of affection feels good without asking you to fully wake up?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "touch", + "sleep", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -680,12 +653,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_042", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel comfortable being the one to reach for me?", + "text": "What should I know about your touch preferences right after you wake up?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "initiation", - "comfort", + "morning", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -696,12 +668,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_043", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes physical affection feel low-pressure?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How would you design a slow weekend morning that includes closeness but no pressure?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pressure", - "affection", + "weekends", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -712,12 +683,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_044", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can make touch feel fun again?", + "text": "What after-work affection ritual would help you shift from busy mode to home mode?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fun", - "touch", + "transitions", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -728,12 +698,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_045", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of closeness would feel good tonight?", + "text": "What one-week affection experiment would be fun for us to try?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tonight", - "closeness", + "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -744,12 +713,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_046", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about how you experience touch?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What playful touch from me almost always gets a real smile out of you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch", - "understanding", + "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -760,12 +728,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_047", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch makes you feel emotionally safe?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "If we danced without music for one minute, what would make it feel charming instead of awkward?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "safety", - "touch", + "play", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -776,12 +743,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_048", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch makes you feel emotionally close?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Invent a harmless affection challenge we could complete before bedtime.", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "emotional_closeness", - "touch", + "play", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -792,12 +758,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_049", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of affection helps you reconnect after distance?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What private physical signal could we use to flirt across a crowded room?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reconnection", - "affection", + "signals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -808,12 +773,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_050", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When we have been disconnected, what physical closeness feels easiest to restart with?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which affectionate joke or bit between us deserves to become a recurring tradition?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "distance", - "restart", + "couple_identity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -824,12 +788,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_051", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of hug helps repair a hard day?", + "text": "What romantic touch feels meaningful even when there is no grand gesture around it?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hugs", - "repair", + "romance", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -840,12 +803,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_052", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch should never be rushed?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What spontaneous affectionate gesture would feel delightful when you are clearly open to it?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pace", - "respect", + "spontaneity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -856,12 +818,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_053", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a kiss feel intimate instead of automatic?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "During a slow dance, what small detail would make you feel closest to me?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "kissing", - "intimacy", + "romance", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -872,12 +833,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_054", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a kiss feel playful instead of serious?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What movie-scene kind of affection could actually work in our real life?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "kissing", - "play", + "romance", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -888,12 +848,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_055", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes cuddling feel like real connection?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What planned affectionate surprise would feel playful while still giving you an easy choice?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "cuddling", - "connection", + "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -904,12 +863,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_056", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of cuddling helps you sleep better?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What silly competition could have an affectionate prize that we would both enjoy?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sleep", - "cuddling", + "play", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -920,12 +878,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_057", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of cuddling makes it hard not to smile?", + "text": "What kind of cheek, forehead, or hand kiss feels the most playful to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "cuddling", - "fun", + "kissing", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -936,12 +893,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_058", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one physical habit that would make mornings sweeter?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "If we built a blanket fort tonight, what kind of closeness would fit the mood?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "morning", - "habits", + "cozy_closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -952,12 +908,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_059", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one physical habit that would make bedtime sweeter?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What gentle hand movement—tracing, squeezing, or resting—feels especially affectionate?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "bedtime", - "habits", + "hands", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -968,12 +923,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_060", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of affection helps you feel attractive without pressure?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which song brings back a physical memory of us, and what do you remember?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "confidence", - "pressure", + "memories", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -984,12 +938,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_061", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of affection helps you feel desired without needing sex?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What exact words would make asking you for a hug feel natural and welcome?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desired", - "nonsexual", + "communication", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1000,11 +953,10 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_062", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one touch that feels romantic but not demanding?", + "text": "How can I invite you closer while making it clear that either answer is completely okay?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance", "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], @@ -1016,11 +968,10 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_063", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a flirty touch feel welcome?", + "text": "What simple phrase should always mean “pause the touch” between us?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "flirting", "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], @@ -1032,12 +983,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_064", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a flirty touch feel like too much?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How would you like to say “not right now” so it feels clear and easy?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "flirting", - "boundaries", + "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1048,12 +998,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_065", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I tell when you want more physical closeness?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What response from me would make declining affection feel completely safe?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "signals", - "closeness", + "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1064,12 +1013,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_066", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I tell when you need less physical closeness?", + "text": "When I am unsure whether touch is welcome, what check-in would you prefer?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "signals", - "space", + "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1080,12 +1028,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_067", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What signal could mean hold me?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "When you want company but not touch, where should I sit so it still feels companionable?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "signals", - "hugs", + "low_touch_days", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1096,12 +1043,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_068", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What signal could mean kiss me?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How should I ask before showing affection in front of other people?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "signals", - "kissing", + "public_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1112,11 +1058,10 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_069", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What signal could mean slow down?", + "text": "If you change your mind during a cuddle, how can we make stopping feel ordinary?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "signals", "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], @@ -1128,12 +1073,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_070", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What signal could mean not right now?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What clear signal could tell me you are open to more nonsexual closeness?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "signals", - "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1144,12 +1088,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_071", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you trust that I will notice your body language?", + "text": "How can you tell me that affection is starting to feel like pressure?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "trust", - "body_language", + "pressure", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1160,12 +1103,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_072", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What body language from me makes you feel invited closer?", + "text": "What reassurance helps you know a “not now” has not hurt our relationship?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "body_language", - "invitation", + "reassurance", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1176,12 +1118,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_073", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What body language from me helps you know I need space?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Create a simple signal that could mean “please just hold me.”", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "body_language", - "space", + "signals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1192,12 +1133,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_074", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes asking for touch feel less awkward?", + "text": "Create a different signal that could mean “I need some room.”", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "communication", - "touch", + "signals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1208,12 +1148,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_075", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes declining touch feel less awkward?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which body areas or situations should always require asking before touch?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "consent", - "no", + "boundaries", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1224,12 +1163,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_076", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What should I remember when you pull away gently?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Which detail—pressure, pace, or placement—changes a hug from okay to wonderful for you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "consent", - "body_language", + "sensory_preferences", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1240,12 +1178,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_077", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What should you remember when I pull away gently?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Do fabrics, blankets, or clothing ever change how cuddling feels? What should I know?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "consent", - "body_language", + "sensory_preferences", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1256,12 +1193,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_078", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of reassurance helps after one of us says not right now?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How do heat and cold change whether you want a blanket, hand-holding, or more space?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reassurance", - "no", + "comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1272,12 +1208,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_079", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps physical closeness stay kind when one of us is overwhelmed?", + "text": "When your body feels sore or tired, what touch is helpful and what should I skip?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "overwhelm", - "care", + "body_comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1288,12 +1223,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_080", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch feels grounding when anxiety is high?", + "text": "What should I know before touching your hair or face affectionately?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "anxiety", - "grounding", + "boundaries", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1304,12 +1238,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_081", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch feels grounding when anger is high?", + "text": "Which shoulder or back touches feel caring, and which ones distract or irritate you?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "anger", - "grounding", + "sensory_preferences", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1320,12 +1253,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_082", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch feels grounding when sadness is high?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a hand massage feel relaxing rather than like another task?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sadness", - "grounding", + "massage", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1336,11 +1268,10 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_083", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch should we avoid when either of us is already overstimulated?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How should we handle ticklish spots so playful touch stays fun?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "overstimulation", "boundaries", "physical_intimacy" ], @@ -1352,12 +1283,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_084", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel less crowded when we are physically close?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "When you are focused on something, what affection feels welcome without breaking your concentration?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "space", - "closeness", + "daily_life", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1368,12 +1298,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_085", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes personal space feel respected without creating distance?", + "text": "In a crowded place, what kind of contact helps you feel connected without feeling trapped?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "space", - "connection", + "public_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1384,12 +1313,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_086", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one physical boundary that would make affection easier?", + "text": "When your senses feel overloaded, what should physical support from me look like?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "affection", + "sensory_needs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1400,12 +1328,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_087", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one physical boundary that would make kissing easier?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps touch feel kind on a day when you feel self-conscious about your appearance?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "kissing", + "body_confidence", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1416,12 +1343,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_088", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one physical boundary that would make cuddling easier?", + "text": "Are there positions or movements that would make cuddling easier on your body?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "cuddling", + "accessibility", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1432,12 +1358,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_089", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one affectionate habit that should stay just between us?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How can we adjust closeness when one of us needs more room to get comfortable?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy", - "affection", + "comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1448,12 +1373,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_090", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of public affection makes you feel proud to be with me?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What difference in our personal-space needs would be useful for us to understand better?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "public_affection", - "pride", + "personal_space", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1464,12 +1388,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_091", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of public affection makes you uncomfortable?", + "text": "When stress is high, how can I find out whether touch would help before reaching for you?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "public_affection", - "boundaries", + "stress", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1480,12 +1403,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_092", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps public affection feel respectful?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "When you are sad, what kind of physical comfort feels supportive without demanding a response?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "public_affection", - "respect", + "sadness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1496,12 +1418,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_093", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of affection around family feels okay?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "When you are angry, what should happen before either of us tries to use touch to reconnect?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "affection", + "conflict", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1512,12 +1433,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_094", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of affection around friends feels okay?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "On an exhausted day, what small affection feels caring instead of like one more demand?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "friends", - "affection", + "fatigue", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1528,12 +1448,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_095", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What physical closeness helps you feel connected during a movie or show?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "When you feel overwhelmed, what combination of space and closeness usually helps most?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "home", - "couch", + "overwhelm", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1544,12 +1463,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_096", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What physical closeness helps you feel connected during a walk?", + "text": "How do you like us to celebrate good news physically—hug, dance, high-five, or something else?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "walking", - "hands", + "celebration", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1560,12 +1478,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_097", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What physical closeness helps you feel connected in the car?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "When you are under the weather, what affectionate care feels comforting without crowding you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "car", - "touch", + "care", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1576,12 +1493,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_098", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch makes errands feel more like time together?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "After hard news, what would help me offer comfort without guessing what your body needs?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "errands", - "connection", + "support", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1592,12 +1508,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_099", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch helps a date feel romantic?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Once we are both ready after conflict, what physical gesture could gently reopen closeness?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "date_night", - "romance", + "repair", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1608,12 +1523,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_100", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch helps a date feel playful?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "After returning from a trip, what first affectionate moment would make home feel like home again?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "date_night", - "play", + "reconnection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1624,12 +1538,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_101", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch helps a date feel intimate?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "When we are sitting in silence, what touch makes the quiet feel companionable?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "date_night", - "intimacy", + "quiet_closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1640,12 +1553,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_102", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a slow dance feel sweet even at home?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "If you need reassurance, what physical gesture from me feels believable rather than automatic?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "slow_dance", - "home", + "reassurance", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1656,12 +1568,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_103", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch helps you feel beautiful or handsome?", + "text": "When words are hard to find, what safe physical signal could say “I’m with you”?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "confidence", - "touch", + "signals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1672,12 +1583,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_104", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch helps you feel wanted as a whole person?", + "text": "How can I offer touch as support without making it feel like I am trying to fix everything?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "whole_person", - "wanted", + "support", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1688,12 +1598,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_105", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps touch feel like affection, not expectation?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What affectionate reset could help us feel like a couple again after a hectic week?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "expectation", - "affection", + "reconnection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1704,12 +1613,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_106", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps touch feel like choice, not obligation?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Picture a public place where affection feels comfortable. What makes that setting work for you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "choice", - "consent", + "public_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1720,12 +1628,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_107", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a massage feel caring instead of transactional?", + "text": "Where would you rather we avoid physical affection, even if it seems harmless to me?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "massage", - "care", + "boundaries", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1736,12 +1643,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_108", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of massage pressure do you usually like?", + "text": "Around family or friends, what level of physical closeness feels natural to you?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "massage", - "pressure", + "social_settings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1752,12 +1658,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_109", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of back rub helps you relax the most?", + "text": "At a party or work event, what affectionate signal could feel private even in a crowd?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "massage", - "relaxation", + "signals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1768,12 +1673,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_110", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch helps you feel safe after an argument?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "For a posed couple photo, what kind of physical closeness feels genuine rather than staged?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "repair", + "photos", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1784,12 +1688,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_111", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch feels wrong too soon after an argument?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "On a body-confidence day, what kind of affection helps without drawing attention to insecurity?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "timing", + "body_confidence", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1800,12 +1703,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_112", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us know when we are ready for touch after conflict?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What combination of a kind word and gentle touch makes you feel genuinely appreciated?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "signals", + "appreciation", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1816,12 +1718,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_113", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of affectionate repair feels most natural to you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How can I show physical affection without assuming how you feel about your body that day?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", - "affection", + "body_confidence", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1832,12 +1733,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_114", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a hand squeeze feel reassuring?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "If health, pain, or energy changes, how would you want us to adapt our affectionate habits?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hands", - "reassurance", + "adaptability", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1848,12 +1748,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_115", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of hand-holding feels flirty?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What home setup—seating, pillows, blankets, or lighting—helps physical closeness feel comfortable?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hands", - "flirting", + "comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1864,12 +1763,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_116", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of hand-holding feels protective?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What does holding hands in public communicate to you, if anything?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hands", - "protection", + "public_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1880,12 +1778,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_117", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of forehead kiss lands best for you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What private-at-home affection ritual would make our space feel more like ours?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "kissing", - "care", + "home", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1896,12 +1793,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_118", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of cheek kiss feels sweet?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "When privacy is limited, what tiny gesture could still help us feel connected?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "kissing", - "sweet", + "privacy", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1912,12 +1808,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_119", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of neck or shoulder touch feels relaxing?", + "text": "How should our greeting change when other people are around?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch", - "relaxation", + "social_settings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1928,12 +1823,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_120", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of hair touch feels good, if any?", + "text": "During travel, what kind of physical closeness helps you feel grounded in an unfamiliar place?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch", - "hair", + "travel", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1944,12 +1838,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_121", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of foot or leg touch feels comforting, if any?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which affectionate habit has faded over time, and what do you miss about it?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "touch", - "comfort", + "relationship_history", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1960,12 +1853,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_122", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch do you prefer when you are sick?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How have your touch preferences changed since the beginning of our relationship?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sick", - "care", + "change", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1976,12 +1868,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_123", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch do you prefer when you are exhausted?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What life change has affected how you enjoy physical closeness most?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "exhausted", - "care", + "change", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1992,12 +1883,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_124", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch do you prefer when you are excited?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "After a disconnected stretch, what is the gentlest first step back toward affection?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "joy", - "touch", + "reconnection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2008,12 +1898,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_125", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes physical affection feel spontaneous in a good way?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "When a cuddle position stops working, how can we adjust without breaking the mood?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "spontaneity", - "affection", + "awkwardness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2024,12 +1913,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_126", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of physical affection should be planned more often?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What could rebuild easy affection after a season when we have both been busy?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", - "affection", + "reconnection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2040,12 +1928,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_127", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of affection makes the house feel warmer?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "When affection starts feeling routine, what specific change could make it feel noticed again?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "home", - "warmth", + "routine", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2056,12 +1943,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_128", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one physical closeness ritual we could start?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What separates comforting touch from romantic touch for you?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rituals", - "closeness", + "meaning", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2072,12 +1958,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_129", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one physical closeness ritual we should bring back?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "When our touch preferences do not match, what helps the difference feel manageable?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rituals", - "memory", + "mismatch", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2088,12 +1973,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_130", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What physical memory of us still feels sweet?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "If one of us wants more closeness than the other, how can we protect both people from pressure?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "memory", - "affection", + "mismatch", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2104,12 +1988,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_131", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What physical memory of us still feels a little electric?", + "text": "What small, low-pressure affection experiment could teach us something useful about each other?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "memory", - "spark", + "experiments", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2120,12 +2003,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_132", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of affection did you love early in our relationship?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "After a sincere apology, what physical closeness—if any—helps repair feel complete?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "memory", - "affection", + "repair", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2136,12 +2018,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_133", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of affection do you hope we still have years from now?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "After disappointment between us, what needs to happen before affection feels natural again?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future", - "affection", + "repair", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2152,12 +2033,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_134", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps physical intimacy grow with us instead of becoming routine?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How can we notice when an old touch preference no longer fits?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth", - "routine", + "change", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2168,12 +2048,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_135", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make physical closeness feel easier this month?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should we never assume about each other’s comfort with physical affection?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "monthly", - "closeness", + "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2184,12 +2063,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_136", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make physical affection feel more fun this week?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What physical ritual could become our signature as a couple?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "weekly", - "fun", + "couple_identity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2200,12 +2078,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_137", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make kissing feel more intentional this week?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What promise about respecting changing touch preferences would matter most to you?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "weekly", - "kissing", + "commitment", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2216,12 +2093,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_138", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make cuddling feel more connected this week?", + "text": "How could we protect one small pocket of physical closeness each week?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "weekly", - "cuddling", + "weekly_rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2232,12 +2108,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_139", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make hugs feel less rushed this week?", + "text": "What affectionate travel ritual should follow us on every trip?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "weekly", - "hugs", + "travel", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2248,12 +2123,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_140", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I can reach for you that would feel welcome?", + "text": "What anniversary touch ritual would feel meaningful without becoming an obligation?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "initiation", - "welcome", + "anniversary", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2264,12 +2138,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_141", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way you wish I waited for you physically?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "If we moved into a new home, what closeness ritual would make it feel like ours?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pace", - "consent", + "home", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2280,12 +2153,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_142", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of physical affection helps you feel like a priority?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Picture us much older. What kind of everyday affection do you hope we still share?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "priority", - "affection", + "future", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2296,12 +2168,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_143", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of physical affection helps you feel cherished?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "During a future stressful season, what touch agreement would help us stay gentle?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "cherished", - "affection", + "future", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2312,12 +2183,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_144", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of physical affection helps you feel desired without pressure?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Which private physical signal between us would you want to keep for years?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desired", - "pressure", + "signals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2328,12 +2198,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_145", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of physical affection helps you feel playful and close?", + "text": "What affectionate tradition could belong only to us and still feel natural?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "play", - "closeness", + "couple_identity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2344,12 +2213,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_146", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What should always stay easy to pause between us?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What affectionate habit would make hosting people feel warm without seeming performative?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pause", - "consent", + "couple_identity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2360,12 +2228,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_147", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of touch should always require a clear yes?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What tiny affection could make errands or waiting in line feel more like shared time?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "consent", - "clear_yes", + "habits", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2376,12 +2243,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_148", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel safe correcting my touch?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Design our ideal ten-minute closeness break for an ordinary weeknight.", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feedback", - "safety", + "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2392,12 +2258,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_149", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you receive correction about touch kindly?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What physical habit would our future selves thank us for protecting now?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feedback", - "kindness", + "future", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2408,12 +2273,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_150", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of feedback about touch would be easiest to give?", + "text": "What would make our physical affection feel unmistakably like our relationship—not anyone else’s?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feedback", - "touch", + "couple_identity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2424,31 +2288,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_151", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which everyday touch do you like most?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "After a long day apart, which reunion sounds best?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "touch", + "reunions", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" + "id": "a_doorway_hug_before_talking", + "text": "A doorway hug before talking" }, { - "id": "quick_kiss", - "text": "Quick kiss" + "id": "a_cheek_kiss_and_shared_smile", + "text": "A cheek kiss and shared smile" }, { - "id": "couch_cuddle", - "text": "Couch cuddle" + "id": "hands_linked_while_we_catch_up", + "text": "Hands linked while we catch up" }, { - "id": "back_touch", - "text": "Back touch" + "id": "a_minute_to_settle_then_closeness", + "text": "A minute to settle, then closeness" } ] } @@ -2457,30 +2320,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_152", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of hug feels best?", + "text": "For a movie night, where would you most enjoy sitting?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hugs", + "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "long_hug", - "text": "Long hug" + "id": "shoulder_to_shoulder_on_the_couch", + "text": "Shoulder to shoulder on the couch" }, { - "id": "quick_squeeze", - "text": "Quick squeeze" + "id": "curled_together_under_one_blanket", + "text": "Curled together under one blanket" }, { - "id": "from_behind", - "text": "From behind" + "id": "feet_touching_from_opposite_ends", + "text": "Feet touching from opposite ends" }, { - "id": "side_hug", - "text": "Side hug" + "id": "nearby_with_room_to_move", + "text": "Nearby with room to move" } ] } @@ -2489,30 +2352,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_153", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kiss feels sweetest?", + "text": "Which hand-holding style feels most natural on a walk?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "kissing", + "hand_holding", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "forehead", - "text": "Forehead kiss" + "id": "fingers_loosely_intertwined", + "text": "Fingers loosely intertwined" }, { - "id": "cheek", - "text": "Cheek kiss" + "id": "palms_together_with_an_easy_grip", + "text": "Palms together with an easy grip" }, { - "id": "slow_lips", - "text": "Slow kiss" + "id": "linked_pinkies_for_something_light", + "text": "Linked pinkies for something light" }, { - "id": "goodbye", - "text": "Goodbye kiss" + "id": "arms_linked_instead_of_hands", + "text": "Arms linked instead of hands" } ] } @@ -2521,30 +2384,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_154", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When do you like affection most?", + "text": "When would a long hug feel best?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timing", + "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "morning", - "text": "Morning" + "id": "right_after_we_reunite", + "text": "Right after we reunite" }, { - "id": "after_work", - "text": "After work" + "id": "when_one_of_us_needs_comfort", + "text": "When one of us needs comfort" }, { - "id": "bedtime", - "text": "Bedtime" + "id": "at_the_end_of_a_good_day", + "text": "At the end of a good day" }, { - "id": "randomly", - "text": "Randomly" + "id": "when_we_both_have_time_to_linger", + "text": "When we both have time to linger" } ] } @@ -2553,30 +2416,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_155", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes cuddling easiest?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which morning affection would start your day well?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "cuddling", + "morning", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "quiet_room", - "text": "Quiet room" + "id": "a_gentle_forehead_kiss", + "text": "A gentle forehead kiss" }, { - "id": "good_position", - "text": "Comfortable position" + "id": "a_sleepy_full_body_stretch_together", + "text": "A sleepy full-body stretch together" }, { - "id": "no_phone", - "text": "No phone" + "id": "a_warm_hand_on_your_shoulder", + "text": "A warm hand on your shoulder" }, { - "id": "not_too_hot", - "text": "Not too hot" + "id": "a_cheerful_hug_after_getting_up", + "text": "A cheerful hug after getting up" } ] } @@ -2585,30 +2448,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_156", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of touch feels most calming?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which bedtime gesture feels most comforting?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "comfort_touch", + "bedtime", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hand_squeeze", - "text": "Hand squeeze" + "id": "a_slow_goodnight_kiss", + "text": "A slow goodnight kiss" }, { - "id": "back_rub", - "text": "Back rub" + "id": "a_brief_back_rub_before_sleep", + "text": "A brief back rub before sleep" }, { - "id": "hug", - "text": "Hug" + "id": "holding_hands_until_we_relax", + "text": "Holding hands until we relax" }, { - "id": "hair_touch", - "text": "Hair touch" + "id": "a_soft_squeeze_then_separate_space", + "text": "A soft squeeze, then separate space" } ] } @@ -2617,30 +2480,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_157", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of touch feels most playful?", + "text": "What level of public affection feels easiest?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "play", + "public_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "light_tickle", - "text": "Light tickle" + "id": "hands_linked_while_walking", + "text": "Hands linked while walking" }, { - "id": "hip_bump", - "text": "Hip bump" + "id": "a_quick_hello_or_goodbye_kiss", + "text": "A quick hello or goodbye kiss" }, { - "id": "pull_close", - "text": "Pull close" + "id": "an_arm_around_each_other_briefly", + "text": "An arm around each other briefly" }, { - "id": "dance_touch", - "text": "Dance touch" + "id": "keeping_affection_private_in_public", + "text": "Keeping affection private in public" } ] } @@ -2649,30 +2512,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_158", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you ask for affection?", + "text": "When you need comfort, which touch is most likely to help?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", + "comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "simple_words", - "text": "Simple words" + "id": "a_steady_hug_with_no_talking", + "text": "A steady hug with no talking" }, { - "id": "playful_signal", - "text": "Playful signal" + "id": "a_hand_resting_on_your_back", + "text": "A hand resting on your back" }, { - "id": "partner_invites", - "text": "Partner invites it" + "id": "your_hand_held_without_squeezing", + "text": "Your hand held without squeezing" }, { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" + "id": "space_first_then_an_invitation", + "text": "Space first, then an invitation" } ] } @@ -2681,30 +2544,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_159", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you say not right now?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How should we celebrate a small win physically?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "consent", + "celebration", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" + "id": "one_dramatic_victory_hug", + "text": "One dramatic victory hug" }, { - "id": "easy_no", - "text": "An easy no" + "id": "a_kitchen_dance_for_one_song", + "text": "A kitchen dance for one song" }, { - "id": "no_guilt", - "text": "No guilt" + "id": "an_enthusiastic_double_high_five", + "text": "An enthusiastic double high-five" }, { - "id": "another_option", - "text": "Another closeness option" + "id": "a_proud_kiss_on_the_cheek", + "text": "A proud kiss on the cheek" } ] } @@ -2713,30 +2576,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_160", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which public affection feels most comfortable?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which playful affection sounds most like us?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "public_affection", + "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" + "id": "a_surprise_spin_during_a_hug", + "text": "A surprise spin during a hug" }, { - "id": "arm_around", - "text": "Arm around me" + "id": "a_secret_hand_squeeze_code", + "text": "A secret hand-squeeze code" }, { - "id": "quick_kiss", - "text": "Quick kiss" + "id": "a_ridiculous_slow_dance", + "text": "A ridiculous slow dance" }, { - "id": "none", - "text": "None" + "id": "a_gentle_shoulder_bump_and_grin", + "text": "A gentle shoulder bump and grin" } ] } @@ -2745,30 +2608,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_161", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which private affection feels most comforting?", + "text": "At a crowded event, how should we stay connected?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "private_affection", + "social_settings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" + "id": "brief_hand_contact_while_moving", + "text": "Brief hand contact while moving" }, { - "id": "long_hug", - "text": "Long hug" + "id": "a_private_signal_across_the_room", + "text": "A private signal across the room" }, { - "id": "slow_kiss", - "text": "Slow kiss" + "id": "standing_close_during_conversations", + "text": "Standing close during conversations" }, { - "id": "massage", - "text": "Massage" + "id": "checking_in_verbally_instead", + "text": "Checking in verbally instead" } ] } @@ -2777,30 +2640,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_162", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes touch feel low-pressure?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "During a quiet moment, which gesture feels most supportive?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pressure", + "quiet_closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "no_expectation", - "text": "No expectation" + "id": "resting_your_head_on_my_shoulder", + "text": "Resting your head on my shoulder" }, { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" + "id": "my_hand_covering_yours", + "text": "My hand covering yours" }, { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" + "id": "sitting_close_without_touching", + "text": "Sitting close without touching" }, { - "id": "easy_pause", - "text": "Easy pause" + "id": "a_soft_hug_after_asking", + "text": "A soft hug after asking" } ] } @@ -2809,104 +2672,8 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_163", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which touch helps after stress?", + "text": "Which invitation to affection feels most natural?", "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hug", - "text": "Hug" - }, - { - "id": "hand_on_back", - "text": "Hand on back" - }, - { - "id": "back_rub", - "text": "Back rub" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_cuddle", - "text": "Quiet cuddle" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_164", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What physical gesture says I love you best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "love", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "forehead_kiss", - "text": "Forehead kiss" - }, - { - "id": "holding_hands", - "text": "Holding hands" - }, - { - "id": "long_hug", - "text": "Long hug" - }, - { - "id": "reaching_for_me", - "text": "Reaching for me" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_165", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of closeness sounds best tonight?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "tonight", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "kissing", - "text": "Kissing" - }, - { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" - }, - { - "id": "space_then_close", - "text": "Space, then closeness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_166", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of touch should we get better at asking for?", - "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "communication", @@ -2915,20 +2682,116 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "comfort_touch", - "text": "Comfort touch" + "id": "can_i_hold_you_for_a_minute", + "text": "“Can I hold you for a minute?”" }, { - "id": "flirty_touch", - "text": "Flirty touch" + "id": "would_a_hug_feel_good", + "text": "“Would a hug feel good?”" }, { - "id": "massage", - "text": "Massage" + "id": "opening_my_arms_and_waiting", + "text": "Opening my arms and waiting" }, { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space instead" + "id": "offering_my_hand_without_assuming", + "text": "Offering my hand without assuming" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_164", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should our clearest pause signal be?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "consent", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_word_pause_said_plainly", + "text": "The word “pause” said plainly" + }, + { + "id": "two_gentle_taps_on_my_arm", + "text": "Two gentle taps on my arm" + }, + { + "id": "moving_apart_and_naming_it", + "text": "Moving apart and naming it" + }, + { + "id": "a_hand_raised_between_us", + "text": "A hand raised between us" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_165", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When you seem busy, how should I offer affection?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "timing", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_whether_now_is_a_good_time", + "text": "Ask whether now is a good time" + }, + { + "id": "wait_for_a_natural_break", + "text": "Wait for a natural break" + }, + { + "id": "offer_my_hand_without_interrupting", + "text": "Offer my hand without interrupting" + }, + { + "id": "save_the_affection_for_later", + "text": "Save the affection for later" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_166", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which nonsexual kiss feels sweetest to you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "kissing", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_forehead_kiss_before_leaving", + "text": "A forehead kiss before leaving" + }, + { + "id": "a_cheek_kiss_in_passing", + "text": "A cheek kiss in passing" + }, + { + "id": "a_hand_kiss_during_a_joke", + "text": "A hand kiss during a joke" + }, + { + "id": "a_temple_kiss_while_resting", + "text": "A temple kiss while resting" } ] } @@ -2937,30 +2800,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_167", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which touch boundary matters most?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "During a slow dance, where would you feel most comfortable?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", + "dance", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" + "id": "hands_lightly_at_the_waist", + "text": "Hands lightly at the waist" }, { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" + "id": "one_hand_held_between_us", + "text": "One hand held between us" }, { - "id": "not_when_upset", - "text": "Not when upset" + "id": "arms_around_each_others_shoulders", + "text": "Arms around each other’s shoulders" }, { - "id": "public_limits", - "text": "Public limits" + "id": "a_little_space_with_gentle_contact", + "text": "A little space with gentle contact" } ] } @@ -2969,73 +2832,8 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_168", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes affection feel most respectful?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "respect", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - }, - { - "id": "checking_in", - "text": "Checking in" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_169", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of kiss should we bring back?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "kissing", - "memory", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "long_goodbye", - "text": "Long goodbye kiss" - }, - { - "id": "hello_kiss", - "text": "Hello kiss" - }, - { - "id": "slow_kiss", - "text": "Slow kiss" - }, - { - "id": "surprise_kiss", - "text": "Surprise kiss" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_170", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of cuddling should we do more?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which movie-night cuddle setup would actually last?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "cuddling", @@ -3044,20 +2842,84 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "movie_cuddle", - "text": "Movie cuddle" + "id": "one_pillow_shared_between_us", + "text": "One pillow shared between us" }, { - "id": "sleep_cuddle", - "text": "Sleep cuddle" + "id": "separate_pillows_under_one_blanket", + "text": "Separate pillows under one blanket" }, { - "id": "morning_cuddle", - "text": "Morning cuddle" + "id": "your_legs_resting_across_mine", + "text": "Your legs resting across mine" }, { - "id": "quiet_cuddle", - "text": "Quiet cuddle" + "id": "side_by_side_with_occasional_touch", + "text": "Side by side with occasional touch" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_169", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "On a trip, which closeness would feel grounding?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "travel", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "holding_hands_in_a_new_place", + "text": "Holding hands in a new place" + }, + { + "id": "a_hug_before_leaving_the_hotel", + "text": "A hug before leaving the hotel" + }, + { + "id": "sitting_hip_to_hip_in_transit", + "text": "Sitting hip to hip in transit" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_signal_when_overwhelmed", + "text": "A private signal when overwhelmed" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_170", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When it is too warm to cuddle, what should replace it?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "weather", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feet_touching_at_the_edge_of_bed", + "text": "Feet touching at the edge of bed" + }, + { + "id": "a_cool_hand_held_briefly", + "text": "A cool hand held briefly" + }, + { + "id": "sitting_close_with_separate_blankets", + "text": "Sitting close with separate blankets" + }, + { + "id": "a_quick_kiss_and_extra_space", + "text": "A quick kiss and extra space" } ] } @@ -3066,30 +2928,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_171", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of massage sounds best?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which cold-weather affection sounds best?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "massage", + "weather", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "shoulders", - "text": "Shoulders" + "id": "warming_hands_inside_one_pair_of_pockets", + "text": "Warming hands inside one pair of pockets" }, { - "id": "back", - "text": "Back" + "id": "sharing_a_blanket_on_the_porch", + "text": "Sharing a blanket on the porch" }, { - "id": "feet", - "text": "Feet" + "id": "a_long_hug_before_going_outside", + "text": "A long hug before going outside" }, { - "id": "hands", - "text": "Hands" + "id": "leaning_together_over_hot_drinks", + "text": "Leaning together over hot drinks" } ] } @@ -3098,30 +2960,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_172", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of touch helps repair distance?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "While cooking, which affectionate moment would you enjoy?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", + "home", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hand_squeeze", - "text": "Hand squeeze" + "id": "a_quick_side_hug_after_asking", + "text": "A quick side hug after asking" }, { - "id": "slow_hug", - "text": "Slow hug" + "id": "a_cheek_kiss_between_steps", + "text": "A cheek kiss between steps" }, { - "id": "couch_cuddle", - "text": "Couch cuddle" + "id": "brief_hand_squeeze_while_passing_ingredients", + "text": "A brief hand squeeze while passing ingredients" }, { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" + "id": "a_tiny_dance_during_the_timer", + "text": "A tiny dance during the timer" } ] } @@ -3130,30 +2992,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_173", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do if touch feels awkward?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which in-passing gesture would brighten an ordinary day?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "awkwardness", + "daily_life", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "laugh_gently", - "text": "Laugh gently" + "id": "a_shoulder_squeeze_at_the_doorway", + "text": "A shoulder squeeze at the doorway" }, { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" + "id": "a_hand_brushed_along_your_arm", + "text": "A hand brushed along your arm" }, { - "id": "talk_softly", - "text": "Talk softly" + "id": "a_quick_forehead_touch_and_smile", + "text": "A quick forehead touch and smile" }, { - "id": "try_later", - "text": "Try later" + "id": "a_playful_kiss_blown_from_across_the_room", + "text": "A playful kiss blown from across the room" } ] } @@ -3162,30 +3024,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_174", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which touch feels best after conflict?", + "text": "Which first step helps you feel ready to consider closeness after conflict?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", + "repair", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "none_yet", - "text": "None yet" + "id": "a_clear_verbal_check_in", + "text": "A clear verbal check-in" }, { - "id": "hand_hold", - "text": "Hand-hold" + "id": "quiet_time_for_both_of_us_to_settle", + "text": "Quiet time for both of us to settle" }, { - "id": "hug", - "text": "Hug" + "id": "a_sincere_repair_conversation_first", + "text": "A sincere repair conversation first" }, { - "id": "cuddle", - "text": "Cuddle" + "id": "an_invitation_i_can_freely_decline", + "text": "An invitation I can freely decline" } ] } @@ -3194,30 +3056,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_175", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes physical affection feel like teamwork?", + "text": "On an insecure body day, what affection feels kindest?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teamwork", + "body_confidence", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "both_initiate", - "text": "Both initiate" + "id": "being_held_without_appearance_comments", + "text": "Being held without appearance comments" }, { - "id": "both_can_pause", - "text": "Both can pause" + "id": "a_gentle_hand_offered_to_yours", + "text": "A gentle hand offered to yours" }, { - "id": "both_listen", - "text": "Both listen" + "id": "a_kiss_paired_with_kind_reassurance", + "text": "A kiss paired with kind reassurance" }, { - "id": "both_play", - "text": "Both play" + "id": "closeness_that_lets_you_choose_distance", + "text": "Closeness that lets you choose distance" } ] } @@ -3226,30 +3088,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_176", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of public affection is too much?", + "text": "When your body is sore or tired, what support is most useful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "public_affection", + "body_comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "kissing", - "text": "Kissing" + "id": "a_light_hand_massage", + "text": "A light hand massage" }, { - "id": "touching_waist", - "text": "Touching waist" + "id": "a_carefully_placed_back_rub", + "text": "A carefully placed back rub" }, { - "id": "too_much_attention", - "text": "Too much attention" + "id": "a_still_hand_resting_nearby", + "text": "A still hand resting nearby" }, { - "id": "none", - "text": "None" + "id": "no_touch_unless_you_request_it", + "text": "No touch unless you request it" } ] } @@ -3258,231 +3120,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_177", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of private affection feels most intimate?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "private_affection", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_kissing", - "text": "Slow kissing" - }, - { - "id": "long_cuddling", - "text": "Long cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "massage", - "text": "Massage" - }, - { - "id": "being_held", - "text": "Being held" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_178", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you receive affection when confidence is low?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_compliment", - "text": "Specific compliment" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_touch", - "text": "Gentle touch" - }, - { - "id": "low_pressure", - "text": "Low pressure" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_179", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of affection feels best in the morning?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "morning", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quick_kiss", - "text": "Quick kiss" - }, - { - "id": "sleepy_cuddle", - "text": "Sleepy cuddle" - }, - { - "id": "hand_touch", - "text": "Hand touch" - }, - { - "id": "space_first", - "text": "Space first" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_180", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of affection feels best at night?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "night", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "back_rub", - "text": "Back rub" - }, - { - "id": "slow_kiss", - "text": "Slow kiss" - }, - { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_181", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What touch helps when you are overwhelmed?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "overwhelm", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "firm_hug", - "text": "Firm hug" - }, - { - "id": "light_touch", - "text": "Light touch" - }, - { - "id": "hand_hold", - "text": "Hand-hold" - }, - { - "id": "no_touch", - "text": "No touch" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_182", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What physical signal should mean slow down?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "signals", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pull_back", - "text": "Pull back" - }, - { - "id": "go_still", - "text": "Go still" - }, - { - "id": "say_slow", - "text": "Say slow" - }, - { - "id": "move_hand", - "text": "Move hand" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_183", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What physical signal should mean keep going?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "signals", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pull_closer", - "text": "Pull closer" - }, - { - "id": "kiss_back", - "text": "Kiss back" - }, - { - "id": "relax_in", - "text": "Relax in" - }, - { - "id": "say_yes", - "text": "Say yes" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_184", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes touch feel spontaneous in a good way?", + "text": "How much surprise do you enjoy in everyday affection?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -3492,93 +3130,125 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" + "id": "only_when_i_can_see_it_coming", + "text": "Only when I can see it coming" }, { - "id": "playful_energy", - "text": "Playful energy" + "id": "small_surprises_in_relaxed_moments", + "text": "Small surprises in relaxed moments" }, { - "id": "clear_welcome", - "text": "Clear welcome" + "id": "playful_surprises_with_an_easy_out", + "text": "Playful surprises with an easy out" }, { - "id": "simple_gesture", - "text": "Simple gesture" + "id": "i_prefer_affection_to_be_announced", + "text": "I prefer affection to be announced" } ] } }, { - "id": "physical_intimacy_185", + "id": "physical_intimacy_178", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes touch feel too sudden?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "bad_timing", - "text": "Bad timing" - }, - { - "id": "no_warning", - "text": "No warning" - }, - { - "id": "wrong_mood", - "text": "Wrong mood" - }, - { - "id": "public_setting", - "text": "Public setting" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_186", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which physical ritual sounds best?", + "text": "Which hug length usually feels best?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rituals", + "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "daily_hug", - "text": "Daily hug" + "id": "a_quick_squeeze_and_release", + "text": "A quick squeeze and release" }, { - "id": "goodnight_kiss", - "text": "Goodnight kiss" + "id": "long_enough_for_one_deep_breath", + "text": "Long enough for one deep breath" }, { - "id": "couch_cuddle", - "text": "Couch cuddle" + "id": "several_breaths_without_rushing", + "text": "Several breaths without rushing" }, { - "id": "hand_squeeze", - "text": "Hand squeeze" + "id": "different_every_time_ask_me", + "text": "Different every time—ask me" } ] } }, { - "id": "physical_intimacy_187", + "id": "physical_intimacy_179", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a long hug feel safest?", + "text": "What hug pressure feels most comfortable?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sensory_preferences", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "light_contact_with_room_to_move", + "text": "Light contact with room to move" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_medium_squeeze", + "text": "A warm medium squeeze" + }, + { + "id": "firm_pressure_when_i_invite_it", + "text": "Firm pressure when I invite it" + }, + { + "id": "pressure_that_changes_with_my_cue", + "text": "Pressure that changes with my cue" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_180", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which pace makes affectionate touch feel best?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sensory_preferences", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "brief_and_playful", + "text": "Brief and playful" + }, + { + "id": "slow_and_predictable", + "text": "Slow and predictable" + }, + { + "id": "still_and_steady", + "text": "Still and steady" + }, + { + "id": "varied_after_a_quick_check_in", + "text": "Varied after a quick check-in" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_181", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which way of initiating a hug feels easiest to you?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -3588,20 +3258,212 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "relaxed_body", - "text": "Relaxed body" + "id": "a_direct_can_i_hug_you", + "text": "A direct “Can I hug you?”" }, { - "id": "not_rushed", - "text": "Not rushed" + "id": "opening_your_arms_and_waiting", + "text": "Opening your arms and waiting" }, { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" + "id": "sitting_beside_me_first", + "text": "Sitting beside me first" }, { - "id": "asked_first", - "text": "Asked first" + "id": "using_our_agreed_hug_signal", + "text": "Using our agreed hug signal" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_182", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "After “not right now,” which response feels most reassuring?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "consent", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "of_course_thanks_for_telling_me", + "text": "“Of course—thanks for telling me.”" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_smile_and_immediate_space", + "text": "A warm smile and immediate space" + }, + { + "id": "an_offer_of_nonphysical_company", + "text": "An offer of nonphysical company" + }, + { + "id": "a_check_in_later_without_guilt", + "text": "A check-in later without guilt" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_183", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which small ritual would you most like to protect?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "rituals", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_twenty_second_reunion_hug", + "text": "A twenty-second reunion hug" + }, + { + "id": "a_kiss_before_one_of_us_leaves", + "text": "A kiss before one of us leaves" + }, + { + "id": "hands_linked_during_one_evening_walk", + "text": "Hands linked during one evening walk" + }, + { + "id": "a_quiet_cuddle_before_weekend_plans", + "text": "A quiet cuddle before weekend plans" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_184", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which across-the-room signal best says “I need support”?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "support_signals", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_hand_briefly_over_the_heart", + "text": "A hand briefly over the heart" + }, + { + "id": "a_small_two_finger_wave", + "text": "A small two-finger wave" + }, + { + "id": "a_steady_look_and_quiet_nod", + "text": "A steady look and quiet nod" + }, + { + "id": "a_signal_we_choose_together", + "text": "A signal we choose together" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_185", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which hand-care gesture sounds most relaxing?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "massage", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_thumb_circles_in_your_palm", + "text": "Slow thumb circles in your palm" + }, + { + "id": "each_finger_gently_stretched", + "text": "Each finger gently stretched" + }, + { + "id": "warm_lotion_rubbed_into_your_hands", + "text": "Warm lotion rubbed into your hands" + }, + { + "id": "hands_held_still_between_mine", + "text": "Hands held still between mine" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_186", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which pairing would make affection feel most personal?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "appreciation", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_specific_compliment_with_a_hand_squeeze", + "text": "A specific compliment with a hand squeeze" + }, + { + "id": "an_inside_joke_with_a_cheek_kiss", + "text": "An inside joke with a cheek kiss" + }, + { + "id": "a_thank_you_with_a_long_hug", + "text": "A thank-you with a long hug" + }, + { + "id": "a_favorite_nickname_with_linked_hands", + "text": "A favorite nickname with linked hands" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_187", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Before a stressful appointment, which supportive gesture would feel best?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "reconnection", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_hand_squeeze_in_the_car", + "text": "A quiet hand squeeze in the car" + }, + { + "id": "brief_hug_before_walking_in", + "text": "A brief hug before walking in" + }, + { + "id": "shoulders_touching_while_we_wait", + "text": "Shoulders touching while we wait" + }, + { + "id": "nearby_company_without_touch", + "text": "Nearby company without touch" } ] } @@ -3610,30 +3472,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_188", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which touch helps you feel most cherished?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which playful mini-game would make touch feel fun?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "cherished", + "play", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "face_touch", - "text": "Face touch" + "id": "mirror_each_others_silly_dance_moves", + "text": "Mirror each other’s silly dance moves" }, { - "id": "hand_hold", - "text": "Hand-hold" + "id": "invent_three_secret_handshakes", + "text": "Invent three secret handshakes" }, { - "id": "being_held", - "text": "Being held" + "id": "guess_a_message_from_hand_squeezes", + "text": "Guess a message from hand squeezes" }, { - "id": "slow_kiss", - "text": "Slow kiss" + "id": "race_to_create_the_coziest_seat", + "text": "Race to create the coziest seat" } ] } @@ -3642,30 +3504,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_189", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of closeness should stay nonsexual more often?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "For a couple photo, which pose would feel most natural?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "nonsexual", + "photos", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" + "id": "foreheads_together_and_laughing", + "text": "Foreheads together and laughing" }, { - "id": "massage", - "text": "Massage" + "id": "arms_linked_while_walking", + "text": "Arms linked while walking" }, { - "id": "kissing", - "text": "Kissing" + "id": "one_relaxed_hug_from_the_side", + "text": "One relaxed hug from the side" }, { - "id": "bedtime_touch", - "text": "Bedtime touch" + "id": "standing_close_with_hands_connected", + "text": "Standing close with hands connected" } ] } @@ -3674,30 +3536,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_190", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make physical intimacy feel more like us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which physical moment feels most unmistakably like us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "identity", + "couple_identity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "more_play", - "text": "More play" + "id": "our_familiar_hello_embrace", + "text": "Our familiar hello embrace" }, { - "id": "more_softness", - "text": "More softness" + "id": "the_way_we_share_couch_space", + "text": "The way we share couch space" }, { - "id": "more_kissing", - "text": "More kissing" + "id": "our_private_hand_squeeze_signal", + "text": "Our private hand-squeeze signal" }, { - "id": "more_check_ins", - "text": "More check-ins" + "id": "the_goodnight_gesture_we_repeat", + "text": "The goodnight gesture we repeat" } ] } @@ -3706,34 +3568,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_191", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which touches feel comforting to you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which clear invitations help you know everyday affection is welcome? Select any that fit.", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "comfort_touch", + "signals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hug", - "text": "Hug" + "id": "you_say_come_closer", + "text": "You say “come closer”" }, { - "id": "hand_hold", - "text": "Hand-hold" + "id": "you_reach_for_my_hand", + "text": "You reach for my hand" }, { - "id": "back_rub", - "text": "Back rub" + "id": "you_verbally_invite_a_hug", + "text": "You verbally invite a hug" }, { - "id": "hair_touch", - "text": "Hair touch" + "id": "you_make_room_and_pat_the_seat", + "text": "You make room and pat the seat" }, { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" + "id": "you_use_our_agreed_signal", + "text": "You use our agreed signal" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3744,34 +3606,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_192", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes affection feel welcome?", + "text": "With no expectation and an easy stop, what else makes a cuddle comfortable? Choose all that matter.", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "welcome", + "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" + "id": "enough_room_to_change_position", + "text": "Enough room to change position" }, { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" + "id": "a_temperature_that_feels_comfortable", + "text": "A temperature that feels comfortable" }, { - "id": "playful_mood", - "text": "Playful mood" + "id": "supportive_pillows_or_blankets", + "text": "Supportive pillows or blankets" }, { - "id": "asking_first", - "text": "Asking first" + "id": "quiet_without_competing_distractions", + "text": "Quiet without competing distractions" }, { - "id": "low_pressure", - "text": "Low pressure" + "id": "a_position_we_can_adjust_easily", + "text": "A position we can adjust easily" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3782,34 +3644,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_193", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which physical closeness do you want more often?", + "text": "Which small touch rituals would improve an ordinary week? Pick any you would enjoy.", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "closeness", + "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" + "id": "a_hug_when_we_get_home", + "text": "A hug when we get home" }, { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" + "id": "a_hand_squeeze_before_leaving", + "text": "A hand squeeze before leaving" }, { - "id": "kissing", - "text": "Kissing" + "id": "a_brief_couch_check_in", + "text": "A brief couch check-in" }, { - "id": "hugs", - "text": "Hugs" + "id": "a_goodnight_forehead_kiss", + "text": "A goodnight forehead kiss" }, { - "id": "sitting_close", - "text": "Sitting close" + "id": "linked_arms_on_a_short_walk", + "text": "Linked arms on a short walk" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3820,34 +3682,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_194", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when you are not in the mood for touch?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "On a low-touch day, what could still help you feel close? Select any that fit.", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "consent", + "low_touch_days", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" + "id": "sitting_nearby_without_contact", + "text": "Sitting nearby without contact" }, { - "id": "no_guilt", - "text": "No guilt" + "id": "a_kind_text_from_another_room", + "text": "A kind text from another room" }, { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" + "id": "sharing_a_quiet_activity", + "text": "Sharing a quiet activity" }, { - "id": "try_later", - "text": "Try later" + "id": "an_affectionate_word_or_nickname", + "text": "An affectionate word or nickname" }, { - "id": "another_closeness", - "text": "Another kind of closeness" + "id": "checking_again_at_a_later_time", + "text": "Checking again at a later time" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3858,34 +3720,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_195", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes touch feel playful?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What can make physical affection feel playful? Choose every answer that sounds fun.", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "play", + "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "laughter", - "text": "Laughter" + "id": "a_one_song_kitchen_dance", + "text": "A one-song kitchen dance" }, { - "id": "teasing", - "text": "Teasing" + "id": "a_made_up_secret_handshake", + "text": "A made-up secret handshake" }, { - "id": "dancing", - "text": "Dancing" + "id": "a_dramatic_celebration_hug", + "text": "A dramatic celebration hug" }, { - "id": "surprise_hug", - "text": "Surprise hug" + "id": "a_gentle_game_of_footsie", + "text": "A gentle game of footsie" }, { - "id": "inside_jokes", - "text": "Inside jokes" + "id": "a_silly_pose_for_a_photo", + "text": "A silly pose for a photo" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3896,34 +3758,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_196", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we protect around physical intimacy?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which public affection feels comfortable when you are open to it? Pick any that apply.", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "boundaries", + "public_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "easy_no", - "text": "Easy no" + "id": "hands_connected_while_walking", + "text": "Hands connected while walking" }, { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" + "id": "a_quick_cheek_kiss", + "text": "A quick cheek kiss" }, { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" + "id": "an_arm_lightly_around_you", + "text": "An arm lightly around you" }, { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" + "id": "a_brief_greeting_hug", + "text": "A brief greeting hug" }, { - "id": "clear_signals", - "text": "Clear signals" + "id": "no_public_touch_at_all", + "text": "No public touch at all" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3934,34 +3796,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_197", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel safe being physically close?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "With either answer accepted, how could I invite physical closeness? Select every approach you like.", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "safety", + "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" + "id": "ask_one_clear_question", + "text": "Ask one clear question" }, { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" + "id": "offer_an_open_hand_and_wait", + "text": "Offer an open hand and wait" }, { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" + "id": "make_space_beside_me", + "text": "Make space beside me" }, { - "id": "slow_pace", - "text": "Slow pace" + "id": "name_a_specific_gentle_gesture", + "text": "Name a specific gentle gesture" }, { - "id": "checking_in", - "text": "Checking in" + "id": "use_a_signal_we_agreed_on", + "text": "Use a signal we agreed on" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3972,34 +3834,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_198", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which forms of public affection feel okay?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which ways of saying “not right now” would feel natural to you? Pick any.", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "public_affection", + "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" + "id": "say_it_directly_and_kindly", + "text": "Say it directly and kindly" }, { - "id": "hug", - "text": "Hug" + "id": "use_our_pause_word", + "text": "Use our pause word" }, { - "id": "quick_kiss", - "text": "Quick kiss" + "id": "ask_for_space_instead", + "text": "Ask for space instead" }, { - "id": "arm_around", - "text": "Arm around" + "id": "offer_a_different_kind_of_connection", + "text": "Offer a different kind of connection" }, { - "id": "none", - "text": "None" + "id": "suggest_checking_in_later", + "text": "Suggest checking in later" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4010,34 +3872,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_199", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which private affection should happen more often?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "After touch stops immediately, what else helps the moment stay supportive? Choose all that fit.", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "private_affection", + "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "long_hugs", - "text": "Long hugs" + "id": "thank_them_for_being_clear", + "text": "Thank them for being clear" }, { - "id": "slow_kisses", - "text": "Slow kisses" + "id": "give_physical_room_right_away", + "text": "Give physical room right away" }, { - "id": "massage", - "text": "Massage" + "id": "keep_the_mood_warm_and_ordinary", + "text": "Keep the mood warm and ordinary" }, { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" + "id": "switch_to_a_neutral_shared_activity", + "text": "Switch to a neutral shared activity" }, { - "id": "playful_touch", - "text": "Playful touch" + "id": "let_them_choose_any_later_closeness", + "text": "Let them choose any later closeness" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4048,34 +3910,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_200", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes a kiss feel connected?", + "text": "Which conditions help touch feel sensory-friendly? Select any that matter to you.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "kissing", + "sensory_needs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" + "id": "predictable_movements", + "text": "Predictable movements" }, { - "id": "not_rushed", - "text": "Not rushed" + "id": "comfortable_pressure", + "text": "Comfortable pressure" }, { - "id": "soft_touch", - "text": "Soft touch" + "id": "low_noise_and_fewer_distractions", + "text": "Low noise and fewer distractions" }, { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" + "id": "room_to_reposition_easily", + "text": "Room to reposition easily" }, { - "id": "mutual_energy", - "text": "Mutual energy" + "id": "a_quick_warning_before_contact", + "text": "A quick warning before contact" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4086,34 +3948,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_201", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes cuddling better?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "When stress is high, which physical support might help after a check-in? Pick any.", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "cuddling", + "stress", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" + "id": "a_steady_hand_held_quietly", + "text": "A steady hand held quietly" }, { - "id": "right_temperature", - "text": "Right temperature" + "id": "a_brief_grounding_hug", + "text": "A brief grounding hug" }, { - "id": "no_phones", - "text": "No phones" + "id": "a_hand_resting_on_your_shoulder", + "text": "A hand resting on your shoulder" }, { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" + "id": "sitting_close_without_contact", + "text": "Sitting close without contact" }, { - "id": "good_position", - "text": "Good position" + "id": "space_now_with_an_offer_later", + "text": "Space now with an offer later" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4124,34 +3986,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_202", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which touches help after a hard day?", + "text": "During travel, which gestures help an unfamiliar place feel easier? Select any.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress", + "travel", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hug", - "text": "Hug" + "id": "a_hand_offered_in_a_crowd", + "text": "A hand offered in a crowd" }, { - "id": "back_rub", - "text": "Back rub" + "id": "a_reunion_hug_at_the_hotel", + "text": "A reunion hug at the hotel" }, { - "id": "hand_hold", - "text": "Hand-hold" + "id": "shoulders_touching_in_transit", + "text": "Shoulders touching in transit" }, { - "id": "head_on_shoulder", - "text": "Head on shoulder" + "id": "our_private_check_in_signal", + "text": "Our private check-in signal" }, { - "id": "no_touch_first", - "text": "No touch first" + "id": "a_quiet_moment_side_by_side", + "text": "A quiet moment side by side" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4162,34 +4024,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_203", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps physical closeness after conflict?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps affection feel kind on a body-confidence day? Choose all that fit.", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "conflict", + "body_confidence", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" + "id": "touch_without_evaluating_appearance", + "text": "Touch without evaluating appearance" }, { - "id": "slow_start", - "text": "Slow start" + "id": "specific_appreciation_unrelated_to_size", + "text": "Specific appreciation unrelated to size" }, { - "id": "apology_first", - "text": "Apology first" + "id": "letting_you_guide_the_distance", + "text": "Letting you guide the distance" }, { - "id": "space_first", - "text": "Space first" + "id": "closeness_through_hands_or_shoulders", + "text": "Closeness through hands or shoulders" }, { - "id": "soft_words", - "text": "Soft words" + "id": "no_surprise_contact", + "text": "No surprise contact" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4200,34 +4062,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_204", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kind of touch feedback is easiest?", + "text": "After a week of opposite schedules, which gestures could make us feel physically in sync again?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feedback", + "reconnection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "softer", - "text": "Softer" + "id": "share_a_slow_coffee_side_by_side", + "text": "Share a slow coffee side by side" }, { - "id": "slower", - "text": "Slower" + "id": "take_a_short_hand_holding_walk", + "text": "Take a short hand-holding walk" }, { - "id": "right_there", - "text": "Right there" + "id": "choose_a_familiar_couch_position", + "text": "Choose a familiar couch position" }, { - "id": "not_now", - "text": "Not now" + "id": "exchange_a_long_unhurried_hug", + "text": "Exchange a long, unhurried hug" }, { - "id": "more_like_that", - "text": "More like that" + "id": "plan_a_phone_free_closeness_break", + "text": "Plan a phone-free closeness break" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4238,34 +4100,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_205", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes learning touch preferences feel fun?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Where could small affectionate moments fit into a busy day? Select any you would notice.", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "learning", + "daily_life", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "no_judgment", - "text": "No judgment" + "id": "while_coffee_is_brewing", + "text": "While coffee is brewing" }, { - "id": "playful_mood", - "text": "Playful mood" + "id": "at_the_doorway_between_errands", + "text": "At the doorway between errands" }, { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" + "id": "during_a_short_stretch_break", + "text": "During a short stretch break" }, { - "id": "going_slow", - "text": "Going slow" + "id": "before_one_of_us_starts_a_call", + "text": "Before one of us starts a call" }, { - "id": "laughing", - "text": "Laughing" + "id": "when_we_finally_sit_down", + "text": "When we finally sit down" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4276,34 +4138,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_206", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kind of touch helps you feel attractive?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which gestures feel romantic while staying clearly nonsexual? Choose any that appeal.", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "confidence", + "nonsexual_romance", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "waist_touch", - "text": "Waist touch" + "id": "a_slow_dance_in_ordinary_clothes", + "text": "A slow dance in ordinary clothes" }, { - "id": "face_touch", - "text": "Face touch" + "id": "a_hand_kissed_during_a_joke", + "text": "A hand kissed during a joke" }, { - "id": "back_touch", - "text": "Back touch" + "id": "foreheads_resting_together_briefly", + "text": "Foreheads resting together briefly" }, { - "id": "being_held", - "text": "Being held" + "id": "a_note_delivered_with_a_hug", + "text": "A note delivered with a hug" }, { - "id": "slow_kiss", - "text": "Slow kiss" + "id": "hands_linked_under_the_table", + "text": "Hands linked under the table" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4314,34 +4176,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_207", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps physical intimacy stay nonsexual when needed?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Which changes might affect your touch preferences over time? Select any that apply.", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "nonsexual", + "change", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "clear_words", - "text": "Clear words" + "id": "stress_or_sleep_levels", + "text": "Stress or sleep levels" }, { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" + "id": "pain_illness_or_recovery", + "text": "Pain, illness, or recovery" }, { - "id": "no_expectation", - "text": "No expectation" + "id": "temperature_and_surroundings", + "text": "Temperature and surroundings" }, { - "id": "other_closeness", - "text": "Other closeness" + "id": "confidence_in_your_body", + "text": "Confidence in your body" }, { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" + "id": "how_emotionally_connected_you_feel", + "text": "How emotionally connected you feel" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4352,34 +4214,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_208", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kinds of touch feel grounding?", + "text": "What adjustments can make closeness more accessible and comfortable? Pick any.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "grounding", + "accessibility", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "firm_hug", - "text": "Firm hug" + "id": "different_pillows_or_support", + "text": "Different pillows or support" }, { - "id": "hand_on_back", - "text": "Hand on back" + "id": "positions_with_less_strain", + "text": "Positions with less strain" }, { - "id": "holding_hands", - "text": "Holding hands" + "id": "shorter_periods_of_contact", + "text": "Shorter periods of contact" }, { - "id": "breathing_together", - "text": "Breathing together" + "id": "clear_help_changing_position", + "text": "Clear help changing position" }, { - "id": "no_touch", - "text": "No touch" + "id": "more_space_around_sensitive_areas", + "text": "More space around sensitive areas" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4390,34 +4252,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_209", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which physical rituals would help us feel closer?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "With pausing easy and no gesture creating obligation, what else keeps affection mutual? Choose all that fit.", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rituals", + "mutuality", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "daily_hug", - "text": "Daily hug" + "id": "both_people_initiate_sometimes", + "text": "Both people initiate sometimes" }, { - "id": "goodnight_kiss", - "text": "Goodnight kiss" + "id": "both_can_suggest_a_different_gesture", + "text": "Both can suggest a different gesture" }, { - "id": "morning_cuddle", - "text": "Morning cuddle" + "id": "preferences_get_updated_openly", + "text": "Preferences get updated openly" }, { - "id": "couch_touch", - "text": "Couch touch" + "id": "feedback_is_welcomed_kindly", + "text": "Feedback is welcomed kindly" }, { - "id": "walk_hand_hold", - "text": "Hand-holding walk" + "id": "each_persons_favorite_touches_matter", + "text": "Each person’s favorite touches matter" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4428,34 +4290,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_210", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should always be easy to communicate during touch?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Which couple rituals would you genuinely enjoy trying? Pick any.", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "communication", + "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" + "id": "a_daily_twenty_second_hug", + "text": "A daily twenty-second hug" }, { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" + "id": "a_weekly_slow_song_together", + "text": "A weekly slow song together" }, { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" + "id": "a_goodbye_hand_squeeze_code", + "text": "A goodbye hand-squeeze code" }, { - "id": "keep_going", - "text": "Keep going" + "id": "a_sunday_morning_couch_cuddle", + "text": "A Sunday-morning couch cuddle" }, { - "id": "different_touch", - "text": "Different touch" + "id": "a_seasonal_cozy_night_ritual", + "text": "A seasonal cozy-night ritual" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4466,7 +4328,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_211", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How natural does everyday affection feel lately?", + "text": "How natural does everyday affection feel between us lately?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -4476,7 +4338,7 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not natural", + "min_label": "Not very natural", "max_label": "Very natural" } }, @@ -4484,7 +4346,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_212", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to ask for a hug?", + "text": "How easy does it feel to ask me for a hug?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -4494,15 +4356,15 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" + "min_label": "Not easy yet", + "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_213", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you with public affection?", + "text": "How comfortable are you with our usual level of public affection?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -4520,25 +4382,25 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_214", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel when we cuddle?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How well do you feel I understand your everyday touch preferences?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "cuddling", + "understanding", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not connected", - "max_label": "Very connected" + "min_label": "Still learning", + "max_label": "Understand them well" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_215", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to say not right now?", + "text": "How easy is it to say “not right now” to physical affection?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -4548,37 +4410,19 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" + "min_label": "Not easy yet", + "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_216", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would more small touches help us?", + "text": "How playful does our nonsexual affection feel these days?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "touch", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_217", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How playful does our physical affection feel?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "play", + "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -4589,156 +4433,120 @@ } }, { - "id": "physical_intimacy_218", + "id": "physical_intimacy_217", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does physical closeness feel between us?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", + "text": "How much do our current affection rituals add warmth to your day?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", + "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe" + "min_label": "A little warmth", + "max_label": "A lot of warmth" + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_218", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How free from pressure does physical closeness feel between us?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "pressure", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Some pressure remains", + "max_label": "Completely pressure-free" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_219", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How respected do your touch boundaries feel?", + "text": "How confident are you that a pause or stop will be respected immediately?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "boundaries", + "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not respected", - "max_label": "Very respected" + "min_label": "Not fully confident", + "max_label": "Completely confident" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_220", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to give feedback about touch?", + "text": "How comfortable are you with spontaneous everyday touch from me?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feedback", + "spontaneity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" + "min_label": "Not comfortable", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_221", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to hear feedback about touch?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How well do our couch or bedtime routines fit your physical comfort?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feedback", + "comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" + "min_label": "Could fit better", + "max_label": "Fit very well" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_222", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we kiss with intention?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How accepted do low-touch days feel in our relationship?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "kissing", + "low_touch_days", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Often" + "min_label": "Not fully accepted", + "max_label": "Completely accepted" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_223", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we hug without rushing?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "hugs", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Often" - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_224", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does stress affect your comfort with touch?", + "text": "How comfortable do you feel initiating nonsexual affection?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_225", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does confidence affect your comfort with touch?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_226", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you initiating affection?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", "tags": [ "initiation", "physical_intimacy" @@ -4746,123 +4554,177 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", + "min_label": "Not comfortable yet", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_224", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How often does our affection feel noticed rather than automatic?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "routine", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Rarely noticed", + "max_label": "Almost always noticed" + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_225", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well do we adapt touch when one of us is tired or sore?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "body_comfort", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very well", + "max_label": "Very well" + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_226", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it to give me feedback about pressure, pace, or placement?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feedback", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not easy yet", + "max_label": "Very easy" + } + }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_227", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you receiving affection?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How connected do you feel during quiet, nonsexual closeness?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "receiving", + "quiet_closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" + "min_label": "A little connected", + "max_label": "Deeply connected" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_228", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected does hand-holding feel to you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How comfortable are you asking for more personal space while staying emotionally close?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hands", + "personal_space", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not connected", - "max_label": "Very connected" + "min_label": "Not comfortable yet", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_229", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How calming is a long hug for you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How well do our greeting and goodbye gestures fit what you enjoy?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hugs", + "greetings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not calming", - "max_label": "Very calming" + "min_label": "Could fit better", + "max_label": "Fit perfectly" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_230", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you enjoy playful touch?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How relaxed does affection feel when other people are nearby?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "play", + "social_settings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" + "min_label": "Usually tense", + "max_label": "Usually relaxed" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_231", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you enjoy quiet touch?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How much do you feel our physical affection reflects both people’s preferences?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "quiet", + "mutuality", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" + "min_label": "Not very balanced", + "max_label": "Very balanced" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_232", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much privacy do you need for physical closeness?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How comfortable are you changing your mind after affection has started?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy", + "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "A little", - "max_label": "A lot" + "min_label": "Not comfortable yet", + "max_label": "Completely comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_233", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we reconnect physically after distance?", + "text": "How easily do we reconnect physically after a busy or distant stretch?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4872,66 +4734,66 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" + "min_label": "Not very easily", + "max_label": "Very easily" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_234", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to pause touch without awkwardness?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How much room is there for humor in our physical affection?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pause", + "play", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" + "min_label": "Very little", + "max_label": "Plenty of room" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_235", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would a new physical closeness ritual help us?", + "text": "How confident are you that we can adapt affection as our bodies and routines change?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rituals", + "adaptability", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" + "min_label": "Not confident yet", + "max_label": "Very confident" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_236", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Hand-holding or cuddling?", + "text": "Shoulder-to-shoulder cuddle or face-to-face cuddle?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "touch", + "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hand_holding", - "text": "Hand-holding" + "id": "shoulder_to_shoulder", + "text": "Shoulder to shoulder" }, { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" + "id": "face_to_face", + "text": "Face to face" } ] } @@ -4940,22 +4802,22 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_237", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Quick kiss or long hug?", + "text": "Forehead kiss or hand kiss?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "affection", + "kissing", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "quick_kiss", - "text": "Quick kiss" + "id": "forehead_kiss", + "text": "Forehead kiss" }, { - "id": "long_hug", - "text": "Long hug" + "id": "hand_kiss", + "text": "Hand kiss" } ] } @@ -4964,22 +4826,22 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_238", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Playful touch or comforting touch?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "One long hug or several quick hugs?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "touch", + "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "playful_touch", - "text": "Playful touch" + "id": "one_long_hug", + "text": "One long hug" }, { - "id": "comforting_touch", - "text": "Comforting touch" + "id": "several_quick_hugs", + "text": "Several quick hugs" } ] } @@ -4988,22 +4850,22 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_239", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Public affection or private affection?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Hold hands while walking or link arms?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "affection", + "hand_holding", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "public_affection", - "text": "Public affection" + "id": "hold_hands", + "text": "Hold hands" }, { - "id": "private_affection", - "text": "Private affection" + "id": "link_arms", + "text": "Link arms" } ] } @@ -5012,22 +4874,22 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_240", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Morning cuddle or bedtime cuddle?", + "text": "Morning squeeze or goodnight kiss?", "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "cuddling", + "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "morning_cuddle", - "text": "Morning cuddle" + "id": "morning_squeeze", + "text": "Morning squeeze" }, { - "id": "bedtime_cuddle", - "text": "Bedtime cuddle" + "id": "goodnight_kiss", + "text": "Goodnight kiss" } ] } @@ -5036,22 +4898,22 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_241", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Slow kiss or surprise kiss?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Couch cuddle or porch-swing closeness?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "kissing", + "cozy_closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "slow_kiss", - "text": "Slow kiss" + "id": "couch_cuddle", + "text": "Couch cuddle" }, { - "id": "surprise_kiss", - "text": "Surprise kiss" + "id": "porch_swing_closeness", + "text": "Porch-swing closeness" } ] } @@ -5060,22 +4922,22 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_242", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Back rub or hand massage?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Slow dance or playful kitchen sway?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "massage", + "dance", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "back_rub", - "text": "Back rub" + "id": "slow_dance", + "text": "Slow dance" }, { - "id": "hand_massage", - "text": "Hand massage" + "id": "kitchen_sway", + "text": "Kitchen sway" } ] } @@ -5084,31 +4946,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_243", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Ask first or read the moment?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "read_the_moment", - "text": "Read the moment" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_244", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "More hugs or more kisses?", + "text": "When affection is welcome, arm around your shoulders or hand resting at your waist?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -5118,12 +4956,36 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "more_hugs", - "text": "More hugs" + "id": "arm_around_shoulders", + "text": "Arm around shoulders" }, { - "id": "more_kisses", - "text": "More kisses" + "id": "hand_at_waist", + "text": "Hand at waist" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_244", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Playful shoulder nudge or secret hand squeeze?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "playful_affection", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "shoulder_nudge", + "text": "Shoulder nudge" + }, + { + "id": "secret_hand_squeeze", + "text": "Secret hand squeeze" } ] } @@ -5132,8 +4994,8 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_245", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Quiet closeness or flirty closeness?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Quiet closeness or laughing closeness?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "closeness", @@ -5146,8 +5008,8 @@ "text": "Quiet closeness" }, { - "id": "flirty_closeness", - "text": "Flirty closeness" + "id": "laughing_closeness", + "text": "Laughing closeness" } ] } @@ -5156,22 +5018,22 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_246", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Couch cuddle or kitchen dance?", + "text": "One shared blanket or separate blankets with feet touching?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "play", + "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "couch_cuddle", - "text": "Couch cuddle" + "id": "share_one_blanket", + "text": "Share one blanket" }, { - "id": "kitchen_dance", - "text": "Kitchen dance" + "id": "separate_blankets_feet_touching", + "text": "Separate blankets, feet touching" } ] } @@ -5180,22 +5042,22 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_247", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Hold me tighter or give me room?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Greeting hug or goodbye kiss?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "space", + "greetings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hold_me_tighter", - "text": "Hold me tighter" + "id": "greeting_hug", + "text": "Greeting hug" }, { - "id": "give_me_room", - "text": "Give me room" + "id": "goodbye_kiss", + "text": "Goodbye kiss" } ] } @@ -5204,22 +5066,22 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_248", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Forehead kiss or neck kiss?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Sit side by side or sit across with feet touching?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "kissing", + "closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "forehead_kiss", - "text": "Forehead kiss" + "id": "side_by_side", + "text": "Side by side" }, { - "id": "neck_kiss", - "text": "Neck kiss" + "id": "across_with_feet_touching", + "text": "Across with feet touching" } ] } @@ -5228,32 +5090,8 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_249", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Touch first or words first?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "touch_first", - "text": "Touch first" - }, - { - "id": "words_first", - "text": "Words first" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_250", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "New closeness ritual or bring back an old one?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Daily tiny touch or weekly longer cuddle?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rituals", @@ -5262,12 +5100,36 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "new_ritual", - "text": "New ritual" + "id": "daily_tiny_touch", + "text": "Daily tiny touch" }, { - "id": "old_ritual", - "text": "Old ritual" + "id": "weekly_longer_cuddle", + "text": "Weekly longer cuddle" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_250", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Bring back an old affectionate habit or invent a new signal?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "future", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bring_back_an_old_habit", + "text": "Bring back an old habit" + }, + { + "id": "invent_a_new_signal", + "text": "Invent a new signal" } ] }