diff --git a/seed/questions/conflict.json b/seed/questions/conflict.json index 3a8644e1..cc464e9c 100644 --- a/seed/questions/conflict.json +++ b/seed/questions/conflict.json @@ -2,178 +2,473 @@ "category": { "id": "conflict", "display_name": "Conflict", - "description": "Warm, practical questions that help couples understand conflict styles, talk through disagreements, prevent escalation, and stay on the same team.", + "description": "Calm, practical questions about what happens during disagreements: early signals, tone, pacing, pauses, fairness, differences, compromise, recurring patterns, and staying on the same team.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "forum", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - } + "single_choice": 30, + "multi_choice": 90, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 55, + "2": 75, + "3": 20 + }, + "source_question_count": 250, + "source_free_questions": 75, + "source_premium_questions": 175, + "new_question_count": 150, + "net_catalog_change": -100, + "content_version": "conflict_v3_final_reviewed", + "guide_basis": "QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE, QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST v11, and QUESTION_SCHEMA v8 reviewed July 12, 2026.", + "pack_purpose": "Help couples compare what happens during disagreement and choose safer, clearer ways to handle tension without turning the pack into therapy homework.", + "pack_boundary": "Owns active disagreement mechanics: early signals, tone, defensiveness, pursuit and withdrawal, pauses, fairness, the real issue, compromise, recurring loops, and team mindset. Apologies, forgiveness, reconnection, and changed behavior after the disagreement belong in Conflict Repair.", + "safety_boundary": "No question requires disclosure, affection, forgiveness, continued engagement, surrendered privacy, surveillance, or staying in a conversation or relationship that feels unsafe.", + "mass_rewrite_reason": "The repository source contained 250 questions including 150 written prompts. A later reviewed work copy still used depth 4 and omitted required top-level options, so a complete importer-aligned replacement was necessary.", + "review_workflow": "Ten controlled 15-question sensitive-topic batches with prompt-option fit, read-aloud, repetition, safety, depth, access, and cross-pack review.", + "final_review": "Final read-aloud, option-parallelism, privacy-and-support safety, clinical-language, duplication, cross-pack, and schema review completed." } }, "questions": [ { "id": "conflict_001", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What usually helps you stay calm when we disagree?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When tension first shows up, what do you notice in yourself?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "calm", - "disagreement", + "early_signs", + "self_awareness", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_001_i_get_quieter", + "text": "I get quieter" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_001_i_start_talking_faster", + "text": "I start talking faster" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_001_i_switch_into_fix_it_mode", + "text": "I switch into fix-it mode" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_001_i_want_a_little_space", + "text": "I want a little space" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_001_i_get_quieter", + "text": "I get quieter" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_001_i_start_talking_faster", + "text": "I start talking faster" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_001_i_switch_into_fix_it_mode", + "text": "I switch into fix-it mode" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_001_i_want_a_little_space", + "text": "I want a little space" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_002", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing that can make a disagreement feel worse?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can you tell irritation is starting to build?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "escalation", - "small_things", + "early_signs", + "irritation", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_002_my_answers_get_shorter", + "text": "My answers get shorter" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_002_my_jaw_starts_tightening", + "text": "My jaw starts tightening" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_002_i_replay_the_same_thought", + "text": "I replay the same thought" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_002_i_feel_an_urge_to_correct_every_detail", + "text": "I feel an urge to correct every detail" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_002_my_answers_get_shorter", + "text": "My answers get shorter" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_002_my_jaw_starts_tightening", + "text": "My jaw starts tightening" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_002_i_replay_the_same_thought", + "text": "I replay the same thought" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_002_i_feel_an_urge_to_correct_every_detail", + "text": "I feel an urge to correct every detail" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_003", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of tone helps you stay open?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a small disagreement stay small?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tone", - "communication", + "deescalation", + "small_issues", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_003_keeping_it_to_one_clear_issue", + "text": "Keeping it to one clear issue" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_003_using_a_normal_speaking_voice", + "text": "Using a normal speaking voice" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_003_having_enough_time_to_talk", + "text": "Having enough time to talk" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_003_asking_before_making_an_assumption", + "text": "Asking before making an assumption" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_003_keeping_it_to_one_clear_issue", + "text": "Keeping it to one clear issue" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_003_using_a_normal_speaking_voice", + "text": "Using a normal speaking voice" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_003_having_enough_time_to_talk", + "text": "Having enough time to talk" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_003_asking_before_making_an_assumption", + "text": "Asking before making an assumption" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_004", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of tone makes you shut down?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How quickly do you notice when your mood changes during a disagreement?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tone", - "shutdown", + "awareness", + "mood", "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Usually pretty late", + "max_label": "Almost right away" } }, { "id": "conflict_005", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel heard during a disagreement?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Talk now or take ten minutes first?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening", - "heard", + "quick_choice", + "timing", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_005_talk_now", + "text": "Talk now" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_005_take_ten_minutes_first", + "text": "Take ten minutes first" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_005_talk_now", + "text": "Talk now" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_005_take_ten_minutes_first", + "text": "Take ten minutes first" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_006", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes it easier for you to hear my side?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What signs tell you I am becoming overwhelmed?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "perspective", - "listening", + "overwhelm", + "signals", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_006_my_words_start_coming_faster", + "text": "My words start coming faster" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_006_i_stop_making_much_eye_contact", + "text": "I stop making much eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_006_i_become_unusually_still", + "text": "I become unusually still" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_006_i_repeat_the_same_point", + "text": "I repeat the same point" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_006_my_words_start_coming_faster", + "text": "My words start coming faster" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_006_i_stop_making_much_eye_contact", + "text": "I stop making much eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_006_i_become_unusually_still", + "text": "I become unusually still" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_006_i_repeat_the_same_point", + "text": "I repeat the same point" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_007", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one topic we should handle more gently?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is your first instinct when we see things differently?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "gentleness", - "topics", + "conflict_style", + "first_reaction", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_007_explain_my_side", + "text": "Explain my side" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_007_ask_a_question", + "text": "Ask a question" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_007_look_for_a_compromise", + "text": "Look for a compromise" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_007_take_a_breath_before_answering", + "text": "Take a breath before answering" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_007_explain_my_side", + "text": "Explain my side" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_007_ask_a_question", + "text": "Ask a question" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_007_look_for_a_compromise", + "text": "Look for a compromise" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_007_take_a_breath_before_answering", + "text": "Take a breath before answering" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_008", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps a hard conversation feel less like a fight?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which reactions from me are hardest for you to read?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "deescalation", + "signals", + "interpretation", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_008_sudden_silence", + "text": "Sudden silence" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_008_humor_at_an_unexpected_moment", + "text": "Humor at an unexpected moment" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_008_a_flat_tone_of_voice", + "text": "A flat tone of voice" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_008_becoming_very_calm_all_at_once", + "text": "Becoming very calm all at once" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_008_sudden_silence", + "text": "Sudden silence" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_008_humor_at_an_unexpected_moment", + "text": "Humor at an unexpected moment" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_008_a_flat_tone_of_voice", + "text": "A flat tone of voice" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_008_becoming_very_calm_all_at_once", + "text": "Becoming very calm all at once" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_009", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one phrase that helps us slow down?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which conditions make a disagreement easier to enter?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "phrases", - "deescalation", + "comfort", + "starting_conflict", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_009_a_gentle_opening_sentence", + "text": "A gentle opening sentence" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_009_knowing_the_exact_topic", + "text": "Knowing the exact topic" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_009_not_feeling_rushed", + "text": "Not feeling rushed" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_009_keeping_the_conversation_out_of_earshot", + "text": "Keeping the conversation out of earshot" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_009_a_gentle_opening_sentence", + "text": "A gentle opening sentence" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_009_knowing_the_exact_topic", + "text": "Knowing the exact topic" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_009_not_feeling_rushed", + "text": "Not feeling rushed" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_009_keeping_the_conversation_out_of_earshot", + "text": "Keeping the conversation out of earshot" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_010", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one phrase that makes things worse?", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about your first reaction to conflict?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "phrases", - "escalation", + "conflict_style", + "personal_context", "conflict" ], "answer_config": { @@ -183,476 +478,1400 @@ { "id": "conflict_011", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you say what you mean without getting sharper?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Before you can think clearly, what tends to help?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "words", - "self_control", + "clarity", + "regulation", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_011_a_minute_without_questions", + "text": "A minute without questions" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_011_one_clear_point_to_consider", + "text": "One clear point to consider" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_011_a_reminder_that_we_are_okay", + "text": "A reminder that we are okay" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_011_a_little_movement_or_water", + "text": "A little movement or water" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_011_a_minute_without_questions", + "text": "A minute without questions" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_011_one_clear_point_to_consider", + "text": "One clear point to consider" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_011_a_reminder_that_we_are_okay", + "text": "A reminder that we are okay" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_011_a_little_movement_or_water", + "text": "A little movement or water" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_012", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you listen without planning your defense?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which body signal tells you tension is getting serious?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "defensiveness", - "listening", + "body_signals", + "escalation", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_012_a_tight_feeling_in_my_chest", + "text": "A tight feeling in my chest" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_012_heat_in_my_face", + "text": "Heat in my face" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_012_clenched_hands", + "text": "Clenched hands" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_012_restless_legs", + "text": "Restless legs" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_012_a_tight_feeling_in_my_chest", + "text": "A tight feeling in my chest" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_012_heat_in_my_face", + "text": "Heat in my face" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_012_clenched_hands", + "text": "Clenched hands" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_012_restless_legs", + "text": "Restless legs" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_013", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you feel like I am on your side, even when we disagree?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes you more likely to assume the worst?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "disagreement", + "assumptions", + "triggers", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_013_vague_wording", + "text": "Vague wording" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_013_a_badly_timed_comment", + "text": "A badly timed comment" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_013_an_old_issue_resurfacing", + "text": "An old issue resurfacing" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_013_a_sharp_facial_expression", + "text": "A sharp facial expression" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_013_vague_wording", + "text": "Vague wording" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_013_a_badly_timed_comment", + "text": "A badly timed comment" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_013_an_old_issue_resurfacing", + "text": "An old issue resurfacing" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_013_a_sharp_facial_expression", + "text": "A sharp facial expression" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_014", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you feel like we are becoming opponents?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you stay curious instead of defensive?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "escalation", + "curiosity", + "defensiveness", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_014_asking_one_honest_question", + "text": "Asking one honest question" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_014_hearing_the_full_point_first", + "text": "Hearing the full point first" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_014_remembering_our_shared_goal", + "text": "Remembering our shared goal" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_014_slowing_the_pace_of_the_talk", + "text": "Slowing the pace of the talk" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_014_asking_one_honest_question", + "text": "Asking one honest question" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_014_hearing_the_full_point_first", + "text": "Hearing the full point first" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_014_remembering_our_shared_goal", + "text": "Remembering our shared goal" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_014_slowing_the_pace_of_the_talk", + "text": "Slowing the pace of the talk" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_015", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we can do before a small issue turns big?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What early choice gives us the best chance of staying kind?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "prevention", - "small_issues", + "kindness", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_015_lowering_the_volume_early", + "text": "Lowering the volume early" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_015_choosing_one_topic", + "text": "Choosing one topic" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_015_letting_each_other_finish", + "text": "Letting each other finish" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_015_naming_outside_stress", + "text": "Naming outside stress" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_015_lowering_the_volume_early", + "text": "Lowering the volume early" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_015_choosing_one_topic", + "text": "Choosing one topic" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_015_letting_each_other_finish", + "text": "Letting each other finish" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_015_naming_outside_stress", + "text": "Naming outside stress" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_016", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of timing helps you talk about something hard?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of opening makes a hard topic easiest to hear?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timing", - "communication", + "openings", + "tone", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_016_a_calm_request_to_talk", + "text": "A calm request to talk" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_016_a_short_reason_the_topic_matters", + "text": "A short reason the topic matters" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_016_one_specific_concern", + "text": "One specific concern" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_016_a_question_about_whether_the_timing_works", + "text": "A question about whether the timing works" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_016_a_calm_request_to_talk", + "text": "A calm request to talk" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_016_a_short_reason_the_topic_matters", + "text": "A short reason the topic matters" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_016_one_specific_concern", + "text": "One specific concern" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_016_a_question_about_whether_the_timing_works", + "text": "A question about whether the timing works" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_017", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of timing almost guarantees it will go badly?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which times are usually worst for starting a disagreement?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "timing", + "stress", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_017_as_one_of_us_is_leaving", + "text": "As one of us is leaving" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_017_very_late_at_night", + "text": "Very late at night" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_017_when_someone_is_hungry", + "text": "When someone is hungry" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_017_in_the_middle_of_another_task", + "text": "In the middle of another task" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_017_as_one_of_us_is_leaving", + "text": "As one of us is leaving" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_017_very_late_at_night", + "text": "Very late at night" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_017_when_someone_is_hungry", + "text": "When someone is hungry" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_017_in_the_middle_of_another_task", + "text": "In the middle of another task" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_018", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you bring up frustration kindly?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much does timing affect how well you can listen?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "frustration", - "kindness", + "timing", + "listening", "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A great deal" } }, { "id": "conflict_019", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you receive frustration without taking it as an attack?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps a direct question from sounding like an attack?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "frustration", - "listening", + "directness", + "tone", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_019_a_steady_voice", + "text": "A steady voice" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_019_a_concrete_example", + "text": "A concrete example" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_019_one_clear_request", + "text": "One clear request" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_019_no_audience_nearby", + "text": "No audience nearby" + } + ], "answer_config": { - 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"type": "written", - "text": "What helps us disagree without disrespecting each other?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a serious conversation feel like an ambush?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect", - "disagreement", + "timing", + "pressure", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_021_no_warning_at_all", + "text": "No warning at all" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_021_bringing_it_up_in_public", + "text": "Bringing it up in public" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_021_starting_when_there_is_no_time", + "text": "Starting when there is no time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_021_dropping_several_issues_at_once", + "text": "Dropping several issues at once" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_021_no_warning_at_all", + "text": "No warning at all" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_021_bringing_it_up_in_public", + "text": "Bringing it up in public" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_021_starting_when_there_is_no_time", + "text": "Starting when there is no time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_021_dropping_several_issues_at_once", + "text": "Dropping several issues at once" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_022", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you feel respected when I see something differently?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which tone changes make it harder for you to stay open?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect", - "differences", + "tone", + "escalation", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_022_a_sudden_jump_in_volume", + "text": "A sudden jump in volume" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_022_sarcasm_replacing_plain_words", + "text": "Sarcasm replacing plain words" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_022_an_icy_calm_voice", + "text": "An icy calm voice" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_022_short_clipped_answers", + "text": "Short clipped answers" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_022_a_sudden_jump_in_volume", + "text": "A sudden jump in volume" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_022_sarcasm_replacing_plain_words", + "text": "Sarcasm replacing plain words" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_022_an_icy_calm_voice", + "text": "An icy calm voice" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_022_short_clipped_answers", + "text": "Short clipped answers" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_023", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can stay softer when we are tired?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of reminder helps you soften your voice?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tired", - "softness", + "reminders", + "tone", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_023_a_private_phrase", + "text": "A private phrase" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_023_a_small_hand_signal", + "text": "A small hand signal" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_023_a_request_for_one_breath", + "text": "A request for one breath" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_023_hearing_my_name_said_gently", + "text": "Hearing my name said gently" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_023_a_private_phrase", + "text": "A private phrase" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_023_a_small_hand_signal", + "text": "A small hand signal" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_023_a_request_for_one_breath", + "text": "A request for one breath" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_023_hearing_my_name_said_gently", + "text": "Hearing my name said gently" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_024", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can stay kinder when we are stressed?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you bring up frustration before it sits for days?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress", - "kindness", + "frustration", + "timing", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_024_a_regular_check_in_time", + "text": "A regular check-in time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_024_knowing_honesty_will_be_welcome", + "text": "Knowing honesty will be welcome" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_024_turning_the_complaint_into_a_request", + "text": "Turning the complaint into a request" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_024_keeping_the_first_talk_short", + "text": "Keeping the first talk short" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_024_a_regular_check_in_time", + "text": "A regular check-in time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_024_knowing_honesty_will_be_welcome", + "text": "Knowing honesty will be welcome" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_024_turning_the_complaint_into_a_request", + "text": "Turning the complaint into a request" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_024_keeping_the_first_talk_short", + "text": "Keeping the first talk short" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_025", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you not assume the worst of me?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it for you to ask whether now is a good time?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "assumptions", - "trust", + "timing", + "comfort", "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not easy yet", + "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "conflict_026", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps me not assume the worst of you?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you hear concern without hearing criticism?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "assumptions", - "trust", + "feedback", + "listening", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_026_a_focus_on_one_behavior", + "text": "A focus on one behavior" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_026_a_gentle_opening", + "text": "A gentle opening" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_026_knowing_why_it_matters", + "text": "Knowing why it matters" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_026_a_real_chance_to_answer", + "text": "A real chance to answer" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_026_a_focus_on_one_behavior", + "text": "A focus on one behavior" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_026_a_gentle_opening", + "text": "A gentle opening" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_026_knowing_why_it_matters", + "text": "Knowing why it matters" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_026_a_real_chance_to_answer", + "text": "A real chance to answer" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_027", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a conversation feel safe enough to be honest?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kind of beginning makes you feel blamed before the point is clear?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "honesty", - "safety", + "blame", + "openings", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_027_always_or_never_wording", + "text": "Always-or-never wording" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_027_a_guess_about_my_motives", + "text": "A guess about my motives" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_027_a_comparison_to_someone_else", + "text": "A comparison to someone else" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_027_a_conclusion_stated_like_a_fact", + "text": "A conclusion stated like a fact" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_027_always_or_never_wording", + "text": "Always-or-never wording" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_027_a_guess_about_my_motives", + "text": "A guess about my motives" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_027_a_comparison_to_someone_else", + "text": "A comparison to someone else" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_027_a_conclusion_stated_like_a_fact", + "text": "A conclusion stated like a fact" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_028", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should we both avoid when we are hungry, tired, or overloaded?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which setting makes a hard talk easiest for you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "stress", + "setting", + "comfort", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_028_sitting_on_the_couch", + "text": "Sitting on the couch" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_028_walking_somewhere_quiet", + "text": "Walking somewhere quiet" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_028_sitting_in_a_parked_car", + "text": "Sitting in a parked car" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_028_talking_at_the_kitchen_table", + "text": "Talking at the kitchen table" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_028_sitting_on_the_couch", + "text": "Sitting on the couch" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_028_walking_somewhere_quiet", + "text": "Walking somewhere quiet" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_028_sitting_in_a_parked_car", + "text": "Sitting in a parked car" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_028_talking_at_the_kitchen_table", + "text": "Talking at the kitchen table" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_029", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one sign that we need to pause?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a disagreement feel public even when nobody is present?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pause", - "signals", + "privacy", + "outside_involvement", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_029_threatening_to_share_the_messages", + "text": "Threatening to share the messages" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_029_mentioning_a_social_post", + "text": "Mentioning a social post" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_029_invoking_relatives_as_judges", + "text": "Invoking relatives as judges" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_029_talking_loudly_enough_for_others_to_hear", + "text": "Talking loudly enough for others to hear" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_029_threatening_to_share_the_messages", + "text": "Threatening to share the messages" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_029_mentioning_a_social_post", + "text": "Mentioning a social post" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_029_invoking_relatives_as_judges", + "text": "Invoking relatives as judges" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_029_talking_loudly_enough_for_others_to_hear", + "text": "Talking loudly enough for others to hear" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_030", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one sign that we can keep talking?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would help us choose better timing more often?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "signals", + "timing", + "planning", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_030_a_simple_signal_for_serious_topics", + "text": "A simple signal for serious topics" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_030_choosing_a_later_time_together", + "text": "Choosing a later time together" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_030_checking_whether_it_is_urgent", + "text": "Checking whether it is urgent" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_030_avoiding_talks_when_we_are_exhausted", + "text": "Avoiding talks when we are exhausted" + } + ], "answer_config": { - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_031_a_full_turn_without_interruption", + "text": "A full turn without interruption" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_031_one_sincere_question", + "text": "One sincere question" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_031_a_summary_of_what_i_said", + "text": "A summary of what I said" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_031_a_slower_pace", + "text": "A slower pace" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_032", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel okay when I ask for a pause?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs show that I am listening even when I disagree?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pause", - "reassurance", + "listening", + "disagreement", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_032_i_let_you_finish_the_thought", + "text": "I let you finish the thought" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_032_i_repeat_the_main_point_accurately", + "text": "I repeat the main point accurately" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_032_i_remember_a_detail_you_mentioned", + "text": "I remember a detail you mentioned" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_032_i_stay_present_instead_of_preparing_a_reply", + "text": "I stay present instead of preparing a reply" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_032_i_let_you_finish_the_thought", + "text": "I let you finish the thought" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_032_i_repeat_the_main_point_accurately", + "text": "I repeat the main point accurately" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_032_i_remember_a_detail_you_mentioned", + "text": "I remember a detail you mentioned" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_032_i_stay_present_instead_of_preparing_a_reply", + "text": "I stay present instead of preparing a reply" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_033", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we should never do just to win an argument?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which interruptions bother you most during a disagreement?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "winning", - "boundaries", + "interruptions", + "listening", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_033_finishing_my_sentence", + "text": "Finishing my sentence" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_033_correcting_a_small_detail", + "text": "Correcting a small detail" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_033_switching_to_a_different_topic", + "text": "Switching to a different topic" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_033_answering_before_i_reach_the_point", + "text": "Answering before I reach the point" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_033_finishing_my_sentence", + "text": "Finishing my sentence" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_033_correcting_a_small_detail", + "text": "Correcting a small detail" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_033_switching_to_a_different_topic", + "text": "Switching to a different topic" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_033_answering_before_i_reach_the_point", + "text": "Answering before I reach the point" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_034", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does fighting fair mean to you?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it to say that is not what you meant without getting frustrated?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fair_fighting", - "values", + "clarification", + "frustration", "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not easy yet", + "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "conflict_035", "category_id": "conflict", - 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"past", - "focus", + "clarity", + "speaking", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_036_using_one_real_example", + "text": "Using one real example" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_036_starting_with_the_main_point", + "text": "Starting with the main point" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_036_saying_what_outcome_i_want", + "text": "Saying what outcome I want" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_036_pausing_between_ideas", + "text": "Pausing between ideas" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_036_using_one_real_example", + "text": "Using one real example" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_036_starting_with_the_main_point", + "text": "Starting with the main point" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_036_saying_what_outcome_i_want", + "text": "Saying what outcome I want" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_036_pausing_between_ideas", + "text": "Pausing between ideas" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_037", "category_id": "conflict", - 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"type": "written", - "text": "What makes criticism feel too harsh?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes you stop explaining even when the issue matters?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feedback", - "tone", + "shutdown", + "listening", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_038_being_mocked_for_caring", + "text": "Being mocked for caring" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_038_getting_interrupted_repeatedly", + "text": "Getting interrupted repeatedly" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_038_debating_every_small_detail", + "text": "Debating every small detail" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_038_seeing_an_eye_roll", + "text": "Seeing an eye roll" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_038_being_mocked_for_caring", + "text": "Being mocked for caring" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_038_getting_interrupted_repeatedly", + "text": "Getting interrupted repeatedly" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_038_debating_every_small_detail", + "text": "Debating every small detail" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_038_seeing_an_eye_roll", + "text": "Seeing an eye roll" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_039", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps a complaint become a request?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you hear my side without losing your own?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "requests", - "communication", + "perspective", + "balance", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_039_separating_understanding_from_agreement", + "text": "Separating understanding from agreement" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_039_writing_down_my_main_point", + "text": "Writing down my main point" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_039_asking_one_clarifying_question", + "text": "Asking one clarifying question" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_039_summarizing_your_view_before_replying", + "text": "Summarizing your view before replying" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_039_separating_understanding_from_agreement", + "text": "Separating understanding from agreement" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_039_writing_down_my_main_point", + "text": "Writing down my main point" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_039_asking_one_clarifying_question", + "text": "Asking one clarifying question" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_039_summarizing_your_view_before_replying", + "text": "Summarizing your view before replying" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_040", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_042_define_the_word_we_are_using_differently", + "text": "Define the word we are using differently" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_042_restate_each_position", + "text": "Restate each position" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_042_ask_what_the_main_issue_is", + "text": "Ask what the main issue is" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_042_take_a_very_short_pause", + "text": "Take a very short pause" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_043", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a hard talk feel more like teamwork?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes you feel that your feelings are being argued with?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "communication", + "feelings", + "dismissal", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_043_being_asked_to_prove_the_feeling", + "text": "Being asked to prove the feeling" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_043_hearing_the_emotion_corrected", + "text": "Being told I should not feel that way" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_043_getting_an_explanation_of_intent_too_soon", + "text": "Getting an explanation of intent too soon" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_043_having_my_reaction_compared_to_someone_elses", + "text": "Having my reaction compared to someone else’s" + } + ], "answer_config": { - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_044_acknowledging_the_point_first", + "text": "Acknowledging the point first" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_044_keeping_my_voice_even", + "text": "Keeping my voice even" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_044_giving_one_clear_reason", + "text": "Giving one clear reason" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_044_leaving_sarcasm_out_of_it", + "text": "Leaving sarcasm out of it" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_045", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make conflict feel less scary for us?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What would make our next hard talk easiest to understand?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", + "clarity", + "next_time", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_045_shorter_speaking_turns", + "text": "Shorter speaking turns" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_045_one_question_at_a_time", + "text": "One question at a time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_045_less_history_in_the_first_round", + "text": "Fewer past issues at the start" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_045_a_clearer_ending_point", + "text": "A clearer ending point" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_045_shorter_speaking_turns", + "text": "Shorter speaking turns" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_045_one_question_at_a_time", + "text": "One question at a time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_045_less_history_in_the_first_round", + "text": "Fewer past issues at the start" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_045_a_clearer_ending_point", + "text": "A clearer ending point" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_046", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "How can we talk about money stress without turning it into a fight?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can you tell you are starting to feel defensive?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money", - "stress", - "communication", + "defensiveness", + "self_awareness", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_046_i_explain_the_same_point_again", + "text": "I explain the same point again" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_046_i_focus_on_exact_wording", + "text": "I focus on exact wording" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_046_my_body_gets_tense", + "text": "My body gets tense" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_046_i_start_planning_how_to_leave", + "text": "I start planning how to leave" + } + ], "answer_config": { - 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"text": "What should we avoid doing when money stress is the issue?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes an explanation sound like an excuse to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money", - "stress", - "boundaries", + "explanations", + "ownership", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_049_it_arrives_before_any_ownership", + "text": "It arrives before any ownership" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_049_it_focuses_only_on_good_intentions", + "text": "It focuses only on good intentions" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_049_it_changes_the_subject", + "text": "It changes the subject" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_049_it_asks_for_understanding_too_quickly", + "text": "It asks for understanding too quickly" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_049_it_arrives_before_any_ownership", + "text": "It arrives before any ownership" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_049_it_focuses_only_on_good_intentions", + "text": "It focuses only on good intentions" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_049_it_changes_the_subject", + "text": "It changes the subject" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_049_it_asks_for_understanding_too_quickly", + "text": "It asks for understanding too quickly" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_050", "category_id": "conflict", - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_059_a_pattern_that_keeps_repeating", + "text": "A pattern that keeps repeating" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_059_a_contemptuous_tone", + "text": "A contemptuous tone" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_059_a_detail_that_was_hidden", + "text": "A detail that was hidden" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_059_an_agreement_that_was_ignored", + "text": "An agreement that was ignored" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_060", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "How can we talk about family opinions without turning it into a fight?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps separate a bad moment from a judgment about character?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "outside_pressure", - "communication", + "character", + "focus", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_060_describing_the_behavior_itself", + "text": "Describing the behavior itself" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_060_avoiding_labels", + "text": "Avoiding labels" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_060_naming_the_stressful_context", + "text": "Naming the stressful context" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_060_focusing_on_what_should_change", + "text": "Focusing on what should change" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_060_describing_the_behavior_itself", + "text": "Describing the behavior itself" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_060_avoiding_labels", + "text": "Avoiding labels" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_060_naming_the_stressful_context", + "text": "Naming the stressful context" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_060_focusing_on_what_should_change", + "text": "Focusing on what should change" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_061", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What usually makes family opinions feel bigger than it is?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When you need space, what do you want me to understand?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "outside_pressure", - "escalation", + "space", + "processing", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_061_i_am_not_leaving_the_relationship", + "text": "I am not leaving the relationship" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_061_i_need_my_body_to_calm_down", + "text": "I need my body to calm down" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_061_i_need_time_to_organize_my_thoughts", + "text": "I need time to organize my thoughts" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_061_i_intend_to_return_to_the_topic", + "text": "I intend to return to the topic" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_061_i_am_not_leaving_the_relationship", + "text": "I am not leaving the relationship" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_061_i_need_my_body_to_calm_down", + "text": "I need my body to calm down" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_061_i_need_time_to_organize_my_thoughts", + "text": "I need time to organize my thoughts" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_061_i_intend_to_return_to_the_topic", + "text": "I intend to return to the topic" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_062", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would help family opinions feel easier to bring up?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a pause feel respectful instead of dismissive?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "outside_pressure", - "ease", + "pause", + "respect", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_062_giving_a_return_time", + "text": "Giving a return time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_062_offering_brief_reassurance", + "text": "Offering brief reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_062_leaving_without_slamming_anything", + "text": "Leaving without slamming doors" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_062_allowing_enough_actual_space", + "text": "Allowing enough actual space" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_062_giving_a_return_time", + "text": "Giving a return time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_062_offering_brief_reassurance", + "text": "Offering brief reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_062_leaving_without_slamming_anything", + "text": "Leaving without slamming doors" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_062_allowing_enough_actual_space", + "text": "Allowing enough actual space" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_063", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid doing when family opinions is the issue?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes you want to keep talking after the other person needs a break?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "outside_pressure", - "boundaries", + "pursuit", + "pause", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_063_fear_that_the_issue_will_disappear", + "text": "Fear that the issue will disappear" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_063_needing_reassurance_first", + "text": "Needing reassurance first" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_063_worry_that_the_talk_will_never_resume", + "text": "Worry that the talk will never resume" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_063_feeling_too_much_momentum_to_stop", + "text": "Feeling too much momentum to stop" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_063_fear_that_the_issue_will_disappear", + "text": "Fear that the issue will disappear" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_063_needing_reassurance_first", + "text": "Needing reassurance first" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_063_worry_that_the_talk_will_never_resume", + "text": "Worry that the talk will never resume" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_063_feeling_too_much_momentum_to_stop", + "text": "Feeling too much momentum to stop" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_064", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about family opinions?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much time do you usually need before returning to a hard topic?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "outside_pressure", - "understanding", + "pause", + "processing_time", "conflict" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Only a few minutes", + "max_label": "Several hours or more" } }, { "id": "conflict_065", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What small change would help us handle family opinions better next time?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "A specific return time or just later today?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "outside_pressure", - "small_changes", + "quick_choice", + "return_time", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_065_a_specific_return_time", + "text": "A specific return time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_065_a_general_later_today", + "text": "Just later today" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_065_a_specific_return_time", + "text": "A specific return time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_065_a_general_later_today", + "text": "Just later today" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_066", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you stay kind when family opinions comes up?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps when one person processes faster than the other?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "outside_pressure", - "kindness", + "processing_speed", + "patience", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_066_slower_speaking_turns", + "text": "Slower speaking turns" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_066_a_few_written_notes", + "text": "A few written notes" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_066_a_clearly_defined_pause", + "text": "A clearly defined pause" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_066_letting_one_question_land_before_the_next", + "text": "Letting one question land before the next" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_066_slower_speaking_turns", + "text": "Slower speaking turns" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_066_a_few_written_notes", + "text": "A few written notes" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_066_a_clearly_defined_pause", + "text": "A clearly defined pause" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_066_letting_one_question_land_before_the_next", + "text": "Letting one question land before the next" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_067", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "How can we talk about last-minute plans without turning it into a fight?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which check-in during a pause feels best?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", - "scheduling", - "communication", + "pause", + "check_in", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_067_a_short_text", + "text": "A short text" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_067_a_brief_verbal_reminder", + "text": "A brief verbal reminder" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_067_no_check_in_until_the_agreed_time", + "text": "No check-in until the agreed time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_067_a_quick_hug_if_it_is_welcome", + "text": "A quick hug if it is welcome" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_067_a_short_text", + "text": "A short text" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_067_a_brief_verbal_reminder", + "text": "A brief verbal reminder" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_067_no_check_in_until_the_agreed_time", + "text": "No check-in until the agreed time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_067_a_quick_hug_if_it_is_welcome", + "text": "A quick hug if it is welcome" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_068", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What usually makes last-minute plans feel bigger than it is?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes waiting for a conversation feel harder?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", - "scheduling", - "escalation", + "waiting", + "uncertainty", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_068_no_return_time", + "text": "No return time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_068_complete_silence", + "text": "Complete silence" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_068_mixed_signals_about_whether_we_are_okay", + "text": "Mixed signals about whether we are okay" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_068_continuing_the_argument_by_text", + "text": "Continuing the argument by text" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_068_no_return_time", + "text": "No return time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_068_complete_silence", + "text": "Complete silence" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_068_mixed_signals_about_whether_we_are_okay", + "text": "Mixed signals about whether we are okay" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_068_continuing_the_argument_by_text", + "text": "Continuing the argument by text" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_069", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would help last-minute plans feel easier to bring up?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you ask for more time without making it seem like you are avoiding the issue?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", - "scheduling", - "ease", + "space", + "communication", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_069_giving_a_simple_reason", + "text": "Giving a simple reason" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_069_naming_a_return_time", + "text": "Naming a return time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_069_offering_one_sentence_of_reassurance", + "text": "Offering one sentence of reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_069_saying_what_i_need_the_time_for", + "text": "Saying what I need the time for" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_069_giving_a_simple_reason", + "text": "Giving a simple reason" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_069_naming_a_return_time", + "text": "Naming a return time" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_069_offering_one_sentence_of_reassurance", + "text": "Offering one sentence of reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_069_saying_what_i_need_the_time_for", + "text": "Saying what I need the time for" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_070", "category_id": "conflict", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we avoid doing when last-minute plans is the issue?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What do you wish I knew about the way you process conflict?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", - "scheduling", - "boundaries", + "processing", + "personal_context", "conflict" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1166,507 +3284,1400 @@ { "id": "conflict_071", "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about last-minute plans?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which behaviors make space feel like punishment?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", - "scheduling", - "understanding", + "space", + "punishment", "conflict" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "conflict_071_refusing_all_ordinary_communication", + "text": "Refusing all ordinary communication" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_071_ignoring_practical_questions", + "text": "Ignoring practical questions" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_071_delaying_without_any_update", + "text": "Delaying without any update" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_071_acting_cold_in_front_of_other_people", + "text": "Acting cold in front of other people" + } + ], "answer_config": { - 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], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_it", - "text": "Name it" - }, - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "soften", - "text": "Soften" - }, - { - "id": "try_again", - "text": "Try again" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_180", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when conflict happens in public?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "public", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause_it", - "text": "Pause it" - }, - { - "id": "keep_private", - "text": "Keep private" - }, - { - "id": "leave_kindly", - "text": "Leave kindly" - }, - { - "id": "small_signal", - "text": "Small signal" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_181", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when conflict happens before bed?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "bedtime", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "short_check", - "text": "Short check-in" - }, - { - "id": "pause_kindly", - "text": "Pause kindly" - }, - { - "id": "soft_words", - "text": "Soft words" - }, - { - "id": "return_tomorrow", - "text": "Return tomorrow" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_182", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when conflict happens by text?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "texting", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "call_instead", - "text": "Call instead" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "no_paragraphs", - "text": "No paragraphs" - }, - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_183", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us not weaponize silence?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "silence", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_pause", - "text": "Clear pause" - }, - { - "id": "return_time", - "text": "Return time" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_184", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us not weaponize words?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "words", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "no_labels", - "text": "No labels" - }, - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_185", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a hard truth easier to receive?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "honesty", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "love_first", - "text": "Love first" - }, - { - "id": "soft_tone", - "text": "Soft tone" - }, - { - "id": "specific", - "text": "Specific" - }, - { - "id": "private", - "text": "Private" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_186", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when the issue is really stress?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_stress", - "text": "Name stress" - }, - { - "id": "reduce_load", - "text": "Reduce load" - }, - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_187", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when the issue is really fear?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fear", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "ask_gently", - "text": "Ask gently" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "stay_close", - "text": "Stay close" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_188", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when the issue is really feeling unseen?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "unseen", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "attention", - "text": "Attention" - }, - { - "id": "specific_words", - "text": "Specific words" - }, - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_189", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when neither of us has much patience?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "patience", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "lower_expectations", - "text": "Lower expectations" - }, - { - "id": "handle_later", - "text": "Handle later" - }, - { - "id": "be_kind", - "text": "Be kind" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_190", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make our next disagreement healthier?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause_earlier", - "text": "Pause earlier" - }, - { - "id": "listen_longer", - "text": "Listen longer" - }, - { - "id": "one_topic", - "text": "One topic" - }, - { - "id": "softer_start", - "text": "Softer start" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_191", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us stay respectful during conflict?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "respect", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_tone", - "text": "Soft tone" - }, - { - "id": "no_interrupting", - "text": "No interrupting" - }, - { - "id": "one_topic", - "text": "One topic" - }, - { - "id": "pause_allowed", - "text": "Pause allowed" - }, - { - "id": "no_name_calling", - "text": "No name-calling" + "id": "conflict_150_permission_for_either_person_to_pause", + "text": "Permission for either person to pause" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_192", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What tends to escalate conflict for us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "escalation", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tone", - "text": "Tone" - }, - { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" - }, - { - "id": "phones", - "text": "Phones" - }, - { - "id": "old_topics", - "text": "Old topics" - }, - { - "id": "interrupting", - "text": "Interrupting" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_193", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps a hard talk go better?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "soft_start", - "text": "Soft start" - }, - { - "id": "clear_request", - "text": "Clear request" - }, - { - "id": "breaks_allowed", - "text": "Breaks allowed" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_194", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel heard?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "listening", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "repeat_back", - "text": "Repeat back" - }, - { - "id": "ask_questions", - "text": "Ask questions" - }, - { - "id": "no_fixing_yet", - "text": "No fixing yet" - }, - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_195", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we avoid when upset?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "threats", - "text": "Threats" - }, - { - "id": "name_calling", - "text": "Name-calling" - }, - { - "id": "past_pile_on", - "text": "Past pile-on" - }, - { - "id": "silent_treatment", - "text": "Silent treatment" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_196", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when defensiveness shows up?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "defensiveness", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "soften_tone", - "text": "Soften tone" - }, - { - "id": "ask_question", - "text": "Ask a question" - }, - { - "id": "own_part", - "text": "Own a part" - }, - { - "id": "take_break", - "text": "Take a break" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_197", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us respond well when one of us shuts down?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "shutdown", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_check", - "text": "Gentle check-in" - }, - { - "id": "less_pressure", - "text": "Less pressure" - }, - { - "id": "return_time", - "text": "Return time" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_198", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us slow things down when one of us pushes too hard?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pressure", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_it", - "text": "Name it" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "take_break", - "text": "Take a break" - }, - { - "id": "soften_words", - "text": "Soften words" - }, - { - "id": "remember_team", - "text": "Remember team" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_199", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes feedback easier to receive?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feedback", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific", - "text": "Specific" - }, - { - "id": "gentle", - "text": "Gentle" - }, - { - "id": "one_thing", - "text": "One thing" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "praise_too", - "text": "Praise too" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_200", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us talk about money conflict?", - "depth": 4, - 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"max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_202", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us talk about chores conflict?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "chores", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_task", - "text": "Specific task" - }, - { - "id": "fair_plan", - "text": "Fair plan" - }, - { - "id": "no_scorekeeping", - "text": "No scorekeeping" - }, - { - "id": "weekly_reset", - "text": "Weekly reset" - }, - { - "id": "appreciation", - "text": "Appreciation" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_203", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us handle conflict by text?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "texting", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "short_messages", - "text": "Short messages" - }, - { - "id": "no_assumptions", - "text": "No assumptions" - }, - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "call_instead", - "text": "Call instead" - }, - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_204", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us stay focused on one issue?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "focus", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_topic", - "text": "Name topic" - }, - { - "id": "write_other_later", - "text": "Save other topics" - }, - { - "id": "pause_pile_on", - "text": "Pause pile-on" - }, - { - "id": "repeat_goal", - "text": "Repeat goal" - }, - { - "id": "ask_next_step", - "text": "Ask next step" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_205", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us stay close after disagreeing?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - 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} - }, - { - "id": "conflict_207", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when we see the same situation differently?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "perspective", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_both_views", - "text": "Name both views" - }, - { - "id": "ask_more", - "text": "Ask more" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "drop_winning", - "text": "Drop winning" - }, - { - "id": "look_for_overlap", - "text": "Look for overlap" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_208", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us talk before resentment builds?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "resentment", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "earlier_check_in", - "text": "Earlier check-in" - }, - { - "id": "small_request", - "text": "Small request" - 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"type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we stay on the same team when we disagree?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_217", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would one better conflict habit help us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "habits", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_218", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do old patterns show up in conflict?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "patterns", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Often" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_219", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much defensiveness shows up between us?", - 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"tags": [ - "chores", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_223", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to give feedback?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feedback", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_224", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to receive feedback?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feedback", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_225", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we avoid trying to win?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "winning", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_226", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we loop instead of resolving?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "looping", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Often" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_227", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we respect pauses?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pause", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_228", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do assumptions make conflict worse?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "assumptions", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely", - "max_label": "Often" - 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"tags": [ - "patterns", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "stay_current", - "text": "Stay current" - }, - { - "id": "name_pattern", - "text": "Name the pattern" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_247", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Give space or offer reassurance?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "space", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "give_space", - "text": "Give space" - }, - { - "id": "offer_reassurance", - "text": "Offer reassurance" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_248", - "category_id": "conflict", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Ask for clarity or ask for softness?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "conflict" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_clarity", - "text": "Ask for clarity" - }, - { - "id": "ask_softness", - "text": "Ask for softness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_249", - 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"description": "Warm, practical questions that help couples cool down, apologize, listen, take space, reconnect, and repair after disagreements without blame.", + "description": "Warm, practical questions about what happens after a disagreement: returning, apologizing, understanding hurt, taking responsibility, reconnecting, following up, and building better repair habits without blame or forced forgiveness.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "healing", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - } + "multi_choice": 90, + "single_choice": 30, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 47, + "2": 79, + "3": 24 + }, + "source_question_count": 250, + "source_written_count": 150, + "new_question_count": 150, + "net_catalog_change": -100, + "preserved_legacy_question_ids": "conflict_repair_001 through conflict_repair_150", + "content_version": "conflict_repair_v2_guide_reviewed", + "guide_basis": "QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE on dev, QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST v11, and QUESTION_SCHEMA v8 reviewed July 12, 2026.", + "pack_purpose": "Help couples compare what makes returning, apologies, being heard, accountability, affection, follow-up, changed behavior, and long-term repair feel safe and believable after ordinary disagreements.", + "pack_boundary": "Owns what happens after a disagreement. Conflict owns the active disagreement itself; Difficult Conversations owns raising major topics; Communication owns everyday talking and listening; Rebuilding Trust owns voluntary repair after a trust breach; Physical Intimacy owns detailed touch preferences.", + "safety_boundary": "Repair never requires instant forgiveness, forced affection, coerced disclosure, surveillance, control, staying in an unsafe relationship, or treating cruelty as normal conflict.", + "mass_rewrite_reason": "The source contained 250 questions, including 150 written prompts, with repeated template blocks and depth values outside the current importer contract. More than 60 percent of the source shared the same legacy failure, so a controlled rebuild was safer than isolated patching.", + "review_workflow": "Ten subject sections drafted as 15-question sensitive batches, followed by schema, read-aloud, prompt-option fit, repetition, pack-boundary, safety, and full-pack validation." } }, "questions": [ { "id": "conflict_repair_001", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel safe coming back together after a disagreement?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs show that I am ready to repair instead of keep arguing?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "safety", + "repair_signals", + "accountability", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_stop_building_my_case", + "text": "I stop building my case" + }, + { + "id": "my_questions_sound_curious", + "text": "My questions sound curious" + }, + { + "id": "i_can_repeat_your_point_fairly", + "text": "I can repeat your point fairly" + }, + { + "id": "i_admit_my_part_without_adding_but", + "text": "I admit my part without adding “but”" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_willing_to_slow_the_pace", + "text": "I am willing to slow the pace" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_stop_building_my_case", + "text": "I stop building my case" + }, + { + "id": "my_questions_sound_curious", + "text": "My questions sound curious" + }, + { + "id": "i_can_repeat_your_point_fairly", + "text": "I can repeat your point fairly" + }, + { + "id": "i_admit_my_part_without_adding_but", + "text": "I admit my part without adding “but”" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_willing_to_slow_the_pace", + "text": "I am willing to slow the pace" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_002", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing I can do after conflict that helps you soften?", - "depth": 3, + "type": 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3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "After a rough moment, what tells you we are actually cooling down?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "words", + "signals", + "cooling_down", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_voices_settle", + "text": "Our voices settle" + }, + { + "id": "we_stop_trying_to_win", + "text": "We stop trying to win" + }, + { + "id": "a_real_question_replaces_a_comeback", + "text": "A real question replaces a comeback" + }, + { + "id": "the_silence_no_longer_feels_punishing", + "text": "The silence no longer feels punishing" + }, + { + "id": "one_of_us_admits_we_are_tired", + "text": "One of us admits we are tired" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_voices_settle", + "text": "Our voices settle" + }, + { + "id": "we_stop_trying_to_win", + "text": "We stop trying to win" + }, + { + "id": "a_real_question_replaces_a_comeback", + "text": "A real question replaces a comeback" + }, + { + "id": "the_silence_no_longer_feels_punishing", + "text": "The silence no longer feels punishing" + }, + { + "id": "one_of_us_admits_we_are_tired", + "text": "One of us admits we are tired" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_006", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps a hard conversation feel less scary?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Would a quiet restart or a direct restart feel better?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "safety", + "restart_style", + "quick_choice", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_quiet_restart", + "text": "A quiet restart" + }, + { + "id": "a_direct_restart", + "text": "A direct restart" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_quiet_restart", + "text": "A quiet restart" + }, + { + "id": "a_direct_restart", + "text": "A direct restart" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_007", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a pause feel helpful instead of like someone is leaving?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps a restart from feeling forced or fake?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pause", - "reassurance", + "authenticity", + "restart", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_issue_gets_named_plainly", + "text": "The issue gets named plainly" + }, + { + "id": "no_one_pretends_it_never_happened", + "text": "No one pretends it never happened" + }, + { + "id": "the_apology_matches_the_moment", + "text": "The apology matches the moment" + }, + { + "id": "we_make_one_realistic_change", + "text": "We make one realistic change" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_room_for_mixed_feelings", + "text": "There is room for mixed feelings" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_issue_gets_named_plainly", + "text": "The issue gets named plainly" + }, + { + "id": "no_one_pretends_it_never_happened", + "text": "No one pretends it never happened" + }, + { + "id": "the_apology_matches_the_moment", + "text": "The apology matches the moment" + }, + { + "id": "we_make_one_realistic_change", + "text": "We make one realistic change" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_room_for_mixed_feelings", + "text": "There is room for mixed feelings" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_008", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one phrase that could help us slow down before things get worse?", + "text": "What is one sentence that would help us begin again after a rough moment?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "deescalation", - "phrases", + "repair_language", + "restart", "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { @@ -151,493 +447,1597 @@ { "id": "conflict_repair_009", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you calm your body after an argument?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Once we are calmer, what kind of first step feels manageable?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "calm", - "body", + "small_steps", + "reconnection", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "sit_together_for_five_minutes", + "text": "Sit together for five minutes" + }, + { + "id": "name_one_thing_we_agree_on", + "text": "Name one thing we agree on" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_the_other_person_needs", + "text": "Ask what the other person needs" + }, + { + "id": "share_the_shortest_version_of_each_side", + "text": "Share the shortest version of each side" + }, + { + "id": "decide_whether_to_talk_now_or_later", + "text": "Decide whether to talk now or later" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "sit_together_for_five_minutes", + "text": "Sit together for five minutes" + }, + { + "id": "name_one_thing_we_agree_on", + "text": "Name one thing we agree on" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_the_other_person_needs", + "text": "Ask what the other person needs" + }, + { + "id": "share_the_shortest_version_of_each_side", + "text": "Share the shortest version of each side" + }, + { + "id": "decide_whether_to_talk_now_or_later", + "text": "Decide whether to talk now or later" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_010", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of tone helps you stay open?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which small peace offerings work after a minor disagreement?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tone", - "communication", + "peace_offering", + "minor_conflict", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_better_couch_spot_saved", + "text": "The better couch spot saved" + }, + { + "id": "making_the_usual_drink", + "text": "Making the usual drink" + }, + { + "id": "a_low_key_check_in", + "text": "A low-key check-in" + }, + { + "id": "one_small_task_handled", + "text": "One small task handled" + }, + { + "id": "offering_a_snack_without_a_speech", + "text": "Offering a snack without a speech" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_better_couch_spot_saved", + "text": "The better couch spot saved" + }, + { + "id": "making_the_usual_drink", + "text": "Making the usual drink" + }, + { + "id": "a_low_key_check_in", + "text": "A low-key check-in" + }, + { + "id": "one_small_task_handled", + "text": "One small task handled" + }, + { + "id": "offering_a_snack_without_a_speech", + "text": "Offering a snack without a speech" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_011", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you feel respected during repair?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When one of us is still tender, what kind of approach helps?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "respect", - "repair", + "gentleness", + "emotional_safety", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "start_with_a_softer_topic", + "text": "Start with a softer topic" + }, + { + "id": "ask_whether_now_is_okay", + "text": "Ask whether now is okay" + }, + { + "id": "keep_the_first_exchange_short", + "text": "Keep the first exchange short" + }, + { + "id": "let_the_hurt_person_set_the_pace", + "text": "Let the hurt person set the pace" + }, + { + "id": "offer_company_without_demanding_a_talk", + "text": "Offer company without demanding a talk" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "start_with_a_softer_topic", + "text": "Start with a softer topic" + }, + { + "id": "ask_whether_now_is_okay", + "text": "Ask whether now is okay" + }, + { + "id": "keep_the_first_exchange_short", + "text": "Keep the first exchange short" + }, + { + "id": "let_the_hurt_person_set_the_pace", + "text": "Let the hurt person set the pace" + }, + { + "id": 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"teamwork", - "repair", + "reentry", + "comfort", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simple_normal_question", + "text": "A simple normal question" + }, + { + "id": "the_door_being_left_open", + "text": "The door being left open" + }, + { + "id": "a_brief_acknowledgment_of_what_happened", + "text": "A brief acknowledgment of what happened" + }, + { + "id": "bringing_each_other_water", + "text": "Bringing each other water" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure_for_immediate_eye_contact", + "text": "No pressure for immediate eye contact" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simple_normal_question", + "text": "A simple normal question" + }, + { + "id": "the_door_being_left_open", + "text": "The door being left open" + }, + { + "id": "a_brief_acknowledgment_of_what_happened", + "text": "A brief acknowledgment of what happened" + }, + { + "id": "bringing_each_other_water", + "text": "Bringing each other water" + }, + { + "id": 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"text": "Both of us calm down" + }, + { + "id": "we_agree_on_the_real_issue", + "text": "We agree on the real issue" + }, + { + "id": "each_person_gets_a_turn", + "text": "Each person gets a turn" + }, + { + "id": "we_decide_whether_tonight_is_the_right_time", + "text": "We decide whether tonight is the right time" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_of_us_calm_down", + "text": "Both of us calm down" + }, + { + "id": "we_agree_on_the_real_issue", + "text": "We agree on the real issue" + }, + { + "id": "each_person_gets_a_turn", + "text": "Each person gets a turn" + }, + { + "id": "we_decide_whether_tonight_is_the_right_time", + "text": "We decide whether tonight is the right time" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_016", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes it easier for you to hear, 'That hurt'?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How 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enough time to listen" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_022", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should never be demanded in return for an apology?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "apology", + "consent", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "immediate_forgiveness", + "text": "Immediate forgiveness" + }, + { + "id": "physical_affection", + "text": "Physical affection" + }, + { + "id": "a_matching_confession", + "text": "A matching confession" + }, + { + "id": "proof_that_everything_is_fine", + "text": "Proof that everything is fine" + }, + { + "id": "silence_about_future_concerns", + "text": "Silence about future concerns" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "immediate_forgiveness", + "text": "Immediate forgiveness" + }, + { + "id": "physical_affection", + "text": "Physical affection" + }, + { + "id": "a_matching_confession", + "text": "A matching confession" + }, + { + "id": "proof_that_everything_is_fine", + "text": "Proof that everything is fine" + }, + { + "id": "silence_about_future_concerns", + "text": "Silence about future concerns" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_023", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which apology habits make the words lose meaning?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "apology", + "missteps", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_defense_afterward", + "text": "A long defense afterward" + }, + { + "id": "apologizing_only_to_end_the_talk", + "text": "Apologizing only to end the talk" + }, + { + "id": "the_same_promise_again", + "text": "The same promise again" + }, + { + "id": "asking_for_instant_reassurance", + "text": "Asking for instant reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "turning_the_focus_onto_the_other_person", + "text": "Turning the focus onto the other person" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_defense_afterward", + "text": "A long defense afterward" + }, + { + "id": "apologizing_only_to_end_the_talk", + "text": "Apologizing only to end the talk" + }, + { + "id": "the_same_promise_again", + "text": "The same promise again" + }, + { + "id": "asking_for_instant_reassurance", + "text": "Asking for instant reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "turning_the_focus_onto_the_other_person", + "text": "Turning the focus onto the other person" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_024", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes an apology easier for you to trust?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "apology", + "credibility", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_arrives_without_being_demanded", + "text": "It arrives without being demanded" + }, + { + "id": "the_wording_is_specific", + "text": "The wording is specific" + }, + { + "id": "defensiveness_stays_out_of_it", + "text": "Defensiveness stays out of it" + }, + { + "id": "actions_match_it_afterward", + "text": "Actions match it afterward" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_no_pressure_to_accept_it_quickly", + "text": "There is no pressure to accept it quickly" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_arrives_without_being_demanded", + "text": "It arrives without being demanded" + }, + { + "id": "the_wording_is_specific", + "text": "The wording is specific" + }, + { + "id": "defensiveness_stays_out_of_it", + "text": "Defensiveness stays out of it" + }, + { + "id": "actions_match_it_afterward", + "text": "Actions match it afterward" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_no_pressure_to_accept_it_quickly", + "text": "There is no pressure to accept it quickly" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_025", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which sentence would feel most accountable after a hurtful comment?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "apology_language", + "accountability", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_said_that_to_win_and_it_was_unfair", + "text": "“I said that to win, and it was unfair.”" + }, + { + "id": "i_understand_why_that_stayed_with_you", + "text": "“I understand why that stayed with you.”" + }, + { + "id": "you_did_not_deserve_that_from_me", + "text": "“You did not deserve that from me.”" + }, + { + "id": "i_need_to_handle_that_differently_next_time", + "text": "“I need to handle that differently next time.”" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_said_that_to_win_and_it_was_unfair", + "text": "“I said that to win, and it was unfair.”" + }, + { + "id": "i_understand_why_that_stayed_with_you", + "text": "“I understand why that stayed with you.”" + }, + { + "id": "you_did_not_deserve_that_from_me", + "text": "“You did not deserve that from me.”" + }, + { + "id": "i_need_to_handle_that_differently_next_time", + "text": "“I need to handle that differently next time.”" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_026", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "If both of us caused harm, what makes mutual apologies work?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "mutual_apology", + "fairness", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "each_person_owns_a_separate_part", + "text": "Each person owns a separate part" + }, + { + "id": "no_scorekeeping_over_who_starts", + "text": "No scorekeeping over who starts" + }, + { + "id": "both_apologies_get_full_attention", + "text": "Both apologies get full attention" + }, + { + "id": "the_worse_moment_is_not_used_to_erase_the_smaller_one", + "text": "The worse moment is not used to erase the smaller one" + }, + { + "id": "we_avoid_trading_apologies_like_receipts", + "text": "We avoid trading apologies like receipts" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "each_person_owns_a_separate_part", + "text": "Each person owns a separate part" + }, + { + "id": "no_scorekeeping_over_who_starts", + "text": "No scorekeeping over who starts" + }, + { + "id": "both_apologies_get_full_attention", + "text": "Both apologies get full attention" + }, + { + "id": "the_worse_moment_is_not_used_to_erase_the_smaller_one", + "text": "The worse moment is not used to erase the smaller one" + }, + { + "id": "we_avoid_trading_apologies_like_receipts", + "text": "We avoid trading apologies like receipts" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_027", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it for you to receive an apology while still upset?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "apology", + "readiness", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very hard", + "max_label": "Fairly easy" + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_028", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which part of a sincere apology carries the most weight for you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "apology", + "preferences", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "naming_the_specific_hurt", + "text": "Naming the specific hurt" + }, + { + "id": "no_excuses_added", + "text": "No excuses added" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_sign_of_understanding", + "text": "A clear sign of understanding" + }, + { + "id": "what_will_change_next", + "text": "What will change next" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "naming_the_specific_hurt", + "text": "Naming the specific hurt" + }, + { + "id": "no_excuses_added", + "text": "No excuses added" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_sign_of_understanding", + "text": "A clear sign of understanding" + }, + { + "id": "what_will_change_next", + "text": "What will change next" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_029", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What tone makes an apology sound most sincere to you?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "apology", + "tone", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_and_steady", + "text": "Quiet and steady" + }, + { + "id": "direct_and_plain", + "text": "Direct and plain" + }, + { + "id": "warm_but_not_dramatic", + "text": "Warm but not dramatic" + }, + { + "id": "careful_and_unhurried", + "text": "Careful and unhurried" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_and_steady", + "text": "Quiet and steady" + }, + { + "id": "direct_and_plain", + "text": "Direct and plain" + }, + { + "id": "warm_but_not_dramatic", + "text": "Warm but not dramatic" + }, + { + "id": "careful_and_unhurried", + "text": "Careful and unhurried" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_030", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps an apology feel warm without becoming a performance?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "apology", "warmth", "conflict_repair" ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_018", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of repair works best after a silly misunderstanding?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "misunderstanding", - "lightness", - "conflict_repair" + "options": [ + { + "id": "natural_eye_contact", + "text": "Natural eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "a_calm_voice", + "text": "A calm voice" + }, + { + "id": "one_honest_sentence", + "text": "One honest sentence" + }, + { + "id": "no_grand_gesture_required", + "text": "No grand gesture required" + }, + { + "id": "room_for_the_other_person_to_respond", + "text": "Room for the other person to respond" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_019", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of repair works best after a serious disagreement?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "serious_conflict", - "repair", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_020", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we can do to keep a disagreement from ruining the whole day?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "repair", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_021", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you let go of tension after we make up?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "tension", - "release", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_022", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel close again after we have both cooled down?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "closeness", - "cool_down", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_023", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing that makes conflict harder than it needs to be?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "patterns", - "conflict", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_024", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you not shut down during a hard talk?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "shutdown", - "communication", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_025", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you not push too hard during a hard talk?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "pressure", - "communication", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_026", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of check-in would help after we argue?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "check_in", - "repair", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_027", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should a timeout mean between us?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "timeout", - "repair", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_028", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you come back after a timeout?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "timeout", - "return", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_029", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one kind way to say we need a break?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "pause", - "kindness", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_030", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you trust that a break is not abandonment?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "pause", - "trust", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "natural_eye_contact", + "text": "Natural eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "a_calm_voice", + "text": "A calm voice" + }, + { + "id": "one_honest_sentence", + "text": "One honest sentence" + }, + { + "id": "no_grand_gesture_required", + "text": "No grand gesture required" + }, + { + "id": "room_for_the_other_person_to_respond", + "text": "Room for the other person to respond" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_031", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes forgiveness feel possible?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes being heard feel different from being agreed with?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "forgiveness", - "repair", + "listening", + "difference", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "my_point_is_stated_fairly", + "text": "My point is stated fairly" + }, + { + "id": "my_feelings_are_treated_as_real", + "text": "My feelings are treated as real" + }, + { + "id": "questions_replace_persuasion", + "text": "Questions replace persuasion" + }, + { + "id": "the_disagreement_stays_respectful", + "text": "The disagreement stays respectful" + }, + { + "id": "no_one_demands_the_same_conclusion", + "text": "No one demands the same conclusion" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "my_point_is_stated_fairly", + "text": "My point is stated fairly" + }, + { + "id": "my_feelings_are_treated_as_real", + "text": "My feelings are treated as real" + }, + { + "id": "questions_replace_persuasion", + "text": "Questions replace persuasion" + }, + { + "id": "the_disagreement_stays_respectful", + "text": "The disagreement stays respectful" + }, + { + "id": "no_one_demands_the_same_conclusion", + "text": "No one demands the same conclusion" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_032", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes accountability feel loving instead of shaming?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Would you rather start with understanding or solutions?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "accountability", - "shame", + "repair_style", + "quick_choice", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "understanding_first", + "text": "Understanding first" + }, + { + "id": "solutions_first", + "text": "Solutions first" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "understanding_first", + "text": "Understanding first" + }, + { + "id": "solutions_first", + "text": "Solutions first" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_033", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one repair habit we could practice this week?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When you are explaining what happened, what helps you keep going?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "habits", - "weekly", + "listening", + "support", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_interrupting", + "text": "No interrupting" + }, + { + "id": "a_face_that_stays_open", + "text": "A face that stays open" + }, + { + "id": "questions_that_seek_clarity", + "text": "Questions that seek clarity" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_find_the_right_words", + "text": "Time to find the right words" + }, + { + "id": "hearing_a_fair_summary_afterward", + "text": "Hearing a fair summary afterward" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_interrupting", + "text": "No interrupting" + }, + { + "id": "a_face_that_stays_open", + "text": "A face that stays open" + }, + { + "id": "questions_that_seek_clarity", + "text": "Questions that seek clarity" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_find_the_right_words", + "text": "Time to find the right words" + }, + { + "id": "hearing_a_fair_summary_afterward", + "text": "Hearing a fair summary afterward" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_034", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does a good restart sound like after a rough moment?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When explaining hurt, what keeps it from feeling like a case?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "restart", - "phrases", + "hurt", + "expression", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "starting_with_the_clearest_moment", + "text": "Starting with the clearest moment" + }, + { + "id": "using_ordinary_words", + "text": "Using ordinary words" + }, + { + "id": "not_having_to_prove_every_detail", + "text": "Not having to prove every detail" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_questions_will_be_gentle", + "text": "Knowing questions will be gentle" + }, + { + "id": "taking_breaks_when_the_story_gets_tangled", + "text": "Taking breaks when the story gets tangled" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "starting_with_the_clearest_moment", + "text": "Starting with the clearest moment" + }, + { + "id": "using_ordinary_words", + "text": "Using ordinary words" + }, + { + "id": "not_having_to_prove_every_detail", + "text": "Not having to prove every detail" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_questions_will_be_gentle", + "text": "Knowing questions will be gentle" + }, + { + "id": "taking_breaks_when_the_story_gets_tangled", + "text": "Taking breaks when the story gets tangled" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_035", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us laugh gently after tension without dismissing the issue?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you believe that your hurt is taken seriously?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "humor", - "repair", + "belief", + "validation", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "their_reaction_is_not_mocked", + "text": "Their reaction is not mocked" + }, + { + "id": "details_are_not_cross_examined", + "text": "Details are not cross-examined" + }, + { + "id": "the_impact_is_accepted_as_real", + "text": "The impact is accepted as real" + }, + { + "id": "uncertainty_is_admitted_honestly", + "text": "Uncertainty is admitted honestly" + }, + { + "id": "the_listener_stays_present", + "text": "The listener stays present" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "their_reaction_is_not_mocked", + "text": "Their reaction is not mocked" + }, + { + "id": "details_are_not_cross_examined", + "text": "Details are not cross-examined" + }, + { + "id": "the_impact_is_accepted_as_real", + "text": "The impact is accepted as real" + }, + { + "id": "uncertainty_is_admitted_honestly", + "text": "Uncertainty is admitted honestly" + }, + { + "id": "the_listener_stays_present", + "text": "The listener stays present" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_036", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you wish I understood about your conflict style?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which response helps you feel heard before anything else?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "conflict_style", - "understanding", + "listening", + "validation", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_understand_what_hurt", + "text": "“I understand what hurt.”" + }, + { + "id": "tell_me_the_part_i_am_missing", + "text": "“Tell me the part I am missing.”" + }, + { + "id": "i_can_see_why_that_landed_badly", + "text": "“I can see why that landed badly.”" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_listening_before_i_answer", + "text": "“I am listening before I answer.”" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_understand_what_hurt", + "text": "“I understand what hurt.”" + }, + { + "id": "tell_me_the_part_i_am_missing", + "text": "“Tell me the part I am missing.”" + }, + { + "id": "i_can_see_why_that_landed_badly", + "text": "“I can see why that landed badly.”" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_listening_before_i_answer", + "text": "“I am listening before I answer.”" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_037", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you want me to do less during conflict?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What do you need most when I misunderstood your point?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "change", + "misunderstanding", + "clarification", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_fresh_question", + "text": "A fresh question" + }, + { + "id": "a_chance_to_say_it_differently", + "text": "A chance to say it differently" + }, + { + "id": "my_words_repeated_back_more_carefully", + "text": "My words repeated back more carefully" + }, + { + "id": "a_pause_before_either_of_us_responds", + "text": "A pause before either of us responds" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_fresh_question", + "text": "A fresh question" + }, + { + "id": "a_chance_to_say_it_differently", + "text": "A chance to say it differently" + }, + { + "id": "my_words_repeated_back_more_carefully", + "text": "My words repeated back more carefully" + }, + { + "id": "a_pause_before_either_of_us_responds", + "text": "A pause before either of us responds" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_038", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you want me to do more during repair?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which reactions make it harder to talk about hurt?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", - "change", + "hurt", + "defensiveness", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "debating_the_exact_wording", + "text": "Debating the exact wording" + }, + { + "id": "intent_explained_too_soon", + "text": "Intent explained too soon" + }, + { + "id": "comparing_it_with_another_mistake", + "text": "Comparing it with another mistake" + }, + { + "id": "the_listeners_guilt_takes_over", + "text": "The listener’s guilt takes over" + }, + { + "id": "rushing_toward_a_solution", + "text": "Rushing toward a solution" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "debating_the_exact_wording", + "text": "Debating the exact wording" + }, + { + "id": "intent_explained_too_soon", + "text": "Intent explained too soon" + }, + { + "id": "comparing_it_with_another_mistake", + "text": "Comparing it with another mistake" + }, + { + "id": "the_listeners_guilt_takes_over", + "text": "The listener’s guilt takes over" + }, + { + "id": "rushing_toward_a_solution", + "text": "Rushing toward a solution" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_039", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel heard without needing to repeat yourself?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one thing you wish I understood about how you experience hurt?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening", - "heard", + "hurt", + "understanding", "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { @@ -647,573 +2047,1736 @@ { "id": "conflict_repair_040", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you listen even when you feel defensive?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "After you feel understood, what usually helps next?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "defensiveness", - "listening", + "next_step", + "reconnection", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_little_quiet", + "text": "A little quiet" + }, + { + "id": "a_practical_change", + "text": "A practical change" + }, + { + "id": "some_reassurance", + "text": "Some reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "a_lighter_moment_together", + "text": "A lighter moment together" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_let_the_conversation_settle", + "text": "Time to let the conversation settle" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_little_quiet", + "text": "A little quiet" + }, + { + "id": "a_practical_change", + "text": "A practical change" + }, + { + "id": "some_reassurance", + "text": "Some reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "a_lighter_moment_together", + "text": "A lighter moment together" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_let_the_conversation_settle", + "text": "Time to let the conversation settle" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_041", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes repair feel like love in action?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can we disagree about details without dismissing the pain?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "love", - "repair", + "details", + "validation", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "separate_memory_from_impact", + "text": "Separate memory from impact" + }, + { + "id": "use_i_remember_it_differently_calmly", + "text": "Use “I remember it differently” calmly" + }, + { + "id": "agree_on_what_does_not_need_debate", + "text": "Agree on what does not need debate" + }, + { + "id": "leave_room_for_two_perspectives", + "text": "Leave room for two perspectives" + }, + { + "id": "keep_the_focus_on_repair", + "text": "Keep the focus on repair" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "separate_memory_from_impact", + "text": "Separate memory from impact" + }, + { + "id": "use_i_remember_it_differently_calmly", + "text": "Use “I remember it differently” calmly" + }, + { + "id": "agree_on_what_does_not_need_debate", + "text": "Agree on what does not need debate" + }, + { + "id": "leave_room_for_two_perspectives", + "text": "Leave room for two perspectives" + }, + { + "id": "keep_the_focus_on_repair", + "text": "Keep the focus on repair" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_042", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small peace offering that works for you?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a summary of your side feel accurate?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "peace_offering", - "repair", + "listening", + "summary", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_feeling_is_included", + "text": "The feeling is included" + }, + { + "id": "the_key_event_stays_specific", + "text": "The key event stays specific" + }, + { + "id": "my_intent_is_not_rewritten", + "text": "My intent is not rewritten" + }, + { + "id": "the_part_that_mattered_most_is_named", + "text": "The part that mattered most is named" + }, + { + "id": "i_can_correct_it_without_another_debate", + "text": "I can correct it without another debate" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_feeling_is_included", + "text": "The feeling is included" + }, + { + "id": "the_key_event_stays_specific", + "text": "The key event stays specific" + }, + { + "id": "my_intent_is_not_rewritten", + "text": "My intent is not rewritten" + }, + { + "id": "the_part_that_mattered_most_is_named", + "text": "The part that mattered most is named" + }, + { + "id": "i_can_correct_it_without_another_debate", + "text": "I can correct it without another debate" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_043", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you know I still love you during conflict?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How confident are you that your hurt will be taken seriously here?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "love", - "reassurance", + "hurt", + "emotional_safety", "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not confident yet", + "max_label": "Very confident" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_044", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can end a hard talk gently?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which question would help uncover the part that still hurts?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "ending", - "gentleness", + "hurt", + "clarity", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "which_part_keeps_replaying", + "text": "“Which part keeps replaying?”" + }, + { + "id": "what_did_you_need_from_me_then", + "text": "“What did you need from me then?”" + }, + { + "id": "is_anything_still_unfinished", + "text": "“Is anything still unfinished?”" + }, + { + "id": "where_do_you_feel_least_understood", + "text": "“Where do you feel least understood?”" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "which_part_keeps_replaying", + "text": "“Which part keeps replaying?”" + }, + { + "id": "what_did_you_need_from_me_then", + "text": "“What did you need from me then?”" + }, + { + "id": "is_anything_still_unfinished", + "text": "“Is anything still unfinished?”" + }, + { + "id": "where_do_you_feel_least_understood", + "text": "“Where do you feel least understood?”" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_045", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us repair faster next time?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How do you stay open when the feedback is hard to hear?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "future", - "repair", + "listening", + "defensiveness", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "remember_that_impact_matters", + "text": "Remember that impact matters" + }, + { + "id": "quietly_take_in_the_point", + "text": "Quietly take in the point" + }, + { + "id": "ask_for_one_example", + "text": "Ask for one example" + }, + { + "id": "a_breath_before_answering", + "text": "A breath before answering" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_there_will_be_time_to_respond_later", + "text": "Knowing there will be time to respond later" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "remember_that_impact_matters", + "text": "Remember that impact matters" + }, + { + "id": "quietly_take_in_the_point", + "text": "Quietly take in the point" + }, + { + "id": "ask_for_one_example", + "text": "Ask for one example" + }, + { + "id": "a_breath_before_answering", + "text": "A breath before answering" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_there_will_be_time_to_respond_later", + "text": "Knowing there will be time to respond later" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_046", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps an apology feel honest instead of forced?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which phrases help separate a mistake from the whole person?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", - "accountability", - "honesty", + "mistakes", + "identity", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "that_choice_hurt_me", + "text": "“That choice hurt me.”" + }, + { + "id": "this_is_about_what_happened_not_your_worth", + "text": "“This is about what happened, not your worth.”" + }, + { + "id": "i_know_this_is_not_all_of_who_you_are", + "text": "“I know this is not all of who you are.”" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_address_this_without_tearing_you_down", + "text": "“We can address this without tearing you down.”" + }, + { + "id": "i_need_change_not_self_punishment", + "text": "“I need change, not self-punishment.”" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "that_choice_hurt_me", + "text": "“That choice hurt me.”" + }, + { + "id": "this_is_about_what_happened_not_your_worth", + "text": "“This is about what happened, not your worth.”" + }, + { + "id": "i_know_this_is_not_all_of_who_you_are", + "text": "“I know this is not all of who you are.”" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_address_this_without_tearing_you_down", + "text": "“We can address this without tearing you down.”" + }, + { + "id": "i_need_change_not_self_punishment", + "text": "“I need change, not self-punishment.”" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_047", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes an apology feel safe enough to try again?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can we do when an honest apology still feels incomplete?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "apology", - "accountability", - "safety", + "unfinished_repair", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_what_remains_unaddressed", + "text": "Ask what remains unaddressed" + }, + { + "id": "accept_that_more_time_may_be_needed", + "text": "Accept that more time may be needed" + }, + { + "id": "make_the_next_action_clearer", + "text": "Make the next action clearer" + }, + { + "id": "return_to_the_conversation_later", + "text": "Return to the conversation later" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_forcing_a_better_emotional_response", + "text": "Avoid forcing a better emotional response" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_what_remains_unaddressed", + "text": "Ask what remains unaddressed" + }, + { + "id": "accept_that_more_time_may_be_needed", + "text": "Accept that more time may be needed" + }, + { + "id": "make_the_next_action_clearer", + "text": "Make the next action clearer" + }, + { + "id": "return_to_the_conversation_later", + "text": "Return to the conversation later" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_forcing_a_better_emotional_response", + "text": "Avoid forcing a better emotional response" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_048", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should I remember when we are dealing with apology?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much does tone affect your ability to take responsibility?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", "accountability", - "understanding", + "tone", "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Only a little", + "max_label": "A great deal" } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_049", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us handle apology more gently?", - "depth": 5, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "If the same mistake happens again, what response helps most?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", - "accountability", - "boundaries", + "repeated_mistake", + "response", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_the_pattern_without_exaggerating", + "text": "Name the pattern without exaggerating" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_blocked_the_earlier_plan", + "text": "Ask what blocked the earlier plan" + }, + { + "id": "decide_whether_the_agreement_needs_changing", + "text": "Decide whether the agreement needs changing" + }, + { + "id": "set_a_clearer_next_step", + "text": "Set a clearer next step" + }, + { + "id": "take_more_time_before_calling_it_repaired", + "text": "Take more time before calling it repaired" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_the_pattern_without_exaggerating", + "text": "Name the pattern without exaggerating" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_blocked_the_earlier_plan", + "text": "Ask what blocked the earlier plan" + }, + { + "id": "decide_whether_the_agreement_needs_changing", + "text": "Decide whether the agreement needs changing" + }, + { + "id": "set_a_clearer_next_step", + "text": "Set a clearer next step" + }, + { + "id": "take_more_time_before_calling_it_repaired", + "text": "Take more time before calling it repaired" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_050", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What small action would help repair apology between us?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which reminder would help you stay accountable during repair?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", "accountability", - "small_actions", + "self_reminder", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "impact_matters_even_without_bad_intent", + "text": "Impact matters even without bad intent" + }, + { + "id": "listening_is_not_the_same_as_agreeing", + "text": "Listening is not the same as agreeing" + }, + { + "id": "an_explanation_can_wait", + "text": "An explanation can wait" + }, + { + "id": "repair_matters_more_than_looking_right", + "text": "Repair matters more than looking right" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "impact_matters_even_without_bad_intent", + "text": "Impact matters even without bad intent" + }, + { + "id": "listening_is_not_the_same_as_agreeing", + "text": "Listening is not the same as agreeing" + }, + { + "id": "an_explanation_can_wait", + "text": "An explanation can wait" + }, + { + "id": "repair_matters_more_than_looking_right", + "text": "Repair matters more than looking right" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_051", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes an apology feel like teamwork instead of blame?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What turns accountability into scorekeeping between the two of us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", - "accountability", - "teamwork", - "blame", + "scorekeeping", + "missteps", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_list_of_unrelated_past_mistakes", + "text": "A list of unrelated past mistakes" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_a_running_total", + "text": "Keeping a running total" + }, + { + "id": "one_apology_used_as_leverage", + "text": "One apology used as leverage" + }, + { + "id": "comparing_whose_harm_was_worse", + "text": "Comparing whose harm was worse" + }, + { + "id": "equal_pain_demanded_before_moving_on", + "text": "Equal pain demanded before moving on" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_list_of_unrelated_past_mistakes", + "text": "A list of unrelated past mistakes" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_a_running_total", + "text": "Keeping a running total" + }, + { + "id": "one_apology_used_as_leverage", + "text": "One apology used as leverage" + }, + { + "id": "comparing_whose_harm_was_worse", + "text": "Comparing whose harm was worse" + }, + { + "id": "equal_pain_demanded_before_moving_on", + "text": "Equal pain demanded before moving on" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_052", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us bring more softness to apology?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Private reflection first or talking it through first?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "apology", - "accountability", - "softness", + "accountability_style", + "quick_choice", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_reflection_first", + "text": "Private reflection first" + }, + { + "id": "talking_it_through_first", + "text": "Talking it through first" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_reflection_first", + "text": "Private reflection first" + }, + { + "id": "talking_it_through_first", + "text": "Talking it through first" + } + ] } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_053", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps being heard feel honest instead of forced?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a request for change feel reasonable?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "listening", - "heard", - "honesty", + "change", + "fairness", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_addresses_one_behavior", + "text": "It addresses one behavior" + }, + { + "id": "the_request_is_possible_to_follow", + "text": "The request is possible to follow" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_understand_why_it_matters", + "text": "Both people understand why it matters" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_room_to_negotiate_the_method", + "text": "There is room to negotiate the method" + }, + { + "id": "progress_counts_even_when_it_is_imperfect", + "text": "Progress counts even when it is 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"Keep necessary kindness intact" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "conflict_repair_073", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us bring more softness to coming back?", + "text": "What would make taking space feel safer and more reliable between us?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "return", - "repair", - "softness", + "space", + "reliability", "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1223,3627 +3786,372 @@ { "id": "conflict_repair_074", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps defensiveness feel honest instead of forced?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps space feel restorative rather than punishing?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "defensiveness", - "self_awareness", - "honesty", + "space", + "restoration", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_hostile_silence", + "text": "No hostile silence" + }, + 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"category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we repair privately?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hurt_feelings", - "text": "Hurt feelings" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "intimacy", - "text": "Intimacy" - }, - { - "id": "old_patterns", - "text": "Old patterns" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_205", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes forgiveness easier over time?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "forgiveness", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "changed_action", - "text": "Changed action" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "no_rushing", - "text": "No rushing" - }, - { - "id": 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"conflict_repair_209", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps repair feel loving?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "love", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "softness", - "text": "Softness" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "accountability", - "text": "Accountability" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_touch", - "text": "Gentle touch" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_210", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us do better next time?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_plan", - "text": "Clear plan" - }, - { - "id": "one_change", - "text": "One change" - }, - { - "id": "notice_early", - "text": "Notice early" - }, - { - "id": "practice_phrase", - "text": "Practice phrase" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_later", - "text": "Check in later" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_211", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does repair feel between us lately?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "safety", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_212", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to apologize honestly?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "apology", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_213", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to pause before things get worse?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "pause", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_214", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How heard do you feel during repair?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "listening", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not heard", - "max_label": "Very heard" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_215", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How quickly do we usually come back together?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "return", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Slowly", - "max_label": "Quickly" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_216", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does tone affect 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defensiveness shows up between us?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "defensiveness", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_220", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we handle old patterns?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "patterns", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_221", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much trust do you feel after conflict?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "trust", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Low", - "max_label": "High" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_222", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do timeouts work for us?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "timeout", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not well", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_223", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to forgive after repair?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "forgiveness", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_224", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we stay on the same team during conflict?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_225", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you asking for a restart?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "restart", + "readiness", "conflict_repair" ], "answer_config": { @@ -4854,544 +4162,3607 @@ } }, { - "id": "conflict_repair_226", + "id": "conflict_repair_082", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we avoid bringing up old pain unfairly?", - "depth": 5, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should happen before physical affection after conflict?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "past", + "affection", + "consent", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_rather_than_assume", + "text": "Ask rather than assume" + }, + { + "id": "notice_whether_the_body_has_relaxed", + "text": "Notice whether the body has relaxed" + }, + { + "id": "accept_a_no_without_taking_it_personally", + "text": "Accept a no without taking it personally" + }, + { + "id": "choose_a_smaller_gesture_if_unsure", + "text": "Choose a smaller gesture if unsure" + }, + { + "id": "let_affection_wait_when_words_are_unfinished", + "text": "Let affection wait when words are unfinished" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_rather_than_assume", + "text": "Ask rather than assume" + }, + { + "id": "notice_whether_the_body_has_relaxed", + "text": "Notice whether the body has relaxed" + }, + { + "id": "accept_a_no_without_taking_it_personally", + "text": "Accept a no without taking it personally" + }, + { + "id": "choose_a_smaller_gesture_if_unsure", + "text": "Choose a smaller gesture if unsure" + }, + { + "id": "let_affection_wait_when_words_are_unfinished", + "text": "Let affection wait when words are unfinished" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "conflict_repair_227", + "id": "conflict_repair_083", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would a gentler repair style help us?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which shared activity would help you reconnect after a tense day?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "shared_activity", + "reconnection", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_walk_without_solving_anything", + "text": "A walk without solving anything" + }, + { + "id": "cooking_something_easy", + "text": "Cooking something easy" + }, + { + "id": "one_episode_on_the_couch", + "text": "One episode on the couch" + }, + { + "id": "a_quiet_errand_together", + "text": "A quiet errand together" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_walk_without_solving_anything", + "text": "A walk without solving anything" + }, + { + "id": "cooking_something_easy", + "text": "Cooking something easy" + }, + { + "id": "one_episode_on_the_couch", + "text": "One episode on the couch" + }, + { + "id": "a_quiet_errand_together", + "text": "A quiet errand together" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_084", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps affection feel like care rather than a shortcut?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "affection", + "care", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_apology_came_first", + "text": "The apology came first" + }, + { + "id": "the_issue_was_not_brushed_aside", + "text": "The issue was not brushed aside" + }, + { + "id": "touch_matches_the_other_persons_comfort", + "text": "Touch matches the other person’s comfort" + }, + { + "id": "words_and_behavior_agree", + "text": "Words and behavior agree" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_time_to_reconnect_slowly", + "text": "There is time to reconnect slowly" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_apology_came_first", + "text": "The apology came first" + }, + { + "id": "the_issue_was_not_brushed_aside", + "text": "The issue was not brushed aside" + }, + { + "id": "touch_matches_the_other_persons_comfort", + "text": "Touch matches the other person’s comfort" + }, + { + "id": "words_and_behavior_agree", + "text": "Words and behavior agree" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_time_to_reconnect_slowly", + "text": "There is time to reconnect slowly" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_085", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can closeness return while some feelings are still unsettled?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "gentleness", + "reconnection", + "honesty", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "acknowledge_what_is_still_tender", + "text": "Acknowledge what is still tender" + }, + { + "id": "enjoy_a_small_normal_moment", + "text": "Enjoy a small normal moment" + }, + { + "id": "keep_affection_optional", + "text": "Keep affection optional" + }, + { + "id": "let_the_mood_improve_gradually", + "text": "Let the mood improve gradually" + 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}, - { - "id": "hug_first", - "text": "Hug first" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_238", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Space alone or quiet together?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "space", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "space_alone", - "text": "Space alone" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_together", - "text": "Quiet together" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_239", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Own your part or ask one question?", - "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "accountability", + "unfinished_issue", + "next_step", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "set_another_time_to_talk", + "text": "Set another time to talk" + }, + { + "id": "write_down_the_remaining_point", + "text": "Write down the remaining point" + }, + { + "id": "get_through_the_immediate_day_first", + "text": "Get through the 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"multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a repair plan realistic enough to follow?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "repair_plan", + "realistic_change", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_behavior_at_a_time", + "text": "One behavior at a time" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_example_of_the_new_response", + "text": "A clear example of the new response" + }, + { + "id": "a_plan_that_fits_ordinary_life", + "text": "A plan that fits ordinary life" + }, + { + "id": "room_to_notice_setbacks_early", + "text": "Room to notice setbacks early" + }, + { + "id": "a_date_to_check_progress", + "text": "A date to check progress" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_behavior_at_a_time", + "text": "One behavior at a time" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_example_of_the_new_response", + "text": "A clear example of the new response" + }, + { + "id": "a_plan_that_fits_ordinary_life", + "text": "A plan that fits ordinary life" + }, + { + "id": "room_to_notice_setbacks_early", + "text": "Room to notice setbacks early" + }, + { + "id": "a_date_to_check_progress", + "text": "A date to check progress" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_126", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How confident are you that our repair talks lead to real change?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "changed_behavior", + "confidence", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not confident yet", + "max_label": "Very confident" + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_127", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is the most useful response when we catch the pattern early?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "patterns", + "interruption", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_it_without_blame", + "text": "Name it without blame" + }, + { + "id": "use_the_agreed_pause", + "text": "Use the agreed pause" + }, + { + "id": "change_the_setting", + "text": "Change the setting" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_we_are_actually_trying_to_repair", + "text": "Ask what we are actually trying to repair" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "one_issue", - "text": "One issue" + "id": "name_it_without_blame", + "text": "Name it without blame" }, { - "id": "bigger_pattern", - "text": "Bigger pattern" + "id": "use_the_agreed_pause", + "text": "Use the agreed pause" + }, + { + "id": "change_the_setting", + "text": "Change the setting" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_we_are_actually_trying_to_repair", + "text": "Ask what we are actually trying to repair" } ] } }, { - "id": "conflict_repair_245", + "id": "conflict_repair_128", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Comfort touch or no touch yet?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a new repair habit become easier to remember?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "affection", + "habits", + "practice", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_the_habit_simple", + "text": "Keep the habit simple" + }, + { + "id": "use_it_during_small_tensions_first", + "text": "Use it during small tensions first" + }, + { + "id": "remind_each_other_without_ridicule", + "text": "Remind each other without ridicule" + }, + { + "id": "notice_when_it_works", + "text": "Notice when it works" + }, + { + "id": "adjust_it_after_a_real_test", + "text": "Adjust it after a real test" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "comfort_touch", - "text": "Comfort touch" + "id": "keep_the_habit_simple", + "text": "Keep the habit simple" }, { - "id": "no_touch_yet", - "text": "No touch yet" + "id": "use_it_during_small_tensions_first", + "text": "Use it during small tensions first" + }, + { + "id": "remind_each_other_without_ridicule", + "text": "Remind each other without ridicule" + }, + { + "id": "notice_when_it_works", + "text": "Notice when it works" + }, + { + "id": "adjust_it_after_a_real_test", + "text": "Adjust it after a real test" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "conflict_repair_246", + "id": "conflict_repair_129", "category_id": "conflict_repair", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Name the hurt or name the need?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Would one firm agreement or a flexible experiment work better?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hurt", + "repair_plan_style", + "quick_choice", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_firm_agreement", + "text": "One firm agreement" + }, + { + "id": "a_flexible_experiment", + "text": "A flexible experiment" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "name_hurt", - "text": "Name the hurt" + "id": "one_firm_agreement", + "text": "One firm agreement" }, { - "id": "name_need", - "text": "Name the need" + "id": "a_flexible_experiment", + "text": "A flexible experiment" } ] } }, { - "id": "conflict_repair_247", + "id": "conflict_repair_130", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Reset with humor or reset with quiet?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When should a repair plan involve outside help?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reset", + "support", + "limits", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_same_harm_keeps_escalating", + "text": "The same harm keeps escalating" + }, + { + "id": "neither_person_feels_safe_talking", + "text": "Neither person feels safe talking" + }, + { + "id": "promises_repeatedly_collapse", + "text": "Promises repeatedly collapse" + }, + { + "id": "the_conflict_affects_daily_functioning", + "text": "The conflict affects daily functioning" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_want_more_support_than_the_app_can_offer", + "text": "Both people want more support than the app can offer" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" + "id": "the_same_harm_keeps_escalating", + "text": "The same harm keeps escalating" }, { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" + "id": "neither_person_feels_safe_talking", + "text": "Neither person feels safe talking" + }, + { + "id": "promises_repeatedly_collapse", + "text": "Promises repeatedly collapse" + }, + { + "id": "the_conflict_affects_daily_functioning", + "text": "The conflict affects daily functioning" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_want_more_support_than_the_app_can_offer", + "text": "Both people want more support than the app can offer" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_131", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can we review a repair agreement without making it a performance score?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "review", + "progress", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_about_what_helped", + "text": "Talk about what helped" + }, + { + "id": "name_obstacles_honestly", + "text": "Name obstacles honestly" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_grading_each_other", + "text": "Avoid grading each other" + }, + { + "id": "revise_the_agreement_together", + "text": "Revise the agreement together" + }, + { + "id": "keep_one_next_step", + "text": "Keep one next step" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_about_what_helped", + "text": "Talk about what helped" + }, + { + "id": "name_obstacles_honestly", + "text": "Name obstacles honestly" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_grading_each_other", + "text": "Avoid grading each other" + }, + { + "id": "revise_the_agreement_together", + "text": "Revise the agreement together" + }, + { + "id": "keep_one_next_step", + "text": "Keep one next step" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_132", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps when one of us forgets the new plan in the moment?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "setback", + "repair_plan", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_a_neutral_reminder_word", + "text": "Use a neutral reminder word" + }, + { + "id": "pause_before_correcting_the_delivery", + "text": "Pause before correcting the delivery" + }, + { + "id": "try_the_new_response_immediately", + "text": "Try the new response immediately" + }, + { + "id": "talk_about_the_miss_after_things_settle", + "text": "Talk about the miss after things settle" + }, + { + "id": "treat_one_slip_as_information_not_proof", + "text": "Treat one slip as information, not proof" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_a_neutral_reminder_word", + "text": "Use a neutral reminder word" + }, + { + "id": "pause_before_correcting_the_delivery", + "text": "Pause before correcting the delivery" + }, + { + "id": "try_the_new_response_immediately", + "text": "Try the new response immediately" + }, + { + "id": "talk_about_the_miss_after_things_settle", + "text": "Talk about the miss after things settle" + }, + { + "id": "treat_one_slip_as_information_not_proof", + "text": "Treat one slip as information, not proof" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_133", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which sign would show that we are repairing faster over time?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "progress", + "repair_speed", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_notice_tension_sooner", + "text": "We notice tension sooner" + }, + { + "id": "apologies_need_less_prompting", + "text": "Apologies need less prompting" + }, + { + "id": "breaks_have_reliable_returns", + "text": "Breaks have reliable returns" + }, + { + "id": "the_same_issue_takes_fewer_rounds", + "text": "The same issue takes fewer rounds" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_notice_tension_sooner", + "text": "We notice tension sooner" + }, + { + "id": "apologies_need_less_prompting", + "text": "Apologies need less prompting" + }, + { + "id": "breaks_have_reliable_returns", + "text": "Breaks have reliable returns" + }, + { + "id": "the_same_issue_takes_fewer_rounds", + "text": "The same issue takes fewer rounds" } ] } }, { - "id": "conflict_repair_248", + "id": "conflict_repair_134", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Fix now or understand first?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When the new behavior feels awkward, what helps us keep trying?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "understanding", + "practice", + "awkwardness", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "expect_it_to_sound_imperfect", + "text": "Expect it to sound imperfect" + }, + { + "id": "praise_the_attempt_without_overdoing_it", + "text": "Praise the attempt without overdoing it" + }, + { + "id": "correct_gently", + "text": "Correct gently" + }, + { + "id": "remember_why_the_change_matters", + "text": "Remember why the change matters" + }, + { + "id": "use_humor_only_when_both_feel_safe", + "text": "Use humor only when both feel safe" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "fix_now", - "text": "Fix now" + "id": "expect_it_to_sound_imperfect", + "text": "Expect it to sound imperfect" }, { - "id": "understand_first", - "text": "Understand first" + "id": "praise_the_attempt_without_overdoing_it", + "text": "Praise the attempt without overdoing it" + }, + { + "id": "correct_gently", + "text": "Correct gently" + }, + { + "id": "remember_why_the_change_matters", + "text": "Remember why the change matters" + }, + { + "id": "use_humor_only_when_both_feel_safe", + "text": "Use humor only when both feel safe" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_135", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which early signs tell us the old pattern is returning?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "patterns", + "early_signs", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_same_phrases_appear", + "text": "The same phrases appear" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_starts_chasing_an_ending", + "text": "One person starts chasing an ending" + }, + { + "id": "the_issue_spreads_to_unrelated_topics", + "text": "The issue spreads to unrelated topics" + }, + { + "id": "a_pause_becomes_impossible", + "text": "A pause becomes impossible" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_predict_the_next_line", + "text": "Both people predict the next line" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_same_phrases_appear", + "text": "The same phrases appear" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_starts_chasing_an_ending", + "text": "One person starts chasing an ending" + }, + { + "id": "the_issue_spreads_to_unrelated_topics", + "text": "The issue spreads to unrelated topics" + }, + { + "id": "a_pause_becomes_impossible", + "text": "A pause becomes impossible" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_predict_the_next_line", + "text": "Both people predict the next line" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_136", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How proud are you of the way we repair compared with a year ago?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "progress", + "reflection", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not proud yet", + "max_label": "Very proud" + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_137", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "A regular repair check-in or only when something happens?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "repair_routine", + "quick_choice", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_regular_repair_check_in", + "text": "A regular repair check-in" + }, + { + "id": "only_when_something_happens", + "text": "Only when something happens" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_regular_repair_check_in", + "text": "A regular repair check-in" + }, + { + "id": "only_when_something_happens", + "text": "Only when something happens" } ] } }, { - "id": "conflict_repair_249", + "id": "conflict_repair_138", "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Gentle reminder or direct boundary?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "conflict_repair" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_reminder", - "text": "Gentle reminder" - }, - { - "id": "direct_boundary", - "text": "Direct boundary" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "conflict_repair_250", - "category_id": "conflict_repair", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Fresh start or deeper repair?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps repair feel like something we do together?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "teamwork", "repair", "conflict_repair" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_people_can_ask_for_a_restart", + "text": "Both people can ask for a restart" + }, + { + "id": "the_plan_is_not_one_sided", + "text": "The plan is not one-sided" + }, + { + "id": "each_persons_pace_matters", + "text": "Each person’s pace matters" + }, + { + "id": "we_share_responsibility_for_the_tone", + "text": "We share responsibility for the tone" + }, + { + "id": "success_is_defined_together", + "text": "Success is defined together" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "fresh_start", - "text": "Fresh start" + "id": "both_people_can_ask_for_a_restart", + "text": "Both people can ask for a restart" }, { - "id": "deeper_repair", - "text": "Deeper repair" + "id": "the_plan_is_not_one_sided", + "text": "The plan is not one-sided" + }, + { + "id": "each_persons_pace_matters", + "text": "Each person’s pace matters" + }, + { + "id": "we_share_responsibility_for_the_tone", + "text": "We share responsibility for the tone" + }, + { + "id": "success_is_defined_together", + "text": "Success is defined together" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_139", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When would this pack feel genuinely useful to us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "pack_feedback", + "usefulness", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_learn_each_others_repair_preferences", + "text": "We learn each other’s repair preferences" + }, + { + "id": "one_question_gives_us_a_better_phrase", + "text": "One question gives us a better phrase" + }, + { + "id": "a_new_agreement_works_in_real_life", + "text": "A new agreement works in real life" + }, + { + "id": "we_feel_less_alone_after_conflict", + "text": "We feel less alone after conflict" + }, + { + "id": "the_answers_are_easy_to_compare", + "text": "The answers are easy to compare" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_learn_each_others_repair_preferences", + "text": "We learn each other’s repair preferences" + }, + { + "id": "one_question_gives_us_a_better_phrase", + "text": "One question gives us a better phrase" + }, + { + "id": "a_new_agreement_works_in_real_life", + "text": "A new agreement works in real life" + }, + { + "id": "we_feel_less_alone_after_conflict", + "text": "We feel less alone after conflict" + }, + { + "id": "the_answers_are_easy_to_compare", + "text": "The answers are easy to compare" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_140", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should remain true even when repair is difficult?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "safety", + "core_values", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_one_owes_instant_forgiveness", + "text": "No one owes instant forgiveness" + }, + { + "id": "affection_stays_optional", + "text": "Affection stays optional" + }, + { + "id": "privacy_and_independence_still_matter", + "text": "Privacy and independence still matter" + }, + { + "id": "cruelty_is_not_part_of_honesty", + "text": "Cruelty is not part of honesty" + }, + { + "id": "either_person_can_step_back_from_an_unsafe_exchange", + "text": "Either person can step back from an unsafe exchange" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_one_owes_instant_forgiveness", + "text": "No one owes instant forgiveness" + }, + { + "id": "affection_stays_optional", + "text": "Affection stays optional" + }, + { + "id": "privacy_and_independence_still_matter", + "text": "Privacy and independence still matter" + }, + { + "id": "cruelty_is_not_part_of_honesty", + "text": "Cruelty is not part of honesty" + }, + { + "id": "either_person_can_step_back_from_an_unsafe_exchange", + "text": "Either person can step back from an unsafe exchange" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "conflict_repair_141", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which sentence would make a good repair ritual for us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "ritual", + "repair_language", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_can_be_upset_and_still_be_a_team", + "text": "“We can be upset and still be a team.”" + }, + { + "id": "lets_understand_before_we_decide", + "text": "“Let’s understand before we decide.”" + }, + { + "id": "we_do_not_have_to_finish_this_badly", + "text": "“We do not have to finish this badly.”" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_try_this_part_again", + "text": "“We can try this part again.”" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_can_be_upset_and_still_be_a_team", + "text": "“We can be upset and still be a team.”" + }, + { + "id": "lets_understand_before_we_decide", + "text": "“Let’s understand 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"conflict_repair_146", + "category_id": "conflict_repair", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What deserves appreciation after a hard repair conversation?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "appreciation", + "repair", + "conflict_repair" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_courage_to_return", + "text": "The courage to return" + }, + { + "id": "honesty_that_stayed_respectful", + "text": "Honesty that stayed respectful" + }, + { + "id": "a_real_apology", + "text": "A real apology" + }, + { + "id": "patience_with_different_speeds", + "text": "Patience with different speeds" + }, + { + "id": "following_through_afterward", + "text": "Following through afterward" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_courage_to_return", + "text": "The courage to return" + }, + { + "id": "honesty_that_stayed_respectful", + "text": "Honesty that stayed respectful" + }, + { + "id": "a_real_apology", + "text": "A real apology" + }, + { + "id": 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"depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "hugs", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_stop_and_notice_each_other", - "text": "We stop and notice each other" - }, - { - "id": "we_trade_a_private_joke", - "text": "We trade a private joke" - }, - { - "id": "we_share_what_we_missed", - "text": "We share what we missed" - }, - { - "id": "we_do_not_rush_past_it", - "text": "We do not rush past it" - }, - { - "id": "it_fits_the_day_we_had", - "text": "It fits the day we had" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_010", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the welcome-home moment that would feel sweetest.", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "surprise_kiss", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_full_attention_hello", - "text": "A full-attention hello" - }, - { - "id": "a_few_quiet_minutes", - "text": "A few quiet minutes" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_recap_of_the_day", - "text": "A playful recap of the day" - }, - { - "id": "making_a_plan_for_the_evening", - "text": "Making a plan for the evening" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_011", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps romantic attention warm without becoming automatic?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "intentional_affection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "changing_the_timing", - "text": "Changing the timing" - }, - { - "id": "being_specific", - "text": "Being specific" - }, - { - "id": "noticing_the_other_person_s_mood", - "text": "Noticing the other person’s mood" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_it_instead_of_assuming_it", - "text": "Choosing it instead of assuming it" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_pressure_out_of_it", - "text": "Keeping pressure out of it" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_012", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do our everyday couple rituals feel lately?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "affection_check", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very connected", - "max_label": "Very connected" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_013", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which ordinary moments could use more couple attention?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "daily_moments", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "morning_routines", - "text": "Morning routines" - }, - { - "id": "coming_home", - "text": "Coming home" - }, - { - "id": "meals_together", - "text": "Meals together" - }, - { - "id": "screen_time", - "text": "Screen time" - }, - { - "id": "getting_ready_for_bed", - "text": "Getting ready for bed" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_014", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps closeness feel satisfying even when sex is not the goal?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "nonsexual_affection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "time_without_pressure", - "text": "Time without pressure" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_chosen", - "text": "Feeling chosen" - }, - { - "id": "honest_conversation", - "text": "Honest conversation" - }, - { - "id": "shared_laughter", - "text": "Shared laughter" - }, - { - "id": "ending_warmly", - "text": "Ending warmly" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_015", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which playful energy makes affection more fun?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "playfulness", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_jokes", - "text": "Private jokes" - }, - { - "id": "playful_challenges", - "text": "Playful challenges" - }, - { - "id": "silly_compliments", - "text": "Silly compliments" - }, - { - "id": "unexpected_dancing", - "text": "Unexpected dancing" - }, - { - "id": "teasing_that_stays_kind", - "text": "Teasing that stays kind" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_016", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the flirty signal that feels most naturally ours.", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_knowing_look", - "text": "A knowing look" - }, - { - "id": "a_bold_compliment", - "text": "A bold compliment" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_text", - "text": "A playful text" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_kiss_in_passing", - "text": "A slow kiss in passing" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_017", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does teasing feel exciting instead of annoying?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "teasing", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "a_warm_tone", - "text": "A warm tone" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_when_to_stop", - "text": "Knowing when to stop" - }, - { - "id": "flirting_back_and_forth", - "text": "Flirting back and forth" - }, - { - "id": "no_embarrassing_audience", - "text": "No embarrassing audience" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_018", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How playful does our affection feel right now?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "playful_affection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very playful", - "max_label": "Very playful" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_019", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What tiny games could make private time more fun?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "private_games", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_turns_choosing_music", - "text": "Take turns choosing music" - }, - { - "id": "trade_specific_compliments", - "text": "Trade specific compliments" - }, - { - "id": "guess_each_other_s_favorite_compliment", - "text": "Guess each other's favorite compliment" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_cozy_spot_together", - "text": "Choose a cozy spot together" - }, - { - "id": "create_a_private_signal", - "text": "Create a private signal" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_020", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of laughter feels most natural during intimate moments?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "laughter", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_giggles", - "text": "Soft giggles" - }, - { - "id": "big_shared_laughs", - "text": "Big shared laughs" - }, - { - "id": "laughing_through_an_awkward_moment", - "text": "Laughing through an awkward moment" - }, - { - "id": "very_little_unless_it_happens_naturally", - "text": "Very little unless it happens naturally" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_021", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which flirty messages would brighten your day?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "flirty_messages", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_specific_compliment", - "text": "A specific compliment" - }, - { - "id": "a_memory_of_last_night", - "text": "A memory of last night" - }, - { - "id": "a_simple_i_want_you", - "text": "A simple 'I want you'" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_invitation", - "text": "A playful invitation" - }, - { - "id": "an_inside_joke_with_a_hint", - "text": "An inside joke with a hint" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_022", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps a private game stay comfortable?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "game_safety", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "skipping_is_always_allowed", - "text": "Skipping is always allowed" - }, - { - "id": "rules_are_clear_first", - "text": "Rules are clear first" - }, - { - "id": "either_person_can_pause", - "text": "Either person can pause" - }, - { - "id": "the_mood_stays_kind", - "text": "The mood stays kind" - }, - { - "id": "no_surprise_escalation", - "text": "No surprise escalation" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_023", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one playful thing we have done that you would gladly repeat?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "playful_memory", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 400 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_024", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which forms of anticipation feel fun to you?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_flirty_text", - "text": "A flirty text" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_looks_across_a_room", - "text": "Knowing looks across a room" - }, - { - "id": "a_planned_private_night", - "text": "A planned private night" - }, - { - "id": "small_touches_during_the_day", - "text": "Small touches during the day" - }, - { - "id": "a_secret_countdown", - "text": "A secret countdown" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_025", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the playful invitation you would most enjoy hearing.", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "invitation", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "come_kiss_me", - "text": "Come kiss me" - }, - { - "id": "want_a_private_minute", - "text": "Want a private minute?" - }, - { - "id": "i_have_an_idea_for_us", - "text": "I have an idea for us" - }, - { - "id": "want_to_be_a_little_distracted", - "text": "Want to be a little distracted?" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_026", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What could make an at-home night feel flirtier?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "home_flirting", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dress_up_a_little", - "text": "Dress up a little" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_mood_playlist", - "text": "Choose a mood playlist" - }, - { - "id": "trade_bold_compliments", - "text": "Trade bold compliments" - }, - { - "id": "turn_off_the_television", - "text": "Turn off the television" - }, - { - "id": "make_dessert_together", - "text": "Make dessert together" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_027", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it for us to be silly without losing the mood?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "silliness", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not easy", - "max_label": "Very easy" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_028", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What small surprises would feel exciting?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "surprises", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_favorite_outfit", - "text": "A favorite outfit" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_note", - "text": "A private note" - }, - { - "id": "a_changed_up_setting", - "text": "A changed-up setting" - }, - { - "id": "a_new_playlist", - "text": "A new playlist" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_treat_waiting", - "text": "A favorite treat waiting" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_029", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does playful competition feel attractive rather than tense?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "competition", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "low_stakes", - "text": "Low stakes" - }, - { - "id": "lots_of_laughter", - "text": "Lots of laughter" - }, - { - "id": "no_keeping_score_afterward", - "text": "No keeping score afterward" - }, - { - "id": "a_shared_treat_afterward", - "text": "A shared treat afterward" - }, - { - "id": "easy_permission_to_quit", - "text": "Easy permission to quit" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_030", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you shift toward closeness after a heavy day?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "stress_relief", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_time_first", - "text": "Quiet time first" - }, - { - "id": "a_warm_shower", - "text": "A warm shower" - }, - { - "id": "help_with_one_task", - "text": "Help with one task" - }, - { - "id": "a_calm_conversation", - "text": "A calm conversation" - }, - { - "id": "no_fixed_plan", - "text": "No fixed plan" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_031", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the comfort that feels best before closeness.", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "comfort", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "having_space_first", - "text": "Having space first" - }, - { - "id": "talking_things_through", - "text": "Talking things through" - }, - { - "id": "a_drink_or_snack", - "text": "A drink or snack" - }, - { - "id": "a_little_playful_distraction", - "text": "A little playful distraction" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_032", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When stress is high, what kind of connection still feels welcome?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "stress_affection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_company", - "text": "Quiet company" - }, - { - "id": "a_brief_check_in", - "text": "A brief check-in" - }, - { - "id": "a_shared_laugh", - "text": "A shared laugh" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_together", - "text": "Sitting together" - }, - { - "id": "an_early_night", - "text": "An early night" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_033", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does stress affect your interest in intimacy?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "stress_effect", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hardly at all", - "max_label": "A great deal" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_034", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does closeness feel soothing rather than demanding?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "soothing_closeness", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_expectation_of_more", - "text": "No expectation of more" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_pace", - "text": "A slow pace" - }, - { - "id": "asking_before_touching", - "text": "Asking before touching" - }, - { - "id": "being_able_to_change_my_mind", - "text": "Being able to change my mind" - }, - { - "id": "a_check_in_if_i_tense_up", - "text": "A check-in if I tense up" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_035", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "After a draining day, what kind of connection sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "draining_day", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_time_together", - "text": "Quiet time together" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_moment", - "text": "A playful moment" - }, - { - "id": "a_meaningful_talk", - "text": "A meaningful talk" - }, - { - "id": "early_sleep_together", - "text": "Early sleep together" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_036", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What signs tell you that you need gentleness?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "gentleness_signals", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_become_quiet", - "text": "I become quiet" - }, - { - "id": "i_pull_away", - "text": "I pull away" - }, - { - "id": "i_ask_for_slower", - "text": "I ask for slower" - }, - { - "id": "my_body_feels_tense", - "text": "My body feels tense" - }, - { - "id": "i_stop_responding_playfully", - "text": "I stop responding playfully" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_037", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When you feel overwhelmed, what makes affection easier?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "overwhelm", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "fewer_questions", - "text": "Fewer questions" - }, - { - "id": "one_simple_choice", - "text": "One simple choice" - }, - { - "id": "low_lighting", - "text": "Low lighting" - }, - { - "id": "no_time_pressure", - "text": "No time pressure" - }, - { - "id": "a_clear_option_to_be_alone", - "text": "A clear option to be alone" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_038", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "written", - "text": "When you are stressed, what should I remember about closeness?", - "depth": 4, - "tags": [ - "stress_written", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 400 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_039", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you shift from responsibilities into couple time?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "transition", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "finishing_one_last_task", - "text": "Finishing one last task" - }, - { - "id": "changing_clothes", - "text": "Changing clothes" - }, - { - "id": "taking_ten_quiet_minutes", - "text": "Taking ten quiet minutes" - }, - { - "id": "sharing_a_snack", - "text": "Sharing a snack" - }, - { - "id": "starting_with_nonsexual_affection", - "text": "Starting with nonsexual affection" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_040", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which calming first step would you choose?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "calming_touch", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_quiet_room", - "text": "A quiet room" - }, - { - "id": "a_warm_drink", - "text": "A warm drink" - }, - { - "id": "slow_breathing_together", - "text": "Slow breathing together" - }, - { - "id": "a_gentle_conversation", - "text": "A gentle conversation" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_041", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps tiredness from turning into distance?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "tiredness", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "saying_what_we_have_energy_for", - "text": "Saying what we have energy for" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_affection_simple", - "text": "Keeping affection simple" - }, - { - "id": "not_taking_no_personally", - "text": "Not taking no personally" - }, - { - "id": "planning_another_time", - "text": "Planning another time" - }, - { - "id": "ending_the_day_kindly", - "text": "Ending the day kindly" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_042", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe do you feel asking for less intensity?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "lower_intensity", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very safe", - "max_label": "Completely safe" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_043", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What conditions make desire feel more possible?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "desire_return", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "feeling_rested", - "text": "Feeling rested" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_appreciated", - "text": "Feeling appreciated" - }, - { - "id": "having_privacy", - "text": "Having privacy" - }, - { - "id": "being_emotionally_settled", - "text": "Being emotionally settled" - }, - { - "id": "receiving_affection_without_pressure", - "text": "Receiving affection without pressure" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_044", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When neither of us has much energy, how can we stay close?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "low_energy", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "touching_while_resting", - "text": "Touching while resting" - }, - { - "id": "sharing_one_good_conversation", - "text": "Sharing one good conversation" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_cuddle", - "text": "A short cuddle" - }, - { - "id": "laughing_together", - "text": "Laughing together" - }, - { - "id": "making_a_plan_for_later", - "text": "Making a plan for later" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_045", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes initiation feel like a shared moment?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "a_warm_confident_invitation", - "text": "A warm, confident invitation" - }, - { - "id": "an_easy_way_to_decline", - "text": "An easy way to decline" - }, - { - "id": "starting_with_affection", - "text": "Starting with affection" - }, - { - "id": "checking_how_the_other_person_responds", - "text": "Checking how the other person responds" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_046", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the invitation style that feels most comfortable for both of us.", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "first_move", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_direct_question", - "text": "A direct question" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_affectionate_start", - "text": "A slow affectionate start" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_invitation", - "text": "A playful invitation" - }, - { - "id": "a_quiet_whispered_question", - "text": "A quiet whispered question" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_047", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How do you like desire to be shown?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "showing_desire", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_words", - "text": "Specific words" - }, - { - "id": "focused_eye_contact", - "text": "Focused eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "slow_touch", - "text": "Slow touch" - }, - { - "id": "making_private_time", - "text": "Making private time" - }, - { - "id": "playful_pursuit", - "text": "Playful pursuit" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_048", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you initiating closeness lately?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "initiation_comfort", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_049", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What signals help you feel genuinely wanted?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "wanted", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "they_say_it_clearly", - "text": "They say it clearly" - }, - { - "id": "they_make_time", - "text": "They make time" - }, - { - "id": "they_notice_details", - "text": "They notice details" - }, - { - "id": "they_stay_present", - "text": "They stay present" - }, - { - "id": "they_respond_to_my_cues", - "text": "They respond to my cues" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_050", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the invitation that gives you the most room to answer honestly.", - "depth": 4, - "tags": [ - "honest_invitation", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "would_closeness_feel_good", - "text": "Would closeness feel good?" - }, - { - "id": "may_i_kiss_you", - "text": "May I kiss you?" - }, - { - "id": "want_some_private_time", - "text": "Want some private time?" - }, - { - "id": "what_kind_of_affection_sounds_good", - "text": "What kind of affection sounds good?" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_051", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does being pursued feel exciting?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "pursuit", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "confidence_without_pressure", - "text": "Confidence without pressure" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_build_up", - "text": "A playful build-up" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_emotionally_connected", - "text": "Feeling emotionally connected" - }, - { - "id": "enough_privacy", - "text": "Enough privacy" - }, - { - "id": "being_able_to_slow_it_down", - "text": "Being able to slow it down" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_052", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things quietly build desire during the day?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "daily_desire", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "thoughtful_attention", - "text": "Thoughtful attention" - }, - { - "id": "flirty_messages", - "text": "Flirty messages" - }, - { - "id": "shared_laughter", - "text": "Shared laughter" - }, - { - "id": "seeing_you_feel_confident", - "text": "Seeing you feel confident" - }, - { - "id": "small_welcome_touches", - "text": "Small welcome touches" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_053", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "written", - "text": "When have you felt most clearly chosen by me?", - "depth": 4, - "tags": [ - "chosen", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 400 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_054", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does spontaneous intimacy work well for you?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "spontaneity", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "both_people_are_clearly_interested", - "text": "Both people are clearly interested" - }, - { - "id": "there_is_enough_time", - "text": "There is enough time" - }, - { - "id": "privacy_is_secure", - "text": "Privacy is secure" - }, - { - "id": "stopping_stays_easy", - "text": "Stopping stays easy" - }, - { - "id": "the_mood_already_feels_connected", - "text": "The mood already feels connected" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_055", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the initiation style that feels most like us.", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "initiation_style", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet_and_obvious", - "text": "Sweet and obvious" - }, - { - "id": "playful_and_teasing", - "text": "Playful and teasing" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_and_slow", - "text": "Quiet and slow" - }, - { - "id": "bold_but_attentive", - "text": "Bold but attentive" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_056", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when one person wants closeness first?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "different_timing", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_gentle_invitation", - "text": "A gentle invitation" - }, - { - "id": "no_repeated_asking", - "text": "No repeated asking" - }, - { - "id": "another_kind_of_affection", - "text": "Another kind of affection" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan_to_reconnect_later", - "text": "A plan to reconnect later" - }, - { - "id": "no_sulking_afterward", - "text": "No sulking afterward" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_057", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How wanted do you feel in our relationship lately?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "wanted_scale", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much lately", - "max_label": "Very much lately" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_058", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which compliments create attraction for you?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "attraction_compliments", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_about_my_appearance", - "text": "Something about my appearance" - }, - { - "id": "something_about_my_energy", - "text": "Something about my energy" - }, - { - "id": "something_about_our_chemistry", - "text": "Something about our chemistry" - }, - { - "id": "something_very_specific", - "text": "Something very specific" - }, - { - "id": "something_about_how_i_affect_you", - "text": "Something about how I affect you" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_059", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does desire feel mutual instead of expected or one-sided?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "mutual_desire", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "both_people_can_initiate", - "text": "Both people can initiate" - }, - { - "id": "both_people_can_decline", - "text": "Both people can decline" - }, - { - "id": "feedback_is_welcomed", - "text": "Feedback is welcomed" - }, - { - "id": "no_one_rushes_the_response", - "text": "No one rushes the response" - }, - { - "id": "affection_matters_either_way", - "text": "Affection matters either way" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_060", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps a yes feel honest and freely chosen?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "consent_yes", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "enough_information", - "text": "Enough information" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure_to_decide_fast", - "text": "No pressure to decide fast" - }, - { - "id": "trust_that_no_is_welcome", - "text": "Trust that no is welcome" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_emotionally_present", - "text": "Feeling emotionally present" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_i_can_change_my_mind", - "text": "Knowing I can change my mind" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_061", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which phrase should we agree to treat as our clearest stop signal?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "pause_phrase", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause_for_a_second", - "text": "Pause for a second" - }, - { - "id": "can_we_slow_down", - "text": "Can we slow down?" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_to_stop", - "text": "I need to stop" - }, - { - "id": "can_we_just_cuddle", - "text": "Can we just cuddle?" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_062", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "After stopping immediately for a pause, what would help next?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "pause_response", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "listening_without_arguing", - "text": "Listening without arguing" - }, - { - "id": "asking_what_feels_okay_now", - "text": "Asking what feels okay now" - }, - { - "id": "offering_space", - "text": "Offering space" - }, - { - "id": "switching_to_nonsexual_closeness_if_wanted", - "text": "Switching to nonsexual closeness if wanted" - }, - { - "id": "reassuring_there_is_no_pressure", - "text": "Reassuring there is no pressure" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_063", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to change your mind during intimacy?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "change_mind", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very hard", - "max_label": "Very easy" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_064", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does saying no feel emotionally safe?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "consent_no", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_kind_response", - "text": "A kind response" - }, - { - "id": "no_guilt_afterward", - "text": "No guilt afterward" - }, - { - "id": "no_repeated_request", - "text": "No repeated request" - }, - { - "id": "affection_stays_optional", - "text": "Affection stays optional" - }, - { - "id": "my_reason_is_not_demanded", - "text": "My reason is not demanded" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_065", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "After a no, what response would feel most reassuring?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "no_response", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "thanks_for_telling_me", - "text": "Thanks for telling me" - }, - { - "id": "no_problem_at_all", - "text": "No problem at all" - }, - { - "id": "would_you_prefer_space_or_another_kind_of_closeness", - "text": "Would you prefer space or another kind of closeness?" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_here_if_you_want_company", - "text": "I am here if you want company" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_066", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which quick question would help us stay connected without breaking the mood?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "check_ins", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "still_good", - "text": "Still good?" - }, - { - "id": "more_or_less", - "text": "More or less?" - }, - { - "id": "want_me_to_continue", - "text": "Want me to continue?" - }, - { - "id": "do_you_want_something_different", - "text": "Do you want something different?" - }, - { - "id": "need_a_pause", - "text": "Need a pause?" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_067", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What words would you most want us to respond to calmly?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "communication_basics", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "yes", - "text": "Yes" - }, - { - "id": "no", - "text": "No" - }, - { - "id": "slower", - "text": "Slower" - }, - { - "id": "different", - "text": "Different" - }, - { - "id": "i_changed_my_mind", - "text": "I changed my mind" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_068", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "written", - "text": "What response from me helps you trust that your no is safe?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "no_trust", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 400 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_069", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How do we keep consent clear when the mood is playful?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "playful_consent", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "checking_before_escalating", - "text": "Checking before escalating" - }, - { - "id": "paying_attention_to_hesitation", - "text": "Paying attention to hesitation" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_safe_words_serious", - "text": "Keeping safe words serious" - }, - { - "id": "avoiding_surprise_restraints", - "text": "Avoiding surprise restraints" - }, - { - "id": "stopping_immediately_when_asked", - "text": "Stopping immediately when asked" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_070", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which signal would you prefer as a backup to words?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "backup_signal", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_double_tap", - "text": "A double tap" - }, - { - "id": "a_hand_squeeze", - "text": "A hand squeeze" - }, - { - "id": "a_clear_hand_away_gesture", - "text": "A clear hand-away gesture" - }, - { - "id": "no_backup_signal_words_only", - "text": "No backup signal—words only" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_071", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps a new idea optional rather than expected?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "optional_novelty", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "talking_about_it_beforehand", - "text": "Talking about it beforehand" - }, - { - "id": "no_surprise_use", - "text": "No surprise use" - }, - { - "id": "a_clear_no_option", - "text": "A clear no option" - }, - { - "id": "no_disappointment_if_declined", - "text": "No disappointment if declined" - }, - { - "id": "letting_the_idea_stay_hypothetical", - "text": "Letting the idea stay hypothetical" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_072", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How confident are you that a pause will be respected immediately?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "pause_confidence", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not confident", - "max_label": "Completely confident" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_073", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What behaviors protect trust after a boundary is named?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "boundary_trust", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "remembering_it_later", - "text": "Remembering it later" - }, - { - "id": "asking_before_revisiting_it", - "text": "Asking before revisiting it" - }, - { - "id": "not_teasing_about_it", - "text": "Not teasing about it" - }, - { - "id": "not_bargaining", - "text": "Not bargaining" - }, - { - "id": "appreciating_the_honesty", - "text": "Appreciating the honesty" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_074", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "After intimacy stops unexpectedly, what keeps you connected?", - "depth": 4, - "tags": [ - "stopping_connection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_calm_check_in", - "text": "A calm check-in" - }, - { - "id": "nonsexual_touch_if_wanted", - "text": "Nonsexual touch if wanted" - }, - { - "id": "a_little_space", - "text": "A little space" - }, - { - "id": "reassuring_words", - "text": "Reassuring words" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure_to_explain_immediately", - "text": "No pressure to explain immediately" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_075", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When is feedback about intimacy easiest to give?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "feedback_giving", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_calm_moment", - "text": "A calm moment" - }, - { - "id": "specific_questions", - "text": "Specific questions" - }, - { - "id": "no_defensiveness", - "text": "No defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "starting_with_what_works", - "text": "Starting with what works" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_change_is_welcome", - "text": "Knowing change is welcome" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_076", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When would you rather discuss a preference?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "preference_timing", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "before_private_time", - "text": "Before private time" - }, - { - "id": "in_the_moment", - "text": "In the moment" - }, - { - "id": "right_afterward", - "text": "Right afterward" - }, - { - "id": "on_a_separate_relaxed_day", - "text": "On a separate relaxed day" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_077", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which feedback phrases feel kind and useful?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "feedback_phrases", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_little_slower", - "text": "A little slower" - }, - { - "id": "keep_doing_that", - "text": "Keep doing that" - }, - { - "id": "could_we_try_this_instead", - "text": "Could we try this instead?" - }, - { - "id": "that_feels_really_good", - "text": "That feels really good" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_something_different", - "text": "I need something different" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_078", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you naming what feels good?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "naming_good", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_079", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When feedback is hard to hear, what keeps it from feeling like criticism?", - "depth": 4, - "tags": [ - "feedback_hearing", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_gentle_tone", - "text": "A gentle tone" - }, - { - "id": "specific_guidance", - "text": "Specific guidance" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance_of_attraction", - "text": "Reassurance of attraction" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "room_to_ask_questions", - "text": "Room to ask questions" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_080", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the question that would help you share more honestly.", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "honest_question", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "what_are_you_enjoying", - "text": "What are you enjoying?" - }, - { - "id": "want_more_or_less", - "text": "Want more or less?" - }, - { - "id": "is_there_anything_you_want_different", - "text": "Is there anything you want different?" - }, - { - "id": "what_would_feel_best_now", - "text": "What would feel best now?" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_081", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When do conversations about desire feel safest?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "desire_conversation", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "no_immediate_expectation", - "text": "No immediate expectation" - }, - { - "id": "no_joking_at_my_expense", - "text": "No joking at my expense" - }, - { - "id": "time_to_think", - "text": "Time to think" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity_without_pressure", - "text": "Curiosity without pressure" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_082", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which topics deserve an especially gentle approach?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "gentle_topics", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "differences_in_frequency", - "text": "Differences in frequency" - }, - { - "id": "body_confidence", - "text": "Body confidence" - }, - { - "id": "rejection", - "text": "Rejection" - }, - { - "id": "past_experiences", - "text": "Past experiences" - }, - { - "id": "new_ideas", - "text": "New ideas" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_083", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you wish were easier to tell me about intimacy?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "wish_easier", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 400 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_084", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What outcomes help a difficult intimacy talk end well?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "talk_ending", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "both_people_feel_heard", - "text": "Both people feel heard" - }, - { - "id": "a_boundary_is_clearer", - "text": "A boundary is clearer" - }, - { - "id": "no_solution_is_forced", - "text": "No solution is forced" - }, - { - "id": "we_still_feel_cared_for", - "text": "We still feel cared for" - }, - { - "id": "we_know_whether_to_revisit_it", - "text": "We know whether to revisit it" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_085", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tone helps you stay open during a sensitive conversation?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "conversation_tone", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_and_direct", - "text": "Warm and direct" - }, - { - "id": "soft_and_patient", - "text": "Soft and patient" - }, - { - "id": "light_but_respectful", - "text": "Light but respectful" - }, - { - "id": "calm_and_matter_of_fact", - "text": "Calm and matter-of-fact" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_086", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes preference questions less awkward for us?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "less_awkward", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "use_simple_words", - "text": "Use simple words" - }, - { - "id": "ask_one_thing_at_a_time", - "text": "Ask one thing at a time" - }, - { - "id": "talk_outside_the_bedroom", - "text": "Talk outside the bedroom" - }, - { - "id": "both_answer_the_same_question", - "text": "Both answer the same question" - }, - { - "id": "allow_i_am_not_sure", - "text": "Allow 'I am not sure'" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_087", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we listen when intimacy feedback surprises us?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "feedback_surprise", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very well", - "max_label": "Very well" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_088", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does praise feel believable?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "believable_praise", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "it_is_specific", - "text": "It is specific" - }, - { - "id": "it_matches_the_moment", - "text": "It matches the moment" - }, - { - "id": "it_is_said_privately", - "text": "It is said privately" - }, - { - "id": "it_is_not_exaggerated", - "text": "It is not exaggerated" - }, - { - "id": "it_includes_more_than_appearance", - "text": "It includes more than appearance" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_089", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How do you know an intimacy conversation helped?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "useful_conversation", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_understand_each_other_better", - "text": "We understand each other better" - }, - { - "id": "no_one_feels_blamed", - "text": "No one feels blamed" - }, - { - "id": "a_boundary_became_clearer", - "text": "A boundary became clearer" - }, - { - "id": "a_preference_became_easier_to_name", - "text": "A preference became easier to name" - }, - { - "id": "we_feel_closer_afterward", - "text": "We feel closer afterward" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_090", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does physical closeness feel emotionally meaningful to us?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "kissing", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_slow_down", - "text": "We slow down" - }, - { - "id": "interest_feels_mutual", - "text": "Interest feels mutual" - }, - { - "id": "we_are_emotionally_connected", - "text": "We are emotionally connected" - }, - { - "id": "no_outcome_is_expected", - "text": "No outcome is expected" - }, - { - "id": "we_both_stay_present", - "text": "We both stay present" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_091", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the private mood that sounds best for us tonight.", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "kiss_choice", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_and_romantic", - "text": "Slow and romantic" - }, - { - "id": "playful_and_flirty", - "text": "Playful and flirty" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_and_tender", - "text": "Quiet and tender" - }, - { - "id": "bold_and_connected", - "text": "Bold and connected" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_092", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does relaxing together feel most connected?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "cuddling", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "after_a_long_day", - "text": "After a long day" - }, - { - "id": "before_sleep", - "text": "Before sleep" - }, - { - "id": "during_a_quiet_evening", - "text": "During a quiet evening" - }, - { - "id": "after_an_honest_talk", - "text": "After an honest talk" - }, - { - "id": "on_a_slow_morning", - "text": "On a slow morning" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_093", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much romance do you feel in our private time lately?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "kissing_scale", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very romantic", - "max_label": "Very romantic" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_094", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What setups make it easiest for us both to relax together?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "cuddle_positions", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "enough_personal_space", - "text": "Enough personal space" - }, - { - "id": "a_comfortable_temperature", - "text": "A comfortable temperature" - }, - { - "id": "phones_put_away", - "text": "Phones put away" - }, - { - "id": "no_time_pressure", - "text": "No time pressure" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_how_close_to_sit", - "text": "Choosing how close to sit" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_095", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a goodbye feel meaningful between us?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "goodbye_kiss", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "it_is_not_rushed", - "text": "It is not rushed" - }, - { - "id": "there_is_eye_contact", - "text": "There is eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "we_say_something_honest", - "text": "We say something honest" - }, - { - "id": "we_know_when_we_will_reconnect", - "text": "We know when we will reconnect" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_096", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps our private chemistry playful without feeling rehearsed?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "kiss_play", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "changing_the_timing", - "text": "Changing the timing" - }, - { - "id": "using_an_inside_joke", - "text": "Using an inside joke" - }, - { - "id": "a_little_unpredictability", - "text": "A little unpredictability" - }, - { - "id": "laughing_together", - "text": "Laughing together" - }, - { - "id": "letting_the_mood_lead", - "text": "Letting the mood lead" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_097", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps physical closeness feel connected for both of us?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "cuddle_touch", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "mutual_choice", - "text": "Mutual choice" - }, - { - "id": "enough_time", - "text": "Enough time" - }, - { - "id": "noticing_feedback", - "text": "Noticing feedback" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_warmth", - "text": "Emotional warmth" - }, - { - "id": "no_required_outcome", - "text": "No required outcome" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_098", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "written", - "text": "What private memory best captures the way we connect as a couple?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "kiss_memory", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 400 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_099", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps extended closeness feel welcome for both of us?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "long_hug", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_timing_works", - "text": "The timing works" - }, - { - "id": "either_person_can_end_it", - "text": "Either person can end it" - }, - { - "id": "it_matches_both_moods", - "text": "It matches both moods" - }, - { - "id": "there_is_no_hidden_expectation", - "text": "There is no hidden expectation" - }, - { - "id": "there_is_room_to_relax", - "text": "There is room to relax" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_100", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the greeting style that feels most like our relationship.", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "greeting", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "an_enthusiastic_hello", - "text": "An enthusiastic hello" - }, - { - "id": "a_quiet_check_in", - "text": "A quiet check-in" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_joke", - "text": "A playful joke" - }, - { - "id": "a_few_focused_minutes", - "text": "A few focused minutes" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_101", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things can make private closeness uncomfortable?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "cuddle_discomfort", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "feeling_trapped", - "text": "Feeling trapped" - }, - { - "id": "too_much_heat", - "text": "Too much heat" - }, - { - "id": "pressure_for_more", - "text": "Pressure for more" - }, - { - "id": "not_enough_space", - "text": "Not enough space" - }, - { - "id": "ignoring_a_request_to_adjust", - "text": "Ignoring a request to adjust" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_102", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected does our private time feel lately?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "nonsexual_touch_scale", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very connected", - "max_label": "Very connected" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_103", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When would slowing down together feel most meaningful?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "slow_kiss", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "after_time_apart", - "text": "After time apart" - }, - { - "id": "after_a_heartfelt_talk", - "text": "After a heartfelt talk" - }, - { - "id": "during_a_quiet_morning", - "text": "During a quiet morning" - }, - { - "id": "after_a_stressful_week", - "text": "After a stressful week" - }, - { - "id": "before_falling_asleep", - "text": "Before falling asleep" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_104", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes intimate time feel complete even when plans change?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "complete_affection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "enough_time", - "text": "Enough time" - }, - { - "id": "focused_attention", - "text": "Focused attention" - }, - { - "id": "warm_words", - "text": "Warm words" - }, - { - "id": "mutual_choice", - "text": "Mutual choice" - }, - { - "id": "a_relaxed_ending", - "text": "A relaxed ending" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_105", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which privacy details help you relax into closeness?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_locked_door", - "text": "A locked door" - }, - { - "id": "phones_put_away", - "text": "Phones put away" - }, - { - "id": "no_expected_interruption", - "text": "No expected interruption" - }, - { - "id": "enough_time", - "text": "Enough time" - }, - { - "id": "a_comfortable_temperature", - "text": "A comfortable temperature" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_106", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which setting feels easiest for honest intimacy talks?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "talk_setting", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_quiet_bedroom", - "text": "A quiet bedroom" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_walk", - "text": "A private walk" - }, - { - "id": "the_couch_after_dinner", - "text": "The couch after dinner" - }, - { - "id": "a_calm_drive", - "text": "A calm drive" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_107", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which details make a room inviting for private time?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "setting", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_lighting", - "text": "Soft lighting" - }, - { - "id": "fresh_sheets", - "text": "Fresh sheets" - }, - { - "id": "a_comfortable_temperature", - "text": "A comfortable temperature" - }, - { - "id": "music_we_both_like", - "text": "Music we both like" - }, - { - "id": "a_room_that_feels_settled", - "text": "A room that feels settled" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_108", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is guaranteed privacy to your ability to relax?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "privacy_scale", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very important", - "max_label": "Very important" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_109", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which distractions pull you out of the moment fastest?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "distractions", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "phone_alerts", - "text": "Phone alerts" - }, - { - "id": "noise_outside", - "text": "Noise outside" - }, - { - "id": "worry_about_time", - "text": "Worry about time" - }, - { - "id": "an_uncomfortable_room", - "text": "An uncomfortable room" - }, - { - "id": "unfinished_responsibilities", - "text": "Unfinished responsibilities" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_110", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the approach that would help us choose comfortable lighting together.", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "lighting", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "use_the_softer_setting", - "text": "Use the softer setting" - }, - { - "id": "take_turns_choosing", - "text": "Take turns choosing" - }, - { - "id": "find_a_middle_ground", - "text": "Find a middle ground" - }, - { - "id": "ask_in_the_moment", - "text": "Ask in the moment" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_111", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps planned private time romantic instead of scheduled?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "planned_private_time", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "anticipation_during_the_day", - "text": "Anticipation during the day" - }, - { - "id": "a_flexible_plan", - "text": "A flexible plan" - }, - { - "id": "a_thoughtful_setting", - "text": "A thoughtful setting" - }, - { - "id": "no_rushing", - "text": "No rushing" - }, - { - "id": "something_chosen_for_both_of_us", - "text": "Something chosen for both of us" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_112", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundaries protect our intimate privacy?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "privacy_boundaries", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_sharing_details_with_friends", - "text": "No sharing details with friends" - }, - { - "id": "ask_before_saving_photos_or_recordings", - "text": "Ask before saving photos or recordings" - }, - { - "id": "keep_intimate_photos_off_shared_devices", - "text": "Keep intimate photos off shared devices" - }, - { - "id": "delete_anything_when_asked", - "text": "Delete anything when asked" - }, - { - "id": "never_joke_publicly_about_private_moments", - "text": "Never joke publicly about private moments" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_113", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "written", - "text": "Think of a private setting where you felt completely relaxed with me. What made it work?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "safe_space_detail", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 400 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_114", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which conditions make a new setting comfortable enough to try?", - "depth": 4, - "tags": [ - "new_setting", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_privacy", - "text": "Clear privacy" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_we_can_leave_anytime", - "text": "Knowing we can leave anytime" - }, - { - "id": "bringing_familiar_comforts", - "text": "Bringing familiar comforts" - }, - { - "id": "agreeing_on_boundaries_first", - "text": "Agreeing on boundaries first" - }, - { - "id": "starting_with_something_simple", - "text": "Starting with something simple" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_115", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the private-time soundtrack that sounds best.", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "music", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_and_moody", - "text": "Slow and moody" - }, - { - "id": "soft_and_romantic", - "text": "Soft and romantic" - }, - { - "id": "a_familiar_favorite", - "text": "A familiar favorite" - }, - { - "id": "no_music", - "text": "No music" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_116", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does a hotel or getaway night feel low-pressure?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "getaway", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_fixed_expectation", - "text": "No fixed expectation" - }, - { - "id": "plenty_of_rest", - "text": "Plenty of rest" - }, - { - "id": "a_shared_plan", - "text": "A shared plan" - }, - { - "id": "easy_permission_to_change_course", - "text": "Easy permission to change course" - }, - { - "id": "affection_that_is_enough_by_itself", - "text": "Affection that is enough by itself" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_117", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do phones affect your ability to stay present during private time?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "phones", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not at all", - "max_label": "A great deal" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_118", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which practical details quietly support intimacy?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "practical_support", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "enough_sleep", - "text": "Enough sleep" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "time_without_rushing", - "text": "Time without rushing" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_clean_and_comfortable", - "text": "Feeling clean and comfortable" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_responsibilities_are_handled", - "text": "Knowing responsibilities are handled" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_119", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does a surprise setting change feel welcome?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "surprise_setting", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "it_stays_private", - "text": "It stays private" - }, - { - "id": "it_is_easy_to_decline", - "text": "It is easy to decline" - }, - { - "id": "it_can_be_changed_easily", - "text": "It can be changed easily" - }, - { - "id": "it_fits_my_energy", - "text": "It fits my energy" - }, - { - "id": "we_can_return_to_the_familiar", - "text": "We can return to the familiar" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_120", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel attractive during private moments?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "body_confidence", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_compliments", - "text": "Specific compliments" - }, - { - "id": "patient_attention", - "text": "Patient attention" - }, - { - "id": "comfortable_lighting", - "text": "Comfortable lighting" - }, - { - "id": "no_comparisons", - "text": "No comparisons" - }, - { - "id": "touch_that_follows_my_feedback", - "text": "Touch that follows my feedback" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_121", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the compliment that supports your confidence most.", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "confidence_compliment", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_look_incredible", - "text": "You look incredible" - }, - { - "id": "i_love_being_close_to_you", - "text": "I love being close to you" - }, - { - "id": "i_love_how_you_respond_to_me", - "text": "I love how you respond to me" - }, - { - "id": "you_make_me_want_you", - "text": "You make me want you" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_122", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does body-focused attention become uncomfortable?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "body_discomfort", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "too_much_focus_on_one_area", - "text": "Too much focus on one area" - }, - { - "id": "jokes_about_appearance", - "text": "Jokes about appearance" - }, - { - "id": "comparisons", - "text": "Comparisons" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_watched_instead_of_appreciated", - "text": "Feeling watched instead of appreciated" - }, - { - "id": "ignoring_when_i_ask_to_adjust", - "text": "Ignoring when I ask to adjust" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_123", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable do you feel being fully seen by me?", - "depth": 4, - "tags": [ - "being_seen", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Completely comfortable" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_124", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which kinds of reassurance feel genuine?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "reassurance", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_eye_contact", - "text": "Warm eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "specific_praise", - "text": "Specific praise" - }, - { - "id": "unhurried_touch", - "text": "Unhurried touch" - }, - { - "id": "kindness_outside_intimate_moments", - "text": "Kindness outside intimate moments" - }, - { - "id": "respect_when_i_need_space", - "text": "Respect when I need space" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_125", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the approach to body compliments that would help us both feel comfortable.", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "compliment_delivery", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_what_lands_well", - "text": "Ask what lands well" - }, - { - "id": "keep_them_specific", - "text": "Keep them specific" - }, - { - "id": "balance_appearance_with_whole_person_praise", - "text": "Balance appearance with whole-person praise" - }, - { - "id": "let_either_person_redirect", - "text": "Let either person redirect" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_126", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you stay present when body worries show up?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "presence", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "focusing_on_sensation", - "text": "Focusing on sensation" - }, - { - "id": "slower_pacing", - "text": "Slower pacing" - }, - { - "id": "supportive_words", - "text": "Supportive words" - }, - { - "id": "dimmer_lighting", - "text": "Dimmer lighting" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_emotionally_connected", - "text": "Feeling emotionally connected" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_127", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which partner behaviors build body trust over time?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "body_trust", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_teasing_about_insecurities", - "text": "No teasing about insecurities" - }, - { - "id": "consistent_affection", - "text": "Consistent affection" - }, - { - "id": "listening_to_boundaries", - "text": "Listening to boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "compliments_beyond_appearance", - "text": "Compliments beyond appearance" - }, - { - "id": "never_using_private_details_in_conflict", - "text": "Never using private details in conflict" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_128", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "written", - "text": "When do you feel desired without feeling watched or evaluated?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "desired_not_inspected", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 400 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_129", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does physical vulnerability feel comfortable?", - "depth": 4, - "tags": [ - "undressing", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "taking_our_time", - "text": "Taking our time" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_my_own_pace", - "text": "Choosing my own pace" - }, - { - "id": "warm_lighting", - "text": "Warm lighting" - }, - { - "id": "affection_before_and_during", - "text": "Affection before and during" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure_to_perform", - "text": "No pressure to perform" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_130", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of attention feels most affirming?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "affirming_attention", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_admiration", - "text": "Warm admiration" - }, - { - "id": "playful_desire", - "text": "Playful desire" - }, - { - "id": "tender_appreciation", - "text": "Tender appreciation" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_focus", - "text": "Quiet focus" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_131", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would help on a low-confidence day?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "low_confidence", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "keeping_things_gentle", - "text": "Keeping things gentle" - }, - { - "id": "leaving_some_clothes_on", - "text": "Leaving some clothes on" - }, - { - "id": "more_verbal_reassurance", - "text": "More verbal reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_nonsexual_closeness", - "text": "Choosing nonsexual closeness" - }, - { - "id": "letting_me_lead", - "text": "Letting me lead" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_132", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How supported do you feel about your body in our relationship?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "confidence_support", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very supported", - "max_label": "Very supported" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_133", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Specific praise or quiet admiration?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "praise_choice", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_praise", - "text": "Specific praise" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_admiration", - "text": "Quiet admiration" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_134", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should intimacy help us believe about our bodies?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "body_messages", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_bodies_are_welcome", - "text": "Our bodies are welcome" - }, - { - "id": "we_can_choose_what_feels_comfortable_to_show", - "text": "We can choose what feels comfortable to show" - }, - { - "id": "comfort_matters_more_than_performance", - "text": "Comfort matters more than performance" - }, - { - "id": "desire_can_be_gentle", - "text": "Desire can be gentle" - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_do_not_reduce_attraction", - "text": "Boundaries do not reduce attraction" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_135", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which kinds of aftercare help you feel settled?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "reassuring_words", - "text": "Reassuring words" - }, - { - "id": "water_or_a_snack", - "text": "Water or a snack" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_rest", - "text": "Quiet rest" - }, - { - "id": "a_little_laughter", - "text": "A little laughter" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_136", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you usually want first afterward?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "aftercare_first", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "physical_closeness", - "text": "Physical closeness" - }, - { - "id": "a_quick_check_in", - "text": "A quick check-in" - }, - { - "id": "practical_care", - "text": "Practical care" - }, - { - "id": "a_little_personal_space", - "text": "A little personal space" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_137", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does aftercare feel caring rather than required?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "aftercare_care", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "it_matches_my_mood", - "text": "It matches my mood" - }, - { - "id": "i_can_ask_for_space", - "text": "I can ask for space" - }, - { - "id": "it_is_not_rushed", - "text": "It is not rushed" - }, - { - "id": "we_check_what_each_person_wants", - "text": "We check what each person wants" - }, - { - "id": "it_changes_with_the_moment", - "text": "It changes with the moment" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_138", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How important is aftercare to your overall experience?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "aftercare_importance", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very important", - "max_label": "Very important" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_139", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which words feel good after vulnerability?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "aftercare_words", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_am_glad_you_told_me", - "text": "I am glad you told me" - }, - { - "id": "thank_you_for_trusting_me", - "text": "Thank you for trusting me" - }, - { - "id": "i_loved_being_close_to_you", - "text": "I loved being close to you" - }, - { - "id": "take_all_the_time_you_need", - "text": "Take all the time you need" - }, - { - "id": "what_would_help_now", - "text": "What would help now?" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_140", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the aftercare style that sounds most comforting.", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "aftercare_style", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_and_cuddly", - "text": "Quiet and cuddly" - }, - { - "id": "warm_and_talkative", - "text": "Warm and talkative" - }, - { - "id": "light_and_playful", - "text": "Light and playful" - }, - { - "id": "spacious_but_reassuring", - "text": "Spacious but reassuring" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_141", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What practical care feels thoughtful afterward?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "practical_aftercare", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "bringing_water", - "text": "Bringing water" - }, - { - "id": "adjusting_the_room", - "text": "Adjusting the room" - }, - { - "id": "finding_a_blanket", - "text": "Finding a blanket" - }, - { - "id": "checking_comfort", - "text": "Checking comfort" - }, - { - "id": "handling_cleanup_together", - "text": "Handling cleanup together" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_142", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "After trying something new, what support feels best?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "new_aftercare", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_calm_check_in", - "text": "A calm check-in" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance_without_turning_it_into_a_big_review", - "text": "Reassurance without turning it into a big review" - }, - { - "id": "naming_what_worked", - "text": "Naming what worked" - }, - { - "id": "permission_not_to_decide_anything_yet", - "text": "Permission not to decide anything yet" - }, - { - "id": "extra_tenderness", - "text": "Extra tenderness" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_143", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "written", - "text": "What should I know about the kind of aftercare you need?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "aftercare_written", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 400 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_144", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When might space be the best aftercare?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "space_aftercare", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "when_i_feel_overstimulated", - "text": "When I feel overstimulated" - }, - { - "id": "when_i_need_quiet", - "text": "When I need quiet" - }, - { - "id": "when_touch_feels_like_too_much", - "text": "When touch feels like too much" - }, - { - "id": "when_i_ask_directly", - "text": "When I ask directly" - }, - { - "id": "when_i_need_sleep", - "text": "When I need sleep" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_145", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we check in the next day after a new experience?", - "depth": 4, - "tags": [ - "next_day", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_simple_text", - "text": "A simple text" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_private_talk", - "text": "A short private talk" - }, - { - "id": "ask_one_clear_question", - "text": "Ask one clear question" - }, - { - "id": "leave_the_door_open_to_talk_later", - "text": "Leave the door open to talk later" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_146", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can make aftercare feel wrong for the moment?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "aftercare_miss", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "assuming_cuddling_is_always_wanted", - "text": "Assuming cuddling is always wanted" - }, - { - "id": "demanding_reassurance", - "text": "Demanding reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "turning_it_into_a_critique", - "text": "Turning it into a critique" - }, - { - "id": "ignoring_a_request_for_space", - "text": "Ignoring a request for space" - }, - { - "id": "leaving_without_a_word", - "text": "Leaving without a word" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_147", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it for you to ask for aftercare?", - "depth": 4, - "tags": [ - "ask_aftercare", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very hard", - "max_label": "Very easy" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_148", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Cuddles afterward or quiet space nearby?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "aftercare_choice", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cuddles_afterward", - "text": "Cuddles afterward" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_space_nearby", - "text": "Quiet space nearby" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_149", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs show that aftercare matched what you needed?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "aftercare_match", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "my_body_feels_settled", - "text": "My body feels settled" - }, - { - "id": "i_feel_emotionally_close", - "text": "I feel emotionally close" - }, - { - "id": "nothing_feels_rushed", - "text": "Nothing feels rushed" - }, - { - "id": "i_could_ask_for_something_different", - "text": "I could ask for something different" - }, - { - "id": "i_feel_comfortable_afterward", - "text": "I feel comfortable afterward" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_150", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When our interest levels differ, how can we stay close?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "mismatched_desire", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_kind_no", - "text": "A kind no" - }, - { - "id": "no_personal_blame", - "text": "No personal blame" - }, - { - "id": "another_form_of_closeness", - "text": "Another form of closeness" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan_to_reconnect_later", - "text": "A plan to reconnect later" - }, - { - "id": "disappointment_handled_kindly", - "text": "Disappointment handled kindly" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_151", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which response to declined initiation feels most loving?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "declined_initiation", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "thank_you_for_being_honest", - "text": "Thank you for being honest" - }, - { - "id": "no_problem_come_cuddle_if_you_want", - "text": "No problem—come cuddle if you want" - }, - { - "id": "i_understand_we_can_reconnect_later", - "text": "I understand; we can reconnect later" - }, - { - "id": "i_care_about_you_either_way", - "text": "I care about you either way" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_152", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps rejection from becoming distance?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "rejection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "affection_without_expectation", - "text": "Affection without expectation" - }, - { - "id": "no_sulking", - "text": "No sulking" - }, - { - "id": "clear_reassurance", - "text": "Clear reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "respecting_space", - "text": "Respecting space" - }, - { - "id": "talking_later_if_needed", - "text": "Talking later if needed" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_153", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we handle differences in desire?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "mismatch_scale", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very well", - "max_label": "Very well" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_154", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps talks about how often we want intimacy feel kinder?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "frequency", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_comparison_to_other_couples", - "text": "No comparison to other couples" - }, - { - "id": "no_scorekeeping", - "text": "No scorekeeping" - }, - { - "id": "talking_when_calm", - "text": "Talking when calm" - }, - { - "id": "separating_desire_from_love", - "text": "Separating desire from love" - }, - { - "id": "finding_options_that_respect_both_people", - "text": "Finding options that respect both people" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_155", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the alternative that feels best when interest does not match.", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "alternative_closeness", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "a_date_without_sex", - "text": "A date without sex" - }, - { - "id": "a_massage_with_clear_limits", - "text": "A massage with clear limits" - }, - { - "id": "separate_rest_with_reassurance", - "text": "Separate rest with reassurance" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_156", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which assumptions should we avoid about lower desire?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "lower_desire", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "it_means_less_love", - "text": "It means less love" - }, - { - "id": "it_means_less_attraction", - "text": "It means less attraction" - }, - { - "id": "it_is_always_about_the_partner", - "text": "It is always about the partner" - }, - { - "id": "it_needs_an_immediate_fix", - "text": "It needs an immediate fix" - }, - { - "id": "they_should_promise_another_time", - "text": "They should promise another time" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_157", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can affect desire without being anyone's fault?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "desire_factors", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "sleep", - "text": "Sleep" - }, - { - "id": "health", - "text": "Health" - }, - { - "id": "body_confidence", - "text": "Body confidence" - }, - { - "id": "relationship_tension", - "text": "Relationship tension" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_158", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "written", - "text": "When your desire is lower than mine, what helps you still feel loved?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "lower_desire_written", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 400 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_159", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can the higher-desire partner protect closeness?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "higher_desire", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "accept_no_the_first_time", - "text": "Accept no the first time" - }, - { - "id": "avoid_bargaining", - "text": "Avoid bargaining" - }, - { - "id": "keep_affection_non_transactional", - "text": "Keep affection non-transactional" - }, - { - "id": "manage_disappointment_kindly", - "text": "Manage disappointment kindly" - }, - { - "id": "let_future_plans_stay_optional", - "text": "Let future plans stay optional" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_160", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which phrase makes a mismatch easier to hear?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "mismatch_phrase", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_care_about_you_i_am_not_up_for_this", - "text": "I care about you; I am not up for this" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_closeness_just_not_that_tonight", - "text": "I want closeness, just not that tonight" - }, - { - "id": "my_energy_is_low_not_my_love", - "text": "My energy is low, not my love" - }, - { - "id": "can_we_plan_something_for_another_time", - "text": "Can we plan something for another time?" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_161", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does the lower-desire partner feel safest speaking honestly?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "speak_honestly", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_fear_of_conflict", - "text": "No fear of conflict" - }, - { - "id": "no_guilt_afterward", - "text": "No guilt afterward" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure_to_promise_later", - "text": "No pressure to promise later" - }, - { - "id": "permission_to_be_unsure", - "text": "Permission to be unsure" - }, - { - "id": "trust_that_affection_will_remain", - "text": "Trust that affection will remain" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_162", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly can we discuss sexual interest without treating it as proof of love?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "love_desire_separate", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very clearly", - "max_label": "Very clearly" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_163", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Reconnect gently now or plan private time later?", - "depth": 4, - "tags": [ - "reconnect_choice", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "reconnect_gently_now", - "text": "Reconnect gently now" - }, - { - "id": "plan_private_time_later", - "text": "Plan private time later" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_164", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would help us handle desire differences as a team?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "shared_problem", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "compassion", - "text": "Compassion" - }, - { - "id": "flexible_expectations", - "text": "Flexible expectations" - }, - { - "id": "honesty_about_stress_or_health", - "text": "Honesty about stress or health" - }, - { - "id": "making_room_for_both_experiences", - "text": "Making room for both experiences" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_165", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "If an intimate moment turns awkward, what helps us recover together?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "awkwardness", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "laugh_gently", - "text": "Laugh gently" - }, - { - "id": "pause_and_check_in", - "text": "Pause and check in" - }, - { - "id": "name_what_happened_simply", - "text": "Name what happened simply" - }, - { - "id": "change_direction", - "text": "Change direction" - }, - { - "id": "stop_without_making_it_a_failure", - "text": "Stop without making it a failure" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_166", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "If the mood disappears, what response feels best?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "mood_loss", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_pressure_to_recover_it", - "text": "No pressure to recover it" - }, - { - "id": "a_warm_cuddle", - "text": "A warm cuddle" - }, - { - "id": "a_little_humor", - "text": "A little humor" - }, - { - "id": "a_little_space", - "text": "A little space" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_167", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps an interrupted or awkward moment from feeling hurtful?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "failed_attempt", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_blame", - "text": "No blame" - }, - { - "id": "no_scorekeeping", - "text": "No scorekeeping" - }, - { - "id": "affection_afterward", - "text": "Affection afterward" - }, - { - "id": "permission_to_try_another_day", - "text": "Permission to try another day" - }, - { - "id": "no_forced_explanation", - "text": "No forced explanation" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_168", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it for us to recover from awkward moments?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "awkward_recovery", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very difficult", - "max_label": "Very easy" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_169", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs mean we should slow down and reconnect?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "slow_down_signs", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_person_goes_quiet", - "text": "One person goes quiet" - }, - { - "id": "laughter_feels_nervous", - "text": "Laughter feels nervous" - }, - { - "id": "touch_stops_being_returned", - "text": "Touch stops being returned" - }, - { - "id": "someone_seems_distracted", - "text": "Someone seems distracted" - }, - { - "id": "a_check_in_gets_avoided", - "text": "A check-in gets avoided" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_170", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "After a misunderstanding, which repair feels most natural?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "repair_style", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_sincere_apology", - "text": "A sincere apology" - }, - { - "id": "a_calm_explanation", - "text": "A calm explanation" - }, - { - "id": "a_reassuring_hug_if_wanted", - "text": "A reassuring hug if wanted" - }, - { - "id": "a_little_time_then_a_talk", - "text": "A little time, then a talk" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_171", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should a thoughtful repair apology include?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "intimacy_apology", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "owning_the_impact", - "text": "Owning the impact" - }, - { - "id": "no_excuses", - "text": "No excuses" - }, - { - "id": "respect_for_the_boundary", - "text": "Respect for the boundary" - }, - { - "id": "a_clear_change", - "text": "A clear change" - }, - { - "id": "no_demand_for_quick_forgiveness", - "text": "No demand for quick forgiveness" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_172", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What protects intimacy when we are upset with each other?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "conflict_protection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "never_use_private_details_as_weapons", - "text": "Never use private details as weapons" - }, - { - "id": "do_not_use_sex_as_a_shortcut_to_reconciliation", - "text": "Do not use sex as a shortcut to reconciliation" - }, - { - "id": "respect_separate_sleep_if_needed", - "text": "Respect separate sleep if needed" - }, - { - "id": "repair_emotionally_first", - "text": "Repair emotionally first" - }, - { - "id": "keep_affection_optional", - "text": "Keep affection optional" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_173", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "written", - "text": "After distance, what makes reconnecting feel safe?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "reconnecting_written", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 400 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_174", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When feedback accidentally hurts, what helps us recover?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "feedback_hurt", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "acknowledge_the_sting", - "text": "Acknowledge the sting" - }, - { - "id": "clarify_the_intent", - "text": "Clarify the intent" - }, - { - "id": "avoid_defensiveness", - "text": "Avoid defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_break_if_needed", - "text": "Take a break if needed" - }, - { - "id": "return_with_kindness", - "text": "Return with kindness" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_175", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "After a vulnerable moment, what reassurance lands best?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "vulnerable_reassurance", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_am_not_judging_you", - "text": "I am not judging you" - }, - { - "id": "thank_you_for_trusting_me", - "text": "Thank you for trusting me" - }, - { - "id": "nothing_has_to_happen", - "text": "Nothing has to happen" - }, - { - "id": "we_can_go_at_your_pace", - "text": "We can go at your pace" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_176", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can turn embarrassment into connection?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "embarrassment", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_humor", - "text": "Gentle humor" - }, - { - "id": "no_teasing_later", - "text": "No teasing later" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_awkward_moments_happen", - "text": "Remembering awkward moments happen" - }, - { - "id": "warm_affection_if_wanted", - "text": "Warm affection if wanted" - }, - { - "id": "a_simple_change_of_subject", - "text": "A simple change of subject" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_177", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How confident are you that private mistakes stay private?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "private_mistakes", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not confident", - "max_label": "Completely confident" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_178", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Talk right away or reconnect after a little space?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "repair_timing", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_right_away", - "text": "Talk right away" - }, - { - "id": "reconnect_after_some_space", - "text": "Reconnect after some space" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_179", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which habits keep one awkward night from becoming a lasting story?", - "depth": 4, - "tags": [ - "lasting_story", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "do_not_retell_it", - "text": "Do not retell it" - }, - { - "id": "do_not_label_anyone", - "text": "Do not label anyone" - }, - { - "id": "focus_on_what_was_learned", - "text": "Focus on what was learned" - }, - { - "id": "return_to_normal_affection", - "text": "Return to normal affection" - }, - { - "id": "try_again_only_if_both_want_to", - "text": "Try again only if both want to" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_180", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which qualities make a new intimate idea worth exploring?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "novelty", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "mutual_curiosity", - "text": "Mutual curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "clear_boundaries", - "text": "Clear boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "an_easy_opt_out", - "text": "An easy opt-out" - }, - { - "id": "a_trusted_setting", - "text": "A trusted setting" - }, - { - "id": "starting_small", - "text": "Starting small" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_181", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How would you rather hear a new idea?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "new_idea_delivery", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "in_a_relaxed_conversation", - "text": "In a relaxed conversation" - }, - { - "id": "as_a_playful_question", - "text": "As a playful question" - }, - { - "id": "in_a_shared_yes_no_maybe_list", - "text": "In a shared yes/no/maybe list" - }, - { - "id": "after_being_asked_if_i_am_open_to_ideas", - "text": "After being asked if I am open to ideas" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_182", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What protects trust when discussing fantasies?", - "depth": 4, - "tags": [ - "fantasy", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_assumption_we_will_do_it", - "text": "No assumption we will do it" - }, - { - "id": "no_judgment", - "text": "No judgment" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure_for_details", - "text": "No pressure for details" - }, - { - "id": "privacy_afterward", - "text": "Privacy afterward" - }, - { - "id": "permission_to_stop_the_conversation", - "text": "Permission to stop the conversation" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_183", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How curious do you feel about trying something new together?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "curiosity", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not curious", - "max_label": "Very curious" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_184", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which small changes sound interesting without feeling overwhelming?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "gentle_novelty", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_new_setting", - "text": "A new setting" - }, - { - "id": "a_different_pace", - "text": "A different pace" - }, - { - "id": "dressing_up", - "text": "Dressing up" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_game", - "text": "A playful game" - }, - { - "id": "changing_who_leads", - "text": "Changing who leads" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_185", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should a new idea be chosen?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "choosing_novelty", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_turns", - "text": "Take turns" - }, - { - "id": "choose_together", - "text": "Choose together" - }, - { - "id": "the_person_who_is_curious_suggests", - "text": "The person who is curious suggests" - }, - { - "id": "only_use_ideas_already_discussed", - "text": "Only use ideas already discussed" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_186", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps a new idea feel playful instead of awkward?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "role_play", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_simple_plan", - "text": "A simple plan" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_together", - "text": "Choosing together" - }, - { - "id": "being_allowed_to_laugh", - "text": "Being allowed to laugh" - }, - { - "id": "clear_limits", - "text": "Clear limits" - }, - { - "id": "permission_to_stop_immediately", - "text": "Permission to stop immediately" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_187", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "After confirming that both people want it and can stop anytime, what else should we discuss?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "toys", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "boundaries_and_limits", - "text": "Boundaries and limits" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "a_clear_stop_signal", - "text": "A clear stop signal" - }, - { - "id": "what_support_might_help_afterward", - "text": "What support might help afterward" - }, - { - "id": "what_would_make_us_postpone_it", - "text": "What would make us postpone it" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_188", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps an unfamiliar experience feel grounded?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "sensory", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "starting_small", - "text": "Starting small" - }, - { - "id": "talking_through_expectations", - "text": "Talking through expectations" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_familiar_comforts_nearby", - "text": "Keeping familiar comforts nearby" - }, - { - "id": "checking_in_as_we_go", - "text": "Checking in as we go" - }, - { - "id": "stopping_if_either_person_feels_unsure", - "text": "Stopping if either person feels unsure" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_189", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which ideas always need a separate conversation beforehand?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "no_surprise", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "anything_involving_recording", - "text": "Anything involving recording" - }, - { - "id": "anything_involving_pain_or_restriction", - "text": "Anything involving pain or restriction" - }, - { - "id": "anything_involving_another_person", - "text": "Anything involving another person" - }, - { - "id": "anything_in_a_new_location", - "text": "Anything in a new location" - }, - { - "id": "anything_already_named_as_a_boundary", - "text": "Anything already named as a boundary" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_190", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What level of novelty fits you best lately?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "novelty_level", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "familiar_favorites", - "text": "Familiar favorites" - }, - { - "id": "one_small_change", - "text": "One small change" - }, - { - "id": "something_clearly_new", - "text": "Something clearly new" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_not_looking_for_novelty", - "text": "I am not looking for novelty" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_191", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps trying new things grounded in care?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "careful_curiosity", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "checking_emotional_comfort", - "text": "Checking emotional comfort" - }, - { - "id": "respecting_hesitation", - "text": "Respecting hesitation" - }, - { - "id": "letting_comfort_matter_more_than_novelty", - "text": "Letting comfort matter more than novelty" - }, - { - "id": "talking_afterward", - "text": "Talking afterward" - }, - { - "id": "valuing_closeness_over_novelty", - "text": "Valuing closeness over novelty" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_192", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe do you feel sharing an idea that may never happen?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "sharing_fantasy", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Completely safe" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_193", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "A familiar favorite or one small new twist?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "familiar_new", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_familiar_favorite", - "text": "A familiar favorite" - }, - { - "id": "one_small_new_twist", - "text": "One small new twist" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_194", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Talk through a fantasy or keep it as imagination?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "fantasy_choice", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_through_a_fantasy", - "text": "Talk through a fantasy" - }, - { - "id": "keep_it_as_imagination", - "text": "Keep it as imagination" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_195", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How do you like anticipation to build before private time?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "flirty_messages", - "text": "Flirty messages" - }, - { - "id": "a_planned_evening", - "text": "A planned evening" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_looks", - "text": "Knowing looks" - }, - { - "id": "small_touches", - "text": "Small touches" - }, - { - "id": "a_shared_secret", - "text": "A shared secret" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_196", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which ritual would help us shift into couple time?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "ritual", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "change_the_lighting", - "text": "Change the lighting" - }, - { - "id": "put_phones_away", - "text": "Put phones away" - }, - { - "id": "choose_music_together", - "text": "Choose music together" - }, - { - "id": "share_a_quick_check_in", - "text": "Share a quick check-in" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_197", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps a planned night from feeling like an obligation?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "planned_night", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "flexible_expectations", - "text": "Flexible expectations" - }, - { - "id": "no_required_outcome", - "text": "No required outcome" - }, - { - "id": "room_to_cancel", - "text": "Room to cancel" - }, - { - "id": "affection_first", - "text": "Affection first" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan_both_people_shaped", - "text": "A plan both people shaped" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_198", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does anticipation affect your desire?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "anticipation_scale", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A great deal" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_199", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which small rituals create emotional closeness?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "emotional_rituals", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_long_hello", - "text": "A long hello" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_toast", - "text": "A private toast" - }, - { - "id": "a_shared_playlist", - "text": "A shared playlist" - }, - { - "id": "a_few_honest_minutes_at_night", - "text": "A few honest minutes at night" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_goodnight_kiss", - "text": "A slow goodnight kiss" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_200", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What signal would you enjoy using for 'I am interested'?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "interest_signal", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_specific_phrase", - "text": "A specific phrase" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_emoji", - "text": "A private emoji" - }, - { - "id": "a_certain_look", - "text": "A certain look" - }, - { - "id": "a_hand_squeeze", - "text": "A hand squeeze" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_201", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How do we keep a flirty countdown fun?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "countdown", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_clear_plan", - "text": "A clear plan" - }, - { - "id": "playful_messages", - "text": "Playful messages" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure_if_the_mood_changes", - "text": "No pressure if the mood changes" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_surprise", - "text": "A small surprise" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_it_private", - "text": "Keeping it private" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_202", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which traditions could help intimacy survive busy seasons?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "busy_rituals", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_weekly_cuddle_night", - "text": "A weekly cuddle night" - }, - { - "id": "a_monthly_private_date", - "text": "A monthly private date" - }, - { - "id": "goodbye_kisses", - "text": "Goodbye kisses" - }, - { - "id": "ten_phone_free_minutes", - "text": "Ten phone-free minutes" - }, - { - "id": "a_relaxed_talk_about_what_we_want", - "text": "A relaxed talk about what we want" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_203", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would make a morning ritual feel intimate?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "morning_ritual", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "lingering_in_bed", - "text": "Lingering in bed" - }, - { - "id": "sharing_coffee_close_together", - "text": "Sharing coffee close together" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_hug", - "text": "A long hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_sweet_message_after_leaving", - "text": "A sweet message after leaving" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_promise_for_later", - "text": "A playful promise for later" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_204", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which end-of-day signals help you feel chosen?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "end_day", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "putting_phones_away", - "text": "Putting phones away" - }, - { - "id": "turning_toward_each_other", - "text": "Turning toward each other" - }, - { - "id": "greeting_each_other_warmly", - "text": "Greeting each other warmly" - }, - { - "id": "offering_a_cuddle", - "text": "Offering a cuddle" - }, - { - "id": "saying_what_i_appreciated", - "text": "Saying what I appreciated" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_205", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which private tradition sounds most sustainable?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "sustainable_ritual", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sunday_morning_cuddles", - "text": "Sunday morning cuddles" - }, - { - "id": "a_weekly_flirty_text", - "text": "A weekly flirty text" - }, - { - "id": "a_monthly_at_home_date", - "text": "A monthly at-home date" - }, - { - "id": "a_nightly_goodnight_kiss", - "text": "A nightly goodnight kiss" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_206", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does a ritual start feeling like a chore?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "ritual_risk", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "treating_it_like_a_quota", - "text": "Treating it like a quota" - }, - { - "id": "ignoring_changing_moods", - "text": "Ignoring changing moods" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_score", - "text": "Keeping score" - }, - { - "id": "never_changing_it", - "text": "Never changing it" - }, - { - "id": "assuming_it_must_lead_somewhere", - "text": "Assuming it must lead somewhere" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_207", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to keep couple time from being crowded out?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "protected_time", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very difficult", - "max_label": "Very easy" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_208", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Build anticipation all day or keep the moment spontaneous?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "anticipation_choice", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "build_anticipation_all_day", - "text": "Build anticipation all day" - }, - { - "id": "keep_it_spontaneous", - "text": "Keep it spontaneous" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_209", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "A reliable ritual or a changing surprise?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "ritual_surprise", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_reliable_ritual", - "text": "A reliable ritual" - }, - { - "id": "a_changing_surprise", - "text": "A changing surprise" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_210", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kinds of intimacy still fit a very busy week?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "busy_week", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_flirty_message", - "text": "A flirty message" - }, - { - "id": "ten_quiet_minutes_together", - "text": "Ten quiet minutes together" - }, - { - "id": "a_meaningful_check_in", - "text": "A meaningful check-in" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_meal", - "text": "A private meal" - }, - { - "id": "a_planned_hour_for_us", - "text": "A planned hour for us" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_211", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When energy is low, what closeness sounds most realistic?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "low_energy_choice", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_cuddling", - "text": "Quiet cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_massage", - "text": "A short massage" - }, - { - "id": "talking_in_bed", - "text": "Talking in bed" - }, - { - "id": "sleeping_close", - "text": "Sleeping close" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_212", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps intimacy from feeling like another task?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "not_task", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "keeping_plans_flexible", - "text": "Keeping plans flexible" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_low_effort_closeness", - "text": "Choosing low-effort closeness" - }, - { - "id": "no_guilt_if_plans_change", - "text": "No guilt if plans change" - }, - { - "id": "making_room_for_play", - "text": "Making room for play" - }, - { - "id": "not_tracking_frequency", - "text": "Not tracking frequency" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_213", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much energy do you usually need before intimacy feels appealing?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "energy_need", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A lot" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_214", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which pressures most affect your ability to relax?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "responsibilities", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "childcare", - "text": "Childcare" - }, - { - "id": "work_stress", - "text": "Work stress" - }, - { - "id": "household_tasks", - "text": "Household tasks" - }, - { - "id": "health_needs", - "text": "Health needs" - }, - { - "id": "lack_of_privacy", - "text": "Lack of privacy" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_215", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick what would make a short private moment feel worthwhile.", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "short_moment", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "focused_attention", - "text": "Focused attention" - }, - { - "id": "one_long_kiss", - "text": "One long kiss" - }, - { - "id": "a_little_laughter", - "text": "A little laughter" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_it_is_enough", - "text": "Knowing it is enough" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_216", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps intimacy survive irregular schedules?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "schedules", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "planning_a_window", - "text": "Planning a window" - }, - { - "id": "using_small_moments", - "text": "Using small moments" - }, - { - "id": "being_honest_about_energy", - "text": "Being honest about energy" - }, - { - "id": "not_treating_low_energy_as_rejection", - "text": "Not treating low energy as rejection" - }, - { - "id": "protecting_one_recurring_time", - "text": "Protecting one recurring time" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_217", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What signs mean rest should come before intimacy?", - "depth": 4, - "tags": [ - "rest_first", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "exhaustion", - "text": "Exhaustion" - }, - { - "id": "irritability", - "text": "Irritability" - }, - { - "id": "pain", - "text": "Pain" - }, - { - "id": "difficulty_focusing", - "text": "Difficulty focusing" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_emotionally_shut_down", - "text": "Feeling emotionally shut down" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_218", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can keep affection alive during long stressful periods?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "long_stress", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_signs_of_affection", - "text": "Small signs of affection" - }, - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "shared_humor", - "text": "Shared humor" - }, - { - "id": "brief_dates", - "text": "Brief dates" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure_for_more", - "text": "No pressure for more" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_219", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can we make room for closeness without forcing it?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "make_room", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "offer_choices", - "text": "Offer choices" - }, - { - "id": "plan_loosely", - "text": "Plan loosely" - }, - { - "id": "start_with_affection", - "text": "Start with affection" - }, - { - "id": "check_energy_first", - "text": "Check energy first" - }, - { - "id": "accept_a_change_of_mind", - "text": "Accept a change of mind" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_220", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which quick connection would you choose during a packed day?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "quick_connection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_two_minute_hug", - "text": "A two-minute hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_compliment", - "text": "A private compliment" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_kiss", - "text": "A slow kiss" - }, - { - "id": "a_hand_squeeze", - "text": "A hand squeeze" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_221", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What conditions make desire more possible after burnout?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "burnout", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "enough_rest", - "text": "Enough rest" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_supported", - "text": "Feeling supported" - }, - { - "id": "reduced_pressure", - "text": "Reduced pressure" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_connection", - "text": "Emotional connection" - }, - { - "id": "time_with_fewer_demands", - "text": "Time with fewer demands" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_222", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How balanced does intimacy feel with the rest of our life?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "life_balance", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Out of balance", - "max_label": "Well balanced" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_223", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "A brief moment tonight or unhurried time this weekend?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "timing_choice", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_brief_moment_tonight", - "text": "A brief moment tonight" - }, - { - "id": "unhurried_time_this_weekend", - "text": "Unhurried time this weekend" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_224", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Quiet closeness or playful distraction after a hard day?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "hard_day_choice", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" - }, - { - "id": "playful_distraction", - "text": "Playful distraction" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_225", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which memories still bring back attraction for you?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "attraction_memory", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_first_kisses", - "text": "Our first kisses" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_trip", - "text": "A favorite trip" - }, - { - "id": "a_time_we_both_felt_confident", - "text": "A time we both felt confident" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_night", - "text": "A playful night" - }, - { - "id": "a_time_we_felt_deeply_understood", - "text": "A time we felt deeply understood" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_226", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which memory would you most enjoy recreating?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "recreate_memory", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_slow_romantic_night", - "text": "A slow romantic night" - }, - { - "id": "a_spontaneous_moment", - "text": "A spontaneous moment" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_date", - "text": "A playful date" - }, - { - "id": "a_peaceful_morning", - "text": "A peaceful morning" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_227", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes a shared intimate memory especially meaningful?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "memory_value", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "feeling_safe_together", - "text": "Feeling safe together" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_desired", - "text": "Feeling desired" - }, - { - "id": "laughing_together", - "text": "Laughing together" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_something_new_together", - "text": "Choosing something new together" - }, - { - "id": "being_fully_present", - "text": "Being fully present" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_228", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do shared memories strengthen your attraction?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "memory_scale", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A great deal" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_229", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which older habits might still have some spark?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "old_habits", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "long_make_out_sessions", - "text": "Long make-out sessions" - }, - { - "id": "flirty_notes", - "text": "Flirty notes" - }, - { - "id": "dressing_up", - "text": "Dressing up" - }, - { - "id": "slow_dancing", - "text": "Slow dancing" - }, - { - "id": "unplanned_cuddling", - "text": "Unplanned cuddling" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_230", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would be most fun to bring back for one night?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "bring_back", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "an_old_playlist", - "text": "An old playlist" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_outfit", - "text": "A favorite outfit" - }, - { - "id": "a_former_date_spot", - "text": "A former date spot" - }, - { - "id": "a_forgotten_inside_joke", - "text": "A forgotten inside joke" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_231", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps nostalgia warm instead of pressuring?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "nostalgia", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_comparison_to_the_past", - "text": "No comparison to the past" - }, - { - "id": "no_expectation_to_recreate_everything", - "text": "No expectation to recreate everything" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_one_detail", - "text": "Choosing one detail" - }, - { - "id": "appreciating_how_we_have_changed", - "text": "Appreciating how we have changed" - }, - { - "id": "letting_the_new_version_be_different", - "text": "Letting the new version be different" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_232", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What moments have made you feel most chosen by me?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "chosen_memories", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "when_you_made_time_for_us", - "text": "When you made time for us" - }, - { - "id": "when_you_protected_our_privacy", - "text": "When you protected our privacy" - }, - { - "id": "when_you_noticed_my_mood", - "text": "When you noticed my mood" - }, - { - "id": "when_you_initiated_affection", - "text": "When you initiated affection" - }, - { - "id": "when_you_respected_a_boundary", - "text": "When you respected a boundary" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_233", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What details make a romantic memory vivid?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "memory_details", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_certain_song", - "text": "A certain song" - }, - { - "id": "a_scent", - "text": "A scent" - }, - { - "id": "the_setting", - "text": "The setting" - }, - { - "id": "specific_words", - "text": "Specific words" - }, - { - "id": "how_my_body_felt", - "text": "How my body felt" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_234", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can old memories teach us about current intimacy?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "memory_lessons", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "what_pace_works", - "text": "What pace works" - }, - { - "id": "what_makes_us_laugh", - "text": "What makes us laugh" - }, - { - "id": "what_builds_trust", - "text": "What builds trust" - }, - { - "id": "what_settings_help", - "text": "What settings help" - }, - { - "id": "what_affection_we_miss", - "text": "What affection we miss" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_235", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the keepsake that would best represent our chemistry.", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "keepsake", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_photo", - "text": "A photo" - }, - { - "id": "a_song", - "text": "A song" - }, - { - "id": "a_handwritten_note", - "text": "A handwritten note" - }, - { - "id": "a_place_we_revisit", - "text": "A place we revisit" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_236", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which new memories would feel meaningful this year?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "new_memory", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_private_getaway", - "text": "A private getaway" - }, - { - "id": "a_brave_conversation", - "text": "A brave conversation" - }, - { - "id": "trying_something_playful_together", - "text": "Trying something playful together" - }, - { - "id": "a_simple_recurring_ritual", - "text": "A simple recurring ritual" - }, - { - "id": "a_deeply_relaxed_night", - "text": "A deeply relaxed night" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_237", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How meaningful do our recent memories feel?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "new_memory_scale", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very meaningful", - "max_label": "Very meaningful" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_238", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Recreate a favorite moment or invent a completely new one?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "recreate_new", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "recreate_a_favorite", - "text": "Recreate a favorite" - }, - { - "id": "invent_something_new", - "text": "Invent something new" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_239", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Old love song or a new private playlist?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "music_memory", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "an_old_love_song", - "text": "An old love song" - }, - { - "id": "a_new_private_playlist", - "text": "A new private playlist" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_240", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What emotional moments make physical closeness easier?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "emotional_closeness", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "feeling_understood", - "text": "Feeling understood" - }, - { - "id": "laughing_together", - "text": "Laughing together" - }, - { - "id": "making_up_after_a_disagreement", - "text": "Making up after a disagreement" - }, - { - "id": "receiving_appreciation", - "text": "Receiving appreciation" - }, - { - "id": "sharing_something_vulnerable", - "text": "Sharing something vulnerable" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_241", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of attention helps intimacy feel caring, not just physical?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "emotionally_chosen", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "undivided_listening", - "text": "Undivided listening" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_a_detail", - "text": "Remembering a detail" - }, - { - "id": "making_time_for_me", - "text": "Making time for me" - }, - { - "id": "checking_in_without_fixing", - "text": "Checking in without fixing" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_242", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does intimacy feel like real connection instead of something to get right?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "connection_not_performance", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "being_able_to_slow_down", - "text": "Being able to slow down" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure_to_impress", - "text": "No pressure to impress" - }, - { - "id": "honest_feedback", - "text": "Honest feedback" - }, - { - "id": "warm_eye_contact", - "text": "Warm eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_accepted", - "text": "Feeling accepted" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_243", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How emotionally connected do you feel during intimacy lately?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "emotional_scale", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very connected", - "max_label": "Deeply connected" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_244", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs show that emotional trust is present?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "emotional_trust", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_fear_of_ridicule", - "text": "No fear of ridicule" - }, - { - "id": "easy_honesty", - "text": "Easy honesty" - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_are_remembered", - "text": "Boundaries are remembered" - }, - { - "id": "silence_feels_comfortable", - "text": "Silence feels comfortable" - }, - { - "id": "both_people_can_be_imperfect", - "text": "Both people can be imperfect" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_245", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which conversation creates closeness fastest?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "closeness_talk", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_shared_memory", - "text": "A shared memory" - }, - { - "id": "a_sincere_appreciation", - "text": "A sincere appreciation" - }, - { - "id": "a_future_hope", - "text": "A future hope" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_confession", - "text": "A playful confession" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_246", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does vulnerability bring us closer?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "vulnerability", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "being_believed", - "text": "Being believed" - }, - { - "id": "being_thanked", - "text": "Being thanked" - }, - { - "id": "no_immediate_advice", - "text": "No immediate advice" - }, - { - "id": "privacy_afterward", - "text": "Privacy afterward" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_closer_not_exposed", - "text": "Feeling closer, not exposed" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_247", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which forms of appreciation strengthen intimacy?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "appreciation", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "noticing_effort", - "text": "Noticing effort" - }, - { - "id": "praising_character", - "text": "Praising character" - }, - { - "id": "naming_attraction", - "text": "Naming attraction" - }, - { - "id": "thanking_small_care", - "text": "Thanking small care" - }, - { - "id": "celebrating_growth", - "text": "Celebrating growth" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_248", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kind of affection works after an emotional conversation?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "post_talk_affection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "asking_before_touching", - "text": "Asking before touching" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_hug", - "text": "A slow hug" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_close", - "text": "Sitting close" - }, - { - "id": "a_reassuring_kiss", - "text": "A reassuring kiss" - }, - { - "id": "giving_space_first", - "text": "Giving space first" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_249", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does eye contact feel connecting rather than intense?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "eye_contact", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_warm_expression", - "text": "A warm expression" - }, - { - "id": "looking_away_is_allowed", - "text": "Looking away is allowed" - }, - { - "id": "it_happens_naturally", - "text": "It happens naturally" - }, - { - "id": "the_pace_is_slow", - "text": "The pace is slow" - }, - { - "id": "there_is_emotional_trust", - "text": "There is emotional trust" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_250", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the feeling you most want private time to create.", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "desired_feeling", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "excitement", - "text": "Excitement" - }, - { - "id": "tenderness", - "text": "Tenderness" - }, - { - "id": "deep_connection", - "text": "Deep connection" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_251", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When do we feel most like partners in intimacy?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "partnership", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_decisions", - "text": "Shared decisions" - }, - { - "id": "taking_turns_initiating", - "text": "Taking turns initiating" - }, - { - "id": "both_receive_care", - "text": "Both receive care" - }, - { - "id": "both_can_pause", - "text": "Both can pause" - }, - { - "id": "both_feel_appreciated", - "text": "Both feel appreciated" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_252", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to stay emotionally present during physical closeness?", - "depth": 4, - "tags": [ - "presence_scale", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very difficult", - "max_label": "Very easy" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_253", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Heart-to-heart first or affection first?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "order_choice", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "heart_to_heart_first", - "text": "Heart-to-heart first" - }, - { - "id": "affection_first", - "text": "Affection first" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_254", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Quiet tenderness or playful chemistry?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "chemistry_choice", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_tenderness", - "text": "Quiet tenderness" - }, - { - "id": "playful_chemistry", - "text": "Playful chemistry" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_255", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which private mini-dates sound genuinely fun?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "mini_dates", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dessert_in_bed", - "text": "Dessert in bed" - }, - { - "id": "a_candlelit_playlist_night", - "text": "A candlelit playlist night" - }, - { - "id": "slow_dancing_at_home", - "text": "Slow dancing at home" - }, - { - "id": "a_blanket_and_movie_cuddle", - "text": "A blanket-and-movie cuddle" - }, - { - "id": "a_dress_up_dinner_indoors", - "text": "A dress-up dinner indoors" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_256", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny challenge would feel playful and flirty?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "flirty_challenge", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trade_three_compliments", - "text": "Trade three compliments" - }, - { - "id": "hold_eye_contact_for_ten_seconds", - "text": "Hold eye contact for ten seconds" - }, - { - "id": "choose_each_other_s_song", - "text": "Choose each other's song" - }, - { - "id": "plan_one_surprise_date_detail", - "text": "Plan one surprise date detail" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_257", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does a couple game feel playful without feeling childish?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "adult_game", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "good_chemistry", - "text": "Good chemistry" - }, - { - "id": "private_humor", - "text": "Private humor" - }, - { - "id": "simple_rules", - "text": "Simple rules" - }, - { - "id": "either_person_can_skip_any_part", - "text": "Either person can skip any part" - }, - { - "id": "no_embarrassing_dares", - "text": "No embarrassing dares" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_258", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you enjoy playful structure in private time?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "game_scale", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not at all", - "max_label": "Very much" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_259", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which low-pressure dares would you actually enjoy?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "dares", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "give_a_slow_compliment", - "text": "Give a slow compliment" - }, - { - "id": "choose_the_mood_for_tonight", - "text": "Choose the mood for tonight" - }, - { - "id": "pick_the_next_song", - "text": "Pick the next song" - }, - { - "id": "share_a_favorite_memory", - "text": "Share a favorite memory" - }, - { - "id": "name_one_small_thing_that_helps_you_feel_close", - "text": "Name one small thing that helps you feel close" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_260", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What shared ending sounds best after a playful challenge?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "shared_prize", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_long_cuddle", - "text": "A long cuddle" - }, - { - "id": "dessert_together", - "text": "Dessert together" - }, - { - "id": "a_massage_trade", - "text": "A massage trade" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_the_next_date", - "text": "Choosing the next date" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_261", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps a teasing game from going too far?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "teasing_limits", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_stop_word", - "text": "A stop word" - }, - { - "id": "no_humiliation", - "text": "No humiliation" - }, - { - "id": "nothing_involving_bystanders", - "text": "Nothing involving bystanders" - }, - { - "id": "clear_time_limits", - "text": "Clear time limits" - }, - { - "id": "immediate_respect_for_discomfort", - "text": "Immediate respect for discomfort" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_262", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which playful choices could help us learn preferences?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "preference_games", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_yes_no_maybe_list", - "text": "A yes/no/maybe list" - }, - { - "id": "choose_among_four_affection_styles", - "text": "Choose among four affection styles" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_mood_card", - "text": "Choose a mood card" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_favorite_kind_of_affection", - "text": "Choose a favorite kind of affection" - }, - { - "id": "build_a_shared_idea_jar", - "text": "Build a shared idea jar" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_263", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would make a private scavenger hunt feel romantic?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "scavenger", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "notes_with_compliments", - "text": "Notes with compliments" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_snack", - "text": "A favorite snack" - }, - { - "id": "a_meaningful_location", - "text": "A meaningful location" - }, - { - "id": "a_final_slow_dance", - "text": "A final slow dance" - }, - { - "id": "a_no_pressure_ending", - "text": "A no-pressure ending" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_264", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which themes could make an at-home night fresh?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "themes", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "first_date_replay", - "text": "First-date replay" - }, - { - "id": "favorite_decade_music", - "text": "Favorite-decade music" - }, - { - "id": "dress_up_dinner", - "text": "Dress-up dinner" - }, - { - "id": "spa_night", - "text": "Spa night" - }, - { - "id": "phones_away_cozy_night", - "text": "Phones-away cozy night" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_265", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the playful signal that should mean 'I am open to a little closeness'.", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "come_closer_signal", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_certain_smile", - "text": "A certain smile" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_phrase", - "text": "A private phrase" - }, - { - "id": "a_hand_offered", - "text": "A hand offered" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_song_started", - "text": "A favorite song started" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_266", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does surprise affection feel fun?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "surprise_affection", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "it_stays_within_known_boundaries", - "text": "It stays within known boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "the_timing_is_considerate", - "text": "The timing is considerate" - }, - { - "id": "it_is_easy_to_decline", - "text": "It is easy to decline" - }, - { - "id": "it_feels_personal", - "text": "It feels personal" - }, - { - "id": "it_does_not_interrupt_something_important", - "text": "It does not interrupt something important" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_267", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How playful would you like our intimacy to feel this month?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "playful_month", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very playful", - "max_label": "Very playful" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_268", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "A flirty game or a slow private date?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "game_date", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_flirty_game", - "text": "A flirty game" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_private_date", - "text": "A slow private date" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_269", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Trade compliments or trade gentle massages?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "trade_choice", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trade_compliments", - "text": "Trade compliments" - }, - { - "id": "trade_gentle_massages", - "text": "Trade gentle massages" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_270", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps attraction alive in a long relationship?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "long_term_attraction", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "continued_curiosity", - "text": "Continued curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "individual_confidence", - "text": "Individual confidence" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "repairing_hurt_feelings", - "text": "Repairing hurt feelings" - }, - { - "id": "making_private_time", - "text": "Making private time" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_271", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which long-term habit protects romance best?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "romance_habit", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "regular_dates", - "text": "Regular dates" - }, - { - "id": "daily_affection", - "text": "Daily affection" - }, - { - "id": "flirty_messages", - "text": "Flirty messages" - }, - { - "id": "honest_desire_talks", - "text": "Honest desire talks" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_272", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which habits make intimacy feel routine?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "routine", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "always_the_same_timing", - "text": "Always the same timing" - }, - { - "id": "skipping_connection_beforehand", - "text": "Skipping connection beforehand" - }, - { - "id": "no_anticipation", - "text": "No anticipation" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_rushed", - "text": "Feeling rushed" - }, - { - "id": "treating_it_as_an_obligation", - "text": "Treating it as an obligation" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_273", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How fresh does our intimate connection feel lately?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "freshness", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very fresh", - "max_label": "Very fresh" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_274", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which changes deserve extra patience over the years?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "life_changes", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "health_changes", - "text": "Health changes" - }, - { - "id": "body_changes", - "text": "Body changes" - }, - { - "id": "hormonal_changes", - "text": "Hormonal changes" - }, - { - "id": "parenting_demands", - "text": "Parenting demands" - }, - { - "id": "stress_and_grief", - "text": "Stress and grief" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_275", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Where would you most like our intimacy to grow?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "growth", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_honest_communication", - "text": "More honest communication" - }, - { - "id": "more_playful_affection", - "text": "More playful affection" - }, - { - "id": "more_confidence_naming_boundaries", - "text": "More confidence naming boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "more_unhurried_time", - "text": "More unhurried time" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_276", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How do we adapt without losing closeness?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "adaptation", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_about_changes", - "text": "Talk about changes" - }, - { - "id": "let_preferences_evolve", - "text": "Let preferences evolve" - }, - { - "id": "keep_nonsexual_affection", - "text": "Keep nonsexual affection" - }, - { - "id": "avoid_comparisons_to_the_past", - "text": "Avoid comparisons to the past" - }, - { - "id": "find_new_shared_rhythms", - "text": "Find new shared rhythms" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_277", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs suggest our intimacy needs attention?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "attention_signs", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "affection_feels_absent", - "text": "Affection feels absent" - }, - { - "id": "conversations_feel_unsafe", - "text": "Conversations feel unsafe" - }, - { - "id": "initiation_feels_risky_or_pressured", - "text": "Initiation feels risky or pressured" - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_are_forgotten", - "text": "Boundaries are forgotten" - }, - { - "id": "resentment_is_growing", - "text": "Resentment is growing" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_278", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should never become a scorecard?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "scorecard", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "frequency", - "text": "Frequency" - }, - { - "id": "who_initiates", - "text": "Who initiates" - }, - { - "id": "who_says_no", - "text": "Who says no" - }, - { - "id": "who_plans_dates", - "text": "Who plans dates" - }, - { - "id": "who_needs_more_reassurance", - "text": "Who needs more reassurance" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_279", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What supports intimacy through major life transitions?", - "depth": 5, - "tags": [ - "transitions", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "realistic_expectations", - "text": "Realistic expectations" - }, - { - "id": "flexible_definitions_of_closeness", - "text": "Flexible definitions of closeness" - }, - { - "id": "honest_talks_as_needs_change", - "text": "Honest talks as needs change" - }, - { - "id": "extra_patience_with_changing_energy", - "text": "Extra patience with changing energy" - }, - { - "id": "updating_what_closeness_looks_like", - "text": "Updating what closeness looks like" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_280", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the shared promise that would best protect long-term intimacy.", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "shared_promise", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_can_always_pause", - "text": "We can always pause" - }, - { - "id": "we_will_keep_learning_each_other", - "text": "We will keep learning each other" - }, - { - "id": "no_private_detail_becomes_a_weapon", - "text": "No private detail becomes a weapon" - }, - { - "id": "affection_never_creates_debt", - "text": "Affection never creates debt" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_281", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can make growing older together feel attractive?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "aging", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_history", - "text": "Shared history" - }, - { - "id": "deep_trust", - "text": "Deep trust" - }, - { - "id": "comfort_in_our_bodies", - "text": "Comfort in our bodies" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_each_other_s_cues", - "text": "Knowing each other's cues" - }, - { - "id": "still_surprising_each_other", - "text": "Still surprising each other" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_282", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How confident are you that our intimacy can keep evolving?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "evolving", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not confident", - "max_label": "Very confident" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_283", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Protect a favorite ritual or invent a new one?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "ritual_evolution", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "protect_a_favorite_ritual", - "text": "Protect a favorite ritual" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_new_one", - "text": "Invent a new one" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_284", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well does our current intimacy fit this stage of life?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "life_stage_fit", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Does not fit well yet", - "max_label": "Fits very well" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_285", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What do you hope our intimacy includes more of next year?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "future", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_closeness", - "text": "Emotional closeness" - }, - { - "id": "unhurried_time", - "text": "Unhurried time" - }, - { - "id": "honest_conversations", - "text": "Honest conversations" - }, - { - "id": "new_shared_experiences", - "text": "New shared experiences" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_286", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which future intimacy goal feels most meaningful?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "future_goal", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "feeling_safer_to_speak", - "text": "Feeling safer to speak" - }, - { - "id": "making_more_time", - "text": "Making more time" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_attraction_playful", - "text": "Keeping attraction playful" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_cared_for_afterward", - "text": "Feeling cared for afterward" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_287", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What parts of our current connection deserve appreciation?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "current_appreciation", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_affection", - "text": "Our affection" - }, - { - "id": "our_honesty", - "text": "Our honesty" - }, - { - "id": "our_humor", - "text": "Our humor" - }, - { - "id": "our_ability_to_repair", - "text": "Our ability to repair" - }, - { - "id": "our_respect_for_boundaries", - "text": "Our respect for boundaries" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_288", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our intimate future?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "hope", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not hopeful", - "max_label": "Very hopeful" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_289", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which shared intentions could strengthen closeness?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "intentions", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_what_feels_good_now", - "text": "Ask what feels good now" - }, - { - "id": "protect_private_time", - "text": "Protect private time" - }, - { - "id": "offer_affection_without_expectation", - "text": "Offer affection without expectation" - }, - { - "id": "try_one_small_new_thing", - "text": "Try one small new thing" - }, - { - "id": "celebrate_what_already_works", - "text": "Celebrate what already works" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_290", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you hope we remember years from now?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "future_memory", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_stayed_kind", - "text": "We stayed kind" - }, - { - "id": "we_kept_flirting", - "text": "We kept flirting" - }, - { - "id": "we_respected_every_no", - "text": "We respected every no" - }, - { - "id": "we_never_stopped_learning", - "text": "We never stopped learning" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_291", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which parts of the way we handle intimacy make you proud?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "pride", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_can_be_honest", - "text": "We can be honest" - }, - { - "id": "we_respect_boundaries", - "text": "We respect boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "we_recover_from_awkwardness", - "text": "We recover from awkwardness" - }, - { - "id": "we_make_each_other_laugh", - "text": "We make each other laugh" - }, - { - "id": "we_keep_choosing_connection", - "text": "We keep choosing connection" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_292", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which qualities do you want us to protect no matter what?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "protect", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "mutual_choice", - "text": "Mutual choice" - }, - { - "id": "freedom_to_change", - "text": "Freedom to change" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_293", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What could help us feel more connected over the next few months?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "next_season", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_new_ritual", - "text": "A new ritual" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_getaway", - "text": "A private getaway" - }, - { - "id": "better_stress_support", - "text": "Better stress support" - }, - { - "id": "more_daily_affection", - "text": "More daily affection" - }, - { - "id": "a_more_honest_conversation", - "text": "A more honest conversation" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_294", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which appreciation would you most like to hear from me?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "appreciation_hear", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_love_how_easy_honesty_feels_with_you", - "text": "I love how easy honesty feels with you" - }, - { - "id": "i_love_our_chemistry", - "text": "I love our chemistry" - }, - { - "id": "i_notice_how_you_care_for_me", - "text": "I notice how you care for me" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_grateful_we_can_grow_together", - "text": "I am grateful we can grow together" - }, - { - "id": "i_still_choose_you", - "text": "I still choose you" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_295", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which small promise feels realistic for this month?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "monthly_promise", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_private_date", - "text": "One private date" - }, - { - "id": "more_goodbye_kisses", - "text": "More goodbye kisses" - }, - { - "id": "one_relaxed_talk_about_what_we_want", - "text": "One relaxed talk about what we want" - }, - { - "id": "ten_phone_free_cuddle_minutes", - "text": "Ten phone-free cuddle minutes" - } - ] - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_296", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps closeness from getting lost in everyday life?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "visibility", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "naming_what_works", - "text": "Naming what works" - }, - { - "id": "celebrating_small_moments", - "text": "Celebrating small moments" - }, - { - "id": "planning_time_before_we_are_depleted", - "text": "Planning time before we are depleted" - }, - { - "id": "continuing_to_flirt", - "text": "Continuing to flirt" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_check_ins_brief_and_natural", - "text": "Keeping check-ins brief and natural" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_297", - "category_id": "couple_intimacy", - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral" - }, - { - "type": "scale", - "text": "How appreciated do you feel for the way you contribute to our closeness?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "appreciated_scale", - "couple_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very appreciated", - "max_label": "Deeply appreciated" - }, - "id": "couple_intimacy_298", - 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"daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How should we spend our first ten minutes together tonight?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_monday_mood_check", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_tiny_ritual" ], - "text": "How should we spend our first ten minutes together tonight?" + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_hello_hug", + "text": "A long hello hug" + }, + { + "id": "a_snack_taste_test", + "text": "A snack taste-test" + }, + { + "id": "one_funny_story_each", + "text": "One funny story each" + }, + { + "id": "a_two_song_dance", + "text": "A two-song dance" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_hello_hug", + "text": "A long hello hug" + }, + { + "id": "a_snack_taste_test", + "text": "A snack taste-test" + }, + { + "id": "one_funny_story_each", + "text": "One funny story each" + }, + { + "id": "a_two_song_dance", + "text": "A two-song dance" + } + ], + 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cuddle" + }, + { + "id": "a_song_chosen_just_for_us", + "text": "A song chosen just for us" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_004", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What would you pick for a two-minute laugh break?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_monday_mood_check", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_low_effort_laugh" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "bad_celebrity_impressions", + "text": "Bad celebrity impressions" + }, + { + "id": "read_one_star_reviews_aloud", + "text": "Read one-star reviews aloud" + }, + { + "id": "invent_terrible_movie_titles", + "text": "Invent terrible movie titles" + }, + { + "id": "caption_an_old_photo", + "text": "Caption an old photo" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bad_celebrity_impressions", + "text": "Bad celebrity impressions" + }, + { + "id": "read_one_star_reviews_aloud", + "text": "Read one-star reviews aloud" + }, + { + "id": "invent_terrible_movie_titles", + "text": "Invent terrible movie titles" + }, + { + "id": "caption_an_old_photo", + "text": "Caption an old photo" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_005", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "For the next hour, which rule should become official?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_monday_mood_check", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_choose_vibe" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "cozy_and_unhurried", + "text": "Cozy and unhurried" + }, + { + "id": "silly_and_snack_powered", + "text": "Silly and snack-powered" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_with_a_little_flirting", + "text": "Quiet with a little flirting" + }, + { + "id": "music_filled_and_phone_free", + "text": "Music-filled and phone-free" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cozy_and_unhurried", + "text": "Cozy and unhurried" + }, + { + "id": "silly_and_snack_powered", + "text": "Silly and snack-powered" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_with_a_little_flirting", + "text": "Quiet with a little flirting" + }, + { + "id": "music_filled_and_phone_free", + "text": "Music-filled and phone-free" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } }, { "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_006", - "expected_text": "Which choice should lead a one-song moment?", - "reasons": [ - "stiff_spoken_voice", - "ai_phrase_future_us" - ], + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should we do for one song?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_monday_mood_check", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_one_song_challenge" + ], "options": [ { "id": "slow_dance_in_the_kitchen", @@ -55,83 +438,12981 @@ "id": "pick_a_song_for_future_us", "text": "Pick a song that feels like us" } - ] + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_dance_in_the_kitchen", + "text": "Slow dance in the kitchen" + }, + { + "id": "sing_the_chorus_badly", + "text": "Sing the chorus badly" + }, + { + "id": "trade_headphones_for_a_verse", + "text": "Trade headphones for a verse" + }, + { + "id": "pick_a_song_for_future_us", + "text": "Pick a song that feels like us" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_007", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "For an easy treat, which idea sounds best?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_monday_mood_check", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_treat_pick" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "warm_cookies", + "text": "Warm cookies" + }, + { + "id": "a_salty_snack_flight", + "text": "A salty snack flight" + }, + { + "id": "fancy_hot_chocolate", + "text": "Fancy hot chocolate" + }, + { + "id": "fruit_with_whipped_cream", + "text": "Fruit with whipped cream" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "warm_cookies", + "text": "Warm cookies" + }, + { + "id": "a_salty_snack_flight", + "text": "A salty snack flight" + }, + { + "id": "fancy_hot_chocolate", + "text": "Fancy hot chocolate" + }, + { + "id": "fruit_with_whipped_cream", + "text": "Fruit with whipped cream" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } }, { "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_008", - "expected_text": "For a phone-free ten minutes, what gets our official vote?", - "reasons": [ - "canned_game_show_phrase" + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should we do for ten phone-free minutes?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_monday_mood_check", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_no_phone_moment" ], - "text": "What should we do for ten phone-free minutes?" + "options": [ + { + "id": "sit_outside_together", + "text": "Sit outside together" + }, + { + "id": "share_one_snack_slowly", + "text": "Share one snack slowly" + }, + { + "id": "look_through_old_photos", + "text": "Look through old photos" + }, + { + "id": "ask_one_fun_question", + "text": "Ask one fun question" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sit_outside_together", + "text": "Sit outside together" + }, + { + "id": "share_one_snack_slowly", + "text": "Share one snack slowly" + }, + { + "id": "look_through_old_photos", + "text": "Look through old photos" + }, + { + "id": "ask_one_fun_question", + "text": "Ask one fun question" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_009", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "For a small surprise tonight, what is our move?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_monday_mood_check", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_small_surprise" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_favorite_drink_waiting", + "text": "A favorite drink waiting" + }, + { + "id": "a_note_in_an_odd_place", + "text": "A note in an odd place" + }, + { + "id": "a_song_sent_with_no_explanation", + "text": "A song sent with no explanation" + }, + { + "id": "a_mystery_dessert", + "text": "A mystery dessert" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_favorite_drink_waiting", + "text": "A favorite drink waiting" + }, + { + "id": "a_note_in_an_odd_place", + "text": "A note in an odd place" + }, + { + "id": "a_song_sent_with_no_explanation", + "text": "A song sent with no explanation" + }, + { + "id": "a_mystery_dessert", + "text": "A mystery dessert" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_010", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "A cozy competition: what sounds best?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_monday_mood_check", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_silly_bet" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "best_snack_presentation", + "text": "Best snack presentation" + }, + { + "id": "fastest_three_song_playlist", + "text": "Fastest three-song playlist" + }, + { + "id": "funniest_movie_summary", + "text": "Funniest movie summary" + }, + { + "id": "most_dramatic_yawn", + "text": "Most dramatic yawn" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "best_snack_presentation", + "text": "Best snack presentation" + }, + { + "id": "fastest_three_song_playlist", + "text": "Fastest three-song playlist" + }, + { + "id": "funniest_movie_summary", + "text": "Funniest movie summary" + }, + { + "id": "most_dramatic_yawn", + "text": "Most dramatic yawn" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } }, { "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_011", - "expected_text": "A little future 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"id": "a_saturday_coffee_run", + "text": "A Saturday coffee run" + }, + { + "id": "a_sunday_breakfast_date", + "text": "A Sunday breakfast date" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } }, { "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_012", - "expected_text": "Which tiny gesture would make you feel specially chosen?", - "reasons": [ - "ai_polished_wording" + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which small gesture makes you feel chosen?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_monday_mood_check", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_feeling_chosen" ], - "text": "Which small gesture makes you feel chosen?" + "options": [ + { + "id": "save_a_seat_beside_me", + "text": "Save a seat beside me" + }, + { + "id": "send_the_first_funny_thing_you_see", + "text": "Send the first funny thing you see" + }, + { + "id": "choose_a_song_with_me_in_mind", + "text": "Choose a song with me in mind" + }, + { + "id": "bring_me_into_the_conversation", + "text": "Bring me into the conversation" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "save_a_seat_beside_me", + "text": "Save a seat beside me" + }, + { + "id": "send_the_first_funny_thing_you_see", + "text": "Send the first funny thing you see" + }, + { + "id": "choose_a_song_with_me_in_mind", + "text": "Choose a song with me in mind" + }, + { + "id": "bring_me_into_the_conversation", + "text": "Bring me into the conversation" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_013", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "An after-work hour: what wins our vote?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_monday_mood_check", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_mini_date" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "order_a_favorite_snack", + "text": "Order a favorite snack" + }, + { + "id": 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"daily_monday_mood_check", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_tiny_ritual" ], - "text": "What would make the ride home better?" + "options": [ + { + "id": "take_the_pretty_route", + "text": "Take the pretty route" + }, + { + "id": "share_one_good_song", + "text": "Share one good song" + }, + { + "id": "stop_for_a_small_treat", + "text": "Stop for a small treat" + }, + { + "id": "invent_a_car_game_rule", + "text": "Invent a car-game rule" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "take_the_pretty_route", + "text": "Take the pretty route" + }, + { + "id": "share_one_good_song", + "text": "Share one good song" + }, + { + "id": "stop_for_a_small_treat", + "text": "Stop for a small treat" + }, + { + "id": "invent_a_car_game_rule", + "text": "Invent a car-game rule" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_015", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "A tired evening: choose our favorite.", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_monday_mood_check", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_playful_care" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "easy_food_and_a_comedy", + "text": "Easy food and a comedy" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_company_and_cocoa", + "text": "Quiet company and cocoa" + }, + { + "id": "a_slow_walk_and_snacks", + "text": "A slow walk and snacks" + }, + { + "id": "one_game_with_no_scorekeeping", + "text": "One game with no scorekeeping" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "easy_food_and_a_comedy", + "text": "Easy food and a comedy" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_company_and_cocoa", + "text": "Quiet company and cocoa" + }, + { + "id": "a_slow_walk_and_snacks", + "text": "A slow walk and snacks" + }, + { + "id": "one_game_with_no_scorekeeping", + "text": "One game with no scorekeeping" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_016", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which choice wins for a quick couch game?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_monday_mood_check", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_low_effort_laugh" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "guess_the_next_line", + "text": "Guess the next line" + }, + { + "id": "would_you_rather_lightning_round", + "text": "Would-you-rather lightning round" + }, + { + "id": "name_that_snack_with_eyes_closed", + "text": "Name that snack with eyes closed" + }, + { + "id": "make_up_a_fake_commercial", + "text": "Make up a fake commercial" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "guess_the_next_line", + "text": "Guess the next line" + }, + { + "id": "would_you_rather_lightning_round", + "text": "Would-you-rather lightning round" + }, + { + "id": "name_that_snack_with_eyes_closed", + "text": "Name that snack with eyes closed" + }, + { + "id": "make_up_a_fake_commercial", + "text": "Make up a fake commercial" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_017", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which option leads tonight’s vibe?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_monday_mood_check", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_choose_vibe" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort_show_cozy", + "text": "Comfort-show cozy" + }, + { + "id": "kitchen_dance_playful", + "text": "Kitchen-dance playful" + }, + { + "id": "dessert_date_sweet", + "text": "Dessert-date sweet" + }, + { + "id": "early_night_peaceful", + "text": "Early-night peaceful" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "comfort_show_cozy", + "text": "Comfort-show cozy" + }, + { + "id": "kitchen_dance_playful", + "text": "Kitchen-dance playful" + }, + { + "id": "dessert_date_sweet", + "text": "Dessert-date sweet" + }, + { + "id": "early_night_peaceful", + "text": "Early-night peaceful" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_018", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which soundtrack should lead our tiny music break?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_monday_mood_check", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_one_song_challenge" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "an_old_favorite", + "text": "An old favorite" + }, + { + "id": "a_guilty_pleasure_anthem", + "text": "A guilty-pleasure anthem" + }, + { + "id": "a_song_that_feels_like_us", + "text": "A song that feels like us" + }, + { + "id": "a_brand_new_discovery", + "text": "A brand-new discovery" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "an_old_favorite", + "text": "An old favorite" + }, + { + "id": "a_guilty_pleasure_anthem", + "text": "A 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surprise would be your favorite?" + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_forehead_kiss_if_welcome", + "text": "A forehead kiss if welcome" + }, + { + "id": "a_dramatic_compliment", + "text": "A dramatic compliment" + }, + { + "id": "a_tiny_treat_with_your_name_on_it", + "text": "A tiny treat with your name on it" + }, + { + "id": "a_funny_note_hidden_in_plain_sight", + "text": "A funny note hidden in plain sight" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_forehead_kiss_if_welcome", + "text": "A forehead kiss if welcome" + }, + { + "id": "a_dramatic_compliment", + "text": "A dramatic compliment" + }, + { + "id": "a_tiny_treat_with_your_name_on_it", + "text": "A tiny treat with your name on it" + }, + { + "id": "a_funny_note_hidden_in_plain_sight", + "text": "A funny note hidden in plain sight" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_022", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "A friendly one-round 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"Best Accidental Dance" + }, + { + "id": "most_questionable_taste_test", + "text": "Most Questionable Taste-Test" + }, + { + "id": "top_tier_teamwork", + "text": "Top-Tier Teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "excellence_in_stealing_bites", + "text": "Excellence in Stealing Bites" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_230", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "No diplomacy—pick the superior lazy-date setup:", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_playful_debate" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "side_by_side_floor_cushions", + "text": "Side-by-side floor cushions" + }, + { + "id": "feet_resting_together", + "text": "Feet resting together" + }, + { + "id": "perfect_window_seats", + "text": "Perfect window seats" + }, + { + "id": "porch_chairs_angled_close", + "text": "Porch chairs angled close" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "side_by_side_floor_cushions", + "text": "Side-by-side floor cushions" + }, + { + "id": "feet_resting_together", + "text": "Feet resting together" + }, + { + "id": "perfect_window_seats", + "text": "Perfect window seats" + }, + { + "id": "porch_chairs_angled_close", + "text": "Porch chairs angled close" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_231", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "A blind taste-test: choose our favorite.", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_weird_snack" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "mystery_sodas", + "text": "Mystery sodas" + }, + { + "id": "odd_chip_flavors", + "text": "Odd chip flavors" + }, + { + "id": "store_brand_cookies", + "text": "Store-brand cookies" + }, + { + "id": "jam_flavors", + "text": "Jam flavors" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "mystery_sodas", + "text": "Mystery sodas" + }, + { + "id": "odd_chip_flavors", + "text": "Odd chip flavors" + }, + { + "id": "store_brand_cookies", + "text": "Store-brand cookies" + }, + { + "id": "jam_flavors", + "text": "Jam flavors" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_232", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Turn choosing a movie into a production—pick the narration style:", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_dramatic_bit" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "courtroom_drama", + "text": "Courtroom drama" + }, + { + "id": "wildlife_documentary", + "text": "Wildlife documentary" + }, + { + "id": "luxury_commercial", + "text": "Luxury commercial" + }, + { + "id": "epic_fantasy_prophecy", + "text": "Epic fantasy prophecy" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "courtroom_drama", + "text": "Courtroom drama" + }, + { + "id": "wildlife_documentary", + "text": "Wildlife documentary" + }, + { + "id": "luxury_commercial", + "text": "Luxury commercial" + }, + { + "id": "epic_fantasy_prophecy", + "text": "Epic fantasy prophecy" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_233", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which commercial-break challenge gets your vote?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_couch_game" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_your_best_movie_trailer_voice", + "text": "Use your best movie-trailer voice" + }, + { + "id": "guess_a_mystery_sound", + "text": "Guess a mystery sound" + }, + { + "id": "hold_a_bad_joke_duel", + "text": "Hold a bad-joke duel" + }, + { + "id": "invent_a_fake_movie_title", + "text": "Invent a fake movie title" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_your_best_movie_trailer_voice", + "text": "Use your best movie-trailer voice" + }, + { + "id": "guess_a_mystery_sound", + "text": "Guess a mystery sound" + }, + { + "id": "hold_a_bad_joke_duel", + "text": "Hold a bad-joke duel" + }, + { + "id": "invent_a_fake_movie_title", + "text": "Invent a fake movie title" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_234", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should we do with our funniest shared phrase?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_inside_joke" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_it_as_a_photo_caption", + "text": "Use it as a photo caption" + }, + { + "id": "turn_it_into_a_date_night_code", + "text": "Turn it into a date-night code" + }, + { + "id": "make_it_our_victory_slogan", + "text": "Make it our victory slogan" + }, + { + "id": "hide_it_inside_a_voice_note", + "text": "Hide it inside a voice note" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_it_as_a_photo_caption", + "text": "Use it as a photo caption" + }, + { + "id": "turn_it_into_a_date_night_code", + "text": "Turn it into a date-night code" + }, + { + "id": "make_it_our_victory_slogan", + "text": "Make it our victory slogan" + }, + { + "id": "hide_it_inside_a_voice_note", + "text": "Hide it inside a voice note" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_235", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "A guilty-pleasure show: what wins our vote?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_guilty_pleasure" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "dating_show_chaos", + "text": "Dating-show chaos" + }, + { + "id": "home_makeover_drama", + "text": "Home-makeover drama" + }, + { + "id": "food_competition", + "text": "Food competition" + }, + { + "id": "old_reality_tv", + "text": "Old reality TV" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "dating_show_chaos", + "text": "Dating-show chaos" + }, + { + "id": "home_makeover_drama", + "text": "Home-makeover drama" + }, + { + "id": "food_competition", + "text": "Food competition" + }, + { + "id": "old_reality_tv", + "text": "Old reality TV" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_236", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should we predict in our tiny contest?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_silly_bet" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "who_quotes_the_show_first", + "text": "Who quotes the show first" + }, + { + "id": "what_happens_in_the_next_scene", + "text": "What happens in the next scene" + }, + { + "id": "which_snack_disappears_first", + "text": "Which snack disappears first" + }, + { + "id": "who_predicts_the_final_line", + "text": "Who predicts the final line" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "who_quotes_the_show_first", + "text": "Who quotes the show first" + }, + { + "id": "what_happens_in_the_next_scene", + "text": "What happens in the next scene" + }, + { + "id": "which_snack_disappears_first", + "text": "Which snack disappears first" + }, + { + "id": "who_predicts_the_final_line", + "text": "Who predicts the final line" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_237", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "For a five-minute photo hunt, what do we like best?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_photo_challenge" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "something_tiny", + "text": "Something tiny" + }, + { + "id": "something_accidentally_romantic", + "text": "Something accidentally romantic" + }, + { + "id": "something_that_looks_haunted", + "text": "Something that looks haunted" + }, + { + "id": "something_oddly_luxurious", + "text": "Something oddly luxurious" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "something_tiny", + "text": "Something tiny" + }, + { + "id": "something_accidentally_romantic", + "text": "Something accidentally romantic" + }, + { + "id": "something_that_looks_haunted", + "text": "Something that looks haunted" + }, + { + "id": "something_oddly_luxurious", + "text": "Something oddly luxurious" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } }, { "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_238", - "expected_text": "A sixty-second challenge—which option wins?", - "reasons": [ - "childlike_party_game", - "weak_adult_couple_payoff" - ], + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which one-minute challenge sounds worth trying?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_quick_game" + ], "options": [ { "id": "draw_each_other_without_looking_down", @@ -149,16 +13430,45 @@ "id": "pitch_the_worst_possible_date_idea", "text": "Pitch the worst possible date idea" } - ] + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "draw_each_other_without_looking_down", + "text": "Draw each other without looking down" + }, + { + "id": "find_the_oldest_photo_on_our_phones", + "text": "Find the oldest photo on our phones" + }, + { + "id": "name_five_things_we_both_love", + "text": "Name five things we both love" + }, + { + "id": "pitch_the_worst_possible_date_idea", + "text": "Pitch the worst possible date idea" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } }, { "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_239", - "expected_text": "Which weird little rule should we use?", - "reasons": [ - "forced_childlike_humor", - "random_bit_overload" - ], + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which rule would make tonight funnier?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_harmless_chaos" + ], "options": [ { "id": "every_complaint_needs_a_dramatic_title", @@ -176,16 +13486,661 @@ "id": "every_minor_inconvenience_gets_a_movie_trailer_voice", "text": "Every minor inconvenience gets a movie-trailer voice" } - ] + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "every_complaint_needs_a_dramatic_title", + "text": "Every complaint needs a dramatic title" + }, + { + "id": "whoever_checks_their_phone_first_picks_the_music", + "text": "Whoever checks their phone first picks the music" + }, + { + "id": "the_first_person_to_say_we_should_go_to_bed_starts_a_timer", + "text": "The first person to say “we should go to bed” starts a timer" + }, + { + "id": "every_minor_inconvenience_gets_a_movie_trailer_voice", + "text": "Every minor inconvenience gets a movie-trailer voice" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_240", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which silent acting challenge should we try?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_improv" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "mime_ordering_breakfast", + "text": "Mime ordering breakfast" + }, + { + "id": "act_out_the_weather", + "text": "Act out the weather" + }, + { + "id": "recreate_a_famous_movie_moment", + "text": "Recreate a famous movie moment" + }, + { + "id": "impersonate_an_animal", + "text": "Impersonate an animal" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "mime_ordering_breakfast", + "text": "Mime ordering breakfast" + }, + { + "id": "act_out_the_weather", + "text": "Act out the weather" + }, + { + "id": "recreate_a_famous_movie_moment", + "text": "Recreate a famous movie moment" + }, + { + "id": "impersonate_an_animal", + "text": "Impersonate an animal" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_241", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which official honor fits our texting style best?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_fake_award" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "fastest_meme_response", + "text": "Fastest Meme Response" + }, + { + "id": "best_secret_code_message", + "text": "Best Secret-Code Message" + }, + { + "id": "most_unnecessary_emoji", + "text": "Most Unnecessary Emoji" + }, + { + "id": "most_charming_plot_twist", + "text": "Most Charming Plot Twist" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fastest_meme_response", + "text": "Fastest Meme Response" + }, + { + "id": "best_secret_code_message", + "text": "Best Secret-Code Message" + }, + { + "id": "most_unnecessary_emoji", + "text": "Most Unnecessary Emoji" + }, + { + "id": "most_charming_plot_twist", + "text": "Most Charming Plot Twist" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_242", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which useless superpower is clearly the best?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_playful_debate" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "always_finding_parking", + "text": "Always finding parking" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_when_food_is_ready", + "text": "Knowing when food is ready" + }, + { + "id": "never_losing_the_remote", + "text": "Never losing the remote" + }, + { + "id": "picking_perfect_avocados", + "text": "Picking perfect avocados" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "always_finding_parking", + "text": "Always finding parking" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_when_food_is_ready", + "text": "Knowing when food is ready" + }, + { + "id": "never_losing_the_remote", + "text": "Never losing the remote" + }, + { + "id": "picking_perfect_avocados", + "text": "Picking perfect avocados" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_243", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which snack should we judge like fine dining?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_weird_snack" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gas_station_pastry", + "text": "Gas-station pastry" + }, + { + "id": "frozen_pizza", + "text": "Frozen pizza" + }, + { + "id": "microwave_popcorn", + "text": "Microwave popcorn" + }, + { + "id": "a_neon_colored_gummy_mix", + "text": "A neon-colored gummy mix" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gas_station_pastry", + "text": "Gas-station pastry" + }, + { + "id": "frozen_pizza", + "text": "Frozen pizza" + }, + { + "id": "microwave_popcorn", + "text": "Microwave popcorn" + }, + { + "id": "a_neon_colored_gummy_mix", + "text": "A neon-colored gummy mix" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_244", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How should we dramatically announce looking for the remote?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_dramatic_bit" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "detective_noir", + "text": "Detective noir" + }, + { + "id": "emergency_broadcast", + "text": "Emergency broadcast" + }, + { + "id": "treasure_hunt_narration", + "text": "Treasure-hunt narration" + }, + { + "id": "sports_play_by_play", + "text": "Sports play-by-play" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "detective_noir", + "text": "Detective noir" + }, + { + "id": "emergency_broadcast", + "text": "Emergency broadcast" + }, + { + "id": "treasure_hunt_narration", + "text": "Treasure-hunt narration" + }, + { + "id": "sports_play_by_play", + "text": "Sports play-by-play" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_245", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "A game with no supplies—what should we pick?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_couch_game" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "guess_the_mystery_person", + "text": "Guess the mystery person" + }, + { + "id": "categories_lightning_round", + "text": "Categories lightning round" + }, + { + "id": "would_you_rather", + "text": "Would-you-rather" + }, + { + "id": "finish_the_lyric", + "text": "Finish the lyric" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "guess_the_mystery_person", + "text": "Guess the mystery person" + }, + { + "id": "categories_lightning_round", + "text": "Categories lightning round" + }, + { + "id": "would_you_rather", + "text": "Would-you-rather" + }, + { + "id": "finish_the_lyric", + "text": "Finish the lyric" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_246", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How should we remix a piece of couple lore?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_inside_joke" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "act_it_out_badly", + "text": "Act it out badly" + }, + { + "id": "tell_it_from_the_villains_view", + "text": "Tell it from the villain’s view" + }, + { + "id": "turn_it_into_a_fake_documentary", + "text": "Turn it into a fake documentary" + }, + { + "id": "create_the_sequel", + "text": "Create the sequel" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "act_it_out_badly", + "text": "Act it out badly" + }, + { + "id": "tell_it_from_the_villains_view", + "text": "Tell it from the villain’s view" + }, + { + "id": "turn_it_into_a_fake_documentary", + "text": "Turn it into a fake documentary" + }, + { + "id": "create_the_sequel", + "text": "Create the sequel" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_247", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "For a movie-trailer roulette, which option gets the nod?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_guilty_pleasure" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "watch_the_weirdest_one", + "text": "Watch the weirdest one" + }, + { + "id": "pick_by_worst_title", + "text": "Pick by worst title" + }, + { + "id": "choose_the_most_dramatic_poster", + "text": "Choose the most dramatic poster" + }, + { + "id": "let_the_thumbnail_decide", + "text": "Let the thumbnail decide" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "watch_the_weirdest_one", + "text": "Watch the weirdest one" + }, + { + "id": "pick_by_worst_title", + "text": "Pick by worst title" + }, + { + "id": "choose_the_most_dramatic_poster", + "text": "Choose the most dramatic poster" + }, + { + "id": "let_the_thumbnail_decide", + "text": "Let the thumbnail decide" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_248", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should the winner of our tiny wager get?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_silly_bet" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "first_choice_of_dessert", + "text": "First choice of dessert" + }, + { + "id": "control_of_the_next_three_songs", + "text": "Control of the next three songs" + }, + { + "id": "the_right_to_name_tonight", + "text": "The right to name tonight" + }, + { + "id": "first_pick_of_the_next_mini_date", + "text": "First pick of the next mini-date" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "first_choice_of_dessert", + "text": "First choice of dessert" + }, + { + "id": "control_of_the_next_three_songs", + "text": "Control of the next three songs" + }, + { + "id": "the_right_to_name_tonight", + "text": "The right to name tonight" + }, + { + "id": "first_pick_of_the_next_mini_date", + "text": "First pick of the next mini-date" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_249", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which camera-roll challenge should we try?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_photo_challenge" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "funniest_forgotten_photo", + "text": "Funniest forgotten photo" + }, + { + "id": "best_accidental_screenshot", + "text": "Best accidental screenshot" + }, + { + "id": "most_dramatic_food_picture", + "text": "Most dramatic 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overrated foods" + }, + { + "id": "best_songs_for_driving", + "text": "Best songs for driving" + }, + { + "id": "things_we_would_name_a_pet", + "text": "Things we would name a pet" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "favorite_tiny_dates", + "text": "Favorite tiny dates" + }, + { + "id": "most_overrated_foods", + "text": "Most overrated foods" + }, + { + "id": "best_songs_for_driving", + "text": "Best songs for driving" + }, + { + "id": "things_we_would_name_a_pet", + "text": "Things we would name a pet" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } }, { "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_251", - "expected_text": "A spontaneous bit: which option would you choose?", - "reasons": [ - "generic_prompt", - "random_noun_humor" - ], + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which low-effort bit would make tonight funnier?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_harmless_chaos" + ], "options": [ { "id": "narrate_dinner_like_a_true_crime_show", @@ -203,16 +14158,45 @@ "id": "pitch_our_home_as_a_luxury_resort", "text": "Pitch our home as a luxury resort" } - ] + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "narrate_dinner_like_a_true_crime_show", + "text": "Narrate dinner like a true-crime show" + }, + { + "id": "review_our_week_like_sports_commentators", + "text": "Review our week like sports commentators" + }, + { + "id": "recreate_our_worst_customer_service_voices", + "text": "Recreate our worst customer-service voices" + }, + { + "id": "pitch_our_home_as_a_luxury_resort", + "text": "Pitch our home as a luxury resort" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } }, { "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_252", - "expected_text": "Which terrible acting scene should we perform?", - "reasons": [ - "children_party_improv", - "weak_relationship_relevance" - ], + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which scene from adult life should we overact?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_improv" + ], "options": [ { "id": "forgetting_why_we_entered_a_room", @@ -230,24 +14214,11469 @@ "id": "hearing_an_unexpected_knock_at_the_door", "text": "Hearing an unexpected knock at the door" } - ] + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "forgetting_why_we_entered_a_room", + "text": "Forgetting why we entered a room" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_dinner_when_neither_of_us_cares", + "text": "Choosing dinner when neither of us cares" + }, + { + "id": "pretending_well_go_to_bed_early", + "text": "Pretending we’ll go to bed early" + }, + { + "id": "hearing_an_unexpected_knock_at_the_door", + "text": "Hearing an unexpected knock at the door" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_253", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Choose the award category for our car conversations:", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_fake_award" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "best_plot_twist", + "text": "Best Plot Twist" + }, + { + "id": "longest_unplanned_detour", + "text": "Longest Unplanned Detour" + }, + { + "id": "funniest_wrong_lyric", + "text": "Funniest Wrong Lyric" + }, + { + "id": "most_likely_to_become_lore", + "text": "Most Likely to Become Lore" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "best_plot_twist", + "text": "Best Plot Twist" + }, + { + "id": "longest_unplanned_detour", + "text": "Longest Unplanned Detour" + }, + { + "id": "funniest_wrong_lyric", + "text": "Funniest Wrong Lyric" + }, + { + "id": "most_likely_to_become_lore", + "text": "Most Likely to 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"daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Who should narrate opening a snack bag?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_dramatic_bit" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "red_carpet_commentary", + "text": "Red-carpet commentary" + }, + { + "id": "ancient_legend", + "text": "Ancient legend" + }, + { + "id": "mission_control_countdown", + "text": "Mission-control countdown" + }, + { + "id": "cooking_show_judging", + "text": "Cooking-show judging" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "red_carpet_commentary", + "text": "Red-carpet commentary" + }, + { + "id": "ancient_legend", + "text": "Ancient legend" + }, + { + "id": "mission_control_countdown", + "text": "Mission-control countdown" + }, + { + "id": "cooking_show_judging", + "text": "Cooking-show judging" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_257", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which two-person tournament should we play?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_thursday_laugh", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_couch_game" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "rock_paper_scissors", + "text": "Rock-paper-scissors" + }, + { + "id": "thumb_wrestling", + "text": "Thumb wrestling" + }, + { + "id": "coin_toss_predictions", + "text": "Coin-toss predictions" + }, + { + "id": "paper_airplane_landing", + "text": "Paper-airplane landing" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "rock_paper_scissors", + "text": "Rock-paper-scissors" + }, + { + "id": "thumb_wrestling", + "text": "Thumb wrestling" + }, + { + "id": "coin_toss_predictions", + "text": "Coin-toss predictions" + }, + { + "id": "paper_airplane_landing", + "text": "Paper-airplane landing" + } + ], + "selection_style": 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], + "selection_style": "single" + } }, { "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_468", - "expected_text": "For movie night, which role would you like most?", - "reasons": [ - "mechanic_content_mismatch", - "sunday_voice_miss" - ], + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which movie-night kiss would you enjoy most?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "daily_sunday_slow_burn", + "quick_answer", + "mechanic_kiss_choice" + ], "options": [ { "id": "a_hello_kiss_before_we_press_play", @@ -292,7 +26310,2436 @@ "id": "a_goodnight_kiss_after_the_credits", "text": "A goodnight kiss after the credits" } - ] + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_hello_kiss_before_we_press_play", + "text": "A hello kiss before we press play" + }, + { + "id": "a_quick_kiss_during_the_previews", + "text": "A quick kiss during the previews" + }, + { + "id": "a_longer_kiss_when_the_movie_ends", 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"neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "mode_wildcard", + "daily_wildcard", + "quick_answer" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "split_a_mystery_dessert", + "text": "Split a mystery dessert" + }, + { + "id": "visit_one_saved_place_we_both_approve", + "text": "Visit one saved place we both approve" + }, + { + "id": "make_a_three_song_road_trip_playlist", + "text": "Make a three-song road-trip playlist" + }, + { + "id": "take_one_ridiculous_couple_photo", + "text": "Take one ridiculous couple photo" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "split_a_mystery_dessert", + "text": "Split a mystery dessert" + }, + { + "id": "visit_one_saved_place_we_both_approve", + "text": "Visit one saved place we both approve" + }, + { + "id": "make_a_three_song_road_trip_playlist", + "text": "Make a three-song road-trip playlist" + }, + { + "id": "take_one_ridiculous_couple_photo", + "text": "Take one ridiculous couple photo" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_505", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Pick tonight’s tiny dose of harmless chaos:", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "mode_wildcard", + "daily_wildcard", + "quick_answer" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "breakfast_food_at_the_wrong_time", + "text": "Breakfast food at the wrong time" + }, + { + "id": "watch_a_movie_in_an_unexpected_room", + "text": "Watch a movie in an unexpected room" + }, + { + "id": "use_only_movie_quotes_for_ten_minutes", + "text": "Use only movie quotes for ten minutes" + }, + { + "id": "a_dramatic_toast_to_nothing", + "text": "A dramatic toast to nothing" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "breakfast_food_at_the_wrong_time", + "text": "Breakfast food at the wrong time" + }, + { + "id": "watch_a_movie_in_an_unexpected_room", + "text": "Watch a movie in an unexpected room" + }, + { + "id": "use_only_movie_quotes_for_ten_minutes", + "text": "Use only movie quotes for ten minutes" + }, + { + "id": "a_dramatic_toast_to_nothing", + "text": "A dramatic toast to nothing" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_506", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which odd little rule should run the next thirty minutes?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "mode_wildcard", + "daily_wildcard", + "quick_answer" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "compliments_must_rhyme", + "text": "Compliments must rhyme" + }, + { + "id": "every_snack_gets_a_review", + "text": "Every snack gets a review" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_controls_the_soundtrack", + "text": "One person controls the soundtrack" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_narrates_like_a_documentary", + "text": "One person narrates like a documentary" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "compliments_must_rhyme", + "text": "Compliments must rhyme" + }, + { + "id": "every_snack_gets_a_review", + "text": "Every snack gets a review" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_controls_the_soundtrack", + "text": "One person controls the soundtrack" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_narrates_like_a_documentary", + "text": "One person narrates like a documentary" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_507", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which surprise would make the best story later?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "mode_wildcard", + "daily_wildcard", + "quick_answer" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_spontaneous_dessert_stop", + "text": "A spontaneous dessert stop" + }, + { + "id": "a_terrible_dance_off", + "text": "A terrible dance-off" + }, + { + "id": "an_unexpected_local_event", + "text": "An unexpected local event" + }, + { + "id": "a_new_inside_joke", + "text": "A new inside joke" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_spontaneous_dessert_stop", + "text": "A spontaneous dessert stop" + }, + { + "id": "a_terrible_dance_off", + "text": "A terrible dance-off" + }, + { + "id": "an_unexpected_local_event", + "text": "An unexpected local event" + }, + { + "id": "a_new_inside_joke", + "text": "A new inside joke" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_508", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which low-stakes dare deserves an immediate attempt?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "mode_wildcard", + "daily_wildcard", + "quick_answer" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "send_a_playful_voice_note", + "text": "Send a playful voice note" + }, + { + "id": "try_a_snack_after_both_check_ingredients", + "text": "Try a snack after both check ingredients" + }, + { + "id": "let_the_other_pick_your_next_harmless_dare", + "text": "Let the other pick your next harmless dare" + }, + { + "id": "act_out_your_day_in_thirty_seconds", + "text": "Act out your day in thirty seconds" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "send_a_playful_voice_note", + "text": "Send a playful voice note" + }, + { + "id": "try_a_snack_after_both_check_ingredients", + "text": "Try a snack after both check ingredients" + }, + { + "id": "let_the_other_pick_your_next_harmless_dare", + "text": "Let the other pick your next harmless dare" + }, + { + "id": "act_out_your_day_in_thirty_seconds", + "text": "Act out your day in thirty seconds" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_509", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which tiny skill should we teach each other for five minutes?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "mode_wildcard", + "daily_wildcard", + "quick_answer" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_phone_photo_trick", + "text": "A phone-photo trick" + }, + { + "id": "a_simple_dance_step", + "text": "A simple dance step" + }, + { + "id": "a_card_shuffling_move", + "text": "A card-shuffling move" + }, + { + "id": "a_ridiculous_impression", + "text": "A ridiculous impression" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_phone_photo_trick", + "text": "A phone-photo trick" + }, + { + "id": "a_simple_dance_step", + "text": "A simple dance step" + }, + { + "id": "a_card_shuffling_move", + "text": "A card-shuffling move" + }, + { + "id": "a_ridiculous_impression", + "text": "A ridiculous impression" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_510", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Choose a weirdly specific date theme:", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "mode_wildcard", + "daily_wildcard", + "quick_answer" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "tourists_in_our_own_town", + "text": "Tourists in our own town" + }, + { + "id": "fancy_drinks_in_pajamas", + "text": "Fancy drinks in pajamas" + }, + { + "id": "bad_movie_critics", + "text": "Bad-movie critics" + }, + { + "id": "dessert_detectives", + "text": "Dessert detectives" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "tourists_in_our_own_town", + "text": "Tourists in our own town" + }, + { + "id": "fancy_drinks_in_pajamas", + "text": "Fancy drinks in pajamas" + }, + { + "id": "bad_movie_critics", + "text": "Bad-movie critics" + }, + { + "id": "dessert_detectives", + "text": "Dessert detectives" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } + }, + { + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_511", + "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "The app picked mischief—what is our move?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "tags": [ + "daily", + "single_choice", + "best_fit", + "mode_wildcard", + "daily_wildcard", + "quick_answer" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "hide_a_tiny_note", + "text": "Hide a tiny note" + }, + { + "id": "rename_tonight_like_a_movie", + "text": "Rename tonight like a movie" + }, + { + "id": "make_a_snack_by_color", + "text": "Make a snack by color" + }, + { + "id": "hold_a_one_night_only_award_ceremony", + "text": "Hold a one-night-only award ceremony" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hide_a_tiny_note", + "text": "Hide a tiny note" + }, + { + "id": "rename_tonight_like_a_movie", + "text": "Rename tonight like a movie" + }, + { + "id": "make_a_snack_by_color", + "text": "Make a snack by color" + }, + { + "id": "hold_a_one_night_only_award_ceremony", + "text": "Hold a one-night-only award ceremony" + } + ], + "selection_style": "single" + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/date_night.json b/seed/questions/date_night.json index 7fdd18b8..6003dff3 100644 --- a/seed/questions/date_night.json +++ b/seed/questions/date_night.json @@ -2,2345 +2,903 @@ "category": { "id": "date_night", "display_name": "Date Night", - "description": "Warm, playful, low-pressure prompts for planning dates, feeling chosen, making memories, and keeping time together enjoyable.", + "description": "Grounded, fun date-night prompts for real couples: playful choices, low-pressure plans, flirty moments, and date ideas that feel intentional.", "access": "mixed", - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, - "question_type_counts": { - "written": 10, - "single_choice": 50, - "multi_choice": 140, - "scale": 35, - "this_or_that": 15 - }, + "icon_name": "calendar_heart", "schema_version": "question_v2", - "supported_types": [ - "written", - "single_choice", - "multi_choice", - "scale", - "this_or_that" - ], "metadata": { - "content_version": "date_night_v8_guide_aligned", - "guide_version": "QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE current dev + QUESTION_SCHEMA v6 + QUALITY_CHECKLIST v7", - "review_policy": "10 exact batches of 25 with global duplicate and repetition checks", - "mass_rewrite_reason": "The repo file had stale metadata, actual type counts that did not match the declared split, duplicated compatibility option blocks, and repeated template language across more than 60% of the pack.", - "compatibility_note": "Numeric depth and answer_config fields are retained for the active importer. Choice questions also retain top-level options." + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, + "type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 90, + "single_choice": 30, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 64, + "2": 63, + "3": 23 + }, + "content_version": "date_night_150_final_v10", + "legacy_total": 250, + "catalog_change": -100, + "mass_rewrite_reason": "The legacy pack documented repeated template language across more than 60 percent of the pack, stale metadata, and duplicated compatibility option blocks.", + "pack_boundary": "Date Night owns intentional couple plans, outings, at-home dates, romantic date details, shared planning, and date traditions. General unstructured time together belongs in quality_time.", + "review_workflow": "Six controlled batches of 25 with per-batch and final validation.", + "final_validation": "pass", + "batch_review": [ + { + "batch": 1, + "first_id": "date_night_001", + "last_id": "date_night_025", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "batch": 2, + "first_id": "date_night_026", + "last_id": "date_night_050", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "batch": 3, + "first_id": "date_night_051", + "last_id": "date_night_075", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "batch": 4, + "first_id": "date_night_076", + "last_id": "date_night_100", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "batch": 5, + "first_id": "date_night_101", + "last_id": "date_night_125", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "batch": 6, + "first_id": "date_night_126", + "last_id": "date_night_150", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + } + ], + "final_review": "Final editorial and production pass completed. Polished awkward or overly narrow wording without changing IDs, access, types, or pack structure. Revalidated counts, uniqueness, mirrored options, selection bounds, prompt length, nearby opening variety, and all six 25-question batches.", + "final_editorial_patches": 13 } }, "questions": [ { "id": "date_night_001", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny date would make this week feel lighter?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which date sounds most like us this week?", "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "easy_dates", - "busy_life" + "this_week", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "dinner_at_a_favorite_place", + "text": "Dinner at a favorite place" + }, + { + "id": "a_walk_with_coffee", + "text": "A walk with coffee" + }, + { + "id": "trying_one_new_place", + "text": "Trying one new place" + }, + { + "id": "staying_in_with_a_real_plan", + "text": "Staying in with a real plan" + } ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 500, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." - }, - "access": "free" + "options": [ + { + "id": "dinner_at_a_favorite_place", + "text": "Dinner at a favorite place" + }, + { + "id": "a_walk_with_coffee", + "text": "A walk with coffee" + }, + { + "id": "trying_one_new_place", + "text": "Trying one new place" + }, + { + "id": "staying_in_with_a_real_plan", + "text": "Staying in with a real plan" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "date_night_002", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which no-fuss date sounds best after a long day?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make tonight feel more like a date?", "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "easy_dates" + "this_week", + "light", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "dessert_on_the_porch", - "text": "Dessert on the porch" + "id": "getting_ready_a_little", + "text": "Getting ready a little" }, { - "id": "a_playlist_drive", - "text": "A playlist drive" + "id": "starting_at_a_set_time", + "text": "Starting at a set time" }, { - "id": "takeout_somewhere_pretty", - "text": "Takeout somewhere pretty" + "id": "putting_phones_away", + "text": "Putting phones away" }, { - "id": "one_movie_under_a_blanket", - "text": "One movie under a blanket" + "id": "choosing_one_thing_together", + "text": "Choosing one thing together" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "dessert_on_the_porch", - "text": "Dessert on the porch" + "id": "getting_ready_a_little", + "text": "Getting ready a little" }, { - "id": "a_playlist_drive", - "text": "A playlist drive" + "id": "starting_at_a_set_time", + "text": "Starting at a set time" }, { - "id": "takeout_somewhere_pretty", - "text": "Takeout somewhere pretty" + "id": "putting_phones_away", + "text": "Putting phones away" }, { - "id": "one_movie_under_a_blanket", - "text": "One movie under a blanket" + "id": "choosing_one_thing_together", + "text": "Choosing one thing together" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "date_night_003", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What mood should our next easy date have?", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Plan ahead or decide that afternoon?", "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "mood" + "this_week", + "light", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "cozy_and_quiet", - "text": "Cozy and quiet" + "id": "plan_ahead", + "text": "Plan ahead" }, { - "id": "playful_and_silly", - "text": "Playful and silly" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_and_romantic", - "text": "Sweet and romantic" - }, - { - "id": "curious_and_spontaneous", - "text": "Curious and spontaneous" + "id": "decide_that_afternoon", + "text": "Decide that afternoon" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "cozy_and_quiet", - "text": "Cozy and quiet" + "id": "plan_ahead", + "text": "Plan ahead" }, { - "id": "playful_and_silly", - "text": "Playful and silly" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_and_romantic", - "text": "Sweet and romantic" - }, - { - "id": "curious_and_spontaneous", - "text": "Curious and spontaneous" + "id": "decide_that_afternoon", + "text": "Decide that afternoon" } ] - }, - "access": "free" + } }, { "id": "date_night_004", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which twenty-minute date would you actually look forward to?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which date moods fit us right now?", "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "quick_date" + "this_week", + "light", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "coffee_and_a_walk", - "text": "Coffee and a walk" + "id": "easy_and_cozy", + "text": "Easy and cozy" }, { - "id": "a_shared_dessert", - "text": "A shared dessert" + "id": "flirty_and_dressed_up", + "text": "Flirty and dressed up" }, { - "id": "two_songs_in_the_kitchen", - "text": "Two songs in the kitchen" + "id": "curious_and_new", + "text": "Curious and new" }, { - "id": "a_sunset_stop", - "text": "A sunset stop" + "id": "quiet_and_unrushed", + "text": "Quiet and unrushed" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "coffee_and_a_walk", - "text": "Coffee and a walk" + "id": "easy_and_cozy", + "text": "Easy and cozy" }, { - "id": "a_shared_dessert", - "text": "A shared dessert" + "id": "flirty_and_dressed_up", + "text": "Flirty and dressed up" }, { - "id": "two_songs_in_the_kitchen", - "text": "Two songs in the kitchen" + "id": "curious_and_new", + "text": "Curious and new" }, { - "id": "a_sunset_stop", - "text": "A sunset stop" + "id": "quiet_and_unrushed", + "text": "Quiet and unrushed" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "date_night_005", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which low-cost treat would make tonight feel date-like?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should we protect most on our next date?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "low_cost", - "food" + "this_week", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "fancy_hot_chocolate", - "text": "Fancy hot chocolate" + "id": "enough_time", + "text": "Enough time" }, { - "id": "a_bakery_pick", - "text": "A bakery pick" + "id": "real_conversation", + "text": "Real conversation" }, { - "id": "homemade_sundaes", - "text": "Homemade sundaes" + "id": "a_little_flirting", + "text": "A little flirting" }, { - "id": "a_favorite_drink_run", - "text": "A favorite drink run" + "id": "no_problem_solving", + "text": "No problem-solving" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "fancy_hot_chocolate", - "text": "Fancy hot chocolate" + "id": "enough_time", + "text": "Enough time" }, { - "id": "a_bakery_pick", - "text": "A bakery pick" + "id": "real_conversation", + "text": "Real conversation" }, { - "id": "homemade_sundaes", - "text": "Homemade sundaes" + "id": "a_little_flirting", + "text": "A little flirting" }, { - "id": "a_favorite_drink_run", - "text": "A favorite drink run" + "id": "no_problem_solving", + "text": "No problem-solving" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "date_night_006", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which morning mini-date sounds most inviting?", + "text": "What detail would improve our next date most?", "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "morning" + "this_week", + "light", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "breakfast_outside", - "text": "Breakfast outside" + "id": "a_reservation", + "text": "A reservation" }, { - "id": "coffee_in_the_car", - "text": "Coffee in the car" + "id": "a_good_playlist", + "text": "A good playlist" }, { - "id": "a_farmers_market_lap", - "text": "A farmers-market lap" + "id": "a_surprise_stop", + "text": "A surprise stop" }, { - "id": "pastries_and_a_slow_start", - "text": "Pastries and a slow start" + "id": "a_place_where_we_can_talk", + "text": "A place where we can talk" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "breakfast_outside", - "text": "Breakfast outside" + "id": "a_reservation", + "text": "A reservation" }, { - "id": "coffee_in_the_car", - "text": "Coffee in the car" + "id": "a_good_playlist", + "text": "A good playlist" }, { - "id": "a_farmers_market_lap", - "text": "A farmers-market lap" + "id": "a_surprise_stop", + "text": "A surprise stop" }, { - "id": "pastries_and_a_slow_start", - "text": "Pastries and a slow start" + "id": "a_place_where_we_can_talk", + "text": "A place where we can talk" } ] - }, - "access": "free" + } }, { "id": "date_night_007", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How could a no-planning night still feel special?", + "text": "Which plans still work when the week has been exhausting?", "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "easy_dates", - "special" + "this_week", + "light", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "choosing_one_favorite_food", - "text": "Choosing one favorite food" + "id": "dessert_somewhere_close", + "text": "Dessert somewhere close" }, { - "id": "putting_on_a_date_night_playlist", - "text": "Putting on a date-night playlist" + "id": "a_short_scenic_drive", + "text": "A short scenic drive" }, { - "id": "changing_into_something_comfortable", - "text": "Changing into something comfortable" + "id": "a_favorite_drink_on_the_porch", + "text": "A favorite drink on the porch" }, { - "id": "giving_each_other_full_attention", - "text": "Giving each other full attention" - }, - { - "id": "ending_with_a_small_treat", - "text": "Ending with a small treat" + "id": "takeout_with_the_table_cleared", + "text": "Takeout with the table cleared" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "choosing_one_favorite_food", - "text": "Choosing one favorite food" + "id": "dessert_somewhere_close", + "text": "Dessert somewhere close" }, { - "id": "putting_on_a_date_night_playlist", - "text": "Putting on a date-night playlist" + "id": "a_short_scenic_drive", + "text": "A short scenic drive" }, { - "id": "changing_into_something_comfortable", - "text": "Changing into something comfortable" + "id": "a_favorite_drink_on_the_porch", + "text": "A favorite drink on the porch" }, { - "id": "giving_each_other_full_attention", - "text": "Giving each other full attention" - }, - { - "id": "ending_with_a_small_treat", - "text": "Ending with a small treat" + "id": "takeout_with_the_table_cleared", + "text": "Takeout with the table cleared" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "date_night_008", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Pick the free-date ideas you would genuinely enjoy:", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much do you want a date with me this week?", "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "free_dates" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "watching_the_sunset", - "text": "Watching the sunset" - }, - { - "id": "exploring_a_new_walking_route", - "text": "Exploring a new walking route" - }, - { - "id": "stargazing_with_hot_drinks", - "text": "Stargazing with hot drinks" - }, - { - "id": "touring_local_murals", - "text": "Touring local murals" - }, - { - "id": "making_a_shared_photo_challenge", - "text": "Making a shared photo challenge" - } + "this_week", + "light", + "date_night" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "watching_the_sunset", - "text": "Watching the sunset" - }, - { - "id": "exploring_a_new_walking_route", - "text": "Exploring a new walking route" - }, - { - "id": "stargazing_with_hot_drinks", - "text": "Stargazing with hot drinks" - }, - { - "id": "touring_local_murals", - "text": "Touring local murals" - }, - { - "id": "making_a_shared_photo_challenge", - "text": "Making a shared photo challenge" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much this week", + "max_label": "Very much this week" + } }, { "id": "date_night_009", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which details would improve a simple drive together?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "drive" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_route_neither_of_us_usually_takes", - "text": "A route neither of us usually takes" - }, - { - "id": "a_playlist_we_build_together", - "text": "A playlist we build together" - }, - { - "id": "one_stop_for_something_sweet", - "text": "One stop for something sweet" - }, - { - "id": "no_deadline_to_get_home", - "text": "No deadline to get home" - }, - { - "id": "a_question_we_have_never_asked", - "text": "A question we have never asked" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_route_neither_of_us_usually_takes", - "text": "A route neither of us usually takes" - }, - { - "id": "a_playlist_we_build_together", - "text": "A playlist we build together" - }, - { - "id": "one_stop_for_something_sweet", - "text": "One stop for something sweet" - }, - { - "id": "no_deadline_to_get_home", - "text": "No deadline to get home" - }, - { - "id": "a_question_we_have_never_asked", - "text": "A question we have never asked" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_010", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What belongs in an easy coffee date?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "coffee_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_table_where_we_can_linger", - "text": "A table where we can linger" - }, - { - "id": "a_drink_chosen_for_each_other", - "text": "A drink chosen for each other" - }, - { - "id": "one_shared_pastry", - "text": "One shared pastry" - }, - { - "id": "phones_kept_out_of_reach", - "text": "Phones kept out of reach" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_walk_afterward", - "text": "A short walk afterward" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_table_where_we_can_linger", - "text": "A table where we can linger" - }, - { - "id": "a_drink_chosen_for_each_other", - "text": "A drink chosen for each other" - }, - { - "id": "one_shared_pastry", - "text": "One shared pastry" - }, - { - "id": "phones_kept_out_of_reach", - "text": "Phones kept out of reach" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_walk_afterward", - "text": "A short walk afterward" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_011", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which upgrades would make movie night feel like a real date?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "movie_night" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "picking_the_movie_together", - "text": "Picking the movie together" - }, - { - "id": "making_one_special_snack", - "text": "Making one special snack" - }, - { - "id": "dimming_the_room", - "text": "Dimming the room" - }, - { - "id": "starting_with_a_slow_dance", - "text": "Starting with a slow dance" - }, - { - "id": "saving_time_to_talk_afterward", - "text": "Saving time to talk afterward" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "picking_the_movie_together", - "text": "Picking the movie together" - }, - { - "id": "making_one_special_snack", - "text": "Making one special snack" - }, - { - "id": "dimming_the_room", - "text": "Dimming the room" - }, - { - "id": "starting_with_a_slow_dance", - "text": "Starting with a slow dance" - }, - { - "id": "saving_time_to_talk_afterward", - "text": "Saving time to talk afterward" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_012", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What could turn a regular walk into a memorable date?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "walk" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_destination_with_a_view", - "text": "A destination with a view" - }, - { - "id": "a_silly_photo_mission", - "text": "A silly photo mission" - }, - { - "id": "a_drink_to_carry_along", - "text": "A drink to carry along" - }, - { - "id": "taking_a_route_chosen_at_random", - "text": "Taking a route chosen at random" - }, - { - "id": "stopping_somewhere_we_have_never_noticed", - "text": "Stopping somewhere we have never noticed" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_destination_with_a_view", - "text": "A destination with a view" - }, - { - "id": "a_silly_photo_mission", - "text": "A silly photo mission" - }, - { - "id": "a_drink_to_carry_along", - "text": "A drink to carry along" - }, - { - "id": "taking_a_route_chosen_at_random", - "text": "Taking a route chosen at random" - }, - { - "id": "stopping_somewhere_we_have_never_noticed", - "text": "Stopping somewhere we have never noticed" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_013", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which pieces make breakfast together feel romantic?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "breakfast" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_rushing_to_the_next_thing", - "text": "No rushing to the next thing" - }, - { - "id": "music_playing_quietly", - "text": "Music playing quietly" - }, - { - "id": "one_unexpected_favorite_food", - "text": "One unexpected favorite food" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_somewhere_different", - "text": "Sitting somewhere different" - }, - { - "id": "a_sweet_note_beside_the_plate", - "text": "A sweet note beside the plate" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_rushing_to_the_next_thing", - "text": "No rushing to the next thing" - }, - { - "id": "music_playing_quietly", - "text": "Music playing quietly" - }, - { - "id": "one_unexpected_favorite_food", - "text": "One unexpected favorite food" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_somewhere_different", - "text": "Sitting somewhere different" - }, - { - "id": "a_sweet_note_beside_the_plate", - "text": "A sweet note beside the plate" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_014", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps a last-minute date work well for you?", + "text": "What helps a simple date feel intentional?", "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "spontaneity" + "this_week", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "a_simple_choice_between_two_plans", - "text": "A simple choice between two plans" + "id": "one_person_choosing_the_plan", + "text": "One person choosing the plan" }, - { - "id": "knowing_the_time_limit", - "text": "Knowing the time limit" - }, - { - "id": "comfortable_clothes", - "text": "Comfortable clothes" - }, - { - "id": "an_easy_exit_if_energy_drops", - "text": "An easy exit if energy drops" - }, - { - "id": "something_small_to_look_forward_to", - "text": "Something small to look forward to" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_simple_choice_between_two_plans", - "text": "A simple choice between two plans" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_the_time_limit", - "text": "Knowing the time limit" - }, - { - "id": "comfortable_clothes", - "text": "Comfortable clothes" - }, - { - "id": "an_easy_exit_if_energy_drops", - "text": "An easy exit if energy drops" - }, - { - "id": "something_small_to_look_forward_to", - "text": "Something small to look forward to" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_015", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Select the dates that fit into less than an hour:", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "quick_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_bookstore_browse", - "text": "A bookstore browse" - }, - { - "id": "a_dessert_stop", - "text": "A dessert stop" - }, - { - "id": "a_neighborhood_photo_walk", - "text": "A neighborhood photo walk" - }, - { - "id": "a_quick_card_game_at_a_cafe", - "text": "A quick card game at a cafe" - }, - { - "id": "a_scenic_overlook_visit", - "text": "A scenic overlook visit" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_bookstore_browse", - "text": "A bookstore browse" - }, - { - "id": "a_dessert_stop", - "text": "A dessert stop" - }, - { - "id": "a_neighborhood_photo_walk", - "text": "A neighborhood photo walk" - }, - { - "id": "a_quick_card_game_at_a_cafe", - "text": "A quick card game at a cafe" - }, - { - "id": "a_scenic_overlook_visit", - "text": "A scenic overlook visit" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_016", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which cozy details sound best for a tired-night date?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "low_energy" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_lighting", - "text": "Soft lighting" - }, - { - "id": "warm_drinks", - "text": "Warm drinks" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_comedy_special", - "text": "A short comedy special" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_close_without_multitasking", - "text": "Sitting close without multitasking" - }, - { - "id": "an_early_ending", - "text": "An early ending" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_lighting", - "text": "Soft lighting" - }, - { - "id": "warm_drinks", - "text": "Warm drinks" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_comedy_special", - "text": "A short comedy special" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_close_without_multitasking", - "text": "Sitting close without multitasking" - }, - { - "id": "an_early_ending", - "text": "An early ending" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_017", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which details lift a simple dinner above ordinary?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "dinner" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "trying_one_new_appetizer", - "text": "Trying one new appetizer" - }, - { - "id": "wearing_something_that_feels_good", - "text": "Wearing something that feels good" - }, - { - "id": "sharing_a_dessert", - "text": "Sharing a dessert" - }, - { - "id": "asking_one_fun_question", - "text": "Asking one fun question" - }, - { - "id": "taking_a_short_walk_after", - "text": "Taking a short walk after" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trying_one_new_appetizer", - "text": "Trying one new appetizer" - }, - { - "id": "wearing_something_that_feels_good", - "text": "Wearing something that feels good" - }, - { - "id": "sharing_a_dessert", - "text": "Sharing a dessert" - }, - { - "id": "asking_one_fun_question", - "text": "Asking one fun question" - }, - { - "id": "taking_a_short_walk_after", - "text": "Taking a short walk after" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_018", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which rainy-night plans would you save for later?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "rainy_day" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "building_a_tasting_board", - "text": "Building a tasting board" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_old_photos_to_revisit", - "text": "Choosing old photos to revisit" - }, - { - "id": "playing_a_two_person_game", - "text": "Playing a two-person game" - }, - { - "id": "watching_a_comfort_movie", - "text": "Watching a comfort movie" - }, - { - "id": "cooking_something_new_together", - "text": "Cooking something new together" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "building_a_tasting_board", - "text": "Building a tasting board" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_old_photos_to_revisit", - "text": "Choosing old photos to revisit" - }, - { - "id": "playing_a_two_person_game", - "text": "Playing a two-person game" - }, - { - "id": "watching_a_comfort_movie", - "text": "Watching a comfort movie" - }, - { - "id": "cooking_something_new_together", - "text": "Cooking something new together" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_019", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can staying nearby still feel adventurous?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "local", - "adventure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "trying_a_place_we_always_pass", - "text": "Trying a place we always pass" - }, - { - "id": "following_a_local_recommendation", - "text": "Following a local recommendation" - }, - { - "id": "taking_the_scenic_route_home", - "text": "Taking the scenic route home" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_a_surprise_stop", - "text": "Choosing a surprise stop" - }, - { - "id": "bringing_back_a_tiny_souvenir", - "text": "Bringing back a tiny souvenir" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trying_a_place_we_always_pass", - "text": "Trying a place we always pass" - }, - { - "id": "following_a_local_recommendation", - "text": "Following a local recommendation" - }, - { - "id": "taking_the_scenic_route_home", - "text": "Taking the scenic route home" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_a_surprise_stop", - "text": "Choosing a surprise stop" - }, - { - "id": "bringing_back_a_tiny_souvenir", - "text": "Bringing back a tiny souvenir" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_020", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which tiny date traditions could make ordinary weeks more fun?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "easy_dates", - "tradition" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "choose_a_new_drink_each_time", - "text": "Choose a new drink each time" - }, - { - "id": "take_one_candid_photo", - "text": "Take one candid photo" - }, - { - "id": "trade_who_picks_the_location", - "text": "Trade who picks the location" - }, - { - "id": "end_with_a_ten_minute_walk", - "text": "End with a ten-minute walk" - }, - { - "id": "give_the_date_a_playful_name", - "text": "Give the date a playful name" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "choose_a_new_drink_each_time", - "text": "Choose a new drink each time" - }, - { - "id": "take_one_candid_photo", - "text": "Take one candid photo" - }, - { - "id": "trade_who_picks_the_location", - "text": "Trade who picks the location" - }, - { - "id": "end_with_a_ten_minute_walk", - "text": "End with a ten-minute walk" - }, - { - "id": "give_the_date_a_playful_name", - "text": "Give the date a playful name" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_021", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you want a real date this week?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "frequency" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Not urgently", - "maxLabel": "Very much" - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_022", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How planned should our next easy date be?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "planning" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Almost no plan", - "maxLabel": "A clear little plan" - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_023", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much energy should the next date require?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "energy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Barely any", - "maxLabel": "Let us make a night of it" - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_024", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How budget-conscious should our next date be?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "budget" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Use what we have", - "maxLabel": "Spend for something special" - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_025", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Sunset walk or late-night drive?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "quick_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "sunset_walk", - "text": "Sunset walk" - }, - { - "id": "late_night_drive", - "text": "Late-night drive" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sunset_walk", - "text": "Sunset walk" - }, - { - "id": "late_night_drive", - "text": "Late-night drive" - } - ], - "optionA": "Sunset walk", - "optionB": "Late-night drive" - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_026", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "written", - "text": "What at-home date would you happily repeat every month?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "home_date", - "tradition" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 500, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_027", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kitchen date sounds most fun?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "cooking" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "make_homemade_pizza", - "text": "Make homemade pizza" - }, - { - "id": "build_a_dessert_sampler", - "text": "Build a dessert sampler" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_mystery_recipe", - "text": "Try a mystery recipe" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_a_favorite_meal", - "text": "Recreate a favorite meal" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "make_homemade_pizza", - "text": "Make homemade pizza" - }, - { - "id": "build_a_dessert_sampler", - "text": "Build a dessert sampler" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_mystery_recipe", - "text": "Try a mystery recipe" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_a_favorite_meal", - "text": "Recreate a favorite meal" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_028", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should lead our next living-room date?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "home_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "music", - "text": "Music" - }, - { - "id": "a_game", - "text": "A game" - }, - { - "id": "a_movie", - "text": "A movie" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_conversation", - "text": "A long conversation" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "music", - "text": "Music" - }, - { - "id": "a_game", - "text": "A game" - }, - { - "id": "a_movie", - "text": "A movie" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_conversation", - "text": "A long conversation" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_029", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which snack-board theme wins tonight?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "food" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet_and_salty", - "text": "Sweet and salty" - }, - { - "id": "cheese_and_fruit", - "text": "Cheese and fruit" - }, - { - "id": "childhood_favorites", - "text": "Childhood favorites" - }, - { - "id": "foods_from_one_country", - "text": "Foods from one country" - } - ], - 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"text": "Card game" - }, - { - "id": "something_creative", - "text": "Something creative" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_031", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which music moment would feel most romantic?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "music" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "trading_favorite_songs", - "text": "Trading favorite songs" - }, - { - "id": "a_two_song_slow_dance", - "text": "A two-song slow dance" - }, - { - "id": "building_a_shared_playlist", - "text": "Building a shared playlist" - }, - { - "id": "listening_in_the_dark", - "text": "Listening in the dark" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trading_favorite_songs", - "text": "Trading favorite songs" - }, - { - "id": "a_two_song_slow_dance", - "text": "A two-song slow dance" - }, - { - "id": "building_a_shared_playlist", - "text": "Building a shared playlist" - }, - { - "id": "listening_in_the_dark", - "text": "Listening in the dark" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_032", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How do we keep cooking together playful rather than practical?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "cooking", - "playfulness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "giving_the_meal_a_ridiculous_name", - "text": "Giving the meal a ridiculous name" - }, - { - "id": "letting_each_person_choose_one_ingredient", - "text": "Letting each person choose one ingredient" - }, - { - "id": "dancing_while_something_cooks", - "text": "Dancing while something cooks" - }, - { - "id": "judging_the_final_plate_dramatically", - "text": "Judging the final plate dramatically" - }, - { - "id": "eating_somewhere_other_than_the_table", - "text": "Eating somewhere other than the table" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "giving_the_meal_a_ridiculous_name", - "text": "Giving the meal a ridiculous name" - }, - { - "id": "letting_each_person_choose_one_ingredient", - "text": "Letting each person choose one ingredient" - }, - { - "id": "dancing_while_something_cooks", - "text": "Dancing while something cooks" - }, - { - "id": "judging_the_final_plate_dramatically", - "text": "Judging the final plate dramatically" - }, - { - "id": "eating_somewhere_other_than_the_table", - "text": "Eating somewhere other than the table" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_033", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which living-room date touches sound worth trying?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "home_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "moving_the_furniture_for_a_new_setup", - "text": "Moving the furniture for a new setup" - }, - { - "id": "making_a_blanket_picnic", - "text": "Making a blanket picnic" - }, - { - "id": "using_only_lamps_or_candles", - "text": "Using only lamps or candles" - }, - { - "id": "dressing_up_despite_staying_home", - "text": "Dressing up despite staying home" - }, - { - "id": 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"Choose songs from the year we met" - }, - { - "id": "trade_songs_that_describe_each_other", - "text": "Trade songs that describe each other" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_road_trip_playlist", - "text": "Make a road-trip playlist" - }, - { - "id": "watch_one_live_performance_together", - "text": "Watch one live performance together" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_song_for_our_next_milestone", - "text": "Pick a song for our next milestone" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "choose_songs_from_the_year_we_met", - "text": "Choose songs from the year we met" - }, - { - "id": "trade_songs_that_describe_each_other", - "text": "Trade songs that describe each other" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_road_trip_playlist", - "text": "Make a road-trip playlist" - }, - { - "id": "watch_one_live_performance_together", - "text": "Watch one live performance together" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_song_for_our_next_milestone", - "text": "Pick a song for our next milestone" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_036", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which movie-night rules would make it better?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "movie_night" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_veto_each", - "text": "One veto each" - }, - { - "id": "no_scrolling_during_the_movie", - "text": "No scrolling during the movie" - }, - { - "id": "pick_snacks_before_choosing_the_film", - "text": "Pick snacks before choosing the film" - }, - { - "id": "pause_only_for_important_commentary", - "text": "Pause only for important commentary" - }, - { - "id": "end_with_a_five_minute_review", - "text": "End with a five-minute review" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_veto_each", - "text": "One veto each" - }, - { - "id": "no_scrolling_during_the_movie", - "text": "No scrolling during the movie" - }, - { - "id": "pick_snacks_before_choosing_the_film", - "text": "Pick snacks before choosing the film" - }, - { - "id": "pause_only_for_important_commentary", - "text": "Pause only for important commentary" - }, - { - "id": "end_with_a_five_minute_review", - "text": "End with a five-minute review" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_037", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which touches would give a board-game date some flirt?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "games", - "flirting" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_playful_prize", - "text": "A playful prize" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_on_the_same_side", - "text": "Sitting on the same side" - }, - { - "id": "compliments_between_rounds", - "text": "Compliments between rounds" - }, - { - "id": "a_kiss_for_the_winner", - "text": "A kiss for the winner" - }, - { - "id": "letting_the_loser_plan_dessert", - "text": "Letting the loser plan dessert" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_playful_prize", - "text": "A playful prize" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_on_the_same_side", - "text": "Sitting on the same side" - }, - { - "id": "compliments_between_rounds", - "text": "Compliments between rounds" - }, - { - "id": "a_kiss_for_the_winner", - "text": "A kiss for the winner" - }, - { - "id": "letting_the_loser_plan_dessert", - "text": "Letting the loser plan dessert" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_038", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which dinner themes would be fun at home?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "food", - "themes" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "breakfast_after_dark", - "text": "Breakfast after dark" - }, - { - "id": "one_color_food_night", - "text": "One-color food night" - }, - { - "id": "restaurant_copycat_meal", - "text": "Restaurant copycat meal" - }, - { - "id": "food_from_a_dream_destination", - "text": "Food from a dream destination" - }, - { - "id": "favorite_meals_from_childhood", - "text": "Favorite meals from childhood" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "breakfast_after_dark", - "text": "Breakfast after dark" - }, - { - "id": "one_color_food_night", - "text": "One-color food night" - }, - { - "id": "restaurant_copycat_meal", - "text": "Restaurant copycat meal" - }, - { - "id": "food_from_a_dream_destination", - "text": "Food from a dream destination" - }, - { - "id": "favorite_meals_from_childhood", - "text": "Favorite meals from childhood" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_039", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can takeout become an intentionally romantic date?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "takeout", - "romance" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ordering_each_other_a_surprise_side", - "text": "Ordering each other a surprise side" - }, - { - "id": "setting_the_table_differently", - "text": "Setting the table differently" - }, - { - "id": "eating_outside_if_weather_allows", - "text": "Eating outside if weather allows" - }, - { - "id": "adding_a_homemade_dessert", - "text": "Adding a homemade dessert" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_music_before_the_food_arrives", - "text": "Choosing music before the food arrives" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ordering_each_other_a_surprise_side", - "text": "Ordering each other a surprise side" - }, - { - "id": "setting_the_table_differently", - "text": "Setting the table differently" - }, - { - "id": "eating_outside_if_weather_allows", - "text": "Eating outside if weather allows" - }, - { - "id": "adding_a_homemade_dessert", - "text": "Adding a homemade dessert" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_music_before_the_food_arrives", - "text": "Choosing music before the food arrives" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_040", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Pick the creative dates you would try indoors:", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "creative" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "paint_each_other_badly", - "text": "Paint each other badly" - }, - { - "id": "build_a_shared_vision_board", - "text": "Build a shared vision board" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_tiny_photo_book", - "text": "Make a tiny photo book" - }, - { - "id": "write_a_ridiculous_short_story_together", - "text": "Write a ridiculous short story together" - }, - { - "id": "design_our_dream_weekend", - "text": "Design our dream weekend" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "paint_each_other_badly", - "text": "Paint each other badly" - }, - { - "id": "build_a_shared_vision_board", - "text": "Build a shared vision board" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_tiny_photo_book", - "text": "Make a tiny photo book" - }, - { - "id": "write_a_ridiculous_short_story_together", - "text": "Write a ridiculous short story together" - }, - { - "id": "design_our_dream_weekend", - "text": "Design our dream weekend" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_041", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which conversation games sound 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"Dressing differently than usual" }, { - "id": "phones_charging_elsewhere", - "text": "Phones charging elsewhere" - }, - { - "id": "a_special_drink", - "text": "A special drink" - }, - { - "id": "changing_the_room_setup", - "text": "Changing the room setup" + "id": "leaving_chores_for_tomorrow", + "text": "Leaving chores for tomorrow" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { - "id": "date_night_043", + "id": "date_night_010", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which dessert dates deserve a place in rotation?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "If we choose only one thing, what should it be?", "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "dessert" + "this_week", + "light", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "bake_cookies_together", - "text": "Bake cookies together" + "id": "where_we_eat", + "text": "Where we eat" }, { - "id": "split_one_fancy_slice", - "text": "Split one fancy slice" + "id": "what_we_do", + "text": "What we do" }, { - "id": "create_competing_sundaes", - "text": "Create competing sundaes" + "id": "how_long_we_stay_out", + "text": "How long we stay out" }, { - "id": "visit_a_late_night_bakery", - "text": "Visit a late-night bakery" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_seasonal_dessert", - "text": "Make a seasonal dessert" + "id": "what_happens_after", + "text": "What happens after" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "bake_cookies_together", - "text": "Bake cookies together" + "id": "where_we_eat", + "text": "Where we eat" }, { - "id": "split_one_fancy_slice", - "text": "Split one fancy slice" + "id": "what_we_do", + "text": "What we do" }, { - "id": "create_competing_sundaes", - "text": "Create competing sundaes" + "id": "how_long_we_stay_out", + "text": "How long we stay out" }, { - "id": "visit_a_late_night_bakery", - "text": "Visit a late-night bakery" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_seasonal_dessert", - "text": "Make a seasonal dessert" + "id": "what_happens_after", + "text": "What happens after" } ] - }, - "access": "free" + } }, { - "id": "date_night_044", + "id": "date_night_011", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should happen during a screen-free hour together?", + "text": "Which little extras would make the night better?", "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "screen_free" + "this_week", + "light", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "play_a_quick_game", - "text": "Play a quick game" + "id": "a_playlist_for_the_drive", + "text": "A playlist for the drive" }, { - "id": "make_drinks_for_each_other", - "text": "Make drinks for each other" + "id": "a_table_away_from_the_television", + "text": "A table away from the television" }, { - "id": "look_through_an_old_photo_album", - "text": "Look through an old photo album" + "id": "a_small_surprise", + "text": "A small surprise" }, { - "id": "sit_outside", - "text": "Sit outside" - }, - { - "id": "plan_one_future_date", - "text": "Plan one future date" + "id": "time_for_one_unplanned_stop", + "text": "Time for one unplanned stop" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "play_a_quick_game", - "text": "Play a quick game" + "id": "a_playlist_for_the_drive", + "text": "A playlist for the drive" }, { - "id": "make_drinks_for_each_other", - "text": "Make drinks for each other" + "id": "a_table_away_from_the_television", + "text": "A table away from the television" }, { - "id": "look_through_an_old_photo_album", - "text": "Look through an old photo album" + "id": "a_small_surprise", + "text": "A small surprise" }, { - "id": "sit_outside", - "text": "Sit outside" - }, - { - "id": "plan_one_future_date", - "text": "Plan one future date" + "id": "time_for_one_unplanned_stop", + "text": "Time for one unplanned stop" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { - "id": "date_night_045", + "id": "date_night_012", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which small rituals would improve a recurring home date?", + "text": "What could turn a regular evening into our evening?", "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "rituals" + "this_week", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "take_turns_choosing_the_theme", - "text": "Take turns choosing the theme" + "id": "changing_the_setting", + "text": "Changing the setting" }, { - "id": "use_one_special_playlist", - "text": "Use one special playlist" + "id": "starting_before_we_are_tired", + "text": "Starting before we are tired" }, { - "id": "try_a_new_snack_each_time", - "text": "Try a new snack each time" + "id": "wearing_something_we_like", + "text": "Wearing something we like" }, { - "id": "take_one_photo", - "text": "Take one photo" - }, - { - "id": "end_by_picking_the_next_date", - "text": "End by picking the next date" + "id": "agreeing_not_to_multitask", + "text": "Agreeing not to multitask" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "take_turns_choosing_the_theme", - "text": "Take turns choosing the theme" + "id": "changing_the_setting", + "text": "Changing the setting" }, { - "id": "use_one_special_playlist", - "text": "Use one special playlist" + "id": "starting_before_we_are_tired", + "text": "Starting before we are tired" }, { - "id": "try_a_new_snack_each_time", - "text": "Try a new snack each time" + "id": "wearing_something_we_like", + "text": "Wearing something we like" }, { - "id": "take_one_photo", - "text": "Take one photo" + "id": "agreeing_not_to_multitask", + "text": "Agreeing not to multitask" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_013", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kinds of dates would be easiest to say yes to?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "this_week", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "something_close_to_home", + "text": "Something close to home" + }, + { + "id": "something_already_planned", + "text": "Something already planned" + }, + { + "id": "something_under_two_hours", + "text": "Something under two hours" + }, + { + "id": "something_with_no_fixed_ending", + "text": "Something with no fixed ending" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "something_close_to_home", + "text": "Something close to home" }, { - "id": "end_by_picking_the_next_date", - "text": "End by picking the next date" + "id": "something_already_planned", + "text": "Something already planned" + }, + { + "id": "something_under_two_hours", + "text": "Something under two hours" + }, + { + "id": "something_with_no_fixed_ending", + "text": "Something with no fixed ending" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_014", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "written", + "text": "What is one date you would genuinely enjoy with me this month?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "this_week", + "connection", + "date_night" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_015", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs would tell you the date was worth making time for?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "this_week", + "connection", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_laughed_naturally", + "text": "We laughed naturally" + }, + { + "id": "we_learned_something_new", + "text": "We learned something new" + }, + { + "id": "we_felt_more_like_a_couple", + "text": "We felt more like a couple" + }, + { + "id": "we_wanted_the_night_to_continue", + "text": "We wanted the night to continue" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_laughed_naturally", + "text": "We laughed naturally" + }, + { + "id": "we_learned_something_new", + "text": "We learned something new" + }, + { + "id": "we_felt_more_like_a_couple", + "text": "We felt more like a couple" + }, + { + "id": "we_wanted_the_night_to_continue", + "text": "We wanted the night to continue" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_016", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which stay-in date would actually feel special?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "at_home", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "cooking_one_good_meal", + "text": "Cooking one good meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_movie_chosen_together", + "text": "A movie chosen together" + }, + { + "id": "cards_and_a_favorite_drink", + "text": "Cards and a favorite drink" + }, + { + "id": "music_with_the_lights_low", + "text": "Music with the lights low" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cooking_one_good_meal", + "text": "Cooking one good meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_movie_chosen_together", + "text": "A movie chosen together" + }, + { + "id": "cards_and_a_favorite_drink", + "text": "Cards and a favorite drink" + }, + { + "id": "music_with_the_lights_low", + "text": "Music with the lights low" } ] - }, - "access": "free" + } }, { - "id": "date_night_046", + "id": "date_night_017", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How competitive should game night get?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps an at-home date from feeling like any other night?", "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "games" + "at_home", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_planned_start_time", + "text": "A planned start time" + }, + { + "id": "a_cleaner_room", + "text": "A cleaner room" + }, + { + "id": "different_food", + "text": "Different food" + }, + { + "id": "phones_out_of_reach", + "text": "Phones out of reach" + } ], "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Purely playful", - "maxLabel": "Bring the rivalry" - }, - "access": "free" + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_planned_start_time", + "text": "A planned start time" + }, + { + "id": "a_cleaner_room", + "text": "A cleaner room" + }, + { + "id": "different_food", + "text": "Different food" + }, + { + "id": "phones_out_of_reach", + "text": "Phones out of reach" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { - "id": "date_night_047", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How dressed up should an at-home date feel?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "home_date" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Maximum comfort", - "maxLabel": "Full date-night effort" - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_048", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How adventurous should the menu be?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "food" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Reliable favorites", - "maxLabel": "Something completely new" - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_049", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much talking belongs in movie night?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "movie_night" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Let the movie lead", - "maxLabel": "Commentary is part of the fun" - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_050", + "id": "date_night_018", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Cook together or order something surprising?", + "text": "Cook together or order something excellent?", "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "quick_choice" + "at_home", + "light", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { @@ -2348,8 +906,8 @@ "text": "Cook together" }, { - "id": "order_something_surprising", - "text": "Order something surprising" + "id": "order_something_excellent", + "text": "Order something excellent" } ], "answer_config": { @@ -2359,1301 +917,2352 @@ "text": "Cook together" }, { - "id": "order_something_surprising", - "text": "Order something surprising" + "id": "order_something_excellent", + "text": "Order something excellent" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_019", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which rooms could host a surprisingly good date?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "at_home", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_kitchen", + "text": "The kitchen" + }, + { + "id": "the_porch", + "text": "The porch" + }, + { + "id": "the_living_room_floor", + "text": "The living room floor" + }, + { + "id": "the_bedroom_with_music_and_dessert", + "text": "The bedroom with music and dessert" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_kitchen", + "text": "The kitchen" + }, + { + "id": "the_porch", + "text": "The porch" + }, + { + "id": "the_living_room_floor", + "text": "The living room floor" + }, + { + "id": "the_bedroom_with_music_and_dessert", + "text": "The bedroom with music and dessert" } ], - "optionA": "Cook together", - "optionB": "Order something surprising" - }, - "access": "free" + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_020", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What sounds fun after dinner at home?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "at_home", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_competitive_game", + "text": "One competitive game" + }, + { + "id": "a_slow_dance_in_the_kitchen", + "text": "A slow dance in the kitchen" + }, + { + "id": "looking_through_old_photos", + "text": "Looking through old photos" + }, + { + "id": "a_movie_neither_of_us_has_seen", + "text": "A movie neither of us has seen" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_competitive_game", + "text": "One competitive game" + }, + { + "id": "a_slow_dance_in_the_kitchen", + "text": "A slow dance in the kitchen" + }, + { + "id": "looking_through_old_photos", + "text": "Looking through old photos" + }, + { + "id": "a_movie_neither_of_us_has_seen", + "text": "A movie neither of us has seen" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_021", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which at-home upgrade would matter most?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "at_home", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "better_lighting", + "text": "Better lighting" + }, + { + "id": "fresh_sheets", + "text": "Fresh sheets" + }, + { + "id": "a_cleared_table", + "text": "A cleared table" + }, + { + "id": "music_already_playing", + "text": "Music already playing" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "better_lighting", + "text": "Better lighting" + }, + { + "id": "fresh_sheets", + "text": "Fresh sheets" + }, + { + "id": "a_cleared_table", + "text": "A cleared table" + }, + { + "id": "music_already_playing", + "text": "Music already playing" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_022", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What could we make together without turning it into a project?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "at_home", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simple_dessert", + "text": "A simple dessert" + }, + { + "id": "a_short_playlist", + "text": "A short playlist" + }, + { + "id": "a_ridiculous_ranking_list", + "text": "A ridiculous ranking list" + }, + { + "id": "a_drink_recipe_we_have_never_tried", + "text": "A drink recipe we have never tried" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simple_dessert", + "text": "A simple dessert" + }, + { + "id": "a_short_playlist", + "text": "A short playlist" + }, + { + "id": "a_ridiculous_ranking_list", + "text": "A ridiculous ranking list" + }, + { + "id": "a_drink_recipe_we_have_never_tried", + "text": "A drink recipe we have never tried" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_023", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How appealing does an at-home date sound this week?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "at_home", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not appealing", + "max_label": "Exactly what I want" + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_024", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which playful ideas could work without buying anything?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "at_home", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "taste_test_what_we_already_have", + "text": "Taste-test what we already have" + }, + { + "id": "pick_songs_for_each_other", + "text": "Pick songs for each other" + }, + { + "id": "draw_terrible_portraits", + "text": "Draw terrible portraits" + }, + { + "id": "recreate_an_early_date_photo", + "text": "Recreate an early date photo" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "taste_test_what_we_already_have", + "text": "Taste-test what we already have" + }, + { + "id": "pick_songs_for_each_other", + "text": "Pick songs for each other" + }, + { + "id": "draw_terrible_portraits", + "text": "Draw terrible portraits" + }, + { + "id": "recreate_an_early_date_photo", + "text": "Recreate an early date photo" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_025", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should be banned from our next stay-in date?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "at_home", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "work_talk", + "text": "Work talk" + }, + { + "id": "household_chores", + "text": "Household chores" + }, + { + "id": "separate_screens", + "text": "Separate screens" + }, + { + "id": "falling_asleep_before_dessert", + "text": "Falling asleep before dessert" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "work_talk", + "text": "Work talk" + }, + { + "id": "household_chores", + "text": "Household chores" + }, + { + "id": "separate_screens", + "text": "Separate screens" + }, + { + "id": "falling_asleep_before_dessert", + "text": "Falling asleep before dessert" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_026", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which details would make a stay-in date feel ready?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "at_home", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "dimmer_light", + "text": "Dimmer light" + }, + { + "id": "a_real_table_setting", + "text": "A real table setting" + }, + { + "id": "a_good_scent", + "text": "A good scent" + }, + { + "id": "clothes_we_did_not_wear_all_day", + "text": "Clothes we did not wear all day" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "dimmer_light", + "text": "Dimmer light" + }, + { + "id": "a_real_table_setting", + "text": "A real table setting" + }, + { + "id": "a_good_scent", + "text": "A good scent" + }, + { + "id": "clothes_we_did_not_wear_all_day", + "text": "Clothes we did not wear all day" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_027", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a movie night feel like a date?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "at_home", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "choosing_it_together", + "text": "Choosing it together" + }, + { + "id": "starting_before_bedtime", + "text": "Starting before bedtime" + }, + { + "id": "sitting_close", + "text": "Sitting close" + }, + { + "id": "adding_one_food_we_both_love", + "text": "Adding one food we both love" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "choosing_it_together", + "text": "Choosing it together" + }, + { + "id": "starting_before_bedtime", + "text": "Starting before bedtime" + }, + { + "id": "sitting_close", + "text": "Sitting close" + }, + { + "id": "adding_one_food_we_both_love", + "text": "Adding one food we both love" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_028", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which tiny competitions sound entertaining?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "at_home", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "best_two_song_playlist", + "text": "Best two-song playlist" + }, + { + "id": "worst_movie_prediction", + "text": "Worst movie prediction" + }, + { + "id": "most_dramatic_card_game_victory", + "text": "Most dramatic card-game victory" + }, + { + "id": "best_drink_made_from_what_we_have", + "text": "Best drink made from what we have" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "best_two_song_playlist", + "text": "Best two-song playlist" + }, + { + "id": "worst_movie_prediction", + "text": "Worst movie prediction" + }, + { + "id": "most_dramatic_card_game_victory", + "text": "Most dramatic card-game victory" + }, + { + "id": "best_drink_made_from_what_we_have", + "text": "Best drink made from what we have" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_029", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "written", + "text": "What at-home date have we done that deserves a repeat?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "at_home", + "connection", + "date_night" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_030", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which endings would make a stay-in date feel complete?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "at_home", + "connection", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_slow_song", + "text": "A slow song" + }, + { + "id": "talking_after_the_activity_ends", + "text": "Talking after the activity ends" + }, + { + "id": "a_late_dessert", + "text": "A late dessert" + }, + { + "id": "going_to_bed_at_the_same_time", + "text": "Going to bed at the same time" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_slow_song", + "text": "A slow song" + }, + { + "id": "talking_after_the_activity_ends", + "text": "Talking after the activity ends" + }, + { + "id": "a_late_dessert", + "text": "A late dessert" + }, + { + "id": "going_to_bed_at_the_same_time", + "text": "Going to bed at the same time" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_031", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which going-out date sounds easiest right now?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "going_out", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_favorite_restaurant", + "text": "A favorite restaurant" + }, + { + "id": "a_new_coffee_shop", + "text": "A new coffee shop" + }, + { + "id": "a_bookstore_stop", + "text": "A bookstore stop" + }, + { + "id": "a_short_walk_downtown", + "text": "A short walk downtown" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_favorite_restaurant", + "text": "A favorite restaurant" + }, + { + "id": "a_new_coffee_shop", + "text": "A new coffee shop" + }, + { + "id": "a_bookstore_stop", + "text": "A bookstore stop" + }, + { + "id": "a_short_walk_downtown", + "text": "A short walk downtown" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_032", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes leaving the house worth the effort?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "going_out", + "light", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "food_we_cannot_make_well", + "text": "Food we cannot make well" + }, + { + "id": "a_good_view", + "text": "A good view" + }, + { + "id": "live_music", + "text": "Live music" + }, + { + "id": "somewhere_new_to_wander", + "text": "Somewhere new to wander" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "food_we_cannot_make_well", + "text": "Food we cannot make well" + }, + { + "id": "a_good_view", + "text": "A 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"id": "childcare", + "text": "Childcare" + }, + { + "id": "transportation", + "text": "Transportation" + }, + { + "id": "the_rough_budget", + "text": "The rough budget" + }, + { + "id": "when_we_need_to_be_home", + "text": "When we need to be home" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "date_night_051", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "written", - "text": "What nearby place would feel new if we explored it together?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should we simplify first when planning feels annoying?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "local", - "exploration" + "budget_logistics", + "connection", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_location", + "text": "The location" + }, + { + "id": "the_food", + "text": "The food" + }, + { + "id": "the_activity", + "text": "The activity" + }, + { + "id": "the_start_time", + "text": "The start time" + } ], "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 500, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." - }, - "access": "free" + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_location", + "text": "The location" + }, + { + "id": "the_food", + "text": "The food" + }, + { + "id": "the_activity", + "text": "The activity" + }, + { + "id": "the_start_time", + "text": "The start time" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "date_night_052", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which outdoor date sounds best in perfect weather?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which plans work well when money is tight?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "outdoors" + "budget_logistics", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "picnic_by_the_water", - "text": "Picnic by the water" + "id": "a_special_breakfast_at_home", + "text": "A special breakfast at home" }, { - "id": "a_scenic_trail", - "text": "A scenic trail" + "id": "dessert_instead_of_dinner_out", + "text": "Dessert instead of dinner out" }, { - "id": "an_outdoor_market", - "text": "An outdoor market" + "id": "a_free_event_with_coffee", + "text": "A free event with coffee" }, { - "id": "a_patio_meal", - "text": "A patio meal" + "id": "revisiting_a_favorite_cheap_date", + "text": "Revisiting a favorite cheap date" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "picnic_by_the_water", - "text": "Picnic by the water" + "id": "a_special_breakfast_at_home", + "text": "A special breakfast at home" }, { - "id": "a_scenic_trail", - "text": "A scenic trail" + "id": "dessert_instead_of_dinner_out", + "text": "Dessert instead of dinner out" }, { - "id": "an_outdoor_market", - "text": "An outdoor market" + "id": "a_free_event_with_coffee", + "text": "A free event with coffee" }, { - "id": "a_patio_meal", - "text": "A patio meal" + "id": "revisiting_a_favorite_cheap_date", + "text": "Revisiting a favorite cheap date" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "date_night_053", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should be the goal of a local day date?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How stressful does spending on dates feel right now?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "local" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_a_hidden_gem", - "text": "Find a hidden gem" - }, - { - "id": "take_great_photos", - "text": "Take great photos" - }, - { - "id": "taste_something_new", - "text": "Taste something new" - }, - { - "id": "come_home_relaxed", - "text": "Come home relaxed" - } + "budget_logistics", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_a_hidden_gem", - "text": "Find a hidden gem" - }, - { - "id": "take_great_photos", - "text": "Take great photos" - }, - { - "id": "taste_something_new", - "text": "Taste something new" - }, - { - "id": "come_home_relaxed", - "text": "Come home relaxed" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not stressful", + "max_label": "Very stressful" + } }, { "id": "date_night_054", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which daytime date would you choose first?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes sharing date costs feel fair to you?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "day_date" + "budget_logistics", + "gentle_depth", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "museum_morning", - "text": "Museum morning" + "id": "taking_turns", + "text": "Taking turns" }, { - "id": "bookstore_and_lunch", - "text": "Bookstore and lunch" + "id": "splitting_the_total", + "text": "Splitting the total" }, { - "id": "botanical_garden", - "text": "Botanical garden" + "id": "whoever_invites_pays", + "text": "Whoever invites pays" }, { - "id": "small_town_wander", - "text": "Small-town wander" + "id": "choosing_plans_that_suit_both_budgets", + "text": "Choosing plans that suit both budgets" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "museum_morning", - "text": "Museum morning" + "id": "taking_turns", + "text": "Taking turns" }, { - "id": "bookstore_and_lunch", - "text": "Bookstore and lunch" + "id": "splitting_the_total", + "text": "Splitting the total" }, { - "id": "botanical_garden", - "text": "Botanical garden" + "id": "whoever_invites_pays", + "text": "Whoever invites pays" }, { - "id": "small_town_wander", - "text": "Small-town wander" + "id": "choosing_plans_that_suit_both_budgets", + "text": "Choosing plans that suit both budgets" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "date_night_055", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of view is worth planning a date around?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "Which planning shortcut would help us most?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "view" + "budget_logistics", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "water", - "text": "Water" + "id": "keep_a_shared_date_list", + "text": "Keep a shared date list" }, { - "id": "city_lights", - "text": "City lights" + "id": "alternate_who_plans", + "text": "Alternate who plans" }, { - "id": "mountains_or_hills", - "text": "Mountains or hills" + "id": "choose_from_three_options", + "text": "Choose from three options" }, { - "id": "open_sky", - "text": "Open sky" + "id": "set_one_recurring_date_night", + "text": "Set one recurring date night" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "water", - "text": "Water" + "id": "keep_a_shared_date_list", + "text": "Keep a shared date list" }, { - "id": "city_lights", - "text": "City lights" + "id": "alternate_who_plans", + "text": "Alternate who plans" }, { - "id": "mountains_or_hills", - "text": "Mountains or hills" + "id": "choose_from_three_options", + "text": "Choose from three options" }, { - "id": "open_sky", - "text": "Open sky" + "id": "set_one_recurring_date_night", + "text": "Set one recurring date night" } ] - }, - "access": "free" + } }, { "id": "date_night_056", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which seasonal outing sounds most like us?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What could protect date night from last-minute cancellation?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "seasonal" + "budget_logistics", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "spring_garden_walk", - "text": "Spring garden walk" + "id": "book_it_ahead", + "text": "Book it ahead" }, { - "id": "summer_evening_festival", - "text": "Summer evening festival" + "id": "choose_something_close", + "text": "Choose something close" }, { - "id": "autumn_scenic_drive", - "text": "Autumn scenic drive" + "id": "set_a_realistic_start_time", + "text": "Set a realistic start time" }, { - "id": "winter_lights_tour", - "text": "Winter lights tour" + "id": "have_a_backup_plan_at_home", + "text": "Have a backup plan at home" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "spring_garden_walk", - "text": "Spring garden walk" + "id": "book_it_ahead", + "text": "Book it ahead" }, { - "id": "summer_evening_festival", - "text": "Summer evening festival" + "id": "choose_something_close", + "text": "Choose something close" }, { - "id": "autumn_scenic_drive", - "text": "Autumn scenic drive" + "id": "set_a_realistic_start_time", + "text": "Set a realistic start time" }, { - "id": "winter_lights_tour", - "text": "Winter lights tour" + "id": "have_a_backup_plan_at_home", + "text": "Have a backup plan at home" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "date_night_057", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which ingredients make a picnic worth the effort?", + "text": "Which expenses are easiest to skip without hurting the date?", "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "picnic" + "budget_logistics", + "light", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "food_that_travels_well", - "text": "Food that travels well" + "id": "drinks_out", + "text": "Drinks out" }, { - "id": "a_comfortable_place_to_sit", - "text": "A comfortable place to sit" + "id": "an_expensive_activity", + "text": "An expensive activity" }, { - "id": "a_view_we_both_enjoy", - "text": "A view we both enjoy" + "id": "a_long_drive", + "text": "A long drive" }, { - "id": "one_easy_game", - "text": "One easy game" - }, - { - "id": "enough_time_to_linger", - "text": "Enough time to linger" + "id": "buying_something_new_to_wear", + "text": "Buying something new to wear" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "food_that_travels_well", - "text": "Food that travels well" + "id": "drinks_out", + "text": "Drinks out" }, { - "id": "a_comfortable_place_to_sit", - "text": "A comfortable place to sit" + "id": "an_expensive_activity", + "text": "An expensive activity" }, { - "id": "a_view_we_both_enjoy", - "text": "A view we both enjoy" + "id": "a_long_drive", + "text": "A long drive" }, { - "id": "one_easy_game", - "text": "One easy game" - }, - { - "id": "enough_time_to_linger", - "text": "Enough time to linger" + "id": "buying_something_new_to_wear", + "text": "Buying something new to wear" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "date_night_058", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which local places could become good dates?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What can make a splurge date feel worthwhile?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "local" + "budget_logistics", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "a_small_museum", - "text": "A small museum" + "id": "it_celebrates_something", + "text": "It celebrates something" }, { - "id": "an_independent_cafe", - "text": "An independent cafe" + "id": "it_is_something_rare", + "text": "It is something rare" }, { - "id": "a_historic_neighborhood", - "text": "A historic neighborhood" + "id": "we_both_chose_it", + "text": "We both chose it" }, { - "id": "a_weekend_market", - "text": "A weekend market" - }, - { - "id": "a_community_event", - "text": "A community event" + "id": "we_planned_enough_time_to_enjoy_it", + "text": "We planned enough time to enjoy it" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_small_museum", - "text": "A small museum" + "id": "it_celebrates_something", + "text": "It celebrates something" }, { - "id": "an_independent_cafe", - "text": "An independent cafe" + "id": "it_is_something_rare", + "text": "It is something rare" }, { - "id": "a_historic_neighborhood", - "text": "A historic neighborhood" + "id": "we_both_chose_it", + "text": "We both chose it" }, { - "id": "a_weekend_market", - "text": "A weekend market" - }, - { - "id": "a_community_event", - "text": "A community event" + "id": "we_planned_enough_time_to_enjoy_it", + "text": "We planned enough time to enjoy it" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "date_night_059", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Pick the details for a relaxed park date:", - "depth": 1, + "type": "written", + "text": "What is the best inexpensive date we have ever had?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "park" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_shady_spot", - "text": "A shady spot" - }, - { - "id": "drinks_in_reusable_cups", - "text": "Drinks in reusable cups" - }, - { - "id": "a_deck_of_cards", - "text": "A deck of cards" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_wandering_walk", - "text": "A short wandering walk" - }, - { - "id": "something_sweet_to_split", - "text": "Something sweet to split" - } + "budget_logistics", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_shady_spot", - "text": "A shady spot" - }, - { - "id": "drinks_in_reusable_cups", - "text": "Drinks in reusable cups" - }, - { - "id": "a_deck_of_cards", - "text": "A deck of cards" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_wandering_walk", - "text": "A short wandering walk" - }, - { - "id": "something_sweet_to_split", - "text": "Something sweet to split" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + "max_length": 500 + } }, { "id": "date_night_060", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which photo-date challenges sound fun?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "Which budget conversations belong before the date, not during it?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "photos" + "budget_logistics", + "gentle_depth", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "find_the_best_doorway", - "text": "Find the best doorway" + "id": "the_spending_limit", + "text": "The spending limit" }, { - "id": "capture_something_in_our_favorite_color", - "text": "Capture something in our favorite color" + "id": "who_is_paying", + "text": "Who is paying" }, { - "id": "recreate_an_old_pose", - "text": "Recreate an old pose" + "id": "whether_extras_are_okay", + "text": "Whether extras are okay" }, { - "id": "take_one_picture_that_feels_like_us", - "text": "Take one picture that feels like us" - }, - { - "id": "photograph_a_place_to_revisit", - "text": "Photograph a place to revisit" + "id": "what_would_cause_regret_later", + "text": "What would cause regret later" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "find_the_best_doorway", - "text": "Find the best doorway" + "id": "the_spending_limit", + "text": "The spending limit" }, { - "id": "capture_something_in_our_favorite_color", - "text": "Capture something in our favorite color" + "id": "who_is_paying", + "text": "Who is paying" }, { - "id": "recreate_an_old_pose", - "text": "Recreate an old pose" + "id": "whether_extras_are_okay", + "text": "Whether extras are okay" }, { - "id": "take_one_picture_that_feels_like_us", - "text": "Take one picture that feels like us" - }, - { - "id": "photograph_a_place_to_revisit", - "text": "Photograph a place to revisit" + "id": "what_would_cause_regret_later", + "text": "What would cause regret later" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "date_night_061", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What belongs in a good bookstore date?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which romantic tone sounds best for our next date?", "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "bookstore" + "romance_flirting", + "light", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "choose_a_book_for_each_other", - "text": "Choose a book for each other" + "id": "sweet_and_relaxed", + "text": "Sweet and relaxed" }, { - "id": "read_funny_titles_aloud", - "text": "Read funny titles aloud" + "id": "flirty_and_confident", + "text": "Flirty and confident" }, { - "id": "find_a_shared_travel_idea", - "text": "Find a shared travel idea" + "id": "elegant_and_dressed_up", + "text": "Elegant and dressed up" }, { - "id": "split_a_cafe_treat", - "text": "Split a cafe treat" - }, - { - "id": "leave_with_one_surprise_pick", - "text": "Leave with one surprise pick" + "id": "private_and_slow", + "text": "Private and slow" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "choose_a_book_for_each_other", - "text": "Choose a book for each other" + "id": "sweet_and_relaxed", + "text": "Sweet and relaxed" }, { - "id": "read_funny_titles_aloud", - "text": "Read funny titles aloud" + "id": "flirty_and_confident", + "text": "Flirty and confident" }, { - "id": "find_a_shared_travel_idea", - "text": "Find a shared travel idea" + "id": "elegant_and_dressed_up", + "text": "Elegant and dressed up" }, { - "id": "split_a_cafe_treat", - "text": "Split a cafe treat" - }, - { - "id": "leave_with_one_surprise_pick", - "text": "Leave with one surprise pick" + "id": "private_and_slow", + "text": "Private and slow" } ] - }, - "access": "free" + } }, { "id": "date_night_062", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which market-date moments appeal to you?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What makes a date feel romantic without becoming cheesy?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "market" + "romance_flirting", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "taste_a_sample_we_would_normally_skip", - "text": "Taste a sample we would normally skip" + "id": "a_sincere_compliment", + "text": "A sincere compliment" }, { - "id": "pick_ingredients_for_dinner", - "text": "Pick ingredients for dinner" + "id": "a_little_anticipation", + "text": "A little anticipation" }, { - "id": "choose_flowers_together", - "text": "Choose flowers together" + "id": "thoughtful_lighting", + "text": "Thoughtful lighting" }, { - "id": "find_a_small_handmade_item", - "text": "Find a small handmade item" - }, - { - "id": "sit_with_a_drink_and_people_watch", - "text": "Sit with a drink and people-watch" + "id": "one_detail_chosen_for_the_other_person", + "text": "One detail chosen for the other person" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "taste_a_sample_we_would_normally_skip", - "text": "Taste a sample we would normally skip" + "id": "a_sincere_compliment", + "text": "A sincere compliment" }, { - "id": "pick_ingredients_for_dinner", - "text": "Pick ingredients for dinner" + "id": "a_little_anticipation", + "text": "A little anticipation" }, { - "id": "choose_flowers_together", - "text": "Choose flowers together" + "id": "thoughtful_lighting", + "text": "Thoughtful lighting" }, { - "id": "find_a_small_handmade_item", - "text": "Find a small handmade item" - }, - { - "id": "sit_with_a_drink_and_people_watch", - "text": "Sit with a drink and people-watch" + "id": "one_detail_chosen_for_the_other_person", + "text": "One detail chosen for the other person" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "date_night_063", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can a museum date become more playful?", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Dress up or stay comfortably ourselves?", "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "museum" + "romance_flirting", + "light", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "pick_a_favorite_room", - "text": "Pick a favorite room" + "id": "dress_up", + "text": "Dress up" }, { - "id": "invent_captions_for_one_artwork", - "text": "Invent captions for one artwork" - }, - { - "id": "guess_each_other_s_top_piece", - "text": "Guess each other’s top piece" - }, - { - "id": "find_something_that_reminds_us_of_home", - "text": "Find something that reminds us of home" - }, - { - "id": "choose_one_object_for_our_imaginary_house", - "text": "Choose one object for our imaginary house" + "id": "stay_comfortably_ourselves", + "text": "Stay comfortably ourselves" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "pick_a_favorite_room", - "text": "Pick a favorite room" + "id": "dress_up", + "text": "Dress up" }, { - "id": "invent_captions_for_one_artwork", - "text": "Invent captions for one artwork" - }, - { - "id": "guess_each_other_s_top_piece", - "text": "Guess each other’s top piece" - }, - { - "id": "find_something_that_reminds_us_of_home", - "text": "Find something that reminds us of home" - }, - { - "id": "choose_one_object_for_our_imaginary_house", - "text": "Choose one object for our imaginary house" + "id": "stay_comfortably_ourselves", + "text": "Stay comfortably ourselves" } ] - }, - "access": "free" + } }, { "id": "date_night_064", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which easy day-trip pieces sound right?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "Which gestures would make you feel chosen before the date starts?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "day_trip" + "romance_flirting", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "a_drive_under_ninety_minutes", - "text": "A drive under ninety minutes" + "id": "a_message_saying_i_am_looking_forward_to_it", + "text": "A message saying I am looking forward to it" }, { - "id": "one_main_destination", - "text": "One main destination" + "id": "taking_care_of_the_reservation", + "text": "Taking care of the reservation" }, { - "id": "a_flexible_lunch_stop", - "text": "A flexible lunch stop" + "id": "picking_you_up_ready_to_go", + "text": "Picking you up ready to go" }, { - "id": "time_to_wander", - "text": "Time to wander" - }, - { - "id": "getting_home_before_we_are_exhausted", - "text": "Getting home before we are exhausted" + "id": "choosing_something_with_you_in_mind", + "text": "Choosing something with you in mind" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_drive_under_ninety_minutes", - "text": "A drive under ninety minutes" + "id": "a_message_saying_i_am_looking_forward_to_it", + "text": "A message saying I am looking forward to it" }, { - "id": "one_main_destination", - "text": "One main destination" + "id": "taking_care_of_the_reservation", + "text": "Taking care of the reservation" }, { - "id": "a_flexible_lunch_stop", - "text": "A flexible lunch stop" + "id": "picking_you_up_ready_to_go", + "text": "Picking you up ready to go" }, { - "id": "time_to_wander", - "text": "Time to wander" - }, - { - "id": "getting_home_before_we_are_exhausted", - "text": "Getting home before we are exhausted" + "id": "choosing_something_with_you_in_mind", + "text": "Choosing something with you in mind" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "date_night_065", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would improve a waterfront date?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What kind of flirting belongs on a good date?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "waterfront" + "romance_flirting", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "a_place_to_sit_close", - "text": "A place to sit close" + "id": "a_look_across_the_table", + "text": "A look across the table" }, { - "id": "a_snack_for_later", - "text": "A snack for later" + "id": "a_private_compliment", + "text": "A private compliment" }, { - "id": "shoes_made_for_walking", - "text": "Shoes made for walking" + "id": "a_little_teasing", + "text": "A little teasing" }, { - "id": "a_sunset_finish", - "text": "A sunset finish" - }, - { - "id": "no_strict_schedule", - "text": "No strict schedule" + "id": "a_clear_invitation_for_later", + "text": "A clear invitation for later" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_place_to_sit_close", - "text": "A place to sit close" + "id": "a_look_across_the_table", + "text": "A look across the table" }, { - "id": "a_snack_for_later", - "text": "A snack for later" + "id": "a_private_compliment", + "text": "A private compliment" }, { - "id": "shoes_made_for_walking", - "text": "Shoes made for walking" + "id": "a_little_teasing", + "text": "A little teasing" }, { - "id": "a_sunset_finish", - "text": "A sunset finish" - }, - { - "id": "no_strict_schedule", - "text": "No strict schedule" + "id": "a_clear_invitation_for_later", + "text": "A clear invitation for later" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "date_night_066", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which festival-date choices would you enjoy?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which surprise would land best before we leave?", "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "festival" + "romance_flirting", + "light", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "share_one_unusual_food", - "text": "Share one unusual food" + "id": "a_note", + "text": "A note" }, { - "id": "watch_a_live_performance", - "text": "Watch a live performance" + "id": "a_favorite_drink_ready", + "text": "A favorite drink ready" }, { - "id": "buy_one_tiny_souvenir", - "text": "Buy one tiny souvenir" + "id": "a_playlist_for_the_drive", + "text": "A playlist for the drive" }, { - "id": "take_a_photo_together", - "text": "Take a photo together" - }, - { - "id": "leave_before_it_gets_overwhelming", - "text": "Leave before it gets overwhelming" + "id": "a_place_kept_secret_until_arrival", + "text": "A place kept secret until arrival" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "share_one_unusual_food", - "text": "Share one unusual food" + "id": "a_note", + "text": "A note" }, { - "id": "watch_a_live_performance", - "text": "Watch a live performance" + "id": "a_favorite_drink_ready", + "text": "A favorite drink ready" }, { - "id": "buy_one_tiny_souvenir", - "text": "Buy one tiny souvenir" + "id": "a_playlist_for_the_drive", + "text": "A playlist for the drive" }, { - "id": "take_a_photo_together", - "text": "Take a photo together" - }, - { - "id": "leave_before_it_gets_overwhelming", - "text": "Leave before it gets overwhelming" + "id": "a_place_kept_secret_until_arrival", + "text": "A place kept secret until arrival" } ] - }, - "access": "free" + } }, { "id": "date_night_067", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Pick the good-weather dates worth keeping ready:", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What helps physical affection feel natural during a date?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "weather" + "romance_flirting", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "patio_breakfast", - "text": "Patio breakfast" + "id": "sitting_close", + "text": "Sitting close" }, { - "id": "a_garden_walk", - "text": "A garden walk" + "id": "walking_hand_in_hand", + "text": "Walking hand in hand" }, { - "id": "ice_cream_outside", - "text": "Ice cream outside" + "id": "a_kiss_without_rushing", + "text": "A kiss without rushing" }, { - "id": "an_evening_bike_ride", - "text": "An evening bike ride" - }, - { - "id": "a_blanket_under_the_stars", - "text": "A blanket under the stars" + "id": "letting_the_mood_build_on_its_own", + "text": "Letting the mood build on its own" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "patio_breakfast", - "text": "Patio breakfast" + "id": "sitting_close", + "text": "Sitting close" }, { - "id": "a_garden_walk", - "text": "A garden walk" + "id": "walking_hand_in_hand", + "text": "Walking hand in hand" }, { - "id": "ice_cream_outside", - "text": "Ice cream outside" + "id": "a_kiss_without_rushing", + "text": "A kiss without rushing" }, { - "id": "an_evening_bike_ride", - "text": "An evening bike ride" - }, - { - "id": "a_blanket_under_the_stars", - "text": "A blanket under the stars" + "id": "letting_the_mood_build_on_its_own", + "text": "Letting the mood build on its own" } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "date_night_068", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which details turn a scenic drive into a real date?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How flirty do you want our next date to feel?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "drive" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_route_selected_in_advance", - "text": "A route selected in advance" - }, - { - "id": "stops_chosen_by_both_of_us", - "text": "Stops chosen by both of us" - }, - { - "id": "a_camera_within_reach", - "text": "A camera within reach" - }, - { - "id": "a_meal_somewhere_new", - "text": "A meal somewhere new" - }, - { - "id": "no_errands_attached", - "text": "No errands attached" - } + "romance_flirting", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_route_selected_in_advance", - "text": "A route selected in advance" - }, - { - "id": "stops_chosen_by_both_of_us", - "text": "Stops chosen by both of us" - }, - { - "id": "a_camera_within_reach", - "text": "A camera within reach" - }, - { - "id": "a_meal_somewhere_new", - "text": "A meal somewhere new" - }, - { - "id": "no_errands_attached", - "text": "No errands attached" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Mostly sweet", + "max_label": "Very flirty" + } }, { "id": "date_night_069", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which small-town date ideas sound charming?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "small_town" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "browse_antique_shops", - "text": "Browse antique shops" - }, - { - "id": "try_the_local_bakery", - "text": "Try the local bakery" - }, - { - "id": "walk_the_main_street", - "text": "Walk the main street" - }, - { - "id": "find_a_historic_marker", - "text": "Find a historic marker" - }, - { - "id": "eat_at_a_place_with_one_famous_dish", - "text": "Eat at a place with one famous dish" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "browse_antique_shops", - "text": "Browse antique shops" - }, - { - "id": "try_the_local_bakery", - "text": "Try the local bakery" - }, - { - "id": "walk_the_main_street", - "text": "Walk the main street" - }, - { - "id": "find_a_historic_marker", - "text": "Find a historic marker" - }, - { - "id": "eat_at_a_place_with_one_famous_dish", - "text": "Eat at a place with one famous dish" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_070", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we bring on a low-key outdoor date?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "outdoors" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "water_we_will_actually_drink", - "text": "Water we will actually drink" - }, - { - "id": "a_portable_snack", - "text": "A portable snack" - }, - { - "id": "a_light_layer", - "text": "A light layer" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_speaker", - "text": "A small speaker" - }, - { - "id": "one_shared_activity", - "text": "One shared activity" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "water_we_will_actually_drink", - "text": "Water we will actually drink" - }, - { - "id": "a_portable_snack", - "text": "A portable snack" - }, - { - "id": "a_light_layer", - "text": "A light layer" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_speaker", - "text": "A small speaker" - }, - { - "id": "one_shared_activity", - "text": "One shared activity" - } - ] - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_071", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How far should our next day trip take us?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "distance" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Stay very close", - "maxLabel": "Make a full day of it" - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_072", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How outdoorsy should the next date be?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "outdoors" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Mostly indoors", - "maxLabel": "Outside the whole time" - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_073", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much wandering sounds fun?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "exploration" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "One clear destination", - "maxLabel": "Follow whatever catches our eye" - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_074", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How early should a daytime date start?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "timing" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Late brunch energy", - "maxLabel": "Up and out early" - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_075", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Patio brunch or evening picnic?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "quick_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "patio_brunch", - "text": "Patio brunch" - }, - { - "id": "evening_picnic", - "text": "Evening picnic" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "patio_brunch", - "text": "Patio brunch" - }, - { - "id": "evening_picnic", - "text": "Evening picnic" - } - ], - "optionA": "Patio brunch", - "optionB": "Evening picnic" - }, - "access": "free" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_076", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "written", - "text": "What detail would make you feel unmistakably chosen on a date?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "feeling_chosen", - "romance" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 500, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_077", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which romantic gesture would mean the most during a date?", + "text": "Which compliments would you most want to hear on a date?", "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_thoughtful_compliment", - "text": "A thoughtful compliment" - }, - { - "id": "a_planned_surprise", - "text": "A planned surprise" - }, - { - "id": "undivided_attention", - "text": "Undivided attention" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_affectionate_goodbye", - "text": "A long affectionate goodbye" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_thoughtful_compliment", - "text": "A thoughtful compliment" - }, - { - "id": "a_planned_surprise", - "text": "A planned surprise" - }, - { - "id": "undivided_attention", - "text": "Undivided attention" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_affectionate_goodbye", - "text": "A long affectionate goodbye" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_078", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of date makes affection feel most natural?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "affection" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_quiet_dinner", - "text": "A quiet dinner" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_walk", - "text": "A long walk" - }, - { - "id": "a_cozy_night_in", - "text": "A cozy night in" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_adventure", - "text": "A playful adventure" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_quiet_dinner", - "text": "A quiet dinner" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_walk", - "text": "A long walk" - }, - { - "id": "a_cozy_night_in", - "text": "A cozy night in" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_adventure", - "text": "A playful adventure" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_079", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which compliment would land best before we go out?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "compliments" + "romance_flirting", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { @@ -3661,16 +3270,16 @@ "text": "You look incredible" }, { - "id": "i_have_been_excited_for_tonight", - "text": "I have been excited for tonight" + "id": "i_love_being_out_with_you", + "text": "I love being out with you" }, { - "id": "i_love_spending_time_with_you", - "text": "I love spending time with you" + "id": "you_still_surprise_me", + "text": "You still surprise me" }, { - "id": "you_always_make_this_fun", - "text": "You always make this fun" + "id": "i_have_been_looking_forward_to_this", + "text": "I have been looking forward to this" } ], "answer_config": { @@ -3680,5760 +3289,451 @@ "text": "You look incredible" }, { - "id": "i_have_been_excited_for_tonight", - "text": "I have been excited for tonight" + "id": "i_love_being_out_with_you", + "text": "I love being out with you" }, { - "id": "i_love_spending_time_with_you", - "text": "I love spending time with you" + "id": "you_still_surprise_me", + "text": "You still surprise me" }, { - "id": "you_always_make_this_fun", - "text": "You always make this fun" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_080", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which ingredient adds the most flirt to a date?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "flirting" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "playful_eye_contact", - "text": "Playful eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "a_bold_compliment", - "text": "A bold compliment" - }, - { - "id": "small_touches", - "text": "Small touches" - }, - { - "id": "a_secret_plan_for_later", - "text": "A secret plan for later" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "playful_eye_contact", - "text": "Playful eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "a_bold_compliment", - "text": "A bold compliment" - }, - { - "id": "small_touches", - "text": "Small touches" - }, - { - "id": "a_secret_plan_for_later", - "text": "A secret plan for later" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_081", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which ending would leave you feeling closest?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "ending" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_slow_kiss", - "text": "A slow kiss" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_conversation_in_the_car", - "text": "A long conversation in the car" - }, - { - "id": "cuddling_at_home", - "text": "Cuddling at home" - }, - { - "id": "planning_the_next_date", - "text": "Planning the next date" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_slow_kiss", - "text": "A slow kiss" - }, - { - "id": "a_long_conversation_in_the_car", - "text": "A long conversation in the car" - }, - { - "id": "cuddling_at_home", - "text": "Cuddling at home" - }, - { - "id": "planning_the_next_date", - "text": "Planning the next date" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_082", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which ingredients create romance without making a date formal?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "romance" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_detail_chosen_just_for_me", - "text": "A detail chosen just for me" - }, - { - "id": "time_without_rushing", - "text": "Time without rushing" - }, - { - "id": "warm_physical_affection", - "text": "Warm physical affection" - }, - { - "id": "a_place_with_good_atmosphere", - "text": "A place with good atmosphere" - }, - { - "id": "one_sincere_conversation", - "text": "One sincere conversation" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_detail_chosen_just_for_me", - "text": "A detail chosen just for me" - }, - { - "id": "time_without_rushing", - "text": "Time without rushing" - }, - { - "id": "warm_physical_affection", - "text": "Warm physical affection" - }, - { - "id": "a_place_with_good_atmosphere", - "text": "A place with good atmosphere" - }, - { - "id": "one_sincere_conversation", - "text": "One sincere conversation" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_083", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs make you feel pursued?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "pursuit" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "someone_takes_initiative", - "text": "Someone takes initiative" - }, - { - "id": "the_plan_reflects_what_i_enjoy", - "text": "The plan reflects what I enjoy" - }, - { - "id": "i_get_a_message_building_anticipation", - "text": "I get a message building anticipation" - }, - { - "id": "effort_shows_in_the_small_details", - "text": "Effort shows in the small details" - }, - { - "id": "my_reactions_are_noticed", - "text": "My reactions are noticed" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "someone_takes_initiative", - "text": "Someone takes initiative" - }, - { - "id": "the_plan_reflects_what_i_enjoy", - "text": "The plan reflects what I enjoy" - }, - { - "id": "i_get_a_message_building_anticipation", - "text": "I get a message building anticipation" - }, - { - "id": "effort_shows_in_the_small_details", - "text": "Effort shows in the small details" - }, - { - "id": "my_reactions_are_noticed", - "text": "My reactions are noticed" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_084", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps affection feel comfortable throughout a date?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "affection", - "comfort" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "checking_my_body_language", - "text": "Checking my body language" - }, - { - "id": "starting_with_small_touches", - "text": "Starting with small touches" - }, - { - "id": "letting_closeness_grow_naturally", - "text": "Letting closeness grow naturally" - }, - { - "id": "being_somewhere_private_enough", - "text": "Being somewhere private enough" - }, - { - "id": "no_expectation_of_what_happens_later", - "text": "No expectation of what happens later" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "checking_my_body_language", - "text": "Checking my body language" - }, - { - "id": "starting_with_small_touches", - "text": "Starting with small touches" - }, - { - "id": "letting_closeness_grow_naturally", - "text": "Letting closeness grow naturally" - }, - { - "id": "being_somewhere_private_enough", - "text": "Being somewhere private enough" - }, - { - "id": "no_expectation_of_what_happens_later", - "text": "No expectation of what happens later" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_085", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which date-night compliments would feel genuine?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "compliments" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_specific_about_my_appearance", - "text": "Something specific about my appearance" - }, - { - "id": "something_about_my_energy", - "text": "Something about my energy" - }, - { - "id": "a_memory_of_when_i_looked_happy", - "text": "A memory of when I looked happy" - }, - { - "id": "how_i_make_the_night_better", - "text": "How I make the night better" - }, - { - "id": "what_you_admire_about_me_lately", - "text": "What you admire about me lately" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_specific_about_my_appearance", - "text": "Something specific about my appearance" - }, - { - "id": "something_about_my_energy", - "text": "Something about my energy" - }, - { - "id": "a_memory_of_when_i_looked_happy", - "text": "A memory of when I looked happy" - }, - { - "id": "how_i_make_the_night_better", - "text": "How I make the night better" - }, - { - "id": "what_you_admire_about_me_lately", - "text": "What you admire about me lately" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_086", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can getting ready together become part of the romance?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "getting_ready" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "choosing_music", - "text": "Choosing music" - }, - { - "id": "helping_with_one_detail", - "text": "Helping with one detail" - }, - { - "id": "trading_compliments", - "text": "Trading compliments" - }, - { - "id": "sharing_a_drink", - "text": "Sharing a drink" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_enough_time_to_avoid_rushing", - "text": "Keeping enough time to avoid rushing" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "choosing_music", - "text": "Choosing music" - }, - { - "id": "helping_with_one_detail", - "text": "Helping with one detail" - }, - { - "id": "trading_compliments", - "text": "Trading compliments" - }, - { - "id": "sharing_a_drink", - "text": "Sharing a drink" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_enough_time_to_avoid_rushing", - "text": "Keeping enough time to avoid rushing" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_087", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which quiet romantic moments would you enjoy?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "quiet_romance" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "holding_hands_under_the_table", - "text": "Holding hands under the table" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_close_during_a_show", - "text": "Sitting close during a show" - }, - { - "id": "a_pause_to_watch_the_view", - "text": "A pause to watch the view" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_joke_in_a_crowded_place", - "text": "A private joke in a crowded place" - }, - { - "id": "a_kiss_before_going_inside", - "text": "A kiss before going inside" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "holding_hands_under_the_table", - "text": "Holding hands under the table" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_close_during_a_show", - "text": "Sitting close during a show" - }, - { - "id": "a_pause_to_watch_the_view", - "text": "A pause to watch the view" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_joke_in_a_crowded_place", - "text": "A private joke in a crowded place" - }, - { - "id": "a_kiss_before_going_inside", - "text": "A kiss before going inside" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_088", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does dressing up feel worth the effort?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "dress_up" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_reservation_somewhere_beautiful", - "text": "A reservation somewhere beautiful" - }, - { - "id": "taking_photos_while_we_feel_good", - "text": "Taking photos while we feel good" - }, - { - "id": "a_special_occasion_to_celebrate", - "text": "A special occasion to celebrate" - }, - { - "id": "time_to_enjoy_getting_ready", - "text": "Time to enjoy getting ready" - }, - { - "id": "an_ending_that_does_not_feel_rushed", - "text": "An ending that does not feel rushed" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_reservation_somewhere_beautiful", - "text": "A reservation somewhere beautiful" - }, - { - "id": "taking_photos_while_we_feel_good", - "text": "Taking photos while we feel good" - }, - { - "id": "a_special_occasion_to_celebrate", - "text": "A special occasion to celebrate" - }, - { - "id": "time_to_enjoy_getting_ready", - "text": "Time to enjoy getting ready" - }, - { - "id": "an_ending_that_does_not_feel_rushed", - "text": "An ending that does not feel rushed" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_089", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which gestures say “I planned this with you in mind”?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "thoughtfulness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "choosing_a_place_you_mentioned", - "text": "Choosing a place you mentioned" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_your_favorite_order", - "text": "Remembering your favorite order" - }, - { - "id": "planning_around_your_energy", - "text": "Planning around your energy" - }, - { - "id": "bringing_something_you_might_need", - "text": "Bringing something you might need" 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"date_night_096", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How romantic should our next date feel?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "romance" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Warm and casual", - "maxLabel": "Make it swoony" - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_097", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much affection would feel right during the date?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "affection" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Keep it subtle", - "maxLabel": "Be openly affectionate" - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_098", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much should the date feel like a special occasion?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "special" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Beautifully ordinary", - "maxLabel": "Worth dressing up for" - }, - 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"category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which moments create the best anticipation?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "romance_flirting", + "connection", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "getting_ready_separately", + "text": "Getting ready separately" + }, + { + "id": "a_message_earlier_that_day", + "text": "A message earlier that day" + }, + { + "id": "not_revealing_the_whole_plan", + "text": "Not revealing the whole plan" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_we_have_nowhere_to_rush", + "text": "Knowing we have nowhere to rush" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "getting_ready_separately", + "text": "Getting ready separately" + }, + { + "id": "a_message_earlier_that_day", + "text": "A message earlier that day" + }, + { + "id": "not_revealing_the_whole_plan", + "text": "Not revealing the whole plan" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_we_have_nowhere_to_rush", + "text": "Knowing we have nowhere to rush" + } + ], + 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"date_night_138", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can daytime dates fit more easily into busy seasons?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "day_date", - "busy_life" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "putting_one_on_the_calendar_early", - "text": "Putting one on the calendar early" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_it_close_to_home", - "text": "Keeping it close to home" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_places_with_easy_parking", - "text": "Choosing places with easy parking" - }, - { - "id": "making_lunch_the_main_event", - "text": "Making lunch the main event" - }, - { - "id": "setting_a_firm_ending_time", - "text": "Setting a firm ending time" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "putting_one_on_the_calendar_early", - "text": "Putting one on the calendar early" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_it_close_to_home", - "text": "Keeping it close to home" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_places_with_easy_parking", - "text": "Choosing places with easy parking" - }, - { 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"text": "A new food" }, { - "id": "late_dessert_date", - "text": "Late dessert date" + "id": "a_new_town", + "text": "A new town" + }, + { + "id": "a_new_skill", + "text": "A new skill" + }, + { + "id": "a_new_kind_of_event", + "text": "A new kind of event" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_077", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes trying something new feel fun instead of exhausting?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "novelty_adventure", + "connection", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simple_plan", + "text": "A simple plan" + }, + { + "id": "low_stakes", + "text": "Low stakes" + }, + { + "id": "enough_time", + "text": "Enough time" + }, + { + "id": "permission_to_leave_early", + "text": "Permission to leave early" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simple_plan", + "text": "A simple plan" + }, + { + "id": "low_stakes", + "text": "Low stakes" + }, + { + "id": "enough_time", + "text": "Enough time" + }, + { + "id": "permission_to_leave_early", + "text": "Permission to leave early" } ], - "optionA": "Early breakfast date", - "optionB": "Late dessert date" - }, - "access": "premium" + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { - "id": "date_night_150", + "id": "date_night_078", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Comfort-food night or quiet scenic drive?", + "text": "Learn something together or explore somewhere new?", "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "quick_choice" + "novelty_adventure", + "light", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "comfort_food_night", - "text": "Comfort-food night" + "id": "learn_something_together", + "text": "Learn something together" }, { - "id": "quiet_scenic_drive", - "text": "Quiet scenic drive" + "id": "explore_somewhere_new", + "text": "Explore somewhere new" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "comfort_food_night", - "text": "Comfort-food night" + "id": 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"text": "Take the funniest photo" - }, - { - "id": "find_a_place_neither_knows", - "text": "Find a place neither knows" - }, - { - "id": "give_three_specific_compliments", - "text": "Give three specific compliments" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_155", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do when conversation stalls?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "conversation" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "people_watch_together", - "text": "People-watch together" - }, - { - "id": "use_a_question_game", - "text": "Use a question game" - }, - { - "id": "change_locations", - "text": "Change locations" - }, - { - "id": "share_music_instead", - "text": "Share music instead" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "people_watch_together", - "text": "People-watch together" - }, - { - "id": "use_a_question_game", - "text": "Use a question game" - }, - { - "id": "change_locations", - "text": "Change locations" - 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"date_night_163", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us laugh more naturally together?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "laughter" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "trying_something_neither_of_us_is_good_at", - "text": "Trying something neither of us is good at" - }, - { - "id": "telling_stories_we_have_not_repeated_lately", - "text": "Telling stories we have not repeated lately" - }, - { - "id": "being_willing_to_look_silly", - "text": "Being willing to look silly" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_the_plan_flexible", - "text": "Keeping the plan flexible" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_an_environment_where_we_can_relax", - "text": "Choosing an environment where we can relax" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trying_something_neither_of_us_is_good_at", - "text": "Trying something neither of us is good at" - }, - { - "id": "telling_stories_we_have_not_repeated_lately", - "text": "Telling stories we have not repeated lately" - }, - { - 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"date_night_179", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we save from an especially good date?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "memory_keeping" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_photo", - "text": "One photo" - }, - { - "id": "a_written_note", - "text": "A written note" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_object", - "text": "A small object" - }, - { - "id": "the_exact_plan_to_repeat", - "text": "The exact plan to repeat" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_photo", - "text": "One photo" - }, - { - "id": "a_written_note", - "text": "A written note" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_object", - "text": "A small object" - }, - { - "id": "the_exact_plan_to_repeat", - "text": "The exact plan to repeat" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_180", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which milestone deserves a date of its own?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "milestones" - ], - "options": [ 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"date_night_190", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which changes keep a recreated date feeling fresh?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "recreate" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "change_one_major_detail", - "text": "Change one major detail" - }, - { - "id": "switch_who_plans_it", - "text": "Switch who plans it" - }, - { - "id": "add_something_we_wished_we_had_done", - "text": "Add something we wished we had done" - }, - { - "id": "visit_at_a_different_time_of_day", - "text": "Visit at a different time of day" - }, - { - "id": "end_somewhere_completely_new", - "text": "End somewhere completely new" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "change_one_major_detail", - "text": "Change one major detail" - }, - { - "id": "switch_who_plans_it", - "text": "Switch who plans it" - }, - { - "id": "add_something_we_wished_we_had_done", - "text": "Add something we wished we had done" - }, - { - "id": "visit_at_a_different_time_of_day", - "text": 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"making_it_through_a_difficult_month", - "text": "Making it through a difficult month" - }, - { - "id": "a_habit_we_kept", - "text": "A habit we kept" - }, - { - "id": "a_risk_one_of_us_took", - "text": "A risk one of us took" - }, - { - "id": "a_peaceful_stretch_of_ordinary_life", - "text": "A peaceful stretch of ordinary life" - }, - { - "id": "finally_making_time_for_each_other", - "text": "Finally making time for each other" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_193", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which date memories reveal something important about us?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "memories" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "how_we_handle_surprises", - "text": "How we handle surprises" - }, - { - "id": "what_makes_us_laugh", - "text": "What makes us laugh" - }, - { - "id": "how_we_care_for_each_other_when_tired", - "text": "How we care for each other when tired" - }, - { - "id": "the_places_where_we_relax_fastest", - "text": "The places where we relax fastest" - }, - { - "id": "the_kinds_of_risks_we_enjoy_together", - "text": "The kinds of risks we enjoy together" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "how_we_handle_surprises", - "text": "How we handle surprises" - }, - { - "id": "what_makes_us_laugh", - "text": "What makes us laugh" - }, - { - "id": "how_we_care_for_each_other_when_tired", - "text": "How we care for each other when tired" - }, - { - "id": "the_places_where_we_relax_fastest", - "text": "The places where we relax fastest" - }, - { - "id": "the_kinds_of_risks_we_enjoy_together", - "text": "The kinds of risks we enjoy together" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_194", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What belongs in a relationship time-capsule date?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "time_capsule" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_current_photo", - "text": "A current photo" - }, - { - "id": "a_note_to_future_us", - "text": "A note to future-us" - }, - { - "id": "a_list_of_present_favorites", - "text": "A list of present favorites" - }, - { - "id": "one_prediction_each", - "text": "One prediction each" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan_for_when_to_open_it", - "text": "A plan for when to open it" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_current_photo", - "text": "A current photo" - }, - { - "id": "a_note_to_future_us", - "text": "A note to future-us" - }, - { - "id": "a_list_of_present_favorites", - "text": "A list of present favorites" - }, - { - "id": "one_prediction_each", - "text": "One prediction each" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan_for_when_to_open_it", - "text": "A plan for when to open it" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_195", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which details make a birthday date feel personal?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "birthday" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_person_s_favorite_meal", - "text": "The person’s favorite meal" - }, - { - "id": "an_activity_chosen_around_their_mood", - "text": "An activity chosen around their mood" - }, - { - "id": "a_message_from_the_heart", - "text": "A message from the heart" - }, - { - "id": "a_stop_connected_to_a_memory", - "text": "A stop connected to a memory" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure_to_perform_excitement", - "text": "No pressure to perform excitement" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_person_s_favorite_meal", - "text": "The person’s favorite meal" - }, - { - "id": "an_activity_chosen_around_their_mood", - "text": "An activity chosen around their mood" - }, - { - "id": "a_message_from_the_heart", - "text": "A message from the heart" - }, - { - "id": "a_stop_connected_to_a_memory", - "text": "A stop connected to a memory" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure_to_perform_excitement", - "text": "No pressure to perform excitement" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_196", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How nostalgic should our next date be?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "nostalgia" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Make a new memory", - "maxLabel": "Revisit our history" - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_197", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much tradition do you want around anniversaries?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "anniversary" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Keep each year different", - "maxLabel": "Build familiar rituals" - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_198", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much should we document special dates?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "memory_keeping" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Stay completely in the moment", - "maxLabel": "Save photos and small keepsakes" - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_199", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Recreate our first date or invent a new tradition?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "quick_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "recreate_our_first_date", - "text": "Recreate our first date" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_new_tradition", - "text": "Invent a new tradition" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "recreate_our_first_date", - "text": "Recreate our first date" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_new_tradition", - "text": "Invent a new tradition" - } - ], - "optionA": "Recreate our first date", - "optionB": "Invent a new tradition" - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_200", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Printed photo or handwritten memory note?", - "depth": 1, - "tags": [ - "quick_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "printed_photo", - "text": "Printed photo" - }, - { - "id": "handwritten_memory_note", - "text": "Handwritten memory note" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "printed_photo", - "text": "Printed photo" - }, - { - "id": "handwritten_memory_note", - "text": "Handwritten memory note" - } - ], - "optionA": "Printed photo", - "optionB": "Handwritten memory note" - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_201", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "written", - "text": "What date idea feels just outside our usual comfort zone?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "novelty", - "adventure" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 500, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_202", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which new experience would you plan first?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "new_experience" + "novelty_adventure", + "light", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { @@ -9441,16 +3741,16 @@ "text": "A cooking class" }, { - "id": "live_theater", - "text": "Live theater" + "id": "a_dance_lesson", + "text": "A dance lesson" }, { - "id": "a_guided_outdoor_adventure", - "text": "A guided outdoor adventure" + "id": "a_guided_hike", + "text": "A guided hike" }, { - "id": "a_creative_workshop", - "text": "A creative workshop" + "id": "a_pottery_workshop", + "text": "A pottery workshop" } ], "answer_config": { @@ -9460,2318 +3760,3344 @@ "text": "A cooking class" }, { - "id": "live_theater", - "text": "Live theater" + "id": "a_dance_lesson", + "text": "A dance lesson" }, { - "id": "a_guided_outdoor_adventure", - "text": "A guided outdoor adventure" + "id": "a_guided_hike", + "text": "A guided hike" }, { - "id": "a_creative_workshop", - "text": "A creative workshop" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_203", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of day trip would excite you most?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "day_trip" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "historic_town", - "text": "Historic town" - }, - { - "id": "nature_destination", - "text": "Nature destination" - }, - { - "id": "food_focused_route", - "text": "Food-focused route" - }, - { - "id": "arts_and_music_stop", - "text": "Arts and music stop" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "historic_town", - "text": "Historic town" - }, - { - "id": "nature_destination", - "text": "Nature destination" - }, - { - "id": "food_focused_route", - "text": "Food-focused route" - }, - { - "id": "arts_and_music_stop", - "text": "Arts and music stop" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_204", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which travel-style date belongs on our future list?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "travel" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "train_ride_to_a_new_city", - "text": "Train ride to a new city" - }, - { - "id": "weekend_cabin", - "text": "Weekend cabin" - }, - { - "id": "coastal_getaway", - "text": "Coastal getaway" - }, - { - "id": "festival_weekend", - "text": "Festival weekend" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "train_ride_to_a_new_city", - "text": "Train ride to a new city" - }, - { - "id": "weekend_cabin", - "text": "Weekend cabin" - }, - { - "id": "coastal_getaway", - "text": "Coastal getaway" - }, - { - "id": "festival_weekend", - "text": "Festival weekend" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_205", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What level of surprise adventure sounds right?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "adventure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_unknown_stop", - "text": "One unknown stop" - }, - { - "id": "a_secret_destination_nearby", - "text": "A secret destination nearby" - }, - { - "id": "a_fully_planned_day", - "text": "A fully planned day" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_to_choose_together", - "text": "I want to choose together" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_unknown_stop", - "text": "One unknown stop" - }, - { - "id": "a_secret_destination_nearby", - "text": "A secret destination nearby" - }, - { - "id": "a_fully_planned_day", - "text": "A fully planned day" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_to_choose_together", - "text": "I want to choose together" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_206", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which seasonal dream date should happen first?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "seasonal" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "spring_flower_festival", - "text": "Spring flower festival" - }, - { - "id": "summer_concert_outside", - "text": "Summer concert outside" - }, - { - "id": "autumn_cabin_weekend", - "text": "Autumn cabin weekend" - }, - { - "id": "winter_city_lights", - "text": "Winter city lights" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "spring_flower_festival", - "text": "Spring flower festival" - }, - { - "id": "summer_concert_outside", - "text": "Summer concert outside" - }, - { - "id": "autumn_cabin_weekend", - "text": "Autumn cabin weekend" - }, - { - "id": "winter_city_lights", - "text": "Winter city lights" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_207", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes trying a new activity together appealing?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "novelty" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "neither_person_has_to_be_good_at_it", - "text": "Neither person has to be good at it" - }, - { - "id": "there_is_room_to_laugh", - "text": "There is room to laugh" - }, - { - "id": "the_commitment_is_short", - "text": "The commitment is short" - }, - { - "id": "we_learn_something_about_each_other", - "text": "We learn something about each other" - }, - { - "id": "there_is_a_relaxing_ending_afterward", - "text": "There is a relaxing ending afterward" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "neither_person_has_to_be_good_at_it", - "text": "Neither person has to be good at it" - }, - { - "id": "there_is_room_to_laugh", - "text": "There is room to laugh" - }, - { - "id": "the_commitment_is_short", - "text": "The commitment is short" - }, - { - "id": "we_learn_something_about_each_other", - "text": "We learn something about each other" - }, - { - "id": "there_is_a_relaxing_ending_afterward", - "text": "There is a relaxing ending afterward" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_208", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which bigger dates deserve a future list?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "future_dates" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_weekend_in_a_new_city", - "text": "A weekend in a new city" - }, - { - "id": "a_concert_for_an_artist_we_both_love", - "text": "A concert for an artist we both love" - }, - { - "id": "a_scenic_train_trip", - "text": "A scenic train trip" - }, - { - "id": 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"text": "Pairing it with a relaxed meal" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_220", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which future dates would feel especially romantic?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "future_dates", - "romance" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_private_cabin_weekend", - "text": "A private cabin weekend" - }, - { - "id": "dinner_overlooking_a_city", - "text": "Dinner overlooking a city" - }, - { - "id": "a_beach_sunrise_breakfast", - "text": "A beach sunrise breakfast" - }, - { - "id": "a_garden_at_night", - "text": "A garden at night" - }, - { - "id": "a_return_to_a_meaningful_place", - "text": "A return to a meaningful place" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_private_cabin_weekend", - "text": "A private cabin weekend" - }, - { - "id": "dinner_overlooking_a_city", - "text": "Dinner overlooking a city" - }, - { - "id": "a_beach_sunrise_breakfast", - "text": "A beach sunrise breakfast" - }, - { - "id": "a_garden_at_night", - "text": "A garden at night" - }, - { - "id": "a_return_to_a_meaningful_place", - "text": "A return to a meaningful place" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_221", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How adventurous should our next new date be?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "adventure" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "A small change", - "maxLabel": "A genuine leap" - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_222", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How far ahead should we plan a dream date?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "future_planning" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Keep it near-term", - "maxLabel": "Build toward it for months" - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_223", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much travel 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"category_id": "date_night", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Secret destination or shared planning board?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kind of adventure fits a single afternoon?", "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "quick_choice" + "novelty_adventure", + "light", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "secret_destination", - "text": "Secret destination" + "id": "a_nearby_town", + "text": "A nearby town" }, { - "id": "shared_planning_board", - "text": "Shared planning board" + "id": "a_scenic_trail", + "text": "A scenic trail" + }, + { + "id": "a_museum_we_have_ignored", + "text": "A museum we have ignored" + }, + { + "id": "a_route_chosen_without_the_highway", + "text": "A route chosen without the highway" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "secret_destination", - "text": "Secret destination" + "id": "a_nearby_town", + "text": "A nearby town" }, { - "id": "shared_planning_board", - "text": "Shared planning board" + "id": "a_scenic_trail", + "text": "A scenic trail" + }, + { + "id": "a_museum_we_have_ignored", + "text": "A museum we have ignored" + }, + { + "id": "a_route_chosen_without_the_highway", + "text": "A route chosen without the highway" } ], - "optionA": "Secret destination", - "optionB": "Shared planning board" - }, - "access": "premium" + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { - "id": "date_night_226", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "written", - "text": "What date-night ritual would help us keep choosing each other?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "rituals", - "commitment" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min_length": 1, - "max_length": 500, - "placeholder": "Write your answer..." - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_227", + "id": "date_night_081", "category_id": "date_night", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which recurring date rhythm sounds sustainable?", + "text": "Who should choose our next unfamiliar plan?", "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rituals" + "novelty_adventure", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "weekly_mini_date", - "text": "Weekly mini-date" + "id": "you", + "text": "You" }, { - "id": "monthly_planned_night", - "text": "Monthly planned night" + "id": "me", + "text": "Me" }, { - "id": "seasonal_day_trip", - "text": "Seasonal day trip" + "id": "we_each_choose_half", + "text": "We each choose half" }, { - "id": "spontaneous_dates_when_energy_appears", - "text": "Spontaneous dates when energy appears" + "id": "let_chance_pick_from_approved_options", + "text": "Let chance pick from approved options" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "weekly_mini_date", - "text": "Weekly mini-date" + "id": "you", + "text": "You" }, { - "id": "monthly_planned_night", - "text": "Monthly planned night" + "id": "me", + "text": "Me" }, { - "id": "seasonal_day_trip", - "text": "Seasonal day trip" + "id": "we_each_choose_half", + "text": "We each choose half" }, { - "id": "spontaneous_dates_when_energy_appears", - "text": "Spontaneous dates when energy appears" + "id": "let_chance_pick_from_approved_options", + "text": "Let chance pick from approved options" } ] - }, - "access": "premium" + } }, { - "id": "date_night_228", + "id": "date_night_082", "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should happen at the end of a really good date?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which surprises are enjoyable because they stay low-risk?", "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "ending" + "novelty_adventure", + "connection", + "date_night" ], "options": [ { - "id": "name_the_favorite_moment", - "text": "Name the favorite moment" + "id": "a_restaurant_we_have_not_tried", + "text": "A restaurant we have not tried" }, { - "id": "take_one_final_photo", - "text": "Take one final photo" + "id": "an_unplanned_second_stop", + "text": "An unplanned second stop" }, { - "id": "choose_the_next_idea", - "text": "Choose the next idea" + "id": "a_mystery_playlist", + "text": "A mystery playlist" }, { - "id": "stay_up_talking", - "text": "Stay up talking" + "id": "a_small_activity_booked_ahead", + "text": "A small activity booked ahead" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "name_the_favorite_moment", - "text": "Name the favorite moment" + "id": "a_restaurant_we_have_not_tried", + "text": "A restaurant we have not tried" }, { - "id": "take_one_final_photo", - "text": "Take one final photo" + "id": "an_unplanned_second_stop", + "text": "An unplanned second stop" }, { - "id": "choose_the_next_idea", - "text": "Choose the next idea" + "id": "a_mystery_playlist", + "text": "A mystery playlist" }, { - "id": "stay_up_talking", - "text": "Stay up talking" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_229", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which celebration style feels most meaningful?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "celebration" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_and_quiet", - "text": "Private and 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"name_one_thing_you_enjoyed", - "text": "Name one thing you enjoyed" - }, - { - "id": "offer_to_plan_the_next_one", - "text": "Offer to plan the next one" - }, - { - "id": "be_present_instead_of_perfect", - "text": "Be present instead of perfect" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_240", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should a celebration date avoid?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "celebration" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pressure_to_look_happy_every_moment", - "text": "Pressure to look happy every moment" - }, - { - "id": "a_schedule_with_no_breathing_room", - "text": "A schedule with no breathing room" - }, - { - "id": "spending_beyond_comfort", - "text": "Spending beyond comfort" - }, - { - "id": "comparing_it_with_other_couples", - "text": "Comparing it with other couples" - }, - { - "id": "turning_the_night_into_a_performance", - "text": "Turning the night into a performance" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pressure_to_look_happy_every_moment", - "text": "Pressure to look happy every moment" - }, - { - "id": "a_schedule_with_no_breathing_room", - "text": "A schedule with no breathing room" - }, - { - "id": "spending_beyond_comfort", - "text": "Spending beyond comfort" - }, - { - "id": "comparing_it_with_other_couples", - "text": "Comparing it with other couples" - }, - { - "id": "turning_the_night_into_a_performance", - "text": "Turning the night into a performance" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_241", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which rituals could mark the beginning of date night?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "rituals" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "play_one_shared_song", - "text": "Play one shared song" - }, - { - "id": "exchange_a_sincere_compliment", - "text": "Exchange a sincere compliment" - }, - { - "id": "put_phones_away_together", - "text": "Put phones away together" - }, - { - 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"Something that surprised us" - }, - { - "id": "a_place_we_would_revisit", - "text": "A place we would revisit" - }, - { - "id": "one_thing_to_change_next_time", - "text": "One thing to change next time" - }, - { - "id": "the_next_idea_we_are_excited_about", - "text": "The next idea we are excited about" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_245", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which forms of closeness can make a date complete?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "closeness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "affectionate_touch", - "text": "Affectionate touch" - }, - { - "id": "unhurried_conversation", - "text": "Unhurried conversation" - }, - { - "id": "shared_laughter", - "text": "Shared laughter" - }, - { - "id": "comfortable_quiet", - "text": "Comfortable quiet" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan_we_made_together", - "text": "A plan we made together" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "affectionate_touch", - "text": "Affectionate touch" - }, - { - "id": "unhurried_conversation", - "text": "Unhurried conversation" - }, - { - "id": "shared_laughter", - "text": "Shared laughter" - }, - { - "id": "comfortable_quiet", - "text": "Comfortable quiet" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan_we_made_together", - "text": "A plan we made together" - } - ] - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_246", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How often should date night feel like a protected ritual?", - "depth": 3, - "tags": [ - "rituals" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Only when life allows", - "maxLabel": "A regular priority" - }, - "access": "premium" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_247", - "category_id": "date_night", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much reflection belongs after a date?", - "depth": 2, - "tags": [ - "reflection" - ], - "answer_config": { - "minScale": 1, - "maxScale": 5, - "minLabel": "Just enjoy the feeling", - "maxLabel": 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"How balanced does date planning feel between us?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "shared_planning", + "gentle_depth", + "date_night" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very one-sided", + "max_label": "Very balanced" + } + }, + { + "id": "date_night_144", + "category_id": "date_night", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps one person from becoming the permanent date manager?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "shared_planning", + "gentle_depth", + "date_night" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "taking_clear_turns", + "text": "Taking clear turns" + }, + { + "id": "appreciating_the_effort", + "text": "Appreciating the effort" + }, + { + "id": "sharing_useful_preferences", + "text": "Sharing useful preferences" + }, + { + "id": "planning_without_waiting_to_be_asked", + "text": "Planning without waiting to be asked" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "taking_clear_turns", + "text": "Taking 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"the_plan_can_match_our_actual_energy", + "text": "The plan can match our actual energy" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "either_person_can_reschedule", + "text": "Either person can reschedule" + }, + { + "id": "simple_dates_still_count", + "text": "Simple dates still count" + }, + { + "id": "no_scorekeeping", + "text": "No scorekeeping" + }, + { + "id": "the_plan_can_match_our_actual_energy", + "text": "The plan can match our actual energy" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/difficult_conversations.json b/seed/questions/difficult_conversations.json index 4ea0d983..5109cc35 100644 --- a/seed/questions/difficult_conversations.json +++ b/seed/questions/difficult_conversations.json @@ -2,187 +2,463 @@ "category": { "id": "difficult_conversations", "display_name": "Difficult Conversations", - "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples bring up hard topics with softness, timing, teamwork, reassurance, tiny rituals, try-again phrases, cozy resets, and playful tools where they fit.", + "description": "Questions that help couples choose the right time, speak plainly, listen carefully, and handle hard subjects without pressure.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "forum", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, + "content_version": "difficult_conversations_v3_final_reviewed", + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - } + "single_choice": 30, + "multi_choice": 90, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 39, + "2": 83, + "3": 28 + }, + "pack_boundary": "How to start, frame, receive, and continue a hard conversation before it becomes active conflict or later repair.", + "final_review": "Current guide, read-aloud, option-parallelism, cross-pack, consent, privacy, safety, repetition, and importer review completed." } }, "questions": [ { "id": "difficult_conversations_001", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a hard conversation feel more like a team huddle?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When is a serious conversation easiest for you to begin?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "soft_start", - "safety", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "timing", + "readiness", + "difficult_conversations" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_001_1_after_we_have_eaten_and_settled_in", + "text": "After we have eaten and settled in" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_001_2_during_a_quiet_walk_together", + "text": "During a quiet walk together" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_001_3_earlier_in_the_day_with_time_ahead", + "text": "Earlier in the 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talk?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timing", + "readiness", + "energy", "difficult_conversations" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_002_1_i_can_focus_without_rushing", + "text": "I can focus without rushing" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_002_2_my_body_feels_reasonably_calm", + "text": "My body feels reasonably calm" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_002_3_i_am_not_distracted_by_another_deadline", + "text": "I am not distracted by another deadline" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_002_4_i_can_hear_an_answer_i_may_not_expect", + "text": "I can hear an answer I may not expect" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_002_1_i_can_focus_without_rushing", + "text": "I can focus without rushing" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_002_2_my_body_feels_reasonably_calm", + "text": "My body feels reasonably calm" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_002_3_i_am_not_distracted_by_another_deadline", + "text": "I am not distracted by another deadline" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_002_4_i_can_hear_an_answer_i_may_not_expect", + "text": "I can hear an answer I may not expect" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_003", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of setting makes a hard talk feel less dramatic?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes the timing of a difficult subject feel considerate?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "setting", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "timing", + "consideration", + "difficult_conversations" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_003_1_checking_whether_i_have_a_few_minutes", + "text": "Checking whether I have a few minutes" + }, + { + "id": 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"difficult_conversations_006_1_one_of_us_is_already_running_late", + "text": "One of us is already running late" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_006_2_the_television_is_competing_for_attention", + "text": "The television is competing for attention" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_006_3_someone_else_can_overhear_us", + "text": "Someone else can overhear us" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_006_4_we_are_both_too_tired_to_think_clearly", + "text": "We are both too tired to think clearly" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_006_1_one_of_us_is_already_running_late", + "text": "One of us is already running late" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_006_2_the_television_is_competing_for_attention", + "text": "The television is competing for attention" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_006_3_someone_else_can_overhear_us", + "text": "Someone else can overhear us" + }, + { + "id": 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"text": "What is one thing you wish I remembered before bringing up a hard subject?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "lightness", - "fun_first", + "personal_preference", + "preparation", "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { @@ -192,495 +468,1350 @@ { "id": "difficult_conversations_011", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "written", - "text": "What could help us keep one hard talk from taking over the whole night?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes postponing a conversation feel responsible rather than evasive?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "focus", - "boundaries", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "postponing", + "follow_through", + "difficult_conversations" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_011_1_naming_a_specific_time_to_return", + "text": "Naming a specific time to return" + }, + { + "id": 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- "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "brevity", + "explanations", + "difficult_conversations" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_038_1_leading_with_the_conclusion", + "text": "Leading with the conclusion" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_038_2_pausing_after_one_idea", + "text": "Pausing after one idea" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_038_3_leaving_unrelated_history_for_another_time", + "text": "Leaving unrelated history for another time" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_038_4_checking_whether_more_detail_would_help", + "text": "Checking whether more detail would help" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_038_1_leading_with_the_conclusion", + "text": "Leading with the conclusion" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_038_2_pausing_after_one_idea", + "text": "Pausing after one idea" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_038_3_leaving_unrelated_history_for_another_time", + "text": "Leaving unrelated history for another time" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_038_4_checking_whether_more_detail_would_help", + "text": "Checking whether more detail would help" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_039", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "written", - "text": "What code word could tell us, 'This is getting pointy'?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one hard conversation we handled better than you expected, and what helped?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tone", - "awareness", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "positive_memory", + "learning", + "difficult_conversations" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 @@ -689,528 +1820,1347 @@ { "id": "difficult_conversations_040", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "written", - "text": "What playful signal could mean, 'Let's slow this down'?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps when two people are using the same word differently?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "signals", - "fun_first", + "definitions", + "misunderstanding", "difficult_conversations" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_040_1_each_person_explains_what_the_word_means_to_them", + "text": "Each person explains what the word means to them" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_040_2_a_real_example_replaces_the_vague_term", + "text": "A real example replaces the vague term" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_040_3_both_meanings_are_allowed_to_be_different", + "text": "Both meanings are allowed to be different" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_040_4_the_sentence_is_restated_without_that_word", + "text": "The sentence is restated without that word" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_040_1_each_person_explains_what_the_word_means_to_them", + "text": "Each person explains what the word means to them" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_040_2_a_real_example_replaces_the_vague_term", + "text": "A real example replaces the vague term" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_040_3_both_meanings_are_allowed_to_be_different", + "text": "Both meanings are allowed to be different" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_040_4_the_sentence_is_restated_without_that_word", + "text": "The sentence is restated without that word" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "difficult_conversations_041", "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "written", - "text": "What try-again phrase could replace, 'You always'?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "If the point is getting lost, what should happen first?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "phrases", - "no_blame", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "focus", + "reset", + "difficult_conversations" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_041_1_restate_the_main_question", + "text": "Restate the main question" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_041_2_take_a_two_minute_pause", + "text": "Take a two-minute pause" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_041_3_write_down_the_side_issue", + "text": "Write down the side issue" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_041_4_ask_the_other_person_to_summarize", + "text": "Ask the other person to summarize" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_041_1_restate_the_main_question", + "text": "Restate the main question" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_041_2_take_a_two_minute_pause", + "text": "Take a two-minute pause" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_041_3_write_down_the_side_issue", + "text": "Write down the side issue" + }, 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"premium", - "tags": [ - "criticism", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "rephrase", - "text": "Rephrase" - }, - { - "id": "reassure", - "text": "Reassure" - }, - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_need", - "text": "Name the need" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_171", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps if one of us puts on emotional armor?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "defensiveness", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "own_one_part", - "text": "Own one part" - }, - { - "id": "ask_a_question", - "text": "Ask a question" - }, - { - "id": "remember_the_goal", - "text": "Remember the goal" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_172", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps if one of us goes quiet and needs a safe way back?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "shutdown", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_check_in", - "text": "Gentle check-in" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "return_time", - "text": "Return time" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_173", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps if the conversation gets a little too spicy?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "intensity", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "softer_voice", - "text": "Softer voice" - }, - { - "id": "shorter_sentences", - "text": "Shorter sentences" - }, - { - "id": "try_again", - "text": "Try again" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_174", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us talk about money gently?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "money", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "facts_first", - "text": "Facts first" - }, - { - "id": "no_shame", - "text": "No shame" - }, - { - "id": "shared_goal", - "text": "Shared goal" - }, - { - "id": "short_talk", - "text": "Short talk" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_175", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us talk about family pressure gently?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "family", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - 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"trust", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "specific_words", - "text": "Specific words" - }, - { - "id": "care_after", - "text": "Care after" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_178", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us talk about boundaries gently?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_need", - "text": "Clear need" - }, - { - "id": "love_first", - "text": "Love first" - }, - { - "id": "no_threats", - "text": "No threats" - }, - { - "id": "revisit_later", - "text": "Revisit later" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_179", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us talk about expectations gently?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "expectations", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_the_hope", - "text": "Name the hope" - }, - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "keep_it_real", - "text": "Keep it real" - }, - { - "id": "no_mind_reading", - "text": "No mind-reading" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_180", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us talk about future plans gently?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dream_first", - "text": "Dream first" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - }, - { - "id": "small_step", - "text": "Small step" - }, - { - "id": "shared_why", - "text": "Shared why" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_181", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a hard conversation feel more like a team huddle?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "fun_first", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "same_side_language", - "text": "Same side language" - }, - { - "id": "snacks", - "text": "Snacks" - }, - { - "id": "one_goal", - "text": "One goal" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_plan", - "text": "A tiny plan" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_182", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a hard conversation feel too much like a meeting?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "therapy_risk", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "too_many_rules", - "text": "Too many rules" - }, - { - "id": "long_speeches", - "text": "Long speeches" - }, - 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- "id": "repeat_back", - "text": "Repeat back" - }, - { - "id": "ask_questions", - "text": "Ask questions" - }, - { - "id": "no_interrupting", - "text": "No interrupting" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_185", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us say the brave thing?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "courage", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "kind_start", - "text": "Kind start" - }, - { - "id": "slow_pace", - "text": "Slow pace" - }, - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_186", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us hear the brave thing?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "listening", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "stay_soft", - "text": "Stay soft" - }, - { - "id": "thank_them", - "text": "Thank them" - }, - { - "id": "ask_gently", - "text": "Ask gently" - }, - { - "id": "pause_before_reacting", - "text": "Pause before reacting" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_187", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of follow-up helps after a hard talk?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "follow_up", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet_text", - "text": "Sweet text" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_action", - "text": "Tiny action" - }, - { - "id": "another_check_in", - "text": "Another check-in" - }, - { - "id": "thank_you", - "text": "Thank you" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_188", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us put the hard talk down before bedtime?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "ending", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_stopping_point", - "text": "Clear stopping point" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "cozy_reset", - "text": "Cozy reset" - }, - { - "id": "plan_tomorrow", - "text": "Plan tomorrow" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_189", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us celebrate progress after a hard talk?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "say_thank_you", - "text": "Say thank you" - }, - { - "id": "notice_growth", - "text": "Notice growth" - }, - { - "id": "small_treat", - "text": "Small treat" - }, - { - "id": "relax_together", - "text": "Relax together" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_190", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make hard talks easier next month?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "monthly", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "better_timing", - "text": "Better timing" - }, - { - "id": "softer_starts", - "text": "Softer starts" - }, - { - "id": "more_pauses", - "text": "More pauses" - }, - { - "id": "more_warmth", - "text": "More warmth" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_191", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps hard conversations feel safer?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "text": "What would make our next difficult conversation feel more manageable?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "safety", + "next_time", + "confidence", "difficult_conversations" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_150_1_a_clearer_time_limit", + "text": "A clearer time limit" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_150_2_one_topic_instead_of_several", + "text": "One topic instead of several" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_150_3_a_gentler_first_sentence", + "text": "A gentler first sentence" + }, + { + "id": "difficult_conversations_150_4_permission_to_pause_and_return", + "text": "Permission to pause and return" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" + "id": "difficult_conversations_150_1_a_clearer_time_limit", + "text": "A clearer time limit" }, { - "id": "soft_tone", - "text": "Soft tone" + "id": "difficult_conversations_150_2_one_topic_instead_of_several", + "text": "One topic instead of several" }, { - "id": "no_blame", - "text": "No blame" + "id": "difficult_conversations_150_3_a_gentler_first_sentence", + "text": "A gentler first sentence" }, { - "id": "breaks_allowed", - "text": "Breaks allowed" - }, - { - "id": "care_after", - "text": "Care after" + "id": "difficult_conversations_150_4_permission_to_pause_and_return", + "text": "Permission to pause and return" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_192", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us keep warmth during a serious talk?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "warmth", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_humor", - "text": "Gentle humor" - }, - { - "id": "small_touch", - "text": "Small touch" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_193", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes a hard talk easier to start?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", 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"max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_198", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when quiet mode takes over?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "shutdown", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_check_in", - "text": "Gentle check-in" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "return_time", - "text": "Return time" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_199", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when emotions get louder than the words?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "emotions", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_feeling", - "text": "Name the feeling" - }, - { - "id": "lower_tone", - "text": "Lower tone" - }, - { - "id": "use_short_sentences", - "text": "Use short sentences" - }, - { - "id": "comfort_first", - "text": "Comfort first" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_200", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us keep the hard-talk tabs from multiplying?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "focus", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "write_extras_down", - "text": "Write extras down" - }, - { - "id": "pick_one", - "text": "Pick one" - }, - { - "id": "take_turns", - "text": "Take turns" - }, - { - "id": "set_a_timer", - "text": "Set a timer" - }, - 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"access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_234", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do guesses sneak into hard talks?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "assumptions", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_235", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How possible does it feel to make serious talks feel more like us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "identity", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not possible", - "max_label": "Very possible" - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_236", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Soft start or tiny ritual?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "beginning", - "fun_first", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_start", - "text": "Soft start" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_ritual", - "text": "Tiny ritual" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_237", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Talk now or schedule it?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "timing", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_now", - "text": "Talk now" - }, - { - "id": "schedule_it", - "text": "Schedule it" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_238", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Pause gently or try again softer?", - "depth": 3, - "access": 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"Say it out loud or write it first?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "say_it", - "text": "Say it out loud" - }, - { - "id": "write_first", - "text": "Write it first" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_244", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "One topic or one timer?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "focus", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_topic", - "text": "One topic" - }, - { - "id": "one_timer", - "text": "One timer" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_245", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Gentle question or clear request?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "needs", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": 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"difficult_conversations_248", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "End with reassurance or end with a plan?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "ending", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "plan", - "text": "A plan" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_249", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Name the feeling or find the fix?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feelings", - "difficult_conversations", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "feeling", - "text": "The feeling" - }, - { - "id": "fix", - "text": "The fix" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "difficult_conversations_250", - "category_id": "difficult_conversations", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Cozy reset or quick follow-up?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "difficult_conversations" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cozy_reset", - "text": "Cozy reset" - }, - { - "id": "quick_follow_up", - "text": "Quick follow-up" - } - ] - } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/future.json b/seed/questions/future.json index fc29e107..18d734d0 100644 --- a/seed/questions/future.json +++ b/seed/questions/future.json @@ -2,248 +2,752 @@ "category": { "id": "future", "display_name": "Future", - "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples dream, laugh, build traditions, imagine future-us, choose tiny steps, and make planning feel hopeful, cozy, and fun where it fits.", + "description": "Warm, flexible questions about future-us, ordinary life, dreams, home, work, traditions, growth, aging, uncertainty, and building a direction that leaves room for both people.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "auto_awesome", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - } + "multi_choice": 90, + "single_choice": 30, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 60, + "2": 70, + "3": 20 + }, + "legacy_question_count": 250, + "catalog_change": -100, + "content_version": "future_150_final_v6", + "mass_rewrite_reason": "The legacy pack contained 250 questions, including 150 written prompts, legacy depths up to 5, and repeated 'What is one' template blocks. More than 60 percent of the pack failed the current interaction and voice standards.", + "pack_boundary": "Future owns future-us dreams, ordinary future life, home and place, work-life shape, traditions, growth, aging, uncertainty, milestone pressure, and shared direction. Detailed budgets belong in money; specific trips and dates belong in date_night; core principles belong in values.", + "safety_boundary": "Questions must not assume marriage, children, home ownership, retirement, caregiving, or any preset life schedule. No milestone should be framed as owed, and either partner must remain free to change a goal or relationship decision.", + "review_workflow": "Six 25-question production batches with full-pack schema, voice, repetition, option-fit, milestone-pressure, access, and depth-balance validation.", + "final_validation": "pass", + "depth_percentages": { + "light": 40.0, + "medium": 46.7, + "deep": 13.3 + }, + "batch_review": [ + { + "batch": 1, + "first_id": "future_001", + "last_id": "future_025", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 2, + "first_id": "future_026", + "last_id": "future_050", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 3, + "first_id": "future_051", + "last_id": "future_075", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 4, + "first_id": "future_076", + "last_id": "future_100", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 5, + "first_id": "future_101", + "last_id": "future_125", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 6, + "first_id": "future_126", + "last_id": "future_150", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + } + ], + "fifty_question_checkpoints": [ + { + "checkpoint": 1, + "first_id": "future_001", + "last_id": "future_050", + "count": 50, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "checkpoint": 2, + "first_id": "future_051", + "last_id": "future_100", + "count": 50, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "checkpoint": 3, + "first_id": "future_101", + "last_id": "future_150", + "count": 50, + "status": "PASS" + } + ], + "final_review": "Final editorial and production pass completed. Reworded the remaining milestone-pressure prompt to focus on outside expectations without repeating a preset relationship timeline. Revalidated schema, counts, depth balance, option fit, option mirroring, uniqueness, prompt length, repetition, milestone safety, six 25-question batches, and three 50-question checkpoints.", + "final_editorial_patches": 1 } }, "questions": [ { "id": "future_001", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one tiny future plan that makes you smile?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which plan for the next few weeks sounds best?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tiny_goals", - "fun_first", + "near_term", + "easy", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_quiet_day_together", + "text": "A quiet day together" + }, + { + "id": "one_useful_home_project", + "text": "One useful home project" + }, + { + "id": "a_short_trip", + "text": "A short trip" + }, + { + "id": "a_new_routine", + "text": "A new routine" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_quiet_day_together", + "text": "A quiet day together" + }, + { + "id": "one_useful_home_project", + "text": "One useful home project" + }, + { + "id": "a_short_trip", + "text": "A short trip" + }, + { + "id": "a_new_routine", + "text": "A new routine" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_002", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one dream we should keep talking about?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make next month feel a little better?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "dreams", - "hope", + "near_term", + "small_steps", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_sleep", + "text": "More sleep" + }, + { + "id": "one_thing_to_look_forward_to", + "text": "One thing to look forward to" + }, + { + "id": "less_rushing", + "text": "Less rushing" + }, + { + "id": "a_plan_we_both_understand", + "text": "A plan we both understand" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_sleep", + "text": "More sleep" + }, + { + "id": "one_thing_to_look_forward_to", + "text": "One thing to look forward to" + }, + { + "id": "less_rushing", + "text": "Less rushing" + }, + { + "id": "a_plan_we_both_understand", + "text": "A plan we both understand" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_003", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does a happy ordinary day look like for future us?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Make one solid plan or keep several loose ideas?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "future_us", + "planning", + "quick_choice", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "make_one_solid_plan", + "text": "Make one solid plan" + }, + { + "id": "keep_several_loose_ideas", + "text": "Keep several loose ideas" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "make_one_solid_plan", + "text": "Make one solid plan" + }, + { + "id": "keep_several_loose_ideas", + "text": "Keep several loose ideas" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_004", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing future us would thank us for starting now?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which tiny future plans are surprisingly motivating?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "future_us", "small_steps", + "fun_first", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_meal_we_want_to_make", + "text": "A meal we want to make" + }, + { + "id": "a_free_afternoon", + "text": "A free afternoon" + }, + { + "id": "a_room_we_want_to_improve", + "text": "A room we want to improve" + }, + { + "id": "a_place_nearby_to_visit", + "text": "A place nearby to visit" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_meal_we_want_to_make", + "text": "A meal we want to make" + }, + { + "id": "a_free_afternoon", + "text": "A free afternoon" + }, + { + "id": "a_room_we_want_to_improve", + "text": "A room we want to improve" + }, + { + "id": "a_place_nearby_to_visit", + "text": "A place nearby to visit" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_005", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one silly thing you hope we still do years from now?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should we put on the calendar before life steals the opening?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "play", - "fun_first", + "calendar", + "priorities", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "time_together", + "text": "Time together" + }, + { + "id": "a_needed_appointment", + "text": "A needed appointment" + }, + { + "id": "a_restful_weekend", + "text": "A restful weekend" + }, + { + "id": "something_purely_fun", + "text": "Something purely fun" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "time_together", + "text": "Time together" + }, + { + "id": "a_needed_appointment", + "text": "A needed appointment" + }, + { + "id": "a_restful_weekend", + "text": "A restful weekend" + }, + { + "id": "something_purely_fun", + "text": "Something purely fun" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_006", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one tradition you would love for us to have?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which plan is most likely to survive a chaotic week?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "traditions", - "connection", + "humor", + "realistic_plans", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "takeout_somewhere_other_than_the_couch", + "text": "Takeout somewhere other than the couch" + }, + { + "id": "a_twenty_minute_walk", + "text": "A twenty-minute walk" + }, + { + "id": "one_protected_morning", + "text": "One protected morning" + }, + { + "id": "anything_with_no_reservation", + "text": "Anything with no reservation" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "takeout_somewhere_other_than_the_couch", + "text": "Takeout somewhere other than the couch" + }, + { + "id": "a_twenty_minute_walk", + "text": "A twenty-minute walk" + }, + { + "id": "one_protected_morning", + "text": "One protected morning" + }, + { + "id": "anything_with_no_reservation", + "text": "Anything with no reservation" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_007", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of home feeling do you want us to build?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a short-term goal feel realistic?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "home", - "values", + "goals", + "planning", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_clear_first_step", + "text": "A clear first step" + }, + { + "id": "a_flexible_deadline", + "text": "A flexible deadline" + }, + { + "id": "enough_time", + "text": "Enough time" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_who_is_handling_what", + "text": "Knowing who is handling what" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_clear_first_step", + "text": "A clear first step" + }, + { + "id": "a_flexible_deadline", + "text": "A flexible deadline" + }, + { + "id": "enough_time", + "text": "Enough time" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_who_is_handling_what", + "text": "Knowing who is handling what" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_008", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of adventure should future us take?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How hopeful do the next few months feel to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "adventure", - "fun_first", + "hope", + "current_state", "future" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very hopeful", + "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, { "id": "future_009", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one place you would love to go together someday?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which changes could make our weeks run more smoothly?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "travel", - "dreams", + "routines", + "daily_life", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_shared_calendar", + "text": "A shared calendar" + }, + { + "id": "one_predictable_meal", + "text": "One predictable meal" + }, + { + "id": "earlier_decisions", + "text": "Earlier decisions" + }, + { + "id": "a_better_way_to_divide_errands", + "text": "A better way to divide errands" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_shared_calendar", + "text": "A shared calendar" + }, + { + "id": "one_predictable_meal", + "text": "One predictable meal" + }, + { + "id": "earlier_decisions", + "text": "Earlier decisions" + }, + { + "id": "a_better_way_to_divide_errands", + "text": "A better way to divide errands" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_010", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one future memory you want us to make?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What deserves first place on our imaginary future-us clipboard?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "memories", - "dreams", + "humor", + "priorities", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "something_practical", + "text": "Something practical" + }, + { + "id": "something_fun", + "text": "Something fun" + }, + { + "id": "something_overdue", + "text": "Something overdue" + }, + { + "id": "a_snack_for_the_planning_meeting", + "text": "A snack for the planning meeting" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "something_practical", + "text": "Something practical" + }, + { + "id": "something_fun", + "text": "Something fun" + }, + { + "id": "something_overdue", + "text": "Something overdue" + }, + { + "id": "a_snack_for_the_planning_meeting", + "text": "A snack for the planning meeting" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_011", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing future-us should absolutely save room for?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would help us follow through without making life rigid?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "priorities", - "planning", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "follow_through", + "flexibility", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_backup_plan", + "text": "A backup plan" + }, + { + "id": "smaller_steps", + "text": "Smaller steps" + }, + { + "id": "a_date_to_check_progress", + "text": "A date to check progress" + }, + { + "id": "permission_to_change_the_goal", + "text": "Permission to change the goal" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_backup_plan", + "text": "A backup plan" + }, + { + "id": "smaller_steps", + "text": "Smaller steps" + }, + { + "id": "a_date_to_check_progress", + "text": "A date to check progress" + }, + { + "id": "permission_to_change_the_goal", + "text": "Permission to change the goal" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_012", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing future-us would be happy to leave behind?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which small wins would be worth noticing?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "priorities", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "small_wins", + "progress", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "finishing_an_annoying_task", + "text": "Finishing an annoying task" + }, + { + "id": "starting_a_useful_habit", + "text": "Starting a useful habit" + }, + { + "id": "saving_a_little_time", + "text": "Saving a little time" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_a_plan_we_made", + "text": "Keeping a plan we made" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "finishing_an_annoying_task", + "text": "Finishing an annoying task" + }, + { + "id": "starting_a_useful_habit", + "text": "Starting a useful habit" + }, + { + "id": "saving_a_little_time", + "text": "Saving a little time" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_a_plan_we_made", + "text": "Keeping a plan we made" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_013", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does growing old together look like in your cutest version?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which upcoming moments are you most ready to reach?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "growing_old", - "fun_first", + "anticipation", + "near_term", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_calmer_week", + "text": "A calmer week" + }, + { + "id": "a_celebration", + "text": "A celebration" + }, + { + "id": "a_change_of_season", + "text": "A change of season" + }, + { + "id": "a_day_with_nothing_scheduled", + "text": "A day with nothing scheduled" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_calmer_week", + "text": "A calmer week" + }, + { + "id": "a_celebration", + "text": "A celebration" + }, + { + "id": "a_change_of_season", + "text": "A change of season" + }, + { + "id": "a_day_with_nothing_scheduled", + "text": "A day with nothing scheduled" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_014", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What does growing old together look like in your peaceful version?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one small thing you would genuinely like us to do this month?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "growing_old", - "peace", + "near_term", + "shared_plan", "future" ], "answer_config": { @@ -253,237 +757,697 @@ { "id": "future_015", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one future version of us you are excited to meet?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make planning the near future feel more like teamwork?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "hope", + "teamwork", + "planning", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_people_suggest_ideas", + "text": "Both people suggest ideas" + }, + { + "id": "the_practical_details_are_shared", + "text": "The practical details are shared" + }, + { + "id": "either_person_can_revise_the_plan", + "text": "Either person can revise the plan" + }, + { + "id": "fun_gets_equal_attention", + "text": "Fun gets equal attention" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_people_suggest_ideas", + "text": "Both people suggest ideas" + }, + { + "id": "the_practical_details_are_shared", + "text": "The practical details are shared" + }, + { + "id": "either_person_can_revise_the_plan", + "text": "Either person can revise the plan" + }, + { + "id": "fun_gets_equal_attention", + "text": "Fun gets equal attention" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_016", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of couple do you hope we become even more of?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which ordinary future day sounds most satisfying?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "identity", - "growth", + "daily_life", + "preferences", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_slow_weekend_morning", + "text": "A slow weekend morning" + }, + { + "id": "a_productive_weekday", + "text": "A productive weekday" + }, + { + "id": "a_spontaneous_afternoon", + "text": "A spontaneous afternoon" + }, + { + "id": "a_quiet_evening_at_home", + "text": "A quiet evening at home" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_slow_weekend_morning", + "text": "A slow weekend morning" + }, + { + "id": "a_productive_weekday", + "text": "A productive weekday" + }, + { + "id": "a_spontaneous_afternoon", + "text": "A spontaneous afternoon" + }, + { + "id": "a_quiet_evening_at_home", + "text": "A quiet evening at home" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_017", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small goal that would make life easier this month?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would you want more of in our everyday life?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "monthly", - "small_goals", + "daily_life", + "priorities", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "unhurried_meals", + "text": "Unhurried meals" + }, + { + "id": "time_outside", + "text": "Time outside" + }, + { + "id": "private_time_together", + "text": "Private time together" + }, + { + "id": "room_for_separate_interests", + "text": "Room for separate interests" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "unhurried_meals", + "text": "Unhurried meals" + }, + { + "id": "time_outside", + "text": "Time outside" + }, + { + "id": "private_time_together", + "text": "Private time together" + }, + { + "id": "room_for_separate_interests", + "text": "Room for separate interests" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_018", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one dream that feels big but still possible?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "More predictable routines or more room to improvise?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "dreams", - "possibility", + "routines", + "quick_choice", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_predictable_routines", + "text": "More predictable routines" + }, + { + "id": "more_room_to_improvise", + "text": "More room to improvise" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_predictable_routines", + "text": "More predictable routines" + }, + { + "id": "more_room_to_improvise", + "text": "More room to improvise" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_019", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one dream that feels tiny but meaningful?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which details make a future home life sound peaceful?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "dreams", - "meaning", + "home_feeling", + "daily_life", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_manageable_schedule", + "text": "A manageable schedule" + }, + { + "id": "a_comfortable_place_to_sit", + "text": "A comfortable place to sit" + }, + { + "id": "meals_that_are_not_rushed", + "text": "Meals that are not rushed" + }, + { + "id": "fewer_unfinished_chores", + "text": "Fewer unfinished chores" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_manageable_schedule", + "text": "A manageable schedule" + }, + { + "id": "a_comfortable_place_to_sit", + "text": "A comfortable place to sit" + }, + { + "id": "meals_that_are_not_rushed", + "text": "Meals that are not rushed" + }, + { + "id": "fewer_unfinished_chores", + "text": "Fewer unfinished chores" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_020", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What future goal could use a fun name?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should future weekends protect?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "goals", - "fun_first", + "weekends", + "priorities", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "time_together", + "text": "Time together" + }, + { + "id": "personal_interests", + "text": "Personal interests" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_adventure", + "text": "A little adventure" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "time_together", + "text": "Time together" + }, + { + "id": "personal_interests", + "text": "Personal interests" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_adventure", + "text": "A little adventure" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_021", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make planning feel more like dreaming together?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which household luxury sounds increasingly reasonable with age?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "planning", - "fun_first", + "humor", + "comfort", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "excellent_pillows", + "text": "Excellent pillows" + }, + { + "id": "a_chair_nobody_else_claims", + "text": "A chair nobody else claims" + }, + { + "id": "a_very_quiet_appliance", + "text": "A very quiet appliance" + }, + { + "id": "a_drawer_that_actually_closes", + "text": "A drawer that actually closes" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "excellent_pillows", + "text": "Excellent pillows" + }, + { + "id": "a_chair_nobody_else_claims", + "text": "A chair nobody else claims" + }, + { + "id": "a_very_quiet_appliance", + "text": "A very quiet appliance" + }, + { + "id": "a_drawer_that_actually_closes", + "text": "A drawer that actually closes" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_022", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one future plan we could turn into a date-night conversation?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kind of mornings would suit us best?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "date_night", - "planning", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_023", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you hope never changes about us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "continuity", - "love", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_024", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you hope does change for the better?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "growth", - "hope", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_025", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of life rhythm sounds good for future us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "rhythm", - "daily_life", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_026", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of weekends do you hope future us has?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "weekends", - "daily_life", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_027", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of mornings do you hope future us has?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", "tags": [ "mornings", "daily_life", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_and_slow", + "text": "Quiet and slow" + }, + { + "id": "organized_and_early", + "text": "Organized and early" + }, + { + "id": "coffee_before_conversation", + "text": "Coffee before conversation" + }, + { + "id": "different_routines_with_one_shared_moment", + "text": "Different routines with one shared moment" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_and_slow", + "text": "Quiet and slow" + }, + { + "id": "organized_and_early", + "text": "Organized and early" + }, + { + "id": "coffee_before_conversation", + "text": "Coffee before conversation" + }, + { + "id": "different_routines_with_one_shared_moment", + "text": "Different routines with one shared moment" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_023", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How similar are our ideas of a good ordinary life?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "alignment", + "daily_life", + "future" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very different", + "max_label": "Very similar" + } + }, + { + "id": "future_024", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which routines could keep us connected without feeling forced?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "routines", + "connection", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_shared_meal", + "text": "A shared meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_short_evening_check_in", + "text": "A short evening check-in" + }, + { + "id": "a_regular_walk", + "text": "A regular walk" + }, + { + "id": "one_protected_hour_each_week", + "text": "One protected hour each week" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_shared_meal", + "text": "A shared meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_short_evening_check_in", + "text": "A short evening check-in" + }, + { + "id": "a_regular_walk", + "text": "A regular walk" + }, + { + "id": "one_protected_hour_each_week", + "text": "One protected hour each week" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_025", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What future chore deserves to become somebody else's professional problem?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "humor", + "chores", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "deep_cleaning", + "text": "Deep cleaning" + }, + { + "id": "yard_work", + "text": "Yard work" + }, + { + "id": "tax_paperwork", + "text": "Tax paperwork" + }, + { + "id": "whatever_keeps_making_that_noise", + "text": "Whatever keeps making that noise" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "deep_cleaning", + "text": "Deep cleaning" + }, + { + "id": "yard_work", + "text": "Yard work" + }, + { + "id": "tax_paperwork", + "text": "Tax paperwork" + }, + { + "id": "whatever_keeps_making_that_noise", + "text": "Whatever keeps making that noise" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "future_026", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would help home feel restful instead of like a second job?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "home", + "rest", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "lower_standards_for_unimportant_things", + "text": "Lower standards for unimportant things" + }, + { + "id": "clear_responsibility", + "text": "Clear responsibility" + }, + { + "id": "less_clutter", + "text": "Less clutter" + }, + { + "id": "protected_downtime", + "text": "Protected downtime" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "lower_standards_for_unimportant_things", + "text": "Lower standards for unimportant things" + }, + { + "id": "clear_responsibility", + "text": "Clear responsibility" + }, + { + "id": "less_clutter", + "text": "Less clutter" + }, + { + "id": "protected_downtime", + "text": "Protected downtime" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_027", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which parts of everyday life should stay flexible?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "flexibility", + "daily_life", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "meal_plans", + "text": "Meal plans" + }, + { + "id": "weekend_schedules", + "text": "Weekend schedules" + }, + { + "id": "who_handles_certain_tasks", + "text": "Who handles certain tasks" + }, + { + "id": "how_we_spend_free_evenings", + "text": "How we spend free evenings" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "meal_plans", + "text": "Meal plans" + }, + { + "id": "weekend_schedules", + "text": "Weekend schedules" + }, + { + "id": "who_handles_certain_tasks", + "text": "Who handles certain tasks" + }, + { + "id": "how_we_spend_free_evenings", + "text": "How we spend free evenings" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_028", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of nights do you hope future us has?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which future evenings sound easiest to look forward to?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "nights", - "daily_life", + "evenings", + "comfort", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "dinner_outside", + "text": "Dinner outside" + }, + { + "id": "a_show_we_watch_together", + "text": "A show we watch together" + }, + { + "id": "music_and_separate_hobbies", + "text": "Music and separate hobbies" + }, + { + "id": "an_early_night", + "text": "An early night" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "dinner_outside", + "text": "Dinner outside" + }, + { + "id": "a_show_we_watch_together", + "text": "A show we watch together" + }, + { + "id": "music_and_separate_hobbies", + "text": "Music and separate hobbies" + }, + { + "id": "an_early_night", + "text": "An early night" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_029", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one future purchase that would feel like investing in us?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What does a genuinely good ordinary day together look like to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "money", - "goals", + "daily_life", + "vision", "future" ], "answer_config": { @@ -493,249 +1457,697 @@ { "id": "future_030", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one future experience that would feel like investing in us?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs would tell you our daily life is working well?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "experiences", - "connection", + "daily_life", + "wellbeing", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_are_not_always_rushing", + "text": "We are not always rushing" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_get_some_rest", + "text": "Both people get some rest" + }, + { + "id": "small_problems_stay_small", + "text": "Small problems stay small" + }, + { + "id": "we_still_enjoy_being_home_together", + "text": "We still enjoy being home together" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_are_not_always_rushing", + "text": "We are not always rushing" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_get_some_rest", + "text": "Both people get some rest" + }, + { + "id": "small_problems_stay_small", + "text": "Small problems stay small" + }, + { + "id": "we_still_enjoy_being_home_together", + "text": "We still enjoy being home together" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_031", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing our future should protect like treasure?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which future adventure sounds most like us?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "values", - "protection", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "adventure", + "dreams", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_road_trip", + "text": "A long road trip" + }, + { + "id": "a_quiet_cabin_stay", + "text": "A quiet cabin stay" + }, + { + "id": "a_city_we_have_never_seen", + "text": "A city we have never seen" + }, + { + "id": "a_class_we_take_together", + "text": "A class we take together" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_road_trip", + "text": "A long road trip" + }, + { + "id": "a_quiet_cabin_stay", + "text": "A quiet cabin stay" + }, + { + "id": "a_city_we_have_never_seen", + "text": "A city we have never seen" + }, + { + "id": "a_class_we_take_together", + "text": "A class we take together" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_032", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What pressure should future-us refuse to let drive the car?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kinds of dreams are fun to talk about even before they are practical?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pressure", - "boundaries", - "future", - "closer_style", + "dreams", "fun_first", - "warm" + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "places_to_visit", + "text": "Places to visit" + }, + { + "id": "things_to_learn", + "text": "Things to learn" + }, + { + "id": "a_different_way_to_live", + "text": "A different way to live" + }, + { + "id": "a_ridiculous_shared_project", + "text": "A ridiculous shared project" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "places_to_visit", + "text": "Places to visit" + }, + { + "id": "things_to_learn", + "text": "Things to learn" + }, + { + "id": "a_different_way_to_live", + "text": "A different way to live" + }, + { + "id": "a_ridiculous_shared_project", + "text": "A ridiculous shared project" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_033", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can make future planning feel lighter?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Return somewhere we love or explore somewhere completely new?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "planning", - "lightness", + "travel", + "quick_choice", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "return_somewhere_we_love", + "text": "Return somewhere we love" + }, + { + "id": "explore_somewhere_completely_new", + "text": "Explore somewhere completely new" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "return_somewhere_we_love", + "text": "Return somewhere we love" + }, + { + "id": "explore_somewhere_completely_new", + "text": "Explore somewhere completely new" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_034", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one little ritual future us should keep?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which experiences would make a great future story?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "rituals", - "fun_first", + "memories", + "adventure", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "getting_pleasantly_lost", + "text": "Getting pleasantly lost" + }, + { + "id": "learning_something_badly_at_first", + "text": "Learning something badly at first" + }, + { + "id": "trying_unfamiliar_food", + "text": "Trying unfamiliar food" + }, + { + "id": "taking_a_trip_with_a_loose_plan", + "text": "Taking a trip with a loose plan" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "getting_pleasantly_lost", + "text": "Getting pleasantly lost" + }, + { + "id": "learning_something_badly_at_first", + "text": "Learning something badly at first" + }, + { + "id": "trying_unfamiliar_food", + "text": "Trying unfamiliar food" + }, + { + "id": "taking_a_trip_with_a_loose_plan", + "text": "Taking a trip with a loose plan" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_035", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one habit that could make future us feel closer?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make a big dream feel less distant?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "habits", - "closeness", + "dreams", + "small_steps", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_rough_cost", + "text": "A rough cost" + }, + { + "id": "a_possible_year", + "text": "A possible year" + }, + { + "id": "one_first_step", + "text": "One first step" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_why_it_matters", + "text": "Knowing why it matters" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_rough_cost", + "text": "A rough cost" + }, + { + "id": "a_possible_year", + "text": "A possible year" + }, + { + "id": "one_first_step", + "text": "One first step" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_why_it_matters", + "text": "Knowing why it matters" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_036", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one habit that could make future us feel calmer?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which future hobby could become our charming shared obsession?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "habits", - "peace", + "humor", + "hobbies", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gardening", + "text": "Gardening" + }, + { + "id": "pottery", + "text": "Pottery" + }, + { + "id": "bird_watching", + "text": "Bird watching" + }, + { + "id": "an_activity_requiring_an_alarming_amount_of_equipment", + "text": "An activity requiring an alarming amount of equipment" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gardening", + "text": "Gardening" + }, + { + "id": "pottery", + "text": "Pottery" + }, + { + "id": "bird_watching", + "text": "Bird watching" + }, + { + "id": "an_activity_requiring_an_alarming_amount_of_equipment", + "text": "An activity requiring an alarming amount of equipment" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_037", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we should celebrate if we accomplish it?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would you enjoy learning beside me?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "celebration", - "goals", + "learning", + "shared_experience", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_practical_skill", + "text": "A practical skill" + }, + { + "id": "a_creative_skill", + "text": "A creative skill" + }, + { + "id": "a_language", + "text": "A language" + }, + { + "id": "something_neither_of_us_is_naturally_good_at", + "text": "Something neither of us is naturally good at" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_practical_skill", + "text": "A practical skill" + }, + { + "id": "a_creative_skill", + "text": "A creative skill" + }, + { + "id": "a_language", + "text": "A language" + }, + { + "id": "something_neither_of_us_is_naturally_good_at", + "text": "Something neither of us is naturally good at" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_038", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one future fear that would feel easier if we faced it as a team?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How adventurous do you hope our future feels?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fears", - "teamwork", + "adventure", + "preferences", "future" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Mostly familiar", + "max_label": "Very adventurous" } }, { "id": "future_039", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one future hope you want me to hold with you?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which dream trips sound worth saving and waiting for?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hopes", - "support", + "travel", + "dreams", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_place_tied_to_family_history", + "text": "A place tied to family history" + }, + { + "id": "a_once_in_a_lifetime_landscape", + "text": "A once-in-a-lifetime landscape" + }, + { + "id": "a_long_relaxed_stay", + "text": "A long relaxed stay" + }, + { + "id": "a_trip_built_around_a_shared_interest", + "text": "A trip built around a shared interest" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_place_tied_to_family_history", + "text": "A place tied to family history" + }, + { + "id": "a_once_in_a_lifetime_landscape", + "text": "A once-in-a-lifetime landscape" + }, + { + "id": "a_long_relaxed_stay", + "text": "A long relaxed stay" + }, + { + "id": "a_trip_built_around_a_shared_interest", + "text": "A trip built around a shared interest" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_040", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you believe future-us has something really good coming?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should our future travel rule be?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hope", - "trust", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "humor", + "travel", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "never_skip_the_local_food", + "text": "Never skip the local food" + }, + { + "id": "leave_one_day_unplanned", + "text": "Leave one day unplanned" + }, + { + "id": "no_heroic_departure_times", + "text": "No heroic departure times" + }, + { + "id": "the_person_who_packs_snacks_holds_power", + "text": "The person who packs snacks holds power" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "never_skip_the_local_food", + "text": "Never skip the local food" + }, + { + "id": "leave_one_day_unplanned", + "text": "Leave one day unplanned" + }, + { + "id": "no_heroic_departure_times", + "text": "No heroic departure times" + }, + { + "id": "the_person_who_packs_snacks_holds_power", + "text": "The person who packs snacks holds power" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_041", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does building a life together look like in your favorite version?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What could make trying something new feel easier?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "meaning", - "commitment", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "novelty", + "support", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "start_small", + "text": "Start small" + }, + { + "id": "learn_together", + "text": "Learn together" + }, + { + "id": "keep_expectations_low", + "text": "Keep expectations low" + }, + { + "id": "have_an_exit_plan", + "text": "Have an exit plan" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "start_small", + "text": "Start small" + }, + { + "id": "learn_together", + "text": "Learn together" + }, + { + "id": "keep_expectations_low", + "text": "Keep expectations low" + }, + { + "id": "have_an_exit_plan", + "text": "Have an exit plan" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_042", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one future version of me you are rooting for?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which future memories would you most like to collect?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "support", - "growth", + "memories", + "dreams", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "unexpected_celebrations", + "text": "Unexpected celebrations" + }, + { + "id": "trips_that_become_family_stories", + "text": "Trips that become family stories" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_milestones", + "text": "Quiet milestones" + }, + { + "id": "moments_when_we_surprised_ourselves", + "text": "Moments when we surprised ourselves" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "unexpected_celebrations", + "text": "Unexpected celebrations" + }, + { + "id": "trips_that_become_family_stories", + "text": "Trips that become family stories" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_milestones", + "text": "Quiet milestones" + }, + { + "id": "moments_when_we_surprised_ourselves", + "text": "Moments when we surprised ourselves" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_043", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one future version of you you want me to root for?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which dreams deserve a place on the someday list?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "support", - "growth", + "dreams", + "wishlist", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_trip", + "text": "A long trip" + }, + { + "id": "a_shared_creative_project", + "text": "A shared creative project" + }, + { + "id": "a_major_life_change", + "text": "A major life change" + }, + { + "id": "something_we_have_not_named_yet", + "text": "Something we have not named yet" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_trip", + "text": "A long trip" + }, + { + "id": "a_shared_creative_project", + "text": "A shared creative project" + }, + { + "id": "a_major_life_change", + "text": "A major life change" + }, + { + "id": "something_we_have_not_named_yet", + "text": "Something we have not named yet" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_044", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing we can do this week for future us?", + "text": "What is one future experience you would hate for us to keep postponing forever?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "weekly", - "small_steps", + "dreams", + "priority", "future" ], "answer_config": { @@ -745,266 +2157,698 @@ { "id": "future_045", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make our future feel more like ours?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should stay true even while we chase bigger dreams?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "identity", - "belonging", + "dreams", + "balance", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_basic_security", + "text": "Our basic security" + }, + { + "id": "time_for_ordinary_life", + "text": "Time for ordinary life" + }, + { + "id": "freedom_to_change_our_minds", + "text": "Freedom to change our minds" + }, + { + "id": "respect_for_different_comfort_levels", + "text": "Respect for different comfort levels" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_basic_security", + "text": "Our basic security" + }, + { + "id": "time_for_ordinary_life", + "text": "Time for ordinary life" + }, + { + "id": "freedom_to_change_our_minds", + "text": "Freedom to change our minds" + }, + { + "id": "respect_for_different_comfort_levels", + "text": "Respect for different comfort levels" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_046", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make future adventures feel like a fun thing to dream about?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of place sounds most like home to future us?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "adventure", - "fun_first", - "lightness", - "future", - "closer_style" + "home", + "place", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_quiet_rural_place", + "text": "A quiet rural place" + }, + { + "id": "a_walkable_town", + "text": "A walkable town" + }, + { + "id": "a_familiar_neighborhood", + "text": "A familiar neighborhood" + }, + { + "id": "wherever_our_people_are", + "text": "Wherever our people are" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_quiet_rural_place", + "text": "A quiet rural place" + }, + { + "id": "a_walkable_town", + "text": "A walkable town" + }, + { + "id": "a_familiar_neighborhood", + "text": "A familiar neighborhood" + }, + { + "id": "wherever_our_people_are", + "text": "Wherever our people are" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_047", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make future adventures feel more like us?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What matters most about where we live later?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "adventure", - "fun_first", - "identity", + "home", + "priorities", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_safe", + "text": "Feeling safe" + }, + { + "id": "being_near_people_we_care_about", + "text": "Being near people we care about" + }, + { + "id": "affordability", + "text": "Affordability" + }, + { + "id": "daily_life_we_actually_enjoy", + "text": "Daily life we actually enjoy" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_safe", + "text": "Feeling safe" + }, + { + "id": "being_near_people_we_care_about", + "text": "Being near people we care about" + }, + { + "id": "affordability", + "text": "Affordability" + }, + { + "id": "daily_life_we_actually_enjoy", + "text": "Daily life we actually enjoy" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_048", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny step toward future adventures would make future-us high-five us?", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Settle deeply in one place or stay open to moving?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "adventure", - "fun_first", - "monthly", - "small_steps", - "future", - "closer_style" + "home", + "quick_choice", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "settle_deeply_in_one_place", + "text": "Settle deeply in one place" + }, + { + "id": "stay_open_to_moving", + "text": "Stay open to moving" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "settle_deeply_in_one_place", + "text": "Settle deeply in one place" + }, + { + "id": "stay_open_to_moving", + "text": "Stay open to moving" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_049", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make future adventures feel fun to talk about?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which home features would improve daily life the most?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "adventure", - "fun_first", + "home", + "comfort", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "useful_outdoor_space", + "text": "Useful outdoor space" + }, + { + "id": "a_good_kitchen", + "text": "A good kitchen" + }, + { + "id": "separate_quiet_areas", + "text": "Separate quiet areas" + }, + { + "id": "easy_maintenance", + "text": "Easy maintenance" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "useful_outdoor_space", + "text": "Useful outdoor space" + }, + { + "id": "a_good_kitchen", + "text": "A good kitchen" + }, + { + "id": "separate_quiet_areas", + "text": "Separate quiet areas" + }, + { + "id": "easy_maintenance", + "text": "Easy maintenance" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_050", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you hope I understand about future adventures?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kind of neighborhood would fit us best?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "adventure", - "fun_first", - "understanding", + "community", + "home", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_and_private", + "text": "Quiet and private" + }, + { + "id": "friendly_and_social", + "text": "Friendly and social" + }, + { + "id": "close_to_useful_places", + "text": "Close to useful places" + }, + { + "id": "spacious_with_fewer_neighbors", + "text": "Spacious with fewer neighbors" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_and_private", + "text": "Quiet and private" + }, + { + "id": "friendly_and_social", + "text": "Friendly and social" + }, + { + "id": "close_to_useful_places", + "text": "Close to useful places" + }, + { + "id": "spacious_with_fewer_neighbors", + "text": "Spacious with fewer neighbors" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_051", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us protect warmth while planning future adventures?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which future home feature is secretly the main character?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "adventure", - "fun_first", - "warmth", - "planning", + "humor", + "home", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_porch", + "text": "A porch" + }, + { + "id": "a_giant_pantry", + "text": "A giant pantry" + }, + { + "id": "a_workshop", + "text": "A workshop" + }, + { + "id": "storage_nobody_must_defend_in_court", + "text": "Storage nobody must defend in court" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_porch", + "text": "A porch" + }, + { + "id": "a_giant_pantry", + "text": "A giant pantry" + }, + { + "id": "a_workshop", + "text": "A workshop" + }, + { + "id": "storage_nobody_must_defend_in_court", + "text": "Storage nobody must defend in court" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_052", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should we celebrate while we inch toward future adventures?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make a move worth the disruption?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "adventure", - "fun_first", - "celebration", - "progress", - "future", - "closer_style" + "moving", + "decisions", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "better_quality_of_life", + "text": "Better quality of life" + }, + { + "id": "more_affordable_living", + "text": "More affordable living" + }, + { + "id": "closer_support", + "text": "Closer support" + }, + { + "id": "a_meaningful_opportunity", + "text": "A meaningful opportunity" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "better_quality_of_life", + "text": "Better quality of life" + }, + { + "id": "more_affordable_living", + "text": "More affordable living" + }, + { + "id": "closer_support", + "text": "Closer support" + }, + { + "id": "a_meaningful_opportunity", + "text": "A meaningful opportunity" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_053", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make our home life feel like a fun thing to dream about?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How settled do you want our future to feel?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "home", - "daily_life", - "lightness", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first" + "stability", + "future" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very flexible", + "max_label": "Very rooted" } }, { "id": "future_054", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make our home life feel more like us?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which questions should we answer before choosing a place to live?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "home", - "daily_life", - "identity", + "moving", + "planning", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "what_daily_life_costs", + "text": "What daily life costs" + }, + { + "id": "who_we_would_be_near", + "text": "Who we would be near" + }, + { + "id": "what_work_requires", + "text": "What work requires" + }, + { + "id": "what_each_person_would_give_up", + "text": "What each person would give up" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "what_daily_life_costs", + "text": "What daily life costs" + }, + { + "id": "who_we_would_be_near", + "text": "Who we would be near" + }, + { + "id": "what_work_requires", + "text": "What work requires" + }, + { + "id": "what_each_person_would_give_up", + "text": "What each person would give up" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_055", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny step toward our home life would make future-us high-five us?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which parts of a move would be hardest to leave behind?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "home", - "daily_life", - "monthly", - "small_steps", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first" + "moving", + "attachment", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "people", + "text": "People" + }, + { + "id": "familiar_routines", + "text": "Familiar routines" + }, + { + "id": "the_land_or_area", + "text": "The land or area" + }, + { + "id": "a_sense_of_belonging", + "text": "A sense of belonging" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "people", + "text": "People" + }, + { + "id": "familiar_routines", + "text": "Familiar routines" + }, + { + "id": "the_land_or_area", + "text": "The land or area" + }, + { + "id": "a_sense_of_belonging", + "text": "A sense of belonging" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_056", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make our home life feel fun to talk about?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a home feel like ours rather than just useful?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "home", - "daily_life", - "fun_first", + "identity", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "shared_choices", + "text": "Shared choices" + }, + { + "id": "objects_with_stories", + "text": "Objects with stories" + }, + { + "id": "space_for_both_personalities", + "text": "Space for both personalities" + }, + { + "id": "traditions_that_happen_there", + "text": "Traditions that happen there" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "shared_choices", + "text": "Shared choices" + }, + { + "id": "objects_with_stories", + "text": "Objects with stories" + }, + { + "id": "space_for_both_personalities", + "text": "Space for both personalities" + }, + { + "id": "traditions_that_happen_there", + "text": "Traditions that happen there" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_057", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you hope I understand about our home life?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which future housing choices should remain flexible?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "home", - "daily_life", - "understanding", + "flexibility", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "size", + "text": "Size" + }, + { + "id": "location", + "text": "Location" + }, + { + "id": "whether_we_own_or_rent", + "text": "Whether we own or rent" + }, + { + "id": "how_long_we_stay", + "text": "How long we stay" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "size", + "text": "Size" + }, + { + "id": "location", + "text": "Location" + }, + { + "id": "whether_we_own_or_rent", + "text": "Whether we own or rent" + }, + { + "id": "how_long_we_stay", + "text": "How long we stay" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_058", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us protect warmth while planning our home life?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which home problem should future us refuse to romanticize?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "humor", "home", - "daily_life", - "warmth", - "planning", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_leaking_roof", + "text": "A leaking roof" + }, + { + "id": "a_heroic_renovation", + "text": "A heroic renovation" + }, + { + "id": "no_storage", + "text": "No storage" + }, + { + "id": "anything_described_as_having_character_by_the_seller", + "text": "Anything described as having character by the seller" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_leaking_roof", + "text": "A leaking roof" + }, + { + "id": "a_heroic_renovation", + "text": "A heroic renovation" + }, + { + "id": "no_storage", + "text": "No storage" + }, + { + "id": "anything_described_as_having_character_by_the_seller", + "text": "Anything described as having character by the seller" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_059", "category_id": "future", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we celebrate while we inch toward our home life?", + "text": "What feeling would you most want our future home to give us?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "home", - "daily_life", - "celebration", - "progress", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first" + "vision", + "future" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 @@ -1013,279 +2857,698 @@ { "id": "future_060", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make future money goals feel like a fun thing to dream about?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What could make different ideas of home easier to combine?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money", - "goals", - "lightness", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first" + "home", + "compromise", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_the_feeling_behind_each_preference", + "text": "Name the feeling behind each preference" + }, + { + "id": "separate_needs_from_nice_to_haves", + "text": "Separate needs from nice-to-haves" + }, + { + "id": "try_a_temporary_version", + "text": "Try a temporary version" + }, + { + "id": "keep_more_than_one_path_open", + "text": "Keep more than one path open" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_the_feeling_behind_each_preference", + "text": "Name the feeling behind each preference" + }, + { + "id": "separate_needs_from_nice_to_haves", + "text": "Separate needs from nice-to-haves" + }, + { + "id": "try_a_temporary_version", + "text": "Try a temporary version" + }, + { + "id": "keep_more_than_one_path_open", + "text": "Keep more than one path open" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_061", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make future money goals feel more like us?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which future work rhythm sounds healthiest?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money", - "goals", - "identity", + "work", + "lifestyle", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "steady_predictable_hours", + "text": "Steady predictable hours" + }, + { + "id": "flexible_independent_work", + "text": "Flexible independent work" + }, + { + "id": "periods_of_intensity_with_real_breaks", + "text": "Periods of intensity with real breaks" + }, + { + "id": "less_work_even_with_less_income", + "text": "Less work even with less income" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "steady_predictable_hours", + "text": "Steady predictable hours" + }, + { + "id": "flexible_independent_work", + "text": "Flexible independent work" + }, + { + "id": "periods_of_intensity_with_real_breaks", + "text": "Periods of intensity with real breaks" + }, + { + "id": "less_work_even_with_less_income", + "text": "Less work even with less income" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_062", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny step toward future money goals would make future-us high-five us?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should work provide besides money?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money", - "goals", - "monthly", - "small_steps", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first" + "work", + "values", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_sense_of_competence", + "text": "A sense of competence" + }, + { + "id": "enough_flexibility", + "text": "Enough flexibility" + }, + { + "id": "some_stability", + "text": "Some stability" + }, + { + "id": "energy_left_for_life", + "text": "Energy left for life" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_sense_of_competence", + "text": "A sense of competence" + }, + { + "id": "enough_flexibility", + "text": "Enough flexibility" + }, + { + "id": "some_stability", + "text": "Some stability" + }, + { + "id": "energy_left_for_life", + "text": "Energy left for life" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_063", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make future money goals feel fun to talk about?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Build a busier life we enjoy or simplify as much as possible?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money", - "goals", - "fun_first", + "lifestyle", + "quick_choice", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "build_a_busier_life_we_enjoy", + "text": "Build a busier life we enjoy" + }, + { + "id": "simplify_as_much_as_possible", + "text": "Simplify as much as possible" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "build_a_busier_life_we_enjoy", + "text": "Build a busier life we enjoy" + }, + { + "id": "simplify_as_much_as_possible", + "text": "Simplify as much as possible" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_064", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make future money goals feel more like freedom than pressure?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which lifestyle changes could create more usable time?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money", - "goals", - "understanding", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "time", + "simplifying", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_shorter_commute", + "text": "A shorter commute" + }, + { + "id": "fewer_recurring_obligations", + "text": "Fewer recurring obligations" + }, + { + "id": "more_help_with_chores", + "text": "More help with chores" + }, + { + "id": "less_time_spent_managing_clutter", + "text": "Less time spent managing clutter" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_shorter_commute", + "text": "A shorter commute" + }, + { + "id": "fewer_recurring_obligations", + "text": "Fewer recurring obligations" + }, + { + "id": "more_help_with_chores", + "text": "More help with chores" + }, + { + "id": "less_time_spent_managing_clutter", + "text": "Less time spent managing clutter" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_065", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What warmth should we keep in the room when future money comes up?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make a career change easier to support?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money", - "goals", - "warmth", - "planning", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "career_change", + "support", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_realistic_transition_plan", + "text": "A realistic transition plan" + }, + { + "id": "clear_financial_limits", + "text": "Clear financial limits" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_learn", + "text": "Time to learn" + }, + { + "id": "honest_discussion_of_the_effect_on_both_people", + "text": "Honest discussion of the effect on both people" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_realistic_transition_plan", + "text": "A realistic transition plan" + }, + { + "id": "clear_financial_limits", + "text": "Clear financial limits" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_learn", + "text": "Time to learn" + }, + { + "id": "honest_discussion_of_the_effect_on_both_people", + "text": "Honest discussion of the effect on both people" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_066", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should we celebrate while we inch toward future money goals?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which future schedule sounds least likely to make us resent the calendar?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money", - "goals", - "celebration", - "progress", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first" + "humor", + "schedule", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "four_focused_workdays", + "text": "Four focused workdays" + }, + { + "id": "protected_weekends", + "text": "Protected weekends" + }, + { + "id": "flexible_mornings", + "text": "Flexible mornings" + }, + { + "id": "any_schedule_with_fewer_surprise_meetings", + "text": "Any schedule with fewer surprise meetings" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "four_focused_workdays", + "text": "Four focused workdays" + }, + { + "id": "protected_weekends", + "text": "Protected weekends" + }, + { + "id": "flexible_mornings", + "text": "Flexible mornings" + }, + { + "id": "any_schedule_with_fewer_surprise_meetings", + "text": "Any schedule with fewer surprise meetings" + } + ] } }, { "id": "future_067", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make our older selves feel like a fun thing to dream about?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should we protect if one person's work becomes demanding?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growing_old", - "future_us", - "lightness", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first" + "work", + "balance", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "basic_rest", + "text": "Basic rest" + }, + { + "id": "shared_decisions", + "text": "Shared decisions" + }, + { + "id": "time_for_the_other_person_s_goals", + "text": "Time for the other person's goals" + }, + { + "id": "a_point_when_the_arrangement_is_reviewed", + "text": "A point when the arrangement is reviewed" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "basic_rest", + "text": "Basic rest" + }, + { + "id": "shared_decisions", + "text": "Shared decisions" + }, + { + "id": "time_for_the_other_person_s_goals", + "text": "Time for the other person's goals" + }, + { + "id": "a_point_when_the_arrangement_is_reviewed", + "text": "A point when the arrangement is reviewed" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_068", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make our older selves feel more like us?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well does our current pace support the life we want?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growing_old", - "future_us", - "identity", + "pace", + "current_state", "future" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not well", + "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "future_069", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny step toward our older selves would make future-us high-five us?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs would tell you our life has become too busy?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growing_old", - "future_us", - "monthly", - "small_steps", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first" + "busy_life", + "warning_signs", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_only_discuss_logistics", + "text": "We only discuss logistics" + }, + { + "id": "rest_creates_guilt", + "text": "Rest creates guilt" + }, + { + "id": "plans_keep_getting_canceled", + "text": "Plans keep getting canceled" + }, + { + "id": "small_tasks_feel_impossible", + "text": "Small tasks feel impossible" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_only_discuss_logistics", + "text": "We only discuss logistics" + }, + { + "id": "rest_creates_guilt", + "text": "Rest creates guilt" + }, + { + "id": "plans_keep_getting_canceled", + "text": "Plans keep getting canceled" + }, + { + "id": "small_tasks_feel_impossible", + "text": "Small tasks feel impossible" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_070", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make our older selves feel fun to talk about?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which uses of an extra free day sound best?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growing_old", - "future_us", - "fun_first", + "time", + "preferences", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "a_shared_project", + "text": "A shared project" + }, + { + "id": "time_outside", + "text": "Time outside" + }, + { + "id": "separate_interests", + "text": "Separate interests" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "a_shared_project", + "text": "A shared project" + }, + { + "id": 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"options": [ + { + "id": "take_turns_during_demanding_seasons", + "text": "Take turns during demanding seasons" + }, + { + "id": "share_practical_support", + "text": "Share practical support" + }, + { + "id": "keep_both_goals_visible", + "text": "Keep both goals visible" + }, + { + "id": "revisit_sacrifices_before_resentment_builds", + "text": "Revisit sacrifices before resentment builds" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "future_072", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us protect warmth while planning our older selves?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which parts of success matter more than job titles?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growing_old", - "future_us", - "warmth", - "planning", + "success", + "values", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "control_over_time", + "text": "Control over time" + }, + { + "id": "enough_financial_safety", + "text": "Enough financial 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about?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one change in how we use our time that would improve our future most?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "traditions", - "rituals", - "lightness", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first" + "time", + "vision", + "future" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 @@ -1294,2987 +3557,50 @@ { "id": "future_075", "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make traditions we create feel more like us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "traditions", - "rituals", - "identity", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_076", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny step toward traditions we create would make future-us high-five us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "traditions", - "rituals", - "monthly", - "small_steps", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_077", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make traditions we create feel fun to talk about?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "traditions", - "rituals", - "fun_first", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_078", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you hope I understand about traditions we create?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "traditions", - "rituals", - "understanding", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_079", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us protect warmth while planning traditions we create?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "traditions", - "rituals", - "warmth", - "planning", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_080", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should we celebrate while we inch toward traditions we create?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "traditions", - "rituals", - "celebration", - "progress", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_081", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make big dreams feel like a fun thing to dream about?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "dreams", - "hope", - "lightness", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_082", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make big dreams feel more like us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "dreams", - "hope", - "identity", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_083", - "category_id": 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"future", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What future topics should we keep warm and light?", - "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fun_first", + "balance", + "boundaries", "future" ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "travel", - "text": "Travel" - }, - { - "id": "traditions", - "text": "Traditions" - }, - { - "id": "date_nights", - "text": "Date nights" - }, - { - "id": "home_dreams", - "text": "Home dreams" - }, - { - "id": "bucket_list", - "text": "Bucket list" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_197", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What future topics need soft lighting and no pressure?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "safety", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "options": [ + { + "id": "health", + "text": "Health" + }, + { + "id": "basic_respect", + "text": "Basic respect" + }, + { + "id": "every_form_of_rest", + "text": "Every form of rest" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_s_entire_future", + "text": "One person's entire future" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "work", - "text": "Work" - }, { "id": "health", "text": "Health" }, { - "id": "where_to_live", - "text": "Where to live" + "id": "basic_respect", + "text": "Basic respect" + }, + { + "id": "every_form_of_rest", + "text": "Every form of rest" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_s_entire_future", + "text": "One person's entire future" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4282,37 +3608,210 @@ } }, { - "id": "future_198", + "id": "future_076", "category_id": "future", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us plan as a team?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which future tradition sounds easiest to begin?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teamwork", + "traditions", + "easy", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "an_annual_day_trip", + "text": "An annual day trip" + }, + { + "id": "a_monthly_breakfast", + "text": "A monthly breakfast" + }, + { + "id": "a_first_night_of_the_season_meal", + "text": "A first-night-of-the-season meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_yearly_photo_in_the_same_place", + "text": "A yearly photo in the same place" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "an_annual_day_trip", + "text": "An annual day trip" + }, + { + "id": "a_monthly_breakfast", + "text": "A monthly breakfast" + }, + { + "id": "a_first_night_of_the_season_meal", + "text": "A first-night-of-the-season meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_yearly_photo_in_the_same_place", + "text": "A yearly photo in the same place" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "future_077", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a tradition worth keeping?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "traditions", + "meaning", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_still_feels_chosen", + "text": "It still feels chosen" + }, + { + "id": "it_brings_people_together", + "text": "It brings people together" + }, + { + "id": "it_is_easy_enough_to_repeat", + "text": "It is easy enough to repeat" + }, + { + "id": "it_carries_a_story", + "text": "It carries a story" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_still_feels_chosen", + "text": "It still feels chosen" + }, + { + "id": "it_brings_people_together", + "text": "It brings people together" + }, + { + "id": "it_is_easy_enough_to_repeat", + "text": "It is easy enough to repeat" + }, + { + "id": "it_carries_a_story", + "text": "It carries a story" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_078", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How important are shared traditions to your idea of our future?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "traditions", + "current_state", "future" ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very important", + "max_label": "Very important" + } + }, + { + "id": "future_079", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Keep traditions consistent or change one detail each year?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "traditions", + "quick_choice", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_them_consistent", + "text": "Keep them consistent" + }, + { + "id": "change_one_detail_each_year", + "text": "Change one detail each year" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "shared_language", - "text": "Shared language" + "id": "keep_them_consistent", + "text": "Keep them consistent" }, { - "id": "both_voices", - "text": "Both voices" + "id": "change_one_detail_each_year", + "text": "Change one detail each year" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "future_080", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which celebrations should future us make a bigger deal about?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "celebrations", + "fun_first", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "personal_wins", + "text": "Personal wins" + }, + { + "id": "finishing_hard_seasons", + "text": "Finishing hard seasons" + }, + { + "id": "ordinary_anniversaries", + "text": "Ordinary anniversaries" + }, + { + "id": "finally_completing_boring_projects", + "text": "Finally completing boring projects" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "personal_wins", + "text": "Personal wins" }, { - "id": "one_next_step", - "text": "One next step" + "id": "finishing_hard_seasons", + "text": "Finishing hard seasons" }, { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" + "id": "ordinary_anniversaries", + "text": "Ordinary anniversaries" }, { - "id": "celebrating_progress", - "text": "Celebrating progress" + "id": "finally_completing_boring_projects", + "text": "Finally completing boring projects" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4320,40 +3819,702 @@ } }, { - "id": "future_199", + "id": "future_081", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when our timelines are not wearing matching shoes?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What kind of community would you want around us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "timelines", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "community", + "belonging", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_few_close_people", + "text": "A few close people" + }, + { + "id": "a_lively_extended_circle", + "text": "A lively extended circle" + }, + { + "id": "helpful_neighbors", + "text": "Helpful neighbors" + }, + { + "id": "a_mix_of_friends_and_family", + "text": "A mix of friends and family" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" + "id": "a_few_close_people", + "text": "A few close people" + }, + { + "id": "a_lively_extended_circle", + "text": "A lively extended circle" + }, + { + "id": "helpful_neighbors", + "text": "Helpful neighbors" + }, + { + "id": "a_mix_of_friends_and_family", + "text": "A mix of friends and family" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_082", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which future gathering sounds most like us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "gatherings", + "preferences", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_casual_cookout", + "text": "A casual cookout" + }, + { + "id": "a_quiet_holiday_meal", + "text": "A quiet holiday meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_game_night", + "text": "A game night" + }, + { + "id": "a_gathering_that_ends_at_a_sensible_hour", + "text": "A gathering that ends at a sensible hour" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_casual_cookout", + "text": "A casual cookout" + }, + { + "id": "a_quiet_holiday_meal", + "text": "A quiet holiday meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_game_night", + "text": "A game night" + }, + { + "id": "a_gathering_that_ends_at_a_sensible_hour", + "text": "A gathering that ends at a sensible hour" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "future_083", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which habits could keep us connected to people we care about?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "relationships", + "community", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "plan_visits_before_months_disappear", + "text": "Plan visits before months disappear" + }, + { + "id": "keep_simple_traditions", + "text": "Keep simple traditions" + }, + { + "id": "make_room_for_calls", + "text": "Make room for calls" + }, + { + "id": "share_the_travel_effort", + "text": "Share the travel effort" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "plan_visits_before_months_disappear", + "text": "Plan visits before months disappear" + }, + { + "id": "keep_simple_traditions", + "text": "Keep simple traditions" + }, + { + "id": "make_room_for_calls", + "text": "Make room for calls" + }, + { + "id": "share_the_travel_effort", + "text": "Share the travel effort" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_084", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How social do you hope our future life feels?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "community", + "preferences", + "future" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Mostly private", + "max_label": "Very social" + } + }, + { + "id": "future_085", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which traditions should be allowed to retire without a formal investigation?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "humor", + "traditions", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "anything_everyone_dreads", + "text": "Anything everyone dreads" + }, + { + "id": "anything_requiring_three_days_of_cleanup", + "text": "Anything requiring three days of cleanup" + }, + { + "id": "anything_kept_only_from_guilt", + "text": "Anything kept only from guilt" + }, + { + "id": "the_one_nobody_remembers_starting", + "text": "The one nobody remembers starting" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "anything_everyone_dreads", + "text": "Anything everyone dreads" + }, + { + "id": "anything_requiring_three_days_of_cleanup", + "text": "Anything requiring three days of cleanup" + }, + { + "id": "anything_kept_only_from_guilt", + "text": "Anything kept only from guilt" + }, + { + "id": "the_one_nobody_remembers_starting", + "text": "The one nobody remembers starting" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_086", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which things deserve a yearly celebration even if nobody else understands?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "humor", + "celebrations", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_private_joke", + "text": "A private joke" + }, + { + "id": "a_tiny_shared_victory", + "text": "A tiny shared victory" + }, + { + "id": "the_day_something_finally_worked", + "text": "The day something finally worked" + }, + { + "id": "our_most_ridiculous_memory", + "text": "Our most ridiculous memory" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_private_joke", + "text": "A private joke" + }, + { + "id": "a_tiny_shared_victory", + "text": "A tiny shared victory" + }, + { + "id": "the_day_something_finally_worked", + "text": "The day something finally worked" + }, + { + "id": "our_most_ridiculous_memory", + "text": "Our most ridiculous memory" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_087", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make family gatherings easier for both of us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "family", + "boundaries", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_clear_arrival_and_departure_time", + "text": "A clear arrival and departure time" + }, + { + "id": "shared_signals_when_one_person_needs_a_break", + "text": "Shared signals when one person needs a break" + }, + { + "id": "no_surprise_commitments", + "text": "No surprise commitments" + }, + { + "id": "permission_to_split_up_sometimes", + "text": "Permission to split up sometimes" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_clear_arrival_and_departure_time", + "text": "A clear arrival and departure time" + }, + { + "id": "shared_signals_when_one_person_needs_a_break", + "text": "Shared signals when one person needs a break" + }, + { + "id": "no_surprise_commitments", + "text": "No surprise commitments" + }, + { + "id": "permission_to_split_up_sometimes", + "text": "Permission to split up sometimes" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_088", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which parts of our story would be fun to pass down?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "legacy", + "stories", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_we_met", + "text": "How we met" + }, + { + "id": "a_mistake_that_became_funny", + "text": "A mistake that became funny" + }, + { + "id": "a_tradition_we_invented", + "text": "A tradition we invented" + }, + { + "id": "something_difficult_we_built_together", + "text": "Something difficult we built together" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_we_met", + "text": "How we met" + }, + { + "id": "a_mistake_that_became_funny", + "text": "A mistake that became funny" + }, + { + "id": "a_tradition_we_invented", + "text": "A tradition we invented" + }, + { + "id": "something_difficult_we_built_together", + "text": "Something difficult we built together" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_089", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which role would you naturally take at future gatherings?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "gatherings", + "roles", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "host", + "text": "Host" + }, + { + "id": "food_person", + "text": "Food person" + }, + { + "id": "conversation_starter", + "text": "Conversation starter" + }, + { + "id": "person_quietly_restoring_order", + "text": "Person quietly restoring order" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "host", + "text": "Host" + }, + { + "id": "food_person", + "text": "Food person" + }, + { + "id": "conversation_starter", + "text": "Conversation starter" + }, + { + "id": "person_quietly_restoring_order", + "text": "Person quietly restoring order" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "future_090", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should remain voluntary in our future social life?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "community", + "autonomy", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_often_we_host", + "text": "How often we host" + }, + { + "id": "which_events_each_person_attends", + "text": "Which events each person attends" + }, + { + "id": "how_much_private_information_is_shared", + "text": "How much private information is shared" + }, + { + "id": "how_much_help_we_offer", + "text": "How much help we offer" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_often_we_host", + "text": "How often we host" + }, + { + "id": "which_events_each_person_attends", + "text": "Which events each person attends" + }, + { + "id": "how_much_private_information_is_shared", + "text": "How much private information is shared" + }, + { + "id": "how_much_help_we_offer", + "text": "How much help we offer" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_091", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of growth would you most like to see in us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "growth", + "relationship", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_patience", + "text": "More patience" + }, + { + "id": "more_playfulness", + "text": "More playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "better_teamwork", + "text": "Better teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "more_confidence_handling_change", + "text": "More confidence handling change" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_patience", + "text": "More patience" + }, + { + "id": "more_playfulness", + "text": "More playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "better_teamwork", + "text": "Better teamwork" + }, + { + "id": "more_confidence_handling_change", + "text": "More confidence handling change" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "future_092", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How could each of us keep growing as an individual?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "growth", + "individuality", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "time_for_separate_interests", + "text": "Time for separate interests" + }, + { + "id": "encouragement_without_pressure", + "text": "Encouragement without pressure" + }, + { + "id": "room_to_change_opinions", + "text": "Room to change opinions" + }, + { + "id": "support_for_learning", + "text": "Support for learning" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "time_for_separate_interests", + "text": "Time for separate interests" + }, + { + "id": "encouragement_without_pressure", + "text": "Encouragement without pressure" + }, + { + "id": "room_to_change_opinions", + "text": "Room to change opinions" + }, + { + "id": "support_for_learning", + "text": "Support for learning" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_093", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How supported do you feel in becoming your future self?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "support", + "current_state", + "future" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not supported enough", + "max_label": "Very supported" + } + }, + { + "id": "future_094", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Encourage a bold leap or help build a careful plan?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "support", + "quick_choice", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "encourage_a_bold_leap", + "text": "Encourage a bold leap" + }, + { + "id": "help_build_a_careful_plan", + "text": "Help build a careful plan" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "encourage_a_bold_leap", + "text": "Encourage a bold leap" + }, + { + "id": "help_build_a_careful_plan", + "text": "Help build a careful plan" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "future_095", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which qualities would you want future us to strengthen?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "growth", + "qualities", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "resilience", + "text": "Resilience" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "ability_to_laugh_under_pressure", + "text": "Ability to laugh under pressure" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "resilience", + "text": "Resilience" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" }, { "id": "honesty", "text": "Honesty" }, { - "id": "small_versions", - "text": "Small versions" - }, - { - "id": "revisit_later", - "text": "Revisit later" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" + "id": "ability_to_laugh_under_pressure", + "text": "Ability to laugh under pressure" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4361,151 +4522,52 @@ } }, { - "id": "future_200", + "id": "future_096", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What belongs in our someday bucket list?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "bucket_list", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_trip", - "text": "A trip" - }, - { - "id": "a_tradition", - "text": "A tradition" - }, - { - "id": "a_home_project", - "text": "A home project" - }, - { - "id": "a_silly_challenge", - "text": "A silly challenge" - }, - { - "id": "a_romantic_moment", - "text": "A romantic moment" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_201", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What belongs in our cozy future?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_mornings", - "text": "Soft mornings" - }, - { - "id": "good_food", - "text": "Good food" - }, - { - "id": "peaceful_nights", - "text": "Peaceful nights" - }, - { - "id": "little_rituals", - "text": "Little rituals" - }, - { - "id": "room_to_rest", - "text": "Room to rest" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_202", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What belongs in our adventurous future?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "adventure", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "new_places", - "text": "New places" - }, - { - "id": "bold_choices", - "text": "Bold choices" - }, - { - "id": "stories", - "text": "Stories" - }, - { - "id": "surprises", - "text": "Surprises" - }, - { - "id": "trying_things", - "text": "Trying things" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_203", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What belongs in our peaceful future?", + "text": "What helps support feel encouraging rather than pushy?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "peace", + "support", + "respect", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_what_kind_of_help_is_wanted", + "text": "Ask what kind of help is wanted" + }, + { + "id": "accept_a_slower_timeline", + "text": "Accept a slower timeline" + }, + { + "id": "notice_effort_without_grading_it", + "text": "Notice effort without grading it" + }, + { + "id": "let_the_goal_remain_theirs", + "text": "Let the goal remain theirs" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "less_rushing", - "text": "Less rushing" + "id": "ask_what_kind_of_help_is_wanted", + "text": "Ask what kind of help is wanted" }, { - "id": "more_honesty", - "text": "More honesty" + "id": "accept_a_slower_timeline", + "text": "Accept a slower timeline" }, { - "id": "better_boundaries", - "text": "Better boundaries" + "id": "notice_effort_without_grading_it", + "text": "Notice effort without grading it" }, { - "id": "more_rest", - "text": "More rest" - }, - { - "id": "steady_routines", - "text": "Steady routines" + "id": "let_the_goal_remain_theirs", + "text": "Let the goal remain theirs" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4513,1113 +4575,2552 @@ } }, { - "id": "future_204", + "id": "future_097", "category_id": "future", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What belongs in our romantic future?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should happen when one person's dream changes?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "date_nights", - "text": "Date nights" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_notes", - "text": "Sweet notes" - }, - { - "id": "slow_moments", - "text": "Slow moments" - }, - { - "id": "still_flirting", - "text": "Still flirting" - }, - { - "id": "shared_dreams", - "text": "Shared dreams" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_205", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should future-us protect like it is precious?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "protection", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "time_together", - "text": "Time together" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_206", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should future-us happily drop off at the curb?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "letting_go", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "comparison", - "text": "Comparison" - }, - { - "id": "old_pressure", - "text": "Old pressure" - }, - { - "id": "people_pleasing", - "text": "People-pleasing" - }, - { - "id": "rushing", - "text": "Rushing" - }, - { - "id": "perfect_timelines", - "text": "Perfect timelines" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_207", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes a future goal easier to start?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "goals", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_step", - "text": "Tiny step" - }, - { - "id": "fun_name", - "text": "Fun name" - }, - { - "id": "shared_why", - "text": "Shared why" - }, - { - "id": "clear_plan", - "text": "Clear plan" - }, - { - "id": "celebration", - "text": "Celebration" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_208", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us dream bigger?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", "tags": [ "dreams", + "change", "future" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "listen_before_reacting", + "text": "Listen before reacting" + }, + { + "id": "review_shared_effects", + "text": "Review shared effects" + }, + { + "id": "make_room_for_uncertainty", + "text": "Make room for uncertainty" + }, + { + "id": "build_a_new_plan_together", + "text": "Build a new plan together" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "encouragement", - "text": "Encouragement" + "id": "listen_before_reacting", + "text": "Listen before reacting" }, { - "id": "no_judgment", - "text": "No judgment" + "id": "review_shared_effects", + "text": "Review shared effects" }, { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" + "id": "make_room_for_uncertainty", + "text": "Make room for uncertainty" }, { - "id": "hope", - "text": "Hope" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" + "id": "build_a_new_plan_together", + "text": "Build a new plan together" } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 + ] } }, { - "id": "future_209", + "id": "future_098", "category_id": "future", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us keep the dream alive while checking the map?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "realism", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_steps", - "text": "Small steps" - }, - { - "id": "kind_honesty", - "text": "Kind honesty" - }, - { - "id": "flexible_plans", - "text": "Flexible plans" - }, - { - "id": "budget_talk", - "text": "Budget talk" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_210", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would make future planning feel more Closer-style?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "silly_prompts", - "text": "Silly prompts" - }, - { - "id": "dreamy_choices", - "text": "Dreamy choices" - }, - { - "id": "warm_wording", - "text": "Warm wording" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_rituals", - "text": "Tiny rituals" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_energy", - "text": "Date-night energy" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "future_211", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How fun does future dreaming feel between us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not fun", - "max_label": "Very fun" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_212", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our future?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "hope", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not hopeful", - "max_label": "Very hopeful" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_213", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to talk about small goals?", + "text": "Which future versions of ourselves deserve room to exist?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "small_goals", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_214", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would a dream jar help us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "dreams", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_215", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How clear does our next tiny step feel?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "small_steps", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not clear", - "max_label": "Very clear" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_216", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you enjoy dreaming together?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "dreams", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_217", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does future-us make you smile?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future_us", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_218", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to talk about big dreams?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "dreams", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_219", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How cozy and safe does future planning feel?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "safety", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_220", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does future talk feel pressure-y right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pressure", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_221", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect both voices in future plans?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_222", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do our future priorities feel like they are dancing together?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "priorities", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not aligned", - "max_label": "Very aligned" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_223", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to talk about future money without losing the sparkle?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "money", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_224", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to talk about future family choices without pressure?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "family", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_225", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to talk about where we want to live?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_226", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How excited are you about building traditions together?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "traditions", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not excited", - "max_label": "Very excited" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_227", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we need more fun in future planning?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_228", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How peaceful does our future feel in your mind?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "peace", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not peaceful", - "max_label": "Very peaceful" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_229", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How adventurous does our future feel in your mind?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "adventure", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not adventurous", - "max_label": "Very adventurous" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_230", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How cozy does our future feel in your mind?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not cozy", - "max_label": "Very cozy" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_231", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How romantic does our future feel in your mind?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not romantic", - "max_label": "Very romantic" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_232", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we celebrate progress?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_233", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to dream without needing all the answers?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "uncertainty", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_234", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we dream and plan without rushing each other?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pace", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_235", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you believe we can build a life that feels like us?", - "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "identity", + "growth", "future" ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "future_236", - "category_id": "future", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Dream jar or bucket list?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "future" + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_confident_versions", + "text": "More confident versions" + }, + { + "id": "quieter_versions", + "text": "Quieter versions" + }, + { + "id": "more_adventurous_versions", + "text": "More adventurous versions" + }, + { + "id": "versions_we_cannot_picture_yet", + "text": "Versions we cannot picture yet" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "dream_jar", - "text": "Dream jar" + "id": "more_confident_versions", + "text": "More confident versions" }, { - "id": "bucket_list", - "text": "Bucket list" + "id": "quieter_versions", + "text": "Quieter versions" + }, + { + "id": "more_adventurous_versions", + "text": "More 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"text": "Which future personal victories would make you proudest of me?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "support", + "milestones", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "protecting_my_peace", + "text": "Protecting my peace" + }, + { + "id": "taking_a_meaningful_risk", + "text": "Taking a meaningful risk" + }, + { + "id": "finishing_something_difficult", + "text": "Finishing something difficult" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_a_life_that_fits_me", + "text": "Choosing a life that fits me" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "protecting_my_peace", + "text": "Protecting my peace" + }, + { + "id": "taking_a_meaningful_risk", + "text": "Taking a meaningful risk" + }, + { + "id": "finishing_something_difficult", + "text": "Finishing something difficult" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_a_life_that_fits_me", + "text": "Choosing a life that fits me" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_102", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should stay true while either of us changes?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "change", + "stability", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "basic_respect", + "text": "Basic respect" + }, + { + "id": "freedom_to_speak_honestly", + "text": "Freedom to speak honestly" + }, + { + "id": "shared_decisions_still_include_both_people", + "text": "Shared decisions still include both people" + }, + { + "id": "love_is_not_used_to_stop_growth", + "text": "Love is not used to stop growth" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "basic_respect", + "text": "Basic respect" + }, + { + "id": "freedom_to_speak_honestly", + "text": "Freedom to speak honestly" + }, + { + "id": "shared_decisions_still_include_both_people", + "text": "Shared decisions still include both people" + }, + { + "id": "love_is_not_used_to_stop_growth", + "text": "Love is not used to stop growth" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_103", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which kinds of support are easiest to receive?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "support", + "preferences", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "practical_help", + "text": "Practical help" + }, + { + "id": "encouraging_words", + "text": "Encouraging words" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_confidence", + "text": "Quiet confidence" + }, + { + "id": "help_making_a_first_step", + "text": "Help making a first step" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "practical_help", + "text": "Practical help" + }, + { + "id": "encouraging_words", + "text": "Encouraging words" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_confidence", + "text": "Quiet confidence" + }, + { + "id": "help_making_a_first_step", + "text": "Help making a first step" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_104", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What future skill could save us from an impressive amount of chaos?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "humor", + "skills", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "basic_repair_skills", + "text": "Basic repair skills" + }, + { + "id": "meal_planning", + "text": "Meal planning" + }, + { + "id": "better_packing", + "text": "Better packing" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_where_important_documents_live", + "text": "Remembering where important documents live" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "basic_repair_skills", + "text": "Basic repair skills" + }, + { + "id": "meal_planning", + "text": "Meal planning" + }, + { + "id": "better_packing", + "text": "Better packing" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_where_important_documents_live", + "text": "Remembering where important documents live" } ] } }, { - "id": "future_244", + "id": "future_105", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can our future 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"stay_near_familiar_people", + "text": "Stay near familiar people" + }, + { + "id": "move_somewhere_that_suits_later_life", + "text": "Move somewhere that suits later life" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "future_110", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which parts of aging are easiest to joke about?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "humor", + "aging", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "needing_better_lighting", + "text": "Needing better lighting" + }, + { + "id": "making_noises_when_standing_up", + "text": "Making noises when standing up" + }, + { + "id": "owning_strong_opinions_about_chairs", + "text": "Owning strong opinions about chairs" + }, + { + "id": "going_somewhere_mainly_for_the_parking", + "text": "Going somewhere mainly for the parking" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "needing_better_lighting", + "text": "Needing better lighting" + }, + { + "id": "making_noises_when_standing_up", + "text": 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"text": "Access to care" + }, + { + "id": "people_nearby", + "text": "People nearby" + }, + { + "id": "affordability", + "text": "Affordability" + }, + { + "id": "daily_independence", + "text": "Daily independence" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "future_113", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which practical plans could reduce stress later?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "planning", + "aging", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_important_documents_organized", + "text": "Keep important documents organized" + }, + { + "id": "discuss_general_care_preferences", + "text": "Discuss general care preferences" + }, + { + "id": "know_who_to_call", + "text": "Know who to call" + }, + { + "id": "review_plans_as_life_changes", + "text": "Review plans as life changes" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_important_documents_organized", + "text": "Keep important documents organized" + }, + { + "id": 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{ + "id": "career_plans", + "text": "Career plans" + }, + { + "id": "travel_plans", + "text": "Travel plans" + }, + { + "id": "moving_timelines", + "text": "Moving timelines" + }, + { + "id": "anything_involving_other_humans", + "text": "Anything involving other humans" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "career_plans", + "text": "Career plans" + }, + { + "id": "travel_plans", + "text": "Travel plans" + }, + { + "id": "moving_timelines", + "text": "Moving timelines" + }, + { + "id": "anything_involving_other_humans", + "text": "Anything involving other humans" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_126", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would help us respond well when life changes the plan?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "change", + "teamwork", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "pause_before_blaming", + "text": "Pause before blaming" + }, + { + "id": 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"future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can keep a changed dream from feeling like failure?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "dreams", + "change", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_what_the_old_dream_gave_us", + "text": "Name what the old dream gave us" + }, + { + "id": "notice_what_fits_better_now", + "text": "Notice what fits better now" + }, + { + "id": "allow_disappointment", + "text": "Allow disappointment" + }, + { + "id": "build_a_new_version", + "text": "Build a new version" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_what_the_old_dream_gave_us", + "text": "Name what the old dream gave us" + }, + { + "id": "notice_what_fits_better_now", + "text": "Notice what fits better now" + }, + { + "id": "allow_disappointment", + "text": "Allow disappointment" + }, + { + "id": "build_a_new_version", + "text": "Build a new version" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_131", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which phrase should future us keep available at all times?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "humor", + "flexibility", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_can_change_the_plan", + "text": "We can change the plan" + }, + { + "id": "let_us_sleep_on_it", + "text": "Let us sleep on it" + }, + { + "id": "that_timeline_was_imaginary", + "text": "That timeline was imaginary" + }, + { + "id": "we_do_not_have_to_decide_today", + "text": "We do not have to decide today" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_can_change_the_plan", + "text": "We can change the plan" + }, + { + "id": "let_us_sleep_on_it", + "text": "Let us sleep on it" + }, + { + "id": "that_timeline_was_imaginary", + "text": "That timeline was imaginary" + }, + { + "id": "we_do_not_have_to_decide_today", + "text": "We do not have to decide today" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "future_132", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps different levels of certainty coexist?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "differences", + "uncertainty", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_forcing_a_quick_answer", + "text": "No forcing a quick answer" + }, + { + "id": "share_what_each_person_knows", + "text": "Share what each person knows" + }, + { + "id": "separate_hopes_from_commitments", + "text": "Separate hopes from commitments" + }, + { + "id": "set_a_time_to_revisit", + "text": "Set a time to revisit" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_forcing_a_quick_answer", + "text": "No forcing a quick answer" + }, + { + "id": "share_what_each_person_knows", + "text": "Share what each person knows" + }, + { + "id": "separate_hopes_from_commitments", + "text": "Separate hopes from commitments" + }, + { + "id": "set_a_time_to_revisit", + "text": "Set a time to revisit" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_133", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs mean a future conversation needs a pause?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "planning", + "pause", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_person_feels_cornered", + "text": "One person feels cornered" + }, + { + "id": "the_same_argument_repeats", + "text": "The same argument repeats" + }, + { + "id": "the_plan_becomes_a_test_of_love", + "text": "The plan becomes a test of love" + }, + { + "id": "nobody_is_listening_anymore", + "text": "Nobody is listening anymore" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_person_feels_cornered", + "text": "One person feels cornered" + }, + { + "id": "the_same_argument_repeats", + "text": "The same argument repeats" + }, + { + "id": "the_plan_becomes_a_test_of_love", + "text": "The plan becomes a test of love" + }, + { + "id": "nobody_is_listening_anymore", + "text": "Nobody is listening anymore" + } + ], + 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"Freedom to choose differently" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_135", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should remain true even when our plans change completely?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "change", + "stability", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_voices_matter", + "text": "Both voices matter" + }, + { + "id": "no_milestone_is_owed", + "text": "No milestone is owed" + }, + { + "id": "safety_comes_before_appearances", + "text": "Safety comes before appearances" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_ask_for_outside_support", + "text": "We can ask for outside support" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_voices_matter", + "text": "Both voices matter" + }, + { + "id": "no_milestone_is_owed", + "text": "No milestone is owed" + }, + { + "id": "safety_comes_before_appearances", + "text": "Safety comes before appearances" + }, + { + "id": 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"text": "Both people still have choices" + }, + { + "id": "we_recover_well_when_plans_change", + "text": "We recover well when plans change" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "future_137", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should guide our biggest future decisions?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "decisions", + "values", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_daily_life_will_feel", + "text": "How daily life will feel" + }, + { + "id": "what_protects_both_people", + "text": "What protects both people" + }, + { + "id": "what_we_can_realistically_sustain", + "text": "What we can realistically sustain" + }, + { + "id": "what_matters_more_than_appearances", + "text": "What matters more than appearances" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_daily_life_will_feel", + "text": "How daily life will feel" + }, + { + "id": "what_protects_both_people", + "text": "What protects both people" + }, + { + "id": 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"text": "We will ask for help when needed" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" + "id": "we_will_keep_talking_honestly", + "text": "We will keep talking honestly" }, { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" + "id": "we_will_revise_plans_together", + "text": "We will revise plans together" + }, + { + "id": "we_will_protect_each_other_s_choices", + "text": "We will protect each other's choices" + }, + { + "id": "we_will_ask_for_help_when_needed", + "text": "We will ask for help when needed" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "future_246", + "id": "future_141", "category_id": "future", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "More roots or more wings?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "identity", - "future" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "roots", - "text": "More roots" - }, - { - "id": "wings", - "text": "More wings" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "future_247", - 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"future_250", + "id": "future_143", "category_id": "future", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Build the plan or throw confetti for progress?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which things are worth checking every year?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "progress", - "future", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "review", + "planning", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "whether_our_priorities_changed", + "text": "Whether our priorities changed" + }, + { + "id": "whether_our_pace_still_works", + "text": "Whether our pace still works" + }, + { + "id": "whether_a_goal_still_matters", + "text": "Whether a goal still matters" + }, + { + "id": "whether_we_need_more_fun", + "text": "Whether we need more fun" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "build_plan", - "text": "Build the plan" + "id": "whether_our_priorities_changed", + "text": "Whether our priorities changed" }, { - "id": "celebrate_progress", - "text": "Celebrate 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[ + { + "id": "no_meeting_when_hungry", + "text": "No meeting when hungry" + }, + { + "id": "no_surprise_spreadsheets", + "text": "No surprise spreadsheets" + }, + { + "id": "one_ridiculous_idea_is_required", + "text": "One ridiculous idea is required" + }, + { + "id": "the_meeting_ends_before_anyone_says_synergy", + "text": "The meeting ends before anyone says synergy" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_meeting_when_hungry", + "text": "No meeting when hungry" + }, + { + "id": "no_surprise_spreadsheets", + "text": "No surprise spreadsheets" + }, + { + "id": "one_ridiculous_idea_is_required", + "text": "One ridiculous idea is required" + }, + { + "id": "the_meeting_ends_before_anyone_says_synergy", + "text": "The meeting ends before anyone says synergy" } ] } + }, + { + "id": "future_147", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should we keep choosing even after life becomes settled?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "commitment", + "connection", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "curiosity_about_each_other", + "text": "Curiosity about each other" + }, + { + "id": "time_that_is_not_only_practical", + "text": "Time that is not only practical" + }, + { + "id": "individual_growth", + "text": "Individual growth" + }, + { + "id": "a_sense_of_humor", + "text": "A sense of humor" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "curiosity_about_each_other", + "text": "Curiosity about each other" + }, + { + "id": "time_that_is_not_only_practical", + "text": "Time that is not only practical" + }, + { + "id": "individual_growth", + "text": "Individual growth" + }, + { + "id": "a_sense_of_humor", + "text": "A sense of humor" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_148", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs would show one person's future is taking over?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "fairness", + "warning_signs", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "only_one_career_gets_protected", + "text": "Only one career gets protected" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_makes_every_major_decision", + "text": "One person makes every major decision" + }, + { + "id": "sacrifices_always_go_the_same_direction", + "text": "Sacrifices always go the same direction" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_s_interests_keep_disappearing", + "text": "One person's interests keep disappearing" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "only_one_career_gets_protected", + "text": "Only one career gets protected" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_makes_every_major_decision", + "text": "One person makes every major decision" + }, + { + "id": "sacrifices_always_go_the_same_direction", + "text": "Sacrifices always go the same direction" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_s_interests_keep_disappearing", + "text": "One person's interests keep disappearing" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_149", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which things could make our future feel successful even if it looks unconventional?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "success", + "autonomy", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_fits_our_actual_values", + "text": "It fits our actual values" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_feel_free", + "text": "Both people feel free" + }, + { + "id": "daily_life_feels_sustainable", + "text": "Daily life feels sustainable" + }, + { + "id": "we_still_like_who_we_are_becoming", + "text": "We still like who we are becoming" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_fits_our_actual_values", + "text": "It fits our actual values" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_feel_free", + "text": "Both people feel free" + }, + { + "id": "daily_life_feels_sustainable", + "text": "Daily life feels sustainable" + }, + { + "id": "we_still_like_who_we_are_becoming", + "text": "We still like who we are becoming" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "future_150", + "category_id": "future", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would you most want future us to remember about this stage of life?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "memory", + "meaning", + "future" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_were_allowed_to_be_uncertain", + "text": "We were allowed to be uncertain" + }, + { + "id": "small_choices_mattered", + "text": "Small choices mattered" + }, + { + "id": "we_kept_making_room_for_both_people", + "text": "We kept making room for both people" + }, + { + "id": "the_plan_was_never_more_important_than_us", + "text": "The plan was never more important than us" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_were_allowed_to_be_uncertain", + "text": "We were allowed to be uncertain" + }, + { + "id": "small_choices_mattered", + "text": "Small choices mattered" + }, + { + "id": "we_kept_making_room_for_both_people", + "text": "We kept making room for both people" + }, + { + "id": "the_plan_was_never_more_important_than_us", + "text": "The plan was never more important than us" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/money.json b/seed/questions/money.json index 052333bc..0dd83d33 100644 --- a/seed/questions/money.json +++ b/seed/questions/money.json @@ -2,4872 +2,465 @@ "category": { "id": "money", "display_name": "Money", - "description": "Warm, fun-first, shame-free questions that help couples talk about spending, saving, bills, debt, goals, dreams, fairness, stress, and building a life together.", + "description": "Warm, practical, shame-free questions about spending, bills, saving, debt, fairness, independence, uncertainty, family expectations, and building a financial life together.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "paid", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - } + "multi_choice": 90, + "single_choice": 30, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 32, + "2": 55, + "3": 63 + }, + "legacy_question_count": 250, + "catalog_change": -100, + "content_version": "money_150_final_v5", + "mass_rewrite_reason": "The legacy pack contained 250 questions, including 150 written responses, legacy depths up to 5, and repeated goal-template blocks. More than 60 percent of the pack failed the current writing and interaction standards.", + "pack_boundary": "Money owns everyday spending, bills, savings, debt, credit, fairness, income differences, financial stress, emergency planning, big goals, generosity, and family money expectations. General honesty belongs in trust; household chore division belongs in home_life.", + "safety_boundary": "Questions must not normalize financial control, forced account access, total loss of personal money, coercive approval rules, hidden debt, or using income to dominate shared decisions.", + "review_workflow": "Six 25-question production batches with full-pack type, access, voice, schema, repetition, option-fit, and financial-control safety validation.", + "final_validation": "pass", + "batch_review": [ + { + "batch": 1, + "first_id": "money_001", + "last_id": "money_025", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 2, + "first_id": "money_026", + "last_id": "money_050", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 3, + "first_id": "money_051", + "last_id": "money_075", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 4, + "first_id": "money_076", + "last_id": "money_100", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 5, + "first_id": "money_101", + "last_id": "money_125", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 6, + "first_id": "money_126", + "last_id": "money_150", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + } + ], + "fifty_question_checkpoints": [ + { + "checkpoint": 1, + "first_id": "money_001", + "last_id": "money_050", + "count": 50, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "checkpoint": 2, + "first_id": "money_051", + "last_id": "money_100", + "count": 50, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "checkpoint": 3, + "first_id": "money_101", + "last_id": "money_150", + "count": 50, + "status": "PASS" + } + ], + "final_review": "Final editorial and production pass completed. Corrected five prompt-to-option mismatches left by earlier type conversions and softened two phrases involving personal spending and emergencies. Revalidated all schema fields, counts, mirrored options, option fit, uniqueness, prompt length, repetition, financial-control framing, six 25-question batches, and three 50-question checkpoints.", + "final_editorial_patches": 7 } }, "questions": [ { "id": "money_001", "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would be a fun thing for us to save for together?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which purchase feels easiest to justify without a second thought?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "saving", - "fun", - "goals", + "everyday", + "preferences", "money" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_food", + "text": "Good food" + }, + { + "id": "something_that_saves_time", + "text": "Something that saves time" + }, + { + "id": "a_small_comfort", + "text": "A small comfort" + }, + { + "id": "a_useful_upgrade", + "text": "A useful upgrade" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_food", + "text": "Good food" + }, + { + "id": "something_that_saves_time", + "text": "Something that saves time" + }, + { + "id": "a_small_comfort", + "text": "A small comfort" + }, + { + "id": "a_useful_upgrade", + "text": "A useful upgrade" + } + ] } }, { "id": "money_002", "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What small treat feels worth making room for in the budget?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a small purchase feel worth it to you?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fun_money", - "treats", + "everyday", + "value", "money" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_gets_used_often", + "text": "It gets used often" + }, + { + "id": "it_makes_life_easier", + "text": "It makes life easier" + }, + { + "id": "it_lasts_a_long_time", + "text": "It lasts a long time" + }, + { + "id": "it_creates_a_good_memory", + "text": "It creates a good memory" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_gets_used_often", + "text": "It gets used often" + }, + { + "id": "it_makes_life_easier", + "text": "It makes life easier" + }, + { + "id": "it_lasts_a_long_time", + "text": "It lasts a long time" + }, + { + "id": "it_creates_a_good_memory", + "text": "It creates a good memory" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "money_003", "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one purchase that usually feels like money well spent?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Spend less now or buy the better version once?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "spending", - "values", + "quick_choice", + "value", "money" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "spend_less_now", + "text": "Spend less now" + }, + { + "id": "buy_the_better_version_once", + "text": "Buy the better version once" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "spend_less_now", + "text": "Spend less now" + }, + { + "id": "buy_the_better_version_once", + "text": "Buy the better version once" + } + ] } }, { "id": "money_004", "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a money talk feel more like teamwork and less like a chore?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which expenses quietly eat more money than expected?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "teamwork", + "awareness", + "everyday", "money" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "delivery_fees", + "text": "Delivery fees" + }, + { + "id": "small_convenience_stops", + "text": "Small convenience stops" + }, + { + "id": "subscriptions", + "text": "Subscriptions" + }, + { + "id": "last_minute_shopping", + "text": "Last-minute shopping" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "delivery_fees", + "text": "Delivery fees" + }, + { + "id": "small_convenience_stops", + "text": "Small convenience stops" + }, + { + "id": "subscriptions", + "text": "Subscriptions" + }, + { + "id": "last_minute_shopping", + "text": "Last-minute shopping" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "money_005", "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one tiny money win we could celebrate this week?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should count as a completely guilt-free purchase?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "wins", - "weekly", + "fun_money", + "preferences", "money" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_favorite_meal", + "text": "A favorite meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_hobby_item", + "text": "A hobby item" + }, + { + "id": "something_that_saves_an_awful_chore", + "text": "Something that saves an awful chore" + }, + { + "id": "a_small_treat_after_a_hard_week", + "text": "A small treat after a hard week" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_favorite_meal", + "text": "A favorite meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_hobby_item", + "text": "A hobby item" + }, + { + "id": "something_that_saves_an_awful_chore", + "text": "Something that saves an awful chore" + }, + { + "id": "a_small_treat_after_a_hard_week", + "text": "A small treat after a hard week" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "money_006", "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What dream would make saving feel exciting instead of restrictive?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which receipt has the strongest courtroom evidence against us?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "dreams", - "saving", + "humor", + "everyday", "money" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_grocery_receipt", + "text": "The grocery receipt" + }, + { + "id": "the_hardware_store_receipt", + "text": "The hardware-store receipt" + }, + { + "id": "the_online_order_history", + "text": "The online order history" + }, + { + "id": "the_mysterious_gas_station_total", + "text": "The mysterious gas-station total" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_grocery_receipt", + "text": "The grocery receipt" + }, + { + "id": "the_hardware_store_receipt", + "text": "The hardware-store receipt" + }, + { + "id": "the_online_order_history", + "text": "The online order history" + }, + { + "id": "the_mysterious_gas_station_total", + "text": "The mysterious gas-station total" + } + ] } }, { "id": "money_007", "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of date would feel special without costing much?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you decide whether to buy something now?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "date_fund", - "low_cost", + "decisions", + "spending", "money" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "checking_the_budget", + "text": "Checking the budget" + }, + { + "id": "waiting_a_day", + "text": "Waiting a day" + }, + { + "id": "comparing_the_real_value", + "text": "Comparing the real value" + }, + { + "id": "talking_if_it_affects_shared_plans", + "text": "Talking if it affects shared plans" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "checking_the_budget", + "text": "Checking the budget" + }, + { + "id": "waiting_a_day", + "text": "Waiting a day" + }, + { + "id": "comparing_the_real_value", + "text": "Comparing the real value" + }, + { + "id": "talking_if_it_affects_shared_plans", + "text": "Talking if it affects shared plans" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "money_008", "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one cozy thing at home that feels richer than going out?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "home", - "cozy", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_009", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one money habit that would make future us grateful?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future", - "habits", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_010", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of splurge feels romantic instead of wasteful?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "spending", - "romance", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_011", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What small bill or expense would feel amazing to finally simplify?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "bills", - "simplicity", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_012", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a budget feel freeing instead of restrictive?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "budget", - "freedom", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_013", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we could stop buying and barely miss?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "spending", - "simplicity", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_014", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we should keep buying because it genuinely improves life?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "spending", - "quality_of_life", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_015", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What money goal would make our home feel more peaceful?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "goals", - "home", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_016", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one financial habit that could lower stress quickly?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "habits", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_017", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel safe during money talks?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "safety", - "communication", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_018", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel included in money decisions?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "decisions", - "inclusion", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_019", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel trusted with money choices?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "trust", - "decisions", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_020", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we could make saving a little more fun?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - 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"access": "free", - "tags": [ - "ending", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "next_step", - "text": "Next step" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "thank_you", - "text": "Thank you" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_win", - "text": "Tiny win" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_163", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which purchase would feel most like investing in us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "spending", - "relationship", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "date_night", - "text": "Date night" - }, - { - "id": "home_comfort", - "text": "Home comfort" - }, - { - "id": "time_together", - "text": "Time together" - }, - { - "id": "stress_relief", - "text": "Stress relief" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_164", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What lowers money stress fastest?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "knowing_numbers", - "text": "Knowing numbers" - }, - { - "id": "small_plan", - "text": "Small plan" - }, - { - "id": "kind_talk", - "text": "Kind talk" - }, - { - "id": "one_step", - "text": "One step" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_165", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What money mood do you want more of?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "mood", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "peaceful", - "text": "Peaceful" - }, - { - "id": "hopeful", - "text": "Hopeful" - }, - { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" - }, - { - "id": "confident", - "text": "Confident" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_166", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which fund should we make more exciting?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "saving", - "fun", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "date_fund", - "text": "Date fund" - }, - { - "id": "emergency_fund", - "text": "Emergency fund" - }, - { - "id": "trip_fund", - "text": "Trip fund" - }, - { - "id": "home_fund", - "text": "Home fund" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_167", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes debt talk less heavy?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "debt", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_shame", - "text": "No shame" - }, - { - "id": "small_steps", - "text": "Small steps" - }, - { - "id": "team_language", - "text": "Team language" - }, - { - "id": "clear_plan", - "text": "Clear plan" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_168", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps if one of us overspends?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "overspending", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_pile_on", - "text": "No pile-on" - }, - { - "id": "find_trigger", - "text": "Find the trigger" - }, - { - "id": "adjust_plan", - "text": "Adjust the plan" - }, - { - "id": "repair_trust", - "text": "Repair trust" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_169", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes personal spending feel fair?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "personal_spending", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "same_amount", - "text": "Same amount" - }, - { - "id": "needs_based", - "text": "Needs-based" - }, - { - "id": "talk_over_limit", - "text": "Talk over a limit" - }, - { - "id": "separate_fun_money", - "text": "Separate fun money" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_170", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of transparency feels healthiest?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "transparency", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_goals", - "text": "Shared goals" - }, - { - "id": "big_purchases", - "text": "Big purchases" - }, - { - "id": "bill_awareness", - "text": "Bill awareness" - }, - { - "id": "no_snooping", - "text": "No snooping" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_171", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps with family money pressure?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "family", - "boundaries", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_boundary", - "text": "Shared boundary" - }, - { - "id": "kind_no", - "text": "Kind no" - }, - { - "id": "private_talk_first", - "text": "Private talk first" - }, - { - "id": "no_guilt", - "text": "No guilt" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_172", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes unexpected expenses feel less scary?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "unexpected_expenses", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "emergency_cushion", - "text": "Emergency cushion" - }, - { - "id": "calm_talk", - "text": "Calm talk" - }, - { - "id": "prioritize", - "text": "Prioritize" - }, - { - "id": "one_step", - "text": "One step" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_173", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of bill system sounds least stressful?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "bills", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "auto_pay", - "text": "Auto-pay" - }, - { - "id": "shared_calendar", - "text": "Shared calendar" - }, - { - "id": "weekly_review", - "text": "Weekly review" - }, - { - "id": "one_person_tracks", - "text": "One person tracks" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_174", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps if income changes?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "income", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "early_talk", - "text": "Early talk" - }, - { - "id": "temporary_plan", - "text": "Temporary plan" - }, - { - "id": "shared_priorities", - "text": "Shared priorities" - }, - { - "id": "team_mindset", - "text": "Team mindset" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_175", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes generosity feel good, not stressful?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "generosity", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "planned", - "text": "Planned" - }, - { - "id": "within_limits", - "text": "Within limits" - }, - { - "id": "shared_value", - "text": "Shared value" - }, - { - "id": "not_for_approval", - "text": "Not for approval" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_176", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a budget date sound less awful?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "budget", - "fun", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "snacks", - "text": "Snacks" - }, - { - "id": "music", - "text": "Music" - }, - { - "id": "short_timer", - "text": "Short timer" - }, - { - "id": "reward_after", - "text": "Reward after" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_177", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we put in a dream jar?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "dreams", - "saving", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trip_ideas", - "text": "Trip ideas" - }, - { - "id": "home_ideas", - "text": "Home ideas" - }, - { - "id": "date_ideas", - "text": "Date ideas" - }, - { - "id": "future_wishes", - "text": "Future wishes" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_178", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of spending boundary feels loving?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "big_purchase_talk", - "text": "Talk before big purchases" - }, - { - "id": "no_secret_debt", - "text": "No secret debt" - }, - { - "id": "fun_money", - "text": "Fun money" - }, - { - "id": "family_limits", - "text": "Family limits" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_179", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps money talks not turn into blame?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "no_blame", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "use_we", - "text": "Use we" - }, - { - "id": "facts_first", - "text": "Facts first" - }, - { - "id": "one_topic", - "text": "One topic" - }, - { - "id": "soft_tone", - "text": "Soft tone" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_180", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we review first in a check-in?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "check_in", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "goals", - "text": "Goals" - }, - { - "id": "bills", - "text": "Bills" - }, - { - "id": "stress_level", - "text": "Stress level" - }, - { - "id": "next_step", - "text": "Next step" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_181", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What money pattern needs the most kindness?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "patterns", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - }, - { - "id": "worrying", - "text": "Worrying" - }, - { - "id": "overspending", - "text": "Overspending" - }, - { - "id": "control", - "text": "Control" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_182", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when our priorities differ?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "priorities", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_overlap", - "text": "Find overlap" - }, - { - "id": "take_turns", - "text": "Take turns" - }, - { - "id": "name_both", - "text": "Name both" - }, - { - "id": "make_plan", - "text": "Make a plan" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_183", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes saving together feel romantic?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "saving", - "romance", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_dream", - "text": "Shared dream" - }, - { - "id": "date_fund", - "text": "Date fund" - }, - { - "id": "home_goal", - "text": "Home goal" - }, - { - "id": "future_peace", - "text": "Future peace" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_184", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a splurge feel worth it?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "spending", - "values", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "memories", - "text": "Memories" - }, - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "time_saved", - "text": "Time saved" - }, - { - "id": "shared_joy", - "text": "Shared joy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_185", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us recover from a money mistake?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mistakes", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_shame", - "text": "No shame" - }, - { - "id": "learn_from_it", - "text": "Learn from it" - }, - { - "id": "fix_plan", - "text": "Fix plan" - }, - { - "id": "move_forward", - "text": "Move forward" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_186", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of money goal feels most like us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "goals", - "identity", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "homey", - "text": "Homey" - }, - { - "id": "adventurous", - "text": "Adventurous" - }, - { - "id": "peaceful", - "text": "Peaceful" - }, - { - "id": "freedom_focused", - "text": "Freedom-focused" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_187", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes shared money feel fair?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fairness", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "both_get_voice", - "text": "Both get a voice" - }, - { - "id": "flexibility", - "text": "Flexibility" - }, - { - "id": "clear_roles", - "text": "Clear roles" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_188", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps with money anxiety?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "anxiety", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "facts", - "text": "Facts" - }, - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "one_step", - "text": "One step" - }, - { - "id": "no_blame", - "text": "No blame" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_189", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of financial progress should we celebrate more?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "progress", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_savings", - "text": "Small savings" - }, - { - "id": "paid_on_time", - "text": "Paid on time" - }, - { - "id": "kind_talk", - "text": "Kind talk" - }, - { - "id": "skipped_impulse", - "text": "Skipped impulse" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_190", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us balance now and later?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future", - "balance", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_fun", - "text": "Small fun" - }, - { - "id": "clear_savings", - "text": "Clear savings" - }, - { - "id": "shared_goal", - "text": "Shared goal" - }, - { - "id": "monthly_reset", - "text": "Monthly reset" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_191", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What 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"text": "What makes family money pressure easier to handle?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "family", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_agreement", - "text": "Private agreement" - }, - { - "id": "shared_script", - "text": "Shared script" - }, - { - "id": "clear_limit", - "text": "Clear limit" - }, - { - "id": "kind_no", - "text": "Kind no" - }, - { - "id": "no_guilt", - "text": "No guilt" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "money_209", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes income changes easier to handle?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "income", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "early_notice", - "text": "Early notice" - }, - { - "id": "temporary_plan", - "text": "Temporary plan" - }, - { - "id": "shared_priorities", - "text": "Shared priorities" - }, - { - "id": "less_blame", - "text": "Less blame" - 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"min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not fun", - "max_label": "Very fun" - } - }, - { - "id": "money_212", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our money goals?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "hope", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not hopeful", - "max_label": "Very hopeful" - } - }, - { - "id": "money_213", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How calm do money talks feel between us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "calm", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not calm", - "max_label": "Very calm" - } - }, - { - "id": "money_214", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we feel like a team with money?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - 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"personal_spending", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not fair", - "max_label": "Very fair" - } - }, - { - "id": "money_222", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we handle unexpected expenses?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "unexpected_expenses", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "money_223", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do family expectations affect our money?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "family", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "money_224", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to discuss a big purchase?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "big_purchases", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "money_225", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does money affect trust between us?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "trust", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "money_226", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you with our current bill system?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "bills", + "comfort", + "current_state", "money" ], "answer_config": { @@ -4878,531 +471,6651 @@ } }, { - "id": "money_227", + "id": "money_009", "category_id": "money", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much freedom do you feel with personal money?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "freedom", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not enough", - "max_label": "Plenty" - } - }, - { - "id": "money_228", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we balance fun and responsibility?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "balance", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "money_229", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How honest do money talks feel?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "honesty", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not honest", - "max_label": "Very honest" - } - }, - { - "id": "money_230", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does avoidance affect our finances?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "avoidance", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "money_231", - 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purchase that changes shared space" + }, + { + "id": "something_bought_with_shared_savings", + "text": "Something bought with shared savings" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "money_238", + "id": "money_010", "category_id": "money", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Budget talk or budget date?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is most likely to make you abandon a shopping list?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "humor", + "habits", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_sale_sign_with_excellent_confidence", + "text": "A sale sign with excellent confidence" + }, + { + "id": "shopping_while_hungry", + "text": "Shopping while hungry" + }, + { + "id": "a_recommendation_from_someone_persuasive", + "text": "A recommendation from someone persuasive" + }, + { + "id": "a_limited_time_offer_that_knows_too_much", + "text": "A limited-time offer that knows too much" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": 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"text": "Automatic payments with review" + }, + { + "id": "clear_responsibility", + "text": "Clear responsibility" + }, + { + "id": "a_buffer_before_due_dates", + "text": "A buffer before due dates" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_shared_due_date_list", + "text": "A shared due-date list" + }, + { + "id": "automatic_payments_with_review", + "text": "Automatic payments with review" + }, + { + "id": "clear_responsibility", + "text": "Clear responsibility" + }, + { + "id": "a_buffer_before_due_dates", + "text": "A buffer before due dates" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_018", "category_id": "money", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Emergency fund or vacation fund?", + "text": "Pay bills as they arrive or on one set day?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "bills", + "quick_choice", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "pay_them_as_they_arrive", + "text": "Pay them as they arrive" + }, + { + "id": "use_one_set_bill_day", + "text": "Use one set bill day" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pay_them_as_they_arrive", + "text": "Pay them as they arrive" + }, + { + "id": "use_one_set_bill_day", + "text": "Use one set bill day" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_019", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which money tasks should never depend on one person's memory?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "systems", + "bills", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "rent_or_mortgage", + "text": "Rent or mortgage" + }, + { + "id": "insurance_renewals", + "text": "Insurance renewals" + }, + { + "id": "tax_deadlines", + "text": "Tax deadlines" + }, + { + "id": "minimum_debt_payments", + "text": "Minimum debt payments" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "rent_or_mortgage", + "text": "Rent or mortgage" + }, + { + "id": "insurance_renewals", + "text": "Insurance renewals" + }, + { + "id": 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"text": "Subscription tracking" + }, + { + "id": "minimum_payments", + "text": "Minimum payments" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_022", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should a useful monthly review include?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "review", + "planning", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "what_came_in", + "text": "What came in" + }, + { + "id": "what_went_out", + "text": "What went out" + }, + { + "id": "what_changed", + "text": "What changed" + }, + { + "id": "what_needs_attention_next", + "text": "What needs attention next" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "what_came_in", + "text": "What came in" + }, + { + "id": "what_went_out", + "text": "What went out" + }, + { + "id": "what_changed", + "text": "What changed" + }, + { + "id": "what_needs_attention_next", + "text": "What needs attention next" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_023", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How organized do our bills feel right now?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "bills", + "current_state", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very scattered", + "max_label": "Very organized" + } + }, + { + "id": "money_024", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which bill surprises are easiest to prevent?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "bills", + "planning", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "annual_renewals", + "text": "Annual renewals" + }, + { + "id": "seasonal_utilities", + "text": "Seasonal utilities" + }, + { + "id": "property_or_vehicle_costs", + "text": "Property or vehicle costs" + }, + { + "id": "subscriptions_after_free_trials", + "text": "Subscriptions after free trials" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "annual_renewals", + "text": "Annual renewals" + }, + { + "id": "seasonal_utilities", + "text": "Seasonal utilities" + }, + { + "id": "property_or_vehicle_costs", + "text": "Property or vehicle costs" + }, + { + "id": "subscriptions_after_free_trials", + "text": "Subscriptions after free trials" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_025", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which first steps make sense when a bill is higher than expected?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "bills", + "problem_solving", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "check_whether_it_is_correct", + "text": "Check whether it is correct" + }, + { + "id": "adjust_this_month_s_plan", + "text": "Adjust this month's plan" + }, + { + "id": "call_the_company", + "text": "Call the company" + }, + { + "id": "decide_what_can_wait", + "text": "Decide what can wait" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "check_whether_it_is_correct", + "text": "Check whether it is correct" + }, + { + "id": 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{ + "id": "a_shared_extras_fund", + "text": "A shared extras fund" + }, + { + "id": "flexible_amounts_agreed_each_month", + "text": "Flexible amounts agreed each month" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "emergency_fund", - "text": "Emergency fund" + "id": "equal_personal_amounts", + "text": "Equal personal amounts" }, { - "id": "vacation_fund", - "text": "Vacation fund" + "id": "amounts_based_on_income", + "text": "Amounts based on income" + }, + { + "id": "a_shared_extras_fund", + "text": "A shared extras fund" + }, + { + "id": "flexible_amounts_agreed_each_month", + "text": "Flexible amounts agreed each month" } ] } }, { - "id": "money_240", + "id": "money_047", "category_id": "money", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Pay down debt or build savings first?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should personal spending money cover without a discussion?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "debt", - "saving", + "independence", + "fun_money", "money" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "hobbies", + "text": "Hobbies" + }, + { + "id": "gifts", + "text": "Gifts" + }, + { + "id": "small_treats", + "text": "Small treats" + }, + { + "id": "personal_subscriptions", + "text": "Personal subscriptions" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "pay_debt", - "text": "Pay down debt" + "id": "hobbies", + "text": "Hobbies" }, { - "id": "build_savings", - "text": "Build savings" + "id": "gifts", + "text": "Gifts" + }, + { + "id": "small_treats", + "text": "Small treats" + }, + { + "id": "personal_subscriptions", + "text": "Personal subscriptions" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_048", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Equal fun money or equal percentage of income?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "fairness", + "quick_choice", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "equal_fun_money", + "text": "Equal fun money" + }, + { + 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"options": [ + { + "id": "books", + "text": "Books" + }, + { + "id": "coffee", + "text": "Coffee" + }, + { + "id": "craft_supplies", + "text": "Craft supplies" + }, + { + "id": "the_hobby_currently_occupying_the_dining_table", + "text": "The hobby currently occupying the dining table" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_052", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Why can matching personal amounts still feel unequal?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "fairness", + "context", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_person_covers_more_personal_necessities", + "text": "One person covers more personal necessities" + }, + { + "id": "one_income_is_far_lower", + "text": "One income is far lower" + }, + { + "id": "caregiving_limits_earning", + "text": "Caregiving limits earning" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_s_hobby_has_much_higher_costs", + "text": "One person's hobby has much higher costs" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_person_covers_more_personal_necessities", + "text": "One person covers more personal necessities" + }, + { + "id": "one_income_is_far_lower", + "text": "One income is far lower" + }, + { + "id": "caregiving_limits_earning", + "text": "Caregiving limits earning" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_s_hobby_has_much_higher_costs", + "text": "One person's hobby has much higher costs" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_053", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How free do you feel to make reasonable personal purchases?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "independence", + "current_state", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not free enough", + "max_label": "Completely free" + } + }, + { + "id": "money_054", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which agreements protect both independence and shared goals?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "agreements", + "balance", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_purchase_threshold", + "text": "A purchase threshold" + }, + { + "id": "personal_accounts_or_categories", + "text": "Personal accounts or categories" + }, + { + "id": "no_hiding_shared_debt", + "text": "No hiding shared debt" + }, + { + "id": "regular_review_without_item_by_item_policing", + "text": "Regular review without item-by-item policing" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_purchase_threshold", + "text": "A purchase threshold" + }, + { + "id": "personal_accounts_or_categories", + "text": "Personal accounts or categories" + }, + { + "id": "no_hiding_shared_debt", + "text": "No hiding shared debt" + }, + { + "id": "regular_review_without_item_by_item_policing", + "text": "Regular review without item-by-item policing" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_055", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which responses respect a harmless purchase you would not choose?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "respect", + "differences", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "let_it_be_theirs", + "text": "Let it be theirs" + }, + { + "id": "ask_only_if_shared_plans_are_affected", + "text": "Ask only if shared plans are affected" + }, + { + "id": "admit_it_is_not_your_taste", + "text": "Admit it is not your taste" + }, + { + "id": "keep_the_receipt_commentary_internal", + "text": "Keep the receipt commentary internal" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "let_it_be_theirs", + "text": "Let it be theirs" + }, + { + "id": "ask_only_if_shared_plans_are_affected", + "text": "Ask only if shared plans are affected" + }, + { + "id": "admit_it_is_not_your_taste", + "text": "Admit it is not your taste" + }, + { + "id": "keep_the_receipt_commentary_internal", + "text": "Keep the receipt commentary internal" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_056", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes hobby spending easier to understand?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "hobbies", + "communication", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_rough_annual_amount", + "text": "A rough annual amount" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_what_the_hobby_provides", + "text": "Knowing what the hobby provides" + }, + { + "id": "planning_larger_purchases", + "text": "Planning larger purchases" + }, + { + "id": "selling_or_using_old_supplies", + "text": "Selling or using old supplies" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_rough_annual_amount", + "text": "A rough annual amount" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_what_the_hobby_provides", + "text": "Knowing what the hobby provides" + }, + { + "id": "planning_larger_purchases", + "text": "Planning larger purchases" + }, + { + "id": "selling_or_using_old_supplies", + "text": "Selling or using old supplies" + } + ], + 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"max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_059", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What personal expense helps you feel most like yourself?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "identity", "fun_money", "money" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "separate_fun", - "text": "Separate fun money" - }, - { - "id": "shared_fun", - "text": "Shared fun money" - } - ] + "max_length": 500 } }, { - "id": "money_242", + "id": "money_060", "category_id": "money", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Big dream or small next step?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "goals", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "big_dream", - "text": "Big dream" - }, - { - "id": "small_step", - "text": "Small next step" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_243", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "More structure or more flexibility?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should never be required to prove financial trust?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "budget", + "safety", + "non_control", "money" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "permission_for_every_small_purchase", + "text": "Permission for every small purchase" + }, + { + "id": "surrendering_all_account_access", + "text": "Surrendering all account access" + }, + { + "id": "giving_up_personal_money_entirely", + "text": "Giving up personal money entirely" + }, + { + "id": "explaining_every_receipt", + "text": "Explaining every receipt" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "more_structure", - "text": "More structure" + "id": "permission_for_every_small_purchase", + "text": "Permission for every small purchase" }, { - "id": "more_flexibility", - "text": "More flexibility" + "id": "surrendering_all_account_access", + "text": "Surrendering all account access" + }, + { + "id": "giving_up_personal_money_entirely", + "text": "Giving up personal money entirely" + }, + { + "id": "explaining_every_receipt", + "text": "Explaining every receipt" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "money_244", + "id": "money_061", "category_id": "money", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Facts first or feelings first?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "facts_first", - "text": "Facts first" - }, - { - "id": "feelings_first", - "text": "Feelings first" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_245", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Weekly check-in or monthly reset?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which debt payoff approach feels most motivating?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "check_in", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "weekly_check", - "text": "Weekly check-in" - }, - { - "id": "monthly_reset", - "text": "Monthly reset" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_246", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Cut expenses or increase income?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ + "debt", "strategy", "money" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "smallest_balance_first", + "text": "Smallest balance first" + }, + { + "id": "highest_interest_first", + "text": "Highest interest first" + }, + { + "id": "most_stressful_debt_first", + "text": "Most stressful debt first" + }, + { + "id": "a_blended_plan", + "text": "A blended plan" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "cut_expenses", - "text": "Cut expenses" + "id": "smallest_balance_first", + "text": "Smallest balance first" }, { - "id": "increase_income", - "text": "Increase income" + "id": "highest_interest_first", + "text": "Highest interest first" + }, + { + "id": "most_stressful_debt_first", + "text": "Most stressful debt first" + }, + { + "id": "a_blended_plan", + "text": "A blended plan" } ] } }, { - "id": "money_247", + "id": "money_062", "category_id": "money", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Plan together or divide tasks?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps debt conversations stay shame-free?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "debt", + "communication", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_current_facts", + "text": "Use current facts" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_character_judgments", + "text": "Avoid character judgments" + }, + { + "id": "separate_old_mistakes_from_next_steps", + "text": "Separate old mistakes from next steps" + }, + { + "id": "let_both_people_ask_questions", + "text": "Let both people ask questions" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_current_facts", + "text": "Use current facts" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_character_judgments", + "text": "Avoid character judgments" + }, + { + "id": "separate_old_mistakes_from_next_steps", + "text": "Separate old mistakes from next steps" + }, + { + "id": "let_both_people_ask_questions", + "text": "Let both people ask 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"category_id": "money", + "type": "written", + "text": "What would make debt feel like a problem we face, not a verdict on either person?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "debt", "teamwork", "money" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "plan_together", - "text": "Plan together" - }, - { - "id": "divide_tasks", - "text": "Divide tasks" - } - ] + "max_length": 500 } }, { - "id": "money_248", + "id": "money_075", "category_id": "money", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Celebrate a win or fix a leak?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "progress", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "celebrate_win", - "text": "Celebrate a win" - }, - { - "id": "fix_leak", - "text": "Fix a leak" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "money_249", - "category_id": "money", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Tiny treat or big goal?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "treats", - "goals", - "money" - ], - "answer_config": 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"options": [ + { + "id": "one_shared_budget", + "text": "One shared budget" + }, + { + "id": "separate_budgets_with_shared_bills", + "text": "Separate budgets with shared bills" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_080", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make a mathematically equal split feel unfair?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "fairness", + "context", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "different_incomes", + "text": "Different incomes" + }, + { + "id": "unequal_unpaid_work", + "text": "Unequal unpaid work" + }, + { + "id": "different_necessary_expenses", + "text": "Different necessary expenses" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_has_no_personal_money_left", + "text": "One person has no personal money left" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "different_incomes", + "text": "Different incomes" + }, + { + "id": "unequal_unpaid_work", + "text": "Unequal unpaid work" + }, + { + "id": 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"id": "care_for_relatives", + "text": "Care for relatives" + }, + { + "id": "work_that_supports_the_other_person_s_career", + "text": "Work that supports the other person's career" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_082", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which areas should be reviewed when income changes?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "income_change", + "planning", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "basic_obligations", + "text": "Basic obligations" + }, + { + "id": "savings_transfers", + "text": "Savings transfers" + }, + { + "id": "personal_spending", + "text": "Personal spending" + }, + { + "id": "current_goals", + "text": "Current goals" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "basic_obligations", + "text": "Basic obligations" + }, + { + "id": "savings_transfers", + "text": "Savings transfers" + }, + { + "id": "personal_spending", + "text": "Personal spending" 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"text": "No using income to win arguments" + }, + { + "id": "clear_ownership_information", + "text": "Clear ownership information" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_084", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How respected do you feel in our shared money decisions?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "respect", + "current_state", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not respected enough", + "max_label": "Fully respected" + } + }, + { + "id": "money_085", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which decisions should stay equal regardless of who earns more?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "power", + "decisions", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "major_shared_purchases", + "text": "Major shared purchases" + }, + { + "id": "housing_choices", + "text": "Housing choices" + }, + { + "id": "taking_on_joint_debt", + "text": "Taking on joint debt" + }, + { + "id": "changes_affecting_both_people_s_security", + "text": "Changes affecting both people's security" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "major_shared_purchases", + "text": "Major shared purchases" + }, + { + "id": "housing_choices", + "text": "Housing choices" + }, + { + "id": "taking_on_joint_debt", + "text": "Taking on joint debt" + }, + { + "id": "changes_affecting_both_people_s_security", + "text": "Changes affecting both people's security" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_086", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is fairest during a temporary income drop?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "income_change", + "support", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "adjust_contributions_for_a_while", + "text": "Adjust contributions for a while" + }, + { + "id": "use_agreed_savings", + "text": "Use agreed savings" + }, + { 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"category_id": "money", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Look at the numbers first or talk about the worry first?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "communication", + "quick_choice", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "look_at_the_numbers_first", + "text": "Look at the numbers first" + }, + { + "id": "talk_about_the_worry_first", + "text": "Talk about the worry first" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "look_at_the_numbers_first", + "text": "Look at the numbers first" + }, + { + "id": "talk_about_the_worry_first", + "text": "Talk about the worry first" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_095", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a money mistake feel safe to admit?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "honesty", + "mistakes", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_immediate_insults", + "text": "No immediate insults" + }, + { + "id": "a_chance_to_explain_briefly", + "text": "A 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"notice_what_has_already_changed", + "text": "Notice what has already changed" + }, + { + "id": "share_the_progress_without_competing", + "text": "Share the progress without competing" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "mark_smaller_milestones", + "text": "Mark smaller milestones" + }, + { + "id": "keep_some_fun_in_the_budget", + "text": "Keep some fun in the budget" + }, + { + "id": "notice_what_has_already_changed", + "text": "Notice what has already changed" + }, + { + "id": "share_the_progress_without_competing", + "text": "Share the progress without competing" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_136", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which value should guide our money decisions most often?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "values", + "priorities", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "security", + "text": "Security" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + }, + { + "id": "generosity", + "text": "Generosity" + }, + { + "id": "enjoying_life_now", + "text": "Enjoying life now" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "security", + "text": "Security" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + }, + { + "id": "generosity", + "text": "Generosity" + }, + { + "id": "enjoying_life_now", + "text": "Enjoying life now" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_137", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should we agree on before lending money to family?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "family", + "lending", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_much_we_can_lose", + "text": "How much we can lose" + }, + { + "id": "whether_repayment_is_expected", + "text": "Whether repayment is expected" + }, + { + "id": "whether_both_partners_agree", + "text": "Whether both partners agree" + }, + { + "id": "what_happens_if_the_request_repeats", + "text": "What happens if the request repeats" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_much_we_can_lose", + "text": "How much we can lose" + }, + { + "id": "whether_repayment_is_expected", + "text": "Whether repayment is expected" + }, + { + "id": "whether_both_partners_agree", + "text": "Whether both partners agree" + }, + { + "id": "what_happens_if_the_request_repeats", + "text": "What happens if the request repeats" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_138", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How aligned do our money values feel?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "values", + "current_state", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very different", + "max_label": "Very aligned" + } + }, + { + "id": "money_139", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Give quietly or celebrate generosity openly?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "generosity", + "quick_choice", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "give_quietly", + "text": "Give quietly" + }, + { + "id": "celebrate_generosity_openly", + "text": "Celebrate generosity openly" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "give_quietly", + "text": "Give quietly" + }, + { + "id": "celebrate_generosity_openly", + "text": "Celebrate generosity openly" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_140", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which kinds of generosity feel most meaningful to you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "generosity", + "values", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "helping_family", + "text": "Helping family" + }, + { + "id": "supporting_a_cause", + "text": "Supporting a cause" + }, + { + "id": "giving_time_instead_of_money", + "text": "Giving time instead of money" + }, + { + "id": "covering_something_for_a_friend", + "text": "Covering something for a friend" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "helping_family", + "text": "Helping family" + }, + { + "id": "supporting_a_cause", + "text": "Supporting a cause" + }, + { + "id": "giving_time_instead_of_money", + "text": "Giving time instead of money" + }, + { + "id": "covering_something_for_a_friend", + "text": "Covering something for a friend" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_141", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps helping family from harming our own stability?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "family", + "boundaries", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_clear_limit", + "text": "A clear limit" + }, + { + "id": "both_partners_agree", + "text": "Both partners agree" + }, + { + "id": "no_debt_to_provide_help", + "text": "No debt to provide help" + }, + { + "id": "the_request_is_discussed_without_guilt", + "text": "The request is discussed without guilt" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_clear_limit", + "text": "A clear limit" + }, + { + "id": "both_partners_agree", + "text": "Both partners agree" + }, + { + "id": "no_debt_to_provide_help", + "text": "No debt to provide help" + }, + { + "id": "the_request_is_discussed_without_guilt", + "text": "The request is discussed without guilt" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_142", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should happen when our families have different money expectations?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "family", + "differences", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "decide_as_a_couple_first", + "text": "Decide as a couple first" + }, + { + "id": "explain_only_what_is_necessary", + "text": "Explain only what is necessary" + }, + { + "id": "set_separate_limits_if_needed", + "text": "Set separate limits if needed" + }, + { + "id": "review_each_request_individually", + "text": "Review each request individually" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "decide_as_a_couple_first", + "text": "Decide as a couple first" + }, + { + "id": "explain_only_what_is_necessary", + "text": "Explain only what is necessary" + }, + { + "id": "set_separate_limits_if_needed", + "text": "Set separate limits if needed" + }, + { + "id": "review_each_request_individually", + "text": "Review each request individually" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_143", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which childhood money messages are worth questioning now?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "money_story", + "childhood", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "debt_always_means_failure", + "text": "Debt always means failure" + }, + { + "id": "talking_about_money_is_rude", + "text": "Talking about money is rude" + }, + { + "id": "one_partner_should_control_everything", + "text": "One partner should control everything" + }, + { + "id": "rest_must_be_earned_through_overwork", + "text": "Rest must be earned through overwork" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "debt_always_means_failure", + "text": "Debt always means failure" + }, + { + "id": "talking_about_money_is_rude", + "text": "Talking about money is rude" + }, + { + "id": "one_partner_should_control_everything", + "text": "One partner should control everything" + }, + { + "id": "rest_must_be_earned_through_overwork", + "text": "Rest must be earned through overwork" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_144", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much do old family money habits affect us today?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "money_story", + "current_state", + "money" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hardly at all", + "max_label": "A great deal" + } + }, + { + "id": "money_145", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps different money backgrounds coexist respectfully?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "money_story", + "respect", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "curiosity_instead_of_ridicule", + "text": "Curiosity instead of ridicule" + }, + { + "id": "no_family_comparisons", + "text": "No family comparisons" + }, + { + "id": "shared_rules_for_the_present", + "text": "Shared rules for the present" + }, + { + "id": "room_to_change_old_habits", + "text": "Room to change old habits" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "curiosity_instead_of_ridicule", + "text": "Curiosity instead of ridicule" + }, + { + "id": "no_family_comparisons", + "text": "No family comparisons" + }, + { + "id": "shared_rules_for_the_present", + "text": "Shared rules for the present" + }, + { + "id": "room_to_change_old_habits", + "text": "Room to change old habits" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_146", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which legacy would you most want our money choices to create?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "legacy", + "values", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "less_stress_for_our_household", + "text": "Less stress for our household" + }, + { + "id": "more_choices_for_the_future", + "text": "More choices for the future" + }, + { + "id": "a_habit_of_generosity", + "text": "A habit of generosity" + }, + { + "id": "a_healthier_example_for_family", + "text": "A healthier example for family" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "less_stress_for_our_household", + "text": "Less stress for our household" + }, + { + "id": "more_choices_for_the_future", + "text": "More choices for the future" + }, + { + "id": "a_habit_of_generosity", + "text": "A habit of generosity" + }, + { + "id": "a_healthier_example_for_family", + "text": "A healthier example for family" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_147", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should generosity never require from our household?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "generosity", + "boundaries", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "missing_basic_bills", + "text": "Missing basic bills" + }, + { + "id": "taking_secret_debt", + "text": "Taking secret debt" + }, + { + "id": "ignoring_one_partner_s_no", + "text": "Ignoring one partner's no" + }, + { + "id": "sacrificing_all_emergency_savings", + "text": "Sacrificing all emergency savings" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "missing_basic_bills", + "text": "Missing basic bills" + }, + { + "id": "taking_secret_debt", + "text": "Taking secret debt" + }, + { + "id": "ignoring_one_partner_s_no", + "text": "Ignoring one partner's no" + }, + { + "id": "sacrificing_all_emergency_savings", + "text": "Sacrificing all emergency savings" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_148", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which money traditions would be worth starting?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "traditions", + "values", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "an_annual_giving_choice", + "text": "An annual giving choice" + }, + { + "id": "a_yearly_goal_review", + "text": "A yearly goal review" + }, + { + "id": "a_planned_celebration_fund", + "text": "A planned celebration fund" + }, + { + "id": "a_regular_personal_money_reset", + "text": "A regular personal-money reset" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "an_annual_giving_choice", + "text": "An annual giving choice" + }, + { + "id": "a_yearly_goal_review", + "text": "A yearly goal review" + }, + { + "id": "a_planned_celebration_fund", + "text": "A planned celebration fund" + }, + { + "id": "a_regular_personal_money_reset", + "text": "A regular personal-money reset" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "money_149", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which family request deserves a formal review by the household treasury?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "humor", + "family", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_repeat_emergency", + "text": "The repeat emergency" + }, + { + "id": "the_business_idea_with_no_numbers", + "text": "The business idea with no numbers" + }, + { + "id": "the_loan_called_a_small_favor", + "text": "The loan called a small favor" + }, + { + "id": "the_group_gift_nobody_budgeted_for", + "text": "The group gift nobody budgeted for" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_repeat_emergency", + "text": "The repeat emergency" + }, + { + "id": "the_business_idea_with_no_numbers", + "text": "The business idea with no numbers" + }, + { + "id": "the_loan_called_a_small_favor", + "text": "The loan called a small favor" + }, + { + "id": "the_group_gift_nobody_budgeted_for", + "text": "The group gift nobody budgeted for" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "money_150", + "category_id": "money", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make our money life feel successful even without being wealthy?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "success", + "values", + "money" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "bills_do_not_create_constant_fear", + "text": "Bills do not create constant fear" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_have_choices", + "text": "Both people have choices" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_help_sometimes", + "text": "We can help sometimes" + }, + { + "id": "our_spending_matches_what_matters_to_us", + "text": "Our spending matches what matters to us" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bills_do_not_create_constant_fear", + "text": "Bills do not create constant fear" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_have_choices", + "text": "Both people have choices" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_help_sometimes", + "text": "We can help sometimes" + }, + { + "id": "our_spending_matches_what_matters_to_us", + "text": "Our spending matches what matters to us" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/rebuilding_trust.json b/seed/questions/rebuilding_trust.json index 803fd56c..0efb444a 100644 --- a/seed/questions/rebuilding_trust.json +++ b/seed/questions/rebuilding_trust.json @@ -1,352 +1,7889 @@ { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_v2", - "title": "Rebuilding Trust", - "access": "mixed", - "description": "Honest, forward-looking questions for couples actively working to rebuild trust — small actions, follow-through, gentle check-ins, and patience for the slow work of repair.", - "count": 25, - "free_count": 7, - "premium_count": 18, + "category": { + "id": "rebuilding_trust", + "display_name": "Rebuilding Trust", + "description": "Careful, forward-looking questions for couples who both freely choose to repair trust through honesty, accountability, consistency, healthy boundaries, and respect for each person's independence.", + "access": "mixed", + "icon_name": "verified_user", + "schema_version": "question_v2", + "metadata": { + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, + "type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 90, + "single_choice": 30, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 29, + "2": 83, + "3": 38 + }, + "legacy_question_count": 25, + "preserved_legacy_question_ids": "rt_001 through rt_025", + "content_version": "rebuilding_trust_150_final_v5", + "pack_boundary": "This pack owns voluntary repair after trust has been hurt: apologies, truth-telling, follow-through, reassurance, setbacks, healthy privacy, rebuilding closeness, progress, and long-term maintenance. General everyday trust belongs in trust; argument mechanics belong in conflict.", + "safety_boundary": "Repair must never require surveillance, location proof, device access, isolation, surrendered privacy, coerced disclosure, forced affection, forced forgiveness, or staying in a relationship that feels unsafe.", + "rewrite_reason": "The legacy 25-question file used an invalid production wrapper, string depths, missing category_id and tags, missing mirrored answer_config options, top-level scale/answer objects, and one controlling option. 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Replaced remaining therapy-like phrasing with plain partner-to-partner language while preserving IDs, access, types, depths, and safety boundaries. Revalidated all schema fields, mirrored options, counts, uniqueness, prompt length, repetition, control-language context, six 25-question batches, and three 50-question checkpoints.", + "final_editorial_patches": 14 + } + }, "questions": [ { "id": "rt_001", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What small thing I do lately actually feels trustworthy?", - "depth": "medium", + "text": "Which small things I do lately have started to feel trustworthy?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "early_repair", + "consistency", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_kepx", "text": "Following through on small things" }, - { "id": "opt_qnbl", "text": "Telling me the truth quickly" }, - { "id": "opt_vwrm", "text": "Checking in without being asked" }, - { "id": "opt_jhct", "text": "Sticking to what we agreed on" }, - { "id": "opt_pzfs", "text": "Being where I say I will be" } - ] + { + "id": "following_through_on_small_things", + "text": "Following through on small things" + }, + { + "id": "telling_the_truth_quickly", + "text": "Telling the truth quickly" + }, + { + "id": "checking_in_without_being_asked", + "text": "Checking in without being asked" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_what_we_agreed_on", + "text": "Keeping what we agreed on" + }, + { + "id": "being_where_i_said_i_would_be", + "text": "Being where I said I would be" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "following_through_on_small_things", + "text": "Following through on small things" + }, + { + "id": "telling_the_truth_quickly", + "text": "Telling the truth quickly" + }, + { + "id": "checking_in_without_being_asked", + "text": "Checking in without being asked" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_what_we_agreed_on", + "text": "Keeping what we agreed on" + }, + { + "id": "being_where_i_said_i_would_be", + "text": "Being where I said I would be" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "rt_002", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel actually heard by me?", - "depth": "medium", + "text": "What helps you know I really listened?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "listening", + "repair", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_uqal", "text": "Letting me finish my thought" }, - { "id": "opt_bwvn", "text": "Asking a real follow-up question" }, - { "id": "opt_mxrk", "text": "Noticing how I feel, not just what I said" }, - { "id": "opt_fyld", "text": "Saying back what I meant in your own words" }, - { "id": "opt_dzqg", "text": "Not jumping straight to fixing it" } - ] + { + "id": "letting_you_finish_the_thought", + "text": "Letting you finish the thought" + }, + { + "id": "asking_a_specific_follow_up_question", + "text": "Asking a specific follow-up question" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_the_important_part_later", + "text": "Remembering the important part later" + }, + { + "id": "saying_back_what_i_understood", + "text": "Saying back what I understood" + }, + { + "id": "not_jumping_straight_into_fixing_it", + "text": "Not jumping straight into fixing it" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "letting_you_finish_the_thought", + "text": "Letting you finish the thought" + }, + { + "id": "asking_a_specific_follow_up_question", + "text": "Asking a specific follow-up question" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_the_important_part_later", + "text": "Remembering the important part later" + }, + { + "id": "saying_back_what_i_understood", + "text": "Saying back what I understood" + }, + { + "id": "not_jumping_straight_into_fixing_it", + "text": "Not jumping straight into fixing it" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "rt_003", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which of these would feel like a small win this week?", - "depth": "light", + "text": "Which small wins would matter this week?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "small_wins", + "early_repair", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_tncs", "text": "A short check-in over coffee" }, - { "id": "opt_lmfb", "text": "A walk with no phones" }, - { "id": "opt_hrwd", "text": "A quick goodnight text while apart" }, - { "id": "opt_vbpx", "text": "A plan for one shared meal" }, - { "id": "opt_kqzr", "text": "A ten-minute talk before bed" } - ] + { + "id": "a_short_check_in_over_coffee", + "text": "A short check-in over coffee" + }, + { + "id": "a_walk_with_no_phones", + "text": "A walk with no phones" + }, + { + "id": "a_kind_message_while_apart", + "text": "A kind message while apart" + }, + { + "id": "one_shared_meal_we_both_protect", + "text": "One shared meal we both protect" + }, + { + "id": "ten_quiet_minutes_before_bed", + "text": "Ten quiet minutes before bed" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_short_check_in_over_coffee", + "text": "A short check-in over coffee" + }, + { + "id": "a_walk_with_no_phones", + "text": "A walk with no phones" + }, + { + "id": "a_kind_message_while_apart", + "text": "A kind message while apart" + }, + { + "id": "one_shared_meal_we_both_protect", + "text": "One shared meal we both protect" + }, + { + "id": "ten_quiet_minutes_before_bed", + "text": "Ten quiet minutes before bed" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "rt_004", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes an apology feel real to you?", - "depth": "medium", + "text": "Which part of an apology makes it believable to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "apology", + "accountability", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_gxpk", "text": "It names what happened, not just how I felt" }, - { "id": "opt_sjct", "text": "It comes quickly, not after I push" }, - { "id": "opt_yrlz", "text": "It comes with a clear next step" }, - { "id": "opt_pqnh", "text": "It is followed by changed behavior" }, - { "id": "opt_fvmq", "text": "It leaves room for my feelings" } - ] + { + "id": "it_names_what_happened_clearly", + "text": "It names what happened clearly" + }, + { + "id": "it_comes_without_being_forced", + "text": "It comes without being forced" + }, + { + "id": "it_includes_a_specific_next_step", + "text": "It includes a specific next step" + }, + { + "id": "changed_behavior_follows", + "text": "Changed behavior follows" + }, + { + "id": "your_feelings_are_not_rushed", + "text": "Your feelings are not rushed" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_names_what_happened_clearly", + "text": "It names what happened clearly" + }, + { + "id": "it_comes_without_being_forced", + "text": "It comes without being forced" + }, + { + "id": "it_includes_a_specific_next_step", + "text": "It includes a specific next step" + }, + { + "id": "changed_behavior_follows", + "text": "Changed behavior follows" + }, + { + "id": "your_feelings_are_not_rushed", + "text": "Your feelings are not rushed" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "rt_005", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does our relationship feel to you right now?", - "depth": "medium", + "text": "How steady does our relationship feel right now?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", - "scale": { + "tags": [ + "current_state", + "repair", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Still pretty shaky", + "min_label": "Still shaky", "max_label": "Mostly steady" } }, { "id": "rt_006", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How would a good check-in between us usually start?", - "depth": "medium", + "text": "How would a useful check-in between us usually begin?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "check_in", + "communication", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_mthb", "text": "A simple 'how are we doing?'" }, - { "id": "opt_xrfk", "text": "Walking side by side, not face to face" }, - { "id": "opt_wlcq", "text": "After a calm moment, not in the middle of stress" }, - { "id": "opt_hbpn", "text": "With one specific thing to talk about" }, - { "id": "opt_dnqr", "text": "After I have had time to think" } - ] + { + "id": "a_simple_question_about_how_we_are_doing", + "text": "A simple question about how we are doing" + }, + { + "id": "walking_side_by_side", + "text": "Walking side by side" + }, + { + "id": "after_a_calm_moment", + "text": "After a calm moment" + }, + { + "id": "with_one_clear_topic", + "text": "With one clear topic" + }, + { + "id": "after_some_time_to_think", + "text": "After some time to think" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simple_question_about_how_we_are_doing", + "text": "A simple question about how we are doing" + }, + { + "id": "walking_side_by_side", + "text": "Walking side by side" + }, + { + "id": "after_a_calm_moment", + "text": "After a calm moment" + }, + { + "id": "with_one_clear_topic", + "text": "With one clear topic" + }, + { + "id": "after_some_time_to_think", + "text": "After some time to think" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "rt_007", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When something feels off, would you rather talk it through right away or sit with it a bit first?", - "depth": "light", + "text": "Talk about it soon or think alone first?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "timing", + "quick_choice", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_right_away", "text": "Right away" }, - { "id": "opt_sit_with_it", "text": "Sit with it a bit first" } - ] + { + "id": "talk_about_it_soon", + "text": "Talk about it soon" + }, + { + "id": "think_alone_first", + "text": "Think alone first" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_about_it_soon", + "text": "Talk about it soon" + }, + { + "id": "think_alone_first", + "text": "Think alone first" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "rt_008", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What everyday habit from me helps you trust that I will keep showing up?", - "depth": "medium", - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which everyday habits help you believe I will be dependable?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "consistency", + "follow_through", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_qwzl", "text": "Answering texts in a reasonable time" }, - { "id": "opt_vpkb", "text": "Saying when plans change" }, - { "id": "opt_fhqx", "text": "Following through on small promises" }, - { "id": "opt_mcyd", "text": "Asking about my day, then actually listening" }, - { "id": "opt_nxjr", "text": "Telling me where I am going when I leave" }, - { "id": "opt_tbwm", "text": "Doing the thing I said I would do" } - ] + { + "id": "responding_when_i_reasonably_can", + "text": "Responding when I reasonably can" + }, + { + "id": "saying_when_plans_change", + "text": "Saying when plans change" + }, + { + "id": "following_through_on_small_promises", + "text": "Following through on small promises" + }, + { + "id": "listening_after_asking_about_your_day", + "text": "Listening after asking about your day" + }, + { + "id": "owning_a_mistake_quickly", + "text": "Owning a mistake quickly" + }, + { + "id": "doing_what_i_said_i_would_do", + "text": "Doing what I said I would do" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "responding_when_i_reasonably_can", + "text": "Responding when I reasonably can" + }, + { + "id": "saying_when_plans_change", + "text": "Saying when plans change" + }, + { + "id": "following_through_on_small_promises", + "text": "Following through on small promises" + }, + { + "id": "listening_after_asking_about_your_day", + "text": "Listening after asking about your day" + }, + { + "id": "owning_a_mistake_quickly", + "text": "Owning a mistake quickly" + }, + { + "id": "doing_what_i_said_i_would_do", + "text": "Doing what I said I would do" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "rt_009", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which parts of an apology tend to land best for you?", - "depth": "medium", - "access": "premium", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "apology", + "repair", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_aqvn", "text": "A clear 'I was wrong' without excuses" }, - { "id": "opt_yrfd", "text": "Hearing that your feelings make sense" }, - { "id": "opt_ljmp", "text": "A specific plan for what changes next" }, - { "id": "opt_krwt", "text": "Time to calm down before the conversation" }, - { "id": "opt_bhfs", "text": "A check-in a few days later, not just once" } - ] + { + "id": "a_clear_admission_without_excuses", + "text": "A clear admission without excuses" + }, + { + "id": "hearing_that_your_reaction_makes_sense", + "text": "Hearing that your reaction makes sense" + }, + { + "id": "a_specific_plan_for_what_changes", + "text": "A specific plan for what changes" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_settle_before_talking", + "text": "Time to settle before talking" + }, + { + "id": "a_follow_up_after_a_few_days", + "text": "A follow-up after a few days" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_clear_admission_without_excuses", + "text": "A clear admission without excuses" + }, + { + "id": "hearing_that_your_reaction_makes_sense", + "text": "Hearing that your reaction makes sense" + }, + { + "id": "a_specific_plan_for_what_changes", + "text": "A specific plan for what changes" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_settle_before_talking", + "text": "Time to settle before talking" + }, + { + "id": "a_follow_up_after_a_few_days", + "text": "A follow-up after a few days" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "rt_010", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How could we keep track of promises we have made to each other?", - "depth": "medium", - "access": "premium", + "text": "What could help us remember the promises we make?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "agreements", + "follow_through", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_dlxg", "text": "Write them down together" }, - { "id": "opt_yrbc", "text": "Mention them at our weekly check-in" }, - { "id": "opt_qzmp", "text": "Each of us repeats them back in our own words" }, - { "id": "opt_wfkh", "text": "A short Sunday review over coffee" }, - { "id": "opt_nlsk", "text": "We do not need a system, just follow through" } - ] + { + "id": "write_down_the_important_ones_together", + "text": "Write down the important ones together" + }, + { + "id": "mention_them_during_a_weekly_check_in", + "text": "Mention them during a weekly check-in" + }, + { + "id": "repeat_back_what_each_person_agreed_to", + "text": "Repeat back what each person agreed to" + }, + { + "id": "use_one_shared_reminder", + "text": "Use one shared reminder" + }, + { + "id": "keep_the_system_simple_and_follow_through", + "text": "Keep the system simple and follow through" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "write_down_the_important_ones_together", + "text": "Write down the important ones together" + }, + { + "id": "mention_them_during_a_weekly_check_in", + "text": "Mention them during a weekly check-in" + }, + { + "id": "repeat_back_what_each_person_agreed_to", + "text": "Repeat back what each person agreed to" + }, + { + "id": "use_one_shared_reminder", + "text": "Use one shared reminder" + }, + { + "id": "keep_the_system_simple_and_follow_through", + "text": "Keep the system simple and follow through" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "rt_011", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps a hard question feel like care, not an interrogation?", - "depth": "deep", - "access": "premium", + "text": "What helps a hard question feel caring rather than suspicious?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "hard_questions", + "non_control", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_wrnq", "text": "Asking, not assuming" }, - { "id": "opt_hkql", "text": "Letting me say 'not now' without it turning into a fight" }, - { "id": "opt_yjbt", "text": "Starting with how I am feeling, not what I think you did" }, - { "id": "opt_cwfk", "text": "A gentle tone, even when it is a serious topic" }, - { "id": "opt_rqzd", "text": "A clear 'I want to understand, not argue'" } - ] + { + "id": "asking_instead_of_assuming", + "text": "Asking instead of assuming" + }, + { + "id": "letting_not_now_be_a_real_answer", + "text": "Letting not now be a real answer" + }, + { + "id": "starting_with_your_own_feeling", + "text": "Starting with your own feeling" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_a_calm_tone", + "text": "Keeping a calm tone" + }, + { + "id": "saying_that_understanding_matters_more_than_winning", + "text": "Saying that understanding matters more than winning" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "asking_instead_of_assuming", + "text": "Asking instead of assuming" + }, + { + "id": "letting_not_now_be_a_real_answer", + "text": "Letting not now be a real answer" + }, + { + "id": "starting_with_your_own_feeling", + "text": "Starting with your own feeling" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_a_calm_tone", + "text": "Keeping a calm tone" + }, + { + "id": "saying_that_understanding_matters_more_than_winning", + "text": "Saying that understanding matters more than winning" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "rt_012", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When you share something that hurt, what would feel most like being believed?", - "depth": "medium", - "access": "premium", + "text": "When you tell me something hurt, which response helps you feel believed?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "validation", + "listening", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_jrmb", "text": "You take time before responding" }, - { "id": "opt_ktwc", "text": "You ask what it felt like for me" }, - { "id": "opt_xqbh", "text": "You do not get defensive right away" }, - { "id": "opt_lfpn", "text": "You say back what you heard me say" }, - { "id": "opt_bpzv", "text": "You focus on repair, not on explaining it away" } - ] + { + "id": "taking_a_moment_before_responding", + "text": "Taking a moment before responding" + }, + { + "id": "asking_what_it_felt_like_for_you", + "text": "Asking what it felt like for you" + }, + { + "id": "not_becoming_defensive_immediately", + "text": "Not becoming defensive immediately" + }, + { + "id": "saying_back_what_i_heard", + "text": "Saying back what I heard" + }, + { + "id": "focusing_on_repair_instead_of_explanations", + "text": "Focusing on repair instead of explanations" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "taking_a_moment_before_responding", + "text": "Taking a moment before responding" + }, + { + "id": "asking_what_it_felt_like_for_you", + "text": "Asking what it felt like for you" + }, + { + "id": "not_becoming_defensive_immediately", + "text": "Not becoming defensive immediately" + }, + { + "id": "saying_back_what_i_heard", + "text": "Saying back what I heard" + }, + { + "id": "focusing_on_repair_instead_of_explanations", + "text": "Focusing on repair instead of explanations" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "rt_013", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What pace for rebuilding feels right to you right now?", - "depth": "medium", - "access": "premium", + "text": "What pace for rebuilding feels most workable right now?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "pace", + "repair", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_mcwj", "text": "Slow and steady, one small thing at a time" }, - { "id": "opt_lnqy", "text": "Quick check-ins more often than long talks" }, - { "id": "opt_hfxr", "text": "Longer talks less often, with time to think between" }, - { "id": "opt_xbnm", "text": "Mostly normal life, with trust talks when needed" }, - { "id": "opt_kwfd", "text": "Honestly, I am still figuring that out" } - ] + { + "id": "one_small_step_at_a_time", + "text": "One small step at a time" + }, + { + "id": "short_check_ins_more_often", + "text": "Short check-ins more often" + }, + { + "id": "longer_talks_with_space_between_them", + "text": "Longer talks with space between them" + }, + { + "id": "mostly_normal_life_with_talks_when_needed", + "text": "Mostly normal life with talks when needed" + }, + { + "id": "still_figuring_out_the_pace", + "text": "Still figuring out the pace" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_small_step_at_a_time", + "text": "One small step at a time" + }, + { + "id": "short_check_ins_more_often", + "text": "Short check-ins more often" + }, + { + "id": "longer_talks_with_space_between_them", + "text": "Longer talks with space between them" + }, + { + "id": "mostly_normal_life_with_talks_when_needed", + "text": "Mostly normal life with talks when needed" + }, + { + "id": "still_figuring_out_the_pace", + "text": "Still figuring out the pace" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "rt_014", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How patient do you feel like you can be with this process right now?", - "depth": "deep", - "access": "premium", - "scale": { + "text": "How manageable does the pace of rebuilding feel right now?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "pace", + "current_state", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Honestly, not very", - "max_label": "More than I expected" + "min_label": "Too much right now", + "max_label": "Manageable" } }, { "id": "rt_015", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would make it easier to be honest with me, even about the small stuff?", - "depth": "medium", - "access": "premium", + "text": "What would make honesty about small things easier between us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "honesty", + "communication", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_rvkp", "text": "Knowing I will not get a big reaction" }, - { "id": "opt_jhln", "text": "A calm voice, even when it is hard to hear" }, - { "id": "opt_xbqg", "text": "More time before we have to respond" }, - { "id": "opt_tzfw", "text": "Knowing we will talk about it, not about me as a person" }, - { "id": "opt_qhrv", "text": "A sense that we are on the same team" } - ] + { + "id": "knowing_the_reaction_will_stay_measured", + "text": "Knowing the reaction will stay measured" + }, + { + "id": "a_calm_voice_even_when_it_is_hard", + "text": "A calm voice even when it is hard" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_think_before_answering", + "text": "Time to think before answering" + }, + { + "id": "talking_about_the_issue_instead_of_attacking_character", + "text": "Talking about the issue instead of attacking character" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_that_honesty_is_the_goal", + "text": "Remembering that honesty is the goal" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "knowing_the_reaction_will_stay_measured", + "text": "Knowing the reaction will stay measured" + }, + { + "id": "a_calm_voice_even_when_it_is_hard", + "text": "A calm voice even when it is hard" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_think_before_answering", + "text": "Time to think before answering" + }, + { + "id": "talking_about_the_issue_instead_of_attacking_character", + "text": "Talking about the issue instead of attacking character" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_that_honesty_is_the_goal", + "text": "Remembering that honesty is the goal" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "rt_016", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When one of us slips, what is the most helpful first response?", - "depth": "medium", - "access": "premium", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "setback", + "repair", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_pvwt", "text": "Name it out loud, quickly" }, - { "id": "opt_yrkg", "text": "Take a breath, then come back to it" }, - { "id": "opt_nxzd", "text": "Ask what the other person needs first" }, - { "id": "opt_mjrv", "text": "Quietly change the behavior and check in later" }, - { "id": "opt_qmcd", "text": "It depends, let us figure it out together" } - ] + { + "id": "name_it_gently_and_soon", + "text": "Name it gently and soon" + }, + { + "id": "take_a_breath_and_return_to_it", + "text": "Take a breath and return to it" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_is_needed_first", + "text": "Ask what is needed first" + }, + { + "id": "correct_the_behavior_and_check_in_later", + "text": "Correct the behavior and check in later" + }, + { + "id": "decide_together_based_on_the_situation", + "text": "Decide together based on the situation" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_it_gently_and_soon", + "text": "Name it gently and soon" + }, + { + "id": "take_a_breath_and_return_to_it", + "text": "Take a breath and return to it" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_is_needed_first", + "text": "Ask what is needed first" + }, + { + "id": "correct_the_behavior_and_check_in_later", + "text": "Correct the behavior and check in later" + }, + { + "id": "decide_together_based_on_the_situation", + "text": "Decide together based on the situation" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "rt_017", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kind of closeness feels safe to rebuild first?", - "depth": "medium", - "access": "premium", + "text": "What kind of closeness would you want to rebuild first?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "closeness", + "pace", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_ykpv", "text": "Easy time together, no heavy topics" }, - { "id": "opt_rhld", "text": "Physical affection that is not rushed" }, - { "id": "opt_tnwj", "text": "Quiet time in the same room" }, - { "id": "opt_lqfs", "text": "Small everyday routines done together" }, - { "id": "opt_bwkg", "text": "Honest talks with time to recover after" } - ] + { + "id": "easy_time_together_without_heavy_topics", + "text": "Easy time together without heavy topics" + }, + { + "id": "unhurried_physical_affection", + "text": "Unhurried physical affection" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_time_in_the_same_room", + "text": "Quiet time in the same room" + }, + { + "id": "small_routines_done_together", + "text": "Small routines done together" + }, + { + "id": "honest_talks_with_recovery_time_afterward", + "text": "Honest talks with recovery time afterward" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "easy_time_together_without_heavy_topics", + "text": "Easy time together without heavy topics" + }, + { + "id": "unhurried_physical_affection", + "text": "Unhurried physical affection" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_time_in_the_same_room", + "text": "Quiet time in the same room" + }, + { + "id": "small_routines_done_together", + "text": "Small routines done together" + }, + { + "id": "honest_talks_with_recovery_time_afterward", + "text": "Honest talks with recovery time afterward" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "rt_018", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you with us having regular check-ins?", - "depth": "medium", - "access": "premium", - "scale": { + "text": "How comfortable are you with regular trust check-ins?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "check_in", + "comfort", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not really my thing", - "max_label": "I look forward to them" + "min_label": "Not comfortable yet", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "rt_019", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "After a setback, what would help us get back on track fastest?", - "depth": "deep", - "access": "premium", + "text": "After a setback, what would help us regain our footing first?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "setback", + "recovery", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_jmkl", "text": "A short, honest talk soon after" }, - { "id": "opt_xcnf", "text": "A clear, small plan for what changes next" }, - { "id": "opt_lwhq", "text": "Time to cool off before we talk" }, - { "id": "opt_dprk", "text": "Going back to one of our steady routines" }, - { "id": "opt_bqzr", "text": "Naming what we did well before the setback" } - ] + { + "id": "a_short_honest_talk", + "text": "A short honest talk" + }, + { + "id": "one_clear_change_for_next_time", + "text": "One clear change for next time" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_cool_down", + "text": "Time to cool down" + }, + { + "id": "returning_to_a_steady_routine", + "text": "Returning to a steady routine" + }, + { + "id": "naming_what_still_worked", + "text": "Naming what still worked" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_short_honest_talk", + "text": "A short honest talk" + }, + { + "id": "one_clear_change_for_next_time", + "text": "One clear change for next time" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_cool_down", + "text": "Time to cool down" + }, + { + "id": "returning_to_a_steady_routine", + "text": "Returning to a steady routine" + }, + { + "id": "naming_what_still_worked", + "text": "Naming what still worked" + } + ] + } }, { "id": "rt_020", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which words from me actually help when trust has been hurt?", - "depth": "medium", - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which words from me help most when trust has been hurt?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "reassurance", + "repair", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_qzrh", "text": "'I hear you.'" }, - { "id": "opt_vhkb", "text": "'You make 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"Here is what I will do differently" + }, + { + "id": "you_do_not_have_to_answer_now", + "text": "You do not have to answer now" + }, + { + "id": "thank_you_for_telling_me", + "text": "Thank you for telling me" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } }, { "id": "rt_021", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would feel like steady, week-to-week proof that things are getting better?", - "depth": "medium", - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which changes would feel like steady proof that things are improving?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "progress", + "consistency", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], "options": [ - { "id": "opt_kfhm", "text": "Fewer hard talks about the same old thing" }, - { "id": "opt_yzld", "text": "More easy time together" }, - { "id": "opt_lqnb", "text": "Quicker recovery after a small fight" }, - { "id": "opt_cwvr", "text": "More honest check-ins, even short ones" }, - { "id": "opt_bfpn", "text": "Plans that actually happen, not just get talked about" } - ] + { + "id": "fewer_repeats_of_the_same_problem", + "text": "Fewer repeats of the same problem" + }, + { + "id": "more_relaxed_time_together", + "text": "More relaxed time together" + }, + { + "id": "quicker_recovery_after_tension", + "text": "Quicker recovery after tension" + }, + { + "id": "more_honest_short_check_ins", + "text": "More honest short check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "plans_that_actually_happen", + "text": "Plans that actually happen" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fewer_repeats_of_the_same_problem", + "text": "Fewer repeats of the same problem" + }, + { + "id": "more_relaxed_time_together", + "text": "More relaxed time together" + }, + { + "id": "quicker_recovery_after_tension", + "text": "Quicker recovery after tension" + }, + { + "id": "more_honest_short_check_ins", + "text": "More honest short check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "plans_that_actually_happen", + "text": "Plans that actually 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"opt_yjwh", "text": "Ask if something is going on under the surface" }, - { "id": "opt_lfcd", "text": "Give space, then come back to it later" }, - { "id": "opt_qrtz", "text": "Plan to talk about it once the hard day has passed" }, - { "id": "opt_bnmx", "text": "Honestly, it depends on the day" } - ] + { + "id": "name_what_happened_gently", + "text": "Name what happened gently" + }, + { + "id": "ask_whether_something_deeper_is_going_on", + "text": "Ask whether something deeper is going on" + }, + { + "id": "take_space_and_return_later", + "text": "Take space and return later" + }, + { + "id": "plan_a_calmer_conversation", + "text": "Plan a calmer conversation" + }, + { + "id": "decide_based_on_what_the_day_requires", + "text": "Decide based on what the day requires" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_what_happened_gently", + "text": "Name what happened gently" + }, + { + "id": "ask_whether_something_deeper_is_going_on", + "text": "Ask whether something 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"text": "Room to say 'nothing is wrong, I just wanted to talk'" } - ] + { + "id": "how_each_of_us_is_doing", + "text": "How each of us is doing" + }, + { + "id": "one_thing_we_appreciate", + "text": "One thing we appreciate" + }, + { + "id": "anything_small_that_felt_off", + "text": "Anything small that felt off" + }, + { + "id": "one_thing_we_want_to_do_together", + "text": "One thing we want to do together" + }, + { + "id": "permission_to_say_nothing_is_wrong", + "text": "Permission to say nothing is wrong" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_each_of_us_is_doing", + "text": "How each of us is doing" + }, + { + "id": "one_thing_we_appreciate", + "text": "One thing we appreciate" + }, + { + "id": "anything_small_that_felt_off", + "text": "Anything small that felt off" + }, + { + "id": "one_thing_we_want_to_do_together", + "text": "One thing we want to do together" + }, + { + "id": "permission_to_say_nothing_is_wrong", + "text": "Permission to say nothing is 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"start_one_show_together", + "text": "Start one show together" + }, + { + "id": "sit_without_phones_for_twenty_minutes", + "text": "Sit without phones for twenty minutes" + }, + { + "id": "plan_something_small_to_anticipate", + "text": "Plan something small to anticipate" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cook_a_meal_we_both_choose", + "text": "Cook a meal we both choose" + }, + { + "id": "take_a_short_walk_after_dinner", + "text": "Take a short walk after dinner" + }, + { + "id": "start_one_show_together", + "text": "Start one show together" + }, + { + "id": "sit_without_phones_for_twenty_minutes", + "text": "Sit without phones for twenty minutes" + }, + { + "id": "plan_something_small_to_anticipate", + "text": "Plan something small to anticipate" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_026", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which forms of follow-through matter most after trust has 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+ "text": "Checking back without being prompted" + }, + { + "id": "admitting_early_when_something_will_not_happen", + "text": "Admitting early when something will not happen" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_027", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of promise feels easiest to trust right now?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "promises", + "pace", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_small_promise_kept_today", + "text": "A small promise kept today" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_plan_for_this_week", + "text": "A clear plan for this week" + }, + { + "id": "one_ongoing_habit", + "text": "One ongoing habit" + }, + { + "id": "no_new_promise_until_the_last_one_is_kept", + "text": "No new promise until the last one is kept" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_small_promise_kept_today", + "text": "A small promise kept today" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_plan_for_this_week", + "text": "A clear plan for this week" + }, + { + "id": "one_ongoing_habit", + "text": "One ongoing habit" + }, + { + "id": "no_new_promise_until_the_last_one_is_kept", + "text": "No new promise until the last one is kept" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_028", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes the truth easier to hear, even when it hurts?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "honesty", + "communication", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "hearing_it_directly", + "text": "Hearing it directly" + }, + { + "id": "no_important_detail_being_hidden", + "text": "No important detail being hidden" + }, + { + "id": "a_calm_setting", + "text": "A calm setting" + }, + { + "id": "enough_time_to_respond", + "text": "Enough time to respond" + }, + { + "id": "accountability_without_excuses", + "text": "Accountability without excuses" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hearing_it_directly", + "text": "Hearing it directly" + }, + { + "id": "no_important_detail_being_hidden", + "text": "No important detail being hidden" + }, + { + "id": "a_calm_setting", + "text": "A calm setting" + }, + { + "id": "enough_time_to_respond", + "text": "Enough time to respond" + }, + { + "id": "accountability_without_excuses", + "text": "Accountability without excuses" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_029", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How predictable does my follow-through feel lately?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "consistency", + "progress", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard to predict", + "max_label": "Very dependable" + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_030", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "One bigger repair step or several smaller ones?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + 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"single_choice", + "text": "Which improvement would you notice first?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "progress", + "daily_life", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_reliable_plans", + "text": "More reliable plans" + }, + { + "id": "faster_honesty", + "text": "Faster honesty" + }, + { + "id": "calmer_hard_talks", + "text": "Calmer hard talks" + }, + { + "id": "less_need_to_ask_twice", + "text": "Less need to ask twice" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_reliable_plans", + "text": "More reliable plans" + }, + { + "id": "faster_honesty", + "text": "Faster honesty" + }, + { + "id": "calmer_hard_talks", + "text": "Calmer hard talks" + }, + { + "id": "less_need_to_ask_twice", + "text": "Less need to ask twice" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_048", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can help us separate one mistake from a repeating pattern?", + "depth": 2, + "access": 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"Keeping one agreed check-in" + }, + { + "id": "following_through_on_return_plans", + "text": "Following through on return plans" + }, + { + "id": "freedom_from_repeated_questioning", + "text": "Freedom from repeated questioning" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_075", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which freedoms should stay protected during repair?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "independence", + "safety", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "choosing_friends", + "text": "Choosing friends" + }, + { + "id": "having_personal_interests", + "text": "Having personal interests" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_bodily_autonomy", + "text": "Keeping bodily autonomy" + }, + { + "id": "seeking_outside_support", + "text": "Seeking outside support" + }, + { + "id": "saying_no_to_coercive_demands", + "text": "Saying no to coercive demands" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "choosing_friends", + "text": "Choosing friends" + }, + { + "id": "having_personal_interests", + "text": "Having personal interests" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_bodily_autonomy", + "text": "Keeping bodily autonomy" + }, + { + "id": "seeking_outside_support", + "text": "Seeking outside support" + }, + { + "id": "saying_no_to_coercive_demands", + "text": "Saying no to coercive demands" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_076", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps us discuss the original hurt without reliving every detail?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "hard_conversations", + "pace", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "choose_one_part_at_a_time", + "text": "Choose one part at a time" + }, + { + "id": "stop_when_either_person_is_overwhelmed", + "text": "Stop when either person is overwhelmed" + }, + { + "id": 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+ "text": "I can see why that matters" + }, + { + "id": "we_are_discussing_one_thing", + "text": "We are discussing one thing" + }, + { + "id": "can_we_return_to_this_calmly", + "text": "Can we return to this calmly?" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "let_me_make_sure_i_understood", + "text": "Let me make sure I understood" + }, + { + "id": "i_need_a_moment_before_i_answer", + "text": "I need a moment before I answer" + }, + { + "id": "i_can_see_why_that_matters", + "text": "I can see why that matters" + }, + { + "id": "we_are_discussing_one_thing", + "text": "We are discussing one thing" + }, + { + "id": "can_we_return_to_this_calmly", + "text": "Can we return to this calmly?" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_092", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When the same issue returns, what should we examine first?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "patterns", + "setback", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "whether_the_agreement_was_clear", + "text": "Whether the agreement was clear" + }, + { + "id": "what_blocked_follow_through", + "text": "What blocked follow-through" + }, + { + "id": "how_the_issue_was_repaired", + "text": "How the issue was repaired" + }, + { + "id": "whether_the_current_plan_is_realistic", + "text": "Whether the current plan is realistic" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "whether_the_agreement_was_clear", + "text": "Whether the agreement was clear" + }, + { + "id": "what_blocked_follow_through", + "text": "What blocked follow-through" + }, + { + "id": "how_the_issue_was_repaired", + "text": "How the issue was repaired" + }, + { + "id": "whether_the_current_plan_is_realistic", + "text": "Whether the current plan is realistic" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_093", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps distinguish a mistake from 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"id": "own_the_exact_words", + "text": "Own the exact words" + }, + { + "id": "allow_space_without_retaliation", + "text": "Allow space without retaliation" + }, + { + "id": "discuss_what_prevents_a_repeat", + "text": "Discuss what prevents a repeat" + }, + { + "id": "accept_that_the_harm_may_take_time", + "text": "Accept that the harm may take time" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_101", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which kinds of closeness can return before full trust does?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "closeness", + "pace", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "sharing_an_ordinary_meal", + "text": "Sharing an ordinary meal" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_at_something_together", + "text": "Laughing at something together" + }, + { + "id": "sitting_nearby_without_pressure", + "text": "Sitting nearby without pressure" + }, + { + "id": "working_on_a_small_task", 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"rt_111", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs suggest trust is becoming less fragile?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "progress", + "stability", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "questions_can_be_answered_calmly", + "text": "Questions can be answered calmly" + }, + { + "id": "time_apart_causes_less_panic", + "text": "Time apart causes less panic" + }, + { + "id": "a_mistake_does_not_become_a_crisis", + "text": "A mistake does not become a crisis" + }, + { + "id": "plans_feel_believable", + "text": "Plans feel believable" + }, + { + "id": "affection_is_not_used_as_reassurance", + "text": "Affection is not used as reassurance" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "questions_can_be_answered_calmly", + "text": "Questions can be answered calmly" + }, + { + "id": "time_apart_causes_less_panic", + "text": "Time apart causes less panic" + }, + { + "id": "a_mistake_does_not_become_a_crisis", + "text": "A mistake does not become a crisis" + }, + { + "id": "plans_feel_believable", + "text": "Plans feel believable" + }, + { + "id": "affection_is_not_used_as_reassurance", + "text": "Affection is not used as reassurance" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_112", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make celebrating progress feel appropriate?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "progress", + "recognition", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_change_has_lasted", + "text": "The change has lasted" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_notice_it", + "text": "Both people notice it" + }, + { + "id": "the_celebration_stays_modest", + "text": "The celebration stays modest" + }, + { + "id": "unresolved_pain_is_still_acknowledged", + "text": "Unresolved pain is still acknowledged" + }, + { + "id": "nobody_feels_pressured_to_move_on", + "text": "Nobody feels pressured to move on" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_change_has_lasted", + "text": "The change has lasted" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_notice_it", + "text": "Both people notice it" + }, + { + "id": "the_celebration_stays_modest", + "text": "The celebration stays modest" + }, + { + "id": "unresolved_pain_is_still_acknowledged", + "text": "Unresolved pain is still acknowledged" + }, + { + "id": "nobody_feels_pressured_to_move_on", + "text": "Nobody feels pressured to move on" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_113", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which milestone would you want to acknowledge privately?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "milestone", + "progress", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_month_of_reliable_follow_through", + "text": "A month of reliable 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"current_state", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not hopeful yet", + "max_label": "Very hopeful" + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_115", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps hope stay realistic?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "hope", + "realism", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "base_it_on_actions", + "text": "Base it on actions" + }, + { + "id": "allow_uncertainty", + "text": "Allow uncertainty" + }, + { + "id": "keep_boundaries_in_place", + "text": "Keep boundaries in place" + }, + { + "id": "notice_patterns_over_time", + "text": "Notice patterns over time" + }, + { + "id": "do_not_confuse_hope_with_obligation", + "text": "Do not confuse hope with obligation" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "base_it_on_actions", + "text": "Base it on actions" + }, + { + "id": "allow_uncertainty", + "text": "Allow uncertainty" + }, + { + "id": "keep_boundaries_in_place", + "text": "Keep boundaries in place" + }, + { + "id": "notice_patterns_over_time", + "text": "Notice patterns over time" + }, + { + "id": "do_not_confuse_hope_with_obligation", + "text": "Do not confuse hope with obligation" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_116", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which activities could rebuild teamwork without becoming a trust exercise?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "teamwork", + "closeness", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "cooking_something_simple", + "text": "Cooking something simple" + }, + { + "id": "planning_a_short_outing", + "text": "Planning a short outing" + }, + { + "id": "solving_a_practical_problem", + "text": "Solving a practical problem" + }, + { + "id": "learning_a_small_skill", + "text": "Learning a small skill" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_something_for_the_home_together", + "text": "Choosing something for the home together" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cooking_something_simple", + "text": "Cooking something simple" + }, + { + "id": "planning_a_short_outing", + "text": "Planning a short outing" + }, + { + "id": "solving_a_practical_problem", + "text": "Solving a practical problem" + }, + { + "id": "learning_a_small_skill", + "text": "Learning a small skill" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_something_for_the_home_together", + "text": "Choosing something for the home together" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_117", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should happen when a good moment suddenly feels complicated?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "mixed_feelings", + "closeness", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_the_change_gently", + "text": "Name the change gently" + }, + { + "id": "pause_without_blaming", + "text": "Pause without blaming" + }, + { + "id": "ask_whether_closeness_or_space_helps", + "text": "Ask whether closeness or space helps" + }, + { + "id": "let_both_feelings_be_true", + "text": "Let both feelings be true" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_the_change_gently", + "text": "Name the change gently" + }, + { + "id": "pause_without_blaming", + "text": "Pause without blaming" + }, + { + "id": "ask_whether_closeness_or_space_helps", + "text": "Ask whether closeness or space helps" + }, + { + "id": "let_both_feelings_be_true", + "text": "Let both feelings be true" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_118", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps mixed feelings fit inside the same day?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "mixed_feelings", + "repair", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_demand_to_choose_one_feeling", + "text": "No demand to choose one feeling" + }, + { + "id": "acknowledge_the_good_and_the_hurt", + "text": "Acknowledge the good and the hurt" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_treating_sadness_as_failure", + "text": "Avoid treating sadness as failure" + }, + { + "id": "take_breaks_from_repair_talk", + "text": "Take breaks from repair talk" + }, + { + "id": "keep_expectations_modest", + "text": "Keep expectations modest" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_demand_to_choose_one_feeling", + "text": "No demand to choose one feeling" + }, + { + "id": "acknowledge_the_good_and_the_hurt", + "text": "Acknowledge the good and the hurt" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_treating_sadness_as_failure", + "text": "Avoid treating sadness as failure" + }, + { + "id": "take_breaks_from_repair_talk", + "text": "Take breaks from repair talk" + }, + { + "id": "keep_expectations_modest", + "text": "Keep expectations modest" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_119", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "More ordinary time together or one meaningful conversation?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "closeness", + "quick_choice", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_ordinary_time_together", + "text": "More ordinary time together" + }, + { + "id": "one_meaningful_conversation", + "text": "One meaningful conversation" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_ordinary_time_together", + "text": "More ordinary time together" + }, + { + "id": "one_meaningful_conversation", + "text": "One meaningful conversation" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_120", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which changes would make future plans easier to believe?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "future", + "consistency", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "past_plans_have_been_kept", + "text": "Past plans have been kept" + }, + { + "id": "details_stay_realistic", + "text": "Details stay realistic" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_help_plan", + "text": "Both people help plan" + }, + { + "id": "changes_are_shared_early", + "text": "Changes are shared early" + }, + { + "id": "no_promise_is_made_just_to_calm_the_moment", + "text": "No promise is made just to calm the moment" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "past_plans_have_been_kept", + "text": "Past plans have been kept" + }, + { + "id": "details_stay_realistic", + "text": "Details stay realistic" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_help_plan", + "text": "Both people help plan" + }, + { + "id": "changes_are_shared_early", + "text": "Changes are shared early" + }, + { + "id": "no_promise_is_made_just_to_calm_the_moment", + "text": "No promise is made just to calm the moment" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_121", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can help physical 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"id": "a_regular_goodnight_check_in", + "text": "A regular goodnight check-in" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_123", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a new memory feel safe to enjoy?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "memories", + "progress", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_expectation_that_it_erases_the_past", + "text": "No expectation that it erases the past" + }, + { + "id": "the_plan_is_mutually_chosen", + "text": "The plan is mutually chosen" + }, + { + "id": "the_mood_stays_flexible", + "text": "The mood stays flexible" + }, + { + "id": "either_person_can_step_back", + "text": "Either person can step back" + }, + { + "id": "the_moment_is_allowed_to_stand_alone", + "text": "The moment is allowed to stand alone" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_expectation_that_it_erases_the_past", + "text": "No expectation that it erases the past" + }, + { + "id": 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"access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "teamwork", + "repair", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_shared_goal", + "text": "A shared goal" + }, + { + "id": "separate_responsibility_for_each_person_s_actions", + "text": "Separate responsibility for each person's actions" + }, + { + "id": "respectful_questions", + "text": "Respectful questions" + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_that_apply_consistently", + "text": "Boundaries that apply consistently" + }, + { + "id": "room_for_different_timelines", + "text": "Room for different timelines" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_shared_goal", + "text": "A shared goal" + }, + { + "id": "separate_responsibility_for_each_person_s_actions", + "text": "Separate responsibility for each person's actions" + }, + { + "id": "respectful_questions", + "text": "Respectful questions" + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_that_apply_consistently", + "text": "Boundaries that apply consistently" + }, + { + "id": 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"text": "Keep ordinary promises" + }, + { + "id": "admit_mistakes_promptly", + "text": "Admit mistakes promptly" + }, + { + "id": "review_agreements_when_life_changes", + "text": "Review agreements when life changes" + }, + { + "id": "protect_respectful_independence", + "text": "Protect respectful independence" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_127", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What would tell you regular trust check-ins are no longer needed?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "maintenance", + "progress", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "concerns_come_up_naturally", + "text": "Concerns come up naturally" + }, + { + "id": "agreements_feel_automatic", + "text": "Agreements feel automatic" + }, + { + "id": "questions_no_longer_become_crises", + "text": "Questions no longer become crises" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_prefer_less_structure", + "text": "Both 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"maintenance", + "honesty", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_small_truths_easy_to_share", + "text": "Keep small truths easy to share" + }, + { + "id": "do_not_wait_for_a_crisis", + "text": "Do not wait for a crisis" + }, + { + "id": "mention_concerns_before_resentment_builds", + "text": "Mention concerns before resentment builds" + }, + { + "id": "continue_ordinary_check_ins", + "text": "Continue ordinary check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_assuming_repair_is_permanently_finished", + "text": "Avoid assuming repair is permanently finished" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_small_truths_easy_to_share", + "text": "Keep small truths easy to share" + }, + { + "id": "do_not_wait_for_a_crisis", + "text": "Do not wait for a crisis" + }, + { + "id": "mention_concerns_before_resentment_builds", + "text": "Mention concerns before resentment builds" + }, + { + "id": "continue_ordinary_check_ins", + "text": "Continue ordinary check-ins" + }, + { 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"access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "mutual_repair", + "progress", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_people_take_responsibility", + "text": "Both people take responsibility" + }, + { + "id": "both_can_raise_concerns", + "text": "Both can raise concerns" + }, + { + "id": "both_respect_boundaries", + "text": "Both respect boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "neither_person_carries_all_the_emotional_work", + "text": "Neither person carries all the emotional work" + }, + { + "id": "change_does_not_depend_on_constant_reminders", + "text": "Change does not depend on constant reminders" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_people_take_responsibility", + "text": "Both people take responsibility" + }, + { + "id": "both_can_raise_concerns", + "text": "Both can raise concerns" + }, + { + "id": "both_respect_boundaries", + "text": "Both respect boundaries" + }, + { + "id": "neither_person_carries_all_the_emotional_work", + "text": "Neither person carries all the emotional work" + }, + { + "id": "change_does_not_depend_on_constant_reminders", + "text": "Change does not depend on constant reminders" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "rt_150", + "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would help rebuilt trust remain something we choose every day?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "maintenance", + "future", + "rebuilding_trust" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "honesty_before_convenience", + "text": "Honesty before convenience" + }, + { + "id": "respect_during_disagreement", + "text": "Respect during disagreement" + }, + { + "id": "follow_through_on_ordinary_promises", + "text": "Follow-through on ordinary promises" + }, + { + "id": "freedom_without_secrecy", + "text": "Freedom without secrecy" + }, + { + "id": "care_that_does_not_require_control", + "text": "Care that does not require control" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "honesty_before_convenience", + "text": "Honesty before convenience" + }, + { + "id": "respect_during_disagreement", + "text": "Respect during disagreement" + }, + { + "id": "follow_through_on_ordinary_promises", + "text": "Follow-through on ordinary promises" + }, + { + "id": "freedom_without_secrecy", + "text": "Freedom without secrecy" + }, + { + "id": "care_that_does_not_require_control", + "text": "Care that does not require control" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/sex_and_desire.json b/seed/questions/sex_and_desire.json index f8b9f234..a2e8dd2f 100644 --- a/seed/questions/sex_and_desire.json +++ b/seed/questions/sex_and_desire.json @@ -2,7 +2,7 @@ "category": { "id": "sex_and_desire", "display_name": "Sex & Desire", - "description": "Adult, playful, consent-first questions about feeling wanted, flirting, initiation, desire rhythms, mismatched moods, sexual confidence, communication, and keeping long-term chemistry alive.", + "description": "Direct, adult, consent-first questions about feeling sexually wanted, getting turned on, flirting, initiating sex, libido rhythms, mismatched desire, sexual confidence, rejection, communication, and keeping long-term chemistry alive.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "favorite", "schema_version": "question_v2", @@ -11,62 +11,151 @@ "free_questions": 45, "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { - "written": 5, - "single_choice": 30, "multi_choice": 90, + "single_choice": 30, "scale": 15, - "this_or_that": 10 + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 }, "depth_counts": { - "1": 10, - "2": 38, - "3": 53, - "4": 40, - "5": 9 + "1": 37, + "2": 64, + "3": 49 }, - "light_depth_questions": 48, - "light_depth_percentage": 32.0, - "content_version": "sex_and_desire_focused_rebuild_v3", - "batch_size": 15, - "review_policy": "Ten 15-question batches with batch-level option-fit, repetition, consent, pack-boundary, and full-pack validation.", - "mass_rewrite_exception": "Approved rebuild: the source had 344 questions, 212 written prompts, repeated desire themes, and substantial overlap with neighboring intimacy packs.", - "related_pack_boundary": "Owns desire dynamics: feeling wanted, flirtation as a desire signal, initiation, desire rhythms, stress, mismatch, sexual confidence, consent communication, change over time, and long-term chemistry. Specific acts and activity preferences belong in sexual_preferences; everyday nonsexual touch belongs in physical_intimacy; broader sexual intimacy and aftercare belong in couple_intimacy.", - "source_question_count": 344, - "source_written_count": 212, - "final_validation": "pass" + "light_depth_questions": 37, + "light_depth_percentage": 24.7, + "content_version": "sex_and_desire_spicier_final_v7", + "review_policy": "Complete 150-question production rebuild validated against the current importer-aligned schema, written-question limit, access targets, true two-option this-or-that contract, and mirrored choice options.", + "related_pack_boundary": "This pack owns desire dynamics: feeling sexually wanted, arousal, libido, flirting as a desire signal, initiating sex, mismatched sex drives, sexual rejection, sexual confidence, consent communication, and long-term chemistry. Specific acts, positions, toys, oral-sex preferences, kink, and detailed aftercare preferences belong in sexual_preferences; everyday nonsexual touch belongs in physical_intimacy.", + "final_validation": "pass", + "adult_language_policy": "Uses clear adult terms such as sex, horny, turned on, libido, arousal, sexual rejection, and sexual chemistry when they make the question more honest. The pack avoids vague euphemisms without drifting into a checklist of specific acts.", + "spicy_editorial_update": { + "questions_reworked": 138, + "focus": "Replaced vague desire language with direct adult wording while keeping the pack centered on desire dynamics rather than sexual activity preferences." + }, + "batch_review": [ + { + "batch": 1, + "first_id": "sex_and_desire_001", + "last_id": "sex_and_desire_025", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 2, + "first_id": "sex_and_desire_026", + "last_id": "sex_and_desire_050", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 3, + "first_id": "sex_and_desire_051", + "last_id": "sex_and_desire_075", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 4, + "first_id": "sex_and_desire_076", + "last_id": "sex_and_desire_100", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 5, + "first_id": "sex_and_desire_101", + "last_id": "sex_and_desire_125", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 6, + "first_id": "sex_and_desire_126", + "last_id": "sex_and_desire_150", + "count": 25, + "status": "PASS" + } + ], + "fifty_question_checkpoints": [ + { + "checkpoint": 1, + "first_id": "sex_and_desire_001", + "last_id": "sex_and_desire_050", + "count": 50, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "checkpoint": 2, + "first_id": "sex_and_desire_051", + "last_id": "sex_and_desire_100", + "count": 50, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "checkpoint": 3, + "first_id": "sex_and_desire_101", + "last_id": "sex_and_desire_150", + "count": 50, + "status": "PASS" + } + ], + "internal_near_duplicate_warnings": 0, + "cross_pack_near_overlap_warnings": 0, + "final_review": "Final adult-language and production review completed. Reworked 138 questions to use direct language about sex, arousal, libido, sexual rejection, initiation, and chemistry. Removed the final initiation overlap with sexual_preferences and revalidated schema, counts, consent tags, option fit, uniqueness, pack boundaries, six 25-question batches, and three 50-question checkpoints.", + "final_editorial_patches": 2 } }, "questions": [ { "id": "sex_and_desire_001", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make you feel genuinely wanted by me?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which signal from me makes you feel sexually wanted fastest?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "feeling_wanted", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "fun_first", + "adult_language", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "saying_i_want_you", + "text": "Saying I want you" + }, + { + "id": "a_look_that_lingers", + "text": "A look that lingers" + }, + { + "id": "initiating_sex_confidently", + "text": "Initiating sex confidently" + }, + { + "id": "making_real_time_for_us", + "text": "Making real time for us" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "focused_attention", - "text": "Focused attention" + "id": "saying_i_want_you", + "text": "Saying I want you" }, { - "id": "a_confident_invitation", - "text": "A confident invitation" + "id": "a_look_that_lingers", + "text": "A look that lingers" }, { - "id": "a_specific_compliment", - "text": "A specific compliment" + "id": "initiating_sex_confidently", + "text": "Initiating sex confidently" }, { - "id": "feeling_pursued_during_the_day", - "text": "Feeling pursued during the day" + "id": "making_real_time_for_us", + "text": "Making real time for us" } ] } @@ -74,92 +163,79 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_002", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which signal most clearly says I am attracted to you?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes sexual attraction feel personal instead of automatic?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "feeling_wanted", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "adult_language", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "naming_exactly_what_attracts_you", + "text": "Naming exactly what attracts you" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_what_makes_you_feel_desired", + "text": "Remembering what makes you feel desired" + }, + { + "id": "wanting_you_on_an_ordinary_day", + "text": "Wanting you on an ordinary day" + }, + { + "id": "showing_sexual_interest_without_demanding_sex", + "text": "Showing sexual interest without demanding sex" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "the_way_i_look_at_you", - "text": "The way I look at you" + "id": "naming_exactly_what_attracts_you", + "text": "Naming exactly what attracts you" }, { - "id": "the_way_i_talk_to_you", - "text": "The way I talk to you" + "id": "remembering_what_makes_you_feel_desired", + "text": "Remembering what makes you feel desired" }, { - "id": "making_time_for_us", - "text": "Making time for us" + "id": "wanting_you_on_an_ordinary_day", + "text": "Wanting you on an ordinary day" }, { - "id": "saying_it_directly", - "text": "Saying it directly" + "id": "showing_sexual_interest_without_demanding_sex", + "text": "Showing sexual interest without demanding sex" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_003", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes attraction feel personal instead of automatic?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How sexually wanted have you felt by me lately?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "feeling_wanted", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "noticing_something_specific_about_me", - "text": "Noticing something specific about me" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_me_when_life_is_busy", - "text": "Choosing me when life is busy" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_what_makes_me_light_up", - "text": "Remembering what makes me light up" - }, - { - "id": "letting_the_interest_build", - "text": "Letting the interest build" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_004", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How wanted have you felt by me lately?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "feeling_wanted", - "sex_and_desire", + "adult_language", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much lately", - "max_label": "Very much lately" + "max_label": "Very wanted lately" } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_005", + "id": "sex_and_desire_004", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Feeling pursued or feeling irresistible?", @@ -168,8 +244,18 @@ "tags": [ "feeling_wanted", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "fun_first", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_pursued", + "text": "Feeling pursued" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_irresistible", + "text": "Feeling irresistible" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -180,47 +266,114 @@ { "id": "feeling_irresistible", "text": "Feeling irresistible" - }, - { - "id": "a_little_of_both", - "text": "A little of both" - }, - { - "id": "it_depends_on_the_day", - "text": "It depends on the day" } ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_006", + "id": "sex_and_desire_005", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which moments make you feel chosen, not just available?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which ordinary moments can carry real sexual tension for you?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ "feeling_wanted", "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_tension", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_look_that_says_i_want_you", + "text": "A look that says I want you" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_joke_with_an_edge", + "text": "A private joke with an edge" + }, + { + "id": "being_openly_called_sexy", + "text": "Being openly called sexy" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_we_may_have_sex_later", + "text": "Knowing we may have sex later" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "when_i_make_the_first_move", - "text": "When I make the first move" + "id": "a_look_that_says_i_want_you", + "text": "A look that says I want you" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_joke_with_an_edge", + "text": "A private joke with an edge" + }, + { + "id": "being_openly_called_sexy", + "text": "Being openly called sexy" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_we_may_have_sex_later", + "text": "Knowing we may have sex later" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_006", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When do you feel most sexually chosen by me?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "adult_language", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "when_i_initiate_sex", + "text": "When I initiate sex" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_protect_time_for_us", + "text": "When I protect time for us" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_notice_whether_you_are_in_the_mood", + "text": "When I notice whether you are in the mood" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_keep_flirting_without_expecting_sex", + "text": "When I keep flirting without expecting sex" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "when_i_initiate_sex", + "text": "When I initiate sex" }, { "id": "when_i_protect_time_for_us", "text": "When I protect time for us" }, { - "id": "when_i_notice_your_mood", - "text": "When I notice your mood" + "id": "when_i_notice_whether_you_are_in_the_mood", + "text": "When I notice whether you are in the mood" }, { - "id": "when_i_show_desire_without_expecting_anything", - "text": "When I show desire without expecting anything" + "id": "when_i_keep_flirting_without_expecting_sex", + "text": "When I keep flirting without expecting sex" } ] } @@ -228,99 +381,160 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_007", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When you want reassurance about my desire, what lands best?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can quietly drain the feeling of being sexually desired?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feeling_wanted", "sex_and_desire", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "being_taken_for_granted", + "text": "Being taken for granted" + }, + { + "id": "only_being_approached_when_sex_is_wanted", + "text": "Only being approached when sex is wanted" + }, + { + "id": "every_affectionate_touch_becoming_a_sexual_move", + "text": "Every affectionate touch becoming a sexual move" + }, + { + "id": "never_hearing_what_turns_me_on_about_you", + "text": "Never hearing what turns me on about you" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "clear_words", - "text": "Clear words" + "id": "being_taken_for_granted", + "text": "Being taken for granted" }, { - "id": "undivided_attention", - "text": "Undivided attention" + "id": "only_being_approached_when_sex_is_wanted", + "text": "Only being approached when sex is wanted" }, { - "id": "a_planned_private_moment", - "text": "A planned private moment" + "id": "every_affectionate_touch_becoming_a_sexual_move", + "text": "Every affectionate touch becoming a sexual move" }, { - "id": "a_spontaneous_show_of_interest", - "text": "A spontaneous show of interest" + "id": "never_hearing_what_turns_me_on_about_you", + "text": "Never hearing what turns me on about you" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_008", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can quietly drain the feeling of being desired?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which kinds of attention make you feel sexy without putting you on the spot?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feeling_wanted", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "adult_language", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_direct_private_compliment", + "text": "A direct private compliment" + }, + { + "id": "a_look_that_clearly_wants_me", + "text": "A look that clearly wants me" + }, + { + "id": "a_suggestive_message", + "text": "A suggestive message" + }, + { + "id": "room_to_respond_without_matching_the_mood", + "text": "Room to respond without matching the mood" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "feeling_taken_for_granted", - "text": "Feeling taken for granted" + "id": "a_direct_private_compliment", + "text": "A direct private compliment" }, { - "id": "only_being_approached_at_the_last_minute", - "text": "Only being approached at the last minute" + "id": "a_look_that_clearly_wants_me", + "text": "A look that clearly wants me" }, { - "id": "affection_that_always_has_an_agenda", - "text": "Affection that always has an agenda" + "id": "a_suggestive_message", + "text": "A suggestive message" }, { - "id": "never_hearing_what_attracts_you", - "text": "Never hearing what attracts you" + "id": "room_to_respond_without_matching_the_mood", + "text": "Room to respond without matching the mood" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_009", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which kinds of attention make you feel sexy without putting you on the spot?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes my sexual desire for you feel believable?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feeling_wanted", "sex_and_desire", + "adult_language", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "wanting_you_consistently", + "text": "Wanting you consistently" + }, + { + "id": "saying_it_clearly", + "text": "Saying it clearly" + }, + { + "id": "showing_confident_sexual_interest", + "text": "Showing confident sexual interest" + }, + { + "id": "making_real_time_for_sex_and_closeness", + "text": "Making real time for sex and closeness" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_private_compliment", - "text": "A private compliment" + "id": "wanting_you_consistently", + "text": "Wanting you consistently" }, { - "id": "a_lingering_look", - "text": "A lingering look" + "id": "saying_it_clearly", + "text": "Saying it clearly" }, { - "id": "a_playful_message", - "text": "A playful message" + "id": "showing_confident_sexual_interest", + "text": "Showing confident sexual interest" }, { - "id": "being_given_room_to_respond", - "text": "Being given room to respond" + "id": "making_real_time_for_sex_and_closeness", + "text": "Making real time for sex and closeness" } ] } @@ -329,67 +543,32 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_010", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes desire from me feel believable?", + "text": "What helps you enjoy attention without wondering what comes next?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feeling_wanted", "sex_and_desire", + "gentle_depth", "consent_first" ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_show_it_consistently", - "text": "You show it consistently" - }, - { - "id": "you_say_what_attracts_you", - "text": "You say what attracts you" - }, - { - "id": "you_seem_confident", - "text": "You seem confident" - }, - { - "id": "you_give_me_time_to_respond", - "text": "You give me time to respond" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_011", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it for you to believe me when I say I want you?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feeling_wanted", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard to believe", - "max_label": "Easy to believe" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_012", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you receive attention without wondering what is expected next?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feeling_wanted", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_pressure_to_match_the_mood", + "text": "No pressure to match the mood" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_chance_to_decline", + "text": "A clear chance to decline" + }, + { + "id": "affection_that_can_stay_affectionate", + "text": "Affection that can stay affectionate" + }, + { + "id": "trust_that_disappointment_will_be_handled_well", + "text": "Trust that disappointment will be handled well" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -398,8 +577,8 @@ "text": "No pressure to match the mood" }, { - "id": "a_clear_chance_to_say_no", - "text": "A clear chance to say no" + "id": "a_clear_chance_to_decline", + "text": "A clear chance to decline" }, { "id": "affection_that_can_stay_affectionate", @@ -409,60 +588,48 @@ "id": "trust_that_disappointment_will_be_handled_well", "text": "Trust that disappointment will be handled well" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_013", + "id": "sex_and_desire_011", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which everyday moments can carry real sexual energy for you?", + "text": "Which feelings most often open the door to wanting sex?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feeling_wanted", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "catching_each_other_s_eye", - "text": "Catching each other's eye" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_joke", - "text": "A private joke" - }, - { - "id": "being_openly_admired", - "text": "Being openly admired" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_we_have_time_later", - "text": "Knowing we have time later" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_014", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which feeling most often opens the door to desire for you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feeling_wanted", - "sex_and_desire", + "adult_language", + "libido", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_sexually_wanted", + "text": "Feeling sexually wanted" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_relaxed", + "text": "Feeling relaxed" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_emotionally_close", + "text": "Feeling emotionally close" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_playful_and_horny", + "text": "Feeling playful and horny" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "feeling_wanted", - "text": "Feeling wanted" + "id": "feeling_sexually_wanted", + "text": "Feeling sexually wanted" }, { "id": "feeling_relaxed", @@ -473,75 +640,246 @@ "text": "Feeling emotionally close" }, { - "id": "feeling_playful", - "text": "Feeling playful" + "id": "feeling_playful_and_horny", + "text": "Feeling playful and horny" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_012", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make our sexual chemistry feel less assumed and more alive?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "adult_language", + "sexual_chemistry", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_direct_sexual_compliments", + "text": "More direct sexual compliments" + }, + { + "id": "more_buildup_during_the_day", + "text": "More buildup during the day" + }, + { + "id": "more_protected_time_for_sex", + "text": "More protected time for sex" + }, + { + "id": "more_curiosity_about_what_turns_us_on_now", + "text": "More curiosity about what turns us on now" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_direct_sexual_compliments", + "text": "More direct sexual compliments" + }, + { + "id": "more_buildup_during_the_day", + "text": "More buildup during the day" + }, + { + "id": "more_protected_time_for_sex", + "text": "More protected time for sex" + }, + { + "id": "more_curiosity_about_what_turns_us_on_now", + "text": "More curiosity about what turns us on now" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_013", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which compliments land best when you want to feel sexually desired?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_praise", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_look_fucking_hot", + "text": "You look fucking hot" + }, + { + "id": "i_love_your_confidence", + "text": "I love your confidence" + }, + { + "id": "the_way_you_move_turns_me_on", + "text": "The way you move turns me on" + }, + { + "id": "something_only_i_would_notice", + "text": "Something only I would notice" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_look_fucking_hot", + "text": "You look fucking hot" + }, + { + "id": "i_love_your_confidence", + "text": "I love your confidence" + }, + { + "id": "the_way_you_move_turns_me_on", + "text": "The way you move turns me on" + }, + { + "id": "something_only_i_would_notice", + "text": "Something only I would notice" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_014", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "written", + "text": "What have I said or done that made you feel instantly sexually wanted?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "adult_language", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_015", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would make our attraction feel less assumed and more alive?", + "text": "What tells you my attraction is about the real you, not just access to sex?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feeling_wanted", "sex_and_desire", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_want_you_on_ordinary_days", + "text": "I want you on ordinary days" + }, + { + "id": "i_respect_your_pace", + "text": "I respect your pace" + }, + { + "id": "i_stay_curious_about_your_desire", + "text": "I stay curious about your desire" + }, + { + "id": "i_show_interest_without_demanding_a_response", + "text": "I show interest without demanding a response" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "more_direct_compliments", - "text": "More direct compliments" + "id": "i_want_you_on_ordinary_days", + "text": "I want you on ordinary days" }, { - "id": "more_build_up_during_the_day", - "text": "More build-up during the day" + "id": "i_respect_your_pace", + "text": "I respect your pace" }, { - "id": "more_protected_private_time", - "text": "More protected private time" + "id": "i_stay_curious_about_your_desire", + "text": "I stay curious about your desire" }, { - "id": "more_curiosity_about_each_other", - "text": "More curiosity about each other" + "id": "i_show_interest_without_demanding_a_response", + "text": "I show interest without demanding a response" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_016", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps flirting get through on a busy day?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of sexual flirting still works on a busy day?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "flirting", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "fun_first", + "adult_language", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_look_across_the_room", + "text": "A look across the room" + }, + { + "id": "a_text_saying_i_want_you_later", + "text": "A text saying I want you later" + }, + { + "id": "a_bold_sexual_compliment", + "text": "A bold sexual compliment" + }, + { + "id": "a_promise_of_private_time", + "text": "A promise of private time" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "it_is_brief_and_clear", - "text": "It is brief and clear" + "id": "a_look_across_the_room", + "text": "A look across the room" }, { - "id": "it_sounds_like_us", - "text": "It sounds like us" + "id": "a_text_saying_i_want_you_later", + "text": "A text saying I want you later" }, { - "id": "it_builds_anticipation", - "text": "It builds anticipation" + "id": "a_bold_sexual_compliment", + "text": "A bold sexual compliment" }, { - "id": "it_asks_nothing_right_away", - "text": "It asks nothing right away" + "id": "a_promise_of_private_time", + "text": "A promise of private time" } ] } @@ -549,15 +887,34 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_017", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What gives flirting the best chance of landing?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What gives sexual flirting the best chance of landing?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "flirting", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "fun_first", + "adult_language", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "a_confident_tone", + "text": "A confident tone" + }, + { + "id": "no_expectation_of_sex", + "text": "No expectation of sex" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_connected_first", + "text": "Feeling connected first" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -570,46 +927,51 @@ "text": "A confident tone" }, { - "id": "knowing_there_is_no_pressure", - "text": "Knowing there is no pressure" + "id": "no_expectation_of_sex", + "text": "No expectation of sex" }, { "id": "feeling_connected_first", "text": "Feeling connected first" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_018", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes anticipation fun instead of distracting?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Slow sexual buildup or obvious desire?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "anticipation", + "flirting", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "fun_first", + "adult_language", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_sexual_buildup", + "text": "Slow sexual buildup" + }, + { + "id": "obvious_desire", + "text": "Obvious desire" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "keeping_it_subtle", - "text": "Keeping it subtle" + "id": "slow_sexual_buildup", + "text": "Slow sexual buildup" }, { - "id": "knowing_the_plan_can_change", - "text": "Knowing the plan can change" - }, - { - "id": "having_real_privacy_later", - "text": "Having real privacy later" - }, - { - "id": "both_of_us_playing_along", - "text": "Both of us playing along" + "id": "obvious_desire", + "text": "Obvious desire" } ] } @@ -617,68 +979,112 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_019", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Slow build or obvious interest?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes sexual anticipation fun instead of distracting?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "flirting", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "fun_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_tension", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "keeping_it_suggestive", + "text": "Keeping it suggestive" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_plans_can_change", + "text": "Knowing plans can change" + }, + { + "id": "having_real_privacy_later", + "text": "Having real privacy later" + }, + { + "id": "both_of_us_feeding_the_tension", + "text": "Both of us feeding the tension" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "slow_build", - "text": "Slow build" + "id": "keeping_it_suggestive", + "text": "Keeping it suggestive" }, { - "id": "obvious_interest", - "text": "Obvious interest" + "id": "knowing_plans_can_change", + "text": "Knowing plans can change" }, { - "id": "start_subtle_then_be_clear", - "text": "Start subtle, then be clear" + "id": "having_real_privacy_later", + "text": "Having real privacy later" }, { - "id": "whichever_fits_the_mood", - "text": "Whichever fits the mood" + "id": "both_of_us_feeding_the_tension", + "text": "Both of us feeding the tension" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_020", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which flirting habits are worth bringing back more often?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which old sexual-flirting habits are worth bringing back?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ "flirting", "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", + "adult_language", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "dirty_jokes_only_we_understand", + "text": "Dirty jokes only we understand" + }, + { + "id": "specific_sexual_compliments", + "text": "Specific sexual compliments" + }, + { + "id": "messages_that_build_sexual_tension", + "text": "Messages that build sexual tension" + }, + { + "id": "making_it_obvious_we_want_each_other", + "text": "Making it obvious we want each other" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "inside_jokes_with_an_edge", - "text": "Inside jokes with an edge" + "id": "dirty_jokes_only_we_understand", + "text": "Dirty jokes only we understand" }, { - "id": "compliments_that_feel_specific", - "text": "Compliments that feel specific" + "id": "specific_sexual_compliments", + "text": "Specific sexual compliments" }, { - "id": "messages_that_build_anticipation", - "text": "Messages that build anticipation" + "id": "messages_that_build_sexual_tension", + "text": "Messages that build sexual tension" }, { - "id": "making_our_interest_obvious", - "text": "Making our interest obvious" + "id": "making_it_obvious_we_want_each_other", + "text": "Making it obvious we want each other" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { @@ -686,13 +1092,31 @@ "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can be missing when flirting falls flat?", - "depth": 3, + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "flirting", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "timing", + "text": "Timing" + }, + { + "id": "confidence", + "text": "Confidence" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "emotional_connection", + "text": "Emotional connection" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { @@ -711,39 +1135,60 @@ "id": "emotional_connection", "text": "Emotional connection" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_022", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps playful tension grow without feeling forced?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should our sexual flirting do more often?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "anticipation", + "flirting", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "fun_first", + "adult_language", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "make_us_laugh", + "text": "Make us laugh" + }, + { + "id": "build_sexual_tension", + "text": "Build sexual tension" + }, + { + "id": "say_desire_clearly", + "text": "Say desire clearly" + }, + { + "id": "make_us_feel_like_lovers_not_roommates", + "text": "Make us feel like lovers, not roommates" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "letting_it_happen_naturally", - "text": "Letting it happen naturally" + "id": "make_us_laugh", + "text": "Make us laugh" }, { - "id": "not_overexplaining_the_joke", - "text": "Not overexplaining the joke" + "id": "build_sexual_tension", + "text": "Build sexual tension" }, { - "id": "a_little_mystery", - "text": "A little mystery" + "id": "say_desire_clearly", + "text": "Say desire clearly" }, { - "id": "an_easy_way_to_change_the_subject", - "text": "An easy way to change the subject" + "id": "make_us_feel_like_lovers_not_roommates", + "text": "Make us feel like lovers, not roommates" } ] } @@ -752,14 +1197,32 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_023", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which forms of anticipation make you look forward to being alone together?", + "text": "Which forms of anticipation make you want sex more?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "anticipation", + "flirting", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "adult_language", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_suggestive_message", + "text": "A suggestive message" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_we_protected_time", + "text": "Knowing we protected time" + }, + { + "id": "a_blunt_i_want_you", + "text": "A blunt I want you" + }, + { + "id": "an_unexpected_sexual_tone", + "text": "An unexpected sexual tone" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -768,30 +1231,87 @@ "text": "A suggestive message" }, { - "id": "a_plan_made_earlier", - "text": "A plan made earlier" + "id": "knowing_we_protected_time", + "text": "Knowing we protected time" }, { - "id": "a_private_promise", - "text": "A private promise" + "id": "a_blunt_i_want_you", + "text": "A blunt I want you" }, { - "id": "an_unexpected_change_in_tone", - "text": "An unexpected change in tone" + "id": "an_unexpected_sexual_tone", + "text": "An unexpected sexual tone" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_024", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps flirting from turning into an obligation?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "flirting", + "sex_and_desire", + "gentle_depth", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "letting_it_stay_just_flirting", + "text": "Letting it stay just flirting" + }, + { + "id": "not_treating_it_like_a_promise", + "text": "Not treating it like a promise" + }, + { + "id": "respecting_a_changed_mood", + "text": "Respecting a changed mood" + }, + { + "id": "enjoying_the_response_without_pushing", + "text": "Enjoying the response without pushing" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "letting_it_stay_just_flirting", + "text": "Letting it stay just flirting" + }, + { + "id": "not_treating_it_like_a_promise", + "text": "Not treating it like a promise" + }, + { + "id": "respecting_a_changed_mood", + "text": "Respecting a changed mood" + }, + { + "id": "enjoying_the_response_without_pushing", + "text": "Enjoying the response without pushing" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_025", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much flirting do you want between private moments?", + "text": "How much sexual flirting do you want between times we have sex?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "flirting", "sex_and_desire", + "adult_language", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { @@ -802,11 +1322,173 @@ } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_025", + "id": "sex_and_desire_026", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes playful tension grow without feeling forced?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "flirting", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "letting_it_happen_naturally", + "text": "Letting it happen naturally" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_mystery", + "text": "A little mystery" + }, + { + "id": "an_easy_way_to_change_the_subject", + "text": "An easy way to change the subject" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_either_person_can_slow_it_down", + "text": "Knowing either person can slow it down" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "letting_it_happen_naturally", + "text": "Letting it happen naturally" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_mystery", + "text": "A little mystery" + }, + { + "id": "an_easy_way_to_change_the_subject", + "text": "An easy way to change the subject" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_either_person_can_slow_it_down", + "text": "Knowing either person can slow it down" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_027", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which sexual-flirting surprise would feel most like us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "flirting", + "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", + "adult_language", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_blunt_i_want_you_text", + "text": "A blunt I want you text" + }, + { + "id": "a_whispered_sexual_compliment", + "text": "A whispered sexual compliment" + }, + { + "id": "protected_time_with_no_guaranteed_outcome", + "text": "Protected time with no guaranteed outcome" + }, + { + "id": "a_look_that_makes_the_point", + "text": "A look that makes the point" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_blunt_i_want_you_text", + "text": "A blunt I want you text" + }, + { + "id": "a_whispered_sexual_compliment", + "text": "A whispered sexual compliment" + }, + { + "id": "protected_time_with_no_guaranteed_outcome", + "text": "Protected time with no guaranteed outcome" + }, + { + "id": "a_look_that_makes_the_point", + "text": "A look that makes the point" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_028", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What turns a normal evening into a sexually charged one?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "flirting", + "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_tension", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "better_lighting", + "text": "Better lighting" + }, + { + "id": "music_with_an_edge", + "text": "Music with an edge" + }, + { + "id": "putting_phones_away", + "text": "Putting phones away" + }, + { + "id": "one_of_us_clearly_initiating", + "text": "One of us clearly initiating" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "better_lighting", + "text": "Better lighting" + }, + { + "id": "music_with_an_edge", + "text": "Music with an edge" + }, + { + "id": "putting_phones_away", + "text": "Putting phones away" + }, + { + "id": "one_of_us_clearly_initiating", + "text": "One of us clearly initiating" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_029", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "What is something I have said or done that made you feel instantly desired?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which old flirtation of ours still makes you smile?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "flirting", @@ -817,202 +1499,109 @@ "max_length": 500 } }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_026", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps flirting from turning into an obligation?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "letting_it_be_just_flirting", - "text": "Letting it be just flirting" - }, - { - "id": "not_treating_it_like_a_promise", - "text": "Not treating it like a promise" - }, - { - "id": "respecting_a_change_in_mood", - "text": "Respecting a change in mood" - }, - { - "id": "enjoying_the_response_without_pushing", - "text": "Enjoying the response without pushing" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_027", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our flirting do more often?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "make_us_laugh", - "text": "Make us laugh" - }, - { - "id": "build_anticipation", - "text": "Build anticipation" - }, - { - "id": "say_desire_more_clearly", - "text": "Say desire more clearly" - }, - { - "id": "break_up_the_routine", - "text": "Break up the routine" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_028", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes a flirty message feel personal rather than copied and pasted?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "it_references_our_history", - "text": "It references our history" - }, - { - "id": "it_sounds_like_your_real_voice", - "text": "It sounds like your real voice" - }, - { - "id": "it_notices_something_specific", - "text": "It notices something specific" - }, - { - "id": "it_fits_what_is_happening_that_day", - "text": "It fits what is happening that day" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_029", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which moments are best for turning up the chemistry a little?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "before_we_leave_the_house", - "text": "Before we leave the house" - }, - { - "id": "during_a_shared_laugh", - "text": "During a shared laugh" - }, - { - "id": "when_we_finally_get_privacy", - "text": "When we finally get privacy" - }, - { - "id": "when_one_of_us_clearly_starts_it", - "text": "When one of us clearly starts it" - } - ] - } - }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_030", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is the best ending to a good round of flirting?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make talking about desire feel less clinical and more sexy?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "flirting", "sex_and_desire", + "adult_language", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "start_with_what_already_turns_us_on", + "text": "Start with what already turns us on" + }, + { + "id": "use_plain_adult_words", + "text": "Use plain adult words" + }, + { + "id": "keep_the_first_question_small", + "text": "Keep the first question small" + }, + { + "id": "leave_room_to_laugh", + "text": "Leave room to laugh" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "let_the_tension_linger", - "text": "Let the tension linger" + "id": "start_with_what_already_turns_us_on", + "text": "Start with what already turns us on" }, { - "id": "make_a_plan_for_later", - "text": "Make a plan for later" + "id": "use_plain_adult_words", + "text": "Use plain adult words" }, { - "id": "say_exactly_what_you_want", - "text": "Say exactly what you want" + "id": "keep_the_first_question_small", + "text": "Keep the first question small" }, { - "id": "keep_it_playful_and_move_on", - "text": "Keep it playful and move on" + "id": "leave_room_to_laugh", + "text": "Leave room to laugh" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_031", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes being approached feel exciting rather than assumed?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which way of initiating sex feels most natural to you?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "initiation", "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_directly_if_i_want_sex", + "text": "Ask directly if I want sex" + }, + { + "id": "build_sexual_tension_first", + "text": "Build sexual tension first" + }, + { + "id": "use_a_playful_invitation", + "text": "Use a playful invitation" + }, + { + "id": "plan_private_time_earlier", + "text": "Plan private time earlier" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" + "id": "ask_directly_if_i_want_sex", + "text": "Ask directly if I want sex" }, { - "id": "a_clear_invitation", - "text": "A clear invitation" + "id": "build_sexual_tension_first", + "text": "Build sexual tension first" }, { - "id": "room_to_answer_honestly", - "text": "Room to answer honestly" + "id": "use_a_playful_invitation", + "text": "Use a playful invitation" }, { - "id": "feeling_wanted_before_the_ask", - "text": "Feeling wanted before the ask" + "id": "plan_private_time_earlier", + "text": "Plan private time earlier" } ] } @@ -1020,67 +1609,90 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_032", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which part of initiation matters most to you?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes an invitation to sex confident without feeling pushy?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "initiation", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_sexual_interest", + "text": "Clear sexual interest" + }, + { + "id": "a_relaxed_tone", + "text": "A relaxed tone" + }, + { + "id": "room_for_any_answer", + "text": "Room for any answer" + }, + { + "id": "no_sulking_if_the_answer_is_no", + "text": "No sulking if the answer is no" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "timing", - "text": "Timing" + "id": "clear_sexual_interest", + "text": "Clear sexual interest" }, { - "id": "clarity", - "text": "Clarity" + "id": "a_relaxed_tone", + "text": "A relaxed tone" }, { - "id": "tone", - "text": "Tone" + "id": "room_for_any_answer", + "text": "Room for any answer" }, { - "id": "freedom_to_decline", - "text": "Freedom to decline" + "id": "no_sulking_if_the_answer_is_no", + "text": "No sulking if the answer is no" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_033", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signals help you know I am interested without making you guess?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Ask for sex directly or build the mood first?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "initiation", "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_for_sex_directly", + "text": "Ask for sex directly" + }, + { + "id": "build_the_mood_first", + "text": "Build the mood first" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "saying_it_plainly", - "text": "Saying it plainly" + "id": "ask_for_sex_directly", + "text": "Ask for sex directly" }, { - "id": "changing_the_tone_of_the_moment", - "text": "Changing the tone of the moment" - }, - { - "id": "making_private_time", - "text": "Making private time" - }, - { - "id": "asking_whether_you_are_open_to_it", - "text": "Asking whether you are open to it" + "id": "build_the_mood_first", + "text": "Build the mood first" } ] } @@ -1088,119 +1700,215 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_034", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you initiating when you are in the mood?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_035", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "A confident invitation or a slow hint?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which moments make initiating sex easier for you?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "initiation", "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "after_we_reconnect", + "text": "After we reconnect" + }, + { + "id": "before_we_are_exhausted", + "text": "Before we are exhausted" + }, + { + "id": "when_privacy_is_protected", + "text": "When privacy is protected" + }, + { + "id": "when_the_day_already_feels_flirty", + "text": "When the day already feels flirty" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_confident_invitation", - "text": "A confident invitation" + "id": "after_we_reconnect", + "text": "After we reconnect" }, { - "id": "a_slow_hint", - "text": "A slow hint" + "id": "before_we_are_exhausted", + "text": "Before we are exhausted" }, { - "id": "hint_first_then_ask", - "text": "Hint first, then ask" + "id": "when_privacy_is_protected", + "text": "When privacy is protected" }, { - "id": "depends_on_the_mood", - "text": "Depends on the mood" + "id": "when_the_day_already_feels_flirty", + "text": "When the day already feels flirty" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_035", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make initiating sex feel awkward?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + }, + { + "id": "too_much_guessing", + "text": "Too much guessing" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_rushed", + "text": "Feeling rushed" + }, + { + "id": "worrying_that_no_will_become_a_conflict", + "text": "Worrying that no will become a conflict" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + }, + { + "id": "too_much_guessing", + "text": "Too much guessing" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_rushed", + "text": "Feeling rushed" + }, + { + "id": "worrying_that_no_will_become_a_conflict", + "text": "Worrying that no will become a conflict" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_036", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you initiate without feeling exposed?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What makes a rain check after a sexual invitation feel sincere?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "initiation", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_rejection" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_clear_answer", + "text": "A clear answer" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance_that_attraction_is_still_there", + "text": "Reassurance that attraction is still there" + }, + { + "id": "suggesting_another_time_if_that_feels_honest", + "text": "Suggesting another time if that feels honest" + }, + { + "id": "staying_warm_instead_of_distant", + "text": "Staying warm instead of distant" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "knowing_no_will_be_handled_kindly", - "text": "Knowing no will be handled kindly" + "id": "a_clear_answer", + "text": "A clear answer" }, { - "id": "having_a_familiar_signal", - "text": "Having a familiar signal" + "id": "reassurance_that_attraction_is_still_there", + "text": "Reassurance that attraction is still there" }, { - "id": "getting_some_encouragement_first", - "text": "Getting some encouragement first" + "id": "suggesting_another_time_if_that_feels_honest", + "text": "Suggesting another time if that feels honest" }, { - "id": "being_able_to_keep_it_light", - "text": "Being able to keep it light" + "id": "staying_warm_instead_of_distant", + "text": "Staying warm instead of distant" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_037", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is hardest about making the first move?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which initiation style gives you the easiest honest choice?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "initiation", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_direct_question_with_no_buildup", + "text": "A direct question with no buildup" + }, + { + "id": "flirting_followed_by_a_clear_question", + "text": "Flirting followed by a clear question" + }, + { + "id": "a_plan_discussed_earlier", + "text": "A plan discussed earlier" + }, + { + "id": "letting_me_initiate_when_i_want_sex", + "text": "Letting me initiate when I want sex" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "fear_of_rejection", - "text": "Fear of rejection" + "id": "a_direct_question_with_no_buildup", + "text": "A direct question with no buildup" }, { - "id": "not_knowing_your_mood", - "text": "Not knowing your mood" + "id": "flirting_followed_by_a_clear_question", + "text": "Flirting followed by a clear question" }, { - "id": "feeling_awkward_saying_it", - "text": "Feeling awkward saying it" + "id": "a_plan_discussed_earlier", + "text": "A plan discussed earlier" }, { - "id": "waiting_for_the_perfect_moment", - "text": "Waiting for the perfect moment" + "id": "letting_me_initiate_when_i_want_sex", + "text": "Letting me initiate when I want sex" } ] } @@ -1209,171 +1917,39 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_038", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which responses make an invitation feel respected even when the answer is no?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps when a plan to have sex changes?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "initiation", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "adult_language", + "sexual_rejection" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "knowing_it_is_not_a_verdict_on_attraction", + "text": "Knowing it is not a verdict on attraction" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_rain_check", + "text": "A warm rain check" + }, + { + "id": "staying_connected", + "text": "Staying connected" + }, + { + "id": "making_another_plan_without_pressure", + "text": "Making another plan without pressure" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_warm_clear_answer", - "text": "A warm, clear answer" - }, - { - "id": "no_guilt_or_arguing", - "text": "No guilt or arguing" - }, - { - "id": "affection_that_does_not_disappear", - "text": "Affection that does not disappear" - }, - { - "id": "trust_that_another_moment_will_come", - "text": "Trust that another moment will come" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_039", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes pursuit feel good in a long-term relationship?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pursuit", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "effort_that_feels_intentional", - "text": "Effort that feels intentional" - }, - { - "id": "interest_outside_the_bedroom", - "text": "Interest outside the bedroom" - }, - { - "id": "being_noticed_when_you_are_not_trying", - "text": "Being noticed when you are not trying" - }, - { - "id": "no_expectation_of_a_guaranteed_result", - "text": "No expectation of a guaranteed result" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_040", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can help when you are unsure of my mood?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_directly", - "text": "Ask directly" - }, - { - "id": "start_with_flirting", - "text": "Start with flirting" - }, - { - "id": "create_some_privacy", - "text": "Create some privacy" - }, - { - "id": "wait_for_a_clearer_signal", - "text": "Wait for a clearer signal" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_041", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How clear are our signals when one of us wants more?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Usually unclear", - "max_label": "Usually very clear" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_042", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which habits could make initiating feel more equal between us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "both_of_us_taking_turns", - "text": "Both of us taking turns" - }, - { - "id": "talking_about_preferred_signals", - "text": "Talking about preferred signals" - }, - { - "id": "responding_kindly_either_way", - "text": "Responding kindly either way" - }, - { - "id": "not_keeping_score", - "text": "Not keeping score" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_043", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps a changed plan feel less disappointing?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "knowing_it_is_not_personal", - "text": "Knowing it is not personal" + "id": "knowing_it_is_not_a_verdict_on_attraction", + "text": "Knowing it is not a verdict on attraction" }, { "id": "a_warm_rain_check", @@ -1387,88 +1963,353 @@ "id": "making_another_plan_without_pressure", "text": "Making another plan without pressure" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_044", + "id": "sex_and_desire_039", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a rain check feel sincere?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs show an invitation to sex is not entitlement?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_clear_answer", - "text": "A clear answer" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance_of_attraction", - "text": "Reassurance of attraction" - }, - { - "id": "suggesting_another_time", - "text": "Suggesting another time" - }, - { - "id": "staying_affectionate", - "text": "Staying affectionate" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_045", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs tell you an invitation is about connection, not entitlement?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", "tags": [ "initiation", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "consent" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "either_answer_is_welcomed", + "text": "Either answer is welcomed" + }, + { + "id": "the_approach_fits_your_mood", + "text": "The approach fits your mood" + }, + { + "id": "declining_does_not_change_how_you_are_treated", + "text": "Declining does not change how you are treated" + }, + { + "id": "your_comfort_matters_more_than_having_sex", + "text": "Your comfort matters more than having sex" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "your_answer_is_welcomed_either_way", - "text": "Your answer is welcomed either way" + "id": "either_answer_is_welcomed", + "text": "Either answer is welcomed" }, { "id": "the_approach_fits_your_mood", "text": "The approach fits your mood" }, { - "id": "there_is_no_punishment_for_declining", - "text": "There is no punishment for declining" + "id": "declining_does_not_change_how_you_are_treated", + "text": "Declining does not change how you are treated" }, { - "id": "your_comfort_matters_more_than_the_plan", - "text": "Your comfort matters more than the plan" + "id": "your_comfort_matters_more_than_having_sex", + "text": "Your comfort matters more than having sex" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_040", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it for you to initiate sex with me?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very difficult", + "max_label": "Very easy" + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_041", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would help us share sexual initiation more naturally?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "taking_turns_sometimes", + "text": "Taking turns sometimes" + }, + { + "id": "saying_when_we_are_horny", + "text": "Saying when we are horny" + }, + { + "id": "planning_time_for_sex", + "text": "Planning time for sex" + }, + { + "id": "not_keeping_score", + "text": "Not keeping score" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "taking_turns_sometimes", + "text": "Taking turns sometimes" + }, + { + "id": "saying_when_we_are_horny", + "text": "Saying when we are horny" + }, + { + "id": "planning_time_for_sex", + "text": "Planning time for sex" + }, + { + "id": "not_keeping_score", + "text": "Not keeping score" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_042", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When an invitation to sex lands well, what matters most?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "timing", + "text": "Timing" + }, + { + "id": "tone", + "text": "Tone" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_sexually_wanted_first", + "text": "Feeling sexually wanted first" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "timing", + "text": "Timing" + }, + { + "id": "tone", + "text": "Tone" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_sexually_wanted_first", + "text": "Feeling sexually wanted first" } ] } }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_043", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which low-pressure first moves feel sexy even if sex does not follow?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_look", + "text": "A long look" + }, + { + "id": "saying_i_want_you", + "text": "Saying I want you" + }, + { + "id": "sitting_close_with_obvious_tension", + "text": "Sitting close with obvious tension" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_sexual_question", + "text": "A playful sexual question" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_look", + "text": "A long look" + }, + { + "id": "saying_i_want_you", + "text": "Saying I want you" + }, + { + "id": "sitting_close_with_obvious_tension", + "text": "Sitting close with obvious tension" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_sexual_question", + "text": "A playful sexual question" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_044", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "written", + "text": "What is one invitation to sex from me you would gladly hear again?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_045", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should happen after either person changes their mind about sex?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "consent" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_change_is_accepted_immediately", + "text": "The change is accepted immediately" + }, + { + "id": "the_mood_stays_respectful", + "text": "The mood stays respectful" + }, + { + "id": "no_explanation_is_demanded", + "text": "No explanation is demanded" + }, + { + "id": "closeness_can_continue_only_if_both_want_it", + "text": "Closeness can continue only if both want it" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_change_is_accepted_immediately", + "text": "The change is accepted immediately" + }, + { + "id": "the_mood_stays_respectful", + "text": "The mood stays respectful" + }, + { + "id": "no_explanation_is_demanded", + "text": "No explanation is demanded" + }, + { + "id": "closeness_can_continue_only_if_both_want_it", + "text": "Closeness can continue only if both want it" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_046", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which conditions make desire easier to access for you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which conditions make it easier for you to want sex?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "desire_rhythm", "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "adult_language", + "libido" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_rested", + "text": "Feeling rested" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_emotionally_connected", + "text": "Feeling emotionally connected" + }, + { + "id": "having_privacy", + "text": "Having privacy" + }, + { + "id": "having_time_to_get_turned_on", + "text": "Having time to get turned on" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -1485,41 +2326,64 @@ "text": "Having privacy" }, { - "id": "having_time_to_warm_up", - "text": "Having time to warm up" + "id": "having_time_to_get_turned_on", + "text": "Having time to get turned on" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_047", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How does desire most often begin for you?", + "text": "How do you usually get turned on?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "desire_rhythm", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "responsive_desire", + "libido" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_get_horny_spontaneously", + "text": "I get horny spontaneously" + }, + { + "id": "desire_grows_after_closeness_starts", + "text": "Desire grows after closeness starts" + }, + { + "id": "emotional_connection_comes_first", + "text": "Emotional connection comes first" + }, + { + "id": "it_changes_from_day_to_day", + "text": "It changes from day to day" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "it_appears_on_its_own", - "text": "It appears on its own" + "id": "i_get_horny_spontaneously", + "text": "I get horny spontaneously" }, { - "id": "it_grows_after_closeness_starts", - "text": "It grows after closeness starts" + "id": "desire_grows_after_closeness_starts", + "text": "Desire grows after closeness starts" }, { - "id": "it_follows_emotional_connection", - "text": "It follows emotional connection" + "id": "emotional_connection_comes_first", + "text": "Emotional connection comes first" }, { - "id": "it_depends_heavily_on_the_day", - "text": "It depends heavily on the day" + "id": "it_changes_from_day_to_day", + "text": "It changes from day to day" } ] } @@ -1527,32 +2391,37 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_048", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can make a low-desire day feel completely normal?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Horny out of nowhere or a slow warm-up?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "desire_rhythm", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "fun_first", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "libido" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "horny_out_of_nowhere", + "text": "Horny out of nowhere" + }, + { + "id": "a_slow_warm_up", + "text": "A slow warm-up" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "knowing_moods_naturally_change", - "text": "Knowing moods naturally change" + "id": "horny_out_of_nowhere", + "text": "Horny out of nowhere" }, { - "id": "no_pressure_to_explain", - "text": "No pressure to explain" - }, - { - "id": "staying_affectionate_anyway", - "text": "Staying affectionate anyway" - }, - { - "id": "trusting_there_will_be_other_days", - "text": "Trusting there will be other days" + "id": "a_slow_warm_up", + "text": "A slow warm-up" } ] } @@ -1560,48 +2429,253 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_049", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Spontaneous spark or slow warm-up?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a low-libido day feel completely normal?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "desire_rhythm", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "adult_language", + "libido" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "knowing_libido_naturally_changes", + "text": "Knowing libido naturally changes" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure_to_explain", + "text": "No pressure to explain" + }, + { + "id": "affection_can_remain_nonsexual", + "text": "Affection can remain nonsexual" + }, + { + "id": "trusting_there_will_be_other_days", + "text": "Trusting there will be other days" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "spontaneous_spark", - "text": "Spontaneous spark" + "id": "knowing_libido_naturally_changes", + "text": "Knowing libido naturally changes" }, { - "id": "slow_warm_up", - "text": "Slow warm-up" + "id": "no_pressure_to_explain", + "text": "No pressure to explain" }, { - "id": "usually_a_mix", - "text": "Usually a mix" + "id": "affection_can_remain_nonsexual", + "text": "Affection can remain nonsexual" }, { - "id": "it_changes_with_life", - "text": "It changes with life" + "id": "trusting_there_will_be_other_days", + "text": "Trusting there will be other days" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_050", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things help you notice desire before the moment passes?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which signs tell you that you may be getting turned on?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "arousal" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_feel_more_playful", + "text": "You feel more playful" + }, + { + "id": "you_want_more_physical_closeness", + "text": "You want more physical closeness" + }, + { + "id": "flirting_starts_to_land", + "text": "Flirting starts to land" + }, + { + "id": "the_idea_of_sex_sounds_appealing", + "text": "The idea of sex sounds appealing" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_feel_more_playful", + "text": "You feel more playful" + }, + { + "id": "you_want_more_physical_closeness", + "text": "You want more physical closeness" + }, + { + "id": "flirting_starts_to_land", + "text": "Flirting starts to land" + }, + { + "id": "the_idea_of_sex_sounds_appealing", + "text": "The idea of sex sounds appealing" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_051", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can shift your libido more than expected?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "desire_rhythm", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "libido" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "sleep", + "text": "Sleep" + }, + { + "id": "stress", + "text": "Stress" + }, + { + "id": "body_confidence", + "text": "Body confidence" + }, + { + "id": "how_connected_we_feel", + "text": "How connected we feel" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sleep", + "text": "Sleep" + }, + { + "id": "stress", + "text": "Stress" + }, + { + "id": "body_confidence", + "text": "Body confidence" + }, + { + "id": "how_connected_we_feel", + "text": "How connected we feel" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_052", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When your libido is low, what helps most?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "libido" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_close_first", + "text": "Feeling close first" + }, + { + "id": "playful_sexual_attention", + "text": "Playful sexual attention" + }, + { + "id": "leaving_it_alone", + "text": "Leaving it alone" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_close_first", + "text": "Feeling close first" + }, + { + "id": "playful_sexual_attention", + "text": "Playful sexual attention" + }, + { + "id": "leaving_it_alone", + "text": "Leaving it alone" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_053", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which things help you notice arousal before the moment passes?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "arousal" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "less_mental_clutter", + "text": "Less mental clutter" + }, + { + "id": "time_without_interruptions", + "text": "Time without interruptions" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_sexually_noticed", + "text": "Feeling sexually noticed" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_invitation_to_sex", + "text": "A clear invitation to sex" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -1614,127 +2688,87 @@ "text": "Time without interruptions" }, { - "id": "flirting_earlier", - "text": "Flirting earlier" + "id": "feeling_sexually_noticed", + "text": "Feeling sexually noticed" }, { - "id": "paying_attention_to_your_own_body_and_mood", - "text": "Paying attention to your own body and mood" + "id": "a_clear_invitation_to_sex", + "text": "A clear invitation to sex" } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_051", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When your desire is quiet, what helps most?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desire_rhythm", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_rest", - "text": "More rest" - }, - { - "id": "more_connection", - "text": "More connection" - }, - { - "id": "more_playful_attention", - "text": "More playful attention" - }, - { - "id": "no_attempt_to_change_it", - "text": "No attempt to change it" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_052", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes it easier to talk about different desire levels without making it personal?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desire_rhythm", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "using_neutral_language", - "text": "Using neutral language" - }, - { - "id": "talking_outside_the_moment", - "text": "Talking outside the moment" - }, - { - "id": "avoiding_comparisons", - "text": "Avoiding comparisons" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_desire_is_not_a_score", - "text": "Remembering desire is not a score" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_053", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which changes can affect your desire more than people might realize?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desire_rhythm", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "sleep", - "text": "Sleep" - }, - { - "id": "body_confidence", - "text": "Body confidence" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_emotionally_disconnected", - "text": "Feeling emotionally disconnected" - } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_054", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How predictable does your desire feel from week to week?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps sexual desire return without forcing it?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "desire_rhythm", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "libido" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "lowering_pressure", + "text": "Lowering pressure" + }, + { + "id": "making_space_for_rest", + "text": "Making space for rest" + }, + { + "id": "rebuilding_sexual_playfulness", + "text": "Rebuilding sexual playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "talking_honestly_about_what_changed", + "text": "Talking honestly about what changed" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "lowering_pressure", + "text": "Lowering pressure" + }, + { + "id": "making_space_for_rest", + "text": "Making space for rest" + }, + { + "id": "rebuilding_sexual_playfulness", + "text": "Rebuilding sexual playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "talking_honestly_about_what_changed", + "text": "Talking honestly about what changed" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_055", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How predictable does your libido feel from week to week?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "libido" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, @@ -1743,85 +2777,111 @@ "max_label": "Very predictable" } }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_055", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood better about how desire works for you?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desire_rhythm", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_056", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps desire feel welcome without turning it into a goal?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which parts of the day tend to work best for your sexual energy?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "desire_rhythm", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "fun_first", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "libido" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "early_morning", + "text": "Early morning" + }, + { + "id": "afternoon", + "text": "Afternoon" + }, + { + "id": "evening", + "text": "Evening" + }, + { + "id": "late_night", + "text": "Late night" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "curiosity_instead_of_pressure", - "text": "Curiosity instead of pressure" + "id": "early_morning", + "text": "Early morning" }, { - "id": "time_to_warm_up", - "text": "Time to warm up" + "id": "afternoon", + "text": "Afternoon" }, { - "id": "permission_for_the_mood_to_change", - "text": "Permission for the mood to change" + "id": "evening", + "text": "Evening" }, { - "id": "enjoying_closeness_at_any_level", - "text": "Enjoying closeness at any level" + "id": "late_night", + "text": "Late night" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_057", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which descriptions fit your desire lately?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What most often changes your interest in sex in the moment?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "desire_rhythm", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "libido" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "your_energy_level", + "text": "Your energy level" + }, + { + "id": "your_emotional_mood", + "text": "Your emotional mood" + }, + { + "id": "the_way_i_initiate", + "text": "The way I initiate" + }, + { + "id": "whether_life_feels_settled", + "text": "Whether life feels settled" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "easy_to_find", - "text": "Easy to find" + "id": "your_energy_level", + "text": "Your energy level" }, { - "id": "there_but_slower", - "text": "There, but slower" + "id": "your_emotional_mood", + "text": "Your emotional mood" }, { - "id": "unpredictable", - "text": "Unpredictable" + "id": "the_way_i_initiate", + "text": "The way I initiate" }, { - "id": "mostly_crowded_out", - "text": "Mostly crowded out" + "id": "whether_life_feels_settled", + "text": "Whether life feels settled" } ] } @@ -1830,166 +2890,239 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_058", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can make desire return after a flat stretch?", + "text": "What would help us work with your libido instead of against it?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "desire_rhythm", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "libido" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "checking_in_without_pressure", + "text": "Checking in without pressure" + }, + { + "id": "planning_around_energy", + "text": "Planning around energy" + }, + { + "id": "leaving_room_for_spontaneous_sex", + "text": "Leaving room for spontaneous sex" + }, + { + "id": "not_treating_patterns_as_promises", + "text": "Not treating patterns as promises" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "feeling_rested_again", - "text": "Feeling rested again" + "id": "checking_in_without_pressure", + "text": "Checking in without pressure" }, { - "id": "breaking_routine", - "text": "Breaking routine" + "id": "planning_around_energy", + "text": "Planning around energy" }, { - "id": "feeling_pursued", - "text": "Feeling pursued" + "id": "leaving_room_for_spontaneous_sex", + "text": "Leaving room for spontaneous sex" }, { - "id": "clearing_unresolved_tension", - "text": "Clearing unresolved tension" + "id": "not_treating_patterns_as_promises", + "text": "Not treating patterns as promises" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_059", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which expectations make desire harder to access?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "written", + "text": "What do you wish I understood about how sexual desire arrives for you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "desire_rhythm", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "libido" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "it_should_happen_on_schedule", - "text": "It should happen on schedule" - }, - { - "id": "both_people_should_want_the_same_amount", - "text": "Both people should want the same amount" - }, - { - "id": "interest_should_look_the_same_every_time", - "text": "Interest should look the same every time" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_start_means_no_interest", - "text": "A slow start means no interest" - } - ] + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_060", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would help us work with our desire rhythms instead of fighting them?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which libido changes deserve patience rather than alarm?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "desire_rhythm", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "libido" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_stressful_season", + "text": "A stressful season" + }, + { + "id": "medication_or_health_changes", + "text": "Medication or health changes" + }, + { + "id": "poor_sleep", + "text": "Poor sleep" + }, + { + "id": "a_change_in_how_arousal_begins", + "text": "A change in how arousal begins" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "better_timing", - "text": "Better timing" + "id": "a_stressful_season", + "text": "A stressful season" }, { - "id": "more_honest_check_ins", - "text": "More honest check-ins" + "id": "medication_or_health_changes", + "text": "Medication or health changes" }, { - "id": "less_pressure", - "text": "Less pressure" + "id": "poor_sleep", + "text": "Poor sleep" }, { - "id": "more_planned_privacy", - "text": "More planned privacy" + "id": "a_change_in_how_arousal_begins", + "text": "A change in how arousal begins" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_061", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps your mind leave the day behind before desire has a chance?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps you shift out of task mode and into a sexual headspace?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress_and_energy", + "stress_energy_privacy", "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "adult_language", + "sexual_headspace" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "finishing_one_last_responsibility", + "text": "Finishing one last responsibility" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_transition_time", + "text": "Quiet transition time" + }, + { + "id": "a_shower_or_change_of_clothes", + "text": "A shower or change of clothes" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_and_flirting_first", + "text": "Laughing and flirting first" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_little_quiet", - "text": "A little quiet" + "id": "finishing_one_last_responsibility", + "text": "Finishing one last responsibility" }, { - "id": "a_shared_laugh", - "text": "A shared laugh" + "id": "quiet_transition_time", + "text": "Quiet transition time" }, { - "id": "feeling_finished_with_responsibilities", - "text": "Feeling finished with responsibilities" + "id": "a_shower_or_change_of_clothes", + "text": "A shower or change of clothes" }, { - "id": "some_attention_with_no_agenda", - "text": "Some attention with no agenda" + "id": "laughing_and_flirting_first", + "text": "Laughing and flirting first" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_062", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is the biggest mood-killer after a long day?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What most helps your body relax enough to want sex?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress_and_energy", + "stress_energy_privacy", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "fun_first", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_headspace" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_quiet_room", + "text": "A quiet room" + }, + { + "id": "putting_the_phone_away", + "text": "Putting the phone away" + }, + { + "id": "changing_out_of_work_clothes", + "text": "Changing out of work clothes" + }, + { + "id": "affection_with_no_automatic_next_step", + "text": "Affection with no automatic next step" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "mental_overload", - "text": "Mental overload" + "id": "a_quiet_room", + "text": "A quiet room" }, { - "id": "feeling_rushed", - "text": "Feeling rushed" + "id": "putting_the_phone_away", + "text": "Putting the phone away" }, { - "id": "no_privacy", - "text": "No privacy" + "id": "changing_out_of_work_clothes", + "text": "Changing out of work clothes" }, { - "id": "unresolved_tension", - "text": "Unresolved tension" + "id": "affection_with_no_automatic_next_step", + "text": "Affection with no automatic next step" } ] } @@ -1997,33 +3130,35 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_063", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which small changes could make private time easier to enjoy?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Unwind together or get alone time first?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress_and_energy", + "stress_energy_privacy", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "fun_first", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "unwind_together", + "text": "Unwind together" + }, + { + "id": "get_alone_time_first", + "text": "Get alone time first" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "fewer_interruptions", - "text": "Fewer interruptions" + "id": "unwind_together", + "text": "Unwind together" }, { - "id": "a_slower_transition", - "text": "A slower transition" - }, - { - "id": "less_pressure_to_perform", - "text": "Less pressure to perform" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_we_can_stop_anytime", - "text": "Knowing we can stop anytime" + "id": "get_alone_time_first", + "text": "Get alone time first" } ] } @@ -2031,134 +3166,143 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_064", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does stress affect your desire right now?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which kinds of privacy matter most when sex might happen?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress_and_energy", + "stress_energy_privacy", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_likely_interruptions", + "text": "No likely interruptions" + }, + { + "id": "enough_time", + "text": "Enough time" + }, + { + "id": "phones_out_of_reach", + "text": "Phones out of reach" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_responsibilities_are_handled", + "text": "Knowing responsibilities are handled" + } ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hardly at all", - "max_label": "A great deal" + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_likely_interruptions", + "text": "No likely interruptions" + }, + { + "id": "enough_time", + "text": "Enough time" + }, + { + "id": "phones_out_of_reach", + "text": "Phones out of reach" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_responsibilities_are_handled", + "text": "Knowing responsibilities are handled" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_065", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Unwind first or flirt through the stress?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps sexual desire survive a busy season?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress_and_energy", + "stress_energy_privacy", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "adult_language", + "libido" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "keeping_some_sexual_flirting_alive", + "text": "Keeping some sexual flirting alive" + }, + { + "id": "protecting_small_pockets_of_privacy", + "text": "Protecting small pockets of privacy" + }, + { + "id": "not_taking_low_libido_personally", + "text": "Not taking low libido personally" + }, + { + "id": "making_realistic_plans_for_sex", + "text": "Making realistic plans for sex" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "unwind_first", - "text": "Unwind first" + "id": "keeping_some_sexual_flirting_alive", + "text": "Keeping some sexual flirting alive" }, { - "id": "flirt_through_the_stress", - "text": "Flirt through the stress" + "id": "protecting_small_pockets_of_privacy", + "text": "Protecting small pockets of privacy" }, { - "id": "a_little_of_both", - "text": "A little of both" + "id": "not_taking_low_libido_personally", + "text": "Not taking low libido personally" }, { - "id": "ask_me_that_day", - "text": "Ask me that day" + "id": "making_realistic_plans_for_sex", + "text": "Making realistic plans for sex" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_066", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you shift from responsible-adult mode into partner mode?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which stresses shut down your libido fastest?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress_and_energy", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_real_break_from_tasks", - "text": "A real break from tasks" - }, - { - "id": "a_change_of_setting", - "text": "A change of setting" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_emotionally_welcomed", - "text": "Feeling emotionally welcomed" - }, - { - "id": "time_without_a_clock", - "text": "Time without a clock" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_067", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When you are exhausted, what keeps closeness from feeling like one more task?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "stress_and_energy", + "stress_energy_privacy", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "adult_language", + "libido" ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_expectations", - "text": "No expectations" - }, - { - "id": "a_very_simple_invitation", - "text": "A very simple invitation" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_rest_is_also_okay", - "text": "Knowing rest is also okay" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_understood_first", - "text": "Feeling understood first" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_068", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which kinds of stress tend to shut desire down fastest?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "stress_and_energy", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "options": [ + { + "id": "work_pressure", + "text": "Work pressure" + }, + { + "id": "family_demands", + "text": "Family demands" + }, + { + "id": "money_worries", + "text": "Money worries" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_between_us", + "text": "Conflict between us" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -2178,53 +3322,97 @@ "id": "conflict_between_us", "text": "Conflict between us" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_069", + "id": "sex_and_desire_067", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps desire survive a busy season?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What most often brings your horny, playful side back after stress?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress_and_energy", + "stress_energy_privacy", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "fun_first", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "libido" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_sexually_admired", + "text": "Feeling sexually admired" + }, + { + "id": "a_change_of_scenery", + "text": "A change of scenery" + }, + { + "id": "finishing_what_was_weighing_on_you", + "text": "Finishing what was weighing on you" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "keeping_some_flirtation_alive", - "text": "Keeping some flirtation alive" + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" }, { - "id": "protecting_small_pockets_of_privacy", - "text": "Protecting small pockets of privacy" + "id": "feeling_sexually_admired", + "text": "Feeling sexually admired" }, { - "id": "not_taking_low_energy_personally", - "text": "Not taking low energy personally" + "id": "a_change_of_scenery", + "text": "A change of scenery" }, { - "id": "making_realistic_plans", - "text": "Making realistic plans" + "id": "finishing_what_was_weighing_on_you", + "text": "Finishing what was weighing on you" } ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_070", + "id": "sex_and_desire_068", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which resets would help most this week?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which resets could make wanting sex easier this week?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress_and_energy", + "stress_energy_privacy", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "fun_first", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "libido" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_sleep", + "text": "More sleep" + }, + { + "id": "a_night_without_responsibilities", + "text": "A night without responsibilities" + }, + { + "id": "time_alone_together", + "text": "Time alone together" + }, + { + "id": "a_good_conversation_first", + "text": "A good conversation first" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -2244,73 +3432,42 @@ "id": "a_good_conversation_first", "text": "A good conversation first" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_071", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much transition time do you need before you can feel open to desire?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "stress_and_energy", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Almost none", - "max_label": "Quite a bit" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_072", + "id": "sex_and_desire_069", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs should prompt me to check in and slow down?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes planned sex feel sexy instead of like an appointment?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress_and_energy", + "stress_energy_privacy", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "adult_language", + "planned_sex" ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_seem_mentally_elsewhere", - "text": "I seem mentally elsewhere" - }, - { - "id": "my_answers_are_short", - "text": "My answers are short" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_still_handling_tasks", - "text": "I am still handling tasks" - }, - { - "id": "i_ask_for_space_or_rest", - "text": "I ask for space or rest" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_073", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes planned private time feel helpful instead of like another appointment?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "stress_and_energy", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "options": [ + { + "id": "keeping_the_plan_flexible", + "text": "Keeping the plan flexible" + }, + { + "id": "building_in_time_to_unwind", + "text": "Building in time to unwind" + }, + { + "id": "no_guaranteed_outcome", + "text": "No guaranteed outcome" + }, + { + "id": "both_of_us_choosing_it", + "text": "Both of us choosing it" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -2330,139 +3487,371 @@ "id": "both_of_us_choosing_it", "text": "Both of us choosing it" } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_070", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much transition time do you need before sex feels possible?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "stress_energy_privacy", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_headspace" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Almost none", + "max_label": "Quite a bit" + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_071", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs should tell me you need a slower sexual approach?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "stress_energy_privacy", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "consent" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_seem_mentally_elsewhere", + "text": "You seem mentally elsewhere" + }, + { + "id": "your_answers_get_short", + "text": "Your answers get short" + }, + { + "id": "you_are_still_handling_tasks", + "text": "You are still handling tasks" + }, + { + "id": "you_ask_for_space_or_rest", + "text": "You ask for space or rest" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_seem_mentally_elsewhere", + "text": "You seem mentally elsewhere" + }, + { + "id": "your_answers_get_short", + "text": "Your answers get short" + }, + { + "id": "you_are_still_handling_tasks", + "text": "You are still handling tasks" + }, + { + "id": "you_ask_for_space_or_rest", + "text": "You ask for space or rest" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_072", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which setting helps you relax most easily?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "stress_energy_privacy", + "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_tidy_bedroom", + "text": "A tidy bedroom" + }, + { + "id": "a_dim_quiet_room", + "text": "A dim quiet room" + }, + { + "id": "a_shower_or_bath_first", + "text": "A shower or bath first" + }, + { + "id": "somewhere_away_from_home", + "text": "Somewhere away from home" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_tidy_bedroom", + "text": "A tidy bedroom" + }, + { + "id": "a_dim_quiet_room", + "text": "A dim quiet room" + }, + { + "id": "a_shower_or_bath_first", + "text": "A shower or bath first" + }, + { + "id": "somewhere_away_from_home", + "text": "Somewhere away from home" + } ] } }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_073", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make ordinary nights feel less rushed?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "stress_energy_privacy", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "starting_earlier", + "text": "Starting earlier" + }, + { + "id": "sharing_the_last_chores", + "text": "Sharing the last chores" + }, + { + "id": "leaving_tomorrow_s_problems_for_tomorrow", + "text": "Leaving tomorrow's problems for tomorrow" + }, + { + "id": "protecting_one_uninterrupted_hour", + "text": "Protecting one uninterrupted hour" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "starting_earlier", + "text": "Starting earlier" + }, + { + "id": "sharing_the_last_chores", + "text": "Sharing the last chores" + }, + { + "id": "leaving_tomorrow_s_problems_for_tomorrow", + "text": "Leaving tomorrow's problems for tomorrow" + }, + { + "id": "protecting_one_uninterrupted_hour", + "text": "Protecting one uninterrupted hour" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_074", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What most often brings your playful side back after stress?", + "type": "written", + "text": "What helps you feel private enough to relax into wanting sex?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress_and_energy", + "stress_energy_privacy", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "adult_language" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "laughter", - "text": "Laughter" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_admired", - "text": "Feeling admired" - }, - { - "id": "a_change_of_scenery", - "text": "A change of scenery" - }, - { - "id": "finishing_what_was_weighing_on_me", - "text": "Finishing what was weighing on me" - } - ] + "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_075", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which supports would make it easier for desire to return naturally?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which kinds of help free the most mental space for sex?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress_and_energy", + "stress_energy_privacy", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "mental_load" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "practical_help_without_being_asked", + "text": "Practical help without being asked" + }, + { + "id": "clear_plans_for_responsibilities", + "text": "Clear plans for responsibilities" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_decompress_alone", + "text": "Time to decompress alone" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_nobody_is_keeping_score", + "text": "Knowing nobody is keeping score" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "more_rest", - "text": "More rest" + "id": "practical_help_without_being_asked", + "text": "Practical help without being asked" }, { - "id": "more_practical_help", - "text": "More practical help" + "id": "clear_plans_for_responsibilities", + "text": "Clear plans for responsibilities" }, { - "id": "more_emotional_repair", - "text": "More emotional repair" + "id": "time_to_decompress_alone", + "text": "Time to decompress alone" }, { - "id": "more_pressure_free_affection", - "text": "More pressure-free affection" + "id": "knowing_nobody_is_keeping_score", + "text": "Knowing nobody is keeping score" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_076", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps a difference in desire feel less personal?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What keeps different libidos from becoming a fight?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "libido_mismatch" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "talking_before_frustration_builds", + "text": "Talking before frustration builds" + }, + { + "id": "saying_no_without_a_long_defense", + "text": "Saying no without a long defense" + }, + { + "id": "not_keeping_score", + "text": "Not keeping score" + }, + { + "id": "staying_curious_about_what_changed", + "text": "Staying curious about what changed" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "remembering_moods_change", - "text": "Remembering moods change" + "id": "talking_before_frustration_builds", + "text": "Talking before frustration builds" }, { - "id": "a_kind_direct_answer", - "text": "A kind, direct answer" + "id": "saying_no_without_a_long_defense", + "text": "Saying no without a long defense" }, { - "id": "reassurance_of_attraction", - "text": "Reassurance of attraction" + "id": "not_keeping_score", + "text": "Not keeping score" }, { - "id": "no_scorekeeping", - "text": "No scorekeeping" + "id": "staying_curious_about_what_changed", + "text": "Staying curious about what changed" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_077", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When one of us is not in the mood, what matters most?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "After turning down sex, what keeps the flirt alive?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "fun_first", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_rejection" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "affection_if_it_feels_welcome", + "text": "Affection if it feels welcome" + }, + { + "id": "a_real_plan_for_later", + "text": "A real plan for later" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_message_another_day", + "text": "A playful message another day" + }, + { + "id": "dropping_it_until_the_mood_returns", + "text": "Dropping it until the mood returns" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" + "id": "affection_if_it_feels_welcome", + "text": "Affection if it feels welcome" }, { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" + "id": "a_real_plan_for_later", + "text": "A real plan for later" }, { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" + "id": "a_playful_message_another_day", + "text": "A playful message another day" }, { - "id": "staying_connected", - "text": "Staying connected" + "id": "dropping_it_until_the_mood_returns", + "text": "Dropping it until the mood returns" } ] } @@ -2470,65 +3859,57 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_078", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which responses help a no feel safe to give?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How often does a libido mismatch turn into tension for us?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "libido_mismatch" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "accepting_it_the_first_time", - "text": "Accepting it the first time" - }, - { - "id": "not_asking_for_a_defense", - "text": "Not asking for a defense" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_your_tone_warm", - "text": "Keeping your tone warm" - }, - { - "id": "not_withdrawing_affection", - "text": "Not withdrawing affection" - } - ] + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Almost never", + "max_label": "Too often" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_079", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "A gentle rain check or a clear no for tonight?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Stay affectionate or take a little space?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "stay_affectionate", + "text": "Stay affectionate" + }, + { + "id": "take_a_little_space", + "text": "Take a little space" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_gentle_rain_check", - "text": "A gentle rain check" + "id": "stay_affectionate", + "text": "Stay affectionate" }, { - "id": "a_clear_no_for_tonight", - "text": "A clear no for tonight" - }, - { - "id": "whichever_is_more_honest", - "text": "Whichever is more honest" - }, - { - "id": "either_said_kindly", - "text": "Either, said kindly" + "id": "take_a_little_space", + "text": "Take a little space" } ] } @@ -2537,100 +3918,164 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_080", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps the person who wanted more closeness handle disappointment well?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps the lower-libido partner feel respected?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "libido_mismatch" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_pressure_to_justify_it", + "text": "No pressure to justify it" + }, + { + "id": "no_repeated_asking_for_sex", + "text": "No repeated asking for sex" + }, + { + "id": "warmth_after_the_answer", + "text": "Warmth after the answer" + }, + { + "id": "freedom_to_initiate_another_time", + "text": "Freedom to initiate another time" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "not_treating_it_as_rejection_of_the_relationship", - "text": "Not treating it as rejection of the relationship" + "id": "no_pressure_to_justify_it", + "text": "No pressure to justify it" }, { - "id": "taking_time_to_reset", - "text": "Taking time to reset" + "id": "no_repeated_asking_for_sex", + "text": "No repeated asking for sex" }, { - "id": "accepting_reassurance_without_bargaining", - "text": "Accepting reassurance without bargaining" + "id": "warmth_after_the_answer", + "text": "Warmth after the answer" }, { - "id": "letting_the_disappointment_pass_without_blame", - "text": "Letting the disappointment pass without blame" + "id": "freedom_to_initiate_another_time", + "text": "Freedom to initiate another time" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_081", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can turn a difference in desire into a bigger problem?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps the higher-libido partner feel cared for?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "libido_mismatch" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "honest_reassurance", + "text": "Honest reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "affection_that_is_genuinely_welcome", + "text": "Affection that is genuinely welcome" + }, + { + "id": "clear_communication", + "text": "Clear communication" + }, + { + "id": "not_treating_a_strong_sex_drive_like_a_flaw", + "text": "Not treating a strong sex drive like a flaw" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "taking_it_personally", - "text": "Taking it personally" + "id": "honest_reassurance", + "text": "Honest reassurance" }, { - "id": "keeping_score", - "text": "Keeping score" + "id": "affection_that_is_genuinely_welcome", + "text": "Affection that is genuinely welcome" }, { - "id": "avoiding_the_topic", - "text": "Avoiding the topic" + "id": "clear_communication", + "text": "Clear communication" }, { - "id": "trying_to_pressure_a_change", - "text": "Trying to pressure a change" + "id": "not_treating_a_strong_sex_drive_like_a_flaw", + "text": "Not treating a strong sex drive like a flaw" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_082", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which habits protect both people when desire does not match?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When our sexual moods do not match, what matters first?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "libido_mismatch" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_clear_answer", + "text": "A clear answer" + }, + { + "id": "a_kind_response", + "text": "A kind response" + }, + { + "id": "no_scorekeeping", + "text": "No scorekeeping" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_we_are_not_opponents", + "text": "Remembering we are not opponents" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "talking_outside_the_moment", - "text": "Talking outside the moment" + "id": "a_clear_answer", + "text": "A clear answer" }, { - "id": "using_clear_kind_language", - "text": "Using clear, kind language" + "id": "a_kind_response", + "text": "A kind response" }, { - "id": "making_room_for_different_needs", - "text": "Making room for different needs" + "id": "no_scorekeeping", + "text": "No scorekeeping" }, { - "id": "never_treating_consent_as_negotiable", - "text": "Never treating consent as negotiable" + "id": "remembering_we_are_not_opponents", + "text": "Remembering we are not opponents" } ] } @@ -2639,136 +4084,240 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_083", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can reassure you after an invitation does not land?", + "text": "Which reactions can make a libido gap feel personal?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "sexual_rejection" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "sulking", + "text": "Sulking" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_score", + "text": "Keeping score" + }, + { + "id": "treating_sexual_rejection_as_proof_of_no_attraction", + "text": "Treating sexual rejection as proof of no attraction" + }, + { + "id": "demanding_a_detailed_explanation", + "text": "Demanding a detailed explanation" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hearing_it_was_not_personal", - "text": "Hearing it was not personal" + "id": "sulking", + "text": "Sulking" }, { - "id": "staying_affectionate", - "text": "Staying affectionate" + "id": "keeping_score", + "text": "Keeping score" }, { - "id": "knowing_another_time_is_possible", - "text": "Knowing another time is possible" + "id": "treating_sexual_rejection_as_proof_of_no_attraction", + "text": "Treating sexual rejection as proof of no attraction" }, { - "id": "being_thanked_for_asking_respectfully", - "text": "Being thanked for asking respectfully" + "id": "demanding_a_detailed_explanation", + "text": "Demanding a detailed explanation" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_084", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to want different amounts without upsetting each other?", - "depth": 5, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps us talk about how often we have sex without creating a quota?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "frequency" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "talking_about_the_whole_pattern", + "text": "Talking about the whole pattern" + }, + { + "id": "naming_what_each_person_misses", + "text": "Naming what each person misses" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_consent_separate_from_goals", + "text": "Keeping consent separate from goals" + }, + { + "id": "agreeing_that_numbers_are_not_promises", + "text": "Agreeing that numbers are not promises" + } ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very safe", - "max_label": "Completely safe" + "options": [ + { + "id": "talking_about_the_whole_pattern", + "text": "Talking about the whole pattern" + }, + { + "id": "naming_what_each_person_misses", + "text": "Naming what each person misses" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_consent_separate_from_goals", + "text": "Keeping consent separate from goals" + }, + { + "id": "agreeing_that_numbers_are_not_promises", + "text": "Agreeing that numbers are not promises" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_085", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would a kind response to mismatched desire look like for us?", - "depth": 5, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How safe does it feel to be honest when our sexual moods differ?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "libido_mismatch" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe yet", + "max_label": "Completely safe" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_086", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which conversations should happen before frustration builds?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which kinds of connection still feel good on a no-sex night?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "adult_language", + "sexual_rejection" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "talking_in_bed", + "text": "Talking in bed" + }, + { + "id": "a_hug_or_cuddle_if_welcome", + "text": "A hug or cuddle if welcome" + }, + { + "id": "watching_something_together", + "text": "Watching something together" + }, + { + "id": "getting_peaceful_space", + "text": "Getting peaceful space" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "how_often_each_person_thinks_about_sex", - "text": "How often each person thinks about sex" + "id": "talking_in_bed", + "text": "Talking in bed" }, { - "id": "what_low_desire_means_and_does_not_mean", - "text": "What low desire means and does not mean" + "id": "a_hug_or_cuddle_if_welcome", + "text": "A hug or cuddle if welcome" }, { - "id": "how_to_initiate_respectfully", - "text": "How to initiate respectfully" + "id": "watching_something_together", + "text": "Watching something together" }, { - "id": "how_to_stay_close_through_dry_spells", - "text": "How to stay close through dry spells" + "id": "getting_peaceful_space", + "text": "Getting peaceful space" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_087", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is the best time to talk about a recurring desire mismatch?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would make a libido check-in feel least awkward?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "adult_language", + "libido" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_walk", + "text": "A walk" + }, + { + "id": "a_short_question", + "text": "A short question" + }, + { + "id": "a_message_first", + "text": "A message first" + }, + { + "id": "a_calm_private_evening", + "text": "A calm private evening" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "during_a_calm_private_moment", - "text": "During a calm private moment" + "id": "a_walk", + "text": "A walk" }, { - "id": "soon_after_once_emotions_settle", - "text": "Soon after, once emotions settle" + "id": "a_short_question", + "text": "A short question" }, { - "id": "during_a_planned_check_in", - "text": "During a planned check-in" + "id": "a_message_first", + "text": "A message first" }, { - "id": "whenever_both_people_feel_ready", - "text": "Whenever both people feel ready" + "id": "a_calm_private_evening", + "text": "A calm private evening" } ] } @@ -2777,134 +4326,218 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_088", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps reassurance from sounding like a promise you cannot make?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps one sexual rejection stay one moment instead of becoming a verdict?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "sexual_rejection" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "not_predicting_the_whole_relationship", + "text": "Not predicting the whole relationship" + }, + { + "id": "avoiding_blame", + "text": "Avoiding blame" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_libido_changes", + "text": "Remembering libido changes" + }, + { + "id": "reconnecting_in_another_way", + "text": "Reconnecting in another way" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "being_honest_about_your_mood", - "text": "Being honest about your mood" + "id": "not_predicting_the_whole_relationship", + "text": "Not predicting the whole relationship" }, { - "id": "affirming_attraction_without_setting_a_date", - "text": "Affirming attraction without setting a date" + "id": "avoiding_blame", + "text": "Avoiding blame" }, { - "id": "avoiding_guilt_driven_offers", - "text": "Avoiding guilt-driven offers" + "id": "remembering_libido_changes", + "text": "Remembering libido changes" }, { - "id": "letting_uncertainty_be_acceptable", - "text": "Letting uncertainty be acceptable" + "id": "reconnecting_in_another_way", + "text": "Reconnecting in another way" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_089", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things are fair to ask for when desire is different?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Which agreements reduce sexual resentment without creating pressure?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "libido_mismatch" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "bring_concerns_up_early", + "text": "Bring concerns up early" + }, + { + "id": "accept_no_the_first_time", + "text": "Accept no the first time" + }, + { + "id": "do_not_use_affection_as_leverage", + "text": "Do not use affection as leverage" + }, + { + "id": "discuss_patterns_outside_the_moment", + "text": "Discuss patterns outside the moment" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "honest_communication", - "text": "Honest communication" + "id": "bring_concerns_up_early", + "text": "Bring concerns up early" }, { - "id": "respectful_initiation", - "text": "Respectful initiation" + "id": "accept_no_the_first_time", + "text": "Accept no the first time" }, { - "id": "kind_handling_of_no", - "text": "Kind handling of no" + "id": "do_not_use_affection_as_leverage", + "text": "Do not use affection as leverage" }, { - "id": "a_conversation_about_the_pattern", - "text": "A conversation about the pattern" + "id": "discuss_patterns_outside_the_moment", + "text": "Discuss patterns outside the moment" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_090", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make this topic easier for us to revisit?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make sexual desire feel shared rather than managed by one person?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "mutual_desire" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_people_show_sexual_interest", + "text": "Both people show sexual interest" + }, + { + "id": "both_can_initiate_sex", + "text": "Both can initiate sex" + }, + { + "id": "both_can_decline_safely", + "text": "Both can decline safely" + }, + { + "id": "both_help_protect_private_time", + "text": "Both help protect private time" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "less_blame", - "text": "Less blame" + "id": "both_people_show_sexual_interest", + "text": "Both people show sexual interest" }, { - "id": "clearer_language", - "text": "Clearer language" + "id": "both_can_initiate_sex", + "text": "Both can initiate sex" }, { - "id": "a_set_time_to_talk", - "text": "A set time to talk" + "id": "both_can_decline_safely", + "text": "Both can decline safely" }, { - "id": "more_reassurance_first", - "text": "More reassurance first" + "id": "both_help_protect_private_time", + "text": "Both help protect private time" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_091", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel attractive when your confidence is off?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of reassurance feels believable when you do not feel sexy?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "sexual_confidence", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_specific_sexual_compliment", + "text": "A specific sexual compliment" + }, + { + "id": "patient_affection", + "text": "Patient affection" + }, + { + "id": "directly_hearing_that_i_want_you", + "text": "Directly hearing that I want you" + }, + { + "id": "privacy_and_time", + "text": "Privacy and time" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_specific_compliment", - "text": "A specific compliment" + "id": "a_specific_sexual_compliment", + "text": "A specific sexual compliment" }, { - "id": "being_looked_at_with_real_interest", - "text": "Being looked at with real interest" + "id": "patient_affection", + "text": "Patient affection" }, { - "id": "no_attention_on_insecurities", - "text": "No attention on insecurities" + "id": "directly_hearing_that_i_want_you", + "text": "Directly hearing that I want you" }, { - "id": "time_to_feel_like_yourself_again", - "text": "Time to feel like yourself again" + "id": "privacy_and_time", + "text": "Privacy and time" } ] } @@ -2912,48 +4545,147 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_092", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which compliment feels most connected to desire?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which things help you feel hot in your own skin?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "clothes_you_feel_sexy_in", + "text": "Clothes you feel sexy in" + }, + { + "id": "being_wanted_without_performing", + "text": "Being wanted without performing" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_rested", + "text": "Feeling rested" + }, + { + "id": "hearing_exactly_what_attracts_me", + "text": "Hearing exactly what attracts me" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clothes_you_feel_sexy_in", + "text": "Clothes you feel sexy in" + }, + { + "id": "being_wanted_without_performing", + "text": "Being wanted without performing" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_rested", + "text": "Feeling rested" + }, + { + "id": "hearing_exactly_what_attracts_me", + "text": "Hearing exactly what attracts me" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_093", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How comfortable do you feel being openly sexually desired by me?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "sexual_confidence", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "adult_language" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not comfortable yet", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_094", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Sweet sexual praise or bold sexual praise?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_praise" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_sexual_praise", + "text": "Sweet sexual praise" + }, + { + "id": "bold_sexual_praise", + "text": "Bold sexual praise" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "you_look_incredible", - "text": "You look incredible" + "id": "sweet_sexual_praise", + "text": "Sweet sexual praise" }, { - "id": "i_cannot_stop_thinking_about_you", - "text": "I cannot stop thinking about you" - }, - { - "id": "i_love_the_way_you_carry_yourself", - "text": "I love the way you carry yourself" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_you_close", - "text": "I want you close" + "id": "bold_sexual_praise", + "text": "Bold sexual praise" } ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_093", + "id": "sex_and_desire_095", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes a compliment easier to believe?", + "text": "What makes a sexual compliment feel genuine instead of automatic?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sexual_confidence", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_praise" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_is_specific", + "text": "It is specific" + }, + { + "id": "it_fits_the_moment", + "text": "It fits the moment" + }, + { + "id": "it_is_said_privately", + "text": "It is said privately" + }, + { + "id": "it_notices_more_than_appearance", + "text": "It notices more than appearance" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -2962,136 +4694,125 @@ "text": "It is specific" }, { - "id": "it_comes_at_an_unexpected_time", - "text": "It comes at an unexpected time" + "id": "it_fits_the_moment", + "text": "It fits the moment" }, { - "id": "it_sounds_like_your_real_voice", - "text": "It sounds like your real voice" + "id": "it_is_said_privately", + "text": "It is said privately" }, { - "id": "it_asks_for_nothing_in_return", - "text": "It asks for nothing in return" + "id": "it_notices_more_than_appearance", + "text": "It notices more than appearance" } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_094", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable do you feel being openly desired by me?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "sexual_confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_095", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "A bold compliment or quiet admiration?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "sexual_confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_bold_compliment", - "text": "A bold compliment" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_admiration", - "text": "Quiet admiration" - }, - { - "id": "both_at_different_times", - "text": "Both at different times" - }, - { - "id": "whichever_feels_sincere", - "text": "Whichever feels sincere" - } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_096", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things help body worries fade into the background?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which reactions help when you feel self-conscious during sexual moments?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sexual_confidence", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "slowing_down", + "text": "Slowing down" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_attention_gentle", + "text": "Keeping attention gentle" + }, + { + "id": "letting_you_lead_the_pace", + "text": "Letting you lead the pace" + }, + { + "id": "not_arguing_you_out_of_the_feeling", + "text": "Not arguing you out of the feeling" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "feeling_emotionally_safe", - "text": "Feeling emotionally safe" + "id": "slowing_down", + "text": "Slowing down" }, { - "id": "not_being_rushed", - "text": "Not being rushed" + "id": "keeping_attention_gentle", + "text": "Keeping attention gentle" }, { - "id": "attention_that_is_not_critical", - "text": "Attention that is not critical" + "id": "letting_you_lead_the_pace", + "text": "Letting you lead the pace" }, { - "id": "knowing_you_are_wanted_as_you_are", - "text": "Knowing you are wanted as you are" + "id": "not_arguing_you_out_of_the_feeling", + "text": "Not arguing you out of the feeling" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_097", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When confidence is low, what kind of attention is easiest to receive?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "When you want to feel sexually confident, what helps most?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sexual_confidence", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_admired", + "text": "Feeling admired" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_comfortable", + "text": "Feeling comfortable" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_powerful", + "text": "Feeling powerful" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_playful_and_horny", + "text": "Feeling playful and horny" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "gentle_and_patient", - "text": "Gentle and patient" + "id": "feeling_admired", + "text": "Feeling admired" }, { - "id": "playful_and_distracting", - "text": "Playful and distracting" + "id": "feeling_comfortable", + "text": "Feeling comfortable" }, { - "id": "direct_and_reassuring", - "text": "Direct and reassuring" + "id": "feeling_powerful", + "text": "Feeling powerful" }, { - "id": "quiet_with_no_pressure", - "text": "Quiet with no pressure" + "id": "feeling_playful_and_horny", + "text": "Feeling playful and horny" } ] } @@ -3100,537 +4821,123 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_098", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can make sexual attention feel uncomfortable even when it is meant kindly?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What can quietly weaken sexual confidence?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sexual_confidence", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "comparisons", + "text": "Comparisons" + }, + { + "id": "jokes_about_appearance_or_performance", + "text": "Jokes about appearance or performance" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_watched_too_closely", + "text": "Feeling watched too closely" + }, + { + "id": "pressure_to_act_confident", + "text": "Pressure to act confident" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "focusing_on_an_insecurity", - "text": "Focusing on an insecurity" + "id": "comparisons", + "text": "Comparisons" }, { - "id": "being_too_public", - "text": "Being too public" + "id": "jokes_about_appearance_or_performance", + "text": "Jokes about appearance or performance" }, { - "id": "expecting_an_immediate_response", - "text": "Expecting an immediate response" + "id": "feeling_watched_too_closely", + "text": "Feeling watched too closely" }, { - "id": "not_noticing_your_mood", - "text": "Not noticing your mood" + "id": "pressure_to_act_confident", + "text": "Pressure to act confident" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_099", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which changes can affect how desirable you feel?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which parts of confidence have little to do with appearance?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sexual_confidence", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first" ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "stress_and_exhaustion", - "text": "Stress and exhaustion" - }, - { - "id": "aging_or_body_changes", - "text": "Aging or body changes" - }, - { - "id": "health_changes", - "text": "Health changes" - }, - { - "id": "how_we_have_been_relating_lately", - "text": "How we have been relating lately" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_100", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel sexy without needing to look perfect?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sexual_confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_wanted", + "text": "Feeling wanted" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_what_you_like", + "text": "Knowing what you like" + }, + { + "id": "being_able_to_speak_up", + "text": "Being able to speak up" + }, + { + "id": "trusting_your_pace_will_be_respected", + "text": "Trusting your pace will be respected" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ - { - "id": "feeling_confident", - "text": "Feeling confident" - }, { "id": "feeling_wanted", "text": "Feeling wanted" }, { - "id": "feeling_relaxed", - "text": "Feeling relaxed" + "id": "knowing_what_you_like", + "text": "Knowing what you like" }, { - "id": "feeling_playful", - "text": "Feeling playful" + "id": "being_able_to_speak_up", + "text": "Being able to speak up" + }, + { + "id": "trusting_your_pace_will_be_respected", + "text": "Trusting your pace will be respected" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_101", + "id": "sex_and_desire_100", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do you think I understand what affects your sexual confidence?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sexual_confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very well", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_102", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kind of reassurance supports confidence without dismissing your feelings?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sexual_confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "listening_before_reassuring", - "text": "Listening before reassuring" - }, - { - "id": "naming_what_you_truly_find_attractive", - "text": "Naming what you truly find attractive" - }, - { - "id": "not_arguing_with_the_insecurity", - "text": "Not arguing with the insecurity" - }, - { - "id": "giving_attention_without_pushing_for_more", - "text": "Giving attention without pushing for more" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_103", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which moments make you feel most magnetic around me?", + "text": "How easy is it to accept a sexual compliment from me?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sexual_confidence", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "when_i_am_laughing", - "text": "When I am laughing" - }, - { - "id": "when_i_feel_capable", - "text": "When I feel capable" - }, - { - "id": "when_i_dress_for_myself", - "text": "When I dress for myself" - }, - { - "id": "when_i_know_you_are_watching", - "text": "When I know you are watching" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_104", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would help you trust that my desire is real as we change?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sexual_confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hearing_it_more_often", - "text": "Hearing it more often" - }, - { - "id": "seeing_it_in_your_actions", - "text": "Seeing it in your actions" - }, - { - "id": "talking_honestly_about_changes", - "text": "Talking honestly about changes" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_pursued_in_new_ways", - "text": "Feeling pursued in new ways" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_105", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps attraction grow beyond appearance alone?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sexual_confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "confidence", - "text": "Confidence" - }, - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_closeness", - "text": "Emotional closeness" - }, - { - "id": "the_way_we_know_each_other", - "text": "The way we know each other" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_106", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes talking about desire feel safe and normal?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "desire_communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_joking_at_the_other_person_s_expense", - "text": "No joking at the other person's expense" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure_for_an_immediate_answer", - "text": "No pressure for an immediate answer" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity_instead_of_criticism", - "text": "Curiosity instead of criticism" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_107", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which check-in sounds most natural when the mood is unclear?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "are_you_into_this", - "text": "Are you into this?" - }, - { - "id": "want_me_to_keep_going", - "text": "Want me to keep going?" - }, - { - "id": "how_are_you_feeling", - "text": "How are you feeling?" - }, - { - "id": "would_you_rather_slow_down", - "text": "Would you rather slow down?" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_108", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which answers should always be treated as complete answers?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "not_tonight", - "text": "Not tonight" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_not_sure", - "text": "I am not sure" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_to_slow_down", - "text": "I want to slow down" - }, - { - "id": "i_changed_my_mind", - "text": "I changed my mind" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_109", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Ask plainly or check in through the moment?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_plainly", - "text": "Ask plainly" - }, - { - "id": "check_in_through_the_moment", - "text": "Check in through the moment" - }, - { - "id": "use_both", - "text": "Use both" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_i_prefer", - "text": "Ask what I prefer" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_110", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes feedback easier to hear without killing the mood?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feedback", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_warm_tone", - "text": "A warm tone" - }, - { - "id": "clear_simple_words", - "text": "Clear, simple words" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_it_is_not_criticism", - "text": "Knowing it is not criticism" - }, - { - "id": "a_response_that_shows_appreciation", - "text": "A response that shows appreciation" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_111", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When can feedback about desire be easiest to share?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feedback", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "in_the_moment_briefly", - "text": "In the moment, briefly" - }, - { - "id": "later_that_night", - "text": "Later that night" - }, - { - "id": "the_next_day", - "text": "The next day" - }, - { - "id": "during_a_separate_conversation", - "text": "During a separate conversation" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_112", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which phrases help keep consent active instead of assumed?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "do_you_want_this", - "text": "Do you want this?" - }, - { - "id": "still_good", - "text": "Still good?" - }, - { - "id": "want_something_different", - "text": "Want something different?" - }, - { - "id": "we_can_stop", - "text": "We can stop" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_113", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should happen when someone changes their mind?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "stop_without_debate", - "text": "Stop without debate" - }, - { - "id": "respond_without_sulking", - "text": "Respond without sulking" - }, - { - "id": "check_what_would_feel_okay_now", - "text": "Check what would feel okay now" - }, - { - "id": "make_sure_the_person_still_feels_respected", - "text": "Make sure the person still feels respected" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_114", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it for you to ask for something different in the moment?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feedback", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "adult_language", + "sexual_praise" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, @@ -3640,34 +4947,476 @@ } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_115", + "id": "sex_and_desire_101", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you speak more freely about desire with me?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make sexual novelty feel less exposing?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "sexual_novelty" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_private_conversation_first", + "text": "A private conversation first" + }, + { + "id": "an_easy_stop", + "text": "An easy stop" + }, + { + "id": "no_teasing_afterward", + "text": "No teasing afterward" + }, + { + "id": "starting_with_a_small_change", + "text": "Starting with a small change" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_private_conversation_first", + "text": "A private conversation first" + }, + { + "id": "an_easy_stop", + "text": "An easy stop" + }, + { + "id": "no_teasing_afterward", + "text": "No teasing afterward" + }, + { + "id": "starting_with_a_small_change", + "text": "Starting with a small change" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_102", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of sexual attention feels safest on a vulnerable day?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_affection", + "text": "Quiet affection" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_sexual_compliment", + "text": "A private sexual compliment" + }, + { + "id": "being_given_space", + "text": "Being given space" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_reminder_that_sex_is_not_expected", + "text": "A clear reminder that sex is not expected" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_affection", + "text": "Quiet affection" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_sexual_compliment", + "text": "A private sexual compliment" + }, + { + "id": "being_given_space", + "text": "Being given space" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_reminder_that_sex_is_not_expected", + "text": "A clear reminder that sex is not expected" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_103", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you stay present during sex instead of judging yourself?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_unhurried", + "text": "Feeling unhurried" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_reassurance", + "text": "Gentle reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "focusing_on_pleasure_and_connection", + "text": "Focusing on pleasure and connection" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_you_can_pause", + "text": "Knowing you can pause" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_unhurried", + "text": "Feeling unhurried" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_reassurance", + "text": "Gentle reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "focusing_on_pleasure_and_connection", + "text": "Focusing on pleasure and connection" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_you_can_pause", + "text": "Knowing you can pause" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_104", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which words support sexual confidence without sounding rehearsed?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_look_fucking_hot", + "text": "You look fucking hot" + }, + { + "id": "you_do_not_have_to_perform_for_me", + "text": "You do not have to perform for me" + }, + { + "id": "i_want_the_real_you", + "text": "I want the real you" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_go_at_your_pace", + "text": "We can go at your pace" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_look_fucking_hot", + "text": "You look fucking hot" + }, + { + "id": "you_do_not_have_to_perform_for_me", + "text": "You do not have to perform for me" + }, + { + "id": "i_want_the_real_you", + "text": "I want the real you" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_go_at_your_pace", + "text": "We can go at your pace" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_105", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should I understand about your sexual confidence lately?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_changes_by_the_day", + "text": "It changes by the day" + }, + { + "id": "stress_affects_it", + "text": "Stress affects it" + }, + { + "id": "privacy_affects_it", + "text": "Privacy affects it" + }, + { + "id": "the_way_i_respond_matters", + "text": "The way I respond matters" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_changes_by_the_day", + "text": "It changes by the day" + }, + { + "id": "stress_affects_it", + "text": "Stress affects it" + }, + { + "id": "privacy_affects_it", + "text": "Privacy affects it" + }, + { + "id": "the_way_i_respond_matters", + "text": "The way I respond matters" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_106", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a conversation about sex and desire easier to start?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "desire_communication", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_communication" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "one_clear_question", + "text": "One clear question" + }, + { + "id": "a_relaxed_moment", + "text": "A relaxed moment" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_no_immediate_decision_is_needed", + "text": "Knowing no immediate decision is needed" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "one_clear_question", + "text": "One clear question" + }, + { + "id": "a_relaxed_moment", + "text": "A relaxed moment" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_no_immediate_decision_is_needed", + "text": "Knowing no immediate decision is needed" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_107", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which conversation style feels least awkward?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "desire_communication", + "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "talking_on_a_walk", + "text": "Talking on a walk" + }, + { + "id": "one_question_at_a_time", + "text": "One question at a time" + }, + { + "id": "messaging_first", + "text": "Messaging first" + }, + { + "id": "using_humor_before_getting_sincere", + "text": "Using humor before getting sincere" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talking_on_a_walk", + "text": "Talking on a walk" + }, + { + "id": "one_question_at_a_time", + "text": "One question at a time" + }, + { + "id": "messaging_first", + "text": "Messaging first" + }, + { + "id": "using_humor_before_getting_sincere", + "text": "Using humor before getting sincere" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_108", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How comfortable are you asking for something different during sex?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "desire_communication", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "sexual_communication" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very difficult", + "max_label": "Very easy" + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_109", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Talk before sex or check in during?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "desire_communication", + "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_communication" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_before_sex", + "text": "Talk before sex" + }, + { + "id": "check_in_during", + "text": "Check in during" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_before_sex", + "text": "Talk before sex" + }, + { + "id": "check_in_during", + "text": "Check in during" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_110", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which reactions make honest sexual feedback harder to give?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "desire_communication", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "sexual_communication" ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_116", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which reactions make honest feedback feel risky?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feedback", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "options": [ + { + "id": "getting_defensive", + "text": "Getting defensive" + }, + { + "id": "acting_rejected", + "text": "Acting rejected" + }, + { + "id": "joking_about_it_later", + "text": "Joking about it later" + }, + { + "id": "pushing_for_an_explanation", + "text": "Pushing for an explanation" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -3676,32 +5425,109 @@ "text": "Getting defensive" }, { - "id": "taking_it_as_rejection", - "text": "Taking it as rejection" + "id": "acting_rejected", + "text": "Acting rejected" }, { - "id": "making_jokes_about_it_later", - "text": "Making jokes about it later" + "id": "joking_about_it_later", + "text": "Joking about it later" }, { - "id": "pressuring_for_an_explanation", - "text": "Pressuring for an explanation" + "id": "pushing_for_an_explanation", + "text": "Pushing for an explanation" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_117", + "id": "sex_and_desire_111", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is the best first response to vulnerable feedback?", - "depth": 5, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes sexual feedback easier to receive?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feedback", + "desire_communication", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "sexual_communication" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_specific_request", + "text": "One specific request" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_tone", + "text": "A warm tone" + }, + { + "id": "hearing_what_is_already_working", + "text": "Hearing what is already working" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_respond_without_pressure", + "text": "Time to respond without pressure" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_specific_request", + "text": "One specific request" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_tone", + "text": "A warm tone" + }, + { + "id": "hearing_what_is_already_working", + "text": "Hearing what is already working" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_respond_without_pressure", + "text": "Time to respond without pressure" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_112", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which first response helps you feel safest after sexual feedback?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_communication", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_communication" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "thank_you_for_telling_me", + "text": "Thank you for telling me" + }, + { + "id": "tell_me_what_would_feel_better", + "text": "Tell me what would feel better" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_listening", + "text": "I am listening" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_slow_down", + "text": "We can slow down" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -3725,16 +5551,169 @@ } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_118", + "id": "sex_and_desire_113", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps a desire conversation feel natural instead of awkward?", + "text": "What should a good sexual check-in make clear?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "desire_communication", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "sexual_communication" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_can_change_your_mind", + "text": "You can change your mind" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_no_wrong_answer", + "text": "There is no wrong answer" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_slow_down", + "text": "We can slow down" + }, + { + "id": "connection_matters_more_than_the_plan", + "text": "Connection matters more than the plan" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_can_change_your_mind", + "text": "You can change your mind" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_no_wrong_answer", + "text": "There is no wrong answer" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_slow_down", + "text": "We can slow down" + }, + { + "id": "connection_matters_more_than_the_plan", + "text": "Connection matters more than the plan" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_114", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which desire topics are easiest to discuss outside a sexual moment?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_communication", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_communication" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "timing", + "text": "Timing" + }, + { + "id": "initiation", + "text": "Initiation" + }, + { + "id": "what_helps_desire_begin", + "text": "What helps desire begin" + }, + { + "id": "how_to_handle_different_moods", + "text": "How to handle different moods" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "timing", + "text": "Timing" + }, + { + "id": "initiation", + "text": "Initiation" + }, + { + "id": "what_helps_desire_begin", + "text": "What helps desire begin" + }, + { + "id": "how_to_handle_different_moods", + "text": "How to handle different moods" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_115", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How understood do you feel when you talk about sex and desire with me?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_communication", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "sexual_communication" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not understood yet", + "max_label": "Very understood" + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_116", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps a sex-and-desire talk from sounding like a performance review?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_communication", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_communication" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "plain_language", + "text": "Plain language" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_humor", + "text": "A little humor" + }, + { + "id": "one_topic_only", + "text": "One topic only" + }, + { + "id": "no_scorecard", + "text": "No scorecard" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -3747,148 +5726,343 @@ "text": "A little humor" }, { - "id": "no_guessing_games", - "text": "No guessing games" + "id": "one_topic_only", + "text": "One topic only" }, { - "id": "respect_for_different_answers", - "text": "Respect for different answers" + "id": "no_scorecard", + "text": "No scorecard" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_117", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When should we revisit a difficult sex-or-libido topic?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_communication", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "sexual_communication" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "after_rest", + "text": "After rest" + }, + { + "id": "during_a_calm_walk", + "text": "During a calm walk" + }, + { + "id": "at_a_planned_private_time", + "text": "At a planned private time" + }, + { + "id": "only_when_both_feel_ready", + "text": "Only when both feel ready" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "after_rest", + "text": "After rest" + }, + { + "id": "during_a_calm_walk", + "text": "During a calm walk" + }, + { + "id": "at_a_planned_private_time", + "text": "At a planned private time" + }, + { + "id": "only_when_both_feel_ready", + "text": "Only when both feel ready" } ] } }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_118", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which phrases make room for honest sexual answers?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_communication", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_communication" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "what_sounds_good_to_you", + "text": "What sounds good to you?" + }, + { + "id": "would_you_rather_not_have_sex_tonight", + "text": "Would you rather not have sex tonight?" + }, + { + "id": "do_you_need_more_time", + "text": "Do you need more time?" + }, + { + "id": "has_your_mood_changed", + "text": "Has your mood changed?" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "what_sounds_good_to_you", + "text": "What sounds good to you?" + }, + { + "id": "would_you_rather_not_have_sex_tonight", + "text": "Would you rather not have sex tonight?" + }, + { + "id": "do_you_need_more_time", + "text": "Do you need more time?" + }, + { + "id": "has_your_mood_changed", + "text": "Has your mood changed?" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_119", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which topics are easier to talk about before desire is already in the room?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What would help you speak more freely about sex and desire?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "desire_communication", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "sexual_communication" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "knowing_i_will_not_take_it_as_a_verdict", + "text": "Knowing I will not take it as a verdict" + }, + { + "id": "not_needing_perfect_words", + "text": "Not needing perfect words" + }, + { + "id": "being_able_to_pause", + "text": "Being able to pause" + }, + { + "id": "trusting_the_conversation_stays_private", + "text": "Trusting the conversation stays private" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "how_to_initiate", - "text": "How to initiate" + "id": "knowing_i_will_not_take_it_as_a_verdict", + "text": "Knowing I will not take it as a verdict" }, { - "id": "how_to_say_no", - "text": "How to say no" + "id": "not_needing_perfect_words", + "text": "Not needing perfect words" }, { - "id": "what_affects_desire", - "text": "What affects desire" + "id": "being_able_to_pause", + "text": "Being able to pause" }, { - "id": "how_to_give_feedback", - "text": "How to give feedback" + "id": "trusting_the_conversation_stays_private", + "text": "Trusting the conversation stays private" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_120", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would improve our desire conversations most?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which habits would improve our sexual communication most?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "desire_communication", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "sexual_communication" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_instead_of_assume", + "text": "Ask instead of assume" + }, + { + "id": "say_what_is_working", + "text": "Say what is working" + }, + { + "id": "receive_no_warmly", + "text": "Receive no warmly" + }, + { + "id": "revisit_changes_without_blame", + "text": "Revisit changes without blame" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "more_honesty", - "text": "More honesty" + "id": "ask_instead_of_assume", + "text": "Ask instead of assume" }, { - "id": "better_timing", - "text": "Better timing" + "id": "say_what_is_working", + "text": "Say what is working" }, { - "id": "less_embarrassment", - "text": "Less embarrassment" + "id": "receive_no_warmly", + "text": "Receive no warmly" }, { - "id": "more_follow_through", - "text": "More follow-through" + "id": "revisit_changes_without_blame", + "text": "Revisit changes without blame" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_121", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things keep attraction alive after years together?", + "text": "What makes it easiest to say yes, no, or not yet to sex?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "long_term_chemistry", + "consent_boundaries", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "adult_language", + "consent" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_clear_question", + "text": "A clear question" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure_to_explain", + "text": "No pressure to explain" + }, + { + "id": "trust_that_any_answer_will_be_respected", + "text": "Trust that any answer will be respected" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "still_flirting", - "text": "Still flirting" - }, - { - "id": "seeing_each_other_in_new_settings", - "text": "Seeing each other in new settings" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_appreciated", - "text": "Feeling appreciated" - }, - { - "id": "making_private_time_matter", - "text": "Making private time matter" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_122", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What gives our chemistry the biggest boost?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "long_term_chemistry", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "novelty", - "text": "Novelty" + "id": "a_clear_question", + "text": "A clear question" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { - "id": "emotional_closeness", - "text": "Emotional closeness" + "id": "no_pressure_to_explain", + "text": "No pressure to explain" }, { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" + "id": "trust_that_any_answer_will_be_respected", + "text": "Trust that any answer will be respected" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_122", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "After not tonight is accepted, what feels most caring?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "consent_boundaries", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_rejection" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_warm_goodnight", + "text": "A warm goodnight" + }, + { + "id": "affection_if_welcome", + "text": "Affection if welcome" + }, + { + "id": "an_honest_rain_check", + "text": "An honest rain check" + }, + { + "id": "giving_comfortable_space", + "text": "Giving comfortable space" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_warm_goodnight", + "text": "A warm goodnight" + }, + { + "id": "affection_if_welcome", + "text": "Affection if welcome" + }, + { + "id": "an_honest_rain_check", + "text": "An honest rain check" + }, + { + "id": "giving_comfortable_space", + "text": "Giving comfortable space" } ] } @@ -3896,153 +6070,224 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_123", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What could make an ordinary week feel a little more charged?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it to change your mind during a sexual moment with me?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "long_term_chemistry", + "consent_boundaries", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "consent" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_flirty_plan", - "text": "A flirty plan" - }, - { - "id": "a_surprise_compliment", - "text": "A surprise compliment" - }, - { - "id": "a_night_with_no_interruptions", - "text": "A night with no interruptions" - }, - { - "id": "trying_a_new_setting", - "text": "Trying a new setting" - } - ] + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very difficult", + "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_124", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How alive does our chemistry feel right now?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "A direct question about sex or a gentler invitation?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "long_term_chemistry", + "consent_boundaries", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "fun_first", + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "initiation" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_direct_question_about_sex", + "text": "A direct question about sex" + }, + { + "id": "a_gentler_invitation", + "text": "A gentler invitation" + } ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Pretty quiet", - "max_label": "Very alive" + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_direct_question_about_sex", + "text": "A direct question about sex" + }, + { + "id": "a_gentler_invitation", + "text": "A gentler invitation" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_125", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Familiar chemistry or a little novelty?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs show that stopping sex is genuinely easy?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "long_term_chemistry", + "consent_boundaries", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "consent" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_first_pause_is_respected", + "text": "The first pause is respected" + }, + { + "id": "nobody_argues_with_the_reason", + "text": "Nobody argues with the reason" + }, + { + "id": "the_mood_stays_kind", + "text": "The mood stays kind" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_no_punishment_afterward", + "text": "There is no punishment afterward" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "familiar_chemistry", - "text": "Familiar chemistry" + "id": "the_first_pause_is_respected", + "text": "The first pause is respected" }, { - "id": "a_little_novelty", - "text": "A little novelty" + "id": "nobody_argues_with_the_reason", + "text": "Nobody argues with the reason" }, { - "id": "a_mix_of_both", - "text": "A mix of both" + "id": "the_mood_stays_kind", + "text": "The mood stays kind" }, { - "id": "depends_on_the_week", - "text": "Depends on the week" + "id": "there_is_no_punishment_afterward", + "text": "There is no punishment afterward" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_126", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kind of novelty feels exciting without becoming a production?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What helps sexual boundaries feel like part of closeness?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "novelty", + "consent_boundaries", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "consent" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "they_are_welcomed_early", + "text": "They are welcomed early" + }, + { + "id": "they_can_change", + "text": "They can change" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_can_name_them", + "text": "Both people can name them" + }, + { + "id": "respect_does_not_depend_on_agreement", + "text": "Respect does not depend on agreement" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_different_time_of_day", - "text": "A different time of day" + "id": "they_are_welcomed_early", + "text": "They are welcomed early" }, { - "id": "a_change_of_setting", - "text": "A change of setting" + "id": "they_can_change", + "text": "They can change" }, { - "id": "a_new_way_of_building_anticipation", - "text": "A new way of building anticipation" + "id": "both_people_can_name_them", + "text": "Both people can name them" }, { - "id": "letting_one_of_us_set_the_tone", - "text": "Letting one of us set the tone" + "id": "respect_does_not_depend_on_agreement", + "text": "Respect does not depend on agreement" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_127", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What most often makes long-term desire feel routine?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which sexual check-in feels most natural?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "long_term_chemistry", + "consent_boundaries", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "consent" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_quiet_question", + "text": "A quiet question" + }, + { + "id": "a_direct_yes_or_no", + "text": "A direct yes or no" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_check_in", + "text": "A playful check-in" + }, + { + "id": "reading_the_moment_and_still_asking", + "text": "Reading the moment and still asking" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "predictable_timing", - "text": "Predictable timing" + "id": "a_quiet_question", + "text": "A quiet question" }, { - "id": "no_build_up", - "text": "No build-up" + "id": "a_direct_yes_or_no", + "text": "A direct yes or no" }, { - "id": "too_many_interruptions", - "text": "Too many interruptions" + "id": "a_playful_check_in", + "text": "A playful check-in" }, { - "id": "feeling_taken_for_granted", - "text": "Feeling taken for granted" + "id": "reading_the_moment_and_still_asking", + "text": "Reading the moment and still asking" } ] } @@ -4051,150 +6296,241 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_128", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which habits help us stay curious about each other?", + "text": "What should never be treated as automatic permission for sex?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "long_term_chemistry", + "consent_boundaries", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "consent" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_past_yes", + "text": "A past yes" + }, + { + "id": "flirting_earlier", + "text": "Flirting earlier" + }, + { + "id": "being_naked_or_in_bed_together", + "text": "Being naked or in bed together" + }, + { + "id": "a_plan_made_before_the_mood_changed", + "text": "A plan made before the mood changed" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "asking_what_has_changed", - "text": "Asking what has changed" + "id": "a_past_yes", + "text": "A past yes" }, { - "id": "not_assuming_we_know_every_answer", - "text": "Not assuming we know every answer" + "id": "flirting_earlier", + "text": "Flirting earlier" }, { - "id": "sharing_new_thoughts_without_pressure", - "text": "Sharing new thoughts without pressure" + "id": "being_naked_or_in_bed_together", + "text": "Being naked or in bed together" }, { - "id": "noticing_different_sides_of_each_other", - "text": "Noticing different sides of each other" + "id": "a_plan_made_before_the_mood_changed", + "text": "A plan made before the mood changed" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_129", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes a surprise feel sexy instead of stressful?", + "text": "Which responses make saying no to sex easier to trust?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "novelty", + "consent_boundaries", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "consent" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "okay_thank_you_for_telling_me", + "text": "Okay, thank you for telling me" + }, + { + "id": "no_problem", + "text": "No problem" + }, + { + "id": "would_you_like_space_or_affection", + "text": "Would you like space or affection" + }, + { + "id": "we_are_still_good", + "text": "We are still good" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "it_respects_known_limits", - "text": "It respects known limits" + "id": "okay_thank_you_for_telling_me", + "text": "Okay, thank you for telling me" }, { - "id": "it_is_easy_to_decline", - "text": "It is easy to decline" + "id": "no_problem", + "text": "No problem" }, { - "id": "it_fits_the_day", - "text": "It fits the day" + "id": "would_you_like_space_or_affection", + "text": "Would you like space or affection" }, { - "id": "it_leaves_room_for_your_response", - "text": "It leaves room for your response" + "id": "we_are_still_good", + "text": "We are still good" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_130", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which changes could refresh our chemistry?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How safe does it feel to name a sexual boundary before it becomes urgent?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "novelty", + "consent_boundaries", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "consent" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_anticipation", - "text": "More anticipation" - }, - { - "id": "more_privacy", - "text": "More privacy" - }, - { - "id": "more_playfulness", - "text": "More playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "more_direct_desire", - "text": "More direct desire" - } - ] + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe yet", + "max_label": "Completely safe" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_131", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How open are you to changing our usual rhythm?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps pausing during sex feel normal rather than alarming?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "novelty", + "consent_boundaries", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language", + "consent" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "using_a_simple_word", + "text": "Using a simple word" + }, + { + "id": "stopping_without_debate", + "text": "Stopping without debate" + }, + { + "id": "checking_what_is_needed", + "text": "Checking what is needed" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_connection_can_continue_later", + "text": "Knowing connection can continue later" + } ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very open", - "max_label": "Very open" + "options": [ + { + "id": "using_a_simple_word", + "text": "Using a simple word" + }, + { + "id": "stopping_without_debate", + "text": "Stopping without debate" + }, + { + "id": "checking_what_is_needed", + "text": "Checking what is needed" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_connection_can_continue_later", + "text": "Knowing connection can continue later" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_132", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What keeps novelty from becoming pressure to top the last experience?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When a sexual boundary changes, what matters most?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "novelty", + "consent_boundaries", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "consent" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "believing_it", + "text": "Believing it" + }, + { + "id": "respecting_it_immediately", + "text": "Respecting it immediately" + }, + { + "id": "staying_kind", + "text": "Staying kind" + }, + { + "id": "not_making_it_a_test_of_love", + "text": "Not making it a test of love" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "keeping_expectations_realistic", - "text": "Keeping expectations realistic" + "id": "believing_it", + "text": "Believing it" }, { - "id": "letting_simple_moments_count", - "text": "Letting simple moments count" + "id": "respecting_it_immediately", + "text": "Respecting it immediately" }, { - "id": "not_comparing_experiences", - "text": "Not comparing experiences" + "id": "staying_kind", + "text": "Staying kind" }, { - "id": "allowing_either_person_to_pass", - "text": "Allowing either person to pass" + "id": "not_making_it_a_test_of_love", + "text": "Not making it a test of love" } ] } @@ -4203,181 +6539,201 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_133", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which parts of our chemistry feel uniquely ours?", + "text": "Which agreements protect both sexual playfulness and safety?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "long_term_chemistry", + "consent_boundaries", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "consent" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "either_person_can_slow_down", + "text": "Either person can slow down" + }, + { + "id": "plans_can_change", + "text": "Plans can change" + }, + { + "id": "surprises_stay_within_known_comfort", + "text": "Surprises stay within known comfort" + }, + { + "id": "feedback_is_welcomed", + "text": "Feedback is welcomed" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "our_private_humor", - "text": "Our private humor" + "id": "either_person_can_slow_down", + "text": "Either person can slow down" }, { - "id": "the_way_tension_builds", - "text": "The way tension builds" + "id": "plans_can_change", + "text": "Plans can change" }, { - "id": "how_well_we_read_each_other", - "text": "How well we read each other" + "id": "surprises_stay_within_known_comfort", + "text": "Surprises stay within known comfort" }, { - "id": "the_history_behind_the_attraction", - "text": "The history behind the attraction" + "id": "feedback_is_welcomed", + "text": "Feedback is welcomed" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_134", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What deserves more attention if we want to protect our spark?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes sexual trust grow after an honest no?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "long_term_chemistry", + "consent_boundaries", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "consent" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_retaliation", + "text": "No retaliation" + }, + { + "id": "warmth_afterward", + "text": "Warmth afterward" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "the_next_invitation_still_feels_safe", + "text": "The next invitation still feels safe" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" + "id": "no_retaliation", + "text": "No retaliation" }, { - "id": "energy", - "text": "Energy" + "id": "warmth_afterward", + "text": "Warmth afterward" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { - "id": "emotional_connection", - "text": "Emotional connection" + "id": "the_next_invitation_still_feels_safe", + "text": "The next invitation still feels safe" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_135", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What could help us avoid waiting for desire to happen by accident?", + "text": "Which things help sex and desire stay freely chosen?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "long_term_chemistry", + "consent_boundaries", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "consent" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_scorekeeping", + "text": "No scorekeeping" + }, + { + "id": "no_guilt_for_saying_no", + "text": "No guilt for saying no" + }, + { + "id": "no_affection_used_as_leverage", + "text": "No affection used as leverage" + }, + { + "id": "no_assumption_that_touch_must_become_sex", + "text": "No assumption that touch must become sex" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "protecting_time_together", - "text": "Protecting time together" + "id": "no_scorekeeping", + "text": "No scorekeeping" }, { - "id": "flirting_before_the_moment", - "text": "Flirting before the moment" + "id": "no_guilt_for_saying_no", + "text": "No guilt for saying no" }, { - "id": "talking_about_what_has_changed", - "text": "Talking about what has changed" + "id": "no_affection_used_as_leverage", + "text": "No affection used as leverage" }, { - "id": "making_room_for_spontaneity", - "text": "Making room for spontaneity" + "id": "no_assumption_that_touch_must_become_sex", + "text": "No assumption that touch must become sex" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_136", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which memories still remind you that our chemistry is real?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What has gotten better about our sex life over time?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "desire_history", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "an_early_date_moment", - "text": "An early-date moment" - }, - { - "id": "a_time_we_could_not_stop_flirting", - "text": "A time we could not stop flirting" - }, - { - "id": "a_reunion_after_time_apart", - "text": "A reunion after time apart" - }, - { - "id": "a_completely_ordinary_night_that_clicked", - "text": "A completely ordinary night that clicked" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_137", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What has changed most about desire between us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "desire_over_time", + "long_term_chemistry", "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", + "adult_language", "consent_first" ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "how_it_starts", - "text": "How it starts" - }, - { - "id": "how_often_it_shows_up", - "text": "How often it shows up" - }, - { - "id": "what_helps_it_grow", - "text": "What helps it grow" - }, - { - "id": "how_openly_we_talk_about_it", - "text": "How openly we talk about it" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_138", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What has gotten better about our sexual connection over time?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "desire_over_time", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "options": [ + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "sexual_communication", + "text": "Sexual communication" + }, + { + "id": "confidence", + "text": "Confidence" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_each_other_s_libido_patterns", + "text": "Knowing each other's libido patterns" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4386,50 +6742,129 @@ "text": "Trust" }, { - "id": "communication", - "text": "Communication" + "id": "sexual_communication", + "text": "Sexual communication" }, { "id": "confidence", "text": "Confidence" }, { - "id": "knowing_each_other_s_rhythms", - "text": "Knowing each other's rhythms" + "id": "knowing_each_other_s_libido_patterns", + "text": "Knowing each other's libido patterns" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_137", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What has changed most about our sexual desire?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "long_term_chemistry", + "sex_and_desire", + "adult_language", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_arousal_starts", + "text": "How arousal starts" + }, + { + "id": "how_often_we_want_sex", + "text": "How often we want sex" + }, + { + "id": "what_helps_desire_grow", + "text": "What helps desire grow" + }, + { + "id": "how_openly_we_discuss_it", + "text": "How openly we discuss it" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_arousal_starts", + "text": "How arousal starts" + }, + { + "id": "how_often_we_want_sex", + "text": "How often we want sex" + }, + { + "id": "what_helps_desire_grow", + "text": "What helps desire grow" + }, + { + "id": "how_openly_we_discuss_it", + "text": "How openly we discuss it" } ] } }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_138", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How alive does our sexual chemistry feel right now?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "long_term_chemistry", + "sex_and_desire", + "adult_language", + "sexual_chemistry", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very routine", + "max_label": "Fresh and alive" + } + }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_139", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Recreate an old spark or make a new memory?", + "text": "Recreate an old sexual spark or build a new one?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "desire_history", + "long_term_chemistry", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "fun_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_chemistry", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "recreate_an_old_sexual_spark", + "text": "Recreate an old sexual spark" + }, + { + "id": "build_a_new_one", + "text": "Build a new one" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "recreate_an_old_spark", - "text": "Recreate an old spark" + "id": "recreate_an_old_sexual_spark", + "text": "Recreate an old sexual spark" }, { - "id": "make_a_new_memory", - "text": "Make a new memory" - }, - { - "id": "start_old_and_change_it", - "text": "Start old and change it" - }, - { - "id": "whichever_feels_natural", - "text": "Whichever feels natural" + "id": "build_a_new_one", + "text": "Build a new one" } ] } @@ -4438,98 +6873,162 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_140", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which life changes have most shaped our desire as a couple?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which old memories still carry the most sexual chemistry?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desire_over_time", + "long_term_chemistry", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "fun_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_chemistry", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "an_early_date", + "text": "An early date" + }, + { + "id": "a_night_we_could_not_stop_flirting", + "text": "A night we could not stop flirting" + }, + { + "id": "seeing_each_other_after_time_apart", + "text": "Seeing each other after time apart" + }, + { + "id": "an_ordinary_night_that_unexpectedly_turned_hot", + "text": "An ordinary night that unexpectedly turned hot" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "work_and_responsibilities", - "text": "Work and responsibilities" + "id": "an_early_date", + "text": "An early date" }, { - "id": "health_or_body_changes", - "text": "Health or body changes" + "id": "a_night_we_could_not_stop_flirting", + "text": "A night we could not stop flirting" }, { - "id": "parenting_or_family_demands", - "text": "Parenting or family demands" + "id": "seeing_each_other_after_time_apart", + "text": "Seeing each other after time apart" }, { - "id": "how_emotionally_connected_we_feel", - "text": "How emotionally connected we feel" + "id": "an_ordinary_night_that_unexpectedly_turned_hot", + "text": "An ordinary night that unexpectedly turned hot" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_141", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What do you miss most from an earlier chapter of our chemistry?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps long-term sexual desire feel chosen instead of assumed?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desire_history", + "long_term_chemistry", "sex_and_desire", + "adult_language", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "still_asking", + "text": "Still asking" + }, + { + "id": "still_flirting", + "text": "Still flirting" + }, + { + "id": "still_protecting_time_for_sex", + "text": "Still protecting time for sex" + }, + { + "id": "still_noticing_what_turns_each_other_on", + "text": "Still noticing what turns each other on" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "more_spontaneity", - "text": "More spontaneity" + "id": "still_asking", + "text": "Still asking" }, { - "id": "more_anticipation", - "text": "More anticipation" + "id": "still_flirting", + "text": "Still flirting" }, { - "id": "more_confidence", - "text": "More confidence" + "id": "still_protecting_time_for_sex", + "text": "Still protecting time for sex" }, { - "id": "more_uninterrupted_time", - "text": "More uninterrupted time" + "id": "still_noticing_what_turns_each_other_on", + "text": "Still noticing what turns each other on" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_142", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What from our early attraction is still worth protecting?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of sexual novelty sounds best right now?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desire_history", + "long_term_chemistry", "sex_and_desire", + "fun_first", + "adult_language", + "sexual_novelty", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_different_setting", + "text": "A different setting" + }, + { + "id": "a_different_rhythm", + "text": "A different rhythm" + }, + { + "id": "a_bolder_way_to_flirt", + "text": "A bolder way to flirt" + }, + { + "id": "a_more_honest_desire_conversation", + "text": "A more honest desire conversation" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" + "id": "a_different_setting", + "text": "A different setting" }, { - "id": "effort", - "text": "Effort" + "id": "a_different_rhythm", + "text": "A different rhythm" }, { - "id": "boldness", - "text": "Boldness" + "id": "a_bolder_way_to_flirt", + "text": "A bolder way to flirt" }, { - "id": "the_feeling_of_choosing_each_other", - "text": "The feeling of choosing each other" + "id": "a_more_honest_desire_conversation", + "text": "A more honest desire conversation" } ] } @@ -4538,119 +7037,166 @@ "id": "sex_and_desire_143", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which changes in desire deserve compassion rather than fixing?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What can make sexual chemistry go quiet in a long relationship?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desire_over_time", + "long_term_chemistry", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "sexual_chemistry", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "exhaustion", + "text": "Exhaustion" + }, + { + "id": "unspoken_resentment", + "text": "Unspoken resentment" + }, + { + "id": "too_little_privacy", + "text": "Too little privacy" + }, + { + "id": "assuming_attraction_no_longer_needs_attention", + "text": "Assuming attraction no longer needs attention" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "slower_warm_up", - "text": "Slower warm-up" + "id": "exhaustion", + "text": "Exhaustion" }, { - "id": "lower_energy", - "text": "Lower energy" + "id": "unspoken_resentment", + "text": "Unspoken resentment" }, { - "id": "different_timing", - "text": "Different timing" + "id": "too_little_privacy", + "text": "Too little privacy" }, { - "id": "a_need_for_more_reassurance", - "text": "A need for more reassurance" + "id": "assuming_attraction_no_longer_needs_attention", + "text": "Assuming attraction no longer needs attention" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_144", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well have we adapted to the ways our desire has changed?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which small changes could wake up more sexual anticipation?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desire_over_time", + "long_term_chemistry", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "adult_language", + "sexual_chemistry", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_planned_date_with_privacy_afterward", + "text": "A planned date with privacy afterward" + }, + { + "id": "suggestive_messages", + "text": "Suggestive messages" + }, + { + "id": "going_to_bed_before_we_are_exhausted", + "text": "Going to bed before we are exhausted" + }, + { + "id": "protecting_time_before_responsibilities_take_over", + "text": "Protecting time before responsibilities take over" + } ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very well", - "max_label": "Very well" + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_planned_date_with_privacy_afterward", + "text": "A planned date with privacy afterward" + }, + { + "id": "suggestive_messages", + "text": "Suggestive messages" + }, + { + "id": "going_to_bed_before_we_are_exhausted", + "text": "Going to bed before we are exhausted" + }, + { + "id": "protecting_time_before_responsibilities_take_over", + "text": "Protecting time before responsibilities take over" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_145", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When have you felt most desired by me, and what made that moment work?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our sexual chemistry growing from here?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desire_history", + "long_term_chemistry", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "adult_language", + "sexual_chemistry", + "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very hopeful yet", + "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_146", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would help our next chapter of desire feel honest and exciting?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should we stop assuming about each other's libido?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desire_over_time", + "long_term_chemistry", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "libido", + "consent_first" ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "talking_about_what_is_different_now", - "text": "Talking about what is different now" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_pressure_low", - "text": "Keeping pressure low" - }, - { - "id": "trying_new_ways_to_build_anticipation", - "text": "Trying new ways to build anticipation" - }, - { - "id": "protecting_more_private_time", - "text": "Protecting more private time" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_147", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we stop assuming about each other's desire?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desire_over_time", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "options": [ + { + "id": "that_it_works_the_same_as_before", + "text": "That it works the same as before" + }, + { + "id": "that_silence_means_no_sexual_interest", + "text": "That silence means no sexual interest" + }, + { + "id": "that_one_person_should_always_initiate_sex", + "text": "That one person should always initiate sex" + }, + { + "id": "that_libido_should_be_predictable", + "text": "That libido should be predictable" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4659,32 +7205,54 @@ "text": "That it works the same as before" }, { - "id": "that_silence_means_no_interest", - "text": "That silence means no interest" + "id": "that_silence_means_no_sexual_interest", + "text": "That silence means no sexual interest" }, { - "id": "that_one_person_should_always_initiate", - "text": "That one person should always initiate" + "id": "that_one_person_should_always_initiate_sex", + "text": "That one person should always initiate sex" }, { - "id": "that_desire_should_be_predictable", - "text": "That desire should be predictable" + "id": "that_libido_should_be_predictable", + "text": "That libido should be predictable" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_148", + "id": "sex_and_desire_147", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs would tell you our chemistry is growing again?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which sign would tell you our sexual chemistry is growing?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desire_over_time", + "long_term_chemistry", "sex_and_desire", + "adult_language", + "sexual_chemistry", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_spontaneous_flirting", + "text": "More spontaneous flirting" + }, + { + "id": "more_honest_sexual_invitations", + "text": "More honest sexual invitations" + }, + { + "id": "more_anticipation", + "text": "More anticipation" + }, + { + "id": "more_ease_after_a_no", + "text": "More ease after a no" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { @@ -4692,8 +7260,8 @@ "text": "More spontaneous flirting" }, { - "id": "more_honest_invitations", - "text": "More honest invitations" + "id": "more_honest_sexual_invitations", + "text": "More honest sexual invitations" }, { "id": "more_anticipation", @@ -4707,72 +7275,169 @@ } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_149", + "id": "sex_and_desire_148", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would make desire feel like something we share, not something one person manages?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What deserves protecting as our sex life changes?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "shared_desire", + "long_term_chemistry", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "private_time", + "text": "Private time" + }, + { + "id": "sexual_playfulness", + "text": "Sexual playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "honest_conversation", + "text": "Honest conversation" + }, + { + "id": "freedom_to_change", + "text": "Freedom to change" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "we_both_show_interest", - "text": "We both show interest" + "id": "private_time", + "text": "Private time" }, { - "id": "we_both_protect_consent", - "text": "We both protect consent" + "id": "sexual_playfulness", + "text": "Sexual playfulness" }, { - "id": "we_both_name_what_has_changed", - "text": "We both name what has changed" + "id": "honest_conversation", + "text": "Honest conversation" }, { - "id": "we_both_make_room_for_connection", - "text": "We both make room for connection" + "id": "freedom_to_change", + "text": "Freedom to change" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_149", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which future version of our sex life sounds most appealing?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "long_term_chemistry", + "sex_and_desire", + "adult_language", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_playful", + "text": "More playful" + }, + { + "id": "more_direct", + "text": "More direct" + }, + { + "id": "more_relaxed", + "text": "More relaxed" + }, + { + "id": "more_adventurous_within_our_comfort", + "text": "More adventurous within our comfort" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_playful", + "text": "More playful" + }, + { + "id": "more_direct", + "text": "More direct" + }, + { + "id": "more_relaxed", + "text": "More relaxed" + }, + { + "id": "more_adventurous_within_our_comfort", + "text": "More adventurous within our comfort" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_150", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is the strongest foundation for desire between us now?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make sexual desire feel like something we build together?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "shared_desire", + "long_term_chemistry", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "gentle_depth", + "adult_language", + "mutual_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_of_us_show_sexual_interest", + "text": "Both of us show sexual interest" + }, + { + "id": "both_help_create_time_for_sex", + "text": "Both help create time for sex" + }, + { + "id": "both_can_ask_clearly", + "text": "Both can ask clearly" + }, + { + "id": "both_can_change_course_safely", + "text": "Both can change course safely" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" + "id": "both_of_us_show_sexual_interest", + "text": "Both of us show sexual interest" }, { - "id": "attraction", - "text": "Attraction" + "id": "both_help_create_time_for_sex", + "text": "Both help create time for sex" }, { - "id": "friendship", - "text": "Friendship" + "id": "both_can_ask_clearly", + "text": "Both can ask clearly" }, { - "id": "honest_communication", - "text": "Honest communication" + "id": "both_can_change_course_safely", + "text": "Both can change course safely" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } } ] -} \ No newline at end of file +} diff --git a/seed/questions/sexual_preferences.json b/seed/questions/sexual_preferences.json index da7c0dd3..f78705e9 100644 --- a/seed/questions/sexual_preferences.json +++ b/seed/questions/sexual_preferences.json @@ -2,7 +2,7 @@ "category": { "id": "sexual_preferences", "display_name": "Sexual Preferences", - "description": "Playful, private, consent-first questions about desire, flirting, initiation, boundaries, feedback, aftercare, and sexual confidence for adult couples.", + "description": "Playful, direct, consent-first adult questions about what you actually like in bed: kissing, foreplay, oral sex, positions, dirty talk, toys, kink, pacing, orgasm, boundaries, and aftercare, built for quick preference matching and Desire Sync.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "favorite", "schema_version": "question_v2", @@ -18,9 +18,171 @@ "female": 20, "male": 20 }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 27, + "2": 88, + "3": 35 + }, "desire_sync_pairs": 20, - "content_version": "sexual_preferences_revised_v2", - "targeting_note": "The female/male values are retained as Desire Sync pairing keys. Paired wording is inclusive and role-based because the current game UI presents Partner A and Partner B." + "question_type_policy": "single_choice_only for quick preference comparison and Desire Sync compatibility", + "content_version": "sexual_preferences_spicier_final_v5", + "targeting_note": "The female/male values are retained as Desire Sync pairing keys. Paired wording is inclusive and role-based because the current game surface compares complementary Partner A and Partner B preferences.", + "related_pack_boundary": "This pack owns specific sexual likes, activities, body and sensory preferences, foreplay, oral sex, positions, dirty talk, toys, light kink, orgasm preferences, feedback, boundaries, and aftercare. General desire rhythms, feeling wanted, and initiation patterns belong in sex_and_desire; everyday nonsexual touch belongs in physical_intimacy; emotional vulnerability belongs in emotional_intimacy.", + "review_policy": "Complete production pack reviewed for adult consent, neutral wording, specific answerable options, importer-aligned integer depths, mirrored choice options, unique prompts, and preserved Desire Sync pair structure.", + "final_validation": "pass", + "neutral_opening_review_warnings": 0, + "desire_sync_repetition_exception": "The female/male prompts intentionally use complementary structures because Desire Sync compares matching preferences from two partner roles. Repetition screening applies to the 110 neutral questions, while all 20 paired prompts are validated pair-by-pair.", + "adult_language_policy": "Uses clear adult terms such as sex, oral sex, masturbation, orgasm, spanking, penetration, and dirty talk when those words make the preference easier to answer. Language stays consent-first, non-shaming, and specific without becoming clinical or hiding behind vague euphemisms.", + "spicy_editorial_update": { + "questions_reworded_or_replaced": 68, + "desire_sync_prompts_reworded": 32, + "focus": "Reduced euphemisms and affection-pack overlap while adding more specific adult preferences and maintaining all-single-choice Desire Sync behavior." + }, + "final_review": "Final adult-language and production pass completed. Replaced vague euphemisms, added direct but consent-first preferences covering foreplay, oral sex, penetration, masturbation, orgasm, spanking, roughness, toys, kink, and aftercare, and validated all 110 neutral prompts plus 20 Desire Sync pairs.", + "validation_warnings": 0, + "final_editorial_patches": 4, + "desire_sync_pair_review": [ + { + "pair": 1, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_001", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_001", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 2, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_002", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_002", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 3, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_003", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_003", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 4, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_004", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_004", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 5, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_005", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_005", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 6, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_006", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_006", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 7, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_007", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_007", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 8, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_008", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_008", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 9, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_009", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_009", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 10, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_010", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_010", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 11, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_011", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_011", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 12, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_012", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_012", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 13, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_013", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_013", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 14, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_014", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_014", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 15, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_015", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_015", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 16, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_016", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_016", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 17, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_017", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_017", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 18, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_018", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_018", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 19, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_019", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_019", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + }, + { + "pair": 20, + "female_id": "sexual_preferences_female_020", + "male_id": "sexual_preferences_male_020", + "status": "PASS", + "errors": [] + } + ] } }, "questions": [ @@ -29,48 +191,32 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of flirting gets your attention fastest?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet_and_obvious", - "text": "Sweet and obvious" - }, - { - "id": "playful_teasing", - "text": "Playful teasing" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_and_intense", - "text": "Quiet and intense" - }, - { - "id": "bold_and_direct", - "text": "Bold and direct" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_002", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of kiss makes you forget what you were saying?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which kiss gets your attention fastest?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "kissing", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_and_lingering", + "text": "Slow and lingering" + }, + { + "id": "soft_and_unexpected", + "text": "Soft and unexpected" + }, + { + "id": "deep_and_focused", + "text": "Deep and focused" + }, + { + "id": "playful_and_teasing", + "text": "Playful and teasing" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { @@ -93,35 +239,107 @@ } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_003", + "id": "sexual_preferences_002", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which first move feels sexiest to you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Where do you most enjoy being kissed first?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "initiation", + "kissing", + "buildup", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "lips", + "text": "Lips" + }, + { + "id": "neck", + "text": "Neck" + }, + { + "id": "shoulder", + "text": "Shoulder" + }, + { + "id": "somewhere_you_choose_in_the_moment", + "text": "Somewhere you choose in the moment" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "pull_me_closer", - "text": "Pull me closer" + "id": "lips", + "text": "Lips" }, { - "id": "whisper_to_me", - "text": "Whisper to me" + "id": "neck", + "text": "Neck" }, { - "id": "kiss_me_first", - "text": "Kiss me first" + "id": "shoulder", + "text": "Shoulder" }, { - "id": "ask_me_directly", - "text": "Ask me directly" + "id": "somewhere_you_choose_in_the_moment", + "text": "Somewhere you choose in the moment" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_003", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How should a first kiss of the night begin?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "kissing", + "pace", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "barely_there", + "text": "Barely there" + }, + { + "id": "warm_and_confident", + "text": "Warm and confident" + }, + { + "id": "playful_and_brief", + "text": "Playful and brief" + }, + { + "id": "direct_after_a_clear_invitation", + "text": "Direct after a clear invitation" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "barely_there", + "text": "Barely there" + }, + { + "id": "warm_and_confident", + "text": "Warm and confident" + }, + { + "id": "playful_and_brief", + "text": "Playful and brief" + }, + { + "id": "direct_after_a_clear_invitation", + "text": "Direct after a clear invitation" } ] } @@ -131,31 +349,50 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of touch makes you melt quickest?", + "text": "What makes kissing feel most intimate to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "touch", + "kissing", + "connection", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "taking_our_time", + "text": "Taking our time" + }, + { + "id": "close_eye_contact", + "text": "Close eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "hands_staying_involved", + "text": "Hands staying involved" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_completely_unhurried", + "text": "Feeling completely unhurried" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hands_in_my_hair", - "text": "Hands in my hair" + "id": "taking_our_time", + "text": "Taking our time" }, { - "id": "a_hand_on_my_waist", - "text": "A hand on my waist" + "id": "close_eye_contact", + "text": "Close eye contact" }, { - "id": "a_slow_back_rub", - "text": "A slow back rub" + "id": "hands_staying_involved", + "text": "Hands staying involved" }, { - "id": "neck_and_shoulders", - "text": "Neck and shoulders" + "id": "feeling_completely_unhurried", + "text": "Feeling completely unhurried" } ] } @@ -165,31 +402,50 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you feel about being teased before things get more direct?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which kissing rhythm usually feels best?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "teasing", + "kissing", + "pace", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_throughout", + "text": "Slow throughout" + }, + { + "id": "a_gradual_build", + "text": "A gradual build" + }, + { + "id": "changing_with_the_mood", + "text": "Changing with the mood" + }, + { + "id": "bold_from_the_start", + "text": "Bold from the start" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "love_the_anticipation", - "text": "Love the anticipation" + "id": "slow_throughout", + "text": "Slow throughout" }, { - "id": "sometimes_if_the_mood_fits", - "text": "Sometimes, if the mood fits" + "id": "a_gradual_build", + "text": "A gradual build" }, { - "id": "only_a_little", - "text": "Only a little" + "id": "changing_with_the_mood", + "text": "Changing with the mood" }, { - "id": "not_really_for_me", - "text": "Not really for me" + "id": "bold_from_the_start", + "text": "Bold from the start" } ] } @@ -199,31 +455,50 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What mood turns you on most?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What should happen between longer kisses?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "mood", + "kissing", + "buildup", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_eye_contact", + "text": "Quiet eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "a_whispered_compliment", + "text": "A whispered compliment" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_teasing", + "text": "A little teasing" + }, + { + "id": "no_pause_at_all", + "text": "No pause at all" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "soft_and_romantic", - "text": "Soft and romantic" + "id": "quiet_eye_contact", + "text": "Quiet eye contact" }, { - "id": "playful_with_a_smirk", - "text": "Playful with a smirk" + "id": "a_whispered_compliment", + "text": "A whispered compliment" }, { - "id": "bold_and_confident", - "text": "Bold and confident" + "id": "a_little_teasing", + "text": "A little teasing" }, { - "id": "slow_and_quiet", - "text": "Slow and quiet" + "id": "no_pause_at_all", + "text": "No pause at all" } ] } @@ -233,31 +508,50 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which line would make you smile and lean in?", + "text": "How do you feel about kisses that leave visible marks?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "words", + "kissing", + "boundaries", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_enjoy_them", + "text": "I enjoy them" + }, + { + "id": "only_where_clothing_covers_them", + "text": "Only where clothing covers them" + }, + { + "id": "ask_me_each_time", + "text": "Ask me each time" + }, + { + "id": "i_would_rather_avoid_them", + "text": "I would rather avoid them" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "come_here", - "text": "Come here" + "id": "i_enjoy_them", + "text": "I enjoy them" }, { - "id": "i_want_you", - "text": "I want you" + "id": "only_where_clothing_covers_them", + "text": "Only where clothing covers them" }, { - "id": "kiss_me", - "text": "Kiss me" + "id": "ask_me_each_time", + "text": "Ask me each time" }, { - "id": "tell_me_what_you_want", - "text": "Tell me what you want" + "id": "i_would_rather_avoid_them", + "text": "I would rather avoid them" } ] } @@ -267,31 +561,50 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do body compliments usually land for you?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Which goodbye kiss would keep you thinking about later?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "compliments", + "kissing", + "anticipation", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "long_and_slow", + "text": "Long and slow" + }, + { + "id": "quick_but_intense", + "text": "Quick but intense" + }, + { + "id": "playful_with_a_promise", + "text": "Playful with a promise" + }, + { + "id": "soft_and_affectionate", + "text": "Soft and affectionate" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "they_make_me_glow", - "text": "They make me glow" + "id": "long_and_slow", + "text": "Long and slow" }, { - "id": "only_when_they_are_specific", - "text": "Only when they are specific" + "id": "quick_but_intense", + "text": "Quick but intense" }, { - "id": "depends_on_my_mood", - "text": "Depends on my mood" + "id": "playful_with_a_promise", + "text": "Playful with a promise" }, { - "id": "i_prefer_other_compliments", - "text": "I prefer other compliments" + "id": "soft_and_affectionate", + "text": "Soft and affectionate" } ] } @@ -301,31 +614,50 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of compliment makes you feel most wanted?", + "text": "When kissing gets intense, what helps it stay enjoyable?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "compliments", + "kissing", + "feedback", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "matching_my_pace", + "text": "Matching my pace" + }, + { + "id": "checking_my_response", + "text": "Checking my response" + }, + { + "id": "changing_pressure_gradually", + "text": "Changing pressure gradually" + }, + { + "id": "letting_me_guide_the_next_move", + "text": "Letting me guide the next move" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "something_about_my_body", - "text": "Something about my body" + "id": "matching_my_pace", + "text": "Matching my pace" }, { - "id": "hearing_that_you_want_me", - "text": "Hearing that you want me" + "id": "checking_my_response", + "text": "Checking my response" }, { - "id": "something_very_specific", - "text": "Something very specific" + "id": "changing_pressure_gradually", + "text": "Changing pressure gradually" }, { - "id": "praise_for_how_i_make_you_feel", - "text": "Praise for how I make you feel" + "id": "letting_me_guide_the_next_move", + "text": "Letting me guide the next move" } ] } @@ -335,13 +667,2228 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which pace usually feels best at the beginning?", + "text": "Which kiss feels most like an invitation?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "kissing", + "initiation", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_lingering_kiss", + "text": "A lingering kiss" + }, + { + "id": "a_kiss_on_the_neck", + "text": "A kiss on the neck" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_bite_with_permission", + "text": "A playful bite with permission" + }, + { + "id": "a_direct_kiss_after_asking", + "text": "A direct kiss after asking" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_lingering_kiss", + "text": "A lingering kiss" + }, + { + "id": "a_kiss_on_the_neck", + "text": "A kiss on the neck" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_bite_with_permission", + "text": "A playful bite with permission" + }, + { + "id": "a_direct_kiss_after_asking", + "text": "A direct kiss after asking" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_011", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of foreplay helps you relax into sex?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "touch", + "buildup", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "foreplay" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "long_kissing", + "text": "Long kissing" + }, + { + "id": "an_erotic_massage", + "text": "An erotic massage" + }, + { + "id": "oral_sex", + "text": "Oral sex" + }, + { + "id": "hands_exploring_slowly", + "text": "Hands exploring slowly" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "long_kissing", + "text": "Long kissing" + }, + { + "id": "an_erotic_massage", + "text": "An erotic massage" + }, + { + "id": "oral_sex", + "text": "Oral sex" + }, + { + "id": "hands_exploring_slowly", + "text": "Hands exploring slowly" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_012", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Where do you most enjoy being touched before sex?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "touch", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "foreplay", + "body_preferences" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "neck_and_shoulders", + "text": "Neck and shoulders" + }, + { + "id": "chest_or_breasts", + "text": "Chest or breasts" + }, + { + "id": "inner_thighs", + "text": "Inner thighs" + }, + { + "id": "wherever_i_guide_your_hand", + "text": "Wherever I guide your hand" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "neck_and_shoulders", + "text": "Neck and shoulders" + }, + { + "id": "chest_or_breasts", + "text": "Chest or breasts" + }, + { + "id": "inner_thighs", + "text": "Inner thighs" + }, + { + "id": "wherever_i_guide_your_hand", + "text": "Wherever I guide your hand" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_013", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How much teasing do you enjoy before direct sexual touch?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "touch", + "teasing", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "foreplay" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_buildup", + "text": "A long buildup" + }, + { + "id": "a_moderate_amount", + "text": "A moderate amount" + }, + { + "id": "only_a_little", + "text": "Only a little" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_getting_direct_fairly_quickly", + "text": "I prefer getting direct fairly quickly" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_buildup", + "text": "A long buildup" + }, + { + "id": "a_moderate_amount", + "text": "A moderate amount" + }, + { + "id": "only_a_little", + "text": "Only a little" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_getting_direct_fairly_quickly", + "text": "I prefer getting direct fairly quickly" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_014", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which touch feels hottest without feeling forceful?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "touch", + "leading", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "confident_touch" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "pulling_me_closer_after_a_yes", + "text": "Pulling me closer after a yes" + }, + { + "id": "a_firm_hand_at_my_waist", + "text": "A firm hand at my waist" + }, + { + "id": "holding_my_face_while_kissing", + "text": "Holding my face while kissing" + }, + { + "id": "waiting_for_me_to_close_the_distance", + "text": "Waiting for me to close the distance" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "pulling_me_closer_after_a_yes", + "text": "Pulling me closer after a yes" + }, + { + "id": "a_firm_hand_at_my_waist", + "text": "A firm hand at my waist" + }, + { + "id": "holding_my_face_while_kissing", + "text": "Holding my face while kissing" + }, + { + "id": "waiting_for_me_to_close_the_distance", + "text": "Waiting for me to close the distance" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_015", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What turns a massage from relaxing into erotic?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "massage", + "buildup", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "foreplay" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_full_body_touch", + "text": "Slow full-body touch" + }, + { + "id": "kissing_between_strokes", + "text": "Kissing between strokes" + }, + { + "id": "dirty_talk", + "text": "Dirty talk" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_sex_is_optional", + "text": "Knowing sex is optional" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_full_body_touch", + "text": "Slow full-body touch" + }, + { + "id": "kissing_between_strokes", + "text": "Kissing between strokes" + }, + { + "id": "dirty_talk", + "text": "Dirty talk" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_sex_is_optional", + "text": "Knowing sex is optional" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_016", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How should touch change as you get more turned on?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "touch", + "pace", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "arousal", + "feedback" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "become_firmer_gradually", + "text": "Become firmer gradually" + }, + { + "id": "move_more_slowly", + "text": "Move more slowly" + }, + { + "id": "follow_my_directions", + "text": "Follow my directions" + }, + { + "id": "stay_consistent_until_i_ask", + "text": "Stay consistent until I ask" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "become_firmer_gradually", + "text": "Become firmer gradually" + }, + { + "id": 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"Simple words" + }, + { + "id": "a_whispered_instruction", + "text": "A whispered instruction" + }, + { + "id": "guiding_my_hand_or_body", + "text": "Guiding my hand or body" + }, + { + "id": "talking_after_sex_instead", + "text": "Talking after sex instead" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_036", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of dirty praise feels hottest?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "praise", + "words", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "dirty_talk", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "praise_for_how_i_look_naked", + "text": "Praise for how I look naked" + }, + { + "id": "praise_for_what_i_am_doing", + "text": "Praise for what I am doing" + }, + { + "id": "hearing_how_good_i_make_you_feel", + "text": "Hearing how good I make you feel" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_approval_instead_of_words", + "text": "Quiet approval instead of words" + } + ], + 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], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sweet_with_an_edge", + "text": "Sweet with an edge" + }, + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "low_and_explicit", + "text": "Low and explicit" + }, + { + "id": "warm_and_romantic", + "text": "Warm and romantic" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_038", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Are pet names welcome during intimacy?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "words", + "pet_names", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_enjoy_them", + "text": "I enjoy them" + }, + { + "id": "only_certain_names", + "text": "Only certain names" + }, + { + "id": "ask_me_what_i_like", + "text": "Ask me what I like" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_my_regular_name", + "text": "I prefer my regular name" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_enjoy_them", + "text": "I enjoy them" + }, + { + "id": "only_certain_names", + "text": "Only certain names" + }, + { + "id": "ask_me_what_i_like", + "text": "Ask me what I like" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_my_regular_name", + "text": "I prefer my regular name" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_039", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a sexual compliment feel believable?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "compliments", + "trust", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "praise", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_is_specific", + "text": "It is specific" + }, + { + "id": "it_fits_the_moment", + "text": "It fits the moment" + }, + { + "id": "it_is_said_without_demanding_sex", + "text": "It is said without demanding sex" + }, + { + "id": "it_notices_how_i_respond", + "text": "It notices how I respond" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_is_specific", + "text": "It is specific" + }, + { + "id": "it_fits_the_moment", + "text": "It fits the moment" + }, + { + "id": "it_is_said_without_demanding_sex", + "text": "It is said without demanding sex" + }, + { + "id": "it_notices_how_i_respond", + "text": "It notices how I respond" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_040", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which sext would build the most anticipation?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "sexting", + "anticipation", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_keep_thinking_about_your_mouth", + "text": "I keep thinking about your mouth" + }, + { + "id": "save_some_energy_for_me", + "text": "Save some energy for me" + }, + { + "id": "i_have_a_dirty_idea_for_later", + "text": "I have a dirty idea for later" + }, + { + "id": "i_want_you_naked_when_we_are_alone", + "text": "I want you naked when we are alone" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_keep_thinking_about_your_mouth", + "text": "I keep thinking about your mouth" + }, + { + "id": "save_some_energy_for_me", + "text": "Save some energy for me" + }, + { + "id": "i_have_a_dirty_idea_for_later", + "text": "I have a dirty idea for later" + }, + { + "id": "i_want_you_naked_when_we_are_alone", + "text": "I want you naked when we are alone" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_041", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which lighting makes you feel most comfortable?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "setting", + "lighting", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "very_dim", + "text": "Very dim" + }, + { + "id": "warm_lamps", + "text": "Warm lamps" + }, + { + "id": "candlelight", + "text": "Candlelight" + }, + { + "id": "enough_light_to_see_each_other_clearly", + "text": "Enough light to see each other clearly" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "very_dim", + "text": "Very dim" + }, + { + "id": "warm_lamps", + "text": "Warm lamps" + }, + { + "id": "candlelight", + "text": "Candlelight" + }, + { + "id": "enough_light_to_see_each_other_clearly", + "text": "Enough light to see each other clearly" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_042", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of music fits sex best?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "setting", + "music", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_and_atmospheric", + "text": "Slow and atmospheric" + }, + { + "id": "something_familiar", + "text": "Something familiar" + }, + { + "id": "playful_and_upbeat", + "text": "Playful and upbeat" + }, + { + "id": "no_music", + "text": "No music" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_and_atmospheric", + "text": "Slow and atmospheric" + }, + { + "id": "something_familiar", + "text": "Something familiar" + }, + { + "id": "playful_and_upbeat", + "text": "Playful and upbeat" + }, + { + "id": "no_music", + "text": "No music" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_043", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which setting sounds hottest tonight?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "setting", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_freshly_made_bed", + "text": "A freshly made bed" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_shower", + "text": "A warm shower" + }, + { + "id": "the_couch_with_the_door_locked", + "text": "The couch with the door locked" + }, + { + "id": "anywhere_completely_private", + "text": "Anywhere completely private" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_freshly_made_bed", + "text": "A freshly made bed" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_shower", + "text": "A warm shower" + }, + { + "id": "the_couch_with_the_door_locked", + "text": "The couch with the door locked" + }, + { + "id": "anywhere_completely_private", + "text": "Anywhere completely private" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_044", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How important is a locked door to your comfort?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "privacy", + "setting", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "essential", + "text": "Essential" + }, + { + "id": "helpful", + "text": "Helpful" + }, + { + "id": "only_when_others_are_home", + "text": "Only when others are home" + }, + { + "id": "not_important_if_privacy_is_certain", + "text": "Not important if privacy is certain" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "essential", + "text": "Essential" + }, + { + "id": "helpful", + "text": "Helpful" + }, + { + "id": "only_when_others_are_home", + "text": "Only when others are home" + }, + { + "id": "not_important_if_privacy_is_certain", + "text": "Not important if privacy is certain" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_045", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What room temperature helps you relax most?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "setting", + "temperature", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "cool_with_blankets", + "text": "Cool with blankets" + }, + { + "id": "comfortably_warm", + "text": "Comfortably warm" + }, + { + "id": "warm_enough_for_no_covers", + "text": "Warm enough for no covers" + }, + { + "id": "i_adjust_as_we_go", + "text": "I adjust as we go" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cool_with_blankets", + "text": "Cool with blankets" + }, + { + "id": "comfortably_warm", + "text": "Comfortably warm" + }, + { + "id": "warm_enough_for_no_covers", + "text": "Warm enough for no covers" + }, + { + "id": "i_adjust_as_we_go", + "text": "I adjust as we go" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_046", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which scent would add the most to the mood?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "setting", + "scent", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "clean_sheets", + "text": "Clean sheets" + }, + { + "id": "a_subtle_candle", + "text": "A subtle candle" + }, + { + "id": "fresh_shower_scent", + "text": "Fresh shower scent" + }, + { + "id": "no_added_fragrance", + "text": "No added fragrance" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clean_sheets", + "text": "Clean sheets" + }, + { + "id": "a_subtle_candle", + "text": "A subtle candle" + }, + { + "id": "fresh_shower_scent", + "text": "Fresh shower scent" + }, + { + "id": "no_added_fragrance", + "text": "No added fragrance" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_047", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Do mirrors add anything during sex?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "setting", + "mirrors", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_enjoy_them", + "text": "I enjoy them" + }, + { + "id": "only_occasionally", + "text": "Only occasionally" + }, + { + "id": "only_if_i_choose_the_angle", + "text": "Only if I choose the angle" + }, + { + "id": "i_would_rather_avoid_them", + "text": "I would rather avoid them" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_enjoy_them", + "text": "I enjoy them" + }, + { + "id": "only_occasionally", + "text": "Only occasionally" + }, + { + "id": "only_if_i_choose_the_angle", + "text": "Only if I choose the angle" + }, + { + "id": "i_would_rather_avoid_them", + "text": "I would rather avoid them" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_048", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How do you feel about a quickie?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "setting", + "travel", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "quickie", + "pace" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_love_them", + "text": "I love them" + }, + { + "id": "fun_occasionally", + "text": "Fun occasionally" + }, + { + "id": "only_with_enough_warm_up", + "text": "Only with enough warm-up" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_unhurried_sex", + "text": "I prefer unhurried sex" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_love_them", + "text": "I love them" + }, + { + "id": "fun_occasionally", + "text": "Fun occasionally" + }, + { + "id": "only_with_enough_warm_up", + "text": "Only with enough warm-up" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_unhurried_sex", + "text": "I prefer unhurried sex" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_049", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which clothing choice creates the most anticipation?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "clothing", + "anticipation", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "something_dressed_up", + "text": "Something dressed up" + }, + { + "id": "something_soft_and_comfortable", + "text": "Something soft and comfortable" + }, + { + "id": "a_favorite_outfit", + "text": "A favorite outfit" + }, + { + "id": "a_surprise_chosen_together", + "text": "A surprise chosen together" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "something_dressed_up", + "text": "Something dressed up" + }, + { + "id": "something_soft_and_comfortable", + "text": "Something soft and comfortable" + }, + { + "id": "a_favorite_outfit", + "text": "A favorite outfit" + }, + { + "id": "a_surprise_chosen_together", + "text": "A surprise chosen together" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_050", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How much does a tidy room affect your ability to focus?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "setting", + "focus", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_lot", + "text": "A lot" + }, + { + "id": "somewhat", + "text": "Somewhat" + }, + { + "id": "only_obvious_clutter_matters", + "text": "Only obvious clutter matters" + }, + { + "id": "hardly_at_all", + "text": "Hardly at all" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_lot", + "text": "A lot" + }, + { + "id": "somewhat", + "text": "Somewhat" + }, + { + "id": "only_obvious_clutter_matters", + "text": "Only obvious clutter matters" + }, + { + "id": "hardly_at_all", + "text": "Hardly at all" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_051", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which foreplay pace usually feels best?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ "pace", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "foreplay" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "very_slow", + "text": "Very slow" + }, + { + "id": "a_steady_build", + "text": "A steady build" + }, + { + "id": "follow_the_chemistry", + "text": "Follow the chemistry" + }, + { + "id": "direct_once_we_both_clearly_want_sex", + "text": "Direct once we both clearly want sex" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -358,1402 +2905,8 @@ "text": "Follow the chemistry" }, { - "id": "direct_once_we_both_agree", - "text": "Direct once we both agree" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_011", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel comfortable saying exactly what you want?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - }, - { - "id": "being_asked_gently", - "text": "Being asked gently" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_mood", - "text": "A playful mood" - }, - { - "id": "complete_privacy", - "text": "Complete privacy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_012", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should your partner ask what feels good?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "softly_in_the_moment", - "text": "Softly in the moment" - }, - { - "id": "directly_and_clearly", - "text": "Directly and clearly" - }, - { - "id": "before_anything_starts", - "text": "Before anything starts" - }, - { - "id": "let_me_bring_it_up", - "text": "Let me bring it up" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_013", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of sexy talk sounds most like your style?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "dirty_talk", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_and_suggestive", - "text": "Soft and suggestive" - }, - { - "id": "bold_and_clear", - "text": "Bold and clear" - }, - { - "id": "playful_and_teasing", - "text": "Playful and teasing" - }, - { - "id": "not_really_my_thing", - "text": "Not really my thing" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_014", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What daytime message would make you smirk?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "sexting", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "thinking_about_you", - "text": "Thinking about you" - }, - { - "id": "i_cannot_wait_to_kiss_you", - "text": "I cannot wait to kiss you" - }, - { - "id": "save_some_energy_for_later", - "text": "Save some energy for later" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_inside_joke", - "text": "A private inside joke" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_015", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of flirting should happen before anything sexual starts?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "playful_banter", - "text": "Playful banter" - }, - { - "id": "long_eye_contact", - "text": "Long eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "small_touches", - "text": "Small touches" - }, - { - "id": "a_clear_invitation", - "text": "A clear invitation" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_016", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which setting helps you relax into desire?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "setting", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_cozy_bedroom", - "text": "A cozy bedroom" - }, - { - "id": "a_quiet_couch", - "text": "A quiet couch" - }, - { - "id": "a_warm_shower", - "text": "A warm shower" - }, - { - "id": "anywhere_truly_private", - "text": "Anywhere truly private" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_017", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of privacy helps you stay present?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_locked_door", - "text": "A locked door" - }, - { - "id": "phones_put_away", - "text": "Phones put away" - }, - { - "id": "plenty_of_time", - "text": "Plenty of time" - }, - { - "id": "a_quiet_house", - "text": "A quiet house" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_018", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How does eye contact feel when things get intense?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "eye_contact", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "very_connecting", - "text": "Very connecting" - }, - { - "id": "sexy_in_small_doses", - "text": "Sexy in small doses" - }, - { - "id": "depends_on_the_moment", - "text": "Depends on the moment" - }, - { - "id": "i_prefer_less_of_it", - "text": "I prefer less of it" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_019", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which desire style feels most like you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "style", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_burn", - "text": "Slow burn" - }, - { - "id": "spontaneous_spark", - "text": "Spontaneous spark" - }, - { - "id": "romantic_build_up", - "text": "Romantic build-up" - }, - { - "id": "direct_heat", - "text": "Direct heat" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_020", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes desire from your partner feel unmistakable?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "feeling_wanted", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "desiring_words", - "text": "Desiring words" - }, - { - "id": "focused_touch", - "text": "Focused touch" - }, - { - "id": "thoughtful_planning", - "text": "Thoughtful planning" - }, - { - "id": "undivided_attention", - "text": "Undivided attention" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_021", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you feel when your partner takes the lead?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "leading", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_love_it", - "text": "I love it" - }, - { - "id": "i_like_taking_turns", - "text": "I like taking turns" - }, - { - "id": "only_after_a_clear_check_in", - "text": "Only after a clear check-in" - }, - { - "id": "i_usually_prefer_to_lead", - "text": "I usually prefer to lead" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_022", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which leading style feels best?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "leading", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_and_patient", - "text": "Gentle and patient" - }, - { - "id": "confident_and_clear", - "text": "Confident and clear" - }, - { - "id": "playful_and_responsive", - "text": "Playful and responsive" - }, - { - "id": "taking_turns_naturally", - "text": "Taking turns naturally" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_023", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes initiation feel inviting instead of pressuring?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "an_easy_no", - "text": "An easy no" - }, - { - "id": "a_warm_tone", - "text": "A warm tone" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "clear_interest_without_expectation", - "text": "Clear interest without expectation" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_024", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How would you rather signal that you need a pause?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "say_pause", - "text": "Say pause" - }, - { - "id": "use_a_safe_word", - "text": "Use a safe word" - }, - { - "id": "tap_or_squeeze", - "text": "Tap or squeeze" - }, - { - "id": "ask_to_slow_down", - "text": "Ask to slow down" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_025", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should a pause always mean between us?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "stop_and_listen", - "text": "Stop and listen" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down_and_check_in", - "text": "Slow down and check in" - }, - { - "id": "give_me_space", - "text": "Give me space" - }, - { - "id": "switch_to_nonsexual_closeness", - "text": "Switch to nonsexual closeness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_026", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which after-intimacy moment sounds best?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cuddling_quietly", - "text": "Cuddling quietly" - }, - { - "id": "talking_and_laughing", - "text": "Talking and laughing" - }, - { - "id": "getting_water_or_a_snack", - "text": "Getting water or a snack" - }, - { - "id": "a_little_space_to_settle", - "text": "A little space to settle" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_027", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How long do you usually want aftercare to last?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_few_minutes", - "text": "A few minutes" - }, - { - "id": "until_we_fall_asleep", - "text": "Until we fall asleep" - }, - { - "id": "until_i_feel_settled", - "text": "Until I feel settled" - }, - { - "id": "it_changes_each_time", - "text": "It changes each time" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_028", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of affection feels good after you say no?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_reassuring_hug", - "text": "A reassuring hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_kiss_with_no_agenda", - "text": "A kiss with no agenda" - }, - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "space_without_hurt_feelings", - "text": "Space without hurt feelings" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_029", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes turning down initiation feel safest?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_guilt_afterward", - "text": "No guilt afterward" - }, - { - "id": "a_warm_response", - "text": "A warm response" - }, - { - "id": "no_repeated_asking", - "text": "No repeated asking" - }, - { - "id": "an_easy_change_of_plans", - "text": "An easy change of plans" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_030", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you feel about surprise affection that might become more?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "spontaneity", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_enjoy_the_possibility", - "text": "I enjoy the possibility" - }, - { - "id": "only_with_a_check_in", - "text": "Only with a check-in" - }, - { - "id": "only_when_i_am_relaxed", - "text": "Only when I am relaxed" - }, - { - "id": "keep_surprise_affection_nonsexual", - "text": "Keep surprise affection nonsexual" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_031", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of touch deserves more time before sex?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "build_up", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kissing", - "text": "Kissing" - }, - { - "id": "massage", - "text": "Massage" - }, - { - "id": "cuddling", - "text": "Cuddling" - }, - { - "id": "slow_full_body_affection", - "text": "Slow full-body affection" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_032", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is most likely to shut down your desire?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "turn_offs", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "feeling_rushed", - "text": "Feeling rushed" - }, - { - "id": "bad_timing", - "text": "Bad timing" - }, - { - "id": "skipping_affection", - "text": "Skipping affection" - }, - { - "id": "not_enough_privacy", - "text": "Not enough privacy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_033", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you feel about flirting before you are alone?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "it_builds_great_tension", - "text": "It builds great tension" - }, - { - "id": "only_if_it_stays_subtle", - "text": "Only if it stays subtle" - }, - { - "id": "depends_where_we_are", - "text": "Depends where we are" - }, - { - "id": "i_prefer_to_wait", - "text": "I prefer to wait" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_034", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of anticipation works best for you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "flirty_messages", - "text": "Flirty messages" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_looks", - "text": "Knowing looks" - }, - { - "id": "small_private_touches", - "text": "Small private touches" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_there_is_a_plan", - "text": "Knowing there is a plan" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_035", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel safe enough to be more playful?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "safety", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "no_judgment", - "text": "No judgment" - }, - { - "id": "easy_laughter", - "text": "Easy laughter" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_036", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How would you like to be asked what you want tonight?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweetly", - "text": "Sweetly" - }, - { - "id": "playfully", - "text": "Playfully" - }, - { - "id": "directly", - "text": "Directly" - }, - { - "id": "let_me_volunteer_it", - "text": "Let me volunteer it" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_037", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which phrase would make sharing a desire easier?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_can_say_anything", - "text": "You can say anything" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure_either_way", - "text": "No pressure either way" - }, - { - "id": "we_can_stop_anytime", - "text": "We can stop anytime" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_curious_not_expecting", - "text": "I am curious, not expecting" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_038", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of bedroom energy feels most like you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "mood", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tender", - "text": "Tender" - }, - { - "id": "hungry", - "text": "Hungry" - }, - { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" - }, - { - "id": "slow_and_focused", - "text": "Slow and focused" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_039", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How much laughter belongs in intimate moments?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_lot", - "text": "A lot" - }, - { - "id": "a_little", - "text": "A little" - }, - { - "id": "only_when_something_is_funny", - "text": "Only when something is funny" - }, - { - "id": "i_prefer_a_serious_mood", - "text": "I prefer a serious mood" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_040", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes intimacy feel most like us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "connection", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "laughing_together", - "text": "Laughing together" - }, - { - "id": "strong_eye_contact", - "text": "Strong eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "our_private_language", - "text": "Our private language" - }, - { - "id": "being_fully_present", - "text": "Being fully present" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_041", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which gesture would make you feel most desired?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "feeling_wanted", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_planned_private_night", - "text": "A planned private night" - }, - { - "id": "a_spontaneous_kiss", - "text": "A spontaneous kiss" - }, - { - "id": "a_flirty_message", - "text": "A flirty message" - }, - { - "id": "slow_focused_attention", - "text": "Slow focused attention" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_042", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you prefer intimacy to happen?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "planning", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "mostly_planned", - "text": "Mostly planned" - }, - { - "id": "mostly_spontaneous", - "text": "Mostly spontaneous" - }, - { - "id": "a_mix_of_both", - "text": "A mix of both" - }, - { - "id": "it_depends_on_my_energy", - "text": "It depends on my energy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_043", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When are you most open to intimacy?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "timing", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "morning", - "text": "Morning" - }, - { - "id": "afternoon", - "text": "Afternoon" - }, - { - "id": "evening", - "text": "Evening" - }, - { - "id": "it_varies", - "text": "It varies" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_044", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you move from daily stress into desire?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "transition", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_time_first", - "text": "Quiet time first" - }, - { - "id": "a_shower", - "text": "A shower" - }, - { - "id": "affection_without_pressure", - "text": "Affection without pressure" - }, - { - "id": "flirting_that_starts_slowly", - "text": "Flirting that starts slowly" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_045", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How much build-up usually feels right?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "build_up", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_long_slow_build", - "text": "A long slow build" - }, - { - "id": "enough_to_feel_connected", - "text": "Enough to feel connected" - }, - { - "id": "follow_the_moment", - "text": "Follow the moment" - }, - { - "id": "i_usually_prefer_directness", - "text": "I usually prefer directness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_046", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which part of the build-up would you linger on?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "build_up", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kissing", - "text": "Kissing" - }, - { - "id": "talking_and_teasing", - "text": "Talking and teasing" - }, - { - "id": "massage", - "text": "Massage" - }, - { - "id": "slow_undressing", - "text": "Slow undressing" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_047", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you feel about undressing each other slowly?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "very_into_it", - "text": "Very into it" - }, - { - "id": "sometimes", - "text": "Sometimes" - }, - { - "id": "only_in_a_playful_mood", - "text": "Only in a playful mood" - }, - { - "id": "i_prefer_less_focus_on_it", - "text": "I prefer less focus on it" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_048", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kissing pace feels best once things heat up?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "kissing", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_and_deep", - "text": "Slow and deep" - }, - { - "id": "changing_pace", - "text": "Changing pace" - }, - { - "id": "playful_and_quick", - "text": "Playful and quick" - }, - { - "id": "let_the_moment_decide", - "text": "Let the moment decide" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_049", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What amount of touch pressure feels best?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "touch", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "very_gentle", - "text": "Very gentle" - }, - { - "id": "steady_and_firm", - "text": "Steady and firm" - }, - { - "id": "a_changing_mix", - "text": "A changing mix" - }, - { - "id": "ask_me_in_the_moment", - "text": "Ask me in the moment" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_050", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Where does affectionate touch feel most welcome at first?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "touch", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hair_and_face", - "text": "Hair and face" - }, - { - "id": "neck_and_shoulders", - "text": "Neck and shoulders" - }, - { - "id": "back_and_waist", - "text": "Back and waist" - }, - { - "id": "hands_and_arms", - "text": "Hands and arms" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_051", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which check-in would feel natural in the moment?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "feedback", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "still_good", - "text": "Still good?" - }, - { - "id": "more_or_less", - "text": "More or less?" - }, - { - "id": "want_me_to_keep_going", - "text": "Want me to keep going?" - }, - { - "id": "tell_me_what_you_want", - "text": "Tell me what you want" + "id": "direct_once_we_both_clearly_want_sex", + "text": "Direct once we both clearly want sex" } ] } @@ -1763,31 +2916,51 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which phrase feels easiest when you want to stop?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How much variety in pace do you enjoy during sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "consent", + "pace", + "variety", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "frequent_changes", + "text": "Frequent changes" + }, + { + "id": "a_few_gradual_changes", + "text": "A few gradual changes" + }, + { + "id": "mostly_steady", + "text": "Mostly steady" + }, + { + "id": "let_me_guide_the_pace", + "text": "Let me guide the pace" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "stop", - "text": "Stop" + "id": "frequent_changes", + "text": "Frequent changes" }, { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" + "id": "a_few_gradual_changes", + "text": "A few gradual changes" }, { - "id": "not_tonight", - "text": "Not tonight" + "id": "mostly_steady", + "text": "Mostly steady" }, { - "id": "i_need_space", - "text": "I need space" + "id": "let_me_guide_the_pace", + "text": "Let me guide the pace" } ] } @@ -1797,31 +2970,51 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should your partner respond when you say no?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Which sex-position style feels most connecting?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "consent", + "positions", + "connection", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "face_to_face", + "text": "Face-to-face" + }, + { + "id": "side_by_side", + "text": "Side-by-side" + }, + { + "id": "one_partner_on_top", + "text": "One partner on top" + }, + { + "id": "it_depends_on_the_mood", + "text": "It depends on the mood" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "accept_it_warmly", - "text": "Accept it warmly" + "id": "face_to_face", + "text": "Face-to-face" }, { - "id": "offer_nonsexual_closeness", - "text": "Offer nonsexual closeness" + "id": "side_by_side", + "text": "Side-by-side" }, { - "id": "change_the_subject_kindly", - "text": "Change the subject kindly" + "id": "one_partner_on_top", + "text": "One partner on top" }, { - "id": "give_me_space", - "text": "Give me space" + "id": "it_depends_on_the_mood", + "text": "It depends on the mood" } ] } @@ -1831,14 +3024,414 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should always be easy to say during intimacy?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What makes changing positions during sex feel playful?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "consent", + "positions", + "playful", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "switching_more_than_once", + "text": "Switching more than once" + }, + { + "id": "trying_standing_for_a_moment", + "text": "Trying standing for a moment" + }, + { + "id": "one_partner_confidently_leading", + "text": "One partner confidently leading" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_it_simple_and_laughing", + "text": "Keeping it simple and laughing" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "switching_more_than_once", + "text": "Switching more than once" + }, + { + "id": "trying_standing_for_a_moment", + "text": "Trying standing for a moment" + }, + { + "id": "one_partner_confidently_leading", + "text": "One partner confidently leading" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_it_simple_and_laughing", + "text": "Keeping it simple and laughing" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_055", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Who do you prefer on top during sex?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "positions", + "leading", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_enjoy_being_on_top", + "text": "I enjoy being on top" + }, + { + "id": "i_enjoy_my_partner_on_top", + "text": "I enjoy my partner on top" + }, + { + "id": "i_like_switching", + "text": "I like switching" + }, + { + "id": "no_strong_preference", + "text": "No strong preference" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_enjoy_being_on_top", + "text": "I enjoy being on top" + }, + { + "id": "i_enjoy_my_partner_on_top", + "text": "I enjoy my partner on top" + }, + { + "id": "i_like_switching", + "text": "I like switching" + }, + { + "id": "no_strong_preference", + "text": "No strong preference" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_056", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which approach makes position changes feel smooth?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "positions", + "communication", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simple_suggestion", + "text": "A simple suggestion" + }, + { + "id": "moving_slowly", + "text": "Moving slowly" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_if_it_gets_awkward", + "text": "Laughing if it gets awkward" + }, + { + "id": "letting_one_person_guide", + "text": "Letting one person guide" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simple_suggestion", + "text": "A simple suggestion" + }, + { + "id": "moving_slowly", + "text": "Moving slowly" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_if_it_gets_awkward", + "text": "Laughing if it gets awkward" + }, + { + "id": "letting_one_person_guide", + "text": "Letting one person guide" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_057", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which penetration pace is closest to your preference?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "rhythm", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "penetration", + "pace", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_and_steady", + "text": "Slow and steady" + }, + { + "id": "a_gradual_build", + "text": "A gradual build" + }, + { + "id": "changing_pace_often", + "text": "Changing pace often" + }, + { + "id": "penetration_is_not_my_main_preference", + "text": "Penetration is not my main preference" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_and_steady", + "text": "Slow and steady" + }, + { + "id": "a_gradual_build", + "text": "A gradual build" + }, + { + "id": "changing_pace_often", + "text": "Changing pace often" + }, + { + "id": "penetration_is_not_my_main_preference", + "text": "Penetration is not my main preference" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_058", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How long should foreplay usually last?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "buildup", + "pace", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "foreplay", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_time", + "text": "A long time" + }, + { + "id": "a_moderate_amount", + "text": "A moderate amount" + }, + { + "id": "brief_when_the_mood_is_strong", + "text": "Brief when the mood is strong" + }, + { + "id": "no_usual_rule", + "text": "No usual rule" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_time", + "text": "A long time" + }, + { + "id": "a_moderate_amount", + "text": "A moderate amount" + }, + { + "id": "brief_when_the_mood_is_strong", + "text": "Brief when the mood is strong" + }, + { + "id": "no_usual_rule", + "text": "No usual rule" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_059", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When trying a different sex position, what matters most?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "positions", + "safety", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "physical_comfort", + "text": "Physical comfort" + }, + { + "id": "easy_communication", + "text": "Easy communication" + }, + { + "id": "being_able_to_stop_quickly", + "text": "Being able to stop quickly" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_it_playful", + "text": "Keeping it playful" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "physical_comfort", + "text": "Physical comfort" + }, + { + "id": "easy_communication", + "text": "Easy communication" + }, + { + "id": "being_able_to_stop_quickly", + "text": "Being able to stop quickly" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_it_playful", + "text": "Keeping it playful" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_060", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which option sounds best when you want sexual closeness but have low energy?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "positions", + "low_energy", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "oral", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_mutual_touching", + "text": "Slow mutual touching" + }, + { + "id": "receiving_oral_sex", + "text": "Receiving oral sex" + }, + { + "id": "a_long_make_out_session", + "text": "A long make-out session" + }, + { + "id": "cuddling_without_sex", + "text": "Cuddling without sex" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_mutual_touching", + "text": "Slow mutual touching" + }, + { + "id": "receiving_oral_sex", + "text": "Receiving oral sex" + }, + { + "id": "a_long_make_out_session", + "text": "A long make-out session" + }, + { + "id": "cuddling_without_sex", + "text": "Cuddling without sex" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_061", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should always be easy to say during sex?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "consent", + "communication", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + }, + { + "id": "slower", + "text": "Slower" + }, + { + "id": "i_changed_my_mind", + "text": "I changed my mind" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { @@ -1860,274 +3453,55 @@ ] } }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_055", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which invitation would feel most exciting tonight?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "come_closer", - "text": "Come closer" - }, - { - "id": "i_have_been_thinking_about_you", - "text": "I have been thinking about you" - }, - { - "id": "want_some_private_time", - "text": "Want some private time?" - }, - { - "id": "can_i_kiss_you", - "text": "Can I kiss you?" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_056", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes being pursued feel sexy instead of stressful?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pursuit", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "room_to_say_no", - "text": "Room to say no" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "warm_confidence", - "text": "Warm confidence" - }, - { - "id": "attention_to_my_response", - "text": "Attention to my response" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_057", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How does a firm, close embrace feel when you have said yes?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "touch", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "very_exciting", - "text": "Very exciting" - }, - { - "id": "good_in_the_right_mood", - "text": "Good in the right mood" - }, - { - "id": "only_briefly", - "text": "Only briefly" - }, - { - "id": "not_for_me", - "text": "Not for me" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_058", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How often would you like the usual initiator to change?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "often", - "text": "Often" - }, - { - "id": "sometimes", - "text": "Sometimes" - }, - { - "id": "only_when_it_feels_natural", - "text": "Only when it feels natural" - }, - { - "id": "i_like_our_current_pattern", - "text": "I like our current pattern" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_059", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you prefer your partner to reveal their interest?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desire", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "say_it_directly", - "text": "Say it directly" - }, - { - "id": "show_it_through_touch", - "text": "Show it through touch" - }, - { - "id": "build_anticipation", - "text": "Build anticipation" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_i_want", - "text": "Ask what I want" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_060", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes confident touch feel good rather than presumptive?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "touch", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_clear_yes_first", - "text": "A clear yes first" - }, - { - "id": "starting_gently", - "text": "Starting gently" - }, - { - "id": "watching_my_response", - "text": "Watching my response" - }, - { - "id": "easy_stopping", - "text": "Easy stopping" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_061", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of music fits private time best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "setting", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_and_moody", - "text": "Slow and moody" - }, - { - "id": "soft_and_romantic", - "text": "Soft and romantic" - }, - { - "id": "something_familiar", - "text": "Something familiar" - }, - { - "id": "no_music", - "text": "No music" - } - ] - } - }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_062", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which lighting helps you feel most comfortable?", + "text": "What is the best way to handle a pause?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "setting", + "consent", + "pause", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "stop_immediately", + "text": "Stop immediately" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_i_need", + "text": "Ask what I need" + }, + { + "id": "offer_space", + "text": "Offer space" + }, + { + "id": "switch_to_nonsexual_closeness_if_welcomed", + "text": "Switch to nonsexual closeness if welcomed" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "lights_off", - "text": "Lights off" + "id": "stop_immediately", + "text": "Stop immediately" }, { - "id": "very_low_light", - "text": "Very low light" + "id": "ask_what_i_need", + "text": "Ask what I need" }, { - "id": "warm_soft_light", - "text": "Warm soft light" + "id": "offer_space", + "text": "Offer space" }, { - "id": "enough_light_to_see_each_other", - "text": "Enough light to see each other" + "id": "switch_to_nonsexual_closeness_if_welcomed", + "text": "Switch to nonsexual closeness if welcomed" } ] } @@ -2137,31 +3511,51 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What preparation makes private time easier to enjoy?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which consent check-in feels least disruptive during sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", + "consent", + "check_in", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "does_this_feel_good", + "text": "Does this feel good?" + }, + { + "id": "want_more_or_less", + "text": "Want more or less?" + }, + { + "id": "keep_going", + "text": "Keep going?" + }, + { + "id": "guide_me", + "text": "Guide me" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_tidy_space", - "text": "A tidy space" + "id": "does_this_feel_good", + "text": "Does this feel good?" }, { - "id": "fresh_sheets", - "text": "Fresh sheets" + "id": "want_more_or_less", + "text": "Want more or less?" }, { - "id": "no_time_pressure", - "text": "No time pressure" + "id": "keep_going", + "text": "Keep going?" }, { - "id": "knowing_we_will_not_be_interrupted", - "text": "Knowing we will not be interrupted" + "id": "guide_me", + "text": "Guide me" } ] } @@ -2171,31 +3565,50 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of planned night would feel genuinely sexy?", + "text": "What response makes a changed mind feel safest?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", + "consent", + "trust", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "okay_thank_you_for_telling_me", + "text": "Okay, thank you for telling me" + }, + { + "id": "no_problem", + "text": "No problem" + }, + { + "id": "do_you_want_space_or_closeness", + "text": "Do you want space or closeness?" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_stop_completely", + "text": "We can stop completely" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "dinner_then_private_time", - "text": "Dinner then private time" + "id": "okay_thank_you_for_telling_me", + "text": "Okay, thank you for telling me" }, { - "id": "a_stay_at_home_date", - "text": "A stay-at-home date" + "id": "no_problem", + "text": "No problem" }, { - "id": "a_hotel_night", - "text": "A hotel night" + "id": "do_you_want_space_or_closeness", + "text": "Do you want space or closeness?" }, { - "id": "a_surprise_with_an_easy_opt_out", - "text": "A surprise with an easy opt-out" + "id": "we_can_stop_completely", + "text": "We can stop completely" } ] } @@ -2205,31 +3618,52 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which rhythm sounds most satisfying lately?", + "text": "When introducing a new sexual activity, what approach feels best?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pace", + "boundaries", + "novelty", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "consent", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_about_it_before_sex", + "text": "Talk about it before sex" + }, + { + "id": "ask_clearly_in_the_moment", + "text": "Ask clearly in the moment" + }, + { + "id": "start_with_a_mild_version", + "text": "Start with a mild version" + }, + { + "id": "only_after_both_people_show_interest", + "text": "Only after both people show interest" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "quick_and_spontaneous", - "text": "Quick and spontaneous" + "id": "talk_about_it_before_sex", + "text": "Talk about it before sex" }, { - "id": "long_and_unhurried", - "text": "Long and unhurried" + "id": "ask_clearly_in_the_moment", + "text": "Ask clearly in the moment" }, { - "id": "a_mix", - "text": "A mix" + "id": "start_with_a_mild_version", + "text": "Start with a mild version" }, { - "id": "whatever_fits_our_energy", - "text": "Whatever fits our energy" + "id": "only_after_both_people_show_interest", + "text": "Only after both people show interest" } ] } @@ -2239,31 +3673,50 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which whispering style would get your attention?", + "text": "Before a blindfold, which safeguard matters most?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "words", + "blindfold", + "safety", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_agreement", + "text": "Clear agreement" + }, + { + "id": "a_stop_signal", + "text": "A stop signal" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_what_will_happen", + "text": "Knowing what will happen" + }, + { + "id": "the_blindfolded_partner_controls_the_pace", + "text": "The blindfolded partner controls the pace" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "sweet", - "text": "Sweet" + "id": "clear_agreement", + "text": "Clear agreement" }, { - "id": "teasing", - "text": "Teasing" + "id": "a_stop_signal", + "text": "A stop signal" }, { - "id": "direct", - "text": "Direct" + "id": "knowing_what_will_happen", + "text": "Knowing what will happen" }, { - "id": "quiet_praise", - "text": "Quiet praise" + "id": "the_blindfolded_partner_controls_the_pace", + "text": "The blindfolded partner controls the pace" } ] } @@ -2273,31 +3726,50 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of praise feels best during intimate moments?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which boundary around photos feels right for you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "praise", + "photos", + "privacy", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_intimate_photos", + "text": "No intimate photos" + }, + { + "id": "only_on_my_own_device", + "text": "Only on my own device" + }, + { + "id": "only_with_clear_rules_and_deletion", + "text": "Only with clear rules and deletion" + }, + { + "id": "discuss_each_photo_separately", + "text": "Discuss each photo separately" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "how_good_i_look", - "text": "How good I look" + "id": "no_intimate_photos", + "text": "No intimate photos" }, { - "id": "how_desired_i_am", - "text": "How desired I am" + "id": "only_on_my_own_device", + "text": "Only on my own device" }, { - "id": "what_i_am_doing_well", - "text": "What I am doing well" + "id": "only_with_clear_rules_and_deletion", + "text": "Only with clear rules and deletion" }, { - "id": "how_connected_we_feel", - "text": "How connected we feel" + "id": "discuss_each_photo_separately", + "text": "Discuss each photo separately" } ] } @@ -2307,31 +3779,51 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you prefer to receive a sexy compliment?", + "text": "How should sexual fantasies be received?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "compliments", + "fantasy", + "trust", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "with_curiosity", + "text": "With curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "without_assuming_we_will_act_them_out", + "text": "Without assuming we will act them out" + }, + { + "id": "without_teasing_me_later", + "text": "Without teasing me later" + }, + { + "id": "with_permission_to_stop_the_conversation", + "text": "With permission to stop the conversation" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "whispered_privately", - "text": "Whispered privately" + "id": "with_curiosity", + "text": "With curiosity" }, { - "id": "sent_in_a_message", - "text": "Sent in a message" + "id": "without_assuming_we_will_act_them_out", + "text": "Without assuming we will act them out" }, { - "id": "said_while_holding_me", - "text": "Said while holding me" + "id": "without_teasing_me_later", + "text": "Without teasing me later" }, { - "id": "kept_playful_and_light", - "text": "Kept playful and light" + "id": "with_permission_to_stop_the_conversation", + "text": "With permission to stop the conversation" } ] } @@ -2341,31 +3833,51 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which playful challenge sounds most fun?", + "text": "What makes sexual feedback easiest to hear?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "play", + "feedback", + "communication", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_clear_request", + "text": "One clear request" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_tone", + "text": "A warm tone" + }, + { + "id": "hearing_what_already_feels_good", + "text": "Hearing what already feels good" + }, + { + "id": "talking_after_sex", + "text": "Talking after sex" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "no_kissing_for_one_minute", - "text": "No kissing for one minute" + "id": "one_clear_request", + "text": "One clear request" }, { - "id": "one_person_chooses_the_music", - "text": "One person chooses the music" + "id": "a_warm_tone", + "text": "A warm tone" }, { - "id": "take_turns_giving_compliments", - "text": "Take turns giving compliments" + "id": "hearing_what_already_feels_good", + "text": "Hearing what already feels good" }, { - "id": "skip_challenges_entirely", - "text": "Skip challenges entirely" + "id": "talking_after_sex", + "text": "Talking after sex" } ] } @@ -2375,31 +3887,50 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How long should teasing last before it stops being fun?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which signal would you rather use when words feel difficult?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teasing", + "consent", + "signals", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_hand_squeeze", + "text": "A hand squeeze" + }, + { + "id": "a_familiar_stop_word", + "text": "A familiar stop word" + }, + { + "id": "moving_a_hand_away", + "text": "Moving a hand away" + }, + { + "id": "pausing_and_making_eye_contact", + "text": "Pausing and making eye contact" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "just_a_moment", - "text": "Just a moment" + "id": "a_hand_squeeze", + "text": "A hand squeeze" }, { - "id": "a_few_minutes", - "text": "A few minutes" + "id": "a_familiar_stop_word", + "text": "A familiar stop word" }, { - "id": "until_i_ask_for_more", - "text": "Until I ask for more" + "id": "moving_a_hand_away", + "text": "Moving a hand away" }, { - "id": "i_do_not_enjoy_prolonged_teasing", - "text": "I do not enjoy prolonged teasing" + "id": "pausing_and_making_eye_contact", + "text": "Pausing and making eye contact" } ] } @@ -2409,31 +3940,50 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of teasing do you enjoy most?", + "text": "Would you enjoy sharing fantasies that may never happen in real life?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teasing", + "fantasy", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes_openly", + "text": "Yes, openly" + }, + { + "id": "only_milder_fantasies", + "text": "Only milder fantasies" + }, + { + "id": "only_with_no_expectation", + "text": "Only with no expectation" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_keeping_fantasies_private", + "text": "I prefer keeping fantasies private" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "playful_words", - "text": "Playful words" + "id": "yes_openly", + "text": "Yes, openly" }, { - "id": "almost_kisses", - "text": "Almost-kisses" + "id": "only_milder_fantasies", + "text": "Only milder fantasies" }, { - "id": "slow_touches", - "text": "Slow touches" + "id": "only_with_no_expectation", + "text": "Only with no expectation" }, { - "id": "knowing_looks", - "text": "Knowing looks" + "id": "i_prefer_keeping_fantasies_private", + "text": "I prefer keeping fantasies private" } ] } @@ -2443,353 +3993,32 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which private rule could make things more playful?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "play", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_turns_leading", - "text": "Take turns leading" - }, - { - "id": "ask_before_changing_pace", - "text": "Ask before changing pace" - }, - { - "id": "one_person_plans_the_mood", - "text": "One person plans the mood" - }, - { - "id": "no_rules_tonight", - "text": "No rules tonight" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_073", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What cue tells you flirting is welcome?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_clear_smile", - "text": "A clear smile" - }, - { - "id": "flirting_back", - "text": "Flirting back" - }, - { - "id": "moving_closer", - "text": "Moving closer" - }, - { - "id": "a_direct_yes", - "text": "A direct yes" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_074", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which private location sounds most tempting?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "location", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "bedroom", - "text": "Bedroom" - }, - { - "id": "shower", - "text": "Shower" - }, - { - "id": "couch", - "text": "Couch" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_getaway", - "text": "A private getaway" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_075", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you feel about discreet flirting in public?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "public_flirting", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "fun_when_very_subtle", - "text": "Fun when very subtle" - }, - { - "id": "only_through_words_or_looks", - "text": "Only through words or looks" - }, - { - "id": "only_if_we_agreed_first", - "text": "Only if we agreed first" - }, - { - "id": "not_for_me", - "text": "Not for me" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_076", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which public flirt stays comfortably private?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "public_flirting", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_knowing_look", - "text": "A knowing look" - }, - { - "id": "a_hand_on_my_back", - "text": "A hand on my back" - }, - { - "id": "a_quiet_compliment", - "text": "A quiet compliment" - }, - { - "id": "none_while_others_are_around", - "text": "None while others are around" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_077", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make public flirting cross the line for you?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sexual_touching", - "text": "Sexual touching" - }, - { - "id": "comments_others_can_hear", - "text": "Comments others can hear" - }, - { - "id": "ignoring_my_discomfort", - "text": "Ignoring my discomfort" - }, - { - "id": "anything_we_did_not_agree_on", - "text": "Anything we did not agree on" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_078", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What boundary matters most with intimate messages or photos?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_before_sending", - "text": "Ask before sending" - }, - { - "id": "never_save_without_permission", - "text": "Never save without permission" - }, - { - "id": "keep_them_off_shared_devices", - "text": "Keep them off shared devices" - }, - { - "id": "delete_them_when_requested", - "text": "Delete them when requested" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_079", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you feel about trying a new private idea?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "novelty", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "excited_to_explore", - "text": "Excited to explore" - }, - { - "id": "interested_with_discussion_first", - "text": "Interested with discussion first" - }, - { - "id": "only_something_small", - "text": "Only something small" - }, - { - "id": "i_prefer_familiar_favorites", - "text": "I prefer familiar favorites" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_080", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Who should choose a new idea?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "novelty", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_turns", - "text": "Take turns" - }, - { - "id": "choose_together", - "text": "Choose together" - }, - { - "id": "the_more_curious_partner_suggests", - "text": "The more curious partner suggests" - }, - { - "id": "no_surprises", - "text": "No surprises" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_081", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes fantasy talk feel comfortable?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What tone makes fantasy talk feel least awkward?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "fantasy", + "communication", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_assumption_we_will_do_it", - "text": "No assumption we will do it" - }, - { - "id": "no_judgment", - "text": "No judgment" - }, - { - "id": "starting_with_mild_ideas", - "text": "Starting with mild ideas" - }, - { - "id": "stopping_whenever_it_feels_awkward", - "text": "Stopping whenever it feels awkward" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_082", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which fantasy-conversation tone feels safest?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fantasy", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "options": [ + { + "id": "playful", + "text": "Playful" + }, + { + "id": "curious", + "text": "Curious" + }, + { + "id": "direct", + "text": "Direct" + }, + { + "id": "very_gentle", + "text": "Very gentle" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -2813,27 +4042,208 @@ } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_083", + "id": "sexual_preferences_073", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you feel about light role-play between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which kind of sexual novelty sounds hottest?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "role_play", + "novelty", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "masturbation", + "toys", + "role_play" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_new_position", + "text": "A new position" + }, + { + "id": "mutual_masturbation", + "text": "Mutual masturbation" + }, + { + "id": "a_toy_chosen_together", + "text": "A toy chosen together" + }, + { + "id": "light_role_play", + "text": "Light role-play" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "sounds_fun", - "text": "Sounds fun" + "id": "a_new_position", + "text": "A new position" }, { - "id": "maybe_with_a_simple_idea", - "text": "Maybe with a simple idea" + "id": "mutual_masturbation", + "text": "Mutual masturbation" + }, + { + "id": "a_toy_chosen_together", + "text": "A toy chosen together" + }, + { + "id": "light_role_play", + "text": "Light role-play" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_074", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How often would you enjoy trying something new in bed?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "novelty", + "planning", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "often", + "text": "Often" + }, + { + "id": "occasionally", + "text": "Occasionally" + }, + { + "id": "rarely", + "text": "Rarely" + }, + { + "id": "only_when_inspiration_strikes", + "text": "Only when inspiration strikes" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "often", + "text": "Often" + }, + { + "id": "occasionally", + "text": "Occasionally" + }, + { + "id": "rarely", + "text": "Rarely" + }, + { + "id": "only_when_inspiration_strikes", + "text": "Only when inspiration strikes" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_075", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should remain familiar when trying something new?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "novelty", + "safety", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_check_in_language", + "text": "Our check-in language" + }, + { + "id": "the_setting", + "text": "The setting" + }, + { + "id": "the_pace", + "text": "The pace" + }, + { + "id": "the_option_to_stop_without_explanation", + "text": "The option to stop without explanation" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_check_in_language", + "text": "Our check-in language" + }, + { + "id": "the_setting", + "text": "The setting" + }, + { + "id": "the_pace", + "text": "The pace" + }, + { + "id": "the_option_to_stop_without_explanation", + "text": "The option to stop without explanation" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_076", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Does light sexual role-play appeal to you?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "role_play", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes_that_sounds_hot", + "text": "Yes, that sounds hot" + }, + { + "id": "maybe_with_a_simple_setup", + "text": "Maybe with a simple setup" + }, + { + "id": "only_after_talking_first", + "text": "Only after talking first" + }, + { + "id": "not_for_me", + "text": "Not for me" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes_that_sounds_hot", + "text": "Yes, that sounds hot" + }, + { + "id": "maybe_with_a_simple_setup", + "text": "Maybe with a simple setup" }, { "id": "only_after_talking_first", @@ -2847,31 +4257,49 @@ } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_084", + "id": "sexual_preferences_077", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which role-play style would feel least awkward?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which role-play setup would feel least awkward?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "role_play", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "pretending_it_is_a_first_date", + "text": "Pretending it is a first date" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_character", + "text": "A playful character" + }, + { + "id": "a_confident_invitation_scene", + "text": "A confident invitation scene" + }, + { + "id": "i_would_rather_skip_role_play", + "text": "I would rather skip role-play" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ - { - "id": "a_playful_character", - "text": "A playful character" - }, { "id": "pretending_it_is_a_first_date", "text": "Pretending it is a first date" }, { - "id": "a_confident_invitation", - "text": "A confident invitation" + "id": "a_playful_character", + "text": "A playful character" + }, + { + "id": "a_confident_invitation_scene", + "text": "A confident invitation scene" }, { "id": "i_would_rather_skip_role_play", @@ -2881,17 +4309,200 @@ } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_085", + "id": "sexual_preferences_078", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How would you want to discuss bringing a toy into private time?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What kind of sexual surprise would feel safest?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "surprise", + "novelty", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "consent", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_new_outfit", + "text": "A new outfit" + }, + { + "id": "a_different_private_setting", + "text": "A different private setting" + }, + { + "id": "a_dirty_message", + "text": "A dirty message" + }, + { + "id": "no_sexual_surprises_without_discussion", + "text": "No sexual surprises without discussion" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_new_outfit", + "text": "A new outfit" + }, + { + "id": "a_different_private_setting", + "text": "A different private setting" + }, + { + "id": "a_dirty_message", + "text": "A dirty message" + }, + { + "id": "no_sexual_surprises_without_discussion", + "text": "No sexual surprises without discussion" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_079", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How experimental do you want sex to feel?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "adventure", + "novelty", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "very_familiar", + "text": "Very familiar" + }, + { + "id": "mostly_familiar_with_small_changes", + "text": "Mostly familiar with small changes" + }, + { + "id": "a_balanced_mix", + "text": "A balanced mix" + }, + { + "id": "often_experimental_within_our_limits", + "text": "Often experimental within our limits" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "very_familiar", + "text": "Very familiar" + }, + { + "id": "mostly_familiar_with_small_changes", + "text": "Mostly familiar with small changes" + }, + { + "id": "a_balanced_mix", + "text": "A balanced mix" + }, + { + "id": "often_experimental_within_our_limits", + "text": "Often experimental within our limits" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_080", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which new sexual idea should be easiest to abandon halfway through?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "novelty", + "consent", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "any_of_them", + "text": "Any of them" + }, + { + "id": "only_unfamiliar_activities", + "text": "Only unfamiliar activities" + }, + { + "id": "anything_physically_uncomfortable", + "text": "Anything physically uncomfortable" + }, + { + "id": "anything_that_stops_feeling_fun", + "text": "Anything that stops feeling fun" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "any_of_them", + "text": "Any of them" + }, + { + "id": "only_unfamiliar_activities", + "text": "Only unfamiliar activities" + }, + { + "id": "anything_physically_uncomfortable", + "text": "Anything physically uncomfortable" + }, + { + "id": "anything_that_stops_feeling_fun", + "text": "Anything that stops feeling fun" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_081", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How would you want to discuss bringing in a sex toy?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "toys", + "communication", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_before_buying_anything", + "text": "Talk before buying anything" + }, + { + "id": "browse_together", + "text": "Browse together" + }, + { + "id": "start_with_something_simple", + "text": "Start with something simple" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_not_interested", + "text": "I am not interested" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -2915,269 +4526,103 @@ } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_086", + "id": "sexual_preferences_082", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which toy boundary matters most?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "toys", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "both_agree_first", - "text": "Both agree first" - }, - { - "id": "either_person_can_stop", - "text": "Either person can stop" - }, - { - "id": "clean_and_store_privately", - "text": "Clean and store privately" - }, - { - "id": "no_surprise_use", - "text": "No surprise use" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_087", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you feel about sensory play such as music or a blindfold?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sensory_play", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "curious_about_both", - "text": "Curious about both" - }, - { - "id": "music_only", - "text": "Music only" - }, - { - "id": "maybe_a_blindfold_after_discussing_it", - "text": "Maybe a blindfold after discussing it" - }, - { - "id": "neither_interests_me", - "text": "Neither interests me" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_088", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make a blindfold feel safe enough to consider?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sensory_play", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_clear_yes_beforehand", - "text": "A clear yes beforehand" - }, - { - "id": "a_stop_signal", - "text": "A stop signal" - }, - { - "id": "starting_briefly", - "text": "Starting briefly" - }, - { - "id": "i_would_not_want_one", - "text": "I would not want one" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_089", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would dressing up add something fun to private time?", + "text": "What matters most when choosing a sex toy together?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "clothing", + "toys", + "safety", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_people_are_comfortable", + "text": "Both people are comfortable" + }, + { + "id": "easy_cleaning", + "text": "Easy cleaning" + }, + { + "id": "simple_controls", + "text": "Simple controls" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_agreement_about_who_uses_it", + "text": "A clear agreement about who uses it" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "definitely", - "text": "Definitely" + "id": "both_people_are_comfortable", + "text": "Both people are comfortable" }, { - "id": "sometimes", - "text": "Sometimes" + "id": "easy_cleaning", + "text": "Easy cleaning" }, { - "id": "only_if_we_choose_together", - "text": "Only if we choose together" + "id": "simple_controls", + "text": "Simple controls" }, { - "id": "not_really_my_thing", - "text": "Not really my thing" + "id": "a_clear_agreement_about_who_uses_it", + "text": "A clear agreement about who uses it" } ] } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_090", + "id": "sexual_preferences_083", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make a new private setting feel comfortable?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would a blindfold appeal to you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "location", + "blindfold", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_would_enjoy_wearing_one", + "text": "I would enjoy wearing one" + }, + { + "id": "i_would_enjoy_my_partner_wearing_one", + "text": "I would enjoy my partner wearing one" + }, + { + "id": "maybe_after_discussing_it", + "text": "Maybe after discussing it" + }, + { + "id": "not_for_me", + "text": "Not for me" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "guaranteed_privacy", - "text": "Guaranteed privacy" + "id": "i_would_enjoy_wearing_one", + "text": "I would enjoy wearing one" }, { - "id": "a_familiar_place", - "text": "A familiar place" + "id": "i_would_enjoy_my_partner_wearing_one", + "text": "I would enjoy my partner wearing one" }, { - "id": "a_clear_plan", - "text": "A clear plan" - }, - { - "id": "staying_home_instead", - "text": "Staying home instead" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_091", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which power dynamic sounds most appealing with clear consent?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "power", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_lead", - "text": "I lead" - }, - { - "id": "my_partner_leads", - "text": "My partner leads" - }, - { - "id": "we_switch", - "text": "We switch" - }, - { - "id": "no_power_play", - "text": "No power play" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_092", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should taking the lead work between us?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "power", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first_each_time", - "text": "Ask first each time" - }, - { - "id": "use_an_agreed_signal", - "text": "Use an agreed signal" - }, - { - "id": "take_turns", - "text": "Take turns" - }, - { - "id": "keep_things_equal", - "text": "Keep things equal" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sexual_preferences_093", - "category_id": "sexual_preferences", - "sex": "neutral", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you feel about rougher touch after an explicit yes?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "roughness", - "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "interested", - "text": "Interested" - }, - { - "id": "only_mild_pressure", - "text": "Only mild pressure" - }, - { - "id": "only_in_certain_moods", - "text": "Only in certain moods" + "id": "maybe_after_discussing_it", + "text": "Maybe after discussing it" }, { "id": "not_for_me", @@ -3187,35 +4632,604 @@ } }, { - "id": "sexual_preferences_094", + "id": "sexual_preferences_084", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which firmer touch interests you, if any?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is your comfort level with light restraints?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "roughness", + "restraints", + "boundaries", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "interested_with_clear_rules", + "text": "Interested with clear rules" + }, + { + "id": "maybe_very_lightly", + "text": "Maybe very lightly" + }, + { + "id": "only_with_extensive_discussion", + "text": "Only with extensive discussion" + }, + { + "id": "not_for_me", + "text": "Not for me" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_firm_grip", - "text": "A firm grip" + "id": "interested_with_clear_rules", + "text": "Interested with clear rules" }, { - "id": "a_stronger_embrace", - "text": "A stronger embrace" + "id": "maybe_very_lightly", + "text": "Maybe very lightly" }, { - "id": "light_hair_pulling", - "text": "Light hair pulling" + "id": "only_with_extensive_discussion", + "text": "Only with extensive discussion" }, { - "id": "none", - "text": "None" + "id": "not_for_me", + "text": "Not for me" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_085", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which light-kink option sounds most approachable?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "accessories", + "novelty", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "kink", + "spanking", + "restraints", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_blindfold", + "text": "A blindfold" + }, + { + "id": "light_spanking", + "text": "Light spanking" + }, + { + "id": "soft_restraints", + "text": "Soft restraints" + }, + { + "id": "none_of_these", + "text": "None of these" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_blindfold", + "text": "A blindfold" + }, + { + "id": "light_spanking", + "text": "Light spanking" + }, + { + "id": "soft_restraints", + "text": "Soft restraints" + }, + { + "id": "none_of_these", + "text": "None of these" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_086", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How should a sex toy be introduced in the moment?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "toys", + "consent", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_before_bringing_it_out", + "text": "Ask before bringing it out" + }, + { + "id": "let_the_receiving_partner_control_it", + "text": "Let the receiving partner control it" + }, + { + "id": "start_at_the_lowest_setting", + "text": "Start at the lowest setting" + }, + { + "id": "keep_it_out_unless_already_planned", + "text": "Keep it out unless already planned" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_before_bringing_it_out", + "text": "Ask before bringing it out" + }, + { + "id": "let_the_receiving_partner_control_it", + "text": "Let the receiving partner control it" + }, + { + "id": "start_at_the_lowest_setting", + "text": "Start at the lowest setting" + }, + { + "id": "keep_it_out_unless_already_planned", + "text": "Keep it out unless already planned" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_087", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should happen if a toy or restraint becomes distracting?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "accessories", + "feedback", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "toys", + "restraints", + "consent", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "remove_it_immediately", + "text": "Remove it immediately" + }, + { + "id": "pause_and_adjust", + "text": "Pause and adjust" + }, + { + "id": "switch_to_something_familiar", + "text": "Switch to something familiar" + }, + { + "id": "stop_sex_entirely", + "text": "Stop sex entirely" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "remove_it_immediately", + "text": "Remove it immediately" + }, + { + "id": "pause_and_adjust", + "text": "Pause and adjust" + }, + { + "id": "switch_to_something_familiar", + "text": "Switch to something familiar" + }, + { + "id": "stop_sex_entirely", + "text": "Stop sex entirely" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_088", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Would choosing outfits for each other feel fun?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "clothing", + "playful", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "sounds_fun", + "text": "Sounds fun" + }, + { + "id": "only_from_clothes_i_already_own", + "text": "Only from clothes I already own" + }, + { + "id": "i_would_rather_choose_my_own", + "text": "I would rather choose my own" + }, + { + "id": "not_my_thing", + "text": "Not my thing" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sounds_fun", + "text": "Sounds fun" + }, + { + "id": "only_from_clothes_i_already_own", + "text": "Only from clothes I already own" + }, + { + "id": "i_would_rather_choose_my_own", + "text": "I would rather choose my own" + }, + { + "id": "not_my_thing", + "text": "Not my thing" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_089", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What lingerie or sexual outfit appeals most?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "clothing", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "lingerie", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_and_romantic", + "text": "Soft and romantic" + }, + { + "id": "bold_and_revealing", + "text": "Bold and revealing" + }, + { + "id": "simple_and_fitted", + "text": "Simple and fitted" + }, + { + "id": "regular_clothes_feel_sexiest", + "text": "Regular clothes feel sexiest" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "soft_and_romantic", + "text": "Soft and romantic" + }, + { + "id": "bold_and_revealing", + "text": "Bold and revealing" + }, + { + "id": "simple_and_fitted", + "text": "Simple and fitted" + }, + { + "id": "regular_clothes_feel_sexiest", + "text": "Regular clothes feel sexiest" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_090", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What rule matters most for any sex toy or kink accessory?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "accessories", + "safety", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "toys", + "kink", + "consent", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "either_person_can_stop", + "text": "Either person can stop" + }, + { + "id": "no_surprise_use", + "text": "No surprise use" + }, + { + "id": "clean_and_stored_privately", + "text": "Clean and stored privately" + }, + { + "id": "only_use_what_both_selected", + "text": "Only use what both selected" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "either_person_can_stop", + "text": "Either person can stop" + }, + { + "id": "no_surprise_use", + "text": "No surprise use" + }, + { + "id": "clean_and_stored_privately", + "text": "Clean and stored privately" + }, + { + "id": "only_use_what_both_selected", + "text": "Only use what both selected" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_091", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Does shower sex sound appealing?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "shower", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "shower_sex", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "very_appealing", + "text": "Very appealing" + }, + { + "id": "fun_occasionally", + "text": "Fun occasionally" + }, + { + "id": "better_as_naked_affectionate_time", + "text": "Better as naked affectionate time" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_showering_alone", + "text": "I prefer showering alone" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "very_appealing", + "text": "Very appealing" + }, + { + "id": "fun_occasionally", + "text": "Fun occasionally" + }, + { + "id": "better_as_naked_affectionate_time", + "text": "Better as naked affectionate time" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_showering_alone", + "text": "I prefer showering alone" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_092", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of erotic massage would you enjoy most?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "massage", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "foreplay", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_full_body_touch", + "text": "Slow full-body touch" + }, + { + "id": "mostly_shoulders_and_back", + "text": "Mostly shoulders and back" + }, + { + "id": "a_massage_that_becomes_sex", + "text": "A massage that becomes sex" + }, + { + "id": "a_massage_with_no_expectation", + "text": "A massage with no expectation" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_full_body_touch", + "text": "Slow full-body touch" + }, + { + "id": "mostly_shoulders_and_back", + "text": "Mostly shoulders and back" + }, + { + "id": "a_massage_that_becomes_sex", + "text": "A massage that becomes sex" + }, + { + "id": "a_massage_with_no_expectation", + "text": "A massage with no expectation" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_093", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which answer best describes your interest in oral sex?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "oral", + "preferences", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_enjoy_giving_and_receiving", + "text": "I enjoy giving and receiving" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_receiving", + "text": "I prefer receiving" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_giving", + "text": "I prefer giving" + }, + { + "id": "i_would_rather_skip_it", + "text": "I would rather skip it" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_enjoy_giving_and_receiving", + "text": "I enjoy giving and receiving" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_receiving", + "text": "I prefer receiving" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_giving", + "text": "I prefer giving" + }, + { + "id": "i_would_rather_skip_it", + "text": "I would rather skip it" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sexual_preferences_094", + "category_id": "sexual_preferences", + "sex": "neutral", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How do you prefer to guide a partner's hand during sex?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "touch", + "guidance", + "sexual_preferences", + "consent_first", + "hand_play", + "feedback", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "move_their_hand_myself", + "text": "Move their hand myself" + }, + { + "id": "use_simple_words", + "text": "Use simple words" + }, + { + "id": "show_them_on_my_own_body", + "text": "Show them on my own body" + }, + { + "id": "talk_about_it_beforehand", + "text": "Talk about it beforehand" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "move_their_hand_myself", + "text": "Move their hand myself" + }, + { + "id": "use_simple_words", + "text": "Use simple words" + }, + { + "id": "show_them_on_my_own_body", + "text": "Show them on my own body" + }, + { + "id": "talk_about_it_beforehand", + "text": "Talk about it beforehand" } ] } @@ -3225,31 +5239,52 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which rule matters most with firmer play?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "When does morning sex work for you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "roughness", + "timing", + "morning", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "morning_sex", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_love_it", + "text": "I love it" + }, + { + "id": "only_after_waking_fully", + "text": "Only after waking fully" + }, + { + "id": "occasionally", + "text": "Occasionally" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_sex_later", + "text": "I prefer sex later" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" + "id": "i_love_it", + "text": "I love it" }, { - "id": "start_gently", - "text": "Start gently" + "id": "only_after_waking_fully", + "text": "Only after waking fully" }, { - "id": "stop_immediately", - "text": "Stop immediately" + "id": "occasionally", + "text": "Occasionally" }, { - "id": "check_in_afterward", - "text": "Check in afterward" + "id": "i_prefer_sex_later", + "text": "I prefer sex later" } ] } @@ -3259,31 +5294,52 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How does intimate praise usually affect you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What about late-night sex works best for you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "praise", + "timing", + "night", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "late_night_sex", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_quiet", + "text": "The quiet" + }, + { + "id": "the_privacy", + "text": "The privacy" + }, + { + "id": "the_sleepy_closeness", + "text": "The sleepy closeness" + }, + { + "id": "late_night_sex_usually_does_not_work_for_me", + "text": "Late-night sex usually does not work for me" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "it_makes_me_glow", - "text": "It makes me glow" + "id": "the_quiet", + "text": "The quiet" }, { - "id": "it_helps_me_relax", - "text": "It helps me relax" + "id": "the_privacy", + "text": "The privacy" }, { - "id": "only_certain_words_work", - "text": "Only certain words work" + "id": "the_sleepy_closeness", + "text": "The sleepy closeness" }, { - "id": "i_prefer_less_talking", - "text": "I prefer less talking" + "id": "late_night_sex_usually_does_not_work_for_me", + "text": "Late-night sex usually does not work for me" } ] } @@ -3293,31 +5349,51 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which intimate compliment would land best?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would sex outside the bedroom appeal to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "praise", + "setting", + "novelty", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes_i_enjoy_changing_rooms", + "text": "Yes, I enjoy changing rooms" + }, + { + "id": "only_in_completely_private_spaces", + "text": "Only in completely private spaces" + }, + { + "id": "occasionally", + "text": "Occasionally" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_the_bedroom", + "text": "I prefer the bedroom" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "you_look_incredible", - "text": "You look incredible" + "id": "yes_i_enjoy_changing_rooms", + "text": "Yes, I enjoy changing rooms" }, { - "id": "i_love_how_you_respond_to_me", - "text": "I love how you respond to me" + "id": "only_in_completely_private_spaces", + "text": "Only in completely private spaces" }, { - "id": "i_have_wanted_you_all_day", - "text": "I have wanted you all day" + "id": "occasionally", + "text": "Occasionally" }, { - "id": "i_love_being_close_to_you", - "text": "I love being close to you" + "id": "i_prefer_the_bedroom", + "text": "I prefer the bedroom" } ] } @@ -3327,31 +5403,52 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which guidance style feels sexiest?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How important is orgasm during satisfying sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "guidance", + "date_night", + "anticipation", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "orgasm", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_usually_want_both_of_us_to_orgasm", + "text": "I usually want both of us to orgasm" + }, + { + "id": "at_least_one_orgasm_matters", + "text": "At least one orgasm matters" + }, + { + "id": "pleasure_matters_more_than_orgasm", + "text": "Pleasure matters more than orgasm" + }, + { + "id": "it_depends_on_the_moment", + "text": "It depends on the moment" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "move_my_hand_gently", - "text": "Move my hand gently" + "id": "i_usually_want_both_of_us_to_orgasm", + "text": "I usually want both of us to orgasm" }, { - "id": "say_it_softly", - "text": "Say it softly" + "id": "at_least_one_orgasm_matters", + "text": "At least one orgasm matters" }, { - "id": "say_it_directly", - "text": "Say it directly" + "id": "pleasure_matters_more_than_orgasm", + "text": "Pleasure matters more than orgasm" }, { - "id": "show_me_another_time", - "text": "Show me another time" + "id": "it_depends_on_the_moment", + "text": "It depends on the moment" } ] } @@ -3361,31 +5458,53 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make showing your partner what you like easier?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What kind of foreplay turns you on most?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "guidance", + "buildup", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "foreplay", + "oral", + "dirty_talk", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "long_kissing", + "text": "Long kissing" + }, + { + "id": "oral_sex", + "text": "Oral sex" + }, + { + "id": "hands_and_mutual_touching", + "text": "Hands and mutual touching" + }, + { + "id": "dirty_talk_and_teasing", + "text": "Dirty talk and teasing" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_playful_mood", - "text": "A playful mood" + "id": "long_kissing", + "text": "Long kissing" }, { - "id": "no_embarrassment", - "text": "No embarrassment" + "id": "oral_sex", + "text": "Oral sex" }, { - "id": "their_eager_attention", - "text": "Their eager attention" + "id": "hands_and_mutual_touching", + "text": "Hands and mutual touching" }, { - "id": "low_light_and_privacy", - "text": "Low light and privacy" + "id": "dirty_talk_and_teasing", + "text": "Dirty talk and teasing" } ] } @@ -3395,31 +5514,51 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How often should your partner ask about pressure or pace?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Does laughter make sex better?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feedback", + "humor", + "connection", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_makes_everything_better", + "text": "It makes everything better" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_laughter_helps", + "text": "A little laughter helps" + }, + { + "id": "only_when_something_is_genuinely_funny", + "text": "Only when something is genuinely funny" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_a_serious_mood", + "text": "I prefer a serious mood" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "often", - "text": "Often" + "id": "it_makes_everything_better", + "text": "It makes everything better" }, { - "id": "when_changing_something", - "text": "When changing something" + "id": "a_little_laughter_helps", + "text": "A little laughter helps" }, { - "id": "only_if_i_seem_unsure", - "text": "Only if I seem unsure" + "id": "only_when_something_is_genuinely_funny", + "text": "Only when something is genuinely funny" }, { - "id": "let_me_speak_up", - "text": "Let me speak up" + "id": "i_prefer_a_serious_mood", + "text": "I prefer a serious mood" } ] } @@ -3429,31 +5568,50 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which feedback phrase would be easiest to say?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which moment after sex sounds best?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feedback", + "aftercare", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "cuddling_quietly", + "text": "Cuddling quietly" + }, + { + "id": "talking_and_laughing", + "text": "Talking and laughing" + }, + { + "id": "getting_water_or_a_snack", + "text": "Getting water or a snack" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_space_to_settle", + "text": "A little space to settle" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_little_softer", - "text": "A little softer" + "id": "cuddling_quietly", + "text": "Cuddling quietly" }, { - "id": "keep_doing_that", - "text": "Keep doing that" + "id": "talking_and_laughing", + "text": "Talking and laughing" }, { - "id": "slower_please", - "text": "Slower, please" + "id": "getting_water_or_a_snack", + "text": "Getting water or a snack" }, { - "id": "i_want_something_different", - "text": "I want something different" + "id": "a_little_space_to_settle", + "text": "A little space to settle" } ] } @@ -3463,31 +5621,50 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should happen when you change your mind midway?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How long do you usually want aftercare after sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "consent", + "aftercare", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_few_minutes", + "text": "A few minutes" + }, + { + "id": "until_we_fall_asleep", + "text": "Until we fall asleep" + }, + { + "id": "until_i_feel_settled", + "text": "Until I feel settled" + }, + { + "id": "it_changes_each_time", + "text": "It changes each time" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "stop_without_debate", - "text": "Stop without debate" + "id": "a_few_minutes", + "text": "A few minutes" }, { - "id": "check_what_i_want_now", - "text": "Check what I want now" + "id": "until_we_fall_asleep", + "text": "Until we fall asleep" }, { - "id": "switch_to_nonsexual_touch", - "text": "Switch to nonsexual touch" + "id": "until_i_feel_settled", + "text": "Until I feel settled" }, { - "id": "give_me_space", - "text": "Give me space" + "id": "it_changes_each_time", + "text": "It changes each time" } ] } @@ -3497,31 +5674,51 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which body cue do you most want your partner to notice?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What kind of reassurance feels best after sex?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "feedback", + "aftercare", + "reassurance", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "hearing_that_we_are_good", + "text": "Hearing that we are good" + }, + { + "id": "a_specific_compliment", + "text": "A specific compliment" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_physical_closeness", + "text": "Quiet physical closeness" + }, + { + "id": "no_reassurance_unless_i_ask", + "text": "No reassurance unless I ask" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "moving_closer", - "text": "Moving closer" + "id": "hearing_that_we_are_good", + "text": "Hearing that we are good" }, { - "id": "pulling_away", - "text": "Pulling away" + "id": "a_specific_compliment", + "text": "A specific compliment" }, { - "id": "tension_in_my_body", - "text": "Tension in my body" + "id": "quiet_physical_closeness", + "text": "Quiet physical closeness" }, { - "id": "changes_in_my_breathing", - "text": "Changes in my breathing" + "id": "no_reassurance_unless_i_ask", + "text": "No reassurance unless I ask" } ] } @@ -3531,31 +5728,51 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of vocal feedback feels most natural for you?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much conversation do you want immediately after sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sounds", + "aftercare", + "communication", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_lot", + "text": "A lot" + }, + { + "id": "a_little", + "text": "A little" + }, + { + "id": "only_a_practical_check_in", + "text": "Only a practical check-in" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_first_conversation_later", + "text": "Quiet first, conversation later" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "quiet_sounds", - "text": "Quiet sounds" + "id": "a_lot", + "text": "A lot" }, { - "id": "clear_words", - "text": "Clear words" + "id": "a_little", + "text": "A little" }, { - "id": "laughter", - "text": "Laughter" + "id": "only_a_practical_check_in", + "text": "Only a practical check-in" }, { - "id": "very_little", - "text": "Very little" + "id": "quiet_first_conversation_later", + "text": "Quiet first, conversation later" } ] } @@ -3565,31 +5782,51 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel confident about your body during intimacy?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What should happen if one person needs space after sex?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "body_confidence", + "aftercare", + "space", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "respect_it_without_taking_it_personally", + "text": "Respect it without taking it personally" + }, + { + "id": "agree_on_a_brief_check_in_later", + "text": "Agree on a brief check-in later" + }, + { + "id": "offer_water_or_comfort_first", + "text": "Offer water or comfort first" + }, + { + "id": "ask_whether_closeness_or_distance_feels_better", + "text": "Ask whether closeness or distance feels better" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "specific_compliments", - "text": "Specific compliments" + "id": "respect_it_without_taking_it_personally", + "text": "Respect it without taking it personally" }, { - "id": "soft_lighting", - "text": "Soft lighting" + "id": "agree_on_a_brief_check_in_later", + "text": "Agree on a brief check-in later" }, { - "id": "patient_attention", - "text": "Patient attention" + "id": "offer_water_or_comfort_first", + "text": "Offer water or comfort first" }, { - "id": "no_focus_on_appearance", - "text": "No focus on appearance" + "id": "ask_whether_closeness_or_distance_feels_better", + "text": "Ask whether closeness or distance feels better" } ] } @@ -3599,31 +5836,51 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How do you prefer to be looked at during private moments?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which practical aftercare matters most after sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "body_confidence", + "aftercare", + "practical", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "water_nearby", + "text": "Water nearby" + }, + { + "id": "a_clean_towel", + "text": "A clean towel" + }, + { + "id": "comfortable_clothes", + "text": "Comfortable clothes" + }, + { + "id": "a_calm_room", + "text": "A calm room" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "with_obvious_desire", - "text": "With obvious desire" + "id": "water_nearby", + "text": "Water nearby" }, { - "id": "with_warmth", - "text": "With warmth" + "id": "a_clean_towel", + "text": "A clean towel" }, { - "id": "with_playful_admiration", - "text": "With playful admiration" + "id": "comfortable_clothes", + "text": "Comfortable clothes" }, { - "id": "without_too_much_focus", - "text": "Without too much focus" + "id": "a_calm_room", + "text": "A calm room" } ] } @@ -3633,31 +5890,53 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of aftercare do you need most often?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy watching each other masturbate?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "aftercare", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "masturbation", + "voyeurism", + "consent", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes_that_sounds_hot", + "text": "Yes, that sounds hot" + }, + { + "id": "maybe_occasionally", + "text": "Maybe occasionally" + }, + { + "id": "only_after_talking_first", + "text": "Only after talking first" + }, + { + "id": "not_for_me", + "text": "Not for me" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "physical_closeness", - "text": "Physical closeness" + "id": "yes_that_sounds_hot", + "text": "Yes, that sounds hot" }, { - "id": "reassuring_words", - "text": "Reassuring words" + "id": "maybe_occasionally", + "text": "Maybe occasionally" }, { - "id": "practical_care", - "text": "Practical care" + "id": "only_after_talking_first", + "text": "Only after talking first" }, { - "id": "quiet_space", - "text": "Quiet space" + "id": "not_for_me", + "text": "Not for me" } ] } @@ -3667,31 +5946,53 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps if an intimate moment becomes awkward?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How do you feel about light spanking during sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "repair", + "connection", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "spanking", + "kink", + "consent", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_enjoy_receiving_it", + "text": "I enjoy receiving it" + }, + { + "id": "i_enjoy_giving_it", + "text": "I enjoy giving it" + }, + { + "id": "maybe_very_lightly_after_asking", + "text": "Maybe very lightly after asking" + }, + { + "id": "not_for_me", + "text": "Not for me" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "laugh_gently", - "text": "Laugh gently" + "id": "i_enjoy_receiving_it", + "text": "I enjoy receiving it" }, { - "id": "pause_and_check_in", - "text": "Pause and check in" + "id": "i_enjoy_giving_it", + "text": "I enjoy giving it" }, { - "id": "say_what_happened", - "text": "Say what happened" + "id": "maybe_very_lightly_after_asking", + "text": "Maybe very lightly after asking" }, { - "id": "stop_without_making_it_a_problem", - "text": "Stop without making it a problem" + "id": "not_for_me", + "text": "Not for me" } ] } @@ -3701,31 +6002,52 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you reconnect if you suddenly feel far away?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What is your interest level in anal play?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "connection", + "aftercare", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "anal_play", + "consent", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "interested_with_preparation_and_clear_limits", + "text": "Interested with preparation and clear limits" + }, + { + "id": "maybe_something_very_mild", + "text": "Maybe something very mild" + }, + { + "id": "only_as_a_fantasy", + "text": "Only as a fantasy" + }, + { + "id": "not_for_me", + "text": "Not for me" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "slow_everything_down", - "text": "Slow everything down" + "id": "interested_with_preparation_and_clear_limits", + "text": "Interested with preparation and clear limits" }, { - "id": "hold_me_without_expectation", - "text": "Hold me without expectation" + "id": "maybe_something_very_mild", + "text": "Maybe something very mild" }, { - "id": "ask_what_i_need", - "text": "Ask what I need" + "id": "only_as_a_fantasy", + "text": "Only as a fantasy" }, { - "id": "stop_and_give_me_space", - "text": "Stop and give me space" + "id": "not_for_me", + "text": "Not for me" } ] } @@ -3735,31 +6057,52 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes an intimate memory worth keeping?", + "text": "What level of roughness do you enjoy during sex?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "connection", + "feedback", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "rough_sex", + "consent", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_throughout", + "text": "Gentle throughout" + }, + { + "id": "some_firmness_and_intensity", + "text": "Some firmness and intensity" + }, + { + "id": "rougher_only_with_clear_check_ins", + "text": "Rougher only with clear check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "i_prefer_to_decide_each_time", + "text": "I prefer to decide each time" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "feeling_deeply_wanted", - "text": "Feeling deeply wanted" + "id": "gentle_throughout", + "text": "Gentle throughout" }, { - "id": "laughing_together", - "text": "Laughing together" + "id": "some_firmness_and_intensity", + "text": "Some firmness and intensity" }, { - "id": "trying_something_new_safely", - "text": "Trying something new safely" + "id": "rougher_only_with_clear_check_ins", + "text": "Rougher only with clear check-ins" }, { - "id": "feeling_completely_at_ease", - "text": "Feeling completely at ease" + "id": "i_prefer_to_decide_each_time", + "text": "I prefer to decide each time" } ] } @@ -3770,7 +6113,7 @@ "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Would you enjoy your partner starting with a long, slow kiss?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "kissing", @@ -3779,6 +6122,16 @@ "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { @@ -3798,7 +6151,7 @@ "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Would you enjoy starting with a long, slow kiss when your partner is interested?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "kissing", @@ -3807,6 +6160,16 @@ "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { @@ -3825,15 +6188,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would receiving a flirty message during the day build anticipation for you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would receiving a dirty daytime text build anticipation for you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sexting", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -3853,15 +6227,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy sending a flirty message to build anticipation during the day?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy sending a dirty daytime text to build anticipation?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sexting", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -3882,7 +6267,7 @@ "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Would you enjoy being pulled closer after giving a clear invitation?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "initiation", @@ 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"access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teasing", + "leading", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -3965,15 +6381,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy playfully teasing your partner before private time?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy taking the lead throughout sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teasing", + "leading", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -3993,16 +6420,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would 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"category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy your partner confidently taking the lead after a clear yes?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy receiving an erotic massage that may become sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "leading", + "massage", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4077,15 +6535,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy confidently taking the lead after your partner clearly says yes?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy giving an erotic massage that may become sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "leading", + "massage", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4105,15 +6574,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy gently guiding your partner toward what feels good?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy your partner inviting you to have sex in the shower?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "guidance", + "shower", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4133,15 +6613,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy your partner gently guiding you toward what feels good?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would 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"category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy giving your partner a longer, slower build-up?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy suggesting a simple sexual role-play to your partner?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "build_up", + "role_play", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4217,15 +6730,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would hearing specific praise during intimacy turn you on?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy trying a sex toy chosen together?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "praise", + "toys", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4245,15 +6769,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy giving your partner specific praise during intimacy?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy introducing a sex toy chosen together?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "praise", + "toys", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4273,15 +6808,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy your partner planning a private night for the two of you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy your partner holding eye contact during sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", + "eye_contact", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4301,15 +6847,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy planning a private night designed around your partner?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy holding eye contact with your partner during sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", + "eye_contact", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4329,15 +6886,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would a playful blindfold interest you with clear rules and a stop signal?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Would you enjoy your partner setting up dim lights and music before sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sensory_play", + "setting", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4357,15 +6925,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy using a playful blindfold after agreeing on rules and a stop signal?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Would you enjoy setting up dim lights and music before sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sensory_play", + "setting", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4385,15 +6964,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy firmer touch after explicitly asking for it?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Would you enjoy a mirror being part of sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "roughness", + "mirrors", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4413,15 +7003,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy giving firmer touch after your partner explicitly asks for it?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Would you enjoy positioning a mirror as part of 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"single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy listening to a fantasy without assuming it must happen?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy giving oral sex to your partner?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fantasy", + "oral", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4497,15 +7120,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy trying a simple role-play idea chosen together?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy hearing dirty praise about what you are doing?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "role_play", + "praise", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4525,15 +7159,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy helping choose and try a simple role-play idea together?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy giving dirty praise about what your partner is doing?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "role_play", + "praise", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4553,15 +7198,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy a spontaneous quick moment when you both clearly want it?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy your partner teasing you before direct sexual touch?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "spontaneity", + "teasing", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4581,15 +7237,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy initiating a quick spontaneous moment after confirming mutual interest?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy teasing your partner before direct sexual touch?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "spontaneity", + "teasing", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4609,15 +7276,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy a long, unhurried private night with no schedule?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy your partner keeping foreplay especially slow?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "slow_burn", + "pace", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4637,15 +7315,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you like to set aside an unhurried private night with no schedule?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy keeping foreplay especially slow for your partner?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "slow_burn", + "pace", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4665,15 +7354,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would a massage that might become more sound appealing?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy being on top and controlling the pace during sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "massage", + "positions", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4693,15 +7393,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy giving a massage that may become more if your partner wants it?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy your partner being on top and controlling the pace during sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "massage", + "positions", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4721,15 +7432,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy bringing a mutually chosen toy into private time?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Would you enjoy receiving a clear invitation for planned sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "toys", + "planning", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4749,15 +7471,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy discussing and choosing a toy together for private time?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Would you enjoy making a clear invitation for planned sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "toys", + "planning", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4777,16 +7510,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would cuddling and reassuring words afterward feel good to you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy very light restraints with clear rules and a stop signal?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "aftercare", + "restraints", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { @@ -4805,16 +7548,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy giving cuddles and reassuring words afterward?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Would you enjoy using very light restraints with clear rules and a stop signal?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "aftercare", + "restraints", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { @@ -4833,15 +7586,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would you enjoy taking turns leading during the same intimate moment?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Would you enjoy being held quietly as aftercare after sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "power", + "aftercare", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ @@ -4861,15 +7625,26 @@ "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "male", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Would taking turns leading during the same intimate moment appeal to you?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Would you enjoy holding your partner quietly as aftercare after sex?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "power", + "aftercare", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "adult_language" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "yes", + "text": "Yes" + }, + { + "id": "no", + "text": "No" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [