From 75a644e1ba4e27ffef13ac07056ebae8b759d770 Mon Sep 17 00:00:00 2001 From: null Date: Sun, 12 Jul 2026 16:02:05 -0500 Subject: [PATCH] review --- .gitignore | 1 + Future.md | 12 + seed/questions/QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE.md | 324 +- .../QUESTION_GUIDE_CORRECTION_SUMMARY.md | 116 + seed/questions/QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST.md | 55 +- seed/questions/QUESTION_REWRITE_PLAN.md | 23 +- seed/questions/QUESTION_SCHEMA.md | 514 +- seed/questions/boundaries.json | 8242 +++-- seed/questions/communication.json | 8356 +++-- .../daily_fun_multiple_choice_v3.json | 28769 +--------------- seed/questions/emotional_intimacy.json | 10768 +++--- seed/questions/fun.json | 12052 ++++--- seed/questions/quality_time.json | 11036 +++--- seed/questions/rebuilding_trust.json | 5677 +-- seed/questions/sex_and_desire.json | 10743 +++--- 15 files changed, 33335 insertions(+), 63353 deletions(-) create mode 100644 seed/questions/QUESTION_GUIDE_CORRECTION_SUMMARY.md diff --git a/.gitignore b/.gitignore index 4d518eb6..94758229 100644 --- a/.gitignore +++ b/.gitignore @@ -102,3 +102,4 @@ revenucat_secret_api.md # Local ship-readiness working plan — operator doc, not repo history release_guide.md seed/questions/closer_question_guides_150_max.zip +seed/questions/rebuilding_trust_BATCH1_NOTE.md diff --git a/Future.md b/Future.md index 0fd7dae3..d22a8143 100644 --- a/Future.md +++ b/Future.md @@ -113,6 +113,18 @@ Still open: - **`scheduledOutcomesReminder` scaling cap** — the daily cron scans `couples` with a flat `.limit(200)` and no pagination (`functions/src/couples/scheduledOutcomesReminder.ts:35`), so couples beyond the first 200 silently never get 30/60/90-day outcome nudges. Fine pre-launch; **before the userbase approaches ~200 couples**, paginate with the same `orderBy(__name__)+startAfter` page loop `assignDailyQuestion` already uses (see `assignDailyQuestion.ts` PAGE_SIZE pattern). - **Compose stability: adopt `ImmutableList` for `*UiState` list/set fields (codebase-wide).** Strong-skipping (K2 default) is on, and the Home refactor added `@Immutable` to the Home card models — but `List<>`/`Set<>` params still only reference-skip. Add the `kotlinx.collections.immutable` dependency (JetBrains, first-party) and switch `*UiState` list/set fields to `ImmutableList`/`ImmutableSet` (with `.toImmutableList()` at each VM construction site) so repeated card/list params become structurally skippable. **Do it consistently across all ~20 screens in one pass — not per-screen — to avoid a snowflake.** `ui/home/HomeModels.kt` is already partly there (`@Immutable` on `HomeAction`/`PendingActionCard`/`HomeCategorySummary`), so Home is the natural reference implementation. +- **Test `HomeViewModel.loadHome` (the honest follow-up to the Home decomposition).** The R31 Home split made + Home navigable, extracted its pure action logic into `HomeActionMapper` (12 JVM tests) and added a render + smoke — but deliberately did **not** touch `loadHome`, the ~180-line Firestore orchestration (5 parallel + retention fetches + streak/outcome calc + error handling) that remains the **highest-risk, still-untested** + code on the screen. The render-smoke exercises the render path, not `loadHome`'s data assembly. Real next + priority: a `HomeViewModel` test with fake repos covering the parallel-fetch success/partial-failure paths. + Needs the repo interfaces faked (no Hilt/Firebase) — its own follow-up, not a Home-UI change. +- **De-duplicate `dueFollowUpDay` across Home / Settings / YourProgress (3 copies).** The 30/60/90-day + outcome-reminder day math is implemented three times (now `HomeActionMapper.dueFollowUpDay`, + `SettingsViewModel`, `YourProgressViewModel`), all on the API-safe `Instant.atZone().toLocalDate()` path + since R31. Lift to one shared helper so the three can't drift; low-risk once `loadHome` has a test around it. + Improvement & feature ideas surfaced while QA-testing as a consumer (each works today — none are defects). diff --git a/seed/questions/QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE.md b/seed/questions/QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE.md index b2768ce3..da63d13e 100644 --- a/seed/questions/QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE.md +++ b/seed/questions/QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE.md @@ -16,6 +16,27 @@ Only a documented product-specific special pack may exceed 150 questions. The cu Written questions must remain rare. A normal pack may use **0 to 5 written questions by default**. More than 5 requires a documented pack-specific reason and explicit product-owner approval. Never use written questions to fill a count. +## Importer and Production Contract Authority + +The active app importer and Room database contract are authoritative for production JSON. + +Human-friendly authoring labels, batch notes, patch manifests, and planning files may help writers work, but they must never replace or override the production schema. + +Current production rules: + +- a production pack must use the top-level shape `{ "category": {...}, "questions": [...] }` +- the `category` object is required and must include `id`, `display_name`, `description`, `access`, and `icon_name` +- every question must include `id`, `category_id`, `type`, `text`, integer `depth`, `access`, and `tags` +- `category_id` must exactly match `category.id` +- `depth` must be an integer: `1` = light, `2` = medium, `3` = deep +- `tags` must be present as an array; use at least one meaningful tag unless a documented exception exists +- `sex` is optional and nullable for ordinary packs; require it only when a product feature actually filters or routes by sex +- question-type-specific fields must match `QUESTION_SCHEMA.md` +- never rely on the filename to create or repair a missing category +- a batch file, continuation note, validation report, or patch manifest is not a production question pack + +When a writing document conflicts with the importer, stop and correct the writing document. Do not ship compatibility-breaking JSON and do not defer the mismatch to a future importer change. + --- # 1. The Closer Voice @@ -145,6 +166,16 @@ SET PREMIUM_VALUE=Deeper romance, planning preferences, rut-breaking, and memory Use depth intentionally. +The writing concepts are Light, Medium, and Deep, but the production JSON field is numeric: + +| Writing concept | Production `depth` | +|---|---:| +| Light | `1` | +| Medium | `2` | +| Deep | `3` | + +Never write `"light"`, `"medium"`, or `"deep"` into a production question object. Those labels may appear only in planning notes, coverage maps, or human-readable review documents. + ## Light Light questions should be easy, fun, and low-pressure. @@ -698,39 +729,160 @@ What tends to make date night harder for you to enjoy? --- -# 12. JSON Quality Rules +# 12. Production JSON Contract and Quality Rules -Every JSON file should pass these checks. +A JSON file is production-ready only when it is both valid content and a complete importable pack. + +## 12.1 Required top-level shape + +Every production pack must use: + +```json +{ + "category": { + "id": "example_category", + "display_name": "Example Category", + "description": "User-facing description.", + "access": "mixed", + "icon_name": "favorite" + }, + "questions": [] +} +``` + +Required category fields: + +```text +id +display_name +description +access +icon_name +``` + +Optional category fields such as `schema_version` and `metadata` may be included, but they do not replace the required fields. + +Do not use the old simple-pack shape: + +```json +{ + "id": "example", + "title": "Example", + "count": 25, + "questions": [] +} +``` + +Do not rely on filename parsing to create a category. A missing `category` object is a hard production failure. + +## 12.2 Required question fields + +Every production question must include: + +```text +id +category_id +type +text +depth +access +tags +``` + +Rules: + +- `category_id` must exactly equal the enclosing `category.id` +- `depth` must be the integer `1`, `2`, or `3` +- `tags` must be an array and should contain at least one meaningful tag +- `access` must be `free` or `premium` +- `sex` is optional and nullable for ordinary category packs +- `sex` becomes required only for a documented feature that routes or filters by it +- choice options and `answer_config` must follow `QUESTION_SCHEMA.md` +- top-level `options` and `answer_config.options` must match when both are required by the active schema + +## 12.3 Production pack versus work artifact + +These are not production packs: + +```text +25-question batch files +continuation notes +coverage maps +validation reports +marked-fix lists +patch manifests +apply scripts +review summaries +``` + +A work artifact must never overwrite a production filename. + +A partial batch may be saved only outside importer-scanned production directories and must be clearly labeled as work in progress. The last complete validated production pack stays in place until the full replacement is ready. + +A patch manifest must: + +- use a clearly non-production name such as `*.patch.json` +- live outside any importer-scanned production directory +- identify the complete source pack it applies to +- be applied to the full source pack +- produce a complete validated production JSON before shipping + +A patch manifest is never itself renamed to the production filename. + +## 12.4 Daily pack protection + +`daily_fun_multiple_choice_v3.json` is the compatibility filename for the Daily Single-Choice Weekday System. + +That production file must always contain the complete documented pack: + +```text +500 weekday questions +11 wildcard questions +511 total questions +86 free +425 premium +511 single_choice +``` + +A daily patch document containing only changed IDs is not the daily pack. Restore or retain the complete 511-question source, apply the patch to that source, then validate and ship the complete result. + +## 12.5 Per-file hard checks ```bat ECHO [ ] Valid JSON. -ECHO [ ] Category id matches file purpose. -ECHO [ ] Category title sounds user-facing. -ECHO [ ] Category access matches actual free/premium strategy. +ECHO [ ] Top-level category object exists. +ECHO [ ] Top-level questions array exists. +ECHO [ ] Category contains id, display_name, description, access, and icon_name. +ECHO [ ] Category id matches the file purpose. +ECHO [ ] Category title and description are user-facing. ECHO [ ] Metadata counts match actual question counts. -ECHO [ ] All question IDs are unique. -ECHO [ ] All question texts are unique. -ECHO [ ] No near-duplicate blocks. +ECHO [ ] Every question has category_id matching category.id. +ECHO [ ] Every question has integer depth 1, 2, or 3. +ECHO [ ] Every question has an access value of free or premium. +ECHO [ ] Every question has a tags array. +ECHO [ ] All question IDs are unique inside the file. +ECHO [ ] All question texts are unique inside the file. +ECHO [ ] No near-duplicate blocks remain. ECHO [ ] Type counts match metadata. ECHO [ ] Free/premium counts match metadata. -ECHO [ ] Depth values are valid. -ECHO [ ] Access values are valid. ECHO [ ] Options have unique IDs inside each question. ECHO [ ] Option IDs are neutral and clean. +ECHO [ ] Choice options mirror answer_config where required. ECHO [ ] Scale labels are present when needed. -ECHO [ ] No malformed keys like m a x _ l e n g t h. +ECHO [ ] Written answer limits are present when needed. +ECHO [ ] No malformed keys. ECHO [ ] No placeholder text. -ECHO [ ] No accidental old gendered IDs unless intentionally used. +ECHO [ ] The file is a complete pack, not a batch or patch artifact. ``` -Recommended access values: +Valid access values: ```text free premium ``` -Recommended category access values: +Valid category access values: ```text free @@ -738,15 +890,15 @@ premium mixed ``` -Recommended depth values: +Valid production depth values: ```text -light -medium -deep +1 +2 +3 ``` -Recommended question types: +Valid question types: ```text written @@ -756,7 +908,41 @@ scale this_or_that ``` ---- +## 12.6 Catalog-wide hard gate + +Per-file validation is not enough. + +Before rebuilding `app.db` or shipping question content, validate every production pack together. + +The full catalog must have: + +- globally unique question IDs +- globally unique exact question text +- no normalized duplicate question text after case and whitespace normalization +- no blocked near-duplicates across categories +- no production filename containing a patch or partial batch +- no category resolving to `unknown` +- no schema mismatch that would coerce or zero a field + +A duplicate in two different category files is still a hard failure. The importer may abort the entire build, not merely skip the duplicate question. + +When the same idea belongs in two packs, rewrite each prompt around its category-specific purpose rather than copying the same text. + +## 12.7 Catalog impact reporting + +When replacing or trimming an existing pack, report: + +```text +old question count +new question count +net catalog change +old free/premium counts +new free/premium counts +whether the change is intentional and approved +``` + +A planned reduction from a legacy 250-question pack to a stronger 150-question pack is not a schema defect, but the live catalog shrink must be visible in the completion report. + # 13. Pack Structure Recommendation @@ -792,6 +978,23 @@ Question packs must not be written in one uninterrupted bulk-generation pass. A normal category pack may contain up to 150 questions. Only a documented special product pack may exceed that limit. Regardless of final size, question creation must be divided into controlled batches so quality, continuity, counts, and repetition can be reviewed throughout the work. +## 14.0 Production Replacement Rule + +Batching controls the writing process; it does not redefine the production file. + +During a multi-batch rewrite: + +1. Keep the last complete production pack intact. +2. Draft and review each batch in a clearly labeled work artifact or controlled workspace. +3. Never overwrite the production filename with only the completed batches so far. +4. Never change the production file to a simple batch schema. +5. Merge reviewed batches into the complete `{ "category": ..., "questions": [...] }` pack. +6. Run per-file validation. +7. Run the catalog-wide duplicate and import validation. +8. Replace the production file only with the complete validated result. + +A continuation note may say `Next ID: ...`; that does not make the partial JSON shippable. + ## 14.1 Batch Size Write exactly 25 new questions per batch. @@ -1104,40 +1307,51 @@ Even an approved mass rewrite must still use 25-question batches. After all planned questions have been written or corrected: 1. Validate the complete JSON file. -2. Confirm category metadata. -3. Confirm all IDs. -4. Confirm all IDs are unique. -5. Confirm all question texts are unique. -6. Confirm total question count. -7. Confirm question-type distribution. -8. Confirm free and premium distribution. -9. Confirm depth distribution. -10. Confirm targeting fields and tags. -11. Run exact duplicate checks. -12. Run near-duplicate checks. -13. Run repeated-stem and repeated-option checks. -14. Review subtopic coverage. -15. Review emotional-depth spacing. -16. Review mechanic distribution. -17. Review free-to-premium progression. -18. Read a representative sample from every section aloud. -19. Mark every failure by ID and reason. -20. Patch only failed IDs. -21. Re-run every affected validation and review check. +2. Confirm the top-level shape is `{ "category": ..., "questions": [...] }`. +3. Confirm the category object contains every required field. +4. Confirm every question has `category_id` matching `category.id`. +5. Confirm every question uses integer depth `1`, `2`, or `3`. +6. Confirm every question has a tags array. +7. Confirm all IDs are unique inside the file. +8. Confirm all question texts are unique inside the file. +9. Confirm total question count. +10. Confirm question-type distribution. +11. Confirm free and premium distribution. +12. Confirm targeting fields. +13. Run exact duplicate checks inside the file. +14. Run near-duplicate checks inside the file. +15. Run repeated-stem and repeated-option checks. +16. Review subtopic coverage. +17. Review emotional-depth spacing. +18. Review mechanic distribution. +19. Review free-to-premium progression. +20. Read a representative sample from every section aloud. +21. Mark every failure by ID and reason. +22. Patch only failed IDs. +23. Re-run every affected validation and review check. +24. Run the full-catalog global ID and question-text duplicate gate. +25. Confirm no production filename contains a patch manifest or partial batch. +26. Report the old count, new count, and net catalog change. The pack may ship only when: ```bat ECHO The JSON parses. +ECHO The production top-level shape is category plus questions. +ECHO Required category fields exist. +ECHO Every category_id matches category.id. ECHO Metadata counts match actual counts. -ECHO IDs are unique. -ECHO Question texts are unique. +ECHO IDs are unique inside the pack and across the catalog. +ECHO Question texts are unique inside the pack and across the catalog. ECHO Free/premium counts match. ECHO Type counts match. -ECHO Depth values are valid. +ECHO Depth values are integers 1, 2, or 3. +ECHO Tags exist on every question. ECHO Required targeting fields are valid. +ECHO The file is a complete pack, not a patch or partial batch. ECHO No unresolved hard failures remain. ECHO No unacceptable repetition remains. +ECHO The full catalog import gate passes. ECHO The final sample sounds natural and enjoyable aloud. ECHO The tone guide was followed. ``` @@ -1268,15 +1482,22 @@ When Claude rewrites a pack: ```bat ECHO Read the existing JSON first. -ECHO Preserve required schema unless told otherwise. -ECHO Preserve required counts unless told otherwise. +ECHO Treat the active importer and Room contract as schema authority. +ECHO Preserve the production shape: category object plus questions array. +ECHO Use integer depth 1, 2, or 3. +ECHO Add category_id and tags to every production question. +ECHO Keep sex optional unless the pack-specific feature requires it. +ECHO Preserve required counts unless an approved rewrite changes them. +ECHO Never overwrite a production filename with a partial batch. +ECHO Never overwrite a production filename with a patch manifest. +ECHO Apply patches to the complete source pack and return the complete JSON. ECHO Improve wording, variety, and product feel. ECHO Do not create repetitive template blocks. ECHO Do not use weird phrasing. ECHO Do not overuse therapy language. ECHO Do not make sensitive prompts coercive. -ECHO Validate the final JSON. -ECHO Report count totals. +ECHO Validate the final JSON per file and across the full catalog. +ECHO Report old count, new count, and net catalog change. ECHO Report any schema changes. ``` @@ -1284,11 +1505,16 @@ Claude should not say a file is done unless: ```bat ECHO The JSON parses. +ECHO The file is a complete production pack. +ECHO The category object and questions array exist. +ECHO Required category and question fields exist. ECHO The counts match. -ECHO IDs are unique. -ECHO Question texts are unique. +ECHO Depth values are integers 1, 2, or 3. +ECHO IDs are unique inside the pack and across the catalog. +ECHO Question texts are unique inside the pack and across the catalog. ECHO Free/premium counts match. ECHO Type counts match. +ECHO The catalog import gate passes. ECHO The tone guide was followed. ``` diff --git a/seed/questions/QUESTION_GUIDE_CORRECTION_SUMMARY.md b/seed/questions/QUESTION_GUIDE_CORRECTION_SUMMARY.md new file mode 100644 index 00000000..6d58c532 --- /dev/null +++ b/seed/questions/QUESTION_GUIDE_CORRECTION_SUMMARY.md @@ -0,0 +1,116 @@ +# Closer Question Guide Correction Summary + +## Why this update was required + +The writing documents and the active importer disagreed about production depth and file shape. + +The old guide allowed human-readable depth strings such as `light`, `medium`, and `deep`. The active Room-backed importer expects an integer field, so string depth can be read as `0`. + +The old workflow also did not clearly forbid a partial batch or patch manifest from replacing a production JSON filename. + +## Correct production authority + +Production packs now require: + +```text +top-level category object +top-level questions array +category.id +category.display_name +category.description +category.access +category.icon_name +question.category_id +question.type +question.text +question.depth as integer 1/2/3 +question.access +question.tags array +``` + +`sex` remains optional and nullable unless a documented feature specifically reads it. + +## Work artifacts + +The corrected guides explicitly classify these as non-production: + +```text +partial batches +simple-pack batch JSON +patch manifests +validation reports +coverage maps +continuation notes +apply scripts +review summaries +``` + +They must not overwrite production filenames or live in importer-scanned production locations. + +## Daily pack rule + +`daily_fun_multiple_choice_v3.json` must always remain the complete 511-question Daily Single-Choice Weekday System. + +A JSON document containing only changed IDs is a patch manifest. It must be applied to the complete 511-question source; the resulting complete pack is the file that ships. + +## Catalog-wide rule + +Every production file must pass individually, then the complete catalog must pass together. + +The catalog gate rejects: + +- duplicate IDs across files +- duplicate exact or normalized question text across files +- blocked cross-category near-duplicates +- unknown categories +- partial or patch artifacts under production filenames +- depth or other field coercion caused by schema mismatches + +## Immediate file remediation implied by the corrected guide + +### `rebuilding_trust.json` + +Do not ship the 25-question Batch 1 artifact. + +Rebuild or complete the production pack using: + +- full `{ "category": ..., "questions": [...] }` shape +- required category object +- `category_id` on every question +- integer depth `1`, `2`, or `3` +- tags arrays +- the approved final count and access/type distribution + +Keep the last complete production version in place until the full replacement passes validation. + +### `daily_fun_multiple_choice_v3.json` + +Restore the complete 511-question source. + +Apply the 17-ID patch to that complete source. + +Ship the complete validated 511-question result, not the patch manifest. + +### Cross-file duplicate + +Reword one instance of: + +```text +Comfort first or solutions first? +``` + +Do not allow identical question text in both Emotional Intimacy and Stress. Give each version a category-specific angle, then rerun the complete catalog gate. + +## Catalog count changes + +Intentional 250-to-150 pack reductions are allowed under the 150-question cap. + +Every completion report must still show: + +```text +old pack count +new pack count +net catalog change +free/premium change +approval or product rationale +``` diff --git a/seed/questions/QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST.md b/seed/questions/QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST.md index d0e70015..9773e794 100644 --- a/seed/questions/QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST.md +++ b/seed/questions/QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST.md @@ -1,4 +1,4 @@ -# Closer Question Quality Checklist v8 +# Closer Question Quality Checklist v9 **See also:** [QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE.md](QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE.md) | [QUESTION_SCHEMA.md](QUESTION_SCHEMA.md) | [QUESTION_REWRITE_PLAN.md](QUESTION_REWRITE_PLAN.md) @@ -31,6 +31,27 @@ Reject any question that contains or strongly resembles: These are therapy worksheet patterns. +## Production File Hard Checks + +Run these before tone or content review. + +Reject the file immediately if any item fails: + +- top-level `category` object is missing +- top-level `questions` array is missing +- category is missing `id`, `display_name`, `description`, `access`, or `icon_name` +- any question is missing `id`, `category_id`, `type`, `text`, `depth`, `access`, or `tags` +- any `category_id` does not exactly match `category.id` +- any production `depth` is not the integer `1`, `2`, or `3` +- any `tags` value is missing or is not an array +- the file uses the old simple-pack shape +- the file is a partial batch +- the file is a patch manifest +- the production filename was overwritten by a work artifact +- the filename is being used as a substitute for a missing category + +`sex` is optional and nullable for ordinary packs. Do not reject a normal pack merely because `sex` is absent. Require it only when a documented feature actually uses it for targeting. + ## Normal Pack Hard Checks For every normal category pack, confirm before content review: @@ -43,6 +64,7 @@ For every normal category pack, confirm before content review: * free and premium counts match the documented pack plan * all IDs and question texts are unique * no exact or near-duplicate blocks remain +* old count, new count, and net catalog change are reported when replacing a legacy pack ## Daily Pack Hard Checks @@ -61,6 +83,9 @@ For the daily single choice weekday pack, confirm before content review: * no duplicate IDs * no duplicate question text * no duplicate exact option lists +* the production file contains the full `category` object and all 511 questions +* the production file is not a patch manifest containing only changed IDs +* every daily question uses integer depth and includes category_id, access, and tags ## Daily Fun Gate @@ -241,6 +266,28 @@ Better: Save me the best couch spot ``` +## Catalog-Wide Hard Gate + +Per-file checks are not enough. + +Before rebuilding `app.db` or shipping any question change, scan every production pack together. + +Reject the entire content build if any of these remain: + +- duplicate question ID across files +- duplicate exact question text across files +- duplicate question text after case and whitespace normalization +- blocked near-duplicate prompts across related categories +- a category resolving to `unknown` +- a production filename containing a patch, partial batch, validation report, or other work artifact +- a depth value that would be coerced or read as `0` +- a question missing `category_id` +- a question missing its tags array + +A duplicate across two otherwise valid packs still fails the whole catalog. + +When two categories need similar ideas, rewrite each prompt around its own category purpose instead of copying identical text. + ## Patch Discipline Checks Before updating a daily pack, confirm the workflow is patch mode. @@ -253,10 +300,16 @@ Required: * only marked IDs are edited * passing IDs are left unchanged * metadata is preserved unless metadata failed +* the patch manifest is stored outside importer-scanned production files +* the complete source pack remains available +* the patch is applied to the complete source pack before shipping +* the result is a complete production pack, not a patch-only deliverable * the report lists marked count, patched count, and remaining flag count Reject the update if it rewrites passing questions without a mass rewrite exception. +Also reject the update if a patch manifest or partial batch replaces the production JSON, even when the patch itself is valid JSON. + Mass rewrite exception requires: * more than 60 percent of the weekday or pack fails diff --git a/seed/questions/QUESTION_REWRITE_PLAN.md b/seed/questions/QUESTION_REWRITE_PLAN.md index 94195689..fb654b64 100644 --- a/seed/questions/QUESTION_REWRITE_PLAN.md +++ b/seed/questions/QUESTION_REWRITE_PLAN.md @@ -1,4 +1,4 @@ -# QUESTION_REWRITE_PLAN.md +# Closer Question Rewrite Plan v9 ## Purpose @@ -8,6 +8,27 @@ The goal is not just clean JSON. The goal is questions real couples want to answer. +## Production Replacement Rule + +Writing in batches does not permit shipping a partial pack. + +During a rewrite: + +1. Keep the last complete production JSON in place. +2. Draft each batch in a controlled workspace or clearly labeled WIP artifact. +3. Do not save a 25-question batch under the production filename. +4. Do not switch the production file to the old simple-pack shape. +5. Merge reviewed batches into the full `{ "category": ..., "questions": [...] }` structure. +6. Use integer depth `1`, `2`, or `3`. +7. Include `category_id` and `tags` on every production question. +8. Validate the complete pack. +9. Validate the full catalog across every production file. +10. Replace the production file only after both gates pass. + +A continuation note such as `Next ID: rt_026` proves that work is incomplete. It is not permission to replace the live pack with the first 25 questions. + +A patch manifest is also a work artifact. It must never replace the source pack. + ## Standard Pack Workflow For normal category packs of up to 150 questions: diff --git a/seed/questions/QUESTION_SCHEMA.md b/seed/questions/QUESTION_SCHEMA.md index 944db1e6..94edf9eb 100644 --- a/seed/questions/QUESTION_SCHEMA.md +++ b/seed/questions/QUESTION_SCHEMA.md @@ -1,153 +1,307 @@ -# Closer Question Schema v7 +# Closer Question Schema v8 **See also:** [QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE.md](QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE.md) | [QUESTION_REWRITE_PLAN.md](QUESTION_REWRITE_PLAN.md) | [QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST.md](QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST.md) ## Purpose -This document defines the JSON schema, question types, validation rules, and required counts for Closer question packs. +This document defines the production JSON contract used by the active Closer importer and Room database. -For writing philosophy and tone, see `QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE.md`. +The active importer is authoritative. Planning labels and old authoring formats must not override the production contract. -For rewrite workflow and special pack exceptions, see `QUESTION_REWRITE_PLAN.md`. +## Production File Shape + +Every production question pack must use this top-level shape: + +```json +{ + "category": { + "id": "quality_time", + "display_name": "Quality Time", + "description": "Questions about being present and enjoying meaningful time together.", + "access": "mixed", + "icon_name": "schedule", + "schema_version": "question_v2", + "metadata": {} + }, + "questions": [] +} +``` + +Required top-level keys: + +```text +category +questions +``` + +Required `category` fields: + +```text +id +display_name +description +access +icon_name +``` + +Optional category fields include: + +```text +schema_version +metadata +``` + +Never rely on the filename to manufacture a missing category. + +The old simple-pack form is not production-valid: + +```json +{ + "id": "rebuilding_trust", + "title": "Rebuilding Trust", + "count": 25, + "questions": [] +} +``` + +## Required Question Fields + +Every production question requires: + +```text +id +category_id +type +text +depth +access +tags +``` + +Rules: + +- `category_id` must exactly match the enclosing `category.id` +- `type` must be one of the supported type names +- `text` must be non-empty and catalog-unique +- `depth` must be the integer `1`, `2`, or `3` +- `access` must be `free` or `premium` +- `tags` must be an array; use at least one meaningful tag unless a documented exception exists +- `sex` is optional and nullable for ordinary packs +- require `sex` only when a documented feature, such as feature-specific targeting, actually reads it + +## Depth + +Production depth is numeric: + +| Meaning | Value | +|---|---:| +| Light | `1` | +| Medium | `2` | +| Deep | `3` | + +Do not ship: + +```json +"depth": "light" +``` + +Ship: + +```json +"depth": 1 +``` + +The strings `light`, `medium`, and `deep` may appear in coverage maps or review notes only. ## Question Types Use these type names exactly: -* written -* single_choice -* multi_choice -* scale -* this_or_that +```text +written +single_choice +multi_choice +scale +this_or_that +``` -Do not rename them unless the app code is updated first. +Do not rename them unless the app code and importer are updated first. ## multi_choice -Select every option that applies. +Use when more than one answer can be true. -Use 4 to 6 options. - -Example: +Use 4 to 6 options by default. ```json { + "id": "quality_time_001", + "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel relaxed on a date with me?", + "text": "What helps time together feel easy to enjoy?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": ["presence", "comfort", "quality_time"], "options": [ { "id": "no_rushing", "text": "Not feeling rushed" }, { "id": "phones_away", "text": "Putting phones away" }, - { "id": "good_food", "text": "Good food" }, - { "id": "easy_conversation", "text": "Easy conversation" } - ] + { "id": "easy_conversation", "text": "Easy conversation" }, + { "id": "clear_plan", "text": "Knowing the general plan" } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { "id": "no_rushing", "text": "Not feeling rushed" }, + { "id": "phones_away", "text": "Putting phones away" }, + { "id": "easy_conversation", "text": "Easy conversation" }, + { "id": "clear_plan", "text": "Knowing the general plan" } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } } ``` Rules: -* Prompt should clearly allow multiple answers. -* Options should not shame either partner. -* Options should be practical, emotional, or playful when possible. -* Options must not overlap too much. +- top-level `options` are required +- `answer_config.options` must mirror the top-level options exactly +- selection bounds, when present, must be valid for the number of options +- options must directly and grammatically answer the prompt +- options must not overlap excessively ## single_choice -Select one best answer. +Use when the user selects one best answer. -Use 4 to 6 options. - -Example: +Use 4 to 6 options by default. ```json { + "id": "quality_time_002", + "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of date sounds best this week?", + "text": "Which low-key plan sounds best tonight?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": ["low_energy", "easy_plan", "quality_time"], "options": [ - { "id": "cozy_at_home", "text": "Cozy at home" }, - { "id": "dinner_out", "text": "Dinner out" }, - { "id": "something_playful", "text": "Something playful" }, - { "id": "something_outside", "text": "Something outside" } - ] + { "id": "short_walk", "text": "A short walk" }, + { "id": "one_episode", "text": "One episode together" }, + { "id": "snack_and_talk", "text": "A snack and a talk" }, + { "id": "music_on_the_couch", "text": "Music on the couch" } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { "id": "short_walk", "text": "A short walk" }, + { "id": "one_episode", "text": "One episode together" }, + { "id": "snack_and_talk", "text": "A snack and a talk" }, + { "id": "music_on_the_couch", "text": "Music on the couch" } + ] + } } ``` Rules: -* Options should be short. -* Options should not overlap too much. -* Options should sound like real choices. -* Every option must directly answer the prompt. -* Every option should be similar in weight. +- top-level `options` are required +- `answer_config.options` must mirror them exactly +- every option must be a plausible single best answer +- options should be similar in effort, emotional weight, and intimacy ## scale -Rate agreement, comfort, importance, confidence, or frequency. - -Example: +Use for one measurable dimension such as comfort, closeness, energy, readiness, satisfaction, confidence, importance, or frequency. ```json { + "id": "quality_time_003", + "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you feel like we need a real date soon?", - "scale": { + "text": "How easy is it to be present when we finally get time together?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": ["presence", "attention", "quality_time"], + "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "Very much" + "min_label": "Not easy yet", + "max_label": "Very easy" } } ``` Rules: -* Scale labels should be gentle and neutral. -* Do not make the low end sound bad or shameful. -* Scale questions should measure one thing only. +- use `answer_config`, not a top-level `scale` object +- `min`, `max`, `min_label`, and `max_label` are required +- labels must be gentle and neutral +- measure one thing only ## this_or_that -Very fast playful questions. - -Example: +Use for a fast two-option choice. ```json { + "id": "quality_time_004", + "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Planned date or spontaneous date?" + "text": "Quiet time or playful time?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": ["quick_choice", "mood", "quality_time"], + "options": [ + { "id": "quiet_time", "text": "Quiet time" }, + { "id": "playful_time", "text": "Playful time" } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { "id": "quiet_time", "text": "Quiet time" }, + { "id": "playful_time", "text": "Playful time" } + ] + } } ``` Rules: -* Prompts should be quick. -* Avoid choices that imply one partner is wrong. -* Best used in fun, date, intimacy, home, and lifestyle packs. +- exactly two top-level options +- `answer_config.options` must mirror them exactly +- the choice must be quick and balanced ## written -Reserved for questions where a short written response adds meaningful value. - -Example: +Use only when a short written response adds meaningful value. ```json { + "id": "quality_time_005", + "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small thing I do that makes you feel cared for?", - "answer": { - "max_length": 500 + "text": "What is one recent moment together that felt worth slowing down for?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": ["recent_memory", "presence", "quality_time"], + "answer_config": { + "min_length": 1, + "max_length": 500, + "placeholder": "Write your answer..." } } ``` -Written questions require an `answer` configuration with `max_length`. +Rules: -Do not use written questions for basic preferences. +- use `answer_config`, not a top-level `answer` object +- `max_length` is required +- do not use written questions for basic preferences +- normal packs should contain 0 to 5 written questions ## Standard Category Packs -A normal category pack may contain **up to 150 questions**. The maximum is not a required count. Smaller packs are valid when they provide stronger coverage with less repetition. +A normal category pack may contain up to 150 questions. -For a full 150-question mixed pack, use this planning target: +A full 150-question mixed pack normally targets: | Type | Count | |---|---:| @@ -157,27 +311,16 @@ For a full 150-question mixed pack, use this planning target: | this_or_that | 10 | | written | 5 | -Free and premium split: +Normal full-pack access target: -* 45 free -* 105 premium +```text +45 free +105 premium +``` -Normal-pack rules: +The count is a ceiling, not a quota. Smaller packs are valid when documented and stronger. -* total question count must be 150 or fewer -* metadata counts must match the actual file -* written questions should normally total 0 to 5 -* written questions are optional and must not be used as filler -* more than 5 written questions requires a documented pack-specific exception -* a smaller pack may use a different type mix when the mix is documented and fits the category - -## Special Packs - -Special product packs may exceed the normal 150-question maximum or override the standard type mix only when documented. - -The daily single choice weekday pack is the current documented 511-question special exception. - -## Daily Single Choice Weekday Pack +## Daily Single-Choice Weekday System Pack id: @@ -185,167 +328,102 @@ Pack id: daily_single_choice_weekly_v1 ``` -Compatibility file name: +Compatibility filename: ```text daily_fun_multiple_choice_v3.json ``` -Target counts — weekday pack (frozen; do not change these 500): +Required production totals: | Field | Count | |---|---:| -| weekday total | 500 | -| weekday free | 75 | -| weekday premium | 425 | -| single_choice | 500 | +| weekday questions | 500 | +| wildcard questions | 11 | +| total questions | 511 | +| free | 86 | +| premium | 425 | +| single_choice | 511 | -Plus the wildcard add-on (surprise days; see `DAILY_SINGLE_CHOICE_WEEKDAY_SYSTEM.md` → Wildcard Mode). -The wildcard pool size must stay **coprime with 10** (the wildcard-day spacing), so 11, not 10/12: +The compatibility filename does not change the schema. The file must still be a complete production pack with a required `category` object and `questions` array. -| Field | Count | -|---|---:| -| wildcard free | 11 | +Every daily question must include: -**New pack totals (weekday + wildcard):** 511 total · 86 free · 425 premium · 511 single_choice. +- `category_id` +- integer `depth` +- `access` +- `tags` +- top-level `options` +- mirrored `answer_config.options` -These counts do not apply to standard category packs. +Every weekday question must have exactly one weekday tag. -## Daily Pack Metadata Example +Every wildcard must have `mode_wildcard` and `daily_wildcard` and no weekday tag. -```json -{ - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1", - "title": "Daily Single Choice", - "access": "mixed", - "description": "One weekday themed single choice question per day, plus wildcard surprise days.", - "count": 511, - "free_count": 86, - "premium_count": 425, - "question_type_policy": "single_choice_only", - "review_policy": "weekday_batch_loop_required", - "patch_policy": "fix_marked_ids_only", - "mass_rewrite_policy": "requires_over_60_percent_shared_failure", - "content_policy": "fun_first_daily_game_questions", - "research_note": "Use relationship question research patterns, not copied prompts.", - "questions": [] -} +A daily patch manifest is not the daily production pack. + +## Work Artifacts Are Not Packs + +The following must not be placed under a production filename or inside an importer-scanned production directory: + +```text +partial batch JSON +simple-pack batch JSON +patch manifest +marked-fix list +validation report +coverage map +continuation note +apply script +review summary ``` -If the compatibility filename `daily_fun_multiple_choice_v3.json` is used, the metadata should still make clear that the content is `single_choice` only. +A patch should be clearly named, for example: - -## Daily Content Metadata - -Daily packs should include metadata that makes the content standard impossible to miss. - -Recommended fields: - -```json -{ - "question_type_policy": "single_choice_only", - "review_policy": "weekday_batch_loop_required", - "patch_policy": "fix_marked_ids_only", - "mass_rewrite_policy": "requires_over_60_percent_shared_failure", - "content_policy": "fun_first_daily_game_questions", - "research_note": "Use relationship question research patterns, not copied prompts." -} +```text +daily_fun_multiple_choice_v3.patch.json ``` -These fields are not a replacement for validation. They document the intended behavior so future rewrites do not quietly turn the pack into chores, therapy, or generic wellness sludge. +It must be applied to the complete production source, and the complete resulting pack must pass validation before shipping. -## Daily Question Object Example +## Per-File Validation Requirements -```json -{ - "id": "daily_monday_001", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What tiny date move sounds best tonight?", - "depth": "light", - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": ["daily_monday_mood_check"], - "options": [ - { "id": "dessert_couch", "text": "Dessert on the couch" }, - { "id": "kitchen_dance", "text": "A two-song kitchen dance" }, - { "id": "snack_walk", "text": "A short walk with snacks" }, - { "id": "movie_pick", "text": "A ridiculous movie pick" } - ] -} -``` +Before shipping a pack: -## Daily Single Choice Content Rules +- JSON parses +- top-level `category` object exists +- top-level `questions` array exists +- required category fields exist +- every question has every required field +- every `category_id` matches `category.id` +- every depth is integer `1`, `2`, or `3` +- all IDs are unique inside the file +- all question text is unique inside the file +- all types are valid +- tags arrays exist +- access values are valid +- option IDs are unique within each question +- top-level options and `answer_config.options` match where required +- metadata counts match actual counts +- normal packs contain no more than 150 questions +- normal packs contain no more than 5 written questions unless an approved exception exists +- special packs match their exact documented contract +- the file is a complete pack, not a patch or partial batch -Daily options must be: +## Catalog-Wide Validation Requirements -* complete answers to the prompt -* short and natural -* similar in weight -* fun, sweet, flirty, silly, or date-like when possible -* easy to pick in under 10 seconds +Before rebuilding `app.db` or shipping question content, validate all production files together. -Daily options must not be mostly chores, household admin, or therapy phrasing. +The full catalog must have: -Reject options centered on clean counters, bills, laundry, dishes, appointment scheduling, bedtime planning, saved blankets, or oddly specific domestic logistics unless the question clearly frames the option as playful and worth choosing. +- globally unique question IDs +- globally unique exact question text +- no duplicate text after case and whitespace normalization +- no blocked near-duplicates across categories +- no category resolving to `unknown` +- no production file containing a work artifact +- no field coercion caused by a schema mismatch -Schema validation only proves the file can be parsed. It does not prove the content is good. +A duplicate question in two different files is a hard failure and may abort the entire import. -Daily packs must also pass the fun gate in `QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST.md` and the loop in `QUESTION_REWRITE_PLAN.md`. - -## Weekday Tags - -Daily questions must include the correct weekday tag: - -* daily_monday_mood_check -* daily_tuesday_tiny_win -* daily_wednesday_real_one -* daily_thursday_laugh -* daily_friday_flirty -* daily_saturday_side_quest -* daily_sunday_slow_burn - -If app code still uses older mode tags, include compatibility tags as needed without removing the new weekday tag. - -## Depth - -Documented depth values: - -* light -* medium -* deep - -Do not use numeric depth values unless the active app import code still requires numeric depth for compatibility. - -If compatibility requires numeric depth, document the exception in the pack README and fix the import code later. - -## Access - -Valid access values: - -* free -* premium - -## Validation Requirements - -Before shipping any pack: - -* JSON must parse -* all IDs must be unique -* all question text must be unique -* every type must be valid -* every required field must exist -* option IDs must be unique within a question -* options must directly answer the prompt -* access values must be valid -* depth values must match current app compatibility rules -* normal category packs must contain no more than 150 questions -* normal category packs should contain no more than 5 written questions unless an exception is documented -* special packs must match their documented counts and exception rules - -## Content Validation Reminder - -Do not confuse schema validity with quality. - -A file can be valid JSON and still be bad content. - -Daily packs require schema validation plus human content review. +Per-file success does not override a catalog-wide failure. diff --git a/seed/questions/boundaries.json b/seed/questions/boundaries.json index 8b7e81d2..3a144306 100644 --- a/seed/questions/boundaries.json +++ b/seed/questions/boundaries.json @@ -2,354 +2,871 @@ "category": { "id": "boundaries", "display_name": "Boundaries", - "description": "Warm, practical questions that help couples talk about space, privacy, family, phones, money, conflict, affection, and personal limits without blame.", + "description": "Calm, practical questions about personal space, privacy, independence, family and friends, phones, belongings, time, affection, and saying no without guilt or control.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "shield", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - } + "written": 5, + "single_choice": 30, + "multi_choice": 90, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 22, + "2": 33, + "3": 83, + "4": 12 + }, + "light_depth_questions": 55, + "light_depth_percentage": 36.7, + "content_version": "boundaries_v2_final_review", + "batch_size": 25, + "review_policy": "Rebuilt in six controlled 25-question batches after reviewing QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE.md, QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST.md, and QUESTION_SCHEMA.md; each batch was validated and the full pack received a separate editorial review.", + "mass_rewrite_exception": "Approved rebuild: the source contained 250 questions, including 150 written prompts, and more than 60% of the pack shared the same legacy-structure, repetition, and neighboring-pack overlap failures.", + "related_pack_boundary": "Owns autonomy, saying and hearing no, personal space, privacy, digital limits, public sharing, belongings, outside involvement, personal time, high-level affection consent, and changing agreements. Communication owns how couples talk; Conflict owns disagreements; Conflict Repair owns reconnecting; Trust owns confidence and breaches; Money owns budgeting and financial planning; Home Life owns chores and household routines; Physical Intimacy and Sex & Desire own touch and sexual preferences.", + "source_question_count": 250, + "source_written_count": 150, + "final_validation": "pass_after_cross_pack_review", + "second_pass_changed_questions": 74, + "second_pass_focus": "Varied repeated prompt rhythms; corrected option fit, point of view, consent framing, family and friendship wording, digital privacy, work and money boundaries, and neighboring-pack drift; reclassified depth to match the guide’s 30-40% light/easy target.", + "second_pass_changed_ids": [ + "boundaries_003", + "boundaries_007", + "boundaries_008", + "boundaries_011", + "boundaries_013", + "boundaries_014", + "boundaries_015", + "boundaries_016", + "boundaries_018", + "boundaries_022", + "boundaries_023", + "boundaries_024", + "boundaries_025", + "boundaries_029", + "boundaries_030", + "boundaries_032", + "boundaries_033", + "boundaries_034", + "boundaries_035", + "boundaries_037", + "boundaries_038", + "boundaries_039", + "boundaries_041", + "boundaries_044", + "boundaries_045", + "boundaries_047", + "boundaries_048", + "boundaries_052", + "boundaries_053", + "boundaries_056", + "boundaries_057", + "boundaries_058", + "boundaries_059", + "boundaries_060", + "boundaries_061", + "boundaries_062", + "boundaries_063", + "boundaries_066", + "boundaries_069", + "boundaries_070", + "boundaries_075", + "boundaries_077", + "boundaries_078", + "boundaries_083", + "boundaries_086", + "boundaries_087", + "boundaries_088", + "boundaries_089", + "boundaries_091", + "boundaries_092", + "boundaries_093", + "boundaries_094", + "boundaries_098", + "boundaries_100", + "boundaries_102", + "boundaries_108", + "boundaries_111", + "boundaries_112", + "boundaries_116", + "boundaries_118", + "boundaries_120", + 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"sex_and_desire.json" + ], + "unresolved_hard_failures": 0 + }, + "final_editorial_changed_questions": 67, + "final_editorial_changed_ids": [ + "boundaries_002", + "boundaries_006", + "boundaries_009", + "boundaries_013", + "boundaries_016", + "boundaries_019", + "boundaries_022", + "boundaries_023", + "boundaries_025", + "boundaries_027", + "boundaries_028", + "boundaries_030", + "boundaries_032", + "boundaries_033", + "boundaries_034", + "boundaries_036", + "boundaries_038", + "boundaries_041", + "boundaries_044", + "boundaries_045", + "boundaries_047", + "boundaries_048", + "boundaries_050", + "boundaries_052", + "boundaries_056", + "boundaries_059", + "boundaries_063", + "boundaries_064", + "boundaries_068", + "boundaries_070", + "boundaries_073", + "boundaries_075", + "boundaries_077", + "boundaries_078", + "boundaries_081", + "boundaries_083", + "boundaries_084", + "boundaries_086", + "boundaries_087", + "boundaries_088", + "boundaries_089", + "boundaries_091", + "boundaries_093", + "boundaries_094", + "boundaries_097", + "boundaries_100", + "boundaries_103", + "boundaries_108", + "boundaries_110", + "boundaries_112", + "boundaries_114", + "boundaries_118", + "boundaries_119", + "boundaries_120", + "boundaries_122", + "boundaries_124", + "boundaries_125", + "boundaries_126", + "boundaries_128", + "boundaries_133", + "boundaries_134", + "boundaries_138", + "boundaries_139", + "boundaries_144", + "boundaries_147", + "boundaries_148", + "boundaries_150" + ], + "final_editorial_focus": "Reduced repeated Which-stem rhythm, improved natural read-aloud flow, clarified online-sharing and family prompts, and removed remaining worksheet-like phrasing without changing scope or counts.", + "cross_pack_review_changed_questions": 5, + "cross_pack_review_changed_ids": [ + "boundaries_004", + "boundaries_010", + "boundaries_106", + "boundaries_107", + "boundaries_145" + ], + "cross_pack_review_focus": "Reduced close wording overlap with Communication, Emotional Intimacy, and Sex & Desire; replaced two consent-check prompts with broader physical-autonomy preferences that belong more clearly in Boundaries." } }, "questions": [ { "id": "boundaries_001", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "When you need a little space, what helps it feel normal instead of personal?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When you need time alone, what kind feels best?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "space", "alone_time", + "personal_space", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_time_in_another_room", + "text": "Quiet time in another room" + }, + { + "id": "a_solo_errand_or_drive", + "text": "A solo errand or drive" + }, + { + "id": "time_with_a_personal_hobby", + "text": "Time with a personal hobby" + }, + { + "id": "a_walk_outside_by_myself", + "text": "A walk outside by myself" + } + ] } }, { "id": "boundaries_002", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small home boundary that would make daily life feel calmer?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What usually tells you that you need some space?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "home", - "calm", + "alone_time", + "self_awareness", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_get_quieter_than_usual", + "text": "I get quieter than usual" + }, + { + "id": "my_answers_get_shorter", + "text": "My answers get shorter" + }, + { + "id": "i_feel_restless_or_crowded", + "text": "I feel restless or crowded" + }, + { + "id": "i_focus_hard_on_something_else", + "text": "I focus hard on something else" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_003", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel trusted when we are using our phones?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does alone time feel easiest between us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "phones", - "trust", + "alone_time", + "reconnection", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_clear_heads_up", + "text": "A clear heads-up" + }, + { + "id": "a_rough_idea_of_when_we_will_reconnect", + "text": "A rough idea of when we will reconnect" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_goodbye", + "text": "A warm goodbye" + }, + { + "id": "no_questions_the_second_i_return", + "text": "No questions the second I return" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_004", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one topic you wish we handled more gently?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it to ask me for time alone?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", - "gentleness", + "alone_time", + "comfort", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "It is hard to ask", + "max_label": "It feels easy to say" } }, { "id": "boundaries_005", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "When you are tired, what kind of help feels supportive instead of pushy?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Same room, separate things or completely separate spaces?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "rest", - "support", + "alone_time", + "fun_first", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "same_room_separate_things", + "text": "Same room, separate things" + }, + { + "id": "completely_separate_spaces", + "text": "Completely separate spaces" + } + ] } }, { "id": "boundaries_006", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is a simple way we can protect time for just us?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What do you prefer deciding on your own?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "couple_time", - "priorities", + "autonomy", + "daily_life", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "what_i_wear", + "text": "What I wear" + }, + { + "id": "what_i_eat_when_i_am_alone", + "text": "What I eat when I am alone" + }, + { + "id": "how_i_spend_free_time", + "text": "How I spend free time" + }, + { + "id": "small_personal_purchases", + "text": "Small personal purchases" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_007", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a joke feel playful instead of hurtful?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When you say no, what response feels most respectful?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "humor", + "saying_no", "respect", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "accept_it_without_pushing", + "text": "Accept it without pushing" + }, + { + "id": "ask_one_calm_question", + "text": "Ask one calm question" + }, + { + "id": "give_me_a_little_space", + "text": "Give me a little space" + }, + { + "id": "check_back_another_day", + "text": "Check back another day" + } + ] } }, { "id": "boundaries_008", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would make mornings feel smoother?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make a small request feel bigger than it is?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "routines", - "mornings", + "requests", + "pressure", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "bad_timing", + "text": "Bad timing" + }, + { + "id": "being_asked_more_than_once", + "text": "Being asked more than once" + }, + { + "id": "a_guilty_tone", + "text": "A guilty tone" + }, + { + "id": "other_people_being_present", + "text": "Other people being present" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_009", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would make bedtime feel more peaceful?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When are interruptions hardest for you?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "routines", - "sleep", + "interruptions", + "personal_space", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "when_i_am_sleeping", + "text": "When I am sleeping" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_am_concentrating", + "text": "When I am concentrating" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_am_decompressing", + "text": "When I am decompressing" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_am_on_a_call", + "text": "When I am on a call" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_010", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "When plans change, what helps you feel considered?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How often do we notice the need for space before tension builds?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "plans", - "scheduling", + "personal_space", + "awareness", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "We usually notice late", + "max_label": "We usually catch it early" } }, { "id": "boundaries_011", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel respected during a hard conversation?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which reconnects feel good after alone time?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "respect", + "alone_time", + "reconnection", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_warm_hello", + "text": "A warm hello" + }, + { + "id": "no_interrogation", + "text": "No interrogation" + }, + { + "id": "an_easy_shared_snack", + "text": "An easy shared snack" + }, + { + "id": "a_normal_conversation", + "text": "A normal conversation" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_012", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we could stop doing while arguing?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which personal space matters most to you at home?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "conflict", - "repair", + "home_space", + "personal_space", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_drawer_or_shelf_of_my_own", + "text": "A drawer or shelf of my own" + }, + { + "id": "a_favorite_chair_or_desk", + "text": "A favorite chair or desk" + }, + { + "id": "a_quiet_corner", + "text": "A quiet corner" + }, + { + "id": "time_alone_in_the_bedroom", + "text": "Time alone in the bedroom" + } + ] } }, { "id": "boundaries_013", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes affection feel welcome instead of expected?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should always be ask-first?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "affection", - "consent", + "permission", + "privacy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "borrowing_something_valuable", + "text": "Borrowing something valuable" + }, + { + "id": "reading_a_message_on_my_screen", + "text": "Reading a message on my screen" + }, + { + "id": "inviting_someone_over", + "text": "Inviting someone over" + }, + { + "id": "sharing_news_about_me", + "text": "Sharing news about me" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_014", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of check-in feels helpful without feeling like an interrogation?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which details make a boundary sound caring instead of cold?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "check_ins", - "communication", + "boundary_requests", + "tone", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "plain_direct_words", + "text": "Plain, direct words" + }, + { + "id": "a_kind_tone", + "text": "A kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "a_short_honest_reason", + "text": "A short honest reason" + }, + { + "id": "saying_what_is_still_okay", + "text": "Saying what is still okay" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_015", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can make privacy feel trusting, not secretive?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which request for space would be easiest to hear?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "privacy", - "trust", + "alone_time", + "wording", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_need_an_hour_to_myself", + "text": "I need an hour to myself" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_overloaded_and_need_quiet", + "text": "I am overloaded and need quiet" + }, + { + "id": "i_want_to_finish_this_alone", + "text": "I want to finish this alone" + }, + { + "id": "can_we_reconnect_after_i_clear_my_head", + "text": "Can we reconnect after I clear my head?" + } + ] } }, { "id": "boundaries_016", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "When family gets involved, what helps our relationship still feel protected?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should never require a long defense?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "family", - "couple_boundary", + "autonomy", + "saying_no", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "needing_sleep", + "text": "Needing sleep" + }, + { + "id": "declining_a_social_plan", + "text": "Declining a social plan" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_a_conversation_private", + "text": "Keeping a conversation private" + }, + { + "id": "taking_time_to_think", + "text": "Taking time to think" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_017", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What money habit would make things feel calmer between us?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much room do we give each other to change our minds?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "money", - "stress", + "changing_limits", + "autonomy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not enough room", + "max_label": "Plenty of room" } }, { "id": "boundaries_018", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What chore boundary would make home feel more fair?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can a no stay free of guilt?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "chores", - "home", + "saying_no", + "pressure", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_answer_is_accepted_once", + "text": "The answer is accepted once" + }, + { + "id": "affection_stays_normal", + "text": "Affection stays normal" + }, + { + "id": "no_scorekeeping_later", + "text": "No scorekeeping later" + }, + { + "id": "no_need_for_a_long_explanation", + "text": "No need for a long explanation" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_019", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you say no without feeling guilty?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What boundaries are easiest for you to say out loud?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "no", - "guilt", + "self_awareness", + "boundary_requests", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_need_some_space", + "text": "I need some space" + }, + { + "id": "i_cannot_fit_that_into_my_schedule", + "text": "I cannot fit that into my schedule" + }, + { + "id": "please_ask_before_borrowing_that", + "text": "Please ask before borrowing that" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_not_up_for_that_plan", + "text": "I am not up for that plan" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_020", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you hear no without feeling rejected?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is your first sign that a limit has been reached?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "no", - "rejection", + "self_awareness", + "limits", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_need_quiet", + "text": "I need quiet" + }, + { + "id": "i_get_irritated", + "text": "I get irritated" + }, + { + "id": "i_start_pulling_away", + "text": "I start pulling away" + }, + { + "id": "i_say_it_directly", + "text": "I say it directly" + } + ] } }, { "id": "boundaries_021", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you wish we asked before assuming?", + "text": "What is one small boundary that would make daily life easier?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "assumptions", - "communication", + "daily_life", + "written", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { @@ -359,445 +876,890 @@ { "id": "boundaries_022", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes alone time feel healthy for us?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a limit easy to remember?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "alone_time", - "space", + "clarity", + "boundary_requests", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_wording_is_simple", + "text": "The wording is simple" + }, + { + "id": "they_connect_to_a_specific_place", + "text": "They connect to a specific place" + }, + { + "id": "they_have_a_clear_trigger", + "text": "They have a clear trigger" + }, + { + "id": "they_fit_an_existing_routine", + "text": "They fit an existing routine" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_023", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of social media boundary would help us feel more secure?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Where does healthy privacy matter most to you?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "social_media", - "security", + "privacy", + "autonomy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "thoughts_i_am_not_ready_to_share", + "text": "Thoughts I am not ready to share" + }, + { + "id": "private_messages", + "text": "Private messages" + }, + { + "id": "solo_hobbies", + "text": "Solo hobbies" + }, + { + "id": "something_a_friend_told_me_in_confidence", + "text": "Something a friend told me in confidence" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_024", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel like friends fit into our life in a healthy way?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "After one of us asks for space, what feels right?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "friendships", - "balance", + "alone_time", + "respect", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "accepting_it_without_offense", + "text": "Accepting it without offense" + }, + { + "id": "agreeing_when_to_reconnect", + "text": "Agreeing when to reconnect" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_necessary_plans_clear", + "text": "Keeping necessary plans clear" + }, + { + "id": "letting_silence_be_okay", + "text": "Letting silence be okay" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_025", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would help you decompress after work?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes independence feel healthy between us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "work", - "stress", + "independence", + "autonomy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "cheering_each_other_on", + "text": "Cheering each other on" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_separate_friendships", + "text": "Keeping separate friendships" + }, + { + "id": "having_solo_interests", + "text": "Having solo interests" + }, + { + "id": "not_needing_constant_updates", + "text": "Not needing constant updates" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_026", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we could keep between us instead of sharing with others?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which phone boundary matters most at bedtime?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "privacy", - "outside_people", + "phones", + "sleep", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_phones_in_bed", + "text": "No phones in bed" + }, + { + "id": "a_quick_check_then_phones_away", + "text": "A quick check, then phones away" + }, + { + "id": "silent_mode_for_both_phones", + "text": "Silent mode for both phones" + }, + { + "id": "charging_phones_away_from_us", + "text": "Charging phones away from us" + } + ] } }, { "id": "boundaries_027", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "When one of us is overwhelmed, what should the other avoid doing?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What phone habits feel respectful when we are together?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress", - "support", + "phones", + "daily_life", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "turning_the_screen_down", + "text": "Turning the screen down" + }, + { + "id": "mentioning_when_a_reply_is_urgent", + "text": "Mentioning when a reply is urgent" + }, + { + "id": "not_reading_over_each_other_s_shoulder", + "text": "Not reading over each other’s shoulder" + }, + { + "id": "asking_before_sharing_a_photo", + "text": "Asking before sharing a photo" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_028", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes asking for space feel kind instead of cold?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should stay private unless we both agree?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "space", - "kindness", + "privacy", + "private_information", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_disagreements", + "text": "Our disagreements" + }, + { + "id": "our_sex_life", + "text": "Our sex life" + }, + { + "id": "our_financial_details", + "text": "Our financial details" + }, + { + "id": "family_problems_told_in_confidence", + "text": "Family problems told in confidence" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_029", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one tiny boundary that would prevent a lot of irritation?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How comfortable are you with us using each other’s phones?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "irritation", + "phones", + "privacy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "I prefer them separate", + "max_label": "I am fully comfortable" } }, { "id": "boundaries_030", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does respectful teasing look like to you?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes social media sharing feel considerate?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "humor", - "respect", + "social_media", + "public_sharing", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "checking_before_relationship_news", + "text": "Checking before relationship news" + }, + { + "id": "letting_me_approve_photos_of_myself", + "text": "Letting me approve photos of myself" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_private_jokes_private", + "text": "Keeping private jokes private" + }, + { + "id": "respecting_days_i_do_not_want_to_post", + "text": "Respecting days I do not want to post" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_031", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel safe bringing up something awkward?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Post it or keep it between us?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "awkward_topics", - "safety", + "social_media", + "fun_first", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "post_it", + "text": "Post it" + }, + { + "id": "keep_it_between_us", + "text": "Keep it between us" + } + ] } }, { "id": "boundaries_032", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would help us enjoy time together more?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of online sharing needs a check-in first?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "couple_time", - "fun", + "social_media", + "public_sharing", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "an_unflattering_photo", + "text": "An unflattering photo" + }, + { + "id": "relationship_news", + "text": "Relationship news" + }, + { + "id": "our_live_location", + "text": "Our live location" + }, + { + "id": "a_personal_story_about_me", + "text": "A personal story about me" + } + ] } }, { "id": "boundaries_033", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "When we are out with other people, what helps you feel respected by me?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Where should privacy be the default online?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "public", - "respect", + "digital_privacy", + "autonomy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "email", + "text": "Email" + }, + { + "id": "notes_and_drafts", + "text": "Notes and drafts" + }, + { + "id": "private_chats", + "text": "Private chats" + }, + { + "id": "search_history", + "text": "Search history" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_034", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes personal space feel respected at home?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps location sharing practical without becoming controlling?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "home", - "personal_space", + "location_sharing", + "safety", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_stays_optional", + "text": "It stays optional" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_a_clear_reason_for_it", + "text": "There is a clear reason for it" + }, + { + "id": "either_person_can_pause_it", + "text": "Either person can pause it" + }, + { + "id": "it_never_becomes_an_interrogation", + "text": "It never becomes an interrogation" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_035", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us avoid snapping when we are hungry, tired, or stressed?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How clear are our expectations about online privacy?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress", - "daily_life", + "digital_privacy", + "clarity", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Mostly unclear", + "max_label": "Very clear" } }, { "id": "boundaries_036", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel comfortable asking for quiet time?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can we usually borrow without asking?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "quiet_time", - "comfort", + "belongings", + "shared_space", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_phone_charger", + "text": "A phone charger" + }, + { + "id": "a_blanket", + "text": "A blanket" + }, + { + "id": "a_kitchen_item", + "text": "A kitchen item" + }, + { + "id": "a_household_tool", + "text": "A household tool" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_037", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would make weekends feel better?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What borrowing rule fits personal belongings best?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "weekends", - "planning", + "belongings", + "permission", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_every_time", + "text": "Ask every time" + }, + { + "id": "ask_once_then_remember", + "text": "Ask once, then remember" + }, + { + "id": "ask_only_for_valuable_items", + "text": "Ask only for valuable items" + }, + { + "id": "decide_item_by_item", + "text": "Decide item by item" + } + ] } }, { "id": "boundaries_038", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would make date night easier to enjoy?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What feels more personal than it might look?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "date_night", - "fun", + "belongings", + "privacy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "clothes", + "text": "Clothes" + }, + { + "id": "notebooks", + "text": "Notebooks" + }, + { + "id": "headphones", + "text": "Headphones" + }, + { + "id": "keepsakes", + "text": "Keepsakes" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_039", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel included without needing every detail?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "For a shared account, what feels fair?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "privacy", - "trust", + "shared_accounts", + "digital_privacy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_people_know_who_has_access", + "text": "Both people know who has access" + }, + { + "id": "it_has_one_clear_purpose", + "text": "It has one clear purpose" + }, + { + "id": "no_surprise_setting_changes", + "text": "No surprise setting changes" + }, + { + "id": "either_person_can_opt_out", + "text": "Either person can opt out" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_040", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of reminder feels helpful instead of nagging?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How comfortable are you with surprise photos of you?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "reminders", - "tone", + "photos", + "public_sharing", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Please ask first", + "max_label": "Usually fine with me" } }, { "id": "boundaries_041", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we should not discuss when either of us is already upset?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When would you rather keep the camera away?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timing", - "conflict", + "photos", + "privacy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "hard_conversations", + "text": "Hard conversations" + }, + { + "id": "sick_or_exhausted_moments", + "text": "Sick or exhausted moments" + }, + { + "id": "private_affection", + "text": "Private affection" + }, + { + "id": "emotional_family_moments", + "text": "Emotional family moments" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_042", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel like your belongings are respected?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of privacy matters most to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "belongings", - "home", + "privacy", + "preferences", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "digital_privacy", + "text": "Digital privacy" + }, + { + "id": "personal_belongings", + "text": "Personal belongings" + }, + { + "id": "unshared_thoughts", + "text": "Unshared thoughts" + }, + { + "id": "time_alone", + "text": "Time alone" + } + ] } }, { "id": "boundaries_043", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should be a phone-free moment for us?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should we ask about before telling friends?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "phones", - "couple_time", + "private_information", + "friends", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "details_from_an_argument", + "text": "Details from an argument" + }, + { + "id": "health_news", + "text": "Health news" + }, + { + "id": "money_news", + "text": "Money news" + }, + { + "id": "intimate_details", + "text": "Intimate details" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_044", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can give each other breathing room without drifting apart?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What digital habits feel intrusive, even when meant kindly?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "space", - "connection", + "digital_privacy", + "pressure", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "checking_online_status", + "text": "Checking online status" + }, + { + "id": "reading_message_previews", + "text": "Reading message previews" + }, + { + "id": "asking_who_every_message_is_from", + "text": "Asking who every message is from" + }, + { + "id": "watching_location_updates", + "text": "Watching location updates" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_045", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would make you feel more relaxed in our relationship?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps a shared calendar useful without feeling invasive?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "calm", - "relationship", + "scheduling", + "digital_privacy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "only_joint_plans_are_required", + "text": "Only joint plans are required" + }, + { + "id": "personal_details_stay_optional", + "text": "Personal details stay optional" + }, + { + "id": "no_minute_by_minute_tracking", + "text": "No minute-by-minute tracking" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_room_for_spontaneous_plans", + "text": "There is room for spontaneous plans" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_046", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "When you ask for space, what response from me would make you feel loved?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "If a password is shared, what should that mean?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "space", - "love", + "passwords", + "privacy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "practical_backup_only", + "text": "Practical backup only" + }, + { + "id": "open_access_anytime", + "text": "Open access anytime" + }, + { + "id": "ask_before_using_it", + "text": "Ask before using it" + }, + { + "id": "it_depends_on_the_account", + "text": "It depends on the account" + } + ] } }, { "id": "boundaries_047", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us protect our relationship from outside opinions?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Where do we need clearer online agreements?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "outside_people", - "relationship", + "social_media", + "outside_attention", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "flirty_messages", + "text": "Flirty messages" + }, + { + "id": "contact_with_an_ex", + "text": "Contact with an ex" + }, + { + "id": "private_messages_that_turn_personal", + "text": "Private messages that turn personal" + }, + { + "id": "public_comments_that_cross_a_line", + "text": "Public comments that cross a line" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_048", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you wish we kept more private as a couple?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps outside friendships respectful to us?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "friends", "privacy", - "couple_boundary", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_private_life_does_not_become_gossip", + "text": "Our private life does not become gossip" + }, + { + "id": "friends_confidences_stay_protected", + "text": "Friends’ confidences stay protected" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_room_for_private_conversations", + "text": "There is room for private conversations" + }, + { + "id": "we_speak_up_if_a_line_starts_to_blur", + "text": "We speak up if a line starts to blur" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_049", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of family involvement feels helpful, and what starts to feel like too much?", + "text": "What is one thing you want kept just between us?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "limits", + "private_information", + "written", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { @@ -807,2104 +1769,682 @@ { "id": "boundaries_050", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "When friends need us, how do we protect our time without feeling selfish?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should never become a joke outside our relationship?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "friendships", - "time", + "privacy", + "humor", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "an_insecurity", + "text": "An insecurity" + }, + { + "id": "an_intimate_moment", + "text": "An intimate moment" + }, + { + "id": "a_family_problem", + "text": "A family problem" + }, + { + "id": "something_told_in_confidence", + "text": "Something told in confidence" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_051", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should we do if one of us feels uncomfortable with a friendship?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How much notice feels fair before someone visits?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "friendships", - "security", + "visitors", + "home_space", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_quick_same_day_check", + "text": "A quick same-day check" + }, + { + "id": "at_least_one_day", + "text": "At least one day" + }, + { + "id": "a_few_days", + "text": "A few days" + }, + { + "id": "it_depends_who_is_coming", + "text": "It depends who is coming" + } + ] } }, { "id": "boundaries_052", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel secure without either of us feeling controlled?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Before involving family, what should we decide ourselves?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "security", - "independence", + "family", + "couple_decisions", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "holiday_plans", + "text": "Holiday plans" + }, + { + "id": "requests_for_financial_help", + "text": "Requests for financial help" + }, + { + "id": "choices_about_our_home", + "text": "Choices about our home" + }, + { + "id": "relationship_news", + "text": "Relationship news" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_053", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one phone habit that could quietly hurt trust between us?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does family advice feel helpful rather than involved?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "phones", - "trust", + "family", + "outside_advice", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "they_ask_before_advising", + "text": "They ask before advising" + }, + { + "id": "they_hear_both_sides", + "text": "They hear both sides" + }, + { + "id": "they_do_not_pressure_us", + "text": "They do not pressure us" + }, + { + "id": "the_final_choice_stays_ours", + "text": "The final choice stays ours" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_054", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What phone boundary would make you feel respected without feeling monitored?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How protected does our relationship feel from outside opinions?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "phones", - "privacy", + "outside_opinions", + "family", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Too exposed", + "max_label": "Well protected" } }, { "id": "boundaries_055", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "When we disagree about social media, what should matter most?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Drop-in visits or planned visits?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "social_media", - "values", + "visitors", + "fun_first", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "drop_in_visits", + "text": "Drop-in visits" + }, + { + "id": "planned_visits", + "text": "Planned visits" + } + ] } }, { "id": "boundaries_056", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we should agree not to post about each other?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When do friend plans need a heads-up?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "social_media", - "privacy", + "friends", + "scheduling", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "being_out_late", + "text": "Being out late" + }, + { + "id": "an_overnight_trip", + "text": "An overnight trip" + }, + { + "id": "hosting_at_home", + "text": "Hosting at home" + }, + { + "id": "changing_plans_we_already_made", + "text": "Changing plans we already made" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_057", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does healthy privacy look like in a committed relationship?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When a friend needs a lot, which limit matters most?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy", - "trust", + "friends", + "emotional_bandwidth", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "protecting_plans_we_already_made", + "text": "Protecting plans we already made" + }, + { + "id": "being_honest_about_available_time", + "text": "Being honest about available time" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_our_private_life_private", + "text": "Keeping our private life private" + }, + { + "id": "not_becoming_the_only_support_person", + "text": "Not becoming the only support person" + } + ] } }, { "id": "boundaries_058", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one financial boundary that would lower stress for both of us?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which habits help friendships and our relationship fit together?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money", - "stress", + "friends", + "independence", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "independent_friend_time", + "text": "Independent friend time" + }, + { + "id": "social_time_we_both_enjoy", + "text": "Social time we both enjoy" + }, + { + "id": "no_jealousy_games", + "text": "No jealousy games" + }, + { + "id": "protecting_plans_already_made", + "text": "Protecting plans already made" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_059", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "When should a purchase become something we talk about first?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What is hardest to turn down when someone asks?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money", - "decisions", + "outside_obligations", + "teamwork", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "last_minute_favors", + "text": "Last-minute favors" + }, + { + "id": "surprise_visits", + "text": "Surprise visits" + }, + { + "id": "requests_to_lend_money", + "text": "Requests to lend money" + }, + { + "id": "holiday_pressure", + "text": "Holiday pressure" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "boundaries_060", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What money conversation do we need to make less tense?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it for us to decline plans without guilt?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "money", - "communication", + "social_plans", + "saying_no", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "It often feels hard", + "max_label": "It usually feels easy" } }, { "id": "boundaries_061", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us avoid resentment around chores?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which parts of our life should stay ours to decide?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "chores", - "resentment", + "family", + "autonomy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_home_rules", + "text": "Our home rules" + }, + { + "id": "our_schedule", + "text": "Our schedule" + }, + { + "id": "private_disagreements", + 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you do not want us to cross when we are joking?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "humor", - "limits", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_134", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you trust that my boundaries are not a punishment?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "trust", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_135", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps me know when I am getting close to one of your limits?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "signals", - "limits", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_136", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one signal that means you need me to slow down?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "signals", - "slow_down", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_137", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "When you go quiet, what should I not assume?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "quiet", - "assumptions", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_138", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you come back from being overwhelmed?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "overwhelm", - "repair", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_139", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help us enjoy family without losing ourselves?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "family", - "self", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_140", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What outside stress do we need to stop bringing into our private time?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "private_time", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_141", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes our relationship feel protected from the noise around us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "protection", - "relationship", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_142", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would help us laugh more and argue less?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun", - "conflict", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_143", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make boundaries feel like teamwork instead of rules?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_144", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would make you feel more free to be yourself with me?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "authenticity", - "freedom", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_145", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary you are proud of yourself for having?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "self_respect", - "confidence", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_146", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary do you want me to understand better, even if it is hard to explain?", - 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"boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_150", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would make us feel more like partners than opponents?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "relationship", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_151", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of space feels healthiest to you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "space", + "commitments", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_time", - "text": "Quiet time" - }, - { - "id": "solo_activity", - "text": "Doing my own thing" - }, - { - "id": "short_break", - "text": "A short break" - }, - { - "id": "same_room", - "text": "Same room, separate activities" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_152", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which phone-free moment matters most?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "phones", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "meals", - "text": "Meals" - }, - { - "id": "bedtime", - "text": "Bedtime" - }, { "id": "date_time", "text": "Date time" }, { - "id": "hard_talks", - "text": "Hard talks" + "id": "a_planned_rest_night", + "text": "A planned rest night" + }, + { + "id": "a_family_commitment", + "text": "A family commitment" + }, + { + "id": "a_personal_appointment", + "text": "A personal appointment" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "boundaries_153", + "id": "boundaries_065", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps a no feel kind?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "no", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_tone", - "text": "A soft tone" - }, - { - "id": "simple_reason", - "text": "A 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"depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "reminders", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "text", - "text": "A text" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_words", - "text": "Gentle words" - }, - { - "id": "calendar", - "text": "Calendar" - }, - { - "id": "no_reminder", - "text": "No reminder" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_156", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When you are overwhelmed, what helps most?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which habits make saying no to family easier as a team?", "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "overwhelm", + "family", + "teamwork", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" + "id": "using_the_same_message", + "text": "Using the same message" }, { - "id": "hug", - "text": "A hug" + "id": "not_blaming_the_other_partner", + "text": "Not blaming the other partner" }, { - "id": "help_with_task", - "text": "Help with a task" + "id": "deciding_privately_first", + "text": "Deciding privately first" }, { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" + "id": "supporting_each_other_afterward", + "text": "Supporting each other afterward" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "boundaries_157", + "id": "boundaries_067", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which topic needs the gentlest timing?", + "text": "Which boundary is hardest with people you love?", "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "timing", + "family", + "friends", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ + { + "id": "time", + "text": "Time" + }, { "id": "money", "text": "Money" }, { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" + "id": "unwanted_advice", + "text": "Unwanted advice" }, { - "id": "chores", - "text": "Chores" - }, - { - "id": "intimacy", - "text": "Intimacy" + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" } ] } }, { - "id": "boundaries_158", + "id": "boundaries_068", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a boundary easiest to hear?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "clear_words", - "text": "Clear words" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_159", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which outside influence needs the clearest limit?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "outside_people", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "friends", - "text": "Friends" - }, - { - "id": "work", - "text": "Work" - }, - { - "id": "social_media", - "text": "Social media" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_160", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us reset after snapping?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "repair", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "apology", - "text": "An apology" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_pause", - "text": "A quiet pause" - }, - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "A little humor" - }, - { - "id": "hug", - "text": "A hug" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_161", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which privacy boundary matters most to you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "phones", - "text": "Phones" - }, - { - "id": "messages", - "text": "Messages" - }, - { - "id": "past", - "text": "Past experiences" - }, - { - "id": "private_talks", - "text": "Our private talks" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_162", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes affection feel best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "affection", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "spontaneous", - "text": "Spontaneous" - }, - { - "id": "asked_first", - "text": "Asked first" - }, - { - "id": "slow", - "text": "Slow" - }, - { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_163", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of plan feels easiest?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What drains your social energy fastest?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "planning", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "loose_plan", - "text": "Loose plan" - }, - { - "id": "clear_plan", - "text": "Clear plan" - }, - { - "id": "backup_plan", - "text": "Backup plan" - }, - { - "id": "same_day", - "text": "Same-day plan" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_164", - "category_id": 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"max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_071", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "If one of us wants to leave early, what works best?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "social_plans", + "signals", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2914,820 +2454,420 @@ "text": "Say it directly" }, { - "id": "touch_my_hand", - "text": "Touch my hand" + "id": "use_a_private_signal", + "text": "Use a private signal" }, { - "id": "ask_if_now_is_good", - "text": "Ask if now is good" + "id": "agree_on_a_time_beforehand", + "text": "Agree on a time beforehand" }, { - "id": "send_a_text", - "text": "Send a text" + "id": "leave_separately_if_needed", + "text": "Leave separately if needed" } ] } }, { - "id": "boundaries_167", + "id": "boundaries_072", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which boundary should we protect during family visits?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should stay ours during holidays?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "holidays", "family", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "private_time", - "text": "Private time" + "id": "some_private_time", + "text": "Some private time" }, { - "id": "bedtime", - "text": "Bedtime" + "id": "our_spending_limit", + "text": "Our spending limit" }, { - "id": "money_talk", - "text": "Money talk" + "id": "traditions_we_choose_together", + "text": "Traditions we choose together" }, { - "id": "parenting_choices", - "text": "Parenting choices" + "id": "the_right_to_decline_extras", + "text": "The right to decline extras" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_073", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Before saying yes, what outside commitments need a conversation?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "outside_obligations", + "couple_decisions", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "overnight_guests", + "text": "Overnight guests" + }, + { + "id": "lending_shared_money", + "text": "Lending shared money" + }, + { + "id": "a_long_trip", + "text": "A long trip" + }, + { + "id": "a_recurring_weekly_commitment", + "text": "A recurring weekly commitment" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_074", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "written", + "text": "What is one outside pressure you want us to handle as a team?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "outside_pressure", + "written", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_075", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What protects our time without shutting others out?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "couple_time", + "outside_obligations", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "making_plans_early", + "text": "Making plans early" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_some_flexible_time", + "text": "Keeping some flexible time" + }, + { + "id": "explaining_limits_kindly", + "text": "Explaining limits kindly" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_priorities_together", + "text": "Choosing priorities together" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_076", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When work follows us home, which limit matters most?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "work", + "home_space", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_firm_end_time", + "text": "A firm end time" + }, + { + "id": "no_work_during_meals", + "text": "No work during meals" + }, + { + "id": "no_work_during_planned_couple_time", + "text": "No work during planned couple time" + }, + { + "id": "a_separate_work_area", + "text": "A separate work area" } ] } }, { - "id": "boundaries_168", + "id": "boundaries_077", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When can work reasonably interrupt personal time?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "work", + "interruptions", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_true_emergency", + "text": "A true emergency" + }, + { + "id": "a_deadline_that_affects_tomorrow", + "text": "A deadline that affects tomorrow" + }, + { + "id": "a_scheduled_on_call_issue", + "text": "A scheduled on-call issue" + }, + { + "id": "a_message_only_one_person_can_answer", + "text": "A message only one person can answer" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_078", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps work time feel respected at home?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "work", + "personal_space", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_start_and_end_times", + "text": "Clear start and end times" + }, + { + "id": "a_visible_do_not_disturb_signal", + "text": "A visible do-not-disturb signal" + }, + { + "id": "asking_before_interrupting", + "text": "Asking before interrupting" + }, + { + "id": "real_breaks_during_long_stretches", + "text": "Real breaks during long stretches" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_079", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well do we protect rest from work demands?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "work", + "rest", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Work often takes over", + "max_label": "Rest stays protected" + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_080", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Work talk now or after dinner?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "work", + "fun_first", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "talk_about_it_now", + "text": "Talk about it now" + }, + { + "id": "wait_until_after_dinner", + "text": "Wait until after dinner" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_081", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When does a schedule change need a heads-up?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "scheduling", + "consideration", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "running_late", + "text": "Running late" + }, + { + "id": "adding_guests", + "text": "Adding guests" + }, + { + "id": "changing_shared_plans", + "text": "Changing shared plans" + }, + { + "id": "becoming_unavailable", + "text": "Becoming unavailable" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_082", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of money check-in feels least stressful?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How much planning feels best for weekends?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "scheduling", + "weekends", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_loose_idea", + "text": "A loose idea" + }, + { + "id": "one_anchor_plan", + "text": "One anchor plan" + }, + { + "id": "most_of_it_planned", + "text": "Most of it planned" + }, + { + "id": "decide_as_we_go", + "text": "Decide as we go" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_083", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a last-minute change easier to take?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "scheduling", + "changes", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "saying_it_as_early_as_possible", + "text": "Saying it as early as possible" + }, + { + "id": "explaining_how_it_affects_us", + "text": "Explaining how it affects us" + }, + { + "id": "asking_instead_of_announcing", + "text": "Asking instead of announcing" + }, + { + "id": "helping_make_a_new_plan", + "text": "Helping make a new plan" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_084", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What expenses make sense to keep individual?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "money", + "autonomy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ - { - "id": "short_weekly", - "text": "Short weekly" - }, - { - "id": "monthly", - "text": "Monthly" - }, - { - "id": "only_when_needed", - "text": "Only when needed" - }, - { - "id": "written_first", - "text": "Written first" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_169", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which argument pause would help most?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "conflict", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ten_minutes", - "text": "10 minutes" - }, - { - "id": "thirty_minutes", - "text": "30 minutes" - }, - { - "id": "sleep_on_it", - "text": "Sleep on it" - }, - { - "id": "walk_together", - "text": "Walk together" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_170", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should a pause during conflict mean?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "conflict", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "stop_for_now", - "text": "Stop for now" - }, - { - "id": "cool_off", - "text": "Cool off" - }, - { - "id": "protect_us", - "text": "Protect us" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_171", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tone feels hardest to stay open to?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "tone", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sarcasm", - "text": "Sarcasm" - }, - { - "id": "cold", - "text": "Cold" - }, - { - "id": "loud", - "text": "Loud" - }, - { - "id": "dismissive", - "text": "Dismissive" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_172", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of privacy should be strongest between us?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "arguments", - "text": "Arguments" - }, - { - "id": "intimacy", - "text": "Intimacy" - }, - { - "id": "finances", - "text": "Finances" - }, - { - "id": "family_issues", - "text": "Family issues" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_173", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel independent and still close?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "independence", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "solo_time", - "text": "Solo time" - }, - { - "id": "own_hobbies", - "text": "Own hobbies" - }, - { - "id": "trusted_privacy", - "text": "Trusted privacy" - }, - { - "id": "planned_reconnect", - "text": "Planned reconnect" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_174", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which boundary would make intimacy feel safer?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "intimacy", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "easy_no", - "text": "An easy no" - }, - { - "id": "asking_first", - "text": "Asking first" - }, - { - "id": "more_privacy", - "text": "More privacy" - }, - { - "id": "slower_pace", - "text": "Slower pace" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_175", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you hear feedback without shutting down?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feedback", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "specific_example", - "text": "A specific example" - }, - { - "id": "no_pile_on", - "text": "No pile-on" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_176", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a boundary feel loving?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "love", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_reason", - "text": "Clear reason" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_tone", - "text": "Gentle tone" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "respect_both_sides", - "text": "Respect for both sides" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_177", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which situation needs a firmer line?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "limits", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "family_pressure", - "text": "Family pressure" - }, - { - "id": "work_intrusion", - "text": "Work intrusion" - }, - { - "id": "phone_distraction", - "text": "Phone distraction" - }, - { - "id": "old_arguments", - "text": "Old arguments" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_178", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of affection boundary should we talk about first?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "affection", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "public_affection", - "text": "Public affection" - }, - { - "id": "when_tired", - "text": "When tired" - }, - { - "id": "after_conflict", - "text": "After conflict" - }, - { - "id": "sexual_pressure", - "text": "Sexual pressure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_179", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel less crowded?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "space", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_room", - "text": "A quiet room" - }, - { - "id": "headphones", - "text": "Headphones" - }, - { - "id": "solo_errand", - "text": "A solo errand" - }, - { - "id": "early_bed", - "text": "Going to bed early" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_180", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which shared-space rule sounds most helpful?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_before_moving", - "text": "Ask before moving things" - }, - { - "id": "reset_rooms", - "text": "Reset rooms" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_zone", - "text": "Quiet zone" - }, - { - "id": "personal_shelf", - "text": "Personal shelf" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_181", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When we are around others, what matters most?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "public", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_teasing", - "text": "No hurtful teasing" - }, - { - "id": "back_each_other", - "text": "Back each other up" - }, - { - "id": "keep_private_private", - "text": "Keep private things private" - }, - { - "id": "check_in", - "text": "Check in" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_182", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which boundary would help with last-minute plans?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "planning", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "notice_needed", - "text": "Need notice" - }, - { - "id": "easy_decline", - "text": "Easy decline" - }, - { - "id": "backup_plan", - "text": "Backup plan" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_183", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when one of us changes our mind?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "flexibility", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_guilt", - "text": "No guilt" - }, - { - "id": "quick_update", - "text": "Quick update" - }, - { - "id": "new_plan", - "text": "New plan" - }, - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_184", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a boundary reminder feel safe?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "reminders", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "private", - "text": "Private" - }, - { - "id": "gentle", - "text": "Gentle" - }, - { - "id": "short", - "text": "Short" - }, - { - "id": "with_humor", - "text": "With humor" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_185", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which small boundary would make the biggest difference?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "small_boundaries", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "less_interrupting", - "text": "Less interrupting" - }, - { - "id": "more_notice", - "text": "More notice" - }, - { - "id": "phone_free_time", - "text": "Phone-free time" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_time", - "text": "Quiet time" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_186", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do after accidentally crossing a line?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "repair", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "apologize_fast", - "text": "Apologize quickly" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_helps", - "text": "Ask what helps" - }, - { - "id": "give_space", - "text": "Give space" - }, - { - "id": "try_again", - "text": "Try again" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_187", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which boundary should never be mocked?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "respect", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "body", - "text": "Body" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "past", - "text": "Past" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_188", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps boundaries feel like teamwork?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "both_have_them", - "text": "We both have them" - }, - { - "id": "clear_reason", - "text": "Clear reasons" - }, - { - "id": "revisit_them", - "text": "We revisit them" - }, - { - "id": "no_punishment", - "text": "No punishment" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_189", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which area needs more freedom, not more rules?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "freedom", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "friends", - "text": "Friends" - }, { "id": "hobbies", "text": "Hobbies" }, { - "id": "alone_time", - "text": "Alone time" + "id": "gifts", + "text": "Gifts" }, { - "id": "personal_style", - "text": "Personal style" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_190", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What boundary would make you feel safest this month?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "safety", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" + "id": "personal_care", + "text": "Personal care" }, { - "id": "tone", - "text": "Tone" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_191", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel respected when you need space?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "space", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_guilt", - "text": "No guilt" - }, - { - "id": "clear_timing", - "text": "Clear timing" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "check_later", - "text": "Check in later" + "id": "solo_meals_or_treats", + "text": "Solo meals or treats" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3735,1098 +2875,172 @@ } }, { - "id": "boundaries_192", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundaries would make our home feel lighter?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "home", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_time", - "text": "Quiet time" - }, - { - "id": "clean_shared_spaces", - "text": "Clean shared spaces" - }, - { - "id": "phone_free_meals", - "text": "Phone-free meals" - }, - { - "id": "sleep_respect", - "text": "Respecting sleep" - }, - { - "id": "less_clutter", - "text": "Less clutter" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_193", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes a hard conversation feel safer?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "soft_tone", - "text": "Soft tone" - }, - { - "id": "no_interrupting", - "text": "No interrupting" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "breaks_allowed", - "text": "Breaks allowed" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_194", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which outside pressures affect us most?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "outside_pressure", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "work", - "text": "Work" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "friends", - "text": "Friends" - }, - { - "id": "social_media", - "text": "Social media" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_195", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps a boundary feel loving instead of harsh?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "love", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "clear_reason", - "text": "Clear reason" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "respect_for_both", - "text": "Respect for both" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_196", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which phone boundaries would help trust feel easier?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - 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"max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_206", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which boundaries make flirting feel safe and fun?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "play", - "flirting", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "right_timing", - "text": "Right timing" - }, - { - "id": "private_only", - "text": "Private only" - }, - { - "id": "easy_stop", - "text": "Easy stop" - }, - { - "id": "no_jokes_later", - "text": "No jokes later" - }, - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_207", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we never use against each other?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "trust", - "conflict", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "secrets", - "text": "Secrets" - }, - { - "id": "insecurities", - 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- "text": "Playfulness" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_211", + "id": "boundaries_085", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we respect each other's quiet time right now?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "quiet_time", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_212", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy does it feel to say no kindly between us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "no", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_213", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How protected does our couple time feel lately?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "couple_time", - "boundaries" - ], - 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"answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Unbalanced", - "max_label": "Balanced" - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_217", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would a phone-free moment help us right now?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "phones", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_218", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How respected do you feel during disagreements?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "conflict", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not respected", - "max_label": "Very respected" - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_219", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to ask for space without guilt?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "space", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_220", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do outside opinions affect our relationship?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "outside_people", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_221", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does privacy feel between us?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe" - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_222", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How stressful do money boundaries feel right now?", + "text": "How clear are our ask-first rules for shared money?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "money", + "clarity", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not stressful", - "max_label": "Very stressful" + "min_label": "Not very clear", + "max_label": "Completely clear" } }, { - "id": "boundaries_223", + "id": "boundaries_086", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How fair do chores feel this week?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "chores", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not fair", - "max_label": "Very fair" - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_224", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you saying not tonight?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "intimacy", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_225", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much pressure do you feel around affection?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "affection", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "None", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_226", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to pause a hard conversation?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "conflict", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_227", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect each other in public?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "public", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_228", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do last-minute plans stress you out?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Before spending shared money, what needs a conversation?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", + "money", + "couple_decisions", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" + "options": [ + { + "id": "lending_money_to_someone", + "text": "Lending money to someone" + }, + { + "id": "a_major_purchase", + "text": "A major purchase" + }, + { + "id": "a_new_recurring_payment", + "text": "A new recurring payment" + }, + { + "id": "using_savings", + "text": "Using savings" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "boundaries_229", + "id": "boundaries_087", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable do you feel asking for help?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of financial independence feels reasonable?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support", + "money", + "privacy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" + "options": [ + { + "id": "separate_personal_spending_money", + "text": "Separate personal spending money" + }, + { + "id": "private_gift_purchases", + "text": "Private gift purchases" + }, + { + "id": "an_individual_account_with_agreed_transparency", + "text": "An individual account with agreed transparency" + }, + { + "id": "a_set_amount_that_needs_no_check_in", + "text": "A set amount that needs no check-in" + } + ] } }, { - "id": "boundaries_230", + "id": "boundaries_088", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we respect each other's sleep?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can money rules preserve freedom for both of us?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "money", + "autonomy", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_rules_are_fair_to_both_people", + "text": "The rules are fair to both people" + }, + { + "id": "we_agree_on_the_thresholds", + "text": "We agree on the thresholds" + }, + { + "id": "each_person_has_personal_spending_room", + "text": "Each person has personal spending room" + }, + { + "id": "questions_do_not_become_interrogations", + "text": "Questions do not become interrogations" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_089", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Where at home should an ask-first rule apply?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sleep", + "home_space", + "personal_space", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_work_area", + "text": "A work area" + }, + { + "id": "the_bedroom_when_someone_is_resting", + "text": "The bedroom when someone is resting" + }, + { + "id": "personal_storage", + "text": "Personal storage" + }, + { + "id": "a_hobby_area", + "text": "A hobby area" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "boundaries_231", + "id": "boundaries_090", "category_id": "boundaries", "type": "scale", - "text": "How much room do you feel you have to be yourself?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How much control do you feel over your own time?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "authenticity", + "time", + "autonomy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { @@ -4837,421 +3051,1596 @@ } }, { - "id": "boundaries_232", + "id": "boundaries_091", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to correct me gently?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feedback", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe" - } - }, - { - "id": "boundaries_233", - "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we come back together after taking 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"boundaries", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Space alone or quiet together?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "space", + "scheduling", + "autonomy", "boundaries" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "space_alone", - "text": "Space alone" + "id": "being_asked_first", + "text": "Being asked first" }, { - "id": "quiet_together", - "text": "Quiet together" + "id": "getting_real_options", + "text": "Getting real options" + }, + { + "id": "having_room_to_decline", + "text": "Having room to decline" + }, + { + "id": "no_guilt_if_the_answer_is_no", + "text": "No guilt if the answer is no" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "boundaries_237", + "id": "boundaries_092", "category_id": "boundaries", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Phone-free dinner or phone-free bedtime?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "phones", - "boundaries" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "phone_free_dinner", - "text": 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one boundary you hope we always protect?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "healthy_boundaries", + "written", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "boundaries_150", + "category_id": "boundaries", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What habits protect boundaries over time?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "maintenance", + "healthy_boundaries", + "boundaries" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "believing_the_first_no", + "text": "Believing the first no" + }, + { + "id": "asking_before_assuming", + "text": "Asking before assuming" + }, + { + "id": "updating_old_agreements", + "text": "Updating old agreements" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_private_things_private", + "text": "Keeping private things private" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/communication.json b/seed/questions/communication.json index 9feef270..645c140e 100644 --- a/seed/questions/communication.json +++ b/seed/questions/communication.json @@ -2,369 +2,684 @@ "category": { "id": "communication", "display_name": "Communication", - "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples talk, listen, text, check in, ask for what they need, and stay connected with sweetness, softness, humor, and playful moments where they fit.", + "description": "Natural, useful questions about everyday conversation, listening, asking clearly, tone, timing, texting, misunderstandings, and the habits that help couples understand each other.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "chat_bubble_outline", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - } + "written": 5, + "single_choice": 30, + 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Emotional_intimacy owns feeling known and emotionally close; conflict owns disagreement dynamics; conflict_repair owns reconnecting after conflict; boundaries owns limits and privacy; trust owns confidence after breaches.", + "source_question_count": 250, + "source_written_count": 150, + "final_validation": "pass", + "second_pass_changed_questions": 16, + "second_pass_focus": "Corrected awkward check-in wording, point-of-view and option-fit issues, obvious-answer mechanics, negative framing, therapy-coded language, texting drift, conflict overlap, and unnatural closing questions; then re-ran all schema and duplication checks." } }, "questions": [ { "id": "communication_001", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes it easiest for you to talk to me?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When does talking with me feel easiest?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "ease", - "talking", + "daily_talking", + "timing", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "during_a_drive", + "text": "During a drive" + }, + { + "id": "while_we_make_food", + "text": "While we make food" + }, + { + "id": "late_at_night", + "text": "Late at night" + }, + { + "id": "when_nothing_else_is_competing", + "text": "When nothing else is competing" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_002", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of check-in feels sweet instead of serious?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes an everyday conversation feel good to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "check_in", - "fun_first", + "daily_talking", + "ease", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_are_not_rushing", + "text": "We are not rushing" + }, + { + "id": "we_both_get_to_talk", + "text": "We both get to talk" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_room_for_jokes", + "text": "There is room for jokes" + }, + { + "id": "we_actually_look_at_each_other", + "text": "We actually look at each other" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_003", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I say that makes you feel heard?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which check-ins feel natural instead of forced?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening", - "heard", + "check_ins", + "daily_talking", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_are_you_doing_really", + "text": "How are you doing, really?" + }, + { + "id": "anything_you_need_from_me", + "text": "Anything you need from me?" + }, + { + "id": "what_was_the_best_part", + "text": "What was the best part?" + }, + { + "id": "want_to_talk_or_just_relax", + "text": "Want to talk or just relax?" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_004", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes it easier to tell me something real and still feel close?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it for us to start talking lately?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "truth", - "safety", - "communication", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "daily_talking", + "ease", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "It takes some effort", + "max_label": "It happens naturally" } }, { "id": "communication_005", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of timing helps a hard talk go better?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Quick check-in or long catch-up?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timing", - "hard_talks", + "check_ins", + "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "quick_check_in", + "text": "Quick check-in" + }, + { + "id": "long_catch_up", + "text": "Long catch-up" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_006", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What time of day makes talking feel most natural for us?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What gets you talking after a long day?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timing", - "stress", - "communication", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "daily_talking", + "after_work", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_little_quiet_first", + "text": "A little quiet first" + }, + { + "id": "a_snack_and_a_seat", + "text": "A snack and a seat" + }, + { + "id": "a_specific_question", + "text": "A specific question" + }, + { + "id": "something_funny_to_break_the_ice", + "text": "Something funny to break the ice" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_007", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small phrase that makes you soften?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which opener sounds most like us?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "phrases", - "softness", + "daily_talking", + "couple_voice", + "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "tell_me_everything", + "text": "Tell me everything" + }, + { + "id": "give_me_the_headline", + "text": "Give me the headline" + }, + { + "id": "what_happened_today", + "text": "What happened today?" + }, + { + "id": "okay_what_is_the_real_story", + "text": "Okay, what is the real story?" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_008", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one phrase that would help us try again softer?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should I ask when you seem quiet?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "phrases", - "tension", - "communication", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "check_ins", + "quiet", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "are_you_tired", + "text": "Are you tired?" + }, + { + "id": "do_you_want_company", + "text": "Do you want company?" + }, + { + "id": "is_something_on_your_mind", + "text": "Is something on your mind?" + }, + { + "id": "should_i_check_back_later", + "text": "Should I check back later?" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_009", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel like I am really listening?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which little conversations help you feel connected?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening", - "presence", + "daily_talking", + "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "sharing_something_funny", + "text": "Sharing something funny" + }, + { + "id": "talking_through_tomorrow", + "text": "Talking through tomorrow" + }, + { + "id": "telling_each_other_small_news", + "text": "Telling each other small news" + }, + { + "id": "comparing_random_opinions", + "text": "Comparing random opinions" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_010", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you listen when you are tired?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Quick talk or deep dive?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "listening", - "tired", + "daily_talking", + "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "quick_talk", + "text": "Quick talk" + }, + { + "id": "deep_dive", + "text": "Deep dive" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_011", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes texting feel connected instead of confusing?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes you want to keep a conversation going?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "texting", - "connection", + "daily_talking", + "engagement", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_ask_a_good_follow_up", + "text": "You ask a good follow-up" + }, + { + "id": "you_share_something_back", + "text": "You share something back" + }, + { + "id": "you_seem_genuinely_interested", + "text": "You seem genuinely interested" + }, + { + "id": "the_conversation_takes_a_funny_turn", + "text": "The conversation takes a funny turn" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_012", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of message from me makes your day better?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of daily update do you prefer?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "texting", - "fun_first", + "daily_talking", + "preferences", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_full_play_by_play", + "text": "The full play-by-play" + }, + { + "id": "just_the_important_parts", + "text": "Just the important parts" + }, + { + "id": "mostly_the_funny_parts", + "text": "Mostly the funny parts" + }, + { + "id": "whatever_is_still_on_your_mind", + "text": "Whatever is still on your mind" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_013", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one topic we should make easier to bring up?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which topics are easiest for us to talk about?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "daily_talking", "topics", - "ease", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "things_we_are_planning", + "text": "Things we are planning" + }, + { + "id": "people_and_stories", + "text": "People and stories" + }, + { + "id": "ideas_and_opinions", + "text": "Ideas and opinions" + }, + { + "id": "what_happened_during_the_day", + "text": "What happened during the day" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_014", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you ask for what you need?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a check-in feel caring to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "needs", - "asking", + "check_ins", + "care", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_remember_to_ask", + "text": "You remember to ask" + }, + { + "id": "you_listen_to_the_answer", + "text": "You listen to the answer" + }, + { + "id": "you_do_not_make_it_dramatic", + "text": "You do not make it dramatic" + }, + { + "id": "you_follow_up_later", + "text": "You follow up later" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_015", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you hear what I need?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Morning check-in or bedtime check-in?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "needs", - "listening", + "check_ins", + "timing", + "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "morning_check_in", + "text": "Morning check-in" + }, + { + "id": "bedtime_check_in", + "text": "Bedtime check-in" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_016", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of tone helps you stay open?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When we have ten minutes, what should we talk about?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tone", - "openness", + "check_ins", + "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_we_are_doing", + "text": "How we are doing" + }, + { + "id": "what_happened_today", + "text": "What happened today" + }, + { + "id": "what_we_need_tomorrow", + "text": "What we need tomorrow" + }, + { + "id": "something_fun_and_completely_unnecessary", + "text": "Something fun and completely unnecessary" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_017", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of tone makes you shut down?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps conversation feel like a break, not another task?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tone", - "shutdown", + "daily_talking", + "ease", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_pressure_to_solve_anything", + "text": "No pressure to solve anything" + }, + { + "id": "a_relaxed_place_to_sit", + "text": "A relaxed place to sit" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_humor", + "text": "A little humor" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_we_can_keep_it_short", + "text": "Knowing we can keep it short" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_018", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps big feelings come out in words instead of noise?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How understood do you feel in our everyday conversations?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feelings", - "emotional_safety", - "communication", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "daily_talking", + "understanding", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very understood", + "max_label": "Very understood" } }, { "id": "communication_019", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you talk when your feelings are still loading?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which habits make us better talkers as a couple?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feelings", - "uncertainty", - "communication", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "daily_talking", + "habits", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "putting_phones_down_sometimes", + "text": "Putting phones down sometimes" + }, + { + "id": "asking_instead_of_assuming", + "text": "Asking instead of assuming" + }, + { + "id": "letting_each_other_finish", + "text": "Letting each other finish" + }, + { + "id": "circling_back_when_life_interrupts", + "text": "Circling back when life interrupts" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_020", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a conversation feel playful between us?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kind of question usually gets your real answer?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "play", - "fun_first", + "questions", + "daily_talking", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_direct_question", + "text": "A direct question" + }, + { + "id": "a_gentle_question", + "text": "A gentle question" + }, + { + "id": "a_funny_question", + "text": "A funny question" + }, + { + "id": "a_question_with_a_little_context", + "text": "A question with a little context" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_021", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one inside-joke way we could say, 'I need attention'?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one question you wish I asked more often?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "play", - "attention", + "questions", + "written", "communication" ], "answer_config": { @@ -374,408 +689,793 @@ { "id": "communication_022", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel comfortable saying, 'Can we try that again?'", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which daily details do you like sharing with me?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "restart", - "phrases", + "daily_talking", + "sharing", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_thing_that_annoyed_you", + "text": "The thing that annoyed you" + }, + { + "id": "the_thing_that_made_you_laugh", + "text": "The thing that made you laugh" + }, + { + "id": "the_thing_you_are_thinking_through", + "text": "The thing you are thinking through" + }, + { + "id": "the_thing_you_are_looking_forward_to", + "text": "The thing you are looking forward to" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_023", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I could ask more often?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a conversation feel most like us?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "curiosity", - "questions", + "couple_voice", + "daily_talking", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_lose_track_of_time", + "text": "We lose track of time" + }, + { + "id": "we_laugh_halfway_through", + "text": "We laugh halfway through" + }, + { + "id": "we_jump_between_five_topics", + "text": "We jump between five topics" + }, + { + "id": "we_say_what_we_actually_mean", + "text": "We say what we actually mean" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_024", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one question from me that would feel caring?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps us talk when life is busy?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "questions", - "care", + "busy_life", + "daily_talking", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_five_minute_check_in", + "text": "A five-minute check-in" + }, + { + "id": "a_message_during_the_day", + "text": "A message during the day" + }, + { + "id": "a_planned_catch_up", + "text": "A planned catch-up" + }, + { + "id": "talking_while_we_do_something_else", + "text": "Talking while we do something else" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_025", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes advice feel helpful instead of bossy?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which tiny signals mean “I want to talk”?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "advice", - "respect", + "conversation_openers", + "daily_talking", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "come_sit_with_me", + "text": "Come sit with me" + }, + { + "id": "can_i_tell_you_something", + "text": "Can I tell you something?" + }, + { + "id": "you_have_a_minute", + "text": "You have a minute?" + }, + { + "id": "i_have_a_story_for_you", + "text": "I have a story for you" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_026", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you tell me when you only want me to listen?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What tells you I am really listening?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", - "support", + "feeling_heard", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_remember_details_later", + "text": "I remember details later" + }, + { + "id": "i_ask_a_good_follow_up", + "text": "I ask a good follow-up" + }, + { + "id": "i_do_not_interrupt", + "text": "I do not interrupt" + }, + { + "id": "i_respond_to_the_part_that_mattered", + "text": "I respond to the part that mattered" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_027", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you tell me when you actually want ideas?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which listening habits matter most to you?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "support", - "advice", + "listening", + "habits", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "letting_you_finish", + "text": "Letting you finish" + }, + { + "id": "looking_up_from_my_phone", + "text": "Looking up from my phone" + }, + { + "id": "not_rushing_to_fix_it", + "text": "Not rushing to fix it" + }, + { + "id": "checking_that_i_understood", + "text": "Checking that I understood" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_028", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes silence feel comfortable between us?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes it easier to finish your thought?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "silence", - "comfort", + "listening", + "patience", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_little_patience", + "text": "A little patience" + }, + { + "id": "no_guessing_where_you_are_going", + "text": "No guessing where you are going" + }, + { + "id": "a_calm_reaction", + "text": "A calm reaction" + }, + { + "id": "enough_time_to_find_the_words", + "text": "Enough time to find the words" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_029", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes silence feel confusing between us?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How often do you feel fully heard by me?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "silence", - "clarity", + "listening", + "feeling_heard", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not often", + "max_label": "Very often" } }, { "id": "communication_030", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about plans without stress?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Questions first or quiet listening first?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "planning", - "ease", + "listening", + "preferences", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "questions_first", + "text": "Questions first" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_listening_first", + "text": "Quiet listening first" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_031", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about feelings without making it heavy?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should I do when your story has many turns?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "feelings", + "listening", + "stories", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "let_you_tell_it_your_way", + "text": "Let you tell it your way" + }, + { + "id": "ask_who_everyone_is", + "text": "Ask who everyone is" + }, + { + "id": "laugh_at_the_right_parts", + "text": "Laugh at the right parts" + }, + { + "id": "wait_for_the_ending_before_reacting", + "text": "Wait for the ending before reacting" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_032", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a quick check-in feel meaningful?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which response makes you feel most heard?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "check_in", - "meaningful", + "listening", + "responses", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "that_makes_sense", + "text": "That makes sense" + }, + { + "id": "tell_me_more", + "text": "Tell me more" + }, + { + "id": "i_can_see_why", + "text": "I can see why" + }, + { + "id": "do_you_want_my_take", + "text": "Do you want my take?" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_033", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a long conversation feel worth it?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you know I understood your point?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "deep_talks", - "meaningful", + "listening", + "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_say_it_back_clearly", + "text": "I say it back clearly" + }, + { + "id": "i_respond_to_what_mattered", + "text": "I respond to what mattered" + }, + { + "id": "i_ask_before_giving_advice", + "text": "I ask before giving advice" + }, + { + "id": "my_next_action_matches_the_conversation", + "text": "My next action matches the conversation" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_034", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of compliment helps you open up?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which things make listening harder for you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "compliments", - "openness", + "listening", + "barriers", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "being_tired", + "text": "Being tired" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_rushed", + "text": "Feeling rushed" + }, + { + "id": "trying_to_do_two_things", + "text": "Trying to do two things" + }, + { + "id": "thinking_of_your_reply_too_soon", + "text": "Thinking of your reply too soon" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_035", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make it easier to say, 'That stung a little'?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Say it now or bring it up later?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hurt", - "honesty", - "communication", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "listening", + "preferences", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "say_it_now", + "text": "Say it now" + }, + { + "id": "bring_it_up_later", + "text": "Bring it up later" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_036", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you stay soft if I say something stung?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you stay present when I am talking?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hurt", "listening", - "communication", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "presence", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "knowing_what_i_need_from_you", + "text": "Knowing what I need from you" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_point_to_follow", + "text": "A clear point to follow" + }, + { + "id": "a_calm_pace", + "text": "A calm pace" + }, + { + "id": "being_able_to_ask_questions", + "text": "Being able to ask questions" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_037", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we can make daily communication feel more like us?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When I am venting, what should you assume first?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "identity", + "listening", + "support_preferences", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_want_to_be_heard", + "text": "I want to be heard" + }, + { + "id": "i_want_ideas", + "text": "I want ideas" + }, + { + "id": "i_want_reassurance", + "text": "I want reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "you_should_ask_me", + "text": "You should ask me" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_038", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one tiny communication habit we could try this week?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which follow-up questions feel caring, not nosy?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "weekly", - "habits", + "questions", + "listening", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "what_part_matters_most", + "text": "What part matters most?" + }, + { + "id": "what_happened_after_that", + "text": "What happened after that?" + }, + { + "id": "do_you_want_to_talk_more", + "text": "Do you want to talk more?" + }, + { + "id": "is_there_anything_i_can_do", + "text": "Is there anything I can do?" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_039", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel chosen during an ordinary conversation?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes advice easier to hear?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "chosen", - "daily_life", + "advice", + "listening", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_ask_before_giving_it", + "text": "You ask before giving it" + }, + { + "id": "you_keep_it_practical", + "text": "You keep it practical" + }, + { + "id": "you_offer_choices", + "text": "You offer choices" + }, + { + "id": "you_leave_room_for_me_to_decide", + "text": "You leave room for me to decide" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_040", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk when life is busy?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs tell you I have stopped listening?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "busy_life", + "listening", + "awareness", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_repeat_a_question_you_answered", + "text": "I repeat a question you answered" + }, + { + "id": "i_jump_in_too_fast", + "text": "I jump in too fast" + }, + { + "id": "i_change_the_subject", + "text": "I change the subject" + }, + { + "id": "i_start_solving_the_wrong_problem", + "text": "I start solving the wrong problem" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_041", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What playful little check could stop us from guessing wrong?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is your preferred “I am listening” signal?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "assumptions", - "clarity", - "communication", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "listening", + "signals", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "eye_contact", + "text": "Eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "a_quick_touch", + "text": "A quick touch" + }, + { + "id": "a_small_verbal_response", + "text": "A small verbal response" + }, + { + "id": "no_signal_just_attention", + "text": "No signal, just attention" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_042", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps a disagreement feel like us solving a puzzle together?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you listen when you are tired?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "disagreement", - "communication", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "listening", + "tired", + "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "keeping_it_short", + "text": "Keeping it short" + }, + { + "id": "sitting_down_together", + "text": "Sitting down together" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_whether_it_is_urgent", + "text": "Knowing whether it is urgent" + }, + { + "id": "taking_a_few_minutes_first", + "text": "Taking a few minutes first" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_043", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us end a conversation warmly?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well do we notice when the other needs listening?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "ending", - "warmth", + "listening", + "attunement", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "We often miss it", + "max_label": "We usually notice" } }, { "id": "communication_044", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you love about how we talk?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which stories do you especially want me to remember?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "gratitude", - "talking", + "listening", + "stories", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "things_from_your_childhood", + "text": "Things from your childhood" + }, + { + "id": "people_who_shaped_you", + "text": "People who shaped you" + }, + { + "id": "moments_you_were_proud_of", + "text": "Moments you were proud of" + }, + { + "id": "stories_you_do_not_tell_everyone", + "text": "Stories you do not tell everyone" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_045", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make our conversations feel even more like home?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a serious answer feel safe to give?", + "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "home", - "closeness", + "listening", + "safety", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_do_not_rush_me", + "text": "You do not rush me" + }, + { + "id": "you_stay_curious", + "text": "You stay curious" + }, + { + "id": "you_do_not_turn_it_into_a_debate", + "text": "You do not turn it into a debate" + }, + { + "id": "you_keep_the_moment_private", + "text": "You keep the moment private" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_046", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make daily check-ins feel easy and natural between us?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Tell me about a time you felt completely heard by me.", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "check_in", - "daily_life", - "ease", + "listening", + "memory", + "written", "communication" ], "answer_config": { @@ -785,4441 +1485,1090 @@ { "id": "communication_047", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make daily check-ins feel more playful when it fits?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kind of listener do you need after bad news?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "check_in", - "daily_life", - "fun_first", + "listening", + "bad_news", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_and_steady", + "text": "Quiet and steady" + }, + { + "id": "warm_and_reassuring", + "text": "Warm and reassuring" + }, + { + "id": "practical_and_helpful", + "text": "Practical and helpful" + }, + { + "id": "ready_to_distract_me_later", + "text": "Ready to distract me later" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_048", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps daily check-ins feel safe instead of tense?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should I do if I lose the thread?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "check_in", - "daily_life", - "safety", + "listening", + "clarity", + "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_you_to_back_up", + "text": "Ask you to back up" + }, + { + "id": "tell_you_where_i_got_lost", + "text": "Tell you where I got lost" + }, + { + "id": "let_you_finish_first", + "text": "Let you finish first" + }, + { + "id": "make_my_best_guess", + "text": "Make my best guess" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_049", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What small habit would improve daily check-ins this week?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which reactions make you want to share more?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "check_in", - "daily_life", - "weekly", - "habits", + "listening", + "engagement", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_real_laugh", + "text": "A real laugh" + }, + { + "id": "a_thoughtful_pause", + "text": "A thoughtful pause" + }, + { + "id": "a_curious_question", + "text": "A curious question" + }, + { + "id": "a_response_that_shows_you_remembered", + "text": "A response that shows you remembered" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_050", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about daily check-ins?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes listening feel mutual between us?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "check_in", - "daily_life", - "understanding", + "listening", + "mutuality", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_both_get_a_turn", + "text": "We both get a turn" + }, + { + "id": "we_ask_about_each_other", + "text": "We ask about each other" + }, + { + "id": "we_share_without_competing", + "text": "We share without competing" + }, + { + "id": "we_remember_what_mattered", + "text": "We remember what mattered" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_051", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help daily check-ins feel respectful?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How do you prefer to ask for something important?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "check_in", - "daily_life", - "boundaries", - "respect", + "asking", + "needs", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "say_it_directly", + "text": "Say it directly" + }, + { + "id": "give_some_context_first", + "text": "Give some context first" + }, + { + "id": "write_it_out", + "text": "Write it out" + }, + { + "id": "bring_it_up_during_a_calm_moment", + "text": "Bring it up during a calm moment" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_052", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us handle daily check-ins with more warmth?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you say what you need clearly?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "check_in", - "daily_life", - "warmth", + "asking", + "needs", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "knowing_you_will_not_judge_it", + "text": "Knowing you will not judge it" + }, + { + "id": "having_time_to_think", + "text": "Having time to think" + }, + { + "id": "using_simple_words", + "text": "Using simple words" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_you_can_hear_it_without_agreeing", + "text": "Knowing you can hear it without agreeing" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_053", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make texting feel easy and natural between us?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which requests are easiest for you to make?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "texting", - "connection", - "ease", + "asking", + "requests", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "help_with_something_practical", + "text": "Help with something practical" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_reassurance", + "text": "A little reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "more_time_together", + "text": "More time together" + }, + { + "id": "a_change_in_plans", + "text": "A change in plans" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_054", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make texting feel more playful when it fits?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How comfortable are you asking me for what you need?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "texting", - "connection", - "fun_first", + "asking", + "needs", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Still a little hard", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "communication_055", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps texting feel safe instead of tense?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Direct request or gentle hint?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "texting", - "connection", - "safety", + "asking", + "preferences", + "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "direct_request", + "text": "Direct request" + }, + { + "id": "gentle_hint", + "text": "Gentle hint" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_056", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What small habit would improve texting this week?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a request feel respectful to you?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "texting", - "connection", - "weekly", - "habits", + "asking", + "respect", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_is_clear", + "text": "It is clear" + }, + { + "id": "it_leaves_room_for_an_answer", + "text": "It leaves room for an answer" + }, + { + "id": "it_explains_why_it_matters", + "text": "It explains why it matters" + }, + { + "id": "it_is_not_buried_in_criticism", + "text": "It is not buried in criticism" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_057", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about texting?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which phrase makes asking feel easiest?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "texting", - "connection", - "understanding", + "asking", + "phrases", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "could_you_help_me_with_this", + "text": "Could you help me with this?" + }, + { + "id": "can_i_tell_you_what_i_need", + "text": "Can I tell you what I need?" + }, + { + "id": "would_you_be_open_to_something", + "text": "Would you be open to something?" + }, + { + "id": "i_have_a_small_request", + "text": "I have a small request" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_058", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What boundary would help texting feel respectful?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you explain something complicated?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "texting", - "connection", - "boundaries", - "respect", + "explaining", + "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "starting_with_the_short_version", + "text": "Starting with the short version" + }, + { + "id": "using_an_example", + "text": "Using an example" + }, + { + "id": "saying_what_part_matters_most", + "text": "Saying what part matters most" + }, + { + "id": "letting_you_ask_questions", + "text": "Letting you ask questions" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_059", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us handle texting with more warmth?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which needs are hardest to put into words?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "texting", - "connection", - "warmth", + "asking", + "needs", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "needing_space", + "text": "Needing space" + }, + { + "id": "needing_reassurance", + "text": "Needing reassurance" + }, + { + "id": "needing_more_help", + "text": "Needing more help" + }, + { + "id": "needing_a_different_approach", + "text": "Needing a different approach" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_060", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make hard conversations feel easy and natural between us?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Ask directly or hope they notice?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_talks", - "courage", - "ease", + "asking", + "assumptions", + "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_directly", + "text": "Ask directly" + }, + { + "id": "hope_they_notice", + "text": "Hope they notice" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_061", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make hard conversations feel more playful when it fits?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a “no” still feel caring?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_talks", - "courage", - "fun_first", + "asking", + "responses", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_kind_tone", + "text": "A kind tone" + }, + { + "id": "a_short_reason", + "text": "A short reason" + }, + { + "id": "another_option", + "text": "Another option" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance_that_the_request_was_okay", + "text": "Reassurance that the request was okay" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_062", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps hard conversations feel safe instead of tense?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When you need help, what should I ask first?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_talks", - "courage", - "safety", + "asking", + "support", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "what_would_help_most", + "text": "What would help most?" + }, + { + "id": "how_soon_do_you_need_it", + "text": "How soon do you need it?" + }, + { + "id": "do_you_want_help_or_company", + "text": "Do you want help or company?" + }, + { + "id": "what_part_feels_hardest", + "text": "What part feels hardest?" + } + ] } }, { "id": "communication_063", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What small habit would improve hard conversations this week?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which phrases make a request easier to receive?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_talks", - "courage", - "weekly", - "habits", + "asking", + "phrases", "communication" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "would_you_be_willing_to", + "text": "Would you be willing to…" + }, + { + "id": "could_we_try", + "text": "Could we try…" + }, + { + "id": "it_would_help_me_if", + "text": "It would help me if…" + }, + { + "id": "can_we_find_a_way_to", + "text": "Can we find a way to…" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_064", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make hard conversations feel less like a big production?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes an explanation feel complete to you?", + 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"assume_good_intent", - "text": "Assume good intent" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_171", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when one of us gets quiet?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "silence", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_check_in", - "text": "Gentle check-in" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "return_time", - "text": "Return time" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_172", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when one of us talks too fast?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pace", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "one_topic", - "text": "One topic" - }, - { - "id": "breathe", - "text": "Breathe" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_173", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of phone-free time sounds doable?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "phones", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dinner", - "text": "Dinner" - }, - { - "id": "bedtime", - "text": "Bedtime" - }, - { - "id": "first_10_minutes", - "text": "First 10 minutes" - }, - { - "id": "date_night", - "text": "Date night" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_174", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us talk about feelings lightly?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feelings", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_question", - "text": "One question" - }, - { - "id": "soft_humor", - "text": "Soft humor" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - }, - { - "id": "short_check_in", - "text": "Short check-in" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_175", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us talk about feelings deeply?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feelings", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "no_fixing", - "text": "No fixing" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_176", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us not mind-read?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "assumptions", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "repeat_back", - "text": "Repeat back" - }, - { - "id": "check_tone", - "text": "Check tone" - }, - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_177", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a question feel caring?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "questions", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "soft_tone", - "text": "Soft tone" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_answers", - "text": "Remembering answers" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_178", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a question feel too intense too fast?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "questions", - "communication", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "too_many", - "text": "Too many" - }, - { - "id": "bad_timing", - "text": "Bad timing" - }, - { - "id": "sharp_tone", - "text": "Sharp tone" - 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"clear_boundary", - "text": "Clear boundary" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_183", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes private talks feel safe, sweet, and not awkward?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "intimacy", - "communication", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_words", - "text": "Gentle words" - }, - { - "id": "easy_pause", - "text": "Easy pause" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_184", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us say no kindly?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "no", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "simple_words", - "text": "Simple words" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": 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- { - "id": "changed_action", - "text": "Changed action" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_187", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a compliment easier to receive?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "compliments", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific", - "text": "Specific" - }, - { - "id": "sweet", - "text": "Sweet" - }, - { - "id": "private", - "text": "Private" - }, - { - "id": "no_teasing", - "text": "No teasing" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_188", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of playful signal would help us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "signals", - "fun_first", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_need_a_hug", - "text": "I need a hug" - }, - { - "id": "i_need_attention", - "text": "I need attention" - }, - { - "id": "please_slow_down", - "text": "Please slow down" - }, - { - "id": "try_again", - "text": "Try again" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_189", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes communication feel romantic?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet_texts", - "text": "Sweet texts" - }, - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_details", - "text": "Remembering details" - }, - { - "id": "soft_voice", - "text": "Soft voice" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_190", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make us better at talking next month?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "monthly", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_check_ins", - "text": "More check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "better_timing", - "text": "Better 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- "options": [ - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "soft_start", - "text": "Soft start" - }, - { - "id": "breaks_allowed", - "text": "Breaks allowed" - }, - { - "id": "one_topic", - "text": "One topic" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_193", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel heard?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "listening", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "repeat_back", - "text": "Repeat back" - }, - { - "id": "ask_questions", - "text": "Ask questions" - }, - { - "id": "no_fixing_yet", - "text": "No fixing yet" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "focused_attention", - "text": "Focused attention" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_194", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes communication more fun?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "inside_jokes", - "text": "Inside jokes" - }, - { - "id": "playful_signals", - "text": "Playful signals" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_texts", - "text": "Sweet texts" - }, - { - "id": "silly_questions", - "text": "Silly questions" - }, - { - "id": "flirty_notes", - "text": "Flirty notes" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_195", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us reset a conversation?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "restart", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "try_again", - "text": "Try again" - }, - { - "id": "use_softer_words", - "text": "Use softer words" - }, - { - 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"communication_199", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when one of us wants advice and the other wants comfort?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "support", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_need", - "text": "Name the need" - }, - { - "id": "offer_both", - "text": "Offer both" - }, - { - "id": "listen_first", - "text": "Listen first" - }, - { - "id": "check_after", - "text": "Check after" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_200", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us talk about needs?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "needs", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_request", - "text": "Clear request" - }, - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "no_blame", - "text": "No blame" - }, - { - "id": "one_need_at_a_time", - "text": "One need at a time" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_201", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us talk about feelings?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feelings", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "no_fixing_yet", - "text": "No fixing yet" - }, - { - "id": "soft_questions", - "text": "Soft questions" - }, - { - "id": "care_after", - "text": "Care after" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_202", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes texting safer for serious topics?", - "depth": 4, - "access": 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stress?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "planning", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_list", - "text": "Shared list" - }, - { - "id": "clear_roles", - "text": "Clear roles" - }, - { - "id": "simple_choices", - "text": "Simple choices" - }, - { - "id": "time_to_think", - "text": "Time to think" - }, - { - "id": "keep_it_light", - "text": "Keep it light" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_208", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us communicate during busy seasons?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "busy_life", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "short_check_ins", - "text": "Short check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_texts", - "text": "Sweet texts" - }, - { - "id": "clear_plans", - "text": "Clear plans" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": 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}, - { - "id": "communication_213", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How fun does our communication feel?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not fun", - "max_label": "Very fun" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_214", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you asking for what you need?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "needs", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_215", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we end conversations warmly?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "ending", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_216", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does tone affect you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "tone", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_217", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would one tiny communication habit help this week?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "weekly", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_218", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy does honest talking feel when we keep it gentle?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "emotional_safety", - "communication", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_219", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to bring up something real without making it heavy?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "hard_talks", - "communication", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_220", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we listen without fixing?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "listening", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_221", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we choose good timing?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "timing", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_222", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly do we make requests?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "requests", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not clearly", - "max_label": "Very clearly" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_223", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do guesses get in the way of what we actually mean?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "assumptions", - "communication", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_224", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you asking for a pause?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pause", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_225", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we text about serious things?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "texting", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_226", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do sweet messages make you feel?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "texting", - "romance", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not connected", - "max_label": "Very connected" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_227", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to say no kindly?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "no", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_228", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to say yes honestly?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "yes", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_229", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we handle misunderstandings?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "misunderstanding", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_230", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How kind does 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"category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we communicate when tired?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "tired", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_234", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much warmth do our conversations have lately?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "warmth", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_235", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How hopeful do you feel about making communication easier?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "hope", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not hopeful", - "max_label": "Very hopeful" - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_236", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Sweet text or quick call?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "texting", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet_text", - "text": "Sweet text" - }, - { - "id": "quick_call", - "text": "Quick call" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_237", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Deep talk or silly question?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "deep_talk", - "text": "Deep talk" - }, - { - "id": "silly_question", - "text": "Silly question" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_238", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Listen first or solve first?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "support", - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen_first", - "text": "Listen first" - }, - { - "id": "solve_first", - "text": "Solve first" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_239", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Soft start or direct start?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_start", - "text": "Soft start" - }, - { - "id": "direct_start", - "text": "Direct start" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "communication_240", - "category_id": "communication", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Talk now or schedule it?", - "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "timing", + "preferences", "communication" ], "answer_config": { @@ -5229,256 +2578,2235 @@ "text": "Talk now" }, { - "id": "schedule_it", - "text": "Schedule it" + "id": "schedule_a_better_moment", + "text": "Schedule a better moment" } ] } }, { - "id": "communication_241", + "id": "communication_081", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Text it or say it out loud?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes “not right now” feel respectful?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "texting", + "timing", + "respect", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "text_it", - "text": "Text it" + "id": "a_clear_reason", + "text": "A clear reason" }, { - "id": "say_it", - "text": "Say it out loud" + "id": "a_better_time_offered", + "text": "A better time offered" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_tone", + "text": "A warm tone" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance_the_topic_matters", + "text": "Reassurance the topic matters" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "communication_082", + "category_id": "communication", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which setting makes a hard topic easier?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "context", + "hard_topics", + "communication" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "sitting_side_by_side", + "text": "Sitting side by side" + }, + { + "id": "taking_a_walk", + "text": "Taking a walk" + }, + { + "id": "talking_in_the_car", + "text": "Talking in the car" + }, + { + "id": "talking_at_home_with_no_distractions", + "text": "Talking at home with no distractions" } ] } }, { - "id": "communication_242", + "id": "communication_083", "category_id": "communication", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Ask more or explain more?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes direct feedback easier to hear?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "tone", + "directness", + "communication" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_calm_voice", + "text": "A calm voice" + }, + { + "id": "no_loaded_language", + "text": "No loaded language" + }, + { + "id": "one_clear_point", + "text": "One clear point" + }, + { + "id": "a_reminder_that_we_are_on_the_same_side", + "text": "A reminder that we are on the same side" + } + ], + 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"options": [ - { - "id": "sit_outside_together", - "text": "Sit outside together" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_snack_slowly", - "text": "Share one snack slowly" - }, - { - "id": "look_through_old_photos", - "text": "Look through old photos" - }, - { - "id": "ask_one_fun_question", - "text": "Ask one fun question" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sit_outside_together", - "text": "Sit outside together" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_snack_slowly", - "text": "Share one snack slowly" - }, - { - "id": "look_through_old_photos", - "text": "Look through old photos" - }, - { - "id": "ask_one_fun_question", - "text": "Ask one fun question" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_009", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a small surprise tonight, what is our move?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - 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"category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which option leads tonight’s vibe?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_choose_vibe" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort_show_cozy", - "text": "Comfort-show cozy" - }, - { - "id": "kitchen_dance_playful", - "text": "Kitchen-dance playful" - }, - { - "id": "dessert_date_sweet", - "text": "Dessert-date sweet" - }, - { - "id": "early_night_peaceful", - "text": "Early-night peaceful" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort_show_cozy", - "text": "Comfort-show cozy" - }, - { - "id": "kitchen_dance_playful", - "text": "Kitchen-dance playful" - }, - { - "id": "dessert_date_sweet", - "text": "Dessert-date sweet" - }, - { - "id": "early_night_peaceful", - "text": "Early-night peaceful" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_018", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which soundtrack should lead our tiny music break?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_one_song_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "an_old_favorite", - "text": "An old favorite" - }, - { - "id": "a_guilty_pleasure_anthem", - "text": "A guilty-pleasure anthem" - }, - { - "id": "a_song_that_feels_like_us", - "text": "A song that feels like us" - }, - { - "id": "a_brand_new_discovery", - "text": "A brand-new discovery" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "an_old_favorite", - "text": "An old favorite" - }, - { - "id": "a_guilty_pleasure_anthem", - "text": "A guilty-pleasure anthem" - }, - { - "id": "a_song_that_feels_like_us", - "text": "A song that feels like us" - }, - { - "id": "a_brand_new_discovery", - "text": "A brand-new discovery" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_019", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a tiny dessert date, what gets the couple vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_treat_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ice_cream_in_mugs", - "text": "Ice cream in mugs" - }, - { - "id": "brownies_and_a_movie", - "text": "Brownies and a movie" - }, - { - "id": "a_bakery_taste_test", - "text": "A bakery taste-test" - }, - { - "id": "milkshakes_in_the_car", - "text": "Milkshakes in the car" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ice_cream_in_mugs", - "text": "Ice cream in mugs" - }, - { - "id": "brownies_and_a_movie", - "text": "Brownies and a movie" - }, - { - "id": "a_bakery_taste_test", - "text": "A bakery taste-test" - }, - { - "id": "milkshakes_in_the_car", - "text": "Milkshakes in the car" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } + "text": "What would make the ride home better?" }, { "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_020", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a no-scroll break, what deserves first place?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_no_phone_moment" + "expected_text": "For a no-scroll break, what deserves first place?", + "reasons": [ + "unnecessary_competition_frame" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "play_one_card_round", - "text": "Play one card round" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_tiny_walk", - "text": "Take a tiny walk" - }, - { - "id": "dance_to_two_songs", - "text": "Dance to two songs" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_ridiculous_toast", - "text": "Make a ridiculous toast" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "play_one_card_round", - "text": "Play one card round" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_tiny_walk", - "text": "Take a tiny walk" - }, - { - "id": "dance_to_two_songs", - "text": "Dance to two songs" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_ridiculous_toast", - "text": "Make a ridiculous toast" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } + "text": "What sounds best for a no-scroll break?" }, { "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_021", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which sweet little ambush would be your favorite?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_small_surprise" + "expected_text": "Which sweet little ambush would be your favorite?", + "reasons": [ + "affection_as_ambush", + "unnatural_word_choice" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_forehead_kiss_if_welcome", - "text": "A forehead kiss if welcome" - }, - { - "id": "a_dramatic_compliment", - "text": "A dramatic compliment" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_treat_with_your_name_on_it", - "text": "A tiny treat with your name on it" - }, - { - "id": "a_funny_note_hidden_in_plain_sight", - "text": "A funny note hidden in plain sight" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_forehead_kiss_if_welcome", - "text": "A forehead kiss if welcome" - }, - { - "id": "a_dramatic_compliment", - "text": "A dramatic compliment" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_treat_with_your_name_on_it", - "text": "A tiny treat with your name on it" - }, - { - "id": "a_funny_note_hidden_in_plain_sight", - "text": "A funny note hidden in plain sight" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_022", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A friendly one-round contest: what wins our vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_silly_bet" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "rock_paper_scissors_tournament", - "text": "Rock-paper-scissors tournament" - }, - { - "id": "guess_the_song_intro", - "text": "Guess the song intro" - }, - { - "id": "snack_rating_showdown", - "text": "Snack rating showdown" - }, - { - "id": "draw_each_other_in_sixty_seconds", - "text": "Draw each other in sixty seconds" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "rock_paper_scissors_tournament", - "text": "Rock-paper-scissors tournament" - }, - { - "id": "guess_the_song_intro", - "text": "Guess the song intro" - }, - { - "id": "snack_rating_showdown", - "text": "Snack rating showdown" - }, - { - "id": "draw_each_other_in_sixty_seconds", - "text": "Draw each other in sixty seconds" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } + "text": "Which sweet little surprise would be your favorite?" }, { "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_023", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "One thing to anticipate: what gets top billing?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_tiny_plan" + "expected_text": "One thing to anticipate: what gets top billing?", + "reasons": [ + "canned_game_show_phrase", + "stiff_spoken_voice" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_new_snack_to_try", - "text": "A new snack to try" - }, - { - "id": "a_walk_somewhere_pretty", - "text": "A walk somewhere pretty" - }, - { - "id": "a_comfort_show_night", - "text": "A comfort-show night" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_surprise_swap", - "text": "A tiny surprise swap" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_new_snack_to_try", - "text": "A new snack to try" - }, - { - "id": "a_walk_somewhere_pretty", - "text": "A walk somewhere pretty" - }, - { - "id": "a_comfort_show_night", - "text": "A comfort-show night" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_surprise_swap", - "text": "A tiny surprise swap" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_024", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a soft start together, what do we like best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_feeling_chosen" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "coffee_and_a_long_hug", - "text": "Coffee and a long hug" - }, - { - "id": "breakfast_with_no_rushing", - "text": "Breakfast with no rushing" - }, - { - "id": "a_walk_before_the_day_gets_loud", - "text": "A walk before the day gets loud" - }, - { - "id": "one_kind_text_before_noon", - "text": "One kind text before noon" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "coffee_and_a_long_hug", - "text": "Coffee and a long hug" - }, - { - "id": "breakfast_with_no_rushing", - "text": "Breakfast with no rushing" - }, - { - "id": "a_walk_before_the_day_gets_loud", - "text": "A walk before the day gets loud" - }, - { - "id": "one_kind_text_before_noon", - "text": "One kind text before noon" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_025", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a quiet evening, which option gets the nod?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "make_fancy_hot_drinks", - "text": "Make fancy hot drinks" - }, - { - "id": "do_a_puzzle_together", - "text": "Do a puzzle together" - }, - { - "id": "listen_to_an_old_playlist", - "text": "Listen to an old playlist" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_comfort_movie", - "text": "Pick a comfort movie" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "make_fancy_hot_drinks", - "text": "Make fancy hot drinks" - }, - { - "id": "do_a_puzzle_together", - "text": "Do a puzzle together" - }, - { - "id": "listen_to_an_old_playlist", - "text": "Listen to an old playlist" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_comfort_movie", - "text": "Pick a comfort movie" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_026", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "The hour before dinner: which option would you choose?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_tiny_ritual" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "make_mocktails", - "text": "Make mocktails" - }, - { - "id": "play_kitchen_dj", - "text": "Play kitchen DJ" - }, - { - "id": "swap_favorite_memes", - "text": "Swap favorite memes" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_tiny_date", - "text": "Choose a tiny date" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "make_mocktails", - "text": "Make mocktails" - }, - { - "id": "play_kitchen_dj", - "text": "Play kitchen DJ" - }, - { - "id": "swap_favorite_memes", - "text": "Swap favorite memes" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_tiny_date", - "text": "Choose a tiny date" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_027", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A rough start to the week: which option fits best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_playful_care" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "trade_ridiculous_compliments", - "text": "Trade ridiculous compliments" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_tiny_reward", - "text": "Choose a tiny reward" - }, - { - "id": "watch_our_funniest_clip", - "text": "Watch our funniest clip" - }, - { - "id": "plan_one_bright_spot", - "text": "Plan one bright spot" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trade_ridiculous_compliments", - "text": "Trade ridiculous compliments" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_tiny_reward", - "text": "Choose a tiny reward" - }, - { - "id": "watch_our_funniest_clip", - "text": "Watch our funniest clip" - }, - { - "id": "plan_one_bright_spot", - "text": "Plan one bright spot" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_028", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny comedy stunt should we attempt?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_low_effort_laugh" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "worst_dance_move_wins", - "text": "Worst dance move wins" - }, - { - "id": "dramatic_weather_report", - "text": "Dramatic weather report" - }, - { - "id": "talk_like_movie_villains", - "text": "Talk like movie villains" - }, - { - "id": "explain_dinner_like_a_sportscaster", - "text": "Explain dinner like a sportscaster" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "worst_dance_move_wins", - "text": "Worst dance move wins" - }, - { - "id": "dramatic_weather_report", - "text": "Dramatic weather report" - }, - { - "id": "talk_like_movie_villains", - "text": "Talk like movie villains" - }, - { - "id": "explain_dinner_like_a_sportscaster", - "text": "Explain dinner like a sportscaster" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_029", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For our evening energy, what is your pick?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_choose_vibe" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_and_affectionate", - "text": "Soft and affectionate" - }, - { - "id": "goofy_and_loud", - "text": "Goofy and loud" - }, - { - "id": "curious_and_chatty", - "text": "Curious and chatty" - }, - { - "id": "calm_with_good_snacks", - "text": "Calm with good snacks" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_and_affectionate", - "text": "Soft and affectionate" - }, - { - "id": "goofy_and_loud", - "text": "Goofy and loud" - }, - { - "id": "curious_and_chatty", - "text": "Curious and chatty" - }, - { - "id": "calm_with_good_snacks", - "text": "Calm with good snacks" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_030", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should the next song we share do for us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_one_song_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_that_makes_us_dance", - "text": "One that makes us dance" - }, - { - "id": "one_that_makes_us_laugh", - "text": "One that makes us laugh" - }, - { - "id": "one_that_brings_back_a_memory", - "text": "One that brings back a memory" - }, - { - "id": "one_that_feels_a_little_flirty", - "text": "One that feels a little flirty" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_that_makes_us_dance", - "text": "One that makes us dance" - }, - { - "id": "one_that_makes_us_laugh", - "text": "One that makes us laugh" - }, - { - "id": "one_that_brings_back_a_memory", - "text": "One that brings back a memory" - }, - { - "id": "one_that_feels_a_little_flirty", - "text": "One that feels a little flirty" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_031", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a snack worth sharing, which option gets the nod?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_treat_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "loaded_popcorn", - "text": "Loaded popcorn" - }, - { - "id": "chips_with_three_dips", - "text": "Chips with three dips" - }, - { - "id": "a_mini_cheese_board", - "text": "A mini cheese board" - }, - { - "id": "a_mystery_candy_bag", - "text": "A mystery candy bag" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "loaded_popcorn", - "text": "Loaded popcorn" - }, - { - "id": "chips_with_three_dips", - "text": "Chips with three dips" - }, - { - "id": "a_mini_cheese_board", - "text": "A mini cheese board" - }, - { - "id": "a_mystery_candy_bag", - "text": "A mystery candy bag" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_032", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which idea fits a screen-free mini-date best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_no_phone_moment" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "coffee_at_the_table", - "text": "Coffee at the table" - }, - { - "id": "backyard_stargazing", - "text": "Backyard stargazing" - }, - { - "id": "a_quick_puzzle_race", - "text": "A quick puzzle race" - }, - { - "id": "dessert_on_the_steps", - "text": "Dessert on the steps" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "coffee_at_the_table", - "text": "Coffee at the table" - }, - { - "id": "backyard_stargazing", - "text": "Backyard stargazing" - }, - { - "id": "a_quick_puzzle_race", - "text": "A quick puzzle race" - }, - { - "id": "dessert_on_the_steps", - "text": "Dessert on the steps" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_033", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which choice best matches a five-dollar surprise?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_small_surprise" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_weird_candy_to_split", - "text": "A weird candy to split" - }, - { - "id": "a_single_flower", - "text": "A single flower" - }, - { - "id": "a_thrift_store_mystery", - "text": "A thrift-store mystery" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_gas_station_snack", - "text": "A favorite gas-station snack" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_weird_candy_to_split", - "text": "A weird candy to split" - }, - { - "id": "a_single_flower", - "text": "A single flower" - }, - { - "id": "a_thrift_store_mystery", - "text": "A thrift-store mystery" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_gas_station_snack", - "text": "A favorite gas-station snack" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_034", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Monday needs a challenge—which one should rescue it?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_silly_bet" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_the_funniest_photo", - "text": "Find the funniest photo" - }, - { - "id": "invent_the_best_date_title", - "text": "Invent the best date title" - }, - { - "id": "build_the_tallest_snack_stack", - "text": "Build the tallest snack stack" - }, - { - "id": "pick_the_weirdest_movie_trailer", - "text": "Pick the weirdest movie trailer" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_the_funniest_photo", - "text": "Find the funniest photo" - }, - { - "id": "invent_the_best_date_title", - "text": "Invent the best date title" - }, - { - "id": "build_the_tallest_snack_stack", - "text": "Build the tallest snack stack" - }, - { - "id": "pick_the_weirdest_movie_trailer", - "text": "Pick the weirdest movie trailer" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_035", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Our next easy date: which option would you choose?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_tiny_plan" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "bookstore_browsing", - "text": "Bookstore browsing" - }, - { - "id": "takeout_picnic", - "text": "Takeout picnic" - }, - { - "id": "sunset_drive", - "text": "Sunset drive" - }, - { - "id": "breakfast_for_dinner", - "text": "Breakfast-for-dinner" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "bookstore_browsing", - "text": "Bookstore browsing" - }, - { - "id": "takeout_picnic", - "text": "Takeout picnic" - }, - { - "id": "sunset_drive", - "text": "Sunset drive" - }, - { - "id": "breakfast_for_dinner", - "text": "Breakfast-for-dinner" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_036", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a sweeter Monday hello, what feels like the right fit?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_feeling_chosen" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_real_kiss_at_the_door", - "text": "A real kiss at the door" - }, - { - "id": "a_goofy_nickname", - "text": "A goofy nickname" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_drink_in_hand", - "text": "A favorite drink in hand" - }, - { - "id": "a_dramatic_i_missed_you", - "text": "A dramatic “I missed you”" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_real_kiss_at_the_door", - "text": "A real kiss at the door" - }, - { - "id": "a_goofy_nickname", - "text": "A goofy nickname" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_drink_in_hand", - "text": "A favorite drink in hand" - }, - { - "id": "a_dramatic_i_missed_you", - "text": "A dramatic “I missed you”" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_037", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A rainy-night hangout: what is your pick?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "make_grilled_cheese", - "text": "Make grilled cheese" - }, - { - "id": "play_a_card_game", - "text": "Play a card game" - }, - { - "id": "tell_dramatic_stories", - "text": "Tell dramatic stories" - }, - { - "id": "watch_the_storm_together", - "text": "Watch the storm together" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "make_grilled_cheese", - "text": "Make grilled cheese" - }, - { - "id": "play_a_card_game", - "text": "Play a card game" - }, - { - "id": "tell_dramatic_stories", - "text": "Tell dramatic stories" - }, - { - "id": "watch_the_storm_together", - "text": "Watch the storm together" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_038", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A slow morning together: pick the winner.", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_tiny_ritual" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "coffee_on_the_porch", - "text": "Coffee on the porch" - }, - { - "id": "breakfast_by_a_sunny_window", - "text": "Breakfast by a sunny window" - }, - { - "id": "swap_funny_videos", - "text": "Swap funny videos" - }, - { - "id": "a_no_rush_cuddle", - "text": "A no-rush cuddle" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "coffee_on_the_porch", - "text": "Coffee on the porch" - }, - { - "id": "breakfast_by_a_sunny_window", - "text": "Breakfast by a sunny window" - }, - { - "id": "swap_funny_videos", - "text": "Swap funny videos" - }, - { - "id": "a_no_rush_cuddle", - "text": "A no-rush cuddle" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_039", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A busy day: which tiny connection move is strongest?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_playful_care" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "send_a_secret_code_text", - "text": "Send a secret-code text" - }, - { - "id": "save_the_best_snack", - "text": "Save the best snack" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_one_word_invitation", - "text": "Send a one-word invitation" - }, - { - "id": "choose_one_song_to_share", - "text": "Choose one song to share" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "send_a_secret_code_text", - "text": "Send a secret-code text" - }, - { - "id": "save_the_best_snack", - "text": "Save the best snack" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_one_word_invitation", - "text": "Send a one-word invitation" - }, - { - "id": "choose_one_song_to_share", - "text": "Choose one song to share" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_040", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Zero setup allowed: which game should we play?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_low_effort_laugh" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "twenty_questions", - "text": "Twenty questions" - }, - { - "id": "two_truths_and_a_lie", - "text": "Two truths and a lie" - }, - { - "id": "alphabet_date_ideas", - "text": "Alphabet date ideas" - }, - { - "id": "finish_the_ridiculous_sentence", - "text": "Finish the ridiculous sentence" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "twenty_questions", - "text": "Twenty questions" - }, - { - "id": "two_truths_and_a_lie", - "text": "Two truths and a lie" - }, - { - "id": "alphabet_date_ideas", - "text": "Alphabet date ideas" - }, - { - "id": "finish_the_ridiculous_sentence", - "text": "Finish the ridiculous sentence" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_041", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which option wins for the mood after dinner?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_choose_vibe" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "cuddly", - "text": "Cuddly" - }, - { - "id": "competitive", - "text": "Competitive" - }, - { - "id": "flirty", - "text": "Flirty" - }, - { - "id": "adventurous_enough_for_dessert", - "text": "Adventurous enough for dessert" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cuddly", - "text": "Cuddly" - }, - { - "id": "competitive", - "text": "Competitive" - }, - { - "id": "flirty", - "text": "Flirty" - }, - { - "id": "adventurous_enough_for_dessert", - "text": "Adventurous enough for dessert" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_042", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which option works best for a music mini-date?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_one_song_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "three_song_road_trip", - "text": "Three-song road trip" - }, - { - "id": "living_room_concert", - "text": "Living-room concert" - }, - { - "id": "guess_the_intro_game", - "text": "Guess-the-intro game" - }, - { - "id": "make_each_other_a_one_song_dedication", - "text": "Make each other a one-song dedication" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "three_song_road_trip", - "text": "Three-song road trip" - }, - { - "id": "living_room_concert", - "text": "Living-room concert" - }, - { - "id": "guess_the_intro_game", - "text": "Guess-the-intro game" - }, - { - "id": "make_each_other_a_one_song_dedication", - "text": "Make each other a one-song dedication" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_043", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a comfort-drink moment, choose on instinct.", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_treat_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "coffee_with_extras", - "text": "Coffee with extras" - }, - { - "id": "tea_and_honey", - "text": "Tea and honey" - }, - { - "id": "hot_cocoa_piled_high", - "text": "Hot cocoa piled high" - }, - { - "id": "a_ridiculous_soda_mix", - "text": "A ridiculous soda mix" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "coffee_with_extras", - "text": "Coffee with extras" - }, - { - "id": "tea_and_honey", - "text": "Tea and honey" - }, - { - "id": "hot_cocoa_piled_high", - "text": "Hot cocoa piled high" - }, - { - "id": "a_ridiculous_soda_mix", - "text": "A ridiculous soda mix" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_044", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which ten-minute date would feel surprisingly sweet?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_no_phone_moment" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "walk_one_block_hand_in_hand", - "text": "Walk one block hand in hand" - }, - { - "id": "share_a_bench_and_a_cold_drink", - "text": "Share a bench and a cold drink" - }, - { - "id": "look_for_shapes_in_the_clouds", - "text": "Look for shapes in the clouds" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_photo_with_an_unusual_backdrop", - "text": "Take a photo with an unusual backdrop" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "walk_one_block_hand_in_hand", - "text": "Walk one block hand in hand" - }, - { - "id": "share_a_bench_and_a_cold_drink", - "text": "Share a bench and a cold drink" - }, - { - "id": "look_for_shapes_in_the_clouds", - "text": "Look for shapes in the clouds" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_photo_with_an_unusual_backdrop", - "text": "Take a photo with an unusual backdrop" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_045", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a surprise from across the room, what is the top choice?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_small_surprise" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_flirty_text", - "text": "A flirty text" - }, - { - "id": "a_ridiculous_selfie", - "text": "A ridiculous selfie" - }, - { - "id": "a_secret_hand_signal", - "text": "A secret hand signal" - }, - { - "id": "a_whispered_compliment", - "text": "A whispered compliment" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_flirty_text", - "text": "A flirty text" - }, - { - "id": "a_ridiculous_selfie", - "text": "A ridiculous selfie" - }, - 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"text": "Who picks the better song" - }, - { - "id": "who_spots_a_dog_first", - "text": "Who spots a dog first" - }, - { - "id": "who_makes_the_best_mocktail", - "text": "Who makes the best mocktail" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_047", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A bright spot for this week: pick the winner.", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_tiny_plan" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_one_hour_phone_free_date", - "text": "A one-hour phone-free date" - }, - { - "id": "a_new_recipe_together", - "text": "A new recipe together" - }, - { - "id": "a_thrift_store_challenge", - "text": "A thrift-store challenge" - }, - { - "id": "a_living_room_dance_break", - "text": "A living-room dance break" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_one_hour_phone_free_date", - "text": "A one-hour phone-free date" - }, - { - "id": "a_new_recipe_together", - "text": "A new recipe together" - }, - { - "id": "a_thrift_store_challenge", - "text": "A thrift-store challenge" - }, - { - "id": "a_living_room_dance_break", - "text": "A living-room dance break" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_048", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which small bit of attention would land best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_feeling_chosen" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hold_my_hand_for_no_reason", - "text": "Hold my hand for no reason" - }, - { - "id": "look_up_when_i_tell_a_story", - "text": "Look up when I tell a story" - }, - { - "id": "invite_me_into_a_quick_dance", - "text": "Invite me into a quick dance" - }, - { - "id": "remember_one_detail_i_mentioned", - "text": "Remember one detail I mentioned" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hold_my_hand_for_no_reason", - "text": "Hold my hand for no reason" - }, - { - "id": "look_up_when_i_tell_a_story", - "text": "Look up when I tell a story" - }, - { - "id": "invite_me_into_a_quick_dance", - "text": "Invite me into a quick dance" - }, - { - "id": "remember_one_detail_i_mentioned", - "text": "Remember one detail I mentioned" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_049", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A low-key dinner: choose the best fit.", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "use_the_fun_plates", - "text": "Use the fun plates" - }, - { - "id": "add_a_dessert_course", - "text": "Add a dessert course" - }, - 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}, - { - "id": "a_short_hand_holding_walk", - "text": "A short hand-holding walk" - }, - { - "id": "one_comfort_episode", - "text": "One comfort episode" - }, - { - "id": "a_dramatic_toast_to_surviving", - "text": "A dramatic toast to surviving" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dessert_with_music_playing", - "text": "Dessert with music playing" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_hand_holding_walk", - "text": "A short hand-holding walk" - }, - { - "id": "one_comfort_episode", - "text": "One comfort episode" - }, - { - "id": "a_dramatic_toast_to_surviving", - "text": "A dramatic toast to surviving" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_051", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A low-energy night: what gets your vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_playful_care" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_dessert_and_music_date", - "text": "A dessert-and-music date" - }, - { - "id": "a_one_round_card_game", - "text": "A one-round card game" - }, - { - "id": "a_calm_drive_with_music", - "text": "A calm drive with music" - }, - { - "id": "a_fifteen_minute_phone_free_hangout", - "text": "A fifteen-minute phone-free hangout" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_dessert_and_music_date", - "text": "A dessert-and-music date" - }, - { - "id": "a_one_round_card_game", - "text": "A one-round card game" - }, - { - "id": "a_calm_drive_with_music", - "text": "A calm drive with music" - }, - { - "id": "a_fifteen_minute_phone_free_hangout", - "text": "A fifteen-minute phone-free hangout" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_052", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which option best fits a silly phone-free moment?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_low_effort_laugh" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "mirror_each_others_poses", - "text": "Mirror each other’s poses" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_secret_handshake", - "text": "Invent a secret handshake" - }, - { - "id": "make_animal_sound_guesses", - "text": "Make animal sound guesses" - }, - { - "id": "tell_a_story_one_word_at_a_time", - "text": "Tell a story one word at a time" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "mirror_each_others_poses", - "text": "Mirror each other’s poses" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_secret_handshake", - "text": "Invent a secret handshake" - }, - { - "id": "make_animal_sound_guesses", - "text": "Make animal sound guesses" - }, - { - "id": "tell_a_story_one_word_at_a_time", - "text": "Tell a story one word at a time" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_053", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which option would make our little corner of the night the most fun?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_choose_vibe" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_drinks_and_stories", - "text": "Warm drinks and stories" - }, - { - "id": "music_and_teasing", - "text": "Music and teasing" - }, - { - "id": "a_game_and_bragging_rights", - "text": "A game and bragging rights" - }, - { - "id": "a_movie_and_shared_snacks", - "text": "A movie and shared snacks" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_drinks_and_stories", - "text": "Warm drinks and stories" - }, - { - "id": "music_and_teasing", - "text": "Music and teasing" - }, - { - "id": "a_game_and_bragging_rights", - "text": "A game and bragging rights" - }, - { - "id": "a_movie_and_shared_snacks", - "text": "A movie and shared snacks" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - 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"text": "A funny sticker" - }, - { - "id": "a_handwritten_coupon_for_a_date", - "text": "A handwritten coupon for a date" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_058", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A playful rematch: choose the best fit.", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_silly_bet" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "cards", - "text": "Cards" - }, - { - "id": "trivia", - "text": "Trivia" - }, - { - "id": "a_video_game_round", - "text": "A video-game round" - }, - { - "id": "paper_airplane_target_toss", - "text": "Paper-airplane target toss" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cards", - "text": "Cards" - }, - { - "id": "trivia", - "text": "Trivia" - }, - { - "id": "a_video_game_round", - "text": "A video-game round" - }, - { - "id": "paper_airplane_target_toss", - "text": "Paper-airplane target toss" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_059", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny keepsake should we leave for future-us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_tiny_plan" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "write_down_one_funny_story", - "text": "Write down one funny story" - }, - { - "id": "choose_one_photo_to_print", - "text": "Choose one photo to print" - }, - { - "id": "save_the_name_of_one_place_to_try", - "text": "Save the name of one place to try" - }, - { - "id": "record_a_favorite_tiny_tradition", - "text": "Record a favorite tiny tradition" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "write_down_one_funny_story", - "text": "Write down one funny story" - }, - { - "id": "choose_one_photo_to_print", - "text": "Choose one photo to print" - }, - { - "id": "save_the_name_of_one_place_to_try", - "text": "Save the name of one place to try" - }, - { - "id": "record_a_favorite_tiny_tradition", - "text": "Record a favorite tiny tradition" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_060", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "An ordinary moment made cute: what gets your vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_feeling_chosen" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "match_our_mugs", - "text": "Match our mugs" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_set_of_earbuds", - "text": "Share one set of earbuds" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_terrible_selfie", - "text": "Take a terrible selfie" - }, - { - "id": "make_dinner_sound_fancy", - "text": "Make dinner sound fancy" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "match_our_mugs", - "text": "Match our mugs" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_set_of_earbuds", - "text": "Share one set of earbuds" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_terrible_selfie", - "text": "Take a terrible selfie" - }, - { - "id": "make_dinner_sound_fancy", - "text": "Make dinner sound fancy" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_061", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A low-energy evening: what sounds genuinely good?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "share_a_warm_drink_with_music", - "text": "Share a warm drink with music" - }, - { - "id": "watch_one_short_comedy", - "text": "Watch one short comedy" - }, - { - "id": "trade_one_favorite_song_each", - "text": "Trade one favorite song each" - }, - { - "id": "sit_outside_for_ten_quiet_minutes", - "text": "Sit outside for ten quiet minutes" - 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"text": "Play a quick game" - }, - { - "id": "choose_the_next_song_to_share", - "text": "Choose the next song to share" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "browse_old_photos", - "text": "Browse old photos" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_snack_board", - "text": "Make a snack board" - }, - { - "id": "play_a_quick_game", - "text": "Play a quick game" - }, - { - "id": "choose_the_next_song_to_share", - "text": "Choose the next song to share" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_063", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A day that needs rescuing: which one fits best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_playful_care" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_surprise_drink_delivery", - "text": "A surprise drink delivery" - }, - { - "id": "a_goofy_voice_note", - "text": "A goofy voice-note" - }, - { - "id": "a_mini_dessert_run", - "text": "A mini dessert run" - }, - { - "id": "a_one_song_hallway_dance", - "text": "A one-song hallway dance" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_surprise_drink_delivery", - "text": "A surprise drink delivery" - }, - { - "id": "a_goofy_voice_note", - "text": "A goofy voice-note" - }, - { - "id": "a_mini_dessert_run", - "text": "A mini dessert run" - }, - { - "id": "a_one_song_hallway_dance", - "text": "A one-song hallway dance" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_064", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a five-minute mood-lifter, what would you choose?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_low_effort_laugh" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "watch_baby_animal_chaos", - "text": "Watch baby-animal chaos" - }, - { - "id": "trade_painfully_bad_jokes", - "text": "Trade painfully bad jokes" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_a_favorite_meme", - "text": "Recreate a favorite meme" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_fake_movie_sequel", - "text": "Invent a fake movie sequel" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "watch_baby_animal_chaos", - "text": "Watch baby-animal chaos" - }, - { - "id": "trade_painfully_bad_jokes", - "text": "Trade painfully bad jokes" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_a_favorite_meme", - "text": "Recreate a favorite meme" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_fake_movie_sequel", - "text": "Invent a fake movie sequel" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_065", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which option takes the rest of today?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_choose_vibe" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_and_close", - "text": "Gentle and close" - }, - { - "id": "playful_and_ridiculous", - "text": "Playful and ridiculous" - }, - { - "id": "low_key_romantic", - "text": "Low-key romantic" - }, - { - "id": "easy_and_spontaneous", - "text": "Easy and spontaneous" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_and_close", - "text": "Gentle and close" - }, - { - "id": "playful_and_ridiculous", - "text": "Playful and ridiculous" - }, - { - "id": "low_key_romantic", - "text": "Low-key romantic" - }, - { - "id": "easy_and_spontaneous", - "text": "Easy and spontaneous" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_066", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which playlist belongs in the kitchen tonight?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_one_song_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "throwback_hits", - "text": "Throwback hits" - }, - { - "id": "movie_soundtracks", - "text": "Movie soundtracks" - }, - { - "id": "dance_floor_favorites", - "text": "Dance-floor favorites" - }, - { - "id": "songs_we_know_every_word_to", - "text": "Songs we know every word to" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "throwback_hits", - "text": "Throwback hits" - }, - { - "id": "movie_soundtracks", - "text": "Movie soundtracks" - }, - { - "id": "dance_floor_favorites", - "text": "Dance-floor favorites" - }, - { - "id": "songs_we_know_every_word_to", - "text": "Songs we know every word to" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_067", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which option suits a Monday reward best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_treat_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dessert_before_dinner", - "text": "Dessert before dinner" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_takeout_side", - "text": "A favorite takeout side" - }, - { - "id": "a_secret_snack_stash", - "text": "A secret snack stash" - }, - { - "id": "a_surprise_drink_run", - "text": "A surprise drink run" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dessert_before_dinner", - "text": "Dessert before dinner" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_takeout_side", - "text": "A favorite takeout side" - }, - { - "id": "a_secret_snack_stash", - "text": "A secret snack stash" - }, - { - "id": "a_surprise_drink_run", - "text": "A surprise drink run" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_068", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a quiet little pause, make the tiny ruling.", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_no_phone_moment" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hold_hands_and_people_watch", - "text": "Hold hands and people-watch" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_wish_list_of_tiny_dates", - "text": "Make a wish list of tiny dates" - }, - { - "id": "share_the_best_part_of_today", - "text": "Share the best part of today" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_future_tradition", - "text": "Invent a future tradition" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hold_hands_and_people_watch", - "text": "Hold hands and people-watch" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_wish_list_of_tiny_dates", - "text": "Make a wish list of tiny dates" - }, - { - "id": "share_the_best_part_of_today", - "text": "Share the best part of today" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_future_tradition", - "text": "Invent a future tradition" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_069", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which option best suits a low-effort delight?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_small_surprise" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_ready_made_snack_tray", - "text": "A ready-made snack tray" - }, - { - "id": "a_queued_favorite_episode", - "text": "A queued favorite episode" - }, - { - "id": "a_playlist_with_one_clue", - "text": "A playlist with one clue" - }, - { - "id": "a_drink_arranged_like_fine_dining", - "text": "A drink arranged like fine dining" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_ready_made_snack_tray", - "text": "A ready-made snack tray" - }, - { - "id": "a_queued_favorite_episode", - "text": "A queued favorite episode" - }, - { - "id": "a_playlist_with_one_clue", - "text": "A playlist with one clue" - }, - { - "id": "a_drink_arranged_like_fine_dining", - "text": "A drink arranged like fine dining" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_070", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A bragging-rights moment: which choice feels right?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_silly_bet" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_pun", - "text": "Best pun" - }, - { - "id": "best_snack_combo", - "text": "Best snack combo" - }, - { - "id": "best_dramatic_reading", - "text": "Best dramatic reading" - }, - { - "id": "best_five_second_dance", - "text": "Best five-second dance" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_pun", - "text": "Best pun" - }, - { - "id": "best_snack_combo", - "text": "Best snack combo" - }, - { - "id": "best_dramatic_reading", - "text": "Best dramatic reading" - }, - { - "id": "best_five_second_dance", - "text": "Best five-second dance" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_071", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A small plan worth keeping: what wins?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_monday_mood_check", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_tiny_plan" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dessert_after_dinner", - "text": "Dessert after dinner" - }, - { - "id": "a_shared_playlist_update", - "text": "A shared playlist update" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_scenic_walk", - "text": "A short scenic walk" - }, - { - "id": "one_game_before_screens", - "text": "One game before screens" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dessert_after_dinner", - "text": "Dessert after dinner" - }, - { - "id": "a_shared_playlist_update", - "text": "A shared playlist update" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_scenic_walk", - "text": "A short scenic walk" - 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], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_new_dessert", - "text": "A new dessert" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_game", - "text": "A short game" - }, - { - "id": "a_movie_neither_of_us_has_finished", - "text": "A movie neither of us has finished" - }, - { - "id": "a_walk_with_a_destination", - "text": "A walk with a destination" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_new_dessert", - "text": "A new dessert" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_game", - "text": "A short game" - }, - { - "id": "a_movie_neither_of_us_has_finished", - "text": "A movie neither of us has finished" - }, - { - "id": "a_walk_with_a_destination", - "text": "A walk with a destination" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_078", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny toast should we make?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dramatic_celebration" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "to_surviving_the_weird_parts", - "text": "To surviving the weird parts" - }, - { - "id": "to_making_each_other_laugh", - "text": "To making each other laugh" - }, - { - "id": "to_snacks_arriving_right_on_time", - "text": "To snacks arriving right on time" - }, - { - "id": "to_future_us_loving_this_story", - "text": "To future-us loving this story" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "to_surviving_the_weird_parts", - "text": "To surviving the weird parts" - }, - { - "id": "to_making_each_other_laugh", - "text": "To making each other laugh" - }, - { - "id": "to_snacks_arriving_right_on_time", - "text": "To snacks arriving right on time" - }, - { - "id": "to_future_us_loving_this_story", - "text": "To future-us loving this story" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_079", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Our victory song: what sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_music_reward" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_loud_throwback", - "text": "A loud throwback" - }, - { - "id": "a_cheesy_love_song", - "text": "A cheesy love song" - }, - { - "id": "a_dramatic_movie_anthem", - "text": "A dramatic movie anthem" - }, - { - "id": "a_song_neither_of_us_can_sing", - "text": "A song neither of us can sing" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_loud_throwback", - "text": "A loud throwback" - }, - { - "id": "a_cheesy_love_song", - "text": "A cheesy love song" - }, - { - "id": "a_dramatic_movie_anthem", - "text": "A dramatic movie anthem" - }, - { - "id": "a_song_neither_of_us_can_sing", - "text": "A song neither of us can sing" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_080", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which mini-adventure reward gets our vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_adventure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_a_sunset_snack_drive", - "text": "Take a sunset snack drive" - }, - { - "id": "walk_until_we_find_a_new_view", - "text": "Walk until we find a new view" - }, - { - "id": "hunt_for_the_funniest_window_display", - "text": "Hunt for the funniest window display" - }, - { - "id": "visit_one_place_we_keep_passing", - "text": "Visit one place we keep passing" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_a_sunset_snack_drive", - "text": "Take a sunset snack drive" - }, - { - "id": "walk_until_we_find_a_new_view", - "text": "Walk until we find a new view" - }, - { - "id": "hunt_for_the_funniest_window_display", - "text": "Hunt for the funniest window display" - }, - { - "id": "visit_one_place_we_keep_passing", - "text": "Visit one place we keep passing" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_081", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a mystery treat, what is our move?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mystery_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_wrapped_bakery_pick", - "text": "A wrapped bakery pick" - }, - { - "id": "a_drink_chosen_by_color", - "text": "A drink chosen by color" - }, - { - "id": "a_candy_from_childhood", - "text": "A candy from childhood" - }, - { - "id": "a_snack_neither_has_tried", - "text": "A snack neither has tried" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_wrapped_bakery_pick", - "text": "A wrapped bakery pick" - }, - { - "id": "a_drink_chosen_by_color", - "text": "A drink chosen by color" - }, - { - "id": "a_candy_from_childhood", - "text": "A candy from childhood" - }, - { - "id": "a_snack_neither_has_tried", - "text": "A snack neither has tried" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_082", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A celebration photo—what should we pick?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_photo_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "victory_pose", - "text": "Victory pose" - }, - { - "id": "fake_red_carpet_shot", - "text": "Fake red-carpet shot" - }, - { - "id": "matching_snack_selfie", - "text": "Matching snack selfie" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_an_old_picture", - "text": "Recreate an old picture" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "victory_pose", - "text": "Victory pose" - }, - { - "id": "fake_red_carpet_shot", - "text": "Fake red-carpet shot" - }, - { - "id": "matching_snack_selfie", - "text": "Matching snack selfie" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_an_old_picture", - "text": "Recreate an old picture" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_083", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which small win deserves credit today?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_couple_win" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_made_time_to_laugh", - "text": "We made time to laugh" - }, - { - "id": "we_chose_kindness_first", - "text": "We chose kindness first" - }, - { - "id": "we_tried_something_new", - "text": "We tried something new" - }, - { - "id": "we_made_an_ordinary_moment_fun", - "text": "We made an ordinary moment fun" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_made_time_to_laugh", - "text": "We made time to laugh" - }, - 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"text": "One episode we both love" - }, - { - "id": "a_surprise_snack_reveal", - "text": "A surprise snack reveal" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_ten_minute_mini_date", - "text": "A ten-minute mini-date" - }, - { - "id": "fancy_drinks_at_home", - "text": "Fancy drinks at home" - }, - { - "id": "one_episode_we_both_love", - "text": "One episode we both love" - }, - { - "id": "a_surprise_snack_reveal", - "text": "A surprise snack reveal" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_086", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we celebrate for absolutely no reason?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_silly_reward" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "make_sparkling_drinks", - "text": "Make sparkling drinks" - }, - { - "id": "dress_up_for_dinner_at_home", - 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"depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dramatic_celebration" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "short_and_sincere", - "text": "Short and sincere" - }, - { - "id": "wildly_overdramatic", - "text": "Wildly overdramatic" - }, - { - "id": "mostly_inside_jokes", - "text": "Mostly inside jokes" - }, - { - "id": "delivered_in_movie_trailer_voice", - "text": "Delivered in movie-trailer voice" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "short_and_sincere", - "text": "Short and sincere" - }, - { - "id": "wildly_overdramatic", - "text": "Wildly overdramatic" - }, - { - "id": "mostly_inside_jokes", - "text": "Mostly inside jokes" - }, - { - "id": "delivered_in_movie_trailer_voice", - "text": "Delivered in movie-trailer voice" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_091", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a celebration playlist, what gets the couple vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_music_reward" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dance_floor_hits", - "text": "Dance-floor hits" - }, - { - "id": "road_trip_favorites", - "text": "Road-trip favorites" - }, - { - "id": "songs_from_when_we_met", - "text": "Songs from when we met" - }, - { - "id": "pure_guilty_pleasure", - "text": "Pure guilty pleasure" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dance_floor_hits", - "text": "Dance-floor hits" - }, - { - "id": "road_trip_favorites", - "text": "Road-trip favorites" - }, - { - "id": "songs_from_when_we_met", - "text": "Songs from when we met" - }, - { - "id": "pure_guilty_pleasure", - "text": "Pure guilty pleasure" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_092", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which fifteen-minute outing deserves first place?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_adventure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pick_up_a_shared_drink", - "text": "Pick up a shared drink" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_three_photo_scavenger_hunt", - "text": "Try a three-photo scavenger hunt" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_dessert_walk", - "text": "Take a dessert walk" - }, - { - "id": "browse_one_shelf_and_pick_each_others_title", - "text": "Browse one shelf and pick each other’s title" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pick_up_a_shared_drink", - "text": "Pick up a shared drink" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_three_photo_scavenger_hunt", - "text": "Try a three-photo scavenger hunt" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_dessert_walk", - "text": "Take a dessert walk" - }, - { - "id": "browse_one_shelf_and_pick_each_others_title", - "text": "Browse one shelf and pick each other’s title" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_093", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which option should be our favorite for a surprise swap?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mystery_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pick_each_others_dessert", - "text": "Pick each other’s dessert" - }, - { - "id": "choose_each_others_playlist_song", - "text": "Choose each other’s playlist song" - }, - { - "id": "find_a_tiny_thrift_gift", - "text": "Find a tiny thrift gift" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_secret_date_clue", - "text": "Send a secret date clue" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pick_each_others_dessert", - "text": "Pick each other’s dessert" - }, - { - "id": "choose_each_others_playlist_song", - "text": "Choose each other’s playlist song" - }, - { - "id": "find_a_tiny_thrift_gift", - "text": "Find a tiny thrift gift" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_secret_date_clue", - "text": "Send a secret date clue" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_094", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A one-picture challenge: what wins our vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_photo_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_that_looks_expensive", - "text": "Something that looks expensive" - }, - { - "id": "the_funniest_object_nearby", - "text": "The funniest object nearby" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_thing_that_feels_like_us", - "text": "A tiny thing that feels like us" - }, - { - "id": "a_dramatic_before_and_after", - "text": "A dramatic before-and-after" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_that_looks_expensive", - "text": "Something that looks expensive" - }, - { - "id": "the_funniest_object_nearby", - "text": "The funniest object nearby" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_thing_that_feels_like_us", - "text": "A tiny thing that feels like us" - }, - { - "id": "a_dramatic_before_and_after", - "text": "A dramatic before-and-after" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_095", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which moment showed our best teamwork today?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_couple_win" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "picking_the_better_plan", - "text": "Picking the better plan" - }, - { - "id": "sharing_the_last_bite", - "text": "Sharing the last bite" - }, - { - "id": "tag_teaming_a_rough_moment", - "text": "Tag-teaming a rough moment" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_when_to_be_silly", - "text": "Knowing when to be silly" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "picking_the_better_plan", - "text": "Picking the better plan" - }, - { - "id": "sharing_the_last_bite", - "text": "Sharing the last bite" - }, - { - "id": "tag_teaming_a_rough_moment", - "text": "Tag-teaming a rough moment" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_when_to_be_silly", - "text": "Knowing when to be silly" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_096", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a routine moment, what do we like best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_ordinary_upgrade" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "add_a_silly_rule", - "text": "Add a silly rule" - }, - { - "id": "turn_it_into_a_two_minute_date", - "text": "Turn it into a two-minute date" - 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"text": "A pastry split" - }, - { - "id": "a_victory_selfie", - "text": "A victory selfie" - }, - { - "id": "pick_tonights_fun_plan", - "text": "Pick tonight’s fun plan" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "coffee_cheers", - "text": "Coffee cheers" - }, - { - "id": "a_pastry_split", - "text": "A pastry split" - }, - { - "id": "a_victory_selfie", - "text": "A victory selfie" - }, - { - "id": "pick_tonights_fun_plan", - "text": "Pick tonight’s fun plan" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_098", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For the official prize, what is your pick?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_silly_reward" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "winner_picks_our_team_name", - "text": "Winner picks our team name" - }, - { - "id": "first_snack_pick", - "text": "First snack pick" - }, - { - "id": "control_of_the_playlist", - "text": "Control of the playlist" - }, - { - "id": "a_ridiculous_paper_crown", - "text": "A ridiculous paper crown" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "winner_picks_our_team_name", - "text": "Winner picks our team name" - }, - { - "id": "first_snack_pick", - "text": "First snack pick" - }, - { - "id": "control_of_the_playlist", - "text": "Control of the playlist" - }, - { - "id": "a_ridiculous_paper_crown", - "text": "A ridiculous paper crown" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_099", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A Tuesday taste-test: which option fits best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_snack_mission" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "cookies", - "text": "Cookies" - }, - { - "id": "hot_sauces", - "text": "Hot sauces" - }, - { - "id": "mini_pastries", - "text": "Mini pastries" - }, - { - "id": "fancy_sodas", - "text": "Fancy sodas" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cookies", - "text": "Cookies" - }, - { - "id": "hot_sauces", - "text": "Hot sauces" - }, - { - "id": "mini_pastries", - "text": "Mini pastries" - }, - { - "id": "fancy_sodas", - "text": "Fancy sodas" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_100", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "One song, one challenge—which version sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_small_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dance_without_repeating_a_move", - "text": "Dance without repeating a move" - }, - { - "id": "lip_sync_like_a_superstar", - "text": "Lip-sync like a superstar" - }, - { - "id": "guess_the_year_it_came_out", - "text": "Guess the year it came out" - }, - { - "id": "act_out_the_lyrics", - "text": "Act out the lyrics" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dance_without_repeating_a_move", - "text": "Dance without repeating a move" - }, - { - "id": "lip_sync_like_a_superstar", - "text": "Lip-sync like a superstar" - }, - { - "id": "guess_the_year_it_came_out", - "text": "Guess the year it came out" - }, - { - "id": "act_out_the_lyrics", - "text": "Act out the lyrics" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_101", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which part should we choose together tonight?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_choose_together" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_snack_theme", - "text": "The snack theme" - }, - { - "id": "the_lighting_mood", - "text": "The lighting mood" - }, - { - "id": "the_one_hour_vibe", - "text": "The one-hour vibe" - }, - { - "id": "the_victory_song", - "text": "The victory song" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_snack_theme", - "text": "The snack theme" - }, - { - "id": "the_lighting_mood", - "text": "The lighting mood" - }, - { - "id": "the_one_hour_vibe", - "text": "The one-hour vibe" - }, - { - "id": "the_victory_song", - "text": "The victory song" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_102", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which celebration headline sounds most like us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dramatic_celebration" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "couple_wins_again", - "text": "Couple wins again" - 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"quick_answer", - "mechanic_music_reward" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_and_sweet", - "text": "Slow and sweet" - }, - { - "id": "wild_and_uncoordinated", - "text": "Wild and uncoordinated" - }, - { - "id": "serious_ballroom_faces", - "text": "Serious ballroom faces" - }, - { - "id": "one_signature_move_each", - "text": "One signature move each" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_and_sweet", - "text": "Slow and sweet" - }, - { - "id": "wild_and_uncoordinated", - "text": "Wild and uncoordinated" - }, - { - "id": "serious_ballroom_faces", - "text": "Serious ballroom faces" - }, - { - "id": "one_signature_move_each", - "text": "One signature move each" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_104", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which idea fits a spontaneous detour best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_adventure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_the_scenic_road", - "text": "Take the scenic road" - }, - { - "id": "stop_at_a_roadside_stand", - "text": "Stop at a roadside stand" - }, - { - "id": "find_the_best_porch_lights", - "text": "Find the best porch lights" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_random_park", - "text": "Choose a random park" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_the_scenic_road", - "text": "Take the scenic road" - }, - { - "id": "stop_at_a_roadside_stand", - "text": "Stop at a roadside stand" - }, - { - "id": "find_the_best_porch_lights", - "text": "Find the best porch lights" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_random_park", - "text": "Choose a random park" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_105", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which choice best matches a blind choice?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mystery_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "mystery_movie_trailer", - "text": "Mystery movie trailer" - }, - { - "id": "unknown_ice_cream_flavor", - "text": "Unknown ice-cream flavor" - }, - { - "id": "random_card_game_challenge", - "text": "Random card-game challenge" - }, - { - "id": "sealed_envelope_mini_date", - "text": "Sealed envelope mini-date" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "mystery_movie_trailer", - "text": "Mystery movie trailer" - }, - { - "id": "unknown_ice_cream_flavor", - "text": "Unknown ice-cream flavor" - }, - { - "id": "random_card_game_challenge", - "text": "Random card-game challenge" - }, - { - "id": "sealed_envelope_mini_date", - "text": "Sealed envelope mini-date" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_106", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which photo should capture today?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_photo_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_candid_laugh", - "text": "A candid laugh" - }, - { - "id": "our_chosen_treat", - "text": "Our chosen treat" - }, - { - "id": "the_view_from_our_mini_date", - "text": "The view from our mini-date" - }, - { - "id": "a_terrible_posed_portrait", - "text": "A terrible posed portrait" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_candid_laugh", - "text": "A candid laugh" - }, - { - "id": "our_chosen_treat", - "text": "Our chosen treat" - }, - { - "id": "the_view_from_our_mini_date", - "text": "The view from our mini-date" - }, - { - "id": "a_terrible_posed_portrait", - "text": "A terrible posed portrait" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_107", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which small move says “we’ve got this”?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_couple_win" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "break_the_tension_with_a_joke", - "text": "Break the tension with a joke" - }, - { - "id": "reach_for_each_others_hand", - "text": "Reach for each other’s hand" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_five_minute_date", - "text": "Choose a five-minute date" - }, - { - "id": "turn_the_wait_into_a_game", - "text": "Turn the wait into a game" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "break_the_tension_with_a_joke", - "text": "Break the tension with a joke" - }, - { - "id": "reach_for_each_others_hand", - "text": "Reach for each other’s hand" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_five_minute_date", - "text": "Choose a five-minute date" - }, - { - "id": "turn_the_wait_into_a_game", - "text": "Turn the wait into a game" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_108", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we change up our usual evening?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_ordinary_upgrade" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "swap_the_normal_snack", - "text": "Swap the normal snack" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_new_seat", - "text": "Try a new seat" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_ten_minute_adventure", - "text": "Choose a ten-minute adventure" - }, - { - "id": "use_movie_trailer_voices", - "text": "Use movie-trailer voices" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "swap_the_normal_snack", - "text": "Swap the normal snack" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_new_seat", - "text": "Try a new seat" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_ten_minute_adventure", - "text": "Choose a ten-minute adventure" - }, - { - "id": "use_movie_trailer_voices", - "text": "Use movie-trailer voices" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_109", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we mark a surprisingly good moment?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_tiny_win" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "replay_the_story_dramatically", - "text": "Replay the story dramatically" - }, - { - "id": "save_it_in_our_couple_lore", - "text": "Save it in our couple lore" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_song_for_it", - "text": "Choose a song for it" - }, - { - "id": "turn_it_into_a_mini_tradition", - "text": "Turn it into a mini tradition" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "replay_the_story_dramatically", - "text": "Replay the story dramatically" - }, - { - "id": "save_it_in_our_couple_lore", - "text": "Save it in our couple lore" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_song_for_it", - "text": "Choose a song for it" - }, - { - "id": "turn_it_into_a_mini_tradition", - "text": "Turn it into a mini tradition" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_110", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which victory-lap move sounds most fun?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_silly_reward" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "drive_with_the_windows_down", - "text": "Drive with the windows down" - }, - { - "id": "walk_with_victory_music_playing", - "text": "Walk with victory music playing" - }, - { - "id": "choose_dessert_before_anything_else", - "text": "Choose dessert before anything else" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_ridiculous_victory_slogan", - "text": "Invent a ridiculous victory slogan" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "drive_with_the_windows_down", - "text": "Drive with the windows down" - }, - { - "id": "walk_with_victory_music_playing", - "text": "Walk with victory music playing" - }, - { - "id": "choose_dessert_before_anything_else", - "text": "Choose dessert before anything else" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_ridiculous_victory_slogan", - "text": "Invent a ridiculous victory slogan" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_111", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "First pick in a tiny snack draft—what wins?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_snack_mission" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "kettle_chips_with_extra_crunch", - "text": "Kettle chips with extra crunch" - }, - { - "id": "chocolate_covered_pretzels", - "text": "Chocolate-covered pretzels" - }, - { - "id": "a_candy_we_loved_as_kids", - "text": "A candy we loved as kids" - }, - { - "id": "a_mystery_bakery_selection", - "text": "A mystery bakery selection" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kettle_chips_with_extra_crunch", - "text": "Kettle chips with extra crunch" - }, - { - "id": "chocolate_covered_pretzels", - "text": "Chocolate-covered pretzels" - }, - { - "id": "a_candy_we_loved_as_kids", - "text": "A candy we loved as kids" - }, - { - "id": "a_mystery_bakery_selection", - "text": "A mystery bakery selection" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_112", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which quick couple quest gets your vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_small_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_something_heart_shaped", - "text": "Find something heart-shaped" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_matching_color_photo", - "text": "Take a matching-color photo" - }, - { - "id": "spot_three_funny_signs", - "text": "Spot three funny signs" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_strangers_imaginary_job", - "text": "Choose a stranger’s imaginary job" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_something_heart_shaped", - "text": "Find something heart-shaped" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_matching_color_photo", - "text": "Take a matching-color photo" - }, - { - "id": "spot_three_funny_signs", - "text": "Spot three funny signs" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_strangers_imaginary_job", - "text": "Choose a stranger’s imaginary job" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_113", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny upgrade would make tonight feel more like a date?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_choose_together" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "add_one_unexpectedly_fancy_detail", - "text": "Add one unexpectedly fancy detail" - }, - { - "id": "serve_drinks_in_favorite_glasses", - "text": "Serve drinks in favorite glasses" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_three_song_theme", - "text": "Choose a three-song theme" - }, - { - "id": "reveal_a_surprise_dessert", - "text": "Reveal a surprise dessert" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "add_one_unexpectedly_fancy_detail", - "text": "Add one unexpectedly fancy detail" - }, - { - "id": "serve_drinks_in_favorite_glasses", - "text": "Serve drinks in favorite glasses" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_three_song_theme", - "text": "Choose a three-song theme" - }, - { - "id": "reveal_a_surprise_dessert", - "text": "Reveal a surprise dessert" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_114", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the funniest version of a fake news alert:", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dramatic_celebration" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "breaking_we_earned_dessert", - "text": "Breaking: we earned dessert" - }, - { - "id": "local_couple_defeats_boring_day", - "text": "Local couple defeats boring day" - }, - { - "id": "sources_confirm_date_night", - "text": "Sources confirm date night" - }, - { - "id": "playlist_saves_evening", - "text": "Playlist saves evening" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "breaking_we_earned_dessert", - "text": "Breaking: we earned dessert" - }, - { - "id": "local_couple_defeats_boring_day", - "text": "Local couple defeats boring day" - }, - { - "id": "sources_confirm_date_night", - "text": "Sources confirm date night" - }, - { - "id": "playlist_saves_evening", - "text": "Playlist saves evening" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_115", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which musical reward sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_music_reward" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "trade_one_song_dedications", - "text": "Trade one-song dedications" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_three_song_mini_mix", - "text": "Make a three-song mini mix" - }, - { - "id": "guess_each_others_pick", - "text": "Guess each other’s pick" - }, - { - "id": "replay_our_old_favorite", - "text": "Replay our old favorite" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trade_one_song_dedications", - "text": "Trade one-song dedications" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_three_song_mini_mix", - "text": "Make a three-song mini mix" - }, - { - "id": "guess_each_others_pick", - "text": "Guess each other’s pick" - }, - { - "id": "replay_our_old_favorite", - "text": "Replay our old favorite" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_116", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A tiny neighborhood quest: pick the winner.", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_adventure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_the_prettiest_tree", - "text": "Find the prettiest tree" - }, - { - "id": "rate_funny_yard_decorations", - "text": "Rate funny yard decorations" - }, - { - "id": "spot_a_hidden_mural", - "text": "Spot a hidden mural" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_future_picnic_spot", - "text": "Pick a future picnic spot" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_the_prettiest_tree", - "text": "Find the prettiest tree" - }, - { - "id": "rate_funny_yard_decorations", - "text": "Rate funny yard decorations" - }, - { - "id": "spot_a_hidden_mural", - "text": "Spot a hidden mural" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_future_picnic_spot", - "text": "Pick a future picnic spot" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_117", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny reveal sounds most fun?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mystery_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "show_one_saved_photo", - "text": "Show one saved photo" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_secret_compliment", - "text": "Share one secret compliment" - }, - { - "id": "reveal_one_future_date_idea", - "text": "Reveal one future date idea" - }, - { - "id": "admit_one_harmless_unpopular_opinion", - "text": "Admit one harmless unpopular opinion" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "show_one_saved_photo", - "text": "Show one saved photo" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_secret_compliment", - "text": "Share one secret compliment" - }, - { - "id": "reveal_one_future_date_idea", - "text": "Reveal one future date idea" - }, - { - "id": "admit_one_harmless_unpopular_opinion", - "text": "Admit one harmless unpopular opinion" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_118", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we hunt for in our photo scavenger game?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_photo_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_a_heart_shape", - "text": "Find a heart shape" - }, - { - "id": "find_our_favorite_color", - "text": "Find our favorite color" - }, - { - "id": "find_something_nostalgic", - "text": "Find something nostalgic" - }, - { - "id": "find_something_hilariously_tiny", - "text": "Find something hilariously tiny" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_a_heart_shape", - "text": "Find a heart shape" - }, - { - "id": "find_our_favorite_color", - "text": "Find our favorite color" - }, - { - "id": "find_something_nostalgic", - "text": "Find something nostalgic" - }, - { - "id": "find_something_hilariously_tiny", - "text": "Find something hilariously tiny" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_119", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we give ourselves credit for?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_couple_win" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_kept_our_sense_of_humor", - "text": "We kept our sense of humor" - }, - { - "id": "we_noticed_each_other", - "text": "We noticed each other" - }, - { - "id": "we_followed_through_on_a_plan", - "text": "We followed through on a plan" - }, - { - "id": "we_made_space_for_play", - "text": "We made space for play" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_kept_our_sense_of_humor", - "text": "We kept our sense of humor" - }, - { - "id": "we_noticed_each_other", - "text": "We noticed each other" - }, - { - "id": "we_followed_through_on_a_plan", - "text": "We followed through on a plan" - }, - { - "id": "we_made_space_for_play", - "text": "We made space for play" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_120", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A plain old meal: which pick is strongest?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_ordinary_upgrade" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "light_one_candle", - "text": "Light one candle" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_rating_card", - "text": "Make a rating card" - }, - { - "id": "play_vacation_music", - "text": "Play vacation music" - }, - { - "id": "order_one_mystery_side", - "text": "Order one mystery side" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "light_one_candle", - "text": "Light one candle" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_rating_card", - "text": "Make a rating card" - }, - { - "id": "play_vacation_music", - "text": "Play vacation music" - }, - { - "id": "order_one_mystery_side", - "text": "Order one mystery side" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_121", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which option best fits a good-news text?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_tiny_win" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "reply_with_celebration_emojis", - "text": "Reply with celebration emojis" - }, - { - "id": "plan_a_tiny_treat", - "text": "Plan a tiny treat" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_voice_note_cheer", - "text": "Send a voice-note cheer" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_future_date_reward", - "text": "Pick a future date reward" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "reply_with_celebration_emojis", - "text": "Reply with celebration emojis" - }, - { - "id": "plan_a_tiny_treat", - "text": "Plan a tiny treat" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_voice_note_cheer", - "text": "Send a voice-note cheer" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_future_date_reward", - "text": "Pick a future date reward" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_122", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a little “we did it” moment, what sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_silly_reward" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "clink_our_mugs", - "text": "Clink our mugs" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_celebration_selfie", - "text": "Take a celebration selfie" - }, - { - "id": "write_a_one_line_victory_note", - "text": "Write a one-line victory note" - }, - { - "id": "pick_next_weeks_reward", - "text": "Pick next week’s reward" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clink_our_mugs", - "text": "Clink our mugs" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_celebration_selfie", - "text": "Take a celebration selfie" - }, - { - "id": "write_a_one_line_victory_note", - "text": "Write a one-line victory note" - }, - { - "id": "pick_next_weeks_reward", - "text": "Pick next week’s reward" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_123", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a treat to split, which option wins?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_snack_mission" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_cinnamon_rolls", - "text": "Warm cinnamon rolls" - }, - { - "id": "loaded_fries", - "text": "Loaded fries" - }, - { - "id": "a_giant_cookie", - "text": "A giant cookie" - }, - { - "id": "milkshakes_with_two_straws", - "text": "Milkshakes with two straws" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_cinnamon_rolls", - "text": "Warm cinnamon rolls" - }, - { - "id": "loaded_fries", - "text": "Loaded fries" - }, - { - "id": "a_giant_cookie", - "text": "A giant cookie" - }, - { - "id": "milkshakes_with_two_straws", - "text": "Milkshakes with two straws" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_124", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which harmless dare fits us best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_small_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "deliver_a_compliment_like_a_movie_trailer", - "text": "Deliver a compliment like a movie trailer" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_strange_flavor_combination", - "text": "Try a strange flavor combination" - }, - { - "id": "narrate_a_snack_like_a_sportscaster", - "text": "Narrate a snack like a sportscaster" - }, - { - "id": "let_the_other_choose_your_next_song", - "text": "Let the other choose your next song" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "deliver_a_compliment_like_a_movie_trailer", - "text": "Deliver a compliment like a movie trailer" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_strange_flavor_combination", - "text": "Try a strange flavor combination" - }, - { - "id": "narrate_a_snack_like_a_sportscaster", - "text": "Narrate a snack like a sportscaster" - }, - { - "id": "let_the_other_choose_your_next_song", - "text": "Let the other choose your next song" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_125", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which harmless splurge sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_choose_together" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "bakery_treats", - "text": "Bakery treats" - }, - { - "id": "a_rental_movie", - "text": "A rental movie" - }, - { - "id": "fancy_coffee", - "text": "Fancy coffee" - }, - { - "id": "flowers_for_the_table", - "text": "Flowers for the table" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "bakery_treats", - "text": "Bakery treats" - }, - { - "id": "a_rental_movie", - "text": "A rental movie" - }, - { - "id": "fancy_coffee", - "text": "Fancy coffee" - }, - { - "id": "flowers_for_the_table", - "text": "Flowers for the table" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_126", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which champion title should we claim?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dramatic_celebration" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_win_royalty", - "text": "Tiny-Win Royalty" - }, - { - "id": "snack_strategy_experts", - "text": "Snack Strategy Experts" - }, - { - "id": "dynamic_duo_of_the_week", - "text": "Dynamic Duo of the Week" - }, - { - "id": "masters_of_the_midweek", - "text": "Masters of the Midweek" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_win_royalty", - "text": "Tiny-Win Royalty" - }, - { - "id": "snack_strategy_experts", - "text": "Snack Strategy Experts" - }, - { - "id": "dynamic_duo_of_the_week", - "text": "Dynamic Duo of the Week" - }, - { - "id": "masters_of_the_midweek", - "text": "Masters of the Midweek" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_127", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which chorus deserves to be yelled together?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_music_reward" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_one_we_know_perfectly", - "text": "The one we know perfectly" - }, - { - "id": "the_one_with_impossible_notes", - "text": "The one with impossible notes" - }, - { - "id": "the_one_tied_to_a_memory", - "text": "The one tied to a memory" - }, - { - "id": "the_one_that_makes_us_grin", - "text": "The one that makes us grin" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_one_we_know_perfectly", - "text": "The one we know perfectly" - }, - { - "id": "the_one_with_impossible_notes", - "text": "The one with impossible notes" - }, - { - "id": "the_one_tied_to_a_memory", - "text": "The one tied to a memory" - }, - { - "id": "the_one_that_makes_us_grin", - "text": "The one that makes us grin" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_128", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which low-budget adventure sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_adventure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "five_dollar_thrift_challenge", - "text": "Five-dollar thrift challenge" - }, - { - "id": "split_one_new_treat", - "text": "Split one new treat" - }, - { - "id": "visit_a_free_local_spot", - "text": "Visit a free local spot" - }, - { - "id": "take_photos_with_one_color_theme", - "text": "Take photos with one color theme" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "five_dollar_thrift_challenge", - "text": "Five-dollar thrift challenge" - }, - { - "id": "split_one_new_treat", - "text": "Split one new treat" - }, - { - "id": "visit_a_free_local_spot", - "text": "Visit a free local spot" - }, - { - "id": "take_photos_with_one_color_theme", - "text": "Take photos with one color theme" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_129", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should stay hidden until the big reveal?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mystery_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_flavor_of_a_shared_dessert", - "text": "The flavor of a shared dessert" - }, - { - "id": "the_title_of_a_mini_playlist", - "text": "The title of a mini playlist" - }, - { - "id": "the_location_of_a_photo_clue", - "text": "The location of a photo clue" - }, - { - "id": "the_punchline_of_a_silly_note", - "text": "The punchline of a silly note" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_flavor_of_a_shared_dessert", - "text": "The flavor of a shared dessert" - }, - { - "id": "the_title_of_a_mini_playlist", - "text": "The title of a mini playlist" - }, - { - "id": "the_location_of_a_photo_clue", - "text": "The location of a photo clue" - }, - { - "id": "the_punchline_of_a_silly_note", - "text": "The punchline of a silly note" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_130", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which couple-camera dare gets your vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_photo_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "swap_poses", - "text": "Swap poses" - }, - { - "id": "use_only_reflections", - "text": "Use only reflections" - }, - { - "id": "make_album_cover_faces", - "text": "Make album-cover faces" - }, - { - "id": "take_the_most_serious_snack_photo", - "text": "Take the most serious snack photo" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "swap_poses", - "text": "Swap poses" - }, - { - "id": "use_only_reflections", - "text": "Use only reflections" - }, - { - "id": "make_album_cover_faces", - "text": "Make album-cover faces" - }, - { - "id": "take_the_most_serious_snack_photo", - "text": "Take the most serious snack photo" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_131", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What was our most underrated strength today?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_couple_win" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "snack_coordination", - "text": "Snack coordination" - }, - { - "id": "turning_mishaps_into_jokes", - "text": "Turning mishaps into jokes" - }, - { - "id": "excellent_comic_relief", - "text": "Excellent comic relief" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "snack_coordination", - "text": "Snack coordination" - }, - { - "id": "turning_mishaps_into_jokes", - "text": "Turning mishaps into jokes" - }, - { - "id": "excellent_comic_relief", - "text": "Excellent comic relief" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_132", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A familiar drive: what gets your vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_ordinary_upgrade" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "choose_a_new_route", - "text": "Choose a new route" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_three_song_soundtrack", - "text": "Make a three-song soundtrack" - }, - { - "id": "stop_for_one_shared_treat", - "text": "Stop for one shared treat" - }, - { - "id": "invent_stories_about_passing_cars", - "text": "Invent stories about passing cars" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "choose_a_new_route", - "text": "Choose a new route" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_three_song_soundtrack", - "text": "Make a three-song soundtrack" - }, - { - "id": "stop_for_one_shared_treat", - "text": "Stop for one shared treat" - }, - { - "id": "invent_stories_about_passing_cars", - "text": "Invent stories about passing cars" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_133", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "After a long day, which little celebration sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_tiny_win" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_a_sunset_ice_cream_drive", - "text": "Take a sunset ice-cream drive" - }, - { - "id": "dance_through_one_kitchen_song", - "text": "Dance through one kitchen song" - }, - { - "id": "trade_the_funniest_clips_we_saved", - "text": "Trade the funniest clips we saved" - }, - { - "id": "turn_takeout_into_a_floor_picnic", - "text": "Turn takeout into a floor picnic" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_a_sunset_ice_cream_drive", - "text": "Take a sunset ice-cream drive" - }, - { - "id": "dance_through_one_kitchen_song", - "text": "Dance through one kitchen song" - }, - { - "id": "trade_the_funniest_clips_we_saved", - "text": "Trade the funniest clips we saved" - }, - { - "id": "turn_takeout_into_a_floor_picnic", - "text": "Turn takeout into a floor picnic" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_134", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we keep a good win going?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_silly_reward" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "turn_dinner_into_a_date", - "text": "Turn dinner into a date" - }, - { - "id": "add_a_surprise_late_treat", - "text": "Add a surprise late treat" - }, - { - "id": "watch_an_old_favorite_together", - "text": "Watch an old favorite together" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_two_minute_highlight_reel", - "text": "Make a two-minute highlight reel" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "turn_dinner_into_a_date", - "text": "Turn dinner into a date" - }, - { - "id": "add_a_surprise_late_treat", - "text": "Add a surprise late treat" - }, - { - "id": "watch_an_old_favorite_together", - "text": "Watch an old favorite together" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_two_minute_highlight_reel", - "text": "Make a two-minute highlight reel" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_135", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A food mini-adventure: which one fits best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_snack_mission" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "try_a_new_dip", - "text": "Try a new dip" - }, - { - "id": "order_the_odd_appetizer", - "text": "Order the odd appetizer" - }, - { - "id": "make_breakfast_at_night", - "text": "Make breakfast at night" - }, - { - "id": "rate_three_kinds_of_popcorn", - "text": "Rate three kinds of popcorn" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "try_a_new_dip", - "text": "Try a new dip" - }, - { - "id": "order_the_odd_appetizer", - "text": "Order the odd appetizer" - }, - { - "id": "make_breakfast_at_night", - "text": "Make breakfast at night" - }, - { - "id": "rate_three_kinds_of_popcorn", - "text": "Rate three kinds of popcorn" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_136", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which option suits a sixty-second game best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_small_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "longest_straight_face", - "text": "Longest straight face" - }, - { - "id": "best_animal_impression", - "text": "Best animal impression" - }, - { - "id": "fastest_compliment_round", - "text": "Fastest compliment round" - }, - { - "id": "most_dramatic_movie_recap", - "text": "Most dramatic movie recap" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "longest_straight_face", - "text": "Longest straight face" - }, - { - "id": "best_animal_impression", - "text": "Best animal impression" - }, - { - "id": "fastest_compliment_round", - "text": "Fastest compliment round" - }, - { - "id": "most_dramatic_movie_recap", - "text": "Most dramatic movie recap" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_137", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny Tuesday tradition should we start?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_choose_together" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tuesday_dessert_vote", - "text": "Tuesday dessert vote" - }, - { - "id": "one_song_victory_lap", - "text": "One-song victory lap" - }, - { - "id": "weekly_silly_selfie", - "text": "Weekly silly selfie" - }, - { - "id": "best_moment_toast", - "text": "Best-moment toast" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tuesday_dessert_vote", - "text": "Tuesday dessert vote" - }, - { - "id": "one_song_victory_lap", - "text": "One-song victory lap" - }, - { - "id": "weekly_silly_selfie", - "text": "Weekly silly selfie" - }, - { - "id": "best_moment_toast", - "text": "Best-moment toast" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_138", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What belongs on our one-line trophy inscription?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dramatic_celebration" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_showed_up", - "text": "We showed up" - }, - { - "id": "we_laughed_anyway", - "text": "We laughed anyway" - }, - { - "id": "we_chose_the_fun_option", - "text": "We chose the fun option" - }, - { - "id": "we_made_ordinary_count", - "text": "We made ordinary count" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_showed_up", - "text": "We showed up" - }, - { - "id": "we_laughed_anyway", - "text": "We laughed anyway" - }, - { - "id": "we_chose_the_fun_option", - "text": "We chose the fun option" - }, - { - "id": "we_made_ordinary_count", - "text": "We made ordinary count" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_139", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A tiny living-room concert: which choice feels right?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_music_reward" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "air_guitars", - "text": "Air guitars" - }, - { - "id": "hairbrush_microphones", - "text": "Hairbrush microphones" - }, - { - "id": "dramatic_lighting", - "text": "Dramatic lighting" - }, - { - "id": "matching_terrible_dance_moves", - "text": "Matching terrible dance moves" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "air_guitars", - "text": "Air guitars" - }, - { - "id": "hairbrush_microphones", - "text": "Hairbrush microphones" - }, - { - "id": "dramatic_lighting", - "text": "Dramatic lighting" - }, - { - "id": "matching_terrible_dance_moves", - "text": "Matching terrible dance moves" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_140", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which option takes a just-because drive?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_adventure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "follow_the_sunset", - "text": "Follow the sunset" - }, - { - "id": "let_the_playlist_choose_the_route", - "text": "Let the playlist choose the route" - }, - { - "id": "find_the_best_neon_sign", - "text": "Find the best neon sign" - }, - { - "id": "end_with_a_favorite_drink", - "text": "End with a favorite drink" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "follow_the_sunset", - "text": "Follow the sunset" - }, - { - "id": "let_the_playlist_choose_the_route", - "text": "Let the playlist choose the route" - }, - { - "id": "find_the_best_neon_sign", - "text": "Find the best neon sign" - }, - { - "id": "end_with_a_favorite_drink", - "text": "End with a favorite drink" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_141", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should you pick for me?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mystery_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "my_drink", - "text": "My drink" - }, - { - "id": "my_dessert", - "text": "My dessert" - }, - { - "id": "my_next_song", - "text": "My next song" - }, - { - "id": "my_silly_dare", - "text": "My silly dare" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "my_drink", - "text": "My drink" - }, - { - "id": "my_dessert", - "text": "My dessert" - }, - { - "id": "my_next_song", - "text": "My next song" - }, - { - "id": "my_silly_dare", - "text": "My silly dare" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_142", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which detail belongs in the story of this win?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_photo_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_victory_toast", - "text": "Our victory toast" - }, - { - "id": "the_ridiculous_prize", - "text": "The ridiculous prize" - }, - { - "id": "the_snack_that_disappeared_first", - "text": "The snack that disappeared first" - }, - { - "id": "the_moment_we_stopped_being_serious", - "text": "The moment we stopped being serious" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_victory_toast", - "text": "Our victory toast" - }, - { - "id": "the_ridiculous_prize", - "text": "The ridiculous prize" - }, - { - "id": "the_snack_that_disappeared_first", - "text": "The snack that disappeared first" - }, - { - "id": "the_moment_we_stopped_being_serious", - "text": "The moment we stopped being serious" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_143", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which win should future-us remember?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_couple_win" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_found_fun_in_a_strange_day", - "text": "We found fun in a strange day" - }, - { - "id": "we_noticed_one_bright_spot", - "text": "We noticed one bright spot" - }, - { - "id": "we_chose_each_others_company", - "text": "We chose each other’s company" - }, - { - "id": "we_laughed_at_exactly_the_same_thing", - "text": "We laughed at exactly the same thing" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_found_fun_in_a_strange_day", - "text": "We found fun in a strange day" - }, - { - "id": "we_noticed_one_bright_spot", - "text": "We noticed one bright spot" - }, - { - "id": "we_chose_each_others_company", - "text": "We chose each other’s company" - }, - { - "id": "we_laughed_at_exactly_the_same_thing", - "text": "We laughed at exactly the same thing" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } + "text": "Which little plan would you look forward to most?" }, { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_144", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we make the usual evening feel different?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_tuesday_tiny_win", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_ordinary_upgrade" + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_175", + "expected_text": "For a tiny escape, which option gets the nod?", + "reasons": [ + "canned_game_show_phrase" ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "build_a_themed_snack_tray", - "text": "Build a themed snack tray" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_truly_odd_documentary", - "text": "Pick a truly odd documentary" - }, - { - "id": "trade_one_ridiculous_question_each", - "text": "Trade one ridiculous question each" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_one_night_dress_code", - "text": "Choose a one-night dress code" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "build_a_themed_snack_tray", - "text": "Build a themed snack tray" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_truly_odd_documentary", - "text": "Pick a truly odd documentary" - }, - { - "id": "trade_one_ridiculous_question_each", - "text": "Trade one ridiculous question each" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_one_night_dress_code", - "text": "Choose a one-night dress code" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_145", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For tonight, which idea sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_real_preference" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_date", - "text": "A playful date" - }, - { - "id": "a_real_conversation", - "text": "A real conversation" - }, - { - "id": "a_no_plan_adventure", - "text": "A no-plan adventure" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_date", - "text": "A playful date" - }, - { - "id": "a_real_conversation", - "text": "A real conversation" - }, - { - "id": "a_no_plan_adventure", - "text": "A no-plan adventure" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_146", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of attention from me would feel best today?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_honest_attention" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_me_a_specific_question", - "text": "Ask me a specific question" - }, - { - "id": "pull_me_closer", - "text": "Pull me closer" - }, - { - "id": "send_me_something_funny", - "text": "Send me something funny" - }, - { - "id": "put_the_phone_down_first", - "text": "Put the phone down first" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_me_a_specific_question", - "text": "Ask me a specific question" - }, - { - "id": "pull_me_closer", - "text": "Pull me closer" - }, - { - "id": "send_me_something_funny", - "text": "Send me something funny" - }, - { - "id": "put_the_phone_down_first", - "text": "Put the phone down first" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_147", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we unwind together tonight?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_recharge_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "quietly_in_the_same_room", - "text": "Quietly in the same room" - }, - { - "id": "wander_through_a_familiar_neighborhood", - "text": "Wander through a familiar neighborhood" - }, - { - "id": "a_comfort_show_and_snacks", - "text": "A comfort show and snacks" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_drive_with_music", - "text": "A short drive with music" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quietly_in_the_same_room", - "text": "Quietly in the same room" - }, - { - "id": "wander_through_a_familiar_neighborhood", - "text": "Wander through a familiar neighborhood" - }, - { - "id": "a_comfort_show_and_snacks", - "text": "A comfort show and snacks" - }, - { - "id": "a_short_drive_with_music", - "text": "A short drive with music" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_148", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which answer fits a small truth about tonight best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_small_truth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_want_to_be_held", - "text": "I want to be held" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_to_laugh", - "text": "I want to laugh" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_a_little_space_nearby", - "text": "I want a little space nearby" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_us_to_do_something", - "text": "I want us to do something" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_want_to_be_held", - "text": "I want to be held" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_to_laugh", - "text": "I want to laugh" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_a_little_space_nearby", - "text": "I want a little space nearby" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_us_to_do_something", - "text": "I want us to do something" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_149", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which early-days favorite should we revisit?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_memory_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "have_one_long_phone_style_conversation", - "text": "Have one long phone-style conversation" - }, - { - "id": "choose_something_spontaneous", - "text": "Choose something spontaneous" - }, - { - "id": "bring_back_our_early_flirting_style", - "text": "Bring back our early flirting style" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_an_early_favorite_order", - "text": "Recreate an early favorite order" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "have_one_long_phone_style_conversation", - "text": "Have one long phone-style conversation" - }, - { - "id": "choose_something_spontaneous", - "text": "Choose something spontaneous" - }, - { - "id": "bring_back_our_early_flirting_style", - "text": "Bring back our early flirting style" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_an_early_favorite_order", - "text": "Recreate an early favorite order" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_150", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A comfort pick: what should we go with?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_comfort_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_favorite_sitcom", - "text": "Our favorite sitcom" - }, - { - "id": "a_movie_we_can_quote", - "text": "A movie we can quote" - }, - { - "id": "a_cozy_cooking_show", - "text": "A cozy cooking show" - }, - { - "id": "a_silly_competition_show", - "text": "A silly competition show" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_favorite_sitcom", - "text": "Our favorite sitcom" - }, - { - "id": "a_movie_we_can_quote", - "text": "A movie we can quote" - }, - { - "id": "a_cozy_cooking_show", - "text": "A cozy cooking show" - }, - { - "id": "a_silly_competition_show", - "text": "A silly competition show" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_151", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "One perfect hour: what sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_one_hour_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "coffee_and_people_watching", - "text": "Coffee and people-watching" - }, - { - "id": "a_walk_somewhere_green", - "text": "A walk somewhere green" - }, - { - "id": "a_snack_crawl", - "text": "A snack crawl" - }, - { - "id": "a_window_seat_date_with_no_phones", - "text": "A window-seat date with no phones" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "coffee_and_people_watching", - "text": "Coffee and people-watching" - }, - { - "id": "a_walk_somewhere_green", - "text": "A walk somewhere green" - }, - { - "id": "a_snack_crawl", - "text": "A snack crawl" - }, - { - "id": "a_window_seat_date_with_no_phones", - "text": "A window-seat date with no phones" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_152", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny thing feels most unmistakably like us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_couple_identity" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_private_joke", - "text": "A private joke" - }, - { - "id": "a_familiar_kind_of_kiss", - "text": "A familiar kind of kiss" - }, - { - "id": "a_snack_we_always_share", - "text": "A snack we always share" - }, - { - "id": "a_ridiculous_shared_phrase", - "text": "A ridiculous shared phrase" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_private_joke", - "text": "A private joke" - }, - { - "id": "a_familiar_kind_of_kiss", - "text": "A familiar kind of kiss" - }, - { - "id": "a_snack_we_always_share", - "text": "A snack we always share" - }, - { - "id": "a_ridiculous_shared_phrase", - "text": "A ridiculous shared phrase" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_153", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How much structure should our next date have?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_preference_debate" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "plan_it_completely", - "text": "Plan it completely" - }, - { - "id": "leave_one_surprise", - "text": "Leave one surprise" - }, - { - "id": "keep_it_under_an_hour", - "text": "Keep it under an hour" - }, - { - "id": "make_it_an_all_evening_thing", - "text": "Make it an all-evening thing" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "plan_it_completely", - "text": "Plan it completely" - }, - { - "id": "leave_one_surprise", - "text": "Leave one surprise" - }, - { - "id": "keep_it_under_an_hour", - "text": "Keep it under an hour" - }, - { - "id": "make_it_an_all_evening_thing", - "text": "Make it an all-evening thing" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_154", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which compliment from me would land best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_compliment_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tell_me_i_look_good", - "text": "Tell me I look good" - }, - { - "id": "praise_something_i_did", - "text": "Praise something I did" - }, - { - "id": "notice_a_little_habit", - "text": "Notice a little habit" - }, - { - "id": "say_what_you_love_about_us", - "text": "Say what you love about us" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tell_me_i_look_good", - "text": "Tell me I look good" - }, - { - "id": "praise_something_i_did", - "text": "Praise something I did" - }, - { - "id": "notice_a_little_habit", - "text": "Notice a little habit" - }, - { - "id": "say_what_you_love_about_us", - "text": "Say what you love about us" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_155", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When plans change, which pivot sounds most fun?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_real_life_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_a_smaller_adventure", - "text": "Find a smaller adventure" - }, - { - "id": "turn_home_into_the_new_date", - "text": "Turn home into the new date" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_treat_and_call_it_the_plan", - "text": "Choose a treat and call it the plan" - }, - { - "id": "laugh_and_give_the_night_a_title", - "text": "Laugh and give the night a title" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_a_smaller_adventure", - "text": "Find a smaller adventure" - }, - { - "id": "turn_home_into_the_new_date", - "text": "Turn home into the new date" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_treat_and_call_it_the_plan", - "text": "Choose a treat and call it the plan" - }, - { - "id": "laugh_and_give_the_night_a_title", - "text": "Laugh and give the night a title" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_156", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which line would you most like to hear tonight?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_warm_truth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_still_choose_you", - "text": "I still choose you" - }, - { - "id": "i_notice_what_you_do", - "text": "I notice what you do" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_time_with_you", - "text": "I want time with you" - }, - { - "id": "i_like_who_we_are_together", - "text": "I like who we are together" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_still_choose_you", - "text": "I still choose you" - }, - { - "id": "i_notice_what_you_do", - "text": "I notice what you do" - }, - { - "id": "i_want_time_with_you", - "text": "I want time with you" - }, - { - "id": "i_like_who_we_are_together", - "text": "I like who we are together" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_157", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Our next free hour—what should we pick?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_real_preference" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "stay_home_and_get_cozy", - "text": "Stay home and get cozy" - }, - { - "id": "go_somewhere_for_dessert", - "text": "Go somewhere for dessert" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_drive_with_music", - "text": "Take a drive with music" - }, - { - "id": "play_a_game_together", - "text": "Play a game together" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "stay_home_and_get_cozy", - "text": "Stay home and get cozy" - }, - { - "id": "go_somewhere_for_dessert", - "text": "Go somewhere for dessert" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_drive_with_music", - "text": "Take a drive with music" - }, - { - "id": "play_a_game_together", - "text": "Play a game together" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_158", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which thoughtful gesture means the most to you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_honest_attention" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "remember_my_usual_order", - "text": "Remember my usual order" - }, - { - "id": "save_me_the_best_bite", - "text": "Save me the best bite" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_song_for_me", - "text": "Choose a song for me" - }, - { - "id": "notice_when_i_need_a_laugh", - "text": "Notice when I need a laugh" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "remember_my_usual_order", - "text": "Remember my usual order" - }, - { - "id": "save_me_the_best_bite", - "text": "Save me the best bite" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_song_for_me", - "text": "Choose a song for me" - }, - { - "id": "notice_when_i_need_a_laugh", - "text": "Notice when I need a laugh" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } + "text": "Which tiny escape sounds best?" }, { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_159", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which small move would bring us closer tonight?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_recharge_choice" + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_238", + "expected_text": "A sixty-second challenge—which option wins?", + "reasons": [ + "childlike_party_game", + "weak_adult_couple_payoff" ], + "text": "Which one-minute challenge sounds worth trying?", "options": [ { - "id": "a_real_hello_hug", - "text": "A real hello hug" + "id": "draw_each_other_without_looking_down", + "text": "Draw each other without looking down" }, { - "id": "ten_phone_free_minutes", - "text": "Ten phone-free minutes" + "id": "find_the_oldest_photo_on_our_phones", + "text": "Find the oldest photo on our phones" }, { - "id": "one_shared_laugh", - "text": "One shared laugh" + "id": "name_five_things_we_both_love", + "text": "Name five things we both love" }, { - "id": "a_tiny_date_plan", - "text": "A tiny date plan" + "id": "pitch_the_worst_possible_date_idea", + "text": "Pitch the worst possible date idea" } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_real_hello_hug", - "text": "A real hello hug" - }, - { - "id": "ten_phone_free_minutes", - "text": "Ten phone-free minutes" - }, - { - "id": "one_shared_laugh", - "text": "One shared laugh" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_date_plan", - "text": "A tiny date plan" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_160", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of energy are you actually craving?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_small_truth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_easy_affection", - "text": "Warm, easy affection" - }, - { - "id": "something_playful_and_distracting", - "text": "Something playful and distracting" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_company_with_no_agenda", - "text": "Quiet company with no agenda" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_change_of_scenery", - "text": "A small change of scenery" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_easy_affection", - "text": "Warm, easy affection" - }, - { - "id": "something_playful_and_distracting", - "text": "Something playful and distracting" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_company_with_no_agenda", - "text": "Quiet company with no agenda" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_change_of_scenery", - "text": "A small change of scenery" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_161", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which old date-night setting deserves a comeback?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_memory_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_late_night_diner_booth", - "text": "A late-night diner booth" - }, - { - "id": "a_parked_car_playlist_session", - "text": "A parked-car playlist session" - }, - { - "id": "a_picnic_with_cheap_snacks", - "text": "A picnic with cheap snacks" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_arcade_challenge", - "text": "A tiny arcade challenge" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_late_night_diner_booth", - "text": "A late-night diner booth" - }, - { - "id": "a_parked_car_playlist_session", - "text": "A parked-car playlist session" - }, - { - "id": "a_picnic_with_cheap_snacks", - "text": "A picnic with cheap snacks" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_arcade_challenge", - "text": "A tiny arcade challenge" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_162", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which food mood sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_comfort_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "build_your_own_tacos", - "text": "Build-your-own tacos" - }, - { - "id": "a_make_your_own_snack_plate", - "text": "A make-your-own snack plate" - }, - { - "id": "soup_and_sandwiches", - "text": "Soup and sandwiches" - }, - { - "id": "snacks_instead_of_a_meal", - "text": "Snacks instead of a meal" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "build_your_own_tacos", - "text": "Build-your-own tacos" - }, - { - "id": "a_make_your_own_snack_plate", - "text": "A make-your-own snack plate" - }, - { - "id": "soup_and_sandwiches", - "text": "Soup and sandwiches" - }, - { - "id": "snacks_instead_of_a_meal", - "text": "Snacks instead of a meal" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } + ] }, { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_163", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For sixty minutes with no obligations, what gets the couple vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_one_hour_date" + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_239", + "expected_text": "Which weird little rule should we use?", + "reasons": [ + "forced_childlike_humor", + "random_bit_overload" ], + "text": "Which rule would make tonight funnier?", "options": [ { - "id": "drive_until_we_find_a_view", - "text": "Drive until we find a view" + "id": "every_complaint_needs_a_dramatic_title", + "text": "Every complaint needs a dramatic title" }, { - "id": "cook_one_fun_thing", - "text": "Cook one fun thing" + "id": "whoever_checks_their_phone_first_picks_the_music", + "text": "Whoever checks their phone first picks the music" }, { - "id": "browse_a_bookstore", - "text": "Browse a bookstore" + "id": "the_first_person_to_say_we_should_go_to_bed_starts_a_timer", + "text": "The first person to say “we should go to bed” starts a timer" }, { - "id": "make_a_ridiculous_playlist", - "text": "Make a ridiculous playlist" + "id": "every_minor_inconvenience_gets_a_movie_trailer_voice", + "text": "Every minor inconvenience gets a movie-trailer voice" } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "drive_until_we_find_a_view", - "text": "Drive until we find a view" - }, - { - "id": "cook_one_fun_thing", - "text": "Cook one fun thing" - }, - { - "id": "browse_a_bookstore", - "text": "Browse a bookstore" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_ridiculous_playlist", - "text": "Make a ridiculous playlist" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } + ] }, { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_164", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which choice shows our best everyday chemistry?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_couple_identity" + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_251", + "expected_text": "A spontaneous bit: which option would you choose?", + "reasons": [ + "generic_prompt", + "random_noun_humor" ], + "text": "Which low-effort bit would make tonight funnier?", "options": [ { - "id": "building_on_each_others_teasing", - "text": "Building on each other’s teasing" + "id": "narrate_dinner_like_a_true_crime_show", + "text": "Narrate dinner like a true-crime show" }, { - "id": "reading_the_setup_to_the_next_joke", - "text": "Reading the setup to the next joke" + "id": "review_our_week_like_sports_commentators", + "text": "Review our week like sports commentators" }, { - "id": "relaxing_comfortably_in_silence", - "text": "Relaxing comfortably in silence" + "id": "recreate_our_worst_customer_service_voices", + "text": "Recreate our worst customer-service voices" }, { - "id": "turning_any_moment_into_a_bit", - "text": "Turning any moment into a bit" + "id": "pitch_our_home_as_a_luxury_resort", + "text": "Pitch our home as a luxury resort" } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "building_on_each_others_teasing", - "text": "Building on each other’s teasing" - }, - { - "id": "reading_the_setup_to_the_next_joke", - "text": "Reading the setup to the next joke" - }, - { - "id": "relaxing_comfortably_in_silence", - "text": "Relaxing comfortably in silence" - }, - { - "id": "turning_any_moment_into_a_bit", - "text": "Turning any moment into a bit" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } + ] }, { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_165", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we choose what to watch?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_preference_debate" + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_252", + "expected_text": "Which terrible acting scene should we perform?", + "reasons": [ + "children_party_improv", + "weak_relationship_relevance" ], + "text": "Which scene from adult life should we overact?", "options": [ { - "id": "comfort_favorite", - "text": "Comfort favorite" + "id": "forgetting_why_we_entered_a_room", + "text": "Forgetting why we entered a room" }, { - "id": "something_new", - "text": "Something new" + "id": "choosing_dinner_when_neither_of_us_cares", + "text": "Choosing dinner when neither of us cares" }, { - "id": "so_bad_it_is_good", - "text": "So-bad-it-is-good" + "id": "pretending_well_go_to_bed_early", + "text": "Pretending we’ll go to bed early" }, { - "id": "one_episode_each", - "text": "One episode each" + "id": "hearing_an_unexpected_knock_at_the_door", + "text": "Hearing an unexpected knock at the door" } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort_favorite", - "text": "Comfort favorite" - }, - { - "id": "something_new", - "text": "Something new" - }, - { - "id": "so_bad_it_is_good", - "text": "So-bad-it-is-good" - }, - { - "id": "one_episode_each", - "text": "One episode each" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } + ] }, { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_166", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should I deliver sweet words tonight?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_compliment_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_and_sincere", - "text": "Soft and sincere" - }, - { - "id": "playful_and_specific", - "text": "Playful and specific" - }, - { - "id": "bold_and_flirty", - "text": "Bold and flirty" - }, - { - "id": "short_and_unexpected", - "text": "Short and unexpected" - } + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_307", + "expected_text": "For a date-night detail, what gets our official vote?", + "reasons": [ + "canned_game_show_phrase" ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_and_sincere", - "text": "Soft and sincere" - }, - { - "id": "playful_and_specific", - "text": "Playful and specific" - }, - { - "id": "bold_and_flirty", - "text": "Bold and flirty" - }, - { - "id": "short_and_unexpected", - "text": "Short and unexpected" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } + "text": "Which date-night detail gets your attention first?" }, { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_167", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we rescue a disappointing evening?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_real_life_choice" + "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_457", + "expected_text": "Which kind of recognition feels most energizing?", + "reasons": [ + "corporate_therapy_voice", + "weak_sunday_warmth" ], + "text": "What kind of compliment would mean the most today?", "options": [ { - "id": "watch_our_comfort_movie", - "text": "Watch our comfort movie" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_late_snack_drive", - "text": "Take a late snack drive" - }, - { - "id": "play_one_easy_game", - "text": "Play one easy game" + "id": "you_handled_that_better_than_you_think", + "text": "You handled that better than you think" }, { - "id": "plan_a_better_do_over", - "text": "Plan a better do-over" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "watch_our_comfort_movie", - "text": "Watch our comfort movie" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_late_snack_drive", - "text": "Take a late snack drive" - }, - { - "id": "play_one_easy_game", - "text": "Play one easy game" - }, - { - "id": "plan_a_better_do_over", - "text": "Plan a better do-over" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_168", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick a small message worth hearing:", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_warm_truth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_are_fun_to_come_home_to", - "text": "You are fun to come home to" + "id": "you_still_make_me_laugh", + "text": "You still make me laugh" }, { - "id": "i_love_your_weird_little_habits", - "text": "I love your weird little habits" + "id": "i_love_the_way_your_mind_works", + "text": "I love the way your mind works" }, { "id": "you_make_ordinary_days_better", "text": "You make ordinary days better" - }, - { - "id": "i_still_get_excited_to_see_you", - "text": "I still get excited to see you" } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_are_fun_to_come_home_to", - "text": "You are fun to come home to" - }, - { - "id": "i_love_your_weird_little_habits", - "text": "I love your weird little habits" - }, - { - "id": "you_make_ordinary_days_better", - "text": "You make ordinary days better" - }, - { - "id": "i_still_get_excited_to_see_you", - "text": "I still get excited to see you" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_169", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For after dinner, which option gets the nod?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_real_preference" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "walk_linked_at_the_elbows", - "text": "Walk linked at the elbows" - }, - { - "id": "one_comedy_episode", - "text": "One comedy episode" - }, - { - "id": "a_kitchen_dance", - "text": "A kitchen dance" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_catch_up", - "text": "A slow catch-up" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "walk_linked_at_the_elbows", - "text": "Walk linked at the elbows" - }, - { - "id": "one_comedy_episode", - "text": "One comedy episode" - }, - { - "id": "a_kitchen_dance", - "text": "A kitchen dance" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_catch_up", - "text": "A slow catch-up" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_170", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps most with feeling wanted?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_honest_attention" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_lingering_look", - "text": "A lingering look" - }, - { - "id": "a_direct_compliment", - "text": "A direct compliment" - }, - { - "id": "a_gentle_kiss", - "text": "A gentle kiss" - }, - { - "id": "an_actual_date_invitation", - "text": "An actual date invitation" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_lingering_look", - "text": "A lingering look" - }, - { - "id": "a_direct_compliment", - "text": "A direct compliment" - }, - { - "id": "a_gentle_kiss", - "text": "A gentle kiss" - }, - { - "id": "an_actual_date_invitation", - "text": "An actual date invitation" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_171", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would help us feel most like ourselves tonight?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_recharge_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "repeat_a_favorite_little_ritual", - "text": "Repeat a favorite little ritual" - }, - { - "id": "try_one_playful_new_thing", - "text": "Try one playful new thing" - }, - { - "id": "retell_an_old_favorite_memory", - "text": "Retell an old favorite memory" - }, - { - "id": "revisit_something_we_both_love", - "text": "Revisit something we both love" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "repeat_a_favorite_little_ritual", - "text": "Repeat a favorite little ritual" - }, - { - "id": "try_one_playful_new_thing", - "text": "Try one playful new thing" - }, - { - "id": "retell_an_old_favorite_memory", - "text": "Retell an old favorite memory" - }, - { - "id": "revisit_something_we_both_love", - "text": "Revisit something we both love" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_172", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of evening do you need most?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_small_truth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "cozy_and_familiar", - "text": "Cozy and familiar" - }, - { - "id": "playful_and_surprising", - "text": "Playful and surprising" - }, - { - "id": "warm_and_talkative", - "text": "Warm and talkative" - }, - { - "id": "simple_and_unhurried", - "text": "Simple and unhurried" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cozy_and_familiar", - "text": "Cozy and familiar" - }, - { - "id": "playful_and_surprising", - "text": "Playful and surprising" - }, - { - "id": "warm_and_talkative", - "text": "Warm and talkative" - }, - { - "id": "simple_and_unhurried", - "text": "Simple and unhurried" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_173", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which past moment has the energy we want tonight?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_memory_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_first_trip_excitement", - "text": "Our first-trip excitement" - }, - { - "id": "our_early_message_spark", - "text": "Our early-message spark" - }, - { - "id": "a_spontaneous_date_memory", - "text": "A spontaneous date memory" - }, - { - "id": "our_funniest_wrong_turn", - "text": "Our funniest wrong turn" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_first_trip_excitement", - "text": "Our first-trip excitement" - }, - { - "id": "our_early_message_spark", - "text": "Our early-message spark" - }, - { - "id": "a_spontaneous_date_memory", - "text": "A spontaneous date memory" - }, - { - "id": "our_funniest_wrong_turn", - "text": "Our funniest wrong turn" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_174", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which familiar little pleasure should we revisit?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_comfort_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "old_playlist", - "text": "Old playlist" - }, - { - "id": "same_coffee_order", - "text": "Same coffee order" - }, - { - "id": "favorite_walking_route", - "text": "Favorite walking route" - }, - { - "id": "the_game_we_always_replay", - "text": "The game we always replay" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "old_playlist", - "text": "Old playlist" - }, - { - "id": "same_coffee_order", - "text": "Same coffee order" - }, - { - "id": "favorite_walking_route", - "text": "Favorite walking route" - }, - { - "id": "the_game_we_always_replay", - "text": "The game we always replay" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_175", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a tiny escape, which option gets the nod?", - 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"quick_answer", - "mechanic_honest_attention" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tell_me_you_missed_me", - "text": "Tell me you missed me" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_sounds_fun", - "text": "Ask what sounds fun" - }, - { - "id": "offer_a_hug", - "text": "Offer a hug" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_private_joke", - "text": "Send a private joke" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tell_me_you_missed_me", - "text": "Tell me you missed me" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_sounds_fun", - "text": "Ask what sounds fun" - }, - { - "id": "offer_a_hug", - "text": "Offer a hug" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_private_joke", - "text": "Send a private joke" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_195", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which reset would shake off a weird day?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_recharge_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "retell_its_funniest_moment", - "text": "Retell its funniest moment" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_ridiculous_snack", - "text": "Choose a ridiculous snack" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_short_walk_together", - "text": "Take a short walk together" - }, - { - "id": "go_out_for_one_small_treat", - "text": "Go out for one small treat" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "retell_its_funniest_moment", - "text": "Retell its funniest moment" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_ridiculous_snack", - "text": "Choose a ridiculous snack" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_short_walk_together", - "text": "Take a short walk together" - }, - { - "id": "go_out_for_one_small_treat", - "text": "Go out for one small treat" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_196", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is my honest first choice?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_small_truth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dessert_outing", - "text": "Dessert outing" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_closeness_with_music", - "text": "Quiet closeness with music" - }, - { - "id": "a_drive_with_a_soundtrack", - "text": "A drive with a soundtrack" - }, - { - "id": "a_game_where_the_winner_picks_the_soundtrack", - "text": "A game where the winner picks the soundtrack" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dessert_outing", - "text": "Dessert outing" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_closeness_with_music", - "text": "Quiet closeness with music" - }, - { - "id": "a_drive_with_a_soundtrack", - "text": "A drive with a soundtrack" - }, - { - "id": "a_game_where_the_winner_picks_the_soundtrack", - "text": "A game where the winner picks the soundtrack" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_197", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which version of us deserves a comeback this week?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_memory_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "new_adventure_us", - "text": "New-adventure us" - }, - { - "id": "stay_out_later_us", - "text": "Stay-out-later us" - }, - { - "id": "can_make_anything_fun_us", - "text": "Can-make-anything-fun us" - }, - { - "id": "cannot_stop_laughing_us", - "text": "Cannot-stop-laughing us" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "new_adventure_us", - "text": "New-adventure us" - }, - { - "id": "stay_out_later_us", - "text": "Stay-out-later us" - }, - { - "id": "can_make_anything_fun_us", - "text": "Can-make-anything-fun us" - }, - { - "id": "cannot_stop_laughing_us", - "text": "Cannot-stop-laughing us" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - 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}, - { - "id": "tell_the_story_of_our_first_date", - "text": "Tell the story of our first date" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_199", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which mini-date would be worth repeating?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_one_hour_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "breakfast_out", - "text": "Breakfast out" - }, - { - "id": "late_night_milkshakes", - "text": "Late-night milkshakes" - }, - { - "id": "art_store_browse", - "text": "Art-store browse" - }, - { - "id": "board_game_cafe", - "text": "Board-game café" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "breakfast_out", - "text": "Breakfast out" - }, - { - "id": "late_night_milkshakes", - "text": "Late-night milkshakes" - }, - { - "id": "art_store_browse", - "text": "Art-store browse" - }, - { - "id": "board_game_cafe", - "text": "Board-game café" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_200", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a normal day memorable for us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_couple_identity" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_spontaneous_photo", - "text": "A spontaneous photo" - }, - { - "id": "a_weird_little_detour", - "text": "A weird little detour" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_tradition_started_by_accident", - "text": "A tiny tradition started by accident" - }, - { - "id": "an_inside_joke_that_escalates", - "text": "An inside joke that escalates" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_spontaneous_photo", - "text": "A spontaneous photo" - }, - { - "id": "a_weird_little_detour", - "text": "A weird little detour" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_tradition_started_by_accident", - "text": "A tiny tradition started by accident" - }, - { - "id": "an_inside_joke_that_escalates", - "text": "An inside joke that escalates" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_201", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A conversation tonight: what gets your vote?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_preference_debate" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "keep_it_light", - "text": "Keep it light" - }, - { - "id": "tell_stories", - "text": "Tell stories" - }, - { - "id": "dream_about_the_future", - "text": "Dream about the future" - }, - { - "id": "ask_one_honest_question", - "text": "Ask one honest question" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "keep_it_light", - "text": "Keep it light" - }, - 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} - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_209", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which old spark should we bring into this week?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_memory_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dress_up_for_no_reason", - "text": "Dress up for no reason" - }, - { - "id": "plan_a_secret_stop", - "text": "Plan a secret stop" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_bold_compliment", - "text": "Send a bold compliment" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_a_tiny_date", - "text": "Recreate a tiny date" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dress_up_for_no_reason", - "text": "Dress up for no reason" - }, - { - "id": "plan_a_secret_stop", - "text": "Plan a secret stop" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_bold_compliment", - "text": "Send a bold compliment" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_a_tiny_date", - "text": "Recreate a tiny date" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_210", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which cozy backup plan sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_comfort_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_soft_light_reading_corner", - "text": "A soft-light reading corner" - }, - { - "id": "hot_drinks_outside", - "text": "Hot drinks outside" - }, - { - "id": "solve_one_riddle_together", - "text": "Solve one riddle together" - }, - { - "id": "read_beside_each_other", - "text": "Read beside each other" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_soft_light_reading_corner", - "text": "A soft-light reading corner" - }, - { - "id": "hot_drinks_outside", - "text": "Hot drinks outside" - }, - { - "id": "solve_one_riddle_together", - "text": "Solve one riddle together" - }, - { - "id": "read_beside_each_other", - "text": "Read beside each other" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_211", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A simple hour together: which choice feels right?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_one_hour_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_and_walk", - "text": "Talk and walk" - }, - { - "id": "snack_and_watch", - "text": "Snack and watch" - }, - { - "id": "drive_and_sing", - "text": "Drive and sing" - }, - { - "id": "cook_and_dance", - "text": "Cook and dance" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_and_walk", - "text": "Talk and walk" - }, - { - "id": "snack_and_watch", - "text": "Snack and watch" - }, - { - "id": "drive_and_sing", - "text": "Drive and sing" - }, - { - "id": "cook_and_dance", - "text": "Cook and dance" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_212", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What most reliably sparks our playful side?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_couple_identity" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_song_we_both_know_by_heart", - "text": "A song we both know by heart" - }, - { - "id": "a_snack_worth_debating", - "text": "A snack worth debating" - }, - { - "id": "a_place_neither_of_us_has_explored", - "text": "A place neither of us has explored" - }, - { - "id": "an_unexpectedly_affectionate_moment", - "text": "An unexpectedly affectionate moment" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_song_we_both_know_by_heart", - "text": "A song we both know by heart" - }, - { - "id": "a_snack_worth_debating", - "text": "A snack worth debating" - }, - { - "id": "a_place_neither_of_us_has_explored", - "text": "A place neither of us has explored" - }, - { - "id": "an_unexpectedly_affectionate_moment", - "text": "An unexpectedly affectionate moment" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_213", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How much warning should come with a small surprise?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_preference_debate" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tell_me_ahead_of_time", - "text": "Tell me ahead of time" - }, - { - "id": "give_me_one_clue", - "text": "Give me one clue" - }, - { - "id": "make_it_completely_secret", - "text": "Make it completely secret" - }, - { - "id": "let_me_choose_the_category", - "text": "Let me choose the category" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tell_me_ahead_of_time", - "text": "Tell me ahead of time" - }, - { - "id": "give_me_one_clue", - "text": "Give me one clue" - }, - { - "id": "make_it_completely_secret", - "text": "Make it completely secret" - }, - { - "id": "let_me_choose_the_category", - "text": "Let me choose the category" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_214", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which compliment would you remember longest?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_compliment_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_about_who_i_am", - "text": "One about who I am" - }, - { - "id": "one_about_how_i_love", - "text": "One about how I love" - }, - { - "id": "one_about_how_i_make_you_feel", - "text": "One about how I make you feel" - }, - { - "id": "one_about_our_chemistry", - "text": "One about our chemistry" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_about_who_i_am", - "text": "One about who I am" - }, - { - "id": "one_about_how_i_love", - "text": "One about how I love" - }, - { - "id": "one_about_how_i_make_you_feel", - "text": "One about how I make you feel" - }, - { - "id": "one_about_our_chemistry", - "text": "One about our chemistry" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_215", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When the plan stops working, what is our best switch?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_real_life_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "change_the_location", - "text": "Change the location" - }, - { - "id": "change_the_soundtrack", - "text": "Change the soundtrack" - }, - { - "id": "shrink_it_to_ten_fun_minutes", - "text": "Shrink it to ten fun minutes" - }, - { - "id": "turn_the_mistake_into_a_challenge", - "text": "Turn the mistake into a challenge" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "change_the_location", - "text": "Change the location" - }, - { - "id": "change_the_soundtrack", - "text": "Change the soundtrack" - }, - { - "id": "shrink_it_to_ten_fun_minutes", - "text": "Shrink it to ten fun minutes" - }, - { - "id": "turn_the_mistake_into_a_challenge", - "text": "Turn the mistake into a challenge" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_216", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which note fits Real-One Wednesday best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_wednesday_real_one", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_warm_truth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "meet_me_for_ten_minutes", - "text": "Meet me for ten minutes" - }, - { - "id": "save_me_a_story", - "text": "Save me a story" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_song_for_us", - "text": "Pick a song for us" - }, - { - "id": "lets_make_one_small_memory", - "text": "Let’s make one small memory" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "meet_me_for_ten_minutes", - "text": "Meet me for ten minutes" - }, - { - "id": "save_me_a_story", - "text": "Save me a story" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_song_for_us", - "text": "Pick a song for us" - }, - { - "id": "lets_make_one_small_memory", - "text": "Let’s make one small memory" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_217", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which fake award should our lounging performance win?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_fake_award" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_supporting_snacker", - "text": "Best Supporting Snacker" - }, - { - "id": "strongest_episode_commentary", - "text": "Strongest Episode Commentary" - }, - { - "id": "most_creative_reclining", - "text": "Most Creative Reclining" - }, - { - "id": "lifetime_achievement_in_relaxing", - "text": "Lifetime Achievement in Relaxing" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_supporting_snacker", - "text": "Best Supporting Snacker" - }, - { - "id": "strongest_episode_commentary", - "text": "Strongest Episode Commentary" - }, - { - "id": "most_creative_reclining", - "text": "Most Creative Reclining" - }, - { - "id": "lifetime_achievement_in_relaxing", - "text": "Lifetime Achievement in Relaxing" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_218", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Settle this: what wins the debate over the best road-trip snack?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_playful_debate" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "cheese_crackers", - "text": "Cheese crackers" - }, - { - "id": "gummy_candy", - "text": "Gummy candy" - }, - { - "id": "spicy_chips", - "text": "Spicy chips" - }, - { - "id": "chocolate_covered_anything", - "text": "Chocolate-covered anything" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cheese_crackers", - "text": "Cheese crackers" - }, - { - "id": "gummy_candy", - "text": "Gummy candy" - }, - { - "id": "spicy_chips", - "text": "Spicy chips" - }, - { - "id": "chocolate_covered_anything", - "text": "Chocolate-covered anything" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_219", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a suspicious snack combo, what is our move?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_weird_snack" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pickles_and_popcorn", - "text": "Pickles and popcorn" - }, - { - "id": "chips_dipped_in_ice_cream", - "text": "Chips dipped in ice cream" - }, - { - "id": "cheese_with_apple_slices", - "text": "Cheese with apple slices" - }, - { - "id": "fries_in_a_milkshake", - "text": "Fries in a milkshake" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pickles_and_popcorn", - "text": "Pickles and popcorn" - }, - { - "id": "chips_dipped_in_ice_cream", - "text": "Chips dipped in ice cream" - }, - { - "id": "cheese_with_apple_slices", - "text": "Cheese with apple slices" - }, - { - "id": "fries_in_a_milkshake", - "text": "Fries in a milkshake" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_220", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which voice should narrate making dinner?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dramatic_bit" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "nature_documentary_voice", - "text": "Nature documentary voice" - }, - { - "id": "championship_announcer_voice", - "text": "Championship announcer voice" - }, - { - "id": "romantic_movie_trailer_voice", - "text": "Romantic movie trailer voice" - }, - { - "id": "serious_breaking_news_voice", - "text": "Serious breaking-news voice" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "nature_documentary_voice", - "text": "Nature documentary voice" - }, - { - "id": "championship_announcer_voice", - "text": "Championship announcer voice" - }, - { - "id": "romantic_movie_trailer_voice", - "text": "Romantic movie trailer voice" - }, - { - "id": "serious_breaking_news_voice", - "text": "Serious breaking-news voice" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_221", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which quick two-person game should be official?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_couch_game" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "guess_the_movie_quote", - "text": "Guess the movie quote" - }, - { - "id": "one_word_story", - "text": "One-word story" - }, - { - "id": "ingredient_checked_taste_test", - "text": "Ingredient-checked taste test" - }, - { - "id": "draw_with_your_eyes_closed", - "text": "Draw with your eyes closed" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "guess_the_movie_quote", - "text": "Guess the movie quote" - }, - { - "id": "one_word_story", - "text": "One-word story" - }, - { - "id": "ingredient_checked_taste_test", - "text": "Ingredient-checked taste test" - }, - { - "id": "draw_with_your_eyes_closed", - "text": "Draw with your eyes closed" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_222", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Tonight, how should our inside joke make an appearance?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_inside_joke" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "use_it_in_a_serious_sentence", - "text": "Use it in a serious sentence" - }, - { - "id": "turn_it_into_a_fake_product", - "text": "Turn it into a fake product" - }, - { - "id": "give_it_a_theme_song", - "text": "Give it a theme song" - }, - { - "id": "explain_it_like_a_museum_guide", - "text": "Explain it like a museum guide" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "use_it_in_a_serious_sentence", - "text": "Use it in a serious sentence" - }, - { - "id": "turn_it_into_a_fake_product", - "text": "Turn it into a fake product" - }, - { - "id": "give_it_a_theme_song", - "text": "Give it a theme song" - }, - { - "id": "explain_it_like_a_museum_guide", - "text": "Explain it like a museum guide" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_223", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A gloriously bad movie—which option wins?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_guilty_pleasure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "terrible_monster_effects", - "text": "Terrible monster effects" - }, - { - "id": "cheesy_romance", - "text": "Cheesy romance" - }, - { - "id": "impossible_action_scenes", - "text": "Impossible action scenes" - }, - { - "id": "overly_serious_disaster_plot", - "text": "Overly serious disaster plot" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "terrible_monster_effects", - "text": "Terrible monster effects" - }, - { - "id": "cheesy_romance", - "text": "Cheesy romance" - }, - { - "id": "impossible_action_scenes", - "text": "Impossible action scenes" - }, - { - "id": "overly_serious_disaster_plot", - "text": "Overly serious disaster plot" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_224", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should be at stake in our silly bet?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_silly_bet" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "loser_makes_the_drinks", - "text": "Loser makes the drinks" - }, - { - "id": "winner_picks_the_next_song", - "text": "Winner picks the next song" - }, - { - "id": "loser_gives_a_dramatic_victory_speech", - "text": "Loser gives a dramatic victory speech" - }, - { - "id": "winner_names_the_next_round", - "text": "Winner names the next round" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "loser_makes_the_drinks", - "text": "Loser makes the drinks" - }, - { - "id": "winner_picks_the_next_song", - "text": "Winner picks the next song" - }, - { - "id": "loser_gives_a_dramatic_victory_speech", - "text": "Loser gives a dramatic victory speech" - }, - { - "id": "winner_names_the_next_round", - "text": "Winner names the next round" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_225", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which ridiculous photo pose should we try?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_photo_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fake_red_carpet_arrival", - "text": "Fake red-carpet arrival" - }, - { - "id": "serious_album_cover_stare", - "text": "Serious album-cover stare" - }, - { - "id": "lost_tourists_at_home", - "text": "Lost tourists at home" - }, - { - "id": "formal_portrait_with_snacks", - "text": "Formal portrait with snacks" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "fake_red_carpet_arrival", - "text": "Fake red-carpet arrival" - }, - { - "id": "serious_album_cover_stare", - "text": "Serious album-cover stare" - }, - { - "id": "lost_tourists_at_home", - "text": "Lost tourists at home" - }, - { - "id": "formal_portrait_with_snacks", - "text": "Formal portrait with snacks" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_226", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which one-minute game sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_quick_game" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_three_dream_mini_dates", - "text": "Name three dream mini-dates" - }, - { - "id": "play_compliment_ping_pong", - "text": "Play compliment ping-pong" - }, - { - "id": "make_each_other_laugh_first", - "text": "Make each other laugh first" - 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}, - { - "id": "wear_pajamas_somewhere_unnecessary", - "text": "Wear pajamas somewhere unnecessary" - }, - { - "id": "let_a_coin_choose_the_movie", - "text": "Let a coin choose the movie" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_snack_entirely_by_color", - "text": "Make a snack entirely by color" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "make_appetizers_the_whole_meal", - "text": "Make appetizers the whole meal" - }, - { - "id": "wear_pajamas_somewhere_unnecessary", - "text": "Wear pajamas somewhere unnecessary" - }, - { - "id": "let_a_coin_choose_the_movie", - "text": "Let a coin choose the movie" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_snack_entirely_by_color", - "text": "Make a snack entirely by color" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_228", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which impression should we compete over?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_improv" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "each_other_ordering_food", - "text": "Each other ordering food" - }, - { - "id": "a_weather_reporter", - "text": "A weather reporter" - }, - { - "id": "a_movie_villain", - "text": "A movie villain" - }, - { - "id": "an_overly_excited_tour_guide", - "text": "An overly excited tour guide" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "each_other_ordering_food", - "text": "Each other ordering food" - }, - { - "id": "a_weather_reporter", - "text": "A weather reporter" - }, - { - "id": "a_movie_villain", - "text": "A movie villain" - }, - { - "id": "an_overly_excited_tour_guide", - "text": "An overly excited tour guide" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_229", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "The trophy for our kitchen chemistry goes to:", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_fake_award" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_accidental_dance", - "text": "Best Accidental Dance" - }, - { - "id": "most_questionable_taste_test", - "text": "Most Questionable Taste-Test" - }, - { - "id": "top_tier_teamwork", - "text": "Top-Tier Teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "excellence_in_stealing_bites", - "text": "Excellence in Stealing Bites" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_accidental_dance", - "text": "Best Accidental Dance" - }, - { - "id": "most_questionable_taste_test", - "text": "Most Questionable Taste-Test" - }, - { - "id": "top_tier_teamwork", - "text": "Top-Tier Teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "excellence_in_stealing_bites", - "text": "Excellence in Stealing Bites" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_230", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "No diplomacy—pick the superior lazy-date setup:", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_playful_debate" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "side_by_side_floor_cushions", - "text": "Side-by-side floor cushions" - }, - { - "id": "feet_resting_together", - "text": "Feet resting together" - }, - { - "id": "perfect_window_seats", - "text": "Perfect window seats" - }, - { - "id": "porch_chairs_angled_close", - "text": "Porch chairs angled close" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "side_by_side_floor_cushions", - "text": "Side-by-side floor cushions" - }, - { - "id": "feet_resting_together", - "text": "Feet resting together" - }, - { - "id": "perfect_window_seats", - "text": "Perfect window seats" - }, - { - "id": "porch_chairs_angled_close", - "text": "Porch chairs angled close" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_231", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A blind taste-test: choose our favorite.", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_weird_snack" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "mystery_sodas", - "text": "Mystery sodas" - }, - { - "id": "odd_chip_flavors", - "text": "Odd chip flavors" - }, - { - "id": "store_brand_cookies", - "text": "Store-brand cookies" - }, - { - "id": "jam_flavors", - "text": "Jam flavors" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "mystery_sodas", - "text": "Mystery sodas" - }, - { - "id": "odd_chip_flavors", - "text": "Odd chip flavors" - }, - { - "id": "store_brand_cookies", - "text": "Store-brand cookies" - }, - { - "id": "jam_flavors", - "text": "Jam flavors" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_232", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Turn choosing a movie into a production—pick the narration style:", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dramatic_bit" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "courtroom_drama", - "text": "Courtroom drama" - }, - { - "id": "wildlife_documentary", - "text": "Wildlife documentary" - }, - { - "id": "luxury_commercial", - "text": "Luxury commercial" - }, - { - "id": "epic_fantasy_prophecy", - "text": "Epic fantasy prophecy" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "courtroom_drama", - "text": "Courtroom drama" - }, - { - "id": "wildlife_documentary", - "text": "Wildlife documentary" - }, - { - "id": "luxury_commercial", - "text": "Luxury commercial" - }, - { - "id": "epic_fantasy_prophecy", - "text": "Epic fantasy prophecy" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_233", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which commercial-break challenge gets your vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_couch_game" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "use_your_best_movie_trailer_voice", - "text": "Use your best movie-trailer voice" - }, - { - "id": "guess_a_mystery_sound", - "text": "Guess a mystery sound" - }, - { - "id": "hold_a_bad_joke_duel", - "text": "Hold a bad-joke duel" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_fake_movie_title", - "text": "Invent a fake movie title" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "use_your_best_movie_trailer_voice", - "text": "Use your best movie-trailer voice" - }, - { - "id": "guess_a_mystery_sound", - "text": "Guess a mystery sound" - }, - { - "id": "hold_a_bad_joke_duel", - "text": "Hold a bad-joke duel" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_fake_movie_title", - "text": "Invent a fake movie title" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_234", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do with our funniest shared phrase?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_inside_joke" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "use_it_as_a_photo_caption", - "text": "Use it as a photo caption" - }, - { - "id": "turn_it_into_a_date_night_code", - "text": "Turn it into a date-night code" - }, - { - "id": "make_it_our_victory_slogan", - "text": "Make it our victory slogan" - }, - { - "id": "hide_it_inside_a_voice_note", - "text": "Hide it inside a voice note" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "use_it_as_a_photo_caption", - "text": "Use it as a photo caption" - }, - { - "id": "turn_it_into_a_date_night_code", - "text": "Turn it into a date-night code" - }, - { - "id": "make_it_our_victory_slogan", - "text": "Make it our victory slogan" - }, - { - "id": "hide_it_inside_a_voice_note", - "text": "Hide it inside a voice note" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_235", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A guilty-pleasure show: what wins our vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_guilty_pleasure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dating_show_chaos", - "text": "Dating-show chaos" - }, - { - "id": "home_makeover_drama", - "text": "Home-makeover drama" - }, - { - "id": "food_competition", - "text": "Food competition" - }, - { - "id": "old_reality_tv", - "text": "Old reality TV" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dating_show_chaos", - "text": "Dating-show chaos" - }, - { - "id": "home_makeover_drama", - "text": "Home-makeover drama" - }, - { - "id": "food_competition", - "text": "Food competition" - }, - { - "id": "old_reality_tv", - "text": "Old reality TV" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_236", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we predict in our tiny contest?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_silly_bet" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "who_quotes_the_show_first", - "text": "Who quotes the show first" - }, - { - "id": "what_happens_in_the_next_scene", - "text": "What happens in the next scene" - }, - { - "id": "which_snack_disappears_first", - "text": "Which snack disappears first" - }, - { - "id": "who_predicts_the_final_line", - "text": "Who predicts the final line" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "who_quotes_the_show_first", - "text": "Who quotes the show first" - }, - { - "id": "what_happens_in_the_next_scene", - "text": "What happens in the next scene" - }, - { - "id": "which_snack_disappears_first", - "text": "Which snack disappears first" - }, - { - "id": "who_predicts_the_final_line", - "text": "Who predicts the final line" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_237", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a five-minute photo hunt, what do we like best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_photo_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_tiny", - "text": "Something tiny" - }, - { - "id": "something_accidentally_romantic", - "text": "Something accidentally romantic" - }, - { - "id": "something_that_looks_haunted", - "text": "Something that looks haunted" - }, - { - "id": "something_oddly_luxurious", - "text": "Something oddly luxurious" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_tiny", - "text": "Something tiny" - }, - { - "id": "something_accidentally_romantic", - "text": "Something accidentally romantic" - }, - { - "id": "something_that_looks_haunted", - "text": "Something that looks haunted" - }, - { - "id": "something_oddly_luxurious", - "text": "Something oddly luxurious" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_238", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A sixty-second challenge—which option wins?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_quick_game" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "build_a_snack_tower", - "text": "Build a snack tower" - }, - { - "id": "draw_the_other_person", - "text": "Draw the other person" - }, - { - "id": "find_five_blue_things", - "text": "Find five blue things" - }, - { - "id": "create_a_couple_slogan", - "text": "Create a couple slogan" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "build_a_snack_tower", - "text": "Build a snack tower" - }, - { - "id": "draw_the_other_person", - "text": "Draw the other person" - }, - { - "id": "find_five_blue_things", - "text": "Find five blue things" - }, - { - "id": "create_a_couple_slogan", - "text": "Create a couple slogan" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_239", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which weird little rule should we use?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_harmless_chaos" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_like_royalty_for_ten_minutes", - "text": "Talk like royalty for ten minutes" - }, - { - "id": "every_compliment_must_rhyme", - "text": "Every compliment must rhyme" - }, - { - "id": "narrate_every_snack_choice", - "text": "Narrate every snack choice" - }, - { - "id": "call_dessert_the_grand_finale", - "text": "Call dessert “the grand finale”" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_like_royalty_for_ten_minutes", - "text": "Talk like royalty for ten minutes" - }, - { - "id": "every_compliment_must_rhyme", - "text": "Every compliment must rhyme" - }, - { - "id": "narrate_every_snack_choice", - "text": "Narrate every snack choice" - }, - { - "id": "call_dessert_the_grand_finale", - "text": "Call dessert “the grand finale”" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_240", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which silent acting challenge should we try?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_improv" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "mime_ordering_breakfast", - "text": "Mime ordering breakfast" - }, - { - "id": "act_out_the_weather", - "text": "Act out the weather" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_a_famous_movie_moment", - "text": "Recreate a famous movie moment" - }, - { - "id": "impersonate_an_animal", - "text": "Impersonate an animal" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "mime_ordering_breakfast", - "text": "Mime ordering breakfast" - }, - { - "id": "act_out_the_weather", - "text": "Act out the weather" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_a_famous_movie_moment", - "text": "Recreate a famous movie moment" - }, - { - "id": "impersonate_an_animal", - "text": "Impersonate an animal" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_241", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which official honor fits our texting style best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_fake_award" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "fastest_meme_response", - "text": "Fastest Meme Response" - }, - { - "id": "best_secret_code_message", - "text": "Best Secret-Code Message" - }, - { - "id": "most_unnecessary_emoji", - "text": "Most Unnecessary Emoji" - }, - { - "id": "most_charming_plot_twist", - "text": "Most Charming Plot Twist" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "fastest_meme_response", - "text": "Fastest Meme Response" - }, - { - "id": "best_secret_code_message", - "text": "Best Secret-Code Message" - }, - { - "id": "most_unnecessary_emoji", - "text": "Most Unnecessary Emoji" - }, - { - "id": "most_charming_plot_twist", - "text": "Most Charming Plot Twist" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_242", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which useless superpower is clearly the best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_playful_debate" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "always_finding_parking", - "text": "Always finding parking" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_when_food_is_ready", - "text": "Knowing when food is ready" - }, - { - "id": "never_losing_the_remote", - "text": "Never losing the remote" - }, - { - "id": "picking_perfect_avocados", - "text": "Picking perfect avocados" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "always_finding_parking", - "text": "Always finding parking" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_when_food_is_ready", - "text": "Knowing when food is ready" - }, - { - "id": "never_losing_the_remote", - "text": "Never losing the remote" - }, - { - "id": "picking_perfect_avocados", - "text": "Picking perfect avocados" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_243", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which snack should we judge like fine dining?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_weird_snack" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "gas_station_pastry", - "text": "Gas-station pastry" - }, - { - "id": "frozen_pizza", - "text": "Frozen pizza" - }, - { - "id": "microwave_popcorn", - "text": "Microwave popcorn" - }, - { - "id": "a_neon_colored_gummy_mix", - "text": "A neon-colored gummy mix" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "gas_station_pastry", - "text": "Gas-station pastry" - }, - { - "id": "frozen_pizza", - "text": "Frozen pizza" - }, - { - "id": "microwave_popcorn", - "text": "Microwave popcorn" - }, - { - "id": "a_neon_colored_gummy_mix", - "text": "A neon-colored gummy mix" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_244", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we dramatically announce looking for the remote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dramatic_bit" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "detective_noir", - "text": "Detective noir" - }, - { - "id": "emergency_broadcast", - "text": "Emergency broadcast" - }, - { - "id": "treasure_hunt_narration", - "text": "Treasure-hunt narration" - }, - { - "id": "sports_play_by_play", - "text": "Sports play-by-play" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "detective_noir", - "text": "Detective noir" - }, - { - "id": "emergency_broadcast", - "text": "Emergency broadcast" - }, - { - "id": "treasure_hunt_narration", - "text": "Treasure-hunt narration" - }, - { - "id": "sports_play_by_play", - "text": "Sports play-by-play" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_245", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A game with no supplies—what should we pick?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_couch_game" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "guess_the_mystery_person", - "text": "Guess the mystery person" - }, - { - "id": "categories_lightning_round", - "text": "Categories lightning round" - }, - { - "id": "would_you_rather", - "text": "Would-you-rather" - }, - { - "id": "finish_the_lyric", - "text": "Finish the lyric" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "guess_the_mystery_person", - "text": "Guess the mystery person" - }, - { - "id": "categories_lightning_round", - "text": "Categories lightning round" - }, - { - "id": "would_you_rather", - "text": "Would-you-rather" - }, - { - "id": "finish_the_lyric", - "text": "Finish the lyric" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_246", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we remix a piece of couple lore?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_inside_joke" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "act_it_out_badly", - "text": "Act it out badly" - }, - { - "id": "tell_it_from_the_villains_view", - "text": "Tell it from the villain’s view" - }, - { - "id": "turn_it_into_a_fake_documentary", - "text": "Turn it into a fake documentary" - }, - { - "id": "create_the_sequel", - "text": "Create the sequel" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "act_it_out_badly", - "text": "Act it out badly" - }, - { - "id": "tell_it_from_the_villains_view", - "text": "Tell it from the villain’s view" - }, - { - "id": "turn_it_into_a_fake_documentary", - "text": "Turn it into a fake documentary" - }, - { - "id": "create_the_sequel", - "text": "Create the sequel" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_247", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a movie-trailer roulette, which option gets the nod?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_guilty_pleasure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "watch_the_weirdest_one", - "text": "Watch the weirdest one" - }, - { - "id": "pick_by_worst_title", - "text": "Pick by worst title" - }, - { - "id": "choose_the_most_dramatic_poster", - "text": "Choose the most dramatic poster" - }, - { - "id": "let_the_thumbnail_decide", - "text": "Let the thumbnail decide" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "watch_the_weirdest_one", - "text": "Watch the weirdest one" - }, - { - "id": "pick_by_worst_title", - "text": "Pick by worst title" - }, - { - "id": "choose_the_most_dramatic_poster", - "text": "Choose the most dramatic poster" - }, - { - "id": "let_the_thumbnail_decide", - "text": "Let the thumbnail decide" - } - ], - 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"text": "The right to name tonight" - }, - { - "id": "first_pick_of_the_next_mini_date", - "text": "First pick of the next mini-date" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_249", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which camera-roll challenge should we try?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_photo_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "funniest_forgotten_photo", - "text": "Funniest forgotten photo" - }, - { - "id": "best_accidental_screenshot", - "text": "Best accidental screenshot" - }, - { - "id": "most_dramatic_food_picture", - "text": "Most dramatic food picture" - }, - { - "id": "cutest_ordinary_moment", - "text": "Cutest ordinary moment" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "funniest_forgotten_photo", - "text": "Funniest forgotten photo" - }, - { - "id": "best_accidental_screenshot", - "text": "Best accidental screenshot" - }, - { - "id": "most_dramatic_food_picture", - "text": "Most dramatic food picture" - }, - { - "id": "cutest_ordinary_moment", - "text": "Cutest ordinary moment" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_250", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which topic should lead our lightning round?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_quick_game" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "favorite_tiny_dates", - "text": "Favorite tiny dates" - }, - { - "id": "most_overrated_foods", - "text": "Most overrated foods" - }, - { - "id": "best_songs_for_driving", - "text": "Best songs for driving" - }, - { - "id": "things_we_would_name_a_pet", - "text": "Things we would name a pet" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "favorite_tiny_dates", - "text": "Favorite tiny dates" - }, - { - "id": "most_overrated_foods", - "text": "Most overrated foods" - }, - { - "id": "best_songs_for_driving", - "text": "Best songs for driving" - }, - { - "id": "things_we_would_name_a_pet", - "text": "Things we would name a pet" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_251", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A spontaneous bit: which option would you choose?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_harmless_chaos" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pretend_we_host_a_cooking_show", - "text": "Pretend we host a cooking show" - }, - { - "id": "act_like_tourists_in_our_kitchen", - "text": "Act like tourists in our kitchen" - }, - { - "id": "give_the_snacks_job_interviews", - "text": "Give the snacks job interviews" - }, - { - "id": "review_the_evening_like_critics", - "text": "Review the evening like critics" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pretend_we_host_a_cooking_show", - "text": "Pretend we host a cooking show" - }, - { - "id": "act_like_tourists_in_our_kitchen", - "text": "Act like tourists in our kitchen" - }, - { - "id": "give_the_snacks_job_interviews", - "text": "Give the snacks job interviews" - }, - { - "id": "review_the_evening_like_critics", - "text": "Review the evening like critics" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_252", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which terrible acting scene should we perform?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_improv" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_just_won_a_very_strange_award", - "text": "We just won a very strange award" - }, - { - "id": "we_are_spies_ordering_dessert", - "text": "We are spies ordering dessert" - }, - { - "id": "we_missed_an_imaginary_train", - "text": "We missed an imaginary train" - }, - { - "id": "we_are_rivals_in_a_cooking_show", - "text": "We are rivals in a cooking show" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_just_won_a_very_strange_award", - "text": "We just won a very strange award" - }, - { - "id": "we_are_spies_ordering_dessert", - "text": "We are spies ordering dessert" - }, - { - "id": "we_missed_an_imaginary_train", - "text": "We missed an imaginary train" - }, - { - "id": "we_are_rivals_in_a_cooking_show", - "text": "We are rivals in a cooking show" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_253", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Choose the award category for our car conversations:", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_fake_award" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_plot_twist", - "text": "Best Plot Twist" - }, - { - "id": "longest_unplanned_detour", - "text": "Longest Unplanned Detour" - }, - { - "id": "funniest_wrong_lyric", - "text": "Funniest Wrong Lyric" - }, - { - "id": "most_likely_to_become_lore", - "text": "Most Likely to Become Lore" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_plot_twist", - "text": "Best Plot Twist" - }, - { - "id": "longest_unplanned_detour", - "text": "Longest Unplanned Detour" - }, - { - "id": "funniest_wrong_lyric", - "text": "Funniest Wrong Lyric" - }, - { - "id": "most_likely_to_become_lore", - "text": "Most Likely to Become Lore" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_254", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Choose the carb most worthy of a romantic reputation:", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_playful_debate" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "garlic_bread", - "text": "Garlic bread" - }, - { - "id": "buttery_croissants", - "text": "Buttery croissants" - }, - { - "id": "french_fries", - "text": "French fries" - }, - { - "id": "cheddar_biscuits", - "text": "Cheddar biscuits" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "garlic_bread", - "text": "Garlic bread" - }, - { - "id": "buttery_croissants", - "text": "Buttery croissants" - }, - { - "id": "french_fries", - "text": "French fries" - }, - { - "id": "cheddar_biscuits", - "text": "Cheddar biscuits" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_255", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A one-color snack board: which pick is strongest?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_weird_snack" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "all_red", - "text": "All red" - }, - { - "id": "all_yellow", - "text": "All yellow" - }, - { - "id": "all_green", - "text": "All green" - }, - { - "id": "all_chocolate", - "text": "All chocolate" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "all_red", - "text": "All red" - }, - { - "id": "all_yellow", - "text": "All yellow" - }, - { - "id": "all_green", - "text": "All green" - }, - { - "id": "all_chocolate", - "text": "All chocolate" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_256", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Who should narrate opening a snack bag?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dramatic_bit" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "red_carpet_commentary", - "text": "Red-carpet commentary" - }, - { - "id": "ancient_legend", - "text": "Ancient legend" - }, - { - "id": "mission_control_countdown", - "text": "Mission-control countdown" - }, - { - "id": "cooking_show_judging", - "text": "Cooking-show judging" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "red_carpet_commentary", - "text": "Red-carpet commentary" - }, - { - "id": "ancient_legend", - "text": "Ancient legend" - }, - { - "id": "mission_control_countdown", - "text": "Mission-control countdown" - }, - { - "id": "cooking_show_judging", - "text": "Cooking-show judging" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_257", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which two-person tournament should we play?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_couch_game" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "rock_paper_scissors", - "text": "Rock-paper-scissors" - }, - { - "id": "thumb_wrestling", - "text": "Thumb wrestling" - }, - { - "id": "coin_toss_predictions", - "text": "Coin-toss predictions" - }, - { - "id": "paper_airplane_landing", - "text": "Paper-airplane landing" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "rock_paper_scissors", - "text": "Rock-paper-scissors" - }, - { - "id": "thumb_wrestling", - "text": "Thumb wrestling" - }, - { - "id": "coin_toss_predictions", - "text": "Coin-toss predictions" - }, - { - "id": "paper_airplane_landing", - "text": "Paper-airplane landing" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_258", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we revisit an old ridiculous memory?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_inside_joke" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "recreate_the_photo", - "text": "Recreate the photo" - }, - { - "id": "rate_everyones_decisions", - "text": "Rate everyone’s decisions" - }, - { - "id": "add_fake_deleted_scenes", - "text": "Add fake deleted scenes" - }, - { - "id": "tell_it_in_sixty_seconds", - "text": "Tell it in sixty seconds" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "recreate_the_photo", - "text": "Recreate the photo" - }, - { - "id": "rate_everyones_decisions", - "text": "Rate everyone’s decisions" - }, - { - "id": "add_fake_deleted_scenes", - "text": "Add fake deleted scenes" - }, - { - "id": "tell_it_in_sixty_seconds", - "text": "Tell it in sixty seconds" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_259", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Tonight calls for something gloriously bad—which pick wins?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_guilty_pleasure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "mock_the_dialogue", - "text": "Mock the dialogue" - }, - { - "id": "predict_every_twist", - "text": "Predict every twist" - }, - { - "id": "give_characters_better_names", - "text": "Give characters better names" - }, - { - "id": "invent_an_alternate_ending", - "text": "Invent an alternate ending" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "mock_the_dialogue", - "text": "Mock the dialogue" - }, - { - "id": "predict_every_twist", - "text": "Predict every twist" - }, - { - "id": "give_characters_better_names", - "text": "Give characters better names" - }, - { - "id": "invent_an_alternate_ending", - "text": "Invent an alternate ending" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_260", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A spotting challenge: pick the winner.", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_silly_bet" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "first_dog_seen", - "text": "First dog seen" - }, - { - "id": "first_weird_bumper_sticker", - "text": "First weird bumper sticker" - }, - { - "id": "first_person_wearing_our_color", - "text": "First person wearing our color" - }, - { - "id": "first_song_we_both_know", - "text": "First song we both know" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "first_dog_seen", - "text": "First dog seen" - }, - { - "id": "first_weird_bumper_sticker", - "text": "First weird bumper sticker" - }, - { - "id": "first_person_wearing_our_color", - "text": "First person wearing our color" - }, - { - "id": "first_song_we_both_know", - "text": "First song we both know" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_261", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which matching pose should we try?", - 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"depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_quick_game" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "invent_a_theme_park_ride", - "text": "Invent a theme park ride" - }, - { - "id": "design_a_weird_restaurant", - "text": "Design a weird restaurant" - }, - { - "id": "name_our_imaginary_boat", - "text": "Name our imaginary boat" - }, - { - "id": "create_a_fake_holiday", - "text": "Create a fake holiday" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "invent_a_theme_park_ride", - "text": "Invent a theme park ride" - }, - { - "id": "design_a_weird_restaurant", - "text": "Design a weird restaurant" - }, - { - "id": "name_our_imaginary_boat", - "text": "Name our imaginary boat" - }, - { - "id": "create_a_fake_holiday", - "text": "Create a fake holiday" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_263", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny rebellion sounds most fun?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_harmless_chaos" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "watch_only_a_movies_opening_and_invent_the_rest", - "text": "Watch only a movie’s opening and invent the rest" - }, - { - "id": "order_an_appetizer_as_the_main_event", - "text": "Order an appetizer as the main event" - }, - { - "id": "take_the_scenic_route_home", - "text": "Take the scenic route home" - }, - { - "id": "use_the_fanciest_glasses_available", - "text": "Use the fanciest glasses available" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "watch_only_a_movies_opening_and_invent_the_rest", - "text": "Watch only a movie’s opening and invent the rest" - }, - { - "id": "order_an_appetizer_as_the_main_event", - "text": "Order an appetizer as the main event" - }, - { - "id": "take_the_scenic_route_home", - "text": "Take the scenic route home" - }, - { - "id": "use_the_fanciest_glasses_available", - "text": "Use the fanciest glasses available" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_264", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which moment should we dramatically reenact?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_improv" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_first_meeting", - "text": "Our first meeting" - }, - { - "id": "a_recent_snack_dispute", - "text": "A recent snack dispute" - }, - { - "id": "the_funniest_car_moment", - "text": "The funniest car moment" - }, - { - "id": "the_day_plans_went_sideways", - "text": "The day plans went sideways" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_first_meeting", - "text": "Our first meeting" - }, - { - "id": "a_recent_snack_dispute", - "text": "A recent snack dispute" - }, - { - "id": "the_funniest_car_moment", - "text": "The funniest car moment" - }, - { - "id": "the_day_plans_went_sideways", - "text": "The day plans went sideways" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_265", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which ridiculous medal belongs to our snack strategy?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_fake_award" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_dip_coordination", - "text": "Best Dip Coordination" - }, - { - "id": "boldest_flavor_choice", - "text": "Boldest Flavor Choice" - }, - { - "id": "best_last_bite_negotiation", - "text": "Best Last-Bite Negotiation" - }, - { - "id": "most_valuable_crunch", - "text": "Most Valuable Crunch" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_dip_coordination", - "text": "Best Dip Coordination" - }, - { - "id": "boldest_flavor_choice", - "text": "Boldest Flavor Choice" - }, - { - "id": "best_last_bite_negotiation", - "text": "Best Last-Bite Negotiation" - }, - { - "id": "most_valuable_crunch", - "text": "Most Valuable Crunch" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_266", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Settle it: which movie snack is correct?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_playful_debate" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "extra_butter_popcorn", - "text": "Extra-butter popcorn" - }, - { - "id": "loaded_nachos", - "text": "Loaded nachos" - }, - { - "id": "a_candy_mix", - "text": "A candy mix" - }, - { - "id": "a_surprise_snack_from_home", - "text": "A surprise snack from home" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "extra_butter_popcorn", - "text": "Extra-butter popcorn" - }, - { - "id": "loaded_nachos", - "text": "Loaded nachos" - }, - { - "id": "a_candy_mix", - "text": "A candy mix" - }, - { - "id": "a_surprise_snack_from_home", - "text": "A surprise snack from home" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_267", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a two-dollar food challenge, which option wins?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_weird_snack" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_tiny_candy_haul", - "text": "Best tiny candy haul" - }, - { - "id": "best_salty_find", - "text": "Best salty find" - }, - { - "id": "best_drink_pick", - "text": "Best drink pick" - }, - { - "id": "best_unexpected_combo", - "text": "Best unexpected combo" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_tiny_candy_haul", - "text": "Best tiny candy haul" - }, - { - "id": "best_salty_find", - "text": "Best salty find" - }, - { - "id": "best_drink_pick", - "text": "Best drink pick" - }, - { - "id": "best_unexpected_combo", - "text": "Best unexpected combo" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_268", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What genre should getting ready to leave pretend to be?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dramatic_bit" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "training_montage", - "text": "Training montage" - }, - { - "id": "heist_movie_briefing", - "text": "Heist-movie briefing" - }, - { - "id": "fairy_tale_narration", - "text": "Fairy-tale narration" - }, - { - "id": "reality_show_confessionals", - "text": "Reality-show confessionals" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "training_montage", - "text": "Training montage" - }, - { - "id": "heist_movie_briefing", - "text": "Heist-movie briefing" - }, - { - "id": "fairy_tale_narration", - "text": "Fairy-tale narration" - }, - { - "id": "reality_show_confessionals", - "text": "Reality-show confessionals" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_269", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which ridiculous guessing game sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_couch_game" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "act_out_appliances", - "text": "Act out appliances" - }, - { - "id": "describe_movies_badly", - "text": "Describe movies badly" - }, - { - "id": "guess_childhood_snacks", - "text": "Guess childhood snacks" - }, - { - "id": "name_songs_from_humming", - "text": "Name songs from humming" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "act_out_appliances", - "text": "Act out appliances" - }, - { - "id": "describe_movies_badly", - "text": "Describe movies badly" - }, - { - "id": "guess_childhood_snacks", - "text": "Guess childhood snacks" - }, - { - "id": "name_songs_from_humming", - "text": "Name songs from humming" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_270", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we add to our private comedy universe?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_inside_joke" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "invent_a_new_character", - "text": "Invent a new character" - }, - { - "id": "bring_back_an_old_nickname", - "text": "Bring back an old nickname" - }, - { - "id": "name_our_imaginary_sitcom", - "text": "Name our imaginary sitcom" - }, - { - "id": "choose_its_opening_theme", - "text": "Choose its opening theme" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "invent_a_new_character", - "text": "Invent a new character" - }, - { - "id": "bring_back_an_old_nickname", - "text": "Bring back an old nickname" - }, - { - "id": "name_our_imaginary_sitcom", - "text": "Name our imaginary sitcom" - }, - { - "id": "choose_its_opening_theme", - "text": "Choose its opening theme" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_271", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A comfort rewatch—what should we pick?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_guilty_pleasure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_one_we_quote", - "text": "The one we quote" - }, - { - "id": "the_one_with_the_coziest_ending", - "text": "The one with the coziest ending" - }, - { - "id": "the_one_with_the_best_soundtrack", - "text": "The one with the best soundtrack" - }, - { - "id": "the_one_that_feels_like_home", - "text": "The one that feels like home" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_one_we_quote", - "text": "The one we quote" - }, - { - "id": "the_one_with_the_coziest_ending", - "text": "The one with the coziest ending" - }, - { - "id": "the_one_with_the_best_soundtrack", - "text": "The one with the best soundtrack" - }, - { - "id": "the_one_that_feels_like_home", - "text": "The one that feels like home" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_272", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which taste-test bet should we make?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_silly_bet" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "guess_the_flavor", - "text": "Guess the flavor" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_brand", - "text": "Name the brand" - }, - { - "id": "rank_the_spice_level", - "text": "Rank the spice level" - }, - { - "id": "identify_the_mystery_ingredient", - "text": "Identify the mystery ingredient" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "guess_the_flavor", - "text": "Guess the flavor" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_brand", - "text": "Name the brand" - }, - { - "id": "rank_the_spice_level", - "text": "Rank the spice level" - }, - { - "id": "identify_the_mystery_ingredient", - "text": "Identify the mystery ingredient" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_273", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which prop should star in our photo?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_photo_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_spoon_microphone", - "text": "A spoon microphone" - }, - { - "id": "oversized_sunglasses", - "text": "Oversized sunglasses" - }, - { - "id": "a_snack_trophy", - "text": "A snack trophy" - }, - { - "id": "a_lamp_spotlight", - "text": "A lamp spotlight" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_spoon_microphone", - "text": "A spoon microphone" - }, - { - "id": "oversized_sunglasses", - "text": "Oversized sunglasses" - }, - { - "id": "a_snack_trophy", - "text": "A snack trophy" - }, - { - "id": "a_lamp_spotlight", - "text": "A lamp spotlight" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_274", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which rule should our speed story follow?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_quick_game" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tell_one_sentence_each", - "text": "Tell one sentence each" - }, - { - "id": "use_no_character_names", - "text": "Use no character names" - }, - { - "id": "start_the_story_at_midnight", - "text": "Start the story at midnight" - }, - { - "id": "end_with_a_dessert_surprise", - "text": "End with a dessert surprise" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tell_one_sentence_each", - "text": "Tell one sentence each" - }, - { - "id": "use_no_character_names", - "text": "Use no character names" - }, - { - "id": "start_the_story_at_midnight", - "text": "Start the story at midnight" - }, - { - "id": "end_with_a_dessert_surprise", - "text": "End with a dessert surprise" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_275", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which unnecessary ceremony should we perform?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_harmless_chaos" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "give_the_winning_snack_a_trophy_speech", - "text": "Give the winning snack a trophy speech" - }, - { - "id": "open_dessert_with_a_countdown", - "text": "Open dessert with a countdown" - }, - { - "id": "announce_the_movie_like_an_award", - "text": "Announce the movie like an award" - }, - { - "id": "present_the_final_song_with_a_drumroll", - "text": "Present the final song with a drumroll" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "give_the_winning_snack_a_trophy_speech", - "text": "Give the winning snack a trophy speech" - }, - { - "id": "open_dessert_with_a_countdown", - "text": "Open dessert with a countdown" - }, - { - "id": "announce_the_movie_like_an_award", - "text": "Announce the movie like an award" - }, - { - "id": "present_the_final_song_with_a_drumroll", - "text": "Present the final song with a drumroll" - } - ], - 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"category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which award should the judges give our planning skills?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_fake_award" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_last_minute_save", - "text": "Best Last-Minute Save" - }, - { - "id": "strongest_well_figure_it_out", - "text": "Strongest “We’ll Figure It Out”" - }, - { - "id": "most_creative_cheap_date", - "text": "Most Creative Cheap Date" - }, - { - "id": "best_use_of_a_coin_flip", - "text": "Best Use of a Coin Flip" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_last_minute_save", - "text": "Best Last-Minute Save" - }, - { - "id": "strongest_well_figure_it_out", - "text": "Strongest “We’ll Figure It Out”" - }, - { - "id": "most_creative_cheap_date", - "text": "Most Creative Cheap Date" - }, - { - "id": "best_use_of_a_coin_flip", - "text": "Best Use of a Coin Flip" - 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"category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which snack deserves the most dramatic entrance?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_weird_snack" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "popcorn_in_a_serving_bowl", - "text": "Popcorn in a serving bowl" - }, - { - "id": "cookies_under_a_cover", - "text": "Cookies under a cover" - }, - { - "id": "cheese_bites_on_a_platter", - "text": "Cheese bites on a platter" - }, - { - "id": "gummy_candy_with_theme_music", - "text": "Gummy candy with theme music" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "popcorn_in_a_serving_bowl", - "text": "Popcorn in a serving bowl" - }, - { - "id": "cookies_under_a_cover", - "text": "Cookies under a cover" - }, - { - "id": "cheese_bites_on_a_platter", - "text": "Cheese bites on a platter" - }, - { - "id": "gummy_candy_with_theme_music", - "text": "Gummy candy with theme music" - 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"text": "Who knows whom better" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_282", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which option best suits a joke only we understand?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_inside_joke" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "use_it_in_a_love_note", - "text": "Use it in a love note" - }, - { - "id": "hide_it_in_a_playlist_title", - "text": "Hide it in a playlist title" - }, - { - "id": "turn_it_into_a_hand_signal", - "text": "Turn it into a hand signal" - }, - { - "id": "make_it_tonights_toast", - "text": "Make it tonight’s toast" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "use_it_in_a_love_note", - "text": "Use it in a love note" - }, - { - "id": "hide_it_in_a_playlist_title", - "text": "Hide it in a playlist title" - }, - { - "id": "turn_it_into_a_hand_signal", - "text": "Turn it into a hand signal" - }, - { - "id": "make_it_tonights_toast", - "text": "Make it tonight’s toast" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_283", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a fifteen-minute watch, what would you choose?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_guilty_pleasure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "stand_up_clip", - "text": "Stand-up clip" - }, - { - "id": "old_music_videos", - "text": "Old music videos" - }, - { - "id": "funny_animal_compilation", - "text": "Funny animal compilation" - }, - { - "id": "ridiculous_game_show", - "text": "Ridiculous game show" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "stand_up_clip", - "text": "Stand-up clip" - }, - { - "id": "old_music_videos", - "text": "Old music videos" - }, - { - "id": "funny_animal_compilation", - "text": "Funny animal compilation" - }, - { - "id": "ridiculous_game_show", - "text": "Ridiculous game show" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_284", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which no-skill showdown sounds most fun?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_silly_bet" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "guess_a_song_in_three_notes", - "text": "Guess a song in three notes" - }, - { - "id": "draw_a_heart_with_eyes_closed", - "text": "Draw a heart with eyes closed" - }, - { - "id": "race_through_a_tongue_twister", - "text": "Race through a tongue twister" - }, - { - "id": "pitch_the_worst_movie_sequel", - "text": "Pitch the worst movie sequel" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "guess_a_song_in_three_notes", - "text": "Guess a song in three notes" - }, - { - "id": "draw_a_heart_with_eyes_closed", - "text": "Draw a heart with eyes closed" - }, - { - "id": "race_through_a_tongue_twister", - "text": "Race through a tongue twister" - }, - { - "id": "pitch_the_worst_movie_sequel", - "text": "Pitch the worst movie sequel" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_285", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What belongs in our next future-lore photo?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_photo_challenge" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tonights_winning_snack", - "text": "Tonight’s winning snack" - }, - { - "id": "our_worst_dance_pose", - "text": "Our worst dance pose" - }, - { - "id": "the_official_victory_pose", - "text": "The official victory pose" - }, - { - "id": "a_recreation_of_an_old_selfie", - "text": "A recreation of an old selfie" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tonights_winning_snack", - "text": "Tonight’s winning snack" - }, - { - "id": "our_worst_dance_pose", - "text": "Our worst dance pose" - }, - { - "id": "the_official_victory_pose", - "text": "The official victory pose" - }, - { - "id": "a_recreation_of_an_old_selfie", - "text": "A recreation of an old selfie" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_286", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A tiny quiz—which option wins?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_quick_game" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "guess_my_current_craving", - "text": "Guess my current craving" - }, - { - "id": "guess_my_dream_mini_date", - "text": "Guess my dream mini-date" - }, - { - "id": "guess_my_comfort_show_pick", - "text": "Guess my comfort show pick" - }, - { - "id": "guess_my_next_song_choice", - "text": "Guess my next song choice" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "guess_my_current_craving", - "text": "Guess my current craving" - }, - { - "id": "guess_my_dream_mini_date", - "text": "Guess my dream mini-date" - }, - { - "id": "guess_my_comfort_show_pick", - "text": "Guess my comfort show pick" - }, - { - "id": "guess_my_next_song_choice", - "text": "Guess my next song choice" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_287", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which five-minute nonsense challenge should we try?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_thursday_laugh", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_harmless_chaos" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "speak_only_in_questions", - "text": "Speak only in questions" - }, - { - "id": "rate_everything_like_movie_critics", - "text": "Rate everything like movie critics" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_duet_one_word_at_a_time", - "text": "Invent a duet one word at a time" - }, - { - "id": "pose_for_an_imaginary_band_photo", - "text": "Pose for an imaginary band photo" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "speak_only_in_questions", - "text": "Speak only in questions" - }, - { - "id": "rate_everything_like_movie_critics", - "text": "Rate everything like movie critics" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_duet_one_word_at_a_time", - "text": "Invent a duet one word at a time" - }, - { - "id": "pose_for_an_imaginary_band_photo", - "text": "Pose for an imaginary band photo" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_288", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of flirting from me still works best on you?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_flirty_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_look_that_lasts_a_second_longer", - "text": "A look that lasts a second longer" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_text", - "text": "A playful text" - }, - { - "id": "a_teasing_compliment", - "text": "A teasing compliment" - }, - { - "id": "a_gentle_touch", - "text": "A gentle touch" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_look_that_lasts_a_second_longer", - "text": "A look that lasts a second longer" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_text", - "text": "A playful text" - }, - { - "id": "a_teasing_compliment", - "text": "A teasing compliment" - }, - { - "id": "a_gentle_touch", - "text": "A gentle touch" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_289", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should a memorable compliment be delivered?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_compliment_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "whisper_it_privately", - "text": "Whisper it privately" - }, - { - "id": "hide_it_in_a_short_note", - "text": "Hide it in a short note" - }, - { - "id": "say_it_from_across_the_room", - "text": "Say it from across the room" - }, - { - "id": "offer_it_after_a_shared_laugh", - "text": "Offer it after a shared laugh" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "whisper_it_privately", - "text": "Whisper it privately" - }, - { - "id": "hide_it_in_a_short_note", - "text": "Hide it in a short note" - }, - { - "id": "say_it_from_across_the_room", - "text": "Say it from across the room" - }, - { - "id": "offer_it_after_a_shared_laugh", - "text": "Offer it after a shared laugh" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_290", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a tiny date move, make the tiny ruling.", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dessert_somewhere_new", - "text": "Dessert somewhere new" - }, - { - "id": "one_drink_on_a_patio", - "text": "One drink on a patio" - }, - { - "id": "watch_sunset_from_a_quiet_spot", - "text": "Watch sunset from a quiet spot" - }, - { - "id": "a_late_walk_with_snacks", - "text": "A late walk with snacks" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dessert_somewhere_new", - "text": "Dessert somewhere new" - }, - { - "id": "one_drink_on_a_patio", - "text": "One drink on a patio" - }, - { - "id": "watch_sunset_from_a_quiet_spot", - "text": "Watch sunset from a quiet spot" - }, - { - "id": "a_late_walk_with_snacks", - "text": "A late walk with snacks" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_291", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which move fits playful teasing best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cute_dare" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "challenge_my_snack_opinion", - "text": "Challenge my snack opinion" - }, - { - "id": "dramatically_overreact_to_my_answer", - "text": "Dramatically overreact to my answer" - }, - { - "id": "give_me_a_ridiculous_nickname", - "text": "Give me a ridiculous nickname" - }, - { - "id": "start_a_fake_competition", - "text": "Start a fake competition" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "challenge_my_snack_opinion", - "text": "Challenge my snack opinion" - }, - { - "id": "dramatically_overreact_to_my_answer", - "text": "Dramatically overreact to my answer" - }, - { - "id": "give_me_a_ridiculous_nickname", - "text": "Give me a ridiculous nickname" - }, - { - "id": "start_a_fake_competition", - "text": "Start a fake competition" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_292", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A text from me: which choice feels right?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_flirty_text" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_simple_thinking_of_you", - "text": "A simple “thinking of you”" - }, - { - "id": "a_bold_compliment", - "text": "A bold compliment" - }, - { - "id": "a_date_clue", - "text": "A date clue" - }, - { - "id": "an_inside_joke_with_one_emoji", - "text": "An inside joke with one emoji" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_simple_thinking_of_you", - "text": "A simple “thinking of you”" - }, - { - "id": "a_bold_compliment", - "text": "A bold compliment" - }, - { - "id": "a_date_clue", - "text": "A date clue" - }, - { - "id": "an_inside_joke_with_one_emoji", - "text": "An inside joke with one emoji" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_293", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which answer best fits what catches my attention?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_attraction_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "your_smile", - "text": "Your smile" - }, - { - "id": "your_voice", - "text": "Your voice" - }, - { - "id": "your_confidence", - "text": "Your confidence" - }, - { - "id": "your_playful_side", - "text": "Your playful side" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "your_smile", - "text": "Your smile" - }, - { - "id": "your_voice", - "text": "Your voice" - }, - { - "id": "your_confidence", - "text": "Your confidence" - }, - { - "id": "your_playful_side", - "text": "Your playful side" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_294", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a kiss tonight, what feels right?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_kiss_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_and_lingering", - "text": "Slow and lingering" - }, - { - "id": "quick_and_playful", - "text": "Quick and playful" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_and_smiling", - "text": "Sweet and smiling" - }, - { - "id": "forehead_kiss_first", - "text": "Forehead kiss first" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_and_lingering", - "text": "Slow and lingering" - }, - { - "id": "quick_and_playful", - "text": "Quick and playful" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_and_smiling", - "text": "Sweet and smiling" - }, - { - "id": "forehead_kiss_first", - "text": "Forehead kiss first" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_295", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For our Friday look, what would you choose?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_date_vibe" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dress_up_a_little", - "text": "Dress up a little" - }, - { - "id": "stay_beautifully_cozy", - "text": "Stay beautifully cozy" - }, - { - "id": "match_one_color", - "text": "Match one color" - }, - { - "id": "wear_what_makes_us_confident", - "text": "Wear what makes us confident" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dress_up_a_little", - "text": "Dress up a little" - }, - { - "id": "stay_beautifully_cozy", - "text": "Stay beautifully cozy" - }, - { - "id": "match_one_color", - "text": "Match one color" - }, - { - "id": "wear_what_makes_us_confident", - "text": "Wear what makes us confident" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_296", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A dance together: what wins?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_music_flirt" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_in_the_kitchen", - "text": "Slow in the kitchen" - }, - { - "id": "goofy_in_the_living_room", - "text": "Goofy in the living room" - }, - { - "id": "close_during_one_favorite_song", - "text": "Close during one favorite song" - }, - { - "id": "outside_under_porch_lights", - "text": "Outside under porch lights" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_in_the_kitchen", - "text": "Slow in the kitchen" - }, - { - "id": "goofy_in_the_living_room", - "text": "Goofy in the living room" - }, - { - "id": "close_during_one_favorite_song", - "text": "Close during one favorite song" - }, - { - "id": "outside_under_porch_lights", - "text": "Outside under porch lights" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_297", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A secret signal: which one fits best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_secret_signal" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "two_taps_on_my_hand", - "text": "Two taps on my hand" - }, - { - "id": "a_certain_emoji", - "text": "A certain emoji" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_nickname", - "text": "A private nickname" - }, - { - "id": "one_raised_eyebrow", - "text": "One raised eyebrow" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "two_taps_on_my_hand", - "text": "Two taps on my hand" - }, - { - "id": "a_certain_emoji", - "text": "A certain emoji" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_nickname", - "text": "A private nickname" - }, - { - "id": "one_raised_eyebrow", - "text": "One raised eyebrow" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_298", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A sweet surprise—what gets your vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_romantic_surprise" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "flowers_from_anywhere", - "text": "Flowers from anywhere" - }, - { - "id": "favorite_dessert", - "text": "Favorite dessert" - }, - { - "id": "a_planned_mini_date", - "text": "A planned mini-date" - }, - { - "id": "a_note_saying_why_you_chose_me", - "text": "A note saying why you chose me" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "flowers_from_anywhere", - "text": "Flowers from anywhere" - }, - { - "id": "favorite_dessert", - "text": "Favorite dessert" - }, - { - "id": "a_planned_mini_date", - "text": "A planned mini-date" - }, - { - "id": "a_note_saying_why_you_chose_me", - "text": "A note saying why you chose me" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_299", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "After dinner, which little date move sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_date_ending" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "stop_for_a_nighttime_view", - "text": "Stop for a nighttime view" - }, - { - "id": "share_dessert_somewhere_quiet", - "text": "Share dessert somewhere quiet" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_song_outside", - "text": "Share one song outside" - }, - { - "id": "sit_close_and_talk", - "text": "Sit close and talk" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "stop_for_a_nighttime_view", - "text": "Stop for a nighttime view" - }, - { - "id": "share_dessert_somewhere_quiet", - "text": "Share dessert somewhere quiet" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_song_outside", - "text": "Share one song outside" - }, - { - "id": "sit_close_and_talk", - "text": "Sit close and talk" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_300", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick your favorite version of a tiny flirt tonight:", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_flirty_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "whisper_something_sweet", - "text": "Whisper something sweet" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_message_from_across_the_room", - "text": "Send a message from across the room" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_slow_kiss", - "text": "Share one slow kiss" - }, - { - "id": "ask_me_on_a_mini_date", - "text": "Ask me on a mini-date" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "whisper_something_sweet", - "text": "Whisper something sweet" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_message_from_across_the_room", - "text": "Send a message from across the room" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_slow_kiss", - "text": "Share one slow kiss" - }, - { - "id": "ask_me_on_a_mini_date", - "text": "Ask me on a mini-date" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_301", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should the sweet praise sound?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_compliment_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_and_specific", - "text": "Warm and specific" - }, - { - "id": "specific_and_thoughtful", - "text": "Specific and thoughtful" - }, - { - "id": "confident_and_playful", - "text": "Confident and playful" - }, - { - "id": "funny_but_true", - "text": "Funny but true" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_and_specific", - "text": "Warm and specific" - }, - { - "id": "specific_and_thoughtful", - "text": "Specific and thoughtful" - }, - { - "id": "confident_and_playful", - "text": "Confident and playful" - }, - { - "id": "funny_but_true", - "text": "Funny but true" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_302", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Dinner is over—where should the date go next?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pastry_stop", - "text": "Pastry stop" - }, - { - "id": "browse_a_record_shop", - "text": "Browse a record shop" - }, - { - "id": "two_song_kitchen_dance", - "text": "Two-song kitchen dance" - }, - { - "id": "sit_outside_with_a_drink", - "text": "Sit outside with a drink" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pastry_stop", - "text": "Pastry stop" - }, - { - "id": "browse_a_record_shop", - "text": "Browse a record shop" - }, - { - "id": "two_song_kitchen_dance", - "text": "Two-song kitchen dance" - }, - { - "id": "sit_outside_with_a_drink", - "text": "Sit outside with a drink" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_303", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which cute dare sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cute_dare" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dance_together_for_one_song", - "text": "Dance together for one song" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_a_photo_we_already_love", - "text": "Recreate a photo we already love" - }, - { - "id": "let_the_other_choose_dessert", - "text": "Let the other choose dessert" - }, - { - "id": "share_your_boldest_compliment", - "text": "Share your boldest compliment" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dance_together_for_one_song", - "text": "Dance together for one song" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_a_photo_we_already_love", - "text": "Recreate a photo we already love" - }, - { - "id": "let_the_other_choose_dessert", - "text": "Let the other choose dessert" - }, - { - "id": "share_your_boldest_compliment", - "text": "Share your boldest compliment" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_304", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which daytime message would you most like?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_flirty_text" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_photo_that_reminds_me_of_you", - "text": "A photo that reminds me of you" - }, - { - "id": "a_countdown_to_seeing_you", - "text": "A countdown to seeing you" - }, - { - "id": "a_song_link", - "text": "A song link" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_question", - "text": "A playful question" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_photo_that_reminds_me_of_you", - "text": "A photo that reminds me of you" - }, - { - "id": "a_countdown_to_seeing_you", - "text": "A countdown to seeing you" - }, - { - "id": "a_song_link", - "text": "A song link" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_question", - "text": "A playful question" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_305", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When do I look especially good to you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_attraction_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dressed_up", - "text": "Dressed up" - }, - { - "id": "fresh_from_a_shower", - "text": "Fresh from a shower" - }, - { - "id": "laughing_hard", - "text": "Laughing hard" - }, - { - "id": "focused_on_something_you_love", - "text": "Focused on something you love" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dressed_up", - "text": "Dressed up" - }, - { - "id": "fresh_from_a_shower", - "text": "Fresh from a shower" - }, - { - "id": "laughing_hard", - "text": "Laughing hard" - }, - { - "id": "focused_on_something_you_love", - "text": "Focused on something you love" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_306", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should a hello-after-time-apart moment begin?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_kiss_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_long_hug_if_welcome", - "text": "A long hug if welcome" - }, - { - "id": "a_hand_squeeze_and_a_smile", - "text": "A hand squeeze and a smile" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_look_whos_here", - "text": "A playful “look who’s here”" - }, - { - "id": "a_kiss_after_asking", - "text": "A kiss after asking" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_long_hug_if_welcome", - "text": "A long hug if welcome" - }, - { - "id": "a_hand_squeeze_and_a_smile", - "text": "A hand squeeze and a smile" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_look_whos_here", - "text": "A playful “look who’s here”" - }, - { - "id": "a_kiss_after_asking", - "text": "A kiss after asking" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_307", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a date-night detail, what gets our official vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_date_vibe" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "favorite_perfume_or_cologne", - "text": "Favorite perfume or cologne" - }, - { - "id": "the_outfit_you_know_i_like", - "text": "The outfit you know I like" - }, - { - "id": "one_unexpected_accessory", - "text": "One unexpected accessory" - }, - { - "id": "the_shoes_made_for_wandering", - "text": "The shoes made for wandering" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "favorite_perfume_or_cologne", - "text": "Favorite perfume or cologne" - }, - { - "id": "the_outfit_you_know_i_like", - "text": "The outfit you know I like" - }, - { - "id": "one_unexpected_accessory", - "text": "One unexpected accessory" - }, - { - "id": "the_shoes_made_for_wandering", - "text": "The shoes made for wandering" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_308", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should lead our flirt soundtrack?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_music_flirt" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "old_school_r_b", - "text": "Old-school R&B" - }, - { - "id": "a_song_from_when_we_met", - "text": "A song from when we met" - }, - { - "id": "a_beat_that_pulls_us_closer", - "text": "A beat that pulls us closer" - }, - { - "id": "a_shameless_love_song", - "text": "A shameless love song" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "old_school_r_b", - "text": "Old-school R&B" - }, - { - "id": "a_song_from_when_we_met", - "text": "A song from when we met" - }, - { - "id": "a_beat_that_pulls_us_closer", - "text": "A beat that pulls us closer" - }, - { - "id": "a_shameless_love_song", - "text": "A shameless love song" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_309", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which “come closer” code should we use?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_secret_signal" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pat_the_seat_beside_you", - "text": "Pat the seat beside you" - }, - { - "id": "play_one_specific_song", - "text": "Play one specific song" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_single_heart", - "text": "Send a single heart" - }, - { - "id": "say_i_need_your_opinion", - "text": "Say “I need your opinion”" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pat_the_seat_beside_you", - "text": "Pat the seat beside you" - }, - { - "id": "play_one_specific_song", - "text": "Play one specific song" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_single_heart", - "text": "Send a single heart" - }, - { - "id": "say_i_need_your_opinion", - "text": "Say “I need your opinion”" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_310", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which unexpected romantic move sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_romantic_surprise" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "meet_me_with_a_drink", - "text": "Meet me with a drink" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_tiny_picnic", - "text": "Make a tiny picnic" - }, - { - "id": "queue_a_meaningful_song", - "text": "Queue a meaningful song" - }, - { - "id": "ask_me_to_dance", - "text": "Ask me to dance" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "meet_me_with_a_drink", - "text": "Meet me with a drink" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_tiny_picnic", - "text": "Make a tiny picnic" - }, - { - "id": "queue_a_meaningful_song", - "text": "Queue a meaningful song" - }, - { - "id": "ask_me_to_dance", - "text": "Ask me to dance" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_311", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "The date has one hour left—what should fill it?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_date_ending" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "cuddle_with_music", - "text": "Cuddle with music" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_moonlit_walk", - "text": "Take a moonlit walk" - }, - { - "id": "trade_favorite_memories", - "text": "Trade favorite memories" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_last_song_outside", - "text": "Share one last song outside" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cuddle_with_music", - "text": "Cuddle with music" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_moonlit_walk", - "text": "Take a moonlit walk" - }, - { - "id": "trade_favorite_memories", - "text": "Trade favorite memories" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_last_song_outside", - "text": "Share one last song outside" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_312", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which playful attention would make you smile fastest?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_flirty_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tease_me_kindly", - "text": "Tease me kindly" - }, - { - "id": "pull_me_into_a_dance", - "text": "Pull me into a dance" - }, - { - "id": "send_me_a_private_compliment", - "text": "Send me a private compliment" - }, - { - "id": "use_our_secret_signal", - "text": "Use our secret signal" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tease_me_kindly", - "text": "Tease me kindly" - }, - { - "id": "pull_me_into_a_dance", - "text": "Pull me into a dance" - }, - { - "id": "send_me_a_private_compliment", - "text": "Send me a private compliment" - }, - { - "id": "use_our_secret_signal", - "text": "Use our secret signal" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_313", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which unexpected praise would give you the biggest spark?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_compliment_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_make_bold_choices_well", - "text": "You make bold choices well" - }, - { - "id": "your_curiosity_is_attractive", - "text": "Your curiosity is attractive" - }, - { - "id": "your_timing_always_gets_me", - "text": "Your timing always gets me" - }, - { - "id": "you_make_ordinary_moments_exciting", - "text": "You make ordinary moments exciting" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_make_bold_choices_well", - "text": "You make bold choices well" - }, - { - "id": "your_curiosity_is_attractive", - "text": "Your curiosity is attractive" - }, - { - "id": "your_timing_always_gets_me", - "text": "Your timing always gets me" - }, - { - "id": "you_make_ordinary_moments_exciting", - "text": "You make ordinary moments exciting" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_314", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A spontaneous hour—which option wins?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_live_music", - "text": "Find live music" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_new_appetizer", - "text": "Try a new appetizer" - }, - { - "id": "take_photos_downtown", - "text": "Take photos downtown" - }, - { - "id": "drive_toward_the_sunset", - "text": "Drive toward the sunset" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_live_music", - "text": "Find live music" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_new_appetizer", - "text": "Try a new appetizer" - }, - { - "id": "take_photos_downtown", - "text": "Take photos downtown" - }, - { - "id": "drive_toward_the_sunset", - "text": "Drive toward the sunset" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_315", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a little mischief, what gets the couple vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cute_dare" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "steal_my_seat_then_invite_me_closer", - "text": "Steal my seat then invite me closer" - }, - { - "id": "hide_a_note_in_my_pocket", - "text": "Hide a note in my pocket" - }, - { - "id": "make_me_guess_the_date_plan", - "text": "Make me guess the date plan" - }, - { - "id": "text_a_clue_that_leads_to_me", - "text": "Text a clue that leads to me" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "steal_my_seat_then_invite_me_closer", - "text": "Steal my seat then invite me closer" - }, - { - "id": "hide_a_note_in_my_pocket", - "text": "Hide a note in my pocket" - }, - { - "id": "make_me_guess_the_date_plan", - "text": "Make me guess the date plan" - }, - { - "id": "text_a_clue_that_leads_to_me", - "text": "Text a clue that leads to me" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_316", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which flirty phone surprise sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_flirty_text" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "send_a_warm_voice_note", - "text": "Send a warm voice note" - }, - { - "id": "share_a_favorite_recent_selfie", - "text": "Share a favorite recent selfie" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_five_second_audio_clue", - "text": "Send a five-second audio clue" - }, - { - "id": "text_a_mystery_food_hint", - "text": "Text a mystery food hint" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "send_a_warm_voice_note", - "text": "Send a warm voice note" - }, - { - "id": "share_a_favorite_recent_selfie", - "text": "Share a favorite recent selfie" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_five_second_audio_clue", - "text": "Send a five-second audio clue" - }, - { - "id": "text_a_mystery_food_hint", - "text": "Text a mystery food hint" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_317", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What is the most attractive everyday thing?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_attraction_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "how_you_take_care_of_people", - "text": "How you take care of people" - }, - { - "id": "how_you_make_decisions", - "text": "How you make decisions" - }, - { - "id": "how_you_tell_stories", - "text": "How you tell stories" - }, - { - "id": "how_you_relax_with_me", - "text": "How you relax with me" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "how_you_take_care_of_people", - "text": "How you take care of people" - }, - { - "id": "how_you_make_decisions", - "text": "How you make decisions" - }, - { - "id": "how_you_tell_stories", - "text": "How you tell stories" - }, - { - "id": "how_you_relax_with_me", - "text": "How you relax with me" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_318", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should the goodbye kiss happen?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_kiss_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "long_enough_to_linger", - "text": "Long enough to linger" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_and_unhurried", - "text": "Gentle and unhurried" - }, - { - "id": "playful_at_the_last_second", - "text": "Playful at the last second" - }, - { - "id": "paired_with_a_compliment", - "text": "Paired with a compliment" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "long_enough_to_linger", - "text": "Long enough to linger" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_and_unhurried", - "text": "Gentle and unhurried" - }, - { - "id": "playful_at_the_last_second", - "text": "Playful at the last second" - }, - { - "id": "paired_with_a_compliment", - "text": "Paired with a compliment" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_319", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would help us feel attractive together?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_date_vibe" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_our_time_getting_ready", - "text": "Take our time getting ready" - }, - { - "id": "compliment_each_other_first", - "text": "Compliment each other first" - }, - { - "id": "choose_the_music_together", - "text": "Choose the music together" - }, - { - "id": "take_one_great_photo", - "text": "Take one great photo" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_our_time_getting_ready", - "text": "Take our time getting ready" - }, - { - "id": "compliment_each_other_first", - "text": "Compliment each other first" - }, - { - "id": "choose_the_music_together", - "text": "Choose the music together" - }, - { - "id": "take_one_great_photo", - "text": "Take one great photo" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_320", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Who should choose the song for our one-song date?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_music_flirt" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_choose_and_i_follow", - "text": "You choose and I follow" - }, - { - "id": "i_choose_and_you_follow", - "text": "I choose and you follow" - }, - { - "id": "we_pick_our_song_together", - "text": "We pick our song together" - }, - { - "id": "shuffle_decides_our_fate", - "text": "Shuffle decides our fate" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_choose_and_i_follow", - "text": "You choose and I follow" - }, - { - "id": "i_choose_and_you_follow", - "text": "I choose and you follow" - }, - { - "id": "we_pick_our_song_together", - "text": "We pick our song together" - }, - { - "id": "shuffle_decides_our_fate", - "text": "Shuffle decides our fate" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_321", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A date-night clue: what wins our vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_secret_signal" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_drink_waiting", - "text": "A drink waiting" - }, - { - "id": "shoes_by_the_door", - "text": "Shoes by the door" - }, - { - "id": "a_playlist_already_on", - "text": "A playlist already on" - }, - { - "id": "a_note_with_a_time", - "text": "A note with a time" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_drink_waiting", - "text": "A drink waiting" - }, - { - "id": "shoes_by_the_door", - "text": "Shoes by the door" - }, - { - "id": "a_playlist_already_on", - "text": "A playlist already on" - }, - { - "id": "a_note_with_a_time", - "text": "A note with a time" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_322", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which five-minute surprise sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_romantic_surprise" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "set_out_a_candlelit_snack", - "text": "Set out a candlelit snack" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_porch_toast", - "text": "Make a porch toast" - }, - { - "id": "take_three_silly_timer_photos", - "text": "Take three silly timer photos" - }, - { - "id": "write_one_specific_compliment", - "text": "Write one specific compliment" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "set_out_a_candlelit_snack", - "text": "Set out a candlelit snack" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_porch_toast", - "text": "Make a porch toast" - }, - { - "id": "take_three_silly_timer_photos", - "text": "Take three silly timer photos" - }, - { - "id": "write_one_specific_compliment", - "text": "Write one specific compliment" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_323", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should our date night end?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_date_ending" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "end_with_a_lingering_kiss", - "text": "End with a lingering kiss" - }, - { - "id": "choose_an_after_hours_dessert", - "text": "Choose an after-hours dessert" - }, - { - "id": "take_drinks_to_the_porch", - "text": "Take drinks to the porch" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_funniest_moment", - "text": "Name the funniest moment" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "end_with_a_lingering_kiss", - "text": "End with a lingering kiss" - }, - { - "id": "choose_an_after_hours_dessert", - "text": "Choose an after-hours dessert" - }, - { - "id": "take_drinks_to_the_porch", - "text": "Take drinks to the porch" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_funniest_moment", - "text": "Name the funniest moment" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_324", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Tonight, what should a flirty hello look like?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_flirty_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_real_kiss", - "text": "A real kiss" - }, - { - "id": "a_flirty_question", - "text": "A flirty question" - }, - { - "id": "a_mischievous_smile", - "text": "A mischievous smile" - }, - { - "id": "a_whispered_hello", - "text": "A whispered hello" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_real_kiss", - "text": "A real kiss" - }, - { - "id": "a_flirty_question", - "text": "A flirty question" - }, - { - "id": "a_mischievous_smile", - "text": "A mischievous smile" - }, - { - "id": "a_whispered_hello", - "text": "A whispered hello" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_325", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which line would you replay later?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_compliment_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_look_incredible", - "text": "You look incredible" - }, - { - "id": "i_love_being_your_person", - "text": "I love being your person" - }, - { - "id": "you_make_ordinary_things_fun", - "text": "You make ordinary things fun" - }, - { - "id": "i_still_get_butterflies", - "text": "I still get butterflies" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "you_look_incredible", - "text": "You look incredible" - }, - { - "id": "i_love_being_your_person", - "text": "I love being your person" - }, - { - "id": "you_make_ordinary_things_fun", - "text": "You make ordinary things fun" - }, - { - "id": "i_still_get_butterflies", - "text": "I still get butterflies" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_326", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a stay-home date, what feels like the right fit?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dress_up_for_takeout", - "text": "Dress up for takeout" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_snack_tasting_menu", - "text": "Make a snack tasting menu" - }, - { - "id": "build_a_floor_picnic", - "text": "Build a floor picnic" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_movie_for_each_other", - "text": "Pick a movie for each other" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dress_up_for_takeout", - "text": "Dress up for takeout" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_snack_tasting_menu", - "text": "Make a snack tasting menu" - }, - { - "id": "build_a_floor_picnic", - "text": "Build a floor picnic" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_movie_for_each_other", - "text": "Pick a movie for each other" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_327", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which flirty challenge should we try?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cute_dare" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hold_eye_contact_for_ten_seconds", - "text": "Hold eye contact for ten seconds" - }, - { - "id": "give_one_bold_compliment", - "text": "Give one bold compliment" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_soundtrack_for_a_kiss", - "text": "Pick a soundtrack for a kiss" - }, - { - "id": "finish_a_compliment_the_other_starts", - "text": "Finish a compliment the other starts" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hold_eye_contact_for_ten_seconds", - "text": "Hold eye contact for ten seconds" - }, - { - "id": "give_one_bold_compliment", - "text": "Give one bold compliment" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_soundtrack_for_a_kiss", - "text": "Pick a soundtrack for a kiss" - }, - { - "id": "finish_a_compliment_the_other_starts", - "text": "Finish a compliment the other starts" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_328", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a private little message, what is your pick?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_flirty_text" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "what_i_noticed_about_you", - "text": "What I noticed about you" - }, - { - "id": "what_i_want_to_do_tonight", - "text": "What I want to do tonight" - }, - { - "id": "what_memory_made_me_smile", - "text": "What memory made me smile" - }, - { - "id": "what_outfit_i_hope_you_wear", - "text": "What outfit I hope you wear" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "what_i_noticed_about_you", - "text": "What I noticed about you" - }, - { - "id": "what_i_want_to_do_tonight", - "text": "What I want to do tonight" - }, - { - "id": "what_memory_made_me_smile", - "text": "What memory made me smile" - }, - { - "id": "what_outfit_i_hope_you_wear", - "text": "What outfit I hope you wear" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_329", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which spark catches your attention fastest?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_attraction_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "a_teasing_tone", - "text": "A teasing tone" - }, - { - "id": "a_familiar_scent", - "text": "A familiar scent" - }, - { - "id": "a_hand_on_my_back", - "text": "A hand on my back" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "a_teasing_tone", - "text": "A teasing tone" - }, - { - "id": "a_familiar_scent", - "text": "A familiar scent" - }, - { - "id": "a_hand_on_my_back", - "text": "A hand on my back" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_330", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When should our first movie-night kiss happen?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_kiss_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "during_the_opening_credits", - "text": "During the opening credits" - }, - { - "id": "after_a_funny_scene", - "text": "After a funny scene" - }, - { - "id": "at_the_perfect_romantic_moment", - "text": "At the perfect romantic moment" - }, - { - "id": "when_we_stop_paying_attention_to_the_movie", - "text": "When we stop paying attention to the movie" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "during_the_opening_credits", - "text": "During the opening credits" - }, - { - "id": "after_a_funny_scene", - "text": "After a funny scene" - }, - { - "id": "at_the_perfect_romantic_moment", - "text": "At the perfect romantic moment" - }, - { - "id": "when_we_stop_paying_attention_to_the_movie", - "text": "When we stop paying attention to the movie" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_331", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A casual-but-flirty vibe—which option wins?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_date_vibe" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_sweater_energy", - "text": "Soft sweater energy" - }, - { - "id": "dark_jeans_and_confidence", - "text": "Dark jeans and confidence" - }, - { - "id": "fresh_t_shirt_and_a_grin", - "text": "Fresh T-shirt and a grin" - }, - { - "id": "pajamas_with_good_lighting", - "text": "Pajamas with good lighting" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_sweater_energy", - "text": "Soft sweater energy" - }, - { - "id": "dark_jeans_and_confidence", - "text": "Dark jeans and confidence" - }, - { - "id": "fresh_t_shirt_and_a_grin", - "text": "Fresh T-shirt and a grin" - }, - { - "id": "pajamas_with_good_lighting", - "text": "Pajamas with good lighting" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_332", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A musical signal: which option fits best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_music_flirt" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "play_our_song", - "text": "Play “our” song" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_lyric", - "text": "Send a lyric" - }, - { - "id": "hum_the_chorus_nearby", - "text": "Hum the chorus nearby" - }, - { - "id": "start_dancing_without_warning", - "text": "Start dancing without warning" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "play_our_song", - "text": "Play “our” song" - }, - { - "id": "send_a_lyric", - "text": "Send a lyric" - }, - { - "id": "hum_the_chorus_nearby", - "text": "Hum the chorus nearby" - }, - { - "id": "start_dancing_without_warning", - "text": "Start dancing without warning" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_333", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which private flirt in public gets your vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_secret_signal" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "brush_hands", - "text": "Brush hands" - }, - { - "id": "hold_eye_contact", - "text": "Hold eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "whisper_an_inside_joke", - "text": "Whisper an inside joke" - }, - { - "id": "compliment_me_quietly", - "text": "Compliment me quietly" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "brush_hands", - "text": "Brush hands" - }, - { - "id": "hold_eye_contact", - "text": "Hold eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "whisper_an_inside_joke", - "text": "Whisper an inside joke" - }, - { - "id": "compliment_me_quietly", - "text": "Compliment me quietly" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_334", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A low-cost grand gesture: which option would you choose?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_romantic_surprise" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "recreate_our_first_snack", - "text": "Recreate our first snack" - }, - { - "id": "print_a_favorite_photo", - "text": "Print a favorite photo" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_three_song_love_mix", - "text": "Make a three-song love mix" - }, - { - "id": "plan_a_sunrise_coffee", - "text": "Plan a sunrise coffee" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "recreate_our_first_snack", - "text": "Recreate our first snack" - }, - { - "id": "print_a_favorite_photo", - "text": "Print a favorite photo" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_three_song_love_mix", - "text": "Make a three-song love mix" - }, - { - "id": "plan_a_sunrise_coffee", - "text": "Plan a sunrise coffee" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_335", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should happen before the night is over?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_date_ending" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "say_what_you_liked_most", - "text": "Say what you liked most" - }, - { - "id": "take_one_photo_worth_keeping", - "text": "Take one photo worth keeping" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_moment_you_would_replay", - "text": "Name the moment you would replay" - }, - { - "id": "put_on_one_final_song", - "text": "Put on one final song" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "say_what_you_liked_most", - "text": "Say what you liked most" - }, - { - "id": "take_one_photo_worth_keeping", - "text": "Take one photo worth keeping" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_moment_you_would_replay", - "text": "Name the moment you would replay" - }, - { - "id": "put_on_one_final_song", - "text": "Put on one final song" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_336", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Choose the easiest way to add a little spark:", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_flirty_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dress_up_slightly", - "text": "Dress up slightly" - }, - { - "id": "send_me_a_song_with_a_clue", - "text": "Send me a song with a clue" - }, - { - "id": "sit_extra_close", - "text": "Sit extra close" - }, - { - "id": "plan_a_surprise_stop", - "text": "Plan a surprise stop" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dress_up_slightly", - "text": "Dress up slightly" - }, - { - "id": "send_me_a_song_with_a_clue", - "text": "Send me a song with a clue" - }, - { - "id": "sit_extra_close", - "text": "Sit extra close" - }, - { - "id": "plan_a_surprise_stop", - "text": "Plan a surprise stop" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_337", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should I deliver a compliment with a twist?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_compliment_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "say_it_like_a_movie_trailer", - "text": "Say it like a movie trailer" - }, - { - "id": "hide_it_in_a_joke", - "text": "Hide it in a joke" - }, - { - "id": "text_it_from_nearby", - "text": "Text it from nearby" - }, - { - "id": "pair_it_with_a_kiss", - "text": "Pair it with a kiss" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "say_it_like_a_movie_trailer", - "text": "Say it like a movie trailer" - }, - { - "id": "hide_it_in_a_joke", - "text": "Hide it in a joke" - }, - { - "id": "text_it_from_nearby", - "text": "Text it from nearby" - }, - { - "id": "pair_it_with_a_kiss", - "text": "Pair it with a kiss" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_338", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A cheap romantic plan—which option wins?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "bakery_stop_and_a_walk", - "text": "Bakery stop and a walk" - }, - { - "id": "dessert_split", - "text": "Dessert split" - }, - { - "id": "scenic_overlook", - "text": "Scenic overlook" - }, - { - "id": "pick_each_other_a_funny_postcard", - "text": "Pick each other a funny postcard" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "bakery_stop_and_a_walk", - "text": "Bakery stop and a walk" - }, - { - "id": "dessert_split", - "text": "Dessert split" - }, - { - "id": "scenic_overlook", - "text": "Scenic overlook" - }, - { - "id": "pick_each_other_a_funny_postcard", - "text": "Pick each other a funny postcard" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_339", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should the winner of a playful bet celebrate?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cute_dare" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "strike_a_ridiculous_victory_pose", - "text": "Strike a ridiculous victory pose" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_three_second_theme_song", - "text": "Choose a three-second theme song" - }, - { - "id": "claim_an_absurd_champion_title", - "text": "Claim an absurd champion title" - }, - { - "id": "direct_one_dramatic_winner_photo", - "text": "Direct one dramatic winner photo" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "strike_a_ridiculous_victory_pose", - "text": "Strike a ridiculous victory pose" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_three_second_theme_song", - "text": "Choose a three-second theme song" - }, - { - "id": "claim_an_absurd_champion_title", - "text": "Claim an absurd champion title" - }, - { - "id": "direct_one_dramatic_winner_photo", - "text": "Direct one dramatic winner photo" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_340", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which style should our two-line love note use?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_flirty_text" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet_and_direct", - "text": "Sweet and direct" - }, - { - "id": "romantic_but_a_little_ridiculous", - "text": "Romantic but a little ridiculous" - }, - { - "id": "built_around_an_inside_joke", - "text": "Built around an inside joke" - }, - { - "id": "ending_with_a_tiny_date_invitation", - "text": "Ending with a tiny date invitation" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet_and_direct", - "text": "Sweet and direct" - }, - { - "id": "romantic_but_a_little_ridiculous", - "text": "Romantic but a little ridiculous" - }, - { - "id": "built_around_an_inside_joke", - "text": "Built around an inside joke" - }, - { - "id": "ending_with_a_tiny_date_invitation", - "text": "Ending with a tiny date invitation" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_341", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which look would you like to see again?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_attraction_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "date_night_polished", - "text": "Date-night polished" - }, - { - "id": "jeans_and_a_t_shirt_effortless", - "text": "Jeans-and-a-T-shirt effortless" - }, - { - "id": "relaxed_and_unpolished", - "text": "Relaxed and unpolished" - }, - { - "id": "bold_and_unexpected", - "text": "Bold and unexpected" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "date_night_polished", - "text": "Date-night polished" - }, - { - "id": "jeans_and_a_t_shirt_effortless", - "text": "Jeans-and-a-T-shirt effortless" - }, - { - "id": "relaxed_and_unpolished", - "text": "Relaxed and unpolished" - }, - { - "id": "bold_and_unexpected", - "text": "Bold and unexpected" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_342", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When should the kitchen kiss happen?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_kiss_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "while_music_plays", - "text": "While music plays" - }, - { - "id": "after_the_taste_test", - "text": "After the taste-test" - }, - { - "id": "after_a_silly_dance", - "text": "After a silly dance" - }, - { - "id": "just_because_we_passed_each_other", - "text": "Just because we passed each other" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "while_music_plays", - "text": "While music plays" - }, - { - "id": "after_the_taste_test", - "text": "After the taste-test" - }, - { - "id": "after_a_silly_dance", - "text": "After a silly dance" - }, - { - "id": "just_because_we_passed_each_other", - "text": "Just because we passed each other" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_343", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For an unnecessary dress code, choose the best one.", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_date_vibe" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "movie_star_casual", - "text": "Movie-star casual" - }, - { - "id": "fancy_for_takeout", - "text": "Fancy for takeout" - }, - { - "id": "one_color_challenge", - "text": "One-color challenge" - }, - { - "id": "dress_like_our_first_date_era", - "text": "Dress like our first-date era" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "movie_star_casual", - "text": "Movie-star casual" - }, - { - "id": "fancy_for_takeout", - "text": "Fancy for takeout" - }, - { - "id": "one_color_challenge", - "text": "One-color challenge" - }, - { - "id": "dress_like_our_first_date_era", - "text": "Dress like our first-date era" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_344", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a Friday playlist, what is the top choice?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_music_flirt" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "flirty_throwbacks", - "text": "Flirty throwbacks" - }, - { - "id": "late_night_drive_songs", - "text": "Late-night drive songs" - }, - { - "id": "songs_for_getting_ready", - "text": "Songs for getting ready" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_slow_dance_picks", - "text": "Quiet slow-dance picks" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "flirty_throwbacks", - "text": "Flirty throwbacks" - }, - { - "id": "late_night_drive_songs", - "text": "Late-night drive songs" - }, - { - "id": "songs_for_getting_ready", - "text": "Songs for getting ready" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_slow_dance_picks", - "text": "Quiet slow-dance picks" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_345", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a tiny romantic ritual, choose on instinct.", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_secret_signal" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "kiss_before_leaving", - "text": "Kiss before leaving" - }, - { - "id": "choose_each_others_drink", - "text": "Choose each other’s drink" - }, - { - "id": "take_one_photo", - "text": "Take one photo" - }, - { - "id": "end_with_the_same_song", - "text": "End with the same song" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kiss_before_leaving", - "text": "Kiss before leaving" - }, - { - "id": "choose_each_others_drink", - "text": "Choose each other’s drink" - }, - { - "id": "take_one_photo", - "text": "Take one photo" - }, - { - "id": "end_with_the_same_song", - "text": "End with the same song" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_346", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which personal surprise would mean the most?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_romantic_surprise" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_tied_to_an_inside_joke", - "text": "Something tied to an inside joke" - }, - { - "id": "something_i_mentioned_once", - "text": "Something I mentioned once" - }, - { - "id": "something_that_makes_life_sweeter", - "text": "Something that makes life sweeter" - }, - { - "id": "something_we_can_do_together", - "text": "Something we can do together" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_tied_to_an_inside_joke", - "text": "Something tied to an inside joke" - }, - { - "id": "something_i_mentioned_once", - "text": "Something I mentioned once" - }, - { - "id": "something_that_makes_life_sweeter", - "text": "Something that makes life sweeter" - }, - { - "id": "something_we_can_do_together", - "text": "Something we can do together" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_347", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which stay-in Friday finale sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_date_ending" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "floor_picnic", - "text": "Floor picnic" - }, - { - "id": "two_person_taste_test", - "text": "Two-person taste test" - }, - { - "id": "a_movie_with_a_one_night_theme", - "text": "A movie with a one-night theme" - }, - { - "id": "a_no_phones_cuddle", - "text": "A no-phones cuddle" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "floor_picnic", - "text": "Floor picnic" - }, - { - "id": "two_person_taste_test", - "text": "Two-person taste test" - }, - { - "id": "a_movie_with_a_one_night_theme", - "text": "A movie with a one-night theme" - }, - { - "id": "a_no_phones_cuddle", - "text": "A no-phones cuddle" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_348", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which easygoing flirt gets your vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_flirty_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hold_my_hand_first", - "text": "Hold my hand first" - }, - { - "id": "tell_me_one_thing_you_noticed", - "text": "Tell me one thing you noticed" - }, - { - "id": "send_one_cheeky_emoji", - "text": "Send one cheeky emoji" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_romantic_song", - "text": "Choose a romantic song" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hold_my_hand_first", - "text": "Hold my hand first" - }, - { - "id": "tell_me_one_thing_you_noticed", - "text": "Tell me one thing you noticed" - }, - { - "id": "send_one_cheeky_emoji", - "text": "Send one cheeky emoji" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_romantic_song", - "text": "Choose a romantic song" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_349", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which part of me would you brag about privately?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_compliment_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "my_smile", - "text": "My smile" - }, - { - "id": "my_brain", - "text": "My brain" - }, - { - "id": "my_loyalty", - "text": "My loyalty" - }, - { - "id": "the_way_i_love_you", - "text": "The way I love you" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "my_smile", - "text": "My smile" - }, - { - "id": "my_brain", - "text": "My brain" - }, - { - "id": "my_loyalty", - "text": "My loyalty" - }, - { - "id": "the_way_i_love_you", - "text": "The way I love you" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_350", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which Friday-night mini escape sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mini_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "share_a_late_cafe_drink", - "text": "Share a late café drink" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_nighttime_photo_walk", - "text": "Take a nighttime photo walk" - }, - { - "id": "browse_a_bookstore_near_closing", - "text": "Browse a bookstore near closing" - }, - { - "id": "play_music_on_a_scenic_drive", - "text": "Play music on a scenic drive" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "share_a_late_cafe_drink", - "text": "Share a late café drink" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_nighttime_photo_walk", - "text": "Take a nighttime photo walk" - }, - { - "id": "browse_a_bookstore_near_closing", - "text": "Browse a bookstore near closing" - }, - { - "id": "play_music_on_a_scenic_drive", - "text": "Play music on a scenic drive" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_351", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a sweet provocation, what suits us best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cute_dare" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_if_i_still_remember_our_first_kiss", - "text": "Ask if I still remember our first kiss" - }, - { - "id": "tell_me_i_look_distracting", - "text": "Tell me I look distracting" - }, - { - "id": "challenge_me_to_a_slow_dance", - "text": "Challenge me to a slow dance" - }, - { - "id": "say_come_here_with_a_smile", - "text": "Say “come here” with a smile" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_if_i_still_remember_our_first_kiss", - "text": "Ask if I still remember our first kiss" - }, - { - "id": "tell_me_i_look_distracting", - "text": "Tell me I look distracting" - }, - { - "id": "challenge_me_to_a_slow_dance", - "text": "Challenge me to a slow dance" - }, - { - "id": "say_come_here_with_a_smile", - "text": "Say “come here” with a smile" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_352", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which digital wink sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_flirty_text" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_unmistakably_flirty_emoji", - "text": "One unmistakably flirty emoji" - }, - { - "id": "a_secret_nickname", - "text": "A secret nickname" - }, - { - "id": "a_photo_of_a_tiny_clue", - "text": "A photo of a tiny clue" - }, - { - "id": "a_meet_me_in_five_message", - "text": "A “meet me in five” message" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_unmistakably_flirty_emoji", - "text": "One unmistakably flirty emoji" - }, - { - "id": "a_secret_nickname", - "text": "A secret nickname" - }, - { - "id": "a_photo_of_a_tiny_clue", - "text": "A photo of a tiny clue" - }, - { - "id": "a_meet_me_in_five_message", - "text": "A “meet me in five” message" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_353", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the energy I find irresistible:", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_attraction_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_confidence", - "text": "Warm confidence" - }, - { - "id": "goofy_charm", - "text": "Goofy charm" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_intensity", - "text": "Quiet intensity" - }, - { - "id": "open_affection", - "text": "Open affection" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_confidence", - "text": "Warm confidence" - }, - { - "id": "goofy_charm", - "text": "Goofy charm" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_intensity", - "text": "Quiet intensity" - }, - { - "id": "open_affection", - "text": "Open affection" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_354", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which slow-burn opener feels best when we both want it?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_kiss_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hold_eye_contact_then_ask", - "text": "Hold eye contact, then ask" - }, - { - "id": "offer_a_hand_and_wait", - "text": "Offer a hand and wait" - }, - { - "id": "ask_whether_i_want_you_closer", - "text": "Ask whether I want you closer" - }, - { - "id": "say_what_you_are_hoping_for", - "text": "Say what you are hoping for" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hold_eye_contact_then_ask", - "text": "Hold eye contact, then ask" - }, - { - "id": "offer_a_hand_and_wait", - "text": "Offer a hand and wait" - }, - { - "id": "ask_whether_i_want_you_closer", - "text": "Ask whether I want you closer" - }, - { - "id": "say_what_you_are_hoping_for", - "text": "Say what you are hoping for" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_355", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny glow-up would be most fun?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_date_vibe" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "choose_better_lighting", - "text": "Choose better lighting" - }, - { - "id": "wear_a_favorite_scent", - "text": "Wear a favorite scent" - }, - { - "id": "add_one_extra_detail_to_your_look", - "text": "Add one extra detail to your look" - }, - { - "id": "change_outfits_before_dessert", - "text": "Change outfits before dessert" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "choose_better_lighting", - "text": "Choose better lighting" - }, - { - "id": "wear_a_favorite_scent", - "text": "Wear a favorite scent" - }, - { - "id": "add_one_extra_detail_to_your_look", - "text": "Add one extra detail to your look" - }, - { - "id": "change_outfits_before_dessert", - "text": "Change outfits before dessert" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_356", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which music-and-mood setup sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_music_flirt" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "low_lights_and_a_slow_song", - "text": "Low lights and a slow song" - }, - { - "id": "windows_down_and_a_loud_chorus", - "text": "Windows down and a loud chorus" - }, - { - "id": "kitchen_speakers_and_bare_feet", - "text": "Kitchen speakers and bare feet" - }, - { - "id": "one_pair_of_headphones_shared", - "text": "One pair of headphones shared" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "low_lights_and_a_slow_song", - "text": "Low lights and a slow song" - }, - { - "id": "windows_down_and_a_loud_chorus", - "text": "Windows down and a loud chorus" - }, - { - "id": "kitchen_speakers_and_bare_feet", - "text": "Kitchen speakers and bare feet" - }, - { - "id": "one_pair_of_headphones_shared", - "text": "One pair of headphones shared" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_357", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which pre-agreed signal would feel exciting in public?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_secret_signal" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_hand_at_my_waist", - "text": "A hand at my waist" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_smile_across_the_room", - "text": "A private smile across the room" - }, - { - "id": "a_later_text", - "text": "A “later” text" - }, - { - "id": "an_offered_arm_at_my_side", - "text": "An offered arm at my side" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_hand_at_my_waist", - "text": "A hand at my waist" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_smile_across_the_room", - "text": "A private smile across the room" - }, - { - "id": "a_later_text", - "text": "A “later” text" - }, - { - "id": "an_offered_arm_at_my_side", - "text": "An offered arm at my side" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_358", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which Friday treat sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_friday_flirty", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_romantic_surprise" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "bakery_stop", - "text": "Bakery stop" - }, - { - "id": "new_drink_to_split", - "text": "New drink to split" - }, - { - "id": "small_bouquet", - "text": "Small bouquet" - }, - { - "id": "late_night_fries", - "text": "Late-night fries" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "bakery_stop", - "text": "Bakery stop" - }, - { - "id": "new_drink_to_split", - "text": "New drink to split" - }, - { - "id": "small_bouquet", - "text": "Small bouquet" - }, - { - "id": "late_night_fries", - "text": "Late-night fries" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_359", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A coffee run—what gets your vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_coffee_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "try_a_new_shop", - "text": "Try a new shop" - }, - { - "id": "order_for_each_other", - "text": "Order for each other" - }, - { - "id": "take_it_to_a_pretty_spot", - "text": "Take it to a pretty spot" - }, - { - "id": "add_a_pastry_taste_test", - "text": "Add a pastry taste-test" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "try_a_new_shop", - "text": "Try a new shop" - }, - { - "id": "order_for_each_other", - "text": "Order for each other" - }, - { - "id": "take_it_to_a_pretty_spot", - "text": "Take it to a pretty spot" - }, - { - "id": "add_a_pastry_taste_test", - "text": "Add a pastry taste-test" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_360", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A dessert trip—which option wins?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dessert_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ice_cream_flight", - "text": "Ice-cream flight" - }, - { - "id": "bakery_roulette", - "text": "Bakery roulette" - }, - { - "id": "milkshake_split", - "text": "Milkshake split" - }, - { - "id": "best_cookie_in_town", - "text": "Best cookie in town" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ice_cream_flight", - "text": "Ice-cream flight" - }, - { - "id": "bakery_roulette", - "text": "Bakery roulette" - }, - { - "id": "milkshake_split", - "text": "Milkshake split" - }, - { - "id": "best_cookie_in_town", - "text": "Best cookie in town" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_361", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a photo walk, what sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_photo_walk" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_five_heart_shapes", - "text": "Find five heart shapes" - }, - { - "id": "shoot_only_reflections", - "text": "Shoot only reflections" - }, - { - "id": "pick_one_color_theme", - "text": "Pick one color theme" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_album_covers", - "text": "Recreate album covers" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_five_heart_shapes", - "text": "Find five heart shapes" - }, - { - "id": "shoot_only_reflections", - "text": "Shoot only reflections" - }, - { - "id": "pick_one_color_theme", - "text": "Pick one color theme" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_album_covers", - "text": "Recreate album covers" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_362", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A thrift-store challenge: what gets your vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_thrift_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_the_weirdest_mug", - "text": "Find the weirdest mug" - }, - { - "id": "choose_each_others_outfit", - "text": "Choose each other’s outfit" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_five_dollar_gift", - "text": "Pick a five-dollar gift" - }, - { - "id": "build_a_fake_movie_costume", - "text": "Build a fake movie costume" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_the_weirdest_mug", - "text": "Find the weirdest mug" - }, - { - "id": "choose_each_others_outfit", - "text": "Choose each other’s outfit" - }, - { - "id": "pick_a_five_dollar_gift", - "text": "Pick a five-dollar gift" - }, - { - "id": "build_a_fake_movie_costume", - "text": "Build a fake movie costume" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_363", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should our mystery drive work safely?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mystery_drive" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "follow_a_familiar_scenic_road", - "text": "Follow a familiar scenic road" - }, - { - "id": "choose_between_two_mapped_routes", - "text": "Choose between two mapped routes" - }, - { - "id": "drive_toward_one_agreed_landmark", - "text": "Drive toward one agreed landmark" - }, - { - "id": "let_the_passenger_select_each_planned_stop", - "text": "Let the passenger select each planned stop" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "follow_a_familiar_scenic_road", - "text": "Follow a familiar scenic road" - }, - { - "id": "choose_between_two_mapped_routes", - "text": "Choose between two mapped routes" - }, - { - "id": "drive_toward_one_agreed_landmark", - "text": "Drive toward one agreed landmark" - }, - { - "id": "let_the_passenger_select_each_planned_stop", - "text": "Let the passenger select each planned stop" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_364", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which local-explorer mission sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_local_adventure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "visit_a_mural", - "text": "Visit a mural" - }, - { - "id": "find_a_hidden_garden", - "text": "Find a hidden garden" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_tiny_museum", - "text": "Try a tiny museum" - }, - { - "id": "walk_a_historic_block", - "text": "Walk a historic block" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "visit_a_mural", - "text": "Visit a mural" - }, - { - "id": "find_a_hidden_garden", - "text": "Find a hidden garden" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_tiny_museum", - "text": "Try a tiny museum" - }, - { - "id": "walk_a_historic_block", - "text": "Walk a historic block" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_365", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A ten-dollar date budget is ours—how should it disappear?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_budget_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "two_coffees_and_a_walk", - "text": "Two coffees and a walk" - }, - { - "id": "thrift_store_gift_swap", - "text": "Thrift-store gift swap" - }, - { - "id": "snack_picnic", - "text": "Snack picnic" - }, - { - "id": "dollar_store_game_challenge", - "text": "Dollar-store game challenge" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "two_coffees_and_a_walk", - "text": "Two coffees and a walk" - }, - { - "id": "thrift_store_gift_swap", - "text": "Thrift-store gift swap" - }, - { - "id": "snack_picnic", - "text": "Snack picnic" - }, - { - "id": "dollar_store_game_challenge", - "text": "Dollar-store game challenge" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_366", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which taste-test quest should we try?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_taste_test" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "three_lemonades", - "text": "Three lemonades" - }, - { - "id": "four_chip_flavors", - "text": "Four chip flavors" - }, - { - "id": "bakery_cookies", - "text": "Bakery cookies" - }, - { - "id": "local_hot_sauces", - "text": "Local hot sauces" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "three_lemonades", - "text": "Three lemonades" - }, - { - "id": "four_chip_flavors", - "text": "Four chip flavors" - }, - { - "id": "bakery_cookies", - "text": "Bakery cookies" - }, - { - "id": "local_hot_sauces", - "text": "Local hot sauces" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_367", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "An outdoor mini-adventure: what sounds most fun?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_outdoor_quest" - 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"daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_creative_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "paint_tiny_canvases", - "text": "Paint tiny canvases" - }, - { - "id": "build_clay_monsters", - "text": "Build clay monsters" - }, - { - "id": "decorate_cookies", - "text": "Decorate cookies" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_collage", - "text": "Make a collage" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "paint_tiny_canvases", - "text": "Paint tiny canvases" - }, - { - "id": "build_clay_monsters", - "text": "Build clay monsters" - }, - { - "id": "decorate_cookies", - "text": "Decorate cookies" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_collage", - "text": "Make a collage" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_370", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which sunset plan sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_sunset_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "watch_from_a_safe_overlook", - "text": "Watch from a safe overlook" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_slow_walk", - "text": "Take a slow walk" - }, - { - "id": "bring_dessert_outside", - "text": "Bring dessert outside" - }, - { - "id": "find_a_new_viewing_spot", - "text": "Find a new viewing spot" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "watch_from_a_safe_overlook", - "text": "Watch from a safe overlook" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_slow_walk", - "text": "Take a slow walk" - }, - { - "id": "bring_dessert_outside", - "text": "Bring dessert outside" - }, - { - "id": "find_a_new_viewing_spot", - "text": "Find a new viewing spot" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_371", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which breakfast mission should we try?", - "depth": 1, - 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"type": "single_choice", - "text": "A sweet-tooth mission: which choice feels right?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dessert_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "pick_by_color", - "text": "Pick by color" - }, - { - "id": "choose_each_others_treat", - "text": "Choose each other’s treat" - }, - { - "id": "try_the_strangest_flavor", - "text": "Try the strangest flavor" - }, - { - "id": "find_a_childhood_favorite", - "text": "Find a childhood favorite" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pick_by_color", - "text": "Pick by color" - }, - { - "id": "choose_each_others_treat", - "text": "Choose each other’s treat" - }, - { - "id": "try_the_strangest_flavor", - "text": "Try the strangest flavor" - }, - { - "id": "find_a_childhood_favorite", - "text": "Find a childhood favorite" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - 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"category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we hunt for in the antique shop?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_thrift_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_mystery_object", - "text": "Best mystery object" - }, - { - "id": "most_haunted_looking_item", - "text": "Most haunted-looking item" - }, - { - "id": "something_from_our_birth_decade", - "text": "Something from our birth decade" - }, - { - "id": "a_piece_for_an_imaginary_mansion", - "text": "A piece for an imaginary mansion" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_mystery_object", - "text": "Best mystery object" - }, - { - "id": "most_haunted_looking_item", - "text": "Most haunted-looking item" - }, - { - "id": "something_from_our_birth_decade", - "text": "Something from our birth decade" - }, - { - "id": "a_piece_for_an_imaginary_mansion", - "text": "A piece for an imaginary mansion" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_375", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a scenic detour, what would you choose?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mystery_drive" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "country_roads", - "text": "Country roads" - }, - { - "id": "historic_neighborhood", - "text": "Historic neighborhood" - }, - { - "id": "lakeside_route", - "text": "Lakeside route" - }, - { - "id": "downtown_lights", - "text": "Downtown lights" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "country_roads", - "text": "Country roads" - }, - { - "id": "historic_neighborhood", - "text": "Historic neighborhood" - }, - { - "id": "lakeside_route", - "text": "Lakeside route" - }, - { - "id": "downtown_lights", - "text": "Downtown lights" - 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"text": "At the bookstore, which ridiculous contest should we judge?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_bookstore_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_terrible_romance_title", - "text": "Best terrible romance title" - }, - { - "id": "strangest_nonfiction_topic", - "text": "Strangest nonfiction topic" - }, - { - "id": "prettiest_cover", - "text": "Prettiest cover" - }, - { - "id": "most_dramatic_first_line", - "text": "Most dramatic first line" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_terrible_romance_title", - "text": "Best terrible romance title" - }, - { - "id": "strangest_nonfiction_topic", - "text": "Strangest nonfiction topic" - }, - { - "id": "prettiest_cover", - "text": "Prettiest cover" - }, - { - "id": "most_dramatic_first_line", - "text": "Most dramatic first line" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_393", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we create in the kitchen?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_creative_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "invent_a_mocktail", - "text": "Invent a mocktail" - }, - { - "id": "make_personal_pizzas", - "text": "Make personal pizzas" - }, - { - "id": "decorate_cupcakes", - "text": "Decorate cupcakes" - }, - { - "id": "build_ridiculous_sandwiches", - "text": "Build ridiculous sandwiches" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "invent_a_mocktail", - "text": "Invent a mocktail" - }, - { - "id": "make_personal_pizzas", - "text": "Make personal pizzas" - }, - { - "id": "decorate_cupcakes", - "text": "Decorate cupcakes" - }, - { - "id": "build_ridiculous_sandwiches", - "text": "Build ridiculous sandwiches" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_394", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which twilight side quest sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_sunset_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_the_first_star", - "text": "Find the first star" - }, - { - "id": "photograph_neon_signs", - "text": "Photograph neon signs" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_porch_light_winner", - "text": "Choose a porch-light winner" - }, - { - "id": "walk_somewhere_softly_lit", - "text": "Walk somewhere softly lit" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_the_first_star", - "text": "Find the first star" - }, - { - "id": "photograph_neon_signs", - "text": "Photograph neon signs" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_porch_light_winner", - "text": "Choose a porch-light winner" - }, - { - "id": "walk_somewhere_softly_lit", - "text": "Walk somewhere softly lit" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_395", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our caffeine side quest include?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_coffee_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_latte_art", - "text": "Find latte art" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_seasonal_flavor", - "text": "Try a seasonal flavor" - }, - { - "id": "bring_a_deck_of_cards", - "text": "Bring a deck of cards" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_future_date_while_sipping", - "text": "Choose a future date while sipping" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_latte_art", - "text": "Find latte art" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_seasonal_flavor", - "text": "Try a seasonal flavor" - }, - 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"text": "Two places, one bite each" - }, - { - "id": "one_place_four_mini_picks", - "text": "One place, four mini picks" - }, - { - "id": "drive_until_a_sign_convinces_us", - "text": "Drive until a sign convinces us" - }, - { - "id": "let_reviews_choose_the_stop", - "text": "Let reviews choose the stop" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_397", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which format should our one-hour picture story use?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_photo_walk" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "beginning_middle_end", - "text": "Beginning-middle-end" - }, - { - "id": "only_close_ups", - "text": "Only close-ups" - }, - { - "id": "no_faces_allowed", - "text": "No faces allowed" - }, - { - "id": "every_photo_must_include_red", - "text": "Every photo must include red" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "beginning_middle_end", - "text": "Beginning-middle-end" - }, - { - "id": "only_close_ups", - "text": "Only close-ups" - }, - { - "id": "no_faces_allowed", - "text": "No faces allowed" - }, - { - "id": "every_photo_must_include_red", - "text": "Every photo must include red" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_398", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we find on our secondhand treasure hunt?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_thrift_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_in_both_our_favorite_colors", - "text": "Something in both our favorite colors" - }, - { - "id": "something_matching", - "text": "Something matching" - }, - { - "id": "something_for_a_future_date", - "text": "Something for a future date" - }, - { - "id": "something_with_a_story_written_on_it", - "text": "Something with a story written on it" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_in_both_our_favorite_colors", - "text": "Something in both our favorite colors" - }, - { - "id": "something_matching", - "text": "Something matching" - }, - { - "id": "something_for_a_future_date", - "text": "Something for a future date" - }, - { - "id": "something_with_a_story_written_on_it", - "text": "Something with a story written on it" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_399", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which music should lead our playlist drive?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mystery_drive" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "throwback_songs", - "text": "Throwback songs" - }, - { - "id": "songs_chosen_for_each_other", - "text": "Songs chosen for each other" - }, - { - "id": "songs_with_perfect_driving_choruses", - "text": "Songs with perfect driving choruses" - }, - { - "id": "one_artist_only", - "text": "One artist only" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "throwback_songs", - "text": "Throwback songs" - }, - { - "id": "songs_chosen_for_each_other", - "text": "Songs chosen for each other" - }, - { - "id": "songs_with_perfect_driving_choruses", - "text": "Songs with perfect driving choruses" - }, - { - "id": "one_artist_only", - "text": "One artist only" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_400", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we finally do with the place we always pass?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_local_adventure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "finally_go_inside", - "text": "Finally go inside" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_photo_outside", - "text": "Take a photo outside" - }, - { - "id": "look_up_its_story", - "text": "Look up its story" - }, - { - "id": "plan_a_return_date", - "text": "Plan a return date" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "finally_go_inside", - "text": "Finally go inside" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_photo_outside", - "text": "Take a photo outside" - }, - { - "id": "look_up_its_story", - "text": "Look up its story" - }, - { - "id": "plan_a_return_date", - "text": "Plan a return date" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_401", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which budget mini-adventure sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_budget_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "library_plus_coffee", - "text": "Library plus coffee" - }, - { - "id": "park_plus_pastries", - "text": "Park plus pastries" - }, - { - "id": "window_shopping_game", - "text": "Window-shopping game" - }, - { - "id": "sunset_with_takeout_fries", - "text": "Sunset with takeout fries" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "library_plus_coffee", - "text": "Library plus coffee" - }, - { - "id": "park_plus_pastries", - "text": "Park plus pastries" - }, - { - "id": "window_shopping_game", - "text": "Window-shopping game" - }, - { - "id": "sunset_with_takeout_fries", - "text": "Sunset with takeout fries" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_402", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which grocery-store adventure should we try?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - 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"depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_outdoor_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_a_perfectly_shaped_leaf", - "text": "Find a perfectly shaped leaf" - }, - { - "id": "name_three_cloud_shapes", - "text": "Name three cloud shapes" - }, - { - "id": "find_the_spot_with_the_best_shade", - "text": "Find the spot with the best shade" - }, - { - "id": "pause_until_we_hear_three_sounds", - "text": "Pause until we hear three sounds" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_a_perfectly_shaped_leaf", - "text": "Find a perfectly shaped leaf" - }, - { - "id": "name_three_cloud_shapes", - "text": "Name three cloud shapes" - }, - { - "id": "find_the_spot_with_the_best_shade", - "text": "Find the spot with the best shade" - }, - { - "id": "pause_until_we_hear_three_sounds", - "text": "Pause until we hear three sounds" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_404", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which section should lead our quiet browse?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_bookstore_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "poetry_aisle", - "text": "Poetry aisle" - }, - { - "id": "travel_section", - "text": "Travel section" - }, - { - "id": "art_books", - "text": "Art books" - }, - { - "id": "graphic_novels", - "text": "Graphic novels" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "poetry_aisle", - "text": "Poetry aisle" - }, - { - "id": "travel_section", - "text": "Travel section" - }, - { - "id": "art_books", - "text": "Art books" - }, - { - "id": "graphic_novels", - "text": "Graphic novels" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_405", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which no-talent-required project sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_creative_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "finger_painting", - "text": "Finger painting" - }, - { - "id": "air_dry_clay", - "text": "Air-dry clay" - }, - { - "id": "photo_collage", - "text": "Photo collage" - }, - { - "id": "friendship_bracelets", - "text": "Friendship bracelets" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "finger_painting", - "text": "Finger painting" - }, - { - "id": "air_dry_clay", - "text": "Air-dry clay" - }, - { - "id": "photo_collage", - "text": "Photo collage" - }, - { - "id": "friendship_bracelets", - "text": "Friendship bracelets" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_406", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which night-air moment sounds best?", - 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"category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a slow Saturday start, which option gets the nod?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_coffee_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "an_early_bakery_run", - "text": "An early bakery run" - }, - { - "id": "breakfast_picnic", - "text": "Breakfast picnic" - }, - { - "id": "pajama_drive_through", - "text": "Pajama drive-through" - }, - { - "id": "music_and_pancakes", - "text": "Music and pancakes" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "an_early_bakery_run", - "text": "An early bakery run" - }, - { - "id": "breakfast_picnic", - "text": "Breakfast picnic" - }, - { - "id": "pajama_drive_through", - "text": "Pajama drive-through" - }, - { - "id": "music_and_pancakes", - "text": "Music and pancakes" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_408", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny celebration treat sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dessert_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "cupcakes_on_a_bench", - "text": "Cupcakes on a bench" - }, - { - "id": "pie_in_the_car", - "text": "Pie in the car" - }, - { - "id": "coffee_and_cannoli", - "text": "Coffee and cannoli" - }, - { - "id": "sundae_with_too_many_toppings", - "text": "Sundae with too many toppings" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cupcakes_on_a_bench", - "text": "Cupcakes on a bench" - }, - { - "id": "pie_in_the_car", - "text": "Pie in the car" - }, - { - "id": "coffee_and_cannoli", - "text": "Coffee and cannoli" - }, - { - "id": "sundae_with_too_many_toppings", - "text": "Sundae with too many toppings" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - 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"text": "Frame ourselves in a reflection" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_410", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which low-cost style challenge sounds most fun?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_thrift_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "wear_one_unexpectedly_fancy_detail", - "text": "Wear one unexpectedly fancy detail" - }, - { - "id": "match_one_color_without_planning", - "text": "Match one color without planning" - }, - { - "id": "choose_an_accessory_for_each_other", - "text": "Choose an accessory for each other" - }, - { - "id": "dress_for_an_imaginary_destination", - "text": "Dress for an imaginary destination" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "wear_one_unexpectedly_fancy_detail", - "text": "Wear one unexpectedly fancy detail" - }, - { - "id": "match_one_color_without_planning", - "text": "Match one color without planning" - }, - { - "id": "choose_an_accessory_for_each_other", - "text": "Choose an accessory for each other" - }, - { - "id": "dress_for_an_imaginary_destination", - "text": "Dress for an imaginary destination" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_411", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Where should our tiny road trip go?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mystery_drive" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_town_over", - "text": "One town over" - }, - { - "id": "a_roadside_attraction", - "text": "A roadside attraction" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_old_stop", - "text": "A favorite old stop" - }, - { - "id": "a_new_park", - "text": "A new park" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_town_over", - "text": "One town over" - }, - { - "id": "a_roadside_attraction", - "text": "A roadside attraction" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_old_stop", - "text": "A favorite old stop" - }, - { - "id": "a_new_park", - "text": "A new park" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_412", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny culture date sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_local_adventure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "art_gallery", - "text": "Art gallery" - }, - { - "id": "live_local_music", - "text": "Live local music" - }, - { - "id": "used_bookstore", - "text": "Used bookstore" - }, - { - "id": "international_grocery_store", - "text": "International grocery store" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "art_gallery", - "text": "Art gallery" - }, - { - "id": "live_local_music", - "text": "Live local music" - }, - { - "id": "used_bookstore", - "text": "Used bookstore" - }, - { - "id": "international_grocery_store", - "text": "International grocery store" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_413", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which wallet-friendly night sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_budget_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "cook_one_new_thing", - "text": "Cook one new thing" - }, - { - "id": "rent_one_movie", - "text": "Rent one movie" - }, - { - "id": "mix_fancy_sodas", - "text": "Mix fancy sodas" - }, - { - "id": "play_a_tournament", - "text": "Play a tournament" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cook_one_new_thing", - "text": "Cook one new thing" - }, - { - "id": "rent_one_movie", - "text": "Rent one movie" - }, - { - "id": "mix_fancy_sodas", - "text": "Mix fancy sodas" - }, - { - "id": "play_a_tournament", - "text": "Play a tournament" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_414", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which picnic tasting-board theme sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_taste_test" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet_bites", - "text": "Sweet bites" - }, - { - "id": "salty_bites", - "text": "Salty bites" - }, - { - "id": "cheese_and_fruit", - "text": "Cheese and fruit" - }, - { - "id": "childhood_favorites", - "text": "Childhood favorites" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet_bites", - "text": "Sweet bites" - }, - { - "id": "salty_bites", - "text": "Salty bites" - }, - { - "id": "cheese_and_fruit", - "text": "Cheese and fruit" - }, - { - "id": "childhood_favorites", - "text": "Childhood favorites" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_415", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which golden-hour outing sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_outdoor_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "walk_with_cameras", - "text": "Walk with cameras" - }, - { - "id": "drive_to_an_overlook", - "text": "Drive to an overlook" - }, - { - "id": "share_a_cold_drink_outside", - "text": "Share a cold drink outside" - }, - { - "id": "capture_the_longest_shadows", - "text": "Capture the longest shadows" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "walk_with_cameras", - "text": "Walk with cameras" - }, - 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"text": "One song outside under the lights" - }, - { - "id": "a_ridiculous_recap_of_the_day", - "text": "A ridiculous recap of the day" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_last_scenic_stop", - "text": "One last scenic stop" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_late_snack", - "text": "A favorite late snack" - }, - { - "id": "one_song_outside_under_the_lights", - "text": "One song outside under the lights" - }, - { - "id": "a_ridiculous_recap_of_the_day", - "text": "A ridiculous recap of the day" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_419", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A two-stop morning: what is your pick?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_coffee_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "coffee_then_antiques", - "text": "Coffee then antiques" - }, - { - "id": "breakfast_then_a_walk", - "text": "Breakfast then a walk" - }, - { - "id": "pastries_then_a_scenic_drive", - "text": "Pastries then a scenic drive" - }, - { - "id": "tea_then_a_plant_shop", - "text": "Tea then a plant shop" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "coffee_then_antiques", - "text": "Coffee then antiques" - }, - { - "id": "breakfast_then_a_walk", - "text": "Breakfast then a walk" - }, - { - "id": "pastries_then_a_scenic_drive", - "text": "Pastries then a scenic drive" - }, - { - "id": "tea_then_a_plant_shop", - "text": "Tea then a plant shop" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_420", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A sugar-powered side quest: pick the winner.", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dessert_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "photograph_the_best_presentation", - "text": "Photograph the best presentation" - }, - { - "id": "rank_the_toppings", - "text": "Rank the toppings" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_dessert_award", - "text": "Invent a dessert award" - }, - { - "id": "save_the_winning_flavor_for_next_time", - "text": "Save the winning flavor for next time" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "photograph_the_best_presentation", - "text": "Photograph the best presentation" - }, - { - "id": "rank_the_toppings", - "text": "Rank the toppings" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_dessert_award", - "text": "Invent a dessert award" - }, - { - "id": "save_the_winning_flavor_for_next_time", - "text": "Save the winning flavor for next time" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_421", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our future-story photo set capture?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_photo_walk" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_snack_stop", - "text": "The snack stop" - }, - { - "id": "the_strange_discovery", - "text": "The strange discovery" - }, - { - "id": "the_biggest_laugh", - "text": "The biggest laugh" - }, - { - "id": "the_unplanned_finale", - "text": "The unplanned finale" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_snack_stop", - "text": "The snack stop" - }, - { - "id": "the_strange_discovery", - "text": "The strange discovery" - }, - { - "id": "the_biggest_laugh", - "text": "The biggest laugh" - }, - { - "id": "the_unplanned_finale", - "text": "The unplanned finale" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_422", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "On a browse-only adventure, what should we hunt for?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_thrift_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "invent_item_backstories", - "text": "Invent item backstories" - }, - { - "id": "choose_our_fake_heirloom", - "text": "Choose our fake heirloom" - }, - { - "id": "find_the_best_album_cover", - "text": "Find the best album cover" - }, - { - "id": "rate_old_furniture_like_judges", - "text": "Rate old furniture like judges" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "invent_item_backstories", - "text": "Invent item backstories" - }, - { - "id": "choose_our_fake_heirloom", - "text": "Choose our fake heirloom" - }, - { - "id": "find_the_best_album_cover", - "text": "Find the best album cover" - }, - { - "id": "rate_old_furniture_like_judges", - "text": "Rate old furniture like judges" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_423", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which car-date rule should we use?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_mystery_drive" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "stay_on_roads_we_both_know", - "text": "Stay on roads we both know" - }, - { - "id": "let_each_person_choose_one_safe_stop", - "text": "Let each person choose one safe stop" - }, - { - "id": "photograph_one_roadside_surprise", - "text": "Photograph one roadside surprise" - }, - { - "id": "bring_one_preselected_mystery_snack", - "text": "Bring one preselected mystery snack" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "stay_on_roads_we_both_know", - "text": "Stay on roads we both know" - }, - { - "id": "let_each_person_choose_one_safe_stop", - "text": "Let each person choose one safe stop" - }, - { - "id": "photograph_one_roadside_surprise", - "text": "Photograph one roadside surprise" - }, - { - "id": "bring_one_preselected_mystery_snack", - "text": "Bring one preselected mystery snack" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_424", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which nearby discovery should we explore?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_local_adventure" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "new_coffee_window", - "text": "New coffee window" - }, - { - "id": "interesting_architecture", - "text": "Interesting architecture" - }, - { - "id": "small_park", - "text": "Small park" - }, - { - "id": "odd_little_shop", - "text": "Odd little shop" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "new_coffee_window", - "text": "New coffee window" - }, - { - "id": "interesting_architecture", - "text": "Interesting architecture" - }, - { - "id": "small_park", - "text": "Small park" - }, - { - "id": "odd_little_shop", - "text": "Odd little shop" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_425", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny splurge gets your vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_budget_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_excellent_appetizer", - "text": "One excellent appetizer" - }, - { - "id": "two_drinks_with_ridiculous_names", - "text": "Two drinks with ridiculous names" - }, - { - "id": "a_photo_booth_strip", - "text": "A photo-booth strip" - }, - { - "id": "one_song_on_a_jukebox", - "text": "One song on a jukebox" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_excellent_appetizer", - "text": "One excellent appetizer" - }, - { - "id": "two_drinks_with_ridiculous_names", - "text": "Two drinks with ridiculous names" - }, - { - "id": "a_photo_booth_strip", - "text": "A photo-booth strip" - }, - { - "id": "one_song_on_a_jukebox", - "text": "One song on a jukebox" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_426", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should decide the winner of our flavor bet?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_taste_test" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_boldest_spice", - "text": "The boldest spice" - }, - { - "id": "the_strongest_nostalgia", - "text": "The strongest nostalgia" - }, - { - "id": "the_strangest_name", - "text": "The strangest name" - }, - { - "id": "the_most_surprising_flavor", - "text": "The most surprising flavor" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_boldest_spice", - "text": "The boldest spice" - }, - { - "id": "the_strongest_nostalgia", - "text": "The strongest nostalgia" - }, - { - "id": "the_strangest_name", - "text": "The strangest name" - }, - { - "id": "the_most_surprising_flavor", - "text": "The most surprising flavor" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_427", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which weather-friendly adventure sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_outdoor_quest" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_an_umbrella_walk", - "text": "Take an umbrella walk" - }, - { - "id": "hold_a_cloud_shape_contest", - "text": "Hold a cloud-shape contest" - }, - { - "id": "share_a_shade_tree_picnic", - "text": "Share a shade-tree picnic" - }, - { - "id": "watch_the_rain_from_a_parked_car", - "text": "Watch the rain from a parked car" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "take_an_umbrella_walk", - "text": "Take an umbrella walk" - }, - { - "id": "hold_a_cloud_shape_contest", - "text": "Hold a cloud-shape contest" - }, - { - "id": "share_a_shade_tree_picnic", - "text": "Share a shade-tree picnic" - }, - { - "id": "watch_the_rain_from_a_parked_car", - "text": "Watch the rain from a parked car" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_428", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which one-book mission should we try?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_bookstore_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_a_title_that_predicts_our_next_adventure", - "text": "Find a title that predicts our next adventure" - }, - { - "id": "choose_an_opening_line_to_read_aloud", - "text": "Choose an opening line to read aloud" - }, - { - "id": "locate_the_funniest_dedication", - "text": "Locate the funniest dedication" - }, - { - "id": "pick_the_cover_we_would_star_in", - "text": "Pick the cover we would star in" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_a_title_that_predicts_our_next_adventure", - "text": "Find a title that predicts our next adventure" - }, - { - "id": "choose_an_opening_line_to_read_aloud", - "text": "Choose an opening line to read aloud" - }, - { - "id": "locate_the_funniest_dedication", - "text": "Locate the funniest dedication" - }, - { - "id": "pick_the_cover_we_would_star_in", - "text": "Pick the cover we would star in" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_429", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which creative competition gets your vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_saturday_side_quest", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_creative_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_one_line_movie_pitch", - "text": "Best one-line movie pitch" - }, - { - "id": "best_doodle_of_our_date", - "text": "Best doodle of our date" - }, - { - "id": "best_three_line_poem", - "text": "Best three-line poem" - }, - { - "id": "best_fake_review_of_tonight", - "text": "Best fake review of tonight" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_one_line_movie_pitch", - "text": "Best one-line movie pitch" - }, - { - "id": "best_doodle_of_our_date", - "text": "Best doodle of our date" - }, - { - "id": "best_three_line_poem", - "text": "Best three-line poem" - }, - { - "id": "best_fake_review_of_tonight", - "text": "Best fake review of tonight" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_430", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of closeness sounds best tonight?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_closeness_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "sitting_wrapped_up_together", - "text": "Sitting wrapped up together" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_kiss", - "text": "A slow kiss" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_hand_holding", - "text": "Quiet hand-holding" - }, - { - "id": "a_soft_conversation", - "text": "A soft conversation" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sitting_wrapped_up_together", - "text": "Sitting wrapped up together" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_kiss", - "text": "A slow kiss" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_hand_holding", - "text": "Quiet hand-holding" - }, - { - "id": "a_soft_conversation", - "text": "A soft conversation" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_431", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of cuddle sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cuddle_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "face_to_face", - "text": "Face-to-face" - }, - { - "id": "spooning", - "text": "Spooning" - }, - { - "id": "head_in_your_lap", - "text": "Head in your lap" - }, - { - "id": "side_by_side_with_legs_tangled", - "text": "Side-by-side with legs tangled" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "face_to_face", - "text": "Face-to-face" - }, - { - "id": "spooning", - "text": "Spooning" - }, - { - "id": "head_in_your_lap", - "text": "Head in your lap" - }, - { - "id": "side_by_side_with_legs_tangled", - "text": "Side-by-side with legs tangled" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_432", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should happen right after a slow kiss?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_kiss_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "smile_without_moving_away", - "text": "Smile without moving away" - }, - { - "id": "whisper_one_sweet_thought", - "text": "Whisper one sweet thought" - }, - { - "id": "stay_close_in_comfortable_silence", - "text": "Stay close in comfortable silence" - }, - { - "id": "put_on_a_song_and_sway", - "text": "Put on a song and sway" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "smile_without_moving_away", - "text": "Smile without moving away" - }, - { - "id": "whisper_one_sweet_thought", - "text": "Whisper one sweet thought" - }, - { - "id": "stay_close_in_comfortable_silence", - "text": "Stay close in comfortable silence" - }, - { - "id": "put_on_a_song_and_sway", - "text": "Put on a song and sway" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_433", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of appreciation feels most romantic?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_compliment_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_specific_i_did", - "text": "Something specific I did" - }, - { - "id": "a_quality_you_genuinely_admire", - "text": "A quality you genuinely admire" - }, - { - "id": "a_way_i_make_you_laugh", - "text": "A way I make you laugh" - }, - { - "id": "a_moment_you_still_remember", - "text": "A moment you still remember" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_specific_i_did", - "text": "Something specific I did" - }, - { - "id": "a_quality_you_genuinely_admire", - "text": "A quality you genuinely admire" - }, - { - "id": "a_way_i_make_you_laugh", - "text": "A way I make you laugh" - }, - { - "id": "a_moment_you_still_remember", - "text": "A moment you still remember" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_434", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which cozy Sunday date sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cozy_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "coffee_and_a_long_talk", - "text": "Coffee and a long talk" - }, - { - "id": "takeout_picnic_at_home", - "text": "Takeout picnic at home" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_drive", - "text": "A slow drive" - }, - { - "id": "cook_something_comforting", - "text": "Cook something comforting" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "coffee_and_a_long_talk", - "text": "Coffee and a long talk" - }, - { - "id": "takeout_picnic_at_home", - "text": "Takeout picnic at home" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_drive", - "text": "A slow drive" - }, - { - "id": "cook_something_comforting", - "text": "Cook something comforting" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_435", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which song should lead our slow-dance moment?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_slow_music" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_song_tied_to_an_early_date", - "text": "A song tied to an early date" - }, - { - "id": "a_brand_new_love_song", - "text": "A brand-new love song" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_old_throwback", - "text": "A favorite old throwback" - }, - { - "id": "whatever_shuffle_chooses", - "text": "Whatever shuffle chooses" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_song_tied_to_an_early_date", - "text": "A song tied to an early date" - }, - { - "id": "a_brand_new_love_song", - "text": "A brand-new love song" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_old_throwback", - "text": "A favorite old throwback" - }, - { - "id": "whatever_shuffle_chooses", - "text": "Whatever shuffle chooses" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_436", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of affection from me sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_affection_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "reach_for_your_hand", - "text": "Reach for your hand" - }, - { - "id": "ask_whether_a_hug_sounds_good", - "text": "Ask whether a hug sounds good" - }, - { - "id": "kiss_your_forehead_if_invited", - "text": "Kiss your forehead if invited" - }, - { - "id": "sit_close_enough_for_our_shoulders_to_touch", - "text": "Sit close enough for our shoulders to touch" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "reach_for_your_hand", - "text": "Reach for your hand" - }, - { - "id": "ask_whether_a_hug_sounds_good", - "text": "Ask whether a hug sounds good" - }, - { - "id": "kiss_your_forehead_if_invited", - "text": "Kiss your forehead if invited" - }, - { - "id": "sit_close_enough_for_our_shoulders_to_touch", - "text": "Sit close enough for our shoulders to touch" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_437", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which memory should we revisit?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_memory_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_first_kiss", - "text": "Our first kiss" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_trip", - "text": "A favorite trip" - }, - { - "id": "a_night_we_laughed_too_hard", - "text": "A night we laughed too hard" - }, - { - "id": "a_quiet_moment_that_meant_a_lot", - "text": "A quiet moment that meant a lot" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_first_kiss", - "text": "Our first kiss" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_trip", - "text": "A favorite trip" - }, - { - "id": "a_night_we_laughed_too_hard", - "text": "A night we laughed too hard" - }, - { - "id": "a_quiet_moment_that_meant_a_lot", - "text": "A quiet moment that meant a lot" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_438", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which sweet tease gets your vote?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_sweet_tease" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "call_out_my_fake_seriousness", - "text": "Call out my fake seriousness" - }, - { - "id": "challenge_my_snack_loyalty", - "text": "Challenge my snack loyalty" - }, - { - "id": "use_my_ridiculous_nickname", - "text": "Use my ridiculous nickname" - }, - { - "id": "claim_my_kiss_deserves_an_encore", - "text": "Claim my kiss deserves an encore" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "call_out_my_fake_seriousness", - "text": "Call out my fake seriousness" - }, - { - "id": "challenge_my_snack_loyalty", - "text": "Challenge my snack loyalty" - }, - { - "id": "use_my_ridiculous_nickname", - "text": "Use my ridiculous nickname" - }, - { - "id": "claim_my_kiss_deserves_an_encore", - "text": "Claim my kiss deserves an encore" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_439", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which phone-free close moment sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_no_phone_closeness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tea_at_the_table", - "text": "Tea at the table" - }, - { - "id": "cuddle_through_one_album", - "text": "Cuddle through one album" - }, - { - "id": "sit_outside_in_silence", - "text": "Sit outside in silence" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_favorite_memory", - "text": "Share one favorite memory" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tea_at_the_table", - "text": "Tea at the table" - }, - { - "id": "cuddle_through_one_album", - "text": "Cuddle through one album" - }, - { - "id": "sit_outside_in_silence", - "text": "Sit outside in silence" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_favorite_memory", - "text": "Share one favorite memory" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_440", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which Sunday dessert gets your vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dessert_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_pie", - "text": "Warm pie" - }, - { - "id": "ice_cream_sundae", - "text": "Ice cream sundae" - }, - { - "id": "chocolate_strawberries", - "text": "Chocolate strawberries" - }, - { - "id": "warm_bread_pudding", - "text": "Warm bread pudding" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_pie", - "text": "Warm pie" - }, - { - "id": "ice_cream_sundae", - "text": "Ice cream sundae" - }, - { - "id": "chocolate_strawberries", - "text": "Chocolate strawberries" - }, - { - "id": "warm_bread_pudding", - "text": "Warm bread pudding" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_441", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which thing should we anticipate this week?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_future_warmth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_midweek_kiss_break", - "text": "A midweek kiss break" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_dessert_date", - "text": "A tiny dessert date" - }, - { - "id": "a_shared_lunch", - "text": "A shared lunch" - }, - { - "id": "a_friday_night_plan", - "text": "A Friday-night plan" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_midweek_kiss_break", - "text": "A midweek kiss break" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_dessert_date", - "text": "A tiny dessert date" - }, - { - "id": "a_shared_lunch", - "text": "A shared lunch" - }, - { - "id": "a_friday_night_plan", - "text": "A Friday-night plan" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_442", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which cozy connection sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_closeness_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen_to_an_album_facing_each_other", - "text": "Listen to an album facing each other" - }, - { - "id": "let_our_legs_tangle", - "text": "Let our legs tangle" - }, - { - "id": "listen_to_music_shoulder_to_shoulder", - "text": "Listen to music shoulder to shoulder" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_slow_porch_break", - "text": "Take a slow porch break" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen_to_an_album_facing_each_other", - "text": "Listen to an album facing each other" - }, - { - "id": "let_our_legs_tangle", - "text": "Let our legs tangle" - }, - { - "id": "listen_to_music_shoulder_to_shoulder", - "text": "Listen to music shoulder to shoulder" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_slow_porch_break", - "text": "Take a slow porch break" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_443", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick your ideal version of relaxed closeness:", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cuddle_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "head_on_a_shoulder", - "text": "Head on a shoulder" - }, - { - "id": "arm_around_the_waist", - "text": "Arm around the waist" - }, - { - "id": "legs_across_the_lap", - "text": "Legs across the lap" - }, - { - "id": "curled_up_side_by_side", - "text": "Curled up side by side" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "head_on_a_shoulder", - "text": "Head on a shoulder" - }, - { - "id": "arm_around_the_waist", - "text": "Arm around the waist" - }, - { - "id": "legs_across_the_lap", - "text": "Legs across the lap" - }, - { - "id": "curled_up_side_by_side", - "text": "Curled up side by side" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_444", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which Sunday-kiss moment sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_kiss_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "in_the_kitchen", - "text": "In the kitchen" - }, - { - "id": "on_the_porch", - "text": "On the porch" - }, - { - "id": "during_a_favorite_song", - "text": "During a favorite song" - }, - { - "id": "before_saying_goodnight", - "text": "Before saying goodnight" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "in_the_kitchen", - "text": "In the kitchen" - }, - { - "id": "on_the_porch", - "text": "On the porch" - }, - { - "id": "during_a_favorite_song", - "text": "During a favorite song" - }, - { - "id": "before_saying_goodnight", - "text": "Before saying goodnight" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_445", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which sweet line should start the week?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_compliment_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_am_proud_of_you", - "text": "I am proud of you" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_still_excited_to_see_you", - "text": "I am still excited to see you" - }, - { - "id": "you_make_ordinary_days_brighter", - "text": "You make ordinary days brighter" - }, - { - "id": "i_love_the_life_we_are_building", - "text": "I love the life we are building" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_am_proud_of_you", - "text": "I am proud of you" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_still_excited_to_see_you", - "text": "I am still excited to see you" - }, - { - "id": "you_make_ordinary_days_brighter", - "text": "You make ordinary days brighter" - }, - { - "id": "i_love_the_life_we_are_building", - "text": "I love the life we are building" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_446", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a stay-in mini-date, what suits us best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cozy_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "candlelit_snack_board", - "text": "Candlelit snack board" - }, - { - "id": "puzzle_and_dessert", - "text": "Puzzle and dessert" - }, - { - "id": "taste_test_two_drinks", - "text": "Taste-test two drinks" - }, - { - "id": "music_and_cards", - "text": "Music and cards" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "candlelit_snack_board", - "text": "Candlelit snack board" - }, - { - "id": "puzzle_and_dessert", - "text": "Puzzle and dessert" - }, - { - "id": "taste_test_two_drinks", - "text": "Taste-test two drinks" - }, - { - "id": "music_and_cards", - "text": "Music and cards" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_447", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which two-song exchange sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_slow_music" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_song_from_childhood", - "text": "One song from childhood" - }, - { - "id": "one_shameless_guilty_pleasure", - "text": "One shameless guilty pleasure" - }, - { - "id": "one_current_repeat", - "text": "One current repeat" - }, - { - "id": "one_tied_to_a_favorite_place", - "text": "One tied to a favorite place" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_song_from_childhood", - "text": "One song from childhood" - }, - { - "id": "one_shameless_guilty_pleasure", - "text": "One shameless guilty pleasure" - }, - { - "id": "one_current_repeat", - "text": "One current repeat" - }, - { - "id": "one_tied_to_a_favorite_place", - "text": "One tied to a favorite place" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_448", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which little touch gets your vote?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_affection_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hand_on_your_back", - "text": "Hand on your back" - }, - { - "id": "fingers_through_your_hair", - "text": "Fingers through your hair" - }, - { - "id": "knees_touching_under_the_table", - "text": "Knees touching under the table" - }, - { - "id": "arm_around_your_shoulders", - "text": "Arm around your shoulders" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hand_on_your_back", - "text": "Hand on your back" - }, - { - "id": "fingers_through_your_hair", - "text": "Fingers through your hair" - }, - { - "id": "knees_touching_under_the_table", - "text": "Knees touching under the table" - }, - { - "id": "arm_around_your_shoulders", - "text": "Arm around your shoulders" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_449", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which photo should we open together?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_memory_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "early_dating_days", - "text": "Early dating days" - }, - { - "id": "a_celebration", - "text": "A celebration" - }, - { - "id": "a_ridiculous_candid", - "text": "A ridiculous candid" - }, - { - "id": "a_place_we_want_to_return_to", - "text": "A place we want to return to" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "early_dating_days", - "text": "Early dating days" - }, - { - "id": "a_celebration", - "text": "A celebration" - }, - { - "id": "a_ridiculous_candid", - "text": "A ridiculous candid" - }, - { - "id": "a_place_we_want_to_return_to", - "text": "A place we want to return to" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_450", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which playful Sunday flirt sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_sweet_tease" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "steal_my_seat_then_make_room", - "text": "Steal my seat, then make room" - }, - { - "id": "ask_for_my_best_flirty_compliment", - "text": "Ask for my best flirty compliment" - }, - { - "id": "dare_me_to_slow_dance", - "text": "Dare me to slow dance" - }, - { - "id": "make_me_guess_your_compliment", - "text": "Make me guess your compliment" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "steal_my_seat_then_make_room", - "text": "Steal my seat, then make room" - }, - { - "id": "ask_for_my_best_flirty_compliment", - "text": "Ask for my best flirty compliment" - }, - { - "id": "dare_me_to_slow_dance", - "text": "Dare me to slow dance" - }, - { - "id": "make_me_guess_your_compliment", - "text": "Make me guess your compliment" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_451", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which quiet no-scroll break sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_no_phone_closeness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hand_massage", - "text": "Hand massage" - }, - { - "id": "slow_dance", - "text": "Slow dance" - }, - { - "id": "dessert_on_the_porch", - "text": "Dessert on the porch" - }, - { - "id": "ask_one_tender_question", - "text": "Ask one tender question" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hand_massage", - "text": "Hand massage" - }, - { - "id": "slow_dance", - "text": "Slow dance" - }, - { - "id": "dessert_on_the_porch", - "text": "Dessert on the porch" - }, - { - "id": "ask_one_tender_question", - "text": "Ask one tender question" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_452", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which sweet shared bite sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dessert_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "cheesecake", - "text": "Cheesecake" - }, - { - "id": "mini_doughnut_flight", - "text": "Mini doughnut flight" - }, - { - "id": "brownie_with_ice_cream", - "text": "Brownie with ice cream" - }, - { - "id": "chocolate_dipped_berries", - "text": "Chocolate-dipped berries" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cheesecake", - "text": "Cheesecake" - }, - { - "id": "mini_doughnut_flight", - "text": "Mini doughnut flight" - }, - { - "id": "brownie_with_ice_cream", - "text": "Brownie with ice cream" - }, - { - "id": "chocolate_dipped_berries", - "text": "Chocolate-dipped berries" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_453", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which small future-us plan sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_future_warmth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "morning_coffee_together", - "text": "Morning coffee together" - }, - { - "id": "breakfast_somewhere_new", - "text": "Breakfast somewhere new" - }, - { - "id": "a_no_phone_hour", - "text": "A no-phone hour" - }, - { - "id": "a_new_recipe_night", - "text": "A new recipe night" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "morning_coffee_together", - "text": "Morning coffee together" - }, - { - "id": "breakfast_somewhere_new", - "text": "Breakfast somewhere new" - }, - { - "id": "a_no_phone_hour", - "text": "A no-phone hour" - }, - { - "id": "a_new_recipe_night", - "text": "A new recipe night" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_454", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which warm Sunday moment sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_closeness_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "forehead_kisses", - "text": "Forehead kisses" - }, - { - "id": "a_back_rub", - "text": "A back rub" - }, - { - "id": "a_cup_of_something_warm", - "text": "A cup of something warm" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_memory", - "text": "A favorite memory" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "forehead_kisses", - "text": "Forehead kisses" - }, - { - "id": "a_back_rub", - "text": "A back rub" - }, - { - "id": "a_cup_of_something_warm", - "text": "A cup of something warm" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_memory", - "text": "A favorite memory" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_455", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we settle into an unhurried snuggle?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cuddle_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_and_still", - "text": "Quiet and still" - }, - { - "id": "with_a_comfort_show", - "text": "With a comfort show" - }, - { - "id": "with_soft_music", - "text": "With soft music" - }, - { - "id": "with_whispered_jokes", - "text": "With whispered jokes" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_and_still", - "text": "Quiet and still" - }, - { - "id": "with_a_comfort_show", - "text": "With a comfort show" - }, - { - "id": "with_soft_music", - "text": "With soft music" - }, - { - "id": "with_whispered_jokes", - "text": "With whispered jokes" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_456", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which affectionate pause between kisses sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_kiss_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "laugh_together", - "text": "Laugh together" - }, - { - "id": "touch_foreheads", - "text": "Touch foreheads" - }, - { - "id": "pause_for_a_playful_grin", - "text": "Pause for a playful grin" - }, - { - "id": "stay_close_without_talking", - "text": "Stay close without talking" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "laugh_together", - "text": "Laugh together" - }, - { - "id": "touch_foreheads", - "text": "Touch foreheads" - }, - { - "id": "pause_for_a_playful_grin", - "text": "Pause for a playful grin" - }, - { - "id": "stay_close_without_talking", - "text": "Stay close without talking" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_457", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which kind of recognition feels most energizing?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_compliment_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "notice_a_creative_choice_i_made", - "text": "Notice a creative choice I made" - }, - { - "id": "point_out_my_calm_confidence", - "text": "Point out my calm confidence" - }, - { - "id": "celebrate_a_risk_i_took", - "text": "Celebrate a risk I took" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_fun_i_brought", - "text": "Name the fun I brought" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "notice_a_creative_choice_i_made", - "text": "Notice a creative choice I made" - }, - { - "id": "point_out_my_calm_confidence", - "text": "Point out my calm confidence" - }, - { - "id": "celebrate_a_risk_i_took", - "text": "Celebrate a risk I took" - }, - { - "id": "name_the_fun_i_brought", - "text": "Name the fun I brought" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_458", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A gentle outing—which choice sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cozy_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "garden_walk", - "text": "Garden walk" - }, - { - "id": "gallery_stroll", - "text": "Gallery stroll" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_cafe", - "text": "Quiet café" - }, - { - "id": "sunset_overlook", - "text": "Sunset overlook" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "garden_walk", - "text": "Garden walk" - }, - { - "id": "gallery_stroll", - "text": "Gallery stroll" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_cafe", - "text": "Quiet café" - }, - { - "id": "sunset_overlook", - "text": "Sunset overlook" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_459", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which option takes a Sunday soundtrack?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_slow_music" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "acoustic_and_warm", - "text": "Acoustic and warm" - }, - { - "id": "old_school_romantic", - "text": "Old-school romantic" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_road_trip_music", - "text": "Quiet road-trip music" - }, - { - "id": "songs_from_our_early_days", - "text": "Songs from our early days" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "acoustic_and_warm", - "text": "Acoustic and warm" - }, - { - "id": "old_school_romantic", - "text": "Old-school romantic" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_road_trip_music", - "text": "Quiet road-trip music" - }, - { - "id": "songs_from_our_early_days", - "text": "Songs from our early days" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_460", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which affectionate touch feels most caring?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_affection_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_shoulder_rub", - "text": "A shoulder rub" - }, - { - "id": "a_warm_embrace", - "text": "A warm embrace" - }, - { - "id": "a_forehead_kiss", - "text": "A forehead kiss" - }, - { - "id": "being_tucked_into_my_side", - "text": "Being tucked into my side" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_shoulder_rub", - "text": "A shoulder rub" - }, - { - "id": "a_warm_embrace", - "text": "A warm embrace" - }, - { - "id": "a_forehead_kiss", - "text": "A forehead kiss" - }, - { - "id": "being_tucked_into_my_side", - "text": "Being tucked into my side" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_461", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which story from us should we retell?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_memory_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "how_we_met", - "text": "How we met" - }, - { - "id": "our_most_unexpected_detour", - "text": "Our most unexpected detour" - }, - { - "id": "a_date_that_went_sideways", - "text": "A date that went sideways" - }, - { - "id": "a_moment_we_felt_like_a_team", - "text": "A moment we felt like a team" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "how_we_met", - "text": "How we met" - }, - { - "id": "our_most_unexpected_detour", - "text": "Our most unexpected detour" - }, - { - "id": "a_date_that_went_sideways", - "text": "A date that went sideways" - }, - { - "id": "a_moment_we_felt_like_a_team", - "text": "A moment we felt like a team" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_462", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which gentle little dare should we try?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_sweet_tease" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_one_physical_detail_you_love", - "text": "Name one physical detail you love" - }, - { - "id": "name_one_personality_trait_that_pulls_you_in", - "text": "Name one personality trait that pulls you in" - }, - { - "id": "choose_our_kiss_soundtrack", - "text": "Choose our kiss soundtrack" - }, - { - "id": "send_one_bold_text_from_nearby", - "text": "Send one bold text from nearby" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_one_physical_detail_you_love", - "text": "Name one physical detail you love" - }, - { - "id": "name_one_personality_trait_that_pulls_you_in", - "text": "Name one personality trait that pulls you in" - }, - { - "id": "choose_our_kiss_soundtrack", - "text": "Choose our kiss soundtrack" - }, - { - "id": "send_one_bold_text_from_nearby", - "text": "Send one bold text from nearby" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_463", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Phones away for half an hour—which plan wins?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_no_phone_closeness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "wander_outside_for_half_an_hour", - "text": "Wander outside for half an hour" - }, - { - "id": "read_a_short_story_aloud", - "text": "Read a short story aloud" - }, - { - "id": "trade_one_song_each", - "text": "Trade one song each" - }, - { - "id": "sketch_an_imaginary_destination", - "text": "Sketch an imaginary destination" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "wander_outside_for_half_an_hour", - "text": "Wander outside for half an hour" - }, - { - "id": "read_a_short_story_aloud", - "text": "Read a short story aloud" - }, - { - "id": "trade_one_song_each", - "text": "Trade one song each" - }, - { - "id": "sketch_an_imaginary_destination", - "text": "Sketch an imaginary destination" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_464", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which cozy drink sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dessert_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hot_chocolate", - "text": "Hot chocolate" - }, - { - "id": "vanilla_latte", - "text": "Vanilla latte" - }, - { - "id": "spiced_chai", - "text": "Spiced chai" - }, - { - "id": "warm_apple_cider", - "text": "Warm apple cider" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hot_chocolate", - "text": "Hot chocolate" - }, - { - "id": "vanilla_latte", - "text": "Vanilla latte" - }, - { - "id": "spiced_chai", - "text": "Spiced chai" - }, - { - "id": "warm_apple_cider", - "text": "Warm apple cider" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_465", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny romantic clue sounds most like us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_future_warmth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "leave_a_hidden_note", - "text": "Leave a hidden note" - }, - { - "id": "set_up_a_surprise_five_minute_date", - "text": "Set up a surprise five-minute date" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_meaningful_song", - "text": "Choose a meaningful song" - }, - { - "id": "reveal_a_favorite_treat", - "text": "Reveal a favorite treat" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "leave_a_hidden_note", - "text": "Leave a hidden note" - }, - { - "id": "set_up_a_surprise_five_minute_date", - "text": "Set up a surprise five-minute date" - }, - { - "id": "choose_a_meaningful_song", - "text": "Choose a meaningful song" - }, - { - "id": "reveal_a_favorite_treat", - "text": "Reveal a favorite treat" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_466", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny sign of closeness feels best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_closeness_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "eye_contact_and_a_smile", - "text": "Eye contact and a smile" - }, - { - "id": "a_hand_on_my_knee", - "text": "A hand on my knee" - }, - { - "id": "a_real_hug", - "text": "A real hug" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_shoulder_to_shoulder", - "text": "Sitting shoulder to shoulder" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "eye_contact_and_a_smile", - "text": "Eye contact and a smile" - }, - { - "id": "a_hand_on_my_knee", - "text": "A hand on my knee" - }, - { - "id": "a_real_hug", - "text": "A real hug" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_shoulder_to_shoulder", - "text": "Sitting shoulder to shoulder" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_467", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which quiet Sunday closeness sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cuddle_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hold_hands_through_one_song", - "text": "Hold hands through one song" - }, - { - "id": "sit_shoulder_to_shoulder_outside", - "text": "Sit shoulder to shoulder outside" - }, - { - "id": "sit_close_during_a_movie", - "text": "Sit close during a movie" - }, - { - "id": "rest_our_heads_together_for_a_minute", - "text": "Rest our heads together for a minute" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hold_hands_through_one_song", - "text": "Hold hands through one song" - }, - { - "id": "sit_shoulder_to_shoulder_outside", - "text": "Sit shoulder to shoulder outside" - }, - { - "id": "sit_close_during_a_movie", - "text": "Sit close during a movie" - }, - { - "id": "rest_our_heads_together_for_a_minute", - "text": "Rest our heads together for a minute" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } + ] }, { "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_468", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which movie-night role would you claim?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_kiss_choice" + "expected_text": "For movie night, which role would you like most?", + "reasons": [ + "mechanic_content_mismatch", + "sunday_voice_miss" ], + "text": "Which movie-night kiss would you enjoy most?", "options": [ { - "id": "official_snack_chooser", - "text": "Official snack chooser" + "id": "a_hello_kiss_before_we_press_play", + "text": "A hello kiss before we press play" }, { - "id": "trailer_rating_judge", - "text": "Trailer-rating judge" + "id": "a_quick_kiss_during_the_previews", + "text": "A quick kiss during the previews" }, { - "id": "plot_twist_predictor", - "text": "Plot-twist predictor" + "id": "a_longer_kiss_when_the_movie_ends", + "text": "A longer kiss when the movie ends" }, { - "id": "ending_debate_champion", - "text": "Ending-debate champion" + "id": "a_goodnight_kiss_after_the_credits", + "text": "A goodnight kiss after the credits" } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "official_snack_chooser", - "text": "Official snack chooser" - }, - { - "id": "trailer_rating_judge", - "text": "Trailer-rating judge" - }, - { - "id": "plot_twist_predictor", - "text": "Plot-twist predictor" - }, - { - "id": "ending_debate_champion", - "text": "Ending-debate champion" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_469", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which intimate compliment would mean the most?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_compliment_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tell_me_what_draws_you_in", - "text": "Tell me what draws you in" - }, - { - "id": "tell_me_what_you_trust_in_me", - "text": "Tell me what you trust in me" - }, - { - "id": "tell_me_what_you_miss_when_i_am_gone", - "text": "Tell me what you miss when I am gone" - }, - { - "id": "tell_me_what_still_surprises_you", - "text": "Tell me what still surprises you" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tell_me_what_draws_you_in", - "text": "Tell me what draws you in" - }, - { - "id": "tell_me_what_you_trust_in_me", - "text": "Tell me what you trust in me" - }, - { - "id": "tell_me_what_you_miss_when_i_am_gone", - "text": "Tell me what you miss when I am gone" - }, - { - "id": "tell_me_what_still_surprises_you", - "text": "Tell me what still surprises you" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_470", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which one-hour date sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cozy_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "breakfast_together", - "text": "Breakfast together" - }, - { - "id": "porch_drinks", - "text": "Porch drinks" - }, - { - "id": "photo_walk", - "text": "Photo walk" - }, - { - "id": "dessert_and_people_watching", - "text": "Dessert and people-watching" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "breakfast_together", - "text": "Breakfast together" - }, - { - "id": "porch_drinks", - "text": "Porch drinks" - }, - { - "id": "photo_walk", - "text": "Photo walk" - }, - { - "id": "dessert_and_people_watching", - "text": "Dessert and people-watching" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_471", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which one-song ritual should we try?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_slow_music" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "dance_under_the_porch_light", - "text": "Dance under the porch light" - }, - { - "id": "listen_with_eyes_closed", - "text": "Listen with eyes closed" - }, - { - "id": "trade_one_dedication", - "text": "Trade one dedication" - }, - { - "id": "save_it_to_our_couple_playlist", - "text": "Save it to our couple playlist" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dance_under_the_porch_light", - "text": "Dance under the porch light" - }, - { - "id": "listen_with_eyes_closed", - "text": "Listen with eyes closed" - }, - { - "id": "trade_one_dedication", - "text": "Trade one dedication" - }, - { - "id": "save_it_to_our_couple_playlist", - "text": "Save it to our couple playlist" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_472", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which quiet romantic cue sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_affection_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "move_closer", - "text": "Move closer" - }, - { - "id": "offer_my_hand", - "text": "Offer my hand" - }, - { - "id": "hold_your_gaze", - "text": "Hold your gaze" - }, - { - "id": "brush_a_kiss_against_your_cheek", - "text": "Brush a kiss against your cheek" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "move_closer", - "text": "Move closer" - }, - { - "id": "offer_my_hand", - "text": "Offer my hand" - }, - { - "id": "hold_your_gaze", - "text": "Hold your gaze" - }, - { - "id": "brush_a_kiss_against_your_cheek", - "text": "Brush a kiss against your cheek" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_473", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which couple story deserves a director’s-cut retelling?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_memory_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "how_a_nickname_began", - "text": "How a nickname began" - }, - { - "id": "the_quote_from_a_road_trip", - "text": "The quote from a road trip" - }, - { - "id": "an_accidental_date_detour", - "text": "An accidental date detour" - }, - { - "id": "our_first_inside_joke", - "text": "Our first inside joke" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "how_a_nickname_began", - "text": "How a nickname began" - }, - { - "id": "the_quote_from_a_road_trip", - "text": "The quote from a road trip" - }, - { - "id": "an_accidental_date_detour", - "text": "An accidental date detour" - }, - { - "id": "our_first_inside_joke", - "text": "Our first inside joke" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_474", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which cozy bit of mischief sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_sweet_tease" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "challenge_me_to_a_one_song_dance", - "text": "Challenge me to a one-song dance" - }, - { - "id": "photobomb_our_timer_picture", - "text": "Photobomb our timer picture" - }, - { - "id": "start_a_whisper_only_conversation", - "text": "Start a whisper-only conversation" - }, - { - "id": "leave_a_ridiculous_compliment_clue", - "text": "Leave a ridiculous compliment clue" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "challenge_me_to_a_one_song_dance", - "text": "Challenge me to a one-song dance" - }, - { - "id": "photobomb_our_timer_picture", - "text": "Photobomb our timer picture" - }, - { - "id": "start_a_whisper_only_conversation", - "text": "Start a whisper-only conversation" - }, - { - "id": "leave_a_ridiculous_compliment_clue", - "text": "Leave a ridiculous compliment clue" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_475", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A peaceful little ritual: what sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_no_phone_closeness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "switch_on_string_lights", - "text": "Switch on string lights" - }, - { - "id": "make_warm_drinks", - "text": "Make warm drinks" - }, - { - "id": "play_one_calming_song", - "text": "Play one calming song" - }, - { - "id": "trade_one_favorite_moment", - "text": "Trade one favorite moment" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "switch_on_string_lights", - "text": "Switch on string lights" - }, - { - "id": "make_warm_drinks", - "text": "Make warm drinks" - }, - { - "id": "play_one_calming_song", - "text": "Play one calming song" - }, - { - "id": "trade_one_favorite_moment", - "text": "Trade one favorite moment" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_476", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which at-home dessert date should we try?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dessert_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "bake_cookies", - "text": "Bake cookies" - }, - { - "id": "build_sundaes", - "text": "Build sundaes" - }, - { - "id": "taste_test_chocolates", - "text": "Taste-test chocolates" - }, - { - "id": "make_mug_cakes", - "text": "Make mug cakes" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "bake_cookies", - "text": "Bake cookies" - }, - { - "id": "build_sundaes", - "text": "Build sundaes" - }, - { - "id": "taste_test_chocolates", - "text": "Taste-test chocolates" - }, - { - "id": "make_mug_cakes", - "text": "Make mug cakes" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_477", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which bright spot should we plan before next Sunday?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_future_warmth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_sunset_picnic", - "text": "One sunset picnic" - }, - { - "id": "one_walk_together", - "text": "One walk together" - }, - { - "id": "one_fresh_adventure", - "text": "One fresh adventure" - }, - { - "id": "one_very_good_cuddle", - "text": "One very good cuddle" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_sunset_picnic", - "text": "One sunset picnic" - }, - { - "id": "one_walk_together", - "text": "One walk together" - }, - { - "id": "one_fresh_adventure", - "text": "One fresh adventure" - }, - { - "id": "one_very_good_cuddle", - "text": "One very good cuddle" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_478", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which quiet date with a tiny twist sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_closeness_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "choose_postcards_that_remind_us_of_each_other", - "text": "Choose postcards that remind us of each other" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_silent_sketch_challenge", - "text": "Try a silent sketch challenge" - }, - { - "id": "listen_to_an_old_radio_drama", - "text": "Listen to an old radio drama" - }, - { - "id": "compare_two_unusual_tea_flavors", - "text": "Compare two unusual tea flavors" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "choose_postcards_that_remind_us_of_each_other", - "text": "Choose postcards that remind us of each other" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_silent_sketch_challenge", - "text": "Try a silent sketch challenge" - }, - { - "id": "listen_to_an_old_radio_drama", - "text": "Listen to an old radio drama" - }, - { - "id": "compare_two_unusual_tea_flavors", - "text": "Compare two unusual tea flavors" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_479", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should fill a ten-minute cuddle break?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cuddle_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_song_chosen_together", - "text": "One song chosen together" - }, - { - "id": "a_little_playful_teasing", - "text": "A little playful teasing" - }, - { - "id": "name_one_thing_you_appreciated_today", - "text": "Name one thing you appreciated today" - }, - { - "id": "rest_together_without_talking", - "text": "Rest together without talking" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_song_chosen_together", - "text": "One song chosen together" - }, - { - "id": "a_little_playful_teasing", - "text": "A little playful teasing" - }, - { - "id": "name_one_thing_you_appreciated_today", - "text": "Name one thing you appreciated today" - }, - { - "id": "rest_together_without_talking", - "text": "Rest together without talking" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_480", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When should a welcome-back kiss happen, if we both want one?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_kiss_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "as_soon_as_we_meet", - "text": "As soon as we meet" - }, - { - "id": "after_our_first_shared_laugh", - "text": "After our first shared laugh" - }, - { - "id": "during_a_quiet_pause", - "text": "During a quiet pause" - }, - { - "id": "right_before_we_head_out", - "text": "Right before we head out" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "as_soon_as_we_meet", - "text": "As soon as we meet" - }, - { - "id": "after_our_first_shared_laugh", - "text": "After our first shared laugh" - }, - { - "id": "during_a_quiet_pause", - "text": "During a quiet pause" - }, - { - "id": "right_before_we_head_out", - "text": "Right before we head out" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_481", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny proof of attention feels sweetest?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_compliment_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "remembering_my_usual_order", - "text": "Remembering my usual order" - }, - { - "id": "saving_a_clip_i_would_love", - "text": "Saving a clip I would love" - }, - { - "id": "noticing_one_small_change", - "text": "Noticing one small change" - }, - { - "id": "bringing_up_a_story_i_told", - "text": "Bringing up a story I told" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "remembering_my_usual_order", - "text": "Remembering my usual order" - }, - { - "id": "saving_a_clip_i_would_love", - "text": "Saving a clip I would love" - }, - { - "id": "noticing_one_small_change", - "text": "Noticing one small change" - }, - { - "id": "bringing_up_a_story_i_told", - "text": "Bringing up a story I told" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_482", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which soft evening plan sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cozy_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_drinks_and_old_photos", - "text": "Warm drinks and old photos" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_walk_under_streetlights", - "text": "A slow walk under streetlights" - }, - { - "id": "one_song_danced_in_the_dark", - "text": "One song danced in the dark" - }, - { - "id": "a_quiet_dessert_by_the_window", - "text": "A quiet dessert by the window" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_drinks_and_old_photos", - "text": "Warm drinks and old photos" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_walk_under_streetlights", - "text": "A slow walk under streetlights" - }, - { - "id": "one_song_danced_in_the_dark", - "text": "One song danced in the dark" - }, - { - "id": "a_quiet_dessert_by_the_window", - "text": "A quiet dessert by the window" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_483", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which soundtrack fits a music-and-cuddle hour?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_slow_music" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_instrumentals", - "text": "Soft instrumentals" - }, - { - "id": "rainy_day_songs", - "text": "Rainy-day songs" - }, - { - "id": "favorite_movie_scores", - "text": "Favorite movie scores" - }, - { - "id": "slow_r_b", - "text": "Slow R&B" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_instrumentals", - "text": "Soft instrumentals" - }, - { - "id": "rainy_day_songs", - "text": "Rainy-day songs" - }, - { - "id": "favorite_movie_scores", - "text": "Favorite movie scores" - }, - { - "id": "slow_r_b", - "text": "Slow R&B" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_484", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny “I want you near” move sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_affection_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "send_a_look_that_means_come_here", - "text": "Send a look that means “come here”" - }, - { - "id": "open_your_arms_for_a_hug", - "text": "Open your arms for a hug" - }, - { - "id": "lean_your_head_on_me", - "text": "Lean your head on me" - }, - { - "id": "ask_for_a_dance", - "text": "Ask for a dance" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "send_a_look_that_means_come_here", - "text": "Send a look that means “come here”" - }, - { - "id": "open_your_arms_for_a_hug", - "text": "Open your arms for a hug" - }, - { - "id": "lean_your_head_on_me", - "text": "Lean your head on me" - }, - { - "id": "ask_for_a_dance", - "text": "Ask for a dance" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_485", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should future-us keep from the way we are now?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_memory_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_way_of_teasing", - "text": "Our way of teasing" - }, - { - "id": "our_little_dates", - "text": "Our little dates" - }, - { - "id": "our_long_hugs", - "text": "Our long hugs" - }, - { - "id": "our_ability_to_make_ordinary_fun", - "text": "Our ability to make ordinary fun" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_way_of_teasing", - "text": "Our way of teasing" - }, - { - "id": "our_little_dates", - "text": "Our little dates" - }, - { - "id": "our_long_hugs", - "text": "Our long hugs" - }, - { - "id": "our_ability_to_make_ordinary_fun", - "text": "Our ability to make ordinary fun" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_486", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which cute challenge sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_sweet_tease" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "make_me_blush", - "text": "Make me blush" - }, - { - "id": "make_me_laugh_in_ten_seconds", - "text": "Make me laugh in ten seconds" - }, - { - "id": "guess_my_favorite_shared_memory", - "text": "Guess my favorite shared memory" - }, - { - "id": "guess_my_ideal_tiny_date", - "text": "Guess my ideal tiny date" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "make_me_blush", - "text": "Make me blush" - }, - { - "id": "make_me_laugh_in_ten_seconds", - "text": "Make me laugh in ten seconds" - }, - { - "id": "guess_my_favorite_shared_memory", - "text": "Guess my favorite shared memory" - }, - { - "id": "guess_my_ideal_tiny_date", - "text": "Guess my ideal tiny date" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_487", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "A quiet ten-minute pause appears—what should we do?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_no_phone_closeness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hold_hands_without_talking", - "text": "Hold hands without talking" - }, - { - "id": "trade_one_bright_moment_from_the_day", - "text": "Trade one bright moment from the day" - }, - { - "id": "share_a_slow_kiss_if_wanted", - "text": "Share a slow kiss if wanted" - }, - { - "id": "listen_to_rain_sounds", - "text": "Listen to rain sounds" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hold_hands_without_talking", - "text": "Hold hands without talking" - }, - { - "id": "trade_one_bright_moment_from_the_day", - "text": "Trade one bright moment from the day" - }, - { - "id": "share_a_slow_kiss_if_wanted", - "text": "Share a slow kiss if wanted" - }, - { - "id": "listen_to_rain_sounds", - "text": "Listen to rain sounds" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_488", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which treat run sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dessert_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "bakery_surprise", - "text": "Bakery surprise" - }, - { - "id": "milkshakes", - "text": "Milkshakes" - }, - { - "id": "frozen_yogurt", - "text": "Frozen yogurt" - }, - { - "id": "late_night_doughnuts", - "text": "Late-night doughnuts" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "bakery_surprise", - "text": "Bakery surprise" - }, - { - "id": "milkshakes", - "text": "Milkshakes" - }, - { - "id": "frozen_yogurt", - "text": "Frozen yogurt" - }, - { - "id": "late_night_doughnuts", - "text": "Late-night doughnuts" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_489", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which playful pact should last exactly one week?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_future_warmth" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "send_one_unexpected_sweet_text", - "text": "Send one unexpected sweet text" - }, - { - "id": "split_one_absurd_snack", - "text": "Split one absurd snack" - }, - { - "id": "capture_one_funny_photo", - "text": "Capture one funny photo" - }, - { - "id": "claim_one_spontaneous_hour", - "text": "Claim one spontaneous hour" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "send_one_unexpected_sweet_text", - "text": "Send one unexpected sweet text" - }, - { - "id": "split_one_absurd_snack", - "text": "Split one absurd snack" - }, - { - "id": "capture_one_funny_photo", - "text": "Capture one funny photo" - }, - { - "id": "claim_one_spontaneous_hour", - "text": "Claim one spontaneous hour" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_490", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should our no-rush evening end?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_closeness_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "share_one_favorite_moment", - "text": "Share one favorite moment" - }, - { - "id": "slow_dance_to_the_final_song", - "text": "Slow-dance to the final song" - }, - { - "id": "watch_the_sky_change", - "text": "Watch the sky change" - }, - { - "id": "choose_one_closing_joke", - "text": "Choose one closing joke" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "share_one_favorite_moment", - "text": "Share one favorite moment" - }, - { - "id": "slow_dance_to_the_final_song", - "text": "Slow-dance to the final song" - }, - { - "id": "watch_the_sky_change", - "text": "Watch the sky change" - }, - { - "id": "choose_one_closing_joke", - "text": "Choose one closing joke" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_491", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which cuddle add-on wins?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cuddle_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hot_drinks", - "text": "Hot drinks" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_snack", - "text": "A favorite snack" - }, - { - "id": "rain_sounds", - "text": "Rain sounds" - }, - { - "id": "a_shared_playlist", - "text": "A shared playlist" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hot_drinks", - "text": "Hot drinks" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_snack", - "text": "A favorite snack" - }, - { - "id": "rain_sounds", - "text": "Rain sounds" - }, - { - "id": "a_shared_playlist", - "text": "A shared playlist" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_492", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which easygoing romantic invitation feels best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_kiss_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_whether_i_want_to_come_closer", - "text": "Ask whether I want to come closer" - }, - { - "id": "hold_out_your_palm_and_ask", - "text": "Hold out your palm and ask" - }, - { - "id": "invite_me_into_a_slow_dance", - "text": "Invite me into a slow dance" - }, - { - "id": "tell_me_what_you_would_like", - "text": "Tell me what you would like" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_whether_i_want_to_come_closer", - "text": "Ask whether I want to come closer" - }, - { - "id": "hold_out_your_palm_and_ask", - "text": "Hold out your palm and ask" - }, - { - "id": "invite_me_into_a_slow_dance", - "text": "Invite me into a slow dance" - }, - { - "id": "tell_me_what_you_would_like", - "text": "Tell me what you would like" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_493", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which line should close tonight’s imaginary credits?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_compliment_choice" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_scene_being_near_you", - "text": "Best scene: being near you" - }, - { - "id": "you_looked_incredible_tonight", - "text": "You looked incredible tonight" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_being_my_favorite_co_star", - "text": "Thanks for being my favorite co-star" - }, - { - "id": "the_sequel_needs_more_flirting", - "text": "The sequel needs more flirting" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_scene_being_near_you", - "text": "Best scene: being near you" - }, - { - "id": "you_looked_incredible_tonight", - "text": "You looked incredible tonight" - }, - { - "id": "thanks_for_being_my_favorite_co_star", - "text": "Thanks for being my favorite co-star" - }, - { - "id": "the_sequel_needs_more_flirting", - "text": "The sequel needs more flirting" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_494", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which Sunday treat gets your vote?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_cozy_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "bakery_breakfast", - "text": "Bakery breakfast" - }, - { - "id": "a_cafe_style_drink", - "text": "A café-style drink" - }, - { - "id": "favorite_comfort_food", - "text": "Favorite comfort food" - 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"text": "Something playful" - }, - { - "id": "something_deeply_romantic", - "text": "Something deeply romantic" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_hopeful", - "text": "Something hopeful" - }, - { - "id": "a_song_that_feels_like_a_time_capsule", - "text": "A song that feels like a time capsule" - }, - { - "id": "something_playful", - "text": "Something playful" - }, - { - "id": "something_deeply_romantic", - "text": "Something deeply romantic" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_496", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which low-key affectionate habit should we keep?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_affection_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "kiss_hello_and_goodbye", - "text": "Kiss hello and goodbye" - }, - { - "id": "link_arms_during_a_walk", - "text": "Link arms during a walk" - }, - { - "id": "offer_a_hand_while_sitting_together", - "text": "Offer a hand while sitting together" - }, - { - "id": "brush_shoulders_when_passing", - "text": "Brush shoulders when passing" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kiss_hello_and_goodbye", - "text": "Kiss hello and goodbye" - }, - { - "id": "link_arms_during_a_walk", - "text": "Link arms during a walk" - }, - { - "id": "offer_a_hand_while_sitting_together", - "text": "Offer a hand while sitting together" - }, - { - "id": "brush_shoulders_when_passing", - "text": "Brush shoulders when passing" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_497", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which classic version of us deserves a cameo this week?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_memory_pick" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "spontaneous_us", - "text": "Spontaneous us" - }, - { - "id": "bring_back_the_spark_us", - "text": "Bring-back-the-spark us" - }, - { - "id": "curious_us", - "text": "Curious us" - }, - { - "id": "ridiculously_playful_us", - "text": "Ridiculously playful us" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "spontaneous_us", - "text": "Spontaneous us" - }, - { - "id": "bring_back_the_spark_us", - "text": "Bring-back-the-spark us" - }, - { - "id": "curious_us", - "text": "Curious us" - }, - { - "id": "ridiculously_playful_us", - "text": "Ridiculously playful us" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_498", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which easygoing spark sounds best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_sweet_tease" - 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"mechanic_no_phone_closeness" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "lean_on_each_other", - "text": "Lean on each other" - }, - { - "id": "watch_the_sky", - "text": "Watch the sky" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_quiet_joke", - "text": "Share one quiet joke" - }, - { - "id": "say_one_thing_worth_remembering", - "text": "Say one thing worth remembering" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "lean_on_each_other", - "text": "Lean on each other" - }, - { - "id": "watch_the_sky", - "text": "Watch the sky" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_quiet_joke", - "text": "Share one quiet joke" - }, - { - "id": "say_one_thing_worth_remembering", - "text": "Say one thing worth remembering" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_500", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which slow-snacking date sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "daily_sunday_slow_burn", - "quick_answer", - "mechanic_dessert_date" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "chocolate_and_berries", - "text": "Chocolate and berries" - }, - { - "id": "cheese_and_honey", - "text": "Cheese and honey" - }, - { - "id": "popcorn_with_fancy_seasoning", - "text": "Popcorn with fancy seasoning" - }, - { - "id": "cookies_dipped_in_coffee", - "text": "Cookies dipped in coffee" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "chocolate_and_berries", - "text": "Chocolate and berries" - }, - { - "id": "cheese_and_honey", - "text": "Cheese and honey" - }, - { - "id": "popcorn_with_fancy_seasoning", - "text": "Popcorn with fancy seasoning" - }, - { - "id": "cookies_dipped_in_coffee", - "text": "Cookies dipped in coffee" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_501", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "The app dares us: which tiny weird idea gets a yes?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "mode_wildcard", - "daily_wildcard", - "quick_answer" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "let_a_menu_wheel_choose_dinner", - "text": "Let a menu wheel choose dinner" - }, - { - "id": "talk_in_movie_trailer_voices", - "text": "Talk in movie-trailer voices" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_dramatic_snack_portrait", - "text": "Take a dramatic snack portrait" - }, - { - "id": "let_a_coin_choose_between_two_approved_mini_dates", - "text": "Let a coin choose between two approved mini-dates" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "let_a_menu_wheel_choose_dinner", - "text": "Let a menu wheel choose dinner" - }, - { - "id": "talk_in_movie_trailer_voices", - "text": "Talk in movie-trailer voices" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_dramatic_snack_portrait", - "text": "Take a dramatic snack portrait" - }, - { - "id": "let_a_coin_choose_between_two_approved_mini_dates", - "text": "Let a coin choose between two approved mini-dates" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_502", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Choose one harmless plot twist for today:", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "mode_wildcard", - "daily_wildcard", - "quick_answer" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "add_one_wildly_unnecessary_accessory", - "text": "Add one wildly unnecessary accessory" - }, - { - "id": "order_each_others_drink", - "text": "Order each other’s drink" - }, - { - "id": "take_the_scenic_route", - "text": "Take the scenic route" - }, - { - "id": "create_a_ridiculous_code_word", - "text": "Create a ridiculous code word" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "add_one_wildly_unnecessary_accessory", - "text": "Add one wildly unnecessary accessory" - }, - { - "id": "order_each_others_drink", - "text": "Order each other’s drink" - }, - { - "id": "take_the_scenic_route", - "text": "Take the scenic route" - }, - { - "id": "create_a_ridiculous_code_word", - "text": "Create a ridiculous code word" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_503", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which mini-mission should interrupt ordinary life?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "mode_wildcard", - "daily_wildcard", - "quick_answer" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_the_weirdest_candy", - "text": "Find the weirdest candy" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_an_old_photo", - "text": "Recreate an old photo" - }, - { - "id": "dance_through_one_full_song", - "text": "Dance through one full song" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_two_line_movie_plot_about_us", - "text": "Invent a two-line movie plot about us" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "find_the_weirdest_candy", - "text": "Find the weirdest candy" - }, - { - "id": "recreate_an_old_photo", - "text": "Recreate an old photo" - }, - { - "id": "dance_through_one_full_song", - "text": "Dance through one full song" - }, - { - "id": "invent_a_two_line_movie_plot_about_us", - "text": "Invent a two-line movie plot about us" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_504", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "The app has opinions: what should we do on impulse?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "mode_wildcard", - "daily_wildcard", - "quick_answer" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "split_a_mystery_dessert", - "text": "Split a mystery dessert" - }, - { - "id": "visit_one_saved_place_we_both_approve", - "text": "Visit one saved place we both approve" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_three_song_road_trip_playlist", - "text": "Make a three-song road-trip playlist" - }, - { - "id": "take_one_ridiculous_couple_photo", - "text": "Take one ridiculous couple photo" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "split_a_mystery_dessert", - "text": "Split a mystery dessert" - }, - { - "id": "visit_one_saved_place_we_both_approve", - "text": "Visit one saved place we both approve" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_three_song_road_trip_playlist", - "text": "Make a three-song road-trip playlist" - }, - { - "id": "take_one_ridiculous_couple_photo", - "text": "Take one ridiculous couple photo" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_505", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick tonight’s tiny dose of harmless chaos:", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "mode_wildcard", - "daily_wildcard", - "quick_answer" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "breakfast_food_at_the_wrong_time", - "text": "Breakfast food at the wrong time" - }, - { - "id": "watch_a_movie_in_an_unexpected_room", - "text": "Watch a movie in an unexpected room" - }, - { - "id": "use_only_movie_quotes_for_ten_minutes", - "text": "Use only movie quotes for ten minutes" - }, - { - "id": "a_dramatic_toast_to_nothing", - "text": "A dramatic toast to nothing" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "breakfast_food_at_the_wrong_time", - "text": "Breakfast food at the wrong time" - }, - { - "id": "watch_a_movie_in_an_unexpected_room", - "text": "Watch a movie in an unexpected room" - }, - { - "id": "use_only_movie_quotes_for_ten_minutes", - "text": "Use only movie quotes for ten minutes" - }, - { - "id": "a_dramatic_toast_to_nothing", - "text": "A dramatic toast to nothing" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_506", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which odd little rule should run the next thirty minutes?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "mode_wildcard", - "daily_wildcard", - "quick_answer" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "compliments_must_rhyme", - "text": "Compliments must rhyme" - }, - { - "id": "every_snack_gets_a_review", - "text": "Every snack gets a review" - }, - { - "id": "one_person_controls_the_soundtrack", - "text": "One person controls the soundtrack" - }, - { - "id": "one_person_narrates_like_a_documentary", - "text": "One person narrates like a documentary" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "compliments_must_rhyme", - "text": "Compliments must rhyme" - }, - { - "id": "every_snack_gets_a_review", - "text": "Every snack gets a review" - }, - { - "id": "one_person_controls_the_soundtrack", - "text": "One person controls the soundtrack" - }, - { - "id": "one_person_narrates_like_a_documentary", - "text": "One person narrates like a documentary" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_507", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which surprise would make the best story later?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "mode_wildcard", - "daily_wildcard", - "quick_answer" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_spontaneous_dessert_stop", - "text": "A spontaneous dessert stop" - }, - { - "id": "a_terrible_dance_off", - "text": "A terrible dance-off" - }, - { - "id": "an_unexpected_local_event", - "text": "An unexpected local event" - }, - { - "id": "a_new_inside_joke", - "text": "A new inside joke" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_spontaneous_dessert_stop", - "text": "A spontaneous dessert stop" - }, - { - "id": "a_terrible_dance_off", - "text": "A terrible dance-off" - }, - { - "id": "an_unexpected_local_event", - "text": "An unexpected local event" - }, - { - "id": "a_new_inside_joke", - "text": "A new inside joke" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_508", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which low-stakes dare deserves an immediate attempt?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "mode_wildcard", - "daily_wildcard", - "quick_answer" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "send_a_playful_voice_note", - "text": "Send a playful voice note" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_snack_after_both_check_ingredients", - "text": "Try a snack after both check ingredients" - }, - { - "id": "let_the_other_pick_your_next_harmless_dare", - "text": "Let the other pick your next harmless dare" - }, - { - "id": "act_out_your_day_in_thirty_seconds", - "text": "Act out your day in thirty seconds" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "send_a_playful_voice_note", - "text": "Send a playful voice note" - }, - { - "id": "try_a_snack_after_both_check_ingredients", - "text": "Try a snack after both check ingredients" - }, - { - "id": "let_the_other_pick_your_next_harmless_dare", - "text": "Let the other pick your next harmless dare" - }, - { - "id": "act_out_your_day_in_thirty_seconds", - "text": "Act out your day in thirty seconds" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_509", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny skill should we teach each other for five minutes?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "mode_wildcard", - "daily_wildcard", - "quick_answer" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_phone_photo_trick", - "text": "A phone-photo trick" - }, - { - "id": "a_simple_dance_step", - "text": "A simple dance step" - }, - { - "id": "a_card_shuffling_move", - "text": "A card-shuffling move" - }, - { - "id": "a_ridiculous_impression", - "text": "A ridiculous impression" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_phone_photo_trick", - "text": "A phone-photo trick" - }, - { - "id": "a_simple_dance_step", - "text": "A simple dance step" - }, - { - "id": "a_card_shuffling_move", - "text": "A card-shuffling move" - }, - { - "id": "a_ridiculous_impression", - "text": "A ridiculous impression" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_510", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Choose a weirdly specific date theme:", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "mode_wildcard", - "daily_wildcard", - "quick_answer" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "tourists_in_our_own_town", - "text": "Tourists in our own town" - }, - { - "id": "fancy_drinks_in_pajamas", - "text": "Fancy drinks in pajamas" - }, - { - "id": "bad_movie_critics", - "text": "Bad-movie critics" - }, - { - "id": "dessert_detectives", - "text": "Dessert detectives" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tourists_in_our_own_town", - "text": "Tourists in our own town" - }, - { - "id": "fancy_drinks_in_pajamas", - "text": "Fancy drinks in pajamas" - }, - { - "id": "bad_movie_critics", - "text": "Bad-movie critics" - }, - { - "id": "dessert_detectives", - "text": "Dessert detectives" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } - }, - { - "id": "daily_single_choice_weekly_v1_511", - "category_id": "daily_fun_mc", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "The app picked mischief—what is our move?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "sex": "neutral", - "tags": [ - "daily", - "single_choice", - "best_fit", - "mode_wildcard", - "daily_wildcard", - "quick_answer" - ], - "options": [ - { - "id": "hide_a_tiny_note", - "text": "Hide a tiny note" - }, - { - "id": "rename_tonight_like_a_movie", - "text": "Rename tonight like a movie" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_snack_by_color", - "text": "Make a snack by color" - }, - { - "id": "hold_a_one_night_only_award_ceremony", - "text": "Hold a one-night-only award ceremony" - } - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hide_a_tiny_note", - "text": "Hide a tiny note" - }, - { - "id": "rename_tonight_like_a_movie", - "text": "Rename tonight like a movie" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_snack_by_color", - "text": "Make a snack by color" - }, - { - "id": "hold_a_one_night_only_award_ceremony", - "text": "Hold a one-night-only award ceremony" - } - ], - "selection_style": "single" - } + ] } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/emotional_intimacy.json b/seed/questions/emotional_intimacy.json index 9fc7df0a..9804ea5e 100644 --- a/seed/questions/emotional_intimacy.json +++ b/seed/questions/emotional_intimacy.json @@ -2,20 +2,63 @@ "category": { "id": "emotional_intimacy", "display_name": "Emotional Intimacy", - "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples feel known, seen, comforted, emotionally safe, playful, tender, and close in ordinary moments without feeling like therapy homework.", + "description": "Warm, natural questions that help couples feel known, welcomed, comforted, wanted, admired, and emotionally close without sounding clinical or like therapy homework.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "favorite", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, + "content_version": "emotional_intimacy_v11_150_max_second_editorial_pass", + "guide_version": "QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE current dev + QUESTION_SCHEMA v7 + QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST v8", + "review_policy": "Rebuilt in six controlled 25-question batches. Every batch received schema, read-aloud, prompt-option, repetition, depth, safety, and free/premium value review before the next batch began.", + "mass_rewrite_reason": "The prior pack contained 250 questions and 150 written responses, so more than 60% shared structural failures under the current 150-question maximum and 0-to-5 written-question rule.", + "compatibility_note": "Numeric depth and answer_config are retained for the active importer. Choice questions mirror options at the top level.", + "pack_purpose": "Help partners feel emotionally known, welcomed, comforted, wanted, admired, and close through ordinary and vulnerable moments.", + "category_distinction": { + "communication": "Avoids conversation technique, feedback, and hard-talk mechanics.", + "trust": "Avoids promises, monitoring, honesty rules, privacy rules, and betrayal repair.", + "quality_time": "Focuses on emotional experience rather than scheduling or shared-time planning.", + "fun": "Uses lightness selectively without turning the pack into games or random humor." + }, + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 + "written": 5, + "single_choice": 30, + "multi_choice": 90, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10 + }, + "batch_counts": { + "batch_001_025": 25, + "batch_026_050": 25, + "batch_051_075": 25, + "batch_076_100": 25, + "batch_101_125": 25, + "batch_126_150": 25 + }, + "final_review": { + "duplicate_ids": 0, + "duplicate_prompts": 0, + "duplicate_option_sets": 0, + "repeated_full_option_text": 0, + "near_duplicate_prompts_at_0_82": 0, + "high_similarity_matches_with_rebuilt_fun_and_quality_time": 0, + "maximum_consecutive_identical_two_word_stem": 2, + "unresolved_hard_content_flags": 0, + "verdict": "production_candidate" + }, + "second_editorial_pass": { + "corrections": 25, + "focus": [ + "natural adult spoken voice", + "emotional safety", + "prompt-option fit", + "therapy-coded phrasing", + "free and premium value", + "category distinction" + ], + "result": "Preserved the full 150-question structure while naturalizing awkward phrasing, clarifying answer perspective, and replacing clinical or over-polished language with believable adult-couple wording." } } }, @@ -23,5555 +66,7896 @@ { "id": "emotional_intimacy_001", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one little thing that makes you feel emotionally close to me?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which small things make you feel emotionally close to me?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", "tags": [ - "closeness", + "everyday_closeness", "little_things", "emotional_intimacy" ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_remember_a_detail_i_mentioned", + "text": "You remember a detail I mentioned" + }, + { + "id": "you_reach_for_me_without_a_reason", + "text": "You reach for me without a reason" + }, + { + "id": "you_make_me_laugh_when_i_am_tense", + "text": "You make me laugh when I am tense" + }, + { + "id": "you_notice_when_my_mood_changes", + "text": "You notice when my mood changes" + }, + { + "id": "you_include_me_in_a_small_decision", + "text": "You include me in a small decision" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_remember_a_detail_i_mentioned", + "text": "You remember a detail I mentioned" + }, + { + "id": "you_reach_for_me_without_a_reason", + "text": "You reach for me without a reason" + }, + { + "id": "you_make_me_laugh_when_i_am_tense", + "text": "You make me laugh when I am tense" + }, + { + "id": "you_notice_when_my_mood_changes", + "text": "You notice when my mood changes" + }, + { + "id": "you_include_me_in_a_small_decision", + "text": "You include me in a small decision" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_002", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you feel truly seen by me?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "After a rough day, what kind of welcome feels best?", + "depth": 1, "tags": [ - "seen", - "known", + "comfort", + "rough_days", "emotional_intimacy" ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_hug_before_any_questions", + "text": "A long hug before any questions" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_hello_and_a_little_space", + "text": "A warm hello and a little space" + }, + { + "id": "something_funny_to_break_the_tension", + "text": "Something funny to break the tension" + }, + { + "id": "a_quiet_drink_or_snack_beside_you", + "text": "A quiet drink or snack beside you" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_long_hug_before_any_questions", + "text": "A long hug before any questions" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_hello_and_a_little_space", + "text": "A warm hello and a little space" + }, + { + "id": "something_funny_to_break_the_tension", + "text": "Something funny to break the tension" + }, + { + "id": "a_quiet_drink_or_snack_beside_you", + "text": "A quiet drink or snack beside you" + } + ] } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_003", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you feel safe being soft with me?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it to tell me when you need extra tenderness?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "softness", - "safety", + "asking_for_closeness", + "tenderness", "emotional_intimacy" ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not easy yet", + "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "emotional_intimacy_004", "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny mood of yours would you like me to get better at noticing?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a compliment from me really land?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "feelings", - "awareness", - "emotional_intimacy", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "compliments", + "feeling_known", + "emotional_intimacy" + ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_is_specific_to_something_i_did", + "text": "It is specific to something I did" + }, + { + "id": "it_sounds_spontaneous_and_unplanned", + "text": "It sounds spontaneous and unplanned" + }, + { + "id": "it_notices_more_than_my_appearance", + "text": "It notices more than my appearance" + }, + { + "id": "it_comes_with_affectionate_eye_contact", + "text": "It comes with affectionate eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "it_reflects_something_you_truly_know_about_me", + "text": "It reflects something you truly know about me" + } ], "answer_config": { - 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"text": "Share something tender or something funny?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sharing", - "emotional_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tender", - "text": "Something tender" - }, - { - "id": "funny", - "text": "Something funny" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "emotional_intimacy_249", - "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Ask for closeness or offer it first?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "needs", - "emotional_intimacy", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask", - "text": "Ask for closeness" - }, - { - "id": "offer", - "text": "Offer closeness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "emotional_intimacy_250", - "category_id": "emotional_intimacy", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Cozy reset or playful reset?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "reconnection", - "emotional_intimacy" - ], + "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cozy_reset", - "text": "Cozy reset" - }, - { - "id": "playful_reset", - "text": "Playful reset" - } - ] + "min_length": 1, + "max_length": 500, + "placeholder": "Write your answer..." } } ] diff --git a/seed/questions/fun.json b/seed/questions/fun.json index bfa7fe14..761e494e 100644 --- a/seed/questions/fun.json +++ b/seed/questions/fun.json @@ -2,21 +2,28 @@ "category": { "id": "fun", "display_name": "Fun", - "description": "Light, playful, Closer-style questions that help couples laugh, make tiny adventures, build couple lore, try low-pressure dates, invent fake awards, and make ordinary life feel more fun together.", + "description": "Playful, easy-to-answer questions that help couples laugh, discover their shared style, make small adventures, and keep ordinary life enjoyable together.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "emoji_emotions", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, + "content_version": "fun_v10_150_max_second_editorial_pass", + "guide_version": "QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE current dev + QUESTION_SCHEMA v7 + QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST current dev", + "review_policy": "Original six 25-question batches plus a second full-pack read-aloud, option-fit, repetition, premium-value, and category-distinction review", + "mass_rewrite_reason": "The prior 250-question pack exceeded the 150-question maximum and used 150 written responses, so more than 60% shared the same structural failure.", + "compatibility_note": "Numeric depth and answer_config are retained for the active importer. Choice questions also mirror options at the top level.", + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - } + "written": 5, + "single_choice": 30, + "multi_choice": 90, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10 + }, + "second_pass_corrections": 17, + "second_pass_summary": "Corrected one prompt-option mismatch, removed two semantic repeats, improved natural adult wording, strengthened couple-specific play, and eliminated repeated full option text." } }, "questions": [ @@ -24,4270 +31,5062 @@ "id": "fun_001", "category_id": "fun", "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we do together that gives instant smile energy?", + "text": "What inside joke of ours still gets you every time?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", "tags": [ - "smiles", - "shared_joy", - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" + "inside_jokes", + "couple_lore", + "fun" ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min_length": 1, + "max_length": 500, + "placeholder": "Write your answer..." } }, { "id": "fun_002", "category_id": "fun", "type": "written", - "text": "What inside joke of ours belongs in the relationship museum forever?", + "text": "What ordinary moment with me has been unexpectedly fun?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", "tags": [ - "inside_jokes", + "ordinary_moments", "memory", - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" + "fun" ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min_length": 1, + "max_length": 500, + "placeholder": "Write your answer..." } }, { "id": "fun_003", "category_id": "fun", "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny adventure could we do with almost no planning and maximum us-energy?", + "text": "What ridiculous date idea should we actually try once?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tiny_adventure", - "low_effort", - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" + "bold_ideas", + "date_play", + "fun" ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min_length": 1, + "max_length": 500, + "placeholder": "Write your answer..." } }, { "id": "fun_004", "category_id": "fun", "type": "written", - "text": "What ordinary night could we sneak a little fun into this week?", + "text": "What game or activity from your childhood would still be fun with me?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", "tags": [ - "ordinary_life", - "weekly", - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" + "nostalgia", + "games", + "fun" ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min_length": 1, + "max_length": 500, + "placeholder": "Write your answer..." } }, { "id": "fun_005", "category_id": "fun", "type": "written", - "text": "What snack would make our next couch date elite?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What funny memory of us do you never want to forget?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "snacks", - "couch_date", - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" + "memory", + "couple_lore", + "fun" ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min_length": 1, + "max_length": 500, + "placeholder": "Write your answer..." } }, { "id": "fun_006", "category_id": "fun", - "type": "written", - "text": "What song absolutely belongs on our ridiculous couple soundtrack?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "We have twenty minutes and almost no energy. 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"id": "playing_one_quick_card_game", + "text": "Playing one quick card game" + } + ] } }, { "id": "fun_007", "category_id": "fun", - "type": "written", - "text": "What movie, show, or song feels suspiciously like us?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which harmless competition would you most want to beat me at?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", "tags": [ - "media", - "identity", - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" + "competition", + "games", + "fun" + ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "mini_golf", + "text": "Mini golf" + }, + { + "id": "trivia", + "text": "Trivia" + }, + { + "id": "a_cooking_challenge", + "text": "A cooking challenge" + }, + { + "id": "a_board_game", + "text": "A board game" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "mini_golf", + "text": "Mini golf" + }, + { + "id": "trivia", + "text": "Trivia" + }, + { + "id": "a_cooking_challenge", + "text": "A cooking 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"id": "a_clear_ending_before_we_get_worn_out", + "text": "A clear ending before we get worn out" + }, + { + "id": "one_story_we_will_still_laugh_about_later", + "text": "One story we will still laugh about later" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "fun_174", + "id": "fun_043", "category_id": "fun", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What belongs in our official fun emergency kit?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which moments make us feel most on the same wavelength?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "fun_kit", - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" + "same_wavelength", + "couple_identity", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "making_the_same_joke_at_once", + "text": "Making the same joke at once" + }, + { + "id": "reading_a_room_the_same_way", + "text": "Reading a room the same way" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_the_same_food_without_discussing_it", + "text": "Choosing the same food without discussing it" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_when_the_other_wants_to_leave", + "text": "Knowing when the other wants to leave" + }, + { + "id": "getting_excited_about_the_same_strange_idea", + "text": "Getting excited about the same strange idea" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "snacks", - "text": "Snacks" + "id": "making_the_same_joke_at_once", + "text": "Making the same joke at once" }, { - "id": "playlist", - "text": "Playlist" + "id": "reading_a_room_the_same_way", + "text": "Reading a room the same way" }, { - "id": "cards", - "text": "Cards" + "id": "choosing_the_same_food_without_discussing_it", + "text": "Choosing the same food without discussing it" }, { - "id": "blanket", - "text": "Blanket" + "id": "knowing_when_the_other_wants_to_leave", + "text": "Knowing when the other wants to leave" + }, + { + "id": "getting_excited_about_the_same_strange_idea", + "text": "Getting excited about the same strange idea" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "fun_175", + "id": "fun_044", "category_id": "fun", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our official couple side quest be?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which everyday things could become a playful bet?", "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "side_quests", - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" + "playful_bets", + "games", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "who_guesses_the_ending_first", + "text": "Who guesses the ending first" + }, + { + "id": "who_picks_the_better_snack", + "text": "Who picks the better snack" + }, + { + "id": "who_spots_something_unusual_first", + "text": "Who spots something unusual first" + }, + { + "id": "who_wins_the_next_game", + "text": "Who wins the next game" + }, + { + "id": "who_remembers_a_detail_correctly", + "text": "Who remembers a detail correctly" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "find_dessert", - "text": "Find dessert" + "id": "who_guesses_the_ending_first", + "text": "Who guesses the ending first" }, { - "id": "take_a_photo", - "text": "Take a photo" + "id": "who_picks_the_better_snack", + "text": "Who picks the better snack" }, { - "id": "explore_nearby", - "text": "Explore nearby" + "id": "who_spots_something_unusual_first", + "text": "Who spots something unusual first" }, { - "id": "try_a_game", - "text": "Try a game" + "id": "who_wins_the_next_game", + "text": "Who wins the next game" + }, + { + "id": "who_remembers_a_detail_correctly", + "text": "Who remembers a detail correctly" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "fun_176", + "id": "fun_045", "category_id": "fun", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our next home-date theme be?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which reactions of mine are most entertaining to you?", "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home_date", - "fun", - "closer_style" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cozy", - "text": "Cozy" - }, - { - "id": "silly", - "text": "Silly" - }, - { - "id": "fancy_at_home", - "text": "Fancy at home" - }, - { - "id": "no_rules", - "text": "No rules" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_177", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our next car-date theme be?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "car_date", - "fun", - "closer_style" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "playlist", - "text": "Playlist" - }, - { - "id": "dessert", - "text": "Dessert" - }, - { - "id": "sunset", - "text": "Sunset" - }, - { - "id": "random_roads", - "text": "Random roads" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_178", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our next food adventure be?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "food", - "fun", - "closer_style" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "new_restaurant", - "text": "New restaurant" - }, - { - "id": "cook_something", - "text": "Cook something" - }, - { - "id": "dessert_hunt", - "text": "Dessert hunt" - }, - { - "id": "snack_board", - "text": "Snack board" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_179", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our next creative thing be?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "creativity", - "fun", - "closer_style" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "make_art", - "text": "Make art" - }, - { - "id": "build_something", - "text": "Build something" - }, - { - "id": "cook_together", - "text": "Cook together" - }, - { - "id": "make_a_playlist", - "text": "Make a playlist" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_180", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of tradition should we start?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rituals", - "fun", - "closer_style" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "weekly", - "text": "Weekly" - }, - { - "id": "monthly", - "text": "Monthly" - }, - { - "id": "seasonal", - "text": "Seasonal" - }, - { - "id": "random", - "text": "Random" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_181", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of laughter do you want more of?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "partner_reactions", "laughter", - "fun", - "closer_style" + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "when_i_try_not_to_laugh", + "text": "When I try not to laugh" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_get_unexpectedly_competitive", + "text": "When I get unexpectedly competitive" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_hear_a_wild_story", + "text": "When I hear a wild story" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_realize_you_were_right", + "text": "When I realize you were right" + }, + { + "id": "when_a_plan_changes_at_the_last_second", + "text": "When a plan changes at the last second" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "silly", - "text": "Silly" + "id": "when_i_try_not_to_laugh", + "text": "When I try not to laugh" }, { - "id": "surprised", - "text": "Surprised" + "id": "when_i_get_unexpectedly_competitive", + "text": "When I get unexpectedly competitive" }, { - "id": "inside_joke", - "text": "Inside-joke" + "id": "when_i_hear_a_wild_story", + "text": "When I hear a wild story" }, { - "id": "cant_breathe_laughing", - "text": "Can't-breathe laughing" + "id": "when_i_realize_you_were_right", + "text": "When I realize you were right" + }, + { + "id": "when_a_plan_changes_at_the_last_second", + "text": "When a plan changes at the last second" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "fun_182", + "id": "fun_046", "category_id": "fun", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of playfulness feels best?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes teasing feel fun instead of annoying?", + "depth": 3, + "tags": [ + "teasing", + "respectful_play", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_stays_away_from_real_insecurities", + "text": "It stays away from real insecurities" + }, + { + "id": "the_timing_is_good", + "text": "The timing is good" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_are_laughing", + "text": "Both people are laughing" + }, + { + "id": "it_stops_immediately_when_asked", + "text": "It stops immediately when asked" + }, + { + "id": "affection_is_obvious_underneath_it", + "text": "Affection is obvious underneath it" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_stays_away_from_real_insecurities", + "text": "It stays away from real insecurities" + }, + { + "id": "the_timing_is_good", + "text": "The timing is good" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_are_laughing", + "text": "Both people are laughing" + }, + { + "id": "it_stops_immediately_when_asked", + "text": "It stops immediately when asked" + }, + { + "id": "affection_is_obvious_underneath_it", + "text": "Affection is obvious underneath it" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_047", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which funny memories also say something real about us?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "memories", + "relationship_strengths", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_time_we_handled_chaos_well", + "text": "A time we handled chaos well" + }, + { + "id": "a_moment_we_made_each_other_brave", + "text": "A moment we made each other brave" + }, + { + "id": "a_mistake_we_recovered_from_together", + "text": "A mistake we recovered from together" + }, + { + "id": "a_night_that_was_fun_without_costing_much", + "text": "A night that was fun without costing much" + }, + { + "id": "a_plan_that_improved_when_it_fell_apart", + "text": "A plan that improved when it fell apart" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_time_we_handled_chaos_well", + "text": "A time we handled chaos well" + }, + { + "id": "a_moment_we_made_each_other_brave", + "text": "A moment we made each other brave" + }, + { + "id": "a_mistake_we_recovered_from_together", + "text": "A mistake we recovered from together" + }, + { + "id": "a_night_that_was_fun_without_costing_much", + "text": "A night that was fun without costing much" + }, + { + "id": "a_plan_that_improved_when_it_fell_apart", + "text": "A plan that improved when it fell apart" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_048", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kind of humor helps most when life is stressful?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "stress_relief", + "laughter", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_perfectly_timed_comment", + "text": "A perfectly timed comment" + }, + { + "id": "a_ridiculous_distraction", + "text": "A ridiculous distraction" + }, + { + "id": "a_familiar_joke", + "text": "A familiar joke" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_at_the_situation_together", + "text": "Laughing at the situation together" + }, + { + "id": "a_funny_plan_for_when_the_hard_part_is_over", + "text": "A funny plan for when the hard part is over" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_perfectly_timed_comment", + "text": "A perfectly timed comment" + }, + { + "id": "a_ridiculous_distraction", + "text": "A ridiculous distraction" + }, + { + "id": "a_familiar_joke", + "text": "A familiar joke" + }, + { + "id": "laughing_at_the_situation_together", + "text": "Laughing at the situation together" + }, + { + "id": "a_funny_plan_for_when_the_hard_part_is_over", + "text": "A funny plan for when the hard part is over" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_049", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which 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quick game" + }, + { + "id": "a_small_outing_when_we_need_a_change", + "text": "A small outing when we need a change" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_snack_for_us", + "text": "A snack for us" + }, + { + "id": "a_movie_that_will_make_us_laugh", + "text": "A movie that will make us laugh" + }, + { + "id": "music_for_a_drive", + "text": "Music for a drive" + }, + { + "id": "a_quick_game", + "text": "A quick game" + }, + { + "id": "a_small_outing_when_we_need_a_change", + "text": "A small outing when we need a change" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_051", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which no-plan outing sounds best right now?", + "depth": 1, + "tags": [ + "side_quest", + "spontaneous", + "fun" + ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_walk_somewhere_new", + "text": "A walk somewhere new" + }, + { + "id": "a_drive_with_one_random_turn", + "text": "A 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"free", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "find_the_strangest_useful_item", + "text": "Find the strangest useful item" + }, + { + "id": "pick_a_snack_for_each_other", + "text": "Pick a snack for each other" + }, + { + "id": "build_a_date_for_under_ten_dollars", + "text": "Build a date for under ten dollars" + }, + { + "id": "choose_the_best_terrible_decoration", + "text": "Choose the best terrible decoration" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "low_pressure", - "text": "Low-pressure" + "id": "find_the_strangest_useful_item", + "text": "Find the strangest useful item" }, { - "id": "romantic", - "text": "Romantic" + "id": "pick_a_snack_for_each_other", + "text": "Pick a snack for each other" }, { - "id": "nostalgic", - "text": "Nostalgic" + "id": "build_a_date_for_under_ten_dollars", + "text": "Build a date for under ten dollars" }, { - "id": "laughing", - "text": "Laughing" + "id": "choose_the_best_terrible_decoration", + "text": "Choose the best terrible decoration" } ] } }, { - "id": "fun_184", + "id": "fun_053", "category_id": "fun", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of fun helps stress loosen up?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which food adventure has the best chance of being a win?", + "depth": 1, "tags": [ - "stress", - "fun", - "closer_style" + "food_adventure", + "novelty", + "fun" + ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "order_something_neither_of_us_has_tried", + "text": "Order something neither of us has tried" + }, + { + "id": "make_a_dish_from_another_country", + "text": "Make a dish from another country" + }, + { + "id": "find_the_best_version_of_one_favorite_food", + "text": "Find the best version of one favorite food" + }, + { + "id": "let_each_person_choose_one_course", + "text": "Let each person choose one course" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "snacks", - "text": "Snacks" + "id": "order_something_neither_of_us_has_tried", + "text": "Order 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"max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "fun_185", + "id": "fun_088", "category_id": "fun", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What deserves a relationship museum exhibit?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which game-night rules would make the night better?", "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "lore", - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" + "game_night", + "house_rules", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_arguing_over_rules_for_more_than_two_minutes", + "text": "No arguing over rules for more than two minutes" + }, + { + "id": "the_loser_chooses_the_snack", + "text": "The loser chooses the snack" + }, + { + "id": "phones_away_during_rounds", + "text": "Phones away during rounds" + }, + { + "id": "stop_while_it_is_still_fun", + "text": "Stop while it is still fun" + }, + { + "id": "one_rematch_maximum", + "text": "One rematch maximum" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "inside_joke", - "text": "Inside joke" + "id": "no_arguing_over_rules_for_more_than_two_minutes", + "text": "No arguing over rules for more than two minutes" }, { - "id": "funny_mistake", - "text": "Funny mistake" + "id": "the_loser_chooses_the_snack", + "text": "The loser chooses the snack" }, { - "id": "best_date", - "text": "Best date" + "id": "phones_away_during_rounds", + "text": "Phones away during rounds" }, { - "id": "snack_era", - "text": "Snack era" + "id": "stop_while_it_is_still_fun", + "text": "Stop while it is still fun" + }, + { + "id": "one_rematch_maximum", + "text": "One rematch maximum" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "fun_186", + "id": "fun_089", "category_id": "fun", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make a boring day less aggressively boring?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which challenges fit us best?", "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" + "challenge_types", + "accessible_play", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "creative_challenges", + "text": "Creative challenges" + }, + { + "id": "food_challenges", + "text": "Food challenges" + }, + { + "id": "trivia_challenges", + "text": "Trivia challenges" + }, + { + "id": "photo_challenges", + "text": "Photo challenges" + }, + { + "id": "short_physical_challenges_we_can_adapt", + "text": "Short physical challenges we can adapt" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "music", - "text": "Music" + "id": "creative_challenges", + "text": "Creative challenges" }, { - "id": "a_walk", - "text": "A walk" + "id": "food_challenges", + "text": "Food challenges" }, { - "id": "a_treat", - "text": "A treat" + "id": "trivia_challenges", + "text": "Trivia challenges" }, { - "id": "a_silly_rule", - "text": "A silly rule" + "id": "photo_challenges", + "text": "Photo challenges" + }, + { + "id": "short_physical_challenges_we_can_adapt", + "text": "Short physical challenges we can adapt" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "fun_187", + "id": "fun_090", "category_id": "fun", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make us feel young, ridiculous, and happy about it?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "silly", - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "game", - "text": "Game" - }, - { - "id": "dancing", - "text": "Dancing" - }, - { - "id": "late_night_snack", - "text": "Late-night snack" - }, - { - "id": "random_adventure", - "text": "Random adventure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_188", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make us feel cozy and happy?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "cozy", - "fun", - "closer_style" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "blanket", - "text": "Blanket" - }, - { - "id": "movie", - "text": "Movie" - }, - { - "id": "good_food", - "text": "Good food" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_night", - "text": "Quiet night" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_189", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make fun feel more Closer-style: low-pressure, playful, and very us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "closer_style", - "fun", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_choices", - "text": "Tiny choices" - }, - { - "id": "inside_jokes", - "text": "Inside jokes" - }, - { - "id": "low_pressure", - "text": "Low pressure" - }, - { - "id": "us_energy", - "text": "Us energy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_190", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we definitely do again?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a surprise feel fun to you?", "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "surprises", + "preferences", + "fun" + ], "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "repeat", - "fun", - "closer_style" + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_fits_my_energy_level", + "text": "It fits my energy level" + }, + { + "id": "it_does_not_cost_too_much", + "text": "It does not cost too much" + }, + { + "id": "i_still_know_what_to_wear", + "text": "I still know what to wear" + }, + { + "id": "it_involves_something_i_already_enjoy", + "text": "It involves something I already enjoy" + }, + { + "id": "i_can_opt_out_without_disappointing_you", + "text": "I can opt out without disappointing you" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_date", - "text": "A date" + "id": "it_fits_my_energy_level", + "text": "It fits my energy level" }, { - "id": "a_trip", - "text": "A trip" + "id": "it_does_not_cost_too_much", + "text": "It does not cost too much" }, { - "id": "a_game", - "text": "A game" + "id": "i_still_know_what_to_wear", + "text": "I still know what to wear" }, { - "id": "a_tradition", - "text": "A tradition" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_191", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes us laugh together?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "laughter", - "fun", - "closer_style" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "inside_jokes", - "text": "Inside jokes" + "id": "it_involves_something_i_already_enjoy", + "text": "It involves something I already enjoy" }, { - "id": "silly_voices", - "text": "Silly voices" - }, - { - "id": "memories", - "text": "Memories" - }, - { - "id": "random_moments", - "text": "Random moments" - }, - { - "id": "playful_teasing", - "text": "Playful teasing" + "id": "i_can_opt_out_without_disappointing_you", + "text": "I can opt out without disappointing you" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4295,38 +5094,61 @@ } }, { - "id": "fun_192", + "id": "fun_091", "category_id": "fun", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What low-effort fun sounds good?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "text": "What keeps friendly competition fun?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "low_effort", - "fun", - "closer_style" + "competition", + "respectful_play", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "light_stakes", + "text": "Light stakes" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_trash_talk_that_stays_kind", + "text": "A little trash talk that stays kind" + }, + { + "id": "teams_sometimes_instead_of_always_competing", + "text": "Teams sometimes instead of always competing" + }, + { + "id": "a_funny_prize", + "text": "A funny prize" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_when_to_call_it", + "text": "Knowing when to call it" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "couch_date", - "text": "Couch date" + "id": "light_stakes", + "text": "Light stakes" }, { - "id": "snack_board", - "text": "Snack board" + "id": "a_little_trash_talk_that_stays_kind", + "text": "A little trash talk that stays kind" }, { - "id": "walk", - "text": "Walk" + "id": "teams_sometimes_instead_of_always_competing", + "text": "Teams sometimes instead of always competing" }, { - "id": "movie", - "text": "Movie" + "id": "a_funny_prize", + "text": "A funny prize" }, { - "id": "game", - "text": "Game" + "id": "knowing_when_to_call_it", + "text": "Knowing when to call it" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4334,41 +5156,61 @@ } }, { - "id": "fun_193", + "id": "fun_092", "category_id": "fun", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What belongs in our official fun survival kit?", + "text": "Which of these would you do during one song?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fun_kit", - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" + "one_song", + "micro_play", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_dance", + "text": "Slow dance" + }, + { + "id": "try_to_learn_one_dance_move", + "text": "Try to learn one dance move" + }, + { + "id": "clean_up_while_singing_badly", + "text": "Clean up while singing badly" + }, + { + "id": "trade_one_memory_the_song_brings_back", + "text": "Trade one memory the song brings back" + }, + { + "id": "sit_still_and_actually_listen_together", + "text": "Sit still and actually listen together" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "snacks", - "text": "Snacks" + "id": "slow_dance", + "text": "Slow dance" }, { - "id": "playlist", - "text": "Playlist" + "id": "try_to_learn_one_dance_move", + "text": "Try to learn one dance move" }, { - "id": "cards", - "text": "Cards" + "id": "clean_up_while_singing_badly", + "text": "Clean up while singing badly" }, { - "id": "blanket", - "text": "Blanket" + "id": "trade_one_memory_the_song_brings_back", + "text": "Trade one memory the song brings back" }, { - "id": "a_silly_rule", - "text": "A silly rule" + "id": "sit_still_and_actually_listen_together", + "text": "Sit still and actually listen together" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4376,38 +5218,61 @@ } }, { - "id": "fun_194", + "id": "fun_093", "category_id": "fun", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What tiny adventures sound doable?", + "text": "Which details could make an ordinary evening feel like an event?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tiny_adventure", - "fun", - "closer_style" + "ordinary_evening", + "make_it_special", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_theme_for_dinner", + "text": "A theme for dinner" + }, + { + "id": "clothes_slightly_nicer_than_necessary", + "text": "Clothes slightly nicer than necessary" + }, + { + "id": "a_handwritten_menu", + "text": "A handwritten menu" + }, + { + "id": "one_planned_activity", + "text": "One planned activity" + }, + { + "id": "a_photo_at_the_end", + "text": "A photo at the end" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "dessert_run", - "text": "Dessert run" + "id": "a_theme_for_dinner", + "text": "A theme for dinner" }, { - "id": "local_wander", - "text": "Local wander" + "id": "clothes_slightly_nicer_than_necessary", + "text": "Clothes slightly nicer than necessary" }, { - "id": "sunset_drive", - "text": "Sunset drive" + "id": "a_handwritten_menu", + "text": "A handwritten menu" }, { - "id": "picnic", - "text": "Picnic" + "id": "one_planned_activity", + "text": "One planned activity" }, { - "id": "new_food", - "text": "New food" + "id": "a_photo_at_the_end", + "text": "A photo at the end" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4415,38 +5280,1115 @@ } }, { - "id": "fun_195", + "id": "fun_094", "category_id": "fun", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we celebrate for no real reason?", + "text": "Which tiny things are worth celebrating together?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "tiny_wins", + "celebration", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "finishing_a_hard_week", + "text": "Finishing a hard week" + }, + { + "id": "good_news_that_is_not_life_changing", + "text": "Good news that is not life-changing" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_a_promise_to_ourselves", + "text": "Keeping a promise to ourselves" + }, + { + "id": "finally_doing_something_we_postponed", + "text": "Finally doing something we postponed" + }, + { + "id": "a_completely_ordinary_day_that_felt_good", + "text": "A completely ordinary day that felt good" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "finishing_a_hard_week", + "text": "Finishing a hard week" + }, + { + "id": "good_news_that_is_not_life_changing", + "text": "Good news that is not life-changing" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_a_promise_to_ourselves", + "text": "Keeping a promise to ourselves" + }, + { + "id": "finally_doing_something_we_postponed", + "text": "Finally doing something we postponed" + }, + { + "id": "a_completely_ordinary_day_that_felt_good", + "text": "A completely ordinary day that felt good" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_095", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which phone-based fun is better than endless scrolling?", "depth": 1, + "tags": [ + "phone_play", + "screen_use", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_photo_challenge", + "text": "A photo challenge" + }, + { + "id": "a_music_guessing_game", + "text": "A music guessing game" + }, + { + "id": "looking_up_a_random_nearby_place", + "text": "Looking up a random nearby place" + }, + { + "id": "taking_a_ridiculous_personality_quiz_together", + "text": "Taking a ridiculous personality quiz together" + }, + { + "id": "finding_the_oldest_saved_photo", + "text": "Finding the oldest saved photo" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_photo_challenge", + "text": "A photo challenge" + }, + { + "id": "a_music_guessing_game", + "text": "A music guessing game" + }, + { + "id": "looking_up_a_random_nearby_place", + "text": "Looking up a random nearby place" + }, + { + "id": "taking_a_ridiculous_personality_quiz_together", + "text": "Taking a ridiculous personality quiz together" + }, + { + "id": "finding_the_oldest_saved_photo", + "text": "Finding the oldest saved photo" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_096", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which creative dares sound fun?", + "depth": 1, + "tags": [ + "creative_dares", + "challenge", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "write_each_other_a_four_line_song", + "text": "Write each other a four-line song" + }, + { + "id": "draw_each_other_without_looking_down", + "text": "Draw each other without looking down" + }, + { + "id": "invent_a_terrible_product_together", + "text": "Invent a terrible product together" + }, + { + "id": "make_a_movie_poster_for_our_week", + "text": "Make a movie poster for our week" + }, + { + "id": "build_the_best_snack_from_three_ingredients", + "text": "Build the best snack from three ingredients" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "write_each_other_a_four_line_song", + "text": "Write each other a four-line song" + }, + { + "id": "draw_each_other_without_looking_down", + "text": "Draw each other without looking down" + }, + { + "id": "invent_a_terrible_product_together", + "text": "Invent a terrible product together" + }, + { + "id": "make_a_movie_poster_for_our_week", + "text": "Make a movie poster for our week" + }, + { + "id": "build_the_best_snack_from_three_ingredients", + "text": "Build the best snack from three ingredients" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_097", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which memory challenges would you enjoy?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "memory_game", + "couple_lore", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "guess_what_the_other_wore_on_an_early_date", + "text": "Guess what the other wore on an early date" + }, + { + "id": "name_the_first_movie_we_watched_together", + "text": "Name the first movie we watched together" + }, + { + "id": "rebuild_an_old_playlist", + "text": "Rebuild an old playlist" + }, + { + "id": "match_photos_to_the_year", + "text": "Match photos to the year" + }, + { + "id": "retell_the_same_story_and_compare_details", + "text": "Retell the same story and compare details" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "guess_what_the_other_wore_on_an_early_date", + "text": "Guess what the other wore on an early date" + }, + { + "id": "name_the_first_movie_we_watched_together", + "text": "Name the first movie we watched together" + }, + { + "id": "rebuild_an_old_playlist", + "text": "Rebuild an old playlist" + }, + { + "id": "match_photos_to_the_year", + "text": "Match photos to the year" + }, + { + "id": "retell_the_same_story_and_compare_details", + "text": "Retell the same story and compare details" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_098", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which kinds of teasing are actually fun for you?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "teasing", + "humor_preferences", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "playful_exaggerations", + "text": "Playful exaggerations" + }, + { + "id": "impressions_we_both_recognize", + "text": "Impressions we both recognize" + }, + { + "id": "callbacks_to_old_stories", + "text": "Callbacks to old stories" + }, + { + "id": "mock_competition_over_something_harmless", + "text": "Mock competition over something harmless" + }, + { + "id": "jokes_about_habits_we_both_already_laugh_at", + "text": "Jokes about habits we both already laugh at" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "playful_exaggerations", + "text": "Playful exaggerations" + }, + { + "id": "impressions_we_both_recognize", + "text": "Impressions we both recognize" + }, + { + "id": "callbacks_to_old_stories", + "text": "Callbacks to old stories" + }, + { + "id": "mock_competition_over_something_harmless", + "text": "Mock competition over something harmless" + }, + { + "id": "jokes_about_habits_we_both_already_laugh_at", + "text": "Jokes about habits we both already laugh at" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_099", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which surprises feel the most personal to you?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "surprises", + "personal_details", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "something_tied_to_a_conversation_you_remembered", + "text": "Something tied to a conversation you remembered" + }, + { + "id": "my_favorite_snack_or_drink_without_asking", + "text": "My favorite snack or drink without asking" + }, + { + "id": "a_stop_at_a_place_i_mentioned_once", + "text": "A stop at a place I mentioned once" + }, + { + "id": "a_playlist_made_for_a_specific_mood", + "text": "A playlist made for a specific mood" + }, + { + "id": "a_small_plan_built_around_something_i_already_love", + "text": "A small plan built around something I already love" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "something_tied_to_a_conversation_you_remembered", + "text": "Something tied to a conversation you remembered" + }, + { + "id": "my_favorite_snack_or_drink_without_asking", + "text": "My favorite snack or drink without asking" + }, + { + "id": "a_stop_at_a_place_i_mentioned_once", + "text": "A stop at a place I mentioned once" + }, + { + "id": "a_playlist_made_for_a_specific_mood", + "text": "A playlist made for a specific mood" + }, + { + "id": "a_small_plan_built_around_something_i_already_love", + "text": "A small plan built around something I already love" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_100", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which ways of being ridiculous together feel most like us?", + "depth": 1, + "tags": [ + "couple_identity", + "shared_humor", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "dancing_badly", + "text": "Dancing badly" + }, + { + "id": "making_up_commentary", + "text": "Making up commentary" + }, + { + "id": "turning_small_choices_into_debates", + "text": "Turning small choices into debates" + }, + { + "id": "sending_each_other_absurd_observations", + "text": "Sending each other absurd observations" + }, + { + "id": "committing_too_hard_to_a_harmless_bit", + "text": "Committing too hard to a harmless bit" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "dancing_badly", + "text": "Dancing badly" + }, + { + "id": "making_up_commentary", + "text": "Making up commentary" + }, + { + "id": "turning_small_choices_into_debates", + "text": "Turning small choices into debates" + }, + { + "id": "sending_each_other_absurd_observations", + "text": "Sending each other absurd observations" + }, + { + "id": "committing_too_hard_to_a_harmless_bit", + "text": "Committing too hard to a harmless bit" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_101", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which kinds of early-relationship fun would you enjoy bringing back?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "nostalgia", + "bring_back", + "fun" + ], "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "long_conversations_with_no_agenda", + "text": "Long conversations with no agenda" + }, + { + "id": "trying_new_places_together", + "text": "Trying new places together" + }, + { + "id": "dressing_up_more_often", + "text": "Dressing up more often" + }, + { + "id": "spontaneous_drives_or_walks", + "text": "Spontaneous drives or walks" + }, + { + "id": "being_openly_flirty_for_no_reason", + "text": "Being openly flirty for no reason" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "long_conversations_with_no_agenda", + "text": "Long conversations with no agenda" + }, + { + "id": "trying_new_places_together", + "text": "Trying new places together" + }, + { + "id": "dressing_up_more_often", + "text": "Dressing up more often" + }, + { + "id": "spontaneous_drives_or_walks", + "text": "Spontaneous drives or walks" + }, + { + "id": "being_openly_flirty_for_no_reason", + "text": "Being openly flirty for no reason" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_102", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which little traditions are worth protecting?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "traditions", + "protect_fun", + "fun" + ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_food_ritual", + "text": "A food ritual" + }, + { + "id": "a_yearly_photo", + "text": "A yearly photo" + }, + { + "id": "a_show_or_game_we_share", + "text": "A show or game we share" + }, + { + "id": "a_seasonal_outing", + "text": "A seasonal outing" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_celebration_nobody_else_knows_about", + "text": "A private celebration nobody else knows about" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_food_ritual", + "text": "A food ritual" + }, + { + "id": "a_yearly_photo", + "text": "A yearly photo" + }, + { + "id": "a_show_or_game_we_share", + "text": "A show or game we share" + }, + { + "id": "a_seasonal_outing", + "text": "A seasonal outing" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_celebration_nobody_else_knows_about", + "text": "A private celebration nobody else knows about" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_103", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps adulthood feel lighter when we do it together?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "adult_life", + "lightness", + "fun" + ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "laughing_at_the_small_stuff", + "text": "Laughing at the small stuff" + }, + { + "id": "making_a_plan_that_is_only_for_fun", + "text": "Making a plan that is only for fun" + }, + { + "id": "being_beginners_at_something_together", + "text": "Being beginners at something together" + }, + { + "id": "leaving_room_for_spontaneity", + "text": "Leaving room for spontaneity" + }, + { + "id": "celebrating_progress_before_everything_is_finished", + "text": "Celebrating progress before everything is finished" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "laughing_at_the_small_stuff", + "text": "Laughing at the small stuff" + }, + { + "id": "making_a_plan_that_is_only_for_fun", + "text": "Making a plan that is only for fun" + }, + { + "id": "being_beginners_at_something_together", + "text": "Being beginners at something together" + }, + { + "id": "leaving_room_for_spontaneity", + "text": "Leaving room for spontaneity" + }, + { + "id": "celebrating_progress_before_everything_is_finished", + "text": "Celebrating progress before everything is finished" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_104", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which kinds of fun are we missing most lately?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "current_needs", + "fun_variety", + "fun" + ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "easy_fun_at_home", + "text": "Easy fun at home" + }, + { + "id": "time_outside", + "text": "Time outside" + }, + { + "id": "something_creative", + "text": "Something creative" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_friendly_competition", + "text": "A little friendly competition" + }, + { + "id": "a_real_change_of_scenery", + "text": "A real change of scenery" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "easy_fun_at_home", + "text": "Easy fun at home" + }, + { + "id": "time_outside", + "text": "Time outside" + }, + { + "id": "something_creative", + "text": "Something creative" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_friendly_competition", + "text": "A little friendly 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"an_activity_with_something_to_do", + "text": "An activity with something to do" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_start_and_end_time", + "text": "A clear start and end time" + }, + { + "id": "a_place_where_we_can_actually_talk", + "text": "A place where we can actually talk" + }, + { + "id": "a_plan_that_does_not_require_us_to_host", + "text": "A plan that does not require us to host" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_106", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which holiday traditions would you enjoy making more playful?", + "depth": 1, + "tags": [ + "holidays", + "traditions", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_food_competition", + "text": "A food competition" + }, + { + "id": "a_yearly_photo_theme", + "text": "A yearly photo theme" + }, + { + "id": "a_game_everyone_can_join", + "text": "A game everyone can join" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_couple_tradition", + "text": "A private couple tradition" + }, + { + "id": "a_low_cost_surprise_for_each_other", + "text": "A low-cost surprise for each other" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_food_competition", + "text": "A food competition" + }, + { + "id": "a_yearly_photo_theme", + "text": "A yearly photo theme" + }, + { + "id": "a_game_everyone_can_join", + "text": "A game everyone can join" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_couple_tradition", + "text": "A private couple tradition" + }, + { + "id": "a_low_cost_surprise_for_each_other", + "text": "A low-cost surprise for each other" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_107", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which shared hobbies would be worth trying for a month?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "shared_hobbies", + "trial_period", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "cooking_something_new_each_week", + "text": "Cooking something new each week" + }, + { + "id": "photography", + "text": "Photography" + }, + { + "id": "a_co_op_game", + "text": "A co-op game" + }, + { + "id": "gardening_or_growing_something", + "text": "Gardening or growing something" + }, + { + "id": "learning_a_simple_creative_skill", + "text": "Learning a simple creative skill" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cooking_something_new_each_week", + "text": "Cooking something new each week" + }, + { + "id": "photography", + "text": "Photography" + }, + { + "id": "a_co_op_game", + "text": "A co-op game" + }, + { + "id": "gardening_or_growing_something", + "text": "Gardening or growing something" + }, + { + "id": "learning_a_simple_creative_skill", + "text": "Learning a simple creative skill" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_108", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes learning something together fun?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "learning_together", + "growth_play", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "neither_person_has_to_be_the_expert", + "text": "Neither person has to be the expert" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_laugh_at_mistakes", + "text": "We can laugh at mistakes" + }, + { + "id": "the_goal_is_small", + "text": "The goal is small" + }, + { + "id": "we_see_progress_quickly", + "text": "We see progress quickly" + }, + { + "id": "we_get_something_useful_or_memorable_from_it", + "text": "We get something useful or memorable from it" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "neither_person_has_to_be_the_expert", + "text": "Neither person has to be the expert" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_laugh_at_mistakes", + "text": "We can laugh at mistakes" + }, + { + "id": "the_goal_is_small", + "text": "The goal is small" + }, + { + "id": "we_see_progress_quickly", + "text": "We see progress quickly" + }, + { + "id": "we_get_something_useful_or_memorable_from_it", + "text": "We get something useful or memorable from it" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_109", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What usually makes fun plans harder to follow through on?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "barriers", + "practical_reality", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_make_the_plan_too_big", + "text": "We make the plan too big" + }, + { + "id": "we_wait_for_the_perfect_time", + "text": "We wait for the perfect time" + }, + { + "id": "we_are_already_tired", + "text": "We are already tired" + }, + { + "id": "the_cost_quietly_grows", + "text": "The cost quietly grows" + }, + { + "id": "nobody_wants_to_make_the_final_decision", + "text": "Nobody wants to make the final decision" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_make_the_plan_too_big", + "text": "We make the plan too big" + }, + { + "id": "we_wait_for_the_perfect_time", + "text": "We wait for the perfect time" + }, + { + "id": "we_are_already_tired", + "text": "We are already tired" + }, + { + "id": "the_cost_quietly_grows", + "text": "The cost quietly grows" + }, + { + "id": "nobody_wants_to_make_the_final_decision", + "text": "Nobody wants to make the final decision" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_110", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make fun easier to choose on busy weeks?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "busy_life", + "make_it_easy", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_short_list_of_ready_ideas", + "text": "A short list of ready ideas" + }, + { + "id": "a_budget_we_already_agreed_on", + "text": "A budget we already agreed on" + }, + { + "id": "plans_that_take_under_an_hour", + "text": "Plans that take under an hour" + }, + { + "id": "taking_turns_choosing", + "text": "Taking turns choosing" + }, + { + "id": "being_able_to_change_our_minds", + "text": "Being able to change our minds" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_short_list_of_ready_ideas", + "text": "A short list of ready ideas" + }, + { + "id": "a_budget_we_already_agreed_on", + "text": "A budget we already agreed on" + }, + { + "id": "plans_that_take_under_an_hour", + "text": "Plans that take under an hour" + }, + { + "id": "taking_turns_choosing", + "text": "Taking turns choosing" + }, + { + "id": "being_able_to_change_our_minds", + "text": "Being able to change our minds" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_111", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which ways of celebrating each other feel genuinely fun?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ "celebration", - "fun", - "closer_style" + "appreciation", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_favorite_meal", + "text": "A favorite meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_small_outing", + "text": "A small outing" + }, + { + "id": "a_funny_award_with_a_real_compliment", + "text": "A funny award with a real compliment" + }, + { + "id": "letting_the_person_choose_the_whole_evening", + "text": "Letting the person choose the whole evening" + }, + { + "id": "doing_something_they_have_wanted_to_try", + "text": "Doing something they have wanted to try" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "making_it_through", - "text": "Making it through" + "id": "a_favorite_meal", + "text": "A favorite meal" }, { - "id": "good_weather", - "text": "Good weather" + "id": "a_small_outing", + "text": "A small outing" }, { - "id": "a_tiny_win", - "text": "A tiny win" + "id": "a_funny_award_with_a_real_compliment", + "text": "A funny award with a real compliment" }, { - "id": "just_because", - "text": "Just because" + "id": "letting_the_person_choose_the_whole_evening", + "text": "Letting the person choose the whole evening" }, { - "id": "us", - "text": "Us" + "id": "doing_something_they_have_wanted_to_try", + "text": "Doing something they have wanted to try" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4454,41 +6396,61 @@ } }, { - "id": "fun_196", + "id": "fun_112", "category_id": "fun", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kinds of fun feel most like our specific brand of us?", + "text": "What should we say yes to more often?", "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "identity", - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" + "say_yes", + "openness", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "small_invitations", + "text": "Small invitations" + }, + { + "id": "trying_the_unfamiliar_menu_item", + "text": "Trying the unfamiliar menu item" + }, + { + "id": "going_outside_when_the_weather_is_good", + "text": "Going outside when the weather is good" + }, + { + "id": "taking_the_photo", + "text": "Taking the photo" + }, + { + "id": "stopping_somewhere_interesting", + "text": "Stopping somewhere interesting" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "cozy", - "text": "Cozy" + "id": "small_invitations", + "text": "Small invitations" }, { - "id": "ridiculous", - "text": "Ridiculous" + "id": "trying_the_unfamiliar_menu_item", + "text": "Trying the unfamiliar menu item" }, { - "id": "food_based", - "text": "Food-based" + "id": "going_outside_when_the_weather_is_good", + "text": "Going outside when the weather is good" }, { - "id": "adventurous", - "text": "Adventurous" + "id": "taking_the_photo", + "text": "Taking the photo" }, { - "id": "creative", - "text": "Creative" + "id": "stopping_somewhere_interesting", + "text": "Stopping somewhere interesting" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4496,38 +6458,123 @@ } }, { - "id": "fun_197", + "id": "fun_113", "category_id": "fun", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kinds of fun do we need more of?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which group activities sound enjoyable without requiring a lot of energy?", + "depth": 1, "tags": [ - "needs", - "fun", - "closer_style" + "social_fun", + "low_energy", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "team_trivia", + "text": "Team trivia" + }, + { + "id": "a_casual_meal", + "text": "A casual meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_movie_or_watch_party", + "text": "A movie or watch party" + }, + { + "id": "a_card_game", + "text": "A card game" + }, + { + "id": "a_short_local_event", + "text": "A short local event" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "silly", - "text": "Silly" + "id": "team_trivia", + "text": "Team trivia" }, + { + "id": "a_casual_meal", + "text": "A casual meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_movie_or_watch_party", + "text": "A movie or watch party" + }, + { + "id": "a_card_game", + "text": "A card game" + }, + { + "id": "a_short_local_event", + "text": "A short local event" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_114", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which words describe our best kind of fun?", + "depth": 2, + "tags": [ + "couple_identity", + "fun_style", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "relaxed", + "text": "Relaxed" + }, + { + "id": "quick_witted", + "text": "Quick-witted" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_adventurous", + "text": "A little adventurous" + }, + { + "id": "food_centered", + "text": "Food-centered" + }, + { + "id": "full_of_references_only_we_understand", + "text": "Full of references only we understand" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ { "id": "relaxed", "text": "Relaxed" }, { - "id": "romantic", - "text": "Romantic" + "id": "quick_witted", + "text": "Quick-witted" }, { - "id": "spontaneous", - "text": "Spontaneous" + "id": "a_little_adventurous", + "text": "A little adventurous" }, { - "id": "low_cost", - "text": "Low-cost" + "id": "food_centered", + "text": "Food-centered" + }, + { + "id": "full_of_references_only_we_understand", + "text": "Full of references only we understand" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4535,38 +6582,61 @@ } }, { - "id": "fun_198", + "id": "fun_115", "category_id": "fun", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What gets in the way of fun?", + "text": "What would help our sense of fun grow with us?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "barriers", - "fun", - "closer_style" + "long_term", + "evolving_fun", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "updating_old_traditions", + "text": "Updating old traditions" + }, + { + "id": "picking_activities_that_fit_our_energy_now", + "text": "Picking activities that fit our energy now" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_some_plans_spontaneous", + "text": "Keeping some plans spontaneous" + }, + { + "id": "making_room_for_different_interests", + "text": "Making room for different interests" + }, + { + "id": "not_comparing_our_fun_to_anyone_elses", + "text": "Not comparing our fun to anyone else’s" + } ], 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"fun" ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "game_night", - "text": "Game night" - }, - { - "id": "movie", - "text": "Movie" - }, - { - "id": "cook_together", - "text": "Cook together" - }, - { - "id": "dance", - "text": "Dance" - }, - { - "id": "build_a_blanket_nest", - "text": "Build a blanket nest" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "Very much" } }, { - "id": "fun_201", + "id": "fun_118", "category_id": "fun", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What outside fun should we do soon?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "outside", - "fun", - "closer_style" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "walk", - "text": "Walk" - }, - { - "id": "drive", - "text": "Drive" - }, - { - "id": "dessert_hunt", - "text": "Dessert hunt" - }, - { - "id": "local_event", - "text": "Local event" - }, - { - "id": "explore_a_store", - "text": 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"scale", + "text": "How much do you want to break our routine soon?", + "depth": 1, + "tags": [ + "routine_break", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_125", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How confident are you that we can keep having fun as life changes?", + "depth": 3, + "tags": [ + "future_fun", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very confident", + "max_label": "Very confident" + } + }, + { + "id": "fun_126", + "category_id": "fun", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What belongs on our fun list for the next month?", + "depth": 1, + "tags": [ + "monthly_list", + "planning", + "fun" + ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_free_outing", + "text": "One free outing" + }, + { + "id": "one_new_food", + 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"game_night", + "text": "Game night" + }, + { + "id": "creative_night", + "text": "Creative night" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ { "id": "game_night", "text": "Game night" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_237", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Tiny adventure or elite cozy couch?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_adventure", - "text": "Tiny adventure" }, { - "id": "cozy_couch", - "text": "Cozy couch" + "id": "creative_night", + "text": "Creative night" } ] } }, { - "id": "fun_238", + "id": "fun_146", "category_id": "fun", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Inside joke archive or fake award ceremony?", + "text": "Local wander or destination day?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", "tags": [ - "silly", - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" + "adventure_scale", + "fun" ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "inside_joke", - "text": "Inside joke" - }, - { - "id": "fake_award", - "text": "Fake award" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_239", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Dessert run or sunset drive?", - "depth": 1, "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "date_night", - "fun", - "closer_style" + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "local_wander", + "text": "Local wander" + }, + { + "id": "destination_day", + "text": "Destination day" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ - { - "id": "dessert_run", - "text": "Dessert run" - }, - { - "id": "sunset_drive", - "text": "Sunset drive" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_240", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Silly challenge or sweet surprise?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "play", - "fun", - "closer_style" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "silly_challenge", - "text": "Silly challenge" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_surprise", - "text": "Sweet surprise" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_241", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Home adventure or local wander?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "adventure", - "fun", - "closer_style" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "home_adventure", - "text": "Home adventure" - }, { "id": "local_wander", "text": "Local wander" + }, + { + "id": "destination_day", + "text": "Destination day" } ] } }, { - "id": "fun_242", + "id": "fun_147", "category_id": "fun", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Dance in the kitchen or sing in the car?", + "text": "Cook something ambitious or order something unfamiliar?", "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "music", - "fun", - "closer_style" + "food_choice", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "cook_something_ambitious", + "text": "Cook something ambitious" + }, + { + "id": "order_something_unfamiliar", + "text": "Order something unfamiliar" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "kitchen_dance", - "text": "Dance in the kitchen" + "id": "cook_something_ambitious", + "text": "Cook something ambitious" }, { - "id": "car_sing", - "text": "Sing in the car" + "id": "order_something_unfamiliar", + "text": "Order something unfamiliar" } ] } }, { - "id": "fun_243", + "id": "fun_148", "category_id": "fun", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Try a new food or revisit an old favorite?", + "text": "Flirty challenge or ridiculous challenge?", "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "food", - "fun", - "closer_style" + "challenge_style", + "light_flirt", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "flirty_challenge", + "text": "Flirty challenge" + }, + { + "id": "ridiculous_challenge", + "text": "Ridiculous challenge" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "new_food", - "text": "Try a new food" + "id": "flirty_challenge", + "text": "Flirty challenge" }, { - "id": "old_favorite", - "text": "Old favorite" + "id": "ridiculous_challenge", + "text": "Ridiculous challenge" } ] } }, { - "id": "fun_244", + "id": "fun_149", "category_id": "fun", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Plan the fun or wing it?", + "text": "Take photos or leave the phones away?", "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "planning", - "fun", - "closer_style" + "memory_style", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "take_photos", + "text": "Take photos" + }, + { + "id": "leave_the_phones_away", + "text": "Leave the phones away" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "plan_fun", - "text": "Plan the fun" + "id": "take_photos", + "text": "Take photos" }, { - "id": "wing_it", - "text": "Wing it" + "id": "leave_the_phones_away", + "text": "Leave the phones away" } ] } }, { - "id": "fun_245", + "id": "fun_150", "category_id": "fun", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Free date or splurge date?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Start a new tradition or break an old routine?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "budget", - "fun", - "closer_style" + "tradition_vs_change", + "fun" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "start_a_new_tradition", + "text": "Start a new tradition" + }, + { + "id": "break_an_old_routine", + "text": "Break an old routine" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "free_date", - "text": "Free date" + "id": "start_a_new_tradition", + "text": "Start a new tradition" }, { - "id": "splurge_date", - "text": "Splurge date" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_246", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Make something or go somewhere?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "creativity", - "fun", - "closer_style" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "make_something", - "text": "Make something" - }, - { - "id": "go_somewhere", - "text": "Go somewhere" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_247", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Movie night or made-up game?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "games", - "fun", - "closer_style" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "movie_night", - "text": "Movie night" - }, - { - "id": "made_up_game", - "text": "Made-up game" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_248", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Silly photo or serious cute photo?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "photos", - "fun", - "closer_style" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "silly_photo", - "text": "Silly photo" - }, - { - "id": "cute_photo", - "text": "Serious cute photo" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_249", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Bring back an old tradition or invent a new one?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rituals", - "fun", - "closer_style" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "old_tradition", - "text": "Old tradition" - }, - { - "id": "new_tradition", - "text": "New one" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "fun_250", - "category_id": "fun", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Relationship museum or ridiculous couple bucket list?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "lore", - "fun", - "closer_style", - "closer_fun_polish", - "fun_first", - "playful" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "museum", - "text": "Relationship museum" - }, - { - "id": "bucket_list", - "text": "Couple bucket list" + "id": "break_an_old_routine", + "text": "Break an old routine" } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/quality_time.json b/seed/questions/quality_time.json index 5e7b05cd..67b57109 100644 --- a/seed/questions/quality_time.json +++ b/seed/questions/quality_time.json @@ -2,20 +2,45 @@ "category": { "id": "quality_time", "display_name": "Quality Time", - "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples protect presence, connection, low-effort closeness, rituals, dates, memories, and playful together-time without making quality time feel like homework.", + "description": "Warm, easy-to-answer questions that help couples feel present, known, relaxed, and intentionally together through ordinary routines, quiet closeness, meaningful conversation, affection, and realistic plans.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "schedule_heart", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, + "content_version": "quality_time_v11_150_max_second_editorial_pass", + "guide_version": "QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE v10 + QUESTION_SCHEMA v7 + QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST v10", + "review_policy": "Rebuilt in six 25-question batches with full-pack checks for spoken voice, option fit, pacing, repetition, premium value, inclusivity, prediction, low-energy play, flirting, and invitations.", + "mass_rewrite_reason": "The prior pack contained 250 questions and 150 written responses, so more than 60% shared structural failures under the current 150-question and written-question limits.", + "compatibility_note": "Numeric depth and answer_config are retained for the active importer. Choice questions mirror options at the top level.", + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 + "written": 5, + "single_choice": 30, + "multi_choice": 90, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10 + }, + "second_pass_summary": "Reordered the full pack so every 10-question window mixes light connection, practical preferences, couple lore, prediction, flirting, and an actionable invitation; then completed a read-aloud and answer-fit review.", + "coverage_targets": { + "flirty_questions": 15, + "invitation_or_action_questions": 24, + "prediction_and_reveal_questions": 15, + "couple_lore_questions": 25, + "low_energy_questions": 38, + "adult_humor_questions": 14 + }, + "second_editorial_pass": { + "corrections": 18, + "focus": [ + "natural adult spoken voice", + "prompt-option fit", + "near-duplicate mechanics", + "category distinction", + "free and premium value" + ], + "result": "Preserved the 150-question structure while removing awkward jargon, one duplicated invitation mechanic, one overlapping settings question, and several worksheet-like phrases." } } }, @@ -23,5671 +48,8020 @@ { "id": "quality_time_001", "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of time together makes you think, 'Yep, this is us'?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes staying home feel intentional instead of automatic?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "connection", - "presence", - "quality_time", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "home_time", + "intentionality", + "low_energy", + "quality_time" + ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_choose_a_start_time", + "text": "We choose a start time" + }, + { + "id": "we_change_the_usual_setup", + "text": "We change the usual setup" + }, + { + "id": "we_pick_something_both_of_us_want", + "text": "We pick something both of us want" + }, + { + "id": "we_put_away_the_most_distracting_tasks", + "text": "We put away the most distracting tasks" + }, + { + "id": "we_include_one_detail_that_feels_special", + "text": "We include one detail that feels special" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_choose_a_start_time", + "text": "We choose a start time" + }, + { + "id": "we_change_the_usual_setup", + "text": "We change the usual setup" + }, + { + "id": "we_pick_something_both_of_us_want", + "text": "We pick something both of us want" + }, + { + "id": "we_put_away_the_most_distracting_tasks", + "text": "We put away the most distracting tasks" + }, + { + "id": "we_include_one_detail_that_feels_special", + "text": "We include one detail that feels special" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_002", "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny together-moment deserves a little spotlight because it was sweeter than it looked?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which low-key flirting move gets my attention fastest—your guess?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tiny_moments", - "sweetness", - "quality_time", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "prediction", + "flirty", + "partner_preferences", + "quality_time" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_quiet_compliment", + "text": "A quiet compliment" + }, + { + "id": "a_meaningful_look", + "text": "A meaningful look" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_touch", + "text": "A playful touch" + }, + { + "id": "a_message_that_makes_me_smile", + "text": "A message that makes me smile" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_quiet_compliment", + "text": "A quiet compliment" + }, + { + "id": "a_meaningful_look", + "text": "A meaningful look" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_touch", + "text": "A playful touch" + }, + { + "id": "a_message_that_makes_me_smile", + "text": "A message that makes me smile" + } + ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_003", "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one low-effort, high-cozy way we can feel close this week?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much would a little uninterrupted time together help today?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", "tags": [ - "low_effort", - "weekly", - "quality_time", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "current_need", + "invitation", + "quality_time" ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much", + "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "quality_time_004", "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "written", - "text": "What fun little thing could we do together without turning it into a whole production?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What could make mornings feel more like shared time?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "spontaneous", - "quality_time", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "mornings", + "routines", + "low_energy", + "quality_time" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "sitting_together_for_the_first_drink_of_the_day", + "text": "Sitting together for the first drink of the day" + }, + { + "id": "giving_each_other_a_real_goodbye", + "text": "Giving each other a real goodbye" + }, + { + "id": "sharing_the_plan_before_things_get_busy", + "text": "Sharing the plan before things get busy" + }, + { + "id": "sending_one_thoughtful_message_later", + "text": "Sending one thoughtful message later" + }, + { + "id": "protecting_a_few_quiet_minutes", + "text": "Protecting a few quiet minutes" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "sitting_together_for_the_first_drink_of_the_day", + "text": "Sitting together for the first drink of the day" + }, + { + "id": "giving_each_other_a_real_goodbye", + "text": "Giving each other a real goodbye" + }, + { + "id": "sharing_the_plan_before_things_get_busy", + "text": "Sharing the plan before things get busy" + }, + { + "id": "sending_one_thoughtful_message_later", + "text": "Sending one thoughtful message later" + }, + { + "id": "protecting_a_few_quiet_minutes", + "text": "Protecting a few quiet minutes" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_005", "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes time with me feel easy in the best 'we can just be us' way?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Put it on the calendar or decide the day of?", + "depth": 1, "tags": [ - "ease", - "connection", - "quality_time", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "planning_style", + "quick_choice", + "quality_time" + ], + "access": "free", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "put_it_on_the_calendar", + "text": "Put it on the calendar" + }, + { + "id": "decide_the_day_of", + "text": "Decide the day of" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "put_it_on_the_calendar", + "text": "Put it on the calendar" + }, + { + "id": "decide_the_day_of", + "text": "Decide the day of" + } + ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_006", "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes time with me feel playful enough to wake up the fun part of us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make a new tradition feel natural for us?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ - "play", - "fun_first", - "quality_time", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "traditions", + "low_pressure", + "quality_time" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_grows_from_something_we_already_enjoy", + "text": "It grows from something we already enjoy" + }, + { + "id": "it_does_not_require_a_perfect_schedule", + "text": "It does not require a perfect schedule" + }, + { + "id": "both_of_us_help_shape_it", + "text": "Both of us help shape it" + }, + { + "id": "it_has_a_small_recognizable_detail", + "text": "It has a small recognizable detail" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_skip_it_without_guilt_when_life_gets_messy", + "text": "We can skip it without guilt when life gets messy" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_grows_from_something_we_already_enjoy", + "text": "It grows from something we already enjoy" + }, + { + "id": "it_does_not_require_a_perfect_schedule", + "text": "It does not require a perfect schedule" + }, + { + "id": "both_of_us_help_shape_it", + "text": "Both of us help shape it" + }, + { + "id": "it_has_a_small_recognizable_detail", + "text": "It has a small recognizable detail" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_skip_it_without_guilt_when_life_gets_messy", + "text": "We can skip it without guilt when life gets messy" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_007", "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes time with me feel like a deep exhale?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When we are both overloaded, what kind of connection is realistic?", + "depth": 1, "tags": [ - "peace", - "calm", - "quality_time", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "busy_life", + "low_energy", + "invitation", + "quality_time" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_ten_minute_check_in", + "text": "A ten-minute check-in" + }, + { + "id": "eating_one_meal_without_multitasking", + "text": "Eating one meal without multitasking" + }, + { + "id": "a_quiet_hug_and_an_early_night", + "text": "A quiet hug and an early night" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_one_easy_thing_for_the_weekend", + "text": "Choosing one easy thing for the weekend" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_ten_minute_check_in", + "text": "A ten-minute check-in" + }, + { + "id": "eating_one_meal_without_multitasking", + "text": "Eating one meal without multitasking" + }, + { + "id": "a_quiet_hug_and_an_early_night", + "text": "A quiet hug and an early night" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_one_easy_thing_for_the_weekend", + "text": "Choosing one easy thing for the weekend" + } + ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_008", "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes time with me feel romantic without needing a fancy plan?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps quality time work when one of us is tired?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", "tags": [ - "romance", - "connection", - "quality_time", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "low_energy", + "accessibility", + "quality_time" + ], + "access": "premium", + "sex": "neutral", + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_lower_energy_person_chooses_the_pace", + "text": "The lower-energy person chooses the pace" + }, + { + "id": "the_plan_can_be_shortened_without_disappointment", + "text": "The plan can be shortened without disappointment" + }, + { + "id": "comfort_matters_more_than_novelty", + "text": "Comfort matters more than novelty" + }, + { + "id": "we_count_quiet_closeness_as_enough", + "text": "We count quiet closeness as enough" + }, + { + "id": "we_save_serious_topics_for_a_better_moment", + "text": "We save serious topics for a better moment" + } ], "answer_config": { - 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"type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes time together feel romantic?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What could make a normal evening feel quietly romantic?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", "tags": [ "romance", + "flirty", + "ordinary_time", "quality_time" ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_pace", - "text": "Slow pace" - }, - { - "id": "touch", - "text": "Touch" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_words", - "text": "Sweet words" - }, - { - "id": "thoughtful_plan", - "text": "Thoughtful plan" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "quality_time_157", - "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes time together feel peaceful?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "peace", - "quality_time" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" - }, - { - "id": "no_rushing", - "text": "No rushing" - }, - { - "id": "soft_space", - "text": "Soft space" - }, - { - "id": "simple_plan", - "text": "Simple plan" - 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"min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not present", - "max_label": "Very present" - } - }, - { - "id": "quality_time_225", - "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we need more low-effort connection?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "low_effort", - "quality_time" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "quality_time_226", - "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we need more playful together-time?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "play", - "quality_time", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "quality_time_227", - "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we need more quiet closeness?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "quiet", - 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"max_label": "Very hopeful" - } - }, - { - "id": "quality_time_236", - "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Couch date or car date?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "date_night", - "quality_time" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "couch_date", - "text": "Couch date" - }, - { - "id": "car_date", - "text": "Car date" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "quality_time_237", - "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Quiet closeness or playful chaos?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "quality_time" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" - }, - { - "id": "playful_chaos", - "text": "Playful chaos" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "quality_time_238", - "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Phone-free talk or cozy movie cuddle?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "connection", - "quality_time", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "phone_free_talk", - "text": "Phone-free talk" - }, - { - "id": "movie_cuddle", - "text": "Movie cuddle" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "quality_time_239", - "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Home date or outside date?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "date_night", - "quality_time" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "home_date", - "text": "Home date" - }, - { - "id": "outside_date", - "text": "Outside date" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "quality_time_240", - "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Tiny ritual or tiny adventure?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rituals", - "quality_time" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_ritual", - "text": "Tiny ritual" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_adventure", - "text": "Tiny adventure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "quality_time_241", - "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Deep talk or silly game?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "conversation", - "quality_time" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "deep_talk", - "text": "Deep talk" - }, - { - "id": "silly_game", - "text": "Silly game" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "quality_time_242", - "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Walk together or drive together?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "adventure", - "quality_time" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "walk", - "text": "Walk together" - }, - { - "id": "drive", - "text": "Drive together" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "quality_time_243", - "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Plan it or surprise me?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "planning", - "quality_time" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "plan_it", - "text": "Plan it" - }, - { - "id": "surprise_me", - "text": "Surprise me" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "quality_time_244", - "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "No-phone hour or snack-powered date?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "phones", - "quality_time", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_phone_hour", - "text": "No-phone hour" - }, - { - "id": "snack_date", - "text": "Snack date" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "quality_time_245", - "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Cozy night or mini adventure?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "quality_time" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cozy_night", - "text": "Cozy night" - }, - { - "id": "mini_adventure", - "text": "Mini adventure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "quality_time_246", - "category_id": "quality_time", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Talk first or touch first?", - 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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we can do this week to make things feel steadier?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "weekly", - "stability", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_012", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of check-in feels supportive instead of intense?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "check_in", - "support", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_013", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps a hard truth feel safe to say?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "truth", - "safety", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_014", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps a hard truth feel safe to hear?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "truth", - "listening", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_015", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one gentle way to talk about something that still hurts?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "hurt", - "gentleness", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_016", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you feel like your feelings are being taken seriously?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "feelings", - "validation", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_017", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you know I am listening and not just waiting to respond?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - 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"boundaries", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_021", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of privacy still matters while trust is healing?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "boundaries", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_022", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one boundary that would help trust feel safer?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "trust", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_023", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes follow-through feel loving to you?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "follow_through", - "love", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - 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"type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel safe answering questions honestly?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "honesty", - "questions", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_028", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing that makes trust feel fragile?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fragile_trust", - "awareness", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_029", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing that makes trust feel stronger?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "stronger_trust", - "progress", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_030", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you handle a trigger gently?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "triggers", - "gentleness", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_031", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps me understand when something has triggered you?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "triggers", - "understanding", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_032", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of repair helps after a trust wobble?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "repair", - "trust", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_033", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about trust without turning it into a fight?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "communication", - 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"max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_037", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does kindness look like while trust is rebuilding?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "kindness", - "healing", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_038", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does teamwork look like while trust is rebuilding?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "healing", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_039", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us celebrate progress without ignoring pain?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "progress", - "pain", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_040", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - 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"questions", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_shame", - "text": "No shame" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_158", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we go slowly with?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "pace", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "questions", - "text": "Questions" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "forgiveness", - "text": "Forgiveness" - }, - { - "id": "big_promises", - "text": "Big promises" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_159", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes progress feel believable?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "progress", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_160", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps after a trigger?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "triggers", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "listen", - "text": "Listen" - }, - { - "id": "reassure", - "text": "Reassure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_161", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of check-in feels best?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "check_in", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "short", - "text": "Short" - }, - { - "id": "gentle", - "text": "Gentle" - }, - { - "id": "scheduled", - "text": "Scheduled" - }, - { - "id": "when_needed", - "text": "When needed" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_162", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps trust grow slowly?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "trust", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "daily_actions", - "text": "Daily actions" - }, - { - "id": "truth", - "text": "Truth" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_163", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel emotionally safe?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "emotional_safety", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - 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"text": "Clear updates" - }, - { - "id": "open_questions", - "text": "Open questions" - }, - { - "id": "shared_context", - "text": "Shared context" - }, - { - "id": "not_monitoring", - "text": "Not monitoring" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_168", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes transparency feel unhealthy?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "transparency", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "checking_up", - "text": "Checking up" - }, - { - "id": "interrogating", - "text": "Interrogating" - }, - { - "id": "no_privacy", - "text": "No privacy" - }, - { - "id": "pressure", - "text": "Pressure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_169", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps if one of us feels defensive?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "defensiveness", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "soft_tone", - "text": "Soft tone" - }, - { - "id": "own_part", - "text": "Own a part" - }, - { - "id": "remember_goal", - "text": "Remember goal" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_170", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when suspicion shows up?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "suspicion", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "facts", - "text": "Facts" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_questions", - "text": "Gentle questions" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_171", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps if one of us feels ashamed?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "shame", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "accountability", - "text": "Accountability" - }, - { - "id": "no_pile_on", - "text": "No pile-on" - }, - { - "id": "hope", - "text": "Hope" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_172", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps if one of us feels hurt again?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "hurt", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen_first", - "text": "Listen first" - }, - { - "id": "validate", - "text": "Validate" - }, - { - "id": "ask_what_helps", - "text": "Ask what helps" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_173", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of boundary protects rebuilding trust?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_expectations", - "text": "Clear expectations" - }, - { - "id": "time_to_heal", - "text": "Time to heal" - }, - { - "id": "honest_updates", - "text": "Honest updates" - }, - { - "id": "no_rushing", - "text": "No rushing" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_174", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of promise should we avoid making?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "promises", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "too_big", - "text": "Too big" - }, - { - "id": "unclear", - "text": "Unclear" - }, - { - "id": "pressure_based", - "text": "Pressure-based" - }, - { - "id": "not_ready", - "text": "Not ready" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_175", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of promise feels worth making?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "promises", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - 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"depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "check_in", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "short", - "text": "Short" - }, - { - "id": "honest", - "text": "Honest" - }, - { - "id": "gentle", - "text": "Gentle" - }, - { - "id": "next_step", - "text": "Next step" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_186", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a trust check-in too much?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "check_in", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "too_long", - "text": "Too long" - }, - { - "id": "too_often", - "text": "Too often" - }, - { - "id": "too_intense", - "text": "Too intense" - }, - { - "id": "too_accusing", - "text": "Too accusing" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_187", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps with trust around phones?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "phones", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "healthy_transparency", - "text": "Healthy transparency" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "clear_boundaries", - "text": "Clear boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "no_snooping", - "text": "No snooping" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_188", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps with trust around time away?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "time_away", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "updates", - "text": "Updates" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "clear_plans", - "text": "Clear plans" - }, - { - "id": "trust_building", - "text": "Trust-building" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_189", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps with trust around friendships?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "friendships", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "openness", - "text": "Openness" - }, - { - "id": "boundaries", - "text": "Boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_190", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us protect progress?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "progress", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "notice_it", - "text": "Notice it" - }, - { - "id": "keep_promises", - "text": "Keep promises" - }, - { - "id": "repair_setbacks", - "text": "Repair setbacks" - }, - { - "id": "stay_kind", - "text": "Stay kind" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_191", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "id": "rt_001", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps trust feel safer?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What small thing I do lately actually feels trustworthy?", + "depth": "medium", "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "safety", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow-through" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_kepx", "text": "Following through on small things" }, + { "id": "opt_qnbl", "text": "Telling me the truth quickly" }, + { "id": "opt_vwrm", "text": "Checking in without being asked" }, + { "id": "opt_jhct", "text": "Sticking to what we agreed on" }, + { "id": "opt_pzfs", "text": "Being where I say I will be" } + ] }, { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_192", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "id": "rt_002", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes rebuilding trust harder?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What helps you feel actually heard by me?", + "depth": "medium", "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "difficulty", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "rushing", - "text": "Rushing" - }, - { - "id": "defensiveness", - "text": "Defensiveness" - }, - { - "id": "broken_promises", - "text": "Broken promises" - }, - { - "id": "avoidance", - "text": "Avoidance" - }, - { - "id": "pressure", - "text": "Pressure" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_uqal", "text": "Letting me finish my thought" }, + { "id": "opt_bwvn", "text": "Asking a real follow-up question" }, + { "id": "opt_mxrk", "text": "Noticing how I feel, not just what I said" }, + { "id": "opt_fyld", "text": "Saying back what I meant in your own words" }, + { "id": "opt_dzqg", "text": "Not jumping straight to fixing it" } + ] }, { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_193", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "id": "rt_003", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps during a trigger?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Which of these would feel like a small win this week?", + "depth": "light", "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "triggers", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "calm_tone", - "text": "Calm tone" - }, - { - "id": "validation", - "text": "Validation" - }, - { - "id": "space", - "text": "Space" - }, - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "truth", - "text": "Truth" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_tncs", "text": "A short check-in over coffee" }, + { "id": "opt_lmfb", "text": "A walk with no phones" }, + { "id": "opt_hrwd", "text": "A quick goodnight text while apart" }, + { "id": "opt_vbpx", "text": "A plan for one shared meal" }, + { "id": "opt_kqzr", "text": "A ten-minute talk before bed" } + ] }, { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_194", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes accountability feel real?", - "depth": 5, + "id": "rt_004", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes an apology feel real to you?", + "depth": "medium", "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "accountability", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_words", - "text": "Specific words" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - }, - { - "id": "no_excuses", - "text": "No excuses" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_gxpk", "text": "It names what happened, not just how I felt" }, + { "id": "opt_sjct", "text": "It comes quickly, not after I push" }, + { "id": "opt_yrlz", "text": "It comes with a clear next step" }, + { "id": "opt_pqnh", "text": "It is followed by changed behavior" }, + { "id": "opt_fvmq", "text": "It leaves room for my feelings" } + ] }, { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_195", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps a trust talk go better?", - "depth": 5, + "id": "rt_005", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How safe does our relationship feel to you right now?", + "depth": "medium", "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_tone", - "text": "Gentle tone" - }, - { - "id": "one_topic", - "text": "One topic" - }, - { - "id": "breaks_allowed", - "text": "Breaks allowed" - }, - { - "id": "clear_next_step", - "text": "Clear next step" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 + "scale": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Still pretty shaky", + "max_label": "Mostly steady" } }, { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_196", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "id": "rt_006", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What supports healthy transparency?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "transparency", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_updates", - "text": "Clear updates" - }, - { - "id": "respect_privacy", - "text": "Respect privacy" - }, - { - "id": "answer_questions", - "text": "Answer questions" - }, - { - "id": "no_monitoring", - "text": "No monitoring" - }, - { - "id": "shared_agreements", - "text": "Shared agreements" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_197", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps after a setback?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "setbacks", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "own_it", - "text": "Own it" - }, - { - "id": "repair_quickly", - "text": "Repair quickly" - }, - { - "id": "name_pattern", - "text": "Name pattern" - }, - { - "id": "reassure", - "text": "Reassure" - }, - { - "id": "learn", - "text": "Learn" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_198", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps rebuild emotional safety?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "emotional_safety", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "consistent_actions", - "text": "Consistent actions" - }, - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_199", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps rebuild everyday trust?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "showing_up", - "text": "Showing up" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_small_promises", - "text": "Keeping small promises" - }, - { - "id": "being_honest", - "text": "Being honest" - }, - { - "id": "checking_in", - "text": "Checking in" - }, - { - "id": "staying_kind", - "text": "Staying kind" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_200", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps past-focused conversations feel safer?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "past", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_purpose", - "text": "Clear purpose" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_words", - "text": "Gentle words" - }, - { - "id": "breaks", - "text": "Breaks" - }, - { - "id": "no_pile_on", - "text": "No pile-on" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_201", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us move forward carefully?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_steps", - "text": "Small steps" - }, - { - "id": "realistic_promises", - "text": "Realistic promises" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "celebrate_progress", - "text": "Celebrate progress" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_202", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes reassurance land better?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "reassurance", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific", - "text": "Specific" - }, - { - "id": "calm", - "text": "Calm" - }, - { - "id": "repeated", - "text": "Repeated kindly" - }, - { - "id": "backed_by_action", - "text": "Backed by action" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_203", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps if one of us feels suspicious?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "suspicion", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "answer_gently", - "text": "Answer gently" - }, - { - "id": "check_facts", - "text": "Check facts" - }, - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "name_fear", - "text": "Name fear" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_204", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when forgiveness is not ready?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "forgiveness", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "continued_care", - "text": "Continued care" - }, - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "no_rushing", - "text": "No rushing" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_205", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes trust feel like teamwork?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_agreements", - "text": "Shared agreements" - }, - { - "id": "both_listen", - "text": "Both listen" - }, - { - "id": "both_follow_through", - "text": "Both follow through" - }, - { - "id": "both_care", - "text": "Both care" - }, - { - "id": "no_blame_game", - "text": "No blame game" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_206", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What protects trust during conflict?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "conflict", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_threats", - "text": "No threats" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "pause_allowed", - "text": "Pause allowed" - }, - { - "id": "kind_tone", - "text": "Kind tone" - }, - { - "id": "repair_after", - "text": "Repair after" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_207", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us notice progress?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "progress", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_small_wins", - "text": "Name small wins" - }, - { - "id": "track_promises", - "text": "Track promises" - }, - { - "id": "say_thank_you", - "text": "Say thank you" - }, - { - "id": "stay_patient", - "text": "Stay patient" - }, - { - "id": "look_back_monthly", - "text": "Look back monthly" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_208", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when one of us needs space?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "space", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_time", - "text": "Clear time" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "come_back", - "text": "Come back" - }, - { - "id": "no_punishing", - "text": "No punishing" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_209", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes a boundary easier to trust?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_words", - "text": "Clear words" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow-through" - }, - { - "id": "mutual_respect", - "text": "Mutual respect" - }, - { - "id": "not_a_threat", - "text": "Not a threat" - }, - { - "id": "revisit_it", - "text": "Revisit it" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_210", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us keep rebuilding when it is hard?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "perseverance", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "remember_why", - "text": "Remember why" - }, - { - "id": "small_steps", - "text": "Small steps" - }, - { - "id": "support", - "text": "Support" - }, - { - "id": "truth", - "text": "Truth" - }, - { - "id": "hope", - "text": "Hope" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_211", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does trust feel between us today?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "How would a good check-in between us usually start?", + "depth": "medium", "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "safety", - "today", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe" - } + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_mthb", "text": "A simple 'how are we doing?'" }, + { "id": "opt_xrfk", "text": "Walking side by side, not face to face" }, + { "id": "opt_wlcq", "text": "After a calm moment, not in the middle of stress" }, + { "id": "opt_hbpn", "text": "With one specific thing to talk about" }, + { "id": "opt_dnqr", "text": "After I have had time to think" } + ] }, { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_212", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does consistency matter right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "consistency", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_213", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to ask honest questions?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "questions", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_214", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to answer honestly?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "honesty", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_215", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would a gentle check-in help us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "check_in", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_216", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How hopeful do you feel about rebuilding trust?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "hope", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not hopeful", - "max_label": "Very hopeful" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_217", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do small actions matter right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "small_actions", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_218", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much pressure do you feel to be okay quickly?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pressure", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "None", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_219", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How respected does your pace feel?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pace", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not respected", - "max_label": "Very respected" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_220", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How healthy does transparency feel between us?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "transparency", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not healthy", - "max_label": "Very healthy" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_221", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does privacy feel between us?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_222", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do triggers affect trust right now?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "triggers", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_223", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to talk about the past?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "past", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_224", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How believable does follow-through feel lately?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "follow_through", - 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"tags": [ - "hurt", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_231", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to offer reassurance?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "reassurance", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe", - "max_label": "Very safe" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_232", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does trust affect closeness right now?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "closeness", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_233", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we keep small promises?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "promises", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_234", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would one clear agreement help us?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "agreements", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_235", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How protected does our rebuilding process feel?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "protection", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not protected", - "max_label": "Very protected" - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_236", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", + "id": "rt_007", "type": "this_or_that", - 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"type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Talk today or schedule it?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "timing", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_today", - "text": "Talk today" - }, - { - "id": "schedule_it", - "text": "Schedule it" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_239", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Transparency or privacy first?", - "depth": 5, + "id": "rt_008", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What everyday habit from me helps you trust that I will keep showing up?", + "depth": "medium", "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "transparency", - "privacy", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "transparency", - "text": "Transparency" - }, - { - "id": "privacy", - "text": "Privacy" - } - ] + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_qwzl", "text": "Answering texts in a reasonable time" }, + { "id": "opt_vpkb", "text": "Saying when plans change" }, + { "id": "opt_fhqx", "text": "Following through on small promises" }, + { "id": "opt_mcyd", "text": "Asking about my day, then actually listening" }, + { "id": "opt_nxjr", "text": "Telling me where I am going when I leave" }, + { "id": "opt_tbwm", "text": "Doing the thing I said I would do" } + ] + }, + { + "id": "rt_009", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which parts of an apology tend to land best for you?", + "depth": "medium", + "access": "premium", + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_aqvn", "text": "A clear 'I was wrong' without excuses" }, + { "id": "opt_yrfd", "text": "Hearing that your feelings make sense" }, + { "id": "opt_ljmp", "text": "A specific plan for what changes next" }, + { "id": "opt_krwt", "text": "Time to calm down before the conversation" }, + { "id": "opt_bhfs", "text": "A check-in a few days later, not just once" } + ] + }, + { + "id": "rt_010", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How could we keep track of promises we have made to each other?", + "depth": "medium", + "access": "premium", + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_dlxg", "text": "Write them down together" }, + { "id": "opt_yrbc", "text": "Mention them at our weekly check-in" }, + { "id": "opt_qzmp", "text": "Each of us repeats them back in our own words" }, + { "id": "opt_wfkh", "text": "A short Sunday review over coffee" }, + { "id": "opt_nlsk", "text": "We do not need a system, just follow through" } + ] + }, + { + "id": "rt_011", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a hard question feel like care, not an interrogation?", + "depth": "deep", + "access": "premium", + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_wrnq", "text": "Asking, not assuming" }, + { "id": "opt_hkql", "text": "Letting me say 'not now' without it turning into a fight" }, + { "id": "opt_yjbt", "text": "Starting with how I am feeling, not what I think you did" }, + { "id": "opt_cwfk", "text": "A gentle tone, even when it is a serious topic" }, + { "id": "opt_rqzd", "text": "A clear 'I want to understand, not argue'" } + ] + }, + { + "id": "rt_012", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When you share something that hurt, what would feel most like being believed?", + "depth": "medium", + "access": "premium", + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_jrmb", "text": "You take time before responding" }, + { "id": "opt_ktwc", "text": "You ask what it felt like for me" }, + { "id": "opt_xqbh", "text": "You do not get defensive right away" }, + { "id": "opt_lfpn", "text": "You say back what you heard me say" }, + { "id": "opt_bpzv", "text": "You focus on repair, not on explaining it away" } + ] + }, + { + "id": "rt_013", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What pace for rebuilding feels right to you right now?", + "depth": "medium", + "access": "premium", + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_mcwj", "text": "Slow and steady, one small thing at a time" }, + { "id": "opt_lnqy", "text": "Quick check-ins more often than long talks" }, + { "id": "opt_hfxr", "text": "Longer talks less often, with time to think between" }, + { "id": "opt_xbnm", "text": "Mostly normal life, with trust talks when needed" }, + { "id": "opt_kwfd", "text": "Honestly, I am still figuring that out" } + ] + }, + { + "id": "rt_014", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How patient do you feel like you can be with this process right now?", + "depth": "deep", + "access": "premium", + "scale": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Honestly, not very", + "max_label": "More than I expected" } }, { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_240", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Ask gently or wait for sharing?", - "depth": 5, + "id": "rt_015", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make it easier to be honest with me, even about the small stuff?", + "depth": "medium", "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "questions", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_gently", - "text": "Ask gently" - }, - { - "id": "wait_for_sharing", - "text": "Wait for sharing" - } - ] + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_rvkp", "text": "Knowing I will not get a big reaction" }, + { "id": "opt_jhln", "text": "A calm voice, even when it is hard to hear" }, + { "id": "opt_xbqg", "text": "More time before we have to respond" }, + { "id": "opt_tzfw", "text": "Knowing we will talk about it, not about me as a person" }, + { "id": "opt_qhrv", "text": "A sense that we are on the same team" } + ] + }, + { + "id": "rt_016", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When one of us slips, what is the most helpful first response?", + "depth": "medium", + "access": "premium", + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_pvwt", "text": "Name it out loud, quickly" }, + { "id": "opt_yrkg", "text": "Take a breath, then come back to it" }, + { "id": "opt_nxzd", "text": "Ask what the other person needs first" }, + { "id": "opt_mjrv", "text": "Quietly change the behavior and check in later" }, + { "id": "opt_qmcd", "text": "It depends, let us figure it out together" } + ] + }, + { + "id": "rt_017", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kind of closeness feels safe to rebuild first?", + "depth": "medium", + "access": "premium", + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_ykpv", "text": "Easy time together, no heavy topics" }, + { "id": "opt_rhld", "text": "Physical affection that is not rushed" }, + { "id": "opt_tnwj", "text": "Quiet time in the same room" }, + { "id": "opt_lqfs", "text": "Small everyday routines done together" }, + { "id": "opt_bwkg", "text": "Honest talks with time to recover after" } + ] + }, + { + "id": "rt_018", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How comfortable are you with us having regular check-ins?", + "depth": "medium", + "access": "premium", + "scale": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not really my thing", + "max_label": "I look forward to them" } }, { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_241", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Repair quickly or repair slowly?", - "depth": 5, + "id": "rt_019", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "After a setback, what would help us get back on track fastest?", + "depth": "deep", "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "repair", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "repair_quickly", - "text": "Repair quickly" - }, - { - "id": "repair_slowly", - "text": "Repair slowly" - } - ] + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_jmkl", "text": "A short, honest talk soon after" }, + { "id": "opt_xcnf", "text": "A clear, small plan for what changes next" }, + { "id": "opt_lwhq", "text": "Time to cool off before we talk" }, + { "id": "opt_dprk", "text": "Going back to one of our steady routines" }, + { "id": "opt_bqzr", "text": "Naming what we did well before the setback" } + ] + }, + { + "id": "rt_020", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which words from me actually help when trust has been hurt?", + "depth": "medium", + "access": "premium", + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_qzrh", "text": "'I hear you.'" }, + { "id": "opt_vhkb", "text": "'You make sense to feel that way.'" }, + { "id": "opt_dlyc", "text": "'Here is what I will do differently.'" }, + { "id": "opt_fjwm", "text": "'I am not going anywhere.'" }, + { "id": "opt_tnkd", "text": "'Take all the time you need.'" } + ] + }, + { + "id": "rt_021", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would feel like steady, week-to-week proof that things are getting better?", + "depth": "medium", + "access": "premium", + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_kfhm", "text": "Fewer hard talks about the same old thing" }, + { "id": "opt_yzld", "text": "More easy time together" }, + { "id": "opt_lqnb", "text": "Quicker recovery after a small fight" }, + { "id": "opt_cwvr", "text": "More honest check-ins, even short ones" }, + { "id": "opt_bfpn", "text": "Plans that actually happen, not just get talked about" } + ] + }, + { + "id": "rt_022", + "type": "written", + "text": "What is one thing you wish I understood about what you are carrying right now?", + "depth": "deep", + "access": "premium", + "answer": { + "max_length": 500 } }, { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_242", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Hard truth or soft timing?", - "depth": 5, + "id": "rt_023", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "If one of us has a hard day and slips up, what should the other do?", + "depth": "medium", "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "truth", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hard_truth", - "text": "Hard truth" - }, - { - "id": "soft_timing", - "text": "Soft timing" - } - ] - } + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_pvkb", "text": "Name it gently, not let it slide" }, + { "id": "opt_yjwh", "text": "Ask if something is going on under the surface" }, + { "id": "opt_lfcd", "text": "Give space, then come back to it later" }, + { "id": "opt_qrtz", "text": "Plan to talk about it once the hard day has passed" }, + { "id": "opt_bnmx", "text": "Honestly, it depends on the day" } + ] }, { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_243", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "More patience or more clarity?", - "depth": 5, + "id": "rt_024", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "When we sit down for a check-in, what do you want it to cover?", + "depth": "medium", "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "healing", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_patience", - "text": "More patience" - }, - { - "id": "more_clarity", - "text": "More clarity" - } - ] - } + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_ycqt", "text": "How we are each doing, not just logistics" }, + { "id": "opt_wzrl", "text": "One small thing we appreciate" }, + { "id": "opt_lkhm", "text": "Any small thing that felt off this week" }, + { "id": "opt_qnvd", "text": "One thing we want to do together soon" }, + { "id": "opt_frbx", "text": "Room to say 'nothing is wrong, I just wanted to talk'" } + ] }, { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_244", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Accountability or reassurance first?", - "depth": 5, + "id": "rt_025", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which of these would feel good to do together this week?", + "depth": "light", "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "accountability", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "accountability", - "text": "Accountability" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_245", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Talk about the past or plan the next step?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "past", - "future", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "past", - "text": "Talk about the past" - }, - { - "id": "next_step", - "text": "Plan the next step" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_246", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Name the trigger or name the need?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "triggers", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "name_trigger", - "text": "Name the trigger" - }, - { - "id": "name_need", - "text": "Name the need" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_247", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Forgiveness someday or safety today?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "forgiveness", - "safety", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "forgiveness_someday", - "text": "Forgiveness someday" - }, - { - "id": "safety_today", - "text": "Safety today" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_248", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "More check-ins or more space?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "check_in", - "space", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_check_ins", - "text": "More check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "more_space", - "text": "More space" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_249", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Gentle question or clear boundary?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "boundaries", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_question", - "text": "Gentle question" - }, - { - "id": "clear_boundary", - "text": "Clear boundary" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "rebuilding_trust_250", - "category_id": "rebuilding_trust", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Celebrate progress or keep practicing?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "progress", - "rebuilding_trust" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "celebrate_progress", - "text": "Celebrate progress" - }, - { - "id": "keep_practicing", - "text": "Keep practicing" - } - ] - } + "options": [ + { "id": "opt_kjmd", "text": "Cook a meal we both pick" }, + { "id": "opt_pwzy", "text": "Take a short walk after dinner" }, + { "id": "opt_hnxt", "text": "Pick a show to start together" }, + { "id": "opt_lbfr", "text": "Sit on the couch with no phones for twenty minutes" }, + { "id": "opt_qvsn", "text": "Plan one small thing to look forward to" } + ] } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/sex_and_desire.json b/seed/questions/sex_and_desire.json index c29663b4..f8b9f234 100644 --- a/seed/questions/sex_and_desire.json +++ b/seed/questions/sex_and_desire.json @@ -2,84 +2,105 @@ "category": { "id": "sex_and_desire", "display_name": "Sex & Desire", - "description": "Warm, playful, consent-first questions about attraction, flirting, initiation, desire rhythms, mismatched moods, confidence, privacy, and keeping long-term chemistry alive.", + "description": "Adult, playful, consent-first questions about feeling wanted, flirting, initiation, desire rhythms, mismatched moods, sexual confidence, communication, and keeping long-term chemistry alive.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "favorite", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 344, - "free_questions": 163, - "premium_questions": 181, + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { - "written": 212, - "single_choice": 56, - "multi_choice": 24, - "scale": 29, - "this_or_that": 23 + "written": 5, + "single_choice": 30, + "multi_choice": 90, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10 }, "depth_counts": { - "1": 34, - "2": 104, - "3": 137, - "4": 46, - "5": 23 + "1": 10, + "2": 38, + "3": 53, + "4": 40, + "5": 9 }, - "light_depth_questions": 138, - "light_depth_percentage": 40.1, - "content_version": "sex_and_desire_guide_reviewed_v2", - "batch_size": 25, - "review_policy": "13 batches of 25 plus a final batch of 19, with 50-question checkpoints and 100-question context refreshes.", - "mass_rewrite_exception": "Approved replacement because repeated stems, spark/flirt/kiss variants, and overlap with related intimacy packs affected more than 60% of the source experience.", - "related_pack_boundary": "Focuses on desire dynamics and couple communication; specific sexual preferences and activities belong in sexual_preferences." + "light_depth_questions": 48, + "light_depth_percentage": 32.0, + "content_version": "sex_and_desire_focused_rebuild_v3", + "batch_size": 15, + "review_policy": "Ten 15-question batches with batch-level option-fit, repetition, consent, pack-boundary, and full-pack validation.", + "mass_rewrite_exception": "Approved rebuild: the source had 344 questions, 212 written prompts, repeated desire themes, and substantial overlap with neighboring intimacy packs.", + "related_pack_boundary": "Owns desire dynamics: feeling wanted, flirtation as a desire signal, initiation, desire rhythms, stress, mismatch, sexual confidence, consent communication, change over time, and long-term chemistry. Specific acts and activity preferences belong in sexual_preferences; everyday nonsexual touch belongs in physical_intimacy; broader sexual intimacy and aftercare belong in couple_intimacy.", + "source_question_count": 344, + "source_written_count": 212, + "final_validation": "pass" } }, "questions": [ { "id": "sex_and_desire_001", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you feel deliberately chosen, not merely available?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which things make you feel genuinely wanted by me?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "wanted_attraction", + "feeling_wanted", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "focused_attention", + "text": "Focused attention" + }, + { + "id": "a_confident_invitation", + "text": "A confident invitation" + }, + { + "id": "a_specific_compliment", + "text": "A specific compliment" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_pursued_during_the_day", + "text": "Feeling pursued during the day" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_002", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When your confidence is low, what helps most?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "text": "Which signal most clearly says I am attracted to you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "confidence", + "feeling_wanted", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "patient_affection_without_attention_on_my_body", - "text": "Patient affection without attention on my body" + "id": "the_way_i_look_at_you", + "text": "The way I look at you" }, { - "id": "a_sincere_reminder_of_what_you_adore", - "text": "A sincere reminder of what you adore" + "id": "the_way_i_talk_to_you", + "text": "The way I talk to you" }, { - "id": "privacy_and_time_to_settle_in", - "text": "Privacy and time to settle in" + "id": "making_time_for_us", + "text": "Making time for us" }, { - "id": "being_allowed_to_lead_the_pace", - "text": "Being allowed to lead the pace" + "id": "saying_it_directly", + "text": "Saying it directly" } ] } @@ -87,8 +108,415 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_003", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which flirting style fits naturally into a busy day?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes attraction feel personal instead of automatic?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "noticing_something_specific_about_me", + "text": "Noticing something specific about me" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_me_when_life_is_busy", + "text": "Choosing me when life is busy" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_what_makes_me_light_up", + "text": "Remembering what makes me light up" + }, + { + "id": "letting_the_interest_build", + "text": "Letting the interest build" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_004", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How wanted have you felt by me lately?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much lately", + "max_label": "Very much lately" + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_005", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Feeling pursued or feeling irresistible?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_pursued", + "text": "Feeling pursued" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_irresistible", + "text": "Feeling irresistible" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_of_both", + "text": "A little of both" + }, + { + "id": "it_depends_on_the_day", + "text": "It depends on the day" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_006", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which moments make you feel chosen, not just available?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "when_i_make_the_first_move", + "text": "When I make the first move" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_protect_time_for_us", + "text": "When I protect time for us" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_notice_your_mood", + "text": "When I notice your mood" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_show_desire_without_expecting_anything", + "text": "When I show desire without expecting anything" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_007", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When you want reassurance about my desire, what lands best?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_words", + "text": "Clear words" + }, + { + "id": "undivided_attention", + "text": "Undivided attention" + }, + { + "id": "a_planned_private_moment", + "text": "A planned private moment" + }, + { + "id": "a_spontaneous_show_of_interest", + "text": "A spontaneous show of interest" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_008", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can quietly drain the feeling of being desired?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_taken_for_granted", + "text": "Feeling taken for granted" + }, + { + "id": "only_being_approached_at_the_last_minute", + "text": "Only being approached at the last minute" + }, + { + "id": "affection_that_always_has_an_agenda", + "text": "Affection that always has an agenda" + }, + { + "id": "never_hearing_what_attracts_you", + "text": "Never hearing what attracts you" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_009", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which kinds of attention make you feel sexy without putting you on the spot?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_private_compliment", + "text": "A private compliment" + }, + { + "id": "a_lingering_look", + "text": "A lingering look" + }, + { + "id": "a_playful_message", + "text": "A playful message" + }, + { + "id": "being_given_room_to_respond", + "text": "Being given room to respond" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_010", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes desire from me feel believable?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_show_it_consistently", + "text": "You show it consistently" + }, + { + "id": "you_say_what_attracts_you", + "text": "You say what attracts you" + }, + { + "id": "you_seem_confident", + "text": "You seem confident" + }, + { + "id": "you_give_me_time_to_respond", + "text": "You give me time to respond" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_011", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it for you to believe me when I say I want you?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Hard to believe", + "max_label": "Easy to believe" + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_012", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you receive attention without wondering what is expected next?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_pressure_to_match_the_mood", + "text": "No pressure to match the mood" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_chance_to_say_no", + "text": "A clear chance to say no" + }, + { + "id": "affection_that_can_stay_affectionate", + "text": "Affection that can stay affectionate" + }, + { + "id": "trust_that_disappointment_will_be_handled_well", + "text": "Trust that disappointment will be handled well" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_013", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which everyday moments can carry real sexual energy for you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "catching_each_other_s_eye", + "text": "Catching each other's eye" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_joke", + "text": "A private joke" + }, + { + "id": "being_openly_admired", + "text": "Being openly admired" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_we_have_time_later", + "text": "Knowing we have time later" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_014", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which feeling most often opens the door to desire for you?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_wanted", + "text": "Feeling wanted" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_relaxed", + "text": "Feeling relaxed" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_emotionally_close", + "text": "Feeling emotionally close" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_playful", + "text": "Feeling playful" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_015", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make our attraction feel less assumed and more alive?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "feeling_wanted", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_direct_compliments", + "text": "More direct compliments" + }, + { + "id": "more_build_up_during_the_day", + "text": "More build-up during the day" + }, + { + "id": "more_protected_private_time", + "text": "More protected private time" + }, + { + "id": "more_curiosity_about_each_other", + "text": "More curiosity about each other" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_016", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps flirting get through on a busy day?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -98,70 +526,35 @@ "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_is_brief_and_clear", + "text": "It is brief and clear" + }, + { + "id": "it_sounds_like_us", + "text": "It sounds like us" + }, + { + "id": "it_builds_anticipation", + "text": "It builds anticipation" + }, + { + "id": "it_asks_nothing_right_away", + "text": "It asks nothing right away" + } + ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_004", + "id": "sex_and_desire_017", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to say you are not in the mood?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very difficult", - "max_label": "Completely comfortable" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_005", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes an invitation to be close feel easy to answer honestly?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_006", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps your mind leave the day behind before closeness?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "transition_stress", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_007", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things help you feel wanted before anything physical begins?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What gives flirting the best chance of landing?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "wanted", + "flirting", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", "fun_first" @@ -169,35 +562,29 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "focused_attention_that_is_not_rushed", - "text": "Focused attention that is not rushed" + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" }, { - "id": "a_specific_compliment_meant_privately", - "text": "A specific compliment meant privately" + "id": "a_confident_tone", + "text": "A confident tone" }, { - "id": "playful_interest_during_the_day", - "text": "Playful interest during the day" + "id": "knowing_there_is_no_pressure", + "text": "Knowing there is no pressure" }, { - "id": "help_clearing_mental_distractions", - "text": "Help clearing mental distractions" - }, - { - "id": "affection_with_no_automatic_next_step", - "text": "Affection with no automatic next step" + "id": "feeling_connected_first", + "text": "Feeling connected first" } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 + ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_008", + "id": "sex_and_desire_018", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which form of anticipation feels exciting without becoming pressure?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes anticipation fun instead of distracting?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -206,324 +593,157 @@ "consent_first", "fun_first" ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_009", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which makes being wanted feel more believable?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "wanted", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "consistent_everyday_attention", - "text": "Consistent everyday attention" + "id": "keeping_it_subtle", + "text": "Keeping it subtle" }, { - "id": "a_bold_unmistakable_moment", - "text": "A bold unmistakable moment" + "id": "knowing_the_plan_can_change", + "text": "Knowing the plan can change" + }, + { + "id": "having_real_privacy_later", + "text": "Having real privacy later" + }, + { + "id": "both_of_us_playing_along", + "text": "Both of us playing along" } ] } }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_010", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you wish I understood about the way desire arrives for you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "desire_rhythms", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_011", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which conversation style feels least awkward?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "talking_while_taking_a_walk", - "text": "Talking while taking a walk" - }, - { - "id": "answering_one_clear_question_at_a_time", - "text": "Answering one clear question at a time" - }, - { - "id": "sharing_thoughts_by_message_first", - "text": "Sharing thoughts by message first" - }, - { - "id": "using_humor_before_getting_sincere", - "text": "Using humor before getting sincere" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_012", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When only one of us is interested, what helps us still feel like a team?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mismatched_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_013", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes it easiest for you to say yes, no, or not yet?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent_boundaries", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_014", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "After 'not tonight' is fully accepted, which response feels most caring?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_affection_that_clearly_stays_pressure_free", - "text": "Warm affection that clearly stays pressure-free" - }, - { - "id": "kind_space_now_and_normal_warmth_tomorrow", - "text": "Kind space now and normal warmth tomorrow" - }, - { - "id": "a_gentle_offer_of_another_shared_activity", - "text": "A gentle offer of another shared activity" - }, - { - "id": "a_simple_reminder_that_we_are_still_close", - "text": "A simple reminder that we are still close" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_015", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes talking about desire feel less formal for you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_016", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "On low-confidence days, what makes you feel attractive?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_017", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How quickly can you shift from daily responsibilities into couple time?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "transition", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very slowly", - "max_label": "Quite easily" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_018", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What familiar part of our chemistry is worth bringing back?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "novelty_routine", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_019", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Where or when do you feel most able to relax into privacy?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Slow build or obvious interest?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "privacy_setting", + "flirting", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "slow_build", + "text": "Slow build" + }, + { + "id": "obvious_interest", + "text": "Obvious interest" + }, + { + "id": "start_subtle_then_be_clear", + "text": "Start subtle, then be clear" + }, + { + "id": "whichever_fits_the_mood", + "text": "Whichever fits the mood" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_020", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps a vulnerable preference feel safe to share?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "Which flirting habits are worth bringing back more often?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "vulnerability", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_joking_at_the_persons_expense", - "text": "No joking at the person's expense" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure_to_explain_every_detail", - "text": "No pressure to explain every detail" - }, - { - "id": "privacy_after_the_conversation", - "text": "Privacy after the conversation" - }, - { - "id": "curious_questions_instead_of_assumptions", - "text": "Curious questions instead of assumptions" - }, - { - "id": "acceptance_that_the_answer_may_change", - "text": "Acceptance that the answer may change" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_021", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which closeness feels complete even when it stays nonsexual?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "affection_nonsexual", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_022", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you stay present instead of self-conscious?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "confidence", + "flirting", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "low_light_and_less_visual_focus", - "text": "Low light and less visual focus" + "id": "inside_jokes_with_an_edge", + "text": "Inside jokes with an edge" }, { - "id": "encouraging_words_without_overdoing_them", - "text": "Encouraging words without overdoing them" + "id": "compliments_that_feel_specific", + "text": "Compliments that feel specific" }, { - "id": "a_slower_pace_with_frequent_pauses", - "text": "A slower pace with frequent pauses" + "id": "messages_that_build_anticipation", + "text": "Messages that build anticipation" }, { - "id": "attention_on_connection_rather_than_appearance", - "text": "Attention on connection rather than appearance" + "id": "making_our_interest_obvious", + "text": "Making our interest obvious" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_021", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can be missing when flirting falls flat?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "flirting", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "timing", + "text": "Timing" + }, + { + "id": "confidence", + "text": "Confidence" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "emotional_connection", + "text": "Emotional connection" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_022", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps playful tension grow without feeling forced?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "anticipation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "letting_it_happen_naturally", + "text": "Letting it happen naturally" + }, + { + "id": "not_overexplaining_the_joke", + "text": "Not overexplaining the joke" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_mystery", + "text": "A little mystery" + }, + { + "id": "an_easy_way_to_change_the_subject", + "text": "An easy way to change the subject" } ] } @@ -531,28 +751,12 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_023", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When a romantic moment gets awkward, what helps you laugh kindly?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which forms of anticipation make you look forward to being alone together?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "awkward_repair", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_024", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which helps you shift into couple mode faster?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "transition", + "anticipation", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", "fun_first" @@ -560,28 +764,54 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "music_and_dimmer_lights", - "text": "Music and dimmer lights" + "id": "a_suggestive_message", + "text": "A suggestive message" }, { - "id": "conversation_and_close_attention", - "text": "Conversation and close attention" + "id": "a_plan_made_earlier", + "text": "A plan made earlier" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_promise", + "text": "A private promise" + }, + { + "id": "an_unexpected_change_in_tone", + "text": "An unexpected change in tone" } ] } }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_024", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much flirting do you want between private moments?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "flirting", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very little", + "max_label": "A lot" + } + }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_025", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "After a close moment, what helps you feel cared for?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is something I have said or done that made you feel instantly desired?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "aftercare", + "flirting", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" + "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 @@ -590,49 +820,66 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_026", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which early moment between us first carried real chemistry?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps flirting from turning into an obligation?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "memories_lore", + "flirting", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "gentle_depth" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "letting_it_be_just_flirting", + "text": "Letting it be just flirting" + }, + { + "id": "not_treating_it_like_a_promise", + "text": "Not treating it like a promise" + }, + { + "id": "respecting_a_change_in_mood", + "text": "Respecting a change in mood" + }, + { + "id": "enjoying_the_response_without_pushing", + "text": "Enjoying the response without pushing" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_027", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which way of saying 'I want you' feels best?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What should our flirting do more often?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "communication", + "flirting", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "warm_and_unmistakably_direct", - "text": "Warm and unmistakably direct" + "id": "make_us_laugh", + "text": "Make us laugh" }, { - "id": "playful_with_room_to_laugh", - "text": "Playful with room to laugh" + "id": "build_anticipation", + "text": "Build anticipation" }, { - "id": "softly_spoken_during_affection", - "text": "Softly spoken during affection" + "id": "say_desire_more_clearly", + "text": "Say desire more clearly" }, { - "id": "written_in_a_private_message", - "text": "Written in a private message" + "id": "break_up_the_routine", + "text": "Break up the routine" } ] } @@ -640,45 +887,1156 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_028", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny romantic plan would make next week more exciting?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a flirty message feel personal rather than copied and pasted?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_play", + "flirting", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_references_our_history", + "text": "It references our history" + }, + { + "id": "it_sounds_like_your_real_voice", + "text": "It sounds like your real voice" + }, + { + "id": "it_notices_something_specific", + "text": "It notices something specific" + }, + { + "id": "it_fits_what_is_happening_that_day", + "text": "It fits what is happening that day" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_029", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does a satisfying sense of desire between us mean to you?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which moments are best for turning up the chemistry a little?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "flirting", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "before_we_leave_the_house", + "text": "Before we leave the house" + }, + { + "id": "during_a_shared_laugh", + "text": "During a shared laugh" + }, + { + "id": "when_we_finally_get_privacy", + "text": "When we finally get privacy" + }, + { + "id": "when_one_of_us_clearly_starts_it", + "text": "When one of us clearly starts it" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_030", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is the best ending to a good round of flirting?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "flirting", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "let_the_tension_linger", + "text": "Let the tension linger" + }, + { + "id": "make_a_plan_for_later", + "text": "Make a plan for later" + }, + { + "id": "say_exactly_what_you_want", + "text": "Say exactly what you want" + }, + { + "id": "keep_it_playful_and_move_on", + "text": "Keep it playful and move on" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_031", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes being approached feel exciting rather than assumed?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "good_timing", + "text": "Good timing" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_invitation", + "text": "A clear invitation" + }, + { + "id": "room_to_answer_honestly", + "text": "Room to answer honestly" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_wanted_before_the_ask", + "text": "Feeling wanted before the ask" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_032", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which part of initiation matters most to you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "timing", + "text": "Timing" + }, + { + "id": "clarity", + "text": "Clarity" + }, + { + "id": "tone", + "text": "Tone" + }, + { + "id": "freedom_to_decline", + "text": "Freedom to decline" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_033", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signals help you know I am interested without making you guess?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "saying_it_plainly", + "text": "Saying it plainly" + }, + { + "id": "changing_the_tone_of_the_moment", + "text": "Changing the tone of the moment" + }, + { + "id": "making_private_time", + "text": "Making private time" + }, + { + "id": "asking_whether_you_are_open_to_it", + "text": "Asking whether you are open to it" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_034", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How comfortable are you initiating when you are in the mood?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very comfortable", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_035", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "A confident invitation or a slow hint?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_confident_invitation", + "text": "A confident invitation" + }, + { + "id": "a_slow_hint", + "text": "A slow hint" + }, + { + "id": "hint_first_then_ask", + "text": "Hint first, then ask" + }, + { + "id": "depends_on_the_mood", + "text": "Depends on the mood" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_036", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you initiate without feeling exposed?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "broader_desire", + "initiation", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first" ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "knowing_no_will_be_handled_kindly", + "text": "Knowing no will be handled kindly" + }, + { + "id": "having_a_familiar_signal", + "text": "Having a familiar signal" + }, + { + "id": "getting_some_encouragement_first", + "text": "Getting some encouragement first" + }, + { + "id": "being_able_to_keep_it_light", + "text": "Being able to keep it light" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_037", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is hardest about making the first move?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fear_of_rejection", + "text": "Fear of rejection" + }, + { + "id": "not_knowing_your_mood", + "text": "Not knowing your mood" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_awkward_saying_it", + "text": "Feeling awkward saying it" + }, + { + "id": "waiting_for_the_perfect_moment", + "text": "Waiting for the perfect moment" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_038", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which responses make an invitation feel respected even when the answer is no?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_warm_clear_answer", + "text": "A warm, clear answer" + }, + { + "id": "no_guilt_or_arguing", + "text": "No guilt or arguing" + }, + { + "id": "affection_that_does_not_disappear", + "text": "Affection that does not disappear" + }, + { + "id": "trust_that_another_moment_will_come", + "text": "Trust that another moment will come" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_039", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes pursuit feel good in a long-term relationship?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "pursuit", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "effort_that_feels_intentional", + "text": "Effort that feels intentional" + }, + { + "id": "interest_outside_the_bedroom", + "text": "Interest outside the bedroom" + }, + { + "id": "being_noticed_when_you_are_not_trying", + "text": "Being noticed when you are not trying" + }, + { + "id": "no_expectation_of_a_guaranteed_result", + "text": "No expectation of a guaranteed result" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_040", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can help when you are unsure of my mood?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_directly", + "text": "Ask directly" + }, + { + "id": "start_with_flirting", + "text": "Start with flirting" + }, + { + "id": "create_some_privacy", + "text": "Create some privacy" + }, + { + "id": "wait_for_a_clearer_signal", + "text": "Wait for a clearer signal" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_041", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How clear are our signals when one of us wants more?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Usually unclear", + "max_label": "Usually very clear" + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_042", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which habits could make initiating feel more equal between us?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_of_us_taking_turns", + "text": "Both of us taking turns" + }, + { + "id": "talking_about_preferred_signals", + "text": "Talking about preferred signals" + }, + { + "id": "responding_kindly_either_way", + "text": "Responding kindly either way" + }, + { + "id": "not_keeping_score", + "text": "Not keeping score" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_043", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a changed plan feel less disappointing?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "knowing_it_is_not_personal", + "text": "Knowing it is not personal" + }, + { + "id": "a_warm_rain_check", + "text": "A warm rain check" + }, + { + "id": "staying_connected", + "text": "Staying connected" + }, + { + "id": "making_another_plan_without_pressure", + "text": "Making another plan without pressure" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_044", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a rain check feel sincere?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_clear_answer", + "text": "A clear answer" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance_of_attraction", + "text": "Reassurance of attraction" + }, + { + "id": "suggesting_another_time", + "text": "Suggesting another time" + }, + { + "id": "staying_affectionate", + "text": "Staying affectionate" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_045", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs tell you an invitation is about connection, not entitlement?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "initiation", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "your_answer_is_welcomed_either_way", + "text": "Your answer is welcomed either way" + }, + { + "id": "the_approach_fits_your_mood", + "text": "The approach fits your mood" + }, + { + "id": "there_is_no_punishment_for_declining", + "text": "There is no punishment for declining" + }, + { + "id": "your_comfort_matters_more_than_the_plan", + "text": "Your comfort matters more than the plan" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_046", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which conditions make desire easier to access for you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_rested", + "text": "Feeling rested" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_emotionally_connected", + "text": "Feeling emotionally connected" + }, + { + "id": "having_privacy", + "text": "Having privacy" + }, + { + "id": "having_time_to_warm_up", + "text": "Having time to warm up" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_047", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "How does desire most often begin for you?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_appears_on_its_own", + "text": "It appears on its own" + }, + { + "id": "it_grows_after_closeness_starts", + "text": "It grows after closeness starts" + }, + { + "id": "it_follows_emotional_connection", + "text": "It follows emotional connection" + }, + { + "id": "it_depends_heavily_on_the_day", + "text": "It depends heavily on the day" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_048", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make a low-desire day feel completely normal?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "knowing_moods_naturally_change", + "text": "Knowing moods naturally change" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure_to_explain", + "text": "No pressure to explain" + }, + { + "id": "staying_affectionate_anyway", + "text": "Staying affectionate anyway" + }, + { + "id": "trusting_there_will_be_other_days", + "text": "Trusting there will be other days" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_049", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Spontaneous spark or slow warm-up?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "spontaneous_spark", + "text": "Spontaneous spark" + }, + { + "id": "slow_warm_up", + "text": "Slow warm-up" + }, + { + "id": "usually_a_mix", + "text": "Usually a mix" + }, + { + "id": "it_changes_with_life", + "text": "It changes with life" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_050", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which things help you notice desire before the moment passes?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "less_mental_clutter", + "text": "Less mental clutter" + }, + { + "id": "time_without_interruptions", + "text": "Time without interruptions" + }, + { + "id": "flirting_earlier", + "text": "Flirting earlier" + }, + { + "id": "paying_attention_to_your_own_body_and_mood", + "text": "Paying attention to your own body and mood" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_051", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When your desire is quiet, what helps most?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_rest", + "text": "More rest" + }, + { + "id": "more_connection", + "text": "More connection" + }, + { + "id": "more_playful_attention", + "text": "More playful attention" + }, + { + "id": "no_attempt_to_change_it", + "text": "No attempt to change it" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_052", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes it easier to talk about different desire levels without making it personal?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "using_neutral_language", + "text": "Using neutral language" + }, + { + "id": "talking_outside_the_moment", + "text": "Talking outside the moment" + }, + { + "id": "avoiding_comparisons", + "text": "Avoiding comparisons" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_desire_is_not_a_score", + "text": "Remembering desire is not a score" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_053", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which changes can affect your desire more than people might realize?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "stress", + "text": "Stress" + }, + { + "id": "sleep", + "text": "Sleep" + }, + { + "id": "body_confidence", + "text": "Body confidence" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_emotionally_disconnected", + "text": "Feeling emotionally disconnected" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_054", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How predictable does your desire feel from week to week?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very unpredictable", + "max_label": "Very predictable" + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_055", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "written", + "text": "What do you wish I understood better about how desire works for you?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_030", + "id": "sex_and_desire_056", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does stress interfere with your interest in closeness?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps desire feel welcome without turning it into a goal?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "stress", + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "curiosity_instead_of_pressure", + "text": "Curiosity instead of pressure" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_warm_up", + "text": "Time to warm up" + }, + { + "id": "permission_for_the_mood_to_change", + "text": "Permission for the mood to change" + }, + { + "id": "enjoying_closeness_at_any_level", + "text": "Enjoying closeness at any level" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_057", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which descriptions fit your desire lately?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "easy_to_find", + "text": "Easy to find" + }, + { + "id": "there_but_slower", + "text": "There, but slower" + }, + { + "id": "unpredictable", + "text": "Unpredictable" + }, + { + "id": "mostly_crowded_out", + "text": "Mostly crowded out" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_058", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make desire return after a flat stretch?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_rested_again", + "text": "Feeling rested again" + }, + { + "id": "breaking_routine", + "text": "Breaking routine" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_pursued", + "text": "Feeling pursued" + }, + { + "id": "clearing_unresolved_tension", + "text": "Clearing unresolved tension" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_059", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which expectations make desire harder to access?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_should_happen_on_schedule", + "text": "It should happen on schedule" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_should_want_the_same_amount", + "text": "Both people should want the same amount" + }, + { + "id": "interest_should_look_the_same_every_time", + "text": "Interest should look the same every time" + }, + { + "id": "a_slow_start_means_no_interest", + "text": "A slow start means no interest" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_060", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What would help us work with our desire rhythms instead of fighting them?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_rhythm", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "better_timing", + "text": "Better timing" + }, + { + "id": "more_honest_check_ins", + "text": "More honest check-ins" + }, + { + "id": "less_pressure", + "text": "Less pressure" + }, + { + "id": "more_planned_privacy", + "text": "More planned privacy" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_061", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps your mind leave the day behind before desire has a chance?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "stress_and_energy", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_little_quiet", + "text": "A little quiet" + }, + { + "id": "a_shared_laugh", + "text": "A shared laugh" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_finished_with_responsibilities", + "text": "Feeling finished with responsibilities" + }, + { + "id": "some_attention_with_no_agenda", + "text": "Some attention with no agenda" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_062", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is the biggest mood-killer after a long day?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "stress_and_energy", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "mental_overload", + "text": "Mental overload" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_rushed", + "text": "Feeling rushed" + }, + { + "id": "no_privacy", + "text": "No privacy" + }, + { + "id": "unresolved_tension", + "text": "Unresolved tension" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_063", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which small changes could make private time easier to enjoy?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "stress_and_energy", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fewer_interruptions", + "text": "Fewer interruptions" + }, + { + "id": "a_slower_transition", + "text": "A slower transition" + }, + { + "id": "less_pressure_to_perform", + "text": "Less pressure to perform" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_we_can_stop_anytime", + "text": "Knowing we can stop anytime" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_064", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much does stress affect your desire right now?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "stress_and_energy", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first" ], @@ -689,857 +2047,169 @@ "max_label": "A great deal" } }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_031", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When do you notice my attraction to you most clearly?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "wanted_attraction", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_032", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What signal could show interest without interrupting everything else?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_033", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes planned private time feel romantic?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "planning", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_personal_detail_chosen_for_me", - "text": "A personal detail chosen for me" - }, - { - "id": "no_chores_waiting_in_the_background", - "text": "No chores waiting in the background" - }, - { - "id": "a_flexible_plan_instead_of_a_script", - "text": "A flexible plan instead of a script" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_we_protected_the_time_together", - "text": "Knowing we protected the time together" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_034", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How do you like interest to be shown when the timing is uncertain?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_035", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "With an easy stop guaranteed, what makes playful teasing work between us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "teasing", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "it_avoids_real_insecurities", - "text": "It avoids real insecurities" - }, - { - "id": "both_people_can_tease_back", - "text": "Both people can tease back" - }, - { - "id": "it_happens_in_the_right_setting", - "text": "It happens in the right setting" - }, - { - "id": "affection_is_obvious_underneath_it", - "text": "Affection is obvious underneath it" - }, - { - "id": "it_never_relies_on_embarrassment", - "text": "It never relies on embarrassment" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_036", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which small reset makes you more available for playful attention?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "transition_stress", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_037", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How early in the day can a flirty mood begin for you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_038", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "After a stressful day, which closeness feels better?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_affection_first", - "text": "Quiet affection first" - }, - { - "id": "playful_distraction_first", - "text": "Playful distraction first" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_039", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How does your interest change when life feels calm versus crowded?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desire_rhythms", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_040", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes closeness feel unhurried?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "pace", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "starting_before_we_are_exhausted", - "text": "Starting before we are exhausted" - }, - { - "id": "leaving_the_next_hour_unscheduled", - "text": "Leaving the next hour unscheduled" - }, - { - "id": "putting_away_devices_and_distractions", - "text": "Putting away devices and distractions" - }, - { - "id": "agreeing_there_is_no_goal_to_reach", - "text": "Agreeing there is no goal to reach" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_041", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What response to 'not tonight' feels loving without reopening the question?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mismatched_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_042", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How should either of us pause a moment without needing a long explanation?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent_boundaries", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_043", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How fresh does our romantic energy feel right now?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "routine", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very routine", - "max_label": "Fresh and alive" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_044", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When is the easiest time to discuss something you would like differently?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_045", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How can I compliment you without making you feel examined?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_046", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "With consent and an easy stop clear, what makes a new idea easier to consider?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "novelty", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "knowing_discussion_does_not_equal_agreement", - "text": "Knowing discussion does not equal agreement" - }, - { - "id": "starting_with_the_mildest_version", - "text": "Starting with the mildest version" - }, - { - "id": "having_plenty_of_time_to_decide", - "text": "Having plenty of time to decide" - }, - { - "id": "planning_a_calm_check_in_afterward", - "text": "Planning a calm check-in afterward" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_047", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What could add novelty without making the night feel like a test?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "novelty_routine", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_048", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "After a stressful stretch, which conditions reopen the door to desire?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_rest_and_fewer_deadlines", - "text": "More rest and fewer deadlines" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_emotionally_reconnected", - "text": "Feeling emotionally reconnected" - }, - { - "id": "small_affectionate_moments", - "text": "Small affectionate moments" - }, - { - "id": "protected_time_without_a_goal", - "text": "Protected time without a goal" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness_outside_private_moments", - "text": "Playfulness outside private moments" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_049", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How much does a tidy or comfortable space affect your mood?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "privacy_setting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_050", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How can affection communicate desire without asking for anything more?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "affection_nonsexual", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_051", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which protects privacy better for you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "planning_uninterrupted_time", - "text": "Planning uninterrupted time" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_flirtation_discreet_all_day", - "text": "Keeping flirtation discreet all day" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_052", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How should we recover when timing suddenly feels wrong?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "awkward_repair", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_053", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which invitation style leaves the most room for an honest answer?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_words_with_no_pressure", - "text": "Clear words with no pressure" - }, - { - "id": "a_gentle_question_in_private", - "text": "A gentle question in private" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_hint_plus_a_check_in", - "text": "A playful hint plus a check-in" - }, - { - "id": "a_plan_that_welcomes_changing_minds", - "text": "A plan that welcomes changing minds" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_054", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How much quiet time do you usually want afterward?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_055", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What old flirtation of ours still makes you smile?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "memories_lore", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_056", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How private does our couple time feel in daily life?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Often interrupted", - "max_label": "Protected and private" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_057", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which low-effort date could leave us wanting more time together?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future_play", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_058", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How do you want our sexual connection to feel emotionally?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "broader_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_059", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which everyday gesture feels most flirtatious?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_lingering_look_across_the_room", - "text": "A lingering look across the room" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_joke_whispered_nearby", - "text": "A private joke whispered nearby" - }, - { - "id": "a_warm_hand_at_my_waist", - "text": "A warm hand at my waist" - }, - { - "id": "a_message_that_hints_at_later", - "text": "A message that hints at later" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_060", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which everyday moment makes you feel unexpectedly desirable?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "wanted_attraction", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_061", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which shared joke brings out our flirtiest side?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_062", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which small moments can carry real chemistry?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "small_moments", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_hello_that_lasts_longer_than_usual", - "text": "A hello that lasts longer than usual" - }, - { - "id": "a_look_held_for_one_extra_second", - "text": "A look held for one extra second" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_compliment_in_public", - "text": "A private compliment in public" - }, - { - "id": "a_hand_reaching_for_mine_first", - "text": "A hand reaching for mine first" - }, - { - "id": "a_shared_joke_with_romantic_history", - "text": "A shared joke with romantic history" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_063", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is the gentlest way to check whether you are open to more?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_064", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "After pausing to clarify an uncertain signal, what should guide the next step?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_unsure_person_chooses_the_pace", - "text": "The unsure person chooses the pace" - }, - { - "id": "return_to_nonsexual_affection", - "text": "Return to nonsexual affection" - }, - { - "id": "offer_clearly_named_choices", - "text": "Offer clearly named choices" - }, - { - "id": "end_the_moment_without_tension", - "text": "End the moment without tension" - } - ] - } - }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_065", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "On an exhausting day, what keeps us romantically connected?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Unwind first or flirt through the stress?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "transition_stress", + "stress_and_energy", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "unwind_first", + "text": "Unwind first" + }, + { + "id": "flirt_through_the_stress", + "text": "Flirt through the stress" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_of_both", + "text": "A little of both" + }, + { + "id": "ask_me_that_day", + "text": "Ask me that day" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_066", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How satisfying does our current pace of intimacy feel?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you shift from responsible-adult mode into partner mode?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pace", + "stress_and_energy", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not satisfying", - "max_label": "Very satisfying" + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_real_break_from_tasks", + "text": "A real break from tasks" + }, + { + "id": "a_change_of_setting", + "text": "A change of setting" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_emotionally_welcomed", + "text": "Feeling emotionally welcomed" + }, + { + "id": "time_without_a_clock", + "text": "Time without a clock" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_067", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What small promise could make later time together feel special?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When you are exhausted, what keeps closeness from feeling like one more task?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "anticipation", + "stress_and_energy", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "gentle_depth" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_expectations", + "text": "No expectations" + }, + { + "id": "a_very_simple_invitation", + "text": "A very simple invitation" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_rest_is_also_okay", + "text": "Knowing rest is also okay" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_understood_first", + "text": "Feeling understood first" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_068", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When does desire tend to surprise you?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which kinds of stress tend to shut desire down fastest?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "desire_rhythms", + "stress_and_energy", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "work_pressure", + "text": "Work pressure" + }, + { + "id": "family_demands", + "text": "Family demands" + }, + { + "id": "money_worries", + "text": "Money worries" + }, + { + "id": "conflict_between_us", + "text": "Conflict between us" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_069", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which pace suits a low-energy evening better?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps desire survive a busy season?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "pace", + "stress_and_energy", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "slow_and_affectionate", - "text": "Slow and affectionate" + "id": "keeping_some_flirtation_alive", + "text": "Keeping some flirtation alive" }, { - "id": "brief_and_playful", - "text": "Brief and playful" + "id": "protecting_small_pockets_of_privacy", + "text": "Protecting small pockets of privacy" + }, + { + "id": "not_taking_low_energy_personally", + "text": "Not taking low energy personally" + }, + { + "id": "making_realistic_plans", + "text": "Making realistic plans" } ] } @@ -1547,168 +2217,252 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_070", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How can the interested partner share desire without creating guilt?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which resets would help most this week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mismatched_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_071", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of confidence from me feels attractive?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "confidence", + "stress_and_energy", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "calmly_saying_what_i_hope_for", - "text": "Calmly saying what I hope for" + "id": "more_sleep", + "text": "More sleep" }, { - "id": "taking_initiative_while_welcoming_direction", - "text": "Taking initiative while welcoming direction" + "id": "a_night_without_responsibilities", + "text": "A night without responsibilities" }, { - "id": "being_playful_when_plans_change", - "text": "Being playful when plans change" + "id": "time_alone_together", + "text": "Time alone together" }, { - "id": "accepting_a_no_without_losing_warmth", - "text": "Accepting a no without losing warmth" + "id": "a_good_conversation_first", + "text": "A good conversation first" } ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_072", + "id": "sex_and_desire_071", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What response makes a changed mind feel completely accepted?", - "depth": 5, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much transition time do you need before you can feel open to desire?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "consent_boundaries", + "stress_and_energy", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Almost none", + "max_label": "Quite a bit" + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_072", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs should prompt me to check in and slow down?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "stress_and_energy", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", "gentle_depth" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_seem_mentally_elsewhere", + "text": "I seem mentally elsewhere" + }, + { + "id": "my_answers_are_short", + "text": "My answers are short" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_still_handling_tasks", + "text": "I am still handling tasks" + }, + { + "id": "i_ask_for_space_or_rest", + "text": "I ask for space or rest" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_073", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What lets us ask curious questions without turning answers into promises?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes planned private time feel helpful instead of like another appointment?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "communication", + "stress_and_energy", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "keeping_the_plan_flexible", + "text": "Keeping the plan flexible" + }, + { + "id": "building_in_time_to_unwind", + "text": "Building in time to unwind" + }, + { + "id": "no_guaranteed_outcome", + "text": "No guaranteed outcome" + }, + { + "id": "both_of_us_choosing_it", + "text": "Both of us choosing it" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_074", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you suggesting a new shared experience?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What most often brings your playful side back after stress?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "novelty", + "stress_and_energy", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "I usually hold back", - "max_label": "I suggest it easily" + "options": [ + { + "id": "laughter", + "text": "Laughter" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_admired", + "text": "Feeling admired" + }, + { + "id": "a_change_of_scenery", + "text": "A change of scenery" + }, + { + "id": "finishing_what_was_weighing_on_me", + "text": "Finishing what was weighing on me" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_075", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which reassurance feels believable when you are self-conscious?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which supports would make it easier for desire to return naturally?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "confidence", + "stress_and_energy", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_rest", + "text": "More rest" + }, + { + "id": "more_practical_help", + "text": "More practical help" + }, + { + "id": "more_emotional_repair", + "text": "More emotional repair" + }, + { + "id": "more_pressure_free_affection", + "text": "More pressure-free affection" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_076", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What small change could make a usual evening feel different?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a difference in desire feel less personal?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "novelty_routine", + "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "remembering_moods_change", + "text": "Remembering moods change" + }, + { + "id": "a_kind_direct_answer", + "text": "A kind, direct answer" + }, + { + "id": "reassurance_of_attraction", + "text": "Reassurance of attraction" + }, + { + "id": "no_scorekeeping", + "text": "No scorekeeping" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_077", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes it easier to ask for something you want?", + "text": "When one of us is not in the mood, what matters most?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "communication", + "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "knowing_curiosity_will_not_be_mocked", - "text": "Knowing curiosity will not be mocked" + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" }, { - "id": "being_able_to_phrase_it_as_an_option", - "text": "Being able to phrase it as an option" + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" }, { - "id": "having_time_to_explain_without_urgency", - "text": "Having time to explain without urgency" + "id": "no_pressure", + "text": "No pressure" }, { - "id": "hearing_that_uncertainty_is_acceptable", - "text": "Hearing that uncertainty is acceptable" + "id": "staying_connected", + "text": "Staying connected" } ] } @@ -1716,474 +2470,142 @@ { "id": "sex_and_desire_078", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which distractions are hardest for you to ignore during private time?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which responses help a no feel safe to give?", "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "privacy_setting", + "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "accepting_it_the_first_time", + "text": "Accepting it the first time" + }, + { + "id": "not_asking_for_a_defense", + "text": "Not asking for a defense" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_your_tone_warm", + "text": "Keeping your tone warm" + }, + { + "id": "not_withdrawing_affection", + "text": "Not withdrawing affection" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_079", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us recover from an awkward moment?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "A gentle rain check or a clear no for tonight?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "repair", + "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_gentle_laugh_without_making_fun", - "text": "A gentle laugh without making fun" + "id": "a_gentle_rain_check", + "text": "A gentle rain check" }, { - "id": "saying_plainly_that_nothing_is_wrong", - "text": "Saying plainly that nothing is wrong" + "id": "a_clear_no_for_tonight", + "text": "A clear no for tonight" }, { - "id": "switching_to_a_simpler_kind_of_closeness", - "text": "Switching to a simpler kind of closeness" + "id": "whichever_is_more_honest", + "text": "Whichever is more honest" }, { - "id": "taking_a_short_pause_together", - "text": "Taking a short pause together" - }, - { - "id": "letting_the_moment_end_gracefully", - "text": "Letting the moment end gracefully" + "id": "either_said_kindly", + "text": "Either, said kindly" } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_080", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What everyday touch makes you feel connected rather than distracted?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps the person who wanted more closeness handle disappointment well?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "affection_nonsexual", + "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "gentle_depth" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "not_treating_it_as_rejection_of_the_relationship", + "text": "Not treating it as rejection of the relationship" + }, + { + "id": "taking_time_to_reset", + "text": "Taking time to reset" + }, + { + "id": "accepting_reassurance_without_bargaining", + "text": "Accepting reassurance without bargaining" + }, + { + "id": "letting_the_disappointment_pass_without_blame", + "text": "Letting the disappointment pass without blame" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_081", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes it safe to admit that something is not working?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can turn a difference in desire into a bigger problem?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "awkward_repair", + "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "taking_it_personally", + "text": "Taking it personally" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_score", + "text": "Keeping score" + }, + { + "id": "avoiding_the_topic", + "text": "Avoiding the topic" + }, + { + "id": "trying_to_pressure_a_change", + "text": "Trying to pressure a change" + } + ] } }, { "id": "sex_and_desire_082", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "What style of novelty sounds more inviting?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "novelty", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_familiar_idea_with_a_twist", - "text": "A familiar idea with a twist" - }, - { - "id": "a_completely_new_shared_plan", - "text": "A completely new shared plan" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_083", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "After the intensity passes, what conversation feels good?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_084", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of buildup sounds most appealing tonight?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_teasing_through_conversation", - "text": "Slow teasing through conversation" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_affection_that_gradually_deepens", - "text": "Sweet affection that gradually deepens" - }, - { - "id": "a_direct_invitation_after_privacy", - "text": "A direct invitation after privacy" - }, - { - "id": "spontaneous_chemistry_with_check_ins", - "text": "Spontaneous chemistry with check-ins" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_085", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When did you first realize I was strongly attracted to you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "memories_lore", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_086", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What playful tradition should our future selves keep?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future_play", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_087", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much nonsexual affection helps you feel desired?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "nonsexual_affection", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A great deal" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_088", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps desire add joy to our relationship instead of pressure?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "broader_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_089", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tells you that I am still genuinely captivated by you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "wanted_attraction", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_090", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which aftercare sounds most comforting?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_cuddling_with_no_conversation", - "text": "Quiet cuddling with no conversation" - }, - { - "id": "a_drink_and_a_gentle_check_in", - "text": "A drink and a gentle check-in" - }, - { - "id": "reassuring_words_before_some_space", - "text": "Reassuring words before some space" - }, - { - "id": "light_conversation_while_staying_close", - "text": "Light conversation while staying close" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_091", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is a harmless way we could tease each other more?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_092", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When does a direct invitation feel better than a subtle hint?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_093", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make you feel pursued in a good way?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pursuit", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "interest_that_notices_your_actual_mood", - "text": "Interest that notices your actual mood" - }, - { - "id": "effort_tailored_to_what_you_enjoy", - "text": "Effort tailored to what you enjoy" - }, - { - "id": "invitations_that_remain_easy_to_decline", - "text": "Invitations that remain easy to decline" - }, - { - "id": "warmth_that_continues_after_any_answer", - "text": "Warmth that continues after any answer" - }, - { - "id": "a_sense_that_the_person_chose_you_specifically", - "text": "A sense that the person chose you specifically" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_094", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which transition helps you stop feeling rushed?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "transition_stress", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_095", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which small gesture makes you feel deliberately chosen?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "wanted", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "saving_a_private_moment_for_me", - "text": "Saving a private moment for me" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_something_i_said_i_liked", - "text": "Remembering something I said I liked" - }, - { - "id": "looking_for_me_first_in_a_room", - "text": "Looking for me first in a room" - }, - { - "id": "planning_around_what_helps_me_relax", - "text": "Planning around what helps me relax" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_096", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which buildup makes you more curious than impatient?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_097", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which signals help you notice interest before it becomes obvious?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desire_rhythms", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_098", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which makes desire feel more mutual?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mutual_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "taking_turns_initiating", - "text": "Taking turns initiating" - }, - { - "id": "building_the_mood_together", - "text": "Building the mood together" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_099", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps the less-interested partner stay affectionate without sending a false signal?", + "text": "Which habits protect both people when desire does not match?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -2192,2247 +2614,6 @@ "consent_first", "gentle_depth" ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_100", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much freedom do you feel to want closeness without promising more?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "no_pressure", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very little freedom", - "max_label": "Complete freedom" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_101", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which check-in words sound natural enough for us to actually use?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent_boundaries", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_102", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which wording helps you share a preference honestly?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_103", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which reset helps you leave stress behind fastest?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "transition", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_quiet_shower_and_fresh_clothes", - "text": "A quiet shower and fresh clothes" - }, - { - "id": "ten_minutes_alone_to_decompress", - "text": "Ten minutes alone to decompress" - }, - { - "id": "music_while_we_tidy_the_mood", - "text": "Music while we tidy the mood" - }, - { - "id": "a_cuddle_with_no_next_step", - "text": "A cuddle with no next step" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_104", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What brings you back to the moment when appearance worries show up?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_105", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which surprise stays fun because it is easy to decline?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "novelty_routine", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_106", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which details can make private time feel protected?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "devices_silenced_and_put_away", - "text": "Devices silenced and put away" - }, - { - "id": "a_door_that_will_not_be_interrupted", - "text": "A door that will not be interrupted" - }, - { - "id": "enough_time_without_watching_the_clock", - "text": "Enough time without watching the clock" - }, - { - "id": "a_space_that_feels_comfortable", - "text": "A space that feels comfortable" - }, - { - "id": "responsibilities_handled_or_intentionally_postponed", - "text": "Responsibilities handled or intentionally postponed" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_107", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps a shared space feel temporarily like it belongs only to us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "privacy_setting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_108", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "With an immediate stop always available, what makes teasing feel welcome?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "teasing", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "it_stays_affectionate_rather_than_critical", - "text": "It stays affectionate rather than critical" - }, - { - "id": "it_is_private_and_personally_understood", - "text": "It is private and personally understood" - }, - { - "id": "it_leaves_room_for_an_easy_comeback", - "text": "It leaves room for an easy comeback" - }, - { - "id": "it_matches_the_mood_we_are_actually_in", - "text": "It matches the mood we are actually in" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_109", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which part of the day makes quiet holding feel most welcome?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "affection_nonsexual", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_110", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would help us reset without treating the moment like a failure?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "awkward_repair", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_111", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which response feels kinder when one of us is not interested?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mismatched_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_reassurance_and_space", - "text": "Warm reassurance and space" - }, - { - "id": "a_different_kind_of_closeness", - "text": "A different kind of closeness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_112", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What keeps a check-in from making the moment feel analyzed?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_113", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to hear 'not tonight' without taking it personally?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mismatched_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Still difficult", - "max_label": "Completely manageable" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_114", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which date made us feel most like co-conspirators?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "memories_lore", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_115", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "With no penalty for declining, what makes a surprise feel genuinely welcome?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "surprise", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "it_builds_on_something_i_already_mentioned", - "text": "It builds on something I already mentioned" - }, - { - "id": "it_begins_with_a_playful_invitation", - "text": "It begins with a playful invitation" - }, - { - "id": "it_stays_small_enough_to_change_course", - "text": "It stays small enough to change course" - }, - { - "id": "the_timing_leaves_room_to_relax", - "text": "The timing leaves room to relax" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_116", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make an anniversary feel intimate without making it elaborate?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future_play", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_117", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which part of our chemistry feels most uniquely ours?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "broader_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_118", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What could make our desire feel more playful this month?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "play", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_tiny_romantic_challenge", - "text": "A tiny romantic challenge" - }, - { - "id": "a_new_version_of_a_favorite_date", - "text": "A new version of a favorite date" - }, - { - "id": "more_private_jokes_and_teasing", - "text": "More private jokes and teasing" - }, - { - "id": "a_planned_low_pressure_evening", - "text": "A planned low-pressure evening" - }, - { - "id": "a_shared_playlist_for_flirty_moods", - "text": "A shared playlist for flirty moods" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_119", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How can I show attraction without turning it into an expectation?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "wanted_attraction", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_120", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When does flirting between us feel easiest and most genuine?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_121", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which signal would be easiest for us to use?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "signals", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_direct_phrase_we_both_recognize", - "text": "A direct phrase we both recognize" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_code_word_in_a_message", - "text": "A playful code word in a message" - }, - { - "id": "a_question_that_offers_several_answers", - "text": "A question that offers several answers" - }, - { - "id": "a_gesture_followed_by_a_verbal_check", - "text": "A gesture followed by a verbal check" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_122", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps initiation feel shared rather than one-sided?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_123", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When stress is high, what form of closeness still feels easy?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "transition_stress", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_124", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do our shared memories still create sparks?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "memories", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Almost never", - "max_label": "Very often" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_125", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How can anticipation stay fun when plans are delayed?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_126", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which environment makes interruptions easiest to forget?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "setting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_lighting_and_a_locked_door", - "text": "Soft lighting and a locked door" - }, - { - "id": "a_familiar_room_with_no_interruptions", - "text": "A familiar room with no interruptions" - }, - { - "id": "music_low_enough_to_still_talk", - "text": "Music low enough to still talk" - }, - { - "id": "a_clean_space_and_plenty_of_time", - "text": "A clean space and plenty of time" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_127", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How much does emotional closeness affect your physical interest?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desire_rhythms", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_128", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When our 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"gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_131", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Would you rather discuss delicate topics face-to-face or side-by-side?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_132", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which version of romance brings out your desire?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "thoughtful_and_softly_planned", - "text": "Thoughtful and softly planned" - }, - { - "id": "spontaneous_and_a_little_daring", - "text": "Spontaneous and a little daring" - }, - { - "id": "cozy_with_lots_of_affectionate_buildup", - "text": "Cozy with lots of affectionate 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"answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_137", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How supported do you feel when your desire is low?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "low_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very supported", - "max_label": "Deeply supported" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_138", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which goodbye affection stays with you during the day?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "affection_nonsexual", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_139", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny ritual could protect our spark?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "ritual", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_longer_hello_at_the_end_of_the_day", - "text": "A longer hello at the end of the day" - }, - { - "id": "one_private_compliment_before_bed", - "text": "One private compliment before bed" - }, - { - "id": "a_weekly_no_phone_cuddle", - "text": "A weekly no-phone cuddle" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_message_during_the_afternoon", - "text": "A playful message during the afternoon" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_140", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What response helps embarrassment pass quickly?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "awkward_repair", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_141", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What small gesture helps you feel emotionally settled afterward?", - "depth": 4, - 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"max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_144", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which getaway would bring out our most flirtatious side?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future_play", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_145", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps an awkward moment recover fastest?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "repair", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_kind_laugh_that_includes_both_of_us", - "text": "A kind laugh that includes both of us" - }, - { - "id": "a_calm_pause_with_no_blame", - "text": "A calm pause with no blame" - }, - { - "id": "switching_to_simple_affection", - "text": "Switching to simple affection" - }, - { - "id": "admitting_it_feels_awkward_and_resetting", - "text": "Admitting it feels awkward and resetting" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_146", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you hope becomes easier for us to discuss over time?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "broader_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_147", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our desire growing with us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "long_term_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very hopeful", - "max_label": "Very hopeful" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_148", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which everyday attention makes you feel magnetic?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "wanted_attraction", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_149", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny habit could keep our playful chemistry visible?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_150", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Beyond clear consent and an easy stop, what keeps a new idea pressure-free?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "novelty", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "discussing_it_away_from_the_moment", - "text": "Discussing it away from the moment" - }, - { - "id": "treating_curiosity_as_an_invitation_to_talk", - "text": "Treating curiosity as an invitation to talk" 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"consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "start_with_a_relaxed_date_and_no_agenda", - "text": "Start with a relaxed date and no agenda" - }, - { - "id": "talk_honestly_before_adding_affection", - "text": "Talk honestly before adding affection" - }, - { - "id": "return_through_small_everyday_touches", - "text": "Return through small everyday touches" - }, - { - "id": "share_a_memory_that_reminds_us_of_us", - "text": "Share a memory that reminds us of us" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_153", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What usually needs to happen before you can relax into affection?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "transition_stress", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_154", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we stretch a romantic moment without 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"max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_157", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes pursuit feel flattering rather than pressuring?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pursuit", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "attention_continues_to_respect_my_pace", - "text": "Attention continues to respect my pace" - }, - { - "id": "interest_is_specific_rather_than_generic", - "text": "Interest is specific rather than generic" - }, - { - "id": "the_invitation_can_be_declined_gracefully", - "text": "The invitation can be declined gracefully" - }, - { - "id": "affection_remains_warm_either_way", - "text": "Affection remains warm either way" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_158", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How should we reconnect after one of us feels disappointed?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ 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helps feedback sound caring instead of corrective?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_162", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you feel admired without feeling put on display?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_163", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which form of privacy matters most to you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_chance_of_being_overheard", - "text": "No chance of being overheard" - }, - { - "id": "phones_silenced_and_out_of_reach", - "text": "Phones silenced and out 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"consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_168", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which playful energy suits us best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "play", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet_and_slightly_mischievous", - "text": "Sweet and slightly mischievous" - }, - { - "id": "bold_but_easy_to_redirect", - "text": "Bold but easy to redirect" - }, - { - "id": "silly_enough_to_break_tension", - "text": "Silly enough to break tension" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_with_lots_of_eye_contact", - "text": "Quiet with lots of eye contact" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_169", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When plans fall apart, what keeps the connection intact?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "awkward_repair", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_170", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When would space feel better than cuddling?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_171", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which future plan feels more exciting?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_private_weekend_escape", - "text": "A private weekend escape" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_night_at_home", - "text": "A playful night at home" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_172", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which compliment from our history do you still remember?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "memories_lore", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_173", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you initiating when the mood feels right?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "I rarely initiate", - "max_label": "I initiate comfortably" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_174", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which monthly ritual could protect our chemistry from busy schedules?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future_play", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_175", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How can our differences make our connection more interesting rather than harder?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "broader_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_176", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which small plan would create the most anticipation?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "planning", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_no_phone_hour_later_tonight", - "text": "A no-phone hour later tonight" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_dessert_after_everything_is_done", - "text": "A private dessert after everything is done" - }, - { - "id": "a_walk_that_ends_with_time_alone", - "text": "A walk that ends with time alone" - }, - { - "id": "a_note_naming_one_thing_i_look_forward_to", - "text": "A note naming one thing I look forward to" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_177", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When has a small look from me made you feel especially wanted?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "wanted_attraction", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_178", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could I flirt with you when words would feel awkward?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_179", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "With no blame or scorekeeping, what helps mismatched desire feel less personal?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mismatch", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "remembering_that_moods_naturally_change", - "text": "Remembering that moods naturally change" - }, - { - "id": "talking_outside_the_immediate_moment", - "text": "Talking outside the immediate moment" - }, - { - "id": "naming_affection_that_still_feels_welcome", - "text": "Naming affection that still feels welcome" - }, - { - "id": "reassuring_each_other_without_making_promises", - "text": "Reassuring each other without making promises" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_one_moment_does_not_define_our_chemistry", - "text": "Remembering one moment does not define our chemistry" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_180", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which first move feels warm even if it goes no further?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_181", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What pace helps you stay most connected to the moment?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "pace", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_enough_to_notice_every_change", - "text": "Slow enough to notice every change" - }, - { - "id": "natural_and_guided_by_both_people", - "text": "Natural and guided by both people" - }, - { - "id": "playful_with_frequent_verbal_check_ins", - "text": "Playful with frequent verbal check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "flexible_depending_on_the_day", - "text": "Flexible depending on the day" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_182", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we signal that tonight is for unwinding, not performing?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "transition_stress", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_183", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What detail makes you look forward to private time most?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_184", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How freely can you express strong desire without creating pressure?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "high_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not freely yet", - "max_label": "Very freely" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_185", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When interest is quiet, what helps you stay connected to it?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desire_rhythms", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_186", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "What flirt would brighten an ordinary afternoon?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_mischievous_message", - "text": "A mischievous message" - }, - { - "id": "a_lingering_in_person_look", - "text": "A lingering in-person look" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_187", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What keeps a difference in desire from feeling personal?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mismatched_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_188", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How should we clarify an unclear signal instead of guessing?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent_boundaries", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_189", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Once stopping is guaranteed, which first step makes a new idea approachable?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "novelty", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_about_what_interests_each_of_us", - "text": "Talk about what interests each of us" - }, - { - "id": "name_any_firm_limits", - "text": "Name any firm limits" - }, - { - "id": "choose_the_simplest_possible_version", - "text": "Choose the simplest possible version" - }, - { - "id": "decide_when_to_check_in", - "text": "Decide when to check in" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_190", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make post-moment feedback feel caring instead of graded?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_191", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When do you feel most at ease in your own skin around me?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_192", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things keep long-term chemistry alive?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "long_term", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "continuing_to_notice_each_other", - "text": "Continuing to notice each other" - }, - { - "id": "making_time_for_unhurried_affection", - "text": "Making time for unhurried affection" - }, - { - "id": "trying_small_changes_without_pressure", - "text": "Trying small changes without pressure" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_what_already_works", - "text": "Remembering what already works" - }, - { - "id": "talking_kindly_when_desire_shifts", - "text": "Talking kindly when desire shifts" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_193", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would refresh our connection without requiring a big plan?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "novelty_routine", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_194", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps desire feel mutual in the moment?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mutuality", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "both_people_actively_choosing_to_move_closer", - "text": "Both people actively choosing to move closer" - }, - { - "id": "clear_words_plus_active_participation", - "text": "Clear words plus active participation" - }, - { - "id": "taking_turns_showing_interest", - "text": "Taking turns showing interest" - }, - { - "id": "pausing_whenever_either_person_hesitates", - "text": "Pausing whenever either person hesitates" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_195", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Does music help you settle in, or does quiet feel better?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "privacy_setting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_196", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a long hug feel especially grounding?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "affection_nonsexual", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_197", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How excited are you about making new romantic memories together?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very excited", - "max_label": "Extremely excited" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_198", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How would you like feedback handled when something misses the mark?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "awkward_repair", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_199", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What usually protects your mood best?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "mood", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "enough_time_that_nothing_feels_rushed", - "text": "Enough time that nothing feels rushed" - }, - { - "id": "privacy_from_likely_interruptions", - "text": "Privacy from likely interruptions" - }, - { - "id": "a_gentle_transition_out_of_responsibilities", - "text": "A gentle transition out of responsibilities" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_affection_can_stop_anywhere", - "text": "Knowing affection can stop anywhere" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_200", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How do you know closeness mattered beyond the physical moment?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_201", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What was our most unexpectedly romantic ordinary day?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "memories_lore", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_202", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which makes honest feedback easier?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "feedback", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { @@ -4440,724 +2621,873 @@ "text": "Talking outside the moment" }, { - "id": "gentle_guidance_in_the_moment", - "text": "Gentle guidance in the moment" + "id": "using_clear_kind_language", + "text": "Using clear, kind language" + }, + { + "id": "making_room_for_different_needs", + "text": "Making room for different needs" + }, + { + "id": "never_treating_consent_as_negotiable", + "text": "Never treating consent as negotiable" } ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_203", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would a perfect slow evening together include?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future_play", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_204", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does feeling sexually understood look like in everyday life?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "broader_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_205", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "With no debt or scorekeeping, which reassurance helps most after a mismatch?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mismatch", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_are_still_close_even_without_sex", - "text": "We are still close even without sex" - }, - { - "id": "your_honest_answer_did_not_hurt_us", - "text": "Your honest answer did not hurt us" - }, - { - "id": "our_attraction_is_still_real", - "text": "Our attraction is still real" - }, - { - "id": "we_can_reconnect_in_another_way", - "text": "We can reconnect in another way" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_206", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes praise about your appearance feel sincere rather than automatic?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "wanted_attraction", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_207", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How playful has our flirting felt this week?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Barely playful", - "max_label": "Very playful" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_208", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which message would brighten your day without demanding a response?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_209", + "id": "sex_and_desire_083", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "With every answer treated warmly, which conditions make initiation feel inviting?", + "text": "What can reassure you after an invitation does not land?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "initiation", + "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "clear_interest_without_urgency", - "text": "Clear interest without urgency" + "id": "hearing_it_was_not_personal", + "text": "Hearing it was not personal" }, { - "id": "enough_time_to_answer_honestly", - "text": "Enough time to answer honestly" + "id": "staying_affectionate", + "text": "Staying affectionate" }, { - "id": "a_private_setting_with_dependable_quiet", - "text": "A private setting with dependable quiet" + "id": "knowing_another_time_is_possible", + "text": "Knowing another time is possible" }, { - "id": "attention_to_the_mood_we_are_actually_in", - "text": "Attention to the mood we are actually in" - }, - { - "id": "an_invitation_that_fits_our_shared_style", - "text": "An invitation that fits our shared style" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_210", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How should we handle a missed signal without embarrassment?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_211", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When your mind is busy, what helps you become present?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "transition_stress", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_212", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which type of private message feels most exciting?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "messages", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_memory_that_hints_at_our_chemistry", - "text": "A memory that hints at our chemistry" - }, - { - "id": "a_compliment_too_personal_for_public", - "text": "A compliment too personal for public" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_invitation_for_later", - "text": "A playful invitation for later" - }, - { - "id": "a_simple_statement_that_you_miss_me", - "text": "A simple statement that you miss me" + "id": "being_thanked_for_asking_respectfully", + "text": "Being thanked for asking respectfully" } ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_213", + "id": "sex_and_desire_084", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When does suspense add spark, and when does it become distracting?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_214", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us respect different desire schedules?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "desire_rhythms", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_215", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which spoken check-in feels most natural?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How safe does it feel to want different amounts without upsetting each other?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_direct_yes_or_no_question", - "text": "A direct yes-or-no question" - }, - { - "id": "a_pause_followed_by_still_good", - "text": "A pause followed by 'Still good?'" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_216", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When would trying again later feel welcome, and when would it not?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", "gentle_depth" ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_217", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a boundary feel respected in the moment, not only afterward?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent_boundaries", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_218", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which old spark would be most fun to revive?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "memory", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "the_way_we_flirted_on_early_dates", - "text": "The way we flirted on early dates" - }, - { - "id": "a_favorite_slow_dance_song", - "text": "A favorite slow-dance song" - }, - { - "id": "our_habit_of_lingering_goodnight_kisses", - "text": "Our habit of lingering goodnight kisses" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_joke_with_romantic_history", - "text": "A private joke with romantic history" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_219", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a vulnerable answer feel protected after it is shared?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_220", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel to your own desire lately?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desire_awareness", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Disconnected from it", - "max_label": "Strongly connected" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_221", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would help you receive a compliment instead of dismissing it?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_222", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which old spark deserves a modern version?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "novelty_routine", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_223", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps conversations about frequency stay respectful?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "frequency", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "talking_about_feelings_rather_than_quotas", - "text": "Talking about feelings rather than quotas" - }, - { - "id": "recognizing_stress_health_and_energy_changes", - "text": "Recognizing stress, health, and energy changes" - }, - { - "id": "keeping_affection_separate_from_obligation", - "text": "Keeping affection separate from obligation" - }, - { - "id": "looking_for_shared_possibilities_not_blame", - "text": "Looking for shared possibilities, not blame" - }, - { - "id": "allowing_the_conversation_to_continue_later", - "text": "Allowing the conversation to continue later" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_224", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a planned private evening feel protected from interruptions?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "privacy_setting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_225", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which low-energy option still feels romantic?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "low_energy", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sharing_a_blanket_and_holding_hands", - "text": "Sharing a blanket and holding hands" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_kiss_before_going_to_sleep", - "text": "A slow kiss before going to sleep" - }, - { - "id": "a_back_rub_with_no_expectations", - "text": "A back rub with no expectations" - }, - { - "id": "listening_to_one_song_while_close", - "text": "Listening to one song while close" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_226", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which quiet form of affection helps after a difficult day?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "affection_nonsexual", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_227", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us avoid taking an awkward pause personally?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "awkward_repair", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_228", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which helps confidence more on an ordinary day?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "an_unexpected_compliment", - "text": "An unexpected compliment" - }, - { - "id": "undivided_admiring_attention", - "text": "Undivided admiring attention" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_229", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How should we handle different aftercare needs without either person feeling rejected?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_230", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which version of our younger selves would be proud of our closeness now?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "memories_lore", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_231", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When affection is guaranteed to stay optional, which support matters most on a low-desire day?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "low_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "i_can_ask_for_less_without_explaining", - "text": "I can ask for less without explaining" - }, - { - "id": "you_follow_my_pace_instead_of_guessing", - "text": "You follow my pace instead of guessing" - }, - { - "id": "we_choose_a_kind_of_touch_i_name", - "text": "We choose a kind of touch I name" - }, - { - "id": "the_moment_can_stay_brief_and_simple", - "text": "The moment can stay brief and simple" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_232", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What could give future private time something to look forward to?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future_play", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_233", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How safe does it feel to change your mind during a private moment?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not safe enough", + "min_label": "Not very safe", "max_label": "Completely safe" } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_234", + "id": "sex_and_desire_085", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make this part of our relationship feel more playful this year?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What would a kind response to mismatched desire look like for us?", + "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "broader_desire", + "mismatched_desire", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_235", + "id": "sex_and_desire_086", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which part of being desired matters most beyond physical attraction?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which conversations should happen before frustration builds?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "mismatched_desire", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_often_each_person_thinks_about_sex", + "text": "How often each person thinks about sex" + }, + { + "id": "what_low_desire_means_and_does_not_mean", + "text": "What low desire means and does not mean" + }, + { + "id": "how_to_initiate_respectfully", + "text": "How to initiate respectfully" + }, + { + "id": "how_to_stay_close_through_dry_spells", + "text": "How to stay close through dry spells" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_087", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is the best time to talk about a recurring desire mismatch?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "mismatched_desire", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "during_a_calm_private_moment", + "text": "During a calm private moment" + }, + { + "id": "soon_after_once_emotions_settle", + "text": "Soon after, once emotions settle" + }, + { + "id": "during_a_planned_check_in", + "text": "During a planned check-in" + }, + { + "id": "whenever_both_people_feel_ready", + "text": "Whenever both people feel ready" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_088", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps reassurance from sounding like a promise you cannot make?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "mismatched_desire", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "being_honest_about_your_mood", + "text": "Being honest about your mood" + }, + { + "id": "affirming_attraction_without_setting_a_date", + "text": "Affirming attraction without setting a date" + }, + { + "id": "avoiding_guilt_driven_offers", + "text": "Avoiding guilt-driven offers" + }, + { + "id": "letting_uncertainty_be_acceptable", + "text": "Letting uncertainty be acceptable" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_089", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which things are fair to ask for when desire is different?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "mismatched_desire", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "honest_communication", + "text": "Honest communication" + }, + { + "id": "respectful_initiation", + "text": "Respectful initiation" + }, + { + "id": "kind_handling_of_no", + "text": "Kind handling of no" + }, + { + "id": "a_conversation_about_the_pattern", + "text": "A conversation about the pattern" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_090", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What would make this topic easier for us to revisit?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "mismatched_desire", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "less_blame", + "text": "Less blame" + }, + { + "id": "clearer_language", + "text": "Clearer language" + }, + { + "id": "a_set_time_to_talk", + "text": "A set time to talk" + }, + { + "id": "more_reassurance_first", + "text": "More reassurance first" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_091", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you feel attractive when your confidence is off?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "wanted_attraction", + "sexual_confidence", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_specific_compliment", + "text": "A specific compliment" + }, + { + "id": "being_looked_at_with_real_interest", + "text": "Being looked at with real interest" + }, + { + "id": "no_attention_on_insecurities", + "text": "No attention on insecurities" + }, + { + "id": "time_to_feel_like_yourself_again", + "text": "Time to feel like yourself again" + } + ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_236", + "id": "sex_and_desire_092", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which compliment feels most connected to desire?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_look_incredible", + "text": "You look incredible" + }, + { + "id": "i_cannot_stop_thinking_about_you", + "text": "I cannot stop thinking about you" + }, + { + "id": "i_love_the_way_you_carry_yourself", + "text": "I love the way you carry yourself" + }, + { + "id": "i_want_you_close", + "text": "I want you close" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_093", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things make feedback easier to share?", + "text": "What makes a compliment easier to believe?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_is_specific", + "text": "It is specific" + }, + { + "id": "it_comes_at_an_unexpected_time", + "text": "It comes at an unexpected time" + }, + { + "id": "it_sounds_like_your_real_voice", + "text": "It sounds like your real voice" + }, + { + "id": "it_asks_for_nothing_in_return", + "text": "It asks for nothing in return" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_094", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How comfortable do you feel being openly desired by me?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very comfortable", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_095", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "A bold compliment or quiet admiration?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_bold_compliment", + "text": "A bold compliment" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_admiration", + "text": "Quiet admiration" + }, + { + "id": "both_at_different_times", + "text": "Both at different times" + }, + { + "id": "whichever_feels_sincere", + "text": "Whichever feels sincere" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_096", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which things help body worries fade into the background?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_emotionally_safe", + "text": "Feeling emotionally safe" + }, + { + "id": "not_being_rushed", + "text": "Not being rushed" + }, + { + "id": "attention_that_is_not_critical", + "text": "Attention that is not critical" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_you_are_wanted_as_you_are", + "text": "Knowing you are wanted as you are" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_097", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When confidence is low, what kind of attention is easiest to receive?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gentle_and_patient", + "text": "Gentle and patient" + }, + { + "id": "playful_and_distracting", + "text": "Playful and distracting" + }, + { + "id": "direct_and_reassuring", + "text": "Direct and reassuring" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_with_no_pressure", + "text": "Quiet with no pressure" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_098", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make sexual attention feel uncomfortable even when it is meant kindly?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "focusing_on_an_insecurity", + "text": "Focusing on an insecurity" + }, + { + "id": "being_too_public", + "text": "Being too public" + }, + { + "id": "expecting_an_immediate_response", + "text": "Expecting an immediate response" + }, + { + "id": "not_noticing_your_mood", + "text": "Not noticing your mood" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_099", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which changes can affect how desirable you feel?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "stress_and_exhaustion", + "text": "Stress and exhaustion" + }, + { + "id": "aging_or_body_changes", + "text": "Aging or body changes" + }, + { + "id": "health_changes", + "text": "Health changes" + }, + { + "id": "how_we_have_been_relating_lately", + "text": "How we have been relating lately" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_100", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you feel sexy without needing to look perfect?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "feeling_confident", + "text": "Feeling confident" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_wanted", + "text": "Feeling wanted" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_relaxed", + "text": "Feeling relaxed" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_playful", + "text": "Feeling playful" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_101", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well do you think I understand what affects your sexual confidence?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very well", + "max_label": "Very well" + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_102", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kind of reassurance supports confidence without dismissing your feelings?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "listening_before_reassuring", + "text": "Listening before reassuring" + }, + { + "id": "naming_what_you_truly_find_attractive", + "text": "Naming what you truly find attractive" + }, + { + "id": "not_arguing_with_the_insecurity", + "text": "Not arguing with the insecurity" + }, + { + "id": "giving_attention_without_pushing_for_more", + "text": "Giving attention without pushing for more" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_103", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which moments make you feel most magnetic around me?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "when_i_am_laughing", + "text": "When I am laughing" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_feel_capable", + "text": "When I feel capable" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_dress_for_myself", + "text": "When I dress for myself" + }, + { + "id": "when_i_know_you_are_watching", + "text": "When I know you are watching" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_104", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What would help you trust that my desire is real as we change?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "hearing_it_more_often", + "text": "Hearing it more often" + }, + { + "id": "seeing_it_in_your_actions", + "text": "Seeing it in your actions" + }, + { + "id": "talking_honestly_about_changes", + "text": "Talking honestly about changes" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_pursued_in_new_ways", + "text": "Feeling pursued in new ways" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_105", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps attraction grow beyond appearance alone?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sexual_confidence", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "confidence", + "text": "Confidence" + }, + { + "id": "humor", + "text": "Humor" + }, + { + "id": "emotional_closeness", + "text": "Emotional closeness" + }, + { + "id": "the_way_we_know_each_other", + "text": "The way we know each other" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_106", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes talking about desire feel safe and normal?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "desire_communication", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_joking_at_the_other_person_s_expense", + "text": "No joking at the other person's expense" + }, + { + "id": "no_pressure_for_an_immediate_answer", + "text": "No pressure for an immediate answer" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity_instead_of_criticism", + "text": "Curiosity instead of criticism" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_107", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which check-in sounds most natural when the mood is unclear?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "consent", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "are_you_into_this", + "text": "Are you into this?" + }, + { + "id": "want_me_to_keep_going", + "text": "Want me to keep going?" + }, + { + "id": "how_are_you_feeling", + "text": "How are you feeling?" + }, + { + "id": "would_you_rather_slow_down", + "text": "Would you rather slow down?" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_108", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which answers should always be treated as complete answers?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "consent", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "not_tonight", + "text": "Not tonight" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_not_sure", + "text": "I am not sure" + }, + { + "id": "i_want_to_slow_down", + "text": "I want to slow down" + }, + { + "id": "i_changed_my_mind", + "text": "I changed my mind" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_109", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Ask plainly or check in through the moment?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "consent", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_plainly", + "text": "Ask plainly" + }, + { + "id": "check_in_through_the_moment", + "text": "Check in through the moment" + }, + { + "id": "use_both", + "text": "Use both" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_i_prefer", + "text": "Ask what I prefer" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_110", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes feedback easier to hear without killing the mood?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -5169,724 +3499,29 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "choosing_a_calm_time_afterward", - "text": "Choosing a calm time afterward" + "id": "a_warm_tone", + "text": "A warm tone" }, { - "id": "beginning_with_what_felt_good", - "text": "Beginning with what felt good" + "id": "clear_simple_words", + "text": "Clear, simple words" }, { - "id": "making_one_clear_request_at_a_time", - "text": "Making one clear request at a time" + "id": "knowing_it_is_not_criticism", + "text": "Knowing it is not criticism" }, { - "id": "listening_without_defending_immediately", - "text": "Listening without defending immediately" - }, - { - "id": "allowing_some_thoughts_to_wait", - "text": "Allowing some thoughts to wait" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_237", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Where does our best flirting usually begin?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_238", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which part of initiation should feel most shared?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "who_starts_the_conversation", - "text": "Who starts the conversation" - }, - { - "id": "who_sets_the_pace", - "text": "Who sets the pace" - }, - { - "id": "who_suggests_the_next_step", - "text": "Who suggests the next step" - }, - { - "id": "who_can_comfortably_pause_it", - "text": "Who can comfortably pause it" + "id": "a_response_that_shows_appreciation", + "text": "A response that shows appreciation" } ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_239", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What protects your freedom to change your answer after closeness begins?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_240", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which part of the evening most affects your openness to desire?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "transition_stress", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_241", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How confident do you feel receiving genuine compliments from me?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "I deflect them", - "max_label": "I fully receive them" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_242", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is a subtle way to say, 'I am thinking about later'?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_243", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which humor helps romantic tension?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "humor", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "an_inside_joke_at_exactly_the_right_time", - "text": "An inside joke at exactly the right time" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_teasing_that_never_targets_insecurity", - "text": "Gentle teasing that never targets insecurity" - }, - { - "id": "laughing_together_when_plans_go_wrong", - "text": "Laughing together when plans go wrong" - }, - { - "id": "pretending_to_be_dramatically_irresistible", - "text": "Pretending to be dramatically irresistible" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_244", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does a healthy rhythm of closeness look like to you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desire_rhythms", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_245", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What keeps recurring mismatch talks from turning into scorekeeping?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mismatched_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_246", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which compliment lands more deeply?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "compliments", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_about_my_appearance", - "text": "Something about my appearance" - }, - { - "id": "something_about_my_energy", - "text": "Something about my energy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_247", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How can curiosity stay welcome without becoming persuasion?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent_boundaries", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_248", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which topics are easier to discuss before a romantic moment?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_249", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which future plan sounds most chemistry-friendly?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_cozy_overnight_with_no_schedule", - "text": "A cozy overnight with no schedule" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_date_in_a_new_place", - "text": "A playful date in a new place" - }, - { - "id": "a_familiar_favorite_with_extra_privacy", - "text": "A familiar favorite with extra privacy" - }, - { - "id": "a_quiet_weekend_built_around_rest", - "text": "A quiet weekend built around rest" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_250", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes insecurity talks supportive without making insecurity the focus?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_251", + "id": "sex_and_desire_111", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "After an honest no is fully accepted, which gestures help us stay connected?", - "depth": 5, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "pressure_free_affection_if_welcome", - "text": "Pressure-free affection if welcome" - }, - { - "id": "a_warm_change_of_subject", - "text": "A warm change of subject" - }, - { - "id": "some_space_without_coldness", - "text": "Some space without coldness" - }, - { - "id": "a_different_shared_activity", - "text": "A different shared activity" - }, - { - "id": "trusting_we_can_reconnect_later", - "text": "Trusting we can reconnect later" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_252", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What keeps curiosity alive while honoring different comfort levels?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "novelty_routine", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_253", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How much does knowing we have enough time affect your openness?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "privacy_setting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_254", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you naming what would feel good emotionally?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard to put into words", - "max_label": "Easy to name clearly" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_255", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What physical closeness works when one of us needs low stimulation?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "affection_nonsexual", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_256", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps frequency talks stay kind?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "frequency", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "speaking_about_patterns_instead_of_blame", - "text": "Speaking about patterns instead of blame" - }, - { - "id": "naming_closeness_we_already_value", - "text": "Naming closeness we already value" - }, - { - "id": "making_no_promises_in_the_moment", - "text": "Making no promises in the moment" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_a_calm_time_outside_the_bedroom", - "text": "Choosing a calm time outside the bedroom" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_257", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How can humor help without making either person feel mocked?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "awkward_repair", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_258", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "After vulnerability, what reassurance feels natural?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_259", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which conversation opener feels safer?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "can_i_share_something_i_want", - "text": "Can I share something I want?" - }, - { - "id": "would_you_like_to_hear_an_idea", - "text": "Would you like to hear an idea?" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_260", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What private joke became part of our romantic language?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "memories_lore", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_261", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What playful agreement could make spontaneous affection easier?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future_play", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_262", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which busy-day gesture keeps romantic energy alive?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_quick_mischievous_text", - "text": "A quick mischievous text" - }, - { - "id": "a_meaningful_look_while_passing", - "text": "A meaningful look while passing" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_favor_with_playful_energy", - "text": "A tiny favor with playful energy" - }, - { - "id": "a_planned_moment_to_reconnect_later", - "text": "A planned moment to reconnect later" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_263", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes my interest feel personal rather than situational?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "wanted_attraction", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_264", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a compliment feel flirtatious rather than simply nice?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_265", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which signs tell you that we are emotionally connected?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "connection", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "conversation_feels_easy_and_attentive", - "text": "Conversation feels easy and attentive" - }, - { - "id": "affection_does_not_carry_an_agenda", - "text": "Affection does not carry an agenda" - }, - { - "id": "we_can_laugh_without_avoiding_real_feelings", - "text": "We can laugh without avoiding real feelings" - }, - { - "id": "differences_do_not_threaten_warmth", - "text": "Differences do not threaten warmth" - }, - { - "id": "we_both_feel_free_to_be_honest", - "text": "We both feel free to be honest" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_266", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which part of initiation deserves more playfulness between us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_267", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How attractive do you feel in our everyday life together?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "body_confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely attractive", - "max_label": "Frequently attractive" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_268", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is a low-effort way to shift from task mode into us mode?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "transition_stress", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_269", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of feedback is easiest to receive?", + "text": "When can feedback about desire be easiest to share?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -5898,628 +3533,63 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "one_thing_you_especially_enjoyed", - "text": "One thing you especially enjoyed" + "id": "in_the_moment_briefly", + "text": "In the moment, briefly" }, { - "id": "a_gentle_request_for_next_time", - "text": "A gentle request for next time" + "id": "later_that_night", + "text": "Later that night" }, { - "id": "a_question_about_how_it_felt", - "text": "A question about how it felt" + "id": "the_next_day", + "text": "The next day" }, { - "id": "a_later_conversation_when_relaxed", - "text": "A later conversation when relaxed" + "id": "during_a_separate_conversation", + "text": "During a separate conversation" } ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_270", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What builds anticipation while keeping every next step optional?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_271", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which changes in routine affect your interest more than expected?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desire_rhythms", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_272", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes emotional closeness turn into desire?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "emotional_closeness", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "feeling_deeply_listened_to", - "text": "Feeling deeply listened to" - }, - { - "id": "laughing_until_the_day_feels_lighter", - "text": "Laughing until the day feels lighter" - }, - { - "id": "being_appreciated_in_a_specific_way", - "text": "Being appreciated in a specific way" - }, - { - "id": "knowing_we_have_protected_private_time", - "text": "Knowing we have protected private time" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_273", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What does kindness look like when one person wants more closeness?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mismatched_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_274", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should always remain true when we try something unfamiliar?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "consent_boundaries", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_275", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which helps desire survive a busy season?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "busy_life", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "protecting_small_couple_rituals", - "text": "Protecting small couple rituals" - }, - { - "id": "planning_occasional_bigger_moments", - "text": "Planning occasional bigger moments" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_276", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How should we revisit a conversation that felt unfinished?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_277", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which attention helps confidence grow naturally?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_278", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easily can we laugh when a romantic moment gets awkward?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "awkwardness", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not easily", - "max_label": "Very easily" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_279", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes experimenting feel playful rather than goal-oriented?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "novelty_routine", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_280", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which desire difference is easiest to navigate?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "differences", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "different_preferred_times_of_day", - "text": "Different preferred times of day" - }, - { - "id": "different_speeds_of_getting_interested", - "text": "Different speeds of getting interested" - }, - { - "id": "different_amounts_of_advance_planning", - "text": "Different amounts of advance planning" - }, - { - "id": "different_needs_for_affection_afterward", - "text": "Different needs for affection afterward" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_281", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What small environmental detail changes the mood fastest for you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "privacy_setting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_282", + "id": "sex_and_desire_112", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "With pausing always welcome, what supports confidence during closeness?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "attention_that_is_not_evaluative", - "text": "Attention that is not evaluative" - }, - { - "id": "lighting_or_clothing_that_feels_comfortable", - "text": "Lighting or clothing that feels comfortable" - }, - { - "id": "permission_to_guide_the_pace", - "text": "Permission to guide the pace" - }, - { - "id": "compliments_that_sound_specific_and_true", - "text": "Compliments that sound specific and true" - }, - { - "id": "careful_attention_without_staring", - "text": "Careful attention without staring" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_283", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which playful touch also feels clearly pressure-free?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "affection_nonsexual", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_284", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make trying again later feel natural?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "awkward_repair", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_285", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which ordinary moment has the best spark potential?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "reuniting_at_the_end_of_the_day", - "text": "Reuniting at the end of the day" - }, - { - "id": "cooking_together_after_everyone_settles", - "text": "Cooking together after everyone settles" - }, - { - "id": "a_quiet_goodbye_before_leaving", - "text": "A quiet goodbye before leaving" - }, - { - "id": "getting_ready_side_by_side", - "text": "Getting ready side by side" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_286", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes the ending of private time feel unhurried?", + "text": "Which phrases help keep consent active instead of assumed?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "aftercare", + "consent", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", "gentle_depth" ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_287", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When have we handled a difference in desire especially well?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "memories_lore", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_288", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to notice when I am attracted to you?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "attraction", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard to notice", - "max_label": "Very easy to notice" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_289", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which season brings out the most romantic version of us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future_play", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_290", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How would you like me to show that I am excited to be close?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "wanted_attraction", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_291", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When chemistry gets interrupted, which reset feels better?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "awkwardness", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "laugh_and_reset_together", - "text": "Laugh and reset together" + "id": "do_you_want_this", + "text": "Do you want this?" }, { - "id": "pause_and_talk_softly", - "text": "Pause and talk softly" + "id": "still_good", + "text": "Still good?" + }, + { + "id": "want_something_different", + "text": "Want something different?" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_stop", + "text": "We can stop" } ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_292", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which version of us is the most naturally playful together?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_293", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which private ritual best captures our particular chemistry?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "couple_lore", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_private_phrase_nobody_else_understands", - "text": "A private phrase nobody else understands" - }, - { - "id": "a_familiar_song_with_shared_history", - "text": "A familiar song with shared history" - }, - { - "id": "a_ritual_we_invented_together", - "text": "A ritual we invented together" - }, - { - "id": "a_look_that_carries_an_entire_conversation", - "text": "A look that carries an entire conversation" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_294", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes being approached feel thoughtful rather than assumed?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_295", + "id": "sex_and_desire_113", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps a flirty conversation stay comfortable?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "privacy_from_other_people", - "text": "Privacy from other people" - }, - { - "id": "room_to_laugh_or_change_the_subject", - "text": "Room to laugh or change the subject" - }, - { - "id": "questions_that_do_not_demand_disclosure", - "text": "Questions that do not demand disclosure" - }, - { - "id": "no_assumption_that_talk_becomes_action", - "text": "No assumption that talk becomes action" - }, - { - "id": "kindness_if_our_answers_differ", - "text": "Kindness if our answers differ" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_296", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How can I help without making relaxation feel like a transaction?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "transition_stress", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_297", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What countdown would feel playful rather than serious?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_298", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Once a no is fully safe, what helps a yes feel genuinely chosen?", + "text": "What should happen when someone changes their mind?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -6531,86 +3601,53 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "the_invitation_reflects_my_actual_mood", - "text": "The invitation reflects my actual mood" + "id": "stop_without_debate", + "text": "Stop without debate" }, { - "id": "time_to_notice_what_i_really_want", - "text": "Time to notice what I really want" + "id": "respond_without_sulking", + "text": "Respond without sulking" }, { - "id": "a_question_that_is_clear_and_specific", - "text": "A question that is clear and specific" + "id": "check_what_would_feel_okay_now", + "text": "Check what would feel okay now" }, { - "id": "freedom_to_change_my_mind_later", - "text": "Freedom to change my mind later" + "id": "make_sure_the_person_still_feels_respected", + "text": "Make sure the person still feels respected" } ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_299", + "id": "sex_and_desire_114", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How do you know when you want affection but not anything further?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desire_rhythms", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_300", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we celebrate an honest no as part of trust?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it for you to ask for something different in the moment?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mismatched_desire", + "feedback", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", "gentle_depth" ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_301", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much anticipation do you enjoy before private time?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A long slow build" + "min_label": "Very difficult", + "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_302", + "id": "sex_and_desire_115", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "written", - "text": "How would you like me to respond when you need more time?", + "text": "What would help you speak more freely about desire with me?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "consent_boundaries", + "desire_communication", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", "gentle_depth" @@ -6620,711 +3657,115 @@ } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_303", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes clarification easier than pretending to understand?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_304", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which attention feels flattering without becoming intense?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_private_glance_that_does_not_linger_too_long", - "text": "A private glance that does not linger too long" - }, - { - "id": "specific_words_about_your_presence", - "text": "Specific words about your presence" - }, - { - "id": "affection_focused_on_comfort", - "text": "Affection focused on comfort" - }, - { - "id": "being_asked_what_kind_of_attention_feels_good", - "text": "Being asked what kind of attention feels good" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_305", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps desire feel possible when you do not feel your best?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "confidence", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_306", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which creates more anticipation for you?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hints_spread_through_the_day", - "text": "Hints spread through the day" - }, - { - "id": "one_bold_surprise_later", - "text": "One bold surprise later" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_307", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When would planning something new feel more exciting than spontaneity?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "novelty_routine", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_308", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes privacy feel secure without making the plan feel secretive?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "privacy_setting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_309", + "id": "sex_and_desire_116", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can make desire harder to access?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "barriers", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "exhaustion_that_has_not_eased", - "text": "Exhaustion that has not eased" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_rushed_or_observed", - "text": "Feeling rushed or observed" - }, - { - "id": "unfinished_conflict_between_us", - "text": "Unfinished conflict between us" - }, - { - "id": "pressure_to_respond_a_certain_way", - "text": "Pressure to respond a certain way" - }, - { - "id": "too_many_distractions_nearby", - "text": "Too many distractions nearby" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_310", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "When does sitting close say more than a conversation?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "affection_nonsexual", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_311", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which compliment feels most believable to you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "compliments", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "something_specific_i_noticed_today", - "text": "Something specific I noticed today" - }, - { - "id": "praise_for_how_you_carry_yourself", - "text": "Praise for how you carry yourself" - }, - { - "id": "words_about_the_effect_you_have_on_me", - "text": "Words about the effect you have on me" - }, - { - "id": "a_quiet_comment_meant_only_for_you", - "text": "A quiet comment meant only for you" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_312", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How should we end a moment that no longer feels right?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "awkward_repair", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_313", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What carries warmth into the rest of the day?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_314", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How cared for do you feel after an emotionally intense private moment?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not cared for enough", - "max_label": "Very cared for" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_315", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What moment made you feel safely bold with me?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "memories_lore", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_316", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a planned night feel personal rather than scheduled?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future_play", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_317", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should a good desire conversation leave behind?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_understanding_without_new_pressure", - "text": "More understanding without new pressure" - }, - { - "id": "a_practical_idea_we_both_like", - "text": "A practical idea we both like" - }, - { - "id": "permission_to_think_and_revisit_later", - "text": "Permission to think and revisit later" - }, - { - "id": "warmth_even_when_answers_differ", - "text": "Warmth even when answers differ" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_318", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes feeling wanted playful instead of emotionally heavy?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "wanted_attraction", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_319", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make flirting feel fresh without making it feel forced?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "flirting", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_320", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which aftercare helps you settle more?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "close_quiet_contact", - "text": "Close quiet contact" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_conversation_afterward", - "text": "Gentle conversation afterward" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_321", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make room for both spontaneous and planned initiation?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "initiation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_322", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which forms of anticipation sound enjoyable?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_playful_message_earlier_in_the_day", - "text": "A playful message earlier in the day" - }, - { - "id": "a_private_plan_with_flexible_timing", - "text": "A private plan with flexible timing" - }, - { - "id": "a_compliment_that_lingers_in_your_mind", - "text": "A compliment that lingers in your mind" - }, - { - "id": "a_shared_joke_about_later", - "text": "A shared joke about later" - }, - { - "id": "a_slow_affectionate_buildup", - "text": "A slow affectionate buildup" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_323", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes a tired night feel connected even if nothing physical follows?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "transition_stress", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_324", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "During body changes, what helps you feel attractive?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "body_changes", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "consistent_affection_that_does_not_compare", - "text": "Consistent affection that does not compare" - }, - { - "id": "compliments_about_more_than_appearance", - "text": "Compliments about more than appearance" - }, - { - "id": "patience_with_changing_comfort_levels", - "text": "Patience with changing comfort levels" - }, - { - "id": "being_invited_to_say_what_feels_good_now", - "text": "Being invited to say what feels good now" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_325", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which ordinary moment could become the beginning of a slow build?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_326", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make conversations about frequency feel kinder?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "desire_rhythms", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_327", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How clearly do we separate affection from expectation?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "affection_expectation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not clearly", - "max_label": "Very clearly" - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_328", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps both people feel respected when plans change?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mismatched_desire", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "gentle_depth" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_329", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which anticipation would brighten your day?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anticipation", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_note_about_a_private_plan", - "text": "A note about a private plan" - }, - { - "id": "a_time_set_aside_just_for_us", - "text": "A time set aside just for us" - }, - { - "id": "a_playful_clue_with_no_obligation", - "text": "A playful clue with no obligation" - }, - { - "id": "a_promise_of_uninterrupted_affection", - "text": "A promise of uninterrupted affection" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_330", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps consent feel like an ongoing conversation rather than one question?", + "text": "Which reactions make honest feedback feel risky?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "consent_boundaries", + "feedback", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", "gentle_depth" ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_331", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes 'I do not know yet' feel like a complete answer?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_332", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Which affection feels more charged?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "affection", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_long_unhurried_hug", - "text": "A long unhurried hug" + "id": "getting_defensive", + "text": "Getting defensive" }, { - "id": "a_quick_meaningful_touch", - "text": "A quick meaningful touch" + "id": "taking_it_as_rejection", + "text": "Taking it as rejection" + }, + { + "id": "making_jokes_about_it_later", + "text": "Making jokes about it later" + }, + { + "id": "pressuring_for_an_explanation", + "text": "Pressuring for an explanation" } ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_333", + "id": "sex_and_desire_117", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "How can I show attraction while respecting days when attention feels uncomfortable?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is the best first response to vulnerable feedback?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "confidence", + "feedback", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "thank_you_for_telling_me", + "text": "Thank you for telling me" + }, + { + "id": "tell_me_what_would_feel_better", + "text": "Tell me what would feel better" + }, + { + "id": "i_am_listening", + "text": "I am listening" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_slow_down", + "text": "We can slow down" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_118", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a desire conversation feel natural instead of awkward?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_communication", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "plain_language", + "text": "Plain language" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_humor", + "text": "A little humor" + }, + { + "id": "no_guessing_games", + "text": "No guessing games" + }, + { + "id": "respect_for_different_answers", + "text": "Respect for different answers" + } + ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_334", + "id": "sex_and_desire_119", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny ritual could keep desire from disappearing into routine?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "novelty_routine", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_335", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "After closeness, which connection matters most?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which topics are easier to talk about before desire is already in the room?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "aftercare", + "desire_communication", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", "gentle_depth" @@ -7332,141 +3773,830 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "feeling_emotionally_reassured", - "text": "Feeling emotionally reassured" + "id": "how_to_initiate", + "text": "How to initiate" }, { - "id": "staying_physically_near_for_a_while", - "text": "Staying physically near for a while" + "id": "how_to_say_no", + "text": "How to say no" }, { - "id": "being_able_to_talk_or_laugh_normally", - "text": "Being able to talk or laugh normally" + "id": "what_affects_desire", + "text": "What affects desire" }, { - "id": "knowing_any_feedback_can_wait", - "text": "Knowing any feedback can wait" + "id": "how_to_give_feedback", + "text": "How to give feedback" } ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_336", + "id": "sex_and_desire_120", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What setting helps conversation about desire feel easiest?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What would improve our desire conversations most?", + "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "privacy_setting", + "desire_communication", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "sex_and_desire_337", - "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which forms of aftercare might feel good depending on the day?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "aftercare", - "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "quiet_physical_closeness", - "text": "Quiet physical closeness" + "id": "more_honesty", + "text": "More honesty" }, { - "id": "water_a_snack_or_practical_comfort", - "text": "Water, a snack, or practical comfort" + "id": "better_timing", + "text": "Better timing" }, { - "id": "warm_reassurance_in_a_few_words", - "text": "Warm reassurance in a few words" + "id": "less_embarrassment", + "text": "Less embarrassment" }, { - "id": "light_conversation_or_shared_humor", - "text": "Light conversation or shared humor" - }, - { - "id": "some_peaceful_space_with_no_offense_taken", - "text": "Some peaceful space with no offense taken" + "id": "more_follow_through", + "text": "More follow-through" } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 + ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_338", + "id": "sex_and_desire_121", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What affectionate habit would make our home feel warmer?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which things keep attraction alive after years together?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "affection_nonsexual", + "long_term_chemistry", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "still_flirting", + "text": "Still flirting" + }, + { + "id": "seeing_each_other_in_new_settings", + "text": "Seeing each other in new settings" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_appreciated", + "text": "Feeling appreciated" + }, + { + "id": "making_private_time_matter", + "text": "Making private time matter" + } + ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_339", + "id": "sex_and_desire_122", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What turns an imperfect experience into a good memory anyway?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What gives our chemistry the biggest boost?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "awkward_repair", + "long_term_chemistry", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first" + "consent_first", + "fun_first" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "novelty", + "text": "Novelty" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "emotional_closeness", + "text": "Emotional closeness" + }, + { + "id": "playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + } + ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_340", + "id": "sex_and_desire_123", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What could make an ordinary week feel a little more charged?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "long_term_chemistry", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_flirty_plan", + "text": "A flirty plan" + }, + { + "id": "a_surprise_compliment", + "text": "A surprise compliment" + }, + { + "id": "a_night_with_no_interruptions", + "text": "A night with no interruptions" + }, + { + "id": "trying_a_new_setting", + "text": "Trying a new setting" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_124", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", "type": "scale", - "text": "How welcome does spontaneous affection feel lately?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "How alive does our chemistry feel right now?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "affection", + "long_term_chemistry", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Usually not welcome", - "max_label": "Usually very welcome" + "min_label": "Pretty quiet", + "max_label": "Very alive" } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_341", + "id": "sex_and_desire_125", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make post-intimacy feedback easier to hear?", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Familiar chemistry or a little novelty?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "long_term_chemistry", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "familiar_chemistry", + "text": "Familiar chemistry" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_novelty", + "text": "A little novelty" + }, + { + "id": "a_mix_of_both", + "text": "A mix of both" + }, + { + "id": "depends_on_the_week", + "text": "Depends on the week" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_126", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kind of novelty feels exciting without becoming a production?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "novelty", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_different_time_of_day", + "text": "A different time of day" + }, + { + "id": "a_change_of_setting", + "text": "A change of setting" + }, + { + "id": "a_new_way_of_building_anticipation", + "text": "A new way of building anticipation" + }, + { + "id": "letting_one_of_us_set_the_tone", + "text": "Letting one of us set the tone" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_127", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What most often makes long-term desire feel routine?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "long_term_chemistry", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "predictable_timing", + "text": "Predictable timing" + }, + { + "id": "no_build_up", + "text": "No build-up" + }, + { + "id": "too_many_interruptions", + "text": "Too many interruptions" + }, + { + "id": "feeling_taken_for_granted", + "text": "Feeling taken for granted" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_128", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which habits help us stay curious about each other?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "long_term_chemistry", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "asking_what_has_changed", + "text": "Asking what has changed" + }, + { + "id": "not_assuming_we_know_every_answer", + "text": "Not assuming we know every answer" + }, + { + "id": "sharing_new_thoughts_without_pressure", + "text": "Sharing new thoughts without pressure" + }, + { + "id": "noticing_different_sides_of_each_other", + "text": "Noticing different sides of each other" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_129", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a surprise feel sexy instead of stressful?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "novelty", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_respects_known_limits", + "text": "It respects known limits" + }, + { + "id": "it_is_easy_to_decline", + "text": "It is easy to decline" + }, + { + "id": "it_fits_the_day", + "text": "It fits the day" + }, + { + "id": "it_leaves_room_for_your_response", + "text": "It leaves room for your response" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_130", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which changes could refresh our chemistry?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "novelty", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_anticipation", + "text": "More anticipation" + }, + { + "id": "more_privacy", + "text": "More privacy" + }, + { + "id": "more_playfulness", + "text": "More playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "more_direct_desire", + "text": "More direct desire" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_131", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How open are you to changing our usual rhythm?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "novelty", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very open", + "max_label": "Very open" + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_132", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps novelty from becoming pressure to top the last experience?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "aftercare", + "novelty", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "keeping_expectations_realistic", + "text": "Keeping expectations realistic" + }, + { + "id": "letting_simple_moments_count", + "text": "Letting simple moments count" + }, + { + "id": "not_comparing_experiences", + "text": "Not comparing experiences" + }, + { + "id": "allowing_either_person_to_pass", + "text": "Allowing either person to pass" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_133", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which parts of our chemistry feel uniquely ours?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "long_term_chemistry", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "our_private_humor", + "text": "Our private humor" + }, + { + "id": "the_way_tension_builds", + "text": "The way tension builds" + }, + { + "id": "how_well_we_read_each_other", + "text": "How well we read each other" + }, + { + "id": "the_history_behind_the_attraction", + "text": "The history behind the attraction" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_134", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What deserves more attention if we want to protect our spark?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "long_term_chemistry", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "time", + "text": "Time" + }, + { + "id": "energy", + "text": "Energy" + }, + { + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" + }, + { + "id": "emotional_connection", + "text": "Emotional connection" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_135", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What could help us avoid waiting for desire to happen by accident?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "long_term_chemistry", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "protecting_time_together", + "text": "Protecting time together" + }, + { + "id": "flirting_before_the_moment", + "text": "Flirting before the moment" + }, + { + "id": "talking_about_what_has_changed", + "text": "Talking about what has changed" + }, + { + "id": "making_room_for_spontaneity", + "text": "Making room for spontaneity" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_136", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which memories still remind you that our chemistry is real?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "desire_history", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "an_early_date_moment", + "text": "An early-date moment" + }, + { + "id": "a_time_we_could_not_stop_flirting", + "text": "A time we could not stop flirting" + }, + { + "id": "a_reunion_after_time_apart", + "text": "A reunion after time apart" + }, + { + "id": "a_completely_ordinary_night_that_clicked", + "text": "A completely ordinary night that clicked" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_137", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What has changed most about desire between us?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "desire_over_time", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_it_starts", + "text": "How it starts" + }, + { + "id": "how_often_it_shows_up", + "text": "How often it shows up" + }, + { + "id": "what_helps_it_grow", + "text": "What helps it grow" + }, + { + "id": "how_openly_we_talk_about_it", + "text": "How openly we talk about it" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_138", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What has gotten better about our sexual connection over time?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "desire_over_time", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "communication", + "text": "Communication" + }, + { + "id": "confidence", + "text": "Confidence" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_each_other_s_rhythms", + "text": "Knowing each other's rhythms" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_139", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Recreate an old spark or make a new memory?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "desire_history", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "fun_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "recreate_an_old_spark", + "text": "Recreate an old spark" + }, + { + "id": "make_a_new_memory", + "text": "Make a new memory" + }, + { + "id": "start_old_and_change_it", + "text": "Start old and change it" + }, + { + "id": "whichever_feels_natural", + "text": "Whichever feels natural" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_140", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which life changes have most shaped our desire as a couple?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_over_time", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "work_and_responsibilities", + "text": "Work and responsibilities" + }, + { + "id": "health_or_body_changes", + "text": "Health or body changes" + }, + { + "id": "parenting_or_family_demands", + "text": "Parenting or family demands" + }, + { + "id": "how_emotionally_connected_we_feel", + "text": "How emotionally connected we feel" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_141", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What do you miss most from an earlier chapter of our chemistry?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_history", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_spontaneity", + "text": "More spontaneity" + }, + { + "id": "more_anticipation", + "text": "More anticipation" + }, + { + "id": "more_confidence", + "text": "More confidence" + }, + { + "id": "more_uninterrupted_time", + "text": "More uninterrupted time" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_142", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What from our early attraction is still worth protecting?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_history", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "effort", + "text": "Effort" + }, + { + "id": "boldness", + "text": "Boldness" + }, + { + "id": "the_feeling_of_choosing_each_other", + "text": "The feeling of choosing each other" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_143", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which changes in desire deserve compassion rather than fixing?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_over_time", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "slower_warm_up", + "text": "Slower warm-up" + }, + { + "id": "lower_energy", + "text": "Lower energy" + }, + { + "id": "different_timing", + "text": "Different timing" + }, + { + "id": "a_need_for_more_reassurance", + "text": "A need for more reassurance" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_144", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well have we adapted to the ways our desire has changed?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_over_time", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very well", + "max_label": "Very well" + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_145", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "written", + "text": "When have you felt most desired by me, and what made that moment work?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "desire_history", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", "gentle_depth" @@ -7476,72 +4606,173 @@ } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_342", + "id": "sex_and_desire_146", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which type of affection feels complete on its own?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would help our next chapter of desire feel honest and exciting?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "affection", + "desire_over_time", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "gentle_depth" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "being_held_close_without_a_hurry", - "text": "Being held close without a hurry" + "id": "talking_about_what_is_different_now", + "text": "Talking about what is different now" }, { - "id": "holding_hands_under_a_blanket", - "text": "Holding hands under a blanket" + "id": "keeping_pressure_low", + "text": "Keeping pressure low" }, { - "id": "a_forehead_kiss_before_sleep", - "text": "A forehead kiss before sleep" + "id": "trying_new_ways_to_build_anticipation", + "text": "Trying new ways to build anticipation" }, { - "id": "sitting_close_with_legs_touching", - "text": "Sitting close with legs touching" + "id": "protecting_more_private_time", + "text": "Protecting more private time" } ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_343", + "id": "sex_and_desire_147", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "Which shared memory would you gladly recreate with one small change?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should we stop assuming about each other's desire?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "memories_lore", + "desire_over_time", "sex_and_desire", "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "gentle_depth" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "that_it_works_the_same_as_before", + "text": "That it works the same as before" + }, + { + "id": "that_silence_means_no_interest", + "text": "That silence means no interest" + }, + { + "id": "that_one_person_should_always_initiate", + "text": "That one person should always initiate" + }, + { + "id": "that_desire_should_be_predictable", + "text": "That desire should be predictable" + } + ] } }, { - "id": "sex_and_desire_344", + "id": "sex_and_desire_148", "category_id": "sex_and_desire", - "type": "written", - "text": "What small promise about closeness would feel realistic and exciting?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs would tell you our chemistry is growing again?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_play", + "desire_over_time", "sex_and_desire", - "consent_first", - "fun_first" + "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "more_spontaneous_flirting", + "text": "More spontaneous flirting" + }, + { + "id": "more_honest_invitations", + "text": "More honest invitations" + }, + { + "id": "more_anticipation", + "text": "More anticipation" + }, + { + "id": "more_ease_after_a_no", + "text": "More ease after a no" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_149", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make desire feel like something we share, not something one person manages?", + "depth": 5, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "shared_desire", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_both_show_interest", + "text": "We both show interest" + }, + { + "id": "we_both_protect_consent", + "text": "We both protect consent" + }, + { + "id": "we_both_name_what_has_changed", + "text": "We both name what has changed" + }, + { + "id": "we_both_make_room_for_connection", + "text": "We both make room for connection" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "sex_and_desire_150", + "category_id": "sex_and_desire", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is the strongest foundation for desire between us now?", + "depth": 4, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "shared_desire", + "sex_and_desire", + "consent_first", + "gentle_depth" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "trust", + "text": "Trust" + }, + { + "id": "attraction", + "text": "Attraction" + }, + { + "id": "friendship", + "text": "Friendship" + }, + { + "id": "honest_communication", + "text": "Honest communication" + } + ] } } ] -} +} \ No newline at end of file