diff --git a/seed/questions/couple_intimacy.json b/seed/questions/couple_intimacy.json index e678dc14..194f0498 100644 --- a/seed/questions/couple_intimacy.json +++ b/seed/questions/couple_intimacy.json @@ -22,9 +22,9 @@ "female": 0, "male": 0 }, - "content_version": "couple_intimacy_v3_final_review", - "batch_size": 15, - "review_policy": "20 batches of 15 with pack-wide repetition checks and 60-question checkpoints", + "content_version": "couple_intimacy_v4_strict_guide_pass", + "batch_size": 10, + "review_policy": "30 batches of 10 with cumulative repetition, consent, option-fit, premium-value, and related-pack checks", "mass_rewrite_exception": { "used": true, "reason": "The source pack had a shared root failure across more than 60% of the content: 180 written prompts, repeated template blocks, and basic preferences that did not earn typed responses.", @@ -38,13 +38,23 @@ }, "type_distribution_note": "This 300-question special pack scales the standard v6 type ratio to 168 multi-choice, 60 single-choice, 42 scale, 18 this-or-that, and 12 written.", "content_scope": "Shared couple intimacy: mutual affection, desire, consent, communication, privacy, aftercare, repair, play, and long-term closeness. It avoids unnecessary gender targeting and keeps all questions neutral.", - "final_review_note": "A final independent review patched subtle consent, prompt-option fit, scope overlap, free/premium placement, and natural-language issues in 15-question batches." + "final_review_note": "A stricter repo-based review used 30 batches of 10 and patched consent baselines, option fit, related-pack overlap, natural-language issues, premium value, and depth balance while preserving passing questions.", + "depth_compatibility_note": "Numeric depth values are retained for the active seed/import contract: 1–2 light, 3 medium, and 4–5 deep.", + "strict_review_note": "A stricter repo-based pass patched automatic-reject phrasing, consent baselines, prompt-option mismatches, related-pack overlap, and unnatural wording while preserving passing questions.", + "depth_counts": { + "1": 4, + "2": 121, + "3": 115, + "4": 15, + "5": 45 + }, + "depth_balance_note": "Final guide-aligned balance: 125 light (depth 1–2), 115 medium (depth 3), and 60 deep (depth 4–5), matching the sensitive-pack target range." } }, "questions": [ { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which everyday gestures make you feel quietly loved?", + "text": "Which ordinary moments make you feel most like a couple?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "everyday_affection", @@ -53,24 +63,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_kiss_before_leaving", - "text": "A kiss before leaving" + "id": "sharing_the_first_few_minutes_home", + "text": "Sharing the first few minutes home" }, { - "id": "a_hand_on_my_back", - "text": "A hand on my back" + "id": "laughing_over_something_only_we_understand", + "text": "Laughing over something only we understand" }, { - "id": "sitting_close_on_purpose", - "text": "Sitting close on purpose" + "id": "choosing_each_other_over_our_phones", + "text": "Choosing each other over our phones" }, { - "id": "a_thoughtful_check_in", - "text": "A thoughtful check-in" + "id": "turning_a_task_into_time_together", + "text": "Turning a task into time together" }, { - "id": "a_long_hello_hug", - "text": "A long hello hug" + "id": "checking_in_before_the_day_ends", + "text": "Checking in before the day ends" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -83,7 +93,7 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What affectionate moment would improve an ordinary morning most?", + "text": "Pick the small morning ritual that would help us feel like a couple before the day starts.", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "morning_affection", @@ -92,20 +102,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_sleepy_cuddle", - "text": "A sleepy cuddle" + "id": "share_coffee_without_phones", + "text": "Share coffee without phones" }, { - "id": "a_real_goodbye_kiss", - "text": "A real goodbye kiss" + "id": "trade_one_warm_compliment", + "text": "Trade one warm compliment" }, { - "id": "sharing_coffee_in_bed", - "text": "Sharing coffee in bed" + "id": "pick_a_song_for_the_morning", + "text": "Pick a song for the morning" }, { - "id": "a_warm_compliment", - "text": "A warm compliment" + "id": "check_in_before_the_day_starts", + "text": "Check in before the day starts" } ] }, @@ -116,7 +126,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When we reunite after work, what helps you feel welcomed?", + "text": "When we reunite after work, what helps us reconnect?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "reunion", @@ -125,24 +135,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_full_attention_hello", - "text": "A full-attention hello" + "id": "put_everything_down_and_say_hello", + "text": "Put everything down and say hello" }, { - "id": "a_lingering_hug", - "text": "A lingering hug" + "id": "trade_the_best_part_of_the_day", + "text": "Trade the best part of the day" }, { - "id": "a_playful_kiss", - "text": "A playful kiss" + "id": "take_five_quiet_minutes_together", + "text": "Take five quiet minutes together" }, { - "id": "a_few_quiet_minutes_together", - "text": "A few quiet minutes together" + "id": "make_each_other_laugh", + "text": "Make each other laugh" }, { - "id": "hearing_that_i_was_missed", - "text": "Hearing that I was missed" + "id": "say_what_we_missed", + "text": "Say what we missed" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -155,7 +165,7 @@ }, { "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does casual touch matter to your sense of closeness?", + "text": "How connected do our small daily rituals make you feel?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "casual_touch", @@ -164,8 +174,8 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A great deal" + "min_label": "Not very connected", + "max_label": "Very connected" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_004", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", @@ -174,7 +184,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes sitting together feel more intimate?", + "text": "What makes shared quiet feel intimate instead of distant?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "shared_space", @@ -183,24 +193,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "leaning_into_each_other", - "text": "Leaning into each other" - }, - { - "id": "holding_hands", - "text": "Holding hands" - }, - { - "id": "sharing_one_blanket", - "text": "Sharing one blanket" + "id": "choosing_to_be_together", + "text": "Choosing to be together" }, { "id": "putting_phones_away", "text": "Putting phones away" }, { - "id": "talking_without_rushing", - "text": "Talking without rushing" + "id": "easy_eye_contact", + "text": "Easy eye contact" + }, + { + "id": "comfortable_silence", + "text": "Comfortable silence" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_conversation_can_wait", + "text": "Knowing conversation can wait" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -213,7 +223,7 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the small touch that feels most naturally romantic.", + "text": "Pick the small romantic gesture that feels most like us.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "romantic_touch", @@ -222,20 +232,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "fingers_intertwined", - "text": "Fingers intertwined" + "id": "a_private_note", + "text": "A private note" }, { - "id": "a_forehead_kiss", - "text": "A forehead kiss" + "id": "a_song_sent_at_the_right_moment", + "text": "A song sent at the right moment" }, { - "id": "a_hand_at_my_waist", - "text": "A hand at my waist" + "id": "saving_a_favorite_treat", + "text": "Saving a favorite treat" }, { - "id": "a_slow_shoulder_rub", - "text": "A slow shoulder rub" + "id": "a_sincere_compliment", + "text": "A sincere compliment" } ] }, @@ -246,7 +256,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kinds of affection feel good during a busy day?", + "text": "What small gestures help us stay connected during a busy day?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "busy_day", @@ -254,25 +264,25 @@ ], "answer_config": { "options": [ - { - "id": "a_quick_kiss", - "text": "A quick kiss" - }, { "id": "a_flirty_message", "text": "A flirty message" }, { - "id": "a_reassuring_squeeze", - "text": "A reassuring squeeze" + "id": "a_thoughtful_check_in", + "text": "A thoughtful check-in" }, { - "id": "a_sincere_compliment", - "text": "A sincere compliment" + "id": "sharing_a_tiny_win", + "text": "Sharing a tiny win" }, { - "id": "a_brief_cuddle", - "text": "A brief cuddle" + "id": "sending_something_funny", + "text": "Sending something funny" + }, + { + "id": "making_a_simple_plan_for_later", + "text": "Making a simple plan for later" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -293,25 +303,25 @@ ], "answer_config": { "options": [ - { - "id": "a_goodnight_kiss", - "text": "A goodnight kiss" - }, { "id": "talking_for_a_few_minutes", "text": "Talking for a few minutes" }, { - "id": "cuddling_before_sleep", - "text": "Cuddling before sleep" + "id": "sharing_one_good_thing", + "text": "Sharing one good thing" }, { - "id": "saying_one_kind_thing", - "text": "Saying one kind thing" + "id": "putting_phones_away", + "text": "Putting phones away" }, { - "id": "touching_feet_under_the_covers", - "text": "Touching feet under the covers" + "id": "planning_something_small", + "text": "Planning something small" + }, + { + "id": "saying_goodnight_with_intention", + "text": "Saying goodnight with intention" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -324,7 +334,7 @@ }, { "type": "written", - "text": "What affectionate habit of ours would you love to bring back?", + "text": "What small couple ritual from our earlier days would you love to bring back?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "affection_memory", @@ -340,7 +350,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does a hug feel especially caring?", + "text": "What makes a reunion moment feel especially like us?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "hugs", @@ -349,24 +359,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "it_lasts_long_enough", - "text": "It lasts long enough" + "id": "we_stop_and_notice_each_other", + "text": "We stop and notice each other" }, { - "id": "it_arrives_at_the_right_moment", - "text": "It arrives at the right moment" + "id": "we_trade_a_private_joke", + "text": "We trade a private joke" }, { - "id": "the_other_person_is_fully_present", - "text": "The other person is fully present" + "id": "we_share_what_we_missed", + "text": "We share what we missed" }, { - "id": "there_is_no_rush_afterward", - "text": "There is no rush afterward" + "id": "we_do_not_rush_past_it", + "text": "We do not rush past it" }, { - "id": "it_fits_my_mood", - "text": "It fits my mood" + "id": "it_fits_the_day_we_had", + "text": "It fits the day we had" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -379,7 +389,7 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Where would a welcome kiss feel sweetest?", + "text": "Pick the welcome-home moment that would feel sweetest.", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "surprise_kiss", @@ -388,20 +398,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "in_the_kitchen", - "text": "In the kitchen" + "id": "a_full_attention_hello", + "text": "A full-attention hello" }, { - "id": "at_the_front_door", - "text": "At the front door" + "id": "a_few_quiet_minutes", + "text": "A few quiet minutes" }, { - "id": "during_a_quiet_pause", - "text": "During a quiet pause" + "id": "a_playful_recap_of_the_day", + "text": "A playful recap of the day" }, { - "id": "before_falling_asleep", - "text": "Before falling asleep" + "id": "making_a_plan_for_the_evening", + "text": "Making a plan for the evening" } ] }, @@ -412,7 +422,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can affection stay warm without becoming automatic?", + "text": "What keeps romantic attention warm without becoming automatic?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "intentional_affection", @@ -425,20 +435,20 @@ "text": "Changing the timing" }, { - "id": "making_eye_contact", - "text": "Making eye contact" + "id": "being_specific", + "text": "Being specific" }, { - "id": "adding_a_few_words", - "text": "Adding a few words" + "id": "noticing_the_other_person_s_mood", + "text": "Noticing the other person’s mood" }, { - "id": "following_the_other_person_s_mood", - "text": "Following the other person's mood" + "id": "choosing_it_instead_of_assuming_it", + "text": "Choosing it instead of assuming it" }, { - "id": "letting_it_linger", - "text": "Letting it linger" + "id": "keeping_pressure_out_of_it", + "text": "Keeping pressure out of it" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -451,8 +461,8 @@ }, { "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do our everyday affection habits feel lately?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "How connected do our everyday couple rituals feel lately?", + "depth": 2, "tags": [ "affection_check", "couple_intimacy" @@ -470,7 +480,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which ordinary moments could use more closeness?", + "text": "Which ordinary moments could use more couple attention?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "daily_moments", @@ -487,12 +497,12 @@ "text": "Coming home" }, { - "id": "cooking_together", - "text": "Cooking together" + "id": "meals_together", + "text": "Meals together" }, { - "id": "watching_something", - "text": "Watching something" + "id": "screen_time", + "text": "Screen time" }, { "id": "getting_ready_for_bed", @@ -509,7 +519,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does nonsexual affection feel satisfying on its own?", + "text": "What helps closeness feel satisfying even when sex is not the goal?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "nonsexual_affection", @@ -518,24 +528,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "no_hidden_expectation", - "text": "No hidden expectation" + "id": "time_without_pressure", + "text": "Time without pressure" }, { - "id": "enough_time_to_enjoy_it", - "text": "Enough time to enjoy it" + "id": "feeling_chosen", + "text": "Feeling chosen" }, { - "id": "warm_words_with_it", - "text": "Warm words with it" + "id": "honest_conversation", + "text": "Honest conversation" }, { - "id": "feeling_emotionally_present", - "text": "Feeling emotionally present" + "id": "shared_laughter", + "text": "Shared laughter" }, { - "id": "it_can_stay_exactly_as_it_is", - "text": "It can stay exactly as it is" + "id": "ending_warmly", + "text": "Ending warmly" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -587,7 +597,7 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which flirty move would make you smile fastest?", + "text": "Pick the flirty signal that feels most naturally ours.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "flirting", @@ -695,12 +705,12 @@ "text": "Trade specific compliments" }, { - "id": "guess_each_other_s_favorite_kiss", - "text": "Guess each other's favorite kiss" + "id": "guess_each_other_s_favorite_compliment", + "text": "Guess each other's favorite compliment" }, { - "id": "pick_a_surprise_cuddle_spot", - "text": "Pick a surprise cuddle spot" + "id": "choose_a_cozy_spot_together", + "text": "Choose a cozy spot together" }, { "id": "create_a_private_signal", @@ -789,8 +799,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can a private game stay comfortable?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps a private game stay comfortable?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "game_safety", "couple_intimacy" @@ -883,7 +893,7 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the invitation that sounds most playful.", + "text": "Pick the playful invitation you would most enjoy hearing.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "invitation", @@ -892,12 +902,12 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "come_steal_a_kiss", - "text": "Come steal a kiss" + "id": "come_kiss_me", + "text": "Come kiss me" }, { - "id": "meet_me_somewhere_private", - "text": "Meet me somewhere private" + "id": "want_a_private_minute", + "text": "Want a private minute?" }, { "id": "i_have_an_idea_for_us", @@ -1052,7 +1062,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps your body relax when the day has been heavy?", + "text": "What helps you shift toward closeness after a heavy day?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "stress_relief", @@ -1068,10 +1078,6 @@ "id": "a_warm_shower", "text": "A warm shower" }, - { - "id": "gentle_touch", - "text": "Gentle touch" - }, { "id": "help_with_one_task", "text": "Help with one task" @@ -1079,6 +1085,10 @@ { "id": "a_calm_conversation", "text": "A calm conversation" + }, + { + "id": "no_fixed_plan", + "text": "No fixed plan" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -1099,10 +1109,6 @@ ], "answer_config": { "options": [ - { - "id": "being_held_quietly", - "text": "Being held quietly" - }, { "id": "having_space_first", "text": "Having space first" @@ -1111,6 +1117,10 @@ "id": "talking_things_through", "text": "Talking things through" }, + { + "id": "a_drink_or_snack", + "text": "A drink or snack" + }, { "id": "a_little_playful_distraction", "text": "A little playful distraction" @@ -1124,7 +1134,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When stress is high, what affection still feels welcome?", + "text": "When stress is high, what kind of connection still feels welcome?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "stress_affection", @@ -1133,24 +1143,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_brief_hug", - "text": "A brief hug" + "id": "quiet_company", + "text": "Quiet company" }, { - "id": "holding_hands", - "text": "Holding hands" + "id": "a_brief_check_in", + "text": "A brief check-in" }, { - "id": "a_forehead_kiss", - "text": "A forehead kiss" + "id": "a_shared_laugh", + "text": "A shared laugh" }, { - "id": "sitting_shoulder_to_shoulder", - "text": "Sitting shoulder to shoulder" + "id": "sitting_together", + "text": "Sitting together" }, { - "id": "a_gentle_back_rub", - "text": "A gentle back rub" + "id": "an_early_night", + "text": "An early night" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -1164,7 +1174,7 @@ { "type": "scale", "text": "How much does stress affect your interest in intimacy?", - "depth": 2, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "stress_effect", "couple_intimacy" @@ -1183,7 +1193,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does closeness feel soothing rather than demanding?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "soothing_closeness", "couple_intimacy" @@ -1207,8 +1217,8 @@ "text": "Being able to change my mind" }, { - "id": "attention_to_my_breathing", - "text": "Attention to my breathing" + "id": "a_check_in_if_i_tense_up", + "text": "A check-in if I tense up" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -1230,12 +1240,12 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "quiet_cuddling", - "text": "Quiet cuddling" + "id": "quiet_time_together", + "text": "Quiet time together" }, { - "id": "a_playful_reset", - "text": "A playful reset" + "id": "a_playful_moment", + "text": "A playful moment" }, { "id": "a_meaningful_talk", @@ -1255,7 +1265,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What signs tell you that you need gentleness?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "gentleness_signals", "couple_intimacy" @@ -1294,7 +1304,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When you feel overwhelmed, what makes affection easier?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "overwhelm", "couple_intimacy" @@ -1387,7 +1397,7 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which calming touch would you choose first?", + "text": "Which calming first step would you choose?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "calming_touch", @@ -1396,20 +1406,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hair_stroked_slowly", - "text": "Hair stroked slowly" + "id": "a_quiet_room", + "text": "A quiet room" }, { - "id": "a_hand_held_firmly", - "text": "A hand held firmly" + "id": "a_warm_drink", + "text": "A warm drink" }, { - "id": "a_shoulder_massage", - "text": "A shoulder massage" + "id": "slow_breathing_together", + "text": "Slow breathing together" }, { - "id": "a_long_full_body_hug", - "text": "A long full-body hug" + "id": "a_gentle_conversation", + "text": "A gentle conversation" } ] }, @@ -1478,8 +1488,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kinds of care make desire feel more possible?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What conditions make desire feel more possible?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "desire_return", "couple_intimacy" @@ -1556,7 +1566,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does initiation feel inviting to you?", + "text": "What makes initiation feel like a shared moment?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "initiation", @@ -1569,8 +1579,8 @@ "text": "Good timing" }, { - "id": "a_warm_confident_tone", - "text": "A warm confident tone" + "id": "a_warm_confident_invitation", + "text": "A warm, confident invitation" }, { "id": "an_easy_way_to_decline", @@ -1581,8 +1591,8 @@ "text": "Starting with affection" }, { - "id": "noticing_my_response", - "text": "Noticing my response" + "id": "checking_how_the_other_person_responds", + "text": "Checking how the other person responds" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -1595,7 +1605,7 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which first move feels most attractive?", + "text": "Pick the invitation style that feels most comfortable for both of us.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "first_move", @@ -1604,16 +1614,16 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_direct_invitation", - "text": "A direct invitation" + "id": "a_direct_question", + "text": "A direct question" }, { - "id": "a_long_kiss", - "text": "A long kiss" + "id": "a_slow_affectionate_start", + "text": "A slow affectionate start" }, { - "id": "being_pulled_closer_after_a_yes", - "text": "Being pulled closer after a yes" + "id": "a_playful_invitation", + "text": "A playful invitation" }, { "id": "a_quiet_whispered_question", @@ -1687,7 +1697,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What signals help you feel genuinely wanted?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "wanted", "couple_intimacy" @@ -1818,8 +1828,8 @@ "text": "Shared laughter" }, { - "id": "seeing_each_other_confident", - "text": "Seeing each other confident" + "id": "seeing_you_feel_confident", + "text": "Seeing you feel confident" }, { "id": "small_welcome_touches", @@ -1836,7 +1846,7 @@ }, { "type": "written", - "text": "When have you felt most intentionally chosen by me?", + "text": "When have you felt most clearly chosen by me?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "chosen", @@ -1853,7 +1863,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does spontaneous intimacy work well for you?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "spontaneity", "couple_intimacy" @@ -1925,7 +1935,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps when one person wants closeness first?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "different_timing", "couple_intimacy" @@ -1964,7 +1974,7 @@ { "type": "scale", "text": "How wanted do you feel in our relationship lately?", - "depth": 5, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "wanted_scale", "couple_intimacy" @@ -1972,8 +1982,8 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very wanted", - "max_label": "Deeply wanted" + "min_label": "Not much lately", + "max_label": "Very much lately" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_058", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", @@ -2021,7 +2031,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does desire feel mutual rather than performed?", + "text": "When does desire feel mutual instead of expected or one-sided?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "mutual_desire", @@ -2061,7 +2071,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a yes feel honest and freely chosen?", - "depth": 2, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "consent_yes", "couple_intimacy" @@ -2099,8 +2109,8 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which phrase feels easiest when you need to pause or stop?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which phrase should we agree to treat as our clearest stop signal?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "pause_phrase", "couple_intimacy" @@ -2132,8 +2142,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How should a pause be handled between us?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "After stopping immediately for a pause, what would help next?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "pause_response", "couple_intimacy" @@ -2141,24 +2151,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "stop_right_away", - "text": "Stop right away" + "id": "listening_without_arguing", + "text": "Listening without arguing" }, { - "id": "listen_without_arguing", - "text": "Listen without arguing" + "id": "asking_what_feels_okay_now", + "text": "Asking what feels okay now" }, { - "id": "ask_what_feels_okay_now", - "text": "Ask what feels okay now" + "id": "offering_space", + "text": "Offering space" }, { - "id": "offer_space", - "text": "Offer space" + "id": "switching_to_nonsexual_closeness_if_wanted", + "text": "Switching to nonsexual closeness if wanted" }, { - "id": "avoid_making_it_personal", - "text": "Avoid making it personal" + "id": "reassuring_there_is_no_pressure", + "text": "Reassuring there is no pressure" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -2172,7 +2182,7 @@ { "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to change your mind during intimacy?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "change_mind", "couple_intimacy" @@ -2181,7 +2191,7 @@ "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very hard", - "max_label": "Completely easy" + "max_label": "Very easy" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_064", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", @@ -2262,8 +2272,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which check-ins sound natural rather than clinical?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which quick question would help us stay connected without breaking the mood?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "check_ins", "couple_intimacy" @@ -2301,7 +2311,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should always remain easy to communicate?", + "text": "What words would you most want us to respond to calmly?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "communication_basics", @@ -2412,8 +2422,8 @@ "text": "A hand squeeze" }, { - "id": "moving_a_hand_away", - "text": "Moving a hand away" + "id": "a_clear_hand_away_gesture", + "text": "A clear hand-away gesture" }, { "id": "no_backup_signal_words_only", @@ -2428,7 +2438,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can a new idea stay optional rather than expected?", + "text": "What keeps a new idea optional rather than expected?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "optional_novelty", @@ -2565,7 +2575,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When is feedback about intimacy easiest to give?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "feedback_giving", "couple_intimacy" @@ -2637,7 +2647,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which feedback phrases feel kind and useful?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "feedback_phrases", "couple_intimacy" @@ -2676,7 +2686,7 @@ { "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you naming what feels good?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "naming_good", "couple_intimacy" @@ -2734,7 +2744,7 @@ { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the question that would help you share more honestly.", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "honest_question", "couple_intimacy" @@ -2767,7 +2777,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When do conversations about desire feel safest?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "desire_conversation", "couple_intimacy" @@ -2860,7 +2870,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can a difficult intimacy talk end well?", + "text": "What outcomes help a difficult intimacy talk end well?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "talk_ending", @@ -2869,24 +2879,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "feeling_heard", - "text": "Feeling heard" + "id": "both_people_feel_heard", + "text": "Both people feel heard" }, { - "id": "a_clear_next_step", - "text": "A clear next step" + "id": "a_boundary_is_clearer", + "text": "A boundary is clearer" }, { - "id": "no_forced_solution", - "text": "No forced solution" + "id": "no_solution_is_forced", + "text": "No solution is forced" }, { - "id": "reassurance_of_care", - "text": "Reassurance of care" + "id": "we_still_feel_cared_for", + "text": "We still feel cared for" }, { - "id": "time_to_reconnect", - "text": "Time to reconnect" + "id": "we_know_whether_to_revisit_it", + "text": "We know whether to revisit it" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -2900,7 +2910,7 @@ { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which tone helps you stay open during a sensitive conversation?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "conversation_tone", "couple_intimacy" @@ -2932,8 +2942,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can we make preference questions feel less awkward?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What makes preference questions less awkward for us?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "less_awkward", "couple_intimacy" @@ -2991,7 +3001,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does praise feel believable?", - "depth": 3, + "depth": 2, "tags": [ "believable_praise", "couple_intimacy" @@ -3030,7 +3040,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How do you know an intimacy conversation helped?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "useful_conversation", "couple_intimacy" @@ -3068,7 +3078,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does a kiss feel emotionally connected?", + "text": "When does physical closeness feel emotionally meaningful to us?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "kissing", @@ -3077,24 +3087,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "unhurried_attention", - "text": "Unhurried attention" + "id": "we_slow_down", + "text": "We slow down" }, { - "id": "eye_contact_first", - "text": "Eye contact first" + "id": "interest_feels_mutual", + "text": "Interest feels mutual" }, { - "id": "warm_hands", - "text": "Warm hands" + "id": "we_are_emotionally_connected", + "text": "We are emotionally connected" }, { - "id": "a_meaningful_moment", - "text": "A meaningful moment" + "id": "no_outcome_is_expected", + "text": "No outcome is expected" }, { - "id": "no_expectation_afterward", - "text": "No expectation afterward" + "id": "we_both_stay_present", + "text": "We both stay present" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3107,7 +3117,7 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the kind of kiss you would choose tonight.", + "text": "Pick the private mood that sounds best for us tonight.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "kiss_choice", @@ -3116,20 +3126,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "slow_and_lingering", - "text": "Slow and lingering" + "id": "slow_and_romantic", + "text": "Slow and romantic" }, { - "id": "soft_and_sweet", - "text": "Soft and sweet" + "id": "playful_and_flirty", + "text": "Playful and flirty" }, { - "id": "playful_and_surprising", - "text": "Playful and surprising" + "id": "quiet_and_tender", + "text": "Quiet and tender" }, { - "id": "deep_and_focused", - "text": "Deep and focused" + "id": "bold_and_connected", + "text": "Bold and connected" } ] }, @@ -3140,7 +3150,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does cuddling feel especially satisfying?", + "text": "When does relaxing together feel most connected?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "cuddling", @@ -3157,16 +3167,16 @@ "text": "Before sleep" }, { - "id": "during_a_movie", - "text": "During a movie" + "id": "during_a_quiet_evening", + "text": "During a quiet evening" }, { - "id": "after_intimacy", - "text": "After intimacy" + "id": "after_an_honest_talk", + "text": "After an honest talk" }, { - "id": "on_a_quiet_morning", - "text": "On a quiet morning" + "id": "on_a_slow_morning", + "text": "On a slow morning" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3179,7 +3189,7 @@ }, { "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do kissing habits affect your sense of romance?", + "text": "How much romance do you feel in our private time lately?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "kissing_scale", @@ -3188,8 +3198,8 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very little", - "max_label": "A great deal" + "min_label": "Not very romantic", + "max_label": "Very romantic" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_094", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", @@ -3198,7 +3208,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which cuddle positions help you relax?", + "text": "What setups make it easiest for us both to relax together?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "cuddle_positions", @@ -3207,24 +3217,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "face_to_face", - "text": "Face to face" + "id": "enough_personal_space", + "text": "Enough personal space" }, { - "id": "spooning", - "text": "Spooning" + "id": "a_comfortable_temperature", + "text": "A comfortable temperature" }, { - "id": "head_on_a_chest", - "text": "Head on a chest" + "id": "phones_put_away", + "text": "Phones put away" }, { - "id": "legs_tangled", - "text": "Legs tangled" + "id": "no_time_pressure", + "text": "No time pressure" }, { - "id": "side_by_side_with_hands_touching", - "text": "Side by side with hands touching" + "id": "choosing_how_close_to_sit", + "text": "Choosing how close to sit" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3237,7 +3247,7 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When does a goodbye kiss feel meaningful?", + "text": "What makes a goodbye feel meaningful between us?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "goodbye_kiss", @@ -3246,20 +3256,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "it_is_never_rushed", - "text": "It is never rushed" + "id": "it_is_not_rushed", + "text": "It is not rushed" }, { "id": "there_is_eye_contact", "text": "There is eye contact" }, { - "id": "it_includes_a_few_words", - "text": "It includes a few words" + "id": "we_say_something_honest", + "text": "We say something honest" }, { - "id": "it_turns_into_a_long_hug", - "text": "It turns into a long hug" + "id": "we_know_when_we_will_reconnect", + "text": "We know when we will reconnect" } ] }, @@ -3270,7 +3280,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can kissing stay playful over time?", + "text": "What keeps our private chemistry playful without feeling rehearsed?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "kiss_play", @@ -3283,20 +3293,20 @@ "text": "Changing the timing" }, { - "id": "trying_a_different_pace", - "text": "Trying a different pace" + "id": "using_an_inside_joke", + "text": "Using an inside joke" }, { - "id": "kissing_somewhere_unexpected", - "text": "Kissing somewhere unexpected" + "id": "a_little_unpredictability", + "text": "A little unpredictability" }, { "id": "laughing_together", "text": "Laughing together" }, { - "id": "letting_one_kiss_linger", - "text": "Letting one kiss linger" + "id": "letting_the_mood_lead", + "text": "Letting the mood lead" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3309,7 +3319,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which kinds of touch pair well with cuddling?", + "text": "What helps physical closeness feel connected for both of us?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "cuddle_touch", @@ -3318,24 +3328,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hair_stroking", - "text": "Hair stroking" + "id": "mutual_choice", + "text": "Mutual choice" }, { - "id": "back_rubbing", - "text": "Back rubbing" + "id": "enough_time", + "text": "Enough time" }, { - "id": "holding_hands", - "text": "Holding hands" + "id": "noticing_feedback", + "text": "Noticing feedback" }, { - "id": "gentle_face_touching", - "text": "Gentle face touching" + "id": "emotional_warmth", + "text": "Emotional warmth" }, { - "id": "a_hand_at_the_waist", - "text": "A hand at the waist" + "id": "no_required_outcome", + "text": "No required outcome" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3348,7 +3358,7 @@ }, { "type": "written", - "text": "What kiss or cuddle memory still feels special to you?", + "text": "What private memory best captures the way we connect as a couple?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "kiss_memory", @@ -3364,8 +3374,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does a long hug feel welcome?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps extended closeness feel welcome for both of us?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "long_hug", "couple_intimacy" @@ -3373,24 +3383,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "the_timing_is_right", - "text": "The timing is right" + "id": "the_timing_works", + "text": "The timing works" }, { - "id": "i_can_let_go_first", - "text": "I can let go first" + "id": "either_person_can_end_it", + "text": "Either person can end it" }, { - "id": "it_matches_my_mood", - "text": "It matches my mood" + "id": "it_matches_both_moods", + "text": "It matches both moods" }, { "id": "there_is_no_hidden_expectation", "text": "There is no hidden expectation" }, { - "id": "my_whole_body_can_relax", - "text": "My whole body can relax" + "id": "there_is_room_to_relax", + "text": "There is room to relax" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3403,7 +3413,7 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the affectionate greeting that feels most like us.", + "text": "Pick the greeting style that feels most like our relationship.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "greeting", @@ -3412,20 +3422,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_full_body_hug", - "text": "A full-body hug" + "id": "an_enthusiastic_hello", + "text": "An enthusiastic hello" }, { - "id": "a_quick_kiss_and_smile", - "text": "A quick kiss and smile" + "id": "a_quiet_check_in", + "text": "A quiet check-in" }, { - "id": "a_playful_squeeze", - "text": "A playful squeeze" + "id": "a_playful_joke", + "text": "A playful joke" }, { - "id": "a_quiet_forehead_kiss", - "text": "A quiet forehead kiss" + "id": "a_few_focused_minutes", + "text": "A few focused minutes" } ] }, @@ -3436,8 +3446,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which things can make cuddling uncomfortable?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Which things can make private closeness uncomfortable?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "cuddle_discomfort", "couple_intimacy" @@ -3461,8 +3471,8 @@ "text": "Not enough space" }, { - "id": "ignoring_body_language", - "text": "Ignoring body language" + "id": "ignoring_a_request_to_adjust", + "text": "Ignoring a request to adjust" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3475,7 +3485,7 @@ }, { "type": "scale", - "text": "How satisfied are you with our nonsexual touch lately?", + "text": "How connected does our private time feel lately?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "nonsexual_touch_scale", @@ -3484,8 +3494,8 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not satisfied", - "max_label": "Very satisfied" + "min_label": "Not very connected", + "max_label": "Very connected" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_103", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", @@ -3494,7 +3504,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When would a slower kiss feel especially good?", + "text": "When would slowing down together feel most meaningful?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "slow_kiss", @@ -3503,12 +3513,8 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "reuniting_after_time_apart", - "text": "Reuniting after time apart" - }, - { - "id": "before_a_date_ends", - "text": "Before a date ends" + "id": "after_time_apart", + "text": "After time apart" }, { "id": "after_a_heartfelt_talk", @@ -3518,6 +3524,10 @@ "id": "during_a_quiet_morning", "text": "During a quiet morning" }, + { + "id": "after_a_stressful_week", + "text": "After a stressful week" + }, { "id": "before_falling_asleep", "text": "Before falling asleep" @@ -3533,7 +3543,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does affection feel complete even when it stays nonsexual?", + "text": "What makes intimate time feel complete even when plans change?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "complete_affection", @@ -3669,8 +3679,8 @@ "text": "Music we both like" }, { - "id": "no_visible_chores", - "text": "No visible chores" + "id": "a_room_that_feels_settled", + "text": "A room that feels settled" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3684,7 +3694,7 @@ { "type": "scale", "text": "How important is guaranteed privacy to your ability to relax?", - "depth": 2, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "privacy_scale", "couple_intimacy" @@ -3693,7 +3703,7 @@ "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very important", - "max_label": "Essential" + "max_label": "Very important" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_109", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", @@ -3741,8 +3751,8 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What lighting helps you feel most comfortable?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "Pick the approach that would help us choose comfortable lighting together.", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "lighting", "couple_intimacy" @@ -3750,20 +3760,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "very_dim", - "text": "Very dim" + "id": "use_the_softer_setting", + "text": "Use the softer setting" }, { - "id": "warm_and_soft", - "text": "Warm and soft" + "id": "take_turns_choosing", + "text": "Take turns choosing" }, { - "id": "a_small_lamp", - "text": "A small lamp" + "id": "find_a_middle_ground", + "text": "Find a middle ground" }, { - "id": "enough_light_to_see_each_other", - "text": "Enough light to see each other" + "id": "ask_in_the_moment", + "text": "Ask in the moment" } ] }, @@ -3774,7 +3784,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can planned private time feel romantic instead of scheduled?", + "text": "What keeps planned private time romantic instead of scheduled?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "planned_private_time", @@ -3852,8 +3862,8 @@ }, { "type": "written", - "text": "What detail makes a private space feel safest to you?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "Think of a private setting where you felt completely relaxed with me. What made it work?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "safe_space_detail", "couple_intimacy" @@ -3941,7 +3951,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does a hotel or getaway night feel low-pressure?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "getaway", "couple_intimacy" @@ -3979,7 +3989,7 @@ }, { "type": "scale", - "text": "How present do you feel when phones are out of reach?", + "text": "How much do phones affect your ability to stay present during private time?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "phones", @@ -3988,8 +3998,8 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "No different", - "max_label": "Much more present" + "min_label": "Not at all", + "max_label": "A great deal" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_118", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", @@ -4054,8 +4064,8 @@ "text": "It is easy to decline" }, { - "id": "nothing_is_booked_or_paid_for_yet", - "text": "Nothing is booked or paid for yet" + "id": "it_can_be_changed_easily", + "text": "It can be changed easily" }, { "id": "it_fits_my_energy", @@ -4077,7 +4087,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you feel attractive during private moments?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "body_confidence", "couple_intimacy" @@ -4101,8 +4111,8 @@ "text": "No comparisons" }, { - "id": "touch_that_follows_my_cues", - "text": "Touch that follows my cues" + "id": "touch_that_follows_my_feedback", + "text": "Touch that follows my feedback" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4149,7 +4159,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does body-focused attention become uncomfortable?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "body_discomfort", "couple_intimacy" @@ -4173,8 +4183,8 @@ "text": "Feeling watched instead of appreciated" }, { - "id": "ignoring_my_reaction", - "text": "Ignoring my reaction" + "id": "ignoring_when_i_ask_to_adjust", + "text": "Ignoring when I ask to adjust" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4207,7 +4217,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which kinds of reassurance feel genuine?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "reassurance", "couple_intimacy" @@ -4245,7 +4255,7 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How would you rather receive a body compliment?", + "text": "Pick the approach to body compliments that would help us both feel comfortable.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "compliment_delivery", @@ -4254,20 +4264,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "whispered_privately", - "text": "Whispered privately" + "id": "ask_what_lands_well", + "text": "Ask what lands well" }, { - "id": "said_while_holding_me", - "text": "Said while holding me" + "id": "keep_them_specific", + "text": "Keep them specific" }, { - "id": "sent_in_a_message", - "text": "Sent in a message" + "id": "balance_appearance_with_whole_person_praise", + "text": "Balance appearance with whole-person praise" }, { - "id": "kept_playful_and_brief", - "text": "Kept playful and brief" + "id": "let_either_person_redirect", + "text": "Let either person redirect" } ] }, @@ -4278,8 +4288,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How do you stay present instead of judging your body?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps you stay present when body worries show up?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "presence", "couple_intimacy" @@ -4372,7 +4382,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does undressing feel comfortable?", + "text": "When does physical vulnerability feel comfortable?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "undressing", @@ -4412,7 +4422,7 @@ { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of attention feels most affirming?", - "depth": 2, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "affirming_attention", "couple_intimacy" @@ -4445,7 +4455,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would help on a low-confidence day?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "low_confidence", "couple_intimacy" @@ -4527,8 +4537,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should our intimacy help us feel about our bodies?", - "depth": 5, + "text": "What should intimacy help us believe about our bodies?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "body_messages", "couple_intimacy" @@ -4536,12 +4546,12 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "you_are_welcome_here", - "text": "You are welcome here" + "id": "our_bodies_are_welcome", + "text": "Our bodies are welcome" }, { - "id": "nothing_must_be_hidden", - "text": "Nothing must be hidden" + "id": "we_can_choose_what_feels_comfortable_to_show", + "text": "We can choose what feels comfortable to show" }, { "id": "comfort_matters_more_than_performance", @@ -4663,8 +4673,8 @@ "text": "We check what each person wants" }, { - "id": "it_does_not_assume_one_answer", - "text": "It does not assume one answer" + "id": "it_changes_with_the_moment", + "text": "It changes with the moment" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4678,7 +4688,7 @@ { "type": "scale", "text": "How important is aftercare to your overall experience?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "aftercare_importance", "couple_intimacy" @@ -4687,7 +4697,7 @@ "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very important", - "max_label": "Extremely important" + "max_label": "Very important" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_139", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", @@ -4697,7 +4707,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which words feel good after vulnerability?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "aftercare_words", "couple_intimacy" @@ -4709,20 +4719,20 @@ "text": "I am glad you told me" }, { - "id": "you_are_safe_with_me", - "text": "You are safe with me" + "id": "thank_you_for_trusting_me", + "text": "Thank you for trusting me" }, { "id": "i_loved_being_close_to_you", "text": "I loved being close to you" }, { - "id": "there_is_no_rush", - "text": "There is no rush" + "id": "take_all_the_time_you_need", + "text": "Take all the time you need" }, { - "id": "tell_me_what_you_need", - "text": "Tell me what you need" + "id": "what_would_help_now", + "text": "What would help now?" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4769,7 +4779,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What practical care feels thoughtful afterward?", - "depth": 2, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "practical_aftercare", "couple_intimacy" @@ -4820,8 +4830,8 @@ "text": "A calm check-in" }, { - "id": "reassurance_without_overanalyzing", - "text": "Reassurance without overanalyzing" + "id": "reassurance_without_turning_it_into_a_big_review", + "text": "Reassurance without turning it into a big review" }, { "id": "naming_what_worked", @@ -4863,7 +4873,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When might space be the best aftercare?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "space_aftercare", "couple_intimacy" @@ -4875,8 +4885,8 @@ "text": "When I feel overstimulated" }, { - "id": "when_i_need_to_process_quietly", - "text": "When I need to process quietly" + "id": "when_i_need_quiet", + "text": "When I need quiet" }, { "id": "when_touch_feels_like_too_much", @@ -4922,8 +4932,8 @@ "text": "Ask one clear question" }, { - "id": "agree_that_either_person_can_bring_it_up", - "text": "Agree that either person can bring it up" + "id": "leave_the_door_open_to_talk_later", + "text": "Leave the door open to talk later" } ] }, @@ -4935,7 +4945,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can make aftercare feel wrong for the moment?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "aftercare_miss", "couple_intimacy" @@ -5018,7 +5028,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs show that aftercare matched what you needed?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "aftercare_match", "couple_intimacy" @@ -5057,7 +5067,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When our interest levels differ, how can we stay close?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "couple_intimacy" @@ -5081,8 +5091,8 @@ "text": "A plan to reconnect later" }, { - "id": "room_for_disappointment_without_punishment", - "text": "Room for disappointment without punishment" + "id": "disappointment_handled_kindly", + "text": "Disappointment handled kindly" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -5096,7 +5106,7 @@ { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which response to declined initiation feels most loving?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "declined_initiation", "couple_intimacy" @@ -5129,7 +5139,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps rejection from becoming distance?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "rejection", "couple_intimacy" @@ -5168,7 +5178,7 @@ { "type": "scale", "text": "How well do we handle differences in desire?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "mismatch_scale", "couple_intimacy" @@ -5186,8 +5196,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can frequency conversations feel less painful?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps talks about how often we want intimacy feel kinder?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "frequency", "couple_intimacy" @@ -5211,8 +5221,8 @@ "text": "Separating desire from love" }, { - "id": "looking_for_shared_solutions", - "text": "Looking for shared solutions" + "id": "finding_options_that_respect_both_people", + "text": "Finding options that respect both people" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -5283,8 +5293,8 @@ "text": "It needs an immediate fix" }, { - "id": "it_gives_permission_to_pressure", - "text": "It gives permission to pressure" + "id": "they_should_promise_another_time", + "text": "They should promise another time" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -5377,8 +5387,8 @@ "text": "Manage disappointment kindly" }, { - "id": "ask_about_another_time_once_not_repeatedly", - "text": "Ask about another time once, not repeatedly" + "id": "let_future_plans_stay_optional", + "text": "Let future plans stay optional" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -5392,7 +5402,7 @@ { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which phrase makes a mismatch easier to hear?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "mismatch_phrase", "couple_intimacy" @@ -5472,7 +5482,7 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not clearly", + "min_label": "Not very clearly", "max_label": "Very clearly" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_163", @@ -5528,12 +5538,12 @@ "text": "Flexible expectations" }, { - "id": "honest_health_context", - "text": "Honest health context" + "id": "honesty_about_stress_or_health", + "text": "Honesty about stress or health" }, { - "id": "working_as_a_team", - "text": "Working as a team" + "id": "making_room_for_both_experiences", + "text": "Making room for both experiences" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -5546,7 +5556,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when an intimate moment becomes awkward?", + "text": "If an intimate moment turns awkward, what helps us recover together?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "awkwardness", @@ -5606,8 +5616,8 @@ "text": "A little humor" }, { - "id": "space_to_reset", - "text": "Space to reset" + "id": "a_little_space", + "text": "A little space" } ] }, @@ -5618,8 +5628,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can an interrupted or awkward moment stay emotionally safe?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What keeps an interrupted or awkward moment from feeling hurtful?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "failed_attempt", "couple_intimacy" @@ -5658,7 +5668,7 @@ { "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it for us to recover from awkward moments?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "awkward_recovery", "couple_intimacy" @@ -5716,7 +5726,7 @@ { "type": "single_choice", "text": "After a misunderstanding, which repair feels most natural?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "repair_style", "couple_intimacy" @@ -5787,7 +5797,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can we protect intimacy during relationship conflict?", + "text": "What protects intimacy when we are upset with each other?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "conflict_protection", @@ -5882,7 +5892,7 @@ { "type": "single_choice", "text": "After a vulnerable moment, what reassurance lands best?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "vulnerable_reassurance", "couple_intimacy" @@ -5915,7 +5925,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can turn embarrassment into connection?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "embarrassment", "couple_intimacy" @@ -5931,8 +5941,8 @@ "text": "No teasing later" }, { - "id": "normalizing_imperfection", - "text": "Normalizing imperfection" + "id": "remembering_awkward_moments_happen", + "text": "Remembering awkward moments happen" }, { "id": "warm_affection_if_wanted", @@ -5973,7 +5983,7 @@ { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Talk right away or reconnect after a little space?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "repair_timing", "couple_intimacy" @@ -6206,7 +6216,7 @@ { "type": "single_choice", "text": "How should a new idea be chosen?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "choosing_novelty", "couple_intimacy" @@ -6238,8 +6248,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can a new idea feel playful instead of awkward?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps a new idea feel playful instead of awkward?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "role_play", "couple_intimacy" @@ -6277,8 +6287,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which agreements should come before any unfamiliar activity?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "After confirming that both people want it and can stop anytime, what else should we discuss?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "toys", "couple_intimacy" @@ -6286,24 +6296,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "both_people_want_it", - "text": "Both people want it" + "id": "boundaries_and_limits", + "text": "Boundaries and limits" }, { - "id": "nothing_is_introduced_as_a_surprise", - "text": "Nothing is introduced as a surprise" + "id": "privacy", + "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "a_clear_stop_signal", "text": "A clear stop signal" }, { - "id": "privacy_is_protected", - "text": "Privacy is protected" + "id": "what_support_might_help_afterward", + "text": "What support might help afterward" }, { - "id": "either_person_can_change_their_mind", - "text": "Either person can change their mind" + "id": "what_would_make_us_postpone_it", + "text": "What would make us postpone it" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -6317,7 +6327,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps an unfamiliar experience feel grounded?", - "depth": 5, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "sensory", "couple_intimacy" @@ -6427,8 +6437,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can curiosity stay connected to care?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What keeps trying new things grounded in care?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "careful_curiosity", "couple_intimacy" @@ -6444,8 +6454,8 @@ "text": "Respecting hesitation" }, { - "id": "keeping_intensity_from_becoming_the_goal", - "text": "Keeping intensity from becoming the goal" + "id": "letting_comfort_matter_more_than_novelty", + "text": "Letting comfort matter more than novelty" }, { "id": "talking_afterward", @@ -6486,7 +6496,7 @@ { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "A familiar favorite or one small new twist?", - "depth": 2, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "familiar_new", "couple_intimacy" @@ -6511,7 +6521,7 @@ { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Talk through a fantasy or keep it as imagination?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "fantasy_choice", "couple_intimacy" @@ -6587,16 +6597,16 @@ "text": "Change the lighting" }, { - "id": "share_a_shower", - "text": "Share a shower" + "id": "put_phones_away", + "text": "Put phones away" }, { "id": "choose_music_together", "text": "Choose music together" }, { - "id": "sit_close_without_phones", - "text": "Sit close without phones" + "id": "share_a_quick_check_in", + "text": "Share a quick check-in" } ] }, @@ -6608,7 +6618,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps a planned night from feeling like an obligation?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "planned_night", "couple_intimacy" @@ -6777,7 +6787,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which traditions could help intimacy survive busy seasons?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "busy_rituals", "couple_intimacy" @@ -6840,8 +6850,8 @@ "text": "A sweet message after leaving" }, { - "id": "choosing_a_tiny_ritual_for_the_day", - "text": "Choosing a tiny ritual for the day" + "id": "a_playful_promise_for_later", + "text": "A playful promise for later" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -6927,7 +6937,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does a ritual start feeling like a chore?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "ritual_risk", "couple_intimacy" @@ -6965,8 +6975,8 @@ }, { "type": "scale", - "text": "How protected does our couple time feel from everyday demands?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How easy is it to keep couple time from being crowded out?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "protected_time", "couple_intimacy" @@ -6974,8 +6984,8 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not protected", - "max_label": "Well protected" + "min_label": "Very difficult", + "max_label": "Very easy" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_208", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", @@ -7042,25 +7052,25 @@ ], "answer_config": { "options": [ - { - "id": "a_long_goodbye_kiss", - "text": "A long goodbye kiss" - }, - { - "id": "ten_minutes_of_cuddling", - "text": "Ten minutes of cuddling" - }, { "id": "a_flirty_message", "text": "A flirty message" }, { - "id": "a_shared_shower", - "text": "A shared shower" + "id": "ten_quiet_minutes_together", + "text": "Ten quiet minutes together" }, { - "id": "a_planned_private_hour", - "text": "A planned private hour" + "id": "a_meaningful_check_in", + "text": "A meaningful check-in" + }, + { + "id": "a_private_meal", + "text": "A private meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_planned_hour_for_us", + "text": "A planned hour for us" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -7106,8 +7116,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How do we keep intimacy from becoming another task?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What keeps intimacy from feeling like another task?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "not_task", "couple_intimacy" @@ -7165,7 +7175,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which pressures most affect your ability to relax?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "responsibilities", "couple_intimacy" @@ -7236,8 +7246,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can intimacy survive irregular schedules?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What helps intimacy survive irregular schedules?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "schedules", "couple_intimacy" @@ -7257,8 +7267,8 @@ "text": "Being honest about energy" }, { - "id": "not_assuming_rejection", - "text": "Not assuming rejection" + "id": "not_treating_low_energy_as_rejection", + "text": "Not treating low energy as rejection" }, { "id": "protecting_one_recurring_time", @@ -7315,7 +7325,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can keep affection alive during long stressful periods?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "long_stress", "couple_intimacy" @@ -7323,8 +7333,8 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "nonsexual_touch", - "text": "Nonsexual touch" + "id": "small_signs_of_affection", + "text": "Small signs of affection" }, { "id": "kind_words", @@ -7434,8 +7444,8 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "real_rest", - "text": "Real rest" + "id": "enough_rest", + "text": "Enough rest" }, { "id": "feeling_supported", @@ -7450,8 +7460,8 @@ "text": "Emotional connection" }, { - "id": "time_without_responsibilities", - "text": "Time without responsibilities" + "id": "time_with_fewer_demands", + "text": "Time with fewer demands" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -7465,7 +7475,7 @@ { "type": "scale", "text": "How balanced does intimacy feel with the rest of our life?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "life_balance", "couple_intimacy" @@ -7483,7 +7493,7 @@ }, { "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "A brief moment tonight or protected time this weekend?", + "text": "A brief moment tonight or unhurried time this weekend?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "timing_choice", @@ -7496,8 +7506,8 @@ "text": "A brief moment tonight" }, { - "id": "protected_time_this_weekend", - "text": "Protected time this weekend" + "id": "unhurried_time_this_weekend", + "text": "Unhurried time this weekend" } ] }, @@ -7605,8 +7615,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes an intimate memory worth keeping?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What makes a shared intimate memory especially meaningful?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "memory_value", "couple_intimacy" @@ -7614,8 +7624,8 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "feeling_safe", - "text": "Feeling safe" + "id": "feeling_safe_together", + "text": "Feeling safe together" }, { "id": "feeling_desired", @@ -7626,12 +7636,12 @@ "text": "Laughing together" }, { - "id": "trying_something_mutually_chosen", - "text": "Trying something mutually chosen" + "id": "choosing_something_new_together", + "text": "Choosing something new together" }, { - "id": "feeling_completely_present", - "text": "Feeling completely present" + "id": "being_fully_present", + "text": "Being fully present" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -7735,8 +7745,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "How can nostalgia stay warm instead of pressuring?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What keeps nostalgia warm instead of pressuring?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "nostalgia", "couple_intimacy" @@ -7775,7 +7785,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What moments have made you feel most chosen by me?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "chosen_memories", "couple_intimacy" @@ -7783,24 +7793,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "when_i_made_time", - "text": "When I made time" + "id": "when_you_made_time_for_us", + "text": "When you made time for us" }, { - "id": "when_i_defended_our_privacy", - "text": "When I defended our privacy" + "id": "when_you_protected_our_privacy", + "text": "When you protected our privacy" }, { - "id": "when_i_noticed_your_mood", - "text": "When I noticed your mood" + "id": "when_you_noticed_my_mood", + "text": "When you noticed my mood" }, { - "id": "when_i_initiated_affection", - "text": "When I initiated affection" + "id": "when_you_initiated_affection", + "text": "When you initiated affection" }, { - "id": "when_i_respected_a_boundary", - "text": "When I respected a boundary" + "id": "when_you_respected_a_boundary", + "text": "When you respected a boundary" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -7853,7 +7863,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can old memories teach us about current intimacy?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "memory_lessons", "couple_intimacy" @@ -7941,8 +7951,8 @@ "text": "A brave conversation" }, { - "id": "a_playful_experiment", - "text": "A playful experiment" + "id": "trying_something_playful_together", + "text": "Trying something playful together" }, { "id": "a_simple_recurring_ritual", @@ -7963,7 +7973,7 @@ }, { "type": "scale", - "text": "How satisfied are you with the new memories we are making?", + "text": "How meaningful do our recent memories feel?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "new_memory_scale", @@ -7972,8 +7982,8 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not satisfied", - "max_label": "Very satisfied" + "min_label": "Not very meaningful", + "max_label": "Very meaningful" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_238", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", @@ -8033,7 +8043,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What emotional moments make physical closeness easier?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "emotional_closeness", "couple_intimacy" @@ -8049,8 +8059,8 @@ "text": "Laughing together" }, { - "id": "repairing_a_disagreement", - "text": "Repairing a disagreement" + "id": "making_up_after_a_disagreement", + "text": "Making up after a disagreement" }, { "id": "receiving_appreciation", @@ -8071,8 +8081,8 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of attention makes you feel most cared for?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What kind of attention helps intimacy feel caring, not just physical?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "emotionally_chosen", "couple_intimacy" @@ -8104,7 +8114,7 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "When does intimacy feel like connection rather than performance?", + "text": "When does intimacy feel like real connection instead of something to get right?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "connection_not_performance", @@ -8144,7 +8154,7 @@ { "type": "scale", "text": "How emotionally connected do you feel during intimacy lately?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "emotional_scale", "couple_intimacy" @@ -8313,7 +8323,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What kind of affection works after an emotional conversation?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "post_talk_affection", "couple_intimacy" @@ -8352,7 +8362,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does eye contact feel connecting rather than intense?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "eye_contact", "couple_intimacy" @@ -8424,7 +8434,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When do we feel most like partners in intimacy?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "partnership", "couple_intimacy" @@ -8570,7 +8580,7 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which tiny challenge would feel flirty, not forced?", + "text": "Which tiny challenge would feel playful and flirty?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "flirty_challenge", @@ -8624,8 +8634,8 @@ "text": "Simple rules" }, { - "id": "consent_built_in", - "text": "Consent built in" + "id": "either_person_can_skip_any_part", + "text": "Either person can skip any part" }, { "id": "no_embarrassing_dares", @@ -8674,8 +8684,8 @@ "text": "Give a slow compliment" }, { - "id": "choose_a_place_to_cuddle", - "text": "Choose a place to cuddle" + "id": "choose_the_mood_for_tonight", + "text": "Choose the mood for tonight" }, { "id": "pick_the_next_song", @@ -8686,8 +8696,8 @@ "text": "Share a favorite memory" }, { - "id": "ask_for_one_kind_of_touch", - "text": "Ask for one kind of touch" + "id": "name_one_small_thing_that_helps_you_feel_close", + "text": "Name one small thing that helps you feel close" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -8734,7 +8744,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps a teasing game from going too far?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "teasing_limits", "couple_intimacy" @@ -8750,8 +8760,8 @@ "text": "No humiliation" }, { - "id": "no_public_play", - "text": "No public play" + "id": "nothing_involving_bystanders", + "text": "Nothing involving bystanders" }, { "id": "clear_time_limits", @@ -8773,7 +8783,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which playful choices could help us learn preferences?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "preference_games", "couple_intimacy" @@ -8785,8 +8795,8 @@ "text": "A yes/no/maybe list" }, { - "id": "pick_one_of_four_kisses", - "text": "Pick one of four kisses" + "id": "choose_among_four_affection_styles", + "text": "Choose among four affection styles" }, { "id": "choose_a_mood_card", @@ -8875,8 +8885,8 @@ "text": "Spa night" }, { - "id": "phone_free_hideaway", - "text": "Phone-free hideaway" + "id": "phones_away_cozy_night", + "text": "Phones-away cozy night" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -8889,7 +8899,7 @@ }, { "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Pick the playful signal that should mean 'come closer'.", + "text": "Pick the playful signal that should mean 'I am open to a little closeness'.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "come_closer_signal", @@ -8923,7 +8933,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does surprise affection feel fun?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "surprise_affection", "couple_intimacy" @@ -8962,7 +8972,7 @@ { "type": "scale", "text": "How playful would you like our intimacy to feel this month?", - "depth": 3, + "depth": 2, "tags": [ "playful_month", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9103,7 +9113,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which habits make intimacy feel routine?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "routine", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9150,7 +9160,7 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Very routine", + "min_label": "Not very fresh", "max_label": "Very fresh" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_274", @@ -9161,7 +9171,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which changes deserve extra patience over the years?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "life_changes", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9200,7 +9210,7 @@ { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Where would you most like our intimacy to grow?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "growth", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9220,8 +9230,8 @@ "text": "More confidence naming boundaries" }, { - "id": "more_intentional_time", - "text": "More intentional time" + "id": "more_unhurried_time", + "text": "More unhurried time" } ] }, @@ -9233,7 +9243,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How do we adapt without losing closeness?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "adaptation", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9288,8 +9298,8 @@ "text": "Conversations feel unsafe" }, { - "id": "one_person_avoids_initiating", - "text": "One person avoids initiating" + "id": "initiation_feels_risky_or_pressured", + "text": "Initiation feels risky or pressured" }, { "id": "boundaries_are_forgotten", @@ -9366,16 +9376,16 @@ "text": "Flexible definitions of closeness" }, { - "id": "more_communication", - "text": "More communication" + "id": "honest_talks_as_needs_change", + "text": "Honest talks as needs change" }, { - "id": "extra_kindness", - "text": "Extra kindness" + "id": "extra_patience_with_changing_energy", + "text": "Extra patience with changing energy" }, { - "id": "outside_professional_help_when_needed", - "text": "Outside professional help when needed" + "id": "updating_what_closeness_looks_like", + "text": "Updating what closeness looks like" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -9389,7 +9399,7 @@ { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the shared promise that would best protect long-term intimacy.", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "shared_promise", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9421,8 +9431,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Why does growing older together still feel attractive?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What can make growing older together feel attractive?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "aging", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9461,7 +9471,7 @@ { "type": "scale", "text": "How confident are you that our intimacy can keep evolving?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "evolving", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9505,7 +9515,7 @@ { "type": "scale", "text": "How well does our current intimacy fit this stage of life?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "life_stage_fit", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9513,8 +9523,8 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not a good fit", - "max_label": "A very good fit" + "min_label": "Does not fit well yet", + "max_label": "Fits very well" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_285", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", @@ -9654,7 +9664,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which shared intentions could strengthen closeness?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "intentions", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9662,8 +9672,8 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "ask_more_curious_questions", - "text": "Ask more curious questions" + "id": "ask_what_feels_good_now", + "text": "Ask what feels good now" }, { "id": "protect_private_time", @@ -9693,7 +9703,7 @@ { "type": "single_choice", "text": "What do you hope we remember years from now?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "future_memory", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9726,7 +9736,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which parts of the way we handle intimacy make you proud?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "pride", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9765,7 +9775,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which qualities do you want us to protect no matter what?", - "depth": 5, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "protect", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9804,7 +9814,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What could help us feel more connected over the next few months?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "next_season", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9828,8 +9838,8 @@ "text": "More daily affection" }, { - "id": "a_brave_conversation", - "text": "A brave conversation" + "id": "a_more_honest_conversation", + "text": "A more honest conversation" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -9843,7 +9853,7 @@ { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which appreciation would you most like to hear from me?", - "depth": 4, + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "appreciation_hear", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9914,8 +9924,8 @@ }, { "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would help us keep intimacy from becoming invisible?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What keeps closeness from getting lost in everyday life?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "visibility", "couple_intimacy" @@ -9953,8 +9963,8 @@ }, { "type": "scale", - "text": "How appreciated do you feel for the closeness you bring to our relationship?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "How appreciated do you feel for the way you contribute to our closeness?", + "depth": 3, "tags": [ "appreciated_scale", "couple_intimacy" diff --git a/seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json b/seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json index 2968a313..912a331a 100644 --- a/seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json +++ b/seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json @@ -24,13 +24,19 @@ "4": 64, "5": 30 }, - "content_version": "physical_intimacy_guide_reviewed_v2", + "content_version": "physical_intimacy_guide_reviewed_v3_second_pass", "batch_size": 15, - "review_policy": "Ten 15-question written batches, then guided-choice batches of 20 or fewer, with cumulative repetition, option-fit, consent, and related-pack checks.", + "review_policy": "Second-pass targeted patch review in 15-question correction batches, with cumulative repetition, option-fit, consent, related-pack, and full-pack checks.", "mass_rewrite_exception": "Applied because repeated written stems, mirrored touch scenarios, body-language assumptions, and neighboring paraphrases affected more than 60% of the source experience.", "related_pack_boundary": "Owns nonsexual affection, touch comfort, cuddling, kissing, sensory preferences, physical accessibility, and everyday physical boundaries. Desire dynamics belong in sex_and_desire; specific sexual activities belong in sexual_preferences; broad sexual intimacy and aftercare belong in couple_intimacy.", "post_draft_corrected_questions": 36, - "final_validation": "pass" + "final_validation": "pass", + "second_pass_patched_questions": 127, + "second_pass_preserved_questions": 123, + "second_pass_audit_batch_size": 15, + "second_pass_audit_batches": 17, + "second_pass_correction_batches": 9, + "reviewed_repo_commit": "25d3441ea9" } }, "questions": [ @@ -383,7 +389,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_024", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of hug fits a moment when we are celebrating something together?", + "text": "What kind of hug feels right when you are proud of me?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -548,7 +554,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_035", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of closeness feels natural during a long car ride when we are both relaxed?", + "text": "When we are passengers on a long ride, what kind of closeness feels natural?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -563,7 +569,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_036", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What passing-in-the-kitchen touch would make you smile without interrupting what you are doing?", + "text": "What tiny touch could turn waiting for coffee or tea into a sweet moment?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -608,7 +614,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_039", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What cold-weather affection ritual would you happily repeat every winter?", + "text": "What outdoor affection feels especially good when the air is cold?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -788,7 +794,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_051", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What romantic touch feels meaningful even when there is no grand gesture around it?", + "text": "What makes an ordinary touch feel romantic to you—timing, attention, or something else?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -818,7 +824,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_053", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "During a slow dance, what small detail would make you feel closest to me?", + "text": "During a slow dance, what makes the closeness feel genuine rather than staged?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -848,7 +854,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_055", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What planned affectionate surprise would feel playful while still giving you an easy choice?", + "text": "What kind of affectionate surprise is better with a little warning?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -863,11 +869,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_056", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What silly competition could have an affectionate prize that we would both enjoy?", + "text": "What harmless competition would make a mutual celebration feel extra fun?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "play", + "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -953,7 +959,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_062", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I invite you closer while making it clear that either answer is completely okay?", + "text": "How can I invite you beside me without making closeness feel expected?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -983,7 +989,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_064", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How would you like to say “not right now” so it feels clear and easy?", + "text": "What is the clearest, easiest way for you to decline affection in the moment?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -998,7 +1004,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_065", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What response from me would make declining affection feel completely safe?", + "text": "What response from me helps a declined touch feel like a normal moment, not a problem?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1013,7 +1019,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_066", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When I am unsure whether touch is welcome, what check-in would you prefer?", + "text": "When touch might or might not be welcome, what kind of question feels easiest to answer?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1058,7 +1064,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_069", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "If you change your mind during a cuddle, how can we make stopping feel ordinary?", + "text": "If you want a cuddle to end, what would make the transition feel easy and ordinary?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1073,7 +1079,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_070", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What clear signal could tell me you are open to more nonsexual closeness?", + "text": "What clear invitation from you should I recognize as interest in nonsexual closeness?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1118,7 +1124,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_073", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "Create a simple signal that could mean “please just hold me.”", + "text": "What words would you rather use when you want quiet holding without conversation?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1133,7 +1139,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_074", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "Create a different signal that could mean “I need some room.”", + "text": "How would you like to ask for space while still letting me know we are okay?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1163,7 +1169,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_076", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "Which detail—pressure, pace, or placement—changes a hug from okay to wonderful for you?", + "text": "Of pressure, pace, placement, and duration, which matters most to your comfort during a hug—and why?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1178,7 +1184,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_077", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "Do fabrics, blankets, or clothing ever change how cuddling feels? What should I know?", + "text": "How do fabrics and clothing affect whether cuddling feels comfortable to you?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1193,7 +1199,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_078", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How do heat and cold change whether you want a blanket, hand-holding, or more space?", + "text": "How does room temperature change the kind of affection you enjoy?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1208,7 +1214,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_079", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When your body feels sore or tired, what touch is helpful and what should I skip?", + "text": "When your body is sore, what is the easiest way for me to ask where touch is welcome?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1253,7 +1259,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_082", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make a hand massage feel relaxing rather than like another task?", + "text": "What detail would make a hand massage feel like affection rather than a favor?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1283,7 +1289,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_084", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When you are focused on something, what affection feels welcome without breaking your concentration?", + "text": "When you are concentrating, what is the least disruptive way to show affection?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1298,7 +1304,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_085", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "In a crowded place, what kind of contact helps you feel connected without feeling trapped?", + "text": "In a crowd, what contact helps you feel steady without limiting your movement?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1388,7 +1394,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_091", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When stress is high, how can I find out whether touch would help before reaching for you?", + "text": "When stress is high, what exact check-in helps you decide whether touch would help?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1403,7 +1409,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_092", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When you are sad, what kind of physical comfort feels supportive without demanding a response?", + "text": "When you are sad, what tells you that a hug is supportive rather than too much?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1433,7 +1439,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_094", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "On an exhausted day, what small affection feels caring instead of like one more demand?", + "text": "On an exhausted day, what tiny gesture still feels caring without asking anything back?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1448,7 +1454,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_095", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When you feel overwhelmed, what combination of space and closeness usually helps most?", + "text": "When you feel overwhelmed, what helps you choose between space, nearby company, and touch?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1478,7 +1484,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_097", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When you are under the weather, what affectionate care feels comforting without crowding you?", + "text": "When you feel unwell, what affectionate gesture feels caring without interrupting your rest?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1493,7 +1499,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_098", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "After hard news, what would help me offer comfort without guessing what your body needs?", + "text": "After hard news, what question should I ask before offering physical comfort?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1508,7 +1514,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_099", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "Once we are both ready after conflict, what physical gesture could gently reopen closeness?", + "text": "After conflict is genuinely repaired, what touch—if any—helps closeness return naturally?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1568,11 +1574,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_103", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When words are hard to find, what safe physical signal could say “I’m with you”?", + "text": "When words are hard, what kind of silent company feels supportive to you?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "signals", + "quiet_closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1583,7 +1589,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_104", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I offer touch as support without making it feel like I am trying to fix everything?", + "text": "When you are upset, how can touch support you without trying to change your mood?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1658,7 +1664,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_109", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "At a party or work event, what affectionate signal could feel private even in a crowd?", + "text": "At a social event, what subtle affection feels natural without pulling attention toward us?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1673,11 +1679,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_110", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "For a posed couple photo, what kind of physical closeness feels genuine rather than staged?", + "text": "When we dress up for an event, what contact helps you feel connected without feeling posed?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "photos", + "social_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1688,11 +1694,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_111", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "On a body-confidence day, what kind of affection helps without drawing attention to insecurity?", + "text": "How does eye contact before a touch change the way that touch feels to you?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "body_confidence", + "communication", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1718,11 +1724,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_113", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can I show physical affection without assuming how you feel about your body that day?", + "text": "What should I know about affectionate touch when you feel physically restless?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "body_confidence", + "sensory_needs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1733,7 +1739,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_114", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "If health, pain, or energy changes, how would you want us to adapt our affectionate habits?", + "text": "If pain or energy changes, what is the easiest way to update me about touch that day?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1808,7 +1814,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_119", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How should our greeting change when other people are around?", + "text": "What greeting feels affectionate but natural when we are around other people?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1838,7 +1844,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_121", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "Which affectionate habit has faded over time, and what do you miss about it?", + "text": "What newer affectionate habit has quietly become important to you?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1853,7 +1859,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_122", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How have your touch preferences changed since the beginning of our relationship?", + "text": "Which touch preference of yours has changed most over time, and what changed it?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1868,7 +1874,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_123", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What life change has affected how you enjoy physical closeness most?", + "text": "What recent change in routine has affected when affection feels easiest?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1883,7 +1889,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_124", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "After a disconnected stretch, what is the gentlest first step back toward affection?", + "text": "After distance between us, what first gesture feels gentle enough to be genuine?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1913,7 +1919,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_126", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What could rebuild easy affection after a season when we have both been busy?", + "text": "What would make everyday affection easier during a month when our schedules barely overlap?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1928,7 +1934,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_127", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When affection starts feeling routine, what specific change could make it feel noticed again?", + "text": "What one change would make a familiar affection habit feel intentional again?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1958,7 +1964,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_129", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "When our touch preferences do not match, what helps the difference feel manageable?", + "text": "When we want different amounts of touch, what helps both answers feel equally respected?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1973,7 +1979,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_130", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "If one of us wants more closeness than the other, how can we protect both people from pressure?", + "text": "If one of us wants closeness and the other does not, what non-touch response helps us stay connected?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -1988,7 +1994,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_131", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What small, low-pressure affection experiment could teach us something useful about each other?", + "text": "What new, gentle form of affection are you curious to try once, with an easy opt-out?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -2003,7 +2009,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_132", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "After a sincere apology, what physical closeness—if any—helps repair feel complete?", + "text": "After an apology, what tells you whether physical closeness would help or should wait?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -2018,7 +2024,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_133", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "After disappointment between us, what needs to happen before affection feels natural again?", + "text": "After one of us feels let down, what makes affection feel sincere again?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -2033,7 +2039,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_134", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "How can we notice when an old touch preference no longer fits?", + "text": "What sign tells you that a once-comfortable touch no longer fits?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -2078,7 +2084,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_137", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What promise about respecting changing touch preferences would matter most to you?", + "text": "What would show you that I take changing touch preferences seriously?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -2123,7 +2129,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_140", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What anniversary touch ritual would feel meaningful without becoming an obligation?", + "text": "On an anniversary, what kind of physical affection would feel meaningful without needing a grand gesture?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -2138,7 +2144,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_141", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "If we moved into a new home, what closeness ritual would make it feel like ours?", + "text": "If we moved somewhere new, which spot would you want to claim first for quiet closeness?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -2168,11 +2174,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_143", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "During a future stressful season, what touch agreement would help us stay gentle?", + "text": "During a stressful season, what check-in would keep affection gentle and optional?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future", + "stress", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2183,11 +2189,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_144", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "Which private physical signal between us would you want to keep for years?", + "text": "Which everyday activity would you rather keep mostly touch-free so you can enjoy it?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "signals", + "boundaries", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2198,11 +2204,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_145", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What affectionate tradition could belong only to us and still feel natural?", + "text": "How do height or reach differences change which hugs and cuddles work best for us?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "couple_identity", + "accessibility", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2213,11 +2219,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_146", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What affectionate habit would make hosting people feel warm without seeming performative?", + "text": "When we host people, what small affection helps us feel connected without putting on a show?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "couple_identity", + "social_settings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2228,11 +2234,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_147", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny affection could make errands or waiting in line feel more like shared time?", + "text": "While waiting somewhere together, what small touch makes the time feel shared?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "habits", + "daily_life", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2243,11 +2249,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_148", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "Design our ideal ten-minute closeness break for an ordinary weeknight.", + "text": "What kind of closeness feels best after we have both been staring at screens too long?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rituals", + "daily_life", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2258,11 +2264,11 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_149", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What physical habit would our future selves thank us for protecting now?", + "text": "What scents, if any, make physical closeness feel more comforting to you?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future", + "sensory_preferences", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2273,7 +2279,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_150", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", - "text": "What would make our physical affection feel unmistakably like our relationship—not anyone else’s?", + "text": "What do you think our body language shows when we feel completely at ease together?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -2288,30 +2294,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_151", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "After a long day apart, which reunion sounds best?", + "text": "After we finish separate tasks at home, which small reconnection sounds best?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "reunions", + "reconnection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_doorway_hug_before_talking", - "text": "A doorway hug before talking" + "id": "meet_in_the_kitchen_for_a_real_hug", + "text": "Meet in the kitchen for a real hug" }, { - "id": "a_cheek_kiss_and_shared_smile", - "text": "A cheek kiss and shared smile" + "id": "sit_together_and_link_hands", + "text": "Sit together and link hands" }, { - "id": "hands_linked_while_we_catch_up", - "text": "Hands linked while we catch up" + "id": "trade_a_cheek_kiss_and_a_smile", + "text": "Trade a cheek kiss and a smile" }, { - "id": "a_minute_to_settle_then_closeness", - "text": "A minute to settle, then closeness" + "id": "take_a_minute_alone_then_reconnect", + "text": "Take a minute alone, then reconnect" } ] } @@ -2320,7 +2326,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_152", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "For a movie night, where would you most enjoy sitting?", + "text": "During a shared show, which level of contact feels easiest?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -2330,20 +2336,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "shoulder_to_shoulder_on_the_couch", - "text": "Shoulder to shoulder on the couch" + "id": "light_shoulder_contact", + "text": "Light shoulder contact" }, { - "id": "curled_together_under_one_blanket", - "text": "Curled together under one blanket" + "id": "one_hand_held_loosely", + "text": "One hand held loosely" }, { - "id": "feet_touching_from_opposite_ends", - "text": "Feet touching from opposite ends" + "id": "feet_meeting_now_and_then", + "text": "Feet meeting now and then" }, { - "id": "nearby_with_room_to_move", - "text": "Nearby with room to move" + "id": "nearby_with_no_steady_contact", + "text": "Nearby with no steady contact" } ] } @@ -2384,7 +2390,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_154", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When would a long hug feel best?", + "text": "Which quality matters most in a longer hug?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -2394,20 +2400,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "right_after_we_reunite", - "text": "Right after we reunite" + "id": "time_to_settle_into_it", + "text": "Time to settle into it" }, { - "id": "when_one_of_us_needs_comfort", - "text": "When one of us needs comfort" + "id": "comfortable_steady_pressure", + "text": "Comfortable, steady pressure" }, { - "id": "at_the_end_of_a_good_day", - "text": "At the end of a good day" + "id": "quiet_attention_from_both_of_us", + "text": "Quiet attention from both of us" }, { - "id": "when_we_both_have_time_to_linger", - "text": "When we both have time to linger" + "id": "an_easy_natural_ending", + "text": "An easy, natural ending" } ] } @@ -2416,30 +2422,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_155", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which morning affection would start your day well?", + "text": "When our hands are full, which no-hands greeting feels sweetest?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "morning", + "greetings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_gentle_forehead_kiss", - "text": "A gentle forehead kiss" + "id": "a_quick_shoulder_to_shoulder_lean", + "text": "A quick shoulder-to-shoulder lean" }, { - "id": "a_sleepy_full_body_stretch_together", - "text": "A sleepy full-body stretch together" + "id": "a_cheek_kiss_after_a_clear_invitation", + "text": "A cheek kiss after a clear invitation" }, { - "id": "a_warm_hand_on_your_shoulder", - "text": "A warm hand on your shoulder" + "id": "a_playful_hip_bump_when_expected", + "text": "A playful hip bump when expected" }, { - "id": "a_cheerful_hug_after_getting_up", - "text": "A cheerful hug after getting up" + "id": "a_warm_smile_and_spoken_hello", + "text": "A warm smile and spoken hello" } ] } @@ -2448,7 +2454,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_156", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which bedtime gesture feels most comforting?", + "text": "When sleep matters most, which goodnight gesture fits best?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -2458,20 +2464,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_slow_goodnight_kiss", - "text": "A slow goodnight kiss" + "id": "a_brief_kiss_then_separate_space", + "text": "A brief kiss, then separate space" }, { - "id": "a_brief_back_rub_before_sleep", - "text": "A brief back rub before sleep" + "id": "hands_held_for_one_quiet_minute", + "text": "Hands held for one quiet minute" }, { - "id": "holding_hands_until_we_relax", - "text": "Holding hands until we relax" + "id": "a_gentle_shoulder_squeeze", + "text": "A gentle shoulder squeeze" }, { - "id": "a_soft_squeeze_then_separate_space", - "text": "A soft squeeze, then separate space" + "id": "a_warm_goodnight_with_no_touch", + "text": "A warm goodnight with no touch" } ] } @@ -2480,7 +2486,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_157", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What level of public affection feels easiest?", + "text": "Which public-affection approach feels most natural at a casual outing?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -2494,16 +2500,16 @@ "text": "Hands linked while walking" }, { - "id": "a_quick_hello_or_goodbye_kiss", - "text": "A quick hello or goodbye kiss" + "id": "a_brief_cheek_kiss", + "text": "A brief cheek kiss" }, { "id": "an_arm_around_each_other_briefly", "text": "An arm around each other briefly" }, { - "id": "keeping_affection_private_in_public", - "text": "Keeping affection private in public" + "id": "keeping_physical_affection_private", + "text": "Keeping physical affection private" } ] } @@ -2544,39 +2550,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_159", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How should we celebrate a small win physically?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "physical_intimacy" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_dramatic_victory_hug", - "text": "One dramatic victory hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_kitchen_dance_for_one_song", - "text": "A kitchen dance for one song" - }, - { - "id": "an_enthusiastic_double_high_five", - "text": "An enthusiastic double high-five" - }, - { - "id": "a_proud_kiss_on_the_cheek", - "text": "A proud kiss on the cheek" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "physical_intimacy_160", - "category_id": "physical_intimacy", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which playful affection sounds most like us?", + "text": "How should we mark a small shared joke?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -2586,20 +2560,52 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_surprise_spin_during_a_hug", - "text": "A surprise spin during a hug" + "id": "a_quiet_double_high_five", + "text": "A quiet double high-five" }, { - "id": "a_secret_hand_squeeze_code", - "text": "A secret hand-squeeze code" + "id": "a_light_elbow_tap", + "text": "A light elbow tap" }, { - "id": "a_ridiculous_slow_dance", - "text": "A ridiculous slow dance" + "id": "a_quick_wrist_tap", + "text": "A quick wrist tap" }, { - "id": "a_gentle_shoulder_bump_and_grin", - "text": "A gentle shoulder bump and grin" + "id": "a_grin_with_no_touch_needed", + "text": "A grin with no touch needed" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "physical_intimacy_160", + "category_id": "physical_intimacy", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When both of us are already in a playful mood, which affection sounds most like us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "playful_affection", + "physical_intimacy" + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_playful_shoulder_bump_and_grin", + "text": "A playful shoulder bump and grin" + }, + { + "id": "a_shared_wink_and_tiny_bow", + "text": "A shared wink and tiny bow" + }, + { + "id": "a_mock_formal_handshake", + "text": "A mock-formal handshake" + }, + { + "id": "a_one_song_kitchen_sway", + "text": "A one-song kitchen sway" } ] } @@ -2640,7 +2646,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_162", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "During a quiet moment, which gesture feels most supportive?", + "text": "During a quiet conversation, which contact helps you stay present?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -2650,20 +2656,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "resting_your_head_on_my_shoulder", - "text": "Resting your head on my shoulder" + "id": "a_light_hand_resting_on_my_forearm", + "text": "A light hand resting on my forearm" }, { - "id": "my_hand_covering_yours", - "text": "My hand covering yours" + "id": "knees_resting_together", + "text": "Knees resting together" }, { - "id": "sitting_close_without_touching", - "text": "Sitting close without touching" + "id": "a_shoulder_resting_against_yours", + "text": "A shoulder resting against yours" }, { - "id": "a_soft_hug_after_asking", - "text": "A soft hug after asking" + "id": "no_touch_until_afterward", + "text": "No touch until afterward" } ] } @@ -2672,7 +2678,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_163", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which invitation to affection feels most natural?", + "text": "Which invitation to sit close feels most natural?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -2682,20 +2688,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "can_i_hold_you_for_a_minute", - "text": "“Can I hold you for a minute?”" + "id": "want_to_sit_with_me", + "text": "“Want to sit with me?”" }, { - "id": "would_a_hug_feel_good", - "text": "“Would a hug feel good?”" + "id": "making_room_and_asking_plainly", + "text": "Making room and asking plainly" }, { - "id": "opening_my_arms_and_waiting", - "text": "Opening my arms and waiting" + "id": "offering_my_hand_and_waiting", + "text": "Offering my hand and waiting" }, { - "id": "offering_my_hand_without_assuming", - "text": "Offering my hand without assuming" + "id": "using_a_signal_we_already_chose", + "text": "Using a signal we already chose" } ] } @@ -2768,7 +2774,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_166", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which nonsexual kiss feels sweetest to you?", + "text": "Which gentle kiss feels most affectionate during a calm moment?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -2778,8 +2784,8 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_forehead_kiss_before_leaving", - "text": "A forehead kiss before leaving" + "id": "a_forehead_kiss_while_resting", + "text": "A forehead kiss while resting" }, { "id": "a_cheek_kiss_in_passing", @@ -2790,8 +2796,8 @@ "text": "A hand kiss during a joke" }, { - "id": "a_temple_kiss_while_resting", - "text": "A temple kiss while resting" + "id": "a_temple_kiss_before_parting", + "text": "A temple kiss before parting" } ] } @@ -2800,30 +2806,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_167", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "During a slow dance, where would you feel most comfortable?", + "text": "During a standing embrace, where do your hands feel most comfortable?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "dance", + "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hands_lightly_at_the_waist", - "text": "Hands lightly at the waist" + "id": "resting_on_my_upper_back", + "text": "Resting on my upper back" }, { - "id": "one_hand_held_between_us", - "text": "One hand held between us" + "id": "settling_on_my_shoulders", + "text": "Settling on my shoulders" }, { - "id": "arms_around_each_others_shoulders", - "text": "Arms around each other’s shoulders" + "id": "holding_one_of_my_hands", + "text": "Holding one of my hands" }, { - "id": "a_little_space_with_gentle_contact", - "text": "A little space with gentle contact" + "id": "keeping_my_hands_relaxed_at_my_sides", + "text": "Keeping my hands relaxed at my sides" } ] } @@ -2832,7 +2838,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_168", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which movie-night cuddle setup would actually last?", + "text": "Which setup best keeps a cuddle comfortable for more than a few minutes?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -2842,20 +2848,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "one_pillow_shared_between_us", - "text": "One pillow shared between us" + "id": "separate_supportive_pillows", + "text": "Separate supportive pillows" }, { - "id": "separate_pillows_under_one_blanket", - "text": "Separate pillows under one blanket" + "id": "one_adjustable_blanket", + "text": "One adjustable blanket" }, { - "id": "your_legs_resting_across_mine", - "text": "Your legs resting across mine" + "id": "legs_supported_instead_of_tangled", + "text": "Legs supported instead of tangled" }, { - "id": "side_by_side_with_occasional_touch", - "text": "Side by side with occasional touch" + "id": "side_by_side_with_room_to_shift", + "text": "Side by side with room to shift" } ] } @@ -2864,30 +2870,30 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_169", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "On a trip, which closeness would feel grounding?", + "text": "On uneven ground, which offered support would feel useful without taking over?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "travel", + "accessibility", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "holding_hands_in_a_new_place", - "text": "Holding hands in a new place" + "id": "an_open_forearm_to_hold", + "text": "An open forearm to hold" }, { - "id": "a_hug_before_leaving_the_hotel", - "text": "A hug before leaving the hotel" + "id": "a_hand_offered_before_each_tricky_step", + "text": "A hand offered before each tricky step" }, { - "id": "sitting_hip_to_hip_in_transit", - "text": "Sitting hip to hip in transit" + "id": "walking_close_enough_to_help_if_asked", + "text": "Walking close enough to help if asked" }, { - "id": "a_private_signal_when_overwhelmed", - "text": "A private signal when overwhelmed" + "id": "no_contact_unless_i_request_it", + "text": "No contact unless I request it" } ] } @@ -2896,7 +2902,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_170", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "When it is too warm to cuddle, what should replace it?", + "text": "When steady touch feels too warm, which alternative sounds best?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -2906,20 +2912,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "feet_touching_at_the_edge_of_bed", - "text": "Feet touching at the edge of bed" + "id": "a_fingertip_tap_on_the_back_of_your_hand", + "text": "A fingertip tap on the back of your hand" }, { - "id": "a_cool_hand_held_briefly", - "text": "A cool hand held briefly" + "id": "feet_touching_for_a_moment", + "text": "Feet touching for a moment" }, { - "id": "sitting_close_with_separate_blankets", - "text": "Sitting close with separate blankets" + "id": "a_short_cheek_kiss", + "text": "A short cheek kiss" }, { - "id": "a_quick_kiss_and_extra_space", - "text": "A quick kiss and extra space" + "id": "a_shared_smile_from_a_little_distance", + "text": "A shared smile from a little distance" } ] } @@ -2928,7 +2934,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_171", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which cold-weather affection sounds best?", + "text": "Which cold-weather moment makes affection especially appealing?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -2938,20 +2944,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "warming_hands_inside_one_pair_of_pockets", - "text": "Warming hands inside one pair of pockets" + "id": "right_before_stepping_outside", + "text": "Right before stepping outside" }, { - "id": "sharing_a_blanket_on_the_porch", - "text": "Sharing a blanket on the porch" + "id": "just_after_coming_back_in", + "text": "Just after coming back in" }, { - "id": "a_long_hug_before_going_outside", - "text": "A long hug before going outside" + "id": "while_waiting_outdoors_together", + "text": "While waiting outdoors together" }, { - "id": "leaning_together_over_hot_drinks", - "text": "Leaning together over hot drinks" + "id": "while_sharing_a_warm_drink", + "text": "While sharing a warm drink" } ] } @@ -2960,7 +2966,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_172", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "While cooking, which affectionate moment would you enjoy?", + "text": "While doing something side by side, which gesture feels affectionate without getting in the way?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -2970,20 +2976,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_quick_side_hug_after_asking", - "text": "A quick side hug after asking" + "id": "a_brief_touch_at_the_elbow", + "text": "A brief touch at the elbow" }, { - "id": "a_cheek_kiss_between_steps", - "text": "A cheek kiss between steps" + "id": "a_brief_shoulder_lean_during_a_pause", + "text": "A brief shoulder lean during a pause" }, { - "id": "brief_hand_squeeze_while_passing_ingredients", - "text": "A brief hand squeeze while passing ingredients" + "id": "a_quick_palm_to_palm_tap", + "text": "A quick palm-to-palm tap" }, { - "id": "a_tiny_dance_during_the_timer", - "text": "A tiny dance during the timer" + "id": "a_tiny_sway_when_there_is_room", + "text": "A tiny sway when there is room" } ] } @@ -3024,7 +3030,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_174", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which first step helps you feel ready to consider closeness after conflict?", + "text": "After a disagreement is resolved, which approach to touch feels safest?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -3034,20 +3040,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_clear_verbal_check_in", - "text": "A clear verbal check-in" + "id": "ask_directly_before_moving_closer", + "text": "Ask directly before moving closer" }, { - "id": "quiet_time_for_both_of_us_to_settle", - "text": "Quiet time for both of us to settle" + "id": "sit_nearby_and_let_the_moment_settle", + "text": "Sit nearby and let the moment settle" }, { - "id": "a_sincere_repair_conversation_first", - "text": "A sincere repair conversation first" + "id": "offer_one_hand_without_assuming", + "text": "Offer one hand without assuming" }, { - "id": "an_invitation_i_can_freely_decline", - "text": "An invitation I can freely decline" + "id": "wait_for_the_other_person_to_initiate", + "text": "Wait for the other person to initiate" } ] } @@ -3120,7 +3126,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_177", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "How much surprise do you enjoy in everyday affection?", + "text": "When casual touch is welcome in the moment, how should playful surprise affection happen?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -3130,20 +3136,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "only_when_i_can_see_it_coming", - "text": "Only when I can see it coming" + "id": "something_i_can_see_coming", + "text": "Something I can see coming" }, { - "id": "small_surprises_in_relaxed_moments", - "text": "Small surprises in relaxed moments" + "id": "a_small_gesture_in_a_relaxed_moment", + "text": "A small gesture in a relaxed moment" }, { - "id": "playful_surprises_with_an_easy_out", - "text": "Playful surprises with an easy out" + "id": "a_playful_surprise_with_an_easy_out", + "text": "A playful surprise with an easy out" }, { - "id": "i_prefer_affection_to_be_announced", - "text": "I prefer affection to be announced" + "id": "a_clear_heads_up_before_any_touch", + "text": "A clear heads-up before any touch" } ] } @@ -3248,7 +3254,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_181", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which way of initiating a hug feels easiest to you?", + "text": "Which nonverbal hug invitation is easiest to understand?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -3258,16 +3264,16 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_direct_can_i_hug_you", - "text": "A direct “Can I hug you?”" + "id": "opening_both_arms_and_waiting", + "text": "Opening both arms and waiting" }, { - "id": "opening_your_arms_and_waiting", - "text": "Opening your arms and waiting" + "id": "holding_one_hand_out_first", + "text": "Holding one hand out first" }, { - "id": "sitting_beside_me_first", - "text": "Sitting beside me first" + "id": "moving_closer_then_pausing", + "text": "Moving closer, then pausing" }, { "id": "using_our_agreed_hug_signal", @@ -3312,7 +3318,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_183", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which small ritual would you most like to protect?", + "text": "Which tiny habit would be easiest to keep during a very busy month?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -3322,20 +3328,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_twenty_second_reunion_hug", - "text": "A twenty-second reunion hug" + "id": "a_real_hug_after_getting_home", + "text": "A real hug after getting home" }, { - "id": "a_kiss_before_one_of_us_leaves", - "text": "A kiss before one of us leaves" + "id": "a_quick_forehead_touch_before_leaving", + "text": "A quick forehead touch before leaving" }, { - "id": "hands_linked_during_one_evening_walk", - "text": "Hands linked during one evening walk" + "id": "hands_linked_on_one_short_walk", + "text": "Hands linked on one short walk" }, { - "id": "a_quiet_cuddle_before_weekend_plans", - "text": "A quiet cuddle before weekend plans" + "id": "a_quiet_cuddle_once_each_weekend", + "text": "A quiet cuddle once each weekend" } ] } @@ -3344,7 +3350,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_184", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which across-the-room signal best says “I need support”?", + "text": "Across a room, which gesture should mean “check in with me when you can”?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -3362,8 +3368,8 @@ "text": "A small two-finger wave" }, { - "id": "a_steady_look_and_quiet_nod", - "text": "A steady look and quiet nod" + "id": "a_steady_look_with_one_nod", + "text": "A steady look with one nod" }, { "id": "a_signal_we_choose_together", @@ -3376,7 +3382,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_185", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which hand-care gesture sounds most relaxing?", + "text": "Which hand-focused gesture feels most soothing?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -3386,20 +3392,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "slow_thumb_circles_in_your_palm", - "text": "Slow thumb circles in your palm" + "id": "slow_circles_across_your_palm", + "text": "Slow circles across your palm" }, { - "id": "each_finger_gently_stretched", - "text": "Each finger gently stretched" + "id": "a_gentle_stretch_through_each_finger", + "text": "A gentle stretch through each finger" }, { - "id": "warm_lotion_rubbed_into_your_hands", - "text": "Warm lotion rubbed into your hands" + "id": "warm_lotion_rubbed_in_slowly", + "text": "Warm lotion rubbed in slowly" }, { - "id": "hands_held_still_between_mine", - "text": "Hands held still between mine" + "id": "your_hands_resting_still_in_mine", + "text": "Your hands resting still in mine" } ] } @@ -3418,8 +3424,8 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_specific_compliment_with_a_hand_squeeze", - "text": "A specific compliment with a hand squeeze" + "id": "a_specific_compliment_with_a_warm_side_hug", + "text": "A specific compliment with a warm side hug" }, { "id": "an_inside_joke_with_a_cheek_kiss", @@ -3440,26 +3446,26 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_187", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Before a stressful appointment, which supportive gesture would feel best?", + "text": "Before a stressful appointment, which kind of support would feel best?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reconnection", + "support", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "quiet_hand_squeeze_in_the_car", - "text": "A quiet hand squeeze in the car" + "id": "a_calm_shoulder_to_shoulder_pause_in_the_car", + "text": "A calm shoulder-to-shoulder pause in the car" }, { - "id": "brief_hug_before_walking_in", + "id": "a_brief_hug_before_walking_in", "text": "A brief hug before walking in" }, { - "id": "shoulders_touching_while_we_wait", - "text": "Shoulders touching while we wait" + "id": "a_light_touch_to_my_upper_arm_before_we_enter", + "text": "A light touch to my upper arm before we enter" }, { "id": "nearby_company_without_touch", @@ -3472,7 +3478,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_188", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which playful mini-game would make touch feel fun?", + "text": "Which tiny coordination game sounds fun for two minutes?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -3482,20 +3488,20 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "mirror_each_others_silly_dance_moves", - "text": "Mirror each other’s silly dance moves" + "id": "mirror_one_slow_stretch", + "text": "Mirror one slow stretch" }, { - "id": "invent_three_secret_handshakes", - "text": "Invent three secret handshakes" + "id": "invent_a_two_step_handshake", + "text": "Invent a two-step handshake" }, { - "id": "guess_a_message_from_hand_squeezes", - "text": "Guess a message from hand squeezes" + "id": "copy_each_other_s_hand_motions", + "text": "Copy each other’s hand motions" }, { - "id": "race_to_create_the_coziest_seat", - "text": "Race to create the coziest seat" + "id": "match_one_simple_dance_move", + "text": "Match one simple dance move" } ] } @@ -3518,8 +3524,8 @@ "text": "Foreheads together and laughing" }, { - "id": "arms_linked_while_walking", - "text": "Arms linked while walking" + "id": "back_to_back_with_matching_grins", + "text": "Back to back with matching grins" }, { "id": "one_relaxed_hug_from_the_side", @@ -3536,7 +3542,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_190", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which physical moment feels most unmistakably like us?", + "text": "Which familiar physical moment feels comforting because we have done it so many times?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -3546,16 +3552,16 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "our_familiar_hello_embrace", - "text": "Our familiar hello embrace" + "id": "our_usual_hello_embrace", + "text": "Our usual hello embrace" }, { - "id": "the_way_we_share_couch_space", - "text": "The way we share couch space" + "id": "the_way_we_settle_beside_each_other", + "text": "The way we settle beside each other" }, { - "id": "our_private_hand_squeeze_signal", - "text": "Our private hand-squeeze signal" + "id": "the_way_our_knees_tap_under_a_table", + "text": "The way our knees tap under a table" }, { "id": "the_goodnight_gesture_we_repeat", @@ -3568,34 +3574,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_191", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which clear invitations help you know everyday affection is welcome? Select any that fit.", + "text": "Which practical details affect where you prefer me to sit or walk beside you? Select any.", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "signals", + "accessibility", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "you_say_come_closer", - "text": "You say “come closer”" + "id": "which_hand_you_like_to_keep_free", + "text": "Which hand you like to keep free" }, { - "id": "you_reach_for_my_hand", - "text": "You reach for my hand" + "id": "any_sore_side_or_sensitive_shoulder", + "text": "Any sore side or sensitive shoulder" }, { - "id": "you_verbally_invite_a_hug", - "text": "You verbally invite a hug" + "id": "which_side_makes_conversation_easier", + "text": "Which side makes conversation easier" }, { - "id": "you_make_room_and_pat_the_seat", - "text": "You make room and pat the seat" + "id": "bags_or_other_things_you_are_carrying", + "text": "Bags or other things you are carrying" }, { - "id": "you_use_our_agreed_signal", - "text": "You use our agreed signal" + "id": "how_much_space_the_setting_gives_us", + "text": "How much space the setting gives us" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3644,7 +3650,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_193", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which small touch rituals would improve an ordinary week? Pick any you would enjoy.", + "text": "Which tiny affection habits fit naturally into everyday transitions? Pick any you would enjoy.", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -3654,24 +3660,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_hug_when_we_get_home", - "text": "A hug when we get home" + "id": "a_hug_after_walking_through_the_door", + "text": "A hug after walking through the door" }, { - "id": "a_hand_squeeze_before_leaving", - "text": "A hand squeeze before leaving" + "id": "a_quick_cheek_to_cheek_goodbye", + "text": "A quick cheek-to-cheek goodbye" }, { - "id": "a_brief_couch_check_in", - "text": "A brief couch check-in" + "id": "a_brief_touch_after_finishing_a_meal", + "text": "A brief touch after finishing a meal" }, { - "id": "a_goodnight_forehead_kiss", - "text": "A goodnight forehead kiss" + "id": "linked_arms_at_the_start_of_a_walk", + "text": "Linked arms at the start of a walk" }, { - "id": "linked_arms_on_a_short_walk", - "text": "Linked arms on a short walk" + "id": "sitting_close_when_the_day_finally_slows", + "text": "Sitting close when the day finally slows" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3758,7 +3764,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_196", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which public affection feels comfortable when you are open to it? Pick any that apply.", + "text": "Which public-contact choices feel comfortable when you are open to them? Pick any, including none.", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -3784,8 +3790,8 @@ "text": "A brief greeting hug" }, { - "id": "no_public_touch_at_all", - "text": "No public touch at all" + "id": "keeping_touch_private_until_later", + "text": "Keeping touch private until later" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3814,8 +3820,8 @@ "text": "Offer an open hand and wait" }, { - "id": "make_space_beside_me", - "text": "Make space beside me" + "id": "make_space_and_ask_you_to_join_me", + "text": "Make space and ask you to join me" }, { "id": "name_a_specific_gentle_gesture", @@ -3852,16 +3858,16 @@ "text": "Use our pause word" }, { - "id": "ask_for_space_instead", - "text": "Ask for space instead" + "id": "ask_for_more_space", + "text": "Ask for more space" }, { - "id": "offer_a_different_kind_of_connection", - "text": "Offer a different kind of connection" + "id": "move_away_and_name_it_clearly", + "text": "Move away and name it clearly" }, { - "id": "suggest_checking_in_later", - "text": "Suggest checking in later" + "id": "suggest_another_connection_only_if_you_want", + "text": "Suggest another connection only if you want" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3898,8 +3904,8 @@ "text": "Switch to a neutral shared activity" }, { - "id": "let_them_choose_any_later_closeness", - "text": "Let them choose any later closeness" + "id": "let_the_person_who_stopped_choose_any_later_closeness", + "text": "Let the person who stopped choose any later closeness" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -3986,7 +3992,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_202", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "During travel, which gestures help an unfamiliar place feel easier? Select any.", + "text": "Which gestures help you feel connected while exploring somewhere new? Select any.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -3996,24 +4002,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "a_hand_offered_in_a_crowd", - "text": "A hand offered in a crowd" + "id": "my_hand_offered_in_a_crowd", + "text": "My hand offered in a crowd" }, { - "id": "a_reunion_hug_at_the_hotel", - "text": "A reunion hug at the hotel" + "id": "a_brief_hug_before_we_set_out", + "text": "A brief hug before we set out" }, { - "id": "shoulders_touching_in_transit", - "text": "Shoulders touching in transit" + "id": "shoulders_touching_while_we_pause", + "text": "Shoulders touching while we pause" }, { - "id": "our_private_check_in_signal", - "text": "Our private check-in signal" + "id": "our_private_check_in_gesture", + "text": "Our private check-in gesture" }, { - "id": "a_quiet_moment_side_by_side", - "text": "A quiet moment side by side" + "id": "sitting_close_during_a_quiet_moment_at_day_s_end", + "text": "Sitting close during a quiet moment at day’s end" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4024,34 +4030,34 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_203", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps affection feel kind on a body-confidence day? Choose all that fit.", + "text": "After physical activity, what would help affection feel comfortable? Choose any.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "body_confidence", + "body_comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "touch_without_evaluating_appearance", - "text": "Touch without evaluating appearance" + "id": "a_quick_celebratory_high_five", + "text": "A quick celebratory high-five" }, { - "id": "specific_appreciation_unrelated_to_size", - "text": "Specific appreciation unrelated to size" + "id": "a_brief_side_hug_after_cooling_down", + "text": "A brief side hug after cooling down" }, { - "id": "letting_you_guide_the_distance", - "text": "Letting you guide the distance" + "id": "sitting_nearby_while_we_catch_our_breath", + "text": "Sitting nearby while we catch our breath" }, { - "id": "closeness_through_hands_or_shoulders", - "text": "Closeness through hands or shoulders" + "id": "sharing_a_drink_shoulder_to_shoulder", + "text": "Sharing a drink shoulder to shoulder" }, { - "id": "no_surprise_contact", - "text": "No surprise contact" + "id": "waiting_until_after_a_shower", + "text": "Waiting until after a shower" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4062,7 +4068,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_204", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "After a week of opposite schedules, which gestures could make us feel physically in sync again?", + "text": "After several days with little time together, which first moments help physical closeness feel natural again?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4072,24 +4078,24 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "share_a_slow_coffee_side_by_side", - "text": "Share a slow coffee side by side" + "id": "share_a_slow_drink_side_by_side", + "text": "Share a slow drink side by side" }, { "id": "take_a_short_hand_holding_walk", "text": "Take a short hand-holding walk" }, { - "id": "choose_a_familiar_couch_position", - "text": "Choose a familiar couch position" + "id": "return_to_a_familiar_sitting_spot", + "text": "Return to a familiar sitting spot" }, { - "id": "exchange_a_long_unhurried_hug", - "text": "Exchange a long, unhurried hug" + "id": "exchange_one_unhurried_hug", + "text": "Exchange one unhurried hug" }, { - "id": "plan_a_phone_free_closeness_break", - "text": "Plan a phone-free closeness break" + "id": "choose_a_brief_phone_free_closeness_break", + "text": "Choose a brief phone-free closeness break" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4290,7 +4296,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_210", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "Which couple rituals would you genuinely enjoy trying? Pick any.", + "text": "Which affectionate rituals would you genuinely want to repeat? Pick any.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4308,8 +4314,8 @@ "text": "A weekly slow song together" }, { - "id": "a_goodbye_hand_squeeze_code", - "text": "A goodbye hand-squeeze code" + "id": "a_doorway_forehead_touch_ritual", + "text": "A doorway forehead-touch ritual" }, { "id": "a_sunday_morning_couch_cuddle", @@ -4328,7 +4334,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_211", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How natural does everyday affection feel between us lately?", + "text": "How effortless does everyday affection feel between us lately?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -4338,8 +4344,8 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very natural", - "max_label": "Very natural" + "min_label": "Feels effortful", + "max_label": "Feels effortless" } }, { @@ -4364,7 +4370,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_213", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How comfortable are you with our usual level of public affection?", + "text": "How easy is it to adjust public affection to the setting we are in?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -4374,15 +4380,15 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not comfortable", - "max_label": "Very comfortable" + "min_label": "Not easy yet", + "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_214", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do you feel I understand your everyday touch preferences?", + "text": "How well do I understand your everyday touch preferences?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -4418,7 +4424,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_216", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How playful does our nonsexual affection feel these days?", + "text": "How often does affection between us include a moment of genuine fun?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -4428,8 +4434,8 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not playful", - "max_label": "Very playful" + "min_label": "Rarely", + "max_label": "Very often" } }, { @@ -4446,7 +4452,7 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "A little warmth", + "min_label": "Very little warmth", "max_label": "A lot of warmth" } }, @@ -4454,7 +4460,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_218", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How free from pressure does physical closeness feel between us?", + "text": "How pressure-free does physical closeness feel between us?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4464,7 +4470,7 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Some pressure remains", + "min_label": "Not fully pressure-free", "max_label": "Completely pressure-free" } }, @@ -4508,7 +4514,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_221", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do our couch or bedtime routines fit your physical comfort?", + "text": "How well do our usual cuddle positions fit your physical comfort?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4562,7 +4568,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_224", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How often does our affection feel noticed rather than automatic?", + "text": "How often does our affection feel intentional instead of automatic?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4572,8 +4578,8 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Rarely noticed", - "max_label": "Almost always noticed" + "min_label": "Rarely intentional", + "max_label": "Almost always intentional" } }, { @@ -4626,7 +4632,7 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "A little connected", + "min_label": "Not very connected", "max_label": "Deeply connected" } }, @@ -4652,7 +4658,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_229", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do our greeting and goodbye gestures fit what you enjoy?", + "text": "How well do our usual reunion gestures fit what you enjoy?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4680,8 +4686,8 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Usually tense", - "max_label": "Usually relaxed" + "min_label": "Not relaxed", + "max_label": "Very relaxed" } }, { @@ -4724,7 +4730,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_233", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How easily do we reconnect physically after a busy or distant stretch?", + "text": "How easy is it to return to affection after one of us has needed extra space?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4734,8 +4740,8 @@ "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not very easily", - "max_label": "Very easily" + "min_label": "Not very easy", + "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { @@ -4760,7 +4766,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_235", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", - "text": "How confident are you that we can adapt affection as our bodies and routines change?", + "text": "How confident are you that we can adapt affection as our bodies change?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4778,7 +4784,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_236", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Shoulder-to-shoulder cuddle or face-to-face cuddle?", + "text": "Read with our shoulders touching or listen to music with our feet touching?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ @@ -4788,12 +4794,12 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "shoulder_to_shoulder", - "text": "Shoulder to shoulder" + "id": "shoulders_touching_while_we_read", + "text": "Shoulders touching while we read" }, { - "id": "face_to_face", - "text": "Face to face" + "id": "feet_touching_while_music_plays", + "text": "Feet touching while music plays" } ] } @@ -4802,22 +4808,22 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_237", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Forehead kiss or hand kiss?", + "text": "A playful nose bump or a quiet forehead touch?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "kissing", + "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "forehead_kiss", - "text": "Forehead kiss" + "id": "a_playful_nose_bump", + "text": "A playful nose bump" }, { - "id": "hand_kiss", - "text": "Hand kiss" + "id": "a_quiet_forehead_touch", + "text": "A quiet forehead touch" } ] } @@ -4826,22 +4832,22 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_238", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "One long hug or several quick hugs?", + "text": "Warm hands or cool hands?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hugs", + "sensory_preferences", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "one_long_hug", - "text": "One long hug" + "id": "warm_hands", + "text": "Warm hands" }, { - "id": "several_quick_hugs", - "text": "Several quick hugs" + "id": "cool_hands", + "text": "Cool hands" } ] } @@ -4850,22 +4856,22 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_239", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Hold hands while walking or link arms?", + "text": "An open hand offered or open arms waiting?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hand_holding", + "invitations", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "hold_hands", - "text": "Hold hands" + "id": "an_open_hand_offered", + "text": "An open hand offered" }, { - "id": "link_arms", - "text": "Link arms" + "id": "open_arms_waiting", + "text": "Open arms waiting" } ] } @@ -4874,22 +4880,22 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_240", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Morning squeeze or goodnight kiss?", + "text": "A morning cheek-to-cheek hello or an evening shoulder-to-shoulder pause?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "rituals", + "greetings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "morning_squeeze", - "text": "Morning squeeze" + "id": "a_morning_cheek_to_cheek_hello", + "text": "A morning cheek-to-cheek hello" }, { - "id": "goodnight_kiss", - "text": "Goodnight kiss" + "id": "an_evening_shoulder_to_shoulder_pause", + "text": "An evening shoulder-to-shoulder pause" } ] } @@ -4898,7 +4904,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_241", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Couch cuddle or porch-swing closeness?", + "text": "Indoor cozy closeness or fresh-air closeness?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4908,12 +4914,12 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "couch_cuddle", - "text": "Couch cuddle" + "id": "indoor_cozy_closeness", + "text": "Indoor cozy closeness" }, { - "id": "porch_swing_closeness", - "text": "Porch-swing closeness" + "id": "fresh_air_closeness", + "text": "Fresh-air closeness" } ] } @@ -4922,7 +4928,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_242", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Slow dance or playful kitchen sway?", + "text": "Slow swaying or a still embrace?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4932,12 +4938,12 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "slow_dance", - "text": "Slow dance" + "id": "slow_swaying", + "text": "Slow swaying" }, { - "id": "kitchen_sway", - "text": "Kitchen sway" + "id": "a_still_embrace", + "text": "A still embrace" } ] } @@ -4946,7 +4952,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_243", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "When affection is welcome, arm around your shoulders or hand resting at your waist?", + "text": "Arm around your shoulders or hand resting on your upper back?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4956,12 +4962,12 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "arm_around_shoulders", - "text": "Arm around shoulders" + "id": "arm_around_my_shoulders", + "text": "An arm around my shoulders" }, { - "id": "hand_at_waist", - "text": "Hand at waist" + "id": "hand_on_my_upper_back", + "text": "A hand on my upper back" } ] } @@ -4970,7 +4976,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_244", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Playful shoulder nudge or secret hand squeeze?", + "text": "Secret high-five or private fingertip tap?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -4980,12 +4986,12 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "shoulder_nudge", - "text": "Shoulder nudge" + "id": "a_secret_high_five", + "text": "A secret high-five" }, { - "id": "secret_hand_squeeze", - "text": "Secret hand squeeze" + "id": "a_private_fingertip_tap", + "text": "A private fingertip tap" } ] } @@ -4994,7 +5000,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_245", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Quiet closeness or laughing closeness?", + "text": "Talk during closeness or enjoy the quiet?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -5004,12 +5010,12 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" + "id": "talk_while_we_are_close", + "text": "Talk while we are close" }, { - "id": "laughing_closeness", - "text": "Laughing closeness" + "id": "enjoy_the_quiet_together", + "text": "Enjoy the quiet together" } ] } @@ -5018,7 +5024,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_246", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "One shared blanket or separate blankets with feet touching?", + "text": "Upright cuddle or reclined cuddle?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -5028,12 +5034,12 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "share_one_blanket", - "text": "Share one blanket" + "id": "an_upright_cuddle", + "text": "An upright cuddle" }, { - "id": "separate_blankets_feet_touching", - "text": "Separate blankets, feet touching" + "id": "a_reclined_cuddle", + "text": "A reclined cuddle" } ] } @@ -5042,7 +5048,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_247", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Greeting hug or goodbye kiss?", + "text": "Doorway hug or blown kiss from across the room?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -5052,12 +5058,12 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "greeting_hug", - "text": "Greeting hug" + "id": "a_doorway_hug", + "text": "A doorway hug" }, { - "id": "goodbye_kiss", - "text": "Goodbye kiss" + "id": "a_blown_kiss_across_the_room", + "text": "A blown kiss across the room" } ] } @@ -5066,7 +5072,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_248", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Sit side by side or sit across with feet touching?", + "text": "Knees touching or leaning back to back?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -5076,12 +5082,12 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "side_by_side", - "text": "Side by side" + "id": "knees_touching_lightly", + "text": "Knees touching lightly" }, { - "id": "across_with_feet_touching", - "text": "Across with feet touching" + "id": "leaning_back_to_back", + "text": "Leaning back to back" } ] } @@ -5090,22 +5096,22 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_249", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Daily tiny touch or weekly longer cuddle?", + "text": "One unhurried affectionate moment or several quick ones?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rituals", + "timing", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "daily_tiny_touch", - "text": "Daily tiny touch" + "id": "one_unhurried_moment", + "text": "One unhurried moment" }, { - "id": "weekly_longer_cuddle", - "text": "Weekly longer cuddle" + "id": "several_quick_moments", + "text": "Several quick moments" } ] } @@ -5114,7 +5120,7 @@ "id": "physical_intimacy_250", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Bring back an old affectionate habit or invent a new signal?", + "text": "Revive an old affection ritual or create a completely new one?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ @@ -5124,15 +5130,15 @@ "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "bring_back_an_old_habit", - "text": "Bring back an old habit" + "id": "revive_an_old_ritual", + "text": "Revive an old ritual" }, { - "id": "invent_a_new_signal", - "text": "Invent a new signal" + "id": "create_a_completely_new_one", + "text": "Create a completely new one" } ] } } ] -} +} \ No newline at end of file