diff --git a/seed/questions/gratitude.json b/seed/questions/gratitude.json index e9a700bb..ca65aca5 100644 --- a/seed/questions/gratitude.json +++ b/seed/questions/gratitude.json @@ -2,221 +2,922 @@ "category": { "id": "gratitude", "display_name": "Gratitude", - "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples notice effort, say thank you, celebrate tiny wins, give playful praise, hand out fake awards, and appreciate ordinary love without feeling like homework.", + "description": "Warm, specific questions that help couples notice ordinary care, recognize effort, receive praise, appreciate shared history, celebrate growth, and avoid taking each other for granted.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "celebration", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - } + "multi_choice": 90, + "single_choice": 30, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 32, + "2": 73, + "3": 45 + }, + "source_question_count": 250, + "source_free_questions": 75, + "source_premium_questions": 175, + "source_written_questions": 150, + "new_question_count": 150, + "net_catalog_change": -100, + "content_version": "gratitude_v3_final_reviewed", + "guide_basis": "QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE, QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST v9, and QUESTION_SCHEMA reviewed July 14, 2026.", + "pack_purpose": "Help couples notice and express specific appreciation without turning gratitude into homework, praise into pressure, or care into a scoreboard.", + "pack_boundary": "Gratitude owns noticing effort, admiration, receiving praise, shared wins, appreciation memories, and practices that prevent taking each other for granted. Emotional Intimacy owns feeling known and emotionally supported; Home Life owns household operations; Marriage owns spouse identity and commitment; Quality Time owns intentional time together; Daily Fun owns rapid playful prompts.", + "safety_boundary": "No question frames gratitude as a debt, excuses unfair treatment, rewards self-neglect, pressures public disclosure, requires physical affection, or treats appreciation as proof that a problem should be ignored.", + "mass_rewrite_reason": "The legacy pack contained 250 questions, including 150 written prompts, repeated “What is one thing” templates, unsupported depth values above 3, and outdated choice structures. More than 60 percent shared structural and repetition failures, making targeted patching less coherent than a controlled rebuild.", + "review_workflow": "Six controlled 25-question batches with 50-question checkpoints, a 100-question guide refresh, read-aloud review, option-answer testing, repetition checks, safety review, and final full-pack validation.", + "coverage_sections": [ + "ordinary_care_and_daily_comfort", + "effort_and_invisible_work", + "character_and_admiration", + "praise_and_receiving", + "shared_history_and_memories", + "grounded_humor_and_quirks", + "hard_seasons_and_resilience", + "growth_and_change", + "public_private_and_community_appreciation", + "gratitude_practices_and_long_term_protection" + ], + "final_validation": "pass", + "final_review": "Final read-aloud, point-of-view, option-parallelism, non-transactional gratitude, privacy, safety, repetition, related-pack, and importer-schema review completed." } }, "questions": [ { "id": "gratitude_001", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one tiny thing I did recently that you appreciated?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which ordinary things I do make your day noticeably better?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "tiny_thanks", - "recent", + "ordinary_care", + "daily_life", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_001_remembering_the_small_details", + "text": "Remembering the small details" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_001_making_room_for_your_preferences", + "text": "Making room for your preferences" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_001_checking_what_would_help", + "text": "Checking what would help" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_001_adding_humor_at_the_right_moment", + "text": "Adding humor at the right moment" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_001_remembering_the_small_details", + "text": "Remembering the small details" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_001_making_room_for_your_preferences", + "text": "Making room for your preferences" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_001_checking_what_would_help", + "text": "Checking what would help" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_001_adding_humor_at_the_right_moment", + "text": "Adding humor at the right moment" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_002", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one ordinary thing about me you are grateful for?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What everyday part of me are you most grateful to come home to?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "ordinary_love", + "ordinary_care", + "daily_life", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_002_my_familiar_voice", + "text": "My familiar voice" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_002_my_sense_of_humor", + "text": "My sense of humor" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_002_my_steady_presence", + "text": "My steady presence" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_002_my_curiosity_about_your_day", + "text": "My curiosity about your day" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_002_my_familiar_voice", + "text": "My familiar voice" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_002_my_sense_of_humor", + "text": "My sense of humor" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_002_my_steady_presence", + "text": "My steady presence" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_002_my_curiosity_about_your_day", + "text": "My curiosity about your day" + } + ] } }, { "id": "gratitude_003", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I do that makes life feel easier?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kinds of small care do you notice even when you do not mention them?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "support", + "ordinary_care", "daily_life", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_003_a_task_handled_before_it_becomes_urgent", + "text": "A task handled before it becomes urgent" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_003_a_thoughtful_message_during_the_day", + "text": "A thoughtful message during the day" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_003_something_saved_because_you_might_want_it", + "text": "Something saved because you might want it" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_003_a_plan_adjusted_with_you_in_mind", + "text": "A plan adjusted with you in mind" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_003_a_task_handled_before_it_becomes_urgent", + "text": "A task handled before it becomes urgent" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_003_a_thoughtful_message_during_the_day", + "text": "A thoughtful message during the day" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_003_something_saved_because_you_might_want_it", + "text": "Something saved because you might want it" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_003_a_plan_adjusted_with_you_in_mind", + "text": "A plan adjusted with you in mind" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_004", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I do that makes life feel sweeter?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How noticed do you feel in the ordinary parts of our life?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sweetness", + "ordinary_care", "daily_life", "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very noticed yet", + "max_label": "Deeply noticed" } }, { "id": "gratitude_005", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I do that deserves a little dramatic applause?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which quiet comforts from me matter more than they might seem?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "play", + "ordinary_care", + "daily_life", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_005_sitting_nearby_without_demanding_conversation", + "text": "Sitting nearby without demanding conversation" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_005_knowing_your_usual_order", + "text": "Knowing your usual order" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_005_making_space_when_you_are_tired", + "text": "Making space when you are tired" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_005_bringing_you_into_a_decision", + "text": "Bringing you into a decision" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_005_sitting_nearby_without_demanding_conversation", + "text": "Sitting nearby without demanding conversation" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_005_knowing_your_usual_order", + "text": "Knowing your usual order" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_005_making_space_when_you_are_tired", + "text": "Making space when you are tired" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_005_bringing_you_into_a_decision", + "text": "Bringing you into a decision" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_006", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about me you would brag about?", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "A thoughtful check-in or a practical favor?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "brag", - "fun_first", + "ordinary_care", + "daily_life", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_006_a_thoughtful_check_in", + "text": "A thoughtful check-in" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_006_a_practical_favor", + "text": "A practical favor" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_006_a_thoughtful_check_in", + "text": "A thoughtful check-in" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_006_a_practical_favor", + "text": "A practical favor" + } + ] } }, { "id": "gratitude_007", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small way I make you feel chosen?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes my presence feel comforting on a completely normal day?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "chosen", - "appreciation", + "ordinary_care", + "daily_life", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_007_i_let_silence_be_easy", + "text": "I let silence be easy" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_007_i_pay_attention_to_your_mood", + "text": "I pay attention to your mood" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_007_i_make_routine_moments_warmer", + "text": "I make routine moments warmer" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_007_i_help_the_day_feel_less_rushed", + "text": "I help the day feel less rushed" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_007_i_let_silence_be_easy", + "text": "I let silence be easy" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_007_i_pay_attention_to_your_mood", + "text": "I pay attention to your mood" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_007_i_make_routine_moments_warmer", + "text": "I make routine moments warmer" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_007_i_help_the_day_feel_less_rushed", + "text": "I help the day feel less rushed" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_008", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small way I make you feel safe?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which tiny habit of mine would you miss first if it disappeared?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "safety", - "appreciation", + "ordinary_care", + "daily_life", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_008_the_way_i_greet_you", + "text": "The way I greet you" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_008_the_way_i_make_you_laugh", + "text": "The way I make you laugh" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_008_the_way_i_remember_your_preferences", + "text": "The way I remember your preferences" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_008_the_way_i_check_that_you_are_okay", + "text": "The way I check that you are okay" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_008_the_way_i_greet_you", + "text": "The way I greet you" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_008_the_way_i_make_you_laugh", + "text": "The way I make you laugh" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_008_the_way_i_remember_your_preferences", + "text": "The way I remember your preferences" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_008_the_way_i_check_that_you_are_okay", + "text": "The way I check that you are okay" + } + ] } }, { "id": "gratitude_009", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small way I make you feel loved?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What do I do that helps ordinary life feel less lonely?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "love", - "appreciation", + "ordinary_care", + "daily_life", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_009_sharing_the_uninteresting_parts_of_the_day", + "text": "Sharing the uninteresting parts of the day" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_009_noticing_when_your_energy_changes", + "text": "Noticing when your energy changes" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_009_including_you_in_small_choices", + "text": "Including you in small choices" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_009_staying_connected_during_busy_stretches", + "text": "Staying connected during busy stretches" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_009_sharing_the_uninteresting_parts_of_the_day", + "text": "Sharing the uninteresting parts of the day" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_009_noticing_when_your_energy_changes", + "text": "Noticing when your energy changes" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_009_including_you_in_small_choices", + "text": "Including you in small choices" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_009_staying_connected_during_busy_stretches", + "text": "Staying connected during busy stretches" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_010", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one habit of mine you secretly appreciate?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it for you to notice the good in our everyday routine?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "habits", - "fun_first", + "ordinary_care", + "daily_life", "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Easy to overlook", + "max_label": "Very easy to notice" } }, { "id": "gratitude_011", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one weird little thing about me that you are grateful for?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which parts of our usual rhythm deserve more appreciation?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "quirks", - "fun_first", + "ordinary_care", + "daily_life", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_011_the_first_few_minutes_together", + "text": "The first few minutes together" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_011_the_way_we_divide_small_decisions", + "text": "The way we divide small decisions" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_011_our_familiar_evening_habits", + "text": "Our familiar evening habits" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_011_the_jokes_that_keep_returning", + "text": "The jokes that keep returning" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_011_the_first_few_minutes_together", + "text": "The first few minutes together" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_011_the_way_we_divide_small_decisions", + "text": "The way we divide small decisions" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_011_our_familiar_evening_habits", + "text": "Our familiar evening habits" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_011_the_jokes_that_keep_returning", + "text": "The jokes that keep returning" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_012", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I handle that you do not say thank you for enough?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs tell you I am thinking about you during the day?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "labor", - "recognition", + "ordinary_care", + "daily_life", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_012_i_remember_something_you_mentioned", + "text": "I remember something you mentioned" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_012_i_save_a_story_to_tell_you", + "text": "I save a story to tell you" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_012_i_ask_before_making_a_shared_plan", + "text": "I ask before making a shared plan" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_012_i_bring_home_something_useful", + "text": "I bring home something useful" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_012_i_remember_something_you_mentioned", + "text": "I remember something you mentioned" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_012_i_save_a_story_to_tell_you", + "text": "I save a story to tell you" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_012_i_ask_before_making_a_shared_plan", + "text": "I ask before making a shared plan" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_012_i_bring_home_something_useful", + "text": "I bring home something useful" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_013", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one effort of mine you want to notice out loud?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a routine moment feel unexpectedly sweet between us?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "ordinary_care", + "daily_life", + "gratitude" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_013_one_of_us_pauses_to_really_listen", + "text": "One of us pauses to really listen" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_013_we_share_a_private_joke", + "text": "We share a private joke" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_013_a_boring_task_turns_into_conversation", + "text": "A boring task turns into conversation" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_013_someone_offers_the_better_seat", + "text": "Someone offers the better seat" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_013_one_of_us_pauses_to_really_listen", + "text": "One of us pauses to really listen" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_013_we_share_a_private_joke", + "text": "We share a private joke" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_013_a_boring_task_turns_into_conversation", + "text": "A boring task turns into conversation" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_013_someone_offers_the_better_seat", + "text": "Someone offers the better seat" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_014", + "category_id": "gratitude", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of thank-you lands best after an ordinary favor?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "ordinary_care", + "daily_life", + "gratitude" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_014_a_specific_sentence", + "text": "A specific sentence" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_014_a_quick_affectionate_look", + "text": "A quick affectionate look" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_014_the_favor_being_remembered_later", + "text": "The favor being remembered later" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_014_a_small_return_gesture", + "text": "A small return gesture" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_014_a_specific_sentence", + "text": "A specific sentence" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_014_a_quick_affectionate_look", + "text": "A quick affectionate look" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_014_the_favor_being_remembered_later", + "text": "The favor being remembered later" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_014_a_small_return_gesture", + "text": "A small return gesture" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_015", + "category_id": "gratitude", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which everyday strengths of ours are easiest to take for granted?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "ordinary_care", + "daily_life", + "gratitude" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_015_we_can_be_quiet_without_it_feeling_cold", + "text": "We can be quiet without it feeling cold" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_015_we_recover_from_busy_days_together", + "text": "We recover from busy days together" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_015_we_know_each_other_s_practical_needs", + "text": "We know each other’s practical needs" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_015_we_still_find_reasons_to_laugh", + "text": "We still find reasons to laugh" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_015_we_can_be_quiet_without_it_feeling_cold", + "text": "We can be quiet without it feeling cold" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_015_we_recover_from_busy_days_together", + "text": "We recover from busy days together" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_015_we_know_each_other_s_practical_needs", + "text": "We know each other’s practical needs" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_015_we_still_find_reasons_to_laugh", + "text": "We still find reasons to laugh" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_016", + "category_id": "gratitude", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which efforts of mine deserve clearer recognition?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "effort", + "recognition", + "gratitude" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_016_keeping_track_of_details_that_affect_us", + "text": "Keeping track of details that affect us" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_016_following_through_when_no_one_is_watching", + "text": "Following through when no one is watching" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_016_adjusting_when_plans_change", + "text": "Adjusting when plans change" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_016_making_hard_tasks_feel_manageable", + "text": "Making hard tasks feel manageable" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_016_keeping_track_of_details_that_affect_us", + "text": "Keeping track of details that affect us" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_016_following_through_when_no_one_is_watching", + "text": "Following through when no one is watching" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_016_adjusting_when_plans_change", + "text": "Adjusting when plans change" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_016_making_hard_tasks_feel_manageable", + "text": "Making hard tasks feel manageable" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_017", + "category_id": "gratitude", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When should appreciation be said instead of merely assumed?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "effort", + "recognition", + "gratitude" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_017_after_extra_effort", + "text": "After extra effort" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_017_when_a_sacrifice_was_involved", + "text": "When a sacrifice was involved" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_017_when_the_work_is_usually_invisible", + "text": "When the work is usually invisible" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_017_before_the_moment_passes", + "text": "Before the moment passes" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_017_after_extra_effort", + "text": "After extra effort" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_017_when_a_sacrifice_was_involved", + "text": "When a sacrifice was involved" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_017_when_the_work_is_usually_invisible", + "text": "When the work is usually invisible" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_017_before_the_moment_passes", + "text": "Before the moment passes" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_018", + "category_id": "gratitude", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kinds of effort are easiest for couples to overlook?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "effort", + "recognition", + "gratitude" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_018_planning_ahead", + "text": "Planning ahead" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_018_managing_emotional_tone", + "text": "Managing emotional tone" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_018_remembering_shared_obligations", + "text": "Remembering shared obligations" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_018_making_repeated_small_adjustments", + "text": "Making repeated small adjustments" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_018_planning_ahead", + "text": "Planning ahead" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_018_managing_emotional_tone", + "text": "Managing emotional tone" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_018_remembering_shared_obligations", + "text": "Remembering shared obligations" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_018_making_repeated_small_adjustments", + "text": "Making repeated small adjustments" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_019", + "category_id": "gratitude", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well do we notice effort before either person feels unappreciated?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "effort", @@ -224,198 +925,267 @@ "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_014", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I showed up for you recently?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "showing_up", - "recent", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_015", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one moment when you felt thankful we are us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "us", - "connection", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_016", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What part of our life together deserves a little golden star?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "life_together", - "meaning", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_017", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one simple comfort I bring to your day?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "comfort", - "daily_life", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_018", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I say that sticks with you in a good way?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "words", - "appreciation", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_019", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing I do that makes home feel more like home?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "home", - "comfort", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Usually too late", + "max_label": "Usually in time" } }, { "id": "gratitude_020", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about how I love you?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which forms of follow-through make you feel especially grateful?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "love", - "style", + "effort", + "recognition", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_020_doing_what_was_promised_without_reminders", + "text": "Doing what was promised without reminders" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_020_returning_to_something_that_was_postponed", + "text": "Returning to something that was postponed" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_020_keeping_you_updated_when_circumstances_change", + "text": "Keeping you updated when circumstances change" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_020_finishing_the_unglamorous_last_step", + "text": "Finishing the unglamorous last step" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_020_doing_what_was_promised_without_reminders", + "text": "Doing what was promised without reminders" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_020_returning_to_something_that_was_postponed", + "text": "Returning to something that was postponed" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_020_keeping_you_updated_when_circumstances_change", + "text": "Keeping you updated when circumstances change" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_020_finishing_the_unglamorous_last_step", + "text": "Finishing the unglamorous last step" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_021", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about how I care for people?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Thank effort right away or mention it again later?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "care", - "character", + "effort", + "recognition", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_021_thank_it_right_away", + "text": "Thank it right away" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_021_mention_it_again_later", + "text": "Mention it again later" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_021_thank_it_right_away", + "text": "Thank it right away" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_021_mention_it_again_later", + "text": "Mention it again later" + } + ] } }, { "id": "gratitude_022", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about how I handle stress?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps appreciation feel fair when our contributions look different?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress", - "character", + "effort", + "recognition", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_022_naming_results_and_unseen_effort", + "text": "Naming results and unseen effort" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_022_considering_each_person_s_current_capacity", + "text": "Considering each person’s current capacity" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_022_not_comparing_unlike_responsibilities", + "text": "Not comparing unlike responsibilities" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_022_asking_before_deciding_what_mattered_most", + "text": "Asking before deciding what mattered most" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_022_naming_results_and_unseen_effort", + "text": "Naming results and unseen effort" + }, + { + "id": 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"gratitude_023_taking_one_burden_off_your_plate", + "text": "Taking one burden off your plate" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_023_keeping_kindness_in_the_room", + "text": "Keeping kindness in the room" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_023_staying_dependable", + "text": "Staying dependable" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_023_protecting_a_little_time_together", + "text": "Protecting a little time together" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_023_taking_one_burden_off_your_plate", + "text": "Taking one burden off your plate" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_023_keeping_kindness_in_the_room", + "text": "Keeping kindness in the room" + } + ] } }, { "id": "gratitude_024", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about how I laugh?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Where does my effort show up most clearly to you?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "laughter", - "fun_first", + "effort", + "recognition", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_024_the_way_i_prepare_for_what_is_coming", + "text": "The way I prepare for what is coming" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_024_the_patience_i_bring_to_complications", + "text": "The patience I bring to complications" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_024_the_details_i_remember", + "text": "The details I remember" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_024_the_things_i_handle_consistently", + "text": "The things I handle consistently" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_024_the_way_i_prepare_for_what_is_coming", + "text": "The way I prepare for what is coming" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_024_the_patience_i_bring_to_complications", + "text": "The patience I bring to complications" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_024_the_details_i_remember", + "text": "The details I remember" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_024_the_things_i_handle_consistently", + "text": "The things I handle 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+ "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should we appreciate when one person has less capacity than usual?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "memories", - "shared_history", + "effort", + "recognition", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_027_honest_communication_about_limits", + "text": "Honest communication about limits" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_027_the_effort_to_stay_involved", + "text": "The effort to stay involved" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_027_flexible_problem_solving", + "text": "Flexible problem-solving" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_027_respect_for_what_cannot_be_done", + "text": "Respect for what cannot be done" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_027_honest_communication_about_limits", + "text": "Honest communication about limits" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_027_the_effort_to_stay_involved", + "text": "The effort to stay involved" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_027_flexible_problem_solving", + "text": "Flexible problem-solving" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_027_respect_for_what_cannot_be_done", + "text": "Respect for what cannot be done" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_028", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one tiny win we should celebrate?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which behind-the-scenes contributions strengthen our relationship most?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "celebration", - "tiny_wins", + "effort", + "recognition", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_028_thinking_ahead_about_shared_needs", + "text": "Thinking ahead about shared needs" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_028_keeping_private_matters_private", + "text": "Keeping private matters private" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_028_creating_room_for_each_person_s_priorities", + "text": "Creating room for each person’s priorities" + }, + { + "id": 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+ "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "resilience", - "hard_times", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "effort", + "recognition", + "gratitude" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_029_remembering_it_later", + "text": "Remembering it later" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_029_changing_how_the_work_is_shared", + "text": "Changing how the work is shared" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_029_saying_exactly_what_helped", + "text": "Saying exactly what helped" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_029_offering_relief_before_being_asked", + "text": "Offering relief before being asked" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_029_remembering_it_later", + "text": "Remembering it later" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_029_changing_how_the_work_is_shared", + "text": "Changing how the work is shared" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_029_saying_exactly_what_helped", + "text": "Saying exactly what helped" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_029_offering_relief_before_being_asked", + "text": "Offering relief before being asked" + } + ] } }, { "id": "gratitude_030", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What have we built together that deserves a tiny victory dance?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can we show gratitude without turning care into a scoreboard?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "building", - "pride", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "effort", + "recognition", + "gratitude" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_030_appreciate_without_comparing_totals", + "text": "Appreciate without comparing totals" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_030_offer_help_without_demanding_repayment", + "text": "Offer help without demanding repayment" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_030_let_different_contributions_count", + "text": "Let different contributions count" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_030_talk_about_imbalance_separately_when_needed", + 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"admiration", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_031_the_way_i_stay_curious", + "text": "The way I stay curious" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_031_the_way_i_keep_trying", + "text": "The way I keep trying" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_031_the_way_i_care_about_fairness", + "text": "The way I care about fairness" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_031_the_way_i_find_humor_under_pressure", + "text": "The way I find humor under pressure" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_031_the_way_i_stay_curious", + "text": "The way I stay curious" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_031_the_way_i_keep_trying", + "text": "The way I keep trying" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_031_the_way_i_care_about_fairness", + "text": "The way I care about fairness" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_031_the_way_i_find_humor_under_pressure", + "text": "The way I find humor under pressure" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_032", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should future-us thank us for protecting now?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What quality of mine has become more valuable to you over time?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "protection", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "character", + "admiration", + "gratitude" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_032_my_steadiness", + "text": "My steadiness" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_032_my_honesty", + "text": "My honesty" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_032_my_adaptability", + "text": "My adaptability" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_032_my_generosity", + "text": "My generosity" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_032_my_steadiness", + "text": "My steadiness" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_032_my_honesty", + "text": "My honesty" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_032_my_adaptability", + "text": "My adaptability" + }, + { 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"Noticing who is being left out" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_035_offering_help_without_making_a_show_of_it", + "text": "Offering help without making a show of it" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_035_respecting_people_s_differences", + "text": "Respecting people’s differences" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_035_keeping_confidences_carefully", + "text": "Keeping confidences carefully" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_036", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one chore or task I do that deserves a thank-you parade?", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Praise my kindness or praise my competence?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "chores", - "fun_first", + "character", + "admiration", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_036_praise_my_kindness", + "text": "Praise my kindness" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_036_praise_my_competence", + "text": "Praise my competence" + } + ], "answer_config": { - 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"character", + "admiration", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_038_asking_good_questions", + "text": "Asking good questions" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_038_looking_for_practical_next_steps", + "text": "Looking for practical next steps" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_038_making_room_for_mixed_feelings", + "text": "Making room for mixed feelings" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_038_keeping_some_humor_available", + "text": "Keeping some humor available" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_038_asking_good_questions", + "text": "Asking good questions" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_038_looking_for_practical_next_steps", + "text": "Looking for practical next steps" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_038_making_room_for_mixed_feelings", + "text": "Making room for mixed feelings" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_038_keeping_some_humor_available", + "text": "Keeping some humor available" + } + ] } }, { "id": "gratitude_039", "category_id": 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could give me that you know I need to hear?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What about me still surprises you in a good way?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "compliments", - "reassurance", + "character", + "admiration", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_041_a_skill_that_appears_when_needed", + "text": "A skill that appears when needed" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_041_a_thoughtful_reaction_you_did_not_expect_from_me", + "text": "A thoughtful reaction you did not expect from me" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_041_a_bold_opinion_delivered_calmly", + "text": "A bold opinion delivered calmly" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_041_a_soft_side_that_shows_up_quietly", + "text": "A soft side that shows up quietly" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_041_a_skill_that_appears_when_needed", + "text": "A skill that appears when needed" + }, + { + "id": 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"gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "character", + "admiration", + "gratitude" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_045_my_creativity", + "text": "My creativity" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_045_my_leadership", + "text": "My leadership" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_045_my_tenderness", + "text": "My tenderness" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_045_my_sense_of_adventure", + "text": "My sense of adventure" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_045_my_creativity", + "text": "My creativity" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_045_my_leadership", + "text": "My leadership" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_045_my_tenderness", + "text": "My tenderness" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_045_my_sense_of_adventure", + "text": "My sense of adventure" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_046", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about tiny daily efforts?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which kinds of compliments feel most believable to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "effort", - "appreciation", + "praise", + "receiving", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_046_specific_praise_about_something_recent", + "text": "Specific praise about something recent" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_046_recognition_from_an_ordinary_moment", + "text": "Recognition from an ordinary moment" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_046_words_that_match_how_you_see_yourself", + "text": "Words that match how you see yourself" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_046_appreciation_that_asks_for_nothing_afterward", + "text": "Appreciation that asks for nothing afterward" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_046_specific_praise_about_something_recent", + "text": "Specific praise about something recent" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_046_recognition_from_an_ordinary_moment", + "text": "Recognition from an ordinary moment" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_046_words_that_match_how_you_see_yourself", + "text": "Words that match how you see yourself" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_046_appreciation_that_asks_for_nothing_afterward", + "text": "Appreciation that asks for nothing afterward" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_047", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny moment around tiny daily efforts deserves more credit?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "When does a compliment from me stay with you longest?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "effort", - "tiny_thanks", + "praise", + "receiving", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_047_when_you_were_doubting_yourself", + "text": "When you were doubting yourself" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_047_when_it_names_something_very_specific", + "text": "When it names something very specific" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_047_when_it_arrives_unexpectedly", + "text": "When it arrives unexpectedly" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_047_when_i_repeat_it_later", + "text": "When I repeat it later" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_047_when_you_were_doubting_yourself", + "text": "When you were doubting yourself" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_047_when_it_names_something_very_specific", + "text": "When it names something very specific" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_047_when_it_arrives_unexpectedly", + "text": "When it arrives unexpectedly" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_047_when_i_repeat_it_later", + "text": "When I repeat it later" + } + ] } }, { "id": "gratitude_048", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we celebrate tiny daily efforts in a small, sweet way?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make receiving praise harder than giving it?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - 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"gratitude_053_notice_of_the_effort_no_one_else_saw", + "text": "Notice of the effort no one else saw" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_053_recognition_for_what_you_handled", + "text": "Recognition for what you handled" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_053_a_reminder_of_one_lasting_strength", + "text": "A reminder of one lasting strength" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_053_appreciation_for_your_honesty", + "text": "Appreciation for your honesty" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_053_notice_of_the_effort_no_one_else_saw", + "text": "Notice of the effort no one else saw" + } + ] } }, { "id": "gratitude_054", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny moment around the way we laugh deserves more credit?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can I appreciate you without making you manage my reaction?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "laughter", - "fun_first", - "tiny_thanks", + "praise", + "receiving", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_054_say_it_without_asking_you_to_reassure_me", + "text": "Say it without asking you to reassure me" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_054_let_you_receive_it_quietly", + "text": "Let you receive it quietly" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_054_avoid_turning_it_into_self_criticism", + "text": "Avoid turning it into self-criticism" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_054_keep_the_focus_on_what_i_value_in_you", + "text": "Keep the focus on what I value in you" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_054_say_it_without_asking_you_to_reassure_me", + "text": "Say it without asking you to reassure me" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_054_let_you_receive_it_quietly", + "text": "Let you receive it quietly" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_054_avoid_turning_it_into_self_criticism", + "text": "Avoid turning it into self-criticism" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_054_keep_the_focus_on_what_i_value_in_you", + "text": "Keep the focus on what I value in you" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_055", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "How could we celebrate the way we laugh in a small, sweet way?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What compliment from me has stayed with you, and why did it land?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "laughter", - "fun_first", - "celebration", + "praise", + "receiving", "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { @@ -938,514 +2598,1400 @@ { "id": "gratitude_056", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you hope we never take for granted about the way we laugh?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs show that appreciation has really landed?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "laughter", - "fun_first", - "meaning", + "praise", + "receiving", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_056_you_relax_instead_of_deflecting", + "text": "You 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"How could we celebrate the traditions we are building in a small, sweet way?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which parts of our communities deserve appreciation?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "traditions", - "life_together", - "celebration", - "fun_first", + "expression", + "public_private", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_132_people_who_make_room_for_difference", + "text": "People who make room for difference" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_132_places_where_we_can_relax_without_performing", + "text": "Places where we can relax without performing" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_132_neighbors_who_help_without_prying", + "text": "Neighbors who help without prying" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_132_friends_who_support_closeness_and_independence", + "text": "Friends who support closeness and independence" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_132_people_who_make_room_for_difference", + 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"It stays brief" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_138_either_person_can_suggest_it", + "text": "Either person can suggest it" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_138_it_does_not_replace_honest_concerns", + "text": "It does not replace honest concerns" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_139", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we celebrate the little ways we say love in a small, sweet way?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How confident are you that we can keep appreciation genuine over time?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "love_language", - "daily_life", - "celebration", - "fun_first", + "gratitude_practice", + "long_term", "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not confident yet", + "max_label": "Very confident" } }, { "id": "gratitude_140", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you hope we never take for granted about the little ways we say love?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which moments are best for pausing to appreciate what is working?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "love_language", - "daily_life", - "meaning", + "gratitude_practice", + "long_term", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_140_after_a_demanding_week", + "text": "After a demanding week" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_140_before_a_major_transition", + "text": "Before a major transition" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_140_when_a_routine_finally_becomes_easier", + "text": "When a routine finally becomes easier" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_140_when_one_of_us_is_starting_to_feel_invisible", + "text": "When one of us is starting to feel invisible" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_140_after_a_demanding_week", + "text": "After a demanding week" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_140_before_a_major_transition", + "text": "Before a major transition" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_140_when_a_routine_finally_becomes_easier", + "text": "When a routine finally becomes easier" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_140_when_one_of_us_is_starting_to_feel_invisible", + "text": "When one of us is starting to feel invisible" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_141", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes the little ways we say love feel special to you?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "A spontaneous thank-you or a regular gratitude ritual?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "love_language", - "daily_life", - "special", + "gratitude_practice", + "long_term", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_141_a_spontaneous_thank_you", + "text": "A spontaneous thank-you" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_141_a_regular_gratitude_ritual", + "text": "A regular gratitude ritual" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_141_a_spontaneous_thank_you", + "text": "A spontaneous thank-you" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_141_a_regular_gratitude_ritual", + "text": "A regular gratitude ritual" + } + ] } }, { "id": "gratitude_142", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about the little ways we say love?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which things should never be mistaken for gratitude?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "love_language", - "daily_life", - "fun_first", - "play", + "gratitude_practice", + "long_term", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_142_accepting_unfair_treatment", + "text": "Accepting unfair treatment" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_142_owing_access_to_someone", + "text": "Owing access to someone" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_142_ignoring_a_needed_change", + "text": "Ignoring a needed change" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_142_praising_exhaustion_as_devotion", + "text": "Praising exhaustion as devotion" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_142_accepting_unfair_treatment", + "text": "Accepting unfair treatment" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_142_owing_access_to_someone", + "text": "Owing access to someone" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_142_ignoring_a_needed_change", + "text": "Ignoring a needed change" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_142_praising_exhaustion_as_devotion", + "text": "Praising exhaustion as devotion" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_143", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the little ways we say love?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which sign would tell you we are taking each other for granted?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "love_language", - "daily_life", - "pride", + "gratitude_practice", + "long_term", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_143_effort_noticed_only_when_it_stops", + "text": "Effort noticed only when it stops" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_143_thanks_assumed_instead_of_spoken", + "text": "Thanks assumed instead of spoken" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_143_one_person_expected_to_mind_read", + "text": "One person expected to mind-read" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_143_kindness_treated_like_a_permanent_obligation", + "text": "Kindness treated like a permanent obligation" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_143_effort_noticed_only_when_it_stops", + "text": "Effort noticed only when it stops" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_143_thanks_assumed_instead_of_spoken", + "text": "Thanks assumed instead of spoken" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_143_one_person_expected_to_mind_read", + "text": "One person expected to mind-read" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_143_kindness_treated_like_a_permanent_obligation", + "text": "Kindness treated like a permanent obligation" + } + ] } }, { "id": "gratitude_144", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing you appreciate about the future we are making?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can appreciation stay honest when something also needs to change?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "hope", - "appreciation", + "gratitude_practice", + "long_term", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_144_name_the_good_without_using_it_to_cancel_the_problem", + "text": "Name the good without using it to cancel the problem" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_144_address_the_issue_separately_and_clearly", + "text": "Address the issue separately and clearly" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_144_avoid_gratitude_that_pressures_agreement", + "text": "Avoid gratitude that pressures agreement" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_144_let_appreciation_and_disappointment_exist_together", + "text": "Let appreciation and disappointment exist together" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_144_name_the_good_without_using_it_to_cancel_the_problem", + "text": "Name the good without using it to cancel the problem" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_144_address_the_issue_separately_and_clearly", + "text": "Address the issue separately and clearly" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_144_avoid_gratitude_that_pressures_agreement", + "text": "Avoid gratitude that pressures agreement" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_144_let_appreciation_and_disappointment_exist_together", + "text": "Let appreciation and disappointment exist together" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_145", "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny moment around the future we are making deserves more credit?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What part of our life together do you most hope we never take for granted?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "hope", - "tiny_thanks", + "gratitude_practice", + "long_term", "gratitude" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2496,2985 +6807,265 @@ { "id": "gratitude_146", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we celebrate the future we are making in a small, sweet way?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which gratitude practices fit low-energy days?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "hope", - "celebration", - "fun_first", + "gratitude_practice", + "long_term", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_146_a_short_text_with_one_specific_detail", + "text": "A short text with one specific detail" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_146_a_hand_squeeze_when_touch_is_welcome", + "text": "A hand squeeze when touch is welcome" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_146_taking_one_small_task_off_the_list", + "text": "Taking one small task off the list" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_146_saying_i_noticed_without_starting_a_long_talk", + "text": "Saying I noticed without starting a long talk" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_146_a_short_text_with_one_specific_detail", + "text": "A short text with one specific detail" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_146_a_hand_squeeze_when_touch_is_welcome", + "text": "A hand squeeze when touch is welcome" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_146_taking_one_small_task_off_the_list", + "text": "Taking one small task off the list" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_146_saying_i_noticed_without_starting_a_long_talk", + "text": "Saying I noticed without starting a long talk" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_147", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What part of the future we are making should get a tiny spotlight?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which things about us deserve regular protection because they are easy to 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"id": "gratitude_147_the_private_humor_that_belongs_to_us", + "text": "The private humor that belongs to us" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_147_the_ability_to_change_without_losing_respect", + "text": "The ability to change without losing respect" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_148", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes the future we are making feel special to you?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can help gratitude survive periods when life feels repetitive?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "hope", - "special", + "gratitude_practice", + "long_term", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_148_notice_what_remains_dependable", + "text": "Notice what remains dependable" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_148_look_for_effort_rather_than_novelty", + "text": "Look for effort rather than novelty" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_148_remember_what_the_routine_makes_possible", + "text": "Remember what the routine makes possible" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_148_create_one_small_break_from_autopilot", + "text": "Create one small break from autopilot" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_148_notice_what_remains_dependable", + "text": "Notice what remains dependable" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_148_look_for_effort_rather_than_novelty", + "text": "Look for effort rather than novelty" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_148_remember_what_the_routine_makes_possible", + "text": "Remember what the routine makes possible" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_148_create_one_small_break_from_autopilot", + "text": "Create one small break from autopilot" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "gratitude_149", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would you put on a silly thank-you card about the future we are making?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What would make appreciation feel more balanced between us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "hope", - "fun_first", - "play", + "gratitude_practice", + "long_term", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_149_more_specific_thanks", + "text": "More specific thanks" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_149_more_attention_to_invisible_effort", + "text": "More attention to invisible effort" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_149_more_room_to_receive_without_responding_immediately", + "text": "More room to receive without responding immediately" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_149_more_follow_through_after_gratitude_is_expressed", + "text": "More follow-through after gratitude is expressed" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_149_more_specific_thanks", + "text": "More specific thanks" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_149_more_attention_to_invisible_effort", + "text": "More attention to invisible effort" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_149_more_room_to_receive_without_responding_immediately", + "text": "More room to receive without responding immediately" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_149_more_follow_through_after_gratitude_is_expressed", + "text": "More follow-through after gratitude is expressed" + } + ] } }, { "id": "gratitude_150", "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes you proud of us when you think about the future we are making?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future_us", - "hope", - "pride", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_151", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of thank-you feels best from me?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "thanks", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet_words", - "text": "Sweet words" - }, - { - "id": "a_hug", - "text": "A hug" - }, - { - "id": "a_small_favor", - "text": 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"gratitude_164", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we notice more?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "awareness", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_efforts", - "text": "Small efforts" - }, - { - "id": "good_moments", - "text": "Good moments" - }, - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth" - }, - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_165", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should gratitude feel like tonight?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "today", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet", - "text": "Sweet" - }, - { - "id": "silly", - "text": "Silly" - }, - { - "id": "tender", - "text": "Tender" - }, - { - "id": "cozy", - "text": "Cozy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_166", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which area needs more appreciation?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "recognition", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "daily_tasks", - "text": "Daily tasks" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_support", - "text": "Emotional support" - }, - { - "id": "work_stress", - "text": "Work stress" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_effort", - "text": "Quiet effort" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_167", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of effort is easiest to miss?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "effort", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "invisible_planning", - "text": "Invisible planning" - }, - { - "id": "emotional_labor", - "text": "Emotional labor" - }, - { - "id": "house_stuff", - "text": "House stuff" - }, - { - "id": "staying_patient", - "text": "Staying patient" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_168", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of praise feels most like love?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "praise", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific", - "text": "Specific" - }, - { - "id": "private", - "text": "Private" - }, - { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" - }, - { - "id": "repeated", - "text": "Repeated" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_169", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a thank-you feel like it missed the mark?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "authenticity", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "too_vague", - "text": "Too vague" - }, - { - "id": "forced", - "text": "Forced" - }, - { - "id": "bad_timing", - "text": "Bad timing" - }, - { - "id": "no_follow_through", - "text": "No follow-through" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_170", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a thank-you actually land in your heart?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "authenticity", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_words", - "text": "Specific words" - }, - { - "id": "right_timing", - "text": "Right timing" - }, - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "changed_behavior", - "text": "Changed behavior" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_171", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we celebrate more often?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_wins", - "text": "Tiny wins" - }, - { - "id": "hard_days_survived", - "text": "Hard days survived" - }, - { - "id": "good_talks", - "text": "Good talks" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_moments", - "text": "Sweet moments" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_172", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should get a fake award between us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_hug", - "text": "Best hug" - }, - { - "id": "best_snack_save", - "text": "Best snack save" - }, - { - "id": "best_patience", - "text": "Best patience" - }, - { - "id": "best_little_helper", - "text": "Best little helper" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_173", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of thank-you note would make you smile?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "notes", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet", - "text": "Sweet" - }, - { - "id": "funny", - "text": "Funny" - }, - { - "id": "spicy_but_safe", - "text": "Spicy-but-safe" - }, - { - "id": "dramatic", - "text": "Dramatic" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_174", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What part of our history feels most precious?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "shared_history", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "how_we_started", - "text": "How we started" - }, - { - "id": "what_we_survived", - "text": "What we survived" - }, - { - "id": "what_we_built", - "text": "What we built" - }, - { - "id": "how_we_changed", - "text": "How we changed" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_175", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What part of our future are you grateful for already?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future_us", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_memories", - "text": "More memories" - }, - { - "id": "more_peace", - "text": "More peace" - }, - { - "id": "more_adventures", - "text": "More adventures" - }, - { - "id": "more_ordinary_days", - "text": "More ordinary days" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_176", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of gratitude helps during stress?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_thanks", - "text": "Tiny thanks" - }, - { - "id": "noticing_effort", - "text": "Noticing effort" - }, - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_177", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of gratitude helps after conflict?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "repair", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "noticing_repair", - "text": "Noticing repair" - }, - { - "id": "thanking_honesty", - "text": "Thanking honesty" - }, - { - "id": "thanking_patience", - "text": "Thanking patience" - }, - { - "id": "thanking_softness", - "text": "Thanking softness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_178", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel appreciated without words?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "nonverbal", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "help", - "text": "Help" - }, - { - "id": "touch", - "text": "Touch" - }, - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "thoughtfulness", - "text": "Thoughtfulness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_179", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel appreciated with words?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "words", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_praise", - "text": "Specific praise" - }, - { - "id": "thank_you", - "text": "Thank you" - }, - { - "id": "i_noticed", - "text": "I noticed" - }, - { - "id": "i_am_proud_of_you", - "text": "I am proud of you" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_180", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we never stop thanking each other for?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "commitment", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "choosing_each_other", - "text": "Choosing each other" - }, - { - "id": "trying", - "text": "Trying" - }, - { - "id": "showing_up", - "text": "Showing up" - }, - { - "id": "loving_through_seasons", - "text": "Loving through seasons" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_181", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of appreciation feels like home?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_words", - "text": "Soft words" - }, - { - "id": "little_help", - "text": "Little help" - }, - { - "id": "warm_routines", - "text": "Warm routines" - }, - { - "id": "being_known", - "text": "Being known" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_182", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of appreciation feels adventurous?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "adventure", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trying_things", - "text": "Trying things" - }, - { - "id": "cheering_each_other_on", - "text": "Cheering each other on" - }, - { - "id": "making_memories", - "text": "Making memories" - }, - { - "id": "saying_yes", - "text": "Saying yes" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_183", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of appreciation feels cozy?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "cozy", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_thanks", - "text": "Quiet thanks" - }, - { - "id": "comfort_food", - "text": "Comfort food" - }, - { - "id": "soft_touch", - "text": "Soft touch" - }, - { - "id": "bedtime_words", - "text": "Bedtime words" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_184", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of appreciation feels energizing?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "energy", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "public_praise", - "text": "Public praise" - }, - { - "id": "private_praise", - "text": "Private praise" - }, - { - "id": "celebrating_wins", - "text": "Celebrating wins" - }, - { - "id": "noticing_effort", - "text": "Noticing effort" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_185", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you receive appreciation?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "receiving", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "believe_it", - "text": "Believe it" - }, - { - "id": "no_deflecting", - "text": "No deflecting" - }, - { - "id": "hear_specifics", - "text": "Hear specifics" - }, - { - "id": "let_it_land", - "text": "Let it land" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_186", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you want to dodge a compliment like it is a flying sock?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "receiving", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "embarrassment", - "text": "Embarrassment" - }, - { - "id": "not_believing_it", - "text": "Not believing it" - }, - { - "id": "bad_timing", - "text": "Bad timing" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_undeserving", - "text": "Feeling undeserving" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_187", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us spot the good stuff when life is being ridiculous?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "messy_life", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_wins", - "text": "Small wins" - }, - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - }, - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "looking_back", - "text": "Looking back" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_188", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we appreciate about this season of us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "season", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth" - }, - { - "id": "endurance", - "text": "Endurance" - }, - { - "id": "softness", - "text": "Softness" - }, - { - "id": "new_dreams", - "text": "New dreams" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_189", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make gratitude more fun between us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "fake_awards", - "text": "Fake awards" - }, - { - "id": "silly_notes", - "text": "Silly notes" - }, - { - "id": "thank_you_dares", - "text": "Thank-you dares" - }, - { - "id": "toast_night", - "text": "Toast night" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_190", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make gratitude feel more natural next month?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "monthly", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_specifics", - "text": "More specifics" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_ritual", - "text": "Tiny ritual" - }, - { - "id": "less_waiting", - "text": "Less waiting" - }, - { - "id": "more_playfulness", - "text": "More playfulness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_191", - "category_id": "gratitude", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What are you grateful for in us today?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "Which signs would show that appreciation is becoming natural between us?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "today", + "gratitude_practice", + "long_term", "gratitude" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "gratitude_150_thanks_is_specific_and_unforced", + "text": "Thanks is specific and unforced" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_150_effort_is_noticed_before_frustration", + "text": "Effort is noticed before frustration" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_150_praise_respects_privacy_and_limits", + "text": "Praise respects privacy and limits" + }, + { + "id": "gratitude_150_care_is_valued_without_becoming_a_debt", + "text": "Care is valued without becoming a debt" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "our_humor", - "text": "Our humor" + "id": "gratitude_150_thanks_is_specific_and_unforced", + "text": "Thanks is specific and unforced" }, { - "id": "our_comfort", - "text": "Our comfort" + "id": "gratitude_150_effort_is_noticed_before_frustration", + "text": "Effort is noticed before frustration" }, { - "id": "our_history", - "text": "Our history" + "id": "gratitude_150_praise_respects_privacy_and_limits", + "text": "Praise respects privacy and limits" }, { - "id": "our_teamwork", - "text": "Our teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "our_softness", - "text": "Our softness" + "id": "gratitude_150_care_is_valued_without_becoming_a_debt", + "text": "Care is valued without becoming a debt" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_192", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What small things deserve more thanks?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "tiny_thanks", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "chores", - "text": "Chores" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_texts", - "text": "Sweet texts" - }, - { - "id": "checking_in", - "text": "Checking in" - }, - { - "id": "showing_up", - "text": "Showing up" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_193", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes gratitude more fun?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "fake_awards", - "text": "Fake awards" - }, - { - "id": "dramatic_applause", - "text": "Dramatic applause" - }, - { - "id": "silly_notes", - "text": "Silly notes" - }, - { - "id": "inside_jokes", - "text": "Inside jokes" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_celebrations", - "text": "Tiny celebrations" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_194", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps you feel appreciated?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "appreciation", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_words", - "text": "Specific words" - }, - { - "id": "help", - "text": "Help" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "quality_time", - "text": "Quality time" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_details", - "text": "Remembering details" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_195", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we celebrate more?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_wins", - "text": "Tiny wins" - }, - { - "id": "hard_days_survived", - "text": "Hard days survived" - }, - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth" - }, - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "laughter", - "text": "Laughter" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_196", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What kinds of effort should we notice more?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "effort", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "emotional_effort", - "text": "Emotional effort" - }, - { - "id": "daily_tasks", - "text": "Daily tasks" - }, - { - "id": "planning", - "text": "Planning" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "repair_attempts", - "text": "Repair attempts" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_197", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes appreciation land better?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "appreciation", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific_words", - "text": "Specific words" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "eye_contact", - "text": "Eye contact" - }, - { - "id": "no_rushing", - "text": "No rushing" - }, - { - "id": "follow_through", - "text": "Follow-through" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_198", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes appreciation feel playful?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "play", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "silly_titles", - "text": "Silly titles" - }, - { - "id": "fake_awards", - "text": "Fake awards" - }, - { - "id": "inside_jokes", - "text": "Inside jokes" - }, - { - "id": "funny_thank_yous", - "text": "Funny thank-yous" - }, - { - "id": "celebration_snacks", - "text": "Celebration snacks" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_199", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes appreciation feel romantic?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_words", - "text": "Soft words" - }, - { - "id": "private_praise", - "text": "Private praise" - }, - { - "id": "slow_moment", - "text": "Slow moment" - }, - { - "id": "remembering_details", - "text": "Remembering details" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_note", - "text": "Sweet note" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_200", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we thank past-us for?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "past_us", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "surviving_hard_things", - "text": "Surviving hard things" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_each_other", - "text": "Choosing each other" - }, - { - "id": "trying_again", - "text": "Trying again" - }, - { - "id": "growing", - "text": "Growing" - }, - { - "id": "building_memories", - "text": "Building memories" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_201", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we thank future-us for starting now?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future_us", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "saving_energy", - "text": "Saving energy" - }, - { - "id": "making_peace", - "text": "Making peace" - }, - { - "id": "building_habits", - "text": "Building habits" - }, - { - "id": "protecting_love", - "text": "Protecting love" - }, - { - "id": "dreaming", - "text": "Dreaming" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_202", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when appreciation feels awkward?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "awkwardness", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "keep_it_simple", - "text": "Keep it simple" - }, - { - "id": "make_it_playful", - "text": "Make it playful" - }, - { - "id": "be_specific", - "text": "Be specific" - }, - { - "id": "smile_through_it", - "text": "Smile through it" - }, - { - "id": "let_it_land", - "text": "Let it land" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_203", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we appreciate during busy seasons?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "busy_life", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "effort", - "text": "Effort" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "little_check_ins", - "text": "Little check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "grace", - "text": "Grace" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_204", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we appreciate after a hard conversation?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "hard_talks", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "softness", - "text": "Softness" - }, - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - }, - { - "id": "trying_again", - "text": "Trying again" - }, - { - "id": "staying_kind", - "text": "Staying kind" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_205", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we appreciate after conflict?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "conflict", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - }, - { - "id": "accountability", - "text": "Accountability" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "coming_back", - "text": "Coming back" - }, - { - "id": "care", - "text": "Care" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_206", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes us feel lucky?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "luck", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_jokes", - "text": "Shared jokes" - }, - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "history", - "text": "History" - }, - { - "id": "chemistry", - "text": "Chemistry" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_each_other", - "text": "Choosing each other" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_207", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What deserves a tiny toast?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "good_day", - "text": "Good day" - }, - { - "id": "hard_day_survived", - "text": "Hard day survived" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_win", - "text": "Tiny win" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_moment", - "text": "Sweet moment" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_208", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What gratitude habits sound doable?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "habits", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "bedtime_thanks", - "text": "Bedtime thanks" - }, - { - "id": "weekly_toast", - "text": "Weekly toast" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_note", - "text": "Sweet note" - }, - { - "id": "fake_award", - "text": "Fake award" - }, - { - "id": "morning_compliment", - "text": "Morning compliment" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_209", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us not take each other for granted?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "awareness", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "notice_effort", - "text": "Notice effort" - }, - { - "id": "say_thank_you", - "text": "Say thank you" - }, - { - "id": "remember_hard_seasons", - "text": "Remember hard seasons" - }, - { - "id": "celebrate_small_things", - "text": "Celebrate small things" - }, - { - "id": "stay_curious", - "text": "Stay curious" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_210", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would make gratitude feel more Closer-style?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "warm_prompts", - "text": "Warm prompts" - }, - { - "id": "silly_options", - "text": "Silly options" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_rituals", - "text": "Tiny rituals" - }, - { - "id": "specific_thanks", - "text": "Specific thanks" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_playfulness", - "text": "Sweet playfulness" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_211", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How appreciated do you feel lately?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "appreciation", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not appreciated", - "max_label": "Very appreciated" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_212", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to say thank you out loud?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "thanks", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_213", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How fun does gratitude feel between us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not fun", - "max_label": "Very fun" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_214", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do tiny thank-yous matter to you?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "tiny_thanks", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_215", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we notice each other's effort?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "effort", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_216", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would a tiny gratitude ritual help us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "rituals", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_217", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How proud do you feel of us lately?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "pride", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not proud", - "max_label": "Very proud" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_218", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How specific does our appreciation feel?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "specificity", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Too vague", - "max_label": "Very specific" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_219", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to receive appreciation?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "receiving", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_220", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do we celebrate tiny 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"gratitude_223", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How appreciated do you feel for the heart-work you do?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "emotional_labor", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not appreciated", - "max_label": "Very appreciated" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_224", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How appreciated do you feel for the real-life stuff you handle?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "practical_effort", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not appreciated", - "max_label": "Very appreciated" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_225", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does gratitude help us reconnect?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "reconnection", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_226", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does gratitude help after stress?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_227", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does a real thank-you help us soften after conflict?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "conflict", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_228", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How playful does our appreciation feel?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "play", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not playful", - "max_label": "Very playful" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_229", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How romantic does our appreciation feel?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not romantic", - "max_label": "Very romantic" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_230", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How cozy does our appreciation feel?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "cozy", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not cozy", - "max_label": "Very cozy" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_231", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to notice good things during busy seasons?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "busy_life", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_232", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would fake awards make gratitude more fun?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_233", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you believe I see the little things you do?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "recognition", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_234", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we appreciate the little legends we are becoming?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "growth", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_235", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much sweeter could our ordinary days feel with more gratitude?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_236", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Sweet thank-you or silly thank-you?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "thanks", - "fun_first", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet", - "text": "Sweet thank-you" - }, - { - "id": "silly", - "text": "Silly thank-you" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_237", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Tiny toast or fake award?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_toast", - "text": "Tiny toast" - }, - { - "id": "fake_award", - "text": "Fake award" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_238", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Compliment me or brag about us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "compliments", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "compliment_me", - "text": "Compliment me" - }, - { - "id": "brag_about_us", - "text": "Brag about us" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_239", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Thank-you note or thank-you hug?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "thanks", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "note", - "text": "Thank-you note" - }, - { - "id": "hug", - "text": "Thank-you hug" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_240", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Notice effort or notice sweetness?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "awareness", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "effort", - "text": "Notice effort" - }, - { - "id": "sweetness", - "text": "Notice sweetness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_241", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Dramatic applause or quiet appreciation?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "applause", - "text": "Dramatic applause" - }, - { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet appreciation" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_242", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Thank past-us or high-five future-us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "time", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "past_us", - "text": "Past-us thanks" - }, - { - "id": "future_us", - "text": "Future-us thanks" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_243", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Appreciate a chore or appreciate a mood-lift?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "chore", - "text": "A chore" - }, - { - "id": "mood_lift", - "text": "A mood-lift" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_244", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Romantic gratitude or cozy gratitude?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "romantic", - "text": "Romantic gratitude" - }, - { - "id": "cozy", - "text": "Cozy gratitude" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_245", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Specific praise or playful praise?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "praise", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "specific", - "text": "Specific praise" - }, - { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful praise" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_246", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Thank me now or surprise me later?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "surprise", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "now", - "text": "Thank me now" - }, - { - "id": "later", - "text": "Surprise me later" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_247", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Celebrate a tiny win or high-five a hard thing survived?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_win", - "text": "Tiny win" - }, - { - "id": "hard_thing", - "text": "Hard thing survived" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_248", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Say 'I noticed' or say 'I'm proud of you'?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "words", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "noticed", - "text": "I noticed" - }, - { - "id": "proud", - "text": "I'm proud of you" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_249", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Bedtime thanks or morning compliment?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rituals", - "gratitude" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "bedtime", - "text": "Bedtime thanks" - }, - { - "id": "morning", - "text": "Morning compliment" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "gratitude_250", - "category_id": "gratitude", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Thank you for loving me or thank you for still liking my weird little self?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "love", - "gratitude", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "loving", - "text": "Loving me" - }, - { - "id": "liking", - "text": "Liking me" - } - ] - } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/home_life.json b/seed/questions/home_life.json index 8134da98..0688a8a1 100644 --- a/seed/questions/home_life.json +++ b/seed/questions/home_life.json @@ -2,2646 +2,309 @@ "category": { "id": "home_life", "display_name": "Home Life", - "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples make everyday home life feel cozy, fair, playful, restful, snack-powered, and like a shared little team instead of a household management worksheet.", + "description": "Warm, practical questions about sharing a home fairly through chores, mental load, meals, mess, errands, guests, private space, comfort, maintenance, routines, and everyday household teamwork.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "home", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, + "planned_type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 90, + "single_choice": 30, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 + }, + "planned_depth_counts": { + "1": 75, + "2": 60, + "3": 15 + }, + "legacy_question_count": 250, + "legacy_written_questions": 150, + "catalog_change": -100, + "content_version": "home_life_150_final_v2", + "mass_rewrite_reason": "The legacy pack contained 250 questions, including 150 written responses and invalid production depth values above 3. More than 60 percent failed the current interaction and schema standards.", + "pack_purpose": "Help couples make ordinary household life clearer, fairer, calmer, and easier to manage without turning the pack into a chore chart.", + "user_feeling": "Capable, understood, less alone in the work, and at home.", + "relationship_outcome": "Better household teamwork, clearer expectations, less resentment, and a home that supports both people.", + "free_value": "Easy, relatable questions about chores, routines, meals, mess, and small household preferences.", + "premium_value": "Deeper fairness, mental-load, privacy, accessibility, hosting, maintenance, repair, and long-term home-life questions.", + "related_pack_boundary": "Home Life owns household operations: chores, mental load, cleanliness standards, meals, groceries, errands, guests, shared and private space, home comfort, maintenance, accessibility, and domestic routines. Quality Time owns intentional together-time. Money owns budgets, bills, and spending decisions. Stress owns emotional coping under pressure. Gratitude owns appreciation as the primary topic. Date Night owns dates.", + "safety_boundary": "No question should assume gendered household roles, shame disability, treat cleanliness as moral worth, require one partner to manage the other, or frame unpaid domestic work as naturally belonging to one person.", + "coverage_sections": [ + "chores_and_fairness", + "mental_load_and_planning", + "mess_and_home_resets", + "meals_groceries_and_errands", + "shared_spaces_privacy_and_guests", + "comfort_rest_and_sensory_needs", + "maintenance_projects_and_safety", + "routines_transitions_and_accessibility", + "appreciation_repair_and_changing_capacity", + "long_term_home_identity_and_teamwork" + ], + "review_workflow": "Six separately written batches of 25 questions, three 50-question checkpoints, a 100-question guide refresh, and final full-pack validation.", + "final_validation": "pass", + "last_completed_batch": 6, + "checkpoint_50": "pass", + "checkpoint_100": "pass", + "context_refresh_100": "Content guide, quality checklist, schema, pack boundary, type balance, depth balance, repetition, and first 100 questions re-reviewed.", "type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - } + "multi_choice": 90, + "single_choice": 30, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 75, + "2": 60, + "3": 15 + }, + "depth_percentages": { + "light": 50.0, + "medium": 40.0, + "deep": 10.0 + }, + "batch_review": [ + { + "batch": 1, + "first_id": "home_life_001", + "last_id": "home_life_025", + "count": 25, + "type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 14, + "single_choice": 6, + "this_or_that": 2, + "scale": 2, + "written": 1 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 11, + "2": 12, + "3": 2 + }, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 2, + "first_id": "home_life_026", + "last_id": "home_life_050", + "count": 25, + "type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 16, + "single_choice": 4, + "scale": 3, + "this_or_that": 1, + "written": 1 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 14, + "2": 9, + "3": 2 + }, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 3, + "first_id": "home_life_051", + "last_id": "home_life_075", + "count": 25, + "type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 15, + "single_choice": 5, + "this_or_that": 2, + "scale": 2, + "written": 1 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 13, + "2": 10, + "3": 2 + }, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 4, + "first_id": "home_life_076", + "last_id": "home_life_100", + "count": 25, + "type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 15, + "single_choice": 5, + "this_or_that": 2, + "scale": 2, + "written": 1 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 13, + "2": 9, + "3": 3 + }, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 5, + "first_id": "home_life_101", + "last_id": "home_life_125", + "count": 25, + "type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 15, + "single_choice": 5, + "this_or_that": 2, + "scale": 3 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 12, + "2": 10, + "3": 3 + }, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 6, + "first_id": "home_life_126", + "last_id": "home_life_150", + "count": 25, + "type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 15, + "single_choice": 5, + "scale": 3, + "this_or_that": 1, + "written": 1 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 12, + "2": 10, + "3": 3 + }, + "status": "PASS" + } + ], + "fifty_question_checkpoints": [ + { + "checkpoint": 1, + "first_id": "home_life_001", + "last_id": "home_life_050", + "count": 50, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "checkpoint": 2, + "first_id": "home_life_051", + "last_id": "home_life_100", + "count": 50, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "checkpoint": 3, + "first_id": "home_life_101", + "last_id": "home_life_150", + "count": 50, + "status": "PASS" + } + ], + "final_editorial_patches": 5, + "catalog_impact": { + "old_question_count": 250, + "new_question_count": 150, + "net_change": -100, + "old_free_questions": 75, + "new_free_questions": 45, + "old_premium_questions": 175, + "new_premium_questions": 105, + "intentional": true + }, + "final_review": "Complete guide-driven rebuild and final production audit. Replaced the 250-question legacy pack with 150 varied questions, reduced written prompts from 150 to 5, converted every depth to integer 1–3, preserved the category display name and icon, separated household operations from Quality Time, Money, Stress, and intimacy packs, and validated schema, option fit, uniqueness, repetition, safety, six 25-question batches, and three 50-question checkpoints." } }, "questions": [ { "id": "home_life_001", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes our home feel most like us?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which chores affect the feel of home fastest?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "home", - "identity", + "chores", + "daily_life", "home_life" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "dishes", + "text": "Dishes" + }, + { + "id": "trash", + "text": "Trash" + }, + { + "id": "laundry", + "text": "Laundry" + }, + { + "id": "floors", + "text": "Floors" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "dishes", + "text": "Dishes" + }, + { + "id": "trash", + "text": "Trash" + }, + { + "id": "laundry", + "text": "Laundry" + }, + { + "id": "floors", + "text": "Floors" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "home_life_002", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one tiny thing at home that makes you smile?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "tiny_moments", - "fun_first", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_003", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one cozy corner or spot you love?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "cozy", - "space", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_004", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one home routine that actually works for us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": 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"home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one household task you appreciate me doing?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "chores", - "appreciation", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_009", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What household task should officially become a team mission?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "chores", - "teamwork", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_010", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes chores feel less annoying?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "chores", - "lightness", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_011", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes chores feel more like teamwork?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "chores", - "teamwork", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_012", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of reset makes the house feel better fast?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "reset", - "home", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_013", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one small reset we could do together in 10 minutes?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "reset", - "teamwork", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_014", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes mornings at home feel better?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "mornings", - "daily_life", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - 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"home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing at home we could make more beautiful?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "beauty", - "home", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_023", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing at home we could make more practical?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "practical", - "home", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_024", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes our home feel welcoming?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "welcoming", - "home", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_025", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes our home feel private and protected?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "privacy", - 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"home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us talk about chores without scorekeeping?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "chores", - "fairness", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_030", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes rest at home feel guilt-free?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "rest", - "no_guilt", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_031", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes relaxing together at home feel special?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "rest", - "connection", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_032", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one home tradition we should start?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "traditions", - 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"category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one errand that would be better together?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "errands", - "teamwork", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_037", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make dividing home stuff feel less like math and more like teamwork?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fairness", - "responsibilities", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_038", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make you feel more noticed for the home magic you do?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "recognition", - "effort", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_039", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would help me feel more noticed for the home magic I do?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "recognition", - "mutual", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_040", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one tiny thing our home is begging us to handle this week?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "weekly", - "home", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_041", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do we need our home to give us this week?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "weekly", - "needs", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_042", 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fair" + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_006", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which chores are easiest to share without getting in each other's way?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "chores", + "teamwork", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "cooking", + "text": "Cooking" + }, + { + "id": "laundry", + "text": "Laundry" + }, + { + "id": "yard_work", + "text": "Yard work" + }, + { + "id": "a_quick_house_reset", + "text": "A quick house reset" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { @@ -3001,1217 +471,2506 @@ "text": "Cooking" }, { - "id": "cleaning", - "text": "Cleaning" + "id": "laundry", + "text": "Laundry" }, { - "id": "errands", - "text": "Errands" + "id": "yard_work", + "text": "Yard work" }, { - "id": "planning", - "text": "Planning" + "id": "a_quick_house_reset", + "text": "A quick house reset" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "home_life_164", + "id": "home_life_007", "category_id": "home_life", "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a regular night feel special?", + "text": "What is the most suspicious phrase in household history?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "date_night", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_good_meal", - "text": "A good meal" - }, - { - "id": "no_phones", - "text": "No phones" - }, - { - "id": "a_show", - "text": "A show" - }, - { - "id": "couch_time", - "text": "Couch time" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_165", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should home feel like tonight?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "today", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cozy", - "text": "Cozy" - }, - { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" - }, - { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" - }, - { - "id": "restful", - "text": "Restful" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_166", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which home area needs the most love?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kitchen", - "text": "Kitchen" - }, - { - "id": "bedroom", - "text": "Bedroom" - }, - { - "id": "living_space", - "text": "Living space" - }, - { - "id": "outdoor_space", - "text": "Outdoor space" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_167", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which routine needs a softer reset?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "routines", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "morning", - "text": "Morning" - }, - { - "id": "evening", - "text": "Evening" - }, - { - "id": "cleaning", - "text": "Cleaning" - }, - { - "id": "meals", - "text": "Meals" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_168", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes chore talk turn into a tiny thundercloud?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ + "humor", "chores", - "communication", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_was_about_to_do_it", + "text": "I was about to do it" + }, + { + "id": "it_only_needs_a_quick_fix", + "text": "It only needs a quick fix" + }, + { + "id": "i_know_where_that_goes", + "text": "I know where that goes" + }, + { + "id": "we_can_clean_it_later", + "text": "We can clean it later" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "scorekeeping", - "text": "Scorekeeping" + "id": "i_was_about_to_do_it", + "text": "I was about to do it" }, { - "id": "bad_timing", - "text": "Bad timing" + "id": "it_only_needs_a_quick_fix", + "text": "It only needs a quick fix" }, { - "id": "feeling_unseen", - "text": "Feeling unseen" + "id": "i_know_where_that_goes", + "text": "I know where that goes" }, { - "id": "too_much_at_once", - "text": "Too much at once" + "id": "we_can_clean_it_later", + "text": "We can clean it later" } ] } }, { - "id": "home_life_169", + "id": "home_life_008", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a household task stay clearly owned?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "ownership", + "responsibility", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_named_person", + "text": "One named person" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_deadline", + "text": "A clear deadline" + }, + { + "id": "agreement_on_what_done_means", + "text": "Agreement on what done means" + }, + { + "id": "a_backup_plan_when_life_changes", + "text": "A backup plan when life changes" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_named_person", + "text": "One named person" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_deadline", + "text": "A clear deadline" + }, + { + "id": "agreement_on_what_done_means", + "text": "Agreement on what done means" + }, + { + "id": "a_backup_plan_when_life_changes", + "text": "A 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"answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "finishing_the_laundry", + "text": "Finishing the laundry" + }, + { + "id": "cleaning_the_refrigerator", + "text": "Cleaning the refrigerator" + }, + { + "id": "changing_all_the_bedding", + "text": "Changing all the bedding" + }, + { + "id": "defeating_the_mystery_drawer", + "text": "Defeating the mystery drawer" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_011", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can we divide chores without pretending every task is equal?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "fairness", + "chores", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "consider_time", + "text": "Consider time" + }, + { + "id": "consider_effort", + "text": "Consider effort" + }, + { + "id": "consider_how_often_it_repeats", + "text": "Consider how often it repeats" + }, + { + "id": "consider_who_strongly_dislikes_it", + "text": "Consider who strongly dislikes it" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": 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"id": "it_is_specific", + "text": "It is specific" + }, + { + "id": "it_is_not_sarcastic", + "text": "It is not sarcastic" + }, + { + "id": "the_task_was_already_agreed", + "text": "The task was already agreed" + }, + { + "id": "the_reminder_is_not_the_fifth_one", + "text": "The reminder is not the fifth one" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_013", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should count as finishing a household task?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "standards", + "completion", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_visible_part_is_done", + "text": "The visible part is done" + }, + { + "id": "everything_is_put_away", + "text": "Everything is put away" + }, + { + "id": "the_next_person_can_use_the_space", + "text": "The next person can use the space" + }, + { + "id": "whatever_we_agreed_beforehand", + "text": "Whatever we agreed beforehand" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_visible_part_is_done", + "text": "The visible part is done" + }, + { + "id": "everything_is_put_away", + "text": "Everything is put away" + }, + { + "id": "the_next_person_can_use_the_space", + "text": "The next person can use the space" + }, + { + "id": "whatever_we_agreed_beforehand", + "text": "Whatever we agreed beforehand" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_014", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which jobs are easy to overlook because they happen in the background?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "invisible_work", + "chores", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "restocking_supplies", + "text": "Restocking supplies" + }, + { + "id": "scheduling_repairs", + "text": "Scheduling repairs" + }, + { + "id": "tracking_appointments", + "text": "Tracking appointments" + }, + { + "id": "noticing_what_will_run_out", + "text": "Noticing what will run out" + } + ], + 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"home_life", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps mess feel like a house problem, not a character flaw?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "mess", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "team_language", - "text": "Team language" - }, - { - "id": "one_reset", - "text": "One reset" - }, - { - "id": "no_blaming", - "text": "No blaming" - }, - { - "id": "lower_expectations", - "text": "Lower expectations" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_171", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps during busy home weeks?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "busy_life", "home_life" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "simple_meals", - "text": "Simple meals" - }, - { - "id": "short_resets", - "text": "Short resets" - }, - { - "id": "grace", - "text": "Grace" - }, - { - "id": "clear_priorities", - "text": "Clear priorities" - } - ] + "max_length": 500 } }, { - "id": "home_life_172", + "id": "home_life_016", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps tiny home annoyances not grow into gremlins?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make chore conversations turn personal too quickly?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "free", "tags": [ - "resentment", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "chores", + "conflict", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "calling_someone_lazy", + "text": "Calling someone lazy" + }, + { + "id": "bringing_up_every_past_failure", + "text": "Bringing up every past failure" + }, + { + "id": "comparing_partners_to_parents", + "text": "Comparing partners to parents" + }, + { + "id": "treating_one_mess_as_a_character_flaw", + "text": "Treating one mess as a character flaw" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "talk_sooner", - "text": "Talk sooner" + "id": "calling_someone_lazy", + 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"Which agreements can reduce repeated chore arguments?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "agreements", + "chores", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "set_a_minimum_standard", + "text": "Set a minimum standard" + }, + { + "id": "name_recurring_owners", + "text": "Name recurring owners" + }, + { + "id": "agree_when_reminders_are_okay", + "text": "Agree when reminders are okay" + }, + { + "id": "review_the_plan_after_busy_weeks", + "text": "Review the plan after busy weeks" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "set_a_minimum_standard", + "text": "Set a minimum standard" + }, + { + "id": "name_recurring_owners", + "text": "Name recurring owners" + }, + { + "id": "agree_when_reminders_are_okay", + "text": "Agree when reminders are okay" + }, + { + "id": "review_the_plan_after_busy_weeks", + "text": "Review the plan after busy weeks" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_019", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Who should own a task that one person cares about much more?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "standards", + "fairness", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_person_with_the_stronger_preference", + "text": "The person with the stronger preference" + }, + { + "id": "the_person_with_more_time", + "text": "The person with more time" + }, + { + "id": "take_turns", + "text": "Take turns" + }, + { + "id": "decide_based_on_the_full_workload", + "text": "Decide based on the full workload" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_person_with_the_stronger_preference", + "text": "The person with the stronger preference" + }, + { + "id": "the_person_with_more_time", + "text": "The person with more time" + }, + { + "id": "take_turns", + "text": "Take turns" + }, + { + "id": "decide_based_on_the_full_workload", + "text": "Decide based on the full workload" } ] } }, { - "id": "home_life_173", + 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"home_life_026", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which planning tasks are easiest to forget because nobody sees them?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "mental_load", + "planning", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "checking_supplies", + "text": "Checking supplies" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_deadlines", + "text": "Remembering deadlines" + }, + { + "id": "scheduling_appointments", + "text": "Scheduling appointments" + }, + { + "id": "planning_what_happens_next", + "text": "Planning what happens next" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "checking_supplies", + "text": "Checking supplies" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_deadlines", + "text": "Remembering deadlines" + }, + { + "id": "scheduling_appointments", + "text": "Scheduling appointments" + }, + { + "id": "planning_what_happens_next", + "text": "Planning what happens next" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_027", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which household detail takes up the most brain space?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "free", + "tags": [ + "mental_load", + "preferences", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "meals", + "text": "Meals" + }, + { + "id": "appointments", + "text": "Appointments" + }, + { + "id": "repairs", + "text": "Repairs" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_track_of_what_is_running_low", + "text": "Keeping track of what is running low" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "meals", + "text": "Meals" + }, + { + "id": "appointments", + "text": "Appointments" + }, + { + "id": "repairs", + "text": "Repairs" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_track_of_what_is_running_low", + "text": "Keeping track of what is running low" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_028", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How balanced does the household planning load feel?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "free", + 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"text": "Returning items to one landing spot" + }, + { + "id": "taking_trash_out_before_it_overflows", + "text": "Taking trash out before it overflows" + }, + { + "id": "checking_tomorrow_s_schedule", + "text": "Checking tomorrow's schedule" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_058", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How comfortable are you with the current level of clutter at home?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "clutter", + "current_state", "home_life" ], "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "10_minute_timer", - "text": "10-minute timer" - }, - { - "id": "one_room", - "text": "One room" - }, - { - "id": "music", - "text": "Music" - }, - { - "id": "both_help", - "text": "Both help" - }, - { - "id": "lower_standards", - "text": "Lower standards" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very uncomfortable", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { - "id": "home_life_196", + "id": "home_life_059", "category_id": "home_life", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes home responsibilities feel like shared team points?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fairness", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_roles", - "text": "Clear roles" - }, - { - "id": "flexibility", - "text": "Flexibility" - }, - { - "id": "noticing_effort", - "text": "Noticing effort" - }, - { - "id": "rest_for_both", - "text": "Rest for both" - }, - { - "id": "no_scorekeeping", - "text": "No scorekeeping" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_197", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes home responsibilities feel like someone got stuck with the whole quest?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fairness", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "invisible_work", - "text": "Invisible work" - }, - { - "id": "uneven_load", - "text": "Uneven load" - }, - { - "id": "no_thanks", - "text": "No thanks" - }, - { - "id": "assumptions", - "text": "Assumptions" - }, - { - "id": "last_minute_pressure", - "text": "Last-minute pressure" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_198", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when the house has chosen chaos?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What helps a mess conversation stay about the space?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mess", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "communication", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "describe_the_practical_effect", + "text": "Describe the practical effect" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_is_realistic", + "text": "Ask what is realistic" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_labels_about_the_person", + "text": "Avoid labels about the person" + }, + { + "id": "choose_one_area_to_address", + "text": "Choose one area to address" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "one_reset", - "text": "One reset" + "id": "describe_the_practical_effect", + "text": "Describe the practical effect" }, { - "id": "no_blame", - "text": "No blame" + "id": "ask_what_is_realistic", + "text": "Ask what is realistic" }, { - "id": "pick_priorities", - "text": "Pick priorities" + "id": "avoid_labels_about_the_person", + "text": "Avoid labels about the person" }, { - "id": "do_it_together", - "text": "Do it together" - }, - { - "id": "laugh_a_little", - "text": "Laugh a little" + "id": "choose_one_area_to_address", + "text": "Choose one area to address" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4219,40 +2978,489 @@ } }, { - "id": "home_life_199", + "id": "home_life_060", "category_id": "home_life", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps during weeks when the house feels feral?", + "text": "Which spaces benefit most from a clear shared standard?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "standards", + "shared_spaces", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "kitchen_counters", + "text": "Kitchen counters" + }, + { + "id": "walkways", + "text": "Walkways" + }, + { + "id": "bathroom_surfaces", + "text": "Bathroom surfaces" + }, + { + "id": "entry_areas", + "text": "Entry areas" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kitchen_counters", + "text": "Kitchen counters" + }, + { + "id": "walkways", + "text": "Walkways" + }, + { + "id": "bathroom_surfaces", + "text": "Bathroom surfaces" + }, + { + "id": "entry_areas", + "text": "Entry areas" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_061", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is the best destination for an object nobody knows where to store?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "humor", + "organization", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_labeled_holding_bin", + "text": "A labeled holding bin" + }, + { + "id": "a_decision_pile", + "text": "A decision pile" + }, + { + "id": "the_person_who_owns_it", + "text": "The person who owns it" + }, + { + "id": "not_the_kitchen_counter_again", + "text": "Not the kitchen counter again" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_labeled_holding_bin", + "text": "A labeled holding bin" + }, + { + "id": "a_decision_pile", + "text": "A decision pile" + }, + { + "id": "the_person_who_owns_it", + "text": "The person who owns it" + }, + { + "id": "not_the_kitchen_counter_again", + "text": "Not the kitchen counter again" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_062", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make organizing systems hard to maintain?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "organization", + "systems", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_many_categories", + "text": "Too many categories" + }, + { + "id": "storage_far_from_where_items_are_used", + "text": "Storage far from where items are used" + }, + { + "id": "only_one_person_understands_the_system", + "text": "Only one person understands the system" + }, + { + "id": "the_system_requires_constant_perfection", + "text": "The system requires constant perfection" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_many_categories", + "text": "Too many categories" + }, + { + "id": "storage_far_from_where_items_are_used", + "text": "Storage far from where items are used" + }, + { + "id": "only_one_person_understands_the_system", + "text": "Only one person understands the system" + }, + { + "id": "the_system_requires_constant_perfection", + "text": "The system requires constant perfection" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_063", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which 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"written", + "text": "What is one part of the home you would most like to make easier to use?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "function", + "shared_spaces", + "home_life" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_065", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Keep fewer things or create better storage?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "organization", + "quick_choice", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_fewer_things", + "text": "Keep fewer things" + }, + { + "id": "create_better_storage", + "text": "Create better storage" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_fewer_things", + "text": "Keep fewer things" + }, + { + "id": "create_better_storage", + "text": "Create better storage" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_066", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which choices make decluttering feel respectful?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "belongings", + "respect", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_before_discarding_shared_items", + "text": "Ask before discarding shared items" + }, + { + "id": "let_the_owner_decide_personal_belongings", + "text": "Let the owner decide personal belongings" + }, + { + "id": "do_not_rush_sentimental_choices", + "text": "Do not rush sentimental choices" + }, + { + "id": "agree_on_limits_for_shared_storage", + "text": "Agree on limits for shared storage" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_before_discarding_shared_items", + "text": "Ask before discarding shared items" + }, + { + "id": "let_the_owner_decide_personal_belongings", + "text": "Let the owner decide personal belongings" + }, + { + "id": "do_not_rush_sentimental_choices", + "text": "Do not rush sentimental choices" + }, + { + "id": "agree_on_limits_for_shared_storage", + "text": "Agree on limits for shared storage" + } + ], + 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"text": "Food spills are handled promptly" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_068", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs suggest a reset plan is too ambitious?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "reset", + "capacity", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_requires_the_whole_day", + "text": "It requires the whole day" + }, + { + "id": "nobody_knows_where_to_begin", + "text": "Nobody knows where to begin" + }, + { + "id": "several_projects_are_opened_at_once", + "text": "Several projects are opened at once" + }, + { + "id": "the_plan_assumes_unlimited_energy", + "text": "The plan assumes unlimited energy" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_requires_the_whole_day", + "text": "It requires the whole day" + }, + { + "id": "nobody_knows_where_to_begin", + "text": "Nobody knows where to begin" + }, + { + "id": "several_projects_are_opened_at_once", + "text": "Several projects are opened at 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"expecting_one_person_to_notice_everything", + "text": "Expecting one person to notice everything" + }, + { + "id": "using_shame_as_motivation", + "text": "Using shame as motivation" + }, + { + "id": "treating_disorder_as_a_moral_failure", + "text": "Treating disorder as a moral failure" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "simple_meals", - "text": "Simple meals" + "id": "ignoring_pain_or_disability", + "text": "Ignoring pain or disability" }, { - "id": "short_resets", - "text": "Short resets" + "id": "expecting_one_person_to_notice_everything", + "text": "Expecting one person to notice everything" }, { - "id": "grace", - "text": "Grace" + "id": "using_shame_as_motivation", + "text": "Using shame as motivation" }, { - "id": "clear_plans", - "text": "Clear plans" - }, - { - "id": "lower_expectations", - "text": "Lower expectations" + "id": "treating_disorder_as_a_moral_failure", + "text": "Treating disorder as a moral failure" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4260,37 +3468,507 @@ } }, { - "id": "home_life_200", + "id": "home_life_071", "category_id": "home_life", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes meal time easier?", + "text": "How can we handle a room that serves too many purposes?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "shared_spaces", + "function", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "choose_its_main_use", + "text": "Choose its main use" + }, + { + "id": "create_simple_zones", + "text": "Create simple zones" + }, + { + "id": "store_occasional_items_elsewhere", + "text": "Store occasional items elsewhere" + }, + { + "id": "keep_pathways_and_essential_surfaces_clear", + "text": "Keep pathways and essential surfaces clear" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "choose_its_main_use", + "text": "Choose its main use" + }, + { + "id": "create_simple_zones", + "text": "Create simple zones" + }, + { + "id": "store_occasional_items_elsewhere", + "text": "Store occasional items elsewhere" + }, + { + "id": 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"text": "The bag meant to be donated" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_073", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a storage solution worth keeping?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "organization", + "systems", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "items_are_easy_to_return", + "text": "Items are easy to return" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_can_understand_it", + "text": "Both people can understand it" + }, + { + "id": "it_fits_the_available_space", + "text": "It fits the available space" + }, + { + "id": "it_reduces_daily_effort", + "text": "It reduces daily effort" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "items_are_easy_to_return", + "text": "Items are easy to return" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_can_understand_it", + "text": "Both people can understand it" + }, + { + "id": "it_fits_the_available_space", + "text": "It fits the available space" + }, + { + "id": "it_reduces_daily_effort", + 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"choosing_the_meal", + "text": "Choosing the meal" + }, + { + "id": "cooking", + "text": "Cooking" + }, + { + "id": "setting_up", + "text": "Setting up" + }, + { + "id": "cleaning_afterward", + "text": "Cleaning afterward" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_077", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which meal solves the most problems on a tired night?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "meals", + "low_energy", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "breakfast_for_dinner", + "text": "Breakfast for dinner" + }, + { + "id": "a_simple_sandwich_meal", + "text": "A simple sandwich meal" + }, + { + "id": "something_from_the_freezer", + "text": "Something from the freezer" + }, + { + "id": "everyone_builds_their_own_plate", + "text": "Everyone builds their own plate" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "breakfast_for_dinner", + "text": "Breakfast for dinner" + }, + { + "id": "a_simple_sandwich_meal", + "text": "A simple sandwich meal" + }, + { + "id": "something_from_the_freezer", + "text": "Something from the freezer" + }, + { + "id": "everyone_builds_their_own_plate", + "text": "Everyone builds their own plate" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_078", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Plan several meals ahead or decide one day at a time?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "meals", + "quick_choice", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "plan_several_meals_ahead", + "text": "Plan several meals ahead" + }, + { + "id": "decide_one_day_at_a_time", + "text": "Decide one day at a time" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "plan_several_meals_ahead", + "text": "Plan several meals ahead" + }, + { + "id": "decide_one_day_at_a_time", + "text": "Decide one day at a time" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_079", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes meal planning easier to repeat?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "meals", + "planning", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_short_list_of_reliable_meals", + "text": "A short list of reliable meals" + }, + { + "id": "checking_what_is_already_available", + "text": "Checking what is already available" + }, + { + "id": "planning_for_low_energy_days", + "text": "Planning for low-energy days" + }, + { + "id": "leaving_one_flexible_night", + "text": "Leaving one flexible night" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_short_list_of_reliable_meals", + "text": "A short list of reliable meals" + }, + { + "id": "checking_what_is_already_available", + "text": "Checking what is already available" + }, + { + "id": "planning_for_low_energy_days", + "text": "Planning for low-energy days" + }, + { + "id": "leaving_one_flexible_night", + "text": "Leaving one flexible night" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_080", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can food preferences be handled without one person planning separate lives?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "meals", + "differences", "home_life" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "build_meals_with_flexible_parts", + "text": "Build meals with flexible parts" + }, + { + "id": "alternate_favorites", + "text": "Alternate favorites" + }, + { + "id": "keep_simple_substitutes", + "text": "Keep simple substitutes" + }, + { + "id": "agree_which_differences_need_accommodation", + "text": "Agree which differences need accommodation" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "easy_options", - "text": "Easy options" + "id": "build_meals_with_flexible_parts", + "text": "Build meals with flexible parts" }, { - "id": "shared_favorites", - "text": "Shared favorites" + "id": "alternate_favorites", + "text": "Alternate favorites" }, { - "id": "prep_ahead", - "text": "Prep ahead" + "id": "keep_simple_substitutes", + "text": "Keep simple substitutes" }, { - "id": "takeout_sometimes", - "text": "Takeout sometimes" - }, - { - "id": "no_perfection", - "text": "No perfection" + "id": "agree_which_differences_need_accommodation", + "text": "Agree which differences need accommodation" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4298,37 +3976,103 @@ } }, { - "id": "home_life_201", + "id": "home_life_081", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kitchen task has the greatest ability to create seventeen more tasks?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "humor", + "kitchen", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "cooking_from_a_new_recipe", + "text": "Cooking from a new recipe" + }, + { + "id": "cleaning_the_refrigerator", + "text": "Cleaning the refrigerator" + }, + { + "id": "baking", + "text": "Baking" + }, + { + "id": "using_every_available_pan", + "text": "Using every available pan" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "cooking_from_a_new_recipe", + "text": "Cooking from a new recipe" + }, + { + "id": "cleaning_the_refrigerator", + "text": "Cleaning the refrigerator" + }, + { + "id": "baking", + "text": "Baking" + }, + { + "id": "using_every_available_pan", + "text": "Using every available pan" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_082", "category_id": "home_life", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes grocery runs better?", + "text": "Which grocery habits save the most household effort?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "groceries", + "systems", "home_life" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_shared_list", + "text": "One shared list" + }, + { + "id": "adding_items_when_they_run_low", + "text": "Adding items when they run low" + }, + { + "id": "grouping_errands", + "text": "Grouping errands" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_a_few_reliable_staples", + "text": "Keeping a few reliable staples" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "list", - "text": "List" + "id": "one_shared_list", + "text": "One shared list" }, { - "id": "snacks", - "text": "Snacks" + "id": "adding_items_when_they_run_low", + "text": "Adding items when they run low" }, { - "id": "music", - "text": "Music" + "id": "grouping_errands", + "text": "Grouping errands" }, { - "id": "divide_and_conquer", - "text": "Divide and conquer" - }, - { - "id": "coffee_first", - "text": "Coffee first" + "id": "keeping_a_few_reliable_staples", + "text": "Keeping a few reliable staples" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4336,277 +4080,386 @@ } }, { - "id": "home_life_202", + "id": "home_life_083", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How smoothly do meals and groceries work in our home?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "meals", + "groceries", + "current_state", + "home_life" + ], + "answer_config": { + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not smoothly", + "max_label": "Very smoothly" + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_084", "category_id": "home_life", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes errands more bearable?", + "text": "What helps grocery responsibility feel fully shared?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "groceries", + "ownership", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_people_add_needed_items", + "text": "Both people add needed items" + }, + { + "id": "the_shopper_is_not_expected_to_remember_everything", + "text": "The shopper is not expected to remember everything" + }, + { + "id": "unusual_requests_include_enough_detail", + "text": "Unusual requests include enough detail" + }, + { + "id": "putting_groceries_away_is_included", + "text": "Putting groceries away is included" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_people_add_needed_items", + "text": "Both people add needed items" + }, + { + "id": "the_shopper_is_not_expected_to_remember_everything", + "text": "The shopper is not expected to remember everything" + }, + { + "id": "unusual_requests_include_enough_detail", + "text": "Unusual requests include enough detail" + }, + { + "id": "putting_groceries_away_is_included", + "text": "Putting groceries away is included" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_085", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which home meals feel easiest to enjoy without extra work?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "meals", + "preferences", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_one_pot_meal", + "text": "A one-pot meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_snack_plate", + "text": "A snack plate" + }, + { + "id": "a_familiar_comfort_meal", + "text": "A familiar comfort meal" + }, + { + "id": "something_assembled_from_leftovers", + "text": "Something assembled from leftovers" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_one_pot_meal", + "text": "A one-pot meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_snack_plate", + "text": "A snack plate" + }, + { + "id": "a_familiar_comfort_meal", + "text": "A 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"Holding items headed elsewhere" + }, + { + "id": "serving_as_temporary_permanent_storage", + "text": "Serving as temporary permanent storage" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_087", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make cooking together frustrating?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "cooking", + "teamwork", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "unclear_roles", + "text": "Unclear roles" + }, + { + "id": "different_timing", + "text": "Different timing" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_directing_every_move", + "text": "One person directing every move" + }, + { + "id": "cleaning_expectations_appearing_at_the_end", + "text": "Cleaning expectations appearing at the end" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "unclear_roles", + "text": "Unclear roles" + }, + { + "id": "different_timing", + "text": "Different timing" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_directing_every_move", + "text": "One person directing 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"text": "Cleaning immediately" + }, + { + "id": "following_the_original_plan", + "text": "Following the original plan" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_089", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "written", + "text": "What is one home meal or food tradition that feels especially like us?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "meals", + "couple_lore", + "home_life" + ], + "answer_config": { + "max_length": 500 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_090", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Run errands together or divide the list?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "errands", + "quick_choice", "home_life" ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "good_playlist", - "text": "Good playlist" - }, - { - "id": "treat_after", - "text": "Treat after" - }, - { - "id": "doing_them_together", - "text": "Doing them together" - }, - { - "id": "quick_plan", - "text": "Quick plan" - }, - { 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3 + ] } }, { - "id": "home_life_204", + "id": "home_life_091", "category_id": "home_life", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes a home project go better besides snacks and optimism?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home_projects", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "budget", - "text": "Budget" - }, - { - "id": "pictures", - "text": "Pictures" - }, - { - "id": "one_project", - "text": "One project" - }, - { - "id": "shared_goal", - "text": "Shared goal" - }, - { - "id": "snack_breaks", - "text": "Snack breaks" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_205", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes home feel more romantic?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_lights", - "text": "Soft lights" - }, - { - "id": "clean_sheets", - "text": "Clean sheets" - }, - { - "id": "slow_dinner", - "text": "Slow dinner" - }, - { - "id": "music", - "text": "Music" - }, - { - "id": "couch_time", - "text": "Couch time" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_206", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes home feel more playful?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "play", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "silly_names", - "text": "Silly names" - }, - { - "id": "inside_jokes", - "text": "Inside jokes" - }, - { - "id": "music", - "text": "Music" - }, - { - "id": "snack_missions", - "text": "Snack missions" - }, - { - "id": "fake_awards", - "text": "Fake awards" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_207", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps private space feel respected without making it a 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"id": "any_deadline", + "text": "Any deadline" + }, + { + "id": "useful_details", + "text": "Useful details" + }, + { + "id": "who_handles_follow_up_if_something_is_unavailable", + "text": "Who handles follow-up if something is unavailable" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "clean_enough", - "text": "Clean enough" + "id": "the_exact_item_or_outcome", + "text": "The exact item or outcome" }, { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" + "id": "any_deadline", + "text": "Any deadline" }, { - "id": "both_styles", - "text": "Both styles" + "id": "useful_details", + "text": "Useful details" }, { - "id": "shared_rituals", - "text": "Shared rituals" - }, - { - "id": "good_lighting", - "text": "Good lighting" + "id": "who_handles_follow_up_if_something_is_unavailable", + "text": "Who handles follow-up if something is unavailable" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4614,75 +4467,103 @@ } }, { - "id": "home_life_209", + "id": "home_life_092", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What home rituals sound doable?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which errand is most likely to require an unnecessary second trip?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rituals", + "humor", + "errands", "home_life" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "hardware_store", + "text": "Hardware store" + }, + { + "id": "grocery_store", + "text": "Grocery store" + }, + { + "id": "pharmacy", + "text": "Pharmacy" + }, + { + "id": "returning_something_without_the_receipt", + "text": "Returning something without the receipt" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "sunday_reset", - "text": "Sunday reset" + "id": "hardware_store", + "text": "Hardware store" }, { - "id": "movie_night", - "text": "Movie night" + "id": "grocery_store", + "text": "Grocery store" }, { - "id": "tea_time", - "text": "Tea time" + "id": "pharmacy", + "text": "Pharmacy" }, { - "id": "tiny_toast", - "text": "Tiny toast" - }, - { - "id": "morning_check_in", - "text": "Morning check-in" + "id": "returning_something_without_the_receipt", + "text": "Returning something without the receipt" } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 + ] } }, { - "id": "home_life_210", + "id": "home_life_093", "category_id": "home_life", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should get a home-life fake award?", + "text": "Which errands are easiest to batch together?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fun_first", + "errands", + "planning", "home_life" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "groceries_and_household_supplies", + "text": "Groceries and household supplies" + }, + { + "id": "returns_and_pickups", + "text": "Returns and pickups" + }, + { + "id": "appointments_in_the_same_area", + "text": "Appointments in the same area" + }, + { + "id": "anything_with_similar_timing", + "text": "Anything with similar timing" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "best_chore_save", - "text": "Best chore save" + "id": "groceries_and_household_supplies", + "text": "Groceries and household supplies" }, { - "id": "best_snack", - "text": "Best snack" + "id": "returns_and_pickups", + "text": "Returns and pickups" }, { - "id": "best_cozy_spot", - "text": "Best cozy spot" + "id": "appointments_in_the_same_area", + "text": "Appointments in the same area" }, { - "id": "best_errand_buddy", - "text": "Best errand buddy" - }, - { - "id": "best_reset", - "text": "Best reset" + "id": "anything_with_similar_timing", + "text": "Anything with similar timing" } ], "min_selections": 1, @@ -4690,204 +4571,771 @@ } }, { - "id": "home_life_211", + "id": "home_life_094", "category_id": "home_life", "type": "scale", - "text": "How cozy does home feel lately?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "cozy", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not cozy", - "max_label": "Very cozy" - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_212", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How fun does home life feel?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not fun", - "max_label": "Very fun" - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_213", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How peaceful does home feel after a long day?", + "text": "How fair does the meal-and-errand workload feel?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "peace", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not peaceful", - "max_label": "Very peaceful" - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_214", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How appreciated do you feel for what you do at home?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "appreciation", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not appreciated", - "max_label": "Very appreciated" - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_215", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How fair do chores feel right now?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "chores", "fairness", + "current_state", "home_life" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not fair", + "min_label": "Very uneven", "max_label": "Very fair" } }, { - "id": "home_life_216", + "id": "home_life_095", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would a tiny home ritual help us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which food-responsibility patterns become unfair over time?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rituals", + "meals", + "fairness", "home_life" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_person_plans_every_meal", + "text": "One person plans every meal" + }, + { + "id": "dietary_needs_are_dismissed", + "text": "Dietary needs are dismissed" + }, + { + "id": "cooking_and_cleanup_are_counted_as_one_person_s_job", + "text": "Cooking and cleanup are counted as one person's job" + }, + { + "id": "complaints_outnumber_help", + "text": "Complaints outnumber help" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_person_plans_every_meal", + "text": "One person plans every meal" + }, + { + "id": "dietary_needs_are_dismissed", + "text": "Dietary needs are dismissed" + }, + { + "id": "cooking_and_cleanup_are_counted_as_one_person_s_job", + "text": "Cooking and cleanup are counted as one person's job" + }, + { + "id": "complaints_outnumber_help", + "text": "Complaints outnumber help" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "home_life_217", + "id": "home_life_096", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does home feel like our little team?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can leftovers become useful instead of mysterious?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teamwork", + "food_storage", + "systems", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "label_them", + "text": "Label them" + }, + { + "id": "keep_them_visible", + "text": "Keep them visible" + }, + { + "id": "choose_a_leftover_night", + "text": "Choose a leftover night" + }, + { + "id": "discard_food_that_is_no_longer_safe", + "text": "Discard food that is no longer safe" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "label_them", + "text": "Label them" + }, + { + "id": "keep_them_visible", + "text": "Keep them visible" + }, + { + "id": "choose_a_leftover_night", + "text": "Choose a leftover night" + }, + { + "id": "discard_food_that_is_no_longer_safe", + "text": "Discard food that is no longer safe" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_097", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is the best response when nobody wants to decide dinner?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "meals", + "decision_making", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_a_default_meal", + "text": "Use a default meal" + }, + { + "id": "choose_from_three_options", + "text": "Choose from three options" + }, + { + "id": "let_the_person_cooking_decide", + "text": "Let the person cooking decide" + }, + { + "id": "accept_that_cereal_has_entered_the_conversation", + "text": "Accept that cereal has entered the conversation" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_a_default_meal", + "text": "Use a default meal" + }, + { + "id": "choose_from_three_options", + "text": "Choose from three options" + }, + { + "id": "let_the_person_cooking_decide", + "text": "Let the person cooking decide" + }, + { + "id": "accept_that_cereal_has_entered_the_conversation", + "text": "Accept that cereal has entered the conversation" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_098", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which details make hosting at home easier?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "guests", + "hosting", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_clear_start_time", + "text": "A clear start time" + }, + { + "id": "simple_food", + "text": "Simple food" + }, + { + "id": "a_realistic_cleanup_plan", + "text": "A realistic cleanup plan" + }, + { + "id": "agreement_about_which_rooms_are_private", + "text": "Agreement about which rooms are private" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_clear_start_time", + "text": "A clear start time" + }, + { + "id": "simple_food", + "text": "Simple food" + }, + { + "id": "a_realistic_cleanup_plan", + "text": "A realistic cleanup plan" + }, + { + "id": "agreement_about_which_rooms_are_private", + "text": "Agreement about which rooms are private" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_099", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make guests feel like a household burden?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "guests", + "fairness", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_partner_invites_without_asking", + "text": "One partner invites without asking" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_does_all_preparation", + "text": "One person does all preparation" + }, + { + "id": "visits_have_no_clear_end", + "text": "Visits have no clear end" + }, + { + "id": "private_space_is_treated_as_public", + "text": "Private space is treated as public" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_partner_invites_without_asking", + "text": "One partner invites without asking" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_does_all_preparation", + "text": "One person does all preparation" + }, + { + "id": "visits_have_no_clear_end", + "text": "Visits have no clear end" + }, + { + "id": "private_space_is_treated_as_public", + "text": "Private space is treated as public" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_100", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps home hospitality fit our actual capacity?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "guests", + "capacity", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "choose_smaller_gatherings", + "text": "Choose smaller gatherings" + }, + { + "id": "use_simpler_food", + "text": "Use simpler food" + }, + { + "id": "share_preparation_and_cleanup", + "text": "Share preparation and cleanup" + }, + { + "id": "decline_or_shorten_visits_when_needed", + "text": "Decline or shorten visits when needed" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "choose_smaller_gatherings", + "text": "Choose smaller gatherings" + }, + { + "id": "use_simpler_food", + "text": "Use simpler food" + }, + { + "id": "share_preparation_and_cleanup", + "text": "Share preparation and cleanup" + }, + { + "id": "decline_or_shorten_visits_when_needed", + "text": "Decline or shorten visits when needed" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_101", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which shared spaces need the clearest household rules?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "shared_spaces", + "agreements", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "kitchen", + "text": "Kitchen" + }, + { + "id": "bathroom", + "text": "Bathroom" + }, + { + "id": "living_room", + "text": "Living room" + }, + { + "id": "entry_area", + "text": "Entry area" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "kitchen", + "text": "Kitchen" + }, + { + "id": "bathroom", + "text": "Bathroom" + }, + { + "id": "living_room", + "text": "Living room" + }, + { + "id": "entry_area", + "text": "Entry area" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_102", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which room most needs a reliable place for personal items?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "shared_spaces", + "organization", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "bedroom", + "text": "Bedroom" + }, + { + "id": "bathroom", + "text": "Bathroom" + }, + { + "id": "entryway", + "text": "Entryway" + }, + { + "id": "living_room", + "text": "Living room" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "bedroom", + "text": "Bedroom" + }, + { + "id": "bathroom", + "text": "Bathroom" + }, + { + "id": "entryway", + "text": "Entryway" + }, + { + "id": "living_room", + "text": "Living room" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_103", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "One shared style or room for each person's taste?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "home_style", + "quick_choice", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_shared_style", + "text": "One shared style" + }, + { + "id": "room_for_each_person_s_taste", + "text": "Room for each person's taste" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_shared_style", + "text": "One shared style" + }, + { + "id": "room_for_each_person_s_taste", + "text": "Room for each person's taste" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_104", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a shared room easier for both people to use?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "shared_spaces", + "function", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_pathways", + "text": "Clear pathways" + }, + { + "id": "enough_storage", + "text": "Enough storage" + }, + { + "id": "comfortable_seating", + "text": "Comfortable seating" + }, + { + "id": "a_place_for_frequently_used_items", + "text": "A place for frequently used items" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "clear_pathways", + "text": "Clear pathways" + }, + { + "id": "enough_storage", + "text": "Enough storage" + }, + { + "id": "comfortable_seating", + "text": "Comfortable seating" + }, + { + "id": "a_place_for_frequently_used_items", + "text": "A place for frequently used items" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_105", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How respected does your need for private space feel at home?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "privacy", + "current_state", "home_life" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" + "min_label": "Not respected enough", + "max_label": "Very respected" } }, { - "id": "home_life_218", + "id": "home_life_106", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to talk about chores without summoning a thundercloud?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which home noises are worth discussing before they become irritating?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "chores", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "noise", + "sensory", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "television_volume", + "text": "Television volume" + }, + { + "id": "phone_audio", + "text": "Phone audio" + }, + { + "id": "appliances_at_night", + "text": "Appliances at night" + }, + { + "id": "early_morning_activity", + "text": "Early-morning activity" + } ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" + "options": [ + { + "id": "television_volume", + "text": "Television volume" + }, + { + "id": "phone_audio", + "text": "Phone audio" + }, + { + "id": "appliances_at_night", + "text": "Appliances at night" + }, + { + "id": "early_morning_activity", + "text": "Early-morning activity" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "home_life_219", + "id": "home_life_107", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does mess boss your mood around?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which household sound has the strongest ability to ruin a peaceful moment?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "mess", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "humor", + "noise", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_smoke_alarm_needing_a_battery", + "text": "A smoke alarm needing a battery" + }, + { + "id": "a_vibrating_appliance", + "text": "A vibrating appliance" + }, + { + "id": "a_cabinet_door_slamming", + "text": "A cabinet door slamming" + }, + { + "id": "someone_opening_a_loud_snack_bag", + "text": "Someone opening a loud snack bag" + } ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_smoke_alarm_needing_a_battery", + "text": "A smoke alarm needing a battery" + }, + { + "id": "a_vibrating_appliance", + "text": "A vibrating appliance" + }, + { + "id": "a_cabinet_door_slamming", + "text": "A cabinet door slamming" + }, + { + "id": "someone_opening_a_loud_snack_bag", + "text": "Someone opening a loud snack bag" + } + ] } }, { - "id": "home_life_220", + "id": "home_life_108", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we rescue the house after busy weeks?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can we handle different temperature preferences fairly?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "reset", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "temperature", + "comfort", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_personal_blankets_or_fans", + "text": "Use personal blankets or fans" + }, + { + "id": "protect_sleep_comfort", + "text": "Protect sleep comfort" + }, + { + "id": "choose_room_by_room_solutions", + "text": "Choose room-by-room solutions" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_treating_one_preference_as_unreasonable", + "text": "Avoid treating one preference as unreasonable" + } ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" + "options": [ + { + "id": "use_personal_blankets_or_fans", + "text": "Use personal blankets or fans" + }, + { + "id": "protect_sleep_comfort", + "text": "Protect sleep comfort" + }, + { + "id": "choose_room_by_room_solutions", + "text": "Choose room-by-room solutions" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_treating_one_preference_as_unreasonable", + "text": "Avoid treating one preference as unreasonable" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "home_life_221", + "id": "home_life_109", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which features make a home easier to rest in?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "rest", + "comfort", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_comfortable_place_to_sit", + "text": "A comfortable place to sit" + }, + { + "id": "manageable_noise", + "text": "Manageable noise" + }, + { + "id": "useful_lighting", + "text": "Useful lighting" + }, + { + "id": "permission_for_some_tasks_to_wait", + "text": "Permission for some tasks to wait" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_comfortable_place_to_sit", + "text": "A comfortable place to sit" + }, + { + "id": "manageable_noise", + "text": "Manageable noise" + }, + { + "id": "useful_lighting", + "text": "Useful lighting" + }, + { + "id": "permission_for_some_tasks_to_wait", + "text": "Permission for some tasks to wait" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_110", "category_id": "home_life", "type": "scale", - "text": "How restful does home feel?", + "text": "How restful does home feel after a demanding day?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rest", + "current_state", "home_life" ], "answer_config": { @@ -4898,648 +5346,1898 @@ } }, { - "id": "home_life_222", + "id": "home_life_111", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How playful do chores feel?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which sensory details can affect home comfort more than expected?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "sensory", + "comfort", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "strong_smells", + "text": "Strong smells" + }, + { + "id": "bright_lighting", + "text": "Bright lighting" + }, + { + "id": "background_noise", + "text": "Background noise" + }, + { + "id": "scratchy_or_crowded_spaces", + "text": "Scratchy or crowded spaces" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "strong_smells", + "text": "Strong smells" + }, + { + "id": "bright_lighting", + "text": "Bright lighting" + }, + { + "id": "background_noise", + "text": "Background noise" + }, + { + "id": "scratchy_or_crowded_spaces", + "text": "Scratchy or crowded spaces" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_112", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which home comfort upgrade gives the biggest return for the least effort?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "chores", - "play", + "comfort", + "preferences", "home_life" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "better_lighting", + "text": "Better lighting" + }, + { + "id": "a_comfortable_chair", + "text": "A comfortable chair" + }, + { + "id": "a_quieter_room", + "text": "A quieter room" + }, + { + "id": "a_more_useful_storage_spot", + "text": "A more useful storage spot" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not playful", - "max_label": "Very playful" + "options": [ + { + "id": "better_lighting", + "text": "Better lighting" + }, + { + "id": "a_comfortable_chair", + "text": "A comfortable chair" + }, + { + "id": "a_quieter_room", + "text": "A quieter room" + }, + { + "id": "a_more_useful_storage_spot", + "text": "A more useful storage spot" + } + ] } }, { - "id": "home_life_223", + "id": "home_life_113", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do errands drain us?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps personal belongings stay respected in shared spaces?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "errands", + "belongings", + "privacy", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_before_moving_them", + "text": "Ask before moving them" + }, + { + "id": "agree_where_shared_surfaces_must_stay_clear", + "text": "Agree where shared surfaces must stay clear" + }, + { + "id": "give_each_person_storage", + "text": "Give each person storage" + }, + { + "id": "do_not_discard_items_without_permission", + "text": "Do not discard items without permission" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_before_moving_them", + "text": "Ask before moving them" + }, + { + "id": "agree_where_shared_surfaces_must_stay_clear", + "text": "Agree where shared surfaces must stay clear" + }, + { + "id": "give_each_person_storage", + "text": "Give each person storage" + }, + { + "id": "do_not_discard_items_without_permission", + "text": "Do not discard items without permission" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_114", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "A quiet house or a house with background sound?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "noise", + "quick_choice", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_quiet_house", + "text": "A quiet house" + }, + { + "id": "a_house_with_background_sound", + "text": "A house with background sound" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_quiet_house", + "text": "A quiet house" + }, + { + "id": "a_house_with_background_sound", + "text": "A house with background sound" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_115", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make alone time at home feel easier to request?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "alone_time", + "privacy", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simple_phrase", + "text": "A simple phrase" + }, + { + "id": "no_assumption_that_something_is_wrong", + "text": "No assumption that something is wrong" + }, + { + "id": "a_known_place_to_retreat", + "text": "A known place to retreat" + }, + { + "id": "a_natural_way_to_reconnect_later", + "text": "A natural way to reconnect later" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simple_phrase", + "text": "A simple phrase" + }, + { + "id": "no_assumption_that_something_is_wrong", + "text": "No assumption that something is wrong" + }, + { + "id": "a_known_place_to_retreat", + "text": "A known place to retreat" + }, + { + "id": "a_natural_way_to_reconnect_later", + "text": "A natural way to reconnect later" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_116", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which home areas should remain easy to access at all times?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "accessibility", + "safety", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "walkways", + "text": "Walkways" + }, + { + "id": "bathrooms", + "text": "Bathrooms" + }, + { + "id": "medication_or_medical_supplies", + "text": "Medication or medical supplies" + }, + { + "id": "emergency_exits", + "text": "Emergency exits" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "walkways", + "text": "Walkways" + }, + { + "id": "bathrooms", + "text": "Bathrooms" + }, + { + "id": "medication_or_medical_supplies", + "text": "Medication or medical supplies" + }, + { + "id": "emergency_exits", + "text": "Emergency exits" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_117", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which shared-space problem has the most predictable ending?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "humor", + "shared_spaces", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_chair_covered_in_clothes", + "text": "The chair covered in clothes" + }, + { + "id": "the_counter_used_as_storage", + "text": "The counter used as storage" + }, + { + "id": "the_drawer_nobody_can_close", + "text": "The drawer nobody can close" + }, + { + "id": "the_table_that_has_forgotten_it_is_a_table", + "text": "The table that has forgotten it is a table" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_chair_covered_in_clothes", + "text": "The chair covered in clothes" + }, + { + "id": "the_counter_used_as_storage", + "text": "The counter used as storage" + }, + { + "id": "the_drawer_nobody_can_close", + "text": "The drawer nobody can close" + }, + { + "id": "the_table_that_has_forgotten_it_is_a_table", + "text": "The table that has forgotten it is a table" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_118", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well does our home support each person's physical needs?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "accessibility", + "current_state", "home_life" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_224", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we give home life the easy button?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "simplicity", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", + "min_label": "Not well enough", "max_label": "Very well" } }, { - "id": "home_life_225", + "id": "home_life_119", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to ask for backup at home?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "help", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_226", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we notice the invisible home magic?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "invisible_work", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_227", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How welcoming does our home feel?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a home adapt when pain, fatigue, or mobility changes?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "welcoming", + "accessibility", + "capacity", "home_life" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "move_frequently_used_items_closer", + "text": "Move frequently used items closer" + }, + { + "id": "reduce_lifting_and_bending", + "text": "Reduce lifting and bending" + }, + { + "id": "add_seating_where_needed", + "text": "Add seating where needed" + }, + { + "id": "change_routines_without_shame", + "text": "Change routines without shame" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not welcoming", - "max_label": "Very welcoming" + "options": [ + { + "id": "move_frequently_used_items_closer", + "text": "Move frequently used items closer" + }, + { + "id": "reduce_lifting_and_bending", + "text": "Reduce lifting and bending" + }, + { + "id": "add_seating_where_needed", + "text": "Add seating where needed" + }, + { + "id": "change_routines_without_shame", + "text": "Change routines without shame" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "home_life_228", + "id": "home_life_120", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How private and protected does home feel?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which patterns can make private space feel controlled?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "privacy", + "warning_signs", "home_life" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "entering_without_asking", + "text": "Entering without asking" + }, + { + "id": "searching_personal_storage", + "text": "Searching personal storage" + }, + { + "id": "treating_closed_doors_as_suspicious", + "text": "Treating closed doors as suspicious" + }, + { + "id": "refusing_any_place_that_belongs_mainly_to_one_person", + "text": "Refusing any place that belongs mainly to one person" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not protected", - "max_label": "Very protected" + "options": [ + { + "id": "entering_without_asking", + "text": "Entering without asking" + }, + { + "id": "searching_personal_storage", + "text": "Searching personal storage" + }, + { + "id": "treating_closed_doors_as_suspicious", + "text": "Treating closed doors as suspicious" + }, + { + "id": "refusing_any_place_that_belongs_mainly_to_one_person", + "text": "Refusing any place that belongs mainly to one person" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "home_life_229", + "id": "home_life_121", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How romantic does home feel lately?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is the fairest use of the most comfortable seat?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance", + "humor", + "comfort", "home_life" ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not romantic", - "max_label": "Very romantic" - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_230", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we need more cozy time?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "cozy", - "home_life" + "options": [ + { + "id": "take_turns", + "text": "Take turns" + }, + { + "id": "use_it_based_on_physical_need", + "text": "Use it based on physical need" + }, + { + "id": "first_person_there_wins", + "text": "First person there wins" + }, + { + "id": "acquire_another_comfortable_seat_before_negotiations_collapse", + "text": "Acquire another comfortable seat before negotiations collapse" + } ], "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" + "options": [ + { + "id": "take_turns", + "text": "Take turns" + }, + { + "id": "use_it_based_on_physical_need", + "text": "Use it based on physical need" + }, + { + "id": "first_person_there_wins", + "text": "First person there wins" + }, + { + "id": "acquire_another_comfortable_seat_before_negotiations_collapse", + "text": "Acquire another comfortable seat before negotiations collapse" + } + ] } }, { - "id": "home_life_231", + "id": "home_life_122", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does our home need less chaos and more easy buttons?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "systems", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_232", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we need more silly home moments?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_233", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we handle visitors without turning into stress goblins?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "hosting", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_234", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does home life feel like it is helping our love story?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "relationship", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_235", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How hopeful do you feel about making home life easier?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can guest plans protect household privacy?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hope", + "guests", + "privacy", "home_life" ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not hopeful", - "max_label": "Very hopeful" - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_236", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Cozy reset or silly reset?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "reset", - "fun_first", - "home_life" + "options": [ + { + "id": "agree_which_rooms_are_private", + "text": "Agree which rooms are private" + }, + { + "id": "give_notice_when_possible", + "text": "Give notice when possible" + }, + { + "id": "set_a_realistic_end_time", + "text": "Set a realistic end time" + }, + { + "id": "do_not_volunteer_personal_belongings_or_stories", + "text": "Do not volunteer personal belongings or stories" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "cozy_reset", - "text": "Cozy reset" + "id": "agree_which_rooms_are_private", + "text": "Agree which rooms are private" }, { - "id": "silly_reset", - "text": "Silly reset" + "id": "give_notice_when_possible", + "text": "Give notice when possible" + }, + { + "id": "set_a_realistic_end_time", + "text": "Set a realistic end time" + }, + { + "id": "do_not_volunteer_personal_belongings_or_stories", + "text": "Do not volunteer personal belongings or stories" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "home_life_237", + "id": "home_life_123", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Music chores or quiet chores?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "chores", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "music_chores", - "text": "Music chores" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_chores", - "text": "Quiet chores" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_238", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Movie night or snack night?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "date_night", - "home_life" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "movie_night", - "text": "Movie night" - }, - { - "id": "snack_night", - "text": "Snack night" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_239", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Rescue the house first or rest our souls first?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which home conditions can make rest feel impossible?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rest", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clean_first", - "text": "Clean first" - }, - { - "id": "rest_first", - "text": "Rest first" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_240", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Cook together or order in?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "meals", + "warning_signs", "home_life" ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cook_together", - "text": "Cook together" - }, - { - "id": "order_in", - "text": "Order in" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_241", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Sunday reset or Friday reset?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rituals", - "home_life" + "options": [ + { + "id": "every_pause_is_interrupted_by_tasks", + "text": "Every pause is interrupted by tasks" + }, + { + "id": "noise_never_stops", + "text": "Noise never stops" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_must_stay_available", + "text": "One person must stay available" + }, + { + "id": "rest_is_treated_as_laziness", + "text": "Rest is treated as laziness" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "sunday_reset", - "text": "Sunday reset" + "id": "every_pause_is_interrupted_by_tasks", + "text": "Every pause is interrupted by tasks" }, { - "id": "friday_reset", - "text": "Friday reset" + "id": "noise_never_stops", + "text": "Noise never stops" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_must_stay_available", + "text": "One person must stay available" + }, + { + "id": "rest_is_treated_as_laziness", + "text": "Rest is treated as laziness" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "home_life_242", + "id": "home_life_124", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "One big home quest or tiny upgrades?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a comfort request easier to take seriously?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "home_projects", - "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "big_project", - "text": "One big project" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_upgrades", - "text": "Tiny upgrades" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_243", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Errand date or home date?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "errands", - "date_night", + "comfort", + "communication", "home_life" ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "errand_date", - "text": "Errand date" - }, - { - "id": "home_date", - "text": "Home date" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "home_life_244", - "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Cozy corner or clear counter?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home", - "home_life" + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_names_the_practical_problem", + "text": "It names the practical problem" + }, + { + "id": "the_request_is_specific", + "text": "The request is specific" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_s_needs_are_considered", + "text": "Both people's needs are considered" + }, + { + "id": "the_solution_can_be_tested_and_adjusted", + "text": "The solution can be tested and adjusted" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "cozy_corner", - "text": "Cozy corner" + "id": "it_names_the_practical_problem", + "text": "It names the practical problem" }, { - "id": "clear_counter", - "text": "Clear counter" + "id": "the_request_is_specific", + "text": "The request is specific" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_s_needs_are_considered", + "text": "Both people's needs are considered" + }, + { + "id": "the_solution_can_be_tested_and_adjusted", + "text": "The solution can be tested and adjusted" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "home_life_245", + "id": "home_life_125", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Chore quest list or choose-as-we-go?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should guide decisions about shared-space comfort?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "chores", + "shared_spaces", + "fairness", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "health_and_safety_first", + "text": "Health and safety first" + }, + { + "id": "each_person_s_actual_use_of_the_space", + "text": "Each person's actual use of the space" + }, + { + "id": "reasonable_compromise", + "text": "Reasonable compromise" + }, + { + "id": "no_one_having_to_suffer_silently", + "text": "No one having to suffer silently" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "health_and_safety_first", + "text": "Health and safety first" + }, + { + "id": "each_person_s_actual_use_of_the_space", + "text": "Each person's actual use of the space" + }, + { + "id": "reasonable_compromise", + "text": "Reasonable compromise" + }, + { + "id": "no_one_having_to_suffer_silently", + "text": "No one having to suffer silently" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_126", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which maintenance habits prevent the most household trouble?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "maintenance", + "prevention", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "replacing_filters", + "text": "Replacing filters" + }, + { + "id": "checking_leaks", + "text": "Checking leaks" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_basic_tools_together", + "text": "Keeping basic tools together" + }, + { + "id": "handling_small_damage_early", + "text": "Handling small damage early" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "replacing_filters", + "text": "Replacing filters" + }, + { + "id": "checking_leaks", + "text": "Checking leaks" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_basic_tools_together", + "text": "Keeping basic tools together" + }, + { + "id": "handling_small_damage_early", + "text": "Handling small damage early" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_127", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which repair is most likely to remain temporary for several years?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "humor", + "maintenance", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "tape_on_something", + "text": "Tape on something" + }, + { + "id": "a_towel_under_a_leak", + "text": "A towel under a leak" + 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"home_life_131", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Fix a daily annoyance or improve how a room looks?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "projects", + "quick_choice", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "fix_a_daily_annoyance", + "text": "Fix a daily annoyance" + }, + { + "id": "improve_how_a_room_looks", + "text": "Improve how a room looks" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fix_a_daily_annoyance", + "text": "Fix a daily annoyance" + }, + { + "id": "improve_how_a_room_looks", + "text": "Improve how a room looks" + } + ] + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_132", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which home project deserves the smallest possible first step?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "projects", + "planning", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "organizing_a_storage_area", + "text": "Organizing a storage area" + }, + { + "id": 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"home_life_247", + "id": "home_life_140", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Practical home or a little bit magical home?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which small home improvements can have an outsized effect?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "home", + "improvements", + "function", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "better_lighting", + "text": "Better lighting" + }, + { + "id": "a_working_landing_spot", + "text": "A working landing spot" + }, + { + "id": "more_accessible_storage", + "text": "More accessible storage" + }, + { + "id": "repairing_one_repeated_irritation", + "text": "Repairing one repeated irritation" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "better_lighting", + "text": "Better lighting" + }, + { + "id": "a_working_landing_spot", + "text": "A working landing spot" + }, + { + "id": "more_accessible_storage", + "text": "More accessible storage" + }, + { + "id": 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"questions_are_mocked", + "text": "Questions are mocked" + }, + { + "id": "the_capable_person_keeps_every_task_to_stay_indispensable", + "text": "The capable person keeps every task to stay indispensable" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "one_person_refuses_all_other_methods", + "text": "One person refuses all other methods" + }, + { + "id": "information_is_withheld", + "text": "Information is withheld" + }, + { + "id": "questions_are_mocked", + "text": "Questions are mocked" + }, + { + "id": "the_capable_person_keeps_every_task_to_stay_indispensable", + "text": "The capable person keeps every task to stay indispensable" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_143", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which sign best shows that home life has improved?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "progress", "home_life", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "fewer_repeated_arguments", + "text": "Fewer repeated arguments" + }, + { + "id": "tasks_are_easier_to_find_and_finish", + "text": "Tasks are easier to find and finish" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_rest_more", + "text": "Both people rest more" + }, + { + "id": "problems_are_handled_earlier", + "text": "Problems are handled earlier" + } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "practical", - "text": "Practical home" + "id": "fewer_repeated_arguments", + "text": "Fewer repeated arguments" }, { - "id": "magical", - "text": "Magical home" + "id": "tasks_are_easier_to_find_and_finish", + "text": "Tasks are easier to find and finish" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_rest_more", + "text": "Both people rest more" + }, + { + "id": "problems_are_handled_earlier", + "text": "Problems are handled earlier" } ] } }, { - "id": "home_life_248", + "id": "home_life_144", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Snack break or chore sprint?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps us repair a household pattern that stopped working?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "fun_first", + "repair", + "systems", "home_life" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_the_practical_failure", + "text": "Name the practical failure" + }, + { + "id": "change_one_step_at_a_time", + "text": "Change one step at a time" + }, + { + "id": "test_the_new_plan", + "text": "Test the new plan" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_blaming_the_person_who_struggled", + "text": "Avoid blaming the person who struggled" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "snack_break", - "text": "Snack break" + "id": "name_the_practical_failure", + "text": "Name the practical failure" }, { - "id": "chore_sprint", - "text": "Chore sprint" + "id": "change_one_step_at_a_time", + "text": "Change one step at a time" + }, + { + "id": "test_the_new_plan", + "text": "Test the new plan" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_blaming_the_person_who_struggled", + 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"text": "Noticing a problem early" + }, + { + "id": "making_the_home_easier_for_someone_else", + "text": "Making the home easier for someone else" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_146", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make appreciation at home feel hollow?", + "depth": 3, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "appreciation", + "warning_signs", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "thanks_replaces_actual_help", + "text": "Thanks replaces actual help" + }, + { + "id": "praise_appears_only_after_conflict", + "text": "Praise appears only after conflict" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_s_work_stays_invisible", + "text": "One person's work stays invisible" + }, + { + "id": "recognition_is_used_to_avoid_changing_an_unfair_split", + "text": "Recognition is used to avoid changing an unfair split" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "thanks_replaces_actual_help", + "text": "Thanks replaces actual help" + }, + { + "id": "praise_appears_only_after_conflict", + "text": "Praise appears only after conflict" + }, + { + "id": "one_person_s_work_stays_invisible", + "text": "One person's work stays invisible" + }, + { + "id": "recognition_is_used_to_avoid_changing_an_unfair_split", + "text": "Recognition is used to avoid changing an unfair split" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_147", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which home-life achievement deserves an absurd trophy?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "humor", + "wins", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_fully_clear_laundry_chair", + "text": "A fully clear laundry chair" + }, + { + "id": "a_refrigerator_with_matching_lids", + "text": "A refrigerator with matching lids" + }, + { + "id": "a_repair_finished_on_the_first_trip", + "text": "A repair finished on the first trip" + }, + { + "id": "a_week_without_losing_the_tape_measure", + "text": "A week without losing the tape measure" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_fully_clear_laundry_chair", + "text": "A fully clear laundry chair" + }, + { + "id": "a_refrigerator_with_matching_lids", + "text": "A refrigerator with matching lids" + }, + { + "id": "a_repair_finished_on_the_first_trip", + "text": "A repair finished on the first trip" + }, + { + "id": "a_week_without_losing_the_tape_measure", + "text": "A week without losing the tape measure" } ] } }, { - "id": "home_life_249", + "id": "home_life_148", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Soft lights or fresh sheets?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can household roles change without creating resentment?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance", + "roles", + "change", "home_life" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "discuss_the_reason", + "text": "Discuss the reason" + }, + { + "id": "make_the_change_temporary_when_appropriate", + "text": "Make the change temporary when appropriate" + }, + { + "id": "rebalance_other_work", + "text": "Rebalance other work" + }, + { + "id": "review_whether_the_new_split_still_feels_fair", + "text": "Review whether the new split still feels fair" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "soft_lights", - "text": "Soft lights" + "id": "discuss_the_reason", + "text": "Discuss the reason" }, { - "id": "fresh_sheets", - "text": "Fresh sheets" + "id": "make_the_change_temporary_when_appropriate", + "text": "Make the change temporary when appropriate" + }, + { + "id": "rebalance_other_work", + "text": "Rebalance other work" + }, + { + "id": "review_whether_the_new_split_still_feels_fair", + "text": "Review whether the new split still feels fair" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { - "id": "home_life_250", + "id": "home_life_149", "category_id": "home_life", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Thank-you parade or fake award?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which situations call for outside household help when available?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "gratitude", + "outside_help", + "capacity", "home_life" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_task_is_unsafe", + "text": "A task is unsafe" + }, + { + "id": "health_limits_make_it_unrealistic", + "text": "Health limits make it unrealistic" + }, + { + "id": "the_same_repair_keeps_failing", + "text": "The same repair keeps failing" + }, + { + "id": "the_workload_is_harming_both_people_s_ability_to_function", + "text": "The workload is harming both people's ability to function" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "thank_you_parade", - "text": "Thank-you parade" + "id": "a_task_is_unsafe", + "text": "A task is unsafe" }, { - "id": "fake_award", - "text": "Fake award" + "id": "health_limits_make_it_unrealistic", + "text": "Health limits make it unrealistic" + }, + { + "id": "the_same_repair_keeps_failing", + "text": "The same repair keeps failing" + }, + { + "id": "the_workload_is_harming_both_people_s_ability_to_function", + "text": "The workload is harming both people's ability to function" } - ] + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 + } + }, + { + "id": "home_life_150", + "category_id": "home_life", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make our home life feel healthy years from now?", + "depth": 2, + "access": "premium", + "tags": [ + "long_term", + "vision", + "home_life" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "fair_work_that_changes_with_capacity", + "text": "Fair work that changes with capacity" + }, + { + "id": "private_space_for_both_people", + "text": "Private space for both people" + }, + { + "id": "simple_systems_we_actually_use", + "text": "Simple systems we actually use" + }, + { + "id": "a_home_that_supports_rest_as_well_as_responsibility", + "text": "A home that supports rest as well as responsibility" + } + ], + "answer_config": { + "options": [ + { + "id": "fair_work_that_changes_with_capacity", + "text": "Fair work that changes with capacity" + }, + { + "id": "private_space_for_both_people", + "text": "Private space for both people" + }, + { + "id": "simple_systems_we_actually_use", + "text": "Simple systems we actually use" + }, + { + "id": "a_home_that_supports_rest_as_well_as_responsibility", + "text": "A home that supports rest as well as responsibility" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } } ] diff --git a/seed/questions/marriage.json b/seed/questions/marriage.json index 18c5ef32..d17bb440 100644 --- a/seed/questions/marriage.json +++ b/seed/questions/marriage.json @@ -2,20 +2,46 @@ "category": { "id": "marriage", "display_name": "Marriage", - "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples make marriage feel devoted, playful, romantic, steady, and uniquely theirs through vows, rituals, teamwork, old-married silliness, still-dating energy, fake spouse awards, and everyday choosing.", + "description": "Warm, natural questions about married identity, everyday choosing, vows, humor, traditions, partnership, romance, admiration, independence, life changes, resilience, aging, and keeping the marriage distinctly yours.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "favorite_border", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 + "multi_choice": 90, + "single_choice": 30, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 50, + "2": 70, + "3": 30 + }, + "source_question_count": 250, + "source_free_questions": 75, + "source_premium_questions": 175, + "source_written_questions": 150, + "new_question_count": 150, + "net_catalog_change": -100, + "content_version": "marriage_v3_final_reviewed", + "guide_basis": "QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE, QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST v9, and QUESTION_SCHEMA v8 reviewed July 14, 2026.", + "pack_purpose": "Help married couples enjoy, understand, and intentionally shape the identity, commitment, rituals, humor, romance, growth, and long-term meaning of their marriage.", + "pack_boundary": "Marriage owns the broad experience of being spouses: married identity, everyday choosing, vows, couple-specific traditions, healthy commitment, public and private spouse identity, long-term partnership, and renewal. Detailed chores belong in Home Life; active disagreements in Conflict; apologies and reconnection in Conflict Repair; betrayal recovery in Rebuilding Trust; financial decisions in Money; parenting teamwork in Parenting; scheduled shared time in Quality Time; and detailed future planning in Future.", + "safety_boundary": "No question requires staying in an unsafe marriage, surrendering privacy or independence, accepting control as loyalty, isolating from outside support, performing affection, sharing private information publicly, or preserving appearances over wellbeing.", + "mass_rewrite_reason": "The legacy pack contained 250 questions, including 150 written prompts, unsupported depth values above 3, repeated template blocks, and choice questions that did not meet the current mirrored-option production contract. More than 60 percent of the source shared structural failures, so a complete controlled rebuild was warranted.", + "review_workflow": "Six controlled 25-question batches with prompt-option fit, read-aloud, repetition, depth, access, safety, pack-boundary, and schema checks, followed by a full-pack validation and cross-pack comparison.", + "batch_counts": { + "batch_001_025": 25, + "batch_026_050": 25, + "batch_051_075": 25, + "batch_076_100": 25, + "batch_101_125": 25, + "batch_126_150": 25 } } }, @@ -23,1895 +49,4979 @@ { "id": "marriage_001", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes our marriage feel most like us?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which parts of our marriage feel most unmistakably like us?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "identity", - "us", + "couple_lore", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_001_the_way_we_make_ordinary_days_funny", + "text": "The way we make ordinary days funny" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_001_the_traditions_we_invented_ourselves", + "text": "The traditions we invented ourselves" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_001_how_we_show_up_when_life_gets_messy", + "text": "How we show up when life gets messy" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_001_the_private_language_only_we_understand", + "text": "The private language only we understand" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_001_the_way_we_make_ordinary_days_funny", + "text": "The way we make ordinary days funny" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_001_the_traditions_we_invented_ourselves", + "text": "The traditions we invented ourselves" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_001_how_we_show_up_when_life_gets_messy", + "text": "How we show up when life gets messy" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_001_the_private_language_only_we_understand", + "text": "The private language only we understand" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_002", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one tiny married-life moment that makes you smile?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which description fits our marriage best right now?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "fun_first", + "identity", + "current_season", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_002_a_steady_partnership_with_good_jokes", + "text": "A steady partnership with good jokes" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_002_a_soft_place_with_plenty_of_spark", + "text": "A soft place with plenty of spark" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_002_a_work_in_progress_we_both_choose", + "text": "A work in progress we both choose" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_002_a_familiar_adventure_that_still_surprises_us", + "text": "A familiar adventure that still surprises us" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_002_a_steady_partnership_with_good_jokes", + "text": "A steady partnership with good jokes" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_002_a_soft_place_with_plenty_of_spark", + "text": "A soft place with plenty of spark" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_002_a_work_in_progress_we_both_choose", + "text": "A work in progress we both choose" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_002_a_familiar_adventure_that_still_surprises_us", + "text": "A familiar adventure that still surprises us" + } + ] } }, { "id": "marriage_003", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about being married to me that gives cozy little heart-squeeze energy?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What gives our marriage its own personality?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sweetness", - "commitment", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "identity", + "personality", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_003_our_shared_sense_of_humor", + "text": "Our shared sense of humor" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_003_the_way_we_celebrate_small_wins", + "text": "The way we celebrate small wins" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_003_how_different_our_strengths_are", + "text": "How different our strengths are" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_003_the_stories_we_keep_retelling", + "text": "The stories we keep retelling" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_003_our_shared_sense_of_humor", + "text": "Our shared sense of humor" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_003_the_way_we_celebrate_small_wins", + "text": "The way we celebrate small wins" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_003_how_different_our_strengths_are", + "text": "How different our strengths are" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_003_the_stories_we_keep_retelling", + "text": "The stories we keep retelling" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_004", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing about being married to me that feels funny in the best way?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How strongly does our marriage feel like something we created together?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "humor", - "fun_first", + "identity", + "ownership", "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Mostly inherited expectations", + "max_label": "Very much our own" } }, { "id": "marriage_005", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one ordinary thing we do that feels like married couple lore?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which moments make being married feel especially real to you?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "lore", - "fun_first", + "identity", + "married_life", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_005_making_a_decision_as_a_team", + "text": "Making a decision as a team" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_005_being_introduced_as_each_others_spouse", + "text": "Being introduced as each other’s spouse" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_005_handling_an_ordinary_problem_together", + "text": "Handling an ordinary problem together" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_005_catching_a_look_that_says_we_already_know", + "text": "Catching a look that says we already know" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_005_making_a_decision_as_a_team", + "text": "Making a decision as a team" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_005_being_introduced_as_each_others_spouse", + "text": "Being introduced as each other’s spouse" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_005_handling_an_ordinary_problem_together", + "text": "Handling an ordinary problem together" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_005_catching_a_look_that_says_we_already_know", + "text": "Catching a look that says we already know" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_006", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What everyday promise of ours still feels like a tiny vow?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "More like a secret club or a lifelong road trip?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "vows", - "commitment", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "identity", + "playful", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_006_a_secret_club", + "text": "A secret club" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_006_a_lifelong_road_trip", + "text": "A lifelong road trip" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_006_a_secret_club", + "text": "A secret club" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_006_a_lifelong_road_trip", + "text": "A lifelong road trip" + } + ] } }, { "id": "marriage_007", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny unspoken promise do we keep like married couple magic?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes our marriage feel different from simply sharing a life?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "promises", - "daily_life", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "commitment", + "identity", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_007_the_promises_behind_our_choices", + "text": "The promises behind our choices" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_007_the_history_carried_into_small_moments", + "text": "The history carried into small moments" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_007_knowing_we_represent_a_team", + "text": "Knowing we represent a team" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_007_the_way_our_decisions_consider_both_people", + "text": "The way our decisions consider both people" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_007_the_promises_behind_our_choices", + "text": "The promises behind our choices" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_007_the_history_carried_into_small_moments", + "text": "The history carried into small moments" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_007_knowing_we_represent_a_team", + "text": "Knowing we represent a team" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_007_the_way_our_decisions_consider_both_people", + "text": "The way our decisions consider both people" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_008", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way we pick each other again on a regular old Tuesday?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which symbol would best represent our marriage today?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "choosing_us", - "daily_life", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "identity", + "metaphor", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_008_a_well_used_map_with_new_places_left", + "text": "A well-used map with new places left" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_008_a_porch_light_that_stays_welcoming", + "text": "A porch light that stays welcoming" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_008_a_favorite_song_with_extra_verses", + "text": "A favorite song with extra verses" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_008_a_sturdy_table_covered_in_stories", + "text": "A sturdy table covered in stories" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_008_a_well_used_map_with_new_places_left", + "text": "A well-used map with new places left" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_008_a_porch_light_that_stays_welcoming", + "text": "A porch light that stays welcoming" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_008_a_favorite_song_with_extra_verses", + "text": "A favorite song with extra verses" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_008_a_sturdy_table_covered_in_stories", + "text": "A sturdy table covered in stories" + } + ] } }, { "id": "marriage_009", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way I make you feel like you have a built-in teammate?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What deserves more credit in our story?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "support", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "story", + "appreciation", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_009_the_quiet_years_that_built_trust", + "text": "The quiet years that built trust" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_009_the_pivots_we_made_without_a_perfect_plan", + "text": "The pivots we made without a perfect plan" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_009_the_fun_we_protected_during_busy_times", + "text": "The fun we protected during busy times" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_009_the_ways_we_grew_without_growing_apart", + "text": "The ways we grew without growing apart" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_009_the_quiet_years_that_built_trust", + "text": "The quiet years that built trust" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_009_the_pivots_we_made_without_a_perfect_plan", + "text": "The pivots we made without a perfect plan" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_009_the_fun_we_protected_during_busy_times", + "text": "The fun we protected during busy times" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_009_the_ways_we_grew_without_growing_apart", + "text": "The ways we grew without growing apart" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_010", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one way you make me feel like I have a built-in teammate?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps us remember that our marriage belongs to us?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "mutual", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "identity", + "autonomy", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_010_making_choices_without_performing_for_others", + "text": "Making choices without performing for others" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_010_keeping_a_few_traditions_completely_private", + "text": "Keeping a few traditions completely private" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_010_letting_our_relationship_look_different_from_anyone_elses", + "text": "Letting our relationship look different from anyone else’s" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_010_checking_what_works_for_us_instead_of_following_a_script", + "text": "Checking what works for us instead of following a script" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_010_making_choices_without_performing_for_others", + "text": "Making choices without performing for others" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_010_keeping_a_few_traditions_completely_private", + "text": "Keeping a few traditions completely private" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_010_letting_our_relationship_look_different_from_anyone_elses", + "text": "Letting our relationship look different from anyone else’s" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_010_checking_what_works_for_us_instead_of_following_a_script", + "text": "Checking what works for us instead of following a script" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_011", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one married-life win we should celebrate?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which small actions make commitment feel active instead of assumed?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "wins", - "celebration", + "commitment", + "everyday_choice", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_011_following_through_on_an_ordinary_promise", + "text": "Following through on an ordinary promise" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_011_making_room_for_each_others_bad_days", + "text": "Making room for each other’s bad days" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_011_checking_in_before_a_big_personal_choice", + "text": "Checking in before a big personal choice" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_011_showing_affection_without_making_it_a_test", + "text": "Showing affection without making it a test" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_011_following_through_on_an_ordinary_promise", + "text": "Following through on an ordinary promise" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_011_making_room_for_each_others_bad_days", + "text": "Making room for each other’s bad days" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_011_checking_in_before_a_big_personal_choice", + "text": "Checking in before a big personal choice" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_011_showing_affection_without_making_it_a_test", + "text": "Showing affection without making it a test" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_012", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one silly thing future-old-us will probably still do?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What most says “I still choose you” on a normal day?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "fun_first", + "commitment", + "daily_life", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_012_turning_toward_me_when_i_start_talking", + "text": "Turning toward me when I start talking" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_012_saving_a_little_energy_for_us", + "text": "Saving a little energy for us" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_012_including_me_in_something_that_matters", + "text": "Including me in something that matters" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_012_finding_one_reason_to_be_playful_together", + "text": "Finding one reason to be playful together" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_012_turning_toward_me_when_i_start_talking", + "text": "Turning toward me when I start talking" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_012_saving_a_little_energy_for_us", + "text": "Saving a little energy for us" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_012_including_me_in_something_that_matters", + "text": "Including me in something that matters" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_012_finding_one_reason_to_be_playful_together", + "text": "Finding one reason to be playful together" + } + ] } }, { "id": "marriage_013", "category_id": "marriage", - 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"fun_first", - "warm" + "current_season", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Mostly quiet", + "max_label": "Very alive" } }, { "id": "marriage_065", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make still dating each other feel more fun where it fits?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can bring back a little newlywed energy without pretending we are new?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "date_night", "romance", - "fun_first", + "newlywed_energy", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_065_getting_ready_for_each_other_on_purpose", + "text": "Getting ready for each other on purpose" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_065_asking_a_question_we_have_never_asked", + "text": "Asking a question we have never asked" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_065_doing_something_slightly_outside_our_usual_routine", + "text": "Doing something slightly outside our usual routine" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_065_letting_excitement_be_simple_instead_of_cinematic", + "text": "Letting excitement be simple instead of cinematic" + } + ], "answer_config": { - 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"closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "preferences", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_066_old_school_romance", + "text": "Old-school romance" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_066_spontaneous_married_flirting", + "text": "Spontaneous married flirting" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_066_old_school_romance", + "text": "Old-school romance" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_066_spontaneous_married_flirting", + "text": "Spontaneous married flirting" + } + ] } }, { "id": "marriage_067", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes being teammates feel more like us?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes affection feel married in the best way?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "support", - "identity", + "affection", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_067_it_carries_years_of_private_meaning", + "text": "It carries years of private meaning" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_067_it_can_be_tender_without_leading_anywhere", + "text": "It can be tender without leading anywhere" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_067_it_adapts_to_how_each_person_feels_that_day", + "text": "It adapts to how each person feels that day" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_067_it_still_contains_surprise", + "text": "It still contains surprise" + } + ], "answer_config": { - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_071_how_i_treat_people_when_no_one_is_watching", + "text": "How I treat people when no one is watching" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_071_the_way_i_keep_going_through_hard_things", + "text": "The way I keep going through hard things" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_071_the_mind_and_humor_i_bring_into_our_life", + "text": "The mind and humor I bring into our life" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_071_the_person_i_am_still_becoming", + "text": "The person I am still becoming" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_072", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make being teammates feel more fun where it fits?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of praise feels most meaningful inside marriage?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "support", - "fun_first", + "admiration", + "praise", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_072_praise_for_who_i_am", + "text": "Praise for who I am" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_072_praise_for_effort_you_noticed", + "text": "Praise for effort you noticed" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_072_praise_for_how_i_affect_your_life", + "text": "Praise for how I affect your life" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_072_praise_for_something_i_have_grown_into", + "text": "Praise for something I have grown into" + } + ], "answer_config": { - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_100_the_old_plan_repeatedly_leaves_one_person_depleted", + "text": "The old plan repeatedly leaves one person depleted" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_100_a_responsibility_changed_but_the_expectations_did_not", + "text": "A responsibility changed but the expectations did not" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_100_resentment_is_replacing_honest_requests", + "text": "Resentment is replacing honest requests" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_100_neither_person_can_explain_why_the_rule_still_exists", + "text": "Neither person can explain why the rule still exists" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_101", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would future-us thank us for doing around shared traditions?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should remain private because it belongs to our marriage?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "traditions", - "rituals", - "future_us", - "gratitude", + "privacy", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_101_vulnerabilities_shared_in_confidence", + "text": "Vulnerabilities shared in confidence" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_101_details_that_would_embarrass_one_person", + "text": "Details that would embarrass one person" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_101_private_affection_that_was_not_offered_for_an_audience", + "text": "Private affection that was not offered for an audience" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_101_disagreements_that_others_do_not_need_to_judge", + "text": "Disagreements that others do not need to judge" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_101_vulnerabilities_shared_in_confidence", + "text": "Vulnerabilities shared in confidence" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_101_details_that_would_embarrass_one_person", + "text": "Details that would embarrass one person" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_101_private_affection_that_was_not_offered_for_an_audience", + "text": "Private affection that was not offered for an audience" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_101_disagreements_that_others_do_not_need_to_judge", + "text": "Disagreements that others do not need to judge" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_102", "category_id": "marriage", - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_105_how_spouses_divide_their_roles", + "text": "How spouses divide their roles" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_105_how_often_a_married_couple_socializes_together", + "text": "How often a married couple socializes together" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_105_what_milestones_should_happen_next", + "text": "What milestones should happen next" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_105_how_affectionate_or_private_we_should_appear", + "text": "How affectionate or private we should appear" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_106", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What should we protect about ordinary romance?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one part of our marriage you are proud to keep just for us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance", - "daily_life", - "protection", + "privacy", + "couple_identity", "marriage" ], "answer_config": { @@ -1921,173 +5031,451 @@ { "id": "marriage_107", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make ordinary romance feel more fun where it fits?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps family or friends from becoming the third voice in our marriage?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance", - "daily_life", - "fun_first", + "outside_influence", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_107_we_make_major_decisions_directly_with_each_other", + "text": "We make major decisions directly with each other" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_107_advice_is_considered_rather_than_automatically_followed", + "text": "Advice is considered rather than automatically followed" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_107_neither_person_uses_outsiders_to_pressure_the_other", + "text": "Neither person uses outsiders to pressure the other" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_107_we_can_disagree_with_family_without_isolating_from_them", + "text": "We can disagree with family without isolating from them" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_107_we_make_major_decisions_directly_with_each_other", + "text": "We make major decisions directly with each other" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_107_advice_is_considered_rather_than_automatically_followed", + "text": "Advice is considered rather than automatically followed" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_107_neither_person_uses_outsiders_to_pressure_the_other", + "text": "Neither person uses outsiders to pressure the other" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_107_we_can_disagree_with_family_without_isolating_from_them", + "text": "We can disagree with family without isolating from them" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_108", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would future-us thank us for doing around ordinary romance?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which boundary best protects our marriage in public?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance", - "daily_life", - "future_us", - "gratitude", + "public_life", + "respect", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_108_do_not_joke_about_real_insecurities", + "text": "Do not joke about real insecurities" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_108_do_not_reveal_private_information_for_a_good_story", + "text": "Do not reveal private information for a good story" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_108_do_not_make_promises_for_the_other_person", + "text": "Do not make promises for the other person" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_108_do_not_turn_a_disagreement_into_a_group_vote", + "text": "Do not turn a disagreement into a group vote" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_108_do_not_joke_about_real_insecurities", + "text": "Do not joke about real insecurities" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_108_do_not_reveal_private_information_for_a_good_story", + "text": "Do not reveal private information for a good story" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_108_do_not_make_promises_for_the_other_person", + "text": "Do not make promises for the other person" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_108_do_not_turn_a_disagreement_into_a_group_vote", + "text": "Do not turn a disagreement into a group vote" + } + ] } }, { "id": "marriage_109", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes inside jokes feel more like us?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes being known as a married couple feel good?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "inside_jokes", - "fun_first", "identity", + "public_life", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_109_our_individual_identities_are_still_visible", + "text": "Our individual identities are still visible" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_109_people_can_see_genuine_respect_between_us", + "text": "People can see genuine respect between us" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_109_we_are_not_expected_to_perform_perfection", + "text": "We are not expected to perform perfection" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_109_our_partnership_adds_to_life_rather_than_replacing_every_oth", + "text": "Our partnership adds to life rather than replacing every other bond" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_109_our_individual_identities_are_still_visible", + "text": "Our individual identities are still visible" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_109_people_can_see_genuine_respect_between_us", + "text": "People can see genuine respect between us" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_109_we_are_not_expected_to_perform_perfection", + "text": "We are not expected to perform perfection" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_109_our_partnership_adds_to_life_rather_than_replacing_every_oth", + "text": "Our partnership adds to life rather than replacing every other bond" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_110", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make inside jokes sweeter without making it complicated?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which situations deserve a private spouse check-in first?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "inside_jokes", - "fun_first", - "sweetness", - "simplicity", + "privacy", + "decisions", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_110_a_social_invitation_that_affects_both_schedules", + "text": "A social invitation that affects both schedules" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_110_a_family_request_involving_shared_resources", + "text": "A family request involving shared resources" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_110_a_story_that_includes_the_other_persons_private_life", + "text": "A story that includes the other person’s private life" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_110_a_public_decision_that_could_create_an_obligation", + "text": "A public decision that could create an obligation" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_110_a_social_invitation_that_affects_both_schedules", + "text": "A social invitation that affects both schedules" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_110_a_family_request_involving_shared_resources", + "text": "A family request involving shared resources" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_110_a_story_that_includes_the_other_persons_private_life", + "text": "A story that includes the other person’s private life" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_110_a_public_decision_that_could_create_an_obligation", + "text": "A public decision that could create an obligation" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_111", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny ritual could make inside jokes feel special?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which marriage expectations are worth discussing instead of assuming?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "inside_jokes", - "fun_first", - "rituals", + "expectations", + "assumptions", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_111_how_affection_is_shown_over_time", + "text": "How affection is shown over time" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_111_how_decisions_are_shared", + "text": "How decisions are shared" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_111_how_much_privacy_each_person_needs", + "text": "How much privacy each person needs" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_111_what_commitment_looks_like_during_stress", + "text": "What commitment looks like during stress" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_111_how_affection_is_shown_over_time", + "text": "How affection is shown over time" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_111_how_decisions_are_shared", + "text": "How decisions are shared" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_111_how_much_privacy_each_person_needs", + "text": "How much privacy each person needs" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_111_what_commitment_looks_like_during_stress", + "text": "What commitment looks like during stress" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_112", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about inside jokes?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which inherited marriage rule would you most like us to examine?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "inside_jokes", - "fun_first", - "appreciation", + "expectations", + "scripts", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_112_one_spouse_should_always_be_the_practical_one", + "text": "One spouse should always be the practical one" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_112_good_couples_should_want_all_the_same_things", + "text": "Good couples should want all the same things" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_112_marriage_should_come_before_every_other_relationship", + "text": "Marriage should come before every other relationship" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_112_needing_help_means_the_marriage_is_failing", + "text": "Needing help means the marriage is failing" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_112_one_spouse_should_always_be_the_practical_one", + "text": "One spouse should always be the practical one" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_112_good_couples_should_want_all_the_same_things", + "text": "Good couples should want all the same things" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_112_marriage_should_come_before_every_other_relationship", + "text": "Marriage should come before every other relationship" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_112_needing_help_means_the_marriage_is_failing", + "text": "Needing help means the marriage is failing" + } + ] } }, { "id": "marriage_113", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What inside joke should be preserved in the marriage museum forever?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes an expectation fair inside marriage?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "inside_jokes", - "fun_first", - "protection", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "expectations", + "fairness", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_113_both_people_know_it_exists", + "text": "Both people know it exists" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_113_either_person_can_question_it", + "text": "Either person can question it" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_113_the_cost_is_not_carried_mostly_by_one_spouse", + "text": "The cost is not carried mostly by one spouse" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_113_it_respects_safety_dignity_and_personal_choice", + "text": "It respects safety, dignity, and personal choice" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_113_both_people_know_it_exists", + "text": "Both people know it exists" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_113_either_person_can_question_it", + "text": "Either person can question it" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_113_the_cost_is_not_carried_mostly_by_one_spouse", + "text": "The cost is not carried mostly by one spouse" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_113_it_respects_safety_dignity_and_personal_choice", + "text": "It respects safety, dignity, and personal choice" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_114", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make inside jokes feel more fun where it fits?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How well do our current marriage expectations fit the people we are now?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "inside_jokes", - "fun_first", + "expectations", + "current_fit", "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "They fit poorly", + "max_label": "They fit very well" } }, { "id": "marriage_115", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would future-us thank us for keeping silly between us?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which ideas about a “good marriage” can create unnecessary pressure?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "inside_jokes", - "fun_first", - "future_us", - "gratitude", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "expectations", + "pressure", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_115_never_needing_time_apart", + "text": "Never needing time apart" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_115_agreeing_on_every_important_subject", + "text": "Agreeing on every important subject" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_115_looking_happy_for_other_people", + "text": "Looking happy for other people" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_115_solving_everything_without_outside_help", + "text": "Solving everything without outside help" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_115_never_needing_time_apart", + "text": "Never needing time apart" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_115_agreeing_on_every_important_subject", + "text": "Agreeing on every important subject" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_115_looking_happy_for_other_people", + "text": "Looking happy for other people" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_115_solving_everything_without_outside_help", + "text": "Solving everything without outside help" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_116", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes making decisions together feel more like us?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What marriage expectation would you like us to rewrite in our own words?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "decisions", - "teamwork", - "identity", + "expectations", + "authorship", "marriage" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2097,177 +5485,452 @@ { "id": "marriage_117", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make making decisions together sweeter without making it complicated?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps us notice when an old script is running the marriage?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "decisions", - "teamwork", - "sweetness", - "simplicity", + "scripts", + "awareness", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_117_the_same_role_appears_no_matter_who_has_more_capacity", + "text": "The same role appears no matter who has more capacity" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_117_we_defend_a_rule_but_cannot_explain_its_purpose", + "text": "We defend a rule but cannot explain its purpose" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_117_one_person_feels_guilty_for_wanting_something_normal", + "text": "One person feels guilty for wanting something normal" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_117_the_arrangement_protects_appearances_more_than_people", + "text": "The arrangement protects appearances more than people" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_117_the_same_role_appears_no_matter_who_has_more_capacity", + "text": "The same role appears no matter who has more capacity" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_117_we_defend_a_rule_but_cannot_explain_its_purpose", + "text": "We defend a rule but cannot explain its purpose" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_117_one_person_feels_guilty_for_wanting_something_normal", + "text": "One person feels guilty for wanting something normal" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_117_the_arrangement_protects_appearances_more_than_people", + "text": "The arrangement protects appearances more than people" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_118", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny ritual could make making decisions together feel special?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which word should define our version of marriage more strongly?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "decisions", - "teamwork", - "rituals", - "fun_first", + "identity", + "values", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_118_chosen", + "text": "Chosen" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_118_flexible", + "text": "Flexible" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_118_tender", + "text": "Tender" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_118_honest", + "text": "Honest" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_118_chosen", + "text": "Chosen" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_118_flexible", + "text": "Flexible" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_118_tender", + "text": "Tender" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_118_honest", + "text": "Honest" + } + ] } }, { "id": "marriage_119", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about making decisions together?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What keeps marriage from turning into a list of roles?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "decisions", - "teamwork", - "appreciation", + "roles", + "identity", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_119_we_keep_learning_each_other_beyond_responsibilities", + "text": "We keep learning each other beyond responsibilities" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_119_care_is_not_reduced_to_productivity", + "text": "Care is not reduced to productivity" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_119_either_person_can_change_how_they_contribute", + "text": "Either person can change how they contribute" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_119_we_make_room_for_pleasure_rest_and_personality", + "text": "We make room for pleasure, rest, and personality" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_119_we_keep_learning_each_other_beyond_responsibilities", + "text": "We keep learning each other beyond responsibilities" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_119_care_is_not_reduced_to_productivity", + "text": "Care is not reduced to productivity" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_119_either_person_can_change_how_they_contribute", + "text": "Either person can change how they contribute" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_119_we_make_room_for_pleasure_rest_and_personality", + "text": "We make room for pleasure, rest, and personality" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_120", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would help decision-making stay team sport, not courtroom drama?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which expectations should never override a spouse’s wellbeing?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "decisions", - "teamwork", - "protection", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "safety", + "expectations", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_120_keeping_up_appearances", + "text": "Keeping up appearances" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_120_staying_silent_to_avoid_embarrassment", + "text": "Staying silent to avoid embarrassment" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_120_accepting_control_as_proof_of_love", + "text": "Accepting control as proof of love" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_120_remaining_in_a_situation_that_feels_unsafe", + "text": "Remaining in a situation that feels unsafe" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_120_keeping_up_appearances", + "text": "Keeping up appearances" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_120_staying_silent_to_avoid_embarrassment", + "text": "Staying silent to avoid embarrassment" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_120_accepting_control_as_proof_of_love", + "text": "Accepting control as proof of love" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_120_remaining_in_a_situation_that_feels_unsafe", + "text": "Remaining in a situation that feels unsafe" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_121", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make decisions feel more like picking our adventure?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which qualities have helped our marriage through difficult periods?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "decisions", - "teamwork", - "fun_first", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "resilience", + "hard_times", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_121_the_ability_to_admit_when_the_plan_failed", + "text": "The ability to admit when the plan failed" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_121_a_willingness_to_accept_practical_help", + "text": "A willingness to accept practical help" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_121_remembering_that_both_people_can_be_hurting_differently", + "text": "Remembering that both people can be hurting differently" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_121_finding_small_moments_that_still_felt_like_us", + "text": "Finding small moments that still felt like us" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_121_the_ability_to_admit_when_the_plan_failed", + "text": "The ability to admit when the plan failed" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_121_a_willingness_to_accept_practical_help", + "text": "A willingness to accept practical help" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_121_remembering_that_both_people_can_be_hurting_differently", + "text": "Remembering that both people can be hurting differently" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_121_finding_small_moments_that_still_felt_like_us", + "text": "Finding small moments that still felt like us" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_122", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would future-us thank us for doing around making decisions together?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What most helps you believe our marriage can handle a hard season?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "decisions", - "teamwork", - "future_us", - "gratitude", + "resilience", + "confidence", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_122_we_have_adapted_before", + "text": "We have adapted before" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_122_we_can_tell_the_truth_about_how_hard_it_is", + "text": "We can tell the truth about how hard it is" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_122_we_know_when_to_seek_support", + "text": "We know when to seek support" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_122_we_still_protect_each_others_dignity", + "text": "We still protect each other’s dignity" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_122_we_have_adapted_before", + "text": "We have adapted before" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_122_we_can_tell_the_truth_about_how_hard_it_is", + "text": "We can tell the truth about how hard it is" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_122_we_know_when_to_seek_support", + "text": "We know when to seek support" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_122_we_still_protect_each_others_dignity", + "text": "We still protect each other’s dignity" + } + ] } }, { "id": "marriage_123", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes protecting peace feel more like us?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What deserves credit when a marriage makes it through something hard?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "peace", - "protection", - "identity", + "resilience", + "appreciation", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_123_the_quiet_choices_no_one_else_saw", + "text": "The quiet choices no one else saw" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_123_the_boundaries_that_prevented_more_harm", + "text": "The boundaries that prevented more harm" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_123_the_help_we_accepted", + "text": "The help we accepted" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_123_the_courage_to_change_what_was_not_working", + "text": "The courage to change what was not working" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_123_the_quiet_choices_no_one_else_saw", + "text": "The quiet choices no one else saw" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_123_the_boundaries_that_prevented_more_harm", + "text": "The boundaries that prevented more harm" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_123_the_help_we_accepted", + "text": "The help we accepted" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_123_the_courage_to_change_what_was_not_working", + "text": "The courage to change what was not working" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_124", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make protecting peace sweeter without making it complicated?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How much do you trust our ability to face a challenge without losing ourselves?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "peace", - "protection", - "sweetness", - "simplicity", + "resilience", + "autonomy", "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not much yet", + "max_label": "A great deal" } }, { "id": "marriage_125", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny ritual could make protecting peace feel special?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps resilience avoid becoming endless endurance?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "peace", - "protection", - "rituals", - "fun_first", + "resilience", + "safety", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_125_we_do_not_praise_suffering_for_its_own_sake", + "text": "We do not praise suffering for its own sake" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_125_staying_is_never_treated_as_more_important_than_safety", + "text": "Staying is never treated as more important than safety" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_125_the_problem_receives_real_action_not_only_patience", + "text": "The problem receives real action, not only patience" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_125_both_people_can_name_when_the_cost_has_become_too_high", + "text": "Both people can name when the cost has become too high" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_125_we_do_not_praise_suffering_for_its_own_sake", + "text": "We do not praise suffering for its own sake" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_125_staying_is_never_treated_as_more_important_than_safety", + "text": "Staying is never treated as more important than safety" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_125_the_problem_receives_real_action_not_only_patience", + "text": "The problem receives real action, not only patience" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_125_both_people_can_name_when_the_cost_has_become_too_high", + "text": "Both people can name when the cost has become too high" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_126", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about protecting peace?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What is one hard chapter that taught us something useful about our marriage?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "peace", - "protection", - "appreciation", + "resilience", + "story", "marriage" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2277,178 +5940,452 @@ { "id": "marriage_127", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of peace should we guard like a dragon guards treasure?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs show that we are recovering rather than merely functioning?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "peace", - "protection", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "recovery", + "resilience", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_127_laughter_returns_without_feeling_forced", + "text": "Laughter returns without feeling forced" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_127_we_have_energy_for_something_beyond_the_crisis", + "text": "We have energy for something beyond the crisis" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_127_the_future_feels_possible_again", + "text": "The future feels possible again" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_127_both_people_can_talk_about_the_chapter_without_reliving_ever", + "text": "Both people can talk about the chapter without reliving every part" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_127_laughter_returns_without_feeling_forced", + "text": "Laughter returns without feeling forced" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_127_we_have_energy_for_something_beyond_the_crisis", + "text": "We have energy for something beyond the crisis" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_127_the_future_feels_possible_again", + "text": "The future feels possible again" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_127_both_people_can_talk_about_the_chapter_without_reliving_ever", + "text": "Both people can talk about the chapter without reliving every part" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_128", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What silly little rule would help us protect peace?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What should a hard chapter never be allowed to erase?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "peace", - "protection", - "fun_first", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "hard_times", + "safety", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_128_basic_respect", + "text": "Basic respect" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_128_each_persons_right_to_support", + "text": "Each person’s right to support" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_128_the_ability_to_tell_the_truth", + "text": "The ability to tell the truth" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_128_the_possibility_of_changing_the_plan", + "text": "The possibility of changing the plan" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_128_basic_respect", + "text": "Basic respect" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_128_each_persons_right_to_support", + "text": "Each person’s right to support" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_128_the_ability_to_tell_the_truth", + "text": "The ability to tell the truth" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_128_the_possibility_of_changing_the_plan", + "text": "The possibility of changing the plan" + } + ] } }, { "id": "marriage_129", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would future-us thank us for doing around protecting peace?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can help us honor a difficult history without living inside it?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "peace", - "protection", - "future_us", - "gratitude", + "history", + "growth", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_129_remember_what_we_learned", + "text": "Remember what we learned" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_129_notice_how_we_are_different_now", + "text": "Notice how we are different now" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_129_keep_the_story_honest_rather_than_heroic", + "text": "Keep the story honest rather than heroic" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_129_build_rituals_around_growth_instead_of_pain", + "text": "Build rituals around growth instead of pain" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_129_remember_what_we_learned", + "text": "Remember what we learned" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_129_notice_how_we_are_different_now", + "text": "Notice how we are different now" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_129_keep_the_story_honest_rather_than_heroic", + "text": "Keep the story honest rather than heroic" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_129_build_rituals_around_growth_instead_of_pain", + "text": "Build rituals around growth instead of pain" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_130", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes choosing each other feel more like us?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which strengths do we sometimes forget we have?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "choosing_us", - "commitment", - "identity", + "strengths", + "resilience", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_130_we_can_make_a_new_plan_quickly", + "text": "We can make a new plan quickly" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_130_we_know_how_to_comfort_without_fixing", + "text": "We know how to comfort without fixing" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_130_we_are_capable_of_asking_better_questions", + "text": "We are capable of asking better questions" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_130_we_can_choose_humor_without_denying_reality", + "text": "We can choose humor without denying reality" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_130_we_can_make_a_new_plan_quickly", + "text": "We can make a new plan quickly" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_130_we_know_how_to_comfort_without_fixing", + "text": "We know how to comfort without fixing" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_130_we_are_capable_of_asking_better_questions", + "text": "We are capable of asking better questions" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_130_we_can_choose_humor_without_denying_reality", + "text": "We can choose humor without denying reality" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_131", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make choosing each other sweeter without making it complicated?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which parts of marriage do you hope become richer with age?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "choosing_us", - "commitment", - "sweetness", - "simplicity", + "aging", + "hope", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_131_our_private_humor", + "text": "Our private humor" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_131_the_ease_of_being_known", + "text": "The ease of being known" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_131_the_courage_to_speak_honestly", + "text": "The courage to speak honestly" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_131_the_stories_attached_to_ordinary_places", + "text": "The stories attached to ordinary places" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_131_our_private_humor", + "text": "Our private humor" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_131_the_ease_of_being_known", + "text": "The ease of being known" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_131_the_courage_to_speak_honestly", + "text": "The courage to speak honestly" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_131_the_stories_attached_to_ordinary_places", + "text": "The stories attached to ordinary places" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_132", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny ritual could make choosing each other feel special?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which picture of older married us feels most appealing?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "choosing_us", - "commitment", - "rituals", - "fun_first", + "aging", + "future_us", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_132_still_teasing_each_other_over_breakfast", + "text": "Still teasing each other over breakfast" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_132_learning_something_new_side_by_side", + "text": "Learning something new side by side" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_132_protecting_a_calm_life_with_room_for_surprises", + "text": "Protecting a calm life with room for surprises" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_132_telling_the_same_stories_with_improved_dramatic_details", + "text": "Telling the same stories with improved dramatic details" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_132_still_teasing_each_other_over_breakfast", + "text": "Still teasing each other over breakfast" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_132_learning_something_new_side_by_side", + "text": "Learning something new side by side" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_132_protecting_a_calm_life_with_room_for_surprises", + "text": "Protecting a calm life with room for surprises" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_132_telling_the_same_stories_with_improved_dramatic_details", + "text": "Telling the same stories with improved dramatic details" + } + ] } }, { "id": "marriage_133", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about choosing each other?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What kind of legacy can a marriage create without grand achievements?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "choosing_us", - "commitment", - "appreciation", + "legacy", + "meaning", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_133_people_remember_how_we_treated_each_other", + "text": "People remember how we treated each other" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_133_our_home_or_presence_felt_welcoming", + "text": "Our home or presence felt welcoming" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_133_we_made_brave_choices_that_fit_our_real_values", + "text": "We made brave choices that fit our real values" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_133_we_passed_along_stories_humor_or_traditions", + "text": "We passed along stories, humor, or traditions" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_133_people_remember_how_we_treated_each_other", + "text": "People remember how we treated each other" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_133_our_home_or_presence_felt_welcoming", + "text": "Our home or presence felt welcoming" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_133_we_made_brave_choices_that_fit_our_real_values", + "text": "We made brave choices that fit our real values" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_133_we_passed_along_stories_humor_or_traditions", + "text": "We passed along stories, humor, or traditions" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_134", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What part of choosing each other should never get dusty?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How hopeful do you feel about growing older together?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "choosing_us", - "commitment", - "protection", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "aging", + "hope", + "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not very hopeful", + "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, { "id": "marriage_135", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make choosing each other feel more fun where it fits?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which changes about aging should spouses be able to discuss openly?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "choosing_us", - "commitment", - "fun_first", + "aging", + "honesty", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_135_changing_energy_and_physical_ability", + "text": "Changing energy and physical ability" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_135_different_needs_for_independence_or_help", + "text": "Different needs for independence or help" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_135_fears_about_health_and_loss", + "text": "Fears about health and loss" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_135_what_dignity_and_care_mean_to_each_person", + "text": "What dignity and care mean to each person" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_135_changing_energy_and_physical_ability", + "text": "Changing energy and physical ability" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_135_different_needs_for_independence_or_help", + "text": "Different needs for independence or help" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_135_fears_about_health_and_loss", + "text": "Fears about health and loss" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_135_what_dignity_and_care_mean_to_each_person", + "text": "What dignity and care mean to each person" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_136", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What would future-us thank us for doing around choosing each other?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "What is one ordinary scene you would love future married us to share?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "choosing_us", - "commitment", "future_us", - "gratitude", + "imagining", "marriage" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2458,176 +6395,451 @@ { "id": "marriage_137", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes our future as a married team feel more like us?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What could help long-term marriage stay curious?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "teamwork", - "identity", + "curiosity", + "long_term", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_137_ask_how_old_opinions_have_changed", + "text": "Ask how old opinions have changed" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_137_try_something_new_without_demanding_enthusiasm", + "text": "Try something new without demanding enthusiasm" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_137_keep_making_room_for_separate_growth", + "text": "Keep making room for separate growth" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_137_notice_the_person_beyond_the_shared_history", + "text": "Notice the person beyond the shared history" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_137_ask_how_old_opinions_have_changed", + "text": "Ask how old opinions have changed" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_137_try_something_new_without_demanding_enthusiasm", + "text": "Try something new without demanding enthusiasm" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_137_keep_making_room_for_separate_growth", + "text": "Keep making room for separate growth" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_137_notice_the_person_beyond_the_shared_history", + "text": "Notice the person beyond the shared history" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_138", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make our future as a married team sweeter without making it complicated?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which part of our story would you most want future us to remember?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "teamwork", - "sweetness", - "simplicity", + "story", + "legacy", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_138_how_we_made_each_other_laugh", + "text": "How we made each other laugh" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_138_the_brave_choices_we_made_together", + "text": "The brave choices we made together" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_138_the_ordinary_kindness_that_kept_appearing", + "text": "The ordinary kindness that kept appearing" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_138_the_times_we_let_each_other_change", + "text": "The times we let each other change" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_138_how_we_made_each_other_laugh", + "text": "How we made each other laugh" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_138_the_brave_choices_we_made_together", + "text": "The brave choices we made together" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_138_the_ordinary_kindness_that_kept_appearing", + "text": "The ordinary kindness that kept appearing" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_138_the_times_we_let_each_other_change", + "text": "The times we let each other change" + } + ] } }, { "id": "marriage_139", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny ritual could make our future as a married team feel special?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should older married us be proud we protected?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "teamwork", - "rituals", - "fun_first", + "aging", + "protection", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_139_our_ability_to_be_honest", + "text": "Our ability to be honest" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_139_each_persons_friendships_and_identity", + "text": "Each person’s friendships and identity" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_139_a_sense_of_play_that_survived_responsibility", + "text": "A sense of play that survived responsibility" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_139_the_right_to_ask_for_help", + "text": "The right to ask for help" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_139_our_ability_to_be_honest", + "text": "Our ability to be honest" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_139_each_persons_friendships_and_identity", + "text": "Each person’s friendships and identity" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_139_a_sense_of_play_that_survived_responsibility", + "text": "A sense of play that survived responsibility" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_139_the_right_to_ask_for_help", + "text": "The right to ask for help" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_140", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about our future as a married team?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which future changes should remain open rather than decided forever today?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "future_us", - "teamwork", - "appreciation", + "flexibility", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_140_where_and_how_we_live", + "text": "Where and how we live" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_140_how_we_spend_our_time", + "text": "How we spend our time" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_140_what_support_we_may_need", + "text": "What support we may need" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_140_which_traditions_still_fit", + "text": "Which traditions still fit" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_140_where_and_how_we_live", + "text": "Where and how we live" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_140_how_we_spend_our_time", + "text": "How we spend our time" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_140_what_support_we_may_need", + "text": "What support we may need" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_140_which_traditions_still_fit", + "text": "Which traditions still fit" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_141", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What part of future-us should we start protecting now?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which parts of our marriage would benefit from a fresh start?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "teamwork", - "protection", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "renewal", + "growth", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_141_the_way_we_celebrate_each_other", + "text": "The way we celebrate each other" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_141_an_expectation_we_never_consciously_chose", + "text": "An expectation we never consciously chose" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_141_a_ritual_that_no_longer_fits", + "text": "A ritual that no longer fits" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_141_the_amount_of_curiosity_we_bring_home", + "text": "The amount of curiosity we bring home" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_141_the_way_we_celebrate_each_other", + "text": "The way we celebrate each other" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_141_an_expectation_we_never_consciously_chose", + "text": "An expectation we never consciously chose" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_141_a_ritual_that_no_longer_fits", + "text": "A ritual that no longer fits" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_141_the_amount_of_curiosity_we_bring_home", + "text": "The amount of curiosity we bring home" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_142", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make future-us feel more like an adventure duo?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which marriage refresh sounds most useful now?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "teamwork", - "fun_first", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "renewal", + "current_season", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_142_bring_back_something_we_miss", + "text": "Bring back something we miss" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_142_try_one_new_tradition", + "text": "Try one new tradition" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_142_retire_an_expectation_that_drains_us", + "text": "Retire an expectation that drains us" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_142_name_what_already_works_and_protect_it", + "text": "Name what already works and protect it" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_142_bring_back_something_we_miss", + "text": "Bring back something we miss" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_142_try_one_new_tradition", + "text": "Try one new tradition" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_142_retire_an_expectation_that_drains_us", + "text": "Retire an expectation that drains us" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_142_name_what_already_works_and_protect_it", + "text": "Name what already works and protect it" + } + ] } }, { "id": "marriage_143", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would future-us thank us for doing around our future as a married team?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps renewal feel hopeful instead of like a criticism?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "teamwork", - "gratitude", + "renewal", + "hope", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_143_begin_with_what_we_value", + "text": "Begin with what we value" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_143_choose_one_area_rather_than_judging_everything", + "text": "Choose one area rather than judging everything" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_143_let_both_people_define_improvement", + "text": "Let both people define improvement" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_143_make_the_experiment_small_enough_to_try", + "text": "Make the experiment small enough to try" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_143_begin_with_what_we_value", + "text": "Begin with what we value" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_143_choose_one_area_rather_than_judging_everything", + "text": "Choose one area rather than judging everything" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_143_let_both_people_define_improvement", + "text": "Let both people define improvement" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_143_make_the_experiment_small_enough_to_try", + "text": "Make the experiment small enough to try" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_144", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes the little ways we love feel more like us?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How ready do you feel to intentionally refresh part of our marriage?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "love_language", - "daily_life", - "identity", + "renewal", + "readiness", "marriage" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not ready right now", + "max_label": "Very ready" } }, { "id": "marriage_145", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make the little ways we love sweeter without making it complicated?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs show that our marriage is still alive and changing?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "love_language", - "daily_life", - "sweetness", - "simplicity", + "growth", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_145_we_can_surprise_each_other", + "text": "We can surprise each other" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_145_old_roles_are_not_treated_as_permanent", + "text": "Old roles are not treated as permanent" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_145_new_dreams_can_enter_the_conversation", + "text": "New dreams can enter the conversation" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_145_we_keep_finding_more_honest_language", + "text": "We keep finding more honest language" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_145_we_can_surprise_each_other", + "text": "We can surprise each other" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_145_old_roles_are_not_treated_as_permanent", + "text": "Old roles are not treated as permanent" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_145_new_dreams_can_enter_the_conversation", + "text": "New dreams can enter the conversation" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_145_we_keep_finding_more_honest_language", + "text": "We keep finding more honest language" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_146", "category_id": "marriage", "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny ritual could make the little ways we love feel special?", - "depth": 1, + "text": "What is one promise, ritual, or habit you would like our marriage to renew?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "love_language", - "daily_life", - "rituals", - "fun_first", + "renewal", + "commitment", "marriage" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2637,2979 +6849,211 @@ { "id": "marriage_147", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What do you appreciate about the little ways we love?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What deserves protection before we try to improve anything?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "love_language", - "daily_life", - "appreciation", + "renewal", + "protection", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_147_the_respect_already_present", + "text": "The respect already present" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_147_the_humor_that_helps_us_breathe", + "text": "The humor that helps us breathe" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_147_each_persons_right_to_say_no", + "text": "Each person’s right to say no" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_147_the_parts_of_marriage_that_still_feel_easy", + "text": "The parts of marriage that still feel easy" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_147_the_respect_already_present", + "text": "The respect already present" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_147_the_humor_that_helps_us_breathe", + "text": "The humor that helps us breathe" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_147_each_persons_right_to_say_no", + "text": "Each person’s right to say no" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_147_the_parts_of_marriage_that_still_feel_easy", + "text": "The parts of marriage that still feel easy" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_148", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should we protect about the little ways we love?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which married-life quality should we make more visible this month?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "love_language", - "daily_life", - "protection", + "renewal", + "monthly", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_148_playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_148_tenderness", + "text": "Tenderness" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_148_admiration", + "text": "Admiration" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_148_team_spirit", + "text": "Team spirit" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_148_playfulness", + "text": "Playfulness" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_148_tenderness", + "text": "Tenderness" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_148_admiration", + "text": "Admiration" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_148_team_spirit", + "text": "Team spirit" + } + ] } }, { "id": "marriage_149", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny love habit could use more sparkle?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make a marriage check-in feel worth doing?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "love_language", - "daily_life", - "fun_first", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "check_in", + "renewal", + "marriage" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_149_it_includes_what_is_going_well", + "text": "It includes what is going well" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_149_the_questions_are_specific_and_answerable", + "text": "The questions are specific and answerable" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_149_no_one_is_required_to_solve_everything_immediately", + "text": "No one is required to solve everything immediately" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_149_the_conversation_ends_with_one_clear_next_step", + "text": "The conversation ends with one clear next step" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_149_it_includes_what_is_going_well", + "text": "It includes what is going well" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_149_the_questions_are_specific_and_answerable", + "text": "The questions are specific and answerable" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_149_no_one_is_required_to_solve_everything_immediately", + "text": "No one is required to solve everything immediately" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_149_the_conversation_ends_with_one_clear_next_step", + "text": "The conversation ends with one clear next step" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "marriage_150", "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would future-us thank us for doing around the little ways we love?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "love_language", - "daily_life", - "future_us", - "gratitude", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_151", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What married-life vibe do you want more of?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "vibe", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cozy", - "text": "Cozy" - }, - { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" - }, - { - "id": "romantic", - "text": "Romantic" - }, - { - "id": "peaceful", - "text": "Peaceful" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_152", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes us feel most like a team?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_decisions", - "text": "Shared decisions" - }, - { - "id": "helping_each_other", - "text": "Helping each other" - }, - { - "id": "laughing_through_it", - "text": "Laughing through it" - }, - { - "id": "showing_up", - "text": "Showing up" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_153", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of married romance sounds best tonight?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "couch_closeness", - "text": "Couch closeness" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_words", - "text": "Sweet words" - }, - { - "id": "slow_dinner", - "text": "Slow dinner" - }, - { - "id": "playful_flirting", - "text": "Playful flirting" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_154", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What married-life win deserves applause?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "staying_kind", - "text": "Staying kind" - }, - { - "id": "getting_through", - "text": "Getting through" - }, - { - "id": "laughing_together", - "text": "Laughing together" - }, - { - "id": "helping_each_other", - "text": "Helping each other" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_155", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes daily marriage sweeter?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "little_notes", - "text": "Little notes" - }, - { - "id": "small_help", - "text": "Small help" - }, - { - "id": "inside_jokes", - "text": "Inside jokes" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_156", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes daily marriage easier?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "ease", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clear_asks", - "text": "Clear asks" - }, - { - "id": "shared_tasks", - "text": "Shared tasks" - }, - { - "id": "grace", - "text": "Grace" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_157", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes commitment feel romantic?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "commitment", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "being_chosen", - "text": "Being chosen" - }, - { - "id": "being_remembered", - "text": "Being remembered" - }, - { - "id": "being_protected", - "text": "Being protected" - }, - { - "id": "being_prioritized", - "text": "Being prioritized" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_158", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes commitment feel playful?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "play", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "inside_jokes", - "text": "Inside jokes" - }, - { - "id": "silly_rituals", - "text": "Silly rituals" - }, - { - "id": "flirting", - "text": "Flirting" - }, - { - "id": "fake_vows", - "text": "Fake vows" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_159", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we keep from becoming too routine?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "routine", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "date_nights", - "text": "Date nights" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "thank_yous", - "text": "Thank-yous" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_160", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should get a married-life fake award?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_teammate", - "text": "Best teammate" - }, - { - "id": "best_hug", - "text": "Best hug" - }, - { - "id": "best_snack_save", - "text": "Best snack save" - }, - { - "id": "best_patience", - "text": "Best patience" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_161", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us stay kind when life gets busy?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "busy_life", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "short_check_ins", - "text": "Short check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "grace", - "text": "Grace" - }, - { - "id": "help", - "text": "Help" - }, - { - "id": "no_scorekeeping", - "text": "No scorekeeping" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_162", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes you feel proud of us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "pride", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "what_we_built", - "text": "What we built" - }, - { - "id": "what_we_survived", - "text": "What we survived" - }, - { - "id": "how_we_love", - "text": "How we love" - }, - { - "id": "how_we_try", - "text": "How we try" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_163", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What does future-old-us need more of?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future_us", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "laughter", - "text": "Laughter" - }, - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" - }, - { - "id": "soft_routines", - "text": "Soft routines" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_164", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What marriage ritual sounds most like us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "rituals", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "anniversary_notes", - "text": "Anniversary notes" - }, - { - "id": "sunday_reset", - "text": "Sunday reset" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_toast", - "text": "Tiny toast" - }, - { - "id": "date_night_jar", - "text": "Date-night jar" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_165", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should marriage feel like this week?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "weekly", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "cozy", - "text": "Cozy" - }, - { - "id": "flirty", - "text": "Flirty" - }, - { - "id": "steady", - "text": "Steady" - }, - { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_166", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which part of marriage needs more playfulness?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "chores", - "text": "Chores" - }, - { - "id": "routines", - "text": "Routines" - }, - { - "id": "date_nights", - "text": "Date nights" - }, - { - "id": "hard_talks", - "text": "Hard talks" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_167", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which part of marriage needs more tenderness?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "tenderness", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "daily_life", - "text": "Daily life" - }, - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "intimacy", - "text": "Intimacy" - }, - { - "id": "future_plans", - "text": "Future plans" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_168", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which part of marriage needs more celebration?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_wins", - "text": "Small wins" - }, - { - "id": "anniversaries", - "text": "Anniversaries" - }, - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_169", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which married-life habit should we build?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "habits", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "check_ins", - "text": "Check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "thank_yous", - "text": "Thank-yous" - }, - { - "id": "date_nights", - "text": "Date nights" - }, - { - "id": "rest_time", - "text": "Rest time" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_170", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes marriage start feeling like a board meeting?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pressure", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_play", - "text": "No play" - }, - { - "id": "too_much_stress", - "text": "Too much stress" - }, - { - "id": "only_logistics", - "text": "Only logistics" - }, - { - "id": "forgotten_romance", - "text": "Forgotten romance" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_171", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes marriage feel light enough to laugh again?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "lightness", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_dates", - "text": "Tiny dates" - }, - { - "id": "letting_things_be_imperfect", - "text": "Letting things be imperfect" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_172", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes marriage feel steady in the bones?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "security", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "showing_up", - "text": "Showing up" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_173", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes marriage feel adventurous?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "adventure", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trying_things", - "text": "Trying things" - }, - { - "id": "travel", - "text": "Travel" - }, - { - "id": "dreaming", - "text": "Dreaming" - }, - { - "id": "saying_yes", - "text": "Saying yes" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_174", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes marriage feel peaceful?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "peace", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_tone", - "text": "Soft tone" - }, - { - "id": "shared_routines", - "text": "Shared routines" - }, - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "home_comfort", - "text": "Home comfort" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_175", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes marriage feel romantic?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet_words", - "text": "Sweet words" - }, - { - "id": "quality_time", - "text": "Quality time" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - }, - { - "id": "being_chosen", - "text": "Being chosen" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_176", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when marriage starts wearing sweatpants every day emotionally?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "routine", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "new_ritual", - "text": "New ritual" - }, - { - "id": "date_night", - "text": "Date night" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_177", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when marriage has to carry real-life heavy stuff?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "team_language", - "text": "Team language" - }, - { - "id": "one_thing_at_a_time", - "text": "One thing at a time" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_178", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when marriage needs a confetti button?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "silly_plans", - "text": "Silly plans" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_adventure", - "text": "Tiny adventure" - }, - { - "id": "inside_joke", - "text": "Inside joke" - }, - { - "id": "fake_award", - "text": "Fake award" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_179", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when marriage needs more closeness?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "closeness", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "touch", - "text": "Touch" - }, - { - "id": "deep_talk", - "text": "Deep talk" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_check_in", - "text": "Gentle check-in" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_180", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when marriage needs more space?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "space", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_guilt", - "text": "No guilt" - }, - { - "id": "clear_timing", - "text": "Clear timing" - }, - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "warm_return", - "text": "Warm return" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_181", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do for an anniversary when we have couch-level energy?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "anniversary", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "takeout", - "text": "Takeout" - }, - { - "id": "memory_talk", - "text": "Memory talk" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_note", - "text": "Sweet note" - }, - { - "id": "couch_date", - "text": "Couch date" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_182", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we do on a high-energy anniversary?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "anniversary", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trip", - "text": "Trip" - }, - { - "id": "fancy_dinner", - "text": "Fancy dinner" - }, - { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" - }, - { - "id": "big_surprise", - "text": "Big surprise" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_183", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes shared decisions feel less like a meeting and more like a team huddle?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "decisions", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "both_voices", - "text": "Both voices" - }, - { - "id": "clear_priorities", - "text": "Clear priorities" - }, - { - "id": "no_rushing", - "text": "No rushing" - }, - { - "id": "team_language", - "text": "Team language" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_184", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes shared decisions more fun?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "decisions", - "fun_first", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "silly_options", - "text": "Silly options" - }, - { - "id": "dream_first", - "text": "Dream first" - }, - { - "id": "snack_break", - "text": "Snack break" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_vote", - "text": "Tiny vote" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_185", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we brag about as a married little power duo?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "brag", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "surviving_seasons", - "text": "Surviving seasons" - }, - { - "id": "still_laughing", - "text": "Still laughing" - }, - { - "id": "building_home", - "text": "Building home" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_each_other", - "text": "Choosing each other" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_186", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should future-us send us a thank-you note for?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future_us", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "staying_kind", - "text": "Staying kind" - }, - { - "id": "saving_energy", - "text": "Saving energy" - }, - { - "id": "making_memories", - "text": "Making memories" - }, - { - "id": "protecting_peace", - "text": "Protecting peace" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_187", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should past-us get a tiny gold star for?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "past_us", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trying", - "text": "Trying" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_love", - "text": "Choosing love" - }, - { - "id": "learning", - "text": "Learning" - }, - { - "id": "holding_on", - "text": "Holding on" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_188", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What keeps us feeling like newlyweds sometimes?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "newlywed_energy", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "flirting", - "text": "Flirting" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_surprises", - "text": "Sweet surprises" - }, - { - "id": "laughing", - "text": "Laughing" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_189", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What keeps us feeling like old pros sometimes?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "old_married_energy", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "knowing_looks", - "text": "Knowing looks" - }, - { - "id": "shared_routines", - "text": "Shared routines" - }, - { - "id": "inside_jokes", - "text": "Inside jokes" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_190", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make marriage feel more Closer-style?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet_prompts", - "text": "Sweet prompts" - }, - { - "id": "playful_rituals", - "text": "Playful rituals" - }, - { - "id": "real_teamwork", - "text": "Real teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_celebrations", - "text": "Tiny celebrations" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_191", - "category_id": "marriage", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes married life feel sweet?", + "text": "What should we do after this conversation about our marriage?", "depth": 1, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "sweetness", + "completion", + "invitation", "marriage" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "marriage_150_choose_one_thing_we_want_more_of", + "text": "Choose one thing we want more of" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_150_name_one_thing_we_are_proud_of", + "text": "Name one thing we are proud of" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_150_plan_one_tiny_married_moment", + "text": "Plan one tiny married moment" + }, + { + "id": "marriage_150_give_each_other_one_true_compliment", + "text": "Give each other one true compliment" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "inside_jokes", - "text": "Inside jokes" + "id": "marriage_150_choose_one_thing_we_want_more_of", + "text": "Choose one thing we want more of" }, { - "id": "small_help", - "text": "Small help" + "id": "marriage_150_name_one_thing_we_are_proud_of", + "text": "Name one thing we are proud of" }, { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" + "id": "marriage_150_plan_one_tiny_married_moment", + "text": "Plan one tiny married moment" }, { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "being_chosen", - "text": "Being chosen" + "id": "marriage_150_give_each_other_one_true_compliment", + "text": "Give each other one true compliment" } ], "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_192", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes married life feel fun?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_dates", - "text": "Tiny dates" - }, - { - "id": "silly_rituals", - "text": "Silly rituals" - }, - { - "id": "fake_awards", - "text": "Fake awards" - }, - { - "id": "flirting", - "text": "Flirting" - }, - { - "id": "laughing", - "text": "Laughing" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_193", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes married life feel steady?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "steadiness", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "showing_up", - "text": "Showing up" - }, - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "shared_plans", - "text": "Shared plans" - }, - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_194", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should we celebrate as a married team?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_wins", - "text": "Tiny wins" - }, - { - "id": "hard_days_survived", - "text": "Hard days survived" - }, - { - "id": "still_laughing", - "text": "Still laughing" - }, - { - "id": "good_teamwork", - "text": "Good teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_moments", - "text": "Sweet moments" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_195", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us keep choosing each other?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "choosing_us", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "date_nights", - "text": "Date nights" - }, - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "shared_goals", - "text": "Shared goals" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - }, - { - "id": "gratitude", - "text": "Gratitude" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_196", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What needs more attention in our marriage?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "attention", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "romance", - "text": "Romance" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "fun", - "text": "Fun" - }, - { - "id": "communication", - "text": "Communication" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_197", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What needs more playfulness in our marriage?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "chores", - "text": "Chores" - }, - { - "id": "planning", - "text": "Planning" - }, - { - "id": "date_nights", - "text": "Date nights" - }, - { - "id": "routines", - "text": "Routines" - }, - { - "id": "hard_days", - "text": "Hard days" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_198", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What needs more tenderness in our marriage?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "tenderness", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "stress", - "text": "Stress" - }, - { - "id": "intimacy", - "text": "Intimacy" - }, - { - "id": "communication", - "text": "Communication" - }, - { - "id": "daily_life", - "text": "Daily life" - }, - { - "id": "big_decisions", - "text": "Big decisions" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_199", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps protect our marriage from busy seasons?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "busy_life", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "check_ins", - "text": "Check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "date_nights", - "text": "Date nights" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "simpler_plans", - "text": "Simpler plans" - }, - { - "id": "grace", - "text": "Grace" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_200", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us recover after hard seasons?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "resilience", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "celebrating_survival", - "text": "Celebrating survival" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_talks", - "text": "Gentle talks" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "new_rituals", - "text": "New rituals" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_201", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes us good teammates?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sharing_load", - "text": "Sharing load" - }, - { - "id": "laughing", - "text": "Laughing" - }, - { - "id": "showing_up", - "text": "Showing up" - }, - { - "id": "solving_together", - "text": "Solving together" - }, - { - "id": "noticing_effort", - "text": "Noticing effort" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_202", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes us still feel romantic?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "flirting", - "text": "Flirting" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_words", - "text": "Sweet words" - }, - { - "id": "slow_moments", - "text": "Slow moments" - }, - { - "id": "being_remembered", - "text": "Being remembered" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_each_other", - "text": "Choosing each other" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_203", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes us still feel curious?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "curiosity", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "good_questions", - "text": "Good questions" - }, - { - "id": "new_experiences", - "text": "New experiences" - }, - { - "id": "deep_talks", - "text": "Deep talks" - }, - { - "id": "playful_surprises", - "text": "Playful surprises" - }, - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_204", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What makes us still feel silly together?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "silliness", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "inside_jokes", - "text": "Inside jokes" - }, - { - "id": "random_songs", - "text": "Random songs" - }, - { - "id": "fake_awards", - "text": "Fake awards" - }, - { - "id": "dramatic_voices", - "text": "Dramatic voices" - }, - { - "id": "ridiculous_plans", - "text": "Ridiculous plans" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_205", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What belongs in our marriage museum?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "lore", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "inside_jokes", - "text": "Inside jokes" - }, - { - "id": "best_dates", - "text": "Best dates" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_wins", - "text": "Tiny wins" - }, - { - "id": "funny_mishaps", - "text": "Funny mishaps" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_moments", - "text": "Sweet moments" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_206", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should our old-married energy include?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future_us", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "knowing_looks", - "text": "Knowing looks" - }, - { - "id": "comfort_food", - "text": "Comfort food" - }, - { - "id": "still_flirting", - "text": "Still flirting" - }, - { - "id": "laughing_at_everything", - "text": "Laughing at everything" - }, - { - "id": "cozy_routines", - "text": "Cozy routines" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_207", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What should our anniversary energy include?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "anniversary", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "memories", - "text": "Memories" - }, - { - "id": "good_food", - "text": "Good food" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_words", - "text": "Sweet words" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_adventure", - "text": "A tiny adventure" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_208", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us make decisions as spouses?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "decisions", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "both_voices", - "text": "Both voices" - }, - { - "id": "clear_priorities", - "text": "Clear priorities" - }, - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "small_steps", - "text": "Small steps" - }, - { - "id": "team_mindset", - "text": "Team mindset" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_209", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us keep home life loving?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "thank_yous", - "text": "Thank-yous" - }, - { - "id": "shared_tasks", - "text": "Shared tasks" - }, - { - "id": "cozy_rituals", - "text": "Cozy rituals" - }, - { - "id": "grace", - "text": "Grace" - }, - { - "id": "affection", - "text": "Affection" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_210", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What would make marriage feel more like us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "identity", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "more_humor", - "text": "More humor" - }, - { - "id": "more_tenderness", - "text": "More tenderness" - }, - { - "id": "more_teamwork", - "text": "More teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "more_rituals", - "text": "More rituals" - }, - { - "id": "more_ease", - "text": "More ease" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_211", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How fun does married life feel lately?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not fun", - "max_label": "Very fun" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_212", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How romantic does married life feel lately?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not romantic", - "max_label": "Very romantic" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_213", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you feel like we are a team?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_214", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we still choose each other in ordinary moments?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "choosing_us", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_215", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How sweet do our daily rituals feel?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "rituals", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not sweet", - "max_label": "Very sweet" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_216", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much should we celebrate married-life tiny wins?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_217", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our next season?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "hope", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not hopeful", - "max_label": "Very hopeful" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_218", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How steady-in-the-bones does our marriage feel?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "security", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not secure", - "max_label": "Very secure" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_219", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How peaceful does our marriage feel?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "peace", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not peaceful", - "max_label": "Very peaceful" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_220", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How playful does our marriage feel?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "play", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not playful", - "max_label": "Very playful" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_221", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How connected do you feel in daily married life?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "connection", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not connected", - "max_label": "Very connected" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_222", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do routines help our marriage?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "routines", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_223", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How often do routines put our marriage in autopilot mode?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "routine", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_224", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect romance from busy seasons?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "busy_life", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_225", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect fun from busy seasons?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "busy_life", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_226", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to talk about what our marriage needs without it feeling heavy?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "needs", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_227", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we repair after hard moments?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "repair", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_228", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How proud are you of what we have built?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pride", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not proud", - "max_label": "Very proud" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_229", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you want more old-married silliness?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future_us", - "fun_first", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_230", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do you want more still-dating energy?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "date_night", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_231", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does home life support our marriage?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_232", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we make room for both dream boards?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "dreams", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_233", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we keep curiosity alive?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "curiosity", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_234", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we make marriage feel like ours?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "identity", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_235", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How excited are you to keep becoming future-us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future_us", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not excited", - "max_label": "Very excited" - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_236", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Still dating or old-married cozy?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "still_dating", - "text": "Still dating" - }, - { - "id": "old_married_cozy", - "text": "Old-married cozy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_237", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Sweet vow or silly vow?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "vows", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet_vow", - "text": "Sweet vow" - }, - { - "id": "silly_vow", - "text": "Silly vow" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_238", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Tiny anniversary or big celebration?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "anniversary", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_anniversary", - "text": "Tiny anniversary" - }, - { - "id": "big_celebration", - "text": "Big celebration" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_239", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Built-in teammate or soulmate energy?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "identity", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "teammates", - "text": "Teammates" - }, - { - "id": "soulmates", - "text": "Soulmates" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_240", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Romance or routine magic?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "romance", - "text": "Romance" - }, - { - "id": "routine_magic", - "text": "Routine magic" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_241", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Inside joke or deep vow?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "inside_joke", - "text": "Inside joke" - }, - { - "id": "deep_vow", - "text": "Deep vow" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_242", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Quiet commitment or confetti celebration?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "commitment", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_commitment", - "text": "Quiet commitment" - }, - { - "id": "loud_celebration", - "text": "Loud celebration" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_243", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Date-night jar or marriage museum?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rituals", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "date_night_jar", - "text": "Date-night jar" - }, - { - "id": "marriage_museum", - "text": "Marriage museum" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_244", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Grow roots or chase adventures?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future_us", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "roots", - "text": "Grow roots" - }, - { - "id": "adventures", - "text": "Chase adventures" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_245", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Soft landing or grand adventure?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "identity", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_landing", - "text": "Soft landing" - }, - { - "id": "grand_adventure", - "text": "Grand adventure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_246", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Protect the peace or hit the fun button?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "play", - "marriage", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "keep_peace", - "text": "Keep the peace" - }, - { - "id": "start_fun", - "text": "Start the fun" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_247", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Celebrate what we built or dream what comes next?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future_us", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "celebrate_built", - "text": "Celebrate what we built" - }, - { - "id": "dream_next", - "text": "Dream what comes next" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_248", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Memory lane or future-us fantasy?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "time", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "memory_lane", - "text": "Memory lane" - }, - { - "id": "future_fantasy", - "text": "Future-us fantasy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_249", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Shared plans or spontaneous magic?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "planning", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared_plans", - "text": "Shared plans" - }, - { - "id": "spontaneous_magic", - "text": "Spontaneous magic" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "marriage_250", - "category_id": "marriage", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Thank-you toast or fake spouse award?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "gratitude", - "marriage" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "thank_you_toast", - "text": "Thank-you toast" - }, - { - "id": "fake_spouse_award", - "text": "Fake spouse award" - } - ] + "max_selections": 2 } } ] diff --git a/seed/questions/stress.json b/seed/questions/stress.json index 29553f2f..f366c4a5 100644 --- a/seed/questions/stress.json +++ b/seed/questions/stress.json @@ -2,283 +2,905 @@ "category": { "id": "stress", "display_name": "Stress", - "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples stay kind, supported, connected, and team-minded during stress, with playful lightness kept to safe places like low-battery signals, snack resets, soft landings, survival kits, and tiny wins.", + "description": "Warm, practical questions that help couples notice overload, ask for support, protect rest, stay kind under pressure, handle stressful transitions, and recover together without turning the pack into therapy homework.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "self_improvement", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, + "planned_type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 90, + "single_choice": 30, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 + }, + "planned_depth_counts": { + "1": 55, + "2": 70, + "3": 25 + }, + "legacy_question_count": 250, + "legacy_written_questions": 150, + "catalog_change": -100, + "content_version": "stress_150_final_v2", + "mass_rewrite_reason": "The legacy pack contained 250 questions, including 150 written responses and invalid production depth values above 3. More than 60 percent failed the current interaction and schema standards, making a controlled replacement more consistent than targeted repair.", + "pack_purpose": "Help couples recognize stress patterns, request support clearly, reduce avoidable pressure, stay respectful, and recover as a team.", + "user_feeling": "Understood, less alone, calmer, and not managed.", + "relationship_outcome": "Earlier stress recognition, better support matching, fewer stress-driven misunderstandings, and healthier recovery habits.", + "free_value": "Easy questions about low-battery signals, hard-day support, rest, small resets, and common stress preferences.", + "premium_value": "Deeper questions about work spillover, overwhelm, conflict under pressure, health strain, caregiving, burnout, boundaries, outside support, and recovery.", + "related_pack_boundary": "Stress owns overload signals, decompression, support during pressure, decision fatigue, work spillover, burnout, stressful health or caregiving seasons, conflict intensified by stress, and recovery. Home Life owns household workload systems. Communication owns general conversation habits. Emotional Intimacy owns vulnerability and feeling deeply known. Money owns financial decisions, even when money is a stress source. Conflict owns general disagreement patterns outside a stress-specific context.", + "safety_boundary": "Questions must not blame a partner for panic, depression, illness, trauma, burnout, or reduced capacity. The pack must not imply a partner replaces professional care, emergency help, medication, rest, or outside support. No dangerous symptoms or safety concerns should be minimized as ordinary stress.", + "humor_target": "Approximately 3 to 8 percent, limited to recognizable low-stakes moments such as snack resets, decision fatigue, blankets, calendars, and low batteries.", + "coverage_sections": [ + "signals_and_low_battery", + "immediate_support_and_hard_days", + "decompression_rest_and_small_resets", + "work_stress_and_transitions", + "overwhelm_decision_fatigue_and_priorities", + "communication_under_pressure", + "stress_driven_tension_and_repair", + "health_caregiving_grief_and_crisis", + "burnout_capacity_boundaries_and_outside_help", + "recovery_resilience_and_long_term_teamwork" + ], + "review_workflow": "Six controlled 25-question batches, three 50-question checkpoints, a 100-question guide refresh, and a final per-file and local catalog audit.", + "final_validation": "pass", + "last_completed_batch": 6, + "checkpoint_50": "pass_after_targeted_patches", + "checkpoint_100": "pass_after_targeted_patch", + "context_refresh_100": "Current content guide, schema, pack definition, first 100 questions, type counts, depth balance, repetition, safety, and related-pack boundaries re-reviewed.", "type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - } + "multi_choice": 90, + "single_choice": 30, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 55, + "2": 70, + "3": 25 + }, + "depth_percentages": { + "light": 36.7, + "medium": 46.7, + "deep": 16.7 + }, + "batch_review": [ + { + "batch": 1, + "first_id": "stress_001", + "last_id": "stress_025", + "count": 25, + "type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 15, + "single_choice": 5, + "this_or_that": 2, + "scale": 2, + "written": 1 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 12, + "2": 10, + "3": 3 + }, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 2, + "first_id": "stress_026", + "last_id": "stress_050", + "count": 25, + "type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 15, + "single_choice": 5, + "scale": 3, + "this_or_that": 1, + "written": 1 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 11, + "2": 10, + "3": 4 + }, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 3, + "first_id": "stress_051", + "last_id": "stress_075", + "count": 25, + "type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 15, + "single_choice": 5, + "this_or_that": 2, + "scale": 2, + "written": 1 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 10, + "2": 12, + "3": 3 + }, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 4, + "first_id": "stress_076", + "last_id": "stress_100", + "count": 25, + "type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 15, + "single_choice": 5, + "scale": 3, + "this_or_that": 1, + "written": 1 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 8, + "2": 12, + "3": 5 + }, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 5, + "first_id": "stress_101", + "last_id": "stress_125", + "count": 25, + "type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 15, + "single_choice": 5, + "scale": 2, + "this_or_that": 2, + "written": 1 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 7, + "2": 13, + "3": 5 + }, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "batch": 6, + "first_id": "stress_126", + "last_id": "stress_150", + "count": 25, + "type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 15, + "single_choice": 5, + "scale": 3, + "this_or_that": 2 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 7, + "2": 13, + "3": 5 + }, + "status": "PASS" + } + ], + "fifty_question_checkpoints": [ + { + "checkpoint": 1, + "first_id": "stress_001", + "last_id": "stress_050", + "count": 50, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "checkpoint": 2, + "first_id": "stress_051", + "last_id": "stress_100", + "count": 50, + "status": "PASS" + }, + { + "checkpoint": 3, + "first_id": "stress_101", + "last_id": "stress_150", + "count": 50, + "status": "PASS" + } + ], + "final_editorial_patches": 6, + "catalog_impact": { + "old_question_count": 250, + "new_question_count": 150, + "net_change": -100, + "old_free_questions": 75, + "new_free_questions": 45, + "old_premium_questions": 175, + "new_premium_questions": 105, + "intentional": true + }, + "schema_changes": "Reduced the normal pack to 150 questions, reduced written prompts from 150 to 5, converted all depths to integers 1–3, and added required top-level options mirrored under answer_config for choice questions.", + "catalog_validation_scope": "Per-file validation completed. Exact and conservative near-duplicate checks also passed against the completed production packs available in this workspace. The repository-wide import gate should still be run after replacing the source file.", + "final_review": "Complete guide-driven rebuild and production audit. Replaced the 250-question legacy pack with 150 varied, mostly tap-based questions; separated stress support from Home Life, Money, general Communication, and general Conflict; added careful health, caregiving, grief, burnout, outside-help, and immediate-safety framing; and validated schema, option fit, uniqueness, repetition, six 25-question batches, and three 50-question checkpoints." } }, "questions": [ { "id": "stress_001", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you feel cared for when stress is high?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which signs show that your stress battery is running low?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "care", - "support", + "signals", + "low_battery", "stress" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_get_unusually_quiet", + "text": "You get unusually quiet" + }, + { + "id": "small_choices_feel_exhausting", + "text": "Small choices feel exhausting" + }, + { + "id": "your_patience_gets_shorter", + "text": "Your patience gets shorter" + }, + { + "id": "your_body_feels_tense", + "text": "Your body feels tense" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_get_unusually_quiet", + "text": "You get unusually quiet" + }, + { + "id": "small_choices_feel_exhausting", + "text": "Small choices feel exhausting" + }, + { + "id": "your_patience_gets_shorter", + "text": "Your patience gets shorter" + }, + { + "id": "your_body_feels_tense", + "text": "Your body feels tense" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_002", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one sign your stress battery is blinking red?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which low-battery signal should I notice first?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ + "signals", "awareness", - "low_battery", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "stress" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_stop_talking_much", + "text": "You stop talking much" + }, + { + "id": "you_start_rushing", + "text": "You start rushing" + }, + { + "id": "you_seem_unusually_forgetful", + "text": "You seem unusually forgetful" + }, + { + "id": "you_say_you_are_near_your_limit", + "text": "You say you are near your limit" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_stop_talking_much", + "text": "You stop talking much" + }, + { + "id": "you_start_rushing", + "text": "You start rushing" + }, + { + "id": "you_seem_unusually_forgetful", + "text": "You seem unusually forgetful" + }, + { + "id": "you_say_you_are_near_your_limit", + "text": "You say you are near your limit" + } + ] } }, { "id": "stress_003", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one sign that I should offer support instead of questions?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Quiet company or a little space first?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "support", - "signals", + "quick_choice", "stress" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_company", + "text": "Quiet company" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_space_first", + "text": "A little space first" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "quiet_company", + "text": "Quiet company" + }, + { + "id": "a_little_space_first", + "text": "A little space first" + } + ] } }, { "id": "stress_004", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of support feels best when your day has been a lot?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What tends to drain your energy faster during a stressful day?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "hard_day", - "support", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "energy", + "awareness", + "stress" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_many_decisions", + "text": "Too many decisions" + }, + { + "id": "constant_interruptions", + "text": "Constant interruptions" + }, + { + "id": "unclear_expectations", + "text": "Unclear expectations" + }, + { + "id": "no_time_to_reset", + "text": "No time to reset" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "too_many_decisions", + "text": "Too many decisions" + }, + { + "id": "constant_interruptions", + "text": "Constant interruptions" + }, + { + "id": "unclear_expectations", + "text": "Unclear expectations" + }, + { + "id": "no_time_to_reset", + "text": "No time to reset" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_005", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What kind of support helps before a day that already looks too full?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it to recognize your stress before it peaks?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "before_stress", - "support", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "awareness", + "current_state", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not easy yet", + "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "stress_006", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you decompress without feeling rushed?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which body signals can tell you that stress is building?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "decompress", - "no_pressure", + "body_signals", + "awareness", "stress" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "tight_shoulders", + "text": "Tight shoulders" + }, + { + "id": "a_tense_jaw", + "text": "A tense jaw" + }, + { + "id": "shallow_breathing", + "text": "Shallow breathing" + }, + { + "id": "restlessness", + "text": "Restlessness" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "tight_shoulders", + "text": "Tight shoulders" + }, + { + "id": "a_tense_jaw", + "text": "A tense jaw" + }, + { + "id": "shallow_breathing", + "text": "Shallow breathing" + }, + { + "id": "restlessness", + "text": "Restlessness" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_007", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes home feel like a soft landing after the world has been too loud?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which tiny inconvenience becomes suspiciously powerful when you are stressed?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "home", - "soft_landing", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "humor", + "small_stressors", + "stress" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_missing_charger", + "text": "A missing charger" + }, + { + "id": "a_slow_website", + "text": "A slow website" + }, + { + "id": "a_loud_notification", + "text": "A loud notification" + }, + { + "id": "someone_asking_what_is_for_dinner", + "text": "Someone asking what is for dinner" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_missing_charger", + "text": "A missing charger" + }, + { + "id": "a_slow_website", + "text": "A slow website" + }, + { + "id": "a_loud_notification", + "text": "A loud notification" + }, + { + "id": "someone_asking_what_is_for_dinner", + "text": "Someone asking what is for dinner" + } + ] } }, { "id": "stress_008", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us feel like a tiny team against the big stress monster?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps you notice overload before you say yes to more?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "us_against_stress", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "capacity", + "awareness", + "stress" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "checking_your_energy", + "text": "Checking your energy" + }, + { + "id": "looking_at_the_full_week", + "text": "Looking at the full week" + }, + { + "id": "naming_what_is_already_urgent", + "text": "Naming what is already urgent" + }, + { + "id": "asking_for_time_before_answering", + "text": "Asking for time before answering" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "checking_your_energy", + "text": "Checking your energy" + }, + { + "id": "looking_at_the_full_week", + "text": "Looking at the full week" + }, + { + "id": "naming_what_is_already_urgent", + "text": "Naming what is already urgent" + }, + { + "id": "asking_for_time_before_answering", + "text": "Asking for time before answering" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_009", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us not turn stress against each other?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which behavior changes may mean you need support soon?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "protection", + "signals", + "support", "stress" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_withdraw", + "text": "You withdraw" + }, + { + "id": "you_overexplain_simple_things", + "text": "You overexplain simple things" + }, + { + "id": "you_snap_at_small_problems", + "text": "You snap at small problems" + }, + { + "id": "you_stop_doing_basic_self_care", + "text": "You stop doing basic self-care" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "you_withdraw", + "text": "You withdraw" + }, + { + "id": "you_overexplain_simple_things", + "text": "You overexplain simple things" + }, + { + "id": "you_snap_at_small_problems", + "text": "You snap at small problems" + }, + { + "id": "you_stop_doing_basic_self_care", + "text": "You stop doing basic self-care" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_010", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps you say, 'I am overloaded,' before it spills out sideways?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is the clearest sign that your brain is officially done making choices?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "overload", - "communication", + "humor", + "decision_fatigue", "stress" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "every_option_sounds_wrong", + "text": "Every option sounds wrong" + }, + { + "id": "you_ask_me_to_choose", + "text": "You ask me to choose" + }, + { + "id": "you_stare_at_the_same_menu", + "text": "You stare at the same menu" + }, + { + "id": "you_decide_cereal_is_a_complete_strategy", + "text": "You decide cereal is a complete strategy" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "every_option_sounds_wrong", + "text": "Every option sounds wrong" + }, + { + "id": "you_ask_me_to_choose", + "text": "You ask me to choose" + }, + { + "id": "you_stare_at_the_same_menu", + "text": "You stare at the same menu" + }, + { + "id": "you_decide_cereal_is_a_complete_strategy", + "text": "You decide cereal is a complete strategy" + } + ] } }, { "id": "stress_011", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny reset actually helps your nervous system unclench?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes it easier to say that you are reaching your limit?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "reset", - "fun_first", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "communication", + "capacity", + "stress" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simple_phrase", + "text": "A simple phrase" + }, + { + "id": "no_demand_for_a_long_explanation", + "text": "No demand for a long explanation" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_the_request_will_be_taken_seriously", + "text": "Knowing the request will be taken seriously" + }, + { + "id": "not_being_judged_for_needing_less", + "text": "Not being judged for needing less" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simple_phrase", + "text": "A simple phrase" + }, + { + "id": "no_demand_for_a_long_explanation", + "text": "No demand for a long explanation" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_the_request_will_be_taken_seriously", + "text": "Knowing the request will be taken seriously" + }, + { + "id": "not_being_judged_for_needing_less", + "text": "Not being judged for needing less" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_012", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What snack, drink, or comfort belongs in our official stress survival kit?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which kinds of stress are easiest for you to spot early?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "comfort", - "fun_first", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "awareness", + "stress_sources", + "stress" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "schedule_overload", + "text": "Schedule overload" + }, + { + "id": "social_exhaustion", + "text": "Social exhaustion" + }, + { + "id": "health_worry", + "text": "Health worry" + }, + { + "id": "too_many_unfinished_decisions", + "text": "Too many unfinished decisions" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "schedule_overload", + "text": "Schedule overload" + }, + { + "id": "social_exhaustion", + "text": "Social exhaustion" + }, + { + "id": "health_worry", + "text": "Health worry" + }, + { + "id": "too_many_unfinished_decisions", + "text": "Too many unfinished decisions" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_013", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one low-battery way we can still feel close?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "A code word or a direct I am overloaded?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "low_energy", - "connection", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "signals", + "quick_choice", + "stress" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_code_word", + "text": "A code word" + }, + { + "id": "a_direct_i_am_overloaded", + "text": "A direct I am overloaded" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_code_word", + "text": "A code word" + }, + { + "id": "a_direct_i_am_overloaded", + "text": "A direct I am overloaded" + } + ] } }, { "id": "stress_014", "category_id": "stress", - 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"type": "written", - "text": "What timing makes stressful conversations easier?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps distinguish needing space from pulling away emotionally?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "timing", - "communication", + "space", + "clarity", "stress" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "saying_the_space_is_temporary", + "text": "Saying the space is temporary" + }, + { + "id": "naming_when_you_may_reconnect", + "text": "Naming when you may reconnect" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_the_tone_warm", + "text": "Keeping the tone warm" + }, + { + "id": "avoiding_silence_as_punishment", + "text": "Avoiding silence as punishment" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "saying_the_space_is_temporary", + "text": "Saying the space is temporary" + }, + { + "id": "naming_when_you_may_reconnect", + "text": "Naming when you may reconnect" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_the_tone_warm", + "text": "Keeping the tone warm" + }, + { + "id": "avoiding_silence_as_punishment", + "text": "Avoiding silence as punishment" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_019", "category_id": "stress", - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "solve_one_problem", + "text": "Solve one problem" + }, + { + "id": "make_tonight_easier", + "text": "Make tonight easier" + } + ] } }, { "id": "stress_034", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one thing we handled better than we realized?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which kinds of support are easy to accept without explaining everything?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "resilience", - "encouragement", + "support", + "low_pressure", "stress" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_meal", + "text": "A meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_ride", + "text": "A ride" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_company", + "text": "Quiet company" + }, + { + "id": "taking_one_small_task_off_your_plate", + "text": "Taking one small task off your plate" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_meal", + "text": "A meal" + }, + { + "id": "a_ride", + "text": "A ride" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_company", + "text": "Quiet company" + }, + { + "id": "taking_one_small_task_off_your_plate", + "text": "Taking one small task off your plate" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_035", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us land softly after a stressful week?", + "type": "scale", + "text": "How safe does it feel to ask me for a low-demand evening?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "recovery", - "weekly", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "capacity", + "current_state", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe enough", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "stress_036", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps stress not steal every bit of sweetness from us?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make an offer of help feel like criticism?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "sweetness", - "protection", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "support", + "warning_signs", + "stress" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_offer_starts_with_what_you_did_wrong", + "text": "The offer starts with what you did wrong" + }, + { + "id": "the_helper_takes_over_without_asking", + "text": "The helper takes over without asking" + }, + { + "id": "your_method_is_mocked", + "text": "Your method is mocked" + }, + { + "id": "help_is_offered_with_visible_resentment", + "text": "Help is offered with visible resentment" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_offer_starts_with_what_you_did_wrong", + "text": "The offer starts with what you did wrong" + }, + { + "id": "the_helper_takes_over_without_asking", + "text": "The helper takes over without asking" + }, + { + "id": "your_method_is_mocked", + "text": "Your method is mocked" + }, + { + "id": "help_is_offered_with_visible_resentment", + "text": "Help is offered with visible resentment" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_037", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us keep affection alive during stressful seasons?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What kind of support is easiest to underestimate?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "affection", + "support", + "preferences", "stress" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "reducing_decisions", + "text": "Reducing decisions" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_the_room_quiet", + "text": "Keeping the room quiet" + }, + { + "id": "sending_one_useful_message", + "text": "Sending one useful message" + }, + { + "id": "taking_care_of_a_small_practical_detail", + "text": "Taking care of a small practical detail" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "reducing_decisions", + "text": "Reducing decisions" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_the_room_quiet", + "text": "Keeping the room quiet" + }, + { + "id": "sending_one_useful_message", + "text": "Sending one useful message" + }, + { + "id": "taking_care_of_a_small_practical_detail", + "text": "Taking care of a small practical detail" + } + ] } }, { "id": "stress_038", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us keep a little humor alive without forcing it?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can we support each other when both people are stressed?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "humor", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "mutual_stress", + "teamwork", + "stress" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_who_has_less_capacity_right_now", + "text": "Name who has less capacity right now" + }, + { + "id": "choose_one_shared_priority", + "text": "Choose one shared priority" + }, + { + "id": "lower_the_standard_together", + "text": "Lower the standard together" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_competing_over_who_has_it_worse", + "text": "Avoid competing over who has it worse" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_who_has_less_capacity_right_now", + "text": "Name who has less capacity right now" + }, + { + "id": "choose_one_shared_priority", + "text": "Choose one shared priority" + }, + { + "id": "lower_the_standard_together", + "text": "Lower the standard together" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_competing_over_who_has_it_worse", + "text": "Avoid competing over who has it worse" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_039", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us keep patience alive during stressful seasons?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which responses can make a stressed person feel more alone?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "patience", + "support", + "warning_signs", "stress" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "minimizing_the_problem", + "text": "Minimizing the problem" + }, + { + "id": "immediately_offering_a_lecture", + "text": "Immediately offering a lecture" + }, + { + "id": "demanding_gratitude_for_help", + "text": "Demanding gratitude for help" + }, + { + "id": "taking_their_low_energy_personally", + "text": "Taking their low energy personally" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "minimizing_the_problem", + "text": "Minimizing the problem" + }, + { + "id": "immediately_offering_a_lecture", + "text": "Immediately offering a lecture" + }, + { + "id": "demanding_gratitude_for_help", + "text": "Demanding gratitude for help" + }, + { + "id": "taking_their_low_energy_personally", + "text": "Taking their low energy personally" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_040", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "What reassurance helps when your internal battery is flashing low?", - "depth": 3, + "text": "Which form of support is easiest to underestimate?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "reassurance", - "overwhelmed", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "support", + "memory", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 @@ -712,439 +2068,1172 @@ { "id": "stress_041", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What reassurance helps when my internal battery is flashing low?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How comfortable are you receiving help before reaching a breaking point?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "reassurance", - "mutual", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "support", + "current_state", + "stress" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not comfortable yet", + "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "stress_042", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What stress habit could use a kinder replacement?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a support request stay clear and manageable?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "habits", - "kindness", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "requests", + "communication", + "stress" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_for_one_specific_thing", + "text": "Ask for one specific thing" + }, + { + "id": "say_when_it_is_needed", + "text": "Say when it is needed" + }, + { + "id": "name_what_would_not_help", + "text": "Name what would not help" + }, + { + "id": "allow_the_answer_to_be_honest", + "text": "Allow the answer to be honest" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_for_one_specific_thing", + "text": "Ask for one specific thing" + }, + { + "id": "say_when_it_is_needed", + "text": "Say when it is needed" + }, + { + "id": "name_what_would_not_help", + "text": "Name what would not help" + }, + { + "id": "allow_the_answer_to_be_honest", + "text": "Allow the answer to be honest" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_043", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps hard days feel less lonely and more like we are in it together?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which sentence sounds most caring when you cannot fix the problem?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "loneliness", + "language", "support", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "stress" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_am_here", + "text": "I am here" + }, + { + "id": "that_sounds_like_a_lot", + "text": "That sounds like a lot" + }, + { + "id": "what_would_make_the_next_hour_easier", + "text": "What would make the next hour easier?" + }, + { + "id": "you_do_not_have_to_solve_everything_tonight", + "text": "You do not have to solve everything tonight" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_am_here", + "text": "I am here" + }, + { + "id": "that_sounds_like_a_lot", + "text": "That sounds like a lot" + }, + { + "id": "what_would_make_the_next_hour_easier", + "text": "What would make the next hour easier?" + }, + { + "id": "you_do_not_have_to_solve_everything_tonight", + "text": "You do not have to solve everything tonight" + } + ] } }, { "id": "stress_044", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps stressful seasons feel more survivable and less endless?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can help before a day that already looks too full?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "season", - "survival", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "before_stress", + "planning", + "stress" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simpler_morning", + "text": "A simpler morning" + }, + { + "id": "one_clear_priority", + "text": "One clear priority" + }, + { + "id": "food_prepared_ahead", + "text": "Food prepared ahead" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_what_can_be_dropped", + "text": "Knowing what can be dropped" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simpler_morning", + "text": "A simpler morning" + }, + { + "id": "one_clear_priority", + "text": "One clear priority" + }, + { + "id": "food_prepared_ahead", + "text": "Food prepared ahead" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_what_can_be_dropped", + "text": "Knowing what can be dropped" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_045", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would future-us thank us for protecting when stress tried to take over?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which gestures can make a stressful appointment or event easier?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "protection", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "before_stress", + "support", + "stress" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "helping_with_logistics", + "text": "Helping with logistics" + }, + { + "id": "checking_in_afterward", + "text": "Checking in afterward" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_the_rest_of_the_day_light", + "text": "Keeping the rest of the day light" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_the_important_details", + "text": "Remembering the important details" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "helping_with_logistics", + "text": "Helping with logistics" + }, + { + "id": "checking_in_afterward", + "text": "Checking in afterward" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_the_rest_of_the_day_light", + "text": "Keeping the rest of the day light" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_the_important_details", + "text": "Remembering the important details" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_046", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make hard days feel less lonely?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What should remain true when one partner needs more support temporarily?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_day", - "daily_life", - "connection", + "capacity", + "fairness", "stress" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_arrangement_can_be_reviewed", + "text": "The arrangement can be reviewed" + }, + { + "id": "the_supporting_partner_may_name_limits", + "text": "The supporting partner may name limits" + }, + { + "id": "the_struggling_partner_is_not_shamed", + "text": "The struggling partner is not shamed" + }, + { + "id": "outside_help_remains_an_option", + "text": "Outside help remains an option" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_arrangement_can_be_reviewed", + "text": "The arrangement can be reviewed" + }, + { + "id": "the_supporting_partner_may_name_limits", + "text": "The supporting partner may name limits" + }, + { + "id": "the_struggling_partner_is_not_shamed", + "text": "The struggling partner is not shamed" + }, + { + "id": "outside_help_remains_an_option", + "text": "Outside help remains an option" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_047", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "How can we make hard days feel more like us against the problem?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What is the best response when offered help you do not want?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_day", - "daily_life", - "teamwork", + "autonomy", + "support", "stress" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "thank_you_but_not_that", + "text": "Thank you, but not that" + }, + { + "id": "i_need_something_different", + "text": "I need something different" + }, + { + "id": "i_would_rather_handle_this_myself", + "text": "I would rather handle this myself" + }, + { + "id": "any_honest_answer_without_punishment", + "text": "Any honest answer without punishment" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "thank_you_but_not_that", + "text": "Thank you, but not that" + }, + { + "id": "i_need_something_different", + "text": "I need something different" + }, + { + "id": "i_would_rather_handle_this_myself", + "text": "I would rather handle this myself" + }, + { + "id": "any_honest_answer_without_punishment", + "text": "Any honest answer without punishment" + } + ] } }, { "id": "stress_048", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny reset could help with hard days?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which support choices protect dignity during a rough period?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_day", - "daily_life", - "reset", - "small_steps", + "dignity", + "support", "stress" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_privately", + "text": "Ask privately" + }, + { + "id": "offer_choices", + "text": "Offer choices" + }, + { + "id": "keep_personal_details_confidential", + "text": "Keep personal details confidential" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_treating_the_person_like_a_problem", + "text": "Avoid treating the person like a problem" + } + ], "answer_config": { - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "immediate_safety_is_uncertain", + "text": "Immediate safety is uncertain" + }, + { + "id": "basic_functioning_has_sharply_declined", + "text": "Basic functioning has sharply declined" + }, + { + "id": "symptoms_are_severe_or_unfamiliar", + "text": "Symptoms are severe or unfamiliar" + }, + { + "id": "the_situation_is_beyond_either_partner_s_ability", + "text": "The situation is beyond either partner's ability" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_051", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us protect kindness during hard days?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which resets help your nervous system come down a notch?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "hard_day", - "daily_life", - "kindness", - "protection", + "decompression", + "small_resets", "stress" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_warm_shower", + "text": "A warm shower" + }, + { + "id": "a_short_walk", + "text": "A short walk" + }, + { + "id": "quiet_music", + "text": "Quiet music" + }, + { + "id": "sitting_somewhere_without_demands", + "text": "Sitting somewhere without demands" + } + ], "answer_config": { - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_one_says_whether_space_is_needed", + "text": "No one says whether space is needed" + }, + { + "id": "the_silence_lasts_without_a_check_in", + "text": "The silence lasts without a check-in" + }, + { + "id": "it_follows_a_sharp_exchange", + "text": "It follows a sharp exchange" + }, + { + "id": "the_other_person_must_guess_what_it_means", + "text": "The other person must guess what it means" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_114", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What helps us protect kindness during stressful conversations?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which responses protect connection when words are hard to find?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "communication", - "timing", - "kindness", - "protection", + "connection", "stress" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "say_you_need_time", + "text": "Say you need time" + }, + { + "id": "offer_a_simple_reassuring_sentence", + "text": "Offer a simple reassuring sentence" + }, + { + "id": "choose_a_time_to_return", + "text": "Choose a time to return" + }, + { + "id": "use_a_brief_written_message", + "text": "Use a brief written message" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "say_you_need_time", + "text": "Say you need time" + }, + { + "id": "offer_a_simple_reassuring_sentence", + "text": "Offer a simple reassuring sentence" + }, + { + "id": "choose_a_time_to_return", + "text": "Choose a time to return" + }, + { + "id": "use_a_brief_written_message", + "text": "Use a brief written message" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "stress_115", "category_id": "stress", "type": "written", - "text": "Where can we add a little lightness around stressful conversations without dismissing it?", - "depth": 2, + "text": "What do you most want me to remember about you under stress?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ + "understanding", "communication", - "timing", - "fun_first", - "lightness", "stress" ], "answer_config": { @@ -2020,3557 +5558,1687 @@ { "id": "stress_116", "category_id": "stress", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would make big decisions feel less lonely?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps important information survive a stressful week?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - 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], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" - }, - { - "id": "movement", - "text": "Movement" - }, - { - "id": "food_or_drink", - "text": "Food or drink" - }, - { - "id": "talking_it_out", - "text": "Talking it out" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_153", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our stress survival kit include?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "comfort", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "snacks", - "text": "Snacks" - }, - { - "id": "soft_blanket", - "text": "Soft blanket" - }, - { - "id": "playlist", - "text": "Playlist" - }, - { - "id": "no_decision_night", - "text": "No-decision night" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_154", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What low-battery signal would help?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "signals", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "code_word", - "text": "Code word" - }, - { - "id": "hand_squeeze", - "text": "Hand squeeze" - }, - { - "id": "simple_text", - "text": "Simple text" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_mode", - "text": "Quiet mode" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_155", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when you are overwhelmed?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "overwhelmed", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "simplify", - "text": "Simplify" - }, - { - "id": "reassure_me", - "text": "Reassure me" - }, - { - "id": "help_me_choose", - "text": "Help me choose" - }, - { - "id": "let_me_be_quiet", - "text": "Let me be quiet" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_156", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when I am overwhelmed?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "mutual", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "reassure_you", - "text": "Reassure you" - }, - { - "id": "handle_one_task", - "text": "Handle one task" - }, - { - "id": "give_quiet", - "text": "Give quiet" - }, - { - "id": "ask_gently", - "text": "Ask gently" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_157", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes home feel like a soft landing?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "home", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "calm_voice", - "text": "Calm voice" - }, - { - "id": "food", - "text": "Food" - }, - { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" - }, - { - "id": "clean_enough_space", - "text": "Clean enough space" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_158", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes stress feel less lonely?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "loneliness", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "being_checked_on", - "text": "Being checked on" - }, - { - "id": "help_offered", - "text": "Help offered" - }, - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - }, - { - "id": "sitting_close", - "text": "Sitting close" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_159", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we avoid when one of us is maxed out?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "timing", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "big_decisions", - "text": "Big decisions" - }, - { - "id": "blame", - "text": "Blame" - }, - { - "id": "too_many_questions", - "text": "Too many questions" - }, - { - "id": "fixing_too_fast", - "text": "Fixing too fast" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_160", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What tiny reset sounds good today?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "reset", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "snack_reset", - "text": "Snack reset" - }, - { - "id": "shower_reset", - "text": "Shower reset" - }, - { - "id": "walk_reset", - "text": "Walk reset" - }, - { - "id": "couch_reset", - "text": "Couch reset" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_161", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps you rest without guilt?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "rest", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "permission", - "text": "Permission" - }, - { - "id": "shared_load", - "text": "Shared load" - }, - { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" - }, - { - "id": "a_clear_stopping_point", - "text": "A clear stopping point" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_162", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us stay kind under stress?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "kindness", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "use_soft_words", - "text": "Use soft words" - }, - { - "id": "take_a_break", - "text": "Take a break" - }, - { - "id": "remember_we_are_a_team", - "text": "Remember we are a team" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_163", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What recovery plan sounds best after a stressful week?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "recovery", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_date", - "text": "Tiny date" - }, - { - "id": "good_food", - "text": "Good food" - }, - { - "id": "no_plans", - "text": "No plans" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_164", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of lightness helps stress loosen its tiny claws?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "a_joke", - "text": "A joke" - }, - { - "id": "a_snack", - "text": "A snack" - }, - { - "id": "a_silly_reset", - "text": "A silly reset" - }, - { - "id": "a_tiny_win", - "text": "A tiny win" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_165", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should stress feel like between us: shared, temporary, and not the boss?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "shared", - "text": "Shared" - }, - { - "id": "softer", - "text": "Softer" - }, - { - "id": "temporary", - "text": "Temporary" - }, - { - "id": "manageable", - "text": "Manageable" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_166", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which stress area needs the most support?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "support", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "work", - "text": "Work" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - }, - { - "id": "home_life", - "text": "Home life" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_167", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which low-stakes stress area could use more lightness?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "busy_weeks", - "text": "Busy weeks" - }, - { - "id": "errands", - "text": "Errands" - }, - { - "id": "house_stuff", - "text": "House stuff" - }, - { - "id": "minor_annoyances", - "text": "Minor annoyances" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_168", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which stress area needs more gentleness?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "gentleness", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "health_worries", - "text": "Health worries" - }, - { - "id": "money", - "text": "Money" - }, - { - "id": "family_pressure", - "text": "Family pressure" - }, - { - "id": "big_decisions", - "text": "Big decisions" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_169", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes stress turn into tension between us?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "tension", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "bad_timing", - "text": "Bad timing" - }, - { - "id": "feeling_alone", - "text": "Feeling alone" - }, - { - "id": "too_much_at_once", - "text": "Too much at once" - }, - { - "id": "unspoken_needs", - "text": "Unspoken needs" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_170", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps stress stay outside the relationship instead of sitting between us on the couch?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "protection", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "team_language", - "text": "Team language" - }, - { - "id": "check_ins", - "text": "Check-ins" - }, - { - "id": "help_early", - "text": "Help early" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_171", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps work stress not take over the whole house?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "work", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "transition_time", - "text": "Transition time" - }, - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - }, - { - "id": "no_fixing_yet", - "text": "No fixing yet" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_reset", - "text": "Quiet reset" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_172", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when money stress shows up?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "money", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "facts_first", - "text": "Facts first" - }, - { - "id": "no_shame", - "text": "No shame" - }, - { - "id": "one_next_step", - "text": "One next step" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_173", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when family pressure shows up?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "family", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_huddle", - "text": "Private huddle" - }, - { - "id": "shared_boundary", - "text": "Shared boundary" - }, - { - "id": "calm_words", - "text": "Calm words" - }, - { - "id": "choose_us", - "text": "Choose us" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_174", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when health worries show up?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "health", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_support", - "text": "Gentle support" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "no_minimizing", - "text": "No minimizing" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_175", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps household pressure not turn into a pile-on?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home_life", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "simplify", - "text": "Simplify" - }, - { - "id": "share_one_task", - "text": "Share one task" - }, - { - "id": "lower_standards", - "text": "Lower standards" - }, - { - "id": "notice_effort", - "text": "Notice effort" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_176", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when one of us needs quiet but still wants to feel loved?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "quiet", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect_it", - "text": "Respect it" - }, - { - "id": "check_later", - "text": "Check later" - }, - { - "id": "no_guilt", - "text": "No guilt" - }, - { - "id": "stay_nearby", - "text": "Stay nearby" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_177", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when one of us needs closeness?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "closeness", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sit_close", - "text": "Sit close" - }, - { - "id": "hug", - "text": "Hug" - }, - { - "id": "soft_words", - "text": "Soft words" - }, - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_178", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when one of us needs solutions?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "solutions", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "one_option", - "text": "One option" - }, - { - "id": "small_step", - "text": "Small step" - }, - { - "id": "no_rush", - "text": "No rush" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_179", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps when one of us needs comfort?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "comfort", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "listen", - "text": "Listen" - }, - { - "id": "touch_if_wanted", - "text": "Touch if wanted" - }, - { - "id": "reassure", - "text": "Reassure" - }, - { - "id": "make_it_easier", - "text": "Make it easier" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_180", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps before a stressful event?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "before_stress", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "plan_lightly", - "text": "Plan lightly" - }, - { - "id": "reassure", - "text": "Reassure" - }, - { - "id": "pack_early", - "text": "Pack early" - }, - { - "id": "leave_margin", - "text": "Leave margin" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_181", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us land gently after a stressful event?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "after_stress", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" - }, - { - "id": "food", - "text": "Food" - }, - { - "id": "debrief_later", - "text": "Debrief later" - }, - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_182", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us not overtalk stress?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "time_limit", - "text": "Time limit" - }, - { - "id": "one_topic", - "text": "One topic" - }, - { - "id": "breaks", - "text": "Breaks" - }, - { - "id": "come_back_later", - "text": "Come back later" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_183", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us not avoid stress talks completely?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "avoidance", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_start", - "text": "Soft start" - }, - { - "id": "short_talk", - "text": "Short talk" - }, - { - "id": "good_timing", - "text": "Good timing" - }, - { - "id": "clear_care", - "text": "Clear care" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_184", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What helps us lower the pressure before the kettle whistles?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pressure", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "simplify", - "text": "Simplify" - }, - { - "id": "cancel_something", - "text": "Cancel something" - }, - { - "id": "ask_for_help", - "text": "Ask for help" - }, - { - "id": "choose_rest", - "text": "Choose rest" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_185", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a stressful day feel one tiny notch more doable?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "one_priority", - "text": "One priority" - }, - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "help", - "text": "Help" - }, - { - "id": "lower_standards", - "text": "Lower standards" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_186", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes a stressful season feel like something we can get through together?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "season", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "grace", - "text": "Grace" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_wins", - "text": "Tiny wins" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_187", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should get an official stress-survival fake award?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "best_snack_save", - "text": "Best snack save" - }, - { - "id": "best_calm_voice", - "text": "Best calm voice" - }, - { - "id": "best_couch_reset", - "text": "Best couch reset" - }, - { - "id": "best_tiny_win", - "text": "Best tiny win" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_188", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should we celebrate after stress lets go of us for a minute?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "we_stayed_kind", - "text": "We stayed kind" - }, - { - "id": "we_asked_for_help", - "text": "We asked for help" - }, - { - "id": "we_rested", - "text": "We rested" - }, - { - "id": "we_made_it_through", - "text": "We made it through" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_189", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What does stress need less of from us so it stops getting extra fuel?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "simplicity", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "perfection", - "text": "Perfection" - }, - { - "id": "rushing", - "text": "Rushing" - }, - { - "id": "blame", - "text": "Blame" - }, - { - "id": "extra_decisions", - "text": "Extra decisions" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_190", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What does stress need more of from us so we stay on the same team?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "support", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "clear_asks", - "text": "Clear asks" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_191", - "category_id": "stress", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps stress feel less heavy?", + "text": "What would make our stress plan healthier a year from now?", "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "support", + "long_term", + "vision", "stress" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "we_notice_overload_sooner", + "text": "We notice overload sooner" + }, + { + "id": "we_ask_more_clearly", + "text": "We ask more clearly" + }, + { + "id": "we_protect_rest_without_guilt", + "text": "We protect rest without guilt" + }, + { + "id": "we_seek_help_before_everything_becomes_urgent", + "text": "We seek help before everything becomes urgent" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" + "id": "we_notice_overload_sooner", + "text": "We notice overload sooner" }, { - "id": "help", - "text": "Help" + "id": "we_ask_more_clearly", + "text": "We ask more clearly" }, { - "id": "food", - "text": "Food" + "id": "we_protect_rest_without_guilt", + "text": "We protect rest without guilt" }, { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" - }, - { - "id": "being_understood", - "text": "Being understood" + "id": "we_seek_help_before_everything_becomes_urgent", + "text": "We seek help before everything becomes urgent" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } - }, - { - "id": "stress_192", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What belongs in our official low-stress reset kit?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "reset", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "snacks", - "text": "Snacks" - }, - { - "id": "soft_lighting", - "text": "Soft lighting" - }, - { - "id": "no_phones", - "text": "No phones" - }, - { - "id": "music", - "text": "Music" - }, - { - "id": "couch_time", - "text": "Couch time" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_193", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us stay a team under stress?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "use_we", - "text": "Use we" - }, - { - "id": "help_early", - "text": "Help early" - }, - { - "id": "take_breaks", - "text": "Take breaks" - }, - { - "id": "say_thank_you", - "text": "Say thank you" - }, - { - "id": "protect_kindness", - "text": "Protect kindness" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_194", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What tiny wins deserve a little spotlight during stressful weeks?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "tiny_wins", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "rested", - "text": "Rested" - }, - { - "id": "asked_for_help", - "text": "Asked for help" - }, - { - "id": "stayed_kind", - "text": "Stayed kind" - }, - { - "id": "simplified", - "text": "Simplified" - }, - { - "id": "got_through", - "text": "Got through" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_195", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps after a hard day has wrung us out?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "hard_day", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet", - "text": "Quiet" - }, - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "low_expectations", - "text": "Low expectations" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_affection", - "text": "Gentle affection" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_196", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What stress signals should we notice sooner?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "signals", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "going_quiet", - "text": "Going quiet" - }, - { - "id": "snapping", - "text": "Snapping" - }, - { - "id": "overexplaining", - "text": "Overexplaining" - }, - { - "id": "restlessness", - "text": "Restlessness" - }, - { - "id": "withdrawing", - "text": "Withdrawing" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_197", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when stress affects communication?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "slow_down", - "text": "Slow down" - }, - { - "id": "use_soft_starts", - "text": "Use soft starts" - }, - { - "id": "pause", - "text": "Pause" - }, - { - "id": "ask_first", - "text": "Ask first" - }, - { - "id": "come_back_later", - "text": "Come back later" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_198", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when stress affects affection?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "affection", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_pressure", - "text": "No pressure" - }, - { - "id": "small_touch", - "text": "Small touch" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_closeness", - "text": "Quiet closeness" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_199", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps when stress affects patience?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "patience", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "breaks", - "text": "Breaks" - }, - { - "id": "lower_expectations", - "text": "Lower expectations" - }, - { - "id": "sleep", - "text": "Sleep" - }, - { - "id": "food", - "text": "Food" - }, - { - "id": "kind_reminders", - "text": "Kind reminders" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_200", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps with work stress?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "work", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "transition_time", - "text": "Transition time" - }, - { - "id": "listening", - "text": "Listening" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "no_fixing_yet", - "text": "No fixing yet" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_201", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps with money stress?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "money", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "no_shame", - "text": "No shame" - }, - { - "id": "facts", - "text": "Facts" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_plan", - "text": "Tiny plan" - }, - { - "id": "reassurance", - "text": "Reassurance" - }, - { - "id": "one_step", - "text": "One step" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_202", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps with family pressure?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "family", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_huddle", - "text": "Private huddle" - }, - { - "id": "shared_boundary", - "text": "Shared boundary" - }, - { - "id": "support", - "text": "Support" - }, - { - "id": "short_talk", - "text": "Short talk" - }, - { - "id": "choose_us", - "text": "Choose us" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_203", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps with health worries?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "health", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_words", - "text": "Gentle words" - }, - { - "id": "no_minimizing", - "text": "No minimizing" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_support", - "text": "Quiet support" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_204", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps with household pressure?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home_life", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "simplify", - "text": "Simplify" - }, - { - "id": "share_tasks", - "text": "Share tasks" - }, - { - "id": "lower_standards", - "text": "Lower standards" - }, - { - "id": "notice_effort", - "text": "Notice effort" - }, - { - "id": "one_reset", - "text": "One reset" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_205", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps with big decisions?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "decisions", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "time", - "text": "Time" - }, - { - "id": "both_voices", - "text": "Both voices" - }, - { - "id": "one_step", - "text": "One step" - }, - { - "id": "clear_values", - "text": "Clear values" - }, - { - "id": "no_rushing", - "text": "No rushing" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_206", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps us recover together without making recovery another chore?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "recovery", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_date", - "text": "Tiny date" - }, - { - "id": "comfort_food", - "text": "Comfort food" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_night", - "text": "Quiet night" - }, - { - "id": "sweet_check_in", - "text": "Sweet check-in" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_207", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What helps stress not steal all the sweetness from the room?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "sweetness", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "small_affection", - "text": "Small affection" - }, - { - "id": "kind_words", - "text": "Kind words" - }, - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "thank_yous", - "text": "Thank-yous" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_208", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What can we simplify when life is doing entirely too much?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "simplicity", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "meals", - "text": "Meals" - }, - { - "id": "plans", - "text": "Plans" - }, - { - "id": "chores", - "text": "Chores" - }, - { - "id": "expectations", - "text": "Expectations" - }, - { - "id": "decisions", - "text": "Decisions" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_209", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What lightness is safe to add around stress?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "snack_reset", - "text": "Snack reset" - }, - { - "id": "silly_signal", - "text": "Silly signal" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_award", - "text": "Tiny award" - }, - { - "id": "gentle_humor", - "text": "Gentle humor" - }, - { - "id": "cozy_ritual", - "text": "Cozy ritual" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_210", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What deserves a tiny stress-survival award?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "stayed_kind", - "text": "Stayed kind" - }, - { - "id": "asked_for_help", - "text": "Asked for help" - }, - { - "id": "took_a_break", - "text": "Took a break" - }, - { - "id": "made_food", - "text": "Made food" - }, - { - "id": "made_it_through", - "text": "Made it through" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_211", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How stressed do you feel right now?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "current", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not stressed", - "max_label": "Very stressed" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_212", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How supported do you feel when stress is high?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "support", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not supported", - "max_label": "Very supported" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_213", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we stay a team under stress?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_214", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do tiny resets help your stress battery?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "reset", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_215", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to ask for help when stressed?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "help", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_216", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does lightness help when the stress is low-stakes enough for it?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_217", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How hopeful do you feel about handling stress together?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "hope", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not hopeful", - "max_label": "Very hopeful" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_218", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does work stress affect us?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "work", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_219", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does money stress affect us?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "money", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_220", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does family pressure affect us?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "family", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_221", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do household responsibilities add stress?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home_life", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_222", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to talk about stress without blame?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "communication", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_223", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect rest during stressful seasons?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rest", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_224", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect kindness during stressful seasons?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "kindness", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_225", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect affection during stressful seasons?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "affection", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_226", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to say, 'I am overloaded'?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "overload", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_227", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we notice each other's stress signals?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "signals", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_228", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we need a softer landing routine?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "decompress", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_229", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we need more quiet after days that are too loud?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "quiet", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_230", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we need more help-sharing during stress?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "shared_load", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_231", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we recover after stressful weeks?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "recovery", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_232", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much pressure are we carrying that could be lowered?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pressure", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_233", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we celebrate simply making it through hard seasons?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_234", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does stress try to steal our playfulness?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "play", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_235", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much does stress try to make us forget we are on the same team?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_236", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Quiet reset or snack-powered reset?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "reset", - "fun_first", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "quiet_reset", - "text": "Quiet reset" - }, - { - "id": "snack_reset", - "text": "Snack reset" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_237", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Comfort first or solutions first?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "support", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort_first", - "text": "Comfort first" - }, - { - "id": "solutions_first", - "text": "Solutions first" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_238", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Talk it out or sit quietly together?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "connection", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "talk_it_out", - "text": "Talk it out" - }, - { - "id": "sit_quietly", - "text": "Sit quietly together" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_239", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Low-battery code word or hand squeeze?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "signals", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "code_word", - "text": "Code word" - }, - { - "id": "hand_squeeze", - "text": "Hand squeeze" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_240", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Take something off the plate or add comfort?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "support", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "remove_task", - "text": "Take something off the plate" - }, - { - "id": "add_comfort", - "text": "Add comfort" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_241", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Rest first or plan first?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rest", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "rest_first", - "text": "Rest first" - }, - { - "id": "plan_first", - "text": "Plan first" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_242", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Simplify dinner or simplify the schedule?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "simplicity", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "dinner", - "text": "Simplify dinner" - }, - { - "id": "schedule", - "text": "Simplify the schedule" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_243", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Tiny win spotlight or tiny reset?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "tiny_wins", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_win", - "text": "Tiny win" - }, - { - "id": "tiny_reset", - "text": "Tiny reset" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_244", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Soft words or practical help?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "support", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "soft_words", - "text": "Soft words" - }, - { - "id": "practical_help", - "text": "Practical help" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_245", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Private huddle or quiet comfort?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_huddle", - "text": "Private huddle" - }, - { - "id": "quiet_comfort", - "text": "Quiet comfort" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_246", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Lower expectations or cancel something?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "pressure", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "lower_expectations", - "text": "Lower expectations" - }, - { - "id": "cancel_something", - "text": "Cancel something" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_247", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Protect peace or protect rest?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "protection", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Protect peace" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Protect rest" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_248", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Gentle humor or no-jokes-right-now mode?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "gentle_humor", - "text": "Gentle humor" - }, - { - "id": "no_jokes", - "text": "No jokes right now" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_249", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Recover alone first or together first?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "recovery", - "stress" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "alone_first", - "text": "Alone first" - }, - { - "id": "together_first", - "text": "Together first" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "stress_250", - "category_id": "stress", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Stress plan or official stress survival kit?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "stress", - "closer_style", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "stress_plan", - "text": "Stress plan" - }, - { - "id": "survival_kit", - "text": "Stress survival kit" - } - ] - } } ] } diff --git a/seed/questions/values.json b/seed/questions/values.json index 5348b60d..a1c5bd6d 100644 --- a/seed/questions/values.json +++ b/seed/questions/values.json @@ -2,296 +2,767 @@ "category": { "id": "values", "display_name": "Values", - "description": "Warm, Closer-style questions that help couples name what matters, live their shared compass, and keep values practical, loving, lightly playful, and real-life instead of preachy or therapy-heavy.", + "description": "Warm, practical questions about the principles, priorities, tradeoffs, integrity, identity, fairness, freedom, care, and everyday choices that shape a couple's shared life without turning values into a test of agreement.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "explore", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { - "total_questions": 250, - "free_questions": 75, - "premium_questions": 175, + "total_questions": 150, + "free_questions": 45, + "premium_questions": 105, + "planned_type_counts": { + "multi_choice": 90, + "single_choice": 30, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 + }, + "planned_depth_counts": { + "1": 50, + "2": 70, + "3": 30 + }, + "legacy_question_count": 250, + "legacy_written_questions": 150, + "catalog_change": -100, + "content_version": "values_150_final_v2", + "mass_rewrite_reason": "The legacy pack contained 250 questions, including 150 written responses and invalid production depth values above 3. More than 60 percent failed the current interaction and schema standards.", + "pack_purpose": "Help couples name what matters, notice how values appear in ordinary choices, understand meaningful differences, and make tradeoffs without treating one person's values as morally superior.", + "user_feeling": "Known, respected, thoughtful, and free to differ.", + "relationship_outcome": "Clearer shared priorities, better value-based decisions, less moralizing, and more respect for individual convictions.", + "free_value": "Accessible questions about everyday priorities, kindness, honesty, fairness, freedom, family influence, and values visible in ordinary choices.", + "premium_value": "Deeper tradeoffs, value conflicts, identity change, outside pressure, integrity under strain, ethical uncertainty, and long-term alignment.", + "related_pack_boundary": "Values owns principles, priorities, integrity, fairness, freedom, care, tradition, identity, moral tradeoffs, and how beliefs shape choices. Future owns specific plans and hoped-for outcomes. Trust owns dependability, honesty, privacy, and security. Money owns financial choices. Marriage owns commitment and the institution or meaning of marriage. Gratitude owns appreciation. Difficult Conversations owns how hard topics are discussed.", + "safety_boundary": "Questions must not pressure partners to share the same religion, politics, family traditions, identity, or moral conclusions. Differences are not treated as defects, and no answer should endorse discrimination, coercion, isolation, or using values language to control another person.", + "humor_target": "Approximately 3 to 8 percent, using low-stakes humor about family crests, unofficial rules, grocery-cart ethics, tiny hills to die on, and ordinary quirks.", + "coverage_sections": [ + "everyday_values_and_small_choices", + "shared_priorities_and_couple_identity", + "kindness_fairness_and_respect", + "honesty_integrity_and_accountability", + "freedom_independence_and_belonging", + "family_culture_tradition_and_belief", + "tradeoffs_disagreement_and_moral_uncertainty", + "work_success_service_and_contribution", + "change_growth_and_outside_pressure", + "long_term_alignment_and_shared_compass" + ], + "review_workflow": "Six controlled 25-question batches, three 50-question checkpoints, a 100-question guide refresh, and a final per-file and local catalog audit.", + "final_validation": "pass", + "last_completed_batch": 6, + "checkpoint_50": "pass_after_targeted_patches", + "checkpoint_100": "pass_after_targeted_patches", + "context_refresh_100": "Content guide, quality checklist, schema, values boundary, first 100 questions, type balance, depth balance, and repetition re-reviewed.", "type_counts": { - "written": 150, - "single_choice": 40, - "multi_choice": 20, - "scale": 25, - "this_or_that": 15 - } + "multi_choice": 90, + "single_choice": 30, + "scale": 15, + "this_or_that": 10, + "written": 5 + }, + "depth_counts": { + "1": 50, + "2": 70, + "3": 30 + }, + "depth_percentages": { + "light": 33.3, + "medium": 46.7, + "deep": 20.0 + }, + "final_editorial_patches": 7, + "catalog_impact": { + "old_question_count": 250, + "new_question_count": 150, + "net_change": -100, + "old_free_questions": 75, + "new_free_questions": 45, + "old_premium_questions": 175, + "new_premium_questions": 105, + "intentional": true + }, + "schema_changes": "Reduced the legacy pack to 150 questions, reduced written prompts from 150 to 5, converted all depths to integers 1–3, and added required top-level options mirrored under answer_config for choice questions.", + "catalog_validation_scope": "Per-file validation completed. Exact and conservative near-duplicate checks also passed against the completed production packs available in this workspace. Run the repository-wide import gate after replacing the source file.", + "final_review": "Complete guide-driven rebuild and production audit. Replaced the 250-question legacy pack with 150 varied, mostly tap-based questions; kept values focused on principles, priorities, integrity, fairness, freedom, belief, identity, contribution, tradeoffs, and long-term alignment; protected meaningful disagreement and personal autonomy; and validated schema, option fit, safety, uniqueness, repetition, six 25-question batches, and three 50-question checkpoints." } }, "questions": [ { "id": "values_001", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value feels most like the heart-shaped center of us?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which everyday choices reveal a person's values most clearly?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "shared_values", - "identity", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "daily_life", + "small_choices", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_they_treat_service_workers", + "text": "How they treat service workers" + }, + { + "id": "what_they_do_when_nobody_is_watching", + "text": "What they do when nobody is watching" + }, + { + "id": "how_they_use_limited_time", + "text": "How they use limited time" + }, + { + "id": "how_they_respond_to_mistakes", + "text": "How they respond to mistakes" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "how_they_treat_service_workers", + "text": "How they treat service workers" + }, + { + "id": "what_they_do_when_nobody_is_watching", + "text": "What they do when nobody is watching" + }, + { + "id": "how_they_use_limited_time", + "text": "How they use limited time" + }, + { + "id": "how_they_respond_to_mistakes", + "text": "How they respond to mistakes" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_002", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one value you see me living out in regular old Tuesday life?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which value shows up most in an ordinary Tuesday?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "appreciation", "daily_life", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "preferences", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "reliability", + "text": "Reliability" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "fairness", + "text": "Fairness" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "kindness", + "text": "Kindness" + }, + { + "id": "reliability", + "text": "Reliability" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "fairness", + "text": "Fairness" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_003", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one value you hope I notice shining through you?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Keep your word or admit quickly when you cannot?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "seen", - "identity", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "integrity", + "quick_choice", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_your_word", + "text": "Keep your word" + }, + { + "id": "admit_quickly_when_you_cannot", + "text": "Admit quickly when you cannot" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_your_word", + "text": "Keep your word" + }, + { + "id": "admit_quickly_when_you_cannot", + "text": "Admit quickly when you cannot" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_004", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value are we already pretty good at guarding like treasure?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes a value feel lived rather than merely claimed?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "protection", - "strengths", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "integrity", + "actions", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_shapes_inconvenient_choices", + "text": "It shapes inconvenient choices" + }, + { + "id": "it_appears_consistently", + "text": "It appears consistently" + }, + { + "id": "it_survives_outside_attention", + "text": "It survives outside attention" + }, + { + "id": "mistakes_are_acknowledged", + "text": "Mistakes are acknowledged" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_shapes_inconvenient_choices", + "text": "It shapes inconvenient choices" + }, + { + "id": "it_appears_consistently", + "text": "It appears consistently" + }, + { + "id": "it_survives_outside_attention", + "text": "It survives outside attention" + }, + { + "id": "mistakes_are_acknowledged", + "text": "Mistakes are acknowledged" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_005", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value deserves a little more protection from future-us?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How clearly do our daily choices reflect what matters to us?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "protection", - "growth", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "daily_life", + "current_state", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not clearly", + "max_label": "Very clearly" } }, { "id": "values_006", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny daily choice secretly says, 'This is what matters to us'?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which small decisions can carry more meaning than expected?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "daily_life", "small_choices", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "priorities", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "who_gets_our_attention", + "text": "Who gets our attention" + }, + { + "id": "what_we_postpone", + "text": "What we postpone" + }, + { + "id": "how_we_spend_a_free_hour", + "text": "How we spend a free hour" + }, + { + "id": "what_we_protect_when_tired", + "text": "What we protect when tired" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "who_gets_our_attention", + "text": "Who gets our attention" + }, + { + "id": "what_we_postpone", + "text": "What we postpone" + }, + { + "id": "how_we_spend_a_free_hour", + "text": "How we spend a free hour" + }, + { + "id": "what_we_protect_when_tired", + "text": "What we protect when tired" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_007", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one little thing we do that feels like our couple compass?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which tiny value test appears most often in real life?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "compass", - "fun_first", + "humor", + "daily_life", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "returning_the_shopping_cart", + "text": "Returning the shopping cart" + }, + { + "id": "telling_someone_their_light_is_on", + "text": "Telling someone their light is on" + }, + { + "id": "leaving_the_last_snack", + "text": "Leaving the last snack" + }, + { + "id": "admitting_who_finished_the_good_coffee", + "text": "Admitting who finished the good coffee" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "returning_the_shopping_cart", + "text": "Returning the shopping cart" + }, + { + "id": "telling_someone_their_light_is_on", + "text": "Telling someone their light is on" + }, + { + "id": "leaving_the_last_snack", + "text": "Leaving the last snack" + }, + { + "id": "admitting_who_finished_the_good_coffee", + "text": "Admitting who finished the good coffee" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_008", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value makes us feel like a tiny two-person team?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps us notice values without turning every choice into a debate?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "shared_values", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "awareness", + "low_pressure", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "look_for_patterns", + "text": "Look for patterns" + }, + { + "id": "ask_with_curiosity", + "text": "Ask with curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_assigning_motives", + "text": "Avoid assigning motives" + }, + { + "id": "leave_room_for_ordinary_preferences", + "text": "Leave room for ordinary preferences" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "look_for_patterns", + "text": "Look for patterns" + }, + { + "id": "ask_with_curiosity", + "text": "Ask with curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_assigning_motives", + "text": "Avoid assigning motives" + }, + { + "id": "leave_room_for_ordinary_preferences", + "text": "Leave room for ordinary preferences" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_009", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value makes our home feel like it has our fingerprints on it?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which choices can show care without being dramatic?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "home", - "identity", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "care", + "daily_life", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "making_room_for_someone_s_needs", + "text": "Making room for someone's needs" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_a_difficult_day", + "text": "Remembering a difficult day" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_words_carefully", + "text": "Choosing words carefully" + }, + { + "id": "helping_without_making_it_a_performance", + "text": "Helping without making it a performance" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "making_room_for_someone_s_needs", + "text": "Making room for someone's needs" + }, + { + "id": "remembering_a_difficult_day", + "text": "Remembering a difficult day" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_words_carefully", + "text": "Choosing words carefully" + }, + { + "id": "helping_without_making_it_a_performance", + "text": "Helping without making it a performance" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_010", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value makes love feel like a soft place to land?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which conditions make a principle easier to live consistently?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "love", - "safety", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "principles", + "habits", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simple_habit", + "text": "A simple habit" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_boundary", + "text": "A clear boundary" + }, + { + "id": "people_who_support_it", + "text": "People who support it" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_why_it_matters", + "text": "Knowing why it matters" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_simple_habit", + "text": "A simple habit" + }, + { + "id": "a_clear_boundary", + "text": "A clear boundary" + }, + { + "id": "people_who_support_it", + "text": "People who support it" + }, + { + "id": "knowing_why_it_matters", + "text": "Knowing why it matters" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_011", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value makes love feel alive and a little sparkly?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which values are easiest to recognize through actions?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "love", - "fun_first", - "values", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "actions", + "recognition", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "generosity", + "text": "Generosity" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "responsibility", + "text": "Responsibility" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "generosity", + "text": "Generosity" + }, + { + "id": "patience", + "text": "Patience" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + }, + { + "id": "responsibility", + "text": "Responsibility" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_012", "category_id": "values", - 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"type": "written", - "text": "What value should future-us be known for in the best way?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Be consistent or stay open to changing your mind?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "future_us", - "identity", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "growth", + "quick_choice", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "be_consistent", + "text": "Be consistent" + }, + { + "id": "stay_open_to_changing_your_mind", + "text": "Stay open to changing your mind" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "be_consistent", + "text": "Be consistent" + }, + { + "id": "stay_open_to_changing_your_mind", + "text": "Stay open to changing your mind" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_014", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value would past-us give us a tiny gold star for keeping?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a value survive a busy or inconvenient week?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "letting_the_other_person_finish", + "text": "Letting the other person finish" + }, + { + "id": "avoiding_humiliation", + "text": "Avoiding humiliation" + }, + { + "id": "taking_their_concern_seriously", + "text": "Taking their concern seriously" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_their_private_information_private", + "text": "Keeping their private information private" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_017", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value helps us stay like a team when stress gets loud?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How easy is it to name what matters to you without feeling judged?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "stress", - "resilience", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "expression", + "current_state", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not easy yet", + "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "values_018", "category_id": "values", - 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"type": "written", - "text": "What value helps us make decisions without losing our 'us' feeling?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which value would be easiest to put into a weekly habit?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "decisions", - "teamwork", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "habits", + "small_steps", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "generosity", + "text": "Generosity" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "community", + "text": "Community" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "generosity", + "text": "Generosity" + }, + { + "id": "curiosity", + "text": "Curiosity" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "community", + "text": "Community" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_020", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value helps money talks feel honest without shame?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which values can look different in different people?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "money", - "no_shame", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "differences", + "expression", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "love", + "text": "Love" + }, + { + "id": "responsibility", + "text": "Responsibility" + }, + { + "id": "ambition", + "text": "Ambition" + }, + { + "id": "loyalty", + "text": "Loyalty" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "love", + "text": "Love" + }, + { + "id": "responsibility", + "text": "Responsibility" + }, + { + "id": "ambition", + "text": "Ambition" + }, + { + "id": "loyalty", + "text": "Loyalty" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_021", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value helps us face family pressure from the same side of the couch?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps separate a personal value from a personal preference?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "family", - "teamwork", - "values", - 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"type": "written", - "text": "What value reminds us rest is not a prize we have to win?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which ordinary object belongs on our imaginary values crest?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "rest", - "protection", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "humor", + "couple_identity", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_shared_calendar", + "text": "A shared calendar" + }, + { + "id": "a_coffee_mug", + "text": "A coffee mug" + }, + { + "id": "a_flashlight", + "text": "A flashlight" + }, + { + "id": "the_scissors_that_somehow_stay_in_one_place", + "text": "The scissors that somehow stay in one place" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_shared_calendar", + "text": "A shared calendar" + }, + { + "id": "a_coffee_mug", + "text": "A coffee mug" + }, + { + "id": "a_flashlight", + "text": "A flashlight" + }, + { + "id": "the_scissors_that_somehow_stay_in_one_place", + "text": "The scissors that somehow stay in one place" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_023", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value keeps playfulness from getting buried under grown-up stuff?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can help when an action and a stated value do not match?", + "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "play", - "fun_first", - "values", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "integrity", + "accountability", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_the_mismatch_without_humiliation", + "text": "Name the mismatch without humiliation" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_got_in_the_way", + "text": "Ask what got in the way" + }, + { + "id": "change_the_next_action", + "text": "Change the next action" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_pretending_one_mistake_defines_the_person", + "text": "Avoid pretending one mistake defines the person" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_the_mismatch_without_humiliation", + "text": "Name the mismatch without humiliation" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_got_in_the_way", + "text": "Ask what got in the way" + }, + { + "id": "change_the_next_action", + "text": "Change the next action" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_pretending_one_mistake_defines_the_person", + "text": "Avoid pretending one mistake defines the person" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_024", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value helps romance survive regular-life logistics?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which value deserves more room in our ordinary week?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "romance", - "protection", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "priorities", + "growth", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "play", + "text": "Play" + }, + { + "id": "learning", + "text": "Learning" + }, + { + "id": "connection", + "text": "Connection" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + }, + { + "id": "play", + "text": "Play" + }, + { + "id": "learning", + "text": "Learning" + }, + { + "id": "connection", + "text": "Connection" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_025", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one value we show best when life is calm?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make our values feel more practical this month?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - 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"type": "written", - "text": "What value deserves more room in this season of us?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which shared priority feels most central to us right now?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "season", - "growth", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "shared_priorities", + "current_focus", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "stability", + "text": "Stability" + }, + { + "id": "growth", + "text": "Growth" + }, + { + "id": "family", + "text": "Family" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "stability", + "text": "Stability" + }, + { + "id": "growth", + "text": "Growth" + }, + { + "id": "family", + "text": "Family" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_028", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value keeps getting buried under the busy pile?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Protect tradition or make room for reinvention?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "both_people_choose_it", + "text": "Both people choose it" + }, + { + "id": "it_allows_different_expressions", + "text": "It allows different expressions" + }, + { + "id": "it_affects_real_decisions", + "text": "It affects real decisions" + }, + { + "id": "it_can_be_questioned_without_punishment", + "text": "It can be questioned without punishment" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_030", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value makes you want to brag about us a little?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How aligned do our current priorities feel?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "pride", - "shared_values", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "alignment", + "current_state", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very different", + "max_label": "Very aligned" } }, { "id": "values_031", "category_id": "values", - 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"type": "written", - "text": "What value makes us delightfully weird in a good way?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which unofficial couple rule sounds most worth keeping?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "quirks", - "fun_first", - "values", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "humor", + "couple_identity", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "do_not_make_big_decisions_while_hungry", + "text": "Do not make big decisions while hungry" + }, + { + "id": "protect_the_last_good_snack_fairly", + "text": "Protect the last good snack fairly" + }, + { + "id": "tell_the_truth_before_the_group_chat", + "text": "Tell the truth before the group chat" + }, + { + "id": "never_mock_a_serious_hobby", + "text": "Never mock a serious hobby" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "do_not_make_big_decisions_while_hungry", + "text": "Do not make big decisions while hungry" + }, + { + "id": "protect_the_last_good_snack_fairly", + "text": "Protect the last good snack fairly" + }, + { + "id": "tell_the_truth_before_the_group_chat", + "text": "Tell the truth before the group chat" + }, + { + "id": "never_mock_a_serious_hobby", + "text": "Never mock a serious hobby" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_033", "category_id": "values", - 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"type": "written", - "text": "What value helps us keep our eyes on our own little lane?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "A few strong shared values or broad agreement on many?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "comparison", - "identity", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "shared_values", + "quick_choice", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_few_strong_shared_values", + "text": "A few strong shared values" + }, + { + "id": "broad_agreement_on_many", + "text": "Broad agreement on many" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_few_strong_shared_values", + "text": "A few strong shared values" + }, + { + "id": "broad_agreement_on_many", + "text": "Broad agreement on many" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_039", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value makes you feel free to be your full self with me?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a couple value stay flexible without becoming meaningless?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - 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"text": "What value makes our relationship feel emotionally safe and warm?", - "depth": 4, + "text": "What is one principle that makes our relationship feel distinctly like ours?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "emotional_safety", - "trust", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "couple_identity", + "shared_values", + "values" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 @@ -759,461 +1946,1171 @@ { "id": "values_041", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What value makes our relationship feel light and alive?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which priorities are easiest to protect through routines?", + "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "lightness", - "fun_first", + "routines", + "priorities", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "health", + "text": "Health" + }, + { + "id": "connection", + "text": "Connection" + }, + { + "id": "learning", + "text": "Learning" + }, + { + "id": "rest", + "text": "Rest" + } + ], "answer_config": { - 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"joy", - "sweetness", + "control", + "warning_signs", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "only_one_person_defines_it", + "text": "Only one person defines it" + }, + { + "id": "it_is_used_to_end_discussion", + "text": "It is used to end discussion" + }, + { + "id": "every_choice_becomes_a_loyalty_test", + "text": "Every choice becomes a loyalty test" + }, + { + "id": "changing_needs_are_ignored", + "text": "Changing needs are ignored" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "only_one_person_defines_it", + "text": "Only one person defines it" + }, + { + "id": "it_is_used_to_end_discussion", + "text": "It is used to end discussion" + }, + { + "id": "every_choice_becomes_a_loyalty_test", + "text": "Every choice becomes a loyalty test" + }, + { + "id": "changing_needs_are_ignored", + "text": "Changing needs are ignored" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_044", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What is one value we can live out in a tiny way today?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which value is easiest to recognize in the atmosphere of a home?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "today", - "small_steps", + "home_identity", + "values", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "welcome", + "text": "Welcome" + }, + { + "id": "order", + "text": "Order" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + }, + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "welcome", + "text": "Welcome" + }, + { + "id": "order", + "text": "Order" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + }, + { + "id": "peace", + "text": "Peace" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_045", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would our relationship look like if our values turned the volume up a little?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which choices reveal what a couple protects most?", + "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ - "growth", - "identity", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "protection", + "priorities", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "what_gets_time_during_busy_weeks", + "text": "What gets time during busy weeks" + }, + { + "id": "what_is_not_joked_about", + "text": "What is not joked about" + }, + { + "id": "which_commitments_are_kept", + "text": "Which commitments are kept" + }, + { + "id": "who_receives_support_when_plans_conflict", + "text": "Who receives support when plans conflict" + } ], "answer_config": { - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "the_correct_way_to_load_a_dishwasher", + "text": "The correct way to load a dishwasher" + }, + { + "id": "the_proper_direction_of_toilet_paper", + "text": "The proper direction of toilet paper" + }, + { + "id": "whether_leftovers_need_labels", + "text": "Whether leftovers need labels" + }, + { + "id": "who_controls_the_car_temperature", + "text": "Who controls the car temperature" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_073", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should we celebrate about the way we practice peace?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which values can come into tension during caregiving?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "peace", - "home", - "celebration", - "gratitude", + "caregiving", + "tradeoffs", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "compassion_and_autonomy", + "text": "Compassion and autonomy" + }, + { + "id": "duty_and_personal_limits", + "text": "Duty and personal limits" + }, + { + "id": "privacy_and_safety", + "text": "Privacy and safety" + }, + { + "id": "fairness_and_unequal_need", + "text": "Fairness and unequal need" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "compassion_and_autonomy", + "text": "Compassion and autonomy" + }, + { + "id": "duty_and_personal_limits", + "text": "Duty and personal limits" + }, + { + "id": "privacy_and_safety", + "text": "Privacy and safety" + }, + { + "id": "fairness_and_unequal_need", + "text": "Fairness and unequal need" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_074", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "Where does freedom show up in our everyday life right now?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What protects dignity when someone needs more help than usual?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "freedom", - "identity", - "reflection", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "dignity", + "support", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "offer_choices", + "text": "Offer choices" + }, + { + "id": "protect_privacy", + "text": "Protect privacy" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_speaking_for_them_unnecessarily", + "text": "Avoid speaking for them unnecessarily" + }, + { + "id": "do_not_turn_support_into_ownership", + "text": "Do not turn support into ownership" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "offer_choices", + "text": "Offer choices" + }, + { + "id": "protect_privacy", + "text": "Protect privacy" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_speaking_for_them_unnecessarily", + "text": "Avoid speaking for them unnecessarily" + }, + { + "id": "do_not_turn_support_into_ownership", + "text": "Do not turn support into ownership" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_075", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny action would help us live freedom this week?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What would make fairness easier to practice this month?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "freedom", - "identity", + "fairness", "small_steps", - "weekly", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_one_uneven_pattern", + "text": "Name one uneven pattern" + }, + { + "id": "adjust_one_recurring_tradeoff", + "text": "Adjust one recurring tradeoff" + }, + { + "id": "protect_one_overlooked_need", + "text": "Protect one overlooked need" + }, + { + "id": "stop_keeping_score_in_one_area", + "text": "Stop keeping score in one area" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_one_uneven_pattern", + "text": "Name one uneven pattern" + }, + { + "id": "adjust_one_recurring_tradeoff", + "text": "Adjust one recurring tradeoff" + }, + { + "id": "protect_one_overlooked_need", + "text": "Protect one overlooked need" + }, + { + "id": "stop_keeping_score_in_one_area", + "text": "Stop keeping score in one area" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_076", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes freedom feel like part of our couple compass?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which actions make integrity easiest to recognize?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "freedom", - "identity", - "compass", + "integrity", + "actions", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "admitting_an_error", + "text": "Admitting an error" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_a_quiet_promise", + "text": "Keeping a quiet promise" + }, + { + "id": "giving_credit_fairly", + "text": "Giving credit fairly" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_the_same_standard_privately", + "text": "Choosing the same standard privately" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "admitting_an_error", + "text": "Admitting an error" + }, + { + "id": "keeping_a_quiet_promise", + "text": "Keeping a quiet promise" + }, + { + "id": "giving_credit_fairly", + "text": "Giving credit fairly" + }, + { + "id": "choosing_the_same_standard_privately", + "text": "Choosing the same standard privately" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_077", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would future-us thank us for protecting around freedom?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of honesty requires the most courage?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "freedom", - "identity", - "future_us", - "protection", + "honesty", + "courage", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "admitting_uncertainty", + "text": "Admitting uncertainty" + }, + { + "id": "naming_a_mistake", + "text": "Naming a mistake" + }, + { + "id": "saying_no", + "text": "Saying no" + }, + { + "id": "changing_a_long_held_opinion", + "text": "Changing a long-held opinion" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "admitting_uncertainty", + "text": "Admitting uncertainty" + }, + { + "id": "naming_a_mistake", + "text": "Naming a mistake" + }, + { + "id": "saying_no", + "text": "Saying no" + }, + { + "id": "changing_a_long_held_opinion", + "text": "Changing a long-held opinion" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_078", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "Where could freedom use a little more breathing room between us?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How consistently do our actions match the principles we name?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "freedom", - "identity", - "growth", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "integrity", + "current_state", + "values" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not consistently", + "max_label": "Very consistently" } }, { "id": "values_079", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make freedom feel more fun where it fits?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps accountability stay respectful?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "freedom", - "identity", - "fun_first", + "accountability", + "respect", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_the_specific_action", + "text": "Name the specific action" + }, + { + "id": "acknowledge_the_impact", + "text": "Acknowledge the impact" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_public_humiliation", + "text": "Avoid public humiliation" + }, + { + "id": "focus_on_repair_and_future_choices", + "text": "Focus on repair and future choices" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "name_the_specific_action", + "text": "Name the specific action" + }, + { + "id": "acknowledge_the_impact", + "text": "Acknowledge the impact" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_public_humiliation", + "text": "Avoid public humiliation" + }, + { + "id": "focus_on_repair_and_future_choices", + "text": "Focus on repair and future choices" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_080", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should we celebrate about the way we practice freedom?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which situations can test integrity more than expected?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "freedom", - "identity", - "celebration", - "gratitude", + "integrity", + "pressure", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_convenient_shortcut", + "text": "A convenient shortcut" + }, + { + "id": "pressure_from_people_we_admire", + "text": "Pressure from people we admire" + }, + { + "id": "a_mistake_nobody_noticed", + "text": "A mistake nobody noticed" + }, + { + "id": "a_promise_that_became_difficult", + "text": "A promise that became difficult" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_convenient_shortcut", + "text": "A convenient shortcut" + }, + { + "id": "pressure_from_people_we_admire", + "text": "Pressure from people we admire" + }, + { + "id": "a_mistake_nobody_noticed", + "text": "A mistake nobody noticed" + }, + { + "id": "a_promise_that_became_difficult", + "text": "A promise that became difficult" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_081", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "Where does playfulness show up in our everyday life right now?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Tell the uncomfortable truth or wait for better timing?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "play", - "fun_first", - "reflection", - "values", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "honesty", + "quick_choice", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "tell_the_uncomfortable_truth", + "text": "Tell the uncomfortable truth" + }, + { + "id": "wait_for_better_timing", + "text": "Wait for better timing" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "tell_the_uncomfortable_truth", + "text": "Tell the uncomfortable truth" + }, + { + "id": "wait_for_better_timing", + "text": "Wait for better timing" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_082", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny action would help us live playfulness this week?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which sentence sounds most accountable after a mistake?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "play", - "fun_first", - "small_steps", - "weekly", + "accountability", + "language", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_did_that", + "text": "I did that" + }, + { + "id": "i_understand_the_effect", + "text": "I understand the effect" + }, + { + "id": "i_will_correct_what_i_can", + "text": "I will correct what I can" + }, + { + "id": "all_three_without_an_excuse_attached", + "text": "All three without an excuse attached" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "i_did_that", + "text": "I did that" + }, + { + "id": "i_understand_the_effect", + "text": "I understand the effect" + }, + { + "id": "i_will_correct_what_i_can", + "text": "I will correct what I can" + }, + { + "id": "all_three_without_an_excuse_attached", + "text": "All three without an excuse attached" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_083", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes playfulness feel like one of the arrows on our couple compass?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What makes an apology consistent with integrity?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "play", - "fun_first", - "compass", - "identity", - "values", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "apology", + "integrity", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_names_the_behavior", + "text": "It names the behavior" + }, + { + "id": "it_does_not_demand_forgiveness", + "text": "It does not demand forgiveness" + }, + { + "id": "it_includes_changed_action", + "text": "It includes changed action" + }, + { + "id": "it_avoids_blaming_the_listener", + "text": "It avoids blaming the listener" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_names_the_behavior", + "text": "It names the behavior" + }, + { + "id": "it_does_not_demand_forgiveness", + "text": "It does not demand forgiveness" + }, + { + "id": "it_includes_changed_action", + "text": "It includes changed action" + }, + { + "id": "it_avoids_blaming_the_listener", + "text": "It avoids blaming the listener" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_084", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would future-us thank us for protecting around playfulness?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How safe does it feel to point out a mismatch between words and actions?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "play", - "fun_first", - "future_us", - "protection", + "integrity", + "current_state", "values" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe enough", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "values_085", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "Where could playfulness use more room between us?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make honesty become cruelty in disguise?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "play", - "fun_first", - "growth", + "honesty", + "warning_signs", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "sharing_unnecessary_hurtful_detail", + "text": "Sharing unnecessary hurtful detail" + }, + { + "id": "using_truth_to_punish", + "text": "Using truth to punish" + }, + { + "id": "ignoring_timing_and_safety", + "text": "Ignoring timing and safety" + }, + { + "id": "claiming_honesty_removes_responsibility_for_tone", + "text": "Claiming honesty removes responsibility for tone" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "sharing_unnecessary_hurtful_detail", + "text": "Sharing unnecessary hurtful detail" + }, + { + "id": "using_truth_to_punish", + "text": "Using truth to punish" + }, + { + "id": "ignoring_timing_and_safety", + "text": "Ignoring timing and safety" + }, + { + "id": "claiming_honesty_removes_responsibility_for_tone", + "text": "Claiming honesty removes responsibility for tone" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_086", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make playfulness feel more fun where it fits?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which quiet choices show responsibility?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "play", - "fun_first", + "responsibility", + "daily_life", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "correcting_a_small_error", + "text": "Correcting a small error" + }, + { + "id": "preparing_before_a_commitment", + "text": "Preparing before a commitment" + }, + { + "id": "returning_what_was_borrowed", + "text": "Returning what was borrowed" + }, + { + "id": "asking_for_help_before_a_crisis", + "text": "Asking for help before a crisis" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "correcting_a_small_error", + "text": "Correcting a small error" + }, + { + "id": "preparing_before_a_commitment", + "text": "Preparing before a commitment" + }, + { + "id": "returning_what_was_borrowed", + "text": "Returning what was borrowed" + }, + { + "id": "asking_for_help_before_a_crisis", + "text": "Asking for help before a crisis" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_087", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should we celebrate about the way we practice playfulness?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "What makes a changed opinion feel principled rather than inconsistent?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "play", - "fun_first", - "celebration", - "gratitude", + "growth", + "integrity", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "new_evidence", + "text": "New evidence" + }, + { + "id": "a_better_understanding_of_harm", + "text": "A better understanding of harm" + }, + { + "id": "an_honest_change_in_priorities", + "text": "An honest change in priorities" + }, + { + "id": "willingness_to_explain_the_change", + "text": "Willingness to explain the change" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "new_evidence", + "text": "New evidence" + }, + { + "id": "a_better_understanding_of_harm", + "text": "A better understanding of harm" + }, + { + "id": "an_honest_change_in_priorities", + "text": "An honest change in priorities" + }, + { + "id": "willingness_to_explain_the_change", + "text": "Willingness to explain the change" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_088", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "Where does romance show up in our everyday life right now?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can we question each other without acting like moral judges?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance", - "connection", - "reflection", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "questions", + "respect", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "ask_about_the_decision", + "text": "Ask about the decision" + }, + { + "id": "leave_room_for_context", + "text": "Leave room for context" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_declaring_motives", + "text": "Avoid declaring motives" + }, + { + "id": "remember_our_own_blind_spots", + "text": "Remember our own blind spots" + } ], "answer_config": { - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "only_one_person_apologizes", + "text": "Only one person apologizes" + }, + { + "id": "status_excuses_bad_behavior", + "text": "Status excuses bad behavior" + }, + { + "id": "the_same_rules_are_not_applied_mutually", + "text": "The same rules are not applied mutually" + }, + { + "id": "questions_are_welcomed_from_only_one_direction", + "text": "Questions are welcomed from only one direction" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_090", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - "text": "What makes romance feel like one of the arrows on our couple compass?", + "text": "What is one moment when you saw me choose integrity over convenience?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "romance", - "connection", - "compass", - "identity", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "integrity", + "memory", + "values" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 @@ -1686,452 +4278,1171 @@ { "id": "values_091", "category_id": "values", - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "personal_interests", + "text": "Personal interests" + }, + { + "id": "separate_friendships", + "text": "Separate friendships" + }, + { + "id": "time_alone", + "text": "Time alone" + }, + { + "id": "confidence_making_ordinary_choices", + "text": "Confidence making ordinary choices" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_103", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny action would help us live growth this week?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Belong deeply or protect strong independence?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth", - "future_us", - "small_steps", - "weekly", + "belonging", + "quick_choice", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "belong_deeply", + "text": "Belong deeply" + }, + { + "id": "protect_strong_independence", + "text": "Protect strong independence" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "belong_deeply", + "text": "Belong deeply" + }, + { + "id": "protect_strong_independence", + "text": "Protect strong independence" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_104", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes growth feel like part of our couple compass?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps belonging feel secure without becoming restrictive?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "growth", - "future_us", - "compass", - "identity", + "belonging", + "freedom", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "choice_remains_visible", + "text": "Choice remains visible" + }, + { + "id": "outside_relationships_are_respected", + "text": "Outside relationships are respected" + }, + { + "id": "privacy_is_allowed", + "text": "Privacy is allowed" + }, + { + "id": "leaving_unsafe_situations_remains_possible", + "text": "Leaving unsafe situations remains possible" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "choice_remains_visible", + "text": "Choice remains visible" + }, + { + "id": "outside_relationships_are_respected", + "text": "Outside relationships are respected" + }, + { + "id": "privacy_is_allowed", + "text": "Privacy is allowed" + }, + { + "id": "leaving_unsafe_situations_remains_possible", + "text": "Leaving unsafe situations remains possible" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_105", "category_id": "values", - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "participation_is_forced", + "text": "Participation is forced" + }, + { + "id": "harm_is_protected_from_criticism", + "text": "Harm is protected from criticism" + }, + { + "id": "one_culture_is_treated_as_superior", + "text": "One culture is treated as superior" + }, + { + "id": "people_must_hide_parts_of_themselves", + "text": "People must hide parts of themselves" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_113", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "Where could rest use a little more breathing room between us?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "this_or_that", + "text": "Keep the original tradition or keep its meaning in a new form?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rest", - "wellbeing", - "growth", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "tradition", + "quick_choice", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_the_original_tradition", + "text": "Keep the original tradition" + }, + { + "id": "keep_its_meaning_in_a_new_form", + "text": "Keep its meaning in a new form" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "keep_the_original_tradition", + "text": "Keep the original tradition" + }, + { + "id": "keep_its_meaning_in_a_new_form", + "text": "Keep its meaning in a new form" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_114", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make rest feel more fun where it fits?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "How can different spiritual or philosophical beliefs coexist respectfully?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "rest", - "wellbeing", - "fun_first", + "belief", + "differences", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_forced_participation", + "text": "No forced participation" + }, + { + "id": "genuine_questions_are_welcome", + "text": "Genuine questions are welcome" + }, + { + "id": "mockery_stays_off_limits", + "text": "Mockery stays off limits" + }, + { + "id": "shared_decisions_remain_mutual", + "text": "Shared decisions remain mutual" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "no_forced_participation", + "text": "No forced participation" + }, + { + "id": "genuine_questions_are_welcome", + "text": "Genuine questions are welcome" + }, + { + "id": "mockery_stays_off_limits", + "text": "Mockery stays off limits" + }, + { + "id": "shared_decisions_remain_mutual", + "text": "Shared decisions remain mutual" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_115", "category_id": "values", "type": "written", - 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"depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which approaches make curiosity about identity feel intrusive?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "adventure", - "fun_first", - "compass", "identity", - "values", - "closer_style", - "warm" + "boundaries", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "demanding_personal_disclosure", + "text": "Demanding personal disclosure" + }, + { + "id": "treating_someone_as_a_spokesperson", + "text": "Treating someone as a spokesperson" + }, + { + "id": "debating_their_lived_experience", + "text": "Debating their lived experience" + }, + { + "id": "ignoring_a_request_to_stop", + "text": "Ignoring a request to stop" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "demanding_personal_disclosure", + "text": "Demanding personal disclosure" + }, + { + "id": "treating_someone_as_a_spokesperson", + "text": "Treating someone as a spokesperson" + }, + { + "id": "debating_their_lived_experience", + "text": "Debating their lived experience" + }, + { + "id": "ignoring_a_request_to_stop", + "text": "Ignoring a request to stop" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_119", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would future-us thank us for protecting around adventure?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which unofficial family tradition has the strongest chance of surviving?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "adventure", - "fun_first", - "future_us", - "protection", + "humor", + "tradition", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_specific_holiday_food", + "text": "A specific holiday food" + }, + { + "id": "one_repeated_joke", + "text": "One repeated joke" + }, + { + "id": "an_argument_about_the_correct_recipe", + "text": "An argument about the correct recipe" + }, + { + "id": "someone_forgetting_the_same_essential_item", + "text": "Someone forgetting the same essential item" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_specific_holiday_food", + "text": "A specific holiday food" + }, + { + "id": "one_repeated_joke", + "text": "One repeated joke" + }, + { + "id": "an_argument_about_the_correct_recipe", + "text": "An argument about the correct recipe" + }, + { + "id": "someone_forgetting_the_same_essential_item", + "text": "Someone forgetting the same essential item" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_120", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "Where could adventure use more room between us?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps a partner feel included in a family culture?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "adventure", - "fun_first", - "growth", + "family", + "belonging", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "explain_unfamiliar_customs", + "text": "Explain unfamiliar customs" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_testing_their_loyalty", + "text": "Avoid testing their loyalty" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_participation_feels_comfortable", + "text": "Ask what participation feels comfortable" + }, + { + "id": "support_them_when_traditions_become_overwhelming", + "text": "Support them when traditions become overwhelming" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "explain_unfamiliar_customs", + "text": "Explain unfamiliar customs" + }, + { + "id": "avoid_testing_their_loyalty", + "text": "Avoid testing their loyalty" + }, + { + "id": "ask_what_participation_feels_comfortable", + "text": "Ask what participation feels comfortable" + }, + { + "id": "support_them_when_traditions_become_overwhelming", + "text": "Support them when traditions become overwhelming" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_121", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make adventure feel more fun where it fits?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which value conflicts can appear around family expectations?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "adventure", - "fun_first", + "family", + "tradeoffs", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "loyalty_and_safety", + "text": "Loyalty and safety" + }, + { + "id": "tradition_and_equality", + "text": "Tradition and equality" + }, + { + "id": "privacy_and_openness", + "text": "Privacy and openness" + }, + { + "id": "duty_and_personal_limits", + "text": "Duty and personal limits" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "loyalty_and_safety", + "text": "Loyalty and safety" + }, + { + "id": "tradition_and_equality", + "text": "Tradition and equality" + }, + { + "id": "privacy_and_openness", + "text": "Privacy and openness" + }, + { + "id": "duty_and_personal_limits", + "text": "Duty and personal limits" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_122", "category_id": "values", - 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"type": "written", - "text": "What tiny action would help us live family this week?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which beliefs should never be used to justify harm?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "belonging", - "small_steps", - "weekly", + "safety", + "ethics", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "beliefs_about_gender_roles", + "text": "Beliefs about gender roles" + }, + { + "id": "beliefs_about_obedience", + "text": "Beliefs about obedience" + }, + { + "id": "beliefs_about_family_reputation", + "text": "Beliefs about family reputation" + }, + { + "id": "beliefs_that_deny_another_person_s_basic_dignity", + "text": "Beliefs that deny another person’s basic dignity" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "beliefs_about_gender_roles", + "text": "Beliefs about gender roles" + }, + { + "id": "beliefs_about_obedience", + "text": "Beliefs about obedience" + }, + { + "id": "beliefs_about_family_reputation", + "text": "Beliefs about family reputation" + }, + { + "id": "beliefs_that_deny_another_person_s_basic_dignity", + "text": "Beliefs that deny another person’s basic dignity" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_125", "category_id": "values", - 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"type": "written", - "text": "Where could family use more room between us?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which value is hardest to protect when choices become complicated?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "family", - "belonging", - "growth", + "tradeoffs", + "preferences", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "fairness", + "text": "Fairness" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + }, + { + "id": "compassion", + "text": "Compassion" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "fairness", + "text": "Fairness" + }, + { + "id": "freedom", + "text": "Freedom" + }, + { + "id": "compassion", + "text": "Compassion" + }, + { + "id": "honesty", + "text": "Honesty" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_128", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make family feel more fun where it fits?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How comfortable are we admitting that two good values can conflict?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - 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"type": "written", - "text": "Where could home use more room between us?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How safe does it feel to say that one of your values has changed?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "home", - "security", - "growth", + "change", + "current_state", "values" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Not safe enough", + "max_label": "Very safe" } }, { "id": "values_135", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make home feel more fun where it fits?", - "depth": 1, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What can make moral certainty dangerous?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "home", - "security", - "fun_first", + "certainty", + "warning_signs", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "refusing_evidence", + "text": "Refusing evidence" + }, + { + "id": "treating_questions_as_disloyalty", + "text": "Treating questions as disloyalty" + }, + { + "id": "excusing_harm_for_the_cause", + "text": "Excusing harm for the cause" + }, + { + "id": "believing_good_intent_makes_accountability_unnecessary", + "text": "Believing good intent makes accountability unnecessary" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "refusing_evidence", + "text": "Refusing evidence" + }, + { + "id": "treating_questions_as_disloyalty", + "text": "Treating questions as disloyalty" + }, + { + "id": "excusing_harm_for_the_cause", + "text": "Excusing harm for the cause" + }, + { + "id": "believing_good_intent_makes_accountability_unnecessary", + "text": "Believing good intent makes accountability unnecessary" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_136", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What should we celebrate about the way we practice home?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which ideas of success can support a healthy shared life?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "home", - "security", - "celebration", - "gratitude", + "success", + "work", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "enough_time_for_relationships", + "text": "Enough time for relationships" + }, + { + "id": "work_with_personal_meaning", + "text": "Work with personal meaning" + }, + { + "id": "financial_stability", + "text": "Financial stability" + }, + { + "id": "room_for_health_and_rest", + "text": "Room for health and rest" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "enough_time_for_relationships", + "text": "Enough time for relationships" + }, + { + "id": "work_with_personal_meaning", + "text": "Work with personal meaning" + }, + { + "id": "financial_stability", + "text": "Financial stability" + }, + { + "id": "room_for_health_and_rest", + "text": "Room for health and rest" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_137", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "Where does respect show up in our everyday life right now?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which success symbol is most likely to be overrated?", + "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "respect", - "safety", - "reflection", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "humor", + "success", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_perfect_schedule", + "text": "A perfect schedule" + }, + { + "id": "a_job_title_nobody_understands", + "text": "A job title nobody understands" + }, + { + "id": "a_home_nobody_has_time_to_enjoy", + "text": "A home nobody has time to enjoy" + }, + { + "id": "being_busy_enough_to_require_three_calendars", + "text": "Being busy enough to require three calendars" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "a_perfect_schedule", + "text": "A perfect schedule" + }, + { + "id": "a_job_title_nobody_understands", + "text": "A job title nobody understands" + }, + { + "id": "a_home_nobody_has_time_to_enjoy", + "text": "A home nobody has time to enjoy" + }, + { + "id": "being_busy_enough_to_require_three_calendars", + "text": "Being busy enough to require three calendars" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_138", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What tiny action would help us live respect this week?", - "depth": 2, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which work values can conflict with personal wellbeing?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "respect", - "safety", - "small_steps", - "weekly", + "work", + "tradeoffs", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "ambition_and_rest", + "text": "Ambition and rest" + }, + { + "id": "loyalty_and_fair_treatment", + "text": "Loyalty and fair treatment" + }, + { + "id": "achievement_and_health", + "text": "Achievement and health" + }, + { + "id": "service_and_personal_boundaries", + "text": "Service and personal boundaries" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "ambition_and_rest", + "text": "Ambition and rest" + }, + { + "id": "loyalty_and_fair_treatment", + "text": "Loyalty and fair treatment" + }, + { + "id": "achievement_and_health", + "text": "Achievement and health" + }, + { + "id": "service_and_personal_boundaries", + "text": "Service and personal boundaries" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_139", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What makes respect feel like part of our couple compass?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What helps contribution stay meaningful without becoming self-sacrifice?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "respect", - "safety", - "compass", - "identity", + "service", + "boundaries", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "give_within_capacity", + "text": "Give within capacity" + }, + { + "id": "choose_causes_freely", + "text": "Choose causes freely" + }, + { + "id": "keep_personal_needs_visible", + "text": "Keep personal needs visible" + }, + { + "id": "share_responsibility_with_others", + "text": "Share responsibility with others" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "give_within_capacity", + "text": "Give within capacity" + }, + { + "id": "choose_causes_freely", + "text": "Choose causes freely" + }, + { + "id": "keep_personal_needs_visible", + "text": "Keep personal needs visible" + }, + { + "id": "share_responsibility_with_others", + "text": "Share responsibility with others" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_140", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "What would future-us thank us for protecting around respect?", - "depth": 3, + "type": "scale", + "text": "How aligned do our definitions of a good life feel?", + "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "respect", - "safety", - "future_us", - "protection", + "good_life", + "current_state", "values" ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "min": 1, + "max": 5, + "min_label": "Very different", + "max_label": "Very aligned" } }, { "id": "values_141", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "Where could respect use a little more breathing room between us?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which patterns can turn service or generosity into control?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "respect", - "safety", - "growth", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "service", + "warning_signs", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "help_is_given_without_consent", + "text": "Help is given without consent" + }, + { + "id": "recipients_are_expected_to_obey", + "text": "Recipients are expected to obey" + }, + { + "id": "public_praise_matters_more_than_impact", + "text": "Public praise matters more than impact" + }, + { + "id": "support_is_withdrawn_to_punish_disagreement", + "text": "Support is withdrawn to punish disagreement" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "help_is_given_without_consent", + "text": "Help is given without consent" + }, + { + "id": "recipients_are_expected_to_obey", + "text": "Recipients are expected to obey" + }, + { + "id": "public_praise_matters_more_than_impact", + "text": "Public praise matters more than impact" + }, + { + "id": "support_is_withdrawn_to_punish_disagreement", + "text": "Support is withdrawn to punish disagreement" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_142", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "How could we make respect feel more fun where it fits?", + "type": "single_choice", + "text": "Which kind of contribution feels most meaningful to you?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "respect", - "safety", - "fun_first", + "contribution", + "preferences", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "helping_individuals_directly", + "text": "Helping individuals directly" + }, + { + "id": "building_something_useful", + "text": "Building something useful" + }, + { + "id": "supporting_community_systems", + "text": "Supporting community systems" + }, + { + "id": "teaching_or_sharing_knowledge", + "text": "Teaching or sharing knowledge" + } + ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "helping_individuals_directly", + "text": "Helping individuals directly" + }, + { + "id": "building_something_useful", + "text": "Building something useful" + }, + { + "id": "supporting_community_systems", + "text": "Supporting community systems" + }, + { + "id": "teaching_or_sharing_knowledge", + "text": "Teaching or sharing knowledge" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_143", "category_id": "values", - 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"type": "written", - "text": "Where does curiosity show up in our everyday life right now?", + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "Which outside pressures can distort a couple’s priorities?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "curiosity", - "connection", - "reflection", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" + "outside_pressure", + "priorities", + "values" + ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "family_expectations", + "text": "Family expectations" + }, + { + "id": "social_status", + "text": "Social status" + }, + { + "id": "fear_of_judgment", + "text": "Fear of judgment" + }, + { + "id": "comparing_visible_milestones", + "text": "Comparing visible milestones" + } ], "answer_config": { - "max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "family_expectations", + "text": "Family expectations" + }, + { + "id": "social_status", + "text": "Social status" + }, + { + "id": "fear_of_judgment", + "text": "Fear of judgment" + }, + { + "id": "comparing_visible_milestones", + "text": "Comparing visible milestones" + } + ], + "min_selections": 1, + "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "values_145", "category_id": "values", - 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"max_length": 500 + "options": [ + { + "id": "it_guides_choices_without_coercion", + "text": "It guides choices without coercion" + }, + { + "id": "both_people_can_explain_it", + "text": "Both people can explain it" + }, + { + "id": "it_leaves_room_for_growth", + "text": "It leaves room for growth" + }, + { + "id": "its_effects_match_its_purpose", + "text": "Its effects match its purpose" + } + ] } }, { "id": "values_148", "category_id": "values", - "type": "written", - "text": "Where could curiosity use more room between us?", - "depth": 4, + "type": "multi_choice", + "text": "What protects a relationship when values change at different speeds?", + "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "curiosity", - "connection", - "growth", + "change", + "relationship", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "honest_updates", + "text": "Honest updates" + }, + { + "id": "no_forced_agreement", + "text": "No forced agreement" + }, + { + "id": "attention_to_shared_consequences", + "text": "Attention to shared consequences" + }, + { + "id": "outside_support_when_the_difference_becomes_destabilizing", + "text": "Outside support when the difference becomes destabilizing" + } + ], "answer_config": { - 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}, - { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" - }, - { - "id": "home", - "text": "Home" - }, - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_154", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What value makes you feel most loved?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "love", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "loyalty", - "text": "Loyalty" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_155", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What value makes you feel most safe?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "safety", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "gentleness", - "text": "Gentleness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_156", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What value makes you feel most free?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "freedom", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "acceptance", - "text": "Acceptance" - }, - { - "id": "independence", - "text": "Independence" - }, - { - "id": "room_to_grow", - "text": "Room to grow" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_157", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What value makes life together more fun?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "spontaneity", - "text": "Spontaneity" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_158", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What value helps us when life gets stressful?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "grace", - "text": "Grace" - }, - { - "id": "simplicity", - "text": "Simplicity" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_159", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What value helps us after conflict?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "conflict", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - }, - { - "id": "humility", - "text": "Humility" - }, - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_160", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What value helps home feel like home?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "home", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" - }, - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - }, - { - "id": "belonging", - "text": "Belonging" - }, - { - "id": "warmth", - "text": "Warmth" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_161", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What value should be on our imaginary family crest?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "loyalty", - "text": "Loyalty" - }, - { - "id": "laughter", - "text": "Laughter" - }, - { - "id": "courage", - "text": "Courage" - }, - { - "id": "snacks", - "text": "Snacks" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_162", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What kind of value talk sounds best?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "tone", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "sweet", - "text": "Sweet" - }, - { - "id": "playful", - "text": "Playful" - }, - { - "id": "deep", - "text": "Deep" - }, - { - "id": "practical", - "text": "Practical" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_163", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What value should future-us thank us for protecting?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "future_us", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "dreams", - "text": "Dreams" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_164", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What value should get a tiny gold star?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "trying", - "text": "Trying" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "joy", - "text": "Joy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_165", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should values feel like between us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "identity", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "grounding", - "text": "Grounding" - }, - { - "id": "freeing", - "text": "Freeing" - }, - { - "id": "warm", - "text": "Warm" - }, - { - "id": "alive", - "text": "Alive" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_166", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which value needs more tiny real-life practice?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "growth", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_167", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which value should lead hard conversations?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "hard_talks", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "courage", - "text": "Courage" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_168", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which value should lead money talks?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "money", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "no_shame", - "text": "No shame" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "simplicity", - "text": "Simplicity" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_169", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which value should lead family pressure talks?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "family", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "loyalty", - "text": "Loyalty" - }, - { - "id": "boundaries", - "text": "Boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_170", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which value should lead future planning?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hope", - "text": "Hope" - }, - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - }, - { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_171", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "Which value should lead home life?", - "depth": 2, - 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"text": "Humility" - }, - { - "id": "care", - "text": "Care" - }, - { - "id": "accountability", - "text": "Accountability" - }, - { - "id": "softness", - "text": "Softness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_174", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes value talk feel too much like a serious meeting?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "therapy_risk", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "too_formal", - "text": "Too formal" - }, - { - "id": "too_many_rules", - "text": "Too many rules" - }, - { - "id": "no_humor", - "text": "No humor" - }, - { - "id": "no_real_life_examples", - "text": "No real-life examples" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_175", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes our values feel alive instead of stuck on a poster?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "alive", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_actions", - "text": "Tiny actions" - }, - { - "id": "shared_jokes", - "text": "Shared jokes" - }, - { - "id": "real_choices", - "text": "Real choices" - }, - { - "id": "daily_kindness", - "text": "Daily kindness" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_176", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes shared values feel romantic in real life?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "choosing_each_other", - "text": "Choosing each other" - }, - { - "id": "protecting_trust", - "text": "Protecting trust" - }, - { - "id": "dreaming_together", - "text": "Dreaming together" - }, - { - "id": "small_promises", - "text": "Small promises" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_177", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes shared values feel playful instead of preachy?", - 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"category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes shared values feel safe instead of rigid?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "safety", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "no_judgment", - "text": "No judgment" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_180", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What makes shared values feel like they have our fingerprints on them?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "identity", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "our_history", - "text": "Our history" - }, - { - "id": "our_humor", - "text": "Our humor" - }, - { - "id": "our_choices", - "text": "Our choices" - }, - { - "id": "our_dreams", - 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"text": "Simplify" - }, - { - "id": "rituals", - "text": "Rituals" - }, - { - "id": "say_no", - "text": "Say no" - }, - { - "id": "check_in", - "text": "Check in" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_185", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What value needs more room in our calendar?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "calendar", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "connection", - "text": "Connection" - }, - { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" - }, - { - "id": "family", - "text": "Family" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_186", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What value needs more room in our home?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "beauty", - "text": "Beauty" - }, - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_187", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What value needs more room in our decisions?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "decisions", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "fairness", - "text": "Fairness" - }, - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - }, - { - "id": "joy", - "text": "Joy" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_188", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What value needs more room in our ordinary days?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "laughter", - "text": "Laughter" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "romance", - "text": "Romance" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_189", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What should our unofficial couple motto proudly be about?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "values", - "closer_style", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "still_laughing", - "text": "Still laughing" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "soft_place_to_land", - "text": "Soft place to land" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_190", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "single_choice", - "text": "What would make values feel more Closer-style?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_actions", - "text": "Tiny actions" - }, - { - "id": "playful_choices", - "text": "Playful choices" - }, - { - "id": "warm_wording", - "text": "Warm wording" - }, - { - "id": "couple_compass", - "text": "Couple compass" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_191", - "category_id": "values", "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values feel strongest between us?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", + "text": "What would make our shared compass healthier years from now?", + "depth": 1, + "access": "premium", "tags": [ - "shared_values", + "long_term", + "shared_compass", "values" ], + "options": [ + { + "id": "values_remain_discussable", + "text": "Values remain discussable" + }, + { + "id": "individual_convictions_stay_welcome", + "text": "Individual convictions stay welcome" + }, + { + "id": "actions_matter_more_than_slogans", + "text": "Actions matter more than slogans" + }, + { + "id": "neither_person_must_shrink_to_belong", + "text": "Neither person must shrink to belong" + } + ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" + "id": "values_remain_discussable", + "text": "Values remain discussable" }, { - "id": "loyalty", - "text": "Loyalty" + "id": "individual_convictions_stay_welcome", + "text": "Individual convictions stay welcome" }, { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" + "id": "actions_matter_more_than_slogans", + "text": "Actions matter more than slogans" }, { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" + "id": "neither_person_must_shrink_to_belong", + "text": "Neither person must shrink to belong" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } - }, - { - "id": "values_192", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values make life together sweeter?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "sweetness", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "romance", - "text": "Romance" - }, - { - "id": "gratitude", - "text": "Gratitude" - }, - { - "id": "gentleness", - "text": "Gentleness" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_193", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What belongs in our couple compass?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "compass", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" - }, - { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" - }, - { - "id": "home", - "text": "Home" - }, - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth" - }, - { - "id": "laughter", - "text": "Laughter" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_194", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values help us during stress?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "stress", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "simplicity", - "text": "Simplicity" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "grace", - "text": "Grace" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_195", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values should get more tiny actions?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "small_steps", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "romance", - "text": "Romance" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_196", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values should guide hard conversations?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "hard_talks", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "courage", - "text": "Courage" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "humility", - "text": "Humility" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_197", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values should guide future plans?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "hope", - "text": "Hope" - }, - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - }, - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" - }, - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_198", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values should guide home life?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "fairness", - "text": "Fairness" - }, - { - "id": "warmth", - "text": "Warmth" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "beauty", - "text": "Beauty" - }, - { - "id": "simplicity", - "text": "Simplicity" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_199", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values should guide money choices?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "money", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "no_shame", - "text": "No shame" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - }, - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_200", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values should guide family pressure?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "family", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "loyalty", - "text": "Loyalty" - }, - { - "id": "boundaries", - "text": "Boundaries" - }, - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" - }, - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_201", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values should guide conflict repair?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "repair", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "accountability", - "text": "Accountability" - }, - { - "id": "care", - "text": "Care" - }, - { - "id": "gentleness", - "text": "Gentleness" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_202", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values help us feel emotionally safe?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "emotional_safety", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "consistency", - "text": "Consistency" - }, - { - "id": "respect", - "text": "Respect" - }, - { - "id": "gentleness", - "text": "Gentleness" - }, - { - "id": "acceptance", - "text": "Acceptance" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_203", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values help us feel alive together?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "alive", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - }, - { - "id": "creativity", - "text": "Creativity" - }, - { - "id": "romance", - "text": "Romance" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_204", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values do we show in tiny ways?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - }, - { - "id": "patience", - "text": "Patience" - }, - { - "id": "thoughtfulness", - "text": "Thoughtfulness" - }, - { - "id": "teamwork", - "text": "Teamwork" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_205", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values should we celebrate more?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "trying", - "text": "Trying" - }, - { - "id": "repair", - "text": "Repair" - }, - { - "id": "laughter", - "text": "Laughter" - }, - { - "id": "showing_up", - "text": "Showing up" - }, - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_206", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values protect us from comparison?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "comparison", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "being_ourselves", - "text": "Being ourselves" - }, - { - "id": "gratitude", - "text": "Gratitude" - }, - { - "id": "contentment", - "text": "Contentment" - }, - { - "id": "trust", - "text": "Trust" - }, - { - "id": "our_pace", - "text": "Our pace" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_207", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values help us make decisions?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "decisions", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "clarity", - "text": "Clarity" - }, - { - "id": "fairness", - "text": "Fairness" - }, - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" - }, - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - }, - { - "id": "long_term_good", - "text": "Long-term good" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_208", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values help us keep playfulness?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "humor", - "text": "Humor" - }, - { - "id": "permission_to_be_silly", - "text": "Permission to be silly" - }, - { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" - }, - { - "id": "lightness", - "text": "Lightness" - }, - { - "id": "curiosity", - "text": "Curiosity" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_209", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What values help us keep romance?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "attention", - "text": "Attention" - }, - { - "id": "tenderness", - "text": "Tenderness" - }, - { - "id": "effort", - "text": "Effort" - }, - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "choosing_each_other", - "text": "Choosing each other" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_210", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "multi_choice", - "text": "What belongs in our unofficial couple rulebook?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "be_kind", - "text": "Be kind" - }, - { - "id": "stay_curious", - "text": "Stay curious" - }, - { - "id": "snack_before_big_talks", - "text": "Snack before big talks" - }, - { - "id": "protect_peace", - "text": "Protect peace" - }, - { - "id": "celebrate_tiny_wins", - "text": "Celebrate tiny wins" - } - ], - "min_selections": 1, - "max_selections": 3 - } - }, - { - "id": "values_211", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How aligned does our couple compass feel lately?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "alignment", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not aligned", - "max_label": "Very aligned" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_212", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do our values feel like they have our fingerprints on them?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "identity", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_213", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How fun does value talk feel when we keep it real-life and us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "values", - "closer_style", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not fun", - "max_label": "Very fun" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_214", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we live our values in tiny, everyday ways?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "small_steps", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_215", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do our values help us feel like a team?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "teamwork", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_216", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How proud do you feel of what we stand for together?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "pride", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not proud", - "max_label": "Very proud" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_217", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much would a couple compass help us?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "compass", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_218", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect kindness?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "kindness", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_219", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect honesty?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "honesty", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_220", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect playfulness?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "play", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_221", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect rest?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "rest", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_222", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect romance?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "romance", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_223", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How well do we protect peace?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "peace", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Needs work", - "max_label": "Very well" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_224", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How easy is it to talk about different values?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "differences", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Hard", - "max_label": "Easy" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_225", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do our values actually help us choose?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "decisions", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_226", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do our values help money choices feel clearer?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "money", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_227", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do our values show up in home life?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "home", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_228", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do our values show up in future plans?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "future", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_229", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do our values help us find our way back?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "repair", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_230", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do our values make love feel safe?", - "depth": 4, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "safety", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_231", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do our values make life feel lighter?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "lightness", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_232", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do our values need more tiny daily action?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "daily_life", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_233", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do we need to simplify around our values?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "simplicity", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_234", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How much do our shared values deserve more confetti?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "celebration", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not much", - "max_label": "A lot" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_235", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "scale", - "text": "How hopeful do you feel about living our values more clearly?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "hope", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "min": 1, - "max": 5, - "min_label": "Not hopeful", - "max_label": "Very hopeful" - } - }, - { - "id": "values_236", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Couple compass or unofficial couple motto?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "values", - "closer_style", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "compass", - "text": "Couple compass" - }, - { - "id": "motto", - "text": "Couple motto" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_237", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Kindness or honesty?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "kindness", - "text": "Kindness" - }, - { - "id": "honesty", - "text": "Honesty" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_238", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Peace or adventure?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "free", - "tags": [ - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" - }, - { - "id": "adventure", - "text": "Adventure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_239", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Roots or wings?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "identity", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "roots", - "text": "Roots" - }, - { - "id": "wings", - "text": "Wings" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_240", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Security or freedom?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "security", - "text": "Security" - }, - { - "id": "freedom", - "text": "Freedom" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_241", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Rest or ambition?", - "depth": 3, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - }, - { - "id": "ambition", - "text": "Ambition" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_242", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Playfulness or practicality?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "playfulness", - "text": "Playfulness" - }, - { - "id": "practicality", - "text": "Practicality" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_243", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Comfort zone or growth zone?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "growth", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "comfort", - "text": "Comfort zone" - }, - { - "id": "growth", - "text": "Growth zone" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_244", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Private peace or shared adventure?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "private_peace", - "text": "Private peace" - }, - { - "id": "shared_adventure", - "text": "Shared adventure" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_245", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Tiny real-life actions or big beautiful promises?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "commitment", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "tiny_actions", - "text": "Tiny actions" - }, - { - "id": "big_promises", - "text": "Big promises" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_246", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Protect romance or protect rest like treasure?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "protection", - "values", - "closer_style", - "fun_first", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "romance", - "text": "Romance" - }, - { - "id": "rest", - "text": "Rest" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_247", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Be steady or be spontaneous?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "steady", - "text": "Steady" - }, - { - "id": "spontaneous", - "text": "Spontaneous" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_248", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Choose peace or choose play?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "peace", - "text": "Peace" - }, - { - "id": "play", - "text": "Play" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_249", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Follow the plan or follow the feeling?", - "depth": 2, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "decisions", - "values" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "plan", - "text": "The plan" - }, - { - "id": "feeling", - "text": "The feeling" - } - ] - } - }, - { - "id": "values_250", - "category_id": "values", - "type": "this_or_that", - "text": "Imaginary family crest or unofficial couple rulebook?", - "depth": 1, - "access": "premium", - "tags": [ - "fun_first", - "values", - "closer_style", - "warm" - ], - "answer_config": { - "options": [ - { - "id": "crest", - "text": "Family crest" - }, - { - "id": "rulebook", - "text": "Unofficial rulebook" - } - ] - } } ] }