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"everyday_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_028", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", "text": "What sitting position makes side-by-side closeness feel easiest for you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_029", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", "text": "When words are unnecessary, what greeting touch would you enjoy from me?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "greetings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_030", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", "text": "What helps public hand-holding feel easy instead of performative?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "public_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_031", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", "text": "What morning affection ritual could make even a rushed day start sweeter?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "morning", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_032", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", "text": "What bedtime touch ritual would feel comforting without getting in the way of sleep?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "bedtime", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_033", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", "text": "How would you arrange our ideal couch cuddle so both of us stay comfortable?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_034", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "written", "text": "While we cook together, what small affectionate moment 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"depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "hand_holding", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "fingers_loosely_intertwined", "text": "Fingers loosely intertwined" }, { "id": "palms_together_with_an_easy_grip", "text": "Palms together with an easy grip" }, { "id": "linked_pinkies_for_something_light", "text": "Linked pinkies for something light" }, { "id": "arms_linked_instead_of_hands", "text": "Arms linked instead of hands" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_154", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When would a long hug feel best?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "right_after_we_reunite", "text": "Right after we reunite" }, { "id": "when_one_of_us_needs_comfort", "text": "When one of us needs comfort" }, { "id": "at_the_end_of_a_good_day", "text": "At the end of a good day" }, { "id": "when_we_both_have_time_to_linger", "text": "When we both have time to linger" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_155", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which morning affection would start your day well?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "morning", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_gentle_forehead_kiss", "text": "A gentle forehead kiss" }, { "id": "a_sleepy_full_body_stretch_together", "text": "A sleepy full-body stretch together" }, { "id": "a_warm_hand_on_your_shoulder", "text": "A warm hand on your shoulder" }, { "id": "a_cheerful_hug_after_getting_up", "text": "A cheerful hug after getting up" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_156", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which bedtime gesture feels most comforting?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "bedtime", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_slow_goodnight_kiss", "text": "A slow goodnight kiss" }, { "id": "a_brief_back_rub_before_sleep", "text": "A brief back rub before sleep" }, { "id": "holding_hands_until_we_relax", "text": "Holding hands until we relax" }, { "id": "a_soft_squeeze_then_separate_space", "text": "A soft squeeze, then separate space" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_157", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What level of public affection feels easiest?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "public_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "hands_linked_while_walking", "text": "Hands linked while walking" }, { "id": "a_quick_hello_or_goodbye_kiss", "text": "A quick hello or goodbye kiss" }, { "id": "an_arm_around_each_other_briefly", "text": "An arm around each other briefly" }, { "id": "keeping_affection_private_in_public", "text": "Keeping affection private in public" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_158", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When you need comfort, which touch is most likely to help?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_steady_hug_with_no_talking", "text": "A steady hug with no talking" }, { "id": "a_hand_resting_on_your_back", "text": "A hand resting on your back" }, { "id": "your_hand_held_without_squeezing", "text": "Your hand held without squeezing" }, { "id": "space_first_then_an_invitation", "text": "Space first, then an invitation" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_159", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How should we celebrate a small win physically?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "celebration", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "one_dramatic_victory_hug", "text": "One dramatic victory hug" }, { "id": "a_kitchen_dance_for_one_song", "text": "A kitchen dance for one song" }, { "id": "an_enthusiastic_double_high_five", "text": "An enthusiastic double high-five" }, { "id": "a_proud_kiss_on_the_cheek", "text": "A proud kiss on the cheek" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_160", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which playful affection sounds most like us?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_surprise_spin_during_a_hug", "text": "A surprise spin during a hug" }, { "id": "a_secret_hand_squeeze_code", "text": "A secret hand-squeeze code" }, { "id": "a_ridiculous_slow_dance", "text": "A ridiculous slow dance" }, { "id": "a_gentle_shoulder_bump_and_grin", "text": "A gentle shoulder bump and grin" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_161", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "At a crowded event, how should we stay connected?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "social_settings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "brief_hand_contact_while_moving", "text": "Brief hand contact while moving" }, { "id": "a_private_signal_across_the_room", "text": "A private signal across the room" }, { "id": "standing_close_during_conversations", "text": "Standing close during conversations" }, { "id": "checking_in_verbally_instead", "text": "Checking in verbally instead" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_162", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "During a quiet moment, which gesture feels most supportive?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "quiet_closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "resting_your_head_on_my_shoulder", "text": "Resting your head on my shoulder" }, { "id": "my_hand_covering_yours", "text": "My hand covering yours" }, { "id": "sitting_close_without_touching", "text": "Sitting close without touching" }, { "id": "a_soft_hug_after_asking", "text": "A soft hug after asking" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_163", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which invitation to affection feels most natural?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "communication", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "can_i_hold_you_for_a_minute", "text": "“Can I hold you for a minute?”" }, { "id": "would_a_hug_feel_good", "text": "“Would a hug feel good?”" }, { "id": "opening_my_arms_and_waiting", "text": "Opening my arms and waiting" }, { "id": "offering_my_hand_without_assuming", "text": "Offering my hand without assuming" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_164", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should our clearest pause signal be?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_word_pause_said_plainly", "text": "The word “pause” said plainly" }, { "id": "two_gentle_taps_on_my_arm", "text": "Two gentle taps on my arm" }, { "id": "moving_apart_and_naming_it", "text": "Moving apart and naming it" }, { "id": "a_hand_raised_between_us", "text": "A hand raised between us" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_165", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When you seem busy, how should I offer affection?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "timing", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_whether_now_is_a_good_time", "text": "Ask whether now is a good time" }, { "id": "wait_for_a_natural_break", "text": "Wait for a natural break" }, { "id": "offer_my_hand_without_interrupting", "text": "Offer my hand without interrupting" }, { "id": "save_the_affection_for_later", "text": "Save the affection for later" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_166", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which nonsexual kiss feels sweetest to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "kissing", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_forehead_kiss_before_leaving", "text": "A forehead kiss before leaving" }, { "id": "a_cheek_kiss_in_passing", "text": "A cheek kiss in passing" }, { "id": "a_hand_kiss_during_a_joke", "text": "A hand kiss during a joke" }, { "id": "a_temple_kiss_while_resting", "text": "A temple kiss while resting" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_167", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "During a slow dance, where would you feel most comfortable?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "dance", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "hands_lightly_at_the_waist", "text": "Hands lightly at the waist" }, { "id": "one_hand_held_between_us", "text": "One hand held between us" }, { "id": "arms_around_each_others_shoulders", "text": "Arms around each other’s shoulders" }, { "id": "a_little_space_with_gentle_contact", "text": "A little space with gentle contact" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_168", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which movie-night cuddle setup would actually last?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "one_pillow_shared_between_us", "text": "One pillow shared between us" }, { "id": "separate_pillows_under_one_blanket", "text": "Separate pillows under one blanket" }, { "id": "your_legs_resting_across_mine", "text": "Your legs resting across mine" }, { "id": "side_by_side_with_occasional_touch", "text": "Side by side with occasional touch" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_169", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "On a trip, which closeness would feel grounding?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "travel", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "holding_hands_in_a_new_place", "text": "Holding hands in a new place" }, { "id": "a_hug_before_leaving_the_hotel", "text": "A hug before leaving the hotel" }, { "id": "sitting_hip_to_hip_in_transit", "text": "Sitting hip to hip in transit" }, { "id": "a_private_signal_when_overwhelmed", "text": "A private signal when overwhelmed" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_170", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When it is too warm to cuddle, what should replace it?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "weather", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "feet_touching_at_the_edge_of_bed", "text": "Feet touching at the edge of bed" }, { "id": "a_cool_hand_held_briefly", "text": "A cool hand held briefly" }, { "id": "sitting_close_with_separate_blankets", "text": "Sitting close with separate blankets" }, { "id": "a_quick_kiss_and_extra_space", "text": "A quick kiss and extra space" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_171", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which cold-weather affection sounds best?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "weather", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "warming_hands_inside_one_pair_of_pockets", "text": "Warming hands inside one pair of pockets" }, { "id": "sharing_a_blanket_on_the_porch", "text": "Sharing a blanket on the porch" }, { "id": "a_long_hug_before_going_outside", "text": "A long hug before going outside" }, { "id": "leaning_together_over_hot_drinks", "text": "Leaning together over hot drinks" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_172", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "While cooking, which affectionate moment would you enjoy?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "home", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_quick_side_hug_after_asking", "text": "A quick side hug after asking" }, { "id": "a_cheek_kiss_between_steps", "text": "A cheek kiss between steps" }, { "id": "brief_hand_squeeze_while_passing_ingredients", "text": "A brief hand squeeze while passing ingredients" }, { "id": "a_tiny_dance_during_the_timer", "text": "A tiny dance during the timer" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_173", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which in-passing gesture would brighten an ordinary day?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "daily_life", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_shoulder_squeeze_at_the_doorway", "text": "A shoulder squeeze at the doorway" }, { "id": "a_hand_brushed_along_your_arm", "text": "A hand brushed along your arm" }, { "id": "a_quick_forehead_touch_and_smile", "text": "A quick forehead touch and smile" }, { "id": "a_playful_kiss_blown_from_across_the_room", "text": "A playful kiss blown from across the room" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_174", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which first step helps you feel ready to consider closeness after conflict?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_clear_verbal_check_in", "text": "A clear verbal check-in" }, { "id": "quiet_time_for_both_of_us_to_settle", "text": "Quiet time for both of us to settle" }, { "id": "a_sincere_repair_conversation_first", "text": "A sincere repair conversation first" }, { "id": "an_invitation_i_can_freely_decline", "text": "An invitation I can freely decline" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_175", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "On an insecure body day, what affection feels kindest?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "body_confidence", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "being_held_without_appearance_comments", "text": "Being held without appearance comments" }, { "id": "a_gentle_hand_offered_to_yours", "text": "A gentle hand offered to yours" }, { "id": "a_kiss_paired_with_kind_reassurance", "text": "A kiss paired with kind reassurance" }, { "id": "closeness_that_lets_you_choose_distance", "text": "Closeness that lets you choose distance" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_176", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When your body is sore or tired, what support is most useful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "body_comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_light_hand_massage", "text": "A light hand massage" }, { "id": "a_carefully_placed_back_rub", "text": "A carefully placed back rub" }, { "id": "a_still_hand_resting_nearby", "text": "A still hand resting nearby" }, { "id": "no_touch_unless_you_request_it", "text": "No touch unless you request it" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_177", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How much surprise do you enjoy in everyday affection?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "spontaneity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "only_when_i_can_see_it_coming", "text": "Only when I can see it coming" }, { "id": "small_surprises_in_relaxed_moments", "text": "Small surprises in relaxed moments" }, { "id": "playful_surprises_with_an_easy_out", "text": "Playful surprises with an easy out" }, { "id": "i_prefer_affection_to_be_announced", "text": "I prefer affection to be announced" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_178", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which hug length usually feels best?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_quick_squeeze_and_release", "text": "A quick squeeze and release" }, { "id": "long_enough_for_one_deep_breath", "text": "Long enough for one deep breath" }, { "id": "several_breaths_without_rushing", "text": "Several breaths without rushing" }, { "id": "different_every_time_ask_me", "text": "Different every time—ask me" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_179", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What hug pressure feels most comfortable?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sensory_preferences", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "light_contact_with_room_to_move", "text": "Light contact with room to move" }, { "id": "a_warm_medium_squeeze", "text": "A warm medium squeeze" }, { "id": "firm_pressure_when_i_invite_it", "text": "Firm pressure when I invite it" }, { "id": "pressure_that_changes_with_my_cue", "text": "Pressure that changes with my cue" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_180", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which pace makes affectionate touch feel best?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sensory_preferences", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "brief_and_playful", "text": "Brief and playful" }, { "id": "slow_and_predictable", "text": "Slow and predictable" }, { "id": "still_and_steady", "text": "Still and steady" }, { "id": "varied_after_a_quick_check_in", "text": "Varied after a quick check-in" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_181", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which way of initiating a hug feels easiest to you?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_direct_can_i_hug_you", "text": "A direct “Can I hug you?”" }, { "id": "opening_your_arms_and_waiting", "text": "Opening your arms and waiting" }, { "id": "sitting_beside_me_first", "text": "Sitting beside me first" }, { "id": "using_our_agreed_hug_signal", "text": "Using our agreed hug signal" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_182", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "After “not right now,” which response feels most reassuring?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "of_course_thanks_for_telling_me", "text": "“Of course—thanks for telling me.”" }, { "id": "a_warm_smile_and_immediate_space", "text": "A warm smile and immediate space" }, { "id": "an_offer_of_nonphysical_company", "text": "An offer of nonphysical company" }, { "id": "a_check_in_later_without_guilt", "text": "A check-in later without guilt" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_183", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which small ritual would you most like to protect?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_twenty_second_reunion_hug", "text": "A twenty-second reunion hug" }, { "id": "a_kiss_before_one_of_us_leaves", "text": "A kiss before one of us leaves" }, { "id": "hands_linked_during_one_evening_walk", "text": "Hands linked during one evening walk" }, { "id": "a_quiet_cuddle_before_weekend_plans", "text": "A quiet cuddle before weekend plans" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_184", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which across-the-room signal best says “I need support”?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "support_signals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_hand_briefly_over_the_heart", "text": "A hand briefly over the heart" }, { "id": "a_small_two_finger_wave", "text": "A small two-finger wave" }, { "id": "a_steady_look_and_quiet_nod", "text": "A steady look and quiet nod" }, { "id": "a_signal_we_choose_together", "text": "A signal we choose together" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_185", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which hand-care gesture sounds most relaxing?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "massage", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "slow_thumb_circles_in_your_palm", "text": "Slow thumb circles in your palm" }, { "id": "each_finger_gently_stretched", "text": "Each finger gently stretched" }, { "id": "warm_lotion_rubbed_into_your_hands", "text": "Warm lotion rubbed into your hands" }, { "id": "hands_held_still_between_mine", "text": "Hands held still between mine" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_186", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which pairing would make affection feel most personal?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "appreciation", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_specific_compliment_with_a_hand_squeeze", "text": "A specific compliment with a hand squeeze" }, { "id": "an_inside_joke_with_a_cheek_kiss", "text": "An inside joke with a cheek kiss" }, { "id": "a_thank_you_with_a_long_hug", "text": "A thank-you with a long hug" }, { "id": "a_favorite_nickname_with_linked_hands", "text": "A favorite nickname with linked hands" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_187", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Before a stressful appointment, which supportive gesture would feel best?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "reconnection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quiet_hand_squeeze_in_the_car", "text": "A quiet hand squeeze in the car" }, { "id": "brief_hug_before_walking_in", "text": "A brief hug before walking in" }, { "id": "shoulders_touching_while_we_wait", "text": "Shoulders touching while we wait" }, { "id": "nearby_company_without_touch", "text": "Nearby company without touch" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_188", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which playful mini-game would make touch feel fun?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "play", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "mirror_each_others_silly_dance_moves", "text": "Mirror each other’s silly dance moves" }, { "id": "invent_three_secret_handshakes", "text": "Invent three secret handshakes" }, { "id": "guess_a_message_from_hand_squeezes", "text": "Guess a message from hand squeezes" }, { "id": "race_to_create_the_coziest_seat", "text": "Race to create the coziest seat" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_189", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "For a couple photo, which pose would feel most natural?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "photos", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "foreheads_together_and_laughing", "text": "Foreheads together and laughing" }, { "id": "arms_linked_while_walking", "text": "Arms linked while walking" }, { "id": "one_relaxed_hug_from_the_side", "text": "One relaxed hug from the side" }, { "id": "standing_close_with_hands_connected", "text": "Standing close with hands connected" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_190", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which physical moment feels most unmistakably like us?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "couple_identity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "our_familiar_hello_embrace", "text": "Our familiar hello embrace" }, { "id": "the_way_we_share_couch_space", "text": "The way we share couch space" }, { "id": "our_private_hand_squeeze_signal", "text": "Our private hand-squeeze signal" }, { "id": "the_goodnight_gesture_we_repeat", "text": "The goodnight gesture we repeat" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_191", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which clear invitations help you know everyday affection is welcome? Select any that fit.", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "signals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "you_say_come_closer", "text": "You say “come closer”" }, { "id": "you_reach_for_my_hand", "text": "You reach for my hand" }, { "id": "you_verbally_invite_a_hug", "text": "You verbally invite a hug" }, { "id": "you_make_room_and_pat_the_seat", "text": "You make room and pat the seat" }, { "id": "you_use_our_agreed_signal", "text": "You use our agreed signal" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_192", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "With no expectation and an easy stop, what else makes a cuddle comfortable? Choose all that matter.", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "enough_room_to_change_position", "text": "Enough room to change position" }, { "id": "a_temperature_that_feels_comfortable", "text": "A temperature that feels comfortable" }, { "id": "supportive_pillows_or_blankets", "text": "Supportive pillows or blankets" }, { "id": "quiet_without_competing_distractions", "text": "Quiet without competing distractions" }, { "id": "a_position_we_can_adjust_easily", "text": "A position we can adjust easily" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_193", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which small touch rituals would improve an ordinary week? Pick any you would enjoy.", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_hug_when_we_get_home", "text": "A hug when we get home" }, { "id": "a_hand_squeeze_before_leaving", "text": "A hand squeeze before leaving" }, { "id": "a_brief_couch_check_in", "text": "A brief couch check-in" }, { "id": "a_goodnight_forehead_kiss", "text": "A goodnight forehead kiss" }, { "id": "linked_arms_on_a_short_walk", "text": "Linked arms on a short walk" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_194", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "On a low-touch day, what could still help you feel close? Select any that fit.", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "low_touch_days", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sitting_nearby_without_contact", "text": "Sitting nearby without contact" }, { "id": "a_kind_text_from_another_room", "text": "A kind text from another room" }, { "id": "sharing_a_quiet_activity", "text": "Sharing a quiet activity" }, { "id": "an_affectionate_word_or_nickname", "text": "An affectionate word or nickname" }, { "id": "checking_again_at_a_later_time", "text": "Checking again at a later time" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_195", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can make physical affection feel playful? Choose every answer that sounds fun.", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_one_song_kitchen_dance", "text": "A one-song kitchen dance" }, { "id": "a_made_up_secret_handshake", "text": "A made-up secret handshake" }, { "id": "a_dramatic_celebration_hug", "text": "A dramatic celebration hug" }, { "id": "a_gentle_game_of_footsie", "text": "A gentle game of footsie" }, { "id": "a_silly_pose_for_a_photo", "text": "A silly pose for a photo" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_196", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which public affection feels comfortable when you are open to it? Pick any that apply.", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "public_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "hands_connected_while_walking", "text": "Hands connected while walking" }, { "id": "a_quick_cheek_kiss", "text": "A quick cheek kiss" }, { "id": "an_arm_lightly_around_you", "text": "An arm lightly around you" }, { "id": "a_brief_greeting_hug", "text": "A brief greeting hug" }, { "id": "no_public_touch_at_all", "text": "No public touch at all" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_197", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "With either answer accepted, how could I invite physical closeness? Select every approach you like.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_one_clear_question", "text": "Ask one clear question" }, { "id": "offer_an_open_hand_and_wait", "text": "Offer an open hand and wait" }, { "id": "make_space_beside_me", "text": "Make space beside me" }, { "id": "name_a_specific_gentle_gesture", "text": "Name a specific gentle gesture" }, { "id": "use_a_signal_we_agreed_on", "text": "Use a signal we agreed on" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_198", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which ways of saying “not right now” would feel natural to you? Pick any.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "say_it_directly_and_kindly", "text": "Say it directly and kindly" }, { "id": "use_our_pause_word", "text": "Use our pause word" }, { "id": "ask_for_space_instead", "text": "Ask for space instead" }, { "id": "offer_a_different_kind_of_connection", "text": "Offer a different kind of connection" }, { "id": "suggest_checking_in_later", "text": "Suggest checking in later" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_199", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "After touch stops immediately, what else helps the moment stay supportive? Choose all that fit.", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "thank_them_for_being_clear", "text": "Thank them for being clear" }, { "id": "give_physical_room_right_away", "text": "Give physical room right away" }, { "id": "keep_the_mood_warm_and_ordinary", "text": "Keep the mood warm and ordinary" }, { "id": "switch_to_a_neutral_shared_activity", "text": "Switch to a neutral shared activity" }, { "id": "let_them_choose_any_later_closeness", "text": "Let them choose any later closeness" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_200", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which conditions help touch feel sensory-friendly? Select any that matter to you.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sensory_needs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "predictable_movements", "text": "Predictable movements" }, { "id": "comfortable_pressure", "text": "Comfortable pressure" }, { "id": "low_noise_and_fewer_distractions", "text": "Low noise and fewer distractions" }, { "id": "room_to_reposition_easily", "text": "Room to reposition easily" }, { "id": "a_quick_warning_before_contact", "text": "A quick warning before contact" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_201", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When stress is high, which physical support might help after a check-in? Pick any.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "stress", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_steady_hand_held_quietly", "text": "A steady hand held quietly" }, { "id": "a_brief_grounding_hug", "text": "A brief grounding hug" }, { "id": "a_hand_resting_on_your_shoulder", "text": "A hand resting on your shoulder" }, { "id": "sitting_close_without_contact", "text": "Sitting close without contact" }, { "id": "space_now_with_an_offer_later", "text": "Space now with an offer later" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_202", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "During travel, which gestures help an unfamiliar place feel easier? Select any.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "travel", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_hand_offered_in_a_crowd", "text": "A hand offered in a crowd" }, { "id": "a_reunion_hug_at_the_hotel", "text": "A reunion hug at the hotel" }, { "id": "shoulders_touching_in_transit", "text": "Shoulders touching in transit" }, { "id": "our_private_check_in_signal", "text": "Our private check-in signal" }, { "id": "a_quiet_moment_side_by_side", "text": "A quiet moment side by side" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_203", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps affection feel kind on a body-confidence day? Choose all that fit.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "body_confidence", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "touch_without_evaluating_appearance", "text": "Touch without evaluating appearance" }, { "id": "specific_appreciation_unrelated_to_size", "text": "Specific appreciation unrelated to size" }, { "id": "letting_you_guide_the_distance", "text": "Letting you guide the distance" }, { "id": "closeness_through_hands_or_shoulders", "text": "Closeness through hands or shoulders" }, { "id": "no_surprise_contact", "text": "No surprise contact" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_204", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "After a week of opposite schedules, which gestures could make us feel physically in sync again?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "reconnection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "share_a_slow_coffee_side_by_side", "text": "Share a slow coffee side by side" }, { "id": "take_a_short_hand_holding_walk", "text": "Take a short hand-holding walk" }, { "id": "choose_a_familiar_couch_position", "text": "Choose a familiar couch position" }, { "id": "exchange_a_long_unhurried_hug", "text": "Exchange a long, unhurried hug" }, { "id": "plan_a_phone_free_closeness_break", "text": "Plan a phone-free closeness break" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_205", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Where could small affectionate moments fit into a busy day? Select any you would notice.", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "daily_life", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "while_coffee_is_brewing", "text": "While coffee is brewing" }, { "id": "at_the_doorway_between_errands", "text": "At the doorway between errands" }, { "id": "during_a_short_stretch_break", "text": "During a short stretch break" }, { "id": "before_one_of_us_starts_a_call", "text": "Before one of us starts a call" }, { "id": "when_we_finally_sit_down", "text": "When we finally sit down" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_206", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which gestures feel romantic while staying clearly nonsexual? Choose any that appeal.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "nonsexual_romance", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_slow_dance_in_ordinary_clothes", "text": "A slow dance in ordinary clothes" }, { "id": "a_hand_kissed_during_a_joke", "text": "A hand kissed during a joke" }, { "id": "foreheads_resting_together_briefly", "text": "Foreheads resting together briefly" }, { "id": "a_note_delivered_with_a_hug", "text": "A note delivered with a hug" }, { "id": "hands_linked_under_the_table", "text": "Hands linked under the table" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_207", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which changes might affect your touch preferences over time? Select any that apply.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "change", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "stress_or_sleep_levels", "text": "Stress or sleep levels" }, { "id": "pain_illness_or_recovery", "text": "Pain, illness, or recovery" }, { "id": "temperature_and_surroundings", "text": "Temperature and surroundings" }, { "id": "confidence_in_your_body", "text": "Confidence in your body" }, { "id": "how_emotionally_connected_you_feel", "text": "How emotionally connected you feel" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_208", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What adjustments can make closeness more accessible and comfortable? Pick any.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "accessibility", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "different_pillows_or_support", "text": "Different pillows or support" }, { "id": "positions_with_less_strain", "text": "Positions with less strain" }, { "id": "shorter_periods_of_contact", "text": "Shorter periods of contact" }, { "id": "clear_help_changing_position", "text": "Clear help changing position" }, { "id": "more_space_around_sensitive_areas", "text": "More space around sensitive areas" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_209", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "With pausing easy and no gesture creating obligation, what else keeps affection mutual? Choose all that fit.", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mutuality", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "both_people_initiate_sometimes", "text": "Both people initiate sometimes" }, { "id": "both_can_suggest_a_different_gesture", "text": "Both can suggest a different gesture" }, { "id": "preferences_get_updated_openly", "text": "Preferences get updated openly" }, { "id": "feedback_is_welcomed_kindly", "text": "Feedback is welcomed kindly" }, { "id": "each_persons_favorite_touches_matter", "text": "Each person’s favorite touches matter" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_210", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which couple rituals would you genuinely enjoy trying? Pick any.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_daily_twenty_second_hug", "text": "A daily twenty-second hug" }, { "id": "a_weekly_slow_song_together", "text": "A weekly slow song together" }, { "id": "a_goodbye_hand_squeeze_code", "text": "A goodbye hand-squeeze code" }, { "id": "a_sunday_morning_couch_cuddle", "text": "A Sunday-morning couch cuddle" }, { "id": "a_seasonal_cozy_night_ritual", "text": "A seasonal cozy-night ritual" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_211", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How natural does everyday affection feel between us lately?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_life", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very natural", "max_label": "Very natural" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_212", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy does it feel to ask me for a hug?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not easy yet", "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_213", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you with our usual level of public affection?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "public_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_214", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How well do you feel I understand your everyday touch preferences?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "understanding", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Still learning", "max_label": "Understand them well" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_215", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to say “not right now” to physical affection?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not easy yet", "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_216", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How playful does our nonsexual affection feel these days?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not playful", "max_label": "Very playful" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_217", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How much do our current affection rituals add warmth to your day?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "A little warmth", "max_label": "A lot of warmth" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_218", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How free from pressure does physical closeness feel between us?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "pressure", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Some pressure remains", "max_label": "Completely pressure-free" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_219", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How confident are you that a pause or stop will be respected immediately?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not fully confident", "max_label": "Completely confident" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_220", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you with spontaneous everyday touch from me?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "spontaneity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_221", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How well do our couch or bedtime routines fit your physical comfort?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Could fit better", "max_label": "Fit very well" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_222", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How accepted do low-touch days feel in our relationship?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "low_touch_days", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not fully accepted", "max_label": "Completely accepted" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_223", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable do you feel initiating nonsexual affection?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "initiation", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable yet", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_224", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How often does our affection feel noticed rather than automatic?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "routine", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Rarely noticed", "max_label": "Almost always noticed" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_225", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How well do we adapt touch when one of us is tired or sore?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "body_comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very well", "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_226", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to give me feedback about pressure, pace, or placement?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feedback", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not easy yet", "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_227", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How connected do you feel during quiet, nonsexual closeness?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "quiet_closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "A little connected", "max_label": "Deeply connected" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_228", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you asking for more personal space while staying emotionally close?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "personal_space", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable yet", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_229", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How well do our greeting and goodbye gestures fit what you enjoy?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "greetings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Could fit better", "max_label": "Fit perfectly" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_230", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How relaxed does affection feel when other people are nearby?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "social_settings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Usually tense", "max_label": "Usually relaxed" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_231", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How much do you feel our physical affection reflects both people’s preferences?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mutuality", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very balanced", "max_label": "Very balanced" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_232", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you changing your mind after affection has started?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable yet", "max_label": "Completely comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_233", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How easily do we reconnect physically after a busy or distant stretch?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "reconnection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very easily", "max_label": "Very easily" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_234", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How much room is there for humor in our physical affection?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "play", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very little", "max_label": "Plenty of room" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_235", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How confident are you that we can adapt affection as our bodies and routines change?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "adaptability", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not confident yet", "max_label": "Very confident" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_236", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Shoulder-to-shoulder cuddle or face-to-face cuddle?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "shoulder_to_shoulder", "text": "Shoulder to shoulder" }, { "id": "face_to_face", "text": "Face to face" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_237", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Forehead kiss or hand kiss?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "kissing", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "forehead_kiss", "text": "Forehead kiss" }, { "id": "hand_kiss", "text": "Hand kiss" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_238", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "One long hug or several quick hugs?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "one_long_hug", "text": "One long hug" }, { "id": "several_quick_hugs", "text": "Several quick hugs" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_239", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Hold hands while walking or link arms?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "hand_holding", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "hold_hands", "text": "Hold hands" }, { "id": "link_arms", "text": "Link arms" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_240", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Morning squeeze or goodnight kiss?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "morning_squeeze", "text": "Morning squeeze" }, { "id": "goodnight_kiss", "text": "Goodnight kiss" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_241", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Couch cuddle or porch-swing closeness?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "cozy_closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "couch_cuddle", "text": "Couch cuddle" }, { "id": "porch_swing_closeness", "text": "Porch-swing closeness" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_242", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Slow dance or playful kitchen sway?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "dance", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "slow_dance", "text": "Slow dance" }, { "id": "kitchen_sway", "text": "Kitchen sway" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_243", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "When affection is welcome, arm around your shoulders or hand resting at your waist?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "arm_around_shoulders", "text": "Arm around shoulders" }, { "id": "hand_at_waist", "text": "Hand at waist" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_244", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Playful shoulder nudge or secret hand squeeze?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "shoulder_nudge", "text": "Shoulder nudge" }, { "id": "secret_hand_squeeze", "text": "Secret hand squeeze" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_245", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Quiet closeness or laughing closeness?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quiet_closeness", "text": "Quiet closeness" }, { "id": "laughing_closeness", "text": "Laughing closeness" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_246", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "One shared blanket or separate blankets with feet touching?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "share_one_blanket", "text": "Share one blanket" }, { "id": "separate_blankets_feet_touching", "text": "Separate blankets, feet touching" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_247", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Greeting hug or goodbye kiss?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "greetings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "greeting_hug", "text": "Greeting hug" }, { "id": "goodbye_kiss", "text": "Goodbye kiss" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_248", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Sit side by side or sit across with feet touching?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "side_by_side", "text": "Side by side" }, { "id": "across_with_feet_touching", "text": "Across with feet touching" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_249", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Daily tiny touch or weekly longer cuddle?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "daily_tiny_touch", "text": "Daily tiny touch" }, { "id": "weekly_longer_cuddle", "text": "Weekly longer cuddle" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_250", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Bring back an old affectionate habit or invent a new signal?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "future", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "bring_back_an_old_habit", "text": "Bring back an old habit" }, { "id": "invent_a_new_signal", "text": "Invent a new signal" } ] } } ] }