{ "category": { "id": "quality_time", "display_name": "Quality Time", "description": "Warm, playful questions about how couples spend time together through ordinary routines, quiet company, shared activities, attention, conversation, flirting, realistic invitations, traditions, and accessible plans.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "schedule_heart", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { "total_questions": 150, "free_questions": 45, "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { "multi_choice": 90, "single_choice": 30, "scale": 15, "this_or_that": 10, "written": 5 }, "depth_counts": { "1": 90, "2": 45, "3": 15 }, "depth_percentages": { "light": 60.0, "medium": 30.0, "deep": 10.0 }, "content_version": "quality_time_150_final_v14", "rewrite_reason": "Rebuilt as a complete 150-question production pack with a clearer boundary around how couples spend time together. The pack avoids duplicating emotional vulnerability, date-specific planning, physical affection preferences, or household task management.", "related_pack_boundary": "Quality Time owns the shape of shared time: routines, presence, shared activities, quiet company, conversation settings, playfulness, invitations, traditions, low-energy connection, and accessible plans. Specific date ideas belong in date_night. Emotional vulnerability and feeling deeply known belong in emotional_intimacy. Touch preferences belong in physical_intimacy. General fun prompts without a together-time focus belong in fun.", "safety_boundary": "Time together must not be framed as proof of love, an obligation, or a reason to remove healthy alone time. Either person may decline, shorten, adapt, or reschedule a plan without punishment.", "coverage_sections": [ "at_home_time", "routines_transitions", "attention_presence", "low_energy_busy_life", "shared_activities", "conversation_quiet", "play_flirting", "invitations_planning", "couple_lore_traditions", "accessibility_social_energy_future" ], "review_workflow": "Six 25-question production batches and three 50-question checkpoints with schema, option-fit, voice, repetition, access, depth, accessibility, and related-pack boundary checks.", "final_validation": "pass", "batch_review": [ { "batch": 1, "first_id": "quality_time_001", "last_id": "quality_time_025", "count": 25, "status": "PASS" }, { "batch": 2, "first_id": "quality_time_026", "last_id": "quality_time_050", "count": 25, "status": "PASS" }, { "batch": 3, "first_id": "quality_time_051", "last_id": "quality_time_075", "count": 25, "status": "PASS" }, { "batch": 4, "first_id": "quality_time_076", "last_id": "quality_time_100", "count": 25, "status": "PASS" }, { "batch": 5, "first_id": "quality_time_101", "last_id": "quality_time_125", "count": 25, "status": "PASS" }, { "batch": 6, "first_id": "quality_time_126", "last_id": "quality_time_150", "count": 25, "status": "PASS" } ], "fifty_question_checkpoints": [ { "checkpoint": 1, "first_id": "quality_time_001", "last_id": "quality_time_050", "count": 50, "status": "PASS" }, { "checkpoint": 2, "first_id": "quality_time_051", "last_id": "quality_time_100", "count": 50, "status": "PASS" }, { "checkpoint": 3, "first_id": "quality_time_101", "last_id": "quality_time_150", "count": 50, "status": "PASS" } ], "final_editorial_patches": 3, "final_review": "Final editorial and production pass completed. Tightened three prompts for clarity and stronger category boundaries, then revalidated schema, counts, depth balance, option fit, option mirroring, voice, repetition, accessibility, cross-pack uniqueness, six 25-question batches, and three 50-question checkpoints." } }, "questions": [ { "id": "quality_time_001", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes staying home together feel intentional instead of automatic?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "home_time", "intentionality", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "choosing_what_we_will_do", "text": "Choosing what we will do" }, { "id": "changing_the_usual_setup", "text": "Changing the usual setup" }, { "id": "putting_distracting_tasks_away", "text": "Putting distracting tasks away" }, { "id": "adding_one_small_treat", "text": "Adding one small treat" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "choosing_what_we_will_do", "text": "Choosing what we will do" }, { "id": "changing_the_usual_setup", "text": "Changing the usual setup" }, { "id": "putting_distracting_tasks_away", "text": "Putting distracting tasks away" }, { "id": "adding_one_small_treat", "text": "Adding one small treat" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_002", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which low-effort evening sounds best tonight?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "home_time", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_show_and_a_snack", "text": "A show and a snack" }, { "id": "music_while_we_do_separate_things", "text": "Music while we do separate things" }, { "id": "a_card_game", "text": "A card game" }, { "id": "talking_on_the_porch", "text": "Talking on the porch" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_show_and_a_snack", "text": "A show and a snack" }, { "id": "music_while_we_do_separate_things", "text": "Music while we do separate things" }, { "id": "a_card_game", "text": "A card game" }, { "id": "talking_on_the_porch", "text": "Talking on the porch" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_003", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "One shared activity or separate hobbies in the same room?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "home_time", "quick_choice", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "one_shared_activity", "text": "One shared activity" }, { "id": "separate_hobbies_in_the_same_room", "text": "Separate hobbies in the same room" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "one_shared_activity", "text": "One shared activity" }, { "id": "separate_hobbies_in_the_same_room", "text": "Separate hobbies in the same room" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_004", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which details can make an ordinary night feel more like ours?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "home_time", "couple_identity", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_favorite_meal", "text": "A favorite meal" }, { "id": "a_familiar_playlist", "text": "A familiar playlist" }, { "id": "one_phone_free_hour", "text": "One phone-free hour" }, { "id": "an_inside_joke_returning", "text": "An inside joke returning" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_favorite_meal", "text": "A favorite meal" }, { "id": "a_familiar_playlist", "text": "A familiar playlist" }, { "id": "one_phone_free_hour", "text": "One phone-free hour" }, { "id": "an_inside_joke_returning", "text": "An inside joke returning" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_005", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What could make the couch feel like a plan instead of a default?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "home_time", "humor", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "picking_the_show_before_sitting_down", "text": "Picking the show before sitting down" }, { "id": "bringing_the_good_snacks", "text": "Bringing the good snacks" }, { "id": "using_the_blanket_without_starting_a_border_dispute", "text": "Using the blanket without starting a border dispute" }, { "id": "choosing_an_actual_start_time", "text": "Choosing an actual start time" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "picking_the_show_before_sitting_down", "text": "Picking the show before sitting down" }, { "id": "bringing_the_good_snacks", "text": "Bringing the good snacks" }, { "id": "using_the_blanket_without_starting_a_border_dispute", "text": "Using the blanket without starting a border dispute" }, { "id": "choosing_an_actual_start_time", "text": "Choosing an actual start time" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_006", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which home activity has the best fun-to-effort ratio?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "home_time", "preferences", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "cooking_something_easy", "text": "Cooking something easy" }, { "id": "watching_a_movie", "text": "Watching a movie" }, { "id": "playing_a_simple_game", "text": "Playing a simple game" }, { "id": "listening_to_music", "text": "Listening to music" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cooking_something_easy", "text": "Cooking something easy" }, { "id": "watching_a_movie", "text": "Watching a movie" }, { "id": "playing_a_simple_game", "text": "Playing a simple game" }, { "id": "listening_to_music", "text": "Listening to music" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_007", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which at-home moments are easiest to look forward to?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "home_time", "anticipation", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "breakfast_together", "text": "Breakfast together" }, { "id": "a_quiet_evening", "text": "A quiet evening" }, { "id": "a_lazy_weekend_morning", "text": "A lazy weekend morning" }, { "id": "a_small_project_we_both_enjoy", "text": "A small project we both enjoy" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "breakfast_together", "text": "Breakfast together" }, { "id": "a_quiet_evening", "text": "A quiet evening" }, { "id": "a_lazy_weekend_morning", "text": "A lazy weekend morning" }, { "id": "a_small_project_we_both_enjoy", "text": "A small project we both enjoy" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_008", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How enjoyable does our time at home feel lately?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "home_time", "current_state", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Mostly routine", "max_label": "Genuinely enjoyable" } }, { "id": "quality_time_009", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a shared meal count as quality time?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "meals", "presence", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "sitting_down_together", "text": "Sitting down together" }, { "id": "not_rushing", "text": "Not rushing" }, { "id": "talking_about_more_than_logistics", "text": "Talking about more than logistics" }, { "id": "choosing_food_we_both_like", "text": "Choosing food we both like" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sitting_down_together", "text": "Sitting down together" }, { "id": "not_rushing", "text": "Not rushing" }, { "id": "talking_about_more_than_logistics", "text": "Talking about more than logistics" }, { "id": "choosing_food_we_both_like", "text": "Choosing food we both like" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_010", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kitchen role sounds most like you during shared time?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "meals", "humor", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "cooking", "text": "Cooking" }, { "id": "helping", "text": "Helping" }, { "id": "choosing_the_music", "text": "Choosing the music" }, { "id": "providing_commentary_and_quality_control", "text": "Providing commentary and quality control" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cooking", "text": "Cooking" }, { "id": "helping", "text": "Helping" }, { "id": "choosing_the_music", "text": "Choosing the music" }, { "id": "providing_commentary_and_quality_control", "text": "Providing commentary and quality control" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_011", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps an at-home plan survive a tiring day?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "home_time", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "keeping_it_short", "text": "Keeping it short" }, { "id": "letting_the_tired_person_choose", "text": "Letting the tired person choose" }, { "id": "dropping_unnecessary_preparation", "text": "Dropping unnecessary preparation" }, { "id": "counting_quiet_company_as_enough", "text": "Counting quiet company as enough" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "keeping_it_short", "text": "Keeping it short" }, { "id": "letting_the_tired_person_choose", "text": "Letting the tired person choose" }, { "id": "dropping_unnecessary_preparation", "text": "Dropping unnecessary preparation" }, { "id": "counting_quiet_company_as_enough", "text": "Counting quiet company as enough" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_012", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which small changes could refresh a familiar evening?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "home_time", "novelty", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "eat_somewhere_different", "text": "Eat somewhere different" }, { "id": "try_a_new_game", "text": "Try a new game" }, { "id": "choose_a_theme", "text": "Choose a theme" }, { "id": "take_the_activity_outside", "text": "Take the activity outside" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "eat_somewhere_different", "text": "Eat somewhere different" }, { "id": "try_a_new_game", "text": "Try a new game" }, { "id": "choose_a_theme", "text": "Choose a theme" }, { "id": "take_the_activity_outside", "text": "Take the activity outside" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_013", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "written", "text": "What is one ordinary night together you remember being unexpectedly good?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "home_time", "memory", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "quality_time_014", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should stay optional during a night at home together?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "home_time", "autonomy", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "talking_the_whole_time", "text": "Talking the whole time" }, { "id": "doing_the_same_activity", "text": "Doing the same activity" }, { "id": "staying_up_late", "text": "Staying up late" }, { "id": "turning_the_night_into_something_special", "text": "Turning the night into something special" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "talking_the_whole_time", "text": "Talking the whole time" }, { "id": "doing_the_same_activity", "text": "Doing the same activity" }, { "id": "staying_up_late", "text": "Staying up late" }, { "id": "turning_the_night_into_something_special", "text": "Turning the night into something special" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_015", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which patterns can make being home together feel lonely?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "home_time", "warning_signs", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "never_looking_up_from_separate_screens", "text": "Never looking up from separate screens" }, { "id": "only_discussing_tasks", "text": "Only discussing tasks" }, { "id": "one_person_choosing_everything", "text": "One person choosing everything" }, { "id": "being_together_only_because_plans_fell_through", "text": "Being together only because plans fell through" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "never_looking_up_from_separate_screens", "text": "Never looking up from separate screens" }, { "id": "only_discussing_tasks", "text": "Only discussing tasks" }, { "id": "one_person_choosing_everything", "text": "One person choosing everything" }, { "id": "being_together_only_because_plans_fell_through", "text": "Being together only because plans fell through" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_016", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which daily transitions could become good time for us?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "routines", "transitions", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "the_first_minutes_after_work", "text": "The first minutes after work" }, { "id": "the_drive_home", "text": "The drive home" }, { "id": "the_pause_before_dinner", "text": "The pause before dinner" }, { "id": "the_last_few_minutes_before_sleep", "text": "The last few minutes before sleep" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_first_minutes_after_work", "text": "The first minutes after work" }, { "id": "the_drive_home", "text": "The drive home" }, { "id": "the_pause_before_dinner", "text": "The pause before dinner" }, { "id": "the_last_few_minutes_before_sleep", "text": "The last few minutes before sleep" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_017", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which morning connection sounds most realistic?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "mornings", "routines", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "coffee_together", "text": "Coffee together" }, { "id": "a_real_goodbye", "text": "A real goodbye" }, { "id": "sharing_the_day_s_plan", "text": "Sharing the day's plan" }, { "id": "one_thoughtful_message_later", "text": "One thoughtful message later" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "coffee_together", "text": "Coffee together" }, { "id": "a_real_goodbye", "text": "A real goodbye" }, { "id": "sharing_the_day_s_plan", "text": "Sharing the day's plan" }, { "id": "one_thoughtful_message_later", "text": "One thoughtful message later" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_018", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Protect a daily ten minutes or one longer block each week?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "routines", "quick_choice", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_daily_ten_minutes", "text": "A daily ten minutes" }, { "id": "one_longer_block_each_week", "text": "One longer block each week" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_daily_ten_minutes", "text": "A daily ten minutes" }, { "id": "one_longer_block_each_week", "text": "One longer block each week" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_019", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What could make mornings feel more like shared time?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "mornings", "presence", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "sit_together_for_the_first_drink", "text": "Sit together for the first drink" }, { "id": "avoid_starting_with_chores", "text": "Avoid starting with chores" }, { "id": "share_one_thing_about_the_day", "text": "Share one thing about the day" }, { "id": "leave_with_a_real_goodbye", "text": "Leave with a real goodbye" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sit_together_for_the_first_drink", "text": "Sit together for the first drink" }, { "id": "avoid_starting_with_chores", "text": "Avoid starting with chores" }, { "id": "share_one_thing_about_the_day", "text": "Share one thing about the day" }, { "id": "leave_with_a_real_goodbye", "text": "Leave with a real goodbye" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_020", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which routines create connection without adding another obligation?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "routines", "low_pressure", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_short_evening_walk", "text": "A short evening walk" }, { "id": "one_meal_together", "text": "One meal together" }, { "id": "a_weekly_coffee", "text": "A weekly coffee" }, { "id": "checking_in_during_a_regular_drive", "text": "Checking in during a regular drive" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_short_evening_walk", "text": "A short evening walk" }, { "id": "one_meal_together", "text": "One meal together" }, { "id": "a_weekly_coffee", "text": "A weekly coffee" }, { "id": "checking_in_during_a_regular_drive", "text": "Checking in during a regular drive" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_021", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which recurring moment is easiest to rescue from autopilot?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "routines", "humor", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "the_grocery_trip", "text": "The grocery trip" }, { "id": "the_drive_somewhere", "text": "The drive somewhere" }, { "id": "the_first_coffee", "text": "The first coffee" }, { "id": "the_nightly_search_for_the_remote", "text": "The nightly search for the remote" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_grocery_trip", "text": "The grocery trip" }, { "id": "the_drive_somewhere", "text": "The drive somewhere" }, { "id": "the_first_coffee", "text": "The first coffee" }, { "id": "the_nightly_search_for_the_remote", "text": "The nightly search for the remote" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_022", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a routine stay warm instead of becoming mandatory?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "routines", "flexibility", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "it_can_be_skipped_without_guilt", "text": "It can be skipped without guilt" }, { "id": "both_people_shape_it", "text": "Both people shape it" }, { "id": "it_stays_simple", "text": "It stays simple" }, { "id": "it_changes_when_life_changes", "text": "It changes when life changes" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_can_be_skipped_without_guilt", "text": "It can be skipped without guilt" }, { "id": "both_people_shape_it", "text": "Both people shape it" }, { "id": "it_stays_simple", "text": "It stays simple" }, { "id": "it_changes_when_life_changes", "text": "It changes when life changes" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_023", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How connected do our daily routines make you feel?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "routines", "current_state", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Hardly connected", "max_label": "Very connected" } }, { "id": "quality_time_024", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which end-of-day habits could help us reconnect?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "evenings", "routines", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "sit_together_before_starting_tasks", "text": "Sit together before starting tasks" }, { "id": "share_the_best_or_strangest_moment", "text": "Share the best or strangest moment" }, { "id": "take_a_short_walk", "text": "Take a short walk" }, { "id": "put_phones_down_briefly", "text": "Put phones down briefly" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sit_together_before_starting_tasks", "text": "Sit together before starting tasks" }, { "id": "share_the_best_or_strangest_moment", "text": "Share the best or strangest moment" }, { "id": "take_a_short_walk", "text": "Take a short walk" }, { "id": "put_phones_down_briefly", "text": "Put phones down briefly" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_025", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should happen first when we finally have ten quiet minutes?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "routines", "preferences", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "talk", "text": "Talk" }, { "id": "sit_quietly", "text": "Sit quietly" }, { "id": "share_something_funny", "text": "Share something funny" }, { "id": "decide_together_in_the_moment", "text": "Decide together in the moment" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "talk", "text": "Talk" }, { "id": "sit_quietly", "text": "Sit quietly" }, { "id": "share_something_funny", "text": "Share something funny" }, { "id": "decide_together_in_the_moment", "text": "Decide together in the moment" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_026", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a weekly ritual worth keeping?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "rituals", "meaning", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "we_both_enjoy_it", "text": "We both enjoy it" }, { "id": "it_fits_real_life", "text": "It fits real life" }, { "id": "it_gives_us_something_to_anticipate", "text": "It gives us something to anticipate" }, { "id": "it_still_feels_chosen", "text": "It still feels chosen" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_both_enjoy_it", "text": "We both enjoy it" }, { "id": "it_fits_real_life", "text": "It fits real life" }, { "id": "it_gives_us_something_to_anticipate", "text": "It gives us something to anticipate" }, { "id": "it_still_feels_chosen", "text": "It still feels chosen" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_027", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which routines could work even when our schedules barely overlap?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "schedules", "routines", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_voice_message", "text": "A voice message" }, { "id": "a_shared_breakfast", "text": "A shared breakfast" }, { "id": "a_note_left_behind", "text": "A note left behind" }, { "id": "a_short_call_during_a_regular_break", "text": "A short call during a regular break" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_voice_message", "text": "A voice message" }, { "id": "a_shared_breakfast", "text": "A shared breakfast" }, { "id": "a_note_left_behind", "text": "A note left behind" }, { "id": "a_short_call_during_a_regular_break", "text": "A short call during a regular break" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_028", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "written", "text": "What daily moment would you most like us to reclaim as ours?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "routines", "shared_time", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "quality_time_029", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us notice when a routine no longer fits?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "routines", "adaptability", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "one_person_keeps_avoiding_it", "text": "One person keeps avoiding it" }, { "id": "it_creates_more_stress_than_warmth", "text": "It creates more stress than warmth" }, { "id": "our_schedule_has_changed", "text": "Our schedule has changed" }, { "id": "a_different_habit_sounds_easier", "text": "A different habit sounds easier" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "one_person_keeps_avoiding_it", "text": "One person keeps avoiding it" }, { "id": "it_creates_more_stress_than_warmth", "text": "It creates more stress than warmth" }, { "id": "our_schedule_has_changed", "text": "Our schedule has changed" }, { "id": "a_different_habit_sounds_easier", "text": "A different habit sounds easier" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_030", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When routines disappear, what helps connection survive the disruption?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "routines", "change", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "choosing_one_temporary_anchor", "text": "Choosing one temporary anchor" }, { "id": "saying_what_we_miss", "text": "Saying what we miss" }, { "id": "lowering_expectations", "text": "Lowering expectations" }, { "id": "making_a_new_plan_together", "text": "Making a new plan together" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "choosing_one_temporary_anchor", "text": "Choosing one temporary anchor" }, { "id": "saying_what_we_miss", "text": "Saying what we miss" }, { "id": "lowering_expectations", "text": "Lowering expectations" }, { "id": "making_a_new_plan_together", "text": "Making a new plan together" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_031", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes you feel that you really have my attention?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "attention", "presence", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "i_put_the_phone_down", "text": "I put the phone down" }, { "id": "i_ask_a_follow_up_question", "text": "I ask a follow-up question" }, { "id": "i_remember_the_important_part", "text": "I remember the important part" }, { "id": "i_stop_doing_another_task", "text": "I stop doing another task" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_put_the_phone_down", "text": "I put the phone down" }, { "id": "i_ask_a_follow_up_question", "text": "I ask a follow-up question" }, { "id": "i_remember_the_important_part", "text": "I remember the important part" }, { "id": "i_stop_doing_another_task", "text": "I stop doing another task" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_032", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When do you most want my full attention?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "attention", "preferences", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "when_telling_a_story", "text": "When telling a story" }, { "id": "when_sharing_something_difficult", "text": "When sharing something difficult" }, { "id": "when_making_a_plan", "text": "When making a plan" }, { "id": "when_we_first_reconnect", "text": "When we first reconnect" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "when_telling_a_story", "text": "When telling a story" }, { "id": "when_sharing_something_difficult", "text": "When sharing something difficult" }, { "id": "when_making_a_plan", "text": "When making a plan" }, { "id": "when_we_first_reconnect", "text": "When we first reconnect" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_033", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Phones out of sight or simply face down?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "phones", "quick_choice", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "phones_out_of_sight", "text": "Phones out of sight" }, { "id": "phones_face_down", "text": "Phones face down" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "phones_out_of_sight", "text": "Phones out of sight" }, { "id": "phones_face_down", "text": "Phones face down" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_034", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which distractions most often steal good time from us?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "distractions", "awareness", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "phones", "text": "Phones" }, { "id": "unfinished_chores", "text": "Unfinished chores" }, { "id": "work_messages", "text": "Work messages" }, { "id": "trying_to_multitask", "text": "Trying to multitask" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "phones", "text": "Phones" }, { "id": "unfinished_chores", "text": "Unfinished chores" }, { "id": "work_messages", "text": "Work messages" }, { "id": "trying_to_multitask", "text": "Trying to multitask" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_035", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a short conversation feel unrushed?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "conversation", "presence", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "sitting_down", "text": "Sitting down" }, { "id": "not_checking_the_time_repeatedly", "text": "Not checking the time repeatedly" }, { "id": "letting_one_topic_finish", "text": "Letting one topic finish" }, { "id": "avoiding_a_task_at_the_same_time", "text": "Avoiding a task at the same time" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sitting_down", "text": "Sitting down" }, { "id": "not_checking_the_time_repeatedly", "text": "Not checking the time repeatedly" }, { "id": "letting_one_topic_finish", "text": "Letting one topic finish" }, { "id": "avoiding_a_task_at_the_same_time", "text": "Avoiding a task at the same time" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_036", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which device is most likely to become the uninvited third person?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "humor", "phones", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_phone", "text": "A phone" }, { "id": "a_television", "text": "A television" }, { "id": "a_work_laptop", "text": "A work laptop" }, { "id": "the_smart_speaker_with_opinions", "text": "The smart speaker with opinions" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_phone", "text": "A phone" }, { "id": "a_television", "text": "A television" }, { "id": "a_work_laptop", "text": "A work laptop" }, { "id": "the_smart_speaker_with_opinions", "text": "The smart speaker with opinions" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_037", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What could make screen time feel shared instead of separate?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "screens", "shared_activity", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "choose_together", "text": "Choose together" }, { "id": "pause_to_talk", "text": "Pause to talk" }, { "id": "keep_one_screen", "text": "Keep one screen" }, { "id": "watch_something_both_people_actually_want", "text": "Watch something both people actually want" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "choose_together", "text": "Choose together" }, { "id": "pause_to_talk", "text": "Pause to talk" }, { "id": "keep_one_screen", "text": "Keep one screen" }, { "id": "watch_something_both_people_actually_want", "text": "Watch something both people actually want" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_038", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How present do we usually feel during time together?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "presence", "current_state", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Often distracted", "max_label": "Fully present" } }, { "id": "quality_time_039", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs show that one of us needs more attention right now?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "signals", "attention", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "repeating_a_story", "text": "Repeating a story" }, { "id": "putting_the_phone_away_first", "text": "Putting the phone away first" }, { "id": "asking_to_sit_together", "text": "Asking to sit together" }, { "id": "saying_the_day_was_hard", "text": "Saying the day was hard" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "repeating_a_story", "text": "Repeating a story" }, { "id": "putting_the_phone_away_first", "text": "Putting the phone away first" }, { "id": "asking_to_sit_together", "text": "Asking to sit together" }, { "id": "saying_the_day_was_hard", "text": "Saying the day was hard" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_040", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which phone rule sounds least likely to start a constitutional crisis?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "humor", "phones", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "no_phones_during_one_meal", "text": "No phones during one meal" }, { "id": "phones_away_for_twenty_minutes", "text": "Phones away for twenty minutes" }, { "id": "only_urgent_messages", "text": "Only urgent messages" }, { "id": "one_person_controls_the_emergency_snack_timer", "text": "One person controls the emergency snack timer" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_phones_during_one_meal", "text": "No phones during one meal" }, { "id": "phones_away_for_twenty_minutes", "text": "Phones away for twenty minutes" }, { "id": "only_urgent_messages", "text": "Only urgent messages" }, { "id": "one_person_controls_the_emergency_snack_timer", "text": "One person controls the emergency snack timer" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_041", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes divided attention feel less frustrating?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "attention", "real_life", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "saying_when_you_can_listen_fully", "text": "Saying when you can listen fully" }, { "id": "finishing_the_task_quickly", "text": "Finishing the task quickly" }, { "id": "returning_to_the_conversation", "text": "Returning to the conversation" }, { "id": "being_honest_that_now_is_not_a_good_moment", "text": "Being honest that now is not a good moment" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "saying_when_you_can_listen_fully", "text": "Saying when you can listen fully" }, { "id": "finishing_the_task_quickly", "text": "Finishing the task quickly" }, { "id": "returning_to_the_conversation", "text": "Returning to the conversation" }, { "id": "being_honest_that_now_is_not_a_good_moment", "text": "Being honest that now is not a good moment" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_042", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which moments deserve protection from multitasking?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "presence", "priorities", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "important_news", "text": "Important news" }, { "id": "a_planned_activity", "text": "A planned activity" }, { "id": "a_difficult_conversation", "text": "A difficult conversation" }, { "id": "the_first_minutes_after_time_apart", "text": "The first minutes after time apart" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "important_news", "text": "Important news" }, { "id": "a_planned_activity", "text": "A planned activity" }, { "id": "a_difficult_conversation", "text": "A difficult conversation" }, { "id": "the_first_minutes_after_time_apart", "text": "The first minutes after time apart" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_043", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "written", "text": "What is one time you felt especially noticed by me?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "attention", "memory", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "quality_time_044", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can we ask for attention without sounding like a complaint?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "attention", "communication", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "can_we_have_ten_minutes", "text": "Can we have ten minutes?" }, { "id": "i_want_to_tell_you_something", "text": "I want to tell you something" }, { "id": "when_can_you_listen_fully", "text": "When can you listen fully?" }, { "id": "could_we_put_this_aside_for_a_moment", "text": "Could we put this aside for a moment?" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "can_we_have_ten_minutes", "text": "Can we have ten minutes?" }, { "id": "i_want_to_tell_you_something", "text": "I want to tell you something" }, { "id": "when_can_you_listen_fully", "text": "When can you listen fully?" }, { "id": "could_we_put_this_aside_for_a_moment", "text": "Could we put this aside for a moment?" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_045", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What happens when attention becomes something one person must compete for?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "attention", "warning_signs", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "stories_get_shorter", "text": "Stories get shorter" }, { "id": "invitations_stop", "text": "Invitations stop" }, { "id": "resentment_builds", "text": "Resentment builds" }, { "id": "being_together_stops_feeling_restful", "text": "Being together stops feeling restful" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "stories_get_shorter", "text": "Stories get shorter" }, { "id": "invitations_stop", "text": "Invitations stop" }, { "id": "resentment_builds", "text": "Resentment builds" }, { "id": "being_together_stops_feeling_restful", "text": "Being together stops feeling restful" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_046", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What counts as quality time when we are both exhausted?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "low_energy", "busy_life", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "eating_together", "text": "Eating together" }, { "id": "a_short_check_in", "text": "A short check-in" }, { "id": "sitting_quietly_nearby", "text": "Sitting quietly nearby" }, { "id": "choosing_one_easy_thing_for_later", "text": "Choosing one easy thing for later" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "eating_together", "text": "Eating together" }, { "id": "a_short_check_in", "text": "A short check-in" }, { "id": "sitting_quietly_nearby", "text": "Sitting quietly nearby" }, { "id": "choosing_one_easy_thing_for_later", "text": "Choosing one easy thing for later" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_047", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which tired-night plan sounds most doable?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "low_energy", "preferences", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_twenty_minute_show", "text": "A twenty-minute show" }, { "id": "tea_and_conversation", "text": "Tea and conversation" }, { "id": "separate_hobbies_together", "text": "Separate hobbies together" }, { "id": "an_early_bedtime_after_a_real_goodnight", "text": "An early bedtime after a real goodnight" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_twenty_minute_show", "text": "A twenty-minute show" }, { "id": "tea_and_conversation", "text": "Tea and conversation" }, { "id": "separate_hobbies_together", "text": "Separate hobbies together" }, { "id": "an_early_bedtime_after_a_real_goodnight", "text": "An early bedtime after a real goodnight" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_048", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Shorten the plan or move it to another day?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "low_energy", "quick_choice", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "shorten_the_plan", "text": "Shorten the plan" }, { "id": "move_it_to_another_day", "text": "Move it to another day" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "shorten_the_plan", "text": "Shorten the plan" }, { "id": "move_it_to_another_day", "text": "Move it to another day" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_049", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps quality time work when one of us has less energy?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "low_energy", "accessibility", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "the_lower_energy_person_chooses_the_pace", "text": "The lower-energy person chooses the pace" }, { "id": "plans_can_end_early", "text": "Plans can end early" }, { "id": "comfort_matters_more_than_novelty", "text": "Comfort matters more than novelty" }, { "id": "quiet_company_counts", "text": "Quiet company counts" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_lower_energy_person_chooses_the_pace", "text": "The lower-energy person chooses the pace" }, { "id": "plans_can_end_early", "text": "Plans can end early" }, { "id": "comfort_matters_more_than_novelty", "text": "Comfort matters more than novelty" }, { "id": "quiet_company_counts", "text": "Quiet company counts" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_050", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which connection ideas require almost no preparation?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "low_energy", "easy_plans", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "sit_outside", "text": "Sit outside" }, { "id": "share_a_snack", "text": "Share a snack" }, { "id": "listen_to_one_album", "text": "Listen to one album" }, { "id": "take_a_short_drive", "text": "Take a short drive" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sit_outside", "text": "Sit outside" }, { "id": "share_a_snack", "text": "Share a snack" }, { "id": "listen_to_one_album", "text": "Listen to one album" }, { "id": "take_a_short_drive", "text": "Take a short drive" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_051", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which plan has the smallest chance of needing recovery afterward?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "humor", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_blanket_and_one_episode", "text": "A blanket and one episode" }, { "id": "a_porch_sit", "text": "A porch sit" }, { "id": "a_drive_with_no_errands", "text": "A drive with no errands" }, { "id": "going_nowhere_with_impressive_commitment", "text": "Going nowhere with impressive commitment" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_blanket_and_one_episode", "text": "A blanket and one episode" }, { "id": "a_porch_sit", "text": "A porch sit" }, { "id": "a_drive_with_no_errands", "text": "A drive with no errands" }, { "id": "going_nowhere_with_impressive_commitment", "text": "Going nowhere with impressive commitment" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_052", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can make a busy week feel less disconnected?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "busy_life", "connection", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "one_protected_meal", "text": "One protected meal" }, { "id": "a_short_daily_message", "text": "A short daily message" }, { "id": "knowing_the_next_shared_plan", "text": "Knowing the next shared plan" }, { "id": "helping_each_other_finish_sooner", "text": "Helping each other finish sooner" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "one_protected_meal", "text": "One protected meal" }, { "id": "a_short_daily_message", "text": "A short daily message" }, { "id": "knowing_the_next_shared_plan", "text": "Knowing the next shared plan" }, { "id": "helping_each_other_finish_sooner", "text": "Helping each other finish sooner" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_053", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How well does our quality time fit our actual energy lately?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "low_energy", "current_state", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Poorly", "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "quality_time_054", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which plans are easiest to adapt when life changes suddenly?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "flexibility", "busy_life", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_walk", "text": "A walk" }, { "id": "an_at_home_meal", "text": "An at-home meal" }, { "id": "a_short_drive", "text": "A short drive" }, { "id": "anything_without_reservations", "text": "Anything without reservations" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_walk", "text": "A walk" }, { "id": "an_at_home_meal", "text": "An at-home meal" }, { "id": "a_short_drive", "text": "A short drive" }, { "id": "anything_without_reservations", "text": "Anything without reservations" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_055", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should we cancel first when the week becomes ridiculous?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "humor", "busy_life", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "unnecessary_errands", "text": "Unnecessary errands" }, { "id": "a_complicated_plan", "text": "A complicated plan" }, { "id": "the_idea_that_everything_must_be_productive", "text": "The idea that everything must be productive" }, { "id": "nothing_until_we_inspect_the_snack_situation", "text": "Nothing until we inspect the snack situation" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "unnecessary_errands", "text": "Unnecessary errands" }, { "id": "a_complicated_plan", "text": "A complicated plan" }, { "id": "the_idea_that_everything_must_be_productive", "text": "The idea that everything must be productive" }, { "id": "nothing_until_we_inspect_the_snack_situation", "text": "Nothing until we inspect the snack situation" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_056", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a postponed plan feel like a rain check instead of rejection?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "planning", "reassurance", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "naming_another_possible_time", "text": "Naming another possible time" }, { "id": "keeping_the_response_warm", "text": "Keeping the response warm" }, { "id": "explaining_briefly", "text": "Explaining briefly" }, { "id": "following_through_later", "text": "Following through later" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "naming_another_possible_time", "text": "Naming another possible time" }, { "id": "keeping_the_response_warm", "text": "Keeping the response warm" }, { "id": "explaining_briefly", "text": "Explaining briefly" }, { "id": "following_through_later", "text": "Following through later" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_057", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which forms of quality time can work during a stressful season?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "stress", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "doing_a_simple_task_together", "text": "Doing a simple task together" }, { "id": "a_quiet_meal", "text": "A quiet meal" }, { "id": "a_short_bedtime_check_in", "text": "A short bedtime check-in" }, { "id": "one_low_pressure_outing", "text": "One low-pressure outing" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "doing_a_simple_task_together", "text": "Doing a simple task together" }, { "id": "a_quiet_meal", "text": "A quiet meal" }, { "id": "a_short_bedtime_check_in", "text": "A short bedtime check-in" }, { "id": "one_low_pressure_outing", "text": "One low-pressure outing" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_058", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "written", "text": "What is the easiest kind of time together that still matters to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "low_energy", "preferences", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "quality_time_059", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can we protect time together without treating rest as wasted time?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "rest", "balance", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "choose_restful_plans", "text": "Choose restful plans" }, { "id": "let_either_person_shorten_them", "text": "Let either person shorten them" }, { "id": "avoid_filling_every_free_hour", "text": "Avoid filling every free hour" }, { "id": "count_recovery_as_part_of_the_plan", "text": "Count recovery as part of the plan" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "choose_restful_plans", "text": "Choose restful plans" }, { "id": "let_either_person_shorten_them", "text": "Let either person shorten them" }, { "id": "avoid_filling_every_free_hour", "text": "Avoid filling every free hour" }, { "id": "count_recovery_as_part_of_the_plan", "text": "Count recovery as part of the plan" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_060", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which expectations become unfair during a hard season?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "busy_life", "fairness", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "ignoring_different_energy_levels", "text": "Ignoring different energy levels" }, { "id": "expecting_one_person_to_plan_everything", "text": "Expecting one person to plan everything" }, { "id": "treating_exhaustion_as_lack_of_love", "text": "Treating exhaustion as lack of love" }, { "id": "comparing_this_season_with_easier_years", "text": "Comparing this season with easier years" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ignoring_different_energy_levels", "text": "Ignoring different energy levels" }, { "id": "expecting_one_person_to_plan_everything", "text": "Expecting one person to plan everything" }, { "id": "treating_exhaustion_as_lack_of_love", "text": "Treating exhaustion as lack of love" }, { "id": "comparing_this_season_with_easier_years", "text": "Comparing this season with easier years" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_061", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which kinds of activities make conversation happen naturally?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "activities", "conversation", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "walking", "text": "Walking" }, { "id": "driving", "text": "Driving" }, { "id": "cooking", "text": "Cooking" }, { "id": "working_on_something_with_our_hands", "text": "Working on something with our hands" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "walking", "text": "Walking" }, { "id": "driving", "text": "Driving" }, { "id": "cooking", "text": "Cooking" }, { "id": "working_on_something_with_our_hands", "text": "Working on something with our hands" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_062", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which shared activity sounds easiest to repeat?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "activities", "preferences", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_weekly_walk", "text": "A weekly walk" }, { "id": "cooking_one_meal", "text": "Cooking one meal" }, { "id": "a_game_night", "text": "A game night" }, { "id": "watching_a_series_together", "text": "Watching a series together" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_weekly_walk", "text": "A weekly walk" }, { "id": "cooking_one_meal", "text": "Cooking one meal" }, { "id": "a_game_night", "text": "A game night" }, { "id": "watching_a_series_together", "text": "Watching a series together" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_063", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Learn something together or teach each other something?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "learning", "quick_choice", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "learn_something_together", "text": "Learn something together" }, { "id": "teach_each_other_something", "text": "Teach each other something" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "learn_something_together", "text": "Learn something together" }, { "id": "teach_each_other_something", "text": "Teach each other something" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_064", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes trying a shared hobby feel low pressure?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "hobbies", "novelty", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "starting_cheaply", "text": "Starting cheaply" }, { "id": "being_beginners_together", "text": "Being beginners together" }, { "id": "no_demand_to_continue", "text": "No demand to continue" }, { "id": "choosing_something_easy_to_stop", "text": "Choosing something easy to stop" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "starting_cheaply", "text": "Starting cheaply" }, { "id": "being_beginners_together", "text": "Being beginners together" }, { "id": "no_demand_to_continue", "text": "No demand to continue" }, { "id": "choosing_something_easy_to_stop", "text": "Choosing something easy to stop" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_065", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which shared projects could be fun without taking over the house?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "projects", "humor", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_small_garden_bed", "text": "A small garden bed" }, { "id": "a_puzzle", "text": "A puzzle" }, { "id": "a_photo_album", "text": "A photo album" }, { "id": "anything_with_fewer_than_seventeen_labeled_bins", "text": "Anything with fewer than seventeen labeled bins" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_small_garden_bed", "text": "A small garden bed" }, { "id": "a_puzzle", "text": "A puzzle" }, { "id": "a_photo_album", "text": "A photo album" }, { "id": "anything_with_fewer_than_seventeen_labeled_bins", "text": "Anything with fewer than seventeen labeled bins" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_066", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which activity best reveals who becomes strangely competitive?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "humor", "games", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "cards", "text": "Cards" }, { "id": "mini_golf", "text": "Mini golf" }, { "id": "trivia", "text": "Trivia" }, { "id": "assembling_furniture_without_instructions", "text": "Assembling furniture without instructions" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cards", "text": "Cards" }, { "id": "mini_golf", "text": "Mini golf" }, { "id": "trivia", "text": "Trivia" }, { "id": "assembling_furniture_without_instructions", "text": "Assembling furniture without instructions" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_067", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps different activity preferences work together?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "activities", "differences", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "take_turns_choosing", "text": "Take turns choosing" }, { "id": "find_the_shared_part", "text": "Find the shared part" }, { "id": "let_one_person_watch_sometimes", "text": "Let one person watch sometimes" }, { "id": "keep_separate_interests_too", "text": "Keep separate interests too" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "take_turns_choosing", "text": "Take turns choosing" }, { "id": "find_the_shared_part", "text": "Find the shared part" }, { "id": "let_one_person_watch_sometimes", "text": "Let one person watch sometimes" }, { "id": "keep_separate_interests_too", "text": "Keep separate interests too" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_068", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How satisfied are you with the variety in our shared activities?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "activities", "current_state", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "I want more variety", "max_label": "It feels varied enough" } }, { "id": "quality_time_069", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which activities can feel good even if we are not equally skilled?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "activities", "fairness", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "cooking", "text": "Cooking" }, { "id": "dancing_at_home", "text": "Dancing at home" }, { "id": "a_creative_project", "text": "A creative project" }, { "id": "learning_something_new", "text": "Learning something new" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cooking", "text": "Cooking" }, { "id": "dancing_at_home", "text": "Dancing at home" }, { "id": "a_creative_project", "text": "A creative project" }, { "id": "learning_something_new", "text": "Learning something new" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_070", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which project should require a written promise not to become a lifestyle?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "humor", "projects", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_renovation", "text": "A renovation" }, { "id": "a_collecting_hobby", "text": "A collecting hobby" }, { "id": "a_giant_puzzle", "text": "A giant puzzle" }, { "id": "anything_introduced_with_this_will_be_simple", "text": "Anything introduced with this will be simple" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_renovation", "text": "A renovation" }, { "id": "a_collecting_hobby", "text": "A collecting hobby" }, { "id": "a_giant_puzzle", "text": "A giant puzzle" }, { "id": "anything_introduced_with_this_will_be_simple", "text": "Anything introduced with this will be simple" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_071", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a shared activity feel connecting rather than performative?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "activities", "connection", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "we_both_chose_it", "text": "We both chose it" }, { "id": "nobody_must_be_impressive", "text": "Nobody must be impressive" }, { "id": "we_can_talk_naturally", "text": "We can talk naturally" }, { "id": "the_activity_leaves_room_for_laughter", "text": "The activity leaves room for laughter" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_both_chose_it", "text": "We both chose it" }, { "id": "nobody_must_be_impressive", "text": "Nobody must be impressive" }, { "id": "we_can_talk_naturally", "text": "We can talk naturally" }, { "id": "the_activity_leaves_room_for_laughter", "text": "The activity leaves room for laughter" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_072", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which activities are good when conversation needs a little help?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "activities", "conversation", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "looking_through_old_photos", "text": "Looking through old photos" }, { "id": "a_question_game", "text": "A question game" }, { "id": "a_scenic_drive", "text": "A scenic drive" }, { "id": "cooking_from_a_new_recipe", "text": "Cooking from a new recipe" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "looking_through_old_photos", "text": "Looking through old photos" }, { "id": "a_question_game", "text": "A question game" }, { "id": "a_scenic_drive", "text": "A scenic drive" }, { "id": "cooking_from_a_new_recipe", "text": "Cooking from a new recipe" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_073", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "written", "text": "What is one activity we tried together that surprised you?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "activities", "memory", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "quality_time_074", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should happen when one person stops enjoying a shared hobby?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "hobbies", "change", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "say_so_without_guilt", "text": "Say so without guilt" }, { "id": "change_the_way_we_do_it", "text": "Change the way we do it" }, { "id": "let_the_other_continue_alone", "text": "Let the other continue alone" }, { "id": "choose_something_new_together", "text": "Choose something new together" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "say_so_without_guilt", "text": "Say so without guilt" }, { "id": "change_the_way_we_do_it", "text": "Change the way we do it" }, { "id": "let_the_other_continue_alone", "text": "Let the other continue alone" }, { "id": "choose_something_new_together", "text": "Choose something new together" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_075", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can turn shared activities into another source of pressure?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "activities", "warning_signs", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "keeping_score", "text": "Keeping score" }, { "id": "forcing_equal_enthusiasm", "text": "Forcing equal enthusiasm" }, { "id": "spending_more_than_agreed", "text": "Spending more than agreed" }, { "id": "treating_improvement_as_the_point", "text": "Treating improvement as the point" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "keeping_score", "text": "Keeping score" }, { "id": "forcing_equal_enthusiasm", "text": "Forcing equal enthusiasm" }, { "id": "spending_more_than_agreed", "text": "Spending more than agreed" }, { "id": "treating_improvement_as_the_point", "text": "Treating improvement as the point" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_076", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which settings make talking together feel easiest?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "conversation", "setting", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "in_the_car", "text": "In the car" }, { "id": "on_a_walk", "text": "On a walk" }, { "id": "over_a_meal", "text": "Over a meal" }, { "id": "in_bed_before_sleep", "text": "In bed before sleep" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "in_the_car", "text": "In the car" }, { "id": "on_a_walk", "text": "On a walk" }, { "id": "over_a_meal", "text": "Over a meal" }, { "id": "in_bed_before_sleep", "text": "In bed before sleep" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_077", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which conversation pace feels best on a relaxed evening?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "conversation", "preferences", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "one_long_topic", "text": "One long topic" }, { "id": "several_small_topics", "text": "Several small topics" }, { "id": "stories_and_jokes", "text": "Stories and jokes" }, { "id": "very_little_talking", "text": "Very little talking" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "one_long_topic", "text": "One long topic" }, { "id": "several_small_topics", "text": "Several small topics" }, { "id": "stories_and_jokes", "text": "Stories and jokes" }, { "id": "very_little_talking", "text": "Very little talking" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_078", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it for us to enjoy silence together?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "quiet_time", "current_state", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not easy", "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "quality_time_079", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Talk about the day or escape into something completely different?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "conversation", "quick_choice", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "talk_about_the_day", "text": "Talk about the day" }, { "id": "escape_into_something_different", "text": "Escape into something different" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "talk_about_the_day", "text": "Talk about the day" }, { "id": "escape_into_something_different", "text": "Escape into something different" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_080", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes quiet time feel connected instead of awkward?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "quiet_time", "presence", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "sitting_close", "text": "Sitting close" }, { "id": "doing_compatible_activities", "text": "Doing compatible activities" }, { "id": "no_pressure_to_fill_silence", "text": "No pressure to fill silence" }, { "id": "occasional_small_comments", "text": "Occasional small comments" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sitting_close", "text": "Sitting close" }, { "id": "doing_compatible_activities", "text": "Doing compatible activities" }, { "id": "no_pressure_to_fill_silence", "text": "No pressure to fill silence" }, { "id": "occasional_small_comments", "text": "Occasional small comments" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_081", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which conversation topics are fun without needing a serious purpose?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "conversation", "fun_first", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "strange_things_we_noticed", "text": "Strange things we noticed" }, { "id": "what_we_would_do_with_a_free_week", "text": "What we would do with a free week" }, { "id": "old_stories", "text": "Old stories" }, { "id": "ridiculous_opinions", "text": "Ridiculous opinions" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "strange_things_we_noticed", "text": "Strange things we noticed" }, { "id": "what_we_would_do_with_a_free_week", "text": "What we would do with a free week" }, { "id": "old_stories", "text": "Old stories" }, { "id": "ridiculous_opinions", "text": "Ridiculous opinions" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_082", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which topic could carry an entire porch conversation?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "humor", "conversation", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "neighborhood_mysteries", "text": "Neighborhood mysteries" }, { "id": "foods_with_undeserved_confidence", "text": "Foods with undeserved confidence" }, { "id": "our_worst_fashion_eras", "text": "Our worst fashion eras" }, { "id": "a_completely_unnecessary_future_invention", "text": "A completely unnecessary future invention" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "neighborhood_mysteries", "text": "Neighborhood mysteries" }, { "id": "foods_with_undeserved_confidence", "text": "Foods with undeserved confidence" }, { "id": "our_worst_fashion_eras", "text": "Our worst fashion eras" }, { "id": "a_completely_unnecessary_future_invention", "text": "A completely unnecessary future invention" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_083", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a deeper conversation happen naturally during quality time?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "conversation", "meaningful", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "enough_time", "text": "Enough time" }, { "id": "a_relaxed_setting", "text": "A relaxed setting" }, { "id": "one_honest_question", "text": "One honest question" }, { "id": "no_demand_to_finish_the_topic", "text": "No demand to finish the topic" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "enough_time", "text": "Enough time" }, { "id": "a_relaxed_setting", "text": "A relaxed setting" }, { "id": "one_honest_question", "text": "One honest question" }, { "id": "no_demand_to_finish_the_topic", "text": "No demand to finish the topic" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_084", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How balanced does our talking and quiet time feel?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "conversation", "balance", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Out of balance", "max_label": "Very balanced" } }, { "id": "quality_time_085", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs show that tonight should stay light?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "conversation", "energy", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "one_person_is_exhausted", "text": "One person is exhausted" }, { "id": "jokes_are_landing_better_than_questions", "text": "Jokes are landing better than questions" }, { "id": "a_serious_topic_feels_forced", "text": "A serious topic feels forced" }, { "id": "we_mostly_need_comfort", "text": "We mostly need comfort" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "one_person_is_exhausted", "text": "One person is exhausted" }, { "id": "jokes_are_landing_better_than_questions", "text": "Jokes are landing better than questions" }, { "id": "a_serious_topic_feels_forced", "text": "A serious topic feels forced" }, { "id": "we_mostly_need_comfort", "text": "We mostly need comfort" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_086", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is the best response when neither of us has anything interesting to report?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "humor", "conversation", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "invent_a_ridiculous_question", "text": "Invent a ridiculous question" }, { "id": "put_on_music", "text": "Put on music" }, { "id": "sit_quietly", "text": "Sit quietly" }, { "id": "accept_that_we_are_not_a_nightly_news_program", "text": "Accept that we are not a nightly news program" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "invent_a_ridiculous_question", "text": "Invent a ridiculous question" }, { "id": "put_on_music", "text": "Put on music" }, { "id": "sit_quietly", "text": "Sit quietly" }, { "id": "accept_that_we_are_not_a_nightly_news_program", "text": "Accept that we are not a nightly news program" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_087", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can we keep conversation from becoming only household administration?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "conversation", "logistics", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "set_logistics_aside_after_a_few_minutes", "text": "Set logistics aside after a few minutes" }, { "id": "ask_about_something_enjoyable", "text": "Ask about something enjoyable" }, { "id": "share_a_memory", "text": "Share a memory" }, { "id": "plan_one_thing_we_want", "text": "Plan one thing we want" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "set_logistics_aside_after_a_few_minutes", "text": "Set logistics aside after a few minutes" }, { "id": "ask_about_something_enjoyable", "text": "Ask about something enjoyable" }, { "id": "share_a_memory", "text": "Share a memory" }, { "id": "plan_one_thing_we_want", "text": "Plan one thing we want" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_088", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which questions tend to create a good couple conversation?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "conversation", "discovery", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "what_surprised_you_today", "text": "What surprised you today?" }, { "id": "what_are_you_looking_forward_to", "text": "What are you looking forward to?" }, { "id": "what_made_you_laugh", "text": "What made you laugh?" }, { "id": "what_should_we_do_more_often", "text": "What should we do more often?" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "what_surprised_you_today", "text": "What surprised you today?" }, { "id": "what_are_you_looking_forward_to", "text": "What are you looking forward to?" }, { "id": "what_made_you_laugh", "text": "What made you laugh?" }, { "id": "what_should_we_do_more_often", "text": "What should we do more often?" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_089", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which topics can turn an ordinary evening into a good conversation?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "quiet_time", "warning_signs", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "unspoken_tension", "text": "Unspoken tension" }, { "id": "one_person_trying_to_connect_repeatedly", "text": "One person trying to connect repeatedly" }, { "id": "silence_being_used_as_punishment", "text": "Silence being used as punishment" }, { "id": "never_returning_to_conversation", "text": "Never returning to conversation" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "unspoken_tension", "text": "Unspoken tension" }, { "id": "one_person_trying_to_connect_repeatedly", "text": "One person trying to connect repeatedly" }, { "id": "silence_being_used_as_punishment", "text": "Silence being used as punishment" }, { "id": "never_returning_to_conversation", "text": "Never returning to conversation" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_090", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us tell the difference between peaceful quiet and avoidance?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "quiet_time", "clarity", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "either_person_can_start_talking", "text": "Either person can start talking" }, { "id": "the_mood_still_feels_warm", "text": "The mood still feels warm" }, { "id": "important_topics_are_revisited", "text": "Important topics are revisited" }, { "id": "silence_is_not_used_to_control_the_room", "text": "Silence is not used to control the room" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "either_person_can_start_talking", "text": "Either person can start talking" }, { "id": "the_mood_still_feels_warm", "text": "The mood still feels warm" }, { "id": "important_topics_are_revisited", "text": "Important topics are revisited" }, { "id": "silence_is_not_used_to_control_the_room", "text": "Silence is not used to control the room" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_091", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which playful moments make time together feel most like us?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "playfulness", "couple_identity", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "inside_jokes", "text": "Inside jokes" }, { "id": "friendly_teasing", "text": "Friendly teasing" }, { "id": "making_up_stories", "text": "Making up stories" }, { "id": "turning_a_boring_task_into_a_game", "text": "Turning a boring task into a game" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "inside_jokes", "text": "Inside jokes" }, { "id": "friendly_teasing", "text": "Friendly teasing" }, { "id": "making_up_stories", "text": "Making up stories" }, { "id": "turning_a_boring_task_into_a_game", "text": "Turning a boring task into a game" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_092", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which low-key flirting move gets your attention fastest?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "flirting", "preferences", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_quiet_compliment", "text": "A quiet compliment" }, { "id": "a_meaningful_look", "text": "A meaningful look" }, { "id": "a_playful_message", "text": "A playful message" }, { "id": "an_invitation_to_sit_closer", "text": "An invitation to sit closer" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_quiet_compliment", "text": "A quiet compliment" }, { "id": "a_meaningful_look", "text": "A meaningful look" }, { "id": "a_playful_message", "text": "A playful message" }, { "id": "an_invitation_to_sit_closer", "text": "An invitation to sit closer" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_093", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How playful does our time together feel lately?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "playfulness", "current_state", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very playful", "max_label": "Very playful" } }, { "id": "quality_time_094", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Bring back an old inside joke or create a new one?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "couple_lore", "quick_choice", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "bring_back_an_old_inside_joke", "text": "Bring back an old inside joke" }, { "id": "create_a_new_one", "text": "Create a new one" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "bring_back_an_old_inside_joke", "text": "Bring back an old inside joke" }, { "id": "create_a_new_one", "text": "Create a new one" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_095", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes flirting fit naturally into quality time?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "flirting", "low_pressure", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "it_stays_playful", "text": "It stays playful" }, { "id": "it_does_not_demand_a_response", "text": "It does not demand a response" }, { "id": "it_fits_the_setting", "text": "It fits the setting" }, { "id": "it_sounds_like_us", "text": "It sounds like us" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_stays_playful", "text": "It stays playful" }, { "id": "it_does_not_demand_a_response", "text": "It does not demand a response" }, { "id": "it_fits_the_setting", "text": "It fits the setting" }, { "id": "it_sounds_like_us", "text": "It sounds like us" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_096", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which ordinary activities become better with a little flirting?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "flirting", "daily_life", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "cooking", "text": "Cooking" }, { "id": "running_errands", "text": "Running errands" }, { "id": "taking_a_walk", "text": "Taking a walk" }, { "id": "cleaning_up_together", "text": "Cleaning up together" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cooking", "text": "Cooking" }, { "id": "running_errands", "text": "Running errands" }, { "id": "taking_a_walk", "text": "Taking a walk" }, { "id": "cleaning_up_together", "text": "Cleaning up together" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_097", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which boring task has the greatest untapped romantic potential?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "humor", "flirting", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "folding_laundry", "text": "Folding laundry" }, { "id": "grocery_shopping", "text": "Grocery shopping" }, { "id": "washing_dishes", "text": "Washing dishes" }, { "id": "waiting_for_the_internet_to_restart", "text": "Waiting for the internet to restart" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "folding_laundry", "text": "Folding laundry" }, { "id": "grocery_shopping", "text": "Grocery shopping" }, { "id": "washing_dishes", "text": "Washing dishes" }, { "id": "waiting_for_the_internet_to_restart", "text": "Waiting for the internet to restart" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_098", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps playfulness return after a serious week?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "playfulness", "reconnection", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "doing_something_familiar", "text": "Doing something familiar" }, { "id": "sharing_something_funny", "text": "Sharing something funny" }, { "id": "leaving_one_evening_unscheduled", "text": "Leaving one evening unscheduled" }, { "id": "not_forcing_a_big_mood_change", "text": "Not forcing a big mood change" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "doing_something_familiar", "text": "Doing something familiar" }, { "id": "sharing_something_funny", "text": "Sharing something funny" }, { "id": "leaving_one_evening_unscheduled", "text": "Leaving one evening unscheduled" }, { "id": "not_forcing_a_big_mood_change", "text": "Not forcing a big mood change" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_099", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How much would a little more flirting improve our time together?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "flirting", "current_need", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A great deal" } }, { "id": "quality_time_100", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which playful challenges could be fun for one evening?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "games", "playfulness", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "choose_each_other_s_snack", "text": "Choose each other's snack" }, { "id": "make_the_worst_movie_pitch", "text": "Make the worst movie pitch" }, { "id": "guess_old_answers", "text": "Guess old answers" }, { "id": "create_a_ridiculous_house_award", "text": "Create a ridiculous house award" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "choose_each_other_s_snack", "text": "Choose each other's snack" }, { "id": "make_the_worst_movie_pitch", "text": "Make the worst movie pitch" }, { "id": "guess_old_answers", "text": "Guess old answers" }, { "id": "create_a_ridiculous_house_award", "text": "Create a ridiculous house award" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_101", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which couple competition needs the least official oversight?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "humor", "games", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "best_snack_choice", "text": "Best snack choice" }, { "id": "worst_joke", "text": "Worst joke" }, { "id": "fastest_puzzle", "text": "Fastest puzzle" }, { "id": "who_can_avoid_changing_the_rules", "text": "Who can avoid changing the rules" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "best_snack_choice", "text": "Best snack choice" }, { "id": "worst_joke", "text": "Worst joke" }, { "id": "fastest_puzzle", "text": "Fastest puzzle" }, { "id": "who_can_avoid_changing_the_rules", "text": "Who can avoid changing the rules" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_102", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes teasing affectionate rather than irritating?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "teasing", "boundaries", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "the_topic_is_safe", "text": "The topic is safe" }, { "id": "both_people_laugh", "text": "Both people laugh" }, { "id": "it_stops_immediately_when_asked", "text": "It stops immediately when asked" }, { "id": "it_never_targets_a_real_insecurity", "text": "It never targets a real insecurity" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_topic_is_safe", "text": "The topic is safe" }, { "id": "both_people_laugh", "text": "Both people laugh" }, { "id": "it_stops_immediately_when_asked", "text": "It stops immediately when asked" }, { "id": "it_never_targets_a_real_insecurity", "text": "It never targets a real insecurity" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_103", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which kinds of compliments improve shared time without changing the subject?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "appreciation", "flirting", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "something_about_your_company", "text": "Something about your company" }, { "id": "something_you_handled_well", "text": "Something you handled well" }, { "id": "something_attractive_i_noticed", "text": "Something attractive I noticed" }, { "id": "something_uniquely_you", "text": "Something uniquely you" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "something_about_your_company", "text": "Something about your company" }, { "id": "something_you_handled_well", "text": "Something you handled well" }, { "id": "something_attractive_i_noticed", "text": "Something attractive I noticed" }, { "id": "something_uniquely_you", "text": "Something uniquely you" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_104", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can make playfulness feel unsafe or one-sided?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "playfulness", "boundaries", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "jokes_target_a_sore_spot", "text": "Jokes target a sore spot" }, { "id": "one_person_must_perform", "text": "One person must perform" }, { "id": "teasing_continues_after_discomfort", "text": "Teasing continues after discomfort" }, { "id": "laughter_is_used_to_dismiss_a_concern", "text": "Laughter is used to dismiss a concern" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "jokes_target_a_sore_spot", "text": "Jokes target a sore spot" }, { "id": "one_person_must_perform", "text": "One person must perform" }, { "id": "teasing_continues_after_discomfort", "text": "Teasing continues after discomfort" }, { "id": "laughter_is_used_to_dismiss_a_concern", "text": "Laughter is used to dismiss a concern" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_105", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can flirting stay welcome when one person is not in a flirty mood?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "flirting", "consent", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "accept_the_response", "text": "Accept the response" }, { "id": "switch_to_ordinary_warmth", "text": "Switch to ordinary warmth" }, { "id": "do_not_keep_escalating", "text": "Do not keep escalating" }, { "id": "try_again_another_day_without_resentment", "text": "Try again another day without resentment" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "accept_the_response", "text": "Accept the response" }, { "id": "switch_to_ordinary_warmth", "text": "Switch to ordinary warmth" }, { "id": "do_not_keep_escalating", "text": "Do not keep escalating" }, { "id": "try_again_another_day_without_resentment", "text": "Try again another day without resentment" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_106", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes an invitation to spend time together appealing?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "invitations", "planning", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "it_is_specific", "text": "It is specific" }, { "id": "it_fits_our_energy", "text": "It fits our energy" }, { "id": "it_sounds_genuinely_wanted", "text": "It sounds genuinely wanted" }, { "id": "it_leaves_room_for_another_idea", "text": "It leaves room for another idea" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_is_specific", "text": "It is specific" }, { "id": "it_fits_our_energy", "text": "It fits our energy" }, { "id": "it_sounds_genuinely_wanted", "text": "It sounds genuinely wanted" }, { "id": "it_leaves_room_for_another_idea", "text": "It leaves room for another idea" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_107", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which invitation would be easiest to accept on a normal weekday?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "invitations", "preferences", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "want_to_take_a_walk", "text": "Want to take a walk?" }, { "id": "want_to_eat_together", "text": "Want to eat together?" }, { "id": "can_we_sit_outside", "text": "Can we sit outside?" }, { "id": "want_twenty_minutes_with_no_phones", "text": "Want twenty minutes with no phones?" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "want_to_take_a_walk", "text": "Want to take a walk?" }, { "id": "want_to_eat_together", "text": "Want to eat together?" }, { "id": "can_we_sit_outside", "text": "Can we sit outside?" }, { "id": "want_twenty_minutes_with_no_phones", "text": "Want twenty minutes with no phones?" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_108", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it for us to make plans that actually happen?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "planning", "current_state", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not easy", "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "quality_time_109", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Put it on the calendar or decide the day of?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "planning", "quick_choice", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "put_it_on_the_calendar", "text": "Put it on the calendar" }, { "id": "decide_the_day_of", "text": "Decide the day of" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "put_it_on_the_calendar", "text": "Put it on the calendar" }, { "id": "decide_the_day_of", "text": "Decide the day of" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_110", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which plans benefit most from being decided ahead of time?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "planning", "timing", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_longer_outing", "text": "A longer outing" }, { "id": "time_requiring_childcare", "text": "Time requiring childcare" }, { "id": "a_shared_project", "text": "A shared project" }, { "id": "a_night_protected_from_other_commitments", "text": "A night protected from other commitments" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_longer_outing", "text": "A longer outing" }, { "id": "time_requiring_childcare", "text": "Time requiring childcare" }, { "id": "a_shared_project", "text": "A shared project" }, { "id": "a_night_protected_from_other_commitments", "text": "A night protected from other commitments" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_111", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps scheduled quality time from feeling like another appointment?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "planning", "intentionality", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "the_activity_still_feels_optional", "text": "The activity still feels optional" }, { "id": "we_choose_something_enjoyable", "text": "We choose something enjoyable" }, { "id": "the_plan_has_breathing_room", "text": "The plan has breathing room" }, { "id": "we_do_not_overplan_every_minute", "text": "We do not overplan every minute" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_activity_still_feels_optional", "text": "The activity still feels optional" }, { "id": "we_choose_something_enjoyable", "text": "We choose something enjoyable" }, { "id": "the_plan_has_breathing_room", "text": "The plan has breathing room" }, { "id": "we_do_not_overplan_every_minute", "text": "We do not overplan every minute" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_112", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Who should choose when neither of us has a useful opinion?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "humor", "decision_making", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "take_turns", "text": "Take turns" }, { "id": "flip_a_coin", "text": "Flip a coin" }, { "id": "use_the_shortest_option", "text": "Use the shortest option" }, { "id": "the_person_who_rejects_the_first_three_ideas", "text": "The person who rejects the first three ideas" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "take_turns", "text": "Take turns" }, { "id": "flip_a_coin", "text": "Flip a coin" }, { "id": "use_the_shortest_option", "text": "Use the shortest option" }, { "id": "the_person_who_rejects_the_first_three_ideas", "text": "The person who rejects the first three ideas" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_113", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can we make invitations easier when one person fears rejection?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "invitations", "reassurance", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "keep_the_invitation_low_pressure", "text": "Keep the invitation low pressure" }, { "id": "offer_more_than_one_time", "text": "Offer more than one time" }, { "id": "accept_no_warmly", "text": "Accept no warmly" }, { "id": "let_the_other_person_invite_next", "text": "Let the other person invite next" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "keep_the_invitation_low_pressure", "text": "Keep the invitation low pressure" }, { "id": "offer_more_than_one_time", "text": "Offer more than one time" }, { "id": "accept_no_warmly", "text": "Accept no warmly" }, { "id": "let_the_other_person_invite_next", "text": "Let the other person invite next" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_114", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How wanted do you feel when I invite you to spend time together?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "invitations", "feeling_wanted", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very wanted", "max_label": "Clearly wanted" } }, { "id": "quality_time_115", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which planning habits create unnecessary friction?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "planning", "humor", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "asking_what_do_you_want_repeatedly", "text": "Asking what do you want repeatedly" }, { "id": "offering_ideas_nobody_likes", "text": "Offering ideas nobody likes" }, { "id": "waiting_until_both_people_are_hungry", "text": "Waiting until both people are hungry" }, { "id": "treating_a_two_hour_plan_like_a_summit", "text": "Treating a two-hour plan like a summit" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "asking_what_do_you_want_repeatedly", "text": "Asking what do you want repeatedly" }, { "id": "offering_ideas_nobody_likes", "text": "Offering ideas nobody likes" }, { "id": "waiting_until_both_people_are_hungry", "text": "Waiting until both people are hungry" }, { "id": "treating_a_two_hour_plan_like_a_summit", "text": "Treating a two-hour plan like a summit" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_116", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is the best backup plan when our first idea falls apart?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "planning", "flexibility", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "stay_home_intentionally", "text": "Stay home intentionally" }, { "id": "pick_the_easiest_alternative", "text": "Pick the easiest alternative" }, { "id": "reschedule_without_drama", "text": "Reschedule without drama" }, { "id": "choose_food_and_reassess", "text": "Choose food and reassess" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "stay_home_intentionally", "text": "Stay home intentionally" }, { "id": "pick_the_easiest_alternative", "text": "Pick the easiest alternative" }, { "id": "reschedule_without_drama", "text": "Reschedule without drama" }, { "id": "choose_food_and_reassess", "text": "Choose food and reassess" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_117", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps shared plans feel fair when our preferences differ?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "planning", "fairness", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "alternate_choices", "text": "Alternate choices" }, { "id": "find_the_part_both_enjoy", "text": "Find the part both enjoy" }, { "id": "keep_some_plans_separate", "text": "Keep some plans separate" }, { "id": "notice_who_has_compromised_recently", "text": "Notice who has compromised recently" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "alternate_choices", "text": "Alternate choices" }, { "id": "find_the_part_both_enjoy", "text": "Find the part both enjoy" }, { "id": "keep_some_plans_separate", "text": "Keep some plans separate" }, { "id": "notice_who_has_compromised_recently", "text": "Notice who has compromised recently" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_118", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which invitations can create connection without requiring a whole evening?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "invitations", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_short_walk", "text": "A short walk" }, { "id": "coffee_together", "text": "Coffee together" }, { "id": "one_episode", "text": "One episode" }, { "id": "a_drive_with_no_errands", "text": "A drive with no errands" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_short_walk", "text": "A short walk" }, { "id": "coffee_together", "text": "Coffee together" }, { "id": "one_episode", "text": "One episode" }, { "id": "a_drive_with_no_errands", "text": "A drive with no errands" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_119", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can make repeated declined invitations feel difficult?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "invitations", "disconnection", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "no_alternative_is_suggested", "text": "No alternative is suggested" }, { "id": "the_reason_is_never_discussed", "text": "The reason is never discussed" }, { "id": "one_person_stops_asking", "text": "One person stops asking" }, { "id": "the_rejection_becomes_a_running_joke", "text": "The rejection becomes a running joke" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_alternative_is_suggested", "text": "No alternative is suggested" }, { "id": "the_reason_is_never_discussed", "text": "The reason is never discussed" }, { "id": "one_person_stops_asking", "text": "One person stops asking" }, { "id": "the_rejection_becomes_a_running_joke", "text": "The rejection becomes a running joke" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_120", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would help us repair a pattern where one person plans everything?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "planning", "fairness", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "name_the_imbalance", "text": "Name the imbalance" }, { "id": "share_a_short_list_of_ideas", "text": "Share a short list of ideas" }, { "id": "take_turns_initiating", "text": "Take turns initiating" }, { "id": "value_simple_plans_as_real_effort", "text": "Value simple plans as real effort" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "name_the_imbalance", "text": "Name the imbalance" }, { "id": "share_a_short_list_of_ideas", "text": "Share a short list of ideas" }, { "id": "take_turns_initiating", "text": "Take turns initiating" }, { "id": "value_simple_plans_as_real_effort", "text": "Value simple plans as real effort" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_121", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which parts of our history are most fun to revisit?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "couple_lore", "memory", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "how_we_first_met", "text": "How we first met" }, { "id": "early_misunderstandings", "text": "Early misunderstandings" }, { "id": "trips_that_went_sideways", "text": "Trips that went sideways" }, { "id": "small_moments_nobody_else_remembers", "text": "Small moments nobody else remembers" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "how_we_first_met", "text": "How we first met" }, { "id": "early_misunderstandings", "text": "Early misunderstandings" }, { "id": "trips_that_went_sideways", "text": "Trips that went sideways" }, { "id": "small_moments_nobody_else_remembers", "text": "Small moments nobody else remembers" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_122", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which memory category deserves its own unofficial archive?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "couple_lore", "preferences", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "funny_mistakes", "text": "Funny mistakes" }, { "id": "favorite_trips", "text": "Favorite trips" }, { "id": "ordinary_good_days", "text": "Ordinary good days" }, { "id": "messages_we_still_quote", "text": "Messages we still quote" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "funny_mistakes", "text": "Funny mistakes" }, { "id": "favorite_trips", "text": "Favorite trips" }, { "id": "ordinary_good_days", "text": "Ordinary good days" }, { "id": "messages_we_still_quote", "text": "Messages we still quote" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_123", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How connected do you feel to the story we have built together?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "couple_lore", "current_state", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very connected", "max_label": "Deeply connected" } }, { "id": "quality_time_124", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Recreate an old favorite day or invent a new tradition?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "traditions", "quick_choice", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "recreate_an_old_favorite_day", "text": "Recreate an old favorite day" }, { "id": "invent_a_new_tradition", "text": "Invent a new tradition" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "recreate_an_old_favorite_day", "text": "Recreate an old favorite day" }, { "id": "invent_a_new_tradition", "text": "Invent a new tradition" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_125", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a tradition feel like ours?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "traditions", "identity", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_detail_only_we_care_about", "text": "A detail only we care about" }, { "id": "it_began_naturally", "text": "It began naturally" }, { "id": "both_people_enjoy_it", "text": "Both people enjoy it" }, { "id": "it_carries_a_story", "text": "It carries a story" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_detail_only_we_care_about", "text": "A detail only we care about" }, { "id": "it_began_naturally", "text": "It began naturally" }, { "id": "both_people_enjoy_it", "text": "Both people enjoy it" }, { "id": "it_carries_a_story", "text": "It carries a story" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_126", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which traditions could be small enough to keep for years?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "traditions", "sustainability", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "an_annual_meal", "text": "An annual meal" }, { "id": "a_seasonal_walk", "text": "A seasonal walk" }, { "id": "a_monthly_breakfast", "text": "A monthly breakfast" }, { "id": "a_private_celebration_of_a_small_date", "text": "A private celebration of a small date" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "an_annual_meal", "text": "An annual meal" }, { "id": "a_seasonal_walk", "text": "A seasonal walk" }, { "id": "a_monthly_breakfast", "text": "A monthly breakfast" }, { "id": "a_private_celebration_of_a_small_date", "text": "A private celebration of a small date" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_127", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which piece of couple history becomes funnier every year?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "humor", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_terrible_first_impression", "text": "A terrible first impression" }, { "id": "a_travel_disaster", "text": "A travel disaster" }, { "id": "a_failed_project", "text": "A failed project" }, { "id": "the_argument_neither_person_can_now_explain", "text": "The argument neither person can now explain" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_terrible_first_impression", "text": "A terrible first impression" }, { "id": "a_travel_disaster", "text": "A travel disaster" }, { "id": "a_failed_project", "text": "A failed project" }, { "id": "the_argument_neither_person_can_now_explain", "text": "The argument neither person can now explain" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_128", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps old memories create connection instead of comparison?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "memory", "long_term", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "enjoy_them_without_demanding_life_feel_the_same", "text": "Enjoy them without demanding life feel the same" }, { "id": "notice_what_has_improved", "text": "Notice what has improved" }, { "id": "let_each_person_remember_differently", "text": "Let each person remember differently" }, { "id": "use_them_as_inspiration_not_a_standard", "text": "Use them as inspiration, not a standard" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "enjoy_them_without_demanding_life_feel_the_same", "text": "Enjoy them without demanding life feel the same" }, { "id": "notice_what_has_improved", "text": "Notice what has improved" }, { "id": "let_each_person_remember_differently", "text": "Let each person remember differently" }, { "id": "use_them_as_inspiration_not_a_standard", "text": "Use them as inspiration, not a standard" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_129", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How much do shared traditions matter to your idea of us?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "traditions", "meaning", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A great deal" } }, { "id": "quality_time_130", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which objects can turn into good quality-time conversation?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "memory", "conversation", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "old_photos", "text": "Old photos" }, { "id": "a_saved_ticket", "text": "A saved ticket" }, { "id": "a_familiar_recipe", "text": "A familiar recipe" }, { "id": "something_from_our_first_home", "text": "Something from our first home" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "old_photos", "text": "Old photos" }, { "id": "a_saved_ticket", "text": "A saved ticket" }, { "id": "a_familiar_recipe", "text": "A familiar recipe" }, { "id": "something_from_our_first_home", "text": "Something from our first home" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_131", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which tradition should be allowed to retire without an investigation?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "humor", "traditions", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "the_one_everyone_dreads", "text": "The one everyone dreads" }, { "id": "the_one_requiring_three_days_of_work", "text": "The one requiring three days of work" }, { "id": "the_one_kept_only_from_guilt", "text": "The one kept only from guilt" }, { "id": "the_one_nobody_remembers_starting", "text": "The one nobody remembers starting" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_one_everyone_dreads", "text": "The one everyone dreads" }, { "id": "the_one_requiring_three_days_of_work", "text": "The one requiring three days of work" }, { "id": "the_one_kept_only_from_guilt", "text": "The one kept only from guilt" }, { "id": "the_one_nobody_remembers_starting", "text": "The one nobody remembers starting" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_132", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What could make a new tradition feel natural?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "traditions", "low_pressure", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "it_grows_from_something_we_already_enjoy", "text": "It grows from something we already enjoy" }, { "id": "it_fits_our_schedule", "text": "It fits our schedule" }, { "id": "it_can_change", "text": "It can change" }, { "id": "missing_it_once_is_not_a_crisis", "text": "Missing it once is not a crisis" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_grows_from_something_we_already_enjoy", "text": "It grows from something we already enjoy" }, { "id": "it_fits_our_schedule", "text": "It fits our schedule" }, { "id": "it_can_change", "text": "It can change" }, { "id": "missing_it_once_is_not_a_crisis", "text": "Missing it once is not a crisis" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_133", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which stories would you want us to keep telling?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "couple_lore", "legacy", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "how_we_handled_a_hard_year", "text": "How we handled a hard year" }, { "id": "something_ridiculous_we_did", "text": "Something ridiculous we did" }, { "id": "a_risk_that_worked_out", "text": "A risk that worked out" }, { "id": "an_ordinary_moment_that_became_important", "text": "An ordinary moment that became important" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "how_we_handled_a_hard_year", "text": "How we handled a hard year" }, { "id": "something_ridiculous_we_did", "text": "Something ridiculous we did" }, { "id": "a_risk_that_worked_out", "text": "A risk that worked out" }, { "id": "an_ordinary_moment_that_became_important", "text": "An ordinary moment that became important" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_134", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which declined-invitation patterns can quietly create distance?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "memory", "grief", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "using_the_past_to_criticize_the_present", "text": "Using the past to criticize the present" }, { "id": "ignoring_what_has_changed", "text": "Ignoring what has changed" }, { "id": "one_person_feeling_pressured_to_perform_an_old_version", "text": "One person feeling pressured to perform an old version" }, { "id": "only_remembering_what_was_lost", "text": "Only remembering what was lost" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "using_the_past_to_criticize_the_present", "text": "Using the past to criticize the present" }, { "id": "ignoring_what_has_changed", "text": "Ignoring what has changed" }, { "id": "one_person_feeling_pressured_to_perform_an_old_version", "text": "One person feeling pressured to perform an old version" }, { "id": "only_remembering_what_was_lost", "text": "Only remembering what was lost" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_135", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can our traditions leave room for who we are becoming?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "traditions", "change", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "keep_the_meaning_and_change_the_details", "text": "Keep the meaning and change the details" }, { "id": "retire_what_no_longer_fits", "text": "Retire what no longer fits" }, { "id": "let_both_people_suggest_updates", "text": "Let both people suggest updates" }, { "id": "create_new_traditions_without_replacing_every_old_one", "text": "Create new traditions without replacing every old one" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "keep_the_meaning_and_change_the_details", "text": "Keep the meaning and change the details" }, { "id": "retire_what_no_longer_fits", "text": "Retire what no longer fits" }, { "id": "let_both_people_suggest_updates", "text": "Let both people suggest updates" }, { "id": "create_new_traditions_without_replacing_every_old_one", "text": "Create new traditions without replacing every old one" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_136", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which quality-time plans work well when mobility or pain is a factor?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "accessibility", "comfort", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_comfortable_meal_at_home", "text": "A comfortable meal at home" }, { "id": "a_scenic_drive", "text": "A scenic drive" }, { "id": "a_seated_activity", "text": "A seated activity" }, { "id": "a_short_outing_with_an_easy_exit", "text": "A short outing with an easy exit" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_comfortable_meal_at_home", "text": "A comfortable meal at home" }, { "id": "a_scenic_drive", "text": "A scenic drive" }, { "id": "a_seated_activity", "text": "A seated activity" }, { "id": "a_short_outing_with_an_easy_exit", "text": "A short outing with an easy exit" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_137", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which plan is easiest when social energy is low?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "social_energy", "preferences", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "stay_home_together", "text": "Stay home together" }, { "id": "go_somewhere_quiet", "text": "Go somewhere quiet" }, { "id": "see_one_trusted_person", "text": "See one trusted person" }, { "id": "keep_separate_plans_and_reconnect_later", "text": "Keep separate plans and reconnect later" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "stay_home_together", "text": "Stay home together" }, { "id": "go_somewhere_quiet", "text": "Go somewhere quiet" }, { "id": "see_one_trusted_person", "text": "See one trusted person" }, { "id": "keep_separate_plans_and_reconnect_later", "text": "Keep separate plans and reconnect later" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_138", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How well do our plans respect each person's energy and comfort?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "accessibility", "current_state", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not well enough", "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "quality_time_139", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Choose the more accessible plan or adapt the original idea?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "accessibility", "quick_choice", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "choose_the_more_accessible_plan", "text": "Choose the more accessible plan" }, { "id": "adapt_the_original_idea", "text": "Adapt the original idea" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "choose_the_more_accessible_plan", "text": "Choose the more accessible plan" }, { "id": "adapt_the_original_idea", "text": "Adapt the original idea" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_140", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps an outing feel accessible without becoming a medical operation?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "accessibility", "planning", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "know_where_we_can_sit", "text": "Know where we can sit" }, { "id": "keep_the_schedule_loose", "text": "Keep the schedule loose" }, { "id": "plan_an_easy_exit", "text": "Plan an easy exit" }, { "id": "bring_only_what_actually_helps", "text": "Bring only what actually helps" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "know_where_we_can_sit", "text": "Know where we can sit" }, { "id": "keep_the_schedule_loose", "text": "Keep the schedule loose" }, { "id": "plan_an_easy_exit", "text": "Plan an easy exit" }, { "id": "bring_only_what_actually_helps", "text": "Bring only what actually helps" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_141", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which shared-time options work when one person needs sensory calm?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "sensory", "accessibility", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_quiet_room", "text": "A quiet room" }, { "id": "low_volume_music", "text": "Low-volume music" }, { "id": "a_familiar_activity", "text": "A familiar activity" }, { "id": "time_together_without_conversation", "text": "Time together without conversation" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_quiet_room", "text": "A quiet room" }, { "id": "low_volume_music", "text": "Low-volume music" }, { "id": "a_familiar_activity", "text": "A familiar activity" }, { "id": "time_together_without_conversation", "text": "Time together without conversation" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_142", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which preparation earns the biggest return on a comfortable outing?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "humor", "accessibility", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "checking_the_seating", "text": "Checking the seating" }, { "id": "bringing_water", "text": "Bringing water" }, { "id": "avoiding_the_busiest_hour", "text": "Avoiding the busiest hour" }, { "id": "knowing_where_the_nearest_acceptable_bathroom_is", "text": "Knowing where the nearest acceptable bathroom is" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "checking_the_seating", "text": "Checking the seating" }, { "id": "bringing_water", "text": "Bringing water" }, { "id": "avoiding_the_busiest_hour", "text": "Avoiding the busiest hour" }, { "id": "knowing_where_the_nearest_acceptable_bathroom_is", "text": "Knowing where the nearest acceptable bathroom is" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_143", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can we handle different social batteries respectfully?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "social_energy", "differences", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "agree_on_an_exit_time", "text": "Agree on an exit time" }, { "id": "let_one_person_leave_earlier", "text": "Let one person leave earlier" }, { "id": "choose_smaller_gatherings", "text": "Choose smaller gatherings" }, { "id": "do_not_shame_the_need_for_recovery", "text": "Do not shame the need for recovery" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "agree_on_an_exit_time", "text": "Agree on an exit time" }, { "id": "let_one_person_leave_earlier", "text": "Let one person leave earlier" }, { "id": "choose_smaller_gatherings", "text": "Choose smaller gatherings" }, { "id": "do_not_shame_the_need_for_recovery", "text": "Do not shame the need for recovery" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_144", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How hopeful do you feel about making more good time for us?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "future", "hope", "quality_time" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not hopeful yet", "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, { "id": "quality_time_145", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which future changes could improve our quality time?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "future", "small_changes", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "a_simpler_schedule", "text": "A simpler schedule" }, { "id": "more_shared_routines", "text": "More shared routines" }, { "id": "better_boundaries_around_work", "text": "Better boundaries around work" }, { "id": "a_habit_of_inviting_each_other", "text": "A habit of inviting each other" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_simpler_schedule", "text": "A simpler schedule" }, { "id": "more_shared_routines", "text": "More shared routines" }, { "id": "better_boundaries_around_work", "text": "Better boundaries around work" }, { "id": "a_habit_of_inviting_each_other", "text": "A habit of inviting each other" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_146", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which future-us plan sounds most believable?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "future", "humor", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "still_taking_walks", "text": "Still taking walks" }, { "id": "still_sharing_snacks", "text": "Still sharing snacks" }, { "id": "still_arguing_about_what_to_watch", "text": "Still arguing about what to watch" }, { "id": "still_protecting_one_quiet_hour", "text": "Still protecting one quiet hour" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "still_taking_walks", "text": "Still taking walks" }, { "id": "still_sharing_snacks", "text": "Still sharing snacks" }, { "id": "still_arguing_about_what_to_watch", "text": "Still arguing about what to watch" }, { "id": "still_protecting_one_quiet_hour", "text": "Still protecting one quiet hour" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_147", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps plans adapt when health or energy changes long term?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "accessibility", "change", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "focus_on_the_purpose_not_the_exact_activity", "text": "Focus on the purpose, not the exact activity" }, { "id": "let_comfort_lead", "text": "Let comfort lead" }, { "id": "keep_several_easy_options", "text": "Keep several easy options" }, { "id": "review_what_still_feels_enjoyable", "text": "Review what still feels enjoyable" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "focus_on_the_purpose_not_the_exact_activity", "text": "Focus on the purpose, not the exact activity" }, { "id": "let_comfort_lead", "text": "Let comfort lead" }, { "id": "keep_several_easy_options", "text": "Keep several easy options" }, { "id": "review_what_still_feels_enjoyable", "text": "Review what still feels enjoyable" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_148", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs show our quality time is healthy?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "wellbeing", "quality_time", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "both_people_initiate", "text": "Both people initiate" }, { "id": "plans_fit_real_life", "text": "Plans fit real life" }, { "id": "separate_time_is_also_respected", "text": "Separate time is also respected" }, { "id": "being_together_usually_restores_more_than_it_drains", "text": "Being together usually restores more than it drains" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "both_people_initiate", "text": "Both people initiate" }, { "id": "plans_fit_real_life", "text": "Plans fit real life" }, { "id": "separate_time_is_also_respected", "text": "Separate time is also respected" }, { "id": "being_together_usually_restores_more_than_it_drains", "text": "Being together usually restores more than it drains" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_149", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can make accessibility needs feel invisible during planning?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "accessibility", "warning_signs", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "assuming_the_old_plan_still_works", "text": "Assuming the old plan still works" }, { "id": "treating_adjustments_as_inconvenience", "text": "Treating adjustments as inconvenience" }, { "id": "expecting_one_person_to_explain_repeatedly", "text": "Expecting one person to explain repeatedly" }, { "id": "choosing_appearance_over_comfort", "text": "Choosing appearance over comfort" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "assuming_the_old_plan_still_works", "text": "Assuming the old plan still works" }, { "id": "treating_adjustments_as_inconvenience", "text": "Treating adjustments as inconvenience" }, { "id": "expecting_one_person_to_explain_repeatedly", "text": "Expecting one person to explain repeatedly" }, { "id": "choosing_appearance_over_comfort", "text": "Choosing appearance over comfort" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_150", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would make quality time remain meaningful as our lives change?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "tags": [ "future", "long_term", "quality_time" ], "options": [ { "id": "keep_learning_what_each_person_enjoys", "text": "Keep learning what each person enjoys" }, { "id": "protect_simple_connection", "text": "Protect simple connection" }, { "id": "let_traditions_evolve", "text": "Let traditions evolve" }, { "id": "choose_each_other_without_making_time_together_compulsory", "text": "Choose each other without making time together compulsory" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "keep_learning_what_each_person_enjoys", "text": "Keep learning what each person enjoys" }, { "id": "protect_simple_connection", "text": "Protect simple connection" }, { "id": "let_traditions_evolve", "text": "Let traditions evolve" }, { "id": "choose_each_other_without_making_time_together_compulsory", "text": "Choose each other without making time together compulsory" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } } ] }