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kitchen for a real hug" }, { "id": "sit_together_and_link_hands", "text": "Sit together and link hands" }, { "id": "trade_a_cheek_kiss_and_a_smile", "text": "Trade a cheek kiss and a smile" }, { "id": "take_a_minute_alone_then_reconnect", "text": "Take a minute alone, then reconnect" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_152", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "During a shared show, which level of contact feels easiest?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "light_shoulder_contact", "text": "Light shoulder contact" }, { "id": "one_hand_held_loosely", "text": "One hand held loosely" }, { "id": "feet_meeting_now_and_then", "text": "Feet meeting now and then" }, { "id": "nearby_with_no_steady_contact", "text": "Nearby with no steady contact" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_153", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which hand-holding style 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"an_easy_natural_ending", "text": "An easy, natural ending" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_155", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When our hands are full, which no-hands greeting feels sweetest?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "greetings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_quick_shoulder_to_shoulder_lean", "text": "A quick shoulder-to-shoulder lean" }, { "id": "a_cheek_kiss_after_a_clear_invitation", "text": "A cheek kiss after a clear invitation" }, { "id": "a_playful_hip_bump_when_expected", "text": "A playful hip bump when expected" }, { "id": "a_warm_smile_and_spoken_hello", "text": "A warm smile and spoken hello" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_156", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When sleep matters most, which goodnight gesture fits best?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "bedtime", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_brief_kiss_then_separate_space", "text": "A brief kiss, then separate space" }, { "id": "hands_held_for_one_quiet_minute", "text": "Hands held for one quiet minute" }, { "id": "a_gentle_shoulder_squeeze", "text": "A gentle shoulder squeeze" }, { "id": "a_warm_goodnight_with_no_touch", "text": "A warm goodnight with no touch" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_157", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which public-affection approach feels most natural at a casual outing?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "public_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "hands_linked_while_walking", "text": "Hands linked while walking" }, { "id": "a_brief_cheek_kiss", "text": "A brief cheek kiss" }, { "id": "an_arm_around_each_other_briefly", "text": "An arm around each other briefly" }, { "id": "keeping_physical_affection_private", "text": "Keeping physical affection private" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_158", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When you need comfort, which touch is most likely to help?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_steady_hug_with_no_talking", "text": "A steady hug with no talking" }, { "id": "a_hand_resting_on_your_back", "text": "A hand resting on your back" }, { "id": "your_hand_held_without_squeezing", "text": "Your hand held without squeezing" }, { "id": "space_first_then_an_invitation", "text": "Space first, then an invitation" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_159", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How should we mark a small shared joke?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_quiet_double_high_five", "text": "A quiet double high-five" }, { "id": "a_light_elbow_tap", "text": "A light elbow tap" }, { "id": "a_quick_wrist_tap", "text": "A quick wrist tap" }, { "id": "a_grin_with_no_touch_needed", "text": "A grin with no touch needed" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_160", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When both of us are already in a playful mood, which affection sounds most like us?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_playful_shoulder_bump_and_grin", "text": "A playful shoulder bump and grin" }, { "id": "a_shared_wink_and_tiny_bow", "text": "A shared wink and tiny bow" }, { "id": "a_mock_formal_handshake", "text": "A mock-formal handshake" }, { "id": "a_one_song_kitchen_sway", "text": "A one-song kitchen sway" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_161", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "At a crowded event, how should we stay connected?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "social_settings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "brief_hand_contact_while_moving", "text": "Brief hand contact while moving" }, { "id": "a_private_signal_across_the_room", "text": "A private signal across the room" }, { "id": "standing_close_during_conversations", "text": "Standing close during conversations" }, { "id": "checking_in_verbally_instead", "text": "Checking in verbally instead" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_162", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "During a quiet conversation, which contact helps you stay present?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "quiet_closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_light_hand_resting_on_my_forearm", "text": "A light hand resting on my forearm" }, { "id": "knees_resting_together", "text": "Knees resting together" }, { "id": "a_shoulder_resting_against_yours", "text": "A shoulder resting against yours" }, { "id": "no_touch_until_afterward", "text": "No touch until afterward" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_163", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which invitation to sit close feels most natural?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "communication", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "want_to_sit_with_me", "text": "“Want to sit with me?”" }, { "id": "making_room_and_asking_plainly", "text": "Making room and asking plainly" }, { "id": "offering_my_hand_and_waiting", "text": "Offering my hand and waiting" }, { "id": "using_a_signal_we_already_chose", "text": "Using a signal we already chose" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_164", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should our clearest pause signal be?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_word_pause_said_plainly", "text": "The word “pause” said plainly" }, { "id": "two_gentle_taps_on_my_arm", "text": "Two gentle taps on my arm" }, { "id": "moving_apart_and_naming_it", "text": "Moving apart and naming it" }, { "id": "a_hand_raised_between_us", "text": "A hand raised between us" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_165", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When you seem busy, how should I offer affection?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "timing", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_whether_now_is_a_good_time", "text": "Ask whether now is a good time" }, { "id": "wait_for_a_natural_break", "text": "Wait for a natural break" }, { "id": "offer_my_hand_without_interrupting", "text": "Offer my hand without interrupting" }, { "id": "save_the_affection_for_later", "text": "Save the affection for later" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_166", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which gentle kiss feels most affectionate during a calm moment?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "kissing", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_forehead_kiss_while_resting", "text": "A forehead kiss while resting" }, { "id": "a_cheek_kiss_in_passing", "text": "A cheek kiss in passing" }, { "id": "a_hand_kiss_during_a_joke", "text": "A hand kiss during a joke" }, { "id": "a_temple_kiss_before_parting", "text": "A temple kiss before parting" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_167", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "During a standing embrace, where do your hands feel most comfortable?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "resting_on_my_upper_back", "text": "Resting on my upper back" }, { "id": "settling_on_my_shoulders", "text": "Settling on my shoulders" }, { "id": "holding_one_of_my_hands", "text": "Holding one of my hands" }, { "id": "keeping_my_hands_relaxed_at_my_sides", "text": "Keeping my hands relaxed at my sides" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_168", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which setup best keeps a cuddle comfortable for more than a few minutes?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "separate_supportive_pillows", "text": "Separate supportive pillows" }, { "id": "one_adjustable_blanket", "text": "One adjustable blanket" }, { "id": "legs_supported_instead_of_tangled", "text": "Legs supported instead of tangled" }, { "id": "side_by_side_with_room_to_shift", "text": "Side by side with room to shift" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_169", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "On uneven ground, which offered support would feel useful without taking over?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "accessibility", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "an_open_forearm_to_hold", "text": "An open forearm to hold" }, { "id": "a_hand_offered_before_each_tricky_step", "text": "A hand offered before each tricky step" }, { "id": "walking_close_enough_to_help_if_asked", "text": "Walking close enough to help if asked" }, { "id": "no_contact_unless_i_request_it", "text": "No contact unless I request it" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_170", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When steady touch feels too warm, which alternative sounds best?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "weather", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_fingertip_tap_on_the_back_of_your_hand", "text": "A fingertip tap on the back of your hand" }, { "id": "feet_touching_for_a_moment", "text": "Feet touching for a moment" }, { "id": "a_short_cheek_kiss", "text": "A short cheek kiss" }, { "id": "a_shared_smile_from_a_little_distance", "text": "A shared smile from a little distance" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_171", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which cold-weather moment makes affection especially appealing?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "weather", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "right_before_stepping_outside", "text": "Right before stepping outside" }, { "id": "just_after_coming_back_in", "text": "Just after coming back in" }, { "id": "while_waiting_outdoors_together", "text": "While waiting outdoors together" }, { "id": "while_sharing_a_warm_drink", "text": "While sharing a warm drink" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_172", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "While doing something side by side, which gesture feels affectionate without getting in the way?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "home", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_brief_touch_at_the_elbow", "text": "A brief touch at the elbow" }, { "id": "a_brief_shoulder_lean_during_a_pause", "text": "A brief shoulder lean during a pause" }, { "id": "a_quick_palm_to_palm_tap", "text": "A quick palm-to-palm tap" }, { "id": "a_tiny_sway_when_there_is_room", "text": "A tiny sway when there is room" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_173", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which in-passing gesture would brighten an ordinary day?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "daily_life", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_shoulder_squeeze_at_the_doorway", "text": "A shoulder squeeze at the doorway" }, { "id": "a_hand_brushed_along_your_arm", "text": "A hand brushed along your arm" }, { "id": "a_quick_forehead_touch_and_smile", "text": "A quick forehead touch and smile" }, { "id": "a_playful_kiss_blown_from_across_the_room", "text": "A playful kiss blown from across the room" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_174", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "After a disagreement is resolved, which approach to touch feels safest?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_directly_before_moving_closer", "text": "Ask directly before moving closer" }, { "id": "sit_nearby_and_let_the_moment_settle", "text": "Sit nearby and let the moment settle" }, { "id": "offer_one_hand_without_assuming", "text": "Offer one hand without assuming" }, { "id": "wait_for_the_other_person_to_initiate", "text": "Wait for the other person to initiate" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_175", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "On an insecure body day, what affection feels kindest?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "body_confidence", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "being_held_without_appearance_comments", "text": "Being held without appearance comments" }, { "id": "a_gentle_hand_offered_to_yours", "text": "A gentle hand offered to yours" }, { "id": "a_kiss_paired_with_kind_reassurance", "text": "A kiss paired with kind reassurance" }, { "id": "closeness_that_lets_you_choose_distance", "text": "Closeness that lets you choose distance" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_176", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When your body is sore or tired, what support is most useful?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "body_comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_light_hand_massage", "text": "A light hand massage" }, { "id": "a_carefully_placed_back_rub", "text": "A carefully placed back rub" }, { "id": "a_still_hand_resting_nearby", "text": "A still hand resting nearby" }, { "id": "no_touch_unless_you_request_it", "text": "No touch unless you request it" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_177", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When casual touch is welcome in the moment, how should playful surprise affection happen?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "spontaneity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "something_i_can_see_coming", "text": "Something I can see coming" }, { "id": "a_small_gesture_in_a_relaxed_moment", "text": "A small gesture in a relaxed moment" }, { "id": "a_playful_surprise_with_an_easy_out", "text": "A playful surprise with an easy out" }, { "id": "a_clear_heads_up_before_any_touch", "text": "A clear heads-up before any touch" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_178", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which hug length usually feels best?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_quick_squeeze_and_release", "text": "A quick squeeze and release" }, { "id": "long_enough_for_one_deep_breath", "text": "Long enough for one deep breath" }, { "id": "several_breaths_without_rushing", "text": "Several breaths without rushing" }, { "id": "different_every_time_ask_me", "text": "Different every time—ask me" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_179", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What hug pressure feels most comfortable?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sensory_preferences", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "light_contact_with_room_to_move", "text": "Light contact with room to move" }, { "id": "a_warm_medium_squeeze", "text": "A warm medium squeeze" }, { "id": "firm_pressure_when_i_invite_it", "text": "Firm pressure when I invite it" }, { "id": "pressure_that_changes_with_my_cue", "text": "Pressure that changes with my cue" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_180", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which pace makes affectionate touch feel best?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sensory_preferences", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "brief_and_playful", "text": "Brief and playful" }, { "id": "slow_and_predictable", "text": "Slow and predictable" }, { "id": "still_and_steady", "text": "Still and steady" }, { "id": "varied_after_a_quick_check_in", "text": "Varied after a quick check-in" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_181", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which nonverbal hug invitation is easiest to understand?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "opening_both_arms_and_waiting", "text": "Opening both arms and waiting" }, { "id": "holding_one_hand_out_first", "text": "Holding one hand out first" }, { "id": "moving_closer_then_pausing", "text": "Moving closer, then pausing" }, { "id": "using_our_agreed_hug_signal", "text": "Using our agreed hug signal" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_182", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "After “not right now,” which response feels most reassuring?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "of_course_thanks_for_telling_me", "text": "“Of course—thanks for telling me.”" }, { "id": "a_warm_smile_and_immediate_space", "text": "A warm smile and immediate space" }, { "id": "an_offer_of_nonphysical_company", "text": "An offer of nonphysical company" }, { "id": "a_check_in_later_without_guilt", "text": "A check-in later without guilt" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_183", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which tiny habit would be easiest to keep during a very busy month?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_real_hug_after_getting_home", "text": "A real hug after getting home" }, { "id": "a_quick_forehead_touch_before_leaving", "text": "A quick forehead touch before leaving" }, { "id": "hands_linked_on_one_short_walk", "text": "Hands linked on one short walk" }, { "id": "a_quiet_cuddle_once_each_weekend", "text": "A quiet cuddle once each weekend" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_184", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Across a room, which gesture should mean “check in with me when you can”?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "support_signals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_hand_briefly_over_the_heart", "text": "A hand briefly over the heart" }, { "id": "a_small_two_finger_wave", "text": "A small two-finger wave" }, { "id": "a_steady_look_with_one_nod", "text": "A steady look with one nod" }, { "id": "a_signal_we_choose_together", "text": "A signal we choose together" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_185", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which hand-focused gesture feels most soothing?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "massage", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "slow_circles_across_your_palm", "text": "Slow circles across your palm" }, { "id": "a_gentle_stretch_through_each_finger", "text": "A gentle stretch through each finger" }, { "id": "warm_lotion_rubbed_in_slowly", "text": "Warm lotion rubbed in slowly" }, { "id": "your_hands_resting_still_in_mine", "text": "Your hands resting still in mine" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_186", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which pairing would make affection feel most personal?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "appreciation", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_specific_compliment_with_a_warm_side_hug", "text": "A specific compliment with a warm side hug" }, { "id": "an_inside_joke_with_a_cheek_kiss", "text": "An inside joke with a cheek kiss" }, { "id": "a_thank_you_with_a_long_hug", "text": "A thank-you with a long hug" }, { "id": "a_favorite_nickname_with_linked_hands", "text": "A favorite nickname with linked hands" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_187", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Before a stressful appointment, which kind of support would feel best?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "support", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_calm_shoulder_to_shoulder_pause_in_the_car", "text": "A calm shoulder-to-shoulder pause in the car" }, { "id": "a_brief_hug_before_walking_in", "text": "A brief hug before walking in" }, { "id": "a_light_touch_to_my_upper_arm_before_we_enter", "text": "A light touch to my upper arm before we enter" }, { "id": "nearby_company_without_touch", "text": "Nearby company without touch" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_188", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which tiny coordination game sounds fun for two minutes?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "play", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "mirror_one_slow_stretch", "text": "Mirror one slow stretch" }, { "id": "invent_a_two_step_handshake", "text": "Invent a two-step handshake" }, { "id": "copy_each_other_s_hand_motions", "text": "Copy each other’s hand motions" }, { "id": "match_one_simple_dance_move", "text": "Match one simple dance move" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_189", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "For a couple photo, which pose would feel most natural?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "photos", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "foreheads_together_and_laughing", "text": "Foreheads together and laughing" }, { "id": "back_to_back_with_matching_grins", "text": "Back to back with matching grins" }, { "id": "one_relaxed_hug_from_the_side", "text": "One relaxed hug from the side" }, { "id": "standing_close_with_hands_connected", "text": "Standing close with hands connected" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_190", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which familiar physical moment feels comforting because we have done it so many times?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "couple_identity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "our_usual_hello_embrace", "text": "Our usual hello embrace" }, { "id": "the_way_we_settle_beside_each_other", "text": "The way we settle beside each other" }, { "id": "the_way_our_knees_tap_under_a_table", "text": "The way our knees tap under a table" }, { "id": "the_goodnight_gesture_we_repeat", "text": "The goodnight gesture we repeat" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_191", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which practical details affect where you prefer me to sit or walk beside you? Select any.", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "accessibility", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "which_hand_you_like_to_keep_free", "text": "Which hand you like to keep free" }, { "id": "any_sore_side_or_sensitive_shoulder", "text": "Any sore side or sensitive shoulder" }, { "id": "which_side_makes_conversation_easier", "text": "Which side makes conversation easier" }, { "id": "bags_or_other_things_you_are_carrying", "text": "Bags or other things you are carrying" }, { "id": "how_much_space_the_setting_gives_us", "text": "How much space the setting gives us" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_192", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "With no expectation and an easy stop, what else makes a cuddle comfortable? Choose all that matter.", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "enough_room_to_change_position", "text": "Enough room to change position" }, { "id": "a_temperature_that_feels_comfortable", "text": "A temperature that feels comfortable" }, { "id": "supportive_pillows_or_blankets", "text": "Supportive pillows or blankets" }, { "id": "quiet_without_competing_distractions", "text": "Quiet without competing distractions" }, { "id": "a_position_we_can_adjust_easily", "text": "A position we can adjust easily" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_193", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which tiny affection habits fit naturally into everyday transitions? Pick any you would enjoy.", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_hug_after_walking_through_the_door", "text": "A hug after walking through the door" }, { "id": "a_quick_cheek_to_cheek_goodbye", "text": "A quick cheek-to-cheek goodbye" }, { "id": "a_brief_touch_after_finishing_a_meal", "text": "A brief touch after finishing a meal" }, { "id": "linked_arms_at_the_start_of_a_walk", "text": "Linked arms at the start of a walk" }, { "id": "sitting_close_when_the_day_finally_slows", "text": "Sitting close when the day finally slows" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_194", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "On a low-touch day, what could still help you feel close? Select any that fit.", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "low_touch_days", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sitting_nearby_without_contact", "text": "Sitting nearby without contact" }, { "id": "a_kind_text_from_another_room", "text": "A kind text from another room" }, { "id": "sharing_a_quiet_activity", "text": "Sharing a quiet activity" }, { "id": "an_affectionate_word_or_nickname", "text": "An affectionate word or nickname" }, { "id": "checking_again_at_a_later_time", "text": "Checking again at a later time" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_195", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can make physical affection feel playful? Choose every answer that sounds fun.", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_one_song_kitchen_dance", "text": "A one-song kitchen dance" }, { "id": "a_made_up_secret_handshake", "text": "A made-up secret handshake" }, { "id": "a_dramatic_celebration_hug", "text": "A dramatic celebration hug" }, { "id": "a_gentle_game_of_footsie", "text": "A gentle game of footsie" }, { "id": "a_silly_pose_for_a_photo", "text": "A silly pose for a photo" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_196", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which public-contact choices feel comfortable when you are open to them? Pick any, including none.", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "public_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "hands_connected_while_walking", "text": "Hands connected while walking" }, { "id": "a_quick_cheek_kiss", "text": "A quick cheek kiss" }, { "id": "an_arm_lightly_around_you", "text": "An arm lightly around you" }, { "id": "a_brief_greeting_hug", "text": "A brief greeting hug" }, { "id": "keeping_touch_private_until_later", "text": "Keeping touch private until later" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_197", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "With either answer accepted, how could I invite physical closeness? Select every approach you like.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_one_clear_question", "text": "Ask one clear question" }, { "id": "offer_an_open_hand_and_wait", "text": "Offer an open hand and wait" }, { "id": "make_space_and_ask_you_to_join_me", "text": "Make space and ask you to join me" }, { "id": "name_a_specific_gentle_gesture", "text": "Name a specific gentle gesture" }, { "id": "use_a_signal_we_agreed_on", "text": "Use a signal we agreed on" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_198", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which ways of saying “not right now” would feel natural to you? Pick any.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "say_it_directly_and_kindly", "text": "Say it directly and kindly" }, { "id": "use_our_pause_word", "text": "Use our pause word" }, { "id": "ask_for_more_space", "text": "Ask for more space" }, { "id": "move_away_and_name_it_clearly", "text": "Move away and name it clearly" }, { "id": "suggest_another_connection_only_if_you_want", "text": "Suggest another connection only if you want" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_199", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "After touch stops immediately, what else helps the moment stay supportive? Choose all that fit.", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "thank_them_for_being_clear", "text": "Thank them for being clear" }, { "id": "give_physical_room_right_away", "text": "Give physical room right away" }, { "id": "keep_the_mood_warm_and_ordinary", "text": "Keep the mood warm and ordinary" }, { "id": "switch_to_a_neutral_shared_activity", "text": "Switch to a neutral shared activity" }, { "id": "let_the_person_who_stopped_choose_any_later_closeness", "text": "Let the person who stopped choose any later closeness" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_200", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which conditions help touch feel sensory-friendly? Select any that matter to you.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sensory_needs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "predictable_movements", "text": "Predictable movements" }, { "id": "comfortable_pressure", "text": "Comfortable pressure" }, { "id": "low_noise_and_fewer_distractions", "text": "Low noise and fewer distractions" }, { "id": "room_to_reposition_easily", "text": "Room to reposition easily" }, { "id": "a_quick_warning_before_contact", "text": "A quick warning before contact" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_201", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When stress is high, which physical support might help after a check-in? Pick any.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "stress", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_steady_hand_held_quietly", "text": "A steady hand held quietly" }, { "id": "a_brief_grounding_hug", "text": "A brief grounding hug" }, { "id": "a_hand_resting_on_your_shoulder", "text": "A hand resting on your shoulder" }, { "id": "sitting_close_without_contact", "text": "Sitting close without contact" }, { "id": "space_now_with_an_offer_later", "text": "Space now with an offer later" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_202", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which gestures help you feel connected while exploring somewhere new? Select any.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "travel", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "my_hand_offered_in_a_crowd", "text": "My hand offered in a crowd" }, { "id": "a_brief_hug_before_we_set_out", "text": "A brief hug before we set out" }, { "id": "shoulders_touching_while_we_pause", "text": "Shoulders touching while we pause" }, { "id": "our_private_check_in_gesture", "text": "Our private check-in gesture" }, { "id": "sitting_close_during_a_quiet_moment_at_day_s_end", "text": "Sitting close during a quiet moment at day’s end" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_203", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "After physical activity, what would help affection feel comfortable? Choose any.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "body_comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_quick_celebratory_high_five", "text": "A quick celebratory high-five" }, { "id": "a_brief_side_hug_after_cooling_down", "text": "A brief side hug after cooling down" }, { "id": "sitting_nearby_while_we_catch_our_breath", "text": "Sitting nearby while we catch our breath" }, { "id": "sharing_a_drink_shoulder_to_shoulder", "text": "Sharing a drink shoulder to shoulder" }, { "id": "waiting_until_after_a_shower", "text": "Waiting until after a shower" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_204", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "After several days with little time together, which first moments help physical closeness feel natural again?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "reconnection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "share_a_slow_drink_side_by_side", "text": "Share a slow drink side by side" }, { "id": "take_a_short_hand_holding_walk", "text": "Take a short hand-holding walk" }, { "id": "return_to_a_familiar_sitting_spot", "text": "Return to a familiar sitting spot" }, { "id": "exchange_one_unhurried_hug", "text": "Exchange one unhurried hug" }, { "id": "choose_a_brief_phone_free_closeness_break", "text": "Choose a brief phone-free closeness break" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_205", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Where could small affectionate moments fit into a busy day? Select any you would notice.", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "daily_life", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "while_coffee_is_brewing", "text": "While coffee is brewing" }, { "id": "at_the_doorway_between_errands", "text": "At the doorway between errands" }, { "id": "during_a_short_stretch_break", "text": "During a short stretch break" }, { "id": "before_one_of_us_starts_a_call", "text": "Before one of us starts a call" }, { "id": "when_we_finally_sit_down", "text": "When we finally sit down" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_206", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which gestures feel romantic while staying clearly nonsexual? Choose any that appeal.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "nonsexual_romance", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_slow_dance_in_ordinary_clothes", "text": "A slow dance in ordinary clothes" }, { "id": "a_hand_kissed_during_a_joke", "text": "A hand kissed during a joke" }, { "id": "foreheads_resting_together_briefly", "text": "Foreheads resting together briefly" }, { "id": "a_note_delivered_with_a_hug", "text": "A note delivered with a hug" }, { "id": "hands_linked_under_the_table", "text": "Hands linked under the table" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_207", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which changes might affect your touch preferences over time? Select any that apply.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "change", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "stress_or_sleep_levels", "text": "Stress or sleep levels" }, { "id": "pain_illness_or_recovery", "text": "Pain, illness, or recovery" }, { "id": "temperature_and_surroundings", "text": "Temperature and surroundings" }, { "id": "confidence_in_your_body", "text": "Confidence in your body" }, { "id": "how_emotionally_connected_you_feel", "text": "How emotionally connected you feel" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_208", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What adjustments can make closeness more accessible and comfortable? Pick any.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "accessibility", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "different_pillows_or_support", "text": "Different pillows or support" }, { "id": "positions_with_less_strain", "text": "Positions with less strain" }, { "id": "shorter_periods_of_contact", "text": "Shorter periods of contact" }, { "id": "clear_help_changing_position", "text": "Clear help changing position" }, { "id": "more_space_around_sensitive_areas", "text": "More space around sensitive areas" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_209", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "With pausing easy and no gesture creating obligation, what else keeps affection mutual? Choose all that fit.", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mutuality", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "both_people_initiate_sometimes", "text": "Both people initiate sometimes" }, { "id": "both_can_suggest_a_different_gesture", "text": "Both can suggest a different gesture" }, { "id": "preferences_get_updated_openly", "text": "Preferences get updated openly" }, { "id": "feedback_is_welcomed_kindly", "text": "Feedback is welcomed kindly" }, { "id": "each_persons_favorite_touches_matter", "text": "Each person’s favorite touches matter" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_210", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which affectionate rituals would you genuinely want to repeat? Pick any.", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_daily_twenty_second_hug", "text": "A daily twenty-second hug" }, { "id": "a_weekly_slow_song_together", "text": "A weekly slow song together" }, { "id": "a_doorway_forehead_touch_ritual", "text": "A doorway forehead-touch ritual" }, { "id": "a_sunday_morning_couch_cuddle", "text": "A Sunday-morning couch cuddle" }, { "id": "a_seasonal_cozy_night_ritual", "text": "A seasonal cozy-night ritual" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_211", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How effortless does everyday affection feel between us lately?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_life", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Feels effortful", "max_label": "Feels effortless" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_212", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy does it feel to ask me for a hug?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "hugs", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not easy yet", "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_213", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to adjust public affection to the setting we are in?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "public_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not easy yet", "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_214", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How well do I understand your everyday touch preferences?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "understanding", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Still learning", "max_label": "Understand them well" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_215", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to say “not right now” to physical affection?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not easy yet", "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_216", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How often does affection between us include a moment of genuine fun?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Rarely", "max_label": "Very often" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_217", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How much do our current affection rituals add warmth to your day?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "rituals", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very little warmth", "max_label": "A lot of warmth" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_218", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How pressure-free does physical closeness feel between us?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "pressure", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not fully pressure-free", "max_label": "Completely pressure-free" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_219", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How confident are you that a pause or stop will be respected immediately?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not fully confident", "max_label": "Completely confident" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_220", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you with spontaneous everyday touch from me?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "spontaneity", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_221", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How well do our usual cuddle positions fit your physical comfort?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Could fit better", "max_label": "Fit very well" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_222", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How accepted do low-touch days feel in our relationship?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "low_touch_days", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not fully accepted", "max_label": "Completely accepted" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_223", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable do you feel initiating nonsexual affection?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "initiation", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable yet", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_224", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How often does our affection feel intentional instead of automatic?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "routine", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Rarely intentional", "max_label": "Almost always intentional" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_225", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How well do we adapt touch when one of us is tired or sore?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "body_comfort", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very well", "max_label": "Very well" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_226", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to give me feedback about pressure, pace, or placement?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feedback", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not easy yet", "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_227", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How connected do you feel during quiet, nonsexual closeness?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "quiet_closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very connected", "max_label": "Deeply connected" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_228", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you asking for more personal space while staying emotionally close?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "personal_space", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable yet", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_229", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How well do our usual reunion gestures fit what you enjoy?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "greetings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Could fit better", "max_label": "Fit perfectly" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_230", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How relaxed does affection feel when other people are nearby?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "social_settings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not relaxed", "max_label": "Very relaxed" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_231", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How much do you feel our physical affection reflects both people’s preferences?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mutuality", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very balanced", "max_label": "Very balanced" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_232", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you changing your mind after affection has started?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable yet", "max_label": "Completely comfortable" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_233", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to return to affection after one of us has needed extra space?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "reconnection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very easy", "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_234", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How much room is there for humor in our physical affection?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "play", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very little", "max_label": "Plenty of room" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_235", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "scale", "text": "How confident are you that we can adapt affection as our bodies change?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "adaptability", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not confident yet", "max_label": "Very confident" } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_236", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Read with our shoulders touching or listen to music with our feet touching?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "shoulders_touching_while_we_read", "text": "Shoulders touching while we read" }, { "id": "feet_touching_while_music_plays", "text": "Feet touching while music plays" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_237", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "A playful nose bump or a quiet forehead touch?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_playful_nose_bump", "text": "A playful nose bump" }, { "id": "a_quiet_forehead_touch", "text": "A quiet forehead touch" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_238", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Warm hands or cool hands?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "sensory_preferences", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "warm_hands", "text": "Warm hands" }, { "id": "cool_hands", "text": "Cool hands" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_239", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "An open hand offered or open arms waiting?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "invitations", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "an_open_hand_offered", "text": "An open hand offered" }, { "id": "open_arms_waiting", "text": "Open arms waiting" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_240", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "A morning cheek-to-cheek hello or an evening shoulder-to-shoulder pause?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "greetings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_morning_cheek_to_cheek_hello", "text": "A morning cheek-to-cheek hello" }, { "id": "an_evening_shoulder_to_shoulder_pause", "text": "An evening shoulder-to-shoulder pause" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_241", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Indoor cozy closeness or fresh-air closeness?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "cozy_closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "indoor_cozy_closeness", "text": "Indoor cozy closeness" }, { "id": "fresh_air_closeness", "text": "Fresh-air closeness" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_242", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Slow swaying or a still embrace?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "dance", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "slow_swaying", "text": "Slow swaying" }, { "id": "a_still_embrace", "text": "A still embrace" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_243", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Arm around your shoulders or hand resting on your upper back?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "arm_around_my_shoulders", "text": "An arm around my shoulders" }, { "id": "hand_on_my_upper_back", "text": "A hand on my upper back" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_244", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Secret high-five or private fingertip tap?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "playful_affection", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_secret_high_five", "text": "A secret high-five" }, { "id": "a_private_fingertip_tap", "text": "A private fingertip tap" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_245", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Talk during closeness or enjoy the quiet?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "talk_while_we_are_close", "text": "Talk while we are close" }, { "id": "enjoy_the_quiet_together", "text": "Enjoy the quiet together" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_246", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Upright cuddle or reclined cuddle?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "cuddling", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "an_upright_cuddle", "text": "An upright cuddle" }, { "id": "a_reclined_cuddle", "text": "A reclined cuddle" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_247", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Doorway hug or blown kiss from across the room?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "greetings", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_doorway_hug", "text": "A doorway hug" }, { "id": "a_blown_kiss_across_the_room", "text": "A blown kiss across the room" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_248", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Knees touching or leaning back to back?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "closeness", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "knees_touching_lightly", "text": "Knees touching lightly" }, { "id": "leaning_back_to_back", "text": "Leaning back to back" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_249", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "One unhurried affectionate moment or several quick ones?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "timing", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "one_unhurried_moment", "text": "One unhurried moment" }, { "id": "several_quick_moments", "text": "Several quick moments" } ] } }, { "id": "physical_intimacy_250", "category_id": "physical_intimacy", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Revive an old affection ritual or create a completely new one?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "future", "physical_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "revive_an_old_ritual", "text": "Revive an old ritual" }, { "id": "create_a_completely_new_one", "text": "Create a completely new one" } ] } } ] }