# question

id: fun_151
text: What kind of fun sounds best tonight?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["tonight","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"cozy","text":"Cozy"},{"id":"silly","text":"Silly"},{"id":"adventurous","text":"Adventurous"},{"id":"relaxing","text":"Relaxing"}]}}


id: fun_152
text: What date vibe should we plan next?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["date_night","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"at_home","text":"At home"},{"id":"outdoors","text":"Outdoors"},{"id":"food_focused","text":"Food-focused"},{"id":"something_new","text":"Something new"}]}}


id: fun_153
text: What usually makes you laugh fastest with me?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["laughter","connection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"my_reactions","text":"My reactions"},{"id":"our_inside_jokes","text":"Our inside jokes"},{"id":"silly_stories","text":"Silly stories"},{"id":"random_chaos","text":"Random chaos"}]}}


id: fun_154
text: What should our next low-budget date be?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["budget","date_night"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"walk","text":"Walk"},{"id":"picnic","text":"Picnic"},{"id":"game_night","text":"Game night"},{"id":"cooking_together","text":"Cooking together"}]}}


id: fun_155
text: What kind of surprise would you enjoy most?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["surprises","preferences"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"food","text":"Food"},{"id":"a_note","text":"A note"},{"id":"a_planned_outing","text":"A planned outing"},{"id":"a_small_gift","text":"A small gift"}]}}


id: fun_156
text: What should we do when we are bored together?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["boredom","play"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"play_a_game","text":"Play a game"},{"id":"go_outside","text":"Go outside"},{"id":"cook_something","text":"Cook something"},{"id":"try_a_challenge","text":"Try a challenge"}]}}


id: fun_157
text: What kind of shared activity helps you feel closest?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["closeness","activities"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"talking","text":"Talking"},{"id":"laughing","text":"Laughing"},{"id":"exploring","text":"Exploring"},{"id":"creating","text":"Creating"}]}}


id: fun_158
text: What should we try for a new experience?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["novelty","experience"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"class","text":"Class"},{"id":"restaurant","text":"Restaurant"},{"id":"trail","text":"Trail"},{"id":"game","text":"Game"}]}}


id: fun_159
text: What kind of tradition would you like most?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["traditions","rituals"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"weekly","text":"Weekly"},{"id":"monthly","text":"Monthly"},{"id":"seasonal","text":"Seasonal"},{"id":"random","text":"Random"}]}}


id: fun_160
text: What kind of playful energy do you want more of?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["energy","playfulness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"silly","text":"Silly"},{"id":"flirty","text":"Flirty"},{"id":"adventurous","text":"Adventurous"},{"id":"peaceful","text":"Peaceful"}]}}


id: fun_161
text: What should we make together?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["creativity","making"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"meal","text":"Meal"},{"id":"playlist","text":"Playlist"},{"id":"photo_album","text":"Photo album"},{"id":"home_project","text":"Home project"}]}}


id: fun_162
text: What kind of theme night sounds best?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["theme_night","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"movie_night","text":"Movie night"},{"id":"cooking_night","text":"Cooking night"},{"id":"game_night","text":"Game night"},{"id":"music_night","text":"Music night"}]}}


id: fun_163
text: What kind of outing should we do soon?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["outing","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"nature","text":"Nature"},{"id":"food","text":"Food"},{"id":"art","text":"Art"},{"id":"local_exploring","text":"Local exploring"}]}}


id: fun_164
text: What helps a date feel special?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["date_night","meaning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"planning","text":"Planning"},{"id":"presence","text":"Presence"},{"id":"novelty","text":"Novelty"},{"id":"thoughtfulness","text":"Thoughtfulness"}]}}


id: fun_165
text: What ruins fun fastest for you?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["barriers","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"being_rushed","text":"Being rushed"},{"id":"too_much_planning","text":"Too much planning"},{"id":"phone_distraction","text":"Phone distraction"},{"id":"feeling_forced","text":"Feeling forced"}]}}


id: fun_166
text: What makes fun feel easy?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["ease","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"low_pressure","text":"Low pressure"},{"id":"good_timing","text":"Good timing"},{"id":"shared_mood","text":"Shared mood"},{"id":"simple_plans","text":"Simple plans"}]}}


id: fun_167
text: What is your favorite kind of couple game?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["games","preferences"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"board_game","text":"Board game"},{"id":"video_game","text":"Video game"},{"id":"question_game","text":"Question game"},{"id":"outdoor_game","text":"Outdoor game"}]}}


id: fun_168
text: What should we do with no phones?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["presence","phones"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"cook","text":"Cook"},{"id":"walk","text":"Walk"},{"id":"talk","text":"Talk"},{"id":"play","text":"Play"}]}}


id: fun_169
text: What would make this weekend feel more alive?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["weekend","aliveness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"adventure","text":"Adventure"},{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"},{"id":"friends","text":"Friends"},{"id":"a_date","text":"A date"}]}}


id: fun_170
text: What kind of memory should we create next?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["memories","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"funny","text":"Funny"},{"id":"romantic","text":"Romantic"},{"id":"adventurous","text":"Adventurous"},{"id":"cozy","text":"Cozy"}]}}


id: fun_171
text: What kind of challenge should we try?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["challenge","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"fitness","text":"Fitness"},{"id":"food","text":"Food"},{"id":"creative","text":"Creative"},{"id":"kindness","text":"Kindness"}]}}


id: fun_172
text: What makes you feel playful?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["playfulness","mood"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"music","text":"Music"},{"id":"movement","text":"Movement"},{"id":"humor","text":"Humor"},{"id":"low_stress","text":"Low stress"}]}}


id: fun_173
text: What makes you feel less playful?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["playfulness","barriers"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"stress","text":"Stress"},{"id":"criticism","text":"Criticism"},{"id":"being_tired","text":"Being tired"},{"id":"too_much_pressure","text":"Too much pressure"}]}}


id: fun_174
text: What kind of laughter do we need more of?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["laughter","need"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"silly","text":"Silly"},{"id":"shared_memory","text":"Shared memory"},{"id":"inside_joke","text":"Inside joke"},{"id":"unexpected","text":"Unexpected"}]}}


id: fun_175
text: What should we revisit from early in our relationship?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["nostalgia","revisit"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_place","text":"A place"},{"id":"a_song","text":"A song"},{"id":"a_date_idea","text":"A date idea"},{"id":"a_habit","text":"A habit"}]}}


id: fun_176
text: What kind of adventure is realistic this month?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["adventure","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"local","text":"Local"},{"id":"food","text":"Food"},{"id":"outdoor","text":"Outdoor"},{"id":"creative","text":"Creative"}]}}


id: fun_177
text: What kind of fun helps you relax?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["relaxation","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"quiet","text":"Quiet"},{"id":"creative","text":"Creative"},{"id":"physical","text":"Physical"},{"id":"social","text":"Social"}]}}


id: fun_178
text: What kind of fun energizes you?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["energy","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"active","text":"Active"},{"id":"social","text":"Social"},{"id":"novel","text":"Novel"},{"id":"competitive","text":"Competitive"}]}}


id: fun_179
text: What kind of fun feels romantic?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["romance","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"slow","text":"Slow"},{"id":"playful","text":"Playful"},{"id":"thoughtful","text":"Thoughtful"},{"id":"adventurous","text":"Adventurous"}]}}


id: fun_180
text: What kind of fun feels like friendship?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["friendship","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"jokes","text":"Jokes"},{"id":"games","text":"Games"},{"id":"errands","text":"Errands"},{"id":"exploring","text":"Exploring"}]}}


id: fun_181
text: What should we gamify together?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["gamification","goals"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"chores","text":"Chores"},{"id":"fitness","text":"Fitness"},{"id":"saving_money","text":"Saving money"},{"id":"trying_new_things","text":"Trying new things"}]}}


id: fun_182
text: What would be a good mini-reward for us?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["rewards","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"dessert","text":"Dessert"},{"id":"movie","text":"Movie"},{"id":"walk","text":"Walk"},{"id":"small_treat","text":"Small treat"}]}}


id: fun_183
text: What kind of event should we look for?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["events","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"music","text":"Music"},{"id":"food","text":"Food"},{"id":"art","text":"Art"},{"id":"outdoor","text":"Outdoor"}]}}


id: fun_184
text: What kind of photo should we take more often?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["photos","memories"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"silly","text":"Silly"},{"id":"candid","text":"Candid"},{"id":"romantic","text":"Romantic"},{"id":"everyday","text":"Everyday"}]}}


id: fun_185
text: What is our best fun setting?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["setting","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"home","text":"Home"},{"id":"car","text":"Car"},{"id":"outdoors","text":"Outdoors"},{"id":"new_places","text":"New places"}]}}


id: fun_186
text: What kind of play should we avoid forcing?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["boundaries","play"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"games","text":"Games"},{"id":"public_silliness","text":"Public silliness"},{"id":"competitive_stuff","text":"Competitive stuff"},{"id":"social_plans","text":"Social plans"}]}}


id: fun_187
text: What makes shared fun feel meaningful?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["meaning","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"attention","text":"Attention"},{"id":"laughter","text":"Laughter"},{"id":"novelty","text":"Novelty"},{"id":"feeling_chosen","text":"Feeling chosen"}]}}


id: fun_188
text: What kind of trip would fit us best right now?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["travel","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"short","text":"Short"},{"id":"relaxing","text":"Relaxing"},{"id":"adventurous","text":"Adventurous"},{"id":"food_focused","text":"Food-focused"}]}}


id: fun_189
text: What kind of weird couple tradition should we start?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["weirdness","traditions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"food_ritual","text":"Food ritual"},{"id":"funny_phrase","text":"Funny phrase"},{"id":"monthly_quest","text":"Monthly quest"},{"id":"random_award","text":"Random award"}]}}


id: fun_190
text: What kind of joyful energy do you want our relationship to have?
category_id: fun
type: single_choice
tags: ["joy","identity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"playful","text":"Playful"},{"id":"peaceful","text":"Peaceful"},{"id":"adventurous","text":"Adventurous"},{"id":"cozy","text":"Cozy"}]}}


id: fun_191
text: Which activities sound fun this week? Select all that apply.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["weekly_fun","activities"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"walk","text":"Walk"},{"id":"game_night","text":"Game night"},{"id":"cooking_together","text":"Cooking together"},{"id":"movie_night","text":"Movie night"},{"id":"trying_somewhere_new","text":"Trying somewhere new"}]}}


id: fun_192
text: Which things make dates feel better? Select up to three.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["date_night","preferences"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"no_phones","text":"No phones"},{"id":"good_food","text":"Good food"},{"id":"a_plan","text":"A plan"},{"id":"spontaneity","text":"Spontaneity"},{"id":"time_to_talk","text":"Time to talk"}]}}


id: fun_193
text: Which kinds of fun do you want more of? Select all that apply.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["fun_types","preferences"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"silly","text":"Silly"},{"id":"romantic","text":"Romantic"},{"id":"adventurous","text":"Adventurous"},{"id":"relaxing","text":"Relaxing"},{"id":"creative","text":"Creative"}]}}


id: fun_194
text: Which things get in the way of fun? Select all that apply.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["barriers","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"tiredness","text":"Tiredness"},{"id":"money_stress","text":"Money stress"},{"id":"phones","text":"Phones"},{"id":"overplanning","text":"Overplanning"},{"id":"not_planning_enough","text":"Not planning enough"}]}}


id: fun_195
text: Which low-cost ideas should we try? Select all that apply.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["budget","ideas"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"picnic","text":"Picnic"},{"id":"library_date","text":"Library date"},{"id":"sunset_walk","text":"Sunset walk"},{"id":"at_home_cafe","text":"At-home cafe"},{"id":"board_game_night","text":"Board game night"}]}}


id: fun_196
text: Which home date ideas sound good? Select up to three.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["home_date","ideas"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"cook_off","text":"Cook-off"},{"id":"movie_theme_night","text":"Movie theme night"},{"id":"puzzle","text":"Puzzle"},{"id":"blanket_fort","text":"Blanket fort"},{"id":"question_game","text":"Question game"}]}}


id: fun_197
text: Which outside ideas sound good? Select up to three.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["outdoor","ideas"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"walk","text":"Walk"},{"id":"hike","text":"Hike"},{"id":"farmers_market","text":"Farmers market"},{"id":"park_picnic","text":"Park picnic"},{"id":"local_exploring","text":"Local exploring"}]}}


id: fun_198
text: Which creative ideas should we try? Select all that apply.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["creativity","ideas"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"painting","text":"Painting"},{"id":"playlist","text":"Playlist"},{"id":"photo_challenge","text":"Photo challenge"},{"id":"cooking_challenge","text":"Cooking challenge"},{"id":"diy_project","text":"DIY project"}]}}


id: fun_199
text: Which playful habits should we build? Select up to three.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["habits","playfulness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"inside_jokes","text":"Inside jokes"},{"id":"mini_celebrations","text":"Mini celebrations"},{"id":"random_dances","text":"Random dances"},{"id":"question_nights","text":"Question nights"},{"id":"tiny_adventures","text":"Tiny adventures"}]}}


id: fun_200
text: Which kinds of surprises do you like? Select all that apply.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["surprises","preferences"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"notes","text":"Notes"},{"id":"food","text":"Food"},{"id":"planned_date","text":"Planned date"},{"id":"small_gift","text":"Small gift"},{"id":"helpful_gesture","text":"Helpful gesture"}]}}


id: fun_201
text: Which kinds of novelty feel exciting? Select all that apply.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["novelty","preferences"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"new_food","text":"New food"},{"id":"new_place","text":"New place"},{"id":"new_skill","text":"New skill"},{"id":"new_game","text":"New game"},{"id":"new_routine","text":"New routine"}]}}


id: fun_202
text: Which fun moments should we document more? Select all that apply.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["memories","documentation"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"everyday_silly_moments","text":"Everyday silly moments"},{"id":"trips","text":"Trips"},{"id":"dates","text":"Dates"},{"id":"food_wins","text":"Food wins"},{"id":"random_traditions","text":"Random traditions"}]}}


id: fun_203
text: Which couple traditions sound fun? Select up to three.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["traditions","ideas"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"monthly_adventure","text":"Monthly adventure"},{"id":"weekly_treat","text":"Weekly treat"},{"id":"annual_weird_photo","text":"Annual weird photo"},{"id":"random_award_night","text":"Random award night"},{"id":"seasonal_bucket_list","text":"Seasonal bucket list"}]}}


id: fun_204
text: Which things help you feel playful? Select all that apply.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["playfulness","mood"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"low_stress","text":"Low stress"},{"id":"music","text":"Music"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"encouragement","text":"Encouragement"},{"id":"not_being_judged","text":"Not being judged"}]}}


id: fun_205
text: Which things make play feel forced? Select all that apply.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["playfulness","barriers"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"too_much_pressure","text":"Too much pressure"},{"id":"bad_timing","text":"Bad timing"},{"id":"crowds","text":"Crowds"},{"id":"competition","text":"Competition"},{"id":"feeling_watched","text":"Feeling watched"}]}}


id: fun_206
text: Which shared goals could be more fun? Select all that apply.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["goals","gamification"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"saving_money","text":"Saving money"},{"id":"getting_active","text":"Getting active"},{"id":"cooking_more","text":"Cooking more"},{"id":"cleaning","text":"Cleaning"},{"id":"trying_new_places","text":"Trying new places"}]}}


id: fun_207
text: Which date-night moods should we rotate? Select all that apply.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["date_night","moods"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"cozy","text":"Cozy"},{"id":"fancy","text":"Fancy"},{"id":"silly","text":"Silly"},{"id":"adventurous","text":"Adventurous"},{"id":"quiet","text":"Quiet"}]}}


id: fun_208
text: Which old memories should inspire new plans? Select all that apply.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["nostalgia","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"first_dates","text":"First dates"},{"id":"trips","text":"Trips"},{"id":"random_laughs","text":"Random laughs"},{"id":"hard_seasons_we_survived","text":"Hard seasons we survived"},{"id":"favorite_meals","text":"Favorite meals"}]}}


id: fun_209
text: Which fun boundaries should we respect? Select all that apply.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["boundaries","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"no_public_embarrassment","text":"No public embarrassment"},{"id":"no_forced_competition","text":"No forced competition"},{"id":"respect_tiredness","text":"Respect tiredness"},{"id":"no_expensive_surprises","text":"No expensive surprises"},{"id":"ask_before_filming","text":"Ask before filming"}]}}


id: fun_210
text: Which signs show we need more fun? Select all that apply.
category_id: fun
type: multi_choice
tags: ["signals","boredom"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"everything_feels_routine","text":"Everything feels routine"},{"id":"we_only_talk_logistics","text":"We only talk logistics"},{"id":"we_laugh_less","text":"We laugh less"},{"id":"dates_feel_rare","text":"Dates feel rare"},{"id":"phones_fill_the_gaps","text":"Phones fill the gaps"}]}}


id: fun_211
text: How playful does our relationship feel lately?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["playfulness","check_in"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not playful","max_label":"Very playful","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_212
text: How much fun did we make time for this week?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["weekly_fun","time"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"None","max_label":"A lot","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_213
text: How often do we laugh together lately?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["laughter","frequency"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Rarely","max_label":"Often","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_214
text: How easy does it feel to be silly with me?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["silliness","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Hard","max_label":"Easy","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_215
text: How much novelty does our relationship have right now?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["novelty","check_in"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not much","max_label":"A lot","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_216
text: How bored do you feel with our routines?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["boredom","routine"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not bored","max_label":"Very bored","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_217
text: How well do we protect date time?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["date_night","priority"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Poorly","max_label":"Very well","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_218
text: How present do we feel during fun moments?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["presence","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Distracted","max_label":"Very present","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_221
text: How much adventure do you want this month?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["adventure","desire"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"A little","max_label":"A lot","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_223
text: How energized do you feel after time with me?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["energy","connection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Drained","max_label":"Energized","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_224
text: How relaxed do you feel after time with me?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["relaxation","connection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Tense","max_label":"Relaxed","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_225
text: How meaningful do our shared activities feel?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["meaning","activities"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not meaningful","max_label":"Very meaningful","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_229
text: How safe do you feel being goofy around me?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["goofy","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not safe","max_label":"Very safe","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_231
text: How connected do you feel when we play or laugh together?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["connection","play"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Distant","max_label":"Connected","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_233
text: How excited are you about trying something new together?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["novelty","excitement"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not excited","max_label":"Very excited","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_235
text: How joyful do you want our relationship to feel this season?
category_id: fun
type: scale
tags: ["joy","season"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"A little","max_label":"Very joyful","scale_step":1}}


id: fun_236
text: Cozy night in or spontaneous night out?
category_id: fun
type: this_or_that
tags: ["date_night","preference"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"cozy_night_in","text":"Cozy night in"},"optionB":{"id":"spontaneous_night_out","text":"Spontaneous night out"}}}


id: fun_237
text: Game night or movie night?
category_id: fun
type: this_or_that
tags: ["games","movies"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"game_night","text":"Game night"},"optionB":{"id":"movie_night","text":"Movie night"}}}


id: fun_238
text: Cook together or try a new restaurant?
category_id: fun
type: this_or_that
tags: ["food","date_night"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"cook_together","text":"Cook together"},"optionB":{"id":"new_restaurant","text":"New restaurant"}}}


id: fun_239
text: Planned date or surprise date?
category_id: fun
type: this_or_that
tags: ["planning","surprise"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"planned_date","text":"Planned date"},"optionB":{"id":"surprise_date","text":"Surprise date"}}}


id: fun_240
text: Silly photos or romantic photos?
category_id: fun
type: this_or_that
tags: ["photos","style"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"silly_photos","text":"Silly photos"},"optionB":{"id":"romantic_photos","text":"Romantic photos"}}}


id: fun_241
text: Adventure outside or creative project inside?
category_id: fun
type: this_or_that
tags: ["adventure","creativity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"outside_adventure","text":"Outside adventure"},"optionB":{"id":"inside_project","text":"Inside project"}}}


id: fun_242
text: Try something new or revisit an old favorite?
category_id: fun
type: this_or_that
tags: ["novelty","nostalgia"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"try_something_new","text":"Try something new"},"optionB":{"id":"old_favorite","text":"Old favorite"}}}


id: fun_243
text: Dance in the kitchen or sing in the car?
category_id: fun
type: this_or_that
tags: ["music","silliness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"kitchen_dance","text":"Kitchen dance"},"optionB":{"id":"car_singing","text":"Car singing"}}}


id: fun_244
text: Tiny tradition or big adventure?
category_id: fun
type: this_or_that
tags: ["traditions","adventure"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"tiny_tradition","text":"Tiny tradition"},"optionB":{"id":"big_adventure","text":"Big adventure"}}}


id: fun_245
text: Laugh until it hurts or relax until we melt?
category_id: fun
type: this_or_that
tags: ["laughter","relaxation"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"laugh_hard","text":"Laugh hard"},"optionB":{"id":"relax_deeply","text":"Relax deeply"}}}


id: fun_246
text: Friendly competition or teamwork challenge?
category_id: fun
type: this_or_that
tags: ["games","teamwork"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"friendly_competition","text":"Friendly competition"},"optionB":{"id":"teamwork_challenge","text":"Teamwork challenge"}}}


id: fun_247
text: Phone-free walk or couch question night?
category_id: fun
type: this_or_that
tags: ["presence","questions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"phone_free_walk","text":"Phone-free walk"},"optionB":{"id":"question_night","text":"Question night"}}}


id: fun_248
text: Cheap date or fancy splurge?
category_id: fun
type: this_or_that
tags: ["budget","date_night"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"cheap_date","text":"Cheap date"},"optionB":{"id":"fancy_splurge","text":"Fancy splurge"}}}


id: fun_249
text: Local exploring or staying in our favorite spot?
category_id: fun
type: this_or_that
tags: ["local","comfort"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"local_exploring","text":"Local exploring"},"optionB":{"id":"favorite_spot","text":"Favorite spot"}}}


id: fun_250
text: Make a memory or make a tradition?
category_id: fun
type: this_or_that
tags: ["memories","traditions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"make_a_memory","text":"Make a memory"},"optionB":{"id":"make_a_tradition","text":"Make a tradition"}}}


id: emotional_intimacy_151
text: When you feel emotionally vulnerable, what helps most first?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["vulnerability","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"},{"id":"quiet_presence","text":"Quiet presence"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"space","text":"Space"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_152
text: What makes you feel emotionally closest to me?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["closeness","connection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"deep_conversation","text":"Deep conversation"},{"id":"shared_laughter","text":"Shared laughter"},{"id":"physical_affection","text":"Physical affection"},{"id":"being_helped","text":"Being helped"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_153
text: What kind of reassurance lands best?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["reassurance","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"i_am_here","text":"I am here"},{"id":"you_matter_to_me","text":"You matter to me"},{"id":"we_are_okay","text":"We are okay"},{"id":"i_understand_you","text":"I understand you"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_154
text: When you are sad, what do you usually need?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["sadness","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"listening","text":"Listening"},{"id":"holding","text":"Holding"},{"id":"problem_solving","text":"Problem solving"},{"id":"distraction","text":"Distraction"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_155
text: What makes it easiest to open up?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["opening_up","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"soft_tone","text":"Soft tone"},{"id":"no_rushing","text":"No rushing"},{"id":"specific_questions","text":"Specific questions"},{"id":"eye_contact","text":"Eye contact"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_156
text: What makes you close down fastest?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["shutdown","triggers"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"judgment","text":"Judgment"},{"id":"interrupting","text":"Interrupting"},{"id":"advice_too_soon","text":"Advice too soon"},{"id":"dismissive_tone","text":"Dismissive tone"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_157
text: What helps you feel seen?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["feeling_seen","intimacy"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"being_remembered","text":"Being remembered"},{"id":"being_asked","text":"Being asked"},{"id":"being_noticed","text":"Being noticed"},{"id":"being_understood","text":"Being understood"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_158
text: How do you usually show emotional closeness?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["expression","closeness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"words","text":"Words"},{"id":"touch","text":"Touch"},{"id":"time","text":"Time"},{"id":"acts_of_care","text":"Acts of care"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_159
text: What kind of comfort feels safest?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["comfort","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_hug","text":"A hug"},{"id":"kind_words","text":"Kind words"},{"id":"sitting_nearby","text":"Sitting nearby"},{"id":"giving_space","text":"Giving space"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_160
text: When do you most want emotional attention?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["attention","timing"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"after_stress","text":"After stress"},{"id":"before_sleep","text":"Before sleep"},{"id":"during_conflict","text":"During conflict"},{"id":"when_i_get_quiet","text":"When I get quiet"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_161
text: What makes affection feel meaningful?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["affection","meaning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"timing","text":"Timing"},{"id":"specificity","text":"Specificity"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"tenderness","text":"Tenderness"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_162
text: What is hardest to ask for?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["asking","difficulty"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"space","text":"Space"},{"id":"patience","text":"Patience"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_163
text: What do you want me to notice sooner?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["noticing","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"stress","text":"Stress"},{"id":"sadness","text":"Sadness"},{"id":"distance","text":"Distance"},{"id":"excitement","text":"Excitement"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_164
text: When I ask how you are, what answer is hardest?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["honesty","feelings"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"i_am_scared","text":"I am scared"},{"id":"i_am_hurt","text":"I am hurt"},{"id":"i_need_you","text":"I need you"},{"id":"i_feel_alone","text":"I feel alone"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_165
text: What makes emotional closeness feel pressured?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["pressure","closeness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"too_many_questions","text":"Too many questions"},{"id":"bad_timing","text":"Bad timing"},{"id":"expected_answers","text":"Expected answers"},{"id":"no_privacy","text":"No privacy"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_166
text: What makes emotional closeness feel natural?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["natural","closeness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"time_together","text":"Time together"},{"id":"no_distractions","text":"No distractions"},{"id":"gentle_questions","text":"Gentle questions"},{"id":"shared_activity","text":"Shared activity"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_167
text: What response helps when you cry?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["crying","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"stay_close","text":"Stay close"},{"id":"ask_what_i_need","text":"Ask what I need"},{"id":"hold_me","text":"Hold me"},{"id":"do_not_panic","text":"Do not panic"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_168
text: What response hurts when you cry?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["crying","hurt"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"fixing_it","text":"Fixing it"},{"id":"leaving_too_fast","text":"Leaving too fast"},{"id":"minimizing_it","text":"Minimizing it"},{"id":"getting_uncomfortable","text":"Getting uncomfortable"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_169
text: What helps you receive love?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["receiving_love","openness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"trust","text":"Trust"},{"id":"calm","text":"Calm"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"clear_words","text":"Clear words"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_170
text: What blocks you from receiving love?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["receiving_love","blocks"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"fear","text":"Fear"},{"id":"shame","text":"Shame"},{"id":"past_hurt","text":"Past hurt"},{"id":"stress","text":"Stress"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_171
text: What feels most intimate to share?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["sharing","intimacy"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_fear","text":"A fear"},{"id":"a_dream","text":"A dream"},{"id":"a_memory","text":"A memory"},{"id":"a_need","text":"A need"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_172
text: What feels safest to share first?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["sharing","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_small_worry","text":"A small worry"},{"id":"a_hope","text":"A hope"},{"id":"a_preference","text":"A preference"},{"id":"a_memory","text":"A memory"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_173
text: What do you need after sharing something vulnerable?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["aftercare","vulnerability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"thanks_for_sharing","text":"Thanks for sharing"},{"id":"quiet_closeness","text":"Quiet closeness"},{"id":"follow_up_later","text":"Follow-up later"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_174
text: What kind of follow-up helps after a deep talk?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["follow_up","deep_talks"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"check_on_me_later","text":"Check on me later"},{"id":"remember_details","text":"Remember details"},{"id":"ask_gently","text":"Ask gently"},{"id":"act_differently","text":"Act differently"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_175
text: What makes you feel emotionally protected?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["protection","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"loyalty","text":"Loyalty"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"gentleness","text":"Gentleness"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_176
text: What makes you feel emotionally exposed?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["exposure","risk"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"being_teased","text":"Being teased"},{"id":"being_rushed","text":"Being rushed"},{"id":"being_corrected","text":"Being corrected"},{"id":"being_ignored","text":"Being ignored"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_177
text: What do you want more of in our closeness?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["more_closeness","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"tenderness","text":"Tenderness"},{"id":"curiosity","text":"Curiosity"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"playfulness","text":"Playfulness"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_178
text: What do you want less of in our emotional talks?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["less","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"fixing","text":"Fixing"},{"id":"pressure","text":"Pressure"},{"id":"sarcasm","text":"Sarcasm"},{"id":"interruptions","text":"Interruptions"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_179
text: Which feeling is easiest to share with me?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["feelings","ease"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"joy","text":"Joy"},{"id":"stress","text":"Stress"},{"id":"fear","text":"Fear"},{"id":"sadness","text":"Sadness"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_180
text: Which feeling is hardest to share with me?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["feelings","difficulty"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"anger","text":"Anger"},{"id":"neediness","text":"Neediness"},{"id":"shame","text":"Shame"},{"id":"loneliness","text":"Loneliness"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_181
text: What helps when you feel emotionally distant?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["distance","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_gentle_check_in","text":"A gentle check-in"},{"id":"time_alone","text":"Time alone"},{"id":"a_hug","text":"A hug"},{"id":"an_honest_talk","text":"An honest talk"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_182
text: What makes distance worse?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["distance","triggers"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"ignoring_it","text":"Ignoring it"},{"id":"forcing_it","text":"Forcing it"},{"id":"blame","text":"Blame"},{"id":"coldness","text":"Coldness"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_183
text: What kind of question feels caring?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["questions","care"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"open_ended","text":"Open-ended"},{"id":"specific","text":"Specific"},{"id":"soft","text":"Soft"},{"id":"curious","text":"Curious"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_184
text: What kind of question feels intrusive?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["questions","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"too_sudden","text":"Too sudden"},{"id":"too_detailed","text":"Too detailed"},{"id":"too_frequent","text":"Too frequent"},{"id":"too_intense","text":"Too intense"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_185
text: When do you feel most emotionally brave with me?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["bravery","connection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"after_reassurance","text":"After reassurance"},{"id":"when_you_listen","text":"When you listen"},{"id":"when_we_are_calm","text":"When we are calm"},{"id":"when_i_feel_chosen","text":"When I feel chosen"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_186
text: What makes emotional bravery harder?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["bravery","blocks"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"fear_of_judgment","text":"Fear of judgment"},{"id":"past_rejection","text":"Past rejection"},{"id":"bad_timing","text":"Bad timing"},{"id":"not_feeling_safe","text":"Not feeling safe"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_187
text: What is most healing to hear?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["healing","words"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"i_believe_you","text":"I believe you"},{"id":"i_am_with_you","text":"I am with you"},{"id":"that_makes_sense","text":"That makes sense"},{"id":"you_are_not_too_much","text":"You are not too much"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_188
text: What is most grounding to hear?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["grounding","words"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"take_your_time","text":"Take your time"},{"id":"i_am_here","text":"I am here"},{"id":"we_can_slow_down","text":"We can slow down"},{"id":"i_want_to_understand","text":"I want to understand"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_189
text: What closeness ritual sounds best?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["ritual","closeness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"bedtime_check_in","text":"Bedtime check-in"},{"id":"morning_hug","text":"Morning hug"},{"id":"weekly_deep_talk","text":"Weekly deep talk"},{"id":"phone_free_walk","text":"Phone-free walk"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_190
text: What emotional habit should we build first?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["habit","growth"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"naming_feelings","text":"Naming feelings"},{"id":"asking_needs","text":"Asking needs"},{"id":"offering_reassurance","text":"Offering reassurance"},{"id":"following_up","text":"Following up"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_191
text: Which things help you feel emotionally safe with me?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["safety","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"soft_tone","text":"Soft tone"},{"id":"patience","text":"Patience"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"no_judgment","text":"No judgment"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_192
text: Which signs tell you I am emotionally present?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["presence","signals"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"eye_contact","text":"Eye contact"},{"id":"remembering_details","text":"Remembering details"},{"id":"asking_follow_ups","text":"Asking follow-ups"},{"id":"putting_phone_away","text":"Putting phone away"},{"id":"warm_tone","text":"Warm tone"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_193
text: What makes vulnerability feel risky?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["vulnerability","risk"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"fear_of_judgment","text":"Fear of judgment"},{"id":"fear_of_being_too_much","text":"Fear of being too much"},{"id":"past_hurt","text":"Past hurt"},{"id":"bad_timing","text":"Bad timing"},{"id":"feeling_rushed","text":"Feeling rushed"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_194
text: What helps you open up after a hard day?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["hard_day","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_quiet_moment","text":"A quiet moment"},{"id":"a_hug","text":"A hug"},{"id":"a_direct_question","text":"A direct question"},{"id":"food_or_comfort","text":"Food or comfort"},{"id":"time_to_decompress","text":"Time to decompress"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_195
text: Which emotions need more room between us?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["emotions","room"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"sadness","text":"Sadness"},{"id":"fear","text":"Fear"},{"id":"anger","text":"Anger"},{"id":"loneliness","text":"Loneliness"},{"id":"joy","text":"Joy"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_196
text: What helps emotional distance soften?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["distance","softening"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"apology","text":"Apology"},{"id":"gentle_check_in","text":"Gentle check-in"},{"id":"shared_time","text":"Shared time"},{"id":"physical_closeness","text":"Physical closeness"},{"id":"humor","text":"Humor"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_197
text: What makes closeness feel mutual?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["mutuality","closeness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"both_sharing","text":"Both sharing"},{"id":"both_listening","text":"Both listening"},{"id":"both_asking","text":"Both asking"},{"id":"both_reassuring","text":"Both reassuring"},{"id":"both_remembering","text":"Both remembering"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_198
text: Which types of tenderness matter most to you?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["tenderness","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"words","text":"Words"},{"id":"touch","text":"Touch"},{"id":"patience","text":"Patience"},{"id":"attention","text":"Attention"},{"id":"protection","text":"Protection"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_199
text: What should we protect during deep talks?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["deep_talks","protection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"pacing","text":"Pacing"},{"id":"kindness","text":"Kindness"},{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"no_interrupting","text":"No interrupting"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_200
text: What can make emotional intimacy fade?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["fade","intimacy"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"busyness","text":"Busyness"},{"id":"avoidance","text":"Avoidance"},{"id":"unresolved_conflict","text":"Unresolved conflict"},{"id":"screens","text":"Screens"},{"id":"feeling_unappreciated","text":"Feeling unappreciated"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_201
text: What helps emotional intimacy grow?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["growth","intimacy"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"curiosity","text":"Curiosity"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"shared_rituals","text":"Shared rituals"},{"id":"vulnerability","text":"Vulnerability"},{"id":"repair","text":"Repair"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_202
text: Which needs are hardest to name?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["needs","difficulty"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},{"id":"space","text":"Space"},{"id":"attention","text":"Attention"},{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_203
text: Which responses make you feel cared for?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["care","responses"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"that_makes_sense","text":"That makes sense"},{"id":"tell_me_more","text":"Tell me more"},{"id":"i_am_here","text":"I am here"},{"id":"i_am_proud_of_you","text":"I am proud of you"},{"id":"how_can_i_help","text":"How can I help"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_204
text: Which responses make you feel dismissed?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["dismissal","responses"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"you_are_overthinking","text":"You are overthinking"},{"id":"it_is_not_a_big_deal","text":"It is not a big deal"},{"id":"just_relax","text":"Just relax"},{"id":"i_already_know","text":"I already know"},{"id":"why_are_you_upset","text":"Why are you upset"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_205
text: What should we do after a vulnerable moment?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["aftercare","vulnerability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"thank_each_other","text":"Thank each other"},{"id":"sit_quietly","text":"Sit quietly"},{"id":"hug","text":"Hug"},{"id":"follow_up_later","text":"Follow up later"},{"id":"protect_privacy","text":"Protect privacy"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_206
text: What makes you feel chosen?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["chosen","love"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"being_prioritized","text":"Being prioritized"},{"id":"being_defended","text":"Being defended"},{"id":"being_remembered","text":"Being remembered"},{"id":"being_asked","text":"Being asked"},{"id":"being_comforted","text":"Being comforted"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_207
text: Which parts of emotional closeness need more consent?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["consent","closeness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"timing","text":"Timing"},{"id":"depth","text":"Depth"},{"id":"touch","text":"Touch"},{"id":"advice","text":"Advice"},{"id":"follow_up","text":"Follow-up"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_208
text: Which rituals would help us stay emotionally close?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["rituals","closeness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"weekly_check_in","text":"Weekly check-in"},{"id":"phone_free_dinner","text":"Phone-free dinner"},{"id":"bedtime_question","text":"Bedtime question"},{"id":"morning_affection","text":"Morning affection"},{"id":"monthly_memory_night","text":"Monthly memory night"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_209
text: What should I be gentler with?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["gentleness","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"your_fears","text":"Your fears"},{"id":"your_tears","text":"Your tears"},{"id":"your_anger","text":"Your anger"},{"id":"your_quiet","text":"Your quiet"},{"id":"your_uncertainty","text":"Your uncertainty"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_210
text: What should we be more honest about?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["honesty","depth"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"needs","text":"Needs"},{"id":"loneliness","text":"Loneliness"},{"id":"disappointment","text":"Disappointment"},{"id":"desire_for_closeness","text":"Desire for closeness"},{"id":"fear_of_conflict","text":"Fear of conflict"}]}}


id: emotional_intimacy_212
text: How easy is it to open up to me?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["opening_up","ease"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Very hard","max_label":"Very easy","scale_step":1}}


id: emotional_intimacy_213
text: How seen do you feel by me lately?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["feeling_seen","recent"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not seen","max_label":"Very seen","scale_step":1}}


id: emotional_intimacy_214
text: How comfortable are you asking me for comfort?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["comfort","asking"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Uncomfortable","max_label":"Very comfortable","scale_step":1}}


id: emotional_intimacy_215
text: How often do we make room for deeper feelings?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["feelings","room"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Rarely","max_label":"Very often","scale_step":1}}


id: emotional_intimacy_216
text: How well do I respond when you are vulnerable?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["vulnerability","responsiveness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not well","max_label":"Very well","scale_step":1}}


id: emotional_intimacy_218
text: How close have you felt to me this week?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["closeness","weekly"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Distant","max_label":"Very close","scale_step":1}}


id: emotional_intimacy_220
text: How much reassurance do you need right now?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["reassurance","current"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Very little","max_label":"A lot","scale_step":1}}


id: emotional_intimacy_221
text: How safe does silence feel between us?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["silence","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Unsafe","max_label":"Very safe","scale_step":1}}


id: emotional_intimacy_226
text: How much does stress block your openness?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["stress","openness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not at all","max_label":"A lot","scale_step":1}}


id: emotional_intimacy_228
text: How accepted do you feel when you are emotional?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["acceptance","emotions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not accepted","max_label":"Fully accepted","scale_step":1}}


id: emotional_intimacy_231
text: How confident are you that I want to understand you?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["confidence","understanding"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not confident","max_label":"Very confident","scale_step":1}}


id: emotional_intimacy_233
text: How good are we at repairing emotional distance?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["repair","distance"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not good","max_label":"Very good","scale_step":1}}


id: emotional_intimacy_235
text: How ready do you feel for a deeper conversation today?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["readiness","deep_talk"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not ready","max_label":"Very ready","scale_step":1}}


id: emotional_intimacy_236
text: Which feels more intimate?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["intimacy","preference"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"a_deep_talk","text":"A deep talk"},"optionB":{"id":"quiet_closeness","text":"Quiet closeness"}}}


id: emotional_intimacy_237
text: Which feels safer when you are upset?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["safety","upset"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"comfort_first","text":"Comfort first"},"optionB":{"id":"space_first","text":"Space first"}}}


id: emotional_intimacy_238
text: Which do you need more often?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["needs","frequency"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},"optionB":{"id":"curiosity","text":"Curiosity"}}}


id: emotional_intimacy_239
text: Which helps you open up?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["opening_up","help"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"gentle_questions","text":"Gentle questions"},"optionB":{"id":"patient_silence","text":"Patient silence"}}}


id: emotional_intimacy_240
text: Which feels more loving?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["love","expression"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"being_remembered","text":"Being remembered"},"optionB":{"id":"being_asked","text":"Being asked"}}}


id: emotional_intimacy_241
text: Which is harder to say?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["difficulty","expression"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"i_need_you","text":"I need you"},"optionB":{"id":"i_am_hurt","text":"I am hurt"}}}


id: emotional_intimacy_242
text: Which feels more vulnerable?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["vulnerability","comparison"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"sharing_fear","text":"Sharing fear"},"optionB":{"id":"asking_for_comfort","text":"Asking for comfort"}}}


id: emotional_intimacy_243
text: Which should we protect more?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["protection","priority"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"tenderness","text":"Tenderness"},"optionB":{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"}}}


id: emotional_intimacy_244
text: Which helps after conflict?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["conflict","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"a_hug","text":"A hug"},"optionB":{"id":"a_calm_talk","text":"A calm talk"}}}


id: emotional_intimacy_245
text: Which closeness ritual sounds better?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["ritual","closeness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"bedtime_check_in","text":"Bedtime check-in"},"optionB":{"id":"morning_affection","text":"Morning affection"}}}


id: emotional_intimacy_246
text: Which do you notice more?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["noticing","connection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"tone","text":"Tone"},"optionB":{"id":"actions","text":"Actions"}}}


id: emotional_intimacy_247
text: Which do you want more from me?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["needs","partner"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"softness","text":"Softness"},"optionB":{"id":"directness","text":"Directness"}}}


id: emotional_intimacy_248
text: Which is easier for you?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["ease","self_reflection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"giving_comfort","text":"Giving comfort"},"optionB":{"id":"receiving_comfort","text":"Receiving comfort"}}}


id: emotional_intimacy_249
text: Which feels more healing?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["healing","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"i_understand","text":"I understand"},"optionB":{"id":"i_am_here","text":"I am here"}}}


id: emotional_intimacy_250
text: Which should come first today?
category_id: emotional_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["today","priority"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"connection","text":"Connection"},"optionB":{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"}}}


id: communication_151
text: When you are upset, what helps most first?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["support","emotions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"},{"id":"space","text":"Space"},{"id":"advice","text":"Advice"},{"id":"distraction","text":"Distraction"}]}}


id: communication_152
text: How do you usually process hard feelings?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["processing","emotions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"talking","text":"Talking"},{"id":"thinking_alone","text":"Thinking alone"},{"id":"writing","text":"Writing"},{"id":"doing_something_active","text":"Doing something active"}]}}


id: communication_153
text: What kind of check-in feels best to you?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["check_in","preferences"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"quick_and_casual","text":"Quick and casual"},{"id":"planned_and_focused","text":"Planned and focused"},{"id":"deep_and_slow","text":"Deep and slow"},{"id":"only_when_needed","text":"Only when needed"}]}}


id: communication_154
text: During disagreement, what do you need most?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["conflict","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"patience","text":"Patience"},{"id":"clarity","text":"Clarity"},{"id":"a_pause","text":"A pause"}]}}


id: communication_155
text: What makes you feel most heard?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["listening","attention"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"eye_contact","text":"Eye contact"},{"id":"follow_up_questions","text":"Follow-up questions"},{"id":"no_interrupting","text":"No interrupting"},{"id":"remembering_details","text":"Remembering details"}]}}


id: communication_156
text: What usually makes you shut down?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["shutdown","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"raised_voices","text":"Raised voices"},{"id":"feeling_blamed","text":"Feeling blamed"},{"id":"too_many_questions","text":"Too many questions"},{"id":"bad_timing","text":"Bad timing"}]}}


id: communication_157
text: What should I do before giving advice?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["advice","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"ask_permission","text":"Ask permission"},{"id":"listen_longer","text":"Listen longer"},{"id":"validate_first","text":"Validate first"},{"id":"give_advice_right_away","text":"Give advice right away"}]}}


id: communication_158
text: How do you prefer serious topics to start?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["serious_talks","timing"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"directly","text":"Directly"},{"id":"gently","text":"Gently"},{"id":"with_warning","text":"With warning"},{"id":"in_writing","text":"In writing"}]}}


id: communication_159
text: What communication habit matters most to you?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["values","communication"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"kindness","text":"Kindness"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"curiosity","text":"Curiosity"}]}}


id: communication_160
text: What type of apology matters most?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["apology","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"taking_responsibility","text":"Taking responsibility"},{"id":"showing_understanding","text":"Showing understanding"},{"id":"changed_behavior","text":"Changed behavior"},{"id":"warm_reassurance","text":"Warm reassurance"}]}}


id: communication_161
text: When plans change, what do you need most?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["planning","clarity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"quick_update","text":"Quick update"},{"id":"clear_reason","text":"Clear reason"},{"id":"new_plan","text":"New plan"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"}]}}


id: communication_162
text: What tone helps you stay open?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["tone","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"calm","text":"Calm"},{"id":"warm","text":"Warm"},{"id":"direct","text":"Direct"},{"id":"soft","text":"Soft"}]}}


id: communication_163
text: What tone makes things harder?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["tone","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"cold","text":"Cold"},{"id":"sharp","text":"Sharp"},{"id":"dismissive","text":"Dismissive"},{"id":"rushed","text":"Rushed"}]}}


id: communication_164
text: How should we pause a tense talk?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["pause","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"use_a_phrase","text":"Use a phrase"},{"id":"set_a_timer","text":"Set a timer"},{"id":"take_separate_space","text":"Take separate space"},{"id":"switch_to_writing","text":"Switch to writing"}]}}


id: communication_165
text: What makes you feel respected in conversation?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["respect","listening"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"being_asked","text":"Being asked"},{"id":"being_heard","text":"Being heard"},{"id":"being_believed","text":"Being believed"},{"id":"being_given_time","text":"Being given time"}]}}


id: communication_166
text: What do you need when you say you are fine?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["emotions","check_in"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"believe_me","text":"Believe me"},{"id":"ask_gently","text":"Ask gently"},{"id":"give_space","text":"Give space"},{"id":"check_later","text":"Check later"}]}}


id: communication_167
text: What makes feedback easier to receive?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["feedback","growth"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"specific_examples","text":"Specific examples"},{"id":"kind_tone","text":"Kind tone"},{"id":"private_setting","text":"Private setting"},{"id":"clear_request","text":"Clear request"}]}}


id: communication_168
text: What makes feedback harder to receive?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["feedback","defensiveness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"blame","text":"Blame"},{"id":"public_setting","text":"Public setting"},{"id":"bad_timing","text":"Bad timing"},{"id":"harsh_tone","text":"Harsh tone"}]}}


id: communication_169
text: What helps you return after a fight?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"apology","text":"Apology"},{"id":"touch","text":"Touch"},{"id":"space_first","text":"Space first"},{"id":"talking_it_through","text":"Talking it through"}]}}


id: communication_170
text: What makes a repair feel real?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair","trust"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"changed_behavior","text":"Changed behavior"},{"id":"clear_apology","text":"Clear apology"},{"id":"no_excuses","text":"No excuses"},{"id":"gentle_follow_up","text":"Gentle follow-up"}]}}


id: communication_171
text: When I vent, what should you do first?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["venting","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"listen","text":"Listen"},{"id":"ask_questions","text":"Ask questions"},{"id":"validate","text":"Validate"},{"id":"offer_help","text":"Offer help"}]}}


id: communication_172
text: Which conversation format feels safest?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["safety","format"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"face_to_face","text":"Face to face"},{"id":"text_first","text":"Text first"},{"id":"walk_and_talk","text":"Walk and talk"},{"id":"planned_check_in","text":"Planned check-in"}]}}


id: communication_173
text: How often should we have deeper check-ins?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["check_in","routine"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"daily","text":"Daily"},{"id":"weekly","text":"Weekly"},{"id":"monthly","text":"Monthly"},{"id":"only_when_needed","text":"Only when needed"}]}}


id: communication_174
text: What should we avoid during conflict?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["conflict","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"name_calling","text":"Name calling"},{"id":"interrupting","text":"Interrupting"},{"id":"leaving_abruptly","text":"Leaving abruptly"},{"id":"bringing_up_old_fights","text":"Bringing up old fights"}]}}


id: communication_175
text: What helps you feel like we are a team?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["teamwork","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_language","text":"Shared language"},{"id":"calm_tone","text":"Calm tone"},{"id":"problem_solving","text":"Problem solving"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"}]}}


id: communication_176
text: What makes you feel alone in a hard talk?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["loneliness","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"silence","text":"Silence"},{"id":"defensiveness","text":"Defensiveness"},{"id":"dismissal","text":"Dismissal"},{"id":"coldness","text":"Coldness"}]}}


id: communication_177
text: How do you prefer reassurance?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["reassurance","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"words","text":"Words"},{"id":"actions","text":"Actions"},{"id":"touch","text":"Touch"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"}]}}


id: communication_178
text: What kind of question opens you up?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["questions","vulnerability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"gentle","text":"Gentle"},{"id":"specific","text":"Specific"},{"id":"curious","text":"Curious"},{"id":"simple","text":"Simple"}]}}


id: communication_179
text: What kind of question closes you down?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["questions","shutdown"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"loaded","text":"Loaded"},{"id":"rushed","text":"Rushed"},{"id":"accusing","text":"Accusing"},{"id":"too_broad","text":"Too broad"}]}}


id: communication_180
text: What is your first reaction to conflict?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["conflict","pattern"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"talk_more","text":"Talk more"},{"id":"go_quiet","text":"Go quiet"},{"id":"get_defensive","text":"Get defensive"},{"id":"need_space","text":"Need space"}]}}


id: communication_181
text: What is hardest to say clearly?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["honesty","vulnerability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"needs","text":"Needs"},{"id":"fears","text":"Fears"},{"id":"disappointment","text":"Disappointment"},{"id":"boundaries","text":"Boundaries"}]}}


id: communication_182
text: What is easiest to talk about?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["ease","conversation"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"plans","text":"Plans"},{"id":"feelings","text":"Feelings"},{"id":"daily_life","text":"Daily life"},{"id":"dreams","text":"Dreams"}]}}


id: communication_183
text: What should we name sooner?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["awareness","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"stress","text":"Stress"},{"id":"distance","text":"Distance"},{"id":"hurt","text":"Hurt"},{"id":"confusion","text":"Confusion"}]}}


id: communication_184
text: What helps you believe I understand?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["understanding","listening"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"repeating_back","text":"Repeating back"},{"id":"asking_more","text":"Asking more"},{"id":"changing_behavior","text":"Changing behavior"},{"id":"staying_calm","text":"Staying calm"}]}}


id: communication_185
text: What makes you feel interrupted?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["attention","respect"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"cutting_in","text":"Cutting in"},{"id":"finishing_sentences","text":"Finishing sentences"},{"id":"changing_topics","text":"Changing topics"},{"id":"checking_phone","text":"Checking phone"}]}}


id: communication_186
text: What would improve our daily talks most?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["daily_life","improvement"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"more_time","text":"More time"},{"id":"more_patience","text":"More patience"},{"id":"more_honesty","text":"More honesty"},{"id":"fewer_distractions","text":"Fewer distractions"}]}}


id: communication_187
text: What is your preferred conflict pace?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["conflict","timing"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"resolve_now","text":"Resolve now"},{"id":"pause_first","text":"Pause first"},{"id":"sleep_on_it","text":"Sleep on it"},{"id":"schedule_it","text":"Schedule it"}]}}


id: communication_188
text: What should we do after a misunderstanding?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["misunderstanding","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"clarify","text":"Clarify"},{"id":"apologize","text":"Apologize"},{"id":"laugh_gently","text":"Laugh gently"},{"id":"check_feelings","text":"Check feelings"}]}}


id: communication_189
text: What makes honesty feel safer?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["honesty","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"no_punishment","text":"No punishment"},{"id":"kind_tone","text":"Kind tone"},{"id":"clear_listening","text":"Clear listening"},{"id":"time_to_explain","text":"Time to explain"}]}}


id: communication_190
text: What should be our reset phrase?
category_id: communication
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair","reset"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"can_we_restart","text":"Can we restart?"},{"id":"i_want_to_understand","text":"I want to understand"},{"id":"same_team","text":"Same team"},{"id":"pause_and_come_back","text":"Pause and come back"}]}}


id: communication_191
text: Which things help you feel listened to? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["listening","attention"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"eye_contact","text":"Eye contact"},{"id":"no_interrupting","text":"No interrupting"},{"id":"follow_up_questions","text":"Follow-up questions"},{"id":"remembering_later","text":"Remembering later"},{"id":"putting_phone_away","text":"Putting phone away"}]}}


id: communication_192
text: Which things make hard talks harder for you? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["conflict","triggers"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"raised_voices","text":"Raised voices"},{"id":"bad_timing","text":"Bad timing"},{"id":"feeling_blamed","text":"Feeling blamed"},{"id":"sarcasm","text":"Sarcasm"},{"id":"too_much_pressure","text":"Too much pressure"}]}}


id: communication_193
text: Which topics need better communication between us? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["topics","growth"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"plans","text":"Plans"},{"id":"feelings","text":"Feelings"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"household_needs","text":"Household needs"}]}}


id: communication_194
text: Which support styles do you like most? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["support","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"},{"id":"advice","text":"Advice"},{"id":"practical_help","text":"Practical help"},{"id":"space","text":"Space"},{"id":"encouragement","text":"Encouragement"}]}}


id: communication_195
text: Which signs show you are overwhelmed? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["stress","signals"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"quietness","text":"Quietness"},{"id":"irritability","text":"Irritability"},{"id":"tiredness","text":"Tiredness"},{"id":"avoidance","text":"Avoidance"},{"id":"overexplaining","text":"Overexplaining"}]}}


id: communication_196
text: Which repair actions matter after conflict? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["repair","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"apology","text":"Apology"},{"id":"changed_behavior","text":"Changed behavior"},{"id":"physical_comfort","text":"Physical comfort"},{"id":"talking_it_through","text":"Talking it through"},{"id":"time_to_cool_off","text":"Time to cool off"}]}}


id: communication_197
text: Which communication habits should we protect? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["strengths","habits"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"humor","text":"Humor"},{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"gentleness","text":"Gentleness"},{"id":"check_ins","text":"Check-ins"},{"id":"saying_thank_you","text":"Saying thank you"}]}}


id: communication_198
text: Which communication habits should we reduce? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["growth","habits"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"interrupting","text":"Interrupting"},{"id":"assuming","text":"Assuming"},{"id":"avoiding","text":"Avoiding"},{"id":"defending","text":"Defending"},{"id":"rushing","text":"Rushing"}]}}


id: communication_199
text: Which moments are best for deeper conversations? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["timing","routine"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"morning","text":"Morning"},{"id":"afternoon","text":"Afternoon"},{"id":"evening","text":"Evening"},{"id":"during_walks","text":"During walks"},{"id":"planned_time","text":"Planned time"}]}}


id: communication_200
text: Which moments are worst for deeper conversations? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["timing","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"when_hungry","text":"When hungry"},{"id":"before_work","text":"Before work"},{"id":"late_at_night","text":"Late at night"},{"id":"in_public","text":"In public"},{"id":"during_chores","text":"During chores"}]}}


id: communication_201
text: Which feelings are hardest for you to name? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["emotions","vulnerability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"fear","text":"Fear"},{"id":"sadness","text":"Sadness"},{"id":"anger","text":"Anger"},{"id":"shame","text":"Shame"},{"id":"disappointment","text":"Disappointment"}]}}


id: communication_202
text: Which things make feedback easier? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["feedback","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"kind_tone","text":"Kind tone"},{"id":"specific_examples","text":"Specific examples"},{"id":"private_setting","text":"Private setting"},{"id":"clear_request","text":"Clear request"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"}]}}


id: communication_203
text: Which things make you feel dismissed? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["dismissal","attention"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"changing_the_topic","text":"Changing the topic"},{"id":"joking_too_soon","text":"Joking too soon"},{"id":"giving_quick_advice","text":"Giving quick advice"},{"id":"saying_it_is_not_a_big_deal","text":"Saying it is not a big deal"},{"id":"looking_distracted","text":"Looking distracted"}]}}


id: communication_204
text: Which things help us feel like a team? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["teamwork","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_plans","text":"Shared plans"},{"id":"calm_language","text":"Calm language"},{"id":"checking_assumptions","text":"Checking assumptions"},{"id":"solving_together","text":"Solving together"},{"id":"affection_after_tension","text":"Affection after tension"}]}}


id: communication_205
text: Which boundaries would help our conversations? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["boundaries","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"no_yelling","text":"No yelling"},{"id":"no_name_calling","text":"No name calling"},{"id":"no_phone_distractions","text":"No phone distractions"},{"id":"pause_allowed","text":"Pause allowed"},{"id":"return_time_agreed","text":"Return time agreed"}]}}


id: communication_206
text: Which text habits should we improve? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["texting","digital"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"reply_expectations","text":"Reply expectations"},{"id":"tone_clarity","text":"Tone clarity"},{"id":"hard_topics_by_text","text":"Hard topics by text"},{"id":"check_ins","text":"Check-ins"},{"id":"plan_details","text":"Plan details"}]}}


id: communication_207
text: Which ways do you show you care during talks? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["care","listening"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"listening","text":"Listening"},{"id":"asking_questions","text":"Asking questions"},{"id":"helping_solve","text":"Helping solve"},{"id":"offering_touch","text":"Offering touch"},{"id":"following_up_later","text":"Following up later"}]}}


id: communication_208
text: Which ways do you want me to show care during talks? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["care","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"listen_longer","text":"Listen longer"},{"id":"ask_gently","text":"Ask gently"},{"id":"validate_first","text":"Validate first"},{"id":"offer_help","text":"Offer help"},{"id":"stay_close","text":"Stay close"}]}}


id: communication_209
text: Which things should we clarify more often? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["clarity","expectations"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"plans","text":"Plans"},{"id":"expectations","text":"Expectations"},{"id":"needs","text":"Needs"},{"id":"boundaries","text":"Boundaries"},{"id":"feelings","text":"Feelings"}]}}


id: communication_210
text: Which goals should we set for communication? Select all that apply.
category_id: communication
type: multi_choice
tags: ["goals","growth"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"listen_better","text":"Listen better"},{"id":"speak_sooner","text":"Speak sooner"},{"id":"pause_kindly","text":"Pause kindly"},{"id":"repair_faster","text":"Repair faster"},{"id":"assume_less","text":"Assume less"}]}}


id: communication_211
text: How heard did you feel by me this week?
category_id: communication
type: scale
tags: ["listening","weekly_check_in"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not heard","max_label":"Very heard","scale_step":1}}


id: communication_213
text: How clearly do you feel I communicate my needs?
category_id: communication
type: scale
tags: ["needs","clarity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not clearly","max_label":"Very clearly","scale_step":1}}


id: communication_216
text: How often do you feel interrupted by me?
category_id: communication
type: scale
tags: ["listening","respect"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Never","max_label":"Very often","scale_step":1}}


id: communication_219
text: How comfortable are you asking me for support?
category_id: communication
type: scale
tags: ["support","vulnerability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not comfortable","max_label":"Very comfortable","scale_step":1}}


id: communication_225
text: How connected do you feel after our everyday conversations?
category_id: communication
type: scale
tags: ["daily_life","connection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Disconnected","max_label":"Very connected","scale_step":1}}


id: communication_226
text: How honest do you feel you can be with me right now?
category_id: communication
type: scale
tags: ["honesty","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not honest","max_label":"Fully honest","scale_step":1}}


id: communication_230
text: How effective are our check-ins right now?
category_id: communication
type: scale
tags: ["check_in","routine"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not effective","max_label":"Very effective","scale_step":1}}


id: communication_231
text: How respected do you feel when we disagree?
category_id: communication
type: scale
tags: ["respect","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not respected","max_label":"Very respected","scale_step":1}}


id: communication_235
text: How hopeful do you feel about improving our communication?
category_id: communication
type: scale
tags: ["hope","growth"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not hopeful","max_label":"Very hopeful","scale_step":1}}


id: communication_236
text: Talk it out right away or take time to think first?
category_id: communication
type: this_or_that
tags: ["timing","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"talk_right_away","text":"Talk right away"},"optionB":{"id":"take_time_first","text":"Take time first"}}}


id: communication_237
text: Comfort first or solutions first?
category_id: communication
type: this_or_that
tags: ["support","preferences"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"comfort_first","text":"Comfort first"},"optionB":{"id":"solutions_first","text":"Solutions first"}}}


id: communication_238
text: Direct honesty or gentle buildup?
category_id: communication
type: this_or_that
tags: ["honesty","tone"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"direct_honesty","text":"Direct honesty"},"optionB":{"id":"gentle_buildup","text":"Gentle buildup"}}}


id: communication_239
text: Planned check-in or natural conversation?
category_id: communication
type: this_or_that
tags: ["check_in","routine"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"planned_check_in","text":"Planned check-in"},"optionB":{"id":"natural_conversation","text":"Natural conversation"}}}


id: communication_240
text: Text first or talk face to face?
category_id: communication
type: this_or_that
tags: ["format","communication"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"text_first","text":"Text first"},"optionB":{"id":"face_to_face","text":"Face to face"}}}


id: communication_241
text: Space after conflict or closeness after conflict?
category_id: communication
type: this_or_that
tags: ["repair","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"space_after_conflict","text":"Space after conflict"},"optionB":{"id":"closeness_after_conflict","text":"Closeness after conflict"}}}


id: communication_242
text: Short apology or detailed apology?
category_id: communication
type: this_or_that
tags: ["apology","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"short_apology","text":"Short apology"},"optionB":{"id":"detailed_apology","text":"Detailed apology"}}}


id: communication_243
text: Ask more questions or give more reassurance?
category_id: communication
type: this_or_that
tags: ["support","listening"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"ask_more_questions","text":"Ask more questions"},"optionB":{"id":"give_more_reassurance","text":"Give more reassurance"}}}


id: communication_244
text: Say it now or wait for a better time?
category_id: communication
type: this_or_that
tags: ["timing","hard_topics"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"say_it_now","text":"Say it now"},"optionB":{"id":"wait_for_a_better_time","text":"Wait for a better time"}}}


id: communication_245
text: Listen quietly or reflect back what you heard?
category_id: communication
type: this_or_that
tags: ["listening","style"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"listen_quietly","text":"Listen quietly"},"optionB":{"id":"reflect_back","text":"Reflect back"}}}


id: communication_246
text: Humor to lighten the mood or seriousness first?
category_id: communication
type: this_or_that
tags: ["humor","tone"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"humor_helps","text":"Humor helps"},"optionB":{"id":"seriousness_first","text":"Seriousness first"}}}


id: communication_247
text: More daily updates or fewer but deeper updates?
category_id: communication
type: this_or_that
tags: ["daily_life","connection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"more_daily_updates","text":"More daily updates"},"optionB":{"id":"fewer_deeper_updates","text":"Fewer deeper updates"}}}


id: communication_248
text: Name feelings or name needs?
category_id: communication
type: this_or_that
tags: ["emotions","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"name_feelings","text":"Name feelings"},"optionB":{"id":"name_needs","text":"Name needs"}}}


id: communication_249
text: Pause with a timer or pause without a timer?
category_id: communication
type: this_or_that
tags: ["pause","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"timer_pause","text":"Timer pause"},"optionB":{"id":"no_timer_pause","text":"No timer pause"}}}


id: communication_250
text: Speak softer or speak more clearly?
category_id: communication
type: this_or_that
tags: ["tone","clarity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"softer","text":"Softer"},"optionB":{"id":"more_clearly","text":"More clearly"}}}


id: conflict_repair_151
text: After conflict, what helps you reconnect first?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair","reconnection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_calm_apology","text":"A calm apology"},{"id":"physical_space","text":"Physical space"},{"id":"a_hug","text":"A hug"},{"id":"a_practical_next_step","text":"A practical next step"}]}}


id: conflict_repair_152
text: What makes an apology land best for you?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: single_choice
tags: ["apology","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"specific_ownership","text":"Specific ownership"},{"id":"changed_behavior","text":"Changed behavior"},{"id":"gentle_tone","text":"Gentle tone"},{"id":"no_excuses","text":"No excuses"}]}}


id: conflict_repair_153
text: When a fight escalates, what should we do first?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: single_choice
tags: ["escalation","pauses"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"pause","text":"Pause"},{"id":"lower_voices","text":"Lower voices"},{"id":"name_the_issue","text":"Name the issue"},{"id":"get_water_and_reset","text":"Get water and reset"}]}}


id: conflict_repair_154
text: What repair style feels most natural to you?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair_style","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"talk_it_out","text":"Talk it out"},{"id":"write_it_out","text":"Write it out"},{"id":"take_space_first","text":"Take space first"},{"id":"use_humor_gently","text":"Use humor gently"}]}}


id: conflict_repair_155
text: What usually blocks repair fastest?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: single_choice
tags: ["blocks","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"defensiveness","text":"Defensiveness"},{"id":"blame","text":"Blame"},{"id":"silence","text":"Silence"},{"id":"timing","text":"Timing"}]}}


id: conflict_repair_156
text: What do you need after I hurt your feelings?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: single_choice
tags: ["hurt","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"validation","text":"Validation"},{"id":"accountability","text":"Accountability"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"time","text":"Time"}]}}


id: conflict_repair_157
text: What helps you hear my side after conflict?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: single_choice
tags: ["listening","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"calm_timing","text":"Calm timing"},{"id":"no_blame","text":"No blame"},{"id":"clear_examples","text":"Clear examples"},{"id":"feeling_heard_first","text":"Feeling heard first"}]}}


id: conflict_repair_158
text: What should we avoid during repair?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"scorekeeping","text":"Scorekeeping"},{"id":"sarcasm","text":"Sarcasm"},{"id":"old_fights","text":"Old fights"},{"id":"threats","text":"Threats"}]}}


id: conflict_repair_159
text: What should our repair goal be?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair","goals"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"understand","text":"Understand"},{"id":"apologize","text":"Apologize"},{"id":"make_a_plan","text":"Make a plan"},{"id":"reconnect","text":"Reconnect"}]}}


id: conflict_repair_160
text: What kind of follow-up feels useful?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: single_choice
tags: ["follow_up","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"same_day","text":"Same day"},{"id":"next_day","text":"Next day"},{"id":"weekly_check_in","text":"Weekly check-in"},{"id":"only_if_needed","text":"Only if needed"}]}}


id: conflict_repair_191
text: Which repair actions help after conflict? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict_repair
type: multi_choice
tags: ["repair","actions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"apology","text":"Apology"},{"id":"validation","text":"Validation"},{"id":"changed_behavior","text":"Changed behavior"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"a_calm_follow_up","text":"A calm follow-up"}]}}


id: conflict_repair_192
text: Which things make repair harder? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict_repair
type: multi_choice
tags: ["repair","blocks"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"blame","text":"Blame"},{"id":"defensiveness","text":"Defensiveness"},{"id":"sarcasm","text":"Sarcasm"},{"id":"avoidance","text":"Avoidance"},{"id":"rushing","text":"Rushing"}]}}


id: conflict_repair_193
text: Which topics need gentler repair? Select up to three.
category_id: conflict_repair
type: multi_choice
tags: ["gentleness","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"intimacy","text":"Intimacy"},{"id":"time","text":"Time"},{"id":"old_wounds","text":"Old wounds"}]}}


id: conflict_repair_194
text: Which repair signals work for you? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict_repair
type: multi_choice
tags: ["signals","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"soft_voice","text":"Soft voice"},{"id":"eye_contact","text":"Eye contact"},{"id":"taking_responsibility","text":"Taking responsibility"},{"id":"asking_to_restart","text":"Asking to restart"},{"id":"physical_reassurance","text":"Physical reassurance"}]}}


id: conflict_repair_195
text: Which agreements would protect future repair? Select up to three.
category_id: conflict_repair
type: multi_choice
tags: ["agreements","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"no_insults","text":"No insults"},{"id":"pause_when_flooded","text":"Pause when flooded"},{"id":"return_after_breaks","text":"Return after breaks"},{"id":"no_old_scorekeeping","text":"No old scorekeeping"},{"id":"name_the_real_issue","text":"Name the real issue"}]}}


id: conflict_repair_211
text: How repaired do you feel after our last hard conversation?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: scale
tags: ["repair","check_in"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not repaired","max_label":"Fully repaired","scale_step":1}}


id: conflict_repair_236
text: After conflict, which do you usually need first?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: this_or_that
tags: ["repair","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"space","text":"Space"},"optionB":{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"}}}


id: conflict_repair_237
text: During repair, which matters more first?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: this_or_that
tags: ["repair","priorities"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"feeling_heard","text":"Feeling heard"},"optionB":{"id":"finding_solution","text":"Finding solution"}}}


id: conflict_repair_238
text: For apologies, which lands better?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: this_or_that
tags: ["apology","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"short_and_clear","text":"Short and clear"},"optionB":{"id":"detailed_and_reflective","text":"Detailed and reflective"}}}


id: conflict_repair_239
text: When heated, which helps more?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: this_or_that
tags: ["escalation","pauses"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"pause","text":"Pause"},"optionB":{"id":"slow_down_and_continue","text":"Slow down and continue"}}}


id: conflict_repair_240
text: For follow-up, which feels better?
category_id: conflict_repair
type: this_or_that
tags: ["follow_up","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"same_day","text":"Same day"},"optionB":{"id":"next_day","text":"Next day"}}}


id: physical_intimacy_151
text: For holding hands, what feels best to you?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["holding_hands","preference"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"hand_holding","text":"Hand-holding"},{"id":"cuddling","text":"Cuddling"},{"id":"a_long_hug","text":"A long hug"},{"id":"sitting_close","text":"Sitting close"}]}}


id: physical_intimacy_152
text: What would make cuddling feel safer?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["cuddling","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"ask_first","text":"Ask first"},{"id":"move_slowly","text":"Move slowly"},{"id":"use_clear_words","text":"Use clear words"},{"id":"check_in_after","text":"Check in after"}]}}


id: physical_intimacy_153
text: How would you like more warm greetings?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["warm_greetings","more"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"more_often","text":"More often"},{"id":"more_gently","text":"More gently"},{"id":"more_privately","text":"More privately"},{"id":"more_playfully","text":"More playfully"}]}}


id: physical_intimacy_154
text: What does goodbye affection usually communicate to you?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["goodbye_affection","meaning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"connection","text":"Connection"},{"id":"calm","text":"Calm"}]}}


id: physical_intimacy_155
text: Where do you prefer comforting touch?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["comforting_touch","setting"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"public_affection","text":"Public affection"},{"id":"private_affection","text":"Private affection"},{"id":"both","text":"Both"},{"id":"depends_on_the_setting","text":"Depends on the setting"}]}}


id: physical_intimacy_156
text: When sitting close feels uncertain, what should happen first?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: single_choice
tags: ["sitting_close","consent"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"words_first","text":"Words first"},{"id":"touch_first","text":"Touch first"},{"id":"space_first","text":"Space first"},{"id":"ask_first","text":"Ask first"}]}}


id: physical_intimacy_191
text: Which kinds of touch help you feel close?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["holding_hands","touch_types"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"hand_holding","text":"Hand-holding"},{"id":"cuddling","text":"Cuddling"},{"id":"a_long_hug","text":"A long hug"},{"id":"sitting_close","text":"Sitting close"}]}}


id: physical_intimacy_192
text: Which things make physical affection feel safe?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["cuddling","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"ask_first","text":"Ask first"},{"id":"move_slowly","text":"Move slowly"},{"id":"use_clear_words","text":"Use clear words"},{"id":"check_in_after","text":"Check in after"}]}}


id: physical_intimacy_193
text: What should we communicate around warm greetings?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["warm_greetings","communication"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"more_often","text":"More often"},{"id":"more_gently","text":"More gently"},{"id":"more_privately","text":"More privately"},{"id":"more_playfully","text":"More playfully"}]}}


id: physical_intimacy_194
text: Which situations make goodbye affection harder?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["goodbye_affection","difficulty"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"connection","text":"Connection"},{"id":"calm","text":"Calm"}]}}


id: physical_intimacy_195
text: Which kinds of touch help you feel close?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["comforting_touch","touch_types"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"public_affection","text":"Public affection"},{"id":"private_affection","text":"Private affection"},{"id":"both","text":"Both"},{"id":"depends_on_the_setting","text":"Depends on the setting"}]}}


id: physical_intimacy_196
text: Which things make physical affection feel safe?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: multi_choice
tags: ["sitting_close","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"words_first","text":"Words first"},{"id":"touch_first","text":"Touch first"},{"id":"space_first","text":"Space first"},{"id":"ask_first","text":"Ask first"}]}}


id: physical_intimacy_211
text: How comfortable do you feel with holding hands lately?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["holding_hands","comfort"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not comfortable","max_label":"Very comfortable"}}


id: physical_intimacy_212
text: How connected do you feel through cuddling?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["cuddling","connection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Distant","max_label":"Very connected"}}


id: physical_intimacy_213
text: How clearly do we communicate about warm greetings?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["warm_greetings","communication"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Unclear","max_label":"Very clear"}}


id: physical_intimacy_214
text: How much pressure do you feel around goodbye affection?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: scale
tags: ["goodbye_affection","pressure"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"No pressure","max_label":"Too much pressure"}}


id: physical_intimacy_236
text: For holding hands, what feels better?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["holding_hands","preference"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"ask_first","text":"Ask first"},"optionB":{"id":"read_the_moment","text":"Read the moment"}}}


id: physical_intimacy_237
text: When it comes to cuddling, what should we lean toward?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["cuddling","leaning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"more_often","text":"More often"},"optionB":{"id":"more_intentional","text":"More intentional"}}}


id: physical_intimacy_238
text: If one of us is unsure about warm greetings, what matters more?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["warm_greetings","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"private_affection","text":"Private affection"},"optionB":{"id":"public_affection","text":"Public affection"}}}


id: physical_intimacy_239
text: For goodbye affection, what feels better?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["goodbye_affection","preference"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"soft_touch","text":"Soft touch"},"optionB":{"id":"playful_touch","text":"Playful touch"}}}


id: physical_intimacy_240
text: When it comes to comforting touch, what should we lean toward?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["comforting_touch","leaning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"comfort_first","text":"Comfort first"},"optionB":{"id":"connection_first","text":"Connection first"}}}


id: physical_intimacy_241
text: If one of us is unsure about sitting close, what matters more?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["sitting_close","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"initiate","text":"Initiate"},"optionB":{"id":"invite","text":"Invite"}}}


id: physical_intimacy_242
text: For nonverbal reassurance, what feels better?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["nonverbal_reassurance","preference"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"slow_down","text":"Slow down"},"optionB":{"id":"speak_up","text":"Speak up"}}}


id: physical_intimacy_243
text: When it comes to affection during stress, what should we lean toward?
category_id: physical_intimacy
type: this_or_that
tags: ["affection_during_stress","leaning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"space","text":"Space"},"optionB":{"id":"closeness","text":"Closeness"}}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_002
text: I get turned on faster when my partner touches me before trying to have sex.
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","foreplay","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"true","text":"True"},{"id":"false","text":"False"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_003
text: Which first touch gets you most interested?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","touch","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"neck_kisses","text":"Neck kisses"},{"id":"back_rub","text":"Back rub"},{"id":"hand_on_thigh","text":"Hand on thigh"},{"id":"direct_sexual_touch","text":"Direct sexual touch"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_006
text: What mood turns you on most?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","mood","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"soft_and_romantic","text":"Soft and romantic"},{"id":"playful_and_teasing","text":"Playful and teasing"},{"id":"bold_and_dirty","text":"Bold and dirty"},{"id":"quiet_and_slow","text":"Quiet and slow"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_009
text: What pace do you usually prefer at the start?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","pace","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"slow","text":"Slow"},{"id":"medium","text":"Medium"},{"id":"fast","text":"Fast"},{"id":"let_it_change","text":"Let it change"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_012
text: What do you want most after sex?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","aftercare","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"cuddling","text":"Cuddling"},{"id":"talking","text":"Talking"},{"id":"space","text":"Space"},{"id":"round_two","text":"Round two"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_015
text: How should your partner initiate more often?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","initiation","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type": "single_choice", "config": {"options": [{"id": "kiss_me_first", "text": "Kiss me first"}, {"id": "say_what_he_wants", "text": "Say what they want"}, {"id": "touch_me_slowly", "text": "Touch me slowly"}, {"id": "ask_directly", "text": "Ask directly"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_018
text: What kills the mood fastest?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","turn_offs","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"rushing","text":"Rushing"},{"id":"bad_timing","text":"Bad timing"},{"id":"no_affection","text":"No affection"},{"id":"poor_hygiene","text":"Poor hygiene"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_021
text: Which foreplay do you want more of?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","foreplay","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"kissing","text":"Kissing"},{"id":"hands","text":"Hands"},{"id":"oral","text":"Oral"},{"id":"massage","text":"Massage"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_024
text: What is sexiest for your partner to wear?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","clothing","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type": "single_choice", "config": {"options": [{"id": "nothing", "text": "Nothing"}, {"id": "boxers", "text": "Underwear"}, {"id": "jeans", "text": "Jeans"}, {"id": "a_nice_shirt", "text": "A nice shirt"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_027
text: Where would you most like your partner to start teasing you?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","location","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"couch","text":"Couch"},{"id":"bed","text":"Bed"},{"id":"shower","text":"Shower"},{"id":"kitchen","text":"Kitchen"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_030
text: What do you want your partner to improve first?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","free_choice","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"foreplay","text":"Foreplay"},{"id":"confidence","text":"Confidence"},{"id":"listening","text":"Listening"},{"id":"timing","text":"Timing"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_033
text: Which oral style do you prefer most?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","oral","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"slow_and_gentle","text":"Slow and gentle"},{"id":"firm_and_focused","text":"Firm and focused"},{"id":"teasing_with_pauses","text":"Teasing with pauses"},{"id":"i_do_not_want_oral","text":"I do not want oral"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_036
text: What hand technique do you prefer?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","manual_touch","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"outside_only","text":"Outside only"},{"id":"inside_only","text":"Inside only"},{"id":"both_together","text":"Both together"},{"id":"no_hand_play","text":"No hand play"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_039
text: Which penetration pace turns you on most?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","penetration","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"slow_and_deep","text":"Slow and deep"},{"id":"fast_and_hard","text":"Fast and hard"},{"id":"rhythm_changes","text":"Rhythm changes"},{"id":"i_prefer_no_penetration","text":"I prefer no penetration"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_042
text: Which position do you want more of?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","positions","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"on_top","text":"On top"},{"id":"missionary","text":"Missionary"},{"id":"from_behind","text":"From behind"},{"id":"side_by_side","text":"Side by side"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_045
text: Which power dynamic interests you most?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","power","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type": "single_choice", "config": {"options": [{"id": "he_leads", "text": "They lead"}, {"id": "i_lead", "text": "I lead"}, {"id": "we_switch", "text": "We switch"}, {"id": "no_power_play", "text": "No power play"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_048
text: What dirty talk style do you prefer?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","dirty_talk","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"romantic","text":"Romantic"},{"id":"filthy","text":"Filthy"},{"id":"commanding","text":"Commanding"},{"id":"none","text":"None"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_051
text: What praise sounds best?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","praise","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"you_are_so_sexy","text":"You are so sexy"},{"id":"you_feel_amazing","text":"You feel amazing"},{"id":"i_want_you_badly","text":"I want you badly"},{"id":"keep_doing_that","text":"Keep doing that"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_054
text: What teasing do you like most?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","teasing","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"slow_undressing","text":"Slow undressing"},{"id":"almost_touching","text":"Almost touching"},{"id":"dirty_whispers","text":"Dirty whispers"},{"id":"kissing_everywhere_first","text":"Kissing everywhere first"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_057
text: What helps you orgasm most often?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","orgasm","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"clitoral_touch","text":"Clitoral touch"},{"id":"oral_sex","text":"Oral sex"},{"id":"penetration","text":"Penetration"},{"id":"mental_build_up","text":"Mental build up"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_060
text: Which toy idea interests you most?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","toys","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"vibrator","text":"Vibrator"},{"id":"couples_toy","text":"Couples toy"},{"id":"restraints","text":"Restraints"},{"id":"no_toys","text":"No toys"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_063
text: What restraint level feels acceptable?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","restraints","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"hands_only","text":"Hands only"},{"id":"soft_cuffs","text":"Soft cuffs"},{"id":"blindfold_only","text":"Blindfold only"},{"id":"none","text":"None"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_066
text: What level of impact sounds best?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","impact","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"none","text":"None"},{"id":"playful_taps","text":"Playful taps"},{"id":"light_spanking","text":"Light spanking"},{"id":"firm_spanking","text":"Firm spanking"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_069
text: Which roleplay vibe interests you most?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","roleplay","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"strangers_flirting","text":"Strangers flirting"},{"id":"bossy_partner","text":"Bossy partner"},{"id":"romantic_fantasy","text":"Romantic fantasy"},{"id":"no_roleplay","text":"No roleplay"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_072
text: What clothing tease works best for you?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","clothing","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type": "single_choice", "config": {"options": [{"id": "lingerie", "text": "Lingerie"}, {"id": "his_shirt", "text": "Partner's shirt"}, {"id": "nothing_under_clothes", "text": "Nothing under clothes"}, {"id": "no_clothing_tease", "text": "No clothing tease"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_075
text: What sexting style do you like?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","sexting","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"sweet_and_suggestive","text":"Sweet and suggestive"},{"id":"graphic_and_direct","text":"Graphic and direct"},{"id":"commanding","text":"Commanding"},{"id":"no_sexting","text":"No sexting"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_078
text: What photo boundary matters most?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","photos","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"no_face","text":"No face"},{"id":"no_saving","text":"No saving"},{"id":"no_sharing_ever","text":"No sharing ever"},{"id":"no_photos","text":"No photos"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_081
text: What public tease is acceptable?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","public_tease","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_dirty_text","text":"A dirty text"},{"id":"a_hand_on_my_thigh","text":"A hand on my thigh"},{"id":"a_whispered_comment","text":"A whispered comment"},{"id":"none","text":"None"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_084
text: Which private location sounds hottest?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","location","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shower","text":"Shower"},{"id":"couch","text":"Couch"},{"id":"kitchen_counter","text":"Kitchen counter"},{"id":"car_parked_privately","text":"Car parked privately"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_087
text: Which fantasy category interests you most?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","fantasy","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"power_play","text":"Power play"},{"id":"voyeur_tease","text":"Voyeur tease"},{"id":"romantic_scenario","text":"Romantic scenario"},{"id":"trying_something_new","text":"Trying something new"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_090
text: What watching dynamic sounds best?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","watching","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type": "single_choice", "config": {"options": [{"id": "he_watches_only", "text": "Partner watches only"}, {"id": "we_touch_ourselves_together", "text": "We touch ourselves together"}, {"id": "he_tells_me_what_to_do", "text": "Partner directs me"}, {"id": "no_watching", "text": "No watching"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_093
text: How do you prefer to teach your partner about your body?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","learning","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type": "single_choice", "config": {"options": [{"id": "show_him", "text": "Show them"}, {"id": "guide_his_hand", "text": "Guide their hand"}, {"id": "tell_him_after", "text": "Tell them after"}, {"id": "use_a_yes_no_maybe_list", "text": "Use a yes no maybe list"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_096
text: Where are you on anal play?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","anal","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"yes","text":"Yes"},{"id":"maybe_with_preparation","text":"Maybe with preparation"},{"id":"curious_but_not_now","text":"Curious but not now"},{"id":"no","text":"No"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_099
text: What finish boundary fits you best?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","cum","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"ask_every_time","text":"Ask every time"},{"id":"pre_agreed_choice","text":"Pre-agreed choice"},{"id":"condom_only","text":"Condom only"},{"id":"do_not_care","text":"Do not care"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_102
text: What protection rule feels best?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","protection","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"condoms_always","text":"Condoms always"},{"id":"condoms_sometimes","text":"Condoms sometimes"},{"id":"testing_first","text":"Testing first"},{"id":"discuss_each_time","text":"Discuss each time"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_105
text: What is your period sex preference?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","period","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"yes","text":"Yes"},{"id":"maybe_with_towels","text":"Maybe with towels"},{"id":"only_nonpenetrative","text":"Only nonpenetrative"},{"id":"no","text":"No"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_108
text: What should your partner do if you seem uncomfortable?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","comfort","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"stop_and_ask","text":"Stop and ask"},{"id":"slow_down","text":"Slow down"},{"id":"switch_activity","text":"Switch activity"},{"id":"give_space","text":"Give space"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_111
text: Which aftercare feels best?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","aftercare","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"hold_me","text":"Hold me"},{"id":"talk_to_me","text":"Talk to me"},{"id":"bring_water","text":"Bring water"},{"id":"let_me_rest","text":"Let me rest"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_114
text: When should feedback happen?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","feedback","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"right_after","text":"Right after"},{"id":"later_that_day","text":"Later that day"},{"id":"next_day","text":"Next day"},{"id":"only_when_needed","text":"Only when needed"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_117
text: Where do you want more kisses?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","kissing","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"mouth","text":"Mouth"},{"id":"neck","text":"Neck"},{"id":"breasts","text":"Breasts"},{"id":"inner_thighs","text":"Inner thighs"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_120
text: What breast play do you prefer?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","breasts","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"soft_touch","text":"Soft touch"},{"id":"mouth","text":"Mouth"},{"id":"firm_touch","text":"Firm touch"},{"id":"none","text":"None"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_123
text: What clitoral pressure usually works best?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","clit","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"barely_there","text":"Barely there"},{"id":"light","text":"Light"},{"id":"firm","text":"Firm"},{"id":"indirect_only","text":"Indirect only"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_126
text: What rough element interests you most?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","roughness","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"hair_pulling","text":"Hair pulling"},{"id":"firm_grip","text":"Firm grip"},{"id":"harder_thrusting","text":"Harder thrusting"},{"id":"none","text":"None"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_129
text: What slow sex focus sounds best?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","slow_sex","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"deep_kissing","text":"Deep kissing"},{"id":"grinding","text":"Grinding"},{"id":"slow_penetration","text":"Slow penetration"},{"id":"full_body_touch","text":"Full body touch"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_132
text: When would a quickie work best?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","quickies","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"morning","text":"Morning"},{"id":"before_going_out","text":"Before going out"},{"id":"after_work","text":"After work"},{"id":"rarely","text":"Rarely"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_135
text: What compliment do you want most?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","body_confidence","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"my_body","text":"My body"},{"id":"my_face","text":"My face"},{"id":"my_voice","text":"My voice"},{"id":"my_sexual_confidence","text":"My sexual confidence"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_138
text: What direct line would work best?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","initiation_style","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"i_want_you_tonight","text":"I want you tonight"},{"id":"come_kiss_me","text":"Come kiss me"},{"id":"i_need_you_close","text":"I need you close"},{"id":"tell_me_what_you_want","text":"Tell me what you want"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_141
text: What should happen after a no?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","rejection","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"cuddle_anyway","text":"Cuddle anyway"},{"id":"give_space","text":"Give space"},{"id":"try_later","text":"Try later"},{"id":"do_something_nonsexual","text":"Do something nonsexual"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_144
text: What list section matters most?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","rules","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"hard_no","text":"Hard no"},{"id":"maybe","text":"Maybe"},{"id":"want_more","text":"Want more"},{"id":"need_to_discuss","text":"Need to discuss"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_147
text: What builds the most sexual trust?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","trust","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"listening","text":"Listening"},{"id":"patience","text":"Patience"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"keeping_promises","text":"Keeping promises"}]}}


id: sexual_preferences_female_150
text: What question should your partner ask first?
category_id: sexual_preferences
type: single_choice
tags: ["sex:female","final_blunt","sexual_preferences"]
status: active
sex: neutral
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"what_do_you_want_tonight","text":"What do you want tonight?"},{"id":"what_is_off_limits","text":"What is off limits?"},{"id":"how_rough_do_you_want_it","text":"How rough do you want it?"},{"id":"do_you_want_me_to_lead","text":"Do you want me to lead?"}]}}


id: stress_148
category_id: stress
type: written
tags: ["protecting_the_relationship_during_hard_seasons","support"]
answer_config: {"type":"written","config":{"min_length":1,"max_length":1000,"placeholder":"Write your answer..."}}
status: active
text:
  What support around protecting the relationship during hard seasons feels helpful instead of controlling?


id: stress_149
category_id: stress
type: written
tags: ["protecting_the_relationship_during_hard_seasons","boundary"]
answer_config: {"type":"written","config":{"min_length":1,"max_length":1000,"placeholder":"Write your answer..."}}
status: active
text:
  What boundary would help us protect each other during protecting the relationship during hard seasons?


id: stress_150
category_id: stress
type: written
tags: ["protecting_the_relationship_during_hard_seasons","repair"]
answer_config: {"type":"written","config":{"min_length":1,"max_length":1000,"placeholder":"Write your answer..."}}
status: active
text:
  What repair do we need after protecting the relationship during hard seasons affects the way we treat each other?


id: stress_151
text: When work stress shows up, what usually helps first?
category_id: stress
type: single_choice
tags: ["work_stress","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"},{"id":"practical_help","text":"Practical help"},{"id":"quiet_space","text":"Quiet space"},{"id":"encouragement","text":"Encouragement"}]}}


id: stress_152
text: What kind of help feels best during feeling overwhelmed?
category_id: stress
type: single_choice
tags: ["feeling_overwhelmed","help"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_hug","text":"A hug"},{"id":"a_plan","text":"A plan"},{"id":"a_break","text":"A break"},{"id":"a_check_in","text":"A check-in"}]}}


id: stress_153
text: How should we handle a serious talk when needing rest is high?
category_id: stress
type: single_choice
tags: ["needing_rest","timing"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"talk_now","text":"Talk now"},{"id":"talk_later","text":"Talk later"},{"id":"write_it_down","text":"Write it down"},{"id":"do_something_calming","text":"Do something calming"}]}}


id: stress_154
text: What do you need me to do less when asking for help is present?
category_id: stress
type: single_choice
tags: ["asking_for_help","less"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"listen","text":"Listen"},{"id":"help_decide","text":"Help decide"},{"id":"take_a_task","text":"Take a task"},{"id":"give_reassurance","text":"Give reassurance"}]}}


id: stress_155
text: What reset helps after low energy days?
category_id: stress
type: single_choice
tags: ["low_energy_days","reset"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"},{"id":"movement","text":"Movement"},{"id":"food","text":"Food"},{"id":"less_noise","text":"Less noise"}]}}


id: stress_156
text: What should be our first move when mental load affects us?
category_id: stress
type: single_choice
tags: ["mental_load","first_move"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"name_it_early","text":"Name it early"},{"id":"pause_conflict","text":"Pause conflict"},{"id":"lower_expectations","text":"Lower expectations"},{"id":"ask_for_help","text":"Ask for help"}]}}


id: stress_191
text: Which signs tell you work stress is affecting you?
category_id: stress
type: multi_choice
tags: ["work_stress","signs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"},{"id":"practical_help","text":"Practical help"},{"id":"quiet_space","text":"Quiet space"},{"id":"encouragement","text":"Encouragement"}]}}


id: stress_192
text: Which supports help when feeling overwhelmed is high?
category_id: stress
type: multi_choice
tags: ["feeling_overwhelmed","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_hug","text":"A hug"},{"id":"a_plan","text":"A plan"},{"id":"a_break","text":"A break"},{"id":"a_check_in","text":"A check-in"}]}}


id: stress_193
text: What should we protect when needing rest is high?
category_id: stress
type: multi_choice
tags: ["needing_rest","protect"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"talk_now","text":"Talk now"},{"id":"talk_later","text":"Talk later"},{"id":"write_it_down","text":"Write it down"},{"id":"do_something_calming","text":"Do something calming"}]}}


id: stress_194
text: Which habits make asking for help worse between us?
category_id: stress
type: multi_choice
tags: ["asking_for_help","worse"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"listen","text":"Listen"},{"id":"help_decide","text":"Help decide"},{"id":"take_a_task","text":"Take a task"},{"id":"give_reassurance","text":"Give reassurance"}]}}


id: stress_195
text: Which signs tell you low energy days is affecting you?
category_id: stress
type: multi_choice
tags: ["low_energy_days","signs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"},{"id":"movement","text":"Movement"},{"id":"food","text":"Food"},{"id":"less_noise","text":"Less noise"}]}}


id: stress_196
text: Which supports help when mental load is high?
category_id: stress
type: multi_choice
tags: ["mental_load","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"name_it_early","text":"Name it early"},{"id":"pause_conflict","text":"Pause conflict"},{"id":"lower_expectations","text":"Lower expectations"},{"id":"ask_for_help","text":"Ask for help"}]}}


id: stress_211
text: How much has work stress affected us lately?
category_id: stress
type: scale
tags: ["work_stress","impact"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not at all","max_label":"Very much"}}


id: stress_212
text: How supported do you feel around feeling overwhelmed?
category_id: stress
type: scale
tags: ["feeling_overwhelmed","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Unsupported","max_label":"Very supported"}}


id: stress_213
text: How well do we talk when needing rest is high?
category_id: stress
type: scale
tags: ["needing_rest","communication"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Poorly","max_label":"Very well"}}


id: stress_214
text: How much recovery time do you need after asking for help?
category_id: stress
type: scale
tags: ["asking_for_help","recovery"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Low urgency","max_label":"High urgency"}}


id: stress_236
text: When work stress is high, what helps more?
category_id: stress
type: this_or_that
tags: ["work_stress","support_style"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"},"optionB":{"id":"solutions","text":"Solutions"}}}


id: stress_238
text: When needing rest affects us, what should we prioritize?
category_id: stress
type: this_or_that
tags: ["needing_rest","priority"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"talk_now","text":"Talk now"},"optionB":{"id":"talk_later","text":"Talk later"}}}


id: stress_239
text: When asking for help is high, what helps more?
category_id: stress
type: this_or_that
tags: ["asking_for_help","support_style"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"lower_expectations","text":"Lower expectations"},"optionB":{"id":"push_through","text":"Push through"}}}


id: stress_240
text: For low energy days, what do you usually need first?
category_id: stress
type: this_or_that
tags: ["low_energy_days","need"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"practical_help","text":"Practical help"},"optionB":{"id":"emotional_support","text":"Emotional support"}}}


id: stress_241
text: When mental load affects us, what should we prioritize?
category_id: stress
type: this_or_that
tags: ["mental_load","priority"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"routine","text":"Routine"},"optionB":{"id":"flexibility","text":"Flexibility"}}}


id: stress_242
text: When unexpected problems is high, what helps more?
category_id: stress
type: this_or_that
tags: ["unexpected_problems","support_style"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"quiet","text":"Quiet"},"optionB":{"id":"distraction","text":"Distraction"}}}


id: stress_243
text: For sleep and mood, what do you usually need first?
category_id: stress
type: this_or_that
tags: ["sleep_and_mood","need"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"rest_first","text":"Rest first"},"optionB":{"id":"plan_first","text":"Plan first"}}}


id: home_life_151
text: What home-life support helps you most after a long day?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["support","rest"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"help_with_a_task","text":"Help with a task"},{"id":"quiet_time","text":"Quiet time"},{"id":"a_warm_greeting","text":"A warm greeting"},{"id":"no_decisions_for_a_bit","text":"No decisions for a bit"}]}}


id: home_life_152
text: Which household task drains you fastest?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["chores","energy"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"cleaning","text":"Cleaning"},{"id":"cooking","text":"Cooking"},{"id":"planning","text":"Planning"},{"id":"errands","text":"Errands"}]}}


id: home_life_153
text: What makes home feel calmest to you?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["space","calm"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"clean_surfaces","text":"Clean surfaces"},{"id":"soft_lighting","text":"Soft lighting"},{"id":"low_noise","text":"Low noise"},{"id":"a_predictable_routine","text":"A predictable routine"}]}}


id: home_life_154
text: When chores pile up, what helps first?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["chores","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"make_a_list","text":"Make a list"},{"id":"pick_one_task","text":"Pick one task"},{"id":"divide_tasks","text":"Divide tasks"},{"id":"take_a_short_reset","text":"Take a short reset"}]}}


id: home_life_155
text: What part of hosting is hardest for you?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["hosting"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"preparing","text":"Preparing"},{"id":"cleaning","text":"Cleaning"},{"id":"social_energy","text":"Social energy"},{"id":"recovering_afterward","text":"Recovering afterward"}]}}


id: home_life_156
text: Which routine would help us most right now?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["routines"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"morning_reset","text":"Morning reset"},{"id":"evening_reset","text":"Evening reset"},{"id":"weekly_planning","text":"Weekly planning"},{"id":"meal_planning","text":"Meal planning"}]}}


id: home_life_157
text: What household role do you prefer?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["roles","teamwork"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"planner","text":"Planner"},{"id":"doer","text":"Doer"},{"id":"finisher","text":"Finisher"},{"id":"flexible_helper","text":"Flexible helper"}]}}


id: home_life_158
text: What kind of home purchase should we discuss first?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["money","decisions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"anything_expensive","text":"Anything expensive"},{"id":"anything_visible","text":"Anything visible"},{"id":"anything_recurring","text":"Anything recurring"},{"id":"anything_that_affects_space","text":"Anything that affects space"}]}}


id: home_life_159
text: How do you prefer to handle mess?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["clutter","chores"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"clean_as_we_go","text":"Clean as we go"},{"id":"batch_clean","text":"Batch clean"},{"id":"set_a_timer","text":"Set a timer"},{"id":"ignore_small_messes","text":"Ignore small messes"}]}}


id: home_life_160
text: What helps you feel appreciated at home?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["appreciation"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_thank_you","text":"A thank-you"},{"id":"help_without_asking","text":"Help without asking"},{"id":"noticing_details","text":"Noticing details"},{"id":"taking_over_a_task","text":"Taking over a task"}]}}


id: home_life_161
text: Which home-life issue causes the most tension?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["tension","home"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"chores","text":"Chores"},{"id":"time","text":"Time"},{"id":"noise","text":"Noise"},{"id":"planning","text":"Planning"}]}}


id: home_life_162
text: What do you need most from shared evenings?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["evening","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"connection","text":"Connection"},{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"},{"id":"productivity","text":"Productivity"},{"id":"flexibility","text":"Flexibility"}]}}


id: home_life_163
text: What makes weekends feel best at home?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["weekends"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"plans","text":"Plans"},{"id":"no_plans","text":"No plans"},{"id":"projects","text":"Projects"},{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"}]}}


id: home_life_164
text: What makes weekdays feel smoother?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["weekdays","routines"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"prepared_meals","text":"Prepared meals"},{"id":"clear_schedules","text":"Clear schedules"},{"id":"clean_basics","text":"Clean basics"},{"id":"earlier_sleep","text":"Earlier sleep"}]}}


id: home_life_165
text: How should we handle chores during stressful weeks?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["stress","chores"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"lower_standards","text":"Lower standards"},{"id":"divide_essentials","text":"Divide essentials"},{"id":"ask_for_help","text":"Ask for help"},{"id":"pay_for_help_if_possible","text":"Pay for help if possible"}]}}


id: home_life_166
text: Which task needs a clear owner?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["ownership"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"laundry","text":"Laundry"},{"id":"dishes","text":"Dishes"},{"id":"groceries","text":"Groceries"},{"id":"bills","text":"Bills"}]}}


id: home_life_167
text: What helps you reset after a home-life argument?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"apology","text":"Apology"},{"id":"quiet_time","text":"Quiet time"},{"id":"a_plan","text":"A plan"},{"id":"a_hug","text":"A hug"}]}}


id: home_life_168
text: What kind of alone time feels best at home?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["privacy","rest"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"quiet_room","text":"Quiet room"},{"id":"walk_outside","text":"Walk outside"},{"id":"headphones","text":"Headphones"},{"id":"creative_time","text":"Creative time"}]}}


id: home_life_169
text: What makes a shared space feel respectful?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["space","respect"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"asking_first","text":"Asking first"},{"id":"cleaning_up","text":"Cleaning up"},{"id":"sharing_storage","text":"Sharing storage"},{"id":"considering_noise","text":"Considering noise"}]}}


id: home_life_170
text: What household task should we simplify?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["simplify"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"meals","text":"Meals"},{"id":"cleaning","text":"Cleaning"},{"id":"laundry","text":"Laundry"},{"id":"scheduling","text":"Scheduling"}]}}


id: home_life_171
text: What stresses you most about home admin?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["admin","stress"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"deadlines","text":"Deadlines"},{"id":"passwords","text":"Passwords"},{"id":"bills","text":"Bills"},{"id":"paperwork","text":"Paperwork"}]}}


id: home_life_172
text: What kind of reminder feels least annoying?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["reminders"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_list","text":"Shared list"},{"id":"calendar_alert","text":"Calendar alert"},{"id":"quick_verbal_reminder","text":"Quick verbal reminder"},{"id":"no_reminder_clear_ownership","text":"No reminder, clear ownership"}]}}


id: home_life_173
text: Which area needs a better system?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["systems","space"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"kitchen","text":"Kitchen"},{"id":"bedroom","text":"Bedroom"},{"id":"bathroom","text":"Bathroom"},{"id":"entryway","text":"Entryway"}]}}


id: home_life_174
text: What do you want more of at home?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["home","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"peace","text":"Peace"},{"id":"playfulness","text":"Playfulness"},{"id":"order","text":"Order"},{"id":"warmth","text":"Warmth"}]}}


id: home_life_175
text: What do you want less of at home?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["home","stress"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"noise","text":"Noise"},{"id":"clutter","text":"Clutter"},{"id":"rushing","text":"Rushing"},{"id":"unspoken_expectations","text":"Unspoken expectations"}]}}


id: home_life_176
text: How should we decide what clean enough means?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["standards"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"set_shared_basics","text":"Set shared basics"},{"id":"divide_by_preference","text":"Divide by preference"},{"id":"use_a_schedule","text":"Use a schedule"},{"id":"let_it_vary_by_week","text":"Let it vary by week"}]}}


id: home_life_177
text: What is easiest for you to own fully?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["ownership"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_daily_task","text":"A daily task"},{"id":"a_weekly_task","text":"A weekly task"},{"id":"a_monthly_task","text":"A monthly task"},{"id":"a_planning_task","text":"A planning task"}]}}


id: home_life_179
text: What makes home feel emotionally safe?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"kind_tone","text":"Kind tone"},{"id":"clear_expectations","text":"Clear expectations"},{"id":"room_to_rest","text":"Room to rest"},{"id":"no_scorekeeping","text":"No scorekeeping"}]}}


id: home_life_180
text: What makes home feel emotionally tense?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["tension"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"criticism","text":"Criticism"},{"id":"unfinished_tasks","text":"Unfinished tasks"},{"id":"silence","text":"Silence"},{"id":"rushed_decisions","text":"Rushed decisions"}]}}


id: home_life_181
text: What should we protect on busy nights?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["busy_weeks"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"dinner","text":"Dinner"},{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"},{"id":"a_short_check_in","text":"A short check-in"},{"id":"sleep","text":"Sleep"}]}}


id: home_life_182
text: What should we drop on busy nights?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["busy_weeks"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"perfect_cleaning","text":"Perfect cleaning"},{"id":"big_talks","text":"Big talks"},{"id":"extra_errands","text":"Extra errands"},{"id":"complicated_cooking","text":"Complicated cooking"}]}}


id: home_life_183
text: What helps you feel like we are a team?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["teamwork"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_planning","text":"Shared planning"},{"id":"shared_tasks","text":"Shared tasks"},{"id":"shared_rest","text":"Shared rest"},{"id":"shared_appreciation","text":"Shared appreciation"}]}}


id: home_life_184
text: What makes you feel like you are carrying too much?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["mental_load"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"remembering_everything","text":"Remembering everything"},{"id":"doing_everything","text":"Doing everything"},{"id":"deciding_everything","text":"Deciding everything"},{"id":"asking_repeatedly","text":"Asking repeatedly"}]}}


id: home_life_185
text: What home-life agreement would help most?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["agreements"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"chore_ownership","text":"Chore ownership"},{"id":"quiet_hours","text":"Quiet hours"},{"id":"meal_plan","text":"Meal plan"},{"id":"spending_limit","text":"Spending limit"}]}}


id: home_life_186
text: How should we handle different cleaning standards?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["standards"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"minimum_baseline","text":"Minimum baseline"},{"id":"separate_areas","text":"Separate areas"},{"id":"task_ownership","text":"Task ownership"},{"id":"scheduled_reset","text":"Scheduled reset"}]}}


id: home_life_187
text: What gives you the most comfort at home?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["comfort"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"order","text":"Order"},{"id":"softness","text":"Softness"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"togetherness","text":"Togetherness"}]}}


id: home_life_188
text: What creates the most friction at home?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["friction"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"mess","text":"Mess"},{"id":"timing","text":"Timing"},{"id":"noise","text":"Noise"},{"id":"unclear_expectations","text":"Unclear expectations"}]}}


id: home_life_189
text: What makes a chore feel fair?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["fairness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_effort","text":"Shared effort"},{"id":"clear_ownership","text":"Clear ownership"},{"id":"recognition","text":"Recognition"},{"id":"flexibility","text":"Flexibility"}]}}


id: home_life_190
text: What makes a chore feel unfair?
category_id: home_life
type: single_choice
tags: ["fairness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"being_invisible","text":"Being invisible"},{"id":"repeating_reminders","text":"Repeating reminders"},{"id":"no_thanks","text":"No thanks"},{"id":"unequal_time","text":"Unequal time"}]}}


id: home_life_191
text: Which parts of home life should we plan together?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"meals","text":"Meals"},{"id":"chores","text":"Chores"},{"id":"bills","text":"Bills"},{"id":"guests","text":"Guests"},{"id":"weekends","text":"Weekends"},{"id":"errands","text":"Errands"}]}}


id: home_life_192
text: Which tasks feel most invisible?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["mental_load"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"scheduling","text":"Scheduling"},{"id":"remembering_supplies","text":"Remembering supplies"},{"id":"cleaning_small_messes","text":"Cleaning small messes"},{"id":"tracking_bills","text":"Tracking bills"},{"id":"planning_meals","text":"Planning meals"},{"id":"managing_guests","text":"Managing guests"}]}}


id: home_life_193
text: What helps home feel more peaceful?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["peace"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"less_clutter","text":"Less clutter"},{"id":"clear_routines","text":"Clear routines"},{"id":"kind_tone","text":"Kind tone"},{"id":"better_sleep","text":"Better sleep"},{"id":"shared_tasks","text":"Shared tasks"},{"id":"more_quiet","text":"More quiet"}]}}


id: home_life_194
text: Which chores should have clearer ownership?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["chores"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"dishes","text":"Dishes"},{"id":"laundry","text":"Laundry"},{"id":"trash","text":"Trash"},{"id":"groceries","text":"Groceries"},{"id":"bathrooms","text":"Bathrooms"},{"id":"floors","text":"Floors"}]}}


id: home_life_195
text: What should we discuss before hosting?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["hosting"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"guest_list","text":"Guest list"},{"id":"food","text":"Food"},{"id":"cleaning","text":"Cleaning"},{"id":"timing","text":"Timing"},{"id":"budget","text":"Budget"},{"id":"recovery_time","text":"Recovery time"}]}}


id: home_life_196
text: What home boundaries matter most?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"alone_time","text":"Alone time"},{"id":"noise","text":"Noise"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"guests","text":"Guests"},{"id":"work_hours","text":"Work hours"},{"id":"shared_spaces","text":"Shared spaces"}]}}


id: home_life_197
text: What makes busy weeks easier?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["stress","busy_weeks"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"meal_shortcuts","text":"Meal shortcuts"},{"id":"lower_standards","text":"Lower standards"},{"id":"shared_calendar","text":"Shared calendar"},{"id":"task_list","text":"Task list"},{"id":"earlier_bedtime","text":"Earlier bedtime"},{"id":"fewer_plans","text":"Fewer plans"}]}}


id: home_life_198
text: Which home-life habits should we build?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["habits"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"weekly_reset","text":"Weekly reset"},{"id":"nightly_cleanup","text":"Nightly cleanup"},{"id":"shared_planning","text":"Shared planning"},{"id":"meal_prep","text":"Meal prep"},{"id":"budget_review","text":"Budget review"},{"id":"tech_free_time","text":"Tech-free time"}]}}


id: home_life_199
text: What do you want more appreciation for?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["appreciation"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"planning","text":"Planning"},{"id":"cleaning","text":"Cleaning"},{"id":"earning","text":"Earning"},{"id":"cooking","text":"Cooking"},{"id":"emotional_labor","text":"Emotional labor"},{"id":"fixing_problems","text":"Fixing problems"}]}}


id: home_life_200
text: What makes shared space feel respectful?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["respect","space"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"asking_first","text":"Asking first"},{"id":"cleaning_up","text":"Cleaning up"},{"id":"lower_noise","text":"Lower noise"},{"id":"shared_storage","text":"Shared storage"},{"id":"private_corners","text":"Private corners"},{"id":"clear_labels","text":"Clear labels"}]}}


id: home_life_201
text: What home admin should we simplify?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["admin"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"bills","text":"Bills"},{"id":"subscriptions","text":"Subscriptions"},{"id":"appointments","text":"Appointments"},{"id":"documents","text":"Documents"},{"id":"repairs","text":"Repairs"},{"id":"passwords","text":"Passwords"}]}}


id: home_life_202
text: Which routines need a reset?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["routines"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"morning","text":"Morning"},{"id":"evening","text":"Evening"},{"id":"weekend","text":"Weekend"},{"id":"meal","text":"Meal"},{"id":"laundry","text":"Laundry"},{"id":"cleaning","text":"Cleaning"}]}}


id: home_life_203
text: What should be okay during hard weeks?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["capacity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"messier_house","text":"Messier house"},{"id":"simple_meals","text":"Simple meals"},{"id":"more_rest","text":"More rest"},{"id":"fewer_errands","text":"Fewer errands"},{"id":"delayed_projects","text":"Delayed projects"},{"id":"asking_for_help","text":"Asking for help"}]}}


id: home_life_204
text: What should we stop assuming?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["assumptions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"who_cooks","text":"Who cooks"},{"id":"who_cleans","text":"Who cleans"},{"id":"who_pays","text":"Who pays"},{"id":"who_plans","text":"Who plans"},{"id":"who_hosts","text":"Who hosts"},{"id":"who_remembers","text":"Who remembers"}]}}


id: home_life_205
text: What makes home feel warm?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["comfort"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"music","text":"Music"},{"id":"food","text":"Food"},{"id":"touch","text":"Touch"},{"id":"lighting","text":"Lighting"},{"id":"shared_laughs","text":"Shared laughs"},{"id":"clean_basics","text":"Clean basics"}]}}


id: home_life_206
text: Which decisions should be shared?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["decisions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"furniture","text":"Furniture"},{"id":"guests","text":"Guests"},{"id":"pets","text":"Pets"},{"id":"repairs","text":"Repairs"},{"id":"large_purchases","text":"Large purchases"},{"id":"schedule_changes","text":"Schedule changes"}]}}


id: home_life_207
text: What can we outsource or reduce if possible?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"cleaning","text":"Cleaning"},{"id":"repairs","text":"Repairs"},{"id":"meal_prep","text":"Meal prep"},{"id":"errands","text":"Errands"},{"id":"admin","text":"Admin"},{"id":"pet_care","text":"Pet care"}]}}


id: home_life_208
text: Which standards need compromise?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["standards"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"cleanliness","text":"Cleanliness"},{"id":"noise","text":"Noise"},{"id":"decor","text":"Decor"},{"id":"guests","text":"Guests"},{"id":"spending","text":"Spending"},{"id":"schedules","text":"Schedules"}]}}


id: home_life_209
text: What helps you recover after hosting or chores?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["recovery"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"quiet","text":"Quiet"},{"id":"praise","text":"Praise"},{"id":"a_break","text":"A break"},{"id":"help_finishing","text":"Help finishing"},{"id":"food","text":"Food"},{"id":"no_more_decisions","text":"No more decisions"}]}}


id: home_life_210
text: What should our home protect?
category_id: home_life
type: multi_choice
tags: ["values","home"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"},{"id":"connection","text":"Connection"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"play","text":"Play"},{"id":"focus","text":"Focus"},{"id":"safety","text":"Safety"}]}}


id: home_life_211
text: How fair does our division of household work feel right now?
category_id: home_life
type: scale
tags: ["fairness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Very unfair","max_label":"Very fair"}}


id: home_life_212
text: How seen do you feel for the work you do at home?
category_id: home_life
type: scale
tags: ["appreciation"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not seen","max_label":"Very seen"}}


id: home_life_213
text: How peaceful does our home feel lately?
category_id: home_life
type: scale
tags: ["peace"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Very tense","max_label":"Very peaceful"}}


id: home_life_214
text: How clear are our household expectations?
category_id: home_life
type: scale
tags: ["expectations"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Very unclear","max_label":"Very clear"}}


id: home_life_215
text: How shared does the mental load feel?
category_id: home_life
type: scale
tags: ["mental_load"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not shared","max_label":"Very shared"}}


id: home_life_218
text: How respected do you feel in our shared space?
category_id: home_life
type: scale
tags: ["space"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not respected","max_label":"Very respected"}}


id: home_life_219
text: How well do we protect rest at home?
category_id: home_life
type: scale
tags: ["rest"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not well","max_label":"Very well"}}


id: home_life_221
text: How much clutter stress do you feel lately?
category_id: home_life
type: scale
tags: ["clutter"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"None","max_label":"A lot"}}


id: home_life_224
text: How much do you enjoy our shared home time?
category_id: home_life
type: scale
tags: ["connection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not much","max_label":"Very much"}}


id: home_life_225
text: How supported do you feel when you are overloaded?
category_id: home_life
type: scale
tags: ["support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not supported","max_label":"Very supported"}}


id: home_life_227
text: How balanced are planning and doing in our home?
category_id: home_life
type: scale
tags: ["planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Unbalanced","max_label":"Balanced"}}


id: home_life_228
text: How easy is it to talk about chores with me?
category_id: home_life
type: scale
tags: ["communication"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Very hard","max_label":"Very easy"}}


id: home_life_230
text: How prepared do we feel for unexpected home issues?
category_id: home_life
type: scale
tags: ["preparedness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not prepared","max_label":"Very prepared"}}


id: home_life_233
text: How much warmth do you feel at home lately?
category_id: home_life
type: scale
tags: ["warmth"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Very little","max_label":"A lot"}}


id: home_life_235
text: How satisfied are you with our home life this week?
category_id: home_life
type: scale
tags: ["satisfaction"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not satisfied","max_label":"Very satisfied"}}


id: home_life_236
text: For a hard week at home, which helps more?
category_id: home_life
type: this_or_that
tags: ["stress"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"lower_standards","text":"Lower standards"},"optionB":{"id":"more_structure","text":"More structure"}}}


id: home_life_237
text: For chores, which feels better?
category_id: home_life
type: this_or_that
tags: ["chores"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"clear_ownership","text":"Clear ownership"},"optionB":{"id":"flexible_teamwork","text":"Flexible teamwork"}}}


id: home_life_238
text: For evenings, which do you need more?
category_id: home_life
type: this_or_that
tags: ["evening"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"quiet_rest","text":"Quiet rest"},"optionB":{"id":"shared_connection","text":"Shared connection"}}}


id: home_life_239
text: For weekends, which sounds better?
category_id: home_life
type: this_or_that
tags: ["weekends"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"home_reset","text":"Home reset"},"optionB":{"id":"home_relaxation","text":"Home relaxation"}}}


id: home_life_240
text: When something is messy, which helps more?
category_id: home_life
type: this_or_that
tags: ["clutter"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"fix_it_now","text":"Fix it now"},"optionB":{"id":"schedule_it_later","text":"Schedule it later"}}}


id: home_life_241
text: For meal planning, which fits us better?
category_id: home_life
type: this_or_that
tags: ["food"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"plan_ahead","text":"Plan ahead"},"optionB":{"id":"decide_daily","text":"Decide daily"}}}


id: home_life_242
text: For shared space, which matters more?
category_id: home_life
type: this_or_that
tags: ["space"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"},"optionB":{"id":"order","text":"Order"}}}


id: home_life_243
text: For hosting, which do you prefer?
category_id: home_life
type: this_or_that
tags: ["hosting"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"small_and_simple","text":"Small and simple"},"optionB":{"id":"planned_and_polished","text":"Planned and polished"}}}


id: home_life_244
text: For reminders, which feels better?
category_id: home_life
type: this_or_that
tags: ["reminders"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"shared_app_list","text":"Shared app list"},"optionB":{"id":"quick_spoken_ask","text":"Quick spoken ask"}}}


id: home_life_245
text: For household decisions, which helps more?
category_id: home_life
type: this_or_that
tags: ["decisions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"talk_first","text":"Talk first"},"optionB":{"id":"try_and_adjust","text":"Try and adjust"}}}


id: home_life_246
text: For downtime, which do you need more?
category_id: home_life
type: this_or_that
tags: ["rest"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"alone_time","text":"Alone time"},"optionB":{"id":"together_time","text":"Together time"}}}


id: home_life_247
text: For home projects, which matters more?
category_id: home_life
type: this_or_that
tags: ["projects"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"finish_fast","text":"Finish fast"},"optionB":{"id":"do_it_calmly","text":"Do it calmly"}}}


id: home_life_248
text: For routines, which fits us better?
category_id: home_life
type: this_or_that
tags: ["routines"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"same_rhythm_daily","text":"Same rhythm daily"},"optionB":{"id":"flexible_rhythm","text":"Flexible rhythm"}}}


id: home_life_249
text: For fairness, which matters more?
category_id: home_life
type: this_or_that
tags: ["fairness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"equal_tasks","text":"Equal tasks"},"optionB":{"id":"equal_rest","text":"Equal rest"}}}


id: home_life_250
text: For home life, which should we protect first?
category_id: home_life
type: this_or_that
tags: ["values"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"peace","text":"Peace"},"optionB":{"id":"play","text":"Play"}}}


id: future_151
text: What future topic feels most important right now?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["priority","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"home","text":"Home"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"career","text":"Career"}]}}


id: future_152
text: How do you prefer to plan our future?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["planning","style"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"detailed_plans","text":"Detailed plans"},{"id":"loose_direction","text":"Loose direction"},{"id":"one_step_at_a_time","text":"One step at a time"},{"id":"talk_only_when_needed","text":"Talk only when needed"}]}}


id: future_153
text: What timeline feels most comfortable for big decisions?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["timeline","decisions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"soon","text":"Soon"},{"id":"within_a_year","text":"Within a year"},{"id":"in_a_few_years","text":"In a few years"},{"id":"no_fixed_timeline","text":"No fixed timeline"}]}}


id: future_154
text: What makes future talks feel safe?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["safety","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"patience","text":"Patience"},{"id":"no_pressure","text":"No pressure"},{"id":"clear_next_steps","text":"Clear next steps"}]}}


id: future_155
text: What makes future talks feel stressful?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["stress","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"pressure","text":"Pressure"},{"id":"uncertainty","text":"Uncertainty"},{"id":"different_timelines","text":"Different timelines"},{"id":"money_worries","text":"Money worries"}]}}


id: future_156
text: Which future area needs more clarity?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["clarity","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"commitment","text":"Commitment"},{"id":"living_situation","text":"Living situation"},{"id":"family_plans","text":"Family plans"},{"id":"career_plans","text":"Career plans"}]}}


id: future_157
text: What kind of goal should we set next?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["goals","next"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"financial","text":"Financial"},{"id":"relationship","text":"Relationship"},{"id":"health","text":"Health"},{"id":"adventure","text":"Adventure"}]}}


id: future_158
text: What does commitment look like most to you?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["commitment","meaning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"shared_decisions","text":"Shared decisions"},{"id":"long_term_planning","text":"Long-term planning"},{"id":"showing_up_in_hard_times","text":"Showing up in hard times"}]}}


id: future_159
text: What future choice should we discuss before assuming?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["assumptions","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"where_to_live","text":"Where to live"},{"id":"marriage","text":"Marriage"},{"id":"kids_or_family","text":"Kids or family"},{"id":"money_priorities","text":"Money priorities"}]}}


id: future_160
text: What helps you feel hopeful about us?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["hope","relationship"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_effort","text":"Shared effort"},{"id":"good_communication","text":"Good communication"},{"id":"aligned_values","text":"Aligned values"},{"id":"seeing_growth","text":"Seeing growth"}]}}


id: future_161
text: What makes you feel uncertain about the future?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["uncertainty","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"different_goals","text":"Different goals"},{"id":"timing","text":"Timing"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"conflict_patterns","text":"Conflict patterns"}]}}


id: future_162
text: What pace feels best for future planning?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["pace","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"slow_and_steady","text":"Slow and steady"},{"id":"structured_and_regular","text":"Structured and regular"},{"id":"only_as_needed","text":"Only as needed"},{"id":"more_direct_and_soon","text":"More direct and soon"}]}}


id: future_163
text: What should we revisit every few months?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["checkin","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"goals","text":"Goals"},{"id":"finances","text":"Finances"},{"id":"living_plans","text":"Living plans"},{"id":"emotional_connection","text":"Emotional connection"}]}}


id: future_164
text: What kind of future memory do you want us to make?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["memory","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"travel","text":"Travel"},{"id":"home_moments","text":"Home moments"},{"id":"family_moments","text":"Family moments"},{"id":"big_achievement","text":"Big achievement"}]}}


id: future_165
text: What do you want our future home to feel like?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["home","feeling"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"peaceful","text":"Peaceful"},{"id":"playful","text":"Playful"},{"id":"cozy","text":"Cozy"},{"id":"purposeful","text":"Purposeful"}]}}


id: future_166
text: Which value should guide our future decisions?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["values","decisions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"stability","text":"Stability"},{"id":"adventure","text":"Adventure"},{"id":"care","text":"Care"}]}}


id: future_167
text: What future pressure do you want us to resist?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["pressure","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"comparison","text":"Comparison"},{"id":"rushing","text":"Rushing"},{"id":"perfection","text":"Perfection"},{"id":"other_peoples_expectations","text":"Other peoples expectations"}]}}


id: future_168
text: What would make long-term planning more romantic?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["romance","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"dreaming_together","text":"Dreaming together"},{"id":"small_rituals","text":"Small rituals"},{"id":"shared_savings_goals","text":"Shared savings goals"},{"id":"celebrating_milestones","text":"Celebrating milestones"}]}}


id: future_169
text: What future conversation should we make lighter?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["lightness","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"commitment","text":"Commitment"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"home_plans","text":"Home plans"}]}}


id: future_170
text: What future conversation should we take more seriously?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["serious","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"commitment","text":"Commitment"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"health","text":"Health"}]}}


id: future_171
text: What kind of support will matter most in future stress?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["support","stress"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"emotional_support","text":"Emotional support"},{"id":"practical_help","text":"Practical help"},{"id":"patience","text":"Patience"},{"id":"team_planning","text":"Team planning"}]}}


id: future_172
text: What future dream feels most alive for you?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["dreams","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_home","text":"A home"},{"id":"travel","text":"Travel"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"creative_work","text":"Creative work"}]}}


id: future_173
text: What future fear feels most real?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["fears","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"losing_closeness","text":"Losing closeness"},{"id":"financial_stress","text":"Financial stress"},{"id":"different_timelines","text":"Different timelines"},{"id":"unexpected_hardship","text":"Unexpected hardship"}]}}


id: future_174
text: What kind of tradition should we build?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["traditions","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"weekly","text":"Weekly"},{"id":"monthly","text":"Monthly"},{"id":"holiday","text":"Holiday"},{"id":"anniversary","text":"Anniversary"}]}}


id: future_175
text: What role should adventure play in our future?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["adventure","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_big_role","text":"A big role"},{"id":"a_small_role","text":"A small role"},{"id":"only_sometimes","text":"Only sometimes"},{"id":"more_than_now","text":"More than now"}]}}


id: future_176
text: What role should stability play in our future?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["stability","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_big_role","text":"A big role"},{"id":"a_small_role","text":"A small role"},{"id":"only_in_key_areas","text":"Only in key areas"},{"id":"more_than_now","text":"More than now"}]}}


id: future_177
text: What should we save for first?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["saving","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"emergency_fund","text":"Emergency fund"},{"id":"travel","text":"Travel"},{"id":"home","text":"Home"},{"id":"shared_experience","text":"Shared experience"}]}}


id: future_178
text: What kind of life pace do you want later?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["pace","life"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"calm","text":"Calm"},{"id":"busy_and_ambitious","text":"Busy and ambitious"},{"id":"flexible","text":"Flexible"},{"id":"seasonal","text":"Seasonal"}]}}


id: future_179
text: Which future skill should we build as a couple?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["skills","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"planning","text":"Planning"},{"id":"repairing_conflict","text":"Repairing conflict"},{"id":"saving_money","text":"Saving money"},{"id":"handling_stress","text":"Handling stress"}]}}


id: future_180
text: What big decision needs more patience?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["patience","decisions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"commitment_step","text":"Commitment step"},{"id":"moving","text":"Moving"},{"id":"money_decision","text":"Money decision"},{"id":"family_decision","text":"Family decision"}]}}


id: future_181
text: What big decision needs more courage?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["courage","decisions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"commitment_step","text":"Commitment step"},{"id":"career_shift","text":"Career shift"},{"id":"relocation","text":"Relocation"},{"id":"honest_conversation","text":"Honest conversation"}]}}


id: future_182
text: What does success together mean most?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["success","meaning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"peace","text":"Peace"},{"id":"growth","text":"Growth"},{"id":"security","text":"Security"},{"id":"joy","text":"Joy"}]}}


id: future_183
text: What should we prioritize when life gets busy?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["priority","busy"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"connection","text":"Connection"},{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"},{"id":"money_goals","text":"Money goals"},{"id":"family_time","text":"Family time"}]}}


id: future_184
text: What would make you feel chosen in our future?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["chosen","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_plans","text":"Shared plans"},{"id":"public_commitment","text":"Public commitment"},{"id":"daily_effort","text":"Daily effort"},{"id":"protecting_us","text":"Protecting us"}]}}


id: future_185
text: What would make future talks feel less pressured?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["pressure","talks"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"no_deadlines","text":"No deadlines"},{"id":"more_information","text":"More information"},{"id":"gentler_tone","text":"Gentler tone"},{"id":"small_steps","text":"Small steps"}]}}


id: future_186
text: What future promise matters most?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["promise","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"keep_choosing_each_other","text":"Keep choosing each other"},{"id":"tell_the_truth","text":"Tell the truth"},{"id":"repair_quickly","text":"Repair quickly"},{"id":"face_hard_things_together","text":"Face hard things together"}]}}


id: future_187
text: What should we be honest about before the next step?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["honesty","next_step"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"fear","text":"Fear"},{"id":"timeline","text":"Timeline"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"expectations","text":"Expectations"}]}}


id: future_188
text: What kind of next step feels right?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["next_step","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"small_habit","text":"Small habit"},{"id":"shared_plan","text":"Shared plan"},{"id":"big_conversation","text":"Big conversation"},{"id":"concrete_commitment","text":"Concrete commitment"}]}}


id: future_189
text: What does growing together mean to you?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["growth","together"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"learning","text":"Learning"},{"id":"changing_kindly","text":"Changing kindly"},{"id":"shared_goals","text":"Shared goals"},{"id":"supporting_individuality","text":"Supporting individuality"}]}}


id: future_190
text: What should our future selves thank us for starting now?
category_id: future
type: single_choice
tags: ["future_self","thanks"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"better_communication","text":"Better communication"},{"id":"savings_habit","text":"Savings habit"},{"id":"healthy_routines","text":"Healthy routines"},{"id":"more_quality_time","text":"More quality time"}]}}


id: future_191
text: Which future areas should we talk about more?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["future","areas"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"home","text":"Home"},{"id":"commitment","text":"Commitment"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"career","text":"Career"},{"id":"health","text":"Health"}]}}


id: future_192
text: What should guide our big decisions?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["decisions","values"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_values","text":"Shared values"},{"id":"timing","text":"Timing"},{"id":"money_reality","text":"Money reality"},{"id":"emotional_readiness","text":"Emotional readiness"},{"id":"long_term_impact","text":"Long-term impact"}]}}


id: future_193
text: Which future goals feel exciting?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["goals","excitement"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"travel","text":"Travel"},{"id":"home","text":"Home"},{"id":"career","text":"Career"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"health","text":"Health"},{"id":"creative_dreams","text":"Creative dreams"}]}}


id: future_194
text: Which future goals feel stressful?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["goals","stress"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"moving","text":"Moving"},{"id":"marriage","text":"Marriage"},{"id":"parenting","text":"Parenting"},{"id":"career_changes","text":"Career changes"}]}}


id: future_195
text: What do you want more of in our future?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["more","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"peace","text":"Peace"},{"id":"adventure","text":"Adventure"},{"id":"security","text":"Security"},{"id":"playfulness","text":"Playfulness"},{"id":"purpose","text":"Purpose"}]}}


id: future_196
text: What do you want less of in our future?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["less","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"rushing","text":"Rushing"},{"id":"avoidance","text":"Avoidance"},{"id":"debt","text":"Debt"},{"id":"overworking","text":"Overworking"},{"id":"assumptions","text":"Assumptions"}]}}


id: future_197
text: Which traditions should we create?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["traditions","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"weekly_date","text":"Weekly date"},{"id":"yearly_trip","text":"Yearly trip"},{"id":"holiday_ritual","text":"Holiday ritual"},{"id":"monthly_check_in","text":"Monthly check-in"},{"id":"anniversary_ritual","text":"Anniversary ritual"}]}}


id: future_198
text: Which future topics need extra gentleness?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["gentleness","topics"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"kids_or_family","text":"Kids or family"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"marriage","text":"Marriage"},{"id":"career_sacrifices","text":"Career sacrifices"},{"id":"where_to_live","text":"Where to live"}]}}


id: future_199
text: What would help us stay aligned?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["alignment","tools"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"regular_check_ins","text":"Regular check-ins"},{"id":"written_goals","text":"Written goals"},{"id":"budget_talks","text":"Budget talks"},{"id":"honest_timelines","text":"Honest timelines"},{"id":"shared_rituals","text":"Shared rituals"}]}}


id: future_200
text: Which practical plans should we make soon?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["practical","plans"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"emergency_savings","text":"Emergency savings"},{"id":"travel_plan","text":"Travel plan"},{"id":"home_routine","text":"Home routine"},{"id":"health_habits","text":"Health habits"},{"id":"couple_calendar","text":"Couple calendar"}]}}


id: future_201
text: What emotional qualities should our future have?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["emotional","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"safety","text":"Safety"},{"id":"humor","text":"Humor"},{"id":"patience","text":"Patience"},{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"}]}}


id: future_202
text: Which pressures should we avoid copying from others?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["pressure","comparison"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"relationship_timelines","text":"Relationship timelines"},{"id":"lifestyle_spending","text":"Lifestyle spending"},{"id":"family_expectations","text":"Family expectations"},{"id":"career_hustle","text":"Career hustle"},{"id":"social_media_image","text":"Social media image"}]}}


id: future_203
text: What do you want our future home to include?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["home","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"calm_space","text":"Calm space"},{"id":"room_for_friends","text":"Room for friends"},{"id":"good_routines","text":"Good routines"},{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},{"id":"shared_responsibilities","text":"Shared responsibilities"}]}}


id: future_204
text: What might challenge us later?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["challenges","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"money_stress","text":"Money stress"},{"id":"health_issues","text":"Health issues"},{"id":"family_conflict","text":"Family conflict"},{"id":"career_changes","text":"Career changes"},{"id":"distance_or_moving","text":"Distance or moving"}]}}


id: future_205
text: What strengths will help us later?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["strengths","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"humor","text":"Humor"},{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"commitment","text":"Commitment"},{"id":"adaptability","text":"Adaptability"},{"id":"care","text":"Care"}]}}


id: future_206
text: Which future choices should not be rushed?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["rushing","decisions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"marriage","text":"Marriage"},{"id":"moving_in","text":"Moving in"},{"id":"having_kids","text":"Having kids"},{"id":"big_purchases","text":"Big purchases"},{"id":"changing_jobs","text":"Changing jobs"}]}}


id: future_207
text: What should we protect no matter what changes?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["protect","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"respect","text":"Respect"},{"id":"time_together","text":"Time together"},{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"individual_dreams","text":"Individual dreams"},{"id":"physical_and_emotional_safety","text":"Physical and emotional safety"}]}}


id: future_208
text: What should we learn together?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["learning","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"money_skills","text":"Money skills"},{"id":"cooking","text":"Cooking"},{"id":"communication","text":"Communication"},{"id":"health_habits","text":"Health habits"},{"id":"travel_planning","text":"Travel planning"}]}}


id: future_209
text: Which support will matter in hard seasons?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["support","hard_seasons"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"patience","text":"Patience"},{"id":"practical_help","text":"Practical help"},{"id":"clear_communication","text":"Clear communication"},{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},{"id":"loyalty","text":"Loyalty"}]}}


id: future_210
text: What should our future include for joy?
category_id: future
type: multi_choice
tags: ["joy","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"small_adventures","text":"Small adventures"},{"id":"silly_rituals","text":"Silly rituals"},{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"},{"id":"friends","text":"Friends"},{"id":"creative_time","text":"Creative time"}]}}


id: future_211
text: How aligned do you feel about our near future?
category_id: future
type: scale
tags: ["alignment","near_future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not aligned","max_label":"Very aligned","scale_step":1}}


id: future_215
text: How clear are our shared goals?
category_id: future
type: scale
tags: ["clarity","goals"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not clear","max_label":"Very clear","scale_step":1}}


id: future_220
text: How patient are we with different timelines?
category_id: future
type: scale
tags: ["patience","timelines"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not patient","max_label":"Very patient","scale_step":1}}


id: future_221
text: How much do our values guide our plans?
category_id: future
type: scale
tags: ["values","plans"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not much","max_label":"Very much","scale_step":1}}


id: future_222
text: How realistic are our current plans?
category_id: future
type: scale
tags: ["realistic","plans"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not realistic","max_label":"Very realistic","scale_step":1}}


id: future_223
text: How exciting does our future feel?
category_id: future
type: scale
tags: ["excitement","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not exciting","max_label":"Very exciting","scale_step":1}}


id: future_227
text: How connected do you feel to our shared vision?
category_id: future
type: scale
tags: ["shared_vision","connection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not connected","max_label":"Very connected","scale_step":1}}


id: future_231
text: How prepared do we feel for hard seasons?
category_id: future
type: scale
tags: ["hard_seasons","prepared"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not prepared","max_label":"Very prepared","scale_step":1}}


id: future_236
text: Which sounds more like our next season?
category_id: future
type: this_or_that
tags: ["season","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"building_stability","text":"Building stability"},"optionB":{"id":"chasing_adventure","text":"Chasing adventure"}}}


id: future_237
text: Which should we focus on first?
category_id: future
type: this_or_that
tags: ["priority","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"better_routines","text":"Better routines"},"optionB":{"id":"bigger_dreams","text":"Bigger dreams"}}}


id: future_238
text: Which future talk feels more important?
category_id: future
type: this_or_that
tags: ["talks","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"money_goals","text":"Money goals"},"optionB":{"id":"life_goals","text":"Life goals"}}}


id: future_239
text: Which matters more in planning?
category_id: future
type: this_or_that
tags: ["planning","values"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"flexibility","text":"Flexibility"},"optionB":{"id":"structure","text":"Structure"}}}


id: future_240
text: Which feels more exciting?
category_id: future
type: this_or_that
tags: ["excitement","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"travel_plan","text":"Travel plan"},"optionB":{"id":"home_project","text":"Home project"}}}


id: future_241
text: Which feels safer?
category_id: future
type: this_or_that
tags: ["safety","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"small_steps","text":"Small steps"},"optionB":{"id":"big_clarity","text":"Big clarity"}}}


id: future_242
text: Which should lead our future?
category_id: future
type: this_or_that
tags: ["leadership","values"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"shared_values","text":"Shared values"},"optionB":{"id":"shared_goals","text":"Shared goals"}}}


id: future_243
text: Which do you want more?
category_id: future
type: this_or_that
tags: ["more","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"adventure","text":"Adventure"},"optionB":{"id":"peace","text":"Peace"}}}


id: future_244
text: Which should we protect more?
category_id: future
type: this_or_that
tags: ["protect","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"individual_dreams","text":"Individual dreams"},"optionB":{"id":"shared_dreams","text":"Shared dreams"}}}


id: future_245
text: Which next step feels better?
category_id: future
type: this_or_that
tags: ["next_step","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"talk_more","text":"Talk more"},"optionB":{"id":"plan_more","text":"Plan more"}}}


id: future_246
text: Which is harder for you?
category_id: future
type: this_or_that
tags: ["difficulty","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"waiting","text":"Waiting"},"optionB":{"id":"committing","text":"Committing"}}}


id: future_247
text: Which do we need more?
category_id: future
type: this_or_that
tags: ["needs","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"hope","text":"Hope"},"optionB":{"id":"clarity","text":"Clarity"}}}


id: future_248
text: Which should we revisit often?
category_id: future
type: this_or_that
tags: ["checkin","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"goals","text":"Goals"},"optionB":{"id":"feelings","text":"Feelings"}}}


id: future_249
text: Which future fear is more important to name?
category_id: future
type: this_or_that
tags: ["fear","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"growing_apart","text":"Growing apart"},"optionB":{"id":"feeling_stuck","text":"Feeling stuck"}}}


id: future_250
text: Which future gift should we give ourselves?
category_id: future
type: this_or_that
tags: ["future_self","gift"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"better_habits","text":"Better habits"},"optionB":{"id":"braver_honesty","text":"Braver honesty"}}}


id: values_151
text: What would help us make decisions about respect in everyday choices?
category_id: values
type: single_choice
tags: ["respect_in_everyday_choices","decisions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"talk_it_through","text":"Talk it through"},{"id":"make_a_shared_rule","text":"Make a shared rule"},{"id":"try_it_for_a_month","text":"Try it for a month"},{"id":"pause_and_revisit","text":"Pause and revisit"}]}}


id: values_152
text: How aligned do you feel we are about honesty about needs?
category_id: values
type: single_choice
tags: ["honesty_about_needs","alignment"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"very_aligned","text":"Very aligned"},{"id":"mostly_aligned","text":"Mostly aligned"},{"id":"unsure","text":"Unsure"},{"id":"different_but_workable","text":"Different but workable"}]}}


id: values_153
text: Which value matters most when we talk about how we spend time?
category_id: values
type: single_choice
tags: ["how_we_spend_time","priority"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"respect","text":"Respect"},{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"freedom","text":"Freedom"},{"id":"security","text":"Security"}]}}


id: values_154
text: What should we protect when kindness under stress gets complicated?
category_id: values
type: single_choice
tags: ["kindness_under_stress","protection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"work","text":"Work"},{"id":"health","text":"Health"},{"id":"connection","text":"Connection"}]}}


id: values_155
text: What would make family priorities easier to discuss?
category_id: values
type: single_choice
tags: ["family_priorities","discussion"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"ask_more_questions","text":"Ask more questions"},{"id":"share_examples","text":"Share examples"},{"id":"name_the_tradeoff","text":"Name the tradeoff"},{"id":"set_a_boundary","text":"Set a boundary"}]}}


id: values_156
text: What do you usually need first when personal growth feels uncertain?
category_id: values
type: single_choice
tags: ["personal_growth","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"i_need_time","text":"I need time"},{"id":"i_need_clarity","text":"I need clarity"},{"id":"i_need_reassurance","text":"I need reassurance"},{"id":"i_need_a_plan","text":"I need a plan"}]}}


id: values_191
text: Which values should guide us around respect in everyday choices?
category_id: values
type: multi_choice
tags: ["respect_in_everyday_choices","values"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"talk_it_through","text":"Talk it through"},{"id":"make_a_shared_rule","text":"Make a shared rule"},{"id":"try_it_for_a_month","text":"Try it for a month"},{"id":"pause_and_revisit","text":"Pause and revisit"}]}}


id: values_192
text: What could make honesty about needs feel respectful to both of us?
category_id: values
type: multi_choice
tags: ["honesty_about_needs","respect"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"very_aligned","text":"Very aligned"},{"id":"mostly_aligned","text":"Mostly aligned"},{"id":"unsure","text":"Unsure"},{"id":"different_but_workable","text":"Different but workable"}]}}


id: values_193
text: Which things should we clarify before deciding about how we spend time?
category_id: values
type: multi_choice
tags: ["how_we_spend_time","clarity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"respect","text":"Respect"},{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"freedom","text":"Freedom"},{"id":"security","text":"Security"}]}}


id: values_194
text: What might we need to balance around kindness under stress?
category_id: values
type: multi_choice
tags: ["kindness_under_stress","balance"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"work","text":"Work"},{"id":"health","text":"Health"},{"id":"connection","text":"Connection"}]}}


id: values_195
text: Which values should guide us around family priorities?
category_id: values
type: multi_choice
tags: ["family_priorities","values"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"ask_more_questions","text":"Ask more questions"},{"id":"share_examples","text":"Share examples"},{"id":"name_the_tradeoff","text":"Name the tradeoff"},{"id":"set_a_boundary","text":"Set a boundary"}]}}


id: values_196
text: What could make personal growth feel respectful to both of us?
category_id: values
type: multi_choice
tags: ["personal_growth","respect"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"i_need_time","text":"I need time"},{"id":"i_need_clarity","text":"I need clarity"},{"id":"i_need_reassurance","text":"I need reassurance"},{"id":"i_need_a_plan","text":"I need a plan"}]}}


id: values_211
text: How aligned do you feel we are about respect in everyday choices?
category_id: values
type: scale
tags: ["respect_in_everyday_choices","alignment"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not aligned","max_label":"Very aligned"}}


id: values_212
text: How safe does it feel to disagree about honesty about needs?
category_id: values
type: scale
tags: ["honesty_about_needs","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Unsafe","max_label":"Very safe"}}


id: values_214
text: How important is kindness under stress to your long-term happiness?
category_id: values
type: scale
tags: ["kindness_under_stress","importance"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not important","max_label":"Very important"}}


id: values_236
text: For respect in everyday choices, which feels more important right now?
category_id: values
type: this_or_that
tags: ["respect_in_everyday_choices","tradeoff"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"stability","text":"Stability"},"optionB":{"id":"flexibility","text":"Flexibility"}}}


id: values_237
text: When navigating honesty about needs, what do you lean toward?
category_id: values
type: this_or_that
tags: ["honesty_about_needs","leaning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"freedom","text":"Freedom"},"optionB":{"id":"togetherness","text":"Togetherness"}}}


id: values_238
text: If we disagree about how we spend time, what should come first?
category_id: values
type: this_or_that
tags: ["how_we_spend_time","priority"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"planning","text":"Planning"},"optionB":{"id":"spontaneity","text":"Spontaneity"}}}


id: values_239
text: For kindness under stress, which feels more important right now?
category_id: values
type: this_or_that
tags: ["kindness_under_stress","tradeoff"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"tradition","text":"Tradition"},"optionB":{"id":"change","text":"Change"}}}


id: values_240
text: When navigating family priorities, what do you lean toward?
category_id: values
type: this_or_that
tags: ["family_priorities","leaning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"direct_honesty","text":"Direct honesty"},"optionB":{"id":"gentle_timing","text":"Gentle timing"}}}


id: values_241
text: If we disagree about personal growth, what should come first?
category_id: values
type: this_or_that
tags: ["personal_growth","priority"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"private_agreement","text":"Private agreement"},"optionB":{"id":"outside_advice","text":"Outside advice"}}}


id: values_242
text: For fairness in decisions, which feels more important right now?
category_id: values
type: this_or_that
tags: ["fairness_in_decisions","tradeoff"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"shared_decision","text":"Shared decision"},"optionB":{"id":"independent_choice","text":"Independent choice"}}}


id: values_243
text: When navigating how we show commitment, what do you lean toward?
category_id: values
type: this_or_that
tags: ["how_we_show_commitment","leaning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"practical_needs","text":"Practical needs"},"optionB":{"id":"emotional_meaning","text":"Emotional meaning"}}}


id: money_151
text: When money feels stressful, what helps most first?
category_id: money
type: single_choice
tags: ["financial_stress","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"},{"id":"a_plan","text":"A plan"},{"id":"space","text":"Space"},{"id":"clear_numbers","text":"Clear numbers"}]}}


id: money_152
text: Which money topic feels hardest to start?
category_id: money
type: single_choice
tags: ["money","communication"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"debt","text":"Debt"},{"id":"spending","text":"Spending"},{"id":"saving","text":"Saving"},{"id":"family_expectations","text":"Family expectations"}]}}


id: money_153
text: What kind of money talk feels safest?
category_id: money
type: single_choice
tags: ["safety","money"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"planned_check_in","text":"Planned check-in"},{"id":"quick_update","text":"Quick update"},{"id":"written_notes","text":"Written notes"},{"id":"shared_spreadsheet","text":"Shared spreadsheet"}]}}


id: money_154
text: How should we handle surprise expenses?
category_id: money
type: single_choice
tags: ["expenses","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"talk_first","text":"Talk first"},{"id":"use_emergency_savings","text":"Use emergency savings"},{"id":"split_it","text":"Split it"},{"id":"pause_other_spending","text":"Pause other spending"}]}}


id: money_155
text: What best describes your money style?
category_id: money
type: single_choice
tags: ["money_style","values"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"saver","text":"Saver"},{"id":"planner","text":"Planner"},{"id":"flexible_spender","text":"Flexible spender"},{"id":"security_seeker","text":"Security seeker"}]}}


id: money_156
text: What makes shared spending feel fair?
category_id: money
type: single_choice
tags: ["fairness","spending"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"equal_split","text":"Equal split"},{"id":"income_based_split","text":"Income-based split"},{"id":"need_based_split","text":"Need-based split"},{"id":"case_by_case","text":"Case by case"}]}}


id: money_157
text: What would reduce money tension fastest?
category_id: money
type: single_choice
tags: ["tension","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"budget_clarity","text":"Budget clarity"},{"id":"more_transparency","text":"More transparency"},{"id":"less_judgment","text":"Less judgment"},{"id":"shared_goals","text":"Shared goals"}]}}


id: money_158
text: When should we review our budget?
category_id: money
type: single_choice
tags: ["budgeting","check_in"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"weekly","text":"Weekly"},{"id":"monthly","text":"Monthly"},{"id":"before_big_purchases","text":"Before big purchases"},{"id":"when_stress_rises","text":"When stress rises"}]}}


id: money_159
text: What feels most important for financial trust?
category_id: money
type: single_choice
tags: ["trust","money"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"shared_goals","text":"Shared goals"},{"id":"personal_freedom","text":"Personal freedom"}]}}


id: money_160
text: What should we prioritize first?
category_id: money
type: single_choice
tags: ["priorities","goals"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"emergency_fund","text":"Emergency fund"},{"id":"debt_payoff","text":"Debt payoff"},{"id":"fun_money","text":"Fun money"},{"id":"future_planning","text":"Future planning"}]}}


id: money_191
text: Which money topics should we check in about regularly? Select all that apply.
category_id: money
type: multi_choice
tags: ["money","check_in"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"spending","text":"Spending"},{"id":"saving","text":"Saving"},{"id":"debt","text":"Debt"},{"id":"bills","text":"Bills"},{"id":"goals","text":"Goals"}]}}


id: money_192
text: Which habits would help us reduce money stress? Select all that apply.
category_id: money
type: multi_choice
tags: ["financial_stress","habits"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"monthly_budget_date","text":"Monthly budget date"},{"id":"shared_goals","text":"Shared goals"},{"id":"emergency_fund","text":"Emergency fund"},{"id":"no_judgment_review","text":"No-judgment review"},{"id":"clear_spending_limits","text":"Clear spending limits"}]}}


id: money_193
text: Which areas need more transparency? Select all that apply.
category_id: money
type: multi_choice
tags: ["transparency","money"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"debt","text":"Debt"},{"id":"subscriptions","text":"Subscriptions"},{"id":"large_purchases","text":"Large purchases"},{"id":"savings","text":"Savings"},{"id":"family_support","text":"Family support"}]}}


id: money_194
text: Which money values matter most to you? Select up to three.
category_id: money
type: multi_choice
tags: ["values","money"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"security","text":"Security"},{"id":"freedom","text":"Freedom"},{"id":"generosity","text":"Generosity"},{"id":"enjoyment","text":"Enjoyment"},{"id":"growth","text":"Growth"}]}}


id: money_195
text: Which financial goals feel most urgent? Select up to three.
category_id: money
type: multi_choice
tags: ["goals","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"emergency_fund","text":"Emergency fund"},{"id":"debt_payoff","text":"Debt payoff"},{"id":"home","text":"Home"},{"id":"travel","text":"Travel"},{"id":"retirement","text":"Retirement"}]}}


id: money_213
text: How clear do our money agreements feel?
category_id: money
type: scale
tags: ["agreements","clarity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Very unclear","max_label":"Very clear","scale_step":1}}


id: money_215
text: How fair does our current money setup feel?
category_id: money
type: scale
tags: ["fairness","money"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Unfair","max_label":"Very fair","scale_step":1}}


id: money_237
text: For shared costs, which feels better?
category_id: money
type: this_or_that
tags: ["fairness","bills"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"equal_split","text":"Equal split"},"optionB":{"id":"income_based_split","text":"Income-based split"}}}


id: money_238
text: For financial goals, which motivates you more?
category_id: money
type: this_or_that
tags: ["goals","motivation"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"security","text":"Security"},"optionB":{"id":"freedom","text":"Freedom"}}}


id: money_239
text: For spending decisions, which helps more?
category_id: money
type: this_or_that
tags: ["spending","decisions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"clear_limit","text":"Clear limit"},"optionB":{"id":"case_by_case_talk","text":"Case-by-case talk"}}}


id: money_240
text: For budgeting, which feels more useful?
category_id: money
type: this_or_that
tags: ["budgeting","habits"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"detailed_plan","text":"Detailed plan"},"optionB":{"id":"simple_guardrails","text":"Simple guardrails"}}}


id: trust_151
text: What helps you feel trust most quickly after a misunderstanding?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_calm_explanation","text":"A calm explanation"},{"id":"a_sincere_apology","text":"A sincere apology"},{"id":"changed_behavior","text":"Changed behavior"},{"id":"time_to_process","text":"Time to process"}]}}


id: trust_152
text: When you feel unsure, what usually helps first?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["reassurance","uncertainty"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"clarity","text":"Clarity"},{"id":"space","text":"Space"},{"id":"a_plan","text":"A plan"}]}}


id: trust_153
text: Which kind of consistency matters most to you?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["consistency","reliability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"words_matching_actions","text":"Words matching actions"},{"id":"being_on_time","text":"Being on time"},{"id":"following_through","text":"Following through"},{"id":"emotional_steadiness","text":"Emotional steadiness"}]}}


id: trust_154
text: What makes honesty easiest for you?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["honesty","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"gentle_timing","text":"Gentle timing"},{"id":"no_judgment","text":"No judgment"},{"id":"clear_questions","text":"Clear questions"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"}]}}


id: trust_155
text: What makes trust feel most damaged?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["trust_damage","honesty"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"lying","text":"Lying"},{"id":"hiding_details","text":"Hiding details"},{"id":"broken_promises","text":"Broken promises"},{"id":"dismissed_feelings","text":"Dismissed feelings"}]}}


id: trust_156
text: How do you usually react when trust feels shaky?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["trust_repair","patterns"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"ask_questions","text":"Ask questions"},{"id":"pull_back","text":"Pull back"},{"id":"get_anxious","text":"Get anxious"},{"id":"watch_actions","text":"Watch actions"}]}}


id: trust_157
text: What kind of apology helps you most?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["apology","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"specific_apology","text":"Specific apology"},{"id":"changed_behavior","text":"Changed behavior"},{"id":"emotional_validation","text":"Emotional validation"},{"id":"time_and_patience","text":"Time and patience"}]}}


id: trust_158
text: What kind of reassurance feels best?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["reassurance","security"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"verbal_reassurance","text":"Verbal reassurance"},{"id":"physical_comfort","text":"Physical comfort"},{"id":"consistent_actions","text":"Consistent actions"},{"id":"clear_plans","text":"Clear plans"}]}}


id: trust_159
text: When plans change, what helps you stay trusting?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["plans","reliability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"quick_update","text":"Quick update"},{"id":"reason_why","text":"Reason why"},{"id":"new_plan","text":"New plan"},{"id":"tone_of_care","text":"Tone of care"}]}}


id: trust_160
text: Which area needs the clearest boundaries?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["boundaries","privacy"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"phones","text":"Phones"},{"id":"friends","text":"Friends"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"}]}}


id: trust_161
text: Which area needs the most transparency?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["transparency","expectations"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"schedule","text":"Schedule"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"emotions","text":"Emotions"},{"id":"social_plans","text":"Social plans"}]}}


id: trust_162
text: What helps you trust me with your feelings?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["emotional_safety","vulnerability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"listening","text":"Listening"},{"id":"no_fixing","text":"No fixing"},{"id":"no_judgment","text":"No judgment"},{"id":"remembering_later","text":"Remembering later"}]}}


id: trust_163
text: What makes vulnerability feel safer?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["vulnerability","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"patience","text":"Patience"},{"id":"warm_tone","text":"Warm tone"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"}]}}


id: trust_164
text: What makes you feel chosen?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["loyalty","connection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"quality_time","text":"Quality time"},{"id":"public_respect","text":"Public respect"},{"id":"private_affection","text":"Private affection"},{"id":"follow_through","text":"Follow-through"}]}}


id: trust_165
text: What makes you feel less secure?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["security","concern"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"distance","text":"Distance"},{"id":"vague_answers","text":"Vague answers"},{"id":"broken_plans","text":"Broken plans"},{"id":"lack_of_affection","text":"Lack of affection"}]}}


id: trust_166
text: What do you want after conflict?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["conflict","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"space_first","text":"Space first"},{"id":"comfort_first","text":"Comfort first"},{"id":"talk_it_through","text":"Talk it through"},{"id":"simple_repair","text":"Simple repair"}]}}


id: trust_167
text: Which behavior builds trust fastest?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["reliability","accountability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"keeping_promises","text":"Keeping promises"},{"id":"admitting_mistakes","text":"Admitting mistakes"},{"id":"checking_in","text":"Checking in"},{"id":"being_patient","text":"Being patient"}]}}


id: trust_168
text: Which behavior damages trust fastest?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["trust_damage","patterns"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"dismissing_feelings","text":"Dismissing feelings"},{"id":"hiding_information","text":"Hiding information"},{"id":"defensiveness","text":"Defensiveness"},{"id":"inconsistency","text":"Inconsistency"}]}}


id: trust_169
text: What do you need when jealousy appears?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["jealousy","security"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},{"id":"calm_conversation","text":"Calm conversation"}]}}


id: trust_170
text: What is healthiest for phone privacy?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["digital_boundaries","privacy"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_access_by_choice","text":"Shared access by choice"},{"id":"clear_boundaries","text":"Clear boundaries"},{"id":"no_access","text":"No access"},{"id":"case_by_case","text":"Case by case"}]}}


id: trust_171
text: What makes an answer feel complete?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["honesty","clarity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"details","text":"Details"},{"id":"tone","text":"Tone"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"willingness_to_explain","text":"Willingness to explain"}]}}


id: trust_172
text: What helps you believe changed behavior is real?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair","accountability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"time","text":"Time"},{"id":"repeated_actions","text":"Repeated actions"},{"id":"ownership","text":"Ownership"},{"id":"less_defensiveness","text":"Less defensiveness"}]}}


id: trust_173
text: What should we do when one of us breaks trust in a small way?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair","small_moments"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"name_it_quickly","text":"Name it quickly"},{"id":"apologize","text":"Apologize"},{"id":"make_a_plan","text":"Make a plan"},{"id":"pause_and_revisit","text":"Pause and revisit"}]}}


id: trust_174
text: What kind of loyalty matters most day to day?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["loyalty","daily_life"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"defending_each_other","text":"Defending each other"},{"id":"being_honest","text":"Being honest"},{"id":"keeping_confidences","text":"Keeping confidences"},{"id":"choosing_us_first","text":"Choosing us first"}]}}


id: trust_175
text: What is hardest for you to trust?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["trust_style","security"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"words","text":"Words"},{"id":"intentions","text":"Intentions"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"emotional_safety","text":"Emotional safety"}]}}


id: trust_176
text: What helps you rebuild trust after disappointment?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["disappointment","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"understanding_why","text":"Understanding why"},{"id":"specific_change","text":"Specific change"},{"id":"time","text":"Time"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"}]}}


id: trust_177
text: What does dependability mostly mean to you?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["dependability","reliability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"showing_up","text":"Showing up"},{"id":"following_through","text":"Following through"},{"id":"being_honest","text":"Being honest"},{"id":"staying_calm","text":"Staying calm"}]}}


id: trust_178
text: What do you need more of to feel secure?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["security","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"clarity","text":"Clarity"},{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"quality_time","text":"Quality time"}]}}


id: trust_179
text: What makes you trust a difficult conversation?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["hard_topics","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"calm_start","text":"Calm start"},{"id":"no_blame","text":"No blame"},{"id":"clear_goal","text":"Clear goal"},{"id":"kind_ending","text":"Kind ending"}]}}


id: trust_180
text: When I make a mistake, what should I do first?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["accountability","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"own_it","text":"Own it"},{"id":"apologize","text":"Apologize"},{"id":"explain","text":"Explain"},{"id":"ask_what_you_need","text":"Ask what you need"}]}}


id: trust_181
text: Which promise matters most?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["promises","trust"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"tell_the_truth","text":"Tell the truth"},{"id":"respect_boundaries","text":"Respect boundaries"},{"id":"follow_through","text":"Follow through"},{"id":"protect_privacy","text":"Protect privacy"}]}}


id: trust_182
text: What helps you trust my intentions?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["intentions","trust"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"my_tone","text":"My tone"},{"id":"my_actions","text":"My actions"},{"id":"my_explanation","text":"My explanation"},{"id":"my_consistency","text":"My consistency"}]}}


id: trust_183
text: What makes you doubt my intentions?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["doubt","intentions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"defensiveness","text":"Defensiveness"},{"id":"secrecy","text":"Secrecy"},{"id":"timing","text":"Timing"},{"id":"past_patterns","text":"Past patterns"}]}}


id: trust_184
text: What should trust feel like in our relationship?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["trust_vision","security"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"safe","text":"Safe"},{"id":"steady","text":"Steady"},{"id":"free","text":"Free"},{"id":"honest","text":"Honest"}]}}


id: trust_185
text: What do you value more during conflict?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["conflict","values"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"full_honesty","text":"Full honesty"},{"id":"gentle_delivery","text":"Gentle delivery"},{"id":"accountability","text":"Accountability"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"}]}}


id: trust_186
text: What helps you trust me when we are apart?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["apart","loyalty"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"communication","text":"Communication"},{"id":"boundaries","text":"Boundaries"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"confidence_in_us","text":"Confidence in us"}]}}


id: trust_187
text: What should be our default when we are unsure?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["uncertainty","communication"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"ask_directly","text":"Ask directly"},{"id":"assume_good_intent","text":"Assume good intent"},{"id":"pause_first","text":"Pause first"},{"id":"clarify_later","text":"Clarify later"}]}}


id: trust_188
text: What makes repair feel complete?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair","completion"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"apology","text":"Apology"},{"id":"understanding","text":"Understanding"},{"id":"changed_action","text":"Changed action"},{"id":"time","text":"Time"}]}}


id: trust_189
text: What is your strongest trust need right now?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["needs","security"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"emotional_safety","text":"Emotional safety"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"}]}}


id: trust_190
text: What should we protect most to keep trust strong?
category_id: trust
type: single_choice
tags: ["protection","trust"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"respect","text":"Respect"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"follow_through","text":"Follow-through"}]}}


id: trust_191
text: Which actions help you feel safe with me? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["safety","actions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"listening_without_interrupting","text":"Listening without interrupting"},{"id":"keeping_promises","text":"Keeping promises"},{"id":"checking_in","text":"Checking in"},{"id":"respecting_boundaries","text":"Respecting boundaries"},{"id":"staying_calm","text":"Staying calm"}]}}


id: trust_192
text: Which things make trust harder for you? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["trust_barriers","patterns"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"inconsistency","text":"Inconsistency"},{"id":"vague_answers","text":"Vague answers"},{"id":"defensiveness","text":"Defensiveness"},{"id":"broken_plans","text":"Broken plans"},{"id":"dismissed_feelings","text":"Dismissed feelings"}]}}


id: trust_193
text: Which forms of honesty matter most to you? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["honesty","values"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"emotional_honesty","text":"Emotional honesty"},{"id":"practical_honesty","text":"Practical honesty"},{"id":"financial_honesty","text":"Financial honesty"},{"id":"social_honesty","text":"Social honesty"},{"id":"honesty_about_needs","text":"Honesty about needs"}]}}


id: trust_194
text: Which boundaries should couples discuss clearly? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["boundaries","clarity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"phones","text":"Phones"},{"id":"friends","text":"Friends"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"private_time","text":"Private time"}]}}


id: trust_195
text: Which things help repair trust after conflict? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["repair","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"apology","text":"Apology"},{"id":"accountability","text":"Accountability"},{"id":"changed_behavior","text":"Changed behavior"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"time","text":"Time"}]}}


id: trust_196
text: Which behaviors feel loyal to you? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["loyalty","respect"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"defending_me_respectfully","text":"Defending me respectfully"},{"id":"keeping_confidences","text":"Keeping confidences"},{"id":"choosing_us_in_public","text":"Choosing us in public"},{"id":"being_honest_when_apart","text":"Being honest when apart"},{"id":"respecting_our_agreements","text":"Respecting our agreements"}]}}


id: trust_197
text: Which areas need more trust-building right now? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["needs","growth"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"communication","text":"Communication"},{"id":"follow_through","text":"Follow-through"},{"id":"emotional_safety","text":"Emotional safety"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"conflict_repair","text":"Conflict repair"}]}}


id: trust_198
text: Which things make vulnerability safer? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["vulnerability","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"warm_tone","text":"Warm tone"},{"id":"no_teasing","text":"No teasing"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"patience","text":"Patience"},{"id":"gentle_questions","text":"Gentle questions"}]}}


id: trust_199
text: Which actions help you trust changed behavior? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["accountability","change"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"repeated_follow_through","text":"Repeated follow-through"},{"id":"clear_plan","text":"Clear plan"},{"id":"ownership","text":"Ownership"},{"id":"no_excuses","text":"No excuses"},{"id":"patience_with_questions","text":"Patience with questions"}]}}


id: trust_200
text: Which kinds of reassurance help most? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["reassurance","security"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"words","text":"Words"},{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"quality_time","text":"Quality time"},{"id":"transparency","text":"Transparency"}]}}


id: trust_201
text: Which privacy boundaries feel healthy? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["privacy","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"private_journal","text":"Private journal"},{"id":"private_conversations","text":"Private conversations"},{"id":"personal_phone_space","text":"Personal phone space"},{"id":"time_alone","text":"Time alone"},{"id":"surprise_gifts_or_plans","text":"Surprise gifts or plans"}]}}


id: trust_202
text: Which transparency habits feel healthy? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["transparency","habits"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"sharing_plans","text":"Sharing plans"},{"id":"being_honest_about_emotions","text":"Being honest about emotions"},{"id":"owning_mistakes","text":"Owning mistakes"},{"id":"discussing_money","text":"Discussing money"},{"id":"naming_concerns_early","text":"Naming concerns early"}]}}


id: trust_203
text: Which conflict habits damage trust? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["conflict","damage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"name_calling","text":"Name-calling"},{"id":"stonewalling","text":"Stonewalling"},{"id":"threats_to_leave","text":"Threats to leave"},{"id":"bringing_up_old_wounds","text":"Bringing up old wounds"},{"id":"mocking_feelings","text":"Mocking feelings"}]}}


id: trust_204
text: Which conflict habits protect trust? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["conflict","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"taking_breaks","text":"Taking breaks"},{"id":"repair_attempts","text":"Repair attempts"},{"id":"staying_respectful","text":"Staying respectful"},{"id":"owning_impact","text":"Owning impact"},{"id":"coming_back_to_finish","text":"Coming back to finish"}]}}


id: trust_205
text: Which situations need more clarity between us? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["clarity","expectations"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"social_plans","text":"Social plans"},{"id":"spending_money","text":"Spending money"},{"id":"family_expectations","text":"Family expectations"},{"id":"time_alone","text":"Time alone"},{"id":"emotional_needs","text":"Emotional needs"}]}}


id: trust_206
text: Which things make you feel chosen? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["chosen","loyalty"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"being_prioritized","text":"Being prioritized"},{"id":"being_defended","text":"Being defended"},{"id":"being_included","text":"Being included"},{"id":"being_checked_on","text":"Being checked on"},{"id":"being_remembered","text":"Being remembered"}]}}


id: trust_207
text: Which things make you feel forgotten? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["security","concern"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"plans_changing_late","text":"Plans changing late"},{"id":"lack_of_check_ins","text":"Lack of check-ins"},{"id":"dismissed_details","text":"Dismissed details"},{"id":"no_follow_through","text":"No follow-through"},{"id":"emotional_distance","text":"Emotional distance"}]}}


id: trust_208
text: Which trust agreements should we make explicit? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["agreements","trust"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"boundaries_with_others","text":"Boundaries with others"},{"id":"conflict_rules","text":"Conflict rules"},{"id":"repair_after_mistakes","text":"Repair after mistakes"}]}}


id: trust_209
text: Which topics should we handle with extra care? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["hard_topics","care"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"past_hurts","text":"Past hurts"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"jealousy","text":"Jealousy"},{"id":"future_plans","text":"Future plans"}]}}


id: trust_210
text: Which signs show trust is growing? Select all that apply.
category_id: trust
type: multi_choice
tags: ["growth","trust"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"more_openness","text":"More openness"},{"id":"less_guessing","text":"Less guessing"},{"id":"faster_repair","text":"Faster repair"},{"id":"more_calm","text":"More calm"},{"id":"more_vulnerability","text":"More vulnerability"}]}}


id: trust_211
text: How much do you trust my follow-through right now?
category_id: trust
type: scale
tags: ["follow_through","reliability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not much","max_label":"Completely","scale_step":1}}


id: trust_214
text: How much do you feel I respect your boundaries?
category_id: trust
type: scale
tags: ["boundaries","respect"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not respected","max_label":"Fully respected","scale_step":1}}


id: trust_215
text: How much do you feel I protect your privacy?
category_id: trust
type: scale
tags: ["privacy","respect"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not protected","max_label":"Fully protected","scale_step":1}}


id: trust_216
text: How secure do you feel when we are apart?
category_id: trust
type: scale
tags: ["apart","security"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not secure","max_label":"Very secure","scale_step":1}}


id: trust_218
text: How dependable do I feel to you lately?
category_id: trust
type: scale
tags: ["dependability","consistency"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not dependable","max_label":"Very dependable","scale_step":1}}


id: trust_220
text: How much do you feel chosen by me?
category_id: trust
type: scale
tags: ["loyalty","chosen"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not chosen","max_label":"Deeply chosen","scale_step":1}}


id: trust_221
text: How much do you feel I believe you?
category_id: trust
type: scale
tags: ["belief","validation"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not believed","max_label":"Fully believed","scale_step":1}}


id: trust_222
text: How much do you feel I trust you?
category_id: trust
type: scale
tags: ["mutual_trust","security"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not trusted","max_label":"Fully trusted","scale_step":1}}


id: trust_236
text: Full transparency or clear privacy boundaries?
category_id: trust
type: this_or_that
tags: ["privacy","transparency"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"full_transparency","text":"Full transparency"},"optionB":{"id":"clear_privacy_boundaries","text":"Clear privacy boundaries"}}}


id: trust_237
text: Reassurance right away or space first?
category_id: trust
type: this_or_that
tags: ["reassurance","space"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"reassurance_right_away","text":"Reassurance right away"},"optionB":{"id":"space_first","text":"Space first"}}}


id: trust_238
text: Talk about trust directly or build it through actions?
category_id: trust
type: this_or_that
tags: ["trust_style","actions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"talk_directly","text":"Talk directly"},"optionB":{"id":"build_through_actions","text":"Build through actions"}}}


id: trust_239
text: Apology first or explanation first?
category_id: trust
type: this_or_that
tags: ["apology","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"apology_first","text":"Apology first"},"optionB":{"id":"explanation_first","text":"Explanation first"}}}


id: trust_240
text: Ask questions or watch behavior over time?
category_id: trust
type: this_or_that
tags: ["trust_repair","patterns"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"ask_questions","text":"Ask questions"},"optionB":{"id":"watch_behavior","text":"Watch behavior over time"}}}


id: trust_241
text: Share passwords or keep phone privacy?
category_id: trust
type: this_or_that
tags: ["digital_boundaries","privacy"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"share_passwords","text":"Share passwords"},"optionB":{"id":"keep_phone_privacy","text":"Keep phone privacy"}}}


id: trust_242
text: Assume good intent or clarify first?
category_id: trust
type: this_or_that
tags: ["intentions","clarity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"assume_good_intent","text":"Assume good intent"},"optionB":{"id":"clarify_first","text":"Clarify first"}}}


id: trust_243
text: Repair quickly or repair slowly and carefully?
category_id: trust
type: this_or_that
tags: ["repair","timing"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"repair_quickly","text":"Repair quickly"},"optionB":{"id":"repair_carefully","text":"Repair slowly and carefully"}}}


id: trust_244
text: More honesty or more gentleness?
category_id: trust
type: this_or_that
tags: ["honesty","care"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"more_honesty","text":"More honesty"},"optionB":{"id":"more_gentleness","text":"More gentleness"}}}


id: trust_245
text: Private reassurance or public loyalty?
category_id: trust
type: this_or_that
tags: ["loyalty","reassurance"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"private_reassurance","text":"Private reassurance"},"optionB":{"id":"public_loyalty","text":"Public loyalty"}}}


id: trust_246
text: Clear rules or flexible trust?
category_id: trust
type: this_or_that
tags: ["boundaries","trust_style"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"clear_rules","text":"Clear rules"},"optionB":{"id":"flexible_trust","text":"Flexible trust"}}}


id: trust_247
text: Talk when hurt or wait until calm?
category_id: trust
type: this_or_that
tags: ["conflict","timing"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"talk_when_hurt","text":"Talk when hurt"},"optionB":{"id":"wait_until_calm","text":"Wait until calm"}}}


id: trust_248
text: Know every detail or know the important truth?
category_id: trust
type: this_or_that
tags: ["honesty","details"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"every_detail","text":"Know every detail"},"optionB":{"id":"important_truth","text":"Know the important truth"}}}


id: trust_249
text: Trust slowly or trust openly?
category_id: trust
type: this_or_that
tags: ["trust_style","vulnerability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"trust_slowly","text":"Trust slowly"},"optionB":{"id":"trust_openly","text":"Trust openly"}}}


id: trust_250
text: Protect peace or address the concern now?
category_id: trust
type: this_or_that
tags: ["concern","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"protect_peace","text":"Protect peace"},"optionB":{"id":"address_now","text":"Address the concern now"}}}


id: sex_and_desire_151
text: For talking about desire respectfully, what would help most?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: single_choice
tags: ["talking_about_desire_respectfully","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"gentle_words","text":"Gentle words"},{"id":"clear_asking","text":"Clear asking"},{"id":"playful_flirting","text":"Playful flirting"},{"id":"quiet_closeness","text":"Quiet closeness"}]}}


id: sex_and_desire_152
text: How should we bring up feeling wanted?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: single_choice
tags: ["feeling_wanted","communication"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"ask_directly","text":"Ask directly"},{"id":"use_a_signal","text":"Use a signal"},{"id":"talk_earlier","text":"Talk earlier"},{"id":"check_in_later","text":"Check in later"}]}}


id: sex_and_desire_153
text: What should be centered when we discuss nonsexual closeness?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: single_choice
tags: ["nonsexual_closeness","center"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"},{"id":"curiosity","text":"Curiosity"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"no_pressure","text":"No pressure"}]}}


id: sex_and_desire_154
text: What would improve initiating intimacy kindly without adding pressure?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: single_choice
tags: ["initiating_intimacy_kindly","improvement"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"more_romance","text":"More romance"},{"id":"more_honesty","text":"More honesty"},{"id":"more_patience","text":"More patience"},{"id":"more_privacy","text":"More privacy"}]}}


id: sex_and_desire_155
text: What response matters most around responding to no with care?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: single_choice
tags: ["responding_to_no_with_care","response"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"accept_no_kindly","text":"Accept no kindly"},{"id":"ask_what_feels_good","text":"Ask what feels good"},{"id":"slow_down","text":"Slow down"},{"id":"talk_outside_the_moment","text":"Talk outside the moment"}]}}


id: sex_and_desire_156
text: What most supports desire around desire changing over time?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: single_choice
tags: ["desire_changing_over_time","desire"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"emotional_closeness","text":"Emotional closeness"},{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"},{"id":"playfulness","text":"Playfulness"},{"id":"feeling_desired","text":"Feeling desired"}]}}


id: sex_and_desire_191
text: Which things make sexual conversations feel safer?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: multi_choice
tags: ["talking_about_desire_respectfully","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"gentle_words","text":"Gentle words"},{"id":"clear_asking","text":"Clear asking"},{"id":"playful_flirting","text":"Playful flirting"},{"id":"quiet_closeness","text":"Quiet closeness"}]}}


id: sex_and_desire_192
text: Which supports help with feeling wanted?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: multi_choice
tags: ["feeling_wanted","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"ask_directly","text":"Ask directly"},{"id":"use_a_signal","text":"Use a signal"},{"id":"talk_earlier","text":"Talk earlier"},{"id":"check_in_later","text":"Check in later"}]}}


id: sex_and_desire_193
text: What should we protect when talking about nonsexual closeness?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: multi_choice
tags: ["nonsexual_closeness","protection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"},{"id":"curiosity","text":"Curiosity"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"no_pressure","text":"No pressure"}]}}


id: sex_and_desire_194
text: Which habits can reduce pressure around initiating intimacy kindly?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: multi_choice
tags: ["initiating_intimacy_kindly","pressure"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"more_romance","text":"More romance"},{"id":"more_honesty","text":"More honesty"},{"id":"more_patience","text":"More patience"},{"id":"more_privacy","text":"More privacy"}]}}


id: sex_and_desire_195
text: Which things make sexual conversations feel safer?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: multi_choice
tags: ["responding_to_no_with_care","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"accept_no_kindly","text":"Accept no kindly"},{"id":"ask_what_feels_good","text":"Ask what feels good"},{"id":"slow_down","text":"Slow down"},{"id":"talk_outside_the_moment","text":"Talk outside the moment"}]}}


id: sex_and_desire_196
text: Which supports help with desire changing over time?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: multi_choice
tags: ["desire_changing_over_time","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"emotional_closeness","text":"Emotional closeness"},{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"},{"id":"playfulness","text":"Playfulness"},{"id":"feeling_desired","text":"Feeling desired"}]}}


id: sex_and_desire_213
text: How connected do you feel when we discuss nonsexual closeness?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: scale
tags: ["nonsexual_closeness","connection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Disconnected","max_label":"Very connected"}}


id: sex_and_desire_236
text: For talking about desire respectfully, what feels better?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: this_or_that
tags: ["talking_about_desire_respectfully","preference"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"direct_talk","text":"Direct talk"},"optionB":{"id":"gentle_hints","text":"Gentle hints"}}}


id: sex_and_desire_237
text: When discussing feeling wanted, what should come first?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: this_or_that
tags: ["feeling_wanted","priority"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"playfulness","text":"Playfulness"},"optionB":{"id":"serious_clarity","text":"Serious clarity"}}}


id: sex_and_desire_238
text: If desire feels mismatched around nonsexual closeness, what helps more?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: this_or_that
tags: ["nonsexual_closeness","mismatch"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"plan_ahead","text":"Plan ahead"},"optionB":{"id":"follow_the_moment","text":"Follow the moment"}}}


id: sex_and_desire_239
text: For initiating intimacy kindly, what feels better?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: this_or_that
tags: ["initiating_intimacy_kindly","preference"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"more_romance","text":"More romance"},"optionB":{"id":"more_rest","text":"More rest"}}}


id: sex_and_desire_240
text: When discussing responding to no with care, what should come first?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: this_or_that
tags: ["responding_to_no_with_care","priority"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},"optionB":{"id":"space","text":"Space"}}}


id: sex_and_desire_241
text: If desire feels mismatched around desire changing over time, what helps more?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: this_or_that
tags: ["desire_changing_over_time","mismatch"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"ask_first","text":"Ask first"},"optionB":{"id":"invite_subtly","text":"Invite subtly"}}}


id: sex_and_desire_242
text: For flirting in everyday life, what feels better?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: this_or_that
tags: ["flirting_in_everyday_life","preference"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"slow_and_steady","text":"Slow and steady"},"optionB":{"id":"spontaneous","text":"Spontaneous"}}}


id: sex_and_desire_243
text: When discussing feeling emotionally ready, what should come first?
category_id: sex_and_desire
type: this_or_that
tags: ["feeling_emotionally_ready","priority"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"emotional_closeness","text":"Emotional closeness"},"optionB":{"id":"physical_closeness","text":"Physical closeness"}}}


id: boundaries_151
text: Which boundary area needs the clearest agreement right now?
category_id: boundaries
type: single_choice
tags: ["boundaries","clarity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"time","text":"Time"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"conflict","text":"Conflict"}]}}


id: boundaries_152
text: How should we respond when a boundary is crossed?
category_id: boundaries
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"name_it_calmly","text":"Name it calmly"},{"id":"pause","text":"Pause"},{"id":"apologize","text":"Apologize"},{"id":"clarify_the_limit","text":"Clarify the limit"}]}}


id: boundaries_153
text: What makes a boundary feel respectful?
category_id: boundaries
type: single_choice
tags: ["respect","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"kind_tone","text":"Kind tone"},{"id":"clear_reason","text":"Clear reason"},{"id":"mutual_agreement","text":"Mutual agreement"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"}]}}


id: boundaries_154
text: Which digital boundary matters most?
category_id: boundaries
type: single_choice
tags: ["digital_boundaries","privacy"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"phone_privacy","text":"Phone privacy"},{"id":"social_media","text":"Social media"},{"id":"location_sharing","text":"Location sharing"},{"id":"messages","text":"Messages"}]}}


id: boundaries_155
text: What kind of alone time feels healthiest?
category_id: boundaries
type: single_choice
tags: ["alone_time","space"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"daily_quiet_time","text":"Daily quiet time"},{"id":"solo_hobbies","text":"Solo hobbies"},{"id":"friend_time","text":"Friend time"},{"id":"no_phone_rest","text":"No-phone rest"}]}}


id: boundaries_156
text: What family boundary feels most important?
category_id: boundaries
type: single_choice
tags: ["family","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"visits","text":"Visits"},{"id":"advice","text":"Advice"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"}]}}


id: boundaries_157
text: What should we do when one of us needs space?
category_id: boundaries
type: single_choice
tags: ["space","communication"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"say_it_clearly","text":"Say it clearly"},{"id":"set_a_return_time","text":"Set a return time"},{"id":"reassure_first","text":"Reassure first"},{"id":"take_a_short_break","text":"Take a short break"}]}}


id: boundaries_158
text: What makes boundaries feel scary?
category_id: boundaries
type: single_choice
tags: ["fear","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"fear_of_rejection","text":"Fear of rejection"},{"id":"fear_of_conflict","text":"Fear of conflict"},{"id":"guilt","text":"Guilt"},{"id":"not_knowing_how","text":"Not knowing how"}]}}


id: boundaries_159
text: What helps boundaries feel like care?
category_id: boundaries
type: single_choice
tags: ["care","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"mutual_respect","text":"Mutual respect"},{"id":"calm_timing","text":"Calm timing"},{"id":"clear_wording","text":"Clear wording"},{"id":"follow_through","text":"Follow-through"}]}}


id: boundaries_160
text: Which boundary should be revisited regularly?
category_id: boundaries
type: single_choice
tags: ["check_ins","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"time","text":"Time"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"}]}}


id: boundaries_191
text: Which boundaries need clearer words? Select all that apply.
category_id: boundaries
type: multi_choice
tags: ["clarity","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"time","text":"Time"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"conflict","text":"Conflict"}]}}


id: boundaries_192
text: Which boundaries help you feel safe? Select all that apply.
category_id: boundaries
type: multi_choice
tags: ["safety","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"respectful_tone","text":"Respectful tone"},{"id":"no_phone_checking","text":"No phone checking"},{"id":"alone_time","text":"Alone time"},{"id":"no_public_fights","text":"No public fights"},{"id":"consent_around_touch","text":"Consent around touch"}]}}


id: boundaries_193
text: Which signs tell you a boundary is needed? Select up to three.
category_id: boundaries
type: multi_choice
tags: ["signals","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"resentment","text":"Resentment"},{"id":"exhaustion","text":"Exhaustion"},{"id":"avoidance","text":"Avoidance"},{"id":"anxiety","text":"Anxiety"},{"id":"feeling_pressured","text":"Feeling pressured"}]}}


id: boundaries_194
text: Which boundary areas should be mutual? Select all that apply.
category_id: boundaries
type: multi_choice
tags: ["mutuality","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"digital_access","text":"Digital access"},{"id":"family_sharing","text":"Family sharing"},{"id":"friend_time","text":"Friend time"},{"id":"money_decisions","text":"Money decisions"},{"id":"conflict_pauses","text":"Conflict pauses"}]}}


id: boundaries_195
text: Which words make boundaries easier to hear? Select up to three.
category_id: boundaries
type: multi_choice
tags: ["language","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"i_need","text":"I need"},{"id":"can_we_agree","text":"Can we agree"},{"id":"this_helps_me","text":"This helps me"},{"id":"i_feel","text":"I feel"},{"id":"let_s_revisit","text":"Let's revisit"}]}}


id: boundaries_213
text: How clear are our digital boundaries?
category_id: boundaries
type: scale
tags: ["digital_boundaries","clarity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Unclear","max_label":"Very clear","scale_step":1}}


id: boundaries_214
text: How balanced does our time together and apart feel?
category_id: boundaries
type: scale
tags: ["time","balance"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Unbalanced","max_label":"Very balanced","scale_step":1}}


id: boundaries_236
text: For space, which feels better?
category_id: boundaries
type: this_or_that
tags: ["space","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"scheduled_alone_time","text":"Scheduled alone time"},"optionB":{"id":"ask_when_needed","text":"Ask when needed"}}}


id: boundaries_237
text: For privacy, which matters more?
category_id: boundaries
type: this_or_that
tags: ["privacy","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"mutual_transparency","text":"Mutual transparency"},"optionB":{"id":"personal_autonomy","text":"Personal autonomy"}}}


id: boundaries_238
text: For family boundaries, which helps more?
category_id: boundaries
type: this_or_that
tags: ["family","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"private_agreement_first","text":"Private agreement first"},"optionB":{"id":"handle_as_it_comes","text":"Handle as it comes"}}}


id: boundaries_239
text: When saying no, which helps more?
category_id: boundaries
type: this_or_that
tags: ["no","communication"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"direct_wording","text":"Direct wording"},"optionB":{"id":"gentle_explanation","text":"Gentle explanation"}}}


id: boundaries_240
text: For conflict boundaries, which matters more?
category_id: boundaries
type: this_or_that
tags: ["conflict","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"no_yelling","text":"No yelling"},"optionB":{"id":"no_disappearing","text":"No disappearing"}}}


id: date_night_151
text: What kind of date sounds best this week?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["weekly","date_type"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"cozy_night_in","text":"Cozy night in"},{"id":"dinner_out","text":"Dinner out"},{"id":"outdoor_walk","text":"Outdoor walk"},{"id":"something_new","text":"Something new"}]}}


id: date_night_152
text: What energy level should our next date have?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["energy","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"calm","text":"Calm"},{"id":"playful","text":"Playful"},{"id":"romantic","text":"Romantic"},{"id":"adventurous","text":"Adventurous"}]}}


id: date_night_153
text: What budget feels right for our next date?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["budget","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"free","text":"Free"},{"id":"low_cost","text":"Low-cost"},{"id":"moderate","text":"Moderate"},{"id":"splurge","text":"Splurge"}]}}


id: date_night_154
text: What should the focus be?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["focus","date_night"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"connection","text":"Connection"},{"id":"fun","text":"Fun"},{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"},{"id":"romance","text":"Romance"}]}}


id: date_night_155
text: What time works best for a date?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["timing","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"morning","text":"Morning"},{"id":"afternoon","text":"Afternoon"},{"id":"evening","text":"Evening"},{"id":"late_night","text":"Late night"}]}}


id: date_night_156
text: What kind of setting helps you relax?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["setting","comfort"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"home","text":"Home"},{"id":"restaurant","text":"Restaurant"},{"id":"nature","text":"Nature"},{"id":"car_ride","text":"Car ride"}]}}


id: date_night_157
text: What makes a date feel thoughtful?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["thoughtfulness","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"planning_ahead","text":"Planning ahead"},{"id":"personal_details","text":"Personal details"},{"id":"no_distractions","text":"No distractions"},{"id":"a_surprise","text":"A surprise"}]}}


id: date_night_158
text: What ruins date night fastest?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["ruins","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"phones","text":"Phones"},{"id":"rushing","text":"Rushing"},{"id":"bad_mood","text":"Bad mood"},{"id":"no_plan","text":"No plan"}]}}


id: date_night_159
text: What makes you feel pursued on a date?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["pursuit","romance"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"being_invited","text":"Being invited"},{"id":"being_complimented","text":"Being complimented"},{"id":"being_listened_to","text":"Being listened to"},{"id":"being_surprised","text":"Being surprised"}]}}


id: date_night_160
text: What makes a date feel mutual?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["mutuality","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"both_planning","text":"Both planning"},{"id":"both_choosing","text":"Both choosing"},{"id":"both_paying_attention","text":"Both paying attention"},{"id":"both_staying_present","text":"Both staying present"}]}}


id: date_night_161
text: What food plan sounds best?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["food","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"cook_together","text":"Cook together"},{"id":"order_in","text":"Order in"},{"id":"try_a_new_place","text":"Try a new place"},{"id":"dessert_only","text":"Dessert only"}]}}


id: date_night_162
text: What activity sounds most fun?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["activity","fun"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"game_night","text":"Game night"},{"id":"walk","text":"Walk"},{"id":"class_or_workshop","text":"Class or workshop"},{"id":"live_event","text":"Live event"}]}}


id: date_night_163
text: What would make date night feel romantic?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["romance","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"candles_or_mood","text":"Candles or mood"},{"id":"dressing_up","text":"Dressing up"},{"id":"slow_conversation","text":"Slow conversation"},{"id":"physical_affection","text":"Physical affection"}]}}


id: date_night_164
text: What would make date night feel playful?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["playfulness","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_challenge","text":"A challenge"},{"id":"a_game","text":"A game"},{"id":"a_silly_theme","text":"A silly theme"},{"id":"trying_something_new","text":"Trying something new"}]}}


id: date_night_165
text: What would make date night feel restful?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["rest","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"quiet_setting","text":"Quiet setting"},{"id":"no_plans_after","text":"No plans after"},{"id":"comfort_food","text":"Comfort food"},{"id":"slow_pace","text":"Slow pace"}]}}


id: date_night_166
text: What conversation depth do you want tonight?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["conversation","depth"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"light","text":"Light"},{"id":"medium","text":"Medium"},{"id":"deep","text":"Deep"},{"id":"mostly_playful","text":"Mostly playful"}]}}


id: date_night_167
text: What should we not talk about on our next date?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["boundaries","topics"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"work","text":"Work"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"conflict","text":"Conflict"},{"id":"planning_logistics","text":"Planning logistics"}]}}


id: date_night_168
text: What should we make room to talk about?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["conversation","topics"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"dreams","text":"Dreams"},{"id":"us","text":"Us"},{"id":"fun_memories","text":"Fun memories"},{"id":"needs","text":"Needs"}]}}


id: date_night_169
text: What kind of surprise do you like?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["surprise","preference"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"small_gift","text":"Small gift"},{"id":"secret_location","text":"Secret location"},{"id":"planned_activity","text":"Planned activity"},{"id":"sweet_note","text":"Sweet note"}]}}


id: date_night_170
text: What kind of surprise stresses you out?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["surprise","stress"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"unknown_budget","text":"Unknown budget"},{"id":"unknown_dress_code","text":"Unknown dress code"},{"id":"too_many_people","text":"Too many people"},{"id":"too_much_activity","text":"Too much activity"}]}}


id: date_night_171
text: What kind of date helps after a hard week?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["hard_week","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"comfort_date","text":"Comfort date"},{"id":"laughing_date","text":"Laughing date"},{"id":"quiet_date","text":"Quiet date"},{"id":"adventure_date","text":"Adventure date"}]}}


id: date_night_172
text: What kind of date helps us reconnect?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["reconnect","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"deep_conversation","text":"Deep conversation"},{"id":"physical_closeness","text":"Physical closeness"},{"id":"shared_novelty","text":"Shared novelty"},{"id":"low_pressure_time","text":"Low-pressure time"}]}}


id: date_night_173
text: What date pace do you prefer?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["pace","preference"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"slow","text":"Slow"},{"id":"structured","text":"Structured"},{"id":"spontaneous","text":"Spontaneous"},{"id":"flexible","text":"Flexible"}]}}


id: date_night_174
text: What role do you like in planning?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["planning","role"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"i_choose","text":"I choose"},{"id":"you_choose","text":"You choose"},{"id":"we_alternate","text":"We alternate"},{"id":"we_plan_together","text":"We plan together"}]}}


id: date_night_175
text: What should we prioritize more?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["priority","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"creativity","text":"Creativity"},{"id":"romance","text":"Romance"},{"id":"ease","text":"Ease"}]}}


id: date_night_176
text: What feels most like us?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["identity","couple"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"cozy","text":"Cozy"},{"id":"silly","text":"Silly"},{"id":"adventurous","text":"Adventurous"},{"id":"thoughtful","text":"Thoughtful"}]}}


id: date_night_177
text: What kind of music fits our next date?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["music","mood"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"soft","text":"Soft"},{"id":"upbeat","text":"Upbeat"},{"id":"nostalgic","text":"Nostalgic"},{"id":"no_music","text":"No music"}]}}


id: date_night_178
text: What memory should inspire our next date?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["memory","inspiration"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"first_date","text":"First date"},{"id":"favorite_trip","text":"Favorite trip"},{"id":"funny_moment","text":"Funny moment"},{"id":"quiet_sweet_moment","text":"Quiet sweet moment"}]}}


id: date_night_179
text: What would make us laugh?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["laughter","play"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"game","text":"Game"},{"id":"challenge","text":"Challenge"},{"id":"comedy","text":"Comedy"},{"id":"shared_story","text":"Shared story"}]}}


id: date_night_180
text: What would help us slow down?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["slow_down","presence"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"phone_free_time","text":"Phone-free time"},{"id":"walk","text":"Walk"},{"id":"cooking","text":"Cooking"},{"id":"long_drive","text":"Long drive"}]}}


id: date_night_181
text: What date length feels best right now?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["length","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"30_minutes","text":"30 minutes"},{"id":"1_hour","text":"1 hour"},{"id":"2_hours","text":"2 hours"},{"id":"half_day","text":"Half day"}]}}


id: date_night_182
text: What do you want to feel after our next date?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["desired_feeling","outcome"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"closer","text":"Closer"},{"id":"lighter","text":"Lighter"},{"id":"romantic","text":"Romantic"},{"id":"understood","text":"Understood"}]}}


id: date_night_183
text: What kind of date should be recurring?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["ritual","recurring"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"weekly_walk","text":"Weekly walk"},{"id":"monthly_dinner","text":"Monthly dinner"},{"id":"game_night","text":"Game night"},{"id":"coffee_date","text":"Coffee date"}]}}


id: date_night_184
text: What should we try once?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["novelty","try"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"dance_class","text":"Dance class"},{"id":"new_cuisine","text":"New cuisine"},{"id":"mini_road_trip","text":"Mini road trip"},{"id":"museum_or_show","text":"Museum or show"}]}}


id: date_night_185
text: What date feels easiest to repeat?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["repeat","ease"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"walk","text":"Walk"},{"id":"movie_night","text":"Movie night"},{"id":"breakfast_out","text":"Breakfast out"},{"id":"cook_together","text":"Cook together"}]}}


id: date_night_186
text: What date feels worth saving for?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["saving","special"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"weekend_trip","text":"Weekend trip"},{"id":"concert","text":"Concert"},{"id":"fancy_dinner","text":"Fancy dinner"},{"id":"shared_class","text":"Shared class"}]}}


id: date_night_187
text: What makes a date feel intimate?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["intimacy","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"unhurried_time","text":"Unhurried time"},{"id":"honest_conversation","text":"Honest conversation"},{"id":"touch","text":"Touch"},{"id":"being_fully_present","text":"Being fully present"}]}}


id: date_night_188
text: What makes a date feel safe?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["safety","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"clear_plan","text":"Clear plan"},{"id":"comfortable_setting","text":"Comfortable setting"},{"id":"respecting_limits","text":"Respecting limits"},{"id":"low_pressure","text":"Low pressure"}]}}


id: date_night_189
text: What makes date night feel exciting?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["excitement","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"novelty","text":"Novelty"},{"id":"flirting","text":"Flirting"},{"id":"surprise","text":"Surprise"},{"id":"adventure","text":"Adventure"}]}}


id: date_night_190
text: What should our next date remind us of?
category_id: date_night
type: single_choice
tags: ["meaning","reminder"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"we_are_friends","text":"We are friends"},{"id":"we_are_lovers","text":"We are lovers"},{"id":"we_are_a_team","text":"We are a team"},{"id":"we_still_choose_each_other","text":"We still choose each other"}]}}


id: date_night_191
text: Which date ingredients matter most to you?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["ingredients","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"good_food","text":"Good food"},{"id":"good_conversation","text":"Good conversation"},{"id":"no_phones","text":"No phones"},{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},{"id":"novelty","text":"Novelty"}]}}


id: date_night_192
text: What helps you feel present on a date?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["presence","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"phone_away","text":"Phone away"},{"id":"enough_time","text":"Enough time"},{"id":"low_stress","text":"Low stress"},{"id":"clear_plan","text":"Clear plan"},{"id":"comfortable_setting","text":"Comfortable setting"}]}}


id: date_night_193
text: Which date types should we rotate?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["rotation","date_types"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"at_home","text":"At-home"},{"id":"outdoor","text":"Outdoor"},{"id":"fancy","text":"Fancy"},{"id":"playful","text":"Playful"},{"id":"quiet","text":"Quiet"}]}}


id: date_night_194
text: What makes planning feel easier?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["planning","ease"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_list","text":"Shared list"},{"id":"taking_turns","text":"Taking turns"},{"id":"budget_range","text":"Budget range"},{"id":"calendar_reminder","text":"Calendar reminder"},{"id":"simple_options","text":"Simple options"}]}}


id: date_night_195
text: What should we avoid during date night?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["avoid","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"phones","text":"Phones"},{"id":"heavy_logistics","text":"Heavy logistics"},{"id":"old_fights","text":"Old fights"},{"id":"rushing","text":"Rushing"},{"id":"comparing_ourselves","text":"Comparing ourselves"}]}}


id: date_night_196
text: What topics would make a date better?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["topics","conversation"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"dreams","text":"Dreams"},{"id":"funny_memories","text":"Funny memories"},{"id":"appreciation","text":"Appreciation"},{"id":"future_plans","text":"Future plans"},{"id":"desires","text":"Desires"}]}}


id: date_night_197
text: Which small details feel romantic?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["romance","details"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_note","text":"A note"},{"id":"dressing_up","text":"Dressing up"},{"id":"favorite_snack","text":"Favorite snack"},{"id":"holding_hands","text":"Holding hands"},{"id":"slow_dancing","text":"Slow dancing"}]}}


id: date_night_198
text: Which activities sound playful?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["play","activities"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"board_game","text":"Board game"},{"id":"mini_golf","text":"Mini golf"},{"id":"cooking_challenge","text":"Cooking challenge"},{"id":"trivia","text":"Trivia"},{"id":"karaoke","text":"Karaoke"}]}}


id: date_night_199
text: Which activities sound restorative?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["rest","activities"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"walk","text":"Walk"},{"id":"bath_or_spa_night","text":"Bath or spa night"},{"id":"quiet_dinner","text":"Quiet dinner"},{"id":"reading_together","text":"Reading together"},{"id":"stargazing","text":"Stargazing"}]}}


id: date_night_200
text: Which activities sound adventurous?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["adventure","activities"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"new_restaurant","text":"New restaurant"},{"id":"day_trip","text":"Day trip"},{"id":"dance_class","text":"Dance class"},{"id":"hike","text":"Hike"},{"id":"live_show","text":"Live show"}]}}


id: date_night_201
text: What would make a date feel more like us?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["identity","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"inside_jokes","text":"Inside jokes"},{"id":"favorite_places","text":"Favorite places"},{"id":"shared_music","text":"Shared music"},{"id":"personal_questions","text":"Personal questions"},{"id":"a_tradition","text":"A tradition"}]}}


id: date_night_202
text: What gets in the way of regular dates?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["barriers","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"time","text":"Time"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"fatigue","text":"Fatigue"},{"id":"planning_load","text":"Planning load"},{"id":"childcare_or_logistics","text":"Childcare or logistics"}]}}


id: date_night_203
text: What could help us date each other again?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["renewal","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"intentional_invites","text":"Intentional invites"},{"id":"flirting","text":"Flirting"},{"id":"trying_new_things","text":"Trying new things"},{"id":"less_pressure","text":"Less pressure"},{"id":"more_appreciation","text":"More appreciation"}]}}


id: date_night_204
text: What kind of date helps repair distance?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["repair","distance"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"low_pressure_walk","text":"Low-pressure walk"},{"id":"honest_dinner","text":"Honest dinner"},{"id":"cozy_movie","text":"Cozy movie"},{"id":"shared_activity","text":"Shared activity"},{"id":"quiet_affection","text":"Quiet affection"}]}}


id: date_night_205
text: What should a date night checklist include?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["checklist","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"time_set_aside","text":"Time set aside"},{"id":"budget","text":"Budget"},{"id":"phones_away","text":"Phones away"},{"id":"one_question","text":"One question"},{"id":"one_sweet_gesture","text":"One sweet gesture"}]}}


id: date_night_206
text: What would make a home date special?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["home_date","special"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"lighting","text":"Lighting"},{"id":"music","text":"Music"},{"id":"favorite_food","text":"Favorite food"},{"id":"game_or_question_deck","text":"Game or question deck"},{"id":"clean_space","text":"Clean space"}]}}


id: date_night_207
text: What would make an outside date special?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["outside_date","special"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"pretty_setting","text":"Pretty setting"},{"id":"good_weather_plan","text":"Good weather plan"},{"id":"walking_time","text":"Walking time"},{"id":"photos","text":"Photos"},{"id":"dessert_stop","text":"Dessert stop"}]}}


id: date_night_208
text: What are good date night boundaries?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["boundaries","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"no_serious_conflict_unless_agreed","text":"No serious conflict unless agreed"},{"id":"respect_tiredness","text":"Respect tiredness"},{"id":"no_forced_intimacy","text":"No forced intimacy"},{"id":"budget_clarity","text":"Budget clarity"},{"id":"end_kindly","text":"End kindly"}]}}


id: date_night_209
text: What would make a surprise date successful?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["surprise","success"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"known_budget","text":"Known budget"},{"id":"clear_dress_code","text":"Clear dress code"},{"id":"thoughtful_activity","text":"Thoughtful activity"},{"id":"enough_notice","text":"Enough notice"},{"id":"easy_backup_plan","text":"Easy backup plan"}]}}


id: date_night_210
text: What should we remember when planning dates?
category_id: date_night
type: multi_choice
tags: ["remember","planning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"both_preferences_matter","text":"Both preferences matter"},{"id":"simple_counts","text":"Simple counts"},{"id":"novelty_helps","text":"Novelty helps"},{"id":"rest_matters","text":"Rest matters"},{"id":"connection_is_the_point","text":"Connection is the point"}]}}


id: date_night_216
text: How romantic do our dates feel lately?
category_id: date_night
type: scale
tags: ["romance","recent"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not romantic","max_label":"Very romantic","scale_step":1}}


id: date_night_236
text: Which date sounds better tonight?
category_id: date_night
type: this_or_that
tags: ["preference","tonight"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"cozy_night_in","text":"Cozy night in"},"optionB":{"id":"going_out","text":"Going out"}}}


id: date_night_237
text: Which feels more romantic?
category_id: date_night
type: this_or_that
tags: ["romance","comparison"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"dinner_together","text":"Dinner together"},"optionB":{"id":"slow_walk","text":"Slow walk"}}}


id: date_night_239
text: Which should we do more?
category_id: date_night
type: this_or_that
tags: ["frequency","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"planned_dates","text":"Planned dates"},"optionB":{"id":"spontaneous_dates","text":"Spontaneous dates"}}}


id: date_night_240
text: Which matters more for date night?
category_id: date_night
type: this_or_that
tags: ["priority","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"novelty","text":"Novelty"},"optionB":{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"}}}


id: date_night_241
text: Which should we prioritize this week?
category_id: date_night
type: this_or_that
tags: ["weekly","priority"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"},"optionB":{"id":"adventure","text":"Adventure"}}}


id: date_night_242
text: Which sounds better?
category_id: date_night
type: this_or_that
tags: ["activity","preference"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"cook_together","text":"Cook together"},"optionB":{"id":"order_in","text":"Order in"}}}


id: date_night_243
text: Which would help us reconnect?
category_id: date_night
type: this_or_that
tags: ["reconnect","choice"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"deep_questions","text":"Deep questions"},"optionB":{"id":"shared_activity","text":"Shared activity"}}}


id: date_night_244
text: Which should be phone-free?
category_id: date_night
type: this_or_that
tags: ["phones","boundary"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"dinner","text":"Dinner"},"optionB":{"id":"walk","text":"Walk"}}}


id: date_night_245
text: Which feels more thoughtful?
category_id: date_night
type: this_or_that
tags: ["thoughtful","comparison"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"a_planned_surprise","text":"A planned surprise"},"optionB":{"id":"a_shared_plan","text":"A shared plan"}}}


id: date_night_246
text: Which is easier to repeat?
category_id: date_night
type: this_or_that
tags: ["repeat","ease"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"coffee_date","text":"Coffee date"},"optionB":{"id":"evening_walk","text":"Evening walk"}}}


id: date_night_247
text: Which feels more like us?
category_id: date_night
type: this_or_that
tags: ["identity","couple"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"silly_date","text":"Silly date"},"optionB":{"id":"sweet_date","text":"Sweet date"}}}


id: date_night_248
text: Which date should we save for?
category_id: date_night
type: this_or_that
tags: ["saving","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"concert","text":"Concert"},"optionB":{"id":"weekend_trip","text":"Weekend trip"}}}


id: date_night_249
text: Which should we try first?
category_id: date_night
type: this_or_that
tags: ["try_first","activity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"new_restaurant","text":"New restaurant"},"optionB":{"id":"new_activity","text":"New activity"}}}


id: date_night_250
text: Which should end the date?
category_id: date_night
type: this_or_that
tags: ["ending","date"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"dessert","text":"Dessert"},"optionB":{"id":"quiet_talk","text":"Quiet talk"}}}


id: marriage_151
text: What makes you feel most married in a good way?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["identity","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"daily_partnership","text":"Daily partnership"},{"id":"shared_history","text":"Shared history"},{"id":"commitment","text":"Commitment"},{"id":"being_chosen","text":"Being chosen"}]}}


id: marriage_152
text: What marriage habit should we protect?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["habit","protection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"check_ins","text":"Check-ins"},{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},{"id":"date_time","text":"Date time"},{"id":"repair","text":"Repair"}]}}


id: marriage_153
text: What area needs more teamwork?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["teamwork","area"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"home_life","text":"Home life"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"planning","text":"Planning"}]}}


id: marriage_154
text: What helps you feel chosen by me?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["chosen","love"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"priority_time","text":"Priority time"},{"id":"kind_words","text":"Kind words"},{"id":"physical_affection","text":"Physical affection"},{"id":"follow_through","text":"Follow-through"}]}}


id: marriage_155
text: What makes commitment feel alive instead of assumed?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["commitment","alive"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"intentional_effort","text":"Intentional effort"},{"id":"shared_goals","text":"Shared goals"},{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},{"id":"keeping_promises","text":"Keeping promises"}]}}


id: marriage_156
text: What kind of marriage check-in would you actually use?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["check_in","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"weekly_talk","text":"Weekly talk"},{"id":"monthly_date","text":"Monthly date"},{"id":"question_app","text":"Question app"},{"id":"walk_together","text":"Walk together"}]}}


id: marriage_157
text: What makes married life feel heavy?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["heaviness","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"routine","text":"Routine"},{"id":"stress","text":"Stress"},{"id":"unspoken_needs","text":"Unspoken needs"},{"id":"uneven_load","text":"Uneven load"}]}}


id: marriage_158
text: What makes married life feel light?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["lightness","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"humor","text":"Humor"},{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},{"id":"shared_wins","text":"Shared wins"},{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"}]}}


id: marriage_159
text: What should we recommit to this season?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["recommit","season"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"kindness","text":"Kindness"},{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"teamwork","text":"Teamwork"},{"id":"intimacy","text":"Intimacy"}]}}


id: marriage_160
text: Which promise needs more attention?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["promise","attention"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"listening","text":"Listening"},{"id":"showing_up","text":"Showing up"},{"id":"respect","text":"Respect"},{"id":"partnership","text":"Partnership"}]}}


id: marriage_161
text: What do you want us to do before resentment grows?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["resentment","prevention"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"talk_earlier","text":"Talk earlier"},{"id":"share_tasks","text":"Share tasks"},{"id":"apologize_sooner","text":"Apologize sooner"},{"id":"ask_better_questions","text":"Ask better questions"}]}}


id: marriage_162
text: What makes you proud of our marriage?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["pride","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"growth","text":"Growth"},{"id":"resilience","text":"Resilience"},{"id":"care","text":"Care"},{"id":"shared_values","text":"Shared values"}]}}


id: marriage_163
text: What should we keep private between us?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["privacy","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"conflict_details","text":"Conflict details"},{"id":"money_stress","text":"Money stress"},{"id":"intimacy","text":"Intimacy"},{"id":"family_tension","text":"Family tension"}]}}


id: marriage_164
text: What should we talk about more openly?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["openness","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"needs","text":"Needs"},{"id":"fears","text":"Fears"},{"id":"future_plans","text":"Future plans"}]}}


id: marriage_165
text: What marriage strength do you trust most?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["strength","trust"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"repair","text":"Repair"},{"id":"loyalty","text":"Loyalty"},{"id":"humor","text":"Humor"},{"id":"shared_values","text":"Shared values"}]}}


id: marriage_166
text: What marriage weakness needs gentle attention?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["weakness","attention"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"avoidance","text":"Avoidance"},{"id":"assumptions","text":"Assumptions"},{"id":"busyness","text":"Busyness"},{"id":"defensiveness","text":"Defensiveness"}]}}


id: marriage_167
text: What helps you feel safe bringing up hard topics?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["safety","hard_topics"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"soft_tone","text":"Soft tone"},{"id":"good_timing","text":"Good timing"},{"id":"no_interrupting","text":"No interrupting"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"}]}}


id: marriage_168
text: What future version of us do you want to protect?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["future","protection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"playful_us","text":"Playful us"},{"id":"peaceful_us","text":"Peaceful us"},{"id":"adventurous_us","text":"Adventurous us"},{"id":"deeply_connected_us","text":"Deeply connected us"}]}}


id: marriage_169
text: What kind of support matters most in marriage?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["support","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"emotional","text":"Emotional"},{"id":"practical","text":"Practical"},{"id":"physical","text":"Physical"},{"id":"financial","text":"Financial"}]}}


id: marriage_170
text: What does loyalty look like day to day?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["loyalty","daily"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"respectful_words","text":"Respectful words"},{"id":"follow_through","text":"Follow-through"},{"id":"boundaries","text":"Boundaries"},{"id":"showing_up","text":"Showing up"}]}}


id: marriage_171
text: What is most romantic to you in married life?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["romance","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"thoughtfulness","text":"Thoughtfulness"},{"id":"touch","text":"Touch"},{"id":"words","text":"Words"},{"id":"time","text":"Time"}]}}


id: marriage_172
text: What is least romantic but deeply loving?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["love","practical"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"doing_chores","text":"Doing chores"},{"id":"planning_ahead","text":"Planning ahead"},{"id":"handling_stress","text":"Handling stress"},{"id":"being_consistent","text":"Being consistent"}]}}


id: marriage_173
text: What should we celebrate more?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["celebration","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"anniversaries","text":"Anniversaries"},{"id":"small_wins","text":"Small wins"},{"id":"growth","text":"Growth"},{"id":"surviving_hard_seasons","text":"Surviving hard seasons"}]}}


id: marriage_174
text: What needs less autopilot?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["autopilot","attention"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},{"id":"conversations","text":"Conversations"},{"id":"schedules","text":"Schedules"},{"id":"intimacy","text":"Intimacy"}]}}


id: marriage_175
text: What needs more grace?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["grace","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"mistakes","text":"Mistakes"},{"id":"stress_reactions","text":"Stress reactions"},{"id":"changing_needs","text":"Changing needs"},{"id":"family_pressure","text":"Family pressure"}]}}


id: marriage_176
text: What needs more accountability?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["accountability","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"promises","text":"Promises"},{"id":"tone","text":"Tone"},{"id":"tasks","text":"Tasks"},{"id":"repair","text":"Repair"}]}}


id: marriage_177
text: What helps you stay hopeful about us?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["hope","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"progress","text":"Progress"},{"id":"repair","text":"Repair"},{"id":"shared_dreams","text":"Shared dreams"},{"id":"daily_kindness","text":"Daily kindness"}]}}


id: marriage_178
text: What makes you worry about us?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["worry","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"distance","text":"Distance"},{"id":"avoidance","text":"Avoidance"},{"id":"conflict","text":"Conflict"},{"id":"lack_of_time","text":"Lack of time"}]}}


id: marriage_179
text: What commitment practice sounds useful?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["commitment","practice"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"monthly_vows_check_in","text":"Monthly vows check-in"},{"id":"weekly_appreciation","text":"Weekly appreciation"},{"id":"regular_date_night","text":"Regular date night"},{"id":"shared_goal_review","text":"Shared goal review"}]}}


id: marriage_180
text: What do you want our home to feel like?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["home","feeling"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"peaceful","text":"Peaceful"},{"id":"playful","text":"Playful"},{"id":"warm","text":"Warm"},{"id":"organized","text":"Organized"}]}}


id: marriage_181
text: What do you want our marriage to feel like after hard days?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["hard_days","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"safe","text":"Safe"},{"id":"soft","text":"Soft"},{"id":"honest","text":"Honest"},{"id":"united","text":"United"}]}}


id: marriage_182
text: What should we ask before making big decisions?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["decisions","questions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"how_does_this_affect_us","text":"How does this affect us?"},{"id":"what_are_we_afraid_of","text":"What are we afraid of?"},{"id":"what_do_we_need","text":"What do we need?"},{"id":"what_is_the_wise_next_step","text":"What is the wise next step?"}]}}


id: marriage_183
text: What kind of married couple do you not want us to become?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["avoidance","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"roommates","text":"Roommates"},{"id":"scorekeepers","text":"Scorekeepers"},{"id":"strangers","text":"Strangers"},{"id":"constant_critics","text":"Constant critics"}]}}


id: marriage_184
text: What kind of married couple do you want us to become?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["vision","future"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"best_friends","text":"Best friends"},{"id":"partners","text":"Partners"},{"id":"adventurers","text":"Adventurers"},{"id":"safe_home","text":"Safe home"}]}}


id: marriage_185
text: What do you want me to understand about your needs now?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["needs","change"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"they_changed","text":"They changed"},{"id":"they_are_simple","text":"They are simple"},{"id":"they_are_hard_to_say","text":"They are hard to say"},{"id":"they_need_consistency","text":"They need consistency"}]}}


id: marriage_186
text: What do you want to understand about my needs now?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["needs","curiosity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"emotional_needs","text":"Emotional needs"},{"id":"practical_needs","text":"Practical needs"},{"id":"physical_needs","text":"Physical needs"},{"id":"future_needs","text":"Future needs"}]}}


id: marriage_187
text: What would help us handle change better?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["change","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"more_talks","text":"More talks"},{"id":"clearer_plans","text":"Clearer plans"},{"id":"more_patience","text":"More patience"},{"id":"more_flexibility","text":"More flexibility"}]}}


id: marriage_188
text: What shared value should guide us this year?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["values","year"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"peace","text":"Peace"},{"id":"growth","text":"Growth"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"adventure","text":"Adventure"}]}}


id: marriage_189
text: What does protecting our marriage mean this month?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["protection","month"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"time_together","text":"Time together"},{"id":"repair","text":"Repair"},{"id":"boundaries","text":"Boundaries"},{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"}]}}


id: marriage_190
text: What do you want us to remember when life gets busy?
category_id: marriage
type: single_choice
tags: ["busy","remember"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"we_are_a_team","text":"We are a team"},{"id":"small_things_matter","text":"Small things matter"},{"id":"talk_early","text":"Talk early"},{"id":"choose_kindness","text":"Choose kindness"}]}}


id: marriage_191
text: Which marriage habits should we strengthen?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["habits","strengthen"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"date_time","text":"Date time"},{"id":"repair","text":"Repair"},{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},{"id":"planning","text":"Planning"},{"id":"prayer_or_reflection","text":"Prayer or reflection"}]}}


id: marriage_192
text: What makes you feel chosen in marriage?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["chosen","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"priority_time","text":"Priority time"},{"id":"being_defended","text":"Being defended"},{"id":"follow_through","text":"Follow-through"},{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},{"id":"listening","text":"Listening"}]}}


id: marriage_193
text: Which areas need clearer partnership?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["partnership","clarity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"home_life","text":"Home life"},{"id":"family_boundaries","text":"Family boundaries"},{"id":"future_plans","text":"Future plans"},{"id":"intimacy","text":"Intimacy"}]}}


id: marriage_194
text: What threatens closeness when life gets busy?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["closeness","busy"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"no_time","text":"No time"},{"id":"stress","text":"Stress"},{"id":"screens","text":"Screens"},{"id":"unspoken_resentment","text":"Unspoken resentment"},{"id":"exhaustion","text":"Exhaustion"}]}}


id: marriage_195
text: What do you want us to protect?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["protection","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"private_trust","text":"Private trust"},{"id":"date_time","text":"Date time"},{"id":"physical_affection","text":"Physical affection"},{"id":"shared_dreams","text":"Shared dreams"},{"id":"kindness","text":"Kindness"}]}}


id: marriage_196
text: What should we celebrate as a married couple?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["celebration","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"growth","text":"Growth"},{"id":"commitment","text":"Commitment"},{"id":"repair","text":"Repair"},{"id":"shared_wins","text":"Shared wins"},{"id":"small_joys","text":"Small joys"}]}}


id: marriage_197
text: What needs more honesty?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["honesty","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"needs","text":"Needs"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"sex","text":"Sex"},{"id":"family_stress","text":"Family stress"},{"id":"future_fears","text":"Future fears"}]}}


id: marriage_198
text: What needs more tenderness?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["tenderness","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"stress","text":"Stress"},{"id":"mistakes","text":"Mistakes"},{"id":"body_changes","text":"Body changes"},{"id":"hard_conversations","text":"Hard conversations"},{"id":"busy_seasons","text":"Busy seasons"}]}}


id: marriage_199
text: What makes commitment feel strong?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["commitment","strength"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_values","text":"Shared values"},{"id":"kept_promises","text":"Kept promises"},{"id":"repair","text":"Repair"},{"id":"loyalty","text":"Loyalty"},{"id":"daily_effort","text":"Daily effort"}]}}


id: marriage_200
text: What helps prevent roommate mode?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["roommate_mode","prevention"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"date_nights","text":"Date nights"},{"id":"touch","text":"Touch"},{"id":"deep_talks","text":"Deep talks"},{"id":"shared_fun","text":"Shared fun"},{"id":"less_autopilot","text":"Less autopilot"}]}}


id: marriage_201
text: Which parts of married life feel meaningful?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["meaning","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_routines","text":"Shared routines"},{"id":"building_a_home","text":"Building a home"},{"id":"knowing_each_other_deeply","text":"Knowing each other deeply"},{"id":"facing_hard_things","text":"Facing hard things"},{"id":"dreaming_ahead","text":"Dreaming ahead"}]}}


id: marriage_202
text: What do we need during transitions?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["transitions","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"patience","text":"Patience"},{"id":"clear_roles","text":"Clear roles"},{"id":"financial_honesty","text":"Financial honesty"},{"id":"emotional_check_ins","text":"Emotional check-ins"},{"id":"flexibility","text":"Flexibility"}]}}


id: marriage_203
text: What should we stop assuming?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["assumptions","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"needs_are_the_same","text":"Needs are the same"},{"id":"love_is_obvious","text":"Love is obvious"},{"id":"tasks_are_fair","text":"Tasks are fair"},{"id":"the_future_is_agreed_on","text":"The future is agreed on"},{"id":"conflict_will_resolve_itself","text":"Conflict will resolve itself"}]}}


id: marriage_204
text: What should we ask each other more?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["questions","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"what_do_you_need","text":"What do you need?"},{"id":"what_are_you_carrying","text":"What are you carrying?"},{"id":"how_can_i_love_you_well","text":"How can I love you well?"},{"id":"what_are_you_afraid_of","text":"What are you afraid of?"},{"id":"what_are_we_building","text":"What are we building?"}]}}


id: marriage_205
text: What does loyalty include for you?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["loyalty","meaning"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"boundaries","text":"Boundaries"},{"id":"respectful_speech","text":"Respectful speech"},{"id":"showing_up","text":"Showing up"},{"id":"protecting_privacy","text":"Protecting privacy"}]}}


id: marriage_206
text: What makes marriage feel romantic to you?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["romance","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"thoughtfulness","text":"Thoughtfulness"},{"id":"desire","text":"Desire"},{"id":"quality_time","text":"Quality time"},{"id":"playfulness","text":"Playfulness"},{"id":"feeling_known","text":"Feeling known"}]}}


id: marriage_207
text: What makes marriage feel safe to you?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["safety","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"reliability","text":"Reliability"},{"id":"kind_conflict","text":"Kind conflict"},{"id":"emotional_honesty","text":"Emotional honesty"},{"id":"financial_transparency","text":"Financial transparency"},{"id":"physical_affection","text":"Physical affection"}]}}


id: marriage_208
text: What future pressure should we prepare for?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["future","pressure"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"health","text":"Health"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"family_aging","text":"Family aging"},{"id":"career_changes","text":"Career changes"},{"id":"parenting_or_caregiving","text":"Parenting or caregiving"}]}}


id: marriage_209
text: What needs a fresh agreement?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["agreement","refresh"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"chores","text":"Chores"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"family_visits","text":"Family visits"},{"id":"sex_or_affection","text":"Sex or affection"},{"id":"alone_time","text":"Alone time"}]}}


id: marriage_210
text: What would help us stay friends inside marriage?
category_id: marriage
type: multi_choice
tags: ["friendship","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_fun","text":"Shared fun"},{"id":"curiosity","text":"Curiosity"},{"id":"kind_teasing","text":"Kind teasing"},{"id":"new_experiences","text":"New experiences"},{"id":"daily_check_ins","text":"Daily check-ins"}]}}


id: marriage_212
text: How intentional are we about protecting time together?
category_id: marriage
type: scale
tags: ["time","intentional"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not intentional","max_label":"Very intentional","scale_step":1}}


id: marriage_213
text: How much do you feel chosen by me lately?
category_id: marriage
type: scale
tags: ["chosen","lately"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not chosen","max_label":"Very chosen","scale_step":1}}


id: marriage_215
text: How much are we living on autopilot?
category_id: marriage
type: scale
tags: ["autopilot","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not at all","max_label":"Very much","scale_step":1}}


id: marriage_216
text: How fair does our partnership feel?
category_id: marriage
type: scale
tags: ["fairness","partnership"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not fair","max_label":"Very fair","scale_step":1}}


id: marriage_221
text: How appreciated do you feel in this marriage?
category_id: marriage
type: scale
tags: ["appreciation","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not appreciated","max_label":"Very appreciated","scale_step":1}}


id: marriage_236
text: Which needs more attention?
category_id: marriage
type: this_or_that
tags: ["attention","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"romance","text":"Romance"},"optionB":{"id":"partnership","text":"Partnership"}}}


id: marriage_237
text: Which makes you feel more chosen?
category_id: marriage
type: this_or_that
tags: ["chosen","preference"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"quality_time","text":"Quality time"},"optionB":{"id":"follow_through","text":"Follow-through"}}}


id: marriage_238
text: Which should we protect first?
category_id: marriage
type: this_or_that
tags: ["protection","priority"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"date_time","text":"Date time"},"optionB":{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"}}}


id: marriage_239
text: Which feels more romantic?
category_id: marriage
type: this_or_that
tags: ["romance","style"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"surprise","text":"Surprise"},"optionB":{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"}}}


id: marriage_240
text: Which helps commitment feel real?
category_id: marriage
type: this_or_that
tags: ["commitment","real"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"big_promises","text":"Big promises"},"optionB":{"id":"daily_actions","text":"Daily actions"}}}


id: marriage_241
text: Which needs a reset?
category_id: marriage
type: this_or_that
tags: ["reset","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"money_talks","text":"Money talks"},"optionB":{"id":"home_routines","text":"Home routines"}}}


id: marriage_242
text: Which brings us closer?
category_id: marriage
type: this_or_that
tags: ["closeness","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"deep_talks","text":"Deep talks"},"optionB":{"id":"shared_fun","text":"Shared fun"}}}


id: marriage_243
text: Which do you need more during stress?
category_id: marriage
type: this_or_that
tags: ["stress","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"softness","text":"Softness"},"optionB":{"id":"practical_help","text":"Practical help"}}}


id: marriage_244
text: Which should we say more?
category_id: marriage
type: this_or_that
tags: ["words","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"i_appreciate_you","text":"I appreciate you"},"optionB":{"id":"i_choose_you","text":"I choose you"}}}


id: marriage_245
text: Which should we practice more?
category_id: marriage
type: this_or_that
tags: ["practice","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"apologizing_sooner","text":"Apologizing sooner"},"optionB":{"id":"listening_longer","text":"Listening longer"}}}


id: marriage_246
text: Which feels more like home?
category_id: marriage
type: this_or_that
tags: ["home","feeling"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"peace","text":"Peace"},"optionB":{"id":"playfulness","text":"Playfulness"}}}


id: marriage_247
text: Which should guide us this year?
category_id: marriage
type: this_or_that
tags: ["values","year"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"stability","text":"Stability"},"optionB":{"id":"growth","text":"Growth"}}}


id: marriage_248
text: Which is easier to neglect?
category_id: marriage
type: this_or_that
tags: ["neglect","marriage"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},"optionB":{"id":"honest_check_ins","text":"Honest check-ins"}}}


id: marriage_249
text: Which strengthens marriage more right now?
category_id: marriage
type: this_or_that
tags: ["strength","current"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"boundaries","text":"Boundaries"},"optionB":{"id":"vulnerability","text":"Vulnerability"}}}


id: marriage_250
text: Which future do you want more?
category_id: marriage
type: this_or_that
tags: ["future","vision"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"adventurous","text":"Adventurous"},"optionB":{"id":"peaceful","text":"Peaceful"}}}


id: difficult_conversations_151
text: What helps you start a difficult conversation?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["start","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_calm_setting","text":"A calm setting"},{"id":"a_planned_time","text":"A planned time"},{"id":"a_gentle_first_sentence","text":"A gentle first sentence"},{"id":"a_little_reassurance","text":"A little reassurance"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_152
text: What makes you shut down fastest?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["shutdown"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"raised_voice","text":"Raised voice"},{"id":"blame","text":"Blame"},{"id":"interruptions","text":"Interruptions"},{"id":"feeling_misunderstood","text":"Feeling misunderstood"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_153
text: What helps you stay open to hard feedback?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["feedback"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"specific_examples","text":"Specific examples"},{"id":"kind_tone","text":"Kind tone"},{"id":"clear_care","text":"Clear care"},{"id":"time_to_think","text":"Time to think"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_154
text: When a topic is sensitive, what do you need first?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["sensitive_topics"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"context","text":"Context"},{"id":"a_question","text":"A question"},{"id":"a_pause","text":"A pause"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_155
text: What usually escalates a hard talk?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["escalation"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"tone","text":"Tone"},{"id":"timing","text":"Timing"},{"id":"old_issues","text":"Old issues"},{"id":"assumptions","text":"Assumptions"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_156
text: What usually de-escalates a hard talk?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"pause","text":"Pause"},{"id":"apology","text":"Apology"},{"id":"softer_tone","text":"Softer tone"},{"id":"restating_the_goal","text":"Restating the goal"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_157
text: What makes accountability easier to receive?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["accountability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"specific_ownership","text":"Specific ownership"},{"id":"no_excuses","text":"No excuses"},{"id":"changed_behavior","text":"Changed behavior"},{"id":"follow_up_later","text":"Follow-up later"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_158
text: What makes an apology feel real?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["apology"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"specificity","text":"Specificity"},{"id":"remorse","text":"Remorse"},{"id":"repair_action","text":"Repair action"},{"id":"no_rushing","text":"No rushing"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_159
text: What makes an apology feel weak?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["apology"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"but_language","text":"But language"},{"id":"vagueness","text":"Vagueness"},{"id":"pressure_to_move_on","text":"Pressure to move on"},{"id":"no_change","text":"No change"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_160
text: What do you need when you feel defensive?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["defensiveness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_pause","text":"A pause"},{"id":"gentler_wording","text":"Gentler wording"},{"id":"a_reminder_of_care","text":"A reminder of care"},{"id":"a_chance_to_explain","text":"A chance to explain"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_161
text: What do you need when I seem defensive?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["defensiveness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_pause","text":"A pause"},{"id":"less_explaining","text":"Less explaining"},{"id":"more_listening","text":"More listening"},{"id":"a_clear_question","text":"A clear question"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_162
text: What is the best place for a hard talk?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["setting"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"at_home","text":"At home"},{"id":"on_a_walk","text":"On a walk"},{"id":"in_the_car_parked","text":"In the car parked"},{"id":"somewhere_neutral","text":"Somewhere neutral"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_163
text: What is the worst time for a hard talk?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["timing"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"late_night","text":"Late night"},{"id":"before_work","text":"Before work"},{"id":"during_stress","text":"During stress"},{"id":"in_public","text":"In public"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_164
text: What helps you hear my side?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["listening"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"calm_tone","text":"Calm tone"},{"id":"clear_examples","text":"Clear examples"},{"id":"less_pressure","text":"Less pressure"},{"id":"feeling_heard_first","text":"Feeling heard first"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_166
text: What should we do when we repeat ourselves?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["stuck"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"pause","text":"Pause"},{"id":"summarize","text":"Summarize"},{"id":"ask_what_is_missing","text":"Ask what is missing"},{"id":"come_back_later","text":"Come back later"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_167
text: What should we do when emotions spike?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["emotions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"breathe","text":"Breathe"},{"id":"pause","text":"Pause"},{"id":"lower_voices","text":"Lower voices"},{"id":"name_the_emotion","text":"Name the emotion"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_168
text: What is hardest to say?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["honesty"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"i_was_hurt","text":"I was hurt"},{"id":"i_was_wrong","text":"I was wrong"},{"id":"i_need_help","text":"I need help"},{"id":"i_am_afraid","text":"I am afraid"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_169
text: What is hardest to hear?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["listening"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"you_hurt_me","text":"You hurt me"},{"id":"i_need_change","text":"I need change"},{"id":"i_disagree","text":"I disagree"},{"id":"i_am_not_okay","text":"I am not okay"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_170
text: What makes a hard talk feel productive?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["productive"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"clarity","text":"Clarity"},{"id":"kindness","text":"Kindness"},{"id":"a_next_step","text":"A next step"},{"id":"mutual_ownership","text":"Mutual ownership"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_171
text: What makes a hard talk feel pointless?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["stuck"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"no_listening","text":"No listening"},{"id":"no_change","text":"No change"},{"id":"blame_loops","text":"Blame loops"},{"id":"unclear_issue","text":"Unclear issue"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_172
text: What repair action matters most after hard talks?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"check_in_later","text":"Check in later"},{"id":"change_behavior","text":"Change behavior"},{"id":"offer_comfort","text":"Offer comfort"},{"id":"make_a_plan","text":"Make a plan"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_173
text: When we disagree, what do you need protected?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["respect"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"respect","text":"Respect"},{"id":"voice","text":"Voice"},{"id":"time","text":"Time"},{"id":"connection","text":"Connection"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_174
text: What helps you talk about old hurt?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["old_wounds"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"gentle_pace","text":"Gentle pace"},{"id":"no_interruptions","text":"No interruptions"},{"id":"clear_purpose","text":"Clear purpose"},{"id":"a_safe_ending","text":"A safe ending"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_175
text: What makes old hurt harder to discuss?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["old_wounds"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"defensiveness","text":"Defensiveness"},{"id":"minimizing","text":"Minimizing"},{"id":"rushing","text":"Rushing"},{"id":"counterattacks","text":"Counterattacks"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_176
text: What is most important during a hard decision?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["decisions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"fairness","text":"Fairness"},{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"patience","text":"Patience"},{"id":"shared_values","text":"Shared values"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_177
text: What helps you pause without feeling abandoned?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["pause"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"set_a_return_time","text":"Set a return time"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"physical_space","text":"Physical space"},{"id":"short_message","text":"Short message"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_178
text: What helps you return after a pause?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["pause"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"clear_time","text":"Clear time"},{"id":"softer_tone","text":"Softer tone"},{"id":"a_summary","text":"A summary"},{"id":"a_repair_attempt","text":"A repair attempt"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_179
text: What makes silence feel safe?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["silence"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"agreed_pause","text":"Agreed pause"},{"id":"kind_tone","text":"Kind tone"},{"id":"clear_return","text":"Clear return"},{"id":"no_punishment","text":"No punishment"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_180
text: What makes silence feel painful?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["silence"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"no_explanation","text":"No explanation"},{"id":"coldness","text":"Coldness"},{"id":"long_delay","text":"Long delay"},{"id":"avoidance","text":"Avoidance"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_181
text: What should we clarify before hard talks?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["clarity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"the_topic","text":"The topic"},{"id":"the_goal","text":"The goal"},{"id":"the_timing","text":"The timing"},{"id":"the_boundary","text":"The boundary"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_182
text: What should we avoid during hard talks?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"name_calling","text":"Name-calling"},{"id":"threats","text":"Threats"},{"id":"old_pile_ons","text":"Old pile-ons"},{"id":"mind_reading","text":"Mind-reading"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_183
text: What helps you believe we are on the same team?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["teamwork"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_goal","text":"Shared goal"},{"id":"gentle_touch","text":"Gentle touch"},{"id":"kind_words","text":"Kind words"},{"id":"mutual_ownership","text":"Mutual ownership"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_184
text: What makes you feel alone in a hard talk?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["loneliness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"dismissal","text":"Dismissal"},{"id":"sarcasm","text":"Sarcasm"},{"id":"coldness","text":"Coldness"},{"id":"no_curiosity","text":"No curiosity"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_185
text: What kind of question opens you up?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["questions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"curious","text":"Curious"},{"id":"specific","text":"Specific"},{"id":"gentle","text":"Gentle"},{"id":"non_blaming","text":"Non-blaming"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_186
text: What kind of question closes you down?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["questions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"accusing","text":"Accusing"},{"id":"loaded","text":"Loaded"},{"id":"vague","text":"Vague"},{"id":"repeated","text":"Repeated"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_187
text: What helps us end a hard talk well?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["ending"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_summary","text":"A summary"},{"id":"a_hug","text":"A hug"},{"id":"a_next_step","text":"A next step"},{"id":"a_kind_sentence","text":"A kind sentence"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_188
text: What should we do if a hard talk goes badly?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"pause_and_repair","text":"Pause and repair"},{"id":"apologize","text":"Apologize"},{"id":"reschedule","text":"Reschedule"},{"id":"write_down_the_issue","text":"Write down the issue"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_189
text: What is your first sign of overwhelm?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["overwhelm"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"tears","text":"Tears"},{"id":"anger","text":"Anger"},{"id":"silence","text":"Silence"},{"id":"fast_talking","text":"Fast talking"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_190
text: What should I do when I notice that sign?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: single_choice
tags: ["support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"slow_down","text":"Slow down"},{"id":"ask_gently","text":"Ask gently"},{"id":"offer_a_pause","text":"Offer a pause"},{"id":"reassure_you","text":"Reassure you"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_191
text: What should be off-limits during hard talks?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"insults","text":"Insults"},{"id":"threats","text":"Threats"},{"id":"mocking","text":"Mocking"},{"id":"private_vulnerabilities","text":"Private vulnerabilities"},{"id":"old_unrelated_issues","text":"Old unrelated issues"},{"id":"public_arguments","text":"Public arguments"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_192
text: What helps a hard talk stay respectful?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["respect"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"calm_tone","text":"Calm tone"},{"id":"taking_turns","text":"Taking turns"},{"id":"specific_examples","text":"Specific examples"},{"id":"pauses","text":"Pauses"},{"id":"no_name_calling","text":"No name-calling"},{"id":"clear_goal","text":"Clear goal"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_193
text: What makes hard talks easier to start?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["start"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"planned_time","text":"Planned time"},{"id":"soft_wording","text":"Soft wording"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"a_clear_topic","text":"A clear topic"},{"id":"no_distractions","text":"No distractions"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_194
text: What topics need extra care?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["sensitive_topics"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"sex","text":"Sex"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"future_plans","text":"Future plans"},{"id":"trust","text":"Trust"},{"id":"personal_insecurities","text":"Personal insecurities"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_195
text: What signs show we need a pause?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["pause"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"raised_voices","text":"Raised voices"},{"id":"repeating_loops","text":"Repeating loops"},{"id":"tears","text":"Tears"},{"id":"shutdown","text":"Shutdown"},{"id":"sarcasm","text":"Sarcasm"},{"id":"fast_breathing","text":"Fast breathing"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_196
text: What repair attempts work for you?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"apology","text":"Apology"},{"id":"humor","text":"Humor"},{"id":"touch","text":"Touch"},{"id":"a_reset_phrase","text":"A reset phrase"},{"id":"taking_ownership","text":"Taking ownership"},{"id":"checking_in_later","text":"Checking in later"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_197
text: What makes accountability feel real?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["accountability"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"specific_ownership","text":"Specific ownership"},{"id":"changed_behavior","text":"Changed behavior"},{"id":"no_excuses","text":"No excuses"},{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"follow_up","text":"Follow-up"},{"id":"listening_first","text":"Listening first"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_198
text: What makes you feel heard?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["listening"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"eye_contact","text":"Eye contact"},{"id":"paraphrasing","text":"Paraphrasing"},{"id":"questions","text":"Questions"},{"id":"no_interruptions","text":"No interruptions"},{"id":"validation","text":"Validation"},{"id":"patience","text":"Patience"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_199
text: What makes you feel unheard?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["listening"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"interruptions","text":"Interruptions"},{"id":"fixing_too_fast","text":"Fixing too fast"},{"id":"defending","text":"Defending"},{"id":"looking_away","text":"Looking away"},{"id":"changing_topic","text":"Changing topic"},{"id":"minimizing","text":"Minimizing"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_200
text: What should we do before a big conversation?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["preparation"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"eat","text":"Eat"},{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"},{"id":"pick_time","text":"Pick time"},{"id":"agree_on_topic","text":"Agree on topic"},{"id":"set_goal","text":"Set goal"},{"id":"remove_distractions","text":"Remove distractions"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_201
text: What should we do after a big conversation?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["aftercare"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"check_in","text":"Check in"},{"id":"rest","text":"Rest"},{"id":"plan_next_step","text":"Plan next step"},{"id":"offer_affection","text":"Offer affection"},{"id":"write_agreement","text":"Write agreement"},{"id":"thank_each_other","text":"Thank each other"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_202
text: What hard emotions are hardest to share?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["emotions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"fear","text":"Fear"},{"id":"shame","text":"Shame"},{"id":"anger","text":"Anger"},{"id":"disappointment","text":"Disappointment"},{"id":"jealousy","text":"Jealousy"},{"id":"loneliness","text":"Loneliness"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_204
text: What helps disagreement feel safer?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["disagreement"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_goal","text":"Shared goal"},{"id":"respectful_tone","text":"Respectful tone"},{"id":"choice_of_timing","text":"Choice of timing"},{"id":"clear_boundaries","text":"Clear boundaries"},{"id":"curiosity","text":"Curiosity"},{"id":"repair","text":"Repair"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_205
text: What makes defensiveness worse?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["defensiveness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"blame","text":"Blame"},{"id":"broad_statements","text":"Broad statements"},{"id":"sarcasm","text":"Sarcasm"},{"id":"interruptions","text":"Interruptions"},{"id":"old_issues","text":"Old issues"},{"id":"no_reassurance","text":"No reassurance"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_206
text: What makes defensiveness soften?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["defensiveness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"gentle_wording","text":"Gentle wording"},{"id":"specific_examples","text":"Specific examples"},{"id":"shared_responsibility","text":"Shared responsibility"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"time","text":"Time"},{"id":"validation","text":"Validation"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_207
text: What should we clarify when stuck?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["clarity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"the_real_issue","text":"The real issue"},{"id":"the_feeling","text":"The feeling"},{"id":"the_need","text":"The need"},{"id":"the_request","text":"The request"},{"id":"the_fear","text":"The fear"},{"id":"the_next_step","text":"The next step"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_208
text: What should we protect during hard talks?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["values"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"respect","text":"Respect"},{"id":"safety","text":"Safety"},{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"},{"id":"connection","text":"Connection"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"hope","text":"Hope"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_209
text: What kinds of follow-through matter?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["follow_through"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"behavior_change","text":"Behavior change"},{"id":"check_in_later","text":"Check-in later"},{"id":"clear_agreement","text":"Clear agreement"},{"id":"apology","text":"Apology"},{"id":"taking_over_a_task","text":"Taking over a task"},{"id":"getting_support","text":"Getting support"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_210
text: What makes a difficult conversation worth having?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: multi_choice
tags: ["growth"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"more_honesty","text":"More honesty"},{"id":"more_closeness","text":"More closeness"},{"id":"clearer_choices","text":"Clearer choices"},{"id":"less_resentment","text":"Less resentment"},{"id":"better_teamwork","text":"Better teamwork"},{"id":"real_repair","text":"Real repair"}]}}


id: difficult_conversations_211
text: How safe do difficult conversations feel with me right now?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: scale
tags: ["safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not safe","max_label":"Very safe"}}


id: difficult_conversations_215
text: How defensive do our hard talks feel lately?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: scale
tags: ["defensiveness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not defensive","max_label":"Very defensive"}}


id: difficult_conversations_216
text: How respectful are we when emotions run high?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: scale
tags: ["respect"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not respectful","max_label":"Very respectful"}}


id: difficult_conversations_219
text: How honest do you feel you can be with me?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: scale
tags: ["honesty"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not honest","max_label":"Very honest"}}


id: difficult_conversations_221
text: How much do old issues affect new conversations?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: scale
tags: ["old_wounds"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not much","max_label":"A lot"}}


id: difficult_conversations_224
text: How much do you feel blamed during hard talks?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: scale
tags: ["blame"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not blamed","max_label":"Very blamed"}}


id: difficult_conversations_225
text: How much do you feel understood during hard talks?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: scale
tags: ["understanding"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not understood","max_label":"Very understood"}}


id: difficult_conversations_235
text: How confident are you that our next hard talk can go better?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: scale
tags: ["growth"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"scale_step":1,"min_label":"Not confident","max_label":"Very confident"}}


id: difficult_conversations_236
text: For hard talks, which helps more?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: this_or_that
tags: ["timing"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"plan_ahead","text":"Plan ahead"},"optionB":{"id":"bring_it_up_naturally","text":"Bring it up naturally"}}}


id: difficult_conversations_237
text: When emotions rise, which should we do first?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: this_or_that
tags: ["pause"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"pause","text":"Pause"},"optionB":{"id":"slow_down_together","text":"Slow down together"}}}


id: difficult_conversations_238
text: For feedback, which lands better?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: this_or_that
tags: ["feedback"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"gentle_wording","text":"Gentle wording"},"optionB":{"id":"direct_wording","text":"Direct wording"}}}


id: difficult_conversations_239
text: For old hurts, which helps more?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: this_or_that
tags: ["old_wounds"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"talk_in_pieces","text":"Talk in pieces"},"optionB":{"id":"talk_all_at_once","text":"Talk all at once"}}}


id: difficult_conversations_240
text: When stuck, which should we ask?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: this_or_that
tags: ["clarity"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"what_are_you_feeling","text":"What are you feeling?"},"optionB":{"id":"what_do_you_need","text":"What do you need?"}}}


id: difficult_conversations_241
text: For repair, which matters more?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: this_or_that
tags: ["repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"changed_behavior","text":"Changed behavior"},"optionB":{"id":"spoken_apology","text":"Spoken apology"}}}


id: difficult_conversations_242
text: During disagreement, which protects us more?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: this_or_that
tags: ["disagreement"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"clear_boundaries","text":"Clear boundaries"},"optionB":{"id":"extra_reassurance","text":"Extra reassurance"}}}


id: difficult_conversations_243
text: When one of us is defensive, which helps more?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: this_or_that
tags: ["defensiveness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"pause","text":"Pause"},"optionB":{"id":"gentle_question","text":"Gentle question"}}}


id: difficult_conversations_244
text: For sensitive topics, which matters more?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: this_or_that
tags: ["sensitive_topics"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},"optionB":{"id":"timing","text":"Timing"}}}


id: difficult_conversations_245
text: When we disagree, which should lead?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: this_or_that
tags: ["values"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"curiosity","text":"Curiosity"},"optionB":{"id":"honesty","text":"Honesty"}}}


id: difficult_conversations_246
text: After a hard talk, which helps more?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: this_or_that
tags: ["aftercare"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"affection","text":"Affection"},"optionB":{"id":"action_plan","text":"Action plan"}}}


id: difficult_conversations_247
text: For big decisions, which matters more?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: this_or_that
tags: ["decisions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"shared_values","text":"Shared values"},"optionB":{"id":"practical_details","text":"Practical details"}}}


id: difficult_conversations_248
text: When someone gets quiet, which should we assume first?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: this_or_that
tags: ["silence"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"needs_time","text":"Needs time"},"optionB":{"id":"needs_safety","text":"Needs safety"}}}


id: difficult_conversations_249
text: For emotional honesty, which helps more?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: this_or_that
tags: ["honesty"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"ask_gently","text":"Ask gently"},"optionB":{"id":"listen_quietly","text":"Listen quietly"}}}


id: difficult_conversations_250
text: For our next hard talk, which should we protect first?
category_id: difficult_conversations
type: this_or_that
tags: ["respect"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"respect","text":"Respect"},"optionB":{"id":"connection","text":"Connection"}}}


id: conflict_127
category_id: conflict
type: written
tags: ["support","humility"]
answer_config: {"type":"written","config":{"min_length":1,"max_length":1000,"placeholder":"Write your answer..."}}
status: active
text:
  What is one topic where we need outside support someday, not because we failed but because it matters?


id: conflict_151
text: When conflict starts, what helps you most first?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["start","support"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_calmer_tone","text":"A calmer tone"},{"id":"a_clear_pause","text":"A clear pause"},{"id":"a_direct_question","text":"A direct question"},{"id":"a_little_reassurance","text":"A little reassurance"}]}}


id: conflict_152
text: What usually escalates conflict fastest for you?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["escalation","triggers"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"feeling_blamed","text":"Feeling blamed"},{"id":"feeling_ignored","text":"Feeling ignored"},{"id":"feeling_rushed","text":"Feeling rushed"},{"id":"feeling_misunderstood","text":"Feeling misunderstood"}]}}


id: conflict_153
text: What helps you hear feedback best?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["feedback","openness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"specific_examples","text":"Specific examples"},{"id":"gentle_tone","text":"Gentle tone"},{"id":"time_to_think","text":"Time to think"},{"id":"reassurance_first","text":"Reassurance first"}]}}


id: conflict_154
text: What makes an apology feel most sincere?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["apology","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"clear_ownership","text":"Clear ownership"},{"id":"changed_behavior","text":"Changed behavior"},{"id":"emotional_warmth","text":"Emotional warmth"},{"id":"no_excuses","text":"No excuses"}]}}


id: conflict_155
text: What do you need after an argument?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["after_conflict","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"space","text":"Space"},{"id":"comfort","text":"Comfort"},{"id":"a_plan","text":"A plan"},{"id":"a_normal_moment_together","text":"A normal moment together"}]}}


id: conflict_156
text: What is hardest during conflict?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["difficulty","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"staying_calm","text":"Staying calm"},{"id":"being_honest","text":"Being honest"},{"id":"not_shutting_down","text":"Not shutting down"},{"id":"not_getting_defensive","text":"Not getting defensive"}]}}


id: conflict_157
text: What is your default conflict response?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["style","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"talk_more","text":"Talk more"},{"id":"go_quiet","text":"Go quiet"},{"id":"defend_myself","text":"Defend myself"},{"id":"try_to_fix_it_fast","text":"Try to fix it fast"}]}}


id: conflict_158
text: What helps you come back after taking space?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["pause","return"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_specific_time","text":"A specific time"},{"id":"a_gentle_message","text":"A gentle message"},{"id":"a_calm_tone","text":"A calm tone"},{"id":"a_clear_apology","text":"A clear apology"}]}}


id: conflict_159
text: What type of repair works best for you?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair","style"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"words","text":"Words"},{"id":"actions","text":"Actions"},{"id":"physical_closeness","text":"Physical closeness"},{"id":"giving_it_time","text":"Giving it time"}]}}


id: conflict_160
text: What should we prioritize in conflict?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["priorities","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"understanding","text":"Understanding"},{"id":"solving","text":"Solving"},{"id":"calming_down","text":"Calming down"},{"id":"feeling_close_again","text":"Feeling close again"}]}}


id: conflict_161
text: What should we avoid most during conflict?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["avoidance","boundaries"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"name_calling","text":"Name-calling"},{"id":"old_arguments","text":"Old arguments"},{"id":"threats","text":"Threats"},{"id":"silent_punishment","text":"Silent punishment"}]}}


id: conflict_162
text: What helps you lower your guard?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["defensiveness","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"kind_tone","text":"Kind tone"},{"id":"owning_one_part","text":"Owning one part"},{"id":"no_interruptions","text":"No interruptions"},{"id":"a_slower_pace","text":"A slower pace"}]}}


id: conflict_163
text: What makes you feel attacked?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["attack","triggers"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"labels","text":"Labels"},{"id":"raised_voice","text":"Raised voice"},{"id":"assumptions","text":"Assumptions"},{"id":"being_interrupted","text":"Being interrupted"}]}}


id: conflict_164
text: What makes you feel respected during disagreement?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["respect","disagreement"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"being_heard","text":"Being heard"},{"id":"being_asked","text":"Being asked"},{"id":"being_given_time","text":"Being given time"},{"id":"being_taken_seriously","text":"Being taken seriously"}]}}


id: conflict_165
text: What is most useful when we are stuck?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["stuck","solutions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"take_a_break","text":"Take a break"},{"id":"name_the_real_issue","text":"Name the real issue"},{"id":"ask_what_each_person_needs","text":"Ask what each person needs"},{"id":"pick_one_next_step","text":"Pick one next step"}]}}


id: conflict_166
text: What is your biggest conflict growth area right now?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["growth","self_awareness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"tone","text":"Tone"},{"id":"timing","text":"Timing"},{"id":"listening","text":"Listening"},{"id":"accountability","text":"Accountability"}]}}


id: conflict_167
text: What kind of disagreement feels easiest to handle?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["ease","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"logistics","text":"Logistics"},{"id":"plans","text":"Plans"},{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"feelings","text":"Feelings"}]}}


id: conflict_169
text: What should we do when we both feel right?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["perspective","humility"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"slow_down","text":"Slow down"},{"id":"list_both_needs","text":"List both needs"},{"id":"find_shared_goal","text":"Find shared goal"},{"id":"pause_and_return","text":"Pause and return"}]}}


id: conflict_170
text: What helps you accept influence?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["influence","openness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"feeling_respected","text":"Feeling respected"},{"id":"seeing_logic","text":"Seeing logic"},{"id":"feeling_loved","text":"Feeling loved"},{"id":"having_time","text":"Having time"}]}}


id: conflict_171
text: What most often hides under your anger?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["anger","emotion"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"hurt","text":"Hurt"},{"id":"fear","text":"Fear"},{"id":"stress","text":"Stress"},{"id":"feeling_unseen","text":"Feeling unseen"}]}}


id: conflict_173
text: What makes a pause feel safe?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["pause","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_return_time","text":"A return time"},{"id":"kind_words","text":"Kind words"},{"id":"a_hug_first","text":"A hug first"},{"id":"knowing_we_will_finish","text":"Knowing we will finish"}]}}


id: conflict_174
text: What makes a pause feel unsafe?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["pause","fear"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"no_return_time","text":"No return time"},{"id":"cold_silence","text":"Cold silence"},{"id":"leaving_suddenly","text":"Leaving suddenly"},{"id":"ignoring_messages","text":"Ignoring messages"}]}}


id: conflict_176
text: What is the worst time for a serious talk?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["timing","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"late_at_night","text":"Late at night"},{"id":"before_work","text":"Before work"},{"id":"when_hungry","text":"When hungry"},{"id":"right_after_stress","text":"Right after stress"}]}}


id: conflict_177
text: What helps you stay on one topic?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["focus","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"writing_it_down","text":"Writing it down"},{"id":"taking_turns","text":"Taking turns"},{"id":"a_time_limit","text":"A time limit"},{"id":"repeating_the_question","text":"Repeating the question"}]}}


id: conflict_178
text: What pulls us off topic fastest?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["focus","patterns"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"old_issues","text":"Old issues"},{"id":"defending_details","text":"Defending details"},{"id":"tone_arguments","text":"Tone arguments"},{"id":"assumptions","text":"Assumptions"}]}}


id: conflict_179
text: What feels like real accountability?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["accountability","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"naming_the_harm","text":"Naming the harm"},{"id":"no_excuses","text":"No excuses"},{"id":"changed_behavior","text":"Changed behavior"},{"id":"checking_back_later","text":"Checking back later"}]}}


id: conflict_180
text: What feels like fake accountability?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["accountability","avoidance"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"quick_sorry","text":"Quick sorry"},{"id":"blaming_stress","text":"Blaming stress"},{"id":"changing_subject","text":"Changing subject"},{"id":"acting_annoyed","text":"Acting annoyed"}]}}


id: conflict_181
text: What helps you believe repair is possible?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair","hope"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"consistency","text":"Consistency"},{"id":"softness","text":"Softness"},{"id":"humor","text":"Humor"},{"id":"a_clear_plan","text":"A clear plan"}]}}


id: conflict_182
text: What usually blocks repair?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["repair","barriers"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"pride","text":"Pride"},{"id":"exhaustion","text":"Exhaustion"},{"id":"fear","text":"Fear"},{"id":"still_feeling_unheard","text":"Still feeling unheard"}]}}


id: conflict_183
text: What should we do when one person cries?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["emotion","care"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"pause_and_comfort","text":"Pause and comfort"},{"id":"keep_talking_gently","text":"Keep talking gently"},{"id":"ask_what_is_needed","text":"Ask what is needed"},{"id":"give_space","text":"Give space"}]}}


id: conflict_184
text: What should we do when one person raises their voice?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["tone","safety"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"pause","text":"Pause"},{"id":"lower_voices","text":"Lower voices"},{"id":"name_it_calmly","text":"Name it calmly"},{"id":"take_space","text":"Take space"}]}}


id: conflict_185
text: What should we do when one person shuts down?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["shutdown","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"pause","text":"Pause"},{"id":"reassure","text":"Reassure"},{"id":"ask_one_simple_question","text":"Ask one simple question"},{"id":"return_later","text":"Return later"}]}}


id: conflict_186
text: What should we do when one person gets defensive?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["defensiveness","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"slow_down","text":"Slow down"},{"id":"own_one_part","text":"Own one part"},{"id":"restate_the_concern","text":"Restate the concern"},{"id":"ask_what_felt_unfair","text":"Ask what felt unfair"}]}}


id: conflict_187
text: What makes conflict feel like teamwork?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["teamwork","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_goal","text":"Shared goal"},{"id":"kind_tone","text":"Kind tone"},{"id":"both_own_a_part","text":"Both own a part"},{"id":"clear_next_step","text":"Clear next step"}]}}


id: conflict_188
text: What makes conflict feel like a battle?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["battle","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"winning_language","text":"Winning language"},{"id":"threats","text":"Threats"},{"id":"scorekeeping","text":"Scorekeeping"},{"id":"mocking","text":"Mocking"}]}}


id: conflict_189
text: What helps us end a conflict well?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["closure","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_summary","text":"A summary"},{"id":"an_apology","text":"An apology"},{"id":"a_hug","text":"A hug"},{"id":"a_next_step","text":"A next step"}]}}


id: conflict_190
text: What should happen after a big conflict?
category_id: conflict
type: single_choice
tags: ["aftercare","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"single_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"check_in_later","text":"Check in later"},{"id":"do_something_normal","text":"Do something normal"},{"id":"revisit_the_agreement","text":"Revisit the agreement"},{"id":"give_extra_kindness","text":"Give extra kindness"}]}}


id: conflict_191
text: Which things help calm conflict? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["calm","tools"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"lower_voices","text":"Lower voices"},{"id":"take_a_pause","text":"Take a pause"},{"id":"name_the_real_issue","text":"Name the real issue"},{"id":"use_kind_words","text":"Use kind words"},{"id":"drink_water","text":"Drink water"}]}}


id: conflict_192
text: Which behaviors make conflict worse? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["escalation","behaviors"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"interrupting","text":"Interrupting"},{"id":"blaming","text":"Blaming"},{"id":"bringing_up_old_issues","text":"Bringing up old issues"},{"id":"sarcasm","text":"Sarcasm"},{"id":"walking_away_without_return_time","text":"Walking away without return time"}]}}


id: conflict_193
text: Which repair actions matter most to you? Select up to three.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["repair","actions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"clear_apology","text":"Clear apology"},{"id":"changed_behavior","text":"Changed behavior"},{"id":"reassurance","text":"Reassurance"},{"id":"physical_affection","text":"Physical affection"},{"id":"following_up_later","text":"Following up later"}]}}


id: conflict_194
text: Which signs show you are getting overwhelmed? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["flooding","signals"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"going_quiet","text":"Going quiet"},{"id":"talking_faster","text":"Talking faster"},{"id":"tearing_up","text":"Tearing up"},{"id":"wanting_to_leave","text":"Wanting to leave"},{"id":"feeling_numb","text":"Feeling numb"}]}}


id: conflict_195
text: Which signs show I may be getting overwhelmed? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["flooding","reflection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"going_quiet","text":"Going quiet"},{"id":"talking_faster","text":"Talking faster"},{"id":"repeating_myself","text":"Repeating myself"},{"id":"getting_sharp","text":"Getting sharp"},{"id":"looking_away","text":"Looking away"}]}}


id: conflict_196
text: Which topics need gentler timing? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["timing","topics"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"money","text":"Money"},{"id":"family","text":"Family"},{"id":"intimacy","text":"Intimacy"},{"id":"plans","text":"Plans"},{"id":"household_work","text":"Household work"}]}}


id: conflict_197
text: Which rules should we use for hard talks? Select up to three.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["rules","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"no_name_calling","text":"No name-calling"},{"id":"one_topic_at_a_time","text":"One topic at a time"},{"id":"pause_when_flooded","text":"Pause when flooded"},{"id":"no_threats","text":"No threats"},{"id":"return_after_a_break","text":"Return after a break"}]}}


id: conflict_198
text: Which things help you receive feedback? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["feedback","openness"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"specific_examples","text":"Specific examples"},{"id":"kind_tone","text":"Kind tone"},{"id":"privacy","text":"Privacy"},{"id":"time_to_process","text":"Time to process"},{"id":"a_clear_request","text":"A clear request"}]}}


id: conflict_199
text: Which things make feedback hard to hear? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["feedback","barriers"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"harsh_tone","text":"Harsh tone"},{"id":"public_setting","text":"Public setting"},{"id":"old_examples","text":"Old examples"},{"id":"labels","text":"Labels"},{"id":"no_appreciation","text":"No appreciation"}]}}


id: conflict_200
text: Which feelings often show up under conflict? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["feelings","underneath"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"hurt","text":"Hurt"},{"id":"fear","text":"Fear"},{"id":"loneliness","text":"Loneliness"},{"id":"stress","text":"Stress"},{"id":"shame","text":"Shame"}]}}


id: conflict_201
text: Which needs are often underneath our conflicts? Select up to three.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["needs","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"respect","text":"Respect"},{"id":"security","text":"Security"},{"id":"help","text":"Help"},{"id":"space","text":"Space"},{"id":"appreciation","text":"Appreciation"}]}}


id: conflict_202
text: Which conflict habits should we practice? Select up to three.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["practice","growth"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"soft_start","text":"Soft start"},{"id":"reflect_back","text":"Reflect back"},{"id":"ask_for_needs","text":"Ask for needs"},{"id":"take_pauses","text":"Take pauses"},{"id":"repair_quickly","text":"Repair quickly"}]}}


id: conflict_203
text: Which conflict habits should we reduce? Select up to three.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["patterns","growth"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"interrupting","text":"Interrupting"},{"id":"defending","text":"Defending"},{"id":"shutting_down","text":"Shutting down"},{"id":"scorekeeping","text":"Scorekeeping"},{"id":"assuming_motives","text":"Assuming motives"}]}}


id: conflict_204
text: Which forms of aftercare help after conflict? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["aftercare","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"check_in_message","text":"Check-in message"},{"id":"quiet_time_together","text":"Quiet time together"},{"id":"hug","text":"Hug"},{"id":"plan_change","text":"Plan change"},{"id":"kind_routine","text":"Kind routine"}]}}


id: conflict_205
text: Which words should we use more during conflict? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["language","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"i_feel","text":"I feel"},{"id":"i_need","text":"I need"},{"id":"help_me_understand","text":"Help me understand"},{"id":"i_hear_you","text":"I hear you"},{"id":"can_we_pause","text":"Can we pause"}]}}


id: conflict_206
text: Which words should we avoid during conflict? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["language","harm"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"always","text":"Always"},{"id":"never","text":"Never"},{"id":"whatever","text":"Whatever"},{"id":"you_are_just_like","text":"You are just like"},{"id":"i_do_not_care","text":"I do not care"}]}}


id: conflict_207
text: Which things help us stay on the same team? Select up to three.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["teamwork","connection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"shared_goal","text":"Shared goal"},{"id":"kind_tone","text":"Kind tone"},{"id":"taking_turns","text":"Taking turns"},{"id":"owning_impact","text":"Owning impact"},{"id":"ending_with_a_next_step","text":"Ending with a next step"}]}}


id: conflict_208
text: Which things make you feel unsafe in conflict? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["safety","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"yelling","text":"Yelling"},{"id":"mocking","text":"Mocking"},{"id":"threats","text":"Threats"},{"id":"cold_silence","text":"Cold silence"},{"id":"private_information_used_against_me","text":"Private information used against me"}]}}


id: conflict_209
text: Which repair attempts are easy to miss? Select all that apply.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["repair_attempts","noticing"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"a_softer_tone","text":"A softer tone"},{"id":"a_joke","text":"A joke"},{"id":"a_small_touch","text":"A small touch"},{"id":"a_question","text":"A question"},{"id":"doing_a_helpful_task","text":"Doing a helpful task"}]}}


id: conflict_210
text: Which outcomes would make conflict feel productive? Select up to three.
category_id: conflict
type: multi_choice
tags: ["outcomes","productive_conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"multi_choice","config":{"options":[{"id":"feeling_heard","text":"Feeling heard"},{"id":"clear_next_step","text":"Clear next step"},{"id":"better_understanding","text":"Better understanding"},{"id":"apology","text":"Apology"},{"id":"less_fear_next_time","text":"Less fear next time"}]}}


id: conflict_213
text: How respectful does our tone feel during disagreement lately?
category_id: conflict
type: scale
tags: ["tone","respect"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not respectful","max_label":"Very respectful","scale_step":1}}


id: conflict_214
text: How quickly do we repair after conflict?
category_id: conflict
type: scale
tags: ["repair","timing"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Not quickly","max_label":"Very quickly","scale_step":1}}


id: conflict_228
text: How emotionally close do you feel after we repair?
category_id: conflict
type: scale
tags: ["closeness","repair"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Distant","max_label":"Close","scale_step":1}}


id: conflict_233
text: How fair do our disagreements feel?
category_id: conflict
type: scale
tags: ["fairness","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"scale","config":{"min_scale":1,"max_scale":5,"min_label":"Unfair","max_label":"Fair","scale_step":1}}


id: conflict_236
text: Pause first or talk through it now?
category_id: conflict
type: this_or_that
tags: ["timing","pause"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"pause_first","text":"Pause first"},"optionB":{"id":"talk_now","text":"Talk now"}}}


id: conflict_237
text: Comfort first or solution first?
category_id: conflict
type: this_or_that
tags: ["support","solutions"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"comfort_first","text":"Comfort first"},"optionB":{"id":"solution_first","text":"Solution first"}}}


id: conflict_238
text: Gentle honesty or direct honesty?
category_id: conflict
type: this_or_that
tags: ["honesty","tone"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"gentle_honesty","text":"Gentle honesty"},"optionB":{"id":"direct_honesty","text":"Direct honesty"}}}


id: conflict_239
text: Discuss at home or on a walk?
category_id: conflict
type: this_or_that
tags: ["setting","conflict"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"at_home","text":"At home"},"optionB":{"id":"on_a_walk","text":"On a walk"}}}


id: conflict_240
text: Repair with words or repair with actions?
category_id: conflict
type: this_or_that
tags: ["repair","style"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"words","text":"Words"},"optionB":{"id":"actions","text":"Actions"}}}


id: conflict_241
text: Name the issue or name the feeling first?
category_id: conflict
type: this_or_that
tags: ["clarity","emotion"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"issue_first","text":"Issue first"},"optionB":{"id":"feeling_first","text":"Feeling first"}}}


id: conflict_242
text: Take space alone or sit quietly together?
category_id: conflict
type: this_or_that
tags: ["space","connection"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"space_alone","text":"Space alone"},"optionB":{"id":"quietly_together","text":"Quietly together"}}}


id: conflict_243
text: Apologize first or explain first?
category_id: conflict
type: this_or_that
tags: ["apology","explanation"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"apologize_first","text":"Apologize first"},"optionB":{"id":"explain_first","text":"Explain first"}}}


id: conflict_244
text: Focus on impact or focus on intent?
category_id: conflict
type: this_or_that
tags: ["impact","intent"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"impact","text":"Impact"},"optionB":{"id":"intent","text":"Intent"}}}


id: conflict_245
text: Set a boundary or ask for reassurance?
category_id: conflict
type: this_or_that
tags: ["boundaries","reassurance"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"set_boundary","text":"Set boundary"},"optionB":{"id":"ask_reassurance","text":"Ask reassurance"}}}


id: conflict_246
text: Let it cool down or resolve it tonight?
category_id: conflict
type: this_or_that
tags: ["timing","closure"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"cool_down","text":"Cool down"},"optionB":{"id":"resolve_tonight","text":"Resolve tonight"}}}


id: conflict_247
text: Write it out or say it out loud?
category_id: conflict
type: this_or_that
tags: ["expression","format"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"write_it_out","text":"Write it out"},"optionB":{"id":"say_it_out_loud","text":"Say it out loud"}}}


id: conflict_248
text: Clarify expectations or accept differences?
category_id: conflict
type: this_or_that
tags: ["expectations","differences"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"clarify_expectations","text":"Clarify expectations"},"optionB":{"id":"accept_differences","text":"Accept differences"}}}


id: conflict_249
text: Start with what hurt or start with what you need?
category_id: conflict
type: this_or_that
tags: ["hurt","needs"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"what_hurt","text":"What hurt"},"optionB":{"id":"what_i_need","text":"What I need"}}}


id: conflict_250
text: Protect peace or address the issue?
category_id: conflict
type: this_or_that
tags: ["peace","honesty"]
status: active
answer_config:
  {"type":"this_or_that","config":{"optionA":{"id":"protect_peace","text":"Protect peace"},"optionB":{"id":"address_the_issue","text":"Address the issue"}}}


id: rebuilding_trust_091
category_id: rebuilding_trust
type: written
tags: ["honesty","repair"]
answer_config: {"type":"written","config":{"min_length":1,"max_length":1000,"placeholder":"Write your answer..."}}
status: active
text:
  How can we talk about honesty after hurt without pressuring either person to move faster than they can?


id: rebuilding_trust_092
category_id: rebuilding_trust
type: written
tags: ["consistency","trust"]
answer_config: {"type":"written","config":{"min_length":1,"max_length":1000,"placeholder":"Write your answer..."}}
status: active
text:
  How can we talk about consistent actions without pressuring either person to move faster than they can?


id: rebuilding_trust_094
category_id: rebuilding_trust
type: written
tags: ["emotional_safety","trust"]
answer_config: {"type":"written","config":{"min_length":1,"max_length":1000,"placeholder":"Write your answer..."}}
status: active
text:
  How can we talk about emotional safety without pressuring either person to move faster than they can?


