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Emotional_intimacy owns feeling known and emotionally close; conflict owns disagreement dynamics; conflict_repair owns reconnecting after conflict; boundaries owns limits and privacy; trust owns confidence after breaches.", "source_question_count": 250, "source_written_count": 150, "final_validation": "pass", "second_pass_changed_questions": 16, "second_pass_focus": "Corrected awkward check-in wording, point-of-view and option-fit issues, obvious-answer mechanics, negative framing, therapy-coded language, texting drift, conflict overlap, and unnatural closing questions; then re-ran all schema and duplication checks." } }, "questions": [ { "id": "communication_001", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When does talking with me feel easiest?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_talking", "timing", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "during_a_drive", "text": "During a drive" }, { "id": "while_we_make_food", "text": "While we make food" }, { "id": "late_at_night", "text": "Late at night" }, { "id": "when_nothing_else_is_competing", "text": "When nothing else is competing" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_002", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes an everyday conversation feel good to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_talking", "ease", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_are_not_rushing", "text": "We are not rushing" }, { "id": "we_both_get_to_talk", "text": "We both get to talk" }, { "id": "there_is_room_for_jokes", "text": "There is room for jokes" }, { "id": "we_actually_look_at_each_other", "text": "We actually look at each other" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_003", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which check-ins feel natural instead of forced?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "check_ins", "daily_talking", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "how_are_you_doing_really", "text": "How are you doing, really?" }, { "id": "anything_you_need_from_me", "text": "Anything you need from me?" }, { "id": "what_was_the_best_part", "text": "What was the best part?" }, { "id": "want_to_talk_or_just_relax", "text": "Want to talk or just relax?" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_004", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it for us to start talking lately?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_talking", "ease", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "It takes some effort", "max_label": "It happens naturally" } }, { "id": "communication_005", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Quick check-in or long catch-up?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "check_ins", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quick_check_in", "text": "Quick check-in" }, { "id": "long_catch_up", "text": "Long catch-up" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_006", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What gets you talking after a long day?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_talking", "after_work", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_little_quiet_first", "text": "A little quiet first" }, { "id": "a_snack_and_a_seat", "text": "A snack and a seat" }, { "id": "a_specific_question", "text": "A specific question" }, { "id": "something_funny_to_break_the_ice", "text": "Something funny to break the ice" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_007", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which opener sounds most like us?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_talking", "couple_voice", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "tell_me_everything", "text": "Tell me everything" }, { "id": "give_me_the_headline", "text": "Give me the headline" }, { "id": "what_happened_today", "text": "What happened today?" }, { "id": "okay_what_is_the_real_story", "text": "Okay, what is the real story?" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_008", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should I ask when you seem quiet?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "check_ins", "quiet", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "are_you_tired", "text": "Are you tired?" }, { "id": "do_you_want_company", "text": "Do you want company?" }, { "id": "is_something_on_your_mind", "text": "Is something on your mind?" }, { "id": "should_i_check_back_later", "text": "Should I check back later?" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_009", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which little conversations help you feel connected?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_talking", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sharing_something_funny", "text": "Sharing something funny" }, { "id": "talking_through_tomorrow", "text": "Talking through tomorrow" }, { "id": "telling_each_other_small_news", "text": "Telling each other small news" }, { "id": "comparing_random_opinions", "text": "Comparing random opinions" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_010", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Quick talk or deep dive?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_talking", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quick_talk", "text": "Quick talk" }, { "id": "deep_dive", "text": "Deep dive" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_011", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes you want to keep a conversation going?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_talking", "engagement", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "you_ask_a_good_follow_up", "text": "You ask a good follow-up" }, { "id": "you_share_something_back", "text": "You share something back" }, { "id": "you_seem_genuinely_interested", "text": "You seem genuinely interested" }, { "id": "the_conversation_takes_a_funny_turn", "text": "The conversation takes a funny turn" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_012", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of daily update do you prefer?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_talking", "preferences", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_full_play_by_play", "text": "The full play-by-play" }, { "id": "just_the_important_parts", "text": "Just the important parts" }, { "id": "mostly_the_funny_parts", "text": "Mostly the funny parts" }, { "id": "whatever_is_still_on_your_mind", "text": "Whatever is still on your mind" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_013", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which topics are easiest for us to talk about?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_talking", "topics", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "things_we_are_planning", "text": "Things we are planning" }, { "id": "people_and_stories", "text": "People and stories" }, { "id": "ideas_and_opinions", "text": "Ideas and opinions" }, { "id": "what_happened_during_the_day", "text": "What happened during the day" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_014", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a check-in feel caring to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "check_ins", "care", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "you_remember_to_ask", "text": "You remember to ask" }, { "id": "you_listen_to_the_answer", "text": "You listen to the answer" }, { "id": "you_do_not_make_it_dramatic", "text": "You do not make it dramatic" }, { "id": "you_follow_up_later", "text": "You follow up later" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_015", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Morning check-in or bedtime check-in?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "check_ins", "timing", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "morning_check_in", "text": "Morning check-in" }, { "id": "bedtime_check_in", "text": "Bedtime check-in" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_016", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When we have ten minutes, what should we talk about?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "check_ins", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "how_we_are_doing", "text": "How we are doing" }, { "id": "what_happened_today", "text": "What happened today" }, { "id": "what_we_need_tomorrow", "text": "What we need tomorrow" }, { "id": "something_fun_and_completely_unnecessary", "text": "Something fun and completely unnecessary" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_017", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps conversation feel like a break, not another task?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_talking", "ease", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_pressure_to_solve_anything", "text": "No pressure to solve anything" }, { "id": "a_relaxed_place_to_sit", "text": "A relaxed place to sit" }, { "id": "a_little_humor", "text": "A little humor" }, { "id": "knowing_we_can_keep_it_short", "text": "Knowing we can keep it short" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_018", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How understood do you feel in our everyday conversations?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_talking", "understanding", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very understood", "max_label": "Very understood" } }, { "id": "communication_019", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which habits make us better talkers as a couple?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_talking", "habits", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "putting_phones_down_sometimes", "text": "Putting phones down sometimes" }, { "id": "asking_instead_of_assuming", "text": "Asking instead of assuming" }, { "id": "letting_each_other_finish", "text": "Letting each other finish" }, { "id": "circling_back_when_life_interrupts", "text": "Circling back when life interrupts" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_020", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What kind of question usually gets your real answer?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "questions", "daily_talking", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_direct_question", "text": "A direct question" }, { "id": "a_gentle_question", "text": "A gentle question" }, { "id": "a_funny_question", "text": "A funny question" }, { "id": "a_question_with_a_little_context", "text": "A question with a little context" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_021", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", "text": "What is one question you wish I asked more often?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "questions", "written", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_022", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which daily details do you like sharing with me?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "daily_talking", "sharing", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_thing_that_annoyed_you", "text": "The thing that annoyed you" }, { "id": "the_thing_that_made_you_laugh", "text": "The thing that made you laugh" }, { "id": "the_thing_you_are_thinking_through", "text": "The thing you are thinking through" }, { "id": "the_thing_you_are_looking_forward_to", "text": "The thing you are looking forward to" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_023", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes a conversation feel most like us?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "couple_voice", "daily_talking", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_lose_track_of_time", "text": "We lose track of time" }, { "id": "we_laugh_halfway_through", "text": "We laugh halfway through" }, { "id": "we_jump_between_five_topics", "text": "We jump between five topics" }, { "id": "we_say_what_we_actually_mean", "text": "We say what we actually mean" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_024", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us talk when life is busy?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "busy_life", "daily_talking", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_five_minute_check_in", "text": "A five-minute check-in" }, { "id": "a_message_during_the_day", "text": "A message during the day" }, { "id": "a_planned_catch_up", "text": "A planned catch-up" }, { "id": "talking_while_we_do_something_else", "text": "Talking while we do something else" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_025", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which tiny signals mean “I want to talk”?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "conversation_openers", "daily_talking", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "come_sit_with_me", "text": "Come sit with me" }, { "id": "can_i_tell_you_something", "text": "Can I tell you something?" }, { "id": "you_have_a_minute", "text": "You have a minute?" }, { "id": "i_have_a_story_for_you", "text": "I have a story for you" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_026", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What tells you I am really listening?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "feeling_heard", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_remember_details_later", "text": "I remember details later" }, { "id": "i_ask_a_good_follow_up", "text": "I ask a good follow-up" }, { "id": "i_do_not_interrupt", "text": "I do not interrupt" }, { "id": "i_respond_to_the_part_that_mattered", "text": "I respond to the part that mattered" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_027", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which listening habits matter most to you?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "habits", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "letting_you_finish", "text": "Letting you finish" }, { "id": "looking_up_from_my_phone", "text": "Looking up from my phone" }, { "id": "not_rushing_to_fix_it", "text": "Not rushing to fix it" }, { "id": "checking_that_i_understood", "text": "Checking that I understood" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_028", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes it easier to finish your thought?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "patience", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_little_patience", "text": "A little patience" }, { "id": "no_guessing_where_you_are_going", "text": "No guessing where you are going" }, { "id": "a_calm_reaction", "text": "A calm reaction" }, { "id": "enough_time_to_find_the_words", "text": "Enough time to find the words" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_029", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How often do you feel fully heard by me?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "feeling_heard", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not often", "max_label": "Very often" } }, { "id": "communication_030", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Questions first or quiet listening first?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "preferences", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "questions_first", "text": "Questions first" }, { "id": "quiet_listening_first", "text": "Quiet listening first" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_031", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should I do when your story has many turns?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "stories", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "let_you_tell_it_your_way", "text": "Let you tell it your way" }, { "id": "ask_who_everyone_is", "text": "Ask who everyone is" }, { "id": "laugh_at_the_right_parts", "text": "Laugh at the right parts" }, { "id": "wait_for_the_ending_before_reacting", "text": "Wait for the ending before reacting" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_032", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which response makes you feel most heard?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "responses", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "that_makes_sense", "text": "That makes sense" }, { "id": "tell_me_more", "text": "Tell me more" }, { "id": "i_can_see_why", "text": "I can see why" }, { "id": "do_you_want_my_take", "text": "Do you want my take?" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_033", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you know I understood your point?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_say_it_back_clearly", "text": "I say it back clearly" }, { "id": "i_respond_to_what_mattered", "text": "I respond to what mattered" }, { "id": "i_ask_before_giving_advice", "text": "I ask before giving advice" }, { "id": "my_next_action_matches_the_conversation", "text": "My next action matches the conversation" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_034", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things make listening harder for you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "barriers", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "being_tired", "text": "Being tired" }, { "id": "feeling_rushed", "text": "Feeling rushed" }, { "id": "trying_to_do_two_things", "text": "Trying to do two things" }, { "id": "thinking_of_your_reply_too_soon", "text": "Thinking of your reply too soon" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_035", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Say it now or bring it up later?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "preferences", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "say_it_now", "text": "Say it now" }, { "id": "bring_it_up_later", "text": "Bring it up later" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_036", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you stay present when I am talking?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "presence", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "knowing_what_i_need_from_you", "text": "Knowing what I need from you" }, { "id": "a_clear_point_to_follow", "text": "A clear point to follow" }, { "id": "a_calm_pace", "text": "A calm pace" }, { "id": "being_able_to_ask_questions", "text": "Being able to ask questions" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_037", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When I am venting, what should you assume first?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "support_preferences", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_want_to_be_heard", "text": "I want to be heard" }, { "id": "i_want_ideas", "text": "I want ideas" }, { "id": "i_want_reassurance", "text": "I want reassurance" }, { "id": "you_should_ask_me", "text": "You should ask me" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_038", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which follow-up questions feel caring, not nosy?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "questions", "listening", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "what_part_matters_most", "text": "What part matters most?" }, { "id": "what_happened_after_that", "text": "What happened after that?" }, { "id": "do_you_want_to_talk_more", "text": "Do you want to talk more?" }, { "id": "is_there_anything_i_can_do", "text": "Is there anything I can do?" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_039", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes advice easier to hear?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "advice", "listening", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "you_ask_before_giving_it", "text": "You ask before giving it" }, { "id": "you_keep_it_practical", "text": "You keep it practical" }, { "id": "you_offer_choices", "text": "You offer choices" }, { "id": "you_leave_room_for_me_to_decide", "text": "You leave room for me to decide" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_040", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs tell you I have stopped listening?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "awareness", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_repeat_a_question_you_answered", "text": "I repeat a question you answered" }, { "id": "i_jump_in_too_fast", "text": "I jump in too fast" }, { "id": "i_change_the_subject", "text": "I change the subject" }, { "id": "i_start_solving_the_wrong_problem", "text": "I start solving the wrong problem" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_041", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is your preferred “I am listening” signal?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "signals", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "eye_contact", "text": "Eye contact" }, { "id": "a_quick_touch", "text": "A quick touch" }, { "id": "a_small_verbal_response", "text": "A small verbal response" }, { "id": "no_signal_just_attention", "text": "No signal, just attention" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_042", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you listen when you are tired?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "tired", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "keeping_it_short", "text": "Keeping it short" }, { "id": "sitting_down_together", "text": "Sitting down together" }, { "id": "knowing_whether_it_is_urgent", "text": "Knowing whether it is urgent" }, { "id": "taking_a_few_minutes_first", "text": "Taking a few minutes first" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_043", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How well do we notice when the other needs listening?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "attunement", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "We often miss it", "max_label": "We usually notice" } }, { "id": "communication_044", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which stories do you especially want me to remember?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "stories", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "things_from_your_childhood", "text": "Things from your childhood" }, { "id": "people_who_shaped_you", "text": "People who shaped you" }, { "id": "moments_you_were_proud_of", "text": "Moments you were proud of" }, { "id": "stories_you_do_not_tell_everyone", "text": "Stories you do not tell everyone" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_045", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a serious answer feel safe to give?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ "listening", "safety", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "you_do_not_rush_me", "text": "You do not rush me" }, { "id": "you_stay_curious", "text": "You stay curious" }, { "id": "you_do_not_turn_it_into_a_debate", "text": "You do not turn it into a debate" }, { "id": "you_keep_the_moment_private", "text": "You keep the moment private" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_046", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", "text": "Tell me about a time you felt completely heard by me.", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "listening", "memory", "written", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_047", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What kind of listener do you need after bad news?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "listening", "bad_news", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quiet_and_steady", "text": "Quiet and steady" }, { "id": "warm_and_reassuring", "text": "Warm and reassuring" }, { "id": "practical_and_helpful", "text": "Practical and helpful" }, { "id": "ready_to_distract_me_later", "text": "Ready to distract me later" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_048", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should I do if I lose the thread?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "listening", "clarity", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_you_to_back_up", "text": "Ask you to back up" }, { "id": "tell_you_where_i_got_lost", "text": "Tell you where I got lost" }, { "id": "let_you_finish_first", "text": "Let you finish first" }, { "id": "make_my_best_guess", "text": "Make my best guess" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_049", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which reactions make you want to share more?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "listening", "engagement", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_real_laugh", "text": "A real laugh" }, { "id": "a_thoughtful_pause", "text": "A thoughtful pause" }, { "id": "a_curious_question", "text": "A curious question" }, { "id": "a_response_that_shows_you_remembered", "text": "A response that shows you remembered" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_050", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes listening feel mutual between us?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "listening", "mutuality", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_both_get_a_turn", "text": "We both get a turn" }, { "id": "we_ask_about_each_other", "text": "We ask about each other" }, { "id": "we_share_without_competing", "text": "We share without competing" }, { "id": "we_remember_what_mattered", "text": "We remember what mattered" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_051", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How do you prefer to ask for something important?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "asking", "needs", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "say_it_directly", "text": "Say it directly" }, { "id": "give_some_context_first", "text": "Give some context first" }, { "id": "write_it_out", "text": "Write it out" }, { "id": "bring_it_up_during_a_calm_moment", "text": "Bring it up during a calm moment" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_052", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you say what you need clearly?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "asking", "needs", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "knowing_you_will_not_judge_it", "text": "Knowing you will not judge it" }, { "id": "having_time_to_think", "text": "Having time to think" }, { "id": "using_simple_words", "text": "Using simple words" }, { "id": "knowing_you_can_hear_it_without_agreeing", "text": "Knowing you can hear it without agreeing" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_053", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which requests are easiest for you to make?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "asking", "requests", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "help_with_something_practical", "text": "Help with something practical" }, { "id": "a_little_reassurance", "text": "A little reassurance" }, { "id": "more_time_together", "text": "More time together" }, { "id": "a_change_in_plans", "text": "A change in plans" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_054", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you asking me for what you need?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "asking", "needs", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Still a little hard", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "communication_055", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Direct request or gentle hint?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "asking", "preferences", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "direct_request", "text": "Direct request" }, { "id": "gentle_hint", "text": "Gentle hint" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_056", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a request feel respectful to you?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "asking", "respect", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_is_clear", "text": "It is clear" }, { "id": "it_leaves_room_for_an_answer", "text": "It leaves room for an answer" }, { "id": "it_explains_why_it_matters", "text": "It explains why it matters" }, { "id": "it_is_not_buried_in_criticism", "text": "It is not buried in criticism" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_057", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which phrase makes asking feel easiest?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "asking", "phrases", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "could_you_help_me_with_this", "text": "Could you help me with this?" }, { "id": "can_i_tell_you_what_i_need", "text": "Can I tell you what I need?" }, { "id": "would_you_be_open_to_something", "text": "Would you be open to something?" }, { "id": "i_have_a_small_request", "text": "I have a small request" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_058", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you explain something complicated?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "explaining", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "starting_with_the_short_version", "text": "Starting with the short version" }, { "id": "using_an_example", "text": "Using an example" }, { "id": "saying_what_part_matters_most", "text": "Saying what part matters most" }, { "id": "letting_you_ask_questions", "text": "Letting you ask questions" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_059", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which needs are hardest to put into words?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "asking", "needs", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "needing_space", "text": "Needing space" }, { "id": "needing_reassurance", "text": "Needing reassurance" }, { "id": "needing_more_help", "text": "Needing more help" }, { "id": "needing_a_different_approach", "text": "Needing a different approach" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_060", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Ask directly or hope they notice?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "asking", "assumptions", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_directly", "text": "Ask directly" }, { "id": "hope_they_notice", "text": "Hope they notice" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_061", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a “no” still feel caring?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "asking", "responses", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_kind_tone", "text": "A kind tone" }, { "id": "a_short_reason", "text": "A short reason" }, { "id": "another_option", "text": "Another option" }, { "id": "reassurance_that_the_request_was_okay", "text": "Reassurance that the request was okay" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_062", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When you need help, what should I ask first?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "asking", "support", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "what_would_help_most", "text": "What would help most?" }, { "id": "how_soon_do_you_need_it", "text": "How soon do you need it?" }, { "id": "do_you_want_help_or_company", "text": "Do you want help or company?" }, { "id": "what_part_feels_hardest", "text": "What part feels hardest?" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_063", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which phrases make a request easier to receive?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "asking", "phrases", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "would_you_be_willing_to", "text": "Would you be willing to…" }, { "id": "could_we_try", "text": "Could we try…" }, { "id": "it_would_help_me_if", "text": "It would help me if…" }, { "id": "can_we_find_a_way_to", "text": "Can we find a way to…" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_064", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes an explanation feel complete to you?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "explaining", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_main_point_is_clear", "text": "The main point is clear" }, { "id": "you_know_why_it_matters", "text": "You know why it matters" }, { "id": "there_is_a_real_example", "text": "There is a real example" }, { "id": "you_know_what_i_am_asking_for", "text": "You know what I am asking for" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_065", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which habits help us avoid guessing games?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "clarity", "assumptions", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "saying_what_we_mean", "text": "Saying what we mean" }, { "id": "checking_our_assumptions", "text": "Checking our assumptions" }, { "id": "asking_one_more_question", "text": "Asking one more question" }, { "id": "admitting_when_we_are_unsure", "text": "Admitting when we are unsure" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_066", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is the best way to clarify a vague request?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "clarity", "requests", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_for_an_example", "text": "Ask for an example" }, { "id": "ask_what_success_looks_like", "text": "Ask what success looks like" }, { "id": "offer_two_possible_meanings", "text": "Offer two possible meanings" }, { "id": "repeat_what_you_heard", "text": "Repeat what you heard" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_067", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes it easier to admit “I do not know”?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "clarity", "uncertainty", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_pressure_for_a_quick_answer", "text": "No pressure for a quick answer" }, { "id": "room_to_think_out_loud", "text": "Room to think out loud" }, { "id": "knowing_uncertainty_is_okay", "text": "Knowing uncertainty is okay" }, { "id": "a_question_that_narrows_it_down", "text": "A question that narrows it down" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_068", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How clear are we about what we want from conversations?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "clarity", "conversation_goals", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Often unclear", "max_label": "Usually very clear" } }, { "id": "communication_069", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which conversation goals should we name more often?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "conversation_goals", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_want_you_to_listen", "text": "I want you to listen" }, { "id": "i_want_your_opinion", "text": "I want your opinion" }, { "id": "i_need_help_deciding", "text": "I need help deciding" }, { "id": "i_just_want_to_share_this", "text": "I just want to share this" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_070", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you correct me without feeling rude?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "clarity", "correction", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_quick_simple_correction", "text": "A quick simple correction" }, { "id": "a_little_humor", "text": "A little humor" }, { "id": "explaining_what_i_missed", "text": "Explaining what I missed" }, { "id": "knowing_i_will_not_take_it_personally", "text": "Knowing I will not take it personally" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_071", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which details help you understand a request faster?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "requests", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "why_it_matters", "text": "Why it matters" }, { "id": "when_it_needs_to_happen", "text": "When it needs to happen" }, { "id": "what_part_is_flexible", "text": "What part is flexible" }, { "id": "what_you_want_me_to_handle", "text": "What you want me to handle" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_072", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should we say when a hint is not landing?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "asking", "humor", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "let_me_say_that_more_directly", "text": "Let me say that more directly" }, { "id": "i_am_actually_asking_for_something", "text": "I am actually asking for something" }, { "id": "can_i_try_that_again", "text": "Can I try that again?" }, { "id": "okay_here_is_the_plain_version", "text": "Okay, here is the plain version" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_073", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes it easier to share an unpopular opinion?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "opinions", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "knowing_disagreement_is_allowed", "text": "Knowing disagreement is allowed" }, { "id": "a_calm_opening", "text": "A calm opening" }, { "id": "no_teasing_while_i_explain", "text": "No teasing while I explain" }, { "id": "a_real_chance_to_finish", "text": "A real chance to finish" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_074", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which kinds of examples help you understand me?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "explaining", "examples", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_recent_situation", "text": "A recent situation" }, { "id": "a_made_up_example", "text": "A made-up example" }, { "id": "a_comparison", "text": "A comparison" }, { "id": "a_specific_version_of_what_i_mean", "text": "A specific version of what I mean" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_075", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us turn complaints into clear requests?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "requests", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "naming_what_would_help", "text": "Naming what would help" }, { "id": "keeping_it_about_one_issue", "text": "Keeping it about one issue" }, { "id": "dropping_the_exaggeration", "text": "Dropping the exaggeration" }, { "id": "making_the_request_doable", "text": "Making the request doable" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_076", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which tone helps you stay most open?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "tone", "openness", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "calm_and_direct", "text": "Calm and direct" }, { "id": "warm_and_gentle", "text": "Warm and gentle" }, { "id": "light_with_a_little_humor", "text": "Light with a little humor" }, { "id": "matter_of_fact", "text": "Matter-of-fact" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_077", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What affects how you hear my words?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "tone", "context", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "my_tone", "text": "My tone" }, { "id": "my_timing", "text": "My timing" }, { "id": "my_facial_expression", "text": "My facial expression" }, { "id": "what_happened_right_before", "text": "What happened right before" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_078", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which conversation times usually work best for you?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "timing", "context", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "before_the_day_gets_busy", "text": "Before the day gets busy" }, { "id": "after_we_have_eaten", "text": "After we have eaten" }, { "id": "during_a_drive", "text": "During a drive" }, { "id": "once_the_house_is_quiet", "text": "Once the house is quiet" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_079", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How well do we choose the right moment to talk?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "timing", "awareness", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "We often miss it", "max_label": "We usually get it right" } }, { "id": "communication_080", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Talk now or schedule a better moment?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "timing", "preferences", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "talk_now", "text": "Talk now" }, { "id": "schedule_a_better_moment", "text": "Schedule a better moment" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_081", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes “not right now” feel respectful?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "timing", "respect", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_clear_reason", "text": "A clear reason" }, { "id": "a_better_time_offered", "text": "A better time offered" }, { "id": "a_warm_tone", "text": "A warm tone" }, { "id": "reassurance_the_topic_matters", "text": "Reassurance the topic matters" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_082", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which setting makes a hard topic easier?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "context", "hard_topics", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sitting_side_by_side", "text": "Sitting side by side" }, { "id": "taking_a_walk", "text": "Taking a walk" }, { "id": "talking_in_the_car", "text": "Talking in the car" }, { "id": "talking_at_home_with_no_distractions", "text": "Talking at home with no distractions" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_083", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes direct feedback easier to hear?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "tone", "directness", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_calm_voice", "text": "A calm voice" }, { "id": "no_loaded_language", "text": "No loaded language" }, { "id": "one_clear_point", "text": "One clear point" }, { "id": "a_reminder_that_we_are_on_the_same_side", "text": "A reminder that we are on the same side" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_084", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which tones make you stop hearing the message?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "tone", "barriers", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sarcasm", "text": "Sarcasm" }, { "id": "a_sharp_edge", "text": "A sharp edge" }, { "id": "talking_down_to_you", "text": "Talking down to you" }, { "id": "fake_calm_that_feels_cold", "text": "Fake calm that feels cold" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_085", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it for us to reset our tone?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "tone", "awareness", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Still difficult", "max_label": "Usually easy" } }, { "id": "communication_086", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should we check before starting a serious talk?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "timing", "hard_topics", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "do_we_have_time", "text": "Do we have time?" }, { "id": "are_we_both_able_to_focus", "text": "Are we both able to focus?" }, { "id": "is_this_private", "text": "Is this private?" }, { "id": "does_it_need_to_happen_now", "text": "Does it need to happen now?" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_087", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which opener makes an important talk feel least dramatic?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "conversation_openers", "tone", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_need_a_real_conversation", "text": "I need a real conversation" }, { "id": "can_we_talk_about_something_important", "text": "Can we talk about something important?" }, { "id": "i_have_something_on_my_mind", "text": "I have something on my mind" }, { "id": "this_is_not_bad_but_it_matters", "text": "This is not bad, but it matters" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_088", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes humor helpful during a conversation?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "humor", "tone", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_lowers_the_tension", "text": "It lowers the tension" }, { "id": "it_feels_like_us", "text": "It feels like us" }, { "id": "it_is_not_aimed_at_either_person", "text": "It is not aimed at either person" }, { "id": "it_does_not_dodge_the_point", "text": "It does not dodge the point" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_089", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When is it usually a bad time to talk?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "timing", "awareness", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "right_before_sleep", "text": "Right before sleep" }, { "id": "while_someone_is_rushing_out", "text": "While someone is rushing out" }, { "id": "in_front_of_other_people", "text": "In front of other people" }, { "id": "when_one_of_us_is_already_overloaded", "text": "When one of us is already overloaded" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_090", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a conversation feel private enough?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "context", "privacy", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_one_else_can_hear", "text": "No one else can hear" }, { "id": "phones_are_not_pulling_attention", "text": "Phones are not pulling attention" }, { "id": "we_know_we_will_not_be_interrupted", "text": "We know we will not be interrupted" }, { "id": "we_can_speak_without_watching_the_clock", "text": "We can speak without watching the clock" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_091", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What usually softens your tone fastest?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "tone", "awareness", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_slower_pace", "text": "A slower pace" }, { "id": "a_little_reassurance", "text": "A little reassurance" }, { "id": "a_sincere_question", "text": "A sincere question" }, { "id": "realizing_we_misunderstood_each_other", "text": "Realizing we misunderstood each other" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_092", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which openings make you brace for bad news?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "conversation_openers", "tone", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_need_to_talk", "text": "We need to talk" }, { "id": "do_not_get_mad_but", "text": "Do not get mad, but…" }, { "id": "you_always_do_this", "text": "You always do this" }, { "id": "i_should_not_have_to_say_this", "text": "I should not have to say this" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_093", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How often does our tone match what we actually mean?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "tone", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not often enough", "max_label": "Almost always" } }, { "id": "communication_094", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you tell whether I am joking?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "humor", "clarity", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "my_face_gives_it_away", "text": "My face gives it away" }, { "id": "the_situation_makes_it_obvious", "text": "The situation makes it obvious" }, { "id": "i_say_i_am_kidding", "text": "I say I am kidding" }, { "id": "you_know_my_usual_humor", "text": "You know my usual humor" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_095", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which context should I give before a request?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "context", "requests", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "why_i_am_asking", "text": "Why I am asking" }, { "id": "how_urgent_it_is", "text": "How urgent it is" }, { "id": "what_i_have_already_tried", "text": "What I have already tried" }, { "id": "what_part_i_need_from_you", "text": "What part I need from you" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_096", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", "text": "What phrase helps you know a serious talk is still safe?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "tone", "hard_topics", "written", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_097", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps a direct conversation from feeling cold?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "tone", "directness", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_warm_opening", "text": "A warm opening" }, { "id": "a_normal_voice", "text": "A normal voice" }, { "id": "a_little_appreciation", "text": "A little appreciation" }, { "id": "time_to_respond", "text": "Time to respond" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_098", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which pace helps you think while talking?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "pace", "preferences", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "fast_and_lively", "text": "Fast and lively" }, { "id": "steady_and_focused", "text": "Steady and focused" }, { "id": "slow_with_pauses", "text": "Slow with pauses" }, { "id": "a_mix_depending_on_the_topic", "text": "A mix depending on the topic" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_099", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps when one of us needs more time to answer?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "pace", "processing_time", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_filling_the_silence", "text": "No filling the silence" }, { "id": "a_smaller_question", "text": "A smaller question" }, { "id": "permission_to_come_back_later", "text": "Permission to come back later" }, { "id": "knowing_a_pause_is_not_avoidance", "text": "Knowing a pause is not avoidance" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_100", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs mean the timing is actually good?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "timing", "awareness", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_are_both_present", "text": "We are both present" }, { "id": "no_one_is_rushing", "text": "No one is rushing" }, { "id": "the_topic_fits_the_moment", "text": "The topic fits the moment" }, { "id": "we_have_enough_energy_to_answer_honestly", "text": "We have enough energy to answer honestly" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_101", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of text from me makes your day better?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "digital", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "something_funny", "text": "Something funny" }, { "id": "a_sweet_check_in", "text": "A sweet check-in" }, { "id": "a_quick_update", "text": "A quick update" }, { "id": "a_message_that_says_i_was_thinking_of_you", "text": "A message that says I was thinking of you" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_102", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes texting feel clear between us?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "enough_context", "text": "Enough context" }, { "id": "a_direct_question", "text": "A direct question" }, { "id": "no_guessing_at_tone", "text": "No guessing at tone" }, { "id": "following_up_if_something_sounds_off", "text": "Following up if something sounds off" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_103", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things are better said in person?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "channel_choice", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "anything_easy_to_misread", "text": "Anything easy to misread" }, { "id": "big_decisions", "text": "Big decisions" }, { "id": "sensitive_feedback", "text": "Sensitive feedback" }, { "id": "long_explanations", "text": "Long explanations" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_104", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How well do we understand each other over text?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "We misread a lot", "max_label": "We usually get it" } }, { "id": "communication_105", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Voice note or long text?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "digital", "preferences", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "voice_note", "text": "Voice note" }, { "id": "long_text", "text": "Long text" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_106", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which messages deserve more than a one-word reply?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "responses", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "something_vulnerable", "text": "Something vulnerable" }, { "id": "an_important_question", "text": "An important question" }, { "id": "a_plan_that_needs_an_answer", "text": "A plan that needs an answer" }, { "id": "a_story_you_clearly_care_about", "text": "A story you clearly care about" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_107", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should “K” mean in our relationship?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "humor", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "okay_got_it", "text": "Okay, got it" }, { "id": "i_am_busy_not_mad", "text": "I am busy, not mad" }, { "id": "this_conversation_is_over", "text": "This conversation is over" }, { "id": "it_should_never_be_trusted", "text": "It should never be trusted" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_108", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a text sound warm instead of blunt?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "tone", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_greeting", "text": "A greeting" }, { "id": "a_little_context", "text": "A little context" }, { "id": "one_extra_sentence", "text": "One extra sentence" }, { "id": "an_emoji_that_actually_fits", "text": "An emoji that actually fits" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_109", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which texting habits cause the most confusion?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "answering_only_one_question", "text": "Answering only one question" }, { "id": "changing_the_subject_mid_thread", "text": "Changing the subject mid-thread" }, { "id": "leaving_out_key_context", "text": "Leaving out key context" }, { "id": "assuming_silence_means_something", "text": "Assuming silence means something" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_110", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to tell when a text needs a call?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "channel_choice", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "We often guess wrong", "max_label": "We usually know" } }, { "id": "communication_111", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a daytime check-in feel good?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "check_ins", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_is_low_pressure", "text": "It is low pressure" }, { "id": "it_shows_you_remembered_me", "text": "It shows you remembered me" }, { "id": "it_gives_me_something_to_smile_about", "text": "It gives me something to smile about" }, { "id": "it_does_not_demand_an_immediate_answer", "text": "It does not demand an immediate answer" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_112", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which reply delay needs the least explanation?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "expectations", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "while_working", "text": "While working" }, { "id": "while_driving", "text": "While driving" }, { "id": "while_with_family", "text": "While with family" }, { "id": "any_delay_when_we_already_know_the_reason", "text": "Any delay when we already know the reason" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_113", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should we do when a text sounds wrong?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_what_you_meant", "text": "Ask what you meant" }, { "id": "assume_the_best_first", "text": "Assume the best first" }, { "id": "call_if_it_matters", "text": "Call if it matters" }, { "id": "wait_until_we_can_focus", "text": "Wait until we can focus" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_114", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which digital habits help us stay connected?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "digital", "habits", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sending_small_updates", "text": "Sending small updates" }, { "id": "sharing_something_funny", "text": "Sharing something funny" }, { "id": "letting_each_other_know_when_we_are_busy", "text": "Letting each other know when we are busy" }, { "id": "actually_answering_important_questions", "text": "Actually answering important questions" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_115", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a voice note better than a text?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "digital", "voice_notes", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "you_can_hear_the_tone", "text": "You can hear the tone" }, { "id": "the_story_is_easier_to_tell", "text": "The story is easier to tell" }, { "id": "it_feels_more_personal", "text": "It feels more personal" }, { "id": "it_saves_a_wall_of_text", "text": "It saves a wall of text" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_116", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is the best use of our shared chat?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "digital", "couple_voice", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "plans_and_reminders", "text": "Plans and reminders" }, { "id": "jokes_and_random_thoughts", "text": "Jokes and random thoughts" }, { "id": "photos_and_little_updates", "text": "Photos and little updates" }, { "id": "all_of_the_above_chaos", "text": "All of the above chaos" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_117", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which messages make you feel remembered?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "thoughtfulness", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_reference_to_an_earlier_conversation", "text": "A reference to an earlier conversation" }, { "id": "a_picture_of_something_you_would_like", "text": "A picture of something you would like" }, { "id": "a_good_luck_message", "text": "A good-luck message" }, { "id": "a_follow_up_about_something_important", "text": "A follow-up about something important" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_118", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How often do our texts match our real-life tone?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "tone", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very often", "max_label": "Almost always" } }, { "id": "communication_119", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What information should a planning text include?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "planning", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_actual_time", "text": "The actual time" }, { "id": "the_actual_place", "text": "The actual place" }, { "id": "what_still_needs_deciding", "text": "What still needs deciding" }, { "id": "whether_you_need_an_answer_soon", "text": "Whether you need an answer soon" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_120", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which texts should wait until we can really talk?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "channel_choice", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_major_decision", "text": "A major decision" }, { "id": "sensitive_feedback", "text": "Sensitive feedback" }, { "id": "a_long_explanation", "text": "A long explanation" }, { "id": "anything_easy_to_misread", "text": "Anything easy to misread" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_121", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", "text": "What is one text from me you still remember?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "memory", "written", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_122", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which details belong in a follow-up text?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "follow_up", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_refers_to_what_we_discussed", "text": "It refers to what we discussed" }, { "id": "it_checks_whether_anything_changed", "text": "It checks whether anything changed" }, { "id": "it_answers_the_part_left_open", "text": "It answers the part left open" }, { "id": "it_suggests_when_to_talk_again", "text": "It suggests when to talk again" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_123", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which emoji causes the most unnecessary confusion?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "humor", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_thumbs_up", "text": "The thumbs-up" }, { "id": "the_plain_smile", "text": "The plain smile" }, { "id": "the_eye_roll", "text": "The eye-roll" }, { "id": "the_mysterious_single_heart", "text": "The mysterious single heart" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_124", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should we clarify about texting expectations?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "texting", "expectations", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "how_quickly_replies_matter", "text": "How quickly replies matter" }, { "id": "when_a_call_is_better", "text": "When a call is better" }, { "id": "how_we_signal_being_busy", "text": "How we signal being busy" }, { "id": "which_topics_need_real_time", "text": "Which topics need real time" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_125", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which digital moments make conversation feel more personal?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "digital", "connection", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_thoughtful_voice_note", "text": "A thoughtful voice note" }, { "id": "a_photo_from_your_day", "text": "A photo from your day" }, { "id": "a_late_night_message", "text": "A late-night message" }, { "id": "a_link_chosen_just_for_me", "text": "A link chosen just for me" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_126", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What usually causes our smallest misunderstandings?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "misunderstandings", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "missing_context", "text": "Missing context" }, { "id": "different_assumptions", "text": "Different assumptions" }, { "id": "bad_timing", "text": "Bad timing" }, { "id": "a_tone_that_lands_wrong", "text": "A tone that lands wrong" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_127", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us catch a misunderstanding early?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "misunderstandings", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "asking_what_you_meant", "text": "Asking what you meant" }, { "id": "noticing_a_weird_reaction", "text": "Noticing a weird reaction" }, { "id": "repeating_the_main_point", "text": "Repeating the main point" }, { "id": "stopping_before_adding_assumptions", "text": "Stopping before adding assumptions" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_128", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which assumptions should we check more often?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "assumptions", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "what_the_other_person_meant", "text": "What the other person meant" }, { "id": "whether_something_is_urgent", "text": "Whether something is urgent" }, { "id": "whether_advice_is_wanted", "text": "Whether advice is wanted" }, { "id": "whether_silence_means_anything", "text": "Whether silence means anything" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_129", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How quickly do we usually clear up confusion?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "misunderstandings", "clarity", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "It can linger", "max_label": "We clear it up quickly" } }, { "id": "communication_130", "category_id": "communication", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Clarify now or sit with it first?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "clarity", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "clarify_now", "text": "Clarify now" }, { "id": "sit_with_it_first", "text": "Sit with it first" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_131", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a clarification question sound respectful?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "clarity", "questions", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_neutral_tone", "text": "A neutral tone" }, { "id": "no_hidden_accusation", "text": "No hidden accusation" }, { "id": "a_specific_point", "text": "A specific point" }, { "id": "real_curiosity", "text": "Real curiosity" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_132", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which phrase stops assumptions fastest?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "clarity", "phrases", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "what_did_you_mean_by_that", "text": "What did you mean by that?" }, { "id": "i_may_be_reading_this_wrong", "text": "I may be reading this wrong" }, { "id": "can_you_say_that_another_way", "text": "Can you say that another way?" }, { "id": "let_me_check_what_i_heard", "text": "Let me check what I heard" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_133", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps when we remember a conversation differently?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "misunderstandings", "memory", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "focus_on_the_main_point", "text": "Focus on the main point" }, { "id": "admit_memory_can_be_imperfect", "text": "Admit memory can be imperfect" }, { "id": "avoid_turning_it_into_a_courtroom", "text": "Avoid turning it into a courtroom" }, { "id": "decide_what_matters_now", "text": "Decide what matters now" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_134", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which conversation habits deserve a regular tune-up?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "habits", "communication_growth", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "how_we_interrupt", "text": "How we interrupt" }, { "id": "how_we_ask_for_attention", "text": "How we ask for attention" }, { "id": "how_we_give_updates", "text": "How we give updates" }, { "id": "how_we_end_unfinished_talks", "text": "How we end unfinished talks" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_135", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How confident are you that we can clear up mixed signals?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "misunderstandings", "confidence", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very confident", "max_label": "Very confident" } }, { "id": "communication_136", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you admit you misunderstood me?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "misunderstandings", "humility", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_teasing_about_it", "text": "No teasing about it" }, { "id": "a_chance_to_correct_it_quickly", "text": "A chance to correct it quickly" }, { "id": "knowing_i_will_not_pile_on", "text": "Knowing I will not pile on" }, { "id": "remembering_it_happens_to_both_of_us", "text": "Remembering it happens to both of us" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_137", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which restart sounds most natural after a misunderstanding?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "clarity", "misunderstandings", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "let_me_say_that_differently", "text": "Let me say that differently" }, { "id": "what_did_you_hear_me_say", "text": "What did you hear me say?" }, { "id": "we_are_talking_past_each_other", "text": "We are talking past each other" }, { "id": "can_we_back_up_a_minute", "text": "Can we back up a minute?" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_138", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which unfinished conversations should we circle back to?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "follow_up", "unfinished_talks", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_question_that_never_got_answered", "text": "A question that never got answered" }, { "id": "a_decision_still_hanging", "text": "A decision still hanging" }, { "id": "something_important_interrupted", "text": "Something important interrupted" }, { "id": "a_topic_one_of_us_asked_to_pause", "text": "A topic one of us asked to pause" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_139", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a follow-up feel thoughtful?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "follow_up", "thoughtfulness", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "you_remember_without_prompting", "text": "You remember without prompting" }, { "id": "you_ask_at_a_good_time", "text": "You ask at a good time" }, { "id": "you_refer_to_the_real_detail", "text": "You refer to the real detail" }, { "id": "you_listen_to_what_changed", "text": "You listen to what changed" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_140", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things are worth saying twice?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "clarity", "repetition", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "something_important", "text": "Something important" }, { "id": "a_clear_appreciation", "text": "A clear appreciation" }, { "id": "a_request_that_got_lost", "text": "A request that got lost" }, { "id": "a_reassurance_that_did_not_land", "text": "A reassurance that did not land" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_141", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which communication habit would improve us fastest?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "habits", "communication_growth", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "fewer_assumptions", "text": "Fewer assumptions" }, { "id": "better_timing", "text": "Better timing" }, { "id": "clearer_requests", "text": "Clearer requests" }, { "id": "more_follow_up", "text": "More follow-up" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_142", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us keep conversations from becoming monologues?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mutuality", "habits", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "asking_each_other_questions", "text": "Asking each other questions" }, { "id": "pausing_for_a_response", "text": "Pausing for a response" }, { "id": "not_repeating_the_same_point", "text": "Not repeating the same point" }, { "id": "noticing_when_the_other_person_checks_out", "text": "Noticing when the other person checks out" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_143", "category_id": "communication", "type": "scale", "text": "How balanced does our communication feel lately?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mutuality", "communication_growth", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "A little one-sided", "max_label": "Very balanced" } }, { "id": "communication_144", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which small habits make communication warmer?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "habits", "warmth", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "saying_hello_like_we_mean_it", "text": "Saying hello like we mean it" }, { "id": "using_each_other_s_names_kindly", "text": "Using each other’s names kindly" }, { "id": "adding_appreciation", "text": "Adding appreciation" }, { "id": "ending_with_a_clear_next_step", "text": "Ending with a clear next step" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_145", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us disagree about facts without getting personal?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "clarity", "opinions", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "check_the_information", "text": "Check the information" }, { "id": "separate_facts_from_guesses", "text": "Separate facts from guesses" }, { "id": "stay_on_the_one_point", "text": "Stay on the one point" }, { "id": "make_it_okay_to_be_mistaken", "text": "Make it okay to be mistaken" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_146", "category_id": "communication", "type": "written", "text": "What is one communication habit you want us to keep forever?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "habits", "written", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "communication_147", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs show our communication is getting stronger?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "communication_growth", "progress", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_ask_more_direct_questions", "text": "We ask more direct questions" }, { "id": "we_recover_from_confusion_faster", "text": "We recover from confusion faster" }, { "id": "we_can_say_what_we_need", "text": "We can say what we need" }, { "id": "we_do_less_mind_reading", "text": "We do less mind-reading" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_148", "category_id": "communication", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should our unofficial communication motto be?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "couple_voice", "fun_first", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_before_assuming", "text": "Ask before assuming" }, { "id": "say_the_actual_thing", "text": "Say the actual thing" }, { "id": "kind_and_clear", "text": "Kind and clear" }, { "id": "we_can_try_that_again", "text": "We can try that again" } ] } }, { "id": "communication_149", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should show up more in the way we talk?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "couple_voice", "communication_growth", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "more_humor", "text": "More humor" }, { "id": "more_honesty", "text": "More honesty" }, { "id": "more_curiosity", "text": "More curiosity" }, { "id": "more_room_for_different_styles", "text": "More room for different styles" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "communication_150", "category_id": "communication", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which communication habits could we actually stick with?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "habits", "commitments", "communication" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_instead_of_guess", "text": "Ask instead of guess" }, { "id": "say_when_the_timing_is_bad", "text": "Say when the timing is bad" }, { "id": "come_back_to_important_topics", "text": "Come back to important topics" }, { "id": "do_not_let_silence_tell_the_whole_story", "text": "Do not let silence tell the whole story" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } } ] }