{ "category": { "id": "quality_time", "display_name": "Quality Time", "description": "Warm, easy-to-answer questions that help couples feel present, known, relaxed, and intentionally together through ordinary routines, quiet closeness, meaningful conversation, affection, and realistic plans.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "schedule_heart", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { "content_version": "quality_time_v11_150_max_second_editorial_pass", "guide_version": "QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE v10 + QUESTION_SCHEMA v7 + QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST v10", "review_policy": "Rebuilt in six 25-question batches with full-pack checks for spoken voice, option fit, pacing, repetition, premium value, inclusivity, prediction, low-energy play, flirting, and invitations.", "mass_rewrite_reason": "The prior pack contained 250 questions and 150 written responses, so more than 60% shared structural failures under the current 150-question and written-question limits.", "compatibility_note": "Numeric depth and answer_config are retained for the active importer. Choice questions mirror options at the top level.", "total_questions": 150, "free_questions": 45, "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { "written": 5, "single_choice": 30, "multi_choice": 90, "scale": 15, "this_or_that": 10 }, "second_pass_summary": "Reordered the full pack so every 10-question window mixes light connection, practical preferences, couple lore, prediction, flirting, and an actionable invitation; then completed a read-aloud and answer-fit review.", "coverage_targets": { "flirty_questions": 15, "invitation_or_action_questions": 24, "prediction_and_reveal_questions": 15, "couple_lore_questions": 25, "low_energy_questions": 38, "adult_humor_questions": 14 }, "second_editorial_pass": { "corrections": 18, "focus": [ "natural adult spoken voice", "prompt-option fit", "near-duplicate mechanics", "category distinction", "free and premium value" ], "result": "Preserved the 150-question structure while removing awkward jargon, one duplicated invitation mechanic, one overlapping settings question, and several worksheet-like phrases." } } }, "questions": [ { "id": "quality_time_001", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes staying home feel intentional instead of automatic?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "home_time", "intentionality", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "we_choose_a_start_time", "text": "We choose a start time" }, { "id": "we_change_the_usual_setup", "text": "We change the usual setup" }, { "id": "we_pick_something_both_of_us_want", "text": "We pick something both of us want" }, { "id": "we_put_away_the_most_distracting_tasks", "text": "We put away the most distracting tasks" }, { "id": "we_include_one_detail_that_feels_special", "text": "We include one detail that feels special" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_choose_a_start_time", "text": "We choose a start time" }, { "id": "we_change_the_usual_setup", "text": "We change the usual setup" }, { "id": "we_pick_something_both_of_us_want", "text": "We pick something both of us want" }, { "id": "we_put_away_the_most_distracting_tasks", "text": "We put away the most distracting tasks" }, { "id": "we_include_one_detail_that_feels_special", "text": "We include one detail that feels special" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_002", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which low-key flirting move gets my attention fastest—your guess?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "prediction", "flirty", "partner_preferences", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_quiet_compliment", "text": "A quiet compliment" }, { "id": "a_meaningful_look", "text": "A meaningful look" }, { "id": "a_playful_touch", "text": "A playful touch" }, { "id": "a_message_that_makes_me_smile", "text": "A message that makes me smile" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_quiet_compliment", "text": "A quiet compliment" }, { "id": "a_meaningful_look", "text": "A meaningful look" }, { "id": "a_playful_touch", "text": "A playful touch" }, { "id": "a_message_that_makes_me_smile", "text": "A message that makes me smile" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_003", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How much would a little uninterrupted time together help today?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "current_need", "invitation", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "quality_time_004", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What could make mornings feel more like shared time?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "mornings", "routines", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "sitting_together_for_the_first_drink_of_the_day", "text": "Sitting together for the first drink of the day" }, { "id": "giving_each_other_a_real_goodbye", "text": "Giving each other a real goodbye" }, { "id": "sharing_the_plan_before_things_get_busy", "text": "Sharing the plan before things get busy" }, { "id": "sending_one_thoughtful_message_later", "text": "Sending one thoughtful message later" }, { "id": "protecting_a_few_quiet_minutes", "text": "Protecting a few quiet minutes" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sitting_together_for_the_first_drink_of_the_day", "text": "Sitting together for the first drink of the day" }, { "id": "giving_each_other_a_real_goodbye", "text": "Giving each other a real goodbye" }, { "id": "sharing_the_plan_before_things_get_busy", "text": "Sharing the plan before things get busy" }, { "id": "sending_one_thoughtful_message_later", "text": "Sending one thoughtful message later" }, { "id": "protecting_a_few_quiet_minutes", "text": "Protecting a few quiet minutes" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_005", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Put it on the calendar or decide the day of?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "planning_style", "quick_choice", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "put_it_on_the_calendar", "text": "Put it on the calendar" }, { "id": "decide_the_day_of", "text": "Decide the day of" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "put_it_on_the_calendar", "text": "Put it on the calendar" }, { "id": "decide_the_day_of", "text": "Decide the day of" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_006", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would make a new tradition feel natural for us?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "traditions", "low_pressure", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "it_grows_from_something_we_already_enjoy", "text": "It grows from something we already enjoy" }, { "id": "it_does_not_require_a_perfect_schedule", "text": "It does not require a perfect schedule" }, { "id": "both_of_us_help_shape_it", "text": "Both of us help shape it" }, { "id": "it_has_a_small_recognizable_detail", "text": "It has a small recognizable detail" }, { "id": "we_can_skip_it_without_guilt_when_life_gets_messy", "text": "We can skip it without guilt when life gets messy" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_grows_from_something_we_already_enjoy", "text": "It grows from something we already enjoy" }, { "id": "it_does_not_require_a_perfect_schedule", "text": "It does not require a perfect schedule" }, { "id": "both_of_us_help_shape_it", "text": "Both of us help shape it" }, { "id": "it_has_a_small_recognizable_detail", "text": "It has a small recognizable detail" }, { "id": "we_can_skip_it_without_guilt_when_life_gets_messy", "text": "We can skip it without guilt when life gets messy" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_007", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When we are both overloaded, what kind of connection is realistic?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "busy_life", "low_energy", "invitation", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_ten_minute_check_in", "text": "A ten-minute check-in" }, { "id": "eating_one_meal_without_multitasking", "text": "Eating one meal without multitasking" }, { "id": "a_quiet_hug_and_an_early_night", "text": "A quiet hug and an early night" }, { "id": "choosing_one_easy_thing_for_the_weekend", "text": "Choosing one easy thing for the weekend" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_ten_minute_check_in", "text": "A ten-minute check-in" }, { "id": "eating_one_meal_without_multitasking", "text": "Eating one meal without multitasking" }, { "id": "a_quiet_hug_and_an_early_night", "text": "A quiet hug and an early night" }, { "id": "choosing_one_easy_thing_for_the_weekend", "text": "Choosing one easy thing for the weekend" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_008", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps quality time work when one of us is tired?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "low_energy", "accessibility", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "the_lower_energy_person_chooses_the_pace", "text": "The lower-energy person chooses the pace" }, { "id": "the_plan_can_be_shortened_without_disappointment", "text": "The plan can be shortened without disappointment" }, { "id": "comfort_matters_more_than_novelty", "text": "Comfort matters more than novelty" }, { "id": "we_count_quiet_closeness_as_enough", "text": "We count quiet closeness as enough" }, { "id": "we_save_serious_topics_for_a_better_moment", "text": "We save serious topics for a better moment" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_lower_energy_person_chooses_the_pace", "text": "The lower-energy person chooses the pace" }, { "id": "the_plan_can_be_shortened_without_disappointment", "text": "The plan can be shortened without disappointment" }, { "id": "comfort_matters_more_than_novelty", "text": "Comfort matters more than novelty" }, { "id": "we_count_quiet_closeness_as_enough", "text": "We count quiet closeness as enough" }, { "id": "we_save_serious_topics_for_a_better_moment", "text": "We save serious topics for a better moment" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_009", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which kinds of appreciation make time together feel better?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "appreciation", "feeling_seen", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "naming_something_you_handled_well", "text": "Naming something you handled well" }, { "id": "saying_what_i_enjoy_about_your_company", "text": "Saying what I enjoy about your company" }, { "id": "remembering_a_thoughtful_thing_you_did", "text": "Remembering a thoughtful thing you did" }, { "id": "noticing_how_you_have_grown", "text": "Noticing how you have grown" }, { "id": "telling_you_what_feels_uniquely_ours", "text": "Telling you what feels uniquely ours" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "naming_something_you_handled_well", "text": "Naming something you handled well" }, { "id": "saying_what_i_enjoy_about_your_company", "text": "Saying what I enjoy about your company" }, { "id": "remembering_a_thoughtful_thing_you_did", "text": "Remembering a thoughtful thing you did" }, { "id": "noticing_how_you_have_grown", "text": "Noticing how you have grown" }, { "id": "telling_you_what_feels_uniquely_ours", "text": "Telling you what feels uniquely ours" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_010", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What do we want quality time to feel like more often?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "pack_landing", "shared_vision", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "easy_enough_to_happen_regularly", "text": "Easy enough to happen regularly" }, { "id": "warm_enough_to_help_us_reconnect", "text": "Warm enough to help us reconnect" }, { "id": "playful_enough_to_break_the_routine", "text": "Playful enough to break the routine" }, { "id": "honest_enough_to_keep_us_close", "text": "Honest enough to keep us close" }, { "id": "flexible_enough_to_fit_real_life", "text": "Flexible enough to fit real life" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "easy_enough_to_happen_regularly", "text": "Easy enough to happen regularly" }, { "id": "warm_enough_to_help_us_reconnect", "text": "Warm enough to help us reconnect" }, { "id": "playful_enough_to_break_the_routine", "text": "Playful enough to break the routine" }, { "id": "honest_enough_to_keep_us_close", "text": "Honest enough to keep us close" }, { "id": "flexible_enough_to_fit_real_life", "text": "Flexible enough to fit real life" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_011", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When do you most want my full attention?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "attention", "partner_preferences", "quality_time", "preferences" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "when_i_first_get_home_or_call", "text": "When I first get home or call" }, { "id": "when_i_am_telling_a_story", "text": "When I am telling a story" }, { "id": "when_i_am_sharing_something_difficult", "text": "When I am sharing something difficult" }, { "id": "when_we_are_making_a_plan_together", "text": "When we are making a plan together" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "when_i_first_get_home_or_call", "text": "When I first get home or call" }, { "id": "when_i_am_telling_a_story", "text": "When I am telling a story" }, { "id": "when_i_am_sharing_something_difficult", "text": "When I am sharing something difficult" }, { "id": "when_we_are_making_a_plan_together", "text": "When we are making a plan together" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_012", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which daily transitions could become good time for us?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "routines", "transitions", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "the_first_few_minutes_after_work", "text": "The first few minutes after work" }, { "id": "the_ride_or_call_on_the_way_home", "text": "The ride or call on the way home" }, { "id": "the_pause_before_dinner", "text": "The pause before dinner" }, { "id": "the_last_half_hour_before_sleep", "text": "The last half hour before sleep" }, { "id": "the_start_of_a_weekend_morning", "text": "The start of a weekend morning" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_first_few_minutes_after_work", "text": "The first few minutes after work" }, { "id": "the_ride_or_call_on_the_way_home", "text": "The ride or call on the way home" }, { "id": "the_pause_before_dinner", "text": "The pause before dinner" }, { "id": "the_last_half_hour_before_sleep", "text": "The last half hour before sleep" }, { "id": "the_start_of_a_weekend_morning", "text": "The start of a weekend morning" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_013", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a meaningful question feel welcome?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "meaningful", "conversation", "low_pressure", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "it_fits_the_moment", "text": "It fits the moment" }, { "id": "there_is_no_pressure_for_a_perfect_answer", "text": "There is no pressure for a perfect answer" }, { "id": "it_is_clear_and_not_too_broad", "text": "It is clear and not too broad" }, { "id": "we_both_answer_it", "text": "We both answer it" }, { "id": "we_can_shift_back_to_something_lighter", "text": "We can shift back to something lighter" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_fits_the_moment", "text": "It fits the moment" }, { "id": "there_is_no_pressure_for_a_perfect_answer", "text": "There is no pressure for a perfect answer" }, { "id": "it_is_clear_and_not_too_broad", "text": "It is clear and not too broad" }, { "id": "we_both_answer_it", "text": "We both answer it" }, { "id": "we_can_shift_back_to_something_lighter", "text": "We can shift back to something lighter" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_014", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which planning style fits you best?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "planning_style", "partner_preferences", "quality_time", "preferences" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "tell_me_the_whole_plan", "text": "Tell me the whole plan" }, { "id": "give_me_the_basic_idea", "text": "Give me the basic idea" }, { "id": "offer_two_choices", "text": "Offer two choices" }, { "id": "surprise_me_within_clear_limits", "text": "Surprise me within clear limits" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "tell_me_the_whole_plan", "text": "Tell me the whole plan" }, { "id": "give_me_the_basic_idea", "text": "Give me the basic idea" }, { "id": "offer_two_choices", "text": "Offer two choices" }, { "id": "surprise_me_within_clear_limits", "text": "Surprise me within clear limits" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_015", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which low-effort moments make you feel closest to me?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "low_energy", "closeness", "routines", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "drinking_something_together_before_the_day_starts", "text": "Drinking something together before the day starts" }, { "id": "sitting_near_each_other_after_dinner", "text": "Sitting near each other after dinner" }, { "id": "taking_a_slow_lap_around_the_block", "text": "Taking a slow lap around the block" }, { "id": "talking_in_bed_before_sleep", "text": "Talking in bed before sleep" }, { "id": "listening_to_the_same_music", "text": "Listening to the same music" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "drinking_something_together_before_the_day_starts", "text": "Drinking something together before the day starts" }, { "id": "sitting_near_each_other_after_dinner", "text": "Sitting near each other after dinner" }, { "id": "taking_a_slow_lap_around_the_block", "text": "Taking a slow lap around the block" }, { "id": "talking_in_bed_before_sleep", "text": "Talking in bed before sleep" }, { "id": "listening_to_the_same_music", "text": "Listening to the same music" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_016", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "written", "text": "Describe a quiet moment together that still feels warm when you remember it.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "memory", "quiet", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, "max_length": 500, "placeholder": "Write your answer..." } }, { "id": "quality_time_017", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you feel wanted while we are simply spending time together?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "flirty", "feeling_wanted", "affection", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "you_choose_to_sit_near_me", "text": "You choose to sit near me" }, { "id": "you_notice_something_you_like_about_me", "text": "You notice something you like about me" }, { "id": "you_reach_for_my_hand", "text": "You reach for my hand" }, { "id": "you_make_the_plan_feel_like_it_is_for_us", "text": "You make the plan feel like it is for us" }, { "id": "you_give_me_attention_that_is_not_divided", "text": "You give me attention that is not divided" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "you_choose_to_sit_near_me", "text": "You choose to sit near me" }, { "id": "you_notice_something_you_like_about_me", "text": "You notice something you like about me" }, { "id": "you_reach_for_my_hand", "text": "You reach for my hand" }, { "id": "you_make_the_plan_feel_like_it_is_for_us", "text": "You make the plan feel like it is for us" }, { "id": "you_give_me_attention_that_is_not_divided", "text": "You give me attention that is not divided" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_018", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us notice a good moment while we are still in it?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "presence", "memory_making", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "one_of_us_says_it_out_loud", "text": "One of us says it out loud" }, { "id": "we_take_a_photo_without_making_it_a_production", "text": "We take a photo without making it a production" }, { "id": "we_pause_instead_of_rushing_ahead", "text": "We pause instead of rushing ahead" }, { "id": "we_make_a_small_toast_or_joke", "text": "We make a small toast or joke" }, { "id": "we_stay_a_little_longer_than_planned", "text": "We stay a little longer than planned" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "one_of_us_says_it_out_loud", "text": "One of us says it out loud" }, { "id": "we_take_a_photo_without_making_it_a_production", "text": "We take a photo without making it a production" }, { "id": "we_pause_instead_of_rushing_ahead", "text": "We pause instead of rushing ahead" }, { "id": "we_make_a_small_toast_or_joke", "text": "We make a small toast or joke" }, { "id": "we_stay_a_little_longer_than_planned", "text": "We stay a little longer than planned" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_019", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes us laugh like people who know each other too well?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "adult_humor", "couple_lore", "connection", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "we_can_predict_the_exact_reaction", "text": "We can predict the exact reaction" }, { "id": "we_remember_the_missing_context", "text": "We remember the missing context" }, { "id": "one_look_finishes_the_joke", "text": "One look finishes the joke" }, { "id": "we_know_which_detail_makes_the_story", "text": "We know which detail makes the story" }, { "id": "we_both_notice_the_same_absurd_thing", "text": "We both notice the same absurd thing" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_can_predict_the_exact_reaction", "text": "We can predict the exact reaction" }, { "id": "we_remember_the_missing_context", "text": "We remember the missing context" }, { "id": "one_look_finishes_the_joke", "text": "One look finishes the joke" }, { "id": "we_know_which_detail_makes_the_story", "text": "We know which detail makes the story" }, { "id": "we_both_notice_the_same_absurd_thing", "text": "We both notice the same absurd thing" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_020", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How ready are you to protect a little more time for us?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "action", "readiness", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not ready right now", "max_label": "Very ready" } }, { "id": "quality_time_021", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps couch time feel connected rather than just adjacent?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "screens", "presence", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "picking_something_we_both_want_to_watch", "text": "Picking something we both want to watch" }, { "id": "reacting_and_talking_as_we_go", "text": "Reacting and talking as we go" }, { "id": "keeping_our_phones_from_taking_over", "text": "Keeping our phones from taking over" }, { "id": "sitting_close_enough_to_feel_together", "text": "Sitting close enough to feel together" }, { "id": "pausing_for_a_real_conversation", "text": "Pausing for a real conversation" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "picking_something_we_both_want_to_watch", "text": "Picking something we both want to watch" }, { "id": "reacting_and_talking_as_we_go", "text": "Reacting and talking as we go" }, { "id": "keeping_our_phones_from_taking_over", "text": "Keeping our phones from taking over" }, { "id": "sitting_close_enough_to_feel_together", "text": "Sitting close enough to feel together" }, { "id": "pausing_for_a_real_conversation", "text": "Pausing for a real conversation" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_022", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us laugh and talk at the same time?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "adult_humor", "conversation", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "retelling_a_story_we_both_know", "text": "Retelling a story we both know" }, { "id": "making_observations_nobody_else_would_understand", "text": "Making observations nobody else would understand" }, { "id": "admitting_the_embarrassing_part", "text": "Admitting the embarrassing part" }, { "id": "doing_impressions_we_both_recognize", "text": "Doing impressions we both recognize" }, { "id": "letting_one_topic_lead_somewhere_completely_different", "text": "Letting one topic lead somewhere completely different" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "retelling_a_story_we_both_know", "text": "Retelling a story we both know" }, { "id": "making_observations_nobody_else_would_understand", "text": "Making observations nobody else would understand" }, { "id": "admitting_the_embarrassing_part", "text": "Admitting the embarrassing part" }, { "id": "doing_impressions_we_both_recognize", "text": "Doing impressions we both recognize" }, { "id": "letting_one_topic_lead_somewhere_completely_different", "text": "Letting one topic lead somewhere completely different" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_023", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of support do you most appreciate during quiet time?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "support", "quiet", "quality_time", "preferences" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "just_staying_close", "text": "Just staying close" }, { "id": "letting_me_talk_at_my_own_pace", "text": "Letting me talk at my own pace" }, { "id": "doing_one_thoughtful_practical_thing", "text": "Doing one thoughtful practical thing" }, { "id": "helping_the_mood_feel_lighter", "text": "Helping the mood feel lighter" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "just_staying_close", "text": "Just staying close" }, { "id": "letting_me_talk_at_my_own_pace", "text": "Letting me talk at my own pace" }, { "id": "doing_one_thoughtful_practical_thing", "text": "Doing one thoughtful practical thing" }, { "id": "helping_the_mood_feel_lighter", "text": "Helping the mood feel lighter" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_024", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Protect one weeknight or one weekend hour?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "action", "planning", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "protect_one_weeknight", "text": "Protect one weeknight" }, { "id": "protect_one_weekend_hour", "text": "Protect one weekend hour" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "protect_one_weeknight", "text": "Protect one weeknight" }, { "id": "protect_one_weekend_hour", "text": "Protect one weekend hour" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_025", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which low-energy plan would you never get tired of?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "low_energy", "partner_preferences", "quality_time", "preferences" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_quiet_meal_together", "text": "A quiet meal together" }, { "id": "a_familiar_show_with_commentary", "text": "A familiar show with commentary" }, { "id": "a_slow_drive_or_ride", "text": "A slow drive or ride" }, { "id": "a_late_night_talk_before_sleep", "text": "A late-night talk before sleep" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_quiet_meal_together", "text": "A quiet meal together" }, { "id": "a_familiar_show_with_commentary", "text": "A familiar show with commentary" }, { "id": "a_slow_drive_or_ride", "text": "A slow drive or ride" }, { "id": "a_late_night_talk_before_sleep", "text": "A late-night talk before sleep" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_026", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which small changes would make time together easier to find?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "barriers", "small_changes", "practical_reality", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "deciding_meals_earlier", "text": "Deciding meals earlier" }, { "id": "sharing_the_mental_load_more_clearly", "text": "Sharing the mental load more clearly" }, { "id": "ending_work_or_chores_at_a_chosen_time", "text": "Ending work or chores at a chosen time" }, { "id": "using_short_openings_instead_of_waiting_for_hours", "text": "Using short openings instead of waiting for hours" }, { "id": "keeping_one_simple_idea_ready", "text": "Keeping one simple idea ready" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "deciding_meals_earlier", "text": "Deciding meals earlier" }, { "id": "sharing_the_mental_load_more_clearly", "text": "Sharing the mental load more clearly" }, { "id": "ending_work_or_chores_at_a_chosen_time", "text": "Ending work or chores at a chosen time" }, { "id": "using_short_openings_instead_of_waiting_for_hours", "text": "Using short openings instead of waiting for hours" }, { "id": "keeping_one_simple_idea_ready", "text": "Keeping one simple idea ready" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_027", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How much structure helps you enjoy time together?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "planning_style", "preferences", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very little structure", "max_label": "A clear plan" } }, { "id": "quality_time_028", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which kind of quality time would you guess I value more than I say?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "prediction", "partner_preferences", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "quiet_time_with_no_pressure_to_talk", "text": "Quiet time with no pressure to talk" }, { "id": "a_plan_that_shows_you_remembered_me", "text": "A plan that shows you remembered me" }, { "id": "laughing_together_after_a_hard_day", "text": "Laughing together after a hard day" }, { "id": "a_conversation_that_goes_below_the_surface", "text": "A conversation that goes below the surface" }, { "id": "doing_something_ordinary_as_a_team", "text": "Doing something ordinary as a team" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quiet_time_with_no_pressure_to_talk", "text": "Quiet time with no pressure to talk" }, { "id": "a_plan_that_shows_you_remembered_me", "text": "A plan that shows you remembered me" }, { "id": "laughing_together_after_a_hard_day", "text": "Laughing together after a hard day" }, { "id": "a_conversation_that_goes_below_the_surface", "text": "A conversation that goes below the surface" }, { "id": "doing_something_ordinary_as_a_team", "text": "Doing something ordinary as a team" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_029", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which sounds help a quiet room feel good?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "quiet", "sensory_preferences", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_familiar_playlist_at_low_volume", "text": "A familiar playlist at low volume" }, { "id": "rain_or_weather_outside", "text": "Rain or weather outside" }, { "id": "a_fan_and_the_normal_sounds_of_home", "text": "A fan and the normal sounds of home" }, { "id": "a_show_neither_of_us_has_to_follow_closely", "text": "A show neither of us has to follow closely" }, { "id": "actual_silence_with_no_need_to_fill_it", "text": "Actual silence with no need to fill it" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_familiar_playlist_at_low_volume", "text": "A familiar playlist at low volume" }, { "id": "rain_or_weather_outside", "text": "Rain or weather outside" }, { "id": "a_fan_and_the_normal_sounds_of_home", "text": "A fan and the normal sounds of home" }, { "id": "a_show_neither_of_us_has_to_follow_closely", "text": "A show neither of us has to follow closely" }, { "id": "actual_silence_with_no_need_to_fill_it", "text": "Actual silence with no need to fill it" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_030", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us shift out of work mode and into couple mode?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "transitions", "reconnection", "affection", "quality_time", "flirty" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "changing_clothes_and_getting_comfortable", "text": "Changing clothes and getting comfortable" }, { "id": "taking_ten_minutes_before_discussing_logistics", "text": "Taking ten minutes before discussing logistics" }, { "id": "greeting_each_other_with_a_kiss_or_real_affection", "text": "Greeting each other with a kiss or real affection" }, { "id": "putting_on_music_that_changes_the_mood", "text": "Putting on music that changes the mood" }, { "id": "doing_one_small_thing_side_by_side", "text": "Doing one small thing side by side" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "changing_clothes_and_getting_comfortable", "text": "Changing clothes and getting comfortable" }, { "id": "taking_ten_minutes_before_discussing_logistics", "text": "Taking ten minutes before discussing logistics" }, { "id": "greeting_each_other_with_a_kiss_or_real_affection", "text": "Greeting each other with a kiss or real affection" }, { "id": "putting_on_music_that_changes_the_mood", "text": "Putting on music that changes the mood" }, { "id": "doing_one_small_thing_side_by_side", "text": "Doing one small thing side by side" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_031", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How playful has our time together felt lately?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "playfulness", "current_state", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Mostly serious", "max_label": "Very playful" } }, { "id": "quality_time_032", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes reading or working beside each other feel warm?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "parallel_time", "quiet", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "sharing_a_comfortable_setup", "text": "Sharing a comfortable setup" }, { "id": "taking_small_breaks_together", "text": "Taking small breaks together" }, { "id": "showing_each_other_something_interesting", "text": "Showing each other something interesting" }, { "id": "keeping_interruptions_gentle", "text": "Keeping interruptions gentle" }, { "id": "ending_with_a_little_conversation", "text": "Ending with a little conversation" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sharing_a_comfortable_setup", "text": "Sharing a comfortable setup" }, { "id": "taking_small_breaks_together", "text": "Taking small breaks together" }, { "id": "showing_each_other_something_interesting", "text": "Showing each other something interesting" }, { "id": "keeping_interruptions_gentle", "text": "Keeping interruptions gentle" }, { "id": "ending_with_a_little_conversation", "text": "Ending with a little conversation" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_033", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "If I could relive one shared memory for an hour, which would I pick?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "prediction", "memories", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "an_early_moment_in_our_relationship", "text": "An early moment in our relationship" }, { "id": "a_favorite_trip_or_day_out", "text": "A favorite trip or day out" }, { "id": "a_night_when_we_laughed_nonstop", "text": "A night when we laughed nonstop" }, { "id": "a_peaceful_ordinary_day_together", "text": "A peaceful ordinary day together" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "an_early_moment_in_our_relationship", "text": "An early moment in our relationship" }, { "id": "a_favorite_trip_or_day_out", "text": "A favorite trip or day out" }, { "id": "a_night_when_we_laughed_nonstop", "text": "A night when we laughed nonstop" }, { "id": "a_peaceful_ordinary_day_together", "text": "A peaceful ordinary day together" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_034", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a plan easy for you to enjoy?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "accessibility", "practical_reality", "quality_time", "low_energy" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_realistic_amount_of_time", "text": "A realistic amount of time" }, { "id": "a_place_where_i_can_be_comfortable", "text": "A place where I can be comfortable" }, { "id": "knowing_what_the_plan_actually_involves", "text": "Knowing what the plan actually involves" }, { "id": "an_easy_way_to_take_a_break", "text": "An easy way to take a break" }, { "id": "little_or_no_money_required", "text": "Little or no money required" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_realistic_amount_of_time", "text": "A realistic amount of time" }, { "id": "a_place_where_i_can_be_comfortable", "text": "A place where I can be comfortable" }, { "id": "knowing_what_the_plan_actually_involves", "text": "Knowing what the plan actually involves" }, { "id": "an_easy_way_to_take_a_break", "text": "An easy way to take a break" }, { "id": "little_or_no_money_required", "text": "Little or no money required" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_035", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would you guess I want more of in our time together right now?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "prediction", "current_need", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "more_ease", "text": "More ease" }, { "id": "more_laughter", "text": "More laughter" }, { "id": "more_affection", "text": "More affection" }, { "id": "more_meaningful_conversation", "text": "More meaningful conversation" }, { "id": "more_small_plans_that_actually_happen", "text": "More small plans that actually happen" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "more_ease", "text": "More ease" }, { "id": "more_laughter", "text": "More laughter" }, { "id": "more_affection", "text": "More affection" }, { "id": "more_meaningful_conversation", "text": "More meaningful conversation" }, { "id": "more_small_plans_that_actually_happen", "text": "More small plans that actually happen" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_036", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps when one of us has more energy than the other?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "energy_mismatch", "low_pressure", "accessibility", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "choosing_an_option_with_an_easy_exit", "text": "Choosing an option with an easy exit" }, { "id": "letting_the_lower_energy_person_set_the_pace", "text": "Letting the lower-energy person set the pace" }, { "id": "doing_something_partly_together", "text": "Doing something partly together" }, { "id": "saving_the_bigger_idea_for_another_day", "text": "Saving the bigger idea for another day" }, { "id": "not_taking_the_mismatch_personally", "text": "Not taking the mismatch personally" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "choosing_an_option_with_an_easy_exit", "text": "Choosing an option with an easy exit" }, { "id": "letting_the_lower_energy_person_set_the_pace", "text": "Letting the lower-energy person set the pace" }, { "id": "doing_something_partly_together", "text": "Doing something partly together" }, { "id": "saving_the_bigger_idea_for_another_day", "text": "Saving the bigger idea for another day" }, { "id": "not_taking_the_mismatch_personally", "text": "Not taking the mismatch personally" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_037", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Where could we go for an hour without turning it into a big expense?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "low_cost", "short_outing", "invitation", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_park_or_walking_path", "text": "A park or walking path" }, { "id": "a_bookstore_or_library", "text": "A bookstore or library" }, { "id": "a_familiar_caf_for_one_drink", "text": "A familiar café for one drink" }, { "id": "a_local_place_we_have_never_explored", "text": "A local place we have never explored" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_park_or_walking_path", "text": "A park or walking path" }, { "id": "a_bookstore_or_library", "text": "A bookstore or library" }, { "id": "a_familiar_caf_for_one_drink", "text": "A familiar café for one drink" }, { "id": "a_local_place_we_have_never_explored", "text": "A local place we have never explored" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_038", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a conversation feel easy instead of like an interview?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "conversation", "low_pressure", "quality_time", "adult_humor" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "letting_the_topic_wander", "text": "Letting the topic wander" }, { "id": "sharing_our_own_answer_too", "text": "Sharing our own answer too" }, { "id": "not_forcing_every_silence", "text": "Not forcing every silence" }, { "id": "asking_because_we_are_genuinely_curious", "text": "Asking because we are genuinely curious" }, { "id": "stopping_before_the_talk_gets_draining", "text": "Stopping before the talk gets draining" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "letting_the_topic_wander", "text": "Letting the topic wander" }, { "id": "sharing_our_own_answer_too", "text": "Sharing our own answer too" }, { "id": "not_forcing_every_silence", "text": "Not forcing every silence" }, { "id": "asking_because_we_are_genuinely_curious", "text": "Asking because we are genuinely curious" }, { "id": "stopping_before_the_talk_gets_draining", "text": "Stopping before the talk gets draining" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_039", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Talk through something real or simply enjoy being together?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "current_need", "meaningful", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "talk_through_something_real", "text": "Talk through something real" }, { "id": "simply_enjoy_being_together", "text": "Simply enjoy being together" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "talk_through_something_real", "text": "Talk through something real" }, { "id": "simply_enjoy_being_together", "text": "Simply enjoy being together" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_040", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which kinds of affection make ordinary time feel more special?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "affection", "flirty", "ordinary_time", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_real_hello_kiss", "text": "A real hello kiss" }, { "id": "sitting_close_without_being_asked", "text": "Sitting close without being asked" }, { "id": "a_hand_on_my_back_as_you_pass", "text": "A hand on my back as you pass" }, { "id": "holding_hands_during_a_walk", "text": "Holding hands during a walk" }, { "id": "a_long_hug_before_we_move_on", "text": "A long hug before we move on" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_real_hello_kiss", "text": "A real hello kiss" }, { "id": "sitting_close_without_being_asked", "text": "Sitting close without being asked" }, { "id": "a_hand_on_my_back_as_you_pass", "text": "A hand on my back as you pass" }, { "id": "holding_hands_during_a_walk", "text": "Holding hands during a walk" }, { "id": "a_long_hug_before_we_move_on", "text": "A long hug before we move on" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_041", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of plan fits us best this week?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "planning", "invitation", "practical_reality", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "one_easy_evening_at_home", "text": "One easy evening at home" }, { "id": "a_short_outing_with_no_big_agenda", "text": "A short outing with no big agenda" }, { "id": "a_protected_hour_for_talking_and_relaxing", "text": "A protected hour for talking and relaxing" }, { "id": "a_spontaneous_choice_when_we_both_have_energy", "text": "A spontaneous choice when we both have energy" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "one_easy_evening_at_home", "text": "One easy evening at home" }, { "id": "a_short_outing_with_no_big_agenda", "text": "A short outing with no big agenda" }, { "id": "a_protected_hour_for_talking_and_relaxing", "text": "A protected hour for talking and relaxing" }, { "id": "a_spontaneous_choice_when_we_both_have_energy", "text": "A spontaneous choice when we both have energy" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_042", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which small gestures would you bet I remember longest?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "prediction", "thoughtfulness", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "you_saving_me_a_comfortable_spot", "text": "You saving me a comfortable spot" }, { "id": "you_sending_a_message_tied_to_our_conversation", "text": "You sending a message tied to our conversation" }, { "id": "you_making_time_before_i_have_to_ask", "text": "You making time before I have to ask" }, { "id": "you_noticing_when_i_need_a_slower_plan", "text": "You noticing when I need a slower plan" }, { "id": "you_reaching_for_me_during_an_ordinary_moment", "text": "You reaching for me during an ordinary moment" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "you_saving_me_a_comfortable_spot", "text": "You saving me a comfortable spot" }, { "id": "you_sending_a_message_tied_to_our_conversation", "text": "You sending a message tied to our conversation" }, { "id": "you_making_time_before_i_have_to_ask", "text": "You making time before I have to ask" }, { "id": "you_noticing_when_i_need_a_slower_plan", "text": "You noticing when I need a slower plan" }, { "id": "you_reaching_for_me_during_an_ordinary_moment", "text": "You reaching for me during an ordinary moment" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_043", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What kind of physical closeness fits a quiet evening?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "affection", "quiet", "consent_aware", "quality_time", "flirty" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "holding_hands_for_a_while", "text": "Holding hands for a while" }, { "id": "leaning_against_each_other", "text": "Leaning against each other" }, { "id": "resting_our_feet_together", "text": "Resting our feet together" }, { "id": "a_few_slow_hugs_throughout_the_night", "text": "A few slow hugs throughout the night" }, { "id": "sitting_nearby_with_comfortable_space", "text": "Sitting nearby with comfortable space" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "holding_hands_for_a_while", "text": "Holding hands for a while" }, { "id": "leaning_against_each_other", "text": "Leaning against each other" }, { "id": "resting_our_feet_together", "text": "Resting our feet together" }, { "id": "a_few_slow_hugs_throughout_the_night", "text": "A few slow hugs throughout the night" }, { "id": "sitting_nearby_with_comfortable_space", "text": "Sitting nearby with comfortable space" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_044", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes watching something together feel like shared time?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "screens", "shared_experience", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "choosing_it_as_a_team", "text": "Choosing it as a team" }, { "id": "saving_an_episode_for_each_other", "text": "Saving an episode for each other" }, { "id": "trading_reactions_during_the_good_parts", "text": "Trading reactions during the good parts" }, { "id": "making_the_setup_comfortable", "text": "Making the setup comfortable" }, { "id": "talking_about_it_when_it_ends", "text": "Talking about it when it ends" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "choosing_it_as_a_team", "text": "Choosing it as a team" }, { "id": "saving_an_episode_for_each_other", "text": "Saving an episode for each other" }, { "id": "trading_reactions_during_the_good_parts", "text": "Trading reactions during the good parts" }, { "id": "making_the_setup_comfortable", "text": "Making the setup comfortable" }, { "id": "talking_about_it_when_it_ends", "text": "Talking about it when it ends" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_045", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Cuddled up close or sitting nearby with room to breathe?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "affection_style", "low_pressure", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "cuddled_up_close", "text": "Cuddled up close" }, { "id": "nearby_with_room_to_breathe", "text": "Nearby with room to breathe" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cuddled_up_close", "text": "Cuddled up close" }, { "id": "nearby_with_room_to_breathe", "text": "Nearby with room to breathe" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_046", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you switch gears and be present with me?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "transitions", "presence", "comfort", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "finishing_the_one_thing_still_pulling_at_my_attention", "text": "Finishing the one thing still pulling at my attention" }, { "id": "a_few_quiet_minutes_to_shift_gears", "text": "A few quiet minutes to shift gears" }, { "id": "knowing_roughly_what_we_are_doing", "text": "Knowing roughly what we are doing" }, { "id": "getting_comfortable_first", "text": "Getting comfortable first" }, { "id": "a_little_affection_or_humor_at_the_start", "text": "A little affection or humor at the start" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "finishing_the_one_thing_still_pulling_at_my_attention", "text": "Finishing the one thing still pulling at my attention" }, { "id": "a_few_quiet_minutes_to_shift_gears", "text": "A few quiet minutes to shift gears" }, { "id": "knowing_roughly_what_we_are_doing", "text": "Knowing roughly what we are doing" }, { "id": "getting_comfortable_first", "text": "Getting comfortable first" }, { "id": "a_little_affection_or_humor_at_the_start", "text": "A little affection or humor at the start" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_047", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What gets in the way of enjoying time together fastest?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "barriers", "partner_awareness", "quality_time", "preferences" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "too_many_decisions", "text": "Too many decisions" }, { "id": "not_enough_energy", "text": "Not enough energy" }, { "id": "constant_interruptions", "text": "Constant interruptions" }, { "id": "feeling_like_the_plan_is_another_obligation", "text": "Feeling like the plan is another obligation" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "too_many_decisions", "text": "Too many decisions" }, { "id": "not_enough_energy", "text": "Not enough energy" }, { "id": "constant_interruptions", "text": "Constant interruptions" }, { "id": "feeling_like_the_plan_is_another_obligation", "text": "Feeling like the plan is another obligation" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_048", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How connected do you feel to the routines and traditions we have now?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "traditions", "connection", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very connected", "max_label": "Deeply connected" } }, { "id": "quality_time_049", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When privacy is limited, what still helps us connect?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "privacy_limits", "practical_reality", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_walk_where_we_can_talk_quietly", "text": "A walk where we can talk quietly" }, { "id": "headphones_and_a_shared_show", "text": "Headphones and a shared show" }, { "id": "a_brief_check_in_after_others_settle_down", "text": "A brief check-in after others settle down" }, { "id": "a_message_that_starts_a_later_conversation", "text": "A message that starts a later conversation" }, { "id": "a_small_ritual_that_does_not_need_much_space", "text": "A small ritual that does not need much space" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_walk_where_we_can_talk_quietly", "text": "A walk where we can talk quietly" }, { "id": "headphones_and_a_shared_show", "text": "Headphones and a shared show" }, { "id": "a_brief_check_in_after_others_settle_down", "text": "A brief check-in after others settle down" }, { "id": "a_message_that_starts_a_later_conversation", "text": "A message that starts a later conversation" }, { "id": "a_small_ritual_that_does_not_need_much_space", "text": "A small ritual that does not need much space" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_050", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which ordinary things become more fun because we do them together?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "playfulness", "ordinary_time", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "trying_to_choose_what_to_eat", "text": "Trying to choose what to eat" }, { "id": "commenting_through_a_familiar_show", "text": "Commenting through a familiar show" }, { "id": "taking_the_long_way_home", "text": "Taking the long way home" }, { "id": "waiting_somewhere_with_nothing_to_do", "text": "Waiting somewhere with nothing to do" }, { "id": "turning_a_small_mistake_into_a_story", "text": "Turning a small mistake into a story" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "trying_to_choose_what_to_eat", "text": "Trying to choose what to eat" }, { "id": "commenting_through_a_familiar_show", "text": "Commenting through a familiar show" }, { "id": "taking_the_long_way_home", "text": "Taking the long way home" }, { "id": "waiting_somewhere_with_nothing_to_do", "text": "Waiting somewhere with nothing to do" }, { "id": "turning_a_small_mistake_into_a_story", "text": "Turning a small mistake into a story" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_051", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which invitations would feel easiest to say yes to tonight?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "invitation", "flirty", "consent_aware", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "come_sit_with_me_for_a_while", "text": "Come sit with me for a while" }, { "id": "want_to_take_a_short_walk_together", "text": "Want to take a short walk together?" }, { "id": "can_i_kiss_you", "text": "Can I kiss you?" }, { "id": "should_we_put_on_our_song", "text": "Should we put on our song?" }, { "id": "want_some_quiet_company", "text": "Want some quiet company?" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "come_sit_with_me_for_a_while", "text": "Come sit with me for a while" }, { "id": "want_to_take_a_short_walk_together", "text": "Want to take a short walk together?" }, { "id": "can_i_kiss_you", "text": "Can I kiss you?" }, { "id": "should_we_put_on_our_song", "text": "Should we put on our song?" }, { "id": "want_some_quiet_company", "text": "Want some quiet company?" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_052", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "written", "text": "What conversation with me made you feel especially known or understood?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "memory", "conversation", "meaningful", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, "max_length": 500, "placeholder": "Write your answer..." } }, { "id": "quality_time_053", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would make a boring wait more enjoyable together?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "waiting", "low_energy", "adult_humor", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "people_watching_without_being_cruel", "text": "People-watching without being cruel" }, { "id": "making_up_harmless_backstories", "text": "Making up harmless backstories" }, { "id": "looking_through_old_photos", "text": "Looking through old photos" }, { "id": "planning_one_thing_we_want_to_do_soon", "text": "Planning one thing we want to do soon" }, { "id": "playing_a_quiet_question_game", "text": "Playing a quiet question game" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "people_watching_without_being_cruel", "text": "People-watching without being cruel" }, { "id": "making_up_harmless_backstories", "text": "Making up harmless backstories" }, { "id": "looking_through_old_photos", "text": "Looking through old photos" }, { "id": "planning_one_thing_we_want_to_do_soon", "text": "Planning one thing we want to do soon" }, { "id": "playing_a_quiet_question_game", "text": "Playing a quiet question game" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_054", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you with silence when we are together?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "silence", "comfort", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "I prefer more interaction", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "quality_time_055", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which ordinary tasks can still feel like quality time?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "ordinary_time", "shared_tasks", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "cooking_something_side_by_side", "text": "Cooking something side by side" }, { "id": "running_one_easy_errand_together", "text": "Running one easy errand together" }, { "id": "tidying_up_with_music_playing", "text": "Tidying up with music playing" }, { "id": "planning_the_week_over_coffee", "text": "Planning the week over coffee" }, { "id": "taking_care_of_a_small_project_as_a_team", "text": "Taking care of a small project as a team" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cooking_something_side_by_side", "text": "Cooking something side by side" }, { "id": "running_one_easy_errand_together", "text": "Running one easy errand together" }, { "id": "tidying_up_with_music_playing", "text": "Tidying up with music playing" }, { "id": "planning_the_week_over_coffee", "text": "Planning the week over coffee" }, { "id": "taking_care_of_a_small_project_as_a_team", "text": "Taking care of a small project as a team" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_056", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would make our next free evening feel well spent?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "action", "free_evening", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "we_choose_based_on_our_actual_energy", "text": "We choose based on our actual energy" }, { "id": "we_include_both_connection_and_rest", "text": "We include both connection and rest" }, { "id": "we_do_not_spend_the_whole_time_deciding", "text": "We do not spend the whole time deciding" }, { "id": "we_make_room_for_some_affection", "text": "We make room for some affection" }, { "id": "we_end_feeling_glad_we_protected_the_time", "text": "We end feeling glad we protected the time" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_choose_based_on_our_actual_energy", "text": "We choose based on our actual energy" }, { "id": "we_include_both_connection_and_rest", "text": "We include both connection and rest" }, { "id": "we_do_not_spend_the_whole_time_deciding", "text": "We do not spend the whole time deciding" }, { "id": "we_make_room_for_some_affection", "text": "We make room for some affection" }, { "id": "we_end_feeling_glad_we_protected_the_time", "text": "We end feeling glad we protected the time" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_057", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you feel that I am fully with you?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "attention", "presence", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "i_look_up_and_stay_engaged", "text": "I look up and stay engaged" }, { "id": "i_remember_the_small_details", "text": "I remember the small details" }, { "id": "i_ask_a_follow_up_because_i_am_curious", "text": "I ask a follow-up because I am curious" }, { "id": "i_put_down_what_i_was_doing", "text": "I put down what I was doing" }, { "id": "i_respond_instead_of_just_nodding", "text": "I respond instead of just nodding" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_look_up_and_stay_engaged", "text": "I look up and stay engaged" }, { "id": "i_remember_the_small_details", "text": "I remember the small details" }, { "id": "i_ask_a_follow_up_because_i_am_curious", "text": "I ask a follow-up because I am curious" }, { "id": "i_put_down_what_i_was_doing", "text": "I put down what I was doing" }, { "id": "i_respond_instead_of_just_nodding", "text": "I respond instead of just nodding" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_058", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What old tradition should we bring back first?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "traditions", "invitation", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_regular_walk_or_drive", "text": "A regular walk or drive" }, { "id": "a_favorite_meal_on_a_certain_day", "text": "A favorite meal on a certain day" }, { "id": "a_small_celebration_for_ordinary_wins", "text": "A small celebration for ordinary wins" }, { "id": "a_screen_free_hour_we_used_to_enjoy", "text": "A screen-free hour we used to enjoy" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_regular_walk_or_drive", "text": "A regular walk or drive" }, { "id": "a_favorite_meal_on_a_certain_day", "text": "A favorite meal on a certain day" }, { "id": "a_small_celebration_for_ordinary_wins", "text": "A small celebration for ordinary wins" }, { "id": "a_screen_free_hour_we_used_to_enjoy", "text": "A screen-free hour we used to enjoy" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_059", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "An unexpected free hour appears. What do you think I would choose?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "prediction", "free_time", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "stay_home_and_make_it_cozy", "text": "Stay home and make it cozy" }, { "id": "go_somewhere_nearby", "text": "Go somewhere nearby" }, { "id": "talk_over_food_or_drinks", "text": "Talk over food or drinks" }, { "id": "do_our_own_things_close_together", "text": "Do our own things close together" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "stay_home_and_make_it_cozy", "text": "Stay home and make it cozy" }, { "id": "go_somewhere_nearby", "text": "Go somewhere nearby" }, { "id": "talk_over_food_or_drinks", "text": "Talk over food or drinks" }, { "id": "do_our_own_things_close_together", "text": "Do our own things close together" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_060", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which at-home moments feel genuinely worth protecting?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "home_time", "routines", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "the_first_quiet_minutes_after_the_day", "text": "The first quiet minutes after the day" }, { "id": "a_meal_we_are_not_rushing_through", "text": "A meal we are not rushing through" }, { "id": "a_show_or_game_we_choose_together", "text": "A show or game we choose together" }, { "id": "time_in_bed_before_sleep", "text": "Time in bed before sleep" }, { "id": "a_weekend_morning_with_nowhere_immediate_to_be", "text": "A weekend morning with nowhere immediate to be" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_first_quiet_minutes_after_the_day", "text": "The first quiet minutes after the day" }, { "id": "a_meal_we_are_not_rushing_through", "text": "A meal we are not rushing through" }, { "id": "a_show_or_game_we_choose_together", "text": "A show or game we choose together" }, { "id": "time_in_bed_before_sleep", "text": "Time in bed before sleep" }, { "id": "a_weekend_morning_with_nowhere_immediate_to_be", "text": "A weekend morning with nowhere immediate to be" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_061", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "We have fifteen minutes before the next thing. What should we do with them?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "quick_connection", "invitation", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "catch_up_without_our_phones", "text": "Catch up without our phones" }, { "id": "step_outside_for_fresh_air", "text": "Step outside for fresh air" }, { "id": "put_on_one_song_and_stay_put", "text": "Put on one song and stay put" }, { "id": "make_a_drink_and_sit_together", "text": "Make a drink and sit together" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "catch_up_without_our_phones", "text": "Catch up without our phones" }, { "id": "step_outside_for_fresh_air", "text": "Step outside for fresh air" }, { "id": "put_on_one_song_and_stay_put", "text": "Put on one song and stay put" }, { "id": "make_a_drink_and_sit_together", "text": "Make a drink and sit together" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_062", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "written", "text": "Tell me about a time when you felt I was completely present with you.", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "memory", "attention", "meaningful", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, "max_length": 500, "placeholder": "Write your answer..." } }, { "id": "quality_time_063", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which kinds of touch are welcome during relaxed time together?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "affection", "consent_aware", "quiet", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "holding_hands", "text": "Holding hands" }, { "id": "resting_against_each_other", "text": "Resting against each other" }, { "id": "a_shoulder_or_foot_rub_when_offered", "text": "A shoulder or foot rub when offered" }, { "id": "cuddling_for_a_while", "text": "Cuddling for a while" }, { "id": "being_close_without_needing_touch", "text": "Being close without needing touch" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "holding_hands", "text": "Holding hands" }, { "id": "resting_against_each_other", "text": "Resting against each other" }, { "id": "a_shoulder_or_foot_rub_when_offered", "text": "A shoulder or foot rub when offered" }, { "id": "cuddling_for_a_while", "text": "Cuddling for a while" }, { "id": "being_close_without_needing_touch", "text": "Being close without needing touch" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_064", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What do you think helps me relax and be present?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "prediction", "relaxation", "partner_awareness", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "knowing_we_do_not_have_to_accomplish_anything", "text": "Knowing we do not have to accomplish anything" }, { "id": "having_enough_time_to_settle_in", "text": "Having enough time to settle in" }, { "id": "starting_with_a_little_humor", "text": "Starting with a little humor" }, { "id": "being_physically_comfortable", "text": "Being physically comfortable" }, { "id": "knowing_we_can_change_the_plan", "text": "Knowing we can change the plan" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "knowing_we_do_not_have_to_accomplish_anything", "text": "Knowing we do not have to accomplish anything" }, { "id": "having_enough_time_to_settle_in", "text": "Having enough time to settle in" }, { "id": "starting_with_a_little_humor", "text": "Starting with a little humor" }, { "id": "being_physically_comfortable", "text": "Being physically comfortable" }, { "id": "knowing_we_can_change_the_plan", "text": "Knowing we can change the plan" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_065", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What kinds of conversations leave you feeling close to me?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "conversation", "feeling_known", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "stories_from_before_we_met", "text": "Stories from before we met" }, { "id": "thoughts_we_do_not_share_with_everyone", "text": "Thoughts we do not share with everyone" }, { "id": "plans_we_are_excited_about", "text": "Plans we are excited about" }, { "id": "ridiculous_observations_about_daily_life", "text": "Ridiculous observations about daily life" }, { "id": "honest_talk_about_what_we_need", "text": "Honest talk about what we need" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "stories_from_before_we_met", "text": "Stories from before we met" }, { "id": "thoughts_we_do_not_share_with_everyone", "text": "Thoughts we do not share with everyone" }, { "id": "plans_we_are_excited_about", "text": "Plans we are excited about" }, { "id": "ridiculous_observations_about_daily_life", "text": "Ridiculous observations about daily life" }, { "id": "honest_talk_about_what_we_need", "text": "Honest talk about what we need" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_066", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How well does our time together match your current energy?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "energy", "accessibility", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "It rarely matches", "max_label": "It matches very well" } }, { "id": "quality_time_067", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can make a short outing feel meaningful?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "short_outing", "presence", "practical_reality", "quality_time", "flirty" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "we_are_not_squeezing_it_between_stressful_tasks", "text": "We are not squeezing it between stressful tasks" }, { "id": "we_choose_one_place_we_both_enjoy", "text": "We choose one place we both enjoy" }, { "id": "we_talk_without_checking_the_clock", "text": "We talk without checking the clock" }, { "id": "we_include_one_small_treat_or_a_little_flirting", "text": "We include one small treat or a little flirting" }, { "id": "we_end_before_either_of_us_is_worn_out", "text": "We end before either of us is worn out" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_are_not_squeezing_it_between_stressful_tasks", "text": "We are not squeezing it between stressful tasks" }, { "id": "we_choose_one_place_we_both_enjoy", "text": "We choose one place we both enjoy" }, { "id": "we_talk_without_checking_the_clock", "text": "We talk without checking the clock" }, { "id": "we_include_one_small_treat_or_a_little_flirting", "text": "We include one small treat or a little flirting" }, { "id": "we_end_before_either_of_us_is_worn_out", "text": "We end before either of us is worn out" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_068", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs tell you our time together really mattered?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "meaningful", "connection_signals", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "i_feel_calmer_afterward", "text": "I feel calmer afterward" }, { "id": "i_learned_something_new_about_you", "text": "I learned something new about you" }, { "id": "we_made_a_plan_we_both_want", "text": "We made a plan we both want" }, { "id": "i_keep_thinking_about_something_you_said", "text": "I keep thinking about something you said" }, { "id": "we_leave_feeling_more_like_a_team", "text": "We leave feeling more like a team" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_feel_calmer_afterward", "text": "I feel calmer afterward" }, { "id": "i_learned_something_new_about_you", "text": "I learned something new about you" }, { "id": "we_made_a_plan_we_both_want", "text": "We made a plan we both want" }, { "id": "i_keep_thinking_about_something_you_said", "text": "I keep thinking about something you said" }, { "id": "we_leave_feeling_more_like_a_team", "text": "We leave feeling more like a team" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_069", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which small plan should we actually put on the calendar?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "action", "invitation", "planning", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_weekday_hour_with_no_chores", "text": "A weekday hour with no chores" }, { "id": "a_low_cost_outing_close_to_home", "text": "A low-cost outing close to home" }, { "id": "a_favorite_meal_and_a_real_catch_up", "text": "A favorite meal and a real catch-up" }, { "id": "a_weekend_morning_with_no_agenda", "text": "A weekend morning with no agenda" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_weekday_hour_with_no_chores", "text": "A weekday hour with no chores" }, { "id": "a_low_cost_outing_close_to_home", "text": "A low-cost outing close to home" }, { "id": "a_favorite_meal_and_a_real_catch_up", "text": "A favorite meal and a real catch-up" }, { "id": "a_weekend_morning_with_no_agenda", "text": "A weekend morning with no agenda" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_070", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which kinds of separate-but-together time still count for you?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "parallel_time", "quiet", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "reading_different_things_on_the_same_couch", "text": "Reading different things on the same couch" }, { "id": "working_on_separate_hobbies_nearby", "text": "Working on separate hobbies nearby" }, { "id": "doing_computer_tasks_at_the_same_table", "text": "Doing computer tasks at the same table" }, { "id": "listening_to_our_own_audio_while_sitting_close", "text": "Listening to our own audio while sitting close" }, { "id": "taking_turns_choosing_background_music", "text": "Taking turns choosing background music" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "reading_different_things_on_the_same_couch", "text": "Reading different things on the same couch" }, { "id": "working_on_separate_hobbies_nearby", "text": "Working on separate hobbies nearby" }, { "id": "doing_computer_tasks_at_the_same_table", "text": "Doing computer tasks at the same table" }, { "id": "listening_to_our_own_audio_while_sitting_close", "text": "Listening to our own audio while sitting close" }, { "id": "taking_turns_choosing_background_music", "text": "Taking turns choosing background music" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_071", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which parts of our couple lore make time together better?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "couple_lore", "shared_history", "quality_time", "adult_humor" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "nicknames_with_a_whole_history_behind_them", "text": "Nicknames with a whole history behind them" }, { "id": "stories_we_tell_differently_every_time", "text": "Stories we tell differently every time" }, { "id": "places_that_have_become_ours", "text": "Places that have become ours" }, { "id": "running_jokes_that_need_no_explanation", "text": "Running jokes that need no explanation" }, { "id": "songs_tied_to_very_specific_memories", "text": "Songs tied to very specific memories" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "nicknames_with_a_whole_history_behind_them", "text": "Nicknames with a whole history behind them" }, { "id": "stories_we_tell_differently_every_time", "text": "Stories we tell differently every time" }, { "id": "places_that_have_become_ours", "text": "Places that have become ours" }, { "id": "running_jokes_that_need_no_explanation", "text": "Running jokes that need no explanation" }, { "id": "songs_tied_to_very_specific_memories", "text": "Songs tied to very specific memories" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_072", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which flirty moments fit naturally into quality time for you?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "flirty", "romance", "consent_aware", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_compliment_that_is_specific_and_believable", "text": "A compliment that is specific and believable" }, { "id": "a_look_that_clearly_means_something", "text": "A look that clearly means something" }, { "id": "a_playful_message_from_the_next_room", "text": "A playful message from the next room" }, { "id": "a_kiss_that_interrupts_an_ordinary_moment", "text": "A kiss that interrupts an ordinary moment" }, { "id": "a_little_teasing_that_we_both_enjoy", "text": "A little teasing that we both enjoy" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_compliment_that_is_specific_and_believable", "text": "A compliment that is specific and believable" }, { "id": "a_look_that_clearly_means_something", "text": "A look that clearly means something" }, { "id": "a_playful_message_from_the_next_room", "text": "A playful message from the next room" }, { "id": "a_kiss_that_interrupts_an_ordinary_moment", "text": "A kiss that interrupts an ordinary moment" }, { "id": "a_little_teasing_that_we_both_enjoy", "text": "A little teasing that we both enjoy" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_073", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of question do you most enjoy hearing from me?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "conversation", "quality_time", "preferences" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "what_made_you_laugh_today", "text": "What made you laugh today?" }, { "id": "what_are_you_looking_forward_to", "text": "What are you looking forward to?" }, { "id": "what_do_you_really_think_about_that", "text": "What do you really think about that?" }, { "id": "what_would_make_tonight_better", "text": "What would make tonight better?" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "what_made_you_laugh_today", "text": "What made you laugh today?" }, { "id": "what_are_you_looking_forward_to", "text": "What are you looking forward to?" }, { "id": "what_do_you_really_think_about_that", "text": "What do you really think about that?" }, { "id": "what_would_make_tonight_better", "text": "What would make tonight better?" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_074", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Repeat a favorite or make a brand-new memory?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "memories", "variety", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "repeat_a_favorite", "text": "Repeat a favorite" }, { "id": "make_a_brand_new_memory", "text": "Make a brand-new memory" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "repeat_a_favorite", "text": "Repeat a favorite" }, { "id": "make_a_brand_new_memory", "text": "Make a brand-new memory" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_075", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What could we do in the next seven days that would feel like us?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "action", "invitation", "couple_identity", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "revisit_a_place_or_activity_we_already_love", "text": "Revisit a place or activity we already love" }, { "id": "make_one_ordinary_night_more_intentional", "text": "Make one ordinary night more intentional" }, { "id": "try_a_small_idea_we_have_mentioned_before", "text": "Try a small idea we have mentioned before" }, { "id": "protect_a_quiet_hour_with_no_agenda", "text": "Protect a quiet hour with no agenda" }, { "id": "create_a_new_inside_joke_or_memory", "text": "Create a new inside joke or memory" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "revisit_a_place_or_activity_we_already_love", "text": "Revisit a place or activity we already love" }, { "id": "make_one_ordinary_night_more_intentional", "text": "Make one ordinary night more intentional" }, { "id": "try_a_small_idea_we_have_mentioned_before", "text": "Try a small idea we have mentioned before" }, { "id": "protect_a_quiet_hour_with_no_agenda", "text": "Protect a quiet hour with no agenda" }, { "id": "create_a_new_inside_joke_or_memory", "text": "Create a new inside joke or memory" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_076", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What gets in the way of quality time even when we mean well?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "barriers", "busy_life", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "we_wait_for_a_perfect_opening", "text": "We wait for a perfect opening" }, { "id": "we_are_both_mentally_somewhere_else", "text": "We are both mentally somewhere else" }, { "id": "logistics_take_over_every_conversation", "text": "Logistics take over every conversation" }, { "id": "one_of_us_is_too_tired_to_decide", "text": "One of us is too tired to decide" }, { "id": "we_assume_being_in_the_same_room_is_enough", "text": "We assume being in the same room is enough" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_wait_for_a_perfect_opening", "text": "We wait for a perfect opening" }, { "id": "we_are_both_mentally_somewhere_else", "text": "We are both mentally somewhere else" }, { "id": "logistics_take_over_every_conversation", "text": "Logistics take over every conversation" }, { "id": "one_of_us_is_too_tired_to_decide", "text": "One of us is too tired to decide" }, { "id": "we_assume_being_in_the_same_room_is_enough", "text": "We assume being in the same room is enough" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_077", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which home plan would I pick first?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "prediction", "home_time", "partner_preferences", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "cook_something_easy_together", "text": "Cook something easy together" }, { "id": "watch_an_old_favorite", "text": "Watch an old favorite" }, { "id": "play_a_game_at_the_table", "text": "Play a game at the table" }, { "id": "sit_outside_and_talk", "text": "Sit outside and talk" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cook_something_easy_together", "text": "Cook something easy together" }, { "id": "watch_an_old_favorite", "text": "Watch an old favorite" }, { "id": "play_a_game_at_the_table", "text": "Play a game at the table" }, { "id": "sit_outside_and_talk", "text": "Sit outside and talk" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_078", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What kind of attention feels warmest when it comes from me?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "attention", "feeling_known", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "listening_without_trying_to_fix_anything", "text": "Listening without trying to fix anything" }, { "id": "noticing_a_change_in_my_mood", "text": "Noticing a change in my mood" }, { "id": "making_eye_contact_when_i_answer", "text": "Making eye contact when I answer" }, { "id": "remembering_something_i_mentioned_earlier", "text": "Remembering something I mentioned earlier" }, { "id": "giving_me_your_full_focus_for_a_few_minutes", "text": "Giving me your full focus for a few minutes" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "listening_without_trying_to_fix_anything", "text": "Listening without trying to fix anything" }, { "id": "noticing_a_change_in_my_mood", "text": "Noticing a change in my mood" }, { "id": "making_eye_contact_when_i_answer", "text": "Making eye contact when I answer" }, { "id": "remembering_something_i_mentioned_earlier", "text": "Remembering something I mentioned earlier" }, { "id": "giving_me_your_full_focus_for_a_few_minutes", "text": "Giving me your full focus for a few minutes" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_079", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us end a serious conversation feeling close?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "emotional_landing", "conversation", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "saying_what_we_heard_each_other_say", "text": "Saying what we heard each other say" }, { "id": "saying_what_we_appreciate_about_the_honesty", "text": "Saying what we appreciate about the honesty" }, { "id": "choosing_one_small_next_step", "text": "Choosing one small next step" }, { "id": "sharing_affection_if_it_feels_welcome", "text": "Sharing affection if it feels welcome" }, { "id": "doing_something_calming_together_afterward", "text": "Doing something calming together afterward" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "saying_what_we_heard_each_other_say", "text": "Saying what we heard each other say" }, { "id": "saying_what_we_appreciate_about_the_honesty", "text": "Saying what we appreciate about the honesty" }, { "id": "choosing_one_small_next_step", "text": "Choosing one small next step" }, { "id": "sharing_affection_if_it_feels_welcome", "text": "Sharing affection if it feels welcome" }, { "id": "doing_something_calming_together_afterward", "text": "Doing something calming together afterward" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_080", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How much do our current routines help us feel connected?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "routines", "connection", "quality_time", "low_energy" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very little", "max_label": "A great deal" } }, { "id": "quality_time_081", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which settings make conversation easiest for you?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "conversation_settings", "practical_reality", "quality_time", "low_energy" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "walking_side_by_side", "text": "Walking side by side" }, { "id": "sitting_in_the_car_after_arriving", "text": "Sitting in the car after arriving" }, { "id": "talking_in_bed_with_the_lights_low", "text": "Talking in bed with the lights low" }, { "id": "sharing_a_meal_without_a_deadline", "text": "Sharing a meal without a deadline" }, { "id": "doing_something_with_our_hands", "text": "Doing something with our hands" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "walking_side_by_side", "text": "Walking side by side" }, { "id": "sitting_in_the_car_after_arriving", "text": "Sitting in the car after arriving" }, { "id": "talking_in_bed_with_the_lights_low", "text": "Talking in bed with the lights low" }, { "id": "sharing_a_meal_without_a_deadline", "text": "Sharing a meal without a deadline" }, { "id": "doing_something_with_our_hands", "text": "Doing something with our hands" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_082", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps time in public still feel private enough to connect?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "public_time", "presence", "practical_reality", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "sitting_side_by_side_instead_of_across_a_loud_room", "text": "Sitting side by side instead of across a loud room" }, { "id": "choosing_a_place_where_we_can_actually_hear_each_other", "text": "Choosing a place where we can actually hear each other" }, { "id": "having_a_shared_joke_or_small_ritual", "text": "Having a shared joke or small ritual" }, { "id": "taking_a_walk_away_from_the_crowd", "text": "Taking a walk away from the crowd" }, { "id": "keeping_the_plan_simple_enough_to_stay_present", "text": "Keeping the plan simple enough to stay present" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sitting_side_by_side_instead_of_across_a_loud_room", "text": "Sitting side by side instead of across a loud room" }, { "id": "choosing_a_place_where_we_can_actually_hear_each_other", "text": "Choosing a place where we can actually hear each other" }, { "id": "having_a_shared_joke_or_small_ritual", "text": "Having a shared joke or small ritual" }, { "id": "taking_a_walk_away_from_the_crowd", "text": "Taking a walk away from the crowd" }, { "id": "keeping_the_plan_simple_enough_to_stay_present", "text": "Keeping the plan simple enough to stay present" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_083", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can we protect time together without making the calendar feel stricter?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "busy_life", "planning", "low_pressure", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "keeping_the_plan_small", "text": "Keeping the plan small" }, { "id": "choosing_a_regular_window_instead_of_a_rigid_event", "text": "Choosing a regular window instead of a rigid event" }, { "id": "treating_rescheduling_as_normal", "text": "Treating rescheduling as normal" }, { "id": "saying_no_to_one_lower_priority_commitment", "text": "Saying no to one lower-priority commitment" }, { "id": "making_the_setup_as_easy_as_possible", "text": "Making the setup as easy as possible" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "keeping_the_plan_small", "text": "Keeping the plan small" }, { "id": "choosing_a_regular_window_instead_of_a_rigid_event", "text": "Choosing a regular window instead of a rigid event" }, { "id": "treating_rescheduling_as_normal", "text": "Treating rescheduling as normal" }, { "id": "saying_no_to_one_lower_priority_commitment", "text": "Saying no to one lower-priority commitment" }, { "id": "making_the_setup_as_easy_as_possible", "text": "Making the setup as easy as possible" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_084", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should be our easiest weekday ritual?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "rituals", "invitation", "weekday", "quality_time", "low_energy" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_ten_minute_couch_check_in", "text": "A ten-minute couch check-in" }, { "id": "a_drink_together_after_work", "text": "A drink together after work" }, { "id": "one_song_before_we_start_dinner", "text": "One song before we start dinner" }, { "id": "a_short_goodnight_conversation", "text": "A short goodnight conversation" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_ten_minute_couch_check_in", "text": "A ten-minute couch check-in" }, { "id": "a_drink_together_after_work", "text": "A drink together after work" }, { "id": "one_song_before_we_start_dinner", "text": "One song before we start dinner" }, { "id": "a_short_goodnight_conversation", "text": "A short goodnight conversation" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_085", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which details make a simple plan feel thoughtful?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "thoughtfulness", "planning", "feeling_known", "quality_time", "couple_lore" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "remembering_what_i_have_been_craving", "text": "Remembering what I have been craving" }, { "id": "choosing_a_time_that_works_for_both_of_us", "text": "Choosing a time that works for both of us" }, { "id": "adding_music_or_a_small_comfort", "text": "Adding music or a small comfort" }, { "id": "taking_care_of_one_annoying_detail", "text": "Taking care of one annoying detail" }, { "id": "leaving_room_for_what_we_feel_like_doing", "text": "Leaving room for what we feel like doing" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "remembering_what_i_have_been_craving", "text": "Remembering what I have been craving" }, { "id": "choosing_a_time_that_works_for_both_of_us", "text": "Choosing a time that works for both of us" }, { "id": "adding_music_or_a_small_comfort", "text": "Adding music or a small comfort" }, { "id": "taking_care_of_one_annoying_detail", "text": "Taking care of one annoying detail" }, { "id": "leaving_room_for_what_we_feel_like_doing", "text": "Leaving room for what we feel like doing" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_086", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which tiny signs tell you we are actually enjoying the same moment?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "connection_signals", "couple_awareness", "quality_time", "couple_lore" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "we_stop_checking_the_time", "text": "We stop checking the time" }, { "id": "the_conversation_keeps_wandering", "text": "The conversation keeps wandering" }, { "id": "we_both_get_more_relaxed", "text": "We both get more relaxed" }, { "id": "one_of_us_says_we_should_do_this_again", "text": "One of us says we should do this again" }, { "id": "neither_of_us_reaches_for_a_distraction", "text": "Neither of us reaches for a distraction" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_stop_checking_the_time", "text": "We stop checking the time" }, { "id": "the_conversation_keeps_wandering", "text": "The conversation keeps wandering" }, { "id": "we_both_get_more_relaxed", "text": "We both get more relaxed" }, { "id": "one_of_us_says_we_should_do_this_again", "text": "One of us says we should do this again" }, { "id": "neither_of_us_reaches_for_a_distraction", "text": "Neither of us reaches for a distraction" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_087", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How close have you felt during our recent time together?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "emotional_connection", "current_state", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very connected", "max_label": "Very connected" } }, { "id": "quality_time_088", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Would I pick a long conversation or comfortable silence?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "prediction", "conversation_style", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_long_conversation", "text": "A long conversation" }, { "id": "comfortable_silence", "text": "Comfortable silence" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_long_conversation", "text": "A long conversation" }, { "id": "comfortable_silence", "text": "Comfortable silence" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_089", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which habits could help us stay connected over time?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "long_term", "habits", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_reliable_weekly_check_in", "text": "A reliable weekly check-in" }, { "id": "small_plans_before_we_feel_disconnected", "text": "Small plans before we feel disconnected" }, { "id": "protecting_a_few_phone_free_moments", "text": "Protecting a few phone-free moments" }, { "id": "updating_each_other_when_our_needs_change", "text": "Updating each other when our needs change" }, { "id": "keeping_one_playful_ritual_alive", "text": "Keeping one playful ritual alive" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_reliable_weekly_check_in", "text": "A reliable weekly check-in" }, { "id": "small_plans_before_we_feel_disconnected", "text": "Small plans before we feel disconnected" }, { "id": "protecting_a_few_phone_free_moments", "text": "Protecting a few phone-free moments" }, { "id": "updating_each_other_when_our_needs_change", "text": "Updating each other when our needs change" }, { "id": "keeping_one_playful_ritual_alive", "text": "Keeping one playful ritual alive" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_090", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "If we put our phones away for twenty minutes, what should fill the space?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "phones", "invitation", "flirty", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_real_catch_up", "text": "A real catch-up" }, { "id": "a_quick_card_game", "text": "A quick card game" }, { "id": "a_back_porch_break", "text": "A back-porch break" }, { "id": "a_slow_kiss_and_some_conversation", "text": "A slow kiss and some conversation" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_real_catch_up", "text": "A real catch-up" }, { "id": "a_quick_card_game", "text": "A quick card game" }, { "id": "a_back_porch_break", "text": "A back-porch break" }, { "id": "a_slow_kiss_and_some_conversation", "text": "A slow kiss and some conversation" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_091", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What turns an errand into time together instead of just another task?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "errands", "ordinary_time", "low_cost", "quality_time", "adult_humor" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "we_are_not_rushing", "text": "We are not rushing" }, { "id": "we_choose_one_enjoyable_stop", "text": "We choose one enjoyable stop" }, { "id": "we_talk_about_something_besides_the_list", "text": "We talk about something besides the list" }, { "id": "we_split_the_annoying_parts_fairly", "text": "We split the annoying parts fairly" }, { "id": "we_let_ourselves_take_the_scenic_route", "text": "We let ourselves take the scenic route" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_are_not_rushing", "text": "We are not rushing" }, { "id": "we_choose_one_enjoyable_stop", "text": "We choose one enjoyable stop" }, { "id": "we_talk_about_something_besides_the_list", "text": "We talk about something besides the list" }, { "id": "we_split_the_annoying_parts_fairly", "text": "We split the annoying parts fairly" }, { "id": "we_let_ourselves_take_the_scenic_route", "text": "We let ourselves take the scenic route" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_092", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which kinds of memories make you feel closest when we revisit them?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "memories", "couple_lore", "shared_history", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_trip_or_outing_that_surprised_us", "text": "A trip or outing that surprised us" }, { "id": "a_hard_season_we_handled_as_a_team", "text": "A hard season we handled as a team" }, { "id": "a_small_ordinary_day_that_became_important", "text": "A small ordinary day that became important" }, { "id": "a_moment_when_one_of_us_felt_truly_seen", "text": "A moment when one of us felt truly seen" }, { "id": "something_that_still_makes_us_laugh_immediately", "text": "Something that still makes us laugh immediately" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_trip_or_outing_that_surprised_us", "text": "A trip or outing that surprised us" }, { "id": "a_hard_season_we_handled_as_a_team", "text": "A hard season we handled as a team" }, { "id": "a_small_ordinary_day_that_became_important", "text": "A small ordinary day that became important" }, { "id": "a_moment_when_one_of_us_felt_truly_seen", "text": "A moment when one of us felt truly seen" }, { "id": "something_that_still_makes_us_laugh_immediately", "text": "Something that still makes us laugh immediately" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_093", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How much flirty energy sounds good lately?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "flirty", "current_preference", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very little", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "quality_time_094", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What kind of humor makes a slow evening better?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "adult_humor", "partner_humor", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "dry_comments_about_ordinary_life", "text": "Dry comments about ordinary life" }, { "id": "accurate_impressions_of_people_we_know", "text": "Accurate impressions of people we know" }, { "id": "callbacks_to_something_funny_from_years_ago", "text": "Callbacks to something funny from years ago" }, { "id": "mock_serious_debates_over_harmless_topics", "text": "Mock-serious debates over harmless topics" }, { "id": "laughing_at_ourselves_without_being_mean", "text": "Laughing at ourselves without being mean" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "dry_comments_about_ordinary_life", "text": "Dry comments about ordinary life" }, { "id": "accurate_impressions_of_people_we_know", "text": "Accurate impressions of people we know" }, { "id": "callbacks_to_something_funny_from_years_ago", "text": "Callbacks to something funny from years ago" }, { "id": "mock_serious_debates_over_harmless_topics", "text": "Mock-serious debates over harmless topics" }, { "id": "laughing_at_ourselves_without_being_mean", "text": "Laughing at ourselves without being mean" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_095", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a plan feel worth looking forward to?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "planning", "anticipation", "practical_reality", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "it_fits_the_energy_we_are_likely_to_have", "text": "It fits the energy we are likely to have" }, { "id": "there_is_one_detail_chosen_just_for_us", "text": "There is one detail chosen just for us" }, { "id": "we_know_roughly_how_long_it_will_take", "text": "We know roughly how long it will take" }, { "id": "it_leaves_room_to_change_our_minds", "text": "It leaves room to change our minds" }, { "id": "it_is_about_the_time_together_not_impressing_anyone", "text": "It is about the time together, not impressing anyone" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_fits_the_energy_we_are_likely_to_have", "text": "It fits the energy we are likely to have" }, { "id": "there_is_one_detail_chosen_just_for_us", "text": "There is one detail chosen just for us" }, { "id": "we_know_roughly_how_long_it_will_take", "text": "We know roughly how long it will take" }, { "id": "it_leaves_room_to_change_our_minds", "text": "It leaves room to change our minds" }, { "id": "it_is_about_the_time_together_not_impressing_anyone", "text": "It is about the time together, not impressing anyone" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_096", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which of these makes me feel most listened to—your guess?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "prediction", "listening", "feeling_known", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "you_remember_the_details_later", "text": "You remember the details later" }, { "id": "you_ask_a_question_that_moves_the_story_forward", "text": "You ask a question that moves the story forward" }, { "id": "you_do_not_rush_to_solve_it", "text": "You do not rush to solve it" }, { "id": "you_notice_the_feeling_behind_the_words", "text": "You notice the feeling behind the words" }, { "id": "you_give_me_room_to_finish_my_thought", "text": "You give me room to finish my thought" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "you_remember_the_details_later", "text": "You remember the details later" }, { "id": "you_ask_a_question_that_moves_the_story_forward", "text": "You ask a question that moves the story forward" }, { "id": "you_do_not_rush_to_solve_it", "text": "You do not rush to solve it" }, { "id": "you_notice_the_feeling_behind_the_words", "text": "You notice the feeling behind the words" }, { "id": "you_give_me_room_to_finish_my_thought", "text": "You give me room to finish my thought" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_097", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which new ritual would I be most excited to try?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "prediction", "rituals", "future_plans", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_weekly_walk_and_catch_up", "text": "A weekly walk and catch-up" }, { "id": "a_monthly_at_home_date", "text": "A monthly at-home date" }, { "id": "a_small_celebration_at_the_end_of_hard_weeks", "text": "A small celebration at the end of hard weeks" }, { "id": "a_shared_playlist_we_keep_adding_to", "text": "A shared playlist we keep adding to" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_weekly_walk_and_catch_up", "text": "A weekly walk and catch-up" }, { "id": "a_monthly_at_home_date", "text": "A monthly at-home date" }, { "id": "a_small_celebration_at_the_end_of_hard_weeks", "text": "A small celebration at the end of hard weeks" }, { "id": "a_shared_playlist_we_keep_adding_to", "text": "A shared playlist we keep adding to" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_098", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which topics make time together fly for you?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "conversation_topics", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "people_and_stories_from_our_past", "text": "People and stories from our past" }, { "id": "things_we_want_to_try_someday", "text": "Things we want to try someday" }, { "id": "books_shows_or_ideas_we_are_into", "text": "Books, shows, or ideas we are into" }, { "id": "the_strange_details_of_our_day", "text": "The strange details of our day" }, { "id": "what_we_are_learning_about_each_other", "text": "What we are learning about each other" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "people_and_stories_from_our_past", "text": "People and stories from our past" }, { "id": "things_we_want_to_try_someday", "text": "Things we want to try someday" }, { "id": "books_shows_or_ideas_we_are_into", "text": "Books, shows, or ideas we are into" }, { "id": "the_strange_details_of_our_day", "text": "The strange details of our day" }, { "id": "what_we_are_learning_about_each_other", "text": "What we are learning about each other" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_099", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which quiet plan sounds best right now?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "quiet", "invitation", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "read_beside_each_other", "text": "Read beside each other" }, { "id": "sit_outside_with_something_to_drink", "text": "Sit outside with something to drink" }, { "id": "listen_to_an_album_without_multitasking", "text": "Listen to an album without multitasking" }, { "id": "lie_down_and_talk_only_if_we_feel_like_it", "text": "Lie down and talk only if we feel like it" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "read_beside_each_other", "text": "Read beside each other" }, { "id": "sit_outside_with_something_to_drink", "text": "Sit outside with something to drink" }, { "id": "listen_to_an_album_without_multitasking", "text": "Listen to an album without multitasking" }, { "id": "lie_down_and_talk_only_if_we_feel_like_it", "text": "Lie down and talk only if we feel like it" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_100", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "A short daily ritual or a longer weekly plan?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "rituals", "time_style", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_short_daily_ritual", "text": "A short daily ritual" }, { "id": "a_longer_weekly_plan", "text": "A longer weekly plan" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_short_daily_ritual", "text": "A short daily ritual" }, { "id": "a_longer_weekly_plan", "text": "A longer weekly plan" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_101", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Where should we steal ten minutes together this week?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "short_time", "invitation", "action", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "in_the_kitchen_while_something_cooks", "text": "In the kitchen while something cooks" }, { "id": "in_the_car_before_we_go_inside", "text": "In the car before we go inside" }, { "id": "outside_after_dark", "text": "Outside after dark" }, { "id": "on_the_couch_before_the_next_task", "text": "On the couch before the next task" }, { "id": "in_bed_before_sleep", "text": "In bed before sleep" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "in_the_kitchen_while_something_cooks", "text": "In the kitchen while something cooks" }, { "id": "in_the_car_before_we_go_inside", "text": "In the car before we go inside" }, { "id": "outside_after_dark", "text": "Outside after dark" }, { "id": "on_the_couch_before_the_next_task", "text": "On the couch before the next task" }, { "id": "in_bed_before_sleep", "text": "In bed before sleep" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_102", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes it easier to enjoy time together without pressure?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "low_pressure", "accessibility", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "knowing_we_can_leave_early", "text": "Knowing we can leave early" }, { "id": "having_a_backup_plan_at_home", "text": "Having a backup plan at home" }, { "id": "not_needing_to_dress_up", "text": "Not needing to dress up" }, { "id": "choosing_something_familiar", "text": "Choosing something familiar" }, { "id": "keeping_conversation_optional", "text": "Keeping conversation optional" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "knowing_we_can_leave_early", "text": "Knowing we can leave early" }, { "id": "having_a_backup_plan_at_home", "text": "Having a backup plan at home" }, { "id": "not_needing_to_dress_up", "text": "Not needing to dress up" }, { "id": "choosing_something_familiar", "text": "Choosing something familiar" }, { "id": "keeping_conversation_optional", "text": "Keeping conversation optional" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_103", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Revisit an old favorite or try something neither of us knows?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "variety", "shared_experience", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "revisit_an_old_favorite", "text": "Revisit an old favorite" }, { "id": "try_something_new_to_both_of_us", "text": "Try something new to both of us" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "revisit_an_old_favorite", "text": "Revisit an old favorite" }, { "id": "try_something_new_to_both_of_us", "text": "Try something new to both of us" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_104", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes spontaneous time feel good instead of disruptive?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "spontaneity", "low_pressure", "practical_reality", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_quick_check_of_each_others_energy", "text": "A quick check of each other's energy" }, { "id": "no_pressure_if_one_of_us_is_not_up_for_it", "text": "No pressure if one of us is not up for it" }, { "id": "enough_notice_to_finish_what_we_are_doing", "text": "Enough notice to finish what we are doing" }, { "id": "a_simple_plan_with_little_preparation", "text": "A simple plan with little preparation" }, { "id": "knowing_it_will_not_take_the_whole_day", "text": "Knowing it will not take the whole day" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_quick_check_of_each_others_energy", "text": "A quick check of each other's energy" }, { "id": "no_pressure_if_one_of_us_is_not_up_for_it", "text": "No pressure if one of us is not up for it" }, { "id": "enough_notice_to_finish_what_we_are_doing", "text": "Enough notice to finish what we are doing" }, { "id": "a_simple_plan_with_little_preparation", "text": "A simple plan with little preparation" }, { "id": "knowing_it_will_not_take_the_whole_day", "text": "Knowing it will not take the whole day" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_105", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which quiet moment do you enjoy most?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "quiet", "partner_preferences", "quality_time", "preferences" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "morning_coffee_before_the_day_starts", "text": "Morning coffee before the day starts" }, { "id": "a_peaceful_ride_together", "text": "A peaceful ride together" }, { "id": "reading_near_each_other", "text": "Reading near each other" }, { "id": "lying_in_bed_before_sleep", "text": "Lying in bed before sleep" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "morning_coffee_before_the_day_starts", "text": "Morning coffee before the day starts" }, { "id": "a_peaceful_ride_together", "text": "A peaceful ride together" }, { "id": "reading_near_each_other", "text": "Reading near each other" }, { "id": "lying_in_bed_before_sleep", "text": "Lying in bed before sleep" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_106", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a check-in feel natural instead of formal?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "check_ins", "conversation", "low_pressure", "quality_time", "couple_lore", "adult_humor" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "it_happens_during_something_ordinary", "text": "It happens during something ordinary" }, { "id": "the_question_is_specific", "text": "The question is specific" }, { "id": "there_is_no_pressure_to_have_a_big_answer", "text": "There is no pressure to have a big answer" }, { "id": "we_both_get_a_turn", "text": "We both get a turn" }, { "id": "it_includes_warmth_or_humor", "text": "It includes warmth or humor" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_happens_during_something_ordinary", "text": "It happens during something ordinary" }, { "id": "the_question_is_specific", "text": "The question is specific" }, { "id": "there_is_no_pressure_to_have_a_big_answer", "text": "There is no pressure to have a big answer" }, { "id": "we_both_get_a_turn", "text": "We both get a turn" }, { "id": "it_includes_warmth_or_humor", "text": "It includes warmth or humor" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_107", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which routine would you most want us to protect?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "rituals", "partner_preferences", "quality_time", "preferences" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "our_morning_start", "text": "Our morning start" }, { "id": "our_evening_wind_down", "text": "Our evening wind-down" }, { "id": "our_weekend_reset", "text": "Our weekend reset" }, { "id": "our_spontaneous_check_ins", "text": "Our spontaneous check-ins" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "our_morning_start", "text": "Our morning start" }, { "id": "our_evening_wind_down", "text": "Our evening wind-down" }, { "id": "our_weekend_reset", "text": "Our weekend reset" }, { "id": "our_spontaneous_check_ins", "text": "Our spontaneous check-ins" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_108", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which ways of reconnecting after we have both been scrolling feel natural?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "phones", "reconnection", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "putting_the_phones_down_at_the_same_time", "text": "Putting the phones down at the same time" }, { "id": "sharing_the_funniest_thing_we_saw", "text": "Sharing the funniest thing we saw" }, { "id": "moving_to_a_different_room_together", "text": "Moving to a different room together" }, { "id": "starting_with_a_small_affectionate_touch", "text": "Starting with a small affectionate touch" }, { "id": "asking_one_question_that_is_not_about_chores", "text": "Asking one question that is not about chores" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "putting_the_phones_down_at_the_same_time", "text": "Putting the phones down at the same time" }, { "id": "sharing_the_funniest_thing_we_saw", "text": "Sharing the funniest thing we saw" }, { "id": "moving_to_a_different_room_together", "text": "Moving to a different room together" }, { "id": "starting_with_a_small_affectionate_touch", "text": "Starting with a small affectionate touch" }, { "id": "asking_one_question_that_is_not_about_chores", "text": "Asking one question that is not about chores" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_109", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How stretched thin have we felt lately?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "busy_life", "current_state", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "We have breathing room", "max_label": "Extremely stretched" } }, { "id": "quality_time_110", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes an ordinary evening feel like real time together?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "ordinary_time", "presence", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "we_are_not_rushing_to_the_next_task", "text": "We are not rushing to the next task" }, { "id": "we_both_choose_what_we_are_doing", "text": "We both choose what we are doing" }, { "id": "there_is_room_for_affection", "text": "There is room for affection" }, { "id": "we_talk_about_more_than_logistics", "text": "We talk about more than logistics" }, { "id": "we_laugh_at_something_small", "text": "We laugh at something small" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_are_not_rushing_to_the_next_task", "text": "We are not rushing to the next task" }, { "id": "we_both_choose_what_we_are_doing", "text": "We both choose what we are doing" }, { "id": "there_is_room_for_affection", "text": "There is room for affection" }, { "id": "we_talk_about_more_than_logistics", "text": "We talk about more than logistics" }, { "id": "we_laugh_at_something_small", "text": "We laugh at something small" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_111", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What could make bedtime feel like connection instead of collapse?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "bedtime", "reconnection", "low_energy", "quality_time", "flirty", "adult_humor" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "finishing_phone_time_a_little_earlier", "text": "Finishing phone time a little earlier" }, { "id": "talking_about_one_thing_that_mattered", "text": "Talking about one thing that mattered" }, { "id": "making_time_for_a_real_goodnight_kiss", "text": "Making time for a real goodnight kiss" }, { "id": "reading_or_listening_to_something_nearby", "text": "Reading or listening to something nearby" }, { "id": "making_tomorrows_plan_brief_and_simple", "text": "Making tomorrow's plan brief and simple" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "finishing_phone_time_a_little_earlier", "text": "Finishing phone time a little earlier" }, { "id": "talking_about_one_thing_that_mattered", "text": "Talking about one thing that mattered" }, { "id": "making_time_for_a_real_goodnight_kiss", "text": "Making time for a real goodnight kiss" }, { "id": "reading_or_listening_to_something_nearby", "text": "Reading or listening to something nearby" }, { "id": "making_tomorrows_plan_brief_and_simple", "text": "Making tomorrow's plan brief and simple" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_112", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "A familiar place or somewhere new nearby?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "place_preference", "short_outing", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_familiar_place", "text": "A familiar place" }, { "id": "somewhere_new_nearby", "text": "Somewhere new nearby" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_familiar_place", "text": "A familiar place" }, { "id": "somewhere_new_nearby", "text": "Somewhere new nearby" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_113", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you share more during time together?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "meaningful", "conversation", "emotional_safety", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "we_start_with_something_light", "text": "We start with something light" }, { "id": "you_listen_without_interrupting", "text": "You listen without interrupting" }, { "id": "there_is_enough_privacy", "text": "There is enough privacy" }, { "id": "i_know_we_are_not_in_a_rush", "text": "I know we are not in a rush" }, { "id": "you_share_something_honest_too", "text": "You share something honest too" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_start_with_something_light", "text": "We start with something light" }, { "id": "you_listen_without_interrupting", "text": "You listen without interrupting" }, { "id": "there_is_enough_privacy", "text": "There is enough privacy" }, { "id": "i_know_we_are_not_in_a_rush", "text": "I know we are not in a rush" }, { "id": "you_share_something_honest_too", "text": "You share something honest too" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_114", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can turn a normal meal into quality time for you?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "shared_meals", "ordinary_time", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "eating_without_hurrying", "text": "Eating without hurrying" }, { "id": "choosing_the_food_together", "text": "Choosing the food together" }, { "id": "talking_about_the_best_part_of_the_day", "text": "Talking about the best part of the day" }, { "id": "playing_music_we_both_like", "text": "Playing music we both like" }, { "id": "staying_at_the_table_a_little_longer", "text": "Staying at the table a little longer" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "eating_without_hurrying", "text": "Eating without hurrying" }, { "id": "choosing_the_food_together", "text": "Choosing the food together" }, { "id": "talking_about_the_best_part_of_the_day", "text": "Talking about the best part of the day" }, { "id": "playing_music_we_both_like", "text": "Playing music we both like" }, { "id": "staying_at_the_table_a_little_longer", "text": "Staying at the table a little longer" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_115", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which phone habits make time together feel better?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "phones", "boundaries", "presence", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "silencing_alerts_for_a_while", "text": "Silencing alerts for a while" }, { "id": "showing_each_other_something_worth_seeing", "text": "Showing each other something worth seeing" }, { "id": "saying_when_a_message_really_needs_attention", "text": "Saying when a message really needs attention" }, { "id": "keeping_meals_mostly_screen_free", "text": "Keeping meals mostly screen-free" }, { "id": "choosing_a_stopping_point_before_scrolling", "text": "Choosing a stopping point before scrolling" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "silencing_alerts_for_a_while", "text": "Silencing alerts for a while" }, { "id": "showing_each_other_something_worth_seeing", "text": "Showing each other something worth seeing" }, { "id": "saying_when_a_message_really_needs_attention", "text": "Saying when a message really needs attention" }, { "id": "keeping_meals_mostly_screen_free", "text": "Keeping meals mostly screen-free" }, { "id": "choosing_a_stopping_point_before_scrolling", "text": "Choosing a stopping point before scrolling" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_116", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How easy has it felt to talk without rushing lately?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "conversation", "pace", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very easy", "max_label": "Very easy" } }, { "id": "quality_time_117", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps when we want different things from our time together?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "different_preferences", "compromise", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "saying_what_we_each_feel_like_doing_without_making_it_a_problem", "text": "Saying what we each feel like doing without making it a problem" }, { "id": "finding_one_part_we_can_share", "text": "Finding one part we can share" }, { "id": "taking_turns_choosing", "text": "Taking turns choosing" }, { "id": "doing_parallel_activities_nearby", "text": "Doing parallel activities nearby" }, { "id": "saving_one_persons_idea_for_a_better_day", "text": "Saving one person's idea for a better day" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "saying_what_we_each_feel_like_doing_without_making_it_a_problem", "text": "Saying what we each feel like doing without making it a problem" }, { "id": "finding_one_part_we_can_share", "text": "Finding one part we can share" }, { "id": "taking_turns_choosing", "text": "Taking turns choosing" }, { "id": "doing_parallel_activities_nearby", "text": "Doing parallel activities nearby" }, { "id": "saving_one_persons_idea_for_a_better_day", "text": "Saving one person's idea for a better day" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_118", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should we turn into a tiny competition?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "adult_humor", "playful_competition", "invitation", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "who_can_build_the_better_three_song_playlist", "text": "Who can build the better three-song playlist" }, { "id": "who_remembers_the_funniest_detail_from_the_week", "text": "Who remembers the funniest detail from the week" }, { "id": "who_can_find_the_best_photo_in_five_minutes", "text": "Who can find the best photo in five minutes" }, { "id": "who_can_make_the_other_laugh_first", "text": "Who can make the other laugh first" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "who_can_build_the_better_three_song_playlist", "text": "Who can build the better three-song playlist" }, { "id": "who_remembers_the_funniest_detail_from_the_week", "text": "Who remembers the funniest detail from the week" }, { "id": "who_can_find_the_best_photo_in_five_minutes", "text": "Who can find the best photo in five minutes" }, { "id": "who_can_make_the_other_laugh_first", "text": "Who can make the other laugh first" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_119", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What do I notice first when we are having a good night?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "prediction", "connection_signals", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "how_relaxed_we_both_seem", "text": "How relaxed we both seem" }, { "id": "how_easily_the_conversation_flows", "text": "How easily the conversation flows" }, { "id": "how_much_we_are_laughing", "text": "How much we are laughing" }, { "id": "how_little_we_are_checking_the_time", "text": "How little we are checking the time" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "how_relaxed_we_both_seem", "text": "How relaxed we both seem" }, { "id": "how_easily_the_conversation_flows", "text": "How easily the conversation flows" }, { "id": "how_much_we_are_laughing", "text": "How much we are laughing" }, { "id": "how_little_we_are_checking_the_time", "text": "How little we are checking the time" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_120", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which milestones deserve their own small ritual?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "milestones", "rituals", "quality_time", "couple_lore" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "finishing_a_difficult_week", "text": "Finishing a difficult week" }, { "id": "starting_something_new", "text": "Starting something new" }, { "id": "reaching_a_shared_goal", "text": "Reaching a shared goal" }, { "id": "getting_through_an_ordinary_month", "text": "Getting through an ordinary month" }, { "id": "making_a_decision_we_feel_good_about", "text": "Making a decision we feel good about" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "finishing_a_difficult_week", "text": "Finishing a difficult week" }, { "id": "starting_something_new", "text": "Starting something new" }, { "id": "reaching_a_shared_goal", "text": "Reaching a shared goal" }, { "id": "getting_through_an_ordinary_month", "text": "Getting through an ordinary month" }, { "id": "making_a_decision_we_feel_good_about", "text": "Making a decision we feel good about" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_121", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What would make tonight feel a little more like a date without leaving home?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "romance", "flirty", "invitation", "home_time", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "put_on_music_and_eat_somewhere_other_than_the_usual_spot", "text": "Put on music and eat somewhere other than the usual spot" }, { "id": "dress_a_little_nicer_for_no_practical_reason", "text": "Dress a little nicer for no practical reason" }, { "id": "share_dessert_after_the_day_is_done", "text": "Share dessert after the day is done" }, { "id": "turn_the_lights_down_and_talk_without_screens", "text": "Turn the lights down and talk without screens" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "put_on_music_and_eat_somewhere_other_than_the_usual_spot", "text": "Put on music and eat somewhere other than the usual spot" }, { "id": "dress_a_little_nicer_for_no_practical_reason", "text": "Dress a little nicer for no practical reason" }, { "id": "share_dessert_after_the_day_is_done", "text": "Share dessert after the day is done" }, { "id": "turn_the_lights_down_and_talk_without_screens", "text": "Turn the lights down and talk without screens" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_122", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "written", "text": "What ordinary moment with me has felt more meaningful than it probably looked from the outside?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "memory", "couple_lore", "meaningful", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, "max_length": 500, "placeholder": "Write your answer..." } }, { "id": "quality_time_123", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a routine feel like ours instead of another task?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "rituals", "couple_identity", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "we_both_look_forward_to_it", "text": "We both look forward to it" }, { "id": "it_has_a_small_personal_touch", "text": "It has a small personal touch" }, { "id": "it_can_bend_when_life_changes", "text": "It can bend when life changes" }, { "id": "it_gives_us_something_to_talk_about", "text": "It gives us something to talk about" }, { "id": "it_reflects_how_we_actually_live", "text": "It reflects how we actually live" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_both_look_forward_to_it", "text": "We both look forward to it" }, { "id": "it_has_a_small_personal_touch", "text": "It has a small personal touch" }, { "id": "it_can_bend_when_life_changes", "text": "It can bend when life changes" }, { "id": "it_gives_us_something_to_talk_about", "text": "It gives us something to talk about" }, { "id": "it_reflects_how_we_actually_live", "text": "It reflects how we actually live" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_124", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which time limits make a plan feel manageable?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "time_limits", "accessibility", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "ten_focused_minutes", "text": "Ten focused minutes" }, { "id": "about_half_an_hour", "text": "About half an hour" }, { "id": "one_unhurried_hour", "text": "One unhurried hour" }, { "id": "until_one_of_us_starts_fading", "text": "Until one of us starts fading" }, { "id": "a_clear_ending_tied_to_the_next_responsibility", "text": "A clear ending tied to the next responsibility" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ten_focused_minutes", "text": "Ten focused minutes" }, { "id": "about_half_an_hour", "text": "About half an hour" }, { "id": "one_unhurried_hour", "text": "One unhurried hour" }, { "id": "until_one_of_us_starts_fading", "text": "Until one of us starts fading" }, { "id": "a_clear_ending_tied_to_the_next_responsibility", "text": "A clear ending tied to the next responsibility" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_125", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How distracted have our evenings felt lately?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "distraction", "current_state", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Hardly at all", "max_label": "Very distracted" } }, { "id": "quality_time_126", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which free or inexpensive plans can still feel special?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "low_cost", "accessible_plans", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_sunset_or_evening_walk", "text": "A sunset or evening walk" }, { "id": "a_picnic_made_from_food_we_already_have", "text": "A picnic made from food we already have" }, { "id": "a_drive_with_a_shared_playlist", "text": "A drive with a shared playlist" }, { "id": "a_free_local_event", "text": "A free local event" }, { "id": "a_photo_walk_with_one_small_challenge", "text": "A photo walk with one small challenge" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_sunset_or_evening_walk", "text": "A sunset or evening walk" }, { "id": "a_picnic_made_from_food_we_already_have", "text": "A picnic made from food we already have" }, { "id": "a_drive_with_a_shared_playlist", "text": "A drive with a shared playlist" }, { "id": "a_free_local_event", "text": "A free local event" }, { "id": "a_photo_walk_with_one_small_challenge", "text": "A photo walk with one small challenge" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_127", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should we make more room for next month?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "future_plans", "invitation", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "unhurried_meals", "text": "Unhurried meals" }, { "id": "short_walks_or_drives", "text": "Short walks or drives" }, { "id": "quiet_time_at_home", "text": "Quiet time at home" }, { "id": "playful_plans_that_break_the_routine", "text": "Playful plans that break the routine" }, { "id": "conversations_with_no_phones_nearby", "text": "Conversations with no phones nearby" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "unhurried_meals", "text": "Unhurried meals" }, { "id": "short_walks_or_drives", "text": "Short walks or drives" }, { "id": "quiet_time_at_home", "text": "Quiet time at home" }, { "id": "playful_plans_that_break_the_routine", "text": "Playful plans that break the routine" }, { "id": "conversations_with_no_phones_nearby", "text": "Conversations with no phones nearby" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_128", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which moment makes you feel most known by me?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "feeling_known", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "i_remember_a_detail_you_forgot_you_told_me", "text": "I remember a detail you forgot you told me" }, { "id": "i_notice_when_your_energy_changes", "text": "I notice when your energy changes" }, { "id": "i_choose_something_that_fits_your_real_taste", "text": "I choose something that fits your real taste" }, { "id": "i_understand_the_joke_before_you_explain_it", "text": "I understand the joke before you explain it" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_remember_a_detail_you_forgot_you_told_me", "text": "I remember a detail you forgot you told me" }, { "id": "i_notice_when_your_energy_changes", "text": "I notice when your energy changes" }, { "id": "i_choose_something_that_fits_your_real_taste", "text": "I choose something that fits your real taste" }, { "id": "i_understand_the_joke_before_you_explain_it", "text": "I understand the joke before you explain it" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_129", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a five-minute reconnect actually work?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "quick_connection", "presence", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "we_stop_doing_other_things_for_those_minutes", "text": "We stop doing other things for those minutes" }, { "id": "the_question_is_specific_and_easy_to_answer", "text": "The question is specific and easy to answer" }, { "id": "there_is_some_affection_or_warmth", "text": "There is some affection or warmth" }, { "id": "we_do_not_use_the_time_only_for_logistics", "text": "We do not use the time only for logistics" }, { "id": "we_leave_knowing_when_we_will_connect_again", "text": "We leave knowing when we will connect again" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_stop_doing_other_things_for_those_minutes", "text": "We stop doing other things for those minutes" }, { "id": "the_question_is_specific_and_easy_to_answer", "text": "The question is specific and easy to answer" }, { "id": "there_is_some_affection_or_warmth", "text": "There is some affection or warmth" }, { "id": "we_do_not_use_the_time_only_for_logistics", "text": "We do not use the time only for logistics" }, { "id": "we_leave_knowing_when_we_will_connect_again", "text": "We leave knowing when we will connect again" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_130", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes quiet time together feel connected?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "quiet", "presence", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "knowing_we_both_chose_to_be_there", "text": "Knowing we both chose to be there" }, { "id": "a_little_physical_contact", "text": "A little physical contact" }, { "id": "occasional_comments_or_smiles", "text": "Occasional comments or smiles" }, { "id": "a_calm_room_without_pressure", "text": "A calm room without pressure" }, { "id": "checking_in_before_we_drift_into_separate_worlds", "text": "Checking in before we drift into separate worlds" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "knowing_we_both_chose_to_be_there", "text": "Knowing we both chose to be there" }, { "id": "a_little_physical_contact", "text": "A little physical contact" }, { "id": "occasional_comments_or_smiles", "text": "Occasional comments or smiles" }, { "id": "a_calm_room_without_pressure", "text": "A calm room without pressure" }, { "id": "checking_in_before_we_drift_into_separate_worlds", "text": "Checking in before we drift into separate worlds" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_131", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which easy plan feels most worth it?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "low_energy", "invitation", "practical_reality", "quality_time", "adult_humor" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_favorite_meal_and_one_episode", "text": "A favorite meal and one episode" }, { "id": "a_short_drive_with_music", "text": "A short drive with music" }, { "id": "a_couch_picnic_and_conversation", "text": "A couch picnic and conversation" }, { "id": "a_slow_walk_close_to_home", "text": "A slow walk close to home" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_favorite_meal_and_one_episode", "text": "A favorite meal and one episode" }, { "id": "a_short_drive_with_music", "text": "A short drive with music" }, { "id": "a_couch_picnic_and_conversation", "text": "A couch picnic and conversation" }, { "id": "a_slow_walk_close_to_home", "text": "A slow walk close to home" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_132", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What sounds best after a long day?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "low_energy", "partner_preferences", "quality_time", "preferences" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "quiet_closeness", "text": "Quiet closeness" }, { "id": "a_funny_conversation", "text": "A funny conversation" }, { "id": "a_simple_shared_meal", "text": "A simple shared meal" }, { "id": "a_little_affectionate_attention", "text": "A little affectionate attention" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quiet_closeness", "text": "Quiet closeness" }, { "id": "a_funny_conversation", "text": "A funny conversation" }, { "id": "a_simple_shared_meal", "text": "A simple shared meal" }, { "id": "a_little_affectionate_attention", "text": "A little affectionate attention" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_133", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "written", "text": "What small ritual of ours would you genuinely miss if it disappeared?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "rituals", "appreciation", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min_length": 1, "max_length": 500, "placeholder": "Write your answer..." } }, { "id": "quality_time_134", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which plans would you guess make me feel most chosen?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "prediction", "feeling_chosen", "planning", "quality_time", "couple_lore" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "something_based_on_a_detail_i_mentioned", "text": "Something based on a detail I mentioned" }, { "id": "time_protected_before_the_calendar_fills", "text": "Time protected before the calendar fills" }, { "id": "an_easy_favorite_with_no_big_production", "text": "An easy favorite with no big production" }, { "id": "a_new_idea_that_fits_my_actual_energy", "text": "A new idea that fits my actual energy" }, { "id": "a_plan_where_you_handle_one_stressful_detail", "text": "A plan where you handle one stressful detail" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "something_based_on_a_detail_i_mentioned", "text": "Something based on a detail I mentioned" }, { "id": "time_protected_before_the_calendar_fills", "text": "Time protected before the calendar fills" }, { "id": "an_easy_favorite_with_no_big_production", "text": "An easy favorite with no big production" }, { "id": "a_new_idea_that_fits_my_actual_energy", "text": "A new idea that fits my actual energy" }, { "id": "a_plan_where_you_handle_one_stressful_detail", "text": "A plan where you handle one stressful detail" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_135", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would help canceled plans still feel like time together?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "canceled_plans", "repair", "low_pressure", "quality_time", "adult_humor" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "switching_to_an_easier_version_at_home", "text": "Switching to an easier version at home" }, { "id": "ordering_something_and_talking_for_a_while", "text": "Ordering something and talking for a while" }, { "id": "saving_one_part_of_the_original_idea", "text": "Saving one part of the original idea" }, { "id": "choosing_a_new_date_before_we_move_on", "text": "Choosing a new date before we move on" }, { "id": "saying_we_are_disappointed_without_turning_on_each_other", "text": "Saying we are disappointed without turning on each other" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "switching_to_an_easier_version_at_home", "text": "Switching to an easier version at home" }, { "id": "ordering_something_and_talking_for_a_while", "text": "Ordering something and talking for a while" }, { "id": "saving_one_part_of_the_original_idea", "text": "Saving one part of the original idea" }, { "id": "choosing_a_new_date_before_we_move_on", "text": "Choosing a new date before we move on" }, { "id": "saying_we_are_disappointed_without_turning_on_each_other", "text": "Saying we are disappointed without turning on each other" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_136", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which low-stakes games actually feel like quality time?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "games", "shared_activity", "low_energy", "quality_time", "adult_humor" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_cooperative_card_game", "text": "A cooperative card game" }, { "id": "trivia_where_we_can_work_as_a_team", "text": "Trivia where we can work as a team" }, { "id": "a_puzzle_we_can_leave_unfinished", "text": "A puzzle we can leave unfinished" }, { "id": "a_guessing_game_based_on_our_preferences", "text": "A guessing game based on our preferences" }, { "id": "a_word_game_that_takes_ten_minutes", "text": "A word game that takes ten minutes" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_cooperative_card_game", "text": "A cooperative card game" }, { "id": "trivia_where_we_can_work_as_a_team", "text": "Trivia where we can work as a team" }, { "id": "a_puzzle_we_can_leave_unfinished", "text": "A puzzle we can leave unfinished" }, { "id": "a_guessing_game_based_on_our_preferences", "text": "A guessing game based on our preferences" }, { "id": "a_word_game_that_takes_ten_minutes", "text": "A word game that takes ten minutes" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_137", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How satisfied are you with the low-key time we make at home?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "home_time", "satisfaction", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very satisfied", "max_label": "Very satisfied" } }, { "id": "quality_time_138", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a tradition worth keeping?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "traditions", "couple_identity", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "it_still_feels_like_us", "text": "It still feels like us" }, { "id": "it_is_easy_enough_to_repeat", "text": "It is easy enough to repeat" }, { "id": "it_gives_us_something_to_anticipate", "text": "It gives us something to anticipate" }, { "id": "it_carries_a_story_we_care_about", "text": "It carries a story we care about" }, { "id": "it_can_change_as_our_life_changes", "text": "It can change as our life changes" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_still_feels_like_us", "text": "It still feels like us" }, { "id": "it_is_easy_enough_to_repeat", "text": "It is easy enough to repeat" }, { "id": "it_gives_us_something_to_anticipate", "text": "It gives us something to anticipate" }, { "id": "it_carries_a_story_we_care_about", "text": "It carries a story we care about" }, { "id": "it_can_change_as_our_life_changes", "text": "It can change as our life changes" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_139", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps silence feel peaceful instead of distant?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "quiet", "emotional_safety", "presence", "quality_time", "flirty", "low_energy" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_warm_greeting_before_we_settle_in", "text": "A warm greeting before we settle in" }, { "id": "knowing_we_can_talk_whenever_we_want", "text": "Knowing we can talk whenever we want" }, { "id": "a_small_touch_or_affectionate_look", "text": "A small touch or affectionate look" }, { "id": "a_shared_plan_for_the_time", "text": "A shared plan for the time" }, { "id": "checking_in_if_the_mood_changes", "text": "Checking in if the mood changes" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_warm_greeting_before_we_settle_in", "text": "A warm greeting before we settle in" }, { "id": "knowing_we_can_talk_whenever_we_want", "text": "Knowing we can talk whenever we want" }, { "id": "a_small_touch_or_affectionate_look", "text": "A small touch or affectionate look" }, { "id": "a_shared_plan_for_the_time", "text": "A shared plan for the time" }, { "id": "checking_in_if_the_mood_changes", "text": "Checking in if the mood changes" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_140", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a no-phone plan feel inviting instead of like a rule?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "phones", "low_pressure", "practical_reality", "quality_time", "low_energy" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "keeping_it_short_and_realistic", "text": "Keeping it short and realistic" }, { "id": "having_something_enjoyable_ready", "text": "Having something enjoyable ready" }, { "id": "agreeing_on_it_together", "text": "Agreeing on it together" }, { "id": "making_exceptions_for_anything_urgent", "text": "Making exceptions for anything urgent" }, { "id": "ending_it_before_it_feels_forced", "text": "Ending it before it feels forced" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "keeping_it_short_and_realistic", "text": "Keeping it short and realistic" }, { "id": "having_something_enjoyable_ready", "text": "Having something enjoyable ready" }, { "id": "agreeing_on_it_together", "text": "Agreeing on it together" }, { "id": "making_exceptions_for_anything_urgent", "text": "Making exceptions for anything urgent" }, { "id": "ending_it_before_it_feels_forced", "text": "Ending it before it feels forced" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_141", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which ridiculous memory would I retell first?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "prediction", "adult_humor", "couple_lore", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_plan_that_went_completely_sideways", "text": "A plan that went completely sideways" }, { "id": "something_one_of_us_said_at_the_worst_time", "text": "Something one of us said at the worst time" }, { "id": "an_awkward_public_moment", "text": "An awkward public moment" }, { "id": "a_tiny_disagreement_that_is_funny_now", "text": "A tiny disagreement that is funny now" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_plan_that_went_completely_sideways", "text": "A plan that went completely sideways" }, { "id": "something_one_of_us_said_at_the_worst_time", "text": "Something one of us said at the worst time" }, { "id": "an_awkward_public_moment", "text": "An awkward public moment" }, { "id": "a_tiny_disagreement_that_is_funny_now", "text": "A tiny disagreement that is funny now" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_142", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which kinds of plans are easiest for you to say yes to?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "accessibility", "planning", "low_energy", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "free_or_inexpensive", "text": "Free or inexpensive" }, { "id": "close_to_home", "text": "Close to home" }, { "id": "short_enough_to_fit_a_busy_day", "text": "Short enough to fit a busy day" }, { "id": "comfortable_and_low_energy", "text": "Comfortable and low-energy" }, { "id": "flexible_if_the_mood_changes", "text": "Flexible if the mood changes" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "free_or_inexpensive", "text": "Free or inexpensive" }, { "id": "close_to_home", "text": "Close to home" }, { "id": "short_enough_to_fit_a_busy_day", "text": "Short enough to fit a busy day" }, { "id": "comfortable_and_low_energy", "text": "Comfortable and low-energy" }, { "id": "flexible_if_the_mood_changes", "text": "Flexible if the mood changes" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_143", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "One shared activity or separate things in the same room?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "parallel_time", "preference", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "one_shared_activity", "text": "One shared activity" }, { "id": "separate_things_in_the_same_room", "text": "Separate things in the same room" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "one_shared_activity", "text": "One shared activity" }, { "id": "separate_things_in_the_same_room", "text": "Separate things in the same room" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_144", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps time together possible during a busy week?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "busy_life", "low_energy", "practical_reality", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "making_use_of_small_gaps", "text": "Making use of small gaps" }, { "id": "protecting_one_meal_or_break", "text": "Protecting one meal or break" }, { "id": "sending_a_message_that_leads_to_a_later_conversation", "text": "Sending a message that leads to a later conversation" }, { "id": "turning_a_necessary_trip_into_shared_time", "text": "Turning a necessary trip into shared time" }, { "id": "choosing_rest_together_instead_of_forcing_an_activity", "text": "Choosing rest together instead of forcing an activity" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "making_use_of_small_gaps", "text": "Making use of small gaps" }, { "id": "protecting_one_meal_or_break", "text": "Protecting one meal or break" }, { "id": "sending_a_message_that_leads_to_a_later_conversation", "text": "Sending a message that leads to a later conversation" }, { "id": "turning_a_necessary_trip_into_shared_time", "text": "Turning a necessary trip into shared time" }, { "id": "choosing_rest_together_instead_of_forcing_an_activity", "text": "Choosing rest together instead of forcing an activity" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_145", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "scale", "text": "How confident are you that you know what kind of time together I want lately?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "prediction", "partner_knowledge", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "I would be guessing", "max_label": "Very confident" } }, { "id": "quality_time_146", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which small moments are most likely to become favorite memories?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "memories", "couple_lore", "ordinary_time", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_conversation_that_runs_much_longer_than_planned", "text": "A conversation that runs much longer than planned" }, { "id": "a_simple_plan_that_unexpectedly_works", "text": "A simple plan that unexpectedly works" }, { "id": "a_shared_laugh_during_a_stressful_day", "text": "A shared laugh during a stressful day" }, { "id": "trying_something_new_without_pressure", "text": "Trying something new without pressure" }, { "id": "a_quiet_moment_when_everything_feels_settled", "text": "A quiet moment when everything feels settled" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_conversation_that_runs_much_longer_than_planned", "text": "A conversation that runs much longer than planned" }, { "id": "a_simple_plan_that_unexpectedly_works", "text": "A simple plan that unexpectedly works" }, { "id": "a_shared_laugh_during_a_stressful_day", "text": "A shared laugh during a stressful day" }, { "id": "trying_something_new_without_pressure", "text": "Trying something new without pressure" }, { "id": "a_quiet_moment_when_everything_feels_settled", "text": "A quiet moment when everything feels settled" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_147", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of talk sounds best tonight?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "conversation", "invitation", "current_mood", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "a_light_catch_up", "text": "A light catch-up" }, { "id": "a_funny_memory", "text": "A funny memory" }, { "id": "a_future_plan", "text": "A future plan" }, { "id": "something_real_that_has_been_on_my_mind", "text": "Something real that has been on my mind" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_light_catch_up", "text": "A light catch-up" }, { "id": "a_funny_memory", "text": "A funny memory" }, { "id": "a_future_plan", "text": "A future plan" }, { "id": "something_real_that_has_been_on_my_mind", "text": "Something real that has been on my mind" } ] } }, { "id": "quality_time_148", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes time together feel emotionally safe?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "emotional_safety", "meaningful", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "i_can_be_honest_without_feeling_judged", "text": "I can be honest without feeling judged" }, { "id": "we_can_want_different_things_without_it_becoming_a_problem", "text": "We can want different things without it becoming a problem" }, { "id": "we_can_pause_if_the_conversation_gets_heavy", "text": "We can pause if the conversation gets heavy" }, { "id": "affection_never_feels_like_a_requirement", "text": "Affection never feels like a requirement" }, { "id": "we_are_trying_to_understand_not_win", "text": "We are trying to understand, not win" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_can_be_honest_without_feeling_judged", "text": "I can be honest without feeling judged" }, { "id": "we_can_want_different_things_without_it_becoming_a_problem", "text": "We can want different things without it becoming a problem" }, { "id": "we_can_pause_if_the_conversation_gets_heavy", "text": "We can pause if the conversation gets heavy" }, { "id": "affection_never_feels_like_a_requirement", "text": "Affection never feels like a requirement" }, { "id": "we_are_trying_to_understand_not_win", "text": "We are trying to understand, not win" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_149", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When the day has taken everything out of us, what still counts as good time together?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "low_energy", "presence", "ordinary_time", "quality_time" ], "access": "free", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "sitting_close_with_a_comfort_show", "text": "Sitting close with a comfort show" }, { "id": "sharing_a_snack_and_talking_for_ten_minutes", "text": "Sharing a snack and talking for ten minutes" }, { "id": "taking_a_short_walk_with_no_destination", "text": "Taking a short walk with no destination" }, { "id": "lying_down_with_music_on", "text": "Lying down with music on" }, { "id": "doing_separate_quiet_things_in_the_same_room", "text": "Doing separate quiet things in the same room" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sitting_close_with_a_comfort_show", "text": "Sitting close with a comfort show" }, { "id": "sharing_a_snack_and_talking_for_ten_minutes", "text": "Sharing a snack and talking for ten minutes" }, { "id": "taking_a_short_walk_with_no_destination", "text": "Taking a short walk with no destination" }, { "id": "lying_down_with_music_on", "text": "Lying down with music on" }, { "id": "doing_separate_quiet_things_in_the_same_room", "text": "Doing separate quiet things in the same room" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } }, { "id": "quality_time_150", "category_id": "quality_time", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What could make a normal evening feel quietly romantic?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "romance", "flirty", "ordinary_time", "quality_time" ], "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral", "options": [ { "id": "taking_our_time_over_a_meal", "text": "Taking our time over a meal" }, { "id": "putting_on_music_tied_to_us", "text": "Putting on music tied to us" }, { "id": "sharing_a_longer_kiss_if_we_both_want_one", "text": "Sharing a longer kiss if we both want one" }, { "id": "talking_somewhere_more_comfortable_than_usual", "text": "Talking somewhere more comfortable than usual" }, { "id": "giving_each_other_one_thoughtful_compliment", "text": "Giving each other one thoughtful compliment" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "taking_our_time_over_a_meal", "text": "Taking our time over a meal" }, { "id": "putting_on_music_tied_to_us", "text": "Putting on music tied to us" }, { "id": "sharing_a_longer_kiss_if_we_both_want_one", "text": "Sharing a longer kiss if we both want one" }, { "id": "talking_somewhere_more_comfortable_than_usual", "text": "Talking somewhere more comfortable than usual" }, { "id": "giving_each_other_one_thoughtful_compliment", "text": "Giving each other one thoughtful compliment" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 } } ] }