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couple?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "everyday_affection", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sharing_the_first_few_minutes_home", "text": "Sharing the first few minutes home" }, { "id": "laughing_over_something_only_we_understand", "text": "Laughing over something only we understand" }, { "id": "choosing_each_other_over_our_phones", "text": "Choosing each other over our phones" }, { "id": "turning_a_task_into_time_together", "text": "Turning a task into time together" }, { "id": "checking_in_before_the_day_ends", "text": "Checking in before the day ends" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_001", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the small morning ritual that would help us feel like a couple before the day starts.", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "morning_affection", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "share_coffee_without_phones", "text": "Share coffee without phones" }, { "id": "trade_one_warm_compliment", "text": "Trade one warm compliment" }, { "id": "pick_a_song_for_the_morning", "text": "Pick a song for the morning" }, { "id": "check_in_before_the_day_starts", "text": "Check in before the day starts" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_002", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When we reunite after work, what helps us reconnect?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "reunion", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "put_everything_down_and_say_hello", "text": "Put everything down and say hello" }, { "id": "trade_the_best_part_of_the_day", "text": "Trade the best part of the day" }, { "id": "take_five_quiet_minutes_together", "text": "Take five quiet minutes together" }, { "id": "make_each_other_laugh", "text": "Make each other laugh" }, { "id": "say_what_we_missed", "text": "Say what we missed" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_003", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How connected do our small daily rituals make you feel?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "casual_touch", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very connected", "max_label": "Very connected" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_004", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes shared quiet feel intimate instead of distant?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "shared_space", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "choosing_to_be_together", "text": "Choosing to be together" }, { "id": "putting_phones_away", "text": "Putting phones away" }, { "id": "easy_eye_contact", "text": "Easy eye contact" }, { "id": "comfortable_silence", "text": "Comfortable silence" }, { "id": "knowing_conversation_can_wait", "text": "Knowing conversation can wait" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_005", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the small romantic gesture that feels most like us.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "romantic_touch", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_private_note", "text": "A private note" }, { "id": "a_song_sent_at_the_right_moment", "text": "A song sent at the right moment" }, { "id": "saving_a_favorite_treat", "text": "Saving a favorite treat" }, { "id": "a_sincere_compliment", "text": "A sincere compliment" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_006", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What small gestures help us stay connected during a busy day?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "busy_day", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_flirty_message", "text": "A flirty message" }, { "id": "a_thoughtful_check_in", "text": "A thoughtful check-in" }, { "id": "sharing_a_tiny_win", "text": "Sharing a tiny win" }, { "id": "sending_something_funny", "text": "Sending something funny" }, { "id": "making_a_simple_plan_for_later", "text": "Making a simple plan for later" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_007", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which bedtime habits help us feel like a couple?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "bedtime", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "talking_for_a_few_minutes", "text": "Talking for a few minutes" }, { "id": "sharing_one_good_thing", "text": "Sharing one good thing" }, { "id": "putting_phones_away", "text": "Putting phones away" }, { "id": "planning_something_small", "text": "Planning something small" }, { "id": "saying_goodnight_with_intention", "text": "Saying goodnight with intention" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_008", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "written", "text": "What small couple ritual from our earlier days would you love to bring back?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "affection_memory", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 400 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_009", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a reunion moment feel especially like us?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "hugs", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_stop_and_notice_each_other", "text": "We stop and notice each other" }, { "id": "we_trade_a_private_joke", "text": "We trade a private joke" }, { "id": "we_share_what_we_missed", "text": "We share what we missed" }, { "id": "we_do_not_rush_past_it", "text": "We do not rush past it" }, { "id": "it_fits_the_day_we_had", "text": "It fits the day we had" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_010", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the welcome-home moment that would feel sweetest.", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "surprise_kiss", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_full_attention_hello", "text": "A full-attention hello" }, { "id": "a_few_quiet_minutes", "text": "A few quiet minutes" }, { "id": "a_playful_recap_of_the_day", "text": "A playful recap of the day" }, { "id": "making_a_plan_for_the_evening", "text": "Making a plan for the evening" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_011", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps romantic attention warm without becoming automatic?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "intentional_affection", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "changing_the_timing", "text": "Changing the timing" }, { "id": "being_specific", "text": "Being specific" }, { "id": "noticing_the_other_person_s_mood", "text": "Noticing the other person’s mood" }, { "id": "choosing_it_instead_of_assuming_it", "text": "Choosing it instead of assuming it" }, { "id": "keeping_pressure_out_of_it", "text": "Keeping pressure out of it" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_012", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How connected do our everyday couple rituals feel lately?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "affection_check", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very connected", "max_label": "Very connected" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_013", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which ordinary moments could use more couple attention?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "daily_moments", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "morning_routines", "text": "Morning routines" }, { "id": "coming_home", "text": "Coming home" }, { "id": "meals_together", "text": "Meals together" }, { "id": "screen_time", "text": "Screen time" }, { "id": "getting_ready_for_bed", "text": "Getting ready for bed" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_014", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps closeness feel satisfying even when sex is not the goal?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "nonsexual_affection", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "time_without_pressure", "text": "Time without pressure" }, { "id": "feeling_chosen", "text": "Feeling chosen" }, { "id": "honest_conversation", "text": "Honest conversation" }, { "id": "shared_laughter", "text": "Shared laughter" }, { "id": "ending_warmly", "text": "Ending warmly" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_015", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which playful energy makes affection more fun?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "playfulness", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "private_jokes", "text": "Private jokes" }, { "id": "playful_challenges", "text": "Playful challenges" }, { "id": "silly_compliments", "text": "Silly compliments" }, { "id": "unexpected_dancing", "text": "Unexpected dancing" }, { "id": "teasing_that_stays_kind", "text": "Teasing that stays kind" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_016", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the flirty signal that feels most naturally ours.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "flirting", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_knowing_look", "text": "A knowing look" }, { "id": "a_bold_compliment", "text": "A bold compliment" }, { "id": "a_playful_text", "text": "A playful text" }, { "id": "a_slow_kiss_in_passing", "text": "A slow kiss in passing" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_017", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does teasing feel exciting instead of annoying?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "teasing", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "good_timing", "text": "Good timing" }, { "id": "a_warm_tone", "text": "A warm tone" }, { "id": "knowing_when_to_stop", "text": "Knowing when to stop" }, { "id": "flirting_back_and_forth", "text": "Flirting back and forth" }, { "id": "no_embarrassing_audience", "text": "No embarrassing audience" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_018", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How playful does our affection feel right now?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "playful_affection", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very playful", "max_label": "Very playful" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_019", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What tiny games could make private time more fun?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "private_games", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "take_turns_choosing_music", "text": "Take turns choosing music" }, { "id": "trade_specific_compliments", "text": "Trade specific compliments" }, { "id": "guess_each_other_s_favorite_compliment", "text": "Guess each other's favorite compliment" }, { "id": "choose_a_cozy_spot_together", "text": "Choose a cozy spot together" }, { "id": "create_a_private_signal", "text": "Create a private signal" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_020", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of laughter feels most natural during intimate moments?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "laughter", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "soft_giggles", "text": "Soft giggles" }, { "id": "big_shared_laughs", "text": "Big shared laughs" }, { "id": "laughing_through_an_awkward_moment", "text": "Laughing through an awkward moment" }, { "id": "very_little_unless_it_happens_naturally", "text": "Very little unless it happens naturally" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_021", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which flirty messages would brighten your day?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "flirty_messages", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_specific_compliment", "text": "A specific compliment" }, { "id": "a_memory_of_last_night", "text": "A memory of last night" }, { "id": "a_simple_i_want_you", "text": "A simple 'I want you'" }, { "id": "a_playful_invitation", "text": "A playful invitation" }, { "id": "an_inside_joke_with_a_hint", "text": "An inside joke with a hint" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_022", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a private game stay comfortable?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "game_safety", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "skipping_is_always_allowed", "text": "Skipping is always allowed" }, { "id": "rules_are_clear_first", "text": "Rules are clear first" }, { "id": "either_person_can_pause", "text": "Either person can pause" }, { "id": "the_mood_stays_kind", "text": "The mood stays kind" }, { "id": "no_surprise_escalation", "text": "No surprise escalation" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_023", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "written", "text": "What is one playful thing we have done that you would gladly repeat?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "playful_memory", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 400 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_024", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which forms of anticipation feel fun to you?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "anticipation", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_flirty_text", "text": "A flirty text" }, { "id": "knowing_looks_across_a_room", "text": "Knowing looks across a room" }, { "id": "a_planned_private_night", "text": "A planned private night" }, { "id": "small_touches_during_the_day", "text": "Small touches during the day" }, { "id": "a_secret_countdown", "text": "A secret countdown" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_025", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the playful invitation you would most enjoy hearing.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "invitation", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "come_kiss_me", "text": "Come kiss me" }, { "id": "want_a_private_minute", "text": "Want a private minute?" }, { "id": "i_have_an_idea_for_us", "text": "I have an idea for us" }, { "id": "want_to_be_a_little_distracted", "text": "Want to be a little distracted?" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_026", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What could make an at-home night feel flirtier?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "home_flirting", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "dress_up_a_little", "text": "Dress up a little" }, { "id": "choose_a_mood_playlist", "text": "Choose a mood playlist" }, { "id": "trade_bold_compliments", "text": "Trade bold compliments" }, { "id": "turn_off_the_television", "text": "Turn off the television" }, { "id": "make_dessert_together", "text": "Make dessert together" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_027", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it for us to be silly without losing the mood?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "silliness", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not easy", "max_label": "Very easy" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_028", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What small surprises would feel exciting?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "surprises", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_favorite_outfit", "text": "A favorite outfit" }, { "id": "a_private_note", "text": "A private note" }, { "id": "a_changed_up_setting", "text": "A changed-up setting" }, { "id": "a_new_playlist", "text": "A new playlist" }, { "id": "a_favorite_treat_waiting", "text": "A favorite treat waiting" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_029", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does playful competition feel attractive rather than tense?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "competition", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "low_stakes", "text": "Low stakes" }, { "id": "lots_of_laughter", "text": "Lots of laughter" }, { "id": "no_keeping_score_afterward", "text": "No keeping score afterward" }, { "id": "a_shared_treat_afterward", "text": "A shared treat afterward" }, { "id": "easy_permission_to_quit", "text": "Easy permission to quit" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_030", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you shift toward closeness after a heavy day?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "stress_relief", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quiet_time_first", "text": "Quiet time first" }, { "id": "a_warm_shower", "text": "A warm shower" }, { "id": "help_with_one_task", "text": "Help with one task" }, { "id": "a_calm_conversation", "text": "A calm conversation" }, { "id": "no_fixed_plan", "text": "No fixed plan" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_031", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the comfort that feels best before closeness.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "comfort", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "having_space_first", "text": "Having space first" }, { "id": "talking_things_through", "text": "Talking things through" }, { "id": "a_drink_or_snack", "text": "A drink or snack" }, { "id": "a_little_playful_distraction", "text": "A little playful distraction" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_032", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When stress is high, what kind of connection still feels welcome?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "stress_affection", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quiet_company", "text": "Quiet company" }, { "id": "a_brief_check_in", "text": "A brief check-in" }, { "id": "a_shared_laugh", "text": "A shared laugh" }, { "id": "sitting_together", "text": "Sitting together" }, { "id": "an_early_night", "text": "An early night" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_033", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How much does stress affect your interest in intimacy?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "stress_effect", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Hardly at all", "max_label": "A great deal" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_034", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does closeness feel soothing rather than demanding?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "soothing_closeness", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_expectation_of_more", "text": "No expectation of more" }, { "id": "a_slow_pace", "text": "A slow pace" }, { "id": "asking_before_touching", "text": "Asking before touching" }, { "id": "being_able_to_change_my_mind", "text": "Being able to change my mind" }, { "id": "a_check_in_if_i_tense_up", "text": "A check-in if I tense up" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_035", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "After a draining day, what kind of connection sounds best?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "draining_day", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quiet_time_together", "text": "Quiet time together" }, { "id": "a_playful_moment", "text": "A playful moment" }, { "id": "a_meaningful_talk", "text": "A meaningful talk" }, { "id": "early_sleep_together", "text": "Early sleep together" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_036", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What signs tell you that you need gentleness?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "gentleness_signals", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_become_quiet", "text": "I become quiet" }, { "id": "i_pull_away", "text": "I pull away" }, { "id": "i_ask_for_slower", "text": "I ask for slower" }, { "id": "my_body_feels_tense", "text": "My body feels tense" }, { "id": "i_stop_responding_playfully", "text": "I stop responding playfully" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_037", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When you feel overwhelmed, what makes affection easier?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "overwhelm", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "fewer_questions", "text": "Fewer questions" }, { "id": "one_simple_choice", "text": "One simple choice" }, { "id": "low_lighting", "text": "Low lighting" }, { "id": "no_time_pressure", "text": "No time pressure" }, { "id": "a_clear_option_to_be_alone", "text": "A clear option to be alone" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_038", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "written", "text": "When you are stressed, what should I remember about closeness?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "stress_written", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 400 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_039", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you shift from responsibilities into couple time?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "transition", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "finishing_one_last_task", "text": "Finishing one last task" }, { "id": "changing_clothes", "text": "Changing clothes" }, { "id": "taking_ten_quiet_minutes", "text": "Taking ten quiet minutes" }, { "id": "sharing_a_snack", "text": "Sharing a snack" }, { "id": "starting_with_nonsexual_affection", "text": "Starting with nonsexual affection" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_040", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which calming first step would you choose?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "calming_touch", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_quiet_room", "text": "A quiet room" }, { "id": "a_warm_drink", "text": "A warm drink" }, { "id": "slow_breathing_together", "text": "Slow breathing together" }, { "id": "a_gentle_conversation", "text": "A gentle conversation" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_041", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps tiredness from turning into distance?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "tiredness", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "saying_what_we_have_energy_for", "text": "Saying what we have energy for" }, { "id": "keeping_affection_simple", "text": "Keeping affection simple" }, { "id": "not_taking_no_personally", "text": "Not taking no personally" }, { "id": "planning_another_time", "text": "Planning another time" }, { "id": "ending_the_day_kindly", "text": "Ending the day kindly" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_042", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How safe do you feel asking for less intensity?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "lower_intensity", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very safe", "max_label": "Completely safe" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_043", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What conditions make desire feel more possible?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "desire_return", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "feeling_rested", "text": "Feeling rested" }, { "id": "feeling_appreciated", "text": "Feeling appreciated" }, { "id": "having_privacy", "text": "Having privacy" }, { "id": "being_emotionally_settled", "text": "Being emotionally settled" }, { "id": "receiving_affection_without_pressure", "text": "Receiving affection without pressure" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_044", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When neither of us has much energy, how can we stay close?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "low_energy", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "touching_while_resting", "text": "Touching while resting" }, { "id": "sharing_one_good_conversation", "text": "Sharing one good conversation" }, { "id": "a_short_cuddle", "text": "A short cuddle" }, { "id": "laughing_together", "text": "Laughing together" }, { "id": "making_a_plan_for_later", "text": "Making a plan for later" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_045", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes initiation feel like a shared moment?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "initiation", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "good_timing", "text": "Good timing" }, { "id": "a_warm_confident_invitation", "text": "A warm, confident invitation" }, { "id": "an_easy_way_to_decline", "text": "An easy way to decline" }, { "id": "starting_with_affection", "text": "Starting with affection" }, { "id": "checking_how_the_other_person_responds", "text": "Checking how the other person responds" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_046", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the invitation style that feels most comfortable for both of us.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "first_move", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_direct_question", "text": "A direct question" }, { "id": "a_slow_affectionate_start", "text": "A slow affectionate start" }, { "id": "a_playful_invitation", "text": "A playful invitation" }, { "id": "a_quiet_whispered_question", "text": "A quiet whispered question" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_047", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How do you like desire to be shown?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "showing_desire", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "specific_words", "text": "Specific words" }, { "id": "focused_eye_contact", "text": "Focused eye contact" }, { "id": "slow_touch", "text": "Slow touch" }, { "id": "making_private_time", "text": "Making private time" }, { "id": "playful_pursuit", "text": "Playful pursuit" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_048", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you initiating closeness lately?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "initiation_comfort", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable", "max_label": "Very comfortable" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_049", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What signals help you feel genuinely wanted?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "wanted", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "they_say_it_clearly", "text": "They say it clearly" }, { "id": "they_make_time", "text": "They make time" }, { "id": "they_notice_details", "text": "They notice details" }, { "id": "they_stay_present", "text": "They stay present" }, { "id": "they_respond_to_my_cues", "text": "They respond to my cues" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_050", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the invitation that gives you the most room to answer honestly.", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "honest_invitation", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "would_closeness_feel_good", "text": "Would closeness feel good?" }, { "id": "may_i_kiss_you", "text": "May I kiss you?" }, { "id": "want_some_private_time", "text": "Want some private time?" }, { "id": "what_kind_of_affection_sounds_good", "text": "What kind of affection sounds good?" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_051", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does being pursued feel exciting?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "pursuit", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "confidence_without_pressure", "text": "Confidence without pressure" }, { "id": "a_playful_build_up", "text": "A playful build-up" }, { "id": "feeling_emotionally_connected", "text": "Feeling emotionally connected" }, { "id": "enough_privacy", "text": "Enough privacy" }, { "id": "being_able_to_slow_it_down", "text": "Being able to slow it down" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_052", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things quietly build desire during the day?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "daily_desire", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "thoughtful_attention", "text": "Thoughtful attention" }, { "id": "flirty_messages", "text": "Flirty messages" }, { "id": "shared_laughter", "text": "Shared laughter" }, { "id": "seeing_you_feel_confident", "text": "Seeing you feel confident" }, { "id": "small_welcome_touches", "text": "Small welcome touches" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_053", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "written", "text": "When have you felt most clearly chosen by me?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "chosen", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 400 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_054", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does spontaneous intimacy work well for you?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "spontaneity", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "both_people_are_clearly_interested", "text": "Both people are clearly interested" }, { "id": "there_is_enough_time", "text": "There is enough time" }, { "id": "privacy_is_secure", "text": "Privacy is secure" }, { "id": "stopping_stays_easy", "text": "Stopping stays easy" }, { "id": "the_mood_already_feels_connected", "text": "The mood already feels connected" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_055", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the initiation style that feels most like us.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "initiation_style", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sweet_and_obvious", "text": "Sweet and obvious" }, { "id": "playful_and_teasing", "text": "Playful and teasing" }, { "id": "quiet_and_slow", "text": "Quiet and slow" }, { "id": "bold_but_attentive", "text": "Bold but attentive" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_056", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps when one person wants closeness first?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "different_timing", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_gentle_invitation", "text": "A gentle invitation" }, { "id": "no_repeated_asking", "text": "No repeated asking" }, { "id": "another_kind_of_affection", "text": "Another kind of affection" }, { "id": "a_plan_to_reconnect_later", "text": "A plan to reconnect later" }, { "id": "no_sulking_afterward", "text": "No sulking afterward" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_057", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How wanted do you feel in our relationship lately?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "wanted_scale", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much lately", "max_label": "Very much lately" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_058", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which compliments create attraction for you?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "attraction_compliments", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "something_about_my_appearance", "text": "Something about my appearance" }, { "id": "something_about_my_energy", "text": "Something about my energy" }, { "id": "something_about_our_chemistry", "text": "Something about our chemistry" }, { "id": "something_very_specific", "text": "Something very specific" }, { "id": "something_about_how_i_affect_you", "text": "Something about how I affect you" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_059", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does desire feel mutual instead of expected or one-sided?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "mutual_desire", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "both_people_can_initiate", "text": "Both people can initiate" }, { "id": "both_people_can_decline", "text": "Both people can decline" }, { "id": "feedback_is_welcomed", "text": "Feedback is welcomed" }, { "id": "no_one_rushes_the_response", "text": "No one rushes the response" }, { "id": "affection_matters_either_way", "text": "Affection matters either way" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_060", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a yes feel honest and freely chosen?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "consent_yes", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "enough_information", "text": "Enough information" }, { "id": "no_pressure_to_decide_fast", "text": "No pressure to decide fast" }, { "id": "trust_that_no_is_welcome", "text": "Trust that no is welcome" }, { "id": "feeling_emotionally_present", "text": "Feeling emotionally present" }, { "id": "knowing_i_can_change_my_mind", "text": "Knowing I can change my mind" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_061", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which phrase should we agree to treat as our clearest stop signal?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "pause_phrase", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "pause_for_a_second", "text": "Pause for a second" }, { "id": "can_we_slow_down", "text": "Can we slow down?" }, { "id": "i_need_to_stop", "text": "I need to stop" }, { "id": "can_we_just_cuddle", "text": "Can we just cuddle?" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_062", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "After stopping immediately for a pause, what would help next?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "pause_response", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "listening_without_arguing", "text": "Listening without arguing" }, { "id": "asking_what_feels_okay_now", "text": "Asking what feels okay now" }, { "id": "offering_space", "text": "Offering space" }, { "id": "switching_to_nonsexual_closeness_if_wanted", "text": "Switching to nonsexual closeness if wanted" }, { "id": "reassuring_there_is_no_pressure", "text": "Reassuring there is no pressure" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_063", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to change your mind during intimacy?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "change_mind", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very hard", "max_label": "Very easy" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_064", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does saying no feel emotionally safe?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "consent_no", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_kind_response", "text": "A kind response" }, { "id": "no_guilt_afterward", "text": "No guilt afterward" }, { "id": "no_repeated_request", "text": "No repeated request" }, { "id": "affection_stays_optional", "text": "Affection stays optional" }, { "id": "my_reason_is_not_demanded", "text": "My reason is not demanded" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_065", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "After a no, what response would feel most reassuring?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "no_response", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "thanks_for_telling_me", "text": "Thanks for telling me" }, { "id": "no_problem_at_all", "text": "No problem at all" }, { "id": "would_you_prefer_space_or_another_kind_of_closeness", "text": "Would you prefer space or another kind of closeness?" }, { "id": "i_am_here_if_you_want_company", "text": "I am here if you want company" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_066", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which quick question would help us stay connected without breaking the mood?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "check_ins", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "still_good", "text": "Still good?" }, { "id": "more_or_less", "text": "More or less?" }, { "id": "want_me_to_continue", "text": "Want me to continue?" }, { "id": "do_you_want_something_different", "text": "Do you want something different?" }, { "id": "need_a_pause", "text": "Need a pause?" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_067", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What words would you most want us to respond to calmly?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "communication_basics", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "yes", "text": "Yes" }, { "id": "no", "text": "No" }, { "id": "slower", "text": "Slower" }, { "id": "different", "text": "Different" }, { "id": "i_changed_my_mind", "text": "I changed my mind" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_068", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "written", "text": "What response from me helps you trust that your no is safe?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "no_trust", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 400 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_069", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How do we keep consent clear when the mood is playful?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "playful_consent", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "checking_before_escalating", "text": "Checking before escalating" }, { "id": "paying_attention_to_hesitation", "text": "Paying attention to hesitation" }, { "id": "keeping_safe_words_serious", "text": "Keeping safe words serious" }, { "id": "avoiding_surprise_restraints", "text": "Avoiding surprise restraints" }, { "id": "stopping_immediately_when_asked", "text": "Stopping immediately when asked" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_070", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which signal would you prefer as a backup to words?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "backup_signal", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_double_tap", "text": "A double tap" }, { "id": "a_hand_squeeze", "text": "A hand squeeze" }, { "id": "a_clear_hand_away_gesture", "text": "A clear hand-away gesture" }, { "id": "no_backup_signal_words_only", "text": "No backup signal—words only" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_071", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps a new idea optional rather than expected?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "optional_novelty", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "talking_about_it_beforehand", "text": "Talking about it beforehand" }, { "id": "no_surprise_use", "text": "No surprise use" }, { "id": "a_clear_no_option", "text": "A clear no option" }, { "id": "no_disappointment_if_declined", "text": "No disappointment if declined" }, { "id": "letting_the_idea_stay_hypothetical", "text": "Letting the idea stay hypothetical" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_072", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How confident are you that a pause will be respected immediately?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "pause_confidence", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not confident", "max_label": "Completely confident" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_073", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What behaviors protect trust after a boundary is named?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "boundary_trust", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "remembering_it_later", "text": "Remembering it later" }, { "id": "asking_before_revisiting_it", "text": "Asking before revisiting it" }, { "id": "not_teasing_about_it", "text": "Not teasing about it" }, { "id": "not_bargaining", "text": "Not bargaining" }, { "id": "appreciating_the_honesty", "text": "Appreciating the honesty" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_074", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "After intimacy stops unexpectedly, what keeps you connected?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "stopping_connection", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_calm_check_in", "text": "A calm check-in" }, { "id": "nonsexual_touch_if_wanted", "text": "Nonsexual touch if wanted" }, { "id": "a_little_space", "text": "A little space" }, { "id": "reassuring_words", "text": "Reassuring words" }, { "id": "no_pressure_to_explain_immediately", "text": "No pressure to explain immediately" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_075", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When is feedback about intimacy easiest to give?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "feedback_giving", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_calm_moment", "text": "A calm moment" }, { "id": "specific_questions", "text": "Specific questions" }, { "id": "no_defensiveness", "text": "No defensiveness" }, { "id": "starting_with_what_works", "text": "Starting with what works" }, { "id": "knowing_change_is_welcome", "text": "Knowing change is welcome" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_076", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "When would you rather discuss a preference?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "preference_timing", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "before_private_time", "text": "Before private time" }, { "id": "in_the_moment", "text": "In the moment" }, { "id": "right_afterward", "text": "Right afterward" }, { "id": "on_a_separate_relaxed_day", "text": "On a separate relaxed day" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_077", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which feedback phrases feel kind and useful?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "feedback_phrases", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_little_slower", "text": "A little slower" }, { "id": "keep_doing_that", "text": "Keep doing that" }, { "id": "could_we_try_this_instead", "text": "Could we try this instead?" }, { "id": "that_feels_really_good", "text": "That feels really good" }, { "id": "i_need_something_different", "text": "I need something different" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_078", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you naming what feels good?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "naming_good", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable", "max_label": "Very comfortable" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_079", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When feedback is hard to hear, what keeps it from feeling like criticism?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "feedback_hearing", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_gentle_tone", "text": "A gentle tone" }, { "id": "specific_guidance", "text": "Specific guidance" }, { "id": "reassurance_of_attraction", "text": "Reassurance of attraction" }, { "id": "good_timing", "text": "Good timing" }, { "id": "room_to_ask_questions", "text": "Room to ask questions" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_080", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the question that would help you share more honestly.", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "honest_question", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "what_are_you_enjoying", "text": "What are you enjoying?" }, { "id": "want_more_or_less", "text": "Want more or less?" }, { "id": "is_there_anything_you_want_different", "text": "Is there anything you want different?" }, { "id": "what_would_feel_best_now", "text": "What would feel best now?" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_081", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When do conversations about desire feel safest?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "desire_conversation", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "no_immediate_expectation", "text": "No immediate expectation" }, { "id": "no_joking_at_my_expense", "text": "No joking at my expense" }, { "id": "time_to_think", "text": "Time to think" }, { "id": "curiosity_without_pressure", "text": "Curiosity without pressure" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_082", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which topics deserve an especially gentle approach?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "gentle_topics", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "differences_in_frequency", "text": "Differences in frequency" }, { "id": "body_confidence", "text": "Body confidence" }, { "id": "rejection", "text": "Rejection" }, { "id": "past_experiences", "text": "Past experiences" }, { "id": "new_ideas", "text": "New ideas" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_083", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "written", "text": "What is one thing you wish were easier to tell me about intimacy?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "wish_easier", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 400 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_084", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What outcomes help a difficult intimacy talk end well?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "talk_ending", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "both_people_feel_heard", "text": "Both people feel heard" }, { "id": "a_boundary_is_clearer", "text": "A boundary is clearer" }, { "id": "no_solution_is_forced", "text": "No solution is forced" }, { "id": "we_still_feel_cared_for", "text": "We still feel cared for" }, { "id": "we_know_whether_to_revisit_it", "text": "We know whether to revisit it" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_085", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which tone helps you stay open during a sensitive conversation?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "conversation_tone", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "warm_and_direct", "text": "Warm and direct" }, { "id": "soft_and_patient", "text": "Soft and patient" }, { "id": "light_but_respectful", "text": "Light but respectful" }, { "id": "calm_and_matter_of_fact", "text": "Calm and matter-of-fact" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_086", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes preference questions less awkward for us?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "less_awkward", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "use_simple_words", "text": "Use simple words" }, { "id": "ask_one_thing_at_a_time", "text": "Ask one thing at a time" }, { "id": "talk_outside_the_bedroom", "text": "Talk outside the bedroom" }, { "id": "both_answer_the_same_question", "text": "Both answer the same question" }, { "id": "allow_i_am_not_sure", "text": "Allow 'I am not sure'" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_087", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How well do we listen when intimacy feedback surprises us?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "feedback_surprise", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very well", "max_label": "Very well" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_088", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does praise feel believable?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "believable_praise", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_is_specific", "text": "It is specific" }, { "id": "it_matches_the_moment", "text": "It matches the moment" }, { "id": "it_is_said_privately", "text": "It is said privately" }, { "id": "it_is_not_exaggerated", "text": "It is not exaggerated" }, { "id": "it_includes_more_than_appearance", "text": "It includes more than appearance" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_089", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How do you know an intimacy conversation helped?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "useful_conversation", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_understand_each_other_better", "text": "We understand each other better" }, { "id": "no_one_feels_blamed", "text": "No one feels blamed" }, { "id": "a_boundary_became_clearer", "text": "A boundary became clearer" }, { "id": "a_preference_became_easier_to_name", "text": "A preference became easier to name" }, { "id": "we_feel_closer_afterward", "text": "We feel closer afterward" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_090", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does physical closeness feel emotionally meaningful to us?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "kissing", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_slow_down", "text": "We slow down" }, { "id": "interest_feels_mutual", "text": "Interest feels mutual" }, { "id": "we_are_emotionally_connected", "text": "We are emotionally connected" }, { "id": "no_outcome_is_expected", "text": "No outcome is expected" }, { "id": "we_both_stay_present", "text": "We both stay present" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_091", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the private mood that sounds best for us tonight.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "kiss_choice", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "slow_and_romantic", "text": "Slow and romantic" }, { "id": "playful_and_flirty", "text": "Playful and flirty" }, { "id": "quiet_and_tender", "text": "Quiet and tender" }, { "id": "bold_and_connected", "text": "Bold and connected" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_092", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does relaxing together feel most connected?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "cuddling", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "after_a_long_day", "text": "After a long day" }, { "id": "before_sleep", "text": "Before sleep" }, { "id": "during_a_quiet_evening", "text": "During a quiet evening" }, { "id": "after_an_honest_talk", "text": "After an honest talk" }, { "id": "on_a_slow_morning", "text": "On a slow morning" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_093", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How much romance do you feel in our private time lately?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "kissing_scale", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very romantic", "max_label": "Very romantic" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_094", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What setups make it easiest for us both to relax together?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "cuddle_positions", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "enough_personal_space", "text": "Enough personal space" }, { "id": "a_comfortable_temperature", "text": "A comfortable temperature" }, { "id": "phones_put_away", "text": "Phones put away" }, { "id": "no_time_pressure", "text": "No time pressure" }, { "id": "choosing_how_close_to_sit", "text": "Choosing how close to sit" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_095", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes a goodbye feel meaningful between us?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "goodbye_kiss", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_is_not_rushed", "text": "It is not rushed" }, { "id": "there_is_eye_contact", "text": "There is eye contact" }, { "id": "we_say_something_honest", "text": "We say something honest" }, { "id": "we_know_when_we_will_reconnect", "text": "We know when we will reconnect" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_096", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps our private chemistry playful without feeling rehearsed?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "kiss_play", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "changing_the_timing", "text": "Changing the timing" }, { "id": "using_an_inside_joke", "text": "Using an inside joke" }, { "id": "a_little_unpredictability", "text": "A little unpredictability" }, { "id": "laughing_together", "text": "Laughing together" }, { "id": "letting_the_mood_lead", "text": "Letting the mood lead" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_097", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps physical closeness feel connected for both of us?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "cuddle_touch", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "mutual_choice", "text": "Mutual choice" }, { "id": "enough_time", "text": "Enough time" }, { "id": "noticing_feedback", "text": "Noticing feedback" }, { "id": "emotional_warmth", "text": "Emotional warmth" }, { "id": "no_required_outcome", "text": "No required outcome" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_098", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "written", "text": "What private memory best captures the way we connect as a couple?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "kiss_memory", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 400 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_099", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps extended closeness feel welcome for both of us?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "long_hug", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "the_timing_works", "text": "The timing works" }, { "id": "either_person_can_end_it", "text": "Either person can end it" }, { "id": "it_matches_both_moods", "text": "It matches both moods" }, { "id": "there_is_no_hidden_expectation", "text": "There is no hidden expectation" }, { "id": "there_is_room_to_relax", "text": "There is room to relax" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_100", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the greeting style that feels most like our relationship.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "greeting", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "an_enthusiastic_hello", "text": "An enthusiastic hello" }, { "id": "a_quiet_check_in", "text": "A quiet check-in" }, { "id": "a_playful_joke", "text": "A playful joke" }, { "id": "a_few_focused_minutes", "text": "A few focused minutes" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_101", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which things can make private closeness uncomfortable?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "cuddle_discomfort", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "feeling_trapped", "text": "Feeling trapped" }, { "id": "too_much_heat", "text": "Too much heat" }, { "id": "pressure_for_more", "text": "Pressure for more" }, { "id": "not_enough_space", "text": "Not enough space" }, { "id": "ignoring_a_request_to_adjust", "text": "Ignoring a request to adjust" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_102", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How connected does our private time feel lately?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "nonsexual_touch_scale", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very connected", "max_label": "Very connected" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_103", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When would slowing down together feel most meaningful?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "slow_kiss", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "after_time_apart", "text": "After time apart" }, { "id": "after_a_heartfelt_talk", "text": "After a heartfelt talk" }, { "id": "during_a_quiet_morning", "text": "During a quiet morning" }, { "id": "after_a_stressful_week", "text": "After a stressful week" }, { "id": "before_falling_asleep", "text": "Before falling asleep" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_104", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes intimate time feel complete even when plans change?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "complete_affection", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "enough_time", "text": "Enough time" }, { "id": "focused_attention", "text": "Focused attention" }, { "id": "warm_words", "text": "Warm words" }, { "id": "mutual_choice", "text": "Mutual choice" }, { "id": "a_relaxed_ending", "text": "A relaxed ending" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_105", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which privacy details help you relax into closeness?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "privacy", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_locked_door", "text": "A locked door" }, { "id": "phones_put_away", "text": "Phones put away" }, { "id": "no_expected_interruption", "text": "No expected interruption" }, { "id": "enough_time", "text": "Enough time" }, { "id": "a_comfortable_temperature", "text": "A comfortable temperature" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_106", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which setting feels easiest for honest intimacy talks?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "talk_setting", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_quiet_bedroom", "text": "A quiet bedroom" }, { "id": "a_private_walk", "text": "A private walk" }, { "id": "the_couch_after_dinner", "text": "The couch after dinner" }, { "id": "a_calm_drive", "text": "A calm drive" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_107", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which details make a room inviting for private time?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "setting", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "soft_lighting", "text": "Soft lighting" }, { "id": "fresh_sheets", "text": "Fresh sheets" }, { "id": "a_comfortable_temperature", "text": "A comfortable temperature" }, { "id": "music_we_both_like", "text": "Music we both like" }, { "id": "a_room_that_feels_settled", "text": "A room that feels settled" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_108", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How important is guaranteed privacy to your ability to relax?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "privacy_scale", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very important", "max_label": "Very important" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_109", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which distractions pull you out of the moment fastest?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "distractions", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "phone_alerts", "text": "Phone alerts" }, { "id": "noise_outside", "text": "Noise outside" }, { "id": "worry_about_time", "text": "Worry about time" }, { "id": "an_uncomfortable_room", "text": "An uncomfortable room" }, { "id": "unfinished_responsibilities", "text": "Unfinished responsibilities" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_110", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the approach that would help us choose comfortable lighting together.", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "lighting", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "use_the_softer_setting", "text": "Use the softer setting" }, { "id": "take_turns_choosing", "text": "Take turns choosing" }, { "id": "find_a_middle_ground", "text": "Find a middle ground" }, { "id": "ask_in_the_moment", "text": "Ask in the moment" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_111", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps planned private time romantic instead of scheduled?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "planned_private_time", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "anticipation_during_the_day", "text": "Anticipation during the day" }, { "id": "a_flexible_plan", "text": "A flexible plan" }, { "id": "a_thoughtful_setting", "text": "A thoughtful setting" }, { "id": "no_rushing", "text": "No rushing" }, { "id": "something_chosen_for_both_of_us", "text": "Something chosen for both of us" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_112", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which boundaries protect our intimate privacy?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "privacy_boundaries", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_sharing_details_with_friends", "text": "No sharing details with friends" }, { "id": "ask_before_saving_photos_or_recordings", "text": "Ask before saving photos or recordings" }, { "id": "keep_intimate_photos_off_shared_devices", "text": "Keep intimate photos off shared devices" }, { "id": "delete_anything_when_asked", "text": "Delete anything when asked" }, { "id": "never_joke_publicly_about_private_moments", "text": "Never joke publicly about private moments" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_113", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "written", "text": "Think of a private setting where you felt completely relaxed with me. What made it work?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "safe_space_detail", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 400 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_114", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which conditions make a new setting comfortable enough to try?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "new_setting", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "clear_privacy", "text": "Clear privacy" }, { "id": "knowing_we_can_leave_anytime", "text": "Knowing we can leave anytime" }, { "id": "bringing_familiar_comforts", "text": "Bringing familiar comforts" }, { "id": "agreeing_on_boundaries_first", "text": "Agreeing on boundaries first" }, { "id": "starting_with_something_simple", "text": "Starting with something simple" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_115", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the private-time soundtrack that sounds best.", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "music", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "slow_and_moody", "text": "Slow and moody" }, { "id": "soft_and_romantic", "text": "Soft and romantic" }, { "id": "a_familiar_favorite", "text": "A familiar favorite" }, { "id": "no_music", "text": "No music" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_116", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does a hotel or getaway night feel low-pressure?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "getaway", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_fixed_expectation", "text": "No fixed expectation" }, { "id": "plenty_of_rest", "text": "Plenty of rest" }, { "id": "a_shared_plan", "text": "A shared plan" }, { "id": "easy_permission_to_change_course", "text": "Easy permission to change course" }, { "id": "affection_that_is_enough_by_itself", "text": "Affection that is enough by itself" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_117", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How much do phones affect your ability to stay present during private time?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "phones", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not at all", "max_label": "A great deal" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_118", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which practical details quietly support intimacy?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "practical_support", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "enough_sleep", "text": "Enough sleep" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "time_without_rushing", "text": "Time without rushing" }, { "id": "feeling_clean_and_comfortable", "text": "Feeling clean and comfortable" }, { "id": "knowing_responsibilities_are_handled", "text": "Knowing responsibilities are handled" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_119", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does a surprise setting change feel welcome?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "surprise_setting", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_stays_private", "text": "It stays private" }, { "id": "it_is_easy_to_decline", "text": "It is easy to decline" }, { "id": "it_can_be_changed_easily", "text": "It can be changed easily" }, { "id": "it_fits_my_energy", "text": "It fits my energy" }, { "id": "we_can_return_to_the_familiar", "text": "We can return to the familiar" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_120", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you feel attractive during private moments?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "body_confidence", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "specific_compliments", "text": "Specific compliments" }, { "id": "patient_attention", "text": "Patient attention" }, { "id": "comfortable_lighting", "text": "Comfortable lighting" }, { "id": "no_comparisons", "text": "No comparisons" }, { "id": "touch_that_follows_my_feedback", "text": "Touch that follows my feedback" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_121", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the compliment that supports your confidence most.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "confidence_compliment", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "you_look_incredible", "text": "You look incredible" }, { "id": "i_love_being_close_to_you", "text": "I love being close to you" }, { "id": "i_love_how_you_respond_to_me", "text": "I love how you respond to me" }, { "id": "you_make_me_want_you", "text": "You make me want you" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_122", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does body-focused attention become uncomfortable?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "body_discomfort", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "too_much_focus_on_one_area", "text": "Too much focus on one area" }, { "id": "jokes_about_appearance", "text": "Jokes about appearance" }, { "id": "comparisons", "text": "Comparisons" }, { "id": "feeling_watched_instead_of_appreciated", "text": "Feeling watched instead of appreciated" }, { "id": "ignoring_when_i_ask_to_adjust", "text": "Ignoring when I ask to adjust" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_123", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable do you feel being fully seen by me?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "being_seen", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable", "max_label": "Completely comfortable" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_124", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which kinds of reassurance feel genuine?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "reassurance", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "warm_eye_contact", "text": "Warm eye contact" }, { "id": "specific_praise", "text": "Specific praise" }, { "id": "unhurried_touch", "text": "Unhurried touch" }, { "id": "kindness_outside_intimate_moments", "text": "Kindness outside intimate moments" }, { "id": "respect_when_i_need_space", "text": "Respect when I need space" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_125", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the approach to body compliments that would help us both feel comfortable.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "compliment_delivery", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_what_lands_well", "text": "Ask what lands well" }, { "id": "keep_them_specific", "text": "Keep them specific" }, { "id": "balance_appearance_with_whole_person_praise", "text": "Balance appearance with whole-person praise" }, { "id": "let_either_person_redirect", "text": "Let either person redirect" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_126", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you stay present when body worries show up?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "presence", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "focusing_on_sensation", "text": "Focusing on sensation" }, { "id": "slower_pacing", "text": "Slower pacing" }, { "id": "supportive_words", "text": "Supportive words" }, { "id": "dimmer_lighting", "text": "Dimmer lighting" }, { "id": "feeling_emotionally_connected", "text": "Feeling emotionally connected" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_127", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which partner behaviors build body trust over time?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "body_trust", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_teasing_about_insecurities", "text": "No teasing about insecurities" }, { "id": "consistent_affection", "text": "Consistent affection" }, { "id": "listening_to_boundaries", "text": "Listening to boundaries" }, { "id": "compliments_beyond_appearance", "text": "Compliments beyond appearance" }, { "id": "never_using_private_details_in_conflict", "text": "Never using private details in conflict" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_128", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "written", "text": "When do you feel desired without feeling watched or evaluated?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "desired_not_inspected", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 400 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_129", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does physical vulnerability feel comfortable?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "undressing", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "taking_our_time", "text": "Taking our time" }, { "id": "choosing_my_own_pace", "text": "Choosing my own pace" }, { "id": "warm_lighting", "text": "Warm lighting" }, { "id": "affection_before_and_during", "text": "Affection before and during" }, { "id": "no_pressure_to_perform", "text": "No pressure to perform" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_130", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of attention feels most affirming?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "affirming_attention", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "warm_admiration", "text": "Warm admiration" }, { "id": "playful_desire", "text": "Playful desire" }, { "id": "tender_appreciation", "text": "Tender appreciation" }, { "id": "quiet_focus", "text": "Quiet focus" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_131", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would help on a low-confidence day?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "low_confidence", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "keeping_things_gentle", "text": "Keeping things gentle" }, { "id": "leaving_some_clothes_on", "text": "Leaving some clothes on" }, { "id": "more_verbal_reassurance", "text": "More verbal reassurance" }, { "id": "choosing_nonsexual_closeness", "text": "Choosing nonsexual closeness" }, { "id": "letting_me_lead", "text": "Letting me lead" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_132", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How supported do you feel about your body in our relationship?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "confidence_support", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very supported", "max_label": "Very supported" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_133", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Specific praise or quiet admiration?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "praise_choice", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "specific_praise", "text": "Specific praise" }, { "id": "quiet_admiration", "text": "Quiet admiration" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_134", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should intimacy help us believe about our bodies?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "body_messages", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "our_bodies_are_welcome", "text": "Our bodies are welcome" }, { "id": "we_can_choose_what_feels_comfortable_to_show", "text": "We can choose what feels comfortable to show" }, { "id": "comfort_matters_more_than_performance", "text": "Comfort matters more than performance" }, { "id": "desire_can_be_gentle", "text": "Desire can be gentle" }, { "id": "boundaries_do_not_reduce_attraction", "text": "Boundaries do not reduce attraction" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_135", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which kinds of aftercare help you feel settled?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "aftercare", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cuddling", "text": "Cuddling" }, { "id": "reassuring_words", "text": "Reassuring words" }, { "id": "water_or_a_snack", "text": "Water or a snack" }, { "id": "quiet_rest", "text": "Quiet rest" }, { "id": "a_little_laughter", "text": "A little laughter" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_136", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "What do you usually want first afterward?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "aftercare_first", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "physical_closeness", "text": "Physical closeness" }, { "id": "a_quick_check_in", "text": "A quick check-in" }, { "id": "practical_care", "text": "Practical care" }, { "id": "a_little_personal_space", "text": "A little personal space" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_137", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does aftercare feel caring rather than required?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "aftercare_care", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_matches_my_mood", "text": "It matches my mood" }, { "id": "i_can_ask_for_space", "text": "I can ask for space" }, { "id": "it_is_not_rushed", "text": "It is not rushed" }, { "id": "we_check_what_each_person_wants", "text": "We check what each person wants" }, { "id": "it_changes_with_the_moment", "text": "It changes with the moment" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_138", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How important is aftercare to your overall experience?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "aftercare_importance", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very important", "max_label": "Very important" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_139", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which words feel good after vulnerability?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "aftercare_words", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_am_glad_you_told_me", "text": "I am glad you told me" }, { "id": "thank_you_for_trusting_me", "text": "Thank you for trusting me" }, { "id": "i_loved_being_close_to_you", "text": "I loved being close to you" }, { "id": "take_all_the_time_you_need", "text": "Take all the time you need" }, { "id": "what_would_help_now", "text": "What would help now?" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_140", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the aftercare style that sounds most comforting.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "aftercare_style", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quiet_and_cuddly", "text": "Quiet and cuddly" }, { "id": "warm_and_talkative", "text": "Warm and talkative" }, { "id": "light_and_playful", "text": "Light and playful" }, { "id": "spacious_but_reassuring", "text": "Spacious but reassuring" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_141", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What practical care feels thoughtful afterward?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "practical_aftercare", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "bringing_water", "text": "Bringing water" }, { "id": "adjusting_the_room", "text": "Adjusting the room" }, { "id": "finding_a_blanket", "text": "Finding a blanket" }, { "id": "checking_comfort", "text": "Checking comfort" }, { "id": "handling_cleanup_together", "text": "Handling cleanup together" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_142", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "After trying something new, what support feels best?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "new_aftercare", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_calm_check_in", "text": "A calm check-in" }, { "id": "reassurance_without_turning_it_into_a_big_review", "text": "Reassurance without turning it into a big review" }, { "id": "naming_what_worked", "text": "Naming what worked" }, { "id": "permission_not_to_decide_anything_yet", "text": "Permission not to decide anything yet" }, { "id": "extra_tenderness", "text": "Extra tenderness" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_143", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "written", "text": "What should I know about the kind of aftercare you need?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "aftercare_written", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 400 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_144", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When might space be the best aftercare?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "space_aftercare", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "when_i_feel_overstimulated", "text": "When I feel overstimulated" }, { "id": "when_i_need_quiet", "text": "When I need quiet" }, { "id": "when_touch_feels_like_too_much", "text": "When touch feels like too much" }, { "id": "when_i_ask_directly", "text": "When I ask directly" }, { "id": "when_i_need_sleep", "text": "When I need sleep" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_145", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "How should we check in the next day after a new experience?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "next_day", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_simple_text", "text": "A simple text" }, { "id": "a_short_private_talk", "text": "A short private talk" }, { "id": "ask_one_clear_question", "text": "Ask one clear question" }, { "id": "leave_the_door_open_to_talk_later", "text": "Leave the door open to talk later" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_146", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can make aftercare feel wrong for the moment?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "aftercare_miss", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "assuming_cuddling_is_always_wanted", "text": "Assuming cuddling is always wanted" }, { "id": "demanding_reassurance", "text": "Demanding reassurance" }, { "id": "turning_it_into_a_critique", "text": "Turning it into a critique" }, { "id": "ignoring_a_request_for_space", "text": "Ignoring a request for space" }, { "id": "leaving_without_a_word", "text": "Leaving without a word" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_147", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it for you to ask for aftercare?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "ask_aftercare", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very hard", "max_label": "Very easy" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_148", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Cuddles afterward or quiet space nearby?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "aftercare_choice", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cuddles_afterward", "text": "Cuddles afterward" }, { "id": "quiet_space_nearby", "text": "Quiet space nearby" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_149", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs show that aftercare matched what you needed?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "aftercare_match", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "my_body_feels_settled", "text": "My body feels settled" }, { "id": "i_feel_emotionally_close", "text": "I feel emotionally close" }, { "id": "nothing_feels_rushed", "text": "Nothing feels rushed" }, { "id": "i_could_ask_for_something_different", "text": "I could ask for something different" }, { "id": "i_feel_comfortable_afterward", "text": "I feel comfortable afterward" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_150", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When our interest levels differ, how can we stay close?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "mismatched_desire", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_kind_no", "text": "A kind no" }, { "id": "no_personal_blame", "text": "No personal blame" }, { "id": "another_form_of_closeness", "text": "Another form of closeness" }, { "id": "a_plan_to_reconnect_later", "text": "A plan to reconnect later" }, { "id": "disappointment_handled_kindly", "text": "Disappointment handled kindly" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_151", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which response to declined initiation feels most loving?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "declined_initiation", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "thank_you_for_being_honest", "text": "Thank you for being honest" }, { "id": "no_problem_come_cuddle_if_you_want", "text": "No problem—come cuddle if you want" }, { "id": "i_understand_we_can_reconnect_later", "text": "I understand; we can reconnect later" }, { "id": "i_care_about_you_either_way", "text": "I care about you either way" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_152", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps rejection from becoming distance?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "rejection", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "affection_without_expectation", "text": "Affection without expectation" }, { "id": "no_sulking", "text": "No sulking" }, { "id": "clear_reassurance", "text": "Clear reassurance" }, { "id": "respecting_space", "text": "Respecting space" }, { "id": "talking_later_if_needed", "text": "Talking later if needed" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_153", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How well do we handle differences in desire?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "mismatch_scale", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very well", "max_label": "Very well" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_154", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps talks about how often we want intimacy feel kinder?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "frequency", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_comparison_to_other_couples", "text": "No comparison to other couples" }, { "id": "no_scorekeeping", "text": "No scorekeeping" }, { "id": "talking_when_calm", "text": "Talking when calm" }, { "id": "separating_desire_from_love", "text": "Separating desire from love" }, { "id": "finding_options_that_respect_both_people", "text": "Finding options that respect both people" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_155", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the alternative that feels best when interest does not match.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "alternative_closeness", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cuddling", "text": "Cuddling" }, { "id": "a_date_without_sex", "text": "A date without sex" }, { "id": "a_massage_with_clear_limits", "text": "A massage with clear limits" }, { "id": "separate_rest_with_reassurance", "text": "Separate rest with reassurance" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_156", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which assumptions should we avoid about lower desire?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "lower_desire", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_means_less_love", "text": "It means less love" }, { "id": "it_means_less_attraction", "text": "It means less attraction" }, { "id": "it_is_always_about_the_partner", "text": "It is always about the partner" }, { "id": "it_needs_an_immediate_fix", "text": "It needs an immediate fix" }, { "id": "they_should_promise_another_time", "text": "They should promise another time" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_157", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can affect desire without being anyone's fault?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "desire_factors", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "stress", "text": "Stress" }, { "id": "sleep", "text": "Sleep" }, { "id": "health", "text": "Health" }, { "id": "body_confidence", "text": "Body confidence" }, { "id": "relationship_tension", "text": "Relationship tension" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_158", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "written", "text": "When your desire is lower than mine, what helps you still feel loved?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "lower_desire_written", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 400 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_159", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can the higher-desire partner protect closeness?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "higher_desire", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "accept_no_the_first_time", "text": "Accept no the first time" }, { "id": "avoid_bargaining", "text": "Avoid bargaining" }, { "id": "keep_affection_non_transactional", "text": "Keep affection non-transactional" }, { "id": "manage_disappointment_kindly", "text": "Manage disappointment kindly" }, { "id": "let_future_plans_stay_optional", "text": "Let future plans stay optional" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_160", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which phrase makes a mismatch easier to hear?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "mismatch_phrase", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_care_about_you_i_am_not_up_for_this", "text": "I care about you; I am not up for this" }, { "id": "i_want_closeness_just_not_that_tonight", "text": "I want closeness, just not that tonight" }, { "id": "my_energy_is_low_not_my_love", "text": "My energy is low, not my love" }, { "id": "can_we_plan_something_for_another_time", "text": "Can we plan something for another time?" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_161", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does the lower-desire partner feel safest speaking honestly?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "speak_honestly", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_fear_of_conflict", "text": "No fear of conflict" }, { "id": "no_guilt_afterward", "text": "No guilt afterward" }, { "id": "no_pressure_to_promise_later", "text": "No pressure to promise later" }, { "id": "permission_to_be_unsure", "text": "Permission to be unsure" }, { "id": "trust_that_affection_will_remain", "text": "Trust that affection will remain" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_162", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How clearly can we discuss sexual interest without treating it as proof of love?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "love_desire_separate", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very clearly", "max_label": "Very clearly" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_163", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Reconnect gently now or plan private time later?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "reconnect_choice", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "reconnect_gently_now", "text": "Reconnect gently now" }, { "id": "plan_private_time_later", "text": "Plan private time later" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_164", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would help us handle desire differences as a team?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "shared_problem", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "curiosity", "text": "Curiosity" }, { "id": "compassion", "text": "Compassion" }, { "id": "flexible_expectations", "text": "Flexible expectations" }, { "id": "honesty_about_stress_or_health", "text": "Honesty about stress or health" }, { "id": "making_room_for_both_experiences", "text": "Making room for both experiences" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_165", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "If an intimate moment turns awkward, what helps us recover together?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "awkwardness", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "laugh_gently", "text": "Laugh gently" }, { "id": "pause_and_check_in", "text": "Pause and check in" }, { "id": "name_what_happened_simply", "text": "Name what happened simply" }, { "id": "change_direction", "text": "Change direction" }, { "id": "stop_without_making_it_a_failure", "text": "Stop without making it a failure" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_166", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "If the mood disappears, what response feels best?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "mood_loss", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_pressure_to_recover_it", "text": "No pressure to recover it" }, { "id": "a_warm_cuddle", "text": "A warm cuddle" }, { "id": "a_little_humor", "text": "A little humor" }, { "id": "a_little_space", "text": "A little space" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_167", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps an interrupted or awkward moment from feeling hurtful?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "failed_attempt", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_blame", "text": "No blame" }, { "id": "no_scorekeeping", "text": "No scorekeeping" }, { "id": "affection_afterward", "text": "Affection afterward" }, { "id": "permission_to_try_another_day", "text": "Permission to try another day" }, { "id": "no_forced_explanation", "text": "No forced explanation" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_168", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it for us to recover from awkward moments?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "awkward_recovery", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very difficult", "max_label": "Very easy" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_169", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs mean we should slow down and reconnect?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "slow_down_signs", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "one_person_goes_quiet", "text": "One person goes quiet" }, { "id": "laughter_feels_nervous", "text": "Laughter feels nervous" }, { "id": "touch_stops_being_returned", "text": "Touch stops being returned" }, { "id": "someone_seems_distracted", "text": "Someone seems distracted" }, { "id": "a_check_in_gets_avoided", "text": "A check-in gets avoided" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_170", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "After a misunderstanding, which repair feels most natural?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "repair_style", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_sincere_apology", "text": "A sincere apology" }, { "id": "a_calm_explanation", "text": "A calm explanation" }, { "id": "a_reassuring_hug_if_wanted", "text": "A reassuring hug if wanted" }, { "id": "a_little_time_then_a_talk", "text": "A little time, then a talk" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_171", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should a thoughtful repair apology include?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "intimacy_apology", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "owning_the_impact", "text": "Owning the impact" }, { "id": "no_excuses", "text": "No excuses" }, { "id": "respect_for_the_boundary", "text": "Respect for the boundary" }, { "id": "a_clear_change", "text": "A clear change" }, { "id": "no_demand_for_quick_forgiveness", "text": "No demand for quick forgiveness" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_172", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What protects intimacy when we are upset with each other?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "conflict_protection", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "never_use_private_details_as_weapons", "text": "Never use private details as weapons" }, { "id": "do_not_use_sex_as_a_shortcut_to_reconciliation", "text": "Do not use sex as a shortcut to reconciliation" }, { "id": "respect_separate_sleep_if_needed", "text": "Respect separate sleep if needed" }, { "id": "repair_emotionally_first", "text": "Repair emotionally first" }, { "id": "keep_affection_optional", "text": "Keep affection optional" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_173", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "written", "text": "After distance, what makes reconnecting feel safe?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "reconnecting_written", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 400 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_174", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When feedback accidentally hurts, what helps us recover?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "feedback_hurt", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "acknowledge_the_sting", "text": "Acknowledge the sting" }, { "id": "clarify_the_intent", "text": "Clarify the intent" }, { "id": "avoid_defensiveness", "text": "Avoid defensiveness" }, { "id": "take_a_break_if_needed", "text": "Take a break if needed" }, { "id": "return_with_kindness", "text": "Return with kindness" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_175", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "After a vulnerable moment, what reassurance lands best?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "vulnerable_reassurance", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_am_not_judging_you", "text": "I am not judging you" }, { "id": "thank_you_for_trusting_me", "text": "Thank you for trusting me" }, { "id": "nothing_has_to_happen", "text": "Nothing has to happen" }, { "id": "we_can_go_at_your_pace", "text": "We can go at your pace" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_176", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can turn embarrassment into connection?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "embarrassment", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "gentle_humor", "text": "Gentle humor" }, { "id": "no_teasing_later", "text": "No teasing later" }, { "id": "remembering_awkward_moments_happen", "text": "Remembering awkward moments happen" }, { "id": "warm_affection_if_wanted", "text": "Warm affection if wanted" }, { "id": "a_simple_change_of_subject", "text": "A simple change of subject" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_177", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How confident are you that private mistakes stay private?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "private_mistakes", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not confident", "max_label": "Completely confident" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_178", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Talk right away or reconnect after a little space?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "repair_timing", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "talk_right_away", "text": "Talk right away" }, { "id": "reconnect_after_some_space", "text": "Reconnect after some space" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_179", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which habits keep one awkward night from becoming a lasting story?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "lasting_story", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "do_not_retell_it", "text": "Do not retell it" }, { "id": "do_not_label_anyone", "text": "Do not label anyone" }, { "id": "focus_on_what_was_learned", "text": "Focus on what was learned" }, { "id": "return_to_normal_affection", "text": "Return to normal affection" }, { "id": "try_again_only_if_both_want_to", "text": "Try again only if both want to" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_180", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which qualities make a new intimate idea worth exploring?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "novelty", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "mutual_curiosity", "text": "Mutual curiosity" }, { "id": "clear_boundaries", "text": "Clear boundaries" }, { "id": "an_easy_opt_out", "text": "An easy opt-out" }, { "id": "a_trusted_setting", "text": "A trusted setting" }, { "id": "starting_small", "text": "Starting small" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_181", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "How would you rather hear a new idea?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "new_idea_delivery", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "in_a_relaxed_conversation", "text": "In a relaxed conversation" }, { "id": "as_a_playful_question", "text": "As a playful question" }, { "id": "in_a_shared_yes_no_maybe_list", "text": "In a shared yes/no/maybe list" }, { "id": "after_being_asked_if_i_am_open_to_ideas", "text": "After being asked if I am open to ideas" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_182", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What protects trust when discussing fantasies?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "fantasy", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_assumption_we_will_do_it", "text": "No assumption we will do it" }, { "id": "no_judgment", "text": "No judgment" }, { "id": "no_pressure_for_details", "text": "No pressure for details" }, { "id": "privacy_afterward", "text": "Privacy afterward" }, { "id": "permission_to_stop_the_conversation", "text": "Permission to stop the conversation" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_183", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How curious do you feel about trying something new together?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "curiosity", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not curious", "max_label": "Very curious" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_184", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which small changes sound interesting without feeling overwhelming?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "gentle_novelty", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_new_setting", "text": "A new setting" }, { "id": "a_different_pace", "text": "A different pace" }, { "id": "dressing_up", "text": "Dressing up" }, { "id": "a_playful_game", "text": "A playful game" }, { "id": "changing_who_leads", "text": "Changing who leads" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_185", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "How should a new idea be chosen?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "choosing_novelty", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "take_turns", "text": "Take turns" }, { "id": "choose_together", "text": "Choose together" }, { "id": "the_person_who_is_curious_suggests", "text": "The person who is curious suggests" }, { "id": "only_use_ideas_already_discussed", "text": "Only use ideas already discussed" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_186", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a new idea feel playful instead of awkward?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "role_play", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_simple_plan", "text": "A simple plan" }, { "id": "choosing_together", "text": "Choosing together" }, { "id": "being_allowed_to_laugh", "text": "Being allowed to laugh" }, { "id": "clear_limits", "text": "Clear limits" }, { "id": "permission_to_stop_immediately", "text": "Permission to stop immediately" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_187", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "After confirming that both people want it and can stop anytime, what else should we discuss?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "toys", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "boundaries_and_limits", "text": "Boundaries and limits" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "a_clear_stop_signal", "text": "A clear stop signal" }, { "id": "what_support_might_help_afterward", "text": "What support might help afterward" }, { "id": "what_would_make_us_postpone_it", "text": "What would make us postpone it" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_188", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps an unfamiliar experience feel grounded?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "sensory", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "starting_small", "text": "Starting small" }, { "id": "talking_through_expectations", "text": "Talking through expectations" }, { "id": "keeping_familiar_comforts_nearby", "text": "Keeping familiar comforts nearby" }, { "id": "checking_in_as_we_go", "text": "Checking in as we go" }, { "id": "stopping_if_either_person_feels_unsure", "text": "Stopping if either person feels unsure" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_189", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which ideas always need a separate conversation beforehand?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "no_surprise", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "anything_involving_recording", "text": "Anything involving recording" }, { "id": "anything_involving_pain_or_restriction", "text": "Anything involving pain or restriction" }, { "id": "anything_involving_another_person", "text": "Anything involving another person" }, { "id": "anything_in_a_new_location", "text": "Anything in a new location" }, { "id": "anything_already_named_as_a_boundary", "text": "Anything already named as a boundary" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_190", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "What level of novelty fits you best lately?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "novelty_level", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "familiar_favorites", "text": "Familiar favorites" }, { "id": "one_small_change", "text": "One small change" }, { "id": "something_clearly_new", "text": "Something clearly new" }, { "id": "i_am_not_looking_for_novelty", "text": "I am not looking for novelty" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_191", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps trying new things grounded in care?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "careful_curiosity", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "checking_emotional_comfort", "text": "Checking emotional comfort" }, { "id": "respecting_hesitation", "text": "Respecting hesitation" }, { "id": "letting_comfort_matter_more_than_novelty", "text": "Letting comfort matter more than novelty" }, { "id": "talking_afterward", "text": "Talking afterward" }, { "id": "valuing_closeness_over_novelty", "text": "Valuing closeness over novelty" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_192", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How safe do you feel sharing an idea that may never happen?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "sharing_fantasy", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not safe", "max_label": "Completely safe" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_193", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "A familiar favorite or one small new twist?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "familiar_new", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_familiar_favorite", "text": "A familiar favorite" }, { "id": "one_small_new_twist", "text": "One small new twist" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_194", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Talk through a fantasy or keep it as imagination?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "fantasy_choice", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "talk_through_a_fantasy", "text": "Talk through a fantasy" }, { "id": "keep_it_as_imagination", "text": "Keep it as imagination" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_195", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How do you like anticipation to build before private time?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "anticipation", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "flirty_messages", "text": "Flirty messages" }, { "id": "a_planned_evening", "text": "A planned evening" }, { "id": "knowing_looks", "text": "Knowing looks" }, { "id": "small_touches", "text": "Small touches" }, { "id": "a_shared_secret", "text": "A shared secret" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_196", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which ritual would help us shift into couple time?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "ritual", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "change_the_lighting", "text": "Change the lighting" }, { "id": "put_phones_away", "text": "Put phones away" }, { "id": "choose_music_together", "text": "Choose music together" }, { "id": "share_a_quick_check_in", "text": "Share a quick check-in" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_197", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps a planned night from feeling like an obligation?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "planned_night", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "flexible_expectations", "text": "Flexible expectations" }, { "id": "no_required_outcome", "text": "No required outcome" }, { "id": "room_to_cancel", "text": "Room to cancel" }, { "id": "affection_first", "text": "Affection first" }, { "id": "a_plan_both_people_shaped", "text": "A plan both people shaped" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_198", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How much does anticipation affect your desire?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "anticipation_scale", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very little", "max_label": "A great deal" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_199", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which small rituals create emotional closeness?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "emotional_rituals", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_long_hello", "text": "A long hello" }, { "id": "a_private_toast", "text": "A private toast" }, { "id": "a_shared_playlist", "text": "A shared playlist" }, { "id": "a_few_honest_minutes_at_night", "text": "A few honest minutes at night" }, { "id": "a_slow_goodnight_kiss", "text": "A slow goodnight kiss" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_200", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "What signal would you enjoy using for 'I am interested'?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "interest_signal", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_specific_phrase", "text": "A specific phrase" }, { "id": "a_private_emoji", "text": "A private emoji" }, { "id": "a_certain_look", "text": "A certain look" }, { "id": "a_hand_squeeze", "text": "A hand squeeze" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_201", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How do we keep a flirty countdown fun?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "countdown", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_clear_plan", "text": "A clear plan" }, { "id": "playful_messages", "text": "Playful messages" }, { "id": "no_pressure_if_the_mood_changes", "text": "No pressure if the mood changes" }, { "id": "a_small_surprise", "text": "A small surprise" }, { "id": "keeping_it_private", "text": "Keeping it private" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_202", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which traditions could help intimacy survive busy seasons?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "busy_rituals", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_weekly_cuddle_night", "text": "A weekly cuddle night" }, { "id": "a_monthly_private_date", "text": "A monthly private date" }, { "id": "goodbye_kisses", "text": "Goodbye kisses" }, { "id": "ten_phone_free_minutes", "text": "Ten phone-free minutes" }, { "id": "a_relaxed_talk_about_what_we_want", "text": "A relaxed talk about what we want" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_203", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would make a morning ritual feel intimate?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "morning_ritual", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "lingering_in_bed", "text": "Lingering in bed" }, { "id": "sharing_coffee_close_together", "text": "Sharing coffee close together" }, { "id": "a_long_hug", "text": "A long hug" }, { "id": "a_sweet_message_after_leaving", "text": "A sweet message after leaving" }, { "id": "a_playful_promise_for_later", "text": "A playful promise for later" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_204", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which end-of-day signals help you feel chosen?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "end_day", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "putting_phones_away", "text": "Putting phones away" }, { "id": "turning_toward_each_other", "text": "Turning toward each other" }, { "id": "greeting_each_other_warmly", "text": "Greeting each other warmly" }, { "id": "offering_a_cuddle", "text": "Offering a cuddle" }, { "id": "saying_what_i_appreciated", "text": "Saying what I appreciated" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_205", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which private tradition sounds most sustainable?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "sustainable_ritual", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sunday_morning_cuddles", "text": "Sunday morning cuddles" }, { "id": "a_weekly_flirty_text", "text": "A weekly flirty text" }, { "id": "a_monthly_at_home_date", "text": "A monthly at-home date" }, { "id": "a_nightly_goodnight_kiss", "text": "A nightly goodnight kiss" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_206", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does a ritual start feeling like a chore?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "ritual_risk", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "treating_it_like_a_quota", "text": "Treating it like a quota" }, { "id": "ignoring_changing_moods", "text": "Ignoring changing moods" }, { "id": "keeping_score", "text": "Keeping score" }, { "id": "never_changing_it", "text": "Never changing it" }, { "id": "assuming_it_must_lead_somewhere", "text": "Assuming it must lead somewhere" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_207", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to keep couple time from being crowded out?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "protected_time", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very difficult", "max_label": "Very easy" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_208", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Build anticipation all day or keep the moment spontaneous?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "anticipation_choice", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "build_anticipation_all_day", "text": "Build anticipation all day" }, { "id": "keep_it_spontaneous", "text": "Keep it spontaneous" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_209", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "A reliable ritual or a changing surprise?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "ritual_surprise", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_reliable_ritual", "text": "A reliable ritual" }, { "id": "a_changing_surprise", "text": "A changing surprise" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_210", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What kinds of intimacy still fit a very busy week?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "busy_week", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_flirty_message", "text": "A flirty message" }, { "id": "ten_quiet_minutes_together", "text": "Ten quiet minutes together" }, { "id": "a_meaningful_check_in", "text": "A meaningful check-in" }, { "id": "a_private_meal", "text": "A private meal" }, { "id": "a_planned_hour_for_us", "text": "A planned hour for us" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_211", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "When energy is low, what closeness sounds most realistic?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "low_energy_choice", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quiet_cuddling", "text": "Quiet cuddling" }, { "id": "a_short_massage", "text": "A short massage" }, { "id": "talking_in_bed", "text": "Talking in bed" }, { "id": "sleeping_close", "text": "Sleeping close" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_212", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps intimacy from feeling like another task?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "not_task", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "keeping_plans_flexible", "text": "Keeping plans flexible" }, { "id": "choosing_low_effort_closeness", "text": "Choosing low-effort closeness" }, { "id": "no_guilt_if_plans_change", "text": "No guilt if plans change" }, { "id": "making_room_for_play", "text": "Making room for play" }, { "id": "not_tracking_frequency", "text": "Not tracking frequency" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_213", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How much energy do you usually need before intimacy feels appealing?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "energy_need", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very little", "max_label": "A lot" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_214", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which pressures most affect your ability to relax?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "responsibilities", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "childcare", "text": "Childcare" }, { "id": "work_stress", "text": "Work stress" }, { "id": "household_tasks", "text": "Household tasks" }, { "id": "health_needs", "text": "Health needs" }, { "id": "lack_of_privacy", "text": "Lack of privacy" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_215", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick what would make a short private moment feel worthwhile.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "short_moment", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "focused_attention", "text": "Focused attention" }, { "id": "one_long_kiss", "text": "One long kiss" }, { "id": "a_little_laughter", "text": "A little laughter" }, { "id": "knowing_it_is_enough", "text": "Knowing it is enough" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_216", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps intimacy survive irregular schedules?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "schedules", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "planning_a_window", "text": "Planning a window" }, { "id": "using_small_moments", "text": "Using small moments" }, { "id": "being_honest_about_energy", "text": "Being honest about energy" }, { "id": "not_treating_low_energy_as_rejection", "text": "Not treating low energy as rejection" }, { "id": "protecting_one_recurring_time", "text": "Protecting one recurring time" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_217", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What signs mean rest should come before intimacy?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "rest_first", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "exhaustion", "text": "Exhaustion" }, { "id": "irritability", "text": "Irritability" }, { "id": "pain", "text": "Pain" }, { "id": "difficulty_focusing", "text": "Difficulty focusing" }, { "id": "feeling_emotionally_shut_down", "text": "Feeling emotionally shut down" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_218", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can keep affection alive during long stressful periods?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "long_stress", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "small_signs_of_affection", "text": "Small signs of affection" }, { "id": "kind_words", "text": "Kind words" }, { "id": "shared_humor", "text": "Shared humor" }, { "id": "brief_dates", "text": "Brief dates" }, { "id": "no_pressure_for_more", "text": "No pressure for more" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_219", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can we make room for closeness without forcing it?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "make_room", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "offer_choices", "text": "Offer choices" }, { "id": "plan_loosely", "text": "Plan loosely" }, { "id": "start_with_affection", "text": "Start with affection" }, { "id": "check_energy_first", "text": "Check energy first" }, { "id": "accept_a_change_of_mind", "text": "Accept a change of mind" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_220", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which quick connection would you choose during a packed day?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "quick_connection", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_two_minute_hug", "text": "A two-minute hug" }, { "id": "a_private_compliment", "text": "A private compliment" }, { "id": "a_slow_kiss", "text": "A slow kiss" }, { "id": "a_hand_squeeze", "text": "A hand squeeze" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_221", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What conditions make desire more possible after burnout?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "burnout", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "enough_rest", "text": "Enough rest" }, { "id": "feeling_supported", "text": "Feeling supported" }, { "id": "reduced_pressure", "text": "Reduced pressure" }, { "id": "emotional_connection", "text": "Emotional connection" }, { "id": "time_with_fewer_demands", "text": "Time with fewer demands" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_222", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How balanced does intimacy feel with the rest of our life?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "life_balance", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Out of balance", "max_label": "Well balanced" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_223", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "A brief moment tonight or unhurried time this weekend?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "timing_choice", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_brief_moment_tonight", "text": "A brief moment tonight" }, { "id": "unhurried_time_this_weekend", "text": "Unhurried time this weekend" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_224", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Quiet closeness or playful distraction after a hard day?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "hard_day_choice", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quiet_closeness", "text": "Quiet closeness" }, { "id": "playful_distraction", "text": "Playful distraction" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_225", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which memories still bring back attraction for you?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "attraction_memory", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "our_first_kisses", "text": "Our first kisses" }, { "id": "a_favorite_trip", "text": "A favorite trip" }, { "id": "a_time_we_both_felt_confident", "text": "A time we both felt confident" }, { "id": "a_playful_night", "text": "A playful night" }, { "id": "a_time_we_felt_deeply_understood", "text": "A time we felt deeply understood" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_226", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which memory would you most enjoy recreating?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "recreate_memory", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_slow_romantic_night", "text": "A slow romantic night" }, { "id": "a_spontaneous_moment", "text": "A spontaneous moment" }, { "id": "a_playful_date", "text": "A playful date" }, { "id": "a_peaceful_morning", "text": "A peaceful morning" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_227", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a shared intimate memory especially meaningful?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "memory_value", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "feeling_safe_together", "text": "Feeling safe together" }, { "id": "feeling_desired", "text": "Feeling desired" }, { "id": "laughing_together", "text": "Laughing together" }, { "id": "choosing_something_new_together", "text": "Choosing something new together" }, { "id": "being_fully_present", "text": "Being fully present" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_228", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How much do shared memories strengthen your attraction?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "memory_scale", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very little", "max_label": "A great deal" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_229", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which older habits might still have some spark?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "old_habits", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "long_make_out_sessions", "text": "Long make-out sessions" }, { "id": "flirty_notes", "text": "Flirty notes" }, { "id": "dressing_up", "text": "Dressing up" }, { "id": "slow_dancing", "text": "Slow dancing" }, { "id": "unplanned_cuddling", "text": "Unplanned cuddling" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_230", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "What would be most fun to bring back for one night?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "bring_back", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "an_old_playlist", "text": "An old playlist" }, { "id": "a_favorite_outfit", "text": "A favorite outfit" }, { "id": "a_former_date_spot", "text": "A former date spot" }, { "id": "a_forgotten_inside_joke", "text": "A forgotten inside joke" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_231", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps nostalgia warm instead of pressuring?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "nostalgia", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_comparison_to_the_past", "text": "No comparison to the past" }, { "id": "no_expectation_to_recreate_everything", "text": "No expectation to recreate everything" }, { "id": "choosing_one_detail", "text": "Choosing one detail" }, { "id": "appreciating_how_we_have_changed", "text": "Appreciating how we have changed" }, { "id": "letting_the_new_version_be_different", "text": "Letting the new version be different" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_232", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What moments have made you feel most chosen by me?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "chosen_memories", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "when_you_made_time_for_us", "text": "When you made time for us" }, { "id": "when_you_protected_our_privacy", "text": "When you protected our privacy" }, { "id": "when_you_noticed_my_mood", "text": "When you noticed my mood" }, { "id": "when_you_initiated_affection", "text": "When you initiated affection" }, { "id": "when_you_respected_a_boundary", "text": "When you respected a boundary" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_233", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What details make a romantic memory vivid?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "memory_details", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_certain_song", "text": "A certain song" }, { "id": "a_scent", "text": "A scent" }, { "id": "the_setting", "text": "The setting" }, { "id": "specific_words", "text": "Specific words" }, { "id": "how_my_body_felt", "text": "How my body felt" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_234", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can old memories teach us about current intimacy?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "memory_lessons", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "what_pace_works", "text": "What pace works" }, { "id": "what_makes_us_laugh", "text": "What makes us laugh" }, { "id": "what_builds_trust", "text": "What builds trust" }, { "id": "what_settings_help", "text": "What settings help" }, { "id": "what_affection_we_miss", "text": "What affection we miss" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_235", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the keepsake that would best represent our chemistry.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "keepsake", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_photo", "text": "A photo" }, { "id": "a_song", "text": "A song" }, { "id": "a_handwritten_note", "text": "A handwritten note" }, { "id": "a_place_we_revisit", "text": "A place we revisit" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_236", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which new memories would feel meaningful this year?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "new_memory", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_private_getaway", "text": "A private getaway" }, { "id": "a_brave_conversation", "text": "A brave conversation" }, { "id": "trying_something_playful_together", "text": "Trying something playful together" }, { "id": "a_simple_recurring_ritual", "text": "A simple recurring ritual" }, { "id": "a_deeply_relaxed_night", "text": "A deeply relaxed night" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_237", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How meaningful do our recent memories feel?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "new_memory_scale", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very meaningful", "max_label": "Very meaningful" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_238", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Recreate a favorite moment or invent a completely new one?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "recreate_new", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "recreate_a_favorite", "text": "Recreate a favorite" }, { "id": "invent_something_new", "text": "Invent something new" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_239", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Old love song or a new private playlist?", "depth": 1, "tags": [ "music_memory", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "an_old_love_song", "text": "An old love song" }, { "id": "a_new_private_playlist", "text": "A new private playlist" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_240", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What emotional moments make physical closeness easier?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "emotional_closeness", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "feeling_understood", "text": "Feeling understood" }, { "id": "laughing_together", "text": "Laughing together" }, { "id": "making_up_after_a_disagreement", "text": "Making up after a disagreement" }, { "id": "receiving_appreciation", "text": "Receiving appreciation" }, { "id": "sharing_something_vulnerable", "text": "Sharing something vulnerable" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_241", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of attention helps intimacy feel caring, not just physical?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "emotionally_chosen", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "undivided_listening", "text": "Undivided listening" }, { "id": "remembering_a_detail", "text": "Remembering a detail" }, { "id": "making_time_for_me", "text": "Making time for me" }, { "id": "checking_in_without_fixing", "text": "Checking in without fixing" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_242", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does intimacy feel like real connection instead of something to get right?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "connection_not_performance", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "being_able_to_slow_down", "text": "Being able to slow down" }, { "id": "no_pressure_to_impress", "text": "No pressure to impress" }, { "id": "honest_feedback", "text": "Honest feedback" }, { "id": "warm_eye_contact", "text": "Warm eye contact" }, { "id": "feeling_accepted", "text": "Feeling accepted" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_243", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How emotionally connected do you feel during intimacy lately?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "emotional_scale", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very connected", "max_label": "Deeply connected" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_244", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs show that emotional trust is present?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "emotional_trust", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_fear_of_ridicule", "text": "No fear of ridicule" }, { "id": "easy_honesty", "text": "Easy honesty" }, { "id": "boundaries_are_remembered", "text": "Boundaries are remembered" }, { "id": "silence_feels_comfortable", "text": "Silence feels comfortable" }, { "id": "both_people_can_be_imperfect", "text": "Both people can be imperfect" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_245", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which conversation creates closeness fastest?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "closeness_talk", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_shared_memory", "text": "A shared memory" }, { "id": "a_sincere_appreciation", "text": "A sincere appreciation" }, { "id": "a_future_hope", "text": "A future hope" }, { "id": "a_playful_confession", "text": "A playful confession" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_246", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does vulnerability bring us closer?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "vulnerability", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "being_believed", "text": "Being believed" }, { "id": "being_thanked", "text": "Being thanked" }, { "id": "no_immediate_advice", "text": "No immediate advice" }, { "id": "privacy_afterward", "text": "Privacy afterward" }, { "id": "feeling_closer_not_exposed", "text": "Feeling closer, not exposed" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_247", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which forms of appreciation strengthen intimacy?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "appreciation", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "noticing_effort", "text": "Noticing effort" }, { "id": "praising_character", "text": "Praising character" }, { "id": "naming_attraction", "text": "Naming attraction" }, { "id": "thanking_small_care", "text": "Thanking small care" }, { "id": "celebrating_growth", "text": "Celebrating growth" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_248", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What kind of affection works after an emotional conversation?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "post_talk_affection", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "asking_before_touching", "text": "Asking before touching" }, { "id": "a_slow_hug", "text": "A slow hug" }, { "id": "sitting_close", "text": "Sitting close" }, { "id": "a_reassuring_kiss", "text": "A reassuring kiss" }, { "id": "giving_space_first", "text": "Giving space first" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_249", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does eye contact feel connecting rather than intense?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "eye_contact", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_warm_expression", "text": "A warm expression" }, { "id": "looking_away_is_allowed", "text": "Looking away is allowed" }, { "id": "it_happens_naturally", "text": "It happens naturally" }, { "id": "the_pace_is_slow", "text": "The pace is slow" }, { "id": "there_is_emotional_trust", "text": "There is emotional trust" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_250", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the feeling you most want private time to create.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "desired_feeling", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "comfort", "text": "Comfort" }, { "id": "excitement", "text": "Excitement" }, { "id": "tenderness", "text": "Tenderness" }, { "id": "deep_connection", "text": "Deep connection" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_251", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When do we feel most like partners in intimacy?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "partnership", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "shared_decisions", "text": "Shared decisions" }, { "id": "taking_turns_initiating", "text": "Taking turns initiating" }, { "id": "both_receive_care", "text": "Both receive care" }, { "id": "both_can_pause", "text": "Both can pause" }, { "id": "both_feel_appreciated", "text": "Both feel appreciated" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_252", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How easy is it to stay emotionally present during physical closeness?", "depth": 4, "tags": [ "presence_scale", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very difficult", "max_label": "Very easy" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_253", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Heart-to-heart first or affection first?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "order_choice", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "heart_to_heart_first", "text": "Heart-to-heart first" }, { "id": "affection_first", "text": "Affection first" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_254", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Quiet tenderness or playful chemistry?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "chemistry_choice", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "quiet_tenderness", "text": "Quiet tenderness" }, { "id": "playful_chemistry", "text": "Playful chemistry" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_255", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which private mini-dates sound genuinely fun?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "mini_dates", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "dessert_in_bed", "text": "Dessert in bed" }, { "id": "a_candlelit_playlist_night", "text": "A candlelit playlist night" }, { "id": "slow_dancing_at_home", "text": "Slow dancing at home" }, { "id": "a_blanket_and_movie_cuddle", "text": "A blanket-and-movie cuddle" }, { "id": "a_dress_up_dinner_indoors", "text": "A dress-up dinner indoors" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_256", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which tiny challenge would feel playful and flirty?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "flirty_challenge", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "trade_three_compliments", "text": "Trade three compliments" }, { "id": "hold_eye_contact_for_ten_seconds", "text": "Hold eye contact for ten seconds" }, { "id": "choose_each_other_s_song", "text": "Choose each other's song" }, { "id": "plan_one_surprise_date_detail", "text": "Plan one surprise date detail" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_257", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does a couple game feel playful without feeling childish?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "adult_game", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "good_chemistry", "text": "Good chemistry" }, { "id": "private_humor", "text": "Private humor" }, { "id": "simple_rules", "text": "Simple rules" }, { "id": "either_person_can_skip_any_part", "text": "Either person can skip any part" }, { "id": "no_embarrassing_dares", "text": "No embarrassing dares" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_258", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How much do you enjoy playful structure in private time?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "game_scale", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not at all", "max_label": "Very much" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_259", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which low-pressure dares would you actually enjoy?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "dares", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "give_a_slow_compliment", "text": "Give a slow compliment" }, { "id": "choose_the_mood_for_tonight", "text": "Choose the mood for tonight" }, { "id": "pick_the_next_song", "text": "Pick the next song" }, { "id": "share_a_favorite_memory", "text": "Share a favorite memory" }, { "id": "name_one_small_thing_that_helps_you_feel_close", "text": "Name one small thing that helps you feel close" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_260", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "What shared ending sounds best after a playful challenge?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "shared_prize", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_long_cuddle", "text": "A long cuddle" }, { "id": "dessert_together", "text": "Dessert together" }, { "id": "a_massage_trade", "text": "A massage trade" }, { "id": "choosing_the_next_date", "text": "Choosing the next date" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_261", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps a teasing game from going too far?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "teasing_limits", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_stop_word", "text": "A stop word" }, { "id": "no_humiliation", "text": "No humiliation" }, { "id": "nothing_involving_bystanders", "text": "Nothing involving bystanders" }, { "id": "clear_time_limits", "text": "Clear time limits" }, { "id": "immediate_respect_for_discomfort", "text": "Immediate respect for discomfort" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_262", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which playful choices could help us learn preferences?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "preference_games", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_yes_no_maybe_list", "text": "A yes/no/maybe list" }, { "id": "choose_among_four_affection_styles", "text": "Choose among four affection styles" }, { "id": "choose_a_mood_card", "text": "Choose a mood card" }, { "id": "choose_a_favorite_kind_of_affection", "text": "Choose a favorite kind of affection" }, { "id": "build_a_shared_idea_jar", "text": "Build a shared idea jar" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_263", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would make a private scavenger hunt feel romantic?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "scavenger", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "notes_with_compliments", "text": "Notes with compliments" }, { "id": "a_favorite_snack", "text": "A favorite snack" }, { "id": "a_meaningful_location", "text": "A meaningful location" }, { "id": "a_final_slow_dance", "text": "A final slow dance" }, { "id": "a_no_pressure_ending", "text": "A no-pressure ending" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_264", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which themes could make an at-home night fresh?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "themes", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "first_date_replay", "text": "First-date replay" }, { "id": "favorite_decade_music", "text": "Favorite-decade music" }, { "id": "dress_up_dinner", "text": "Dress-up dinner" }, { "id": "spa_night", "text": "Spa night" }, { "id": "phones_away_cozy_night", "text": "Phones-away cozy night" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_265", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the playful signal that should mean 'I am open to a little closeness'.", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "come_closer_signal", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_certain_smile", "text": "A certain smile" }, { "id": "a_private_phrase", "text": "A private phrase" }, { "id": "a_hand_offered", "text": "A hand offered" }, { "id": "a_favorite_song_started", "text": "A favorite song started" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_266", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "When does surprise affection feel fun?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "surprise_affection", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_stays_within_known_boundaries", "text": "It stays within known boundaries" }, { "id": "the_timing_is_considerate", "text": "The timing is considerate" }, { "id": "it_is_easy_to_decline", "text": "It is easy to decline" }, { "id": "it_feels_personal", "text": "It feels personal" }, { "id": "it_does_not_interrupt_something_important", "text": "It does not interrupt something important" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_267", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How playful would you like our intimacy to feel this month?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "playful_month", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very playful", "max_label": "Very playful" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_268", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "A flirty game or a slow private date?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "game_date", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_flirty_game", "text": "A flirty game" }, { "id": "a_slow_private_date", "text": "A slow private date" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_269", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Trade compliments or trade gentle massages?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "trade_choice", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "trade_compliments", "text": "Trade compliments" }, { "id": "trade_gentle_massages", "text": "Trade gentle massages" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_270", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps attraction alive in a long relationship?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "long_term_attraction", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "continued_curiosity", "text": "Continued curiosity" }, { "id": "individual_confidence", "text": "Individual confidence" }, { "id": "playfulness", "text": "Playfulness" }, { "id": "repairing_hurt_feelings", "text": "Repairing hurt feelings" }, { "id": "making_private_time", "text": "Making private time" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_271", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which long-term habit protects romance best?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "romance_habit", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "regular_dates", "text": "Regular dates" }, { "id": "daily_affection", "text": "Daily affection" }, { "id": "flirty_messages", "text": "Flirty messages" }, { "id": "honest_desire_talks", "text": "Honest desire talks" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_272", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which habits make intimacy feel routine?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "routine", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "always_the_same_timing", "text": "Always the same timing" }, { "id": "skipping_connection_beforehand", "text": "Skipping connection beforehand" }, { "id": "no_anticipation", "text": "No anticipation" }, { "id": "feeling_rushed", "text": "Feeling rushed" }, { "id": "treating_it_as_an_obligation", "text": "Treating it as an obligation" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_273", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How fresh does our intimate connection feel lately?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "freshness", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very fresh", "max_label": "Very fresh" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_274", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which changes deserve extra patience over the years?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "life_changes", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "health_changes", "text": "Health changes" }, { "id": "body_changes", "text": "Body changes" }, { "id": "hormonal_changes", "text": "Hormonal changes" }, { "id": "parenting_demands", "text": "Parenting demands" }, { "id": "stress_and_grief", "text": "Stress and grief" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_275", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Where would you most like our intimacy to grow?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "growth", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "more_honest_communication", "text": "More honest communication" }, { "id": "more_playful_affection", "text": "More playful affection" }, { "id": "more_confidence_naming_boundaries", "text": "More confidence naming boundaries" }, { "id": "more_unhurried_time", "text": "More unhurried time" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_276", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How do we adapt without losing closeness?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "adaptation", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "talk_about_changes", "text": "Talk about changes" }, { "id": "let_preferences_evolve", "text": "Let preferences evolve" }, { "id": "keep_nonsexual_affection", "text": "Keep nonsexual affection" }, { "id": "avoid_comparisons_to_the_past", "text": "Avoid comparisons to the past" }, { "id": "find_new_shared_rhythms", "text": "Find new shared rhythms" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_277", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs suggest our intimacy needs attention?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "attention_signs", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "affection_feels_absent", "text": "Affection feels absent" }, { "id": "conversations_feel_unsafe", "text": "Conversations feel unsafe" }, { "id": "initiation_feels_risky_or_pressured", "text": "Initiation feels risky or pressured" }, { "id": "boundaries_are_forgotten", "text": "Boundaries are forgotten" }, { "id": "resentment_is_growing", "text": "Resentment is growing" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_278", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should never become a scorecard?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "scorecard", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "frequency", "text": "Frequency" }, { "id": "who_initiates", "text": "Who initiates" }, { "id": "who_says_no", "text": "Who says no" }, { "id": "who_plans_dates", "text": "Who plans dates" }, { "id": "who_needs_more_reassurance", "text": "Who needs more reassurance" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_279", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What supports intimacy through major life transitions?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "transitions", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "realistic_expectations", "text": "Realistic expectations" }, { "id": "flexible_definitions_of_closeness", "text": "Flexible definitions of closeness" }, { "id": "honest_talks_as_needs_change", "text": "Honest talks as needs change" }, { "id": "extra_patience_with_changing_energy", "text": "Extra patience with changing energy" }, { "id": "updating_what_closeness_looks_like", "text": "Updating what closeness looks like" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_280", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Pick the shared promise that would best protect long-term intimacy.", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "shared_promise", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_can_always_pause", "text": "We can always pause" }, { "id": "we_will_keep_learning_each_other", "text": "We will keep learning each other" }, { "id": "no_private_detail_becomes_a_weapon", "text": "No private detail becomes a weapon" }, { "id": "affection_never_creates_debt", "text": "Affection never creates debt" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_281", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can make growing older together feel attractive?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "aging", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "shared_history", "text": "Shared history" }, { "id": "deep_trust", "text": "Deep trust" }, { "id": "comfort_in_our_bodies", "text": "Comfort in our bodies" }, { "id": "knowing_each_other_s_cues", "text": "Knowing each other's cues" }, { "id": "still_surprising_each_other", "text": "Still surprising each other" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_282", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How confident are you that our intimacy can keep evolving?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "evolving", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not confident", "max_label": "Very confident" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_283", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Protect a favorite ritual or invent a new one?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "ritual_evolution", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "protect_a_favorite_ritual", "text": "Protect a favorite ritual" }, { "id": "invent_a_new_one", "text": "Invent a new one" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_284", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How well does our current intimacy fit this stage of life?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "life_stage_fit", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Does not fit well yet", "max_label": "Fits very well" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_285", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What do you hope our intimacy includes more of next year?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "future", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "playfulness", "text": "Playfulness" }, { "id": "emotional_closeness", "text": "Emotional closeness" }, { "id": "unhurried_time", "text": "Unhurried time" }, { "id": "honest_conversations", "text": "Honest conversations" }, { "id": "new_shared_experiences", "text": "New shared experiences" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_286", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which future intimacy goal feels most meaningful?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "future_goal", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "feeling_safer_to_speak", "text": "Feeling safer to speak" }, { "id": "making_more_time", "text": "Making more time" }, { "id": "keeping_attraction_playful", "text": "Keeping attraction playful" }, { "id": "feeling_cared_for_afterward", "text": "Feeling cared for afterward" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_287", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What parts of our current connection deserve appreciation?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "current_appreciation", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "our_affection", "text": "Our affection" }, { "id": "our_honesty", "text": "Our honesty" }, { "id": "our_humor", "text": "Our humor" }, { "id": "our_ability_to_repair", "text": "Our ability to repair" }, { "id": "our_respect_for_boundaries", "text": "Our respect for boundaries" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_288", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our intimate future?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "hope", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not hopeful", "max_label": "Very hopeful" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_289", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which shared intentions could strengthen closeness?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "intentions", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_what_feels_good_now", "text": "Ask what feels good now" }, { "id": "protect_private_time", "text": "Protect private time" }, { "id": "offer_affection_without_expectation", "text": "Offer affection without expectation" }, { "id": "try_one_small_new_thing", "text": "Try one small new thing" }, { "id": "celebrate_what_already_works", "text": "Celebrate what already works" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_290", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "What do you hope we remember years from now?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "future_memory", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_stayed_kind", "text": "We stayed kind" }, { "id": "we_kept_flirting", "text": "We kept flirting" }, { "id": "we_respected_every_no", "text": "We respected every no" }, { "id": "we_never_stopped_learning", "text": "We never stopped learning" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_291", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which parts of the way we handle intimacy make you proud?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "pride", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "we_can_be_honest", "text": "We can be honest" }, { "id": "we_respect_boundaries", "text": "We respect boundaries" }, { "id": "we_recover_from_awkwardness", "text": "We recover from awkwardness" }, { "id": "we_make_each_other_laugh", "text": "We make each other laugh" }, { "id": "we_keep_choosing_connection", "text": "We keep choosing connection" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_292", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which qualities do you want us to protect no matter what?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "protect", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "trust", "text": "Trust" }, { "id": "playfulness", "text": "Playfulness" }, { "id": "privacy", "text": "Privacy" }, { "id": "mutual_choice", "text": "Mutual choice" }, { "id": "freedom_to_change", "text": "Freedom to change" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_293", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What could help us feel more connected over the next few months?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "next_season", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_new_ritual", "text": "A new ritual" }, { "id": "a_private_getaway", "text": "A private getaway" }, { "id": "better_stress_support", "text": "Better stress support" }, { "id": "more_daily_affection", "text": "More daily affection" }, { "id": "a_more_honest_conversation", "text": "A more honest conversation" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_294", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which appreciation would you most like to hear from me?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "appreciation_hear", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_love_how_easy_honesty_feels_with_you", "text": "I love how easy honesty feels with you" }, { "id": "i_love_our_chemistry", "text": "I love our chemistry" }, { "id": "i_notice_how_you_care_for_me", "text": "I notice how you care for me" }, { "id": "i_am_grateful_we_can_grow_together", "text": "I am grateful we can grow together" }, { "id": "i_still_choose_you", "text": "I still choose you" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_295", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which small promise feels realistic for this month?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "monthly_promise", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "one_private_date", "text": "One private date" }, { "id": "more_goodbye_kisses", "text": "More goodbye kisses" }, { "id": "one_relaxed_talk_about_what_we_want", "text": "One relaxed talk about what we want" }, { "id": "ten_phone_free_cuddle_minutes", "text": "Ten phone-free cuddle minutes" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_296", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "free", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps closeness from getting lost in everyday life?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "visibility", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "naming_what_works", "text": "Naming what works" }, { "id": "celebrating_small_moments", "text": "Celebrating small moments" }, { "id": "planning_time_before_we_are_depleted", "text": "Planning time before we are depleted" }, { "id": "continuing_to_flirt", "text": "Continuing to flirt" }, { "id": "keeping_check_ins_brief_and_natural", "text": "Keeping check-ins brief and natural" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 3 }, "id": "couple_intimacy_297", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How appreciated do you feel for the way you contribute to our closeness?", "depth": 3, "tags": [ "appreciated_scale", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very appreciated", "max_label": "Deeply appreciated" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_298", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "this_or_that", "text": "More tenderness or more adventure in our next chapter?", "depth": 2, "tags": [ "next_chapter", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "more_tenderness", "text": "More tenderness" }, { "id": "more_adventure", "text": "More adventure" } ] }, "id": "couple_intimacy_299", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" }, { "type": "scale", "text": "How similar do our hopes for future intimacy feel?", "depth": 5, "tags": [ "alignment", "couple_intimacy" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very different", "max_label": "Very similar" }, "id": "couple_intimacy_300", "category_id": "couple_intimacy", "access": "premium", "sex": "neutral" } ] }