{ "category": { "id": "sexual_preferences", "display_name": "Sexual Preferences", "description": "Playful, private, consent-first questions about desire, flirting, initiation, boundaries, feedback, aftercare, and sexual confidence for adult couples.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "favorite", "schema_version": "question_v2", "metadata": { "total_questions": 150, "free_questions": 54, "premium_questions": 96, "type_counts": { "single_choice": 150 }, "sex_counts": { "neutral": 110, "female": 20, "male": 20 }, "desire_sync_pairs": 20, "content_version": "sexual_preferences_revised_v3", "batch_size": 25, "special_pack_exception": "150 single-choice questions retained for current Desire Sync compatibility; female/male keys form 20 paired yes/no entries.", "targeting_note": "Neutral questions work for all couples. Female/male values are retained only as current Desire Sync pairing keys; paired wording is role-based and non-stereotyped." } }, "questions": [ { "id": "sexual_preferences_001", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which flirting style gets your attention fastest?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "flirting", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sweet_and_obvious", "text": "Sweet and obvious" }, { "id": "playful_teasing", "text": "Playful teasing" }, { "id": "quiet_and_intense", "text": "Quiet and intense" }, { "id": "bold_and_direct", "text": "Bold and direct" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_002", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of kiss makes you forget what you were saying?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "kissing", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "slow_and_lingering", "text": "Slow and lingering" }, { "id": "soft_and_unexpected", "text": "Soft and unexpected" }, { "id": "deep_and_focused", "text": "Deep and focused" }, { "id": "mischievous_and_lingering", "text": "Mischievous and lingering" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_003", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which first move feels sexiest to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "initiation", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "pull_me_closer", "text": "Pull me closer" }, { "id": "whisper_what_you_want", "text": "Whisper what you want" }, { "id": "kiss_me_first", "text": "Kiss me first" }, { "id": "ask_me_directly", "text": "Ask me directly" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_004", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of touch makes you melt quickest?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "touch", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "hands_in_my_hair", "text": "Hands in my hair" }, { "id": "a_hand_on_my_waist", "text": "A hand on my waist" }, { "id": "a_slow_back_rub", "text": "A slow back rub" }, { "id": "neck_and_shoulders", "text": "Neck and shoulders" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_005", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How much teasing feels good before things become more direct?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "teasing", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "love_the_anticipation", "text": "Love the anticipation" }, { "id": "sometimes_if_the_mood_fits", "text": "Sometimes, if the mood fits" }, { "id": "only_a_little", "text": "Only a little" }, { "id": "not_really_for_me", "text": "Not really for me" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_006", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What mood brings out your most playful desire?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "mood", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "soft_and_romantic", "text": "Soft and romantic" }, { "id": "mischievous_and_flirty", "text": "Mischievous and flirty" }, { "id": "bold_and_confident", "text": "Bold and confident" }, { "id": "slow_and_quiet", "text": "Slow and quiet" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_007", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which line would make you smile and lean in?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "words", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "come_here", "text": "Come here" }, { "id": "i_want_you", "text": "I want you" }, { "id": "kiss_me", "text": "Kiss me" }, { "id": "tell_me_what_you_want", "text": "Tell me what you want" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_008", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How do body compliments usually land for you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "compliments", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "they_make_me_glow", "text": "They make me glow" }, { "id": "only_when_they_are_specific", "text": "Only when they are specific" }, { "id": "it_depends_on_my_mood", "text": "It depends on my mood" }, { "id": "i_prefer_other_compliments", "text": "I prefer other compliments" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_009", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of praise makes you feel most wanted?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "compliments", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "something_about_my_body", "text": "Something about my body" }, { "id": "hearing_how_much_i_am_wanted", "text": "Hearing how much I am wanted" }, { "id": "a_very_specific_detail", "text": "A very specific detail" }, { "id": "how_i_make_you_feel", "text": "How I make you feel" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_010", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which pace feels best when intimacy is just beginning?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "pace", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "very_slow", "text": "Very slow" }, { "id": "a_steady_build", "text": "A steady build" }, { "id": "follow_the_chemistry", "text": "Follow the chemistry" }, { "id": "direct_after_a_clear_yes", "text": "Direct after a clear yes" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_011", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps you say exactly what you want?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "communication", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_pressure", "text": "No pressure" }, { "id": "being_asked_gently", "text": "Being asked gently" }, { "id": "a_playful_mood", "text": "A playful mood" }, { "id": "complete_privacy", "text": "Complete privacy" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_012", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How should your partner ask what feels good?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "feedback", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "softly_in_the_moment", "text": "Softly in the moment" }, { "id": "directly_and_clearly", "text": "Directly and clearly" }, { "id": "before_anything_starts", "text": "Before anything starts" }, { "id": "let_me_bring_it_up", "text": "Let me bring it up" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_013", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What style of sexy talk feels most natural to you?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "sexy_talk", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "soft_and_suggestive", "text": "Soft and suggestive" }, { "id": "bold_and_clear", "text": "Bold and clear" }, { "id": "playful_and_teasing", "text": "Playful and teasing" }, { "id": "not_really_my_thing", "text": "Not really my thing" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_014", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What daytime message would make you smirk?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "messages", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "thinking_about_you", "text": "Thinking about you" }, { "id": "i_cannot_wait_to_kiss_you", "text": "I cannot wait to kiss you" }, { "id": "save_some_energy_for_later", "text": "Save some energy for later" }, { "id": "a_private_inside_joke", "text": "A private inside joke" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_015", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of flirting should happen before anything sexual starts?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "flirting", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "playful_banter", "text": "Playful banter" }, { "id": "long_eye_contact", "text": "Long eye contact" }, { "id": "small_welcome_touches", "text": "Small welcome touches" }, { "id": "a_clear_invitation", "text": "A clear invitation" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_016", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which setting helps you relax into desire?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "setting", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_cozy_bedroom", "text": "A cozy bedroom" }, { "id": "a_quiet_couch", "text": "A quiet couch" }, { "id": "a_warm_shower", "text": "A warm shower" }, { "id": "anywhere_truly_private", "text": "Anywhere truly private" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_017", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which privacy condition helps you stay present?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "privacy", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_locked_door", "text": "A locked door" }, { "id": "phones_put_away", "text": "Phones put away" }, { "id": "plenty_of_unhurried_time", "text": "Plenty of unhurried time" }, { "id": "a_quiet_house", "text": "A quiet house" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_018", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How does eye contact feel when things get intense?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "eye_contact", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "very_connecting", "text": "Very connecting" }, { "id": "sexy_in_small_doses", "text": "Sexy in small doses" }, { "id": "depends_on_the_moment", "text": "Depends on the moment" }, { "id": "i_prefer_less_of_it", "text": "I prefer less of it" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_019", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which desire style feels most like you lately?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "desire_style", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "slow_burn", "text": "Slow burn" }, { "id": "spontaneous_spark", "text": "Spontaneous spark" }, { "id": "romantic_build_up", "text": "Romantic build-up" }, { "id": "direct_heat", "text": "Direct heat" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_020", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes your partner's desire feel unmistakable?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "feeling_wanted", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "desiring_words", "text": "Desiring words" }, { "id": "focused_touch", "text": "Focused touch" }, { "id": "thoughtful_planning", "text": "Thoughtful planning" }, { "id": "undivided_attention", "text": "Undivided attention" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_021", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When do you most enjoy letting your partner lead?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "roles", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "after_a_clear_invitation", "text": "After a clear invitation" }, { "id": "when_i_feel_fully_relaxed", "text": "When I feel fully relaxed" }, { "id": "during_playful_moments", "text": "During playful moments" }, { "id": "i_prefer_sharing_the_lead", "text": "I prefer sharing the lead" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_022", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of confidence feels sexy instead of pushy?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "confidence", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "attentive_and_responsive", "text": "Attentive and responsive" }, { "id": "decisive_after_checking_in", "text": "Decisive after checking in" }, { "id": "playful_and_warm", "text": "Playful and warm" }, { "id": "clear_about_wanting_me", "text": "Clear about wanting me" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_023", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes initiation feel inviting instead of pressuring?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ "consent", "initiation", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "an_easy_no", "text": "An easy no" }, { "id": "a_warm_tone", "text": "A warm tone" }, { "id": "good_timing", "text": "Good timing" }, { "id": "interest_without_expectation", "text": "Interest without expectation" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_024", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How would you rather signal that you need a pause?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ "consent", "pause", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "say_pause", "text": "Say pause" }, { "id": "use_a_safe_word", "text": "Use a safe word" }, { "id": "tap_or_squeeze", "text": "Tap or squeeze" }, { "id": "ask_to_slow_down", "text": "Ask to slow down" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_025", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What response should always follow a pause signal?", "depth": 5, "access": "free", "tags": [ "consent", "pause", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "stop_and_listen", "text": "Stop and listen" }, { "id": "slow_down_and_check_in", "text": "Slow down and check in" }, { "id": "create_some_breathing_room", "text": "Create some breathing room" }, { "id": "switch_to_nonsexual_closeness", "text": "Switch to nonsexual closeness" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_026", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which after-intimacy moment sounds best?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "aftercare", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cuddling_quietly", "text": "Cuddling quietly" }, { "id": "talking_and_laughing", "text": "Talking and laughing" }, { "id": "getting_water_or_a_snack", "text": "Getting water or a snack" }, { "id": "a_little_space_to_settle", "text": "A little space to settle" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_027", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How long do you usually want aftercare to last?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "aftercare", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_few_minutes", "text": "A few minutes" }, { "id": "until_we_fall_asleep", "text": "Until we fall asleep" }, { "id": "until_i_feel_settled", "text": "Until I feel settled" }, { "id": "it_changes_each_time", "text": "It changes each time" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_028", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of affection feels good after you say no?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ "consent", "reassurance", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_reassuring_hug", "text": "A reassuring hug" }, { "id": "a_kiss_with_no_agenda", "text": "A kiss with no agenda" }, { "id": "kind_words", "text": "Kind words" }, { "id": "space_without_hurt_feelings", "text": "Space without hurt feelings" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_029", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes turning down initiation feel safest?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ "consent", "boundaries", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_guilt_afterward", "text": "No guilt afterward" }, { "id": "a_warm_response", "text": "A warm response" }, { "id": "no_repeated_asking", "text": "No repeated asking" }, { "id": "an_easy_change_of_plans", "text": "An easy change of plans" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_030", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How do you feel about surprise affection that might become more?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "spontaneity", "boundaries", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_enjoy_the_possibility", "text": "I enjoy the possibility" }, { "id": "only_with_a_check_in", "text": "Only with a check-in" }, { "id": "only_when_i_am_relaxed", "text": "Only when I am relaxed" }, { "id": "keep_surprises_nonsexual", "text": "Keep surprises nonsexual" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_031", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of build-up deserves more time?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "build_up", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "kissing", "text": "Kissing" }, { "id": "massage", "text": "Massage" }, { "id": "cuddling", "text": "Cuddling" }, { "id": "slow_full_body_affection", "text": "Slow full-body affection" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_032", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is most likely to shut down your desire?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "turn_offs", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "feeling_rushed", "text": "Feeling rushed" }, { "id": "bad_timing", "text": "Bad timing" }, { "id": "skipping_affection", "text": "Skipping affection" }, { "id": "not_enough_privacy", "text": "Not enough privacy" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_033", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How do you feel about flirting before you are alone?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "anticipation", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "it_builds_great_tension", "text": "It builds great tension" }, { "id": "only_if_it_stays_subtle", "text": "Only if it stays subtle" }, { "id": "depends_where_we_are", "text": "Depends where we are" }, { "id": "i_prefer_to_wait", "text": "I prefer to wait" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_034", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of anticipation works best for you?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "anticipation", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "flirty_messages", "text": "Flirty messages" }, { "id": "knowing_looks", "text": "Knowing looks" }, { "id": "small_private_touches", "text": "Small private touches" }, { "id": "knowing_there_is_a_plan", "text": "Knowing there is a plan" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_035", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps you feel free to be a little silly?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "playfulness", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "trusting_i_will_not_be_judged", "text": "Trusting I will not be judged" }, { "id": "knowing_laughter_is_welcome", "text": "Knowing laughter is welcome" }, { "id": "having_plenty_of_privacy", "text": "Having plenty of privacy" }, { "id": "starting_with_something_familiar", "text": "Starting with something familiar" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_036", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How would you like to be invited tonight?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "invitation", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_direct_question", "text": "A direct question" }, { "id": "a_lingering_kiss_then_ask", "text": "A lingering kiss, then ask" }, { "id": "a_playful_message_first", "text": "A playful message first" }, { "id": "let_me_make_the_first_move", "text": "Let me make the first move" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_037", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which phrase best communicates that you are unsure?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ "communication", "consent", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "i_need_a_minute", "text": "I need a minute" }, { "id": "maybe_but_go_slowly", "text": "Maybe, but go slowly" }, { "id": "can_we_check_in_first", "text": "Can we check in first?" }, { "id": "i_am_not_ready_to_decide", "text": "I am not ready to decide" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_038", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What role should laughter play during intimacy?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "humor", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_lot_it_keeps_things_fun", "text": "A lot—it keeps things fun" }, { "id": "a_little_when_it_happens", "text": "A little, when it happens" }, { "id": "only_after_awkward_moments", "text": "Only after awkward moments" }, { "id": "i_prefer_a_more_serious_mood", "text": "I prefer a more serious mood" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_039", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes a private moment feel most like us?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "connection", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "our_inside_jokes", "text": "Our inside jokes" }, { "id": "a_familiar_ritual", "text": "A familiar ritual" }, { "id": "trying_something_we_chose_together", "text": "Trying something we chose together" }, { "id": "being_completely_unhurried", "text": "Being completely unhurried" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_040", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of pursuit feels most flattering?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "pursuit", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "clear_and_direct", "text": "Clear and direct" }, { "id": "slow_and_patient", "text": "Slow and patient" }, { "id": "playfully_persistent_after_encouragement", "text": "Playfully persistent after encouragement" }, { "id": "waiting_for_me_to_initiate", "text": "Waiting for me to initiate" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_041", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How should intimate plans usually happen?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "planning", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "planned_in_advance", "text": "Planned in advance" }, { "id": "spontaneous_when_the_mood_hits", "text": "Spontaneous when the mood hits" }, { "id": "a_loose_plan_with_room_to_change", "text": "A loose plan with room to change" }, { "id": "a_mix_depending_on_the_week", "text": "A mix depending on the week" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_042", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When are you naturally most open to intimacy?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "timing", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "morning", "text": "Morning" }, { "id": "afternoon", "text": "Afternoon" }, { "id": "evening", "text": "Evening" }, { "id": "it_varies_completely", "text": "It varies completely" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_043", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps you switch from daily stress into desire?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "transition", "stress", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_shower", "text": "A shower" }, { "id": "quiet_time_alone", "text": "Quiet time alone" }, { "id": "affection_without_expectation", "text": "Affection without expectation" }, { "id": "flirting_that_starts_slowly", "text": "Flirting that starts slowly" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_044", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which nonsexual affection makes the best beginning?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "affection", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_long_hug", "text": "A long hug" }, { "id": "cuddling_close", "text": "Cuddling close" }, { "id": "a_shoulder_massage", "text": "A shoulder massage" }, { "id": "holding_hands_and_talking", "text": "Holding hands and talking" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_045", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How do quick intimate moments usually sound to you?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "quick_intimacy", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "exciting_when_spontaneous", "text": "Exciting when spontaneous" }, { "id": "good_only_when_planned", "text": "Good only when planned" }, { "id": "fine_if_we_still_connect", "text": "Fine if we still connect" }, { "id": "usually_not_my_preference", "text": "Usually not my preference" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_046", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What would make a short private moment actually work?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "quick_intimacy", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "guaranteed_privacy", "text": "Guaranteed privacy" }, { "id": "a_clear_mutual_yes", "text": "A clear mutual yes" }, { "id": "no_pressure_to_perform", "text": "No pressure to perform" }, { "id": "time_to_reconnect_afterward", "text": "Time to reconnect afterward" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_047", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What protects your desire after an exhausting day?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "energy", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_little_recovery_time", "text": "A little recovery time" }, { "id": "help_clearing_mental_clutter", "text": "Help clearing mental clutter" }, { "id": "gentle_affection_first", "text": "Gentle affection first" }, { "id": "knowing_there_is_no_expectation", "text": "Knowing there is no expectation" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_048", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What most helps desire return after a quiet stretch?", "depth": 4, "access": "free", "tags": [ "desire_changes", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "low_pressure_closeness", "text": "Low-pressure closeness" }, { "id": "feeling_pursued_again", "text": "Feeling pursued again" }, { "id": "honest_conversation_outside_the_moment", "text": "Honest conversation outside the moment" }, { "id": "a_fresh_shared_experience", "text": "A fresh shared experience" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_049", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps you feel attractive before intimacy starts?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "body_confidence", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_sincere_compliment", "text": "A sincere compliment" }, { "id": "seeing_my_partners_reaction", "text": "Seeing my partner's reaction" }, { "id": "wearing_something_i_love", "text": "Wearing something I love" }, { "id": "feeling_relaxed_in_my_body", "text": "Feeling relaxed in my body" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_050", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which look from your partner would catch your eye fastest?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "appearance", "flirting", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "dressed_up_and_polished", "text": "Dressed up and polished" }, { "id": "casual_and_confident", "text": "Casual and confident" }, { "id": "fresh_from_the_shower", "text": "Fresh from the shower" }, { "id": "something_chosen_just_for_me", "text": "Something chosen just for me" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_051", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of music best fits a private night?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "music", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "slow_and_moody", "text": "Slow and moody" }, { "id": "playful_and_upbeat", "text": "Playful and upbeat" }, { "id": "a_familiar_favorite", "text": "A familiar favorite" }, { "id": "no_music_at_all", "text": "No music at all" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_052", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which lighting helps you feel most comfortable?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "lighting", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "lights_off", "text": "Lights off" }, { "id": "very_low_light", "text": "Very low light" }, { "id": "warm_soft_light", "text": "Warm soft light" }, { "id": "enough_light_to_see_each_other", "text": "Enough light to see each other" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_053", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which scent would add the most to the mood?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "scent", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "fresh_clean_sheets", "text": "Fresh clean sheets" }, { "id": "a_favorite_candle", "text": "A favorite candle" }, { "id": "my_partners_usual_scent", "text": "My partner's usual scent" }, { "id": "no_added_scent", "text": "No added scent" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_054", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What room temperature feels best for getting close?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "comfort", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "cool_with_blankets", "text": "Cool with blankets" }, { "id": "comfortably_warm", "text": "Comfortably warm" }, { "id": "a_little_cooler_than_usual", "text": "A little cooler than usual" }, { "id": "i_barely_notice_temperature", "text": "I barely notice temperature" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_055", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which planned evening would feel genuinely sexy?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "date_setup", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "dinner_followed_by_private_time", "text": "Dinner followed by private time" }, { "id": "a_stay_at_home_date", "text": "A stay-at-home date" }, { "id": "a_night_away", "text": "A night away" }, { "id": "a_surprise_with_an_easy_opt_out", "text": "A surprise with an easy opt-out" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_056", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What change of scenery would feel most exciting?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "novelty", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_hotel_room", "text": "A hotel room" }, { "id": "a_cozy_cabin", "text": "A cozy cabin" }, { "id": "a_different_room_at_home", "text": "A different room at home" }, { "id": "i_prefer_our_usual_space", "text": "I prefer our usual space" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_057", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When does making time for intimacy feel easiest?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "scheduling", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_weekend_morning", "text": "A weekend morning" }, { "id": "an_unhurried_evening", "text": "An unhurried evening" }, { "id": "after_a_date", "text": "After a date" }, { "id": "whenever_we_unexpectedly_get_privacy", "text": "Whenever we unexpectedly get privacy" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_058", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What would make the next morning feel especially good?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "next_morning", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "sleeping_in_together", "text": "Sleeping in together" }, { "id": "breakfast_and_teasing", "text": "Breakfast and teasing" }, { "id": "a_warm_check_in", "text": "A warm check-in" }, { "id": "returning_to_our_day_without_fuss", "text": "Returning to our day without fuss" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_059", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which playful warm-up sounds the most fun?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "games", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_flirty_question_game", "text": "A flirty question game" }, { "id": "choosing_a_song_for_each_other", "text": "Choosing a song for each other" }, { "id": "a_playful_bet", "text": "A playful bet" }, { "id": "trading_three_bold_compliments", "text": "Trading three bold compliments" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_060", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which private dare sounds genuinely fun?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "dare", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "hold_eye_contact_longer", "text": "Hold eye contact longer" }, { "id": "say_what_you_want_out_loud", "text": "Say what you want out loud" }, { "id": "let_your_partner_choose_the_music", "text": "Let your partner choose the music" }, { "id": "share_one_curious_idea", "text": "Share one curious idea" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_061", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How does role-play sound when both people choose it?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "role_play", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "exciting_and_playful", "text": "Exciting and playful" }, { "id": "interesting_with_clear_boundaries", "text": "Interesting with clear boundaries" }, { "id": "only_in_a_very_light_version", "text": "Only in a very light version" }, { "id": "not_appealing_to_me", "text": "Not appealing to me" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_062", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What would make role-play feel comfortable enough to try?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "role_play", "boundaries", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "agreeing_on_the_scene_first", "text": "Agreeing on the scene first" }, { "id": "keeping_it_humorous", "text": "Keeping it humorous" }, { "id": "having_a_stop_phrase", "text": "Having a stop phrase" }, { "id": "knowing_we_can_drop_it_anytime", "text": "Knowing we can drop it anytime" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_063", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What conversation style would make fantasy-sharing easiest?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "fantasy", "communication", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "as_a_playful_hypothetical", "text": "As a playful hypothetical" }, { "id": "in_a_private_message", "text": "In a private message" }, { "id": "during_a_calm_conversation", "text": "During a calm conversation" }, { "id": "i_would_rather_keep_fantasies_private", "text": "I would rather keep fantasies private" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_064", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes sharing a fantasy feel low-pressure?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "fantasy", "safety", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_promise_to_act_on_it", "text": "No promise to act on it" }, { "id": "no_judgment", "text": "No judgment" }, { "id": "permission_to_stay_vague", "text": "Permission to stay vague" }, { "id": "taking_turns_sharing", "text": "Taking turns sharing" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_065", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How do you feel about bringing toys into intimacy?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "toys", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "curious_and_open", "text": "Curious and open" }, { "id": "only_if_we_choose_together", "text": "Only if we choose together" }, { "id": "maybe_after_talking_first", "text": "Maybe after talking first" }, { "id": "not_something_i_want", "text": "Not something I want" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_066", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How should a new toy first enter the conversation?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "toys", "consent", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "shop_for_it_together", "text": "Shop for it together" }, { "id": "mention_it_outside_the_moment", "text": "Mention it outside the moment" }, { "id": "start_with_a_simple_option", "text": "Start with a simple option" }, { "id": "let_me_bring_up_the_idea", "text": "Let me bring up the idea" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_067", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which sensory experiment sounds most appealing?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sensory_play", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_soft_blindfold", "text": "A soft blindfold" }, { "id": "different_textures", "text": "Different textures" }, { "id": "temperature_changes_kept_gentle", "text": "Temperature changes kept gentle" }, { "id": "i_prefer_no_sensory_play", "text": "I prefer no sensory play" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_068", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which reassurance matters most before trying a blindfold?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sensory_play", "trust", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "agreeing_on_every_boundary_first", "text": "Agreeing on every boundary first" }, { "id": "keeping_one_hand_connected", "text": "Keeping one hand connected" }, { "id": "frequent_verbal_check_ins", "text": "Frequent verbal check-ins" }, { "id": "being_able_to_remove_it_myself", "text": "Being able to remove it myself" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_069", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which power dynamic sounds most natural to you?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "power", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "one_person_leads_gently", "text": "One person leads gently" }, { "id": "one_person_leads_confidently", "text": "One person leads confidently" }, { "id": "we_switch_back_and_forth", "text": "We switch back and forth" }, { "id": "neither_person_takes_control", "text": "Neither person takes control" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_070", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How would you like leadership to change during intimacy?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "power", "roles", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "switch_when_the_mood_shifts", "text": "Switch when the mood shifts" }, { "id": "take_turns_by_agreement", "text": "Take turns by agreement" }, { "id": "let_one_person_lead_throughout", "text": "Let one person lead throughout" }, { "id": "keep_everything_fully_shared", "text": "Keep everything fully shared" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_071", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How do you feel about consensual roughness?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "roughness", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "interested_within_clear_limits", "text": "Interested within clear limits" }, { "id": "only_mildly_and_occasionally", "text": "Only mildly and occasionally" }, { "id": "curious_after_a_detailed_talk", "text": "Curious after a detailed talk" }, { "id": "i_would_rather_skip_it", "text": "I would rather skip it" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_072", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which check-in makes intensity easiest to adjust?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "intensity", "feedback", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "ask_for_a_number_from_one_to_five", "text": "Ask for a number from one to five" }, { "id": "use_softer_or_stronger", "text": "Use softer or stronger" }, { "id": "pause_and_ask_directly", "text": "Pause and ask directly" }, { "id": "let_me_guide_with_my_hands", "text": "Let me guide with my hands" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_073", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is your reaction to pet names in private?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "pet_names", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "very_sexy", "text": "Very sexy" }, { "id": "sweet_more_than_sexy", "text": "Sweet more than sexy" }, { "id": "only_certain_names_work", "text": "Only certain names work" }, { "id": "i_prefer_my_actual_name", "text": "I prefer my actual name" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_074", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of name sounds best in the moment?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "names", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "my_usual_nickname", "text": "My usual nickname" }, { "id": "a_private_pet_name", "text": "A private pet name" }, { "id": "my_full_first_name", "text": "My full first name" }, { "id": "no_name_at_all", "text": "No name at all" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_075", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which discreet public flirt would make you smirk?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "public_flirting", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_knowing_look", "text": "A knowing look" }, { "id": "a_hand_at_my_lower_back", "text": "A hand at my lower back" }, { "id": "a_private_whisper", "text": "A private whisper" }, { "id": "a_message_only_i_can_see", "text": "A message only I can see" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_076", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which public-flirting limit would help you relax most?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "public_flirting", "boundaries", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "keep_it_invisible_to_others", "text": "Keep it invisible to others" }, { "id": "no_sexual_touching", "text": "No sexual touching" }, { "id": "no_private_details_aloud", "text": "No private details aloud" }, { "id": "ask_before_trying_anything_new", "text": "Ask before trying anything new" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_077", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What keeps flirty messages feeling private and fun?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "digital_privacy", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "no_messages_on_shared_screens", "text": "No messages on shared screens" }, { "id": "use_harmless_code_words", "text": "Use harmless code words" }, { "id": "ask_before_sending_anything_bold", "text": "Ask before sending anything bold" }, { "id": "agree_what_gets_saved", "text": "Agree what gets saved" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_078", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How do intimate photos fit into your comfort zone?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "photos", "privacy", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "comfortable_when_we_both_agree", "text": "Comfortable when we both agree" }, { "id": "only_non_explicit_photos", "text": "Only non-explicit photos" }, { "id": "only_photos_kept_on_one_device", "text": "Only photos kept on one device" }, { "id": "they_do_not_fit_my_comfort_zone", "text": "They do not fit my comfort zone" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_079", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What would make sharing a private photo feel safest?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "photos", "consent", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "asking_before_every_photo", "text": "Asking before every photo" }, { "id": "agreeing_where_it_is_stored", "text": "Agreeing where it is stored" }, { "id": "never_showing_anyone_else", "text": "Never showing anyone else" }, { "id": "deleting_it_whenever_requested", "text": "Deleting it whenever requested" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_080", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which new idea would need the most advance discussion for you?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "new_experiences", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "trying_a_new_role", "text": "Trying a new role" }, { "id": "adding_a_toy", "text": "Adding a toy" }, { "id": "increasing_intensity", "text": "Increasing intensity" }, { "id": "recording_anything", "text": "Recording anything" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_081", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which feedback phrase would be easiest to say aloud?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "feedback", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_little_softer", "text": "A little softer" }, { "id": "keep_doing_that", "text": "Keep doing that" }, { "id": "slower_please", "text": "Slower, please" }, { "id": "i_want_something_different", "text": "I want something different" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_082", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which physical cue should your partner learn to read?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "body_cues", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "pulling_closer", "text": "Pulling closer" }, { "id": "becoming_still", "text": "Becoming still" }, { "id": "changing_my_breathing", "text": "Changing my breathing" }, { "id": "guiding_their_hand", "text": "Guiding their hand" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_083", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When should your partner check in about pace?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "check_ins", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "whenever_something_changes", "text": "Whenever something changes" }, { "id": "when_my_body_language_shifts", "text": "When my body language shifts" }, { "id": "at_a_few_natural_pauses", "text": "At a few natural pauses" }, { "id": "only_when_i_ask", "text": "Only when I ask" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_084", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should happen if you change your mind midway?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "changing_mind", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "stop_without_debate", "text": "Stop without debate" }, { "id": "ask_what_i_want_now", "text": "Ask what I want now" }, { "id": "switch_to_nonsexual_touch", "text": "Switch to nonsexual touch" }, { "id": "give_me_space", "text": "Give me space" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_085", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What response makes a clear stop feel fully respected?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "stop", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "immediate_stillness", "text": "Immediate stillness" }, { "id": "a_calm_verbal_acknowledgment", "text": "A calm verbal acknowledgment" }, { "id": "no_questions_until_later", "text": "No questions until later" }, { "id": "reassurance_without_pressure", "text": "Reassurance without pressure" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_086", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps most when an intimate moment turns awkward?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "awkward_moments", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "laugh_together", "text": "Laugh together" }, { "id": "pause_and_reset", "text": "Pause and reset" }, { "id": "talk_about_it_gently", "text": "Talk about it gently" }, { "id": "cuddle_and_move_on", "text": "Cuddle and move on" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_087", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps you stay confident in your body during intimacy?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "body_confidence", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "warm_lighting", "text": "Warm lighting" }, { "id": "enthusiastic_attention", "text": "Enthusiastic attention" }, { "id": "no_critical_comments", "text": "No critical comments" }, { "id": "freedom_to_choose_what_stays_covered", "text": "Freedom to choose what stays covered" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_088", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How do you like your partner to admire you?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "admiration", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "say_exactly_what_they_notice", "text": "Say exactly what they notice" }, { "id": "look_without_saying_much", "text": "Look without saying much" }, { "id": "touch_me_while_complimenting_me", "text": "Touch me while complimenting me" }, { "id": "save_the_praise_for_afterward", "text": "Save the praise for afterward" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_089", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which way of guiding your partner feels most natural?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "guidance", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "move_their_hand_gently", "text": "Move their hand gently" }, { "id": "say_what_i_want_softly", "text": "Say what I want softly" }, { "id": "give_clear_directions", "text": "Give clear directions" }, { "id": "show_them_another_time", "text": "Show them another time" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_090", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How do you prefer receiving guidance from your partner?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "guidance", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_quiet_suggestion", "text": "A quiet suggestion" }, { "id": "a_direct_request", "text": "A direct request" }, { "id": "their_hand_guiding_mine", "text": "Their hand guiding mine" }, { "id": "a_conversation_before_intimacy", "text": "A conversation before intimacy" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_091", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What removes the most pressure around orgasm?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "orgasm_pressure", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "not_treating_it_as_the_goal", "text": "Not treating it as the goal" }, { "id": "no_pretending", "text": "No pretending" }, { "id": "freedom_to_stop_trying", "text": "Freedom to stop trying" }, { "id": "focusing_on_pleasure_instead", "text": "Focusing on pleasure instead" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_092", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What can make intimacy satisfying without a big finish?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "satisfaction", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "feeling_deeply_connected", "text": "Feeling deeply connected" }, { "id": "lots_of_affectionate_touch", "text": "Lots of affectionate touch" }, { "id": "playful_exploration", "text": "Playful exploration" }, { "id": "ending_whenever_it_feels_right", "text": "Ending whenever it feels right" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_093", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How should we handle nights when our desire levels differ?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "desire_mismatch", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "choose_nonsexual_closeness", "text": "Choose nonsexual closeness" }, { "id": "let_the_interested_partner_ask_once", "text": "Let the interested partner ask once" }, { "id": "make_a_plan_for_another_time", "text": "Make a plan for another time" }, { "id": "give_each_other_space_kindly", "text": "Give each other space kindly" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_094", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What helps you recover after an interruption?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "interruptions", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_few_quiet_minutes", "text": "A few quiet minutes" }, { "id": "start_over_with_kissing", "text": "Start over with kissing" }, { "id": "laugh_and_reset", "text": "Laugh and reset" }, { "id": "save_the_mood_for_later", "text": "Save the mood for later" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_095", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which emotional tone makes intimacy feel richest?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "emotional_tone", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "tender_and_connected", "text": "Tender and connected" }, { "id": "playful_and_carefree", "text": "Playful and carefree" }, { "id": "intense_and_focused", "text": "Intense and focused" }, { "id": "calm_and_reassuring", "text": "Calm and reassuring" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_096", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How would you most like a private moment to wind down?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "ending", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "slow_affectionate_touch", "text": "Slow affectionate touch" }, { "id": "a_final_playful_kiss", "text": "A final playful kiss" }, { "id": "quiet_closeness", "text": "Quiet closeness" }, { "id": "a_clear_goodnight_and_rest", "text": "A clear goodnight and rest" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_097", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What do you usually need before falling asleep afterward?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sleep_after", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "close_cuddling", "text": "Close cuddling" }, { "id": "a_little_conversation", "text": "A little conversation" }, { "id": "water_and_a_bathroom_break", "text": "Water and a bathroom break" }, { "id": "some_personal_space", "text": "Some personal space" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_098", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of next-day check-in feels best?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "next_day", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_sweet_message", "text": "A sweet message" }, { "id": "a_quick_was_that_good_question", "text": "A quick was-that-good question" }, { "id": "a_playful_callback", "text": "A playful callback" }, { "id": "no_formal_check_in_unless_needed", "text": "No formal check-in unless needed" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_099", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When should conversations about sexual frequency happen?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "frequency", "communication", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "during_a_calm_private_talk", "text": "During a calm private talk" }, { "id": "as_part_of_regular_check_ins", "text": "As part of regular check-ins" }, { "id": "only_when_one_of_us_is_unhappy", "text": "Only when one of us is unhappy" }, { "id": "by_focusing_on_quality_not_numbers", "text": "By focusing on quality, not numbers" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_100", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Before trying something unfamiliar, what would give you the most confidence?", "depth": 5, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "new_experiences", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "both_people_sound_genuinely_interested", "text": "Both people sound genuinely interested" }, { "id": "clear_limits_are_agreed", "text": "Clear limits are agreed" }, { "id": "there_is_an_easy_stop_option", "text": "There is an easy stop option" }, { "id": "no_one_feels_rushed", "text": "No one feels rushed" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_101", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which voice tone makes a simple invitation feel irresistible?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "voice", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "low_and_quiet", "text": "Low and quiet" }, { "id": "warm_and_affectionate", "text": "Warm and affectionate" }, { "id": "playful_and_mischievous", "text": "Playful and mischievous" }, { "id": "direct_and_confident", "text": "Direct and confident" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_102", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What signal from across the room feels most exciting?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "signals", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_long_look", "text": "A long look" }, { "id": "a_private_smile", "text": "A private smile" }, { "id": "a_subtle_gesture", "text": "A subtle gesture" }, { "id": "a_message_sent_from_nearby", "text": "A message sent from nearby" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_103", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which anticipation game would you happily play?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "games", "anticipation", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "choose_a_secret_time", "text": "Choose a secret time" }, { "id": "trade_one_tempting_clue", "text": "Trade one tempting clue" }, { "id": "pick_each_others_first_move", "text": "Pick each other's first move" }, { "id": "make_a_playful_promise_for_later", "text": "Make a playful promise for later" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_104", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How much clothing usually helps you feel most confident?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "clothing", "body_confidence", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "dressed_up_at_first", "text": "Dressed up at first" }, { "id": "something_comfortable_and_flattering", "text": "Something comfortable and flattering" }, { "id": "as_little_as_feels_natural", "text": "As little as feels natural" }, { "id": "it_depends_entirely_on_the_day", "text": "It depends entirely on the day" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_105", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How do mirrors affect your comfort during intimacy?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mirrors", "body_confidence", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "they_can_feel_exciting", "text": "They can feel exciting" }, { "id": "only_in_low_light", "text": "Only in low light" }, { "id": "i_usually_ignore_them", "text": "I usually ignore them" }, { "id": "i_prefer_not_to_have_one_visible", "text": "I prefer not to have one visible" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_106", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "How talkative do you like intimate moments to be?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "talking", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "a_lot_of_honest_feedback", "text": "A lot of honest feedback" }, { "id": "a_few_clear_words", "text": "A few clear words" }, { "id": "mostly_playful_sounds_and_reactions", "text": "Mostly playful sounds and reactions" }, { "id": "very_little_talking", "text": "Very little talking" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_107", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of silence feels sexy rather than uncertain?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "silence", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "focused_eye_contact", "text": "Focused eye contact" }, { "id": "relaxed_breathing_together", "text": "Relaxed breathing together" }, { "id": "a_reassuring_touch", "text": "A reassuring touch" }, { "id": "silence_after_a_clear_check_in", "text": "Silence after a clear check-in" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_108", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes a familiar routine feel fresh again?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "variety", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "changing_the_pace", "text": "Changing the pace" }, { "id": "starting_somewhere_unexpected", "text": "Starting somewhere unexpected" }, { "id": "taking_turns_choosing", "text": "Taking turns choosing" }, { "id": "adding_one_jointly_chosen_detail", "text": "Adding one jointly chosen detail" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_109", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of adventure stays inside your comfort zone?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "adventure", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "trying_a_new_mood", "text": "Trying a new mood" }, { "id": "changing_the_setting", "text": "Changing the setting" }, { "id": "exploring_a_shared_curiosity", "text": "Exploring a shared curiosity" }, { "id": "making_the_usual_feel_more_playful", "text": "Making the usual feel more playful" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_110", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "neutral", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which answer would you most hope your partner notices?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "reveal", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "how_i_like_to_be_approached", "text": "How I like to be approached" }, { "id": "what_makes_me_feel_wanted", "text": "What makes me feel wanted" }, { "id": "where_my_boundaries_are", "text": "Where my boundaries are" }, { "id": "what_i_secretly_want_more_of", "text": "What I secretly want more of" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_female_001", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Would receiving a boldly flirty message during the day excite you?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "messages", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "yes", "text": "Yes" }, { "id": "no", "text": "No" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_female_002", "category_id": "sexual_preferences", "sex": "female", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Would you enjoy being pulled closer after giving a clear yes?", "depth": 4, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "initiation", "desire_sync", "paired_preference", "sexual_preferences", "consent_first" ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "yes", "text": "Yes" }, { "id": "no", "text": "No" } ] } }, { "id": "sexual_preferences_female_003", "category_id": 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