{ "category": { "id": "parenting", "display_name": "Parenting", "description": "Questions about parenting as a team, sharing responsibility, guiding children with respect, and protecting the couple relationship through changing family seasons.", "access": "mixed", "icon_name": "family_restroom", "metadata": { "pack_id": "parenting_v3", "content_version": "parenting_v3_final_reviewed_2", "total_questions": 150, "free_questions": 45, "premium_questions": 105, "type_counts": { "multi_choice": 90, "single_choice": 30, "scale": 15, "this_or_that": 10, "written": 5 }, "depth_counts": { "1": 23, "2": 79, "3": 48 }, "review_notes": "Rebuilt from the legacy 250-question template-heavy pack using the importer-aligned human-voice guide.", "final_review": "Additional read-aloud, option-answer, child-privacy, co-parent fairness, safety, natural-language, duplication, and importer-schema review completed." } }, "questions": [ { "id": "parenting_001", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which parts of parenting make us feel most like a team?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "teamwork", "strengths", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_001_o1_backing_each_other_up_calmly", "text": "Backing each other up calmly" }, { "id": "parenting_001_o2_sharing_the_unglamorous_jobs", "text": "Sharing the unglamorous jobs" }, { "id": "parenting_001_o3_laughing_after_a_long_day", "text": "Laughing after a long day" }, { "id": "parenting_001_o4_making_decisions_together", "text": "Making decisions together" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_001_o1_backing_each_other_up_calmly", "text": "Backing each other up calmly" }, { "id": "parenting_001_o2_sharing_the_unglamorous_jobs", "text": "Sharing the unglamorous jobs" }, { "id": "parenting_001_o3_laughing_after_a_long_day", "text": "Laughing after a long day" }, { "id": "parenting_001_o4_making_decisions_together", "text": "Making decisions together" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_002", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is our strongest parenting habit right now?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "strengths", "habits", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_002_o1_keeping_each_other_informed", "text": "Keeping each other informed" }, { "id": "parenting_002_o2_following_through_on_routines", "text": "Following through on routines" }, { "id": "parenting_002_o3_staying_patient_under_pressure", "text": "Staying patient under pressure" }, { "id": "parenting_002_o4_making_room_for_family_fun", "text": "Making room for family fun" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_002_o1_keeping_each_other_informed", "text": "Keeping each other informed" }, { "id": "parenting_002_o2_following_through_on_routines", "text": "Following through on routines" }, { "id": "parenting_002_o3_staying_patient_under_pressure", "text": "Staying patient under pressure" }, { "id": "parenting_002_o4_making_room_for_family_fun", "text": "Making room for family fun" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_003", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What do you most appreciate about the way I parent?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "appreciation", "partner_support", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_003_o1_the_comfort_i_offer", "text": "The comfort I offer" }, { "id": "parenting_003_o2_the_structure_i_bring", "text": "The structure I bring" }, { "id": "parenting_003_o3_the_playfulness_i_add", "text": "The playfulness I add" }, { "id": "parenting_003_o4_the_way_i_notice_details", "text": "The way I notice details" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_003_o1_the_comfort_i_offer", "text": "The comfort I offer" }, { "id": "parenting_003_o2_the_structure_i_bring", "text": "The structure I bring" }, { "id": "parenting_003_o3_the_playfulness_i_add", "text": "The playfulness I add" }, { "id": "parenting_003_o4_the_way_i_notice_details", "text": "The way I notice details" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_004", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which moments show our children that we respect each other?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "modeling", "respect", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_004_o1_speaking_well_of_each_other", "text": "Speaking well of each other" }, { "id": "parenting_004_o2_handling_disagreements_away_from_an_audience", "text": "Disagreeing without putting the children in the middle" }, { "id": "parenting_004_o3_thanking_each_other_for_help", "text": "Thanking each other for help" }, { "id": "parenting_004_o4_keeping_promises_we_make_together", "text": "Keeping promises we make together" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_004_o1_speaking_well_of_each_other", "text": "Speaking well of each other" }, { "id": "parenting_004_o2_handling_disagreements_away_from_an_audience", "text": "Disagreeing without putting the children in the middle" }, { "id": "parenting_004_o3_thanking_each_other_for_help", "text": "Thanking each other for help" }, { "id": "parenting_004_o4_keeping_promises_we_make_together", "text": "Keeping promises we make together" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_005", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", "text": "How much do you feel that we are on the same parenting team?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "teamwork", "alignment", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not much", "max_label": "Very much" } }, { "id": "parenting_006", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Where do our different parenting strengths work well together?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "differences", "teamwork", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_006_o1_one_of_us_plans_while_the_other_adapts", "text": "One of us plans while the other adapts" }, { "id": "parenting_006_o2_one_notices_feelings_while_the_other_spots_logis", "text": "One notices feelings while the other spots logistics" }, { "id": "parenting_006_o3_one_brings_calm_while_the_other_brings_energy", "text": "One brings calm while the other brings energy" }, { "id": "parenting_006_o4_one_starts_the_task_while_the_other_finishes_det", "text": "One starts the task while the other finishes details" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_006_o1_one_of_us_plans_while_the_other_adapts", "text": "One of us plans while the other adapts" }, { "id": "parenting_006_o2_one_notices_feelings_while_the_other_spots_logis", "text": "One notices feelings while the other spots logistics" }, { "id": "parenting_006_o3_one_brings_calm_while_the_other_brings_energy", "text": "One brings calm while the other brings energy" }, { "id": "parenting_006_o4_one_starts_the_task_while_the_other_finishes_det", "text": "One starts the task while the other finishes details" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_007", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Would you rather celebrate a parenting win privately or make a small family event of it?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "celebration", "quick_choice", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_007_o1_celebrate_privately", "text": "Celebrate privately" }, { "id": "parenting_007_o2_make_a_small_family_event_of_it", "text": "Make a small family event of it" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_007_o1_celebrate_privately", "text": "Celebrate privately" }, { "id": "parenting_007_o2_make_a_small_family_event_of_it", "text": "Make a small family event of it" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_008", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us remember that a hard parenting day is not a verdict on us?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "perspective", "stress", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_008_o1_naming_one_thing_that_went_right", "text": "Naming one thing that went right" }, { "id": "parenting_008_o2_keeping_the_evening_expectations_simple", "text": "Keeping the evening expectations simple" }, { "id": "parenting_008_o3_letting_the_day_end_without_a_full_review", "text": "Letting the day end without a full review" }, { "id": "parenting_008_o4_reminding_each_other_that_children_have_hard_day", "text": "Reminding each other that children have hard days too" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_008_o1_naming_one_thing_that_went_right", "text": "Naming one thing that went right" }, { "id": "parenting_008_o2_keeping_the_evening_expectations_simple", "text": "Keeping the evening expectations simple" }, { "id": "parenting_008_o3_letting_the_day_end_without_a_full_review", "text": "Letting the day end without a full review" }, { "id": "parenting_008_o4_reminding_each_other_that_children_have_hard_day", "text": "Reminding each other that children have hard days too" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_009", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which small signs tell you that I value your role as a parent?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "respect", "appreciation", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_009_o1_asking_for_your_view_before_deciding", "text": "Asking for your view before deciding" }, { "id": "parenting_009_o2_not_correcting_you_in_front_of_the_children", "text": "Not correcting you in front of the children" }, { "id": "parenting_009_o3_noticing_the_work_nobody_sees", "text": "Noticing the work nobody sees" }, { "id": "parenting_009_o4_making_room_for_your_way_of_doing_things", "text": "Making room for your way of doing things" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_009_o1_asking_for_your_view_before_deciding", "text": "Asking for your view before deciding" }, { "id": "parenting_009_o2_not_correcting_you_in_front_of_the_children", "text": "Not correcting you in front of the children" }, { "id": "parenting_009_o3_noticing_the_work_nobody_sees", "text": "Noticing the work nobody sees" }, { "id": "parenting_009_o4_making_room_for_your_way_of_doing_things", "text": "Making room for your way of doing things" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_010", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of parenting compliment means the most to you?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "appreciation", "recognition", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_010_o1_you_stayed_patient", "text": "You stayed patient" }, { "id": "parenting_010_o2_you_noticed_what_was_needed", "text": "You noticed what was needed" }, { "id": "parenting_010_o3_you_made_that_easier", "text": "You made that easier" }, { "id": "parenting_010_o4_you_handled_that_with_care", "text": "You handled that with care" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_010_o1_you_stayed_patient", "text": "You stayed patient" }, { "id": "parenting_010_o2_you_noticed_what_was_needed", "text": "You noticed what was needed" }, { "id": "parenting_010_o3_you_made_that_easier", "text": "You made that easier" }, { "id": "parenting_010_o4_you_handled_that_with_care", "text": "You handled that with care" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_011", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would make weekday mornings run more smoothly?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "mornings", "routines", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_011_o1_preparing_a_few_things_the_night_before", "text": "Preparing a few things the night before" }, { "id": "parenting_011_o2_giving_each_person_one_clear_job", "text": "Giving each person one clear job" }, { "id": "parenting_011_o3_building_in_ten_extra_minutes", "text": "Building in ten extra minutes" }, { "id": "parenting_011_o4_dropping_one_nonessential_expectation", "text": "Dropping one nonessential expectation" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_011_o1_preparing_a_few_things_the_night_before", "text": "Preparing a few things the night before" }, { "id": "parenting_011_o2_giving_each_person_one_clear_job", "text": "Giving each person one clear job" }, { "id": "parenting_011_o3_building_in_ten_extra_minutes", "text": "Building in ten extra minutes" }, { "id": "parenting_011_o4_dropping_one_nonessential_expectation", "text": "Dropping one nonessential expectation" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_012", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which daily handoff needs the clearest plan from us?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "routines", "handoffs", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_012_o1_morning_responsibilities", "text": "Morning responsibilities" }, { "id": "parenting_012_o2_after_school_transitions", "text": "After-school transitions" }, { "id": "parenting_012_o3_dinner_and_homework", "text": "Dinner and homework" }, { "id": "parenting_012_o4_bedtime_duties", "text": "Bedtime duties" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_012_o1_morning_responsibilities", "text": "Morning responsibilities" }, { "id": "parenting_012_o2_after_school_transitions", "text": "After-school transitions" }, { "id": "parenting_012_o3_dinner_and_homework", "text": "Dinner and homework" }, { "id": "parenting_012_o4_bedtime_duties", "text": "Bedtime duties" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_013", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which bedtime tasks are easiest to divide ahead of time?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "bedtime", "division_of_labor", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_013_o1_bath_or_shower_support", "text": "Bath or shower support" }, { "id": "parenting_013_o2_clothes_and_supplies_for_tomorrow", "text": "Clothes and supplies for tomorrow" }, { "id": "parenting_013_o3_stories_and_settling_down", "text": "Stories and settling down" }, { "id": "parenting_013_o4_final_checks_around_the_house", "text": "Final checks around the house" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_013_o1_bath_or_shower_support", "text": "Bath or shower support" }, { "id": "parenting_013_o2_clothes_and_supplies_for_tomorrow", "text": "Clothes and supplies for tomorrow" }, { "id": "parenting_013_o3_stories_and_settling_down", "text": "Stories and settling down" }, { "id": "parenting_013_o4_final_checks_around_the_house", "text": "Final checks around the house" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_014", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", "text": "How manageable do our current family routines feel?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "routines", "manageability", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Hard to manage", "max_label": "Very manageable" } }, { "id": "parenting_015", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a parenting handoff feel complete instead of rushed?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "handoffs", "communication", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_015_o1_a_short_update_on_what_happened", "text": "A short update on what happened" }, { "id": "parenting_015_o2_knowing_what_still_needs_attention", "text": "Knowing what still needs attention" }, { "id": "parenting_015_o3_mentioning_any_mood_or_health_changes", "text": "Mentioning any mood or health changes" }, { "id": "parenting_015_o4_confirming_who_is_responsible_next", "text": "Confirming who is responsible next" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_015_o1_a_short_update_on_what_happened", "text": "A short update on what happened" }, { "id": "parenting_015_o2_knowing_what_still_needs_attention", "text": "Knowing what still needs attention" }, { "id": "parenting_015_o3_mentioning_any_mood_or_health_changes", "text": "Mentioning any mood or health changes" }, { "id": "parenting_015_o4_confirming_who_is_responsible_next", "text": "Confirming who is responsible next" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_016", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When plans change suddenly, what helps our family most?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "flexibility", "changes", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_016_o1_one_person_takes_the_lead", "text": "One person takes the lead" }, { "id": "parenting_016_o2_we_make_a_quick_new_plan_together", "text": "We make a quick new plan together" }, { "id": "parenting_016_o3_we_simplify_the_whole_evening", "text": "We simplify the whole evening" }, { "id": "parenting_016_o4_we_explain_the_change_early", "text": "We explain the change early" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_016_o1_one_person_takes_the_lead", "text": "One person takes the lead" }, { "id": "parenting_016_o2_we_make_a_quick_new_plan_together", "text": "We make a quick new plan together" }, { "id": "parenting_016_o3_we_simplify_the_whole_evening", "text": "We simplify the whole evening" }, { "id": "parenting_016_o4_we_explain_the_change_early", "text": "We explain the change early" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_017", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What could we prepare once a week to save daily stress?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "planning", "routines", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_017_o1_a_simple_meal_outline", "text": "A simple meal outline" }, { "id": "parenting_017_o2_a_shared_calendar_check", "text": "A shared calendar check" }, { "id": "parenting_017_o3_clothes_or_bags_for_busy_days", "text": "Clothes or bags for busy days" }, { "id": "parenting_017_o4_a_list_of_upcoming_deadlines", "text": "A list of upcoming deadlines" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_017_o1_a_simple_meal_outline", "text": "A simple meal outline" }, { "id": "parenting_017_o2_a_shared_calendar_check", "text": "A shared calendar check" }, { "id": "parenting_017_o3_clothes_or_bags_for_busy_days", "text": "Clothes or bags for busy days" }, { "id": "parenting_017_o4_a_list_of_upcoming_deadlines", "text": "A list of upcoming deadlines" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_018", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which part of the evening would benefit most from less multitasking?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "evenings", "presence", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_018_o1_dinner_together", "text": "Dinner together" }, { "id": "parenting_018_o2_homework_or_reading", "text": "Homework or reading" }, { "id": "parenting_018_o3_getting_ready_for_bed", "text": "Getting ready for bed" }, { "id": "parenting_018_o4_the_last_few_minutes_before_sleep", "text": "The last few minutes before sleep" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_018_o1_dinner_together", "text": "Dinner together" }, { "id": "parenting_018_o2_homework_or_reading", "text": "Homework or reading" }, { "id": "parenting_018_o3_getting_ready_for_bed", "text": "Getting ready for bed" }, { "id": "parenting_018_o4_the_last_few_minutes_before_sleep", "text": "The last few minutes before sleep" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_019", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which routine deserves to be easier rather than more perfect?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "perfectionism", "routines", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_019_o1_leaving_the_house_on_time", "text": "Leaving the house on time" }, { "id": "parenting_019_o2_keeping_bedrooms_organized", "text": "Keeping bedrooms organized" }, { "id": "parenting_019_o3_getting_everyone_fed", "text": "Getting everyone fed" }, { "id": "parenting_019_o4_finishing_the_bedtime_sequence", "text": "Finishing the bedtime sequence" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_019_o1_leaving_the_house_on_time", "text": "Leaving the house on time" }, { "id": "parenting_019_o2_keeping_bedrooms_organized", "text": "Keeping bedrooms organized" }, { "id": "parenting_019_o3_getting_everyone_fed", "text": "Getting everyone fed" }, { "id": "parenting_019_o4_finishing_the_bedtime_sequence", "text": "Finishing the bedtime sequence" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_020", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is the best signal that one of us needs backup right away?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "backup", "communication", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_020_o1_a_direct_request", "text": "A direct request" }, { "id": "parenting_020_o2_a_brief_code_phrase", "text": "A brief code phrase" }, { "id": "parenting_020_o3_a_message_from_another_room", "text": "A message from another room" }, { "id": "parenting_020_o4_a_clear_handoff_of_the_task", "text": "A clear handoff of the task" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_020_o1_a_direct_request", "text": "A direct request" }, { "id": "parenting_020_o2_a_brief_code_phrase", "text": "A brief code phrase" }, { "id": "parenting_020_o3_a_message_from_another_room", "text": "A message from another room" }, { "id": "parenting_020_o4_a_clear_handoff_of_the_task", "text": "A clear handoff of the task" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_021", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which invisible parenting jobs should we check more often?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "mental_load", "planning", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_021_o1_tracking_school_information", "text": "Tracking school information" }, { "id": "parenting_021_o2_remembering_appointments_and_forms", "text": "Remembering appointments and forms" }, { "id": "parenting_021_o3_planning_clothes_and_supplies", "text": "Planning clothes and supplies" }, { "id": "parenting_021_o4_watching_for_emotional_changes", "text": "Watching for emotional changes" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_021_o1_tracking_school_information", "text": "Tracking school information" }, { "id": "parenting_021_o2_remembering_appointments_and_forms", "text": "Remembering appointments and forms" }, { "id": "parenting_021_o3_planning_clothes_and_supplies", "text": "Planning clothes and supplies" }, { "id": "parenting_021_o4_watching_for_emotional_changes", "text": "Watching for emotional changes" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_022", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What would lighten your parenting load most this week?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "support", "mental_load", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_022_o1_taking_one_task_completely_off_your_list", "text": "Taking one task completely off your list" }, { "id": "parenting_022_o2_making_a_decision_you_have_been_carrying", "text": "Making a decision you have been carrying" }, { "id": "parenting_022_o3_handling_one_difficult_conversation", "text": "Handling one difficult conversation" }, { "id": "parenting_022_o4_protecting_a_real_block_of_rest", "text": "Protecting a real block of rest" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_022_o1_taking_one_task_completely_off_your_list", "text": "Taking one task completely off your list" }, { "id": "parenting_022_o2_making_a_decision_you_have_been_carrying", "text": "Making a decision you have been carrying" }, { "id": "parenting_022_o3_handling_one_difficult_conversation", "text": "Handling one difficult conversation" }, { "id": "parenting_022_o4_protecting_a_real_block_of_rest", "text": "Protecting a real block of rest" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_023", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Where would clearer ownership prevent repeated reminders?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "ownership", "mental_load", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_023_o1_school_messages_and_deadlines", "text": "School messages and deadlines" }, { "id": "parenting_023_o2_medical_and_dental_scheduling", "text": "Medical and dental scheduling" }, { "id": "parenting_023_o3_activity_transportation", "text": "Activity transportation" }, { "id": "parenting_023_o4_household_supplies_for_the_children", "text": "Household supplies for the children" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_023_o1_school_messages_and_deadlines", "text": "School messages and deadlines" }, { "id": "parenting_023_o2_medical_and_dental_scheduling", "text": "Medical and dental scheduling" }, { "id": "parenting_023_o3_activity_transportation", "text": "Activity transportation" }, { "id": "parenting_023_o4_household_supplies_for_the_children", "text": "Household supplies for the children" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_024", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps you trust that a parenting task is truly handled?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "follow_through", "trust", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_024_o1_a_clear_owner_from_the_start", "text": "A clear owner from the start" }, { "id": "parenting_024_o2_a_deadline_that_both_of_us_know", "text": "A deadline that both of us know" }, { "id": "parenting_024_o3_a_quick_update_when_it_is_finished", "text": "A quick update when it is finished" }, { "id": "parenting_024_o4_no_need_for_repeated_checking", "text": "No need for repeated checking" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_024_o1_a_clear_owner_from_the_start", "text": "A clear owner from the start" }, { "id": "parenting_024_o2_a_deadline_that_both_of_us_know", "text": "A deadline that both of us know" }, { "id": "parenting_024_o3_a_quick_update_when_it_is_finished", "text": "A quick update when it is finished" }, { "id": "parenting_024_o4_no_need_for_repeated_checking", "text": "No need for repeated checking" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_025", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", "text": "How fairly does the unseen planning work feel divided right now?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "fairness", "mental_load", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very uneven", "max_label": "Very fair" } }, { "id": "parenting_026", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes shared planning feel collaborative instead of like another meeting?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "planning", "collaboration", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_026_o1_keeping_it_under_fifteen_minutes", "text": "Keeping it under fifteen minutes" }, { "id": "parenting_026_o2_using_one_shared_list", "text": "Using one shared list" }, { "id": "parenting_026_o3_deciding_only_what_is_urgent", "text": "Deciding only what is urgent" }, { "id": "parenting_026_o4_ending_with_clear_owners", "text": "Ending with clear owners" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_026_o1_keeping_it_under_fifteen_minutes", "text": "Keeping it under fifteen minutes" }, { "id": "parenting_026_o2_using_one_shared_list", "text": "Using one shared list" }, { "id": "parenting_026_o3_deciding_only_what_is_urgent", "text": "Deciding only what is urgent" }, { "id": "parenting_026_o4_ending_with_clear_owners", "text": "Ending with clear owners" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_027", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of help feels most useful when you are overloaded?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "support", "overload", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_027_o1_taking_over_without_a_long_discussion", "text": "Taking over without a long discussion" }, { "id": "parenting_027_o2_asking_which_task_matters_most", "text": "Asking which task matters most" }, { "id": "parenting_027_o3_managing_the_children_for_a_while", "text": "Managing the children for a while" }, { "id": "parenting_027_o4_handling_the_next_decision", "text": "Handling the next decision" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_027_o1_taking_over_without_a_long_discussion", "text": "Taking over without a long discussion" }, { "id": "parenting_027_o2_asking_which_task_matters_most", "text": "Asking which task matters most" }, { "id": "parenting_027_o3_managing_the_children_for_a_while", "text": "Managing the children for a while" }, { "id": "parenting_027_o4_handling_the_next_decision", "text": "Handling the next decision" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_028", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs suggest one of us is carrying too much parenting responsibility?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "burnout", "mental_load", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_028_o1_frequent_resentment_over_small_tasks", "text": "Frequent resentment over small tasks" }, { "id": "parenting_028_o2_no_uninterrupted_personal_time", "text": "No uninterrupted personal time" }, { "id": "parenting_028_o3_needing_to_supervise_every_detail", "text": "Needing to supervise every detail" }, { "id": "parenting_028_o4_feeling_anxious_when_the_other_person_takes_over", "text": "Feeling anxious when the other person takes over" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_028_o1_frequent_resentment_over_small_tasks", "text": "Frequent resentment over small tasks" }, { "id": "parenting_028_o2_no_uninterrupted_personal_time", "text": "No uninterrupted personal time" }, { "id": "parenting_028_o3_needing_to_supervise_every_detail", "text": "Needing to supervise every detail" }, { "id": "parenting_028_o4_feeling_anxious_when_the_other_person_takes_over", "text": "Feeling anxious when the other person takes over" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_029", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can we make room for each parent to rest without keeping score?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "rest", "fairness", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_029_o1_planning_rest_before_exhaustion_hits", "text": "Planning rest before exhaustion hits" }, { "id": "parenting_029_o2_taking_turns_based_on_current_capacity", "text": "Taking turns based on current capacity" }, { "id": "parenting_029_o3_counting_recovery_time_as_real_work", "text": "Counting recovery time as real work" }, { "id": "parenting_029_o4_revisiting_the_plan_when_life_changes", "text": "Revisiting the plan when life changes" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_029_o1_planning_rest_before_exhaustion_hits", "text": "Planning rest before exhaustion hits" }, { "id": "parenting_029_o2_taking_turns_based_on_current_capacity", "text": "Taking turns based on current capacity" }, { "id": "parenting_029_o3_counting_recovery_time_as_real_work", "text": "Counting recovery time as real work" }, { "id": "parenting_029_o4_revisiting_the_plan_when_life_changes", "text": "Revisiting the plan when life changes" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_030", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is one responsibility that works better with a primary owner?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "ownership", "responsibilities", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_030_o1_school_communication", "text": "School communication" }, { "id": "parenting_030_o2_health_appointments", "text": "Health appointments" }, { "id": "parenting_030_o3_activity_scheduling", "text": "Activity scheduling" }, { "id": "parenting_030_o4_clothing_and_supply_needs", "text": "Clothing and supply needs" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_030_o1_school_communication", "text": "School communication" }, { "id": "parenting_030_o2_health_appointments", "text": "Health appointments" }, { "id": "parenting_030_o3_activity_scheduling", "text": "Activity scheduling" }, { "id": "parenting_030_o4_clothing_and_supply_needs", "text": "Clothing and supply needs" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_031", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What kind of family time usually leaves everyone in a better mood?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "family_fun", "connection", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_031_o1_a_low_key_meal_together", "text": "A low-key meal together" }, { "id": "parenting_031_o2_a_short_trip_outside", "text": "A short trip outside" }, { "id": "parenting_031_o3_a_game_with_simple_rules", "text": "A game with simple rules" }, { "id": "parenting_031_o4_a_familiar_movie_night", "text": "A familiar movie night" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_031_o1_a_low_key_meal_together", "text": "A low-key meal together" }, { "id": "parenting_031_o2_a_short_trip_outside", "text": "A short trip outside" }, { "id": "parenting_031_o3_a_game_with_simple_rules", "text": "A game with simple rules" }, { "id": "parenting_031_o4_a_familiar_movie_night", "text": "A familiar movie night" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_032", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which ordinary moment is easiest for us to turn into family fun?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "playfulness", "daily_life", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_032_o1_the_ride_somewhere", "text": "The ride somewhere" }, { "id": "parenting_032_o2_cleaning_up_after_dinner", "text": "Cleaning up after dinner" }, { "id": "parenting_032_o3_waiting_for_an_appointment", "text": "Waiting for an appointment" }, { "id": "parenting_032_o4_the_pre_bed_wind_down", "text": "The pre-bed wind-down" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_032_o1_the_ride_somewhere", "text": "The ride somewhere" }, { "id": "parenting_032_o2_cleaning_up_after_dinner", "text": "Cleaning up after dinner" }, { "id": "parenting_032_o3_waiting_for_an_appointment", "text": "Waiting for an appointment" }, { "id": "parenting_032_o4_the_pre_bed_wind_down", "text": "The pre-bed wind-down" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_033", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps family outings feel worth the effort?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "outings", "expectations", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_033_o1_keeping_the_plan_short", "text": "Keeping the plan short" }, { "id": "parenting_033_o2_bringing_familiar_snacks", "text": "Bringing familiar snacks" }, { "id": "parenting_033_o3_leaving_before_everyone_is_exhausted", "text": "Leaving before everyone is exhausted" }, { "id": "parenting_033_o4_accepting_that_the_day_may_be_imperfect", "text": "Accepting that the day may be imperfect" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_033_o1_keeping_the_plan_short", "text": "Keeping the plan short" }, { "id": "parenting_033_o2_bringing_familiar_snacks", "text": "Bringing familiar snacks" }, { "id": "parenting_033_o3_leaving_before_everyone_is_exhausted", "text": "Leaving before everyone is exhausted" }, { "id": "parenting_033_o4_accepting_that_the_day_may_be_imperfect", "text": "Accepting that the day may be imperfect" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_034", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which traditions feel simple enough to keep during busy years?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "traditions", "family_identity", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_034_o1_a_favorite_birthday_breakfast", "text": "A favorite birthday breakfast" }, { "id": "parenting_034_o2_one_seasonal_outing", "text": "One seasonal outing" }, { "id": "parenting_034_o3_a_weekly_meal_everyone_knows", "text": "A weekly meal everyone knows" }, { "id": "parenting_034_o4_a_small_holiday_ritual_at_home", "text": "A small holiday ritual at home" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_034_o1_a_favorite_birthday_breakfast", "text": "A favorite birthday breakfast" }, { "id": "parenting_034_o2_one_seasonal_outing", "text": "One seasonal outing" }, { "id": "parenting_034_o3_a_weekly_meal_everyone_knows", "text": "A weekly meal everyone knows" }, { "id": "parenting_034_o4_a_small_holiday_ritual_at_home", "text": "A small holiday ritual at home" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_035", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", "text": "How much playful energy does our family have lately?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "playfulness", "family_climate", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very little", "max_label": "A lot" } }, { "id": "parenting_036", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which approaches let children help plan without turning every choice into a debate?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "family_decisions", "participation", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_036_o1_offer_two_realistic_options", "text": "Offer two realistic options" }, { "id": "parenting_036_o2_let_one_child_choose_on_a_rotating_basis", "text": "Let one child choose on a rotating basis" }, { "id": "parenting_036_o3_separate_adult_decisions_from_family_choices", "text": "Separate adult decisions from family choices" }, { "id": "parenting_036_o4_explain_the_limit_before_asking_for_input", "text": "Explain the limit before asking for input" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_036_o1_offer_two_realistic_options", "text": "Offer two realistic options" }, { "id": "parenting_036_o2_let_one_child_choose_on_a_rotating_basis", "text": "Let one child choose on a rotating basis" }, { "id": "parenting_036_o3_separate_adult_decisions_from_family_choices", "text": "Separate adult decisions from family choices" }, { "id": "parenting_036_o4_explain_the_limit_before_asking_for_input", "text": "Explain the limit before asking for input" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_037", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "For family time, would you rather repeat a favorite or try something new?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "family_fun", "quick_choice", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_037_o1_repeat_a_favorite", "text": "Repeat a favorite" }, { "id": "parenting_037_o2_try_something_new", "text": "Try something new" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_037_o1_repeat_a_favorite", "text": "Repeat a favorite" }, { "id": "parenting_037_o2_try_something_new", "text": "Try something new" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_038", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us enjoy family time instead of managing every second?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "presence", "family_fun", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_038_o1_choosing_an_activity_with_loose_structure", "text": "Choosing an activity with loose structure" }, { "id": "parenting_038_o2_sharing_supervision_rather_than_shadowing", "text": "Sharing supervision rather than shadowing" }, { "id": "parenting_038_o3_letting_small_messes_wait", "text": "Letting small messes wait" }, { "id": "parenting_038_o4_keeping_phones_available_but_not_central", "text": "Keeping phones available but not central" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_038_o1_choosing_an_activity_with_loose_structure", "text": "Choosing an activity with loose structure" }, { "id": "parenting_038_o2_sharing_supervision_rather_than_shadowing", "text": "Sharing supervision rather than shadowing" }, { "id": "parenting_038_o3_letting_small_messes_wait", "text": "Letting small messes wait" }, { "id": "parenting_038_o4_keeping_phones_available_but_not_central", "text": "Keeping phones available but not central" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_039", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which low-cost family moments are most likely to happen again?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "budget_friendly", "family_fun", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_039_o1_a_picnic_with_food_from_home", "text": "A picnic with food from home" }, { "id": "parenting_039_o2_music_while_everyone_helps_cook", "text": "Music while everyone helps cook" }, { "id": "parenting_039_o3_a_neighborhood_walk_with_one_destination", "text": "A neighborhood walk with one destination" }, { "id": "parenting_039_o4_blankets_and_stories_in_the_living_room", "text": "Blankets and stories in the living room" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_039_o1_a_picnic_with_food_from_home", "text": "A picnic with food from home" }, { "id": "parenting_039_o2_music_while_everyone_helps_cook", "text": "Music while everyone helps cook" }, { "id": "parenting_039_o3_a_neighborhood_walk_with_one_destination", "text": "A neighborhood walk with one destination" }, { "id": "parenting_039_o4_blankets_and_stories_in_the_living_room", "text": "Blankets and stories in the living room" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_040", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What makes a family memory feel special to you?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "memories", "connection", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_040_o1_everyone_laughing_together", "text": "Everyone laughing together" }, { "id": "parenting_040_o2_a_child_trying_something_new", "text": "A child trying something new" }, { "id": "parenting_040_o3_a_calm_moment_in_an_ordinary_day", "text": "A calm moment in an ordinary day" }, { "id": "parenting_040_o4_a_tradition_returning_each_year", "text": "A tradition returning each year" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_040_o1_everyone_laughing_together", "text": "Everyone laughing together" }, { "id": "parenting_040_o2_a_child_trying_something_new", "text": "A child trying something new" }, { "id": "parenting_040_o3_a_calm_moment_in_an_ordinary_day", "text": "A calm moment in an ordinary day" }, { "id": "parenting_040_o4_a_tradition_returning_each_year", "text": "A tradition returning each year" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_041", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which habits help us make a quick parenting decision without undermining each other?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "decisions", "unity", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_041_o1_one_person_handles_the_immediate_moment", "text": "One person handles the immediate moment" }, { "id": "parenting_041_o2_we_use_a_rule_already_agreed_on", "text": "We use a rule already agreed on" }, { "id": "parenting_041_o3_we_postpone_the_nonurgent_part", "text": "We postpone the nonurgent part" }, { "id": "parenting_041_o4_we_discuss_differences_privately_later", "text": "We discuss differences privately later" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_041_o1_one_person_handles_the_immediate_moment", "text": "One person handles the immediate moment" }, { "id": "parenting_041_o2_we_use_a_rule_already_agreed_on", "text": "We use a rule already agreed on" }, { "id": "parenting_041_o3_we_postpone_the_nonurgent_part", "text": "We postpone the nonurgent part" }, { "id": "parenting_041_o4_we_discuss_differences_privately_later", "text": "We discuss differences privately later" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_042", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When one of us gives an answer the other questions, what should happen first?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "consistency", "support", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_042_o1_back_the_decision_for_the_moment", "text": "Ask for a quick private check-in" }, { "id": "parenting_042_o2_ask_one_quiet_clarifying_question", "text": "Keep the disagreement between adults for the moment" }, { "id": "parenting_042_o3_take_the_child_aside_to_explain", "text": "Clarify whether safety or dignity is involved" }, { "id": "parenting_042_o4_pause_the_situation_if_the_answer_seems_unsafe", "text": "Delay the answer if there is time" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_042_o1_back_the_decision_for_the_moment", "text": "Ask for a quick private check-in" }, { "id": "parenting_042_o2_ask_one_quiet_clarifying_question", "text": "Keep the disagreement between adults for the moment" }, { "id": "parenting_042_o3_take_the_child_aside_to_explain", "text": "Clarify whether safety or dignity is involved" }, { "id": "parenting_042_o4_pause_the_situation_if_the_answer_seems_unsafe", "text": "Delay the answer if there is time" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_043", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which phrases help us stay united when we need a minute to decide?", "depth": 1, "access": "free", "tags": [ "communication", "decision_pause", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_043_o1_we_need_a_moment_to_talk", "text": "We need a moment to talk" }, { "id": "parenting_043_o2_we_will_give_you_an_answer_soon", "text": "We will give you an answer soon" }, { "id": "parenting_043_o3_the_answer_is_not_ready_yet", "text": "The answer is not ready yet" }, { "id": "parenting_043_o4_let_us_check_the_plan_first", "text": "Let us check the plan first" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_043_o1_we_need_a_moment_to_talk", "text": "We need a moment to talk" }, { "id": "parenting_043_o2_we_will_give_you_an_answer_soon", "text": "We will give you an answer soon" }, { "id": "parenting_043_o3_the_answer_is_not_ready_yet", "text": "The answer is not ready yet" }, { "id": "parenting_043_o4_let_us_check_the_plan_first", "text": "Let us check the plan first" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_044", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", "text": "How comfortable are you disagreeing with me about parenting in private?", "depth": 2, "access": "free", "tags": [ "communication", "disagreement", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not comfortable", "max_label": "Very comfortable" } }, { "id": "parenting_045", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps a parenting disagreement from turning into a character judgment?", "depth": 3, "access": "free", "tags": [ "disagreement", "respect", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_045_o1_name_the_exact_decision_at_issue", "text": "Name the exact decision at issue" }, { "id": "parenting_045_o2_avoid_words_like_always_and_never", "text": "Avoid words like always and never" }, { "id": "parenting_045_o3_assume_both_of_us_care_about_the_child", "text": "Assume both of us care about the child" }, { "id": "parenting_045_o4_separate_the_outcome_from_the_person", "text": "Separate the outcome from the person" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_045_o1_name_the_exact_decision_at_issue", "text": "Name the exact decision at issue" }, { "id": "parenting_045_o2_avoid_words_like_always_and_never", "text": "Avoid words like always and never" }, { "id": "parenting_045_o3_assume_both_of_us_care_about_the_child", "text": "Assume both of us care about the child" }, { "id": "parenting_045_o4_separate_the_outcome_from_the_person", "text": "Separate the outcome from the person" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_046", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is the fairest way to handle a decision neither of us feels strongly about?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "decisions", "fairness", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_046_o1_take_turns_choosing", "text": "Take turns choosing" }, { "id": "parenting_046_o2_follow_the_simpler_option", "text": "Follow the simpler option" }, { "id": "parenting_046_o3_choose_what_helps_the_child_most_today", "text": "Choose what helps the child most today" }, { "id": "parenting_046_o4_let_the_person_handling_it_decide", "text": "Let the person handling it decide" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_046_o1_take_turns_choosing", "text": "Take turns choosing" }, { "id": "parenting_046_o2_follow_the_simpler_option", "text": "Follow the simpler option" }, { "id": "parenting_046_o3_choose_what_helps_the_child_most_today", "text": "Choose what helps the child most today" }, { "id": "parenting_046_o4_let_the_person_handling_it_decide", "text": "Let the person handling it decide" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_047", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which updates are worth sending during a busy parenting day?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "updates", "communication", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_047_o1_a_meaningful_mood_change", "text": "A meaningful mood change" }, { "id": "parenting_047_o2_a_schedule_problem_that_affects_both_of_us", "text": "A schedule problem that affects both of us" }, { "id": "parenting_047_o3_something_the_child_needs_soon", "text": "Something the child needs soon" }, { "id": "parenting_047_o4_a_decision_that_cannot_wait", "text": "A decision that cannot wait" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_047_o1_a_meaningful_mood_change", "text": "A meaningful mood change" }, { "id": "parenting_047_o2_a_schedule_problem_that_affects_both_of_us", "text": "A schedule problem that affects both of us" }, { "id": "parenting_047_o3_something_the_child_needs_soon", "text": "Something the child needs soon" }, { "id": "parenting_047_o4_a_decision_that_cannot_wait", "text": "A decision that cannot wait" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_048", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "When a parenting issue is not urgent, would you rather talk that night or schedule it?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "timing", "quick_choice", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_048_o1_talk_that_night", "text": "Talk that night" }, { "id": "parenting_048_o2_schedule_it", "text": "Schedule it" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_048_o1_talk_that_night", "text": "Talk that night" }, { "id": "parenting_048_o2_schedule_it", "text": "Schedule it" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_049", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which parenting conversations deserve our full attention?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "communication", "priority", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_049_o1_a_major_rule_change", "text": "A major rule change" }, { "id": "parenting_049_o2_a_concern_about_a_child_s_wellbeing", "text": "A concern about a child’s wellbeing" }, { "id": "parenting_049_o3_a_disagreement_that_keeps_returning", "text": "A disagreement that keeps returning" }, { "id": "parenting_049_o4_a_decision_with_long_term_effects", "text": "A decision with long-term effects" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_049_o1_a_major_rule_change", "text": "A major rule change" }, { "id": "parenting_049_o2_a_concern_about_a_child_s_wellbeing", "text": "A concern about a child’s wellbeing" }, { "id": "parenting_049_o3_a_disagreement_that_keeps_returning", "text": "A disagreement that keeps returning" }, { "id": "parenting_049_o4_a_decision_with_long_term_effects", "text": "A decision with long-term effects" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_050", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", "text": "What is one parenting topic you want us to discuss more calmly?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "communication", "reflection", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_051", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which values do you most want our children to learn from daily life?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "values", "modeling", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_051_o1_kindness_without_losing_boundaries", "text": "Kindness without losing boundaries" }, { "id": "parenting_051_o2_responsibility_without_constant_fear", "text": "Responsibility without constant fear" }, { "id": "parenting_051_o3_honesty_that_leaves_room_for_mistakes", "text": "Honesty that leaves room for mistakes" }, { "id": "parenting_051_o4_respect_for_people_who_are_different", "text": "Respect for people who are different" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_051_o1_kindness_without_losing_boundaries", "text": "Kindness without losing boundaries" }, { "id": "parenting_051_o2_responsibility_without_constant_fear", "text": "Responsibility without constant fear" }, { "id": "parenting_051_o3_honesty_that_leaves_room_for_mistakes", "text": "Honesty that leaves room for mistakes" }, { "id": "parenting_051_o4_respect_for_people_who_are_different", "text": "Respect for people who are different" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_052", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What matters most when a parenting choice has no perfect answer?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "values", "decisions", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_052_o1_the_child_s_long_term_wellbeing", "text": "The child’s long-term wellbeing" }, { "id": "parenting_052_o2_what_we_can_consistently_maintain", "text": "What we can consistently maintain" }, { "id": "parenting_052_o3_the_least_harmful_realistic_option", "text": "The least harmful realistic option" }, { "id": "parenting_052_o4_a_choice_we_can_explain_honestly", "text": "A choice we can explain honestly" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_052_o1_the_child_s_long_term_wellbeing", "text": "The child’s long-term wellbeing" }, { "id": "parenting_052_o2_what_we_can_consistently_maintain", "text": "What we can consistently maintain" }, { "id": "parenting_052_o3_the_least_harmful_realistic_option", "text": "The least harmful realistic option" }, { "id": "parenting_052_o4_a_choice_we_can_explain_honestly", "text": "A choice we can explain honestly" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_053", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Where do you most want us to model humility as parents?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "modeling", "humility", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_053_o1_admitting_when_we_were_wrong", "text": "Admitting when we were wrong" }, { "id": "parenting_053_o2_changing_a_rule_that_is_not_working", "text": "Changing a rule that is not working" }, { "id": "parenting_053_o3_apologizing_directly_to_a_child", "text": "Apologizing directly to a child" }, { "id": "parenting_053_o4_asking_for_knowledgeable_help", "text": "Asking for knowledgeable help" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_053_o1_admitting_when_we_were_wrong", "text": "Admitting when we were wrong" }, { "id": "parenting_053_o2_changing_a_rule_that_is_not_working", "text": "Changing a rule that is not working" }, { "id": "parenting_053_o3_apologizing_directly_to_a_child", "text": "Apologizing directly to a child" }, { "id": "parenting_053_o4_asking_for_knowledgeable_help", "text": "Asking for knowledgeable help" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_054", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which lessons are better taught through example than through a speech?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "modeling", "life_lessons", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_054_o1_how_to_apologize_sincerely", "text": "How to apologize sincerely" }, { "id": "parenting_054_o2_how_to_treat_service_workers", "text": "How to treat service workers" }, { "id": "parenting_054_o3_how_to_handle_frustration", "text": "How to handle frustration" }, { "id": "parenting_054_o4_how_to_care_for_shared_spaces", "text": "How to care for shared spaces" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_054_o1_how_to_apologize_sincerely", "text": "How to apologize sincerely" }, { "id": "parenting_054_o2_how_to_treat_service_workers", "text": "How to treat service workers" }, { "id": "parenting_054_o3_how_to_handle_frustration", "text": "How to handle frustration" }, { "id": "parenting_054_o4_how_to_care_for_shared_spaces", "text": "How to care for shared spaces" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_055", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", "text": "How aligned do our core parenting values feel?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "values", "alignment", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Far apart", "max_label": "Closely aligned" } }, { "id": "parenting_056", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should guide us when family values and outside expectations clash?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "values", "outside_pressure", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_056_o1_the_child_s_safety_and_dignity", "text": "The child’s safety and dignity" }, { "id": "parenting_056_o2_our_clearly_discussed_principles", "text": "Our clearly discussed principles" }, { "id": "parenting_056_o3_reliable_information_rather_than_pressure", "text": "Reliable information rather than pressure" }, { "id": "parenting_056_o4_room_for_the_child_s_growing_voice", "text": "Room for the child’s growing voice" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_056_o1_the_child_s_safety_and_dignity", "text": "The child’s safety and dignity" }, { "id": "parenting_056_o2_our_clearly_discussed_principles", "text": "Our clearly discussed principles" }, { "id": "parenting_056_o3_reliable_information_rather_than_pressure", "text": "Reliable information rather than pressure" }, { "id": "parenting_056_o4_room_for_the_child_s_growing_voice", "text": "Room for the child’s growing voice" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_057", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Would you rather be known as a predictable parent or an adaptable parent?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "parenting_style", "quick_choice", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_057_o1_predictable_parent", "text": "Predictable parent" }, { "id": "parenting_057_o2_adaptable_parent", "text": "Adaptable parent" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_057_o1_predictable_parent", "text": "Predictable parent" }, { "id": "parenting_057_o2_adaptable_parent", "text": "Adaptable parent" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_058", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us teach responsibility without expecting adult behavior from a child?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "responsibility", "age_appropriate", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_058_o1_choose_tasks_that_match_ability", "text": "Choose tasks that match ability" }, { "id": "parenting_058_o2_teach_the_skill_before_judging_the_result", "text": "Teach the skill before judging the result" }, { "id": "parenting_058_o3_expect_practice_rather_than_perfection", "text": "Expect practice rather than perfection" }, { "id": "parenting_058_o4_adjust_support_as_the_child_grows", "text": "Adjust support as the child grows" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_058_o1_choose_tasks_that_match_ability", "text": "Choose tasks that match ability" }, { "id": "parenting_058_o2_teach_the_skill_before_judging_the_result", "text": "Teach the skill before judging the result" }, { "id": "parenting_058_o3_expect_practice_rather_than_perfection", "text": "Expect practice rather than perfection" }, { "id": "parenting_058_o4_adjust_support_as_the_child_grows", "text": "Adjust support as the child grows" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_059", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which parts of our own childhood should we examine before repeating them?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "family_of_origin", "reflection", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_059_o1_how_mistakes_were_handled", "text": "How mistakes were handled" }, { "id": "parenting_059_o2_who_was_allowed_to_show_emotion", "text": "Who was allowed to show emotion" }, { "id": "parenting_059_o3_how_rules_were_explained", "text": "How rules were explained" }, { "id": "parenting_059_o4_whether_affection_depended_on_behavior", "text": "Whether affection depended on behavior" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_059_o1_how_mistakes_were_handled", "text": "How mistakes were handled" }, { "id": "parenting_059_o2_who_was_allowed_to_show_emotion", "text": "Who was allowed to show emotion" }, { "id": "parenting_059_o3_how_rules_were_explained", "text": "How rules were explained" }, { "id": "parenting_059_o4_whether_affection_depended_on_behavior", "text": "Whether affection depended on behavior" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_060", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which quality do you most hope our children remember about our home?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "family_culture", "values", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_060_o1_they_felt_safe_asking_questions", "text": "They felt safe asking questions" }, { "id": "parenting_060_o2_people_were_allowed_to_make_mistakes", "text": "People were allowed to make mistakes" }, { "id": "parenting_060_o3_love_was_steady_even_during_limits", "text": "Love was steady even during limits" }, { "id": "parenting_060_o4_everyone_s_voice_mattered", "text": "Everyone’s voice mattered" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_060_o1_they_felt_safe_asking_questions", "text": "They felt safe asking questions" }, { "id": "parenting_060_o2_people_were_allowed_to_make_mistakes", "text": "People were allowed to make mistakes" }, { "id": "parenting_060_o3_love_was_steady_even_during_limits", "text": "Love was steady even during limits" }, { "id": "parenting_060_o4_everyone_s_voice_mattered", "text": "Everyone’s voice mattered" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_061", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes a family rule easier for a child to understand?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rules", "clarity", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_061_o1_the_reason_is_explained_simply", "text": "The reason is explained simply" }, { "id": "parenting_061_o2_the_rule_is_stated_before_the_problem", "text": "The rule is stated before the problem" }, { "id": "parenting_061_o3_both_parents_use_similar_language", "text": "Both parents use similar language" }, { "id": "parenting_061_o4_the_consequence_is_related_to_the_behavior", "text": "The consequence is related to the behavior" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_061_o1_the_reason_is_explained_simply", "text": "The reason is explained simply" }, { "id": "parenting_061_o2_the_rule_is_stated_before_the_problem", "text": "The rule is stated before the problem" }, { "id": "parenting_061_o3_both_parents_use_similar_language", "text": "Both parents use similar language" }, { "id": "parenting_061_o4_the_consequence_is_related_to_the_behavior", "text": "The consequence is related to the behavior" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_062", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which consequences feel most respectful and useful?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consequences", "discipline", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_062_o1_repairing_what_was_damaged", "text": "Repairing what was damaged" }, { "id": "parenting_062_o2_losing_access_directly_tied_to_the_choice", "text": "Losing access directly tied to the choice" }, { "id": "parenting_062_o3_practicing_the_expected_behavior_again", "text": "Practicing the expected behavior again" }, { "id": "parenting_062_o4_taking_a_calm_break_before_trying_again", "text": "Taking a calm break before trying again" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_062_o1_repairing_what_was_damaged", "text": "Repairing what was damaged" }, { "id": "parenting_062_o2_losing_access_directly_tied_to_the_choice", "text": "Losing access directly tied to the choice" }, { "id": "parenting_062_o3_practicing_the_expected_behavior_again", "text": "Practicing the expected behavior again" }, { "id": "parenting_062_o4_taking_a_calm_break_before_trying_again", "text": "Taking a calm break before trying again" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_063", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should come first when a child breaks a rule?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "discipline", "response", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_063_o1_make_sure_everyone_is_safe", "text": "Make sure everyone is safe" }, { "id": "parenting_063_o2_understand_what_happened", "text": "Understand what happened" }, { "id": "parenting_063_o3_state_the_limit_clearly", "text": "State the limit clearly" }, { "id": "parenting_063_o4_choose_a_reasonable_next_step", "text": "Choose a reasonable next step" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_063_o1_make_sure_everyone_is_safe", "text": "Make sure everyone is safe" }, { "id": "parenting_063_o2_understand_what_happened", "text": "Understand what happened" }, { "id": "parenting_063_o3_state_the_limit_clearly", "text": "State the limit clearly" }, { "id": "parenting_063_o4_choose_a_reasonable_next_step", "text": "Choose a reasonable next step" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_064", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps us from correcting each other in front of the children?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "unity", "privacy", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_064_o1_use_a_quiet_signal", "text": "Use a quiet signal" }, { "id": "parenting_064_o2_step_into_another_room_briefly", "text": "Step into another room briefly" }, { "id": "parenting_064_o3_back_the_immediate_safety_limit", "text": "Back the immediate safety limit" }, { "id": "parenting_064_o4_save_preference_differences_for_later", "text": "Save preference differences for later" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_064_o1_use_a_quiet_signal", "text": "Use a quiet signal" }, { "id": "parenting_064_o2_step_into_another_room_briefly", "text": "Step into another room briefly" }, { "id": "parenting_064_o3_back_the_immediate_safety_limit", "text": "Back the immediate safety limit" }, { "id": "parenting_064_o4_save_preference_differences_for_later", "text": "Save preference differences for later" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_065", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs suggest a consequence is too harsh?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consequences", "safety", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_065_o1_it_is_meant_to_embarrass", "text": "It is meant to embarrass" }, { "id": "parenting_065_o2_it_lasts_far_beyond_the_behavior", "text": "It lasts far beyond the behavior" }, { "id": "parenting_065_o3_it_removes_basic_care_or_connection", "text": "It removes basic care or connection" }, { "id": "parenting_065_o4_it_depends_on_adult_anger", "text": "It depends on adult anger" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_065_o1_it_is_meant_to_embarrass", "text": "It is meant to embarrass" }, { "id": "parenting_065_o2_it_lasts_far_beyond_the_behavior", "text": "It lasts far beyond the behavior" }, { "id": "parenting_065_o3_it_removes_basic_care_or_connection", "text": "It removes basic care or connection" }, { "id": "parenting_065_o4_it_depends_on_adult_anger", "text": "It depends on adult anger" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_066", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", "text": "How consistent do our family limits feel from day to day?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consistency", "boundaries", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Very inconsistent", "max_label": "Very consistent" } }, { "id": "parenting_067", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can we hold a boundary without making affection feel conditional?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "boundaries", "connection", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_067_o1_keep_the_limit_and_the_relationship_separate", "text": "Keep the limit and the relationship separate" }, { "id": "parenting_067_o2_use_a_calm_tone_when_possible", "text": "Use a calm tone when possible" }, { "id": "parenting_067_o3_offer_comfort_without_undoing_the_rule", "text": "Offer comfort without undoing the rule" }, { "id": "parenting_067_o4_reconnect_after_emotions_settle", "text": "Reconnect after emotions settle" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_067_o1_keep_the_limit_and_the_relationship_separate", "text": "Keep the limit and the relationship separate" }, { "id": "parenting_067_o2_use_a_calm_tone_when_possible", "text": "Use a calm tone when possible" }, { "id": "parenting_067_o3_offer_comfort_without_undoing_the_rule", "text": "Offer comfort without undoing the rule" }, { "id": "parenting_067_o4_reconnect_after_emotions_settle", "text": "Reconnect after emotions settle" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_068", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which discipline differences deserve an agreement before the next problem?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "discipline", "alignment", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_068_o1_what_behavior_requires_immediate_action", "text": "What behavior requires immediate action" }, { "id": "parenting_068_o2_which_consequences_are_off_limits", "text": "Which consequences are off-limits" }, { "id": "parenting_068_o3_how_long_a_pause_should_last", "text": "How long a pause should last" }, { "id": "parenting_068_o4_when_one_parent_can_decide_alone", "text": "When one parent can decide alone" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_068_o1_what_behavior_requires_immediate_action", "text": "What behavior requires immediate action" }, { "id": "parenting_068_o2_which_consequences_are_off_limits", "text": "Which consequences are off-limits" }, { "id": "parenting_068_o3_how_long_a_pause_should_last", "text": "How long a pause should last" }, { "id": "parenting_068_o4_when_one_parent_can_decide_alone", "text": "When one parent can decide alone" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_069", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "When a rule is challenged, would you rather explain once or invite one question?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rules", "quick_choice", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_069_o1_explain_once", "text": "Explain once" }, { "id": "parenting_069_o2_invite_one_question", "text": "Invite one question" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_069_o1_explain_once", "text": "Explain once" }, { "id": "parenting_069_o2_invite_one_question", "text": "Invite one question" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_070", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a child learn from a mistake without carrying shame?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "mistakes", "shame_free", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_070_o1_focus_on_the_choice_rather_than_identity", "text": "Focus on the choice rather than identity" }, { "id": "parenting_070_o2_make_room_for_a_truthful_explanation", "text": "Make room for a truthful explanation" }, { "id": "parenting_070_o3_offer_a_realistic_way_to_repair_harm", "text": "Offer a realistic way to repair harm" }, { "id": "parenting_070_o4_notice_improvement_when_it_happens", "text": "Notice improvement when it happens" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_070_o1_focus_on_the_choice_rather_than_identity", "text": "Focus on the choice rather than identity" }, { "id": "parenting_070_o2_make_room_for_a_truthful_explanation", "text": "Make room for a truthful explanation" }, { "id": "parenting_070_o3_offer_a_realistic_way_to_repair_harm", "text": "Offer a realistic way to repair harm" }, { "id": "parenting_070_o4_notice_improvement_when_it_happens", "text": "Notice improvement when it happens" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_071", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Before solving the problem, what helps a child feel understood?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "emotions", "listening", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_071_o1_naming_what_we_noticed", "text": "Naming what we noticed" }, { "id": "parenting_071_o2_listening_without_rapid_questions", "text": "Listening without rapid questions" }, { "id": "parenting_071_o3_sitting_nearby_without_forcing_touch", "text": "Sitting nearby without forcing touch" }, { "id": "parenting_071_o4_letting_the_child_correct_our_guess", "text": "Letting the child correct our guess" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_071_o1_naming_what_we_noticed", "text": "Naming what we noticed" }, { "id": "parenting_071_o2_listening_without_rapid_questions", "text": "Listening without rapid questions" }, { "id": "parenting_071_o3_sitting_nearby_without_forcing_touch", "text": "Sitting nearby without forcing touch" }, { "id": "parenting_071_o4_letting_the_child_correct_our_guess", "text": "Letting the child correct our guess" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_072", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When a child is overwhelmed, what should we lower first?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "overwhelm", "support", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_072_o1_the_number_of_instructions", "text": "The number of instructions" }, { "id": "parenting_072_o2_the_volume_in_the_room", "text": "The volume in the room" }, { "id": "parenting_072_o3_the_pressure_to_explain_immediately", "text": "The pressure to explain immediately" }, { "id": "parenting_072_o4_the_demand_for_eye_contact", "text": "The demand for eye contact" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_072_o1_the_number_of_instructions", "text": "The number of instructions" }, { "id": "parenting_072_o2_the_volume_in_the_room", "text": "The volume in the room" }, { "id": "parenting_072_o3_the_pressure_to_explain_immediately", "text": "The pressure to explain immediately" }, { "id": "parenting_072_o4_the_demand_for_eye_contact", "text": "The demand for eye contact" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_073", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which responses help when a child is having a very strong reaction?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "emotions", "regulation", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_073_o1_accept_the_feeling_without_agreeing_with_every_a", "text": "Accept the feeling without agreeing with every action" }, { "id": "parenting_073_o2_keep_the_safety_limit_simple", "text": "Keep the safety limit simple" }, { "id": "parenting_073_o3_wait_before_teaching_the_lesson", "text": "Wait before teaching the lesson" }, { "id": "parenting_073_o4_offer_two_calm_ways_to_reset", "text": "Offer two calm ways to reset" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_073_o1_accept_the_feeling_without_agreeing_with_every_a", "text": "Accept the feeling without agreeing with every action" }, { "id": "parenting_073_o2_keep_the_safety_limit_simple", "text": "Keep the safety limit simple" }, { "id": "parenting_073_o3_wait_before_teaching_the_lesson", "text": "Wait before teaching the lesson" }, { "id": "parenting_073_o4_offer_two_calm_ways_to_reset", "text": "Offer two calm ways to reset" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_074", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which reminders help us avoid taking a child’s difficult behavior personally?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "behavior", "perspective", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_074_o1_remember_that_behavior_can_signal_a_need", "text": "Remember that behavior can signal a need" }, { "id": "parenting_074_o2_check_whether_hunger_or_exhaustion_is_involved", "text": "Check whether hunger or exhaustion is involved" }, { "id": "parenting_074_o3_separate_disrespectful_action_from_personal_reje", "text": "Separate disrespectful action from personal rejection" }, { "id": "parenting_074_o4_ask_what_skill_the_child_may_be_missing", "text": "Ask what skill the child may be missing" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_074_o1_remember_that_behavior_can_signal_a_need", "text": "Remember that behavior can signal a need" }, { "id": "parenting_074_o2_check_whether_hunger_or_exhaustion_is_involved", "text": "Check whether hunger or exhaustion is involved" }, { "id": "parenting_074_o3_separate_disrespectful_action_from_personal_reje", "text": "Separate disrespectful action from personal rejection" }, { "id": "parenting_074_o4_ask_what_skill_the_child_may_be_missing", "text": "Ask what skill the child may be missing" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_075", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", "text": "How confident do you feel helping our children through strong emotions?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "confidence", "emotional_support", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not confident", "max_label": "Very confident" } }, { "id": "parenting_076", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which responses should remain optional for a child?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "consent", "comfort", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_076_o1_hugs_and_physical_affection", "text": "Hugs and physical affection" }, { "id": "parenting_076_o2_talking_before_they_are_ready", "text": "Talking before they are ready" }, { "id": "parenting_076_o3_sitting_close_to_an_adult", "text": "Sitting close to an adult" }, { "id": "parenting_076_o4_sharing_private_feelings", "text": "Sharing private feelings" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_076_o1_hugs_and_physical_affection", "text": "Hugs and physical affection" }, { "id": "parenting_076_o2_talking_before_they_are_ready", "text": "Talking before they are ready" }, { "id": "parenting_076_o3_sitting_close_to_an_adult", "text": "Sitting close to an adult" }, { "id": "parenting_076_o4_sharing_private_feelings", "text": "Sharing private feelings" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_077", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which cue most clearly suggests a child is ready to talk?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "readiness", "communication", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_077_o1_they_begin_the_subject_themselves", "text": "They begin the subject themselves" }, { "id": "parenting_077_o2_their_body_looks_calmer", "text": "Their body looks calmer" }, { "id": "parenting_077_o3_they_ask_for_help_or_company", "text": "They ask for help or company" }, { "id": "parenting_077_o4_they_can_hear_one_question_without_shutting_down", "text": "They can hear one question without shutting down" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_077_o1_they_begin_the_subject_themselves", "text": "They begin the subject themselves" }, { "id": "parenting_077_o2_their_body_looks_calmer", "text": "Their body looks calmer" }, { "id": "parenting_077_o3_they_ask_for_help_or_company", "text": "They ask for help or company" }, { "id": "parenting_077_o4_they_can_hear_one_question_without_shutting_down", "text": "They can hear one question without shutting down" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_078", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can we do when our own patience is nearly gone?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "parent_regulation", "stress", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_078_o1_trade_places_if_possible", "text": "Trade places if possible" }, { "id": "parenting_078_o2_use_fewer_words", "text": "Use fewer words" }, { "id": "parenting_078_o3_make_the_environment_safer_and_simpler", "text": "Make the environment safer and simpler" }, { "id": "parenting_078_o4_take_a_brief_pause_without_abandoning_the_child", "text": "Take a brief pause without abandoning the child" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_078_o1_trade_places_if_possible", "text": "Trade places if possible" }, { "id": "parenting_078_o2_use_fewer_words", "text": "Use fewer words" }, { "id": "parenting_078_o3_make_the_environment_safer_and_simpler", "text": "Make the environment safer and simpler" }, { "id": "parenting_078_o4_take_a_brief_pause_without_abandoning_the_child", "text": "Take a brief pause without abandoning the child" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_079", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which habits help children name emotions without turning every moment into a lesson?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "emotional_language", "daily_life", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_079_o1_use_simple_feeling_words_ourselves", "text": "Use simple feeling words ourselves" }, { "id": "parenting_079_o2_talk_about_characters_in_stories", "text": "Talk about characters in stories" }, { "id": "parenting_079_o3_notice_emotions_after_the_moment_passes", "text": "Notice emotions after the moment passes" }, { "id": "parenting_079_o4_accept_that_sometimes_a_child_just_wants_to_move", "text": "Accept that sometimes a child just wants to move on" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_079_o1_use_simple_feeling_words_ourselves", "text": "Use simple feeling words ourselves" }, { "id": "parenting_079_o2_talk_about_characters_in_stories", "text": "Talk about characters in stories" }, { "id": "parenting_079_o3_notice_emotions_after_the_moment_passes", "text": "Notice emotions after the moment passes" }, { "id": "parenting_079_o4_accept_that_sometimes_a_child_just_wants_to_move", "text": "Accept that sometimes a child just wants to move on" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_080", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", "text": "What is one childhood feeling you want us to handle differently in our family?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "family_of_origin", "emotional_safety", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_081", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What school information should both of us be able to find easily?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "school", "organization", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_081_o1_teacher_contact_details", "text": "Teacher contact details" }, { "id": "parenting_081_o2_important_dates_and_deadlines", "text": "Important dates and deadlines" }, { "id": "parenting_081_o3_current_support_plans", "text": "Current support plans" }, { "id": "parenting_081_o4_transportation_changes", "text": "Transportation changes" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_081_o1_teacher_contact_details", "text": "Teacher contact details" }, { "id": "parenting_081_o2_important_dates_and_deadlines", "text": "Important dates and deadlines" }, { "id": "parenting_081_o3_current_support_plans", "text": "Current support plans" }, { "id": "parenting_081_o4_transportation_changes", "text": "Transportation changes" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_082", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should we consider when choosing an activity for a child?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "activities", "decisions", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_082_o1_the_child_genuinely_wants_to_try_it", "text": "The child genuinely wants to try it" }, { "id": "parenting_082_o2_the_schedule_is_realistic_for_the_family", "text": "The schedule is realistic for the family" }, { "id": "parenting_082_o3_the_cost_fits_without_resentment", "text": "The cost fits without resentment" }, { "id": "parenting_082_o4_the_adults_running_it_seem_trustworthy", "text": "The adults running it seem trustworthy" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_082_o1_the_child_genuinely_wants_to_try_it", "text": "The child genuinely wants to try it" }, { "id": "parenting_082_o2_the_schedule_is_realistic_for_the_family", "text": "The schedule is realistic for the family" }, { "id": "parenting_082_o3_the_cost_fits_without_resentment", "text": "The cost fits without resentment" }, { "id": "parenting_082_o4_the_adults_running_it_seem_trustworthy", "text": "The adults running it seem trustworthy" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_083", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", "text": "How manageable does the current school and activity schedule feel?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "schedule", "school", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Overwhelming", "max_label": "Very manageable" } }, { "id": "parenting_084", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can we support learning without making every grade feel like a crisis?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "school", "learning", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_084_o1_ask_about_effort_and_understanding", "text": "Ask about effort and understanding" }, { "id": "parenting_084_o2_separate_one_result_from_the_child_s_worth", "text": "Separate one result from the child’s worth" }, { "id": "parenting_084_o3_contact_the_school_when_patterns_appear", "text": "Contact the school when patterns appear" }, { "id": "parenting_084_o4_protect_time_for_rest_as_well_as_practice", "text": "Protect time for rest as well as practice" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_084_o1_ask_about_effort_and_understanding", "text": "Ask about effort and understanding" }, { "id": "parenting_084_o2_separate_one_result_from_the_child_s_worth", "text": "Separate one result from the child’s worth" }, { "id": "parenting_084_o3_contact_the_school_when_patterns_appear", "text": "Contact the school when patterns appear" }, { "id": "parenting_084_o4_protect_time_for_rest_as_well_as_practice", "text": "Protect time for rest as well as practice" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_085", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs suggest an activity is taking more than it gives?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "activities", "balance", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_085_o1_regular_dread_before_attending", "text": "Regular dread before attending" }, { "id": "parenting_085_o2_no_room_for_sleep_or_family_time", "text": "No room for sleep or family time" }, { "id": "parenting_085_o3_the_child_wants_to_stop_but_feels_trapped", "text": "The child wants to stop but feels trapped" }, { "id": "parenting_085_o4_the_cost_creates_ongoing_family_strain", "text": "The cost creates ongoing family strain" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_085_o1_regular_dread_before_attending", "text": "Regular dread before attending" }, { "id": "parenting_085_o2_no_room_for_sleep_or_family_time", "text": "No room for sleep or family time" }, { "id": "parenting_085_o3_the_child_wants_to_stop_but_feels_trapped", "text": "The child wants to stop but feels trapped" }, { "id": "parenting_085_o4_the_cost_creates_ongoing_family_strain", "text": "The cost creates ongoing family strain" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_086", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "For schoolwork, would you rather offer a set time or a flexible window?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "schoolwork", "quick_choice", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_086_o1_a_set_time", "text": "A set time" }, { "id": "parenting_086_o2_a_flexible_window", "text": "A flexible window" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_086_o1_a_set_time", "text": "A set time" }, { "id": "parenting_086_o2_a_flexible_window", "text": "A flexible window" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_087", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us communicate with teachers without blaming the child or the school?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "school", "communication", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_087_o1_start_with_specific_observations", "text": "Start with specific observations" }, { "id": "parenting_087_o2_ask_what_has_been_noticed_in_class", "text": "Ask what has been noticed in class" }, { "id": "parenting_087_o3_share_relevant_changes_at_home", "text": "Share relevant changes at home" }, { "id": "parenting_087_o4_agree_on_one_next_step_to_review", "text": "Agree on one next step to review" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_087_o1_start_with_specific_observations", "text": "Start with specific observations" }, { "id": "parenting_087_o2_ask_what_has_been_noticed_in_class", "text": "Ask what has been noticed in class" }, { "id": "parenting_087_o3_share_relevant_changes_at_home", "text": "Share relevant changes at home" }, { "id": "parenting_087_o4_agree_on_one_next_step_to_review", "text": "Agree on one next step to review" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_088", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which learning supports can be useful without becoming punishment?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "learning", "support", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_088_o1_a_quieter_place_to_work", "text": "A quieter place to work" }, { "id": "parenting_088_o2_shorter_practice_blocks", "text": "Shorter practice blocks" }, { "id": "parenting_088_o3_help_breaking_a_task_into_steps", "text": "Help breaking a task into steps" }, { "id": "parenting_088_o4_a_scheduled_check_in_instead_of_hovering", "text": "A scheduled check-in instead of hovering" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_088_o1_a_quieter_place_to_work", "text": "A quieter place to work" }, { "id": "parenting_088_o2_shorter_practice_blocks", "text": "Shorter practice blocks" }, { "id": "parenting_088_o3_help_breaking_a_task_into_steps", "text": "Help breaking a task into steps" }, { "id": "parenting_088_o4_a_scheduled_check_in_instead_of_hovering", "text": "A scheduled check-in instead of hovering" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_089", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "When should a child have more say in an activity decision?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "autonomy", "activities", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_089_o1_when_the_commitment_affects_most_of_their_free_t", "text": "When the commitment affects most of their free time" }, { "id": "parenting_089_o2_when_they_have_tried_it_long_enough_to_know", "text": "When they have tried it long enough to know" }, { "id": "parenting_089_o3_when_the_choice_concerns_their_own_interests", "text": "When the choice concerns their own interests" }, { "id": "parenting_089_o4_when_stopping_would_not_harm_anyone_else", "text": "When the commitment can be adjusted fairly" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_089_o1_when_the_commitment_affects_most_of_their_free_t", "text": "When the commitment affects most of their free time" }, { "id": "parenting_089_o2_when_they_have_tried_it_long_enough_to_know", "text": "When they have tried it long enough to know" }, { "id": "parenting_089_o3_when_the_choice_concerns_their_own_interests", "text": "When the choice concerns their own interests" }, { "id": "parenting_089_o4_when_stopping_would_not_harm_anyone_else", "text": "When the commitment can be adjusted fairly" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_090", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps achievement from becoming the only thing we praise?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "praise", "values", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_090_o1_notice_kindness_and_courage", "text": "Notice kindness and courage" }, { "id": "parenting_090_o2_celebrate_persistence_without_demanding_perfecti", "text": "Celebrate persistence without demanding perfection" }, { "id": "parenting_090_o3_ask_what_the_child_enjoyed_learning", "text": "Ask what the child enjoyed learning" }, { "id": "parenting_090_o4_recognize_rest_and_healthy_limits", "text": "Recognize rest and healthy limits" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_090_o1_notice_kindness_and_courage", "text": "Notice kindness and courage" }, { "id": "parenting_090_o2_celebrate_persistence_without_demanding_perfecti", "text": "Celebrate persistence without demanding perfection" }, { "id": "parenting_090_o3_ask_what_the_child_enjoyed_learning", "text": "Ask what the child enjoyed learning" }, { "id": "parenting_090_o4_recognize_rest_and_healthy_limits", "text": "Recognize rest and healthy limits" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_091", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which health details should both parents know without searching?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "health", "shared_information", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_091_o1_current_medicines_and_allergies", "text": "Current medicines and allergies" }, { "id": "parenting_091_o2_important_provider_contacts", "text": "Important provider contacts" }, { "id": "parenting_091_o3_upcoming_appointments", "text": "Upcoming appointments" }, { "id": "parenting_091_o4_recent_symptoms_that_need_watching", "text": "Recent symptoms that need watching" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_091_o1_current_medicines_and_allergies", "text": "Current medicines and allergies" }, { "id": "parenting_091_o2_important_provider_contacts", "text": "Important provider contacts" }, { "id": "parenting_091_o3_upcoming_appointments", "text": "Upcoming appointments" }, { "id": "parenting_091_o4_recent_symptoms_that_need_watching", "text": "Recent symptoms that need watching" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_092", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is the best way to divide medical appointments?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "appointments", "division_of_labor", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_092_o1_one_person_schedules_and_the_other_attends", "text": "One person schedules and the other attends" }, { "id": "parenting_092_o2_alternate_based_on_availability", "text": "Alternate based on availability" }, { "id": "parenting_092_o3_assign_different_types_of_appointments", "text": "Assign different types of appointments" }, { "id": "parenting_092_o4_decide_case_by_case_using_work_demands", "text": "Decide case by case using work demands" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_092_o1_one_person_schedules_and_the_other_attends", "text": "One person schedules and the other attends" }, { "id": "parenting_092_o2_alternate_based_on_availability", "text": "Alternate based on availability" }, { "id": "parenting_092_o3_assign_different_types_of_appointments", "text": "Assign different types of appointments" }, { "id": "parenting_092_o4_decide_case_by_case_using_work_demands", "text": "Decide case by case using work demands" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_093", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which habits let us discuss food without creating shame around eating or bodies?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "food", "body_respect", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_093_o1_talk_about_energy_and_variety", "text": "Talk about energy and variety" }, { "id": "parenting_093_o2_avoid_using_food_as_a_moral_judgment", "text": "Avoid using food as a moral judgment" }, { "id": "parenting_093_o3_keep_adult_body_worries_away_from_the_child", "text": "Keep adult body worries away from the child" }, { "id": "parenting_093_o4_allow_preferences_while_offering_balanced_choice", "text": "Allow preferences while offering balanced choices" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_093_o1_talk_about_energy_and_variety", "text": "Talk about energy and variety" }, { "id": "parenting_093_o2_avoid_using_food_as_a_moral_judgment", "text": "Avoid using food as a moral judgment" }, { "id": "parenting_093_o3_keep_adult_body_worries_away_from_the_child", "text": "Keep adult body worries away from the child" }, { "id": "parenting_093_o4_allow_preferences_while_offering_balanced_choice", "text": "Allow preferences while offering balanced choices" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_094", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which sleep problems deserve a shared plan instead of nightly improvising?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "sleep", "planning", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_094_o1_repeated_bedtime_resistance", "text": "Repeated bedtime resistance" }, { "id": "parenting_094_o2_frequent_waking", "text": "Frequent waking" }, { "id": "parenting_094_o3_different_expectations_between_parents", "text": "Different expectations between parents" }, { "id": "parenting_094_o4_a_schedule_that_leaves_the_child_exhausted", "text": "A schedule that leaves the child exhausted" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_094_o1_repeated_bedtime_resistance", "text": "Repeated bedtime resistance" }, { "id": "parenting_094_o2_frequent_waking", "text": "Frequent waking" }, { "id": "parenting_094_o3_different_expectations_between_parents", "text": "Different expectations between parents" }, { "id": "parenting_094_o4_a_schedule_that_leaves_the_child_exhausted", "text": "A schedule that leaves the child exhausted" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_095", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", "text": "How supported do you feel with the children’s health needs?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "health", "support", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not supported", "max_label": "Very supported" } }, { "id": "parenting_096", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes an appointment handoff useful to the parent who was not there?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "appointments", "handoff", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_096_o1_the_main_advice_in_plain_language", "text": "The main advice in plain language" }, { "id": "parenting_096_o2_any_follow_up_date_or_task", "text": "Any follow-up date or task" }, { "id": "parenting_096_o3_changes_to_medicine_or_routine", "text": "Changes to medicine or routine" }, { "id": "parenting_096_o4_questions_that_still_need_answers", "text": "Questions that still need answers" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_096_o1_the_main_advice_in_plain_language", "text": "The main advice in plain language" }, { "id": "parenting_096_o2_any_follow_up_date_or_task", "text": "Any follow-up date or task" }, { "id": "parenting_096_o3_changes_to_medicine_or_routine", "text": "Changes to medicine or routine" }, { "id": "parenting_096_o4_questions_that_still_need_answers", "text": "Questions that still need answers" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_097", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "When a child feels unwell, would you rather share updates as they happen or send one summary?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "health_updates", "quick_choice", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_097_o1_share_updates_as_they_happen", "text": "Share updates as they happen" }, { "id": "parenting_097_o2_send_one_summary", "text": "Send one summary" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_097_o1_share_updates_as_they_happen", "text": "Share updates as they happen" }, { "id": "parenting_097_o2_send_one_summary", "text": "Send one summary" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_098", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can we support healthy habits without turning home into constant monitoring?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "healthy_habits", "autonomy", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_098_o1_make_the_easier_choice_available", "text": "Make the easier choice available" }, { "id": "parenting_098_o2_model_the_habit_ourselves", "text": "Model the habit ourselves" }, { "id": "parenting_098_o3_use_routines_more_than_lectures", "text": "Use routines more than lectures" }, { "id": "parenting_098_o4_allow_age_appropriate_privacy_and_choice", "text": "Allow age-appropriate privacy and choice" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_098_o1_make_the_easier_choice_available", "text": "Make the easier choice available" }, { "id": "parenting_098_o2_model_the_habit_ourselves", "text": "Model the habit ourselves" }, { "id": "parenting_098_o3_use_routines_more_than_lectures", "text": "Use routines more than lectures" }, { "id": "parenting_098_o4_allow_age_appropriate_privacy_and_choice", "text": "Allow age-appropriate privacy and choice" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_099", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs tell us our family needs a slower week?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rest", "family_health", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_099_o1_everyone_is_sleeping_poorly", "text": "Everyone is sleeping poorly" }, { "id": "parenting_099_o2_small_problems_trigger_large_reactions", "text": "Small problems trigger large reactions" }, { "id": "parenting_099_o3_meals_and_routines_are_repeatedly_skipped", "text": "Meals and routines are repeatedly skipped" }, { "id": "parenting_099_o4_nobody_has_unplanned_time_to_recover", "text": "Nobody has unplanned time to recover" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_099_o1_everyone_is_sleeping_poorly", "text": "Everyone is sleeping poorly" }, { "id": "parenting_099_o2_small_problems_trigger_large_reactions", "text": "Small problems trigger large reactions" }, { "id": "parenting_099_o3_meals_and_routines_are_repeatedly_skipped", "text": "Meals and routines are repeatedly skipped" }, { "id": "parenting_099_o4_nobody_has_unplanned_time_to_recover", "text": "Nobody has unplanned time to recover" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_100", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What matters most when we disagree about a health concern?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "health", "decisions", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_100_o1_reliable_professional_guidance", "text": "Reliable professional guidance" }, { "id": "parenting_100_o2_the_child_s_immediate_safety", "text": "The child’s immediate safety" }, { "id": "parenting_100_o3_a_clear_record_of_symptoms", "text": "A clear record of symptoms" }, { "id": "parenting_100_o4_a_plan_for_when_to_seek_more_help", "text": "A plan for when to seek more help" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_100_o1_reliable_professional_guidance", "text": "Reliable professional guidance" }, { "id": "parenting_100_o2_the_child_s_immediate_safety", "text": "The child’s immediate safety" }, { "id": "parenting_100_o3_a_clear_record_of_symptoms", "text": "A clear record of symptoms" }, { "id": "parenting_100_o4_a_plan_for_when_to_seek_more_help", "text": "A plan for when to seek more help" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_101", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should guide our rules about screens and devices?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "technology", "rules", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_101_o1_sleep_and_school_needs", "text": "Sleep and school needs" }, { "id": "parenting_101_o2_the_child_s_age_and_judgment", "text": "The child’s age and judgment" }, { "id": "parenting_101_o3_what_the_device_is_being_used_for", "text": "What the device is being used for" }, { "id": "parenting_101_o4_whether_the_rule_can_be_enforced_respectfully", "text": "Whether the rule can be enforced respectfully" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_101_o1_sleep_and_school_needs", "text": "Sleep and school needs" }, { "id": "parenting_101_o2_the_child_s_age_and_judgment", "text": "The child’s age and judgment" }, { "id": "parenting_101_o3_what_the_device_is_being_used_for", "text": "What the device is being used for" }, { "id": "parenting_101_o4_whether_the_rule_can_be_enforced_respectfully", "text": "Whether the rule can be enforced respectfully" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_102", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which technology rule needs the clearest adult example?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "technology", "modeling", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_102_o1_phones_away_during_key_conversations", "text": "Phones away during key conversations" }, { "id": "parenting_102_o2_no_posting_someone_without_permission", "text": "No posting someone without permission" }, { "id": "parenting_102_o3_stopping_at_the_agreed_time", "text": "Stopping at the agreed time" }, { "id": "parenting_102_o4_not_using_messages_to_insult_people", "text": "Not using messages to insult people" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_102_o1_phones_away_during_key_conversations", "text": "Phones away during key conversations" }, { "id": "parenting_102_o2_no_posting_someone_without_permission", "text": "No posting someone without permission" }, { "id": "parenting_102_o3_stopping_at_the_agreed_time", "text": "Stopping at the agreed time" }, { "id": "parenting_102_o4_not_using_messages_to_insult_people", "text": "Not using messages to insult people" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_103", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps protect a child online without treating privacy like wrongdoing?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "online_safety", "privacy", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_103_o1_explain_what_adults_will_check_and_why", "text": "Explain what adults will check and why" }, { "id": "parenting_103_o2_increase_freedom_as_judgment_grows", "text": "Increase freedom as judgment grows" }, { "id": "parenting_103_o3_focus_on_safety_risks_rather_than_secret_searche", "text": "Focus on safety risks rather than secret searches" }, { "id": "parenting_103_o4_keep_private_conversations_private_unless_safety", "text": "Keep private conversations private unless safety is at stake" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_103_o1_explain_what_adults_will_check_and_why", "text": "Explain what adults will check and why" }, { "id": "parenting_103_o2_increase_freedom_as_judgment_grows", "text": "Increase freedom as judgment grows" }, { "id": "parenting_103_o3_focus_on_safety_risks_rather_than_secret_searche", "text": "Focus on safety risks rather than secret searches" }, { "id": "parenting_103_o4_keep_private_conversations_private_unless_safety", "text": "Keep private conversations private unless safety is at stake" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_104", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs show a child may be ready for more independence?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "independence", "readiness", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_104_o1_they_follow_through_without_repeated_reminders", "text": "They follow through without repeated reminders" }, { "id": "parenting_104_o2_they_ask_for_help_when_a_situation_changes", "text": "They ask for help when a situation changes" }, { "id": "parenting_104_o3_they_handle_small_mistakes_honestly", "text": "They handle small mistakes honestly" }, { "id": "parenting_104_o4_they_respect_reasonable_limits_most_of_the_time", "text": "They respect reasonable limits most of the time" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_104_o1_they_follow_through_without_repeated_reminders", "text": "They follow through without repeated reminders" }, { "id": "parenting_104_o2_they_ask_for_help_when_a_situation_changes", "text": "They ask for help when a situation changes" }, { "id": "parenting_104_o3_they_handle_small_mistakes_honestly", "text": "They handle small mistakes honestly" }, { "id": "parenting_104_o4_they_respect_reasonable_limits_most_of_the_time", "text": "They respect reasonable limits most of the time" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_105", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", "text": "How aligned do our technology expectations feel?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "technology", "alignment", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not aligned", "max_label": "Very aligned" } }, { "id": "parenting_106", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What should a child understand before getting more privacy?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "privacy", "safety", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_106_o1_which_safety_concerns_require_adult_help", "text": "Which safety concerns require adult help" }, { "id": "parenting_106_o2_how_to_protect_personal_information", "text": "How to protect personal information" }, { "id": "parenting_106_o3_that_privacy_does_not_remove_accountability", "text": "That privacy does not remove accountability" }, { "id": "parenting_106_o4_who_they_can_contact_when_something_feels_wrong", "text": "Who they can contact when something feels wrong" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_106_o1_which_safety_concerns_require_adult_help", "text": "Which safety concerns require adult help" }, { "id": "parenting_106_o2_how_to_protect_personal_information", "text": "How to protect personal information" }, { "id": "parenting_106_o3_that_privacy_does_not_remove_accountability", "text": "That privacy does not remove accountability" }, { "id": "parenting_106_o4_who_they_can_contact_when_something_feels_wrong", "text": "Who they can contact when something feels wrong" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_107", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "For new online privileges, would you rather use an age guideline or a readiness check?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "online_privileges", "quick_choice", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_107_o1_an_age_guideline", "text": "An age guideline" }, { "id": "parenting_107_o2_a_readiness_check", "text": "A readiness check" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_107_o1_an_age_guideline", "text": "An age guideline" }, { "id": "parenting_107_o2_a_readiness_check", "text": "A readiness check" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_108", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps when one of us is more cautious about a new freedom?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "independence", "parent_alignment", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_108_o1_name_the_specific_risk_each_person_sees", "text": "Name the specific risk each person sees" }, { "id": "parenting_108_o2_agree_on_a_trial_period", "text": "Agree on a trial period" }, { "id": "parenting_108_o3_choose_clear_conditions_for_more_freedom", "text": "Choose clear conditions for more freedom" }, { "id": "parenting_108_o4_review_what_happened_instead_of_arguing_predicti", "text": "Review what happened instead of arguing predictions" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_108_o1_name_the_specific_risk_each_person_sees", "text": "Name the specific risk each person sees" }, { "id": "parenting_108_o2_agree_on_a_trial_period", "text": "Agree on a trial period" }, { "id": "parenting_108_o3_choose_clear_conditions_for_more_freedom", "text": "Choose clear conditions for more freedom" }, { "id": "parenting_108_o4_review_what_happened_instead_of_arguing_predicti", "text": "Review what happened instead of arguing predictions" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_109", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which family technology habits protect connection without demanding constant togetherness?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "technology", "connection", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_109_o1_device_free_meals_when_possible", "text": "Device-free meals when possible" }, { "id": "parenting_109_o2_a_shared_charging_place_overnight", "text": "A shared charging place overnight" }, { "id": "parenting_109_o3_knocking_before_entering_private_spaces", "text": "Knocking before entering private spaces" }, { "id": "parenting_109_o4_letting_quiet_screen_time_count_as_downtime", "text": "Letting quiet screen time count as downtime" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_109_o1_device_free_meals_when_possible", "text": "Device-free meals when possible" }, { "id": "parenting_109_o2_a_shared_charging_place_overnight", "text": "A shared charging place overnight" }, { "id": "parenting_109_o3_knocking_before_entering_private_spaces", "text": "Knocking before entering private spaces" }, { "id": "parenting_109_o4_letting_quiet_screen_time_count_as_downtime", "text": "Letting quiet screen time count as downtime" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_110", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", "text": "What is one freedom you hope we can give our children with confidence?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "independence", "future", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_111", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which family traditions do you most want to pass on?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "traditions", "culture", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_111_o1_a_meaningful_holiday_practice", "text": "A meaningful holiday practice" }, { "id": "parenting_111_o2_a_favorite_family_recipe", "text": "A favorite family recipe" }, { "id": "parenting_111_o3_a_way_of_helping_neighbors", "text": "A way of helping neighbors" }, { "id": "parenting_111_o4_stories_about_where_the_family_came_from", "text": "Stories about where the family came from" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_111_o1_a_meaningful_holiday_practice", "text": "A meaningful holiday practice" }, { "id": "parenting_111_o2_a_favorite_family_recipe", "text": "A favorite family recipe" }, { "id": "parenting_111_o3_a_way_of_helping_neighbors", "text": "A way of helping neighbors" }, { "id": "parenting_111_o4_stories_about_where_the_family_came_from", "text": "Stories about where the family came from" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_112", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps visits with relatives feel supportive rather than exhausting?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "extended_family", "visits", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_112_o1_agreeing_on_the_length_beforehand", "text": "Agreeing on the length beforehand" }, { "id": "parenting_112_o2_sharing_expectations_about_routines", "text": "Sharing expectations about routines" }, { "id": "parenting_112_o3_having_a_polite_exit_plan", "text": "Having a polite exit plan" }, { "id": "parenting_112_o4_leaving_recovery_time_afterward", "text": "Leaving recovery time afterward" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_112_o1_agreeing_on_the_length_beforehand", "text": "Agreeing on the length beforehand" }, { "id": "parenting_112_o2_sharing_expectations_about_routines", "text": "Sharing expectations about routines" }, { "id": "parenting_112_o3_having_a_polite_exit_plan", "text": "Having a polite exit plan" }, { "id": "parenting_112_o4_leaving_recovery_time_afterward", "text": "Leaving recovery time afterward" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_113", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What matters most when relatives disagree with our parenting?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "extended_family", "boundaries", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_113_o1_we_speak_to_each_other_privately_first", "text": "We speak to each other privately first" }, { "id": "parenting_113_o2_the_child_is_not_placed_in_the_middle", "text": "The child is not placed in the middle" }, { "id": "parenting_113_o3_our_household_rules_remain_clear", "text": "Our household rules remain clear" }, { "id": "parenting_113_o4_respect_is_expected_in_both_directions", "text": "Respect is expected in both directions" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_113_o1_we_speak_to_each_other_privately_first", "text": "We speak to each other privately first" }, { "id": "parenting_113_o2_the_child_is_not_placed_in_the_middle", "text": "The child is not placed in the middle" }, { "id": "parenting_113_o3_our_household_rules_remain_clear", "text": "Our household rules remain clear" }, { "id": "parenting_113_o4_respect_is_expected_in_both_directions", "text": "Respect is expected in both directions" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_114", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which cultural lessons deserve more than a special occasion?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "culture", "identity", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_114_o1_language_used_by_older_relatives", "text": "Language used by older relatives" }, { "id": "parenting_114_o2_family_history_and_migration_stories", "text": "Family history and migration stories" }, { "id": "parenting_114_o3_music_food_or_art_from_the_culture", "text": "Music, food, or art from the culture" }, { "id": "parenting_114_o4_how_the_family_understands_community_and_duty", "text": "How the family understands community and duty" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_114_o1_language_used_by_older_relatives", "text": "Language used by older relatives" }, { "id": "parenting_114_o2_family_history_and_migration_stories", "text": "Family history and migration stories" }, { "id": "parenting_114_o3_music_food_or_art_from_the_culture", "text": "Music, food, or art from the culture" }, { "id": "parenting_114_o4_how_the_family_understands_community_and_duty", "text": "How the family understands community and duty" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_115", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which choices protect a child from adult family tension?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "extended_family", "child_protection", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_115_o1_do_not_use_the_child_as_a_messenger", "text": "Do not use the child as a messenger" }, { "id": "parenting_115_o2_avoid_asking_the_child_to_take_sides", "text": "Avoid asking the child to take sides" }, { "id": "parenting_115_o3_keep_adult_details_out_of_casual_conversation", "text": "Keep adult conflict details away from the child" }, { "id": "parenting_115_o4_allow_affection_without_demanding_loyalty_perfor", "text": "Allow affection without asking the child to prove loyalty" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_115_o1_do_not_use_the_child_as_a_messenger", "text": "Do not use the child as a messenger" }, { "id": "parenting_115_o2_avoid_asking_the_child_to_take_sides", "text": "Avoid asking the child to take sides" }, { "id": "parenting_115_o3_keep_adult_details_out_of_casual_conversation", "text": "Keep adult conflict details away from the child" }, { "id": "parenting_115_o4_allow_affection_without_demanding_loyalty_perfor", "text": "Allow affection without asking the child to prove loyalty" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_116", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", "text": "How respected do our parenting choices feel around extended family?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "extended_family", "respect", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not respected", "max_label": "Fully respected" } }, { "id": "parenting_117", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What can we do when a relative ignores a parenting limit?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "boundaries", "extended_family", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_117_o1_restate_the_limit_directly", "text": "Restate the limit directly" }, { "id": "parenting_117_o2_end_the_situation_if_safety_is_involved", "text": "End the situation if safety is involved" }, { "id": "parenting_117_o3_discuss_the_pattern_privately_later", "text": "Discuss the pattern privately later" }, { "id": "parenting_117_o4_reduce_access_if_the_behavior_continues", "text": "Limit contact when needed to protect the child" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_117_o1_restate_the_limit_directly", "text": "Restate the limit directly" }, { "id": "parenting_117_o2_end_the_situation_if_safety_is_involved", "text": "End the situation if safety is involved" }, { "id": "parenting_117_o3_discuss_the_pattern_privately_later", "text": "Discuss the pattern privately later" }, { "id": "parenting_117_o4_reduce_access_if_the_behavior_continues", "text": "Limit contact when needed to protect the child" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_118", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps children belong to more than one family culture?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "culture", "belonging", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_118_o1_avoid_treating_one_side_as_the_default", "text": "Avoid treating one side as the default" }, { "id": "parenting_118_o2_make_room_for_different_customs", "text": "Make room for different customs" }, { "id": "parenting_118_o3_let_children_ask_honest_questions", "text": "Let children ask honest questions" }, { "id": "parenting_118_o4_do_not_force_them_to_prove_loyalty", "text": "Do not force them to prove loyalty" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_118_o1_avoid_treating_one_side_as_the_default", "text": "Avoid treating one side as the default" }, { "id": "parenting_118_o2_make_room_for_different_customs", "text": "Make room for different customs" }, { "id": "parenting_118_o3_let_children_ask_honest_questions", "text": "Let children ask honest questions" }, { "id": "parenting_118_o4_do_not_force_them_to_prove_loyalty", "text": "Do not force them to prove loyalty" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_119", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "Would you rather explain a family rule before a visit or address it only if needed?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "extended_family", "quick_choice", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_119_o1_explain_it_before_the_visit", "text": "Explain it before the visit" }, { "id": "parenting_119_o2_address_it_only_if_needed", "text": "Address it only if needed" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_119_o1_explain_it_before_the_visit", "text": "Explain it before the visit" }, { "id": "parenting_119_o2_address_it_only_if_needed", "text": "Address it only if needed" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_120", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which traditions are worth changing when they no longer fit our family?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "traditions", "change", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_120_o1_customs_that_depend_on_shame", "text": "Customs that depend on shame" }, { "id": "parenting_120_o2_rituals_that_overwhelm_the_household", "text": "Rituals that overwhelm the household" }, { "id": "parenting_120_o3_expectations_that_exclude_part_of_the_family", "text": "Expectations that exclude part of the family" }, { "id": "parenting_120_o4_practices_the_children_cannot_safely_participate", "text": "Practices the children cannot safely participate in" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_120_o1_customs_that_depend_on_shame", "text": "Customs that depend on shame" }, { "id": "parenting_120_o2_rituals_that_overwhelm_the_household", "text": "Rituals that overwhelm the household" }, { "id": "parenting_120_o3_expectations_that_exclude_part_of_the_family", "text": "Expectations that exclude part of the family" }, { "id": "parenting_120_o4_practices_the_children_cannot_safely_participate", "text": "Practices the children cannot safely participate in" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_121", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us feel like partners when most conversations are about the children?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "couple_connection", "parenting_load", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_121_o1_a_greeting_that_is_not_a_task_update", "text": "A greeting that is not a task update" }, { "id": "parenting_121_o2_ten_minutes_without_logistics", "text": "Ten minutes without logistics" }, { "id": "parenting_121_o3_asking_about_each_other_s_day", "text": "Asking about each other’s day" }, { "id": "parenting_121_o4_making_one_plan_that_is_only_for_us", "text": "Making one plan that is only for us" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_121_o1_a_greeting_that_is_not_a_task_update", "text": "A greeting that is not a task update" }, { "id": "parenting_121_o2_ten_minutes_without_logistics", "text": "Ten minutes without logistics" }, { "id": "parenting_121_o3_asking_about_each_other_s_day", "text": "Asking about each other’s day" }, { "id": "parenting_121_o4_making_one_plan_that_is_only_for_us", "text": "Making one plan that is only for us" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_122", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which kind of couple time is most realistic in a busy parenting week?", "depth": 1, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "couple_time", "realistic_plans", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_122_o1_a_quiet_drink_after_bedtime", "text": "A quiet drink after bedtime" }, { "id": "parenting_122_o2_a_short_walk_together", "text": "A short walk together" }, { "id": "parenting_122_o3_a_shared_show_with_phones_down", "text": "A shared show with phones down" }, { "id": "parenting_122_o4_breakfast_before_the_day_starts", "text": "Breakfast before the day starts" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_122_o1_a_quiet_drink_after_bedtime", "text": "A quiet drink after bedtime" }, { "id": "parenting_122_o2_a_short_walk_together", "text": "A short walk together" }, { "id": "parenting_122_o3_a_shared_show_with_phones_down", "text": "A shared show with phones down" }, { "id": "parenting_122_o4_breakfast_before_the_day_starts", "text": "Breakfast before the day starts" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_123", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What makes affection feel supportive rather than like another demand?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "affection", "consent", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_123_o1_it_can_be_declined_without_punishment", "text": "It can be declined without punishment" }, { "id": "parenting_123_o2_it_is_not_used_to_avoid_a_serious_issue", "text": "It is not used to avoid a serious issue" }, { "id": "parenting_123_o3_the_timing_considers_exhaustion", "text": "The timing considers exhaustion" }, { "id": "parenting_123_o4_it_includes_small_nonsexual_gestures", "text": "It includes small nonsexual gestures" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_123_o1_it_can_be_declined_without_punishment", "text": "It can be declined without punishment" }, { "id": "parenting_123_o2_it_is_not_used_to_avoid_a_serious_issue", "text": "It is not used to avoid a serious issue" }, { "id": "parenting_123_o3_the_timing_considers_exhaustion", "text": "The timing considers exhaustion" }, { "id": "parenting_123_o4_it_includes_small_nonsexual_gestures", "text": "It includes small nonsexual gestures" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_124", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs suggest parenting logistics are crowding out the relationship?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "couple_identity", "warning_signs", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_124_o1_every_conversation_becomes_a_task_list", "text": "Every conversation becomes a task list" }, { "id": "parenting_124_o2_touch_happens_only_during_handoffs", "text": "Touch happens only during handoffs" }, { "id": "parenting_124_o3_resentment_builds_around_personal_time", "text": "Resentment builds around personal time" }, { "id": "parenting_124_o4_we_stop_sharing_news_that_is_not_about_the_child", "text": "We stop sharing news that is not about the children" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_124_o1_every_conversation_becomes_a_task_list", "text": "Every conversation becomes a task list" }, { "id": "parenting_124_o2_touch_happens_only_during_handoffs", "text": "Touch happens only during handoffs" }, { "id": "parenting_124_o3_resentment_builds_around_personal_time", "text": "Resentment builds around personal time" }, { "id": "parenting_124_o4_we_stop_sharing_news_that_is_not_about_the_child", "text": "We stop sharing news that is not about the children" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_125", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", "text": "How connected do you feel to me outside our parenting roles?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "couple_identity", "connection", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not very connected", "max_label": "Very connected" } }, { "id": "parenting_126", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can we protect couple time without making children responsible for our closeness?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "couple_time", "boundaries", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_126_o1_adults_arrange_the_logistics", "text": "Adults arrange the logistics" }, { "id": "parenting_126_o2_children_are_not_blamed_when_plans_change", "text": "Children are not blamed when plans change" }, { "id": "parenting_126_o3_the_time_is_age_appropriate_and_safe", "text": "Choose plans that fit the children’s age and safety needs" }, { "id": "parenting_126_o4_connection_also_happens_in_small_ordinary_moment", "text": "Connection also happens in small ordinary moments" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_126_o1_adults_arrange_the_logistics", "text": "Adults arrange the logistics" }, { "id": "parenting_126_o2_children_are_not_blamed_when_plans_change", "text": "Children are not blamed when plans change" }, { "id": "parenting_126_o3_the_time_is_age_appropriate_and_safe", "text": "Choose plans that fit the children’s age and safety needs" }, { "id": "parenting_126_o4_connection_also_happens_in_small_ordinary_moment", "text": "Connection also happens in small ordinary moments" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_127", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "this_or_that", "text": "For couple time, would you rather protect a weekly ritual or use openings as they appear?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "couple_time", "quick_choice", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_127_o1_protect_a_weekly_ritual", "text": "Protect a weekly ritual" }, { "id": "parenting_127_o2_use_openings_as_they_appear", "text": "Use openings as they appear" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_127_o1_protect_a_weekly_ritual", "text": "Protect a weekly ritual" }, { "id": "parenting_127_o2_use_openings_as_they_appear", "text": "Use openings as they appear" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_128", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would help us notice each other’s effort during demanding parenting weeks?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "appreciation", "parenting_load", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_128_o1_thank_the_specific_task", "text": "Thank the specific task" }, { "id": "parenting_128_o2_acknowledge_emotional_labor", "text": "Acknowledge emotional labor" }, { "id": "parenting_128_o3_notice_when_one_person_changed_plans", "text": "Notice when one person changed plans" }, { "id": "parenting_128_o4_say_what_the_help_allowed_us_to_do", "text": "Say what the help allowed us to do" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_128_o1_thank_the_specific_task", "text": "Thank the specific task" }, { "id": "parenting_128_o2_acknowledge_emotional_labor", "text": "Acknowledge emotional labor" }, { "id": "parenting_128_o3_notice_when_one_person_changed_plans", "text": "Notice when one person changed plans" }, { "id": "parenting_128_o4_say_what_the_help_allowed_us_to_do", "text": "Say what the help allowed us to do" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_129", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which parts of ourselves deserve attention beyond being parents?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "identity", "balance", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_129_o1_friendships_that_restore_us", "text": "Friendships that restore us" }, { "id": "parenting_129_o2_interests_that_belong_to_each_person", "text": "Interests that belong to each person" }, { "id": "parenting_129_o3_goals_unrelated_to_the_household", "text": "Goals unrelated to the household" }, { "id": "parenting_129_o4_time_alone_without_guilt", "text": "Time alone without guilt" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_129_o1_friendships_that_restore_us", "text": "Friendships that restore us" }, { "id": "parenting_129_o2_interests_that_belong_to_each_person", "text": "Interests that belong to each person" }, { "id": "parenting_129_o3_goals_unrelated_to_the_household", "text": "Goals unrelated to the household" }, { "id": "parenting_129_o4_time_alone_without_guilt", "text": "Time alone without guilt" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_130", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What kind of check-in would feel least like another responsibility?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "check_in", "couple_connection", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_130_o1_one_honest_question_before_sleep", "text": "One honest question before sleep" }, { "id": "parenting_130_o2_a_voice_note_during_the_day", "text": "A voice note during the day" }, { "id": "parenting_130_o3_a_short_talk_during_a_drive", "text": "A short talk during a drive" }, { "id": "parenting_130_o4_a_weekly_coffee_without_an_agenda", "text": "A weekly coffee without an agenda" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_130_o1_one_honest_question_before_sleep", "text": "One honest question before sleep" }, { "id": "parenting_130_o2_a_voice_note_during_the_day", "text": "A voice note during the day" }, { "id": "parenting_130_o3_a_short_talk_during_a_drive", "text": "A short talk during a drive" }, { "id": "parenting_130_o4_a_weekly_coffee_without_an_agenda", "text": "A weekly coffee without an agenda" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_131", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps children adjust when family routines change?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "transitions", "routines", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_131_o1_explain_what_will_stay_the_same", "text": "Explain what will stay the same" }, { "id": "parenting_131_o2_give_notice_when_possible", "text": "Give notice when possible" }, { "id": "parenting_131_o3_keep_one_familiar_comfort_available", "text": "Keep one familiar comfort available" }, { "id": "parenting_131_o4_expect_mixed_reactions_without_punishment", "text": "Expect mixed reactions without punishment" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_131_o1_explain_what_will_stay_the_same", "text": "Explain what will stay the same" }, { "id": "parenting_131_o2_give_notice_when_possible", "text": "Give notice when possible" }, { "id": "parenting_131_o3_keep_one_familiar_comfort_available", "text": "Keep one familiar comfort available" }, { "id": "parenting_131_o4_expect_mixed_reactions_without_punishment", "text": "Expect mixed reactions without punishment" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_132", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What matters most when parenting happens across more than one household?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "multiple_households", "coparenting", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_132_o1_the_child_is_not_used_as_a_messenger", "text": "The child is not used as a messenger" }, { "id": "parenting_132_o2_important_information_travels_directly_between_a", "text": "Important information travels directly between adults" }, { "id": "parenting_132_o3_rules_are_clear_enough_in_each_home", "text": "Rules are clear enough in each home" }, { "id": "parenting_132_o4_the_child_is_not_asked_to_rank_the_households", "text": "The child is not asked to rank the households" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_132_o1_the_child_is_not_used_as_a_messenger", "text": "The child is not used as a messenger" }, { "id": "parenting_132_o2_important_information_travels_directly_between_a", "text": "Important information travels directly between adults" }, { "id": "parenting_132_o3_rules_are_clear_enough_in_each_home", "text": "Rules are clear enough in each home" }, { "id": "parenting_132_o4_the_child_is_not_asked_to_rank_the_households", "text": "The child is not asked to rank the households" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_133", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which topics need extra clarity before a major family transition?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "transitions", "planning", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_133_o1_where_the_child_will_sleep_and_keep_belongings", "text": "Where the child will sleep and keep belongings" }, { "id": "parenting_133_o2_how_schedules_and_transportation_will_work", "text": "How schedules and transportation will work" }, { "id": "parenting_133_o3_what_adults_will_say_about_the_change", "text": "What adults will say about the change" }, { "id": "parenting_133_o4_who_handles_school_and_health_updates", "text": "Who handles school and health updates" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_133_o1_where_the_child_will_sleep_and_keep_belongings", "text": "Where the child will sleep and keep belongings" }, { "id": "parenting_133_o2_how_schedules_and_transportation_will_work", "text": "How schedules and transportation will work" }, { "id": "parenting_133_o3_what_adults_will_say_about_the_change", "text": "What adults will say about the change" }, { "id": "parenting_133_o4_who_handles_school_and_health_updates", "text": "Who handles school and health updates" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_134", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", "text": "How prepared do we feel for the next family transition?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "transitions", "readiness", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not prepared", "max_label": "Very prepared" } }, { "id": "parenting_135", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps a stepparent or newer caregiver build trust without rushing authority?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "blended_family", "trust", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_135_o1_let_the_relationship_grow_through_ordinary_time", "text": "Let the relationship grow through ordinary time" }, { "id": "parenting_135_o2_keep_discipline_expectations_clear_between_adult", "text": "Keep discipline expectations clear between adults" }, { "id": "parenting_135_o3_respect_the_child_s_existing_attachments", "text": "Respect the child’s existing attachments" }, { "id": "parenting_135_o4_avoid_demanding_a_title_or_level_of_affection", "text": "Avoid demanding a title or level of affection" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_135_o1_let_the_relationship_grow_through_ordinary_time", "text": "Let the relationship grow through ordinary time" }, { "id": "parenting_135_o2_keep_discipline_expectations_clear_between_adult", "text": "Keep discipline expectations clear between adults" }, { "id": "parenting_135_o3_respect_the_child_s_existing_attachments", "text": "Respect the child’s existing attachments" }, { "id": "parenting_135_o4_avoid_demanding_a_title_or_level_of_affection", "text": "Avoid demanding a title or level of affection" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_136", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which adult should address a conflict involving their relative first?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "extended_family", "responsibility", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_136_o1_the_adult_connected_to_that_relative", "text": "The adult connected to that relative" }, { "id": "parenting_136_o2_whichever_adult_witnessed_it", "text": "Whichever adult witnessed it" }, { "id": "parenting_136_o3_both_adults_together", "text": "Both adults together" }, { "id": "parenting_136_o4_the_person_who_can_do_it_most_calmly", "text": "The person who can do it most calmly" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_136_o1_the_adult_connected_to_that_relative", "text": "The adult connected to that relative" }, { "id": "parenting_136_o2_whichever_adult_witnessed_it", "text": "Whichever adult witnessed it" }, { "id": "parenting_136_o3_both_adults_together", "text": "Both adults together" }, { "id": "parenting_136_o4_the_person_who_can_do_it_most_calmly", "text": "The person who can do it most calmly" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_137", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What keeps schedule changes from becoming a loyalty test for a child?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "schedules", "child_wellbeing", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_137_o1_discuss_adult_frustration_away_from_the_child", "text": "Discuss adult frustration away from the child" }, { "id": "parenting_137_o2_present_the_plan_without_blaming_another_househo", "text": "Present the plan without blaming another household" }, { "id": "parenting_137_o3_allow_the_child_to_miss_people_openly", "text": "Allow the child to miss people openly" }, { "id": "parenting_137_o4_keep_promises_about_contact_whenever_possible", "text": "Keep promises about contact whenever possible" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_137_o1_discuss_adult_frustration_away_from_the_child", "text": "Discuss adult frustration away from the child" }, { "id": "parenting_137_o2_present_the_plan_without_blaming_another_househo", "text": "Present the plan without blaming another household" }, { "id": "parenting_137_o3_allow_the_child_to_miss_people_openly", "text": "Allow the child to miss people openly" }, { "id": "parenting_137_o4_keep_promises_about_contact_whenever_possible", "text": "Keep promises about contact whenever possible" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_138", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What is the best way to introduce a new household rule?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "rules", "transitions", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_138_o1_explain_the_reason_in_plain_language", "text": "Explain the reason in plain language" }, { "id": "parenting_138_o2_give_a_short_adjustment_period", "text": "Give a short adjustment period" }, { "id": "parenting_138_o3_show_what_the_rule_looks_like", "text": "Show what the rule looks like" }, { "id": "parenting_138_o4_review_it_after_everyone_has_tried_it", "text": "Review it after everyone has tried it" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_138_o1_explain_the_reason_in_plain_language", "text": "Explain the reason in plain language" }, { "id": "parenting_138_o2_give_a_short_adjustment_period", "text": "Give a short adjustment period" }, { "id": "parenting_138_o3_show_what_the_rule_looks_like", "text": "Show what the rule looks like" }, { "id": "parenting_138_o4_review_it_after_everyone_has_tried_it", "text": "Review it after everyone has tried it" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_139", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which signs show a family transition needs more support?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "transitions", "support", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_139_o1_a_child_s_daily_functioning_changes_for_weeks", "text": "A child stays unusually withdrawn or distressed" }, { "id": "parenting_139_o2_adults_cannot_discuss_logistics_without_escalati", "text": "Adults cannot discuss logistics without escalation" }, { "id": "parenting_139_o3_school_or_sleep_problems_keep_growing", "text": "School or sleep problems keep growing" }, { "id": "parenting_139_o4_nobody_knows_what_information_the_child_has_been", "text": "Nobody knows what information the child has been given" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_139_o1_a_child_s_daily_functioning_changes_for_weeks", "text": "A child stays unusually withdrawn or distressed" }, { "id": "parenting_139_o2_adults_cannot_discuss_logistics_without_escalati", "text": "Adults cannot discuss logistics without escalation" }, { "id": "parenting_139_o3_school_or_sleep_problems_keep_growing", "text": "School or sleep problems keep growing" }, { "id": "parenting_139_o4_nobody_knows_what_information_the_child_has_been", "text": "Nobody knows what information the child has been given" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_140", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "written", "text": "What is one family change you want us to handle with extra care?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "transitions", "reflection", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } }, { "id": "parenting_141", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What helps us repair with a child after we handled a moment poorly?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "repair", "accountability", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_141_o1_name_what_we_did_without_excuses", "text": "Name what we did without excuses" }, { "id": "parenting_141_o2_apologize_in_age_appropriate_language", "text": "Apologize in age-appropriate language" }, { "id": "parenting_141_o3_restate_the_limit_without_defending_the_tone", "text": "Restate the limit without defending the tone" }, { "id": "parenting_141_o4_show_the_change_the_next_time", "text": "Show the change the next time" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_141_o1_name_what_we_did_without_excuses", "text": "Name what we did without excuses" }, { "id": "parenting_141_o2_apologize_in_age_appropriate_language", "text": "Apologize in age-appropriate language" }, { "id": "parenting_141_o3_restate_the_limit_without_defending_the_tone", "text": "Restate the limit without defending the tone" }, { "id": "parenting_141_o4_show_the_change_the_next_time", "text": "Show the change the next time" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_142", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "Which sign most clearly shows that a parenting plan needs to change?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "adaptation", "planning", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_142_o1_it_repeatedly_harms_connection_or_safety", "text": "It repeatedly harms connection or safety" }, { "id": "parenting_142_o2_nobody_can_follow_it_consistently", "text": "Nobody can follow it consistently" }, { "id": "parenting_142_o3_the_child_has_clearly_outgrown_it", "text": "The child has clearly outgrown it" }, { "id": "parenting_142_o4_reliable_new_information_changes_the_decision", "text": "Reliable new information changes the decision" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_142_o1_it_repeatedly_harms_connection_or_safety", "text": "It repeatedly harms connection or safety" }, { "id": "parenting_142_o2_nobody_can_follow_it_consistently", "text": "Nobody can follow it consistently" }, { "id": "parenting_142_o3_the_child_has_clearly_outgrown_it", "text": "The child has clearly outgrown it" }, { "id": "parenting_142_o4_reliable_new_information_changes_the_decision", "text": "Reliable new information changes the decision" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_143", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "Which parenting lessons do we want to carry into the next stage?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "growth", "future", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_143_o1_connection_matters_during_limits", "text": "Connection matters during limits" }, { "id": "parenting_143_o2_clear_routines_reduce_unnecessary_conflict", "text": "Clear routines reduce unnecessary conflict" }, { "id": "parenting_143_o3_children_need_growing_independence", "text": "Children need growing independence" }, { "id": "parenting_143_o4_parents_are_allowed_to_learn_and_change", "text": "Parents are allowed to learn and change" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_143_o1_connection_matters_during_limits", "text": "Connection matters during limits" }, { "id": "parenting_143_o2_clear_routines_reduce_unnecessary_conflict", "text": "Clear routines reduce unnecessary conflict" }, { "id": "parenting_143_o3_children_need_growing_independence", "text": "Children need growing independence" }, { "id": "parenting_143_o4_parents_are_allowed_to_learn_and_change", "text": "Parents are allowed to learn and change" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_144", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would help us prepare for a parenting stage we have not reached yet?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "future", "preparation", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_144_o1_learn_what_development_usually_looks_like", "text": "Learn what development usually looks like" }, { "id": "parenting_144_o2_talk_with_families_we_trust", "text": "Talk with families we trust" }, { "id": "parenting_144_o3_discuss_our_nonnegotiable_safety_values", "text": "Discuss our nonnegotiable safety values" }, { "id": "parenting_144_o4_leave_room_to_revise_the_plan_later", "text": "Leave room to revise the plan later" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_144_o1_learn_what_development_usually_looks_like", "text": "Learn what development usually looks like" }, { "id": "parenting_144_o2_talk_with_families_we_trust", "text": "Talk with families we trust" }, { "id": "parenting_144_o3_discuss_our_nonnegotiable_safety_values", "text": "Discuss our nonnegotiable safety values" }, { "id": "parenting_144_o4_leave_room_to_revise_the_plan_later", "text": "Leave room to revise the plan later" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_145", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "scale", "text": "How hopeful are you that we can become a stronger parenting team?", "depth": 2, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "hope", "teamwork", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "min": 1, "max": 5, "min_label": "Not hopeful", "max_label": "Very hopeful" } }, { "id": "parenting_146", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "What would show that our parenting approach is working better?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "growth", "healthy_patterns", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_146_o1_we_correct_course_without_hiding_mistakes", "text": "We correct course without hiding mistakes" }, { "id": "parenting_146_o2_the_children_can_ask_questions_safely", "text": "The children can ask questions safely" }, { "id": "parenting_146_o3_rules_become_clearer_rather_than_harsher", "text": "Rules become clearer rather than harsher" }, { "id": "parenting_146_o4_both_parents_have_room_to_rest_and_contribute", "text": "Both parents have room to rest and contribute" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_146_o1_we_correct_course_without_hiding_mistakes", "text": "We correct course without hiding mistakes" }, { "id": "parenting_146_o2_the_children_can_ask_questions_safely", "text": "The children can ask questions safely" }, { "id": "parenting_146_o3_rules_become_clearer_rather_than_harsher", "text": "Rules become clearer rather than harsher" }, { "id": "parenting_146_o4_both_parents_have_room_to_rest_and_contribute", "text": "Both parents have room to rest and contribute" } ], "min_selections": 1, "max_selections": 2 } }, { "id": "parenting_147", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "single_choice", "text": "What should we remember when our child makes a choice we would not make?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "autonomy", "perspective", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_147_o1_guidance_is_not_ownership", "text": "Guidance is not ownership" }, { "id": "parenting_147_o2_age_and_safety_still_matter", "text": "Age and safety still matter" }, { "id": "parenting_147_o3_disappointment_does_not_require_rejection", "text": "Disappointment does not require rejection" }, { "id": "parenting_147_o4_a_child_can_learn_without_agreeing_with_us", "text": "A child can learn without agreeing with us" } ], "answer_config": { "options": [ { "id": "parenting_147_o1_guidance_is_not_ownership", "text": "Guidance is not ownership" }, { "id": "parenting_147_o2_age_and_safety_still_matter", "text": "Age and safety still matter" }, { "id": "parenting_147_o3_disappointment_does_not_require_rejection", "text": "Disappointment does not require rejection" }, { "id": "parenting_147_o4_a_child_can_learn_without_agreeing_with_us", "text": "A child can learn without agreeing with us" } ] } }, { "id": "parenting_148", "category_id": "parenting", "type": "multi_choice", "text": "How can we keep fear from making every future decision for us?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "fear", "future_decisions", "parenting" ], "options": [ { "id": "parenting_148_o1_separate_likely_risks_from_imagined_ones", "text": "Separate likely risks from imagined ones" }, { "id": "parenting_148_o2_use_reliable_information", "text": "Use reliable information" }, { "id": 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"parenting", "type": "written", "text": "What do you hope our children understand about the way we loved and guided them?", "depth": 3, "access": "premium", "tags": [ "legacy", "future", "parenting" ], "answer_config": { "max_length": 500 } } ] }