8068 lines
226 KiB
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8068 lines
226 KiB
JSON
{
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"category": {
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"id": "quality_time",
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"display_name": "Quality Time",
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"description": "Warm, easy-to-answer questions that help couples feel present, known, relaxed, and intentionally together through ordinary routines, quiet closeness, meaningful conversation, affection, and realistic plans.",
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"access": "mixed",
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"icon_name": "schedule_heart",
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"schema_version": "question_v2",
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"metadata": {
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"content_version": "quality_time_v11_150_max_second_editorial_pass",
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"guide_version": "QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE v10 + QUESTION_SCHEMA v7 + QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST v10",
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"review_policy": "Rebuilt in six 25-question batches with full-pack checks for spoken voice, option fit, pacing, repetition, premium value, inclusivity, prediction, low-energy play, flirting, and invitations.",
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"mass_rewrite_reason": "The prior pack contained 250 questions and 150 written responses, so more than 60% shared structural failures under the current 150-question and written-question limits.",
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"compatibility_note": "Numeric depth and answer_config are retained for the active importer. Choice questions mirror options at the top level.",
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"total_questions": 150,
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"free_questions": 45,
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"premium_questions": 105,
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"type_counts": {
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"written": 5,
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"single_choice": 30,
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"multi_choice": 90,
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"scale": 15,
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"this_or_that": 10
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},
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"second_pass_summary": "Reordered the full pack so every 10-question window mixes light connection, practical preferences, couple lore, prediction, flirting, and an actionable invitation; then completed a read-aloud and answer-fit review.",
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"coverage_targets": {
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"flirty_questions": 15,
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"invitation_or_action_questions": 24,
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"prediction_and_reveal_questions": 15,
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"couple_lore_questions": 25,
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"low_energy_questions": 38,
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"adult_humor_questions": 14
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},
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"second_editorial_pass": {
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"corrections": 18,
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"focus": [
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"natural adult spoken voice",
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"prompt-option fit",
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"near-duplicate mechanics",
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"category distinction",
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"free and premium value"
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],
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"result": "Preserved the 150-question structure while removing awkward jargon, one duplicated invitation mechanic, one overlapping settings question, and several worksheet-like phrases."
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}
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}
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},
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"questions": [
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{
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"id": "quality_time_001",
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"category_id": "quality_time",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What makes staying home feel intentional instead of automatic?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"home_time",
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"intentionality",
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"low_energy",
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"quality_time"
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],
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"access": "free",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "we_choose_a_start_time",
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"text": "We choose a start time"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_change_the_usual_setup",
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"text": "We change the usual setup"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_pick_something_both_of_us_want",
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"text": "We pick something both of us want"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_put_away_the_most_distracting_tasks",
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"text": "We put away the most distracting tasks"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_include_one_detail_that_feels_special",
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"text": "We include one detail that feels special"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "we_choose_a_start_time",
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"text": "We choose a start time"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_change_the_usual_setup",
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"text": "We change the usual setup"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_pick_something_both_of_us_want",
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"text": "We pick something both of us want"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_put_away_the_most_distracting_tasks",
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"text": "We put away the most distracting tasks"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_include_one_detail_that_feels_special",
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"text": "We include one detail that feels special"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "quality_time_002",
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"category_id": "quality_time",
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which low-key flirting move gets my attention fastest—your guess?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"prediction",
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"flirty",
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"partner_preferences",
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"quality_time"
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],
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_quiet_compliment",
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"text": "A quiet compliment"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_meaningful_look",
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"text": "A meaningful look"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_playful_touch",
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"text": "A playful touch"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_message_that_makes_me_smile",
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"text": "A message that makes me smile"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_quiet_compliment",
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"text": "A quiet compliment"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_meaningful_look",
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"text": "A meaningful look"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_playful_touch",
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"text": "A playful touch"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_message_that_makes_me_smile",
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"text": "A message that makes me smile"
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}
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]
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "quality_time_003",
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"category_id": "quality_time",
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"type": "scale",
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"text": "How much would a little uninterrupted time together help today?",
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"depth": 1,
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"tags": [
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"current_need",
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"invitation",
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"quality_time"
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],
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"access": "free",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"answer_config": {
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"min": 1,
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"max": 5,
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"min_label": "Not much",
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"max_label": "A lot"
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "quality_time_004",
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"category_id": "quality_time",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What could make mornings feel more like shared time?",
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"depth": 1,
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"tags": [
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"mornings",
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"routines",
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"low_energy",
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"quality_time"
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],
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "sitting_together_for_the_first_drink_of_the_day",
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"text": "Sitting together for the first drink of the day"
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},
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{
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"id": "giving_each_other_a_real_goodbye",
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"text": "Giving each other a real goodbye"
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},
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{
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"id": "sharing_the_plan_before_things_get_busy",
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"text": "Sharing the plan before things get busy"
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},
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{
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"id": "sending_one_thoughtful_message_later",
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"text": "Sending one thoughtful message later"
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},
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{
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"id": "protecting_a_few_quiet_minutes",
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"text": "Protecting a few quiet minutes"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "sitting_together_for_the_first_drink_of_the_day",
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"text": "Sitting together for the first drink of the day"
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},
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{
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"id": "giving_each_other_a_real_goodbye",
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"text": "Giving each other a real goodbye"
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},
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{
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"id": "sharing_the_plan_before_things_get_busy",
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"text": "Sharing the plan before things get busy"
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},
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{
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"id": "sending_one_thoughtful_message_later",
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"text": "Sending one thoughtful message later"
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},
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{
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"id": "protecting_a_few_quiet_minutes",
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"text": "Protecting a few quiet minutes"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "quality_time_005",
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"category_id": "quality_time",
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"type": "this_or_that",
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"text": "Put it on the calendar or decide the day of?",
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"depth": 1,
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"tags": [
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"planning_style",
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"quick_choice",
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"quality_time"
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],
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"access": "free",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "put_it_on_the_calendar",
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"text": "Put it on the calendar"
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},
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{
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"id": "decide_the_day_of",
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"text": "Decide the day of"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "put_it_on_the_calendar",
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"text": "Put it on the calendar"
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},
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{
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"id": "decide_the_day_of",
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"text": "Decide the day of"
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}
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]
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "quality_time_006",
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"category_id": "quality_time",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What would make a new tradition feel natural for us?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"traditions",
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"low_pressure",
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"quality_time"
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],
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "it_grows_from_something_we_already_enjoy",
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"text": "It grows from something we already enjoy"
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},
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{
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"id": "it_does_not_require_a_perfect_schedule",
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"text": "It does not require a perfect schedule"
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},
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{
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"id": "both_of_us_help_shape_it",
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"text": "Both of us help shape it"
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},
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{
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"id": "it_has_a_small_recognizable_detail",
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"text": "It has a small recognizable detail"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_can_skip_it_without_guilt_when_life_gets_messy",
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"text": "We can skip it without guilt when life gets messy"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "it_grows_from_something_we_already_enjoy",
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"text": "It grows from something we already enjoy"
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},
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{
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"id": "it_does_not_require_a_perfect_schedule",
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"text": "It does not require a perfect schedule"
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},
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{
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"id": "both_of_us_help_shape_it",
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"text": "Both of us help shape it"
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},
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{
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"id": "it_has_a_small_recognizable_detail",
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"text": "It has a small recognizable detail"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_can_skip_it_without_guilt_when_life_gets_messy",
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"text": "We can skip it without guilt when life gets messy"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "quality_time_007",
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"category_id": "quality_time",
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "When we are both overloaded, what kind of connection is realistic?",
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"depth": 1,
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"tags": [
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"busy_life",
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"low_energy",
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"invitation",
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"quality_time"
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],
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_ten_minute_check_in",
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"text": "A ten-minute check-in"
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},
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{
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"id": "eating_one_meal_without_multitasking",
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"text": "Eating one meal without multitasking"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_quiet_hug_and_an_early_night",
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"text": "A quiet hug and an early night"
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},
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{
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"id": "choosing_one_easy_thing_for_the_weekend",
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"text": "Choosing one easy thing for the weekend"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_ten_minute_check_in",
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"text": "A ten-minute check-in"
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},
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{
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"id": "eating_one_meal_without_multitasking",
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"text": "Eating one meal without multitasking"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_quiet_hug_and_an_early_night",
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"text": "A quiet hug and an early night"
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},
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{
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"id": "choosing_one_easy_thing_for_the_weekend",
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"text": "Choosing one easy thing for the weekend"
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}
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]
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "quality_time_008",
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"category_id": "quality_time",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What helps quality time work when one of us is tired?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"low_energy",
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"accessibility",
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"quality_time"
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],
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "the_lower_energy_person_chooses_the_pace",
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"text": "The lower-energy person chooses the pace"
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},
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{
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"id": "the_plan_can_be_shortened_without_disappointment",
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"text": "The plan can be shortened without disappointment"
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},
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{
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"id": "comfort_matters_more_than_novelty",
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"text": "Comfort matters more than novelty"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_count_quiet_closeness_as_enough",
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"text": "We count quiet closeness as enough"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_save_serious_topics_for_a_better_moment",
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"text": "We save serious topics for a better moment"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "the_lower_energy_person_chooses_the_pace",
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"text": "The lower-energy person chooses the pace"
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},
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{
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"id": "the_plan_can_be_shortened_without_disappointment",
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"text": "The plan can be shortened without disappointment"
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},
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{
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"id": "comfort_matters_more_than_novelty",
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"text": "Comfort matters more than novelty"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_count_quiet_closeness_as_enough",
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"text": "We count quiet closeness as enough"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_save_serious_topics_for_a_better_moment",
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"text": "We save serious topics for a better moment"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "quality_time_009",
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"category_id": "quality_time",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which kinds of appreciation make time together feel better?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"appreciation",
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"feeling_seen",
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"couple_lore",
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"quality_time"
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],
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "naming_something_you_handled_well",
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"text": "Naming something you handled well"
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},
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{
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"id": "saying_what_i_enjoy_about_your_company",
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"text": "Saying what I enjoy about your company"
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},
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{
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"id": "remembering_a_thoughtful_thing_you_did",
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"text": "Remembering a thoughtful thing you did"
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},
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{
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"id": "noticing_how_you_have_grown",
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"text": "Noticing how you have grown"
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},
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{
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"id": "telling_you_what_feels_uniquely_ours",
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"text": "Telling you what feels uniquely ours"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "naming_something_you_handled_well",
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"text": "Naming something you handled well"
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},
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{
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"id": "saying_what_i_enjoy_about_your_company",
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"text": "Saying what I enjoy about your company"
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},
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{
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"id": "remembering_a_thoughtful_thing_you_did",
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"text": "Remembering a thoughtful thing you did"
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},
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{
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"id": "noticing_how_you_have_grown",
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"text": "Noticing how you have grown"
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},
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{
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"id": "telling_you_what_feels_uniquely_ours",
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"text": "Telling you what feels uniquely ours"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "quality_time_010",
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"category_id": "quality_time",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What do we want quality time to feel like more often?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"pack_landing",
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"shared_vision",
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"quality_time"
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],
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "easy_enough_to_happen_regularly",
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"text": "Easy enough to happen regularly"
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},
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{
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"id": "warm_enough_to_help_us_reconnect",
|
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"text": "Warm enough to help us reconnect"
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "playful_enough_to_break_the_routine",
|
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"text": "Playful enough to break the routine"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "honest_enough_to_keep_us_close",
|
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"text": "Honest enough to keep us close"
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "flexible_enough_to_fit_real_life",
|
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"text": "Flexible enough to fit real life"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"options": [
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{
|
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"id": "easy_enough_to_happen_regularly",
|
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"text": "Easy enough to happen regularly"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "warm_enough_to_help_us_reconnect",
|
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"text": "Warm enough to help us reconnect"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "playful_enough_to_break_the_routine",
|
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"text": "Playful enough to break the routine"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "honest_enough_to_keep_us_close",
|
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"text": "Honest enough to keep us close"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "flexible_enough_to_fit_real_life",
|
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"text": "Flexible enough to fit real life"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "quality_time_011",
|
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"category_id": "quality_time",
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"type": "single_choice",
|
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"text": "When do you most want my full attention?",
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"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
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"attention",
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"partner_preferences",
|
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"quality_time",
|
|
"preferences"
|
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],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
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{
|
|
"id": "when_i_first_get_home_or_call",
|
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"text": "When I first get home or call"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "when_i_am_telling_a_story",
|
|
"text": "When I am telling a story"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_i_am_sharing_something_difficult",
|
|
"text": "When I am sharing something difficult"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_we_are_making_a_plan_together",
|
|
"text": "When we are making a plan together"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_i_first_get_home_or_call",
|
|
"text": "When I first get home or call"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_i_am_telling_a_story",
|
|
"text": "When I am telling a story"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_i_am_sharing_something_difficult",
|
|
"text": "When I am sharing something difficult"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_we_are_making_a_plan_together",
|
|
"text": "When we are making a plan together"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_012",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which daily transitions could become good time for us?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"routines",
|
|
"transitions",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_first_few_minutes_after_work",
|
|
"text": "The first few minutes after work"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_ride_or_call_on_the_way_home",
|
|
"text": "The ride or call on the way home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_pause_before_dinner",
|
|
"text": "The pause before dinner"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_last_half_hour_before_sleep",
|
|
"text": "The last half hour before sleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_start_of_a_weekend_morning",
|
|
"text": "The start of a weekend morning"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_first_few_minutes_after_work",
|
|
"text": "The first few minutes after work"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_ride_or_call_on_the_way_home",
|
|
"text": "The ride or call on the way home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_pause_before_dinner",
|
|
"text": "The pause before dinner"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_last_half_hour_before_sleep",
|
|
"text": "The last half hour before sleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_start_of_a_weekend_morning",
|
|
"text": "The start of a weekend morning"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_013",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps a meaningful question feel welcome?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"meaningful",
|
|
"conversation",
|
|
"low_pressure",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_fits_the_moment",
|
|
"text": "It fits the moment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_no_pressure_for_a_perfect_answer",
|
|
"text": "There is no pressure for a perfect answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_clear_and_not_too_broad",
|
|
"text": "It is clear and not too broad"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_both_answer_it",
|
|
"text": "We both answer it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_can_shift_back_to_something_lighter",
|
|
"text": "We can shift back to something lighter"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_fits_the_moment",
|
|
"text": "It fits the moment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_no_pressure_for_a_perfect_answer",
|
|
"text": "There is no pressure for a perfect answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_clear_and_not_too_broad",
|
|
"text": "It is clear and not too broad"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_both_answer_it",
|
|
"text": "We both answer it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_can_shift_back_to_something_lighter",
|
|
"text": "We can shift back to something lighter"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_014",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which planning style fits you best?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"planning_style",
|
|
"partner_preferences",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"preferences"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tell_me_the_whole_plan",
|
|
"text": "Tell me the whole plan"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "give_me_the_basic_idea",
|
|
"text": "Give me the basic idea"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offer_two_choices",
|
|
"text": "Offer two choices"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "surprise_me_within_clear_limits",
|
|
"text": "Surprise me within clear limits"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tell_me_the_whole_plan",
|
|
"text": "Tell me the whole plan"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "give_me_the_basic_idea",
|
|
"text": "Give me the basic idea"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offer_two_choices",
|
|
"text": "Offer two choices"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "surprise_me_within_clear_limits",
|
|
"text": "Surprise me within clear limits"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_015",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which low-effort moments make you feel closest to me?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"routines",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "drinking_something_together_before_the_day_starts",
|
|
"text": "Drinking something together before the day starts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_near_each_other_after_dinner",
|
|
"text": "Sitting near each other after dinner"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_a_slow_lap_around_the_block",
|
|
"text": "Taking a slow lap around the block"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_in_bed_before_sleep",
|
|
"text": "Talking in bed before sleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listening_to_the_same_music",
|
|
"text": "Listening to the same music"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "drinking_something_together_before_the_day_starts",
|
|
"text": "Drinking something together before the day starts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_near_each_other_after_dinner",
|
|
"text": "Sitting near each other after dinner"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_a_slow_lap_around_the_block",
|
|
"text": "Taking a slow lap around the block"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_in_bed_before_sleep",
|
|
"text": "Talking in bed before sleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listening_to_the_same_music",
|
|
"text": "Listening to the same music"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_016",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "Describe a quiet moment together that still feels warm when you remember it.",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"memory",
|
|
"quiet",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 500,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_017",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you feel wanted while we are simply spending time together?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirty",
|
|
"feeling_wanted",
|
|
"affection",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_choose_to_sit_near_me",
|
|
"text": "You choose to sit near me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_notice_something_you_like_about_me",
|
|
"text": "You notice something you like about me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_reach_for_my_hand",
|
|
"text": "You reach for my hand"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_make_the_plan_feel_like_it_is_for_us",
|
|
"text": "You make the plan feel like it is for us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_give_me_attention_that_is_not_divided",
|
|
"text": "You give me attention that is not divided"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_choose_to_sit_near_me",
|
|
"text": "You choose to sit near me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_notice_something_you_like_about_me",
|
|
"text": "You notice something you like about me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_reach_for_my_hand",
|
|
"text": "You reach for my hand"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_make_the_plan_feel_like_it_is_for_us",
|
|
"text": "You make the plan feel like it is for us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_give_me_attention_that_is_not_divided",
|
|
"text": "You give me attention that is not divided"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_018",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us notice a good moment while we are still in it?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"presence",
|
|
"memory_making",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_of_us_says_it_out_loud",
|
|
"text": "One of us says it out loud"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_take_a_photo_without_making_it_a_production",
|
|
"text": "We take a photo without making it a production"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_pause_instead_of_rushing_ahead",
|
|
"text": "We pause instead of rushing ahead"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_make_a_small_toast_or_joke",
|
|
"text": "We make a small toast or joke"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_stay_a_little_longer_than_planned",
|
|
"text": "We stay a little longer than planned"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_of_us_says_it_out_loud",
|
|
"text": "One of us says it out loud"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_take_a_photo_without_making_it_a_production",
|
|
"text": "We take a photo without making it a production"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_pause_instead_of_rushing_ahead",
|
|
"text": "We pause instead of rushing ahead"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_make_a_small_toast_or_joke",
|
|
"text": "We make a small toast or joke"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_stay_a_little_longer_than_planned",
|
|
"text": "We stay a little longer than planned"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_019",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes us laugh like people who know each other too well?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"adult_humor",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"connection",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_can_predict_the_exact_reaction",
|
|
"text": "We can predict the exact reaction"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_remember_the_missing_context",
|
|
"text": "We remember the missing context"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_look_finishes_the_joke",
|
|
"text": "One look finishes the joke"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_know_which_detail_makes_the_story",
|
|
"text": "We know which detail makes the story"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_both_notice_the_same_absurd_thing",
|
|
"text": "We both notice the same absurd thing"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_can_predict_the_exact_reaction",
|
|
"text": "We can predict the exact reaction"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_remember_the_missing_context",
|
|
"text": "We remember the missing context"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_look_finishes_the_joke",
|
|
"text": "One look finishes the joke"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_know_which_detail_makes_the_story",
|
|
"text": "We know which detail makes the story"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_both_notice_the_same_absurd_thing",
|
|
"text": "We both notice the same absurd thing"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_020",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How ready are you to protect a little more time for us?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"action",
|
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"readiness",
|
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"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not ready right now",
|
|
"max_label": "Very ready"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_021",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps couch time feel connected rather than just adjacent?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"screens",
|
|
"presence",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "picking_something_we_both_want_to_watch",
|
|
"text": "Picking something we both want to watch"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reacting_and_talking_as_we_go",
|
|
"text": "Reacting and talking as we go"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_our_phones_from_taking_over",
|
|
"text": "Keeping our phones from taking over"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_close_enough_to_feel_together",
|
|
"text": "Sitting close enough to feel together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pausing_for_a_real_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Pausing for a real conversation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "picking_something_we_both_want_to_watch",
|
|
"text": "Picking something we both want to watch"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reacting_and_talking_as_we_go",
|
|
"text": "Reacting and talking as we go"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_our_phones_from_taking_over",
|
|
"text": "Keeping our phones from taking over"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_close_enough_to_feel_together",
|
|
"text": "Sitting close enough to feel together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pausing_for_a_real_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Pausing for a real conversation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_022",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us laugh and talk at the same time?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"adult_humor",
|
|
"conversation",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "retelling_a_story_we_both_know",
|
|
"text": "Retelling a story we both know"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_observations_nobody_else_would_understand",
|
|
"text": "Making observations nobody else would understand"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "admitting_the_embarrassing_part",
|
|
"text": "Admitting the embarrassing part"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_impressions_we_both_recognize",
|
|
"text": "Doing impressions we both recognize"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_one_topic_lead_somewhere_completely_different",
|
|
"text": "Letting one topic lead somewhere completely different"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "retelling_a_story_we_both_know",
|
|
"text": "Retelling a story we both know"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_observations_nobody_else_would_understand",
|
|
"text": "Making observations nobody else would understand"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "admitting_the_embarrassing_part",
|
|
"text": "Admitting the embarrassing part"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_impressions_we_both_recognize",
|
|
"text": "Doing impressions we both recognize"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_one_topic_lead_somewhere_completely_different",
|
|
"text": "Letting one topic lead somewhere completely different"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_023",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kind of support do you most appreciate during quiet time?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"support",
|
|
"quiet",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"preferences"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "just_staying_close",
|
|
"text": "Just staying close"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_me_talk_at_my_own_pace",
|
|
"text": "Letting me talk at my own pace"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_one_thoughtful_practical_thing",
|
|
"text": "Doing one thoughtful practical thing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "helping_the_mood_feel_lighter",
|
|
"text": "Helping the mood feel lighter"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "just_staying_close",
|
|
"text": "Just staying close"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_me_talk_at_my_own_pace",
|
|
"text": "Letting me talk at my own pace"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_one_thoughtful_practical_thing",
|
|
"text": "Doing one thoughtful practical thing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "helping_the_mood_feel_lighter",
|
|
"text": "Helping the mood feel lighter"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_024",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Protect one weeknight or one weekend hour?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"action",
|
|
"planning",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protect_one_weeknight",
|
|
"text": "Protect one weeknight"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protect_one_weekend_hour",
|
|
"text": "Protect one weekend hour"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protect_one_weeknight",
|
|
"text": "Protect one weeknight"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protect_one_weekend_hour",
|
|
"text": "Protect one weekend hour"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_025",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which low-energy plan would you never get tired of?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"partner_preferences",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"preferences"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quiet_meal_together",
|
|
"text": "A quiet meal together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_familiar_show_with_commentary",
|
|
"text": "A familiar show with commentary"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_slow_drive_or_ride",
|
|
"text": "A slow drive or ride"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_late_night_talk_before_sleep",
|
|
"text": "A late-night talk before sleep"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quiet_meal_together",
|
|
"text": "A quiet meal together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_familiar_show_with_commentary",
|
|
"text": "A familiar show with commentary"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_slow_drive_or_ride",
|
|
"text": "A slow drive or ride"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_late_night_talk_before_sleep",
|
|
"text": "A late-night talk before sleep"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_026",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which small changes would make time together easier to find?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"barriers",
|
|
"small_changes",
|
|
"practical_reality",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "deciding_meals_earlier",
|
|
"text": "Deciding meals earlier"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_the_mental_load_more_clearly",
|
|
"text": "Sharing the mental load more clearly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ending_work_or_chores_at_a_chosen_time",
|
|
"text": "Ending work or chores at a chosen time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "using_short_openings_instead_of_waiting_for_hours",
|
|
"text": "Using short openings instead of waiting for hours"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_one_simple_idea_ready",
|
|
"text": "Keeping one simple idea ready"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "deciding_meals_earlier",
|
|
"text": "Deciding meals earlier"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_the_mental_load_more_clearly",
|
|
"text": "Sharing the mental load more clearly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ending_work_or_chores_at_a_chosen_time",
|
|
"text": "Ending work or chores at a chosen time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "using_short_openings_instead_of_waiting_for_hours",
|
|
"text": "Using short openings instead of waiting for hours"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_one_simple_idea_ready",
|
|
"text": "Keeping one simple idea ready"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_027",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much structure helps you enjoy time together?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"planning_style",
|
|
"preferences",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Very little structure",
|
|
"max_label": "A clear plan"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_028",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kind of quality time would you guess I value more than I say?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"prediction",
|
|
"partner_preferences",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_time_with_no_pressure_to_talk",
|
|
"text": "Quiet time with no pressure to talk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_plan_that_shows_you_remembered_me",
|
|
"text": "A plan that shows you remembered me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "laughing_together_after_a_hard_day",
|
|
"text": "Laughing together after a hard day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_conversation_that_goes_below_the_surface",
|
|
"text": "A conversation that goes below the surface"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_something_ordinary_as_a_team",
|
|
"text": "Doing something ordinary as a team"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_time_with_no_pressure_to_talk",
|
|
"text": "Quiet time with no pressure to talk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_plan_that_shows_you_remembered_me",
|
|
"text": "A plan that shows you remembered me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "laughing_together_after_a_hard_day",
|
|
"text": "Laughing together after a hard day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_conversation_that_goes_below_the_surface",
|
|
"text": "A conversation that goes below the surface"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_something_ordinary_as_a_team",
|
|
"text": "Doing something ordinary as a team"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_029",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which sounds help a quiet room feel good?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"quiet",
|
|
"sensory_preferences",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_familiar_playlist_at_low_volume",
|
|
"text": "A familiar playlist at low volume"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rain_or_weather_outside",
|
|
"text": "Rain or weather outside"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_fan_and_the_normal_sounds_of_home",
|
|
"text": "A fan and the normal sounds of home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_show_neither_of_us_has_to_follow_closely",
|
|
"text": "A show neither of us has to follow closely"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "actual_silence_with_no_need_to_fill_it",
|
|
"text": "Actual silence with no need to fill it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_familiar_playlist_at_low_volume",
|
|
"text": "A familiar playlist at low volume"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rain_or_weather_outside",
|
|
"text": "Rain or weather outside"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_fan_and_the_normal_sounds_of_home",
|
|
"text": "A fan and the normal sounds of home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_show_neither_of_us_has_to_follow_closely",
|
|
"text": "A show neither of us has to follow closely"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "actual_silence_with_no_need_to_fill_it",
|
|
"text": "Actual silence with no need to fill it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_030",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us shift out of work mode and into couple mode?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"transitions",
|
|
"reconnection",
|
|
"affection",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"flirty"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changing_clothes_and_getting_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "Changing clothes and getting comfortable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_ten_minutes_before_discussing_logistics",
|
|
"text": "Taking ten minutes before discussing logistics"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "greeting_each_other_with_a_kiss_or_real_affection",
|
|
"text": "Greeting each other with a kiss or real affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "putting_on_music_that_changes_the_mood",
|
|
"text": "Putting on music that changes the mood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_one_small_thing_side_by_side",
|
|
"text": "Doing one small thing side by side"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changing_clothes_and_getting_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "Changing clothes and getting comfortable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_ten_minutes_before_discussing_logistics",
|
|
"text": "Taking ten minutes before discussing logistics"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "greeting_each_other_with_a_kiss_or_real_affection",
|
|
"text": "Greeting each other with a kiss or real affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "putting_on_music_that_changes_the_mood",
|
|
"text": "Putting on music that changes the mood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_one_small_thing_side_by_side",
|
|
"text": "Doing one small thing side by side"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_031",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How playful has our time together felt lately?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"playfulness",
|
|
"current_state",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Mostly serious",
|
|
"max_label": "Very playful"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_032",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "What makes reading or working beside each other feel warm?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"parallel_time",
|
|
"quiet",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_a_comfortable_setup",
|
|
"text": "Sharing a comfortable setup"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_small_breaks_together",
|
|
"text": "Taking small breaks together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "showing_each_other_something_interesting",
|
|
"text": "Showing each other something interesting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_interruptions_gentle",
|
|
"text": "Keeping interruptions gentle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ending_with_a_little_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Ending with a little conversation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_a_comfortable_setup",
|
|
"text": "Sharing a comfortable setup"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_small_breaks_together",
|
|
"text": "Taking small breaks together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "showing_each_other_something_interesting",
|
|
"text": "Showing each other something interesting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_interruptions_gentle",
|
|
"text": "Keeping interruptions gentle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ending_with_a_little_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Ending with a little conversation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_033",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "If I could relive one shared memory for an hour, which would I pick?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"prediction",
|
|
"memories",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_early_moment_in_our_relationship",
|
|
"text": "An early moment in our relationship"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_favorite_trip_or_day_out",
|
|
"text": "A favorite trip or day out"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_night_when_we_laughed_nonstop",
|
|
"text": "A night when we laughed nonstop"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_peaceful_ordinary_day_together",
|
|
"text": "A peaceful ordinary day together"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_early_moment_in_our_relationship",
|
|
"text": "An early moment in our relationship"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_favorite_trip_or_day_out",
|
|
"text": "A favorite trip or day out"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_night_when_we_laughed_nonstop",
|
|
"text": "A night when we laughed nonstop"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_peaceful_ordinary_day_together",
|
|
"text": "A peaceful ordinary day together"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_034",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a plan easy for you to enjoy?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"practical_reality",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"low_energy"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_realistic_amount_of_time",
|
|
"text": "A realistic amount of time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_place_where_i_can_be_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "A place where I can be comfortable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_what_the_plan_actually_involves",
|
|
"text": "Knowing what the plan actually involves"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_easy_way_to_take_a_break",
|
|
"text": "An easy way to take a break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "little_or_no_money_required",
|
|
"text": "Little or no money required"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_realistic_amount_of_time",
|
|
"text": "A realistic amount of time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_place_where_i_can_be_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "A place where I can be comfortable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_what_the_plan_actually_involves",
|
|
"text": "Knowing what the plan actually involves"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_easy_way_to_take_a_break",
|
|
"text": "An easy way to take a break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "little_or_no_money_required",
|
|
"text": "Little or no money required"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_035",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would you guess I want more of in our time together right now?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"prediction",
|
|
"current_need",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_ease",
|
|
"text": "More ease"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_laughter",
|
|
"text": "More laughter"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_affection",
|
|
"text": "More affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_meaningful_conversation",
|
|
"text": "More meaningful conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_small_plans_that_actually_happen",
|
|
"text": "More small plans that actually happen"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_ease",
|
|
"text": "More ease"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_laughter",
|
|
"text": "More laughter"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_affection",
|
|
"text": "More affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_meaningful_conversation",
|
|
"text": "More meaningful conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_small_plans_that_actually_happen",
|
|
"text": "More small plans that actually happen"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_036",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps when one of us has more energy than the other?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"energy_mismatch",
|
|
"low_pressure",
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_an_option_with_an_easy_exit",
|
|
"text": "Choosing an option with an easy exit"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_the_lower_energy_person_set_the_pace",
|
|
"text": "Letting the lower-energy person set the pace"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_something_partly_together",
|
|
"text": "Doing something partly together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saving_the_bigger_idea_for_another_day",
|
|
"text": "Saving the bigger idea for another day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_taking_the_mismatch_personally",
|
|
"text": "Not taking the mismatch personally"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_an_option_with_an_easy_exit",
|
|
"text": "Choosing an option with an easy exit"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_the_lower_energy_person_set_the_pace",
|
|
"text": "Letting the lower-energy person set the pace"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_something_partly_together",
|
|
"text": "Doing something partly together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saving_the_bigger_idea_for_another_day",
|
|
"text": "Saving the bigger idea for another day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_taking_the_mismatch_personally",
|
|
"text": "Not taking the mismatch personally"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_037",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Where could we go for an hour without turning it into a big expense?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"low_cost",
|
|
"short_outing",
|
|
"invitation",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_park_or_walking_path",
|
|
"text": "A park or walking path"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_bookstore_or_library",
|
|
"text": "A bookstore or library"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_familiar_caf_for_one_drink",
|
|
"text": "A familiar café for one drink"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_local_place_we_have_never_explored",
|
|
"text": "A local place we have never explored"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_park_or_walking_path",
|
|
"text": "A park or walking path"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_bookstore_or_library",
|
|
"text": "A bookstore or library"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_familiar_caf_for_one_drink",
|
|
"text": "A familiar café for one drink"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_local_place_we_have_never_explored",
|
|
"text": "A local place we have never explored"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_038",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps a conversation feel easy instead of like an interview?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"conversation",
|
|
"low_pressure",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"adult_humor"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_the_topic_wander",
|
|
"text": "Letting the topic wander"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_our_own_answer_too",
|
|
"text": "Sharing our own answer too"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_forcing_every_silence",
|
|
"text": "Not forcing every silence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_because_we_are_genuinely_curious",
|
|
"text": "Asking because we are genuinely curious"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stopping_before_the_talk_gets_draining",
|
|
"text": "Stopping before the talk gets draining"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_the_topic_wander",
|
|
"text": "Letting the topic wander"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_our_own_answer_too",
|
|
"text": "Sharing our own answer too"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_forcing_every_silence",
|
|
"text": "Not forcing every silence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_because_we_are_genuinely_curious",
|
|
"text": "Asking because we are genuinely curious"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stopping_before_the_talk_gets_draining",
|
|
"text": "Stopping before the talk gets draining"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_039",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Talk through something real or simply enjoy being together?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"current_need",
|
|
"meaningful",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talk_through_something_real",
|
|
"text": "Talk through something real"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "simply_enjoy_being_together",
|
|
"text": "Simply enjoy being together"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talk_through_something_real",
|
|
"text": "Talk through something real"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "simply_enjoy_being_together",
|
|
"text": "Simply enjoy being together"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_040",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of affection make ordinary time feel more special?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"affection",
|
|
"flirty",
|
|
"ordinary_time",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_real_hello_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A real hello kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_close_without_being_asked",
|
|
"text": "Sitting close without being asked"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_on_my_back_as_you_pass",
|
|
"text": "A hand on my back as you pass"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands_during_a_walk",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands during a walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_long_hug_before_we_move_on",
|
|
"text": "A long hug before we move on"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_real_hello_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A real hello kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_close_without_being_asked",
|
|
"text": "Sitting close without being asked"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_on_my_back_as_you_pass",
|
|
"text": "A hand on my back as you pass"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands_during_a_walk",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands during a walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_long_hug_before_we_move_on",
|
|
"text": "A long hug before we move on"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_041",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kind of plan fits us best this week?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"planning",
|
|
"invitation",
|
|
"practical_reality",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_easy_evening_at_home",
|
|
"text": "One easy evening at home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_outing_with_no_big_agenda",
|
|
"text": "A short outing with no big agenda"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_protected_hour_for_talking_and_relaxing",
|
|
"text": "A protected hour for talking and relaxing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_spontaneous_choice_when_we_both_have_energy",
|
|
"text": "A spontaneous choice when we both have energy"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_easy_evening_at_home",
|
|
"text": "One easy evening at home"
|
|
},
|
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{
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"id": "a_short_outing_with_no_big_agenda",
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"text": "A short outing with no big agenda"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "a_protected_hour_for_talking_and_relaxing",
|
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"text": "A protected hour for talking and relaxing"
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "a_spontaneous_choice_when_we_both_have_energy",
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"text": "A spontaneous choice when we both have energy"
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}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_042",
|
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"category_id": "quality_time",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which small gestures would you bet I remember longest?",
|
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"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"prediction",
|
|
"thoughtfulness",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
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{
|
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"id": "you_saving_me_a_comfortable_spot",
|
|
"text": "You saving me a comfortable spot"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_sending_a_message_tied_to_our_conversation",
|
|
"text": "You sending a message tied to our conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_making_time_before_i_have_to_ask",
|
|
"text": "You making time before I have to ask"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_noticing_when_i_need_a_slower_plan",
|
|
"text": "You noticing when I need a slower plan"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_reaching_for_me_during_an_ordinary_moment",
|
|
"text": "You reaching for me during an ordinary moment"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_saving_me_a_comfortable_spot",
|
|
"text": "You saving me a comfortable spot"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_sending_a_message_tied_to_our_conversation",
|
|
"text": "You sending a message tied to our conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_making_time_before_i_have_to_ask",
|
|
"text": "You making time before I have to ask"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_noticing_when_i_need_a_slower_plan",
|
|
"text": "You noticing when I need a slower plan"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_reaching_for_me_during_an_ordinary_moment",
|
|
"text": "You reaching for me during an ordinary moment"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_043",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of physical closeness fits a quiet evening?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"affection",
|
|
"quiet",
|
|
"consent_aware",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"flirty"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands_for_a_while",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands for a while"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaning_against_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Leaning against each other"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "resting_our_feet_together",
|
|
"text": "Resting our feet together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_few_slow_hugs_throughout_the_night",
|
|
"text": "A few slow hugs throughout the night"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_nearby_with_comfortable_space",
|
|
"text": "Sitting nearby with comfortable space"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands_for_a_while",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands for a while"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaning_against_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Leaning against each other"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "resting_our_feet_together",
|
|
"text": "Resting our feet together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_few_slow_hugs_throughout_the_night",
|
|
"text": "A few slow hugs throughout the night"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_nearby_with_comfortable_space",
|
|
"text": "Sitting nearby with comfortable space"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_044",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes watching something together feel like shared time?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"screens",
|
|
"shared_experience",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_it_as_a_team",
|
|
"text": "Choosing it as a team"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saving_an_episode_for_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Saving an episode for each other"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trading_reactions_during_the_good_parts",
|
|
"text": "Trading reactions during the good parts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_the_setup_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "Making the setup comfortable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_about_it_when_it_ends",
|
|
"text": "Talking about it when it ends"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_it_as_a_team",
|
|
"text": "Choosing it as a team"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saving_an_episode_for_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Saving an episode for each other"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trading_reactions_during_the_good_parts",
|
|
"text": "Trading reactions during the good parts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_the_setup_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "Making the setup comfortable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_about_it_when_it_ends",
|
|
"text": "Talking about it when it ends"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_045",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Cuddled up close or sitting nearby with room to breathe?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"affection_style",
|
|
"low_pressure",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cuddled_up_close",
|
|
"text": "Cuddled up close"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "nearby_with_room_to_breathe",
|
|
"text": "Nearby with room to breathe"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cuddled_up_close",
|
|
"text": "Cuddled up close"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "nearby_with_room_to_breathe",
|
|
"text": "Nearby with room to breathe"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_046",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you switch gears and be present with me?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"transitions",
|
|
"presence",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "finishing_the_one_thing_still_pulling_at_my_attention",
|
|
"text": "Finishing the one thing still pulling at my attention"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_few_quiet_minutes_to_shift_gears",
|
|
"text": "A few quiet minutes to shift gears"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_roughly_what_we_are_doing",
|
|
"text": "Knowing roughly what we are doing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "getting_comfortable_first",
|
|
"text": "Getting comfortable first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_little_affection_or_humor_at_the_start",
|
|
"text": "A little affection or humor at the start"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "finishing_the_one_thing_still_pulling_at_my_attention",
|
|
"text": "Finishing the one thing still pulling at my attention"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_few_quiet_minutes_to_shift_gears",
|
|
"text": "A few quiet minutes to shift gears"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_roughly_what_we_are_doing",
|
|
"text": "Knowing roughly what we are doing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "getting_comfortable_first",
|
|
"text": "Getting comfortable first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_little_affection_or_humor_at_the_start",
|
|
"text": "A little affection or humor at the start"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_047",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What gets in the way of enjoying time together fastest?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"barriers",
|
|
"partner_awareness",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"preferences"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_many_decisions",
|
|
"text": "Too many decisions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_enough_energy",
|
|
"text": "Not enough energy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "constant_interruptions",
|
|
"text": "Constant interruptions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_like_the_plan_is_another_obligation",
|
|
"text": "Feeling like the plan is another obligation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_many_decisions",
|
|
"text": "Too many decisions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_enough_energy",
|
|
"text": "Not enough energy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "constant_interruptions",
|
|
"text": "Constant interruptions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_like_the_plan_is_another_obligation",
|
|
"text": "Feeling like the plan is another obligation"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_048",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How connected do you feel to the routines and traditions we have now?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"traditions",
|
|
"connection",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not very connected",
|
|
"max_label": "Deeply connected"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_049",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "When privacy is limited, what still helps us connect?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"privacy_limits",
|
|
"practical_reality",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_walk_where_we_can_talk_quietly",
|
|
"text": "A walk where we can talk quietly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "headphones_and_a_shared_show",
|
|
"text": "Headphones and a shared show"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_brief_check_in_after_others_settle_down",
|
|
"text": "A brief check-in after others settle down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_message_that_starts_a_later_conversation",
|
|
"text": "A message that starts a later conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_small_ritual_that_does_not_need_much_space",
|
|
"text": "A small ritual that does not need much space"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_walk_where_we_can_talk_quietly",
|
|
"text": "A walk where we can talk quietly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "headphones_and_a_shared_show",
|
|
"text": "Headphones and a shared show"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_brief_check_in_after_others_settle_down",
|
|
"text": "A brief check-in after others settle down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_message_that_starts_a_later_conversation",
|
|
"text": "A message that starts a later conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_small_ritual_that_does_not_need_much_space",
|
|
"text": "A small ritual that does not need much space"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_050",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which ordinary things become more fun because we do them together?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"playfulness",
|
|
"ordinary_time",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trying_to_choose_what_to_eat",
|
|
"text": "Trying to choose what to eat"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "commenting_through_a_familiar_show",
|
|
"text": "Commenting through a familiar show"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_the_long_way_home",
|
|
"text": "Taking the long way home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "waiting_somewhere_with_nothing_to_do",
|
|
"text": "Waiting somewhere with nothing to do"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "turning_a_small_mistake_into_a_story",
|
|
"text": "Turning a small mistake into a story"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trying_to_choose_what_to_eat",
|
|
"text": "Trying to choose what to eat"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "commenting_through_a_familiar_show",
|
|
"text": "Commenting through a familiar show"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_the_long_way_home",
|
|
"text": "Taking the long way home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "waiting_somewhere_with_nothing_to_do",
|
|
"text": "Waiting somewhere with nothing to do"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "turning_a_small_mistake_into_a_story",
|
|
"text": "Turning a small mistake into a story"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_051",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which invitations would feel easiest to say yes to tonight?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"invitation",
|
|
"flirty",
|
|
"consent_aware",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "come_sit_with_me_for_a_while",
|
|
"text": "Come sit with me for a while"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "want_to_take_a_short_walk_together",
|
|
"text": "Want to take a short walk together?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "can_i_kiss_you",
|
|
"text": "Can I kiss you?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "should_we_put_on_our_song",
|
|
"text": "Should we put on our song?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "want_some_quiet_company",
|
|
"text": "Want some quiet company?"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "come_sit_with_me_for_a_while",
|
|
"text": "Come sit with me for a while"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "want_to_take_a_short_walk_together",
|
|
"text": "Want to take a short walk together?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "can_i_kiss_you",
|
|
"text": "Can I kiss you?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "should_we_put_on_our_song",
|
|
"text": "Should we put on our song?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "want_some_quiet_company",
|
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"text": "Want some quiet company?"
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}
|
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],
|
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
|
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}
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_052",
|
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"category_id": "quality_time",
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"type": "written",
|
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"text": "What conversation with me made you feel especially known or understood?",
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"depth": 3,
|
|
"tags": [
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"memory",
|
|
"conversation",
|
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"meaningful",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
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"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 500,
|
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"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_053",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make a boring wait more enjoyable together?",
|
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"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"waiting",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"adult_humor",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "people_watching_without_being_cruel",
|
|
"text": "People-watching without being cruel"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_up_harmless_backstories",
|
|
"text": "Making up harmless backstories"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "looking_through_old_photos",
|
|
"text": "Looking through old photos"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "planning_one_thing_we_want_to_do_soon",
|
|
"text": "Planning one thing we want to do soon"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "playing_a_quiet_question_game",
|
|
"text": "Playing a quiet question game"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "people_watching_without_being_cruel",
|
|
"text": "People-watching without being cruel"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_up_harmless_backstories",
|
|
"text": "Making up harmless backstories"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "looking_through_old_photos",
|
|
"text": "Looking through old photos"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "planning_one_thing_we_want_to_do_soon",
|
|
"text": "Planning one thing we want to do soon"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "playing_a_quiet_question_game",
|
|
"text": "Playing a quiet question game"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_054",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How comfortable are you with silence when we are together?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"silence",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "I prefer more interaction",
|
|
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_055",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which ordinary tasks can still feel like quality time?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"ordinary_time",
|
|
"shared_tasks",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cooking_something_side_by_side",
|
|
"text": "Cooking something side by side"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "running_one_easy_errand_together",
|
|
"text": "Running one easy errand together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tidying_up_with_music_playing",
|
|
"text": "Tidying up with music playing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "planning_the_week_over_coffee",
|
|
"text": "Planning the week over coffee"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_care_of_a_small_project_as_a_team",
|
|
"text": "Taking care of a small project as a team"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cooking_something_side_by_side",
|
|
"text": "Cooking something side by side"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "running_one_easy_errand_together",
|
|
"text": "Running one easy errand together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tidying_up_with_music_playing",
|
|
"text": "Tidying up with music playing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "planning_the_week_over_coffee",
|
|
"text": "Planning the week over coffee"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_care_of_a_small_project_as_a_team",
|
|
"text": "Taking care of a small project as a team"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_056",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make our next free evening feel well spent?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"action",
|
|
"free_evening",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_choose_based_on_our_actual_energy",
|
|
"text": "We choose based on our actual energy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_include_both_connection_and_rest",
|
|
"text": "We include both connection and rest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_do_not_spend_the_whole_time_deciding",
|
|
"text": "We do not spend the whole time deciding"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_make_room_for_some_affection",
|
|
"text": "We make room for some affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_end_feeling_glad_we_protected_the_time",
|
|
"text": "We end feeling glad we protected the time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_choose_based_on_our_actual_energy",
|
|
"text": "We choose based on our actual energy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_include_both_connection_and_rest",
|
|
"text": "We include both connection and rest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_do_not_spend_the_whole_time_deciding",
|
|
"text": "We do not spend the whole time deciding"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_make_room_for_some_affection",
|
|
"text": "We make room for some affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_end_feeling_glad_we_protected_the_time",
|
|
"text": "We end feeling glad we protected the time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_057",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you feel that I am fully with you?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"attention",
|
|
"presence",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_look_up_and_stay_engaged",
|
|
"text": "I look up and stay engaged"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_remember_the_small_details",
|
|
"text": "I remember the small details"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_ask_a_follow_up_because_i_am_curious",
|
|
"text": "I ask a follow-up because I am curious"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_put_down_what_i_was_doing",
|
|
"text": "I put down what I was doing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_respond_instead_of_just_nodding",
|
|
"text": "I respond instead of just nodding"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_look_up_and_stay_engaged",
|
|
"text": "I look up and stay engaged"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_remember_the_small_details",
|
|
"text": "I remember the small details"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_ask_a_follow_up_because_i_am_curious",
|
|
"text": "I ask a follow-up because I am curious"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_put_down_what_i_was_doing",
|
|
"text": "I put down what I was doing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_respond_instead_of_just_nodding",
|
|
"text": "I respond instead of just nodding"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_058",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What old tradition should we bring back first?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"traditions",
|
|
"invitation",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_regular_walk_or_drive",
|
|
"text": "A regular walk or drive"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_favorite_meal_on_a_certain_day",
|
|
"text": "A favorite meal on a certain day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_small_celebration_for_ordinary_wins",
|
|
"text": "A small celebration for ordinary wins"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_screen_free_hour_we_used_to_enjoy",
|
|
"text": "A screen-free hour we used to enjoy"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_regular_walk_or_drive",
|
|
"text": "A regular walk or drive"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_favorite_meal_on_a_certain_day",
|
|
"text": "A favorite meal on a certain day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_small_celebration_for_ordinary_wins",
|
|
"text": "A small celebration for ordinary wins"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_screen_free_hour_we_used_to_enjoy",
|
|
"text": "A screen-free hour we used to enjoy"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_059",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "An unexpected free hour appears. What do you think I would choose?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"prediction",
|
|
"free_time",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stay_home_and_make_it_cozy",
|
|
"text": "Stay home and make it cozy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "go_somewhere_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Go somewhere nearby"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talk_over_food_or_drinks",
|
|
"text": "Talk over food or drinks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_our_own_things_close_together",
|
|
"text": "Do our own things close together"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stay_home_and_make_it_cozy",
|
|
"text": "Stay home and make it cozy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "go_somewhere_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Go somewhere nearby"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talk_over_food_or_drinks",
|
|
"text": "Talk over food or drinks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_our_own_things_close_together",
|
|
"text": "Do our own things close together"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_060",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which at-home moments feel genuinely worth protecting?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"home_time",
|
|
"routines",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_first_quiet_minutes_after_the_day",
|
|
"text": "The first quiet minutes after the day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_meal_we_are_not_rushing_through",
|
|
"text": "A meal we are not rushing through"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_show_or_game_we_choose_together",
|
|
"text": "A show or game we choose together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_in_bed_before_sleep",
|
|
"text": "Time in bed before sleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_weekend_morning_with_nowhere_immediate_to_be",
|
|
"text": "A weekend morning with nowhere immediate to be"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_first_quiet_minutes_after_the_day",
|
|
"text": "The first quiet minutes after the day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_meal_we_are_not_rushing_through",
|
|
"text": "A meal we are not rushing through"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_show_or_game_we_choose_together",
|
|
"text": "A show or game we choose together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_in_bed_before_sleep",
|
|
"text": "Time in bed before sleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_weekend_morning_with_nowhere_immediate_to_be",
|
|
"text": "A weekend morning with nowhere immediate to be"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_061",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "We have fifteen minutes before the next thing. What should we do with them?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"quick_connection",
|
|
"invitation",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "catch_up_without_our_phones",
|
|
"text": "Catch up without our phones"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "step_outside_for_fresh_air",
|
|
"text": "Step outside for fresh air"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "put_on_one_song_and_stay_put",
|
|
"text": "Put on one song and stay put"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "make_a_drink_and_sit_together",
|
|
"text": "Make a drink and sit together"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "catch_up_without_our_phones",
|
|
"text": "Catch up without our phones"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "step_outside_for_fresh_air",
|
|
"text": "Step outside for fresh air"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "put_on_one_song_and_stay_put",
|
|
"text": "Put on one song and stay put"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "make_a_drink_and_sit_together",
|
|
"text": "Make a drink and sit together"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_062",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "Tell me about a time when you felt I was completely present with you.",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"memory",
|
|
"attention",
|
|
"meaningful",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 500,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_063",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of touch are welcome during relaxed time together?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"affection",
|
|
"consent_aware",
|
|
"quiet",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "resting_against_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Resting against each other"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shoulder_or_foot_rub_when_offered",
|
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"text": "A shoulder or foot rub when offered"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cuddling_for_a_while",
|
|
"text": "Cuddling for a while"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_close_without_needing_touch",
|
|
"text": "Being close without needing touch"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "resting_against_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Resting against each other"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shoulder_or_foot_rub_when_offered",
|
|
"text": "A shoulder or foot rub when offered"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cuddling_for_a_while",
|
|
"text": "Cuddling for a while"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_close_without_needing_touch",
|
|
"text": "Being close without needing touch"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_064",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What do you think helps me relax and be present?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"prediction",
|
|
"relaxation",
|
|
"partner_awareness",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_we_do_not_have_to_accomplish_anything",
|
|
"text": "Knowing we do not have to accomplish anything"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_enough_time_to_settle_in",
|
|
"text": "Having enough time to settle in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "starting_with_a_little_humor",
|
|
"text": "Starting with a little humor"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_physically_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "Being physically comfortable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_we_can_change_the_plan",
|
|
"text": "Knowing we can change the plan"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_we_do_not_have_to_accomplish_anything",
|
|
"text": "Knowing we do not have to accomplish anything"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_enough_time_to_settle_in",
|
|
"text": "Having enough time to settle in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "starting_with_a_little_humor",
|
|
"text": "Starting with a little humor"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_physically_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "Being physically comfortable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_we_can_change_the_plan",
|
|
"text": "Knowing we can change the plan"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_065",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kinds of conversations leave you feeling close to me?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"conversation",
|
|
"feeling_known",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stories_from_before_we_met",
|
|
"text": "Stories from before we met"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thoughts_we_do_not_share_with_everyone",
|
|
"text": "Thoughts we do not share with everyone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plans_we_are_excited_about",
|
|
"text": "Plans we are excited about"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ridiculous_observations_about_daily_life",
|
|
"text": "Ridiculous observations about daily life"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honest_talk_about_what_we_need",
|
|
"text": "Honest talk about what we need"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stories_from_before_we_met",
|
|
"text": "Stories from before we met"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thoughts_we_do_not_share_with_everyone",
|
|
"text": "Thoughts we do not share with everyone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plans_we_are_excited_about",
|
|
"text": "Plans we are excited about"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ridiculous_observations_about_daily_life",
|
|
"text": "Ridiculous observations about daily life"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honest_talk_about_what_we_need",
|
|
"text": "Honest talk about what we need"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_066",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well does our time together match your current energy?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"energy",
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "It rarely matches",
|
|
"max_label": "It matches very well"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_067",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can make a short outing feel meaningful?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"short_outing",
|
|
"presence",
|
|
"practical_reality",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"flirty"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_not_squeezing_it_between_stressful_tasks",
|
|
"text": "We are not squeezing it between stressful tasks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_choose_one_place_we_both_enjoy",
|
|
"text": "We choose one place we both enjoy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_talk_without_checking_the_clock",
|
|
"text": "We talk without checking the clock"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_include_one_small_treat_or_a_little_flirting",
|
|
"text": "We include one small treat or a little flirting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_end_before_either_of_us_is_worn_out",
|
|
"text": "We end before either of us is worn out"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_not_squeezing_it_between_stressful_tasks",
|
|
"text": "We are not squeezing it between stressful tasks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_choose_one_place_we_both_enjoy",
|
|
"text": "We choose one place we both enjoy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_talk_without_checking_the_clock",
|
|
"text": "We talk without checking the clock"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_include_one_small_treat_or_a_little_flirting",
|
|
"text": "We include one small treat or a little flirting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_end_before_either_of_us_is_worn_out",
|
|
"text": "We end before either of us is worn out"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_068",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signs tell you our time together really mattered?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"meaningful",
|
|
"connection_signals",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_feel_calmer_afterward",
|
|
"text": "I feel calmer afterward"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_learned_something_new_about_you",
|
|
"text": "I learned something new about you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_made_a_plan_we_both_want",
|
|
"text": "We made a plan we both want"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_keep_thinking_about_something_you_said",
|
|
"text": "I keep thinking about something you said"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_leave_feeling_more_like_a_team",
|
|
"text": "We leave feeling more like a team"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_feel_calmer_afterward",
|
|
"text": "I feel calmer afterward"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_learned_something_new_about_you",
|
|
"text": "I learned something new about you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_made_a_plan_we_both_want",
|
|
"text": "We made a plan we both want"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_keep_thinking_about_something_you_said",
|
|
"text": "I keep thinking about something you said"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_leave_feeling_more_like_a_team",
|
|
"text": "We leave feeling more like a team"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_069",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which small plan should we actually put on the calendar?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"action",
|
|
"invitation",
|
|
"planning",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_weekday_hour_with_no_chores",
|
|
"text": "A weekday hour with no chores"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_low_cost_outing_close_to_home",
|
|
"text": "A low-cost outing close to home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_favorite_meal_and_a_real_catch_up",
|
|
"text": "A favorite meal and a real catch-up"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_weekend_morning_with_no_agenda",
|
|
"text": "A weekend morning with no agenda"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_weekday_hour_with_no_chores",
|
|
"text": "A weekday hour with no chores"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_low_cost_outing_close_to_home",
|
|
"text": "A low-cost outing close to home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_favorite_meal_and_a_real_catch_up",
|
|
"text": "A favorite meal and a real catch-up"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_weekend_morning_with_no_agenda",
|
|
"text": "A weekend morning with no agenda"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_070",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of separate-but-together time still count for you?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"parallel_time",
|
|
"quiet",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reading_different_things_on_the_same_couch",
|
|
"text": "Reading different things on the same couch"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "working_on_separate_hobbies_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Working on separate hobbies nearby"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_computer_tasks_at_the_same_table",
|
|
"text": "Doing computer tasks at the same table"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listening_to_our_own_audio_while_sitting_close",
|
|
"text": "Listening to our own audio while sitting close"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_turns_choosing_background_music",
|
|
"text": "Taking turns choosing background music"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reading_different_things_on_the_same_couch",
|
|
"text": "Reading different things on the same couch"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "working_on_separate_hobbies_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Working on separate hobbies nearby"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_computer_tasks_at_the_same_table",
|
|
"text": "Doing computer tasks at the same table"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listening_to_our_own_audio_while_sitting_close",
|
|
"text": "Listening to our own audio while sitting close"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_turns_choosing_background_music",
|
|
"text": "Taking turns choosing background music"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_071",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which parts of our couple lore make time together better?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"shared_history",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"adult_humor"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "nicknames_with_a_whole_history_behind_them",
|
|
"text": "Nicknames with a whole history behind them"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stories_we_tell_differently_every_time",
|
|
"text": "Stories we tell differently every time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "places_that_have_become_ours",
|
|
"text": "Places that have become ours"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "running_jokes_that_need_no_explanation",
|
|
"text": "Running jokes that need no explanation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "songs_tied_to_very_specific_memories",
|
|
"text": "Songs tied to very specific memories"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "nicknames_with_a_whole_history_behind_them",
|
|
"text": "Nicknames with a whole history behind them"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stories_we_tell_differently_every_time",
|
|
"text": "Stories we tell differently every time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "places_that_have_become_ours",
|
|
"text": "Places that have become ours"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "running_jokes_that_need_no_explanation",
|
|
"text": "Running jokes that need no explanation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "songs_tied_to_very_specific_memories",
|
|
"text": "Songs tied to very specific memories"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_072",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which flirty moments fit naturally into quality time for you?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirty",
|
|
"romance",
|
|
"consent_aware",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_compliment_that_is_specific_and_believable",
|
|
"text": "A compliment that is specific and believable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_look_that_clearly_means_something",
|
|
"text": "A look that clearly means something"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_playful_message_from_the_next_room",
|
|
"text": "A playful message from the next room"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_kiss_that_interrupts_an_ordinary_moment",
|
|
"text": "A kiss that interrupts an ordinary moment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_little_teasing_that_we_both_enjoy",
|
|
"text": "A little teasing that we both enjoy"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_compliment_that_is_specific_and_believable",
|
|
"text": "A compliment that is specific and believable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_look_that_clearly_means_something",
|
|
"text": "A look that clearly means something"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_playful_message_from_the_next_room",
|
|
"text": "A playful message from the next room"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_kiss_that_interrupts_an_ordinary_moment",
|
|
"text": "A kiss that interrupts an ordinary moment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_little_teasing_that_we_both_enjoy",
|
|
"text": "A little teasing that we both enjoy"
|
|
}
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],
|
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_073",
|
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"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kind of question do you most enjoy hearing from me?",
|
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"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
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"conversation",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"preferences"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_made_you_laugh_today",
|
|
"text": "What made you laugh today?"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_are_you_looking_forward_to",
|
|
"text": "What are you looking forward to?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_do_you_really_think_about_that",
|
|
"text": "What do you really think about that?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_would_make_tonight_better",
|
|
"text": "What would make tonight better?"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_made_you_laugh_today",
|
|
"text": "What made you laugh today?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_are_you_looking_forward_to",
|
|
"text": "What are you looking forward to?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_do_you_really_think_about_that",
|
|
"text": "What do you really think about that?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_would_make_tonight_better",
|
|
"text": "What would make tonight better?"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_074",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Repeat a favorite or make a brand-new memory?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"memories",
|
|
"variety",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repeat_a_favorite",
|
|
"text": "Repeat a favorite"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "make_a_brand_new_memory",
|
|
"text": "Make a brand-new memory"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repeat_a_favorite",
|
|
"text": "Repeat a favorite"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "make_a_brand_new_memory",
|
|
"text": "Make a brand-new memory"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_075",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What could we do in the next seven days that would feel like us?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"action",
|
|
"invitation",
|
|
"couple_identity",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "revisit_a_place_or_activity_we_already_love",
|
|
"text": "Revisit a place or activity we already love"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "make_one_ordinary_night_more_intentional",
|
|
"text": "Make one ordinary night more intentional"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "try_a_small_idea_we_have_mentioned_before",
|
|
"text": "Try a small idea we have mentioned before"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protect_a_quiet_hour_with_no_agenda",
|
|
"text": "Protect a quiet hour with no agenda"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "create_a_new_inside_joke_or_memory",
|
|
"text": "Create a new inside joke or memory"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "revisit_a_place_or_activity_we_already_love",
|
|
"text": "Revisit a place or activity we already love"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "make_one_ordinary_night_more_intentional",
|
|
"text": "Make one ordinary night more intentional"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "try_a_small_idea_we_have_mentioned_before",
|
|
"text": "Try a small idea we have mentioned before"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protect_a_quiet_hour_with_no_agenda",
|
|
"text": "Protect a quiet hour with no agenda"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "create_a_new_inside_joke_or_memory",
|
|
"text": "Create a new inside joke or memory"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_076",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What gets in the way of quality time even when we mean well?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"barriers",
|
|
"busy_life",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_wait_for_a_perfect_opening",
|
|
"text": "We wait for a perfect opening"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_both_mentally_somewhere_else",
|
|
"text": "We are both mentally somewhere else"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "logistics_take_over_every_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Logistics take over every conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_of_us_is_too_tired_to_decide",
|
|
"text": "One of us is too tired to decide"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_assume_being_in_the_same_room_is_enough",
|
|
"text": "We assume being in the same room is enough"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_wait_for_a_perfect_opening",
|
|
"text": "We wait for a perfect opening"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_both_mentally_somewhere_else",
|
|
"text": "We are both mentally somewhere else"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "logistics_take_over_every_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Logistics take over every conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_of_us_is_too_tired_to_decide",
|
|
"text": "One of us is too tired to decide"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_assume_being_in_the_same_room_is_enough",
|
|
"text": "We assume being in the same room is enough"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_077",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which home plan would I pick first?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"prediction",
|
|
"home_time",
|
|
"partner_preferences",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cook_something_easy_together",
|
|
"text": "Cook something easy together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "watch_an_old_favorite",
|
|
"text": "Watch an old favorite"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "play_a_game_at_the_table",
|
|
"text": "Play a game at the table"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sit_outside_and_talk",
|
|
"text": "Sit outside and talk"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cook_something_easy_together",
|
|
"text": "Cook something easy together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "watch_an_old_favorite",
|
|
"text": "Watch an old favorite"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "play_a_game_at_the_table",
|
|
"text": "Play a game at the table"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sit_outside_and_talk",
|
|
"text": "Sit outside and talk"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_078",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of attention feels warmest when it comes from me?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"attention",
|
|
"feeling_known",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listening_without_trying_to_fix_anything",
|
|
"text": "Listening without trying to fix anything"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "noticing_a_change_in_my_mood",
|
|
"text": "Noticing a change in my mood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_eye_contact_when_i_answer",
|
|
"text": "Making eye contact when I answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remembering_something_i_mentioned_earlier",
|
|
"text": "Remembering something I mentioned earlier"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "giving_me_your_full_focus_for_a_few_minutes",
|
|
"text": "Giving me your full focus for a few minutes"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listening_without_trying_to_fix_anything",
|
|
"text": "Listening without trying to fix anything"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "noticing_a_change_in_my_mood",
|
|
"text": "Noticing a change in my mood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_eye_contact_when_i_answer",
|
|
"text": "Making eye contact when I answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remembering_something_i_mentioned_earlier",
|
|
"text": "Remembering something I mentioned earlier"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "giving_me_your_full_focus_for_a_few_minutes",
|
|
"text": "Giving me your full focus for a few minutes"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_079",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us end a serious conversation feeling close?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"emotional_landing",
|
|
"conversation",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_what_we_heard_each_other_say",
|
|
"text": "Saying what we heard each other say"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_what_we_appreciate_about_the_honesty",
|
|
"text": "Saying what we appreciate about the honesty"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_one_small_next_step",
|
|
"text": "Choosing one small next step"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_affection_if_it_feels_welcome",
|
|
"text": "Sharing affection if it feels welcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_something_calming_together_afterward",
|
|
"text": "Doing something calming together afterward"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_what_we_heard_each_other_say",
|
|
"text": "Saying what we heard each other say"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_what_we_appreciate_about_the_honesty",
|
|
"text": "Saying what we appreciate about the honesty"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_one_small_next_step",
|
|
"text": "Choosing one small next step"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_affection_if_it_feels_welcome",
|
|
"text": "Sharing affection if it feels welcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_something_calming_together_afterward",
|
|
"text": "Doing something calming together afterward"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_080",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much do our current routines help us feel connected?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"routines",
|
|
"connection",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"low_energy"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Very little",
|
|
"max_label": "A great deal"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_081",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which settings make conversation easiest for you?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"conversation_settings",
|
|
"practical_reality",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"low_energy"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "walking_side_by_side",
|
|
"text": "Walking side by side"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_in_the_car_after_arriving",
|
|
"text": "Sitting in the car after arriving"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_in_bed_with_the_lights_low",
|
|
"text": "Talking in bed with the lights low"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_a_meal_without_a_deadline",
|
|
"text": "Sharing a meal without a deadline"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_something_with_our_hands",
|
|
"text": "Doing something with our hands"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "walking_side_by_side",
|
|
"text": "Walking side by side"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_in_the_car_after_arriving",
|
|
"text": "Sitting in the car after arriving"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_in_bed_with_the_lights_low",
|
|
"text": "Talking in bed with the lights low"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_a_meal_without_a_deadline",
|
|
"text": "Sharing a meal without a deadline"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_something_with_our_hands",
|
|
"text": "Doing something with our hands"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_082",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps time in public still feel private enough to connect?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"public_time",
|
|
"presence",
|
|
"practical_reality",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_side_by_side_instead_of_across_a_loud_room",
|
|
"text": "Sitting side by side instead of across a loud room"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_a_place_where_we_can_actually_hear_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Choosing a place where we can actually hear each other"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_a_shared_joke_or_small_ritual",
|
|
"text": "Having a shared joke or small ritual"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_a_walk_away_from_the_crowd",
|
|
"text": "Taking a walk away from the crowd"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_the_plan_simple_enough_to_stay_present",
|
|
"text": "Keeping the plan simple enough to stay present"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_side_by_side_instead_of_across_a_loud_room",
|
|
"text": "Sitting side by side instead of across a loud room"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_a_place_where_we_can_actually_hear_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Choosing a place where we can actually hear each other"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_a_shared_joke_or_small_ritual",
|
|
"text": "Having a shared joke or small ritual"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_a_walk_away_from_the_crowd",
|
|
"text": "Taking a walk away from the crowd"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_the_plan_simple_enough_to_stay_present",
|
|
"text": "Keeping the plan simple enough to stay present"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_083",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "How can we protect time together without making the calendar feel stricter?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"busy_life",
|
|
"planning",
|
|
"low_pressure",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"sex": "neutral",
|
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"options": [
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{
|
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"id": "keeping_the_plan_small",
|
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"text": "Keeping the plan small"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "choosing_a_regular_window_instead_of_a_rigid_event",
|
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"text": "Choosing a regular window instead of a rigid event"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "treating_rescheduling_as_normal",
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"text": "Treating rescheduling as normal"
|
|
},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "saying_no_to_one_lower_priority_commitment",
|
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"text": "Saying no to one lower-priority commitment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_the_setup_as_easy_as_possible",
|
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"text": "Making the setup as easy as possible"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_the_plan_small",
|
|
"text": "Keeping the plan small"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_a_regular_window_instead_of_a_rigid_event",
|
|
"text": "Choosing a regular window instead of a rigid event"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "treating_rescheduling_as_normal",
|
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"text": "Treating rescheduling as normal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_no_to_one_lower_priority_commitment",
|
|
"text": "Saying no to one lower-priority commitment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_the_setup_as_easy_as_possible",
|
|
"text": "Making the setup as easy as possible"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_084",
|
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"category_id": "quality_time",
|
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"type": "single_choice",
|
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"text": "What should be our easiest weekday ritual?",
|
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"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
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"rituals",
|
|
"invitation",
|
|
"weekday",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
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"low_energy"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_ten_minute_couch_check_in",
|
|
"text": "A ten-minute couch check-in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_drink_together_after_work",
|
|
"text": "A drink together after work"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_song_before_we_start_dinner",
|
|
"text": "One song before we start dinner"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_goodnight_conversation",
|
|
"text": "A short goodnight conversation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_ten_minute_couch_check_in",
|
|
"text": "A ten-minute couch check-in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_drink_together_after_work",
|
|
"text": "A drink together after work"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_song_before_we_start_dinner",
|
|
"text": "One song before we start dinner"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_goodnight_conversation",
|
|
"text": "A short goodnight conversation"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_085",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which details make a simple plan feel thoughtful?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"thoughtfulness",
|
|
"planning",
|
|
"feeling_known",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"couple_lore"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remembering_what_i_have_been_craving",
|
|
"text": "Remembering what I have been craving"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_a_time_that_works_for_both_of_us",
|
|
"text": "Choosing a time that works for both of us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "adding_music_or_a_small_comfort",
|
|
"text": "Adding music or a small comfort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_care_of_one_annoying_detail",
|
|
"text": "Taking care of one annoying detail"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaving_room_for_what_we_feel_like_doing",
|
|
"text": "Leaving room for what we feel like doing"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remembering_what_i_have_been_craving",
|
|
"text": "Remembering what I have been craving"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_a_time_that_works_for_both_of_us",
|
|
"text": "Choosing a time that works for both of us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "adding_music_or_a_small_comfort",
|
|
"text": "Adding music or a small comfort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_care_of_one_annoying_detail",
|
|
"text": "Taking care of one annoying detail"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaving_room_for_what_we_feel_like_doing",
|
|
"text": "Leaving room for what we feel like doing"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_086",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which tiny signs tell you we are actually enjoying the same moment?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"connection_signals",
|
|
"couple_awareness",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"couple_lore"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_stop_checking_the_time",
|
|
"text": "We stop checking the time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_conversation_keeps_wandering",
|
|
"text": "The conversation keeps wandering"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_both_get_more_relaxed",
|
|
"text": "We both get more relaxed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_of_us_says_we_should_do_this_again",
|
|
"text": "One of us says we should do this again"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "neither_of_us_reaches_for_a_distraction",
|
|
"text": "Neither of us reaches for a distraction"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_stop_checking_the_time",
|
|
"text": "We stop checking the time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_conversation_keeps_wandering",
|
|
"text": "The conversation keeps wandering"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_both_get_more_relaxed",
|
|
"text": "We both get more relaxed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_of_us_says_we_should_do_this_again",
|
|
"text": "One of us says we should do this again"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "neither_of_us_reaches_for_a_distraction",
|
|
"text": "Neither of us reaches for a distraction"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_087",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How close have you felt during our recent time together?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"emotional_connection",
|
|
"current_state",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not very connected",
|
|
"max_label": "Very connected"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_088",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Would I pick a long conversation or comfortable silence?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"prediction",
|
|
"conversation_style",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_long_conversation",
|
|
"text": "A long conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfortable_silence",
|
|
"text": "Comfortable silence"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_long_conversation",
|
|
"text": "A long conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfortable_silence",
|
|
"text": "Comfortable silence"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_089",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which habits could help us stay connected over time?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term",
|
|
"habits",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_reliable_weekly_check_in",
|
|
"text": "A reliable weekly check-in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "small_plans_before_we_feel_disconnected",
|
|
"text": "Small plans before we feel disconnected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protecting_a_few_phone_free_moments",
|
|
"text": "Protecting a few phone-free moments"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "updating_each_other_when_our_needs_change",
|
|
"text": "Updating each other when our needs change"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_one_playful_ritual_alive",
|
|
"text": "Keeping one playful ritual alive"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_reliable_weekly_check_in",
|
|
"text": "A reliable weekly check-in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "small_plans_before_we_feel_disconnected",
|
|
"text": "Small plans before we feel disconnected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protecting_a_few_phone_free_moments",
|
|
"text": "Protecting a few phone-free moments"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "updating_each_other_when_our_needs_change",
|
|
"text": "Updating each other when our needs change"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_one_playful_ritual_alive",
|
|
"text": "Keeping one playful ritual alive"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_090",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "If we put our phones away for twenty minutes, what should fill the space?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"phones",
|
|
"invitation",
|
|
"flirty",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_real_catch_up",
|
|
"text": "A real catch-up"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_card_game",
|
|
"text": "A quick card game"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_back_porch_break",
|
|
"text": "A back-porch break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_slow_kiss_and_some_conversation",
|
|
"text": "A slow kiss and some conversation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_real_catch_up",
|
|
"text": "A real catch-up"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_card_game",
|
|
"text": "A quick card game"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_back_porch_break",
|
|
"text": "A back-porch break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_slow_kiss_and_some_conversation",
|
|
"text": "A slow kiss and some conversation"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_091",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What turns an errand into time together instead of just another task?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"errands",
|
|
"ordinary_time",
|
|
"low_cost",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"adult_humor"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_not_rushing",
|
|
"text": "We are not rushing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_choose_one_enjoyable_stop",
|
|
"text": "We choose one enjoyable stop"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_talk_about_something_besides_the_list",
|
|
"text": "We talk about something besides the list"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_split_the_annoying_parts_fairly",
|
|
"text": "We split the annoying parts fairly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_let_ourselves_take_the_scenic_route",
|
|
"text": "We let ourselves take the scenic route"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_not_rushing",
|
|
"text": "We are not rushing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_choose_one_enjoyable_stop",
|
|
"text": "We choose one enjoyable stop"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_talk_about_something_besides_the_list",
|
|
"text": "We talk about something besides the list"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_split_the_annoying_parts_fairly",
|
|
"text": "We split the annoying parts fairly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_let_ourselves_take_the_scenic_route",
|
|
"text": "We let ourselves take the scenic route"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_092",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of memories make you feel closest when we revisit them?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"memories",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"shared_history",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_trip_or_outing_that_surprised_us",
|
|
"text": "A trip or outing that surprised us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hard_season_we_handled_as_a_team",
|
|
"text": "A hard season we handled as a team"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_small_ordinary_day_that_became_important",
|
|
"text": "A small ordinary day that became important"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_moment_when_one_of_us_felt_truly_seen",
|
|
"text": "A moment when one of us felt truly seen"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "something_that_still_makes_us_laugh_immediately",
|
|
"text": "Something that still makes us laugh immediately"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_trip_or_outing_that_surprised_us",
|
|
"text": "A trip or outing that surprised us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hard_season_we_handled_as_a_team",
|
|
"text": "A hard season we handled as a team"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_small_ordinary_day_that_became_important",
|
|
"text": "A small ordinary day that became important"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_moment_when_one_of_us_felt_truly_seen",
|
|
"text": "A moment when one of us felt truly seen"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "something_that_still_makes_us_laugh_immediately",
|
|
"text": "Something that still makes us laugh immediately"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_093",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much flirty energy sounds good lately?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirty",
|
|
"current_preference",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Very little",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_094",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of humor makes a slow evening better?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"adult_humor",
|
|
"partner_humor",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "dry_comments_about_ordinary_life",
|
|
"text": "Dry comments about ordinary life"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accurate_impressions_of_people_we_know",
|
|
"text": "Accurate impressions of people we know"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "callbacks_to_something_funny_from_years_ago",
|
|
"text": "Callbacks to something funny from years ago"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "mock_serious_debates_over_harmless_topics",
|
|
"text": "Mock-serious debates over harmless topics"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "laughing_at_ourselves_without_being_mean",
|
|
"text": "Laughing at ourselves without being mean"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "dry_comments_about_ordinary_life",
|
|
"text": "Dry comments about ordinary life"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accurate_impressions_of_people_we_know",
|
|
"text": "Accurate impressions of people we know"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "callbacks_to_something_funny_from_years_ago",
|
|
"text": "Callbacks to something funny from years ago"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "mock_serious_debates_over_harmless_topics",
|
|
"text": "Mock-serious debates over harmless topics"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "laughing_at_ourselves_without_being_mean",
|
|
"text": "Laughing at ourselves without being mean"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_095",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps a plan feel worth looking forward to?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"planning",
|
|
"anticipation",
|
|
"practical_reality",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_fits_the_energy_we_are_likely_to_have",
|
|
"text": "It fits the energy we are likely to have"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_one_detail_chosen_just_for_us",
|
|
"text": "There is one detail chosen just for us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_know_roughly_how_long_it_will_take",
|
|
"text": "We know roughly how long it will take"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_leaves_room_to_change_our_minds",
|
|
"text": "It leaves room to change our minds"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_about_the_time_together_not_impressing_anyone",
|
|
"text": "It is about the time together, not impressing anyone"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_fits_the_energy_we_are_likely_to_have",
|
|
"text": "It fits the energy we are likely to have"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_one_detail_chosen_just_for_us",
|
|
"text": "There is one detail chosen just for us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_know_roughly_how_long_it_will_take",
|
|
"text": "We know roughly how long it will take"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_leaves_room_to_change_our_minds",
|
|
"text": "It leaves room to change our minds"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_about_the_time_together_not_impressing_anyone",
|
|
"text": "It is about the time together, not impressing anyone"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_096",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which of these makes me feel most listened to—your guess?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"prediction",
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"feeling_known",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_remember_the_details_later",
|
|
"text": "You remember the details later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_ask_a_question_that_moves_the_story_forward",
|
|
"text": "You ask a question that moves the story forward"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_do_not_rush_to_solve_it",
|
|
"text": "You do not rush to solve it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_notice_the_feeling_behind_the_words",
|
|
"text": "You notice the feeling behind the words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_give_me_room_to_finish_my_thought",
|
|
"text": "You give me room to finish my thought"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_remember_the_details_later",
|
|
"text": "You remember the details later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_ask_a_question_that_moves_the_story_forward",
|
|
"text": "You ask a question that moves the story forward"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_do_not_rush_to_solve_it",
|
|
"text": "You do not rush to solve it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_notice_the_feeling_behind_the_words",
|
|
"text": "You notice the feeling behind the words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_give_me_room_to_finish_my_thought",
|
|
"text": "You give me room to finish my thought"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_097",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which new ritual would I be most excited to try?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"prediction",
|
|
"rituals",
|
|
"future_plans",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_weekly_walk_and_catch_up",
|
|
"text": "A weekly walk and catch-up"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_monthly_at_home_date",
|
|
"text": "A monthly at-home date"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_small_celebration_at_the_end_of_hard_weeks",
|
|
"text": "A small celebration at the end of hard weeks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shared_playlist_we_keep_adding_to",
|
|
"text": "A shared playlist we keep adding to"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_weekly_walk_and_catch_up",
|
|
"text": "A weekly walk and catch-up"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_monthly_at_home_date",
|
|
"text": "A monthly at-home date"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_small_celebration_at_the_end_of_hard_weeks",
|
|
"text": "A small celebration at the end of hard weeks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shared_playlist_we_keep_adding_to",
|
|
"text": "A shared playlist we keep adding to"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_098",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which topics make time together fly for you?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"conversation_topics",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "people_and_stories_from_our_past",
|
|
"text": "People and stories from our past"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "things_we_want_to_try_someday",
|
|
"text": "Things we want to try someday"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "books_shows_or_ideas_we_are_into",
|
|
"text": "Books, shows, or ideas we are into"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_strange_details_of_our_day",
|
|
"text": "The strange details of our day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_we_are_learning_about_each_other",
|
|
"text": "What we are learning about each other"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "people_and_stories_from_our_past",
|
|
"text": "People and stories from our past"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "things_we_want_to_try_someday",
|
|
"text": "Things we want to try someday"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "books_shows_or_ideas_we_are_into",
|
|
"text": "Books, shows, or ideas we are into"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_strange_details_of_our_day",
|
|
"text": "The strange details of our day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_we_are_learning_about_each_other",
|
|
"text": "What we are learning about each other"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_099",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which quiet plan sounds best right now?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"quiet",
|
|
"invitation",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "read_beside_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Read beside each other"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sit_outside_with_something_to_drink",
|
|
"text": "Sit outside with something to drink"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listen_to_an_album_without_multitasking",
|
|
"text": "Listen to an album without multitasking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lie_down_and_talk_only_if_we_feel_like_it",
|
|
"text": "Lie down and talk only if we feel like it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "read_beside_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Read beside each other"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sit_outside_with_something_to_drink",
|
|
"text": "Sit outside with something to drink"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listen_to_an_album_without_multitasking",
|
|
"text": "Listen to an album without multitasking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lie_down_and_talk_only_if_we_feel_like_it",
|
|
"text": "Lie down and talk only if we feel like it"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_100",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "A short daily ritual or a longer weekly plan?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"rituals",
|
|
"time_style",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_daily_ritual",
|
|
"text": "A short daily ritual"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_longer_weekly_plan",
|
|
"text": "A longer weekly plan"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_daily_ritual",
|
|
"text": "A short daily ritual"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_longer_weekly_plan",
|
|
"text": "A longer weekly plan"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_101",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Where should we steal ten minutes together this week?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"short_time",
|
|
"invitation",
|
|
"action",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "in_the_kitchen_while_something_cooks",
|
|
"text": "In the kitchen while something cooks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "in_the_car_before_we_go_inside",
|
|
"text": "In the car before we go inside"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "outside_after_dark",
|
|
"text": "Outside after dark"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "on_the_couch_before_the_next_task",
|
|
"text": "On the couch before the next task"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "in_bed_before_sleep",
|
|
"text": "In bed before sleep"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "in_the_kitchen_while_something_cooks",
|
|
"text": "In the kitchen while something cooks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "in_the_car_before_we_go_inside",
|
|
"text": "In the car before we go inside"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "outside_after_dark",
|
|
"text": "Outside after dark"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "on_the_couch_before_the_next_task",
|
|
"text": "On the couch before the next task"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "in_bed_before_sleep",
|
|
"text": "In bed before sleep"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_102",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes it easier to enjoy time together without pressure?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"low_pressure",
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_we_can_leave_early",
|
|
"text": "Knowing we can leave early"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_a_backup_plan_at_home",
|
|
"text": "Having a backup plan at home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_needing_to_dress_up",
|
|
"text": "Not needing to dress up"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_something_familiar",
|
|
"text": "Choosing something familiar"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_conversation_optional",
|
|
"text": "Keeping conversation optional"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_we_can_leave_early",
|
|
"text": "Knowing we can leave early"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_a_backup_plan_at_home",
|
|
"text": "Having a backup plan at home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_needing_to_dress_up",
|
|
"text": "Not needing to dress up"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_something_familiar",
|
|
"text": "Choosing something familiar"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_conversation_optional",
|
|
"text": "Keeping conversation optional"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_103",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Revisit an old favorite or try something neither of us knows?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"variety",
|
|
"shared_experience",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "revisit_an_old_favorite",
|
|
"text": "Revisit an old favorite"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "try_something_new_to_both_of_us",
|
|
"text": "Try something new to both of us"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "revisit_an_old_favorite",
|
|
"text": "Revisit an old favorite"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "try_something_new_to_both_of_us",
|
|
"text": "Try something new to both of us"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_104",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes spontaneous time feel good instead of disruptive?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"spontaneity",
|
|
"low_pressure",
|
|
"practical_reality",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_check_of_each_others_energy",
|
|
"text": "A quick check of each other's energy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure_if_one_of_us_is_not_up_for_it",
|
|
"text": "No pressure if one of us is not up for it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "enough_notice_to_finish_what_we_are_doing",
|
|
"text": "Enough notice to finish what we are doing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_simple_plan_with_little_preparation",
|
|
"text": "A simple plan with little preparation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_it_will_not_take_the_whole_day",
|
|
"text": "Knowing it will not take the whole day"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_check_of_each_others_energy",
|
|
"text": "A quick check of each other's energy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure_if_one_of_us_is_not_up_for_it",
|
|
"text": "No pressure if one of us is not up for it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "enough_notice_to_finish_what_we_are_doing",
|
|
"text": "Enough notice to finish what we are doing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_simple_plan_with_little_preparation",
|
|
"text": "A simple plan with little preparation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_it_will_not_take_the_whole_day",
|
|
"text": "Knowing it will not take the whole day"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_105",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which quiet moment do you enjoy most?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"quiet",
|
|
"partner_preferences",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"preferences"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "morning_coffee_before_the_day_starts",
|
|
"text": "Morning coffee before the day starts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_peaceful_ride_together",
|
|
"text": "A peaceful ride together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reading_near_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Reading near each other"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lying_in_bed_before_sleep",
|
|
"text": "Lying in bed before sleep"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "morning_coffee_before_the_day_starts",
|
|
"text": "Morning coffee before the day starts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_peaceful_ride_together",
|
|
"text": "A peaceful ride together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reading_near_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Reading near each other"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lying_in_bed_before_sleep",
|
|
"text": "Lying in bed before sleep"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_106",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a check-in feel natural instead of formal?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"check_ins",
|
|
"conversation",
|
|
"low_pressure",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"adult_humor"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_happens_during_something_ordinary",
|
|
"text": "It happens during something ordinary"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_question_is_specific",
|
|
"text": "The question is specific"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_no_pressure_to_have_a_big_answer",
|
|
"text": "There is no pressure to have a big answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_both_get_a_turn",
|
|
"text": "We both get a turn"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_includes_warmth_or_humor",
|
|
"text": "It includes warmth or humor"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_happens_during_something_ordinary",
|
|
"text": "It happens during something ordinary"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_question_is_specific",
|
|
"text": "The question is specific"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_no_pressure_to_have_a_big_answer",
|
|
"text": "There is no pressure to have a big answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_both_get_a_turn",
|
|
"text": "We both get a turn"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_includes_warmth_or_humor",
|
|
"text": "It includes warmth or humor"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_107",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which routine would you most want us to protect?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"rituals",
|
|
"partner_preferences",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"preferences"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "our_morning_start",
|
|
"text": "Our morning start"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "our_evening_wind_down",
|
|
"text": "Our evening wind-down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "our_weekend_reset",
|
|
"text": "Our weekend reset"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "our_spontaneous_check_ins",
|
|
"text": "Our spontaneous check-ins"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "our_morning_start",
|
|
"text": "Our morning start"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "our_evening_wind_down",
|
|
"text": "Our evening wind-down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "our_weekend_reset",
|
|
"text": "Our weekend reset"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "our_spontaneous_check_ins",
|
|
"text": "Our spontaneous check-ins"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_108",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which ways of reconnecting after we have both been scrolling feel natural?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"phones",
|
|
"reconnection",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "putting_the_phones_down_at_the_same_time",
|
|
"text": "Putting the phones down at the same time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_the_funniest_thing_we_saw",
|
|
"text": "Sharing the funniest thing we saw"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "moving_to_a_different_room_together",
|
|
"text": "Moving to a different room together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "starting_with_a_small_affectionate_touch",
|
|
"text": "Starting with a small affectionate touch"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_one_question_that_is_not_about_chores",
|
|
"text": "Asking one question that is not about chores"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "putting_the_phones_down_at_the_same_time",
|
|
"text": "Putting the phones down at the same time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_the_funniest_thing_we_saw",
|
|
"text": "Sharing the funniest thing we saw"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "moving_to_a_different_room_together",
|
|
"text": "Moving to a different room together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "starting_with_a_small_affectionate_touch",
|
|
"text": "Starting with a small affectionate touch"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_one_question_that_is_not_about_chores",
|
|
"text": "Asking one question that is not about chores"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_109",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How stretched thin have we felt lately?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"busy_life",
|
|
"current_state",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "We have breathing room",
|
|
"max_label": "Extremely stretched"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_110",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes an ordinary evening feel like real time together?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"ordinary_time",
|
|
"presence",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_not_rushing_to_the_next_task",
|
|
"text": "We are not rushing to the next task"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_both_choose_what_we_are_doing",
|
|
"text": "We both choose what we are doing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_room_for_affection",
|
|
"text": "There is room for affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_talk_about_more_than_logistics",
|
|
"text": "We talk about more than logistics"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_laugh_at_something_small",
|
|
"text": "We laugh at something small"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_not_rushing_to_the_next_task",
|
|
"text": "We are not rushing to the next task"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_both_choose_what_we_are_doing",
|
|
"text": "We both choose what we are doing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_room_for_affection",
|
|
"text": "There is room for affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_talk_about_more_than_logistics",
|
|
"text": "We talk about more than logistics"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_laugh_at_something_small",
|
|
"text": "We laugh at something small"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_111",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What could make bedtime feel like connection instead of collapse?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"bedtime",
|
|
"reconnection",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"flirty",
|
|
"adult_humor"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "finishing_phone_time_a_little_earlier",
|
|
"text": "Finishing phone time a little earlier"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_about_one_thing_that_mattered",
|
|
"text": "Talking about one thing that mattered"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_time_for_a_real_goodnight_kiss",
|
|
"text": "Making time for a real goodnight kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reading_or_listening_to_something_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Reading or listening to something nearby"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_tomorrows_plan_brief_and_simple",
|
|
"text": "Making tomorrow's plan brief and simple"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "finishing_phone_time_a_little_earlier",
|
|
"text": "Finishing phone time a little earlier"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_about_one_thing_that_mattered",
|
|
"text": "Talking about one thing that mattered"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_time_for_a_real_goodnight_kiss",
|
|
"text": "Making time for a real goodnight kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reading_or_listening_to_something_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Reading or listening to something nearby"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_tomorrows_plan_brief_and_simple",
|
|
"text": "Making tomorrow's plan brief and simple"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_112",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "A familiar place or somewhere new nearby?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"place_preference",
|
|
"short_outing",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_familiar_place",
|
|
"text": "A familiar place"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "somewhere_new_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Somewhere new nearby"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_familiar_place",
|
|
"text": "A familiar place"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "somewhere_new_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Somewhere new nearby"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_113",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you share more during time together?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"meaningful",
|
|
"conversation",
|
|
"emotional_safety",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_start_with_something_light",
|
|
"text": "We start with something light"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_listen_without_interrupting",
|
|
"text": "You listen without interrupting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_enough_privacy",
|
|
"text": "There is enough privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_know_we_are_not_in_a_rush",
|
|
"text": "I know we are not in a rush"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_share_something_honest_too",
|
|
"text": "You share something honest too"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_start_with_something_light",
|
|
"text": "We start with something light"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_listen_without_interrupting",
|
|
"text": "You listen without interrupting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_enough_privacy",
|
|
"text": "There is enough privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_know_we_are_not_in_a_rush",
|
|
"text": "I know we are not in a rush"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_share_something_honest_too",
|
|
"text": "You share something honest too"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_114",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can turn a normal meal into quality time for you?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"shared_meals",
|
|
"ordinary_time",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "eating_without_hurrying",
|
|
"text": "Eating without hurrying"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_the_food_together",
|
|
"text": "Choosing the food together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_about_the_best_part_of_the_day",
|
|
"text": "Talking about the best part of the day"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "playing_music_we_both_like",
|
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"text": "Playing music we both like"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "staying_at_the_table_a_little_longer",
|
|
"text": "Staying at the table a little longer"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "eating_without_hurrying",
|
|
"text": "Eating without hurrying"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_the_food_together",
|
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"text": "Choosing the food together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_about_the_best_part_of_the_day",
|
|
"text": "Talking about the best part of the day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "playing_music_we_both_like",
|
|
"text": "Playing music we both like"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "staying_at_the_table_a_little_longer",
|
|
"text": "Staying at the table a little longer"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
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"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_115",
|
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"category_id": "quality_time",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "Which phone habits make time together feel better?",
|
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"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"phones",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"presence",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "silencing_alerts_for_a_while",
|
|
"text": "Silencing alerts for a while"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "showing_each_other_something_worth_seeing",
|
|
"text": "Showing each other something worth seeing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_when_a_message_really_needs_attention",
|
|
"text": "Saying when a message really needs attention"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_meals_mostly_screen_free",
|
|
"text": "Keeping meals mostly screen-free"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_a_stopping_point_before_scrolling",
|
|
"text": "Choosing a stopping point before scrolling"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "silencing_alerts_for_a_while",
|
|
"text": "Silencing alerts for a while"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "showing_each_other_something_worth_seeing",
|
|
"text": "Showing each other something worth seeing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_when_a_message_really_needs_attention",
|
|
"text": "Saying when a message really needs attention"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_meals_mostly_screen_free",
|
|
"text": "Keeping meals mostly screen-free"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_a_stopping_point_before_scrolling",
|
|
"text": "Choosing a stopping point before scrolling"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_116",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How easy has it felt to talk without rushing lately?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"conversation",
|
|
"pace",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not very easy",
|
|
"max_label": "Very easy"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_117",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps when we want different things from our time together?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"different_preferences",
|
|
"compromise",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_what_we_each_feel_like_doing_without_making_it_a_problem",
|
|
"text": "Saying what we each feel like doing without making it a problem"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "finding_one_part_we_can_share",
|
|
"text": "Finding one part we can share"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_turns_choosing",
|
|
"text": "Taking turns choosing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_parallel_activities_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Doing parallel activities nearby"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saving_one_persons_idea_for_a_better_day",
|
|
"text": "Saving one person's idea for a better day"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_what_we_each_feel_like_doing_without_making_it_a_problem",
|
|
"text": "Saying what we each feel like doing without making it a problem"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "finding_one_part_we_can_share",
|
|
"text": "Finding one part we can share"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_turns_choosing",
|
|
"text": "Taking turns choosing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_parallel_activities_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Doing parallel activities nearby"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saving_one_persons_idea_for_a_better_day",
|
|
"text": "Saving one person's idea for a better day"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_118",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we turn into a tiny competition?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"adult_humor",
|
|
"playful_competition",
|
|
"invitation",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "who_can_build_the_better_three_song_playlist",
|
|
"text": "Who can build the better three-song playlist"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "who_remembers_the_funniest_detail_from_the_week",
|
|
"text": "Who remembers the funniest detail from the week"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "who_can_find_the_best_photo_in_five_minutes",
|
|
"text": "Who can find the best photo in five minutes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "who_can_make_the_other_laugh_first",
|
|
"text": "Who can make the other laugh first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "who_can_build_the_better_three_song_playlist",
|
|
"text": "Who can build the better three-song playlist"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "who_remembers_the_funniest_detail_from_the_week",
|
|
"text": "Who remembers the funniest detail from the week"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "who_can_find_the_best_photo_in_five_minutes",
|
|
"text": "Who can find the best photo in five minutes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "who_can_make_the_other_laugh_first",
|
|
"text": "Who can make the other laugh first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_119",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What do I notice first when we are having a good night?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"prediction",
|
|
"connection_signals",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_relaxed_we_both_seem",
|
|
"text": "How relaxed we both seem"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_easily_the_conversation_flows",
|
|
"text": "How easily the conversation flows"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_much_we_are_laughing",
|
|
"text": "How much we are laughing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_little_we_are_checking_the_time",
|
|
"text": "How little we are checking the time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_relaxed_we_both_seem",
|
|
"text": "How relaxed we both seem"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_easily_the_conversation_flows",
|
|
"text": "How easily the conversation flows"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_much_we_are_laughing",
|
|
"text": "How much we are laughing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_little_we_are_checking_the_time",
|
|
"text": "How little we are checking the time"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_120",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which milestones deserve their own small ritual?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"milestones",
|
|
"rituals",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"couple_lore"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "finishing_a_difficult_week",
|
|
"text": "Finishing a difficult week"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "starting_something_new",
|
|
"text": "Starting something new"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reaching_a_shared_goal",
|
|
"text": "Reaching a shared goal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "getting_through_an_ordinary_month",
|
|
"text": "Getting through an ordinary month"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_a_decision_we_feel_good_about",
|
|
"text": "Making a decision we feel good about"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "finishing_a_difficult_week",
|
|
"text": "Finishing a difficult week"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "starting_something_new",
|
|
"text": "Starting something new"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reaching_a_shared_goal",
|
|
"text": "Reaching a shared goal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "getting_through_an_ordinary_month",
|
|
"text": "Getting through an ordinary month"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_a_decision_we_feel_good_about",
|
|
"text": "Making a decision we feel good about"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_121",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make tonight feel a little more like a date without leaving home?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"romance",
|
|
"flirty",
|
|
"invitation",
|
|
"home_time",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "put_on_music_and_eat_somewhere_other_than_the_usual_spot",
|
|
"text": "Put on music and eat somewhere other than the usual spot"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "dress_a_little_nicer_for_no_practical_reason",
|
|
"text": "Dress a little nicer for no practical reason"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "share_dessert_after_the_day_is_done",
|
|
"text": "Share dessert after the day is done"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "turn_the_lights_down_and_talk_without_screens",
|
|
"text": "Turn the lights down and talk without screens"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "put_on_music_and_eat_somewhere_other_than_the_usual_spot",
|
|
"text": "Put on music and eat somewhere other than the usual spot"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "dress_a_little_nicer_for_no_practical_reason",
|
|
"text": "Dress a little nicer for no practical reason"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "share_dessert_after_the_day_is_done",
|
|
"text": "Share dessert after the day is done"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "turn_the_lights_down_and_talk_without_screens",
|
|
"text": "Turn the lights down and talk without screens"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_122",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What ordinary moment with me has felt more meaningful than it probably looked from the outside?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"memory",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"meaningful",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 500,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_123",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a routine feel like ours instead of another task?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"rituals",
|
|
"couple_identity",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_both_look_forward_to_it",
|
|
"text": "We both look forward to it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_has_a_small_personal_touch",
|
|
"text": "It has a small personal touch"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_can_bend_when_life_changes",
|
|
"text": "It can bend when life changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_gives_us_something_to_talk_about",
|
|
"text": "It gives us something to talk about"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_reflects_how_we_actually_live",
|
|
"text": "It reflects how we actually live"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_both_look_forward_to_it",
|
|
"text": "We both look forward to it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_has_a_small_personal_touch",
|
|
"text": "It has a small personal touch"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_can_bend_when_life_changes",
|
|
"text": "It can bend when life changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_gives_us_something_to_talk_about",
|
|
"text": "It gives us something to talk about"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_reflects_how_we_actually_live",
|
|
"text": "It reflects how we actually live"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_124",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which time limits make a plan feel manageable?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"time_limits",
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ten_focused_minutes",
|
|
"text": "Ten focused minutes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "about_half_an_hour",
|
|
"text": "About half an hour"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_unhurried_hour",
|
|
"text": "One unhurried hour"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "until_one_of_us_starts_fading",
|
|
"text": "Until one of us starts fading"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_ending_tied_to_the_next_responsibility",
|
|
"text": "A clear ending tied to the next responsibility"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ten_focused_minutes",
|
|
"text": "Ten focused minutes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "about_half_an_hour",
|
|
"text": "About half an hour"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_unhurried_hour",
|
|
"text": "One unhurried hour"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "until_one_of_us_starts_fading",
|
|
"text": "Until one of us starts fading"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_ending_tied_to_the_next_responsibility",
|
|
"text": "A clear ending tied to the next responsibility"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_125",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How distracted have our evenings felt lately?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"distraction",
|
|
"current_state",
|
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"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
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"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Hardly at all",
|
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"max_label": "Very distracted"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "quality_time_126",
|
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"category_id": "quality_time",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "Which free or inexpensive plans can still feel special?",
|
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"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"low_cost",
|
|
"accessible_plans",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_sunset_or_evening_walk",
|
|
"text": "A sunset or evening walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_picnic_made_from_food_we_already_have",
|
|
"text": "A picnic made from food we already have"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_drive_with_a_shared_playlist",
|
|
"text": "A drive with a shared playlist"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_free_local_event",
|
|
"text": "A free local event"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_photo_walk_with_one_small_challenge",
|
|
"text": "A photo walk with one small challenge"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_sunset_or_evening_walk",
|
|
"text": "A sunset or evening walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_picnic_made_from_food_we_already_have",
|
|
"text": "A picnic made from food we already have"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_drive_with_a_shared_playlist",
|
|
"text": "A drive with a shared playlist"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_free_local_event",
|
|
"text": "A free local event"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_photo_walk_with_one_small_challenge",
|
|
"text": "A photo walk with one small challenge"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_127",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we make more room for next month?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"future_plans",
|
|
"invitation",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "unhurried_meals",
|
|
"text": "Unhurried meals"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "short_walks_or_drives",
|
|
"text": "Short walks or drives"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_time_at_home",
|
|
"text": "Quiet time at home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "playful_plans_that_break_the_routine",
|
|
"text": "Playful plans that break the routine"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conversations_with_no_phones_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Conversations with no phones nearby"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "unhurried_meals",
|
|
"text": "Unhurried meals"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "short_walks_or_drives",
|
|
"text": "Short walks or drives"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_time_at_home",
|
|
"text": "Quiet time at home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "playful_plans_that_break_the_routine",
|
|
"text": "Playful plans that break the routine"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conversations_with_no_phones_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Conversations with no phones nearby"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_128",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which moment makes you feel most known by me?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"feeling_known",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_remember_a_detail_you_forgot_you_told_me",
|
|
"text": "I remember a detail you forgot you told me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_notice_when_your_energy_changes",
|
|
"text": "I notice when your energy changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_choose_something_that_fits_your_real_taste",
|
|
"text": "I choose something that fits your real taste"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_understand_the_joke_before_you_explain_it",
|
|
"text": "I understand the joke before you explain it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_remember_a_detail_you_forgot_you_told_me",
|
|
"text": "I remember a detail you forgot you told me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_notice_when_your_energy_changes",
|
|
"text": "I notice when your energy changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_choose_something_that_fits_your_real_taste",
|
|
"text": "I choose something that fits your real taste"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_understand_the_joke_before_you_explain_it",
|
|
"text": "I understand the joke before you explain it"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_129",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a five-minute reconnect actually work?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"quick_connection",
|
|
"presence",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_stop_doing_other_things_for_those_minutes",
|
|
"text": "We stop doing other things for those minutes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_question_is_specific_and_easy_to_answer",
|
|
"text": "The question is specific and easy to answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_some_affection_or_warmth",
|
|
"text": "There is some affection or warmth"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_do_not_use_the_time_only_for_logistics",
|
|
"text": "We do not use the time only for logistics"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_leave_knowing_when_we_will_connect_again",
|
|
"text": "We leave knowing when we will connect again"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_stop_doing_other_things_for_those_minutes",
|
|
"text": "We stop doing other things for those minutes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_question_is_specific_and_easy_to_answer",
|
|
"text": "The question is specific and easy to answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_some_affection_or_warmth",
|
|
"text": "There is some affection or warmth"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_do_not_use_the_time_only_for_logistics",
|
|
"text": "We do not use the time only for logistics"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_leave_knowing_when_we_will_connect_again",
|
|
"text": "We leave knowing when we will connect again"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_130",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes quiet time together feel connected?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"quiet",
|
|
"presence",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_we_both_chose_to_be_there",
|
|
"text": "Knowing we both chose to be there"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_little_physical_contact",
|
|
"text": "A little physical contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "occasional_comments_or_smiles",
|
|
"text": "Occasional comments or smiles"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calm_room_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "A calm room without pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "checking_in_before_we_drift_into_separate_worlds",
|
|
"text": "Checking in before we drift into separate worlds"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_we_both_chose_to_be_there",
|
|
"text": "Knowing we both chose to be there"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_little_physical_contact",
|
|
"text": "A little physical contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "occasional_comments_or_smiles",
|
|
"text": "Occasional comments or smiles"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calm_room_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "A calm room without pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "checking_in_before_we_drift_into_separate_worlds",
|
|
"text": "Checking in before we drift into separate worlds"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_131",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which easy plan feels most worth it?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"invitation",
|
|
"practical_reality",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"adult_humor"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_favorite_meal_and_one_episode",
|
|
"text": "A favorite meal and one episode"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_drive_with_music",
|
|
"text": "A short drive with music"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_couch_picnic_and_conversation",
|
|
"text": "A couch picnic and conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_slow_walk_close_to_home",
|
|
"text": "A slow walk close to home"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_favorite_meal_and_one_episode",
|
|
"text": "A favorite meal and one episode"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_drive_with_music",
|
|
"text": "A short drive with music"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_couch_picnic_and_conversation",
|
|
"text": "A couch picnic and conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_slow_walk_close_to_home",
|
|
"text": "A slow walk close to home"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_132",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What sounds best after a long day?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"partner_preferences",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"preferences"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_closeness",
|
|
"text": "Quiet closeness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_funny_conversation",
|
|
"text": "A funny conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_simple_shared_meal",
|
|
"text": "A simple shared meal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_little_affectionate_attention",
|
|
"text": "A little affectionate attention"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_closeness",
|
|
"text": "Quiet closeness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_funny_conversation",
|
|
"text": "A funny conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_simple_shared_meal",
|
|
"text": "A simple shared meal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_little_affectionate_attention",
|
|
"text": "A little affectionate attention"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_133",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What small ritual of ours would you genuinely miss if it disappeared?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"rituals",
|
|
"appreciation",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min_length": 1,
|
|
"max_length": 500,
|
|
"placeholder": "Write your answer..."
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_134",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which plans would you guess make me feel most chosen?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"prediction",
|
|
"feeling_chosen",
|
|
"planning",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"couple_lore"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "something_based_on_a_detail_i_mentioned",
|
|
"text": "Something based on a detail I mentioned"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_protected_before_the_calendar_fills",
|
|
"text": "Time protected before the calendar fills"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_easy_favorite_with_no_big_production",
|
|
"text": "An easy favorite with no big production"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_new_idea_that_fits_my_actual_energy",
|
|
"text": "A new idea that fits my actual energy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_plan_where_you_handle_one_stressful_detail",
|
|
"text": "A plan where you handle one stressful detail"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "something_based_on_a_detail_i_mentioned",
|
|
"text": "Something based on a detail I mentioned"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_protected_before_the_calendar_fills",
|
|
"text": "Time protected before the calendar fills"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_easy_favorite_with_no_big_production",
|
|
"text": "An easy favorite with no big production"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_new_idea_that_fits_my_actual_energy",
|
|
"text": "A new idea that fits my actual energy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_plan_where_you_handle_one_stressful_detail",
|
|
"text": "A plan where you handle one stressful detail"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_135",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would help canceled plans still feel like time together?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"canceled_plans",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"low_pressure",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"adult_humor"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "switching_to_an_easier_version_at_home",
|
|
"text": "Switching to an easier version at home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ordering_something_and_talking_for_a_while",
|
|
"text": "Ordering something and talking for a while"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saving_one_part_of_the_original_idea",
|
|
"text": "Saving one part of the original idea"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_a_new_date_before_we_move_on",
|
|
"text": "Choosing a new date before we move on"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_we_are_disappointed_without_turning_on_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Saying we are disappointed without turning on each other"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "switching_to_an_easier_version_at_home",
|
|
"text": "Switching to an easier version at home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ordering_something_and_talking_for_a_while",
|
|
"text": "Ordering something and talking for a while"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saving_one_part_of_the_original_idea",
|
|
"text": "Saving one part of the original idea"
|
|
},
|
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{
|
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"id": "choosing_a_new_date_before_we_move_on",
|
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"text": "Choosing a new date before we move on"
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "saying_we_are_disappointed_without_turning_on_each_other",
|
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"text": "Saying we are disappointed without turning on each other"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
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"max_selections": 3
|
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}
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "quality_time_136",
|
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"category_id": "quality_time",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which low-stakes games actually feel like quality time?",
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"depth": 1,
|
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"tags": [
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"games",
|
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"shared_activity",
|
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"low_energy",
|
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"quality_time",
|
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"adult_humor"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
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"sex": "neutral",
|
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"options": [
|
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{
|
|
"id": "a_cooperative_card_game",
|
|
"text": "A cooperative card game"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trivia_where_we_can_work_as_a_team",
|
|
"text": "Trivia where we can work as a team"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_puzzle_we_can_leave_unfinished",
|
|
"text": "A puzzle we can leave unfinished"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_guessing_game_based_on_our_preferences",
|
|
"text": "A guessing game based on our preferences"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_word_game_that_takes_ten_minutes",
|
|
"text": "A word game that takes ten minutes"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_cooperative_card_game",
|
|
"text": "A cooperative card game"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trivia_where_we_can_work_as_a_team",
|
|
"text": "Trivia where we can work as a team"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_puzzle_we_can_leave_unfinished",
|
|
"text": "A puzzle we can leave unfinished"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_guessing_game_based_on_our_preferences",
|
|
"text": "A guessing game based on our preferences"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_word_game_that_takes_ten_minutes",
|
|
"text": "A word game that takes ten minutes"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_137",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How satisfied are you with the low-key time we make at home?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"home_time",
|
|
"satisfaction",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not very satisfied",
|
|
"max_label": "Very satisfied"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_138",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a tradition worth keeping?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"traditions",
|
|
"couple_identity",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_still_feels_like_us",
|
|
"text": "It still feels like us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_easy_enough_to_repeat",
|
|
"text": "It is easy enough to repeat"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_gives_us_something_to_anticipate",
|
|
"text": "It gives us something to anticipate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_carries_a_story_we_care_about",
|
|
"text": "It carries a story we care about"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_can_change_as_our_life_changes",
|
|
"text": "It can change as our life changes"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_still_feels_like_us",
|
|
"text": "It still feels like us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_easy_enough_to_repeat",
|
|
"text": "It is easy enough to repeat"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_gives_us_something_to_anticipate",
|
|
"text": "It gives us something to anticipate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_carries_a_story_we_care_about",
|
|
"text": "It carries a story we care about"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_can_change_as_our_life_changes",
|
|
"text": "It can change as our life changes"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_139",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps silence feel peaceful instead of distant?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"quiet",
|
|
"emotional_safety",
|
|
"presence",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"flirty",
|
|
"low_energy"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_warm_greeting_before_we_settle_in",
|
|
"text": "A warm greeting before we settle in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_we_can_talk_whenever_we_want",
|
|
"text": "Knowing we can talk whenever we want"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_small_touch_or_affectionate_look",
|
|
"text": "A small touch or affectionate look"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shared_plan_for_the_time",
|
|
"text": "A shared plan for the time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "checking_in_if_the_mood_changes",
|
|
"text": "Checking in if the mood changes"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_warm_greeting_before_we_settle_in",
|
|
"text": "A warm greeting before we settle in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_we_can_talk_whenever_we_want",
|
|
"text": "Knowing we can talk whenever we want"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_small_touch_or_affectionate_look",
|
|
"text": "A small touch or affectionate look"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shared_plan_for_the_time",
|
|
"text": "A shared plan for the time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "checking_in_if_the_mood_changes",
|
|
"text": "Checking in if the mood changes"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_140",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps a no-phone plan feel inviting instead of like a rule?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"phones",
|
|
"low_pressure",
|
|
"practical_reality",
|
|
"quality_time",
|
|
"low_energy"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_it_short_and_realistic",
|
|
"text": "Keeping it short and realistic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_something_enjoyable_ready",
|
|
"text": "Having something enjoyable ready"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agreeing_on_it_together",
|
|
"text": "Agreeing on it together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_exceptions_for_anything_urgent",
|
|
"text": "Making exceptions for anything urgent"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ending_it_before_it_feels_forced",
|
|
"text": "Ending it before it feels forced"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_it_short_and_realistic",
|
|
"text": "Keeping it short and realistic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_something_enjoyable_ready",
|
|
"text": "Having something enjoyable ready"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agreeing_on_it_together",
|
|
"text": "Agreeing on it together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_exceptions_for_anything_urgent",
|
|
"text": "Making exceptions for anything urgent"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ending_it_before_it_feels_forced",
|
|
"text": "Ending it before it feels forced"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_141",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which ridiculous memory would I retell first?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"prediction",
|
|
"adult_humor",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_plan_that_went_completely_sideways",
|
|
"text": "A plan that went completely sideways"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "something_one_of_us_said_at_the_worst_time",
|
|
"text": "Something one of us said at the worst time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_awkward_public_moment",
|
|
"text": "An awkward public moment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_tiny_disagreement_that_is_funny_now",
|
|
"text": "A tiny disagreement that is funny now"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_plan_that_went_completely_sideways",
|
|
"text": "A plan that went completely sideways"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "something_one_of_us_said_at_the_worst_time",
|
|
"text": "Something one of us said at the worst time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_awkward_public_moment",
|
|
"text": "An awkward public moment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_tiny_disagreement_that_is_funny_now",
|
|
"text": "A tiny disagreement that is funny now"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_142",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of plans are easiest for you to say yes to?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"planning",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "free_or_inexpensive",
|
|
"text": "Free or inexpensive"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "close_to_home",
|
|
"text": "Close to home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "short_enough_to_fit_a_busy_day",
|
|
"text": "Short enough to fit a busy day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfortable_and_low_energy",
|
|
"text": "Comfortable and low-energy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "flexible_if_the_mood_changes",
|
|
"text": "Flexible if the mood changes"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "free_or_inexpensive",
|
|
"text": "Free or inexpensive"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "close_to_home",
|
|
"text": "Close to home"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "short_enough_to_fit_a_busy_day",
|
|
"text": "Short enough to fit a busy day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfortable_and_low_energy",
|
|
"text": "Comfortable and low-energy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "flexible_if_the_mood_changes",
|
|
"text": "Flexible if the mood changes"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_143",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "One shared activity or separate things in the same room?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"parallel_time",
|
|
"preference",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_shared_activity",
|
|
"text": "One shared activity"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "separate_things_in_the_same_room",
|
|
"text": "Separate things in the same room"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_shared_activity",
|
|
"text": "One shared activity"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "separate_things_in_the_same_room",
|
|
"text": "Separate things in the same room"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_144",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What keeps time together possible during a busy week?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"busy_life",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"practical_reality",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_use_of_small_gaps",
|
|
"text": "Making use of small gaps"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protecting_one_meal_or_break",
|
|
"text": "Protecting one meal or break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sending_a_message_that_leads_to_a_later_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Sending a message that leads to a later conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "turning_a_necessary_trip_into_shared_time",
|
|
"text": "Turning a necessary trip into shared time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_rest_together_instead_of_forcing_an_activity",
|
|
"text": "Choosing rest together instead of forcing an activity"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_use_of_small_gaps",
|
|
"text": "Making use of small gaps"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protecting_one_meal_or_break",
|
|
"text": "Protecting one meal or break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sending_a_message_that_leads_to_a_later_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Sending a message that leads to a later conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "turning_a_necessary_trip_into_shared_time",
|
|
"text": "Turning a necessary trip into shared time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_rest_together_instead_of_forcing_an_activity",
|
|
"text": "Choosing rest together instead of forcing an activity"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_145",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How confident are you that you know what kind of time together I want lately?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"prediction",
|
|
"partner_knowledge",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "I would be guessing",
|
|
"max_label": "Very confident"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_146",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which small moments are most likely to become favorite memories?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"memories",
|
|
"couple_lore",
|
|
"ordinary_time",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_conversation_that_runs_much_longer_than_planned",
|
|
"text": "A conversation that runs much longer than planned"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_simple_plan_that_unexpectedly_works",
|
|
"text": "A simple plan that unexpectedly works"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shared_laugh_during_a_stressful_day",
|
|
"text": "A shared laugh during a stressful day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trying_something_new_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Trying something new without pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quiet_moment_when_everything_feels_settled",
|
|
"text": "A quiet moment when everything feels settled"
|
|
}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_conversation_that_runs_much_longer_than_planned",
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"text": "A conversation that runs much longer than planned"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_simple_plan_that_unexpectedly_works",
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"text": "A simple plan that unexpectedly works"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_shared_laugh_during_a_stressful_day",
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"text": "A shared laugh during a stressful day"
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},
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{
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"id": "trying_something_new_without_pressure",
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"text": "Trying something new without pressure"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_quiet_moment_when_everything_feels_settled",
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"text": "A quiet moment when everything feels settled"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "quality_time_147",
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"category_id": "quality_time",
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What kind of talk sounds best tonight?",
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"depth": 1,
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"tags": [
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"conversation",
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"invitation",
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"current_mood",
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"quality_time"
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],
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"access": "free",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_light_catch_up",
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"text": "A light catch-up"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_funny_memory",
|
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"text": "A funny memory"
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},
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{
|
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"id": "a_future_plan",
|
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"text": "A future plan"
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},
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{
|
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"id": "something_real_that_has_been_on_my_mind",
|
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"text": "Something real that has been on my mind"
|
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}
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_light_catch_up",
|
|
"text": "A light catch-up"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_funny_memory",
|
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"text": "A funny memory"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_future_plan",
|
|
"text": "A future plan"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "something_real_that_has_been_on_my_mind",
|
|
"text": "Something real that has been on my mind"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_148",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes time together feel emotionally safe?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"emotional_safety",
|
|
"meaningful",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_can_be_honest_without_feeling_judged",
|
|
"text": "I can be honest without feeling judged"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_can_want_different_things_without_it_becoming_a_problem",
|
|
"text": "We can want different things without it becoming a problem"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_can_pause_if_the_conversation_gets_heavy",
|
|
"text": "We can pause if the conversation gets heavy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_never_feels_like_a_requirement",
|
|
"text": "Affection never feels like a requirement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_trying_to_understand_not_win",
|
|
"text": "We are trying to understand, not win"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_can_be_honest_without_feeling_judged",
|
|
"text": "I can be honest without feeling judged"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_can_want_different_things_without_it_becoming_a_problem",
|
|
"text": "We can want different things without it becoming a problem"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_can_pause_if_the_conversation_gets_heavy",
|
|
"text": "We can pause if the conversation gets heavy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_never_feels_like_a_requirement",
|
|
"text": "Affection never feels like a requirement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_trying_to_understand_not_win",
|
|
"text": "We are trying to understand, not win"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_149",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "When the day has taken everything out of us, what still counts as good time together?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"presence",
|
|
"ordinary_time",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_close_with_a_comfort_show",
|
|
"text": "Sitting close with a comfort show"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_a_snack_and_talking_for_ten_minutes",
|
|
"text": "Sharing a snack and talking for ten minutes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_a_short_walk_with_no_destination",
|
|
"text": "Taking a short walk with no destination"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lying_down_with_music_on",
|
|
"text": "Lying down with music on"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_separate_quiet_things_in_the_same_room",
|
|
"text": "Doing separate quiet things in the same room"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_close_with_a_comfort_show",
|
|
"text": "Sitting close with a comfort show"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_a_snack_and_talking_for_ten_minutes",
|
|
"text": "Sharing a snack and talking for ten minutes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_a_short_walk_with_no_destination",
|
|
"text": "Taking a short walk with no destination"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lying_down_with_music_on",
|
|
"text": "Lying down with music on"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_separate_quiet_things_in_the_same_room",
|
|
"text": "Doing separate quiet things in the same room"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quality_time_150",
|
|
"category_id": "quality_time",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What could make a normal evening feel quietly romantic?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"romance",
|
|
"flirty",
|
|
"ordinary_time",
|
|
"quality_time"
|
|
],
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"sex": "neutral",
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_our_time_over_a_meal",
|
|
"text": "Taking our time over a meal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "putting_on_music_tied_to_us",
|
|
"text": "Putting on music tied to us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_a_longer_kiss_if_we_both_want_one",
|
|
"text": "Sharing a longer kiss if we both want one"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_somewhere_more_comfortable_than_usual",
|
|
"text": "Talking somewhere more comfortable than usual"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "giving_each_other_one_thoughtful_compliment",
|
|
"text": "Giving each other one thoughtful compliment"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_our_time_over_a_meal",
|
|
"text": "Taking our time over a meal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "putting_on_music_tied_to_us",
|
|
"text": "Putting on music tied to us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_a_longer_kiss_if_we_both_want_one",
|
|
"text": "Sharing a longer kiss if we both want one"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_somewhere_more_comfortable_than_usual",
|
|
"text": "Talking somewhere more comfortable than usual"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "giving_each_other_one_thoughtful_compliment",
|
|
"text": "Giving each other one thoughtful compliment"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|