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{
"category": {
"id": "parenting",
"display_name": "Parenting",
"description": "Questions about parenting as a team, sharing responsibility, guiding children with respect, and protecting the couple relationship through changing family seasons.",
"access": "mixed",
"icon_name": "family_restroom",
"metadata": {
"pack_id": "parenting_v3",
"content_version": "parenting_v3_final_reviewed_2",
"total_questions": 150,
"free_questions": 45,
"premium_questions": 105,
"type_counts": {
"multi_choice": 90,
"single_choice": 30,
"scale": 15,
"this_or_that": 10,
"written": 5
},
"depth_counts": {
"1": 23,
"2": 79,
"3": 48
},
"review_notes": "Rebuilt from the legacy 250-question template-heavy pack using the importer-aligned human-voice guide.",
"final_review": "Additional read-aloud, option-answer, child-privacy, co-parent fairness, safety, natural-language, duplication, and importer-schema review completed."
}
},
"questions": [
{
"id": "parenting_001",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which parts of parenting make us feel most like a team?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"teamwork",
"strengths",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_001_o1_backing_each_other_up_calmly",
"text": "Backing each other up calmly"
},
{
"id": "parenting_001_o2_sharing_the_unglamorous_jobs",
"text": "Sharing the unglamorous jobs"
},
{
"id": "parenting_001_o3_laughing_after_a_long_day",
"text": "Laughing after a long day"
},
{
"id": "parenting_001_o4_making_decisions_together",
"text": "Making decisions together"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_001_o1_backing_each_other_up_calmly",
"text": "Backing each other up calmly"
},
{
"id": "parenting_001_o2_sharing_the_unglamorous_jobs",
"text": "Sharing the unglamorous jobs"
},
{
"id": "parenting_001_o3_laughing_after_a_long_day",
"text": "Laughing after a long day"
},
{
"id": "parenting_001_o4_making_decisions_together",
"text": "Making decisions together"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_002",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is our strongest parenting habit right now?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"strengths",
"habits",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_002_o1_keeping_each_other_informed",
"text": "Keeping each other informed"
},
{
"id": "parenting_002_o2_following_through_on_routines",
"text": "Following through on routines"
},
{
"id": "parenting_002_o3_staying_patient_under_pressure",
"text": "Staying patient under pressure"
},
{
"id": "parenting_002_o4_making_room_for_family_fun",
"text": "Making room for family fun"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_002_o1_keeping_each_other_informed",
"text": "Keeping each other informed"
},
{
"id": "parenting_002_o2_following_through_on_routines",
"text": "Following through on routines"
},
{
"id": "parenting_002_o3_staying_patient_under_pressure",
"text": "Staying patient under pressure"
},
{
"id": "parenting_002_o4_making_room_for_family_fun",
"text": "Making room for family fun"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_003",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What do you most appreciate about the way I parent?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"appreciation",
"partner_support",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_003_o1_the_comfort_i_offer",
"text": "The comfort I offer"
},
{
"id": "parenting_003_o2_the_structure_i_bring",
"text": "The structure I bring"
},
{
"id": "parenting_003_o3_the_playfulness_i_add",
"text": "The playfulness I add"
},
{
"id": "parenting_003_o4_the_way_i_notice_details",
"text": "The way I notice details"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_003_o1_the_comfort_i_offer",
"text": "The comfort I offer"
},
{
"id": "parenting_003_o2_the_structure_i_bring",
"text": "The structure I bring"
},
{
"id": "parenting_003_o3_the_playfulness_i_add",
"text": "The playfulness I add"
},
{
"id": "parenting_003_o4_the_way_i_notice_details",
"text": "The way I notice details"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_004",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which moments show our children that we respect each other?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"modeling",
"respect",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_004_o1_speaking_well_of_each_other",
"text": "Speaking well of each other"
},
{
"id": "parenting_004_o2_handling_disagreements_away_from_an_audience",
"text": "Disagreeing without putting the children in the middle"
},
{
"id": "parenting_004_o3_thanking_each_other_for_help",
"text": "Thanking each other for help"
},
{
"id": "parenting_004_o4_keeping_promises_we_make_together",
"text": "Keeping promises we make together"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_004_o1_speaking_well_of_each_other",
"text": "Speaking well of each other"
},
{
"id": "parenting_004_o2_handling_disagreements_away_from_an_audience",
"text": "Disagreeing without putting the children in the middle"
},
{
"id": "parenting_004_o3_thanking_each_other_for_help",
"text": "Thanking each other for help"
},
{
"id": "parenting_004_o4_keeping_promises_we_make_together",
"text": "Keeping promises we make together"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_005",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you feel that we are on the same parenting team?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"teamwork",
"alignment",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "Very much"
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_006",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Where do our different parenting strengths work well together?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"differences",
"teamwork",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_006_o1_one_of_us_plans_while_the_other_adapts",
"text": "One of us plans while the other adapts"
},
{
"id": "parenting_006_o2_one_notices_feelings_while_the_other_spots_logis",
"text": "One notices feelings while the other spots logistics"
},
{
"id": "parenting_006_o3_one_brings_calm_while_the_other_brings_energy",
"text": "One brings calm while the other brings energy"
},
{
"id": "parenting_006_o4_one_starts_the_task_while_the_other_finishes_det",
"text": "One starts the task while the other finishes details"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_006_o1_one_of_us_plans_while_the_other_adapts",
"text": "One of us plans while the other adapts"
},
{
"id": "parenting_006_o2_one_notices_feelings_while_the_other_spots_logis",
"text": "One notices feelings while the other spots logistics"
},
{
"id": "parenting_006_o3_one_brings_calm_while_the_other_brings_energy",
"text": "One brings calm while the other brings energy"
},
{
"id": "parenting_006_o4_one_starts_the_task_while_the_other_finishes_det",
"text": "One starts the task while the other finishes details"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_007",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Would you rather celebrate a parenting win privately or make a small family event of it?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"celebration",
"quick_choice",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_007_o1_celebrate_privately",
"text": "Celebrate privately"
},
{
"id": "parenting_007_o2_make_a_small_family_event_of_it",
"text": "Make a small family event of it"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_007_o1_celebrate_privately",
"text": "Celebrate privately"
},
{
"id": "parenting_007_o2_make_a_small_family_event_of_it",
"text": "Make a small family event of it"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_008",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us remember that a hard parenting day is not a verdict on us?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"perspective",
"stress",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_008_o1_naming_one_thing_that_went_right",
"text": "Naming one thing that went right"
},
{
"id": "parenting_008_o2_keeping_the_evening_expectations_simple",
"text": "Keeping the evening expectations simple"
},
{
"id": "parenting_008_o3_letting_the_day_end_without_a_full_review",
"text": "Letting the day end without a full review"
},
{
"id": "parenting_008_o4_reminding_each_other_that_children_have_hard_day",
"text": "Reminding each other that children have hard days too"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_008_o1_naming_one_thing_that_went_right",
"text": "Naming one thing that went right"
},
{
"id": "parenting_008_o2_keeping_the_evening_expectations_simple",
"text": "Keeping the evening expectations simple"
},
{
"id": "parenting_008_o3_letting_the_day_end_without_a_full_review",
"text": "Letting the day end without a full review"
},
{
"id": "parenting_008_o4_reminding_each_other_that_children_have_hard_day",
"text": "Reminding each other that children have hard days too"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_009",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which small signs tell you that I value your role as a parent?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"respect",
"appreciation",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_009_o1_asking_for_your_view_before_deciding",
"text": "Asking for your view before deciding"
},
{
"id": "parenting_009_o2_not_correcting_you_in_front_of_the_children",
"text": "Not correcting you in front of the children"
},
{
"id": "parenting_009_o3_noticing_the_work_nobody_sees",
"text": "Noticing the work nobody sees"
},
{
"id": "parenting_009_o4_making_room_for_your_way_of_doing_things",
"text": "Making room for your way of doing things"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_009_o1_asking_for_your_view_before_deciding",
"text": "Asking for your view before deciding"
},
{
"id": "parenting_009_o2_not_correcting_you_in_front_of_the_children",
"text": "Not correcting you in front of the children"
},
{
"id": "parenting_009_o3_noticing_the_work_nobody_sees",
"text": "Noticing the work nobody sees"
},
{
"id": "parenting_009_o4_making_room_for_your_way_of_doing_things",
"text": "Making room for your way of doing things"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_010",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of parenting compliment means the most to you?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"appreciation",
"recognition",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_010_o1_you_stayed_patient",
"text": "You stayed patient"
},
{
"id": "parenting_010_o2_you_noticed_what_was_needed",
"text": "You noticed what was needed"
},
{
"id": "parenting_010_o3_you_made_that_easier",
"text": "You made that easier"
},
{
"id": "parenting_010_o4_you_handled_that_with_care",
"text": "You handled that with care"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_010_o1_you_stayed_patient",
"text": "You stayed patient"
},
{
"id": "parenting_010_o2_you_noticed_what_was_needed",
"text": "You noticed what was needed"
},
{
"id": "parenting_010_o3_you_made_that_easier",
"text": "You made that easier"
},
{
"id": "parenting_010_o4_you_handled_that_with_care",
"text": "You handled that with care"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_011",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would make weekday mornings run more smoothly?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"mornings",
"routines",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_011_o1_preparing_a_few_things_the_night_before",
"text": "Preparing a few things the night before"
},
{
"id": "parenting_011_o2_giving_each_person_one_clear_job",
"text": "Giving each person one clear job"
},
{
"id": "parenting_011_o3_building_in_ten_extra_minutes",
"text": "Building in ten extra minutes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_011_o4_dropping_one_nonessential_expectation",
"text": "Dropping one nonessential expectation"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_011_o1_preparing_a_few_things_the_night_before",
"text": "Preparing a few things the night before"
},
{
"id": "parenting_011_o2_giving_each_person_one_clear_job",
"text": "Giving each person one clear job"
},
{
"id": "parenting_011_o3_building_in_ten_extra_minutes",
"text": "Building in ten extra minutes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_011_o4_dropping_one_nonessential_expectation",
"text": "Dropping one nonessential expectation"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_012",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which daily handoff needs the clearest plan from us?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"routines",
"handoffs",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_012_o1_morning_responsibilities",
"text": "Morning responsibilities"
},
{
"id": "parenting_012_o2_after_school_transitions",
"text": "After-school transitions"
},
{
"id": "parenting_012_o3_dinner_and_homework",
"text": "Dinner and homework"
},
{
"id": "parenting_012_o4_bedtime_duties",
"text": "Bedtime duties"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_012_o1_morning_responsibilities",
"text": "Morning responsibilities"
},
{
"id": "parenting_012_o2_after_school_transitions",
"text": "After-school transitions"
},
{
"id": "parenting_012_o3_dinner_and_homework",
"text": "Dinner and homework"
},
{
"id": "parenting_012_o4_bedtime_duties",
"text": "Bedtime duties"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_013",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which bedtime tasks are easiest to divide ahead of time?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"bedtime",
"division_of_labor",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_013_o1_bath_or_shower_support",
"text": "Bath or shower support"
},
{
"id": "parenting_013_o2_clothes_and_supplies_for_tomorrow",
"text": "Clothes and supplies for tomorrow"
},
{
"id": "parenting_013_o3_stories_and_settling_down",
"text": "Stories and settling down"
},
{
"id": "parenting_013_o4_final_checks_around_the_house",
"text": "Final checks around the house"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_013_o1_bath_or_shower_support",
"text": "Bath or shower support"
},
{
"id": "parenting_013_o2_clothes_and_supplies_for_tomorrow",
"text": "Clothes and supplies for tomorrow"
},
{
"id": "parenting_013_o3_stories_and_settling_down",
"text": "Stories and settling down"
},
{
"id": "parenting_013_o4_final_checks_around_the_house",
"text": "Final checks around the house"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_014",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How manageable do our current family routines feel?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"routines",
"manageability",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hard to manage",
"max_label": "Very manageable"
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_015",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a parenting handoff feel complete instead of rushed?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"handoffs",
"communication",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_015_o1_a_short_update_on_what_happened",
"text": "A short update on what happened"
},
{
"id": "parenting_015_o2_knowing_what_still_needs_attention",
"text": "Knowing what still needs attention"
},
{
"id": "parenting_015_o3_mentioning_any_mood_or_health_changes",
"text": "Mentioning any mood or health changes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_015_o4_confirming_who_is_responsible_next",
"text": "Confirming who is responsible next"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_015_o1_a_short_update_on_what_happened",
"text": "A short update on what happened"
},
{
"id": "parenting_015_o2_knowing_what_still_needs_attention",
"text": "Knowing what still needs attention"
},
{
"id": "parenting_015_o3_mentioning_any_mood_or_health_changes",
"text": "Mentioning any mood or health changes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_015_o4_confirming_who_is_responsible_next",
"text": "Confirming who is responsible next"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_016",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When plans change suddenly, what helps our family most?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"flexibility",
"changes",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_016_o1_one_person_takes_the_lead",
"text": "One person takes the lead"
},
{
"id": "parenting_016_o2_we_make_a_quick_new_plan_together",
"text": "We make a quick new plan together"
},
{
"id": "parenting_016_o3_we_simplify_the_whole_evening",
"text": "We simplify the whole evening"
},
{
"id": "parenting_016_o4_we_explain_the_change_early",
"text": "We explain the change early"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_016_o1_one_person_takes_the_lead",
"text": "One person takes the lead"
},
{
"id": "parenting_016_o2_we_make_a_quick_new_plan_together",
"text": "We make a quick new plan together"
},
{
"id": "parenting_016_o3_we_simplify_the_whole_evening",
"text": "We simplify the whole evening"
},
{
"id": "parenting_016_o4_we_explain_the_change_early",
"text": "We explain the change early"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_017",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What could we prepare once a week to save daily stress?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"planning",
"routines",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_017_o1_a_simple_meal_outline",
"text": "A simple meal outline"
},
{
"id": "parenting_017_o2_a_shared_calendar_check",
"text": "A shared calendar check"
},
{
"id": "parenting_017_o3_clothes_or_bags_for_busy_days",
"text": "Clothes or bags for busy days"
},
{
"id": "parenting_017_o4_a_list_of_upcoming_deadlines",
"text": "A list of upcoming deadlines"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_017_o1_a_simple_meal_outline",
"text": "A simple meal outline"
},
{
"id": "parenting_017_o2_a_shared_calendar_check",
"text": "A shared calendar check"
},
{
"id": "parenting_017_o3_clothes_or_bags_for_busy_days",
"text": "Clothes or bags for busy days"
},
{
"id": "parenting_017_o4_a_list_of_upcoming_deadlines",
"text": "A list of upcoming deadlines"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_018",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which part of the evening would benefit most from less multitasking?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"evenings",
"presence",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_018_o1_dinner_together",
"text": "Dinner together"
},
{
"id": "parenting_018_o2_homework_or_reading",
"text": "Homework or reading"
},
{
"id": "parenting_018_o3_getting_ready_for_bed",
"text": "Getting ready for bed"
},
{
"id": "parenting_018_o4_the_last_few_minutes_before_sleep",
"text": "The last few minutes before sleep"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_018_o1_dinner_together",
"text": "Dinner together"
},
{
"id": "parenting_018_o2_homework_or_reading",
"text": "Homework or reading"
},
{
"id": "parenting_018_o3_getting_ready_for_bed",
"text": "Getting ready for bed"
},
{
"id": "parenting_018_o4_the_last_few_minutes_before_sleep",
"text": "The last few minutes before sleep"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_019",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which routine deserves to be easier rather than more perfect?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"perfectionism",
"routines",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_019_o1_leaving_the_house_on_time",
"text": "Leaving the house on time"
},
{
"id": "parenting_019_o2_keeping_bedrooms_organized",
"text": "Keeping bedrooms organized"
},
{
"id": "parenting_019_o3_getting_everyone_fed",
"text": "Getting everyone fed"
},
{
"id": "parenting_019_o4_finishing_the_bedtime_sequence",
"text": "Finishing the bedtime sequence"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_019_o1_leaving_the_house_on_time",
"text": "Leaving the house on time"
},
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"id": "parenting_019_o2_keeping_bedrooms_organized",
"text": "Keeping bedrooms organized"
},
{
"id": "parenting_019_o3_getting_everyone_fed",
"text": "Getting everyone fed"
},
{
"id": "parenting_019_o4_finishing_the_bedtime_sequence",
"text": "Finishing the bedtime sequence"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_020",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the best signal that one of us needs backup right away?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"backup",
"communication",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_020_o1_a_direct_request",
"text": "A direct request"
},
{
"id": "parenting_020_o2_a_brief_code_phrase",
"text": "A brief code phrase"
},
{
"id": "parenting_020_o3_a_message_from_another_room",
"text": "A message from another room"
},
{
"id": "parenting_020_o4_a_clear_handoff_of_the_task",
"text": "A clear handoff of the task"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_020_o1_a_direct_request",
"text": "A direct request"
},
{
"id": "parenting_020_o2_a_brief_code_phrase",
"text": "A brief code phrase"
},
{
"id": "parenting_020_o3_a_message_from_another_room",
"text": "A message from another room"
},
{
"id": "parenting_020_o4_a_clear_handoff_of_the_task",
"text": "A clear handoff of the task"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_021",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which invisible parenting jobs should we check more often?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"mental_load",
"planning",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_021_o1_tracking_school_information",
"text": "Tracking school information"
},
{
"id": "parenting_021_o2_remembering_appointments_and_forms",
"text": "Remembering appointments and forms"
},
{
"id": "parenting_021_o3_planning_clothes_and_supplies",
"text": "Planning clothes and supplies"
},
{
"id": "parenting_021_o4_watching_for_emotional_changes",
"text": "Watching for emotional changes"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_021_o1_tracking_school_information",
"text": "Tracking school information"
},
{
"id": "parenting_021_o2_remembering_appointments_and_forms",
"text": "Remembering appointments and forms"
},
{
"id": "parenting_021_o3_planning_clothes_and_supplies",
"text": "Planning clothes and supplies"
},
{
"id": "parenting_021_o4_watching_for_emotional_changes",
"text": "Watching for emotional changes"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_022",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What would lighten your parenting load most this week?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"support",
"mental_load",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_022_o1_taking_one_task_completely_off_your_list",
"text": "Taking one task completely off your list"
},
{
"id": "parenting_022_o2_making_a_decision_you_have_been_carrying",
"text": "Making a decision you have been carrying"
},
{
"id": "parenting_022_o3_handling_one_difficult_conversation",
"text": "Handling one difficult conversation"
},
{
"id": "parenting_022_o4_protecting_a_real_block_of_rest",
"text": "Protecting a real block of rest"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_022_o1_taking_one_task_completely_off_your_list",
"text": "Taking one task completely off your list"
},
{
"id": "parenting_022_o2_making_a_decision_you_have_been_carrying",
"text": "Making a decision you have been carrying"
},
{
"id": "parenting_022_o3_handling_one_difficult_conversation",
"text": "Handling one difficult conversation"
},
{
"id": "parenting_022_o4_protecting_a_real_block_of_rest",
"text": "Protecting a real block of rest"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_023",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Where would clearer ownership prevent repeated reminders?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"ownership",
"mental_load",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_023_o1_school_messages_and_deadlines",
"text": "School messages and deadlines"
},
{
"id": "parenting_023_o2_medical_and_dental_scheduling",
"text": "Medical and dental scheduling"
},
{
"id": "parenting_023_o3_activity_transportation",
"text": "Activity transportation"
},
{
"id": "parenting_023_o4_household_supplies_for_the_children",
"text": "Household supplies for the children"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_023_o1_school_messages_and_deadlines",
"text": "School messages and deadlines"
},
{
"id": "parenting_023_o2_medical_and_dental_scheduling",
"text": "Medical and dental scheduling"
},
{
"id": "parenting_023_o3_activity_transportation",
"text": "Activity transportation"
},
{
"id": "parenting_023_o4_household_supplies_for_the_children",
"text": "Household supplies for the children"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_024",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you trust that a parenting task is truly handled?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"follow_through",
"trust",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_024_o1_a_clear_owner_from_the_start",
"text": "A clear owner from the start"
},
{
"id": "parenting_024_o2_a_deadline_that_both_of_us_know",
"text": "A deadline that both of us know"
},
{
"id": "parenting_024_o3_a_quick_update_when_it_is_finished",
"text": "A quick update when it is finished"
},
{
"id": "parenting_024_o4_no_need_for_repeated_checking",
"text": "No need for repeated checking"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_024_o1_a_clear_owner_from_the_start",
"text": "A clear owner from the start"
},
{
"id": "parenting_024_o2_a_deadline_that_both_of_us_know",
"text": "A deadline that both of us know"
},
{
"id": "parenting_024_o3_a_quick_update_when_it_is_finished",
"text": "A quick update when it is finished"
},
{
"id": "parenting_024_o4_no_need_for_repeated_checking",
"text": "No need for repeated checking"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_025",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How fairly does the unseen planning work feel divided right now?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"fairness",
"mental_load",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Very uneven",
"max_label": "Very fair"
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_026",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes shared planning feel collaborative instead of like another meeting?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"planning",
"collaboration",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_026_o1_keeping_it_under_fifteen_minutes",
"text": "Keeping it under fifteen minutes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_026_o2_using_one_shared_list",
"text": "Using one shared list"
},
{
"id": "parenting_026_o3_deciding_only_what_is_urgent",
"text": "Deciding only what is urgent"
},
{
"id": "parenting_026_o4_ending_with_clear_owners",
"text": "Ending with clear owners"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_026_o1_keeping_it_under_fifteen_minutes",
"text": "Keeping it under fifteen minutes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_026_o2_using_one_shared_list",
"text": "Using one shared list"
},
{
"id": "parenting_026_o3_deciding_only_what_is_urgent",
"text": "Deciding only what is urgent"
},
{
"id": "parenting_026_o4_ending_with_clear_owners",
"text": "Ending with clear owners"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_027",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which kind of help feels most useful when you are overloaded?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"support",
"overload",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_027_o1_taking_over_without_a_long_discussion",
"text": "Taking over without a long discussion"
},
{
"id": "parenting_027_o2_asking_which_task_matters_most",
"text": "Asking which task matters most"
},
{
"id": "parenting_027_o3_managing_the_children_for_a_while",
"text": "Managing the children for a while"
},
{
"id": "parenting_027_o4_handling_the_next_decision",
"text": "Handling the next decision"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_027_o1_taking_over_without_a_long_discussion",
"text": "Taking over without a long discussion"
},
{
"id": "parenting_027_o2_asking_which_task_matters_most",
"text": "Asking which task matters most"
},
{
"id": "parenting_027_o3_managing_the_children_for_a_while",
"text": "Managing the children for a while"
},
{
"id": "parenting_027_o4_handling_the_next_decision",
"text": "Handling the next decision"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_028",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs suggest one of us is carrying too much parenting responsibility?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"burnout",
"mental_load",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_028_o1_frequent_resentment_over_small_tasks",
"text": "Frequent resentment over small tasks"
},
{
"id": "parenting_028_o2_no_uninterrupted_personal_time",
"text": "No uninterrupted personal time"
},
{
"id": "parenting_028_o3_needing_to_supervise_every_detail",
"text": "Needing to supervise every detail"
},
{
"id": "parenting_028_o4_feeling_anxious_when_the_other_person_takes_over",
"text": "Feeling anxious when the other person takes over"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_028_o1_frequent_resentment_over_small_tasks",
"text": "Frequent resentment over small tasks"
},
{
"id": "parenting_028_o2_no_uninterrupted_personal_time",
"text": "No uninterrupted personal time"
},
{
"id": "parenting_028_o3_needing_to_supervise_every_detail",
"text": "Needing to supervise every detail"
},
{
"id": "parenting_028_o4_feeling_anxious_when_the_other_person_takes_over",
"text": "Feeling anxious when the other person takes over"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_029",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we make room for each parent to rest without keeping score?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"rest",
"fairness",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_029_o1_planning_rest_before_exhaustion_hits",
"text": "Planning rest before exhaustion hits"
},
{
"id": "parenting_029_o2_taking_turns_based_on_current_capacity",
"text": "Taking turns based on current capacity"
},
{
"id": "parenting_029_o3_counting_recovery_time_as_real_work",
"text": "Counting recovery time as real work"
},
{
"id": "parenting_029_o4_revisiting_the_plan_when_life_changes",
"text": "Revisiting the plan when life changes"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_029_o1_planning_rest_before_exhaustion_hits",
"text": "Planning rest before exhaustion hits"
},
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"id": "parenting_029_o2_taking_turns_based_on_current_capacity",
"text": "Taking turns based on current capacity"
},
{
"id": "parenting_029_o3_counting_recovery_time_as_real_work",
"text": "Counting recovery time as real work"
},
{
"id": "parenting_029_o4_revisiting_the_plan_when_life_changes",
"text": "Revisiting the plan when life changes"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_030",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is one responsibility that works better with a primary owner?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"ownership",
"responsibilities",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_030_o1_school_communication",
"text": "School communication"
},
{
"id": "parenting_030_o2_health_appointments",
"text": "Health appointments"
},
{
"id": "parenting_030_o3_activity_scheduling",
"text": "Activity scheduling"
},
{
"id": "parenting_030_o4_clothing_and_supply_needs",
"text": "Clothing and supply needs"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_030_o1_school_communication",
"text": "School communication"
},
{
"id": "parenting_030_o2_health_appointments",
"text": "Health appointments"
},
{
"id": "parenting_030_o3_activity_scheduling",
"text": "Activity scheduling"
},
{
"id": "parenting_030_o4_clothing_and_supply_needs",
"text": "Clothing and supply needs"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_031",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What kind of family time usually leaves everyone in a better mood?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"family_fun",
"connection",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_031_o1_a_low_key_meal_together",
"text": "A low-key meal together"
},
{
"id": "parenting_031_o2_a_short_trip_outside",
"text": "A short trip outside"
},
{
"id": "parenting_031_o3_a_game_with_simple_rules",
"text": "A game with simple rules"
},
{
"id": "parenting_031_o4_a_familiar_movie_night",
"text": "A familiar movie night"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_031_o1_a_low_key_meal_together",
"text": "A low-key meal together"
},
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"id": "parenting_031_o2_a_short_trip_outside",
"text": "A short trip outside"
},
{
"id": "parenting_031_o3_a_game_with_simple_rules",
"text": "A game with simple rules"
},
{
"id": "parenting_031_o4_a_familiar_movie_night",
"text": "A familiar movie night"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_032",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which ordinary moment is easiest for us to turn into family fun?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"playfulness",
"daily_life",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_032_o1_the_ride_somewhere",
"text": "The ride somewhere"
},
{
"id": "parenting_032_o2_cleaning_up_after_dinner",
"text": "Cleaning up after dinner"
},
{
"id": "parenting_032_o3_waiting_for_an_appointment",
"text": "Waiting for an appointment"
},
{
"id": "parenting_032_o4_the_pre_bed_wind_down",
"text": "The pre-bed wind-down"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_032_o1_the_ride_somewhere",
"text": "The ride somewhere"
},
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"id": "parenting_032_o2_cleaning_up_after_dinner",
"text": "Cleaning up after dinner"
},
{
"id": "parenting_032_o3_waiting_for_an_appointment",
"text": "Waiting for an appointment"
},
{
"id": "parenting_032_o4_the_pre_bed_wind_down",
"text": "The pre-bed wind-down"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_033",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps family outings feel worth the effort?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"outings",
"expectations",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_033_o1_keeping_the_plan_short",
"text": "Keeping the plan short"
},
{
"id": "parenting_033_o2_bringing_familiar_snacks",
"text": "Bringing familiar snacks"
},
{
"id": "parenting_033_o3_leaving_before_everyone_is_exhausted",
"text": "Leaving before everyone is exhausted"
},
{
"id": "parenting_033_o4_accepting_that_the_day_may_be_imperfect",
"text": "Accepting that the day may be imperfect"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_033_o1_keeping_the_plan_short",
"text": "Keeping the plan short"
},
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"id": "parenting_033_o2_bringing_familiar_snacks",
"text": "Bringing familiar snacks"
},
{
"id": "parenting_033_o3_leaving_before_everyone_is_exhausted",
"text": "Leaving before everyone is exhausted"
},
{
"id": "parenting_033_o4_accepting_that_the_day_may_be_imperfect",
"text": "Accepting that the day may be imperfect"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_034",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which traditions feel simple enough to keep during busy years?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"traditions",
"family_identity",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_034_o1_a_favorite_birthday_breakfast",
"text": "A favorite birthday breakfast"
},
{
"id": "parenting_034_o2_one_seasonal_outing",
"text": "One seasonal outing"
},
{
"id": "parenting_034_o3_a_weekly_meal_everyone_knows",
"text": "A weekly meal everyone knows"
},
{
"id": "parenting_034_o4_a_small_holiday_ritual_at_home",
"text": "A small holiday ritual at home"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_034_o1_a_favorite_birthday_breakfast",
"text": "A favorite birthday breakfast"
},
{
"id": "parenting_034_o2_one_seasonal_outing",
"text": "One seasonal outing"
},
{
"id": "parenting_034_o3_a_weekly_meal_everyone_knows",
"text": "A weekly meal everyone knows"
},
{
"id": "parenting_034_o4_a_small_holiday_ritual_at_home",
"text": "A small holiday ritual at home"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_035",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much playful energy does our family have lately?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"playfulness",
"family_climate",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Very little",
"max_label": "A lot"
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_036",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which approaches let children help plan without turning every choice into a debate?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"family_decisions",
"participation",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_036_o1_offer_two_realistic_options",
"text": "Offer two realistic options"
},
{
"id": "parenting_036_o2_let_one_child_choose_on_a_rotating_basis",
"text": "Let one child choose on a rotating basis"
},
{
"id": "parenting_036_o3_separate_adult_decisions_from_family_choices",
"text": "Separate adult decisions from family choices"
},
{
"id": "parenting_036_o4_explain_the_limit_before_asking_for_input",
"text": "Explain the limit before asking for input"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_036_o1_offer_two_realistic_options",
"text": "Offer two realistic options"
},
{
"id": "parenting_036_o2_let_one_child_choose_on_a_rotating_basis",
"text": "Let one child choose on a rotating basis"
},
{
"id": "parenting_036_o3_separate_adult_decisions_from_family_choices",
"text": "Separate adult decisions from family choices"
},
{
"id": "parenting_036_o4_explain_the_limit_before_asking_for_input",
"text": "Explain the limit before asking for input"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_037",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "For family time, would you rather repeat a favorite or try something new?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"family_fun",
"quick_choice",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_037_o1_repeat_a_favorite",
"text": "Repeat a favorite"
},
{
"id": "parenting_037_o2_try_something_new",
"text": "Try something new"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_037_o1_repeat_a_favorite",
"text": "Repeat a favorite"
},
{
"id": "parenting_037_o2_try_something_new",
"text": "Try something new"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_038",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us enjoy family time instead of managing every second?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"presence",
"family_fun",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_038_o1_choosing_an_activity_with_loose_structure",
"text": "Choosing an activity with loose structure"
},
{
"id": "parenting_038_o2_sharing_supervision_rather_than_shadowing",
"text": "Sharing supervision rather than shadowing"
},
{
"id": "parenting_038_o3_letting_small_messes_wait",
"text": "Letting small messes wait"
},
{
"id": "parenting_038_o4_keeping_phones_available_but_not_central",
"text": "Keeping phones available but not central"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_038_o1_choosing_an_activity_with_loose_structure",
"text": "Choosing an activity with loose structure"
},
{
"id": "parenting_038_o2_sharing_supervision_rather_than_shadowing",
"text": "Sharing supervision rather than shadowing"
},
{
"id": "parenting_038_o3_letting_small_messes_wait",
"text": "Letting small messes wait"
},
{
"id": "parenting_038_o4_keeping_phones_available_but_not_central",
"text": "Keeping phones available but not central"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_039",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which low-cost family moments are most likely to happen again?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"budget_friendly",
"family_fun",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_039_o1_a_picnic_with_food_from_home",
"text": "A picnic with food from home"
},
{
"id": "parenting_039_o2_music_while_everyone_helps_cook",
"text": "Music while everyone helps cook"
},
{
"id": "parenting_039_o3_a_neighborhood_walk_with_one_destination",
"text": "A neighborhood walk with one destination"
},
{
"id": "parenting_039_o4_blankets_and_stories_in_the_living_room",
"text": "Blankets and stories in the living room"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_039_o1_a_picnic_with_food_from_home",
"text": "A picnic with food from home"
},
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"id": "parenting_039_o2_music_while_everyone_helps_cook",
"text": "Music while everyone helps cook"
},
{
"id": "parenting_039_o3_a_neighborhood_walk_with_one_destination",
"text": "A neighborhood walk with one destination"
},
{
"id": "parenting_039_o4_blankets_and_stories_in_the_living_room",
"text": "Blankets and stories in the living room"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_040",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a family memory feel special to you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"memories",
"connection",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_040_o1_everyone_laughing_together",
"text": "Everyone laughing together"
},
{
"id": "parenting_040_o2_a_child_trying_something_new",
"text": "A child trying something new"
},
{
"id": "parenting_040_o3_a_calm_moment_in_an_ordinary_day",
"text": "A calm moment in an ordinary day"
},
{
"id": "parenting_040_o4_a_tradition_returning_each_year",
"text": "A tradition returning each year"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_040_o1_everyone_laughing_together",
"text": "Everyone laughing together"
},
{
"id": "parenting_040_o2_a_child_trying_something_new",
"text": "A child trying something new"
},
{
"id": "parenting_040_o3_a_calm_moment_in_an_ordinary_day",
"text": "A calm moment in an ordinary day"
},
{
"id": "parenting_040_o4_a_tradition_returning_each_year",
"text": "A tradition returning each year"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_041",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which habits help us make a quick parenting decision without undermining each other?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"decisions",
"unity",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_041_o1_one_person_handles_the_immediate_moment",
"text": "One person handles the immediate moment"
},
{
"id": "parenting_041_o2_we_use_a_rule_already_agreed_on",
"text": "We use a rule already agreed on"
},
{
"id": "parenting_041_o3_we_postpone_the_nonurgent_part",
"text": "We postpone the nonurgent part"
},
{
"id": "parenting_041_o4_we_discuss_differences_privately_later",
"text": "We discuss differences privately later"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_041_o1_one_person_handles_the_immediate_moment",
"text": "One person handles the immediate moment"
},
{
"id": "parenting_041_o2_we_use_a_rule_already_agreed_on",
"text": "We use a rule already agreed on"
},
{
"id": "parenting_041_o3_we_postpone_the_nonurgent_part",
"text": "We postpone the nonurgent part"
},
{
"id": "parenting_041_o4_we_discuss_differences_privately_later",
"text": "We discuss differences privately later"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_042",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When one of us gives an answer the other questions, what should happen first?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"consistency",
"support",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_042_o1_back_the_decision_for_the_moment",
"text": "Ask for a quick private check-in"
},
{
"id": "parenting_042_o2_ask_one_quiet_clarifying_question",
"text": "Keep the disagreement between adults for the moment"
},
{
"id": "parenting_042_o3_take_the_child_aside_to_explain",
"text": "Clarify whether safety or dignity is involved"
},
{
"id": "parenting_042_o4_pause_the_situation_if_the_answer_seems_unsafe",
"text": "Delay the answer if there is time"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_042_o1_back_the_decision_for_the_moment",
"text": "Ask for a quick private check-in"
},
{
"id": "parenting_042_o2_ask_one_quiet_clarifying_question",
"text": "Keep the disagreement between adults for the moment"
},
{
"id": "parenting_042_o3_take_the_child_aside_to_explain",
"text": "Clarify whether safety or dignity is involved"
},
{
"id": "parenting_042_o4_pause_the_situation_if_the_answer_seems_unsafe",
"text": "Delay the answer if there is time"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_043",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which phrases help us stay united when we need a minute to decide?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"communication",
"decision_pause",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_043_o1_we_need_a_moment_to_talk",
"text": "We need a moment to talk"
},
{
"id": "parenting_043_o2_we_will_give_you_an_answer_soon",
"text": "We will give you an answer soon"
},
{
"id": "parenting_043_o3_the_answer_is_not_ready_yet",
"text": "The answer is not ready yet"
},
{
"id": "parenting_043_o4_let_us_check_the_plan_first",
"text": "Let us check the plan first"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_043_o1_we_need_a_moment_to_talk",
"text": "We need a moment to talk"
},
{
"id": "parenting_043_o2_we_will_give_you_an_answer_soon",
"text": "We will give you an answer soon"
},
{
"id": "parenting_043_o3_the_answer_is_not_ready_yet",
"text": "The answer is not ready yet"
},
{
"id": "parenting_043_o4_let_us_check_the_plan_first",
"text": "Let us check the plan first"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_044",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you disagreeing with me about parenting in private?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"communication",
"disagreement",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_045",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps a parenting disagreement from turning into a character judgment?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"disagreement",
"respect",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_045_o1_name_the_exact_decision_at_issue",
"text": "Name the exact decision at issue"
},
{
"id": "parenting_045_o2_avoid_words_like_always_and_never",
"text": "Avoid words like always and never"
},
{
"id": "parenting_045_o3_assume_both_of_us_care_about_the_child",
"text": "Assume both of us care about the child"
},
{
"id": "parenting_045_o4_separate_the_outcome_from_the_person",
"text": "Separate the outcome from the person"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_045_o1_name_the_exact_decision_at_issue",
"text": "Name the exact decision at issue"
},
{
"id": "parenting_045_o2_avoid_words_like_always_and_never",
"text": "Avoid words like always and never"
},
{
"id": "parenting_045_o3_assume_both_of_us_care_about_the_child",
"text": "Assume both of us care about the child"
},
{
"id": "parenting_045_o4_separate_the_outcome_from_the_person",
"text": "Separate the outcome from the person"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_046",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the fairest way to handle a decision neither of us feels strongly about?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"decisions",
"fairness",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_046_o1_take_turns_choosing",
"text": "Take turns choosing"
},
{
"id": "parenting_046_o2_follow_the_simpler_option",
"text": "Follow the simpler option"
},
{
"id": "parenting_046_o3_choose_what_helps_the_child_most_today",
"text": "Choose what helps the child most today"
},
{
"id": "parenting_046_o4_let_the_person_handling_it_decide",
"text": "Let the person handling it decide"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_046_o1_take_turns_choosing",
"text": "Take turns choosing"
},
{
"id": "parenting_046_o2_follow_the_simpler_option",
"text": "Follow the simpler option"
},
{
"id": "parenting_046_o3_choose_what_helps_the_child_most_today",
"text": "Choose what helps the child most today"
},
{
"id": "parenting_046_o4_let_the_person_handling_it_decide",
"text": "Let the person handling it decide"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_047",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which updates are worth sending during a busy parenting day?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"updates",
"communication",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_047_o1_a_meaningful_mood_change",
"text": "A meaningful mood change"
},
{
"id": "parenting_047_o2_a_schedule_problem_that_affects_both_of_us",
"text": "A schedule problem that affects both of us"
},
{
"id": "parenting_047_o3_something_the_child_needs_soon",
"text": "Something the child needs soon"
},
{
"id": "parenting_047_o4_a_decision_that_cannot_wait",
"text": "A decision that cannot wait"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_047_o1_a_meaningful_mood_change",
"text": "A meaningful mood change"
},
{
"id": "parenting_047_o2_a_schedule_problem_that_affects_both_of_us",
"text": "A schedule problem that affects both of us"
},
{
"id": "parenting_047_o3_something_the_child_needs_soon",
"text": "Something the child needs soon"
},
{
"id": "parenting_047_o4_a_decision_that_cannot_wait",
"text": "A decision that cannot wait"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_048",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "When a parenting issue is not urgent, would you rather talk that night or schedule it?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"timing",
"quick_choice",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_048_o1_talk_that_night",
"text": "Talk that night"
},
{
"id": "parenting_048_o2_schedule_it",
"text": "Schedule it"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_048_o1_talk_that_night",
"text": "Talk that night"
},
{
"id": "parenting_048_o2_schedule_it",
"text": "Schedule it"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_049",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which parenting conversations deserve our full attention?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"communication",
"priority",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_049_o1_a_major_rule_change",
"text": "A major rule change"
},
{
"id": "parenting_049_o2_a_concern_about_a_child_s_wellbeing",
"text": "A concern about a child’s wellbeing"
},
{
"id": "parenting_049_o3_a_disagreement_that_keeps_returning",
"text": "A disagreement that keeps returning"
},
{
"id": "parenting_049_o4_a_decision_with_long_term_effects",
"text": "A decision with long-term effects"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_049_o1_a_major_rule_change",
"text": "A major rule change"
},
{
"id": "parenting_049_o2_a_concern_about_a_child_s_wellbeing",
"text": "A concern about a child’s wellbeing"
},
{
"id": "parenting_049_o3_a_disagreement_that_keeps_returning",
"text": "A disagreement that keeps returning"
},
{
"id": "parenting_049_o4_a_decision_with_long_term_effects",
"text": "A decision with long-term effects"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_050",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one parenting topic you want us to discuss more calmly?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"communication",
"reflection",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_051",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which values do you most want our children to learn from daily life?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"values",
"modeling",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_051_o1_kindness_without_losing_boundaries",
"text": "Kindness without losing boundaries"
},
{
"id": "parenting_051_o2_responsibility_without_constant_fear",
"text": "Responsibility without constant fear"
},
{
"id": "parenting_051_o3_honesty_that_leaves_room_for_mistakes",
"text": "Honesty that leaves room for mistakes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_051_o4_respect_for_people_who_are_different",
"text": "Respect for people who are different"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_051_o1_kindness_without_losing_boundaries",
"text": "Kindness without losing boundaries"
},
{
"id": "parenting_051_o2_responsibility_without_constant_fear",
"text": "Responsibility without constant fear"
},
{
"id": "parenting_051_o3_honesty_that_leaves_room_for_mistakes",
"text": "Honesty that leaves room for mistakes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_051_o4_respect_for_people_who_are_different",
"text": "Respect for people who are different"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_052",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What matters most when a parenting choice has no perfect answer?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"values",
"decisions",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_052_o1_the_child_s_long_term_wellbeing",
"text": "The child’s long-term wellbeing"
},
{
"id": "parenting_052_o2_what_we_can_consistently_maintain",
"text": "What we can consistently maintain"
},
{
"id": "parenting_052_o3_the_least_harmful_realistic_option",
"text": "The least harmful realistic option"
},
{
"id": "parenting_052_o4_a_choice_we_can_explain_honestly",
"text": "A choice we can explain honestly"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_052_o1_the_child_s_long_term_wellbeing",
"text": "The child’s long-term wellbeing"
},
{
"id": "parenting_052_o2_what_we_can_consistently_maintain",
"text": "What we can consistently maintain"
},
{
"id": "parenting_052_o3_the_least_harmful_realistic_option",
"text": "The least harmful realistic option"
},
{
"id": "parenting_052_o4_a_choice_we_can_explain_honestly",
"text": "A choice we can explain honestly"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_053",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Where do you most want us to model humility as parents?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"modeling",
"humility",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_053_o1_admitting_when_we_were_wrong",
"text": "Admitting when we were wrong"
},
{
"id": "parenting_053_o2_changing_a_rule_that_is_not_working",
"text": "Changing a rule that is not working"
},
{
"id": "parenting_053_o3_apologizing_directly_to_a_child",
"text": "Apologizing directly to a child"
},
{
"id": "parenting_053_o4_asking_for_knowledgeable_help",
"text": "Asking for knowledgeable help"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_053_o1_admitting_when_we_were_wrong",
"text": "Admitting when we were wrong"
},
{
"id": "parenting_053_o2_changing_a_rule_that_is_not_working",
"text": "Changing a rule that is not working"
},
{
"id": "parenting_053_o3_apologizing_directly_to_a_child",
"text": "Apologizing directly to a child"
},
{
"id": "parenting_053_o4_asking_for_knowledgeable_help",
"text": "Asking for knowledgeable help"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_054",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which lessons are better taught through example than through a speech?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"modeling",
"life_lessons",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_054_o1_how_to_apologize_sincerely",
"text": "How to apologize sincerely"
},
{
"id": "parenting_054_o2_how_to_treat_service_workers",
"text": "How to treat service workers"
},
{
"id": "parenting_054_o3_how_to_handle_frustration",
"text": "How to handle frustration"
},
{
"id": "parenting_054_o4_how_to_care_for_shared_spaces",
"text": "How to care for shared spaces"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_054_o1_how_to_apologize_sincerely",
"text": "How to apologize sincerely"
},
{
"id": "parenting_054_o2_how_to_treat_service_workers",
"text": "How to treat service workers"
},
{
"id": "parenting_054_o3_how_to_handle_frustration",
"text": "How to handle frustration"
},
{
"id": "parenting_054_o4_how_to_care_for_shared_spaces",
"text": "How to care for shared spaces"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_055",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How aligned do our core parenting values feel?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"values",
"alignment",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Far apart",
"max_label": "Closely aligned"
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_056",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should guide us when family values and outside expectations clash?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"values",
"outside_pressure",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_056_o1_the_child_s_safety_and_dignity",
"text": "The child’s safety and dignity"
},
{
"id": "parenting_056_o2_our_clearly_discussed_principles",
"text": "Our clearly discussed principles"
},
{
"id": "parenting_056_o3_reliable_information_rather_than_pressure",
"text": "Reliable information rather than pressure"
},
{
"id": "parenting_056_o4_room_for_the_child_s_growing_voice",
"text": "Room for the child’s growing voice"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_056_o1_the_child_s_safety_and_dignity",
"text": "The child’s safety and dignity"
},
{
"id": "parenting_056_o2_our_clearly_discussed_principles",
"text": "Our clearly discussed principles"
},
{
"id": "parenting_056_o3_reliable_information_rather_than_pressure",
"text": "Reliable information rather than pressure"
},
{
"id": "parenting_056_o4_room_for_the_child_s_growing_voice",
"text": "Room for the child’s growing voice"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_057",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Would you rather be known as a predictable parent or an adaptable parent?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"parenting_style",
"quick_choice",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_057_o1_predictable_parent",
"text": "Predictable parent"
},
{
"id": "parenting_057_o2_adaptable_parent",
"text": "Adaptable parent"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_057_o1_predictable_parent",
"text": "Predictable parent"
},
{
"id": "parenting_057_o2_adaptable_parent",
"text": "Adaptable parent"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_058",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us teach responsibility without expecting adult behavior from a child?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"responsibility",
"age_appropriate",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_058_o1_choose_tasks_that_match_ability",
"text": "Choose tasks that match ability"
},
{
"id": "parenting_058_o2_teach_the_skill_before_judging_the_result",
"text": "Teach the skill before judging the result"
},
{
"id": "parenting_058_o3_expect_practice_rather_than_perfection",
"text": "Expect practice rather than perfection"
},
{
"id": "parenting_058_o4_adjust_support_as_the_child_grows",
"text": "Adjust support as the child grows"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_058_o1_choose_tasks_that_match_ability",
"text": "Choose tasks that match ability"
},
{
"id": "parenting_058_o2_teach_the_skill_before_judging_the_result",
"text": "Teach the skill before judging the result"
},
{
"id": "parenting_058_o3_expect_practice_rather_than_perfection",
"text": "Expect practice rather than perfection"
},
{
"id": "parenting_058_o4_adjust_support_as_the_child_grows",
"text": "Adjust support as the child grows"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_059",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which parts of our own childhood should we examine before repeating them?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"family_of_origin",
"reflection",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_059_o1_how_mistakes_were_handled",
"text": "How mistakes were handled"
},
{
"id": "parenting_059_o2_who_was_allowed_to_show_emotion",
"text": "Who was allowed to show emotion"
},
{
"id": "parenting_059_o3_how_rules_were_explained",
"text": "How rules were explained"
},
{
"id": "parenting_059_o4_whether_affection_depended_on_behavior",
"text": "Whether affection depended on behavior"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_059_o1_how_mistakes_were_handled",
"text": "How mistakes were handled"
},
{
"id": "parenting_059_o2_who_was_allowed_to_show_emotion",
"text": "Who was allowed to show emotion"
},
{
"id": "parenting_059_o3_how_rules_were_explained",
"text": "How rules were explained"
},
{
"id": "parenting_059_o4_whether_affection_depended_on_behavior",
"text": "Whether affection depended on behavior"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_060",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which quality do you most hope our children remember about our home?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"family_culture",
"values",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_060_o1_they_felt_safe_asking_questions",
"text": "They felt safe asking questions"
},
{
"id": "parenting_060_o2_people_were_allowed_to_make_mistakes",
"text": "People were allowed to make mistakes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_060_o3_love_was_steady_even_during_limits",
"text": "Love was steady even during limits"
},
{
"id": "parenting_060_o4_everyone_s_voice_mattered",
"text": "Everyone’s voice mattered"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_060_o1_they_felt_safe_asking_questions",
"text": "They felt safe asking questions"
},
{
"id": "parenting_060_o2_people_were_allowed_to_make_mistakes",
"text": "People were allowed to make mistakes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_060_o3_love_was_steady_even_during_limits",
"text": "Love was steady even during limits"
},
{
"id": "parenting_060_o4_everyone_s_voice_mattered",
"text": "Everyone’s voice mattered"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_061",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a family rule easier for a child to understand?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"rules",
"clarity",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_061_o1_the_reason_is_explained_simply",
"text": "The reason is explained simply"
},
{
"id": "parenting_061_o2_the_rule_is_stated_before_the_problem",
"text": "The rule is stated before the problem"
},
{
"id": "parenting_061_o3_both_parents_use_similar_language",
"text": "Both parents use similar language"
},
{
"id": "parenting_061_o4_the_consequence_is_related_to_the_behavior",
"text": "The consequence is related to the behavior"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_061_o1_the_reason_is_explained_simply",
"text": "The reason is explained simply"
},
{
"id": "parenting_061_o2_the_rule_is_stated_before_the_problem",
"text": "The rule is stated before the problem"
},
{
"id": "parenting_061_o3_both_parents_use_similar_language",
"text": "Both parents use similar language"
},
{
"id": "parenting_061_o4_the_consequence_is_related_to_the_behavior",
"text": "The consequence is related to the behavior"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_062",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which consequences feel most respectful and useful?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consequences",
"discipline",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_062_o1_repairing_what_was_damaged",
"text": "Repairing what was damaged"
},
{
"id": "parenting_062_o2_losing_access_directly_tied_to_the_choice",
"text": "Losing access directly tied to the choice"
},
{
"id": "parenting_062_o3_practicing_the_expected_behavior_again",
"text": "Practicing the expected behavior again"
},
{
"id": "parenting_062_o4_taking_a_calm_break_before_trying_again",
"text": "Taking a calm break before trying again"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_062_o1_repairing_what_was_damaged",
"text": "Repairing what was damaged"
},
{
"id": "parenting_062_o2_losing_access_directly_tied_to_the_choice",
"text": "Losing access directly tied to the choice"
},
{
"id": "parenting_062_o3_practicing_the_expected_behavior_again",
"text": "Practicing the expected behavior again"
},
{
"id": "parenting_062_o4_taking_a_calm_break_before_trying_again",
"text": "Taking a calm break before trying again"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_063",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should come first when a child breaks a rule?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"discipline",
"response",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_063_o1_make_sure_everyone_is_safe",
"text": "Make sure everyone is safe"
},
{
"id": "parenting_063_o2_understand_what_happened",
"text": "Understand what happened"
},
{
"id": "parenting_063_o3_state_the_limit_clearly",
"text": "State the limit clearly"
},
{
"id": "parenting_063_o4_choose_a_reasonable_next_step",
"text": "Choose a reasonable next step"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_063_o1_make_sure_everyone_is_safe",
"text": "Make sure everyone is safe"
},
{
"id": "parenting_063_o2_understand_what_happened",
"text": "Understand what happened"
},
{
"id": "parenting_063_o3_state_the_limit_clearly",
"text": "State the limit clearly"
},
{
"id": "parenting_063_o4_choose_a_reasonable_next_step",
"text": "Choose a reasonable next step"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_064",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps us from correcting each other in front of the children?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"unity",
"privacy",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_064_o1_use_a_quiet_signal",
"text": "Use a quiet signal"
},
{
"id": "parenting_064_o2_step_into_another_room_briefly",
"text": "Step into another room briefly"
},
{
"id": "parenting_064_o3_back_the_immediate_safety_limit",
"text": "Back the immediate safety limit"
},
{
"id": "parenting_064_o4_save_preference_differences_for_later",
"text": "Save preference differences for later"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_064_o1_use_a_quiet_signal",
"text": "Use a quiet signal"
},
{
"id": "parenting_064_o2_step_into_another_room_briefly",
"text": "Step into another room briefly"
},
{
"id": "parenting_064_o3_back_the_immediate_safety_limit",
"text": "Back the immediate safety limit"
},
{
"id": "parenting_064_o4_save_preference_differences_for_later",
"text": "Save preference differences for later"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_065",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs suggest a consequence is too harsh?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consequences",
"safety",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_065_o1_it_is_meant_to_embarrass",
"text": "It is meant to embarrass"
},
{
"id": "parenting_065_o2_it_lasts_far_beyond_the_behavior",
"text": "It lasts far beyond the behavior"
},
{
"id": "parenting_065_o3_it_removes_basic_care_or_connection",
"text": "It removes basic care or connection"
},
{
"id": "parenting_065_o4_it_depends_on_adult_anger",
"text": "It depends on adult anger"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_065_o1_it_is_meant_to_embarrass",
"text": "It is meant to embarrass"
},
{
"id": "parenting_065_o2_it_lasts_far_beyond_the_behavior",
"text": "It lasts far beyond the behavior"
},
{
"id": "parenting_065_o3_it_removes_basic_care_or_connection",
"text": "It removes basic care or connection"
},
{
"id": "parenting_065_o4_it_depends_on_adult_anger",
"text": "It depends on adult anger"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_066",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How consistent do our family limits feel from day to day?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consistency",
"boundaries",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Very inconsistent",
"max_label": "Very consistent"
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_067",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we hold a boundary without making affection feel conditional?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"connection",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_067_o1_keep_the_limit_and_the_relationship_separate",
"text": "Keep the limit and the relationship separate"
},
{
"id": "parenting_067_o2_use_a_calm_tone_when_possible",
"text": "Use a calm tone when possible"
},
{
"id": "parenting_067_o3_offer_comfort_without_undoing_the_rule",
"text": "Offer comfort without undoing the rule"
},
{
"id": "parenting_067_o4_reconnect_after_emotions_settle",
"text": "Reconnect after emotions settle"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_067_o1_keep_the_limit_and_the_relationship_separate",
"text": "Keep the limit and the relationship separate"
},
{
"id": "parenting_067_o2_use_a_calm_tone_when_possible",
"text": "Use a calm tone when possible"
},
{
"id": "parenting_067_o3_offer_comfort_without_undoing_the_rule",
"text": "Offer comfort without undoing the rule"
},
{
"id": "parenting_067_o4_reconnect_after_emotions_settle",
"text": "Reconnect after emotions settle"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_068",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which discipline differences deserve an agreement before the next problem?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"discipline",
"alignment",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_068_o1_what_behavior_requires_immediate_action",
"text": "What behavior requires immediate action"
},
{
"id": "parenting_068_o2_which_consequences_are_off_limits",
"text": "Which consequences are off-limits"
},
{
"id": "parenting_068_o3_how_long_a_pause_should_last",
"text": "How long a pause should last"
},
{
"id": "parenting_068_o4_when_one_parent_can_decide_alone",
"text": "When one parent can decide alone"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_068_o1_what_behavior_requires_immediate_action",
"text": "What behavior requires immediate action"
},
{
"id": "parenting_068_o2_which_consequences_are_off_limits",
"text": "Which consequences are off-limits"
},
{
"id": "parenting_068_o3_how_long_a_pause_should_last",
"text": "How long a pause should last"
},
{
"id": "parenting_068_o4_when_one_parent_can_decide_alone",
"text": "When one parent can decide alone"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_069",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "When a rule is challenged, would you rather explain once or invite one question?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"rules",
"quick_choice",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_069_o1_explain_once",
"text": "Explain once"
},
{
"id": "parenting_069_o2_invite_one_question",
"text": "Invite one question"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_069_o1_explain_once",
"text": "Explain once"
},
{
"id": "parenting_069_o2_invite_one_question",
"text": "Invite one question"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_070",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a child learn from a mistake without carrying shame?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"mistakes",
"shame_free",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_070_o1_focus_on_the_choice_rather_than_identity",
"text": "Focus on the choice rather than identity"
},
{
"id": "parenting_070_o2_make_room_for_a_truthful_explanation",
"text": "Make room for a truthful explanation"
},
{
"id": "parenting_070_o3_offer_a_realistic_way_to_repair_harm",
"text": "Offer a realistic way to repair harm"
},
{
"id": "parenting_070_o4_notice_improvement_when_it_happens",
"text": "Notice improvement when it happens"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_070_o1_focus_on_the_choice_rather_than_identity",
"text": "Focus on the choice rather than identity"
},
{
"id": "parenting_070_o2_make_room_for_a_truthful_explanation",
"text": "Make room for a truthful explanation"
},
{
"id": "parenting_070_o3_offer_a_realistic_way_to_repair_harm",
"text": "Offer a realistic way to repair harm"
},
{
"id": "parenting_070_o4_notice_improvement_when_it_happens",
"text": "Notice improvement when it happens"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_071",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Before solving the problem, what helps a child feel understood?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"emotions",
"listening",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_071_o1_naming_what_we_noticed",
"text": "Naming what we noticed"
},
{
"id": "parenting_071_o2_listening_without_rapid_questions",
"text": "Listening without rapid questions"
},
{
"id": "parenting_071_o3_sitting_nearby_without_forcing_touch",
"text": "Sitting nearby without forcing touch"
},
{
"id": "parenting_071_o4_letting_the_child_correct_our_guess",
"text": "Letting the child correct our guess"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_071_o1_naming_what_we_noticed",
"text": "Naming what we noticed"
},
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"id": "parenting_071_o2_listening_without_rapid_questions",
"text": "Listening without rapid questions"
},
{
"id": "parenting_071_o3_sitting_nearby_without_forcing_touch",
"text": "Sitting nearby without forcing touch"
},
{
"id": "parenting_071_o4_letting_the_child_correct_our_guess",
"text": "Letting the child correct our guess"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_072",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When a child is overwhelmed, what should we lower first?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"overwhelm",
"support",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_072_o1_the_number_of_instructions",
"text": "The number of instructions"
},
{
"id": "parenting_072_o2_the_volume_in_the_room",
"text": "The volume in the room"
},
{
"id": "parenting_072_o3_the_pressure_to_explain_immediately",
"text": "The pressure to explain immediately"
},
{
"id": "parenting_072_o4_the_demand_for_eye_contact",
"text": "The demand for eye contact"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_072_o1_the_number_of_instructions",
"text": "The number of instructions"
},
{
"id": "parenting_072_o2_the_volume_in_the_room",
"text": "The volume in the room"
},
{
"id": "parenting_072_o3_the_pressure_to_explain_immediately",
"text": "The pressure to explain immediately"
},
{
"id": "parenting_072_o4_the_demand_for_eye_contact",
"text": "The demand for eye contact"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_073",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which responses help when a child is having a very strong reaction?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"emotions",
"regulation",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_073_o1_accept_the_feeling_without_agreeing_with_every_a",
"text": "Accept the feeling without agreeing with every action"
},
{
"id": "parenting_073_o2_keep_the_safety_limit_simple",
"text": "Keep the safety limit simple"
},
{
"id": "parenting_073_o3_wait_before_teaching_the_lesson",
"text": "Wait before teaching the lesson"
},
{
"id": "parenting_073_o4_offer_two_calm_ways_to_reset",
"text": "Offer two calm ways to reset"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_073_o1_accept_the_feeling_without_agreeing_with_every_a",
"text": "Accept the feeling without agreeing with every action"
},
{
"id": "parenting_073_o2_keep_the_safety_limit_simple",
"text": "Keep the safety limit simple"
},
{
"id": "parenting_073_o3_wait_before_teaching_the_lesson",
"text": "Wait before teaching the lesson"
},
{
"id": "parenting_073_o4_offer_two_calm_ways_to_reset",
"text": "Offer two calm ways to reset"
}
],
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"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_074",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which reminders help us avoid taking a child’s difficult behavior personally?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"behavior",
"perspective",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
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"id": "parenting_074_o1_remember_that_behavior_can_signal_a_need",
"text": "Remember that behavior can signal a need"
},
{
"id": "parenting_074_o2_check_whether_hunger_or_exhaustion_is_involved",
"text": "Check whether hunger or exhaustion is involved"
},
{
"id": "parenting_074_o3_separate_disrespectful_action_from_personal_reje",
"text": "Separate disrespectful action from personal rejection"
},
{
"id": "parenting_074_o4_ask_what_skill_the_child_may_be_missing",
"text": "Ask what skill the child may be missing"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "parenting_074_o1_remember_that_behavior_can_signal_a_need",
"text": "Remember that behavior can signal a need"
},
{
"id": "parenting_074_o2_check_whether_hunger_or_exhaustion_is_involved",
"text": "Check whether hunger or exhaustion is involved"
},
{
"id": "parenting_074_o3_separate_disrespectful_action_from_personal_reje",
"text": "Separate disrespectful action from personal rejection"
},
{
"id": "parenting_074_o4_ask_what_skill_the_child_may_be_missing",
"text": "Ask what skill the child may be missing"
}
],
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"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_075",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How confident do you feel helping our children through strong emotions?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"confidence",
"emotional_support",
"parenting"
],
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"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not confident",
"max_label": "Very confident"
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_076",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which responses should remain optional for a child?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"comfort",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_076_o1_hugs_and_physical_affection",
"text": "Hugs and physical affection"
},
{
"id": "parenting_076_o2_talking_before_they_are_ready",
"text": "Talking before they are ready"
},
{
"id": "parenting_076_o3_sitting_close_to_an_adult",
"text": "Sitting close to an adult"
},
{
"id": "parenting_076_o4_sharing_private_feelings",
"text": "Sharing private feelings"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_076_o1_hugs_and_physical_affection",
"text": "Hugs and physical affection"
},
{
"id": "parenting_076_o2_talking_before_they_are_ready",
"text": "Talking before they are ready"
},
{
"id": "parenting_076_o3_sitting_close_to_an_adult",
"text": "Sitting close to an adult"
},
{
"id": "parenting_076_o4_sharing_private_feelings",
"text": "Sharing private feelings"
}
],
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"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_077",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which cue most clearly suggests a child is ready to talk?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"readiness",
"communication",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_077_o1_they_begin_the_subject_themselves",
"text": "They begin the subject themselves"
},
{
"id": "parenting_077_o2_their_body_looks_calmer",
"text": "Their body looks calmer"
},
{
"id": "parenting_077_o3_they_ask_for_help_or_company",
"text": "They ask for help or company"
},
{
"id": "parenting_077_o4_they_can_hear_one_question_without_shutting_down",
"text": "They can hear one question without shutting down"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_077_o1_they_begin_the_subject_themselves",
"text": "They begin the subject themselves"
},
{
"id": "parenting_077_o2_their_body_looks_calmer",
"text": "Their body looks calmer"
},
{
"id": "parenting_077_o3_they_ask_for_help_or_company",
"text": "They ask for help or company"
},
{
"id": "parenting_077_o4_they_can_hear_one_question_without_shutting_down",
"text": "They can hear one question without shutting down"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_078",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can we do when our own patience is nearly gone?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"parent_regulation",
"stress",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_078_o1_trade_places_if_possible",
"text": "Trade places if possible"
},
{
"id": "parenting_078_o2_use_fewer_words",
"text": "Use fewer words"
},
{
"id": "parenting_078_o3_make_the_environment_safer_and_simpler",
"text": "Make the environment safer and simpler"
},
{
"id": "parenting_078_o4_take_a_brief_pause_without_abandoning_the_child",
"text": "Take a brief pause without abandoning the child"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_078_o1_trade_places_if_possible",
"text": "Trade places if possible"
},
{
"id": "parenting_078_o2_use_fewer_words",
"text": "Use fewer words"
},
{
"id": "parenting_078_o3_make_the_environment_safer_and_simpler",
"text": "Make the environment safer and simpler"
},
{
"id": "parenting_078_o4_take_a_brief_pause_without_abandoning_the_child",
"text": "Take a brief pause without abandoning the child"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_079",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which habits help children name emotions without turning every moment into a lesson?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"emotional_language",
"daily_life",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_079_o1_use_simple_feeling_words_ourselves",
"text": "Use simple feeling words ourselves"
},
{
"id": "parenting_079_o2_talk_about_characters_in_stories",
"text": "Talk about characters in stories"
},
{
"id": "parenting_079_o3_notice_emotions_after_the_moment_passes",
"text": "Notice emotions after the moment passes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_079_o4_accept_that_sometimes_a_child_just_wants_to_move",
"text": "Accept that sometimes a child just wants to move on"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_079_o1_use_simple_feeling_words_ourselves",
"text": "Use simple feeling words ourselves"
},
{
"id": "parenting_079_o2_talk_about_characters_in_stories",
"text": "Talk about characters in stories"
},
{
"id": "parenting_079_o3_notice_emotions_after_the_moment_passes",
"text": "Notice emotions after the moment passes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_079_o4_accept_that_sometimes_a_child_just_wants_to_move",
"text": "Accept that sometimes a child just wants to move on"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_080",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one childhood feeling you want us to handle differently in our family?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"family_of_origin",
"emotional_safety",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_081",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What school information should both of us be able to find easily?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"school",
"organization",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_081_o1_teacher_contact_details",
"text": "Teacher contact details"
},
{
"id": "parenting_081_o2_important_dates_and_deadlines",
"text": "Important dates and deadlines"
},
{
"id": "parenting_081_o3_current_support_plans",
"text": "Current support plans"
},
{
"id": "parenting_081_o4_transportation_changes",
"text": "Transportation changes"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_081_o1_teacher_contact_details",
"text": "Teacher contact details"
},
{
"id": "parenting_081_o2_important_dates_and_deadlines",
"text": "Important dates and deadlines"
},
{
"id": "parenting_081_o3_current_support_plans",
"text": "Current support plans"
},
{
"id": "parenting_081_o4_transportation_changes",
"text": "Transportation changes"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_082",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should we consider when choosing an activity for a child?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"activities",
"decisions",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_082_o1_the_child_genuinely_wants_to_try_it",
"text": "The child genuinely wants to try it"
},
{
"id": "parenting_082_o2_the_schedule_is_realistic_for_the_family",
"text": "The schedule is realistic for the family"
},
{
"id": "parenting_082_o3_the_cost_fits_without_resentment",
"text": "The cost fits without resentment"
},
{
"id": "parenting_082_o4_the_adults_running_it_seem_trustworthy",
"text": "The adults running it seem trustworthy"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "parenting_082_o1_the_child_genuinely_wants_to_try_it",
"text": "The child genuinely wants to try it"
},
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"id": "parenting_082_o2_the_schedule_is_realistic_for_the_family",
"text": "The schedule is realistic for the family"
},
{
"id": "parenting_082_o3_the_cost_fits_without_resentment",
"text": "The cost fits without resentment"
},
{
"id": "parenting_082_o4_the_adults_running_it_seem_trustworthy",
"text": "The adults running it seem trustworthy"
}
],
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"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_083",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How manageable does the current school and activity schedule feel?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"schedule",
"school",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Overwhelming",
"max_label": "Very manageable"
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_084",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we support learning without making every grade feel like a crisis?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"school",
"learning",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
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"id": "parenting_084_o1_ask_about_effort_and_understanding",
"text": "Ask about effort and understanding"
},
{
"id": "parenting_084_o2_separate_one_result_from_the_child_s_worth",
"text": "Separate one result from the child’s worth"
},
{
"id": "parenting_084_o3_contact_the_school_when_patterns_appear",
"text": "Contact the school when patterns appear"
},
{
"id": "parenting_084_o4_protect_time_for_rest_as_well_as_practice",
"text": "Protect time for rest as well as practice"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_084_o1_ask_about_effort_and_understanding",
"text": "Ask about effort and understanding"
},
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"id": "parenting_084_o2_separate_one_result_from_the_child_s_worth",
"text": "Separate one result from the child’s worth"
},
{
"id": "parenting_084_o3_contact_the_school_when_patterns_appear",
"text": "Contact the school when patterns appear"
},
{
"id": "parenting_084_o4_protect_time_for_rest_as_well_as_practice",
"text": "Protect time for rest as well as practice"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_085",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs suggest an activity is taking more than it gives?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"activities",
"balance",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_085_o1_regular_dread_before_attending",
"text": "Regular dread before attending"
},
{
"id": "parenting_085_o2_no_room_for_sleep_or_family_time",
"text": "No room for sleep or family time"
},
{
"id": "parenting_085_o3_the_child_wants_to_stop_but_feels_trapped",
"text": "The child wants to stop but feels trapped"
},
{
"id": "parenting_085_o4_the_cost_creates_ongoing_family_strain",
"text": "The cost creates ongoing family strain"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_085_o1_regular_dread_before_attending",
"text": "Regular dread before attending"
},
{
"id": "parenting_085_o2_no_room_for_sleep_or_family_time",
"text": "No room for sleep or family time"
},
{
"id": "parenting_085_o3_the_child_wants_to_stop_but_feels_trapped",
"text": "The child wants to stop but feels trapped"
},
{
"id": "parenting_085_o4_the_cost_creates_ongoing_family_strain",
"text": "The cost creates ongoing family strain"
}
],
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"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_086",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "For schoolwork, would you rather offer a set time or a flexible window?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"schoolwork",
"quick_choice",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_086_o1_a_set_time",
"text": "A set time"
},
{
"id": "parenting_086_o2_a_flexible_window",
"text": "A flexible window"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_086_o1_a_set_time",
"text": "A set time"
},
{
"id": "parenting_086_o2_a_flexible_window",
"text": "A flexible window"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_087",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us communicate with teachers without blaming the child or the school?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"school",
"communication",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_087_o1_start_with_specific_observations",
"text": "Start with specific observations"
},
{
"id": "parenting_087_o2_ask_what_has_been_noticed_in_class",
"text": "Ask what has been noticed in class"
},
{
"id": "parenting_087_o3_share_relevant_changes_at_home",
"text": "Share relevant changes at home"
},
{
"id": "parenting_087_o4_agree_on_one_next_step_to_review",
"text": "Agree on one next step to review"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "parenting_087_o1_start_with_specific_observations",
"text": "Start with specific observations"
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"id": "parenting_087_o2_ask_what_has_been_noticed_in_class",
"text": "Ask what has been noticed in class"
},
{
"id": "parenting_087_o3_share_relevant_changes_at_home",
"text": "Share relevant changes at home"
},
{
"id": "parenting_087_o4_agree_on_one_next_step_to_review",
"text": "Agree on one next step to review"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_088",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which learning supports can be useful without becoming punishment?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"learning",
"support",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_088_o1_a_quieter_place_to_work",
"text": "A quieter place to work"
},
{
"id": "parenting_088_o2_shorter_practice_blocks",
"text": "Shorter practice blocks"
},
{
"id": "parenting_088_o3_help_breaking_a_task_into_steps",
"text": "Help breaking a task into steps"
},
{
"id": "parenting_088_o4_a_scheduled_check_in_instead_of_hovering",
"text": "A scheduled check-in instead of hovering"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "parenting_088_o1_a_quieter_place_to_work",
"text": "A quieter place to work"
},
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"id": "parenting_088_o2_shorter_practice_blocks",
"text": "Shorter practice blocks"
},
{
"id": "parenting_088_o3_help_breaking_a_task_into_steps",
"text": "Help breaking a task into steps"
},
{
"id": "parenting_088_o4_a_scheduled_check_in_instead_of_hovering",
"text": "A scheduled check-in instead of hovering"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
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"id": "parenting_089",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When should a child have more say in an activity decision?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"autonomy",
"activities",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_089_o1_when_the_commitment_affects_most_of_their_free_t",
"text": "When the commitment affects most of their free time"
},
{
"id": "parenting_089_o2_when_they_have_tried_it_long_enough_to_know",
"text": "When they have tried it long enough to know"
},
{
"id": "parenting_089_o3_when_the_choice_concerns_their_own_interests",
"text": "When the choice concerns their own interests"
},
{
"id": "parenting_089_o4_when_stopping_would_not_harm_anyone_else",
"text": "When the commitment can be adjusted fairly"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "parenting_089_o1_when_the_commitment_affects_most_of_their_free_t",
"text": "When the commitment affects most of their free time"
},
{
"id": "parenting_089_o2_when_they_have_tried_it_long_enough_to_know",
"text": "When they have tried it long enough to know"
},
{
"id": "parenting_089_o3_when_the_choice_concerns_their_own_interests",
"text": "When the choice concerns their own interests"
},
{
"id": "parenting_089_o4_when_stopping_would_not_harm_anyone_else",
"text": "When the commitment can be adjusted fairly"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_090",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps achievement from becoming the only thing we praise?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"praise",
"values",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_090_o1_notice_kindness_and_courage",
"text": "Notice kindness and courage"
},
{
"id": "parenting_090_o2_celebrate_persistence_without_demanding_perfecti",
"text": "Celebrate persistence without demanding perfection"
},
{
"id": "parenting_090_o3_ask_what_the_child_enjoyed_learning",
"text": "Ask what the child enjoyed learning"
},
{
"id": "parenting_090_o4_recognize_rest_and_healthy_limits",
"text": "Recognize rest and healthy limits"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "parenting_090_o1_notice_kindness_and_courage",
"text": "Notice kindness and courage"
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"id": "parenting_090_o2_celebrate_persistence_without_demanding_perfecti",
"text": "Celebrate persistence without demanding perfection"
},
{
"id": "parenting_090_o3_ask_what_the_child_enjoyed_learning",
"text": "Ask what the child enjoyed learning"
},
{
"id": "parenting_090_o4_recognize_rest_and_healthy_limits",
"text": "Recognize rest and healthy limits"
}
],
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"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_091",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which health details should both parents know without searching?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"health",
"shared_information",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_091_o1_current_medicines_and_allergies",
"text": "Current medicines and allergies"
},
{
"id": "parenting_091_o2_important_provider_contacts",
"text": "Important provider contacts"
},
{
"id": "parenting_091_o3_upcoming_appointments",
"text": "Upcoming appointments"
},
{
"id": "parenting_091_o4_recent_symptoms_that_need_watching",
"text": "Recent symptoms that need watching"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "parenting_091_o1_current_medicines_and_allergies",
"text": "Current medicines and allergies"
},
{
"id": "parenting_091_o2_important_provider_contacts",
"text": "Important provider contacts"
},
{
"id": "parenting_091_o3_upcoming_appointments",
"text": "Upcoming appointments"
},
{
"id": "parenting_091_o4_recent_symptoms_that_need_watching",
"text": "Recent symptoms that need watching"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_092",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the best way to divide medical appointments?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"appointments",
"division_of_labor",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_092_o1_one_person_schedules_and_the_other_attends",
"text": "One person schedules and the other attends"
},
{
"id": "parenting_092_o2_alternate_based_on_availability",
"text": "Alternate based on availability"
},
{
"id": "parenting_092_o3_assign_different_types_of_appointments",
"text": "Assign different types of appointments"
},
{
"id": "parenting_092_o4_decide_case_by_case_using_work_demands",
"text": "Decide case by case using work demands"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "parenting_092_o1_one_person_schedules_and_the_other_attends",
"text": "One person schedules and the other attends"
},
{
"id": "parenting_092_o2_alternate_based_on_availability",
"text": "Alternate based on availability"
},
{
"id": "parenting_092_o3_assign_different_types_of_appointments",
"text": "Assign different types of appointments"
},
{
"id": "parenting_092_o4_decide_case_by_case_using_work_demands",
"text": "Decide case by case using work demands"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_093",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which habits let us discuss food without creating shame around eating or bodies?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"food",
"body_respect",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_093_o1_talk_about_energy_and_variety",
"text": "Talk about energy and variety"
},
{
"id": "parenting_093_o2_avoid_using_food_as_a_moral_judgment",
"text": "Avoid using food as a moral judgment"
},
{
"id": "parenting_093_o3_keep_adult_body_worries_away_from_the_child",
"text": "Keep adult body worries away from the child"
},
{
"id": "parenting_093_o4_allow_preferences_while_offering_balanced_choice",
"text": "Allow preferences while offering balanced choices"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_093_o1_talk_about_energy_and_variety",
"text": "Talk about energy and variety"
},
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"id": "parenting_093_o2_avoid_using_food_as_a_moral_judgment",
"text": "Avoid using food as a moral judgment"
},
{
"id": "parenting_093_o3_keep_adult_body_worries_away_from_the_child",
"text": "Keep adult body worries away from the child"
},
{
"id": "parenting_093_o4_allow_preferences_while_offering_balanced_choice",
"text": "Allow preferences while offering balanced choices"
}
],
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"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_094",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which sleep problems deserve a shared plan instead of nightly improvising?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"sleep",
"planning",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_094_o1_repeated_bedtime_resistance",
"text": "Repeated bedtime resistance"
},
{
"id": "parenting_094_o2_frequent_waking",
"text": "Frequent waking"
},
{
"id": "parenting_094_o3_different_expectations_between_parents",
"text": "Different expectations between parents"
},
{
"id": "parenting_094_o4_a_schedule_that_leaves_the_child_exhausted",
"text": "A schedule that leaves the child exhausted"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_094_o1_repeated_bedtime_resistance",
"text": "Repeated bedtime resistance"
},
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"id": "parenting_094_o2_frequent_waking",
"text": "Frequent waking"
},
{
"id": "parenting_094_o3_different_expectations_between_parents",
"text": "Different expectations between parents"
},
{
"id": "parenting_094_o4_a_schedule_that_leaves_the_child_exhausted",
"text": "A schedule that leaves the child exhausted"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_095",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How supported do you feel with the children’s health needs?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"health",
"support",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not supported",
"max_label": "Very supported"
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_096",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes an appointment handoff useful to the parent who was not there?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"appointments",
"handoff",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_096_o1_the_main_advice_in_plain_language",
"text": "The main advice in plain language"
},
{
"id": "parenting_096_o2_any_follow_up_date_or_task",
"text": "Any follow-up date or task"
},
{
"id": "parenting_096_o3_changes_to_medicine_or_routine",
"text": "Changes to medicine or routine"
},
{
"id": "parenting_096_o4_questions_that_still_need_answers",
"text": "Questions that still need answers"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_096_o1_the_main_advice_in_plain_language",
"text": "The main advice in plain language"
},
{
"id": "parenting_096_o2_any_follow_up_date_or_task",
"text": "Any follow-up date or task"
},
{
"id": "parenting_096_o3_changes_to_medicine_or_routine",
"text": "Changes to medicine or routine"
},
{
"id": "parenting_096_o4_questions_that_still_need_answers",
"text": "Questions that still need answers"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_097",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "When a child feels unwell, would you rather share updates as they happen or send one summary?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"health_updates",
"quick_choice",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_097_o1_share_updates_as_they_happen",
"text": "Share updates as they happen"
},
{
"id": "parenting_097_o2_send_one_summary",
"text": "Send one summary"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_097_o1_share_updates_as_they_happen",
"text": "Share updates as they happen"
},
{
"id": "parenting_097_o2_send_one_summary",
"text": "Send one summary"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_098",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we support healthy habits without turning home into constant monitoring?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"healthy_habits",
"autonomy",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_098_o1_make_the_easier_choice_available",
"text": "Make the easier choice available"
},
{
"id": "parenting_098_o2_model_the_habit_ourselves",
"text": "Model the habit ourselves"
},
{
"id": "parenting_098_o3_use_routines_more_than_lectures",
"text": "Use routines more than lectures"
},
{
"id": "parenting_098_o4_allow_age_appropriate_privacy_and_choice",
"text": "Allow age-appropriate privacy and choice"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_098_o1_make_the_easier_choice_available",
"text": "Make the easier choice available"
},
{
"id": "parenting_098_o2_model_the_habit_ourselves",
"text": "Model the habit ourselves"
},
{
"id": "parenting_098_o3_use_routines_more_than_lectures",
"text": "Use routines more than lectures"
},
{
"id": "parenting_098_o4_allow_age_appropriate_privacy_and_choice",
"text": "Allow age-appropriate privacy and choice"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_099",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs tell us our family needs a slower week?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"rest",
"family_health",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_099_o1_everyone_is_sleeping_poorly",
"text": "Everyone is sleeping poorly"
},
{
"id": "parenting_099_o2_small_problems_trigger_large_reactions",
"text": "Small problems trigger large reactions"
},
{
"id": "parenting_099_o3_meals_and_routines_are_repeatedly_skipped",
"text": "Meals and routines are repeatedly skipped"
},
{
"id": "parenting_099_o4_nobody_has_unplanned_time_to_recover",
"text": "Nobody has unplanned time to recover"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_099_o1_everyone_is_sleeping_poorly",
"text": "Everyone is sleeping poorly"
},
{
"id": "parenting_099_o2_small_problems_trigger_large_reactions",
"text": "Small problems trigger large reactions"
},
{
"id": "parenting_099_o3_meals_and_routines_are_repeatedly_skipped",
"text": "Meals and routines are repeatedly skipped"
},
{
"id": "parenting_099_o4_nobody_has_unplanned_time_to_recover",
"text": "Nobody has unplanned time to recover"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_100",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What matters most when we disagree about a health concern?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"health",
"decisions",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_100_o1_reliable_professional_guidance",
"text": "Reliable professional guidance"
},
{
"id": "parenting_100_o2_the_child_s_immediate_safety",
"text": "The child’s immediate safety"
},
{
"id": "parenting_100_o3_a_clear_record_of_symptoms",
"text": "A clear record of symptoms"
},
{
"id": "parenting_100_o4_a_plan_for_when_to_seek_more_help",
"text": "A plan for when to seek more help"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_100_o1_reliable_professional_guidance",
"text": "Reliable professional guidance"
},
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"id": "parenting_100_o2_the_child_s_immediate_safety",
"text": "The child’s immediate safety"
},
{
"id": "parenting_100_o3_a_clear_record_of_symptoms",
"text": "A clear record of symptoms"
},
{
"id": "parenting_100_o4_a_plan_for_when_to_seek_more_help",
"text": "A plan for when to seek more help"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_101",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should guide our rules about screens and devices?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"technology",
"rules",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_101_o1_sleep_and_school_needs",
"text": "Sleep and school needs"
},
{
"id": "parenting_101_o2_the_child_s_age_and_judgment",
"text": "The child’s age and judgment"
},
{
"id": "parenting_101_o3_what_the_device_is_being_used_for",
"text": "What the device is being used for"
},
{
"id": "parenting_101_o4_whether_the_rule_can_be_enforced_respectfully",
"text": "Whether the rule can be enforced respectfully"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_101_o1_sleep_and_school_needs",
"text": "Sleep and school needs"
},
{
"id": "parenting_101_o2_the_child_s_age_and_judgment",
"text": "The child’s age and judgment"
},
{
"id": "parenting_101_o3_what_the_device_is_being_used_for",
"text": "What the device is being used for"
},
{
"id": "parenting_101_o4_whether_the_rule_can_be_enforced_respectfully",
"text": "Whether the rule can be enforced respectfully"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_102",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which technology rule needs the clearest adult example?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"technology",
"modeling",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_102_o1_phones_away_during_key_conversations",
"text": "Phones away during key conversations"
},
{
"id": "parenting_102_o2_no_posting_someone_without_permission",
"text": "No posting someone without permission"
},
{
"id": "parenting_102_o3_stopping_at_the_agreed_time",
"text": "Stopping at the agreed time"
},
{
"id": "parenting_102_o4_not_using_messages_to_insult_people",
"text": "Not using messages to insult people"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_102_o1_phones_away_during_key_conversations",
"text": "Phones away during key conversations"
},
{
"id": "parenting_102_o2_no_posting_someone_without_permission",
"text": "No posting someone without permission"
},
{
"id": "parenting_102_o3_stopping_at_the_agreed_time",
"text": "Stopping at the agreed time"
},
{
"id": "parenting_102_o4_not_using_messages_to_insult_people",
"text": "Not using messages to insult people"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_103",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps protect a child online without treating privacy like wrongdoing?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"online_safety",
"privacy",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_103_o1_explain_what_adults_will_check_and_why",
"text": "Explain what adults will check and why"
},
{
"id": "parenting_103_o2_increase_freedom_as_judgment_grows",
"text": "Increase freedom as judgment grows"
},
{
"id": "parenting_103_o3_focus_on_safety_risks_rather_than_secret_searche",
"text": "Focus on safety risks rather than secret searches"
},
{
"id": "parenting_103_o4_keep_private_conversations_private_unless_safety",
"text": "Keep private conversations private unless safety is at stake"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_103_o1_explain_what_adults_will_check_and_why",
"text": "Explain what adults will check and why"
},
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"id": "parenting_103_o2_increase_freedom_as_judgment_grows",
"text": "Increase freedom as judgment grows"
},
{
"id": "parenting_103_o3_focus_on_safety_risks_rather_than_secret_searche",
"text": "Focus on safety risks rather than secret searches"
},
{
"id": "parenting_103_o4_keep_private_conversations_private_unless_safety",
"text": "Keep private conversations private unless safety is at stake"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_104",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show a child may be ready for more independence?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"independence",
"readiness",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_104_o1_they_follow_through_without_repeated_reminders",
"text": "They follow through without repeated reminders"
},
{
"id": "parenting_104_o2_they_ask_for_help_when_a_situation_changes",
"text": "They ask for help when a situation changes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_104_o3_they_handle_small_mistakes_honestly",
"text": "They handle small mistakes honestly"
},
{
"id": "parenting_104_o4_they_respect_reasonable_limits_most_of_the_time",
"text": "They respect reasonable limits most of the time"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_104_o1_they_follow_through_without_repeated_reminders",
"text": "They follow through without repeated reminders"
},
{
"id": "parenting_104_o2_they_ask_for_help_when_a_situation_changes",
"text": "They ask for help when a situation changes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_104_o3_they_handle_small_mistakes_honestly",
"text": "They handle small mistakes honestly"
},
{
"id": "parenting_104_o4_they_respect_reasonable_limits_most_of_the_time",
"text": "They respect reasonable limits most of the time"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_105",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How aligned do our technology expectations feel?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"technology",
"alignment",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not aligned",
"max_label": "Very aligned"
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_106",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should a child understand before getting more privacy?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"safety",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_106_o1_which_safety_concerns_require_adult_help",
"text": "Which safety concerns require adult help"
},
{
"id": "parenting_106_o2_how_to_protect_personal_information",
"text": "How to protect personal information"
},
{
"id": "parenting_106_o3_that_privacy_does_not_remove_accountability",
"text": "That privacy does not remove accountability"
},
{
"id": "parenting_106_o4_who_they_can_contact_when_something_feels_wrong",
"text": "Who they can contact when something feels wrong"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_106_o1_which_safety_concerns_require_adult_help",
"text": "Which safety concerns require adult help"
},
{
"id": "parenting_106_o2_how_to_protect_personal_information",
"text": "How to protect personal information"
},
{
"id": "parenting_106_o3_that_privacy_does_not_remove_accountability",
"text": "That privacy does not remove accountability"
},
{
"id": "parenting_106_o4_who_they_can_contact_when_something_feels_wrong",
"text": "Who they can contact when something feels wrong"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_107",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "For new online privileges, would you rather use an age guideline or a readiness check?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"online_privileges",
"quick_choice",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_107_o1_an_age_guideline",
"text": "An age guideline"
},
{
"id": "parenting_107_o2_a_readiness_check",
"text": "A readiness check"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_107_o1_an_age_guideline",
"text": "An age guideline"
},
{
"id": "parenting_107_o2_a_readiness_check",
"text": "A readiness check"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_108",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps when one of us is more cautious about a new freedom?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"independence",
"parent_alignment",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_108_o1_name_the_specific_risk_each_person_sees",
"text": "Name the specific risk each person sees"
},
{
"id": "parenting_108_o2_agree_on_a_trial_period",
"text": "Agree on a trial period"
},
{
"id": "parenting_108_o3_choose_clear_conditions_for_more_freedom",
"text": "Choose clear conditions for more freedom"
},
{
"id": "parenting_108_o4_review_what_happened_instead_of_arguing_predicti",
"text": "Review what happened instead of arguing predictions"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_108_o1_name_the_specific_risk_each_person_sees",
"text": "Name the specific risk each person sees"
},
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"id": "parenting_108_o2_agree_on_a_trial_period",
"text": "Agree on a trial period"
},
{
"id": "parenting_108_o3_choose_clear_conditions_for_more_freedom",
"text": "Choose clear conditions for more freedom"
},
{
"id": "parenting_108_o4_review_what_happened_instead_of_arguing_predicti",
"text": "Review what happened instead of arguing predictions"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_109",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which family technology habits protect connection without demanding constant togetherness?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"technology",
"connection",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_109_o1_device_free_meals_when_possible",
"text": "Device-free meals when possible"
},
{
"id": "parenting_109_o2_a_shared_charging_place_overnight",
"text": "A shared charging place overnight"
},
{
"id": "parenting_109_o3_knocking_before_entering_private_spaces",
"text": "Knocking before entering private spaces"
},
{
"id": "parenting_109_o4_letting_quiet_screen_time_count_as_downtime",
"text": "Letting quiet screen time count as downtime"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_109_o1_device_free_meals_when_possible",
"text": "Device-free meals when possible"
},
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"id": "parenting_109_o2_a_shared_charging_place_overnight",
"text": "A shared charging place overnight"
},
{
"id": "parenting_109_o3_knocking_before_entering_private_spaces",
"text": "Knocking before entering private spaces"
},
{
"id": "parenting_109_o4_letting_quiet_screen_time_count_as_downtime",
"text": "Letting quiet screen time count as downtime"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_110",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one freedom you hope we can give our children with confidence?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"independence",
"future",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_111",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which family traditions do you most want to pass on?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"traditions",
"culture",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_111_o1_a_meaningful_holiday_practice",
"text": "A meaningful holiday practice"
},
{
"id": "parenting_111_o2_a_favorite_family_recipe",
"text": "A favorite family recipe"
},
{
"id": "parenting_111_o3_a_way_of_helping_neighbors",
"text": "A way of helping neighbors"
},
{
"id": "parenting_111_o4_stories_about_where_the_family_came_from",
"text": "Stories about where the family came from"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_111_o1_a_meaningful_holiday_practice",
"text": "A meaningful holiday practice"
},
{
"id": "parenting_111_o2_a_favorite_family_recipe",
"text": "A favorite family recipe"
},
{
"id": "parenting_111_o3_a_way_of_helping_neighbors",
"text": "A way of helping neighbors"
},
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"id": "parenting_111_o4_stories_about_where_the_family_came_from",
"text": "Stories about where the family came from"
}
],
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"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_112",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps visits with relatives feel supportive rather than exhausting?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"extended_family",
"visits",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_112_o1_agreeing_on_the_length_beforehand",
"text": "Agreeing on the length beforehand"
},
{
"id": "parenting_112_o2_sharing_expectations_about_routines",
"text": "Sharing expectations about routines"
},
{
"id": "parenting_112_o3_having_a_polite_exit_plan",
"text": "Having a polite exit plan"
},
{
"id": "parenting_112_o4_leaving_recovery_time_afterward",
"text": "Leaving recovery time afterward"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_112_o1_agreeing_on_the_length_beforehand",
"text": "Agreeing on the length beforehand"
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"id": "parenting_112_o2_sharing_expectations_about_routines",
"text": "Sharing expectations about routines"
},
{
"id": "parenting_112_o3_having_a_polite_exit_plan",
"text": "Having a polite exit plan"
},
{
"id": "parenting_112_o4_leaving_recovery_time_afterward",
"text": "Leaving recovery time afterward"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_113",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What matters most when relatives disagree with our parenting?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"extended_family",
"boundaries",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_113_o1_we_speak_to_each_other_privately_first",
"text": "We speak to each other privately first"
},
{
"id": "parenting_113_o2_the_child_is_not_placed_in_the_middle",
"text": "The child is not placed in the middle"
},
{
"id": "parenting_113_o3_our_household_rules_remain_clear",
"text": "Our household rules remain clear"
},
{
"id": "parenting_113_o4_respect_is_expected_in_both_directions",
"text": "Respect is expected in both directions"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_113_o1_we_speak_to_each_other_privately_first",
"text": "We speak to each other privately first"
},
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"id": "parenting_113_o2_the_child_is_not_placed_in_the_middle",
"text": "The child is not placed in the middle"
},
{
"id": "parenting_113_o3_our_household_rules_remain_clear",
"text": "Our household rules remain clear"
},
{
"id": "parenting_113_o4_respect_is_expected_in_both_directions",
"text": "Respect is expected in both directions"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_114",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which cultural lessons deserve more than a special occasion?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"culture",
"identity",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_114_o1_language_used_by_older_relatives",
"text": "Language used by older relatives"
},
{
"id": "parenting_114_o2_family_history_and_migration_stories",
"text": "Family history and migration stories"
},
{
"id": "parenting_114_o3_music_food_or_art_from_the_culture",
"text": "Music, food, or art from the culture"
},
{
"id": "parenting_114_o4_how_the_family_understands_community_and_duty",
"text": "How the family understands community and duty"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_114_o1_language_used_by_older_relatives",
"text": "Language used by older relatives"
},
{
"id": "parenting_114_o2_family_history_and_migration_stories",
"text": "Family history and migration stories"
},
{
"id": "parenting_114_o3_music_food_or_art_from_the_culture",
"text": "Music, food, or art from the culture"
},
{
"id": "parenting_114_o4_how_the_family_understands_community_and_duty",
"text": "How the family understands community and duty"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_115",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which choices protect a child from adult family tension?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"extended_family",
"child_protection",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_115_o1_do_not_use_the_child_as_a_messenger",
"text": "Do not use the child as a messenger"
},
{
"id": "parenting_115_o2_avoid_asking_the_child_to_take_sides",
"text": "Avoid asking the child to take sides"
},
{
"id": "parenting_115_o3_keep_adult_details_out_of_casual_conversation",
"text": "Keep adult conflict details away from the child"
},
{
"id": "parenting_115_o4_allow_affection_without_demanding_loyalty_perfor",
"text": "Allow affection without asking the child to prove loyalty"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_115_o1_do_not_use_the_child_as_a_messenger",
"text": "Do not use the child as a messenger"
},
{
"id": "parenting_115_o2_avoid_asking_the_child_to_take_sides",
"text": "Avoid asking the child to take sides"
},
{
"id": "parenting_115_o3_keep_adult_details_out_of_casual_conversation",
"text": "Keep adult conflict details away from the child"
},
{
"id": "parenting_115_o4_allow_affection_without_demanding_loyalty_perfor",
"text": "Allow affection without asking the child to prove loyalty"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_116",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How respected do our parenting choices feel around extended family?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"extended_family",
"respect",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not respected",
"max_label": "Fully respected"
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_117",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can we do when a relative ignores a parenting limit?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"extended_family",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_117_o1_restate_the_limit_directly",
"text": "Restate the limit directly"
},
{
"id": "parenting_117_o2_end_the_situation_if_safety_is_involved",
"text": "End the situation if safety is involved"
},
{
"id": "parenting_117_o3_discuss_the_pattern_privately_later",
"text": "Discuss the pattern privately later"
},
{
"id": "parenting_117_o4_reduce_access_if_the_behavior_continues",
"text": "Limit contact when needed to protect the child"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_117_o1_restate_the_limit_directly",
"text": "Restate the limit directly"
},
{
"id": "parenting_117_o2_end_the_situation_if_safety_is_involved",
"text": "End the situation if safety is involved"
},
{
"id": "parenting_117_o3_discuss_the_pattern_privately_later",
"text": "Discuss the pattern privately later"
},
{
"id": "parenting_117_o4_reduce_access_if_the_behavior_continues",
"text": "Limit contact when needed to protect the child"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_118",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps children belong to more than one family culture?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"culture",
"belonging",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_118_o1_avoid_treating_one_side_as_the_default",
"text": "Avoid treating one side as the default"
},
{
"id": "parenting_118_o2_make_room_for_different_customs",
"text": "Make room for different customs"
},
{
"id": "parenting_118_o3_let_children_ask_honest_questions",
"text": "Let children ask honest questions"
},
{
"id": "parenting_118_o4_do_not_force_them_to_prove_loyalty",
"text": "Do not force them to prove loyalty"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_118_o1_avoid_treating_one_side_as_the_default",
"text": "Avoid treating one side as the default"
},
{
"id": "parenting_118_o2_make_room_for_different_customs",
"text": "Make room for different customs"
},
{
"id": "parenting_118_o3_let_children_ask_honest_questions",
"text": "Let children ask honest questions"
},
{
"id": "parenting_118_o4_do_not_force_them_to_prove_loyalty",
"text": "Do not force them to prove loyalty"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_119",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Would you rather explain a family rule before a visit or address it only if needed?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"extended_family",
"quick_choice",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_119_o1_explain_it_before_the_visit",
"text": "Explain it before the visit"
},
{
"id": "parenting_119_o2_address_it_only_if_needed",
"text": "Address it only if needed"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_119_o1_explain_it_before_the_visit",
"text": "Explain it before the visit"
},
{
"id": "parenting_119_o2_address_it_only_if_needed",
"text": "Address it only if needed"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_120",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which traditions are worth changing when they no longer fit our family?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"traditions",
"change",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_120_o1_customs_that_depend_on_shame",
"text": "Customs that depend on shame"
},
{
"id": "parenting_120_o2_rituals_that_overwhelm_the_household",
"text": "Rituals that overwhelm the household"
},
{
"id": "parenting_120_o3_expectations_that_exclude_part_of_the_family",
"text": "Expectations that exclude part of the family"
},
{
"id": "parenting_120_o4_practices_the_children_cannot_safely_participate",
"text": "Practices the children cannot safely participate in"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_120_o1_customs_that_depend_on_shame",
"text": "Customs that depend on shame"
},
{
"id": "parenting_120_o2_rituals_that_overwhelm_the_household",
"text": "Rituals that overwhelm the household"
},
{
"id": "parenting_120_o3_expectations_that_exclude_part_of_the_family",
"text": "Expectations that exclude part of the family"
},
{
"id": "parenting_120_o4_practices_the_children_cannot_safely_participate",
"text": "Practices the children cannot safely participate in"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_121",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us feel like partners when most conversations are about the children?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"couple_connection",
"parenting_load",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_121_o1_a_greeting_that_is_not_a_task_update",
"text": "A greeting that is not a task update"
},
{
"id": "parenting_121_o2_ten_minutes_without_logistics",
"text": "Ten minutes without logistics"
},
{
"id": "parenting_121_o3_asking_about_each_other_s_day",
"text": "Asking about each other’s day"
},
{
"id": "parenting_121_o4_making_one_plan_that_is_only_for_us",
"text": "Making one plan that is only for us"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_121_o1_a_greeting_that_is_not_a_task_update",
"text": "A greeting that is not a task update"
},
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"id": "parenting_121_o2_ten_minutes_without_logistics",
"text": "Ten minutes without logistics"
},
{
"id": "parenting_121_o3_asking_about_each_other_s_day",
"text": "Asking about each other’s day"
},
{
"id": "parenting_121_o4_making_one_plan_that_is_only_for_us",
"text": "Making one plan that is only for us"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_122",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which kind of couple time is most realistic in a busy parenting week?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"couple_time",
"realistic_plans",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_122_o1_a_quiet_drink_after_bedtime",
"text": "A quiet drink after bedtime"
},
{
"id": "parenting_122_o2_a_short_walk_together",
"text": "A short walk together"
},
{
"id": "parenting_122_o3_a_shared_show_with_phones_down",
"text": "A shared show with phones down"
},
{
"id": "parenting_122_o4_breakfast_before_the_day_starts",
"text": "Breakfast before the day starts"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_122_o1_a_quiet_drink_after_bedtime",
"text": "A quiet drink after bedtime"
},
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"id": "parenting_122_o2_a_short_walk_together",
"text": "A short walk together"
},
{
"id": "parenting_122_o3_a_shared_show_with_phones_down",
"text": "A shared show with phones down"
},
{
"id": "parenting_122_o4_breakfast_before_the_day_starts",
"text": "Breakfast before the day starts"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_123",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes affection feel supportive rather than like another demand?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"affection",
"consent",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_123_o1_it_can_be_declined_without_punishment",
"text": "It can be declined without punishment"
},
{
"id": "parenting_123_o2_it_is_not_used_to_avoid_a_serious_issue",
"text": "It is not used to avoid a serious issue"
},
{
"id": "parenting_123_o3_the_timing_considers_exhaustion",
"text": "The timing considers exhaustion"
},
{
"id": "parenting_123_o4_it_includes_small_nonsexual_gestures",
"text": "It includes small nonsexual gestures"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_123_o1_it_can_be_declined_without_punishment",
"text": "It can be declined without punishment"
},
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"id": "parenting_123_o2_it_is_not_used_to_avoid_a_serious_issue",
"text": "It is not used to avoid a serious issue"
},
{
"id": "parenting_123_o3_the_timing_considers_exhaustion",
"text": "The timing considers exhaustion"
},
{
"id": "parenting_123_o4_it_includes_small_nonsexual_gestures",
"text": "It includes small nonsexual gestures"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_124",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs suggest parenting logistics are crowding out the relationship?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"couple_identity",
"warning_signs",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_124_o1_every_conversation_becomes_a_task_list",
"text": "Every conversation becomes a task list"
},
{
"id": "parenting_124_o2_touch_happens_only_during_handoffs",
"text": "Touch happens only during handoffs"
},
{
"id": "parenting_124_o3_resentment_builds_around_personal_time",
"text": "Resentment builds around personal time"
},
{
"id": "parenting_124_o4_we_stop_sharing_news_that_is_not_about_the_child",
"text": "We stop sharing news that is not about the children"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_124_o1_every_conversation_becomes_a_task_list",
"text": "Every conversation becomes a task list"
},
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"id": "parenting_124_o2_touch_happens_only_during_handoffs",
"text": "Touch happens only during handoffs"
},
{
"id": "parenting_124_o3_resentment_builds_around_personal_time",
"text": "Resentment builds around personal time"
},
{
"id": "parenting_124_o4_we_stop_sharing_news_that_is_not_about_the_child",
"text": "We stop sharing news that is not about the children"
}
],
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"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_125",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How connected do you feel to me outside our parenting roles?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"couple_identity",
"connection",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very connected",
"max_label": "Very connected"
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_126",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we protect couple time without making children responsible for our closeness?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"couple_time",
"boundaries",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_126_o1_adults_arrange_the_logistics",
"text": "Adults arrange the logistics"
},
{
"id": "parenting_126_o2_children_are_not_blamed_when_plans_change",
"text": "Children are not blamed when plans change"
},
{
"id": "parenting_126_o3_the_time_is_age_appropriate_and_safe",
"text": "Choose plans that fit the children’s age and safety needs"
},
{
"id": "parenting_126_o4_connection_also_happens_in_small_ordinary_moment",
"text": "Connection also happens in small ordinary moments"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_126_o1_adults_arrange_the_logistics",
"text": "Adults arrange the logistics"
},
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"id": "parenting_126_o2_children_are_not_blamed_when_plans_change",
"text": "Children are not blamed when plans change"
},
{
"id": "parenting_126_o3_the_time_is_age_appropriate_and_safe",
"text": "Choose plans that fit the children’s age and safety needs"
},
{
"id": "parenting_126_o4_connection_also_happens_in_small_ordinary_moment",
"text": "Connection also happens in small ordinary moments"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_127",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "For couple time, would you rather protect a weekly ritual or use openings as they appear?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"couple_time",
"quick_choice",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_127_o1_protect_a_weekly_ritual",
"text": "Protect a weekly ritual"
},
{
"id": "parenting_127_o2_use_openings_as_they_appear",
"text": "Use openings as they appear"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_127_o1_protect_a_weekly_ritual",
"text": "Protect a weekly ritual"
},
{
"id": "parenting_127_o2_use_openings_as_they_appear",
"text": "Use openings as they appear"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_128",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would help us notice each other’s effort during demanding parenting weeks?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"appreciation",
"parenting_load",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_128_o1_thank_the_specific_task",
"text": "Thank the specific task"
},
{
"id": "parenting_128_o2_acknowledge_emotional_labor",
"text": "Acknowledge emotional labor"
},
{
"id": "parenting_128_o3_notice_when_one_person_changed_plans",
"text": "Notice when one person changed plans"
},
{
"id": "parenting_128_o4_say_what_the_help_allowed_us_to_do",
"text": "Say what the help allowed us to do"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_128_o1_thank_the_specific_task",
"text": "Thank the specific task"
},
{
"id": "parenting_128_o2_acknowledge_emotional_labor",
"text": "Acknowledge emotional labor"
},
{
"id": "parenting_128_o3_notice_when_one_person_changed_plans",
"text": "Notice when one person changed plans"
},
{
"id": "parenting_128_o4_say_what_the_help_allowed_us_to_do",
"text": "Say what the help allowed us to do"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_129",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which parts of ourselves deserve attention beyond being parents?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"identity",
"balance",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_129_o1_friendships_that_restore_us",
"text": "Friendships that restore us"
},
{
"id": "parenting_129_o2_interests_that_belong_to_each_person",
"text": "Interests that belong to each person"
},
{
"id": "parenting_129_o3_goals_unrelated_to_the_household",
"text": "Goals unrelated to the household"
},
{
"id": "parenting_129_o4_time_alone_without_guilt",
"text": "Time alone without guilt"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_129_o1_friendships_that_restore_us",
"text": "Friendships that restore us"
},
{
"id": "parenting_129_o2_interests_that_belong_to_each_person",
"text": "Interests that belong to each person"
},
{
"id": "parenting_129_o3_goals_unrelated_to_the_household",
"text": "Goals unrelated to the household"
},
{
"id": "parenting_129_o4_time_alone_without_guilt",
"text": "Time alone without guilt"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_130",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of check-in would feel least like another responsibility?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"check_in",
"couple_connection",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_130_o1_one_honest_question_before_sleep",
"text": "One honest question before sleep"
},
{
"id": "parenting_130_o2_a_voice_note_during_the_day",
"text": "A voice note during the day"
},
{
"id": "parenting_130_o3_a_short_talk_during_a_drive",
"text": "A short talk during a drive"
},
{
"id": "parenting_130_o4_a_weekly_coffee_without_an_agenda",
"text": "A weekly coffee without an agenda"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_130_o1_one_honest_question_before_sleep",
"text": "One honest question before sleep"
},
{
"id": "parenting_130_o2_a_voice_note_during_the_day",
"text": "A voice note during the day"
},
{
"id": "parenting_130_o3_a_short_talk_during_a_drive",
"text": "A short talk during a drive"
},
{
"id": "parenting_130_o4_a_weekly_coffee_without_an_agenda",
"text": "A weekly coffee without an agenda"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_131",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps children adjust when family routines change?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"transitions",
"routines",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_131_o1_explain_what_will_stay_the_same",
"text": "Explain what will stay the same"
},
{
"id": "parenting_131_o2_give_notice_when_possible",
"text": "Give notice when possible"
},
{
"id": "parenting_131_o3_keep_one_familiar_comfort_available",
"text": "Keep one familiar comfort available"
},
{
"id": "parenting_131_o4_expect_mixed_reactions_without_punishment",
"text": "Expect mixed reactions without punishment"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_131_o1_explain_what_will_stay_the_same",
"text": "Explain what will stay the same"
},
{
"id": "parenting_131_o2_give_notice_when_possible",
"text": "Give notice when possible"
},
{
"id": "parenting_131_o3_keep_one_familiar_comfort_available",
"text": "Keep one familiar comfort available"
},
{
"id": "parenting_131_o4_expect_mixed_reactions_without_punishment",
"text": "Expect mixed reactions without punishment"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_132",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What matters most when parenting happens across more than one household?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"multiple_households",
"coparenting",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_132_o1_the_child_is_not_used_as_a_messenger",
"text": "The child is not used as a messenger"
},
{
"id": "parenting_132_o2_important_information_travels_directly_between_a",
"text": "Important information travels directly between adults"
},
{
"id": "parenting_132_o3_rules_are_clear_enough_in_each_home",
"text": "Rules are clear enough in each home"
},
{
"id": "parenting_132_o4_the_child_is_not_asked_to_rank_the_households",
"text": "The child is not asked to rank the households"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_132_o1_the_child_is_not_used_as_a_messenger",
"text": "The child is not used as a messenger"
},
{
"id": "parenting_132_o2_important_information_travels_directly_between_a",
"text": "Important information travels directly between adults"
},
{
"id": "parenting_132_o3_rules_are_clear_enough_in_each_home",
"text": "Rules are clear enough in each home"
},
{
"id": "parenting_132_o4_the_child_is_not_asked_to_rank_the_households",
"text": "The child is not asked to rank the households"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_133",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which topics need extra clarity before a major family transition?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"transitions",
"planning",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_133_o1_where_the_child_will_sleep_and_keep_belongings",
"text": "Where the child will sleep and keep belongings"
},
{
"id": "parenting_133_o2_how_schedules_and_transportation_will_work",
"text": "How schedules and transportation will work"
},
{
"id": "parenting_133_o3_what_adults_will_say_about_the_change",
"text": "What adults will say about the change"
},
{
"id": "parenting_133_o4_who_handles_school_and_health_updates",
"text": "Who handles school and health updates"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_133_o1_where_the_child_will_sleep_and_keep_belongings",
"text": "Where the child will sleep and keep belongings"
},
{
"id": "parenting_133_o2_how_schedules_and_transportation_will_work",
"text": "How schedules and transportation will work"
},
{
"id": "parenting_133_o3_what_adults_will_say_about_the_change",
"text": "What adults will say about the change"
},
{
"id": "parenting_133_o4_who_handles_school_and_health_updates",
"text": "Who handles school and health updates"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_134",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How prepared do we feel for the next family transition?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"transitions",
"readiness",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not prepared",
"max_label": "Very prepared"
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_135",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a stepparent or newer caregiver build trust without rushing authority?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"blended_family",
"trust",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_135_o1_let_the_relationship_grow_through_ordinary_time",
"text": "Let the relationship grow through ordinary time"
},
{
"id": "parenting_135_o2_keep_discipline_expectations_clear_between_adult",
"text": "Keep discipline expectations clear between adults"
},
{
"id": "parenting_135_o3_respect_the_child_s_existing_attachments",
"text": "Respect the child’s existing attachments"
},
{
"id": "parenting_135_o4_avoid_demanding_a_title_or_level_of_affection",
"text": "Avoid demanding a title or level of affection"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_135_o1_let_the_relationship_grow_through_ordinary_time",
"text": "Let the relationship grow through ordinary time"
},
{
"id": "parenting_135_o2_keep_discipline_expectations_clear_between_adult",
"text": "Keep discipline expectations clear between adults"
},
{
"id": "parenting_135_o3_respect_the_child_s_existing_attachments",
"text": "Respect the child’s existing attachments"
},
{
"id": "parenting_135_o4_avoid_demanding_a_title_or_level_of_affection",
"text": "Avoid demanding a title or level of affection"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_136",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which adult should address a conflict involving their relative first?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"extended_family",
"responsibility",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_136_o1_the_adult_connected_to_that_relative",
"text": "The adult connected to that relative"
},
{
"id": "parenting_136_o2_whichever_adult_witnessed_it",
"text": "Whichever adult witnessed it"
},
{
"id": "parenting_136_o3_both_adults_together",
"text": "Both adults together"
},
{
"id": "parenting_136_o4_the_person_who_can_do_it_most_calmly",
"text": "The person who can do it most calmly"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_136_o1_the_adult_connected_to_that_relative",
"text": "The adult connected to that relative"
},
{
"id": "parenting_136_o2_whichever_adult_witnessed_it",
"text": "Whichever adult witnessed it"
},
{
"id": "parenting_136_o3_both_adults_together",
"text": "Both adults together"
},
{
"id": "parenting_136_o4_the_person_who_can_do_it_most_calmly",
"text": "The person who can do it most calmly"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_137",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps schedule changes from becoming a loyalty test for a child?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"schedules",
"child_wellbeing",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_137_o1_discuss_adult_frustration_away_from_the_child",
"text": "Discuss adult frustration away from the child"
},
{
"id": "parenting_137_o2_present_the_plan_without_blaming_another_househo",
"text": "Present the plan without blaming another household"
},
{
"id": "parenting_137_o3_allow_the_child_to_miss_people_openly",
"text": "Allow the child to miss people openly"
},
{
"id": "parenting_137_o4_keep_promises_about_contact_whenever_possible",
"text": "Keep promises about contact whenever possible"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_137_o1_discuss_adult_frustration_away_from_the_child",
"text": "Discuss adult frustration away from the child"
},
{
"id": "parenting_137_o2_present_the_plan_without_blaming_another_househo",
"text": "Present the plan without blaming another household"
},
{
"id": "parenting_137_o3_allow_the_child_to_miss_people_openly",
"text": "Allow the child to miss people openly"
},
{
"id": "parenting_137_o4_keep_promises_about_contact_whenever_possible",
"text": "Keep promises about contact whenever possible"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_138",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the best way to introduce a new household rule?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"rules",
"transitions",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_138_o1_explain_the_reason_in_plain_language",
"text": "Explain the reason in plain language"
},
{
"id": "parenting_138_o2_give_a_short_adjustment_period",
"text": "Give a short adjustment period"
},
{
"id": "parenting_138_o3_show_what_the_rule_looks_like",
"text": "Show what the rule looks like"
},
{
"id": "parenting_138_o4_review_it_after_everyone_has_tried_it",
"text": "Review it after everyone has tried it"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_138_o1_explain_the_reason_in_plain_language",
"text": "Explain the reason in plain language"
},
{
"id": "parenting_138_o2_give_a_short_adjustment_period",
"text": "Give a short adjustment period"
},
{
"id": "parenting_138_o3_show_what_the_rule_looks_like",
"text": "Show what the rule looks like"
},
{
"id": "parenting_138_o4_review_it_after_everyone_has_tried_it",
"text": "Review it after everyone has tried it"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_139",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show a family transition needs more support?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"transitions",
"support",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_139_o1_a_child_s_daily_functioning_changes_for_weeks",
"text": "A child stays unusually withdrawn or distressed"
},
{
"id": "parenting_139_o2_adults_cannot_discuss_logistics_without_escalati",
"text": "Adults cannot discuss logistics without escalation"
},
{
"id": "parenting_139_o3_school_or_sleep_problems_keep_growing",
"text": "School or sleep problems keep growing"
},
{
"id": "parenting_139_o4_nobody_knows_what_information_the_child_has_been",
"text": "Nobody knows what information the child has been given"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_139_o1_a_child_s_daily_functioning_changes_for_weeks",
"text": "A child stays unusually withdrawn or distressed"
},
{
"id": "parenting_139_o2_adults_cannot_discuss_logistics_without_escalati",
"text": "Adults cannot discuss logistics without escalation"
},
{
"id": "parenting_139_o3_school_or_sleep_problems_keep_growing",
"text": "School or sleep problems keep growing"
},
{
"id": "parenting_139_o4_nobody_knows_what_information_the_child_has_been",
"text": "Nobody knows what information the child has been given"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_140",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one family change you want us to handle with extra care?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"transitions",
"reflection",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_141",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us repair with a child after we handled a moment poorly?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"accountability",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_141_o1_name_what_we_did_without_excuses",
"text": "Name what we did without excuses"
},
{
"id": "parenting_141_o2_apologize_in_age_appropriate_language",
"text": "Apologize in age-appropriate language"
},
{
"id": "parenting_141_o3_restate_the_limit_without_defending_the_tone",
"text": "Restate the limit without defending the tone"
},
{
"id": "parenting_141_o4_show_the_change_the_next_time",
"text": "Show the change the next time"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_141_o1_name_what_we_did_without_excuses",
"text": "Name what we did without excuses"
},
{
"id": "parenting_141_o2_apologize_in_age_appropriate_language",
"text": "Apologize in age-appropriate language"
},
{
"id": "parenting_141_o3_restate_the_limit_without_defending_the_tone",
"text": "Restate the limit without defending the tone"
},
{
"id": "parenting_141_o4_show_the_change_the_next_time",
"text": "Show the change the next time"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_142",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which sign most clearly shows that a parenting plan needs to change?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"adaptation",
"planning",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_142_o1_it_repeatedly_harms_connection_or_safety",
"text": "It repeatedly harms connection or safety"
},
{
"id": "parenting_142_o2_nobody_can_follow_it_consistently",
"text": "Nobody can follow it consistently"
},
{
"id": "parenting_142_o3_the_child_has_clearly_outgrown_it",
"text": "The child has clearly outgrown it"
},
{
"id": "parenting_142_o4_reliable_new_information_changes_the_decision",
"text": "Reliable new information changes the decision"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_142_o1_it_repeatedly_harms_connection_or_safety",
"text": "It repeatedly harms connection or safety"
},
{
"id": "parenting_142_o2_nobody_can_follow_it_consistently",
"text": "Nobody can follow it consistently"
},
{
"id": "parenting_142_o3_the_child_has_clearly_outgrown_it",
"text": "The child has clearly outgrown it"
},
{
"id": "parenting_142_o4_reliable_new_information_changes_the_decision",
"text": "Reliable new information changes the decision"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_143",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which parenting lessons do we want to carry into the next stage?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"growth",
"future",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_143_o1_connection_matters_during_limits",
"text": "Connection matters during limits"
},
{
"id": "parenting_143_o2_clear_routines_reduce_unnecessary_conflict",
"text": "Clear routines reduce unnecessary conflict"
},
{
"id": "parenting_143_o3_children_need_growing_independence",
"text": "Children need growing independence"
},
{
"id": "parenting_143_o4_parents_are_allowed_to_learn_and_change",
"text": "Parents are allowed to learn and change"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_143_o1_connection_matters_during_limits",
"text": "Connection matters during limits"
},
{
"id": "parenting_143_o2_clear_routines_reduce_unnecessary_conflict",
"text": "Clear routines reduce unnecessary conflict"
},
{
"id": "parenting_143_o3_children_need_growing_independence",
"text": "Children need growing independence"
},
{
"id": "parenting_143_o4_parents_are_allowed_to_learn_and_change",
"text": "Parents are allowed to learn and change"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_144",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would help us prepare for a parenting stage we have not reached yet?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"future",
"preparation",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_144_o1_learn_what_development_usually_looks_like",
"text": "Learn what development usually looks like"
},
{
"id": "parenting_144_o2_talk_with_families_we_trust",
"text": "Talk with families we trust"
},
{
"id": "parenting_144_o3_discuss_our_nonnegotiable_safety_values",
"text": "Discuss our nonnegotiable safety values"
},
{
"id": "parenting_144_o4_leave_room_to_revise_the_plan_later",
"text": "Leave room to revise the plan later"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_144_o1_learn_what_development_usually_looks_like",
"text": "Learn what development usually looks like"
},
{
"id": "parenting_144_o2_talk_with_families_we_trust",
"text": "Talk with families we trust"
},
{
"id": "parenting_144_o3_discuss_our_nonnegotiable_safety_values",
"text": "Discuss our nonnegotiable safety values"
},
{
"id": "parenting_144_o4_leave_room_to_revise_the_plan_later",
"text": "Leave room to revise the plan later"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_145",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How hopeful are you that we can become a stronger parenting team?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"hope",
"teamwork",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not hopeful",
"max_label": "Very hopeful"
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_146",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would show that our parenting approach is working better?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"growth",
"healthy_patterns",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_146_o1_we_correct_course_without_hiding_mistakes",
"text": "We correct course without hiding mistakes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_146_o2_the_children_can_ask_questions_safely",
"text": "The children can ask questions safely"
},
{
"id": "parenting_146_o3_rules_become_clearer_rather_than_harsher",
"text": "Rules become clearer rather than harsher"
},
{
"id": "parenting_146_o4_both_parents_have_room_to_rest_and_contribute",
"text": "Both parents have room to rest and contribute"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_146_o1_we_correct_course_without_hiding_mistakes",
"text": "We correct course without hiding mistakes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_146_o2_the_children_can_ask_questions_safely",
"text": "The children can ask questions safely"
},
{
"id": "parenting_146_o3_rules_become_clearer_rather_than_harsher",
"text": "Rules become clearer rather than harsher"
},
{
"id": "parenting_146_o4_both_parents_have_room_to_rest_and_contribute",
"text": "Both parents have room to rest and contribute"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_147",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should we remember when our child makes a choice we would not make?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"autonomy",
"perspective",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_147_o1_guidance_is_not_ownership",
"text": "Guidance is not ownership"
},
{
"id": "parenting_147_o2_age_and_safety_still_matter",
"text": "Age and safety still matter"
},
{
"id": "parenting_147_o3_disappointment_does_not_require_rejection",
"text": "Disappointment does not require rejection"
},
{
"id": "parenting_147_o4_a_child_can_learn_without_agreeing_with_us",
"text": "A child can learn without agreeing with us"
}
],
"answer_config": {
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"id": "parenting_147_o1_guidance_is_not_ownership",
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},
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"id": "parenting_147_o2_age_and_safety_still_matter",
"text": "Age and safety still matter"
},
{
"id": "parenting_147_o3_disappointment_does_not_require_rejection",
"text": "Disappointment does not require rejection"
},
{
"id": "parenting_147_o4_a_child_can_learn_without_agreeing_with_us",
"text": "A child can learn without agreeing with us"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_148",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we keep fear from making every future decision for us?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fear",
"future_decisions",
"parenting"
],
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{
"id": "parenting_148_o1_separate_likely_risks_from_imagined_ones",
"text": "Separate likely risks from imagined ones"
},
{
"id": "parenting_148_o2_use_reliable_information",
"text": "Use reliable information"
},
{
"id": "parenting_148_o3_choose_safeguards_that_preserve_some_freedom",
"text": "Choose safeguards that preserve some freedom"
},
{
"id": "parenting_148_o4_review_decisions_as_the_child_grows",
"text": "Review decisions as the child grows"
}
],
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"id": "parenting_148_o1_separate_likely_risks_from_imagined_ones",
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"text": "Use reliable information"
},
{
"id": "parenting_148_o3_choose_safeguards_that_preserve_some_freedom",
"text": "Choose safeguards that preserve some freedom"
},
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"id": "parenting_148_o4_review_decisions_as_the_child_grows",
"text": "Review decisions as the child grows"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_149",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which parenting goals are worth revisiting every year?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"goals",
"annual_review",
"parenting"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_149_o1_how_responsibilities_are_divided",
"text": "How responsibilities are divided"
},
{
"id": "parenting_149_o2_what_independence_fits_each_child",
"text": "What independence fits each child"
},
{
"id": "parenting_149_o3_which_routines_still_help",
"text": "Which routines still help"
},
{
"id": "parenting_149_o4_how_we_protect_the_couple_relationship",
"text": "How we protect the couple relationship"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "parenting_149_o1_how_responsibilities_are_divided",
"text": "How responsibilities are divided"
},
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"id": "parenting_149_o2_what_independence_fits_each_child",
"text": "What independence fits each child"
},
{
"id": "parenting_149_o3_which_routines_still_help",
"text": "Which routines still help"
},
{
"id": "parenting_149_o4_how_we_protect_the_couple_relationship",
"text": "How we protect the couple relationship"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 2
}
},
{
"id": "parenting_150",
"category_id": "parenting",
"type": "written",
"text": "What do you hope our children understand about the way we loved and guided them?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"legacy",
"future",
"parenting"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
}
]
}
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