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{
"category": {
"id": "trust",
"display_name": "Trust",
"description": "Careful, warm questions about everyday reliability, honesty, privacy, good judgment, keeping promises, respecting independence, and feeling secure with each other when no major rupture is being repaired.",
"access": "mixed",
"icon_name": "favorite_border",
"schema_version": "question_v2",
"metadata": {
"legacy_question_count": 250,
"legacy_free_questions": 75,
"legacy_premium_questions": 175,
"catalog_change": -100,
"content_version": "trust_150_final_v2",
"mass_rewrite_reason": "The legacy pack contained 250 questions, including 150 written responses and production-invalid depth values up to 5. More than 60 percent failed the current interaction and schema standards, so targeted correction would create more inconsistency than replacement.",
"related_pack_boundary": "Trust owns everyday dependability, honesty, privacy, independence, sound judgment, reassurance, keeping ordinary promises, and feeling secure when no major breach is being repaired. Rebuilding Trust owns accountability and recovery after an actual rupture. Emotional Intimacy owns vulnerability and feeling deeply known. Boundaries owns general limits that are not specifically about trust.",
"safety_boundary": "Trust must never be framed as surveillance, surrendered privacy, location proof, device access, control over friendships, isolation, forced disclosure, or a requirement to forgive or remain in the relationship.",
"review_workflow": "Six separately written batches of 25 questions, with a 50-question cross-check after every two batches and a final full-pack audit.",
"final_validation": "pass",
"last_completed_batch": 6,
"total_questions": 150,
"free_questions": 45,
"premium_questions": 105,
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"single_choice": 30,
"scale": 15,
"this_or_that": 10,
"written": 5
},
"depth_counts": {
"1": 45,
"2": 65,
"3": 40
},
"depth_percentages": {
"light": 30.0,
"medium": 43.3,
"deep": 26.7
},
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"batch": 1,
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"last_id": "trust_025",
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"scale": 2,
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},
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"2": 12,
"3": 3
},
"status": "PASS"
},
{
"batch": 2,
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"last_id": "trust_050",
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"single_choice": 4,
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"this_or_that": 1,
"written": 1
},
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"1": 9,
"2": 11,
"3": 5
},
"status": "PASS"
},
{
"batch": 3,
"first_id": "trust_051",
"last_id": "trust_075",
"count": 25,
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"single_choice": 5,
"scale": 2,
"this_or_that": 2,
"written": 1
},
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"1": 8,
"2": 11,
"3": 6
},
"status": "PASS"
},
{
"batch": 4,
"first_id": "trust_076",
"last_id": "trust_100",
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"scale": 3,
"this_or_that": 1,
"written": 1
},
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"1": 7,
"2": 10,
"3": 8
},
"status": "PASS"
},
{
"batch": 5,
"first_id": "trust_101",
"last_id": "trust_125",
"count": 25,
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"multi_choice": 15,
"single_choice": 5,
"scale": 2,
"this_or_that": 2,
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},
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"1": 6,
"2": 10,
"3": 9
},
"status": "PASS"
},
{
"batch": 6,
"first_id": "trust_126",
"last_id": "trust_150",
"count": 25,
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"single_choice": 5,
"scale": 3,
"this_or_that": 2
},
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"1": 5,
"2": 11,
"3": 9
},
"status": "PASS"
}
],
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{
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"first_id": "trust_001",
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"status": "PASS"
},
{
"checkpoint": 2,
"first_id": "trust_051",
"last_id": "trust_100",
"count": 50,
"status": "PASS"
},
{
"checkpoint": 3,
"first_id": "trust_101",
"last_id": "trust_150",
"count": 50,
"status": "PASS"
}
],
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"catalog_impact": {
"old_question_count": 250,
"new_question_count": 150,
"net_change": -100,
"old_free_questions": 75,
"new_free_questions": 45,
"old_premium_questions": 175,
"new_premium_questions": 105,
"intentional": true
},
"final_review": "Complete guide-driven rebuild and final production audit. Replaced the 250-question legacy pack with 150 varied questions, reduced written responses from 150 to 5, converted all depths to integers 1–3, separated everyday trust from rupture repair, rejected surveillance and control as trust practices, and validated schema, option fit, uniqueness, repetition, six 25-question batches, and three 50-question checkpoints."
}
},
"questions": [
{
"id": "trust_001",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which small actions make me feel dependable to you?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"small_actions",
"reliability",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "doing_what_i_said",
"text": "Doing what I said"
},
{
"id": "updating_you_when_plans_change",
"text": "Updating you when plans change"
},
{
"id": "remembering_important_details",
"text": "Remembering important details"
},
{
"id": "handling_my_share_without_reminders",
"text": "Handling my share without reminders"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "doing_what_i_said",
"text": "Doing what I said"
},
{
"id": "updating_you_when_plans_change",
"text": "Updating you when plans change"
},
{
"id": "remembering_important_details",
"text": "Remembering important details"
},
{
"id": "handling_my_share_without_reminders",
"text": "Handling my share without reminders"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_002",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the clearest everyday sign that I am on your side?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"teamwork",
"security",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "i_defend_our_shared_decisions",
"text": "I defend our shared decisions"
},
{
"id": "i_listen_before_reacting",
"text": "I listen before reacting"
},
{
"id": "i_help_when_life_gets_heavy",
"text": "I help when life gets heavy"
},
{
"id": "i_speak_about_you_with_respect",
"text": "I speak about you with respect"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_defend_our_shared_decisions",
"text": "I defend our shared decisions"
},
{
"id": "i_listen_before_reacting",
"text": "I listen before reacting"
},
{
"id": "i_help_when_life_gets_heavy",
"text": "I help when life gets heavy"
},
{
"id": "i_speak_about_you_with_respect",
"text": "I speak about you with respect"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_003",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "A clear update or a thoughtful surprise?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"communication",
"quick_choice",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_clear_update",
"text": "A clear update"
},
{
"id": "a_thoughtful_surprise",
"text": "A thoughtful surprise"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_clear_update",
"text": "A clear update"
},
{
"id": "a_thoughtful_surprise",
"text": "A thoughtful surprise"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_004",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps an ordinary promise feel worth trusting?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"promises",
"follow_through",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_is_realistic",
"text": "It is realistic"
},
{
"id": "it_includes_a_clear_time",
"text": "It includes a clear time"
},
{
"id": "changes_are_mentioned_early",
"text": "Changes are mentioned early"
},
{
"id": "the_person_follows_through_without_applause",
"text": "The person follows through without applause"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_is_realistic",
"text": "It is realistic"
},
{
"id": "it_includes_a_clear_time",
"text": "It includes a clear time"
},
{
"id": "changes_are_mentioned_early",
"text": "Changes are mentioned early"
},
{
"id": "the_person_follows_through_without_applause",
"text": "The person follows through without applause"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_005",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How dependable do our everyday plans feel lately?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"current_state",
"reliability",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Often uncertain",
"max_label": "Very dependable"
}
},
{
"id": "trust_006",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which habits quietly build trust over time?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"habits",
"consistency",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "being_where_we_said_we_would_be",
"text": "Being where we said we would be"
},
{
"id": "answering_honestly",
"text": "Answering honestly"
},
{
"id": "keeping_private_things_private",
"text": "Keeping private things private"
},
{
"id": "admitting_when_we_forgot",
"text": "Admitting when we forgot"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "being_where_we_said_we_would_be",
"text": "Being where we said we would be"
},
{
"id": "answering_honestly",
"text": "Answering honestly"
},
{
"id": "keeping_private_things_private",
"text": "Keeping private things private"
},
{
"id": "admitting_when_we_forgot",
"text": "Admitting when we forgot"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_007",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which tiny promise deserves the strongest enforcement department?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"humor",
"promises",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "bringing_the_requested_snack",
"text": "Bringing the requested snack"
},
{
"id": "charging_the_shared_device",
"text": "Charging the shared device"
},
{
"id": "replacing_the_empty_roll",
"text": "Replacing the empty roll"
},
{
"id": "saving_the_last_episode",
"text": "Saving the last episode"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "bringing_the_requested_snack",
"text": "Bringing the requested snack"
},
{
"id": "charging_the_shared_device",
"text": "Charging the shared device"
},
{
"id": "replacing_the_empty_roll",
"text": "Replacing the empty roll"
},
{
"id": "saving_the_last_episode",
"text": "Saving the last episode"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_008",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When plans change, what keeps the change from feeling careless?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"plans",
"consideration",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "telling_you_promptly",
"text": "Telling you promptly"
},
{
"id": "giving_the_real_reason",
"text": "Giving the real reason"
},
{
"id": "acknowledging_the_effect_on_you",
"text": "Acknowledging the effect on you"
},
{
"id": "helping_make_a_new_plan",
"text": "Helping make a new plan"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "telling_you_promptly",
"text": "Telling you promptly"
},
{
"id": "giving_the_real_reason",
"text": "Giving the real reason"
},
{
"id": "acknowledging_the_effect_on_you",
"text": "Acknowledging the effect on you"
},
{
"id": "helping_make_a_new_plan",
"text": "Helping make a new plan"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_009",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one small thing I do that makes you trust me more?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"small_actions",
"memory",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "trust_010",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs tell you a person means what they say?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"integrity",
"consistency",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "words_and_actions_match",
"text": "Words and actions match"
},
{
"id": "they_do_not_overpromise",
"text": "They do not overpromise"
},
{
"id": "they_admit_uncertainty",
"text": "They admit uncertainty"
},
{
"id": "they_follow_through_when_nobody_is_watching",
"text": "They follow through when nobody is watching"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "words_and_actions_match",
"text": "Words and actions match"
},
{
"id": "they_do_not_overpromise",
"text": "They do not overpromise"
},
{
"id": "they_admit_uncertainty",
"text": "They admit uncertainty"
},
{
"id": "they_follow_through_when_nobody_is_watching",
"text": "They follow through when nobody is watching"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_011",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a forgotten task feel like a mistake rather than disrespect?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"mistakes",
"accountability",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "owning_it_quickly",
"text": "Owning it quickly"
},
{
"id": "fixing_it_without_excuses",
"text": "Fixing it without excuses"
},
{
"id": "understanding_the_inconvenience",
"text": "Understanding the inconvenience"
},
{
"id": "changing_the_reminder_system",
"text": "Changing the reminder system"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "owning_it_quickly",
"text": "Owning it quickly"
},
{
"id": "fixing_it_without_excuses",
"text": "Fixing it without excuses"
},
{
"id": "understanding_the_inconvenience",
"text": "Understanding the inconvenience"
},
{
"id": "changing_the_reminder_system",
"text": "Changing the reminder system"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_012",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should happen when one of us cannot keep a commitment?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"commitments",
"communication",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "say_so_early",
"text": "Say so early"
},
{
"id": "explain_without_inventing_excuses",
"text": "Explain without inventing excuses"
},
{
"id": "offer_a_realistic_alternative",
"text": "Offer a realistic alternative"
},
{
"id": "accept_that_the_other_person_may_be_disappointed",
"text": "Accept that the other person may be disappointed"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "say_so_early",
"text": "Say so early"
},
{
"id": "explain_without_inventing_excuses",
"text": "Explain without inventing excuses"
},
{
"id": "offer_a_realistic_alternative",
"text": "Offer a realistic alternative"
},
{
"id": "accept_that_the_other_person_may_be_disappointed",
"text": "Accept that the other person may be disappointed"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_013",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Reliable and predictable or flexible and communicative?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"reliability",
"quick_choice",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "reliable_and_predictable",
"text": "Reliable and predictable"
},
{
"id": "flexible_and_communicative",
"text": "Flexible and communicative"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "reliable_and_predictable",
"text": "Reliable and predictable"
},
{
"id": "flexible_and_communicative",
"text": "Flexible and communicative"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_014",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which ordinary responsibilities affect trust more than people realize?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"responsibility",
"daily_life",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "paying_agreed_bills",
"text": "Paying agreed bills"
},
{
"id": "showing_up_on_time",
"text": "Showing up on time"
},
{
"id": "following_through_on_errands",
"text": "Following through on errands"
},
{
"id": "taking_care_of_shared_belongings",
"text": "Taking care of shared belongings"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "paying_agreed_bills",
"text": "Paying agreed bills"
},
{
"id": "showing_up_on_time",
"text": "Showing up on time"
},
{
"id": "following_through_on_errands",
"text": "Following through on errands"
},
{
"id": "taking_care_of_shared_belongings",
"text": "Taking care of shared belongings"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_015",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How confident are you that I will tell you when something changes?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"current_state",
"communication",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not confident enough",
"max_label": "Very confident"
}
},
{
"id": "trust_016",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes consistency feel caring instead of boring?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"consistency",
"care",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_lowers_mental_load",
"text": "It lowers mental load"
},
{
"id": "it_makes_plans_easier",
"text": "It makes plans easier"
},
{
"id": "it_shows_attention",
"text": "It shows attention"
},
{
"id": "it_leaves_room_for_pleasant_surprises",
"text": "It leaves room for pleasant surprises"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_lowers_mental_load",
"text": "It lowers mental load"
},
{
"id": "it_makes_plans_easier",
"text": "It makes plans easier"
},
{
"id": "it_shows_attention",
"text": "It shows attention"
},
{
"id": "it_leaves_room_for_pleasant_surprises",
"text": "It leaves room for pleasant surprises"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_017",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which sign of reliability matters most during a busy week?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"busy_life",
"reliability",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "keeping_one_important_promise",
"text": "Keeping one important promise"
},
{
"id": "sending_a_useful_update",
"text": "Sending a useful update"
},
{
"id": "handling_an_agreed_task",
"text": "Handling an agreed task"
},
{
"id": "being_honest_about_capacity",
"text": "Being honest about capacity"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "keeping_one_important_promise",
"text": "Keeping one important promise"
},
{
"id": "sending_a_useful_update",
"text": "Sending a useful update"
},
{
"id": "handling_an_agreed_task",
"text": "Handling an agreed task"
},
{
"id": "being_honest_about_capacity",
"text": "Being honest about capacity"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_018",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we make shared expectations easier to trust?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"expectations",
"clarity",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "say_them_out_loud",
"text": "Say them out loud"
},
{
"id": "make_them_realistic",
"text": "Make them realistic"
},
{
"id": "decide_who_owns_what",
"text": "Decide who owns what"
},
{
"id": "review_them_when_life_changes",
"text": "Review them when life changes"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "say_them_out_loud",
"text": "Say them out loud"
},
{
"id": "make_them_realistic",
"text": "Make them realistic"
},
{
"id": "decide_who_owns_what",
"text": "Decide who owns what"
},
{
"id": "review_them_when_life_changes",
"text": "Review them when life changes"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_019",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which reactions make a small mistake feel safer to admit?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"mistakes",
"safety",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "listening_first",
"text": "Listening first"
},
{
"id": "keeping_the_response_proportional",
"text": "Keeping the response proportional"
},
{
"id": "focusing_on_what_happens_next",
"text": "Focusing on what happens next"
},
{
"id": "not_turning_it_into_a_character_judgment",
"text": "Not turning it into a character judgment"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "listening_first",
"text": "Listening first"
},
{
"id": "keeping_the_response_proportional",
"text": "Keeping the response proportional"
},
{
"id": "focusing_on_what_happens_next",
"text": "Focusing on what happens next"
},
{
"id": "not_turning_it_into_a_character_judgment",
"text": "Not turning it into a character judgment"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_020",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the best proof that a new habit is real?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"habits",
"consistency",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_happens_without_reminders",
"text": "It happens without reminders"
},
{
"id": "it_survives_a_stressful_week",
"text": "It survives a stressful week"
},
{
"id": "it_is_acknowledged_when_missed",
"text": "It is acknowledged when missed"
},
{
"id": "it_becomes_pleasantly_unremarkable",
"text": "It becomes pleasantly unremarkable"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_happens_without_reminders",
"text": "It happens without reminders"
},
{
"id": "it_survives_a_stressful_week",
"text": "It survives a stressful week"
},
{
"id": "it_is_acknowledged_when_missed",
"text": "It is acknowledged when missed"
},
{
"id": "it_becomes_pleasantly_unremarkable",
"text": "It becomes pleasantly unremarkable"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_021",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you trust my judgment with shared responsibilities?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"judgment",
"responsibility",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "i_consider_the_effect_on_both_of_us",
"text": "I consider the effect on both of us"
},
{
"id": "i_ask_when_the_decision_is_not_mine_alone",
"text": "I ask when the decision is not mine alone"
},
{
"id": "i_use_reliable_information",
"text": "I use reliable information"
},
{
"id": "i_admit_when_i_need_help",
"text": "I admit when I need help"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_consider_the_effect_on_both_of_us",
"text": "I consider the effect on both of us"
},
{
"id": "i_ask_when_the_decision_is_not_mine_alone",
"text": "I ask when the decision is not mine alone"
},
{
"id": "i_use_reliable_information",
"text": "I use reliable information"
},
{
"id": "i_admit_when_i_need_help",
"text": "I admit when I need help"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_022",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which details make an update feel reassuring?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"updates",
"communication",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "what_changed",
"text": "What changed"
},
{
"id": "what_is_still_true",
"text": "What is still true"
},
{
"id": "whether_you_need_anything_from_me",
"text": "Whether you need anything from me"
},
{
"id": "when_we_will_know_more",
"text": "When we will know more"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "what_changed",
"text": "What changed"
},
{
"id": "what_is_still_true",
"text": "What is still true"
},
{
"id": "whether_you_need_anything_from_me",
"text": "Whether you need anything from me"
},
{
"id": "when_we_will_know_more",
"text": "When we will know more"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_023",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which household phrase carries the highest legal weight?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"humor",
"follow_through",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "i_already_handled_it",
"text": "I already handled it"
},
{
"id": "it_is_on_the_calendar",
"text": "It is on the calendar"
},
{
"id": "i_wrote_it_down",
"text": "I wrote it down"
},
{
"id": "i_brought_the_receipt",
"text": "I brought the receipt"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_already_handled_it",
"text": "I already handled it"
},
{
"id": "it_is_on_the_calendar",
"text": "It is on the calendar"
},
{
"id": "i_wrote_it_down",
"text": "I wrote it down"
},
{
"id": "i_brought_the_receipt",
"text": "I brought the receipt"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_024",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make dependable behavior feel one-sided?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"fairness",
"warning_signs",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "only_one_person_remembers_everything",
"text": "Only one person remembers everything"
},
{
"id": "promises_flow_mostly_one_direction",
"text": "Promises flow mostly one direction"
},
{
"id": "one_person_s_time_is_treated_as_flexible",
"text": "One person's time is treated as flexible"
},
{
"id": "reliability_is_expected_but_rarely_appreciated",
"text": "Reliability is expected but rarely appreciated"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "only_one_person_remembers_everything",
"text": "Only one person remembers everything"
},
{
"id": "promises_flow_mostly_one_direction",
"text": "Promises flow mostly one direction"
},
{
"id": "one_person_s_time_is_treated_as_flexible",
"text": "One person's time is treated as flexible"
},
{
"id": "reliability_is_expected_but_rarely_appreciated",
"text": "Reliability is expected but rarely appreciated"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_025",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps everyday trust from becoming a scorecard?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"trust",
"fairness",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "notice_patterns_instead_of_counting_favors",
"text": "Notice patterns instead of counting favors"
},
{
"id": "bring_up_concerns_before_resentment",
"text": "Bring up concerns before resentment"
},
{
"id": "allow_ordinary_human_mistakes",
"text": "Allow ordinary human mistakes"
},
{
"id": "keep_expectations_mutual",
"text": "Keep expectations mutual"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "notice_patterns_instead_of_counting_favors",
"text": "Notice patterns instead of counting favors"
},
{
"id": "bring_up_concerns_before_resentment",
"text": "Bring up concerns before resentment"
},
{
"id": "allow_ordinary_human_mistakes",
"text": "Allow ordinary human mistakes"
},
{
"id": "keep_expectations_mutual",
"text": "Keep expectations mutual"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_026",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which kinds of honesty matter most in ordinary life?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"daily_life",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "saying_what_actually_happened",
"text": "Saying what actually happened"
},
{
"id": "admitting_when_plans_changed",
"text": "Admitting when plans changed"
},
{
"id": "being_clear_about_money_decisions",
"text": "Being clear about money decisions"
},
{
"id": "naming_what_you_do_not_know",
"text": "Naming what you do not know"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "saying_what_actually_happened",
"text": "Saying what actually happened"
},
{
"id": "admitting_when_plans_changed",
"text": "Admitting when plans changed"
},
{
"id": "being_clear_about_money_decisions",
"text": "Being clear about money decisions"
},
{
"id": "naming_what_you_do_not_know",
"text": "Naming what you do not know"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_027",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a difficult truth easier to hear?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"tone",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_calm_tone",
"text": "A calm tone"
},
{
"id": "enough_context",
"text": "Enough context"
},
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
},
{
"id": "no_attempt_to_control_my_reaction",
"text": "No attempt to control my reaction"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_calm_tone",
"text": "A calm tone"
},
{
"id": "enough_context",
"text": "Enough context"
},
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
},
{
"id": "no_attempt_to_control_my_reaction",
"text": "No attempt to control my reaction"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_028",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps openness feel voluntary instead of demanded?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"openness",
"autonomy",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "being_asked_rather_than_interrogated",
"text": "Being asked rather than interrogated"
},
{
"id": "knowing_privacy_is_still_respected",
"text": "Knowing privacy is still respected"
},
{
"id": "having_time_to_answer",
"text": "Having time to answer"
},
{
"id": "no_punishment_for_needing_a_pause",
"text": "No punishment for needing a pause"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "being_asked_rather_than_interrogated",
"text": "Being asked rather than interrogated"
},
{
"id": "knowing_privacy_is_still_respected",
"text": "Knowing privacy is still respected"
},
{
"id": "having_time_to_answer",
"text": "Having time to answer"
},
{
"id": "no_punishment_for_needing_a_pause",
"text": "No punishment for needing a pause"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_029",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you telling me something I may not like?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"current_state",
"honesty",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
}
},
{
"id": "trust_030",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which details are useful when explaining a change of plans?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"context",
"communication",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "what_changed",
"text": "What changed"
},
{
"id": "why_it_matters",
"text": "Why it matters"
},
{
"id": "what_you_already_handled",
"text": "What you already handled"
},
{
"id": "what_still_needs_a_decision",
"text": "What still needs a decision"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "what_changed",
"text": "What changed"
},
{
"id": "why_it_matters",
"text": "Why it matters"
},
{
"id": "what_you_already_handled",
"text": "What you already handled"
},
{
"id": "what_still_needs_a_decision",
"text": "What still needs a decision"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_031",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes an answer feel clear without becoming a full investigation?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"privacy",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_addresses_the_real_question",
"text": "It addresses the real question"
},
{
"id": "it_includes_relevant_context",
"text": "It includes relevant context"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_dodge_obvious_facts",
"text": "It does not dodge obvious facts"
},
{
"id": "it_stops_before_unnecessary_private_detail",
"text": "It stops before unnecessary private detail"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_addresses_the_real_question",
"text": "It addresses the real question"
},
{
"id": "it_includes_relevant_context",
"text": "It includes relevant context"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_dodge_obvious_facts",
"text": "It does not dodge obvious facts"
},
{
"id": "it_stops_before_unnecessary_private_detail",
"text": "It stops before unnecessary private detail"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_032",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Tell me early or tell me once you know for sure?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"timing",
"quick_choice",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "tell_me_early",
"text": "Tell me early"
},
{
"id": "tell_me_once_you_know_for_sure",
"text": "Tell me once you know for sure"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "tell_me_early",
"text": "Tell me early"
},
{
"id": "tell_me_once_you_know_for_sure",
"text": "Tell me once you know for sure"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_033",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we ask follow-up questions without sounding suspicious?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"questions",
"communication",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "explain_what_is_confusing",
"text": "Explain what is confusing"
},
{
"id": "ask_one_thing_at_a_time",
"text": "Ask one thing at a time"
},
{
"id": "keep_the_tone_neutral",
"text": "Keep the tone neutral"
},
{
"id": "accept_that_some_details_may_be_private",
"text": "Accept that some details may be private"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "explain_what_is_confusing",
"text": "Explain what is confusing"
},
{
"id": "ask_one_thing_at_a_time",
"text": "Ask one thing at a time"
},
{
"id": "keep_the_tone_neutral",
"text": "Keep the tone neutral"
},
{
"id": "accept_that_some_details_may_be_private",
"text": "Accept that some details may be private"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_034",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which answer sounds most trustworthy when you are unsure?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"uncertainty",
"honesty",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "i_do_not_know_yet",
"text": "I do not know yet"
},
{
"id": "here_is_what_i_know",
"text": "Here is what I know"
},
{
"id": "i_need_to_check",
"text": "I need to check"
},
{
"id": "i_may_be_remembering_this_wrong",
"text": "I may be remembering this wrong"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_do_not_know_yet",
"text": "I do not know yet"
},
{
"id": "here_is_what_i_know",
"text": "Here is what I know"
},
{
"id": "i_need_to_check",
"text": "I need to check"
},
{
"id": "i_may_be_remembering_this_wrong",
"text": "I may be remembering this wrong"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_035",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should honesty include when a decision affects both of us?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"shared_decisions",
"honesty",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_relevant_facts",
"text": "The relevant facts"
},
{
"id": "the_likely_tradeoffs",
"text": "The likely tradeoffs"
},
{
"id": "what_has_already_been_decided",
"text": "What has already been decided"
},
{
"id": "what_still_needs_both_voices",
"text": "What still needs both voices"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_relevant_facts",
"text": "The relevant facts"
},
{
"id": "the_likely_tradeoffs",
"text": "The likely tradeoffs"
},
{
"id": "what_has_already_been_decided",
"text": "What has already been decided"
},
{
"id": "what_still_needs_both_voices",
"text": "What still needs both voices"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_036",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of honesty from me makes you feel especially respected?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"respect",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "trust_037",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which habits can make normal questions feel unsafe?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"questions",
"warning_signs",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "assuming_guilt_before_the_answer",
"text": "Assuming guilt before the answer"
},
{
"id": "interrupting_repeatedly",
"text": "Interrupting repeatedly"
},
{
"id": "treating_hesitation_as_proof",
"text": "Treating hesitation as proof"
},
{
"id": "using_old_mistakes_to_corner_the_person",
"text": "Using old mistakes to corner the person"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "assuming_guilt_before_the_answer",
"text": "Assuming guilt before the answer"
},
{
"id": "interrupting_repeatedly",
"text": "Interrupting repeatedly"
},
{
"id": "treating_hesitation_as_proof",
"text": "Treating hesitation as proof"
},
{
"id": "using_old_mistakes_to_corner_the_person",
"text": "Using old mistakes to corner the person"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_038",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you trust that I will answer a fair question honestly?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"current_state",
"honesty",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not enough yet",
"max_label": "A great deal"
}
},
{
"id": "trust_039",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes context helpful rather than defensive?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"context",
"communication",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_is_brief",
"text": "It is brief"
},
{
"id": "it_explains_the_decision",
"text": "It explains the decision"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_erase_responsibility",
"text": "It does not erase responsibility"
},
{
"id": "it_leaves_room_for_questions",
"text": "It leaves room for questions"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_is_brief",
"text": "It is brief"
},
{
"id": "it_explains_the_decision",
"text": "It explains the decision"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_erase_responsibility",
"text": "It does not erase responsibility"
},
{
"id": "it_leaves_room_for_questions",
"text": "It leaves room for questions"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_040",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the clearest sign that someone is not hiding behind perfect wording?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"authenticity",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "they_speak_plainly",
"text": "They speak plainly"
},
{
"id": "they_correct_themselves",
"text": "They correct themselves"
},
{
"id": "they_admit_an_awkward_detail",
"text": "They admit an awkward detail"
},
{
"id": "they_do_not_rehearse_every_answer",
"text": "They do not rehearse every answer"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "they_speak_plainly",
"text": "They speak plainly"
},
{
"id": "they_correct_themselves",
"text": "They correct themselves"
},
{
"id": "they_admit_an_awkward_detail",
"text": "They admit an awkward detail"
},
{
"id": "they_do_not_rehearse_every_answer",
"text": "They do not rehearse every answer"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_041",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which responses encourage honesty without rewarding harmful behavior?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"accountability",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "listen_before_deciding_what_happens_next",
"text": "Listen before deciding what happens next"
},
{
"id": "keep_the_response_proportional",
"text": "Keep the response proportional"
},
{
"id": "keep_needed_consequences_separate",
"text": "Keep any needed consequences separate from the honest answer"
},
{
"id": "protect_any_needed_boundary",
"text": "Protect any needed boundary"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "listen_before_deciding_what_happens_next",
"text": "Listen before deciding what happens next"
},
{
"id": "keep_the_response_proportional",
"text": "Keep the response proportional"
},
{
"id": "keep_needed_consequences_separate",
"text": "Keep any needed consequences separate from the honest answer"
},
{
"id": "protect_any_needed_boundary",
"text": "Protect any needed boundary"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_042",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you trust a story that is still incomplete?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"uncertainty",
"context",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "known_facts_are_separated_from_guesses",
"text": "Known facts are separated from guesses"
},
{
"id": "changes_are_shared_promptly",
"text": "Changes are shared promptly"
},
{
"id": "the_person_says_what_they_are_checking",
"text": "The person says what they are checking"
},
{
"id": "there_is_no_pressure_to_pretend_certainty",
"text": "There is no pressure to pretend certainty"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "known_facts_are_separated_from_guesses",
"text": "Known facts are separated from guesses"
},
{
"id": "changes_are_shared_promptly",
"text": "Changes are shared promptly"
},
{
"id": "the_person_says_what_they_are_checking",
"text": "The person says what they are checking"
},
{
"id": "there_is_no_pressure_to_pretend_certainty",
"text": "There is no pressure to pretend certainty"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_043",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does it feel to correct yourself after speaking too quickly?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"current_state",
"mistakes",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe enough",
"max_label": "Very safe"
}
},
{
"id": "trust_044",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which phrases make room for an honest answer?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"questions",
"language",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "what_do_you_remember",
"text": "What do you remember?"
},
{
"id": "what_part_are_you_unsure_about",
"text": "What part are you unsure about?"
},
{
"id": "is_there_context_i_am_missing",
"text": "Is there context I am missing?"
},
{
"id": "do_you_need_a_minute_before_answering",
"text": "Do you need a minute before answering?"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "what_do_you_remember",
"text": "What do you remember?"
},
{
"id": "what_part_are_you_unsure_about",
"text": "What part are you unsure about?"
},
{
"id": "is_there_context_i_am_missing",
"text": "Is there context I am missing?"
},
{
"id": "do_you_need_a_minute_before_answering",
"text": "Do you need a minute before answering?"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_045",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make directness feel caring instead of harsh?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"directness",
"tone",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_respectful_tone",
"text": "A respectful tone"
},
{
"id": "choosing_a_private_moment",
"text": "Choosing a private moment"
},
{
"id": "sticking_to_the_real_issue",
"text": "Sticking to the real issue"
},
{
"id": "not_adding_unnecessary_criticism",
"text": "Not adding unnecessary criticism"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_respectful_tone",
"text": "A respectful tone"
},
{
"id": "choosing_a_private_moment",
"text": "Choosing a private moment"
},
{
"id": "sticking_to_the_real_issue",
"text": "Sticking to the real issue"
},
{
"id": "not_adding_unnecessary_criticism",
"text": "Not adding unnecessary criticism"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_046",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which truth deserves to arrive before the group chat hears it?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"humor",
"honesty",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_changed_family_plan",
"text": "A changed family plan"
},
{
"id": "a_work_decision_affecting_home",
"text": "A work decision affecting home"
},
{
"id": "a_purchase_we_discussed",
"text": "A purchase we discussed"
},
{
"id": "anything_beginning_with_everyone_already_knows",
"text": "Anything beginning with everyone already knows"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_changed_family_plan",
"text": "A changed family plan"
},
{
"id": "a_work_decision_affecting_home",
"text": "A work decision affecting home"
},
{
"id": "a_purchase_we_discussed",
"text": "A purchase we discussed"
},
{
"id": "anything_beginning_with_everyone_already_knows",
"text": "Anything beginning with everyone already knows"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_047",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should never be required as proof of honesty?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"safety",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "passwords",
"text": "Passwords"
},
{
"id": "constant_location_access",
"text": "Constant location access"
},
{
"id": "giving_up_private_conversations",
"text": "Giving up private conversations"
},
{
"id": "answering_while_being_recorded",
"text": "Answering while being recorded"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "passwords",
"text": "Passwords"
},
{
"id": "constant_location_access",
"text": "Constant location access"
},
{
"id": "giving_up_private_conversations",
"text": "Giving up private conversations"
},
{
"id": "answering_while_being_recorded",
"text": "Answering while being recorded"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_048",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs suggest a question is really about reassurance?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"questions",
"reassurance",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_same_fact_is_asked_several_ways",
"text": "The same fact is asked several ways"
},
{
"id": "the_person_wants_to_know_we_are_okay",
"text": "The person wants to know we are okay"
},
{
"id": "the_concern_is_about_what_the_event_means",
"text": "The concern is about what the event means"
},
{
"id": "a_simple_answer_does_not_settle_the_feeling",
"text": "A simple answer does not settle the feeling"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_same_fact_is_asked_several_ways",
"text": "The same fact is asked several ways"
},
{
"id": "the_person_wants_to_know_we_are_okay",
"text": "The person wants to know we are okay"
},
{
"id": "the_concern_is_about_what_the_event_means",
"text": "The concern is about what the event means"
},
{
"id": "a_simple_answer_does_not_settle_the_feeling",
"text": "A simple answer does not settle the feeling"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_049",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can honesty and personal privacy exist at the same time?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"honesty",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "share_what_affects_the_relationship",
"text": "Share what affects the relationship"
},
{
"id": "keep_other_people_s_secrets_private",
"text": "Keep other people's secrets private"
},
{
"id": "allow_personal_thoughts_before_they_are_ready_to_share",
"text": "Allow personal thoughts before they are ready to share"
},
{
"id": "do_not_confuse_access_with_truth",
"text": "Do not confuse access with truth"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "share_what_affects_the_relationship",
"text": "Share what affects the relationship"
},
{
"id": "keep_other_people_s_secrets_private",
"text": "Keep other people's secrets private"
},
{
"id": "allow_personal_thoughts_before_they_are_ready_to_share",
"text": "Allow personal thoughts before they are ready to share"
},
{
"id": "do_not_confuse_access_with_truth",
"text": "Do not confuse access with truth"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_050",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a serious answer feel complete enough for now?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"timing",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_main_question_was_answered",
"text": "The main question was answered"
},
{
"id": "unknowns_were_named",
"text": "Unknowns were named"
},
{
"id": "the_next_update_is_clear",
"text": "The next update is clear"
},
{
"id": "either_person_can_revisit_it_later",
"text": "Either person can revisit it later"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_main_question_was_answered",
"text": "The main question was answered"
},
{
"id": "unknowns_were_named",
"text": "Unknowns were named"
},
{
"id": "the_next_update_is_clear",
"text": "The next update is clear"
},
{
"id": "either_person_can_revisit_it_later",
"text": "Either person can revisit it later"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_051",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which forms of independence can strengthen trust between us?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"independence",
"security",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "separate_friendships",
"text": "Separate friendships"
},
{
"id": "time_alone",
"text": "Time alone"
},
{
"id": "personal_interests",
"text": "Personal interests"
},
{
"id": "making_some_ordinary_decisions_independently",
"text": "Making some ordinary decisions independently"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "separate_friendships",
"text": "Separate friendships"
},
{
"id": "time_alone",
"text": "Time alone"
},
{
"id": "personal_interests",
"text": "Personal interests"
},
{
"id": "making_some_ordinary_decisions_independently",
"text": "Making some ordinary decisions independently"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_052",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes personal space feel secure rather than distant?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"space",
"security",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "we_say_what_we_need",
"text": "We say what we need"
},
{
"id": "the_relationship_still_feels_warm",
"text": "The relationship still feels warm"
},
{
"id": "plans_are_not_hidden",
"text": "Plans are not hidden"
},
{
"id": "we_reconnect_naturally_afterward",
"text": "We reconnect naturally afterward"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_say_what_we_need",
"text": "We say what we need"
},
{
"id": "the_relationship_still_feels_warm",
"text": "The relationship still feels warm"
},
{
"id": "plans_are_not_hidden",
"text": "Plans are not hidden"
},
{
"id": "we_reconnect_naturally_afterward",
"text": "We reconnect naturally afterward"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_053",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we respect each other's privacy?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"current_state",
"privacy",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not well enough",
"max_label": "Very well"
}
},
{
"id": "trust_054",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What belongs in healthy personal privacy?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"autonomy",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "private_thoughts_before_sharing",
"text": "Private thoughts before sharing"
},
{
"id": "conversations_entrusted_by_friends",
"text": "Conversations entrusted by friends"
},
{
"id": "personal_journals",
"text": "Personal journals"
},
{
"id": "ordinary_time_alone",
"text": "Ordinary time alone"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "private_thoughts_before_sharing",
"text": "Private thoughts before sharing"
},
{
"id": "conversations_entrusted_by_friends",
"text": "Conversations entrusted by friends"
},
{
"id": "personal_journals",
"text": "Personal journals"
},
{
"id": "ordinary_time_alone",
"text": "Ordinary time alone"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_055",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Ask for reassurance or take time to settle first?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"quick_choice",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_for_reassurance",
"text": "Ask for reassurance"
},
{
"id": "take_time_to_settle_first",
"text": "Take time to settle first"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_for_reassurance",
"text": "Ask for reassurance"
},
{
"id": "take_time_to_settle_first",
"text": "Take time to settle first"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_056",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show that alone time is not a threat?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"alone_time",
"security",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "plans_are_communicated",
"text": "Plans are communicated"
},
{
"id": "affection_remains_steady",
"text": "Affection remains steady"
},
{
"id": "the_time_is_not_used_as_punishment",
"text": "The time is not used as punishment"
},
{
"id": "both_people_may_ask_for_it",
"text": "Both people may ask for it"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "plans_are_communicated",
"text": "Plans are communicated"
},
{
"id": "affection_remains_steady",
"text": "Affection remains steady"
},
{
"id": "the_time_is_not_used_as_punishment",
"text": "The time is not used as punishment"
},
{
"id": "both_people_may_ask_for_it",
"text": "Both people may ask for it"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_057",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps friendships outside the relationship feel trustworthy?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"friendships",
"independence",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "partners_are_spoken_about_respectfully",
"text": "Partners are spoken about respectfully"
},
{
"id": "relevant_plans_are_shared",
"text": "Relevant plans are shared"
},
{
"id": "normal_privacy_remains_intact",
"text": "Normal privacy remains intact"
},
{
"id": "no_friendship_is_used_to_create_jealousy",
"text": "No friendship is used to create jealousy"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "partners_are_spoken_about_respectfully",
"text": "Partners are spoken about respectfully"
},
{
"id": "relevant_plans_are_shared",
"text": "Relevant plans are shared"
},
{
"id": "normal_privacy_remains_intact",
"text": "Normal privacy remains intact"
},
{
"id": "no_friendship_is_used_to_create_jealousy",
"text": "No friendship is used to create jealousy"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_058",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which sentence best supports independence without sounding detached?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"independence",
"language",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "have_a_good_time",
"text": "Have a good time"
},
{
"id": "i_trust_your_judgment",
"text": "I trust your judgment"
},
{
"id": "tell_me_what_affects_our_plans",
"text": "Tell me what affects our plans"
},
{
"id": "we_can_reconnect_later",
"text": "We can reconnect later"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "have_a_good_time",
"text": "Have a good time"
},
{
"id": "i_trust_your_judgment",
"text": "I trust your judgment"
},
{
"id": "tell_me_what_affects_our_plans",
"text": "Tell me what affects our plans"
},
{
"id": "we_can_reconnect_later",
"text": "We can reconnect later"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_059",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can turn requests for transparency into control?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"control",
"warning_signs",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "demanding_constant_proof",
"text": "Demanding constant proof"
},
{
"id": "treating_privacy_as_guilt",
"text": "Treating privacy as guilt"
},
{
"id": "requiring_access_to_every_conversation",
"text": "Requiring access to every conversation"
},
{
"id": "punishing_time_spent_with_others",
"text": "Punishing time spent with others"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "demanding_constant_proof",
"text": "Demanding constant proof"
},
{
"id": "treating_privacy_as_guilt",
"text": "Treating privacy as guilt"
},
{
"id": "requiring_access_to_every_conversation",
"text": "Requiring access to every conversation"
},
{
"id": "punishing_time_spent_with_others",
"text": "Punishing time spent with others"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_060",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can location sharing stay optional and respectful?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"location",
"privacy",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "use_it_for_practical_convenience",
"text": "Use it for practical convenience"
},
{
"id": "either_person_can_turn_it_off",
"text": "Either person can turn it off"
},
{
"id": "do_not_use_it_to_test_honesty",
"text": "Do not use it to test honesty"
},
{
"id": "ask_directly_instead_of_silently_checking",
"text": "Ask directly instead of silently checking"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "use_it_for_practical_convenience",
"text": "Use it for practical convenience"
},
{
"id": "either_person_can_turn_it_off",
"text": "Either person can turn it off"
},
{
"id": "do_not_use_it_to_test_honesty",
"text": "Do not use it to test honesty"
},
{
"id": "ask_directly_instead_of_silently_checking",
"text": "Ask directly instead of silently checking"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_061",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of independence makes you trust our relationship more?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"independence",
"reflection",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "trust_062",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which personal boundary is easiest to forget in the age of shared devices?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"digital_privacy",
"humor",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_private_search_history",
"text": "A private search history"
},
{
"id": "a_message_preview",
"text": "A message preview"
},
{
"id": "a_personal_note",
"text": "A personal note"
},
{
"id": "the_sacred_right_to_close_seventeen_tabs_without_explanation",
"text": "The sacred right to close seventeen tabs without explanation"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_private_search_history",
"text": "A private search history"
},
{
"id": "a_message_preview",
"text": "A message preview"
},
{
"id": "a_personal_note",
"text": "A personal note"
},
{
"id": "the_sacred_right_to_close_seventeen_tabs_without_explanation",
"text": "The sacred right to close seventeen tabs without explanation"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_063",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should happen when curiosity about a private conversation appears?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"curiosity",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_only_what_affects_the_relationship",
"text": "Ask only what affects the relationship"
},
{
"id": "accept_that_another_person_s_confidence_is_involved",
"text": "Accept that another person's confidence is involved"
},
{
"id": "notice_whether_anxiety_is_driving_the_question",
"text": "Notice whether anxiety is driving the question"
},
{
"id": "do_not_search_for_the_answer_secretly",
"text": "Do not search for the answer secretly"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_only_what_affects_the_relationship",
"text": "Ask only what affects the relationship"
},
{
"id": "accept_that_another_person_s_confidence_is_involved",
"text": "Accept that another person's confidence is involved"
},
{
"id": "notice_whether_anxiety_is_driving_the_question",
"text": "Notice whether anxiety is driving the question"
},
{
"id": "do_not_search_for_the_answer_secretly",
"text": "Do not search for the answer secretly"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_064",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which shared-device habits protect trust?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"digital_privacy",
"devices",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_before_opening_personal_apps",
"text": "Ask before opening personal apps"
},
{
"id": "do_not_read_notifications_on_purpose",
"text": "Do not read notifications on purpose"
},
{
"id": "use_separate_profiles_when_practical",
"text": "Use separate profiles when practical"
},
{
"id": "close_private_work_or_health_information",
"text": "Close private work or health information"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_before_opening_personal_apps",
"text": "Ask before opening personal apps"
},
{
"id": "do_not_read_notifications_on_purpose",
"text": "Do not read notifications on purpose"
},
{
"id": "use_separate_profiles_when_practical",
"text": "Use separate profiles when practical"
},
{
"id": "close_private_work_or_health_information",
"text": "Close private work or health information"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_065",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How secure do you feel when I spend time independently?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"current_state",
"independence",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Often uneasy",
"max_label": "Very secure"
}
},
{
"id": "trust_066",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a private thought different from a harmful secret?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"honesty",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_does_not_affect_shared_decisions",
"text": "It does not affect shared decisions"
},
{
"id": "it_is_not_hiding_harm",
"text": "It is not hiding harm"
},
{
"id": "it_may_simply_need_time",
"text": "It may simply need time"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_require_a_false_story",
"text": "It does not require a false story"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_does_not_affect_shared_decisions",
"text": "It does not affect shared decisions"
},
{
"id": "it_is_not_hiding_harm",
"text": "It is not hiding harm"
},
{
"id": "it_may_simply_need_time",
"text": "It may simply need time"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_require_a_false_story",
"text": "It does not require a false story"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_067",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Share every detail or share what affects us?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"quick_choice",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "share_every_detail",
"text": "Share every detail"
},
{
"id": "share_what_affects_us",
"text": "Share what affects us"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "share_every_detail",
"text": "Share every detail"
},
{
"id": "share_what_affects_us",
"text": "Share what affects us"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_068",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which behaviors can make a partner feel watched?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"monitoring",
"warning_signs",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "repeated_location_checks",
"text": "Repeated location checks"
},
{
"id": "reading_over_their_shoulder",
"text": "Reading over their shoulder"
},
{
"id": "tracking_response_times",
"text": "Tracking response times"
},
{
"id": "questioning_every_change_in_routine",
"text": "Questioning every change in routine"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "repeated_location_checks",
"text": "Repeated location checks"
},
{
"id": "reading_over_their_shoulder",
"text": "Reading over their shoulder"
},
{
"id": "tracking_response_times",
"text": "Tracking response times"
},
{
"id": "questioning_every_change_in_routine",
"text": "Questioning every change in routine"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_069",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the healthiest response to a harmless private interest?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"respect",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "let_it_be_theirs",
"text": "Let it be theirs"
},
{
"id": "ask_with_genuine_curiosity",
"text": "Ask with genuine curiosity"
},
{
"id": "join_only_if_invited",
"text": "Join only if invited"
},
{
"id": "any_of_these_without_making_it_a_loyalty_test",
"text": "Any of these without making it a loyalty test"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "let_it_be_theirs",
"text": "Let it be theirs"
},
{
"id": "ask_with_genuine_curiosity",
"text": "Ask with genuine curiosity"
},
{
"id": "join_only_if_invited",
"text": "Join only if invited"
},
{
"id": "any_of_these_without_making_it_a_loyalty_test",
"text": "Any of these without making it a loyalty test"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_070",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps separate reasonable curiosity from suspicion?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"curiosity",
"self_awareness",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_what_fact_is_actually_needed",
"text": "Ask what fact is actually needed"
},
{
"id": "notice_whether_the_answer_would_change_anything",
"text": "Notice whether the answer would change anything"
},
{
"id": "consider_a_neutral_explanation",
"text": "Consider a neutral explanation"
},
{
"id": "wait_until_the_nervous_system_settles",
"text": "Wait until the nervous system settles"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_what_fact_is_actually_needed",
"text": "Ask what fact is actually needed"
},
{
"id": "notice_whether_the_answer_would_change_anything",
"text": "Notice whether the answer would change anything"
},
{
"id": "consider_a_neutral_explanation",
"text": "Consider a neutral explanation"
},
{
"id": "wait_until_the_nervous_system_settles",
"text": "Wait until the nervous system settles"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_071",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we discuss digital privacy before a problem appears?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"digital_privacy",
"agreements",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "decide_what_devices_are_shared",
"text": "Decide what devices are shared"
},
{
"id": "agree_how_notifications_are_handled",
"text": "Agree how notifications are handled"
},
{
"id": "protect_work_and_third_party_information",
"text": "Protect work and third-party information"
},
{
"id": "make_access_optional_rather_than_symbolic",
"text": "Make access optional rather than symbolic"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "decide_what_devices_are_shared",
"text": "Decide what devices are shared"
},
{
"id": "agree_how_notifications_are_handled",
"text": "Agree how notifications are handled"
},
{
"id": "protect_work_and_third_party_information",
"text": "Protect work and third-party information"
},
{
"id": "make_access_optional_rather_than_symbolic",
"text": "Make access optional rather than symbolic"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_072",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should never be controlled in the name of trust?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"control",
"safety",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "who_a_partner_may_speak_to",
"text": "Who a partner may speak to"
},
{
"id": "whether_they_can_leave_the_house",
"text": "Whether they can leave the house"
},
{
"id": "access_to_their_own_money",
"text": "Access to their own money"
},
{
"id": "their_ability_to_seek_outside_support",
"text": "Their ability to seek outside support"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "who_a_partner_may_speak_to",
"text": "Who a partner may speak to"
},
{
"id": "whether_they_can_leave_the_house",
"text": "Whether they can leave the house"
},
{
"id": "access_to_their_own_money",
"text": "Access to their own money"
},
{
"id": "their_ability_to_seek_outside_support",
"text": "Their ability to seek outside support"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_073",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which agreement makes shared calendars useful without turning them into surveillance?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"calendars",
"privacy",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "share_events_affecting_both_people",
"text": "Share events affecting both people"
},
{
"id": "include_expected_return_times_only_when_useful",
"text": "Include expected return times only when useful"
},
{
"id": "allow_private_personal_blocks",
"text": "Allow private personal blocks"
},
{
"id": "do_not_treat_missing_details_as_evidence",
"text": "Do not treat missing details as evidence"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "share_events_affecting_both_people",
"text": "Share events affecting both people"
},
{
"id": "include_expected_return_times_only_when_useful",
"text": "Include expected return times only when useful"
},
{
"id": "allow_private_personal_blocks",
"text": "Allow private personal blocks"
},
{
"id": "do_not_treat_missing_details_as_evidence",
"text": "Do not treat missing details as evidence"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_074",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What protects trust when one person needs outside advice?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"outside_support",
"independence",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "they_can_choose_a_trusted_person",
"text": "They can choose a trusted person"
},
{
"id": "private_support_not_treated_as_wrongdoing",
"text": "Seeking private support is not treated as wrongdoing"
},
{
"id": "shared_secrets_are_handled_carefully",
"text": "Shared secrets are handled carefully"
},
{
"id": "safety_concerns_may_be_discussed_without_permission",
"text": "Safety concerns may be discussed without permission"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "they_can_choose_a_trusted_person",
"text": "They can choose a trusted person"
},
{
"id": "private_support_not_treated_as_wrongdoing",
"text": "Seeking private support is not treated as wrongdoing"
},
{
"id": "shared_secrets_are_handled_carefully",
"text": "Shared secrets are handled carefully"
},
{
"id": "safety_concerns_may_be_discussed_without_permission",
"text": "Safety concerns may be discussed without permission"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_075",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show that privacy and honesty are working together?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"honesty",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "important_effects_are_disclosed",
"text": "Important effects are disclosed"
},
{
"id": "no_one_is_forced_to_surrender_devices",
"text": "No one is forced to surrender devices"
},
{
"id": "questions_can_be_asked_calmly",
"text": "Questions can be asked calmly"
},
{
"id": "independence_does_not_require_deception",
"text": "Independence does not require deception"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "important_effects_are_disclosed",
"text": "Important effects are disclosed"
},
{
"id": "no_one_is_forced_to_surrender_devices",
"text": "No one is forced to surrender devices"
},
{
"id": "questions_can_be_asked_calmly",
"text": "Questions can be asked calmly"
},
{
"id": "independence_does_not_require_deception",
"text": "Independence does not require deception"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_076",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which decisions show good judgment in everyday life?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"judgment",
"daily_life",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "checking_facts_before_reacting",
"text": "Checking facts before reacting"
},
{
"id": "considering_the_effect_on_both_people",
"text": "Considering the effect on both people"
},
{
"id": "knowing_when_to_ask",
"text": "Knowing when to ask"
},
{
"id": "avoiding_promises_made_under_pressure",
"text": "Avoiding promises made under pressure"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "checking_facts_before_reacting",
"text": "Checking facts before reacting"
},
{
"id": "considering_the_effect_on_both_people",
"text": "Considering the effect on both people"
},
{
"id": "knowing_when_to_ask",
"text": "Knowing when to ask"
},
{
"id": "avoiding_promises_made_under_pressure",
"text": "Avoiding promises made under pressure"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_077",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes you trust me with a shared decision?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"shared_decisions",
"judgment",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "i_include_you_early",
"text": "I include you early"
},
{
"id": "i_explain_the_tradeoffs",
"text": "I explain the tradeoffs"
},
{
"id": "i_do_not_rush_agreement",
"text": "I do not rush agreement"
},
{
"id": "i_can_change_my_mind_with_new_information",
"text": "I can change my mind with new information"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_include_you_early",
"text": "I include you early"
},
{
"id": "i_explain_the_tradeoffs",
"text": "I explain the tradeoffs"
},
{
"id": "i_do_not_rush_agreement",
"text": "I do not rush agreement"
},
{
"id": "i_can_change_my_mind_with_new_information",
"text": "I can change my mind with new information"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_078",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you trust my judgment when plans become complicated?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"current_state",
"judgment",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not enough yet",
"max_label": "A great deal"
}
},
{
"id": "trust_079",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should happen before one person makes a decision affecting both?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"shared_decisions",
"fairness",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "share_the_relevant_facts",
"text": "Share the relevant facts"
},
{
"id": "ask_what_matters_to_the_other_person",
"text": "Ask what matters to the other person"
},
{
"id": "name_any_deadline",
"text": "Name any deadline"
},
{
"id": "leave_room_for_disagreement",
"text": "Leave room for disagreement"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "share_the_relevant_facts",
"text": "Share the relevant facts"
},
{
"id": "ask_what_matters_to_the_other_person",
"text": "Ask what matters to the other person"
},
{
"id": "name_any_deadline",
"text": "Name any deadline"
},
{
"id": "leave_room_for_disagreement",
"text": "Leave room for disagreement"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_080",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which patterns can make shared decisions feel unsafe?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"shared_decisions",
"warning_signs",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "important_facts_arrive_late",
"text": "Important facts arrive late"
},
{
"id": "one_person_presents_a_finished_decision",
"text": "One person presents a finished decision"
},
{
"id": "urgency_is_exaggerated",
"text": "Urgency is exaggerated"
},
{
"id": "disagreement_is_treated_as_disloyalty",
"text": "Disagreement is treated as disloyalty"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "important_facts_arrive_late",
"text": "Important facts arrive late"
},
{
"id": "one_person_presents_a_finished_decision",
"text": "One person presents a finished decision"
},
{
"id": "urgency_is_exaggerated",
"text": "Urgency is exaggerated"
},
{
"id": "disagreement_is_treated_as_disloyalty",
"text": "Disagreement is treated as disloyalty"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_081",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "A careful plan or a clear backup plan?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"planning",
"quick_choice",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_careful_plan",
"text": "A careful plan"
},
{
"id": "a_clear_backup_plan",
"text": "A clear backup plan"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_careful_plan",
"text": "A careful plan"
},
{
"id": "a_clear_backup_plan",
"text": "A clear backup plan"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_082",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the best response after making a poor call?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"mistakes",
"accountability",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "own_it_plainly",
"text": "Own it plainly"
},
{
"id": "fix_what_can_be_fixed",
"text": "Fix what can be fixed"
},
{
"id": "ask_what_effect_it_had",
"text": "Ask what effect it had"
},
{
"id": "change_the_decision_process",
"text": "Change the decision process"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "own_it_plainly",
"text": "Own it plainly"
},
{
"id": "fix_what_can_be_fixed",
"text": "Fix what can be fixed"
},
{
"id": "ask_what_effect_it_had",
"text": "Ask what effect it had"
},
{
"id": "change_the_decision_process",
"text": "Change the decision process"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_083",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which habits make ordinary promises easier to keep?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"promises",
"systems",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "write_them_down",
"text": "Write them down"
},
{
"id": "promise_less",
"text": "Promise less"
},
{
"id": "set_a_realistic_time",
"text": "Set a realistic time"
},
{
"id": "mention_problems_early",
"text": "Mention problems early"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "write_them_down",
"text": "Write them down"
},
{
"id": "promise_less",
"text": "Promise less"
},
{
"id": "set_a_realistic_time",
"text": "Set a realistic time"
},
{
"id": "mention_problems_early",
"text": "Mention problems early"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_084",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we disagree with a decision without attacking judgment?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"disagreement",
"respect",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "name_the_concern",
"text": "Name the concern"
},
{
"id": "separate_the_choice_from_the_person",
"text": "Separate the choice from the person"
},
{
"id": "ask_what_information_was_used",
"text": "Ask what information was used"
},
{
"id": "suggest_another_path",
"text": "Suggest another path"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_the_concern",
"text": "Name the concern"
},
{
"id": "separate_the_choice_from_the_person",
"text": "Separate the choice from the person"
},
{
"id": "ask_what_information_was_used",
"text": "Ask what information was used"
},
{
"id": "suggest_another_path",
"text": "Suggest another path"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_085",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does it feel to question one of my decisions?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"current_state",
"shared_decisions",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe enough",
"max_label": "Very safe"
}
},
{
"id": "trust_086",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes advice feel supportive instead of controlling?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"advice",
"autonomy",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_is_offered_once",
"text": "It is offered once"
},
{
"id": "the_final_choice_remains_mine",
"text": "The final choice remains mine"
},
{
"id": "the_risks_are_explained_honestly",
"text": "The risks are explained honestly"
},
{
"id": "no_punishment_follows_a_different_decision",
"text": "No punishment follows a different decision"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "it_is_offered_once",
"text": "It is offered once"
},
{
"id": "the_final_choice_remains_mine",
"text": "The final choice remains mine"
},
{
"id": "the_risks_are_explained_honestly",
"text": "The risks are explained honestly"
},
{
"id": "no_punishment_follows_a_different_decision",
"text": "No punishment follows a different decision"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_087",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which planning phrase should trigger immediate suspicion?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"humor",
"planning",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "this_will_only_take_five_minutes",
"text": "This will only take five minutes"
},
{
"id": "we_do_not_need_directions",
"text": "We do not need directions"
},
{
"id": "i_remember_the_measurements",
"text": "I remember the measurements"
},
{
"id": "there_is_probably_enough_gas",
"text": "There is probably enough gas"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "this_will_only_take_five_minutes",
"text": "This will only take five minutes"
},
{
"id": "we_do_not_need_directions",
"text": "We do not need directions"
},
{
"id": "i_remember_the_measurements",
"text": "I remember the measurements"
},
{
"id": "there_is_probably_enough_gas",
"text": "There is probably enough gas"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_088",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us trust each other with money decisions?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"money",
"shared_decisions",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "agreed_limits",
"text": "Agreed limits"
},
{
"id": "no_hidden_shared_debt",
"text": "No hidden shared debt"
},
{
"id": "discussion_before_major_purchases",
"text": "Discussion before major purchases"
},
{
"id": "freedom_over_agreed_personal_spending",
"text": "Freedom over agreed personal spending"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "agreed_limits",
"text": "Agreed limits"
},
{
"id": "no_hidden_shared_debt",
"text": "No hidden shared debt"
},
{
"id": "discussion_before_major_purchases",
"text": "Discussion before major purchases"
},
{
"id": "freedom_over_agreed_personal_spending",
"text": "Freedom over agreed personal spending"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_089",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which parts of a commitment should be clear from the beginning?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"commitments",
"clarity",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "what_was_promised",
"text": "What was promised"
},
{
"id": "who_is_responsible",
"text": "Who is responsible"
},
{
"id": "when_it_matters",
"text": "When it matters"
},
{
"id": "what_to_do_if_circumstances_change",
"text": "What to do if circumstances change"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "what_was_promised",
"text": "What was promised"
},
{
"id": "who_is_responsible",
"text": "Who is responsible"
},
{
"id": "when_it_matters",
"text": "When it matters"
},
{
"id": "what_to_do_if_circumstances_change",
"text": "What to do if circumstances change"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_090",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one decision I handled in a way that earned your trust?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"judgment",
"memory",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "trust_091",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a backup plan reassuring rather than pessimistic?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"planning",
"security",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_is_simple",
"text": "It is simple"
},
{
"id": "it_protects_the_important_part",
"text": "It protects the important part"
},
{
"id": "both_people_know_it",
"text": "Both people know it"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_assume_disaster",
"text": "It does not assume disaster"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "it_is_simple",
"text": "It is simple"
},
{
"id": "it_protects_the_important_part",
"text": "It protects the important part"
},
{
"id": "both_people_know_it",
"text": "Both people know it"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_assume_disaster",
"text": "It does not assume disaster"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_092",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What tells you a promise was made too quickly?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"promises",
"awareness",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_details_are_vague",
"text": "The details are vague"
},
{
"id": "the_timing_is_unrealistic",
"text": "The timing is unrealistic"
},
{
"id": "the_person_is_trying_to_end_the_discussion",
"text": "The person is trying to end the discussion"
},
{
"id": "the_promise_depends_on_too_many_unknowns",
"text": "The promise depends on too many unknowns"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "the_details_are_vague",
"text": "The details are vague"
},
{
"id": "the_timing_is_unrealistic",
"text": "The timing is unrealistic"
},
{
"id": "the_person_is_trying_to_end_the_discussion",
"text": "The person is trying to end the discussion"
},
{
"id": "the_promise_depends_on_too_many_unknowns",
"text": "The promise depends on too many unknowns"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_093",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which choices should never be made for a partner without consent?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"autonomy",
"safety",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "leaving_a_job",
"text": "Leaving a job"
},
{
"id": "taking_on_shared_debt",
"text": "Taking on shared debt"
},
{
"id": "sharing_private_information",
"text": "Sharing private information"
},
{
"id": "committing_their_time_to_someone_else",
"text": "Committing their time to someone else"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "leaving_a_job",
"text": "Leaving a job"
},
{
"id": "taking_on_shared_debt",
"text": "Taking on shared debt"
},
{
"id": "sharing_private_information",
"text": "Sharing private information"
},
{
"id": "committing_their_time_to_someone_else",
"text": "Committing their time to someone else"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_094",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How consistently do we include each other in decisions that matter?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"current_state",
"shared_decisions",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not consistently",
"max_label": "Very consistently"
}
},
{
"id": "trust_095",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you trust me during a time-sensitive decision?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"urgency",
"judgment",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "i_explain_the_deadline",
"text": "I explain the deadline"
},
{
"id": "i_separate_facts_from_guesses",
"text": "I separate facts from guesses"
},
{
"id": "i_protect_your_voice_when_possible",
"text": "I protect your voice when possible"
},
{
"id": "i_update_you_afterward",
"text": "I update you afterward"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "i_explain_the_deadline",
"text": "I explain the deadline"
},
{
"id": "i_separate_facts_from_guesses",
"text": "I separate facts from guesses"
},
{
"id": "i_protect_your_voice_when_possible",
"text": "I protect your voice when possible"
},
{
"id": "i_update_you_afterward",
"text": "I update you afterward"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_096",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make practical competence feel untrustworthy?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"competence",
"warning_signs",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "using_skill_to_dismiss_concerns",
"text": "Using skill to dismiss concerns"
},
{
"id": "refusing_to_explain_shared_risks",
"text": "Refusing to explain shared risks"
},
{
"id": "hiding_mistakes_to_look_capable",
"text": "Hiding mistakes to look capable"
},
{
"id": "treating_questions_as_disrespect",
"text": "Treating questions as disrespect"
}
],
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{
"id": "using_skill_to_dismiss_concerns",
"text": "Using skill to dismiss concerns"
},
{
"id": "refusing_to_explain_shared_risks",
"text": "Refusing to explain shared risks"
},
{
"id": "hiding_mistakes_to_look_capable",
"text": "Hiding mistakes to look capable"
},
{
"id": "treating_questions_as_disrespect",
"text": "Treating questions as disrespect"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_097",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which sign best shows that someone can handle responsibility?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"responsibility",
"maturity",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "they_know_their_limits",
"text": "They know their limits"
},
{
"id": "they_ask_for_help_before_a_crisis",
"text": "They ask for help before a crisis"
},
{
"id": "they_correct_errors",
"text": "They correct errors"
},
{
"id": "they_do_not_need_to_appear_flawless",
"text": "They do not need to appear flawless"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "they_know_their_limits",
"text": "They know their limits"
},
{
"id": "they_ask_for_help_before_a_crisis",
"text": "They ask for help before a crisis"
},
{
"id": "they_correct_errors",
"text": "They correct errors"
},
{
"id": "they_do_not_need_to_appear_flawless",
"text": "They do not need to appear flawless"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_098",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which choices deserve a second opinion?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"judgment",
"support",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_major_financial_commitment",
"text": "A major financial commitment"
},
{
"id": "a_serious_health_decision",
"text": "A serious health decision"
},
{
"id": "a_legal_agreement",
"text": "A legal agreement"
},
{
"id": "anything_neither_person_fully_understands",
"text": "Anything neither person fully understands"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "a_major_financial_commitment",
"text": "A major financial commitment"
},
{
"id": "a_serious_health_decision",
"text": "A serious health decision"
},
{
"id": "a_legal_agreement",
"text": "A legal agreement"
},
{
"id": "anything_neither_person_fully_understands",
"text": "Anything neither person fully understands"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_099",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What protects trust when one person's expertise is stronger?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"expertise",
"fairness",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "explain_without_talking_down",
"text": "Explain without talking down"
},
{
"id": "keep_shared_decisions_shared",
"text": "Keep shared decisions shared"
},
{
"id": "welcome_questions",
"text": "Welcome questions"
},
{
"id": "admit_where_expertise_ends",
"text": "Admit where expertise ends"
}
],
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{
"id": "explain_without_talking_down",
"text": "Explain without talking down"
},
{
"id": "keep_shared_decisions_shared",
"text": "Keep shared decisions shared"
},
{
"id": "welcome_questions",
"text": "Welcome questions"
},
{
"id": "admit_where_expertise_ends",
"text": "Admit where expertise ends"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_100",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show that judgment and integrity are working together?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"judgment",
"integrity",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_convenient_answer_is_not_always_chosen",
"text": "The convenient answer is not always chosen"
},
{
"id": "unknowns_are_admitted",
"text": "Unknowns are admitted"
},
{
"id": "other_people_are_considered",
"text": "Other people are considered"
},
{
"id": "the_same_values_apply_when_nobody_is_watching",
"text": "The same values apply when nobody is watching"
}
],
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{
"id": "the_convenient_answer_is_not_always_chosen",
"text": "The convenient answer is not always chosen"
},
{
"id": "unknowns_are_admitted",
"text": "Unknowns are admitted"
},
{
"id": "other_people_are_considered",
"text": "Other people are considered"
},
{
"id": "the_same_values_apply_when_nobody_is_watching",
"text": "The same values apply when nobody is watching"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_101",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes reassurance useful when facts are still uncertain?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"uncertainty",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_names_what_is_known",
"text": "It names what is known"
},
{
"id": "it_avoids_promises_nobody_can_make",
"text": "It avoids promises nobody can make"
},
{
"id": "it_confirms_we_will_face_the_next_step_together",
"text": "It confirms we will face the next step together"
},
{
"id": "it_leaves_room_for_real_feelings",
"text": "It leaves room for real feelings"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "it_names_what_is_known",
"text": "It names what is known"
},
{
"id": "it_avoids_promises_nobody_can_make",
"text": "It avoids promises nobody can make"
},
{
"id": "it_confirms_we_will_face_the_next_step_together",
"text": "It confirms we will face the next step together"
},
{
"id": "it_leaves_room_for_real_feelings",
"text": "It leaves room for real feelings"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_102",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which reassurance feels most believable during a stressful delay?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"stress",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "i_will_update_you_when_i_know_more",
"text": "I will update you when I know more"
},
{
"id": "your_concern_makes_sense",
"text": "Your concern makes sense"
},
{
"id": "here_is_what_i_have_already_done",
"text": "Here is what I have already done"
},
{
"id": "we_do_not_have_to_solve_every_possibility_tonight",
"text": "We do not have to solve every possibility tonight"
}
],
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{
"id": "i_will_update_you_when_i_know_more",
"text": "I will update you when I know more"
},
{
"id": "your_concern_makes_sense",
"text": "Your concern makes sense"
},
{
"id": "here_is_what_i_have_already_done",
"text": "Here is what I have already done"
},
{
"id": "we_do_not_have_to_solve_every_possibility_tonight",
"text": "We do not have to solve every possibility tonight"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_103",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How reassured do you usually feel after asking me a fair question?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"current_state",
"reassurance",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Rarely reassured",
"max_label": "Genuinely reassured"
}
},
{
"id": "trust_104",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we handle uncertainty without treating each other like suspects?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"uncertainty",
"security",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "separate_fear_from_evidence",
"text": "Separate fear from evidence"
},
{
"id": "ask_direct_questions",
"text": "Ask direct questions"
},
{
"id": "avoid_repeated_proof_requests",
"text": "Avoid repeated proof requests"
},
{
"id": "revisit_the_issue_when_more_is_known",
"text": "Revisit the issue when more is known"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "separate_fear_from_evidence",
"text": "Separate fear from evidence"
},
{
"id": "ask_direct_questions",
"text": "Ask direct questions"
},
{
"id": "avoid_repeated_proof_requests",
"text": "Avoid repeated proof requests"
},
{
"id": "revisit_the_issue_when_more_is_known",
"text": "Revisit the issue when more is known"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_105",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which reactions can turn anxiety into a trust problem?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"anxiety",
"warning_signs",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "checking_repeatedly_after_an_answer",
"text": "Checking repeatedly after an answer"
},
{
"id": "demanding_certainty_that_does_not_exist",
"text": "Demanding certainty that does not exist"
},
{
"id": "reading_neutral_behavior_as_guilt",
"text": "Reading neutral behavior as guilt"
},
{
"id": "punishing_the_other_person_for_feeling_calm",
"text": "Punishing the other person for feeling calm"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "checking_repeatedly_after_an_answer",
"text": "Checking repeatedly after an answer"
},
{
"id": "demanding_certainty_that_does_not_exist",
"text": "Demanding certainty that does not exist"
},
{
"id": "reading_neutral_behavior_as_guilt",
"text": "Reading neutral behavior as guilt"
},
{
"id": "punishing_the_other_person_for_feeling_calm",
"text": "Punishing the other person for feeling calm"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_106",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "A reassuring answer or a clear next step?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"quick_choice",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_reassuring_answer",
"text": "A reassuring answer"
},
{
"id": "a_clear_next_step",
"text": "A clear next step"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_reassuring_answer",
"text": "A reassuring answer"
},
{
"id": "a_clear_next_step",
"text": "A clear next step"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_107",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What helps you believe reassurance is not just meant to end the conversation?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"follow_through",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_concern_is_summarized_accurately",
"text": "The concern is summarized accurately"
},
{
"id": "a_next_action_is_named",
"text": "A next action is named"
},
{
"id": "the_person_checks_back_later",
"text": "The person checks back later"
},
{
"id": "the_tone_remains_patient",
"text": "The tone remains patient"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_concern_is_summarized_accurately",
"text": "The concern is summarized accurately"
},
{
"id": "a_next_action_is_named",
"text": "A next action is named"
},
{
"id": "the_person_checks_back_later",
"text": "The person checks back later"
},
{
"id": "the_tone_remains_patient",
"text": "The tone remains patient"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_108",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which ordinary situations may call for reassurance rather than proof?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"daily_life",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_delayed_reply",
"text": "A delayed reply"
},
{
"id": "a_changed_routine",
"text": "A changed routine"
},
{
"id": "a_quiet_mood",
"text": "A quiet mood"
},
{
"id": "an_uncertain_work_situation",
"text": "An uncertain work situation"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_delayed_reply",
"text": "A delayed reply"
},
{
"id": "a_changed_routine",
"text": "A changed routine"
},
{
"id": "a_quiet_mood",
"text": "A quiet mood"
},
{
"id": "an_uncertain_work_situation",
"text": "An uncertain work situation"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_109",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make reassurance become an unhealthy cycle?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"patterns",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_same_answer_never_counts",
"text": "The same answer never counts"
},
{
"id": "one_person_must_constantly_calm_the_other",
"text": "One person must constantly calm the other"
},
{
"id": "personal_privacy_keeps_shrinking",
"text": "Personal privacy keeps shrinking"
},
{
"id": "anxiety_is_treated_as_evidence",
"text": "Anxiety is treated as evidence"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_same_answer_never_counts",
"text": "The same answer never counts"
},
{
"id": "one_person_must_constantly_calm_the_other",
"text": "One person must constantly calm the other"
},
{
"id": "personal_privacy_keeps_shrinking",
"text": "Personal privacy keeps shrinking"
},
{
"id": "anxiety_is_treated_as_evidence",
"text": "Anxiety is treated as evidence"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_110",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us stay trustworthy when other people are involved?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"social_trust",
"relationships",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "keep_shared_confidences_private",
"text": "Keep shared confidences private"
},
{
"id": "correct_disrespectful_assumptions",
"text": "Correct disrespectful assumptions"
},
{
"id": "do_not_recruit_people_into_couple_disagreements",
"text": "Do not recruit people into couple disagreements"
},
{
"id": "share_plans_that_affect_each_other",
"text": "Share plans that affect each other"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "keep_shared_confidences_private",
"text": "Keep shared confidences private"
},
{
"id": "correct_disrespectful_assumptions",
"text": "Correct disrespectful assumptions"
},
{
"id": "do_not_recruit_people_into_couple_disagreements",
"text": "Do not recruit people into couple disagreements"
},
{
"id": "share_plans_that_affect_each_other",
"text": "Share plans that affect each other"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_111",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "written",
"text": "When do you feel most confident that I will protect our relationship in a room I am not in?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"social_trust",
"respect",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "trust_112",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which public behavior builds the most quiet trust?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"social_trust",
"public_behavior",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "speaking_respectfully_about_you",
"text": "Speaking respectfully about you"
},
{
"id": "including_you_in_relevant_decisions",
"text": "Including you in relevant decisions"
},
{
"id": "not_sharing_private_jokes_at_your_expense",
"text": "Not sharing private jokes at your expense"
},
{
"id": "keeping_the_same_values_with_every_audience",
"text": "Keeping the same values with every audience"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "speaking_respectfully_about_you",
"text": "Speaking respectfully about you"
},
{
"id": "including_you_in_relevant_decisions",
"text": "Including you in relevant decisions"
},
{
"id": "not_sharing_private_jokes_at_your_expense",
"text": "Not sharing private jokes at your expense"
},
{
"id": "keeping_the_same_values_with_every_audience",
"text": "Keeping the same values with every audience"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_113",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which social behaviors can make a partner feel exposed?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"social_trust",
"privacy",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "sharing_private_details_for_a_laugh",
"text": "Sharing private details for a laugh"
},
{
"id": "discussing_disagreements_without_care",
"text": "Discussing disagreements without care"
},
{
"id": "letting_others_insult_the_relationship",
"text": "Letting others insult the relationship"
},
{
"id": "posting_before_checking_what_is_private",
"text": "Posting before checking what is private"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sharing_private_details_for_a_laugh",
"text": "Sharing private details for a laugh"
},
{
"id": "discussing_disagreements_without_care",
"text": "Discussing disagreements without care"
},
{
"id": "letting_others_insult_the_relationship",
"text": "Letting others insult the relationship"
},
{
"id": "posting_before_checking_what_is_private",
"text": "Posting before checking what is private"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_114",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps trust when our friends have different opinions about us?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"friendships",
"security",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "listen_without_letting_outsiders_decide",
"text": "Listen without letting outsiders decide"
},
{
"id": "discuss_concerns_directly_with_each_other",
"text": "Discuss concerns directly with each other"
},
{
"id": "keep_private_details_limited",
"text": "Keep private details limited"
},
{
"id": "notice_whether_advice_is_respectful_and_informed",
"text": "Notice whether advice is respectful and informed"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "listen_without_letting_outsiders_decide",
"text": "Listen without letting outsiders decide"
},
{
"id": "discuss_concerns_directly_with_each_other",
"text": "Discuss concerns directly with each other"
},
{
"id": "keep_private_details_limited",
"text": "Keep private details limited"
},
{
"id": "notice_whether_advice_is_respectful_and_informed",
"text": "Notice whether advice is respectful and informed"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_115",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How confident are you that I protect your privacy around other people?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"current_state",
"social_trust",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not confident enough",
"max_label": "Very confident"
}
},
{
"id": "trust_116",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which moments show that we represent each other fairly?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"social_trust",
"fairness",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "we_do_not_exaggerate_each_other_s_flaws",
"text": "We do not exaggerate each other's flaws"
},
{
"id": "we_give_context_when_it_matters",
"text": "We give context when it matters"
},
{
"id": "we_avoid_speaking_for_each_other",
"text": "We avoid speaking for each other"
},
{
"id": "we_correct_a_false_story",
"text": "We correct a false story"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_do_not_exaggerate_each_other_s_flaws",
"text": "We do not exaggerate each other's flaws"
},
{
"id": "we_give_context_when_it_matters",
"text": "We give context when it matters"
},
{
"id": "we_avoid_speaking_for_each_other",
"text": "We avoid speaking for each other"
},
{
"id": "we_correct_a_false_story",
"text": "We correct a false story"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_117",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the best response when someone asks a question that is not theirs to ask?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"social_trust",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "that_is_private",
"text": "That is private"
},
{
"id": "you_would_need_to_ask_them",
"text": "You would need to ask them"
},
{
"id": "i_am_not_sharing_that",
"text": "I am not sharing that"
},
{
"id": "any_clear_answer_without_inventing_details",
"text": "Any clear answer without inventing details"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "that_is_private",
"text": "That is private"
},
{
"id": "you_would_need_to_ask_them",
"text": "You would need to ask them"
},
{
"id": "i_am_not_sharing_that",
"text": "I am not sharing that"
},
{
"id": "any_clear_answer_without_inventing_details",
"text": "Any clear answer without inventing details"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_118",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should happen if outside advice increases suspicion instead of clarity?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"outside_advice",
"uncertainty",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "return_to_known_facts",
"text": "Return to known facts"
},
{
"id": "speak_directly_to_the_partner",
"text": "Speak directly to the partner"
},
{
"id": "consider_the_source_s_motives_and_knowledge",
"text": "Consider the source's motives and knowledge"
},
{
"id": "seek_neutral_support_if_safety_is_a_concern",
"text": "Seek neutral support if safety is a concern"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "return_to_known_facts",
"text": "Return to known facts"
},
{
"id": "speak_directly_to_the_partner",
"text": "Speak directly to the partner"
},
{
"id": "consider_the_source_s_motives_and_knowledge",
"text": "Consider the source's motives and knowledge"
},
{
"id": "seek_neutral_support_if_safety_is_a_concern",
"text": "Seek neutral support if safety is a concern"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_119",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Correct a false impression immediately or address it privately later?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"social_trust",
"quick_choice",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "correct_it_immediately",
"text": "Correct it immediately"
},
{
"id": "address_it_privately_later",
"text": "Address it privately later"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "correct_it_immediately",
"text": "Correct it immediately"
},
{
"id": "address_it_privately_later",
"text": "Address it privately later"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_120",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we discuss jealousy without treating it as proof?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"jealousy",
"communication",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "name_the_feeling",
"text": "Name the feeling"
},
{
"id": "identify_the_specific_trigger",
"text": "Identify the specific trigger"
},
{
"id": "ask_for_reasonable_reassurance",
"text": "Ask for reasonable reassurance"
},
{
"id": "keep_independence_and_privacy_intact",
"text": "Keep independence and privacy intact"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_the_feeling",
"text": "Name the feeling"
},
{
"id": "identify_the_specific_trigger",
"text": "Identify the specific trigger"
},
{
"id": "ask_for_reasonable_reassurance",
"text": "Ask for reasonable reassurance"
},
{
"id": "keep_independence_and_privacy_intact",
"text": "Keep independence and privacy intact"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_121",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which responses protect trust when someone flirts with a partner?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"social_trust",
"boundaries",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_partner_handles_it_clearly",
"text": "The partner handles it clearly"
},
{
"id": "the_couple_discusses_what_happened_honestly",
"text": "The couple discusses what happened honestly"
},
{
"id": "nobody_blames_the_person_who_received_attention",
"text": "Nobody blames the person who received attention"
},
{
"id": "the_response_fits_the_actual_situation",
"text": "The response fits the actual situation"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_partner_handles_it_clearly",
"text": "The partner handles it clearly"
},
{
"id": "the_couple_discusses_what_happened_honestly",
"text": "The couple discusses what happened honestly"
},
{
"id": "nobody_blames_the_person_who_received_attention",
"text": "Nobody blames the person who received attention"
},
{
"id": "the_response_fits_the_actual_situation",
"text": "The response fits the actual situation"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_122",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which loyalty test should be rejected on principle?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"control",
"safety",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "cutting_off_a_harmless_friend",
"text": "Cutting off a harmless friend"
},
{
"id": "handing_over_private_messages",
"text": "Handing over private messages"
},
{
"id": "proving_love_through_public_conflict",
"text": "Proving love through public conflict"
},
{
"id": "any_test_designed_so_only_obedience_passes",
"text": "Any test designed so only obedience passes"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "cutting_off_a_harmless_friend",
"text": "Cutting off a harmless friend"
},
{
"id": "handing_over_private_messages",
"text": "Handing over private messages"
},
{
"id": "proving_love_through_public_conflict",
"text": "Proving love through public conflict"
},
{
"id": "any_test_designed_so_only_obedience_passes",
"text": "Any test designed so only obedience passes"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_123",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us trust each other at separate social events?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"social_events",
"independence",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "basic_plan_information",
"text": "Basic plan information"
},
{
"id": "reasonable_updates_if_timing_changes",
"text": "Reasonable updates if timing changes"
},
{
"id": "freedom_to_enjoy_the_event",
"text": "Freedom to enjoy the event"
},
{
"id": "no_interrogation_afterward",
"text": "No interrogation afterward"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "basic_plan_information",
"text": "Basic plan information"
},
{
"id": "reasonable_updates_if_timing_changes",
"text": "Reasonable updates if timing changes"
},
{
"id": "freedom_to_enjoy_the_event",
"text": "Freedom to enjoy the event"
},
{
"id": "no_interrogation_afterward",
"text": "No interrogation afterward"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_124",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes support from friends compatible with couple trust?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"outside_support",
"privacy",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "friends_are_not_used_as_spies",
"text": "Friends are not used as spies"
},
{
"id": "private_disclosures_are_chosen_carefully",
"text": "Private disclosures are chosen carefully"
},
{
"id": "the_partner_may_seek_support_independently",
"text": "The partner may seek support independently"
},
{
"id": "safety_concerns_are_taken_seriously",
"text": "Safety concerns are taken seriously"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "friends_are_not_used_as_spies",
"text": "Friends are not used as spies"
},
{
"id": "private_disclosures_are_chosen_carefully",
"text": "Private disclosures are chosen carefully"
},
{
"id": "the_partner_may_seek_support_independently",
"text": "The partner may seek support independently"
},
{
"id": "safety_concerns_are_taken_seriously",
"text": "Safety concerns are taken seriously"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_125",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show that reassurance and independence are in balance?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"independence",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "questions_can_be_answered_without_surrendering_privacy",
"text": "Questions can be answered without surrendering privacy"
},
{
"id": "time_apart_does_not_require_constant_contact",
"text": "Time apart does not require constant contact"
},
{
"id": "anxiety_can_be_discussed_without_controlling_behavior",
"text": "Anxiety can be discussed without controlling behavior"
},
{
"id": "both_people_remain_free_to_seek_support",
"text": "Both people remain free to seek support"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "questions_can_be_answered_without_surrendering_privacy",
"text": "Questions can be answered without surrendering privacy"
},
{
"id": "time_apart_does_not_require_constant_contact",
"text": "Time apart does not require constant contact"
},
{
"id": "anxiety_can_be_discussed_without_controlling_behavior",
"text": "Anxiety can be discussed without controlling behavior"
},
{
"id": "both_people_remain_free_to_seek_support",
"text": "Both people remain free to seek support"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_126",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which ordinary signs make a relationship feel secure over time?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"long_term",
"security",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "plans_are_discussed",
"text": "Plans are discussed"
},
{
"id": "private_things_stay_private",
"text": "Private things stay private"
},
{
"id": "both_people_may_disagree",
"text": "Both people may disagree"
},
{
"id": "care_remains_steady_during_busy_weeks",
"text": "Care remains steady during busy weeks"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "plans_are_discussed",
"text": "Plans are discussed"
},
{
"id": "private_things_stay_private",
"text": "Private things stay private"
},
{
"id": "both_people_may_disagree",
"text": "Both people may disagree"
},
{
"id": "care_remains_steady_during_busy_weeks",
"text": "Care remains steady during busy weeks"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_127",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes trust feel strongest when life is calm?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"security",
"daily_life",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "nothing_needs_proving",
"text": "Nothing needs proving"
},
{
"id": "both_people_keep_their_own_lives",
"text": "Both people keep their own lives"
},
{
"id": "questions_can_be_asked_freely",
"text": "Questions can be asked freely"
},
{
"id": "reliability_feels_ordinary",
"text": "Reliability feels ordinary"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "nothing_needs_proving",
"text": "Nothing needs proving"
},
{
"id": "both_people_keep_their_own_lives",
"text": "Both people keep their own lives"
},
{
"id": "questions_can_be_asked_freely",
"text": "Questions can be asked freely"
},
{
"id": "reliability_feels_ordinary",
"text": "Reliability feels ordinary"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_128",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How secure does our relationship feel without constant reassurance?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"current_state",
"security",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not secure enough",
"max_label": "Very secure"
}
},
{
"id": "trust_129",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps trust survive a stressful season?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"stress",
"long_term",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "clear_updates",
"text": "Clear updates"
},
{
"id": "realistic_promises",
"text": "Realistic promises"
},
{
"id": "patience_with_reduced_capacity",
"text": "Patience with reduced capacity"
},
{
"id": "protecting_each_other_s_independence",
"text": "Protecting each other's independence"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "clear_updates",
"text": "Clear updates"
},
{
"id": "realistic_promises",
"text": "Realistic promises"
},
{
"id": "patience_with_reduced_capacity",
"text": "Patience with reduced capacity"
},
{
"id": "protecting_each_other_s_independence",
"text": "Protecting each other's independence"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_130",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which stress reactions can quietly weaken trust?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"stress",
"warning_signs",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "making_major_decisions_alone",
"text": "Making major decisions alone"
},
{
"id": "using_silence_as_punishment",
"text": "Using silence as punishment"
},
{
"id": "hiding_problems_to_avoid_conflict",
"text": "Hiding problems to avoid conflict"
},
{
"id": "treating_exhaustion_as_an_excuse_for_disrespect",
"text": "Treating exhaustion as an excuse for disrespect"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "making_major_decisions_alone",
"text": "Making major decisions alone"
},
{
"id": "using_silence_as_punishment",
"text": "Using silence as punishment"
},
{
"id": "hiding_problems_to_avoid_conflict",
"text": "Hiding problems to avoid conflict"
},
{
"id": "treating_exhaustion_as_an_excuse_for_disrespect",
"text": "Treating exhaustion as an excuse for disrespect"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_131",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Steady routines or frequent check-ins during change?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"change",
"quick_choice",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "steady_routines",
"text": "Steady routines"
},
{
"id": "frequent_check_ins",
"text": "Frequent check-ins"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "steady_routines",
"text": "Steady routines"
},
{
"id": "frequent_check_ins",
"text": "Frequent check-ins"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_132",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a small apology trustworthy?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"apology",
"accountability",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_names_the_actual_mistake",
"text": "It names the actual mistake"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_demand_quick_reassurance",
"text": "It does not demand quick reassurance"
},
{
"id": "the_behavior_changes",
"text": "The behavior changes"
},
{
"id": "the_effect_on_the_other_person_is_acknowledged",
"text": "The effect on the other person is acknowledged"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_names_the_actual_mistake",
"text": "It names the actual mistake"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_demand_quick_reassurance",
"text": "It does not demand quick reassurance"
},
{
"id": "the_behavior_changes",
"text": "The behavior changes"
},
{
"id": "the_effect_on_the_other_person_is_acknowledged",
"text": "The effect on the other person is acknowledged"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_133",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can trust keep growing without either person becoming perfect?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"growth",
"realism",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "admit_mistakes_sooner",
"text": "Admit mistakes sooner"
},
{
"id": "use_better_systems",
"text": "Use better systems"
},
{
"id": "keep_expectations_human",
"text": "Keep expectations human"
},
{
"id": "notice_improvement_over_time",
"text": "Notice improvement over time"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "admit_mistakes_sooner",
"text": "Admit mistakes sooner"
},
{
"id": "use_better_systems",
"text": "Use better systems"
},
{
"id": "keep_expectations_human",
"text": "Keep expectations human"
},
{
"id": "notice_improvement_over_time",
"text": "Notice improvement over time"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_134",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does it feel to depend on me when you genuinely need help?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"current_state",
"dependability",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe enough",
"max_label": "Very safe"
}
},
{
"id": "trust_135",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which future habits would protect everyday trust?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"future",
"habits",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "review_shared_plans",
"text": "Review shared plans"
},
{
"id": "keep_privacy_agreements_current",
"text": "Keep privacy agreements current"
},
{
"id": "discuss_major_changes_early",
"text": "Discuss major changes early"
},
{
"id": "continue_making_room_for_separate_lives",
"text": "Continue making room for separate lives"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "review_shared_plans",
"text": "Review shared plans"
},
{
"id": "keep_privacy_agreements_current",
"text": "Keep privacy agreements current"
},
{
"id": "discuss_major_changes_early",
"text": "Discuss major changes early"
},
{
"id": "continue_making_room_for_separate_lives",
"text": "Continue making room for separate lives"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_136",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When our roles change, what protects mutual trust?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"change",
"roles",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "talk_about_new_expectations",
"text": "Talk about new expectations"
},
{
"id": "do_not_assume_one_person_will_absorb_everything",
"text": "Do not assume one person will absorb everything"
},
{
"id": "keep_financial_and_practical_information_accessible",
"text": "Keep financial and practical information accessible"
},
{
"id": "let_old_agreements_be_revised",
"text": "Let old agreements be revised"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "talk_about_new_expectations",
"text": "Talk about new expectations"
},
{
"id": "do_not_assume_one_person_will_absorb_everything",
"text": "Do not assume one person will absorb everything"
},
{
"id": "keep_financial_and_practical_information_accessible",
"text": "Keep financial and practical information accessible"
},
{
"id": "let_old_agreements_be_revised",
"text": "Let old agreements be revised"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_137",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which sign suggests trust is becoming dependence rather than security?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"dependence",
"warning_signs",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "one_person_cannot_make_ordinary_choices_alone",
"text": "One person cannot make ordinary choices alone"
},
{
"id": "outside_support_is_discouraged",
"text": "Outside support is discouraged"
},
{
"id": "privacy_keeps_shrinking",
"text": "Privacy keeps shrinking"
},
{
"id": "reassurance_must_be_constant",
"text": "Reassurance must be constant"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "one_person_cannot_make_ordinary_choices_alone",
"text": "One person cannot make ordinary choices alone"
},
{
"id": "outside_support_is_discouraged",
"text": "Outside support is discouraged"
},
{
"id": "privacy_keeps_shrinking",
"text": "Privacy keeps shrinking"
},
{
"id": "reassurance_must_be_constant",
"text": "Reassurance must be constant"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_138",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes support dependable during a difficult week?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"support",
"reliability",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_what_actually_helps",
"text": "Ask what actually helps"
},
{
"id": "do_the_agreed_task",
"text": "Do the agreed task"
},
{
"id": "do_not_promise_unlimited_capacity",
"text": "Do not promise unlimited capacity"
},
{
"id": "check_back_after_the_immediate_problem",
"text": "Check back after the immediate problem"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_what_actually_helps",
"text": "Ask what actually helps"
},
{
"id": "do_the_agreed_task",
"text": "Do the agreed task"
},
{
"id": "do_not_promise_unlimited_capacity",
"text": "Do not promise unlimited capacity"
},
{
"id": "check_back_after_the_immediate_problem",
"text": "Check back after the immediate problem"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_139",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which patterns show that trust is being used to avoid accountability?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"accountability",
"warning_signs",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "saying_trust_me_instead_of_answering",
"text": "Saying trust me instead of answering"
},
{
"id": "calling_fair_questions_disloyal",
"text": "Calling fair questions disloyal"
},
{
"id": "using_privacy_to_hide_shared_consequences",
"text": "Using privacy to hide shared consequences"
},
{
"id": "demanding_confidence_without_consistent_behavior",
"text": "Demanding confidence without consistent behavior"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "saying_trust_me_instead_of_answering",
"text": "Saying trust me instead of answering"
},
{
"id": "calling_fair_questions_disloyal",
"text": "Calling fair questions disloyal"
},
{
"id": "using_privacy_to_hide_shared_consequences",
"text": "Using privacy to hide shared consequences"
},
{
"id": "demanding_confidence_without_consistent_behavior",
"text": "Demanding confidence without consistent behavior"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_140",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps mutual trust from becoming mutual avoidance?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"communication",
"long_term",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "raise_concerns_while_they_are_small",
"text": "Raise concerns while they are small"
},
{
"id": "ask_before_making_assumptions",
"text": "Ask before making assumptions"
},
{
"id": "discuss_changes_in_patterns",
"text": "Discuss changes in patterns"
},
{
"id": "allow_honest_disagreement",
"text": "Allow honest disagreement"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "raise_concerns_while_they_are_small",
"text": "Raise concerns while they are small"
},
{
"id": "ask_before_making_assumptions",
"text": "Ask before making assumptions"
},
{
"id": "discuss_changes_in_patterns",
"text": "Discuss changes in patterns"
},
{
"id": "allow_honest_disagreement",
"text": "Allow honest disagreement"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_141",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which long-term trust habit has the least glamorous name but the best results?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"humor",
"long_term",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "updating_the_calendar",
"text": "Updating the calendar"
},
{
"id": "keeping_receipts",
"text": "Keeping receipts"
},
{
"id": "saying_i_forgot",
"text": "Saying I forgot"
},
{
"id": "returning_the_borrowed_charger",
"text": "Returning the borrowed charger"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "updating_the_calendar",
"text": "Updating the calendar"
},
{
"id": "keeping_receipts",
"text": "Keeping receipts"
},
{
"id": "saying_i_forgot",
"text": "Saying I forgot"
},
{
"id": "returning_the_borrowed_charger",
"text": "Returning the borrowed charger"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_142",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should happen when an old insecurity returns?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"insecurity",
"reassurance",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "treat_it_as_a_present_feeling_not_automatic_evidence",
"text": "Treat it as a present feeling, not automatic evidence"
},
{
"id": "ask_for_reasonable_reassurance",
"text": "Ask for reasonable reassurance"
},
{
"id": "keep_current_boundaries_intact",
"text": "Keep current boundaries intact"
},
{
"id": "seek_outside_support_if_the_pattern_feels_overwhelming",
"text": "Seek outside support if the pattern feels overwhelming"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "treat_it_as_a_present_feeling_not_automatic_evidence",
"text": "Treat it as a present feeling, not automatic evidence"
},
{
"id": "ask_for_reasonable_reassurance",
"text": "Ask for reasonable reassurance"
},
{
"id": "keep_current_boundaries_intact",
"text": "Keep current boundaries intact"
},
{
"id": "seek_outside_support_if_the_pattern_feels_overwhelming",
"text": "Seek outside support if the pattern feels overwhelming"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_143",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How confident are you that we can discuss trust without punishing honesty?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"current_state",
"communication",
"trust"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not confident yet",
"max_label": "Very confident"
}
},
{
"id": "trust_144",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which life changes deserve a fresh trust conversation?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"change",
"planning",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_new_job_schedule",
"text": "A new job schedule"
},
{
"id": "a_move",
"text": "A move"
},
{
"id": "a_major_financial_change",
"text": "A major financial change"
},
{
"id": "new_caregiving_responsibilities",
"text": "New caregiving responsibilities"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_new_job_schedule",
"text": "A new job schedule"
},
{
"id": "a_move",
"text": "A move"
},
{
"id": "a_major_financial_change",
"text": "A major financial change"
},
{
"id": "new_caregiving_responsibilities",
"text": "New caregiving responsibilities"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_145",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make trust language feel manipulative?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"language",
"warning_signs",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "trust_me_is_used_to_stop_questions",
"text": "Trust me is used to stop questions"
},
{
"id": "love_is_measured_by_obedience",
"text": "Love is measured by obedience"
},
{
"id": "privacy_is_granted_only_as_a_reward",
"text": "Privacy is granted only as a reward"
},
{
"id": "doubt_is_treated_as_permission_to_control",
"text": "Doubt is treated as permission to control"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "trust_me_is_used_to_stop_questions",
"text": "Trust me is used to stop questions"
},
{
"id": "love_is_measured_by_obedience",
"text": "Love is measured by obedience"
},
{
"id": "privacy_is_granted_only_as_a_reward",
"text": "Privacy is granted only as a reward"
},
{
"id": "doubt_is_treated_as_permission_to_control",
"text": "Doubt is treated as permission to control"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_146",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Trust the pattern or ask about the exception?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"patterns",
"quick_choice",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "trust_the_pattern",
"text": "Trust the pattern"
},
{
"id": "ask_about_the_exception",
"text": "Ask about the exception"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "trust_the_pattern",
"text": "Trust the pattern"
},
{
"id": "ask_about_the_exception",
"text": "Ask about the exception"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_147",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show that our trust is mutual rather than one-sided?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"mutuality",
"security",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "both_people_answer_fair_questions",
"text": "Both people answer fair questions"
},
{
"id": "both_keep_reasonable_privacy",
"text": "Both keep reasonable privacy"
},
{
"id": "both_can_seek_outside_support",
"text": "Both can seek outside support"
},
{
"id": "both_are_accountable_for_shared_effects",
"text": "Both are accountable for shared effects"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "both_people_answer_fair_questions",
"text": "Both people answer fair questions"
},
{
"id": "both_keep_reasonable_privacy",
"text": "Both keep reasonable privacy"
},
{
"id": "both_can_seek_outside_support",
"text": "Both can seek outside support"
},
{
"id": "both_are_accountable_for_shared_effects",
"text": "Both are accountable for shared effects"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_148",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the clearest sign that trust has room to grow?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"growth",
"hope",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "concerns_can_be_named",
"text": "Concerns can be named"
},
{
"id": "neither_person_must_pretend_certainty",
"text": "Neither person must pretend certainty"
},
{
"id": "new_agreements_can_be_tested",
"text": "New agreements can be tested"
},
{
"id": "progress_matters_more_than_performance",
"text": "Progress matters more than performance"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "concerns_can_be_named",
"text": "Concerns can be named"
},
{
"id": "neither_person_must_pretend_certainty",
"text": "Neither person must pretend certainty"
},
{
"id": "new_agreements_can_be_tested",
"text": "New agreements can be tested"
},
{
"id": "progress_matters_more_than_performance",
"text": "Progress matters more than performance"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "trust_149",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should remain possible even in a deeply trusting relationship?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"autonomy",
"safety",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "changing_your_mind",
"text": "Changing your mind"
},
{
"id": "keeping_personal_privacy",
"text": "Keeping personal privacy"
},
{
"id": "disagreeing_about_a_decision",
"text": "Disagreeing about a decision"
},
{
"id": "leaving_any_situation_that_feels_unsafe",
"text": "Leaving any situation that feels unsafe"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "changing_your_mind",
"text": "Changing your mind"
},
{
"id": "keeping_personal_privacy",
"text": "Keeping personal privacy"
},
{
"id": "disagreeing_about_a_decision",
"text": "Disagreeing about a decision"
},
{
"id": "leaving_any_situation_that_feels_unsafe",
"text": "Leaving any situation that feels unsafe"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "trust_150",
"category_id": "trust",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would make everyday trust feel healthy years from now?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"long_term",
"vision",
"trust"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "we_still_speak_plainly",
"text": "We still speak plainly"
},
{
"id": "independence_remains_welcome",
"text": "Independence remains welcome"
},
{
"id": "promises_stay_realistic",
"text": "Promises stay realistic"
},
{
"id": "neither_person_has_to_shrink_to_keep_the_peace",
"text": "Neither person has to shrink to keep the peace"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_still_speak_plainly",
"text": "We still speak plainly"
},
{
"id": "independence_remains_welcome",
"text": "Independence remains welcome"
},
{
"id": "promises_stay_realistic",
"text": "Promises stay realistic"
},
{
"id": "neither_person_has_to_shrink_to_keep_the_peace",
"text": "Neither person has to shrink to keep the peace"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
}
]
}
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