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7444 lines
192 KiB
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{
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"category": {
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"id": "sex_and_desire",
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"display_name": "Sex & Desire",
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"description": "Direct, adult, consent-first questions about feeling sexually wanted, getting turned on, flirting, initiating sex, libido rhythms, mismatched desire, sexual confidence, rejection, communication, and keeping long-term chemistry alive.",
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"access": "mixed",
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"icon_name": "favorite",
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"schema_version": "question_v2",
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"metadata": {
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"total_questions": 150,
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"free_questions": 45,
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"premium_questions": 105,
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"type_counts": {
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"multi_choice": 90,
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"single_choice": 30,
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"scale": 15,
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"this_or_that": 10,
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"written": 5
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},
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"depth_counts": {
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"1": 37,
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"2": 64,
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"3": 49
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},
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"light_depth_questions": 37,
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"light_depth_percentage": 24.7,
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"content_version": "sex_and_desire_spicier_final_v7",
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"review_policy": "Complete 150-question production rebuild validated against the current importer-aligned schema, written-question limit, access targets, true two-option this-or-that contract, and mirrored choice options.",
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"related_pack_boundary": "This pack owns desire dynamics: feeling sexually wanted, arousal, libido, flirting as a desire signal, initiating sex, mismatched sex drives, sexual rejection, sexual confidence, consent communication, and long-term chemistry. Specific acts, positions, toys, oral-sex preferences, kink, and detailed aftercare preferences belong in sexual_preferences; everyday nonsexual touch belongs in physical_intimacy.",
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"final_validation": "pass",
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"adult_language_policy": "Uses clear adult terms such as sex, horny, turned on, libido, arousal, sexual rejection, and sexual chemistry when they make the question more honest. The pack avoids vague euphemisms without drifting into a checklist of specific acts.",
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"spicy_editorial_update": {
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"questions_reworked": 138,
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"focus": "Replaced vague desire language with direct adult wording while keeping the pack centered on desire dynamics rather than sexual activity preferences."
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},
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"batch_review": [
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{
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"batch": 1,
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"first_id": "sex_and_desire_001",
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"last_id": "sex_and_desire_025",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"batch": 2,
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"first_id": "sex_and_desire_026",
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"last_id": "sex_and_desire_050",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"batch": 3,
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"first_id": "sex_and_desire_051",
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"last_id": "sex_and_desire_075",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"batch": 4,
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"first_id": "sex_and_desire_076",
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"last_id": "sex_and_desire_100",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"batch": 5,
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"first_id": "sex_and_desire_101",
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"last_id": "sex_and_desire_125",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"batch": 6,
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"first_id": "sex_and_desire_126",
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"last_id": "sex_and_desire_150",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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}
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],
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"fifty_question_checkpoints": [
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{
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"checkpoint": 1,
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"first_id": "sex_and_desire_001",
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"last_id": "sex_and_desire_050",
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"count": 50,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"checkpoint": 2,
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"first_id": "sex_and_desire_051",
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"last_id": "sex_and_desire_100",
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"count": 50,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"checkpoint": 3,
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"first_id": "sex_and_desire_101",
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"last_id": "sex_and_desire_150",
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"count": 50,
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"status": "PASS"
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}
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],
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"internal_near_duplicate_warnings": 0,
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"cross_pack_near_overlap_warnings": 0,
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"final_review": "Final adult-language and production review completed. Reworked 138 questions to use direct language about sex, arousal, libido, sexual rejection, initiation, and chemistry. Removed the final initiation overlap with sexual_preferences and revalidated schema, counts, consent tags, option fit, uniqueness, pack boundaries, six 25-question batches, and three 50-question checkpoints.",
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"final_editorial_patches": 2
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}
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},
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"questions": [
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{
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"id": "sex_and_desire_001",
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which signal from me makes you feel sexually wanted fastest?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"feeling_wanted",
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"sex_and_desire",
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"fun_first",
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"adult_language",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "saying_i_want_you",
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"text": "Saying I want you"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_look_that_lingers",
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"text": "A look that lingers"
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},
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{
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"id": "initiating_sex_confidently",
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"text": "Initiating sex confidently"
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},
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{
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"id": "making_real_time_for_us",
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"text": "Making real time for us"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "saying_i_want_you",
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"text": "Saying I want you"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_look_that_lingers",
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"text": "A look that lingers"
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},
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{
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"id": "initiating_sex_confidently",
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"text": "Initiating sex confidently"
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},
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{
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"id": "making_real_time_for_us",
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"text": "Making real time for us"
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}
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]
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "sex_and_desire_002",
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What makes sexual attraction feel personal instead of automatic?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"feeling_wanted",
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"sex_and_desire",
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"adult_language",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "naming_exactly_what_attracts_you",
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"text": "Naming exactly what attracts you"
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},
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{
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"id": "remembering_what_makes_you_feel_desired",
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"text": "Remembering what makes you feel desired"
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},
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{
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"id": "wanting_you_on_an_ordinary_day",
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"text": "Wanting you on an ordinary day"
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},
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{
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"id": "showing_sexual_interest_without_demanding_sex",
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"text": "Showing sexual interest without demanding sex"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "naming_exactly_what_attracts_you",
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"text": "Naming exactly what attracts you"
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},
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{
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"id": "remembering_what_makes_you_feel_desired",
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"text": "Remembering what makes you feel desired"
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},
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{
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"id": "wanting_you_on_an_ordinary_day",
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"text": "Wanting you on an ordinary day"
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},
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{
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"id": "showing_sexual_interest_without_demanding_sex",
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"text": "Showing sexual interest without demanding sex"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "sex_and_desire_003",
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
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"type": "scale",
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"text": "How sexually wanted have you felt by me lately?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"feeling_wanted",
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"sex_and_desire",
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"adult_language",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min": 1,
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"max": 5,
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"min_label": "Not much lately",
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"max_label": "Very wanted lately"
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "sex_and_desire_004",
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
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"type": "this_or_that",
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"text": "Feeling pursued or feeling irresistible?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"feeling_wanted",
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"sex_and_desire",
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"fun_first",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "feeling_pursued",
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"text": "Feeling pursued"
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},
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{
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"id": "feeling_irresistible",
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"text": "Feeling irresistible"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "feeling_pursued",
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"text": "Feeling pursued"
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},
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{
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"id": "feeling_irresistible",
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"text": "Feeling irresistible"
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}
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]
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "sex_and_desire_005",
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which ordinary moments can carry real sexual tension for you?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"feeling_wanted",
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"sex_and_desire",
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"fun_first",
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"adult_language",
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"sexual_tension",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_look_that_says_i_want_you",
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"text": "A look that says I want you"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_private_joke_with_an_edge",
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"text": "A private joke with an edge"
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},
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{
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"id": "being_openly_called_sexy",
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"text": "Being openly called sexy"
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},
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{
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"id": "knowing_we_may_have_sex_later",
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"text": "Knowing we may have sex later"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_look_that_says_i_want_you",
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"text": "A look that says I want you"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_private_joke_with_an_edge",
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"text": "A private joke with an edge"
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},
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{
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"id": "being_openly_called_sexy",
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"text": "Being openly called sexy"
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},
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{
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"id": "knowing_we_may_have_sex_later",
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"text": "Knowing we may have sex later"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "sex_and_desire_006",
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "When do you feel most sexually chosen by me?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"feeling_wanted",
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"sex_and_desire",
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"adult_language",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "when_i_initiate_sex",
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"text": "When I initiate sex"
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},
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{
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"id": "when_i_protect_time_for_us",
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"text": "When I protect time for us"
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},
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{
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"id": "when_i_notice_whether_you_are_in_the_mood",
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"text": "When I notice whether you are in the mood"
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},
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{
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"id": "when_i_keep_flirting_without_expecting_sex",
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"text": "When I keep flirting without expecting sex"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "when_i_initiate_sex",
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"text": "When I initiate sex"
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},
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{
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"id": "when_i_protect_time_for_us",
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"text": "When I protect time for us"
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},
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{
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"id": "when_i_notice_whether_you_are_in_the_mood",
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"text": "When I notice whether you are in the mood"
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},
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{
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"id": "when_i_keep_flirting_without_expecting_sex",
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"text": "When I keep flirting without expecting sex"
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}
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]
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "sex_and_desire_007",
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What can quietly drain the feeling of being sexually desired?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"feeling_wanted",
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"sex_and_desire",
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"gentle_depth",
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"adult_language",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "being_taken_for_granted",
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"text": "Being taken for granted"
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},
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{
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"id": "only_being_approached_when_sex_is_wanted",
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"text": "Only being approached when sex is wanted"
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},
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{
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"id": "every_affectionate_touch_becoming_a_sexual_move",
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"text": "Every affectionate touch becoming a sexual move"
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},
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{
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"id": "never_hearing_what_turns_me_on_about_you",
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"text": "Never hearing what turns me on about you"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "being_taken_for_granted",
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"text": "Being taken for granted"
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},
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{
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"id": "only_being_approached_when_sex_is_wanted",
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"text": "Only being approached when sex is wanted"
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},
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{
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"id": "every_affectionate_touch_becoming_a_sexual_move",
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"text": "Every affectionate touch becoming a sexual move"
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},
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{
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"id": "never_hearing_what_turns_me_on_about_you",
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"text": "Never hearing what turns me on about you"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "sex_and_desire_008",
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which kinds of attention make you feel sexy without putting you on the spot?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"feeling_wanted",
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"sex_and_desire",
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"adult_language",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_direct_private_compliment",
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"text": "A direct private compliment"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_look_that_clearly_wants_me",
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"text": "A look that clearly wants me"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_suggestive_message",
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"text": "A suggestive message"
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},
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{
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"id": "room_to_respond_without_matching_the_mood",
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"text": "Room to respond without matching the mood"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_direct_private_compliment",
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"text": "A direct private compliment"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_look_that_clearly_wants_me",
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"text": "A look that clearly wants me"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_suggestive_message",
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"text": "A suggestive message"
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},
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{
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"id": "room_to_respond_without_matching_the_mood",
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"text": "Room to respond without matching the mood"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "sex_and_desire_009",
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "What makes my sexual desire for you feel believable?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"feeling_wanted",
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"sex_and_desire",
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"adult_language",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "wanting_you_consistently",
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"text": "Wanting you consistently"
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},
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{
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"id": "saying_it_clearly",
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"text": "Saying it clearly"
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},
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{
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"id": "showing_confident_sexual_interest",
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"text": "Showing confident sexual interest"
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},
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{
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"id": "making_real_time_for_sex_and_closeness",
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"text": "Making real time for sex and closeness"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "wanting_you_consistently",
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"text": "Wanting you consistently"
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},
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{
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"id": "saying_it_clearly",
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"text": "Saying it clearly"
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},
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{
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"id": "showing_confident_sexual_interest",
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"text": "Showing confident sexual interest"
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},
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{
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"id": "making_real_time_for_sex_and_closeness",
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"text": "Making real time for sex and closeness"
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}
|
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]
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_010",
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "What helps you enjoy attention without wondering what comes next?",
|
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"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
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"feeling_wanted",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
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"gentle_depth",
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"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure_to_match_the_mood",
|
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"text": "No pressure to match the mood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_chance_to_decline",
|
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"text": "A clear chance to decline"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_that_can_stay_affectionate",
|
|
"text": "Affection that can stay affectionate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trust_that_disappointment_will_be_handled_well",
|
|
"text": "Trust that disappointment will be handled well"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure_to_match_the_mood",
|
|
"text": "No pressure to match the mood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_chance_to_decline",
|
|
"text": "A clear chance to decline"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_that_can_stay_affectionate",
|
|
"text": "Affection that can stay affectionate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trust_that_disappointment_will_be_handled_well",
|
|
"text": "Trust that disappointment will be handled well"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_011",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which feelings most often open the door to wanting sex?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"feeling_wanted",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_sexually_wanted",
|
|
"text": "Feeling sexually wanted"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_relaxed",
|
|
"text": "Feeling relaxed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_emotionally_close",
|
|
"text": "Feeling emotionally close"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_playful_and_horny",
|
|
"text": "Feeling playful and horny"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_sexually_wanted",
|
|
"text": "Feeling sexually wanted"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_relaxed",
|
|
"text": "Feeling relaxed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_emotionally_close",
|
|
"text": "Feeling emotionally close"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_playful_and_horny",
|
|
"text": "Feeling playful and horny"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_012",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make our sexual chemistry feel less assumed and more alive?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"feeling_wanted",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_chemistry",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_direct_sexual_compliments",
|
|
"text": "More direct sexual compliments"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_buildup_during_the_day",
|
|
"text": "More buildup during the day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_protected_time_for_sex",
|
|
"text": "More protected time for sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_curiosity_about_what_turns_us_on_now",
|
|
"text": "More curiosity about what turns us on now"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_direct_sexual_compliments",
|
|
"text": "More direct sexual compliments"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_buildup_during_the_day",
|
|
"text": "More buildup during the day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_protected_time_for_sex",
|
|
"text": "More protected time for sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_curiosity_about_what_turns_us_on_now",
|
|
"text": "More curiosity about what turns us on now"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_013",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which compliments land best when you want to feel sexually desired?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"feeling_wanted",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_praise",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_look_fucking_hot",
|
|
"text": "You look fucking hot"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_love_your_confidence",
|
|
"text": "I love your confidence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_way_you_move_turns_me_on",
|
|
"text": "The way you move turns me on"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "something_only_i_would_notice",
|
|
"text": "Something only I would notice"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_look_fucking_hot",
|
|
"text": "You look fucking hot"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_love_your_confidence",
|
|
"text": "I love your confidence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_way_you_move_turns_me_on",
|
|
"text": "The way you move turns me on"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "something_only_i_would_notice",
|
|
"text": "Something only I would notice"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_014",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What have I said or done that made you feel instantly sexually wanted?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"feeling_wanted",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_015",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What tells you my attraction is about the real you, not just access to sex?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"feeling_wanted",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_want_you_on_ordinary_days",
|
|
"text": "I want you on ordinary days"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_respect_your_pace",
|
|
"text": "I respect your pace"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_stay_curious_about_your_desire",
|
|
"text": "I stay curious about your desire"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_show_interest_without_demanding_a_response",
|
|
"text": "I show interest without demanding a response"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_want_you_on_ordinary_days",
|
|
"text": "I want you on ordinary days"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_respect_your_pace",
|
|
"text": "I respect your pace"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_stay_curious_about_your_desire",
|
|
"text": "I stay curious about your desire"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_show_interest_without_demanding_a_response",
|
|
"text": "I show interest without demanding a response"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_016",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of sexual flirting still works on a busy day?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirting",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_look_across_the_room",
|
|
"text": "A look across the room"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_text_saying_i_want_you_later",
|
|
"text": "A text saying I want you later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_bold_sexual_compliment",
|
|
"text": "A bold sexual compliment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_promise_of_private_time",
|
|
"text": "A promise of private time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_look_across_the_room",
|
|
"text": "A look across the room"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_text_saying_i_want_you_later",
|
|
"text": "A text saying I want you later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_bold_sexual_compliment",
|
|
"text": "A bold sexual compliment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_promise_of_private_time",
|
|
"text": "A promise of private time"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_017",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What gives sexual flirting the best chance of landing?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirting",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "good_timing",
|
|
"text": "Good timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_confident_tone",
|
|
"text": "A confident tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_expectation_of_sex",
|
|
"text": "No expectation of sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_connected_first",
|
|
"text": "Feeling connected first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "good_timing",
|
|
"text": "Good timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_confident_tone",
|
|
"text": "A confident tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_expectation_of_sex",
|
|
"text": "No expectation of sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_connected_first",
|
|
"text": "Feeling connected first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_018",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Slow sexual buildup or obvious desire?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirting",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slow_sexual_buildup",
|
|
"text": "Slow sexual buildup"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "obvious_desire",
|
|
"text": "Obvious desire"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slow_sexual_buildup",
|
|
"text": "Slow sexual buildup"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "obvious_desire",
|
|
"text": "Obvious desire"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_019",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes sexual anticipation fun instead of distracting?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirting",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_tension",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_it_suggestive",
|
|
"text": "Keeping it suggestive"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_plans_can_change",
|
|
"text": "Knowing plans can change"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_real_privacy_later",
|
|
"text": "Having real privacy later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_of_us_feeding_the_tension",
|
|
"text": "Both of us feeding the tension"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_it_suggestive",
|
|
"text": "Keeping it suggestive"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_plans_can_change",
|
|
"text": "Knowing plans can change"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_real_privacy_later",
|
|
"text": "Having real privacy later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_of_us_feeding_the_tension",
|
|
"text": "Both of us feeding the tension"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_020",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which old sexual-flirting habits are worth bringing back?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirting",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "dirty_jokes_only_we_understand",
|
|
"text": "Dirty jokes only we understand"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "specific_sexual_compliments",
|
|
"text": "Specific sexual compliments"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "messages_that_build_sexual_tension",
|
|
"text": "Messages that build sexual tension"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_it_obvious_we_want_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Making it obvious we want each other"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "dirty_jokes_only_we_understand",
|
|
"text": "Dirty jokes only we understand"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "specific_sexual_compliments",
|
|
"text": "Specific sexual compliments"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "messages_that_build_sexual_tension",
|
|
"text": "Messages that build sexual tension"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_it_obvious_we_want_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Making it obvious we want each other"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_021",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can be missing when flirting falls flat?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirting",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "timing",
|
|
"text": "Timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "confidence",
|
|
"text": "Confidence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "emotional_connection",
|
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"text": "Emotional connection"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "timing",
|
|
"text": "Timing"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "confidence",
|
|
"text": "Confidence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "emotional_connection",
|
|
"text": "Emotional connection"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_022",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
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"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should our sexual flirting do more often?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirting",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "make_us_laugh",
|
|
"text": "Make us laugh"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "build_sexual_tension",
|
|
"text": "Build sexual tension"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "say_desire_clearly",
|
|
"text": "Say desire clearly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "make_us_feel_like_lovers_not_roommates",
|
|
"text": "Make us feel like lovers, not roommates"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "make_us_laugh",
|
|
"text": "Make us laugh"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "build_sexual_tension",
|
|
"text": "Build sexual tension"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "say_desire_clearly",
|
|
"text": "Say desire clearly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "make_us_feel_like_lovers_not_roommates",
|
|
"text": "Make us feel like lovers, not roommates"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_023",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which forms of anticipation make you want sex more?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirting",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_suggestive_message",
|
|
"text": "A suggestive message"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_we_protected_time",
|
|
"text": "Knowing we protected time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_blunt_i_want_you",
|
|
"text": "A blunt I want you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_unexpected_sexual_tone",
|
|
"text": "An unexpected sexual tone"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_suggestive_message",
|
|
"text": "A suggestive message"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_we_protected_time",
|
|
"text": "Knowing we protected time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_blunt_i_want_you",
|
|
"text": "A blunt I want you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_unexpected_sexual_tone",
|
|
"text": "An unexpected sexual tone"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_024",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What keeps flirting from turning into an obligation?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirting",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_it_stay_just_flirting",
|
|
"text": "Letting it stay just flirting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_treating_it_like_a_promise",
|
|
"text": "Not treating it like a promise"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respecting_a_changed_mood",
|
|
"text": "Respecting a changed mood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "enjoying_the_response_without_pushing",
|
|
"text": "Enjoying the response without pushing"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_it_stay_just_flirting",
|
|
"text": "Letting it stay just flirting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_treating_it_like_a_promise",
|
|
"text": "Not treating it like a promise"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respecting_a_changed_mood",
|
|
"text": "Respecting a changed mood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "enjoying_the_response_without_pushing",
|
|
"text": "Enjoying the response without pushing"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_025",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much sexual flirting do you want between times we have sex?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirting",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Very little",
|
|
"max_label": "A lot"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_026",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes playful tension grow without feeling forced?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirting",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_it_happen_naturally",
|
|
"text": "Letting it happen naturally"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_little_mystery",
|
|
"text": "A little mystery"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_easy_way_to_change_the_subject",
|
|
"text": "An easy way to change the subject"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_either_person_can_slow_it_down",
|
|
"text": "Knowing either person can slow it down"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_it_happen_naturally",
|
|
"text": "Letting it happen naturally"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_little_mystery",
|
|
"text": "A little mystery"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_easy_way_to_change_the_subject",
|
|
"text": "An easy way to change the subject"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_either_person_can_slow_it_down",
|
|
"text": "Knowing either person can slow it down"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_027",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which sexual-flirting surprise would feel most like us?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirting",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_blunt_i_want_you_text",
|
|
"text": "A blunt I want you text"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_whispered_sexual_compliment",
|
|
"text": "A whispered sexual compliment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protected_time_with_no_guaranteed_outcome",
|
|
"text": "Protected time with no guaranteed outcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_look_that_makes_the_point",
|
|
"text": "A look that makes the point"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_blunt_i_want_you_text",
|
|
"text": "A blunt I want you text"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_whispered_sexual_compliment",
|
|
"text": "A whispered sexual compliment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protected_time_with_no_guaranteed_outcome",
|
|
"text": "Protected time with no guaranteed outcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_look_that_makes_the_point",
|
|
"text": "A look that makes the point"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_028",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What turns a normal evening into a sexually charged one?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirting",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_tension",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "better_lighting",
|
|
"text": "Better lighting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "music_with_an_edge",
|
|
"text": "Music with an edge"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "putting_phones_away",
|
|
"text": "Putting phones away"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_of_us_clearly_initiating",
|
|
"text": "One of us clearly initiating"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "better_lighting",
|
|
"text": "Better lighting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "music_with_an_edge",
|
|
"text": "Music with an edge"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "putting_phones_away",
|
|
"text": "Putting phones away"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_of_us_clearly_initiating",
|
|
"text": "One of us clearly initiating"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_029",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "Which old flirtation of ours still makes you smile?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirting",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_030",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make talking about desire feel less clinical and more sexy?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"flirting",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "start_with_what_already_turns_us_on",
|
|
"text": "Start with what already turns us on"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_plain_adult_words",
|
|
"text": "Use plain adult words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_the_first_question_small",
|
|
"text": "Keep the first question small"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leave_room_to_laugh",
|
|
"text": "Leave room to laugh"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "start_with_what_already_turns_us_on",
|
|
"text": "Start with what already turns us on"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_plain_adult_words",
|
|
"text": "Use plain adult words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_the_first_question_small",
|
|
"text": "Keep the first question small"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leave_room_to_laugh",
|
|
"text": "Leave room to laugh"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_031",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which way of initiating sex feels most natural to you?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"initiation",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_directly_if_i_want_sex",
|
|
"text": "Ask directly if I want sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "build_sexual_tension_first",
|
|
"text": "Build sexual tension first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_a_playful_invitation",
|
|
"text": "Use a playful invitation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plan_private_time_earlier",
|
|
"text": "Plan private time earlier"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_directly_if_i_want_sex",
|
|
"text": "Ask directly if I want sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "build_sexual_tension_first",
|
|
"text": "Build sexual tension first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_a_playful_invitation",
|
|
"text": "Use a playful invitation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plan_private_time_earlier",
|
|
"text": "Plan private time earlier"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_032",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes an invitation to sex confident without feeling pushy?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"initiation",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_sexual_interest",
|
|
"text": "Clear sexual interest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_relaxed_tone",
|
|
"text": "A relaxed tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "room_for_any_answer",
|
|
"text": "Room for any answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_sulking_if_the_answer_is_no",
|
|
"text": "No sulking if the answer is no"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_sexual_interest",
|
|
"text": "Clear sexual interest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_relaxed_tone",
|
|
"text": "A relaxed tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "room_for_any_answer",
|
|
"text": "Room for any answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_sulking_if_the_answer_is_no",
|
|
"text": "No sulking if the answer is no"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_033",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Ask for sex directly or build the mood first?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"initiation",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_for_sex_directly",
|
|
"text": "Ask for sex directly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "build_the_mood_first",
|
|
"text": "Build the mood first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_for_sex_directly",
|
|
"text": "Ask for sex directly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "build_the_mood_first",
|
|
"text": "Build the mood first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "sex_and_desire_034",
|
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which moments make initiating sex easier for you?",
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"depth": 1,
|
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"access": "free",
|
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"tags": [
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"initiation",
|
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"sex_and_desire",
|
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"fun_first",
|
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"consent_first",
|
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"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_we_reconnect",
|
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"text": "After we reconnect"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "before_we_are_exhausted",
|
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"text": "Before we are exhausted"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "when_privacy_is_protected",
|
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"text": "When privacy is protected"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "when_the_day_already_feels_flirty",
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"text": "When the day already feels flirty"
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}
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_we_reconnect",
|
|
"text": "After we reconnect"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "before_we_are_exhausted",
|
|
"text": "Before we are exhausted"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "when_privacy_is_protected",
|
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"text": "When privacy is protected"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "when_the_day_already_feels_flirty",
|
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"text": "When the day already feels flirty"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_035",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can make initiating sex feel awkward?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"initiation",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bad_timing",
|
|
"text": "Bad timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_much_guessing",
|
|
"text": "Too much guessing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_rushed",
|
|
"text": "Feeling rushed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "worrying_that_no_will_become_a_conflict",
|
|
"text": "Worrying that no will become a conflict"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bad_timing",
|
|
"text": "Bad timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_much_guessing",
|
|
"text": "Too much guessing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_rushed",
|
|
"text": "Feeling rushed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "worrying_that_no_will_become_a_conflict",
|
|
"text": "Worrying that no will become a conflict"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_036",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a rain check after a sexual invitation feel sincere?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"initiation",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_rejection"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_answer",
|
|
"text": "A clear answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance_that_attraction_is_still_there",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance that attraction is still there"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "suggesting_another_time_if_that_feels_honest",
|
|
"text": "Suggesting another time if that feels honest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "staying_warm_instead_of_distant",
|
|
"text": "Staying warm instead of distant"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_answer",
|
|
"text": "A clear answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance_that_attraction_is_still_there",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance that attraction is still there"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "suggesting_another_time_if_that_feels_honest",
|
|
"text": "Suggesting another time if that feels honest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "staying_warm_instead_of_distant",
|
|
"text": "Staying warm instead of distant"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_037",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which initiation style gives you the easiest honest choice?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"initiation",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_direct_question_with_no_buildup",
|
|
"text": "A direct question with no buildup"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "flirting_followed_by_a_clear_question",
|
|
"text": "Flirting followed by a clear question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_plan_discussed_earlier",
|
|
"text": "A plan discussed earlier"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_me_initiate_when_i_want_sex",
|
|
"text": "Letting me initiate when I want sex"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_direct_question_with_no_buildup",
|
|
"text": "A direct question with no buildup"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "flirting_followed_by_a_clear_question",
|
|
"text": "Flirting followed by a clear question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_plan_discussed_earlier",
|
|
"text": "A plan discussed earlier"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_me_initiate_when_i_want_sex",
|
|
"text": "Letting me initiate when I want sex"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_038",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps when a plan to have sex changes?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"initiation",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_rejection"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_it_is_not_a_verdict_on_attraction",
|
|
"text": "Knowing it is not a verdict on attraction"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_warm_rain_check",
|
|
"text": "A warm rain check"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "staying_connected",
|
|
"text": "Staying connected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_another_plan_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Making another plan without pressure"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_it_is_not_a_verdict_on_attraction",
|
|
"text": "Knowing it is not a verdict on attraction"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_warm_rain_check",
|
|
"text": "A warm rain check"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "staying_connected",
|
|
"text": "Staying connected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_another_plan_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Making another plan without pressure"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_039",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signs show an invitation to sex is not entitlement?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"initiation",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_answer_is_welcomed",
|
|
"text": "Either answer is welcomed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_approach_fits_your_mood",
|
|
"text": "The approach fits your mood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "declining_does_not_change_how_you_are_treated",
|
|
"text": "Declining does not change how you are treated"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_comfort_matters_more_than_having_sex",
|
|
"text": "Your comfort matters more than having sex"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_answer_is_welcomed",
|
|
"text": "Either answer is welcomed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_approach_fits_your_mood",
|
|
"text": "The approach fits your mood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "declining_does_not_change_how_you_are_treated",
|
|
"text": "Declining does not change how you are treated"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_comfort_matters_more_than_having_sex",
|
|
"text": "Your comfort matters more than having sex"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_040",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How easy is it for you to initiate sex with me?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"initiation",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Very difficult",
|
|
"max_label": "Very easy"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_041",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would help us share sexual initiation more naturally?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"initiation",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_turns_sometimes",
|
|
"text": "Taking turns sometimes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_when_we_are_horny",
|
|
"text": "Saying when we are horny"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "planning_time_for_sex",
|
|
"text": "Planning time for sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_keeping_score",
|
|
"text": "Not keeping score"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_turns_sometimes",
|
|
"text": "Taking turns sometimes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_when_we_are_horny",
|
|
"text": "Saying when we are horny"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "planning_time_for_sex",
|
|
"text": "Planning time for sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_keeping_score",
|
|
"text": "Not keeping score"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_042",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "When an invitation to sex lands well, what matters most?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"initiation",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "timing",
|
|
"text": "Timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tone",
|
|
"text": "Tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_sexually_wanted_first",
|
|
"text": "Feeling sexually wanted first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "timing",
|
|
"text": "Timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tone",
|
|
"text": "Tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_sexually_wanted_first",
|
|
"text": "Feeling sexually wanted first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_043",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which low-pressure first moves feel sexy even if sex does not follow?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"initiation",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_long_look",
|
|
"text": "A long look"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_i_want_you",
|
|
"text": "Saying I want you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_close_with_obvious_tension",
|
|
"text": "Sitting close with obvious tension"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_playful_sexual_question",
|
|
"text": "A playful sexual question"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_long_look",
|
|
"text": "A long look"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_i_want_you",
|
|
"text": "Saying I want you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_close_with_obvious_tension",
|
|
"text": "Sitting close with obvious tension"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_playful_sexual_question",
|
|
"text": "A playful sexual question"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_044",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one invitation to sex from me you would gladly hear again?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"initiation",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_045",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should happen after either person changes their mind about sex?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"initiation",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_change_is_accepted_immediately",
|
|
"text": "The change is accepted immediately"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_mood_stays_respectful",
|
|
"text": "The mood stays respectful"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_explanation_is_demanded",
|
|
"text": "No explanation is demanded"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "closeness_can_continue_only_if_both_want_it",
|
|
"text": "Closeness can continue only if both want it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_change_is_accepted_immediately",
|
|
"text": "The change is accepted immediately"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_mood_stays_respectful",
|
|
"text": "The mood stays respectful"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_explanation_is_demanded",
|
|
"text": "No explanation is demanded"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "closeness_can_continue_only_if_both_want_it",
|
|
"text": "Closeness can continue only if both want it"
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_046",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which conditions make it easier for you to want sex?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_rhythm",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_rested",
|
|
"text": "Feeling rested"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_emotionally_connected",
|
|
"text": "Feeling emotionally connected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_privacy",
|
|
"text": "Having privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_time_to_get_turned_on",
|
|
"text": "Having time to get turned on"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_rested",
|
|
"text": "Feeling rested"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_emotionally_connected",
|
|
"text": "Feeling emotionally connected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_privacy",
|
|
"text": "Having privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_time_to_get_turned_on",
|
|
"text": "Having time to get turned on"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_047",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "How do you usually get turned on?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_rhythm",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"responsive_desire",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_get_horny_spontaneously",
|
|
"text": "I get horny spontaneously"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "desire_grows_after_closeness_starts",
|
|
"text": "Desire grows after closeness starts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "emotional_connection_comes_first",
|
|
"text": "Emotional connection comes first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_changes_from_day_to_day",
|
|
"text": "It changes from day to day"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_get_horny_spontaneously",
|
|
"text": "I get horny spontaneously"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "desire_grows_after_closeness_starts",
|
|
"text": "Desire grows after closeness starts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "emotional_connection_comes_first",
|
|
"text": "Emotional connection comes first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_changes_from_day_to_day",
|
|
"text": "It changes from day to day"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_048",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Horny out of nowhere or a slow warm-up?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_rhythm",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "horny_out_of_nowhere",
|
|
"text": "Horny out of nowhere"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_slow_warm_up",
|
|
"text": "A slow warm-up"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "horny_out_of_nowhere",
|
|
"text": "Horny out of nowhere"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_slow_warm_up",
|
|
"text": "A slow warm-up"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_049",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a low-libido day feel completely normal?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_rhythm",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_libido_naturally_changes",
|
|
"text": "Knowing libido naturally changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure_to_explain",
|
|
"text": "No pressure to explain"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_can_remain_nonsexual",
|
|
"text": "Affection can remain nonsexual"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trusting_there_will_be_other_days",
|
|
"text": "Trusting there will be other days"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_libido_naturally_changes",
|
|
"text": "Knowing libido naturally changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure_to_explain",
|
|
"text": "No pressure to explain"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_can_remain_nonsexual",
|
|
"text": "Affection can remain nonsexual"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trusting_there_will_be_other_days",
|
|
"text": "Trusting there will be other days"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_050",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signs tell you that you may be getting turned on?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_rhythm",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"arousal"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_feel_more_playful",
|
|
"text": "You feel more playful"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_want_more_physical_closeness",
|
|
"text": "You want more physical closeness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "flirting_starts_to_land",
|
|
"text": "Flirting starts to land"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_idea_of_sex_sounds_appealing",
|
|
"text": "The idea of sex sounds appealing"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_feel_more_playful",
|
|
"text": "You feel more playful"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_want_more_physical_closeness",
|
|
"text": "You want more physical closeness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "flirting_starts_to_land",
|
|
"text": "Flirting starts to land"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_idea_of_sex_sounds_appealing",
|
|
"text": "The idea of sex sounds appealing"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_051",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can shift your libido more than expected?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_rhythm",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sleep",
|
|
"text": "Sleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stress",
|
|
"text": "Stress"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "body_confidence",
|
|
"text": "Body confidence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_connected_we_feel",
|
|
"text": "How connected we feel"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sleep",
|
|
"text": "Sleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stress",
|
|
"text": "Stress"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "body_confidence",
|
|
"text": "Body confidence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_connected_we_feel",
|
|
"text": "How connected we feel"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_052",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "When your libido is low, what helps most?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_rhythm",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rest",
|
|
"text": "Rest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_close_first",
|
|
"text": "Feeling close first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "playful_sexual_attention",
|
|
"text": "Playful sexual attention"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaving_it_alone",
|
|
"text": "Leaving it alone"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rest",
|
|
"text": "Rest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_close_first",
|
|
"text": "Feeling close first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "playful_sexual_attention",
|
|
"text": "Playful sexual attention"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaving_it_alone",
|
|
"text": "Leaving it alone"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_053",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which things help you notice arousal before the moment passes?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_rhythm",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"arousal"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "less_mental_clutter",
|
|
"text": "Less mental clutter"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_without_interruptions",
|
|
"text": "Time without interruptions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_sexually_noticed",
|
|
"text": "Feeling sexually noticed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_invitation_to_sex",
|
|
"text": "A clear invitation to sex"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "less_mental_clutter",
|
|
"text": "Less mental clutter"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_without_interruptions",
|
|
"text": "Time without interruptions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_sexually_noticed",
|
|
"text": "Feeling sexually noticed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_invitation_to_sex",
|
|
"text": "A clear invitation to sex"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_054",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps sexual desire return without forcing it?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_rhythm",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lowering_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Lowering pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_space_for_rest",
|
|
"text": "Making space for rest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rebuilding_sexual_playfulness",
|
|
"text": "Rebuilding sexual playfulness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_honestly_about_what_changed",
|
|
"text": "Talking honestly about what changed"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lowering_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Lowering pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_space_for_rest",
|
|
"text": "Making space for rest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rebuilding_sexual_playfulness",
|
|
"text": "Rebuilding sexual playfulness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_honestly_about_what_changed",
|
|
"text": "Talking honestly about what changed"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_055",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How predictable does your libido feel from week to week?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_rhythm",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Very unpredictable",
|
|
"max_label": "Very predictable"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_056",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which parts of the day tend to work best for your sexual energy?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_rhythm",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "early_morning",
|
|
"text": "Early morning"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "afternoon",
|
|
"text": "Afternoon"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "evening",
|
|
"text": "Evening"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "late_night",
|
|
"text": "Late night"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "early_morning",
|
|
"text": "Early morning"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "afternoon",
|
|
"text": "Afternoon"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "evening",
|
|
"text": "Evening"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "late_night",
|
|
"text": "Late night"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_057",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What most often changes your interest in sex in the moment?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_rhythm",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_energy_level",
|
|
"text": "Your energy level"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_emotional_mood",
|
|
"text": "Your emotional mood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_way_i_initiate",
|
|
"text": "The way I initiate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_life_feels_settled",
|
|
"text": "Whether life feels settled"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_energy_level",
|
|
"text": "Your energy level"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_emotional_mood",
|
|
"text": "Your emotional mood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_way_i_initiate",
|
|
"text": "The way I initiate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_life_feels_settled",
|
|
"text": "Whether life feels settled"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_058",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would help us work with your libido instead of against it?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_rhythm",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "checking_in_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Checking in without pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "planning_around_energy",
|
|
"text": "Planning around energy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaving_room_for_spontaneous_sex",
|
|
"text": "Leaving room for spontaneous sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_treating_patterns_as_promises",
|
|
"text": "Not treating patterns as promises"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "checking_in_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Checking in without pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "planning_around_energy",
|
|
"text": "Planning around energy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaving_room_for_spontaneous_sex",
|
|
"text": "Leaving room for spontaneous sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_treating_patterns_as_promises",
|
|
"text": "Not treating patterns as promises"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_059",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What do you wish I understood about how sexual desire arrives for you?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_rhythm",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_060",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which libido changes deserve patience rather than alarm?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_rhythm",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_stressful_season",
|
|
"text": "A stressful season"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "medication_or_health_changes",
|
|
"text": "Medication or health changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "poor_sleep",
|
|
"text": "Poor sleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_change_in_how_arousal_begins",
|
|
"text": "A change in how arousal begins"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_stressful_season",
|
|
"text": "A stressful season"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "medication_or_health_changes",
|
|
"text": "Medication or health changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "poor_sleep",
|
|
"text": "Poor sleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_change_in_how_arousal_begins",
|
|
"text": "A change in how arousal begins"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_061",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you shift out of task mode and into a sexual headspace?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress_energy_privacy",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_headspace"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "finishing_one_last_responsibility",
|
|
"text": "Finishing one last responsibility"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_transition_time",
|
|
"text": "Quiet transition time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shower_or_change_of_clothes",
|
|
"text": "A shower or change of clothes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "laughing_and_flirting_first",
|
|
"text": "Laughing and flirting first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "finishing_one_last_responsibility",
|
|
"text": "Finishing one last responsibility"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_transition_time",
|
|
"text": "Quiet transition time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shower_or_change_of_clothes",
|
|
"text": "A shower or change of clothes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "laughing_and_flirting_first",
|
|
"text": "Laughing and flirting first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_062",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What most helps your body relax enough to want sex?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress_energy_privacy",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_headspace"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quiet_room",
|
|
"text": "A quiet room"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "putting_the_phone_away",
|
|
"text": "Putting the phone away"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changing_out_of_work_clothes",
|
|
"text": "Changing out of work clothes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_with_no_automatic_next_step",
|
|
"text": "Affection with no automatic next step"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quiet_room",
|
|
"text": "A quiet room"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "putting_the_phone_away",
|
|
"text": "Putting the phone away"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changing_out_of_work_clothes",
|
|
"text": "Changing out of work clothes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_with_no_automatic_next_step",
|
|
"text": "Affection with no automatic next step"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_063",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Unwind together or get alone time first?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress_energy_privacy",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "unwind_together",
|
|
"text": "Unwind together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "get_alone_time_first",
|
|
"text": "Get alone time first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "unwind_together",
|
|
"text": "Unwind together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "get_alone_time_first",
|
|
"text": "Get alone time first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_064",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of privacy matter most when sex might happen?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress_energy_privacy",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_likely_interruptions",
|
|
"text": "No likely interruptions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "enough_time",
|
|
"text": "Enough time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "phones_out_of_reach",
|
|
"text": "Phones out of reach"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_responsibilities_are_handled",
|
|
"text": "Knowing responsibilities are handled"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_likely_interruptions",
|
|
"text": "No likely interruptions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "enough_time",
|
|
"text": "Enough time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "phones_out_of_reach",
|
|
"text": "Phones out of reach"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_responsibilities_are_handled",
|
|
"text": "Knowing responsibilities are handled"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_065",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps sexual desire survive a busy season?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress_energy_privacy",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_some_sexual_flirting_alive",
|
|
"text": "Keeping some sexual flirting alive"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protecting_small_pockets_of_privacy",
|
|
"text": "Protecting small pockets of privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_taking_low_libido_personally",
|
|
"text": "Not taking low libido personally"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_realistic_plans_for_sex",
|
|
"text": "Making realistic plans for sex"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_some_sexual_flirting_alive",
|
|
"text": "Keeping some sexual flirting alive"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protecting_small_pockets_of_privacy",
|
|
"text": "Protecting small pockets of privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_taking_low_libido_personally",
|
|
"text": "Not taking low libido personally"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_realistic_plans_for_sex",
|
|
"text": "Making realistic plans for sex"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_066",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which stresses shut down your libido fastest?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress_energy_privacy",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "work_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Work pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "family_demands",
|
|
"text": "Family demands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "money_worries",
|
|
"text": "Money worries"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_between_us",
|
|
"text": "Conflict between us"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "work_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Work pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "family_demands",
|
|
"text": "Family demands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "money_worries",
|
|
"text": "Money worries"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "conflict_between_us",
|
|
"text": "Conflict between us"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_067",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What most often brings your horny, playful side back after stress?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress_energy_privacy",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "laughter",
|
|
"text": "Laughter"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_sexually_admired",
|
|
"text": "Feeling sexually admired"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_change_of_scenery",
|
|
"text": "A change of scenery"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "finishing_what_was_weighing_on_you",
|
|
"text": "Finishing what was weighing on you"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "laughter",
|
|
"text": "Laughter"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_sexually_admired",
|
|
"text": "Feeling sexually admired"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_change_of_scenery",
|
|
"text": "A change of scenery"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "finishing_what_was_weighing_on_you",
|
|
"text": "Finishing what was weighing on you"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_068",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which resets could make wanting sex easier this week?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress_energy_privacy",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_sleep",
|
|
"text": "More sleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_night_without_responsibilities",
|
|
"text": "A night without responsibilities"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_alone_together",
|
|
"text": "Time alone together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_good_conversation_first",
|
|
"text": "A good conversation first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_sleep",
|
|
"text": "More sleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_night_without_responsibilities",
|
|
"text": "A night without responsibilities"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_alone_together",
|
|
"text": "Time alone together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_good_conversation_first",
|
|
"text": "A good conversation first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_069",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes planned sex feel sexy instead of like an appointment?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress_energy_privacy",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"planned_sex"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_the_plan_flexible",
|
|
"text": "Keeping the plan flexible"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "building_in_time_to_unwind",
|
|
"text": "Building in time to unwind"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_guaranteed_outcome",
|
|
"text": "No guaranteed outcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_of_us_choosing_it",
|
|
"text": "Both of us choosing it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_the_plan_flexible",
|
|
"text": "Keeping the plan flexible"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "building_in_time_to_unwind",
|
|
"text": "Building in time to unwind"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_guaranteed_outcome",
|
|
"text": "No guaranteed outcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_of_us_choosing_it",
|
|
"text": "Both of us choosing it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_070",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much transition time do you need before sex feels possible?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress_energy_privacy",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_headspace"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Almost none",
|
|
"max_label": "Quite a bit"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_071",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signs should tell me you need a slower sexual approach?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress_energy_privacy",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_seem_mentally_elsewhere",
|
|
"text": "You seem mentally elsewhere"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_answers_get_short",
|
|
"text": "Your answers get short"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_are_still_handling_tasks",
|
|
"text": "You are still handling tasks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_ask_for_space_or_rest",
|
|
"text": "You ask for space or rest"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_seem_mentally_elsewhere",
|
|
"text": "You seem mentally elsewhere"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_answers_get_short",
|
|
"text": "Your answers get short"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_are_still_handling_tasks",
|
|
"text": "You are still handling tasks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_ask_for_space_or_rest",
|
|
"text": "You ask for space or rest"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_072",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which setting helps you relax most easily?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress_energy_privacy",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_tidy_bedroom",
|
|
"text": "A tidy bedroom"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_dim_quiet_room",
|
|
"text": "A dim quiet room"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shower_or_bath_first",
|
|
"text": "A shower or bath first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "somewhere_away_from_home",
|
|
"text": "Somewhere away from home"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_tidy_bedroom",
|
|
"text": "A tidy bedroom"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_dim_quiet_room",
|
|
"text": "A dim quiet room"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shower_or_bath_first",
|
|
"text": "A shower or bath first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "somewhere_away_from_home",
|
|
"text": "Somewhere away from home"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_073",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make ordinary nights feel less rushed?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress_energy_privacy",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "starting_earlier",
|
|
"text": "Starting earlier"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_the_last_chores",
|
|
"text": "Sharing the last chores"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaving_tomorrow_s_problems_for_tomorrow",
|
|
"text": "Leaving tomorrow's problems for tomorrow"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protecting_one_uninterrupted_hour",
|
|
"text": "Protecting one uninterrupted hour"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "starting_earlier",
|
|
"text": "Starting earlier"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_the_last_chores",
|
|
"text": "Sharing the last chores"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaving_tomorrow_s_problems_for_tomorrow",
|
|
"text": "Leaving tomorrow's problems for tomorrow"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protecting_one_uninterrupted_hour",
|
|
"text": "Protecting one uninterrupted hour"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_074",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What helps you feel private enough to relax into wanting sex?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress_energy_privacy",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_075",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of help free the most mental space for sex?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress_energy_privacy",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"mental_load"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "practical_help_without_being_asked",
|
|
"text": "Practical help without being asked"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_plans_for_responsibilities",
|
|
"text": "Clear plans for responsibilities"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_to_decompress_alone",
|
|
"text": "Time to decompress alone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_nobody_is_keeping_score",
|
|
"text": "Knowing nobody is keeping score"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "practical_help_without_being_asked",
|
|
"text": "Practical help without being asked"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_plans_for_responsibilities",
|
|
"text": "Clear plans for responsibilities"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_to_decompress_alone",
|
|
"text": "Time to decompress alone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_nobody_is_keeping_score",
|
|
"text": "Knowing nobody is keeping score"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_076",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What keeps different libidos from becoming a fight?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mismatched_desire",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido_mismatch"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_before_frustration_builds",
|
|
"text": "Talking before frustration builds"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_no_without_a_long_defense",
|
|
"text": "Saying no without a long defense"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_keeping_score",
|
|
"text": "Not keeping score"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "staying_curious_about_what_changed",
|
|
"text": "Staying curious about what changed"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_before_frustration_builds",
|
|
"text": "Talking before frustration builds"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_no_without_a_long_defense",
|
|
"text": "Saying no without a long defense"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_keeping_score",
|
|
"text": "Not keeping score"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "staying_curious_about_what_changed",
|
|
"text": "Staying curious about what changed"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_077",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "After turning down sex, what keeps the flirt alive?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mismatched_desire",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_rejection"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_if_it_feels_welcome",
|
|
"text": "Affection if it feels welcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_real_plan_for_later",
|
|
"text": "A real plan for later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_playful_message_another_day",
|
|
"text": "A playful message another day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "dropping_it_until_the_mood_returns",
|
|
"text": "Dropping it until the mood returns"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_if_it_feels_welcome",
|
|
"text": "Affection if it feels welcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_real_plan_for_later",
|
|
"text": "A real plan for later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_playful_message_another_day",
|
|
"text": "A playful message another day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "dropping_it_until_the_mood_returns",
|
|
"text": "Dropping it until the mood returns"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_078",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How often does a libido mismatch turn into tension for us?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mismatched_desire",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido_mismatch"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Almost never",
|
|
"max_label": "Too often"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_079",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Stay affectionate or take a little space?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mismatched_desire",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stay_affectionate",
|
|
"text": "Stay affectionate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_a_little_space",
|
|
"text": "Take a little space"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stay_affectionate",
|
|
"text": "Stay affectionate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_a_little_space",
|
|
"text": "Take a little space"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_080",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps the lower-libido partner feel respected?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mismatched_desire",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido_mismatch"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure_to_justify_it",
|
|
"text": "No pressure to justify it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_repeated_asking_for_sex",
|
|
"text": "No repeated asking for sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "warmth_after_the_answer",
|
|
"text": "Warmth after the answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "freedom_to_initiate_another_time",
|
|
"text": "Freedom to initiate another time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure_to_justify_it",
|
|
"text": "No pressure to justify it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_repeated_asking_for_sex",
|
|
"text": "No repeated asking for sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "warmth_after_the_answer",
|
|
"text": "Warmth after the answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "freedom_to_initiate_another_time",
|
|
"text": "Freedom to initiate another time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_081",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps the higher-libido partner feel cared for?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mismatched_desire",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido_mismatch"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honest_reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Honest reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_that_is_genuinely_welcome",
|
|
"text": "Affection that is genuinely welcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_communication",
|
|
"text": "Clear communication"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_treating_a_strong_sex_drive_like_a_flaw",
|
|
"text": "Not treating a strong sex drive like a flaw"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honest_reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Honest reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_that_is_genuinely_welcome",
|
|
"text": "Affection that is genuinely welcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_communication",
|
|
"text": "Clear communication"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_treating_a_strong_sex_drive_like_a_flaw",
|
|
"text": "Not treating a strong sex drive like a flaw"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_082",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "When our sexual moods do not match, what matters first?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mismatched_desire",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido_mismatch"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_answer",
|
|
"text": "A clear answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_kind_response",
|
|
"text": "A kind response"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_scorekeeping",
|
|
"text": "No scorekeeping"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remembering_we_are_not_opponents",
|
|
"text": "Remembering we are not opponents"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_answer",
|
|
"text": "A clear answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_kind_response",
|
|
"text": "A kind response"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_scorekeeping",
|
|
"text": "No scorekeeping"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remembering_we_are_not_opponents",
|
|
"text": "Remembering we are not opponents"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_083",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which reactions can make a libido gap feel personal?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mismatched_desire",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_rejection"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sulking",
|
|
"text": "Sulking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_score",
|
|
"text": "Keeping score"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "treating_sexual_rejection_as_proof_of_no_attraction",
|
|
"text": "Treating sexual rejection as proof of no attraction"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "demanding_a_detailed_explanation",
|
|
"text": "Demanding a detailed explanation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sulking",
|
|
"text": "Sulking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_score",
|
|
"text": "Keeping score"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "treating_sexual_rejection_as_proof_of_no_attraction",
|
|
"text": "Treating sexual rejection as proof of no attraction"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "demanding_a_detailed_explanation",
|
|
"text": "Demanding a detailed explanation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_084",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us talk about how often we have sex without creating a quota?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mismatched_desire",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"frequency"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_about_the_whole_pattern",
|
|
"text": "Talking about the whole pattern"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "naming_what_each_person_misses",
|
|
"text": "Naming what each person misses"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_consent_separate_from_goals",
|
|
"text": "Keeping consent separate from goals"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agreeing_that_numbers_are_not_promises",
|
|
"text": "Agreeing that numbers are not promises"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_about_the_whole_pattern",
|
|
"text": "Talking about the whole pattern"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "naming_what_each_person_misses",
|
|
"text": "Naming what each person misses"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_consent_separate_from_goals",
|
|
"text": "Keeping consent separate from goals"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agreeing_that_numbers_are_not_promises",
|
|
"text": "Agreeing that numbers are not promises"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_085",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How safe does it feel to be honest when our sexual moods differ?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mismatched_desire",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido_mismatch"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not safe yet",
|
|
"max_label": "Completely safe"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_086",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of connection still feel good on a no-sex night?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mismatched_desire",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_rejection"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_in_bed",
|
|
"text": "Talking in bed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hug_or_cuddle_if_welcome",
|
|
"text": "A hug or cuddle if welcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "watching_something_together",
|
|
"text": "Watching something together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "getting_peaceful_space",
|
|
"text": "Getting peaceful space"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_in_bed",
|
|
"text": "Talking in bed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hug_or_cuddle_if_welcome",
|
|
"text": "A hug or cuddle if welcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "watching_something_together",
|
|
"text": "Watching something together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "getting_peaceful_space",
|
|
"text": "Getting peaceful space"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_087",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make a libido check-in feel least awkward?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mismatched_desire",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_walk",
|
|
"text": "A walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_question",
|
|
"text": "A short question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_message_first",
|
|
"text": "A message first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calm_private_evening",
|
|
"text": "A calm private evening"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_walk",
|
|
"text": "A walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_question",
|
|
"text": "A short question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_message_first",
|
|
"text": "A message first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calm_private_evening",
|
|
"text": "A calm private evening"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_088",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps one sexual rejection stay one moment instead of becoming a verdict?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mismatched_desire",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_rejection"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_predicting_the_whole_relationship",
|
|
"text": "Not predicting the whole relationship"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoiding_blame",
|
|
"text": "Avoiding blame"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remembering_libido_changes",
|
|
"text": "Remembering libido changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reconnecting_in_another_way",
|
|
"text": "Reconnecting in another way"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_predicting_the_whole_relationship",
|
|
"text": "Not predicting the whole relationship"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoiding_blame",
|
|
"text": "Avoiding blame"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remembering_libido_changes",
|
|
"text": "Remembering libido changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reconnecting_in_another_way",
|
|
"text": "Reconnecting in another way"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_089",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which agreements reduce sexual resentment without creating pressure?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mismatched_desire",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido_mismatch"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bring_concerns_up_early",
|
|
"text": "Bring concerns up early"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_no_the_first_time",
|
|
"text": "Accept no the first time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_not_use_affection_as_leverage",
|
|
"text": "Do not use affection as leverage"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "discuss_patterns_outside_the_moment",
|
|
"text": "Discuss patterns outside the moment"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bring_concerns_up_early",
|
|
"text": "Bring concerns up early"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_no_the_first_time",
|
|
"text": "Accept no the first time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_not_use_affection_as_leverage",
|
|
"text": "Do not use affection as leverage"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "discuss_patterns_outside_the_moment",
|
|
"text": "Discuss patterns outside the moment"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_090",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make sexual desire feel shared rather than managed by one person?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mismatched_desire",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"mutual_desire"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_show_sexual_interest",
|
|
"text": "Both people show sexual interest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_can_initiate_sex",
|
|
"text": "Both can initiate sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_can_decline_safely",
|
|
"text": "Both can decline safely"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_help_protect_private_time",
|
|
"text": "Both help protect private time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_show_sexual_interest",
|
|
"text": "Both people show sexual interest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_can_initiate_sex",
|
|
"text": "Both can initiate sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_can_decline_safely",
|
|
"text": "Both can decline safely"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_help_protect_private_time",
|
|
"text": "Both help protect private time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_091",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of reassurance feels believable when you do not feel sexy?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sexual_confidence",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_specific_sexual_compliment",
|
|
"text": "A specific sexual compliment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "patient_affection",
|
|
"text": "Patient affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "directly_hearing_that_i_want_you",
|
|
"text": "Directly hearing that I want you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy_and_time",
|
|
"text": "Privacy and time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_specific_sexual_compliment",
|
|
"text": "A specific sexual compliment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "patient_affection",
|
|
"text": "Patient affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "directly_hearing_that_i_want_you",
|
|
"text": "Directly hearing that I want you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy_and_time",
|
|
"text": "Privacy and time"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_092",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which things help you feel hot in your own skin?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sexual_confidence",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clothes_you_feel_sexy_in",
|
|
"text": "Clothes you feel sexy in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_wanted_without_performing",
|
|
"text": "Being wanted without performing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_rested",
|
|
"text": "Feeling rested"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hearing_exactly_what_attracts_me",
|
|
"text": "Hearing exactly what attracts me"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clothes_you_feel_sexy_in",
|
|
"text": "Clothes you feel sexy in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_wanted_without_performing",
|
|
"text": "Being wanted without performing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_rested",
|
|
"text": "Feeling rested"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hearing_exactly_what_attracts_me",
|
|
"text": "Hearing exactly what attracts me"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_093",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How comfortable do you feel being openly sexually desired by me?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sexual_confidence",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
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|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
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"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
|
|
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "sex_and_desire_094",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Sweet sexual praise or bold sexual praise?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sexual_confidence",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_praise"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sweet_sexual_praise",
|
|
"text": "Sweet sexual praise"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bold_sexual_praise",
|
|
"text": "Bold sexual praise"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sweet_sexual_praise",
|
|
"text": "Sweet sexual praise"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bold_sexual_praise",
|
|
"text": "Bold sexual praise"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_095",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a sexual compliment feel genuine instead of automatic?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sexual_confidence",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_praise"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_specific",
|
|
"text": "It is specific"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_fits_the_moment",
|
|
"text": "It fits the moment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_said_privately",
|
|
"text": "It is said privately"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_notices_more_than_appearance",
|
|
"text": "It notices more than appearance"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_specific",
|
|
"text": "It is specific"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_fits_the_moment",
|
|
"text": "It fits the moment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_said_privately",
|
|
"text": "It is said privately"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_notices_more_than_appearance",
|
|
"text": "It notices more than appearance"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_096",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which reactions help when you feel self-conscious during sexual moments?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sexual_confidence",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slowing_down",
|
|
"text": "Slowing down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_attention_gentle",
|
|
"text": "Keeping attention gentle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_you_lead_the_pace",
|
|
"text": "Letting you lead the pace"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_arguing_you_out_of_the_feeling",
|
|
"text": "Not arguing you out of the feeling"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slowing_down",
|
|
"text": "Slowing down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_attention_gentle",
|
|
"text": "Keeping attention gentle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_you_lead_the_pace",
|
|
"text": "Letting you lead the pace"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_arguing_you_out_of_the_feeling",
|
|
"text": "Not arguing you out of the feeling"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_097",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "When you want to feel sexually confident, what helps most?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sexual_confidence",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_admired",
|
|
"text": "Feeling admired"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "Feeling comfortable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_powerful",
|
|
"text": "Feeling powerful"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_playful_and_horny",
|
|
"text": "Feeling playful and horny"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_admired",
|
|
"text": "Feeling admired"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "Feeling comfortable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_powerful",
|
|
"text": "Feeling powerful"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_playful_and_horny",
|
|
"text": "Feeling playful and horny"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_098",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can quietly weaken sexual confidence?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sexual_confidence",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comparisons",
|
|
"text": "Comparisons"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "jokes_about_appearance_or_performance",
|
|
"text": "Jokes about appearance or performance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_watched_too_closely",
|
|
"text": "Feeling watched too closely"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pressure_to_act_confident",
|
|
"text": "Pressure to act confident"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comparisons",
|
|
"text": "Comparisons"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "jokes_about_appearance_or_performance",
|
|
"text": "Jokes about appearance or performance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_watched_too_closely",
|
|
"text": "Feeling watched too closely"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pressure_to_act_confident",
|
|
"text": "Pressure to act confident"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_099",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which parts of confidence have little to do with appearance?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sexual_confidence",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_wanted",
|
|
"text": "Feeling wanted"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_what_you_like",
|
|
"text": "Knowing what you like"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_able_to_speak_up",
|
|
"text": "Being able to speak up"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trusting_your_pace_will_be_respected",
|
|
"text": "Trusting your pace will be respected"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_wanted",
|
|
"text": "Feeling wanted"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_what_you_like",
|
|
"text": "Knowing what you like"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_able_to_speak_up",
|
|
"text": "Being able to speak up"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trusting_your_pace_will_be_respected",
|
|
"text": "Trusting your pace will be respected"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_100",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How easy is it to accept a sexual compliment from me?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sexual_confidence",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_praise"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Very difficult",
|
|
"max_label": "Very easy"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_101",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make sexual novelty feel less exposing?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sexual_confidence",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_novelty"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_private_conversation_first",
|
|
"text": "A private conversation first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_easy_stop",
|
|
"text": "An easy stop"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_teasing_afterward",
|
|
"text": "No teasing afterward"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "starting_with_a_small_change",
|
|
"text": "Starting with a small change"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_private_conversation_first",
|
|
"text": "A private conversation first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_easy_stop",
|
|
"text": "An easy stop"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_teasing_afterward",
|
|
"text": "No teasing afterward"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "starting_with_a_small_change",
|
|
"text": "Starting with a small change"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_102",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kind of sexual attention feels safest on a vulnerable day?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sexual_confidence",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_affection",
|
|
"text": "Quiet affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_private_sexual_compliment",
|
|
"text": "A private sexual compliment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_given_space",
|
|
"text": "Being given space"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_reminder_that_sex_is_not_expected",
|
|
"text": "A clear reminder that sex is not expected"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_affection",
|
|
"text": "Quiet affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_private_sexual_compliment",
|
|
"text": "A private sexual compliment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_given_space",
|
|
"text": "Being given space"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_reminder_that_sex_is_not_expected",
|
|
"text": "A clear reminder that sex is not expected"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_103",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps you stay present during sex instead of judging yourself?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sexual_confidence",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_unhurried",
|
|
"text": "Feeling unhurried"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Gentle reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "focusing_on_pleasure_and_connection",
|
|
"text": "Focusing on pleasure and connection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_you_can_pause",
|
|
"text": "Knowing you can pause"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_unhurried",
|
|
"text": "Feeling unhurried"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Gentle reassurance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "focusing_on_pleasure_and_connection",
|
|
"text": "Focusing on pleasure and connection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_you_can_pause",
|
|
"text": "Knowing you can pause"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_104",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which words support sexual confidence without sounding rehearsed?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sexual_confidence",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_look_fucking_hot",
|
|
"text": "You look fucking hot"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_do_not_have_to_perform_for_me",
|
|
"text": "You do not have to perform for me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_want_the_real_you",
|
|
"text": "I want the real you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_can_go_at_your_pace",
|
|
"text": "We can go at your pace"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_look_fucking_hot",
|
|
"text": "You look fucking hot"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_do_not_have_to_perform_for_me",
|
|
"text": "You do not have to perform for me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_want_the_real_you",
|
|
"text": "I want the real you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_can_go_at_your_pace",
|
|
"text": "We can go at your pace"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_105",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should I understand about your sexual confidence lately?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sexual_confidence",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_changes_by_the_day",
|
|
"text": "It changes by the day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stress_affects_it",
|
|
"text": "Stress affects it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy_affects_it",
|
|
"text": "Privacy affects it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_way_i_respond_matters",
|
|
"text": "The way I respond matters"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_changes_by_the_day",
|
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"text": "It changes by the day"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stress_affects_it",
|
|
"text": "Stress affects it"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy_affects_it",
|
|
"text": "Privacy affects it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_way_i_respond_matters",
|
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"text": "The way I respond matters"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
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"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "sex_and_desire_106",
|
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "What makes a conversation about sex and desire easier to start?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_communication",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_communication"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_clear_question",
|
|
"text": "One clear question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_relaxed_moment",
|
|
"text": "A relaxed moment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_no_immediate_decision_is_needed",
|
|
"text": "Knowing no immediate decision is needed"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_clear_question",
|
|
"text": "One clear question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_relaxed_moment",
|
|
"text": "A relaxed moment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_no_immediate_decision_is_needed",
|
|
"text": "Knowing no immediate decision is needed"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_107",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which conversation style feels least awkward?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_communication",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_on_a_walk",
|
|
"text": "Talking on a walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_question_at_a_time",
|
|
"text": "One question at a time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "messaging_first",
|
|
"text": "Messaging first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "using_humor_before_getting_sincere",
|
|
"text": "Using humor before getting sincere"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_on_a_walk",
|
|
"text": "Talking on a walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_question_at_a_time",
|
|
"text": "One question at a time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "messaging_first",
|
|
"text": "Messaging first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "using_humor_before_getting_sincere",
|
|
"text": "Using humor before getting sincere"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_108",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How comfortable are you asking for something different during sex?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_communication",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_communication"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Very difficult",
|
|
"max_label": "Very easy"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_109",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Talk before sex or check in during?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_communication",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_communication"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talk_before_sex",
|
|
"text": "Talk before sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "check_in_during",
|
|
"text": "Check in during"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talk_before_sex",
|
|
"text": "Talk before sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "check_in_during",
|
|
"text": "Check in during"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_110",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which reactions make honest sexual feedback harder to give?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_communication",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_communication"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "getting_defensive",
|
|
"text": "Getting defensive"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "acting_rejected",
|
|
"text": "Acting rejected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "joking_about_it_later",
|
|
"text": "Joking about it later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pushing_for_an_explanation",
|
|
"text": "Pushing for an explanation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "getting_defensive",
|
|
"text": "Getting defensive"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "acting_rejected",
|
|
"text": "Acting rejected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "joking_about_it_later",
|
|
"text": "Joking about it later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pushing_for_an_explanation",
|
|
"text": "Pushing for an explanation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_111",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes sexual feedback easier to receive?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_communication",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_communication"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_specific_request",
|
|
"text": "One specific request"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_warm_tone",
|
|
"text": "A warm tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hearing_what_is_already_working",
|
|
"text": "Hearing what is already working"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_to_respond_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Time to respond without pressure"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_specific_request",
|
|
"text": "One specific request"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_warm_tone",
|
|
"text": "A warm tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hearing_what_is_already_working",
|
|
"text": "Hearing what is already working"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_to_respond_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Time to respond without pressure"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_112",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which first response helps you feel safest after sexual feedback?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_communication",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_communication"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_you_for_telling_me",
|
|
"text": "Thank you for telling me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tell_me_what_would_feel_better",
|
|
"text": "Tell me what would feel better"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_am_listening",
|
|
"text": "I am listening"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_can_slow_down",
|
|
"text": "We can slow down"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_you_for_telling_me",
|
|
"text": "Thank you for telling me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tell_me_what_would_feel_better",
|
|
"text": "Tell me what would feel better"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_am_listening",
|
|
"text": "I am listening"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_can_slow_down",
|
|
"text": "We can slow down"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_113",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should a good sexual check-in make clear?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_communication",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_communication"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_can_change_your_mind",
|
|
"text": "You can change your mind"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_no_wrong_answer",
|
|
"text": "There is no wrong answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_can_slow_down",
|
|
"text": "We can slow down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "connection_matters_more_than_the_plan",
|
|
"text": "Connection matters more than the plan"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_can_change_your_mind",
|
|
"text": "You can change your mind"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_no_wrong_answer",
|
|
"text": "There is no wrong answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_can_slow_down",
|
|
"text": "We can slow down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "connection_matters_more_than_the_plan",
|
|
"text": "Connection matters more than the plan"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_114",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which desire topics are easiest to discuss outside a sexual moment?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_communication",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_communication"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "timing",
|
|
"text": "Timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "initiation",
|
|
"text": "Initiation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_helps_desire_begin",
|
|
"text": "What helps desire begin"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_to_handle_different_moods",
|
|
"text": "How to handle different moods"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "timing",
|
|
"text": "Timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "initiation",
|
|
"text": "Initiation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_helps_desire_begin",
|
|
"text": "What helps desire begin"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_to_handle_different_moods",
|
|
"text": "How to handle different moods"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_115",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How understood do you feel when you talk about sex and desire with me?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_communication",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_communication"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not understood yet",
|
|
"max_label": "Very understood"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_116",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What keeps a sex-and-desire talk from sounding like a performance review?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_communication",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_communication"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plain_language",
|
|
"text": "Plain language"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_little_humor",
|
|
"text": "A little humor"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_topic_only",
|
|
"text": "One topic only"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_scorecard",
|
|
"text": "No scorecard"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plain_language",
|
|
"text": "Plain language"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_little_humor",
|
|
"text": "A little humor"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_topic_only",
|
|
"text": "One topic only"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_scorecard",
|
|
"text": "No scorecard"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_117",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "When should we revisit a difficult sex-or-libido topic?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_communication",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_communication"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_rest",
|
|
"text": "After rest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "during_a_calm_walk",
|
|
"text": "During a calm walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "at_a_planned_private_time",
|
|
"text": "At a planned private time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "only_when_both_feel_ready",
|
|
"text": "Only when both feel ready"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_rest",
|
|
"text": "After rest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "during_a_calm_walk",
|
|
"text": "During a calm walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "at_a_planned_private_time",
|
|
"text": "At a planned private time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "only_when_both_feel_ready",
|
|
"text": "Only when both feel ready"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
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"id": "sex_and_desire_118",
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which phrases make room for honest sexual answers?",
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"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
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|
"desire_communication",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
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"adult_language",
|
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"sexual_communication"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
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{
|
|
"id": "what_sounds_good_to_you",
|
|
"text": "What sounds good to you?"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "would_you_rather_not_have_sex_tonight",
|
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"text": "Would you rather not have sex tonight?"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "do_you_need_more_time",
|
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"text": "Do you need more time?"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "has_your_mood_changed",
|
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"text": "Has your mood changed?"
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
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{
|
|
"id": "what_sounds_good_to_you",
|
|
"text": "What sounds good to you?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "would_you_rather_not_have_sex_tonight",
|
|
"text": "Would you rather not have sex tonight?"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_you_need_more_time",
|
|
"text": "Do you need more time?"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "has_your_mood_changed",
|
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"text": "Has your mood changed?"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "sex_and_desire_119",
|
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "What would help you speak more freely about sex and desire?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_communication",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_communication"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_i_will_not_take_it_as_a_verdict",
|
|
"text": "Knowing I will not take it as a verdict"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_needing_perfect_words",
|
|
"text": "Not needing perfect words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_able_to_pause",
|
|
"text": "Being able to pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trusting_the_conversation_stays_private",
|
|
"text": "Trusting the conversation stays private"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_i_will_not_take_it_as_a_verdict",
|
|
"text": "Knowing I will not take it as a verdict"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_needing_perfect_words",
|
|
"text": "Not needing perfect words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_able_to_pause",
|
|
"text": "Being able to pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trusting_the_conversation_stays_private",
|
|
"text": "Trusting the conversation stays private"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_120",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which habits would improve our sexual communication most?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"desire_communication",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_communication"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_instead_of_assume",
|
|
"text": "Ask instead of assume"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "say_what_is_working",
|
|
"text": "Say what is working"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "receive_no_warmly",
|
|
"text": "Receive no warmly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "revisit_changes_without_blame",
|
|
"text": "Revisit changes without blame"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_instead_of_assume",
|
|
"text": "Ask instead of assume"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "say_what_is_working",
|
|
"text": "Say what is working"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "receive_no_warmly",
|
|
"text": "Receive no warmly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "revisit_changes_without_blame",
|
|
"text": "Revisit changes without blame"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_121",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes it easiest to say yes, no, or not yet to sex?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent_boundaries",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_question",
|
|
"text": "A clear question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure_to_explain",
|
|
"text": "No pressure to explain"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trust_that_any_answer_will_be_respected",
|
|
"text": "Trust that any answer will be respected"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_question",
|
|
"text": "A clear question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure_to_explain",
|
|
"text": "No pressure to explain"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trust_that_any_answer_will_be_respected",
|
|
"text": "Trust that any answer will be respected"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_122",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "After not tonight is accepted, what feels most caring?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent_boundaries",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_rejection"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_warm_goodnight",
|
|
"text": "A warm goodnight"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_if_welcome",
|
|
"text": "Affection if welcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_honest_rain_check",
|
|
"text": "An honest rain check"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "giving_comfortable_space",
|
|
"text": "Giving comfortable space"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_warm_goodnight",
|
|
"text": "A warm goodnight"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_if_welcome",
|
|
"text": "Affection if welcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_honest_rain_check",
|
|
"text": "An honest rain check"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "giving_comfortable_space",
|
|
"text": "Giving comfortable space"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_123",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How easy is it to change your mind during a sexual moment with me?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent_boundaries",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Very difficult",
|
|
"max_label": "Very easy"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_124",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "A direct question about sex or a gentler invitation?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent_boundaries",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"initiation"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_direct_question_about_sex",
|
|
"text": "A direct question about sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_gentler_invitation",
|
|
"text": "A gentler invitation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_direct_question_about_sex",
|
|
"text": "A direct question about sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_gentler_invitation",
|
|
"text": "A gentler invitation"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_125",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signs show that stopping sex is genuinely easy?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent_boundaries",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_first_pause_is_respected",
|
|
"text": "The first pause is respected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "nobody_argues_with_the_reason",
|
|
"text": "Nobody argues with the reason"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_mood_stays_kind",
|
|
"text": "The mood stays kind"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_no_punishment_afterward",
|
|
"text": "There is no punishment afterward"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_first_pause_is_respected",
|
|
"text": "The first pause is respected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "nobody_argues_with_the_reason",
|
|
"text": "Nobody argues with the reason"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_mood_stays_kind",
|
|
"text": "The mood stays kind"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_no_punishment_afterward",
|
|
"text": "There is no punishment afterward"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_126",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps sexual boundaries feel like part of closeness?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent_boundaries",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "they_are_welcomed_early",
|
|
"text": "They are welcomed early"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "they_can_change",
|
|
"text": "They can change"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_can_name_them",
|
|
"text": "Both people can name them"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respect_does_not_depend_on_agreement",
|
|
"text": "Respect does not depend on agreement"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "they_are_welcomed_early",
|
|
"text": "They are welcomed early"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "they_can_change",
|
|
"text": "They can change"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_can_name_them",
|
|
"text": "Both people can name them"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respect_does_not_depend_on_agreement",
|
|
"text": "Respect does not depend on agreement"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_127",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which sexual check-in feels most natural?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent_boundaries",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quiet_question",
|
|
"text": "A quiet question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_direct_yes_or_no",
|
|
"text": "A direct yes or no"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_playful_check_in",
|
|
"text": "A playful check-in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reading_the_moment_and_still_asking",
|
|
"text": "Reading the moment and still asking"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quiet_question",
|
|
"text": "A quiet question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_direct_yes_or_no",
|
|
"text": "A direct yes or no"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_playful_check_in",
|
|
"text": "A playful check-in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reading_the_moment_and_still_asking",
|
|
"text": "Reading the moment and still asking"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_128",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should never be treated as automatic permission for sex?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent_boundaries",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_past_yes",
|
|
"text": "A past yes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "flirting_earlier",
|
|
"text": "Flirting earlier"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_naked_or_in_bed_together",
|
|
"text": "Being naked or in bed together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_plan_made_before_the_mood_changed",
|
|
"text": "A plan made before the mood changed"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_past_yes",
|
|
"text": "A past yes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "flirting_earlier",
|
|
"text": "Flirting earlier"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_naked_or_in_bed_together",
|
|
"text": "Being naked or in bed together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_plan_made_before_the_mood_changed",
|
|
"text": "A plan made before the mood changed"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_129",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which responses make saying no to sex easier to trust?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent_boundaries",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "okay_thank_you_for_telling_me",
|
|
"text": "Okay, thank you for telling me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_problem",
|
|
"text": "No problem"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "would_you_like_space_or_affection",
|
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"text": "Would you like space or affection"
|
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},
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{
|
|
"id": "we_are_still_good",
|
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"text": "We are still good"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
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{
|
|
"id": "okay_thank_you_for_telling_me",
|
|
"text": "Okay, thank you for telling me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_problem",
|
|
"text": "No problem"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "would_you_like_space_or_affection",
|
|
"text": "Would you like space or affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_still_good",
|
|
"text": "We are still good"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
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"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "sex_and_desire_130",
|
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
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"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How safe does it feel to name a sexual boundary before it becomes urgent?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent_boundaries",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not safe yet",
|
|
"max_label": "Completely safe"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_131",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps pausing during sex feel normal rather than alarming?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent_boundaries",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "using_a_simple_word",
|
|
"text": "Using a simple word"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stopping_without_debate",
|
|
"text": "Stopping without debate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "checking_what_is_needed",
|
|
"text": "Checking what is needed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_connection_can_continue_later",
|
|
"text": "Knowing connection can continue later"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "using_a_simple_word",
|
|
"text": "Using a simple word"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stopping_without_debate",
|
|
"text": "Stopping without debate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "checking_what_is_needed",
|
|
"text": "Checking what is needed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_connection_can_continue_later",
|
|
"text": "Knowing connection can continue later"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_132",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "When a sexual boundary changes, what matters most?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent_boundaries",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "believing_it",
|
|
"text": "Believing it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respecting_it_immediately",
|
|
"text": "Respecting it immediately"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "staying_kind",
|
|
"text": "Staying kind"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_making_it_a_test_of_love",
|
|
"text": "Not making it a test of love"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "believing_it",
|
|
"text": "Believing it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respecting_it_immediately",
|
|
"text": "Respecting it immediately"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "staying_kind",
|
|
"text": "Staying kind"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_making_it_a_test_of_love",
|
|
"text": "Not making it a test of love"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_133",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which agreements protect both sexual playfulness and safety?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent_boundaries",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_can_slow_down",
|
|
"text": "Either person can slow down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plans_can_change",
|
|
"text": "Plans can change"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "surprises_stay_within_known_comfort",
|
|
"text": "Surprises stay within known comfort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feedback_is_welcomed",
|
|
"text": "Feedback is welcomed"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_can_slow_down",
|
|
"text": "Either person can slow down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plans_can_change",
|
|
"text": "Plans can change"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "surprises_stay_within_known_comfort",
|
|
"text": "Surprises stay within known comfort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feedback_is_welcomed",
|
|
"text": "Feedback is welcomed"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_134",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes sexual trust grow after an honest no?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent_boundaries",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_retaliation",
|
|
"text": "No retaliation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "warmth_afterward",
|
|
"text": "Warmth afterward"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_next_invitation_still_feels_safe",
|
|
"text": "The next invitation still feels safe"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_retaliation",
|
|
"text": "No retaliation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "warmth_afterward",
|
|
"text": "Warmth afterward"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "privacy",
|
|
"text": "Privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_next_invitation_still_feels_safe",
|
|
"text": "The next invitation still feels safe"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_135",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which things help sex and desire stay freely chosen?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent_boundaries",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"consent_first",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_scorekeeping",
|
|
"text": "No scorekeeping"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_guilt_for_saying_no",
|
|
"text": "No guilt for saying no"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_affection_used_as_leverage",
|
|
"text": "No affection used as leverage"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_assumption_that_touch_must_become_sex",
|
|
"text": "No assumption that touch must become sex"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_scorekeeping",
|
|
"text": "No scorekeeping"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_guilt_for_saying_no",
|
|
"text": "No guilt for saying no"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_affection_used_as_leverage",
|
|
"text": "No affection used as leverage"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_assumption_that_touch_must_become_sex",
|
|
"text": "No assumption that touch must become sex"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_136",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What has gotten better about our sex life over time?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term_chemistry",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trust",
|
|
"text": "Trust"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sexual_communication",
|
|
"text": "Sexual communication"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "confidence",
|
|
"text": "Confidence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_each_other_s_libido_patterns",
|
|
"text": "Knowing each other's libido patterns"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trust",
|
|
"text": "Trust"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sexual_communication",
|
|
"text": "Sexual communication"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "confidence",
|
|
"text": "Confidence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_each_other_s_libido_patterns",
|
|
"text": "Knowing each other's libido patterns"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_137",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What has changed most about our sexual desire?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term_chemistry",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_arousal_starts",
|
|
"text": "How arousal starts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_often_we_want_sex",
|
|
"text": "How often we want sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_helps_desire_grow",
|
|
"text": "What helps desire grow"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_openly_we_discuss_it",
|
|
"text": "How openly we discuss it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_arousal_starts",
|
|
"text": "How arousal starts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_often_we_want_sex",
|
|
"text": "How often we want sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_helps_desire_grow",
|
|
"text": "What helps desire grow"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_openly_we_discuss_it",
|
|
"text": "How openly we discuss it"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_138",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How alive does our sexual chemistry feel right now?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term_chemistry",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_chemistry",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Very routine",
|
|
"max_label": "Fresh and alive"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_139",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Recreate an old sexual spark or build a new one?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term_chemistry",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_chemistry",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "recreate_an_old_sexual_spark",
|
|
"text": "Recreate an old sexual spark"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "build_a_new_one",
|
|
"text": "Build a new one"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "recreate_an_old_sexual_spark",
|
|
"text": "Recreate an old sexual spark"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "build_a_new_one",
|
|
"text": "Build a new one"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_140",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which old memories still carry the most sexual chemistry?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term_chemistry",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"fun_first",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_chemistry",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_early_date",
|
|
"text": "An early date"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_night_we_could_not_stop_flirting",
|
|
"text": "A night we could not stop flirting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "seeing_each_other_after_time_apart",
|
|
"text": "Seeing each other after time apart"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_ordinary_night_that_unexpectedly_turned_hot",
|
|
"text": "An ordinary night that unexpectedly turned hot"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_early_date",
|
|
"text": "An early date"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_night_we_could_not_stop_flirting",
|
|
"text": "A night we could not stop flirting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "seeing_each_other_after_time_apart",
|
|
"text": "Seeing each other after time apart"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_ordinary_night_that_unexpectedly_turned_hot",
|
|
"text": "An ordinary night that unexpectedly turned hot"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_141",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps long-term sexual desire feel chosen instead of assumed?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term_chemistry",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "still_asking",
|
|
"text": "Still asking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "still_flirting",
|
|
"text": "Still flirting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "still_protecting_time_for_sex",
|
|
"text": "Still protecting time for sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "still_noticing_what_turns_each_other_on",
|
|
"text": "Still noticing what turns each other on"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
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{
|
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"id": "still_asking",
|
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"text": "Still asking"
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},
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{
|
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"id": "still_flirting",
|
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"text": "Still flirting"
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "still_protecting_time_for_sex",
|
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"text": "Still protecting time for sex"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "still_noticing_what_turns_each_other_on",
|
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"text": "Still noticing what turns each other on"
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}
|
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],
|
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"min_selections": 1,
|
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"max_selections": 3
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "sex_and_desire_142",
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
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"type": "single_choice",
|
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"text": "Which kind of sexual novelty sounds best right now?",
|
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"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term_chemistry",
|
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"sex_and_desire",
|
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"fun_first",
|
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"adult_language",
|
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"sexual_novelty",
|
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"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_different_setting",
|
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"text": "A different setting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_different_rhythm",
|
|
"text": "A different rhythm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_bolder_way_to_flirt",
|
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"text": "A bolder way to flirt"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_more_honest_desire_conversation",
|
|
"text": "A more honest desire conversation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_different_setting",
|
|
"text": "A different setting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_different_rhythm",
|
|
"text": "A different rhythm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_bolder_way_to_flirt",
|
|
"text": "A bolder way to flirt"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_more_honest_desire_conversation",
|
|
"text": "A more honest desire conversation"
|
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}
|
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]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "sex_and_desire_143",
|
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"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can make sexual chemistry go quiet in a long relationship?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term_chemistry",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_chemistry",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "exhaustion",
|
|
"text": "Exhaustion"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "unspoken_resentment",
|
|
"text": "Unspoken resentment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_little_privacy",
|
|
"text": "Too little privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "assuming_attraction_no_longer_needs_attention",
|
|
"text": "Assuming attraction no longer needs attention"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "exhaustion",
|
|
"text": "Exhaustion"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "unspoken_resentment",
|
|
"text": "Unspoken resentment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_little_privacy",
|
|
"text": "Too little privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "assuming_attraction_no_longer_needs_attention",
|
|
"text": "Assuming attraction no longer needs attention"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_144",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which small changes could wake up more sexual anticipation?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term_chemistry",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_chemistry",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_planned_date_with_privacy_afterward",
|
|
"text": "A planned date with privacy afterward"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "suggestive_messages",
|
|
"text": "Suggestive messages"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "going_to_bed_before_we_are_exhausted",
|
|
"text": "Going to bed before we are exhausted"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protecting_time_before_responsibilities_take_over",
|
|
"text": "Protecting time before responsibilities take over"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_planned_date_with_privacy_afterward",
|
|
"text": "A planned date with privacy afterward"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "suggestive_messages",
|
|
"text": "Suggestive messages"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "going_to_bed_before_we_are_exhausted",
|
|
"text": "Going to bed before we are exhausted"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protecting_time_before_responsibilities_take_over",
|
|
"text": "Protecting time before responsibilities take over"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_145",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How hopeful do you feel about our sexual chemistry growing from here?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term_chemistry",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_chemistry",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not very hopeful yet",
|
|
"max_label": "Very hopeful"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_146",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should we stop assuming about each other's libido?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term_chemistry",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"libido",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "that_it_works_the_same_as_before",
|
|
"text": "That it works the same as before"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "that_silence_means_no_sexual_interest",
|
|
"text": "That silence means no sexual interest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "that_one_person_should_always_initiate_sex",
|
|
"text": "That one person should always initiate sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "that_libido_should_be_predictable",
|
|
"text": "That libido should be predictable"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "that_it_works_the_same_as_before",
|
|
"text": "That it works the same as before"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "that_silence_means_no_sexual_interest",
|
|
"text": "That silence means no sexual interest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "that_one_person_should_always_initiate_sex",
|
|
"text": "That one person should always initiate sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "that_libido_should_be_predictable",
|
|
"text": "That libido should be predictable"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_147",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which sign would tell you our sexual chemistry is growing?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term_chemistry",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"sexual_chemistry",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_spontaneous_flirting",
|
|
"text": "More spontaneous flirting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_honest_sexual_invitations",
|
|
"text": "More honest sexual invitations"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_anticipation",
|
|
"text": "More anticipation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_ease_after_a_no",
|
|
"text": "More ease after a no"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_spontaneous_flirting",
|
|
"text": "More spontaneous flirting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_honest_sexual_invitations",
|
|
"text": "More honest sexual invitations"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_anticipation",
|
|
"text": "More anticipation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_ease_after_a_no",
|
|
"text": "More ease after a no"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_148",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What deserves protecting as our sex life changes?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term_chemistry",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "private_time",
|
|
"text": "Private time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sexual_playfulness",
|
|
"text": "Sexual playfulness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honest_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Honest conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "freedom_to_change",
|
|
"text": "Freedom to change"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "private_time",
|
|
"text": "Private time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sexual_playfulness",
|
|
"text": "Sexual playfulness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honest_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Honest conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "freedom_to_change",
|
|
"text": "Freedom to change"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_149",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which future version of our sex life sounds most appealing?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term_chemistry",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_playful",
|
|
"text": "More playful"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_direct",
|
|
"text": "More direct"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_relaxed",
|
|
"text": "More relaxed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_adventurous_within_our_comfort",
|
|
"text": "More adventurous within our comfort"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_playful",
|
|
"text": "More playful"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_direct",
|
|
"text": "More direct"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_relaxed",
|
|
"text": "More relaxed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_adventurous_within_our_comfort",
|
|
"text": "More adventurous within our comfort"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sex_and_desire_150",
|
|
"category_id": "sex_and_desire",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make sexual desire feel like something we build together?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term_chemistry",
|
|
"sex_and_desire",
|
|
"gentle_depth",
|
|
"adult_language",
|
|
"mutual_desire",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_of_us_show_sexual_interest",
|
|
"text": "Both of us show sexual interest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_help_create_time_for_sex",
|
|
"text": "Both help create time for sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_can_ask_clearly",
|
|
"text": "Both can ask clearly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_can_change_course_safely",
|
|
"text": "Both can change course safely"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_of_us_show_sexual_interest",
|
|
"text": "Both of us show sexual interest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_help_create_time_for_sex",
|
|
"text": "Both help create time for sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_can_ask_clearly",
|
|
"text": "Both can ask clearly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_can_change_course_safely",
|
|
"text": "Both can change course safely"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|