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10029 lines
253 KiB
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{
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"category": {
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"id": "couple_intimacy",
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"display_name": "Couple Intimacy",
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"description": "Warm, adult, consent-first questions about affection, desire, emotional closeness, privacy, feedback, aftercare, play, and growing intimacy together.",
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"access": "mixed",
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"icon_name": "favorite",
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"schema_version": "question_v2",
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"metadata": {
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"total_questions": 300,
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"free_questions": 60,
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"premium_questions": 240,
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"type_counts": {
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"written": 12,
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"single_choice": 60,
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"multi_choice": 168,
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"scale": 42,
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"this_or_that": 18
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},
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"sex_counts": {
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"neutral": 300,
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"female": 0,
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"male": 0
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},
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"content_version": "couple_intimacy_v4_strict_guide_pass",
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"batch_size": 10,
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"review_policy": "30 batches of 10 with cumulative repetition, consent, option-fit, premium-value, and related-pack checks",
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"mass_rewrite_exception": {
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"used": true,
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"reason": "The source pack had a shared root failure across more than 60% of the content: 180 written prompts, repeated template blocks, and basic preferences that did not earn typed responses.",
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"preserved_fields": [
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"300 total questions",
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"IDs couple_intimacy_001 through couple_intimacy_300",
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"60 free / 240 premium",
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"category id",
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"question_v2 schema"
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]
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},
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"type_distribution_note": "This 300-question special pack scales the standard v6 type ratio to 168 multi-choice, 60 single-choice, 42 scale, 18 this-or-that, and 12 written.",
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"content_scope": "Shared couple intimacy: mutual affection, desire, consent, communication, privacy, aftercare, repair, play, and long-term closeness. It avoids unnecessary gender targeting and keeps all questions neutral.",
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"final_review_note": "A stricter repo-based review used 30 batches of 10 and patched consent baselines, option fit, related-pack overlap, natural-language issues, premium value, and depth balance while preserving passing questions.",
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"depth_compatibility_note": "Numeric depth values are retained for the active seed/import contract: 1–2 light, 3 medium, and 4–5 deep.",
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"strict_review_note": "A stricter repo-based pass patched automatic-reject phrasing, consent baselines, prompt-option mismatches, related-pack overlap, and unnatural wording while preserving passing questions.",
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"depth_counts": {
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"1": 4,
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"2": 121,
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"3": 115,
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"4": 15,
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"5": 45
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},
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"depth_balance_note": "Final guide-aligned balance: 125 light (depth 1–2), 115 medium (depth 3), and 60 deep (depth 4–5), matching the sensitive-pack target range."
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}
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},
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"questions": [
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{
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which ordinary moments make you feel most like a couple?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"everyday_affection",
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"couple_intimacy"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "sharing_the_first_few_minutes_home",
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"text": "Sharing the first few minutes home"
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},
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{
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"id": "laughing_over_something_only_we_understand",
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"text": "Laughing over something only we understand"
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},
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{
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"id": "choosing_each_other_over_our_phones",
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"text": "Choosing each other over our phones"
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},
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{
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"id": "turning_a_task_into_time_together",
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"text": "Turning a task into time together"
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},
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{
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"id": "checking_in_before_the_day_ends",
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"text": "Checking in before the day ends"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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},
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"id": "couple_intimacy_001",
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"access": "free",
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"sex": "neutral"
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},
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{
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Pick the small morning ritual that would help us feel like a couple before the day starts.",
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"depth": 1,
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"tags": [
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"morning_affection",
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"couple_intimacy"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "share_coffee_without_phones",
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"text": "Share coffee without phones"
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},
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{
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"id": "trade_one_warm_compliment",
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"text": "Trade one warm compliment"
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},
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{
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"id": "pick_a_song_for_the_morning",
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"text": "Pick a song for the morning"
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},
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{
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"id": "check_in_before_the_day_starts",
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"text": "Check in before the day starts"
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}
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]
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},
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"id": "couple_intimacy_002",
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"access": "free",
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"sex": "neutral"
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},
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{
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "When we reunite after work, what helps us reconnect?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"reunion",
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"couple_intimacy"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "put_everything_down_and_say_hello",
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"text": "Put everything down and say hello"
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},
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{
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"id": "trade_the_best_part_of_the_day",
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"text": "Trade the best part of the day"
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},
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{
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"id": "take_five_quiet_minutes_together",
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"text": "Take five quiet minutes together"
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},
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{
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"id": "make_each_other_laugh",
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"text": "Make each other laugh"
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},
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{
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"id": "say_what_we_missed",
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"text": "Say what we missed"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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},
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"id": "couple_intimacy_003",
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral"
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},
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{
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"type": "scale",
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"text": "How connected do our small daily rituals make you feel?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"casual_touch",
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"couple_intimacy"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min": 1,
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"max": 5,
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"min_label": "Not very connected",
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"max_label": "Very connected"
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},
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"id": "couple_intimacy_004",
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"access": "free",
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"sex": "neutral"
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},
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{
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What makes shared quiet feel intimate instead of distant?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"shared_space",
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"couple_intimacy"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "choosing_to_be_together",
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"text": "Choosing to be together"
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},
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{
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"id": "putting_phones_away",
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"text": "Putting phones away"
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},
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{
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"id": "easy_eye_contact",
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"text": "Easy eye contact"
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},
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{
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"id": "comfortable_silence",
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"text": "Comfortable silence"
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},
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{
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"id": "knowing_conversation_can_wait",
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"text": "Knowing conversation can wait"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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},
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"id": "couple_intimacy_005",
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral"
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},
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{
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Pick the small romantic gesture that feels most like us.",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"romantic_touch",
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"couple_intimacy"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_private_note",
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"text": "A private note"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_song_sent_at_the_right_moment",
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"text": "A song sent at the right moment"
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},
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{
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"id": "saving_a_favorite_treat",
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"text": "Saving a favorite treat"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_sincere_compliment",
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"text": "A sincere compliment"
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}
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]
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},
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"id": "couple_intimacy_006",
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral"
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},
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{
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What small gestures help us stay connected during a busy day?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"busy_day",
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"couple_intimacy"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_flirty_message",
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"text": "A flirty message"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_thoughtful_check_in",
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"text": "A thoughtful check-in"
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},
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{
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"id": "sharing_a_tiny_win",
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"text": "Sharing a tiny win"
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},
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{
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"id": "sending_something_funny",
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"text": "Sending something funny"
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},
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{
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"id": "making_a_simple_plan_for_later",
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"text": "Making a simple plan for later"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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},
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"id": "couple_intimacy_007",
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral"
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},
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{
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which bedtime habits help us feel like a couple?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"bedtime",
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"couple_intimacy"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "talking_for_a_few_minutes",
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"text": "Talking for a few minutes"
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},
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{
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"id": "sharing_one_good_thing",
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"text": "Sharing one good thing"
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},
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{
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"id": "putting_phones_away",
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"text": "Putting phones away"
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},
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{
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"id": "planning_something_small",
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"text": "Planning something small"
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},
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{
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"id": "saying_goodnight_with_intention",
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"text": "Saying goodnight with intention"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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},
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"id": "couple_intimacy_008",
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral"
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},
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{
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"type": "written",
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"text": "What small couple ritual from our earlier days would you love to bring back?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"affection_memory",
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"couple_intimacy"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"max_length": 400
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},
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"id": "couple_intimacy_009",
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral"
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},
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{
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What makes a reunion moment feel especially like us?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"hugs",
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"couple_intimacy"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "we_stop_and_notice_each_other",
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"text": "We stop and notice each other"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_trade_a_private_joke",
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"text": "We trade a private joke"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_share_what_we_missed",
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"text": "We share what we missed"
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},
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{
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"id": "we_do_not_rush_past_it",
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"text": "We do not rush past it"
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},
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{
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"id": "it_fits_the_day_we_had",
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"text": "It fits the day we had"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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},
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"id": "couple_intimacy_010",
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral"
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},
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{
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Pick the welcome-home moment that would feel sweetest.",
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"depth": 1,
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"tags": [
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"surprise_kiss",
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"couple_intimacy"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_full_attention_hello",
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"text": "A full-attention hello"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_few_quiet_minutes",
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"text": "A few quiet minutes"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_playful_recap_of_the_day",
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"text": "A playful recap of the day"
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},
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{
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"id": "making_a_plan_for_the_evening",
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"text": "Making a plan for the evening"
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}
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]
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},
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"id": "couple_intimacy_011",
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral"
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},
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{
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What keeps romantic attention warm without becoming automatic?",
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"depth": 3,
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"tags": [
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"intentional_affection",
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"couple_intimacy"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "changing_the_timing",
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"text": "Changing the timing"
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},
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{
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"id": "being_specific",
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"text": "Being specific"
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},
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{
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"id": "noticing_the_other_person_s_mood",
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"text": "Noticing the other person’s mood"
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},
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{
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"id": "choosing_it_instead_of_assuming_it",
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"text": "Choosing it instead of assuming it"
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},
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{
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"id": "keeping_pressure_out_of_it",
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"text": "Keeping pressure out of it"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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},
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"id": "couple_intimacy_012",
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral"
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},
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{
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"type": "scale",
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"text": "How connected do our everyday couple rituals feel lately?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"affection_check",
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"couple_intimacy"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min": 1,
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"max": 5,
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"min_label": "Not very connected",
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"max_label": "Very connected"
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},
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"id": "couple_intimacy_013",
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral"
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},
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{
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which ordinary moments could use more couple attention?",
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"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
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"daily_moments",
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"couple_intimacy"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "morning_routines",
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"text": "Morning routines"
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},
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{
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"id": "coming_home",
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"text": "Coming home"
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},
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{
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"id": "meals_together",
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"text": "Meals together"
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},
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{
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"id": "screen_time",
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"text": "Screen time"
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},
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{
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"id": "getting_ready_for_bed",
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"text": "Getting ready for bed"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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},
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"id": "couple_intimacy_014",
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"access": "premium",
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"sex": "neutral"
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},
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{
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What helps closeness feel satisfying even when sex is not the goal?",
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"depth": 3,
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"tags": [
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"nonsexual_affection",
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"couple_intimacy"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "time_without_pressure",
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"text": "Time without pressure"
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},
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{
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"id": "feeling_chosen",
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"text": "Feeling chosen"
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},
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{
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"id": "honest_conversation",
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"text": "Honest conversation"
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},
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{
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"id": "shared_laughter",
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"text": "Shared laughter"
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},
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{
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"id": "ending_warmly",
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"text": "Ending warmly"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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},
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||
"id": "couple_intimacy_015",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which playful energy makes affection more fun?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"playfulness",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "private_jokes",
|
||
"text": "Private jokes"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "playful_challenges",
|
||
"text": "Playful challenges"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "silly_compliments",
|
||
"text": "Silly compliments"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "unexpected_dancing",
|
||
"text": "Unexpected dancing"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "teasing_that_stays_kind",
|
||
"text": "Teasing that stays kind"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_016",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the flirty signal that feels most naturally ours.",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"flirting",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_knowing_look",
|
||
"text": "A knowing look"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_bold_compliment",
|
||
"text": "A bold compliment"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_playful_text",
|
||
"text": "A playful text"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_slow_kiss_in_passing",
|
||
"text": "A slow kiss in passing"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_017",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does teasing feel exciting instead of annoying?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"teasing",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "good_timing",
|
||
"text": "Good timing"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_warm_tone",
|
||
"text": "A warm tone"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "knowing_when_to_stop",
|
||
"text": "Knowing when to stop"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "flirting_back_and_forth",
|
||
"text": "Flirting back and forth"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_embarrassing_audience",
|
||
"text": "No embarrassing audience"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_018",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How playful does our affection feel right now?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"playful_affection",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not very playful",
|
||
"max_label": "Very playful"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_019",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What tiny games could make private time more fun?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"private_games",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "take_turns_choosing_music",
|
||
"text": "Take turns choosing music"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "trade_specific_compliments",
|
||
"text": "Trade specific compliments"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "guess_each_other_s_favorite_compliment",
|
||
"text": "Guess each other's favorite compliment"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choose_a_cozy_spot_together",
|
||
"text": "Choose a cozy spot together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "create_a_private_signal",
|
||
"text": "Create a private signal"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_020",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "What kind of laughter feels most natural during intimate moments?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"laughter",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "soft_giggles",
|
||
"text": "Soft giggles"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "big_shared_laughs",
|
||
"text": "Big shared laughs"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "laughing_through_an_awkward_moment",
|
||
"text": "Laughing through an awkward moment"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "very_little_unless_it_happens_naturally",
|
||
"text": "Very little unless it happens naturally"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_021",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which flirty messages would brighten your day?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"flirty_messages",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_specific_compliment",
|
||
"text": "A specific compliment"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_memory_of_last_night",
|
||
"text": "A memory of last night"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_simple_i_want_you",
|
||
"text": "A simple 'I want you'"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_playful_invitation",
|
||
"text": "A playful invitation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "an_inside_joke_with_a_hint",
|
||
"text": "An inside joke with a hint"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_022",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What helps a private game stay comfortable?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"game_safety",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "skipping_is_always_allowed",
|
||
"text": "Skipping is always allowed"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "rules_are_clear_first",
|
||
"text": "Rules are clear first"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "either_person_can_pause",
|
||
"text": "Either person can pause"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "the_mood_stays_kind",
|
||
"text": "The mood stays kind"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_surprise_escalation",
|
||
"text": "No surprise escalation"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_023",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "written",
|
||
"text": "What is one playful thing we have done that you would gladly repeat?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"playful_memory",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"max_length": 400
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_024",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which forms of anticipation feel fun to you?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"anticipation",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_flirty_text",
|
||
"text": "A flirty text"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "knowing_looks_across_a_room",
|
||
"text": "Knowing looks across a room"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_planned_private_night",
|
||
"text": "A planned private night"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "small_touches_during_the_day",
|
||
"text": "Small touches during the day"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_secret_countdown",
|
||
"text": "A secret countdown"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_025",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the playful invitation you would most enjoy hearing.",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"invitation",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "come_kiss_me",
|
||
"text": "Come kiss me"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "want_a_private_minute",
|
||
"text": "Want a private minute?"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_have_an_idea_for_us",
|
||
"text": "I have an idea for us"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "want_to_be_a_little_distracted",
|
||
"text": "Want to be a little distracted?"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_026",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What could make an at-home night feel flirtier?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"home_flirting",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "dress_up_a_little",
|
||
"text": "Dress up a little"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choose_a_mood_playlist",
|
||
"text": "Choose a mood playlist"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "trade_bold_compliments",
|
||
"text": "Trade bold compliments"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "turn_off_the_television",
|
||
"text": "Turn off the television"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "make_dessert_together",
|
||
"text": "Make dessert together"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_027",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How easy is it for us to be silly without losing the mood?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"silliness",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not easy",
|
||
"max_label": "Very easy"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_028",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What small surprises would feel exciting?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"surprises",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_favorite_outfit",
|
||
"text": "A favorite outfit"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_private_note",
|
||
"text": "A private note"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_changed_up_setting",
|
||
"text": "A changed-up setting"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_new_playlist",
|
||
"text": "A new playlist"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_favorite_treat_waiting",
|
||
"text": "A favorite treat waiting"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_029",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does playful competition feel attractive rather than tense?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"competition",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "low_stakes",
|
||
"text": "Low stakes"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "lots_of_laughter",
|
||
"text": "Lots of laughter"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_keeping_score_afterward",
|
||
"text": "No keeping score afterward"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_shared_treat_afterward",
|
||
"text": "A shared treat afterward"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "easy_permission_to_quit",
|
||
"text": "Easy permission to quit"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_030",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What helps you shift toward closeness after a heavy day?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"stress_relief",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "quiet_time_first",
|
||
"text": "Quiet time first"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_warm_shower",
|
||
"text": "A warm shower"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "help_with_one_task",
|
||
"text": "Help with one task"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_calm_conversation",
|
||
"text": "A calm conversation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_fixed_plan",
|
||
"text": "No fixed plan"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_031",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the comfort that feels best before closeness.",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"comfort",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "having_space_first",
|
||
"text": "Having space first"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "talking_things_through",
|
||
"text": "Talking things through"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_drink_or_snack",
|
||
"text": "A drink or snack"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_little_playful_distraction",
|
||
"text": "A little playful distraction"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_032",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When stress is high, what kind of connection still feels welcome?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"stress_affection",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "quiet_company",
|
||
"text": "Quiet company"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_brief_check_in",
|
||
"text": "A brief check-in"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_shared_laugh",
|
||
"text": "A shared laugh"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "sitting_together",
|
||
"text": "Sitting together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "an_early_night",
|
||
"text": "An early night"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_033",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How much does stress affect your interest in intimacy?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"stress_effect",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Hardly at all",
|
||
"max_label": "A great deal"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_034",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does closeness feel soothing rather than demanding?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"soothing_closeness",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_expectation_of_more",
|
||
"text": "No expectation of more"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_slow_pace",
|
||
"text": "A slow pace"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "asking_before_touching",
|
||
"text": "Asking before touching"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "being_able_to_change_my_mind",
|
||
"text": "Being able to change my mind"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_check_in_if_i_tense_up",
|
||
"text": "A check-in if I tense up"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_035",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "After a draining day, what kind of connection sounds best?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"draining_day",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "quiet_time_together",
|
||
"text": "Quiet time together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_playful_moment",
|
||
"text": "A playful moment"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_meaningful_talk",
|
||
"text": "A meaningful talk"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "early_sleep_together",
|
||
"text": "Early sleep together"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_036",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What signs tell you that you need gentleness?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"gentleness_signals",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_become_quiet",
|
||
"text": "I become quiet"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_pull_away",
|
||
"text": "I pull away"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_ask_for_slower",
|
||
"text": "I ask for slower"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "my_body_feels_tense",
|
||
"text": "My body feels tense"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_stop_responding_playfully",
|
||
"text": "I stop responding playfully"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_037",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When you feel overwhelmed, what makes affection easier?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"overwhelm",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "fewer_questions",
|
||
"text": "Fewer questions"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "one_simple_choice",
|
||
"text": "One simple choice"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "low_lighting",
|
||
"text": "Low lighting"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_time_pressure",
|
||
"text": "No time pressure"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_clear_option_to_be_alone",
|
||
"text": "A clear option to be alone"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_038",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "written",
|
||
"text": "When you are stressed, what should I remember about closeness?",
|
||
"depth": 4,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"stress_written",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"max_length": 400
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_039",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What helps you shift from responsibilities into couple time?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"transition",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "finishing_one_last_task",
|
||
"text": "Finishing one last task"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "changing_clothes",
|
||
"text": "Changing clothes"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "taking_ten_quiet_minutes",
|
||
"text": "Taking ten quiet minutes"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "sharing_a_snack",
|
||
"text": "Sharing a snack"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "starting_with_nonsexual_affection",
|
||
"text": "Starting with nonsexual affection"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_040",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which calming first step would you choose?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"calming_touch",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_quiet_room",
|
||
"text": "A quiet room"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_warm_drink",
|
||
"text": "A warm drink"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "slow_breathing_together",
|
||
"text": "Slow breathing together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_gentle_conversation",
|
||
"text": "A gentle conversation"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_041",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What keeps tiredness from turning into distance?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"tiredness",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "saying_what_we_have_energy_for",
|
||
"text": "Saying what we have energy for"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keeping_affection_simple",
|
||
"text": "Keeping affection simple"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "not_taking_no_personally",
|
||
"text": "Not taking no personally"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "planning_another_time",
|
||
"text": "Planning another time"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "ending_the_day_kindly",
|
||
"text": "Ending the day kindly"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_042",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How safe do you feel asking for less intensity?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"lower_intensity",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not very safe",
|
||
"max_label": "Completely safe"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_043",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What conditions make desire feel more possible?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"desire_return",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_rested",
|
||
"text": "Feeling rested"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_appreciated",
|
||
"text": "Feeling appreciated"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "having_privacy",
|
||
"text": "Having privacy"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "being_emotionally_settled",
|
||
"text": "Being emotionally settled"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "receiving_affection_without_pressure",
|
||
"text": "Receiving affection without pressure"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_044",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When neither of us has much energy, how can we stay close?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"low_energy",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "touching_while_resting",
|
||
"text": "Touching while resting"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "sharing_one_good_conversation",
|
||
"text": "Sharing one good conversation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_short_cuddle",
|
||
"text": "A short cuddle"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "laughing_together",
|
||
"text": "Laughing together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "making_a_plan_for_later",
|
||
"text": "Making a plan for later"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_045",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What makes initiation feel like a shared moment?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"initiation",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "good_timing",
|
||
"text": "Good timing"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_warm_confident_invitation",
|
||
"text": "A warm, confident invitation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "an_easy_way_to_decline",
|
||
"text": "An easy way to decline"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "starting_with_affection",
|
||
"text": "Starting with affection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "checking_how_the_other_person_responds",
|
||
"text": "Checking how the other person responds"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_046",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the invitation style that feels most comfortable for both of us.",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"first_move",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_direct_question",
|
||
"text": "A direct question"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_slow_affectionate_start",
|
||
"text": "A slow affectionate start"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_playful_invitation",
|
||
"text": "A playful invitation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_quiet_whispered_question",
|
||
"text": "A quiet whispered question"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_047",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "How do you like desire to be shown?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"showing_desire",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "specific_words",
|
||
"text": "Specific words"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "focused_eye_contact",
|
||
"text": "Focused eye contact"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "slow_touch",
|
||
"text": "Slow touch"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "making_private_time",
|
||
"text": "Making private time"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "playful_pursuit",
|
||
"text": "Playful pursuit"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_048",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How comfortable are you initiating closeness lately?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"initiation_comfort",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
|
||
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_049",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What signals help you feel genuinely wanted?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"wanted",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "they_say_it_clearly",
|
||
"text": "They say it clearly"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "they_make_time",
|
||
"text": "They make time"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "they_notice_details",
|
||
"text": "They notice details"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "they_stay_present",
|
||
"text": "They stay present"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "they_respond_to_my_cues",
|
||
"text": "They respond to my cues"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_050",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the invitation that gives you the most room to answer honestly.",
|
||
"depth": 4,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"honest_invitation",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "would_closeness_feel_good",
|
||
"text": "Would closeness feel good?"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "may_i_kiss_you",
|
||
"text": "May I kiss you?"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "want_some_private_time",
|
||
"text": "Want some private time?"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "what_kind_of_affection_sounds_good",
|
||
"text": "What kind of affection sounds good?"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_051",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does being pursued feel exciting?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"pursuit",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "confidence_without_pressure",
|
||
"text": "Confidence without pressure"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_playful_build_up",
|
||
"text": "A playful build-up"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_emotionally_connected",
|
||
"text": "Feeling emotionally connected"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "enough_privacy",
|
||
"text": "Enough privacy"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "being_able_to_slow_it_down",
|
||
"text": "Being able to slow it down"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_052",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which things quietly build desire during the day?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"daily_desire",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "thoughtful_attention",
|
||
"text": "Thoughtful attention"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "flirty_messages",
|
||
"text": "Flirty messages"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "shared_laughter",
|
||
"text": "Shared laughter"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "seeing_you_feel_confident",
|
||
"text": "Seeing you feel confident"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "small_welcome_touches",
|
||
"text": "Small welcome touches"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_053",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "written",
|
||
"text": "When have you felt most clearly chosen by me?",
|
||
"depth": 4,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"chosen",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"max_length": 400
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_054",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does spontaneous intimacy work well for you?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"spontaneity",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "both_people_are_clearly_interested",
|
||
"text": "Both people are clearly interested"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "there_is_enough_time",
|
||
"text": "There is enough time"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "privacy_is_secure",
|
||
"text": "Privacy is secure"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "stopping_stays_easy",
|
||
"text": "Stopping stays easy"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "the_mood_already_feels_connected",
|
||
"text": "The mood already feels connected"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_055",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the initiation style that feels most like us.",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"initiation_style",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "sweet_and_obvious",
|
||
"text": "Sweet and obvious"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "playful_and_teasing",
|
||
"text": "Playful and teasing"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "quiet_and_slow",
|
||
"text": "Quiet and slow"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "bold_but_attentive",
|
||
"text": "Bold but attentive"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_056",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What helps when one person wants closeness first?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"different_timing",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_gentle_invitation",
|
||
"text": "A gentle invitation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_repeated_asking",
|
||
"text": "No repeated asking"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "another_kind_of_affection",
|
||
"text": "Another kind of affection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_plan_to_reconnect_later",
|
||
"text": "A plan to reconnect later"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_sulking_afterward",
|
||
"text": "No sulking afterward"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_057",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How wanted do you feel in our relationship lately?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"wanted_scale",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not much lately",
|
||
"max_label": "Very much lately"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_058",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which compliments create attraction for you?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"attraction_compliments",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "something_about_my_appearance",
|
||
"text": "Something about my appearance"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "something_about_my_energy",
|
||
"text": "Something about my energy"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "something_about_our_chemistry",
|
||
"text": "Something about our chemistry"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "something_very_specific",
|
||
"text": "Something very specific"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "something_about_how_i_affect_you",
|
||
"text": "Something about how I affect you"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_059",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does desire feel mutual instead of expected or one-sided?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"mutual_desire",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "both_people_can_initiate",
|
||
"text": "Both people can initiate"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "both_people_can_decline",
|
||
"text": "Both people can decline"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feedback_is_welcomed",
|
||
"text": "Feedback is welcomed"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_one_rushes_the_response",
|
||
"text": "No one rushes the response"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "affection_matters_either_way",
|
||
"text": "Affection matters either way"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_060",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What helps a yes feel honest and freely chosen?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"consent_yes",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "enough_information",
|
||
"text": "Enough information"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_pressure_to_decide_fast",
|
||
"text": "No pressure to decide fast"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "trust_that_no_is_welcome",
|
||
"text": "Trust that no is welcome"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_emotionally_present",
|
||
"text": "Feeling emotionally present"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "knowing_i_can_change_my_mind",
|
||
"text": "Knowing I can change my mind"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_061",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which phrase should we agree to treat as our clearest stop signal?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"pause_phrase",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "pause_for_a_second",
|
||
"text": "Pause for a second"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "can_we_slow_down",
|
||
"text": "Can we slow down?"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_need_to_stop",
|
||
"text": "I need to stop"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "can_we_just_cuddle",
|
||
"text": "Can we just cuddle?"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_062",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "After stopping immediately for a pause, what would help next?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"pause_response",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "listening_without_arguing",
|
||
"text": "Listening without arguing"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "asking_what_feels_okay_now",
|
||
"text": "Asking what feels okay now"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "offering_space",
|
||
"text": "Offering space"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "switching_to_nonsexual_closeness_if_wanted",
|
||
"text": "Switching to nonsexual closeness if wanted"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "reassuring_there_is_no_pressure",
|
||
"text": "Reassuring there is no pressure"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_063",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How easy is it to change your mind during intimacy?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"change_mind",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Very hard",
|
||
"max_label": "Very easy"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_064",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does saying no feel emotionally safe?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"consent_no",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_kind_response",
|
||
"text": "A kind response"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_guilt_afterward",
|
||
"text": "No guilt afterward"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_repeated_request",
|
||
"text": "No repeated request"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "affection_stays_optional",
|
||
"text": "Affection stays optional"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "my_reason_is_not_demanded",
|
||
"text": "My reason is not demanded"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_065",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "After a no, what response would feel most reassuring?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"no_response",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "thanks_for_telling_me",
|
||
"text": "Thanks for telling me"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_problem_at_all",
|
||
"text": "No problem at all"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "would_you_prefer_space_or_another_kind_of_closeness",
|
||
"text": "Would you prefer space or another kind of closeness?"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_am_here_if_you_want_company",
|
||
"text": "I am here if you want company"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_066",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which quick question would help us stay connected without breaking the mood?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"check_ins",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "still_good",
|
||
"text": "Still good?"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "more_or_less",
|
||
"text": "More or less?"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "want_me_to_continue",
|
||
"text": "Want me to continue?"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "do_you_want_something_different",
|
||
"text": "Do you want something different?"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "need_a_pause",
|
||
"text": "Need a pause?"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_067",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What words would you most want us to respond to calmly?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"communication_basics",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "yes",
|
||
"text": "Yes"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no",
|
||
"text": "No"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "slower",
|
||
"text": "Slower"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "different",
|
||
"text": "Different"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_changed_my_mind",
|
||
"text": "I changed my mind"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_068",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "written",
|
||
"text": "What response from me helps you trust that your no is safe?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"no_trust",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"max_length": 400
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_069",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "How do we keep consent clear when the mood is playful?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"playful_consent",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "checking_before_escalating",
|
||
"text": "Checking before escalating"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "paying_attention_to_hesitation",
|
||
"text": "Paying attention to hesitation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keeping_safe_words_serious",
|
||
"text": "Keeping safe words serious"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "avoiding_surprise_restraints",
|
||
"text": "Avoiding surprise restraints"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "stopping_immediately_when_asked",
|
||
"text": "Stopping immediately when asked"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_070",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which signal would you prefer as a backup to words?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"backup_signal",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_double_tap",
|
||
"text": "A double tap"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_hand_squeeze",
|
||
"text": "A hand squeeze"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_clear_hand_away_gesture",
|
||
"text": "A clear hand-away gesture"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_backup_signal_words_only",
|
||
"text": "No backup signal—words only"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_071",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What keeps a new idea optional rather than expected?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"optional_novelty",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "talking_about_it_beforehand",
|
||
"text": "Talking about it beforehand"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_surprise_use",
|
||
"text": "No surprise use"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_clear_no_option",
|
||
"text": "A clear no option"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_disappointment_if_declined",
|
||
"text": "No disappointment if declined"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "letting_the_idea_stay_hypothetical",
|
||
"text": "Letting the idea stay hypothetical"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_072",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How confident are you that a pause will be respected immediately?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"pause_confidence",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not confident",
|
||
"max_label": "Completely confident"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_073",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What behaviors protect trust after a boundary is named?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"boundary_trust",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "remembering_it_later",
|
||
"text": "Remembering it later"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "asking_before_revisiting_it",
|
||
"text": "Asking before revisiting it"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "not_teasing_about_it",
|
||
"text": "Not teasing about it"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "not_bargaining",
|
||
"text": "Not bargaining"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "appreciating_the_honesty",
|
||
"text": "Appreciating the honesty"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_074",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "After intimacy stops unexpectedly, what keeps you connected?",
|
||
"depth": 4,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"stopping_connection",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_calm_check_in",
|
||
"text": "A calm check-in"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "nonsexual_touch_if_wanted",
|
||
"text": "Nonsexual touch if wanted"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_little_space",
|
||
"text": "A little space"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "reassuring_words",
|
||
"text": "Reassuring words"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_pressure_to_explain_immediately",
|
||
"text": "No pressure to explain immediately"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_075",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When is feedback about intimacy easiest to give?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"feedback_giving",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_calm_moment",
|
||
"text": "A calm moment"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "specific_questions",
|
||
"text": "Specific questions"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_defensiveness",
|
||
"text": "No defensiveness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "starting_with_what_works",
|
||
"text": "Starting with what works"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "knowing_change_is_welcome",
|
||
"text": "Knowing change is welcome"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_076",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "When would you rather discuss a preference?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"preference_timing",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "before_private_time",
|
||
"text": "Before private time"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "in_the_moment",
|
||
"text": "In the moment"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "right_afterward",
|
||
"text": "Right afterward"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "on_a_separate_relaxed_day",
|
||
"text": "On a separate relaxed day"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_077",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which feedback phrases feel kind and useful?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"feedback_phrases",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_little_slower",
|
||
"text": "A little slower"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keep_doing_that",
|
||
"text": "Keep doing that"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "could_we_try_this_instead",
|
||
"text": "Could we try this instead?"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "that_feels_really_good",
|
||
"text": "That feels really good"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_need_something_different",
|
||
"text": "I need something different"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_078",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How comfortable are you naming what feels good?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"naming_good",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
|
||
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_079",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When feedback is hard to hear, what keeps it from feeling like criticism?",
|
||
"depth": 4,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"feedback_hearing",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_gentle_tone",
|
||
"text": "A gentle tone"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "specific_guidance",
|
||
"text": "Specific guidance"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "reassurance_of_attraction",
|
||
"text": "Reassurance of attraction"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "good_timing",
|
||
"text": "Good timing"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "room_to_ask_questions",
|
||
"text": "Room to ask questions"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_080",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the question that would help you share more honestly.",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"honest_question",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "what_are_you_enjoying",
|
||
"text": "What are you enjoying?"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "want_more_or_less",
|
||
"text": "Want more or less?"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "is_there_anything_you_want_different",
|
||
"text": "Is there anything you want different?"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "what_would_feel_best_now",
|
||
"text": "What would feel best now?"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_081",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When do conversations about desire feel safest?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"desire_conversation",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "privacy",
|
||
"text": "Privacy"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_immediate_expectation",
|
||
"text": "No immediate expectation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_joking_at_my_expense",
|
||
"text": "No joking at my expense"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "time_to_think",
|
||
"text": "Time to think"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "curiosity_without_pressure",
|
||
"text": "Curiosity without pressure"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_082",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which topics deserve an especially gentle approach?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"gentle_topics",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "differences_in_frequency",
|
||
"text": "Differences in frequency"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "body_confidence",
|
||
"text": "Body confidence"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "rejection",
|
||
"text": "Rejection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "past_experiences",
|
||
"text": "Past experiences"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "new_ideas",
|
||
"text": "New ideas"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_083",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "written",
|
||
"text": "What is one thing you wish were easier to tell me about intimacy?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"wish_easier",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"max_length": 400
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_084",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What outcomes help a difficult intimacy talk end well?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"talk_ending",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "both_people_feel_heard",
|
||
"text": "Both people feel heard"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_boundary_is_clearer",
|
||
"text": "A boundary is clearer"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_solution_is_forced",
|
||
"text": "No solution is forced"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_still_feel_cared_for",
|
||
"text": "We still feel cared for"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_know_whether_to_revisit_it",
|
||
"text": "We know whether to revisit it"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_085",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which tone helps you stay open during a sensitive conversation?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"conversation_tone",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "warm_and_direct",
|
||
"text": "Warm and direct"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "soft_and_patient",
|
||
"text": "Soft and patient"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "light_but_respectful",
|
||
"text": "Light but respectful"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "calm_and_matter_of_fact",
|
||
"text": "Calm and matter-of-fact"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_086",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What makes preference questions less awkward for us?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"less_awkward",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "use_simple_words",
|
||
"text": "Use simple words"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "ask_one_thing_at_a_time",
|
||
"text": "Ask one thing at a time"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "talk_outside_the_bedroom",
|
||
"text": "Talk outside the bedroom"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "both_answer_the_same_question",
|
||
"text": "Both answer the same question"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "allow_i_am_not_sure",
|
||
"text": "Allow 'I am not sure'"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_087",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How well do we listen when intimacy feedback surprises us?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"feedback_surprise",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not very well",
|
||
"max_label": "Very well"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_088",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does praise feel believable?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"believable_praise",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_is_specific",
|
||
"text": "It is specific"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_matches_the_moment",
|
||
"text": "It matches the moment"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_is_said_privately",
|
||
"text": "It is said privately"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_is_not_exaggerated",
|
||
"text": "It is not exaggerated"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_includes_more_than_appearance",
|
||
"text": "It includes more than appearance"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_089",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "How do you know an intimacy conversation helped?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"useful_conversation",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_understand_each_other_better",
|
||
"text": "We understand each other better"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_one_feels_blamed",
|
||
"text": "No one feels blamed"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_boundary_became_clearer",
|
||
"text": "A boundary became clearer"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_preference_became_easier_to_name",
|
||
"text": "A preference became easier to name"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_feel_closer_afterward",
|
||
"text": "We feel closer afterward"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_090",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does physical closeness feel emotionally meaningful to us?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"kissing",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_slow_down",
|
||
"text": "We slow down"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "interest_feels_mutual",
|
||
"text": "Interest feels mutual"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_are_emotionally_connected",
|
||
"text": "We are emotionally connected"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_outcome_is_expected",
|
||
"text": "No outcome is expected"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_both_stay_present",
|
||
"text": "We both stay present"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_091",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the private mood that sounds best for us tonight.",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"kiss_choice",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "slow_and_romantic",
|
||
"text": "Slow and romantic"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "playful_and_flirty",
|
||
"text": "Playful and flirty"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "quiet_and_tender",
|
||
"text": "Quiet and tender"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "bold_and_connected",
|
||
"text": "Bold and connected"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_092",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does relaxing together feel most connected?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"cuddling",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "after_a_long_day",
|
||
"text": "After a long day"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "before_sleep",
|
||
"text": "Before sleep"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "during_a_quiet_evening",
|
||
"text": "During a quiet evening"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "after_an_honest_talk",
|
||
"text": "After an honest talk"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "on_a_slow_morning",
|
||
"text": "On a slow morning"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_093",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How much romance do you feel in our private time lately?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"kissing_scale",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not very romantic",
|
||
"max_label": "Very romantic"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_094",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What setups make it easiest for us both to relax together?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"cuddle_positions",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "enough_personal_space",
|
||
"text": "Enough personal space"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_comfortable_temperature",
|
||
"text": "A comfortable temperature"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "phones_put_away",
|
||
"text": "Phones put away"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_time_pressure",
|
||
"text": "No time pressure"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choosing_how_close_to_sit",
|
||
"text": "Choosing how close to sit"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_095",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "What makes a goodbye feel meaningful between us?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"goodbye_kiss",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_is_not_rushed",
|
||
"text": "It is not rushed"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "there_is_eye_contact",
|
||
"text": "There is eye contact"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_say_something_honest",
|
||
"text": "We say something honest"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_know_when_we_will_reconnect",
|
||
"text": "We know when we will reconnect"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_096",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What keeps our private chemistry playful without feeling rehearsed?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"kiss_play",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "changing_the_timing",
|
||
"text": "Changing the timing"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "using_an_inside_joke",
|
||
"text": "Using an inside joke"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_little_unpredictability",
|
||
"text": "A little unpredictability"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "laughing_together",
|
||
"text": "Laughing together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "letting_the_mood_lead",
|
||
"text": "Letting the mood lead"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_097",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What helps physical closeness feel connected for both of us?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"cuddle_touch",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "mutual_choice",
|
||
"text": "Mutual choice"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "enough_time",
|
||
"text": "Enough time"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "noticing_feedback",
|
||
"text": "Noticing feedback"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "emotional_warmth",
|
||
"text": "Emotional warmth"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_required_outcome",
|
||
"text": "No required outcome"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_098",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "written",
|
||
"text": "What private memory best captures the way we connect as a couple?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"kiss_memory",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"max_length": 400
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_099",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What helps extended closeness feel welcome for both of us?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"long_hug",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "the_timing_works",
|
||
"text": "The timing works"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "either_person_can_end_it",
|
||
"text": "Either person can end it"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_matches_both_moods",
|
||
"text": "It matches both moods"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "there_is_no_hidden_expectation",
|
||
"text": "There is no hidden expectation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "there_is_room_to_relax",
|
||
"text": "There is room to relax"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_100",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the greeting style that feels most like our relationship.",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"greeting",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "an_enthusiastic_hello",
|
||
"text": "An enthusiastic hello"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_quiet_check_in",
|
||
"text": "A quiet check-in"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_playful_joke",
|
||
"text": "A playful joke"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_few_focused_minutes",
|
||
"text": "A few focused minutes"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_101",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which things can make private closeness uncomfortable?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"cuddle_discomfort",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_trapped",
|
||
"text": "Feeling trapped"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "too_much_heat",
|
||
"text": "Too much heat"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "pressure_for_more",
|
||
"text": "Pressure for more"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "not_enough_space",
|
||
"text": "Not enough space"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "ignoring_a_request_to_adjust",
|
||
"text": "Ignoring a request to adjust"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_102",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How connected does our private time feel lately?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"nonsexual_touch_scale",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not very connected",
|
||
"max_label": "Very connected"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_103",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When would slowing down together feel most meaningful?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"slow_kiss",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "after_time_apart",
|
||
"text": "After time apart"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "after_a_heartfelt_talk",
|
||
"text": "After a heartfelt talk"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "during_a_quiet_morning",
|
||
"text": "During a quiet morning"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "after_a_stressful_week",
|
||
"text": "After a stressful week"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "before_falling_asleep",
|
||
"text": "Before falling asleep"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_104",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What makes intimate time feel complete even when plans change?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"complete_affection",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "enough_time",
|
||
"text": "Enough time"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "focused_attention",
|
||
"text": "Focused attention"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "warm_words",
|
||
"text": "Warm words"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "mutual_choice",
|
||
"text": "Mutual choice"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_relaxed_ending",
|
||
"text": "A relaxed ending"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_105",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which privacy details help you relax into closeness?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"privacy",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_locked_door",
|
||
"text": "A locked door"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "phones_put_away",
|
||
"text": "Phones put away"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_expected_interruption",
|
||
"text": "No expected interruption"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "enough_time",
|
||
"text": "Enough time"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_comfortable_temperature",
|
||
"text": "A comfortable temperature"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_106",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which setting feels easiest for honest intimacy talks?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"talk_setting",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_quiet_bedroom",
|
||
"text": "A quiet bedroom"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_private_walk",
|
||
"text": "A private walk"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "the_couch_after_dinner",
|
||
"text": "The couch after dinner"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_calm_drive",
|
||
"text": "A calm drive"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_107",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which details make a room inviting for private time?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"setting",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "soft_lighting",
|
||
"text": "Soft lighting"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "fresh_sheets",
|
||
"text": "Fresh sheets"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_comfortable_temperature",
|
||
"text": "A comfortable temperature"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "music_we_both_like",
|
||
"text": "Music we both like"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_room_that_feels_settled",
|
||
"text": "A room that feels settled"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_108",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How important is guaranteed privacy to your ability to relax?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"privacy_scale",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not very important",
|
||
"max_label": "Very important"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_109",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which distractions pull you out of the moment fastest?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"distractions",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "phone_alerts",
|
||
"text": "Phone alerts"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "noise_outside",
|
||
"text": "Noise outside"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "worry_about_time",
|
||
"text": "Worry about time"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "an_uncomfortable_room",
|
||
"text": "An uncomfortable room"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "unfinished_responsibilities",
|
||
"text": "Unfinished responsibilities"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_110",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the approach that would help us choose comfortable lighting together.",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"lighting",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "use_the_softer_setting",
|
||
"text": "Use the softer setting"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "take_turns_choosing",
|
||
"text": "Take turns choosing"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "find_a_middle_ground",
|
||
"text": "Find a middle ground"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "ask_in_the_moment",
|
||
"text": "Ask in the moment"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_111",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What keeps planned private time romantic instead of scheduled?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"planned_private_time",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "anticipation_during_the_day",
|
||
"text": "Anticipation during the day"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_flexible_plan",
|
||
"text": "A flexible plan"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_thoughtful_setting",
|
||
"text": "A thoughtful setting"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_rushing",
|
||
"text": "No rushing"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "something_chosen_for_both_of_us",
|
||
"text": "Something chosen for both of us"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_112",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which boundaries protect our intimate privacy?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"privacy_boundaries",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_sharing_details_with_friends",
|
||
"text": "No sharing details with friends"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "ask_before_saving_photos_or_recordings",
|
||
"text": "Ask before saving photos or recordings"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keep_intimate_photos_off_shared_devices",
|
||
"text": "Keep intimate photos off shared devices"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "delete_anything_when_asked",
|
||
"text": "Delete anything when asked"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "never_joke_publicly_about_private_moments",
|
||
"text": "Never joke publicly about private moments"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_113",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "written",
|
||
"text": "Think of a private setting where you felt completely relaxed with me. What made it work?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"safe_space_detail",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"max_length": 400
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_114",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which conditions make a new setting comfortable enough to try?",
|
||
"depth": 4,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"new_setting",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "clear_privacy",
|
||
"text": "Clear privacy"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "knowing_we_can_leave_anytime",
|
||
"text": "Knowing we can leave anytime"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "bringing_familiar_comforts",
|
||
"text": "Bringing familiar comforts"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "agreeing_on_boundaries_first",
|
||
"text": "Agreeing on boundaries first"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "starting_with_something_simple",
|
||
"text": "Starting with something simple"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_115",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the private-time soundtrack that sounds best.",
|
||
"depth": 1,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"music",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "slow_and_moody",
|
||
"text": "Slow and moody"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "soft_and_romantic",
|
||
"text": "Soft and romantic"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_familiar_favorite",
|
||
"text": "A familiar favorite"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_music",
|
||
"text": "No music"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_116",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does a hotel or getaway night feel low-pressure?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"getaway",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_fixed_expectation",
|
||
"text": "No fixed expectation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "plenty_of_rest",
|
||
"text": "Plenty of rest"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_shared_plan",
|
||
"text": "A shared plan"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "easy_permission_to_change_course",
|
||
"text": "Easy permission to change course"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "affection_that_is_enough_by_itself",
|
||
"text": "Affection that is enough by itself"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_117",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How much do phones affect your ability to stay present during private time?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"phones",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not at all",
|
||
"max_label": "A great deal"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_118",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which practical details quietly support intimacy?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"practical_support",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "enough_sleep",
|
||
"text": "Enough sleep"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "privacy",
|
||
"text": "Privacy"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "time_without_rushing",
|
||
"text": "Time without rushing"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_clean_and_comfortable",
|
||
"text": "Feeling clean and comfortable"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "knowing_responsibilities_are_handled",
|
||
"text": "Knowing responsibilities are handled"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_119",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does a surprise setting change feel welcome?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"surprise_setting",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_stays_private",
|
||
"text": "It stays private"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_is_easy_to_decline",
|
||
"text": "It is easy to decline"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_can_be_changed_easily",
|
||
"text": "It can be changed easily"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_fits_my_energy",
|
||
"text": "It fits my energy"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_can_return_to_the_familiar",
|
||
"text": "We can return to the familiar"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_120",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What helps you feel attractive during private moments?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"body_confidence",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "specific_compliments",
|
||
"text": "Specific compliments"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "patient_attention",
|
||
"text": "Patient attention"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "comfortable_lighting",
|
||
"text": "Comfortable lighting"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_comparisons",
|
||
"text": "No comparisons"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "touch_that_follows_my_feedback",
|
||
"text": "Touch that follows my feedback"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_121",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the compliment that supports your confidence most.",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"confidence_compliment",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "you_look_incredible",
|
||
"text": "You look incredible"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_love_being_close_to_you",
|
||
"text": "I love being close to you"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_love_how_you_respond_to_me",
|
||
"text": "I love how you respond to me"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "you_make_me_want_you",
|
||
"text": "You make me want you"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_122",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does body-focused attention become uncomfortable?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"body_discomfort",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "too_much_focus_on_one_area",
|
||
"text": "Too much focus on one area"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "jokes_about_appearance",
|
||
"text": "Jokes about appearance"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "comparisons",
|
||
"text": "Comparisons"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_watched_instead_of_appreciated",
|
||
"text": "Feeling watched instead of appreciated"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "ignoring_when_i_ask_to_adjust",
|
||
"text": "Ignoring when I ask to adjust"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_123",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How comfortable do you feel being fully seen by me?",
|
||
"depth": 4,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"being_seen",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
|
||
"max_label": "Completely comfortable"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_124",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which kinds of reassurance feel genuine?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"reassurance",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "warm_eye_contact",
|
||
"text": "Warm eye contact"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "specific_praise",
|
||
"text": "Specific praise"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "unhurried_touch",
|
||
"text": "Unhurried touch"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "kindness_outside_intimate_moments",
|
||
"text": "Kindness outside intimate moments"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "respect_when_i_need_space",
|
||
"text": "Respect when I need space"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_125",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the approach to body compliments that would help us both feel comfortable.",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"compliment_delivery",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "ask_what_lands_well",
|
||
"text": "Ask what lands well"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keep_them_specific",
|
||
"text": "Keep them specific"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "balance_appearance_with_whole_person_praise",
|
||
"text": "Balance appearance with whole-person praise"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "let_either_person_redirect",
|
||
"text": "Let either person redirect"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_126",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What helps you stay present when body worries show up?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"presence",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "focusing_on_sensation",
|
||
"text": "Focusing on sensation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "slower_pacing",
|
||
"text": "Slower pacing"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "supportive_words",
|
||
"text": "Supportive words"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "dimmer_lighting",
|
||
"text": "Dimmer lighting"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_emotionally_connected",
|
||
"text": "Feeling emotionally connected"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_127",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which partner behaviors build body trust over time?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"body_trust",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_teasing_about_insecurities",
|
||
"text": "No teasing about insecurities"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "consistent_affection",
|
||
"text": "Consistent affection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "listening_to_boundaries",
|
||
"text": "Listening to boundaries"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "compliments_beyond_appearance",
|
||
"text": "Compliments beyond appearance"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "never_using_private_details_in_conflict",
|
||
"text": "Never using private details in conflict"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_128",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "written",
|
||
"text": "When do you feel desired without feeling watched or evaluated?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"desired_not_inspected",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"max_length": 400
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_129",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does physical vulnerability feel comfortable?",
|
||
"depth": 4,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"undressing",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "taking_our_time",
|
||
"text": "Taking our time"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choosing_my_own_pace",
|
||
"text": "Choosing my own pace"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "warm_lighting",
|
||
"text": "Warm lighting"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "affection_before_and_during",
|
||
"text": "Affection before and during"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_pressure_to_perform",
|
||
"text": "No pressure to perform"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_130",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which kind of attention feels most affirming?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"affirming_attention",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "warm_admiration",
|
||
"text": "Warm admiration"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "playful_desire",
|
||
"text": "Playful desire"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "tender_appreciation",
|
||
"text": "Tender appreciation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "quiet_focus",
|
||
"text": "Quiet focus"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_131",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What would help on a low-confidence day?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"low_confidence",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keeping_things_gentle",
|
||
"text": "Keeping things gentle"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "leaving_some_clothes_on",
|
||
"text": "Leaving some clothes on"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "more_verbal_reassurance",
|
||
"text": "More verbal reassurance"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choosing_nonsexual_closeness",
|
||
"text": "Choosing nonsexual closeness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "letting_me_lead",
|
||
"text": "Letting me lead"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_132",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How supported do you feel about your body in our relationship?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"confidence_support",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not very supported",
|
||
"max_label": "Very supported"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_133",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "Specific praise or quiet admiration?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"praise_choice",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "specific_praise",
|
||
"text": "Specific praise"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "quiet_admiration",
|
||
"text": "Quiet admiration"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_134",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What should intimacy help us believe about our bodies?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"body_messages",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "our_bodies_are_welcome",
|
||
"text": "Our bodies are welcome"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_can_choose_what_feels_comfortable_to_show",
|
||
"text": "We can choose what feels comfortable to show"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "comfort_matters_more_than_performance",
|
||
"text": "Comfort matters more than performance"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "desire_can_be_gentle",
|
||
"text": "Desire can be gentle"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "boundaries_do_not_reduce_attraction",
|
||
"text": "Boundaries do not reduce attraction"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_135",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which kinds of aftercare help you feel settled?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"aftercare",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "cuddling",
|
||
"text": "Cuddling"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "reassuring_words",
|
||
"text": "Reassuring words"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "water_or_a_snack",
|
||
"text": "Water or a snack"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "quiet_rest",
|
||
"text": "Quiet rest"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_little_laughter",
|
||
"text": "A little laughter"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_136",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "What do you usually want first afterward?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"aftercare_first",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "physical_closeness",
|
||
"text": "Physical closeness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_quick_check_in",
|
||
"text": "A quick check-in"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "practical_care",
|
||
"text": "Practical care"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_little_personal_space",
|
||
"text": "A little personal space"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_137",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does aftercare feel caring rather than required?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"aftercare_care",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_matches_my_mood",
|
||
"text": "It matches my mood"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_can_ask_for_space",
|
||
"text": "I can ask for space"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_is_not_rushed",
|
||
"text": "It is not rushed"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_check_what_each_person_wants",
|
||
"text": "We check what each person wants"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_changes_with_the_moment",
|
||
"text": "It changes with the moment"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_138",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How important is aftercare to your overall experience?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"aftercare_importance",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not very important",
|
||
"max_label": "Very important"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_139",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which words feel good after vulnerability?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"aftercare_words",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_am_glad_you_told_me",
|
||
"text": "I am glad you told me"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "thank_you_for_trusting_me",
|
||
"text": "Thank you for trusting me"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_loved_being_close_to_you",
|
||
"text": "I loved being close to you"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "take_all_the_time_you_need",
|
||
"text": "Take all the time you need"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "what_would_help_now",
|
||
"text": "What would help now?"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_140",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the aftercare style that sounds most comforting.",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"aftercare_style",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "quiet_and_cuddly",
|
||
"text": "Quiet and cuddly"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "warm_and_talkative",
|
||
"text": "Warm and talkative"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "light_and_playful",
|
||
"text": "Light and playful"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "spacious_but_reassuring",
|
||
"text": "Spacious but reassuring"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_141",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What practical care feels thoughtful afterward?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"practical_aftercare",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "bringing_water",
|
||
"text": "Bringing water"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "adjusting_the_room",
|
||
"text": "Adjusting the room"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "finding_a_blanket",
|
||
"text": "Finding a blanket"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "checking_comfort",
|
||
"text": "Checking comfort"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "handling_cleanup_together",
|
||
"text": "Handling cleanup together"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_142",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "After trying something new, what support feels best?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"new_aftercare",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_calm_check_in",
|
||
"text": "A calm check-in"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "reassurance_without_turning_it_into_a_big_review",
|
||
"text": "Reassurance without turning it into a big review"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "naming_what_worked",
|
||
"text": "Naming what worked"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "permission_not_to_decide_anything_yet",
|
||
"text": "Permission not to decide anything yet"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "extra_tenderness",
|
||
"text": "Extra tenderness"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_143",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "written",
|
||
"text": "What should I know about the kind of aftercare you need?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"aftercare_written",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"max_length": 400
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_144",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When might space be the best aftercare?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"space_aftercare",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "when_i_feel_overstimulated",
|
||
"text": "When I feel overstimulated"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "when_i_need_quiet",
|
||
"text": "When I need quiet"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "when_touch_feels_like_too_much",
|
||
"text": "When touch feels like too much"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "when_i_ask_directly",
|
||
"text": "When I ask directly"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "when_i_need_sleep",
|
||
"text": "When I need sleep"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_145",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "How should we check in the next day after a new experience?",
|
||
"depth": 4,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"next_day",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_simple_text",
|
||
"text": "A simple text"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_short_private_talk",
|
||
"text": "A short private talk"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "ask_one_clear_question",
|
||
"text": "Ask one clear question"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "leave_the_door_open_to_talk_later",
|
||
"text": "Leave the door open to talk later"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_146",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What can make aftercare feel wrong for the moment?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"aftercare_miss",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "assuming_cuddling_is_always_wanted",
|
||
"text": "Assuming cuddling is always wanted"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "demanding_reassurance",
|
||
"text": "Demanding reassurance"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "turning_it_into_a_critique",
|
||
"text": "Turning it into a critique"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "ignoring_a_request_for_space",
|
||
"text": "Ignoring a request for space"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "leaving_without_a_word",
|
||
"text": "Leaving without a word"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_147",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How easy is it for you to ask for aftercare?",
|
||
"depth": 4,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"ask_aftercare",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Very hard",
|
||
"max_label": "Very easy"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_148",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "Cuddles afterward or quiet space nearby?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"aftercare_choice",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "cuddles_afterward",
|
||
"text": "Cuddles afterward"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "quiet_space_nearby",
|
||
"text": "Quiet space nearby"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_149",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which signs show that aftercare matched what you needed?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"aftercare_match",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "my_body_feels_settled",
|
||
"text": "My body feels settled"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_feel_emotionally_close",
|
||
"text": "I feel emotionally close"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "nothing_feels_rushed",
|
||
"text": "Nothing feels rushed"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_could_ask_for_something_different",
|
||
"text": "I could ask for something different"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_feel_comfortable_afterward",
|
||
"text": "I feel comfortable afterward"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_150",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When our interest levels differ, how can we stay close?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"mismatched_desire",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_kind_no",
|
||
"text": "A kind no"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_personal_blame",
|
||
"text": "No personal blame"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "another_form_of_closeness",
|
||
"text": "Another form of closeness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_plan_to_reconnect_later",
|
||
"text": "A plan to reconnect later"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "disappointment_handled_kindly",
|
||
"text": "Disappointment handled kindly"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_151",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which response to declined initiation feels most loving?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"declined_initiation",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "thank_you_for_being_honest",
|
||
"text": "Thank you for being honest"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_problem_come_cuddle_if_you_want",
|
||
"text": "No problem—come cuddle if you want"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_understand_we_can_reconnect_later",
|
||
"text": "I understand; we can reconnect later"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_care_about_you_either_way",
|
||
"text": "I care about you either way"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_152",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What keeps rejection from becoming distance?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"rejection",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "affection_without_expectation",
|
||
"text": "Affection without expectation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_sulking",
|
||
"text": "No sulking"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "clear_reassurance",
|
||
"text": "Clear reassurance"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "respecting_space",
|
||
"text": "Respecting space"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "talking_later_if_needed",
|
||
"text": "Talking later if needed"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_153",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How well do we handle differences in desire?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"mismatch_scale",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not very well",
|
||
"max_label": "Very well"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_154",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What helps talks about how often we want intimacy feel kinder?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"frequency",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_comparison_to_other_couples",
|
||
"text": "No comparison to other couples"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_scorekeeping",
|
||
"text": "No scorekeeping"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "talking_when_calm",
|
||
"text": "Talking when calm"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "separating_desire_from_love",
|
||
"text": "Separating desire from love"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "finding_options_that_respect_both_people",
|
||
"text": "Finding options that respect both people"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_155",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the alternative that feels best when interest does not match.",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"alternative_closeness",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "cuddling",
|
||
"text": "Cuddling"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_date_without_sex",
|
||
"text": "A date without sex"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_massage_with_clear_limits",
|
||
"text": "A massage with clear limits"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "separate_rest_with_reassurance",
|
||
"text": "Separate rest with reassurance"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_156",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which assumptions should we avoid about lower desire?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"lower_desire",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_means_less_love",
|
||
"text": "It means less love"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_means_less_attraction",
|
||
"text": "It means less attraction"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_is_always_about_the_partner",
|
||
"text": "It is always about the partner"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_needs_an_immediate_fix",
|
||
"text": "It needs an immediate fix"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "they_should_promise_another_time",
|
||
"text": "They should promise another time"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_157",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What can affect desire without being anyone's fault?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"desire_factors",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "stress",
|
||
"text": "Stress"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "sleep",
|
||
"text": "Sleep"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "health",
|
||
"text": "Health"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "body_confidence",
|
||
"text": "Body confidence"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "relationship_tension",
|
||
"text": "Relationship tension"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_158",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "written",
|
||
"text": "When your desire is lower than mine, what helps you still feel loved?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"lower_desire_written",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"max_length": 400
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_159",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "How can the higher-desire partner protect closeness?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"higher_desire",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "accept_no_the_first_time",
|
||
"text": "Accept no the first time"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "avoid_bargaining",
|
||
"text": "Avoid bargaining"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keep_affection_non_transactional",
|
||
"text": "Keep affection non-transactional"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "manage_disappointment_kindly",
|
||
"text": "Manage disappointment kindly"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "let_future_plans_stay_optional",
|
||
"text": "Let future plans stay optional"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_160",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which phrase makes a mismatch easier to hear?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"mismatch_phrase",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_care_about_you_i_am_not_up_for_this",
|
||
"text": "I care about you; I am not up for this"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_want_closeness_just_not_that_tonight",
|
||
"text": "I want closeness, just not that tonight"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "my_energy_is_low_not_my_love",
|
||
"text": "My energy is low, not my love"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "can_we_plan_something_for_another_time",
|
||
"text": "Can we plan something for another time?"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_161",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does the lower-desire partner feel safest speaking honestly?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"speak_honestly",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_fear_of_conflict",
|
||
"text": "No fear of conflict"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_guilt_afterward",
|
||
"text": "No guilt afterward"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_pressure_to_promise_later",
|
||
"text": "No pressure to promise later"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "permission_to_be_unsure",
|
||
"text": "Permission to be unsure"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "trust_that_affection_will_remain",
|
||
"text": "Trust that affection will remain"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_162",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How clearly can we discuss sexual interest without treating it as proof of love?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"love_desire_separate",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not very clearly",
|
||
"max_label": "Very clearly"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_163",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "Reconnect gently now or plan private time later?",
|
||
"depth": 4,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"reconnect_choice",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "reconnect_gently_now",
|
||
"text": "Reconnect gently now"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "plan_private_time_later",
|
||
"text": "Plan private time later"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_164",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What would help us handle desire differences as a team?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"shared_problem",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "curiosity",
|
||
"text": "Curiosity"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "compassion",
|
||
"text": "Compassion"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "flexible_expectations",
|
||
"text": "Flexible expectations"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "honesty_about_stress_or_health",
|
||
"text": "Honesty about stress or health"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "making_room_for_both_experiences",
|
||
"text": "Making room for both experiences"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_165",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "If an intimate moment turns awkward, what helps us recover together?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"awkwardness",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "laugh_gently",
|
||
"text": "Laugh gently"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "pause_and_check_in",
|
||
"text": "Pause and check in"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "name_what_happened_simply",
|
||
"text": "Name what happened simply"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "change_direction",
|
||
"text": "Change direction"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "stop_without_making_it_a_failure",
|
||
"text": "Stop without making it a failure"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_166",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "If the mood disappears, what response feels best?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"mood_loss",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_pressure_to_recover_it",
|
||
"text": "No pressure to recover it"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_warm_cuddle",
|
||
"text": "A warm cuddle"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_little_humor",
|
||
"text": "A little humor"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_little_space",
|
||
"text": "A little space"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_167",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What keeps an interrupted or awkward moment from feeling hurtful?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"failed_attempt",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_blame",
|
||
"text": "No blame"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_scorekeeping",
|
||
"text": "No scorekeeping"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "affection_afterward",
|
||
"text": "Affection afterward"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "permission_to_try_another_day",
|
||
"text": "Permission to try another day"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_forced_explanation",
|
||
"text": "No forced explanation"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_168",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How easy is it for us to recover from awkward moments?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"awkward_recovery",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Very difficult",
|
||
"max_label": "Very easy"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_169",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which signs mean we should slow down and reconnect?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"slow_down_signs",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "one_person_goes_quiet",
|
||
"text": "One person goes quiet"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "laughter_feels_nervous",
|
||
"text": "Laughter feels nervous"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "touch_stops_being_returned",
|
||
"text": "Touch stops being returned"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "someone_seems_distracted",
|
||
"text": "Someone seems distracted"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_check_in_gets_avoided",
|
||
"text": "A check-in gets avoided"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_170",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "After a misunderstanding, which repair feels most natural?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"repair_style",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_sincere_apology",
|
||
"text": "A sincere apology"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_calm_explanation",
|
||
"text": "A calm explanation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_reassuring_hug_if_wanted",
|
||
"text": "A reassuring hug if wanted"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_little_time_then_a_talk",
|
||
"text": "A little time, then a talk"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_171",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What should a thoughtful repair apology include?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"intimacy_apology",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "owning_the_impact",
|
||
"text": "Owning the impact"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_excuses",
|
||
"text": "No excuses"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "respect_for_the_boundary",
|
||
"text": "Respect for the boundary"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_clear_change",
|
||
"text": "A clear change"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_demand_for_quick_forgiveness",
|
||
"text": "No demand for quick forgiveness"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_172",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What protects intimacy when we are upset with each other?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"conflict_protection",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "never_use_private_details_as_weapons",
|
||
"text": "Never use private details as weapons"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "do_not_use_sex_as_a_shortcut_to_reconciliation",
|
||
"text": "Do not use sex as a shortcut to reconciliation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "respect_separate_sleep_if_needed",
|
||
"text": "Respect separate sleep if needed"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "repair_emotionally_first",
|
||
"text": "Repair emotionally first"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keep_affection_optional",
|
||
"text": "Keep affection optional"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_173",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "written",
|
||
"text": "After distance, what makes reconnecting feel safe?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"reconnecting_written",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"max_length": 400
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_174",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When feedback accidentally hurts, what helps us recover?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"feedback_hurt",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "acknowledge_the_sting",
|
||
"text": "Acknowledge the sting"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "clarify_the_intent",
|
||
"text": "Clarify the intent"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "avoid_defensiveness",
|
||
"text": "Avoid defensiveness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "take_a_break_if_needed",
|
||
"text": "Take a break if needed"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "return_with_kindness",
|
||
"text": "Return with kindness"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_175",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "After a vulnerable moment, what reassurance lands best?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"vulnerable_reassurance",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_am_not_judging_you",
|
||
"text": "I am not judging you"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "thank_you_for_trusting_me",
|
||
"text": "Thank you for trusting me"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "nothing_has_to_happen",
|
||
"text": "Nothing has to happen"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_can_go_at_your_pace",
|
||
"text": "We can go at your pace"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_176",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What can turn embarrassment into connection?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"embarrassment",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "gentle_humor",
|
||
"text": "Gentle humor"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_teasing_later",
|
||
"text": "No teasing later"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "remembering_awkward_moments_happen",
|
||
"text": "Remembering awkward moments happen"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "warm_affection_if_wanted",
|
||
"text": "Warm affection if wanted"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_simple_change_of_subject",
|
||
"text": "A simple change of subject"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_177",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How confident are you that private mistakes stay private?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"private_mistakes",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not confident",
|
||
"max_label": "Completely confident"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_178",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "Talk right away or reconnect after a little space?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"repair_timing",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "talk_right_away",
|
||
"text": "Talk right away"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "reconnect_after_some_space",
|
||
"text": "Reconnect after some space"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_179",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which habits keep one awkward night from becoming a lasting story?",
|
||
"depth": 4,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"lasting_story",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "do_not_retell_it",
|
||
"text": "Do not retell it"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "do_not_label_anyone",
|
||
"text": "Do not label anyone"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "focus_on_what_was_learned",
|
||
"text": "Focus on what was learned"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "return_to_normal_affection",
|
||
"text": "Return to normal affection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "try_again_only_if_both_want_to",
|
||
"text": "Try again only if both want to"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_180",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which qualities make a new intimate idea worth exploring?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"novelty",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "mutual_curiosity",
|
||
"text": "Mutual curiosity"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "clear_boundaries",
|
||
"text": "Clear boundaries"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "an_easy_opt_out",
|
||
"text": "An easy opt-out"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_trusted_setting",
|
||
"text": "A trusted setting"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "starting_small",
|
||
"text": "Starting small"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_181",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "How would you rather hear a new idea?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"new_idea_delivery",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "in_a_relaxed_conversation",
|
||
"text": "In a relaxed conversation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "as_a_playful_question",
|
||
"text": "As a playful question"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "in_a_shared_yes_no_maybe_list",
|
||
"text": "In a shared yes/no/maybe list"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "after_being_asked_if_i_am_open_to_ideas",
|
||
"text": "After being asked if I am open to ideas"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_182",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What protects trust when discussing fantasies?",
|
||
"depth": 4,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"fantasy",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_assumption_we_will_do_it",
|
||
"text": "No assumption we will do it"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_judgment",
|
||
"text": "No judgment"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_pressure_for_details",
|
||
"text": "No pressure for details"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "privacy_afterward",
|
||
"text": "Privacy afterward"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "permission_to_stop_the_conversation",
|
||
"text": "Permission to stop the conversation"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_183",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How curious do you feel about trying something new together?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"curiosity",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not curious",
|
||
"max_label": "Very curious"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_184",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which small changes sound interesting without feeling overwhelming?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"gentle_novelty",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_new_setting",
|
||
"text": "A new setting"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_different_pace",
|
||
"text": "A different pace"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "dressing_up",
|
||
"text": "Dressing up"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_playful_game",
|
||
"text": "A playful game"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "changing_who_leads",
|
||
"text": "Changing who leads"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_185",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "How should a new idea be chosen?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"choosing_novelty",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "take_turns",
|
||
"text": "Take turns"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choose_together",
|
||
"text": "Choose together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "the_person_who_is_curious_suggests",
|
||
"text": "The person who is curious suggests"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "only_use_ideas_already_discussed",
|
||
"text": "Only use ideas already discussed"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_186",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What helps a new idea feel playful instead of awkward?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"role_play",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_simple_plan",
|
||
"text": "A simple plan"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choosing_together",
|
||
"text": "Choosing together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "being_allowed_to_laugh",
|
||
"text": "Being allowed to laugh"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "clear_limits",
|
||
"text": "Clear limits"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "permission_to_stop_immediately",
|
||
"text": "Permission to stop immediately"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_187",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "After confirming that both people want it and can stop anytime, what else should we discuss?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"toys",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "boundaries_and_limits",
|
||
"text": "Boundaries and limits"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "privacy",
|
||
"text": "Privacy"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_clear_stop_signal",
|
||
"text": "A clear stop signal"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "what_support_might_help_afterward",
|
||
"text": "What support might help afterward"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "what_would_make_us_postpone_it",
|
||
"text": "What would make us postpone it"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_188",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What helps an unfamiliar experience feel grounded?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"sensory",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "starting_small",
|
||
"text": "Starting small"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "talking_through_expectations",
|
||
"text": "Talking through expectations"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keeping_familiar_comforts_nearby",
|
||
"text": "Keeping familiar comforts nearby"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "checking_in_as_we_go",
|
||
"text": "Checking in as we go"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "stopping_if_either_person_feels_unsure",
|
||
"text": "Stopping if either person feels unsure"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_189",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which ideas always need a separate conversation beforehand?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"no_surprise",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "anything_involving_recording",
|
||
"text": "Anything involving recording"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "anything_involving_pain_or_restriction",
|
||
"text": "Anything involving pain or restriction"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "anything_involving_another_person",
|
||
"text": "Anything involving another person"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "anything_in_a_new_location",
|
||
"text": "Anything in a new location"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "anything_already_named_as_a_boundary",
|
||
"text": "Anything already named as a boundary"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_190",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "What level of novelty fits you best lately?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"novelty_level",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "familiar_favorites",
|
||
"text": "Familiar favorites"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "one_small_change",
|
||
"text": "One small change"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "something_clearly_new",
|
||
"text": "Something clearly new"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_am_not_looking_for_novelty",
|
||
"text": "I am not looking for novelty"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_191",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What keeps trying new things grounded in care?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"careful_curiosity",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "checking_emotional_comfort",
|
||
"text": "Checking emotional comfort"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "respecting_hesitation",
|
||
"text": "Respecting hesitation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "letting_comfort_matter_more_than_novelty",
|
||
"text": "Letting comfort matter more than novelty"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "talking_afterward",
|
||
"text": "Talking afterward"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "valuing_closeness_over_novelty",
|
||
"text": "Valuing closeness over novelty"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_192",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How safe do you feel sharing an idea that may never happen?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"sharing_fantasy",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not safe",
|
||
"max_label": "Completely safe"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_193",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "A familiar favorite or one small new twist?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"familiar_new",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_familiar_favorite",
|
||
"text": "A familiar favorite"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "one_small_new_twist",
|
||
"text": "One small new twist"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_194",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "Talk through a fantasy or keep it as imagination?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"fantasy_choice",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "talk_through_a_fantasy",
|
||
"text": "Talk through a fantasy"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keep_it_as_imagination",
|
||
"text": "Keep it as imagination"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_195",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "How do you like anticipation to build before private time?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"anticipation",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "flirty_messages",
|
||
"text": "Flirty messages"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_planned_evening",
|
||
"text": "A planned evening"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "knowing_looks",
|
||
"text": "Knowing looks"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "small_touches",
|
||
"text": "Small touches"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_shared_secret",
|
||
"text": "A shared secret"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_196",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which ritual would help us shift into couple time?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"ritual",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "change_the_lighting",
|
||
"text": "Change the lighting"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "put_phones_away",
|
||
"text": "Put phones away"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choose_music_together",
|
||
"text": "Choose music together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "share_a_quick_check_in",
|
||
"text": "Share a quick check-in"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_197",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What keeps a planned night from feeling like an obligation?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"planned_night",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "flexible_expectations",
|
||
"text": "Flexible expectations"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_required_outcome",
|
||
"text": "No required outcome"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "room_to_cancel",
|
||
"text": "Room to cancel"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "affection_first",
|
||
"text": "Affection first"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_plan_both_people_shaped",
|
||
"text": "A plan both people shaped"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_198",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How much does anticipation affect your desire?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"anticipation_scale",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Very little",
|
||
"max_label": "A great deal"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_199",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which small rituals create emotional closeness?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"emotional_rituals",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_long_hello",
|
||
"text": "A long hello"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_private_toast",
|
||
"text": "A private toast"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_shared_playlist",
|
||
"text": "A shared playlist"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_few_honest_minutes_at_night",
|
||
"text": "A few honest minutes at night"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_slow_goodnight_kiss",
|
||
"text": "A slow goodnight kiss"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_200",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "What signal would you enjoy using for 'I am interested'?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"interest_signal",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_specific_phrase",
|
||
"text": "A specific phrase"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_private_emoji",
|
||
"text": "A private emoji"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_certain_look",
|
||
"text": "A certain look"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_hand_squeeze",
|
||
"text": "A hand squeeze"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_201",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "How do we keep a flirty countdown fun?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"countdown",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_clear_plan",
|
||
"text": "A clear plan"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "playful_messages",
|
||
"text": "Playful messages"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_pressure_if_the_mood_changes",
|
||
"text": "No pressure if the mood changes"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_small_surprise",
|
||
"text": "A small surprise"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keeping_it_private",
|
||
"text": "Keeping it private"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_202",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which traditions could help intimacy survive busy seasons?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"busy_rituals",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_weekly_cuddle_night",
|
||
"text": "A weekly cuddle night"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_monthly_private_date",
|
||
"text": "A monthly private date"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "goodbye_kisses",
|
||
"text": "Goodbye kisses"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "ten_phone_free_minutes",
|
||
"text": "Ten phone-free minutes"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_relaxed_talk_about_what_we_want",
|
||
"text": "A relaxed talk about what we want"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_203",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What would make a morning ritual feel intimate?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"morning_ritual",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "lingering_in_bed",
|
||
"text": "Lingering in bed"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "sharing_coffee_close_together",
|
||
"text": "Sharing coffee close together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_long_hug",
|
||
"text": "A long hug"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_sweet_message_after_leaving",
|
||
"text": "A sweet message after leaving"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_playful_promise_for_later",
|
||
"text": "A playful promise for later"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_204",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which end-of-day signals help you feel chosen?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"end_day",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "putting_phones_away",
|
||
"text": "Putting phones away"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "turning_toward_each_other",
|
||
"text": "Turning toward each other"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "greeting_each_other_warmly",
|
||
"text": "Greeting each other warmly"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "offering_a_cuddle",
|
||
"text": "Offering a cuddle"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "saying_what_i_appreciated",
|
||
"text": "Saying what I appreciated"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_205",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which private tradition sounds most sustainable?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"sustainable_ritual",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "sunday_morning_cuddles",
|
||
"text": "Sunday morning cuddles"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_weekly_flirty_text",
|
||
"text": "A weekly flirty text"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_monthly_at_home_date",
|
||
"text": "A monthly at-home date"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_nightly_goodnight_kiss",
|
||
"text": "A nightly goodnight kiss"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_206",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does a ritual start feeling like a chore?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"ritual_risk",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "treating_it_like_a_quota",
|
||
"text": "Treating it like a quota"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "ignoring_changing_moods",
|
||
"text": "Ignoring changing moods"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keeping_score",
|
||
"text": "Keeping score"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "never_changing_it",
|
||
"text": "Never changing it"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "assuming_it_must_lead_somewhere",
|
||
"text": "Assuming it must lead somewhere"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_207",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How easy is it to keep couple time from being crowded out?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"protected_time",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Very difficult",
|
||
"max_label": "Very easy"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_208",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "Build anticipation all day or keep the moment spontaneous?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"anticipation_choice",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "build_anticipation_all_day",
|
||
"text": "Build anticipation all day"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keep_it_spontaneous",
|
||
"text": "Keep it spontaneous"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_209",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "A reliable ritual or a changing surprise?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"ritual_surprise",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_reliable_ritual",
|
||
"text": "A reliable ritual"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_changing_surprise",
|
||
"text": "A changing surprise"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_210",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What kinds of intimacy still fit a very busy week?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"busy_week",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_flirty_message",
|
||
"text": "A flirty message"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "ten_quiet_minutes_together",
|
||
"text": "Ten quiet minutes together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_meaningful_check_in",
|
||
"text": "A meaningful check-in"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_private_meal",
|
||
"text": "A private meal"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_planned_hour_for_us",
|
||
"text": "A planned hour for us"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_211",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "When energy is low, what closeness sounds most realistic?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"low_energy_choice",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "quiet_cuddling",
|
||
"text": "Quiet cuddling"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_short_massage",
|
||
"text": "A short massage"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "talking_in_bed",
|
||
"text": "Talking in bed"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "sleeping_close",
|
||
"text": "Sleeping close"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_212",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What keeps intimacy from feeling like another task?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"not_task",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keeping_plans_flexible",
|
||
"text": "Keeping plans flexible"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choosing_low_effort_closeness",
|
||
"text": "Choosing low-effort closeness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_guilt_if_plans_change",
|
||
"text": "No guilt if plans change"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "making_room_for_play",
|
||
"text": "Making room for play"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "not_tracking_frequency",
|
||
"text": "Not tracking frequency"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_213",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How much energy do you usually need before intimacy feels appealing?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"energy_need",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Very little",
|
||
"max_label": "A lot"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_214",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which pressures most affect your ability to relax?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"responsibilities",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "childcare",
|
||
"text": "Childcare"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "work_stress",
|
||
"text": "Work stress"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "household_tasks",
|
||
"text": "Household tasks"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "health_needs",
|
||
"text": "Health needs"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "lack_of_privacy",
|
||
"text": "Lack of privacy"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_215",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick what would make a short private moment feel worthwhile.",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"short_moment",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "focused_attention",
|
||
"text": "Focused attention"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "one_long_kiss",
|
||
"text": "One long kiss"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_little_laughter",
|
||
"text": "A little laughter"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "knowing_it_is_enough",
|
||
"text": "Knowing it is enough"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_216",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What helps intimacy survive irregular schedules?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"schedules",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "planning_a_window",
|
||
"text": "Planning a window"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "using_small_moments",
|
||
"text": "Using small moments"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "being_honest_about_energy",
|
||
"text": "Being honest about energy"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "not_treating_low_energy_as_rejection",
|
||
"text": "Not treating low energy as rejection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "protecting_one_recurring_time",
|
||
"text": "Protecting one recurring time"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_217",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What signs mean rest should come before intimacy?",
|
||
"depth": 4,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"rest_first",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "exhaustion",
|
||
"text": "Exhaustion"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "irritability",
|
||
"text": "Irritability"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "pain",
|
||
"text": "Pain"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "difficulty_focusing",
|
||
"text": "Difficulty focusing"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_emotionally_shut_down",
|
||
"text": "Feeling emotionally shut down"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_218",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What can keep affection alive during long stressful periods?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"long_stress",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "small_signs_of_affection",
|
||
"text": "Small signs of affection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "kind_words",
|
||
"text": "Kind words"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "shared_humor",
|
||
"text": "Shared humor"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "brief_dates",
|
||
"text": "Brief dates"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_pressure_for_more",
|
||
"text": "No pressure for more"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_219",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "How can we make room for closeness without forcing it?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"make_room",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "offer_choices",
|
||
"text": "Offer choices"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "plan_loosely",
|
||
"text": "Plan loosely"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "start_with_affection",
|
||
"text": "Start with affection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "check_energy_first",
|
||
"text": "Check energy first"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "accept_a_change_of_mind",
|
||
"text": "Accept a change of mind"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_220",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which quick connection would you choose during a packed day?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"quick_connection",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_two_minute_hug",
|
||
"text": "A two-minute hug"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_private_compliment",
|
||
"text": "A private compliment"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_slow_kiss",
|
||
"text": "A slow kiss"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_hand_squeeze",
|
||
"text": "A hand squeeze"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_221",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What conditions make desire more possible after burnout?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"burnout",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "enough_rest",
|
||
"text": "Enough rest"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_supported",
|
||
"text": "Feeling supported"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "reduced_pressure",
|
||
"text": "Reduced pressure"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "emotional_connection",
|
||
"text": "Emotional connection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "time_with_fewer_demands",
|
||
"text": "Time with fewer demands"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_222",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How balanced does intimacy feel with the rest of our life?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"life_balance",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Out of balance",
|
||
"max_label": "Well balanced"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_223",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "A brief moment tonight or unhurried time this weekend?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"timing_choice",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_brief_moment_tonight",
|
||
"text": "A brief moment tonight"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "unhurried_time_this_weekend",
|
||
"text": "Unhurried time this weekend"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_224",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "Quiet closeness or playful distraction after a hard day?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"hard_day_choice",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "quiet_closeness",
|
||
"text": "Quiet closeness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "playful_distraction",
|
||
"text": "Playful distraction"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_225",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which memories still bring back attraction for you?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"attraction_memory",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "our_first_kisses",
|
||
"text": "Our first kisses"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_favorite_trip",
|
||
"text": "A favorite trip"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_time_we_both_felt_confident",
|
||
"text": "A time we both felt confident"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_playful_night",
|
||
"text": "A playful night"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_time_we_felt_deeply_understood",
|
||
"text": "A time we felt deeply understood"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_226",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which memory would you most enjoy recreating?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"recreate_memory",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_slow_romantic_night",
|
||
"text": "A slow romantic night"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_spontaneous_moment",
|
||
"text": "A spontaneous moment"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_playful_date",
|
||
"text": "A playful date"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_peaceful_morning",
|
||
"text": "A peaceful morning"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_227",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What makes a shared intimate memory especially meaningful?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"memory_value",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_safe_together",
|
||
"text": "Feeling safe together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_desired",
|
||
"text": "Feeling desired"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "laughing_together",
|
||
"text": "Laughing together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choosing_something_new_together",
|
||
"text": "Choosing something new together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "being_fully_present",
|
||
"text": "Being fully present"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_228",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How much do shared memories strengthen your attraction?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"memory_scale",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Very little",
|
||
"max_label": "A great deal"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_229",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which older habits might still have some spark?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"old_habits",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "long_make_out_sessions",
|
||
"text": "Long make-out sessions"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "flirty_notes",
|
||
"text": "Flirty notes"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "dressing_up",
|
||
"text": "Dressing up"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "slow_dancing",
|
||
"text": "Slow dancing"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "unplanned_cuddling",
|
||
"text": "Unplanned cuddling"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_230",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "What would be most fun to bring back for one night?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"bring_back",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "an_old_playlist",
|
||
"text": "An old playlist"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_favorite_outfit",
|
||
"text": "A favorite outfit"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_former_date_spot",
|
||
"text": "A former date spot"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_forgotten_inside_joke",
|
||
"text": "A forgotten inside joke"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_231",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What keeps nostalgia warm instead of pressuring?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"nostalgia",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_comparison_to_the_past",
|
||
"text": "No comparison to the past"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_expectation_to_recreate_everything",
|
||
"text": "No expectation to recreate everything"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choosing_one_detail",
|
||
"text": "Choosing one detail"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "appreciating_how_we_have_changed",
|
||
"text": "Appreciating how we have changed"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "letting_the_new_version_be_different",
|
||
"text": "Letting the new version be different"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_232",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What moments have made you feel most chosen by me?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"chosen_memories",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "when_you_made_time_for_us",
|
||
"text": "When you made time for us"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "when_you_protected_our_privacy",
|
||
"text": "When you protected our privacy"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "when_you_noticed_my_mood",
|
||
"text": "When you noticed my mood"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "when_you_initiated_affection",
|
||
"text": "When you initiated affection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "when_you_respected_a_boundary",
|
||
"text": "When you respected a boundary"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_233",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What details make a romantic memory vivid?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"memory_details",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_certain_song",
|
||
"text": "A certain song"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_scent",
|
||
"text": "A scent"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "the_setting",
|
||
"text": "The setting"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "specific_words",
|
||
"text": "Specific words"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "how_my_body_felt",
|
||
"text": "How my body felt"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_234",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What can old memories teach us about current intimacy?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"memory_lessons",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "what_pace_works",
|
||
"text": "What pace works"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "what_makes_us_laugh",
|
||
"text": "What makes us laugh"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "what_builds_trust",
|
||
"text": "What builds trust"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "what_settings_help",
|
||
"text": "What settings help"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "what_affection_we_miss",
|
||
"text": "What affection we miss"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_235",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the keepsake that would best represent our chemistry.",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"keepsake",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_photo",
|
||
"text": "A photo"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_song",
|
||
"text": "A song"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_handwritten_note",
|
||
"text": "A handwritten note"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_place_we_revisit",
|
||
"text": "A place we revisit"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_236",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which new memories would feel meaningful this year?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"new_memory",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_private_getaway",
|
||
"text": "A private getaway"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_brave_conversation",
|
||
"text": "A brave conversation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "trying_something_playful_together",
|
||
"text": "Trying something playful together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_simple_recurring_ritual",
|
||
"text": "A simple recurring ritual"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_deeply_relaxed_night",
|
||
"text": "A deeply relaxed night"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_237",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How meaningful do our recent memories feel?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"new_memory_scale",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not very meaningful",
|
||
"max_label": "Very meaningful"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_238",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "Recreate a favorite moment or invent a completely new one?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"recreate_new",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "recreate_a_favorite",
|
||
"text": "Recreate a favorite"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "invent_something_new",
|
||
"text": "Invent something new"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_239",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "Old love song or a new private playlist?",
|
||
"depth": 1,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"music_memory",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "an_old_love_song",
|
||
"text": "An old love song"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_new_private_playlist",
|
||
"text": "A new private playlist"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_240",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What emotional moments make physical closeness easier?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"emotional_closeness",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_understood",
|
||
"text": "Feeling understood"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "laughing_together",
|
||
"text": "Laughing together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "making_up_after_a_disagreement",
|
||
"text": "Making up after a disagreement"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "receiving_appreciation",
|
||
"text": "Receiving appreciation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "sharing_something_vulnerable",
|
||
"text": "Sharing something vulnerable"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_241",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "What kind of attention helps intimacy feel caring, not just physical?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"emotionally_chosen",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "undivided_listening",
|
||
"text": "Undivided listening"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "remembering_a_detail",
|
||
"text": "Remembering a detail"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "making_time_for_me",
|
||
"text": "Making time for me"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "checking_in_without_fixing",
|
||
"text": "Checking in without fixing"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_242",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does intimacy feel like real connection instead of something to get right?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"connection_not_performance",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "being_able_to_slow_down",
|
||
"text": "Being able to slow down"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_pressure_to_impress",
|
||
"text": "No pressure to impress"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "honest_feedback",
|
||
"text": "Honest feedback"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "warm_eye_contact",
|
||
"text": "Warm eye contact"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_accepted",
|
||
"text": "Feeling accepted"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_243",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How emotionally connected do you feel during intimacy lately?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"emotional_scale",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not very connected",
|
||
"max_label": "Deeply connected"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_244",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which signs show that emotional trust is present?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"emotional_trust",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_fear_of_ridicule",
|
||
"text": "No fear of ridicule"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "easy_honesty",
|
||
"text": "Easy honesty"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "boundaries_are_remembered",
|
||
"text": "Boundaries are remembered"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "silence_feels_comfortable",
|
||
"text": "Silence feels comfortable"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "both_people_can_be_imperfect",
|
||
"text": "Both people can be imperfect"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_245",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which conversation creates closeness fastest?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"closeness_talk",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_shared_memory",
|
||
"text": "A shared memory"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_sincere_appreciation",
|
||
"text": "A sincere appreciation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_future_hope",
|
||
"text": "A future hope"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_playful_confession",
|
||
"text": "A playful confession"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_246",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does vulnerability bring us closer?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"vulnerability",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "being_believed",
|
||
"text": "Being believed"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "being_thanked",
|
||
"text": "Being thanked"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_immediate_advice",
|
||
"text": "No immediate advice"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "privacy_afterward",
|
||
"text": "Privacy afterward"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_closer_not_exposed",
|
||
"text": "Feeling closer, not exposed"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_247",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which forms of appreciation strengthen intimacy?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"appreciation",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "noticing_effort",
|
||
"text": "Noticing effort"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "praising_character",
|
||
"text": "Praising character"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "naming_attraction",
|
||
"text": "Naming attraction"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "thanking_small_care",
|
||
"text": "Thanking small care"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "celebrating_growth",
|
||
"text": "Celebrating growth"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_248",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What kind of affection works after an emotional conversation?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"post_talk_affection",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "asking_before_touching",
|
||
"text": "Asking before touching"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_slow_hug",
|
||
"text": "A slow hug"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "sitting_close",
|
||
"text": "Sitting close"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_reassuring_kiss",
|
||
"text": "A reassuring kiss"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "giving_space_first",
|
||
"text": "Giving space first"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_249",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does eye contact feel connecting rather than intense?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"eye_contact",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_warm_expression",
|
||
"text": "A warm expression"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "looking_away_is_allowed",
|
||
"text": "Looking away is allowed"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_happens_naturally",
|
||
"text": "It happens naturally"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "the_pace_is_slow",
|
||
"text": "The pace is slow"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "there_is_emotional_trust",
|
||
"text": "There is emotional trust"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_250",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the feeling you most want private time to create.",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"desired_feeling",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "comfort",
|
||
"text": "Comfort"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "excitement",
|
||
"text": "Excitement"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "tenderness",
|
||
"text": "Tenderness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "deep_connection",
|
||
"text": "Deep connection"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_251",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When do we feel most like partners in intimacy?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"partnership",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "shared_decisions",
|
||
"text": "Shared decisions"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "taking_turns_initiating",
|
||
"text": "Taking turns initiating"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "both_receive_care",
|
||
"text": "Both receive care"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "both_can_pause",
|
||
"text": "Both can pause"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "both_feel_appreciated",
|
||
"text": "Both feel appreciated"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_252",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How easy is it to stay emotionally present during physical closeness?",
|
||
"depth": 4,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"presence_scale",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Very difficult",
|
||
"max_label": "Very easy"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_253",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "Heart-to-heart first or affection first?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"order_choice",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "heart_to_heart_first",
|
||
"text": "Heart-to-heart first"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "affection_first",
|
||
"text": "Affection first"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_254",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "Quiet tenderness or playful chemistry?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"chemistry_choice",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "quiet_tenderness",
|
||
"text": "Quiet tenderness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "playful_chemistry",
|
||
"text": "Playful chemistry"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_255",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which private mini-dates sound genuinely fun?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"mini_dates",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "dessert_in_bed",
|
||
"text": "Dessert in bed"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_candlelit_playlist_night",
|
||
"text": "A candlelit playlist night"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "slow_dancing_at_home",
|
||
"text": "Slow dancing at home"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_blanket_and_movie_cuddle",
|
||
"text": "A blanket-and-movie cuddle"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_dress_up_dinner_indoors",
|
||
"text": "A dress-up dinner indoors"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_256",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which tiny challenge would feel playful and flirty?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"flirty_challenge",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "trade_three_compliments",
|
||
"text": "Trade three compliments"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "hold_eye_contact_for_ten_seconds",
|
||
"text": "Hold eye contact for ten seconds"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choose_each_other_s_song",
|
||
"text": "Choose each other's song"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "plan_one_surprise_date_detail",
|
||
"text": "Plan one surprise date detail"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_257",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does a couple game feel playful without feeling childish?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"adult_game",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "good_chemistry",
|
||
"text": "Good chemistry"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "private_humor",
|
||
"text": "Private humor"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "simple_rules",
|
||
"text": "Simple rules"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "either_person_can_skip_any_part",
|
||
"text": "Either person can skip any part"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_embarrassing_dares",
|
||
"text": "No embarrassing dares"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_258",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How much do you enjoy playful structure in private time?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"game_scale",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not at all",
|
||
"max_label": "Very much"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_259",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which low-pressure dares would you actually enjoy?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"dares",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "give_a_slow_compliment",
|
||
"text": "Give a slow compliment"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choose_the_mood_for_tonight",
|
||
"text": "Choose the mood for tonight"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "pick_the_next_song",
|
||
"text": "Pick the next song"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "share_a_favorite_memory",
|
||
"text": "Share a favorite memory"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "name_one_small_thing_that_helps_you_feel_close",
|
||
"text": "Name one small thing that helps you feel close"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_260",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "What shared ending sounds best after a playful challenge?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"shared_prize",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_long_cuddle",
|
||
"text": "A long cuddle"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "dessert_together",
|
||
"text": "Dessert together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_massage_trade",
|
||
"text": "A massage trade"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choosing_the_next_date",
|
||
"text": "Choosing the next date"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_261",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What keeps a teasing game from going too far?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"teasing_limits",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_stop_word",
|
||
"text": "A stop word"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_humiliation",
|
||
"text": "No humiliation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "nothing_involving_bystanders",
|
||
"text": "Nothing involving bystanders"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "clear_time_limits",
|
||
"text": "Clear time limits"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "immediate_respect_for_discomfort",
|
||
"text": "Immediate respect for discomfort"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_262",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which playful choices could help us learn preferences?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"preference_games",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_yes_no_maybe_list",
|
||
"text": "A yes/no/maybe list"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choose_among_four_affection_styles",
|
||
"text": "Choose among four affection styles"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choose_a_mood_card",
|
||
"text": "Choose a mood card"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "choose_a_favorite_kind_of_affection",
|
||
"text": "Choose a favorite kind of affection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "build_a_shared_idea_jar",
|
||
"text": "Build a shared idea jar"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_263",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What would make a private scavenger hunt feel romantic?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"scavenger",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "notes_with_compliments",
|
||
"text": "Notes with compliments"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_favorite_snack",
|
||
"text": "A favorite snack"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_meaningful_location",
|
||
"text": "A meaningful location"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_final_slow_dance",
|
||
"text": "A final slow dance"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_no_pressure_ending",
|
||
"text": "A no-pressure ending"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_264",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which themes could make an at-home night fresh?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"themes",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "first_date_replay",
|
||
"text": "First-date replay"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "favorite_decade_music",
|
||
"text": "Favorite-decade music"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "dress_up_dinner",
|
||
"text": "Dress-up dinner"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "spa_night",
|
||
"text": "Spa night"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "phones_away_cozy_night",
|
||
"text": "Phones-away cozy night"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_265",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the playful signal that should mean 'I am open to a little closeness'.",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"come_closer_signal",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_certain_smile",
|
||
"text": "A certain smile"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_private_phrase",
|
||
"text": "A private phrase"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_hand_offered",
|
||
"text": "A hand offered"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_favorite_song_started",
|
||
"text": "A favorite song started"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_266",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "When does surprise affection feel fun?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"surprise_affection",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_stays_within_known_boundaries",
|
||
"text": "It stays within known boundaries"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "the_timing_is_considerate",
|
||
"text": "The timing is considerate"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_is_easy_to_decline",
|
||
"text": "It is easy to decline"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_feels_personal",
|
||
"text": "It feels personal"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "it_does_not_interrupt_something_important",
|
||
"text": "It does not interrupt something important"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_267",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How playful would you like our intimacy to feel this month?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"playful_month",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not very playful",
|
||
"max_label": "Very playful"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_268",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "A flirty game or a slow private date?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"game_date",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_flirty_game",
|
||
"text": "A flirty game"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_slow_private_date",
|
||
"text": "A slow private date"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_269",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "Trade compliments or trade gentle massages?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"trade_choice",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "trade_compliments",
|
||
"text": "Trade compliments"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "trade_gentle_massages",
|
||
"text": "Trade gentle massages"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_270",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What keeps attraction alive in a long relationship?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"long_term_attraction",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "continued_curiosity",
|
||
"text": "Continued curiosity"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "individual_confidence",
|
||
"text": "Individual confidence"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "playfulness",
|
||
"text": "Playfulness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "repairing_hurt_feelings",
|
||
"text": "Repairing hurt feelings"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "making_private_time",
|
||
"text": "Making private time"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_271",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which long-term habit protects romance best?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"romance_habit",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "regular_dates",
|
||
"text": "Regular dates"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "daily_affection",
|
||
"text": "Daily affection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "flirty_messages",
|
||
"text": "Flirty messages"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "honest_desire_talks",
|
||
"text": "Honest desire talks"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_272",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which habits make intimacy feel routine?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"routine",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "always_the_same_timing",
|
||
"text": "Always the same timing"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "skipping_connection_beforehand",
|
||
"text": "Skipping connection beforehand"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_anticipation",
|
||
"text": "No anticipation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_rushed",
|
||
"text": "Feeling rushed"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "treating_it_as_an_obligation",
|
||
"text": "Treating it as an obligation"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_273",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How fresh does our intimate connection feel lately?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"freshness",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not very fresh",
|
||
"max_label": "Very fresh"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_274",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which changes deserve extra patience over the years?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"life_changes",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "health_changes",
|
||
"text": "Health changes"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "body_changes",
|
||
"text": "Body changes"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "hormonal_changes",
|
||
"text": "Hormonal changes"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "parenting_demands",
|
||
"text": "Parenting demands"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "stress_and_grief",
|
||
"text": "Stress and grief"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_275",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Where would you most like our intimacy to grow?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"growth",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "more_honest_communication",
|
||
"text": "More honest communication"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "more_playful_affection",
|
||
"text": "More playful affection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "more_confidence_naming_boundaries",
|
||
"text": "More confidence naming boundaries"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "more_unhurried_time",
|
||
"text": "More unhurried time"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_276",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "How do we adapt without losing closeness?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"adaptation",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "talk_about_changes",
|
||
"text": "Talk about changes"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "let_preferences_evolve",
|
||
"text": "Let preferences evolve"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keep_nonsexual_affection",
|
||
"text": "Keep nonsexual affection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "avoid_comparisons_to_the_past",
|
||
"text": "Avoid comparisons to the past"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "find_new_shared_rhythms",
|
||
"text": "Find new shared rhythms"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_277",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which signs suggest our intimacy needs attention?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"attention_signs",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "affection_feels_absent",
|
||
"text": "Affection feels absent"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "conversations_feel_unsafe",
|
||
"text": "Conversations feel unsafe"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "initiation_feels_risky_or_pressured",
|
||
"text": "Initiation feels risky or pressured"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "boundaries_are_forgotten",
|
||
"text": "Boundaries are forgotten"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "resentment_is_growing",
|
||
"text": "Resentment is growing"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_278",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What should never become a scorecard?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"scorecard",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "frequency",
|
||
"text": "Frequency"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "who_initiates",
|
||
"text": "Who initiates"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "who_says_no",
|
||
"text": "Who says no"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "who_plans_dates",
|
||
"text": "Who plans dates"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "who_needs_more_reassurance",
|
||
"text": "Who needs more reassurance"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_279",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What supports intimacy through major life transitions?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"transitions",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "realistic_expectations",
|
||
"text": "Realistic expectations"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "flexible_definitions_of_closeness",
|
||
"text": "Flexible definitions of closeness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "honest_talks_as_needs_change",
|
||
"text": "Honest talks as needs change"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "extra_patience_with_changing_energy",
|
||
"text": "Extra patience with changing energy"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "updating_what_closeness_looks_like",
|
||
"text": "Updating what closeness looks like"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_280",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Pick the shared promise that would best protect long-term intimacy.",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"shared_promise",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_can_always_pause",
|
||
"text": "We can always pause"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_will_keep_learning_each_other",
|
||
"text": "We will keep learning each other"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "no_private_detail_becomes_a_weapon",
|
||
"text": "No private detail becomes a weapon"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "affection_never_creates_debt",
|
||
"text": "Affection never creates debt"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_281",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What can make growing older together feel attractive?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"aging",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "shared_history",
|
||
"text": "Shared history"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "deep_trust",
|
||
"text": "Deep trust"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "comfort_in_our_bodies",
|
||
"text": "Comfort in our bodies"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "knowing_each_other_s_cues",
|
||
"text": "Knowing each other's cues"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "still_surprising_each_other",
|
||
"text": "Still surprising each other"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_282",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How confident are you that our intimacy can keep evolving?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"evolving",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not confident",
|
||
"max_label": "Very confident"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_283",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "Protect a favorite ritual or invent a new one?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"ritual_evolution",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "protect_a_favorite_ritual",
|
||
"text": "Protect a favorite ritual"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "invent_a_new_one",
|
||
"text": "Invent a new one"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_284",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How well does our current intimacy fit this stage of life?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"life_stage_fit",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Does not fit well yet",
|
||
"max_label": "Fits very well"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_285",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What do you hope our intimacy includes more of next year?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"future",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "playfulness",
|
||
"text": "Playfulness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "emotional_closeness",
|
||
"text": "Emotional closeness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "unhurried_time",
|
||
"text": "Unhurried time"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "honest_conversations",
|
||
"text": "Honest conversations"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "new_shared_experiences",
|
||
"text": "New shared experiences"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_286",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which future intimacy goal feels most meaningful?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"future_goal",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_safer_to_speak",
|
||
"text": "Feeling safer to speak"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "making_more_time",
|
||
"text": "Making more time"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "keeping_attraction_playful",
|
||
"text": "Keeping attraction playful"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "feeling_cared_for_afterward",
|
||
"text": "Feeling cared for afterward"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_287",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What parts of our current connection deserve appreciation?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"current_appreciation",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "our_affection",
|
||
"text": "Our affection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "our_honesty",
|
||
"text": "Our honesty"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "our_humor",
|
||
"text": "Our humor"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "our_ability_to_repair",
|
||
"text": "Our ability to repair"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "our_respect_for_boundaries",
|
||
"text": "Our respect for boundaries"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_288",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How hopeful do you feel about our intimate future?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"hope",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Not hopeful",
|
||
"max_label": "Very hopeful"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_289",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which shared intentions could strengthen closeness?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"intentions",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "ask_what_feels_good_now",
|
||
"text": "Ask what feels good now"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "protect_private_time",
|
||
"text": "Protect private time"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "offer_affection_without_expectation",
|
||
"text": "Offer affection without expectation"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "try_one_small_new_thing",
|
||
"text": "Try one small new thing"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "celebrate_what_already_works",
|
||
"text": "Celebrate what already works"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_290",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "What do you hope we remember years from now?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"future_memory",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_stayed_kind",
|
||
"text": "We stayed kind"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_kept_flirting",
|
||
"text": "We kept flirting"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_respected_every_no",
|
||
"text": "We respected every no"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_never_stopped_learning",
|
||
"text": "We never stopped learning"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_291",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which parts of the way we handle intimacy make you proud?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"pride",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_can_be_honest",
|
||
"text": "We can be honest"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_respect_boundaries",
|
||
"text": "We respect boundaries"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_recover_from_awkwardness",
|
||
"text": "We recover from awkwardness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_make_each_other_laugh",
|
||
"text": "We make each other laugh"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "we_keep_choosing_connection",
|
||
"text": "We keep choosing connection"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_292",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which qualities do you want us to protect no matter what?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"protect",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "trust",
|
||
"text": "Trust"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "playfulness",
|
||
"text": "Playfulness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "privacy",
|
||
"text": "Privacy"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "mutual_choice",
|
||
"text": "Mutual choice"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "freedom_to_change",
|
||
"text": "Freedom to change"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_293",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What could help us feel more connected over the next few months?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"next_season",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_new_ritual",
|
||
"text": "A new ritual"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_private_getaway",
|
||
"text": "A private getaway"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "better_stress_support",
|
||
"text": "Better stress support"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "more_daily_affection",
|
||
"text": "More daily affection"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "a_more_honest_conversation",
|
||
"text": "A more honest conversation"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_294",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which appreciation would you most like to hear from me?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"appreciation_hear",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_love_how_easy_honesty_feels_with_you",
|
||
"text": "I love how easy honesty feels with you"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_love_our_chemistry",
|
||
"text": "I love our chemistry"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_notice_how_you_care_for_me",
|
||
"text": "I notice how you care for me"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_am_grateful_we_can_grow_together",
|
||
"text": "I am grateful we can grow together"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "i_still_choose_you",
|
||
"text": "I still choose you"
|
||
}
|
||
],
|
||
"min_selections": 1,
|
||
"max_selections": 3
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_295",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "single_choice",
|
||
"text": "Which small promise feels realistic for this month?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"monthly_promise",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "one_private_date",
|
||
"text": "One private date"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "more_goodbye_kisses",
|
||
"text": "More goodbye kisses"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "one_relaxed_talk_about_what_we_want",
|
||
"text": "One relaxed talk about what we want"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "ten_phone_free_cuddle_minutes",
|
||
"text": "Ten phone-free cuddle minutes"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_296",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "free",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "multi_choice",
|
||
"text": "What keeps closeness from getting lost in everyday life?",
|
||
"depth": 3,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"visibility",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "naming_what_works",
|
||
"text": "Naming what works"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "celebrating_small_moments",
|
||
"text": "Celebrating small moments"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "planning_time_before_we_are_depleted",
|
||
"text": "Planning time before we are depleted"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "continuing_to_flirt",
|
||
"text": "Continuing to flirt"
|
||
},
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{
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"id": "keeping_check_ins_brief_and_natural",
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"text": "Keeping check-ins brief and natural"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
|
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},
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"id": "couple_intimacy_297",
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"access": "premium",
|
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"sex": "neutral"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"type": "scale",
|
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"text": "How appreciated do you feel for the way you contribute to our closeness?",
|
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"depth": 3,
|
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"tags": [
|
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"appreciated_scale",
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"couple_intimacy"
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
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"min_label": "Not very appreciated",
|
||
"max_label": "Deeply appreciated"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_298",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "this_or_that",
|
||
"text": "More tenderness or more adventure in our next chapter?",
|
||
"depth": 2,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"next_chapter",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"options": [
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "more_tenderness",
|
||
"text": "More tenderness"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"id": "more_adventure",
|
||
"text": "More adventure"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_299",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
},
|
||
{
|
||
"type": "scale",
|
||
"text": "How similar do our hopes for future intimacy feel?",
|
||
"depth": 5,
|
||
"tags": [
|
||
"alignment",
|
||
"couple_intimacy"
|
||
],
|
||
"answer_config": {
|
||
"min": 1,
|
||
"max": 5,
|
||
"min_label": "Very different",
|
||
"max_label": "Very similar"
|
||
},
|
||
"id": "couple_intimacy_300",
|
||
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
|
||
"access": "premium",
|
||
"sex": "neutral"
|
||
}
|
||
]
|
||
}
|