Closer/seed/questions/marriage.json

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    "description": "Warm, natural questions about married identity, everyday choosing, vows, humor, traditions, partnership, romance, admiration, independence, life changes, resilience, aging, and keeping the marriage distinctly yours.",
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      "guide_basis": "QUESTION_CONTENT_GUIDE, QUESTION_QUALITY_CHECKLIST v9, and QUESTION_SCHEMA v8 reviewed July 14, 2026.",
      "pack_purpose": "Help married couples enjoy, understand, and intentionally shape the identity, commitment, rituals, humor, romance, growth, and long-term meaning of their marriage.",
      "pack_boundary": "Marriage owns the broad experience of being spouses: married identity, everyday choosing, vows, couple-specific traditions, healthy commitment, public and private spouse identity, long-term partnership, and renewal. Detailed chores belong in Home Life; active disagreements in Conflict; apologies and reconnection in Conflict Repair; betrayal recovery in Rebuilding Trust; financial decisions in Money; parenting teamwork in Parenting; scheduled shared time in Quality Time; and detailed future planning in Future.",
      "safety_boundary": "No question requires staying in an unsafe marriage, surrendering privacy or independence, accepting control as loyalty, isolating from outside support, performing affection, sharing private information publicly, or preserving appearances over wellbeing.",
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      "id": "marriage_001",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of our marriage feel most unmistakably like us?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "identity",
        "couple_lore",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_001_the_way_we_make_ordinary_days_funny",
          "text": "The way we make ordinary days funny"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_001_the_traditions_we_invented_ourselves",
          "text": "The traditions we invented ourselves"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_001_how_we_show_up_when_life_gets_messy",
          "text": "How we show up when life gets messy"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_001_the_private_language_only_we_understand",
          "text": "The private language only we understand"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_001_the_way_we_make_ordinary_days_funny",
            "text": "The way we make ordinary days funny"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_001_the_traditions_we_invented_ourselves",
            "text": "The traditions we invented ourselves"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_001_how_we_show_up_when_life_gets_messy",
            "text": "How we show up when life gets messy"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_001_the_private_language_only_we_understand",
            "text": "The private language only we understand"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_002",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which description fits our marriage best right now?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "identity",
        "current_season",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_002_a_steady_partnership_with_good_jokes",
          "text": "A steady partnership with good jokes"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_002_a_soft_place_with_plenty_of_spark",
          "text": "A soft place with plenty of spark"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_002_a_work_in_progress_we_both_choose",
          "text": "A work in progress we both choose"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_002_a_familiar_adventure_that_still_surprises_us",
          "text": "A familiar adventure that still surprises us"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_002_a_steady_partnership_with_good_jokes",
            "text": "A steady partnership with good jokes"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_002_a_soft_place_with_plenty_of_spark",
            "text": "A soft place with plenty of spark"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_002_a_work_in_progress_we_both_choose",
            "text": "A work in progress we both choose"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_002_a_familiar_adventure_that_still_surprises_us",
            "text": "A familiar adventure that still surprises us"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_003",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What gives our marriage its own personality?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "identity",
        "personality",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_003_our_shared_sense_of_humor",
          "text": "Our shared sense of humor"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_003_the_way_we_celebrate_small_wins",
          "text": "The way we celebrate small wins"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_003_how_different_our_strengths_are",
          "text": "How different our strengths are"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_003_the_stories_we_keep_retelling",
          "text": "The stories we keep retelling"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_003_our_shared_sense_of_humor",
            "text": "Our shared sense of humor"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_003_the_way_we_celebrate_small_wins",
            "text": "The way we celebrate small wins"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_003_how_different_our_strengths_are",
            "text": "How different our strengths are"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_003_the_stories_we_keep_retelling",
            "text": "The stories we keep retelling"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_004",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How strongly does our marriage feel like something we created together?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "identity",
        "ownership",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Mostly inherited expectations",
        "max_label": "Very much our own"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_005",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which moments make being married feel especially real to you?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "identity",
        "married_life",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_005_making_a_decision_as_a_team",
          "text": "Making a decision as a team"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_005_being_introduced_as_each_others_spouse",
          "text": "Being introduced as each other’s spouse"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_005_handling_an_ordinary_problem_together",
          "text": "Handling an ordinary problem together"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_005_catching_a_look_that_says_we_already_know",
          "text": "Catching a look that says we already know"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_005_making_a_decision_as_a_team",
            "text": "Making a decision as a team"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_005_being_introduced_as_each_others_spouse",
            "text": "Being introduced as each other’s spouse"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_005_handling_an_ordinary_problem_together",
            "text": "Handling an ordinary problem together"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_005_catching_a_look_that_says_we_already_know",
            "text": "Catching a look that says we already know"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_006",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "More like a secret club or a lifelong road trip?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "identity",
        "playful",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_006_a_secret_club",
          "text": "A secret club"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_006_a_lifelong_road_trip",
          "text": "A lifelong road trip"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_006_a_secret_club",
            "text": "A secret club"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_006_a_lifelong_road_trip",
            "text": "A lifelong road trip"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_007",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes our marriage feel different from simply sharing a life?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "commitment",
        "identity",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_007_the_promises_behind_our_choices",
          "text": "The promises behind our choices"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_007_the_history_carried_into_small_moments",
          "text": "The history carried into small moments"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_007_knowing_we_represent_a_team",
          "text": "Knowing we represent a team"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_007_the_way_our_decisions_consider_both_people",
          "text": "The way our decisions consider both people"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_007_the_promises_behind_our_choices",
            "text": "The promises behind our choices"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_007_the_history_carried_into_small_moments",
            "text": "The history carried into small moments"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_007_knowing_we_represent_a_team",
            "text": "Knowing we represent a team"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_007_the_way_our_decisions_consider_both_people",
            "text": "The way our decisions consider both people"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_008",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which symbol would best represent our marriage today?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "identity",
        "metaphor",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_008_a_well_used_map_with_new_places_left",
          "text": "A well-used map with new places left"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_008_a_porch_light_that_stays_welcoming",
          "text": "A porch light that stays welcoming"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_008_a_favorite_song_with_extra_verses",
          "text": "A favorite song with extra verses"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_008_a_sturdy_table_covered_in_stories",
          "text": "A sturdy table covered in stories"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_008_a_well_used_map_with_new_places_left",
            "text": "A well-used map with new places left"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_008_a_porch_light_that_stays_welcoming",
            "text": "A porch light that stays welcoming"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_008_a_favorite_song_with_extra_verses",
            "text": "A favorite song with extra verses"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_008_a_sturdy_table_covered_in_stories",
            "text": "A sturdy table covered in stories"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_009",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What deserves more credit in our story?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "story",
        "appreciation",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_009_the_quiet_years_that_built_trust",
          "text": "The quiet years that built trust"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_009_the_pivots_we_made_without_a_perfect_plan",
          "text": "The pivots we made without a perfect plan"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_009_the_fun_we_protected_during_busy_times",
          "text": "The fun we protected during busy times"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_009_the_ways_we_grew_without_growing_apart",
          "text": "The ways we grew without growing apart"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_009_the_quiet_years_that_built_trust",
            "text": "The quiet years that built trust"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_009_the_pivots_we_made_without_a_perfect_plan",
            "text": "The pivots we made without a perfect plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_009_the_fun_we_protected_during_busy_times",
            "text": "The fun we protected during busy times"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_009_the_ways_we_grew_without_growing_apart",
            "text": "The ways we grew without growing apart"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_010",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us remember that our marriage belongs to us?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "identity",
        "autonomy",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_010_making_choices_without_performing_for_others",
          "text": "Making choices without performing for others"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_010_keeping_a_few_traditions_completely_private",
          "text": "Keeping a few traditions completely private"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_010_letting_our_relationship_look_different_from_anyone_elses",
          "text": "Letting our relationship look different from anyone else’s"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_010_checking_what_works_for_us_instead_of_following_a_script",
          "text": "Checking what works for us instead of following a script"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_010_making_choices_without_performing_for_others",
            "text": "Making choices without performing for others"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_010_keeping_a_few_traditions_completely_private",
            "text": "Keeping a few traditions completely private"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_010_letting_our_relationship_look_different_from_anyone_elses",
            "text": "Letting our relationship look different from anyone else’s"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_010_checking_what_works_for_us_instead_of_following_a_script",
            "text": "Checking what works for us instead of following a script"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_011",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which small actions make commitment feel active instead of assumed?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "commitment",
        "everyday_choice",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_011_following_through_on_an_ordinary_promise",
          "text": "Following through on an ordinary promise"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_011_making_room_for_each_others_bad_days",
          "text": "Making room for each other’s bad days"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_011_checking_in_before_a_big_personal_choice",
          "text": "Checking in before a big personal choice"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_011_showing_affection_without_making_it_a_test",
          "text": "Showing affection without making it a test"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_011_following_through_on_an_ordinary_promise",
            "text": "Following through on an ordinary promise"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_011_making_room_for_each_others_bad_days",
            "text": "Making room for each other’s bad days"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_011_checking_in_before_a_big_personal_choice",
            "text": "Checking in before a big personal choice"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_011_showing_affection_without_making_it_a_test",
            "text": "Showing affection without making it a test"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_012",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What most says “I still choose you” on a normal day?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "commitment",
        "daily_life",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_012_turning_toward_me_when_i_start_talking",
          "text": "Turning toward me when I start talking"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_012_saving_a_little_energy_for_us",
          "text": "Saving a little energy for us"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_012_including_me_in_something_that_matters",
          "text": "Including me in something that matters"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_012_finding_one_reason_to_be_playful_together",
          "text": "Finding one reason to be playful together"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_012_turning_toward_me_when_i_start_talking",
            "text": "Turning toward me when I start talking"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_012_saving_a_little_energy_for_us",
            "text": "Saving a little energy for us"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_012_including_me_in_something_that_matters",
            "text": "Including me in something that matters"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_012_finding_one_reason_to_be_playful_together",
            "text": "Finding one reason to be playful together"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_013",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Where do you notice devotion hiding in ordinary life?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "devotion",
        "daily_life",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_013_in_the_errands_done_without_applause",
          "text": "In the errands done without applause"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_013_in_the_patience_used_when_one_of_us_is_tired",
          "text": "In the patience used when one of us is tired"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_013_in_the_details_we_remember_about_each_other",
          "text": "In the details we remember about each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_013_in_the_plans_we_quietly_keep_making_together",
          "text": "In the plans we quietly keep making together"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_013_in_the_errands_done_without_applause",
            "text": "In the errands done without applause"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_013_in_the_patience_used_when_one_of_us_is_tired",
            "text": "In the patience used when one of us is tired"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_013_in_the_details_we_remember_about_each_other",
            "text": "In the details we remember about each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_013_in_the_plans_we_quietly_keep_making_together",
            "text": "In the plans we quietly keep making together"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_014",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How chosen do you feel by me in the life we are living now?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "commitment",
        "chosen",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not often enough",
        "max_label": "Very clearly chosen"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_015",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which habits help marriage feel cared for during a crowded week?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "care",
        "busy_life",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_015_a_real_hello_before_discussing_logistics",
          "text": "A real hello before discussing logistics"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_015_one_affectionate_moment_with_no_agenda",
          "text": "One affectionate moment with no agenda"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_015_a_quick_reminder_that_we_are_on_the_same_side",
          "text": "A quick reminder that we are on the same side"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_015_a_promise_not_to_give_each_other_only_leftover_attention",
          "text": "A promise not to give each other only leftover attention"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_015_a_real_hello_before_discussing_logistics",
            "text": "A real hello before discussing logistics"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_015_one_affectionate_moment_with_no_agenda",
            "text": "One affectionate moment with no agenda"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_015_a_quick_reminder_that_we_are_on_the_same_side",
            "text": "A quick reminder that we are on the same side"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_015_a_promise_not_to_give_each_other_only_leftover_attention",
            "text": "A promise not to give each other only leftover attention"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_016",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A spoken promise or a promise shown through action?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "commitment",
        "preferences",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_016_a_spoken_promise",
          "text": "A spoken promise"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_016_a_promise_shown_through_action",
          "text": "A promise shown through action"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_016_a_spoken_promise",
            "text": "A spoken promise"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_016_a_promise_shown_through_action",
            "text": "A promise shown through action"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_017",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you believe that our marriage matters even when life is loud?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "priority",
        "commitment",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_017_we_protect_a_few_decisions_as_ours",
          "text": "We protect a few decisions as ours"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_017_we_notice_when_one_person_is_carrying_too_much",
          "text": "We notice when one person is carrying too much"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_017_we_repair_missed_moments_instead_of_pretending_they_did_not_",
          "text": "We repair missed moments instead of pretending they did not matter"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_017_we_keep_making_plans_that_include_both_of_us",
          "text": "We keep making plans that include both of us"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_017_we_protect_a_few_decisions_as_ours",
            "text": "We protect a few decisions as ours"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_017_we_notice_when_one_person_is_carrying_too_much",
            "text": "We notice when one person is carrying too much"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_017_we_repair_missed_moments_instead_of_pretending_they_did_not_",
            "text": "We repair missed moments instead of pretending they did not matter"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_017_we_keep_making_plans_that_include_both_of_us",
            "text": "We keep making plans that include both of us"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_018",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which everyday gesture carries the most married meaning for you?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "gesture",
        "daily_life",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_018_a_goodbye_that_is_not_rushed",
          "text": "A goodbye that is not rushed"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_018_a_message_sent_just_because",
          "text": "A message sent just because"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_018_a_warm_look_across_the_room",
          "text": "A warm look across the room"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_018_a_small_favor_remembered_from_earlier",
          "text": "A small favor remembered from earlier"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_018_a_goodbye_that_is_not_rushed",
            "text": "A goodbye that is not rushed"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_018_a_message_sent_just_because",
            "text": "A message sent just because"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_018_a_warm_look_across_the_room",
            "text": "A warm look across the room"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_018_a_small_favor_remembered_from_earlier",
            "text": "A small favor remembered from earlier"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_019",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes loyalty feel healthy rather than restrictive?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "loyalty",
        "autonomy",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_019_being_honest_without_being_monitored",
          "text": "Being honest without being monitored"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_019_protecting_the_relationship_without_isolating_each_other",
          "text": "Protecting the relationship without isolating each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_019_keeping_agreements_that_both_people_chose",
          "text": "Keeping agreements that both people chose"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_019_supporting_each_persons_friendships_and_independence",
          "text": "Supporting each person’s friendships and independence"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_019_being_honest_without_being_monitored",
            "text": "Being honest without being monitored"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_019_protecting_the_relationship_without_isolating_each_other",
            "text": "Protecting the relationship without isolating each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_019_keeping_agreements_that_both_people_chose",
            "text": "Keeping agreements that both people chose"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_019_supporting_each_persons_friendships_and_independence",
            "text": "Supporting each person’s friendships and independence"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_020",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which reminders help us keep choosing each other freely?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "commitment",
        "safety",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_020_we_can_renegotiate_old_expectations",
          "text": "We can renegotiate old expectations"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_020_commitment_does_not_erase_personal_boundaries",
          "text": "Commitment does not erase personal boundaries"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_020_love_is_stronger_when_both_people_can_speak_honestly",
          "text": "Love is stronger when both people can speak honestly"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_020_staying_connected_should_never_require_ignoring_harm",
          "text": "Staying connected should never require ignoring harm"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_020_we_can_renegotiate_old_expectations",
            "text": "We can renegotiate old expectations"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_020_commitment_does_not_erase_personal_boundaries",
            "text": "Commitment does not erase personal boundaries"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_020_love_is_stronger_when_both_people_can_speak_honestly",
            "text": "Love is stronger when both people can speak honestly"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_020_staying_connected_should_never_require_ignoring_harm",
            "text": "Staying connected should never require ignoring harm"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_021",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which kinds of married-life comedy are most like us?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "couple_lore",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_021_knowing_exactly_why_the_other_person_walked_into_the_room",
          "text": "Knowing exactly why the other person walked into the room"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_021_having_a_debate_whose_original_topic_has_vanished",
          "text": "Having a debate whose original topic has vanished"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_021_communicating_entire_opinions_through_one_look",
          "text": "Communicating entire opinions through one look"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_021_owning_household_objects_with_suspicious_emotional_attachmen",
          "text": "Owning household objects with suspicious emotional attachment"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_021_knowing_exactly_why_the_other_person_walked_into_the_room",
            "text": "Knowing exactly why the other person walked into the room"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_021_having_a_debate_whose_original_topic_has_vanished",
            "text": "Having a debate whose original topic has vanished"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_021_communicating_entire_opinions_through_one_look",
            "text": "Communicating entire opinions through one look"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_021_owning_household_objects_with_suspicious_emotional_attachmen",
            "text": "Owning household objects with suspicious emotional attachment"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_022",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which unofficial spouse title would suit you best?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "playful",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_022_minister_of_finding_lost_objects",
          "text": "Minister of finding lost objects"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_022_chief_interpreter_of_suspicious_noises",
          "text": "Chief interpreter of suspicious noises"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_022_director_of_snack_related_decisions",
          "text": "Director of snack-related decisions"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_022_historian_of_who_said_what_first",
          "text": "Historian of who said what first"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_022_minister_of_finding_lost_objects",
            "text": "Minister of finding lost objects"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_022_chief_interpreter_of_suspicious_noises",
            "text": "Chief interpreter of suspicious noises"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_022_director_of_snack_related_decisions",
            "text": "Director of snack-related decisions"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_022_historian_of_who_said_what_first",
            "text": "Historian of who said what first"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_023",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What belongs in our imaginary marriage museum?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "memories",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_023_a_receipt_from_a_legendary_ordinary_day",
          "text": "A receipt from a legendary ordinary day"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_023_the_object_we_keep_moving_but_never_throw_away",
          "text": "The object we keep moving but never throw away"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_023_a_photo_that_needs_a_long_explanation",
          "text": "A photo that needs a long explanation"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_023_something_connected_to_our_oldest_surviving_joke",
          "text": "Something connected to our oldest surviving joke"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_023_a_receipt_from_a_legendary_ordinary_day",
            "text": "A receipt from a legendary ordinary day"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_023_the_object_we_keep_moving_but_never_throw_away",
            "text": "The object we keep moving but never throw away"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_023_a_photo_that_needs_a_long_explanation",
            "text": "A photo that needs a long explanation"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_023_something_connected_to_our_oldest_surviving_joke",
            "text": "Something connected to our oldest surviving joke"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_024",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much does laughing together help our marriage feel close?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "closeness",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Only a little",
        "max_label": "A tremendous amount"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_025",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which moments make us feel like experienced married people?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "old_married_energy",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_025_solving_a_problem_with_barely_any_words",
          "text": "Solving a problem with barely any words"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_025_knowing_which_story_the_other_person_is_about_to_tell",
          "text": "Knowing which story the other person is about to tell"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_025_predicting_the_exact_restaurant_order",
          "text": "Predicting the exact restaurant order"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_025_recognizing_when_a_serious_discussion_needs_a_snack",
          "text": "Recognizing when a serious discussion needs a snack"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_025_solving_a_problem_with_barely_any_words",
            "text": "Solving a problem with barely any words"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_025_knowing_which_story_the_other_person_is_about_to_tell",
            "text": "Knowing which story the other person is about to tell"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_025_predicting_the_exact_restaurant_order",
            "text": "Predicting the exact restaurant order"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_025_recognizing_when_a_serious_discussion_needs_a_snack",
            "text": "Recognizing when a serious discussion needs a snack"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_026",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A ridiculous anniversary tradition or a deeply sincere one?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "anniversary",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_026_a_ridiculous_anniversary_tradition",
          "text": "A ridiculous anniversary tradition"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_026_a_deeply_sincere_anniversary_tradition",
          "text": "A deeply sincere anniversary tradition"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_026_a_ridiculous_anniversary_tradition",
            "text": "A ridiculous anniversary tradition"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_026_a_deeply_sincere_anniversary_tradition",
            "text": "A deeply sincere anniversary tradition"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_027",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which harmless debates deserve a permanent place in our marriage?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "playful_debate",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_027_the_correct_room_temperature",
          "text": "The correct room temperature"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_027_whether_directions_should_be_followed_or_interpreted",
          "text": "Whether directions should be followed or interpreted"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_027_the_best_way_to_load_something",
          "text": "The best way to load something"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_027_how_early_counts_as_being_on_time",
          "text": "How early counts as being on time"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_027_the_correct_room_temperature",
            "text": "The correct room temperature"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_027_whether_directions_should_be_followed_or_interpreted",
            "text": "Whether directions should be followed or interpreted"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_027_the_best_way_to_load_something",
            "text": "The best way to load something"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_027_how_early_counts_as_being_on_time",
            "text": "How early counts as being on time"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_028",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should our marriage’s warning label say?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "playful",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_028_may_communicate_through_references_no_one_else_understands",
          "text": "May communicate through references no one else understands"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_028_contains_strong_opinions_about_minor_conveniences",
          "text": "Contains strong opinions about minor conveniences"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_028_frequently_turns_errands_into_a_full_story",
          "text": "Frequently turns errands into a full story"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_028_best_handled_with_patience_and_a_backup_snack",
          "text": "Best handled with patience and a backup snack"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_028_may_communicate_through_references_no_one_else_understands",
            "text": "May communicate through references no one else understands"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_028_contains_strong_opinions_about_minor_conveniences",
            "text": "Contains strong opinions about minor conveniences"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_028_frequently_turns_errands_into_a_full_story",
            "text": "Frequently turns errands into a full story"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_028_best_handled_with_patience_and_a_backup_snack",
            "text": "Best handled with patience and a backup snack"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_029",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps our humor kind instead of cutting?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "respect",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_029_the_joke_never_targets_a_real_insecurity",
          "text": "The joke never targets a real insecurity"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_029_either_person_can_say_the_bit_has_gone_far_enough",
          "text": "Either person can say the bit has gone far enough"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_029_we_laugh_with_each_other_rather_than_collect_an_audience",
          "text": "We laugh with each other rather than collect an audience"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_029_apologies_come_quickly_when_a_joke_lands_badly",
          "text": "Apologies come quickly when a joke lands badly"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_029_the_joke_never_targets_a_real_insecurity",
            "text": "The joke never targets a real insecurity"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_029_either_person_can_say_the_bit_has_gone_far_enough",
            "text": "Either person can say the bit has gone far enough"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_029_we_laugh_with_each_other_rather_than_collect_an_audience",
            "text": "We laugh with each other rather than collect an audience"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_029_apologies_come_quickly_when_a_joke_lands_badly",
            "text": "Apologies come quickly when a joke lands badly"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_030",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which stories will probably become more exaggerated as we age?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "storytelling",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_030_how_we_first_met",
          "text": "How we first met"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_030_the_trip_where_nothing_followed_the_plan",
          "text": "The trip where nothing followed the plan"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_030_the_smallest_disagreement_that_became_family_legend",
          "text": "The smallest disagreement that became family legend"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_030_the_time_one_of_us_was_technically_right",
          "text": "The time one of us was technically right"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_030_how_we_first_met",
            "text": "How we first met"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_030_the_trip_where_nothing_followed_the_plan",
            "text": "The trip where nothing followed the plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_030_the_smallest_disagreement_that_became_family_legend",
            "text": "The smallest disagreement that became family legend"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_030_the_time_one_of_us_was_technically_right",
            "text": "The time one of us was technically right"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_031",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of commitment matter most beyond the wedding vows?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "vows",
        "commitment",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_031_being_truthful_when_the_truth_is_inconvenient",
          "text": "Being truthful when the truth is inconvenient"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_031_protecting_each_others_dignity_in_public_and_private",
          "text": "Protecting each other’s dignity in public and private"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_031_making_major_choices_with_both_lives_in_mind",
          "text": "Making major choices with both lives in mind"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_031_taking_responsibility_when_our_actions_cause_harm",
          "text": "Taking responsibility when our actions cause harm"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_031_being_truthful_when_the_truth_is_inconvenient",
            "text": "Being truthful when the truth is inconvenient"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_031_protecting_each_others_dignity_in_public_and_private",
            "text": "Protecting each other’s dignity in public and private"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_031_making_major_choices_with_both_lives_in_mind",
            "text": "Making major choices with both lives in mind"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_031_taking_responsibility_when_our_actions_cause_harm",
            "text": "Taking responsibility when our actions cause harm"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_032",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which vow feels most alive in our marriage today?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "vows",
        "commitment",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_032_i_will_keep_learning_who_you_are",
          "text": "I will keep learning who you are"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_032_i_will_not_make_your_vulnerability_a_weapon",
          "text": "I will not make your vulnerability a weapon"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_032_i_will_build_a_life_that_has_room_for_both_of_us",
          "text": "I will build a life that has room for both of us"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_032_i_will_return_to_honesty_when_things_get_hard",
          "text": "I will return to honesty when things get hard"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_032_i_will_keep_learning_who_you_are",
            "text": "I will keep learning who you are"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_032_i_will_not_make_your_vulnerability_a_weapon",
            "text": "I will not make your vulnerability a weapon"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_032_i_will_build_a_life_that_has_room_for_both_of_us",
            "text": "I will build a life that has room for both of us"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_032_i_will_return_to_honesty_when_things_get_hard",
            "text": "I will return to honesty when things get hard"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_033",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a promise between spouses believable?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "promises",
        "reliability",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_033_it_is_specific_enough_to_understand",
          "text": "It is specific enough to understand"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_033_both_people_actually_agreed_to_it",
          "text": "Both people actually agreed to it"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_033_the_follow_through_appears_in_ordinary_moments",
          "text": "The follow-through appears in ordinary moments"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_033_there_is_room_to_revisit_it_when_life_changes",
          "text": "There is room to revisit it when life changes"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_033_it_is_specific_enough_to_understand",
            "text": "It is specific enough to understand"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_033_both_people_actually_agreed_to_it",
            "text": "Both people actually agreed to it"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_033_the_follow_through_appears_in_ordinary_moments",
            "text": "The follow-through appears in ordinary moments"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_033_there_is_room_to_revisit_it_when_life_changes",
            "text": "There is room to revisit it when life changes"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_034",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident are you that we can update old promises honestly?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "promises",
        "growth",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very confident",
        "max_label": "Very confident"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_035",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which commitments should never require someone to lose themselves?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "commitment",
        "autonomy",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_035_commitment_to_the_marriage",
          "text": "Commitment to the marriage"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_035_commitment_to_shared_plans",
          "text": "Commitment to shared plans"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_035_commitment_to_family_expectations",
          "text": "Commitment to family expectations"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_035_commitment_to_keeping_the_peace",
          "text": "Commitment to keeping the peace"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_035_commitment_to_the_marriage",
            "text": "Commitment to the marriage"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_035_commitment_to_shared_plans",
            "text": "Commitment to shared plans"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_035_commitment_to_family_expectations",
            "text": "Commitment to family expectations"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_035_commitment_to_keeping_the_peace",
            "text": "Commitment to keeping the peace"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_036",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Traditional vows or vows written in our own words?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "vows",
        "preferences",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_036_traditional_vows",
          "text": "Traditional vows"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_036_vows_written_in_our_own_words",
          "text": "Vows written in our own words"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_036_traditional_vows",
            "text": "Traditional vows"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_036_vows_written_in_our_own_words",
            "text": "Vows written in our own words"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_037",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps lifelong language feel loving rather than pressuring?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "commitment",
        "safety",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_037_both_people_still_have_a_real_voice",
          "text": "Both people still have a real voice"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_037_safety_is_treated_as_more_important_than_appearances",
          "text": "Safety is treated as more important than appearances"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_037_change_can_be_discussed_without_threatening_the_bond",
          "text": "Change can be discussed without threatening the bond"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_037_commitment_is_shown_through_care_not_control",
          "text": "Commitment is shown through care, not control"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_037_both_people_still_have_a_real_voice",
            "text": "Both people still have a real voice"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_037_safety_is_treated_as_more_important_than_appearances",
            "text": "Safety is treated as more important than appearances"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_037_change_can_be_discussed_without_threatening_the_bond",
            "text": "Change can be discussed without threatening the bond"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_037_commitment_is_shown_through_care_not_control",
            "text": "Commitment is shown through care, not control"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_038",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which promise would you most want us to renew privately?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "vows",
        "renewal",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_038_we_will_stay_curious_about_each_other",
          "text": "We will stay curious about each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_038_we_will_protect_honesty_from_punishment",
          "text": "We will protect honesty from punishment"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_038_we_will_make_room_for_individual_growth",
          "text": "We will make room for individual growth"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_038_we_will_not_let_pride_run_the_whole_marriage",
          "text": "We will not let pride run the whole marriage"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_038_we_will_stay_curious_about_each_other",
            "text": "We will stay curious about each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_038_we_will_protect_honesty_from_punishment",
            "text": "We will protect honesty from punishment"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_038_we_will_make_room_for_individual_growth",
            "text": "We will make room for individual growth"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_038_we_will_not_let_pride_run_the_whole_marriage",
            "text": "We will not let pride run the whole marriage"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_039",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes our commitment feel steady during uncertainty?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "commitment",
        "uncertainty",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_039_naming_what_has_not_changed",
          "text": "Naming what has not changed"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_039_making_the_next_small_decision_together",
          "text": "Making the next small decision together"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_039_allowing_fear_without_treating_it_as_a_verdict",
          "text": "Allowing fear without treating it as a verdict"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_039_remembering_that_uncertainty_does_not_erase_our_history",
          "text": "Remembering that uncertainty does not erase our history"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_039_naming_what_has_not_changed",
            "text": "Naming what has not changed"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_039_making_the_next_small_decision_together",
            "text": "Making the next small decision together"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_039_allowing_fear_without_treating_it_as_a_verdict",
            "text": "Allowing fear without treating it as a verdict"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_039_remembering_that_uncertainty_does_not_erase_our_history",
            "text": "Remembering that uncertainty does not erase our history"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_040",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which actions honor a marriage without pretending it is perfect?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "commitment",
        "realism",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_040_speaking_proudly_without_inventing_a_flawless_story",
          "text": "Speaking proudly without inventing a flawless story"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_040_asking_for_help_before_resentment_becomes_the_main_language",
          "text": "Asking for help before resentment becomes the main language"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_040_celebrating_what_works_while_addressing_what_does_not",
          "text": "Celebrating what works while addressing what does not"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_040_letting_both_people_have_an_honest_experience_of_the_relatio",
          "text": "Letting both people have an honest experience of the relationship"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_040_speaking_proudly_without_inventing_a_flawless_story",
            "text": "Speaking proudly without inventing a flawless story"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_040_asking_for_help_before_resentment_becomes_the_main_language",
            "text": "Asking for help before resentment becomes the main language"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_040_celebrating_what_works_while_addressing_what_does_not",
            "text": "Celebrating what works while addressing what does not"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_040_letting_both_people_have_an_honest_experience_of_the_relatio",
            "text": "Letting both people have an honest experience of the relationship"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_041",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which marriage rituals would feel worth keeping for years?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "traditions",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_041_an_annual_note_about_what_we_loved_that_year",
          "text": "An annual note about what we loved that year"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_041_a_private_toast_after_a_hard_season",
          "text": "A private toast after a hard season"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_041_one_tradition_that_changes_as_we_do",
          "text": "One tradition that changes as we do"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_041_a_regular_moment_to_remember_how_we_started",
          "text": "A regular moment to remember how we started"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_041_an_annual_note_about_what_we_loved_that_year",
            "text": "An annual note about what we loved that year"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_041_a_private_toast_after_a_hard_season",
            "text": "A private toast after a hard season"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_041_one_tradition_that_changes_as_we_do",
            "text": "One tradition that changes as we do"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_041_a_regular_moment_to_remember_how_we_started",
            "text": "A regular moment to remember how we started"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_042",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which anniversary plan sounds most like us?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anniversary",
        "rituals",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_042_revisit_a_meaningful_place",
          "text": "Revisit a meaningful place"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_042_try_something_we_have_never_done",
          "text": "Try something we have never done"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_042_stay_home_and_make_the_night_feel_special",
          "text": "Stay home and make the night feel special"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_042_trade_letters_and_choose_a_simple_treat",
          "text": "Trade letters and choose a simple treat"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_042_revisit_a_meaningful_place",
            "text": "Revisit a meaningful place"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_042_try_something_we_have_never_done",
            "text": "Try something we have never done"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_042_stay_home_and_make_the_night_feel_special",
            "text": "Stay home and make the night feel special"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_042_trade_letters_and_choose_a_simple_treat",
            "text": "Trade letters and choose a simple treat"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_043",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can make an anniversary meaningful without making it expensive?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anniversary",
        "meaning",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_043_retelling_one_favorite_memory_in_detail",
          "text": "Retelling one favorite memory in detail"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_043_choosing_a_song_for_the_year_ahead",
          "text": "Choosing a song for the year ahead"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_043_recreating_an_early_ordinary_date",
          "text": "Recreating an early ordinary date"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_043_naming_something_we_are_proud_we_built",
          "text": "Naming something we are proud we built"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_043_retelling_one_favorite_memory_in_detail",
            "text": "Retelling one favorite memory in detail"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_043_choosing_a_song_for_the_year_ahead",
            "text": "Choosing a song for the year ahead"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_043_recreating_an_early_ordinary_date",
            "text": "Recreating an early ordinary date"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_043_naming_something_we_are_proud_we_built",
            "text": "Naming something we are proud we built"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_044",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How important are marriage-specific traditions to you?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "preferences",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very important",
        "max_label": "Extremely important"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_045",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which moments deserve a small marriage ritual?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "milestones",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_045_the_end_of_a_demanding_month",
          "text": "The end of a demanding month"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_045_a_decision_that_changes_our_direction",
          "text": "A decision that changes our direction"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_045_one_person_reaching_a_personal_goal",
          "text": "One person reaching a personal goal"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_045_the_anniversary_of_getting_through_something_difficult",
          "text": "The anniversary of getting through something difficult"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_045_the_end_of_a_demanding_month",
            "text": "The end of a demanding month"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_045_a_decision_that_changes_our_direction",
            "text": "A decision that changes our direction"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_045_one_person_reaching_a_personal_goal",
            "text": "One person reaching a personal goal"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_045_the_anniversary_of_getting_through_something_difficult",
            "text": "The anniversary of getting through something difficult"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_046",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Repeat a favorite tradition or invent a new one?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "preferences",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_046_repeat_a_favorite_tradition",
          "text": "Repeat a favorite tradition"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_046_invent_a_new_tradition",
          "text": "Invent a new tradition"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_046_repeat_a_favorite_tradition",
            "text": "Repeat a favorite tradition"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_046_invent_a_new_tradition",
            "text": "Invent a new tradition"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_047",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps traditions from feeling like obligations?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "traditions",
        "flexibility",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_047_either_person_can_suggest_a_change",
          "text": "Either person can suggest a change"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_047_the_tradition_still_fits_our_actual_life",
          "text": "The tradition still fits our actual life"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_047_meaning_matters_more_than_perfect_execution",
          "text": "Meaning matters more than perfect execution"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_047_skipping_once_does_not_become_a_relationship_verdict",
          "text": "Skipping once does not become a relationship verdict"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_047_either_person_can_suggest_a_change",
            "text": "Either person can suggest a change"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_047_the_tradition_still_fits_our_actual_life",
            "text": "The tradition still fits our actual life"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_047_meaning_matters_more_than_perfect_execution",
            "text": "Meaning matters more than perfect execution"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_047_skipping_once_does_not_become_a_relationship_verdict",
            "text": "Skipping once does not become a relationship verdict"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_048",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which private ritual could make this year feel more married?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "playful",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_048_a_monthly_note_hidden_somewhere_ordinary",
          "text": "A monthly note hidden somewhere ordinary"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_048_a_yearly_question_we_answer_together",
          "text": "A yearly question we answer together"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_048_a_small_toast_after_major_decisions",
          "text": "A small toast after major decisions"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_048_a_photo_taken_in_the_same_imperfect_spot",
          "text": "A photo taken in the same imperfect spot"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_048_a_monthly_note_hidden_somewhere_ordinary",
            "text": "A monthly note hidden somewhere ordinary"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_048_a_yearly_question_we_answer_together",
            "text": "A yearly question we answer together"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_048_a_small_toast_after_major_decisions",
            "text": "A small toast after major decisions"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_048_a_photo_taken_in_the_same_imperfect_spot",
            "text": "A photo taken in the same imperfect spot"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_049",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of a wedding or commitment ceremony still matter afterward?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "wedding",
        "commitment",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_049_the_words_we_meant",
          "text": "The words we meant"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_049_the_people_who_supported_us",
          "text": "The people who supported us"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_049_the_feeling_of_publicly_choosing_each_other",
          "text": "The feeling of publicly choosing each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_049_the_reminder_that_the_ceremony_was_a_beginning",
          "text": "The reminder that the ceremony was a beginning"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_049_the_words_we_meant",
            "text": "The words we meant"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_049_the_people_who_supported_us",
            "text": "The people who supported us"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_049_the_feeling_of_publicly_choosing_each_other",
            "text": "The feeling of publicly choosing each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_049_the_reminder_that_the_ceremony_was_a_beginning",
            "text": "The reminder that the ceremony was a beginning"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_050",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What would make a vow renewal feel genuine to us?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "vows",
        "renewal",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_050_acknowledging_how_both_people_have_changed",
          "text": "Acknowledging how both people have changed"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_050_keeping_the_language_honest_and_specific",
          "text": "Keeping the language honest and specific"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_050_including_humor_that_actually_belongs_to_us",
          "text": "Including humor that actually belongs to us"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_050_choosing_it_because_we_want_to_not_because_we_should",
          "text": "Choosing it because we want to, not because we should"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_050_acknowledging_how_both_people_have_changed",
            "text": "Acknowledging how both people have changed"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_050_keeping_the_language_honest_and_specific",
            "text": "Keeping the language honest and specific"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_050_including_humor_that_actually_belongs_to_us",
            "text": "Including humor that actually belongs to us"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_050_choosing_it_because_we_want_to_not_because_we_should",
            "text": "Choosing it because we want to, not because we should"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_051",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which qualities make our marriage feel like a real partnership?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "partnership",
        "teamwork",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_051_both_voices_matter_in_important_choices",
          "text": "Both voices matter in important choices"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_051_strengths_are_appreciated_without_becoming_permanent_jobs",
          "text": "Strengths are appreciated without becoming permanent jobs"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_051_support_can_move_in_either_direction",
          "text": "Support can move in either direction"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_051_neither_person_has_to_earn_basic_respect",
          "text": "Neither person has to earn basic respect"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_051_both_voices_matter_in_important_choices",
            "text": "Both voices matter in important choices"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_051_strengths_are_appreciated_without_becoming_permanent_jobs",
            "text": "Strengths are appreciated without becoming permanent jobs"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_051_support_can_move_in_either_direction",
            "text": "Support can move in either direction"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_051_neither_person_has_to_earn_basic_respect",
            "text": "Neither person has to earn basic respect"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_052",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Where does our teamwork shine most?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "strengths",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_052_making_a_plan_when_something_changes",
          "text": "Making a plan when something changes"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_052_helping_each_other_recover_from_a_rough_day",
          "text": "Helping each other recover from a rough day"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_052_combining_different_strengths_on_one_problem",
          "text": "Combining different strengths on one problem"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_052_keeping_perspective_when_one_person_feels_overwhelmed",
          "text": "Keeping perspective when one person feels overwhelmed"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_052_making_a_plan_when_something_changes",
            "text": "Making a plan when something changes"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_052_helping_each_other_recover_from_a_rough_day",
            "text": "Helping each other recover from a rough day"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_052_combining_different_strengths_on_one_problem",
            "text": "Combining different strengths on one problem"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_052_keeping_perspective_when_one_person_feels_overwhelmed",
            "text": "Keeping perspective when one person feels overwhelmed"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_053",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps married teamwork stay fair over time?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "fairness",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_053_checking_assumptions_before_they_harden_into_roles",
          "text": "Checking assumptions before they harden into roles"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_053_noticing_invisible_effort_as_well_as_visible_effort",
          "text": "Noticing invisible effort as well as visible effort"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_053_letting_responsibilities_change_with_capacity",
          "text": "Letting responsibilities change with capacity"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_053_talking_before_one_person_becomes_the_default_for_everything",
          "text": "Talking before one person becomes the default for everything"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_053_checking_assumptions_before_they_harden_into_roles",
            "text": "Checking assumptions before they harden into roles"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_053_noticing_invisible_effort_as_well_as_visible_effort",
            "text": "Noticing invisible effort as well as visible effort"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_053_letting_responsibilities_change_with_capacity",
            "text": "Letting responsibilities change with capacity"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_053_talking_before_one_person_becomes_the_default_for_everything",
            "text": "Talking before one person becomes the default for everything"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_054",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do you feel that your contribution to our marriage is recognized?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "appreciation",
        "teamwork",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely recognized",
        "max_label": "Clearly recognized"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_055",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which moments help us feel like allies?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "partnership",
        "allies",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_055_we_do_not_embarrass_each_other_for_entertainment",
          "text": "We do not embarrass each other for entertainment"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_055_we_ask_what_support_would_actually_help",
          "text": "We ask what support would actually help"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_055_we_make_room_for_different_reactions",
          "text": "We make room for different reactions"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_055_we_protect_each_other_without_hiding_harmful_behavior",
          "text": "We protect each other without hiding harmful behavior"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_055_we_do_not_embarrass_each_other_for_entertainment",
            "text": "We do not embarrass each other for entertainment"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_055_we_ask_what_support_would_actually_help",
            "text": "We ask what support would actually help"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_055_we_make_room_for_different_reactions",
            "text": "We make room for different reactions"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_055_we_protect_each_other_without_hiding_harmful_behavior",
            "text": "We protect each other without hiding harmful behavior"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_056",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Divide and conquer or handle the big thing together?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "preferences",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_056_divide_and_conquer",
          "text": "Divide and conquer"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_056_handle_the_big_thing_together",
          "text": "Handle the big thing together"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_056_divide_and_conquer",
            "text": "Divide and conquer"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_056_handle_the_big_thing_together",
            "text": "Handle the big thing together"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_057",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes support feel like partnership instead of rescuing?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "support",
        "partnership",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_057_asking_before_taking_over",
          "text": "Asking before taking over"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_057_respecting_the_other_persons_competence",
          "text": "Respecting the other person’s competence"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_057_offering_choices_rather_than_orders",
          "text": "Offering choices rather than orders"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_057_helping_without_keeping_score_afterward",
          "text": "Helping without keeping score afterward"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_057_asking_before_taking_over",
            "text": "Asking before taking over"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_057_respecting_the_other_persons_competence",
            "text": "Respecting the other person’s competence"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_057_offering_choices_rather_than_orders",
            "text": "Offering choices rather than orders"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_057_helping_without_keeping_score_afterward",
            "text": "Helping without keeping score afterward"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_058",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which teammate quality do you most appreciate in me?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "appreciation",
        "strengths",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_058_i_stay_steady_when_plans_change",
          "text": "I stay steady when plans change"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_058_i_bring_energy_when_we_need_momentum",
          "text": "I bring energy when we need momentum"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_058_i_notice_details_that_could_be_missed",
          "text": "I notice details that could be missed"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_058_i_remind_us_what_really_matters",
          "text": "I remind us what really matters"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_058_i_stay_steady_when_plans_change",
            "text": "I stay steady when plans change"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_058_i_bring_energy_when_we_need_momentum",
            "text": "I bring energy when we need momentum"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_058_i_notice_details_that_could_be_missed",
            "text": "I notice details that could be missed"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_058_i_remind_us_what_really_matters",
            "text": "I remind us what really matters"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_059",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us make joint decisions without one person disappearing?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "decisions",
        "fairness",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_059_both_people_have_enough_information",
          "text": "Both people have enough information"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_059_silence_is_not_treated_as_automatic_agreement",
          "text": "Silence is not treated as automatic agreement"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_059_a_hesitant_answer_receives_real_attention",
          "text": "A hesitant answer receives real attention"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_059_the_decision_can_be_revisited_if_circumstances_change",
          "text": "The decision can be revisited if circumstances change"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_059_both_people_have_enough_information",
            "text": "Both people have enough information"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_059_silence_is_not_treated_as_automatic_agreement",
            "text": "Silence is not treated as automatic agreement"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_059_a_hesitant_answer_receives_real_attention",
            "text": "A hesitant answer receives real attention"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_059_the_decision_can_be_revisited_if_circumstances_change",
            "text": "The decision can be revisited if circumstances change"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_060",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which marriage problems are easier when we treat them as shared problems?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "shared_problems",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_060_a_schedule_that_no_longer_works",
          "text": "A schedule that no longer works"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_060_a_season_when_one_person_has_less_capacity",
          "text": "A season when one person has less capacity"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_060_outside_expectations_pulling_us_in_different_directions",
          "text": "Outside expectations pulling us in different directions"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_060_a_habit_that_affects_both_people",
          "text": "A habit that affects both people"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_060_a_schedule_that_no_longer_works",
            "text": "A schedule that no longer works"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_060_a_season_when_one_person_has_less_capacity",
            "text": "A season when one person has less capacity"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_060_outside_expectations_pulling_us_in_different_directions",
            "text": "Outside expectations pulling us in different directions"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_060_a_habit_that_affects_both_people",
            "text": "A habit that affects both people"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_061",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps marriage keep a romantic side without forcing a performance?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "consent",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_061_affection_that_fits_the_moment",
          "text": "Affection that fits the moment"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_061_compliments_that_are_specific_and_true",
          "text": "Compliments that are specific and true"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_061_plans_that_match_our_actual_energy",
          "text": "Plans that match our actual energy"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_061_flirting_that_either_person_can_welcome_or_pause",
          "text": "Flirting that either person can welcome or pause"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_061_affection_that_fits_the_moment",
            "text": "Affection that fits the moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_061_compliments_that_are_specific_and_true",
            "text": "Compliments that are specific and true"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_061_plans_that_match_our_actual_energy",
            "text": "Plans that match our actual energy"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_061_flirting_that_either_person_can_welcome_or_pause",
            "text": "Flirting that either person can welcome or pause"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_062",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of married romance sounds best this week?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "weekly",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_062_a_thoughtful_note_in_an_ordinary_place",
          "text": "A thoughtful note in an ordinary place"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_062_a_dressed_up_evening_with_nowhere_urgent_to_be",
          "text": "A dressed-up evening with nowhere urgent to be"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_062_a_slow_morning_with_extra_affection",
          "text": "A slow morning with extra affection"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_062_a_playful_plan_that_breaks_the_routine",
          "text": "A playful plan that breaks the routine"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_062_a_thoughtful_note_in_an_ordinary_place",
            "text": "A thoughtful note in an ordinary place"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_062_a_dressed_up_evening_with_nowhere_urgent_to_be",
            "text": "A dressed-up evening with nowhere urgent to be"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_062_a_slow_morning_with_extra_affection",
            "text": "A slow morning with extra affection"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_062_a_playful_plan_that_breaks_the_routine",
            "text": "A playful plan that breaks the routine"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_063",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which moments make you feel courted inside the marriage?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "still_dating",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_063_i_can_tell_the_effort_was_chosen_for_me",
          "text": "I can tell the effort was chosen for me"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_063_you_show_interest_in_who_i_am_becoming",
          "text": "You show interest in who I am becoming"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_063_we_create_anticipation_before_time_together",
          "text": "We create anticipation before time together"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_063_you_make_affection_feel_personal_rather_than_automatic",
          "text": "You make affection feel personal rather than automatic"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_063_i_can_tell_the_effort_was_chosen_for_me",
            "text": "I can tell the effort was chosen for me"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_063_you_show_interest_in_who_i_am_becoming",
            "text": "You show interest in who I am becoming"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_063_we_create_anticipation_before_time_together",
            "text": "We create anticipation before time together"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_063_you_make_affection_feel_personal_rather_than_automatic",
            "text": "You make affection feel personal rather than automatic"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_064",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How alive does the romantic side of our marriage feel lately?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "current_season",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Mostly quiet",
        "max_label": "Very alive"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_065",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can bring back a little newlywed energy without pretending we are new?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "newlywed_energy",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_065_getting_ready_for_each_other_on_purpose",
          "text": "Getting ready for each other on purpose"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_065_asking_a_question_we_have_never_asked",
          "text": "Asking a question we have never asked"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_065_doing_something_slightly_outside_our_usual_routine",
          "text": "Doing something slightly outside our usual routine"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_065_letting_excitement_be_simple_instead_of_cinematic",
          "text": "Letting excitement be simple instead of cinematic"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_065_getting_ready_for_each_other_on_purpose",
            "text": "Getting ready for each other on purpose"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_065_asking_a_question_we_have_never_asked",
            "text": "Asking a question we have never asked"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_065_doing_something_slightly_outside_our_usual_routine",
            "text": "Doing something slightly outside our usual routine"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_065_letting_excitement_be_simple_instead_of_cinematic",
            "text": "Letting excitement be simple instead of cinematic"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_066",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Old-school romance or spontaneous married flirting?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "preferences",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_066_old_school_romance",
          "text": "Old-school romance"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_066_spontaneous_married_flirting",
          "text": "Spontaneous married flirting"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_066_old_school_romance",
            "text": "Old-school romance"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_066_spontaneous_married_flirting",
            "text": "Spontaneous married flirting"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_067",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes affection feel married in the best way?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_067_it_carries_years_of_private_meaning",
          "text": "It carries years of private meaning"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_067_it_can_be_tender_without_leading_anywhere",
          "text": "It can be tender without leading anywhere"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_067_it_adapts_to_how_each_person_feels_that_day",
          "text": "It adapts to how each person feels that day"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_067_it_still_contains_surprise",
          "text": "It still contains surprise"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_067_it_carries_years_of_private_meaning",
            "text": "It carries years of private meaning"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_067_it_can_be_tender_without_leading_anywhere",
            "text": "It can be tender without leading anywhere"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_067_it_adapts_to_how_each_person_feels_that_day",
            "text": "It adapts to how each person feels that day"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_067_it_still_contains_surprise",
            "text": "It still contains surprise"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_068",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which romantic effort would mean the most right now?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "effort",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_068_planning_something_from_start_to_finish",
          "text": "Planning something from start to finish"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_068_remembering_a_detail_i_mentioned_earlier",
          "text": "Remembering a detail I mentioned earlier"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_068_giving_me_undivided_attention_for_a_little_while",
          "text": "Giving me undivided attention for a little while"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_068_telling_me_what_still_draws_you_toward_me",
          "text": "Telling me what still draws you toward me"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_068_planning_something_from_start_to_finish",
            "text": "Planning something from start to finish"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_068_remembering_a_detail_i_mentioned_earlier",
            "text": "Remembering a detail I mentioned earlier"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_068_giving_me_undivided_attention_for_a_little_while",
            "text": "Giving me undivided attention for a little while"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_068_telling_me_what_still_draws_you_toward_me",
            "text": "Telling me what still draws you toward me"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_069",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps romance survive practical adult life?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "real_life",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_069_treating_romance_as_more_than_expensive_plans",
          "text": "Treating romance as more than expensive plans"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_069_not_waiting_for_every_task_to_be_finished",
          "text": "Not waiting for every task to be finished"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_069_making_room_for_low_energy_versions",
          "text": "Making room for low-energy versions"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_069_laughing_when_the_moment_is_imperfect",
          "text": "Laughing when the moment is imperfect"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_069_treating_romance_as_more_than_expensive_plans",
            "text": "Treating romance as more than expensive plans"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_069_not_waiting_for_every_task_to_be_finished",
            "text": "Not waiting for every task to be finished"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_069_making_room_for_low_energy_versions",
            "text": "Making room for low-energy versions"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_069_laughing_when_the_moment_is_imperfect",
            "text": "Laughing when the moment is imperfect"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_070",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs show that we are still curious about each other?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "curiosity",
        "romance",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_070_we_ask_about_changing_opinions",
          "text": "We ask about changing opinions"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_070_we_notice_new_interests",
          "text": "We notice new interests"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_070_we_do_not_assume_we_already_know_every_answer",
          "text": "We do not assume we already know every answer"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_070_we_make_space_for_each_other_to_surprise_us",
          "text": "We make space for each other to surprise us"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_070_we_ask_about_changing_opinions",
            "text": "We ask about changing opinions"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_070_we_notice_new_interests",
            "text": "We notice new interests"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_070_we_do_not_assume_we_already_know_every_answer",
            "text": "We do not assume we already know every answer"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_070_we_make_space_for_each_other_to_surprise_us",
            "text": "We make space for each other to surprise us"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_071",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of me make you proud to be my spouse?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "admiration",
        "pride",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_071_how_i_treat_people_when_no_one_is_watching",
          "text": "How I treat people when no one is watching"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_071_the_way_i_keep_going_through_hard_things",
          "text": "The way I keep going through hard things"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_071_the_mind_and_humor_i_bring_into_our_life",
          "text": "The mind and humor I bring into our life"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_071_the_person_i_am_still_becoming",
          "text": "The person I am still becoming"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_071_how_i_treat_people_when_no_one_is_watching",
            "text": "How I treat people when no one is watching"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_071_the_way_i_keep_going_through_hard_things",
            "text": "The way I keep going through hard things"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_071_the_mind_and_humor_i_bring_into_our_life",
            "text": "The mind and humor I bring into our life"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_071_the_person_i_am_still_becoming",
            "text": "The person I am still becoming"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_072",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of praise feels most meaningful inside marriage?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "admiration",
        "praise",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_072_praise_for_who_i_am",
          "text": "Praise for who I am"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_072_praise_for_effort_you_noticed",
          "text": "Praise for effort you noticed"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_072_praise_for_how_i_affect_your_life",
          "text": "Praise for how I affect your life"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_072_praise_for_something_i_have_grown_into",
          "text": "Praise for something I have grown into"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_072_praise_for_who_i_am",
            "text": "Praise for who I am"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_072_praise_for_effort_you_noticed",
            "text": "Praise for effort you noticed"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_072_praise_for_how_i_affect_your_life",
            "text": "Praise for how I affect your life"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_072_praise_for_something_i_have_grown_into",
            "text": "Praise for something I have grown into"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_073",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps admiration stay visible instead of becoming silent knowledge?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "admiration",
        "expression",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_073_saying_the_compliment_while_the_moment_is_fresh",
          "text": "Saying the compliment while the moment is fresh"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_073_mentioning_each_other_proudly_without_exaggeration",
          "text": "Mentioning each other proudly without exaggeration"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_073_thanking_qualities_as_well_as_tasks",
          "text": "Thanking qualities as well as tasks"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_073_noticing_growth_that_happened_slowly",
          "text": "Noticing growth that happened slowly"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_073_saying_the_compliment_while_the_moment_is_fresh",
            "text": "Saying the compliment while the moment is fresh"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_073_mentioning_each_other_proudly_without_exaggeration",
            "text": "Mentioning each other proudly without exaggeration"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_073_thanking_qualities_as_well_as_tasks",
            "text": "Thanking qualities as well as tasks"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_073_noticing_growth_that_happened_slowly",
            "text": "Noticing growth that happened slowly"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_074",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How clearly do you feel admired by me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "admiration",
        "felt_experience",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very clearly",
        "max_label": "Very clearly"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_075",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which forms of appreciation strengthen a marriage?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "appreciation",
        "respect",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_075_a_private_thank_you_with_real_detail",
          "text": "A private thank-you with real detail"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_075_public_credit_that_the_person_is_comfortable_receiving",
          "text": "Public credit that the person is comfortable receiving"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_075_recognition_of_effort_that_did_not_produce_a_perfect_result",
          "text": "Recognition of effort that did not produce a perfect result"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_075_appreciation_that_is_not_followed_by_a_request",
          "text": "Appreciation that is not followed by a request"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_075_a_private_thank_you_with_real_detail",
            "text": "A private thank-you with real detail"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_075_public_credit_that_the_person_is_comfortable_receiving",
            "text": "Public credit that the person is comfortable receiving"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_075_recognition_of_effort_that_did_not_produce_a_perfect_result",
            "text": "Recognition of effort that did not produce a perfect result"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_075_appreciation_that_is_not_followed_by_a_request",
            "text": "Appreciation that is not followed by a request"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_076",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A private compliment or a proud public mention?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "admiration",
        "preferences",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_076_a_private_compliment",
          "text": "A private compliment"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_076_a_proud_public_mention",
          "text": "A proud public mention"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_076_a_private_compliment",
            "text": "A private compliment"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_076_a_proud_public_mention",
            "text": "A proud public mention"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_077",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can make praise feel uncomfortable or less sincere?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "admiration",
        "privacy",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_077_it_compares_me_to_someone_else",
          "text": "It compares me to someone else"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_077_it_is_so_exaggerated_that_i_cannot_recognize_myself",
          "text": "It is so exaggerated that I cannot recognize myself"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_077_it_appears_only_when_you_need_something",
          "text": "It appears only when you need something"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_077_it_reveals_something_i_wanted_kept_private",
          "text": "It reveals something I wanted kept private"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_077_it_compares_me_to_someone_else",
            "text": "It compares me to someone else"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_077_it_is_so_exaggerated_that_i_cannot_recognize_myself",
            "text": "It is so exaggerated that I cannot recognize myself"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_077_it_appears_only_when_you_need_something",
            "text": "It appears only when you need something"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_077_it_reveals_something_i_wanted_kept_private",
            "text": "It reveals something I wanted kept private"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_078",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which part of our marriage deserves more celebration?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "celebration",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_078_the_ways_we_have_matured",
          "text": "The ways we have matured"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_078_the_laughter_we_kept",
          "text": "The laughter we kept"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_078_the_choices_that_protected_both_people",
          "text": "The choices that protected both people"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_078_the_courage_it_took_to_change_direction",
          "text": "The courage it took to change direction"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_078_the_ways_we_have_matured",
            "text": "The ways we have matured"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_078_the_laughter_we_kept",
            "text": "The laughter we kept"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_078_the_choices_that_protected_both_people",
            "text": "The choices that protected both people"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_078_the_courage_it_took_to_change_direction",
            "text": "The courage it took to change direction"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_079",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes you feel respected as my spouse?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "respect",
        "autonomy",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_079_your_opinions_are_taken_seriously",
          "text": "Your opinions are taken seriously"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_079_your_private_information_stays_private",
          "text": "Your private information stays private"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_079_your_work_and_interests_are_not_treated_as_secondary",
          "text": "Your work and interests are not treated as secondary"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_079_your_no_is_accepted_without_punishment",
          "text": "Your no is accepted without punishment"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_079_your_opinions_are_taken_seriously",
            "text": "Your opinions are taken seriously"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_079_your_private_information_stays_private",
            "text": "Your private information stays private"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_079_your_work_and_interests_are_not_treated_as_secondary",
            "text": "Your work and interests are not treated as secondary"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_079_your_no_is_accepted_without_punishment",
            "text": "Your no is accepted without punishment"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_080",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which compliments could we give each other more often?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "admiration",
        "compliments",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_080_you_make_ordinary_life_better_in_a_specific_way",
          "text": "You make ordinary life better in a specific way"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_080_i_admire_how_you_handled_that_difficult_moment",
          "text": "I admire how you handled that difficult moment"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_080_i_still_find_this_quality_in_you_attractive",
          "text": "I still find this quality in you attractive"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_080_i_am_proud_of_the_person_you_are_becoming",
          "text": "I am proud of the person you are becoming"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_080_you_make_ordinary_life_better_in_a_specific_way",
            "text": "You make ordinary life better in a specific way"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_080_i_admire_how_you_handled_that_difficult_moment",
            "text": "I admire how you handled that difficult moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_080_i_still_find_this_quality_in_you_attractive",
            "text": "I still find this quality in you attractive"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_080_i_am_proud_of_the_person_you_are_becoming",
            "text": "I am proud of the person you are becoming"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_081",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps individuality and marriage strengthen each other?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "autonomy",
        "growth",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_081_having_interests_that_do_not_require_joint_participation",
          "text": "Having interests that do not require joint participation"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_081_sharing_growth_without_asking_permission_to_become_different",
          "text": "Sharing growth without asking permission to become different"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_081_supporting_friendships_outside_the_marriage",
          "text": "Supporting friendships outside the marriage"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_081_returning_with_things_to_tell_each_other",
          "text": "Returning with things to tell each other"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_081_having_interests_that_do_not_require_joint_participation",
            "text": "Having interests that do not require joint participation"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_081_sharing_growth_without_asking_permission_to_become_different",
            "text": "Sharing growth without asking permission to become different"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_081_supporting_friendships_outside_the_marriage",
            "text": "Supporting friendships outside the marriage"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_081_returning_with_things_to_tell_each_other",
            "text": "Returning with things to tell each other"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_082",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of independence most supports our marriage?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "autonomy",
        "independence",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_082_time_for_separate_interests",
          "text": "Time for separate interests"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_082_room_for_different_opinions",
          "text": "Room for different opinions"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_082_personal_friendships_with_healthy_boundaries",
          "text": "Personal friendships with healthy boundaries"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_082_confidence_to_make_some_everyday_choices_alone",
          "text": "Confidence to make some everyday choices alone"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_082_time_for_separate_interests",
            "text": "Time for separate interests"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_082_room_for_different_opinions",
            "text": "Room for different opinions"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_082_personal_friendships_with_healthy_boundaries",
            "text": "Personal friendships with healthy boundaries"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_082_confidence_to_make_some_everyday_choices_alone",
            "text": "Confidence to make some everyday choices alone"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_083",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes personal space feel connected rather than rejecting?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "space",
        "security",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_083_the_need_is_stated_kindly",
          "text": "The need is stated kindly"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_083_there_is_no_punishment_attached_to_the_distance",
          "text": "There is no punishment attached to the distance"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_083_reconnection_is_welcomed_without_demanding_a_performance",
          "text": "Reconnection is welcomed without demanding a performance"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_083_each_persons_alone_time_is_treated_as_equally_legitimate",
          "text": "Each person’s alone time is treated as equally legitimate"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_083_the_need_is_stated_kindly",
            "text": "The need is stated kindly"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_083_there_is_no_punishment_attached_to_the_distance",
            "text": "There is no punishment attached to the distance"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_083_reconnection_is_welcomed_without_demanding_a_performance",
            "text": "Reconnection is welcomed without demanding a performance"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_083_each_persons_alone_time_is_treated_as_equally_legitimate",
            "text": "Each person’s alone time is treated as equally legitimate"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_084",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How free do you feel to keep growing as an individual in our marriage?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "growth",
        "autonomy",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very free",
        "max_label": "Completely free"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_085",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which changes in a spouse deserve curiosity rather than alarm?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "growth",
        "change",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_085_a_new_interest",
          "text": "A new interest"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_085_a_different_way_of_thinking",
          "text": "A different way of thinking"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_085_a_changing_social_need",
          "text": "A changing social need"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_085_a_goal_that_was_not_part_of_the_original_plan",
          "text": "A goal that was not part of the original plan"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_085_a_new_interest",
            "text": "A new interest"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_085_a_different_way_of_thinking",
            "text": "A different way of thinking"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_085_a_changing_social_need",
            "text": "A changing social need"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_085_a_goal_that_was_not_part_of_the_original_plan",
            "text": "A goal that was not part of the original plan"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_086",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "More shared hobbies or more separate passions?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "autonomy",
        "preferences",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_086_more_shared_hobbies",
          "text": "More shared hobbies"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_086_more_separate_passions",
          "text": "More separate passions"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_086_more_shared_hobbies",
            "text": "More shared hobbies"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_086_more_separate_passions",
            "text": "More separate passions"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_087",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What protects independence from becoming emotional distance?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "independence",
        "connection",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_087_we_still_share_what_matters",
          "text": "We still share what matters"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_087_separate_time_is_not_used_to_avoid_every_hard_topic",
          "text": "Separate time is not used to avoid every hard topic"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_087_both_people_remain_interested_in_each_others_worlds",
          "text": "Both people remain interested in each other’s worlds"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_087_independence_does_not_cancel_reliability",
          "text": "Independence does not cancel reliability"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_087_we_still_share_what_matters",
            "text": "We still share what matters"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_087_separate_time_is_not_used_to_avoid_every_hard_topic",
            "text": "Separate time is not used to avoid every hard topic"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_087_both_people_remain_interested_in_each_others_worlds",
            "text": "Both people remain interested in each other’s worlds"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_087_independence_does_not_cancel_reliability",
            "text": "Independence does not cancel reliability"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_088",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What would make personal growth feel most supported by me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "growth",
        "support",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_088_ask_questions_without_taking_over",
          "text": "Ask questions without taking over"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_088_encourage_me_when_progress_is_slow",
          "text": "Encourage me when progress is slow"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_088_respect_that_the_goal_is_mine",
          "text": "Respect that the goal is mine"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_088_celebrate_what_the_change_means_to_me",
          "text": "Celebrate what the change means to me"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_088_ask_questions_without_taking_over",
            "text": "Ask questions without taking over"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_088_encourage_me_when_progress_is_slow",
            "text": "Encourage me when progress is slow"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_088_respect_that_the_goal_is_mine",
            "text": "Respect that the goal is mine"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_088_celebrate_what_the_change_means_to_me",
            "text": "Celebrate what the change means to me"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_089",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which expectations can make marriage feel smaller than it should?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "expectations",
        "autonomy",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_089_every_interest_must_be_shared",
          "text": "Every interest must be shared"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_089_every_opinion_should_match",
          "text": "Every opinion should match"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_089_one_persons_career_or_goals_always_come_first",
          "text": "One person’s career or goals always come first"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_089_privacy_is_treated_as_proof_of_wrongdoing",
          "text": "Privacy is treated as proof of wrongdoing"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_089_every_interest_must_be_shared",
            "text": "Every interest must be shared"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_089_every_opinion_should_match",
            "text": "Every opinion should match"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_089_one_persons_career_or_goals_always_come_first",
            "text": "One person’s career or goals always come first"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_089_privacy_is_treated_as_proof_of_wrongdoing",
            "text": "Privacy is treated as proof of wrongdoing"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_090",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can we grow in different directions without losing the relationship?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "growth",
        "connection",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_090_we_talk_about_what_the_change_means",
          "text": "We talk about what the change means"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_090_we_keep_a_few_shared_anchors",
          "text": "We keep a few shared anchors"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_090_we_do_not_mock_what_the_other_person_cares_about",
          "text": "We do not mock what the other person cares about"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_090_we_allow_the_marriage_to_evolve_too",
          "text": "We allow the marriage to evolve too"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_090_we_talk_about_what_the_change_means",
            "text": "We talk about what the change means"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_090_we_keep_a_few_shared_anchors",
            "text": "We keep a few shared anchors"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_090_we_do_not_mock_what_the_other_person_cares_about",
            "text": "We do not mock what the other person cares about"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_090_we_allow_the_marriage_to_evolve_too",
            "text": "We allow the marriage to evolve too"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_091",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which marriage strengths matter most when life changes suddenly?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "resilience",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_091_flexibility_without_pretending_nothing_matters",
          "text": "Flexibility without pretending nothing matters"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_091_honesty_about_each_persons_capacity",
          "text": "Honesty about each person’s capacity"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_091_the_ability_to_make_a_temporary_plan",
          "text": "The ability to make a temporary plan"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_091_humor_that_does_not_dismiss_the_problem",
          "text": "Humor that does not dismiss the problem"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_091_flexibility_without_pretending_nothing_matters",
            "text": "Flexibility without pretending nothing matters"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_091_honesty_about_each_persons_capacity",
            "text": "Honesty about each person’s capacity"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_091_the_ability_to_make_a_temporary_plan",
            "text": "The ability to make a temporary plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_091_humor_that_does_not_dismiss_the_problem",
            "text": "Humor that does not dismiss the problem"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_092",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps our marriage adjust when the old rhythm stops working?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "adaptation",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_092_name_what_changed_before_blaming_each_other",
          "text": "Name what changed before blaming each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_092_lower_a_few_expectations_for_a_while",
          "text": "Lower a few expectations for a while"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_092_choose_one_new_anchor_for_the_week",
          "text": "Choose one new anchor for the week"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_092_ask_what_each_person_needs_now",
          "text": "Ask what each person needs now"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_092_name_what_changed_before_blaming_each_other",
            "text": "Name what changed before blaming each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_092_lower_a_few_expectations_for_a_while",
            "text": "Lower a few expectations for a while"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_092_choose_one_new_anchor_for_the_week",
            "text": "Choose one new anchor for the week"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_092_ask_what_each_person_needs_now",
            "text": "Ask what each person needs now"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_093",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which transitions can quietly change a marriage?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "transitions",
        "awareness",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_093_a_new_job_or_work_schedule",
          "text": "A new job or work schedule"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_093_a_move_or_major_change_in_place",
          "text": "A move or major change in place"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_093_a_health_shift_in_either_person",
          "text": "A health shift in either person"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_093_a_change_in_family_responsibilities",
          "text": "A change in family responsibilities"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_093_a_new_job_or_work_schedule",
            "text": "A new job or work schedule"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_093_a_move_or_major_change_in_place",
            "text": "A move or major change in place"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_093_a_health_shift_in_either_person",
            "text": "A health shift in either person"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_093_a_change_in_family_responsibilities",
            "text": "A change in family responsibilities"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_094",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident are you in our ability to adapt as a married team?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "adaptation",
        "confidence",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very confident",
        "max_label": "Very confident"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_095",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a temporary survival season stay temporary?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "seasons",
        "adaptation",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_095_we_name_what_has_been_put_on_hold",
          "text": "We name what has been put on hold"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_095_we_set_a_time_to_reassess",
          "text": "We set a time to reassess"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_095_both_people_can_say_when_the_arrangement_is_no_longer_workin",
          "text": "Both people can say when the arrangement is no longer working"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_095_we_restore_connection_rather_than_waiting_for_it_to_happen_a",
          "text": "We restore connection rather than waiting for it to happen automatically"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_095_we_name_what_has_been_put_on_hold",
            "text": "We name what has been put on hold"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_095_we_set_a_time_to_reassess",
            "text": "We set a time to reassess"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_095_both_people_can_say_when_the_arrangement_is_no_longer_workin",
            "text": "Both people can say when the arrangement is no longer working"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_095_we_restore_connection_rather_than_waiting_for_it_to_happen_a",
            "text": "We restore connection rather than waiting for it to happen automatically"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_096",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Keep one old anchor or create a completely new rhythm?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "preferences",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_096_keep_one_old_anchor",
          "text": "Keep one old anchor"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_096_create_a_completely_new_rhythm",
          "text": "Create a completely new rhythm"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_096_keep_one_old_anchor",
            "text": "Keep one old anchor"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_096_create_a_completely_new_rhythm",
            "text": "Create a completely new rhythm"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_097",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes change feel less lonely inside marriage?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "empathy",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_097_both_experiences_are_allowed_to_be_different",
          "text": "Both experiences are allowed to be different"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_097_the_person_less_affected_still_stays_curious",
          "text": "The person less affected still stays curious"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_097_uncertainty_can_be_admitted_without_immediate_solutions",
          "text": "Uncertainty can be admitted without immediate solutions"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_097_we_notice_losses_as_well_as_opportunities",
          "text": "We notice losses as well as opportunities"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_097_both_experiences_are_allowed_to_be_different",
            "text": "Both experiences are allowed to be different"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_097_the_person_less_affected_still_stays_curious",
            "text": "The person less affected still stays curious"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_097_uncertainty_can_be_admitted_without_immediate_solutions",
            "text": "Uncertainty can be admitted without immediate solutions"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_097_we_notice_losses_as_well_as_opportunities",
            "text": "We notice losses as well as opportunities"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_098",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which marriage quality helps most during a demanding season?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "seasons",
        "support",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_098_patience_with_imperfect_effort",
          "text": "Patience with imperfect effort"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_098_clear_priorities_for_the_next_few_days",
          "text": "Clear priorities for the next few days"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_098_permission_to_ask_for_outside_help",
          "text": "Permission to ask for outside help"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_098_confidence_that_the_season_is_not_our_whole_story",
          "text": "Confidence that the season is not our whole story"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_098_patience_with_imperfect_effort",
            "text": "Patience with imperfect effort"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_098_clear_priorities_for_the_next_few_days",
            "text": "Clear priorities for the next few days"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_098_permission_to_ask_for_outside_help",
            "text": "Permission to ask for outside help"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_098_confidence_that_the_season_is_not_our_whole_story",
            "text": "Confidence that the season is not our whole story"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_099",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which habits keep a hard chapter from becoming a permanent judgment about us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hard_seasons",
        "perspective",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_099_we_separate_the_season_from_the_entire_marriage",
          "text": "We separate the season from the entire marriage"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_099_we_notice_what_is_caused_by_exhaustion_or_fear",
          "text": "We notice what is caused by exhaustion or fear"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_099_we_postpone_major_conclusions_when_possible",
          "text": "We postpone major conclusions when possible"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_099_we_still_take_harmful_behavior_seriously",
          "text": "We still take harmful behavior seriously"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_099_we_separate_the_season_from_the_entire_marriage",
            "text": "We separate the season from the entire marriage"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_099_we_notice_what_is_caused_by_exhaustion_or_fear",
            "text": "We notice what is caused by exhaustion or fear"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_099_we_postpone_major_conclusions_when_possible",
            "text": "We postpone major conclusions when possible"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_099_we_still_take_harmful_behavior_seriously",
            "text": "We still take harmful behavior seriously"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_100",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs tell us that a new season needs a new agreement?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "agreements",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_100_the_old_plan_repeatedly_leaves_one_person_depleted",
          "text": "The old plan repeatedly leaves one person depleted"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_100_a_responsibility_changed_but_the_expectations_did_not",
          "text": "A responsibility changed but the expectations did not"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_100_resentment_is_replacing_honest_requests",
          "text": "Resentment is replacing honest requests"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_100_neither_person_can_explain_why_the_rule_still_exists",
          "text": "Neither person can explain why the rule still exists"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_100_the_old_plan_repeatedly_leaves_one_person_depleted",
            "text": "The old plan repeatedly leaves one person depleted"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_100_a_responsibility_changed_but_the_expectations_did_not",
            "text": "A responsibility changed but the expectations did not"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_100_resentment_is_replacing_honest_requests",
            "text": "Resentment is replacing honest requests"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_100_neither_person_can_explain_why_the_rule_still_exists",
            "text": "Neither person can explain why the rule still exists"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_101",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should remain private because it belongs to our marriage?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_101_vulnerabilities_shared_in_confidence",
          "text": "Vulnerabilities shared in confidence"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_101_details_that_would_embarrass_one_person",
          "text": "Details that would embarrass one person"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_101_private_affection_that_was_not_offered_for_an_audience",
          "text": "Private affection that was not offered for an audience"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_101_disagreements_that_others_do_not_need_to_judge",
          "text": "Disagreements that others do not need to judge"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_101_vulnerabilities_shared_in_confidence",
            "text": "Vulnerabilities shared in confidence"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_101_details_that_would_embarrass_one_person",
            "text": "Details that would embarrass one person"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_101_private_affection_that_was_not_offered_for_an_audience",
            "text": "Private affection that was not offered for an audience"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_101_disagreements_that_others_do_not_need_to_judge",
            "text": "Disagreements that others do not need to judge"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_102",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which public sign of marriage feels sweetest to you?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public_life",
        "affection",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_102_introducing_each_other_with_obvious_pride",
          "text": "Introducing each other with obvious pride"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_102_a_familiar_touch_in_a_crowded_room",
          "text": "A familiar touch in a crowded room"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_102_giving_each_other_credit_in_conversation",
          "text": "Giving each other credit in conversation"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_102_leaving_an_event_as_the_same_team",
          "text": "Leaving an event as the same team"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_102_introducing_each_other_with_obvious_pride",
            "text": "Introducing each other with obvious pride"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_102_a_familiar_touch_in_a_crowded_room",
            "text": "A familiar touch in a crowded room"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_102_giving_each_other_credit_in_conversation",
            "text": "Giving each other credit in conversation"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_102_leaving_an_event_as_the_same_team",
            "text": "Leaving an event as the same team"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_103",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can we accept outside support without handing over the marriage?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "outside_support",
        "privacy",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_103_choose_people_who_respect_both_partners",
          "text": "Choose people who respect both partners"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_103_share_only_the_details_needed_for_support",
          "text": "Share only the details needed for support"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_103_avoid_recruiting_someone_to_defeat_the_other_spouse",
          "text": "Avoid recruiting someone to defeat the other spouse"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_103_use_professional_help_when_the_issue_needs_real_expertise",
          "text": "Use professional help when the issue needs real expertise"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_103_choose_people_who_respect_both_partners",
            "text": "Choose people who respect both partners"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_103_share_only_the_details_needed_for_support",
            "text": "Share only the details needed for support"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_103_avoid_recruiting_someone_to_defeat_the_other_spouse",
            "text": "Avoid recruiting someone to defeat the other spouse"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_103_use_professional_help_when_the_issue_needs_real_expertise",
            "text": "Use professional help when the issue needs real expertise"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_104",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you with the way we represent our marriage to others?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public_life",
        "comfort",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very comfortable",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_105",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which outside expectations should we feel free to question?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "expectations",
        "autonomy",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_105_how_spouses_divide_their_roles",
          "text": "How spouses divide their roles"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_105_how_often_a_married_couple_socializes_together",
          "text": "How often a married couple socializes together"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_105_what_milestones_should_happen_next",
          "text": "What milestones should happen next"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_105_how_affectionate_or_private_we_should_appear",
          "text": "How affectionate or private we should appear"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_105_how_spouses_divide_their_roles",
            "text": "How spouses divide their roles"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_105_how_often_a_married_couple_socializes_together",
            "text": "How often a married couple socializes together"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_105_what_milestones_should_happen_next",
            "text": "What milestones should happen next"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_105_how_affectionate_or_private_we_should_appear",
            "text": "How affectionate or private we should appear"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_106",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one part of our marriage you are proud to keep just for us?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "couple_identity",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_107",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps family or friends from becoming the third voice in our marriage?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "outside_influence",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_107_we_make_major_decisions_directly_with_each_other",
          "text": "We make major decisions directly with each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_107_advice_is_considered_rather_than_automatically_followed",
          "text": "Advice is considered rather than automatically followed"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_107_neither_person_uses_outsiders_to_pressure_the_other",
          "text": "Neither person uses outsiders to pressure the other"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_107_we_can_disagree_with_family_without_isolating_from_them",
          "text": "We can disagree with family without isolating from them"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_107_we_make_major_decisions_directly_with_each_other",
            "text": "We make major decisions directly with each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_107_advice_is_considered_rather_than_automatically_followed",
            "text": "Advice is considered rather than automatically followed"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_107_neither_person_uses_outsiders_to_pressure_the_other",
            "text": "Neither person uses outsiders to pressure the other"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_107_we_can_disagree_with_family_without_isolating_from_them",
            "text": "We can disagree with family without isolating from them"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_108",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which boundary best protects our marriage in public?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public_life",
        "respect",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_108_do_not_joke_about_real_insecurities",
          "text": "Do not joke about real insecurities"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_108_do_not_reveal_private_information_for_a_good_story",
          "text": "Do not reveal private information for a good story"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_108_do_not_make_promises_for_the_other_person",
          "text": "Do not make promises for the other person"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_108_do_not_turn_a_disagreement_into_a_group_vote",
          "text": "Do not turn a disagreement into a group vote"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_108_do_not_joke_about_real_insecurities",
            "text": "Do not joke about real insecurities"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_108_do_not_reveal_private_information_for_a_good_story",
            "text": "Do not reveal private information for a good story"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_108_do_not_make_promises_for_the_other_person",
            "text": "Do not make promises for the other person"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_108_do_not_turn_a_disagreement_into_a_group_vote",
            "text": "Do not turn a disagreement into a group vote"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_109",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes being known as a married couple feel good?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "identity",
        "public_life",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_109_our_individual_identities_are_still_visible",
          "text": "Our individual identities are still visible"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_109_people_can_see_genuine_respect_between_us",
          "text": "People can see genuine respect between us"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_109_we_are_not_expected_to_perform_perfection",
          "text": "We are not expected to perform perfection"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_109_our_partnership_adds_to_life_rather_than_replacing_every_oth",
          "text": "Our partnership adds to life rather than replacing every other bond"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_109_our_individual_identities_are_still_visible",
            "text": "Our individual identities are still visible"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_109_people_can_see_genuine_respect_between_us",
            "text": "People can see genuine respect between us"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_109_we_are_not_expected_to_perform_perfection",
            "text": "We are not expected to perform perfection"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_109_our_partnership_adds_to_life_rather_than_replacing_every_oth",
            "text": "Our partnership adds to life rather than replacing every other bond"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_110",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which situations deserve a private spouse check-in first?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "decisions",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_110_a_social_invitation_that_affects_both_schedules",
          "text": "A social invitation that affects both schedules"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_110_a_family_request_involving_shared_resources",
          "text": "A family request involving shared resources"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_110_a_story_that_includes_the_other_persons_private_life",
          "text": "A story that includes the other person’s private life"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_110_a_public_decision_that_could_create_an_obligation",
          "text": "A public decision that could create an obligation"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_110_a_social_invitation_that_affects_both_schedules",
            "text": "A social invitation that affects both schedules"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_110_a_family_request_involving_shared_resources",
            "text": "A family request involving shared resources"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_110_a_story_that_includes_the_other_persons_private_life",
            "text": "A story that includes the other person’s private life"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_110_a_public_decision_that_could_create_an_obligation",
            "text": "A public decision that could create an obligation"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_111",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which marriage expectations are worth discussing instead of assuming?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "expectations",
        "assumptions",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_111_how_affection_is_shown_over_time",
          "text": "How affection is shown over time"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_111_how_decisions_are_shared",
          "text": "How decisions are shared"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_111_how_much_privacy_each_person_needs",
          "text": "How much privacy each person needs"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_111_what_commitment_looks_like_during_stress",
          "text": "What commitment looks like during stress"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_111_how_affection_is_shown_over_time",
            "text": "How affection is shown over time"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_111_how_decisions_are_shared",
            "text": "How decisions are shared"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_111_how_much_privacy_each_person_needs",
            "text": "How much privacy each person needs"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_111_what_commitment_looks_like_during_stress",
            "text": "What commitment looks like during stress"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_112",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which inherited marriage rule would you most like us to examine?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "expectations",
        "scripts",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_112_one_spouse_should_always_be_the_practical_one",
          "text": "One spouse should always be the practical one"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_112_good_couples_should_want_all_the_same_things",
          "text": "Good couples should want all the same things"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_112_marriage_should_come_before_every_other_relationship",
          "text": "Marriage should come before every other relationship"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_112_needing_help_means_the_marriage_is_failing",
          "text": "Needing help means the marriage is failing"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_112_one_spouse_should_always_be_the_practical_one",
            "text": "One spouse should always be the practical one"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_112_good_couples_should_want_all_the_same_things",
            "text": "Good couples should want all the same things"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_112_marriage_should_come_before_every_other_relationship",
            "text": "Marriage should come before every other relationship"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_112_needing_help_means_the_marriage_is_failing",
            "text": "Needing help means the marriage is failing"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_113",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes an expectation fair inside marriage?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "expectations",
        "fairness",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_113_both_people_know_it_exists",
          "text": "Both people know it exists"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_113_either_person_can_question_it",
          "text": "Either person can question it"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_113_the_cost_is_not_carried_mostly_by_one_spouse",
          "text": "The cost is not carried mostly by one spouse"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_113_it_respects_safety_dignity_and_personal_choice",
          "text": "It respects safety, dignity, and personal choice"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_113_both_people_know_it_exists",
            "text": "Both people know it exists"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_113_either_person_can_question_it",
            "text": "Either person can question it"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_113_the_cost_is_not_carried_mostly_by_one_spouse",
            "text": "The cost is not carried mostly by one spouse"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_113_it_respects_safety_dignity_and_personal_choice",
            "text": "It respects safety, dignity, and personal choice"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_114",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do our current marriage expectations fit the people we are now?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "expectations",
        "current_fit",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "They fit poorly",
        "max_label": "They fit very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_115",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which ideas about a “good marriage” can create unnecessary pressure?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "expectations",
        "pressure",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_115_never_needing_time_apart",
          "text": "Never needing time apart"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_115_agreeing_on_every_important_subject",
          "text": "Agreeing on every important subject"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_115_looking_happy_for_other_people",
          "text": "Looking happy for other people"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_115_solving_everything_without_outside_help",
          "text": "Solving everything without outside help"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_115_never_needing_time_apart",
            "text": "Never needing time apart"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_115_agreeing_on_every_important_subject",
            "text": "Agreeing on every important subject"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_115_looking_happy_for_other_people",
            "text": "Looking happy for other people"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_115_solving_everything_without_outside_help",
            "text": "Solving everything without outside help"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_116",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What marriage expectation would you like us to rewrite in our own words?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "expectations",
        "authorship",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_117",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us notice when an old script is running the marriage?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "scripts",
        "awareness",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_117_the_same_role_appears_no_matter_who_has_more_capacity",
          "text": "The same role appears no matter who has more capacity"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_117_we_defend_a_rule_but_cannot_explain_its_purpose",
          "text": "We defend a rule but cannot explain its purpose"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_117_one_person_feels_guilty_for_wanting_something_normal",
          "text": "One person feels guilty for wanting something normal"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_117_the_arrangement_protects_appearances_more_than_people",
          "text": "The arrangement protects appearances more than people"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_117_the_same_role_appears_no_matter_who_has_more_capacity",
            "text": "The same role appears no matter who has more capacity"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_117_we_defend_a_rule_but_cannot_explain_its_purpose",
            "text": "We defend a rule but cannot explain its purpose"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_117_one_person_feels_guilty_for_wanting_something_normal",
            "text": "One person feels guilty for wanting something normal"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_117_the_arrangement_protects_appearances_more_than_people",
            "text": "The arrangement protects appearances more than people"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_118",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which word should define our version of marriage more strongly?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "identity",
        "values",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_118_chosen",
          "text": "Chosen"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_118_flexible",
          "text": "Flexible"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_118_tender",
          "text": "Tender"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_118_honest",
          "text": "Honest"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_118_chosen",
            "text": "Chosen"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_118_flexible",
            "text": "Flexible"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_118_tender",
            "text": "Tender"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_118_honest",
            "text": "Honest"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_119",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps marriage from turning into a list of roles?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "roles",
        "identity",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_119_we_keep_learning_each_other_beyond_responsibilities",
          "text": "We keep learning each other beyond responsibilities"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_119_care_is_not_reduced_to_productivity",
          "text": "Care is not reduced to productivity"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_119_either_person_can_change_how_they_contribute",
          "text": "Either person can change how they contribute"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_119_we_make_room_for_pleasure_rest_and_personality",
          "text": "We make room for pleasure, rest, and personality"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_119_we_keep_learning_each_other_beyond_responsibilities",
            "text": "We keep learning each other beyond responsibilities"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_119_care_is_not_reduced_to_productivity",
            "text": "Care is not reduced to productivity"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_119_either_person_can_change_how_they_contribute",
            "text": "Either person can change how they contribute"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_119_we_make_room_for_pleasure_rest_and_personality",
            "text": "We make room for pleasure, rest, and personality"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_120",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which expectations should never override a spouse’s wellbeing?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "safety",
        "expectations",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_120_keeping_up_appearances",
          "text": "Keeping up appearances"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_120_staying_silent_to_avoid_embarrassment",
          "text": "Staying silent to avoid embarrassment"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_120_accepting_control_as_proof_of_love",
          "text": "Accepting control as proof of love"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_120_remaining_in_a_situation_that_feels_unsafe",
          "text": "Remaining in a situation that feels unsafe"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_120_keeping_up_appearances",
            "text": "Keeping up appearances"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_120_staying_silent_to_avoid_embarrassment",
            "text": "Staying silent to avoid embarrassment"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_120_accepting_control_as_proof_of_love",
            "text": "Accepting control as proof of love"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_120_remaining_in_a_situation_that_feels_unsafe",
            "text": "Remaining in a situation that feels unsafe"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_121",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which qualities have helped our marriage through difficult periods?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "resilience",
        "hard_times",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_121_the_ability_to_admit_when_the_plan_failed",
          "text": "The ability to admit when the plan failed"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_121_a_willingness_to_accept_practical_help",
          "text": "A willingness to accept practical help"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_121_remembering_that_both_people_can_be_hurting_differently",
          "text": "Remembering that both people can be hurting differently"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_121_finding_small_moments_that_still_felt_like_us",
          "text": "Finding small moments that still felt like us"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_121_the_ability_to_admit_when_the_plan_failed",
            "text": "The ability to admit when the plan failed"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_121_a_willingness_to_accept_practical_help",
            "text": "A willingness to accept practical help"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_121_remembering_that_both_people_can_be_hurting_differently",
            "text": "Remembering that both people can be hurting differently"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_121_finding_small_moments_that_still_felt_like_us",
            "text": "Finding small moments that still felt like us"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_122",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What most helps you believe our marriage can handle a hard season?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "resilience",
        "confidence",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_122_we_have_adapted_before",
          "text": "We have adapted before"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_122_we_can_tell_the_truth_about_how_hard_it_is",
          "text": "We can tell the truth about how hard it is"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_122_we_know_when_to_seek_support",
          "text": "We know when to seek support"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_122_we_still_protect_each_others_dignity",
          "text": "We still protect each other’s dignity"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_122_we_have_adapted_before",
            "text": "We have adapted before"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_122_we_can_tell_the_truth_about_how_hard_it_is",
            "text": "We can tell the truth about how hard it is"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_122_we_know_when_to_seek_support",
            "text": "We know when to seek support"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_122_we_still_protect_each_others_dignity",
            "text": "We still protect each other’s dignity"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_123",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What deserves credit when a marriage makes it through something hard?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "resilience",
        "appreciation",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_123_the_quiet_choices_no_one_else_saw",
          "text": "The quiet choices no one else saw"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_123_the_boundaries_that_prevented_more_harm",
          "text": "The boundaries that prevented more harm"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_123_the_help_we_accepted",
          "text": "The help we accepted"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_123_the_courage_to_change_what_was_not_working",
          "text": "The courage to change what was not working"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_123_the_quiet_choices_no_one_else_saw",
            "text": "The quiet choices no one else saw"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_123_the_boundaries_that_prevented_more_harm",
            "text": "The boundaries that prevented more harm"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_123_the_help_we_accepted",
            "text": "The help we accepted"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_123_the_courage_to_change_what_was_not_working",
            "text": "The courage to change what was not working"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_124",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do you trust our ability to face a challenge without losing ourselves?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "resilience",
        "autonomy",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much yet",
        "max_label": "A great deal"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_125",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps resilience avoid becoming endless endurance?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "resilience",
        "safety",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_125_we_do_not_praise_suffering_for_its_own_sake",
          "text": "We do not praise suffering for its own sake"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_125_staying_is_never_treated_as_more_important_than_safety",
          "text": "Staying is never treated as more important than safety"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_125_the_problem_receives_real_action_not_only_patience",
          "text": "The problem receives real action, not only patience"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_125_both_people_can_name_when_the_cost_has_become_too_high",
          "text": "Both people can name when the cost has become too high"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_125_we_do_not_praise_suffering_for_its_own_sake",
            "text": "We do not praise suffering for its own sake"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_125_staying_is_never_treated_as_more_important_than_safety",
            "text": "Staying is never treated as more important than safety"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_125_the_problem_receives_real_action_not_only_patience",
            "text": "The problem receives real action, not only patience"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_125_both_people_can_name_when_the_cost_has_become_too_high",
            "text": "Both people can name when the cost has become too high"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_126",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one hard chapter that taught us something useful about our marriage?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "resilience",
        "story",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_127",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs show that we are recovering rather than merely functioning?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "recovery",
        "resilience",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_127_laughter_returns_without_feeling_forced",
          "text": "Laughter returns without feeling forced"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_127_we_have_energy_for_something_beyond_the_crisis",
          "text": "We have energy for something beyond the crisis"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_127_the_future_feels_possible_again",
          "text": "The future feels possible again"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_127_both_people_can_talk_about_the_chapter_without_reliving_ever",
          "text": "Both people can talk about the chapter without reliving every part"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_127_laughter_returns_without_feeling_forced",
            "text": "Laughter returns without feeling forced"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_127_we_have_energy_for_something_beyond_the_crisis",
            "text": "We have energy for something beyond the crisis"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_127_the_future_feels_possible_again",
            "text": "The future feels possible again"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_127_both_people_can_talk_about_the_chapter_without_reliving_ever",
            "text": "Both people can talk about the chapter without reliving every part"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_128",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should a hard chapter never be allowed to erase?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hard_times",
        "safety",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_128_basic_respect",
          "text": "Basic respect"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_128_each_persons_right_to_support",
          "text": "Each person’s right to support"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_128_the_ability_to_tell_the_truth",
          "text": "The ability to tell the truth"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_128_the_possibility_of_changing_the_plan",
          "text": "The possibility of changing the plan"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_128_basic_respect",
            "text": "Basic respect"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_128_each_persons_right_to_support",
            "text": "Each person’s right to support"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_128_the_ability_to_tell_the_truth",
            "text": "The ability to tell the truth"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_128_the_possibility_of_changing_the_plan",
            "text": "The possibility of changing the plan"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_129",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can help us honor a difficult history without living inside it?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "history",
        "growth",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_129_remember_what_we_learned",
          "text": "Remember what we learned"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_129_notice_how_we_are_different_now",
          "text": "Notice how we are different now"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_129_keep_the_story_honest_rather_than_heroic",
          "text": "Keep the story honest rather than heroic"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_129_build_rituals_around_growth_instead_of_pain",
          "text": "Build rituals around growth instead of pain"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_129_remember_what_we_learned",
            "text": "Remember what we learned"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_129_notice_how_we_are_different_now",
            "text": "Notice how we are different now"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_129_keep_the_story_honest_rather_than_heroic",
            "text": "Keep the story honest rather than heroic"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_129_build_rituals_around_growth_instead_of_pain",
            "text": "Build rituals around growth instead of pain"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_130",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which strengths do we sometimes forget we have?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "strengths",
        "resilience",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_130_we_can_make_a_new_plan_quickly",
          "text": "We can make a new plan quickly"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_130_we_know_how_to_comfort_without_fixing",
          "text": "We know how to comfort without fixing"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_130_we_are_capable_of_asking_better_questions",
          "text": "We are capable of asking better questions"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_130_we_can_choose_humor_without_denying_reality",
          "text": "We can choose humor without denying reality"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_130_we_can_make_a_new_plan_quickly",
            "text": "We can make a new plan quickly"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_130_we_know_how_to_comfort_without_fixing",
            "text": "We know how to comfort without fixing"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_130_we_are_capable_of_asking_better_questions",
            "text": "We are capable of asking better questions"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_130_we_can_choose_humor_without_denying_reality",
            "text": "We can choose humor without denying reality"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_131",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of marriage do you hope become richer with age?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aging",
        "hope",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_131_our_private_humor",
          "text": "Our private humor"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_131_the_ease_of_being_known",
          "text": "The ease of being known"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_131_the_courage_to_speak_honestly",
          "text": "The courage to speak honestly"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_131_the_stories_attached_to_ordinary_places",
          "text": "The stories attached to ordinary places"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_131_our_private_humor",
            "text": "Our private humor"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_131_the_ease_of_being_known",
            "text": "The ease of being known"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_131_the_courage_to_speak_honestly",
            "text": "The courage to speak honestly"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_131_the_stories_attached_to_ordinary_places",
            "text": "The stories attached to ordinary places"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_132",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which picture of older married us feels most appealing?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aging",
        "future_us",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_132_still_teasing_each_other_over_breakfast",
          "text": "Still teasing each other over breakfast"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_132_learning_something_new_side_by_side",
          "text": "Learning something new side by side"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_132_protecting_a_calm_life_with_room_for_surprises",
          "text": "Protecting a calm life with room for surprises"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_132_telling_the_same_stories_with_improved_dramatic_details",
          "text": "Telling the same stories with improved dramatic details"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_132_still_teasing_each_other_over_breakfast",
            "text": "Still teasing each other over breakfast"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_132_learning_something_new_side_by_side",
            "text": "Learning something new side by side"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_132_protecting_a_calm_life_with_room_for_surprises",
            "text": "Protecting a calm life with room for surprises"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_132_telling_the_same_stories_with_improved_dramatic_details",
            "text": "Telling the same stories with improved dramatic details"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_133",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What kind of legacy can a marriage create without grand achievements?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "legacy",
        "meaning",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_133_people_remember_how_we_treated_each_other",
          "text": "People remember how we treated each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_133_our_home_or_presence_felt_welcoming",
          "text": "Our home or presence felt welcoming"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_133_we_made_brave_choices_that_fit_our_real_values",
          "text": "We made brave choices that fit our real values"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_133_we_passed_along_stories_humor_or_traditions",
          "text": "We passed along stories, humor, or traditions"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_133_people_remember_how_we_treated_each_other",
            "text": "People remember how we treated each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_133_our_home_or_presence_felt_welcoming",
            "text": "Our home or presence felt welcoming"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_133_we_made_brave_choices_that_fit_our_real_values",
            "text": "We made brave choices that fit our real values"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_133_we_passed_along_stories_humor_or_traditions",
            "text": "We passed along stories, humor, or traditions"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_134",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How hopeful do you feel about growing older together?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aging",
        "hope",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very hopeful",
        "max_label": "Very hopeful"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_135",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which changes about aging should spouses be able to discuss openly?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aging",
        "honesty",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_135_changing_energy_and_physical_ability",
          "text": "Changing energy and physical ability"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_135_different_needs_for_independence_or_help",
          "text": "Different needs for independence or help"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_135_fears_about_health_and_loss",
          "text": "Fears about health and loss"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_135_what_dignity_and_care_mean_to_each_person",
          "text": "What dignity and care mean to each person"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_135_changing_energy_and_physical_ability",
            "text": "Changing energy and physical ability"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_135_different_needs_for_independence_or_help",
            "text": "Different needs for independence or help"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_135_fears_about_health_and_loss",
            "text": "Fears about health and loss"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_135_what_dignity_and_care_mean_to_each_person",
            "text": "What dignity and care mean to each person"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_136",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one ordinary scene you would love future married us to share?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "future_us",
        "imagining",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_137",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What could help long-term marriage stay curious?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "curiosity",
        "long_term",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_137_ask_how_old_opinions_have_changed",
          "text": "Ask how old opinions have changed"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_137_try_something_new_without_demanding_enthusiasm",
          "text": "Try something new without demanding enthusiasm"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_137_keep_making_room_for_separate_growth",
          "text": "Keep making room for separate growth"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_137_notice_the_person_beyond_the_shared_history",
          "text": "Notice the person beyond the shared history"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_137_ask_how_old_opinions_have_changed",
            "text": "Ask how old opinions have changed"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_137_try_something_new_without_demanding_enthusiasm",
            "text": "Try something new without demanding enthusiasm"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_137_keep_making_room_for_separate_growth",
            "text": "Keep making room for separate growth"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_137_notice_the_person_beyond_the_shared_history",
            "text": "Notice the person beyond the shared history"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_138",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which part of our story would you most want future us to remember?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "story",
        "legacy",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_138_how_we_made_each_other_laugh",
          "text": "How we made each other laugh"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_138_the_brave_choices_we_made_together",
          "text": "The brave choices we made together"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_138_the_ordinary_kindness_that_kept_appearing",
          "text": "The ordinary kindness that kept appearing"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_138_the_times_we_let_each_other_change",
          "text": "The times we let each other change"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_138_how_we_made_each_other_laugh",
            "text": "How we made each other laugh"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_138_the_brave_choices_we_made_together",
            "text": "The brave choices we made together"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_138_the_ordinary_kindness_that_kept_appearing",
            "text": "The ordinary kindness that kept appearing"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_138_the_times_we_let_each_other_change",
            "text": "The times we let each other change"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_139",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should older married us be proud we protected?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aging",
        "protection",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_139_our_ability_to_be_honest",
          "text": "Our ability to be honest"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_139_each_persons_friendships_and_identity",
          "text": "Each person’s friendships and identity"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_139_a_sense_of_play_that_survived_responsibility",
          "text": "A sense of play that survived responsibility"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_139_the_right_to_ask_for_help",
          "text": "The right to ask for help"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_139_our_ability_to_be_honest",
            "text": "Our ability to be honest"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_139_each_persons_friendships_and_identity",
            "text": "Each person’s friendships and identity"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_139_a_sense_of_play_that_survived_responsibility",
            "text": "A sense of play that survived responsibility"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_139_the_right_to_ask_for_help",
            "text": "The right to ask for help"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_140",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which future changes should remain open rather than decided forever today?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "future_us",
        "flexibility",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_140_where_and_how_we_live",
          "text": "Where and how we live"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_140_how_we_spend_our_time",
          "text": "How we spend our time"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_140_what_support_we_may_need",
          "text": "What support we may need"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_140_which_traditions_still_fit",
          "text": "Which traditions still fit"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_140_where_and_how_we_live",
            "text": "Where and how we live"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_140_how_we_spend_our_time",
            "text": "How we spend our time"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_140_what_support_we_may_need",
            "text": "What support we may need"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_140_which_traditions_still_fit",
            "text": "Which traditions still fit"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_141",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of our marriage would benefit from a fresh start?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "renewal",
        "growth",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_141_the_way_we_celebrate_each_other",
          "text": "The way we celebrate each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_141_an_expectation_we_never_consciously_chose",
          "text": "An expectation we never consciously chose"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_141_a_ritual_that_no_longer_fits",
          "text": "A ritual that no longer fits"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_141_the_amount_of_curiosity_we_bring_home",
          "text": "The amount of curiosity we bring home"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_141_the_way_we_celebrate_each_other",
            "text": "The way we celebrate each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_141_an_expectation_we_never_consciously_chose",
            "text": "An expectation we never consciously chose"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_141_a_ritual_that_no_longer_fits",
            "text": "A ritual that no longer fits"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_141_the_amount_of_curiosity_we_bring_home",
            "text": "The amount of curiosity we bring home"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_142",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which marriage refresh sounds most useful now?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "renewal",
        "current_season",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_142_bring_back_something_we_miss",
          "text": "Bring back something we miss"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_142_try_one_new_tradition",
          "text": "Try one new tradition"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_142_retire_an_expectation_that_drains_us",
          "text": "Retire an expectation that drains us"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_142_name_what_already_works_and_protect_it",
          "text": "Name what already works and protect it"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_142_bring_back_something_we_miss",
            "text": "Bring back something we miss"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_142_try_one_new_tradition",
            "text": "Try one new tradition"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_142_retire_an_expectation_that_drains_us",
            "text": "Retire an expectation that drains us"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_142_name_what_already_works_and_protect_it",
            "text": "Name what already works and protect it"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_143",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps renewal feel hopeful instead of like a criticism?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "renewal",
        "hope",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_143_begin_with_what_we_value",
          "text": "Begin with what we value"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_143_choose_one_area_rather_than_judging_everything",
          "text": "Choose one area rather than judging everything"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_143_let_both_people_define_improvement",
          "text": "Let both people define improvement"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_143_make_the_experiment_small_enough_to_try",
          "text": "Make the experiment small enough to try"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_143_begin_with_what_we_value",
            "text": "Begin with what we value"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_143_choose_one_area_rather_than_judging_everything",
            "text": "Choose one area rather than judging everything"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_143_let_both_people_define_improvement",
            "text": "Let both people define improvement"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_143_make_the_experiment_small_enough_to_try",
            "text": "Make the experiment small enough to try"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_144",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How ready do you feel to intentionally refresh part of our marriage?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "renewal",
        "readiness",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not ready right now",
        "max_label": "Very ready"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_145",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs show that our marriage is still alive and changing?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "growth",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_145_we_can_surprise_each_other",
          "text": "We can surprise each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_145_old_roles_are_not_treated_as_permanent",
          "text": "Old roles are not treated as permanent"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_145_new_dreams_can_enter_the_conversation",
          "text": "New dreams can enter the conversation"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_145_we_keep_finding_more_honest_language",
          "text": "We keep finding more honest language"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_145_we_can_surprise_each_other",
            "text": "We can surprise each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_145_old_roles_are_not_treated_as_permanent",
            "text": "Old roles are not treated as permanent"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_145_new_dreams_can_enter_the_conversation",
            "text": "New dreams can enter the conversation"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_145_we_keep_finding_more_honest_language",
            "text": "We keep finding more honest language"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_146",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one promise, ritual, or habit you would like our marriage to renew?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "renewal",
        "commitment",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_147",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What deserves protection before we try to improve anything?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "renewal",
        "protection",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_147_the_respect_already_present",
          "text": "The respect already present"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_147_the_humor_that_helps_us_breathe",
          "text": "The humor that helps us breathe"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_147_each_persons_right_to_say_no",
          "text": "Each person’s right to say no"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_147_the_parts_of_marriage_that_still_feel_easy",
          "text": "The parts of marriage that still feel easy"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_147_the_respect_already_present",
            "text": "The respect already present"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_147_the_humor_that_helps_us_breathe",
            "text": "The humor that helps us breathe"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_147_each_persons_right_to_say_no",
            "text": "Each person’s right to say no"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_147_the_parts_of_marriage_that_still_feel_easy",
            "text": "The parts of marriage that still feel easy"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_148",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which married-life quality should we make more visible this month?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "renewal",
        "monthly",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "marriage_148_playfulness",
          "text": "Playfulness"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_148_tenderness",
          "text": "Tenderness"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_148_admiration",
          "text": "Admiration"
        },
        {
          "id": "marriage_148_team_spirit",
          "text": "Team spirit"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "marriage_148_playfulness",
            "text": "Playfulness"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_148_tenderness",
            "text": "Tenderness"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_148_admiration",
            "text": "Admiration"
          },
          {
            "id": "marriage_148_team_spirit",
            "text": "Team spirit"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "marriage_149",
      "category_id": "marriage",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What would make a marriage check-in feel worth doing?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "check_in",
        "renewal",
        "marriage"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
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