7260 lines
184 KiB
JSON
7260 lines
184 KiB
JSON
{
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"category": {
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"id": "physical_intimacy",
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"display_name": "Physical Intimacy",
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"description": "Warm, playful, consent-first questions about nonsexual affection, hugs, kissing, cuddling, hand-holding, touch comfort, sensory preferences, accessibility, public affection, and everyday physical boundaries.",
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"access": "mixed",
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"icon_name": "volunteer_activism",
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"schema_version": "question_v2",
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"metadata": {
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"total_questions": 150,
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"free_questions": 45,
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"premium_questions": 105,
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"type_counts": {
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"multi_choice": 90,
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"single_choice": 30,
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"scale": 15,
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"this_or_that": 10,
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"written": 5
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},
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"depth_counts": {
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"1": 65,
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"2": 60,
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"3": 25
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},
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"legacy_question_count": 250,
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"catalog_change": -100,
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"content_version": "physical_intimacy_150_final_v6",
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"mass_rewrite_reason": "The legacy pack contained 250 questions, including 150 written responses and depth values up to 5. The interaction mix and depth model did not match the current production guide.",
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"related_pack_boundary": "This pack owns nonsexual affection, hugs, kissing, cuddling, hand-holding, touch comfort, sensory preferences, accessibility, public affection, and everyday physical boundaries. Desire and libido belong in sex_and_desire. Specific sexual acts, positions, toys, kink, and sexual aftercare belong in sexual_preferences. Emotional vulnerability belongs in emotional_intimacy.",
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"safety_boundary": "Affection must never be treated as consent to sex, proof of love, an obligation, or a way to stop conflict. Any touch can be declined, changed, or ended without punishment or explanation.",
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"review_workflow": "Six 25-question production batches with schema, voice, consent, accessibility, related-pack, option-fit, repetition, and full-pack validation.",
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"final_validation": "pass",
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"depth_percentages": {
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"light": 43.3,
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"medium": 40.0,
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"deep": 16.7
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},
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"batch_review": [
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{
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"batch": 1,
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"first_id": "physical_intimacy_001",
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"last_id": "physical_intimacy_025",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"batch": 2,
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"first_id": "physical_intimacy_026",
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"last_id": "physical_intimacy_050",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"batch": 3,
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"first_id": "physical_intimacy_051",
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"last_id": "physical_intimacy_075",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"batch": 4,
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"first_id": "physical_intimacy_076",
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"last_id": "physical_intimacy_100",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"batch": 5,
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"first_id": "physical_intimacy_101",
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"last_id": "physical_intimacy_125",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"batch": 6,
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"first_id": "physical_intimacy_126",
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"last_id": "physical_intimacy_150",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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}
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],
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"fifty_question_checkpoints": [
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{
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"checkpoint": 1,
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"first_id": "physical_intimacy_001",
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"last_id": "physical_intimacy_050",
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"count": 50,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"checkpoint": 2,
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"first_id": "physical_intimacy_051",
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"last_id": "physical_intimacy_100",
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"count": 50,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"checkpoint": 3,
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"first_id": "physical_intimacy_101",
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"last_id": "physical_intimacy_150",
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"count": 50,
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"status": "PASS"
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}
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],
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"internal_near_duplicate_warnings": 0,
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"cross_pack_near_overlap_warnings": 0,
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"final_review": "Final editorial and production pass completed. Corrected the last nearby repeated opening and revalidated schema, counts, depth balance, consent tags, accessibility, option fit, option mirroring, uniqueness, nonsexual pack boundaries, six 25-question batches, and three 50-question checkpoints.",
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"final_editorial_patches": 1
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}
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},
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"questions": [
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{
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"id": "physical_intimacy_001",
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which everyday touches feel most naturally like us?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"everyday_affection",
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"physical_intimacy",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_quick_shoulder_squeeze",
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"text": "A quick shoulder squeeze"
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},
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{
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"id": "holding_hands",
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"text": "Holding hands"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_kiss_in_passing",
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"text": "A kiss in passing"
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},
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{
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"id": "leaning_against_each_other",
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"text": "Leaning against each other"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_quick_shoulder_squeeze",
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"text": "A quick shoulder squeeze"
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},
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{
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"id": "holding_hands",
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"text": "Holding hands"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_kiss_in_passing",
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"text": "A kiss in passing"
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},
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{
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"id": "leaning_against_each_other",
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"text": "Leaning against each other"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "physical_intimacy_002",
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which small touches make an ordinary day feel warmer?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"everyday_affection",
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"physical_intimacy",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_hand_on_your_back",
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"text": "A hand on your back"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_kiss_before_leaving",
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"text": "A kiss before leaving"
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},
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{
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"id": "feet_touching_on_the_couch",
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"text": "Feet touching on the couch"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_hug_while_waiting_for_something",
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"text": "A hug while waiting for something"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_hand_on_your_back",
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"text": "A hand on your back"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_kiss_before_leaving",
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"text": "A kiss before leaving"
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},
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{
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"id": "feet_touching_on_the_couch",
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"text": "Feet touching on the couch"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_hug_while_waiting_for_something",
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"text": "A hug while waiting for something"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "physical_intimacy_003",
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "this_or_that",
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"text": "A long hello hug or a long goodbye hug?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"greetings",
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"quick_choice",
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"physical_intimacy",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_long_hello_hug",
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"text": "A long hello hug"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_long_goodbye_hug",
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"text": "A long goodbye hug"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_long_hello_hug",
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"text": "A long hello hug"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_long_goodbye_hug",
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"text": "A long goodbye hug"
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}
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]
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "physical_intimacy_004",
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Where does casual affection fit most easily into our day?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"daily_life",
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"physical_intimacy",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "in_the_kitchen",
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"text": "In the kitchen"
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},
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{
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"id": "on_the_couch",
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"text": "On the couch"
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},
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{
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"id": "while_walking",
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"text": "While walking"
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},
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{
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"id": "before_sleep",
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"text": "Before sleep"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "in_the_kitchen",
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"text": "In the kitchen"
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},
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{
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"id": "on_the_couch",
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"text": "On the couch"
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},
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{
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"id": "while_walking",
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"text": "While walking"
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},
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{
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"id": "before_sleep",
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"text": "Before sleep"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "physical_intimacy_005",
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which affectionate habits are worth doing more often?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"habits",
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"physical_intimacy",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "reaching_for_each_other_s_hand",
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"text": "Reaching for each other's hand"
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},
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{
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"id": "kissing_hello",
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"text": "Kissing hello"
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},
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{
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"id": "sitting_close",
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"text": "Sitting close"
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},
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{
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"id": "touching_shoulders_as_we_pass",
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"text": "Touching shoulders as we pass"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "reaching_for_each_other_s_hand",
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"text": "Reaching for each other's hand"
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},
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{
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"id": "kissing_hello",
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"text": "Kissing hello"
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},
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{
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"id": "sitting_close",
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"text": "Sitting close"
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},
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{
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"id": "touching_shoulders_as_we_pass",
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"text": "Touching shoulders as we pass"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "physical_intimacy_006",
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which tiny gesture could improve a completely average Tuesday?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"humor",
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"daily_life",
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"physical_intimacy",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_dramatic_doorway_hug",
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"text": "A dramatic doorway hug"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_kiss_while_the_microwave_counts_down",
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"text": "A kiss while the microwave counts down"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_hand_squeeze_in_traffic",
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"text": "A hand squeeze in traffic"
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},
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{
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"id": "claiming_the_good_couch_corner_together",
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"text": "Claiming the good couch corner together"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_dramatic_doorway_hug",
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"text": "A dramatic doorway hug"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_kiss_while_the_microwave_counts_down",
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"text": "A kiss while the microwave counts down"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_hand_squeeze_in_traffic",
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"text": "A hand squeeze in traffic"
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},
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{
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"id": "claiming_the_good_couch_corner_together",
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"text": "Claiming the good couch corner together"
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}
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]
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "physical_intimacy_007",
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What makes everyday affection feel genuine instead of automatic?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"meaning",
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"everyday_affection",
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"physical_intimacy",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "it_fits_the_moment",
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"text": "It fits the moment"
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},
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{
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"id": "it_is_not_rushed",
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"text": "It is not rushed"
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},
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{
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"id": "it_notices_your_mood",
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"text": "It notices your mood"
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},
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{
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"id": "it_does_not_demand_anything_afterward",
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"text": "It does not demand anything afterward"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "it_fits_the_moment",
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"text": "It fits the moment"
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},
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{
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"id": "it_is_not_rushed",
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"text": "It is not rushed"
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},
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{
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"id": "it_notices_your_mood",
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"text": "It notices your mood"
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},
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{
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"id": "it_does_not_demand_anything_afterward",
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"text": "It does not demand anything afterward"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "physical_intimacy_008",
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "scale",
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"text": "How naturally does affection show up in our daily life?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"current_state",
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"everyday_affection",
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"physical_intimacy",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min": 1,
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"max": 5,
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"min_label": "Rarely",
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"max_label": "Very naturally"
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "physical_intimacy_009",
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which moments deserve a quick affectionate pause?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"daily_life",
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"physical_intimacy",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "when_one_of_us_gets_home",
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"text": "When one of us gets home"
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},
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{
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"id": "before_a_hard_task",
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"text": "Before a hard task"
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},
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{
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"id": "after_good_news",
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"text": "After good news"
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},
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{
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"id": "when_the_day_finally_slows_down",
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"text": "When the day finally slows down"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "when_one_of_us_gets_home",
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"text": "When one of us gets home"
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},
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{
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"id": "before_a_hard_task",
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"text": "Before a hard task"
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},
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{
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"id": "after_good_news",
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"text": "After good news"
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},
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{
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"id": "when_the_day_finally_slows_down",
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"text": "When the day finally slows down"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "physical_intimacy_010",
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which household location has become our unofficial affection department?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"humor",
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"home",
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"physical_intimacy",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "the_kitchen_doorway",
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"text": "The kitchen doorway"
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},
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{
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"id": "the_couch",
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"text": "The couch"
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},
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{
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"id": "the_bathroom_sink",
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"text": "The bathroom sink"
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "wherever_one_person_is_blocking_the_other",
|
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"text": "Wherever one person is blocking the other"
|
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}
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
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{
|
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"id": "the_kitchen_doorway",
|
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"text": "The kitchen doorway"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "the_couch",
|
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"text": "The couch"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "the_bathroom_sink",
|
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"text": "The bathroom sink"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "wherever_one_person_is_blocking_the_other",
|
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"text": "Wherever one person is blocking the other"
|
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}
|
|
]
|
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}
|
|
},
|
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{
|
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"id": "physical_intimacy_011",
|
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "What helps a quick touch still feel connecting?",
|
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"depth": 2,
|
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"access": "free",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"presence",
|
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"physical_intimacy",
|
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"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
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"options": [
|
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{
|
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"id": "eye_contact",
|
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"text": "Eye contact"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "a_warm_expression",
|
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"text": "A warm expression"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "not_being_distracted",
|
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"text": "Not being distracted"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_it_can_stay_brief",
|
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"text": "Knowing it can stay brief"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "eye_contact",
|
|
"text": "Eye contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_warm_expression",
|
|
"text": "A warm expression"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_being_distracted",
|
|
"text": "Not being distracted"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_it_can_stay_brief",
|
|
"text": "Knowing it can stay brief"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_012",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which nonverbal signals could mean I am here with you?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"signals",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "A hand squeeze"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touching_knees",
|
|
"text": "Touching knees"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_arm_around_you",
|
|
"text": "An arm around you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "resting_my_head_near_yours",
|
|
"text": "Resting my head near yours"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "A hand squeeze"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touching_knees",
|
|
"text": "Touching knees"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_arm_around_you",
|
|
"text": "An arm around you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "resting_my_head_near_yours",
|
|
"text": "Resting my head near yours"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_013",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which affectionate routines would be easiest to start this week?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"rituals",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_real_hello_hug",
|
|
"text": "A real hello hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_kiss_before_sleep",
|
|
"text": "A kiss before sleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands_on_one_walk",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands on one walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "five_minutes_close_together_after_dinner",
|
|
"text": "Five minutes close together after dinner"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_real_hello_hug",
|
|
"text": "A real hello hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_kiss_before_sleep",
|
|
"text": "A kiss before sleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands_on_one_walk",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands on one walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "five_minutes_close_together_after_dinner",
|
|
"text": "Five minutes close together after dinner"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_014",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one small touch from me that has stayed in your memory?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"memory",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_015",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would help everyday affection feel more mutual?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mutuality",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_initiate_sometimes",
|
|
"text": "Both people initiate sometimes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_can_ask_directly",
|
|
"text": "Either person can ask directly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_one_keeps_score",
|
|
"text": "No one keeps score"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_no_is_easy_to_accept",
|
|
"text": "A no is easy to accept"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_initiate_sometimes",
|
|
"text": "Both people initiate sometimes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_can_ask_directly",
|
|
"text": "Either person can ask directly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_one_keeps_score",
|
|
"text": "No one keeps score"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_no_is_easy_to_accept",
|
|
"text": "A no is easy to accept"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_016",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of hugs usually feel best?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hugs",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_full_body_hug",
|
|
"text": "A full-body hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_side_hug",
|
|
"text": "A side hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hug_from_behind_after_asking",
|
|
"text": "A hug from behind after asking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_tight_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "A short tight squeeze"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_full_body_hug",
|
|
"text": "A full-body hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_side_hug",
|
|
"text": "A side hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hug_from_behind_after_asking",
|
|
"text": "A hug from behind after asking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_tight_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "A short tight squeeze"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_017",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a hug feel especially comforting?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hugs",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "enough_time_to_settle",
|
|
"text": "Enough time to settle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_right_pressure",
|
|
"text": "The right pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet",
|
|
"text": "Quiet"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_asked_first_when_needed",
|
|
"text": "Being asked first when needed"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "enough_time_to_settle",
|
|
"text": "Enough time to settle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_right_pressure",
|
|
"text": "The right pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet",
|
|
"text": "Quiet"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_asked_first_when_needed",
|
|
"text": "Being asked first when needed"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_018",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "A tight squeeze or a soft lingering hug?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hugs",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_tight_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "A tight squeeze"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_soft_lingering_hug",
|
|
"text": "A soft lingering hug"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_tight_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "A tight squeeze"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_soft_lingering_hug",
|
|
"text": "A soft lingering hug"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_019",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which moments make you most likely to want a hug?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hugs",
|
|
"timing",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_a_long_day",
|
|
"text": "After a long day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_saying_hello",
|
|
"text": "When saying hello"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_good_news",
|
|
"text": "After good news"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_words_are_not_helping",
|
|
"text": "When words are not helping"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_a_long_day",
|
|
"text": "After a long day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_saying_hello",
|
|
"text": "When saying hello"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_good_news",
|
|
"text": "After good news"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_words_are_not_helping",
|
|
"text": "When words are not helping"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_020",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should a good comfort hug communicate?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hugs",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_are_not_alone",
|
|
"text": "You are not alone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_no_rush",
|
|
"text": "There is no rush"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_am_listening",
|
|
"text": "I am listening"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_can_pull_away_anytime",
|
|
"text": "You can pull away anytime"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_are_not_alone",
|
|
"text": "You are not alone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "there_is_no_rush",
|
|
"text": "There is no rush"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_am_listening",
|
|
"text": "I am listening"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_can_pull_away_anytime",
|
|
"text": "You can pull away anytime"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_021",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which cuddle position has the best comfort-to-numb-arm ratio?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"cuddling",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "side_by_side",
|
|
"text": "Side by side"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_head_on_a_shoulder",
|
|
"text": "One head on a shoulder"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "spooning",
|
|
"text": "Spooning"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "separate_pillows_with_strategic_contact",
|
|
"text": "Separate pillows with strategic contact"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "side_by_side",
|
|
"text": "Side by side"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_head_on_a_shoulder",
|
|
"text": "One head on a shoulder"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "spooning",
|
|
"text": "Spooning"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "separate_pillows_with_strategic_contact",
|
|
"text": "Separate pillows with strategic contact"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_022",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "How can a celebration hug feel different from a comfort hug?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hugs",
|
|
"playfulness",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_energy",
|
|
"text": "More energy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_lift_if_welcomed",
|
|
"text": "A quick lift if welcomed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "laughter",
|
|
"text": "Laughter"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_bigger_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "A bigger squeeze"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_energy",
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"text": "More energy"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_quick_lift_if_welcomed",
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"text": "A quick lift if welcomed"
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},
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{
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"id": "laughter",
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"text": "Laughter"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_bigger_squeeze",
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"text": "A bigger squeeze"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
|
|
},
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{
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"id": "physical_intimacy_023",
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "scale",
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"text": "How easy is it to ask me for a hug when you need one?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
|
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"tags": [
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"hugs",
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"current_state",
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"physical_intimacy",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min": 1,
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"max": 5,
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"min_label": "Not easy yet",
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"max_label": "Very easy"
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}
|
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},
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{
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"id": "physical_intimacy_024",
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which ways of being held feel most secure?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
|
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"tags": [
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|
"holding",
|
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"comfort",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
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"consent_first"
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],
|
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "an_arm_around_your_shoulders",
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"text": "An arm around your shoulders"
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},
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{
|
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"id": "both_arms_around_you",
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"text": "Both arms around you"
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_held_firmly",
|
|
"text": "A hand held firmly"
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaning_chest_to_back",
|
|
"text": "Leaning chest to back"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_arm_around_your_shoulders",
|
|
"text": "An arm around your shoulders"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_arms_around_you",
|
|
"text": "Both arms around you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_held_firmly",
|
|
"text": "A hand held firmly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaning_chest_to_back",
|
|
"text": "Leaning chest to back"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_025",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "When should a hug be allowed to end without an official closing ceremony?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whenever_either_person_loosens_their_arms",
|
|
"text": "Whenever either person loosens their arms"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_one_deep_breath",
|
|
"text": "After one deep breath"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_somebody_starts_swaying_awkwardly",
|
|
"text": "When somebody starts swaying awkwardly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "before_a_phone_gets_crushed",
|
|
"text": "Before a phone gets crushed"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whenever_either_person_loosens_their_arms",
|
|
"text": "Whenever either person loosens their arms"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_one_deep_breath",
|
|
"text": "After one deep breath"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_somebody_starts_swaying_awkwardly",
|
|
"text": "When somebody starts swaying awkwardly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "before_a_phone_gets_crushed",
|
|
"text": "Before a phone gets crushed"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_026",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can make a hug feel like too much?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hugs",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_much_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Too much pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_held_when_you_need_space",
|
|
"text": "Being held when you need space"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_being_able_to_pull_away_easily",
|
|
"text": "Not being able to pull away easily"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touch_arriving_without_warning",
|
|
"text": "Touch arriving without warning"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_much_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Too much pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_held_when_you_need_space",
|
|
"text": "Being held when you need space"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_being_able_to_pull_away_easily",
|
|
"text": "Not being able to pull away easily"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touch_arriving_without_warning",
|
|
"text": "Touch arriving without warning"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_027",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which reunion touches feel warm without being overwhelming?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reunions",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_long_hug",
|
|
"text": "A long hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_kiss_and_hand_hold",
|
|
"text": "A quick kiss and hand hold"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shoulder_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "A shoulder squeeze"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "waiting_for_you_to_reach_first",
|
|
"text": "Waiting for you to reach first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_long_hug",
|
|
"text": "A long hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_kiss_and_hand_hold",
|
|
"text": "A quick kiss and hand hold"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shoulder_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "A shoulder squeeze"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "waiting_for_you_to_reach_first",
|
|
"text": "Waiting for you to reach first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_028",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which hand-holding styles feel most comfortable?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hand_holding",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fingers_interlaced",
|
|
"text": "Fingers interlaced"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hands_loosely_linked",
|
|
"text": "Hands loosely linked"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_one_finger",
|
|
"text": "Holding one finger"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_resting_over_yours",
|
|
"text": "A hand resting over yours"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fingers_interlaced",
|
|
"text": "Fingers interlaced"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hands_loosely_linked",
|
|
"text": "Hands loosely linked"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_one_finger",
|
|
"text": "Holding one finger"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_resting_over_yours",
|
|
"text": "A hand resting over yours"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_029",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What kind of hug from me feels most different from everyone else's?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hugs",
|
|
"identity",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_030",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps physical comfort stay welcome during a hard moment?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_before_moving_closer",
|
|
"text": "Asking before moving closer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_silence_be_enough",
|
|
"text": "Letting silence be enough"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_holding_on_if_you_pull_away",
|
|
"text": "Not holding on if you pull away"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offering_another_kind_of_support",
|
|
"text": "Offering another kind of support"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_before_moving_closer",
|
|
"text": "Asking before moving closer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_silence_be_enough",
|
|
"text": "Letting silence be enough"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_holding_on_if_you_pull_away",
|
|
"text": "Not holding on if you pull away"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offering_another_kind_of_support",
|
|
"text": "Offering another kind of support"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_031",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which everyday kisses feel sweetest?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kissing",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_forehead_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A forehead kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_lip_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A quick lip kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_cheek_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A cheek kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_kiss_on_the_top_of_your_head",
|
|
"text": "A kiss on the top of your head"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_forehead_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A forehead kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_lip_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A quick lip kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_cheek_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A cheek kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_kiss_on_the_top_of_your_head",
|
|
"text": "A kiss on the top of your head"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_032",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which moments make a simple kiss feel especially meaningful?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kissing",
|
|
"timing",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "before_leaving",
|
|
"text": "Before leaving"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_reconnecting",
|
|
"text": "After reconnecting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "during_a_quiet_pause",
|
|
"text": "During a quiet pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_one_of_us_did_something_thoughtful",
|
|
"text": "After one of us did something thoughtful"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "before_leaving",
|
|
"text": "Before leaving"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_reconnecting",
|
|
"text": "After reconnecting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "during_a_quiet_pause",
|
|
"text": "During a quiet pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_one_of_us_did_something_thoughtful",
|
|
"text": "After one of us did something thoughtful"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_033",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "A quick kiss in passing or a kiss that makes us stop?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kissing",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_kiss_in_passing",
|
|
"text": "A quick kiss in passing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_kiss_that_makes_us_stop",
|
|
"text": "A kiss that makes us stop"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_kiss_in_passing",
|
|
"text": "A quick kiss in passing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_kiss_that_makes_us_stop",
|
|
"text": "A kiss that makes us stop"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_034",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps kissing feel relaxed rather than expected?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kissing",
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_it_stay_brief",
|
|
"text": "Letting it stay brief"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reading_the_response",
|
|
"text": "Reading the response"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_when_the_mood_is_unclear",
|
|
"text": "Asking when the mood is unclear"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_assumption_that_it_leads_anywhere",
|
|
"text": "No assumption that it leads anywhere"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_it_stay_brief",
|
|
"text": "Letting it stay brief"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reading_the_response",
|
|
"text": "Reading the response"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_when_the_mood_is_unclear",
|
|
"text": "Asking when the mood is unclear"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_assumption_that_it_leads_anywhere",
|
|
"text": "No assumption that it leads anywhere"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_035",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of kisses communicate comfort best?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kissing",
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"comfort",
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"physical_intimacy",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_forehead_kiss",
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"text": "A forehead kiss"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_kiss_on_the_temple",
|
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"text": "A kiss on the temple"
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},
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{
|
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"id": "a_slow_cheek_kiss",
|
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"text": "A slow cheek kiss"
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},
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{
|
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"id": "a_gentle_lip_kiss",
|
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"text": "A gentle lip kiss"
|
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}
|
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],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
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{
|
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"id": "a_forehead_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A forehead kiss"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "a_kiss_on_the_temple",
|
|
"text": "A kiss on the temple"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "a_slow_cheek_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A slow cheek kiss"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "a_gentle_lip_kiss",
|
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"text": "A gentle lip kiss"
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}
|
|
],
|
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
|
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}
|
|
},
|
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{
|
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"id": "physical_intimacy_036",
|
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which kiss has the strongest main-character energy without requiring a soundtrack?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "free",
|
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"tags": [
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"humor",
|
|
"kissing",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
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"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
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{
|
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"id": "the_doorway_kiss",
|
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"text": "The doorway kiss"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "the_rain_kiss",
|
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"text": "The rain kiss"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "the_airport_reunion_kiss",
|
|
"text": "The airport reunion kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_kitchen_kiss_while_holding_a_spatula",
|
|
"text": "The kitchen kiss while holding a spatula"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_doorway_kiss",
|
|
"text": "The doorway kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_rain_kiss",
|
|
"text": "The rain kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_airport_reunion_kiss",
|
|
"text": "The airport reunion kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_kitchen_kiss_while_holding_a_spatula",
|
|
"text": "The kitchen kiss while holding a spatula"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_037",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a kiss feel personal to you?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kissing",
|
|
"meaning",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_timing",
|
|
"text": "The timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_way_i_hold_your_face",
|
|
"text": "The way I hold your face"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_softness",
|
|
"text": "The softness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_i_noticed_your_mood",
|
|
"text": "Knowing I noticed your mood"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_timing",
|
|
"text": "The timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_way_i_hold_your_face",
|
|
"text": "The way I hold your face"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_softness",
|
|
"text": "The softness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_i_noticed_your_mood",
|
|
"text": "Knowing I noticed your mood"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_038",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How does the amount of everyday kissing between us feel?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kissing",
|
|
"current_state",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "I would like more",
|
|
"max_label": "It feels just right"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_039",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kisses are easiest to enjoy in public?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kissing",
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_lip_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A quick lip kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_cheek_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A cheek kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_forehead_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A forehead kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_prefer_kissing_in_private",
|
|
"text": "I prefer kissing in private"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_lip_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A quick lip kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_cheek_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A cheek kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_forehead_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A forehead kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_prefer_kissing_in_private",
|
|
"text": "I prefer kissing in private"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_040",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which goodbye kisses sound most like us?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kissing",
|
|
"goodbyes",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quick_and_warm",
|
|
"text": "Quick and warm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "long_enough_to_delay_leaving",
|
|
"text": "Long enough to delay leaving"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_cheek_kiss_with_a_hug",
|
|
"text": "A cheek kiss with a hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_blown_kiss_from_a_ridiculous_distance",
|
|
"text": "A blown kiss from a ridiculous distance"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quick_and_warm",
|
|
"text": "Quick and warm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "long_enough_to_delay_leaving",
|
|
"text": "Long enough to delay leaving"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_cheek_kiss_with_a_hug",
|
|
"text": "A cheek kiss with a hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_blown_kiss_from_a_ridiculous_distance",
|
|
"text": "A blown kiss from a ridiculous distance"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_041",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can make kissing physically uncomfortable?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kissing",
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_much_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Too much pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_painful_angle",
|
|
"text": "A painful angle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "dry_or_irritated_lips",
|
|
"text": "Dry or irritated lips"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_unable_to_pause",
|
|
"text": "Feeling unable to pause"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "too_much_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Too much pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_painful_angle",
|
|
"text": "A painful angle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "dry_or_irritated_lips",
|
|
"text": "Dry or irritated lips"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_unable_to_pause",
|
|
"text": "Feeling unable to pause"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_042",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which things can make kissing more comfortable?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kissing",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_better_angle",
|
|
"text": "A better angle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slower_movement",
|
|
"text": "Slower movement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shorter_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A shorter kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_feedback",
|
|
"text": "Clear feedback"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_better_angle",
|
|
"text": "A better angle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slower_movement",
|
|
"text": "Slower movement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shorter_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A shorter kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_feedback",
|
|
"text": "Clear feedback"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_043",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "When do forehead kisses land best?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kissing",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_i_am_tired",
|
|
"text": "When I am tired"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_i_am_worried",
|
|
"text": "When I am worried"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_i_am_half_asleep",
|
|
"text": "When I am half asleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "almost_anytime",
|
|
"text": "Almost anytime"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_i_am_tired",
|
|
"text": "When I am tired"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_i_am_worried",
|
|
"text": "When I am worried"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_i_am_half_asleep",
|
|
"text": "When I am half asleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "almost_anytime",
|
|
"text": "Almost anytime"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_044",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "Which kiss between us would you gladly replay once?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kissing",
|
|
"memory",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_045",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should remain true about kissing even in a long relationship?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"kissing",
|
|
"long_term",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_stays_chosen",
|
|
"text": "It stays chosen"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_can_change_with_our_comfort",
|
|
"text": "It can change with our comfort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_does_not_have_to_lead_to_sex",
|
|
"text": "It does not have to lead to sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_can_ask_for_a_different_kind",
|
|
"text": "Either person can ask for a different kind"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_stays_chosen",
|
|
"text": "It stays chosen"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_can_change_with_our_comfort",
|
|
"text": "It can change with our comfort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_does_not_have_to_lead_to_sex",
|
|
"text": "It does not have to lead to sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_can_ask_for_a_different_kind",
|
|
"text": "Either person can ask for a different kind"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_046",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which cuddle setups sound most comfortable tonight?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"cuddling",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "side_by_side_under_one_blanket",
|
|
"text": "Side by side under one blanket"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "spooning",
|
|
"text": "Spooning"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_head_on_a_lap",
|
|
"text": "One head on a lap"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feet_touching_from_separate_spots",
|
|
"text": "Feet touching from separate spots"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "side_by_side_under_one_blanket",
|
|
"text": "Side by side under one blanket"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "spooning",
|
|
"text": "Spooning"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_head_on_a_lap",
|
|
"text": "One head on a lap"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feet_touching_from_separate_spots",
|
|
"text": "Feet touching from separate spots"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_047",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes cuddling easier to enjoy for longer?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"cuddling",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "enough_pillows",
|
|
"text": "Enough pillows"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_comfortable_temperature",
|
|
"text": "A comfortable temperature"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "room_to_change_positions",
|
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"text": "Room to change positions"
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},
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{
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"id": "no_pressure_to_stay_still",
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"text": "No pressure to stay still"
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}
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"options": [
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{
|
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"id": "enough_pillows",
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"text": "Enough pillows"
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},
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{
|
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"id": "a_comfortable_temperature",
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"text": "A comfortable temperature"
|
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},
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{
|
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"id": "room_to_change_positions",
|
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"text": "Room to change positions"
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "no_pressure_to_stay_still",
|
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"text": "No pressure to stay still"
|
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}
|
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],
|
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
|
|
},
|
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{
|
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"id": "physical_intimacy_048",
|
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "this_or_that",
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"text": "Full-body cuddling or one small point of contact?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
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"cuddling",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
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{
|
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"id": "full_body_cuddling",
|
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"text": "Full-body cuddling"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "one_small_point_of_contact",
|
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"text": "One small point of contact"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "full_body_cuddling",
|
|
"text": "Full-body cuddling"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_small_point_of_contact",
|
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"text": "One small point of contact"
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}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "physical_intimacy_049",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "Which points of contact feel cozy without trapping either person?",
|
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"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"cuddling",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shoulders_touching",
|
|
"text": "Shoulders touching"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "legs_resting_together",
|
|
"text": "Legs resting together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_on_an_arm",
|
|
"text": "A hand on an arm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feet_touching",
|
|
"text": "Feet touching"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shoulders_touching",
|
|
"text": "Shoulders touching"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "legs_resting_together",
|
|
"text": "Legs resting together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_on_an_arm",
|
|
"text": "A hand on an arm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feet_touching",
|
|
"text": "Feet touching"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_050",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps couch cuddling survive an entire movie?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"cuddling",
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_blanket_large_enough_for_diplomacy",
|
|
"text": "A blanket large enough for diplomacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pillows_placed_before_anyone_commits",
|
|
"text": "Pillows placed before anyone commits"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "permission_to_rearrange_halfway_through",
|
|
"text": "Permission to rearrange halfway through"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_remote_within_neutral_territory",
|
|
"text": "The remote within neutral territory"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_blanket_large_enough_for_diplomacy",
|
|
"text": "A blanket large enough for diplomacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pillows_placed_before_anyone_commits",
|
|
"text": "Pillows placed before anyone commits"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "permission_to_rearrange_halfway_through",
|
|
"text": "Permission to rearrange halfway through"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_remote_within_neutral_territory",
|
|
"text": "The remote within neutral territory"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_051",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which body part most deserves hazard pay during cuddling?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"cuddling",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_lower_arm",
|
|
"text": "The lower arm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_neck",
|
|
"text": "The neck"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_hip_against_the_couch_edge",
|
|
"text": "The hip against the couch edge"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_leg_under_both_blankets",
|
|
"text": "The leg under both blankets"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_lower_arm",
|
|
"text": "The lower arm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_neck",
|
|
"text": "The neck"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_hip_against_the_couch_edge",
|
|
"text": "The hip against the couch edge"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_leg_under_both_blankets",
|
|
"text": "The leg under both blankets"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_052",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "When is spooning most comfortable?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"cuddling",
|
|
"positions",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "for_a_short_while",
|
|
"text": "For a short while"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "before_falling_asleep",
|
|
"text": "Before falling asleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "on_a_cold_morning",
|
|
"text": "On a cold morning"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_either_person_can_switch_sides",
|
|
"text": "When either person can switch sides"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "for_a_short_while",
|
|
"text": "For a short while"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "before_falling_asleep",
|
|
"text": "Before falling asleep"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "on_a_cold_morning",
|
|
"text": "On a cold morning"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_either_person_can_switch_sides",
|
|
"text": "When either person can switch sides"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_053",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How easy is it for us to get physically comfortable together?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"cuddling",
|
|
"current_state",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Usually awkward",
|
|
"max_label": "Very easy"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_054",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should happen when one person gets too warm while cuddling?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"cuddling",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shift_to_lighter_contact",
|
|
"text": "Shift to lighter contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remove_the_blanket",
|
|
"text": "Remove the blanket"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_a_short_break",
|
|
"text": "Take a short break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_only_hands_or_feet_touching",
|
|
"text": "Keep only hands or feet touching"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shift_to_lighter_contact",
|
|
"text": "Shift to lighter contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remove_the_blanket",
|
|
"text": "Remove the blanket"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_a_short_break",
|
|
"text": "Take a short break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_only_hands_or_feet_touching",
|
|
"text": "Keep only hands or feet touching"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_055",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which bedtime compromise sounds fairest?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sleep",
|
|
"cuddling",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cuddle_first_then_separate",
|
|
"text": "Cuddle first, then separate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hold_hands_until_sleepy",
|
|
"text": "Hold hands until sleepy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_person_leans_in_briefly",
|
|
"text": "One person leans in briefly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "skip_cuddling_when_sleep_matters_more",
|
|
"text": "Skip cuddling when sleep matters more"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cuddle_first_then_separate",
|
|
"text": "Cuddle first, then separate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hold_hands_until_sleepy",
|
|
"text": "Hold hands until sleepy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_person_leans_in_briefly",
|
|
"text": "One person leans in briefly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "skip_cuddling_when_sleep_matters_more",
|
|
"text": "Skip cuddling when sleep matters more"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_056",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which cuddle adjustments should feel normal to ask for?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"cuddling",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "less_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Less pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_different_angle",
|
|
"text": "A different angle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_room",
|
|
"text": "More room"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_complete_position_change",
|
|
"text": "A complete position change"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "less_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Less pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_different_angle",
|
|
"text": "A different angle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_room",
|
|
"text": "More room"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_complete_position_change",
|
|
"text": "A complete position change"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_057",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can make cuddling feel emotionally comfortable too?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"cuddling",
|
|
"emotional_comfort",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_need_to_talk",
|
|
"text": "No need to talk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_expectation_of_sex",
|
|
"text": "No expectation of sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "freedom_to_move",
|
|
"text": "Freedom to move"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_affection_will_not_become_a_test",
|
|
"text": "Knowing affection will not become a test"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_need_to_talk",
|
|
"text": "No need to talk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_expectation_of_sex",
|
|
"text": "No expectation of sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "freedom_to_move",
|
|
"text": "Freedom to move"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_affection_will_not_become_a_test",
|
|
"text": "Knowing affection will not become a test"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_058",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which travel cuddle is actually possible without violating basic physics?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"travel",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shoulders_touching",
|
|
"text": "Shoulders touching"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_head_briefly_on_a_shoulder",
|
|
"text": "One head briefly on a shoulder"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "waiting_until_the_vehicle_stops",
|
|
"text": "Waiting until the vehicle stops"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shoulders_touching",
|
|
"text": "Shoulders touching"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_head_briefly_on_a_shoulder",
|
|
"text": "One head briefly on a shoulder"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "waiting_until_the_vehicle_stops",
|
|
"text": "Waiting until the vehicle stops"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_059",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is the most comfortable way for us to fit together physically?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"cuddling",
|
|
"preferences",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_060",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signs tell you cuddling is no longer comfortable?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
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"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"cuddling",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
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"physical_intimacy",
|
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"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_body_goes_tense",
|
|
"text": "Your body goes tense"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_keep_adjusting",
|
|
"text": "You keep adjusting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_feel_overheated",
|
|
"text": "You feel overheated"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_want_space_but_hesitate_to_say_it",
|
|
"text": "You want space but hesitate to say it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_body_goes_tense",
|
|
"text": "Your body goes tense"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_keep_adjusting",
|
|
"text": "You keep adjusting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_feel_overheated",
|
|
"text": "You feel overheated"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_want_space_but_hesitate_to_say_it",
|
|
"text": "You want space but hesitate to say it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_061",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which touch pressures feel best most often?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"pressure",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "very_light",
|
|
"text": "Very light"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_and_steady",
|
|
"text": "Gentle and steady"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "firm",
|
|
"text": "Firm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_depends_on_the_area",
|
|
"text": "It depends on the area"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "very_light",
|
|
"text": "Very light"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "gentle_and_steady",
|
|
"text": "Gentle and steady"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "firm",
|
|
"text": "Firm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_depends_on_the_area",
|
|
"text": "It depends on the area"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_062",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which textures make physical closeness more comfortable?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"textures",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft_clothing",
|
|
"text": "Soft clothing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "smooth_sheets",
|
|
"text": "Smooth sheets"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_fluffy_blanket",
|
|
"text": "A fluffy blanket"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bare_skin_when_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "Bare skin when comfortable"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "soft_clothing",
|
|
"text": "Soft clothing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "smooth_sheets",
|
|
"text": "Smooth sheets"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_fluffy_blanket",
|
|
"text": "A fluffy blanket"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bare_skin_when_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "Bare skin when comfortable"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_063",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Light fingertips or a steady full hand?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "light_fingertips",
|
|
"text": "Light fingertips"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_steady_full_hand",
|
|
"text": "A steady full hand"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "light_fingertips",
|
|
"text": "Light fingertips"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_steady_full_hand",
|
|
"text": "A steady full hand"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_064",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of touch can become irritating faster than expected?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"limits",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repeated_light_tapping",
|
|
"text": "Repeated light tapping"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tickling",
|
|
"text": "Tickling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hair_being_moved",
|
|
"text": "Hair being moved"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touch_in_the_same_spot_too_long",
|
|
"text": "Touch in the same spot too long"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repeated_light_tapping",
|
|
"text": "Repeated light tapping"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tickling",
|
|
"text": "Tickling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hair_being_moved",
|
|
"text": "Hair being moved"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touch_in_the_same_spot_too_long",
|
|
"text": "Touch in the same spot too long"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_065",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps your body relax into affectionate touch?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_where_the_touch_is_coming",
|
|
"text": "Knowing where the touch is coming"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "steady_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Steady pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calm_environment",
|
|
"text": "A calm environment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_able_to_guide_it",
|
|
"text": "Being able to guide it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_where_the_touch_is_coming",
|
|
"text": "Knowing where the touch is coming"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "steady_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Steady pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calm_environment",
|
|
"text": "A calm environment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_able_to_guide_it",
|
|
"text": "Being able to guide it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_066",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which sensory condition can ruin an otherwise excellent cuddle?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_freezing_foot",
|
|
"text": "One freezing foot"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_scratchy_fabric",
|
|
"text": "A scratchy fabric"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hair_in_somebody_s_face",
|
|
"text": "Hair in somebody's face"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_room_being_set_to_tropical_greenhouse",
|
|
"text": "The room being set to tropical greenhouse"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_freezing_foot",
|
|
"text": "One freezing foot"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_scratchy_fabric",
|
|
"text": "A scratchy fabric"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hair_in_somebody_s_face",
|
|
"text": "Hair in somebody's face"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_room_being_set_to_tropical_greenhouse",
|
|
"text": "The room being set to tropical greenhouse"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_067",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which areas are usually safest for casual affection?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"body_preferences",
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hands",
|
|
"text": "Hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shoulders",
|
|
"text": "Shoulders"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "upper_back",
|
|
"text": "Upper back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "wherever_i_have_already_said_is_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "Wherever I have already said is comfortable"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hands",
|
|
"text": "Hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "shoulders",
|
|
"text": "Shoulders"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "upper_back",
|
|
"text": "Upper back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "wherever_i_have_already_said_is_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "Wherever I have already said is comfortable"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_068",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well do I understand your touch preferences?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"current_state",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not well enough",
|
|
"max_label": "Very well"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_069",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes tickling enjoyable rather than irritating?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"tickling",
|
|
"playfulness",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_stays_brief",
|
|
"text": "It stays brief"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_person_can_stop_it_immediately",
|
|
"text": "The person can stop it immediately"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_happens_only_in_certain_moods",
|
|
"text": "It happens only in certain moods"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_are_laughing",
|
|
"text": "Both people are laughing"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_stays_brief",
|
|
"text": "It stays brief"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_person_can_stop_it_immediately",
|
|
"text": "The person can stop it immediately"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_happens_only_in_certain_moods",
|
|
"text": "It happens only in certain moods"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_are_laughing",
|
|
"text": "Both people are laughing"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_070",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which temperature makes close contact easiest?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"temperature",
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cool_room_warm_blanket",
|
|
"text": "Cool room, warm blanket"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "warm_room_light_contact",
|
|
"text": "Warm room, light contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cold_weather",
|
|
"text": "Cold weather"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "temperature_matters_less_than_comfort",
|
|
"text": "Temperature matters less than comfort"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cool_room_warm_blanket",
|
|
"text": "Cool room, warm blanket"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "warm_room_light_contact",
|
|
"text": "Warm room, light contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cold_weather",
|
|
"text": "Cold weather"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "temperature_matters_less_than_comfort",
|
|
"text": "Temperature matters less than comfort"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_071",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signals help when touch needs to change?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_softer",
|
|
"text": "Saying softer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "moving_the_hand_gently",
|
|
"text": "Moving the hand gently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_for_a_pause",
|
|
"text": "Asking for a pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changing_position",
|
|
"text": "Changing position"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_softer",
|
|
"text": "Saying softer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "moving_the_hand_gently",
|
|
"text": "Moving the hand gently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_for_a_pause",
|
|
"text": "Asking for a pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changing_position",
|
|
"text": "Changing position"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_072",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can make hair touching feel good?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hair_touch",
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slow_strokes",
|
|
"text": "Slow strokes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_light_scalp_rub",
|
|
"text": "A light scalp rub"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_hair_away_from_the_face",
|
|
"text": "Keeping hair away from the face"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_before_touching_styled_hair",
|
|
"text": "Asking before touching styled hair"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "slow_strokes",
|
|
"text": "Slow strokes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_light_scalp_rub",
|
|
"text": "A light scalp rub"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_hair_away_from_the_face",
|
|
"text": "Keeping hair away from the face"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_before_touching_styled_hair",
|
|
"text": "Asking before touching styled hair"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_073",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which option should be protected from unexpected cold hands?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_back",
|
|
"text": "Your back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_stomach",
|
|
"text": "Your stomach"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_neck",
|
|
"text": "Your neck"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "every_available_inch_of_skin",
|
|
"text": "Every available inch of skin"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_back",
|
|
"text": "Your back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_stomach",
|
|
"text": "Your stomach"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_neck",
|
|
"text": "Your neck"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "every_available_inch_of_skin",
|
|
"text": "Every available inch of skin"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_074",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How comfortable are you correcting touch in the moment?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
|
|
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_075",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should I remember about sensory preferences?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"respect",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "they_can_change_by_the_day",
|
|
"text": "They can change by the day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_favorite_touch_can_still_be_wrong_sometimes",
|
|
"text": "A favorite touch can still be wrong sometimes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfort_matters_more_than_habit",
|
|
"text": "Comfort matters more than habit"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_do_not_owe_a_reason_for_changing_your_mind",
|
|
"text": "You do not owe a reason for changing your mind"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "they_can_change_by_the_day",
|
|
"text": "They can change by the day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_favorite_touch_can_still_be_wrong_sometimes",
|
|
"text": "A favorite touch can still be wrong sometimes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfort_matters_more_than_habit",
|
|
"text": "Comfort matters more than habit"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_do_not_owe_a_reason_for_changing_your_mind",
|
|
"text": "You do not owe a reason for changing your mind"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_076",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of public affection feel comfortable?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_hug",
|
|
"text": "A quick hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_arm_around_you",
|
|
"text": "An arm around you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_prefer_affection_in_private",
|
|
"text": "I prefer affection in private"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_hug",
|
|
"text": "A quick hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "an_arm_around_you",
|
|
"text": "An arm around you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_prefer_affection_in_private",
|
|
"text": "I prefer affection in private"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_077",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which settings make public affection feel easiest?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"setting",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quiet_walk",
|
|
"text": "A quiet walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_casual_gathering",
|
|
"text": "A casual gathering"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_familiar_place",
|
|
"text": "A familiar place"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "somewhere_we_are_unlikely_to_be_watched_closely",
|
|
"text": "Somewhere we are unlikely to be watched closely"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quiet_walk",
|
|
"text": "A quiet walk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_casual_gathering",
|
|
"text": "A casual gathering"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_familiar_place",
|
|
"text": "A familiar place"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "somewhere_we_are_unlikely_to_be_watched_closely",
|
|
"text": "Somewhere we are unlikely to be watched closely"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_078",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How does affection around other people feel to you?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"current_state",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
|
|
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_079",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Hold hands in public or save touch for private?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hold_hands_in_public",
|
|
"text": "Hold hands in public"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "save_touch_for_private",
|
|
"text": "Save touch for private"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hold_hands_in_public",
|
|
"text": "Hold hands in public"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "save_touch_for_private",
|
|
"text": "Save touch for private"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_080",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which public gestures feel affectionate without feeling performative?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_on_your_back",
|
|
"text": "A hand on your back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands_naturally",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands naturally"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_brief_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A brief kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "standing_close",
|
|
"text": "Standing close"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_on_your_back",
|
|
"text": "A hand on your back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands_naturally",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands naturally"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_brief_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A brief kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "standing_close",
|
|
"text": "Standing close"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_081",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which situations can make public affection uncomfortable?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_watched",
|
|
"text": "Feeling watched"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cultural_or_family_concerns",
|
|
"text": "Cultural or family concerns"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_crowded_setting",
|
|
"text": "A crowded setting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_gesture_feeling_bigger_than_the_moment",
|
|
"text": "The gesture feeling bigger than the moment"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "feeling_watched",
|
|
"text": "Feeling watched"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cultural_or_family_concerns",
|
|
"text": "Cultural or family concerns"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_crowded_setting",
|
|
"text": "A crowded setting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_gesture_feeling_bigger_than_the_moment",
|
|
"text": "The gesture feeling bigger than the moment"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_082",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which public touch has the lowest chance of becoming a full committee discussion?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_shoulder_touch",
|
|
"text": "A quick shoulder touch"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_brief_hug",
|
|
"text": "A brief hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_secret_hand_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "A secret hand squeeze"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_shoulder_touch",
|
|
"text": "A quick shoulder touch"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_brief_hug",
|
|
"text": "A brief hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_secret_hand_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "A secret hand squeeze"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_083",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "How can we check public-affection comfort without making it awkward?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_beforehand",
|
|
"text": "Ask beforehand"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_a_familiar_signal",
|
|
"text": "Use a familiar signal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "start_small",
|
|
"text": "Start small"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_a_no_immediately",
|
|
"text": "Accept a no immediately"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_beforehand",
|
|
"text": "Ask beforehand"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_a_familiar_signal",
|
|
"text": "Use a familiar signal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "start_small",
|
|
"text": "Start small"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_a_no_immediately",
|
|
"text": "Accept a no immediately"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_084",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well do our public-affection preferences match?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"alignment",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Very different",
|
|
"max_label": "Very similar"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_085",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which family or social settings may call for less affection?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"context",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "formal_events",
|
|
"text": "Formal events"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "work_gatherings",
|
|
"text": "Work gatherings"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "places_where_one_person_feels_exposed",
|
|
"text": "Places where one person feels exposed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "any_setting_we_have_discussed_in_advance",
|
|
"text": "Any setting we have discussed in advance"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "formal_events",
|
|
"text": "Formal events"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "work_gatherings",
|
|
"text": "Work gatherings"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "places_where_one_person_feels_exposed",
|
|
"text": "Places where one person feels exposed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "any_setting_we_have_discussed_in_advance",
|
|
"text": "Any setting we have discussed in advance"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_086",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What is the best quiet signal that public affection is welcome?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"signals",
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reaching_for_your_hand",
|
|
"text": "Reaching for your hand"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaning_closer",
|
|
"text": "Leaning closer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touching_your_arm",
|
|
"text": "Touching your arm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_softly",
|
|
"text": "Asking softly"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reaching_for_your_hand",
|
|
"text": "Reaching for your hand"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaning_closer",
|
|
"text": "Leaning closer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touching_your_arm",
|
|
"text": "Touching your arm"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_softly",
|
|
"text": "Asking softly"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_087",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps different public-affection preferences coexist?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"differences",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_teasing_either_preference",
|
|
"text": "No teasing either preference"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agreeing_on_a_few_easy_gestures",
|
|
"text": "Agreeing on a few easy gestures"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "private_affection_still_gets_protected",
|
|
"text": "Private affection still gets protected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_can_change_their_mind",
|
|
"text": "Either person can change their mind"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_teasing_either_preference",
|
|
"text": "No teasing either preference"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agreeing_on_a_few_easy_gestures",
|
|
"text": "Agreeing on a few easy gestures"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "private_affection_still_gets_protected",
|
|
"text": "Private affection still gets protected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_can_change_their_mind",
|
|
"text": "Either person can change their mind"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_088",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of public closeness can feel supportive during stress?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"support",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "standing_shoulder_to_shoulder",
|
|
"text": "Standing shoulder to shoulder"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_brief_hug",
|
|
"text": "A brief hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_close_without_touching",
|
|
"text": "Keeping close without touching"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "standing_shoulder_to_shoulder",
|
|
"text": "Standing shoulder to shoulder"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_brief_hug",
|
|
"text": "A brief hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_close_without_touching",
|
|
"text": "Keeping close without touching"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_089",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which gesture can say we came together without announcing it to the county?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "walking_side_by_side",
|
|
"text": "Walking side by side"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_at_the_elbow",
|
|
"text": "A hand at the elbow"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_close",
|
|
"text": "Sitting close"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_highly_classified_hand_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "The highly classified hand squeeze"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "walking_side_by_side",
|
|
"text": "Walking side by side"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_at_the_elbow",
|
|
"text": "A hand at the elbow"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_close",
|
|
"text": "Sitting close"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_highly_classified_hand_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "The highly classified hand squeeze"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_090",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should never be assumed about public affection?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"public_affection",
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfort_is_the_same_everywhere",
|
|
"text": "Comfort is the same everywhere"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_past_yes_applies_today",
|
|
"text": "A past yes applies today"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_partner_owes_a_public_display",
|
|
"text": "One partner owes a public display"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "declining_means_embarrassment_about_the_relationship",
|
|
"text": "Declining means embarrassment about the relationship"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfort_is_the_same_everywhere",
|
|
"text": "Comfort is the same everywhere"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_past_yes_applies_today",
|
|
"text": "A past yes applies today"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_partner_owes_a_public_display",
|
|
"text": "One partner owes a public display"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "declining_means_embarrassment_about_the_relationship",
|
|
"text": "Declining means embarrassment about the relationship"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_091",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "When you are stressed, which kind of closeness helps most?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_firm_hug",
|
|
"text": "A firm hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_quietly_together",
|
|
"text": "Sitting quietly together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "space_first_touch_later",
|
|
"text": "Space first, touch later"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_firm_hug",
|
|
"text": "A firm hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_quietly_together",
|
|
"text": "Sitting quietly together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "space_first_touch_later",
|
|
"text": "Space first, touch later"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_092",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which touches can communicate support without requiring conversation?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"support",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_on_your_shoulder",
|
|
"text": "A hand on your shoulder"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hug_after_asking",
|
|
"text": "A hug after asking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_your_hand",
|
|
"text": "Holding your hand"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_with_knees_touching",
|
|
"text": "Sitting with knees touching"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_on_your_shoulder",
|
|
"text": "A hand on your shoulder"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hug_after_asking",
|
|
"text": "A hug after asking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_your_hand",
|
|
"text": "Holding your hand"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_with_knees_touching",
|
|
"text": "Sitting with knees touching"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_093",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How safe does comforting touch feel when you are upset?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"current_state",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not safe enough",
|
|
"max_label": "Very safe"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_094",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Comforting touch first or quiet space first?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comforting_touch_first",
|
|
"text": "Comforting touch first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_space_first",
|
|
"text": "Quiet space first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comforting_touch_first",
|
|
"text": "Comforting touch first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_space_first",
|
|
"text": "Quiet space first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_095",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should happen before touch during a tense moment?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress",
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_would_help",
|
|
"text": "Ask what would help"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "notice_whether_the_other_person_is_tense",
|
|
"text": "Notice whether the other person is tense"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_the_approach_slow",
|
|
"text": "Keep the approach slow"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_space_without_offense",
|
|
"text": "Accept space without offense"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_would_help",
|
|
"text": "Ask what would help"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "notice_whether_the_other_person_is_tense",
|
|
"text": "Notice whether the other person is tense"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_the_approach_slow",
|
|
"text": "Keep the approach slow"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_space_without_offense",
|
|
"text": "Accept space without offense"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_096",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which touch feels least demanding on a rough day?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_brief_hand_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "A brief hand squeeze"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_forehead_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A forehead kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Sitting nearby"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_touch_until_i_ask",
|
|
"text": "No touch until I ask"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_brief_hand_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "A brief hand squeeze"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_forehead_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A forehead kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Sitting nearby"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_touch_until_i_ask",
|
|
"text": "No touch until I ask"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_097",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which comfort plan works when words have officially resigned for the evening?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_blanket_and_shoulder_contact",
|
|
"text": "A blanket and shoulder contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quiet_hug",
|
|
"text": "A quiet hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tea_and_separate_couch_corners",
|
|
"text": "Tea and separate couch corners"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_nearby_without_fixing_anything",
|
|
"text": "Sitting nearby without fixing anything"
|
|
}
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"options": [
|
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{
|
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"id": "a_blanket_and_shoulder_contact",
|
|
"text": "A blanket and shoulder contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "a_quiet_hug",
|
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"text": "A quiet hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tea_and_separate_couch_corners",
|
|
"text": "Tea and separate couch corners"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "sitting_nearby_without_fixing_anything",
|
|
"text": "Sitting nearby without fixing anything"
|
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}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_098",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can make comforting touch miss the mark?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touching_before_listening",
|
|
"text": "Touching before listening"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_too_tightly",
|
|
"text": "Holding too tightly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "assuming_touch_will_solve_the_feeling",
|
|
"text": "Assuming touch will solve the feeling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_a_request_for_space_personally",
|
|
"text": "Taking a request for space personally"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touching_before_listening",
|
|
"text": "Touching before listening"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_too_tightly",
|
|
"text": "Holding too tightly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "assuming_touch_will_solve_the_feeling",
|
|
"text": "Assuming touch will solve the feeling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_a_request_for_space_personally",
|
|
"text": "Taking a request for space personally"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_099",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How easy is it for us to adjust when comfort needs differ?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"adaptability",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not easy yet",
|
|
"max_label": "Very easy"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_100",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps touch feel supportive after disappointment?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"support",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calm_approach",
|
|
"text": "A calm approach"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_demand_to_cheer_up",
|
|
"text": "No demand to cheer up"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_where_touch_feels_okay",
|
|
"text": "Asking where touch feels okay"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_the_moment_stay_quiet",
|
|
"text": "Letting the moment stay quiet"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calm_approach",
|
|
"text": "A calm approach"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_demand_to_cheer_up",
|
|
"text": "No demand to cheer up"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_where_touch_feels_okay",
|
|
"text": "Asking where touch feels okay"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_the_moment_stay_quiet",
|
|
"text": "Letting the moment stay quiet"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_101",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What is the gentlest way to reconnect after a hard conversation?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hold_hands",
|
|
"text": "Hold hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sit_close_without_touching",
|
|
"text": "Sit close without touching"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offer_a_brief_hug",
|
|
"text": "Offer a brief hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_feels_okay",
|
|
"text": "Ask what feels okay"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hold_hands",
|
|
"text": "Hold hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sit_close_without_touching",
|
|
"text": "Sit close without touching"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offer_a_brief_hug",
|
|
"text": "Offer a brief hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_feels_okay",
|
|
"text": "Ask what feels okay"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_102",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which forms of physical reassurance avoid making promises with touch?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reassurance",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "A hand squeeze"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hug_with_honest_words",
|
|
"text": "A hug with honest words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Sitting nearby"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touch_that_does_not_replace_the_needed_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Touch that does not replace the needed conversation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_squeeze",
|
|
"text": "A hand squeeze"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hug_with_honest_words",
|
|
"text": "A hug with honest words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_nearby",
|
|
"text": "Sitting nearby"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touch_that_does_not_replace_the_needed_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Touch that does not replace the needed conversation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_103",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can help after one person flinches or pulls away?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stop_immediately",
|
|
"text": "Stop immediately"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_not_demand_an_explanation",
|
|
"text": "Do not demand an explanation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_whether_space_helps",
|
|
"text": "Ask whether space helps"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_to_closeness_only_if_invited",
|
|
"text": "Return to closeness only if invited"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stop_immediately",
|
|
"text": "Stop immediately"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_not_demand_an_explanation",
|
|
"text": "Do not demand an explanation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_whether_space_helps",
|
|
"text": "Ask whether space helps"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_to_closeness_only_if_invited",
|
|
"text": "Return to closeness only if invited"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_104",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which quiet touch could say I am on your side?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"support",
|
|
"signals",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_your_hand",
|
|
"text": "Holding your hand"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_palm_between_your_shoulders",
|
|
"text": "A palm between your shoulders"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touching_knees",
|
|
"text": "Touching knees"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "waiting_for_you_to_reach_first",
|
|
"text": "Waiting for you to reach first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_your_hand",
|
|
"text": "Holding your hand"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_palm_between_your_shoulders",
|
|
"text": "A palm between your shoulders"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touching_knees",
|
|
"text": "Touching knees"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "waiting_for_you_to_reach_first",
|
|
"text": "Waiting for you to reach first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_105",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should remain true about comfort touch during conflict?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"conflict",
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_never_used_to_stop_the_conversation",
|
|
"text": "It is never used to stop the conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_no_is_respected",
|
|
"text": "A no is respected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touch_is_not_proof_that_the_issue_is_solved",
|
|
"text": "Touch is not proof that the issue is solved"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_can_choose_space",
|
|
"text": "Both people can choose space"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_never_used_to_stop_the_conversation",
|
|
"text": "It is never used to stop the conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_no_is_respected",
|
|
"text": "A no is respected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touch_is_not_proof_that_the_issue_is_solved",
|
|
"text": "Touch is not proof that the issue is solved"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_can_choose_space",
|
|
"text": "Both people can choose space"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_106",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which way of asking for touch feels most natural?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "can_i_hold_you",
|
|
"text": "Can I hold you?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "would_a_hug_help",
|
|
"text": "Would a hug help?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_you_want_closeness_or_space",
|
|
"text": "Do you want closeness or space?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reaching_out_and_waiting_for_your_response",
|
|
"text": "Reaching out and waiting for your response"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "can_i_hold_you",
|
|
"text": "Can I hold you?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "would_a_hug_help",
|
|
"text": "Would a hug help?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_you_want_closeness_or_space",
|
|
"text": "Do you want closeness or space?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reaching_out_and_waiting_for_your_response",
|
|
"text": "Reaching out and waiting for your response"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_107",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which words should feel welcome during any affectionate moment?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_right_now",
|
|
"text": "Not right now"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "softer",
|
|
"text": "Softer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "please_stop",
|
|
"text": "Please stop"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_would_rather_have_a_different_kind_of_touch",
|
|
"text": "I would rather have a different kind of touch"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_right_now",
|
|
"text": "Not right now"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "softer",
|
|
"text": "Softer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "please_stop",
|
|
"text": "Please stop"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_would_rather_have_a_different_kind_of_touch",
|
|
"text": "I would rather have a different kind of touch"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_108",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How safe does it feel to decline affection with me?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"current_state",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not safe enough",
|
|
"max_label": "Completely safe"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_109",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Ask with words or offer a hand and wait?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_with_words",
|
|
"text": "Ask with words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offer_a_hand_and_wait",
|
|
"text": "Offer a hand and wait"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_with_words",
|
|
"text": "Ask with words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offer_a_hand_and_wait",
|
|
"text": "Offer a hand and wait"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_110",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signs mean touch should pause immediately?",
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"depth": 3,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"consent",
|
|
"signals",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
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{
|
|
"id": "the_body_becomes_tense",
|
|
"text": "The body becomes tense"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_person_pulls_away",
|
|
"text": "The person pulls away"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_response_becomes_uncertain",
|
|
"text": "The response becomes uncertain"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_person_says_stop_or_not_now",
|
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"text": "The person says stop or not now"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_body_becomes_tense",
|
|
"text": "The body becomes tense"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_person_pulls_away",
|
|
"text": "The person pulls away"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_response_becomes_uncertain",
|
|
"text": "The response becomes uncertain"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_person_says_stop_or_not_now",
|
|
"text": "The person says stop or not now"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_111",
|
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "What makes a no to affection easier to trust?",
|
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"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"respect",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_sulking",
|
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"text": "No sulking"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_repeated_asking",
|
|
"text": "No repeated asking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_treating_it_as_rejection_of_the_relationship",
|
|
"text": "No treating it as rejection of the relationship"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "warmth_can_continue_without_touch",
|
|
"text": "Warmth can continue without touch"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_sulking",
|
|
"text": "No sulking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_repeated_asking",
|
|
"text": "No repeated asking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_treating_it_as_rejection_of_the_relationship",
|
|
"text": "No treating it as rejection of the relationship"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "warmth_can_continue_without_touch",
|
|
"text": "Warmth can continue without touch"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_112",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which changing affection preference would you most want accepted without explanation?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_a_hug_sounds_good",
|
|
"text": "Whether a hug sounds good"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_long_cuddling_lasts",
|
|
"text": "How long cuddling lasts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_public_touch_feels_okay",
|
|
"text": "Whether public touch feels okay"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "where_touch_feels_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "Where touch feels comfortable"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_a_hug_sounds_good",
|
|
"text": "Whether a hug sounds good"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_long_cuddling_lasts",
|
|
"text": "How long cuddling lasts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_public_touch_feels_okay",
|
|
"text": "Whether public touch feels okay"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "where_touch_feels_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "Where touch feels comfortable"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_113",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which situations can be mistaken for permission to touch?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_in_a_relationship",
|
|
"text": "Being in a relationship"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "enjoying_it_yesterday",
|
|
"text": "Enjoying it yesterday"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_close",
|
|
"text": "Sitting close"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_verbally_objecting",
|
|
"text": "Not verbally objecting"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "being_in_a_relationship",
|
|
"text": "Being in a relationship"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "enjoying_it_yesterday",
|
|
"text": "Enjoying it yesterday"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_close",
|
|
"text": "Sitting close"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_verbally_objecting",
|
|
"text": "Not verbally objecting"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_114",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How confident are you that I will notice when touch stops feeling good?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"trust",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not confident enough",
|
|
"max_label": "Very confident"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_115",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "How can we make changing a touch preference feel normal?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "say_it_plainly",
|
|
"text": "Say it plainly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_the_person_for_telling_you",
|
|
"text": "Thank the person for telling you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "adjust_without_debate",
|
|
"text": "Adjust without debate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remember_preferences_are_not_contracts",
|
|
"text": "Remember preferences are not contracts"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "say_it_plainly",
|
|
"text": "Say it plainly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_the_person_for_telling_you",
|
|
"text": "Thank the person for telling you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "adjust_without_debate",
|
|
"text": "Adjust without debate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remember_preferences_are_not_contracts",
|
|
"text": "Remember preferences are not contracts"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_116",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which first response best respects a declined offer of affection?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"respect",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "okay_thank_you_for_telling_me",
|
|
"text": "Okay, thank you for telling me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_problem",
|
|
"text": "No problem"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "would_space_help",
|
|
"text": "Would space help?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "would_another_kind_of_support_help",
|
|
"text": "Would another kind of support help?"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "okay_thank_you_for_telling_me",
|
|
"text": "Okay, thank you for telling me"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_problem",
|
|
"text": "No problem"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "would_space_help",
|
|
"text": "Would space help?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "would_another_kind_of_support_help",
|
|
"text": "Would another kind of support help?"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_117",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which boundaries protect affectionate touch from becoming pressure?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_does_not_owe_sex",
|
|
"text": "Affection does not owe sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfort_touch_stays_comfort_touch",
|
|
"text": "Comfort touch stays comfort touch"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_can_stop",
|
|
"text": "Either person can stop"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_scorekeeping",
|
|
"text": "No scorekeeping"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_does_not_owe_sex",
|
|
"text": "Affection does not owe sex"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfort_touch_stays_comfort_touch",
|
|
"text": "Comfort touch stays comfort touch"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_can_stop",
|
|
"text": "Either person can stop"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_scorekeeping",
|
|
"text": "No scorekeeping"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_118",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps touch after a boundary conversation feel safe again?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_the_person_who_set_the_boundary_lead",
|
|
"text": "Let the person who set the boundary lead"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "start_with_something_familiar",
|
|
"text": "Start with something familiar"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_clearly",
|
|
"text": "Ask clearly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_that_closeness_may_take_time",
|
|
"text": "Accept that closeness may take time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_the_person_who_set_the_boundary_lead",
|
|
"text": "Let the person who set the boundary lead"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "start_with_something_familiar",
|
|
"text": "Start with something familiar"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_clearly",
|
|
"text": "Ask clearly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_that_closeness_may_take_time",
|
|
"text": "Accept that closeness may take time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_119",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which phrase should end a touch debate instantly?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_right_now",
|
|
"text": "Not right now"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "please_stop",
|
|
"text": "Please stop"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_need_space",
|
|
"text": "I need space"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "any_sentence_containing_no",
|
|
"text": "Any sentence containing no"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_right_now",
|
|
"text": "Not right now"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "please_stop",
|
|
"text": "Please stop"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_need_space",
|
|
"text": "I need space"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "any_sentence_containing_no",
|
|
"text": "Any sentence containing no"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_120",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes physical consent feel warm rather than formal?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_caring_tone",
|
|
"text": "A caring tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "simple_language",
|
|
"text": "Simple language"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respecting_the_answer",
|
|
"text": "Respecting the answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "still_being_affectionate_in_other_welcome_ways",
|
|
"text": "Still being affectionate in other welcome ways"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_caring_tone",
|
|
"text": "A caring tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "simple_language",
|
|
"text": "Simple language"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respecting_the_answer",
|
|
"text": "Respecting the answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "still_being_affectionate_in_other_welcome_ways",
|
|
"text": "Still being affectionate in other welcome ways"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_121",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which adjustment makes closeness easiest when your body hurts?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"pain",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_pillows",
|
|
"text": "More pillows"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lighter_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Lighter pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shorter_cuddle",
|
|
"text": "A shorter cuddle"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_close_without_leaning",
|
|
"text": "Sitting close without leaning"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_pillows",
|
|
"text": "More pillows"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lighter_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Lighter pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shorter_cuddle",
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"text": "A shorter cuddle"
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},
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{
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"id": "sitting_close_without_leaning",
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"text": "Sitting close without leaning"
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}
|
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]
|
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}
|
|
},
|
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{
|
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"id": "physical_intimacy_122",
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "What should we consider when pain or illness changes touch?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
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"accessibility",
|
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"health",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
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"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
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"options": [
|
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{
|
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"id": "where_touch_feels_safe_today",
|
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"text": "Where touch feels safe today"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "how_long_contact_is_comfortable",
|
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"text": "How long contact is comfortable"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "whether_support_is_needed",
|
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"text": "Whether support is needed"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "that_preferences_may_change_quickly",
|
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"text": "That preferences may change quickly"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "where_touch_feels_safe_today",
|
|
"text": "Where touch feels safe today"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_long_contact_is_comfortable",
|
|
"text": "How long contact is comfortable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_support_is_needed",
|
|
"text": "Whether support is needed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "that_preferences_may_change_quickly",
|
|
"text": "That preferences may change quickly"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_123",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How comfortable are you telling me when touch causes discomfort?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"current_state",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
|
|
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_124",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Adjust the position or switch to a different kind of closeness?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "adjust_the_position",
|
|
"text": "Adjust the position"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "switch_to_a_different_kind_of_closeness",
|
|
"text": "Switch to a different kind of closeness"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "adjust_the_position",
|
|
"text": "Adjust the position"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "switch_to_a_different_kind_of_closeness",
|
|
"text": "Switch to a different kind of closeness"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_125",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which forms of closeness work on low-energy days?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"low_energy",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_shoulder_to_shoulder",
|
|
"text": "Sitting shoulder to shoulder"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_hug",
|
|
"text": "A short hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "resting_nearby_without_touching",
|
|
"text": "Resting nearby without touching"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_shoulder_to_shoulder",
|
|
"text": "Sitting shoulder to shoulder"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_hug",
|
|
"text": "A short hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "resting_nearby_without_touching",
|
|
"text": "Resting nearby without touching"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_126",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can help when one person's mobility is limited?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"mobility",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bring_closeness_to_a_comfortable_position",
|
|
"text": "Bring closeness to a comfortable position"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_the_person_direct_movement",
|
|
"text": "Let the person direct movement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_surprise_pulling_or_lifting",
|
|
"text": "Avoid surprise pulling or lifting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_supports_without_making_a_production_of_it",
|
|
"text": "Use supports without making a production of it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bring_closeness_to_a_comfortable_position",
|
|
"text": "Bring closeness to a comfortable position"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_the_person_direct_movement",
|
|
"text": "Let the person direct movement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_surprise_pulling_or_lifting",
|
|
"text": "Avoid surprise pulling or lifting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_supports_without_making_a_production_of_it",
|
|
"text": "Use supports without making a production of it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_127",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which accessibility tool deserves honorary membership in the relationship?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_extra_pillow",
|
|
"text": "The extra pillow"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_heating_pad",
|
|
"text": "The heating pad"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_supportive_chair",
|
|
"text": "The supportive chair"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_blanket_rolled_into_a_strangely_specific_shape",
|
|
"text": "The blanket rolled into a strangely specific shape"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_extra_pillow",
|
|
"text": "The extra pillow"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_heating_pad",
|
|
"text": "The heating pad"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_supportive_chair",
|
|
"text": "The supportive chair"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_blanket_rolled_into_a_strangely_specific_shape",
|
|
"text": "The blanket rolled into a strangely specific shape"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_128",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "How can affection adapt during recovery from an injury or procedure?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"recovery",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_before_touching_sensitive_areas",
|
|
"text": "Ask before touching sensitive areas"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_shorter_contact",
|
|
"text": "Use shorter contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choose_a_safer_position",
|
|
"text": "Choose a safer position"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_healing_take_priority",
|
|
"text": "Let healing take priority"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_before_touching_sensitive_areas",
|
|
"text": "Ask before touching sensitive areas"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_shorter_contact",
|
|
"text": "Use shorter contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choose_a_safer_position",
|
|
"text": "Choose a safer position"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_healing_take_priority",
|
|
"text": "Let healing take priority"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_129",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How well does our physical affection adapt to body changes?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"adaptability",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not well enough",
|
|
"max_label": "Very well"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_130",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which changes may affect how touch feels from one day to another?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"body_changes",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pain",
|
|
"text": "Pain"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fatigue",
|
|
"text": "Fatigue"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "temperature_sensitivity",
|
|
"text": "Temperature sensitivity"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "medication_or_illness",
|
|
"text": "Medication or illness"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pain",
|
|
"text": "Pain"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fatigue",
|
|
"text": "Fatigue"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "temperature_sensitivity",
|
|
"text": "Temperature sensitivity"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "medication_or_illness",
|
|
"text": "Medication or illness"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_131",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should happen when a familiar cuddle suddenly hurts?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"pain",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stop_and_reposition",
|
|
"text": "Stop and reposition"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "switch_to_lighter_contact",
|
|
"text": "Switch to lighter contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_changed",
|
|
"text": "Ask what changed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choose_another_form_of_closeness",
|
|
"text": "Choose another form of closeness"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stop_and_reposition",
|
|
"text": "Stop and reposition"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "switch_to_lighter_contact",
|
|
"text": "Switch to lighter contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_changed",
|
|
"text": "Ask what changed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choose_another_form_of_closeness",
|
|
"text": "Choose another form of closeness"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_132",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps body changes feel less embarrassing during affection?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"body_image",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_teasing",
|
|
"text": "No teasing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure_to_explain_everything",
|
|
"text": "No pressure to explain everything"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "practical_adjustments_without_drama",
|
|
"text": "Practical adjustments without drama"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "continuing_to_show_genuine_affection",
|
|
"text": "Continuing to show genuine affection"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_teasing",
|
|
"text": "No teasing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure_to_explain_everything",
|
|
"text": "No pressure to explain everything"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "practical_adjustments_without_drama",
|
|
"text": "Practical adjustments without drama"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "continuing_to_show_genuine_affection",
|
|
"text": "Continuing to show genuine affection"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_133",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of touch may be easiest during sensory overload?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"sensory",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "firm_steady_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Firm steady pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_predictable_point_of_contact",
|
|
"text": "One predictable point of contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_offered_but_not_placed",
|
|
"text": "A hand offered but not placed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_touch_until_the_overload_settles",
|
|
"text": "No touch until the overload settles"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "firm_steady_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Firm steady pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_predictable_point_of_contact",
|
|
"text": "One predictable point of contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hand_offered_but_not_placed",
|
|
"text": "A hand offered but not placed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_touch_until_the_overload_settles",
|
|
"text": "No touch until the overload settles"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_134",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which phrase best protects comfort without killing the mood?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "that_angle_hurts",
|
|
"text": "That angle hurts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lighter_please",
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"text": "Lighter, please"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "can_we_move",
|
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"text": "Can we move?"
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "i_need_a_break",
|
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"text": "I need a break"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "that_angle_hurts",
|
|
"text": "That angle hurts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "lighter_please",
|
|
"text": "Lighter, please"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "can_we_move",
|
|
"text": "Can we move?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_need_a_break",
|
|
"text": "I need a break"
|
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}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "physical_intimacy_135",
|
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should guide affection when bodies change over time?",
|
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"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accessibility",
|
|
"long_term",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "current_comfort",
|
|
"text": "Current comfort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honest_feedback",
|
|
"text": "Honest feedback"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "creativity_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Creativity without pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_that_does_not_depend_on_physical_ability",
|
|
"text": "Affection that does not depend on physical ability"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "current_comfort",
|
|
"text": "Current comfort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honest_feedback",
|
|
"text": "Honest feedback"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "creativity_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Creativity without pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_that_does_not_depend_on_physical_ability",
|
|
"text": "Affection that does not depend on physical ability"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_136",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which playful affection would make you smile fastest?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"playfulness",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_surprise_dance_in_the_kitchen",
|
|
"text": "A surprise dance in the kitchen"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_dramatic_dip_after_asking",
|
|
"text": "A dramatic dip after asking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_nose_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A nose kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_ridiculous_formal_handshake",
|
|
"text": "A ridiculous formal handshake"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_surprise_dance_in_the_kitchen",
|
|
"text": "A surprise dance in the kitchen"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_dramatic_dip_after_asking",
|
|
"text": "A dramatic dip after asking"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_nose_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A nose kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_ridiculous_formal_handshake",
|
|
"text": "A ridiculous formal handshake"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_137",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which affectionate traditions could still be fun years from now?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term",
|
|
"traditions",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_goodbye_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A goodbye kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_reunion_hug",
|
|
"text": "A reunion hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands_on_walks",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands on walks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_secret_signal_in_public",
|
|
"text": "A secret signal in public"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_goodbye_kiss",
|
|
"text": "A goodbye kiss"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_reunion_hug",
|
|
"text": "A reunion hug"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands_on_walks",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands on walks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_secret_signal_in_public",
|
|
"text": "A secret signal in public"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_138",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How playful does our physical affection feel lately?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"playfulness",
|
|
"current_state",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not very playful",
|
|
"max_label": "Very playful"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_139",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Bring back an old affectionate habit or invent a new one?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bring_back_an_old_habit",
|
|
"text": "Bring back an old habit"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "invent_a_new_one",
|
|
"text": "Invent a new one"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bring_back_an_old_habit",
|
|
"text": "Bring back an old habit"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "invent_a_new_one",
|
|
"text": "Invent a new one"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_140",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What keeps affection from becoming background noise?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term",
|
|
"attention",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changing_the_timing",
|
|
"text": "Changing the timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_eye_contact",
|
|
"text": "Making eye contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_touch_instead_of_doing_it_automatically",
|
|
"text": "Choosing touch instead of doing it automatically"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "still_asking_what_feels_good",
|
|
"text": "Still asking what feels good"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changing_the_timing",
|
|
"text": "Changing the timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_eye_contact",
|
|
"text": "Making eye contact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_touch_instead_of_doing_it_automatically",
|
|
"text": "Choosing touch instead of doing it automatically"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "still_asking_what_feels_good",
|
|
"text": "Still asking what feels good"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_141",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which forms of affection age especially well?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "forehead_kisses",
|
|
"text": "Forehead kisses"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaning_together",
|
|
"text": "Leaning together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hug_that_lasts_long_enough",
|
|
"text": "A hug that lasts long enough"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "forehead_kisses",
|
|
"text": "Forehead kisses"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "leaning_together",
|
|
"text": "Leaning together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hug_that_lasts_long_enough",
|
|
"text": "A hug that lasts long enough"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_142",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which future-us affection habit sounds most realistic?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"long_term",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands_while_complaining_about_the_weather",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands while complaining about the weather"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_one_blanket_badly",
|
|
"text": "Sharing one blanket badly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_kiss_before_discussing_prescriptions",
|
|
"text": "A kiss before discussing prescriptions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "still_fighting_over_the_comfortable_chair",
|
|
"text": "Still fighting over the comfortable chair"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "holding_hands_while_complaining_about_the_weather",
|
|
"text": "Holding hands while complaining about the weather"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_one_blanket_badly",
|
|
"text": "Sharing one blanket badly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_kiss_before_discussing_prescriptions",
|
|
"text": "A kiss before discussing prescriptions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "still_fighting_over_the_comfortable_chair",
|
|
"text": "Still fighting over the comfortable chair"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_143",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can make affection return after a distant season?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reconnection",
|
|
"long_term",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "start_small",
|
|
"text": "Start small"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_what_has_felt_missing",
|
|
"text": "Name what has felt missing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_either_person_set_the_pace",
|
|
"text": "Let either person set the pace"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choose_familiar_touch_without_forcing_emotion",
|
|
"text": "Choose familiar touch without forcing emotion"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "start_small",
|
|
"text": "Start small"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_what_has_felt_missing",
|
|
"text": "Name what has felt missing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_either_person_set_the_pace",
|
|
"text": "Let either person set the pace"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choose_familiar_touch_without_forcing_emotion",
|
|
"text": "Choose familiar touch without forcing emotion"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_144",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one way you hope our physical closeness grows over time?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term",
|
|
"hope",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_145",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which changes could refresh nonsexual closeness?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"novelty",
|
|
"long_term",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_new_greeting_ritual",
|
|
"text": "A new greeting ritual"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_walks_holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "More walks holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_regular_cuddle_break",
|
|
"text": "A regular cuddle break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "learning_each_other_s_current_preferences",
|
|
"text": "Learning each other's current preferences"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_new_greeting_ritual",
|
|
"text": "A new greeting ritual"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_walks_holding_hands",
|
|
"text": "More walks holding hands"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_regular_cuddle_break",
|
|
"text": "A regular cuddle break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "learning_each_other_s_current_preferences",
|
|
"text": "Learning each other's current preferences"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_146",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which affectionate milestone deserves a completely unnecessary certificate?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"humor",
|
|
"milestones",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_perfect_couch_arrangement",
|
|
"text": "The perfect couch arrangement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_week_of_real_hello_hugs",
|
|
"text": "A week of real hello hugs"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "successfully_sharing_a_blanket",
|
|
"text": "Successfully sharing a blanket"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remembering_which_shoulder_is_the_comfortable_one",
|
|
"text": "Remembering which shoulder is the comfortable one"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_perfect_couch_arrangement",
|
|
"text": "The perfect couch arrangement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_week_of_real_hello_hugs",
|
|
"text": "A week of real hello hugs"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "successfully_sharing_a_blanket",
|
|
"text": "Successfully sharing a blanket"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remembering_which_shoulder_is_the_comfortable_one",
|
|
"text": "Remembering which shoulder is the comfortable one"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_147",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What should future affection never become?",
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"depth": 3,
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"long_term",
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"boundaries",
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"physical_intimacy",
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"consent_first"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "an_obligation",
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"text": "An obligation"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_test_of_love",
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"text": "A test of love"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_substitute_for_talking",
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"text": "A substitute for talking"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_guaranteed_path_to_sex",
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"text": "A guaranteed path to sex"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "an_obligation",
|
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"text": "An obligation"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "a_test_of_love",
|
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"text": "A test of love"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "a_substitute_for_talking",
|
|
"text": "A substitute for talking"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "a_guaranteed_path_to_sex",
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"text": "A guaranteed path to sex"
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}
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],
|
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
|
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},
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{
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"id": "physical_intimacy_148",
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"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which signs would show our physical closeness is healthy?",
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"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term",
|
|
"wellbeing",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
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"id": "both_people_initiate",
|
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"text": "Both people initiate"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_can_decline",
|
|
"text": "Both people can decline"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touch_changes_with_comfort",
|
|
"text": "Touch changes with comfort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_still_feels_warm",
|
|
"text": "Affection still feels warm"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_initiate",
|
|
"text": "Both people initiate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_can_decline",
|
|
"text": "Both people can decline"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "touch_changes_with_comfort",
|
|
"text": "Touch changes with comfort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_still_feels_warm",
|
|
"text": "Affection still feels warm"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_149",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What is the main reason to keep learning each other's touch preferences?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term",
|
|
"growth",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bodies_change",
|
|
"text": "Bodies change"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "moods_change",
|
|
"text": "Moods change"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfort_changes",
|
|
"text": "Comfort changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_not_mind_readers",
|
|
"text": "We are not mind readers"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "bodies_change",
|
|
"text": "Bodies change"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "moods_change",
|
|
"text": "Moods change"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfort_changes",
|
|
"text": "Comfort changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_not_mind_readers",
|
|
"text": "We are not mind readers"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "physical_intimacy_150",
|
|
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make physical intimacy feel like something we keep choosing?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"long_term",
|
|
"mutuality",
|
|
"physical_intimacy",
|
|
"consent_first"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "curiosity",
|
|
"text": "Curiosity"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "easy_consent",
|
|
"text": "Easy consent"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "regular_small_affection",
|
|
"text": "Regular small affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respect_when_either_person_wants_space",
|
|
"text": "Respect when either person wants space"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "curiosity",
|
|
"text": "Curiosity"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "easy_consent",
|
|
"text": "Easy consent"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "regular_small_affection",
|
|
"text": "Regular small affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respect_when_either_person_wants_space",
|
|
"text": "Respect when either person wants space"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|