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{
"category": {
"id": "values",
"display_name": "Values",
"description": "Warm, practical questions about the principles, priorities, tradeoffs, integrity, identity, fairness, freedom, care, and everyday choices that shape a couple's shared life without turning values into a test of agreement.",
"access": "mixed",
"icon_name": "explore",
"schema_version": "question_v2",
"metadata": {
"total_questions": 150,
"free_questions": 45,
"premium_questions": 105,
"planned_type_counts": {
"multi_choice": 90,
"single_choice": 30,
"scale": 15,
"this_or_that": 10,
"written": 5
},
"planned_depth_counts": {
"1": 50,
"2": 70,
"3": 30
},
"legacy_question_count": 250,
"legacy_written_questions": 150,
"catalog_change": -100,
"content_version": "values_150_final_v2",
"mass_rewrite_reason": "The legacy pack contained 250 questions, including 150 written responses and invalid production depth values above 3. More than 60 percent failed the current interaction and schema standards.",
"pack_purpose": "Help couples name what matters, notice how values appear in ordinary choices, understand meaningful differences, and make tradeoffs without treating one person's values as morally superior.",
"user_feeling": "Known, respected, thoughtful, and free to differ.",
"relationship_outcome": "Clearer shared priorities, better value-based decisions, less moralizing, and more respect for individual convictions.",
"free_value": "Accessible questions about everyday priorities, kindness, honesty, fairness, freedom, family influence, and values visible in ordinary choices.",
"premium_value": "Deeper tradeoffs, value conflicts, identity change, outside pressure, integrity under strain, ethical uncertainty, and long-term alignment.",
"related_pack_boundary": "Values owns principles, priorities, integrity, fairness, freedom, care, tradition, identity, moral tradeoffs, and how beliefs shape choices. Future owns specific plans and hoped-for outcomes. Trust owns dependability, honesty, privacy, and security. Money owns financial choices. Marriage owns commitment and the institution or meaning of marriage. Gratitude owns appreciation. Difficult Conversations owns how hard topics are discussed.",
"safety_boundary": "Questions must not pressure partners to share the same religion, politics, family traditions, identity, or moral conclusions. Differences are not treated as defects, and no answer should endorse discrimination, coercion, isolation, or using values language to control another person.",
"humor_target": "Approximately 3 to 8 percent, using low-stakes humor about family crests, unofficial rules, grocery-cart ethics, tiny hills to die on, and ordinary quirks.",
"coverage_sections": [
"everyday_values_and_small_choices",
"shared_priorities_and_couple_identity",
"kindness_fairness_and_respect",
"honesty_integrity_and_accountability",
"freedom_independence_and_belonging",
"family_culture_tradition_and_belief",
"tradeoffs_disagreement_and_moral_uncertainty",
"work_success_service_and_contribution",
"change_growth_and_outside_pressure",
"long_term_alignment_and_shared_compass"
],
"review_workflow": "Six controlled 25-question batches, three 50-question checkpoints, a 100-question guide refresh, and a final per-file and local catalog audit.",
"final_validation": "pass",
"last_completed_batch": 6,
"checkpoint_50": "pass_after_targeted_patches",
"checkpoint_100": "pass_after_targeted_patches",
"context_refresh_100": "Content guide, quality checklist, schema, values boundary, first 100 questions, type balance, depth balance, and repetition re-reviewed.",
"type_counts": {
"multi_choice": 90,
"single_choice": 30,
"scale": 15,
"this_or_that": 10,
"written": 5
},
"depth_counts": {
"1": 50,
"2": 70,
"3": 30
},
"depth_percentages": {
"light": 33.3,
"medium": 46.7,
"deep": 20.0
},
"final_editorial_patches": 7,
"catalog_impact": {
"old_question_count": 250,
"new_question_count": 150,
"net_change": -100,
"old_free_questions": 75,
"new_free_questions": 45,
"old_premium_questions": 175,
"new_premium_questions": 105,
"intentional": true
},
"schema_changes": "Reduced the legacy pack to 150 questions, reduced written prompts from 150 to 5, converted all depths to integers 1–3, and added required top-level options mirrored under answer_config for choice questions.",
"catalog_validation_scope": "Per-file validation completed. Exact and conservative near-duplicate checks also passed against the completed production packs available in this workspace. Run the repository-wide import gate after replacing the source file.",
"final_review": "Complete guide-driven rebuild and production audit. Replaced the 250-question legacy pack with 150 varied, mostly tap-based questions; kept values focused on principles, priorities, integrity, fairness, freedom, belief, identity, contribution, tradeoffs, and long-term alignment; protected meaningful disagreement and personal autonomy; and validated schema, option fit, safety, uniqueness, repetition, six 25-question batches, and three 50-question checkpoints."
}
},
"questions": [
{
"id": "values_001",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which everyday choices reveal a person's values most clearly?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_life",
"small_choices",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "how_they_treat_service_workers",
"text": "How they treat service workers"
},
{
"id": "what_they_do_when_nobody_is_watching",
"text": "What they do when nobody is watching"
},
{
"id": "how_they_use_limited_time",
"text": "How they use limited time"
},
{
"id": "how_they_respond_to_mistakes",
"text": "How they respond to mistakes"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "how_they_treat_service_workers",
"text": "How they treat service workers"
},
{
"id": "what_they_do_when_nobody_is_watching",
"text": "What they do when nobody is watching"
},
{
"id": "how_they_use_limited_time",
"text": "How they use limited time"
},
{
"id": "how_they_respond_to_mistakes",
"text": "How they respond to mistakes"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_002",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which value shows up most in an ordinary Tuesday?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_life",
"preferences",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "kindness",
"text": "Kindness"
},
{
"id": "reliability",
"text": "Reliability"
},
{
"id": "curiosity",
"text": "Curiosity"
},
{
"id": "fairness",
"text": "Fairness"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "kindness",
"text": "Kindness"
},
{
"id": "reliability",
"text": "Reliability"
},
{
"id": "curiosity",
"text": "Curiosity"
},
{
"id": "fairness",
"text": "Fairness"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_003",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Keep your word or admit quickly when you cannot?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"integrity",
"quick_choice",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "keep_your_word",
"text": "Keep your word"
},
{
"id": "admit_quickly_when_you_cannot",
"text": "Admit quickly when you cannot"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "keep_your_word",
"text": "Keep your word"
},
{
"id": "admit_quickly_when_you_cannot",
"text": "Admit quickly when you cannot"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_004",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a value feel lived rather than merely claimed?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"integrity",
"actions",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_shapes_inconvenient_choices",
"text": "It shapes inconvenient choices"
},
{
"id": "it_appears_consistently",
"text": "It appears consistently"
},
{
"id": "it_survives_outside_attention",
"text": "It survives outside attention"
},
{
"id": "mistakes_are_acknowledged",
"text": "Mistakes are acknowledged"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_shapes_inconvenient_choices",
"text": "It shapes inconvenient choices"
},
{
"id": "it_appears_consistently",
"text": "It appears consistently"
},
{
"id": "it_survives_outside_attention",
"text": "It survives outside attention"
},
{
"id": "mistakes_are_acknowledged",
"text": "Mistakes are acknowledged"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_005",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How clearly do our daily choices reflect what matters to us?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_life",
"current_state",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not clearly",
"max_label": "Very clearly"
}
},
{
"id": "values_006",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which small decisions can carry more meaning than expected?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"small_choices",
"priorities",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "who_gets_our_attention",
"text": "Who gets our attention"
},
{
"id": "what_we_postpone",
"text": "What we postpone"
},
{
"id": "how_we_spend_a_free_hour",
"text": "How we spend a free hour"
},
{
"id": "what_we_protect_when_tired",
"text": "What we protect when tired"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "who_gets_our_attention",
"text": "Who gets our attention"
},
{
"id": "what_we_postpone",
"text": "What we postpone"
},
{
"id": "how_we_spend_a_free_hour",
"text": "How we spend a free hour"
},
{
"id": "what_we_protect_when_tired",
"text": "What we protect when tired"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_007",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which tiny value test appears most often in real life?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"humor",
"daily_life",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "returning_the_shopping_cart",
"text": "Returning the shopping cart"
},
{
"id": "telling_someone_their_light_is_on",
"text": "Telling someone their light is on"
},
{
"id": "leaving_the_last_snack",
"text": "Leaving the last snack"
},
{
"id": "admitting_who_finished_the_good_coffee",
"text": "Admitting who finished the good coffee"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "returning_the_shopping_cart",
"text": "Returning the shopping cart"
},
{
"id": "telling_someone_their_light_is_on",
"text": "Telling someone their light is on"
},
{
"id": "leaving_the_last_snack",
"text": "Leaving the last snack"
},
{
"id": "admitting_who_finished_the_good_coffee",
"text": "Admitting who finished the good coffee"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_008",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us notice values without turning every choice into a debate?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"awareness",
"low_pressure",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "look_for_patterns",
"text": "Look for patterns"
},
{
"id": "ask_with_curiosity",
"text": "Ask with curiosity"
},
{
"id": "avoid_assigning_motives",
"text": "Avoid assigning motives"
},
{
"id": "leave_room_for_ordinary_preferences",
"text": "Leave room for ordinary preferences"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "look_for_patterns",
"text": "Look for patterns"
},
{
"id": "ask_with_curiosity",
"text": "Ask with curiosity"
},
{
"id": "avoid_assigning_motives",
"text": "Avoid assigning motives"
},
{
"id": "leave_room_for_ordinary_preferences",
"text": "Leave room for ordinary preferences"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_009",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which choices can show care without being dramatic?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"care",
"daily_life",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "making_room_for_someone_s_needs",
"text": "Making room for someone's needs"
},
{
"id": "remembering_a_difficult_day",
"text": "Remembering a difficult day"
},
{
"id": "choosing_words_carefully",
"text": "Choosing words carefully"
},
{
"id": "helping_without_making_it_a_performance",
"text": "Helping without making it a performance"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "making_room_for_someone_s_needs",
"text": "Making room for someone's needs"
},
{
"id": "remembering_a_difficult_day",
"text": "Remembering a difficult day"
},
{
"id": "choosing_words_carefully",
"text": "Choosing words carefully"
},
{
"id": "helping_without_making_it_a_performance",
"text": "Helping without making it a performance"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_010",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which conditions make a principle easier to live consistently?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"principles",
"habits",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_simple_habit",
"text": "A simple habit"
},
{
"id": "a_clear_boundary",
"text": "A clear boundary"
},
{
"id": "people_who_support_it",
"text": "People who support it"
},
{
"id": "knowing_why_it_matters",
"text": "Knowing why it matters"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_simple_habit",
"text": "A simple habit"
},
{
"id": "a_clear_boundary",
"text": "A clear boundary"
},
{
"id": "people_who_support_it",
"text": "People who support it"
},
{
"id": "knowing_why_it_matters",
"text": "Knowing why it matters"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_011",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which values are easiest to recognize through actions?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"actions",
"recognition",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "generosity",
"text": "Generosity"
},
{
"id": "patience",
"text": "Patience"
},
{
"id": "honesty",
"text": "Honesty"
},
{
"id": "responsibility",
"text": "Responsibility"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "generosity",
"text": "Generosity"
},
{
"id": "patience",
"text": "Patience"
},
{
"id": "honesty",
"text": "Honesty"
},
{
"id": "responsibility",
"text": "Responsibility"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_012",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make a good intention miss its own value?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"intentions",
"impact",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ignoring_the_effect_on_others",
"text": "Ignoring the effect on others"
},
{
"id": "using_urgency_as_an_excuse",
"text": "Using urgency as an excuse"
},
{
"id": "refusing_feedback",
"text": "Refusing feedback"
},
{
"id": "caring_more_about_appearing_good",
"text": "Caring more about appearing good"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ignoring_the_effect_on_others",
"text": "Ignoring the effect on others"
},
{
"id": "using_urgency_as_an_excuse",
"text": "Using urgency as an excuse"
},
{
"id": "refusing_feedback",
"text": "Refusing feedback"
},
{
"id": "caring_more_about_appearing_good",
"text": "Caring more about appearing good"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_013",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Be consistent or stay open to changing your mind?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"growth",
"quick_choice",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "be_consistent",
"text": "Be consistent"
},
{
"id": "stay_open_to_changing_your_mind",
"text": "Stay open to changing your mind"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "be_consistent",
"text": "Be consistent"
},
{
"id": "stay_open_to_changing_your_mind",
"text": "Stay open to changing your mind"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_014",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a value survive a busy or inconvenient week?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"pressure",
"consistency",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_small_realistic_version",
"text": "A small realistic version"
},
{
"id": "a_reminder_of_the_reason",
"text": "A reminder of the reason"
},
{
"id": "support_from_each_other",
"text": "Support from each other"
},
{
"id": "permission_to_adjust_the_method",
"text": "Permission to adjust the method"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_small_realistic_version",
"text": "A small realistic version"
},
{
"id": "a_reminder_of_the_reason",
"text": "A reminder of the reason"
},
{
"id": "support_from_each_other",
"text": "Support from each other"
},
{
"id": "permission_to_adjust_the_method",
"text": "Permission to adjust the method"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_015",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one value you notice in the way I handle ordinary life?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"appreciation",
"daily_life",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "values_016",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which actions can show respect during a disagreement?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"respect",
"disagreement",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "letting_the_other_person_finish",
"text": "Letting the other person finish"
},
{
"id": "avoiding_humiliation",
"text": "Avoiding humiliation"
},
{
"id": "taking_their_concern_seriously",
"text": "Taking their concern seriously"
},
{
"id": "keeping_their_private_information_private",
"text": "Keeping their private information private"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "letting_the_other_person_finish",
"text": "Letting the other person finish"
},
{
"id": "avoiding_humiliation",
"text": "Avoiding humiliation"
},
{
"id": "taking_their_concern_seriously",
"text": "Taking their concern seriously"
},
{
"id": "keeping_their_private_information_private",
"text": "Keeping their private information private"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_017",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to name what matters to you without feeling judged?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"expression",
"current_state",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not easy yet",
"max_label": "Very easy"
}
},
{
"id": "values_018",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which habits can make values language sound preachy?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"moralizing",
"warning_signs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "using_it_to_rank_people",
"text": "Using it to rank people"
},
{
"id": "assuming_one_motive_explains_everything",
"text": "Assuming one motive explains everything"
},
{
"id": "treating_disagreement_as_bad_character",
"text": "Treating disagreement as bad character"
},
{
"id": "speaking_in_slogans_instead_of_specifics",
"text": "Speaking in slogans instead of specifics"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "using_it_to_rank_people",
"text": "Using it to rank people"
},
{
"id": "assuming_one_motive_explains_everything",
"text": "Assuming one motive explains everything"
},
{
"id": "treating_disagreement_as_bad_character",
"text": "Treating disagreement as bad character"
},
{
"id": "speaking_in_slogans_instead_of_specifics",
"text": "Speaking in slogans instead of specifics"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_019",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which value would be easiest to put into a weekly habit?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"habits",
"small_steps",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "generosity",
"text": "Generosity"
},
{
"id": "curiosity",
"text": "Curiosity"
},
{
"id": "rest",
"text": "Rest"
},
{
"id": "community",
"text": "Community"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "generosity",
"text": "Generosity"
},
{
"id": "curiosity",
"text": "Curiosity"
},
{
"id": "rest",
"text": "Rest"
},
{
"id": "community",
"text": "Community"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_020",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which values can look different in different people?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"differences",
"expression",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "love",
"text": "Love"
},
{
"id": "responsibility",
"text": "Responsibility"
},
{
"id": "ambition",
"text": "Ambition"
},
{
"id": "loyalty",
"text": "Loyalty"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "love",
"text": "Love"
},
{
"id": "responsibility",
"text": "Responsibility"
},
{
"id": "ambition",
"text": "Ambition"
},
{
"id": "loyalty",
"text": "Loyalty"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_021",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps separate a personal value from a personal preference?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"self_awareness",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_what_principle_is_underneath",
"text": "Ask what principle is underneath"
},
{
"id": "notice_whether_the_choice_affects_others",
"text": "Notice whether the choice affects others"
},
{
"id": "see_whether_several_methods_could_honor_it",
"text": "See whether several methods could honor it"
},
{
"id": "check_whether_the_preference_changes_easily",
"text": "Check whether the preference changes easily"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_what_principle_is_underneath",
"text": "Ask what principle is underneath"
},
{
"id": "notice_whether_the_choice_affects_others",
"text": "Notice whether the choice affects others"
},
{
"id": "see_whether_several_methods_could_honor_it",
"text": "See whether several methods could honor it"
},
{
"id": "check_whether_the_preference_changes_easily",
"text": "Check whether the preference changes easily"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_022",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which ordinary object belongs on our imaginary values crest?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"humor",
"couple_identity",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_shared_calendar",
"text": "A shared calendar"
},
{
"id": "a_coffee_mug",
"text": "A coffee mug"
},
{
"id": "a_flashlight",
"text": "A flashlight"
},
{
"id": "the_scissors_that_somehow_stay_in_one_place",
"text": "The scissors that somehow stay in one place"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_shared_calendar",
"text": "A shared calendar"
},
{
"id": "a_coffee_mug",
"text": "A coffee mug"
},
{
"id": "a_flashlight",
"text": "A flashlight"
},
{
"id": "the_scissors_that_somehow_stay_in_one_place",
"text": "The scissors that somehow stay in one place"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_023",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can help when an action and a stated value do not match?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"integrity",
"accountability",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "name_the_mismatch_without_humiliation",
"text": "Name the mismatch without humiliation"
},
{
"id": "ask_what_got_in_the_way",
"text": "Ask what got in the way"
},
{
"id": "change_the_next_action",
"text": "Change the next action"
},
{
"id": "avoid_pretending_one_mistake_defines_the_person",
"text": "Avoid pretending one mistake defines the person"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_the_mismatch_without_humiliation",
"text": "Name the mismatch without humiliation"
},
{
"id": "ask_what_got_in_the_way",
"text": "Ask what got in the way"
},
{
"id": "change_the_next_action",
"text": "Change the next action"
},
{
"id": "avoid_pretending_one_mistake_defines_the_person",
"text": "Avoid pretending one mistake defines the person"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_024",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which value deserves more room in our ordinary week?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"priorities",
"growth",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "rest",
"text": "Rest"
},
{
"id": "play",
"text": "Play"
},
{
"id": "learning",
"text": "Learning"
},
{
"id": "connection",
"text": "Connection"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "rest",
"text": "Rest"
},
{
"id": "play",
"text": "Play"
},
{
"id": "learning",
"text": "Learning"
},
{
"id": "connection",
"text": "Connection"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_025",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would make our values feel more practical this month?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"small_steps",
"application",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "choose_one_visible_habit",
"text": "Choose one visible habit"
},
{
"id": "name_one_tradeoff",
"text": "Name one tradeoff"
},
{
"id": "protect_one_neglected_priority",
"text": "Protect one neglected priority"
},
{
"id": "stop_rewarding_one_unhelpful_pattern",
"text": "Stop rewarding one unhelpful pattern"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "choose_one_visible_habit",
"text": "Choose one visible habit"
},
{
"id": "name_one_tradeoff",
"text": "Name one tradeoff"
},
{
"id": "protect_one_neglected_priority",
"text": "Protect one neglected priority"
},
{
"id": "stop_rewarding_one_unhelpful_pattern",
"text": "Stop rewarding one unhelpful pattern"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_026",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which priorities most shape the kind of couple we are?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"shared_priorities",
"couple_identity",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "protecting_time_for_each_other",
"text": "Protecting time for each other"
},
{
"id": "keeping_promises",
"text": "Keeping promises"
},
{
"id": "making_room_for_laughter",
"text": "Making room for laughter"
},
{
"id": "helping_beyond_our_own_household",
"text": "Helping beyond our own household"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "protecting_time_for_each_other",
"text": "Protecting time for each other"
},
{
"id": "keeping_promises",
"text": "Keeping promises"
},
{
"id": "making_room_for_laughter",
"text": "Making room for laughter"
},
{
"id": "helping_beyond_our_own_household",
"text": "Helping beyond our own household"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_027",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which shared priority feels most central to us right now?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"shared_priorities",
"current_focus",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "stability",
"text": "Stability"
},
{
"id": "growth",
"text": "Growth"
},
{
"id": "family",
"text": "Family"
},
{
"id": "freedom",
"text": "Freedom"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "stability",
"text": "Stability"
},
{
"id": "growth",
"text": "Growth"
},
{
"id": "family",
"text": "Family"
},
{
"id": "freedom",
"text": "Freedom"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_028",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Protect tradition or make room for reinvention?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"identity",
"quick_choice",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "protect_tradition",
"text": "Protect tradition"
},
{
"id": "make_room_for_reinvention",
"text": "Make room for reinvention"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "protect_tradition",
"text": "Protect tradition"
},
{
"id": "make_room_for_reinvention",
"text": "Make room for reinvention"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_029",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a shared value truly shared?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"shared_values",
"mutuality",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "both_people_choose_it",
"text": "Both people choose it"
},
{
"id": "it_allows_different_expressions",
"text": "It allows different expressions"
},
{
"id": "it_affects_real_decisions",
"text": "It affects real decisions"
},
{
"id": "it_can_be_questioned_without_punishment",
"text": "It can be questioned without punishment"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "both_people_choose_it",
"text": "Both people choose it"
},
{
"id": "it_allows_different_expressions",
"text": "It allows different expressions"
},
{
"id": "it_affects_real_decisions",
"text": "It affects real decisions"
},
{
"id": "it_can_be_questioned_without_punishment",
"text": "It can be questioned without punishment"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_030",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How aligned do our current priorities feel?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"alignment",
"current_state",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Very different",
"max_label": "Very aligned"
}
},
{
"id": "values_031",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things can become part of a couple identity without becoming rules?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"couple_identity",
"traditions",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "how_we_welcome_people",
"text": "How we welcome people"
},
{
"id": "how_we_handle_hard_days",
"text": "How we handle hard days"
},
{
"id": "the_humor_we_protect",
"text": "The humor we protect"
},
{
"id": "the_causes_we_care_about",
"text": "The causes we care about"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "how_we_welcome_people",
"text": "How we welcome people"
},
{
"id": "how_we_handle_hard_days",
"text": "How we handle hard days"
},
{
"id": "the_humor_we_protect",
"text": "The humor we protect"
},
{
"id": "the_causes_we_care_about",
"text": "The causes we care about"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_032",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which unofficial couple rule sounds most worth keeping?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"humor",
"couple_identity",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "do_not_make_big_decisions_while_hungry",
"text": "Do not make big decisions while hungry"
},
{
"id": "protect_the_last_good_snack_fairly",
"text": "Protect the last good snack fairly"
},
{
"id": "tell_the_truth_before_the_group_chat",
"text": "Tell the truth before the group chat"
},
{
"id": "never_mock_a_serious_hobby",
"text": "Never mock a serious hobby"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "do_not_make_big_decisions_while_hungry",
"text": "Do not make big decisions while hungry"
},
{
"id": "protect_the_last_good_snack_fairly",
"text": "Protect the last good snack fairly"
},
{
"id": "tell_the_truth_before_the_group_chat",
"text": "Tell the truth before the group chat"
},
{
"id": "never_mock_a_serious_hobby",
"text": "Never mock a serious hobby"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_033",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps two different people build shared priorities?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"differences",
"shared_priorities",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "name_what_matters_individually",
"text": "Name what matters individually"
},
{
"id": "look_for_the_principle_underneath",
"text": "Look for the principle underneath"
},
{
"id": "choose_a_few_joint_priorities",
"text": "Choose a few joint priorities"
},
{
"id": "leave_room_for_separate_priorities",
"text": "Leave room for separate priorities"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_what_matters_individually",
"text": "Name what matters individually"
},
{
"id": "look_for_the_principle_underneath",
"text": "Look for the principle underneath"
},
{
"id": "choose_a_few_joint_priorities",
"text": "Choose a few joint priorities"
},
{
"id": "leave_room_for_separate_priorities",
"text": "Leave room for separate priorities"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_034",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show that a shared priority is getting neglected?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"priorities",
"warning_signs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_is_always_postponed",
"text": "It is always postponed"
},
{
"id": "only_one_person_protects_it",
"text": "Only one person protects it"
},
{
"id": "the_schedule_contradicts_it",
"text": "The schedule contradicts it"
},
{
"id": "talking_about_it_creates_guilt",
"text": "Talking about it creates guilt"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_is_always_postponed",
"text": "It is always postponed"
},
{
"id": "only_one_person_protects_it",
"text": "Only one person protects it"
},
{
"id": "the_schedule_contradicts_it",
"text": "The schedule contradicts it"
},
{
"id": "talking_about_it_creates_guilt",
"text": "Talking about it creates guilt"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_035",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What gives a shared value the strongest chance of lasting?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"shared_values",
"sustainability",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_realistic_habit",
"text": "A realistic habit"
},
{
"id": "a_clear_reason",
"text": "A clear reason"
},
{
"id": "mutual_choice",
"text": "Mutual choice"
},
{
"id": "room_to_evolve",
"text": "Room to evolve"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_realistic_habit",
"text": "A realistic habit"
},
{
"id": "a_clear_reason",
"text": "A clear reason"
},
{
"id": "mutual_choice",
"text": "Mutual choice"
},
{
"id": "room_to_evolve",
"text": "Room to evolve"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_036",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which parts of our identity should be allowed to remain individual?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"identity",
"independence",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "personal_interests",
"text": "Personal interests"
},
{
"id": "cultural_connections",
"text": "Cultural connections"
},
{
"id": "spiritual_beliefs",
"text": "Spiritual beliefs"
},
{
"id": "career_ambitions",
"text": "Career ambitions"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "personal_interests",
"text": "Personal interests"
},
{
"id": "cultural_connections",
"text": "Cultural connections"
},
{
"id": "spiritual_beliefs",
"text": "Spiritual beliefs"
},
{
"id": "career_ambitions",
"text": "Career ambitions"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_037",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make couple identity feel too narrow?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"couple_identity",
"warning_signs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "one_person_disappears_into_the_relationship",
"text": "One person disappears into the relationship"
},
{
"id": "outside_friendships_are_treated_as_threats",
"text": "Outside friendships are treated as threats"
},
{
"id": "only_shared_interests_are_valued",
"text": "Only shared interests are valued"
},
{
"id": "change_is_treated_as_disloyalty",
"text": "Change is treated as disloyalty"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "one_person_disappears_into_the_relationship",
"text": "One person disappears into the relationship"
},
{
"id": "outside_friendships_are_treated_as_threats",
"text": "Outside friendships are treated as threats"
},
{
"id": "only_shared_interests_are_valued",
"text": "Only shared interests are valued"
},
{
"id": "change_is_treated_as_disloyalty",
"text": "Change is treated as disloyalty"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_038",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "A few strong shared values or broad agreement on many?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"shared_values",
"quick_choice",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_few_strong_shared_values",
"text": "A few strong shared values"
},
{
"id": "broad_agreement_on_many",
"text": "Broad agreement on many"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_few_strong_shared_values",
"text": "A few strong shared values"
},
{
"id": "broad_agreement_on_many",
"text": "Broad agreement on many"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_039",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a couple value stay flexible without becoming meaningless?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"adaptability",
"shared_values",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "keep_the_principle_clear",
"text": "Keep the principle clear"
},
{
"id": "allow_different_methods",
"text": "Allow different methods"
},
{
"id": "revisit_it_after_major_changes",
"text": "Revisit it after major changes"
},
{
"id": "notice_when_the_old_version_causes_harm",
"text": "Notice when the old version causes harm"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "keep_the_principle_clear",
"text": "Keep the principle clear"
},
{
"id": "allow_different_methods",
"text": "Allow different methods"
},
{
"id": "revisit_it_after_major_changes",
"text": "Revisit it after major changes"
},
{
"id": "notice_when_the_old_version_causes_harm",
"text": "Notice when the old version causes harm"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_040",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one principle that makes our relationship feel distinctly like ours?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"couple_identity",
"shared_values",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "values_041",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which priorities are easiest to protect through routines?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"routines",
"priorities",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "health",
"text": "Health"
},
{
"id": "connection",
"text": "Connection"
},
{
"id": "learning",
"text": "Learning"
},
{
"id": "rest",
"text": "Rest"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "health",
"text": "Health"
},
{
"id": "connection",
"text": "Connection"
},
{
"id": "learning",
"text": "Learning"
},
{
"id": "rest",
"text": "Rest"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_042",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How free do you feel to question one of our shared priorities?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"shared_priorities",
"current_state",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not free enough",
"max_label": "Completely free"
}
},
{
"id": "values_043",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can turn a shared value into pressure?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"control",
"warning_signs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "only_one_person_defines_it",
"text": "Only one person defines it"
},
{
"id": "it_is_used_to_end_discussion",
"text": "It is used to end discussion"
},
{
"id": "every_choice_becomes_a_loyalty_test",
"text": "Every choice becomes a loyalty test"
},
{
"id": "changing_needs_are_ignored",
"text": "Changing needs are ignored"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "only_one_person_defines_it",
"text": "Only one person defines it"
},
{
"id": "it_is_used_to_end_discussion",
"text": "It is used to end discussion"
},
{
"id": "every_choice_becomes_a_loyalty_test",
"text": "Every choice becomes a loyalty test"
},
{
"id": "changing_needs_are_ignored",
"text": "Changing needs are ignored"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_044",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which value is easiest to recognize in the atmosphere of a home?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"home_identity",
"values",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "welcome",
"text": "Welcome"
},
{
"id": "order",
"text": "Order"
},
{
"id": "freedom",
"text": "Freedom"
},
{
"id": "peace",
"text": "Peace"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "welcome",
"text": "Welcome"
},
{
"id": "order",
"text": "Order"
},
{
"id": "freedom",
"text": "Freedom"
},
{
"id": "peace",
"text": "Peace"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_045",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which choices reveal what a couple protects most?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"protection",
"priorities",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "what_gets_time_during_busy_weeks",
"text": "What gets time during busy weeks"
},
{
"id": "what_is_not_joked_about",
"text": "What is not joked about"
},
{
"id": "which_commitments_are_kept",
"text": "Which commitments are kept"
},
{
"id": "who_receives_support_when_plans_conflict",
"text": "Who receives support when plans conflict"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "what_gets_time_during_busy_weeks",
"text": "What gets time during busy weeks"
},
{
"id": "what_is_not_joked_about",
"text": "What is not joked about"
},
{
"id": "which_commitments_are_kept",
"text": "Which commitments are kept"
},
{
"id": "who_receives_support_when_plans_conflict",
"text": "Who receives support when plans conflict"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_046",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us avoid comparing our values with other couples?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"comparison",
"identity",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "define_success_for_ourselves",
"text": "Define success for ourselves"
},
{
"id": "notice_different_circumstances",
"text": "Notice different circumstances"
},
{
"id": "keep_useful_ideas_without_copying_everything",
"text": "Keep useful ideas without copying everything"
},
{
"id": "stop_treating_visibility_as_proof",
"text": "Stop treating visibility as proof"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "define_success_for_ourselves",
"text": "Define success for ourselves"
},
{
"id": "notice_different_circumstances",
"text": "Notice different circumstances"
},
{
"id": "keep_useful_ideas_without_copying_everything",
"text": "Keep useful ideas without copying everything"
},
{
"id": "stop_treating_visibility_as_proof",
"text": "Stop treating visibility as proof"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_047",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which couple value deserves a spot on a completely unnecessary flag?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"humor",
"couple_identity",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "loyalty",
"text": "Loyalty"
},
{
"id": "curiosity",
"text": "Curiosity"
},
{
"id": "hospitality",
"text": "Hospitality"
},
{
"id": "snacks_before_serious_talks",
"text": "Snacks before serious talks"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "loyalty",
"text": "Loyalty"
},
{
"id": "curiosity",
"text": "Curiosity"
},
{
"id": "hospitality",
"text": "Hospitality"
},
{
"id": "snacks_before_serious_talks",
"text": "Snacks before serious talks"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_048",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which outside influences can shape shared priorities without deciding them?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"outside_influence",
"priorities",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "family_history",
"text": "Family history"
},
{
"id": "faith_or_philosophy",
"text": "Faith or philosophy"
},
{
"id": "community_needs",
"text": "Community needs"
},
{
"id": "past_experience",
"text": "Past experience"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "family_history",
"text": "Family history"
},
{
"id": "faith_or_philosophy",
"text": "Faith or philosophy"
},
{
"id": "community_needs",
"text": "Community needs"
},
{
"id": "past_experience",
"text": "Past experience"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_049",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps individual goals and shared values coexist?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"individuality",
"shared_values",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "discuss_the_impact_on_both_people",
"text": "Discuss the impact on both people"
},
{
"id": "protect_time_for_each_goal",
"text": "Protect time for each goal"
},
{
"id": "avoid_treating_difference_as_rejection",
"text": "Avoid treating difference as rejection"
},
{
"id": "revisit_tradeoffs_openly",
"text": "Revisit tradeoffs openly"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "discuss_the_impact_on_both_people",
"text": "Discuss the impact on both people"
},
{
"id": "protect_time_for_each_goal",
"text": "Protect time for each goal"
},
{
"id": "avoid_treating_difference_as_rejection",
"text": "Avoid treating difference as rejection"
},
{
"id": "revisit_tradeoffs_openly",
"text": "Revisit tradeoffs openly"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_050",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would make our shared compass clearer this year?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"shared_compass",
"growth",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "name_our_top_priorities",
"text": "Name our top priorities"
},
{
"id": "identify_one_recurring_contradiction",
"text": "Identify one recurring contradiction"
},
{
"id": "choose_one_value_based_habit",
"text": "Choose one value-based habit"
},
{
"id": "retire_one_expectation_that_no_longer_fits",
"text": "Retire one expectation that no longer fits"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_our_top_priorities",
"text": "Name our top priorities"
},
{
"id": "identify_one_recurring_contradiction",
"text": "Identify one recurring contradiction"
},
{
"id": "choose_one_value_based_habit",
"text": "Choose one value-based habit"
},
{
"id": "retire_one_expectation_that_no_longer_fits",
"text": "Retire one expectation that no longer fits"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_051",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which actions make fairness visible in a relationship?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fairness",
"actions",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "listening_to_both_needs",
"text": "Listening to both needs"
},
{
"id": "sharing_inconvenient_work",
"text": "Sharing inconvenient work"
},
{
"id": "explaining_unequal_choices",
"text": "Explaining unequal choices"
},
{
"id": "changing_arrangements_when_capacity_changes",
"text": "Changing arrangements when capacity changes"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "listening_to_both_needs",
"text": "Listening to both needs"
},
{
"id": "sharing_inconvenient_work",
"text": "Sharing inconvenient work"
},
{
"id": "explaining_unequal_choices",
"text": "Explaining unequal choices"
},
{
"id": "changing_arrangements_when_capacity_changes",
"text": "Changing arrangements when capacity changes"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_052",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which form of kindness matters most on an ordinary day?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"kindness",
"daily_life",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "patience",
"text": "Patience"
},
{
"id": "attention",
"text": "Attention"
},
{
"id": "gentleness",
"text": "Gentleness"
},
{
"id": "practical_help",
"text": "Practical help"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "patience",
"text": "Patience"
},
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"id": "attention",
"text": "Attention"
},
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"id": "gentleness",
"text": "Gentleness"
},
{
"id": "practical_help",
"text": "Practical help"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_053",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Equal treatment or support based on actual need?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fairness",
"quick_choice",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "equal_treatment",
"text": "Equal treatment"
},
{
"id": "support_based_on_actual_need",
"text": "Support based on actual need"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "equal_treatment",
"text": "Equal treatment"
},
{
"id": "support_based_on_actual_need",
"text": "Support based on actual need"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_054",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a compromise feel fair rather than merely even?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fairness",
"compromise",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "both_people_had_a_voice",
"text": "Both people had a voice"
},
{
"id": "the_impact_was_considered",
"text": "The impact was considered"
},
{
"id": "the_same_person_does_not_always_bend",
"text": "The same person does not always bend"
},
{
"id": "the_choice_can_be_revisited",
"text": "The choice can be revisited"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "both_people_had_a_voice",
"text": "Both people had a voice"
},
{
"id": "the_impact_was_considered",
"text": "The impact was considered"
},
{
"id": "the_same_person_does_not_always_bend",
"text": "The same person does not always bend"
},
{
"id": "the_choice_can_be_revisited",
"text": "The choice can be revisited"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_055",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How respected do your values feel when we disagree?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"respect",
"current_state",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not respected enough",
"max_label": "Very respected"
}
},
{
"id": "values_056",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which ordinary moments reveal whether respect is mutual?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"respect",
"daily_life",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "interruptions",
"text": "Interruptions"
},
{
"id": "jokes_about_each_other",
"text": "Jokes about each other"
},
{
"id": "whose_time_gets_protected",
"text": "Whose time gets protected"
},
{
"id": "how_a_no_is_received",
"text": "How a no is received"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "interruptions",
"text": "Interruptions"
},
{
"id": "jokes_about_each_other",
"text": "Jokes about each other"
},
{
"id": "whose_time_gets_protected",
"text": "Whose time gets protected"
},
{
"id": "how_a_no_is_received",
"text": "How a no is received"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_057",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which small act of fairness deserves more credit?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"humor",
"fairness",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "splitting_the_last_bite",
"text": "Splitting the last bite"
},
{
"id": "replacing_what_you_finish",
"text": "Replacing what you finish"
},
{
"id": "taking_the_worse_parking_spot_sometimes",
"text": "Taking the worse parking spot sometimes"
},
{
"id": "admitting_the_thermostat_is_not_objective_truth",
"text": "Admitting the thermostat is not objective truth"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "splitting_the_last_bite",
"text": "Splitting the last bite"
},
{
"id": "replacing_what_you_finish",
"text": "Replacing what you finish"
},
{
"id": "taking_the_worse_parking_spot_sometimes",
"text": "Taking the worse parking spot sometimes"
},
{
"id": "admitting_the_thermostat_is_not_objective_truth",
"text": "Admitting the thermostat is not objective truth"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_058",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps kindness stay honest instead of performative?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"kindness",
"integrity",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_fits_the_person_s_actual_need",
"text": "It fits the person's actual need"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_require_an_audience",
"text": "It does not require an audience"
},
{
"id": "it_allows_boundaries",
"text": "It allows boundaries"
},
{
"id": "it_is_not_used_to_avoid_a_hard_truth",
"text": "It is not used to avoid a hard truth"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_fits_the_person_s_actual_need",
"text": "It fits the person's actual need"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_require_an_audience",
"text": "It does not require an audience"
},
{
"id": "it_allows_boundaries",
"text": "It allows boundaries"
},
{
"id": "it_is_not_used_to_avoid_a_hard_truth",
"text": "It is not used to avoid a hard truth"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_059",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which differences deserve respect even without agreement?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"differences",
"respect",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "personal_beliefs",
"text": "Personal beliefs"
},
{
"id": "cultural_traditions",
"text": "Cultural traditions"
},
{
"id": "career_priorities",
"text": "Career priorities"
},
{
"id": "ways_of_finding_meaning",
"text": "Ways of finding meaning"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "personal_beliefs",
"text": "Personal beliefs"
},
{
"id": "cultural_traditions",
"text": "Cultural traditions"
},
{
"id": "career_priorities",
"text": "Career priorities"
},
{
"id": "ways_of_finding_meaning",
"text": "Ways of finding meaning"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_060",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the strongest sign that generosity remains healthy?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"generosity",
"boundaries",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_giver_can_say_no",
"text": "The giver can say no"
},
{
"id": "needs_are_discussed_openly",
"text": "Needs are discussed openly"
},
{
"id": "help_is_not_used_as_leverage",
"text": "Help is not used as leverage"
},
{
"id": "both_people_may_receive",
"text": "Both people may receive"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_giver_can_say_no",
"text": "The giver can say no"
},
{
"id": "needs_are_discussed_openly",
"text": "Needs are discussed openly"
},
{
"id": "help_is_not_used_as_leverage",
"text": "Help is not used as leverage"
},
{
"id": "both_people_may_receive",
"text": "Both people may receive"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_061",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can fairness account for changing health or energy?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fairness",
"capacity",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "adjust_expectations",
"text": "Adjust expectations"
},
{
"id": "count_invisible_effort",
"text": "Count invisible effort"
},
{
"id": "protect_recovery_needs",
"text": "Protect recovery needs"
},
{
"id": "review_temporary_arrangements",
"text": "Review temporary arrangements"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "adjust_expectations",
"text": "Adjust expectations"
},
{
"id": "count_invisible_effort",
"text": "Count invisible effort"
},
{
"id": "protect_recovery_needs",
"text": "Protect recovery needs"
},
{
"id": "review_temporary_arrangements",
"text": "Review temporary arrangements"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_062",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make fairness language manipulative?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fairness",
"warning_signs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "demanding_equal_sacrifice_regardless_of_harm",
"text": "Demanding equal sacrifice regardless of harm"
},
{
"id": "counting_every_favor",
"text": "Counting every favor"
},
{
"id": "ignoring_unequal_power",
"text": "Ignoring unequal power"
},
{
"id": "calling_obedience_compromise",
"text": "Calling obedience compromise"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "demanding_equal_sacrifice_regardless_of_harm",
"text": "Demanding equal sacrifice regardless of harm"
},
{
"id": "counting_every_favor",
"text": "Counting every favor"
},
{
"id": "ignoring_unequal_power",
"text": "Ignoring unequal power"
},
{
"id": "calling_obedience_compromise",
"text": "Calling obedience compromise"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_063",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Lead with compassion or lead with consistency?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"care",
"quick_choice",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "lead_with_compassion",
"text": "Lead with compassion"
},
{
"id": "lead_with_consistency",
"text": "Lead with consistency"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "lead_with_compassion",
"text": "Lead with compassion"
},
{
"id": "lead_with_consistency",
"text": "Lead with consistency"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_064",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps respect survive a strong moral disagreement?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"respect",
"moral_difference",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "discuss_the_actual_issue",
"text": "Discuss the actual issue"
},
{
"id": "avoid_insults_about_character",
"text": "Avoid insults about character"
},
{
"id": "protect_each_person_s_autonomy",
"text": "Protect each person's autonomy"
},
{
"id": "know_when_persuasion_should_stop",
"text": "Know when persuasion should stop"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "discuss_the_actual_issue",
"text": "Discuss the actual issue"
},
{
"id": "avoid_insults_about_character",
"text": "Avoid insults about character"
},
{
"id": "protect_each_person_s_autonomy",
"text": "Protect each person's autonomy"
},
{
"id": "know_when_persuasion_should_stop",
"text": "Know when persuasion should stop"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_065",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one way you feel respected by me even when we differ?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"respect",
"differences",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "values_066",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which forms of generosity can fit a limited budget or schedule?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"generosity",
"accessibility",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "giving_attention",
"text": "Giving attention"
},
{
"id": "sharing_knowledge",
"text": "Sharing knowledge"
},
{
"id": "offering_practical_help",
"text": "Offering practical help"
},
{
"id": "making_room_for_someone",
"text": "Making room for someone"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "giving_attention",
"text": "Giving attention"
},
{
"id": "sharing_knowledge",
"text": "Sharing knowledge"
},
{
"id": "offering_practical_help",
"text": "Offering practical help"
},
{
"id": "making_room_for_someone",
"text": "Making room for someone"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_067",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How fair do our everyday tradeoffs feel overall?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fairness",
"current_state",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Usually unfair",
"max_label": "Usually fair"
}
},
{
"id": "values_068",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which patterns can turn kindness into self-erasure?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"kindness",
"warning_signs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "never_naming_personal_needs",
"text": "Never naming personal needs"
},
{
"id": "accepting_disrespect_to_keep_peace",
"text": "Accepting disrespect to keep peace"
},
{
"id": "giving_from_fear",
"text": "Giving from fear"
},
{
"id": "treating_exhaustion_as_proof_of_goodness",
"text": "Treating exhaustion as proof of goodness"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "never_naming_personal_needs",
"text": "Never naming personal needs"
},
{
"id": "accepting_disrespect_to_keep_peace",
"text": "Accepting disrespect to keep peace"
},
{
"id": "giving_from_fear",
"text": "Giving from fear"
},
{
"id": "treating_exhaustion_as_proof_of_goodness",
"text": "Treating exhaustion as proof of goodness"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_069",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which response best honors someone who says a choice feels unfair?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fairness",
"response",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_what_impact_they_are_carrying",
"text": "Ask what impact they are carrying"
},
{
"id": "explain_your_intent_once",
"text": "Explain your intent once"
},
{
"id": "review_the_arrangement",
"text": "Review the arrangement"
},
{
"id": "avoid_deciding_they_are_ungrateful",
"text": "Avoid deciding they are ungrateful"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_what_impact_they_are_carrying",
"text": "Ask what impact they are carrying"
},
{
"id": "explain_your_intent_once",
"text": "Explain your intent once"
},
{
"id": "review_the_arrangement",
"text": "Review the arrangement"
},
{
"id": "avoid_deciding_they_are_ungrateful",
"text": "Avoid deciding they are ungrateful"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_070",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps care include people outside our immediate circle?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"care",
"community",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "notice_local_needs",
"text": "Notice local needs"
},
{
"id": "give_within_real_capacity",
"text": "Give within real capacity"
},
{
"id": "support_fair_systems",
"text": "Support fair systems"
},
{
"id": "avoid_treating_help_as_superiority",
"text": "Avoid treating help as superiority"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "notice_local_needs",
"text": "Notice local needs"
},
{
"id": "give_within_real_capacity",
"text": "Give within real capacity"
},
{
"id": "support_fair_systems",
"text": "Support fair systems"
},
{
"id": "avoid_treating_help_as_superiority",
"text": "Avoid treating help as superiority"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_071",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which conditions make respect unhealthy or conditional?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"respect",
"warning_signs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "respect_disappears_during_disagreement",
"text": "Respect disappears during disagreement"
},
{
"id": "one_person_must_earn_basic_dignity",
"text": "One person must earn basic dignity"
},
{
"id": "status_determines_whose_voice_matters",
"text": "Status determines whose voice matters"
},
{
"id": "affection_is_withheld_to_force_agreement",
"text": "Affection is withheld to force agreement"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "respect_disappears_during_disagreement",
"text": "Respect disappears during disagreement"
},
{
"id": "one_person_must_earn_basic_dignity",
"text": "One person must earn basic dignity"
},
{
"id": "status_determines_whose_voice_matters",
"text": "Status determines whose voice matters"
},
{
"id": "affection_is_withheld_to_force_agreement",
"text": "Affection is withheld to force agreement"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_072",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which hill is too small for a values battle?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"humor",
"perspective",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_correct_way_to_load_a_dishwasher",
"text": "The correct way to load a dishwasher"
},
{
"id": "the_proper_direction_of_toilet_paper",
"text": "The proper direction of toilet paper"
},
{
"id": "whether_leftovers_need_labels",
"text": "Whether leftovers need labels"
},
{
"id": "who_controls_the_car_temperature",
"text": "Who controls the car temperature"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_correct_way_to_load_a_dishwasher",
"text": "The correct way to load a dishwasher"
},
{
"id": "the_proper_direction_of_toilet_paper",
"text": "The proper direction of toilet paper"
},
{
"id": "whether_leftovers_need_labels",
"text": "Whether leftovers need labels"
},
{
"id": "who_controls_the_car_temperature",
"text": "Who controls the car temperature"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_073",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which values can come into tension during caregiving?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"caregiving",
"tradeoffs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "compassion_and_autonomy",
"text": "Compassion and autonomy"
},
{
"id": "duty_and_personal_limits",
"text": "Duty and personal limits"
},
{
"id": "privacy_and_safety",
"text": "Privacy and safety"
},
{
"id": "fairness_and_unequal_need",
"text": "Fairness and unequal need"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "compassion_and_autonomy",
"text": "Compassion and autonomy"
},
{
"id": "duty_and_personal_limits",
"text": "Duty and personal limits"
},
{
"id": "privacy_and_safety",
"text": "Privacy and safety"
},
{
"id": "fairness_and_unequal_need",
"text": "Fairness and unequal need"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_074",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What protects dignity when someone needs more help than usual?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"dignity",
"support",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "offer_choices",
"text": "Offer choices"
},
{
"id": "protect_privacy",
"text": "Protect privacy"
},
{
"id": "avoid_speaking_for_them_unnecessarily",
"text": "Avoid speaking for them unnecessarily"
},
{
"id": "do_not_turn_support_into_ownership",
"text": "Do not turn support into ownership"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "offer_choices",
"text": "Offer choices"
},
{
"id": "protect_privacy",
"text": "Protect privacy"
},
{
"id": "avoid_speaking_for_them_unnecessarily",
"text": "Avoid speaking for them unnecessarily"
},
{
"id": "do_not_turn_support_into_ownership",
"text": "Do not turn support into ownership"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_075",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would make fairness easier to practice this month?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fairness",
"small_steps",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "name_one_uneven_pattern",
"text": "Name one uneven pattern"
},
{
"id": "adjust_one_recurring_tradeoff",
"text": "Adjust one recurring tradeoff"
},
{
"id": "protect_one_overlooked_need",
"text": "Protect one overlooked need"
},
{
"id": "stop_keeping_score_in_one_area",
"text": "Stop keeping score in one area"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_one_uneven_pattern",
"text": "Name one uneven pattern"
},
{
"id": "adjust_one_recurring_tradeoff",
"text": "Adjust one recurring tradeoff"
},
{
"id": "protect_one_overlooked_need",
"text": "Protect one overlooked need"
},
{
"id": "stop_keeping_score_in_one_area",
"text": "Stop keeping score in one area"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_076",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which actions make integrity easiest to recognize?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"integrity",
"actions",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "admitting_an_error",
"text": "Admitting an error"
},
{
"id": "keeping_a_quiet_promise",
"text": "Keeping a quiet promise"
},
{
"id": "giving_credit_fairly",
"text": "Giving credit fairly"
},
{
"id": "choosing_the_same_standard_privately",
"text": "Choosing the same standard privately"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "admitting_an_error",
"text": "Admitting an error"
},
{
"id": "keeping_a_quiet_promise",
"text": "Keeping a quiet promise"
},
{
"id": "giving_credit_fairly",
"text": "Giving credit fairly"
},
{
"id": "choosing_the_same_standard_privately",
"text": "Choosing the same standard privately"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_077",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which kind of honesty requires the most courage?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"courage",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "admitting_uncertainty",
"text": "Admitting uncertainty"
},
{
"id": "naming_a_mistake",
"text": "Naming a mistake"
},
{
"id": "saying_no",
"text": "Saying no"
},
{
"id": "changing_a_long_held_opinion",
"text": "Changing a long-held opinion"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "admitting_uncertainty",
"text": "Admitting uncertainty"
},
{
"id": "naming_a_mistake",
"text": "Naming a mistake"
},
{
"id": "saying_no",
"text": "Saying no"
},
{
"id": "changing_a_long_held_opinion",
"text": "Changing a long-held opinion"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_078",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How consistently do our actions match the principles we name?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"integrity",
"current_state",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not consistently",
"max_label": "Very consistently"
}
},
{
"id": "values_079",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps accountability stay respectful?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"accountability",
"respect",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "name_the_specific_action",
"text": "Name the specific action"
},
{
"id": "acknowledge_the_impact",
"text": "Acknowledge the impact"
},
{
"id": "avoid_public_humiliation",
"text": "Avoid public humiliation"
},
{
"id": "focus_on_repair_and_future_choices",
"text": "Focus on repair and future choices"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_the_specific_action",
"text": "Name the specific action"
},
{
"id": "acknowledge_the_impact",
"text": "Acknowledge the impact"
},
{
"id": "avoid_public_humiliation",
"text": "Avoid public humiliation"
},
{
"id": "focus_on_repair_and_future_choices",
"text": "Focus on repair and future choices"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_080",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which situations can test integrity more than expected?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"integrity",
"pressure",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_convenient_shortcut",
"text": "A convenient shortcut"
},
{
"id": "pressure_from_people_we_admire",
"text": "Pressure from people we admire"
},
{
"id": "a_mistake_nobody_noticed",
"text": "A mistake nobody noticed"
},
{
"id": "a_promise_that_became_difficult",
"text": "A promise that became difficult"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_convenient_shortcut",
"text": "A convenient shortcut"
},
{
"id": "pressure_from_people_we_admire",
"text": "Pressure from people we admire"
},
{
"id": "a_mistake_nobody_noticed",
"text": "A mistake nobody noticed"
},
{
"id": "a_promise_that_became_difficult",
"text": "A promise that became difficult"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_081",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Tell the uncomfortable truth or wait for better timing?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"quick_choice",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "tell_the_uncomfortable_truth",
"text": "Tell the uncomfortable truth"
},
{
"id": "wait_for_better_timing",
"text": "Wait for better timing"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "tell_the_uncomfortable_truth",
"text": "Tell the uncomfortable truth"
},
{
"id": "wait_for_better_timing",
"text": "Wait for better timing"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_082",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which sentence sounds most accountable after a mistake?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"accountability",
"language",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "i_did_that",
"text": "I did that"
},
{
"id": "i_understand_the_effect",
"text": "I understand the effect"
},
{
"id": "i_will_correct_what_i_can",
"text": "I will correct what I can"
},
{
"id": "all_three_without_an_excuse_attached",
"text": "All three without an excuse attached"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_did_that",
"text": "I did that"
},
{
"id": "i_understand_the_effect",
"text": "I understand the effect"
},
{
"id": "i_will_correct_what_i_can",
"text": "I will correct what I can"
},
{
"id": "all_three_without_an_excuse_attached",
"text": "All three without an excuse attached"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_083",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes an apology consistent with integrity?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"apology",
"integrity",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_names_the_behavior",
"text": "It names the behavior"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_demand_forgiveness",
"text": "It does not demand forgiveness"
},
{
"id": "it_includes_changed_action",
"text": "It includes changed action"
},
{
"id": "it_avoids_blaming_the_listener",
"text": "It avoids blaming the listener"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_names_the_behavior",
"text": "It names the behavior"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_demand_forgiveness",
"text": "It does not demand forgiveness"
},
{
"id": "it_includes_changed_action",
"text": "It includes changed action"
},
{
"id": "it_avoids_blaming_the_listener",
"text": "It avoids blaming the listener"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_084",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does it feel to point out a mismatch between words and actions?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"integrity",
"current_state",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe enough",
"max_label": "Very safe"
}
},
{
"id": "values_085",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make honesty become cruelty in disguise?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"warning_signs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "sharing_unnecessary_hurtful_detail",
"text": "Sharing unnecessary hurtful detail"
},
{
"id": "using_truth_to_punish",
"text": "Using truth to punish"
},
{
"id": "ignoring_timing_and_safety",
"text": "Ignoring timing and safety"
},
{
"id": "claiming_honesty_removes_responsibility_for_tone",
"text": "Claiming honesty removes responsibility for tone"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sharing_unnecessary_hurtful_detail",
"text": "Sharing unnecessary hurtful detail"
},
{
"id": "using_truth_to_punish",
"text": "Using truth to punish"
},
{
"id": "ignoring_timing_and_safety",
"text": "Ignoring timing and safety"
},
{
"id": "claiming_honesty_removes_responsibility_for_tone",
"text": "Claiming honesty removes responsibility for tone"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_086",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which quiet choices show responsibility?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"responsibility",
"daily_life",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "correcting_a_small_error",
"text": "Correcting a small error"
},
{
"id": "preparing_before_a_commitment",
"text": "Preparing before a commitment"
},
{
"id": "returning_what_was_borrowed",
"text": "Returning what was borrowed"
},
{
"id": "asking_for_help_before_a_crisis",
"text": "Asking for help before a crisis"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "correcting_a_small_error",
"text": "Correcting a small error"
},
{
"id": "preparing_before_a_commitment",
"text": "Preparing before a commitment"
},
{
"id": "returning_what_was_borrowed",
"text": "Returning what was borrowed"
},
{
"id": "asking_for_help_before_a_crisis",
"text": "Asking for help before a crisis"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_087",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a changed opinion feel principled rather than inconsistent?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"growth",
"integrity",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "new_evidence",
"text": "New evidence"
},
{
"id": "a_better_understanding_of_harm",
"text": "A better understanding of harm"
},
{
"id": "an_honest_change_in_priorities",
"text": "An honest change in priorities"
},
{
"id": "willingness_to_explain_the_change",
"text": "Willingness to explain the change"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "new_evidence",
"text": "New evidence"
},
{
"id": "a_better_understanding_of_harm",
"text": "A better understanding of harm"
},
{
"id": "an_honest_change_in_priorities",
"text": "An honest change in priorities"
},
{
"id": "willingness_to_explain_the_change",
"text": "Willingness to explain the change"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_088",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we question each other without acting like moral judges?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"questions",
"respect",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_about_the_decision",
"text": "Ask about the decision"
},
{
"id": "leave_room_for_context",
"text": "Leave room for context"
},
{
"id": "avoid_declaring_motives",
"text": "Avoid declaring motives"
},
{
"id": "remember_our_own_blind_spots",
"text": "Remember our own blind spots"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_about_the_decision",
"text": "Ask about the decision"
},
{
"id": "leave_room_for_context",
"text": "Leave room for context"
},
{
"id": "avoid_declaring_motives",
"text": "Avoid declaring motives"
},
{
"id": "remember_our_own_blind_spots",
"text": "Remember our own blind spots"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_089",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which patterns can make accountability one-sided?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"accountability",
"warning_signs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "only_one_person_apologizes",
"text": "Only one person apologizes"
},
{
"id": "status_excuses_bad_behavior",
"text": "Status excuses bad behavior"
},
{
"id": "the_same_rules_are_not_applied_mutually",
"text": "The same rules are not applied mutually"
},
{
"id": "questions_are_welcomed_from_only_one_direction",
"text": "Questions are welcomed from only one direction"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "only_one_person_apologizes",
"text": "Only one person apologizes"
},
{
"id": "status_excuses_bad_behavior",
"text": "Status excuses bad behavior"
},
{
"id": "the_same_rules_are_not_applied_mutually",
"text": "The same rules are not applied mutually"
},
{
"id": "questions_are_welcomed_from_only_one_direction",
"text": "Questions are welcomed from only one direction"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_090",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one moment when you saw me choose integrity over convenience?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"integrity",
"memory",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "values_091",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which forms of honesty can strengthen self-respect?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"honesty",
"self_respect",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "naming_a_limit",
"text": "Naming a limit"
},
{
"id": "admitting_what_you_want",
"text": "Admitting what you want"
},
{
"id": "owning_a_mistake",
"text": "Owning a mistake"
},
{
"id": "refusing_to_pretend_agreement",
"text": "Refusing to pretend agreement"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "naming_a_limit",
"text": "Naming a limit"
},
{
"id": "admitting_what_you_want",
"text": "Admitting what you want"
},
{
"id": "owning_a_mistake",
"text": "Owning a mistake"
},
{
"id": "refusing_to_pretend_agreement",
"text": "Refusing to pretend agreement"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_092",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How confident are you that we can admit being wrong with each other?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"accountability",
"current_state",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not confident yet",
"max_label": "Very confident"
}
},
{
"id": "values_093",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which everyday ethics test deserves an official referee?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"humor",
"integrity",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "who_gets_the_found_cash",
"text": "Who gets the found cash"
},
{
"id": "whether_a_free_sample_counts_twice",
"text": "Whether a free sample counts twice"
},
{
"id": "returning_the_extra_item_in_the_bag",
"text": "Returning the extra item in the bag"
},
{
"id": "who_admits_they_broke_the_container_lid",
"text": "Who admits they broke the container lid"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "who_gets_the_found_cash",
"text": "Who gets the found cash"
},
{
"id": "whether_a_free_sample_counts_twice",
"text": "Whether a free sample counts twice"
},
{
"id": "returning_the_extra_item_in_the_bag",
"text": "Returning the extra item in the bag"
},
{
"id": "who_admits_they_broke_the_container_lid",
"text": "Who admits they broke the container lid"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_094",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When can loyalty conflict with integrity?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"loyalty",
"tradeoffs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "being_asked_to_hide_harm",
"text": "Being asked to hide harm"
},
{
"id": "defending_behavior_you_know_is_wrong",
"text": "Defending behavior you know is wrong"
},
{
"id": "silencing_a_fair_concern",
"text": "Silencing a fair concern"
},
{
"id": "protecting_reputation_over_safety",
"text": "Protecting reputation over safety"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "being_asked_to_hide_harm",
"text": "Being asked to hide harm"
},
{
"id": "defending_behavior_you_know_is_wrong",
"text": "Defending behavior you know is wrong"
},
{
"id": "silencing_a_fair_concern",
"text": "Silencing a fair concern"
},
{
"id": "protecting_reputation_over_safety",
"text": "Protecting reputation over safety"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_095",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us respond when good values point toward different choices?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tradeoffs",
"integrity",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "name_both_values",
"text": "Name both values"
},
{
"id": "consider_likely_harm",
"text": "Consider likely harm"
},
{
"id": "ask_who_carries_the_cost",
"text": "Ask who carries the cost"
},
{
"id": "accept_that_a_perfect_answer_may_not_exist",
"text": "Accept that a perfect answer may not exist"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_both_values",
"text": "Name both values"
},
{
"id": "consider_likely_harm",
"text": "Consider likely harm"
},
{
"id": "ask_who_carries_the_cost",
"text": "Ask who carries the cost"
},
{
"id": "accept_that_a_perfect_answer_may_not_exist",
"text": "Accept that a perfect answer may not exist"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_096",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which actions can restore credibility after an ordinary inconsistency?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"credibility",
"accountability",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "correct_the_record",
"text": "Correct the record"
},
{
"id": "follow_through_next_time",
"text": "Follow through next time"
},
{
"id": "stop_overstating_certainty",
"text": "Stop overstating certainty"
},
{
"id": "invite_reasonable_feedback",
"text": "Invite reasonable feedback"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "correct_the_record",
"text": "Correct the record"
},
{
"id": "follow_through_next_time",
"text": "Follow through next time"
},
{
"id": "stop_overstating_certainty",
"text": "Stop overstating certainty"
},
{
"id": "invite_reasonable_feedback",
"text": "Invite reasonable feedback"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_097",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the best sign that accountability has become a habit?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"accountability",
"habits",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "mistakes_are_named_sooner",
"text": "Mistakes are named sooner"
},
{
"id": "excuses_become_shorter",
"text": "Excuses become shorter"
},
{
"id": "repair_happens_without_prompting",
"text": "Repair happens without prompting"
},
{
"id": "the_same_problem_repeats_less",
"text": "The same problem repeats less"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "mistakes_are_named_sooner",
"text": "Mistakes are named sooner"
},
{
"id": "excuses_become_shorter",
"text": "Excuses become shorter"
},
{
"id": "repair_happens_without_prompting",
"text": "Repair happens without prompting"
},
{
"id": "the_same_problem_repeats_less",
"text": "The same problem repeats less"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_098",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which uses of values language can hide control?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"control",
"warning_signs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "calling_obedience_loyalty",
"text": "Calling obedience loyalty"
},
{
"id": "calling_silence_respect",
"text": "Calling silence respect"
},
{
"id": "calling_isolation_commitment",
"text": "Calling isolation commitment"
},
{
"id": "calling_fear_morality",
"text": "Calling fear morality"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "calling_obedience_loyalty",
"text": "Calling obedience loyalty"
},
{
"id": "calling_silence_respect",
"text": "Calling silence respect"
},
{
"id": "calling_isolation_commitment",
"text": "Calling isolation commitment"
},
{
"id": "calling_fear_morality",
"text": "Calling fear morality"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_099",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What protects integrity when a community expects conformity?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"outside_pressure",
"integrity",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "private_reflection",
"text": "Private reflection"
},
{
"id": "access_to_outside_perspectives",
"text": "Access to outside perspectives"
},
{
"id": "freedom_to_ask_questions",
"text": "Freedom to ask questions"
},
{
"id": "the_ability_to_leave_unsafe_pressure",
"text": "The ability to leave unsafe pressure"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "private_reflection",
"text": "Private reflection"
},
{
"id": "access_to_outside_perspectives",
"text": "Access to outside perspectives"
},
{
"id": "freedom_to_ask_questions",
"text": "Freedom to ask questions"
},
{
"id": "the_ability_to_leave_unsafe_pressure",
"text": "The ability to leave unsafe pressure"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_100",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would help us practice accountability without becoming harsh?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"accountability",
"small_steps",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "address_issues_earlier",
"text": "Address issues earlier"
},
{
"id": "keep_the_concern_specific",
"text": "Keep the concern specific"
},
{
"id": "notice_improvement",
"text": "Notice improvement"
},
{
"id": "separate_dignity_from_approval",
"text": "Separate dignity from approval"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "address_issues_earlier",
"text": "Address issues earlier"
},
{
"id": "keep_the_concern_specific",
"text": "Keep the concern specific"
},
{
"id": "notice_improvement",
"text": "Notice improvement"
},
{
"id": "separate_dignity_from_approval",
"text": "Separate dignity from approval"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_101",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which freedoms matter most inside a committed relationship?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"freedom",
"commitment",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "personal_friendships",
"text": "Personal friendships"
},
{
"id": "private_thoughts",
"text": "Private thoughts"
},
{
"id": "independent_interests",
"text": "Independent interests"
},
{
"id": "the_ability_to_disagree",
"text": "The ability to disagree"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "personal_friendships",
"text": "Personal friendships"
},
{
"id": "private_thoughts",
"text": "Private thoughts"
},
{
"id": "independent_interests",
"text": "Independent interests"
},
{
"id": "the_ability_to_disagree",
"text": "The ability to disagree"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_102",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which kind of independence strengthens closeness most?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"independence",
"connection",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "personal_interests",
"text": "Personal interests"
},
{
"id": "separate_friendships",
"text": "Separate friendships"
},
{
"id": "time_alone",
"text": "Time alone"
},
{
"id": "confidence_making_ordinary_choices",
"text": "Confidence making ordinary choices"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "personal_interests",
"text": "Personal interests"
},
{
"id": "separate_friendships",
"text": "Separate friendships"
},
{
"id": "time_alone",
"text": "Time alone"
},
{
"id": "confidence_making_ordinary_choices",
"text": "Confidence making ordinary choices"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_103",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Belong deeply or protect strong independence?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"belonging",
"quick_choice",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "belong_deeply",
"text": "Belong deeply"
},
{
"id": "protect_strong_independence",
"text": "Protect strong independence"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "belong_deeply",
"text": "Belong deeply"
},
{
"id": "protect_strong_independence",
"text": "Protect strong independence"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_104",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps belonging feel secure without becoming restrictive?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"belonging",
"freedom",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "choice_remains_visible",
"text": "Choice remains visible"
},
{
"id": "outside_relationships_are_respected",
"text": "Outside relationships are respected"
},
{
"id": "privacy_is_allowed",
"text": "Privacy is allowed"
},
{
"id": "leaving_unsafe_situations_remains_possible",
"text": "Leaving unsafe situations remains possible"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "choice_remains_visible",
"text": "Choice remains visible"
},
{
"id": "outside_relationships_are_respected",
"text": "Outside relationships are respected"
},
{
"id": "privacy_is_allowed",
"text": "Privacy is allowed"
},
{
"id": "leaving_unsafe_situations_remains_possible",
"text": "Leaving unsafe situations remains possible"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_105",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How free do you feel to be fully yourself with me?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"authenticity",
"current_state",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not free enough",
"max_label": "Completely free"
}
},
{
"id": "values_106",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which parts of identity deserve room to evolve independently?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"identity",
"growth",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "beliefs",
"text": "Beliefs"
},
{
"id": "career_direction",
"text": "Career direction"
},
{
"id": "style_and_self_expression",
"text": "Style and self-expression"
},
{
"id": "community_involvement",
"text": "Community involvement"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "beliefs",
"text": "Beliefs"
},
{
"id": "career_direction",
"text": "Career direction"
},
{
"id": "style_and_self_expression",
"text": "Style and self-expression"
},
{
"id": "community_involvement",
"text": "Community involvement"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_107",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which phrase best supports a partner exploring something new?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"growth",
"support",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "tell_me_what_interests_you",
"text": "Tell me what interests you"
},
{
"id": "you_do_not_need_my_permission",
"text": "You do not need my permission"
},
{
"id": "let_us_discuss_what_affects_us",
"text": "Let us discuss what affects us"
},
{
"id": "i_can_be_curious_without_joining",
"text": "I can be curious without joining"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "tell_me_what_interests_you",
"text": "Tell me what interests you"
},
{
"id": "you_do_not_need_my_permission",
"text": "You do not need my permission"
},
{
"id": "let_us_discuss_what_affects_us",
"text": "Let us discuss what affects us"
},
{
"id": "i_can_be_curious_without_joining",
"text": "I can be curious without joining"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_108",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps personal conviction coexist with partnership?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conviction",
"partnership",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "explain_the_meaning",
"text": "Explain the meaning"
},
{
"id": "protect_the_other_person_s_autonomy",
"text": "Protect the other person’s autonomy"
},
{
"id": "discuss_shared_consequences",
"text": "Discuss shared consequences"
},
{
"id": "accept_that_agreement_may_not_come",
"text": "Accept that agreement may not come"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "explain_the_meaning",
"text": "Explain the meaning"
},
{
"id": "protect_the_other_person_s_autonomy",
"text": "Protect the other person’s autonomy"
},
{
"id": "discuss_shared_consequences",
"text": "Discuss shared consequences"
},
{
"id": "accept_that_agreement_may_not_come",
"text": "Accept that agreement may not come"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_109",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which patterns can turn belonging into control?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"control",
"warning_signs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "outside_relationships_are_restricted",
"text": "Outside relationships are restricted"
},
{
"id": "privacy_is_treated_as_disloyalty",
"text": "Privacy is treated as disloyalty"
},
{
"id": "identity_must_remain_unchanged",
"text": "Identity must remain unchanged"
},
{
"id": "leaving_is_framed_as_moral_failure",
"text": "Leaving is framed as moral failure"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "outside_relationships_are_restricted",
"text": "Outside relationships are restricted"
},
{
"id": "privacy_is_treated_as_disloyalty",
"text": "Privacy is treated as disloyalty"
},
{
"id": "identity_must_remain_unchanged",
"text": "Identity must remain unchanged"
},
{
"id": "leaving_is_framed_as_moral_failure",
"text": "Leaving is framed as moral failure"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_110",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a tradition worth carrying forward?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tradition",
"meaning",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_still_serves_people",
"text": "It still serves people"
},
{
"id": "it_carries_meaningful_history",
"text": "It carries meaningful history"
},
{
"id": "participation_remains_chosen",
"text": "Participation remains chosen"
},
{
"id": "it_can_adapt_without_losing_its_purpose",
"text": "It can adapt without losing its purpose"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_still_serves_people",
"text": "It still serves people"
},
{
"id": "it_carries_meaningful_history",
"text": "It carries meaningful history"
},
{
"id": "participation_remains_chosen",
"text": "Participation remains chosen"
},
{
"id": "it_can_adapt_without_losing_its_purpose",
"text": "It can adapt without losing its purpose"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_111",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which family influences can be useful to examine together?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"family_influence",
"awareness",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ideas_about_work",
"text": "Ideas about work"
},
{
"id": "expectations_around_loyalty",
"text": "Expectations around loyalty"
},
{
"id": "ways_of_handling_emotion",
"text": "Ways of handling emotion"
},
{
"id": "definitions_of_success",
"text": "Definitions of success"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ideas_about_work",
"text": "Ideas about work"
},
{
"id": "expectations_around_loyalty",
"text": "Expectations around loyalty"
},
{
"id": "ways_of_handling_emotion",
"text": "Ways of handling emotion"
},
{
"id": "definitions_of_success",
"text": "Definitions of success"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_112",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make family tradition harmful despite good intentions?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tradition",
"warning_signs",
"values"
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"id": "participation_is_forced",
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{
"id": "harm_is_protected_from_criticism",
"text": "Harm is protected from criticism"
},
{
"id": "one_culture_is_treated_as_superior",
"text": "One culture is treated as superior"
},
{
"id": "people_must_hide_parts_of_themselves",
"text": "People must hide parts of themselves"
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"id": "one_culture_is_treated_as_superior",
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"id": "people_must_hide_parts_of_themselves",
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"max_selections": 3
}
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"id": "values_113",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Keep the original tradition or keep its meaning in a new form?",
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"tags": [
"tradition",
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"values"
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"id": "keep_the_original_tradition",
"text": "Keep the original tradition"
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"id": "keep_its_meaning_in_a_new_form",
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"id": "keep_its_meaning_in_a_new_form",
"text": "Keep its meaning in a new form"
}
]
}
},
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"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can different spiritual or philosophical beliefs coexist respectfully?",
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"tags": [
"belief",
"differences",
"values"
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"options": [
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"id": "no_forced_participation",
"text": "No forced participation"
},
{
"id": "genuine_questions_are_welcome",
"text": "Genuine questions are welcome"
},
{
"id": "mockery_stays_off_limits",
"text": "Mockery stays off limits"
},
{
"id": "shared_decisions_remain_mutual",
"text": "Shared decisions remain mutual"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "no_forced_participation",
"text": "No forced participation"
},
{
"id": "genuine_questions_are_welcome",
"text": "Genuine questions are welcome"
},
{
"id": "mockery_stays_off_limits",
"text": "Mockery stays off limits"
},
{
"id": "shared_decisions_remain_mutual",
"text": "Shared decisions remain mutual"
}
],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"id": "values_115",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "written",
"text": "What belief or tradition from your background do you most want me to understand?",
"depth": 2,
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"tags": [
"culture",
"understanding",
"values"
],
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"max_length": 500
}
},
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"id": "values_116",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which parts of culture can shape everyday values?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"culture",
"daily_life",
"values"
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"options": [
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"id": "hospitality",
"text": "Hospitality"
},
{
"id": "family_responsibility",
"text": "Family responsibility"
},
{
"id": "ways_of_speaking_and_listening",
"text": "Ways of speaking and listening"
},
{
"id": "ideas_about_work_and_rest",
"text": "Ideas about work and rest"
}
],
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"id": "hospitality",
"text": "Hospitality"
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"id": "family_responsibility",
"text": "Family responsibility"
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"id": "ways_of_speaking_and_listening",
"text": "Ways of speaking and listening"
},
{
"id": "ideas_about_work_and_rest",
"text": "Ideas about work and rest"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_117",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How respected do your personal beliefs feel in our relationship?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"belief",
"current_state",
"values"
],
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"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not respected enough",
"max_label": "Very respected"
}
},
{
"id": "values_118",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which approaches make curiosity about identity feel intrusive?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"identity",
"boundaries",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "demanding_personal_disclosure",
"text": "Demanding personal disclosure"
},
{
"id": "treating_someone_as_a_spokesperson",
"text": "Treating someone as a spokesperson"
},
{
"id": "debating_their_lived_experience",
"text": "Debating their lived experience"
},
{
"id": "ignoring_a_request_to_stop",
"text": "Ignoring a request to stop"
}
],
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"id": "demanding_personal_disclosure",
"text": "Demanding personal disclosure"
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"id": "treating_someone_as_a_spokesperson",
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},
{
"id": "debating_their_lived_experience",
"text": "Debating their lived experience"
},
{
"id": "ignoring_a_request_to_stop",
"text": "Ignoring a request to stop"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"id": "values_119",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which unofficial family tradition has the strongest chance of surviving?",
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"tags": [
"humor",
"tradition",
"values"
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"id": "a_specific_holiday_food",
"text": "A specific holiday food"
},
{
"id": "one_repeated_joke",
"text": "One repeated joke"
},
{
"id": "an_argument_about_the_correct_recipe",
"text": "An argument about the correct recipe"
},
{
"id": "someone_forgetting_the_same_essential_item",
"text": "Someone forgetting the same essential item"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "a_specific_holiday_food",
"text": "A specific holiday food"
},
{
"id": "one_repeated_joke",
"text": "One repeated joke"
},
{
"id": "an_argument_about_the_correct_recipe",
"text": "An argument about the correct recipe"
},
{
"id": "someone_forgetting_the_same_essential_item",
"text": "Someone forgetting the same essential item"
}
]
}
},
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"id": "values_120",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a partner feel included in a family culture?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"family",
"belonging",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "explain_unfamiliar_customs",
"text": "Explain unfamiliar customs"
},
{
"id": "avoid_testing_their_loyalty",
"text": "Avoid testing their loyalty"
},
{
"id": "ask_what_participation_feels_comfortable",
"text": "Ask what participation feels comfortable"
},
{
"id": "support_them_when_traditions_become_overwhelming",
"text": "Support them when traditions become overwhelming"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "explain_unfamiliar_customs",
"text": "Explain unfamiliar customs"
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"id": "avoid_testing_their_loyalty",
"text": "Avoid testing their loyalty"
},
{
"id": "ask_what_participation_feels_comfortable",
"text": "Ask what participation feels comfortable"
},
{
"id": "support_them_when_traditions_become_overwhelming",
"text": "Support them when traditions become overwhelming"
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],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"id": "values_121",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which value conflicts can appear around family expectations?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"family",
"tradeoffs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "loyalty_and_safety",
"text": "Loyalty and safety"
},
{
"id": "tradition_and_equality",
"text": "Tradition and equality"
},
{
"id": "privacy_and_openness",
"text": "Privacy and openness"
},
{
"id": "duty_and_personal_limits",
"text": "Duty and personal limits"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "loyalty_and_safety",
"text": "Loyalty and safety"
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"id": "tradition_and_equality",
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},
{
"id": "privacy_and_openness",
"text": "Privacy and openness"
},
{
"id": "duty_and_personal_limits",
"text": "Duty and personal limits"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"id": "values_122",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the kindest response to a tradition your partner does not want?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tradition",
"autonomy",
"values"
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"options": [
{
"id": "ask_what_feels_uncomfortable",
"text": "Ask what feels uncomfortable"
},
{
"id": "accept_their_choice",
"text": "Accept their choice"
},
{
"id": "discuss_any_shared_impact",
"text": "Discuss any shared impact"
},
{
"id": "find_a_different_way_to_connect",
"text": "Find a different way to connect"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "ask_what_feels_uncomfortable",
"text": "Ask what feels uncomfortable"
},
{
"id": "accept_their_choice",
"text": "Accept their choice"
},
{
"id": "discuss_any_shared_impact",
"text": "Discuss any shared impact"
},
{
"id": "find_a_different_way_to_connect",
"text": "Find a different way to connect"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_123",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What protects a person when religious or cultural pressure becomes coercive?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"safety",
"outside_pressure",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "access_to_outside_support",
"text": "Access to outside support"
},
{
"id": "freedom_to_question",
"text": "Freedom to question"
},
{
"id": "private_communication",
"text": "Private communication"
},
{
"id": "the_right_to_leave_an_unsafe_setting",
"text": "The right to leave an unsafe setting"
}
],
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"id": "access_to_outside_support",
"text": "Access to outside support"
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"id": "freedom_to_question",
"text": "Freedom to question"
},
{
"id": "private_communication",
"text": "Private communication"
},
{
"id": "the_right_to_leave_an_unsafe_setting",
"text": "The right to leave an unsafe setting"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"id": "values_124",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which beliefs should never be used to justify harm?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"safety",
"ethics",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "beliefs_about_gender_roles",
"text": "Beliefs about gender roles"
},
{
"id": "beliefs_about_obedience",
"text": "Beliefs about obedience"
},
{
"id": "beliefs_about_family_reputation",
"text": "Beliefs about family reputation"
},
{
"id": "beliefs_that_deny_another_person_s_basic_dignity",
"text": "Beliefs that deny another person’s basic dignity"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "beliefs_about_gender_roles",
"text": "Beliefs about gender roles"
},
{
"id": "beliefs_about_obedience",
"text": "Beliefs about obedience"
},
{
"id": "beliefs_about_family_reputation",
"text": "Beliefs about family reputation"
},
{
"id": "beliefs_that_deny_another_person_s_basic_dignity",
"text": "Beliefs that deny another person’s basic dignity"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_125",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would help our differences feel more like knowledge than distance?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"differences",
"connection",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_about_meaning",
"text": "Ask about meaning"
},
{
"id": "share_personal_history",
"text": "Share personal history"
},
{
"id": "protect_the_right_not_to_explain_everything",
"text": "Protect the right not to explain everything"
},
{
"id": "notice_values_we_express_differently",
"text": "Notice values we express differently"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
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"id": "ask_about_meaning",
"text": "Ask about meaning"
},
{
"id": "share_personal_history",
"text": "Share personal history"
},
{
"id": "protect_the_right_not_to_explain_everything",
"text": "Protect the right not to explain everything"
},
{
"id": "notice_values_we_express_differently",
"text": "Notice values we express differently"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_126",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which tradeoffs reveal our real priorities most clearly?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tradeoffs",
"priorities",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "time_versus_money",
"text": "Time versus money"
},
{
"id": "stability_versus_opportunity",
"text": "Stability versus opportunity"
},
{
"id": "privacy_versus_openness",
"text": "Privacy versus openness"
},
{
"id": "personal_goals_versus_shared_needs",
"text": "Personal goals versus shared needs"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
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"id": "time_versus_money",
"text": "Time versus money"
},
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"id": "stability_versus_opportunity",
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},
{
"id": "privacy_versus_openness",
"text": "Privacy versus openness"
},
{
"id": "personal_goals_versus_shared_needs",
"text": "Personal goals versus shared needs"
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],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_127",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which value is hardest to protect when choices become complicated?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tradeoffs",
"preferences",
"values"
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"id": "fairness",
"text": "Fairness"
},
{
"id": "freedom",
"text": "Freedom"
},
{
"id": "compassion",
"text": "Compassion"
},
{
"id": "honesty",
"text": "Honesty"
}
],
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"text": "Fairness"
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"id": "compassion",
"text": "Compassion"
},
{
"id": "honesty",
"text": "Honesty"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_128",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are we admitting that two good values can conflict?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"moral_uncertainty",
"current_state",
"values"
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"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
}
},
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"id": "values_129",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps when two values point toward different decisions?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tradeoffs",
"decision_making",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "name_both_values",
"text": "Name both values"
},
{
"id": "consider_who_carries_the_cost",
"text": "Consider who carries the cost"
},
{
"id": "look_for_hidden_assumptions",
"text": "Look for hidden assumptions"
},
{
"id": "accept_that_compromise_may_leave_discomfort",
"text": "Accept that compromise may leave discomfort"
}
],
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"id": "name_both_values",
"text": "Name both values"
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},
{
"id": "look_for_hidden_assumptions",
"text": "Look for hidden assumptions"
},
{
"id": "accept_that_compromise_may_leave_discomfort",
"text": "Accept that compromise may leave discomfort"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_130",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which questions matter when there is no perfectly clean answer?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"moral_uncertainty",
"ethics",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "who_could_be_harmed",
"text": "Who could be harmed?"
},
{
"id": "whose_voice_is_missing",
"text": "Whose voice is missing?"
},
{
"id": "what_responsibility_is_ours",
"text": "What responsibility is ours?"
},
{
"id": "what_choice_can_we_explain_honestly",
"text": "What choice can we explain honestly?"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "who_could_be_harmed",
"text": "Who could be harmed?"
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"id": "whose_voice_is_missing",
"text": "Whose voice is missing?"
},
{
"id": "what_responsibility_is_ours",
"text": "What responsibility is ours?"
},
{
"id": "what_choice_can_we_explain_honestly",
"text": "What choice can we explain honestly?"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_131",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Protect the principle or make an exception for the situation?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tradeoffs",
"quick_choice",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "protect_the_principle",
"text": "Protect the principle"
},
{
"id": "make_an_exception_for_the_situation",
"text": "Make an exception for the situation"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "protect_the_principle",
"text": "Protect the principle"
},
{
"id": "make_an_exception_for_the_situation",
"text": "Make an exception for the situation"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_132",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a values disagreement feel worth revisiting?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"disagreement",
"growth",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "new_information",
"text": "New information"
},
{
"id": "a_lasting_effect_on_both_people",
"text": "A lasting effect on both people"
},
{
"id": "a_misunderstood_principle",
"text": "A misunderstood principle"
},
{
"id": "a_decision_that_keeps_returning",
"text": "A decision that keeps returning"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "new_information",
"text": "New information"
},
{
"id": "a_lasting_effect_on_both_people",
"text": "A lasting effect on both people"
},
{
"id": "a_misunderstood_principle",
"text": "A misunderstood principle"
},
{
"id": "a_decision_that_keeps_returning",
"text": "A decision that keeps returning"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_133",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we disagree without pretending every view is equally harmless?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"disagreement",
"ethics",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "discuss_actual_effects",
"text": "Discuss actual effects"
},
{
"id": "protect_basic_dignity",
"text": "Protect basic dignity"
},
{
"id": "reject_coercion_and_discrimination",
"text": "Reject coercion and discrimination"
},
{
"id": "leave_room_for_personal_autonomy",
"text": "Leave room for personal autonomy"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "discuss_actual_effects",
"text": "Discuss actual effects"
},
{
"id": "protect_basic_dignity",
"text": "Protect basic dignity"
},
{
"id": "reject_coercion_and_discrimination",
"text": "Reject coercion and discrimination"
},
{
"id": "leave_room_for_personal_autonomy",
"text": "Leave room for personal autonomy"
}
],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_134",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe does it feel to say that one of your values has changed?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"change",
"current_state",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe enough",
"max_label": "Very safe"
}
},
{
"id": "values_135",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make moral certainty dangerous?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"certainty",
"warning_signs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "refusing_evidence",
"text": "Refusing evidence"
},
{
"id": "treating_questions_as_disloyalty",
"text": "Treating questions as disloyalty"
},
{
"id": "excusing_harm_for_the_cause",
"text": "Excusing harm for the cause"
},
{
"id": "believing_good_intent_makes_accountability_unnecessary",
"text": "Believing good intent makes accountability unnecessary"
}
],
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"id": "refusing_evidence",
"text": "Refusing evidence"
},
{
"id": "treating_questions_as_disloyalty",
"text": "Treating questions as disloyalty"
},
{
"id": "excusing_harm_for_the_cause",
"text": "Excusing harm for the cause"
},
{
"id": "believing_good_intent_makes_accountability_unnecessary",
"text": "Believing good intent makes accountability unnecessary"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_136",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which ideas of success can support a healthy shared life?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"success",
"work",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "enough_time_for_relationships",
"text": "Enough time for relationships"
},
{
"id": "work_with_personal_meaning",
"text": "Work with personal meaning"
},
{
"id": "financial_stability",
"text": "Financial stability"
},
{
"id": "room_for_health_and_rest",
"text": "Room for health and rest"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "enough_time_for_relationships",
"text": "Enough time for relationships"
},
{
"id": "work_with_personal_meaning",
"text": "Work with personal meaning"
},
{
"id": "financial_stability",
"text": "Financial stability"
},
{
"id": "room_for_health_and_rest",
"text": "Room for health and rest"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_137",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which success symbol is most likely to be overrated?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"humor",
"success",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_perfect_schedule",
"text": "A perfect schedule"
},
{
"id": "a_job_title_nobody_understands",
"text": "A job title nobody understands"
},
{
"id": "a_home_nobody_has_time_to_enjoy",
"text": "A home nobody has time to enjoy"
},
{
"id": "being_busy_enough_to_require_three_calendars",
"text": "Being busy enough to require three calendars"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_perfect_schedule",
"text": "A perfect schedule"
},
{
"id": "a_job_title_nobody_understands",
"text": "A job title nobody understands"
},
{
"id": "a_home_nobody_has_time_to_enjoy",
"text": "A home nobody has time to enjoy"
},
{
"id": "being_busy_enough_to_require_three_calendars",
"text": "Being busy enough to require three calendars"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_138",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which work values can conflict with personal wellbeing?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"work",
"tradeoffs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ambition_and_rest",
"text": "Ambition and rest"
},
{
"id": "loyalty_and_fair_treatment",
"text": "Loyalty and fair treatment"
},
{
"id": "achievement_and_health",
"text": "Achievement and health"
},
{
"id": "service_and_personal_boundaries",
"text": "Service and personal boundaries"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ambition_and_rest",
"text": "Ambition and rest"
},
{
"id": "loyalty_and_fair_treatment",
"text": "Loyalty and fair treatment"
},
{
"id": "achievement_and_health",
"text": "Achievement and health"
},
{
"id": "service_and_personal_boundaries",
"text": "Service and personal boundaries"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_139",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps contribution stay meaningful without becoming self-sacrifice?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"service",
"boundaries",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "give_within_capacity",
"text": "Give within capacity"
},
{
"id": "choose_causes_freely",
"text": "Choose causes freely"
},
{
"id": "keep_personal_needs_visible",
"text": "Keep personal needs visible"
},
{
"id": "share_responsibility_with_others",
"text": "Share responsibility with others"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "give_within_capacity",
"text": "Give within capacity"
},
{
"id": "choose_causes_freely",
"text": "Choose causes freely"
},
{
"id": "keep_personal_needs_visible",
"text": "Keep personal needs visible"
},
{
"id": "share_responsibility_with_others",
"text": "Share responsibility with others"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_140",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How aligned do our definitions of a good life feel?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"good_life",
"current_state",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Very different",
"max_label": "Very aligned"
}
},
{
"id": "values_141",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which patterns can turn service or generosity into control?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"service",
"warning_signs",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "help_is_given_without_consent",
"text": "Help is given without consent"
},
{
"id": "recipients_are_expected_to_obey",
"text": "Recipients are expected to obey"
},
{
"id": "public_praise_matters_more_than_impact",
"text": "Public praise matters more than impact"
},
{
"id": "support_is_withdrawn_to_punish_disagreement",
"text": "Support is withdrawn to punish disagreement"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "help_is_given_without_consent",
"text": "Help is given without consent"
},
{
"id": "recipients_are_expected_to_obey",
"text": "Recipients are expected to obey"
},
{
"id": "public_praise_matters_more_than_impact",
"text": "Public praise matters more than impact"
},
{
"id": "support_is_withdrawn_to_punish_disagreement",
"text": "Support is withdrawn to punish disagreement"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_142",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which kind of contribution feels most meaningful to you?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"contribution",
"preferences",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "helping_individuals_directly",
"text": "Helping individuals directly"
},
{
"id": "building_something_useful",
"text": "Building something useful"
},
{
"id": "supporting_community_systems",
"text": "Supporting community systems"
},
{
"id": "teaching_or_sharing_knowledge",
"text": "Teaching or sharing knowledge"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "helping_individuals_directly",
"text": "Helping individuals directly"
},
{
"id": "building_something_useful",
"text": "Building something useful"
},
{
"id": "supporting_community_systems",
"text": "Supporting community systems"
},
{
"id": "teaching_or_sharing_knowledge",
"text": "Teaching or sharing knowledge"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_143",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps values evolve without erasing personal history?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"change",
"identity",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "honor_what_the_old_belief_provided",
"text": "Honor what the old belief provided"
},
{
"id": "name_why_it_changed",
"text": "Name why it changed"
},
{
"id": "keep_useful_traditions",
"text": "Keep useful traditions"
},
{
"id": "allow_grief_about_leaving_parts_behind",
"text": "Allow grief about leaving parts behind"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "honor_what_the_old_belief_provided",
"text": "Honor what the old belief provided"
},
{
"id": "name_why_it_changed",
"text": "Name why it changed"
},
{
"id": "keep_useful_traditions",
"text": "Keep useful traditions"
},
{
"id": "allow_grief_about_leaving_parts_behind",
"text": "Allow grief about leaving parts behind"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_144",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which outside pressures can distort a couple’s priorities?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"outside_pressure",
"priorities",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "family_expectations",
"text": "Family expectations"
},
{
"id": "social_status",
"text": "Social status"
},
{
"id": "fear_of_judgment",
"text": "Fear of judgment"
},
{
"id": "comparing_visible_milestones",
"text": "Comparing visible milestones"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "family_expectations",
"text": "Family expectations"
},
{
"id": "social_status",
"text": "Social status"
},
{
"id": "fear_of_judgment",
"text": "Fear of judgment"
},
{
"id": "comparing_visible_milestones",
"text": "Comparing visible milestones"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_145",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How confident are you that we can handle a major values difference respectfully?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"difference",
"current_state",
"values"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not confident yet",
"max_label": "Very confident"
}
},
{
"id": "values_146",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which differences may require more than compromise?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"nonnegotiables",
"safety",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_difference_involving_basic_safety",
"text": "A difference involving basic safety"
},
{
"id": "a_belief_supporting_discrimination",
"text": "A belief supporting discrimination"
},
{
"id": "a_demand_for_control_or_isolation",
"text": "A demand for control or isolation"
},
{
"id": "a_conflict_over_another_person_s_bodily_autonomy",
"text": "A conflict over another person’s bodily autonomy"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_difference_involving_basic_safety",
"text": "A difference involving basic safety"
},
{
"id": "a_belief_supporting_discrimination",
"text": "A belief supporting discrimination"
},
{
"id": "a_demand_for_control_or_isolation",
"text": "A demand for control or isolation"
},
{
"id": "a_conflict_over_another_person_s_bodily_autonomy",
"text": "A conflict over another person’s bodily autonomy"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_147",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the clearest sign that a shared value still fits us?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"shared_values",
"alignment",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_guides_choices_without_coercion",
"text": "It guides choices without coercion"
},
{
"id": "both_people_can_explain_it",
"text": "Both people can explain it"
},
{
"id": "it_leaves_room_for_growth",
"text": "It leaves room for growth"
},
{
"id": "its_effects_match_its_purpose",
"text": "Its effects match its purpose"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_guides_choices_without_coercion",
"text": "It guides choices without coercion"
},
{
"id": "both_people_can_explain_it",
"text": "Both people can explain it"
},
{
"id": "it_leaves_room_for_growth",
"text": "It leaves room for growth"
},
{
"id": "its_effects_match_its_purpose",
"text": "Its effects match its purpose"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "values_148",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What protects a relationship when values change at different speeds?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"change",
"relationship",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "honest_updates",
"text": "Honest updates"
},
{
"id": "no_forced_agreement",
"text": "No forced agreement"
},
{
"id": "attention_to_shared_consequences",
"text": "Attention to shared consequences"
},
{
"id": "outside_support_when_the_difference_becomes_destabilizing",
"text": "Outside support when the difference becomes destabilizing"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "honest_updates",
"text": "Honest updates"
},
{
"id": "no_forced_agreement",
"text": "No forced agreement"
},
{
"id": "attention_to_shared_consequences",
"text": "Attention to shared consequences"
},
{
"id": "outside_support_when_the_difference_becomes_destabilizing",
"text": "Outside support when the difference becomes destabilizing"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_149",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs suggest a values conflict may be a compatibility issue?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"compatibility",
"clarity",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "basic_dignity_is_defined_differently",
"text": "Basic dignity is defined differently"
},
{
"id": "one_person_must_abandon_core_autonomy",
"text": "One person must abandon core autonomy"
},
{
"id": "the_conflict_controls_major_life_choices",
"text": "The conflict controls major life choices"
},
{
"id": "no_safe_compromise_exists",
"text": "No safe compromise exists"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "basic_dignity_is_defined_differently",
"text": "Basic dignity is defined differently"
},
{
"id": "one_person_must_abandon_core_autonomy",
"text": "One person must abandon core autonomy"
},
{
"id": "the_conflict_controls_major_life_choices",
"text": "The conflict controls major life choices"
},
{
"id": "no_safe_compromise_exists",
"text": "No safe compromise exists"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "values_150",
"category_id": "values",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would make our shared compass healthier years from now?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"long_term",
"shared_compass",
"values"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "values_remain_discussable",
"text": "Values remain discussable"
},
{
"id": "individual_convictions_stay_welcome",
"text": "Individual convictions stay welcome"
},
{
"id": "actions_matter_more_than_slogans",
"text": "Actions matter more than slogans"
},
{
"id": "neither_person_must_shrink_to_belong",
"text": "Neither person must shrink to belong"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "values_remain_discussable",
"text": "Values remain discussable"
},
{
"id": "individual_convictions_stay_welcome",
"text": "Individual convictions stay welcome"
},
{
"id": "actions_matter_more_than_slogans",
"text": "Actions matter more than slogans"
},
{
"id": "neither_person_must_shrink_to_belong",
"text": "Neither person must shrink to belong"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
}
]
}
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