Closer/seed/questions/boundaries.json

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      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you need time alone, what kind feels best?",
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      "access": "free",
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            "id": "a_walk_outside_by_myself",
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      "text": "What usually tells you that you need some space?",
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      "access": "free",
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        "boundaries"
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            "text": "I get quieter than usual"
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            "id": "my_answers_get_shorter",
            "text": "My answers get shorter"
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          {
            "id": "i_feel_restless_or_crowded",
            "text": "I feel restless or crowded"
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            "id": "i_focus_hard_on_something_else",
            "text": "I focus hard on something else"
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      "id": "boundaries_003",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When does alone time feel easiest between us?",
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      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
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        "boundaries"
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            "id": "a_clear_heads_up",
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            "id": "a_rough_idea_of_when_we_will_reconnect",
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          {
            "id": "a_warm_goodbye",
            "text": "A warm goodbye"
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          {
            "id": "no_questions_the_second_i_return",
            "text": "No questions the second I return"
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      "id": "boundaries_004",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to ask me for time alone?",
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      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
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        "boundaries"
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      "id": "boundaries_005",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Same room, separate things or completely separate spaces?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "alone_time",
        "fun_first",
        "boundaries"
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            "id": "same_room_separate_things",
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            "id": "completely_separate_spaces",
            "text": "Completely separate spaces"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_006",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What do you prefer deciding on your own?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
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        "daily_life",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "what_i_wear",
            "text": "What I wear"
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          {
            "id": "what_i_eat_when_i_am_alone",
            "text": "What I eat when I am alone"
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          {
            "id": "how_i_spend_free_time",
            "text": "How I spend free time"
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          {
            "id": "small_personal_purchases",
            "text": "Small personal purchases"
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      "id": "boundaries_007",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you say no, what response feels most respectful?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
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        "respect",
        "boundaries"
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            "id": "accept_it_without_pushing",
            "text": "Accept it without pushing"
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          {
            "id": "ask_one_calm_question",
            "text": "Ask one calm question"
          },
          {
            "id": "give_me_a_little_space",
            "text": "Give me a little space"
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          {
            "id": "check_back_another_day",
            "text": "Check back another day"
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      "id": "boundaries_008",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can make a small request feel bigger than it is?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
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        "pressure",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
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            "id": "bad_timing",
            "text": "Bad timing"
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            "id": "being_asked_more_than_once",
            "text": "Being asked more than once"
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          {
            "id": "a_guilty_tone",
            "text": "A guilty tone"
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          {
            "id": "other_people_being_present",
            "text": "Other people being present"
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      "id": "boundaries_009",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When are interruptions hardest for you?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "interruptions",
        "personal_space",
        "boundaries"
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            "id": "when_i_am_sleeping",
            "text": "When I am sleeping"
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          {
            "id": "when_i_am_concentrating",
            "text": "When I am concentrating"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_i_am_decompressing",
            "text": "When I am decompressing"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_i_am_on_a_call",
            "text": "When I am on a call"
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        "min_selections": 1,
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_010",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often do we notice the need for space before tension builds?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "personal_space",
        "awareness",
        "boundaries"
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        "max_label": "We usually catch it early"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_011",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which reconnects feel good after alone time?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "alone_time",
        "reconnection",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_warm_hello",
            "text": "A warm hello"
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          {
            "id": "no_interrogation",
            "text": "No interrogation"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_easy_shared_snack",
            "text": "An easy shared snack"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_normal_conversation",
            "text": "A normal conversation"
          }
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        "max_selections": 3
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_012",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which personal space matters most to you at home?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "home_space",
        "personal_space",
        "boundaries"
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            "id": "a_drawer_or_shelf_of_my_own",
            "text": "A drawer or shelf of my own"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_favorite_chair_or_desk",
            "text": "A favorite chair or desk"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quiet_corner",
            "text": "A quiet corner"
          },
          {
            "id": "time_alone_in_the_bedroom",
            "text": "Time alone in the bedroom"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_013",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should always be ask-first?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "permission",
        "privacy",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "borrowing_something_valuable",
            "text": "Borrowing something valuable"
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          {
            "id": "reading_a_message_on_my_screen",
            "text": "Reading a message on my screen"
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          {
            "id": "inviting_someone_over",
            "text": "Inviting someone over"
          },
          {
            "id": "sharing_news_about_me",
            "text": "Sharing news about me"
          }
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_014",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which details make a boundary sound caring instead of cold?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
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        "tone",
        "boundaries"
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            "id": "plain_direct_words",
            "text": "Plain, direct words"
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            "id": "a_kind_tone",
            "text": "A kind tone"
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          {
            "id": "a_short_honest_reason",
            "text": "A short honest reason"
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          {
            "id": "saying_what_is_still_okay",
            "text": "Saying what is still okay"
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      "id": "boundaries_015",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which request for space would be easiest to hear?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "alone_time",
        "wording",
        "boundaries"
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            "id": "i_need_an_hour_to_myself",
            "text": "I need an hour to myself"
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          {
            "id": "i_am_overloaded_and_need_quiet",
            "text": "I am overloaded and need quiet"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_want_to_finish_this_alone",
            "text": "I want to finish this alone"
          },
          {
            "id": "can_we_reconnect_after_i_clear_my_head",
            "text": "Can we reconnect after I clear my head?"
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      "id": "boundaries_016",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should never require a long defense?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "autonomy",
        "saying_no",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
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            "id": "needing_sleep",
            "text": "Needing sleep"
          },
          {
            "id": "declining_a_social_plan",
            "text": "Declining a social plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_a_conversation_private",
            "text": "Keeping a conversation private"
          },
          {
            "id": "taking_time_to_think",
            "text": "Taking time to think"
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        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_017",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much room do we give each other to change our minds?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "changing_limits",
        "autonomy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "max_label": "Plenty of room"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_018",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can a no stay free of guilt?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "saying_no",
        "pressure",
        "boundaries"
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            "id": "the_answer_is_accepted_once",
            "text": "The answer is accepted once"
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          {
            "id": "affection_stays_normal",
            "text": "Affection stays normal"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_scorekeeping_later",
            "text": "No scorekeeping later"
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          {
            "id": "no_need_for_a_long_explanation",
            "text": "No need for a long explanation"
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      "id": "boundaries_019",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What boundaries are easiest for you to say out loud?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
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        "boundary_requests",
        "boundaries"
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            "id": "i_need_some_space",
            "text": "I need some space"
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            "id": "i_cannot_fit_that_into_my_schedule",
            "text": "I cannot fit that into my schedule"
          },
          {
            "id": "please_ask_before_borrowing_that",
            "text": "Please ask before borrowing that"
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            "id": "i_am_not_up_for_that_plan",
            "text": "I am not up for that plan"
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      "id": "boundaries_020",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is your first sign that a limit has been reached?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
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        "limits",
        "boundaries"
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            "id": "i_need_quiet",
            "text": "I need quiet"
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          {
            "id": "i_get_irritated",
            "text": "I get irritated"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_start_pulling_away",
            "text": "I start pulling away"
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          {
            "id": "i_say_it_directly",
            "text": "I say it directly"
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      "id": "boundaries_021",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one small boundary that would make daily life easier?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
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        "written",
        "boundaries"
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    {
      "id": "boundaries_022",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a limit easy to remember?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "clarity",
        "boundary_requests",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_wording_is_simple",
            "text": "The wording is simple"
          },
          {
            "id": "they_connect_to_a_specific_place",
            "text": "They connect to a specific place"
          },
          {
            "id": "they_have_a_clear_trigger",
            "text": "They have a clear trigger"
          },
          {
            "id": "they_fit_an_existing_routine",
            "text": "They fit an existing routine"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_023",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Where does healthy privacy matter most to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "autonomy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "thoughts_i_am_not_ready_to_share",
            "text": "Thoughts I am not ready to share"
          },
          {
            "id": "private_messages",
            "text": "Private messages"
          },
          {
            "id": "solo_hobbies",
            "text": "Solo hobbies"
          },
          {
            "id": "something_a_friend_told_me_in_confidence",
            "text": "Something a friend told me in confidence"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_024",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "After one of us asks for space, what feels right?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "alone_time",
        "respect",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "accepting_it_without_offense",
            "text": "Accepting it without offense"
          },
          {
            "id": "agreeing_when_to_reconnect",
            "text": "Agreeing when to reconnect"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_necessary_plans_clear",
            "text": "Keeping necessary plans clear"
          },
          {
            "id": "letting_silence_be_okay",
            "text": "Letting silence be okay"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_025",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes independence feel healthy between us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "independence",
        "autonomy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "cheering_each_other_on",
            "text": "Cheering each other on"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_separate_friendships",
            "text": "Keeping separate friendships"
          },
          {
            "id": "having_solo_interests",
            "text": "Having solo interests"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_needing_constant_updates",
            "text": "Not needing constant updates"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_026",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which phone boundary matters most at bedtime?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "phones",
        "sleep",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_phones_in_bed",
            "text": "No phones in bed"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_check_then_phones_away",
            "text": "A quick check, then phones away"
          },
          {
            "id": "silent_mode_for_both_phones",
            "text": "Silent mode for both phones"
          },
          {
            "id": "charging_phones_away_from_us",
            "text": "Charging phones away from us"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_027",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What phone habits feel respectful when we are together?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "phones",
        "daily_life",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "turning_the_screen_down",
            "text": "Turning the screen down"
          },
          {
            "id": "mentioning_when_a_reply_is_urgent",
            "text": "Mentioning when a reply is urgent"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_reading_over_each_other_s_shoulder",
            "text": "Not reading over each other’s shoulder"
          },
          {
            "id": "asking_before_sharing_a_photo",
            "text": "Asking before sharing a photo"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_028",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should stay private unless we both agree?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "private_information",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "our_disagreements",
            "text": "Our disagreements"
          },
          {
            "id": "our_sex_life",
            "text": "Our sex life"
          },
          {
            "id": "our_financial_details",
            "text": "Our financial details"
          },
          {
            "id": "family_problems_told_in_confidence",
            "text": "Family problems told in confidence"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_029",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you with us using each other’s phones?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "phones",
        "privacy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "I prefer them separate",
        "max_label": "I am fully comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_030",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes social media sharing feel considerate?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "social_media",
        "public_sharing",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "checking_before_relationship_news",
            "text": "Checking before relationship news"
          },
          {
            "id": "letting_me_approve_photos_of_myself",
            "text": "Letting me approve photos of myself"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_private_jokes_private",
            "text": "Keeping private jokes private"
          },
          {
            "id": "respecting_days_i_do_not_want_to_post",
            "text": "Respecting days I do not want to post"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_031",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Post it or keep it between us?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "social_media",
        "fun_first",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "post_it",
            "text": "Post it"
          },
          {
            "id": "keep_it_between_us",
            "text": "Keep it between us"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_032",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of online sharing needs a check-in first?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "social_media",
        "public_sharing",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "an_unflattering_photo",
            "text": "An unflattering photo"
          },
          {
            "id": "relationship_news",
            "text": "Relationship news"
          },
          {
            "id": "our_live_location",
            "text": "Our live location"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_personal_story_about_me",
            "text": "A personal story about me"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_033",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Where should privacy be the default online?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "digital_privacy",
        "autonomy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "email",
            "text": "Email"
          },
          {
            "id": "notes_and_drafts",
            "text": "Notes and drafts"
          },
          {
            "id": "private_chats",
            "text": "Private chats"
          },
          {
            "id": "search_history",
            "text": "Search history"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_034",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps location sharing practical without becoming controlling?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "location_sharing",
        "safety",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_stays_optional",
            "text": "It stays optional"
          },
          {
            "id": "there_is_a_clear_reason_for_it",
            "text": "There is a clear reason for it"
          },
          {
            "id": "either_person_can_pause_it",
            "text": "Either person can pause it"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_never_becomes_an_interrogation",
            "text": "It never becomes an interrogation"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_035",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How clear are our expectations about online privacy?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "digital_privacy",
        "clarity",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Mostly unclear",
        "max_label": "Very clear"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_036",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can we usually borrow without asking?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "belongings",
        "shared_space",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_phone_charger",
            "text": "A phone charger"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_blanket",
            "text": "A blanket"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_kitchen_item",
            "text": "A kitchen item"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_household_tool",
            "text": "A household tool"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_037",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What borrowing rule fits personal belongings best?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "belongings",
        "permission",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_every_time",
            "text": "Ask every time"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_once_then_remember",
            "text": "Ask once, then remember"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_only_for_valuable_items",
            "text": "Ask only for valuable items"
          },
          {
            "id": "decide_item_by_item",
            "text": "Decide item by item"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_038",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What feels more personal than it might look?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "belongings",
        "privacy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clothes",
            "text": "Clothes"
          },
          {
            "id": "notebooks",
            "text": "Notebooks"
          },
          {
            "id": "headphones",
            "text": "Headphones"
          },
          {
            "id": "keepsakes",
            "text": "Keepsakes"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_039",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "For a shared account, what feels fair?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "shared_accounts",
        "digital_privacy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "both_people_know_who_has_access",
            "text": "Both people know who has access"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_has_one_clear_purpose",
            "text": "It has one clear purpose"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_surprise_setting_changes",
            "text": "No surprise setting changes"
          },
          {
            "id": "either_person_can_opt_out",
            "text": "Either person can opt out"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_040",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you with surprise photos of you?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "photos",
        "public_sharing",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Please ask first",
        "max_label": "Usually fine with me"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_041",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When would you rather keep the camera away?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "photos",
        "privacy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "hard_conversations",
            "text": "Hard conversations"
          },
          {
            "id": "sick_or_exhausted_moments",
            "text": "Sick or exhausted moments"
          },
          {
            "id": "private_affection",
            "text": "Private affection"
          },
          {
            "id": "emotional_family_moments",
            "text": "Emotional family moments"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_042",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of privacy matters most to you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "preferences",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "digital_privacy",
            "text": "Digital privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "personal_belongings",
            "text": "Personal belongings"
          },
          {
            "id": "unshared_thoughts",
            "text": "Unshared thoughts"
          },
          {
            "id": "time_alone",
            "text": "Time alone"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_043",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should we ask about before telling friends?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "private_information",
        "friends",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "details_from_an_argument",
            "text": "Details from an argument"
          },
          {
            "id": "health_news",
            "text": "Health news"
          },
          {
            "id": "money_news",
            "text": "Money news"
          },
          {
            "id": "intimate_details",
            "text": "Intimate details"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_044",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What digital habits feel intrusive, even when meant kindly?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "digital_privacy",
        "pressure",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "checking_online_status",
            "text": "Checking online status"
          },
          {
            "id": "reading_message_previews",
            "text": "Reading message previews"
          },
          {
            "id": "asking_who_every_message_is_from",
            "text": "Asking who every message is from"
          },
          {
            "id": "watching_location_updates",
            "text": "Watching location updates"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_045",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps a shared calendar useful without feeling invasive?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "scheduling",
        "digital_privacy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "only_joint_plans_are_required",
            "text": "Only joint plans are required"
          },
          {
            "id": "personal_details_stay_optional",
            "text": "Personal details stay optional"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_minute_by_minute_tracking",
            "text": "No minute-by-minute tracking"
          },
          {
            "id": "there_is_room_for_spontaneous_plans",
            "text": "There is room for spontaneous plans"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_046",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "If a password is shared, what should that mean?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "passwords",
        "privacy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "practical_backup_only",
            "text": "Practical backup only"
          },
          {
            "id": "open_access_anytime",
            "text": "Open access anytime"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_before_using_it",
            "text": "Ask before using it"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_depends_on_the_account",
            "text": "It depends on the account"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_047",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Where do we need clearer online agreements?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "social_media",
        "outside_attention",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "flirty_messages",
            "text": "Flirty messages"
          },
          {
            "id": "contact_with_an_ex",
            "text": "Contact with an ex"
          },
          {
            "id": "private_messages_that_turn_personal",
            "text": "Private messages that turn personal"
          },
          {
            "id": "public_comments_that_cross_a_line",
            "text": "Public comments that cross a line"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_048",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps outside friendships respectful to us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "friends",
        "privacy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "our_private_life_does_not_become_gossip",
            "text": "Our private life does not become gossip"
          },
          {
            "id": "friends_confidences_stay_protected",
            "text": "Friends’ confidences stay protected"
          },
          {
            "id": "there_is_room_for_private_conversations",
            "text": "There is room for private conversations"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_speak_up_if_a_line_starts_to_blur",
            "text": "We speak up if a line starts to blur"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_049",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you want kept just between us?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "private_information",
        "written",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_050",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should never become a joke outside our relationship?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "humor",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "an_insecurity",
            "text": "An insecurity"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_intimate_moment",
            "text": "An intimate moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_family_problem",
            "text": "A family problem"
          },
          {
            "id": "something_told_in_confidence",
            "text": "Something told in confidence"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_051",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "How much notice feels fair before someone visits?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "visitors",
        "home_space",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_quick_same_day_check",
            "text": "A quick same-day check"
          },
          {
            "id": "at_least_one_day",
            "text": "At least one day"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_few_days",
            "text": "A few days"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_depends_who_is_coming",
            "text": "It depends who is coming"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_052",
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      "text": "Before involving family, what should we decide ourselves?",
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        "couple_decisions",
        "boundaries"
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          {
            "id": "choices_about_our_home",
            "text": "Choices about our home"
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          {
            "id": "relationship_news",
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
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      "text": "When does family advice feel helpful rather than involved?",
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        "outside_advice",
        "boundaries"
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            "id": "they_do_not_pressure_us",
            "text": "They do not pressure us"
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
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      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How protected does our relationship feel from outside opinions?",
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        "family",
        "boundaries"
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_055",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Drop-in visits or planned visits?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "visitors",
        "fun_first",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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      }
    },
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      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When do friend plans need a heads-up?",
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        "friends",
        "scheduling",
        "boundaries"
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            "text": "Being out late"
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          {
            "id": "hosting_at_home",
            "text": "Hosting at home"
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          {
            "id": "changing_plans_we_already_made",
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        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
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      "id": "boundaries_057",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When a friend needs a lot, which limit matters most?",
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        "friends",
        "emotional_bandwidth",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
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            "id": "protecting_plans_we_already_made",
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          {
            "id": "keeping_our_private_life_private",
            "text": "Keeping our private life private"
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          {
            "id": "not_becoming_the_only_support_person",
            "text": "Not becoming the only support person"
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      }
    },
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      "id": "boundaries_058",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which habits help friendships and our relationship fit together?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "friends",
        "independence",
        "boundaries"
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          {
            "id": "no_jealousy_games",
            "text": "No jealousy games"
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          {
            "id": "protecting_plans_already_made",
            "text": "Protecting plans already made"
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_059",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What is hardest to turn down when someone asks?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "outside_obligations",
        "teamwork",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
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          {
            "id": "requests_to_lend_money",
            "text": "Requests to lend money"
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          {
            "id": "holiday_pressure",
            "text": "Holiday pressure"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_060",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it for us to decline plans without guilt?",
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        "social_plans",
        "saying_no",
        "boundaries"
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        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "It often feels hard",
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      }
    },
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      "id": "boundaries_061",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of our life should stay ours to decide?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family",
        "autonomy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
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            "id": "our_home_rules",
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          {
            "id": "private_disagreements",
            "text": "Private disagreements"
          },
          {
            "id": "major_couple_decisions",
            "text": "Major couple decisions"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_062",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of family involvement feels best?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family",
        "preferences",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
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            "id": "mostly_separate",
            "text": "Mostly separate"
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            "id": "regular_visits_with_clear_limits",
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          },
          {
            "id": "very_involved_but_they_ask_first",
            "text": "Very involved, but they ask first"
          },
          {
            "id": "different_limits_for_different_relatives",
            "text": "Different limits for different relatives"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_063",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "For hosting, what rules feel fair to both of us?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "visitors",
        "home_space",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "checking_before_inviting",
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            "id": "agreeing_on_the_timing",
            "text": "Agreeing on the timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "room_to_say_not_tonight",
            "text": "Room to say not tonight"
          },
          {
            "id": "private_areas_stay_private",
            "text": "Private areas stay private"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_064",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Once made, what plans deserve protection?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "scheduling",
        "commitments",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "date_time",
            "text": "Date time"
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          {
            "id": "a_family_commitment",
            "text": "A family commitment"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_personal_appointment",
            "text": "A personal appointment"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_065",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often do outside obligations crowd out our time?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "outside_obligations",
        "couple_time",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely",
        "max_label": "Very often"
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_066",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which habits make saying no to family easier as a team?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family",
        "teamwork",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
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            "id": "not_blaming_the_other_partner",
            "text": "Not blaming the other partner"
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          {
            "id": "deciding_privately_first",
            "text": "Deciding privately first"
          },
          {
            "id": "supporting_each_other_afterward",
            "text": "Supporting each other afterward"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_067",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which boundary is hardest with people you love?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family",
        "friends",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
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            "text": "Time"
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            "id": "unwanted_advice",
            "text": "Unwanted advice"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_068",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What drains your social energy fastest?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "social_energy",
        "self_awareness",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
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            "id": "large_groups",
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          {
            "id": "surprise_plans",
            "text": "Surprise plans"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_expected_to_stay_late",
            "text": "Being expected to stay late"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_069",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which options help you enjoy social plans without feeling trapped?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "social_energy",
        "social_plans",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
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            "id": "knowing_the_end_time",
            "text": "Knowing the end time"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_free_to_leave_early",
            "text": "Being free to leave early"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_time_before_or_after",
            "text": "Quiet time before or after"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_070",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can we comfortably share with close friends?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "friends",
        "private_information",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "harmless_funny_stories",
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          {
            "id": "plans_that_are_already_public",
            "text": "Plans that are already public"
          },
          {
            "id": "things_we_agreed_were_shareable",
            "text": "Things we agreed were shareable"
          },
          {
            "id": "general_advice_without_identifying_details",
            "text": "General advice without identifying details"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_071",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "If one of us wants to leave early, what works best?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "social_plans",
        "signals",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
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            "id": "say_it_directly",
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            "id": "use_a_private_signal",
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          {
            "id": "agree_on_a_time_beforehand",
            "text": "Agree on a time beforehand"
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          {
            "id": "leave_separately_if_needed",
            "text": "Leave separately if needed"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_072",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should stay ours during holidays?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "holidays",
        "family",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
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            "id": "some_private_time",
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          {
            "id": "traditions_we_choose_together",
            "text": "Traditions we choose together"
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          {
            "id": "the_right_to_decline_extras",
            "text": "The right to decline extras"
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        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_073",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Before saying yes, what outside commitments need a conversation?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "outside_obligations",
        "couple_decisions",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
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            "id": "overnight_guests",
            "text": "Overnight guests"
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          {
            "id": "lending_shared_money",
            "text": "Lending shared money"
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          {
            "id": "a_long_trip",
            "text": "A long trip"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_recurring_weekly_commitment",
            "text": "A recurring weekly commitment"
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        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_074",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one outside pressure you want us to handle as a team?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "outside_pressure",
        "written",
        "boundaries"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_075",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What protects our time without shutting others out?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_time",
        "outside_obligations",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
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            "id": "making_plans_early",
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            "id": "keeping_some_flexible_time",
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          {
            "id": "explaining_limits_kindly",
            "text": "Explaining limits kindly"
          },
          {
            "id": "choosing_priorities_together",
            "text": "Choosing priorities together"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_076",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When work follows us home, which limit matters most?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "work",
        "home_space",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
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            "id": "a_firm_end_time",
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            "text": "No work during meals"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_work_during_planned_couple_time",
            "text": "No work during planned couple time"
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          {
            "id": "a_separate_work_area",
            "text": "A separate work area"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_077",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When can work reasonably interrupt personal time?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "work",
        "interruptions",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
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            "id": "a_deadline_that_affects_tomorrow",
            "text": "A deadline that affects tomorrow"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_scheduled_on_call_issue",
            "text": "A scheduled on-call issue"
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          {
            "id": "a_message_only_one_person_can_answer",
            "text": "A message only one person can answer"
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        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_078",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps work time feel respected at home?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "work",
        "personal_space",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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            "id": "clear_start_and_end_times",
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          {
            "id": "asking_before_interrupting",
            "text": "Asking before interrupting"
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          {
            "id": "real_breaks_during_long_stretches",
            "text": "Real breaks during long stretches"
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        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_079",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we protect rest from work demands?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "work",
        "rest",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Work often takes over",
        "max_label": "Rest stays protected"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_080",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Work talk now or after dinner?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "work",
        "fun_first",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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            "id": "wait_until_after_dinner",
            "text": "Wait until after dinner"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_081",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When does a schedule change need a heads-up?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "scheduling",
        "consideration",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
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            "id": "running_late",
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          },
          {
            "id": "changing_shared_plans",
            "text": "Changing shared plans"
          },
          {
            "id": "becoming_unavailable",
            "text": "Becoming unavailable"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_082",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "How much planning feels best for weekends?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "scheduling",
        "weekends",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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          {
            "id": "most_of_it_planned",
            "text": "Most of it planned"
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          {
            "id": "decide_as_we_go",
            "text": "Decide as we go"
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        ]
      }
    },
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      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a last-minute change easier to take?",
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        "boundaries"
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          {
            "id": "asking_instead_of_announcing",
            "text": "Asking instead of announcing"
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          {
            "id": "helping_make_a_new_plan",
            "text": "Helping make a new plan"
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    },
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      "id": "boundaries_084",
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      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What expenses make sense to keep individual?",
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      "tags": [
        "money",
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        "boundaries"
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            "id": "personal_care",
            "text": "Personal care"
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          {
            "id": "solo_meals_or_treats",
            "text": "Solo meals or treats"
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        ],
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_085",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How clear are our ask-first rules for shared money?",
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        "boundaries"
      ],
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      }
    },
    {
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      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Before spending shared money, what needs a conversation?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "couple_decisions",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "lending_money_to_someone",
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          {
            "id": "a_new_recurring_payment",
            "text": "A new recurring payment"
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          {
            "id": "using_savings",
            "text": "Using savings"
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        ],
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_087",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of financial independence feels reasonable?",
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      "tags": [
        "money",
        "privacy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "separate_personal_spending_money",
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            "text": "Private gift purchases"
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          {
            "id": "an_individual_account_with_agreed_transparency",
            "text": "An individual account with agreed transparency"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_set_amount_that_needs_no_check_in",
            "text": "A set amount that needs no check-in"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_088",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can money rules preserve freedom for both of us?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money",
        "autonomy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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          {
            "id": "the_rules_are_fair_to_both_people",
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            "text": "We agree on the thresholds"
          },
          {
            "id": "each_person_has_personal_spending_room",
            "text": "Each person has personal spending room"
          },
          {
            "id": "questions_do_not_become_interrogations",
            "text": "Questions do not become interrogations"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_089",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Where at home should an ask-first rule apply?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "home_space",
        "personal_space",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_work_area",
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            "id": "the_bedroom_when_someone_is_resting",
            "text": "The bedroom when someone is resting"
          },
          {
            "id": "personal_storage",
            "text": "Personal storage"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hobby_area",
            "text": "A hobby area"
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        ],
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_090",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much control do you feel over your own time?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "time",
        "autonomy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
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        "max_label": "Plenty"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_091",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps shared plans from feeling like orders?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "scheduling",
        "autonomy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
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            "id": "being_asked_first",
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            "id": "getting_real_options",
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          },
          {
            "id": "having_room_to_decline",
            "text": "Having room to decline"
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          {
            "id": "no_guilt_if_the_answer_is_no",
            "text": "No guilt if the answer is no"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_092",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you are emotionally drained, which limit helps most?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
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        "rest",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "postpone_serious_talks",
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            "id": "sit_together_quietly",
            "text": "Sit together quietly"
          },
          {
            "id": "give_me_time_alone",
            "text": "Give me time alone"
          },
          {
            "id": "stick_to_urgent_details_only",
            "text": "Stick to urgent details only"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_093",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When do you have the least energy for a serious topic?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "emotional_bandwidth",
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        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_am_exhausted",
            "text": "I am exhausted"
          },
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            "id": "i_cannot_focus",
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          },
          {
            "id": "i_am_already_upset",
            "text": "I am already upset"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_need_to_leave_soon",
            "text": "I need to leave soon"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_094",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How should we respond to “not right now”?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "emotional_bandwidth",
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      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "agreeing_when_to_revisit",
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            "text": "Accepting the pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_normal_warmth",
            "text": "Keeping normal warmth"
          },
          {
            "id": "checking_whether_it_is_urgent",
            "text": "Checking whether it is urgent"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_095",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which kinds of help should be offered before taking over?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "autonomy",
        "help",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "fixing_a_task",
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            "id": "answering_for_me",
            "text": "Answering for me"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_a_decision_for_me",
            "text": "Making a decision for me"
          },
          {
            "id": "changing_my_plans",
            "text": "Changing my plans"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_096",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "How should unsolicited advice work between us?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "advice",
        "permission",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_before_giving_it",
            "text": "Ask before giving it"
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            "id": "offer_it_once",
            "text": "Offer it once"
          },
          {
            "id": "wait_until_it_is_requested",
            "text": "Wait until it is requested"
          },
          {
            "id": "handle_it_differently_by_topic",
            "text": "Handle it differently by topic"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_097",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should each person be free to decide alone?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "autonomy",
        "personal_choices",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "what_to_wear",
            "text": "What to wear"
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          {
            "id": "a_personal_routine",
            "text": "A personal routine"
          },
          {
            "id": "harmless_hobbies",
            "text": "Harmless hobbies"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_to_spend_solo_time",
            "text": "How to spend solo time"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_098",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps a shared routine flexible enough?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "routines",
        "autonomy",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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          {
            "id": "exceptions_are_allowed",
            "text": "Exceptions are allowed"
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            "text": "Either person can suggest changes"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_scorekeeping",
            "text": "No scorekeeping"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_can_drop_it_when_it_stops_helping",
            "text": "We can drop it when it stops helping"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_099",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one area where you want more say over your own time?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "time",
        "autonomy",
        "written",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_100",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps boundaries usable during a busy week?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "busy_life",
        "maintenance",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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            "id": "keeping_agreements_simple",
            "text": "Keeping agreements simple"
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            "id": "giving_brief_reminders",
            "text": "Giving brief reminders"
          },
          {
            "id": "protecting_the_most_important_limits",
            "text": "Protecting the most important limits"
          },
          {
            "id": "asking_before_assuming",
            "text": "Asking before assuming"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_101",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When affection is not welcome, what response feels best?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "consent",
        "boundaries"
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        "options": [
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            "id": "accept_it_easily",
            "text": "Accept it easily"
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            "id": "switch_to_kind_words",
            "text": "Switch to kind words"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_what_would_feel_okay",
            "text": "Ask what would feel okay"
          },
          {
            "id": "give_me_some_space",
            "text": "Give me some space"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_102",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps physical affection feel welcome?",
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      "tags": [
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        "boundaries"
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            "id": "being_asked_first",
            "text": "Being asked first"
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            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_expectation_attached",
            "text": "No expectation attached"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_i_can_change_my_mind",
            "text": "Knowing I can change my mind"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_103",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When you need space, what closeness still feels good?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
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            "id": "sitting_nearby",
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          },
          {
            "id": "doing_something_together",
            "text": "Doing something together"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_brief_hug_if_i_want_one",
            "text": "A brief hug if I want one"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_104",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to change your mind about physical closeness?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "changing_limits",
        "boundaries"
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        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "It feels difficult",
        "max_label": "It feels completely okay"
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    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_105",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Ask out loud or offer a hand and wait?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "consent",
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        "boundaries"
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            "id": "offer_a_hand_and_wait",
            "text": "Offer a hand and wait"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_106",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What kinds of physical help should be ask-first?",
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      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "body_language",
        "boundaries"
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            "text": "Touching an injury"
          },
          {
            "id": "fixing_my_clothes_or_hair",
            "text": "Fixing my clothes or hair"
          },
          {
            "id": "guiding_me_through_a_crowd",
            "text": "Guiding me through a crowd"
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_107",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which way of declining touch feels easiest for you?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "pausing",
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          },
          {
            "id": "offer_a_different_kind_of_closeness",
            "text": "Offer a different kind of closeness"
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          {
            "id": "use_a_private_cue",
            "text": "Use a private cue"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_108",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can an affection boundary feel normal?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "respect",
        "boundaries"
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            "id": "warm_acceptance",
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            "id": "other_affection_if_it_is_wanted",
            "text": "Other affection if it is wanted"
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          {
            "id": "no_need_for_a_long_explanation",
            "text": "No need for a long explanation"
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          {
            "id": "an_easy_chance_to_revisit_later",
            "text": "An easy chance to revisit later"
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        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_109",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Cuddle nearby or give full space?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "personal_space",
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        "boundaries"
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      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_110",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should never become a couple vote?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_autonomy",
        "personal_choices",
        "boundaries"
      ],
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        "options": [
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            "id": "clothing",
            "text": "Clothing"
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            "id": "hairstyle",
            "text": "Hairstyle"
          },
          {
            "id": "body_changes",
            "text": "Body changes"
          },
          {
            "id": "medical_care",
            "text": "Medical care"
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        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_111",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which appearance comments feel best?",
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      "tags": [
        "appearance",
        "respect",
        "boundaries"
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          },
          {
            "id": "a_practical_heads_up",
            "text": "A practical heads-up"
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          {
            "id": "no_comments_unless_i_bring_it_up",
            "text": "No comments unless I bring it up"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_112",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps body-related advice from crossing a line?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
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        "advice",
        "boundaries"
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            "id": "asking_permission_first",
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          {
            "id": "keeping_comments_private",
            "text": "Keeping comments private"
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            "id": "accepting_no",
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        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_113",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident are you that I will respect a changed answer?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "changing_limits",
        "consent",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "I am not sure yet",
        "max_label": "I am very confident"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_114",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When is it hardest to state a boundary clearly?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundary_requests",
        "pressure",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "when_i_am_tired",
            "text": "When I am tired"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_other_people_are_present",
            "text": "When other people are present"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_i_expect_disappointment",
            "text": "When I expect disappointment"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_something_has_already_started",
            "text": "When something has already started"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_115",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Explain the boundary or keep it simple?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundary_requests",
        "fun_first",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "explain_it",
            "text": "Explain it"
          },
          {
            "id": "keep_it_simple",
            "text": "Keep it simple"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_116",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes an old agreement easier to revise?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "changing_limits",
        "agreements",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "acknowledging_that_our_needs_changed",
            "text": "Acknowledging that our needs changed"
          },
          {
            "id": "leaving_blame_out_of_it",
            "text": "Leaving blame out of it"
          },
          {
            "id": "talking_through_one_specific_part",
            "text": "Talking through one specific part"
          },
          {
            "id": "trying_the_new_version_for_a_while",
            "text": "Trying the new version for a while"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_117",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When a boundary changes, what matters most?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "changing_limits",
        "clarity",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clear_words",
            "text": "Clear words"
          },
          {
            "id": "reasonable_notice",
            "text": "Reasonable notice"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_honest_reason",
            "text": "An honest reason"
          },
          {
            "id": "room_for_questions",
            "text": "Room for questions"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_118",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When should life changes trigger a fresh boundary conversation?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "changing_limits",
        "life_changes",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_new_work_schedule",
            "text": "A new work schedule"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_health_change",
            "text": "A health change"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_different_living_arrangement",
            "text": "A different living arrangement"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_new_caregiving_responsibility",
            "text": "A new caregiving responsibility"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_119",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When does a request start to feel like pressure?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "requests",
        "pressure",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "asking_again_and_again",
            "text": "Asking again and again"
          },
          {
            "id": "withholding_affection",
            "text": "Withholding affection"
          },
          {
            "id": "using_guilt",
            "text": "Using guilt"
          },
          {
            "id": "demanding_an_immediate_answer",
            "text": "Demanding an immediate answer"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_120",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps a request genuinely optional?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "requests",
        "consent",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_no_that_is_accepted",
            "text": "A no that is accepted"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_punishment_afterward",
            "text": "No punishment afterward"
          },
          {
            "id": "time_to_think",
            "text": "Time to think"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_than_one_acceptable_choice",
            "text": "More than one acceptable choice"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_121",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When a request needs more time, which options help?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "requests",
        "decision_time",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sleeping_on_it",
            "text": "Sleeping on it"
          },
          {
            "id": "setting_a_time_to_revisit",
            "text": "Setting a time to revisit"
          },
          {
            "id": "getting_more_information",
            "text": "Getting more information"
          },
          {
            "id": "talking_when_we_are_rested",
            "text": "Talking when we are rested"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_122",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When do you want me to ask before touch?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "consent",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "when_i_just_woke_up",
            "text": "When I just woke up"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_i_am_stressed",
            "text": "When I am stressed"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_we_are_in_public",
            "text": "When we are in public"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_i_am_concentrating",
            "text": "When I am concentrating"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_123",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which public affection boundary fits you best?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "preferences",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "affection_is_fine_almost_anywhere",
            "text": "Affection is fine almost anywhere"
          },
          {
            "id": "small_gestures_only",
            "text": "Small gestures only"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_depends_on_the_place",
            "text": "It depends on the place"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_prefer_affection_in_private",
            "text": "I prefer affection in private"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_124",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes public affection feel respectful?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "consent",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "checking_my_mood",
            "text": "Checking my mood"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_it_subtle",
            "text": "Keeping it subtle"
          },
          {
            "id": "accepting_a_no_immediately",
            "text": "Accepting a no immediately"
          },
          {
            "id": "following_what_we_already_agreed",
            "text": "Following what we already agreed"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_125",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What changes may need extra patience from both of us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "changing_limits",
        "patience",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "lower_energy",
            "text": "Lower energy"
          },
          {
            "id": "different_social_needs",
            "text": "Different social needs"
          },
          {
            "id": "new_privacy_needs",
            "text": "New privacy needs"
          },
          {
            "id": "changed_affection_preferences",
            "text": "Changed affection preferences"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_126",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "During busy weeks, what boundary is easiest to forget?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "busy_life",
        "maintenance",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "alone_time",
            "text": "Alone time"
          },
          {
            "id": "phone_privacy",
            "text": "Phone privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "shared_plans",
            "text": "Shared plans"
          },
          {
            "id": "personal_belongings",
            "text": "Personal belongings"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_127",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can you tell a boundary is working well?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "maintenance",
        "success",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "there_is_less_tension",
            "text": "There is less tension"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_needs_fewer_reminders",
            "text": "It needs fewer reminders"
          },
          {
            "id": "both_people_can_still_say_no",
            "text": "Both people can still say no"
          },
          {
            "id": "closeness_still_feels_natural",
            "text": "Closeness still feels natural"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_128",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can we tell an old agreement needs updating?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "changing_limits",
        "agreements",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "resentment_keeps_showing_up",
            "text": "Resentment keeps showing up"
          },
          {
            "id": "life_has_changed",
            "text": "Life has changed"
          },
          {
            "id": "exceptions_happen_constantly",
            "text": "Exceptions happen constantly"
          },
          {
            "id": "someone_avoids_the_topic",
            "text": "Someone avoids the topic"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_129",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident are you that our boundaries can change without making us feel less close?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "changing_limits",
        "security",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not confident yet",
        "max_label": "Very confident"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_130",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Clear rule or case-by-case?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "agreements",
        "fun_first",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_clear_rule",
            "text": "A clear rule"
          },
          {
            "id": "case_by_case",
            "text": "Case-by-case"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_131",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a boundary fair to both people?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "fairness",
        "agreements",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_feels_fair_in_practice",
            "text": "It feels fair in practice"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_respects_real_differences",
            "text": "It respects real differences"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_is_realistic_to_follow",
            "text": "It is realistic to follow"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_can_be_revisited",
            "text": "It can be revisited"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_132",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "If a boundary is forgotten once, what response feels right?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reminders",
        "maintenance",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_reminder",
            "text": "A gentle reminder"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_apology",
            "text": "A quick apology"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_calm_talk_later",
            "text": "A calm talk later"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_depends_on_the_impact",
            "text": "It depends on the impact"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_133",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What kind of reminders are easiest to receive?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reminders",
        "respect",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "brief_and_direct",
            "text": "Brief and direct"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_private_cue",
            "text": "A private cue"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_calm_spoken_reminder",
            "text": "A calm spoken reminder"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_text_for_practical_rules",
            "text": "A text for practical rules"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_134",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should we check in on occasionally?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "maintenance",
        "agreements",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "phones_and_privacy",
            "text": "Phones and privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "family_involvement",
            "text": "Family involvement"
          },
          {
            "id": "shared_money_thresholds",
            "text": "Shared-money thresholds"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection_and_space",
            "text": "Affection and space"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_135",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Private cue or direct words?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "fun_first",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_private_cue",
            "text": "A private cue"
          },
          {
            "id": "direct_words",
            "text": "Direct words"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_136",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can make a reasonable boundary hard to follow?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "agreements",
        "clarity",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_is_too_vague",
            "text": "It is too vague"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_is_unrealistic",
            "text": "It is unrealistic"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_changes_without_notice",
            "text": "It changes without notice"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_conflicts_with_another_commitment",
            "text": "It conflicts with another commitment"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_137",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When two boundaries clash, what should guide the decision?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "balancing_needs",
        "decisions",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "urgency",
            "text": "Urgency"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_size_of_the_impact",
            "text": "The size of the impact"
          },
          {
            "id": "what_we_agreed_before",
            "text": "What we agreed before"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_best_available_compromise",
            "text": "The best available compromise"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_138",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When both needs are valid but different, what helps?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "balancing_needs",
        "fairness",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "being_clear_about_what_cannot_bend",
            "text": "Being clear about what cannot bend"
          },
          {
            "id": "looking_for_a_third_option",
            "text": "Looking for a third option"
          },
          {
            "id": "taking_turns_when_possible",
            "text": "Taking turns when possible"
          },
          {
            "id": "revisiting_it_later",
            "text": "Revisiting it later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_139",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What limits protect us without controlling either person?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "healthy_boundaries",
        "safety",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_public_humiliation",
            "text": "No public humiliation"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_sharing_private_information",
            "text": "No sharing private information"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_volunteering_the_other_person",
            "text": "No volunteering the other person"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pressure_after_a_no",
            "text": "No pressure after a no"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_140",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "One firm boundary or a flexible guideline?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "agreements",
        "fun_first",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "one_firm_boundary",
            "text": "One firm boundary"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_flexible_guideline",
            "text": "A flexible guideline"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_141",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a boundary worth revisiting?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "changing_limits",
        "agreements",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "one_person_is_unhappy_with_it",
            "text": "One person is unhappy with it"
          },
          {
            "id": "life_has_changed",
            "text": "Life has changed"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_rule_never_works_in_practice",
            "text": "The rule never works in practice"
          },
          {
            "id": "new_information_matters",
            "text": "New information matters"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "boundaries_142",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which boundaries make it easier to relax in a relationship?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "healthy_boundaries",
        "security",
        "boundaries"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "private_details_stay_private",
            "text": "Private details stay private"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_no_is_not_punished",
            "text": "A no is not punished"
          },
          {
            "id": "alone_time_is_normal",
            "text": "Alone time is normal"
          },
          {
            "id": "personal_belongings_are_respected",
            "text": "Personal belongings are respected"
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            "id": "what_is_still_okay",
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
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      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Where should we state expectations instead of assuming them?",
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      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of boundary brings you the most relief?",
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      "access": "premium",
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      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us respect differences without needing identical rules?",
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        "boundaries"
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            "id": "staying_curious",
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
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      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When should a boundary request get extra gentleness?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
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          {
            "id": "privacy_limits",
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          {
            "id": "health_and_energy_limits",
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
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      "id": "boundaries_148",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes boundaries feel like care rather than rules?",
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      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
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        "boundaries"
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            "id": "mutual_respect",
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
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      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one boundary you hope we always protect?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "written",
        "boundaries"
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        "max_length": 500
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      "id": "boundaries_150",
      "category_id": "boundaries",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What habits protect boundaries over time?",
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      "access": "premium",
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        "boundaries"
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          },
          {
            "id": "updating_old_agreements",
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          {
            "id": "keeping_private_things_private",
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