Closer/seed/questions/difficult_conversations.json

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    "id": "difficult_conversations",
    "display_name": "Difficult Conversations",
    "description": "Questions that help couples choose the right time, speak plainly, listen carefully, and handle hard subjects without pressure.",
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        "scale": 15,
        "this_or_that": 10,
        "written": 5
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        "1": 39,
        "2": 83,
        "3": 28
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      "pack_boundary": "How to start, frame, receive, and continue a hard conversation before it becomes active conflict or later repair.",
      "final_review": "Current guide, read-aloud, option-parallelism, cross-pack, consent, privacy, safety, repetition, and importer review completed."
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  "questions": [
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_001",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When is a serious conversation easiest for you to begin?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "readiness",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_001_1_after_we_have_eaten_and_settled_in",
          "text": "After we have eaten and settled in"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_001_2_during_a_quiet_walk_together",
          "text": "During a quiet walk together"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_001_3_earlier_in_the_day_with_time_ahead",
          "text": "Earlier in the day with time ahead"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_001_4_at_a_time_we_chose_in_advance",
          "text": "At a time we chose in advance"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_001_1_after_we_have_eaten_and_settled_in",
            "text": "After we have eaten and settled in"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_001_2_during_a_quiet_walk_together",
            "text": "During a quiet walk together"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_001_3_earlier_in_the_day_with_time_ahead",
            "text": "Earlier in the day with time ahead"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_001_4_at_a_time_we_chose_in_advance",
            "text": "At a time we chose in advance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_002",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs tell you that you have enough energy for a hard talk?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "readiness",
        "energy",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_002_1_i_can_focus_without_rushing",
          "text": "I can focus without rushing"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_002_2_my_body_feels_reasonably_calm",
          "text": "My body feels reasonably calm"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_002_3_i_am_not_distracted_by_another_deadline",
          "text": "I am not distracted by another deadline"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_002_4_i_can_hear_an_answer_i_may_not_expect",
          "text": "I can hear an answer I may not expect"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_002_1_i_can_focus_without_rushing",
            "text": "I can focus without rushing"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_002_2_my_body_feels_reasonably_calm",
            "text": "My body feels reasonably calm"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_002_3_i_am_not_distracted_by_another_deadline",
            "text": "I am not distracted by another deadline"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_002_4_i_can_hear_an_answer_i_may_not_expect",
            "text": "I can hear an answer I may not expect"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_003",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes the timing of a difficult subject feel considerate?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "consideration",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_003_1_checking_whether_i_have_a_few_minutes",
          "text": "Checking whether I have a few minutes"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_003_2_giving_me_some_idea_of_the_topic",
          "text": "Giving me some idea of the topic"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_003_3_avoiding_the_moment_right_before_sleep",
          "text": "Avoiding the moment right before sleep"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_003_4_leaving_enough_time_for_a_real_answer",
          "text": "Leaving enough time for a real answer"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_003_1_checking_whether_i_have_a_few_minutes",
            "text": "Checking whether I have a few minutes"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_003_2_giving_me_some_idea_of_the_topic",
            "text": "Giving me some idea of the topic"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_003_3_avoiding_the_moment_right_before_sleep",
            "text": "Avoiding the moment right before sleep"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_003_4_leaving_enough_time_for_a_real_answer",
            "text": "Leaving enough time for a real answer"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_004",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it for you to say that the timing does not work?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "comfort",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not easy yet",
        "max_label": "Very easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_005",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A little warning first or a planned time to talk?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "preparation",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_005_1_a_little_warning_first",
          "text": "A little warning first"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_005_2_a_planned_time_to_talk",
          "text": "A planned time to talk"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_005_1_a_little_warning_first",
            "text": "A little warning first"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_005_2_a_planned_time_to_talk",
            "text": "A planned time to talk"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_006",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which moments usually make a hard conversation harder than it needs to be?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "poor_conditions",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_006_1_one_of_us_is_already_running_late",
          "text": "One of us is already running late"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_006_2_the_television_is_competing_for_attention",
          "text": "The television is competing for attention"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_006_3_someone_else_can_overhear_us",
          "text": "Someone else can overhear us"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_006_4_we_are_both_too_tired_to_think_clearly",
          "text": "We are both too tired to think clearly"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_006_1_one_of_us_is_already_running_late",
            "text": "One of us is already running late"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_006_2_the_television_is_competing_for_attention",
            "text": "The television is competing for attention"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_006_3_someone_else_can_overhear_us",
            "text": "Someone else can overhear us"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_006_4_we_are_both_too_tired_to_think_clearly",
            "text": "We are both too tired to think clearly"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_007",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "If a topic is not urgent, how much notice feels best?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "notice",
        "planning",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_007_1_a_few_minutes",
          "text": "A few minutes"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_007_2_an_hour_or_two",
          "text": "An hour or two"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_007_3_later_the_same_day",
          "text": "Later the same day"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_007_4_a_day_in_advance",
          "text": "A day in advance"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_007_1_a_few_minutes",
            "text": "A few minutes"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_007_2_an_hour_or_two",
            "text": "An hour or two"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_007_3_later_the_same_day",
            "text": "Later the same day"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_007_4_a_day_in_advance",
            "text": "A day in advance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_008",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you decide whether a subject can wait?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "urgency",
        "judgment",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_008_1_risk_of_harm_if_we_wait",
          "text": "Risk of harm if we wait"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_008_2_a_deadline_that_is_close",
          "text": "A deadline that is close"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_008_3_the_concern_getting_worse_over_time",
          "text": "The concern getting worse over time"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_008_4_a_better_chance_of_speaking_thoughtfully_later",
          "text": "A better chance of speaking thoughtfully later"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_008_1_risk_of_harm_if_we_wait",
            "text": "Risk of harm if we wait"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_008_2_a_deadline_that_is_close",
            "text": "A deadline that is close"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_008_3_the_concern_getting_worse_over_time",
            "text": "The concern getting worse over time"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_008_4_a_better_chance_of_speaking_thoughtfully_later",
            "text": "A better chance of speaking thoughtfully later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_009",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which small preparations help you enter a serious talk with a clearer head?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "preparation",
        "clarity",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_009_1_writing_down_the_main_point",
          "text": "Writing down the main point"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_009_2_taking_care_of_an_immediate_need_first",
          "text": "Taking care of an immediate need first"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_009_3_choosing_one_question_to_start_with",
          "text": "Choosing one question to start with"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_009_4_deciding_what_can_wait_for_another_day",
          "text": "Deciding what can wait for another day"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_009_1_writing_down_the_main_point",
            "text": "Writing down the main point"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_009_2_taking_care_of_an_immediate_need_first",
            "text": "Taking care of an immediate need first"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_009_3_choosing_one_question_to_start_with",
            "text": "Choosing one question to start with"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_009_4_deciding_what_can_wait_for_another_day",
            "text": "Deciding what can wait for another day"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_010",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one thing you wish I remembered before bringing up a hard subject?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "personal_preference",
        "preparation",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_011",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes postponing a conversation feel responsible rather than evasive?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "postponing",
        "follow_through",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_011_1_naming_a_specific_time_to_return",
          "text": "Naming a specific time to return"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_011_2_saying_why_the_delay_would_help",
          "text": "Saying why the delay would help"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_011_3_handling_anything_truly_urgent_first",
          "text": "Handling anything truly urgent first"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_011_4_keeping_the_new_time_without_another_excuse",
          "text": "Keeping the new time without another excuse"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_011_1_naming_a_specific_time_to_return",
            "text": "Naming a specific time to return"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_011_2_saying_why_the_delay_would_help",
            "text": "Saying why the delay would help"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_011_3_handling_anything_truly_urgent_first",
            "text": "Handling anything truly urgent first"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_011_4_keeping_the_new_time_without_another_excuse",
            "text": "Keeping the new time without another excuse"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_012",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which question is the best timing check for you?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "opening_question",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_012_1_do_you_have_room_for_something_important",
          "text": "Do you have room for something important?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_012_2_would_later_tonight_work_for_a_serious_topic",
          "text": "Would later tonight work for a serious topic?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_012_3_is_now_a_decent_time_for_a_ten_minute_talk",
          "text": "Is now a decent time for a ten-minute talk?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_012_4_can_i_tell_you_what_has_been_on_my_mind",
          "text": "Can I tell you what has been on my mind?"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_012_1_do_you_have_room_for_something_important",
            "text": "Do you have room for something important?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_012_2_would_later_tonight_work_for_a_serious_topic",
            "text": "Would later tonight work for a serious topic?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_012_3_is_now_a_decent_time_for_a_ten_minute_talk",
            "text": "Is now a decent time for a ten-minute talk?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_012_4_can_i_tell_you_what_has_been_on_my_mind",
            "text": "Can I tell you what has been on my mind?"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_013",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which conditions help you listen without feeling cornered?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "conditions",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_013_1_knowing_i_can_ask_for_a_short_pause",
          "text": "Knowing I can ask for a short pause"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_013_2_sitting_somewhere_private",
          "text": "Sitting somewhere private"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_013_3_hearing_the_concern_stated_plainly",
          "text": "Hearing the concern stated plainly"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_013_4_not_being_expected_to_answer_instantly",
          "text": "Not being expected to answer instantly"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_013_1_knowing_i_can_ask_for_a_short_pause",
            "text": "Knowing I can ask for a short pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_013_2_sitting_somewhere_private",
            "text": "Sitting somewhere private"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_013_3_hearing_the_concern_stated_plainly",
            "text": "Hearing the concern stated plainly"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_013_4_not_being_expected_to_answer_instantly",
            "text": "Not being expected to answer instantly"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_014",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can make a scheduled hard talk feel less intimidating?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "planning",
        "comfort",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_014_1_agreeing_on_how_long_the_first_round_will_be",
          "text": "Agreeing on how long the first round will be"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_014_2_starting_with_the_reason_the_talk_matters",
          "text": "Starting with the reason the talk matters"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_014_3_having_water_or_coffee_nearby",
          "text": "Having water or coffee nearby"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_014_4_knowing_one_conversation_does_not_have_to_solve_everything",
          "text": "Knowing one conversation does not have to solve everything"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_014_1_agreeing_on_how_long_the_first_round_will_be",
            "text": "Agreeing on how long the first round will be"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_014_2_starting_with_the_reason_the_talk_matters",
            "text": "Starting with the reason the talk matters"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_014_3_having_water_or_coffee_nearby",
            "text": "Having water or coffee nearby"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_014_4_knowing_one_conversation_does_not_have_to_solve_everything",
            "text": "Knowing one conversation does not have to solve everything"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_015",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How do you show that a serious conversation has your full attention?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "readiness",
        "listening",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_015_1_putting_down_what_i_am_doing",
          "text": "Putting down what I am doing"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_015_2_turning_toward_you_before_you_begin",
          "text": "Turning toward you before you begin"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_015_3_asking_for_the_main_point_first",
          "text": "Asking for the main point first"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_015_4_saying_honestly_how_much_time_i_have",
          "text": "Saying honestly how much time I have"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_015_1_putting_down_what_i_am_doing",
            "text": "Putting down what I am doing"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_015_2_turning_toward_you_before_you_begin",
            "text": "Turning toward you before you begin"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_015_3_asking_for_the_main_point_first",
            "text": "Asking for the main point first"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_015_4_saying_honestly_how_much_time_i_have",
            "text": "Saying honestly how much time I have"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_016",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should a good opening make clear first?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "openings",
        "clarity",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_016_1_why_the_subject_matters",
          "text": "Why the subject matters"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_016_2_what_kind_of_response_is_needed",
          "text": "What kind of response is needed"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_016_3_how_much_time_the_talk_may_take",
          "text": "How much time the talk may take"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_016_4_whether_the_issue_is_urgent",
          "text": "Whether the issue is urgent"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_016_1_why_the_subject_matters",
            "text": "Why the subject matters"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_016_2_what_kind_of_response_is_needed",
            "text": "What kind of response is needed"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_016_3_how_much_time_the_talk_may_take",
            "text": "How much time the talk may take"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_016_4_whether_the_issue_is_urgent",
            "text": "Whether the issue is urgent"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_017",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which openings make a serious subject easier to hear?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "soft_start",
        "openings",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_017_1_i_want_to_talk_about_something_that_matters_to_me",
          "text": "I want to talk about something that matters to me"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_017_2_this_is_hard_to_say_and_i_want_to_say_it_carefully",
          "text": "This is hard to say, and I want to say it carefully"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_017_3_i_am_not_looking_for_a_fight",
          "text": "I am not looking for a fight"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_017_4_could_i_tell_you_what_has_been_worrying_me",
          "text": "Could I tell you what has been worrying me?"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_017_1_i_want_to_talk_about_something_that_matters_to_me",
            "text": "I want to talk about something that matters to me"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_017_2_this_is_hard_to_say_and_i_want_to_say_it_carefully",
            "text": "This is hard to say, and I want to say it carefully"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_017_3_i_am_not_looking_for_a_fight",
            "text": "I am not looking for a fight"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_017_4_could_i_tell_you_what_has_been_worrying_me",
            "text": "Could I tell you what has been worrying me?"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_018",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps direct wording from sounding harsh?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "directness",
        "tone",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_018_1_a_steady_speaking_voice",
          "text": "A steady speaking voice"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_018_2_one_specific_example_instead_of_a_list",
          "text": "One specific example instead of a list"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_018_3_a_request_rather_than_a_verdict",
          "text": "A request rather than a verdict"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_018_4_room_for_the_other_person_to_explain",
          "text": "Room for the other person to explain"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_018_1_a_steady_speaking_voice",
            "text": "A steady speaking voice"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_018_2_one_specific_example_instead_of_a_list",
            "text": "One specific example instead of a list"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_018_3_a_request_rather_than_a_verdict",
            "text": "A request rather than a verdict"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_018_4_room_for_the_other_person_to_explain",
            "text": "Room for the other person to explain"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_019",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you starting a conversation without rehearsing every sentence?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "openings",
        "confidence",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_020",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which first sentences are likely to put you on guard?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "openings",
        "defensiveness",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_020_1_you_always_do_this",
          "text": "You always do this"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_020_2_everyone_agrees_with_me",
          "text": "Everyone agrees with me"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_020_3_you_know_exactly_what_you_did",
          "text": "You know exactly what you did"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_020_4_we_need_to_settle_this_right_now",
          "text": "We need to settle this right now"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_020_1_you_always_do_this",
            "text": "You always do this"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_020_2_everyone_agrees_with_me",
            "text": "Everyone agrees with me"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_020_3_you_know_exactly_what_you_did",
            "text": "You know exactly what you did"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_020_4_we_need_to_settle_this_right_now",
            "text": "We need to settle this right now"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_021",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Start with the concern or start with the request?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "openings",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_021_1_start_with_the_concern",
          "text": "Start with the concern"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_021_2_start_with_the_request",
          "text": "Start with the request"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_021_1_start_with_the_concern",
            "text": "Start with the concern"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_021_2_start_with_the_request",
            "text": "Start with the request"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_022",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps an opening sound honest instead of rehearsed?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "authenticity",
        "openings",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_022_1_using_ordinary_words",
          "text": "Using ordinary words"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_022_2_admitting_that_the_subject_feels_awkward",
          "text": "Admitting that the subject feels awkward"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_022_3_keeping_the_first_sentence_short",
          "text": "Keeping the first sentence short"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_022_4_leaving_polished_speeches_out_of_it",
          "text": "Leaving polished speeches out of it"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_022_1_using_ordinary_words",
            "text": "Using ordinary words"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_022_2_admitting_that_the_subject_feels_awkward",
            "text": "Admitting that the subject feels awkward"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_022_3_keeping_the_first_sentence_short",
            "text": "Keeping the first sentence short"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_022_4_leaving_polished_speeches_out_of_it",
            "text": "Leaving polished speeches out of it"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_023",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which phrases show care without pretending the talk will be easy?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "care",
        "realism",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_023_1_i_care_about_us_so_i_do_not_want_to_avoid_this",
          "text": "I care about us, so I do not want to avoid this"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_023_2_i_may_not_say_this_perfectly",
          "text": "I may not say this perfectly"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_023_3_i_want_to_understand_your_side_too",
          "text": "I want to understand your side too"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_023_4_we_can_take_this_one_part_at_a_time",
          "text": "We can take this one part at a time"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_023_1_i_care_about_us_so_i_do_not_want_to_avoid_this",
            "text": "I care about us, so I do not want to avoid this"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_023_2_i_may_not_say_this_perfectly",
            "text": "I may not say this perfectly"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_023_3_i_want_to_understand_your_side_too",
            "text": "I want to understand your side too"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_023_4_we_can_take_this_one_part_at_a_time",
            "text": "We can take this one part at a time"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_024",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which tone helps you take a hard question seriously?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "receiving",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_024_1_calm_and_straightforward",
          "text": "Calm and straightforward"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_024_2_warm_but_firm",
          "text": "Warm but firm"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_024_3_quiet_and_careful",
          "text": "Quiet and careful"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_024_4_matter_of_fact_and_brief",
          "text": "Matter-of-fact and brief"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_024_1_calm_and_straightforward",
            "text": "Calm and straightforward"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_024_2_warm_but_firm",
            "text": "Warm but firm"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_024_3_quiet_and_careful",
            "text": "Quiet and careful"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_024_4_matter_of_fact_and_brief",
            "text": "Matter-of-fact and brief"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_025",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which habits turn a serious talk into a one-person speech?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "tone",
        "lecture",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_025_1_one_person_speaks_for_several_minutes_without_stopping",
          "text": "One person speaks for several minutes without stopping"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_025_2_the_answer_seems_decided_before_the_talk_begins",
          "text": "The answer seems decided before the talk begins"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_025_3_every_example_points_in_the_same_direction",
          "text": "Every example points in the same direction"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_025_4_questions_are_asked_only_to_prove_a_point",
          "text": "Questions are asked only to prove a point"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_025_1_one_person_speaks_for_several_minutes_without_stopping",
            "text": "One person speaks for several minutes without stopping"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_025_2_the_answer_seems_decided_before_the_talk_begins",
            "text": "The answer seems decided before the talk begins"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_025_3_every_example_points_in_the_same_direction",
            "text": "Every example points in the same direction"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_025_4_questions_are_asked_only_to_prove_a_point",
            "text": "Questions are asked only to prove a point"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_026",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much does the first sentence affect your willingness to stay in the conversation?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "openings",
        "willingness",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very little",
        "max_label": "A great deal"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_027",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which wording keeps one concern from sounding like a verdict about someone’s character?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wording",
        "respect",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_027_1_naming_what_happened_this_time",
          "text": "Naming what happened this time"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_027_2_leaving_labels_out_of_the_sentence",
          "text": "Leaving labels out of the sentence"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_027_3_explaining_the_effect_without_guessing_motives",
          "text": "Explaining the effect without guessing motives"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_027_4_asking_what_the_other_person_remembers",
          "text": "Asking what the other person remembers"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_027_1_naming_what_happened_this_time",
            "text": "Naming what happened this time"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_027_2_leaving_labels_out_of_the_sentence",
            "text": "Leaving labels out of the sentence"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_027_3_explaining_the_effect_without_guessing_motives",
            "text": "Explaining the effect without guessing motives"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_027_4_asking_what_the_other_person_remembers",
            "text": "Asking what the other person remembers"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_028",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can make a request feel reasonable even when the subject is uncomfortable?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "requests",
        "fairness",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_028_1_a_specific_change",
          "text": "A specific change"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_028_2_shared_effort_where_possible",
          "text": "Shared effort where possible"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_028_3_a_plain_explanation_of_why_it_matters",
          "text": "A plain explanation of why it matters"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_028_4_room_for_a_genuine_answer",
          "text": "Room for a genuine answer"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_028_1_a_specific_change",
            "text": "A specific change"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_028_2_shared_effort_where_possible",
            "text": "Shared effort where possible"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_028_3_a_plain_explanation_of_why_it_matters",
            "text": "A plain explanation of why it matters"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_028_4_room_for_a_genuine_answer",
            "text": "Room for a genuine answer"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_029",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When a topic is complicated, what should we identify first?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "scope",
        "clarity",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_029_1_our_main_concern",
          "text": "Our main concern"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_029_2_the_decision_we_actually_need",
          "text": "The decision we actually need"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_029_3_whatever_feels_most_urgent",
          "text": "Whatever feels most urgent"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_029_4_the_question_we_are_trying_to_answer",
          "text": "The question we are trying to answer"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_029_1_our_main_concern",
            "text": "Our main concern"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_029_2_the_decision_we_actually_need",
            "text": "The decision we actually need"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_029_3_whatever_feels_most_urgent",
            "text": "Whatever feels most urgent"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_029_4_the_question_we_are_trying_to_answer",
            "text": "The question we are trying to answer"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_030",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you believe a difficult question is being asked in good faith?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "good_faith",
        "questions",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_030_1_the_answer_is_not_interrupted",
          "text": "The answer is not interrupted"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_030_2_uncertainty_is_allowed",
          "text": "Uncertainty is allowed"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_030_3_the_question_is_not_loaded_with_an_accusation",
          "text": "The question is not loaded with an accusation"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_030_4_both_people_may_ask_for_clarification",
          "text": "Both people may ask for clarification"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_030_1_the_answer_is_not_interrupted",
            "text": "The answer is not interrupted"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_030_2_uncertainty_is_allowed",
            "text": "Uncertainty is allowed"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_030_3_the_question_is_not_loaded_with_an_accusation",
            "text": "The question is not loaded with an accusation"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_030_4_both_people_may_ask_for_clarification",
            "text": "Both people may ask for clarification"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_031",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which opening details are useful without becoming a long preamble?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "openings",
        "brevity",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_031_1_the_topic_in_one_sentence",
          "text": "The topic in one sentence"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_031_2_why_it_matters_now",
          "text": "Why it matters now"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_031_3_what_you_hope_the_talk_can_accomplish",
          "text": "What you hope the talk can accomplish"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_031_4_whether_you_need_listening_or_a_decision",
          "text": "Whether you need listening or a decision"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_031_1_the_topic_in_one_sentence",
            "text": "The topic in one sentence"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_031_2_why_it_matters_now",
            "text": "Why it matters now"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_031_3_what_you_hope_the_talk_can_accomplish",
            "text": "What you hope the talk can accomplish"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_031_4_whether_you_need_listening_or_a_decision",
            "text": "Whether you need listening or a decision"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_032",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "One complete example or a short pattern summary?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "examples",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_032_1_one_complete_example",
          "text": "One complete example"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_032_2_a_short_pattern_summary",
          "text": "A short pattern summary"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_032_1_one_complete_example",
            "text": "One complete example"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_032_2_a_short_pattern_summary",
            "text": "A short pattern summary"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_033",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which details make a concern easier to understand?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "clarity",
        "details",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_033_1_what_happened",
          "text": "What happened"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_033_2_when_it_became_a_concern",
          "text": "When it became a concern"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_033_3_how_it_affected_you",
          "text": "How it affected you"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_033_4_what_you_are_asking_for_now",
          "text": "What you are asking for now"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_033_1_what_happened",
            "text": "What happened"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_033_2_when_it_became_a_concern",
            "text": "When it became a concern"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_033_3_how_it_affected_you",
            "text": "How it affected you"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_033_4_what_you_are_asking_for_now",
            "text": "What you are asking for now"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_034",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps one difficult subject from turning into five?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "scope",
        "focus",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_034_1_writing_down_side_issues_for_later",
          "text": "Writing down side issues for later"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_034_2_returning_to_the_original_question",
          "text": "Returning to the original question"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_034_3_using_one_example_at_a_time",
          "text": "Using one example at a time"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_034_4_agreeing_when_a_new_topic_deserves_its_own_talk",
          "text": "Agreeing when a new topic deserves its own talk"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_034_1_writing_down_side_issues_for_later",
            "text": "Writing down side issues for later"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_034_2_returning_to_the_original_question",
            "text": "Returning to the original question"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_034_3_using_one_example_at_a_time",
            "text": "Using one example at a time"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_034_4_agreeing_when_a_new_topic_deserves_its_own_talk",
            "text": "Agreeing when a new topic deserves its own talk"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_035",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a hard topic feel too broad to answer?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "scope",
        "overload",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_035_1_several_years_of_examples_at_once",
          "text": "Several years of examples at once"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_035_2_a_question_about_the_entire_relationship",
          "text": "A question about the entire relationship"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_035_3_no_clear_request_or_decision",
          "text": "No clear request or decision"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_035_4_too_many_people_being_pulled_into_the_same_issue",
          "text": "Too many people being pulled into the same issue"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_035_1_several_years_of_examples_at_once",
            "text": "Several years of examples at once"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_035_2_a_question_about_the_entire_relationship",
            "text": "A question about the entire relationship"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_035_3_no_clear_request_or_decision",
            "text": "No clear request or decision"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_035_4_too_many_people_being_pulled_into_the_same_issue",
            "text": "Too many people being pulled into the same issue"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_036",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which sentence best checks whether the main point is clear?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "clarity",
        "check_in",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_036_1_what_do_you_think_i_am_most_concerned_about",
          "text": "What do you think I am most concerned about?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_036_2_which_part_of_this_feels_unclear",
          "text": "Which part of this feels unclear?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_036_3_should_i_give_one_example",
          "text": "Should I give one example?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_036_4_am_i_asking_too_many_things_at_once",
          "text": "Am I asking too many things at once?"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_036_1_what_do_you_think_i_am_most_concerned_about",
            "text": "What do you think I am most concerned about?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_036_2_which_part_of_this_feels_unclear",
            "text": "Which part of this feels unclear?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_036_3_should_i_give_one_example",
            "text": "Should I give one example?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_036_4_am_i_asking_too_many_things_at_once",
            "text": "Am I asking too many things at once?"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_037",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it for you to tell when a hard conversation has lost its main point?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "focus",
        "awareness",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Usually difficult",
        "max_label": "Usually easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_038",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which habits help keep explanations short enough to follow?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "brevity",
        "explanations",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_038_1_leading_with_the_conclusion",
          "text": "Leading with the conclusion"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_038_2_pausing_after_one_idea",
          "text": "Pausing after one idea"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_038_3_leaving_unrelated_history_for_another_time",
          "text": "Leaving unrelated history for another time"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_038_4_checking_whether_more_detail_would_help",
          "text": "Checking whether more detail would help"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_038_1_leading_with_the_conclusion",
            "text": "Leading with the conclusion"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_038_2_pausing_after_one_idea",
            "text": "Pausing after one idea"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_038_3_leaving_unrelated_history_for_another_time",
            "text": "Leaving unrelated history for another time"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_038_4_checking_whether_more_detail_would_help",
            "text": "Checking whether more detail would help"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_039",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one hard conversation we handled better than you expected, and what helped?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "positive_memory",
        "learning",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_040",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps when two people are using the same word differently?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "definitions",
        "misunderstanding",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_040_1_each_person_explains_what_the_word_means_to_them",
          "text": "Each person explains what the word means to them"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_040_2_a_real_example_replaces_the_vague_term",
          "text": "A real example replaces the vague term"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_040_3_both_meanings_are_allowed_to_be_different",
          "text": "Both meanings are allowed to be different"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_040_4_the_sentence_is_restated_without_that_word",
          "text": "The sentence is restated without that word"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_040_1_each_person_explains_what_the_word_means_to_them",
            "text": "Each person explains what the word means to them"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_040_2_a_real_example_replaces_the_vague_term",
            "text": "A real example replaces the vague term"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_040_3_both_meanings_are_allowed_to_be_different",
            "text": "Both meanings are allowed to be different"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_040_4_the_sentence_is_restated_without_that_word",
            "text": "The sentence is restated without that word"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_041",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "If the point is getting lost, what should happen first?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "focus",
        "reset",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_041_1_restate_the_main_question",
          "text": "Restate the main question"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_041_2_take_a_two_minute_pause",
          "text": "Take a two-minute pause"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_041_3_write_down_the_side_issue",
          "text": "Write down the side issue"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_041_4_ask_the_other_person_to_summarize",
          "text": "Ask the other person to summarize"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_041_1_restate_the_main_question",
            "text": "Restate the main question"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_041_2_take_a_two_minute_pause",
            "text": "Take a two-minute pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_041_3_write_down_the_side_issue",
            "text": "Write down the side issue"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_041_4_ask_the_other_person_to_summarize",
            "text": "Ask the other person to summarize"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_042",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which kinds of questions make a serious talk easier to answer?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "questions",
        "clarity",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_042_1_one_clear_choice_or_event",
          "text": "One clear choice or event"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_042_2_room_for_more_than_yes_or_no",
          "text": "Room for more than yes or no"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_042_3_no_hidden_correct_answer",
          "text": "No hidden correct answer"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_042_4_nothing_that_requires_mind_reading",
          "text": "Nothing that requires mind-reading"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_042_1_one_clear_choice_or_event",
            "text": "One clear choice or event"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_042_2_room_for_more_than_yes_or_no",
            "text": "Room for more than yes or no"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_042_3_no_hidden_correct_answer",
            "text": "No hidden correct answer"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_042_4_nothing_that_requires_mind_reading",
            "text": "Nothing that requires mind-reading"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_043",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can help separate facts from fears during an uncertain conversation?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "uncertainty",
        "facts",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_043_1_listing_what_is_known_so_far",
          "text": "Listing what is known so far"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_043_2_naming_the_part_that_is_only_a_possibility",
          "text": "Naming the part that is only a possibility"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_043_3_checking_information_before_deciding",
          "text": "Checking information before deciding"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_043_4_leaving_room_for_the_answer_to_change",
          "text": "Leaving room for the answer to change"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_043_1_listing_what_is_known_so_far",
            "text": "Listing what is known so far"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_043_2_naming_the_part_that_is_only_a_possibility",
            "text": "Naming the part that is only a possibility"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_043_3_checking_information_before_deciding",
            "text": "Checking information before deciding"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_043_4_leaving_room_for_the_answer_to_change",
            "text": "Leaving room for the answer to change"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_044",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Before moving on, which summary is most useful?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "summary",
        "understanding",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_044_1_what_we_both_agree_happened",
          "text": "What we both agree happened"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_044_2_what_each_person_needs_clarified",
          "text": "What each person needs clarified"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_044_3_which_decision_remains_open",
          "text": "Which decision remains open"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_044_4_what_is_outside_todays_scope",
          "text": "What is outside today’s scope"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_044_1_what_we_both_agree_happened",
            "text": "What we both agree happened"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_044_2_what_each_person_needs_clarified",
            "text": "What each person needs clarified"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_044_3_which_decision_remains_open",
            "text": "Which decision remains open"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_044_4_what_is_outside_todays_scope",
            "text": "What is outside today’s scope"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_045",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a request clear enough to respond to honestly?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "requests",
        "clarity",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_045_1_a_specific_action",
          "text": "A specific action"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_045_2_a_realistic_time_frame",
          "text": "A realistic time frame"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_045_3_the_reason_behind_the_request",
          "text": "The reason behind the request"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_045_4_permission_to_suggest_another_approach",
          "text": "Permission to suggest another approach"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_045_1_a_specific_action",
            "text": "A specific action"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_045_2_a_realistic_time_frame",
            "text": "A realistic time frame"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_045_3_the_reason_behind_the_request",
            "text": "The reason behind the request"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_045_4_permission_to_suggest_another_approach",
            "text": "Permission to suggest another approach"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_046",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you listen when the first thing you hear is uncomfortable?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "receiving",
        "listening",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_046_1_a_moment_to_take_in_the_sentence",
          "text": "A moment to take in the sentence"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_046_2_knowing_i_can_ask_questions_afterward",
          "text": "Knowing I can ask questions afterward"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_046_3_the_information_being_stated_without_exaggeration",
          "text": "The information being stated without exaggeration"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_046_4_not_being_pushed_to_react_on_command",
          "text": "Not being pushed to react on command"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_046_1_a_moment_to_take_in_the_sentence",
            "text": "A moment to take in the sentence"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_046_2_knowing_i_can_ask_questions_afterward",
            "text": "Knowing I can ask questions afterward"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_046_3_the_information_being_stated_without_exaggeration",
            "text": "The information being stated without exaggeration"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_046_4_not_being_pushed_to_react_on_command",
            "text": "Not being pushed to react on command"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_047",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When new information changes the picture, what do you need first?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "new_information",
        "response",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_047_1_a_clear_explanation",
          "text": "A clear explanation"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_047_2_a_little_time_alone",
          "text": "A little time alone"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_047_3_a_chance_to_ask_factual_questions",
          "text": "A chance to ask factual questions"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_047_4_reassurance_about_what_has_not_changed",
          "text": "Reassurance about what has not changed"
        }
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_047_1_a_clear_explanation",
            "text": "A clear explanation"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_047_2_a_little_time_alone",
            "text": "A little time alone"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_047_3_a_chance_to_ask_factual_questions",
            "text": "A chance to ask factual questions"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_047_4_reassurance_about_what_has_not_changed",
            "text": "Reassurance about what has not changed"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_048",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which reactions make it harder to keep sharing something difficult?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "receiving",
        "reactions",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_048_1_immediate_disbelief",
          "text": "Immediate disbelief"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_048_2_a_demand_for_every_detail_at_once",
          "text": "A demand for every detail at once"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_048_3_jokes_that_dismiss_the_seriousness",
          "text": "Jokes that dismiss the seriousness"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_048_4_a_conclusion_before_the_explanation_is_finished",
          "text": "A conclusion before the explanation is finished"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_048_1_immediate_disbelief",
            "text": "Immediate disbelief"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_048_2_a_demand_for_every_detail_at_once",
            "text": "A demand for every detail at once"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_048_3_jokes_that_dismiss_the_seriousness",
            "text": "Jokes that dismiss the seriousness"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_048_4_a_conclusion_before_the_explanation_is_finished",
            "text": "A conclusion before the explanation is finished"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_049",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you saying that you need time before responding?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "response_time",
        "comfort",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_050",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What shows that someone is listening without promising agreement?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "disagreement",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_050_1_repeating_the_main_point_accurately",
          "text": "Repeating the main point accurately"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_050_2_asking_which_part_matters_most",
          "text": "Asking which part matters most"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_050_3_leaving_room_for_a_different_conclusion",
          "text": "Leaving room for a different conclusion"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_050_4_understanding_without_treating_it_as_surrender",
          "text": "Understanding without treating it as surrender"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_050_1_repeating_the_main_point_accurately",
            "text": "Repeating the main point accurately"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_050_2_asking_which_part_matters_most",
            "text": "Asking which part matters most"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_050_3_leaving_room_for_a_different_conclusion",
            "text": "Leaving room for a different conclusion"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_050_4_understanding_without_treating_it_as_surrender",
            "text": "Understanding without treating it as surrender"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_051",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Questions right away or a quiet minute first?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "receiving",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_051_1_questions_right_away",
          "text": "Questions right away"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_051_2_a_quiet_minute_first",
          "text": "A quiet minute first"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_051_1_questions_right_away",
            "text": "Questions right away"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_051_2_a_quiet_minute_first",
            "text": "A quiet minute first"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_052",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which responses help after someone shares a hard truth?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hard_truth",
        "response",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_052_1_thank_you_for_telling_me",
          "text": "Thank you for telling me"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_052_2_i_need_a_moment_but_i_am_listening",
          "text": "I need a moment, but I am listening"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_052_3_let_me_make_sure_i_understood",
          "text": "Let me make sure I understood"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_052_4_i_have_questions_and_i_want_to_ask_them_carefully",
          "text": "I have questions, and I want to ask them carefully"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_052_1_thank_you_for_telling_me",
            "text": "Thank you for telling me"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_052_2_i_need_a_moment_but_i_am_listening",
            "text": "I need a moment, but I am listening"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_052_3_let_me_make_sure_i_understood",
            "text": "Let me make sure I understood"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_052_4_i_have_questions_and_i_want_to_ask_them_carefully",
            "text": "I have questions, and I want to ask them carefully"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_053",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which reactions let surprise stay honest without becoming punishing?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "surprise",
        "respect",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_053_1_naming_the_surprise_without_insults",
          "text": "Naming the surprise without insults"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_053_2_keeping_physical_space_respectful",
          "text": "Keeping physical space respectful"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_053_3_asking_for_time_instead_of_disappearing",
          "text": "Asking for time instead of disappearing"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_053_4_avoiding_threats_about_what_happens_next",
          "text": "Avoiding threats about what happens next"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_053_1_naming_the_surprise_without_insults",
            "text": "Naming the surprise without insults"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_053_2_keeping_physical_space_respectful",
            "text": "Keeping physical space respectful"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_053_3_asking_for_time_instead_of_disappearing",
            "text": "Asking for time instead of disappearing"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_053_4_avoiding_threats_about_what_happens_next",
            "text": "Avoiding threats about what happens next"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_054",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which question is most useful when the information feels incomplete?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "clarification",
        "information",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_054_1_what_part_are_you_most_certain_about",
          "text": "What part are you most certain about?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_054_2_is_there_anything_important_i_am_misunderstanding",
          "text": "Is there anything important I am misunderstanding?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_054_3_what_do_you_need_me_to_know_before_i_respond",
          "text": "What do you need me to know before I respond?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_054_4_which_detail_would_help_the_most_right_now",
          "text": "Which detail would help the most right now?"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_054_1_what_part_are_you_most_certain_about",
            "text": "What part are you most certain about?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_054_2_is_there_anything_important_i_am_misunderstanding",
            "text": "Is there anything important I am misunderstanding?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_054_3_what_do_you_need_me_to_know_before_i_respond",
            "text": "What do you need me to know before I respond?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_054_4_which_detail_would_help_the_most_right_now",
            "text": "Which detail would help the most right now?"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_055",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which habits keep your own bigger story from taking over someone else’s disclosure?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "receiving",
        "attention",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_055_1_letting_their_point_stand_for_a_moment",
          "text": "Letting their point stand for a moment"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_055_2_saving_my_related_experience_for_later",
          "text": "Saving my related experience for later"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_055_3_asking_whether_comparison_would_help",
          "text": "Asking whether comparison would help"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_055_4_returning_to_what_they_were_trying_to_say",
          "text": "Returning to what they were trying to say"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_055_1_letting_their_point_stand_for_a_moment",
            "text": "Letting their point stand for a moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_055_2_saving_my_related_experience_for_later",
            "text": "Saving my related experience for later"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_055_3_asking_whether_comparison_would_help",
            "text": "Asking whether comparison would help"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_055_4_returning_to_what_they_were_trying_to_say",
            "text": "Returning to what they were trying to say"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_056",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident are you that you can stay respectful while feeling surprised?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "surprise",
        "confidence",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not confident yet",
        "max_label": "Very confident"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_057",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can someone say when they do not know what to think yet?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "uncertainty",
        "response",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_057_1_i_am_still_taking_this_in",
          "text": "I am still taking this in"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_057_2_i_do_not_have_a_complete_answer_yet",
          "text": "I do not have a complete answer yet"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_057_3_i_want_to_understand_before_i_decide",
          "text": "I want to understand before I decide"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_057_4_can_we_return_to_this_after_i_have_thought",
          "text": "Can we return to this after I have thought?"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_057_1_i_am_still_taking_this_in",
            "text": "I am still taking this in"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_057_2_i_do_not_have_a_complete_answer_yet",
            "text": "I do not have a complete answer yet"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_057_3_i_want_to_understand_before_i_decide",
            "text": "I want to understand before I decide"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_057_4_can_we_return_to_this_after_i_have_thought",
            "text": "Can we return to this after I have thought?"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_058",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What matters most when receiving news that affects both people?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "shared_impact",
        "receiving",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_058_1_getting_the_basic_facts_straight",
          "text": "Getting the basic facts straight"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_058_2_understanding_the_immediate_effect",
          "text": "Understanding the immediate effect"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_058_3_knowing_what_decision_cannot_wait",
          "text": "Knowing what decision cannot wait"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_058_4_agreeing_on_who_else_needs_to_know",
          "text": "Agreeing on who else needs to know"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_058_1_getting_the_basic_facts_straight",
            "text": "Getting the basic facts straight"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_058_2_understanding_the_immediate_effect",
            "text": "Understanding the immediate effect"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_058_3_knowing_what_decision_cannot_wait",
            "text": "Knowing what decision cannot wait"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_058_4_agreeing_on_who_else_needs_to_know",
            "text": "Agreeing on who else needs to know"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_059",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which boundaries can keep a difficult disclosure from becoming an interrogation?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "disclosure",
        "boundaries",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_059_1_questions_stay_relevant_to_the_decision_at_hand",
          "text": "Questions stay relevant to the decision at hand"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_059_2_either_person_may_ask_for_a_brief_pause",
          "text": "Either person may ask for a brief pause"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_059_3_private_history_is_not_demanded_for_proof",
          "text": "Private history is not demanded for proof"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_059_4_uncertainty_is_not_treated_as_dishonesty",
          "text": "Uncertainty is not treated as dishonesty"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_059_1_questions_stay_relevant_to_the_decision_at_hand",
            "text": "Questions stay relevant to the decision at hand"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_059_2_either_person_may_ask_for_a_brief_pause",
            "text": "Either person may ask for a brief pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_059_3_private_history_is_not_demanded_for_proof",
            "text": "Private history is not demanded for proof"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_059_4_uncertainty_is_not_treated_as_dishonesty",
            "text": "Uncertainty is not treated as dishonesty"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_060",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can you answer with care when it is not the answer someone wants?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "difficult_answer",
        "care",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_060_1_saying_the_answer_plainly",
          "text": "Saying the answer plainly"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_060_2_acknowledging_why_it_may_hurt",
          "text": "Acknowledging why it may hurt"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_060_3_avoiding_false_hope",
          "text": "Avoiding false hope"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_060_4_offering_the_next_honest_step_if_there_is_one",
          "text": "Offering the next honest step if there is one"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_060_1_saying_the_answer_plainly",
            "text": "Saying the answer plainly"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_060_2_acknowledging_why_it_may_hurt",
            "text": "Acknowledging why it may hurt"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_060_3_avoiding_false_hope",
            "text": "Avoiding false hope"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_060_4_offering_the_next_honest_step_if_there_is_one",
            "text": "Offering the next honest step if there is one"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_061",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes admitting a mistake less frightening?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "admission",
        "mistakes",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_061_1_knowing_personal_details_will_not_be_shared_carelessly",
          "text": "Knowing personal details will not be shared carelessly"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_061_2_being_allowed_to_explain_without_erasing_impact",
          "text": "Being allowed to explain without erasing impact"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_061_3_no_mocking_after_the_admission",
          "text": "No mocking after the admission"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_061_4_a_focus_on_what_happens_next",
          "text": "A focus on what happens next"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_061_1_knowing_personal_details_will_not_be_shared_carelessly",
            "text": "Knowing personal details will not be shared carelessly"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_061_2_being_allowed_to_explain_without_erasing_impact",
            "text": "Being allowed to explain without erasing impact"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_061_3_no_mocking_after_the_admission",
            "text": "No mocking after the admission"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_061_4_a_focus_on_what_happens_next",
            "text": "A focus on what happens next"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_062",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which admission is hardest for you to make out loud?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "admission",
        "vulnerability",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_062_1_saying_i_was_wrong",
          "text": "Saying “I was wrong”"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_062_2_admitting_that_i_changed_my_mind",
          "text": "Admitting that I changed my mind"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_062_3_telling_you_i_do_not_know_what_to_do",
          "text": "Telling you I do not know what to do"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_062_4_i_am_afraid_of_disappointing_you",
          "text": "“I am afraid of disappointing you”"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_062_1_saying_i_was_wrong",
            "text": "Saying “I was wrong”"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_062_2_admitting_that_i_changed_my_mind",
            "text": "Admitting that I changed my mind"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_062_3_telling_you_i_do_not_know_what_to_do",
            "text": "Telling you I do not know what to do"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_062_4_i_am_afraid_of_disappointing_you",
            "text": "“I am afraid of disappointing you”"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_063",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps honesty feel possible when the answer may disappoint someone?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "honesty",
        "disappointment",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_063_1_the_listener_does_not_demand_a_different_feeling",
          "text": "The listener does not demand a different feeling"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_063_2_there_is_room_to_explain_without_debating_every_word",
          "text": "There is room to explain without debating every word"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_063_3_the_truth_is_not_used_later_as_a_weapon",
          "text": "The truth is not used later as a weapon"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_063_4_a_respectful_no_is_treated_as_a_real_answer",
          "text": "A respectful no is treated as a real answer"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_063_1_the_listener_does_not_demand_a_different_feeling",
            "text": "The listener does not demand a different feeling"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_063_2_there_is_room_to_explain_without_debating_every_word",
            "text": "There is room to explain without debating every word"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_063_3_the_truth_is_not_used_later_as_a_weapon",
            "text": "The truth is not used later as a weapon"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_063_4_a_respectful_no_is_treated_as_a_real_answer",
            "text": "A respectful no is treated as a real answer"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_064",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it for you to admit that you are unsure?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "uncertainty",
        "comfort",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not easy yet",
        "max_label": "Very easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_065",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Say the hard part first or build up to it briefly?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "honesty",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_065_1_say_the_hard_part_first",
          "text": "Say the hard part first"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_065_2_build_up_to_it_briefly",
          "text": "Build up to it briefly"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_065_1_say_the_hard_part_first",
            "text": "Say the hard part first"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_065_2_build_up_to_it_briefly",
            "text": "Build up to it briefly"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_066",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which phrases help someone be honest without sounding careless?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "honesty",
        "wording",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_066_1_i_want_to_be_truthful_even_though_this_may_be_hard_to_hear",
          "text": "I want to be truthful, even though this may be hard to hear"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_066_2_this_is_what_i_know_right_now",
          "text": "This is what I know right now"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_066_3_i_may_need_to_correct_part_of_this_later",
          "text": "I may need to correct part of this later"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_066_4_i_am_telling_you_because_you_deserve_a_real_answer",
          "text": "I am telling you because you deserve a real answer"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_066_1_i_want_to_be_truthful_even_though_this_may_be_hard_to_hear",
            "text": "I want to be truthful, even though this may be hard to hear"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_066_2_this_is_what_i_know_right_now",
            "text": "This is what I know right now"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_066_3_i_may_need_to_correct_part_of_this_later",
            "text": "I may need to correct part of this later"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_066_4_i_am_telling_you_because_you_deserve_a_real_answer",
            "text": "I am telling you because you deserve a real answer"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_067",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes it easier to talk about a changed opinion?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "changed_mind",
        "discussion",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_067_1_explaining_what_new_information_mattered",
          "text": "Explaining what new information mattered"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_067_2_acknowledging_what_the_change_affects",
          "text": "Acknowledging what the change affects"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_067_3_not_pretending_the_earlier_view_never_existed",
          "text": "Not pretending the earlier view never existed"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_067_4_allowing_the_other_person_time_to_adjust",
          "text": "Allowing the other person time to adjust"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_067_1_explaining_what_new_information_mattered",
            "text": "Explaining what new information mattered"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_067_2_acknowledging_what_the_change_affects",
            "text": "Acknowledging what the change affects"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_067_3_not_pretending_the_earlier_view_never_existed",
            "text": "Not pretending the earlier view never existed"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_067_4_allowing_the_other_person_time_to_adjust",
            "text": "Allowing the other person time to adjust"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_068",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What do you want me to remember when you are trying to tell me something difficult?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "personal_preference",
        "honesty",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_069",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When someone says “I do not know,” what response helps most?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "uncertainty",
        "response",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_069_1_ask_what_they_do_know",
          "text": "Ask what they do know"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_069_2_offer_time_to_think",
          "text": "Offer time to think"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_069_3_clarify_when_an_answer_is_needed",
          "text": "Clarify when an answer is needed"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_069_4_accept_that_certainty_may_not_come_quickly",
          "text": "Accept that certainty may not come quickly"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_069_1_ask_what_they_do_know",
            "text": "Ask what they do know"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_069_2_offer_time_to_think",
            "text": "Offer time to think"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_069_3_clarify_when_an_answer_is_needed",
            "text": "Clarify when an answer is needed"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_069_4_accept_that_certainty_may_not_come_quickly",
            "text": "Accept that certainty may not come quickly"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_070",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What separates privacy from hiding something that affects the relationship?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "shared_impact",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_070_1_a_shared_decision_would_change",
          "text": "A shared decision would change"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_070_2_someones_health_or_safety_is_involved",
          "text": "Someone’s health or safety is involved"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_070_3_money_or_commitments_are_affected",
          "text": "Money or commitments are affected"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_070_4_silence_takes_away_the_other_persons_ability_to_choose",
          "text": "Silence takes away the other person’s ability to choose"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_070_1_a_shared_decision_would_change",
            "text": "A shared decision would change"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_070_2_someones_health_or_safety_is_involved",
            "text": "Someone’s health or safety is involved"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_070_3_money_or_commitments_are_affected",
            "text": "Money or commitments are affected"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_070_4_silence_takes_away_the_other_persons_ability_to_choose",
            "text": "Silence takes away the other person’s ability to choose"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_071",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs make an admission feel responsible on its own?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "admission",
        "responsibility",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_071_1_the_facts_are_stated_clearly",
          "text": "The facts are stated clearly"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_071_2_the_effect_is_not_minimized",
          "text": "The effect is not minimized"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_071_3_questions_are_answered_honestly_where_possible",
          "text": "Questions are answered honestly where possible"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_071_4_a_needed_change_is_named_without_grand_promises",
          "text": "A needed change is named without grand promises"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_071_1_the_facts_are_stated_clearly",
            "text": "The facts are stated clearly"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_071_2_the_effect_is_not_minimized",
            "text": "The effect is not minimized"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_071_3_questions_are_answered_honestly_where_possible",
            "text": "Questions are answered honestly where possible"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_071_4_a_needed_change_is_named_without_grand_promises",
            "text": "A needed change is named without grand promises"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_072",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident are you that you can hear an honest no without pushing for a yes?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "honest_no",
        "respect",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not confident yet",
        "max_label": "Very confident"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_073",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you say that a subject feels too personal to answer right now?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "boundaries",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_073_1_naming_the_limit_without_inventing_an_excuse",
          "text": "Naming the limit without inventing an excuse"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_073_2_explaining_whether_the_answer_may_come_later",
          "text": "Explaining whether the answer may come later"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_073_3_offering_what_can_be_shared_safely",
          "text": "Offering what can be shared safely"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_073_4_separating_privacy_from_punishment",
          "text": "Separating privacy from punishment"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_073_1_naming_the_limit_without_inventing_an_excuse",
            "text": "Naming the limit without inventing an excuse"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_073_2_explaining_whether_the_answer_may_come_later",
            "text": "Explaining whether the answer may come later"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_073_3_offering_what_can_be_shared_safely",
            "text": "Offering what can be shared safely"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_073_4_separating_privacy_from_punishment",
            "text": "Separating privacy from punishment"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_074",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which response best protects honesty after a difficult admission?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "honesty",
        "after_admission",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_074_1_ask_only_the_questions_that_matter_now",
          "text": "Ask only the questions that matter now"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_074_2_take_time_before_making_a_decision",
          "text": "Take time before making a decision"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_074_3_keep_the_admission_out_of_unrelated_arguments",
          "text": "Keep the admission out of unrelated arguments"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_074_4_decide_together_who_else_truly_needs_to_know",
          "text": "Decide together who else truly needs to know"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_074_1_ask_only_the_questions_that_matter_now",
            "text": "Ask only the questions that matter now"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_074_2_take_time_before_making_a_decision",
            "text": "Take time before making a decision"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_074_3_keep_the_admission_out_of_unrelated_arguments",
            "text": "Keep the admission out of unrelated arguments"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_074_4_decide_together_who_else_truly_needs_to_know",
            "text": "Decide together who else truly needs to know"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_075",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which conditions make it easier to correct something you said earlier?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "correction",
        "honesty",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_075_1_being_able_to_say_i_remembered_it_differently",
          "text": "Being able to say I remembered it differently"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_075_2_no_accusation_that_every_mistake_was_intentional",
          "text": "No accusation that every mistake was intentional"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_075_3_a_clear_record_when_facts_matter",
          "text": "A clear record when facts matter"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_075_4_appreciation_for_correcting_the_information",
          "text": "Appreciation for correcting the information"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_075_1_being_able_to_say_i_remembered_it_differently",
            "text": "Being able to say I remembered it differently"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_075_2_no_accusation_that_every_mistake_was_intentional",
            "text": "No accusation that every mistake was intentional"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_075_3_a_clear_record_when_facts_matter",
            "text": "A clear record when facts matter"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_075_4_appreciation_for_correcting_the_information",
            "text": "Appreciation for correcting the information"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_076",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should be clear before raising a subject that feels deeply personal?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensitive_topic",
        "consent",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_076_1_why_the_subject_matters_to_the_relationship",
          "text": "Why the subject matters to the relationship"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_076_2_which_parts_are_optional_to_answer",
          "text": "Which parts are optional to answer"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_076_3_whether_either_person_needs_support_afterward",
          "text": "Whether either person needs support afterward"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_076_4_what_decision_if_any_must_be_made",
          "text": "What decision, if any, must be made"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_076_1_why_the_subject_matters_to_the_relationship",
            "text": "Why the subject matters to the relationship"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_076_2_which_parts_are_optional_to_answer",
            "text": "Which parts are optional to answer"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_076_3_whether_either_person_needs_support_afterward",
            "text": "Whether either person needs support afterward"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_076_4_what_decision_if_any_must_be_made",
            "text": "What decision, if any, must be made"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_077",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which permission matters most before asking a very personal question?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "questions",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_077_1_a_clear_right_to_decline",
          "text": "A clear right to decline"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_077_2_more_time_before_answering",
          "text": "More time before answering"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_077_3_sharing_only_part_of_the_answer",
          "text": "Sharing only part of the answer"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_077_4_the_freedom_to_ask_why_it_matters",
          "text": "The freedom to ask why it matters"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_077_1_a_clear_right_to_decline",
            "text": "A clear right to decline"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_077_2_more_time_before_answering",
            "text": "More time before answering"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_077_3_sharing_only_part_of_the_answer",
            "text": "Sharing only part of the answer"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_077_4_the_freedom_to_ask_why_it_matters",
            "text": "The freedom to ask why it matters"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_078",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps a conversation about family from turning relatives into a courtroom?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family_topic",
        "fairness",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_078_1_talking_about_the_decision_rather_than_judging_a_whole_person",
          "text": "Talking about the decision rather than judging a whole person"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_078_2_leaving_private_stories_out_unless_they_are_relevant",
          "text": "Leaving private stories out unless they are relevant"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_078_3_not_recruiting_relatives_to_take_sides",
          "text": "Not recruiting relatives to take sides"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_078_4_separating_our_boundary_from_a_demand_that_others_agree",
          "text": "Separating our boundary from a demand that others agree"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_078_1_talking_about_the_decision_rather_than_judging_a_whole_person",
            "text": "Talking about the decision rather than judging a whole person"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_078_2_leaving_private_stories_out_unless_they_are_relevant",
            "text": "Leaving private stories out unless they are relevant"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_078_3_not_recruiting_relatives_to_take_sides",
            "text": "Not recruiting relatives to take sides"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_078_4_separating_our_boundary_from_a_demand_that_others_agree",
            "text": "Separating our boundary from a demand that others agree"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_079",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a money conversation stay about choices rather than worth?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "money_topic",
        "respect",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_079_1_using_real_numbers_where_possible",
          "text": "Using real numbers where possible"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_079_2_separating_one_purchase_from_someones_character",
          "text": "Separating one purchase from someone’s character"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_079_3_naming_the_shared_consequence",
          "text": "Naming the shared consequence"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_079_4_allowing_different_priorities_to_be_considered",
          "text": "Allowing different priorities to be considered"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_079_1_using_real_numbers_where_possible",
            "text": "Using real numbers where possible"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_079_2_separating_one_purchase_from_someones_character",
            "text": "Separating one purchase from someone’s character"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_079_3_naming_the_shared_consequence",
            "text": "Naming the shared consequence"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_079_4_allowing_different_priorities_to_be_considered",
            "text": "Allowing different priorities to be considered"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_080",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you asking why a sensitive question needs to be answered?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "comfort",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_081",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Share the headline first or explain the background first?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "sensitive_topic",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_081_1_share_the_headline_first",
          "text": "Share the headline first"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_081_2_explain_the_background_first",
          "text": "Explain the background first"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_081_1_share_the_headline_first",
            "text": "Share the headline first"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_081_2_explain_the_background_first",
            "text": "Explain the background first"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_082",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a conversation about physical intimacy feel respectful?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "intimacy_topic",
        "consent",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_082_1_no_answer_is_treated_as_an_obligation",
          "text": "No answer is treated as an obligation"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_082_2_preferences_can_change_without_punishment",
          "text": "Preferences can change without punishment"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_082_3_the_talk_can_happen_outside_a_sexual_moment",
          "text": "The talk can happen outside a sexual moment"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_082_4_either_person_may_stop_if_the_conversation_feels_too_much",
          "text": "Either person may stop if the conversation feels too much"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_082_1_no_answer_is_treated_as_an_obligation",
            "text": "No answer is treated as an obligation"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_082_2_preferences_can_change_without_punishment",
            "text": "Preferences can change without punishment"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_082_3_the_talk_can_happen_outside_a_sexual_moment",
            "text": "The talk can happen outside a sexual moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_082_4_either_person_may_stop_if_the_conversation_feels_too_much",
            "text": "Either person may stop if the conversation feels too much"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_083",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When talking about health, what should guide how much detail is shared?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "health_topic",
        "privacy",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_083_1_its_effect_on_shared_safety_or_decisions",
          "text": "Its effect on shared safety or decisions"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_083_2_the_persons_readiness_to_explain",
          "text": "The person’s readiness to explain"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_083_3_what_a_professional_has_actually_confirmed",
          "text": "What a professional has actually confirmed"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_083_4_the_kind_of_support_being_requested",
          "text": "The kind of support being requested"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_083_1_its_effect_on_shared_safety_or_decisions",
            "text": "Its effect on shared safety or decisions"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_083_2_the_persons_readiness_to_explain",
            "text": "The person’s readiness to explain"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_083_3_what_a_professional_has_actually_confirmed",
            "text": "What a professional has actually confirmed"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_083_4_the_kind_of_support_being_requested",
            "text": "The kind of support being requested"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_084",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which choices protect privacy while still allowing useful outside support?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "outside_support",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_084_1_choosing_one_trusted_person_instead_of_an_audience",
          "text": "Choosing one trusted person instead of an audience"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_084_2_leaving_identifying_details_out_when_possible",
          "text": "Leaving identifying details out when possible"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_084_3_agreeing_what_information_is_not_ours_to_share",
          "text": "Agreeing what information is not ours to share"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_084_4_using_professional_support_for_subjects_beyond_our_skills",
          "text": "Using professional support for subjects beyond our skills"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_084_1_choosing_one_trusted_person_instead_of_an_audience",
            "text": "Choosing one trusted person instead of an audience"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_084_2_leaving_identifying_details_out_when_possible",
            "text": "Leaving identifying details out when possible"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_084_3_agreeing_what_information_is_not_ours_to_share",
            "text": "Agreeing what information is not ours to share"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_084_4_using_professional_support_for_subjects_beyond_our_skills",
            "text": "Using professional support for subjects beyond our skills"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_085",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can a conversation about the future avoid becoming a loyalty test?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "future_topic",
        "pressure",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_085_1_allowing_uncertainty_about_timing",
          "text": "Allowing uncertainty about timing"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_085_2_separating_love_from_one_exact_plan",
          "text": "Separating love from one exact plan"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_085_3_being_honest_about_practical_limits",
          "text": "Being honest about practical limits"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_085_4_leaving_room_for_more_than_one_workable_path",
          "text": "Leaving room for more than one workable path"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_085_1_allowing_uncertainty_about_timing",
            "text": "Allowing uncertainty about timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_085_2_separating_love_from_one_exact_plan",
            "text": "Separating love from one exact plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_085_3_being_honest_about_practical_limits",
            "text": "Being honest about practical limits"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_085_4_leaving_room_for_more_than_one_workable_path",
            "text": "Leaving room for more than one workable path"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_086",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can make a conversation about work feel supportive rather than supervisory?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "work_topic",
        "support",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_086_1_asking_what_kind_of_help_is_wanted",
          "text": "Asking what kind of help is wanted"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_086_2_not_treating_every_career_choice_as_a_joint_vote",
          "text": "Not treating every career choice as a joint vote"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_086_3_naming_shared_consequences_without_taking_over",
          "text": "Naming shared consequences without taking over"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_086_4_respecting_confidential_work_information",
          "text": "Respecting confidential work information"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_086_1_asking_what_kind_of_help_is_wanted",
            "text": "Asking what kind of help is wanted"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_086_2_not_treating_every_career_choice_as_a_joint_vote",
            "text": "Not treating every career choice as a joint vote"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_086_3_naming_shared_consequences_without_taking_over",
            "text": "Naming shared consequences without taking over"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_086_4_respecting_confidential_work_information",
            "text": "Respecting confidential work information"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_087",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which subject would you most want a clear privacy agreement about?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "shared_rules",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_087_1_health_information",
          "text": "Health information"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_087_2_sexual_details",
          "text": "Sexual details"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_087_3_family_confidences",
          "text": "Family confidences"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_087_4_financial_problems",
          "text": "Financial problems"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_087_1_health_information",
            "text": "Health information"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_087_2_sexual_details",
            "text": "Sexual details"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_087_3_family_confidences",
            "text": "Family confidences"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_087_4_financial_problems",
            "text": "Financial problems"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_088",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps when a topic affects both people but belongs mostly to one person?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "autonomy",
        "shared_impact",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_088_1_the_affected_person_keeps_ownership_of_the_final_personal_choice",
          "text": "The affected person keeps ownership of the final personal choice"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_088_2_shared_consequences_are_named_directly",
          "text": "Shared consequences are named directly"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_088_3_advice_is_offered_rather_than_imposed",
          "text": "Advice is offered rather than imposed"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_088_4_the_other_person_can_name_their_limits_honestly",
          "text": "The other person can name their limits honestly"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_088_1_the_affected_person_keeps_ownership_of_the_final_personal_choice",
            "text": "The affected person keeps ownership of the final personal choice"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_088_2_shared_consequences_are_named_directly",
            "text": "Shared consequences are named directly"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_088_3_advice_is_offered_rather_than_imposed",
            "text": "Advice is offered rather than imposed"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_088_4_the_other_person_can_name_their_limits_honestly",
            "text": "The other person can name their limits honestly"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_089",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs show that a sensitive conversation should pause?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "sensitive_topic",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_089_1_one_person_cannot_answer_without_feeling_pressured",
          "text": "One person cannot answer without feeling pressured"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_089_2_the_questions_have_moved_beyond_what_is_relevant",
          "text": "The questions have moved beyond what is relevant"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_089_3_someone_is_agreeing_only_to_end_the_talk",
          "text": "Someone is agreeing only to end the talk"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_089_4_privacy_is_being_treated_like_evidence_of_guilt",
          "text": "Privacy is being treated like evidence of guilt"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_089_1_one_person_cannot_answer_without_feeling_pressured",
            "text": "One person cannot answer without feeling pressured"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_089_2_the_questions_have_moved_beyond_what_is_relevant",
            "text": "The questions have moved beyond what is relevant"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_089_3_someone_is_agreeing_only_to_end_the_talk",
            "text": "Someone is agreeing only to end the talk"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_089_4_privacy_is_being_treated_like_evidence_of_guilt",
            "text": "Privacy is being treated like evidence of guilt"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_090",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we slow down first when a talk becomes confusing?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pace",
        "clarity",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_090_1_fewer_questions_at_once",
          "text": "Fewer questions at once"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_090_2_the_amount_of_detail",
          "text": "The amount of detail"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_090_3_more_time_between_replies",
          "text": "More time between replies"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_090_4_one_decision_instead_of_several",
          "text": "One decision instead of several"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_090_1_fewer_questions_at_once",
            "text": "Fewer questions at once"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_090_2_the_amount_of_detail",
            "text": "The amount of detail"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_090_3_more_time_between_replies",
            "text": "More time between replies"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_090_4_one_decision_instead_of_several",
            "text": "One decision instead of several"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_091",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs tell you that a difficult conversation is moving too fast?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pace",
        "overload",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_091_1_questions_arrive_before_answers_are_finished",
          "text": "Questions arrive before answers are finished"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_091_2_important_details_are_being_missed",
          "text": "Important details are being missed"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_091_3_someone_agrees_without_understanding",
          "text": "Someone agrees without understanding"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_091_4_the_subject_changes_every_few_minutes",
          "text": "The subject changes every few minutes"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_091_1_questions_arrive_before_answers_are_finished",
            "text": "Questions arrive before answers are finished"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_091_2_important_details_are_being_missed",
            "text": "Important details are being missed"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_091_3_someone_agrees_without_understanding",
            "text": "Someone agrees without understanding"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_091_4_the_subject_changes_every_few_minutes",
            "text": "The subject changes every few minutes"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_092",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which conditions make a sensitive request easier to consider?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "requests",
        "sensitive_topic",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_092_1_the_request_is_specific_and_voluntary",
          "text": "The request is specific and voluntary"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_092_2_a_no_will_not_trigger_punishment",
          "text": "A no will not trigger punishment"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_092_3_the_reason_is_explained_without_exaggeration",
          "text": "The reason is explained without exaggeration"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_092_4_another_option_can_be_suggested",
          "text": "Another option can be suggested"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_092_1_the_request_is_specific_and_voluntary",
            "text": "The request is specific and voluntary"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_092_2_a_no_will_not_trigger_punishment",
            "text": "A no will not trigger punishment"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_092_3_the_reason_is_explained_without_exaggeration",
            "text": "The reason is explained without exaggeration"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_092_4_another_option_can_be_suggested",
            "text": "Another option can be suggested"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_093",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can keep a serious talk from becoming an all-night event?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "time_limit",
        "scope",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_093_1_choosing_one_goal_for_the_first_round",
          "text": "Choosing one goal for the first round"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_093_2_setting_aside_side_topics_for_later",
          "text": "Setting aside side topics for later"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_093_3_taking_a_break_before_exhaustion_takes_over",
          "text": "Taking a break before exhaustion takes over"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_093_4_ending_with_the_next_question_instead_of_forcing_a_solution",
          "text": "Ending with the next question instead of forcing a solution"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_093_1_choosing_one_goal_for_the_first_round",
            "text": "Choosing one goal for the first round"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_093_2_setting_aside_side_topics_for_later",
            "text": "Setting aside side topics for later"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_093_3_taking_a_break_before_exhaustion_takes_over",
            "text": "Taking a break before exhaustion takes over"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_093_4_ending_with_the_next_question_instead_of_forcing_a_solution",
            "text": "Ending with the next question instead of forcing a solution"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_094",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it for you to notice when you need a pause?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "awareness",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Usually difficult",
        "max_label": "Usually easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_095",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which pause requests sound reassuring without making promises you cannot keep?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "reassurance",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_095_1_i_need_fifteen_minutes_and_i_will_come_back",
          "text": "I need fifteen minutes, and I will come back"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_095_2_i_want_to_answer_well_not_quickly",
          "text": "I want to answer well, not quickly"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_095_3_i_am_still_part_of_this_conversation",
          "text": "I am still part of this conversation"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_095_4_can_we_pick_this_up_after_dinner",
          "text": "Can we pick this up after dinner?"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_095_1_i_need_fifteen_minutes_and_i_will_come_back",
            "text": "I need fifteen minutes, and I will come back"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_095_2_i_want_to_answer_well_not_quickly",
            "text": "I want to answer well, not quickly"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_095_3_i_am_still_part_of_this_conversation",
            "text": "I am still part of this conversation"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_095_4_can_we_pick_this_up_after_dinner",
            "text": "Can we pick this up after dinner?"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_096",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a difficult talk remain private without becoming secretive?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "support",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_096_1_agreeing_who_truly_needs_the_information",
          "text": "Agreeing who truly needs the information"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_096_2_keeping_the_conversation_away_from_an_audience",
          "text": "Keeping the conversation away from an audience"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_096_3_allowing_professional_advice_when_it_is_useful",
          "text": "Allowing professional advice when it is useful"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_096_4_not_sharing_screenshots_to_win_support",
          "text": "Not sharing screenshots to win support"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_096_1_agreeing_who_truly_needs_the_information",
            "text": "Agreeing who truly needs the information"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_096_2_keeping_the_conversation_away_from_an_audience",
            "text": "Keeping the conversation away from an audience"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_096_3_allowing_professional_advice_when_it_is_useful",
            "text": "Allowing professional advice when it is useful"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_096_4_not_sharing_screenshots_to_win_support",
            "text": "Not sharing screenshots to win support"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_097",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which signal would best mean “please slow down” without ending the talk?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "pace",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_097_1_a_simple_hand_gesture",
          "text": "A simple hand gesture"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_097_2_a_private_phrase",
          "text": "A private phrase"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_097_3_a_request_for_one_minute_of_quiet",
          "text": "A request for one minute of quiet"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_097_4_asking_to_repeat_the_last_question",
          "text": "Asking to repeat the last question"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_097_1_a_simple_hand_gesture",
            "text": "A simple hand gesture"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_097_2_a_private_phrase",
            "text": "A private phrase"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_097_3_a_request_for_one_minute_of_quiet",
            "text": "A request for one minute of quiet"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_097_4_asking_to_repeat_the_last_question",
            "text": "Asking to repeat the last question"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_098",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which details make a pause feel like part of the conversation rather than an escape?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "follow_through",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_098_1_a_clear_reason_for_stopping",
          "text": "A clear reason for stopping"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_098_2_an_agreed_time_to_return",
          "text": "An agreed time to return"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_098_3_no_arguing_through_a_stream_of_messages",
          "text": "No arguing through a stream of messages"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_098_4_a_brief_update_if_the_time_must_change",
          "text": "A brief update if the time must change"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_098_1_a_clear_reason_for_stopping",
            "text": "A clear reason for stopping"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_098_2_an_agreed_time_to_return",
            "text": "An agreed time to return"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_098_3_no_arguing_through_a_stream_of_messages",
            "text": "No arguing through a stream of messages"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_098_4_a_brief_update_if_the_time_must_change",
            "text": "A brief update if the time must change"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_099",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes it easier for you to return to a hard conversation after a pause?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pause",
        "personal_preference",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_100",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which choices reduce pressure when someone is struggling to find words?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "word_finding",
        "patience",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_100_1_letting_a_quiet_moment_stay_quiet",
          "text": "Letting a quiet moment stay quiet"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_100_2_offering_paper_or_a_note_app",
          "text": "Offering paper or a note app"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_100_3_asking_one_smaller_question",
          "text": "Asking one smaller question"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_100_4_accepting_that_the_answer_may_come_later",
          "text": "Accepting that the answer may come later"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_100_1_letting_a_quiet_moment_stay_quiet",
            "text": "Letting a quiet moment stay quiet"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_100_2_offering_paper_or_a_note_app",
            "text": "Offering paper or a note app"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_100_3_asking_one_smaller_question",
            "text": "Asking one smaller question"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_100_4_accepting_that_the_answer_may_come_later",
            "text": "Accepting that the answer may come later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_101",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much does a time limit help you stay present in a difficult talk?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "time_limit",
        "presence",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "A great deal"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_102",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps a calm conversation from feeling emotionally distant?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "calm",
        "warmth",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_102_1_using_each_others_names_naturally",
          "text": "Using each other’s names naturally"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_102_2_acknowledging_that_the_subject_matters",
          "text": "Acknowledging that the subject matters"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_102_3_showing_care_without_forcing_touch",
          "text": "Showing care without forcing touch"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_102_4_speaking_plainly_instead_of_sounding_formal",
          "text": "Speaking plainly instead of sounding formal"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_102_1_using_each_others_names_naturally",
            "text": "Using each other’s names naturally"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_102_2_acknowledging_that_the_subject_matters",
            "text": "Acknowledging that the subject matters"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_102_3_showing_care_without_forcing_touch",
            "text": "Showing care without forcing touch"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_102_4_speaking_plainly_instead_of_sounding_formal",
            "text": "Speaking plainly instead of sounding formal"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_103",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When the conversation stalls, what is the most useful next move?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stalled_talk",
        "next_step",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_103_1_ask_what_feels_hardest_to_answer",
          "text": "Ask what feels hardest to answer"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_103_2_restate_the_question_more_simply",
          "text": "Restate the question more simply"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_103_3_choose_a_later_time_to_continue",
          "text": "Choose a later time to continue"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_103_4_decide_whether_outside_guidance_would_help",
          "text": "Decide whether outside guidance would help"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_103_1_ask_what_feels_hardest_to_answer",
            "text": "Ask what feels hardest to answer"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_103_2_restate_the_question_more_simply",
            "text": "Restate the question more simply"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_103_3_choose_a_later_time_to_continue",
            "text": "Choose a later time to continue"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_103_4_decide_whether_outside_guidance_would_help",
            "text": "Decide whether outside guidance would help"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_104",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which habits help prevent a serious talk from becoming a performance?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "authenticity",
        "privacy",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_104_1_recording_only_with_clear_agreement",
          "text": "Recording only with clear agreement"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_104_2_keeping_imaginary_audiences_out",
          "text": "Keeping imaginary audiences out"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_104_3_avoiding_dramatic_threats",
          "text": "Avoiding dramatic threats"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_104_4_refusing_to_share_the_exchange_for_public_judgment",
          "text": "Refusing to share the exchange for public judgment"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_104_1_recording_only_with_clear_agreement",
            "text": "Recording only with clear agreement"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_104_2_keeping_imaginary_audiences_out",
            "text": "Keeping imaginary audiences out"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_104_3_avoiding_dramatic_threats",
            "text": "Avoiding dramatic threats"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_104_4_refusing_to_share_the_exchange_for_public_judgment",
            "text": "Refusing to share the exchange for public judgment"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_105",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you stay honest when the other person becomes emotional?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "emotion",
        "honesty",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_105_1_speaking_more_gently_without_changing_the_truth",
          "text": "Speaking more gently without changing the truth"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_105_2_allowing_feelings_without_rushing_to_stop_them",
          "text": "Allowing feelings without rushing to stop them"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_105_3_checking_whether_a_pause_is_needed",
          "text": "Checking whether a pause is needed"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_105_4_not_making_promises_only_to_calm_the_moment",
          "text": "Not making promises only to calm the moment"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_105_1_speaking_more_gently_without_changing_the_truth",
            "text": "Speaking more gently without changing the truth"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_105_2_allowing_feelings_without_rushing_to_stop_them",
            "text": "Allowing feelings without rushing to stop them"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_105_3_checking_whether_a_pause_is_needed",
            "text": "Checking whether a pause is needed"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_105_4_not_making_promises_only_to_calm_the_moment",
            "text": "Not making promises only to calm the moment"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_106",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which listening response tells you the point was understood?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "understanding",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_106_1_a_clear_summary_in_different_words",
          "text": "A clear summary in different words"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_106_2_one_relevant_follow_up_question",
          "text": "One relevant follow-up question"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_106_3_recognition_of_the_practical_effect",
          "text": "Recognition of the practical effect"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_106_4_a_response_to_the_actual_request",
          "text": "A response to the actual request"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_106_1_a_clear_summary_in_different_words",
            "text": "A clear summary in different words"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_106_2_one_relevant_follow_up_question",
            "text": "One relevant follow-up question"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_106_3_recognition_of_the_practical_effect",
            "text": "Recognition of the practical effect"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_106_4_a_response_to_the_actual_request",
            "text": "A response to the actual request"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_107",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes follow-up questions feel curious rather than suspicious?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "questions",
        "curiosity",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_107_1_the_tone_stays_neutral",
          "text": "The tone stays neutral"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_107_2_the_question_connects_to_what_was_said",
          "text": "The question connects to what was said"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_107_3_an_answer_is_not_demanded_immediately",
          "text": "An answer is not demanded immediately"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_107_4_the_listener_can_accept_an_incomplete_memory",
          "text": "The listener can accept an incomplete memory"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_107_1_the_tone_stays_neutral",
            "text": "The tone stays neutral"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_107_2_the_question_connects_to_what_was_said",
            "text": "The question connects to what was said"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_107_3_an_answer_is_not_demanded_immediately",
            "text": "An answer is not demanded immediately"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_107_4_the_listener_can_accept_an_incomplete_memory",
            "text": "The listener can accept an incomplete memory"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_108",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which questions help uncover what decision is really needed?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "decision",
        "questions",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_108_1_what_changes_if_we_wait",
          "text": "What changes if we wait?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_108_2_who_is_affected_by_the_choice",
          "text": "Who is affected by the choice?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_108_3_which_part_can_only_one_person_decide",
          "text": "Which part can only one person decide?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_108_4_what_information_are_we_still_missing",
          "text": "What information are we still missing?"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_108_1_what_changes_if_we_wait",
            "text": "What changes if we wait?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_108_2_who_is_affected_by_the_choice",
            "text": "Who is affected by the choice?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_108_3_which_part_can_only_one_person_decide",
            "text": "Which part can only one person decide?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_108_4_what_information_are_we_still_missing",
            "text": "What information are we still missing?"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_109",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Repeat the point back or ask one clarifying question?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "listening",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_109_1_repeat_the_point_back",
          "text": "Repeat the point back"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_109_2_ask_one_clarifying_question",
          "text": "Ask one clarifying question"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_109_1_repeat_the_point_back",
            "text": "Repeat the point back"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_109_2_ask_one_clarifying_question",
            "text": "Ask one clarifying question"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_110",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can you keep listening when you already have a strong opinion?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "strong_opinion",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_110_1_waiting_until_the_full_answer_is_finished",
          "text": "Waiting until the full answer is finished"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_110_2_looking_for_information_i_did_not_have",
          "text": "Looking for information I did not have"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_110_3_separating_understanding_from_agreement",
          "text": "Separating understanding from agreement"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_110_4_writing_down_my_response_instead_of_interrupting",
          "text": "Writing down my response instead of interrupting"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_110_1_waiting_until_the_full_answer_is_finished",
            "text": "Waiting until the full answer is finished"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_110_2_looking_for_information_i_did_not_have",
            "text": "Looking for information I did not have"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_110_3_separating_understanding_from_agreement",
            "text": "Separating understanding from agreement"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_110_4_writing_down_my_response_instead_of_interrupting",
            "text": "Writing down my response instead of interrupting"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_111",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which question best checks whether advice is wanted?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "advice",
        "consent",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_111_1_do_you_want_ideas_or_just_a_listener",
          "text": "Do you want ideas or just a listener?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_111_2_would_it_help_to_hear_what_i_would_do",
          "text": "Would it help to hear what I would do?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_111_3_are_you_asking_me_to_help_decide",
          "text": "Are you asking me to help decide?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_111_4_should_i_ask_questions_before_offering_a_thought",
          "text": "Should I ask questions before offering a thought?"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_111_1_do_you_want_ideas_or_just_a_listener",
            "text": "Do you want ideas or just a listener?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_111_2_would_it_help_to_hear_what_i_would_do",
            "text": "Would it help to hear what I would do?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_111_3_are_you_asking_me_to_help_decide",
            "text": "Are you asking me to help decide?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_111_4_should_i_ask_questions_before_offering_a_thought",
            "text": "Should I ask questions before offering a thought?"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_112",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident are you that you can ask a question without making it sound like a challenge?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "questions",
        "confidence",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not confident yet",
        "max_label": "Very confident"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_113",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one question you wish I asked more often during serious conversations?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "personal_preference",
        "questions",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_114",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which listening mistakes can change the meaning of what was said?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "misunderstanding",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_114_1_assuming_the_reason_before_asking",
          "text": "Assuming the reason before asking"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_114_2_remembering_only_the_sharpest_sentence",
          "text": "Remembering only the sharpest sentence"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_114_3_treating_one_example_as_the_whole_pattern",
          "text": "Treating one example as the whole pattern"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_114_4_filling_in_a_missing_detail_with_a_guess",
          "text": "Filling in a missing detail with a guess"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_114_1_assuming_the_reason_before_asking",
            "text": "Assuming the reason before asking"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_114_2_remembering_only_the_sharpest_sentence",
            "text": "Remembering only the sharpest sentence"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_114_3_treating_one_example_as_the_whole_pattern",
            "text": "Treating one example as the whole pattern"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_114_4_filling_in_a_missing_detail_with_a_guess",
            "text": "Filling in a missing detail with a guess"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_115",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps when an answer brings up another important question?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "questions",
        "scope",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_115_1_finish_the_first_answer_before_switching_topics",
          "text": "Finish the first answer before switching topics"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_115_2_write_the_new_question_down",
          "text": "Write the new question down"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_115_3_check_whether_it_is_urgent",
          "text": "Check whether it is urgent"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_115_4_choose_which_question_belongs_today",
          "text": "Choose which question belongs today"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_115_1_finish_the_first_answer_before_switching_topics",
            "text": "Finish the first answer before switching topics"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_115_2_write_the_new_question_down",
            "text": "Write the new question down"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_115_3_check_whether_it_is_urgent",
            "text": "Check whether it is urgent"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_115_4_choose_which_question_belongs_today",
            "text": "Choose which question belongs today"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_116",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you do not understand an answer, what should you ask first?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "clarification",
        "questions",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_116_1_can_you_say_that_another_way",
          "text": "Can you say that another way?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_116_2_which_part_matters_most_to_you",
          "text": "Which part matters most to you?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_116_3_could_you_give_one_example",
          "text": "Could you give one example?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_116_4_what_do_you_need_me_to_understand_from_that",
          "text": "What do you need me to understand from that?"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_116_1_can_you_say_that_another_way",
            "text": "Can you say that another way?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_116_2_which_part_matters_most_to_you",
            "text": "Which part matters most to you?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_116_3_could_you_give_one_example",
            "text": "Could you give one example?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_116_4_what_do_you_need_me_to_understand_from_that",
            "text": "What do you need me to understand from that?"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_117",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What shows that a person is considering the answer rather than waiting to speak?",
      "depth": 2,
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      "tags": [
        "listening",
        "attention",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_117_1_their_response_connects_to_the_actual_point",
          "text": "Their response connects to the actual point"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_117_2_they_notice_a_detail_that_was_easy_to_miss",
          "text": "They notice a detail that was easy to miss"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_117_3_they_allow_the_answer_to_change_the_next_question",
          "text": "They allow the answer to change the next question"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_117_4_they_do_not_repeat_a_prepared_speech",
          "text": "They do not repeat a prepared speech"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_117_1_their_response_connects_to_the_actual_point",
            "text": "Their response connects to the actual point"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_117_2_they_notice_a_detail_that_was_easy_to_miss",
            "text": "They notice a detail that was easy to miss"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_117_3_they_allow_the_answer_to_change_the_next_question",
            "text": "They allow the answer to change the next question"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_117_4_they_do_not_repeat_a_prepared_speech",
            "text": "They do not repeat a prepared speech"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_118",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which questions are unfair during a serious conversation?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "questions",
        "fairness",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_118_1_a_question_with_only_one_acceptable_answer",
          "text": "A question with only one acceptable answer"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_118_2_being_asked_to_prove_a_feeling",
          "text": "Being asked to prove a feeling"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_118_3_private_details_unrelated_to_the_issue",
          "text": "Private details unrelated to the issue"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_118_4_anything_meant_to_embarrass_the_other_person",
          "text": "Anything meant to embarrass the other person"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_118_1_a_question_with_only_one_acceptable_answer",
            "text": "A question with only one acceptable answer"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_118_2_being_asked_to_prove_a_feeling",
            "text": "Being asked to prove a feeling"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_118_3_private_details_unrelated_to_the_issue",
            "text": "Private details unrelated to the issue"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_118_4_anything_meant_to_embarrass_the_other_person",
            "text": "Anything meant to embarrass the other person"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_119",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the clearest sign that we understand each other well enough to continue?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "understanding",
        "progress",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_119_1_both_positions_can_be_stated_fairly",
          "text": "Both positions can be stated fairly"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_119_2_agreement_on_the_basic_facts",
          "text": "Agreement on the basic facts"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_119_3_clarity_about_what_remains_uncertain",
          "text": "Clarity about what remains uncertain"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_119_4_we_can_name_the_decision_in_front_of_us",
          "text": "We can name the decision in front of us"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_119_1_both_positions_can_be_stated_fairly",
            "text": "Both positions can be stated fairly"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_119_2_agreement_on_the_basic_facts",
            "text": "Agreement on the basic facts"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_119_3_clarity_about_what_remains_uncertain",
            "text": "Clarity about what remains uncertain"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_119_4_we_can_name_the_decision_in_front_of_us",
            "text": "We can name the decision in front of us"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_120",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a listener respond when the speaker has mixed feelings?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mixed_feelings",
        "listening",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_120_1_allowing_both_feelings_to_be_true",
          "text": "Allowing both feelings to be true"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_120_2_not_forcing_a_simple_yes_or_no",
          "text": "Not forcing a simple yes or no"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_120_3_asking_which_feeling_needs_attention_first",
          "text": "Asking which feeling needs attention first"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_120_4_leaving_room_for_the_answer_to_change_with_time",
          "text": "Leaving room for the answer to change with time"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_120_1_allowing_both_feelings_to_be_true",
            "text": "Allowing both feelings to be true"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_120_2_not_forcing_a_simple_yes_or_no",
            "text": "Not forcing a simple yes or no"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_120_3_asking_which_feeling_needs_attention_first",
            "text": "Asking which feeling needs attention first"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_120_4_leaving_room_for_the_answer_to_change_with_time",
            "text": "Leaving room for the answer to change with time"
          }
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        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_121",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a difficult request easier to answer honestly?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "requests",
        "honesty",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_121_1_the_request_is_specific",
          "text": "The request is specific"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_121_2_the_time_frame_is_realistic",
          "text": "The time frame is realistic"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_121_3_no_is_allowed_without_retaliation",
          "text": "No is allowed without retaliation"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_121_4_a_different_solution_may_be_offered",
          "text": "A different solution may be offered"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_121_1_the_request_is_specific",
            "text": "The request is specific"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_121_2_the_time_frame_is_realistic",
            "text": "The time frame is realistic"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_121_3_no_is_allowed_without_retaliation",
            "text": "No is allowed without retaliation"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_121_4_a_different_solution_may_be_offered",
            "text": "A different solution may be offered"
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        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_122",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "If no decision can be made today, what matters most?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "decision",
        "delay",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_122_1_knowing_what_information_is_missing",
          "text": "Knowing what information is missing"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_122_2_choosing_when_to_return",
          "text": "Choosing when to return"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_122_3_handling_any_immediate_risk",
          "text": "Handling any immediate risk"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_122_4_avoiding_promises_made_only_to_end_the_talk",
          "text": "Avoiding promises made only to end the talk"
        }
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_122_1_knowing_what_information_is_missing",
            "text": "Knowing what information is missing"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_122_2_choosing_when_to_return",
            "text": "Choosing when to return"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_122_3_handling_any_immediate_risk",
            "text": "Handling any immediate risk"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_122_4_avoiding_promises_made_only_to_end_the_talk",
            "text": "Avoiding promises made only to end the talk"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_123",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which requests are difficult to answer because they are too vague?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "requests",
        "clarity",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_123_1_be_more_supportive",
          "text": "Be more supportive"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_123_2_care_about_this_more",
          "text": "Care about this more"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_123_3_stop_making_things_difficult",
          "text": "Stop making things difficult"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_123_4_make_me_feel_secure",
          "text": "Make me feel secure"
        }
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_123_1_be_more_supportive",
            "text": "Be more supportive"
          },
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_123_2_care_about_this_more",
            "text": "Care about this more"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_123_3_stop_making_things_difficult",
            "text": "Stop making things difficult"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_123_4_make_me_feel_secure",
            "text": "Make me feel secure"
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_124",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you suggesting another option instead of simply saying no?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "alternatives",
        "comfort",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_125",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps two people make a decision without pretending they control every part equally?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "decision",
        "autonomy",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_125_1_naming_who_owns_the_personal_choice",
          "text": "Naming who owns the personal choice"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_125_2_naming_shared_consequences_openly",
          "text": "Naming shared consequences openly"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_125_3_separating_advice_from_permission",
          "text": "Separating advice from permission"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_125_4_being_honest_about_each_persons_limits",
          "text": "Being honest about each person’s limits"
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      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_125_1_naming_who_owns_the_personal_choice",
            "text": "Naming who owns the personal choice"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_125_2_naming_shared_consequences_openly",
            "text": "Naming shared consequences openly"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_125_3_separating_advice_from_permission",
            "text": "Separating advice from permission"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_125_4_being_honest_about_each_persons_limits",
            "text": "Being honest about each person’s limits"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_126",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A temporary answer or no answer until we know more?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "uncertainty",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_126_1_a_temporary_answer",
          "text": "A temporary answer"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_126_2_no_answer_until_we_know_more",
          "text": "No answer until we know more"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_126_1_a_temporary_answer",
            "text": "A temporary answer"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_126_2_no_answer_until_we_know_more",
            "text": "No answer until we know more"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_127",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which conditions keep a compromise voluntary rather than pressured?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "compromise",
        "consent",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_127_1_both_people_can_explain_what_they_accepted",
          "text": "Both people can explain what they accepted"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_127_2_neither_person_is_threatened_into_agreeing",
          "text": "Neither person is threatened into agreeing"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_127_3_the_arrangement_can_be_reviewed_later",
          "text": "The arrangement can be reviewed later"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_127_4_the_costs_are_not_hidden_from_one_side",
          "text": "The costs are not hidden from one side"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_127_1_both_people_can_explain_what_they_accepted",
            "text": "Both people can explain what they accepted"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_127_2_neither_person_is_threatened_into_agreeing",
            "text": "Neither person is threatened into agreeing"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_127_3_the_arrangement_can_be_reviewed_later",
            "text": "The arrangement can be reviewed later"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_127_4_the_costs_are_not_hidden_from_one_side",
            "text": "The costs are not hidden from one side"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_128",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which outcomes can still count as a useful first conversation?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "outcomes",
        "progress",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_128_1_the_real_question_is_finally_clear",
          "text": "The real question is finally clear"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_128_2_a_misunderstanding_is_corrected",
          "text": "A misunderstanding is corrected"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_128_3_more_information_is_gathered",
          "text": "More information is gathered"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_128_4_a_respectful_next_time_is_chosen",
          "text": "A respectful next time is chosen"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_128_1_the_real_question_is_finally_clear",
            "text": "The real question is finally clear"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_128_2_a_misunderstanding_is_corrected",
            "text": "A misunderstanding is corrected"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_128_3_more_information_is_gathered",
            "text": "More information is gathered"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_128_4_a_respectful_next_time_is_chosen",
            "text": "A respectful next time is chosen"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_129",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "If we leave with different answers, which result would still make the talk worthwhile?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "disagreement",
        "outcome",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_129_1_each_person_understands_the_other_position",
          "text": "Each person understands the other position"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_129_2_the_immediate_boundary_is_clear",
          "text": "The immediate boundary is clear"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_129_3_no_false_agreement_is_given",
          "text": "No false agreement is given"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_129_4_the_next_decision_point_is_known",
          "text": "The next decision point is known"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_129_1_each_person_understands_the_other_position",
            "text": "Each person understands the other position"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_129_2_the_immediate_boundary_is_clear",
            "text": "The immediate boundary is clear"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_129_3_no_false_agreement_is_given",
            "text": "No false agreement is given"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_129_4_the_next_decision_point_is_known",
            "text": "The next decision point is known"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_130",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a conversation end without turning uncertainty into a crisis?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "uncertainty",
        "ending",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_130_1_naming_what_is_still_unknown",
          "text": "Naming what is still unknown"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_130_2_agreeing_what_does_not_need_action_yet",
          "text": "Agreeing what does not need action yet"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_130_3_choosing_one_practical_next_step",
          "text": "Choosing one practical next step"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_130_4_avoiding_dramatic_predictions_about_the_future",
          "text": "Avoiding dramatic predictions about the future"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_130_1_naming_what_is_still_unknown",
            "text": "Naming what is still unknown"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_130_2_agreeing_what_does_not_need_action_yet",
            "text": "Agreeing what does not need action yet"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_130_3_choosing_one_practical_next_step",
            "text": "Choosing one practical next step"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_130_4_avoiding_dramatic_predictions_about_the_future",
            "text": "Avoiding dramatic predictions about the future"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_131",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it for you to leave a serious topic partly unresolved?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "unresolved",
        "comfort",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very difficult",
        "max_label": "Usually manageable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_132",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs suggest that outside expertise would help the decision?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "outside_help",
        "decision",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_132_1_the_facts_are_technical_or_legal",
          "text": "The facts are technical or legal"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_132_2_health_or_safety_could_be_affected",
          "text": "Health or safety could be affected"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_132_3_the_same_question_keeps_returning_without_new_information",
          "text": "The same question keeps returning without new information"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_132_4_the_consequences_are_larger_than_either_person_understands",
          "text": "The consequences are larger than either person understands"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_132_1_the_facts_are_technical_or_legal",
            "text": "The facts are technical or legal"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_132_2_health_or_safety_could_be_affected",
            "text": "Health or safety could be affected"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_132_3_the_same_question_keeps_returning_without_new_information",
            "text": "The same question keeps returning without new information"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_132_4_the_consequences_are_larger_than_either_person_understands",
            "text": "The consequences are larger than either person understands"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_133",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which details make a follow-up plan specific enough to trust?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "follow_up",
        "planning",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_133_1_a_date_or_condition_for_returning",
          "text": "A date or condition for returning"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_133_2_a_clear_person_responsible_for_gathering_information",
          "text": "A clear person responsible for gathering information"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_133_3_the_exact_question_still_needing_an_answer",
          "text": "The exact question still needing an answer"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_133_4_an_agreement_about_what_happens_in_the_meantime",
          "text": "An agreement about what happens in the meantime"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_133_1_a_date_or_condition_for_returning",
            "text": "A date or condition for returning"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_133_2_a_clear_person_responsible_for_gathering_information",
            "text": "A clear person responsible for gathering information"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_133_3_the_exact_question_still_needing_an_answer",
            "text": "The exact question still needing an answer"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_133_4_an_agreement_about_what_happens_in_the_meantime",
            "text": "An agreement about what happens in the meantime"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_134",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "How should a difficult conversation end when both people need time?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "ending",
        "time",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_134_1_choose_a_time_to_return",
          "text": "Choose a time to return"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_134_2_name_what_was_understood",
          "text": "Name what was understood"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_134_3_agree_on_what_cannot_wait",
          "text": "Agree on what cannot wait"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_134_4_decide_whether_any_immediate_support_is_needed",
          "text": "Decide whether any immediate support is needed"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_134_1_choose_a_time_to_return",
            "text": "Choose a time to return"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_134_2_name_what_was_understood",
            "text": "Name what was understood"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_134_3_agree_on_what_cannot_wait",
            "text": "Agree on what cannot wait"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_134_4_decide_whether_any_immediate_support_is_needed",
            "text": "Decide whether any immediate support is needed"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_135",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which promises should be avoided at the end of a hard talk?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "promises",
        "realism",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_135_1_promising_never_to_feel_that_way_again",
          "text": "Promising never to feel that way again"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_135_2_a_guarantee_that_nothing_will_be_difficult",
          "text": "A guarantee that nothing will be difficult"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_135_3_agreeing_only_because_someone_is_upset",
          "text": "Agreeing only because someone is upset"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_135_4_an_unrealistic_deadline",
          "text": "An unrealistic deadline"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_135_1_promising_never_to_feel_that_way_again",
            "text": "Promising never to feel that way again"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_135_2_a_guarantee_that_nothing_will_be_difficult",
            "text": "A guarantee that nothing will be difficult"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_135_3_agreeing_only_because_someone_is_upset",
            "text": "Agreeing only because someone is upset"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_135_4_an_unrealistic_deadline",
            "text": "An unrealistic deadline"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_136",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should happen when a request affects one person much more than the other?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "requests",
        "fairness",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_136_1_the_heavier_cost_is_named_plainly",
          "text": "The heavier cost is named plainly"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_136_2_the_affected_person_gets_meaningful_choice",
          "text": "The affected person gets meaningful choice"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_136_3_convenience_is_not_treated_like_equal_sacrifice",
          "text": "Convenience is not treated like equal sacrifice"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_136_4_other_workable_options_are_considered",
          "text": "Other workable options are considered"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_136_1_the_heavier_cost_is_named_plainly",
            "text": "The heavier cost is named plainly"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_136_2_the_affected_person_gets_meaningful_choice",
            "text": "The affected person gets meaningful choice"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_136_3_convenience_is_not_treated_like_equal_sacrifice",
            "text": "Convenience is not treated like equal sacrifice"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_136_4_other_workable_options_are_considered",
            "text": "Other workable options are considered"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_137",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "End with reassurance or end with the next step?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "ending",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_137_1_end_with_reassurance",
          "text": "End with reassurance"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_137_2_end_with_the_next_step",
          "text": "End with the next step"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_137_1_end_with_reassurance",
            "text": "End with reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_137_2_end_with_the_next_step",
            "text": "End with the next step"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_138",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which follow-up questions are useful after emotions have settled?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "follow_up",
        "questions",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_138_1_is_there_anything_important_i_missed",
          "text": "Is there anything important I missed?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_138_2_has_your_answer_changed_since_we_talked",
          "text": "Has your answer changed since we talked?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_138_3_do_we_need_another_conversation_or_a_decision",
          "text": "Do we need another conversation or a decision?"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_138_4_what_would_make_the_next_step_clearer",
          "text": "What would make the next step clearer?"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_138_1_is_there_anything_important_i_missed",
            "text": "Is there anything important I missed?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_138_2_has_your_answer_changed_since_we_talked",
            "text": "Has your answer changed since we talked?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_138_3_do_we_need_another_conversation_or_a_decision",
            "text": "Do we need another conversation or a decision?"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_138_4_what_would_make_the_next_step_clearer",
            "text": "What would make the next step clearer?"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_139",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes the end of a serious talk feel complete enough for now?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "ending",
        "closure",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_139_1_the_main_point_was_heard",
          "text": "The main point was heard"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_139_2_any_urgent_decision_was_addressed",
          "text": "Any urgent decision was addressed"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_139_3_the_remaining_question_was_named",
          "text": "The remaining question was named"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_139_4_both_people_know_what_happens_next",
          "text": "Both people know what happens next"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_139_1_the_main_point_was_heard",
            "text": "The main point was heard"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_139_2_any_urgent_decision_was_addressed",
            "text": "Any urgent decision was addressed"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_139_3_the_remaining_question_was_named",
            "text": "The remaining question was named"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_139_4_both_people_know_what_happens_next",
            "text": "Both people know what happens next"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_140",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident are you that we can talk about hard subjects without solving everything at once?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "realism",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not confident yet",
        "max_label": "Very confident"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_141",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a follow-up feel thoughtful instead of like reopening the whole conversation?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "follow_up",
        "scope",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_141_1_asking_about_one_specific_point",
          "text": "Asking about one specific point"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_141_2_checking_whether_the_timing_works",
          "text": "Checking whether the timing works"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_141_3_referring_to_the_agreement_already_made",
          "text": "Referring to the agreement already made"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_141_4_leaving_unrelated_issues_out",
          "text": "Leaving unrelated issues out"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_141_1_asking_about_one_specific_point",
            "text": "Asking about one specific point"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_141_2_checking_whether_the_timing_works",
            "text": "Checking whether the timing works"
          },
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_141_3_referring_to_the_agreement_already_made",
            "text": "Referring to the agreement already made"
          },
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_141_4_leaving_unrelated_issues_out",
            "text": "Leaving unrelated issues out"
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_142",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which sign best shows that a hard conversation was worth having?",
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      "tags": [
        "outcome",
        "value",
        "difficult_conversations"
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          "id": "difficult_conversations_142_1_we_understand_the_real_issue_better",
          "text": "We understand the real issue better"
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          "id": "difficult_conversations_142_2_a_necessary_truth_was_finally_said",
          "text": "A necessary truth was finally said"
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          "id": "difficult_conversations_142_3_a_decision_became_clearer",
          "text": "A decision became clearer"
        },
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          "id": "difficult_conversations_142_4_the_next_conversation_feels_less_frightening",
          "text": "The next conversation feels less frightening"
        }
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_142_1_we_understand_the_real_issue_better",
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_142_2_a_necessary_truth_was_finally_said",
            "text": "A necessary truth was finally said"
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          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_142_3_a_decision_became_clearer",
            "text": "A decision became clearer"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_142_4_the_next_conversation_feels_less_frightening",
            "text": "The next conversation feels less frightening"
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        ]
      }
    },
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_143",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which habits build confidence for future serious talks?",
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      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "habits",
        "difficult_conversations"
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        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_143_1_returning_when_we_said_we_would",
          "text": "Returning when we said we would"
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          "id": "difficult_conversations_143_2_respecting_an_honest_answer",
          "text": "Respecting an honest answer"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_143_3_keeping_private_details_private",
          "text": "Keeping private details private"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_143_4_admitting_when_a_question_was_unfair",
          "text": "Admitting when a question was unfair"
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          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_143_1_returning_when_we_said_we_would",
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_143_2_respecting_an_honest_answer",
            "text": "Respecting an honest answer"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_143_3_keeping_private_details_private",
            "text": "Keeping private details private"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_143_4_admitting_when_a_question_was_unfair",
            "text": "Admitting when a question was unfair"
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_144",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps after a difficult conversation that did not go as planned?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "try_again",
        "learning",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_144_1_identify_the_point_where_it_became_unworkable",
          "text": "Identify the point where it became unworkable"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_144_2_choose_a_smaller_question_for_the_next_attempt",
          "text": "Choose a smaller question for the next attempt"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_144_3_change_the_timing_or_setting",
          "text": "Change the timing or setting"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_144_4_ask_whether_another_form_of_support_would_help",
          "text": "Ask whether another form of support would help"
        }
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_144_1_identify_the_point_where_it_became_unworkable",
            "text": "Identify the point where it became unworkable"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_144_2_choose_a_smaller_question_for_the_next_attempt",
            "text": "Choose a smaller question for the next attempt"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_144_3_change_the_timing_or_setting",
            "text": "Change the timing or setting"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_144_4_ask_whether_another_form_of_support_would_help",
            "text": "Ask whether another form of support would help"
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        "max_selections": 3
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    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_145",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A short follow-up tomorrow or more time before returning?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "quick_choice",
        "follow_up",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_145_1_a_short_follow_up_tomorrow",
          "text": "A short follow-up tomorrow"
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        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_145_2_more_time_before_returning",
          "text": "More time before returning"
        }
      ],
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          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_145_1_a_short_follow_up_tomorrow",
            "text": "A short follow-up tomorrow"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_145_2_more_time_before_returning",
            "text": "More time before returning"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_146",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs show that a difficult subject needs another conversation?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "follow_up",
        "unfinished",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
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        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_146_1_a_decision_remains_unclear",
          "text": "A decision remains unclear"
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          "id": "difficult_conversations_146_2_new_information_changes_the_situation",
          "text": "New information changes the situation"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_146_3_one_person_did_not_have_room_to_answer",
          "text": "One person did not have room to answer"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_146_4_the_practical_next_step_was_never_chosen",
          "text": "The practical next step was never chosen"
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          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_146_1_a_decision_remains_unclear",
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_146_2_new_information_changes_the_situation",
            "text": "New information changes the situation"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_146_3_one_person_did_not_have_room_to_answer",
            "text": "One person did not have room to answer"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_146_4_the_practical_next_step_was_never_chosen",
            "text": "The practical next step was never chosen"
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_147",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should be remembered before bringing the same subject up again?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "follow_up",
        "memory",
        "difficult_conversations"
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          "id": "difficult_conversations_147_1_what_was_already_understood",
          "text": "What was already understood"
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          "id": "difficult_conversations_147_2_which_question_remains_open",
          "text": "Which question remains open"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_147_3_what_timing_was_requested",
          "text": "What timing was requested"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_147_4_whether_the_situation_has_actually_changed",
          "text": "Whether the situation has actually changed"
        }
      ],
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          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_147_1_what_was_already_understood",
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_147_2_which_question_remains_open",
            "text": "Which question remains open"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_147_3_what_timing_was_requested",
            "text": "What timing was requested"
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          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_147_4_whether_the_situation_has_actually_changed",
            "text": "Whether the situation has actually changed"
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        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_148",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a final answer feel trustworthy even when it is disappointing?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "answer",
        "trustworthiness",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_148_1_it_is_stated_without_unnecessary_cruelty",
          "text": "It is stated without unnecessary cruelty"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_148_2_the_reason_is_consistent_with_the_facts",
          "text": "The reason is consistent with the facts"
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        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_148_3_no_false_promise_is_added_to_soften_it",
          "text": "No false promise is added to soften it"
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        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_148_4_the_answer_does_not_change_under_pressure",
          "text": "The answer does not change under pressure"
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          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_148_1_it_is_stated_without_unnecessary_cruelty",
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_148_2_the_reason_is_consistent_with_the_facts",
            "text": "The reason is consistent with the facts"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_148_3_no_false_promise_is_added_to_soften_it",
            "text": "No false promise is added to soften it"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_148_4_the_answer_does_not_change_under_pressure",
            "text": "The answer does not change under pressure"
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      }
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      "id": "difficult_conversations_149",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which conversations are important even when they do not end comfortably?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "importance",
        "honesty",
        "difficult_conversations"
      ],
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          "id": "difficult_conversations_149_1_a_boundary_needs_to_be_stated",
          "text": "A boundary needs to be stated"
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          "id": "difficult_conversations_149_2_a_shared_decision_cannot_be_avoided",
          "text": "A shared decision cannot be avoided"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_149_3_someones_health_or_safety_is_affected",
          "text": "Someone’s health or safety is affected"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_149_4_staying_silent_would_keep_someone_from_making_an_informed_choice",
          "text": "Staying silent would keep someone from making an informed choice"
        }
      ],
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          {
            "id": "difficult_conversations_149_1_a_boundary_needs_to_be_stated",
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_149_2_a_shared_decision_cannot_be_avoided",
            "text": "A shared decision cannot be avoided"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_149_3_someones_health_or_safety_is_affected",
            "text": "Someone’s health or safety is affected"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_149_4_staying_silent_would_keep_someone_from_making_an_informed_choice",
            "text": "Staying silent would keep someone from making an informed choice"
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        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "difficult_conversations_150",
      "category_id": "difficult_conversations",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What would make our next difficult conversation feel more manageable?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "next_time",
        "confidence",
        "difficult_conversations"
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      "options": [
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_150_1_a_clearer_time_limit",
          "text": "A clearer time limit"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_150_2_one_topic_instead_of_several",
          "text": "One topic instead of several"
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        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_150_3_a_gentler_first_sentence",
          "text": "A gentler first sentence"
        },
        {
          "id": "difficult_conversations_150_4_permission_to_pause_and_return",
          "text": "Permission to pause and return"
        }
      ],
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_150_1_a_clearer_time_limit",
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            "text": "One topic instead of several"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_150_3_a_gentler_first_sentence",
            "text": "A gentler first sentence"
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            "id": "difficult_conversations_150_4_permission_to_pause_and_return",
            "text": "Permission to pause and return"
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