Closer/seed/questions/sex_and_desire.json

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    "id": "sex_and_desire",
    "display_name": "Sex & Desire",
    "description": "Warm, playful, consent-first questions about attraction, flirting, initiation, desire rhythms, mismatched moods, confidence, privacy, and keeping long-term chemistry alive.",
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        "scale": 29,
        "this_or_that": 23
      },
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        "2": 104,
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        "4": 46,
        "5": 23
      },
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      "light_depth_percentage": 40.1,
      "content_version": "sex_and_desire_guide_reviewed_v2",
      "batch_size": 25,
      "review_policy": "13 batches of 25 plus a final batch of 19, with 50-question checkpoints and 100-question context refreshes.",
      "mass_rewrite_exception": "Approved replacement because repeated stems, spark/flirt/kiss variants, and overlap with related intimacy packs affected more than 60% of the source experience.",
      "related_pack_boundary": "Focuses on desire dynamics and couple communication; specific sexual preferences and activities belong in sexual_preferences."
    }
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    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_001",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes you feel deliberately chosen, not merely available?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted_attraction",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
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      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_002",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When your confidence is low, what helps most?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "patient_affection_without_attention_on_my_body",
            "text": "Patient affection without attention on my body"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_sincere_reminder_of_what_you_adore",
            "text": "A sincere reminder of what you adore"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy_and_time_to_settle_in",
            "text": "Privacy and time to settle in"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_allowed_to_lead_the_pace",
            "text": "Being allowed to lead the pace"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_003",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which flirting style fits naturally into a busy day?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_004",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to say you are not in the mood?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very difficult",
        "max_label": "Completely comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_005",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes an invitation to be close feel easy to answer honestly?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_006",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps your mind leave the day behind before closeness?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "transition_stress",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_007",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things help you feel wanted before anything physical begins?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "focused_attention_that_is_not_rushed",
            "text": "Focused attention that is not rushed"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_specific_compliment_meant_privately",
            "text": "A specific compliment meant privately"
          },
          {
            "id": "playful_interest_during_the_day",
            "text": "Playful interest during the day"
          },
          {
            "id": "help_clearing_mental_distractions",
            "text": "Help clearing mental distractions"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection_with_no_automatic_next_step",
            "text": "Affection with no automatic next step"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_008",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which form of anticipation feels exciting without becoming pressure?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_009",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which makes being wanted feel more believable?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "consistent_everyday_attention",
            "text": "Consistent everyday attention"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_bold_unmistakable_moment",
            "text": "A bold unmistakable moment"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_010",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What do you wish I understood about the way desire arrives for you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythms",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_011",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which conversation style feels least awkward?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "talking_while_taking_a_walk",
            "text": "Talking while taking a walk"
          },
          {
            "id": "answering_one_clear_question_at_a_time",
            "text": "Answering one clear question at a time"
          },
          {
            "id": "sharing_thoughts_by_message_first",
            "text": "Sharing thoughts by message first"
          },
          {
            "id": "using_humor_before_getting_sincere",
            "text": "Using humor before getting sincere"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_012",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When only one of us is interested, what helps us still feel like a team?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_013",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes it easiest for you to say yes, no, or not yet?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent_boundaries",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_014",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "After 'not tonight' is fully accepted, which response feels most caring?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "warm_affection_that_clearly_stays_pressure_free",
            "text": "Warm affection that clearly stays pressure-free"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_space_now_and_normal_warmth_tomorrow",
            "text": "Kind space now and normal warmth tomorrow"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_offer_of_another_shared_activity",
            "text": "A gentle offer of another shared activity"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_simple_reminder_that_we_are_still_close",
            "text": "A simple reminder that we are still close"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_015",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes talking about desire feel less formal for you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_016",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "On low-confidence days, what makes you feel attractive?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_017",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How quickly can you shift from daily responsibilities into couple time?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "transition",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very slowly",
        "max_label": "Quite easily"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_018",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What familiar part of our chemistry is worth bringing back?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "novelty_routine",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_019",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Where or when do you feel most able to relax into privacy?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy_setting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_020",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a vulnerable preference feel safe to share?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "vulnerability",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_joking_at_the_persons_expense",
            "text": "No joking at the person's expense"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pressure_to_explain_every_detail",
            "text": "No pressure to explain every detail"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy_after_the_conversation",
            "text": "Privacy after the conversation"
          },
          {
            "id": "curious_questions_instead_of_assumptions",
            "text": "Curious questions instead of assumptions"
          },
          {
            "id": "acceptance_that_the_answer_may_change",
            "text": "Acceptance that the answer may change"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_021",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which closeness feels complete even when it stays nonsexual?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection_nonsexual",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_022",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps you stay present instead of self-conscious?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "low_light_and_less_visual_focus",
            "text": "Low light and less visual focus"
          },
          {
            "id": "encouraging_words_without_overdoing_them",
            "text": "Encouraging words without overdoing them"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_slower_pace_with_frequent_pauses",
            "text": "A slower pace with frequent pauses"
          },
          {
            "id": "attention_on_connection_rather_than_appearance",
            "text": "Attention on connection rather than appearance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_023",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When a romantic moment gets awkward, what helps you laugh kindly?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "awkward_repair",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_024",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which helps you shift into couple mode faster?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "transition",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "music_and_dimmer_lights",
            "text": "Music and dimmer lights"
          },
          {
            "id": "conversation_and_close_attention",
            "text": "Conversation and close attention"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_025",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After a close moment, what helps you feel cared for?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_026",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which early moment between us first carried real chemistry?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories_lore",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_027",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which way of saying 'I want you' feels best?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "warm_and_unmistakably_direct",
            "text": "Warm and unmistakably direct"
          },
          {
            "id": "playful_with_room_to_laugh",
            "text": "Playful with room to laugh"
          },
          {
            "id": "softly_spoken_during_affection",
            "text": "Softly spoken during affection"
          },
          {
            "id": "written_in_a_private_message",
            "text": "Written in a private message"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_028",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What tiny romantic plan would make next week more exciting?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future_play",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_029",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does a satisfying sense of desire between us mean to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "broader_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_030",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much does stress interfere with your interest in closeness?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hardly at all",
        "max_label": "A great deal"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_031",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When do you notice my attraction to you most clearly?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted_attraction",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_032",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What signal could show interest without interrupting everything else?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_033",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes planned private time feel romantic?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "planning",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_personal_detail_chosen_for_me",
            "text": "A personal detail chosen for me"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_chores_waiting_in_the_background",
            "text": "No chores waiting in the background"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_flexible_plan_instead_of_a_script",
            "text": "A flexible plan instead of a script"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_we_protected_the_time_together",
            "text": "Knowing we protected the time together"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_034",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How do you like interest to be shown when the timing is uncertain?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_035",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "With an easy stop guaranteed, what makes playful teasing work between us?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "teasing",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_avoids_real_insecurities",
            "text": "It avoids real insecurities"
          },
          {
            "id": "both_people_can_tease_back",
            "text": "Both people can tease back"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_happens_in_the_right_setting",
            "text": "It happens in the right setting"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection_is_obvious_underneath_it",
            "text": "Affection is obvious underneath it"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_never_relies_on_embarrassment",
            "text": "It never relies on embarrassment"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_036",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which small reset makes you more available for playful attention?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "transition_stress",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_037",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How early in the day can a flirty mood begin for you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_038",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "After a stressful day, which closeness feels better?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "quiet_affection_first",
            "text": "Quiet affection first"
          },
          {
            "id": "playful_distraction_first",
            "text": "Playful distraction first"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_039",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How does your interest change when life feels calm versus crowded?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythms",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_040",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes closeness feel unhurried?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pace",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "starting_before_we_are_exhausted",
            "text": "Starting before we are exhausted"
          },
          {
            "id": "leaving_the_next_hour_unscheduled",
            "text": "Leaving the next hour unscheduled"
          },
          {
            "id": "putting_away_devices_and_distractions",
            "text": "Putting away devices and distractions"
          },
          {
            "id": "agreeing_there_is_no_goal_to_reach",
            "text": "Agreeing there is no goal to reach"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_041",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What response to 'not tonight' feels loving without reopening the question?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_042",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should either of us pause a moment without needing a long explanation?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent_boundaries",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_043",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How fresh does our romantic energy feel right now?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "routine",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very routine",
        "max_label": "Fresh and alive"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_044",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When is the easiest time to discuss something you would like differently?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_045",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can I compliment you without making you feel examined?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_046",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "With consent and an easy stop clear, what makes a new idea easier to consider?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "novelty",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "knowing_discussion_does_not_equal_agreement",
            "text": "Knowing discussion does not equal agreement"
          },
          {
            "id": "starting_with_the_mildest_version",
            "text": "Starting with the mildest version"
          },
          {
            "id": "having_plenty_of_time_to_decide",
            "text": "Having plenty of time to decide"
          },
          {
            "id": "planning_a_calm_check_in_afterward",
            "text": "Planning a calm check-in afterward"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_047",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What could add novelty without making the night feel like a test?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "novelty_routine",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_048",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "After a stressful stretch, which conditions reopen the door to desire?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "more_rest_and_fewer_deadlines",
            "text": "More rest and fewer deadlines"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_emotionally_reconnected",
            "text": "Feeling emotionally reconnected"
          },
          {
            "id": "small_affectionate_moments",
            "text": "Small affectionate moments"
          },
          {
            "id": "protected_time_without_a_goal",
            "text": "Protected time without a goal"
          },
          {
            "id": "playfulness_outside_private_moments",
            "text": "Playfulness outside private moments"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_049",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How much does a tidy or comfortable space affect your mood?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy_setting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_050",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can affection communicate desire without asking for anything more?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection_nonsexual",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_051",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which protects privacy better for you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "planning_uninterrupted_time",
            "text": "Planning uninterrupted time"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_flirtation_discreet_all_day",
            "text": "Keeping flirtation discreet all day"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_052",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should we recover when timing suddenly feels wrong?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "awkward_repair",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_053",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which invitation style leaves the most room for an honest answer?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clear_words_with_no_pressure",
            "text": "Clear words with no pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_question_in_private",
            "text": "A gentle question in private"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_playful_hint_plus_a_check_in",
            "text": "A playful hint plus a check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_plan_that_welcomes_changing_minds",
            "text": "A plan that welcomes changing minds"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_054",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How much quiet time do you usually want afterward?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_055",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What old flirtation of ours still makes you smile?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories_lore",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_056",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How private does our couple time feel in daily life?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Often interrupted",
        "max_label": "Protected and private"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_057",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which low-effort date could leave us wanting more time together?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future_play",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_058",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How do you want our sexual connection to feel emotionally?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "broader_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_059",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which everyday gesture feels most flirtatious?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_lingering_look_across_the_room",
            "text": "A lingering look across the room"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_private_joke_whispered_nearby",
            "text": "A private joke whispered nearby"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_warm_hand_at_my_waist",
            "text": "A warm hand at my waist"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_message_that_hints_at_later",
            "text": "A message that hints at later"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_060",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which everyday moment makes you feel unexpectedly desirable?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted_attraction",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_061",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which shared joke brings out our flirtiest side?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_062",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which small moments can carry real chemistry?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "small_moments",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_hello_that_lasts_longer_than_usual",
            "text": "A hello that lasts longer than usual"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_look_held_for_one_extra_second",
            "text": "A look held for one extra second"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_private_compliment_in_public",
            "text": "A private compliment in public"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_reaching_for_mine_first",
            "text": "A hand reaching for mine first"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_shared_joke_with_romantic_history",
            "text": "A shared joke with romantic history"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_063",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is the gentlest way to check whether you are open to more?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_064",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "After pausing to clarify an uncertain signal, what should guide the next step?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_unsure_person_chooses_the_pace",
            "text": "The unsure person chooses the pace"
          },
          {
            "id": "return_to_nonsexual_affection",
            "text": "Return to nonsexual affection"
          },
          {
            "id": "offer_clearly_named_choices",
            "text": "Offer clearly named choices"
          },
          {
            "id": "end_the_moment_without_tension",
            "text": "End the moment without tension"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_065",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "On an exhausting day, what keeps us romantically connected?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "transition_stress",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_066",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How satisfying does our current pace of intimacy feel?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pace",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not satisfying",
        "max_label": "Very satisfying"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_067",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small promise could make later time together feel special?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_068",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When does desire tend to surprise you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythms",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_069",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which pace suits a low-energy evening better?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pace",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_and_affectionate",
            "text": "Slow and affectionate"
          },
          {
            "id": "brief_and_playful",
            "text": "Brief and playful"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_070",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can the interested partner share desire without creating guilt?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_071",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of confidence from me feels attractive?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "calmly_saying_what_i_hope_for",
            "text": "Calmly saying what I hope for"
          },
          {
            "id": "taking_initiative_while_welcoming_direction",
            "text": "Taking initiative while welcoming direction"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_playful_when_plans_change",
            "text": "Being playful when plans change"
          },
          {
            "id": "accepting_a_no_without_losing_warmth",
            "text": "Accepting a no without losing warmth"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_072",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What response makes a changed mind feel completely accepted?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent_boundaries",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_073",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What lets us ask curious questions without turning answers into promises?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_074",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you suggesting a new shared experience?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "novelty",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "I usually hold back",
        "max_label": "I suggest it easily"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_075",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which reassurance feels believable when you are self-conscious?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_076",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small change could make a usual evening feel different?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "novelty_routine",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_077",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes it easier to ask for something you want?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "knowing_curiosity_will_not_be_mocked",
            "text": "Knowing curiosity will not be mocked"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_able_to_phrase_it_as_an_option",
            "text": "Being able to phrase it as an option"
          },
          {
            "id": "having_time_to_explain_without_urgency",
            "text": "Having time to explain without urgency"
          },
          {
            "id": "hearing_that_uncertainty_is_acceptable",
            "text": "Hearing that uncertainty is acceptable"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_078",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which distractions are hardest for you to ignore during private time?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy_setting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_079",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us recover from an awkward moment?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_laugh_without_making_fun",
            "text": "A gentle laugh without making fun"
          },
          {
            "id": "saying_plainly_that_nothing_is_wrong",
            "text": "Saying plainly that nothing is wrong"
          },
          {
            "id": "switching_to_a_simpler_kind_of_closeness",
            "text": "Switching to a simpler kind of closeness"
          },
          {
            "id": "taking_a_short_pause_together",
            "text": "Taking a short pause together"
          },
          {
            "id": "letting_the_moment_end_gracefully",
            "text": "Letting the moment end gracefully"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_080",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What everyday touch makes you feel connected rather than distracted?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection_nonsexual",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_081",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes it safe to admit that something is not working?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "awkward_repair",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_082",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "What style of novelty sounds more inviting?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "novelty",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_familiar_idea_with_a_twist",
            "text": "A familiar idea with a twist"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_completely_new_shared_plan",
            "text": "A completely new shared plan"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_083",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After the intensity passes, what conversation feels good?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_084",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of buildup sounds most appealing tonight?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_teasing_through_conversation",
            "text": "Slow teasing through conversation"
          },
          {
            "id": "sweet_affection_that_gradually_deepens",
            "text": "Sweet affection that gradually deepens"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_direct_invitation_after_privacy",
            "text": "A direct invitation after privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "spontaneous_chemistry_with_check_ins",
            "text": "Spontaneous chemistry with check-ins"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_085",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When did you first realize I was strongly attracted to you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories_lore",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_086",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What playful tradition should our future selves keep?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future_play",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_087",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much nonsexual affection helps you feel desired?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "nonsexual_affection",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very little",
        "max_label": "A great deal"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_088",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps desire add joy to our relationship instead of pressure?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "broader_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_089",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What tells you that I am still genuinely captivated by you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted_attraction",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_090",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which aftercare sounds most comforting?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "quiet_cuddling_with_no_conversation",
            "text": "Quiet cuddling with no conversation"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_drink_and_a_gentle_check_in",
            "text": "A drink and a gentle check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassuring_words_before_some_space",
            "text": "Reassuring words before some space"
          },
          {
            "id": "light_conversation_while_staying_close",
            "text": "Light conversation while staying close"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_091",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is a harmless way we could tease each other more?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_092",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When does a direct invitation feel better than a subtle hint?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_093",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things make you feel pursued in a good way?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pursuit",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "interest_that_notices_your_actual_mood",
            "text": "Interest that notices your actual mood"
          },
          {
            "id": "effort_tailored_to_what_you_enjoy",
            "text": "Effort tailored to what you enjoy"
          },
          {
            "id": "invitations_that_remain_easy_to_decline",
            "text": "Invitations that remain easy to decline"
          },
          {
            "id": "warmth_that_continues_after_any_answer",
            "text": "Warmth that continues after any answer"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_sense_that_the_person_chose_you_specifically",
            "text": "A sense that the person chose you specifically"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_094",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which transition helps you stop feeling rushed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "transition_stress",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_095",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which small gesture makes you feel deliberately chosen?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "saving_a_private_moment_for_me",
            "text": "Saving a private moment for me"
          },
          {
            "id": "remembering_something_i_said_i_liked",
            "text": "Remembering something I said I liked"
          },
          {
            "id": "looking_for_me_first_in_a_room",
            "text": "Looking for me first in a room"
          },
          {
            "id": "planning_around_what_helps_me_relax",
            "text": "Planning around what helps me relax"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_096",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which buildup makes you more curious than impatient?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_097",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which signals help you notice interest before it becomes obvious?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythms",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_098",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which makes desire feel more mutual?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mutual_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "taking_turns_initiating",
            "text": "Taking turns initiating"
          },
          {
            "id": "building_the_mood_together",
            "text": "Building the mood together"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_099",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps the less-interested partner stay affectionate without sending a false signal?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_100",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much freedom do you feel to want closeness without promising more?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "no_pressure",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very little freedom",
        "max_label": "Complete freedom"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_101",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which check-in words sound natural enough for us to actually use?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent_boundaries",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_102",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which wording helps you share a preference honestly?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_103",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which reset helps you leave stress behind fastest?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "transition",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_quiet_shower_and_fresh_clothes",
            "text": "A quiet shower and fresh clothes"
          },
          {
            "id": "ten_minutes_alone_to_decompress",
            "text": "Ten minutes alone to decompress"
          },
          {
            "id": "music_while_we_tidy_the_mood",
            "text": "Music while we tidy the mood"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_cuddle_with_no_next_step",
            "text": "A cuddle with no next step"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_104",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What brings you back to the moment when appearance worries show up?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_105",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which surprise stays fun because it is easy to decline?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "novelty_routine",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_106",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which details can make private time feel protected?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "devices_silenced_and_put_away",
            "text": "Devices silenced and put away"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_door_that_will_not_be_interrupted",
            "text": "A door that will not be interrupted"
          },
          {
            "id": "enough_time_without_watching_the_clock",
            "text": "Enough time without watching the clock"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_space_that_feels_comfortable",
            "text": "A space that feels comfortable"
          },
          {
            "id": "responsibilities_handled_or_intentionally_postponed",
            "text": "Responsibilities handled or intentionally postponed"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_107",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps a shared space feel temporarily like it belongs only to us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "privacy_setting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_108",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "With an immediate stop always available, what makes teasing feel welcome?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "teasing",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_stays_affectionate_rather_than_critical",
            "text": "It stays affectionate rather than critical"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_is_private_and_personally_understood",
            "text": "It is private and personally understood"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_leaves_room_for_an_easy_comeback",
            "text": "It leaves room for an easy comeback"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_matches_the_mood_we_are_actually_in",
            "text": "It matches the mood we are actually in"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_109",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which part of the day makes quiet holding feel most welcome?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection_nonsexual",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_110",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would help us reset without treating the moment like a failure?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "awkward_repair",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_111",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which response feels kinder when one of us is not interested?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "warm_reassurance_and_space",
            "text": "Warm reassurance and space"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_different_kind_of_closeness",
            "text": "A different kind of closeness"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_112",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What keeps a check-in from making the moment feel analyzed?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_113",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to hear 'not tonight' without taking it personally?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Still difficult",
        "max_label": "Completely manageable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_114",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which date made us feel most like co-conspirators?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories_lore",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_115",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "With no penalty for declining, what makes a surprise feel genuinely welcome?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "surprise",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_builds_on_something_i_already_mentioned",
            "text": "It builds on something I already mentioned"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_begins_with_a_playful_invitation",
            "text": "It begins with a playful invitation"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_stays_small_enough_to_change_course",
            "text": "It stays small enough to change course"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_timing_leaves_room_to_relax",
            "text": "The timing leaves room to relax"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_116",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How could we make an anniversary feel intimate without making it elaborate?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future_play",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_117",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which part of our chemistry feels most uniquely ours?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "broader_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_118",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What could make our desire feel more playful this month?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_tiny_romantic_challenge",
            "text": "A tiny romantic challenge"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_new_version_of_a_favorite_date",
            "text": "A new version of a favorite date"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_private_jokes_and_teasing",
            "text": "More private jokes and teasing"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_planned_low_pressure_evening",
            "text": "A planned low-pressure evening"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_shared_playlist_for_flirty_moods",
            "text": "A shared playlist for flirty moods"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_119",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can I show attraction without turning it into an expectation?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted_attraction",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_120",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When does flirting between us feel easiest and most genuine?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_121",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which signal would be easiest for us to use?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_direct_phrase_we_both_recognize",
            "text": "A direct phrase we both recognize"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_playful_code_word_in_a_message",
            "text": "A playful code word in a message"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_question_that_offers_several_answers",
            "text": "A question that offers several answers"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_gesture_followed_by_a_verbal_check",
            "text": "A gesture followed by a verbal check"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_122",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps initiation feel shared rather than one-sided?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_123",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When stress is high, what form of closeness still feels easy?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "transition_stress",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_124",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often do our shared memories still create sparks?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Almost never",
        "max_label": "Very often"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_125",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can anticipation stay fun when plans are delayed?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_126",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which environment makes interruptions easiest to forget?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "setting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "soft_lighting_and_a_locked_door",
            "text": "Soft lighting and a locked door"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_familiar_room_with_no_interruptions",
            "text": "A familiar room with no interruptions"
          },
          {
            "id": "music_low_enough_to_still_talk",
            "text": "Music low enough to still talk"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_clean_space_and_plenty_of_time",
            "text": "A clean space and plenty of time"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_127",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How much does emotional closeness affect your physical interest?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythms",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_128",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When our moods differ, which reassurance matters most?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_129",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which memory creates more romantic energy?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "our_earliest_butterflies",
            "text": "Our earliest butterflies"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_recent_unexpected_spark",
            "text": "A recent unexpected spark"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_130",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make stopping feel ordinary rather than dramatic?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent_boundaries",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_131",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Would you rather discuss delicate topics face-to-face or side-by-side?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_132",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which version of romance brings out your desire?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "thoughtful_and_softly_planned",
            "text": "Thoughtful and softly planned"
          },
          {
            "id": "spontaneous_and_a_little_daring",
            "text": "Spontaneous and a little daring"
          },
          {
            "id": "cozy_with_lots_of_affectionate_buildup",
            "text": "Cozy with lots of affectionate buildup"
          },
          {
            "id": "playful_with_shared_laughter",
            "text": "Playful with shared laughter"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_133",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How could we make private time kinder to changing bodies?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_134",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can make a planned romantic night feel personal?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "planning",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_detail_chosen_from_something_i_mentioned",
            "text": "A detail chosen from something I mentioned"
          },
          {
            "id": "food_or_music_tied_to_our_history",
            "text": "Food or music tied to our history"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_flexible_plan_built_around_our_energy",
            "text": "A flexible plan built around our energy"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_private_note_about_why_you_chose_it",
            "text": "A private note about why you chose it"
          },
          {
            "id": "time_protected_from_routine_interruptions",
            "text": "Time protected from routine interruptions"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_135",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps a new idea feel collaborative instead of performative?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "novelty_routine",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_136",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Where can we find privacy when time or space is limited?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy_setting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_137",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How supported do you feel when your desire is low?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "low_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very supported",
        "max_label": "Deeply supported"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_138",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which goodbye affection stays with you during the day?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection_nonsexual",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_139",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which tiny ritual could protect our spark?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "ritual",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_longer_hello_at_the_end_of_the_day",
            "text": "A longer hello at the end of the day"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_private_compliment_before_bed",
            "text": "One private compliment before bed"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_weekly_no_phone_cuddle",
            "text": "A weekly no-phone cuddle"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_playful_message_during_the_afternoon",
            "text": "A playful message during the afternoon"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_140",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What response helps embarrassment pass quickly?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "awkward_repair",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_141",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small gesture helps you feel emotionally settled afterward?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_142",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "For long-term romance, which matters more to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "long_term_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "keeping_familiar_rituals_meaningful",
            "text": "Keeping familiar rituals meaningful"
          },
          {
            "id": "continuing_to_surprise_each_other",
            "text": "Continuing to surprise each other"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_143",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What memory proves that our chemistry can survive an awkward moment?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories_lore",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_144",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which getaway would bring out our most flirtatious side?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future_play",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_145",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps an awkward moment recover fastest?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_kind_laugh_that_includes_both_of_us",
            "text": "A kind laugh that includes both of us"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_calm_pause_with_no_blame",
            "text": "A calm pause with no blame"
          },
          {
            "id": "switching_to_simple_affection",
            "text": "Switching to simple affection"
          },
          {
            "id": "admitting_it_feels_awkward_and_resetting",
            "text": "Admitting it feels awkward and resetting"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_146",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What do you hope becomes easier for us to discuss over time?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "broader_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_147",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How hopeful do you feel about our desire growing with us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "long_term_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very hopeful",
        "max_label": "Very hopeful"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_148",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which everyday attention makes you feel magnetic?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted_attraction",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_149",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What tiny habit could keep our playful chemistry visible?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_150",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Beyond clear consent and an easy stop, what keeps a new idea pressure-free?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "novelty",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "discussing_it_away_from_the_moment",
            "text": "Discussing it away from the moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "treating_curiosity_as_an_invitation_to_talk",
            "text": "Treating curiosity as an invitation to talk"
          },
          {
            "id": "naming_firm_limits_before_making_plans",
            "text": "Naming firm limits before making plans"
          },
          {
            "id": "starting_smaller_than_the_full_idea",
            "text": "Starting smaller than the full idea"
          },
          {
            "id": "checking_in_afterward_without_judgment",
            "text": "Checking in afterward without judgment"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_151",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can either of us begin without making the other feel responsible for the outcome?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_152",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which way of reconnecting after distance feels best?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "start_with_a_relaxed_date_and_no_agenda",
            "text": "Start with a relaxed date and no agenda"
          },
          {
            "id": "talk_honestly_before_adding_affection",
            "text": "Talk honestly before adding affection"
          },
          {
            "id": "return_through_small_everyday_touches",
            "text": "Return through small everyday touches"
          },
          {
            "id": "share_a_memory_that_reminds_us_of_us",
            "text": "Share a memory that reminds us of us"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_153",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What usually needs to happen before you can relax into affection?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "transition_stress",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_154",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How could we stretch a romantic moment without overplanning it?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_155",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which invitation feels more appealing when you are receptive?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_clearly_planned_evening",
            "text": "A clearly planned evening"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_spontaneous_private_moment",
            "text": "A spontaneous private moment"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_156",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What tends to make desire grow slowly for you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythms",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_157",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes pursuit feel flattering rather than pressuring?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pursuit",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "attention_continues_to_respect_my_pace",
            "text": "Attention continues to respect my pace"
          },
          {
            "id": "interest_is_specific_rather_than_generic",
            "text": "Interest is specific rather than generic"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_invitation_can_be_declined_gracefully",
            "text": "The invitation can be declined gracefully"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection_remains_warm_either_way",
            "text": "Affection remains warm either way"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_158",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should we reconnect after one of us feels disappointed?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_159",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What reassures you that affection will not automatically lead further?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent_boundaries",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_160",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How balanced does initiation feel between us?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation_balance",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very one-sided",
        "max_label": "Naturally shared"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_161",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps feedback sound caring instead of corrective?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_162",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes you feel admired without feeling put on display?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_163",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which form of privacy matters most to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_chance_of_being_overheard",
            "text": "No chance of being overheard"
          },
          {
            "id": "phones_silenced_and_out_of_reach",
            "text": "Phones silenced and out of reach"
          },
          {
            "id": "enough_time_without_a_deadline",
            "text": "Enough time without a deadline"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_space_that_feels_comfortable_and_secure",
            "text": "A space that feels comfortable and secure"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_164",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How do we know when routine feels comforting rather than stale?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "novelty_routine",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_165",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which kinds of nonsexual closeness still feel intimate?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "nonsexual",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "holding_each_other_quietly",
            "text": "Holding each other quietly"
          },
          {
            "id": "sharing_honest_conversation_in_bed",
            "text": "Sharing honest conversation in bed"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_dancing_without_a_plan",
            "text": "Slow dancing without a plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "resting_with_your_head_on_me",
            "text": "Resting with your head on me"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_long_kiss_that_ends_there",
            "text": "A long kiss that ends there"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_166",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How does the room's lighting change your comfort with being seen?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy_setting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_167",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What keeps cuddling from feeling like a hidden request?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection_nonsexual",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_168",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which playful energy suits us best?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sweet_and_slightly_mischievous",
            "text": "Sweet and slightly mischievous"
          },
          {
            "id": "bold_but_easy_to_redirect",
            "text": "Bold but easy to redirect"
          },
          {
            "id": "silly_enough_to_break_tension",
            "text": "Silly enough to break tension"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_with_lots_of_eye_contact",
            "text": "Quiet with lots of eye contact"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_169",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When plans fall apart, what keeps the connection intact?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "awkward_repair",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_170",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When would space feel better than cuddling?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_171",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which future plan feels more exciting?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_private_weekend_escape",
            "text": "A private weekend escape"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_playful_night_at_home",
            "text": "A playful night at home"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_172",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which compliment from our history do you still remember?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories_lore",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_173",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you initiating when the mood feels right?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "I rarely initiate",
        "max_label": "I initiate comfortably"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_174",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which monthly ritual could protect our chemistry from busy schedules?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future_play",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_175",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can our differences make our connection more interesting rather than harder?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "broader_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_176",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which small plan would create the most anticipation?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "planning",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_no_phone_hour_later_tonight",
            "text": "A no-phone hour later tonight"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_private_dessert_after_everything_is_done",
            "text": "A private dessert after everything is done"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_walk_that_ends_with_time_alone",
            "text": "A walk that ends with time alone"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_note_naming_one_thing_i_look_forward_to",
            "text": "A note naming one thing I look forward to"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_177",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When has a small look from me made you feel especially wanted?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted_attraction",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_178",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How could I flirt with you when words would feel awkward?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_179",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "With no blame or scorekeeping, what helps mismatched desire feel less personal?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatch",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "remembering_that_moods_naturally_change",
            "text": "Remembering that moods naturally change"
          },
          {
            "id": "talking_outside_the_immediate_moment",
            "text": "Talking outside the immediate moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "naming_affection_that_still_feels_welcome",
            "text": "Naming affection that still feels welcome"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassuring_each_other_without_making_promises",
            "text": "Reassuring each other without making promises"
          },
          {
            "id": "remembering_one_moment_does_not_define_our_chemistry",
            "text": "Remembering one moment does not define our chemistry"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_180",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which first move feels warm even if it goes no further?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_181",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What pace helps you stay most connected to the moment?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "pace",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_enough_to_notice_every_change",
            "text": "Slow enough to notice every change"
          },
          {
            "id": "natural_and_guided_by_both_people",
            "text": "Natural and guided by both people"
          },
          {
            "id": "playful_with_frequent_verbal_check_ins",
            "text": "Playful with frequent verbal check-ins"
          },
          {
            "id": "flexible_depending_on_the_day",
            "text": "Flexible depending on the day"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_182",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How could we signal that tonight is for unwinding, not performing?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "transition_stress",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_183",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What detail makes you look forward to private time most?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_184",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How freely can you express strong desire without creating pressure?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "high_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not freely yet",
        "max_label": "Very freely"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_185",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When interest is quiet, what helps you stay connected to it?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythms",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_186",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "What flirt would brighten an ordinary afternoon?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_mischievous_message",
            "text": "A mischievous message"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_lingering_in_person_look",
            "text": "A lingering in-person look"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_187",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What keeps a difference in desire from feeling personal?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_188",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should we clarify an unclear signal instead of guessing?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent_boundaries",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_189",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Once stopping is guaranteed, which first step makes a new idea approachable?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "novelty",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "talk_about_what_interests_each_of_us",
            "text": "Talk about what interests each of us"
          },
          {
            "id": "name_any_firm_limits",
            "text": "Name any firm limits"
          },
          {
            "id": "choose_the_simplest_possible_version",
            "text": "Choose the simplest possible version"
          },
          {
            "id": "decide_when_to_check_in",
            "text": "Decide when to check in"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_190",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make post-moment feedback feel caring instead of graded?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_191",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When do you feel most at ease in your own skin around me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_192",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things keep long-term chemistry alive?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "long_term",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "continuing_to_notice_each_other",
            "text": "Continuing to notice each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_time_for_unhurried_affection",
            "text": "Making time for unhurried affection"
          },
          {
            "id": "trying_small_changes_without_pressure",
            "text": "Trying small changes without pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "remembering_what_already_works",
            "text": "Remembering what already works"
          },
          {
            "id": "talking_kindly_when_desire_shifts",
            "text": "Talking kindly when desire shifts"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_193",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would refresh our connection without requiring a big plan?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "novelty_routine",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_194",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps desire feel mutual in the moment?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mutuality",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "both_people_actively_choosing_to_move_closer",
            "text": "Both people actively choosing to move closer"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_words_plus_active_participation",
            "text": "Clear words plus active participation"
          },
          {
            "id": "taking_turns_showing_interest",
            "text": "Taking turns showing interest"
          },
          {
            "id": "pausing_whenever_either_person_hesitates",
            "text": "Pausing whenever either person hesitates"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_195",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Does music help you settle in, or does quiet feel better?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy_setting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_196",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a long hug feel especially grounding?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection_nonsexual",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_197",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How excited are you about making new romantic memories together?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very excited",
        "max_label": "Extremely excited"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_198",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How would you like feedback handled when something misses the mark?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "awkward_repair",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_199",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What usually protects your mood best?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "mood",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "enough_time_that_nothing_feels_rushed",
            "text": "Enough time that nothing feels rushed"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy_from_likely_interruptions",
            "text": "Privacy from likely interruptions"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_transition_out_of_responsibilities",
            "text": "A gentle transition out of responsibilities"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_affection_can_stop_anywhere",
            "text": "Knowing affection can stop anywhere"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_200",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How do you know closeness mattered beyond the physical moment?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_201",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What was our most unexpectedly romantic ordinary day?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories_lore",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_202",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which makes honest feedback easier?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "talking_outside_the_moment",
            "text": "Talking outside the moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_guidance_in_the_moment",
            "text": "Gentle guidance in the moment"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_203",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would a perfect slow evening together include?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future_play",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_204",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does feeling sexually understood look like in everyday life?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "broader_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_205",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "With no debt or scorekeeping, which reassurance helps most after a mismatch?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatch",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "we_are_still_close_even_without_sex",
            "text": "We are still close even without sex"
          },
          {
            "id": "your_honest_answer_did_not_hurt_us",
            "text": "Your honest answer did not hurt us"
          },
          {
            "id": "our_attraction_is_still_real",
            "text": "Our attraction is still real"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_can_reconnect_in_another_way",
            "text": "We can reconnect in another way"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_206",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes praise about your appearance feel sincere rather than automatic?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted_attraction",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_207",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How playful has our flirting felt this week?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Barely playful",
        "max_label": "Very playful"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_208",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which message would brighten your day without demanding a response?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_209",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "With every answer treated warmly, which conditions make initiation feel inviting?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clear_interest_without_urgency",
            "text": "Clear interest without urgency"
          },
          {
            "id": "enough_time_to_answer_honestly",
            "text": "Enough time to answer honestly"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_private_setting_with_dependable_quiet",
            "text": "A private setting with dependable quiet"
          },
          {
            "id": "attention_to_the_mood_we_are_actually_in",
            "text": "Attention to the mood we are actually in"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_invitation_that_fits_our_shared_style",
            "text": "An invitation that fits our shared style"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_210",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should we handle a missed signal without embarrassment?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_211",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When your mind is busy, what helps you become present?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "transition_stress",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_212",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which type of private message feels most exciting?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "messages",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_memory_that_hints_at_our_chemistry",
            "text": "A memory that hints at our chemistry"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_compliment_too_personal_for_public",
            "text": "A compliment too personal for public"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_playful_invitation_for_later",
            "text": "A playful invitation for later"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_simple_statement_that_you_miss_me",
            "text": "A simple statement that you miss me"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_213",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When does suspense add spark, and when does it become distracting?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_214",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us respect different desire schedules?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythms",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_215",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which spoken check-in feels most natural?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_direct_yes_or_no_question",
            "text": "A direct yes-or-no question"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_pause_followed_by_still_good",
            "text": "A pause followed by 'Still good?'"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_216",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When would trying again later feel welcome, and when would it not?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_217",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a boundary feel respected in the moment, not only afterward?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent_boundaries",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_218",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which old spark would be most fun to revive?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memory",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_way_we_flirted_on_early_dates",
            "text": "The way we flirted on early dates"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_favorite_slow_dance_song",
            "text": "A favorite slow-dance song"
          },
          {
            "id": "our_habit_of_lingering_goodnight_kisses",
            "text": "Our habit of lingering goodnight kisses"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_private_joke_with_romantic_history",
            "text": "A private joke with romantic history"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_219",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a vulnerable answer feel protected after it is shared?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_220",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How connected do you feel to your own desire lately?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_awareness",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Disconnected from it",
        "max_label": "Strongly connected"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_221",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would help you receive a compliment instead of dismissing it?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_222",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which old spark deserves a modern version?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "novelty_routine",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_223",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps conversations about frequency stay respectful?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "frequency",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "talking_about_feelings_rather_than_quotas",
            "text": "Talking about feelings rather than quotas"
          },
          {
            "id": "recognizing_stress_health_and_energy_changes",
            "text": "Recognizing stress, health, and energy changes"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_affection_separate_from_obligation",
            "text": "Keeping affection separate from obligation"
          },
          {
            "id": "looking_for_shared_possibilities_not_blame",
            "text": "Looking for shared possibilities, not blame"
          },
          {
            "id": "allowing_the_conversation_to_continue_later",
            "text": "Allowing the conversation to continue later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_224",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a planned private evening feel protected from interruptions?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy_setting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_225",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which low-energy option still feels romantic?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "low_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sharing_a_blanket_and_holding_hands",
            "text": "Sharing a blanket and holding hands"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_slow_kiss_before_going_to_sleep",
            "text": "A slow kiss before going to sleep"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_back_rub_with_no_expectations",
            "text": "A back rub with no expectations"
          },
          {
            "id": "listening_to_one_song_while_close",
            "text": "Listening to one song while close"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_226",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which quiet form of affection helps after a difficult day?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection_nonsexual",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_227",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps us avoid taking an awkward pause personally?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "awkward_repair",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_228",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which helps confidence more on an ordinary day?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "an_unexpected_compliment",
            "text": "An unexpected compliment"
          },
          {
            "id": "undivided_admiring_attention",
            "text": "Undivided admiring attention"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_229",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should we handle different aftercare needs without either person feeling rejected?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_230",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which version of our younger selves would be proud of our closeness now?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories_lore",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_231",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When affection is guaranteed to stay optional, which support matters most on a low-desire day?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "low_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_can_ask_for_less_without_explaining",
            "text": "I can ask for less without explaining"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_follow_my_pace_instead_of_guessing",
            "text": "You follow my pace instead of guessing"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_choose_a_kind_of_touch_i_name",
            "text": "We choose a kind of touch I name"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_moment_can_stay_brief_and_simple",
            "text": "The moment can stay brief and simple"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_232",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What could give future private time something to look forward to?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future_play",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_233",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe does it feel to change your mind during a private moment?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not safe enough",
        "max_label": "Completely safe"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_234",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make this part of our relationship feel more playful this year?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "broader_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_235",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which part of being desired matters most beyond physical attraction?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted_attraction",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_236",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things make feedback easier to share?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "choosing_a_calm_time_afterward",
            "text": "Choosing a calm time afterward"
          },
          {
            "id": "beginning_with_what_felt_good",
            "text": "Beginning with what felt good"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_one_clear_request_at_a_time",
            "text": "Making one clear request at a time"
          },
          {
            "id": "listening_without_defending_immediately",
            "text": "Listening without defending immediately"
          },
          {
            "id": "allowing_some_thoughts_to_wait",
            "text": "Allowing some thoughts to wait"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_237",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Where does our best flirting usually begin?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_238",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which part of initiation should feel most shared?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "who_starts_the_conversation",
            "text": "Who starts the conversation"
          },
          {
            "id": "who_sets_the_pace",
            "text": "Who sets the pace"
          },
          {
            "id": "who_suggests_the_next_step",
            "text": "Who suggests the next step"
          },
          {
            "id": "who_can_comfortably_pause_it",
            "text": "Who can comfortably pause it"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_239",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What protects your freedom to change your answer after closeness begins?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_240",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which part of the evening most affects your openness to desire?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "transition_stress",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_241",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident do you feel receiving genuine compliments from me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "I deflect them",
        "max_label": "I fully receive them"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_242",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is a subtle way to say, 'I am thinking about later'?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_243",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which humor helps romantic tension?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "humor",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "an_inside_joke_at_exactly_the_right_time",
            "text": "An inside joke at exactly the right time"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_teasing_that_never_targets_insecurity",
            "text": "Gentle teasing that never targets insecurity"
          },
          {
            "id": "laughing_together_when_plans_go_wrong",
            "text": "Laughing together when plans go wrong"
          },
          {
            "id": "pretending_to_be_dramatically_irresistible",
            "text": "Pretending to be dramatically irresistible"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_244",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does a healthy rhythm of closeness look like to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythms",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_245",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What keeps recurring mismatch talks from turning into scorekeeping?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_246",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which compliment lands more deeply?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "compliments",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "something_about_my_appearance",
            "text": "Something about my appearance"
          },
          {
            "id": "something_about_my_energy",
            "text": "Something about my energy"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_247",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can curiosity stay welcome without becoming persuasion?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent_boundaries",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_248",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which topics are easier to discuss before a romantic moment?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_249",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which future plan sounds most chemistry-friendly?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_cozy_overnight_with_no_schedule",
            "text": "A cozy overnight with no schedule"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_playful_date_in_a_new_place",
            "text": "A playful date in a new place"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_familiar_favorite_with_extra_privacy",
            "text": "A familiar favorite with extra privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quiet_weekend_built_around_rest",
            "text": "A quiet weekend built around rest"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_250",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes insecurity talks supportive without making insecurity the focus?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_251",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "After an honest no is fully accepted, which gestures help us stay connected?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "pressure_free_affection_if_welcome",
            "text": "Pressure-free affection if welcome"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_warm_change_of_subject",
            "text": "A warm change of subject"
          },
          {
            "id": "some_space_without_coldness",
            "text": "Some space without coldness"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_different_shared_activity",
            "text": "A different shared activity"
          },
          {
            "id": "trusting_we_can_reconnect_later",
            "text": "Trusting we can reconnect later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_252",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What keeps curiosity alive while honoring different comfort levels?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "novelty_routine",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_253",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How much does knowing we have enough time affect your openness?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy_setting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_254",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you naming what would feel good emotionally?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard to put into words",
        "max_label": "Easy to name clearly"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_255",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What physical closeness works when one of us needs low stimulation?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection_nonsexual",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_256",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What helps frequency talks stay kind?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "frequency",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "speaking_about_patterns_instead_of_blame",
            "text": "Speaking about patterns instead of blame"
          },
          {
            "id": "naming_closeness_we_already_value",
            "text": "Naming closeness we already value"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_no_promises_in_the_moment",
            "text": "Making no promises in the moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "choosing_a_calm_time_outside_the_bedroom",
            "text": "Choosing a calm time outside the bedroom"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_257",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can humor help without making either person feel mocked?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "awkward_repair",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_258",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After vulnerability, what reassurance feels natural?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_259",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which conversation opener feels safer?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "can_i_share_something_i_want",
            "text": "Can I share something I want?"
          },
          {
            "id": "would_you_like_to_hear_an_idea",
            "text": "Would you like to hear an idea?"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_260",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What private joke became part of our romantic language?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories_lore",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_261",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What playful agreement could make spontaneous affection easier?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future_play",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_262",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which busy-day gesture keeps romantic energy alive?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_quick_mischievous_text",
            "text": "A quick mischievous text"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_meaningful_look_while_passing",
            "text": "A meaningful look while passing"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_tiny_favor_with_playful_energy",
            "text": "A tiny favor with playful energy"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_planned_moment_to_reconnect_later",
            "text": "A planned moment to reconnect later"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_263",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes my interest feel personal rather than situational?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted_attraction",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_264",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a compliment feel flirtatious rather than simply nice?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_265",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs tell you that we are emotionally connected?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "connection",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "conversation_feels_easy_and_attentive",
            "text": "Conversation feels easy and attentive"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection_does_not_carry_an_agenda",
            "text": "Affection does not carry an agenda"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_can_laugh_without_avoiding_real_feelings",
            "text": "We can laugh without avoiding real feelings"
          },
          {
            "id": "differences_do_not_threaten_warmth",
            "text": "Differences do not threaten warmth"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_both_feel_free_to_be_honest",
            "text": "We both feel free to be honest"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_266",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which part of initiation deserves more playfulness between us?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_267",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How attractive do you feel in our everyday life together?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "body_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely attractive",
        "max_label": "Frequently attractive"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_268",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is a low-effort way to shift from task mode into us mode?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "transition_stress",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_269",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of feedback is easiest to receive?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "one_thing_you_especially_enjoyed",
            "text": "One thing you especially enjoyed"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_request_for_next_time",
            "text": "A gentle request for next time"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_question_about_how_it_felt",
            "text": "A question about how it felt"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_later_conversation_when_relaxed",
            "text": "A later conversation when relaxed"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_270",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What builds anticipation while keeping every next step optional?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_271",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which changes in routine affect your interest more than expected?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythms",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_272",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes emotional closeness turn into desire?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "emotional_closeness",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "feeling_deeply_listened_to",
            "text": "Feeling deeply listened to"
          },
          {
            "id": "laughing_until_the_day_feels_lighter",
            "text": "Laughing until the day feels lighter"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_appreciated_in_a_specific_way",
            "text": "Being appreciated in a specific way"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_we_have_protected_private_time",
            "text": "Knowing we have protected private time"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_273",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does kindness look like when one person wants more closeness?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_274",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should always remain true when we try something unfamiliar?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent_boundaries",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_275",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which helps desire survive a busy season?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "busy_life",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "protecting_small_couple_rituals",
            "text": "Protecting small couple rituals"
          },
          {
            "id": "planning_occasional_bigger_moments",
            "text": "Planning occasional bigger moments"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_276",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should we revisit a conversation that felt unfinished?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_277",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which attention helps confidence grow naturally?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_278",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easily can we laugh when a romantic moment gets awkward?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "awkwardness",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not easily",
        "max_label": "Very easily"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_279",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes experimenting feel playful rather than goal-oriented?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "novelty_routine",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_280",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which desire difference is easiest to navigate?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "differences",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "different_preferred_times_of_day",
            "text": "Different preferred times of day"
          },
          {
            "id": "different_speeds_of_getting_interested",
            "text": "Different speeds of getting interested"
          },
          {
            "id": "different_amounts_of_advance_planning",
            "text": "Different amounts of advance planning"
          },
          {
            "id": "different_needs_for_affection_afterward",
            "text": "Different needs for affection afterward"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_281",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small environmental detail changes the mood fastest for you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy_setting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_282",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "With pausing always welcome, what supports confidence during closeness?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "attention_that_is_not_evaluative",
            "text": "Attention that is not evaluative"
          },
          {
            "id": "lighting_or_clothing_that_feels_comfortable",
            "text": "Lighting or clothing that feels comfortable"
          },
          {
            "id": "permission_to_guide_the_pace",
            "text": "Permission to guide the pace"
          },
          {
            "id": "compliments_that_sound_specific_and_true",
            "text": "Compliments that sound specific and true"
          },
          {
            "id": "careful_attention_without_staring",
            "text": "Careful attention without staring"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_283",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which playful touch also feels clearly pressure-free?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection_nonsexual",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_284",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make trying again later feel natural?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "awkward_repair",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_285",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which ordinary moment has the best spark potential?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "reuniting_at_the_end_of_the_day",
            "text": "Reuniting at the end of the day"
          },
          {
            "id": "cooking_together_after_everyone_settles",
            "text": "Cooking together after everyone settles"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quiet_goodbye_before_leaving",
            "text": "A quiet goodbye before leaving"
          },
          {
            "id": "getting_ready_side_by_side",
            "text": "Getting ready side by side"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_286",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes the ending of private time feel unhurried?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_287",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When have we handled a difference in desire especially well?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories_lore",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_288",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to notice when I am attracted to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "attraction",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard to notice",
        "max_label": "Very easy to notice"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_289",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which season brings out the most romantic version of us?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future_play",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_290",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How would you like me to show that I am excited to be close?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted_attraction",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_291",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "When chemistry gets interrupted, which reset feels better?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "awkwardness",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "laugh_and_reset_together",
            "text": "Laugh and reset together"
          },
          {
            "id": "pause_and_talk_softly",
            "text": "Pause and talk softly"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_292",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which version of us is the most naturally playful together?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_293",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which private ritual best captures our particular chemistry?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "couple_lore",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_private_phrase_nobody_else_understands",
            "text": "A private phrase nobody else understands"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_familiar_song_with_shared_history",
            "text": "A familiar song with shared history"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_ritual_we_invented_together",
            "text": "A ritual we invented together"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_look_that_carries_an_entire_conversation",
            "text": "A look that carries an entire conversation"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_294",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes being approached feel thoughtful rather than assumed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_295",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a flirty conversation stay comfortable?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "privacy_from_other_people",
            "text": "Privacy from other people"
          },
          {
            "id": "room_to_laugh_or_change_the_subject",
            "text": "Room to laugh or change the subject"
          },
          {
            "id": "questions_that_do_not_demand_disclosure",
            "text": "Questions that do not demand disclosure"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_assumption_that_talk_becomes_action",
            "text": "No assumption that talk becomes action"
          },
          {
            "id": "kindness_if_our_answers_differ",
            "text": "Kindness if our answers differ"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_296",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can I help without making relaxation feel like a transaction?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "transition_stress",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_297",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What countdown would feel playful rather than serious?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_298",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Once a no is fully safe, what helps a yes feel genuinely chosen?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_invitation_reflects_my_actual_mood",
            "text": "The invitation reflects my actual mood"
          },
          {
            "id": "time_to_notice_what_i_really_want",
            "text": "Time to notice what I really want"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_question_that_is_clear_and_specific",
            "text": "A question that is clear and specific"
          },
          {
            "id": "freedom_to_change_my_mind_later",
            "text": "Freedom to change my mind later"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_299",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How do you know when you want affection but not anything further?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythms",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_300",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How could we celebrate an honest no as part of trust?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_301",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much anticipation do you enjoy before private time?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very little",
        "max_label": "A long slow build"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_302",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How would you like me to respond when you need more time?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent_boundaries",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_303",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes clarification easier than pretending to understand?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_304",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which attention feels flattering without becoming intense?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_private_glance_that_does_not_linger_too_long",
            "text": "A private glance that does not linger too long"
          },
          {
            "id": "specific_words_about_your_presence",
            "text": "Specific words about your presence"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection_focused_on_comfort",
            "text": "Affection focused on comfort"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_asked_what_kind_of_attention_feels_good",
            "text": "Being asked what kind of attention feels good"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_305",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps desire feel possible when you do not feel your best?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_306",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which creates more anticipation for you?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "hints_spread_through_the_day",
            "text": "Hints spread through the day"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_bold_surprise_later",
            "text": "One bold surprise later"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_307",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When would planning something new feel more exciting than spontaneity?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "novelty_routine",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_308",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes privacy feel secure without making the plan feel secretive?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "privacy_setting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_309",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can make desire harder to access?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "barriers",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "exhaustion_that_has_not_eased",
            "text": "Exhaustion that has not eased"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_rushed_or_observed",
            "text": "Feeling rushed or observed"
          },
          {
            "id": "unfinished_conflict_between_us",
            "text": "Unfinished conflict between us"
          },
          {
            "id": "pressure_to_respond_a_certain_way",
            "text": "Pressure to respond a certain way"
          },
          {
            "id": "too_many_distractions_nearby",
            "text": "Too many distractions nearby"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_310",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When does sitting close say more than a conversation?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection_nonsexual",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_311",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which compliment feels most believable to you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "compliments",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "something_specific_i_noticed_today",
            "text": "Something specific I noticed today"
          },
          {
            "id": "praise_for_how_you_carry_yourself",
            "text": "Praise for how you carry yourself"
          },
          {
            "id": "words_about_the_effect_you_have_on_me",
            "text": "Words about the effect you have on me"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quiet_comment_meant_only_for_you",
            "text": "A quiet comment meant only for you"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_312",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should we end a moment that no longer feels right?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "awkward_repair",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_313",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What carries warmth into the rest of the day?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_314",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How cared for do you feel after an emotionally intense private moment?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not cared for enough",
        "max_label": "Very cared for"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_315",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What moment made you feel safely bold with me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories_lore",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_316",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make a planned night feel personal rather than scheduled?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future_play",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_317",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should a good desire conversation leave behind?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "more_understanding_without_new_pressure",
            "text": "More understanding without new pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_practical_idea_we_both_like",
            "text": "A practical idea we both like"
          },
          {
            "id": "permission_to_think_and_revisit_later",
            "text": "Permission to think and revisit later"
          },
          {
            "id": "warmth_even_when_answers_differ",
            "text": "Warmth even when answers differ"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_318",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes feeling wanted playful instead of emotionally heavy?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "wanted_attraction",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_319",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make flirting feel fresh without making it feel forced?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_320",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which aftercare helps you settle more?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "close_quiet_contact",
            "text": "Close quiet contact"
          },
          {
            "id": "gentle_conversation_afterward",
            "text": "Gentle conversation afterward"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_321",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How could we make room for both spontaneous and planned initiation?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_322",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which forms of anticipation sound enjoyable?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_playful_message_earlier_in_the_day",
            "text": "A playful message earlier in the day"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_private_plan_with_flexible_timing",
            "text": "A private plan with flexible timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_compliment_that_lingers_in_your_mind",
            "text": "A compliment that lingers in your mind"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_shared_joke_about_later",
            "text": "A shared joke about later"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_slow_affectionate_buildup",
            "text": "A slow affectionate buildup"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_323",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a tired night feel connected even if nothing physical follows?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "transition_stress",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_324",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "During body changes, what helps you feel attractive?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_changes",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "consistent_affection_that_does_not_compare",
            "text": "Consistent affection that does not compare"
          },
          {
            "id": "compliments_about_more_than_appearance",
            "text": "Compliments about more than appearance"
          },
          {
            "id": "patience_with_changing_comfort_levels",
            "text": "Patience with changing comfort levels"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_invited_to_say_what_feels_good_now",
            "text": "Being invited to say what feels good now"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_325",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which ordinary moment could become the beginning of a slow build?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_326",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make conversations about frequency feel kinder?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythms",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_327",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How clearly do we separate affection from expectation?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection_expectation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not clearly",
        "max_label": "Very clearly"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_328",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps both people feel respected when plans change?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_329",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which anticipation would brighten your day?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_note_about_a_private_plan",
            "text": "A note about a private plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_time_set_aside_just_for_us",
            "text": "A time set aside just for us"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_playful_clue_with_no_obligation",
            "text": "A playful clue with no obligation"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_promise_of_uninterrupted_affection",
            "text": "A promise of uninterrupted affection"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_330",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps consent feel like an ongoing conversation rather than one question?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent_boundaries",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_331",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes 'I do not know yet' feel like a complete answer?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_332",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Which affection feels more charged?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_long_unhurried_hug",
            "text": "A long unhurried hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_meaningful_touch",
            "text": "A quick meaningful touch"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_333",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can I show attraction while respecting days when attention feels uncomfortable?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_334",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What tiny ritual could keep desire from disappearing into routine?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "novelty_routine",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_335",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "After closeness, which connection matters most?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "feeling_emotionally_reassured",
            "text": "Feeling emotionally reassured"
          },
          {
            "id": "staying_physically_near_for_a_while",
            "text": "Staying physically near for a while"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_able_to_talk_or_laugh_normally",
            "text": "Being able to talk or laugh normally"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_any_feedback_can_wait",
            "text": "Knowing any feedback can wait"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_336",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What setting helps conversation about desire feel easiest?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy_setting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_337",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which forms of aftercare might feel good depending on the day?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "quiet_physical_closeness",
            "text": "Quiet physical closeness"
          },
          {
            "id": "water_a_snack_or_practical_comfort",
            "text": "Water, a snack, or practical comfort"
          },
          {
            "id": "warm_reassurance_in_a_few_words",
            "text": "Warm reassurance in a few words"
          },
          {
            "id": "light_conversation_or_shared_humor",
            "text": "Light conversation or shared humor"
          },
          {
            "id": "some_peaceful_space_with_no_offense_taken",
            "text": "Some peaceful space with no offense taken"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_338",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What affectionate habit would make our home feel warmer?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection_nonsexual",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_339",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What turns an imperfect experience into a good memory anyway?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "awkward_repair",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_340",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How welcome does spontaneous affection feel lately?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Usually not welcome",
        "max_label": "Usually very welcome"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_341",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make post-intimacy feedback easier to hear?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "aftercare",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_342",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which type of affection feels complete on its own?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "being_held_close_without_a_hurry",
            "text": "Being held close without a hurry"
          },
          {
            "id": "holding_hands_under_a_blanket",
            "text": "Holding hands under a blanket"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_forehead_kiss_before_sleep",
            "text": "A forehead kiss before sleep"
          },
          {
            "id": "sitting_close_with_legs_touching",
            "text": "Sitting close with legs touching"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_343",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which shared memory would you gladly recreate with one small change?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories_lore",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_344",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small promise about closeness would feel realistic and exciting?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "future_play",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    }
  ]
}