Closer/seed/questions/physical_intimacy.json

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      "id": "physical_intimacy_001",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Think of a spontaneous hug from me that you still remember. What made it land so well?",
      "depth": 2,
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      "tags": [
        "memories",
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      "id": "physical_intimacy_002",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which tiny touch from me says “I’m here” better than words, and why?",
      "depth": 2,
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      "tags": [
        "everyday_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
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    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_003",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Where were we the last time holding hands made an ordinary moment feel special?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
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        "memories",
        "physical_intimacy"
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    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_004",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Tell me about a time my affection made a rough day feel lighter.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
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      "answer_config": {
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      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_005",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which hello or goodbye ritual feels most like us, and what makes it matter?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_006",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What photo of us best captures the way we naturally fit together?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_007",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When has simply sitting close to me mattered more than either of us said?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "quiet_closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_008",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is a time laughter turned a cuddle into one of your favorite moments?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_009",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which affectionate habit from our early days is still worth keeping?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "relationship_history",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_010",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What small touch from me has felt unexpectedly romantic?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_011",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When has being held by me helped you feel protected without feeling crowded?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_012",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What physical gesture do I do in a way that feels uniquely mine?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "couple_identity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_013",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which affectionate moment during a busy day made you stop and notice us?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_014",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Paint me a quick picture of the coziest scene that feels unmistakably like us.",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "cozy_closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_015",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If you could replay one sweet physical moment between us, which would you choose?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_016",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can I make a comfort hug feel different from a celebration hug?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_017",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Imagine we have been apart all day. What would make our reunion feel especially warm?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "reunions",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_018",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What detail makes holding hands on a walk feel connected instead of automatic?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hand_holding",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_019",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How do you like me to reach for your hand when we are sitting together?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hand_holding",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_020",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes a goodbye kiss feel warm without making the goodbye harder?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "kissing",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_021",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Tell me about a quick kiss that made an ordinary moment unexpectedly sweet.",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "kissing",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_022",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does a forehead kiss mean to you when it comes from me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "kissing",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_023",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How would you like a long hug to end so it never feels abrupt or awkward?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_024",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of hug feels right when you are proud of me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_025",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After a disappointment, what would help a hug feel comforting rather than overwhelming?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_026",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What secret hand squeeze or small signal could mean “I’ve got you”?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_027",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Where does an arm around you feel most natural—walking, sitting, or somewhere else?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "everyday_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_028",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What sitting position makes side-by-side closeness feel easiest for you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_029",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When words are unnecessary, what greeting touch would you enjoy from me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "greetings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_030",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps public hand-holding feel easy instead of performative?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_031",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What morning affection ritual could make even a rushed day start sweeter?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "morning",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_032",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What bedtime touch ritual would feel comforting without getting in the way of sleep?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "bedtime",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_033",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How would you arrange our ideal couch cuddle so both of us stay comfortable?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "cuddling",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_034",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "While we cook together, what small affectionate moment would make the kitchen feel romantic?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "home",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_035",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When we are passengers on a long ride, what kind of closeness feels natural?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "travel",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_036",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What tiny touch could turn waiting for coffee or tea into a sweet moment?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_037",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would a perfect ten-minute phone-free closeness break look like at home?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_038",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "On a rainy day, what kind of physical closeness sounds genuinely cozy to you?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "weather",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_039",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What outdoor affection feels especially good when the air is cold?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "weather",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_040",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When it is too hot to cuddle, how could we still feel physically connected?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_041",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What sleepy form of affection feels good without asking you to fully wake up?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "sleep",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_042",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I know about your touch preferences right after you wake up?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "morning",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_043",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How would you design a slow weekend morning that includes closeness but no pressure?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "weekends",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_044",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What after-work affection ritual would help you shift from busy mode to home mode?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "transitions",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_045",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What one-week affection experiment would be fun for us to try?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_046",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What playful touch from me almost always gets a real smile out of you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_047",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If we danced without music for one minute, what would make it feel charming instead of awkward?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_048",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Invent a harmless affection challenge we could complete before bedtime.",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_049",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What private physical signal could we use to flirt across a crowded room?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_050",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which affectionate joke or bit between us deserves to become a recurring tradition?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_identity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_051",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What makes an ordinary touch feel romantic to you—timing, attention, or something else?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
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      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_052",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What spontaneous affectionate gesture would feel delightful when you are clearly open to it?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "spontaneity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_053",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "During a slow dance, what makes the closeness feel genuine rather than staged?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_054",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What movie-scene kind of affection could actually work in our real life?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "romance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_055",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of affectionate surprise is better with a little warning?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
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      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_056",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What harmless competition would make a mutual celebration feel extra fun?",
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      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
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      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
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    },
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      "id": "physical_intimacy_057",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of cheek, forehead, or hand kiss feels the most playful to you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "kissing",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_058",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If we built a blanket fort tonight, what kind of closeness would fit the mood?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "cozy_closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_059",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What gentle hand movement—tracing, squeezing, or resting—feels especially affectionate?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hands",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_060",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which song brings back a physical memory of us, and what do you remember?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "memories",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_061",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What exact words would make asking you for a hug feel natural and welcome?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_062",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can I invite you beside me without making closeness feel expected?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_063",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What simple phrase should always mean “pause the touch” between us?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_064",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is the clearest, easiest way for you to decline affection in the moment?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_065",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What response from me helps a declined touch feel like a normal moment, not a problem?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_066",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When touch might or might not be welcome, what kind of question feels easiest to answer?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_067",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you want company but not touch, where should I sit so it still feels companionable?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "low_touch_days",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_068",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should I ask before showing affection in front of other people?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_069",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If you want a cuddle to end, what would make the transition feel easy and ordinary?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_070",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What clear invitation from you should I recognize as interest in nonsexual closeness?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_071",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can you tell me that affection is starting to feel like pressure?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pressure",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_072",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What reassurance helps you know a “not now” has not hurt our relationship?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reassurance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_073",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What words would you rather use when you want quiet holding without conversation?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_074",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How would you like to ask for space while still letting me know we are okay?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_075",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which body areas or situations should always require asking before touch?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_076",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Of pressure, pace, placement, and duration, which matters most to your comfort during a hug—and why?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_preferences",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_077",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How do fabrics and clothing affect whether cuddling feels comfortable to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_preferences",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_078",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How does room temperature change the kind of affection you enjoy?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_079",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When your body is sore, what is the easiest way for me to ask where touch is welcome?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_080",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I know before touching your hair or face affectionately?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_081",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which shoulder or back touches feel caring, and which ones distract or irritate you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_preferences",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_082",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What detail would make a hand massage feel like affection rather than a favor?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "massage",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_083",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How should we handle ticklish spots so playful touch stays fun?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_084",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you are concentrating, what is the least disruptive way to show affection?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_085",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "In a crowd, what contact helps you feel steady without limiting your movement?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_086",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When your senses feel overloaded, what should physical support from me look like?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_needs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_087",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What helps touch feel kind on a day when you feel self-conscious about your appearance?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_confidence",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_088",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Are there positions or movements that would make cuddling easier on your body?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accessibility",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_089",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How can we adjust closeness when one of us needs more room to get comfortable?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_090",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What difference in our personal-space needs would be useful for us to understand better?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "personal_space",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_091",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When stress is high, what exact check-in helps you decide whether touch would help?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_092",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you are sad, what tells you that a hug is supportive rather than too much?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sadness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_093",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you are angry, what should happen before either of us tries to use touch to reconnect?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "conflict",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_094",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "On an exhausted day, what tiny gesture still feels caring without asking anything back?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "fatigue",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_095",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you feel overwhelmed, what helps you choose between space, nearby company, and touch?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "overwhelm",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_096",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How do you like us to celebrate good news physically—hug, dance, high-five, or something else?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "celebration",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_097",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you feel unwell, what affectionate gesture feels caring without interrupting your rest?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "care",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_098",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After hard news, what question should I ask before offering physical comfort?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "support",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_099",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After conflict is genuinely repaired, what touch—if any—helps closeness return naturally?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_100",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After returning from a trip, what first affectionate moment would make home feel like home again?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_101",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When we are sitting in silence, what touch makes the quiet feel companionable?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "quiet_closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_102",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If you need reassurance, what physical gesture from me feels believable rather than automatic?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reassurance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_103",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When words are hard, what kind of silent company feels supportive to you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "quiet_closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_104",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When you are upset, how can touch support you without trying to change your mood?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "support",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_105",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What affectionate reset could help us feel like a couple again after a hectic week?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_106",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Picture a public place where affection feels comfortable. What makes that setting work for you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_107",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Where would you rather we avoid physical affection, even if it seems harmless to me?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_108",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Around family or friends, what level of physical closeness feels natural to you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "social_settings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_109",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "At a social event, what subtle affection feels natural without pulling attention toward us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_110",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When we dress up for an event, what contact helps you feel connected without feeling posed?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "social_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_111",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How does eye contact before a touch change the way that touch feels to you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_112",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What combination of a kind word and gentle touch makes you feel genuinely appreciated?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "appreciation",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_113",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should I know about affectionate touch when you feel physically restless?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_needs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_114",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If pain or energy changes, what is the easiest way to update me about touch that day?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "adaptability",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_115",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What home setup—seating, pillows, blankets, or lighting—helps physical closeness feel comfortable?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_116",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What does holding hands in public communicate to you, if anything?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_117",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What private-at-home affection ritual would make our space feel more like ours?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "home",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_118",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When privacy is limited, what tiny gesture could still help us feel connected?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_119",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What greeting feels affectionate but natural when we are around other people?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "social_settings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_120",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "During travel, what kind of physical closeness helps you feel grounded in an unfamiliar place?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "travel",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_121",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What newer affectionate habit has quietly become important to you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "relationship_history",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_122",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which touch preference of yours has changed most over time, and what changed it?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_123",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What recent change in routine has affected when affection feels easiest?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_124",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After distance between us, what first gesture feels gentle enough to be genuine?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_125",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When a cuddle position stops working, how can we adjust without breaking the mood?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "awkwardness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_126",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would make everyday affection easier during a month when our schedules barely overlap?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_127",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What one change would make a familiar affection habit feel intentional again?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "routine",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_128",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What separates comforting touch from romantic touch for you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "meaning",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_129",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When we want different amounts of touch, what helps both answers feel equally respected?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatch",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_130",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If one of us wants closeness and the other does not, what non-touch response helps us stay connected?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatch",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_131",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What new, gentle form of affection are you curious to try once, with an easy opt-out?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "experiments",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_132",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After an apology, what tells you whether physical closeness would help or should wait?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_133",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "After one of us feels let down, what makes affection feel sincere again?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_134",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What sign tells you that a once-comfortable touch no longer fits?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_135",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What should we never assume about each other’s comfort with physical affection?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_136",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What physical ritual could become our signature as a couple?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_identity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_137",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would show you that I take changing touch preferences seriously?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "commitment",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_138",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How could we protect one small pocket of physical closeness each week?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "weekly_rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_139",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What affectionate travel ritual should follow us on every trip?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "travel",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_140",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "On an anniversary, what kind of physical affection would feel meaningful without needing a grand gesture?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "anniversary",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_141",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "If we moved somewhere new, which spot would you want to claim first for quiet closeness?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "home",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_142",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Picture us much older. What kind of everyday affection do you hope we still share?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_143",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "During a stressful season, what check-in would keep affection gentle and optional?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_144",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "Which everyday activity would you rather keep mostly touch-free so you can enjoy it?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_145",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "How do height or reach differences change which hugs and cuddles work best for us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accessibility",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_146",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When we host people, what small affection helps us feel connected without putting on a show?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "social_settings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_147",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "While waiting somewhere together, what small touch makes the time feel shared?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_148",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What kind of closeness feels best after we have both been staring at screens too long?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_149",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What scents, if any, make physical closeness feel more comforting to you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_preferences",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_150",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What do you think our body language shows when we feel completely at ease together?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_identity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_151",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "After we finish separate tasks at home, which small reconnection sounds best?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "meet_in_the_kitchen_for_a_real_hug",
            "text": "Meet in the kitchen for a real hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "sit_together_and_link_hands",
            "text": "Sit together and link hands"
          },
          {
            "id": "trade_a_cheek_kiss_and_a_smile",
            "text": "Trade a cheek kiss and a smile"
          },
          {
            "id": "take_a_minute_alone_then_reconnect",
            "text": "Take a minute alone, then reconnect"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_152",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "During a shared show, which level of contact feels easiest?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "cuddling",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "light_shoulder_contact",
            "text": "Light shoulder contact"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_hand_held_loosely",
            "text": "One hand held loosely"
          },
          {
            "id": "feet_meeting_now_and_then",
            "text": "Feet meeting now and then"
          },
          {
            "id": "nearby_with_no_steady_contact",
            "text": "Nearby with no steady contact"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_153",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which hand-holding style feels most natural on a walk?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hand_holding",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "fingers_loosely_intertwined",
            "text": "Fingers loosely intertwined"
          },
          {
            "id": "palms_together_with_an_easy_grip",
            "text": "Palms together with an easy grip"
          },
          {
            "id": "linked_pinkies_for_something_light",
            "text": "Linked pinkies for something light"
          },
          {
            "id": "arms_linked_instead_of_hands",
            "text": "Arms linked instead of hands"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_154",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which quality matters most in a longer hug?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "time_to_settle_into_it",
            "text": "Time to settle into it"
          },
          {
            "id": "comfortable_steady_pressure",
            "text": "Comfortable, steady pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_attention_from_both_of_us",
            "text": "Quiet attention from both of us"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_easy_natural_ending",
            "text": "An easy, natural ending"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_155",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When our hands are full, which no-hands greeting feels sweetest?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "greetings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_quick_shoulder_to_shoulder_lean",
            "text": "A quick shoulder-to-shoulder lean"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_cheek_kiss_after_a_clear_invitation",
            "text": "A cheek kiss after a clear invitation"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_playful_hip_bump_when_expected",
            "text": "A playful hip bump when expected"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_warm_smile_and_spoken_hello",
            "text": "A warm smile and spoken hello"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_156",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When sleep matters most, which goodnight gesture fits best?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "bedtime",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_brief_kiss_then_separate_space",
            "text": "A brief kiss, then separate space"
          },
          {
            "id": "hands_held_for_one_quiet_minute",
            "text": "Hands held for one quiet minute"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_shoulder_squeeze",
            "text": "A gentle shoulder squeeze"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_warm_goodnight_with_no_touch",
            "text": "A warm goodnight with no touch"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_157",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which public-affection approach feels most natural at a casual outing?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "hands_linked_while_walking",
            "text": "Hands linked while walking"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_brief_cheek_kiss",
            "text": "A brief cheek kiss"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_arm_around_each_other_briefly",
            "text": "An arm around each other briefly"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_physical_affection_private",
            "text": "Keeping physical affection private"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_158",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you need comfort, which touch is most likely to help?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_steady_hug_with_no_talking",
            "text": "A steady hug with no talking"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_resting_on_your_back",
            "text": "A hand resting on your back"
          },
          {
            "id": "your_hand_held_without_squeezing",
            "text": "Your hand held without squeezing"
          },
          {
            "id": "space_first_then_an_invitation",
            "text": "Space first, then an invitation"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_159",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "How should we mark a small shared joke?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_quiet_double_high_five",
            "text": "A quiet double high-five"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_light_elbow_tap",
            "text": "A light elbow tap"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_wrist_tap",
            "text": "A quick wrist tap"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_grin_with_no_touch_needed",
            "text": "A grin with no touch needed"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_160",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When both of us are already in a playful mood, which affection sounds most like us?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_playful_shoulder_bump_and_grin",
            "text": "A playful shoulder bump and grin"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_shared_wink_and_tiny_bow",
            "text": "A shared wink and tiny bow"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_mock_formal_handshake",
            "text": "A mock-formal handshake"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_one_song_kitchen_sway",
            "text": "A one-song kitchen sway"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_161",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "At a crowded event, how should we stay connected?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "social_settings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "brief_hand_contact_while_moving",
            "text": "Brief hand contact while moving"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_private_signal_across_the_room",
            "text": "A private signal across the room"
          },
          {
            "id": "standing_close_during_conversations",
            "text": "Standing close during conversations"
          },
          {
            "id": "checking_in_verbally_instead",
            "text": "Checking in verbally instead"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_162",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "During a quiet conversation, which contact helps you stay present?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "quiet_closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_light_hand_resting_on_my_forearm",
            "text": "A light hand resting on my forearm"
          },
          {
            "id": "knees_resting_together",
            "text": "Knees resting together"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_shoulder_resting_against_yours",
            "text": "A shoulder resting against yours"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_touch_until_afterward",
            "text": "No touch until afterward"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_163",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which invitation to sit close feels most natural?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "want_to_sit_with_me",
            "text": "“Want to sit with me?”"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_room_and_asking_plainly",
            "text": "Making room and asking plainly"
          },
          {
            "id": "offering_my_hand_and_waiting",
            "text": "Offering my hand and waiting"
          },
          {
            "id": "using_a_signal_we_already_chose",
            "text": "Using a signal we already chose"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_164",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should our clearest pause signal be?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_word_pause_said_plainly",
            "text": "The word “pause” said plainly"
          },
          {
            "id": "two_gentle_taps_on_my_arm",
            "text": "Two gentle taps on my arm"
          },
          {
            "id": "moving_apart_and_naming_it",
            "text": "Moving apart and naming it"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_raised_between_us",
            "text": "A hand raised between us"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_165",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you seem busy, how should I offer affection?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_whether_now_is_a_good_time",
            "text": "Ask whether now is a good time"
          },
          {
            "id": "wait_for_a_natural_break",
            "text": "Wait for a natural break"
          },
          {
            "id": "offer_my_hand_without_interrupting",
            "text": "Offer my hand without interrupting"
          },
          {
            "id": "save_the_affection_for_later",
            "text": "Save the affection for later"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_166",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which gentle kiss feels most affectionate during a calm moment?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "kissing",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_forehead_kiss_while_resting",
            "text": "A forehead kiss while resting"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_cheek_kiss_in_passing",
            "text": "A cheek kiss in passing"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_kiss_during_a_joke",
            "text": "A hand kiss during a joke"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_temple_kiss_before_parting",
            "text": "A temple kiss before parting"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_167",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "During a standing embrace, where do your hands feel most comfortable?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "resting_on_my_upper_back",
            "text": "Resting on my upper back"
          },
          {
            "id": "settling_on_my_shoulders",
            "text": "Settling on my shoulders"
          },
          {
            "id": "holding_one_of_my_hands",
            "text": "Holding one of my hands"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_my_hands_relaxed_at_my_sides",
            "text": "Keeping my hands relaxed at my sides"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_168",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which setup best keeps a cuddle comfortable for more than a few minutes?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "cuddling",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "separate_supportive_pillows",
            "text": "Separate supportive pillows"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_adjustable_blanket",
            "text": "One adjustable blanket"
          },
          {
            "id": "legs_supported_instead_of_tangled",
            "text": "Legs supported instead of tangled"
          },
          {
            "id": "side_by_side_with_room_to_shift",
            "text": "Side by side with room to shift"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_169",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "On uneven ground, which offered support would feel useful without taking over?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accessibility",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "an_open_forearm_to_hold",
            "text": "An open forearm to hold"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_offered_before_each_tricky_step",
            "text": "A hand offered before each tricky step"
          },
          {
            "id": "walking_close_enough_to_help_if_asked",
            "text": "Walking close enough to help if asked"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_contact_unless_i_request_it",
            "text": "No contact unless I request it"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_170",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When steady touch feels too warm, which alternative sounds best?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "weather",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_fingertip_tap_on_the_back_of_your_hand",
            "text": "A fingertip tap on the back of your hand"
          },
          {
            "id": "feet_touching_for_a_moment",
            "text": "Feet touching for a moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_short_cheek_kiss",
            "text": "A short cheek kiss"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_shared_smile_from_a_little_distance",
            "text": "A shared smile from a little distance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_171",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which cold-weather moment makes affection especially appealing?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "weather",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "right_before_stepping_outside",
            "text": "Right before stepping outside"
          },
          {
            "id": "just_after_coming_back_in",
            "text": "Just after coming back in"
          },
          {
            "id": "while_waiting_outdoors_together",
            "text": "While waiting outdoors together"
          },
          {
            "id": "while_sharing_a_warm_drink",
            "text": "While sharing a warm drink"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_172",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "While doing something side by side, which gesture feels affectionate without getting in the way?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "home",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_brief_touch_at_the_elbow",
            "text": "A brief touch at the elbow"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_brief_shoulder_lean_during_a_pause",
            "text": "A brief shoulder lean during a pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_palm_to_palm_tap",
            "text": "A quick palm-to-palm tap"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_tiny_sway_when_there_is_room",
            "text": "A tiny sway when there is room"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_173",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which in-passing gesture would brighten an ordinary day?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_shoulder_squeeze_at_the_doorway",
            "text": "A shoulder squeeze at the doorway"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_brushed_along_your_arm",
            "text": "A hand brushed along your arm"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_forehead_touch_and_smile",
            "text": "A quick forehead touch and smile"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_playful_kiss_blown_from_across_the_room",
            "text": "A playful kiss blown from across the room"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_174",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "After a disagreement is resolved, which approach to touch feels safest?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_directly_before_moving_closer",
            "text": "Ask directly before moving closer"
          },
          {
            "id": "sit_nearby_and_let_the_moment_settle",
            "text": "Sit nearby and let the moment settle"
          },
          {
            "id": "offer_one_hand_without_assuming",
            "text": "Offer one hand without assuming"
          },
          {
            "id": "wait_for_the_other_person_to_initiate",
            "text": "Wait for the other person to initiate"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_175",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "On an insecure body day, what affection feels kindest?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_confidence",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "being_held_without_appearance_comments",
            "text": "Being held without appearance comments"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_hand_offered_to_yours",
            "text": "A gentle hand offered to yours"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_kiss_paired_with_kind_reassurance",
            "text": "A kiss paired with kind reassurance"
          },
          {
            "id": "closeness_that_lets_you_choose_distance",
            "text": "Closeness that lets you choose distance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_176",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When your body is sore or tired, what support is most useful?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_light_hand_massage",
            "text": "A light hand massage"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_carefully_placed_back_rub",
            "text": "A carefully placed back rub"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_still_hand_resting_nearby",
            "text": "A still hand resting nearby"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_touch_unless_you_request_it",
            "text": "No touch unless you request it"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_177",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When casual touch is welcome in the moment, how should playful surprise affection happen?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "spontaneity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "something_i_can_see_coming",
            "text": "Something I can see coming"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_small_gesture_in_a_relaxed_moment",
            "text": "A small gesture in a relaxed moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_playful_surprise_with_an_easy_out",
            "text": "A playful surprise with an easy out"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_clear_heads_up_before_any_touch",
            "text": "A clear heads-up before any touch"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_178",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which hug length usually feels best?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_quick_squeeze_and_release",
            "text": "A quick squeeze and release"
          },
          {
            "id": "long_enough_for_one_deep_breath",
            "text": "Long enough for one deep breath"
          },
          {
            "id": "several_breaths_without_rushing",
            "text": "Several breaths without rushing"
          },
          {
            "id": "different_every_time_ask_me",
            "text": "Different every time—ask me"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_179",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What hug pressure feels most comfortable?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_preferences",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "light_contact_with_room_to_move",
            "text": "Light contact with room to move"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_warm_medium_squeeze",
            "text": "A warm medium squeeze"
          },
          {
            "id": "firm_pressure_when_i_invite_it",
            "text": "Firm pressure when I invite it"
          },
          {
            "id": "pressure_that_changes_with_my_cue",
            "text": "Pressure that changes with my cue"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_180",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which pace makes affectionate touch feel best?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_preferences",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "brief_and_playful",
            "text": "Brief and playful"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_and_predictable",
            "text": "Slow and predictable"
          },
          {
            "id": "still_and_steady",
            "text": "Still and steady"
          },
          {
            "id": "varied_after_a_quick_check_in",
            "text": "Varied after a quick check-in"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_181",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which nonverbal hug invitation is easiest to understand?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "opening_both_arms_and_waiting",
            "text": "Opening both arms and waiting"
          },
          {
            "id": "holding_one_hand_out_first",
            "text": "Holding one hand out first"
          },
          {
            "id": "moving_closer_then_pausing",
            "text": "Moving closer, then pausing"
          },
          {
            "id": "using_our_agreed_hug_signal",
            "text": "Using our agreed hug signal"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_182",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "After “not right now,” which response feels most reassuring?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "of_course_thanks_for_telling_me",
            "text": "“Of course—thanks for telling me.”"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_warm_smile_and_immediate_space",
            "text": "A warm smile and immediate space"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_offer_of_nonphysical_company",
            "text": "An offer of nonphysical company"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_check_in_later_without_guilt",
            "text": "A check-in later without guilt"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_183",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which tiny habit would be easiest to keep during a very busy month?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_real_hug_after_getting_home",
            "text": "A real hug after getting home"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_forehead_touch_before_leaving",
            "text": "A quick forehead touch before leaving"
          },
          {
            "id": "hands_linked_on_one_short_walk",
            "text": "Hands linked on one short walk"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quiet_cuddle_once_each_weekend",
            "text": "A quiet cuddle once each weekend"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_184",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Across a room, which gesture should mean “check in with me when you can”?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "support_signals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_hand_briefly_over_the_heart",
            "text": "A hand briefly over the heart"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_small_two_finger_wave",
            "text": "A small two-finger wave"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_steady_look_with_one_nod",
            "text": "A steady look with one nod"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_signal_we_choose_together",
            "text": "A signal we choose together"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_185",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which hand-focused gesture feels most soothing?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "massage",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_circles_across_your_palm",
            "text": "Slow circles across your palm"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_stretch_through_each_finger",
            "text": "A gentle stretch through each finger"
          },
          {
            "id": "warm_lotion_rubbed_in_slowly",
            "text": "Warm lotion rubbed in slowly"
          },
          {
            "id": "your_hands_resting_still_in_mine",
            "text": "Your hands resting still in mine"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_186",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which pairing would make affection feel most personal?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "appreciation",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_specific_compliment_with_a_warm_side_hug",
            "text": "A specific compliment with a warm side hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_inside_joke_with_a_cheek_kiss",
            "text": "An inside joke with a cheek kiss"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_thank_you_with_a_long_hug",
            "text": "A thank-you with a long hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_favorite_nickname_with_linked_hands",
            "text": "A favorite nickname with linked hands"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_187",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Before a stressful appointment, which kind of support would feel best?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "support",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_calm_shoulder_to_shoulder_pause_in_the_car",
            "text": "A calm shoulder-to-shoulder pause in the car"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_brief_hug_before_walking_in",
            "text": "A brief hug before walking in"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_light_touch_to_my_upper_arm_before_we_enter",
            "text": "A light touch to my upper arm before we enter"
          },
          {
            "id": "nearby_company_without_touch",
            "text": "Nearby company without touch"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_188",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which tiny coordination game sounds fun for two minutes?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "mirror_one_slow_stretch",
            "text": "Mirror one slow stretch"
          },
          {
            "id": "invent_a_two_step_handshake",
            "text": "Invent a two-step handshake"
          },
          {
            "id": "copy_each_other_s_hand_motions",
            "text": "Copy each other’s hand motions"
          },
          {
            "id": "match_one_simple_dance_move",
            "text": "Match one simple dance move"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_189",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "For a couple photo, which pose would feel most natural?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "photos",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "foreheads_together_and_laughing",
            "text": "Foreheads together and laughing"
          },
          {
            "id": "back_to_back_with_matching_grins",
            "text": "Back to back with matching grins"
          },
          {
            "id": "one_relaxed_hug_from_the_side",
            "text": "One relaxed hug from the side"
          },
          {
            "id": "standing_close_with_hands_connected",
            "text": "Standing close with hands connected"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_190",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which familiar physical moment feels comforting because we have done it so many times?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_identity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "our_usual_hello_embrace",
            "text": "Our usual hello embrace"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_way_we_settle_beside_each_other",
            "text": "The way we settle beside each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_way_our_knees_tap_under_a_table",
            "text": "The way our knees tap under a table"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_goodnight_gesture_we_repeat",
            "text": "The goodnight gesture we repeat"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_191",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which practical details affect where you prefer me to sit or walk beside you? Select any.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "accessibility",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "which_hand_you_like_to_keep_free",
            "text": "Which hand you like to keep free"
          },
          {
            "id": "any_sore_side_or_sensitive_shoulder",
            "text": "Any sore side or sensitive shoulder"
          },
          {
            "id": "which_side_makes_conversation_easier",
            "text": "Which side makes conversation easier"
          },
          {
            "id": "bags_or_other_things_you_are_carrying",
            "text": "Bags or other things you are carrying"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_much_space_the_setting_gives_us",
            "text": "How much space the setting gives us"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_192",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "With no expectation and an easy stop, what else makes a cuddle comfortable? Choose all that matter.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "cuddling",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "enough_room_to_change_position",
            "text": "Enough room to change position"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_temperature_that_feels_comfortable",
            "text": "A temperature that feels comfortable"
          },
          {
            "id": "supportive_pillows_or_blankets",
            "text": "Supportive pillows or blankets"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_without_competing_distractions",
            "text": "Quiet without competing distractions"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_position_we_can_adjust_easily",
            "text": "A position we can adjust easily"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_193",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which tiny affection habits fit naturally into everyday transitions? Pick any you would enjoy.",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_hug_after_walking_through_the_door",
            "text": "A hug after walking through the door"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_cheek_to_cheek_goodbye",
            "text": "A quick cheek-to-cheek goodbye"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_brief_touch_after_finishing_a_meal",
            "text": "A brief touch after finishing a meal"
          },
          {
            "id": "linked_arms_at_the_start_of_a_walk",
            "text": "Linked arms at the start of a walk"
          },
          {
            "id": "sitting_close_when_the_day_finally_slows",
            "text": "Sitting close when the day finally slows"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_194",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "On a low-touch day, what could still help you feel close? Select any that fit.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "low_touch_days",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "sitting_nearby_without_contact",
            "text": "Sitting nearby without contact"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_kind_text_from_another_room",
            "text": "A kind text from another room"
          },
          {
            "id": "sharing_a_quiet_activity",
            "text": "Sharing a quiet activity"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_affectionate_word_or_nickname",
            "text": "An affectionate word or nickname"
          },
          {
            "id": "checking_again_at_a_later_time",
            "text": "Checking again at a later time"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_195",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can make physical affection feel playful? Choose every answer that sounds fun.",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_one_song_kitchen_dance",
            "text": "A one-song kitchen dance"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_made_up_secret_handshake",
            "text": "A made-up secret handshake"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_dramatic_celebration_hug",
            "text": "A dramatic celebration hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_game_of_footsie",
            "text": "A gentle game of footsie"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_silly_pose_for_a_photo",
            "text": "A silly pose for a photo"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_196",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which public-contact choices feel comfortable when you are open to them? Pick any, including none.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "hands_connected_while_walking",
            "text": "Hands connected while walking"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_cheek_kiss",
            "text": "A quick cheek kiss"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_arm_lightly_around_you",
            "text": "An arm lightly around you"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_brief_greeting_hug",
            "text": "A brief greeting hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_touch_private_until_later",
            "text": "Keeping touch private until later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_197",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "With either answer accepted, how could I invite physical closeness? Select every approach you like.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_one_clear_question",
            "text": "Ask one clear question"
          },
          {
            "id": "offer_an_open_hand_and_wait",
            "text": "Offer an open hand and wait"
          },
          {
            "id": "make_space_and_ask_you_to_join_me",
            "text": "Make space and ask you to join me"
          },
          {
            "id": "name_a_specific_gentle_gesture",
            "text": "Name a specific gentle gesture"
          },
          {
            "id": "use_a_signal_we_agreed_on",
            "text": "Use a signal we agreed on"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_198",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which ways of saying “not right now” would feel natural to you? Pick any.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "say_it_directly_and_kindly",
            "text": "Say it directly and kindly"
          },
          {
            "id": "use_our_pause_word",
            "text": "Use our pause word"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_for_more_space",
            "text": "Ask for more space"
          },
          {
            "id": "move_away_and_name_it_clearly",
            "text": "Move away and name it clearly"
          },
          {
            "id": "suggest_another_connection_only_if_you_want",
            "text": "Suggest another connection only if you want"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_199",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "After touch stops immediately, what else helps the moment stay supportive? Choose all that fit.",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "thank_them_for_being_clear",
            "text": "Thank them for being clear"
          },
          {
            "id": "give_physical_room_right_away",
            "text": "Give physical room right away"
          },
          {
            "id": "keep_the_mood_warm_and_ordinary",
            "text": "Keep the mood warm and ordinary"
          },
          {
            "id": "switch_to_a_neutral_shared_activity",
            "text": "Switch to a neutral shared activity"
          },
          {
            "id": "let_the_person_who_stopped_choose_any_later_closeness",
            "text": "Let the person who stopped choose any later closeness"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_200",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which conditions help touch feel sensory-friendly? Select any that matter to you.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_needs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "predictable_movements",
            "text": "Predictable movements"
          },
          {
            "id": "comfortable_pressure",
            "text": "Comfortable pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "low_noise_and_fewer_distractions",
            "text": "Low noise and fewer distractions"
          },
          {
            "id": "room_to_reposition_easily",
            "text": "Room to reposition easily"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quick_warning_before_contact",
            "text": "A quick warning before contact"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_201",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When stress is high, which physical support might help after a check-in? Pick any.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_steady_hand_held_quietly",
            "text": "A steady hand held quietly"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_brief_grounding_hug",
            "text": "A brief grounding hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_resting_on_your_shoulder",
            "text": "A hand resting on your shoulder"
          },
          {
            "id": "sitting_close_without_contact",
            "text": "Sitting close without contact"
          },
          {
            "id": "space_now_with_an_offer_later",
            "text": "Space now with an offer later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_202",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which gestures help you feel connected while exploring somewhere new? Select any.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "travel",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "my_hand_offered_in_a_crowd",
            "text": "My hand offered in a crowd"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_brief_hug_before_we_set_out",
            "text": "A brief hug before we set out"
          },
          {
            "id": "shoulders_touching_while_we_pause",
            "text": "Shoulders touching while we pause"
          },
          {
            "id": "our_private_check_in_gesture",
            "text": "Our private check-in gesture"
          },
          {
            "id": "sitting_close_during_a_quiet_moment_at_day_s_end",
            "text": "Sitting close during a quiet moment at day’s end"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_203",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "After physical activity, what would help affection feel comfortable? Choose any.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_quick_celebratory_high_five",
            "text": "A quick celebratory high-five"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_brief_side_hug_after_cooling_down",
            "text": "A brief side hug after cooling down"
          },
          {
            "id": "sitting_nearby_while_we_catch_our_breath",
            "text": "Sitting nearby while we catch our breath"
          },
          {
            "id": "sharing_a_drink_shoulder_to_shoulder",
            "text": "Sharing a drink shoulder to shoulder"
          },
          {
            "id": "waiting_until_after_a_shower",
            "text": "Waiting until after a shower"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_204",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "After several days with little time together, which first moments help physical closeness feel natural again?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "share_a_slow_drink_side_by_side",
            "text": "Share a slow drink side by side"
          },
          {
            "id": "take_a_short_hand_holding_walk",
            "text": "Take a short hand-holding walk"
          },
          {
            "id": "return_to_a_familiar_sitting_spot",
            "text": "Return to a familiar sitting spot"
          },
          {
            "id": "exchange_one_unhurried_hug",
            "text": "Exchange one unhurried hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "choose_a_brief_phone_free_closeness_break",
            "text": "Choose a brief phone-free closeness break"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_205",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Where could small affectionate moments fit into a busy day? Select any you would notice.",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "while_coffee_is_brewing",
            "text": "While coffee is brewing"
          },
          {
            "id": "at_the_doorway_between_errands",
            "text": "At the doorway between errands"
          },
          {
            "id": "during_a_short_stretch_break",
            "text": "During a short stretch break"
          },
          {
            "id": "before_one_of_us_starts_a_call",
            "text": "Before one of us starts a call"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_we_finally_sit_down",
            "text": "When we finally sit down"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_206",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which gestures feel romantic while staying clearly nonsexual? Choose any that appeal.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "nonsexual_romance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_slow_dance_in_ordinary_clothes",
            "text": "A slow dance in ordinary clothes"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_hand_kissed_during_a_joke",
            "text": "A hand kissed during a joke"
          },
          {
            "id": "foreheads_resting_together_briefly",
            "text": "Foreheads resting together briefly"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_note_delivered_with_a_hug",
            "text": "A note delivered with a hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "hands_linked_under_the_table",
            "text": "Hands linked under the table"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_207",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which changes might affect your touch preferences over time? Select any that apply.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "change",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "stress_or_sleep_levels",
            "text": "Stress or sleep levels"
          },
          {
            "id": "pain_illness_or_recovery",
            "text": "Pain, illness, or recovery"
          },
          {
            "id": "temperature_and_surroundings",
            "text": "Temperature and surroundings"
          },
          {
            "id": "confidence_in_your_body",
            "text": "Confidence in your body"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_emotionally_connected_you_feel",
            "text": "How emotionally connected you feel"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_208",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What adjustments can make closeness more accessible and comfortable? Pick any.",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "accessibility",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "different_pillows_or_support",
            "text": "Different pillows or support"
          },
          {
            "id": "positions_with_less_strain",
            "text": "Positions with less strain"
          },
          {
            "id": "shorter_periods_of_contact",
            "text": "Shorter periods of contact"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_help_changing_position",
            "text": "Clear help changing position"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_space_around_sensitive_areas",
            "text": "More space around sensitive areas"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_209",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "With pausing easy and no gesture creating obligation, what else keeps affection mutual? Choose all that fit.",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mutuality",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "both_people_initiate_sometimes",
            "text": "Both people initiate sometimes"
          },
          {
            "id": "both_can_suggest_a_different_gesture",
            "text": "Both can suggest a different gesture"
          },
          {
            "id": "preferences_get_updated_openly",
            "text": "Preferences get updated openly"
          },
          {
            "id": "feedback_is_welcomed_kindly",
            "text": "Feedback is welcomed kindly"
          },
          {
            "id": "each_persons_favorite_touches_matter",
            "text": "Each person’s favorite touches matter"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_210",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which affectionate rituals would you genuinely want to repeat? Pick any.",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_daily_twenty_second_hug",
            "text": "A daily twenty-second hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_weekly_slow_song_together",
            "text": "A weekly slow song together"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_doorway_forehead_touch_ritual",
            "text": "A doorway forehead-touch ritual"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_sunday_morning_couch_cuddle",
            "text": "A Sunday-morning couch cuddle"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_seasonal_cozy_night_ritual",
            "text": "A seasonal cozy-night ritual"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 3
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_211",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How effortless does everyday affection feel between us lately?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "daily_life",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Feels effortful",
        "max_label": "Feels effortless"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_212",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy does it feel to ask me for a hug?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "hugs",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not easy yet",
        "max_label": "Very easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_213",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to adjust public affection to the setting we are in?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "public_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not easy yet",
        "max_label": "Very easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_214",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do I understand your everyday touch preferences?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "understanding",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Still learning",
        "max_label": "Understand them well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_215",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to say “not right now” to physical affection?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not easy yet",
        "max_label": "Very easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_216",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often does affection between us include a moment of genuine fun?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely",
        "max_label": "Very often"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_217",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do our current affection rituals add warmth to your day?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "rituals",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very little warmth",
        "max_label": "A lot of warmth"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_218",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How pressure-free does physical closeness feel between us?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pressure",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not fully pressure-free",
        "max_label": "Completely pressure-free"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_219",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident are you that a pause or stop will be respected immediately?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not fully confident",
        "max_label": "Completely confident"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_220",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you with spontaneous everyday touch from me?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "spontaneity",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_221",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do our usual cuddle positions fit your physical comfort?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Could fit better",
        "max_label": "Fit very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_222",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How accepted do low-touch days feel in our relationship?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "low_touch_days",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not fully accepted",
        "max_label": "Completely accepted"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_223",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable do you feel initiating nonsexual affection?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_224",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How often does our affection feel intentional instead of automatic?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "routine",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Rarely intentional",
        "max_label": "Almost always intentional"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_225",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do we adapt touch when one of us is tired or sore?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "body_comfort",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very well",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_226",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to give me feedback about pressure, pace, or placement?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not easy yet",
        "max_label": "Very easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_227",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How connected do you feel during quiet, nonsexual closeness?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "quiet_closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very connected",
        "max_label": "Deeply connected"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_228",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you asking for more personal space while staying emotionally close?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "personal_space",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_229",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do our usual reunion gestures fit what you enjoy?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "greetings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Could fit better",
        "max_label": "Fit perfectly"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_230",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How relaxed does affection feel when other people are nearby?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "social_settings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not relaxed",
        "max_label": "Very relaxed"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_231",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do you feel our physical affection reflects both people’s preferences?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mutuality",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very balanced",
        "max_label": "Very balanced"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_232",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you changing your mind after affection has started?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
        "max_label": "Completely comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_233",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it to return to affection after one of us has needed extra space?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "reconnection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very easy",
        "max_label": "Very easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_234",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much room is there for humor in our physical affection?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "play",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very little",
        "max_label": "Plenty of room"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_235",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident are you that we can adapt affection as our bodies change?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "adaptability",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not confident yet",
        "max_label": "Very confident"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_236",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Read with our shoulders touching or listen to music with our feet touching?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "cuddling",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "shoulders_touching_while_we_read",
            "text": "Shoulders touching while we read"
          },
          {
            "id": "feet_touching_while_music_plays",
            "text": "Feet touching while music plays"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_237",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A playful nose bump or a quiet forehead touch?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_playful_nose_bump",
            "text": "A playful nose bump"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_quiet_forehead_touch",
            "text": "A quiet forehead touch"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_238",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Warm hands or cool hands?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "sensory_preferences",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "warm_hands",
            "text": "Warm hands"
          },
          {
            "id": "cool_hands",
            "text": "Cool hands"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_239",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "An open hand offered or open arms waiting?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "invitations",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "an_open_hand_offered",
            "text": "An open hand offered"
          },
          {
            "id": "open_arms_waiting",
            "text": "Open arms waiting"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_240",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A morning cheek-to-cheek hello or an evening shoulder-to-shoulder pause?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "greetings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_morning_cheek_to_cheek_hello",
            "text": "A morning cheek-to-cheek hello"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_evening_shoulder_to_shoulder_pause",
            "text": "An evening shoulder-to-shoulder pause"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_241",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Indoor cozy closeness or fresh-air closeness?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "cozy_closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "indoor_cozy_closeness",
            "text": "Indoor cozy closeness"
          },
          {
            "id": "fresh_air_closeness",
            "text": "Fresh-air closeness"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_242",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Slow swaying or a still embrace?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "dance",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_swaying",
            "text": "Slow swaying"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_still_embrace",
            "text": "A still embrace"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_243",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Arm around your shoulders or hand resting on your upper back?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "arm_around_my_shoulders",
            "text": "An arm around my shoulders"
          },
          {
            "id": "hand_on_my_upper_back",
            "text": "A hand on my upper back"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_244",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Secret high-five or private fingertip tap?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "playful_affection",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_secret_high_five",
            "text": "A secret high-five"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_private_fingertip_tap",
            "text": "A private fingertip tap"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_245",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Talk during closeness or enjoy the quiet?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "talk_while_we_are_close",
            "text": "Talk while we are close"
          },
          {
            "id": "enjoy_the_quiet_together",
            "text": "Enjoy the quiet together"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_246",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Upright cuddle or reclined cuddle?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "cuddling",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "an_upright_cuddle",
            "text": "An upright cuddle"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_reclined_cuddle",
            "text": "A reclined cuddle"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_247",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Doorway hug or blown kiss from across the room?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "greetings",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_doorway_hug",
            "text": "A doorway hug"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_blown_kiss_across_the_room",
            "text": "A blown kiss across the room"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_248",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Knees touching or leaning back to back?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "closeness",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "knees_touching_lightly",
            "text": "Knees touching lightly"
          },
          {
            "id": "leaning_back_to_back",
            "text": "Leaning back to back"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_249",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "One unhurried affectionate moment or several quick ones?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "one_unhurried_moment",
            "text": "One unhurried moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "several_quick_moments",
            "text": "Several quick moments"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "physical_intimacy_250",
      "category_id": "physical_intimacy",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Revive an old affection ritual or create a completely new one?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "physical_intimacy"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "revive_an_old_ritual",
            "text": "Revive an old ritual"
          },
          {
            "id": "create_a_completely_new_one",
            "text": "Create a completely new one"
          }
        ]
      }
    }
  ]
}