Closer/seed/questions/sex_and_desire.json

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    "id": "sex_and_desire",
    "display_name": "Sex & Desire",
    "description": "Adult, playful, consent-first questions about feeling wanted, flirting, initiation, desire rhythms, mismatched moods, sexual confidence, communication, and keeping long-term chemistry alive.",
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    "schema_version": "question_v2",
    "metadata": {
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        "2": 38,
        "3": 53,
        "4": 40,
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      "content_version": "sex_and_desire_focused_rebuild_v3",
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      "review_policy": "Ten 15-question batches with batch-level option-fit, repetition, consent, pack-boundary, and full-pack validation.",
      "mass_rewrite_exception": "Approved rebuild: the source had 344 questions, 212 written prompts, repeated desire themes, and substantial overlap with neighboring intimacy packs.",
      "related_pack_boundary": "Owns desire dynamics: feeling wanted, flirtation as a desire signal, initiation, desire rhythms, stress, mismatch, sexual confidence, consent communication, change over time, and long-term chemistry. Specific acts and activity preferences belong in sexual_preferences; everyday nonsexual touch belongs in physical_intimacy; broader sexual intimacy and aftercare belong in couple_intimacy.",
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  "questions": [
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_001",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things make you feel genuinely wanted by me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "focused_attention",
            "text": "Focused attention"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_confident_invitation",
            "text": "A confident invitation"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_specific_compliment",
            "text": "A specific compliment"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_pursued_during_the_day",
            "text": "Feeling pursued during the day"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_002",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which signal most clearly says I am attracted to you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "the_way_i_look_at_you",
            "text": "The way I look at you"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_way_i_talk_to_you",
            "text": "The way I talk to you"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_time_for_us",
            "text": "Making time for us"
          },
          {
            "id": "saying_it_directly",
            "text": "Saying it directly"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_003",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes attraction feel personal instead of automatic?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "noticing_something_specific_about_me",
            "text": "Noticing something specific about me"
          },
          {
            "id": "choosing_me_when_life_is_busy",
            "text": "Choosing me when life is busy"
          },
          {
            "id": "remembering_what_makes_me_light_up",
            "text": "Remembering what makes me light up"
          },
          {
            "id": "letting_the_interest_build",
            "text": "Letting the interest build"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_004",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How wanted have you felt by me lately?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much lately",
        "max_label": "Very much lately"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_005",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Feeling pursued or feeling irresistible?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "feeling_pursued",
            "text": "Feeling pursued"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_irresistible",
            "text": "Feeling irresistible"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_little_of_both",
            "text": "A little of both"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_depends_on_the_day",
            "text": "It depends on the day"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_006",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which moments make you feel chosen, not just available?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "when_i_make_the_first_move",
            "text": "When I make the first move"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_i_protect_time_for_us",
            "text": "When I protect time for us"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_i_notice_your_mood",
            "text": "When I notice your mood"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_i_show_desire_without_expecting_anything",
            "text": "When I show desire without expecting anything"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_007",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you want reassurance about my desire, what lands best?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "clear_words",
            "text": "Clear words"
          },
          {
            "id": "undivided_attention",
            "text": "Undivided attention"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_planned_private_moment",
            "text": "A planned private moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_spontaneous_show_of_interest",
            "text": "A spontaneous show of interest"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_008",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can quietly drain the feeling of being desired?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "feeling_taken_for_granted",
            "text": "Feeling taken for granted"
          },
          {
            "id": "only_being_approached_at_the_last_minute",
            "text": "Only being approached at the last minute"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection_that_always_has_an_agenda",
            "text": "Affection that always has an agenda"
          },
          {
            "id": "never_hearing_what_attracts_you",
            "text": "Never hearing what attracts you"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_009",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which kinds of attention make you feel sexy without putting you on the spot?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_private_compliment",
            "text": "A private compliment"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_lingering_look",
            "text": "A lingering look"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_playful_message",
            "text": "A playful message"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_given_room_to_respond",
            "text": "Being given room to respond"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_010",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes desire from me feel believable?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_show_it_consistently",
            "text": "You show it consistently"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_say_what_attracts_you",
            "text": "You say what attracts you"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_seem_confident",
            "text": "You seem confident"
          },
          {
            "id": "you_give_me_time_to_respond",
            "text": "You give me time to respond"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_011",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it for you to believe me when I say I want you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard to believe",
        "max_label": "Easy to believe"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_012",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you receive attention without wondering what is expected next?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_pressure_to_match_the_mood",
            "text": "No pressure to match the mood"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_clear_chance_to_say_no",
            "text": "A clear chance to say no"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection_that_can_stay_affectionate",
            "text": "Affection that can stay affectionate"
          },
          {
            "id": "trust_that_disappointment_will_be_handled_well",
            "text": "Trust that disappointment will be handled well"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_013",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which everyday moments can carry real sexual energy for you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "catching_each_other_s_eye",
            "text": "Catching each other's eye"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_private_joke",
            "text": "A private joke"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_openly_admired",
            "text": "Being openly admired"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_we_have_time_later",
            "text": "Knowing we have time later"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_014",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which feeling most often opens the door to desire for you?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "feeling_wanted",
            "text": "Feeling wanted"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_relaxed",
            "text": "Feeling relaxed"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_emotionally_close",
            "text": "Feeling emotionally close"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_playful",
            "text": "Feeling playful"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_015",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What would make our attraction feel less assumed and more alive?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feeling_wanted",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "more_direct_compliments",
            "text": "More direct compliments"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_build_up_during_the_day",
            "text": "More build-up during the day"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_protected_private_time",
            "text": "More protected private time"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_curiosity_about_each_other",
            "text": "More curiosity about each other"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_016",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps flirting get through on a busy day?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_is_brief_and_clear",
            "text": "It is brief and clear"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_sounds_like_us",
            "text": "It sounds like us"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_builds_anticipation",
            "text": "It builds anticipation"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_asks_nothing_right_away",
            "text": "It asks nothing right away"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_017",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What gives flirting the best chance of landing?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_confident_tone",
            "text": "A confident tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_there_is_no_pressure",
            "text": "Knowing there is no pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_connected_first",
            "text": "Feeling connected first"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_018",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes anticipation fun instead of distracting?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "keeping_it_subtle",
            "text": "Keeping it subtle"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_the_plan_can_change",
            "text": "Knowing the plan can change"
          },
          {
            "id": "having_real_privacy_later",
            "text": "Having real privacy later"
          },
          {
            "id": "both_of_us_playing_along",
            "text": "Both of us playing along"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_019",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Slow build or obvious interest?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slow_build",
            "text": "Slow build"
          },
          {
            "id": "obvious_interest",
            "text": "Obvious interest"
          },
          {
            "id": "start_subtle_then_be_clear",
            "text": "Start subtle, then be clear"
          },
          {
            "id": "whichever_fits_the_mood",
            "text": "Whichever fits the mood"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_020",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which flirting habits are worth bringing back more often?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "inside_jokes_with_an_edge",
            "text": "Inside jokes with an edge"
          },
          {
            "id": "compliments_that_feel_specific",
            "text": "Compliments that feel specific"
          },
          {
            "id": "messages_that_build_anticipation",
            "text": "Messages that build anticipation"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_our_interest_obvious",
            "text": "Making our interest obvious"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_021",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can be missing when flirting falls flat?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "timing",
            "text": "Timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "confidence",
            "text": "Confidence"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "emotional_connection",
            "text": "Emotional connection"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_022",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps playful tension grow without feeling forced?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "letting_it_happen_naturally",
            "text": "Letting it happen naturally"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_overexplaining_the_joke",
            "text": "Not overexplaining the joke"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_little_mystery",
            "text": "A little mystery"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_easy_way_to_change_the_subject",
            "text": "An easy way to change the subject"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_023",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which forms of anticipation make you look forward to being alone together?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "anticipation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_suggestive_message",
            "text": "A suggestive message"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_plan_made_earlier",
            "text": "A plan made earlier"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_private_promise",
            "text": "A private promise"
          },
          {
            "id": "an_unexpected_change_in_tone",
            "text": "An unexpected change in tone"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_024",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much flirting do you want between private moments?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very little",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_025",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is something I have said or done that made you feel instantly desired?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_026",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps flirting from turning into an obligation?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "letting_it_be_just_flirting",
            "text": "Letting it be just flirting"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_treating_it_like_a_promise",
            "text": "Not treating it like a promise"
          },
          {
            "id": "respecting_a_change_in_mood",
            "text": "Respecting a change in mood"
          },
          {
            "id": "enjoying_the_response_without_pushing",
            "text": "Enjoying the response without pushing"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_027",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should our flirting do more often?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "make_us_laugh",
            "text": "Make us laugh"
          },
          {
            "id": "build_anticipation",
            "text": "Build anticipation"
          },
          {
            "id": "say_desire_more_clearly",
            "text": "Say desire more clearly"
          },
          {
            "id": "break_up_the_routine",
            "text": "Break up the routine"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_028",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a flirty message feel personal rather than copied and pasted?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_references_our_history",
            "text": "It references our history"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_sounds_like_your_real_voice",
            "text": "It sounds like your real voice"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_notices_something_specific",
            "text": "It notices something specific"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_fits_what_is_happening_that_day",
            "text": "It fits what is happening that day"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_029",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which moments are best for turning up the chemistry a little?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "before_we_leave_the_house",
            "text": "Before we leave the house"
          },
          {
            "id": "during_a_shared_laugh",
            "text": "During a shared laugh"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_we_finally_get_privacy",
            "text": "When we finally get privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_one_of_us_clearly_starts_it",
            "text": "When one of us clearly starts it"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_030",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the best ending to a good round of flirting?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "flirting",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "let_the_tension_linger",
            "text": "Let the tension linger"
          },
          {
            "id": "make_a_plan_for_later",
            "text": "Make a plan for later"
          },
          {
            "id": "say_exactly_what_you_want",
            "text": "Say exactly what you want"
          },
          {
            "id": "keep_it_playful_and_move_on",
            "text": "Keep it playful and move on"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_031",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes being approached feel exciting rather than assumed?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "good_timing",
            "text": "Good timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_clear_invitation",
            "text": "A clear invitation"
          },
          {
            "id": "room_to_answer_honestly",
            "text": "Room to answer honestly"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_wanted_before_the_ask",
            "text": "Feeling wanted before the ask"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_032",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which part of initiation matters most to you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "timing",
            "text": "Timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "clarity",
            "text": "Clarity"
          },
          {
            "id": "tone",
            "text": "Tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "freedom_to_decline",
            "text": "Freedom to decline"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_033",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signals help you know I am interested without making you guess?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "saying_it_plainly",
            "text": "Saying it plainly"
          },
          {
            "id": "changing_the_tone_of_the_moment",
            "text": "Changing the tone of the moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_private_time",
            "text": "Making private time"
          },
          {
            "id": "asking_whether_you_are_open_to_it",
            "text": "Asking whether you are open to it"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_034",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you initiating when you are in the mood?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very comfortable",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_035",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A confident invitation or a slow hint?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_confident_invitation",
            "text": "A confident invitation"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_slow_hint",
            "text": "A slow hint"
          },
          {
            "id": "hint_first_then_ask",
            "text": "Hint first, then ask"
          },
          {
            "id": "depends_on_the_mood",
            "text": "Depends on the mood"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_036",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you initiate without feeling exposed?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "knowing_no_will_be_handled_kindly",
            "text": "Knowing no will be handled kindly"
          },
          {
            "id": "having_a_familiar_signal",
            "text": "Having a familiar signal"
          },
          {
            "id": "getting_some_encouragement_first",
            "text": "Getting some encouragement first"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_able_to_keep_it_light",
            "text": "Being able to keep it light"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_037",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is hardest about making the first move?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "fear_of_rejection",
            "text": "Fear of rejection"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_knowing_your_mood",
            "text": "Not knowing your mood"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_awkward_saying_it",
            "text": "Feeling awkward saying it"
          },
          {
            "id": "waiting_for_the_perfect_moment",
            "text": "Waiting for the perfect moment"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_038",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which responses make an invitation feel respected even when the answer is no?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_warm_clear_answer",
            "text": "A warm, clear answer"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_guilt_or_arguing",
            "text": "No guilt or arguing"
          },
          {
            "id": "affection_that_does_not_disappear",
            "text": "Affection that does not disappear"
          },
          {
            "id": "trust_that_another_moment_will_come",
            "text": "Trust that another moment will come"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_039",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes pursuit feel good in a long-term relationship?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "pursuit",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "effort_that_feels_intentional",
            "text": "Effort that feels intentional"
          },
          {
            "id": "interest_outside_the_bedroom",
            "text": "Interest outside the bedroom"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_noticed_when_you_are_not_trying",
            "text": "Being noticed when you are not trying"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_expectation_of_a_guaranteed_result",
            "text": "No expectation of a guaranteed result"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_040",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can help when you are unsure of my mood?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_directly",
            "text": "Ask directly"
          },
          {
            "id": "start_with_flirting",
            "text": "Start with flirting"
          },
          {
            "id": "create_some_privacy",
            "text": "Create some privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "wait_for_a_clearer_signal",
            "text": "Wait for a clearer signal"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_041",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How clear are our signals when one of us wants more?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Usually unclear",
        "max_label": "Usually very clear"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_042",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which habits could make initiating feel more equal between us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "both_of_us_taking_turns",
            "text": "Both of us taking turns"
          },
          {
            "id": "talking_about_preferred_signals",
            "text": "Talking about preferred signals"
          },
          {
            "id": "responding_kindly_either_way",
            "text": "Responding kindly either way"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_keeping_score",
            "text": "Not keeping score"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_043",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a changed plan feel less disappointing?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "knowing_it_is_not_personal",
            "text": "Knowing it is not personal"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_warm_rain_check",
            "text": "A warm rain check"
          },
          {
            "id": "staying_connected",
            "text": "Staying connected"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_another_plan_without_pressure",
            "text": "Making another plan without pressure"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_044",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a rain check feel sincere?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_clear_answer",
            "text": "A clear answer"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance_of_attraction",
            "text": "Reassurance of attraction"
          },
          {
            "id": "suggesting_another_time",
            "text": "Suggesting another time"
          },
          {
            "id": "staying_affectionate",
            "text": "Staying affectionate"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_045",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs tell you an invitation is about connection, not entitlement?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "initiation",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "your_answer_is_welcomed_either_way",
            "text": "Your answer is welcomed either way"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_approach_fits_your_mood",
            "text": "The approach fits your mood"
          },
          {
            "id": "there_is_no_punishment_for_declining",
            "text": "There is no punishment for declining"
          },
          {
            "id": "your_comfort_matters_more_than_the_plan",
            "text": "Your comfort matters more than the plan"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_046",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which conditions make desire easier to access for you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythm",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "feeling_rested",
            "text": "Feeling rested"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_emotionally_connected",
            "text": "Feeling emotionally connected"
          },
          {
            "id": "having_privacy",
            "text": "Having privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "having_time_to_warm_up",
            "text": "Having time to warm up"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_047",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "How does desire most often begin for you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythm",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_appears_on_its_own",
            "text": "It appears on its own"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_grows_after_closeness_starts",
            "text": "It grows after closeness starts"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_follows_emotional_connection",
            "text": "It follows emotional connection"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_depends_heavily_on_the_day",
            "text": "It depends heavily on the day"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_048",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can make a low-desire day feel completely normal?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythm",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "knowing_moods_naturally_change",
            "text": "Knowing moods naturally change"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pressure_to_explain",
            "text": "No pressure to explain"
          },
          {
            "id": "staying_affectionate_anyway",
            "text": "Staying affectionate anyway"
          },
          {
            "id": "trusting_there_will_be_other_days",
            "text": "Trusting there will be other days"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_049",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Spontaneous spark or slow warm-up?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythm",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "spontaneous_spark",
            "text": "Spontaneous spark"
          },
          {
            "id": "slow_warm_up",
            "text": "Slow warm-up"
          },
          {
            "id": "usually_a_mix",
            "text": "Usually a mix"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_changes_with_life",
            "text": "It changes with life"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_050",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things help you notice desire before the moment passes?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythm",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "less_mental_clutter",
            "text": "Less mental clutter"
          },
          {
            "id": "time_without_interruptions",
            "text": "Time without interruptions"
          },
          {
            "id": "flirting_earlier",
            "text": "Flirting earlier"
          },
          {
            "id": "paying_attention_to_your_own_body_and_mood",
            "text": "Paying attention to your own body and mood"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_051",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When your desire is quiet, what helps most?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythm",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "more_rest",
            "text": "More rest"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_connection",
            "text": "More connection"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_playful_attention",
            "text": "More playful attention"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_attempt_to_change_it",
            "text": "No attempt to change it"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_052",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes it easier to talk about different desire levels without making it personal?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythm",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "using_neutral_language",
            "text": "Using neutral language"
          },
          {
            "id": "talking_outside_the_moment",
            "text": "Talking outside the moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "avoiding_comparisons",
            "text": "Avoiding comparisons"
          },
          {
            "id": "remembering_desire_is_not_a_score",
            "text": "Remembering desire is not a score"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_053",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which changes can affect your desire more than people might realize?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythm",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "stress",
            "text": "Stress"
          },
          {
            "id": "sleep",
            "text": "Sleep"
          },
          {
            "id": "body_confidence",
            "text": "Body confidence"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_emotionally_disconnected",
            "text": "Feeling emotionally disconnected"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_054",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How predictable does your desire feel from week to week?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythm",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very unpredictable",
        "max_label": "Very predictable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_055",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What do you wish I understood better about how desire works for you?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythm",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_056",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps desire feel welcome without turning it into a goal?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythm",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "curiosity_instead_of_pressure",
            "text": "Curiosity instead of pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "time_to_warm_up",
            "text": "Time to warm up"
          },
          {
            "id": "permission_for_the_mood_to_change",
            "text": "Permission for the mood to change"
          },
          {
            "id": "enjoying_closeness_at_any_level",
            "text": "Enjoying closeness at any level"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_057",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which descriptions fit your desire lately?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythm",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "easy_to_find",
            "text": "Easy to find"
          },
          {
            "id": "there_but_slower",
            "text": "There, but slower"
          },
          {
            "id": "unpredictable",
            "text": "Unpredictable"
          },
          {
            "id": "mostly_crowded_out",
            "text": "Mostly crowded out"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_058",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can make desire return after a flat stretch?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythm",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "feeling_rested_again",
            "text": "Feeling rested again"
          },
          {
            "id": "breaking_routine",
            "text": "Breaking routine"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_pursued",
            "text": "Feeling pursued"
          },
          {
            "id": "clearing_unresolved_tension",
            "text": "Clearing unresolved tension"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_059",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which expectations make desire harder to access?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythm",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_should_happen_on_schedule",
            "text": "It should happen on schedule"
          },
          {
            "id": "both_people_should_want_the_same_amount",
            "text": "Both people should want the same amount"
          },
          {
            "id": "interest_should_look_the_same_every_time",
            "text": "Interest should look the same every time"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_slow_start_means_no_interest",
            "text": "A slow start means no interest"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_060",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What would help us work with our desire rhythms instead of fighting them?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_rhythm",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "better_timing",
            "text": "Better timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_honest_check_ins",
            "text": "More honest check-ins"
          },
          {
            "id": "less_pressure",
            "text": "Less pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_planned_privacy",
            "text": "More planned privacy"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_061",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps your mind leave the day behind before desire has a chance?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "stress_and_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_little_quiet",
            "text": "A little quiet"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_shared_laugh",
            "text": "A shared laugh"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_finished_with_responsibilities",
            "text": "Feeling finished with responsibilities"
          },
          {
            "id": "some_attention_with_no_agenda",
            "text": "Some attention with no agenda"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_062",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the biggest mood-killer after a long day?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "stress_and_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "mental_overload",
            "text": "Mental overload"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_rushed",
            "text": "Feeling rushed"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_privacy",
            "text": "No privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "unresolved_tension",
            "text": "Unresolved tension"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_063",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which small changes could make private time easier to enjoy?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "stress_and_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "fewer_interruptions",
            "text": "Fewer interruptions"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_slower_transition",
            "text": "A slower transition"
          },
          {
            "id": "less_pressure_to_perform",
            "text": "Less pressure to perform"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_we_can_stop_anytime",
            "text": "Knowing we can stop anytime"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_064",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much does stress affect your desire right now?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "stress_and_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hardly at all",
        "max_label": "A great deal"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_065",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Unwind first or flirt through the stress?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "stress_and_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "unwind_first",
            "text": "Unwind first"
          },
          {
            "id": "flirt_through_the_stress",
            "text": "Flirt through the stress"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_little_of_both",
            "text": "A little of both"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_me_that_day",
            "text": "Ask me that day"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_066",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you shift from responsible-adult mode into partner mode?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress_and_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_real_break_from_tasks",
            "text": "A real break from tasks"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_change_of_setting",
            "text": "A change of setting"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_emotionally_welcomed",
            "text": "Feeling emotionally welcomed"
          },
          {
            "id": "time_without_a_clock",
            "text": "Time without a clock"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_067",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When you are exhausted, what keeps closeness from feeling like one more task?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress_and_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_expectations",
            "text": "No expectations"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_very_simple_invitation",
            "text": "A very simple invitation"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_rest_is_also_okay",
            "text": "Knowing rest is also okay"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_understood_first",
            "text": "Feeling understood first"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_068",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which kinds of stress tend to shut desire down fastest?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress_and_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "work_pressure",
            "text": "Work pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "family_demands",
            "text": "Family demands"
          },
          {
            "id": "money_worries",
            "text": "Money worries"
          },
          {
            "id": "conflict_between_us",
            "text": "Conflict between us"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_069",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps desire survive a busy season?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress_and_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "keeping_some_flirtation_alive",
            "text": "Keeping some flirtation alive"
          },
          {
            "id": "protecting_small_pockets_of_privacy",
            "text": "Protecting small pockets of privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_taking_low_energy_personally",
            "text": "Not taking low energy personally"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_realistic_plans",
            "text": "Making realistic plans"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_070",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which resets would help most this week?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress_and_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "more_sleep",
            "text": "More sleep"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_night_without_responsibilities",
            "text": "A night without responsibilities"
          },
          {
            "id": "time_alone_together",
            "text": "Time alone together"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_good_conversation_first",
            "text": "A good conversation first"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_071",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much transition time do you need before you can feel open to desire?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress_and_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Almost none",
        "max_label": "Quite a bit"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_072",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs should prompt me to check in and slow down?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress_and_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "i_seem_mentally_elsewhere",
            "text": "I seem mentally elsewhere"
          },
          {
            "id": "my_answers_are_short",
            "text": "My answers are short"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_am_still_handling_tasks",
            "text": "I am still handling tasks"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_ask_for_space_or_rest",
            "text": "I ask for space or rest"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_073",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes planned private time feel helpful instead of like another appointment?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress_and_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "keeping_the_plan_flexible",
            "text": "Keeping the plan flexible"
          },
          {
            "id": "building_in_time_to_unwind",
            "text": "Building in time to unwind"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_guaranteed_outcome",
            "text": "No guaranteed outcome"
          },
          {
            "id": "both_of_us_choosing_it",
            "text": "Both of us choosing it"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_074",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What most often brings your playful side back after stress?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress_and_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "laughter",
            "text": "Laughter"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_admired",
            "text": "Feeling admired"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_change_of_scenery",
            "text": "A change of scenery"
          },
          {
            "id": "finishing_what_was_weighing_on_me",
            "text": "Finishing what was weighing on me"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_075",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which supports would make it easier for desire to return naturally?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "stress_and_energy",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "more_rest",
            "text": "More rest"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_practical_help",
            "text": "More practical help"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_emotional_repair",
            "text": "More emotional repair"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_pressure_free_affection",
            "text": "More pressure-free affection"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_076",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a difference in desire feel less personal?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "remembering_moods_change",
            "text": "Remembering moods change"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_kind_direct_answer",
            "text": "A kind, direct answer"
          },
          {
            "id": "reassurance_of_attraction",
            "text": "Reassurance of attraction"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_scorekeeping",
            "text": "No scorekeeping"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_077",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When one of us is not in the mood, what matters most?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "honesty",
            "text": "Honesty"
          },
          {
            "id": "kindness",
            "text": "Kindness"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pressure",
            "text": "No pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "staying_connected",
            "text": "Staying connected"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_078",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which responses help a no feel safe to give?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "accepting_it_the_first_time",
            "text": "Accepting it the first time"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_asking_for_a_defense",
            "text": "Not asking for a defense"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_your_tone_warm",
            "text": "Keeping your tone warm"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_withdrawing_affection",
            "text": "Not withdrawing affection"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_079",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A gentle rain check or a clear no for tonight?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_gentle_rain_check",
            "text": "A gentle rain check"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_clear_no_for_tonight",
            "text": "A clear no for tonight"
          },
          {
            "id": "whichever_is_more_honest",
            "text": "Whichever is more honest"
          },
          {
            "id": "either_said_kindly",
            "text": "Either, said kindly"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_080",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps the person who wanted more closeness handle disappointment well?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "not_treating_it_as_rejection_of_the_relationship",
            "text": "Not treating it as rejection of the relationship"
          },
          {
            "id": "taking_time_to_reset",
            "text": "Taking time to reset"
          },
          {
            "id": "accepting_reassurance_without_bargaining",
            "text": "Accepting reassurance without bargaining"
          },
          {
            "id": "letting_the_disappointment_pass_without_blame",
            "text": "Letting the disappointment pass without blame"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_081",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can turn a difference in desire into a bigger problem?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "taking_it_personally",
            "text": "Taking it personally"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_score",
            "text": "Keeping score"
          },
          {
            "id": "avoiding_the_topic",
            "text": "Avoiding the topic"
          },
          {
            "id": "trying_to_pressure_a_change",
            "text": "Trying to pressure a change"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_082",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which habits protect both people when desire does not match?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "talking_outside_the_moment",
            "text": "Talking outside the moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "using_clear_kind_language",
            "text": "Using clear, kind language"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_room_for_different_needs",
            "text": "Making room for different needs"
          },
          {
            "id": "never_treating_consent_as_negotiable",
            "text": "Never treating consent as negotiable"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_083",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can reassure you after an invitation does not land?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "hearing_it_was_not_personal",
            "text": "Hearing it was not personal"
          },
          {
            "id": "staying_affectionate",
            "text": "Staying affectionate"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_another_time_is_possible",
            "text": "Knowing another time is possible"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_thanked_for_asking_respectfully",
            "text": "Being thanked for asking respectfully"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_084",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How safe does it feel to want different amounts without upsetting each other?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very safe",
        "max_label": "Completely safe"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_085",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would a kind response to mismatched desire look like for us?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_086",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which conversations should happen before frustration builds?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "how_often_each_person_thinks_about_sex",
            "text": "How often each person thinks about sex"
          },
          {
            "id": "what_low_desire_means_and_does_not_mean",
            "text": "What low desire means and does not mean"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_to_initiate_respectfully",
            "text": "How to initiate respectfully"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_to_stay_close_through_dry_spells",
            "text": "How to stay close through dry spells"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_087",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the best time to talk about a recurring desire mismatch?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "during_a_calm_private_moment",
            "text": "During a calm private moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "soon_after_once_emotions_settle",
            "text": "Soon after, once emotions settle"
          },
          {
            "id": "during_a_planned_check_in",
            "text": "During a planned check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "whenever_both_people_feel_ready",
            "text": "Whenever both people feel ready"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_088",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps reassurance from sounding like a promise you cannot make?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "being_honest_about_your_mood",
            "text": "Being honest about your mood"
          },
          {
            "id": "affirming_attraction_without_setting_a_date",
            "text": "Affirming attraction without setting a date"
          },
          {
            "id": "avoiding_guilt_driven_offers",
            "text": "Avoiding guilt-driven offers"
          },
          {
            "id": "letting_uncertainty_be_acceptable",
            "text": "Letting uncertainty be acceptable"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_089",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things are fair to ask for when desire is different?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "honest_communication",
            "text": "Honest communication"
          },
          {
            "id": "respectful_initiation",
            "text": "Respectful initiation"
          },
          {
            "id": "kind_handling_of_no",
            "text": "Kind handling of no"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_conversation_about_the_pattern",
            "text": "A conversation about the pattern"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_090",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What would make this topic easier for us to revisit?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mismatched_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "less_blame",
            "text": "Less blame"
          },
          {
            "id": "clearer_language",
            "text": "Clearer language"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_set_time_to_talk",
            "text": "A set time to talk"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_reassurance_first",
            "text": "More reassurance first"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_091",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel attractive when your confidence is off?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "sexual_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_specific_compliment",
            "text": "A specific compliment"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_looked_at_with_real_interest",
            "text": "Being looked at with real interest"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_attention_on_insecurities",
            "text": "No attention on insecurities"
          },
          {
            "id": "time_to_feel_like_yourself_again",
            "text": "Time to feel like yourself again"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_092",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which compliment feels most connected to desire?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "sexual_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "you_look_incredible",
            "text": "You look incredible"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_cannot_stop_thinking_about_you",
            "text": "I cannot stop thinking about you"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_love_the_way_you_carry_yourself",
            "text": "I love the way you carry yourself"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_want_you_close",
            "text": "I want you close"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_093",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a compliment easier to believe?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "sexual_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_is_specific",
            "text": "It is specific"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_comes_at_an_unexpected_time",
            "text": "It comes at an unexpected time"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_sounds_like_your_real_voice",
            "text": "It sounds like your real voice"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_asks_for_nothing_in_return",
            "text": "It asks for nothing in return"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_094",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable do you feel being openly desired by me?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "sexual_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very comfortable",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_095",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "A bold compliment or quiet admiration?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "sexual_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_bold_compliment",
            "text": "A bold compliment"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_admiration",
            "text": "Quiet admiration"
          },
          {
            "id": "both_at_different_times",
            "text": "Both at different times"
          },
          {
            "id": "whichever_feels_sincere",
            "text": "Whichever feels sincere"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_096",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things help body worries fade into the background?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sexual_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "feeling_emotionally_safe",
            "text": "Feeling emotionally safe"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_being_rushed",
            "text": "Not being rushed"
          },
          {
            "id": "attention_that_is_not_critical",
            "text": "Attention that is not critical"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_you_are_wanted_as_you_are",
            "text": "Knowing you are wanted as you are"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_097",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When confidence is low, what kind of attention is easiest to receive?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sexual_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "gentle_and_patient",
            "text": "Gentle and patient"
          },
          {
            "id": "playful_and_distracting",
            "text": "Playful and distracting"
          },
          {
            "id": "direct_and_reassuring",
            "text": "Direct and reassuring"
          },
          {
            "id": "quiet_with_no_pressure",
            "text": "Quiet with no pressure"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_098",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can make sexual attention feel uncomfortable even when it is meant kindly?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sexual_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "focusing_on_an_insecurity",
            "text": "Focusing on an insecurity"
          },
          {
            "id": "being_too_public",
            "text": "Being too public"
          },
          {
            "id": "expecting_an_immediate_response",
            "text": "Expecting an immediate response"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_noticing_your_mood",
            "text": "Not noticing your mood"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_099",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which changes can affect how desirable you feel?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sexual_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "stress_and_exhaustion",
            "text": "Stress and exhaustion"
          },
          {
            "id": "aging_or_body_changes",
            "text": "Aging or body changes"
          },
          {
            "id": "health_changes",
            "text": "Health changes"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_we_have_been_relating_lately",
            "text": "How we have been relating lately"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_100",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you feel sexy without needing to look perfect?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sexual_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "feeling_confident",
            "text": "Feeling confident"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_wanted",
            "text": "Feeling wanted"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_relaxed",
            "text": "Feeling relaxed"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_playful",
            "text": "Feeling playful"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_101",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well do you think I understand what affects your sexual confidence?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sexual_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very well",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_102",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What kind of reassurance supports confidence without dismissing your feelings?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sexual_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "listening_before_reassuring",
            "text": "Listening before reassuring"
          },
          {
            "id": "naming_what_you_truly_find_attractive",
            "text": "Naming what you truly find attractive"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_arguing_with_the_insecurity",
            "text": "Not arguing with the insecurity"
          },
          {
            "id": "giving_attention_without_pushing_for_more",
            "text": "Giving attention without pushing for more"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_103",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which moments make you feel most magnetic around me?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sexual_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "when_i_am_laughing",
            "text": "When I am laughing"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_i_feel_capable",
            "text": "When I feel capable"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_i_dress_for_myself",
            "text": "When I dress for myself"
          },
          {
            "id": "when_i_know_you_are_watching",
            "text": "When I know you are watching"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_104",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What would help you trust that my desire is real as we change?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sexual_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "hearing_it_more_often",
            "text": "Hearing it more often"
          },
          {
            "id": "seeing_it_in_your_actions",
            "text": "Seeing it in your actions"
          },
          {
            "id": "talking_honestly_about_changes",
            "text": "Talking honestly about changes"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_pursued_in_new_ways",
            "text": "Feeling pursued in new ways"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_105",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps attraction grow beyond appearance alone?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sexual_confidence",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "confidence",
            "text": "Confidence"
          },
          {
            "id": "humor",
            "text": "Humor"
          },
          {
            "id": "emotional_closeness",
            "text": "Emotional closeness"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_way_we_know_each_other",
            "text": "The way we know each other"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_106",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes talking about desire feel safe and normal?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "desire_communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "no_joking_at_the_other_person_s_expense",
            "text": "No joking at the other person's expense"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_pressure_for_an_immediate_answer",
            "text": "No pressure for an immediate answer"
          },
          {
            "id": "curiosity_instead_of_criticism",
            "text": "Curiosity instead of criticism"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_107",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which check-in sounds most natural when the mood is unclear?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "are_you_into_this",
            "text": "Are you into this?"
          },
          {
            "id": "want_me_to_keep_going",
            "text": "Want me to keep going?"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_are_you_feeling",
            "text": "How are you feeling?"
          },
          {
            "id": "would_you_rather_slow_down",
            "text": "Would you rather slow down?"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_108",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which answers should always be treated as complete answers?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "not_tonight",
            "text": "Not tonight"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_am_not_sure",
            "text": "I am not sure"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_want_to_slow_down",
            "text": "I want to slow down"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_changed_my_mind",
            "text": "I changed my mind"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_109",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Ask plainly or check in through the moment?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "ask_plainly",
            "text": "Ask plainly"
          },
          {
            "id": "check_in_through_the_moment",
            "text": "Check in through the moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "use_both",
            "text": "Use both"
          },
          {
            "id": "ask_what_i_prefer",
            "text": "Ask what I prefer"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_110",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes feedback easier to hear without killing the mood?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_warm_tone",
            "text": "A warm tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "clear_simple_words",
            "text": "Clear, simple words"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_it_is_not_criticism",
            "text": "Knowing it is not criticism"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_response_that_shows_appreciation",
            "text": "A response that shows appreciation"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_111",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "When can feedback about desire be easiest to share?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "in_the_moment_briefly",
            "text": "In the moment, briefly"
          },
          {
            "id": "later_that_night",
            "text": "Later that night"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_next_day",
            "text": "The next day"
          },
          {
            "id": "during_a_separate_conversation",
            "text": "During a separate conversation"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_112",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which phrases help keep consent active instead of assumed?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "do_you_want_this",
            "text": "Do you want this?"
          },
          {
            "id": "still_good",
            "text": "Still good?"
          },
          {
            "id": "want_something_different",
            "text": "Want something different?"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_can_stop",
            "text": "We can stop"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_113",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should happen when someone changes their mind?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "stop_without_debate",
            "text": "Stop without debate"
          },
          {
            "id": "respond_without_sulking",
            "text": "Respond without sulking"
          },
          {
            "id": "check_what_would_feel_okay_now",
            "text": "Check what would feel okay now"
          },
          {
            "id": "make_sure_the_person_still_feels_respected",
            "text": "Make sure the person still feels respected"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_114",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How easy is it for you to ask for something different in the moment?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very difficult",
        "max_label": "Very easy"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_115",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What would help you speak more freely about desire with me?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_116",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which reactions make honest feedback feel risky?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "getting_defensive",
            "text": "Getting defensive"
          },
          {
            "id": "taking_it_as_rejection",
            "text": "Taking it as rejection"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_jokes_about_it_later",
            "text": "Making jokes about it later"
          },
          {
            "id": "pressuring_for_an_explanation",
            "text": "Pressuring for an explanation"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_117",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the best first response to vulnerable feedback?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "feedback",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "thank_you_for_telling_me",
            "text": "Thank you for telling me"
          },
          {
            "id": "tell_me_what_would_feel_better",
            "text": "Tell me what would feel better"
          },
          {
            "id": "i_am_listening",
            "text": "I am listening"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_can_slow_down",
            "text": "We can slow down"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_118",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a desire conversation feel natural instead of awkward?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "plain_language",
            "text": "Plain language"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_little_humor",
            "text": "A little humor"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_guessing_games",
            "text": "No guessing games"
          },
          {
            "id": "respect_for_different_answers",
            "text": "Respect for different answers"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_119",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which topics are easier to talk about before desire is already in the room?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "how_to_initiate",
            "text": "How to initiate"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_to_say_no",
            "text": "How to say no"
          },
          {
            "id": "what_affects_desire",
            "text": "What affects desire"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_to_give_feedback",
            "text": "How to give feedback"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_120",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What would improve our desire conversations most?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_communication",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "more_honesty",
            "text": "More honesty"
          },
          {
            "id": "better_timing",
            "text": "Better timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "less_embarrassment",
            "text": "Less embarrassment"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_follow_through",
            "text": "More follow-through"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_121",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which things keep attraction alive after years together?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "long_term_chemistry",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "still_flirting",
            "text": "Still flirting"
          },
          {
            "id": "seeing_each_other_in_new_settings",
            "text": "Seeing each other in new settings"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_appreciated",
            "text": "Feeling appreciated"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_private_time_matter",
            "text": "Making private time matter"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_122",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What gives our chemistry the biggest boost?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "long_term_chemistry",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "novelty",
            "text": "Novelty"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "emotional_closeness",
            "text": "Emotional closeness"
          },
          {
            "id": "playfulness",
            "text": "Playfulness"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_123",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What could make an ordinary week feel a little more charged?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "long_term_chemistry",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_flirty_plan",
            "text": "A flirty plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_surprise_compliment",
            "text": "A surprise compliment"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_night_with_no_interruptions",
            "text": "A night with no interruptions"
          },
          {
            "id": "trying_a_new_setting",
            "text": "Trying a new setting"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_124",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How alive does our chemistry feel right now?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "long_term_chemistry",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Pretty quiet",
        "max_label": "Very alive"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_125",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Familiar chemistry or a little novelty?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "long_term_chemistry",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "familiar_chemistry",
            "text": "Familiar chemistry"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_little_novelty",
            "text": "A little novelty"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_mix_of_both",
            "text": "A mix of both"
          },
          {
            "id": "depends_on_the_week",
            "text": "Depends on the week"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_126",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What kind of novelty feels exciting without becoming a production?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "novelty",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "a_different_time_of_day",
            "text": "A different time of day"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_change_of_setting",
            "text": "A change of setting"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_new_way_of_building_anticipation",
            "text": "A new way of building anticipation"
          },
          {
            "id": "letting_one_of_us_set_the_tone",
            "text": "Letting one of us set the tone"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_127",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What most often makes long-term desire feel routine?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "long_term_chemistry",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "predictable_timing",
            "text": "Predictable timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "no_build_up",
            "text": "No build-up"
          },
          {
            "id": "too_many_interruptions",
            "text": "Too many interruptions"
          },
          {
            "id": "feeling_taken_for_granted",
            "text": "Feeling taken for granted"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_128",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which habits help us stay curious about each other?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "long_term_chemistry",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "asking_what_has_changed",
            "text": "Asking what has changed"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_assuming_we_know_every_answer",
            "text": "Not assuming we know every answer"
          },
          {
            "id": "sharing_new_thoughts_without_pressure",
            "text": "Sharing new thoughts without pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "noticing_different_sides_of_each_other",
            "text": "Noticing different sides of each other"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_129",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a surprise feel sexy instead of stressful?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "novelty",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "it_respects_known_limits",
            "text": "It respects known limits"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_is_easy_to_decline",
            "text": "It is easy to decline"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_fits_the_day",
            "text": "It fits the day"
          },
          {
            "id": "it_leaves_room_for_your_response",
            "text": "It leaves room for your response"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_130",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which changes could refresh our chemistry?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "novelty",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "more_anticipation",
            "text": "More anticipation"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_privacy",
            "text": "More privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_playfulness",
            "text": "More playfulness"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_direct_desire",
            "text": "More direct desire"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_131",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How open are you to changing our usual rhythm?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "novelty",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very open",
        "max_label": "Very open"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_132",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps novelty from becoming pressure to top the last experience?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "novelty",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "keeping_expectations_realistic",
            "text": "Keeping expectations realistic"
          },
          {
            "id": "letting_simple_moments_count",
            "text": "Letting simple moments count"
          },
          {
            "id": "not_comparing_experiences",
            "text": "Not comparing experiences"
          },
          {
            "id": "allowing_either_person_to_pass",
            "text": "Allowing either person to pass"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_133",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of our chemistry feel uniquely ours?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "long_term_chemistry",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "our_private_humor",
            "text": "Our private humor"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_way_tension_builds",
            "text": "The way tension builds"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_well_we_read_each_other",
            "text": "How well we read each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_history_behind_the_attraction",
            "text": "The history behind the attraction"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_134",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What deserves more attention if we want to protect our spark?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "long_term_chemistry",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "time",
            "text": "Time"
          },
          {
            "id": "energy",
            "text": "Energy"
          },
          {
            "id": "privacy",
            "text": "Privacy"
          },
          {
            "id": "emotional_connection",
            "text": "Emotional connection"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_135",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What could help us avoid waiting for desire to happen by accident?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "long_term_chemistry",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "protecting_time_together",
            "text": "Protecting time together"
          },
          {
            "id": "flirting_before_the_moment",
            "text": "Flirting before the moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "talking_about_what_has_changed",
            "text": "Talking about what has changed"
          },
          {
            "id": "making_room_for_spontaneity",
            "text": "Making room for spontaneity"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_136",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which memories still remind you that our chemistry is real?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "desire_history",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "an_early_date_moment",
            "text": "An early-date moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_time_we_could_not_stop_flirting",
            "text": "A time we could not stop flirting"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_reunion_after_time_apart",
            "text": "A reunion after time apart"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_completely_ordinary_night_that_clicked",
            "text": "A completely ordinary night that clicked"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_137",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What has changed most about desire between us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "desire_over_time",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "how_it_starts",
            "text": "How it starts"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_often_it_shows_up",
            "text": "How often it shows up"
          },
          {
            "id": "what_helps_it_grow",
            "text": "What helps it grow"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_openly_we_talk_about_it",
            "text": "How openly we talk about it"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_138",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What has gotten better about our sexual connection over time?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "desire_over_time",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "trust",
            "text": "Trust"
          },
          {
            "id": "communication",
            "text": "Communication"
          },
          {
            "id": "confidence",
            "text": "Confidence"
          },
          {
            "id": "knowing_each_other_s_rhythms",
            "text": "Knowing each other's rhythms"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_139",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Recreate an old spark or make a new memory?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "desire_history",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "fun_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "recreate_an_old_spark",
            "text": "Recreate an old spark"
          },
          {
            "id": "make_a_new_memory",
            "text": "Make a new memory"
          },
          {
            "id": "start_old_and_change_it",
            "text": "Start old and change it"
          },
          {
            "id": "whichever_feels_natural",
            "text": "Whichever feels natural"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_140",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which life changes have most shaped our desire as a couple?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_over_time",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "work_and_responsibilities",
            "text": "Work and responsibilities"
          },
          {
            "id": "health_or_body_changes",
            "text": "Health or body changes"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_or_family_demands",
            "text": "Parenting or family demands"
          },
          {
            "id": "how_emotionally_connected_we_feel",
            "text": "How emotionally connected we feel"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_141",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What do you miss most from an earlier chapter of our chemistry?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_history",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "more_spontaneity",
            "text": "More spontaneity"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_anticipation",
            "text": "More anticipation"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_confidence",
            "text": "More confidence"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_uninterrupted_time",
            "text": "More uninterrupted time"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_142",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What from our early attraction is still worth protecting?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_history",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "curiosity",
            "text": "Curiosity"
          },
          {
            "id": "effort",
            "text": "Effort"
          },
          {
            "id": "boldness",
            "text": "Boldness"
          },
          {
            "id": "the_feeling_of_choosing_each_other",
            "text": "The feeling of choosing each other"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_143",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which changes in desire deserve compassion rather than fixing?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_over_time",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "slower_warm_up",
            "text": "Slower warm-up"
          },
          {
            "id": "lower_energy",
            "text": "Lower energy"
          },
          {
            "id": "different_timing",
            "text": "Different timing"
          },
          {
            "id": "a_need_for_more_reassurance",
            "text": "A need for more reassurance"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_144",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How well have we adapted to the ways our desire has changed?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_over_time",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very well",
        "max_label": "Very well"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_145",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "When have you felt most desired by me, and what made that moment work?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_history",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_146",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What would help our next chapter of desire feel honest and exciting?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_over_time",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "talking_about_what_is_different_now",
            "text": "Talking about what is different now"
          },
          {
            "id": "keeping_pressure_low",
            "text": "Keeping pressure low"
          },
          {
            "id": "trying_new_ways_to_build_anticipation",
            "text": "Trying new ways to build anticipation"
          },
          {
            "id": "protecting_more_private_time",
            "text": "Protecting more private time"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_147",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should we stop assuming about each other's desire?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_over_time",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "that_it_works_the_same_as_before",
            "text": "That it works the same as before"
          },
          {
            "id": "that_silence_means_no_interest",
            "text": "That silence means no interest"
          },
          {
            "id": "that_one_person_should_always_initiate",
            "text": "That one person should always initiate"
          },
          {
            "id": "that_desire_should_be_predictable",
            "text": "That desire should be predictable"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_148",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs would tell you our chemistry is growing again?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "desire_over_time",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "more_spontaneous_flirting",
            "text": "More spontaneous flirting"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_honest_invitations",
            "text": "More honest invitations"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_anticipation",
            "text": "More anticipation"
          },
          {
            "id": "more_ease_after_a_no",
            "text": "More ease after a no"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_149",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What would make desire feel like something we share, not something one person manages?",
      "depth": 5,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "shared_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "we_both_show_interest",
            "text": "We both show interest"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_both_protect_consent",
            "text": "We both protect consent"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_both_name_what_has_changed",
            "text": "We both name what has changed"
          },
          {
            "id": "we_both_make_room_for_connection",
            "text": "We both make room for connection"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "sex_and_desire_150",
      "category_id": "sex_and_desire",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the strongest foundation for desire between us now?",
      "depth": 4,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "shared_desire",
        "sex_and_desire",
        "consent_first",
        "gentle_depth"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "trust",
            "text": "Trust"
          },
          {
            "id": "attraction",
            "text": "Attraction"
          },
          {
            "id": "friendship",
            "text": "Friendship"
          },
          {
            "id": "honest_communication",
            "text": "Honest communication"
          }
        ]
      }
    }
  ]
}