Closer/seed/questions/parenting.json

{
  "category": {
    "id": "parenting",
    "display_name": "Parenting",
    "description": "Questions about parenting as a team, sharing responsibility, guiding children with respect, and protecting the couple relationship through changing family seasons.",
    "access": "mixed",
    "icon_name": "family_restroom",
    "metadata": {
      "pack_id": "parenting_v3",
      "content_version": "parenting_v3_final_reviewed_2",
      "total_questions": 150,
      "free_questions": 45,
      "premium_questions": 105,
      "type_counts": {
        "multi_choice": 90,
        "single_choice": 30,
        "scale": 15,
        "this_or_that": 10,
        "written": 5
      },
      "depth_counts": {
        "1": 23,
        "2": 79,
        "3": 48
      },
      "review_notes": "Rebuilt from the legacy 250-question template-heavy pack using the importer-aligned human-voice guide.",
      "final_review": "Additional read-aloud, option-answer, child-privacy, co-parent fairness, safety, natural-language, duplication, and importer-schema review completed."
    }
  },
  "questions": [
    {
      "id": "parenting_001",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of parenting make us feel most like a team?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "strengths",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_001_o1_backing_each_other_up_calmly",
          "text": "Backing each other up calmly"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_001_o2_sharing_the_unglamorous_jobs",
          "text": "Sharing the unglamorous jobs"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_001_o3_laughing_after_a_long_day",
          "text": "Laughing after a long day"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_001_o4_making_decisions_together",
          "text": "Making decisions together"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_001_o1_backing_each_other_up_calmly",
            "text": "Backing each other up calmly"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_001_o2_sharing_the_unglamorous_jobs",
            "text": "Sharing the unglamorous jobs"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_001_o3_laughing_after_a_long_day",
            "text": "Laughing after a long day"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_001_o4_making_decisions_together",
            "text": "Making decisions together"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_002",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is our strongest parenting habit right now?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "strengths",
        "habits",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_002_o1_keeping_each_other_informed",
          "text": "Keeping each other informed"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_002_o2_following_through_on_routines",
          "text": "Following through on routines"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_002_o3_staying_patient_under_pressure",
          "text": "Staying patient under pressure"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_002_o4_making_room_for_family_fun",
          "text": "Making room for family fun"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_002_o1_keeping_each_other_informed",
            "text": "Keeping each other informed"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_002_o2_following_through_on_routines",
            "text": "Following through on routines"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_002_o3_staying_patient_under_pressure",
            "text": "Staying patient under pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_002_o4_making_room_for_family_fun",
            "text": "Making room for family fun"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_003",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What do you most appreciate about the way I parent?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "appreciation",
        "partner_support",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_003_o1_the_comfort_i_offer",
          "text": "The comfort I offer"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_003_o2_the_structure_i_bring",
          "text": "The structure I bring"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_003_o3_the_playfulness_i_add",
          "text": "The playfulness I add"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_003_o4_the_way_i_notice_details",
          "text": "The way I notice details"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_003_o1_the_comfort_i_offer",
            "text": "The comfort I offer"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_003_o2_the_structure_i_bring",
            "text": "The structure I bring"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_003_o3_the_playfulness_i_add",
            "text": "The playfulness I add"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_003_o4_the_way_i_notice_details",
            "text": "The way I notice details"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_004",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which moments show our children that we respect each other?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "modeling",
        "respect",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_004_o1_speaking_well_of_each_other",
          "text": "Speaking well of each other"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_004_o2_handling_disagreements_away_from_an_audience",
          "text": "Disagreeing without putting the children in the middle"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_004_o3_thanking_each_other_for_help",
          "text": "Thanking each other for help"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_004_o4_keeping_promises_we_make_together",
          "text": "Keeping promises we make together"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_004_o1_speaking_well_of_each_other",
            "text": "Speaking well of each other"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_004_o2_handling_disagreements_away_from_an_audience",
            "text": "Disagreeing without putting the children in the middle"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_004_o3_thanking_each_other_for_help",
            "text": "Thanking each other for help"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_004_o4_keeping_promises_we_make_together",
            "text": "Keeping promises we make together"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_005",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much do you feel that we are on the same parenting team?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "teamwork",
        "alignment",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not much",
        "max_label": "Very much"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_006",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Where do our different parenting strengths work well together?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "differences",
        "teamwork",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_006_o1_one_of_us_plans_while_the_other_adapts",
          "text": "One of us plans while the other adapts"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_006_o2_one_notices_feelings_while_the_other_spots_logis",
          "text": "One notices feelings while the other spots logistics"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_006_o3_one_brings_calm_while_the_other_brings_energy",
          "text": "One brings calm while the other brings energy"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_006_o4_one_starts_the_task_while_the_other_finishes_det",
          "text": "One starts the task while the other finishes details"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_006_o1_one_of_us_plans_while_the_other_adapts",
            "text": "One of us plans while the other adapts"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_006_o2_one_notices_feelings_while_the_other_spots_logis",
            "text": "One notices feelings while the other spots logistics"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_006_o3_one_brings_calm_while_the_other_brings_energy",
            "text": "One brings calm while the other brings energy"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_006_o4_one_starts_the_task_while_the_other_finishes_det",
            "text": "One starts the task while the other finishes details"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_007",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Would you rather celebrate a parenting win privately or make a small family event of it?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "celebration",
        "quick_choice",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_007_o1_celebrate_privately",
          "text": "Celebrate privately"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_007_o2_make_a_small_family_event_of_it",
          "text": "Make a small family event of it"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_007_o1_celebrate_privately",
            "text": "Celebrate privately"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_007_o2_make_a_small_family_event_of_it",
            "text": "Make a small family event of it"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_008",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us remember that a hard parenting day is not a verdict on us?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "perspective",
        "stress",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_008_o1_naming_one_thing_that_went_right",
          "text": "Naming one thing that went right"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_008_o2_keeping_the_evening_expectations_simple",
          "text": "Keeping the evening expectations simple"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_008_o3_letting_the_day_end_without_a_full_review",
          "text": "Letting the day end without a full review"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_008_o4_reminding_each_other_that_children_have_hard_day",
          "text": "Reminding each other that children have hard days too"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_008_o1_naming_one_thing_that_went_right",
            "text": "Naming one thing that went right"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_008_o2_keeping_the_evening_expectations_simple",
            "text": "Keeping the evening expectations simple"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_008_o3_letting_the_day_end_without_a_full_review",
            "text": "Letting the day end without a full review"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_008_o4_reminding_each_other_that_children_have_hard_day",
            "text": "Reminding each other that children have hard days too"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_009",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which small signs tell you that I value your role as a parent?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "respect",
        "appreciation",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_009_o1_asking_for_your_view_before_deciding",
          "text": "Asking for your view before deciding"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_009_o2_not_correcting_you_in_front_of_the_children",
          "text": "Not correcting you in front of the children"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_009_o3_noticing_the_work_nobody_sees",
          "text": "Noticing the work nobody sees"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_009_o4_making_room_for_your_way_of_doing_things",
          "text": "Making room for your way of doing things"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_009_o1_asking_for_your_view_before_deciding",
            "text": "Asking for your view before deciding"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_009_o2_not_correcting_you_in_front_of_the_children",
            "text": "Not correcting you in front of the children"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_009_o3_noticing_the_work_nobody_sees",
            "text": "Noticing the work nobody sees"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_009_o4_making_room_for_your_way_of_doing_things",
            "text": "Making room for your way of doing things"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_010",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of parenting compliment means the most to you?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "appreciation",
        "recognition",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_010_o1_you_stayed_patient",
          "text": "You stayed patient"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_010_o2_you_noticed_what_was_needed",
          "text": "You noticed what was needed"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_010_o3_you_made_that_easier",
          "text": "You made that easier"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_010_o4_you_handled_that_with_care",
          "text": "You handled that with care"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_010_o1_you_stayed_patient",
            "text": "You stayed patient"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_010_o2_you_noticed_what_was_needed",
            "text": "You noticed what was needed"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_010_o3_you_made_that_easier",
            "text": "You made that easier"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_010_o4_you_handled_that_with_care",
            "text": "You handled that with care"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_011",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What would make weekday mornings run more smoothly?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "mornings",
        "routines",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_011_o1_preparing_a_few_things_the_night_before",
          "text": "Preparing a few things the night before"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_011_o2_giving_each_person_one_clear_job",
          "text": "Giving each person one clear job"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_011_o3_building_in_ten_extra_minutes",
          "text": "Building in ten extra minutes"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_011_o4_dropping_one_nonessential_expectation",
          "text": "Dropping one nonessential expectation"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_011_o1_preparing_a_few_things_the_night_before",
            "text": "Preparing a few things the night before"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_011_o2_giving_each_person_one_clear_job",
            "text": "Giving each person one clear job"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_011_o3_building_in_ten_extra_minutes",
            "text": "Building in ten extra minutes"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_011_o4_dropping_one_nonessential_expectation",
            "text": "Dropping one nonessential expectation"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_012",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which daily handoff needs the clearest plan from us?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "routines",
        "handoffs",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_012_o1_morning_responsibilities",
          "text": "Morning responsibilities"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_012_o2_after_school_transitions",
          "text": "After-school transitions"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_012_o3_dinner_and_homework",
          "text": "Dinner and homework"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_012_o4_bedtime_duties",
          "text": "Bedtime duties"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_012_o1_morning_responsibilities",
            "text": "Morning responsibilities"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_012_o2_after_school_transitions",
            "text": "After-school transitions"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_012_o3_dinner_and_homework",
            "text": "Dinner and homework"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_012_o4_bedtime_duties",
            "text": "Bedtime duties"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_013",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which bedtime tasks are easiest to divide ahead of time?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "bedtime",
        "division_of_labor",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_013_o1_bath_or_shower_support",
          "text": "Bath or shower support"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_013_o2_clothes_and_supplies_for_tomorrow",
          "text": "Clothes and supplies for tomorrow"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_013_o3_stories_and_settling_down",
          "text": "Stories and settling down"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_013_o4_final_checks_around_the_house",
          "text": "Final checks around the house"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_013_o1_bath_or_shower_support",
            "text": "Bath or shower support"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_013_o2_clothes_and_supplies_for_tomorrow",
            "text": "Clothes and supplies for tomorrow"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_013_o3_stories_and_settling_down",
            "text": "Stories and settling down"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_013_o4_final_checks_around_the_house",
            "text": "Final checks around the house"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_014",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How manageable do our current family routines feel?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "routines",
        "manageability",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Hard to manage",
        "max_label": "Very manageable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_015",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a parenting handoff feel complete instead of rushed?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "handoffs",
        "communication",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_015_o1_a_short_update_on_what_happened",
          "text": "A short update on what happened"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_015_o2_knowing_what_still_needs_attention",
          "text": "Knowing what still needs attention"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_015_o3_mentioning_any_mood_or_health_changes",
          "text": "Mentioning any mood or health changes"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_015_o4_confirming_who_is_responsible_next",
          "text": "Confirming who is responsible next"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_015_o1_a_short_update_on_what_happened",
            "text": "A short update on what happened"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_015_o2_knowing_what_still_needs_attention",
            "text": "Knowing what still needs attention"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_015_o3_mentioning_any_mood_or_health_changes",
            "text": "Mentioning any mood or health changes"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_015_o4_confirming_who_is_responsible_next",
            "text": "Confirming who is responsible next"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_016",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When plans change suddenly, what helps our family most?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "flexibility",
        "changes",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_016_o1_one_person_takes_the_lead",
          "text": "One person takes the lead"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_016_o2_we_make_a_quick_new_plan_together",
          "text": "We make a quick new plan together"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_016_o3_we_simplify_the_whole_evening",
          "text": "We simplify the whole evening"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_016_o4_we_explain_the_change_early",
          "text": "We explain the change early"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_016_o1_one_person_takes_the_lead",
            "text": "One person takes the lead"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_016_o2_we_make_a_quick_new_plan_together",
            "text": "We make a quick new plan together"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_016_o3_we_simplify_the_whole_evening",
            "text": "We simplify the whole evening"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_016_o4_we_explain_the_change_early",
            "text": "We explain the change early"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_017",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What could we prepare once a week to save daily stress?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "planning",
        "routines",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_017_o1_a_simple_meal_outline",
          "text": "A simple meal outline"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_017_o2_a_shared_calendar_check",
          "text": "A shared calendar check"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_017_o3_clothes_or_bags_for_busy_days",
          "text": "Clothes or bags for busy days"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_017_o4_a_list_of_upcoming_deadlines",
          "text": "A list of upcoming deadlines"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_017_o1_a_simple_meal_outline",
            "text": "A simple meal outline"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_017_o2_a_shared_calendar_check",
            "text": "A shared calendar check"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_017_o3_clothes_or_bags_for_busy_days",
            "text": "Clothes or bags for busy days"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_017_o4_a_list_of_upcoming_deadlines",
            "text": "A list of upcoming deadlines"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_018",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which part of the evening would benefit most from less multitasking?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "evenings",
        "presence",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_018_o1_dinner_together",
          "text": "Dinner together"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_018_o2_homework_or_reading",
          "text": "Homework or reading"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_018_o3_getting_ready_for_bed",
          "text": "Getting ready for bed"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_018_o4_the_last_few_minutes_before_sleep",
          "text": "The last few minutes before sleep"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_018_o1_dinner_together",
            "text": "Dinner together"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_018_o2_homework_or_reading",
            "text": "Homework or reading"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_018_o3_getting_ready_for_bed",
            "text": "Getting ready for bed"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_018_o4_the_last_few_minutes_before_sleep",
            "text": "The last few minutes before sleep"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_019",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which routine deserves to be easier rather than more perfect?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "perfectionism",
        "routines",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_019_o1_leaving_the_house_on_time",
          "text": "Leaving the house on time"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_019_o2_keeping_bedrooms_organized",
          "text": "Keeping bedrooms organized"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_019_o3_getting_everyone_fed",
          "text": "Getting everyone fed"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_019_o4_finishing_the_bedtime_sequence",
          "text": "Finishing the bedtime sequence"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_019_o1_leaving_the_house_on_time",
            "text": "Leaving the house on time"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_019_o2_keeping_bedrooms_organized",
            "text": "Keeping bedrooms organized"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_019_o3_getting_everyone_fed",
            "text": "Getting everyone fed"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_019_o4_finishing_the_bedtime_sequence",
            "text": "Finishing the bedtime sequence"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_020",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the best signal that one of us needs backup right away?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "backup",
        "communication",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_020_o1_a_direct_request",
          "text": "A direct request"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_020_o2_a_brief_code_phrase",
          "text": "A brief code phrase"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_020_o3_a_message_from_another_room",
          "text": "A message from another room"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_020_o4_a_clear_handoff_of_the_task",
          "text": "A clear handoff of the task"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_020_o1_a_direct_request",
            "text": "A direct request"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_020_o2_a_brief_code_phrase",
            "text": "A brief code phrase"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_020_o3_a_message_from_another_room",
            "text": "A message from another room"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_020_o4_a_clear_handoff_of_the_task",
            "text": "A clear handoff of the task"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_021",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which invisible parenting jobs should we check more often?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "mental_load",
        "planning",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_021_o1_tracking_school_information",
          "text": "Tracking school information"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_021_o2_remembering_appointments_and_forms",
          "text": "Remembering appointments and forms"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_021_o3_planning_clothes_and_supplies",
          "text": "Planning clothes and supplies"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_021_o4_watching_for_emotional_changes",
          "text": "Watching for emotional changes"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_021_o1_tracking_school_information",
            "text": "Tracking school information"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_021_o2_remembering_appointments_and_forms",
            "text": "Remembering appointments and forms"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_021_o3_planning_clothes_and_supplies",
            "text": "Planning clothes and supplies"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_021_o4_watching_for_emotional_changes",
            "text": "Watching for emotional changes"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_022",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What would lighten your parenting load most this week?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "support",
        "mental_load",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_022_o1_taking_one_task_completely_off_your_list",
          "text": "Taking one task completely off your list"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_022_o2_making_a_decision_you_have_been_carrying",
          "text": "Making a decision you have been carrying"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_022_o3_handling_one_difficult_conversation",
          "text": "Handling one difficult conversation"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_022_o4_protecting_a_real_block_of_rest",
          "text": "Protecting a real block of rest"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_022_o1_taking_one_task_completely_off_your_list",
            "text": "Taking one task completely off your list"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_022_o2_making_a_decision_you_have_been_carrying",
            "text": "Making a decision you have been carrying"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_022_o3_handling_one_difficult_conversation",
            "text": "Handling one difficult conversation"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_022_o4_protecting_a_real_block_of_rest",
            "text": "Protecting a real block of rest"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_023",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Where would clearer ownership prevent repeated reminders?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "ownership",
        "mental_load",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_023_o1_school_messages_and_deadlines",
          "text": "School messages and deadlines"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_023_o2_medical_and_dental_scheduling",
          "text": "Medical and dental scheduling"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_023_o3_activity_transportation",
          "text": "Activity transportation"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_023_o4_household_supplies_for_the_children",
          "text": "Household supplies for the children"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_023_o1_school_messages_and_deadlines",
            "text": "School messages and deadlines"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_023_o2_medical_and_dental_scheduling",
            "text": "Medical and dental scheduling"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_023_o3_activity_transportation",
            "text": "Activity transportation"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_023_o4_household_supplies_for_the_children",
            "text": "Household supplies for the children"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_024",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps you trust that a parenting task is truly handled?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "follow_through",
        "trust",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_024_o1_a_clear_owner_from_the_start",
          "text": "A clear owner from the start"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_024_o2_a_deadline_that_both_of_us_know",
          "text": "A deadline that both of us know"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_024_o3_a_quick_update_when_it_is_finished",
          "text": "A quick update when it is finished"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_024_o4_no_need_for_repeated_checking",
          "text": "No need for repeated checking"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_024_o1_a_clear_owner_from_the_start",
            "text": "A clear owner from the start"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_024_o2_a_deadline_that_both_of_us_know",
            "text": "A deadline that both of us know"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_024_o3_a_quick_update_when_it_is_finished",
            "text": "A quick update when it is finished"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_024_o4_no_need_for_repeated_checking",
            "text": "No need for repeated checking"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_025",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How fairly does the unseen planning work feel divided right now?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "fairness",
        "mental_load",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very uneven",
        "max_label": "Very fair"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_026",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes shared planning feel collaborative instead of like another meeting?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "planning",
        "collaboration",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_026_o1_keeping_it_under_fifteen_minutes",
          "text": "Keeping it under fifteen minutes"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_026_o2_using_one_shared_list",
          "text": "Using one shared list"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_026_o3_deciding_only_what_is_urgent",
          "text": "Deciding only what is urgent"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_026_o4_ending_with_clear_owners",
          "text": "Ending with clear owners"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_026_o1_keeping_it_under_fifteen_minutes",
            "text": "Keeping it under fifteen minutes"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_026_o2_using_one_shared_list",
            "text": "Using one shared list"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_026_o3_deciding_only_what_is_urgent",
            "text": "Deciding only what is urgent"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_026_o4_ending_with_clear_owners",
            "text": "Ending with clear owners"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_027",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of help feels most useful when you are overloaded?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "support",
        "overload",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_027_o1_taking_over_without_a_long_discussion",
          "text": "Taking over without a long discussion"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_027_o2_asking_which_task_matters_most",
          "text": "Asking which task matters most"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_027_o3_managing_the_children_for_a_while",
          "text": "Managing the children for a while"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_027_o4_handling_the_next_decision",
          "text": "Handling the next decision"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_027_o1_taking_over_without_a_long_discussion",
            "text": "Taking over without a long discussion"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_027_o2_asking_which_task_matters_most",
            "text": "Asking which task matters most"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_027_o3_managing_the_children_for_a_while",
            "text": "Managing the children for a while"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_027_o4_handling_the_next_decision",
            "text": "Handling the next decision"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_028",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs suggest one of us is carrying too much parenting responsibility?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "burnout",
        "mental_load",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_028_o1_frequent_resentment_over_small_tasks",
          "text": "Frequent resentment over small tasks"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_028_o2_no_uninterrupted_personal_time",
          "text": "No uninterrupted personal time"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_028_o3_needing_to_supervise_every_detail",
          "text": "Needing to supervise every detail"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_028_o4_feeling_anxious_when_the_other_person_takes_over",
          "text": "Feeling anxious when the other person takes over"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_028_o1_frequent_resentment_over_small_tasks",
            "text": "Frequent resentment over small tasks"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_028_o2_no_uninterrupted_personal_time",
            "text": "No uninterrupted personal time"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_028_o3_needing_to_supervise_every_detail",
            "text": "Needing to supervise every detail"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_028_o4_feeling_anxious_when_the_other_person_takes_over",
            "text": "Feeling anxious when the other person takes over"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_029",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can we make room for each parent to rest without keeping score?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "rest",
        "fairness",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_029_o1_planning_rest_before_exhaustion_hits",
          "text": "Planning rest before exhaustion hits"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_029_o2_taking_turns_based_on_current_capacity",
          "text": "Taking turns based on current capacity"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_029_o3_counting_recovery_time_as_real_work",
          "text": "Counting recovery time as real work"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_029_o4_revisiting_the_plan_when_life_changes",
          "text": "Revisiting the plan when life changes"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_029_o1_planning_rest_before_exhaustion_hits",
            "text": "Planning rest before exhaustion hits"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_029_o2_taking_turns_based_on_current_capacity",
            "text": "Taking turns based on current capacity"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_029_o3_counting_recovery_time_as_real_work",
            "text": "Counting recovery time as real work"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_029_o4_revisiting_the_plan_when_life_changes",
            "text": "Revisiting the plan when life changes"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_030",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is one responsibility that works better with a primary owner?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "ownership",
        "responsibilities",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_030_o1_school_communication",
          "text": "School communication"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_030_o2_health_appointments",
          "text": "Health appointments"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_030_o3_activity_scheduling",
          "text": "Activity scheduling"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_030_o4_clothing_and_supply_needs",
          "text": "Clothing and supply needs"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_030_o1_school_communication",
            "text": "School communication"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_030_o2_health_appointments",
            "text": "Health appointments"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_030_o3_activity_scheduling",
            "text": "Activity scheduling"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_030_o4_clothing_and_supply_needs",
            "text": "Clothing and supply needs"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_031",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What kind of family time usually leaves everyone in a better mood?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "family_fun",
        "connection",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_031_o1_a_low_key_meal_together",
          "text": "A low-key meal together"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_031_o2_a_short_trip_outside",
          "text": "A short trip outside"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_031_o3_a_game_with_simple_rules",
          "text": "A game with simple rules"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_031_o4_a_familiar_movie_night",
          "text": "A familiar movie night"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_031_o1_a_low_key_meal_together",
            "text": "A low-key meal together"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_031_o2_a_short_trip_outside",
            "text": "A short trip outside"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_031_o3_a_game_with_simple_rules",
            "text": "A game with simple rules"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_031_o4_a_familiar_movie_night",
            "text": "A familiar movie night"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_032",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which ordinary moment is easiest for us to turn into family fun?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "playfulness",
        "daily_life",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_032_o1_the_ride_somewhere",
          "text": "The ride somewhere"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_032_o2_cleaning_up_after_dinner",
          "text": "Cleaning up after dinner"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_032_o3_waiting_for_an_appointment",
          "text": "Waiting for an appointment"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_032_o4_the_pre_bed_wind_down",
          "text": "The pre-bed wind-down"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_032_o1_the_ride_somewhere",
            "text": "The ride somewhere"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_032_o2_cleaning_up_after_dinner",
            "text": "Cleaning up after dinner"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_032_o3_waiting_for_an_appointment",
            "text": "Waiting for an appointment"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_032_o4_the_pre_bed_wind_down",
            "text": "The pre-bed wind-down"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_033",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps family outings feel worth the effort?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "outings",
        "expectations",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_033_o1_keeping_the_plan_short",
          "text": "Keeping the plan short"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_033_o2_bringing_familiar_snacks",
          "text": "Bringing familiar snacks"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_033_o3_leaving_before_everyone_is_exhausted",
          "text": "Leaving before everyone is exhausted"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_033_o4_accepting_that_the_day_may_be_imperfect",
          "text": "Accepting that the day may be imperfect"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_033_o1_keeping_the_plan_short",
            "text": "Keeping the plan short"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_033_o2_bringing_familiar_snacks",
            "text": "Bringing familiar snacks"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_033_o3_leaving_before_everyone_is_exhausted",
            "text": "Leaving before everyone is exhausted"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_033_o4_accepting_that_the_day_may_be_imperfect",
            "text": "Accepting that the day may be imperfect"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_034",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which traditions feel simple enough to keep during busy years?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "traditions",
        "family_identity",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_034_o1_a_favorite_birthday_breakfast",
          "text": "A favorite birthday breakfast"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_034_o2_one_seasonal_outing",
          "text": "One seasonal outing"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_034_o3_a_weekly_meal_everyone_knows",
          "text": "A weekly meal everyone knows"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_034_o4_a_small_holiday_ritual_at_home",
          "text": "A small holiday ritual at home"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_034_o1_a_favorite_birthday_breakfast",
            "text": "A favorite birthday breakfast"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_034_o2_one_seasonal_outing",
            "text": "One seasonal outing"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_034_o3_a_weekly_meal_everyone_knows",
            "text": "A weekly meal everyone knows"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_034_o4_a_small_holiday_ritual_at_home",
            "text": "A small holiday ritual at home"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_035",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How much playful energy does our family have lately?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "playfulness",
        "family_climate",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very little",
        "max_label": "A lot"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_036",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which approaches let children help plan without turning every choice into a debate?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "family_decisions",
        "participation",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_036_o1_offer_two_realistic_options",
          "text": "Offer two realistic options"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_036_o2_let_one_child_choose_on_a_rotating_basis",
          "text": "Let one child choose on a rotating basis"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_036_o3_separate_adult_decisions_from_family_choices",
          "text": "Separate adult decisions from family choices"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_036_o4_explain_the_limit_before_asking_for_input",
          "text": "Explain the limit before asking for input"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_036_o1_offer_two_realistic_options",
            "text": "Offer two realistic options"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_036_o2_let_one_child_choose_on_a_rotating_basis",
            "text": "Let one child choose on a rotating basis"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_036_o3_separate_adult_decisions_from_family_choices",
            "text": "Separate adult decisions from family choices"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_036_o4_explain_the_limit_before_asking_for_input",
            "text": "Explain the limit before asking for input"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_037",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "For family time, would you rather repeat a favorite or try something new?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "family_fun",
        "quick_choice",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_037_o1_repeat_a_favorite",
          "text": "Repeat a favorite"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_037_o2_try_something_new",
          "text": "Try something new"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_037_o1_repeat_a_favorite",
            "text": "Repeat a favorite"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_037_o2_try_something_new",
            "text": "Try something new"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_038",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us enjoy family time instead of managing every second?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "presence",
        "family_fun",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_038_o1_choosing_an_activity_with_loose_structure",
          "text": "Choosing an activity with loose structure"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_038_o2_sharing_supervision_rather_than_shadowing",
          "text": "Sharing supervision rather than shadowing"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_038_o3_letting_small_messes_wait",
          "text": "Letting small messes wait"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_038_o4_keeping_phones_available_but_not_central",
          "text": "Keeping phones available but not central"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_038_o1_choosing_an_activity_with_loose_structure",
            "text": "Choosing an activity with loose structure"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_038_o2_sharing_supervision_rather_than_shadowing",
            "text": "Sharing supervision rather than shadowing"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_038_o3_letting_small_messes_wait",
            "text": "Letting small messes wait"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_038_o4_keeping_phones_available_but_not_central",
            "text": "Keeping phones available but not central"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_039",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which low-cost family moments are most likely to happen again?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "budget_friendly",
        "family_fun",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_039_o1_a_picnic_with_food_from_home",
          "text": "A picnic with food from home"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_039_o2_music_while_everyone_helps_cook",
          "text": "Music while everyone helps cook"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_039_o3_a_neighborhood_walk_with_one_destination",
          "text": "A neighborhood walk with one destination"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_039_o4_blankets_and_stories_in_the_living_room",
          "text": "Blankets and stories in the living room"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_039_o1_a_picnic_with_food_from_home",
            "text": "A picnic with food from home"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_039_o2_music_while_everyone_helps_cook",
            "text": "Music while everyone helps cook"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_039_o3_a_neighborhood_walk_with_one_destination",
            "text": "A neighborhood walk with one destination"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_039_o4_blankets_and_stories_in_the_living_room",
            "text": "Blankets and stories in the living room"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_040",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What makes a family memory feel special to you?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "memories",
        "connection",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_040_o1_everyone_laughing_together",
          "text": "Everyone laughing together"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_040_o2_a_child_trying_something_new",
          "text": "A child trying something new"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_040_o3_a_calm_moment_in_an_ordinary_day",
          "text": "A calm moment in an ordinary day"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_040_o4_a_tradition_returning_each_year",
          "text": "A tradition returning each year"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_040_o1_everyone_laughing_together",
            "text": "Everyone laughing together"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_040_o2_a_child_trying_something_new",
            "text": "A child trying something new"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_040_o3_a_calm_moment_in_an_ordinary_day",
            "text": "A calm moment in an ordinary day"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_040_o4_a_tradition_returning_each_year",
            "text": "A tradition returning each year"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_041",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which habits help us make a quick parenting decision without undermining each other?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "decisions",
        "unity",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_041_o1_one_person_handles_the_immediate_moment",
          "text": "One person handles the immediate moment"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_041_o2_we_use_a_rule_already_agreed_on",
          "text": "We use a rule already agreed on"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_041_o3_we_postpone_the_nonurgent_part",
          "text": "We postpone the nonurgent part"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_041_o4_we_discuss_differences_privately_later",
          "text": "We discuss differences privately later"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_041_o1_one_person_handles_the_immediate_moment",
            "text": "One person handles the immediate moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_041_o2_we_use_a_rule_already_agreed_on",
            "text": "We use a rule already agreed on"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_041_o3_we_postpone_the_nonurgent_part",
            "text": "We postpone the nonurgent part"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_041_o4_we_discuss_differences_privately_later",
            "text": "We discuss differences privately later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_042",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When one of us gives an answer the other questions, what should happen first?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "consistency",
        "support",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_042_o1_back_the_decision_for_the_moment",
          "text": "Ask for a quick private check-in"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_042_o2_ask_one_quiet_clarifying_question",
          "text": "Keep the disagreement between adults for the moment"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_042_o3_take_the_child_aside_to_explain",
          "text": "Clarify whether safety or dignity is involved"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_042_o4_pause_the_situation_if_the_answer_seems_unsafe",
          "text": "Delay the answer if there is time"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_042_o1_back_the_decision_for_the_moment",
            "text": "Ask for a quick private check-in"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_042_o2_ask_one_quiet_clarifying_question",
            "text": "Keep the disagreement between adults for the moment"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_042_o3_take_the_child_aside_to_explain",
            "text": "Clarify whether safety or dignity is involved"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_042_o4_pause_the_situation_if_the_answer_seems_unsafe",
            "text": "Delay the answer if there is time"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_043",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which phrases help us stay united when we need a minute to decide?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "decision_pause",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_043_o1_we_need_a_moment_to_talk",
          "text": "We need a moment to talk"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_043_o2_we_will_give_you_an_answer_soon",
          "text": "We will give you an answer soon"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_043_o3_the_answer_is_not_ready_yet",
          "text": "The answer is not ready yet"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_043_o4_let_us_check_the_plan_first",
          "text": "Let us check the plan first"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_043_o1_we_need_a_moment_to_talk",
            "text": "We need a moment to talk"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_043_o2_we_will_give_you_an_answer_soon",
            "text": "We will give you an answer soon"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_043_o3_the_answer_is_not_ready_yet",
            "text": "The answer is not ready yet"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_043_o4_let_us_check_the_plan_first",
            "text": "Let us check the plan first"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_044",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How comfortable are you disagreeing with me about parenting in private?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "disagreement",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not comfortable",
        "max_label": "Very comfortable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_045",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps a parenting disagreement from turning into a character judgment?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "free",
      "tags": [
        "disagreement",
        "respect",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_045_o1_name_the_exact_decision_at_issue",
          "text": "Name the exact decision at issue"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_045_o2_avoid_words_like_always_and_never",
          "text": "Avoid words like always and never"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_045_o3_assume_both_of_us_care_about_the_child",
          "text": "Assume both of us care about the child"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_045_o4_separate_the_outcome_from_the_person",
          "text": "Separate the outcome from the person"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_045_o1_name_the_exact_decision_at_issue",
            "text": "Name the exact decision at issue"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_045_o2_avoid_words_like_always_and_never",
            "text": "Avoid words like always and never"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_045_o3_assume_both_of_us_care_about_the_child",
            "text": "Assume both of us care about the child"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_045_o4_separate_the_outcome_from_the_person",
            "text": "Separate the outcome from the person"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_046",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the fairest way to handle a decision neither of us feels strongly about?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "decisions",
        "fairness",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_046_o1_take_turns_choosing",
          "text": "Take turns choosing"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_046_o2_follow_the_simpler_option",
          "text": "Follow the simpler option"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_046_o3_choose_what_helps_the_child_most_today",
          "text": "Choose what helps the child most today"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_046_o4_let_the_person_handling_it_decide",
          "text": "Let the person handling it decide"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_046_o1_take_turns_choosing",
            "text": "Take turns choosing"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_046_o2_follow_the_simpler_option",
            "text": "Follow the simpler option"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_046_o3_choose_what_helps_the_child_most_today",
            "text": "Choose what helps the child most today"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_046_o4_let_the_person_handling_it_decide",
            "text": "Let the person handling it decide"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_047",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which updates are worth sending during a busy parenting day?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "updates",
        "communication",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_047_o1_a_meaningful_mood_change",
          "text": "A meaningful mood change"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_047_o2_a_schedule_problem_that_affects_both_of_us",
          "text": "A schedule problem that affects both of us"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_047_o3_something_the_child_needs_soon",
          "text": "Something the child needs soon"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_047_o4_a_decision_that_cannot_wait",
          "text": "A decision that cannot wait"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_047_o1_a_meaningful_mood_change",
            "text": "A meaningful mood change"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_047_o2_a_schedule_problem_that_affects_both_of_us",
            "text": "A schedule problem that affects both of us"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_047_o3_something_the_child_needs_soon",
            "text": "Something the child needs soon"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_047_o4_a_decision_that_cannot_wait",
            "text": "A decision that cannot wait"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_048",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "When a parenting issue is not urgent, would you rather talk that night or schedule it?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "timing",
        "quick_choice",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_048_o1_talk_that_night",
          "text": "Talk that night"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_048_o2_schedule_it",
          "text": "Schedule it"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_048_o1_talk_that_night",
            "text": "Talk that night"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_048_o2_schedule_it",
            "text": "Schedule it"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_049",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parenting conversations deserve our full attention?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "priority",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_049_o1_a_major_rule_change",
          "text": "A major rule change"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_049_o2_a_concern_about_a_child_s_wellbeing",
          "text": "A concern about a child’s wellbeing"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_049_o3_a_disagreement_that_keeps_returning",
          "text": "A disagreement that keeps returning"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_049_o4_a_decision_with_long_term_effects",
          "text": "A decision with long-term effects"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_049_o1_a_major_rule_change",
            "text": "A major rule change"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_049_o2_a_concern_about_a_child_s_wellbeing",
            "text": "A concern about a child’s wellbeing"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_049_o3_a_disagreement_that_keeps_returning",
            "text": "A disagreement that keeps returning"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_049_o4_a_decision_with_long_term_effects",
            "text": "A decision with long-term effects"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_050",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one parenting topic you want us to discuss more calmly?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "communication",
        "reflection",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_051",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which values do you most want our children to learn from daily life?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "values",
        "modeling",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_051_o1_kindness_without_losing_boundaries",
          "text": "Kindness without losing boundaries"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_051_o2_responsibility_without_constant_fear",
          "text": "Responsibility without constant fear"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_051_o3_honesty_that_leaves_room_for_mistakes",
          "text": "Honesty that leaves room for mistakes"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_051_o4_respect_for_people_who_are_different",
          "text": "Respect for people who are different"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_051_o1_kindness_without_losing_boundaries",
            "text": "Kindness without losing boundaries"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_051_o2_responsibility_without_constant_fear",
            "text": "Responsibility without constant fear"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_051_o3_honesty_that_leaves_room_for_mistakes",
            "text": "Honesty that leaves room for mistakes"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_051_o4_respect_for_people_who_are_different",
            "text": "Respect for people who are different"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_052",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What matters most when a parenting choice has no perfect answer?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "values",
        "decisions",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_052_o1_the_child_s_long_term_wellbeing",
          "text": "The child’s long-term wellbeing"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_052_o2_what_we_can_consistently_maintain",
          "text": "What we can consistently maintain"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_052_o3_the_least_harmful_realistic_option",
          "text": "The least harmful realistic option"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_052_o4_a_choice_we_can_explain_honestly",
          "text": "A choice we can explain honestly"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_052_o1_the_child_s_long_term_wellbeing",
            "text": "The child’s long-term wellbeing"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_052_o2_what_we_can_consistently_maintain",
            "text": "What we can consistently maintain"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_052_o3_the_least_harmful_realistic_option",
            "text": "The least harmful realistic option"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_052_o4_a_choice_we_can_explain_honestly",
            "text": "A choice we can explain honestly"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_053",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Where do you most want us to model humility as parents?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "modeling",
        "humility",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_053_o1_admitting_when_we_were_wrong",
          "text": "Admitting when we were wrong"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_053_o2_changing_a_rule_that_is_not_working",
          "text": "Changing a rule that is not working"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_053_o3_apologizing_directly_to_a_child",
          "text": "Apologizing directly to a child"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_053_o4_asking_for_knowledgeable_help",
          "text": "Asking for knowledgeable help"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_053_o1_admitting_when_we_were_wrong",
            "text": "Admitting when we were wrong"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_053_o2_changing_a_rule_that_is_not_working",
            "text": "Changing a rule that is not working"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_053_o3_apologizing_directly_to_a_child",
            "text": "Apologizing directly to a child"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_053_o4_asking_for_knowledgeable_help",
            "text": "Asking for knowledgeable help"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_054",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which lessons are better taught through example than through a speech?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "modeling",
        "life_lessons",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_054_o1_how_to_apologize_sincerely",
          "text": "How to apologize sincerely"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_054_o2_how_to_treat_service_workers",
          "text": "How to treat service workers"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_054_o3_how_to_handle_frustration",
          "text": "How to handle frustration"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_054_o4_how_to_care_for_shared_spaces",
          "text": "How to care for shared spaces"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_054_o1_how_to_apologize_sincerely",
            "text": "How to apologize sincerely"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_054_o2_how_to_treat_service_workers",
            "text": "How to treat service workers"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_054_o3_how_to_handle_frustration",
            "text": "How to handle frustration"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_054_o4_how_to_care_for_shared_spaces",
            "text": "How to care for shared spaces"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_055",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How aligned do our core parenting values feel?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "values",
        "alignment",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Far apart",
        "max_label": "Closely aligned"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_056",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should guide us when family values and outside expectations clash?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "values",
        "outside_pressure",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_056_o1_the_child_s_safety_and_dignity",
          "text": "The child’s safety and dignity"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_056_o2_our_clearly_discussed_principles",
          "text": "Our clearly discussed principles"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_056_o3_reliable_information_rather_than_pressure",
          "text": "Reliable information rather than pressure"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_056_o4_room_for_the_child_s_growing_voice",
          "text": "Room for the child’s growing voice"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_056_o1_the_child_s_safety_and_dignity",
            "text": "The child’s safety and dignity"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_056_o2_our_clearly_discussed_principles",
            "text": "Our clearly discussed principles"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_056_o3_reliable_information_rather_than_pressure",
            "text": "Reliable information rather than pressure"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_056_o4_room_for_the_child_s_growing_voice",
            "text": "Room for the child’s growing voice"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_057",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Would you rather be known as a predictable parent or an adaptable parent?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "parenting_style",
        "quick_choice",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_057_o1_predictable_parent",
          "text": "Predictable parent"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_057_o2_adaptable_parent",
          "text": "Adaptable parent"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_057_o1_predictable_parent",
            "text": "Predictable parent"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_057_o2_adaptable_parent",
            "text": "Adaptable parent"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_058",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us teach responsibility without expecting adult behavior from a child?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "responsibility",
        "age_appropriate",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_058_o1_choose_tasks_that_match_ability",
          "text": "Choose tasks that match ability"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_058_o2_teach_the_skill_before_judging_the_result",
          "text": "Teach the skill before judging the result"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_058_o3_expect_practice_rather_than_perfection",
          "text": "Expect practice rather than perfection"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_058_o4_adjust_support_as_the_child_grows",
          "text": "Adjust support as the child grows"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_058_o1_choose_tasks_that_match_ability",
            "text": "Choose tasks that match ability"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_058_o2_teach_the_skill_before_judging_the_result",
            "text": "Teach the skill before judging the result"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_058_o3_expect_practice_rather_than_perfection",
            "text": "Expect practice rather than perfection"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_058_o4_adjust_support_as_the_child_grows",
            "text": "Adjust support as the child grows"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_059",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of our own childhood should we examine before repeating them?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family_of_origin",
        "reflection",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_059_o1_how_mistakes_were_handled",
          "text": "How mistakes were handled"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_059_o2_who_was_allowed_to_show_emotion",
          "text": "Who was allowed to show emotion"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_059_o3_how_rules_were_explained",
          "text": "How rules were explained"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_059_o4_whether_affection_depended_on_behavior",
          "text": "Whether affection depended on behavior"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_059_o1_how_mistakes_were_handled",
            "text": "How mistakes were handled"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_059_o2_who_was_allowed_to_show_emotion",
            "text": "Who was allowed to show emotion"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_059_o3_how_rules_were_explained",
            "text": "How rules were explained"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_059_o4_whether_affection_depended_on_behavior",
            "text": "Whether affection depended on behavior"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_060",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which quality do you most hope our children remember about our home?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family_culture",
        "values",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_060_o1_they_felt_safe_asking_questions",
          "text": "They felt safe asking questions"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_060_o2_people_were_allowed_to_make_mistakes",
          "text": "People were allowed to make mistakes"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_060_o3_love_was_steady_even_during_limits",
          "text": "Love was steady even during limits"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_060_o4_everyone_s_voice_mattered",
          "text": "Everyone’s voice mattered"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_060_o1_they_felt_safe_asking_questions",
            "text": "They felt safe asking questions"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_060_o2_people_were_allowed_to_make_mistakes",
            "text": "People were allowed to make mistakes"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_060_o3_love_was_steady_even_during_limits",
            "text": "Love was steady even during limits"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_060_o4_everyone_s_voice_mattered",
            "text": "Everyone’s voice mattered"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_061",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes a family rule easier for a child to understand?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "rules",
        "clarity",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_061_o1_the_reason_is_explained_simply",
          "text": "The reason is explained simply"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_061_o2_the_rule_is_stated_before_the_problem",
          "text": "The rule is stated before the problem"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_061_o3_both_parents_use_similar_language",
          "text": "Both parents use similar language"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_061_o4_the_consequence_is_related_to_the_behavior",
          "text": "The consequence is related to the behavior"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_061_o1_the_reason_is_explained_simply",
            "text": "The reason is explained simply"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_061_o2_the_rule_is_stated_before_the_problem",
            "text": "The rule is stated before the problem"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_061_o3_both_parents_use_similar_language",
            "text": "Both parents use similar language"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_061_o4_the_consequence_is_related_to_the_behavior",
            "text": "The consequence is related to the behavior"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_062",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which consequences feel most respectful and useful?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consequences",
        "discipline",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_062_o1_repairing_what_was_damaged",
          "text": "Repairing what was damaged"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_062_o2_losing_access_directly_tied_to_the_choice",
          "text": "Losing access directly tied to the choice"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_062_o3_practicing_the_expected_behavior_again",
          "text": "Practicing the expected behavior again"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_062_o4_taking_a_calm_break_before_trying_again",
          "text": "Taking a calm break before trying again"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_062_o1_repairing_what_was_damaged",
            "text": "Repairing what was damaged"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_062_o2_losing_access_directly_tied_to_the_choice",
            "text": "Losing access directly tied to the choice"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_062_o3_practicing_the_expected_behavior_again",
            "text": "Practicing the expected behavior again"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_062_o4_taking_a_calm_break_before_trying_again",
            "text": "Taking a calm break before trying again"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_063",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should come first when a child breaks a rule?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "discipline",
        "response",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_063_o1_make_sure_everyone_is_safe",
          "text": "Make sure everyone is safe"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_063_o2_understand_what_happened",
          "text": "Understand what happened"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_063_o3_state_the_limit_clearly",
          "text": "State the limit clearly"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_063_o4_choose_a_reasonable_next_step",
          "text": "Choose a reasonable next step"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_063_o1_make_sure_everyone_is_safe",
            "text": "Make sure everyone is safe"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_063_o2_understand_what_happened",
            "text": "Understand what happened"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_063_o3_state_the_limit_clearly",
            "text": "State the limit clearly"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_063_o4_choose_a_reasonable_next_step",
            "text": "Choose a reasonable next step"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_064",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps us from correcting each other in front of the children?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "unity",
        "privacy",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_064_o1_use_a_quiet_signal",
          "text": "Use a quiet signal"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_064_o2_step_into_another_room_briefly",
          "text": "Step into another room briefly"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_064_o3_back_the_immediate_safety_limit",
          "text": "Back the immediate safety limit"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_064_o4_save_preference_differences_for_later",
          "text": "Save preference differences for later"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_064_o1_use_a_quiet_signal",
            "text": "Use a quiet signal"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_064_o2_step_into_another_room_briefly",
            "text": "Step into another room briefly"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_064_o3_back_the_immediate_safety_limit",
            "text": "Back the immediate safety limit"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_064_o4_save_preference_differences_for_later",
            "text": "Save preference differences for later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_065",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs suggest a consequence is too harsh?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consequences",
        "safety",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_065_o1_it_is_meant_to_embarrass",
          "text": "It is meant to embarrass"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_065_o2_it_lasts_far_beyond_the_behavior",
          "text": "It lasts far beyond the behavior"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_065_o3_it_removes_basic_care_or_connection",
          "text": "It removes basic care or connection"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_065_o4_it_depends_on_adult_anger",
          "text": "It depends on adult anger"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_065_o1_it_is_meant_to_embarrass",
            "text": "It is meant to embarrass"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_065_o2_it_lasts_far_beyond_the_behavior",
            "text": "It lasts far beyond the behavior"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_065_o3_it_removes_basic_care_or_connection",
            "text": "It removes basic care or connection"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_065_o4_it_depends_on_adult_anger",
            "text": "It depends on adult anger"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_066",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How consistent do our family limits feel from day to day?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consistency",
        "boundaries",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Very inconsistent",
        "max_label": "Very consistent"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_067",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can we hold a boundary without making affection feel conditional?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "connection",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_067_o1_keep_the_limit_and_the_relationship_separate",
          "text": "Keep the limit and the relationship separate"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_067_o2_use_a_calm_tone_when_possible",
          "text": "Use a calm tone when possible"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_067_o3_offer_comfort_without_undoing_the_rule",
          "text": "Offer comfort without undoing the rule"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_067_o4_reconnect_after_emotions_settle",
          "text": "Reconnect after emotions settle"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_067_o1_keep_the_limit_and_the_relationship_separate",
            "text": "Keep the limit and the relationship separate"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_067_o2_use_a_calm_tone_when_possible",
            "text": "Use a calm tone when possible"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_067_o3_offer_comfort_without_undoing_the_rule",
            "text": "Offer comfort without undoing the rule"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_067_o4_reconnect_after_emotions_settle",
            "text": "Reconnect after emotions settle"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_068",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which discipline differences deserve an agreement before the next problem?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "discipline",
        "alignment",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_068_o1_what_behavior_requires_immediate_action",
          "text": "What behavior requires immediate action"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_068_o2_which_consequences_are_off_limits",
          "text": "Which consequences are off-limits"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_068_o3_how_long_a_pause_should_last",
          "text": "How long a pause should last"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_068_o4_when_one_parent_can_decide_alone",
          "text": "When one parent can decide alone"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_068_o1_what_behavior_requires_immediate_action",
            "text": "What behavior requires immediate action"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_068_o2_which_consequences_are_off_limits",
            "text": "Which consequences are off-limits"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_068_o3_how_long_a_pause_should_last",
            "text": "How long a pause should last"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_068_o4_when_one_parent_can_decide_alone",
            "text": "When one parent can decide alone"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_069",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "When a rule is challenged, would you rather explain once or invite one question?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "rules",
        "quick_choice",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_069_o1_explain_once",
          "text": "Explain once"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_069_o2_invite_one_question",
          "text": "Invite one question"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_069_o1_explain_once",
            "text": "Explain once"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_069_o2_invite_one_question",
            "text": "Invite one question"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_070",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a child learn from a mistake without carrying shame?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "mistakes",
        "shame_free",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_070_o1_focus_on_the_choice_rather_than_identity",
          "text": "Focus on the choice rather than identity"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_070_o2_make_room_for_a_truthful_explanation",
          "text": "Make room for a truthful explanation"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_070_o3_offer_a_realistic_way_to_repair_harm",
          "text": "Offer a realistic way to repair harm"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_070_o4_notice_improvement_when_it_happens",
          "text": "Notice improvement when it happens"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_070_o1_focus_on_the_choice_rather_than_identity",
            "text": "Focus on the choice rather than identity"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_070_o2_make_room_for_a_truthful_explanation",
            "text": "Make room for a truthful explanation"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_070_o3_offer_a_realistic_way_to_repair_harm",
            "text": "Offer a realistic way to repair harm"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_070_o4_notice_improvement_when_it_happens",
            "text": "Notice improvement when it happens"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_071",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Before solving the problem, what helps a child feel understood?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "emotions",
        "listening",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_071_o1_naming_what_we_noticed",
          "text": "Naming what we noticed"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_071_o2_listening_without_rapid_questions",
          "text": "Listening without rapid questions"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_071_o3_sitting_nearby_without_forcing_touch",
          "text": "Sitting nearby without forcing touch"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_071_o4_letting_the_child_correct_our_guess",
          "text": "Letting the child correct our guess"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_071_o1_naming_what_we_noticed",
            "text": "Naming what we noticed"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_071_o2_listening_without_rapid_questions",
            "text": "Listening without rapid questions"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_071_o3_sitting_nearby_without_forcing_touch",
            "text": "Sitting nearby without forcing touch"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_071_o4_letting_the_child_correct_our_guess",
            "text": "Letting the child correct our guess"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_072",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When a child is overwhelmed, what should we lower first?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "overwhelm",
        "support",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_072_o1_the_number_of_instructions",
          "text": "The number of instructions"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_072_o2_the_volume_in_the_room",
          "text": "The volume in the room"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_072_o3_the_pressure_to_explain_immediately",
          "text": "The pressure to explain immediately"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_072_o4_the_demand_for_eye_contact",
          "text": "The demand for eye contact"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_072_o1_the_number_of_instructions",
            "text": "The number of instructions"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_072_o2_the_volume_in_the_room",
            "text": "The volume in the room"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_072_o3_the_pressure_to_explain_immediately",
            "text": "The pressure to explain immediately"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_072_o4_the_demand_for_eye_contact",
            "text": "The demand for eye contact"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_073",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which responses help when a child is having a very strong reaction?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "emotions",
        "regulation",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_073_o1_accept_the_feeling_without_agreeing_with_every_a",
          "text": "Accept the feeling without agreeing with every action"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_073_o2_keep_the_safety_limit_simple",
          "text": "Keep the safety limit simple"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_073_o3_wait_before_teaching_the_lesson",
          "text": "Wait before teaching the lesson"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_073_o4_offer_two_calm_ways_to_reset",
          "text": "Offer two calm ways to reset"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_073_o1_accept_the_feeling_without_agreeing_with_every_a",
            "text": "Accept the feeling without agreeing with every action"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_073_o2_keep_the_safety_limit_simple",
            "text": "Keep the safety limit simple"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_073_o3_wait_before_teaching_the_lesson",
            "text": "Wait before teaching the lesson"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_073_o4_offer_two_calm_ways_to_reset",
            "text": "Offer two calm ways to reset"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_074",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which reminders help us avoid taking a child’s difficult behavior personally?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "behavior",
        "perspective",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_074_o1_remember_that_behavior_can_signal_a_need",
          "text": "Remember that behavior can signal a need"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_074_o2_check_whether_hunger_or_exhaustion_is_involved",
          "text": "Check whether hunger or exhaustion is involved"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_074_o3_separate_disrespectful_action_from_personal_reje",
          "text": "Separate disrespectful action from personal rejection"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_074_o4_ask_what_skill_the_child_may_be_missing",
          "text": "Ask what skill the child may be missing"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_074_o1_remember_that_behavior_can_signal_a_need",
            "text": "Remember that behavior can signal a need"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_074_o2_check_whether_hunger_or_exhaustion_is_involved",
            "text": "Check whether hunger or exhaustion is involved"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_074_o3_separate_disrespectful_action_from_personal_reje",
            "text": "Separate disrespectful action from personal rejection"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_074_o4_ask_what_skill_the_child_may_be_missing",
            "text": "Ask what skill the child may be missing"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_075",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How confident do you feel helping our children through strong emotions?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "confidence",
        "emotional_support",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not confident",
        "max_label": "Very confident"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_076",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which responses should remain optional for a child?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "consent",
        "comfort",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_076_o1_hugs_and_physical_affection",
          "text": "Hugs and physical affection"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_076_o2_talking_before_they_are_ready",
          "text": "Talking before they are ready"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_076_o3_sitting_close_to_an_adult",
          "text": "Sitting close to an adult"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_076_o4_sharing_private_feelings",
          "text": "Sharing private feelings"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_076_o1_hugs_and_physical_affection",
            "text": "Hugs and physical affection"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_076_o2_talking_before_they_are_ready",
            "text": "Talking before they are ready"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_076_o3_sitting_close_to_an_adult",
            "text": "Sitting close to an adult"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_076_o4_sharing_private_feelings",
            "text": "Sharing private feelings"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_077",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which cue most clearly suggests a child is ready to talk?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "readiness",
        "communication",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_077_o1_they_begin_the_subject_themselves",
          "text": "They begin the subject themselves"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_077_o2_their_body_looks_calmer",
          "text": "Their body looks calmer"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_077_o3_they_ask_for_help_or_company",
          "text": "They ask for help or company"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_077_o4_they_can_hear_one_question_without_shutting_down",
          "text": "They can hear one question without shutting down"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_077_o1_they_begin_the_subject_themselves",
            "text": "They begin the subject themselves"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_077_o2_their_body_looks_calmer",
            "text": "Their body looks calmer"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_077_o3_they_ask_for_help_or_company",
            "text": "They ask for help or company"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_077_o4_they_can_hear_one_question_without_shutting_down",
            "text": "They can hear one question without shutting down"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_078",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can we do when our own patience is nearly gone?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "parent_regulation",
        "stress",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_078_o1_trade_places_if_possible",
          "text": "Trade places if possible"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_078_o2_use_fewer_words",
          "text": "Use fewer words"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_078_o3_make_the_environment_safer_and_simpler",
          "text": "Make the environment safer and simpler"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_078_o4_take_a_brief_pause_without_abandoning_the_child",
          "text": "Take a brief pause without abandoning the child"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_078_o1_trade_places_if_possible",
            "text": "Trade places if possible"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_078_o2_use_fewer_words",
            "text": "Use fewer words"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_078_o3_make_the_environment_safer_and_simpler",
            "text": "Make the environment safer and simpler"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_078_o4_take_a_brief_pause_without_abandoning_the_child",
            "text": "Take a brief pause without abandoning the child"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_079",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which habits help children name emotions without turning every moment into a lesson?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "emotional_language",
        "daily_life",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_079_o1_use_simple_feeling_words_ourselves",
          "text": "Use simple feeling words ourselves"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_079_o2_talk_about_characters_in_stories",
          "text": "Talk about characters in stories"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_079_o3_notice_emotions_after_the_moment_passes",
          "text": "Notice emotions after the moment passes"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_079_o4_accept_that_sometimes_a_child_just_wants_to_move",
          "text": "Accept that sometimes a child just wants to move on"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_079_o1_use_simple_feeling_words_ourselves",
            "text": "Use simple feeling words ourselves"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_079_o2_talk_about_characters_in_stories",
            "text": "Talk about characters in stories"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_079_o3_notice_emotions_after_the_moment_passes",
            "text": "Notice emotions after the moment passes"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_079_o4_accept_that_sometimes_a_child_just_wants_to_move",
            "text": "Accept that sometimes a child just wants to move on"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_080",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one childhood feeling you want us to handle differently in our family?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "family_of_origin",
        "emotional_safety",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_081",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What school information should both of us be able to find easily?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "school",
        "organization",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_081_o1_teacher_contact_details",
          "text": "Teacher contact details"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_081_o2_important_dates_and_deadlines",
          "text": "Important dates and deadlines"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_081_o3_current_support_plans",
          "text": "Current support plans"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_081_o4_transportation_changes",
          "text": "Transportation changes"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_081_o1_teacher_contact_details",
            "text": "Teacher contact details"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_081_o2_important_dates_and_deadlines",
            "text": "Important dates and deadlines"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_081_o3_current_support_plans",
            "text": "Current support plans"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_081_o4_transportation_changes",
            "text": "Transportation changes"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_082",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should we consider when choosing an activity for a child?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "activities",
        "decisions",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_082_o1_the_child_genuinely_wants_to_try_it",
          "text": "The child genuinely wants to try it"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_082_o2_the_schedule_is_realistic_for_the_family",
          "text": "The schedule is realistic for the family"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_082_o3_the_cost_fits_without_resentment",
          "text": "The cost fits without resentment"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_082_o4_the_adults_running_it_seem_trustworthy",
          "text": "The adults running it seem trustworthy"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_082_o1_the_child_genuinely_wants_to_try_it",
            "text": "The child genuinely wants to try it"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_082_o2_the_schedule_is_realistic_for_the_family",
            "text": "The schedule is realistic for the family"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_082_o3_the_cost_fits_without_resentment",
            "text": "The cost fits without resentment"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_082_o4_the_adults_running_it_seem_trustworthy",
            "text": "The adults running it seem trustworthy"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_083",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How manageable does the current school and activity schedule feel?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "schedule",
        "school",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Overwhelming",
        "max_label": "Very manageable"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_084",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can we support learning without making every grade feel like a crisis?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "school",
        "learning",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_084_o1_ask_about_effort_and_understanding",
          "text": "Ask about effort and understanding"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_084_o2_separate_one_result_from_the_child_s_worth",
          "text": "Separate one result from the child’s worth"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_084_o3_contact_the_school_when_patterns_appear",
          "text": "Contact the school when patterns appear"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_084_o4_protect_time_for_rest_as_well_as_practice",
          "text": "Protect time for rest as well as practice"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_084_o1_ask_about_effort_and_understanding",
            "text": "Ask about effort and understanding"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_084_o2_separate_one_result_from_the_child_s_worth",
            "text": "Separate one result from the child’s worth"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_084_o3_contact_the_school_when_patterns_appear",
            "text": "Contact the school when patterns appear"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_084_o4_protect_time_for_rest_as_well_as_practice",
            "text": "Protect time for rest as well as practice"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_085",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs suggest an activity is taking more than it gives?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "activities",
        "balance",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_085_o1_regular_dread_before_attending",
          "text": "Regular dread before attending"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_085_o2_no_room_for_sleep_or_family_time",
          "text": "No room for sleep or family time"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_085_o3_the_child_wants_to_stop_but_feels_trapped",
          "text": "The child wants to stop but feels trapped"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_085_o4_the_cost_creates_ongoing_family_strain",
          "text": "The cost creates ongoing family strain"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_085_o1_regular_dread_before_attending",
            "text": "Regular dread before attending"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_085_o2_no_room_for_sleep_or_family_time",
            "text": "No room for sleep or family time"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_085_o3_the_child_wants_to_stop_but_feels_trapped",
            "text": "The child wants to stop but feels trapped"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_085_o4_the_cost_creates_ongoing_family_strain",
            "text": "The cost creates ongoing family strain"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_086",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "For schoolwork, would you rather offer a set time or a flexible window?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "schoolwork",
        "quick_choice",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_086_o1_a_set_time",
          "text": "A set time"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_086_o2_a_flexible_window",
          "text": "A flexible window"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_086_o1_a_set_time",
            "text": "A set time"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_086_o2_a_flexible_window",
            "text": "A flexible window"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_087",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us communicate with teachers without blaming the child or the school?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "school",
        "communication",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_087_o1_start_with_specific_observations",
          "text": "Start with specific observations"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_087_o2_ask_what_has_been_noticed_in_class",
          "text": "Ask what has been noticed in class"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_087_o3_share_relevant_changes_at_home",
          "text": "Share relevant changes at home"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_087_o4_agree_on_one_next_step_to_review",
          "text": "Agree on one next step to review"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_087_o1_start_with_specific_observations",
            "text": "Start with specific observations"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_087_o2_ask_what_has_been_noticed_in_class",
            "text": "Ask what has been noticed in class"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_087_o3_share_relevant_changes_at_home",
            "text": "Share relevant changes at home"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_087_o4_agree_on_one_next_step_to_review",
            "text": "Agree on one next step to review"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_088",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which learning supports can be useful without becoming punishment?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "learning",
        "support",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_088_o1_a_quieter_place_to_work",
          "text": "A quieter place to work"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_088_o2_shorter_practice_blocks",
          "text": "Shorter practice blocks"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_088_o3_help_breaking_a_task_into_steps",
          "text": "Help breaking a task into steps"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_088_o4_a_scheduled_check_in_instead_of_hovering",
          "text": "A scheduled check-in instead of hovering"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_088_o1_a_quieter_place_to_work",
            "text": "A quieter place to work"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_088_o2_shorter_practice_blocks",
            "text": "Shorter practice blocks"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_088_o3_help_breaking_a_task_into_steps",
            "text": "Help breaking a task into steps"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_088_o4_a_scheduled_check_in_instead_of_hovering",
            "text": "A scheduled check-in instead of hovering"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_089",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "When should a child have more say in an activity decision?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "autonomy",
        "activities",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_089_o1_when_the_commitment_affects_most_of_their_free_t",
          "text": "When the commitment affects most of their free time"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_089_o2_when_they_have_tried_it_long_enough_to_know",
          "text": "When they have tried it long enough to know"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_089_o3_when_the_choice_concerns_their_own_interests",
          "text": "When the choice concerns their own interests"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_089_o4_when_stopping_would_not_harm_anyone_else",
          "text": "When the commitment can be adjusted fairly"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_089_o1_when_the_commitment_affects_most_of_their_free_t",
            "text": "When the commitment affects most of their free time"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_089_o2_when_they_have_tried_it_long_enough_to_know",
            "text": "When they have tried it long enough to know"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_089_o3_when_the_choice_concerns_their_own_interests",
            "text": "When the choice concerns their own interests"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_089_o4_when_stopping_would_not_harm_anyone_else",
            "text": "When the commitment can be adjusted fairly"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_090",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps achievement from becoming the only thing we praise?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "praise",
        "values",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_090_o1_notice_kindness_and_courage",
          "text": "Notice kindness and courage"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_090_o2_celebrate_persistence_without_demanding_perfecti",
          "text": "Celebrate persistence without demanding perfection"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_090_o3_ask_what_the_child_enjoyed_learning",
          "text": "Ask what the child enjoyed learning"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_090_o4_recognize_rest_and_healthy_limits",
          "text": "Recognize rest and healthy limits"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_090_o1_notice_kindness_and_courage",
            "text": "Notice kindness and courage"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_090_o2_celebrate_persistence_without_demanding_perfecti",
            "text": "Celebrate persistence without demanding perfection"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_090_o3_ask_what_the_child_enjoyed_learning",
            "text": "Ask what the child enjoyed learning"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_090_o4_recognize_rest_and_healthy_limits",
            "text": "Recognize rest and healthy limits"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_091",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which health details should both parents know without searching?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "health",
        "shared_information",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_091_o1_current_medicines_and_allergies",
          "text": "Current medicines and allergies"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_091_o2_important_provider_contacts",
          "text": "Important provider contacts"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_091_o3_upcoming_appointments",
          "text": "Upcoming appointments"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_091_o4_recent_symptoms_that_need_watching",
          "text": "Recent symptoms that need watching"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_091_o1_current_medicines_and_allergies",
            "text": "Current medicines and allergies"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_091_o2_important_provider_contacts",
            "text": "Important provider contacts"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_091_o3_upcoming_appointments",
            "text": "Upcoming appointments"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_091_o4_recent_symptoms_that_need_watching",
            "text": "Recent symptoms that need watching"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_092",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the best way to divide medical appointments?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "appointments",
        "division_of_labor",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_092_o1_one_person_schedules_and_the_other_attends",
          "text": "One person schedules and the other attends"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_092_o2_alternate_based_on_availability",
          "text": "Alternate based on availability"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_092_o3_assign_different_types_of_appointments",
          "text": "Assign different types of appointments"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_092_o4_decide_case_by_case_using_work_demands",
          "text": "Decide case by case using work demands"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_092_o1_one_person_schedules_and_the_other_attends",
            "text": "One person schedules and the other attends"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_092_o2_alternate_based_on_availability",
            "text": "Alternate based on availability"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_092_o3_assign_different_types_of_appointments",
            "text": "Assign different types of appointments"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_092_o4_decide_case_by_case_using_work_demands",
            "text": "Decide case by case using work demands"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_093",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which habits let us discuss food without creating shame around eating or bodies?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "food",
        "body_respect",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_093_o1_talk_about_energy_and_variety",
          "text": "Talk about energy and variety"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_093_o2_avoid_using_food_as_a_moral_judgment",
          "text": "Avoid using food as a moral judgment"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_093_o3_keep_adult_body_worries_away_from_the_child",
          "text": "Keep adult body worries away from the child"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_093_o4_allow_preferences_while_offering_balanced_choice",
          "text": "Allow preferences while offering balanced choices"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_093_o1_talk_about_energy_and_variety",
            "text": "Talk about energy and variety"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_093_o2_avoid_using_food_as_a_moral_judgment",
            "text": "Avoid using food as a moral judgment"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_093_o3_keep_adult_body_worries_away_from_the_child",
            "text": "Keep adult body worries away from the child"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_093_o4_allow_preferences_while_offering_balanced_choice",
            "text": "Allow preferences while offering balanced choices"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_094",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which sleep problems deserve a shared plan instead of nightly improvising?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "sleep",
        "planning",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_094_o1_repeated_bedtime_resistance",
          "text": "Repeated bedtime resistance"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_094_o2_frequent_waking",
          "text": "Frequent waking"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_094_o3_different_expectations_between_parents",
          "text": "Different expectations between parents"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_094_o4_a_schedule_that_leaves_the_child_exhausted",
          "text": "A schedule that leaves the child exhausted"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_094_o1_repeated_bedtime_resistance",
            "text": "Repeated bedtime resistance"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_094_o2_frequent_waking",
            "text": "Frequent waking"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_094_o3_different_expectations_between_parents",
            "text": "Different expectations between parents"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_094_o4_a_schedule_that_leaves_the_child_exhausted",
            "text": "A schedule that leaves the child exhausted"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_095",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How supported do you feel with the children’s health needs?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "health",
        "support",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not supported",
        "max_label": "Very supported"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_096",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes an appointment handoff useful to the parent who was not there?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "appointments",
        "handoff",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_096_o1_the_main_advice_in_plain_language",
          "text": "The main advice in plain language"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_096_o2_any_follow_up_date_or_task",
          "text": "Any follow-up date or task"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_096_o3_changes_to_medicine_or_routine",
          "text": "Changes to medicine or routine"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_096_o4_questions_that_still_need_answers",
          "text": "Questions that still need answers"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_096_o1_the_main_advice_in_plain_language",
            "text": "The main advice in plain language"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_096_o2_any_follow_up_date_or_task",
            "text": "Any follow-up date or task"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_096_o3_changes_to_medicine_or_routine",
            "text": "Changes to medicine or routine"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_096_o4_questions_that_still_need_answers",
            "text": "Questions that still need answers"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_097",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "When a child feels unwell, would you rather share updates as they happen or send one summary?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "health_updates",
        "quick_choice",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_097_o1_share_updates_as_they_happen",
          "text": "Share updates as they happen"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_097_o2_send_one_summary",
          "text": "Send one summary"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_097_o1_share_updates_as_they_happen",
            "text": "Share updates as they happen"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_097_o2_send_one_summary",
            "text": "Send one summary"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_098",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can we support healthy habits without turning home into constant monitoring?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "healthy_habits",
        "autonomy",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_098_o1_make_the_easier_choice_available",
          "text": "Make the easier choice available"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_098_o2_model_the_habit_ourselves",
          "text": "Model the habit ourselves"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_098_o3_use_routines_more_than_lectures",
          "text": "Use routines more than lectures"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_098_o4_allow_age_appropriate_privacy_and_choice",
          "text": "Allow age-appropriate privacy and choice"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_098_o1_make_the_easier_choice_available",
            "text": "Make the easier choice available"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_098_o2_model_the_habit_ourselves",
            "text": "Model the habit ourselves"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_098_o3_use_routines_more_than_lectures",
            "text": "Use routines more than lectures"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_098_o4_allow_age_appropriate_privacy_and_choice",
            "text": "Allow age-appropriate privacy and choice"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_099",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs tell us our family needs a slower week?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "rest",
        "family_health",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_099_o1_everyone_is_sleeping_poorly",
          "text": "Everyone is sleeping poorly"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_099_o2_small_problems_trigger_large_reactions",
          "text": "Small problems trigger large reactions"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_099_o3_meals_and_routines_are_repeatedly_skipped",
          "text": "Meals and routines are repeatedly skipped"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_099_o4_nobody_has_unplanned_time_to_recover",
          "text": "Nobody has unplanned time to recover"
        }
      ],
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        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_099_o1_everyone_is_sleeping_poorly",
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          },
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            "id": "parenting_099_o2_small_problems_trigger_large_reactions",
            "text": "Small problems trigger large reactions"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_099_o3_meals_and_routines_are_repeatedly_skipped",
            "text": "Meals and routines are repeatedly skipped"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_099_o4_nobody_has_unplanned_time_to_recover",
            "text": "Nobody has unplanned time to recover"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_100",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What matters most when we disagree about a health concern?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "health",
        "decisions",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_100_o1_reliable_professional_guidance",
          "text": "Reliable professional guidance"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_100_o2_the_child_s_immediate_safety",
          "text": "The child’s immediate safety"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_100_o3_a_clear_record_of_symptoms",
          "text": "A clear record of symptoms"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_100_o4_a_plan_for_when_to_seek_more_help",
          "text": "A plan for when to seek more help"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_100_o1_reliable_professional_guidance",
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          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_100_o2_the_child_s_immediate_safety",
            "text": "The child’s immediate safety"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_100_o3_a_clear_record_of_symptoms",
            "text": "A clear record of symptoms"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_100_o4_a_plan_for_when_to_seek_more_help",
            "text": "A plan for when to seek more help"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_101",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should guide our rules about screens and devices?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "technology",
        "rules",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_101_o1_sleep_and_school_needs",
          "text": "Sleep and school needs"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_101_o2_the_child_s_age_and_judgment",
          "text": "The child’s age and judgment"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_101_o3_what_the_device_is_being_used_for",
          "text": "What the device is being used for"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_101_o4_whether_the_rule_can_be_enforced_respectfully",
          "text": "Whether the rule can be enforced respectfully"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_101_o1_sleep_and_school_needs",
            "text": "Sleep and school needs"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_101_o2_the_child_s_age_and_judgment",
            "text": "The child’s age and judgment"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_101_o3_what_the_device_is_being_used_for",
            "text": "What the device is being used for"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_101_o4_whether_the_rule_can_be_enforced_respectfully",
            "text": "Whether the rule can be enforced respectfully"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_102",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which technology rule needs the clearest adult example?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "technology",
        "modeling",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_102_o1_phones_away_during_key_conversations",
          "text": "Phones away during key conversations"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_102_o2_no_posting_someone_without_permission",
          "text": "No posting someone without permission"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_102_o3_stopping_at_the_agreed_time",
          "text": "Stopping at the agreed time"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_102_o4_not_using_messages_to_insult_people",
          "text": "Not using messages to insult people"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_102_o1_phones_away_during_key_conversations",
            "text": "Phones away during key conversations"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_102_o2_no_posting_someone_without_permission",
            "text": "No posting someone without permission"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_102_o3_stopping_at_the_agreed_time",
            "text": "Stopping at the agreed time"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_102_o4_not_using_messages_to_insult_people",
            "text": "Not using messages to insult people"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_103",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps protect a child online without treating privacy like wrongdoing?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "online_safety",
        "privacy",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_103_o1_explain_what_adults_will_check_and_why",
          "text": "Explain what adults will check and why"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_103_o2_increase_freedom_as_judgment_grows",
          "text": "Increase freedom as judgment grows"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_103_o3_focus_on_safety_risks_rather_than_secret_searche",
          "text": "Focus on safety risks rather than secret searches"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_103_o4_keep_private_conversations_private_unless_safety",
          "text": "Keep private conversations private unless safety is at stake"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_103_o1_explain_what_adults_will_check_and_why",
            "text": "Explain what adults will check and why"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_103_o2_increase_freedom_as_judgment_grows",
            "text": "Increase freedom as judgment grows"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_103_o3_focus_on_safety_risks_rather_than_secret_searche",
            "text": "Focus on safety risks rather than secret searches"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_103_o4_keep_private_conversations_private_unless_safety",
            "text": "Keep private conversations private unless safety is at stake"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_104",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs show a child may be ready for more independence?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "independence",
        "readiness",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_104_o1_they_follow_through_without_repeated_reminders",
          "text": "They follow through without repeated reminders"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_104_o2_they_ask_for_help_when_a_situation_changes",
          "text": "They ask for help when a situation changes"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_104_o3_they_handle_small_mistakes_honestly",
          "text": "They handle small mistakes honestly"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_104_o4_they_respect_reasonable_limits_most_of_the_time",
          "text": "They respect reasonable limits most of the time"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_104_o1_they_follow_through_without_repeated_reminders",
            "text": "They follow through without repeated reminders"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_104_o2_they_ask_for_help_when_a_situation_changes",
            "text": "They ask for help when a situation changes"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_104_o3_they_handle_small_mistakes_honestly",
            "text": "They handle small mistakes honestly"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_104_o4_they_respect_reasonable_limits_most_of_the_time",
            "text": "They respect reasonable limits most of the time"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_105",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How aligned do our technology expectations feel?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "technology",
        "alignment",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not aligned",
        "max_label": "Very aligned"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_106",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What should a child understand before getting more privacy?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "privacy",
        "safety",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_106_o1_which_safety_concerns_require_adult_help",
          "text": "Which safety concerns require adult help"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_106_o2_how_to_protect_personal_information",
          "text": "How to protect personal information"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_106_o3_that_privacy_does_not_remove_accountability",
          "text": "That privacy does not remove accountability"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_106_o4_who_they_can_contact_when_something_feels_wrong",
          "text": "Who they can contact when something feels wrong"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_106_o1_which_safety_concerns_require_adult_help",
            "text": "Which safety concerns require adult help"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_106_o2_how_to_protect_personal_information",
            "text": "How to protect personal information"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_106_o3_that_privacy_does_not_remove_accountability",
            "text": "That privacy does not remove accountability"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_106_o4_who_they_can_contact_when_something_feels_wrong",
            "text": "Who they can contact when something feels wrong"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_107",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "For new online privileges, would you rather use an age guideline or a readiness check?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "online_privileges",
        "quick_choice",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_107_o1_an_age_guideline",
          "text": "An age guideline"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_107_o2_a_readiness_check",
          "text": "A readiness check"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_107_o1_an_age_guideline",
            "text": "An age guideline"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_107_o2_a_readiness_check",
            "text": "A readiness check"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_108",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps when one of us is more cautious about a new freedom?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "independence",
        "parent_alignment",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_108_o1_name_the_specific_risk_each_person_sees",
          "text": "Name the specific risk each person sees"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_108_o2_agree_on_a_trial_period",
          "text": "Agree on a trial period"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_108_o3_choose_clear_conditions_for_more_freedom",
          "text": "Choose clear conditions for more freedom"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_108_o4_review_what_happened_instead_of_arguing_predicti",
          "text": "Review what happened instead of arguing predictions"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_108_o1_name_the_specific_risk_each_person_sees",
            "text": "Name the specific risk each person sees"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_108_o2_agree_on_a_trial_period",
            "text": "Agree on a trial period"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_108_o3_choose_clear_conditions_for_more_freedom",
            "text": "Choose clear conditions for more freedom"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_108_o4_review_what_happened_instead_of_arguing_predicti",
            "text": "Review what happened instead of arguing predictions"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_109",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which family technology habits protect connection without demanding constant togetherness?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "technology",
        "connection",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_109_o1_device_free_meals_when_possible",
          "text": "Device-free meals when possible"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_109_o2_a_shared_charging_place_overnight",
          "text": "A shared charging place overnight"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_109_o3_knocking_before_entering_private_spaces",
          "text": "Knocking before entering private spaces"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_109_o4_letting_quiet_screen_time_count_as_downtime",
          "text": "Letting quiet screen time count as downtime"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_109_o1_device_free_meals_when_possible",
            "text": "Device-free meals when possible"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_109_o2_a_shared_charging_place_overnight",
            "text": "A shared charging place overnight"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_109_o3_knocking_before_entering_private_spaces",
            "text": "Knocking before entering private spaces"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_109_o4_letting_quiet_screen_time_count_as_downtime",
            "text": "Letting quiet screen time count as downtime"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_110",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one freedom you hope we can give our children with confidence?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "independence",
        "future",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_111",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which family traditions do you most want to pass on?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "traditions",
        "culture",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_111_o1_a_meaningful_holiday_practice",
          "text": "A meaningful holiday practice"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_111_o2_a_favorite_family_recipe",
          "text": "A favorite family recipe"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_111_o3_a_way_of_helping_neighbors",
          "text": "A way of helping neighbors"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_111_o4_stories_about_where_the_family_came_from",
          "text": "Stories about where the family came from"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_111_o1_a_meaningful_holiday_practice",
            "text": "A meaningful holiday practice"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_111_o2_a_favorite_family_recipe",
            "text": "A favorite family recipe"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_111_o3_a_way_of_helping_neighbors",
            "text": "A way of helping neighbors"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_111_o4_stories_about_where_the_family_came_from",
            "text": "Stories about where the family came from"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_112",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps visits with relatives feel supportive rather than exhausting?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "extended_family",
        "visits",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_112_o1_agreeing_on_the_length_beforehand",
          "text": "Agreeing on the length beforehand"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_112_o2_sharing_expectations_about_routines",
          "text": "Sharing expectations about routines"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_112_o3_having_a_polite_exit_plan",
          "text": "Having a polite exit plan"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_112_o4_leaving_recovery_time_afterward",
          "text": "Leaving recovery time afterward"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_112_o1_agreeing_on_the_length_beforehand",
            "text": "Agreeing on the length beforehand"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_112_o2_sharing_expectations_about_routines",
            "text": "Sharing expectations about routines"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_112_o3_having_a_polite_exit_plan",
            "text": "Having a polite exit plan"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_112_o4_leaving_recovery_time_afterward",
            "text": "Leaving recovery time afterward"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_113",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What matters most when relatives disagree with our parenting?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "extended_family",
        "boundaries",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_113_o1_we_speak_to_each_other_privately_first",
          "text": "We speak to each other privately first"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_113_o2_the_child_is_not_placed_in_the_middle",
          "text": "The child is not placed in the middle"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_113_o3_our_household_rules_remain_clear",
          "text": "Our household rules remain clear"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_113_o4_respect_is_expected_in_both_directions",
          "text": "Respect is expected in both directions"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_113_o1_we_speak_to_each_other_privately_first",
            "text": "We speak to each other privately first"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_113_o2_the_child_is_not_placed_in_the_middle",
            "text": "The child is not placed in the middle"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_113_o3_our_household_rules_remain_clear",
            "text": "Our household rules remain clear"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_113_o4_respect_is_expected_in_both_directions",
            "text": "Respect is expected in both directions"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_114",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which cultural lessons deserve more than a special occasion?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "culture",
        "identity",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_114_o1_language_used_by_older_relatives",
          "text": "Language used by older relatives"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_114_o2_family_history_and_migration_stories",
          "text": "Family history and migration stories"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_114_o3_music_food_or_art_from_the_culture",
          "text": "Music, food, or art from the culture"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_114_o4_how_the_family_understands_community_and_duty",
          "text": "How the family understands community and duty"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_114_o1_language_used_by_older_relatives",
            "text": "Language used by older relatives"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_114_o2_family_history_and_migration_stories",
            "text": "Family history and migration stories"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_114_o3_music_food_or_art_from_the_culture",
            "text": "Music, food, or art from the culture"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_114_o4_how_the_family_understands_community_and_duty",
            "text": "How the family understands community and duty"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_115",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which choices protect a child from adult family tension?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "extended_family",
        "child_protection",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_115_o1_do_not_use_the_child_as_a_messenger",
          "text": "Do not use the child as a messenger"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_115_o2_avoid_asking_the_child_to_take_sides",
          "text": "Avoid asking the child to take sides"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_115_o3_keep_adult_details_out_of_casual_conversation",
          "text": "Keep adult conflict details away from the child"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_115_o4_allow_affection_without_demanding_loyalty_perfor",
          "text": "Allow affection without asking the child to prove loyalty"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_115_o1_do_not_use_the_child_as_a_messenger",
            "text": "Do not use the child as a messenger"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_115_o2_avoid_asking_the_child_to_take_sides",
            "text": "Avoid asking the child to take sides"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_115_o3_keep_adult_details_out_of_casual_conversation",
            "text": "Keep adult conflict details away from the child"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_115_o4_allow_affection_without_demanding_loyalty_perfor",
            "text": "Allow affection without asking the child to prove loyalty"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_116",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How respected do our parenting choices feel around extended family?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "extended_family",
        "respect",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not respected",
        "max_label": "Fully respected"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_117",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What can we do when a relative ignores a parenting limit?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "boundaries",
        "extended_family",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_117_o1_restate_the_limit_directly",
          "text": "Restate the limit directly"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_117_o2_end_the_situation_if_safety_is_involved",
          "text": "End the situation if safety is involved"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_117_o3_discuss_the_pattern_privately_later",
          "text": "Discuss the pattern privately later"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_117_o4_reduce_access_if_the_behavior_continues",
          "text": "Limit contact when needed to protect the child"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_117_o1_restate_the_limit_directly",
            "text": "Restate the limit directly"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_117_o2_end_the_situation_if_safety_is_involved",
            "text": "End the situation if safety is involved"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_117_o3_discuss_the_pattern_privately_later",
            "text": "Discuss the pattern privately later"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_117_o4_reduce_access_if_the_behavior_continues",
            "text": "Limit contact when needed to protect the child"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_118",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps children belong to more than one family culture?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "culture",
        "belonging",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_118_o1_avoid_treating_one_side_as_the_default",
          "text": "Avoid treating one side as the default"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_118_o2_make_room_for_different_customs",
          "text": "Make room for different customs"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_118_o3_let_children_ask_honest_questions",
          "text": "Let children ask honest questions"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_118_o4_do_not_force_them_to_prove_loyalty",
          "text": "Do not force them to prove loyalty"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_118_o1_avoid_treating_one_side_as_the_default",
            "text": "Avoid treating one side as the default"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_118_o2_make_room_for_different_customs",
            "text": "Make room for different customs"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_118_o3_let_children_ask_honest_questions",
            "text": "Let children ask honest questions"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_118_o4_do_not_force_them_to_prove_loyalty",
            "text": "Do not force them to prove loyalty"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_119",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "Would you rather explain a family rule before a visit or address it only if needed?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "extended_family",
        "quick_choice",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_119_o1_explain_it_before_the_visit",
          "text": "Explain it before the visit"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_119_o2_address_it_only_if_needed",
          "text": "Address it only if needed"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_119_o1_explain_it_before_the_visit",
            "text": "Explain it before the visit"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_119_o2_address_it_only_if_needed",
            "text": "Address it only if needed"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_120",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which traditions are worth changing when they no longer fit our family?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "traditions",
        "change",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_120_o1_customs_that_depend_on_shame",
          "text": "Customs that depend on shame"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_120_o2_rituals_that_overwhelm_the_household",
          "text": "Rituals that overwhelm the household"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_120_o3_expectations_that_exclude_part_of_the_family",
          "text": "Expectations that exclude part of the family"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_120_o4_practices_the_children_cannot_safely_participate",
          "text": "Practices the children cannot safely participate in"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_120_o1_customs_that_depend_on_shame",
            "text": "Customs that depend on shame"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_120_o2_rituals_that_overwhelm_the_household",
            "text": "Rituals that overwhelm the household"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_120_o3_expectations_that_exclude_part_of_the_family",
            "text": "Expectations that exclude part of the family"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_120_o4_practices_the_children_cannot_safely_participate",
            "text": "Practices the children cannot safely participate in"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_121",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us feel like partners when most conversations are about the children?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_connection",
        "parenting_load",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_121_o1_a_greeting_that_is_not_a_task_update",
          "text": "A greeting that is not a task update"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_121_o2_ten_minutes_without_logistics",
          "text": "Ten minutes without logistics"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_121_o3_asking_about_each_other_s_day",
          "text": "Asking about each other’s day"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_121_o4_making_one_plan_that_is_only_for_us",
          "text": "Making one plan that is only for us"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_121_o1_a_greeting_that_is_not_a_task_update",
            "text": "A greeting that is not a task update"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_121_o2_ten_minutes_without_logistics",
            "text": "Ten minutes without logistics"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_121_o3_asking_about_each_other_s_day",
            "text": "Asking about each other’s day"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_121_o4_making_one_plan_that_is_only_for_us",
            "text": "Making one plan that is only for us"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_122",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which kind of couple time is most realistic in a busy parenting week?",
      "depth": 1,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_time",
        "realistic_plans",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_122_o1_a_quiet_drink_after_bedtime",
          "text": "A quiet drink after bedtime"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_122_o2_a_short_walk_together",
          "text": "A short walk together"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_122_o3_a_shared_show_with_phones_down",
          "text": "A shared show with phones down"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_122_o4_breakfast_before_the_day_starts",
          "text": "Breakfast before the day starts"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_122_o1_a_quiet_drink_after_bedtime",
            "text": "A quiet drink after bedtime"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_122_o2_a_short_walk_together",
            "text": "A short walk together"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_122_o3_a_shared_show_with_phones_down",
            "text": "A shared show with phones down"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_122_o4_breakfast_before_the_day_starts",
            "text": "Breakfast before the day starts"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_123",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What makes affection feel supportive rather than like another demand?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "affection",
        "consent",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_123_o1_it_can_be_declined_without_punishment",
          "text": "It can be declined without punishment"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_123_o2_it_is_not_used_to_avoid_a_serious_issue",
          "text": "It is not used to avoid a serious issue"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_123_o3_the_timing_considers_exhaustion",
          "text": "The timing considers exhaustion"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_123_o4_it_includes_small_nonsexual_gestures",
          "text": "It includes small nonsexual gestures"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_123_o1_it_can_be_declined_without_punishment",
            "text": "It can be declined without punishment"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_123_o2_it_is_not_used_to_avoid_a_serious_issue",
            "text": "It is not used to avoid a serious issue"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_123_o3_the_timing_considers_exhaustion",
            "text": "The timing considers exhaustion"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_123_o4_it_includes_small_nonsexual_gestures",
            "text": "It includes small nonsexual gestures"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_124",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs suggest parenting logistics are crowding out the relationship?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_identity",
        "warning_signs",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_124_o1_every_conversation_becomes_a_task_list",
          "text": "Every conversation becomes a task list"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_124_o2_touch_happens_only_during_handoffs",
          "text": "Touch happens only during handoffs"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_124_o3_resentment_builds_around_personal_time",
          "text": "Resentment builds around personal time"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_124_o4_we_stop_sharing_news_that_is_not_about_the_child",
          "text": "We stop sharing news that is not about the children"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_124_o1_every_conversation_becomes_a_task_list",
            "text": "Every conversation becomes a task list"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_124_o2_touch_happens_only_during_handoffs",
            "text": "Touch happens only during handoffs"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_124_o3_resentment_builds_around_personal_time",
            "text": "Resentment builds around personal time"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_124_o4_we_stop_sharing_news_that_is_not_about_the_child",
            "text": "We stop sharing news that is not about the children"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_125",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How connected do you feel to me outside our parenting roles?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_identity",
        "connection",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not very connected",
        "max_label": "Very connected"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_126",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can we protect couple time without making children responsible for our closeness?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_time",
        "boundaries",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_126_o1_adults_arrange_the_logistics",
          "text": "Adults arrange the logistics"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_126_o2_children_are_not_blamed_when_plans_change",
          "text": "Children are not blamed when plans change"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_126_o3_the_time_is_age_appropriate_and_safe",
          "text": "Choose plans that fit the children’s age and safety needs"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_126_o4_connection_also_happens_in_small_ordinary_moment",
          "text": "Connection also happens in small ordinary moments"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_126_o1_adults_arrange_the_logistics",
            "text": "Adults arrange the logistics"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_126_o2_children_are_not_blamed_when_plans_change",
            "text": "Children are not blamed when plans change"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_126_o3_the_time_is_age_appropriate_and_safe",
            "text": "Choose plans that fit the children’s age and safety needs"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_126_o4_connection_also_happens_in_small_ordinary_moment",
            "text": "Connection also happens in small ordinary moments"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_127",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "this_or_that",
      "text": "For couple time, would you rather protect a weekly ritual or use openings as they appear?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "couple_time",
        "quick_choice",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_127_o1_protect_a_weekly_ritual",
          "text": "Protect a weekly ritual"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_127_o2_use_openings_as_they_appear",
          "text": "Use openings as they appear"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_127_o1_protect_a_weekly_ritual",
            "text": "Protect a weekly ritual"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_127_o2_use_openings_as_they_appear",
            "text": "Use openings as they appear"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_128",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What would help us notice each other’s effort during demanding parenting weeks?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "appreciation",
        "parenting_load",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_128_o1_thank_the_specific_task",
          "text": "Thank the specific task"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_128_o2_acknowledge_emotional_labor",
          "text": "Acknowledge emotional labor"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_128_o3_notice_when_one_person_changed_plans",
          "text": "Notice when one person changed plans"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_128_o4_say_what_the_help_allowed_us_to_do",
          "text": "Say what the help allowed us to do"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_128_o1_thank_the_specific_task",
            "text": "Thank the specific task"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_128_o2_acknowledge_emotional_labor",
            "text": "Acknowledge emotional labor"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_128_o3_notice_when_one_person_changed_plans",
            "text": "Notice when one person changed plans"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_128_o4_say_what_the_help_allowed_us_to_do",
            "text": "Say what the help allowed us to do"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_129",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parts of ourselves deserve attention beyond being parents?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "identity",
        "balance",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_129_o1_friendships_that_restore_us",
          "text": "Friendships that restore us"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_129_o2_interests_that_belong_to_each_person",
          "text": "Interests that belong to each person"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_129_o3_goals_unrelated_to_the_household",
          "text": "Goals unrelated to the household"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_129_o4_time_alone_without_guilt",
          "text": "Time alone without guilt"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_129_o1_friendships_that_restore_us",
            "text": "Friendships that restore us"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_129_o2_interests_that_belong_to_each_person",
            "text": "Interests that belong to each person"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_129_o3_goals_unrelated_to_the_household",
            "text": "Goals unrelated to the household"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_129_o4_time_alone_without_guilt",
            "text": "Time alone without guilt"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_130",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What kind of check-in would feel least like another responsibility?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "check_in",
        "couple_connection",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_130_o1_one_honest_question_before_sleep",
          "text": "One honest question before sleep"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_130_o2_a_voice_note_during_the_day",
          "text": "A voice note during the day"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_130_o3_a_short_talk_during_a_drive",
          "text": "A short talk during a drive"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_130_o4_a_weekly_coffee_without_an_agenda",
          "text": "A weekly coffee without an agenda"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_130_o1_one_honest_question_before_sleep",
            "text": "One honest question before sleep"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_130_o2_a_voice_note_during_the_day",
            "text": "A voice note during the day"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_130_o3_a_short_talk_during_a_drive",
            "text": "A short talk during a drive"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_130_o4_a_weekly_coffee_without_an_agenda",
            "text": "A weekly coffee without an agenda"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_131",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps children adjust when family routines change?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "transitions",
        "routines",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_131_o1_explain_what_will_stay_the_same",
          "text": "Explain what will stay the same"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_131_o2_give_notice_when_possible",
          "text": "Give notice when possible"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_131_o3_keep_one_familiar_comfort_available",
          "text": "Keep one familiar comfort available"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_131_o4_expect_mixed_reactions_without_punishment",
          "text": "Expect mixed reactions without punishment"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_131_o1_explain_what_will_stay_the_same",
            "text": "Explain what will stay the same"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_131_o2_give_notice_when_possible",
            "text": "Give notice when possible"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_131_o3_keep_one_familiar_comfort_available",
            "text": "Keep one familiar comfort available"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_131_o4_expect_mixed_reactions_without_punishment",
            "text": "Expect mixed reactions without punishment"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_132",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What matters most when parenting happens across more than one household?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "multiple_households",
        "coparenting",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_132_o1_the_child_is_not_used_as_a_messenger",
          "text": "The child is not used as a messenger"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_132_o2_important_information_travels_directly_between_a",
          "text": "Important information travels directly between adults"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_132_o3_rules_are_clear_enough_in_each_home",
          "text": "Rules are clear enough in each home"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_132_o4_the_child_is_not_asked_to_rank_the_households",
          "text": "The child is not asked to rank the households"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_132_o1_the_child_is_not_used_as_a_messenger",
            "text": "The child is not used as a messenger"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_132_o2_important_information_travels_directly_between_a",
            "text": "Important information travels directly between adults"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_132_o3_rules_are_clear_enough_in_each_home",
            "text": "Rules are clear enough in each home"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_132_o4_the_child_is_not_asked_to_rank_the_households",
            "text": "The child is not asked to rank the households"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_133",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which topics need extra clarity before a major family transition?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "transitions",
        "planning",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_133_o1_where_the_child_will_sleep_and_keep_belongings",
          "text": "Where the child will sleep and keep belongings"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_133_o2_how_schedules_and_transportation_will_work",
          "text": "How schedules and transportation will work"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_133_o3_what_adults_will_say_about_the_change",
          "text": "What adults will say about the change"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_133_o4_who_handles_school_and_health_updates",
          "text": "Who handles school and health updates"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_133_o1_where_the_child_will_sleep_and_keep_belongings",
            "text": "Where the child will sleep and keep belongings"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_133_o2_how_schedules_and_transportation_will_work",
            "text": "How schedules and transportation will work"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_133_o3_what_adults_will_say_about_the_change",
            "text": "What adults will say about the change"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_133_o4_who_handles_school_and_health_updates",
            "text": "Who handles school and health updates"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_134",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How prepared do we feel for the next family transition?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "transitions",
        "readiness",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not prepared",
        "max_label": "Very prepared"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_135",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps a stepparent or newer caregiver build trust without rushing authority?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "blended_family",
        "trust",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_135_o1_let_the_relationship_grow_through_ordinary_time",
          "text": "Let the relationship grow through ordinary time"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_135_o2_keep_discipline_expectations_clear_between_adult",
          "text": "Keep discipline expectations clear between adults"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_135_o3_respect_the_child_s_existing_attachments",
          "text": "Respect the child’s existing attachments"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_135_o4_avoid_demanding_a_title_or_level_of_affection",
          "text": "Avoid demanding a title or level of affection"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_135_o1_let_the_relationship_grow_through_ordinary_time",
            "text": "Let the relationship grow through ordinary time"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_135_o2_keep_discipline_expectations_clear_between_adult",
            "text": "Keep discipline expectations clear between adults"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_135_o3_respect_the_child_s_existing_attachments",
            "text": "Respect the child’s existing attachments"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_135_o4_avoid_demanding_a_title_or_level_of_affection",
            "text": "Avoid demanding a title or level of affection"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_136",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which adult should address a conflict involving their relative first?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "extended_family",
        "responsibility",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_136_o1_the_adult_connected_to_that_relative",
          "text": "The adult connected to that relative"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_136_o2_whichever_adult_witnessed_it",
          "text": "Whichever adult witnessed it"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_136_o3_both_adults_together",
          "text": "Both adults together"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_136_o4_the_person_who_can_do_it_most_calmly",
          "text": "The person who can do it most calmly"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_136_o1_the_adult_connected_to_that_relative",
            "text": "The adult connected to that relative"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_136_o2_whichever_adult_witnessed_it",
            "text": "Whichever adult witnessed it"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_136_o3_both_adults_together",
            "text": "Both adults together"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_136_o4_the_person_who_can_do_it_most_calmly",
            "text": "The person who can do it most calmly"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_137",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What keeps schedule changes from becoming a loyalty test for a child?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "schedules",
        "child_wellbeing",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_137_o1_discuss_adult_frustration_away_from_the_child",
          "text": "Discuss adult frustration away from the child"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_137_o2_present_the_plan_without_blaming_another_househo",
          "text": "Present the plan without blaming another household"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_137_o3_allow_the_child_to_miss_people_openly",
          "text": "Allow the child to miss people openly"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_137_o4_keep_promises_about_contact_whenever_possible",
          "text": "Keep promises about contact whenever possible"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_137_o1_discuss_adult_frustration_away_from_the_child",
            "text": "Discuss adult frustration away from the child"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_137_o2_present_the_plan_without_blaming_another_househo",
            "text": "Present the plan without blaming another household"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_137_o3_allow_the_child_to_miss_people_openly",
            "text": "Allow the child to miss people openly"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_137_o4_keep_promises_about_contact_whenever_possible",
            "text": "Keep promises about contact whenever possible"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_138",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What is the best way to introduce a new household rule?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "rules",
        "transitions",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_138_o1_explain_the_reason_in_plain_language",
          "text": "Explain the reason in plain language"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_138_o2_give_a_short_adjustment_period",
          "text": "Give a short adjustment period"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_138_o3_show_what_the_rule_looks_like",
          "text": "Show what the rule looks like"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_138_o4_review_it_after_everyone_has_tried_it",
          "text": "Review it after everyone has tried it"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_138_o1_explain_the_reason_in_plain_language",
            "text": "Explain the reason in plain language"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_138_o2_give_a_short_adjustment_period",
            "text": "Give a short adjustment period"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_138_o3_show_what_the_rule_looks_like",
            "text": "Show what the rule looks like"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_138_o4_review_it_after_everyone_has_tried_it",
            "text": "Review it after everyone has tried it"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_139",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which signs show a family transition needs more support?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "transitions",
        "support",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_139_o1_a_child_s_daily_functioning_changes_for_weeks",
          "text": "A child stays unusually withdrawn or distressed"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_139_o2_adults_cannot_discuss_logistics_without_escalati",
          "text": "Adults cannot discuss logistics without escalation"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_139_o3_school_or_sleep_problems_keep_growing",
          "text": "School or sleep problems keep growing"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_139_o4_nobody_knows_what_information_the_child_has_been",
          "text": "Nobody knows what information the child has been given"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_139_o1_a_child_s_daily_functioning_changes_for_weeks",
            "text": "A child stays unusually withdrawn or distressed"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_139_o2_adults_cannot_discuss_logistics_without_escalati",
            "text": "Adults cannot discuss logistics without escalation"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_139_o3_school_or_sleep_problems_keep_growing",
            "text": "School or sleep problems keep growing"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_139_o4_nobody_knows_what_information_the_child_has_been",
            "text": "Nobody knows what information the child has been given"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_140",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "written",
      "text": "What is one family change you want us to handle with extra care?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "transitions",
        "reflection",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "max_length": 500
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_141",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What helps us repair with a child after we handled a moment poorly?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "repair",
        "accountability",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_141_o1_name_what_we_did_without_excuses",
          "text": "Name what we did without excuses"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_141_o2_apologize_in_age_appropriate_language",
          "text": "Apologize in age-appropriate language"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_141_o3_restate_the_limit_without_defending_the_tone",
          "text": "Restate the limit without defending the tone"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_141_o4_show_the_change_the_next_time",
          "text": "Show the change the next time"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_141_o1_name_what_we_did_without_excuses",
            "text": "Name what we did without excuses"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_141_o2_apologize_in_age_appropriate_language",
            "text": "Apologize in age-appropriate language"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_141_o3_restate_the_limit_without_defending_the_tone",
            "text": "Restate the limit without defending the tone"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_141_o4_show_the_change_the_next_time",
            "text": "Show the change the next time"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_142",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "Which sign most clearly shows that a parenting plan needs to change?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "adaptation",
        "planning",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_142_o1_it_repeatedly_harms_connection_or_safety",
          "text": "It repeatedly harms connection or safety"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_142_o2_nobody_can_follow_it_consistently",
          "text": "Nobody can follow it consistently"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_142_o3_the_child_has_clearly_outgrown_it",
          "text": "The child has clearly outgrown it"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_142_o4_reliable_new_information_changes_the_decision",
          "text": "Reliable new information changes the decision"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_142_o1_it_repeatedly_harms_connection_or_safety",
            "text": "It repeatedly harms connection or safety"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_142_o2_nobody_can_follow_it_consistently",
            "text": "Nobody can follow it consistently"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_142_o3_the_child_has_clearly_outgrown_it",
            "text": "The child has clearly outgrown it"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_142_o4_reliable_new_information_changes_the_decision",
            "text": "Reliable new information changes the decision"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_143",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parenting lessons do we want to carry into the next stage?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "growth",
        "future",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_143_o1_connection_matters_during_limits",
          "text": "Connection matters during limits"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_143_o2_clear_routines_reduce_unnecessary_conflict",
          "text": "Clear routines reduce unnecessary conflict"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_143_o3_children_need_growing_independence",
          "text": "Children need growing independence"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_143_o4_parents_are_allowed_to_learn_and_change",
          "text": "Parents are allowed to learn and change"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_143_o1_connection_matters_during_limits",
            "text": "Connection matters during limits"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_143_o2_clear_routines_reduce_unnecessary_conflict",
            "text": "Clear routines reduce unnecessary conflict"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_143_o3_children_need_growing_independence",
            "text": "Children need growing independence"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_143_o4_parents_are_allowed_to_learn_and_change",
            "text": "Parents are allowed to learn and change"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_144",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What would help us prepare for a parenting stage we have not reached yet?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "future",
        "preparation",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_144_o1_learn_what_development_usually_looks_like",
          "text": "Learn what development usually looks like"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_144_o2_talk_with_families_we_trust",
          "text": "Talk with families we trust"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_144_o3_discuss_our_nonnegotiable_safety_values",
          "text": "Discuss our nonnegotiable safety values"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_144_o4_leave_room_to_revise_the_plan_later",
          "text": "Leave room to revise the plan later"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_144_o1_learn_what_development_usually_looks_like",
            "text": "Learn what development usually looks like"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_144_o2_talk_with_families_we_trust",
            "text": "Talk with families we trust"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_144_o3_discuss_our_nonnegotiable_safety_values",
            "text": "Discuss our nonnegotiable safety values"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_144_o4_leave_room_to_revise_the_plan_later",
            "text": "Leave room to revise the plan later"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_145",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "scale",
      "text": "How hopeful are you that we can become a stronger parenting team?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "hope",
        "teamwork",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "min": 1,
        "max": 5,
        "min_label": "Not hopeful",
        "max_label": "Very hopeful"
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_146",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "What would show that our parenting approach is working better?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "growth",
        "healthy_patterns",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_146_o1_we_correct_course_without_hiding_mistakes",
          "text": "We correct course without hiding mistakes"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_146_o2_the_children_can_ask_questions_safely",
          "text": "The children can ask questions safely"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_146_o3_rules_become_clearer_rather_than_harsher",
          "text": "Rules become clearer rather than harsher"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_146_o4_both_parents_have_room_to_rest_and_contribute",
          "text": "Both parents have room to rest and contribute"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_146_o1_we_correct_course_without_hiding_mistakes",
            "text": "We correct course without hiding mistakes"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_146_o2_the_children_can_ask_questions_safely",
            "text": "The children can ask questions safely"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_146_o3_rules_become_clearer_rather_than_harsher",
            "text": "Rules become clearer rather than harsher"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_146_o4_both_parents_have_room_to_rest_and_contribute",
            "text": "Both parents have room to rest and contribute"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_147",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "single_choice",
      "text": "What should we remember when our child makes a choice we would not make?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "autonomy",
        "perspective",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_147_o1_guidance_is_not_ownership",
          "text": "Guidance is not ownership"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_147_o2_age_and_safety_still_matter",
          "text": "Age and safety still matter"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_147_o3_disappointment_does_not_require_rejection",
          "text": "Disappointment does not require rejection"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_147_o4_a_child_can_learn_without_agreeing_with_us",
          "text": "A child can learn without agreeing with us"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_147_o1_guidance_is_not_ownership",
            "text": "Guidance is not ownership"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_147_o2_age_and_safety_still_matter",
            "text": "Age and safety still matter"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_147_o3_disappointment_does_not_require_rejection",
            "text": "Disappointment does not require rejection"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_147_o4_a_child_can_learn_without_agreeing_with_us",
            "text": "A child can learn without agreeing with us"
          }
        ]
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_148",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "How can we keep fear from making every future decision for us?",
      "depth": 3,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "fear",
        "future_decisions",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_148_o1_separate_likely_risks_from_imagined_ones",
          "text": "Separate likely risks from imagined ones"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_148_o2_use_reliable_information",
          "text": "Use reliable information"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_148_o3_choose_safeguards_that_preserve_some_freedom",
          "text": "Choose safeguards that preserve some freedom"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_148_o4_review_decisions_as_the_child_grows",
          "text": "Review decisions as the child grows"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_148_o1_separate_likely_risks_from_imagined_ones",
            "text": "Separate likely risks from imagined ones"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_148_o2_use_reliable_information",
            "text": "Use reliable information"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_148_o3_choose_safeguards_that_preserve_some_freedom",
            "text": "Choose safeguards that preserve some freedom"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_148_o4_review_decisions_as_the_child_grows",
            "text": "Review decisions as the child grows"
          }
        ],
        "min_selections": 1,
        "max_selections": 2
      }
    },
    {
      "id": "parenting_149",
      "category_id": "parenting",
      "type": "multi_choice",
      "text": "Which parenting goals are worth revisiting every year?",
      "depth": 2,
      "access": "premium",
      "tags": [
        "goals",
        "annual_review",
        "parenting"
      ],
      "options": [
        {
          "id": "parenting_149_o1_how_responsibilities_are_divided",
          "text": "How responsibilities are divided"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_149_o2_what_independence_fits_each_child",
          "text": "What independence fits each child"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_149_o3_which_routines_still_help",
          "text": "Which routines still help"
        },
        {
          "id": "parenting_149_o4_how_we_protect_the_couple_relationship",
          "text": "How we protect the couple relationship"
        }
      ],
      "answer_config": {
        "options": [
          {
            "id": "parenting_149_o1_how_responsibilities_are_divided",
            "text": "How responsibilities are divided"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_149_o2_what_independence_fits_each_child",
            "text": "What independence fits each child"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_149_o3_which_routines_still_help",
            "text": "Which routines still help"
          },
          {
            "id": "parenting_149_o4_how_we_protect_the_couple_relationship",
            "text": "How we protect the couple relationship"
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