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{
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"category" : {
"id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"display_name" : "Couple Intimacy" ,
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"description" : "Warm, adult, consent-first questions about affection, desire, emotional closeness, privacy, feedback, aftercare, play, and growing intimacy together." ,
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"access" : "mixed" ,
"icon_name" : "favorite" ,
"schema_version" : "question_v2" ,
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"total_questions" : 300 ,
"free_questions" : 60 ,
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"type_counts" : {
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"written" : 12 ,
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"single_choice" : 60 ,
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"multi_choice" : 168 ,
"scale" : 42 ,
"this_or_that" : 18
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} ,
"sex_counts" : {
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"neutral" : 300 ,
"female" : 0 ,
"male" : 0
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} ,
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"content_version" : "couple_intimacy_v4_strict_guide_pass" ,
"batch_size" : 10 ,
"review_policy" : "30 batches of 10 with cumulative repetition, consent, option-fit, premium-value, and related-pack checks" ,
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"mass_rewrite_exception" : {
"used" : true ,
"reason" : "The source pack had a shared root failure across more than 60% of the content: 180 written prompts, repeated template blocks, and basic preferences that did not earn typed responses." ,
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"300 total questions" ,
"IDs couple_intimacy_001 through couple_intimacy_300" ,
"60 free / 240 premium" ,
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"question_v2 schema"
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} ,
"type_distribution_note" : "This 300-question special pack scales the standard v6 type ratio to 168 multi-choice, 60 single-choice, 42 scale, 18 this-or-that, and 12 written." ,
"content_scope" : "Shared couple intimacy: mutual affection, desire, consent, communication, privacy, aftercare, repair, play, and long-term closeness. It avoids unnecessary gender targeting and keeps all questions neutral." ,
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"final_review_note" : "A stricter repo-based review used 30 batches of 10 and patched consent baselines, option fit, related-pack overlap, natural-language issues, premium value, and depth balance while preserving passing questions." ,
"depth_compatibility_note" : "Numeric depth values are retained for the active seed/import contract: 1– 2 light, 3 medium, and 4– 5 deep." ,
"strict_review_note" : "A stricter repo-based pass patched automatic-reject phrasing, consent baselines, prompt-option mismatches, related-pack overlap, and unnatural wording while preserving passing questions." ,
"depth_counts" : {
"1" : 4 ,
"2" : 121 ,
"3" : 115 ,
"4" : 15 ,
"5" : 45
} ,
"depth_balance_note" : "Final guide-aligned balance: 125 light (depth 1– 2), 115 medium (depth 3), and 60 deep (depth 4– 5), matching the sensitive-pack target range."
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}
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} ,
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{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which ordinary moments make you feel most like a couple?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
"everyday_affection" ,
"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sharing_the_first_few_minutes_home" ,
"text" : "Sharing the first few minutes home"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "laughing_over_something_only_we_understand" ,
"text" : "Laughing over something only we understand"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_each_other_over_our_phones" ,
"text" : "Choosing each other over our phones"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "turning_a_task_into_time_together" ,
"text" : "Turning a task into time together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "checking_in_before_the_day_ends" ,
"text" : "Checking in before the day ends"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_001" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Pick the small morning ritual that would help us feel like a couple before the day starts." ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"tags" : [
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"morning_affection" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "share_coffee_without_phones" ,
"text" : "Share coffee without phones"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "trade_one_warm_compliment" ,
"text" : "Trade one warm compliment"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "pick_a_song_for_the_morning" ,
"text" : "Pick a song for the morning"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "check_in_before_the_day_starts" ,
"text" : "Check in before the day starts"
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}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_002" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "When we reunite after work, what helps us reconnect?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"reunion" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "put_everything_down_and_say_hello" ,
"text" : "Put everything down and say hello"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "trade_the_best_part_of_the_day" ,
"text" : "Trade the best part of the day"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "take_five_quiet_minutes_together" ,
"text" : "Take five quiet minutes together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "make_each_other_laugh" ,
"text" : "Make each other laugh"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "say_what_we_missed" ,
"text" : "Say what we missed"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_003" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How connected do our small daily rituals make you feel?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
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"casual_touch" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Not very connected" ,
"max_label" : "Very connected"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_004" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes shared quiet feel intimate instead of distant?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"shared_space" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "choosing_to_be_together" ,
"text" : "Choosing to be together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "putting_phones_away" ,
"text" : "Putting phones away"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "easy_eye_contact" ,
"text" : "Easy eye contact"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "comfortable_silence" ,
"text" : "Comfortable silence"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "knowing_conversation_can_wait" ,
"text" : "Knowing conversation can wait"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_005" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Pick the small romantic gesture that feels most like us." ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"romantic_touch" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_private_note" ,
"text" : "A private note"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_song_sent_at_the_right_moment" ,
"text" : "A song sent at the right moment"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "saving_a_favorite_treat" ,
"text" : "Saving a favorite treat"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_sincere_compliment" ,
"text" : "A sincere compliment"
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}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_006" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What small gestures help us stay connected during a busy day?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"busy_day" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
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"id" : "a_flirty_message" ,
"text" : "A flirty message"
} ,
{
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"id" : "a_thoughtful_check_in" ,
"text" : "A thoughtful check-in"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "sharing_a_tiny_win" ,
"text" : "Sharing a tiny win"
} ,
{
"id" : "sending_something_funny" ,
"text" : "Sending something funny"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "making_a_simple_plan_for_later" ,
"text" : "Making a simple plan for later"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_007" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which bedtime habits help us feel like a couple?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
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"bedtime" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "talking_for_a_few_minutes" ,
"text" : "Talking for a few minutes"
} ,
{
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"id" : "sharing_one_good_thing" ,
"text" : "Sharing one good thing"
} ,
{
"id" : "putting_phones_away" ,
"text" : "Putting phones away"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "planning_something_small" ,
"text" : "Planning something small"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "saying_goodnight_with_intention" ,
"text" : "Saying goodnight with intention"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_008" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
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"type" : "written" ,
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"text" : "What small couple ritual from our earlier days would you love to bring back?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
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"affection_memory" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"max_length" : 400
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_009" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes a reunion moment feel especially like us?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"hugs" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "we_stop_and_notice_each_other" ,
"text" : "We stop and notice each other"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_trade_a_private_joke" ,
"text" : "We trade a private joke"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_share_what_we_missed" ,
"text" : "We share what we missed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_do_not_rush_past_it" ,
"text" : "We do not rush past it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_fits_the_day_we_had" ,
"text" : "It fits the day we had"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_010" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Pick the welcome-home moment that would feel sweetest." ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
"tags" : [
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"surprise_kiss" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_full_attention_hello" ,
"text" : "A full-attention hello"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_few_quiet_minutes" ,
"text" : "A few quiet minutes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_playful_recap_of_the_day" ,
"text" : "A playful recap of the day"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "making_a_plan_for_the_evening" ,
"text" : "Making a plan for the evening"
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}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_011" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What keeps romantic attention warm without becoming automatic?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
"tags" : [
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"intentional_affection" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "changing_the_timing" ,
"text" : "Changing the timing"
} ,
{
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"id" : "being_specific" ,
"text" : "Being specific"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "noticing_the_other_person_s_mood" ,
"text" : "Noticing the other person’ s mood"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_it_instead_of_assuming_it" ,
"text" : "Choosing it instead of assuming it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keeping_pressure_out_of_it" ,
"text" : "Keeping pressure out of it"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_012" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How connected do our everyday couple rituals feel lately?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"affection_check" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not very connected" ,
"max_label" : "Very connected"
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_013" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which ordinary moments could use more couple attention?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
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"daily_moments" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "morning_routines" ,
"text" : "Morning routines"
} ,
{
"id" : "coming_home" ,
"text" : "Coming home"
} ,
{
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"id" : "meals_together" ,
"text" : "Meals together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "screen_time" ,
"text" : "Screen time"
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} ,
{
"id" : "getting_ready_for_bed" ,
"text" : "Getting ready for bed"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_014" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps closeness feel satisfying even when sex is not the goal?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"nonsexual_affection" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "time_without_pressure" ,
"text" : "Time without pressure"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "feeling_chosen" ,
"text" : "Feeling chosen"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "honest_conversation" ,
"text" : "Honest conversation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "shared_laughter" ,
"text" : "Shared laughter"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "ending_warmly" ,
"text" : "Ending warmly"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_015" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which playful energy makes affection more fun?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"playfulness" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "private_jokes" ,
"text" : "Private jokes"
} ,
{
"id" : "playful_challenges" ,
"text" : "Playful challenges"
} ,
{
"id" : "silly_compliments" ,
"text" : "Silly compliments"
} ,
{
"id" : "unexpected_dancing" ,
"text" : "Unexpected dancing"
} ,
{
"id" : "teasing_that_stays_kind" ,
"text" : "Teasing that stays kind"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_016" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Pick the flirty signal that feels most naturally ours." ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"flirting" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_knowing_look" ,
"text" : "A knowing look"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_bold_compliment" ,
"text" : "A bold compliment"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_playful_text" ,
"text" : "A playful text"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_slow_kiss_in_passing" ,
"text" : "A slow kiss in passing"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_017" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When does teasing feel exciting instead of annoying?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"teasing" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "good_timing" ,
"text" : "Good timing"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_warm_tone" ,
"text" : "A warm tone"
} ,
{
"id" : "knowing_when_to_stop" ,
"text" : "Knowing when to stop"
} ,
{
"id" : "flirting_back_and_forth" ,
"text" : "Flirting back and forth"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_embarrassing_audience" ,
"text" : "No embarrassing audience"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_018" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How playful does our affection feel right now?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"playful_affection" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not very playful" ,
"max_label" : "Very playful"
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_019" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What tiny games could make private time more fun?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"private_games" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "take_turns_choosing_music" ,
"text" : "Take turns choosing music"
} ,
{
"id" : "trade_specific_compliments" ,
"text" : "Trade specific compliments"
} ,
{
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"id" : "guess_each_other_s_favorite_compliment" ,
"text" : "Guess each other's favorite compliment"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_a_cozy_spot_together" ,
"text" : "Choose a cozy spot together"
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} ,
{
"id" : "create_a_private_signal" ,
"text" : "Create a private signal"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_020" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What kind of laughter feels most natural during intimate moments?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"laughter" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "soft_giggles" ,
"text" : "Soft giggles"
} ,
{
"id" : "big_shared_laughs" ,
"text" : "Big shared laughs"
} ,
{
"id" : "laughing_through_an_awkward_moment" ,
"text" : "Laughing through an awkward moment"
} ,
{
"id" : "very_little_unless_it_happens_naturally" ,
"text" : "Very little unless it happens naturally"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_021" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which flirty messages would brighten your day?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
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"flirty_messages" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_specific_compliment" ,
"text" : "A specific compliment"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_memory_of_last_night" ,
"text" : "A memory of last night"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_simple_i_want_you" ,
"text" : "A simple 'I want you'"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_playful_invitation" ,
"text" : "A playful invitation"
} ,
{
"id" : "an_inside_joke_with_a_hint" ,
"text" : "An inside joke with a hint"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_022" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps a private game stay comfortable?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"game_safety" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "skipping_is_always_allowed" ,
"text" : "Skipping is always allowed"
} ,
{
"id" : "rules_are_clear_first" ,
"text" : "Rules are clear first"
} ,
{
"id" : "either_person_can_pause" ,
"text" : "Either person can pause"
} ,
{
"id" : "the_mood_stays_kind" ,
"text" : "The mood stays kind"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_surprise_escalation" ,
"text" : "No surprise escalation"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_023" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
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"type" : "written" ,
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"text" : "What is one playful thing we have done that you would gladly repeat?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"playful_memory" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"max_length" : 400
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_024" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which forms of anticipation feel fun to you?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"anticipation" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_flirty_text" ,
"text" : "A flirty text"
} ,
{
"id" : "knowing_looks_across_a_room" ,
"text" : "Knowing looks across a room"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_planned_private_night" ,
"text" : "A planned private night"
} ,
{
"id" : "small_touches_during_the_day" ,
"text" : "Small touches during the day"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_secret_countdown" ,
"text" : "A secret countdown"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_025" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Pick the playful invitation you would most enjoy hearing." ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"invitation" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "come_kiss_me" ,
"text" : "Come kiss me"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "want_a_private_minute" ,
"text" : "Want a private minute?"
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} ,
{
"id" : "i_have_an_idea_for_us" ,
"text" : "I have an idea for us"
} ,
{
"id" : "want_to_be_a_little_distracted" ,
"text" : "Want to be a little distracted?"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_026" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What could make an at-home night feel flirtier?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"home_flirting" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "dress_up_a_little" ,
"text" : "Dress up a little"
} ,
{
"id" : "choose_a_mood_playlist" ,
"text" : "Choose a mood playlist"
} ,
{
"id" : "trade_bold_compliments" ,
"text" : "Trade bold compliments"
} ,
{
"id" : "turn_off_the_television" ,
"text" : "Turn off the television"
} ,
{
"id" : "make_dessert_together" ,
"text" : "Make dessert together"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_027" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How easy is it for us to be silly without losing the mood?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"silliness" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not easy" ,
"max_label" : "Very easy"
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_028" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What small surprises would feel exciting?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"surprises" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_favorite_outfit" ,
"text" : "A favorite outfit"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_private_note" ,
"text" : "A private note"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_changed_up_setting" ,
"text" : "A changed-up setting"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_new_playlist" ,
"text" : "A new playlist"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_favorite_treat_waiting" ,
"text" : "A favorite treat waiting"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_029" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When does playful competition feel attractive rather than tense?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
"tags" : [
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"competition" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "low_stakes" ,
"text" : "Low stakes"
} ,
{
"id" : "lots_of_laughter" ,
"text" : "Lots of laughter"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_keeping_score_afterward" ,
"text" : "No keeping score afterward"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_shared_treat_afterward" ,
"text" : "A shared treat afterward"
} ,
{
"id" : "easy_permission_to_quit" ,
"text" : "Easy permission to quit"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_030" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps you shift toward closeness after a heavy day?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"stress_relief" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "quiet_time_first" ,
"text" : "Quiet time first"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_warm_shower" ,
"text" : "A warm shower"
} ,
{
"id" : "help_with_one_task" ,
"text" : "Help with one task"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_calm_conversation" ,
"text" : "A calm conversation"
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} ,
{
"id" : "no_fixed_plan" ,
"text" : "No fixed plan"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_031" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Pick the comfort that feels best before closeness." ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"comfort" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "having_space_first" ,
"text" : "Having space first"
} ,
{
"id" : "talking_things_through" ,
"text" : "Talking things through"
} ,
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{
"id" : "a_drink_or_snack" ,
"text" : "A drink or snack"
} ,
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{
"id" : "a_little_playful_distraction" ,
"text" : "A little playful distraction"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_032" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "When stress is high, what kind of connection still feels welcome?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
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"stress_affection" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "quiet_company" ,
"text" : "Quiet company"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_brief_check_in" ,
"text" : "A brief check-in"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_shared_laugh" ,
"text" : "A shared laugh"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "sitting_together" ,
"text" : "Sitting together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "an_early_night" ,
"text" : "An early night"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_033" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How much does stress affect your interest in intimacy?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"stress_effect" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Hardly at all" ,
"max_label" : "A great deal"
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_034" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When does closeness feel soothing rather than demanding?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"soothing_closeness" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "no_expectation_of_more" ,
"text" : "No expectation of more"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_slow_pace" ,
"text" : "A slow pace"
} ,
{
"id" : "asking_before_touching" ,
"text" : "Asking before touching"
} ,
{
"id" : "being_able_to_change_my_mind" ,
"text" : "Being able to change my mind"
} ,
{
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"id" : "a_check_in_if_i_tense_up" ,
"text" : "A check-in if I tense up"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_035" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "After a draining day, what kind of connection sounds best?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
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"draining_day" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "quiet_time_together" ,
"text" : "Quiet time together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_playful_moment" ,
"text" : "A playful moment"
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} ,
{
"id" : "a_meaningful_talk" ,
"text" : "A meaningful talk"
} ,
{
"id" : "early_sleep_together" ,
"text" : "Early sleep together"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_036" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What signs tell you that you need gentleness?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"gentleness_signals" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "i_become_quiet" ,
"text" : "I become quiet"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_pull_away" ,
"text" : "I pull away"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_ask_for_slower" ,
"text" : "I ask for slower"
} ,
{
"id" : "my_body_feels_tense" ,
"text" : "My body feels tense"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_stop_responding_playfully" ,
"text" : "I stop responding playfully"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_037" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When you feel overwhelmed, what makes affection easier?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"overwhelm" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "fewer_questions" ,
"text" : "Fewer questions"
} ,
{
"id" : "one_simple_choice" ,
"text" : "One simple choice"
} ,
{
"id" : "low_lighting" ,
"text" : "Low lighting"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_time_pressure" ,
"text" : "No time pressure"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_clear_option_to_be_alone" ,
"text" : "A clear option to be alone"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_038" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
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"type" : "written" ,
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"text" : "When you are stressed, what should I remember about closeness?" ,
"depth" : 4 ,
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"tags" : [
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"stress_written" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"max_length" : 400
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_039" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps you shift from responsibilities into couple time?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"transition" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "finishing_one_last_task" ,
"text" : "Finishing one last task"
} ,
{
"id" : "changing_clothes" ,
"text" : "Changing clothes"
} ,
{
"id" : "taking_ten_quiet_minutes" ,
"text" : "Taking ten quiet minutes"
} ,
{
"id" : "sharing_a_snack" ,
"text" : "Sharing a snack"
} ,
{
"id" : "starting_with_nonsexual_affection" ,
"text" : "Starting with nonsexual affection"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_040" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which calming first step would you choose?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"calming_touch" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_quiet_room" ,
"text" : "A quiet room"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_warm_drink" ,
"text" : "A warm drink"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "slow_breathing_together" ,
"text" : "Slow breathing together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_gentle_conversation" ,
"text" : "A gentle conversation"
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}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_041" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What keeps tiredness from turning into distance?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"tiredness" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "saying_what_we_have_energy_for" ,
"text" : "Saying what we have energy for"
} ,
{
"id" : "keeping_affection_simple" ,
"text" : "Keeping affection simple"
} ,
{
"id" : "not_taking_no_personally" ,
"text" : "Not taking no personally"
} ,
{
"id" : "planning_another_time" ,
"text" : "Planning another time"
} ,
{
"id" : "ending_the_day_kindly" ,
"text" : "Ending the day kindly"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_042" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How safe do you feel asking for less intensity?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"lower_intensity" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not very safe" ,
"max_label" : "Completely safe"
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_043" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What conditions make desire feel more possible?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"desire_return" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "feeling_rested" ,
"text" : "Feeling rested"
} ,
{
"id" : "feeling_appreciated" ,
"text" : "Feeling appreciated"
} ,
{
"id" : "having_privacy" ,
"text" : "Having privacy"
} ,
{
"id" : "being_emotionally_settled" ,
"text" : "Being emotionally settled"
} ,
{
"id" : "receiving_affection_without_pressure" ,
"text" : "Receiving affection without pressure"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_044" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When neither of us has much energy, how can we stay close?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"low_energy" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "touching_while_resting" ,
"text" : "Touching while resting"
} ,
{
"id" : "sharing_one_good_conversation" ,
"text" : "Sharing one good conversation"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_short_cuddle" ,
"text" : "A short cuddle"
} ,
{
"id" : "laughing_together" ,
"text" : "Laughing together"
} ,
{
"id" : "making_a_plan_for_later" ,
"text" : "Making a plan for later"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_045" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes initiation feel like a shared moment?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"initiation" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "good_timing" ,
"text" : "Good timing"
} ,
{
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"id" : "a_warm_confident_invitation" ,
"text" : "A warm, confident invitation"
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} ,
{
"id" : "an_easy_way_to_decline" ,
"text" : "An easy way to decline"
} ,
{
"id" : "starting_with_affection" ,
"text" : "Starting with affection"
} ,
{
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"id" : "checking_how_the_other_person_responds" ,
"text" : "Checking how the other person responds"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_046" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Pick the invitation style that feels most comfortable for both of us." ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"first_move" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_direct_question" ,
"text" : "A direct question"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_slow_affectionate_start" ,
"text" : "A slow affectionate start"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_playful_invitation" ,
"text" : "A playful invitation"
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} ,
{
"id" : "a_quiet_whispered_question" ,
"text" : "A quiet whispered question"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_047" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "How do you like desire to be shown?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"showing_desire" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "specific_words" ,
"text" : "Specific words"
} ,
{
"id" : "focused_eye_contact" ,
"text" : "Focused eye contact"
} ,
{
"id" : "slow_touch" ,
"text" : "Slow touch"
} ,
{
"id" : "making_private_time" ,
"text" : "Making private time"
} ,
{
"id" : "playful_pursuit" ,
"text" : "Playful pursuit"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_048" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How comfortable are you initiating closeness lately?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"initiation_comfort" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not comfortable" ,
"max_label" : "Very comfortable"
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_049" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What signals help you feel genuinely wanted?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"wanted" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "they_say_it_clearly" ,
"text" : "They say it clearly"
} ,
{
"id" : "they_make_time" ,
"text" : "They make time"
} ,
{
"id" : "they_notice_details" ,
"text" : "They notice details"
} ,
{
"id" : "they_stay_present" ,
"text" : "They stay present"
} ,
{
"id" : "they_respond_to_my_cues" ,
"text" : "They respond to my cues"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_050" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Pick the invitation that gives you the most room to answer honestly." ,
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"tags" : [
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"honest_invitation" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "would_closeness_feel_good" ,
"text" : "Would closeness feel good?"
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"id" : "may_i_kiss_you" ,
"text" : "May I kiss you?"
} ,
{
"id" : "want_some_private_time" ,
"text" : "Want some private time?"
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"id" : "what_kind_of_affection_sounds_good" ,
"text" : "What kind of affection sounds good?"
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]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_051" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When does being pursued feel exciting?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"pursuit" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "confidence_without_pressure" ,
"text" : "Confidence without pressure"
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"id" : "a_playful_build_up" ,
"text" : "A playful build-up"
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"id" : "feeling_emotionally_connected" ,
"text" : "Feeling emotionally connected"
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{
"id" : "enough_privacy" ,
"text" : "Enough privacy"
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"id" : "being_able_to_slow_it_down" ,
"text" : "Being able to slow it down"
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_052" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which things quietly build desire during the day?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"daily_desire" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "thoughtful_attention" ,
"text" : "Thoughtful attention"
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"id" : "flirty_messages" ,
"text" : "Flirty messages"
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{
"id" : "shared_laughter" ,
"text" : "Shared laughter"
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{
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"id" : "seeing_you_feel_confident" ,
"text" : "Seeing you feel confident"
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} ,
{
"id" : "small_welcome_touches" ,
"text" : "Small welcome touches"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_053" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "written" ,
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"text" : "When have you felt most clearly chosen by me?" ,
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"depth" : 4 ,
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"chosen" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"max_length" : 400
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_054" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When does spontaneous intimacy work well for you?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"spontaneity" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "both_people_are_clearly_interested" ,
"text" : "Both people are clearly interested"
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"id" : "there_is_enough_time" ,
"text" : "There is enough time"
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"id" : "privacy_is_secure" ,
"text" : "Privacy is secure"
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"id" : "stopping_stays_easy" ,
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"id" : "the_mood_already_feels_connected" ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_055" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Pick the initiation style that feels most like us." ,
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"tags" : [
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"initiation_style" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "sweet_and_obvious" ,
"text" : "Sweet and obvious"
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"id" : "playful_and_teasing" ,
"text" : "Playful and teasing"
} ,
{
"id" : "quiet_and_slow" ,
"text" : "Quiet and slow"
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{
"id" : "bold_but_attentive" ,
"text" : "Bold but attentive"
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]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_056" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps when one person wants closeness first?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"different_timing" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "a_gentle_invitation" ,
"text" : "A gentle invitation"
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"id" : "no_repeated_asking" ,
"text" : "No repeated asking"
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"id" : "another_kind_of_affection" ,
"text" : "Another kind of affection"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_plan_to_reconnect_later" ,
"text" : "A plan to reconnect later"
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"id" : "no_sulking_afterward" ,
"text" : "No sulking afterward"
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] ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_057" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How wanted do you feel in our relationship lately?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"wanted_scale" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"min" : 1 ,
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"min_label" : "Not much lately" ,
"max_label" : "Very much lately"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_058" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which compliments create attraction for you?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"attraction_compliments" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
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"id" : "something_about_my_appearance" ,
"text" : "Something about my appearance"
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"id" : "something_about_my_energy" ,
"text" : "Something about my energy"
} ,
{
"id" : "something_about_our_chemistry" ,
"text" : "Something about our chemistry"
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{
"id" : "something_very_specific" ,
"text" : "Something very specific"
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{
"id" : "something_about_how_i_affect_you" ,
"text" : "Something about how I affect you"
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] ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_059" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "When does desire feel mutual instead of expected or one-sided?" ,
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"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"mutual_desire" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "both_people_can_initiate" ,
"text" : "Both people can initiate"
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"id" : "both_people_can_decline" ,
"text" : "Both people can decline"
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{
"id" : "feedback_is_welcomed" ,
"text" : "Feedback is welcomed"
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"id" : "no_one_rushes_the_response" ,
"text" : "No one rushes the response"
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"id" : "affection_matters_either_way" ,
"text" : "Affection matters either way"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_060" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps a yes feel honest and freely chosen?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"consent_yes" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
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"id" : "enough_information" ,
"text" : "Enough information"
} ,
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"id" : "no_pressure_to_decide_fast" ,
"text" : "No pressure to decide fast"
} ,
{
"id" : "trust_that_no_is_welcome" ,
"text" : "Trust that no is welcome"
} ,
{
"id" : "feeling_emotionally_present" ,
"text" : "Feeling emotionally present"
} ,
{
"id" : "knowing_i_can_change_my_mind" ,
"text" : "Knowing I can change my mind"
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] ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_061" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which phrase should we agree to treat as our clearest stop signal?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"pause_phrase" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"text" : "Pause for a second"
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{
"id" : "can_we_slow_down" ,
"text" : "Can we slow down?"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_need_to_stop" ,
"text" : "I need to stop"
} ,
{
"id" : "can_we_just_cuddle" ,
"text" : "Can we just cuddle?"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_062" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "After stopping immediately for a pause, what would help next?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"pause_response" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "listening_without_arguing" ,
"text" : "Listening without arguing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "asking_what_feels_okay_now" ,
"text" : "Asking what feels okay now"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "offering_space" ,
"text" : "Offering space"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "switching_to_nonsexual_closeness_if_wanted" ,
"text" : "Switching to nonsexual closeness if wanted"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "reassuring_there_is_no_pressure" ,
"text" : "Reassuring there is no pressure"
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}
] ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_063" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How easy is it to change your mind during intimacy?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"change_mind" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Very hard" ,
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"max_label" : "Very easy"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_064" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When does saying no feel emotionally safe?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"consent_no" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "a_kind_response" ,
"text" : "A kind response"
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"id" : "no_guilt_afterward" ,
"text" : "No guilt afterward"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_repeated_request" ,
"text" : "No repeated request"
} ,
{
"id" : "affection_stays_optional" ,
"text" : "Affection stays optional"
} ,
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"id" : "my_reason_is_not_demanded" ,
"text" : "My reason is not demanded"
}
] ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_065" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "After a no, what response would feel most reassuring?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"no_response" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
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"id" : "thanks_for_telling_me" ,
"text" : "Thanks for telling me"
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"id" : "no_problem_at_all" ,
"text" : "No problem at all"
} ,
{
"id" : "would_you_prefer_space_or_another_kind_of_closeness" ,
"text" : "Would you prefer space or another kind of closeness?"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_am_here_if_you_want_company" ,
"text" : "I am here if you want company"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_066" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which quick question would help us stay connected without breaking the mood?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"check_ins" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
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"id" : "still_good" ,
"text" : "Still good?"
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"id" : "more_or_less" ,
"text" : "More or less?"
} ,
{
"id" : "want_me_to_continue" ,
"text" : "Want me to continue?"
} ,
{
"id" : "do_you_want_something_different" ,
"text" : "Do you want something different?"
} ,
{
"id" : "need_a_pause" ,
"text" : "Need a pause?"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_067" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What words would you most want us to respond to calmly?" ,
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"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"communication_basics" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "yes" ,
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"text" : "No"
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{
"id" : "slower" ,
"text" : "Slower"
} ,
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"id" : "different" ,
"text" : "Different"
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"id" : "i_changed_my_mind" ,
"text" : "I changed my mind"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_068" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "written" ,
"text" : "What response from me helps you trust that your no is safe?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"no_trust" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"max_length" : 400
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_069" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "How do we keep consent clear when the mood is playful?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"playful_consent" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "checking_before_escalating" ,
"text" : "Checking before escalating"
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"id" : "paying_attention_to_hesitation" ,
"text" : "Paying attention to hesitation"
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{
"id" : "keeping_safe_words_serious" ,
"text" : "Keeping safe words serious"
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"id" : "avoiding_surprise_restraints" ,
"text" : "Avoiding surprise restraints"
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"id" : "stopping_immediately_when_asked" ,
"text" : "Stopping immediately when asked"
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_070" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which signal would you prefer as a backup to words?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"backup_signal" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_double_tap" ,
"text" : "A double tap"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_hand_squeeze" ,
"text" : "A hand squeeze"
} ,
{
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"id" : "a_clear_hand_away_gesture" ,
"text" : "A clear hand-away gesture"
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} ,
{
"id" : "no_backup_signal_words_only" ,
"text" : "No backup signal—words only"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_071" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What keeps a new idea optional rather than expected?" ,
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"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"optional_novelty" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
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"id" : "talking_about_it_beforehand" ,
"text" : "Talking about it beforehand"
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"id" : "no_surprise_use" ,
"text" : "No surprise use"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_clear_no_option" ,
"text" : "A clear no option"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_disappointment_if_declined" ,
"text" : "No disappointment if declined"
} ,
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"id" : "letting_the_idea_stay_hypothetical" ,
"text" : "Letting the idea stay hypothetical"
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] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_072" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How confident are you that a pause will be respected immediately?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"pause_confidence" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not confident" ,
"max_label" : "Completely confident"
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_073" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What behaviors protect trust after a boundary is named?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"boundary_trust" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
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"id" : "remembering_it_later" ,
"text" : "Remembering it later"
} ,
{
"id" : "asking_before_revisiting_it" ,
"text" : "Asking before revisiting it"
} ,
{
"id" : "not_teasing_about_it" ,
"text" : "Not teasing about it"
} ,
{
"id" : "not_bargaining" ,
"text" : "Not bargaining"
} ,
{
"id" : "appreciating_the_honesty" ,
"text" : "Appreciating the honesty"
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] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_074" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "After intimacy stops unexpectedly, what keeps you connected?" ,
"depth" : 4 ,
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"tags" : [
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"stopping_connection" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_calm_check_in" ,
"text" : "A calm check-in"
} ,
{
"id" : "nonsexual_touch_if_wanted" ,
"text" : "Nonsexual touch if wanted"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_little_space" ,
"text" : "A little space"
} ,
{
"id" : "reassuring_words" ,
"text" : "Reassuring words"
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{
"id" : "no_pressure_to_explain_immediately" ,
"text" : "No pressure to explain immediately"
}
] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_075" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When is feedback about intimacy easiest to give?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"feedback_giving" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_calm_moment" ,
"text" : "A calm moment"
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{
"id" : "specific_questions" ,
"text" : "Specific questions"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_defensiveness" ,
"text" : "No defensiveness"
} ,
{
"id" : "starting_with_what_works" ,
"text" : "Starting with what works"
} ,
{
"id" : "knowing_change_is_welcome" ,
"text" : "Knowing change is welcome"
}
] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_076" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "When would you rather discuss a preference?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"preference_timing" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "before_private_time" ,
"text" : "Before private time"
} ,
{
"id" : "in_the_moment" ,
"text" : "In the moment"
} ,
{
"id" : "right_afterward" ,
"text" : "Right afterward"
} ,
{
"id" : "on_a_separate_relaxed_day" ,
"text" : "On a separate relaxed day"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_077" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which feedback phrases feel kind and useful?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"feedback_phrases" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
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"id" : "a_little_slower" ,
"text" : "A little slower"
} ,
{
"id" : "keep_doing_that" ,
"text" : "Keep doing that"
} ,
{
"id" : "could_we_try_this_instead" ,
"text" : "Could we try this instead?"
} ,
{
"id" : "that_feels_really_good" ,
"text" : "That feels really good"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_need_something_different" ,
"text" : "I need something different"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_078" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How comfortable are you naming what feels good?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"naming_good" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not comfortable" ,
"max_label" : "Very comfortable"
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_079" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When feedback is hard to hear, what keeps it from feeling like criticism?" ,
"depth" : 4 ,
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"tags" : [
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"feedback_hearing" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_gentle_tone" ,
"text" : "A gentle tone"
} ,
{
"id" : "specific_guidance" ,
"text" : "Specific guidance"
} ,
{
"id" : "reassurance_of_attraction" ,
"text" : "Reassurance of attraction"
} ,
{
"id" : "good_timing" ,
"text" : "Good timing"
} ,
{
"id" : "room_to_ask_questions" ,
"text" : "Room to ask questions"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_080" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Pick the question that would help you share more honestly." ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"honest_question" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "what_are_you_enjoying" ,
"text" : "What are you enjoying?"
} ,
{
"id" : "want_more_or_less" ,
"text" : "Want more or less?"
} ,
{
"id" : "is_there_anything_you_want_different" ,
"text" : "Is there anything you want different?"
} ,
{
"id" : "what_would_feel_best_now" ,
"text" : "What would feel best now?"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_081" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When do conversations about desire feel safest?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"desire_conversation" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "privacy" ,
"text" : "Privacy"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_immediate_expectation" ,
"text" : "No immediate expectation"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_joking_at_my_expense" ,
"text" : "No joking at my expense"
} ,
{
"id" : "time_to_think" ,
"text" : "Time to think"
} ,
{
"id" : "curiosity_without_pressure" ,
"text" : "Curiosity without pressure"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_082" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which topics deserve an especially gentle approach?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"gentle_topics" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "differences_in_frequency" ,
"text" : "Differences in frequency"
} ,
{
"id" : "body_confidence" ,
"text" : "Body confidence"
} ,
{
"id" : "rejection" ,
"text" : "Rejection"
} ,
{
"id" : "past_experiences" ,
"text" : "Past experiences"
} ,
{
"id" : "new_ideas" ,
"text" : "New ideas"
}
] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_083" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "written" ,
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"text" : "What is one thing you wish were easier to tell me about intimacy?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"wish_easier" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"max_length" : 400
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_084" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What outcomes help a difficult intimacy talk end well?" ,
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"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"talk_ending" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "both_people_feel_heard" ,
"text" : "Both people feel heard"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_boundary_is_clearer" ,
"text" : "A boundary is clearer"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_solution_is_forced" ,
"text" : "No solution is forced"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_still_feel_cared_for" ,
"text" : "We still feel cared for"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_know_whether_to_revisit_it" ,
"text" : "We know whether to revisit it"
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}
] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_085" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which tone helps you stay open during a sensitive conversation?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"conversation_tone" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
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"id" : "warm_and_direct" ,
"text" : "Warm and direct"
} ,
{
"id" : "soft_and_patient" ,
"text" : "Soft and patient"
} ,
{
"id" : "light_but_respectful" ,
"text" : "Light but respectful"
} ,
{
"id" : "calm_and_matter_of_fact" ,
"text" : "Calm and matter-of-fact"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_086" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes preference questions less awkward for us?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"less_awkward" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "use_simple_words" ,
"text" : "Use simple words"
} ,
{
"id" : "ask_one_thing_at_a_time" ,
"text" : "Ask one thing at a time"
} ,
{
"id" : "talk_outside_the_bedroom" ,
"text" : "Talk outside the bedroom"
} ,
{
"id" : "both_answer_the_same_question" ,
"text" : "Both answer the same question"
} ,
{
"id" : "allow_i_am_not_sure" ,
"text" : "Allow 'I am not sure'"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_087" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How well do we listen when intimacy feedback surprises us?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"feedback_surprise" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not very well" ,
"max_label" : "Very well"
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_088" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When does praise feel believable?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"believable_praise" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "it_is_specific" ,
"text" : "It is specific"
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{
"id" : "it_matches_the_moment" ,
"text" : "It matches the moment"
} ,
{
"id" : "it_is_said_privately" ,
"text" : "It is said privately"
} ,
{
"id" : "it_is_not_exaggerated" ,
"text" : "It is not exaggerated"
} ,
{
"id" : "it_includes_more_than_appearance" ,
"text" : "It includes more than appearance"
}
] ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_089" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "How do you know an intimacy conversation helped?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"useful_conversation" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "we_understand_each_other_better" ,
"text" : "We understand each other better"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_one_feels_blamed" ,
"text" : "No one feels blamed"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_boundary_became_clearer" ,
"text" : "A boundary became clearer"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_preference_became_easier_to_name" ,
"text" : "A preference became easier to name"
} ,
{
"id" : "we_feel_closer_afterward" ,
"text" : "We feel closer afterward"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_090" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "When does physical closeness feel emotionally meaningful to us?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"kissing" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "we_slow_down" ,
"text" : "We slow down"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "interest_feels_mutual" ,
"text" : "Interest feels mutual"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_are_emotionally_connected" ,
"text" : "We are emotionally connected"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_outcome_is_expected" ,
"text" : "No outcome is expected"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_both_stay_present" ,
"text" : "We both stay present"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_091" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Pick the private mood that sounds best for us tonight." ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"kiss_choice" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "slow_and_romantic" ,
"text" : "Slow and romantic"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "playful_and_flirty" ,
"text" : "Playful and flirty"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "quiet_and_tender" ,
"text" : "Quiet and tender"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "bold_and_connected" ,
"text" : "Bold and connected"
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}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_092" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "When does relaxing together feel most connected?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
"cuddling" ,
"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "after_a_long_day" ,
"text" : "After a long day"
} ,
{
"id" : "before_sleep" ,
"text" : "Before sleep"
} ,
{
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"id" : "during_a_quiet_evening" ,
"text" : "During a quiet evening"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "after_an_honest_talk" ,
"text" : "After an honest talk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "on_a_slow_morning" ,
"text" : "On a slow morning"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_093" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How much romance do you feel in our private time lately?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"kissing_scale" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Not very romantic" ,
"max_label" : "Very romantic"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_094" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What setups make it easiest for us both to relax together?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"cuddle_positions" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "enough_personal_space" ,
"text" : "Enough personal space"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_comfortable_temperature" ,
"text" : "A comfortable temperature"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "phones_put_away" ,
"text" : "Phones put away"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_time_pressure" ,
"text" : "No time pressure"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_how_close_to_sit" ,
"text" : "Choosing how close to sit"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_095" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes a goodbye feel meaningful between us?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"goodbye_kiss" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "it_is_not_rushed" ,
"text" : "It is not rushed"
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} ,
{
"id" : "there_is_eye_contact" ,
"text" : "There is eye contact"
} ,
{
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"id" : "we_say_something_honest" ,
"text" : "We say something honest"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_know_when_we_will_reconnect" ,
"text" : "We know when we will reconnect"
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}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_096" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What keeps our private chemistry playful without feeling rehearsed?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"kiss_play" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "changing_the_timing" ,
"text" : "Changing the timing"
} ,
{
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"id" : "using_an_inside_joke" ,
"text" : "Using an inside joke"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_little_unpredictability" ,
"text" : "A little unpredictability"
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} ,
{
"id" : "laughing_together" ,
"text" : "Laughing together"
} ,
{
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"id" : "letting_the_mood_lead" ,
"text" : "Letting the mood lead"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_097" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps physical closeness feel connected for both of us?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"cuddle_touch" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "mutual_choice" ,
"text" : "Mutual choice"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "enough_time" ,
"text" : "Enough time"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "noticing_feedback" ,
"text" : "Noticing feedback"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "emotional_warmth" ,
"text" : "Emotional warmth"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_required_outcome" ,
"text" : "No required outcome"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_098" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "written" ,
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"text" : "What private memory best captures the way we connect as a couple?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"kiss_memory" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"max_length" : 400
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_099" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps extended closeness feel welcome for both of us?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"long_hug" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "the_timing_works" ,
"text" : "The timing works"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "either_person_can_end_it" ,
"text" : "Either person can end it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_matches_both_moods" ,
"text" : "It matches both moods"
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} ,
{
"id" : "there_is_no_hidden_expectation" ,
"text" : "There is no hidden expectation"
} ,
{
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"id" : "there_is_room_to_relax" ,
"text" : "There is room to relax"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_100" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Pick the greeting style that feels most like our relationship." ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"greeting" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "an_enthusiastic_hello" ,
"text" : "An enthusiastic hello"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_quiet_check_in" ,
"text" : "A quiet check-in"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_playful_joke" ,
"text" : "A playful joke"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_few_focused_minutes" ,
"text" : "A few focused minutes"
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}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_101" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which things can make private closeness uncomfortable?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"cuddle_discomfort" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "feeling_trapped" ,
"text" : "Feeling trapped"
} ,
{
"id" : "too_much_heat" ,
"text" : "Too much heat"
} ,
{
"id" : "pressure_for_more" ,
"text" : "Pressure for more"
} ,
{
"id" : "not_enough_space" ,
"text" : "Not enough space"
} ,
{
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"id" : "ignoring_a_request_to_adjust" ,
"text" : "Ignoring a request to adjust"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_102" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How connected does our private time feel lately?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"nonsexual_touch_scale" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Not very connected" ,
"max_label" : "Very connected"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_103" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "When would slowing down together feel most meaningful?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"slow_kiss" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "after_time_apart" ,
"text" : "After time apart"
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} ,
{
"id" : "after_a_heartfelt_talk" ,
"text" : "After a heartfelt talk"
} ,
{
"id" : "during_a_quiet_morning" ,
"text" : "During a quiet morning"
} ,
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{
"id" : "after_a_stressful_week" ,
"text" : "After a stressful week"
} ,
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{
"id" : "before_falling_asleep" ,
"text" : "Before falling asleep"
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_104" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes intimate time feel complete even when plans change?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"complete_affection" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "enough_time" ,
"text" : "Enough time"
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"id" : "focused_attention" ,
"text" : "Focused attention"
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{
"id" : "warm_words" ,
"text" : "Warm words"
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{
"id" : "mutual_choice" ,
"text" : "Mutual choice"
} ,
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"id" : "a_relaxed_ending" ,
"text" : "A relaxed ending"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_105" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which privacy details help you relax into closeness?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"privacy" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_locked_door" ,
"text" : "A locked door"
} ,
{
"id" : "phones_put_away" ,
"text" : "Phones put away"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_expected_interruption" ,
"text" : "No expected interruption"
} ,
{
"id" : "enough_time" ,
"text" : "Enough time"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_comfortable_temperature" ,
"text" : "A comfortable temperature"
}
] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_106" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which setting feels easiest for honest intimacy talks?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"talk_setting" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_quiet_bedroom" ,
"text" : "A quiet bedroom"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_private_walk" ,
"text" : "A private walk"
} ,
{
"id" : "the_couch_after_dinner" ,
"text" : "The couch after dinner"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_calm_drive" ,
"text" : "A calm drive"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_107" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which details make a room inviting for private time?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"setting" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "soft_lighting" ,
"text" : "Soft lighting"
} ,
{
"id" : "fresh_sheets" ,
"text" : "Fresh sheets"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_comfortable_temperature" ,
"text" : "A comfortable temperature"
} ,
{
"id" : "music_we_both_like" ,
"text" : "Music we both like"
} ,
{
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"id" : "a_room_that_feels_settled" ,
"text" : "A room that feels settled"
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}
] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_108" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How important is guaranteed privacy to your ability to relax?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"privacy_scale" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not very important" ,
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"max_label" : "Very important"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_109" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which distractions pull you out of the moment fastest?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"distractions" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "phone_alerts" ,
"text" : "Phone alerts"
} ,
{
"id" : "noise_outside" ,
"text" : "Noise outside"
} ,
{
"id" : "worry_about_time" ,
"text" : "Worry about time"
} ,
{
"id" : "an_uncomfortable_room" ,
"text" : "An uncomfortable room"
} ,
{
"id" : "unfinished_responsibilities" ,
"text" : "Unfinished responsibilities"
}
] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_110" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Pick the approach that would help us choose comfortable lighting together." ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"lighting" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "use_the_softer_setting" ,
"text" : "Use the softer setting"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "take_turns_choosing" ,
"text" : "Take turns choosing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "find_a_middle_ground" ,
"text" : "Find a middle ground"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "ask_in_the_moment" ,
"text" : "Ask in the moment"
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}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_111" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What keeps planned private time romantic instead of scheduled?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"planned_private_time" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
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"id" : "anticipation_during_the_day" ,
"text" : "Anticipation during the day"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_flexible_plan" ,
"text" : "A flexible plan"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_thoughtful_setting" ,
"text" : "A thoughtful setting"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_rushing" ,
"text" : "No rushing"
} ,
{
"id" : "something_chosen_for_both_of_us" ,
"text" : "Something chosen for both of us"
}
] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_112" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which boundaries protect our intimate privacy?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"privacy_boundaries" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "no_sharing_details_with_friends" ,
"text" : "No sharing details with friends"
} ,
{
"id" : "ask_before_saving_photos_or_recordings" ,
"text" : "Ask before saving photos or recordings"
} ,
{
"id" : "keep_intimate_photos_off_shared_devices" ,
"text" : "Keep intimate photos off shared devices"
} ,
{
"id" : "delete_anything_when_asked" ,
"text" : "Delete anything when asked"
} ,
{
"id" : "never_joke_publicly_about_private_moments" ,
"text" : "Never joke publicly about private moments"
}
] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_113" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "written" ,
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"text" : "Think of a private setting where you felt completely relaxed with me. What made it work?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"safe_space_detail" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"max_length" : 400
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_114" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which conditions make a new setting comfortable enough to try?" ,
"depth" : 4 ,
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"tags" : [
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"new_setting" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "clear_privacy" ,
"text" : "Clear privacy"
} ,
{
"id" : "knowing_we_can_leave_anytime" ,
"text" : "Knowing we can leave anytime"
} ,
{
"id" : "bringing_familiar_comforts" ,
"text" : "Bringing familiar comforts"
} ,
{
"id" : "agreeing_on_boundaries_first" ,
"text" : "Agreeing on boundaries first"
} ,
{
"id" : "starting_with_something_simple" ,
"text" : "Starting with something simple"
}
] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_115" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Pick the private-time soundtrack that sounds best." ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"tags" : [
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"music" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "slow_and_moody" ,
"text" : "Slow and moody"
} ,
{
"id" : "soft_and_romantic" ,
"text" : "Soft and romantic"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_familiar_favorite" ,
"text" : "A familiar favorite"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_music" ,
"text" : "No music"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_116" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When does a hotel or getaway night feel low-pressure?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"getaway" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "no_fixed_expectation" ,
"text" : "No fixed expectation"
} ,
{
"id" : "plenty_of_rest" ,
"text" : "Plenty of rest"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_shared_plan" ,
"text" : "A shared plan"
} ,
{
"id" : "easy_permission_to_change_course" ,
"text" : "Easy permission to change course"
} ,
{
"id" : "affection_that_is_enough_by_itself" ,
"text" : "Affection that is enough by itself"
}
] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_117" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How much do phones affect your ability to stay present during private time?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"phones" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Not at all" ,
"max_label" : "A great deal"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_118" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which practical details quietly support intimacy?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"practical_support" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "enough_sleep" ,
"text" : "Enough sleep"
} ,
{
"id" : "privacy" ,
"text" : "Privacy"
} ,
{
"id" : "time_without_rushing" ,
"text" : "Time without rushing"
} ,
{
"id" : "feeling_clean_and_comfortable" ,
"text" : "Feeling clean and comfortable"
} ,
{
"id" : "knowing_responsibilities_are_handled" ,
"text" : "Knowing responsibilities are handled"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_119" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When does a surprise setting change feel welcome?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"surprise_setting" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "it_stays_private" ,
"text" : "It stays private"
} ,
{
"id" : "it_is_easy_to_decline" ,
"text" : "It is easy to decline"
} ,
{
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"id" : "it_can_be_changed_easily" ,
"text" : "It can be changed easily"
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} ,
{
"id" : "it_fits_my_energy" ,
"text" : "It fits my energy"
} ,
{
"id" : "we_can_return_to_the_familiar" ,
"text" : "We can return to the familiar"
}
] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_120" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps you feel attractive during private moments?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"body_confidence" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "specific_compliments" ,
"text" : "Specific compliments"
} ,
{
"id" : "patient_attention" ,
"text" : "Patient attention"
} ,
{
"id" : "comfortable_lighting" ,
"text" : "Comfortable lighting"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_comparisons" ,
"text" : "No comparisons"
} ,
{
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"id" : "touch_that_follows_my_feedback" ,
"text" : "Touch that follows my feedback"
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}
] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_121" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Pick the compliment that supports your confidence most." ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"confidence_compliment" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "you_look_incredible" ,
"text" : "You look incredible"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_love_being_close_to_you" ,
"text" : "I love being close to you"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_love_how_you_respond_to_me" ,
"text" : "I love how you respond to me"
} ,
{
"id" : "you_make_me_want_you" ,
"text" : "You make me want you"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_122" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When does body-focused attention become uncomfortable?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"body_discomfort" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "too_much_focus_on_one_area" ,
"text" : "Too much focus on one area"
} ,
{
"id" : "jokes_about_appearance" ,
"text" : "Jokes about appearance"
} ,
{
"id" : "comparisons" ,
"text" : "Comparisons"
} ,
{
"id" : "feeling_watched_instead_of_appreciated" ,
"text" : "Feeling watched instead of appreciated"
} ,
{
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"id" : "ignoring_when_i_ask_to_adjust" ,
"text" : "Ignoring when I ask to adjust"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_123" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How comfortable do you feel being fully seen by me?" ,
"depth" : 4 ,
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"tags" : [
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"being_seen" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not comfortable" ,
"max_label" : "Completely comfortable"
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_124" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which kinds of reassurance feel genuine?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"reassurance" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "warm_eye_contact" ,
"text" : "Warm eye contact"
} ,
{
"id" : "specific_praise" ,
"text" : "Specific praise"
} ,
{
"id" : "unhurried_touch" ,
"text" : "Unhurried touch"
} ,
{
"id" : "kindness_outside_intimate_moments" ,
"text" : "Kindness outside intimate moments"
} ,
{
"id" : "respect_when_i_need_space" ,
"text" : "Respect when I need space"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_125" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Pick the approach to body compliments that would help us both feel comfortable." ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"compliment_delivery" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "ask_what_lands_well" ,
"text" : "Ask what lands well"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_them_specific" ,
"text" : "Keep them specific"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "balance_appearance_with_whole_person_praise" ,
"text" : "Balance appearance with whole-person praise"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_either_person_redirect" ,
"text" : "Let either person redirect"
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}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_126" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps you stay present when body worries show up?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"presence" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "focusing_on_sensation" ,
"text" : "Focusing on sensation"
} ,
{
"id" : "slower_pacing" ,
"text" : "Slower pacing"
} ,
{
"id" : "supportive_words" ,
"text" : "Supportive words"
} ,
{
"id" : "dimmer_lighting" ,
"text" : "Dimmer lighting"
} ,
{
"id" : "feeling_emotionally_connected" ,
"text" : "Feeling emotionally connected"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_127" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which partner behaviors build body trust over time?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"body_trust" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "no_teasing_about_insecurities" ,
"text" : "No teasing about insecurities"
} ,
{
"id" : "consistent_affection" ,
"text" : "Consistent affection"
} ,
{
"id" : "listening_to_boundaries" ,
"text" : "Listening to boundaries"
} ,
{
"id" : "compliments_beyond_appearance" ,
"text" : "Compliments beyond appearance"
} ,
{
"id" : "never_using_private_details_in_conflict" ,
"text" : "Never using private details in conflict"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_128" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "written" ,
"text" : "When do you feel desired without feeling watched or evaluated?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"desired_not_inspected" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"max_length" : 400
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_129" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "When does physical vulnerability feel comfortable?" ,
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"depth" : 4 ,
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"tags" : [
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"undressing" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "taking_our_time" ,
"text" : "Taking our time"
} ,
{
"id" : "choosing_my_own_pace" ,
"text" : "Choosing my own pace"
} ,
{
"id" : "warm_lighting" ,
"text" : "Warm lighting"
} ,
{
"id" : "affection_before_and_during" ,
"text" : "Affection before and during"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_pressure_to_perform" ,
"text" : "No pressure to perform"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_130" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which kind of attention feels most affirming?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"affirming_attention" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "warm_admiration" ,
"text" : "Warm admiration"
} ,
{
"id" : "playful_desire" ,
"text" : "Playful desire"
} ,
{
"id" : "tender_appreciation" ,
"text" : "Tender appreciation"
} ,
{
"id" : "quiet_focus" ,
"text" : "Quiet focus"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_131" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What would help on a low-confidence day?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"low_confidence" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "keeping_things_gentle" ,
"text" : "Keeping things gentle"
} ,
{
"id" : "leaving_some_clothes_on" ,
"text" : "Leaving some clothes on"
} ,
{
"id" : "more_verbal_reassurance" ,
"text" : "More verbal reassurance"
} ,
{
"id" : "choosing_nonsexual_closeness" ,
"text" : "Choosing nonsexual closeness"
} ,
{
"id" : "letting_me_lead" ,
"text" : "Letting me lead"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_132" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How supported do you feel about your body in our relationship?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"confidence_support" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not very supported" ,
"max_label" : "Very supported"
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_133" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Specific praise or quiet admiration?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"praise_choice" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "specific_praise" ,
"text" : "Specific praise"
} ,
{
"id" : "quiet_admiration" ,
"text" : "Quiet admiration"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_134" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What should intimacy help us believe about our bodies?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"body_messages" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "our_bodies_are_welcome" ,
"text" : "Our bodies are welcome"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_can_choose_what_feels_comfortable_to_show" ,
"text" : "We can choose what feels comfortable to show"
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} ,
{
"id" : "comfort_matters_more_than_performance" ,
"text" : "Comfort matters more than performance"
} ,
{
"id" : "desire_can_be_gentle" ,
"text" : "Desire can be gentle"
} ,
{
"id" : "boundaries_do_not_reduce_attraction" ,
"text" : "Boundaries do not reduce attraction"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_135" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which kinds of aftercare help you feel settled?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"aftercare" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "cuddling" ,
"text" : "Cuddling"
} ,
{
"id" : "reassuring_words" ,
"text" : "Reassuring words"
} ,
{
"id" : "water_or_a_snack" ,
"text" : "Water or a snack"
} ,
{
"id" : "quiet_rest" ,
"text" : "Quiet rest"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_little_laughter" ,
"text" : "A little laughter"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_136" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What do you usually want first afterward?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"aftercare_first" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "physical_closeness" ,
"text" : "Physical closeness"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_quick_check_in" ,
"text" : "A quick check-in"
} ,
{
"id" : "practical_care" ,
"text" : "Practical care"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_little_personal_space" ,
"text" : "A little personal space"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_137" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When does aftercare feel caring rather than required?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"aftercare_care" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "it_matches_my_mood" ,
"text" : "It matches my mood"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_can_ask_for_space" ,
"text" : "I can ask for space"
} ,
{
"id" : "it_is_not_rushed" ,
"text" : "It is not rushed"
} ,
{
"id" : "we_check_what_each_person_wants" ,
"text" : "We check what each person wants"
} ,
{
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"id" : "it_changes_with_the_moment" ,
"text" : "It changes with the moment"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_138" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How important is aftercare to your overall experience?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"aftercare_importance" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not very important" ,
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"max_label" : "Very important"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_139" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which words feel good after vulnerability?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"aftercare_words" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "i_am_glad_you_told_me" ,
"text" : "I am glad you told me"
} ,
{
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"id" : "thank_you_for_trusting_me" ,
"text" : "Thank you for trusting me"
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} ,
{
"id" : "i_loved_being_close_to_you" ,
"text" : "I loved being close to you"
} ,
{
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"id" : "take_all_the_time_you_need" ,
"text" : "Take all the time you need"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_would_help_now" ,
"text" : "What would help now?"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_140" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Pick the aftercare style that sounds most comforting." ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"aftercare_style" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "quiet_and_cuddly" ,
"text" : "Quiet and cuddly"
} ,
{
"id" : "warm_and_talkative" ,
"text" : "Warm and talkative"
} ,
{
"id" : "light_and_playful" ,
"text" : "Light and playful"
} ,
{
"id" : "spacious_but_reassuring" ,
"text" : "Spacious but reassuring"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_141" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What practical care feels thoughtful afterward?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"practical_aftercare" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "bringing_water" ,
"text" : "Bringing water"
} ,
{
"id" : "adjusting_the_room" ,
"text" : "Adjusting the room"
} ,
{
"id" : "finding_a_blanket" ,
"text" : "Finding a blanket"
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"id" : "checking_comfort" ,
"text" : "Checking comfort"
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"id" : "handling_cleanup_together" ,
"text" : "Handling cleanup together"
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "After trying something new, what support feels best?" ,
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"id" : "a_calm_check_in" ,
"text" : "A calm check-in"
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"id" : "reassurance_without_turning_it_into_a_big_review" ,
"text" : "Reassurance without turning it into a big review"
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} ,
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"id" : "naming_what_worked" ,
"text" : "Naming what worked"
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"id" : "permission_not_to_decide_anything_yet" ,
"text" : "Permission not to decide anything yet"
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"id" : "extra_tenderness" ,
"text" : "Extra tenderness"
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"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
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"type" : "written" ,
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"text" : "What should I know about the kind of aftercare you need?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"aftercare_written" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"max_length" : 400
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_144" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When might space be the best aftercare?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"space_aftercare" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "when_i_need_quiet" ,
"text" : "When I need quiet"
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} ,
{
"id" : "when_touch_feels_like_too_much" ,
"text" : "When touch feels like too much"
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"id" : "when_i_ask_directly" ,
"text" : "When I ask directly"
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"id" : "when_i_need_sleep" ,
"text" : "When I need sleep"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_145" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "How should we check in the next day after a new experience?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"next_day" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "a_simple_text" ,
"text" : "A simple text"
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"id" : "a_short_private_talk" ,
"text" : "A short private talk"
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"id" : "ask_one_clear_question" ,
"text" : "Ask one clear question"
} ,
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"id" : "leave_the_door_open_to_talk_later" ,
"text" : "Leave the door open to talk later"
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}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_146" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What can make aftercare feel wrong for the moment?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"aftercare_miss" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "assuming_cuddling_is_always_wanted" ,
"text" : "Assuming cuddling is always wanted"
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"id" : "demanding_reassurance" ,
"text" : "Demanding reassurance"
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"id" : "turning_it_into_a_critique" ,
"text" : "Turning it into a critique"
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"id" : "ignoring_a_request_for_space" ,
"text" : "Ignoring a request for space"
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"id" : "leaving_without_a_word" ,
"text" : "Leaving without a word"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_147" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How easy is it for you to ask for aftercare?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"ask_aftercare" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"min" : 1 ,
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"max_label" : "Very easy"
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_148" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Cuddles afterward or quiet space nearby?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"aftercare_choice" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
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"text" : "Cuddles afterward"
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"text" : "Quiet space nearby"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_149" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
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} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which signs show that aftercare matched what you needed?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"aftercare_match" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "my_body_feels_settled" ,
"text" : "My body feels settled"
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"id" : "i_feel_emotionally_close" ,
"text" : "I feel emotionally close"
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{
"id" : "nothing_feels_rushed" ,
"text" : "Nothing feels rushed"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_could_ask_for_something_different" ,
"text" : "I could ask for something different"
} ,
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"id" : "i_feel_comfortable_afterward" ,
"text" : "I feel comfortable afterward"
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] ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_150" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When our interest levels differ, how can we stay close?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
"mismatched_desire" ,
"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
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"id" : "a_kind_no" ,
"text" : "A kind no"
} ,
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"id" : "no_personal_blame" ,
"text" : "No personal blame"
} ,
{
"id" : "another_form_of_closeness" ,
"text" : "Another form of closeness"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_plan_to_reconnect_later" ,
"text" : "A plan to reconnect later"
} ,
{
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"id" : "disappointment_handled_kindly" ,
"text" : "Disappointment handled kindly"
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}
] ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_151" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which response to declined initiation feels most loving?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"declined_initiation" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
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"id" : "thank_you_for_being_honest" ,
"text" : "Thank you for being honest"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_problem_come_cuddle_if_you_want" ,
"text" : "No problem—come cuddle if you want"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_understand_we_can_reconnect_later" ,
"text" : "I understand; we can reconnect later"
} ,
{
"id" : "i_care_about_you_either_way" ,
"text" : "I care about you either way"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_152" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What keeps rejection from becoming distance?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"rejection" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
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"id" : "affection_without_expectation" ,
"text" : "Affection without expectation"
} ,
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"id" : "no_sulking" ,
"text" : "No sulking"
} ,
{
"id" : "clear_reassurance" ,
"text" : "Clear reassurance"
} ,
{
"id" : "respecting_space" ,
"text" : "Respecting space"
} ,
{
"id" : "talking_later_if_needed" ,
"text" : "Talking later if needed"
}
] ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_153" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How well do we handle differences in desire?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"mismatch_scale" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"min" : 1 ,
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"min_label" : "Not very well" ,
"max_label" : "Very well"
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_154" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps talks about how often we want intimacy feel kinder?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"frequency" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
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"id" : "no_comparison_to_other_couples" ,
"text" : "No comparison to other couples"
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"id" : "no_scorekeeping" ,
"text" : "No scorekeeping"
} ,
{
"id" : "talking_when_calm" ,
"text" : "Talking when calm"
} ,
{
"id" : "separating_desire_from_love" ,
"text" : "Separating desire from love"
} ,
{
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"id" : "finding_options_that_respect_both_people" ,
"text" : "Finding options that respect both people"
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}
] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_155" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Pick the alternative that feels best when interest does not match." ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"alternative_closeness" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
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"id" : "cuddling" ,
"text" : "Cuddling"
} ,
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"id" : "a_date_without_sex" ,
"text" : "A date without sex"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_massage_with_clear_limits" ,
"text" : "A massage with clear limits"
} ,
{
"id" : "separate_rest_with_reassurance" ,
"text" : "Separate rest with reassurance"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_156" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which assumptions should we avoid about lower desire?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"lower_desire" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
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"id" : "it_means_less_love" ,
"text" : "It means less love"
} ,
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"id" : "it_means_less_attraction" ,
"text" : "It means less attraction"
} ,
{
"id" : "it_is_always_about_the_partner" ,
"text" : "It is always about the partner"
} ,
{
"id" : "it_needs_an_immediate_fix" ,
"text" : "It needs an immediate fix"
} ,
{
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"id" : "they_should_promise_another_time" ,
"text" : "They should promise another time"
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}
] ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_157" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What can affect desire without being anyone's fault?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"desire_factors" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
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"id" : "stress" ,
"text" : "Stress"
} ,
{
"id" : "sleep" ,
"text" : "Sleep"
} ,
{
"id" : "health" ,
"text" : "Health"
} ,
{
"id" : "body_confidence" ,
"text" : "Body confidence"
} ,
{
"id" : "relationship_tension" ,
"text" : "Relationship tension"
}
] ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_158" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "written" ,
"text" : "When your desire is lower than mine, what helps you still feel loved?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"lower_desire_written" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"max_length" : 400
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_159" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "How can the higher-desire partner protect closeness?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"higher_desire" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "avoid_bargaining" ,
"text" : "Avoid bargaining"
} ,
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"id" : "keep_affection_non_transactional" ,
"text" : "Keep affection non-transactional"
} ,
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"id" : "manage_disappointment_kindly" ,
"text" : "Manage disappointment kindly"
} ,
{
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"id" : "let_future_plans_stay_optional" ,
"text" : "Let future plans stay optional"
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}
] ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_160" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which phrase makes a mismatch easier to hear?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"mismatch_phrase" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "i_care_about_you_i_am_not_up_for_this" ,
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} ,
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"id" : "i_want_closeness_just_not_that_tonight" ,
"text" : "I want closeness, just not that tonight"
} ,
{
"id" : "my_energy_is_low_not_my_love" ,
"text" : "My energy is low, not my love"
} ,
{
"id" : "can_we_plan_something_for_another_time" ,
"text" : "Can we plan something for another time?"
}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_161" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"text" : "When does the lower-desire partner feel safest speaking honestly?" ,
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"speak_honestly" ,
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"id" : "permission_to_be_unsure" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How clearly can we discuss sexual interest without treating it as proof of love?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"love_desire_separate" ,
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"min" : 1 ,
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"min_label" : "Not very clearly" ,
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"max_label" : "Very clearly"
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"sex" : "neutral"
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Reconnect gently now or plan private time later?" ,
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"reconnect_choice" ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_164" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What would help us handle desire differences as a team?" ,
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"shared_problem" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "honesty_about_stress_or_health" ,
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} ,
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"id" : "making_room_for_both_experiences" ,
"text" : "Making room for both experiences"
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}
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_165" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "If an intimate moment turns awkward, what helps us recover together?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"awkwardness" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "laugh_gently" ,
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"id" : "name_what_happened_simply" ,
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"id" : "change_direction" ,
"text" : "Change direction"
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"id" : "stop_without_making_it_a_failure" ,
"text" : "Stop without making it a failure"
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_166" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "If the mood disappears, what response feels best?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"mood_loss" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "no_pressure_to_recover_it" ,
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"id" : "a_warm_cuddle" ,
"text" : "A warm cuddle"
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"id" : "a_little_humor" ,
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"id" : "a_little_space" ,
"text" : "A little space"
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}
]
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_167" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What keeps an interrupted or awkward moment from feeling hurtful?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"failed_attempt" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "no_blame" ,
"text" : "No blame"
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"id" : "no_scorekeeping" ,
"text" : "No scorekeeping"
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"id" : "affection_afterward" ,
"text" : "Affection afterward"
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"id" : "permission_to_try_another_day" ,
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"id" : "no_forced_explanation" ,
"text" : "No forced explanation"
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_168" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How easy is it for us to recover from awkward moments?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"awkward_recovery" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"min" : 1 ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_169" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which signs mean we should slow down and reconnect?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"slow_down_signs" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "one_person_goes_quiet" ,
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"id" : "touch_stops_being_returned" ,
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"id" : "someone_seems_distracted" ,
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"id" : "a_check_in_gets_avoided" ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_170" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "After a misunderstanding, which repair feels most natural?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"repair_style" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "a_calm_explanation" ,
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"id" : "a_reassuring_hug_if_wanted" ,
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"id" : "a_little_time_then_a_talk" ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_171" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What should a thoughtful repair apology include?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"intimacy_apology" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "owning_the_impact" ,
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"id" : "no_excuses" ,
"text" : "No excuses"
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"id" : "respect_for_the_boundary" ,
"text" : "Respect for the boundary"
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"id" : "a_clear_change" ,
"text" : "A clear change"
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"id" : "no_demand_for_quick_forgiveness" ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_172" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What protects intimacy when we are upset with each other?" ,
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"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"conflict_protection" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "never_use_private_details_as_weapons" ,
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"id" : "do_not_use_sex_as_a_shortcut_to_reconciliation" ,
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"id" : "respect_separate_sleep_if_needed" ,
"text" : "Respect separate sleep if needed"
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"id" : "repair_emotionally_first" ,
"text" : "Repair emotionally first"
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"id" : "keep_affection_optional" ,
"text" : "Keep affection optional"
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"sex" : "neutral"
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"type" : "written" ,
"text" : "After distance, what makes reconnecting feel safe?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"reconnecting_written" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"max_length" : 400
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_174" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When feedback accidentally hurts, what helps us recover?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"feedback_hurt" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "acknowledge_the_sting" ,
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"id" : "clarify_the_intent" ,
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"id" : "avoid_defensiveness" ,
"text" : "Avoid defensiveness"
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"id" : "take_a_break_if_needed" ,
"text" : "Take a break if needed"
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"id" : "return_with_kindness" ,
"text" : "Return with kindness"
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_175" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "After a vulnerable moment, what reassurance lands best?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"vulnerable_reassurance" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "i_am_not_judging_you" ,
"text" : "I am not judging you"
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"id" : "thank_you_for_trusting_me" ,
"text" : "Thank you for trusting me"
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"id" : "nothing_has_to_happen" ,
"text" : "Nothing has to happen"
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"id" : "we_can_go_at_your_pace" ,
"text" : "We can go at your pace"
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} ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What can turn embarrassment into connection?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"embarrassment" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"options" : [
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"id" : "no_teasing_later" ,
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} ,
{
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"id" : "remembering_awkward_moments_happen" ,
"text" : "Remembering awkward moments happen"
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} ,
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"id" : "warm_affection_if_wanted" ,
"text" : "Warm affection if wanted"
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"id" : "a_simple_change_of_subject" ,
"text" : "A simple change of subject"
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"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How confident are you that private mistakes stay private?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"private_mistakes" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"min" : 1 ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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} ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Talk right away or reconnect after a little space?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"repair_timing" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"id" : "talk_right_away" ,
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} ,
{
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"id" : "reconnect_after_some_space" ,
"text" : "Reconnect after some space"
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}
]
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} ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which habits keep one awkward night from becoming a lasting story?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"lasting_story" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"id" : "do_not_retell_it" ,
"text" : "Do not retell it"
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"id" : "do_not_label_anyone" ,
"text" : "Do not label anyone"
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} ,
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"id" : "focus_on_what_was_learned" ,
"text" : "Focus on what was learned"
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} ,
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"id" : "return_to_normal_affection" ,
"text" : "Return to normal affection"
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} ,
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"id" : "try_again_only_if_both_want_to" ,
"text" : "Try again only if both want to"
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}
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] ,
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} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which qualities make a new intimate idea worth exploring?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
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"novelty" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "mutual_curiosity" ,
"text" : "Mutual curiosity"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "clear_boundaries" ,
"text" : "Clear boundaries"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "an_easy_opt_out" ,
"text" : "An easy opt-out"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_trusted_setting" ,
"text" : "A trusted setting"
} ,
{
"id" : "starting_small" ,
"text" : "Starting small"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_181" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "How would you rather hear a new idea?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
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"new_idea_delivery" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "in_a_relaxed_conversation" ,
"text" : "In a relaxed conversation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "as_a_playful_question" ,
"text" : "As a playful question"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "in_a_shared_yes_no_maybe_list" ,
"text" : "In a shared yes/no/maybe list"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "after_being_asked_if_i_am_open_to_ideas" ,
"text" : "After being asked if I am open to ideas"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_182" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What protects trust when discussing fantasies?" ,
"depth" : 4 ,
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"tags" : [
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"fantasy" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "no_assumption_we_will_do_it" ,
"text" : "No assumption we will do it"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_judgment" ,
"text" : "No judgment"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_pressure_for_details" ,
"text" : "No pressure for details"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "privacy_afterward" ,
"text" : "Privacy afterward"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "permission_to_stop_the_conversation" ,
"text" : "Permission to stop the conversation"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_183" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How curious do you feel about trying something new together?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
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"curiosity" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not curious" ,
"max_label" : "Very curious"
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_184" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which small changes sound interesting without feeling overwhelming?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"gentle_novelty" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_new_setting" ,
"text" : "A new setting"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_different_pace" ,
"text" : "A different pace"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "dressing_up" ,
"text" : "Dressing up"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_playful_game" ,
"text" : "A playful game"
} ,
{
"id" : "changing_who_leads" ,
"text" : "Changing who leads"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_185" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "How should a new idea be chosen?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"choosing_novelty" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "take_turns" ,
"text" : "Take turns"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_together" ,
"text" : "Choose together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_person_who_is_curious_suggests" ,
"text" : "The person who is curious suggests"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "only_use_ideas_already_discussed" ,
"text" : "Only use ideas already discussed"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_186" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps a new idea feel playful instead of awkward?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"role_play" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_simple_plan" ,
"text" : "A simple plan"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_together" ,
"text" : "Choosing together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "being_allowed_to_laugh" ,
"text" : "Being allowed to laugh"
} ,
{
"id" : "clear_limits" ,
"text" : "Clear limits"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "permission_to_stop_immediately" ,
"text" : "Permission to stop immediately"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_187" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "After confirming that both people want it and can stop anytime, what else should we discuss?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"toys" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "boundaries_and_limits" ,
"text" : "Boundaries and limits"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "privacy" ,
"text" : "Privacy"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_clear_stop_signal" ,
"text" : "A clear stop signal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_support_might_help_afterward" ,
"text" : "What support might help afterward"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_would_make_us_postpone_it" ,
"text" : "What would make us postpone it"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_188" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps an unfamiliar experience feel grounded?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"sensory" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "starting_small" ,
"text" : "Starting small"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "talking_through_expectations" ,
"text" : "Talking through expectations"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keeping_familiar_comforts_nearby" ,
"text" : "Keeping familiar comforts nearby"
} ,
{
"id" : "checking_in_as_we_go" ,
"text" : "Checking in as we go"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "stopping_if_either_person_feels_unsure" ,
"text" : "Stopping if either person feels unsure"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_189" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which ideas always need a separate conversation beforehand?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"no_surprise" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "anything_involving_recording" ,
"text" : "Anything involving recording"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "anything_involving_pain_or_restriction" ,
"text" : "Anything involving pain or restriction"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "anything_involving_another_person" ,
"text" : "Anything involving another person"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "anything_in_a_new_location" ,
"text" : "Anything in a new location"
} ,
{
"id" : "anything_already_named_as_a_boundary" ,
"text" : "Anything already named as a boundary"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_190" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "What level of novelty fits you best lately?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
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"novelty_level" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "familiar_favorites" ,
"text" : "Familiar favorites"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_small_change" ,
"text" : "One small change"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "something_clearly_new" ,
"text" : "Something clearly new"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_am_not_looking_for_novelty" ,
"text" : "I am not looking for novelty"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_191" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What keeps trying new things grounded in care?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"careful_curiosity" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "checking_emotional_comfort" ,
"text" : "Checking emotional comfort"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "respecting_hesitation" ,
"text" : "Respecting hesitation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "letting_comfort_matter_more_than_novelty" ,
"text" : "Letting comfort matter more than novelty"
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} ,
{
"id" : "talking_afterward" ,
"text" : "Talking afterward"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "valuing_closeness_over_novelty" ,
"text" : "Valuing closeness over novelty"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_192" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How safe do you feel sharing an idea that may never happen?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"sharing_fantasy" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not safe" ,
"max_label" : "Completely safe"
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_193" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "A familiar favorite or one small new twist?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"familiar_new" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_familiar_favorite" ,
"text" : "A familiar favorite"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_small_new_twist" ,
"text" : "One small new twist"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_194" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Talk through a fantasy or keep it as imagination?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"fantasy_choice" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "talk_through_a_fantasy" ,
"text" : "Talk through a fantasy"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_it_as_imagination" ,
"text" : "Keep it as imagination"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_195" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "How do you like anticipation to build before private time?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"anticipation" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "flirty_messages" ,
"text" : "Flirty messages"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_planned_evening" ,
"text" : "A planned evening"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "knowing_looks" ,
"text" : "Knowing looks"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "small_touches" ,
"text" : "Small touches"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_shared_secret" ,
"text" : "A shared secret"
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}
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] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_196" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which ritual would help us shift into couple time?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"ritual" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
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"id" : "change_the_lighting" ,
"text" : "Change the lighting"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "put_phones_away" ,
"text" : "Put phones away"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_music_together" ,
"text" : "Choose music together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "share_a_quick_check_in" ,
"text" : "Share a quick check-in"
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}
]
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} ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What keeps a planned night from feeling like an obligation?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"planned_night" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
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"id" : "flexible_expectations" ,
"text" : "Flexible expectations"
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"id" : "no_required_outcome" ,
"text" : "No required outcome"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "room_to_cancel" ,
"text" : "Room to cancel"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "affection_first" ,
"text" : "Affection first"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_plan_both_people_shaped" ,
"text" : "A plan both people shaped"
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}
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] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_198" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How much does anticipation affect your desire?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"anticipation_scale" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Very little" ,
"max_label" : "A great deal"
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_199" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which small rituals create emotional closeness?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"emotional_rituals" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
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"id" : "a_long_hello" ,
"text" : "A long hello"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_private_toast" ,
"text" : "A private toast"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_shared_playlist" ,
"text" : "A shared playlist"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_few_honest_minutes_at_night" ,
"text" : "A few honest minutes at night"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_slow_goodnight_kiss" ,
"text" : "A slow goodnight kiss"
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}
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] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_200" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "What signal would you enjoy using for 'I am interested'?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"interest_signal" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_specific_phrase" ,
"text" : "A specific phrase"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_private_emoji" ,
"text" : "A private emoji"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_certain_look" ,
"text" : "A certain look"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_hand_squeeze" ,
"text" : "A hand squeeze"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_201" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "How do we keep a flirty countdown fun?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"countdown" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"options" : [
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"id" : "a_clear_plan" ,
"text" : "A clear plan"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "playful_messages" ,
"text" : "Playful messages"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_pressure_if_the_mood_changes" ,
"text" : "No pressure if the mood changes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_small_surprise" ,
"text" : "A small surprise"
} ,
{
"id" : "keeping_it_private" ,
"text" : "Keeping it private"
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}
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] ,
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_202" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which traditions could help intimacy survive busy seasons?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"busy_rituals" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
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"id" : "a_weekly_cuddle_night" ,
"text" : "A weekly cuddle night"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_monthly_private_date" ,
"text" : "A monthly private date"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "goodbye_kisses" ,
"text" : "Goodbye kisses"
} ,
{
"id" : "ten_phone_free_minutes" ,
"text" : "Ten phone-free minutes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_relaxed_talk_about_what_we_want" ,
"text" : "A relaxed talk about what we want"
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}
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] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_203" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What would make a morning ritual feel intimate?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"morning_ritual" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "lingering_in_bed" ,
"text" : "Lingering in bed"
} ,
{
"id" : "sharing_coffee_close_together" ,
"text" : "Sharing coffee close together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_long_hug" ,
"text" : "A long hug"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_sweet_message_after_leaving" ,
"text" : "A sweet message after leaving"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_playful_promise_for_later" ,
"text" : "A playful promise for later"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_204" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which end-of-day signals help you feel chosen?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"end_day" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "putting_phones_away" ,
"text" : "Putting phones away"
} ,
{
"id" : "turning_toward_each_other" ,
"text" : "Turning toward each other"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "greeting_each_other_warmly" ,
"text" : "Greeting each other warmly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "offering_a_cuddle" ,
"text" : "Offering a cuddle"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "saying_what_i_appreciated" ,
"text" : "Saying what I appreciated"
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}
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] ,
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"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_205" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which private tradition sounds most sustainable?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"sustainable_ritual" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sunday_morning_cuddles" ,
"text" : "Sunday morning cuddles"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_weekly_flirty_text" ,
"text" : "A weekly flirty text"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_monthly_at_home_date" ,
"text" : "A monthly at-home date"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_nightly_goodnight_kiss" ,
"text" : "A nightly goodnight kiss"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_206" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "When does a ritual start feeling like a chore?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"ritual_risk" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "treating_it_like_a_quota" ,
"text" : "Treating it like a quota"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "ignoring_changing_moods" ,
"text" : "Ignoring changing moods"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keeping_score" ,
"text" : "Keeping score"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "never_changing_it" ,
"text" : "Never changing it"
} ,
{
"id" : "assuming_it_must_lead_somewhere" ,
"text" : "Assuming it must lead somewhere"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_207" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How easy is it to keep couple time from being crowded out?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
"protected_time" ,
"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Very difficult" ,
"max_label" : "Very easy"
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_208" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Build anticipation all day or keep the moment spontaneous?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"anticipation_choice" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "build_anticipation_all_day" ,
"text" : "Build anticipation all day"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_it_spontaneous" ,
"text" : "Keep it spontaneous"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_209" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "A reliable ritual or a changing surprise?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"ritual_surprise" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_reliable_ritual" ,
"text" : "A reliable ritual"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_changing_surprise" ,
"text" : "A changing surprise"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_210" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What kinds of intimacy still fit a very busy week?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"busy_week" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_flirty_message" ,
"text" : "A flirty message"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "ten_quiet_minutes_together" ,
"text" : "Ten quiet minutes together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_meaningful_check_in" ,
"text" : "A meaningful check-in"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_private_meal" ,
"text" : "A private meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_planned_hour_for_us" ,
"text" : "A planned hour for us"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_211" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "When energy is low, what closeness sounds most realistic?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"low_energy_choice" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "quiet_cuddling" ,
"text" : "Quiet cuddling"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_short_massage" ,
"text" : "A short massage"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "talking_in_bed" ,
"text" : "Talking in bed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "sleeping_close" ,
"text" : "Sleeping close"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_212" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What keeps intimacy from feeling like another task?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"not_task" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "keeping_plans_flexible" ,
"text" : "Keeping plans flexible"
} ,
{
"id" : "choosing_low_effort_closeness" ,
"text" : "Choosing low-effort closeness"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_guilt_if_plans_change" ,
"text" : "No guilt if plans change"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "making_room_for_play" ,
"text" : "Making room for play"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "not_tracking_frequency" ,
"text" : "Not tracking frequency"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_213" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How much energy do you usually need before intimacy feels appealing?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"energy_need" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Very little" ,
"max_label" : "A lot"
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_214" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which pressures most affect your ability to relax?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"responsibilities" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "childcare" ,
"text" : "Childcare"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "work_stress" ,
"text" : "Work stress"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "household_tasks" ,
"text" : "Household tasks"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "health_needs" ,
"text" : "Health needs"
} ,
{
"id" : "lack_of_privacy" ,
"text" : "Lack of privacy"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_215" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Pick what would make a short private moment feel worthwhile." ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"short_moment" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "focused_attention" ,
"text" : "Focused attention"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_long_kiss" ,
"text" : "One long kiss"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_little_laughter" ,
"text" : "A little laughter"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "knowing_it_is_enough" ,
"text" : "Knowing it is enough"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_216" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps intimacy survive irregular schedules?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"schedules" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "planning_a_window" ,
"text" : "Planning a window"
} ,
{
"id" : "using_small_moments" ,
"text" : "Using small moments"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "being_honest_about_energy" ,
"text" : "Being honest about energy"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "not_treating_low_energy_as_rejection" ,
"text" : "Not treating low energy as rejection"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "protecting_one_recurring_time" ,
"text" : "Protecting one recurring time"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_217" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What signs mean rest should come before intimacy?" ,
"depth" : 4 ,
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"tags" : [
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"rest_first" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "exhaustion" ,
"text" : "Exhaustion"
} ,
{
"id" : "irritability" ,
"text" : "Irritability"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "pain" ,
"text" : "Pain"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "difficulty_focusing" ,
"text" : "Difficulty focusing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "feeling_emotionally_shut_down" ,
"text" : "Feeling emotionally shut down"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_218" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What can keep affection alive during long stressful periods?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"long_stress" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "small_signs_of_affection" ,
"text" : "Small signs of affection"
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} ,
{
"id" : "kind_words" ,
"text" : "Kind words"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "shared_humor" ,
"text" : "Shared humor"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "brief_dates" ,
"text" : "Brief dates"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_pressure_for_more" ,
"text" : "No pressure for more"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_219" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "How can we make room for closeness without forcing it?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"make_room" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "offer_choices" ,
"text" : "Offer choices"
} ,
{
"id" : "plan_loosely" ,
"text" : "Plan loosely"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "start_with_affection" ,
"text" : "Start with affection"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "check_energy_first" ,
"text" : "Check energy first"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "accept_a_change_of_mind" ,
"text" : "Accept a change of mind"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_220" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which quick connection would you choose during a packed day?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"quick_connection" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_two_minute_hug" ,
"text" : "A two-minute hug"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_private_compliment" ,
"text" : "A private compliment"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_slow_kiss" ,
"text" : "A slow kiss"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_hand_squeeze" ,
"text" : "A hand squeeze"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_221" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What conditions make desire more possible after burnout?" ,
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"depth" : 5 ,
"tags" : [
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"burnout" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "enough_rest" ,
"text" : "Enough rest"
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} ,
{
"id" : "feeling_supported" ,
"text" : "Feeling supported"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "reduced_pressure" ,
"text" : "Reduced pressure"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "emotional_connection" ,
"text" : "Emotional connection"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "time_with_fewer_demands" ,
"text" : "Time with fewer demands"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_222" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How balanced does intimacy feel with the rest of our life?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
"life_balance" ,
"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Out of balance" ,
"max_label" : "Well balanced"
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_223" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
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"text" : "A brief moment tonight or unhurried time this weekend?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"timing_choice" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_brief_moment_tonight" ,
"text" : "A brief moment tonight"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "unhurried_time_this_weekend" ,
"text" : "Unhurried time this weekend"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_224" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Quiet closeness or playful distraction after a hard day?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"hard_day_choice" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "quiet_closeness" ,
"text" : "Quiet closeness"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "playful_distraction" ,
"text" : "Playful distraction"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_225" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which memories still bring back attraction for you?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"attraction_memory" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "our_first_kisses" ,
"text" : "Our first kisses"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_favorite_trip" ,
"text" : "A favorite trip"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_time_we_both_felt_confident" ,
"text" : "A time we both felt confident"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_playful_night" ,
"text" : "A playful night"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_time_we_felt_deeply_understood" ,
"text" : "A time we felt deeply understood"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_226" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which memory would you most enjoy recreating?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"recreate_memory" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_slow_romantic_night" ,
"text" : "A slow romantic night"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_spontaneous_moment" ,
"text" : "A spontaneous moment"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_playful_date" ,
"text" : "A playful date"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_peaceful_morning" ,
"text" : "A peaceful morning"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_227" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes a shared intimate memory especially meaningful?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"memory_value" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "feeling_safe_together" ,
"text" : "Feeling safe together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "feeling_desired" ,
"text" : "Feeling desired"
} ,
{
"id" : "laughing_together" ,
"text" : "Laughing together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_something_new_together" ,
"text" : "Choosing something new together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "being_fully_present" ,
"text" : "Being fully present"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_228" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How much do shared memories strengthen your attraction?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
"memory_scale" ,
"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Very little" ,
"max_label" : "A great deal"
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_229" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which older habits might still have some spark?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"old_habits" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "long_make_out_sessions" ,
"text" : "Long make-out sessions"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "flirty_notes" ,
"text" : "Flirty notes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "dressing_up" ,
"text" : "Dressing up"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "slow_dancing" ,
"text" : "Slow dancing"
} ,
{
"id" : "unplanned_cuddling" ,
"text" : "Unplanned cuddling"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_230" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What would be most fun to bring back for one night?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"bring_back" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "an_old_playlist" ,
"text" : "An old playlist"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_favorite_outfit" ,
"text" : "A favorite outfit"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_former_date_spot" ,
"text" : "A former date spot"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_forgotten_inside_joke" ,
"text" : "A forgotten inside joke"
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}
]
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_231" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What keeps nostalgia warm instead of pressuring?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"nostalgia" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "no_comparison_to_the_past" ,
"text" : "No comparison to the past"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_expectation_to_recreate_everything" ,
"text" : "No expectation to recreate everything"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_one_detail" ,
"text" : "Choosing one detail"
} ,
{
"id" : "appreciating_how_we_have_changed" ,
"text" : "Appreciating how we have changed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "letting_the_new_version_be_different" ,
"text" : "Letting the new version be different"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_232" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What moments have made you feel most chosen by me?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"chosen_memories" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "when_you_made_time_for_us" ,
"text" : "When you made time for us"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "when_you_protected_our_privacy" ,
"text" : "When you protected our privacy"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "when_you_noticed_my_mood" ,
"text" : "When you noticed my mood"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "when_you_initiated_affection" ,
"text" : "When you initiated affection"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "when_you_respected_a_boundary" ,
"text" : "When you respected a boundary"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_233" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What details make a romantic memory vivid?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"memory_details" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_certain_song" ,
"text" : "A certain song"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_scent" ,
"text" : "A scent"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_setting" ,
"text" : "The setting"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "specific_words" ,
"text" : "Specific words"
} ,
{
"id" : "how_my_body_felt" ,
"text" : "How my body felt"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_234" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What can old memories teach us about current intimacy?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"memory_lessons" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "what_pace_works" ,
"text" : "What pace works"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_makes_us_laugh" ,
"text" : "What makes us laugh"
} ,
{
"id" : "what_builds_trust" ,
"text" : "What builds trust"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_settings_help" ,
"text" : "What settings help"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_affection_we_miss" ,
"text" : "What affection we miss"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_235" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Pick the keepsake that would best represent our chemistry." ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"keepsake" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_photo" ,
"text" : "A photo"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_song" ,
"text" : "A song"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_handwritten_note" ,
"text" : "A handwritten note"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_place_we_revisit" ,
"text" : "A place we revisit"
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}
]
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_236" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which new memories would feel meaningful this year?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"new_memory" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_private_getaway" ,
"text" : "A private getaway"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_brave_conversation" ,
"text" : "A brave conversation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "trying_something_playful_together" ,
"text" : "Trying something playful together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_simple_recurring_ritual" ,
"text" : "A simple recurring ritual"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_deeply_relaxed_night" ,
"text" : "A deeply relaxed night"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_237" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How meaningful do our recent memories feel?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
"new_memory_scale" ,
"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Not very meaningful" ,
"max_label" : "Very meaningful"
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_238" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Recreate a favorite moment or invent a completely new one?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"recreate_new" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "recreate_a_favorite" ,
"text" : "Recreate a favorite"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "invent_something_new" ,
"text" : "Invent something new"
}
]
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_239" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Old love song or a new private playlist?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"tags" : [
"music_memory" ,
"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
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{
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"id" : "an_old_love_song" ,
"text" : "An old love song"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_new_private_playlist" ,
"text" : "A new private playlist"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_240" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What emotional moments make physical closeness easier?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"emotional_closeness" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "feeling_understood" ,
"text" : "Feeling understood"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "laughing_together" ,
"text" : "Laughing together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "making_up_after_a_disagreement" ,
"text" : "Making up after a disagreement"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "receiving_appreciation" ,
"text" : "Receiving appreciation"
} ,
{
"id" : "sharing_something_vulnerable" ,
"text" : "Sharing something vulnerable"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_241" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "What kind of attention helps intimacy feel caring, not just physical?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"emotionally_chosen" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "undivided_listening" ,
"text" : "Undivided listening"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "remembering_a_detail" ,
"text" : "Remembering a detail"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "making_time_for_me" ,
"text" : "Making time for me"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "checking_in_without_fixing" ,
"text" : "Checking in without fixing"
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}
]
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_242" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "When does intimacy feel like real connection instead of something to get right?" ,
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"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"connection_not_performance" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "being_able_to_slow_down" ,
"text" : "Being able to slow down"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_pressure_to_impress" ,
"text" : "No pressure to impress"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "honest_feedback" ,
"text" : "Honest feedback"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "warm_eye_contact" ,
"text" : "Warm eye contact"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "feeling_accepted" ,
"text" : "Feeling accepted"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_243" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How emotionally connected do you feel during intimacy lately?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
"emotional_scale" ,
"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not very connected" ,
"max_label" : "Deeply connected"
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_244" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which signs show that emotional trust is present?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"emotional_trust" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "no_fear_of_ridicule" ,
"text" : "No fear of ridicule"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "easy_honesty" ,
"text" : "Easy honesty"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "boundaries_are_remembered" ,
"text" : "Boundaries are remembered"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "silence_feels_comfortable" ,
"text" : "Silence feels comfortable"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "both_people_can_be_imperfect" ,
"text" : "Both people can be imperfect"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_245" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which conversation creates closeness fastest?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
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"closeness_talk" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_shared_memory" ,
"text" : "A shared memory"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_sincere_appreciation" ,
"text" : "A sincere appreciation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_future_hope" ,
"text" : "A future hope"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_playful_confession" ,
"text" : "A playful confession"
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}
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]
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_246" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "When does vulnerability bring us closer?" ,
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"depth" : 5 ,
"tags" : [
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"vulnerability" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "being_believed" ,
"text" : "Being believed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "being_thanked" ,
"text" : "Being thanked"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_immediate_advice" ,
"text" : "No immediate advice"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "privacy_afterward" ,
"text" : "Privacy afterward"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "feeling_closer_not_exposed" ,
"text" : "Feeling closer, not exposed"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_247" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which forms of appreciation strengthen intimacy?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"appreciation" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "noticing_effort" ,
"text" : "Noticing effort"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "praising_character" ,
"text" : "Praising character"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "naming_attraction" ,
"text" : "Naming attraction"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "thanking_small_care" ,
"text" : "Thanking small care"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "celebrating_growth" ,
"text" : "Celebrating growth"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_248" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What kind of affection works after an emotional conversation?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"post_talk_affection" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "asking_before_touching" ,
"text" : "Asking before touching"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_slow_hug" ,
"text" : "A slow hug"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "sitting_close" ,
"text" : "Sitting close"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_reassuring_kiss" ,
"text" : "A reassuring kiss"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "giving_space_first" ,
"text" : "Giving space first"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_249" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "When does eye contact feel connecting rather than intense?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"eye_contact" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_warm_expression" ,
"text" : "A warm expression"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "looking_away_is_allowed" ,
"text" : "Looking away is allowed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_happens_naturally" ,
"text" : "It happens naturally"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_pace_is_slow" ,
"text" : "The pace is slow"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "there_is_emotional_trust" ,
"text" : "There is emotional trust"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_250" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Pick the feeling you most want private time to create." ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"desired_feeling" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "comfort" ,
"text" : "Comfort"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "excitement" ,
"text" : "Excitement"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "tenderness" ,
"text" : "Tenderness"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "deep_connection" ,
"text" : "Deep connection"
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}
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]
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_251" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "When do we feel most like partners in intimacy?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"partnership" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "shared_decisions" ,
"text" : "Shared decisions"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "taking_turns_initiating" ,
"text" : "Taking turns initiating"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "both_receive_care" ,
"text" : "Both receive care"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "both_can_pause" ,
"text" : "Both can pause"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "both_feel_appreciated" ,
"text" : "Both feel appreciated"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_252" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How easy is it to stay emotionally present during physical closeness?" ,
"depth" : 4 ,
"tags" : [
"presence_scale" ,
"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Very difficult" ,
"max_label" : "Very easy"
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_253" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Heart-to-heart first or affection first?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"order_choice" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "heart_to_heart_first" ,
"text" : "Heart-to-heart first"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "affection_first" ,
"text" : "Affection first"
}
]
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_254" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Quiet tenderness or playful chemistry?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
"chemistry_choice" ,
"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
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{
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"id" : "quiet_tenderness" ,
"text" : "Quiet tenderness"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "playful_chemistry" ,
"text" : "Playful chemistry"
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}
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]
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_255" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which private mini-dates sound genuinely fun?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"mini_dates" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "dessert_in_bed" ,
"text" : "Dessert in bed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_candlelit_playlist_night" ,
"text" : "A candlelit playlist night"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "slow_dancing_at_home" ,
"text" : "Slow dancing at home"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_blanket_and_movie_cuddle" ,
"text" : "A blanket-and-movie cuddle"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_dress_up_dinner_indoors" ,
"text" : "A dress-up dinner indoors"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_256" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which tiny challenge would feel playful and flirty?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"flirty_challenge" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "trade_three_compliments" ,
"text" : "Trade three compliments"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "hold_eye_contact_for_ten_seconds" ,
"text" : "Hold eye contact for ten seconds"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_each_other_s_song" ,
"text" : "Choose each other's song"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "plan_one_surprise_date_detail" ,
"text" : "Plan one surprise date detail"
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}
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]
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_257" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "When does a couple game feel playful without feeling childish?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"adult_game" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "good_chemistry" ,
"text" : "Good chemistry"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "private_humor" ,
"text" : "Private humor"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "simple_rules" ,
"text" : "Simple rules"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "either_person_can_skip_any_part" ,
"text" : "Either person can skip any part"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_embarrassing_dares" ,
"text" : "No embarrassing dares"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_258" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How much do you enjoy playful structure in private time?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
"game_scale" ,
"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not at all" ,
"max_label" : "Very much"
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_259" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which low-pressure dares would you actually enjoy?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"dares" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "give_a_slow_compliment" ,
"text" : "Give a slow compliment"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_the_mood_for_tonight" ,
"text" : "Choose the mood for tonight"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "pick_the_next_song" ,
"text" : "Pick the next song"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "share_a_favorite_memory" ,
"text" : "Share a favorite memory"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "name_one_small_thing_that_helps_you_feel_close" ,
"text" : "Name one small thing that helps you feel close"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_260" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What shared ending sounds best after a playful challenge?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"shared_prize" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_long_cuddle" ,
"text" : "A long cuddle"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "dessert_together" ,
"text" : "Dessert together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_massage_trade" ,
"text" : "A massage trade"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_the_next_date" ,
"text" : "Choosing the next date"
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}
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]
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_261" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What keeps a teasing game from going too far?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"teasing_limits" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_stop_word" ,
"text" : "A stop word"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_humiliation" ,
"text" : "No humiliation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "nothing_involving_bystanders" ,
"text" : "Nothing involving bystanders"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "clear_time_limits" ,
"text" : "Clear time limits"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "immediate_respect_for_discomfort" ,
"text" : "Immediate respect for discomfort"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_262" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which playful choices could help us learn preferences?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"preference_games" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_yes_no_maybe_list" ,
"text" : "A yes/no/maybe list"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_among_four_affection_styles" ,
"text" : "Choose among four affection styles"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_a_mood_card" ,
"text" : "Choose a mood card"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_a_favorite_kind_of_affection" ,
"text" : "Choose a favorite kind of affection"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "build_a_shared_idea_jar" ,
"text" : "Build a shared idea jar"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_263" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What would make a private scavenger hunt feel romantic?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"scavenger" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "notes_with_compliments" ,
"text" : "Notes with compliments"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_favorite_snack" ,
"text" : "A favorite snack"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_meaningful_location" ,
"text" : "A meaningful location"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_final_slow_dance" ,
"text" : "A final slow dance"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_no_pressure_ending" ,
"text" : "A no-pressure ending"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_264" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which themes could make an at-home night fresh?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"themes" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "first_date_replay" ,
"text" : "First-date replay"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "favorite_decade_music" ,
"text" : "Favorite-decade music"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "dress_up_dinner" ,
"text" : "Dress-up dinner"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "spa_night" ,
"text" : "Spa night"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "phones_away_cozy_night" ,
"text" : "Phones-away cozy night"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_265" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Pick the playful signal that should mean 'I am open to a little closeness'." ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"come_closer_signal" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_certain_smile" ,
"text" : "A certain smile"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_private_phrase" ,
"text" : "A private phrase"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_hand_offered" ,
"text" : "A hand offered"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_favorite_song_started" ,
"text" : "A favorite song started"
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}
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]
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_266" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "When does surprise affection feel fun?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"surprise_affection" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "it_stays_within_known_boundaries" ,
"text" : "It stays within known boundaries"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_timing_is_considerate" ,
"text" : "The timing is considerate"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_is_easy_to_decline" ,
"text" : "It is easy to decline"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_feels_personal" ,
"text" : "It feels personal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_does_not_interrupt_something_important" ,
"text" : "It does not interrupt something important"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_267" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How playful would you like our intimacy to feel this month?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
"playful_month" ,
"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not very playful" ,
"max_label" : "Very playful"
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_268" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "A flirty game or a slow private date?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"game_date" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_flirty_game" ,
"text" : "A flirty game"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_slow_private_date" ,
"text" : "A slow private date"
}
]
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_269" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Trade compliments or trade gentle massages?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
"trade_choice" ,
"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
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{
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"id" : "trade_compliments" ,
"text" : "Trade compliments"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "trade_gentle_massages" ,
"text" : "Trade gentle massages"
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}
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]
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_270" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What keeps attraction alive in a long relationship?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"long_term_attraction" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "continued_curiosity" ,
"text" : "Continued curiosity"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "individual_confidence" ,
"text" : "Individual confidence"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "playfulness" ,
"text" : "Playfulness"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "repairing_hurt_feelings" ,
"text" : "Repairing hurt feelings"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "making_private_time" ,
"text" : "Making private time"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_271" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which long-term habit protects romance best?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"romance_habit" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "regular_dates" ,
"text" : "Regular dates"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "daily_affection" ,
"text" : "Daily affection"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "flirty_messages" ,
"text" : "Flirty messages"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "honest_desire_talks" ,
"text" : "Honest desire talks"
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}
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]
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_272" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which habits make intimacy feel routine?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"routine" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "always_the_same_timing" ,
"text" : "Always the same timing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "skipping_connection_beforehand" ,
"text" : "Skipping connection beforehand"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_anticipation" ,
"text" : "No anticipation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "feeling_rushed" ,
"text" : "Feeling rushed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "treating_it_as_an_obligation" ,
"text" : "Treating it as an obligation"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_273" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How fresh does our intimate connection feel lately?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"tags" : [
"freshness" ,
"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Not very fresh" ,
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"max_label" : "Very fresh"
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_274" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which changes deserve extra patience over the years?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"life_changes" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "health_changes" ,
"text" : "Health changes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "body_changes" ,
"text" : "Body changes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "hormonal_changes" ,
"text" : "Hormonal changes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "parenting_demands" ,
"text" : "Parenting demands"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "stress_and_grief" ,
"text" : "Stress and grief"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_275" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Where would you most like our intimacy to grow?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"growth" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "more_honest_communication" ,
"text" : "More honest communication"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "more_playful_affection" ,
"text" : "More playful affection"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "more_confidence_naming_boundaries" ,
"text" : "More confidence naming boundaries"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "more_unhurried_time" ,
"text" : "More unhurried time"
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}
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]
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_276" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "How do we adapt without losing closeness?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"adaptation" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "talk_about_changes" ,
"text" : "Talk about changes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_preferences_evolve" ,
"text" : "Let preferences evolve"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_nonsexual_affection" ,
"text" : "Keep nonsexual affection"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "avoid_comparisons_to_the_past" ,
"text" : "Avoid comparisons to the past"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "find_new_shared_rhythms" ,
"text" : "Find new shared rhythms"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_277" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which signs suggest our intimacy needs attention?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"attention_signs" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "affection_feels_absent" ,
"text" : "Affection feels absent"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "conversations_feel_unsafe" ,
"text" : "Conversations feel unsafe"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "initiation_feels_risky_or_pressured" ,
"text" : "Initiation feels risky or pressured"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "boundaries_are_forgotten" ,
"text" : "Boundaries are forgotten"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "resentment_is_growing" ,
"text" : "Resentment is growing"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_278" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What should never become a scorecard?" ,
"depth" : 5 ,
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"tags" : [
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"scorecard" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "frequency" ,
"text" : "Frequency"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "who_initiates" ,
"text" : "Who initiates"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "who_says_no" ,
"text" : "Who says no"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "who_plans_dates" ,
"text" : "Who plans dates"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "who_needs_more_reassurance" ,
"text" : "Who needs more reassurance"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_279" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What supports intimacy through major life transitions?" ,
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"depth" : 5 ,
"tags" : [
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"transitions" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "realistic_expectations" ,
"text" : "Realistic expectations"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "flexible_definitions_of_closeness" ,
"text" : "Flexible definitions of closeness"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "honest_talks_as_needs_change" ,
"text" : "Honest talks as needs change"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "extra_patience_with_changing_energy" ,
"text" : "Extra patience with changing energy"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "updating_what_closeness_looks_like" ,
"text" : "Updating what closeness looks like"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_280" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Pick the shared promise that would best protect long-term intimacy." ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"shared_promise" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "we_can_always_pause" ,
"text" : "We can always pause"
} ,
{
"id" : "we_will_keep_learning_each_other" ,
"text" : "We will keep learning each other"
} ,
{
"id" : "no_private_detail_becomes_a_weapon" ,
"text" : "No private detail becomes a weapon"
} ,
{
"id" : "affection_never_creates_debt" ,
"text" : "Affection never creates debt"
}
]
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_281" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What can make growing older together feel attractive?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"aging" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "shared_history" ,
"text" : "Shared history"
} ,
{
"id" : "deep_trust" ,
"text" : "Deep trust"
} ,
{
"id" : "comfort_in_our_bodies" ,
"text" : "Comfort in our bodies"
} ,
{
"id" : "knowing_each_other_s_cues" ,
"text" : "Knowing each other's cues"
} ,
{
"id" : "still_surprising_each_other" ,
"text" : "Still surprising each other"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_282" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How confident are you that our intimacy can keep evolving?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"evolving" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Not confident" ,
"max_label" : "Very confident"
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_283" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Protect a favorite ritual or invent a new one?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"ritual_evolution" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "protect_a_favorite_ritual" ,
"text" : "Protect a favorite ritual"
} ,
{
"id" : "invent_a_new_one" ,
"text" : "Invent a new one"
}
]
} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_284" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How well does our current intimacy fit this stage of life?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"life_stage_fit" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Does not fit well yet" ,
"max_label" : "Fits very well"
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} ,
"id" : "couple_intimacy_285" ,
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"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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} ,
{
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What do you hope our intimacy includes more of next year?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"future" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "playfulness" ,
"text" : "Playfulness"
} ,
{
"id" : "emotional_closeness" ,
"text" : "Emotional closeness"
} ,
{
"id" : "unhurried_time" ,
"text" : "Unhurried time"
} ,
{
"id" : "honest_conversations" ,
"text" : "Honest conversations"
} ,
{
"id" : "new_shared_experiences" ,
"text" : "New shared experiences"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_286" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which future intimacy goal feels most meaningful?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"future_goal" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "feeling_safer_to_speak" ,
"text" : "Feeling safer to speak"
} ,
{
"id" : "making_more_time" ,
"text" : "Making more time"
} ,
{
"id" : "keeping_attraction_playful" ,
"text" : "Keeping attraction playful"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "feeling_cared_for_afterward" ,
"text" : "Feeling cared for afterward"
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}
]
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_287" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What parts of our current connection deserve appreciation?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"current_appreciation" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "our_affection" ,
"text" : "Our affection"
} ,
{
"id" : "our_honesty" ,
"text" : "Our honesty"
} ,
{
"id" : "our_humor" ,
"text" : "Our humor"
} ,
{
"id" : "our_ability_to_repair" ,
"text" : "Our ability to repair"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "our_respect_for_boundaries" ,
"text" : "Our respect for boundaries"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_288" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How hopeful do you feel about our intimate future?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"tags" : [
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"hope" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not hopeful" ,
"max_label" : "Very hopeful"
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_289" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which shared intentions could strengthen closeness?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"intentions" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "ask_what_feels_good_now" ,
"text" : "Ask what feels good now"
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} ,
{
"id" : "protect_private_time" ,
"text" : "Protect private time"
} ,
{
"id" : "offer_affection_without_expectation" ,
"text" : "Offer affection without expectation"
} ,
{
"id" : "try_one_small_new_thing" ,
"text" : "Try one small new thing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "celebrate_what_already_works" ,
"text" : "Celebrate what already works"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_290" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What do you hope we remember years from now?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"future_memory" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "we_stayed_kind" ,
"text" : "We stayed kind"
} ,
{
"id" : "we_kept_flirting" ,
"text" : "We kept flirting"
} ,
{
"id" : "we_respected_every_no" ,
"text" : "We respected every no"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_never_stopped_learning" ,
"text" : "We never stopped learning"
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}
]
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_291" ,
"category_id" : "couple_intimacy" ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which parts of the way we handle intimacy make you proud?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"pride" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "we_can_be_honest" ,
"text" : "We can be honest"
} ,
{
"id" : "we_respect_boundaries" ,
"text" : "We respect boundaries"
} ,
{
"id" : "we_recover_from_awkwardness" ,
"text" : "We recover from awkwardness"
} ,
{
"id" : "we_make_each_other_laugh" ,
"text" : "We make each other laugh"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_keep_choosing_connection" ,
"text" : "We keep choosing connection"
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}
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] ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_292" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which qualities do you want us to protect no matter what?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"protect" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"id" : "trust" ,
"text" : "Trust"
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"id" : "playfulness" ,
"text" : "Playfulness"
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"id" : "privacy" ,
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"text" : "Mutual choice"
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} ,
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"id" : "freedom_to_change" ,
"text" : "Freedom to change"
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}
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] ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_293" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What could help us feel more connected over the next few months?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"next_season" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"id" : "a_new_ritual" ,
"text" : "A new ritual"
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"text" : "A private getaway"
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"id" : "better_stress_support" ,
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"id" : "more_daily_affection" ,
"text" : "More daily affection"
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} ,
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"id" : "a_more_honest_conversation" ,
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}
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] ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_294" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which appreciation would you most like to hear from me?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"tags" : [
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"appreciation_hear" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"id" : "i_love_how_easy_honesty_feels_with_you" ,
"text" : "I love how easy honesty feels with you"
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} ,
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"id" : "i_love_our_chemistry" ,
"text" : "I love our chemistry"
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"id" : "i_notice_how_you_care_for_me" ,
"text" : "I notice how you care for me"
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"id" : "i_am_grateful_we_can_grow_together" ,
"text" : "I am grateful we can grow together"
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"id" : "i_still_choose_you" ,
"text" : "I still choose you"
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}
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] ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_295" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which small promise feels realistic for this month?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"monthly_promise" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"id" : "one_private_date" ,
"text" : "One private date"
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"id" : "more_goodbye_kisses" ,
"text" : "More goodbye kisses"
} ,
{
"id" : "one_relaxed_talk_about_what_we_want" ,
"text" : "One relaxed talk about what we want"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "ten_phone_free_cuddle_minutes" ,
"text" : "Ten phone-free cuddle minutes"
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}
]
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_296" ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What keeps closeness from getting lost in everyday life?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"visibility" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"id" : "naming_what_works" ,
"text" : "Naming what works"
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"id" : "celebrating_small_moments" ,
"text" : "Celebrating small moments"
} ,
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"id" : "planning_time_before_we_are_depleted" ,
"text" : "Planning time before we are depleted"
} ,
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"id" : "continuing_to_flirt" ,
"text" : "Continuing to flirt"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keeping_check_ins_brief_and_natural" ,
"text" : "Keeping check-ins brief and natural"
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}
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] ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_297" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How appreciated do you feel for the way you contribute to our closeness?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"appreciated_scale" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"min" : 1 ,
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_298" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "More tenderness or more adventure in our next chapter?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"next_chapter" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
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"id" : "more_tenderness" ,
"text" : "More tenderness"
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} ,
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"id" : "more_adventure" ,
"text" : "More adventure"
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}
]
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} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_299" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
} ,
{
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How similar do our hopes for future intimacy feel?" ,
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"tags" : [
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"alignment" ,
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"couple_intimacy"
] ,
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"min" : 1 ,
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"min_label" : "Very different" ,
"max_label" : "Very similar"
} ,
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"id" : "couple_intimacy_300" ,
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"sex" : "neutral"
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}
]
}