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"category": {
"id": "couple_intimacy",
"display_name": "Couple Intimacy",
"description": "Warm, adult, consent-first questions about affection, desire, emotional closeness, privacy, feedback, aftercare, play, and growing intimacy together.",
"access": "mixed",
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"female": 0,
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"review_policy": "30 batches of 10 with cumulative repetition, consent, option-fit, premium-value, and related-pack checks",
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"used": true,
"reason": "The source pack had a shared root failure across more than 60% of the content: 180 written prompts, repeated template blocks, and basic preferences that did not earn typed responses.",
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"type_distribution_note": "This 300-question special pack scales the standard v6 type ratio to 168 multi-choice, 60 single-choice, 42 scale, 18 this-or-that, and 12 written.",
"content_scope": "Shared couple intimacy: mutual affection, desire, consent, communication, privacy, aftercare, repair, play, and long-term closeness. It avoids unnecessary gender targeting and keeps all questions neutral.",
"final_review_note": "A stricter repo-based review used 30 batches of 10 and patched consent baselines, option fit, related-pack overlap, natural-language issues, premium value, and depth balance while preserving passing questions.",
"depth_compatibility_note": "Numeric depth values are retained for the active seed/import contract: 12 light, 3 medium, and 45 deep.",
"strict_review_note": "A stricter repo-based pass patched automatic-reject phrasing, consent baselines, prompt-option mismatches, related-pack overlap, and unnatural wording while preserving passing questions.",
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"2": 121,
"3": 115,
"4": 15,
"5": 45
},
"depth_balance_note": "Final guide-aligned balance: 125 light (depth 12), 115 medium (depth 3), and 60 deep (depth 45), matching the sensitive-pack target range."
}
},
"questions": [
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which ordinary moments make you feel most like a couple?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"everyday_affection",
"couple_intimacy"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "sharing_the_first_few_minutes_home",
"text": "Sharing the first few minutes home"
},
{
"id": "laughing_over_something_only_we_understand",
"text": "Laughing over something only we understand"
},
{
"id": "choosing_each_other_over_our_phones",
"text": "Choosing each other over our phones"
},
{
"id": "turning_a_task_into_time_together",
"text": "Turning a task into time together"
},
{
"id": "checking_in_before_the_day_ends",
"text": "Checking in before the day ends"
}
],
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"max_selections": 3
},
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"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
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"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the small morning ritual that would help us feel like a couple before the day starts.",
"depth": 1,
"tags": [
"morning_affection",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "share_coffee_without_phones",
"text": "Share coffee without phones"
},
{
"id": "trade_one_warm_compliment",
"text": "Trade one warm compliment"
},
{
"id": "pick_a_song_for_the_morning",
"text": "Pick a song for the morning"
},
{
"id": "check_in_before_the_day_starts",
"text": "Check in before the day starts"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_002",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When we reunite after work, what helps us reconnect?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"reunion",
"couple_intimacy"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "put_everything_down_and_say_hello",
"text": "Put everything down and say hello"
},
{
"id": "trade_the_best_part_of_the_day",
"text": "Trade the best part of the day"
},
{
"id": "take_five_quiet_minutes_together",
"text": "Take five quiet minutes together"
},
{
"id": "make_each_other_laugh",
"text": "Make each other laugh"
},
{
"id": "say_what_we_missed",
"text": "Say what we missed"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_003",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How connected do our small daily rituals make you feel?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"casual_touch",
"couple_intimacy"
],
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"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very connected",
"max_label": "Very connected"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_004",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes shared quiet feel intimate instead of distant?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"shared_space",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "choosing_to_be_together",
"text": "Choosing to be together"
},
{
"id": "putting_phones_away",
"text": "Putting phones away"
},
{
"id": "easy_eye_contact",
"text": "Easy eye contact"
},
{
"id": "comfortable_silence",
"text": "Comfortable silence"
},
{
"id": "knowing_conversation_can_wait",
"text": "Knowing conversation can wait"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_005",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the small romantic gesture that feels most like us.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"romantic_touch",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_private_note",
"text": "A private note"
},
{
"id": "a_song_sent_at_the_right_moment",
"text": "A song sent at the right moment"
},
{
"id": "saving_a_favorite_treat",
"text": "Saving a favorite treat"
},
{
"id": "a_sincere_compliment",
"text": "A sincere compliment"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_006",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What small gestures help us stay connected during a busy day?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"busy_day",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_flirty_message",
"text": "A flirty message"
},
{
"id": "a_thoughtful_check_in",
"text": "A thoughtful check-in"
},
{
"id": "sharing_a_tiny_win",
"text": "Sharing a tiny win"
},
{
"id": "sending_something_funny",
"text": "Sending something funny"
},
{
"id": "making_a_simple_plan_for_later",
"text": "Making a simple plan for later"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_007",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which bedtime habits help us feel like a couple?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"bedtime",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "talking_for_a_few_minutes",
"text": "Talking for a few minutes"
},
{
"id": "sharing_one_good_thing",
"text": "Sharing one good thing"
},
{
"id": "putting_phones_away",
"text": "Putting phones away"
},
{
"id": "planning_something_small",
"text": "Planning something small"
},
{
"id": "saying_goodnight_with_intention",
"text": "Saying goodnight with intention"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_008",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "written",
"text": "What small couple ritual from our earlier days would you love to bring back?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"affection_memory",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 400
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_009",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a reunion moment feel especially like us?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"hugs",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_stop_and_notice_each_other",
"text": "We stop and notice each other"
},
{
"id": "we_trade_a_private_joke",
"text": "We trade a private joke"
},
{
"id": "we_share_what_we_missed",
"text": "We share what we missed"
},
{
"id": "we_do_not_rush_past_it",
"text": "We do not rush past it"
},
{
"id": "it_fits_the_day_we_had",
"text": "It fits the day we had"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_010",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the welcome-home moment that would feel sweetest.",
"depth": 1,
"tags": [
"surprise_kiss",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_full_attention_hello",
"text": "A full-attention hello"
},
{
"id": "a_few_quiet_minutes",
"text": "A few quiet minutes"
},
{
"id": "a_playful_recap_of_the_day",
"text": "A playful recap of the day"
},
{
"id": "making_a_plan_for_the_evening",
"text": "Making a plan for the evening"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_011",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps romantic attention warm without becoming automatic?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"intentional_affection",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "changing_the_timing",
"text": "Changing the timing"
},
{
"id": "being_specific",
"text": "Being specific"
},
{
"id": "noticing_the_other_person_s_mood",
"text": "Noticing the other persons mood"
},
{
"id": "choosing_it_instead_of_assuming_it",
"text": "Choosing it instead of assuming it"
},
{
"id": "keeping_pressure_out_of_it",
"text": "Keeping pressure out of it"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_012",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How connected do our everyday couple rituals feel lately?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"affection_check",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very connected",
"max_label": "Very connected"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_013",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which ordinary moments could use more couple attention?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"daily_moments",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "morning_routines",
"text": "Morning routines"
},
{
"id": "coming_home",
"text": "Coming home"
},
{
"id": "meals_together",
"text": "Meals together"
},
{
"id": "screen_time",
"text": "Screen time"
},
{
"id": "getting_ready_for_bed",
"text": "Getting ready for bed"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_014",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps closeness feel satisfying even when sex is not the goal?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"nonsexual_affection",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "time_without_pressure",
"text": "Time without pressure"
},
{
"id": "feeling_chosen",
"text": "Feeling chosen"
},
{
"id": "honest_conversation",
"text": "Honest conversation"
},
{
"id": "shared_laughter",
"text": "Shared laughter"
},
{
"id": "ending_warmly",
"text": "Ending warmly"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_015",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which playful energy makes affection more fun?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"playfulness",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "private_jokes",
"text": "Private jokes"
},
{
"id": "playful_challenges",
"text": "Playful challenges"
},
{
"id": "silly_compliments",
"text": "Silly compliments"
},
{
"id": "unexpected_dancing",
"text": "Unexpected dancing"
},
{
"id": "teasing_that_stays_kind",
"text": "Teasing that stays kind"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_016",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the flirty signal that feels most naturally ours.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"flirting",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_knowing_look",
"text": "A knowing look"
},
{
"id": "a_bold_compliment",
"text": "A bold compliment"
},
{
"id": "a_playful_text",
"text": "A playful text"
},
{
"id": "a_slow_kiss_in_passing",
"text": "A slow kiss in passing"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_017",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does teasing feel exciting instead of annoying?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"teasing",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
},
{
"id": "a_warm_tone",
"text": "A warm tone"
},
{
"id": "knowing_when_to_stop",
"text": "Knowing when to stop"
},
{
"id": "flirting_back_and_forth",
"text": "Flirting back and forth"
},
{
"id": "no_embarrassing_audience",
"text": "No embarrassing audience"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_018",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How playful does our affection feel right now?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"playful_affection",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very playful",
"max_label": "Very playful"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_019",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What tiny games could make private time more fun?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"private_games",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "take_turns_choosing_music",
"text": "Take turns choosing music"
},
{
"id": "trade_specific_compliments",
"text": "Trade specific compliments"
},
{
"id": "guess_each_other_s_favorite_compliment",
"text": "Guess each other's favorite compliment"
},
{
"id": "choose_a_cozy_spot_together",
"text": "Choose a cozy spot together"
},
{
"id": "create_a_private_signal",
"text": "Create a private signal"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_020",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of laughter feels most natural during intimate moments?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"laughter",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "soft_giggles",
"text": "Soft giggles"
},
{
"id": "big_shared_laughs",
"text": "Big shared laughs"
},
{
"id": "laughing_through_an_awkward_moment",
"text": "Laughing through an awkward moment"
},
{
"id": "very_little_unless_it_happens_naturally",
"text": "Very little unless it happens naturally"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_021",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which flirty messages would brighten your day?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"flirty_messages",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_specific_compliment",
"text": "A specific compliment"
},
{
"id": "a_memory_of_last_night",
"text": "A memory of last night"
},
{
"id": "a_simple_i_want_you",
"text": "A simple 'I want you'"
},
{
"id": "a_playful_invitation",
"text": "A playful invitation"
},
{
"id": "an_inside_joke_with_a_hint",
"text": "An inside joke with a hint"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_022",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a private game stay comfortable?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"game_safety",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "skipping_is_always_allowed",
"text": "Skipping is always allowed"
},
{
"id": "rules_are_clear_first",
"text": "Rules are clear first"
},
{
"id": "either_person_can_pause",
"text": "Either person can pause"
},
{
"id": "the_mood_stays_kind",
"text": "The mood stays kind"
},
{
"id": "no_surprise_escalation",
"text": "No surprise escalation"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_023",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one playful thing we have done that you would gladly repeat?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"playful_memory",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 400
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_024",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which forms of anticipation feel fun to you?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"anticipation",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_flirty_text",
"text": "A flirty text"
},
{
"id": "knowing_looks_across_a_room",
"text": "Knowing looks across a room"
},
{
"id": "a_planned_private_night",
"text": "A planned private night"
},
{
"id": "small_touches_during_the_day",
"text": "Small touches during the day"
},
{
"id": "a_secret_countdown",
"text": "A secret countdown"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_025",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the playful invitation you would most enjoy hearing.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"invitation",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "come_kiss_me",
"text": "Come kiss me"
},
{
"id": "want_a_private_minute",
"text": "Want a private minute?"
},
{
"id": "i_have_an_idea_for_us",
"text": "I have an idea for us"
},
{
"id": "want_to_be_a_little_distracted",
"text": "Want to be a little distracted?"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_026",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What could make an at-home night feel flirtier?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"home_flirting",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "dress_up_a_little",
"text": "Dress up a little"
},
{
"id": "choose_a_mood_playlist",
"text": "Choose a mood playlist"
},
{
"id": "trade_bold_compliments",
"text": "Trade bold compliments"
},
{
"id": "turn_off_the_television",
"text": "Turn off the television"
},
{
"id": "make_dessert_together",
"text": "Make dessert together"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_027",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it for us to be silly without losing the mood?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"silliness",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not easy",
"max_label": "Very easy"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_028",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What small surprises would feel exciting?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"surprises",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_favorite_outfit",
"text": "A favorite outfit"
},
{
"id": "a_private_note",
"text": "A private note"
},
{
"id": "a_changed_up_setting",
"text": "A changed-up setting"
},
{
"id": "a_new_playlist",
"text": "A new playlist"
},
{
"id": "a_favorite_treat_waiting",
"text": "A favorite treat waiting"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_029",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does playful competition feel attractive rather than tense?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"competition",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "low_stakes",
"text": "Low stakes"
},
{
"id": "lots_of_laughter",
"text": "Lots of laughter"
},
{
"id": "no_keeping_score_afterward",
"text": "No keeping score afterward"
},
{
"id": "a_shared_treat_afterward",
"text": "A shared treat afterward"
},
{
"id": "easy_permission_to_quit",
"text": "Easy permission to quit"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_030",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you shift toward closeness after a heavy day?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"stress_relief",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "quiet_time_first",
"text": "Quiet time first"
},
{
"id": "a_warm_shower",
"text": "A warm shower"
},
{
"id": "help_with_one_task",
"text": "Help with one task"
},
{
"id": "a_calm_conversation",
"text": "A calm conversation"
},
{
"id": "no_fixed_plan",
"text": "No fixed plan"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_031",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the comfort that feels best before closeness.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"comfort",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "having_space_first",
"text": "Having space first"
},
{
"id": "talking_things_through",
"text": "Talking things through"
},
{
"id": "a_drink_or_snack",
"text": "A drink or snack"
},
{
"id": "a_little_playful_distraction",
"text": "A little playful distraction"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_032",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When stress is high, what kind of connection still feels welcome?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"stress_affection",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "quiet_company",
"text": "Quiet company"
},
{
"id": "a_brief_check_in",
"text": "A brief check-in"
},
{
"id": "a_shared_laugh",
"text": "A shared laugh"
},
{
"id": "sitting_together",
"text": "Sitting together"
},
{
"id": "an_early_night",
"text": "An early night"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_033",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much does stress affect your interest in intimacy?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"stress_effect",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hardly at all",
"max_label": "A great deal"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_034",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does closeness feel soothing rather than demanding?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"soothing_closeness",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_expectation_of_more",
"text": "No expectation of more"
},
{
"id": "a_slow_pace",
"text": "A slow pace"
},
{
"id": "asking_before_touching",
"text": "Asking before touching"
},
{
"id": "being_able_to_change_my_mind",
"text": "Being able to change my mind"
},
{
"id": "a_check_in_if_i_tense_up",
"text": "A check-in if I tense up"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_035",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "After a draining day, what kind of connection sounds best?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"draining_day",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "quiet_time_together",
"text": "Quiet time together"
},
{
"id": "a_playful_moment",
"text": "A playful moment"
},
{
"id": "a_meaningful_talk",
"text": "A meaningful talk"
},
{
"id": "early_sleep_together",
"text": "Early sleep together"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_036",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What signs tell you that you need gentleness?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"gentleness_signals",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_become_quiet",
"text": "I become quiet"
},
{
"id": "i_pull_away",
"text": "I pull away"
},
{
"id": "i_ask_for_slower",
"text": "I ask for slower"
},
{
"id": "my_body_feels_tense",
"text": "My body feels tense"
},
{
"id": "i_stop_responding_playfully",
"text": "I stop responding playfully"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_037",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When you feel overwhelmed, what makes affection easier?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"overwhelm",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "fewer_questions",
"text": "Fewer questions"
},
{
"id": "one_simple_choice",
"text": "One simple choice"
},
{
"id": "low_lighting",
"text": "Low lighting"
},
{
"id": "no_time_pressure",
"text": "No time pressure"
},
{
"id": "a_clear_option_to_be_alone",
"text": "A clear option to be alone"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_038",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "written",
"text": "When you are stressed, what should I remember about closeness?",
"depth": 4,
"tags": [
"stress_written",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 400
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_039",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you shift from responsibilities into couple time?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"transition",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "finishing_one_last_task",
"text": "Finishing one last task"
},
{
"id": "changing_clothes",
"text": "Changing clothes"
},
{
"id": "taking_ten_quiet_minutes",
"text": "Taking ten quiet minutes"
},
{
"id": "sharing_a_snack",
"text": "Sharing a snack"
},
{
"id": "starting_with_nonsexual_affection",
"text": "Starting with nonsexual affection"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_040",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which calming first step would you choose?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"calming_touch",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_quiet_room",
"text": "A quiet room"
},
{
"id": "a_warm_drink",
"text": "A warm drink"
},
{
"id": "slow_breathing_together",
"text": "Slow breathing together"
},
{
"id": "a_gentle_conversation",
"text": "A gentle conversation"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_041",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps tiredness from turning into distance?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"tiredness",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "saying_what_we_have_energy_for",
"text": "Saying what we have energy for"
},
{
"id": "keeping_affection_simple",
"text": "Keeping affection simple"
},
{
"id": "not_taking_no_personally",
"text": "Not taking no personally"
},
{
"id": "planning_another_time",
"text": "Planning another time"
},
{
"id": "ending_the_day_kindly",
"text": "Ending the day kindly"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_042",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe do you feel asking for less intensity?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"lower_intensity",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very safe",
"max_label": "Completely safe"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_043",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What conditions make desire feel more possible?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"desire_return",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "feeling_rested",
"text": "Feeling rested"
},
{
"id": "feeling_appreciated",
"text": "Feeling appreciated"
},
{
"id": "having_privacy",
"text": "Having privacy"
},
{
"id": "being_emotionally_settled",
"text": "Being emotionally settled"
},
{
"id": "receiving_affection_without_pressure",
"text": "Receiving affection without pressure"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_044",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When neither of us has much energy, how can we stay close?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"low_energy",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "touching_while_resting",
"text": "Touching while resting"
},
{
"id": "sharing_one_good_conversation",
"text": "Sharing one good conversation"
},
{
"id": "a_short_cuddle",
"text": "A short cuddle"
},
{
"id": "laughing_together",
"text": "Laughing together"
},
{
"id": "making_a_plan_for_later",
"text": "Making a plan for later"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_045",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes initiation feel like a shared moment?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"initiation",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
},
{
"id": "a_warm_confident_invitation",
"text": "A warm, confident invitation"
},
{
"id": "an_easy_way_to_decline",
"text": "An easy way to decline"
},
{
"id": "starting_with_affection",
"text": "Starting with affection"
},
{
"id": "checking_how_the_other_person_responds",
"text": "Checking how the other person responds"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_046",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the invitation style that feels most comfortable for both of us.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"first_move",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_direct_question",
"text": "A direct question"
},
{
"id": "a_slow_affectionate_start",
"text": "A slow affectionate start"
},
{
"id": "a_playful_invitation",
"text": "A playful invitation"
},
{
"id": "a_quiet_whispered_question",
"text": "A quiet whispered question"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_047",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How do you like desire to be shown?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"showing_desire",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "specific_words",
"text": "Specific words"
},
{
"id": "focused_eye_contact",
"text": "Focused eye contact"
},
{
"id": "slow_touch",
"text": "Slow touch"
},
{
"id": "making_private_time",
"text": "Making private time"
},
{
"id": "playful_pursuit",
"text": "Playful pursuit"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_048",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you initiating closeness lately?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"initiation_comfort",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_049",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What signals help you feel genuinely wanted?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"wanted",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "they_say_it_clearly",
"text": "They say it clearly"
},
{
"id": "they_make_time",
"text": "They make time"
},
{
"id": "they_notice_details",
"text": "They notice details"
},
{
"id": "they_stay_present",
"text": "They stay present"
},
{
"id": "they_respond_to_my_cues",
"text": "They respond to my cues"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_050",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the invitation that gives you the most room to answer honestly.",
"depth": 4,
"tags": [
"honest_invitation",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "would_closeness_feel_good",
"text": "Would closeness feel good?"
},
{
"id": "may_i_kiss_you",
"text": "May I kiss you?"
},
{
"id": "want_some_private_time",
"text": "Want some private time?"
},
{
"id": "what_kind_of_affection_sounds_good",
"text": "What kind of affection sounds good?"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_051",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does being pursued feel exciting?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"pursuit",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "confidence_without_pressure",
"text": "Confidence without pressure"
},
{
"id": "a_playful_build_up",
"text": "A playful build-up"
},
{
"id": "feeling_emotionally_connected",
"text": "Feeling emotionally connected"
},
{
"id": "enough_privacy",
"text": "Enough privacy"
},
{
"id": "being_able_to_slow_it_down",
"text": "Being able to slow it down"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_052",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things quietly build desire during the day?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"daily_desire",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "thoughtful_attention",
"text": "Thoughtful attention"
},
{
"id": "flirty_messages",
"text": "Flirty messages"
},
{
"id": "shared_laughter",
"text": "Shared laughter"
},
{
"id": "seeing_you_feel_confident",
"text": "Seeing you feel confident"
},
{
"id": "small_welcome_touches",
"text": "Small welcome touches"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_053",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "written",
"text": "When have you felt most clearly chosen by me?",
"depth": 4,
"tags": [
"chosen",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 400
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_054",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does spontaneous intimacy work well for you?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"spontaneity",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "both_people_are_clearly_interested",
"text": "Both people are clearly interested"
},
{
"id": "there_is_enough_time",
"text": "There is enough time"
},
{
"id": "privacy_is_secure",
"text": "Privacy is secure"
},
{
"id": "stopping_stays_easy",
"text": "Stopping stays easy"
},
{
"id": "the_mood_already_feels_connected",
"text": "The mood already feels connected"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_055",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the initiation style that feels most like us.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"initiation_style",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sweet_and_obvious",
"text": "Sweet and obvious"
},
{
"id": "playful_and_teasing",
"text": "Playful and teasing"
},
{
"id": "quiet_and_slow",
"text": "Quiet and slow"
},
{
"id": "bold_but_attentive",
"text": "Bold but attentive"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_056",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps when one person wants closeness first?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"different_timing",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_gentle_invitation",
"text": "A gentle invitation"
},
{
"id": "no_repeated_asking",
"text": "No repeated asking"
},
{
"id": "another_kind_of_affection",
"text": "Another kind of affection"
},
{
"id": "a_plan_to_reconnect_later",
"text": "A plan to reconnect later"
},
{
"id": "no_sulking_afterward",
"text": "No sulking afterward"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_057",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How wanted do you feel in our relationship lately?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"wanted_scale",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much lately",
"max_label": "Very much lately"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_058",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which compliments create attraction for you?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"attraction_compliments",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "something_about_my_appearance",
"text": "Something about my appearance"
},
{
"id": "something_about_my_energy",
"text": "Something about my energy"
},
{
"id": "something_about_our_chemistry",
"text": "Something about our chemistry"
},
{
"id": "something_very_specific",
"text": "Something very specific"
},
{
"id": "something_about_how_i_affect_you",
"text": "Something about how I affect you"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_059",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does desire feel mutual instead of expected or one-sided?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"mutual_desire",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "both_people_can_initiate",
"text": "Both people can initiate"
},
{
"id": "both_people_can_decline",
"text": "Both people can decline"
},
{
"id": "feedback_is_welcomed",
"text": "Feedback is welcomed"
},
{
"id": "no_one_rushes_the_response",
"text": "No one rushes the response"
},
{
"id": "affection_matters_either_way",
"text": "Affection matters either way"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_060",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a yes feel honest and freely chosen?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"consent_yes",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "enough_information",
"text": "Enough information"
},
{
"id": "no_pressure_to_decide_fast",
"text": "No pressure to decide fast"
},
{
"id": "trust_that_no_is_welcome",
"text": "Trust that no is welcome"
},
{
"id": "feeling_emotionally_present",
"text": "Feeling emotionally present"
},
{
"id": "knowing_i_can_change_my_mind",
"text": "Knowing I can change my mind"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_061",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which phrase should we agree to treat as our clearest stop signal?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"pause_phrase",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "pause_for_a_second",
"text": "Pause for a second"
},
{
"id": "can_we_slow_down",
"text": "Can we slow down?"
},
{
"id": "i_need_to_stop",
"text": "I need to stop"
},
{
"id": "can_we_just_cuddle",
"text": "Can we just cuddle?"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_062",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "After stopping immediately for a pause, what would help next?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"pause_response",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "listening_without_arguing",
"text": "Listening without arguing"
},
{
"id": "asking_what_feels_okay_now",
"text": "Asking what feels okay now"
},
{
"id": "offering_space",
"text": "Offering space"
},
{
"id": "switching_to_nonsexual_closeness_if_wanted",
"text": "Switching to nonsexual closeness if wanted"
},
{
"id": "reassuring_there_is_no_pressure",
"text": "Reassuring there is no pressure"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_063",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to change your mind during intimacy?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"change_mind",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Very hard",
"max_label": "Very easy"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_064",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does saying no feel emotionally safe?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"consent_no",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_kind_response",
"text": "A kind response"
},
{
"id": "no_guilt_afterward",
"text": "No guilt afterward"
},
{
"id": "no_repeated_request",
"text": "No repeated request"
},
{
"id": "affection_stays_optional",
"text": "Affection stays optional"
},
{
"id": "my_reason_is_not_demanded",
"text": "My reason is not demanded"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_065",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "After a no, what response would feel most reassuring?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"no_response",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "thanks_for_telling_me",
"text": "Thanks for telling me"
},
{
"id": "no_problem_at_all",
"text": "No problem at all"
},
{
"id": "would_you_prefer_space_or_another_kind_of_closeness",
"text": "Would you prefer space or another kind of closeness?"
},
{
"id": "i_am_here_if_you_want_company",
"text": "I am here if you want company"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_066",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which quick question would help us stay connected without breaking the mood?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"check_ins",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "still_good",
"text": "Still good?"
},
{
"id": "more_or_less",
"text": "More or less?"
},
{
"id": "want_me_to_continue",
"text": "Want me to continue?"
},
{
"id": "do_you_want_something_different",
"text": "Do you want something different?"
},
{
"id": "need_a_pause",
"text": "Need a pause?"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_067",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What words would you most want us to respond to calmly?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"communication_basics",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "yes",
"text": "Yes"
},
{
"id": "no",
"text": "No"
},
{
"id": "slower",
"text": "Slower"
},
{
"id": "different",
"text": "Different"
},
{
"id": "i_changed_my_mind",
"text": "I changed my mind"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_068",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "written",
"text": "What response from me helps you trust that your no is safe?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"no_trust",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 400
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_069",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How do we keep consent clear when the mood is playful?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"playful_consent",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "checking_before_escalating",
"text": "Checking before escalating"
},
{
"id": "paying_attention_to_hesitation",
"text": "Paying attention to hesitation"
},
{
"id": "keeping_safe_words_serious",
"text": "Keeping safe words serious"
},
{
"id": "avoiding_surprise_restraints",
"text": "Avoiding surprise restraints"
},
{
"id": "stopping_immediately_when_asked",
"text": "Stopping immediately when asked"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_070",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which signal would you prefer as a backup to words?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"backup_signal",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_double_tap",
"text": "A double tap"
},
{
"id": "a_hand_squeeze",
"text": "A hand squeeze"
},
{
"id": "a_clear_hand_away_gesture",
"text": "A clear hand-away gesture"
},
{
"id": "no_backup_signal_words_only",
"text": "No backup signal—words only"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_071",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps a new idea optional rather than expected?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"optional_novelty",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "talking_about_it_beforehand",
"text": "Talking about it beforehand"
},
{
"id": "no_surprise_use",
"text": "No surprise use"
},
{
"id": "a_clear_no_option",
"text": "A clear no option"
},
{
"id": "no_disappointment_if_declined",
"text": "No disappointment if declined"
},
{
"id": "letting_the_idea_stay_hypothetical",
"text": "Letting the idea stay hypothetical"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_072",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How confident are you that a pause will be respected immediately?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"pause_confidence",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not confident",
"max_label": "Completely confident"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_073",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What behaviors protect trust after a boundary is named?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"boundary_trust",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "remembering_it_later",
"text": "Remembering it later"
},
{
"id": "asking_before_revisiting_it",
"text": "Asking before revisiting it"
},
{
"id": "not_teasing_about_it",
"text": "Not teasing about it"
},
{
"id": "not_bargaining",
"text": "Not bargaining"
},
{
"id": "appreciating_the_honesty",
"text": "Appreciating the honesty"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_074",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "After intimacy stops unexpectedly, what keeps you connected?",
"depth": 4,
"tags": [
"stopping_connection",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_calm_check_in",
"text": "A calm check-in"
},
{
"id": "nonsexual_touch_if_wanted",
"text": "Nonsexual touch if wanted"
},
{
"id": "a_little_space",
"text": "A little space"
},
{
"id": "reassuring_words",
"text": "Reassuring words"
},
{
"id": "no_pressure_to_explain_immediately",
"text": "No pressure to explain immediately"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_075",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When is feedback about intimacy easiest to give?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"feedback_giving",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_calm_moment",
"text": "A calm moment"
},
{
"id": "specific_questions",
"text": "Specific questions"
},
{
"id": "no_defensiveness",
"text": "No defensiveness"
},
{
"id": "starting_with_what_works",
"text": "Starting with what works"
},
{
"id": "knowing_change_is_welcome",
"text": "Knowing change is welcome"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_076",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When would you rather discuss a preference?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"preference_timing",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "before_private_time",
"text": "Before private time"
},
{
"id": "in_the_moment",
"text": "In the moment"
},
{
"id": "right_afterward",
"text": "Right afterward"
},
{
"id": "on_a_separate_relaxed_day",
"text": "On a separate relaxed day"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_077",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which feedback phrases feel kind and useful?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"feedback_phrases",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_little_slower",
"text": "A little slower"
},
{
"id": "keep_doing_that",
"text": "Keep doing that"
},
{
"id": "could_we_try_this_instead",
"text": "Could we try this instead?"
},
{
"id": "that_feels_really_good",
"text": "That feels really good"
},
{
"id": "i_need_something_different",
"text": "I need something different"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_078",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you naming what feels good?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"naming_good",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_079",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When feedback is hard to hear, what keeps it from feeling like criticism?",
"depth": 4,
"tags": [
"feedback_hearing",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_gentle_tone",
"text": "A gentle tone"
},
{
"id": "specific_guidance",
"text": "Specific guidance"
},
{
"id": "reassurance_of_attraction",
"text": "Reassurance of attraction"
},
{
"id": "good_timing",
"text": "Good timing"
},
{
"id": "room_to_ask_questions",
"text": "Room to ask questions"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_080",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the question that would help you share more honestly.",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"honest_question",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "what_are_you_enjoying",
"text": "What are you enjoying?"
},
{
"id": "want_more_or_less",
"text": "Want more or less?"
},
{
"id": "is_there_anything_you_want_different",
"text": "Is there anything you want different?"
},
{
"id": "what_would_feel_best_now",
"text": "What would feel best now?"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_081",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When do conversations about desire feel safest?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"desire_conversation",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "no_immediate_expectation",
"text": "No immediate expectation"
},
{
"id": "no_joking_at_my_expense",
"text": "No joking at my expense"
},
{
"id": "time_to_think",
"text": "Time to think"
},
{
"id": "curiosity_without_pressure",
"text": "Curiosity without pressure"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_082",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which topics deserve an especially gentle approach?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"gentle_topics",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "differences_in_frequency",
"text": "Differences in frequency"
},
{
"id": "body_confidence",
"text": "Body confidence"
},
{
"id": "rejection",
"text": "Rejection"
},
{
"id": "past_experiences",
"text": "Past experiences"
},
{
"id": "new_ideas",
"text": "New ideas"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_083",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one thing you wish were easier to tell me about intimacy?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"wish_easier",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 400
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_084",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What outcomes help a difficult intimacy talk end well?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"talk_ending",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "both_people_feel_heard",
"text": "Both people feel heard"
},
{
"id": "a_boundary_is_clearer",
"text": "A boundary is clearer"
},
{
"id": "no_solution_is_forced",
"text": "No solution is forced"
},
{
"id": "we_still_feel_cared_for",
"text": "We still feel cared for"
},
{
"id": "we_know_whether_to_revisit_it",
"text": "We know whether to revisit it"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_085",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which tone helps you stay open during a sensitive conversation?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"conversation_tone",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "warm_and_direct",
"text": "Warm and direct"
},
{
"id": "soft_and_patient",
"text": "Soft and patient"
},
{
"id": "light_but_respectful",
"text": "Light but respectful"
},
{
"id": "calm_and_matter_of_fact",
"text": "Calm and matter-of-fact"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_086",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes preference questions less awkward for us?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"less_awkward",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "use_simple_words",
"text": "Use simple words"
},
{
"id": "ask_one_thing_at_a_time",
"text": "Ask one thing at a time"
},
{
"id": "talk_outside_the_bedroom",
"text": "Talk outside the bedroom"
},
{
"id": "both_answer_the_same_question",
"text": "Both answer the same question"
},
{
"id": "allow_i_am_not_sure",
"text": "Allow 'I am not sure'"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_087",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we listen when intimacy feedback surprises us?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"feedback_surprise",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very well",
"max_label": "Very well"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_088",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does praise feel believable?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"believable_praise",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_is_specific",
"text": "It is specific"
},
{
"id": "it_matches_the_moment",
"text": "It matches the moment"
},
{
"id": "it_is_said_privately",
"text": "It is said privately"
},
{
"id": "it_is_not_exaggerated",
"text": "It is not exaggerated"
},
{
"id": "it_includes_more_than_appearance",
"text": "It includes more than appearance"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_089",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How do you know an intimacy conversation helped?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"useful_conversation",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_understand_each_other_better",
"text": "We understand each other better"
},
{
"id": "no_one_feels_blamed",
"text": "No one feels blamed"
},
{
"id": "a_boundary_became_clearer",
"text": "A boundary became clearer"
},
{
"id": "a_preference_became_easier_to_name",
"text": "A preference became easier to name"
},
{
"id": "we_feel_closer_afterward",
"text": "We feel closer afterward"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_090",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does physical closeness feel emotionally meaningful to us?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"kissing",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_slow_down",
"text": "We slow down"
},
{
"id": "interest_feels_mutual",
"text": "Interest feels mutual"
},
{
"id": "we_are_emotionally_connected",
"text": "We are emotionally connected"
},
{
"id": "no_outcome_is_expected",
"text": "No outcome is expected"
},
{
"id": "we_both_stay_present",
"text": "We both stay present"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_091",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the private mood that sounds best for us tonight.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"kiss_choice",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "slow_and_romantic",
"text": "Slow and romantic"
},
{
"id": "playful_and_flirty",
"text": "Playful and flirty"
},
{
"id": "quiet_and_tender",
"text": "Quiet and tender"
},
{
"id": "bold_and_connected",
"text": "Bold and connected"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_092",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does relaxing together feel most connected?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"cuddling",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "after_a_long_day",
"text": "After a long day"
},
{
"id": "before_sleep",
"text": "Before sleep"
},
{
"id": "during_a_quiet_evening",
"text": "During a quiet evening"
},
{
"id": "after_an_honest_talk",
"text": "After an honest talk"
},
{
"id": "on_a_slow_morning",
"text": "On a slow morning"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_093",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much romance do you feel in our private time lately?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"kissing_scale",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very romantic",
"max_label": "Very romantic"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_094",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What setups make it easiest for us both to relax together?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"cuddle_positions",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "enough_personal_space",
"text": "Enough personal space"
},
{
"id": "a_comfortable_temperature",
"text": "A comfortable temperature"
},
{
"id": "phones_put_away",
"text": "Phones put away"
},
{
"id": "no_time_pressure",
"text": "No time pressure"
},
{
"id": "choosing_how_close_to_sit",
"text": "Choosing how close to sit"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_095",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a goodbye feel meaningful between us?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"goodbye_kiss",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_is_not_rushed",
"text": "It is not rushed"
},
{
"id": "there_is_eye_contact",
"text": "There is eye contact"
},
{
"id": "we_say_something_honest",
"text": "We say something honest"
},
{
"id": "we_know_when_we_will_reconnect",
"text": "We know when we will reconnect"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_096",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps our private chemistry playful without feeling rehearsed?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"kiss_play",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "changing_the_timing",
"text": "Changing the timing"
},
{
"id": "using_an_inside_joke",
"text": "Using an inside joke"
},
{
"id": "a_little_unpredictability",
"text": "A little unpredictability"
},
{
"id": "laughing_together",
"text": "Laughing together"
},
{
"id": "letting_the_mood_lead",
"text": "Letting the mood lead"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_097",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps physical closeness feel connected for both of us?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"cuddle_touch",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "mutual_choice",
"text": "Mutual choice"
},
{
"id": "enough_time",
"text": "Enough time"
},
{
"id": "noticing_feedback",
"text": "Noticing feedback"
},
{
"id": "emotional_warmth",
"text": "Emotional warmth"
},
{
"id": "no_required_outcome",
"text": "No required outcome"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_098",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "written",
"text": "What private memory best captures the way we connect as a couple?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"kiss_memory",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 400
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_099",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps extended closeness feel welcome for both of us?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"long_hug",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_timing_works",
"text": "The timing works"
},
{
"id": "either_person_can_end_it",
"text": "Either person can end it"
},
{
"id": "it_matches_both_moods",
"text": "It matches both moods"
},
{
"id": "there_is_no_hidden_expectation",
"text": "There is no hidden expectation"
},
{
"id": "there_is_room_to_relax",
"text": "There is room to relax"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_100",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the greeting style that feels most like our relationship.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"greeting",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "an_enthusiastic_hello",
"text": "An enthusiastic hello"
},
{
"id": "a_quiet_check_in",
"text": "A quiet check-in"
},
{
"id": "a_playful_joke",
"text": "A playful joke"
},
{
"id": "a_few_focused_minutes",
"text": "A few focused minutes"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_101",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things can make private closeness uncomfortable?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"cuddle_discomfort",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "feeling_trapped",
"text": "Feeling trapped"
},
{
"id": "too_much_heat",
"text": "Too much heat"
},
{
"id": "pressure_for_more",
"text": "Pressure for more"
},
{
"id": "not_enough_space",
"text": "Not enough space"
},
{
"id": "ignoring_a_request_to_adjust",
"text": "Ignoring a request to adjust"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_102",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How connected does our private time feel lately?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"nonsexual_touch_scale",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very connected",
"max_label": "Very connected"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_103",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When would slowing down together feel most meaningful?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"slow_kiss",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "after_time_apart",
"text": "After time apart"
},
{
"id": "after_a_heartfelt_talk",
"text": "After a heartfelt talk"
},
{
"id": "during_a_quiet_morning",
"text": "During a quiet morning"
},
{
"id": "after_a_stressful_week",
"text": "After a stressful week"
},
{
"id": "before_falling_asleep",
"text": "Before falling asleep"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_104",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes intimate time feel complete even when plans change?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"complete_affection",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "enough_time",
"text": "Enough time"
},
{
"id": "focused_attention",
"text": "Focused attention"
},
{
"id": "warm_words",
"text": "Warm words"
},
{
"id": "mutual_choice",
"text": "Mutual choice"
},
{
"id": "a_relaxed_ending",
"text": "A relaxed ending"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_105",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which privacy details help you relax into closeness?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"privacy",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_locked_door",
"text": "A locked door"
},
{
"id": "phones_put_away",
"text": "Phones put away"
},
{
"id": "no_expected_interruption",
"text": "No expected interruption"
},
{
"id": "enough_time",
"text": "Enough time"
},
{
"id": "a_comfortable_temperature",
"text": "A comfortable temperature"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_106",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which setting feels easiest for honest intimacy talks?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"talk_setting",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_quiet_bedroom",
"text": "A quiet bedroom"
},
{
"id": "a_private_walk",
"text": "A private walk"
},
{
"id": "the_couch_after_dinner",
"text": "The couch after dinner"
},
{
"id": "a_calm_drive",
"text": "A calm drive"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_107",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which details make a room inviting for private time?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"setting",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "soft_lighting",
"text": "Soft lighting"
},
{
"id": "fresh_sheets",
"text": "Fresh sheets"
},
{
"id": "a_comfortable_temperature",
"text": "A comfortable temperature"
},
{
"id": "music_we_both_like",
"text": "Music we both like"
},
{
"id": "a_room_that_feels_settled",
"text": "A room that feels settled"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_108",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How important is guaranteed privacy to your ability to relax?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"privacy_scale",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very important",
"max_label": "Very important"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_109",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which distractions pull you out of the moment fastest?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"distractions",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "phone_alerts",
"text": "Phone alerts"
},
{
"id": "noise_outside",
"text": "Noise outside"
},
{
"id": "worry_about_time",
"text": "Worry about time"
},
{
"id": "an_uncomfortable_room",
"text": "An uncomfortable room"
},
{
"id": "unfinished_responsibilities",
"text": "Unfinished responsibilities"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_110",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the approach that would help us choose comfortable lighting together.",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"lighting",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "use_the_softer_setting",
"text": "Use the softer setting"
},
{
"id": "take_turns_choosing",
"text": "Take turns choosing"
},
{
"id": "find_a_middle_ground",
"text": "Find a middle ground"
},
{
"id": "ask_in_the_moment",
"text": "Ask in the moment"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_111",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps planned private time romantic instead of scheduled?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"planned_private_time",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "anticipation_during_the_day",
"text": "Anticipation during the day"
},
{
"id": "a_flexible_plan",
"text": "A flexible plan"
},
{
"id": "a_thoughtful_setting",
"text": "A thoughtful setting"
},
{
"id": "no_rushing",
"text": "No rushing"
},
{
"id": "something_chosen_for_both_of_us",
"text": "Something chosen for both of us"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_112",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which boundaries protect our intimate privacy?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"privacy_boundaries",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_sharing_details_with_friends",
"text": "No sharing details with friends"
},
{
"id": "ask_before_saving_photos_or_recordings",
"text": "Ask before saving photos or recordings"
},
{
"id": "keep_intimate_photos_off_shared_devices",
"text": "Keep intimate photos off shared devices"
},
{
"id": "delete_anything_when_asked",
"text": "Delete anything when asked"
},
{
"id": "never_joke_publicly_about_private_moments",
"text": "Never joke publicly about private moments"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_113",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "written",
"text": "Think of a private setting where you felt completely relaxed with me. What made it work?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"safe_space_detail",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 400
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_114",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which conditions make a new setting comfortable enough to try?",
"depth": 4,
"tags": [
"new_setting",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "clear_privacy",
"text": "Clear privacy"
},
{
"id": "knowing_we_can_leave_anytime",
"text": "Knowing we can leave anytime"
},
{
"id": "bringing_familiar_comforts",
"text": "Bringing familiar comforts"
},
{
"id": "agreeing_on_boundaries_first",
"text": "Agreeing on boundaries first"
},
{
"id": "starting_with_something_simple",
"text": "Starting with something simple"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_115",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the private-time soundtrack that sounds best.",
"depth": 1,
"tags": [
"music",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "slow_and_moody",
"text": "Slow and moody"
},
{
"id": "soft_and_romantic",
"text": "Soft and romantic"
},
{
"id": "a_familiar_favorite",
"text": "A familiar favorite"
},
{
"id": "no_music",
"text": "No music"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_116",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does a hotel or getaway night feel low-pressure?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"getaway",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_fixed_expectation",
"text": "No fixed expectation"
},
{
"id": "plenty_of_rest",
"text": "Plenty of rest"
},
{
"id": "a_shared_plan",
"text": "A shared plan"
},
{
"id": "easy_permission_to_change_course",
"text": "Easy permission to change course"
},
{
"id": "affection_that_is_enough_by_itself",
"text": "Affection that is enough by itself"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_117",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do phones affect your ability to stay present during private time?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"phones",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not at all",
"max_label": "A great deal"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_118",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which practical details quietly support intimacy?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"practical_support",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "enough_sleep",
"text": "Enough sleep"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "time_without_rushing",
"text": "Time without rushing"
},
{
"id": "feeling_clean_and_comfortable",
"text": "Feeling clean and comfortable"
},
{
"id": "knowing_responsibilities_are_handled",
"text": "Knowing responsibilities are handled"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_119",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does a surprise setting change feel welcome?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"surprise_setting",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_stays_private",
"text": "It stays private"
},
{
"id": "it_is_easy_to_decline",
"text": "It is easy to decline"
},
{
"id": "it_can_be_changed_easily",
"text": "It can be changed easily"
},
{
"id": "it_fits_my_energy",
"text": "It fits my energy"
},
{
"id": "we_can_return_to_the_familiar",
"text": "We can return to the familiar"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_120",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you feel attractive during private moments?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"body_confidence",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "specific_compliments",
"text": "Specific compliments"
},
{
"id": "patient_attention",
"text": "Patient attention"
},
{
"id": "comfortable_lighting",
"text": "Comfortable lighting"
},
{
"id": "no_comparisons",
"text": "No comparisons"
},
{
"id": "touch_that_follows_my_feedback",
"text": "Touch that follows my feedback"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_121",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the compliment that supports your confidence most.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"confidence_compliment",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "you_look_incredible",
"text": "You look incredible"
},
{
"id": "i_love_being_close_to_you",
"text": "I love being close to you"
},
{
"id": "i_love_how_you_respond_to_me",
"text": "I love how you respond to me"
},
{
"id": "you_make_me_want_you",
"text": "You make me want you"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_122",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does body-focused attention become uncomfortable?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"body_discomfort",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "too_much_focus_on_one_area",
"text": "Too much focus on one area"
},
{
"id": "jokes_about_appearance",
"text": "Jokes about appearance"
},
{
"id": "comparisons",
"text": "Comparisons"
},
{
"id": "feeling_watched_instead_of_appreciated",
"text": "Feeling watched instead of appreciated"
},
{
"id": "ignoring_when_i_ask_to_adjust",
"text": "Ignoring when I ask to adjust"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_123",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable do you feel being fully seen by me?",
"depth": 4,
"tags": [
"being_seen",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Completely comfortable"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_124",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which kinds of reassurance feel genuine?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "warm_eye_contact",
"text": "Warm eye contact"
},
{
"id": "specific_praise",
"text": "Specific praise"
},
{
"id": "unhurried_touch",
"text": "Unhurried touch"
},
{
"id": "kindness_outside_intimate_moments",
"text": "Kindness outside intimate moments"
},
{
"id": "respect_when_i_need_space",
"text": "Respect when I need space"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_125",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the approach to body compliments that would help us both feel comfortable.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"compliment_delivery",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_what_lands_well",
"text": "Ask what lands well"
},
{
"id": "keep_them_specific",
"text": "Keep them specific"
},
{
"id": "balance_appearance_with_whole_person_praise",
"text": "Balance appearance with whole-person praise"
},
{
"id": "let_either_person_redirect",
"text": "Let either person redirect"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_126",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you stay present when body worries show up?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"presence",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "focusing_on_sensation",
"text": "Focusing on sensation"
},
{
"id": "slower_pacing",
"text": "Slower pacing"
},
{
"id": "supportive_words",
"text": "Supportive words"
},
{
"id": "dimmer_lighting",
"text": "Dimmer lighting"
},
{
"id": "feeling_emotionally_connected",
"text": "Feeling emotionally connected"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_127",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which partner behaviors build body trust over time?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"body_trust",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_teasing_about_insecurities",
"text": "No teasing about insecurities"
},
{
"id": "consistent_affection",
"text": "Consistent affection"
},
{
"id": "listening_to_boundaries",
"text": "Listening to boundaries"
},
{
"id": "compliments_beyond_appearance",
"text": "Compliments beyond appearance"
},
{
"id": "never_using_private_details_in_conflict",
"text": "Never using private details in conflict"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_128",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "written",
"text": "When do you feel desired without feeling watched or evaluated?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"desired_not_inspected",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 400
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_129",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does physical vulnerability feel comfortable?",
"depth": 4,
"tags": [
"undressing",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "taking_our_time",
"text": "Taking our time"
},
{
"id": "choosing_my_own_pace",
"text": "Choosing my own pace"
},
{
"id": "warm_lighting",
"text": "Warm lighting"
},
{
"id": "affection_before_and_during",
"text": "Affection before and during"
},
{
"id": "no_pressure_to_perform",
"text": "No pressure to perform"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_130",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which kind of attention feels most affirming?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"affirming_attention",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "warm_admiration",
"text": "Warm admiration"
},
{
"id": "playful_desire",
"text": "Playful desire"
},
{
"id": "tender_appreciation",
"text": "Tender appreciation"
},
{
"id": "quiet_focus",
"text": "Quiet focus"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_131",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would help on a low-confidence day?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"low_confidence",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "keeping_things_gentle",
"text": "Keeping things gentle"
},
{
"id": "leaving_some_clothes_on",
"text": "Leaving some clothes on"
},
{
"id": "more_verbal_reassurance",
"text": "More verbal reassurance"
},
{
"id": "choosing_nonsexual_closeness",
"text": "Choosing nonsexual closeness"
},
{
"id": "letting_me_lead",
"text": "Letting me lead"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_132",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How supported do you feel about your body in our relationship?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"confidence_support",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very supported",
"max_label": "Very supported"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_133",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Specific praise or quiet admiration?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"praise_choice",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "specific_praise",
"text": "Specific praise"
},
{
"id": "quiet_admiration",
"text": "Quiet admiration"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_134",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should intimacy help us believe about our bodies?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"body_messages",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "our_bodies_are_welcome",
"text": "Our bodies are welcome"
},
{
"id": "we_can_choose_what_feels_comfortable_to_show",
"text": "We can choose what feels comfortable to show"
},
{
"id": "comfort_matters_more_than_performance",
"text": "Comfort matters more than performance"
},
{
"id": "desire_can_be_gentle",
"text": "Desire can be gentle"
},
{
"id": "boundaries_do_not_reduce_attraction",
"text": "Boundaries do not reduce attraction"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_135",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which kinds of aftercare help you feel settled?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"aftercare",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "cuddling",
"text": "Cuddling"
},
{
"id": "reassuring_words",
"text": "Reassuring words"
},
{
"id": "water_or_a_snack",
"text": "Water or a snack"
},
{
"id": "quiet_rest",
"text": "Quiet rest"
},
{
"id": "a_little_laughter",
"text": "A little laughter"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_136",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What do you usually want first afterward?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"aftercare_first",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "physical_closeness",
"text": "Physical closeness"
},
{
"id": "a_quick_check_in",
"text": "A quick check-in"
},
{
"id": "practical_care",
"text": "Practical care"
},
{
"id": "a_little_personal_space",
"text": "A little personal space"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_137",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does aftercare feel caring rather than required?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"aftercare_care",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_matches_my_mood",
"text": "It matches my mood"
},
{
"id": "i_can_ask_for_space",
"text": "I can ask for space"
},
{
"id": "it_is_not_rushed",
"text": "It is not rushed"
},
{
"id": "we_check_what_each_person_wants",
"text": "We check what each person wants"
},
{
"id": "it_changes_with_the_moment",
"text": "It changes with the moment"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_138",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How important is aftercare to your overall experience?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"aftercare_importance",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very important",
"max_label": "Very important"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_139",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which words feel good after vulnerability?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"aftercare_words",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_am_glad_you_told_me",
"text": "I am glad you told me"
},
{
"id": "thank_you_for_trusting_me",
"text": "Thank you for trusting me"
},
{
"id": "i_loved_being_close_to_you",
"text": "I loved being close to you"
},
{
"id": "take_all_the_time_you_need",
"text": "Take all the time you need"
},
{
"id": "what_would_help_now",
"text": "What would help now?"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_140",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the aftercare style that sounds most comforting.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"aftercare_style",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "quiet_and_cuddly",
"text": "Quiet and cuddly"
},
{
"id": "warm_and_talkative",
"text": "Warm and talkative"
},
{
"id": "light_and_playful",
"text": "Light and playful"
},
{
"id": "spacious_but_reassuring",
"text": "Spacious but reassuring"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_141",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What practical care feels thoughtful afterward?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"practical_aftercare",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "bringing_water",
"text": "Bringing water"
},
{
"id": "adjusting_the_room",
"text": "Adjusting the room"
},
{
"id": "finding_a_blanket",
"text": "Finding a blanket"
},
{
"id": "checking_comfort",
"text": "Checking comfort"
},
{
"id": "handling_cleanup_together",
"text": "Handling cleanup together"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_142",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "After trying something new, what support feels best?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"new_aftercare",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_calm_check_in",
"text": "A calm check-in"
},
{
"id": "reassurance_without_turning_it_into_a_big_review",
"text": "Reassurance without turning it into a big review"
},
{
"id": "naming_what_worked",
"text": "Naming what worked"
},
{
"id": "permission_not_to_decide_anything_yet",
"text": "Permission not to decide anything yet"
},
{
"id": "extra_tenderness",
"text": "Extra tenderness"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_143",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "written",
"text": "What should I know about the kind of aftercare you need?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"aftercare_written",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 400
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_144",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When might space be the best aftercare?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"space_aftercare",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "when_i_feel_overstimulated",
"text": "When I feel overstimulated"
},
{
"id": "when_i_need_quiet",
"text": "When I need quiet"
},
{
"id": "when_touch_feels_like_too_much",
"text": "When touch feels like too much"
},
{
"id": "when_i_ask_directly",
"text": "When I ask directly"
},
{
"id": "when_i_need_sleep",
"text": "When I need sleep"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_145",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "How should we check in the next day after a new experience?",
"depth": 4,
"tags": [
"next_day",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_simple_text",
"text": "A simple text"
},
{
"id": "a_short_private_talk",
"text": "A short private talk"
},
{
"id": "ask_one_clear_question",
"text": "Ask one clear question"
},
{
"id": "leave_the_door_open_to_talk_later",
"text": "Leave the door open to talk later"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_146",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make aftercare feel wrong for the moment?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"aftercare_miss",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "assuming_cuddling_is_always_wanted",
"text": "Assuming cuddling is always wanted"
},
{
"id": "demanding_reassurance",
"text": "Demanding reassurance"
},
{
"id": "turning_it_into_a_critique",
"text": "Turning it into a critique"
},
{
"id": "ignoring_a_request_for_space",
"text": "Ignoring a request for space"
},
{
"id": "leaving_without_a_word",
"text": "Leaving without a word"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_147",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it for you to ask for aftercare?",
"depth": 4,
"tags": [
"ask_aftercare",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Very hard",
"max_label": "Very easy"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_148",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Cuddles afterward or quiet space nearby?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"aftercare_choice",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "cuddles_afterward",
"text": "Cuddles afterward"
},
{
"id": "quiet_space_nearby",
"text": "Quiet space nearby"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_149",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show that aftercare matched what you needed?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"aftercare_match",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "my_body_feels_settled",
"text": "My body feels settled"
},
{
"id": "i_feel_emotionally_close",
"text": "I feel emotionally close"
},
{
"id": "nothing_feels_rushed",
"text": "Nothing feels rushed"
},
{
"id": "i_could_ask_for_something_different",
"text": "I could ask for something different"
},
{
"id": "i_feel_comfortable_afterward",
"text": "I feel comfortable afterward"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_150",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When our interest levels differ, how can we stay close?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"mismatched_desire",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_kind_no",
"text": "A kind no"
},
{
"id": "no_personal_blame",
"text": "No personal blame"
},
{
"id": "another_form_of_closeness",
"text": "Another form of closeness"
},
{
"id": "a_plan_to_reconnect_later",
"text": "A plan to reconnect later"
},
{
"id": "disappointment_handled_kindly",
"text": "Disappointment handled kindly"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_151",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which response to declined initiation feels most loving?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"declined_initiation",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "thank_you_for_being_honest",
"text": "Thank you for being honest"
},
{
"id": "no_problem_come_cuddle_if_you_want",
"text": "No problem—come cuddle if you want"
},
{
"id": "i_understand_we_can_reconnect_later",
"text": "I understand; we can reconnect later"
},
{
"id": "i_care_about_you_either_way",
"text": "I care about you either way"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_152",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps rejection from becoming distance?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"rejection",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "affection_without_expectation",
"text": "Affection without expectation"
},
{
"id": "no_sulking",
"text": "No sulking"
},
{
"id": "clear_reassurance",
"text": "Clear reassurance"
},
{
"id": "respecting_space",
"text": "Respecting space"
},
{
"id": "talking_later_if_needed",
"text": "Talking later if needed"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_153",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we handle differences in desire?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"mismatch_scale",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very well",
"max_label": "Very well"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_154",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps talks about how often we want intimacy feel kinder?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"frequency",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_comparison_to_other_couples",
"text": "No comparison to other couples"
},
{
"id": "no_scorekeeping",
"text": "No scorekeeping"
},
{
"id": "talking_when_calm",
"text": "Talking when calm"
},
{
"id": "separating_desire_from_love",
"text": "Separating desire from love"
},
{
"id": "finding_options_that_respect_both_people",
"text": "Finding options that respect both people"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_155",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the alternative that feels best when interest does not match.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"alternative_closeness",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "cuddling",
"text": "Cuddling"
},
{
"id": "a_date_without_sex",
"text": "A date without sex"
},
{
"id": "a_massage_with_clear_limits",
"text": "A massage with clear limits"
},
{
"id": "separate_rest_with_reassurance",
"text": "Separate rest with reassurance"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_156",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which assumptions should we avoid about lower desire?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"lower_desire",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_means_less_love",
"text": "It means less love"
},
{
"id": "it_means_less_attraction",
"text": "It means less attraction"
},
{
"id": "it_is_always_about_the_partner",
"text": "It is always about the partner"
},
{
"id": "it_needs_an_immediate_fix",
"text": "It needs an immediate fix"
},
{
"id": "they_should_promise_another_time",
"text": "They should promise another time"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_157",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can affect desire without being anyone's fault?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"desire_factors",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "stress",
"text": "Stress"
},
{
"id": "sleep",
"text": "Sleep"
},
{
"id": "health",
"text": "Health"
},
{
"id": "body_confidence",
"text": "Body confidence"
},
{
"id": "relationship_tension",
"text": "Relationship tension"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_158",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "written",
"text": "When your desire is lower than mine, what helps you still feel loved?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"lower_desire_written",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 400
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_159",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can the higher-desire partner protect closeness?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"higher_desire",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "accept_no_the_first_time",
"text": "Accept no the first time"
},
{
"id": "avoid_bargaining",
"text": "Avoid bargaining"
},
{
"id": "keep_affection_non_transactional",
"text": "Keep affection non-transactional"
},
{
"id": "manage_disappointment_kindly",
"text": "Manage disappointment kindly"
},
{
"id": "let_future_plans_stay_optional",
"text": "Let future plans stay optional"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_160",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which phrase makes a mismatch easier to hear?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"mismatch_phrase",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_care_about_you_i_am_not_up_for_this",
"text": "I care about you; I am not up for this"
},
{
"id": "i_want_closeness_just_not_that_tonight",
"text": "I want closeness, just not that tonight"
},
{
"id": "my_energy_is_low_not_my_love",
"text": "My energy is low, not my love"
},
{
"id": "can_we_plan_something_for_another_time",
"text": "Can we plan something for another time?"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_161",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does the lower-desire partner feel safest speaking honestly?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"speak_honestly",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_fear_of_conflict",
"text": "No fear of conflict"
},
{
"id": "no_guilt_afterward",
"text": "No guilt afterward"
},
{
"id": "no_pressure_to_promise_later",
"text": "No pressure to promise later"
},
{
"id": "permission_to_be_unsure",
"text": "Permission to be unsure"
},
{
"id": "trust_that_affection_will_remain",
"text": "Trust that affection will remain"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_162",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How clearly can we discuss sexual interest without treating it as proof of love?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"love_desire_separate",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very clearly",
"max_label": "Very clearly"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_163",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Reconnect gently now or plan private time later?",
"depth": 4,
"tags": [
"reconnect_choice",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "reconnect_gently_now",
"text": "Reconnect gently now"
},
{
"id": "plan_private_time_later",
"text": "Plan private time later"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_164",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would help us handle desire differences as a team?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"shared_problem",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "curiosity",
"text": "Curiosity"
},
{
"id": "compassion",
"text": "Compassion"
},
{
"id": "flexible_expectations",
"text": "Flexible expectations"
},
{
"id": "honesty_about_stress_or_health",
"text": "Honesty about stress or health"
},
{
"id": "making_room_for_both_experiences",
"text": "Making room for both experiences"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_165",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "If an intimate moment turns awkward, what helps us recover together?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"awkwardness",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "laugh_gently",
"text": "Laugh gently"
},
{
"id": "pause_and_check_in",
"text": "Pause and check in"
},
{
"id": "name_what_happened_simply",
"text": "Name what happened simply"
},
{
"id": "change_direction",
"text": "Change direction"
},
{
"id": "stop_without_making_it_a_failure",
"text": "Stop without making it a failure"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_166",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "If the mood disappears, what response feels best?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"mood_loss",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_pressure_to_recover_it",
"text": "No pressure to recover it"
},
{
"id": "a_warm_cuddle",
"text": "A warm cuddle"
},
{
"id": "a_little_humor",
"text": "A little humor"
},
{
"id": "a_little_space",
"text": "A little space"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_167",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps an interrupted or awkward moment from feeling hurtful?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"failed_attempt",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_blame",
"text": "No blame"
},
{
"id": "no_scorekeeping",
"text": "No scorekeeping"
},
{
"id": "affection_afterward",
"text": "Affection afterward"
},
{
"id": "permission_to_try_another_day",
"text": "Permission to try another day"
},
{
"id": "no_forced_explanation",
"text": "No forced explanation"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_168",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it for us to recover from awkward moments?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"awkward_recovery",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Very difficult",
"max_label": "Very easy"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_169",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs mean we should slow down and reconnect?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"slow_down_signs",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "one_person_goes_quiet",
"text": "One person goes quiet"
},
{
"id": "laughter_feels_nervous",
"text": "Laughter feels nervous"
},
{
"id": "touch_stops_being_returned",
"text": "Touch stops being returned"
},
{
"id": "someone_seems_distracted",
"text": "Someone seems distracted"
},
{
"id": "a_check_in_gets_avoided",
"text": "A check-in gets avoided"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_170",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "After a misunderstanding, which repair feels most natural?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"repair_style",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_sincere_apology",
"text": "A sincere apology"
},
{
"id": "a_calm_explanation",
"text": "A calm explanation"
},
{
"id": "a_reassuring_hug_if_wanted",
"text": "A reassuring hug if wanted"
},
{
"id": "a_little_time_then_a_talk",
"text": "A little time, then a talk"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_171",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should a thoughtful repair apology include?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"intimacy_apology",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "owning_the_impact",
"text": "Owning the impact"
},
{
"id": "no_excuses",
"text": "No excuses"
},
{
"id": "respect_for_the_boundary",
"text": "Respect for the boundary"
},
{
"id": "a_clear_change",
"text": "A clear change"
},
{
"id": "no_demand_for_quick_forgiveness",
"text": "No demand for quick forgiveness"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_172",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What protects intimacy when we are upset with each other?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"conflict_protection",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "never_use_private_details_as_weapons",
"text": "Never use private details as weapons"
},
{
"id": "do_not_use_sex_as_a_shortcut_to_reconciliation",
"text": "Do not use sex as a shortcut to reconciliation"
},
{
"id": "respect_separate_sleep_if_needed",
"text": "Respect separate sleep if needed"
},
{
"id": "repair_emotionally_first",
"text": "Repair emotionally first"
},
{
"id": "keep_affection_optional",
"text": "Keep affection optional"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_173",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "written",
"text": "After distance, what makes reconnecting feel safe?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"reconnecting_written",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 400
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_174",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When feedback accidentally hurts, what helps us recover?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"feedback_hurt",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "acknowledge_the_sting",
"text": "Acknowledge the sting"
},
{
"id": "clarify_the_intent",
"text": "Clarify the intent"
},
{
"id": "avoid_defensiveness",
"text": "Avoid defensiveness"
},
{
"id": "take_a_break_if_needed",
"text": "Take a break if needed"
},
{
"id": "return_with_kindness",
"text": "Return with kindness"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_175",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "After a vulnerable moment, what reassurance lands best?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"vulnerable_reassurance",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_am_not_judging_you",
"text": "I am not judging you"
},
{
"id": "thank_you_for_trusting_me",
"text": "Thank you for trusting me"
},
{
"id": "nothing_has_to_happen",
"text": "Nothing has to happen"
},
{
"id": "we_can_go_at_your_pace",
"text": "We can go at your pace"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_176",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can turn embarrassment into connection?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"embarrassment",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "gentle_humor",
"text": "Gentle humor"
},
{
"id": "no_teasing_later",
"text": "No teasing later"
},
{
"id": "remembering_awkward_moments_happen",
"text": "Remembering awkward moments happen"
},
{
"id": "warm_affection_if_wanted",
"text": "Warm affection if wanted"
},
{
"id": "a_simple_change_of_subject",
"text": "A simple change of subject"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_177",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How confident are you that private mistakes stay private?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"private_mistakes",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not confident",
"max_label": "Completely confident"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_178",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Talk right away or reconnect after a little space?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"repair_timing",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "talk_right_away",
"text": "Talk right away"
},
{
"id": "reconnect_after_some_space",
"text": "Reconnect after some space"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_179",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which habits keep one awkward night from becoming a lasting story?",
"depth": 4,
"tags": [
"lasting_story",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "do_not_retell_it",
"text": "Do not retell it"
},
{
"id": "do_not_label_anyone",
"text": "Do not label anyone"
},
{
"id": "focus_on_what_was_learned",
"text": "Focus on what was learned"
},
{
"id": "return_to_normal_affection",
"text": "Return to normal affection"
},
{
"id": "try_again_only_if_both_want_to",
"text": "Try again only if both want to"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_180",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which qualities make a new intimate idea worth exploring?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"novelty",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "mutual_curiosity",
"text": "Mutual curiosity"
},
{
"id": "clear_boundaries",
"text": "Clear boundaries"
},
{
"id": "an_easy_opt_out",
"text": "An easy opt-out"
},
{
"id": "a_trusted_setting",
"text": "A trusted setting"
},
{
"id": "starting_small",
"text": "Starting small"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_181",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "How would you rather hear a new idea?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"new_idea_delivery",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "in_a_relaxed_conversation",
"text": "In a relaxed conversation"
},
{
"id": "as_a_playful_question",
"text": "As a playful question"
},
{
"id": "in_a_shared_yes_no_maybe_list",
"text": "In a shared yes/no/maybe list"
},
{
"id": "after_being_asked_if_i_am_open_to_ideas",
"text": "After being asked if I am open to ideas"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_182",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What protects trust when discussing fantasies?",
"depth": 4,
"tags": [
"fantasy",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_assumption_we_will_do_it",
"text": "No assumption we will do it"
},
{
"id": "no_judgment",
"text": "No judgment"
},
{
"id": "no_pressure_for_details",
"text": "No pressure for details"
},
{
"id": "privacy_afterward",
"text": "Privacy afterward"
},
{
"id": "permission_to_stop_the_conversation",
"text": "Permission to stop the conversation"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_183",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How curious do you feel about trying something new together?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"curiosity",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not curious",
"max_label": "Very curious"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_184",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which small changes sound interesting without feeling overwhelming?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"gentle_novelty",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_new_setting",
"text": "A new setting"
},
{
"id": "a_different_pace",
"text": "A different pace"
},
{
"id": "dressing_up",
"text": "Dressing up"
},
{
"id": "a_playful_game",
"text": "A playful game"
},
{
"id": "changing_who_leads",
"text": "Changing who leads"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_185",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "How should a new idea be chosen?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"choosing_novelty",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "take_turns",
"text": "Take turns"
},
{
"id": "choose_together",
"text": "Choose together"
},
{
"id": "the_person_who_is_curious_suggests",
"text": "The person who is curious suggests"
},
{
"id": "only_use_ideas_already_discussed",
"text": "Only use ideas already discussed"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_186",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a new idea feel playful instead of awkward?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"role_play",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_simple_plan",
"text": "A simple plan"
},
{
"id": "choosing_together",
"text": "Choosing together"
},
{
"id": "being_allowed_to_laugh",
"text": "Being allowed to laugh"
},
{
"id": "clear_limits",
"text": "Clear limits"
},
{
"id": "permission_to_stop_immediately",
"text": "Permission to stop immediately"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_187",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "After confirming that both people want it and can stop anytime, what else should we discuss?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"toys",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "boundaries_and_limits",
"text": "Boundaries and limits"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "a_clear_stop_signal",
"text": "A clear stop signal"
},
{
"id": "what_support_might_help_afterward",
"text": "What support might help afterward"
},
{
"id": "what_would_make_us_postpone_it",
"text": "What would make us postpone it"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_188",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps an unfamiliar experience feel grounded?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"sensory",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "starting_small",
"text": "Starting small"
},
{
"id": "talking_through_expectations",
"text": "Talking through expectations"
},
{
"id": "keeping_familiar_comforts_nearby",
"text": "Keeping familiar comforts nearby"
},
{
"id": "checking_in_as_we_go",
"text": "Checking in as we go"
},
{
"id": "stopping_if_either_person_feels_unsure",
"text": "Stopping if either person feels unsure"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_189",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which ideas always need a separate conversation beforehand?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"no_surprise",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "anything_involving_recording",
"text": "Anything involving recording"
},
{
"id": "anything_involving_pain_or_restriction",
"text": "Anything involving pain or restriction"
},
{
"id": "anything_involving_another_person",
"text": "Anything involving another person"
},
{
"id": "anything_in_a_new_location",
"text": "Anything in a new location"
},
{
"id": "anything_already_named_as_a_boundary",
"text": "Anything already named as a boundary"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_190",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What level of novelty fits you best lately?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"novelty_level",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "familiar_favorites",
"text": "Familiar favorites"
},
{
"id": "one_small_change",
"text": "One small change"
},
{
"id": "something_clearly_new",
"text": "Something clearly new"
},
{
"id": "i_am_not_looking_for_novelty",
"text": "I am not looking for novelty"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_191",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps trying new things grounded in care?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"careful_curiosity",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "checking_emotional_comfort",
"text": "Checking emotional comfort"
},
{
"id": "respecting_hesitation",
"text": "Respecting hesitation"
},
{
"id": "letting_comfort_matter_more_than_novelty",
"text": "Letting comfort matter more than novelty"
},
{
"id": "talking_afterward",
"text": "Talking afterward"
},
{
"id": "valuing_closeness_over_novelty",
"text": "Valuing closeness over novelty"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_192",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How safe do you feel sharing an idea that may never happen?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"sharing_fantasy",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not safe",
"max_label": "Completely safe"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_193",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "A familiar favorite or one small new twist?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"familiar_new",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_familiar_favorite",
"text": "A familiar favorite"
},
{
"id": "one_small_new_twist",
"text": "One small new twist"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_194",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Talk through a fantasy or keep it as imagination?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"fantasy_choice",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "talk_through_a_fantasy",
"text": "Talk through a fantasy"
},
{
"id": "keep_it_as_imagination",
"text": "Keep it as imagination"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_195",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How do you like anticipation to build before private time?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"anticipation",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "flirty_messages",
"text": "Flirty messages"
},
{
"id": "a_planned_evening",
"text": "A planned evening"
},
{
"id": "knowing_looks",
"text": "Knowing looks"
},
{
"id": "small_touches",
"text": "Small touches"
},
{
"id": "a_shared_secret",
"text": "A shared secret"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_196",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which ritual would help us shift into couple time?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"ritual",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "change_the_lighting",
"text": "Change the lighting"
},
{
"id": "put_phones_away",
"text": "Put phones away"
},
{
"id": "choose_music_together",
"text": "Choose music together"
},
{
"id": "share_a_quick_check_in",
"text": "Share a quick check-in"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_197",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps a planned night from feeling like an obligation?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"planned_night",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "flexible_expectations",
"text": "Flexible expectations"
},
{
"id": "no_required_outcome",
"text": "No required outcome"
},
{
"id": "room_to_cancel",
"text": "Room to cancel"
},
{
"id": "affection_first",
"text": "Affection first"
},
{
"id": "a_plan_both_people_shaped",
"text": "A plan both people shaped"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_198",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much does anticipation affect your desire?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"anticipation_scale",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Very little",
"max_label": "A great deal"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_199",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which small rituals create emotional closeness?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"emotional_rituals",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_long_hello",
"text": "A long hello"
},
{
"id": "a_private_toast",
"text": "A private toast"
},
{
"id": "a_shared_playlist",
"text": "A shared playlist"
},
{
"id": "a_few_honest_minutes_at_night",
"text": "A few honest minutes at night"
},
{
"id": "a_slow_goodnight_kiss",
"text": "A slow goodnight kiss"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_200",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What signal would you enjoy using for 'I am interested'?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"interest_signal",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_specific_phrase",
"text": "A specific phrase"
},
{
"id": "a_private_emoji",
"text": "A private emoji"
},
{
"id": "a_certain_look",
"text": "A certain look"
},
{
"id": "a_hand_squeeze",
"text": "A hand squeeze"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_201",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How do we keep a flirty countdown fun?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"countdown",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_clear_plan",
"text": "A clear plan"
},
{
"id": "playful_messages",
"text": "Playful messages"
},
{
"id": "no_pressure_if_the_mood_changes",
"text": "No pressure if the mood changes"
},
{
"id": "a_small_surprise",
"text": "A small surprise"
},
{
"id": "keeping_it_private",
"text": "Keeping it private"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_202",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which traditions could help intimacy survive busy seasons?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"busy_rituals",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_weekly_cuddle_night",
"text": "A weekly cuddle night"
},
{
"id": "a_monthly_private_date",
"text": "A monthly private date"
},
{
"id": "goodbye_kisses",
"text": "Goodbye kisses"
},
{
"id": "ten_phone_free_minutes",
"text": "Ten phone-free minutes"
},
{
"id": "a_relaxed_talk_about_what_we_want",
"text": "A relaxed talk about what we want"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_203",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would make a morning ritual feel intimate?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"morning_ritual",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "lingering_in_bed",
"text": "Lingering in bed"
},
{
"id": "sharing_coffee_close_together",
"text": "Sharing coffee close together"
},
{
"id": "a_long_hug",
"text": "A long hug"
},
{
"id": "a_sweet_message_after_leaving",
"text": "A sweet message after leaving"
},
{
"id": "a_playful_promise_for_later",
"text": "A playful promise for later"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_204",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which end-of-day signals help you feel chosen?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"end_day",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "putting_phones_away",
"text": "Putting phones away"
},
{
"id": "turning_toward_each_other",
"text": "Turning toward each other"
},
{
"id": "greeting_each_other_warmly",
"text": "Greeting each other warmly"
},
{
"id": "offering_a_cuddle",
"text": "Offering a cuddle"
},
{
"id": "saying_what_i_appreciated",
"text": "Saying what I appreciated"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_205",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which private tradition sounds most sustainable?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"sustainable_ritual",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sunday_morning_cuddles",
"text": "Sunday morning cuddles"
},
{
"id": "a_weekly_flirty_text",
"text": "A weekly flirty text"
},
{
"id": "a_monthly_at_home_date",
"text": "A monthly at-home date"
},
{
"id": "a_nightly_goodnight_kiss",
"text": "A nightly goodnight kiss"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_206",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does a ritual start feeling like a chore?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"ritual_risk",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "treating_it_like_a_quota",
"text": "Treating it like a quota"
},
{
"id": "ignoring_changing_moods",
"text": "Ignoring changing moods"
},
{
"id": "keeping_score",
"text": "Keeping score"
},
{
"id": "never_changing_it",
"text": "Never changing it"
},
{
"id": "assuming_it_must_lead_somewhere",
"text": "Assuming it must lead somewhere"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_207",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to keep couple time from being crowded out?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"protected_time",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Very difficult",
"max_label": "Very easy"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_208",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Build anticipation all day or keep the moment spontaneous?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"anticipation_choice",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "build_anticipation_all_day",
"text": "Build anticipation all day"
},
{
"id": "keep_it_spontaneous",
"text": "Keep it spontaneous"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_209",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "A reliable ritual or a changing surprise?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"ritual_surprise",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_reliable_ritual",
"text": "A reliable ritual"
},
{
"id": "a_changing_surprise",
"text": "A changing surprise"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_210",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What kinds of intimacy still fit a very busy week?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"busy_week",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_flirty_message",
"text": "A flirty message"
},
{
"id": "ten_quiet_minutes_together",
"text": "Ten quiet minutes together"
},
{
"id": "a_meaningful_check_in",
"text": "A meaningful check-in"
},
{
"id": "a_private_meal",
"text": "A private meal"
},
{
"id": "a_planned_hour_for_us",
"text": "A planned hour for us"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_211",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When energy is low, what closeness sounds most realistic?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"low_energy_choice",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "quiet_cuddling",
"text": "Quiet cuddling"
},
{
"id": "a_short_massage",
"text": "A short massage"
},
{
"id": "talking_in_bed",
"text": "Talking in bed"
},
{
"id": "sleeping_close",
"text": "Sleeping close"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_212",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps intimacy from feeling like another task?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"not_task",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "keeping_plans_flexible",
"text": "Keeping plans flexible"
},
{
"id": "choosing_low_effort_closeness",
"text": "Choosing low-effort closeness"
},
{
"id": "no_guilt_if_plans_change",
"text": "No guilt if plans change"
},
{
"id": "making_room_for_play",
"text": "Making room for play"
},
{
"id": "not_tracking_frequency",
"text": "Not tracking frequency"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_213",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much energy do you usually need before intimacy feels appealing?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"energy_need",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Very little",
"max_label": "A lot"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_214",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which pressures most affect your ability to relax?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"responsibilities",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "childcare",
"text": "Childcare"
},
{
"id": "work_stress",
"text": "Work stress"
},
{
"id": "household_tasks",
"text": "Household tasks"
},
{
"id": "health_needs",
"text": "Health needs"
},
{
"id": "lack_of_privacy",
"text": "Lack of privacy"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_215",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick what would make a short private moment feel worthwhile.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"short_moment",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "focused_attention",
"text": "Focused attention"
},
{
"id": "one_long_kiss",
"text": "One long kiss"
},
{
"id": "a_little_laughter",
"text": "A little laughter"
},
{
"id": "knowing_it_is_enough",
"text": "Knowing it is enough"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_216",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps intimacy survive irregular schedules?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"schedules",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "planning_a_window",
"text": "Planning a window"
},
{
"id": "using_small_moments",
"text": "Using small moments"
},
{
"id": "being_honest_about_energy",
"text": "Being honest about energy"
},
{
"id": "not_treating_low_energy_as_rejection",
"text": "Not treating low energy as rejection"
},
{
"id": "protecting_one_recurring_time",
"text": "Protecting one recurring time"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_217",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What signs mean rest should come before intimacy?",
"depth": 4,
"tags": [
"rest_first",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "exhaustion",
"text": "Exhaustion"
},
{
"id": "irritability",
"text": "Irritability"
},
{
"id": "pain",
"text": "Pain"
},
{
"id": "difficulty_focusing",
"text": "Difficulty focusing"
},
{
"id": "feeling_emotionally_shut_down",
"text": "Feeling emotionally shut down"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_218",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can keep affection alive during long stressful periods?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"long_stress",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "small_signs_of_affection",
"text": "Small signs of affection"
},
{
"id": "kind_words",
"text": "Kind words"
},
{
"id": "shared_humor",
"text": "Shared humor"
},
{
"id": "brief_dates",
"text": "Brief dates"
},
{
"id": "no_pressure_for_more",
"text": "No pressure for more"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_219",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we make room for closeness without forcing it?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"make_room",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "offer_choices",
"text": "Offer choices"
},
{
"id": "plan_loosely",
"text": "Plan loosely"
},
{
"id": "start_with_affection",
"text": "Start with affection"
},
{
"id": "check_energy_first",
"text": "Check energy first"
},
{
"id": "accept_a_change_of_mind",
"text": "Accept a change of mind"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_220",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which quick connection would you choose during a packed day?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"quick_connection",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_two_minute_hug",
"text": "A two-minute hug"
},
{
"id": "a_private_compliment",
"text": "A private compliment"
},
{
"id": "a_slow_kiss",
"text": "A slow kiss"
},
{
"id": "a_hand_squeeze",
"text": "A hand squeeze"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_221",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What conditions make desire more possible after burnout?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"burnout",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "enough_rest",
"text": "Enough rest"
},
{
"id": "feeling_supported",
"text": "Feeling supported"
},
{
"id": "reduced_pressure",
"text": "Reduced pressure"
},
{
"id": "emotional_connection",
"text": "Emotional connection"
},
{
"id": "time_with_fewer_demands",
"text": "Time with fewer demands"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_222",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How balanced does intimacy feel with the rest of our life?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"life_balance",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Out of balance",
"max_label": "Well balanced"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_223",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "A brief moment tonight or unhurried time this weekend?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"timing_choice",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_brief_moment_tonight",
"text": "A brief moment tonight"
},
{
"id": "unhurried_time_this_weekend",
"text": "Unhurried time this weekend"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_224",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Quiet closeness or playful distraction after a hard day?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"hard_day_choice",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "quiet_closeness",
"text": "Quiet closeness"
},
{
"id": "playful_distraction",
"text": "Playful distraction"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_225",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which memories still bring back attraction for you?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"attraction_memory",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "our_first_kisses",
"text": "Our first kisses"
},
{
"id": "a_favorite_trip",
"text": "A favorite trip"
},
{
"id": "a_time_we_both_felt_confident",
"text": "A time we both felt confident"
},
{
"id": "a_playful_night",
"text": "A playful night"
},
{
"id": "a_time_we_felt_deeply_understood",
"text": "A time we felt deeply understood"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_226",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which memory would you most enjoy recreating?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"recreate_memory",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_slow_romantic_night",
"text": "A slow romantic night"
},
{
"id": "a_spontaneous_moment",
"text": "A spontaneous moment"
},
{
"id": "a_playful_date",
"text": "A playful date"
},
{
"id": "a_peaceful_morning",
"text": "A peaceful morning"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_227",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a shared intimate memory especially meaningful?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"memory_value",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "feeling_safe_together",
"text": "Feeling safe together"
},
{
"id": "feeling_desired",
"text": "Feeling desired"
},
{
"id": "laughing_together",
"text": "Laughing together"
},
{
"id": "choosing_something_new_together",
"text": "Choosing something new together"
},
{
"id": "being_fully_present",
"text": "Being fully present"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_228",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do shared memories strengthen your attraction?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"memory_scale",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Very little",
"max_label": "A great deal"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_229",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which older habits might still have some spark?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"old_habits",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "long_make_out_sessions",
"text": "Long make-out sessions"
},
{
"id": "flirty_notes",
"text": "Flirty notes"
},
{
"id": "dressing_up",
"text": "Dressing up"
},
{
"id": "slow_dancing",
"text": "Slow dancing"
},
{
"id": "unplanned_cuddling",
"text": "Unplanned cuddling"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_230",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What would be most fun to bring back for one night?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"bring_back",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "an_old_playlist",
"text": "An old playlist"
},
{
"id": "a_favorite_outfit",
"text": "A favorite outfit"
},
{
"id": "a_former_date_spot",
"text": "A former date spot"
},
{
"id": "a_forgotten_inside_joke",
"text": "A forgotten inside joke"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_231",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps nostalgia warm instead of pressuring?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"nostalgia",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_comparison_to_the_past",
"text": "No comparison to the past"
},
{
"id": "no_expectation_to_recreate_everything",
"text": "No expectation to recreate everything"
},
{
"id": "choosing_one_detail",
"text": "Choosing one detail"
},
{
"id": "appreciating_how_we_have_changed",
"text": "Appreciating how we have changed"
},
{
"id": "letting_the_new_version_be_different",
"text": "Letting the new version be different"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_232",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What moments have made you feel most chosen by me?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"chosen_memories",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "when_you_made_time_for_us",
"text": "When you made time for us"
},
{
"id": "when_you_protected_our_privacy",
"text": "When you protected our privacy"
},
{
"id": "when_you_noticed_my_mood",
"text": "When you noticed my mood"
},
{
"id": "when_you_initiated_affection",
"text": "When you initiated affection"
},
{
"id": "when_you_respected_a_boundary",
"text": "When you respected a boundary"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_233",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What details make a romantic memory vivid?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"memory_details",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_certain_song",
"text": "A certain song"
},
{
"id": "a_scent",
"text": "A scent"
},
{
"id": "the_setting",
"text": "The setting"
},
{
"id": "specific_words",
"text": "Specific words"
},
{
"id": "how_my_body_felt",
"text": "How my body felt"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_234",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can old memories teach us about current intimacy?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"memory_lessons",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "what_pace_works",
"text": "What pace works"
},
{
"id": "what_makes_us_laugh",
"text": "What makes us laugh"
},
{
"id": "what_builds_trust",
"text": "What builds trust"
},
{
"id": "what_settings_help",
"text": "What settings help"
},
{
"id": "what_affection_we_miss",
"text": "What affection we miss"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_235",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the keepsake that would best represent our chemistry.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"keepsake",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_photo",
"text": "A photo"
},
{
"id": "a_song",
"text": "A song"
},
{
"id": "a_handwritten_note",
"text": "A handwritten note"
},
{
"id": "a_place_we_revisit",
"text": "A place we revisit"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_236",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which new memories would feel meaningful this year?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"new_memory",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_private_getaway",
"text": "A private getaway"
},
{
"id": "a_brave_conversation",
"text": "A brave conversation"
},
{
"id": "trying_something_playful_together",
"text": "Trying something playful together"
},
{
"id": "a_simple_recurring_ritual",
"text": "A simple recurring ritual"
},
{
"id": "a_deeply_relaxed_night",
"text": "A deeply relaxed night"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_237",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How meaningful do our recent memories feel?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"new_memory_scale",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very meaningful",
"max_label": "Very meaningful"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_238",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Recreate a favorite moment or invent a completely new one?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"recreate_new",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "recreate_a_favorite",
"text": "Recreate a favorite"
},
{
"id": "invent_something_new",
"text": "Invent something new"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_239",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Old love song or a new private playlist?",
"depth": 1,
"tags": [
"music_memory",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "an_old_love_song",
"text": "An old love song"
},
{
"id": "a_new_private_playlist",
"text": "A new private playlist"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_240",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What emotional moments make physical closeness easier?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"emotional_closeness",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "feeling_understood",
"text": "Feeling understood"
},
{
"id": "laughing_together",
"text": "Laughing together"
},
{
"id": "making_up_after_a_disagreement",
"text": "Making up after a disagreement"
},
{
"id": "receiving_appreciation",
"text": "Receiving appreciation"
},
{
"id": "sharing_something_vulnerable",
"text": "Sharing something vulnerable"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_241",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of attention helps intimacy feel caring, not just physical?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"emotionally_chosen",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "undivided_listening",
"text": "Undivided listening"
},
{
"id": "remembering_a_detail",
"text": "Remembering a detail"
},
{
"id": "making_time_for_me",
"text": "Making time for me"
},
{
"id": "checking_in_without_fixing",
"text": "Checking in without fixing"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_242",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does intimacy feel like real connection instead of something to get right?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"connection_not_performance",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "being_able_to_slow_down",
"text": "Being able to slow down"
},
{
"id": "no_pressure_to_impress",
"text": "No pressure to impress"
},
{
"id": "honest_feedback",
"text": "Honest feedback"
},
{
"id": "warm_eye_contact",
"text": "Warm eye contact"
},
{
"id": "feeling_accepted",
"text": "Feeling accepted"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_243",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How emotionally connected do you feel during intimacy lately?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"emotional_scale",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very connected",
"max_label": "Deeply connected"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_244",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show that emotional trust is present?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"emotional_trust",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_fear_of_ridicule",
"text": "No fear of ridicule"
},
{
"id": "easy_honesty",
"text": "Easy honesty"
},
{
"id": "boundaries_are_remembered",
"text": "Boundaries are remembered"
},
{
"id": "silence_feels_comfortable",
"text": "Silence feels comfortable"
},
{
"id": "both_people_can_be_imperfect",
"text": "Both people can be imperfect"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_245",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which conversation creates closeness fastest?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"closeness_talk",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_shared_memory",
"text": "A shared memory"
},
{
"id": "a_sincere_appreciation",
"text": "A sincere appreciation"
},
{
"id": "a_future_hope",
"text": "A future hope"
},
{
"id": "a_playful_confession",
"text": "A playful confession"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_246",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does vulnerability bring us closer?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"vulnerability",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "being_believed",
"text": "Being believed"
},
{
"id": "being_thanked",
"text": "Being thanked"
},
{
"id": "no_immediate_advice",
"text": "No immediate advice"
},
{
"id": "privacy_afterward",
"text": "Privacy afterward"
},
{
"id": "feeling_closer_not_exposed",
"text": "Feeling closer, not exposed"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_247",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which forms of appreciation strengthen intimacy?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"appreciation",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "noticing_effort",
"text": "Noticing effort"
},
{
"id": "praising_character",
"text": "Praising character"
},
{
"id": "naming_attraction",
"text": "Naming attraction"
},
{
"id": "thanking_small_care",
"text": "Thanking small care"
},
{
"id": "celebrating_growth",
"text": "Celebrating growth"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_248",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What kind of affection works after an emotional conversation?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"post_talk_affection",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "asking_before_touching",
"text": "Asking before touching"
},
{
"id": "a_slow_hug",
"text": "A slow hug"
},
{
"id": "sitting_close",
"text": "Sitting close"
},
{
"id": "a_reassuring_kiss",
"text": "A reassuring kiss"
},
{
"id": "giving_space_first",
"text": "Giving space first"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_249",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does eye contact feel connecting rather than intense?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"eye_contact",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_warm_expression",
"text": "A warm expression"
},
{
"id": "looking_away_is_allowed",
"text": "Looking away is allowed"
},
{
"id": "it_happens_naturally",
"text": "It happens naturally"
},
{
"id": "the_pace_is_slow",
"text": "The pace is slow"
},
{
"id": "there_is_emotional_trust",
"text": "There is emotional trust"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_250",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the feeling you most want private time to create.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"desired_feeling",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "comfort",
"text": "Comfort"
},
{
"id": "excitement",
"text": "Excitement"
},
{
"id": "tenderness",
"text": "Tenderness"
},
{
"id": "deep_connection",
"text": "Deep connection"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_251",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When do we feel most like partners in intimacy?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"partnership",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "shared_decisions",
"text": "Shared decisions"
},
{
"id": "taking_turns_initiating",
"text": "Taking turns initiating"
},
{
"id": "both_receive_care",
"text": "Both receive care"
},
{
"id": "both_can_pause",
"text": "Both can pause"
},
{
"id": "both_feel_appreciated",
"text": "Both feel appreciated"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_252",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to stay emotionally present during physical closeness?",
"depth": 4,
"tags": [
"presence_scale",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Very difficult",
"max_label": "Very easy"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_253",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Heart-to-heart first or affection first?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"order_choice",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "heart_to_heart_first",
"text": "Heart-to-heart first"
},
{
"id": "affection_first",
"text": "Affection first"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_254",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Quiet tenderness or playful chemistry?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"chemistry_choice",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "quiet_tenderness",
"text": "Quiet tenderness"
},
{
"id": "playful_chemistry",
"text": "Playful chemistry"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_255",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which private mini-dates sound genuinely fun?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"mini_dates",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "dessert_in_bed",
"text": "Dessert in bed"
},
{
"id": "a_candlelit_playlist_night",
"text": "A candlelit playlist night"
},
{
"id": "slow_dancing_at_home",
"text": "Slow dancing at home"
},
{
"id": "a_blanket_and_movie_cuddle",
"text": "A blanket-and-movie cuddle"
},
{
"id": "a_dress_up_dinner_indoors",
"text": "A dress-up dinner indoors"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_256",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which tiny challenge would feel playful and flirty?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"flirty_challenge",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "trade_three_compliments",
"text": "Trade three compliments"
},
{
"id": "hold_eye_contact_for_ten_seconds",
"text": "Hold eye contact for ten seconds"
},
{
"id": "choose_each_other_s_song",
"text": "Choose each other's song"
},
{
"id": "plan_one_surprise_date_detail",
"text": "Plan one surprise date detail"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_257",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does a couple game feel playful without feeling childish?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"adult_game",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "good_chemistry",
"text": "Good chemistry"
},
{
"id": "private_humor",
"text": "Private humor"
},
{
"id": "simple_rules",
"text": "Simple rules"
},
{
"id": "either_person_can_skip_any_part",
"text": "Either person can skip any part"
},
{
"id": "no_embarrassing_dares",
"text": "No embarrassing dares"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_258",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you enjoy playful structure in private time?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"game_scale",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not at all",
"max_label": "Very much"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_259",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which low-pressure dares would you actually enjoy?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"dares",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "give_a_slow_compliment",
"text": "Give a slow compliment"
},
{
"id": "choose_the_mood_for_tonight",
"text": "Choose the mood for tonight"
},
{
"id": "pick_the_next_song",
"text": "Pick the next song"
},
{
"id": "share_a_favorite_memory",
"text": "Share a favorite memory"
},
{
"id": "name_one_small_thing_that_helps_you_feel_close",
"text": "Name one small thing that helps you feel close"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_260",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What shared ending sounds best after a playful challenge?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"shared_prize",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_long_cuddle",
"text": "A long cuddle"
},
{
"id": "dessert_together",
"text": "Dessert together"
},
{
"id": "a_massage_trade",
"text": "A massage trade"
},
{
"id": "choosing_the_next_date",
"text": "Choosing the next date"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_261",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps a teasing game from going too far?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"teasing_limits",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_stop_word",
"text": "A stop word"
},
{
"id": "no_humiliation",
"text": "No humiliation"
},
{
"id": "nothing_involving_bystanders",
"text": "Nothing involving bystanders"
},
{
"id": "clear_time_limits",
"text": "Clear time limits"
},
{
"id": "immediate_respect_for_discomfort",
"text": "Immediate respect for discomfort"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_262",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which playful choices could help us learn preferences?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"preference_games",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_yes_no_maybe_list",
"text": "A yes/no/maybe list"
},
{
"id": "choose_among_four_affection_styles",
"text": "Choose among four affection styles"
},
{
"id": "choose_a_mood_card",
"text": "Choose a mood card"
},
{
"id": "choose_a_favorite_kind_of_affection",
"text": "Choose a favorite kind of affection"
},
{
"id": "build_a_shared_idea_jar",
"text": "Build a shared idea jar"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_263",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would make a private scavenger hunt feel romantic?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"scavenger",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "notes_with_compliments",
"text": "Notes with compliments"
},
{
"id": "a_favorite_snack",
"text": "A favorite snack"
},
{
"id": "a_meaningful_location",
"text": "A meaningful location"
},
{
"id": "a_final_slow_dance",
"text": "A final slow dance"
},
{
"id": "a_no_pressure_ending",
"text": "A no-pressure ending"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_264",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which themes could make an at-home night fresh?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"themes",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "first_date_replay",
"text": "First-date replay"
},
{
"id": "favorite_decade_music",
"text": "Favorite-decade music"
},
{
"id": "dress_up_dinner",
"text": "Dress-up dinner"
},
{
"id": "spa_night",
"text": "Spa night"
},
{
"id": "phones_away_cozy_night",
"text": "Phones-away cozy night"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_265",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the playful signal that should mean 'I am open to a little closeness'.",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"come_closer_signal",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_certain_smile",
"text": "A certain smile"
},
{
"id": "a_private_phrase",
"text": "A private phrase"
},
{
"id": "a_hand_offered",
"text": "A hand offered"
},
{
"id": "a_favorite_song_started",
"text": "A favorite song started"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_266",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When does surprise affection feel fun?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"surprise_affection",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_stays_within_known_boundaries",
"text": "It stays within known boundaries"
},
{
"id": "the_timing_is_considerate",
"text": "The timing is considerate"
},
{
"id": "it_is_easy_to_decline",
"text": "It is easy to decline"
},
{
"id": "it_feels_personal",
"text": "It feels personal"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_interrupt_something_important",
"text": "It does not interrupt something important"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_267",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How playful would you like our intimacy to feel this month?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"playful_month",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very playful",
"max_label": "Very playful"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_268",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "A flirty game or a slow private date?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"game_date",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_flirty_game",
"text": "A flirty game"
},
{
"id": "a_slow_private_date",
"text": "A slow private date"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_269",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Trade compliments or trade gentle massages?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"trade_choice",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "trade_compliments",
"text": "Trade compliments"
},
{
"id": "trade_gentle_massages",
"text": "Trade gentle massages"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_270",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps attraction alive in a long relationship?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"long_term_attraction",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "continued_curiosity",
"text": "Continued curiosity"
},
{
"id": "individual_confidence",
"text": "Individual confidence"
},
{
"id": "playfulness",
"text": "Playfulness"
},
{
"id": "repairing_hurt_feelings",
"text": "Repairing hurt feelings"
},
{
"id": "making_private_time",
"text": "Making private time"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_271",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which long-term habit protects romance best?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"romance_habit",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "regular_dates",
"text": "Regular dates"
},
{
"id": "daily_affection",
"text": "Daily affection"
},
{
"id": "flirty_messages",
"text": "Flirty messages"
},
{
"id": "honest_desire_talks",
"text": "Honest desire talks"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_272",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which habits make intimacy feel routine?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"routine",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "always_the_same_timing",
"text": "Always the same timing"
},
{
"id": "skipping_connection_beforehand",
"text": "Skipping connection beforehand"
},
{
"id": "no_anticipation",
"text": "No anticipation"
},
{
"id": "feeling_rushed",
"text": "Feeling rushed"
},
{
"id": "treating_it_as_an_obligation",
"text": "Treating it as an obligation"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_273",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How fresh does our intimate connection feel lately?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"freshness",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very fresh",
"max_label": "Very fresh"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_274",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which changes deserve extra patience over the years?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"life_changes",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "health_changes",
"text": "Health changes"
},
{
"id": "body_changes",
"text": "Body changes"
},
{
"id": "hormonal_changes",
"text": "Hormonal changes"
},
{
"id": "parenting_demands",
"text": "Parenting demands"
},
{
"id": "stress_and_grief",
"text": "Stress and grief"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_275",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Where would you most like our intimacy to grow?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"growth",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "more_honest_communication",
"text": "More honest communication"
},
{
"id": "more_playful_affection",
"text": "More playful affection"
},
{
"id": "more_confidence_naming_boundaries",
"text": "More confidence naming boundaries"
},
{
"id": "more_unhurried_time",
"text": "More unhurried time"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_276",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How do we adapt without losing closeness?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"adaptation",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "talk_about_changes",
"text": "Talk about changes"
},
{
"id": "let_preferences_evolve",
"text": "Let preferences evolve"
},
{
"id": "keep_nonsexual_affection",
"text": "Keep nonsexual affection"
},
{
"id": "avoid_comparisons_to_the_past",
"text": "Avoid comparisons to the past"
},
{
"id": "find_new_shared_rhythms",
"text": "Find new shared rhythms"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_277",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs suggest our intimacy needs attention?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"attention_signs",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "affection_feels_absent",
"text": "Affection feels absent"
},
{
"id": "conversations_feel_unsafe",
"text": "Conversations feel unsafe"
},
{
"id": "initiation_feels_risky_or_pressured",
"text": "Initiation feels risky or pressured"
},
{
"id": "boundaries_are_forgotten",
"text": "Boundaries are forgotten"
},
{
"id": "resentment_is_growing",
"text": "Resentment is growing"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_278",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should never become a scorecard?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"scorecard",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "frequency",
"text": "Frequency"
},
{
"id": "who_initiates",
"text": "Who initiates"
},
{
"id": "who_says_no",
"text": "Who says no"
},
{
"id": "who_plans_dates",
"text": "Who plans dates"
},
{
"id": "who_needs_more_reassurance",
"text": "Who needs more reassurance"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_279",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What supports intimacy through major life transitions?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"transitions",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "realistic_expectations",
"text": "Realistic expectations"
},
{
"id": "flexible_definitions_of_closeness",
"text": "Flexible definitions of closeness"
},
{
"id": "honest_talks_as_needs_change",
"text": "Honest talks as needs change"
},
{
"id": "extra_patience_with_changing_energy",
"text": "Extra patience with changing energy"
},
{
"id": "updating_what_closeness_looks_like",
"text": "Updating what closeness looks like"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_280",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Pick the shared promise that would best protect long-term intimacy.",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"shared_promise",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_can_always_pause",
"text": "We can always pause"
},
{
"id": "we_will_keep_learning_each_other",
"text": "We will keep learning each other"
},
{
"id": "no_private_detail_becomes_a_weapon",
"text": "No private detail becomes a weapon"
},
{
"id": "affection_never_creates_debt",
"text": "Affection never creates debt"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_281",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make growing older together feel attractive?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"aging",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "shared_history",
"text": "Shared history"
},
{
"id": "deep_trust",
"text": "Deep trust"
},
{
"id": "comfort_in_our_bodies",
"text": "Comfort in our bodies"
},
{
"id": "knowing_each_other_s_cues",
"text": "Knowing each other's cues"
},
{
"id": "still_surprising_each_other",
"text": "Still surprising each other"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_282",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How confident are you that our intimacy can keep evolving?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"evolving",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not confident",
"max_label": "Very confident"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_283",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Protect a favorite ritual or invent a new one?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"ritual_evolution",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "protect_a_favorite_ritual",
"text": "Protect a favorite ritual"
},
{
"id": "invent_a_new_one",
"text": "Invent a new one"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_284",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well does our current intimacy fit this stage of life?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"life_stage_fit",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Does not fit well yet",
"max_label": "Fits very well"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_285",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What do you hope our intimacy includes more of next year?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"future",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "playfulness",
"text": "Playfulness"
},
{
"id": "emotional_closeness",
"text": "Emotional closeness"
},
{
"id": "unhurried_time",
"text": "Unhurried time"
},
{
"id": "honest_conversations",
"text": "Honest conversations"
},
{
"id": "new_shared_experiences",
"text": "New shared experiences"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_286",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which future intimacy goal feels most meaningful?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"future_goal",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "feeling_safer_to_speak",
"text": "Feeling safer to speak"
},
{
"id": "making_more_time",
"text": "Making more time"
},
{
"id": "keeping_attraction_playful",
"text": "Keeping attraction playful"
},
{
"id": "feeling_cared_for_afterward",
"text": "Feeling cared for afterward"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_287",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What parts of our current connection deserve appreciation?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"current_appreciation",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "our_affection",
"text": "Our affection"
},
{
"id": "our_honesty",
"text": "Our honesty"
},
{
"id": "our_humor",
"text": "Our humor"
},
{
"id": "our_ability_to_repair",
"text": "Our ability to repair"
},
{
"id": "our_respect_for_boundaries",
"text": "Our respect for boundaries"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_288",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How hopeful do you feel about our intimate future?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"hope",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not hopeful",
"max_label": "Very hopeful"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_289",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which shared intentions could strengthen closeness?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"intentions",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_what_feels_good_now",
"text": "Ask what feels good now"
},
{
"id": "protect_private_time",
"text": "Protect private time"
},
{
"id": "offer_affection_without_expectation",
"text": "Offer affection without expectation"
},
{
"id": "try_one_small_new_thing",
"text": "Try one small new thing"
},
{
"id": "celebrate_what_already_works",
"text": "Celebrate what already works"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_290",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What do you hope we remember years from now?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"future_memory",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_stayed_kind",
"text": "We stayed kind"
},
{
"id": "we_kept_flirting",
"text": "We kept flirting"
},
{
"id": "we_respected_every_no",
"text": "We respected every no"
},
{
"id": "we_never_stopped_learning",
"text": "We never stopped learning"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_291",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which parts of the way we handle intimacy make you proud?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"pride",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_can_be_honest",
"text": "We can be honest"
},
{
"id": "we_respect_boundaries",
"text": "We respect boundaries"
},
{
"id": "we_recover_from_awkwardness",
"text": "We recover from awkwardness"
},
{
"id": "we_make_each_other_laugh",
"text": "We make each other laugh"
},
{
"id": "we_keep_choosing_connection",
"text": "We keep choosing connection"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_292",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which qualities do you want us to protect no matter what?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"protect",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "trust",
"text": "Trust"
},
{
"id": "playfulness",
"text": "Playfulness"
},
{
"id": "privacy",
"text": "Privacy"
},
{
"id": "mutual_choice",
"text": "Mutual choice"
},
{
"id": "freedom_to_change",
"text": "Freedom to change"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_293",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What could help us feel more connected over the next few months?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"next_season",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_new_ritual",
"text": "A new ritual"
},
{
"id": "a_private_getaway",
"text": "A private getaway"
},
{
"id": "better_stress_support",
"text": "Better stress support"
},
{
"id": "more_daily_affection",
"text": "More daily affection"
},
{
"id": "a_more_honest_conversation",
"text": "A more honest conversation"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_294",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which appreciation would you most like to hear from me?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"appreciation_hear",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_love_how_easy_honesty_feels_with_you",
"text": "I love how easy honesty feels with you"
},
{
"id": "i_love_our_chemistry",
"text": "I love our chemistry"
},
{
"id": "i_notice_how_you_care_for_me",
"text": "I notice how you care for me"
},
{
"id": "i_am_grateful_we_can_grow_together",
"text": "I am grateful we can grow together"
},
{
"id": "i_still_choose_you",
"text": "I still choose you"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_295",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which small promise feels realistic for this month?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"monthly_promise",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "one_private_date",
"text": "One private date"
},
{
"id": "more_goodbye_kisses",
"text": "More goodbye kisses"
},
{
"id": "one_relaxed_talk_about_what_we_want",
"text": "One relaxed talk about what we want"
},
{
"id": "ten_phone_free_cuddle_minutes",
"text": "Ten phone-free cuddle minutes"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_296",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps closeness from getting lost in everyday life?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"visibility",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "naming_what_works",
"text": "Naming what works"
},
{
"id": "celebrating_small_moments",
"text": "Celebrating small moments"
},
{
"id": "planning_time_before_we_are_depleted",
"text": "Planning time before we are depleted"
},
{
"id": "continuing_to_flirt",
"text": "Continuing to flirt"
},
{
"id": "keeping_check_ins_brief_and_natural",
"text": "Keeping check-ins brief and natural"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_297",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How appreciated do you feel for the way you contribute to our closeness?",
"depth": 3,
"tags": [
"appreciated_scale",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very appreciated",
"max_label": "Deeply appreciated"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_298",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "More tenderness or more adventure in our next chapter?",
"depth": 2,
"tags": [
"next_chapter",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "more_tenderness",
"text": "More tenderness"
},
{
"id": "more_adventure",
"text": "More adventure"
}
]
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_299",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
},
{
"type": "scale",
"text": "How similar do our hopes for future intimacy feel?",
"depth": 5,
"tags": [
"alignment",
"couple_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Very different",
"max_label": "Very similar"
},
"id": "couple_intimacy_300",
"category_id": "couple_intimacy",
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral"
}
]
}