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{
"category": {
"id": "physical_intimacy",
"display_name": "Physical Intimacy",
"description": "Warm, playful, consent-first questions about everyday affection, hugs, kissing, cuddling, touch comfort, sensory preferences, physical boundaries, and nonsexual closeness.",
"access": "mixed",
"icon_name": "volunteer_activism",
"schema_version": "question_v2",
"metadata": {
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"free_questions": 75,
"premium_questions": 175,
"type_counts": {
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"single_choice": 40,
"multi_choice": 20,
"scale": 25,
"this_or_that": 15
},
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"2": 64,
"3": 64,
"4": 64,
"5": 30
},
"content_version": "physical_intimacy_guide_reviewed_v2",
"batch_size": 15,
"review_policy": "Ten 15-question written batches, then guided-choice batches of 20 or fewer, with cumulative repetition, option-fit, consent, and related-pack checks.",
"mass_rewrite_exception": "Applied because repeated written stems, mirrored touch scenarios, body-language assumptions, and neighboring paraphrases affected more than 60% of the source experience.",
"related_pack_boundary": "Owns nonsexual affection, touch comfort, cuddling, kissing, sensory preferences, physical accessibility, and everyday physical boundaries. Desire dynamics belong in sex_and_desire; specific sexual activities belong in sexual_preferences; broad sexual intimacy and aftercare belong in couple_intimacy.",
"post_draft_corrected_questions": 36,
"final_validation": "pass"
}
},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_001",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Think of a spontaneous hug from me that you still remember. What made it land so well?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"memories",
"physical_intimacy"
],
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_002",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Which tiny touch from me says “I’m here” better than words, and why?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"everyday_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
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}
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"id": "physical_intimacy_003",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Where were we the last time holding hands made an ordinary moment feel special?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"memories",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_004",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Tell me about a time my affection made a rough day feel lighter.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_005",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Which hello or goodbye ritual feels most like us, and what makes it matter?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"rituals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_006",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What photo of us best captures the way we naturally fit together?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"memories",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_007",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When has simply sitting close to me mattered more than either of us said?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"quiet_closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_008",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is a time laughter turned a cuddle into one of your favorite moments?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"playful_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_009",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Which affectionate habit from our early days is still worth keeping?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"relationship_history",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_010",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What small touch from me has felt unexpectedly romantic?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"romance",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_011",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When has being held by me helped you feel protected without feeling crowded?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_012",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What physical gesture do I do in a way that feels uniquely mine?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"couple_identity",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_013",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Which affectionate moment during a busy day made you stop and notice us?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_life",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_014",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Paint me a quick picture of the coziest scene that feels unmistakably like us.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"cozy_closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_015",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "If you could replay one sweet physical moment between us, which would you choose?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"memories",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_016",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How can I make a comfort hug feel different from a celebration hug?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"hugs",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_017",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Imagine we have been apart all day. What would make our reunion feel especially warm?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"reunions",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_018",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What detail makes holding hands on a walk feel connected instead of automatic?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"hand_holding",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_019",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How do you like me to reach for your hand when we are sitting together?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"hand_holding",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_020",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What makes a goodbye kiss feel warm without making the goodbye harder?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"kissing",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_021",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Tell me about a quick kiss that made an ordinary moment unexpectedly sweet.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"kissing",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_022",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What does a forehead kiss mean to you when it comes from me?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"kissing",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_023",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How would you like a long hug to end so it never feels abrupt or awkward?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"hugs",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_024",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of hug fits a moment when we are celebrating something together?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"hugs",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_025",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "After a disappointment, what would help a hug feel comforting rather than overwhelming?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_026",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What secret hand squeeze or small signal could mean “I’ve got you”?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"signals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_027",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Where does an arm around you feel most natural—walking, sitting, or somewhere else?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"everyday_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_028",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What sitting position makes side-by-side closeness feel easiest for you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_029",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When words are unnecessary, what greeting touch would you enjoy from me?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"greetings",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_030",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps public hand-holding feel easy instead of performative?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"public_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_031",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What morning affection ritual could make even a rushed day start sweeter?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"morning",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_032",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What bedtime touch ritual would feel comforting without getting in the way of sleep?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"bedtime",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_033",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How would you arrange our ideal couch cuddle so both of us stay comfortable?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"cuddling",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_034",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "While we cook together, what small affectionate moment would make the kitchen feel romantic?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"home",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_035",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of closeness feels natural during a long car ride when we are both relaxed?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"travel",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_036",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What passing-in-the-kitchen touch would make you smile without interrupting what you are doing?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_life",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_037",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would a perfect ten-minute phone-free closeness break look like at home?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"rituals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_038",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "On a rainy day, what kind of physical closeness sounds genuinely cozy to you?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"weather",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_039",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What cold-weather affection ritual would you happily repeat every winter?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"weather",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_040",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When it is too hot to cuddle, how could we still feel physically connected?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_041",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What sleepy form of affection feels good without asking you to fully wake up?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"sleep",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_042",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should I know about your touch preferences right after you wake up?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"morning",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_043",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How would you design a slow weekend morning that includes closeness but no pressure?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"weekends",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_044",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What after-work affection ritual would help you shift from busy mode to home mode?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"transitions",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_045",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What one-week affection experiment would be fun for us to try?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"playful_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_046",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What playful touch from me almost always gets a real smile out of you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"playful_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_047",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "If we danced without music for one minute, what would make it feel charming instead of awkward?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"play",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_048",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Invent a harmless affection challenge we could complete before bedtime.",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"play",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_049",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What private physical signal could we use to flirt across a crowded room?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"signals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_050",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Which affectionate joke or bit between us deserves to become a recurring tradition?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"couple_identity",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_051",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What romantic touch feels meaningful even when there is no grand gesture around it?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"romance",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_052",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What spontaneous affectionate gesture would feel delightful when you are clearly open to it?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"spontaneity",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_053",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "During a slow dance, what small detail would make you feel closest to me?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"romance",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_054",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What movie-scene kind of affection could actually work in our real life?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"romance",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_055",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What planned affectionate surprise would feel playful while still giving you an easy choice?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_056",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What silly competition could have an affectionate prize that we would both enjoy?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"play",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_057",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What kind of cheek, forehead, or hand kiss feels the most playful to you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"kissing",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_058",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "If we built a blanket fort tonight, what kind of closeness would fit the mood?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"cozy_closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_059",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What gentle hand movement—tracing, squeezing, or resting—feels especially affectionate?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"hands",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_060",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Which song brings back a physical memory of us, and what do you remember?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"memories",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_061",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What exact words would make asking you for a hug feel natural and welcome?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"communication",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_062",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How can I invite you closer while making it clear that either answer is completely okay?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
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}
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"id": "physical_intimacy_063",
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"text": "What simple phrase should always mean “pause the touch” between us?",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_064",
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"text": "How would you like to say “not right now” so it feels clear and easy?",
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"tags": [
"consent",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_065",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What response from me would make declining affection feel completely safe?",
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"tags": [
"consent",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_066",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When I am unsure whether touch is welcome, what check-in would you prefer?",
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"tags": [
"consent",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_067",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When you want company but not touch, where should I sit so it still feels companionable?",
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"tags": [
"low_touch_days",
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"id": "physical_intimacy_068",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How should I ask before showing affection in front of other people?",
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"tags": [
"public_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_069",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "If you change your mind during a cuddle, how can we make stopping feel ordinary?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_070",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What clear signal could tell me you are open to more nonsexual closeness?",
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"tags": [
"signals",
"physical_intimacy"
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"id": "physical_intimacy_071",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How can you tell me that affection is starting to feel like pressure?",
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"tags": [
"pressure",
"physical_intimacy"
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},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_072",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What reassurance helps you know a “not now” has not hurt our relationship?",
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"tags": [
"reassurance",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_073",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Create a simple signal that could mean “please just hold me.”",
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"tags": [
"signals",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_074",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Create a different signal that could mean “I need some room.”",
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"tags": [
"signals",
"physical_intimacy"
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},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_075",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Which body areas or situations should always require asking before touch?",
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"tags": [
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},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_076",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Which detail—pressure, pace, or placement—changes a hug from okay to wonderful for you?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"sensory_preferences",
"physical_intimacy"
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"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_077",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Do fabrics, blankets, or clothing ever change how cuddling feels? What should I know?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"sensory_preferences",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_078",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How do heat and cold change whether you want a blanket, hand-holding, or more space?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_079",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When your body feels sore or tired, what touch is helpful and what should I skip?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"body_comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_080",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should I know before touching your hair or face affectionately?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_081",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Which shoulder or back touches feel caring, and which ones distract or irritate you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"sensory_preferences",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_082",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would make a hand massage feel relaxing rather than like another task?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"massage",
"physical_intimacy"
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"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_083",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How should we handle ticklish spots so playful touch stays fun?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_084",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When you are focused on something, what affection feels welcome without breaking your concentration?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"daily_life",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_085",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "In a crowded place, what kind of contact helps you feel connected without feeling trapped?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"public_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_086",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When your senses feel overloaded, what should physical support from me look like?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"sensory_needs",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_087",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What helps touch feel kind on a day when you feel self-conscious about your appearance?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"body_confidence",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_088",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Are there positions or movements that would make cuddling easier on your body?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"accessibility",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_089",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How can we adjust closeness when one of us needs more room to get comfortable?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_090",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What difference in our personal-space needs would be useful for us to understand better?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"personal_space",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_091",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When stress is high, how can I find out whether touch would help before reaching for you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"stress",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_092",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When you are sad, what kind of physical comfort feels supportive without demanding a response?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"sadness",
"physical_intimacy"
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_093",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When you are angry, what should happen before either of us tries to use touch to reconnect?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conflict",
"physical_intimacy"
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"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_094",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "On an exhausted day, what small affection feels caring instead of like one more demand?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"fatigue",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_095",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When you feel overwhelmed, what combination of space and closeness usually helps most?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"overwhelm",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_096",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How do you like us to celebrate good news physically—hug, dance, high-five, or something else?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"celebration",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_097",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When you are under the weather, what affectionate care feels comforting without crowding you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"care",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_098",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "After hard news, what would help me offer comfort without guessing what your body needs?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"support",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_099",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Once we are both ready after conflict, what physical gesture could gently reopen closeness?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_100",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "After returning from a trip, what first affectionate moment would make home feel like home again?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reconnection",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_101",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When we are sitting in silence, what touch makes the quiet feel companionable?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"quiet_closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_102",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "If you need reassurance, what physical gesture from me feels believable rather than automatic?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reassurance",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_103",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When words are hard to find, what safe physical signal could say “I’m with you”?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"signals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_104",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How can I offer touch as support without making it feel like I am trying to fix everything?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"support",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_105",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What affectionate reset could help us feel like a couple again after a hectic week?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reconnection",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_106",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Picture a public place where affection feels comfortable. What makes that setting work for you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"public_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_107",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Where would you rather we avoid physical affection, even if it seems harmless to me?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"boundaries",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_108",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Around family or friends, what level of physical closeness feels natural to you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"social_settings",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_109",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "At a party or work event, what affectionate signal could feel private even in a crowd?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"signals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_110",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "For a posed couple photo, what kind of physical closeness feels genuine rather than staged?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"photos",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_111",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "On a body-confidence day, what kind of affection helps without drawing attention to insecurity?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"body_confidence",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_112",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What combination of a kind word and gentle touch makes you feel genuinely appreciated?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"appreciation",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_113",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How can I show physical affection without assuming how you feel about your body that day?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"body_confidence",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_114",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "If health, pain, or energy changes, how would you want us to adapt our affectionate habits?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"adaptability",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_115",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What home setup—seating, pillows, blankets, or lighting—helps physical closeness feel comfortable?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_116",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What does holding hands in public communicate to you, if anything?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"public_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_117",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What private-at-home affection ritual would make our space feel more like ours?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"home",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_118",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When privacy is limited, what tiny gesture could still help us feel connected?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"privacy",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_119",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How should our greeting change when other people are around?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"social_settings",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
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"id": "physical_intimacy_120",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "During travel, what kind of physical closeness helps you feel grounded in an unfamiliar place?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"travel",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_121",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Which affectionate habit has faded over time, and what do you miss about it?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"relationship_history",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_122",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How have your touch preferences changed since the beginning of our relationship?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"change",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
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}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_123",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What life change has affected how you enjoy physical closeness most?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"change",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_124",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "After a disconnected stretch, what is the gentlest first step back toward affection?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reconnection",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_125",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When a cuddle position stops working, how can we adjust without breaking the mood?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"awkwardness",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_126",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What could rebuild easy affection after a season when we have both been busy?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reconnection",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_127",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When affection starts feeling routine, what specific change could make it feel noticed again?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"routine",
"physical_intimacy"
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"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_128",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What separates comforting touch from romantic touch for you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"meaning",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_129",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "When our touch preferences do not match, what helps the difference feel manageable?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"mismatch",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_130",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "If one of us wants more closeness than the other, how can we protect both people from pressure?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"mismatch",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_131",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What small, low-pressure affection experiment could teach us something useful about each other?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"experiments",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_132",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "After a sincere apology, what physical closeness—if any—helps repair feel complete?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_133",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "After disappointment between us, what needs to happen before affection feels natural again?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_134",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How can we notice when an old touch preference no longer fits?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"change",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_135",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What should we never assume about each other’s comfort with physical affection?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_136",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What physical ritual could become our signature as a couple?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"couple_identity",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_137",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What promise about respecting changing touch preferences would matter most to you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"commitment",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_138",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "How could we protect one small pocket of physical closeness each week?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"weekly_rituals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_139",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What affectionate travel ritual should follow us on every trip?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"travel",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_140",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What anniversary touch ritual would feel meaningful without becoming an obligation?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"anniversary",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_141",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "If we moved into a new home, what closeness ritual would make it feel like ours?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"home",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_142",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Picture us much older. What kind of everyday affection do you hope we still share?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"future",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_143",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "During a future stressful season, what touch agreement would help us stay gentle?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"future",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_144",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Which private physical signal between us would you want to keep for years?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"signals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_145",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What affectionate tradition could belong only to us and still feel natural?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"couple_identity",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_146",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What affectionate habit would make hosting people feel warm without seeming performative?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"couple_identity",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_147",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What tiny affection could make errands or waiting in line feel more like shared time?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"habits",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_148",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "Design our ideal ten-minute closeness break for an ordinary weeknight.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"rituals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_149",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What physical habit would our future selves thank us for protecting now?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"future",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_150",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "written",
"text": "What would make our physical affection feel unmistakably like our relationship—not anyone else’s?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"couple_identity",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_151",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "After a long day apart, which reunion sounds best?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"reunions",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_doorway_hug_before_talking",
"text": "A doorway hug before talking"
},
{
"id": "a_cheek_kiss_and_shared_smile",
"text": "A cheek kiss and shared smile"
},
{
"id": "hands_linked_while_we_catch_up",
"text": "Hands linked while we catch up"
},
{
"id": "a_minute_to_settle_then_closeness",
"text": "A minute to settle, then closeness"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_152",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "For a movie night, where would you most enjoy sitting?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"cuddling",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "shoulder_to_shoulder_on_the_couch",
"text": "Shoulder to shoulder on the couch"
},
{
"id": "curled_together_under_one_blanket",
"text": "Curled together under one blanket"
},
{
"id": "feet_touching_from_opposite_ends",
"text": "Feet touching from opposite ends"
},
{
"id": "nearby_with_room_to_move",
"text": "Nearby with room to move"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_153",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which hand-holding style feels most natural on a walk?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"hand_holding",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "fingers_loosely_intertwined",
"text": "Fingers loosely intertwined"
},
{
"id": "palms_together_with_an_easy_grip",
"text": "Palms together with an easy grip"
},
{
"id": "linked_pinkies_for_something_light",
"text": "Linked pinkies for something light"
},
{
"id": "arms_linked_instead_of_hands",
"text": "Arms linked instead of hands"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_154",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When would a long hug feel best?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"hugs",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "right_after_we_reunite",
"text": "Right after we reunite"
},
{
"id": "when_one_of_us_needs_comfort",
"text": "When one of us needs comfort"
},
{
"id": "at_the_end_of_a_good_day",
"text": "At the end of a good day"
},
{
"id": "when_we_both_have_time_to_linger",
"text": "When we both have time to linger"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_155",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which morning affection would start your day well?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"morning",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_gentle_forehead_kiss",
"text": "A gentle forehead kiss"
},
{
"id": "a_sleepy_full_body_stretch_together",
"text": "A sleepy full-body stretch together"
},
{
"id": "a_warm_hand_on_your_shoulder",
"text": "A warm hand on your shoulder"
},
{
"id": "a_cheerful_hug_after_getting_up",
"text": "A cheerful hug after getting up"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_156",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which bedtime gesture feels most comforting?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"bedtime",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_slow_goodnight_kiss",
"text": "A slow goodnight kiss"
},
{
"id": "a_brief_back_rub_before_sleep",
"text": "A brief back rub before sleep"
},
{
"id": "holding_hands_until_we_relax",
"text": "Holding hands until we relax"
},
{
"id": "a_soft_squeeze_then_separate_space",
"text": "A soft squeeze, then separate space"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_157",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What level of public affection feels easiest?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"public_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hands_linked_while_walking",
"text": "Hands linked while walking"
},
{
"id": "a_quick_hello_or_goodbye_kiss",
"text": "A quick hello or goodbye kiss"
},
{
"id": "an_arm_around_each_other_briefly",
"text": "An arm around each other briefly"
},
{
"id": "keeping_affection_private_in_public",
"text": "Keeping affection private in public"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_158",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When you need comfort, which touch is most likely to help?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_steady_hug_with_no_talking",
"text": "A steady hug with no talking"
},
{
"id": "a_hand_resting_on_your_back",
"text": "A hand resting on your back"
},
{
"id": "your_hand_held_without_squeezing",
"text": "Your hand held without squeezing"
},
{
"id": "space_first_then_an_invitation",
"text": "Space first, then an invitation"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_159",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "How should we celebrate a small win physically?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"celebration",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "one_dramatic_victory_hug",
"text": "One dramatic victory hug"
},
{
"id": "a_kitchen_dance_for_one_song",
"text": "A kitchen dance for one song"
},
{
"id": "an_enthusiastic_double_high_five",
"text": "An enthusiastic double high-five"
},
{
"id": "a_proud_kiss_on_the_cheek",
"text": "A proud kiss on the cheek"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_160",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which playful affection sounds most like us?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"playful_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_surprise_spin_during_a_hug",
"text": "A surprise spin during a hug"
},
{
"id": "a_secret_hand_squeeze_code",
"text": "A secret hand-squeeze code"
},
{
"id": "a_ridiculous_slow_dance",
"text": "A ridiculous slow dance"
},
{
"id": "a_gentle_shoulder_bump_and_grin",
"text": "A gentle shoulder bump and grin"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_161",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "At a crowded event, how should we stay connected?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"social_settings",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "brief_hand_contact_while_moving",
"text": "Brief hand contact while moving"
},
{
"id": "a_private_signal_across_the_room",
"text": "A private signal across the room"
},
{
"id": "standing_close_during_conversations",
"text": "Standing close during conversations"
},
{
"id": "checking_in_verbally_instead",
"text": "Checking in verbally instead"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_162",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "During a quiet moment, which gesture feels most supportive?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"quiet_closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "resting_your_head_on_my_shoulder",
"text": "Resting your head on my shoulder"
},
{
"id": "my_hand_covering_yours",
"text": "My hand covering yours"
},
{
"id": "sitting_close_without_touching",
"text": "Sitting close without touching"
},
{
"id": "a_soft_hug_after_asking",
"text": "A soft hug after asking"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_163",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which invitation to affection feels most natural?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"communication",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "can_i_hold_you_for_a_minute",
"text": "“Can I hold you for a minute?”"
},
{
"id": "would_a_hug_feel_good",
"text": "“Would a hug feel good?”"
},
{
"id": "opening_my_arms_and_waiting",
"text": "Opening my arms and waiting"
},
{
"id": "offering_my_hand_without_assuming",
"text": "Offering my hand without assuming"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_164",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should our clearest pause signal be?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_word_pause_said_plainly",
"text": "The word “pause” said plainly"
},
{
"id": "two_gentle_taps_on_my_arm",
"text": "Two gentle taps on my arm"
},
{
"id": "moving_apart_and_naming_it",
"text": "Moving apart and naming it"
},
{
"id": "a_hand_raised_between_us",
"text": "A hand raised between us"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_165",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When you seem busy, how should I offer affection?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"timing",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_whether_now_is_a_good_time",
"text": "Ask whether now is a good time"
},
{
"id": "wait_for_a_natural_break",
"text": "Wait for a natural break"
},
{
"id": "offer_my_hand_without_interrupting",
"text": "Offer my hand without interrupting"
},
{
"id": "save_the_affection_for_later",
"text": "Save the affection for later"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_166",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which nonsexual kiss feels sweetest to you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"kissing",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_forehead_kiss_before_leaving",
"text": "A forehead kiss before leaving"
},
{
"id": "a_cheek_kiss_in_passing",
"text": "A cheek kiss in passing"
},
{
"id": "a_hand_kiss_during_a_joke",
"text": "A hand kiss during a joke"
},
{
"id": "a_temple_kiss_while_resting",
"text": "A temple kiss while resting"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_167",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "During a slow dance, where would you feel most comfortable?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"dance",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hands_lightly_at_the_waist",
"text": "Hands lightly at the waist"
},
{
"id": "one_hand_held_between_us",
"text": "One hand held between us"
},
{
"id": "arms_around_each_others_shoulders",
"text": "Arms around each other’s shoulders"
},
{
"id": "a_little_space_with_gentle_contact",
"text": "A little space with gentle contact"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_168",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which movie-night cuddle setup would actually last?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"cuddling",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "one_pillow_shared_between_us",
"text": "One pillow shared between us"
},
{
"id": "separate_pillows_under_one_blanket",
"text": "Separate pillows under one blanket"
},
{
"id": "your_legs_resting_across_mine",
"text": "Your legs resting across mine"
},
{
"id": "side_by_side_with_occasional_touch",
"text": "Side by side with occasional touch"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_169",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "On a trip, which closeness would feel grounding?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"travel",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "holding_hands_in_a_new_place",
"text": "Holding hands in a new place"
},
{
"id": "a_hug_before_leaving_the_hotel",
"text": "A hug before leaving the hotel"
},
{
"id": "sitting_hip_to_hip_in_transit",
"text": "Sitting hip to hip in transit"
},
{
"id": "a_private_signal_when_overwhelmed",
"text": "A private signal when overwhelmed"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_170",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When it is too warm to cuddle, what should replace it?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"weather",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "feet_touching_at_the_edge_of_bed",
"text": "Feet touching at the edge of bed"
},
{
"id": "a_cool_hand_held_briefly",
"text": "A cool hand held briefly"
},
{
"id": "sitting_close_with_separate_blankets",
"text": "Sitting close with separate blankets"
},
{
"id": "a_quick_kiss_and_extra_space",
"text": "A quick kiss and extra space"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_171",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which cold-weather affection sounds best?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"weather",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "warming_hands_inside_one_pair_of_pockets",
"text": "Warming hands inside one pair of pockets"
},
{
"id": "sharing_a_blanket_on_the_porch",
"text": "Sharing a blanket on the porch"
},
{
"id": "a_long_hug_before_going_outside",
"text": "A long hug before going outside"
},
{
"id": "leaning_together_over_hot_drinks",
"text": "Leaning together over hot drinks"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_172",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "While cooking, which affectionate moment would you enjoy?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"home",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_quick_side_hug_after_asking",
"text": "A quick side hug after asking"
},
{
"id": "a_cheek_kiss_between_steps",
"text": "A cheek kiss between steps"
},
{
"id": "brief_hand_squeeze_while_passing_ingredients",
"text": "A brief hand squeeze while passing ingredients"
},
{
"id": "a_tiny_dance_during_the_timer",
"text": "A tiny dance during the timer"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_173",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which in-passing gesture would brighten an ordinary day?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"daily_life",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_shoulder_squeeze_at_the_doorway",
"text": "A shoulder squeeze at the doorway"
},
{
"id": "a_hand_brushed_along_your_arm",
"text": "A hand brushed along your arm"
},
{
"id": "a_quick_forehead_touch_and_smile",
"text": "A quick forehead touch and smile"
},
{
"id": "a_playful_kiss_blown_from_across_the_room",
"text": "A playful kiss blown from across the room"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_174",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which first step helps you feel ready to consider closeness after conflict?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"repair",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_clear_verbal_check_in",
"text": "A clear verbal check-in"
},
{
"id": "quiet_time_for_both_of_us_to_settle",
"text": "Quiet time for both of us to settle"
},
{
"id": "a_sincere_repair_conversation_first",
"text": "A sincere repair conversation first"
},
{
"id": "an_invitation_i_can_freely_decline",
"text": "An invitation I can freely decline"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_175",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "On an insecure body day, what affection feels kindest?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"body_confidence",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "being_held_without_appearance_comments",
"text": "Being held without appearance comments"
},
{
"id": "a_gentle_hand_offered_to_yours",
"text": "A gentle hand offered to yours"
},
{
"id": "a_kiss_paired_with_kind_reassurance",
"text": "A kiss paired with kind reassurance"
},
{
"id": "closeness_that_lets_you_choose_distance",
"text": "Closeness that lets you choose distance"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_176",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When your body is sore or tired, what support is most useful?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"body_comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_light_hand_massage",
"text": "A light hand massage"
},
{
"id": "a_carefully_placed_back_rub",
"text": "A carefully placed back rub"
},
{
"id": "a_still_hand_resting_nearby",
"text": "A still hand resting nearby"
},
{
"id": "no_touch_unless_you_request_it",
"text": "No touch unless you request it"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_177",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "How much surprise do you enjoy in everyday affection?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"spontaneity",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "only_when_i_can_see_it_coming",
"text": "Only when I can see it coming"
},
{
"id": "small_surprises_in_relaxed_moments",
"text": "Small surprises in relaxed moments"
},
{
"id": "playful_surprises_with_an_easy_out",
"text": "Playful surprises with an easy out"
},
{
"id": "i_prefer_affection_to_be_announced",
"text": "I prefer affection to be announced"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_178",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which hug length usually feels best?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"hugs",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_quick_squeeze_and_release",
"text": "A quick squeeze and release"
},
{
"id": "long_enough_for_one_deep_breath",
"text": "Long enough for one deep breath"
},
{
"id": "several_breaths_without_rushing",
"text": "Several breaths without rushing"
},
{
"id": "different_every_time_ask_me",
"text": "Different every time—ask me"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_179",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What hug pressure feels most comfortable?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"sensory_preferences",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "light_contact_with_room_to_move",
"text": "Light contact with room to move"
},
{
"id": "a_warm_medium_squeeze",
"text": "A warm medium squeeze"
},
{
"id": "firm_pressure_when_i_invite_it",
"text": "Firm pressure when I invite it"
},
{
"id": "pressure_that_changes_with_my_cue",
"text": "Pressure that changes with my cue"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_180",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which pace makes affectionate touch feel best?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"sensory_preferences",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "brief_and_playful",
"text": "Brief and playful"
},
{
"id": "slow_and_predictable",
"text": "Slow and predictable"
},
{
"id": "still_and_steady",
"text": "Still and steady"
},
{
"id": "varied_after_a_quick_check_in",
"text": "Varied after a quick check-in"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_181",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which way of initiating a hug feels easiest to you?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"hugs",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_direct_can_i_hug_you",
"text": "A direct “Can I hug you?”"
},
{
"id": "opening_your_arms_and_waiting",
"text": "Opening your arms and waiting"
},
{
"id": "sitting_beside_me_first",
"text": "Sitting beside me first"
},
{
"id": "using_our_agreed_hug_signal",
"text": "Using our agreed hug signal"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_182",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "After “not right now,” which response feels most reassuring?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "of_course_thanks_for_telling_me",
"text": "“Of course—thanks for telling me.”"
},
{
"id": "a_warm_smile_and_immediate_space",
"text": "A warm smile and immediate space"
},
{
"id": "an_offer_of_nonphysical_company",
"text": "An offer of nonphysical company"
},
{
"id": "a_check_in_later_without_guilt",
"text": "A check-in later without guilt"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_183",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which small ritual would you most like to protect?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"rituals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_twenty_second_reunion_hug",
"text": "A twenty-second reunion hug"
},
{
"id": "a_kiss_before_one_of_us_leaves",
"text": "A kiss before one of us leaves"
},
{
"id": "hands_linked_during_one_evening_walk",
"text": "Hands linked during one evening walk"
},
{
"id": "a_quiet_cuddle_before_weekend_plans",
"text": "A quiet cuddle before weekend plans"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_184",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which across-the-room signal best says “I need support”?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"support_signals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_hand_briefly_over_the_heart",
"text": "A hand briefly over the heart"
},
{
"id": "a_small_two_finger_wave",
"text": "A small two-finger wave"
},
{
"id": "a_steady_look_and_quiet_nod",
"text": "A steady look and quiet nod"
},
{
"id": "a_signal_we_choose_together",
"text": "A signal we choose together"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_185",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which hand-care gesture sounds most relaxing?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"massage",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "slow_thumb_circles_in_your_palm",
"text": "Slow thumb circles in your palm"
},
{
"id": "each_finger_gently_stretched",
"text": "Each finger gently stretched"
},
{
"id": "warm_lotion_rubbed_into_your_hands",
"text": "Warm lotion rubbed into your hands"
},
{
"id": "hands_held_still_between_mine",
"text": "Hands held still between mine"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_186",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which pairing would make affection feel most personal?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"appreciation",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_specific_compliment_with_a_hand_squeeze",
"text": "A specific compliment with a hand squeeze"
},
{
"id": "an_inside_joke_with_a_cheek_kiss",
"text": "An inside joke with a cheek kiss"
},
{
"id": "a_thank_you_with_a_long_hug",
"text": "A thank-you with a long hug"
},
{
"id": "a_favorite_nickname_with_linked_hands",
"text": "A favorite nickname with linked hands"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_187",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Before a stressful appointment, which supportive gesture would feel best?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reconnection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "quiet_hand_squeeze_in_the_car",
"text": "A quiet hand squeeze in the car"
},
{
"id": "brief_hug_before_walking_in",
"text": "A brief hug before walking in"
},
{
"id": "shoulders_touching_while_we_wait",
"text": "Shoulders touching while we wait"
},
{
"id": "nearby_company_without_touch",
"text": "Nearby company without touch"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_188",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which playful mini-game would make touch feel fun?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"play",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "mirror_each_others_silly_dance_moves",
"text": "Mirror each other’s silly dance moves"
},
{
"id": "invent_three_secret_handshakes",
"text": "Invent three secret handshakes"
},
{
"id": "guess_a_message_from_hand_squeezes",
"text": "Guess a message from hand squeezes"
},
{
"id": "race_to_create_the_coziest_seat",
"text": "Race to create the coziest seat"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_189",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "For a couple photo, which pose would feel most natural?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"photos",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "foreheads_together_and_laughing",
"text": "Foreheads together and laughing"
},
{
"id": "arms_linked_while_walking",
"text": "Arms linked while walking"
},
{
"id": "one_relaxed_hug_from_the_side",
"text": "One relaxed hug from the side"
},
{
"id": "standing_close_with_hands_connected",
"text": "Standing close with hands connected"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_190",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which physical moment feels most unmistakably like us?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"couple_identity",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "our_familiar_hello_embrace",
"text": "Our familiar hello embrace"
},
{
"id": "the_way_we_share_couch_space",
"text": "The way we share couch space"
},
{
"id": "our_private_hand_squeeze_signal",
"text": "Our private hand-squeeze signal"
},
{
"id": "the_goodnight_gesture_we_repeat",
"text": "The goodnight gesture we repeat"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_191",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which clear invitations help you know everyday affection is welcome? Select any that fit.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"signals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "you_say_come_closer",
"text": "You say “come closer”"
},
{
"id": "you_reach_for_my_hand",
"text": "You reach for my hand"
},
{
"id": "you_verbally_invite_a_hug",
"text": "You verbally invite a hug"
},
{
"id": "you_make_room_and_pat_the_seat",
"text": "You make room and pat the seat"
},
{
"id": "you_use_our_agreed_signal",
"text": "You use our agreed signal"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_192",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "With no expectation and an easy stop, what else makes a cuddle comfortable? Choose all that matter.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"cuddling",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "enough_room_to_change_position",
"text": "Enough room to change position"
},
{
"id": "a_temperature_that_feels_comfortable",
"text": "A temperature that feels comfortable"
},
{
"id": "supportive_pillows_or_blankets",
"text": "Supportive pillows or blankets"
},
{
"id": "quiet_without_competing_distractions",
"text": "Quiet without competing distractions"
},
{
"id": "a_position_we_can_adjust_easily",
"text": "A position we can adjust easily"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_193",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which small touch rituals would improve an ordinary week? Pick any you would enjoy.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"rituals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_hug_when_we_get_home",
"text": "A hug when we get home"
},
{
"id": "a_hand_squeeze_before_leaving",
"text": "A hand squeeze before leaving"
},
{
"id": "a_brief_couch_check_in",
"text": "A brief couch check-in"
},
{
"id": "a_goodnight_forehead_kiss",
"text": "A goodnight forehead kiss"
},
{
"id": "linked_arms_on_a_short_walk",
"text": "Linked arms on a short walk"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_194",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "On a low-touch day, what could still help you feel close? Select any that fit.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"low_touch_days",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sitting_nearby_without_contact",
"text": "Sitting nearby without contact"
},
{
"id": "a_kind_text_from_another_room",
"text": "A kind text from another room"
},
{
"id": "sharing_a_quiet_activity",
"text": "Sharing a quiet activity"
},
{
"id": "an_affectionate_word_or_nickname",
"text": "An affectionate word or nickname"
},
{
"id": "checking_again_at_a_later_time",
"text": "Checking again at a later time"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_195",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make physical affection feel playful? Choose every answer that sounds fun.",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"playful_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_one_song_kitchen_dance",
"text": "A one-song kitchen dance"
},
{
"id": "a_made_up_secret_handshake",
"text": "A made-up secret handshake"
},
{
"id": "a_dramatic_celebration_hug",
"text": "A dramatic celebration hug"
},
{
"id": "a_gentle_game_of_footsie",
"text": "A gentle game of footsie"
},
{
"id": "a_silly_pose_for_a_photo",
"text": "A silly pose for a photo"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_196",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which public affection feels comfortable when you are open to it? Pick any that apply.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"public_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hands_connected_while_walking",
"text": "Hands connected while walking"
},
{
"id": "a_quick_cheek_kiss",
"text": "A quick cheek kiss"
},
{
"id": "an_arm_lightly_around_you",
"text": "An arm lightly around you"
},
{
"id": "a_brief_greeting_hug",
"text": "A brief greeting hug"
},
{
"id": "no_public_touch_at_all",
"text": "No public touch at all"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_197",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "With either answer accepted, how could I invite physical closeness? Select every approach you like.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_one_clear_question",
"text": "Ask one clear question"
},
{
"id": "offer_an_open_hand_and_wait",
"text": "Offer an open hand and wait"
},
{
"id": "make_space_beside_me",
"text": "Make space beside me"
},
{
"id": "name_a_specific_gentle_gesture",
"text": "Name a specific gentle gesture"
},
{
"id": "use_a_signal_we_agreed_on",
"text": "Use a signal we agreed on"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_198",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which ways of saying “not right now” would feel natural to you? Pick any.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "say_it_directly_and_kindly",
"text": "Say it directly and kindly"
},
{
"id": "use_our_pause_word",
"text": "Use our pause word"
},
{
"id": "ask_for_space_instead",
"text": "Ask for space instead"
},
{
"id": "offer_a_different_kind_of_connection",
"text": "Offer a different kind of connection"
},
{
"id": "suggest_checking_in_later",
"text": "Suggest checking in later"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_199",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "After touch stops immediately, what else helps the moment stay supportive? Choose all that fit.",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "thank_them_for_being_clear",
"text": "Thank them for being clear"
},
{
"id": "give_physical_room_right_away",
"text": "Give physical room right away"
},
{
"id": "keep_the_mood_warm_and_ordinary",
"text": "Keep the mood warm and ordinary"
},
{
"id": "switch_to_a_neutral_shared_activity",
"text": "Switch to a neutral shared activity"
},
{
"id": "let_them_choose_any_later_closeness",
"text": "Let them choose any later closeness"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_200",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which conditions help touch feel sensory-friendly? Select any that matter to you.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"sensory_needs",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "predictable_movements",
"text": "Predictable movements"
},
{
"id": "comfortable_pressure",
"text": "Comfortable pressure"
},
{
"id": "low_noise_and_fewer_distractions",
"text": "Low noise and fewer distractions"
},
{
"id": "room_to_reposition_easily",
"text": "Room to reposition easily"
},
{
"id": "a_quick_warning_before_contact",
"text": "A quick warning before contact"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_201",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When stress is high, which physical support might help after a check-in? Pick any.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"stress",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_steady_hand_held_quietly",
"text": "A steady hand held quietly"
},
{
"id": "a_brief_grounding_hug",
"text": "A brief grounding hug"
},
{
"id": "a_hand_resting_on_your_shoulder",
"text": "A hand resting on your shoulder"
},
{
"id": "sitting_close_without_contact",
"text": "Sitting close without contact"
},
{
"id": "space_now_with_an_offer_later",
"text": "Space now with an offer later"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_202",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "During travel, which gestures help an unfamiliar place feel easier? Select any.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"travel",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_hand_offered_in_a_crowd",
"text": "A hand offered in a crowd"
},
{
"id": "a_reunion_hug_at_the_hotel",
"text": "A reunion hug at the hotel"
},
{
"id": "shoulders_touching_in_transit",
"text": "Shoulders touching in transit"
},
{
"id": "our_private_check_in_signal",
"text": "Our private check-in signal"
},
{
"id": "a_quiet_moment_side_by_side",
"text": "A quiet moment side by side"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_203",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps affection feel kind on a body-confidence day? Choose all that fit.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"body_confidence",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "touch_without_evaluating_appearance",
"text": "Touch without evaluating appearance"
},
{
"id": "specific_appreciation_unrelated_to_size",
"text": "Specific appreciation unrelated to size"
},
{
"id": "letting_you_guide_the_distance",
"text": "Letting you guide the distance"
},
{
"id": "closeness_through_hands_or_shoulders",
"text": "Closeness through hands or shoulders"
},
{
"id": "no_surprise_contact",
"text": "No surprise contact"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_204",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "After a week of opposite schedules, which gestures could make us feel physically in sync again?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reconnection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "share_a_slow_coffee_side_by_side",
"text": "Share a slow coffee side by side"
},
{
"id": "take_a_short_hand_holding_walk",
"text": "Take a short hand-holding walk"
},
{
"id": "choose_a_familiar_couch_position",
"text": "Choose a familiar couch position"
},
{
"id": "exchange_a_long_unhurried_hug",
"text": "Exchange a long, unhurried hug"
},
{
"id": "plan_a_phone_free_closeness_break",
"text": "Plan a phone-free closeness break"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_205",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Where could small affectionate moments fit into a busy day? Select any you would notice.",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"daily_life",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "while_coffee_is_brewing",
"text": "While coffee is brewing"
},
{
"id": "at_the_doorway_between_errands",
"text": "At the doorway between errands"
},
{
"id": "during_a_short_stretch_break",
"text": "During a short stretch break"
},
{
"id": "before_one_of_us_starts_a_call",
"text": "Before one of us starts a call"
},
{
"id": "when_we_finally_sit_down",
"text": "When we finally sit down"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_206",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which gestures feel romantic while staying clearly nonsexual? Choose any that appeal.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"nonsexual_romance",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_slow_dance_in_ordinary_clothes",
"text": "A slow dance in ordinary clothes"
},
{
"id": "a_hand_kissed_during_a_joke",
"text": "A hand kissed during a joke"
},
{
"id": "foreheads_resting_together_briefly",
"text": "Foreheads resting together briefly"
},
{
"id": "a_note_delivered_with_a_hug",
"text": "A note delivered with a hug"
},
{
"id": "hands_linked_under_the_table",
"text": "Hands linked under the table"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_207",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which changes might affect your touch preferences over time? Select any that apply.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"change",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "stress_or_sleep_levels",
"text": "Stress or sleep levels"
},
{
"id": "pain_illness_or_recovery",
"text": "Pain, illness, or recovery"
},
{
"id": "temperature_and_surroundings",
"text": "Temperature and surroundings"
},
{
"id": "confidence_in_your_body",
"text": "Confidence in your body"
},
{
"id": "how_emotionally_connected_you_feel",
"text": "How emotionally connected you feel"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_208",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What adjustments can make closeness more accessible and comfortable? Pick any.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"accessibility",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "different_pillows_or_support",
"text": "Different pillows or support"
},
{
"id": "positions_with_less_strain",
"text": "Positions with less strain"
},
{
"id": "shorter_periods_of_contact",
"text": "Shorter periods of contact"
},
{
"id": "clear_help_changing_position",
"text": "Clear help changing position"
},
{
"id": "more_space_around_sensitive_areas",
"text": "More space around sensitive areas"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_209",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "With pausing easy and no gesture creating obligation, what else keeps affection mutual? Choose all that fit.",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"mutuality",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "both_people_initiate_sometimes",
"text": "Both people initiate sometimes"
},
{
"id": "both_can_suggest_a_different_gesture",
"text": "Both can suggest a different gesture"
},
{
"id": "preferences_get_updated_openly",
"text": "Preferences get updated openly"
},
{
"id": "feedback_is_welcomed_kindly",
"text": "Feedback is welcomed kindly"
},
{
"id": "each_persons_favorite_touches_matter",
"text": "Each person’s favorite touches matter"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_210",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which couple rituals would you genuinely enjoy trying? Pick any.",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"rituals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_daily_twenty_second_hug",
"text": "A daily twenty-second hug"
},
{
"id": "a_weekly_slow_song_together",
"text": "A weekly slow song together"
},
{
"id": "a_goodbye_hand_squeeze_code",
"text": "A goodbye hand-squeeze code"
},
{
"id": "a_sunday_morning_couch_cuddle",
"text": "A Sunday-morning couch cuddle"
},
{
"id": "a_seasonal_cozy_night_ritual",
"text": "A seasonal cozy-night ritual"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_211",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How natural does everyday affection feel between us lately?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_life",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very natural",
"max_label": "Very natural"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_212",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy does it feel to ask me for a hug?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"hugs",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not easy yet",
"max_label": "Very easy"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_213",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you with our usual level of public affection?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"public_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_214",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do you feel I understand your everyday touch preferences?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"understanding",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Still learning",
"max_label": "Understand them well"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_215",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to say “not right now” to physical affection?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not easy yet",
"max_label": "Very easy"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_216",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How playful does our nonsexual affection feel these days?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"playful_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not playful",
"max_label": "Very playful"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_217",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do our current affection rituals add warmth to your day?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"rituals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "A little warmth",
"max_label": "A lot of warmth"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_218",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How free from pressure does physical closeness feel between us?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"pressure",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Some pressure remains",
"max_label": "Completely pressure-free"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_219",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How confident are you that a pause or stop will be respected immediately?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not fully confident",
"max_label": "Completely confident"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_220",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you with spontaneous everyday touch from me?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"spontaneity",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_221",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do our couch or bedtime routines fit your physical comfort?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Could fit better",
"max_label": "Fit very well"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_222",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How accepted do low-touch days feel in our relationship?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"low_touch_days",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not fully accepted",
"max_label": "Completely accepted"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_223",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable do you feel initiating nonsexual affection?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"initiation",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_224",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often does our affection feel noticed rather than automatic?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"routine",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Rarely noticed",
"max_label": "Almost always noticed"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_225",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we adapt touch when one of us is tired or sore?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"body_comfort",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very well",
"max_label": "Very well"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_226",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to give me feedback about pressure, pace, or placement?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"feedback",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not easy yet",
"max_label": "Very easy"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_227",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How connected do you feel during quiet, nonsexual closeness?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"quiet_closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "A little connected",
"max_label": "Deeply connected"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_228",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you asking for more personal space while staying emotionally close?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"personal_space",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_229",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do our greeting and goodbye gestures fit what you enjoy?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"greetings",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Could fit better",
"max_label": "Fit perfectly"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_230",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How relaxed does affection feel when other people are nearby?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"social_settings",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Usually tense",
"max_label": "Usually relaxed"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_231",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do you feel our physical affection reflects both people’s preferences?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"mutuality",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very balanced",
"max_label": "Very balanced"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_232",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you changing your mind after affection has started?",
"depth": 5,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"consent",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
"max_label": "Completely comfortable"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_233",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easily do we reconnect physically after a busy or distant stretch?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"reconnection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very easily",
"max_label": "Very easily"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_234",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much room is there for humor in our physical affection?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"play",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Very little",
"max_label": "Plenty of room"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_235",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How confident are you that we can adapt affection as our bodies and routines change?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"adaptability",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not confident yet",
"max_label": "Very confident"
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_236",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Shoulder-to-shoulder cuddle or face-to-face cuddle?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"cuddling",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "shoulder_to_shoulder",
"text": "Shoulder to shoulder"
},
{
"id": "face_to_face",
"text": "Face to face"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_237",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Forehead kiss or hand kiss?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"kissing",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "forehead_kiss",
"text": "Forehead kiss"
},
{
"id": "hand_kiss",
"text": "Hand kiss"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_238",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "One long hug or several quick hugs?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"hugs",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "one_long_hug",
"text": "One long hug"
},
{
"id": "several_quick_hugs",
"text": "Several quick hugs"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_239",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Hold hands while walking or link arms?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"hand_holding",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "hold_hands",
"text": "Hold hands"
},
{
"id": "link_arms",
"text": "Link arms"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_240",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Morning squeeze or goodnight kiss?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"rituals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "morning_squeeze",
"text": "Morning squeeze"
},
{
"id": "goodnight_kiss",
"text": "Goodnight kiss"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_241",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Couch cuddle or porch-swing closeness?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"cozy_closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "couch_cuddle",
"text": "Couch cuddle"
},
{
"id": "porch_swing_closeness",
"text": "Porch-swing closeness"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_242",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Slow dance or playful kitchen sway?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"dance",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "slow_dance",
"text": "Slow dance"
},
{
"id": "kitchen_sway",
"text": "Kitchen sway"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_243",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "When affection is welcome, arm around your shoulders or hand resting at your waist?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "arm_around_shoulders",
"text": "Arm around shoulders"
},
{
"id": "hand_at_waist",
"text": "Hand at waist"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_244",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Playful shoulder nudge or secret hand squeeze?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"playful_affection",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "shoulder_nudge",
"text": "Shoulder nudge"
},
{
"id": "secret_hand_squeeze",
"text": "Secret hand squeeze"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_245",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Quiet closeness or laughing closeness?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "quiet_closeness",
"text": "Quiet closeness"
},
{
"id": "laughing_closeness",
"text": "Laughing closeness"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_246",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "One shared blanket or separate blankets with feet touching?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"cuddling",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "share_one_blanket",
"text": "Share one blanket"
},
{
"id": "separate_blankets_feet_touching",
"text": "Separate blankets, feet touching"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_247",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Greeting hug or goodbye kiss?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"greetings",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "greeting_hug",
"text": "Greeting hug"
},
{
"id": "goodbye_kiss",
"text": "Goodbye kiss"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_248",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Sit side by side or sit across with feet touching?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"closeness",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "side_by_side",
"text": "Side by side"
},
{
"id": "across_with_feet_touching",
"text": "Across with feet touching"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_249",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Daily tiny touch or weekly longer cuddle?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"rituals",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "daily_tiny_touch",
"text": "Daily tiny touch"
},
{
"id": "weekly_longer_cuddle",
"text": "Weekly longer cuddle"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "physical_intimacy_250",
"category_id": "physical_intimacy",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Bring back an old affectionate habit or invent a new signal?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"future",
"physical_intimacy"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "bring_back_an_old_habit",
"text": "Bring back an old habit"
},
{
"id": "invent_a_new_signal",
"text": "Invent a new signal"
}
]
}
}
]
}
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