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{
"category": {
"id": "communication",
"display_name": "Communication",
"description": "Natural, useful questions about everyday conversation, listening, asking clearly, tone, timing, texting, misunderstandings, and the habits that help couples understand each other.",
"access": "mixed",
"icon_name": "chat_bubble_outline",
"schema_version": "question_v2",
"metadata": {
"total_questions": 150,
"free_questions": 45,
"premium_questions": 105,
"type_counts": {
"written": 5,
"single_choice": 30,
"multi_choice": 90,
"scale": 15,
"this_or_that": 10
},
"depth_counts": {
"1": 32,
"2": 60,
"3": 51,
"4": 7
},
"light_depth_questions": 92,
"light_depth_percentage": 61.3,
"content_version": "communication_v2_final_review",
"batch_size": 25,
"review_policy": "Rebuilt in six controlled 25-question batches, then independently reviewed in a targeted second pass; only documented failures were changed.",
"mass_rewrite_exception": "Approved rebuild: the source contained 250 questions, including 150 written prompts, and repeated listening, timing, check-in, texting, and clarity questions that conflicted with the current 150-question and 0-5 written-question standard.",
"related_pack_boundary": "Owns how couples exchange information: everyday talking, listening, asking, explaining, tone, timing, texting, clarification, and communication habits. Emotional_intimacy owns feeling known and emotionally close; conflict owns disagreement dynamics; conflict_repair owns reconnecting after conflict; boundaries owns limits and privacy; trust owns confidence after breaches.",
"source_question_count": 250,
"source_written_count": 150,
"final_validation": "pass",
"second_pass_changed_questions": 16,
"second_pass_focus": "Corrected awkward check-in wording, point-of-view and option-fit issues, obvious-answer mechanics, negative framing, therapy-coded language, texting drift, conflict overlap, and unnatural closing questions; then re-ran all schema and duplication checks."
}
},
"questions": [
{
"id": "communication_001",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When does talking with me feel easiest?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_talking",
"timing",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "during_a_drive",
"text": "During a drive"
},
{
"id": "while_we_make_food",
"text": "While we make food"
},
{
"id": "late_at_night",
"text": "Late at night"
},
{
"id": "when_nothing_else_is_competing",
"text": "When nothing else is competing"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_002",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes an everyday conversation feel good to you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_talking",
"ease",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_are_not_rushing",
"text": "We are not rushing"
},
{
"id": "we_both_get_to_talk",
"text": "We both get to talk"
},
{
"id": "there_is_room_for_jokes",
"text": "There is room for jokes"
},
{
"id": "we_actually_look_at_each_other",
"text": "We actually look at each other"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_003",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which check-ins feel natural instead of forced?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"check_ins",
"daily_talking",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "how_are_you_doing_really",
"text": "How are you doing, really?"
},
{
"id": "anything_you_need_from_me",
"text": "Anything you need from me?"
},
{
"id": "what_was_the_best_part",
"text": "What was the best part?"
},
{
"id": "want_to_talk_or_just_relax",
"text": "Want to talk or just relax?"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_004",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it for us to start talking lately?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_talking",
"ease",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "It takes some effort",
"max_label": "It happens naturally"
}
},
{
"id": "communication_005",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Quick check-in or long catch-up?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"check_ins",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "quick_check_in",
"text": "Quick check-in"
},
{
"id": "long_catch_up",
"text": "Long catch-up"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_006",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What gets you talking after a long day?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_talking",
"after_work",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_little_quiet_first",
"text": "A little quiet first"
},
{
"id": "a_snack_and_a_seat",
"text": "A snack and a seat"
},
{
"id": "a_specific_question",
"text": "A specific question"
},
{
"id": "something_funny_to_break_the_ice",
"text": "Something funny to break the ice"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_007",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which opener sounds most like us?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_talking",
"couple_voice",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "tell_me_everything",
"text": "Tell me everything"
},
{
"id": "give_me_the_headline",
"text": "Give me the headline"
},
{
"id": "what_happened_today",
"text": "What happened today?"
},
{
"id": "okay_what_is_the_real_story",
"text": "Okay, what is the real story?"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_008",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should I ask when you seem quiet?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"check_ins",
"quiet",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "are_you_tired",
"text": "Are you tired?"
},
{
"id": "do_you_want_company",
"text": "Do you want company?"
},
{
"id": "is_something_on_your_mind",
"text": "Is something on your mind?"
},
{
"id": "should_i_check_back_later",
"text": "Should I check back later?"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_009",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which little conversations help you feel connected?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_talking",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sharing_something_funny",
"text": "Sharing something funny"
},
{
"id": "talking_through_tomorrow",
"text": "Talking through tomorrow"
},
{
"id": "telling_each_other_small_news",
"text": "Telling each other small news"
},
{
"id": "comparing_random_opinions",
"text": "Comparing random opinions"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_010",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Quick talk or deep dive?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_talking",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "quick_talk",
"text": "Quick talk"
},
{
"id": "deep_dive",
"text": "Deep dive"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_011",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes you want to keep a conversation going?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_talking",
"engagement",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "you_ask_a_good_follow_up",
"text": "You ask a good follow-up"
},
{
"id": "you_share_something_back",
"text": "You share something back"
},
{
"id": "you_seem_genuinely_interested",
"text": "You seem genuinely interested"
},
{
"id": "the_conversation_takes_a_funny_turn",
"text": "The conversation takes a funny turn"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_012",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of daily update do you prefer?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_talking",
"preferences",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_full_play_by_play",
"text": "The full play-by-play"
},
{
"id": "just_the_important_parts",
"text": "Just the important parts"
},
{
"id": "mostly_the_funny_parts",
"text": "Mostly the funny parts"
},
{
"id": "whatever_is_still_on_your_mind",
"text": "Whatever is still on your mind"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_013",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which topics are easiest for us to talk about?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_talking",
"topics",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "things_we_are_planning",
"text": "Things we are planning"
},
{
"id": "people_and_stories",
"text": "People and stories"
},
{
"id": "ideas_and_opinions",
"text": "Ideas and opinions"
},
{
"id": "what_happened_during_the_day",
"text": "What happened during the day"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_014",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a check-in feel caring to you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"check_ins",
"care",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "you_remember_to_ask",
"text": "You remember to ask"
},
{
"id": "you_listen_to_the_answer",
"text": "You listen to the answer"
},
{
"id": "you_do_not_make_it_dramatic",
"text": "You do not make it dramatic"
},
{
"id": "you_follow_up_later",
"text": "You follow up later"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_015",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Morning check-in or bedtime check-in?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"check_ins",
"timing",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "morning_check_in",
"text": "Morning check-in"
},
{
"id": "bedtime_check_in",
"text": "Bedtime check-in"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_016",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When we have ten minutes, what should we talk about?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"check_ins",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "how_we_are_doing",
"text": "How we are doing"
},
{
"id": "what_happened_today",
"text": "What happened today"
},
{
"id": "what_we_need_tomorrow",
"text": "What we need tomorrow"
},
{
"id": "something_fun_and_completely_unnecessary",
"text": "Something fun and completely unnecessary"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_017",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps conversation feel like a break, not another task?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_talking",
"ease",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_pressure_to_solve_anything",
"text": "No pressure to solve anything"
},
{
"id": "a_relaxed_place_to_sit",
"text": "A relaxed place to sit"
},
{
"id": "a_little_humor",
"text": "A little humor"
},
{
"id": "knowing_we_can_keep_it_short",
"text": "Knowing we can keep it short"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_018",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How understood do you feel in our everyday conversations?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_talking",
"understanding",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very understood",
"max_label": "Very understood"
}
},
{
"id": "communication_019",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which habits make us better talkers as a couple?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_talking",
"habits",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "putting_phones_down_sometimes",
"text": "Putting phones down sometimes"
},
{
"id": "asking_instead_of_assuming",
"text": "Asking instead of assuming"
},
{
"id": "letting_each_other_finish",
"text": "Letting each other finish"
},
{
"id": "circling_back_when_life_interrupts",
"text": "Circling back when life interrupts"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_020",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What kind of question usually gets your real answer?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"questions",
"daily_talking",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_direct_question",
"text": "A direct question"
},
{
"id": "a_gentle_question",
"text": "A gentle question"
},
{
"id": "a_funny_question",
"text": "A funny question"
},
{
"id": "a_question_with_a_little_context",
"text": "A question with a little context"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_021",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one question you wish I asked more often?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"questions",
"written",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "communication_022",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which daily details do you like sharing with me?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"daily_talking",
"sharing",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_thing_that_annoyed_you",
"text": "The thing that annoyed you"
},
{
"id": "the_thing_that_made_you_laugh",
"text": "The thing that made you laugh"
},
{
"id": "the_thing_you_are_thinking_through",
"text": "The thing you are thinking through"
},
{
"id": "the_thing_you_are_looking_forward_to",
"text": "The thing you are looking forward to"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_023",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What makes a conversation feel most like us?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"couple_voice",
"daily_talking",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_lose_track_of_time",
"text": "We lose track of time"
},
{
"id": "we_laugh_halfway_through",
"text": "We laugh halfway through"
},
{
"id": "we_jump_between_five_topics",
"text": "We jump between five topics"
},
{
"id": "we_say_what_we_actually_mean",
"text": "We say what we actually mean"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_024",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us talk when life is busy?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"busy_life",
"daily_talking",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_five_minute_check_in",
"text": "A five-minute check-in"
},
{
"id": "a_message_during_the_day",
"text": "A message during the day"
},
{
"id": "a_planned_catch_up",
"text": "A planned catch-up"
},
{
"id": "talking_while_we_do_something_else",
"text": "Talking while we do something else"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_025",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which tiny signals mean “I want to talk”?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"conversation_openers",
"daily_talking",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "come_sit_with_me",
"text": "Come sit with me"
},
{
"id": "can_i_tell_you_something",
"text": "Can I tell you something?"
},
{
"id": "you_have_a_minute",
"text": "You have a minute?"
},
{
"id": "i_have_a_story_for_you",
"text": "I have a story for you"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_026",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What tells you I am really listening?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"feeling_heard",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_remember_details_later",
"text": "I remember details later"
},
{
"id": "i_ask_a_good_follow_up",
"text": "I ask a good follow-up"
},
{
"id": "i_do_not_interrupt",
"text": "I do not interrupt"
},
{
"id": "i_respond_to_the_part_that_mattered",
"text": "I respond to the part that mattered"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_027",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which listening habits matter most to you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"habits",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "letting_you_finish",
"text": "Letting you finish"
},
{
"id": "looking_up_from_my_phone",
"text": "Looking up from my phone"
},
{
"id": "not_rushing_to_fix_it",
"text": "Not rushing to fix it"
},
{
"id": "checking_that_i_understood",
"text": "Checking that I understood"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_028",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes it easier to finish your thought?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"patience",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_little_patience",
"text": "A little patience"
},
{
"id": "no_guessing_where_you_are_going",
"text": "No guessing where you are going"
},
{
"id": "a_calm_reaction",
"text": "A calm reaction"
},
{
"id": "enough_time_to_find_the_words",
"text": "Enough time to find the words"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_029",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often do you feel fully heard by me?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"feeling_heard",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not often",
"max_label": "Very often"
}
},
{
"id": "communication_030",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Questions first or quiet listening first?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"preferences",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "questions_first",
"text": "Questions first"
},
{
"id": "quiet_listening_first",
"text": "Quiet listening first"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_031",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should I do when your story has many turns?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"stories",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "let_you_tell_it_your_way",
"text": "Let you tell it your way"
},
{
"id": "ask_who_everyone_is",
"text": "Ask who everyone is"
},
{
"id": "laugh_at_the_right_parts",
"text": "Laugh at the right parts"
},
{
"id": "wait_for_the_ending_before_reacting",
"text": "Wait for the ending before reacting"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_032",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which response makes you feel most heard?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"responses",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "that_makes_sense",
"text": "That makes sense"
},
{
"id": "tell_me_more",
"text": "Tell me more"
},
{
"id": "i_can_see_why",
"text": "I can see why"
},
{
"id": "do_you_want_my_take",
"text": "Do you want my take?"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_033",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you know I understood your point?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"clarity",
"communication"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "i_say_it_back_clearly",
"text": "I say it back clearly"
},
{
"id": "i_respond_to_what_mattered",
"text": "I respond to what mattered"
},
{
"id": "i_ask_before_giving_advice",
"text": "I ask before giving advice"
},
{
"id": "my_next_action_matches_the_conversation",
"text": "My next action matches the conversation"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_034",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things make listening harder for you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"barriers",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "being_tired",
"text": "Being tired"
},
{
"id": "feeling_rushed",
"text": "Feeling rushed"
},
{
"id": "trying_to_do_two_things",
"text": "Trying to do two things"
},
{
"id": "thinking_of_your_reply_too_soon",
"text": "Thinking of your reply too soon"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_035",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Say it now or bring it up later?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"preferences",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "say_it_now",
"text": "Say it now"
},
{
"id": "bring_it_up_later",
"text": "Bring it up later"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_036",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you stay present when I am talking?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"presence",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "knowing_what_i_need_from_you",
"text": "Knowing what I need from you"
},
{
"id": "a_clear_point_to_follow",
"text": "A clear point to follow"
},
{
"id": "a_calm_pace",
"text": "A calm pace"
},
{
"id": "being_able_to_ask_questions",
"text": "Being able to ask questions"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_037",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When I am venting, what should you assume first?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"support_preferences",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_want_to_be_heard",
"text": "I want to be heard"
},
{
"id": "i_want_ideas",
"text": "I want ideas"
},
{
"id": "i_want_reassurance",
"text": "I want reassurance"
},
{
"id": "you_should_ask_me",
"text": "You should ask me"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_038",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which follow-up questions feel caring, not nosy?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"questions",
"listening",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "what_part_matters_most",
"text": "What part matters most?"
},
{
"id": "what_happened_after_that",
"text": "What happened after that?"
},
{
"id": "do_you_want_to_talk_more",
"text": "Do you want to talk more?"
},
{
"id": "is_there_anything_i_can_do",
"text": "Is there anything I can do?"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_039",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes advice easier to hear?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"advice",
"listening",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "you_ask_before_giving_it",
"text": "You ask before giving it"
},
{
"id": "you_keep_it_practical",
"text": "You keep it practical"
},
{
"id": "you_offer_choices",
"text": "You offer choices"
},
{
"id": "you_leave_room_for_me_to_decide",
"text": "You leave room for me to decide"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_040",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs tell you I have stopped listening?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"awareness",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_repeat_a_question_you_answered",
"text": "I repeat a question you answered"
},
{
"id": "i_jump_in_too_fast",
"text": "I jump in too fast"
},
{
"id": "i_change_the_subject",
"text": "I change the subject"
},
{
"id": "i_start_solving_the_wrong_problem",
"text": "I start solving the wrong problem"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_041",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is your preferred “I am listening” signal?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"signals",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "eye_contact",
"text": "Eye contact"
},
{
"id": "a_quick_touch",
"text": "A quick touch"
},
{
"id": "a_small_verbal_response",
"text": "A small verbal response"
},
{
"id": "no_signal_just_attention",
"text": "No signal, just attention"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_042",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you listen when you are tired?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"tired",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "keeping_it_short",
"text": "Keeping it short"
},
{
"id": "sitting_down_together",
"text": "Sitting down together"
},
{
"id": "knowing_whether_it_is_urgent",
"text": "Knowing whether it is urgent"
},
{
"id": "taking_a_few_minutes_first",
"text": "Taking a few minutes first"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_043",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we notice when the other needs listening?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"attunement",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "We often miss it",
"max_label": "We usually notice"
}
},
{
"id": "communication_044",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which stories do you especially want me to remember?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"stories",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "things_from_your_childhood",
"text": "Things from your childhood"
},
{
"id": "people_who_shaped_you",
"text": "People who shaped you"
},
{
"id": "moments_you_were_proud_of",
"text": "Moments you were proud of"
},
{
"id": "stories_you_do_not_tell_everyone",
"text": "Stories you do not tell everyone"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_045",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a serious answer feel safe to give?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "free",
"tags": [
"listening",
"safety",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "you_do_not_rush_me",
"text": "You do not rush me"
},
{
"id": "you_stay_curious",
"text": "You stay curious"
},
{
"id": "you_do_not_turn_it_into_a_debate",
"text": "You do not turn it into a debate"
},
{
"id": "you_keep_the_moment_private",
"text": "You keep the moment private"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_046",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "Tell me about a time you felt completely heard by me.",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"listening",
"memory",
"written",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "communication_047",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What kind of listener do you need after bad news?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"listening",
"bad_news",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "quiet_and_steady",
"text": "Quiet and steady"
},
{
"id": "warm_and_reassuring",
"text": "Warm and reassuring"
},
{
"id": "practical_and_helpful",
"text": "Practical and helpful"
},
{
"id": "ready_to_distract_me_later",
"text": "Ready to distract me later"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_048",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should I do if I lose the thread?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"listening",
"clarity",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_you_to_back_up",
"text": "Ask you to back up"
},
{
"id": "tell_you_where_i_got_lost",
"text": "Tell you where I got lost"
},
{
"id": "let_you_finish_first",
"text": "Let you finish first"
},
{
"id": "make_my_best_guess",
"text": "Make my best guess"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_049",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which reactions make you want to share more?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"listening",
"engagement",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_real_laugh",
"text": "A real laugh"
},
{
"id": "a_thoughtful_pause",
"text": "A thoughtful pause"
},
{
"id": "a_curious_question",
"text": "A curious question"
},
{
"id": "a_response_that_shows_you_remembered",
"text": "A response that shows you remembered"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_050",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes listening feel mutual between us?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"listening",
"mutuality",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_both_get_a_turn",
"text": "We both get a turn"
},
{
"id": "we_ask_about_each_other",
"text": "We ask about each other"
},
{
"id": "we_share_without_competing",
"text": "We share without competing"
},
{
"id": "we_remember_what_mattered",
"text": "We remember what mattered"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_051",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "How do you prefer to ask for something important?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"asking",
"needs",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "say_it_directly",
"text": "Say it directly"
},
{
"id": "give_some_context_first",
"text": "Give some context first"
},
{
"id": "write_it_out",
"text": "Write it out"
},
{
"id": "bring_it_up_during_a_calm_moment",
"text": "Bring it up during a calm moment"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_052",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you say what you need clearly?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"asking",
"needs",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "knowing_you_will_not_judge_it",
"text": "Knowing you will not judge it"
},
{
"id": "having_time_to_think",
"text": "Having time to think"
},
{
"id": "using_simple_words",
"text": "Using simple words"
},
{
"id": "knowing_you_can_hear_it_without_agreeing",
"text": "Knowing you can hear it without agreeing"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_053",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which requests are easiest for you to make?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"asking",
"requests",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "help_with_something_practical",
"text": "Help with something practical"
},
{
"id": "a_little_reassurance",
"text": "A little reassurance"
},
{
"id": "more_time_together",
"text": "More time together"
},
{
"id": "a_change_in_plans",
"text": "A change in plans"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_054",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How comfortable are you asking me for what you need?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"asking",
"needs",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Still a little hard",
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
}
},
{
"id": "communication_055",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Direct request or gentle hint?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"asking",
"preferences",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "direct_request",
"text": "Direct request"
},
{
"id": "gentle_hint",
"text": "Gentle hint"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_056",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a request feel respectful to you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"asking",
"respect",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_is_clear",
"text": "It is clear"
},
{
"id": "it_leaves_room_for_an_answer",
"text": "It leaves room for an answer"
},
{
"id": "it_explains_why_it_matters",
"text": "It explains why it matters"
},
{
"id": "it_is_not_buried_in_criticism",
"text": "It is not buried in criticism"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_057",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which phrase makes asking feel easiest?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"asking",
"phrases",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "could_you_help_me_with_this",
"text": "Could you help me with this?"
},
{
"id": "can_i_tell_you_what_i_need",
"text": "Can I tell you what I need?"
},
{
"id": "would_you_be_open_to_something",
"text": "Would you be open to something?"
},
{
"id": "i_have_a_small_request",
"text": "I have a small request"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_058",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you explain something complicated?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"explaining",
"clarity",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "starting_with_the_short_version",
"text": "Starting with the short version"
},
{
"id": "using_an_example",
"text": "Using an example"
},
{
"id": "saying_what_part_matters_most",
"text": "Saying what part matters most"
},
{
"id": "letting_you_ask_questions",
"text": "Letting you ask questions"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_059",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which needs are hardest to put into words?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"asking",
"needs",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "needing_space",
"text": "Needing space"
},
{
"id": "needing_reassurance",
"text": "Needing reassurance"
},
{
"id": "needing_more_help",
"text": "Needing more help"
},
{
"id": "needing_a_different_approach",
"text": "Needing a different approach"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_060",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Ask directly or hope they notice?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"asking",
"assumptions",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_directly",
"text": "Ask directly"
},
{
"id": "hope_they_notice",
"text": "Hope they notice"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_061",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a “no” still feel caring?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"asking",
"responses",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_kind_tone",
"text": "A kind tone"
},
{
"id": "a_short_reason",
"text": "A short reason"
},
{
"id": "another_option",
"text": "Another option"
},
{
"id": "reassurance_that_the_request_was_okay",
"text": "Reassurance that the request was okay"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_062",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When you need help, what should I ask first?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"asking",
"support",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "what_would_help_most",
"text": "What would help most?"
},
{
"id": "how_soon_do_you_need_it",
"text": "How soon do you need it?"
},
{
"id": "do_you_want_help_or_company",
"text": "Do you want help or company?"
},
{
"id": "what_part_feels_hardest",
"text": "What part feels hardest?"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_063",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which phrases make a request easier to receive?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"asking",
"phrases",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "would_you_be_willing_to",
"text": "Would you be willing to…"
},
{
"id": "could_we_try",
"text": "Could we try…"
},
{
"id": "it_would_help_me_if",
"text": "It would help me if…"
},
{
"id": "can_we_find_a_way_to",
"text": "Can we find a way to…"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_064",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes an explanation feel complete to you?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"explaining",
"clarity",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_main_point_is_clear",
"text": "The main point is clear"
},
{
"id": "you_know_why_it_matters",
"text": "You know why it matters"
},
{
"id": "there_is_a_real_example",
"text": "There is a real example"
},
{
"id": "you_know_what_i_am_asking_for",
"text": "You know what I am asking for"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_065",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which habits help us avoid guessing games?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"assumptions",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "saying_what_we_mean",
"text": "Saying what we mean"
},
{
"id": "checking_our_assumptions",
"text": "Checking our assumptions"
},
{
"id": "asking_one_more_question",
"text": "Asking one more question"
},
{
"id": "admitting_when_we_are_unsure",
"text": "Admitting when we are unsure"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_066",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the best way to clarify a vague request?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"requests",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_for_an_example",
"text": "Ask for an example"
},
{
"id": "ask_what_success_looks_like",
"text": "Ask what success looks like"
},
{
"id": "offer_two_possible_meanings",
"text": "Offer two possible meanings"
},
{
"id": "repeat_what_you_heard",
"text": "Repeat what you heard"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_067",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes it easier to admit “I do not know”?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"uncertainty",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_pressure_for_a_quick_answer",
"text": "No pressure for a quick answer"
},
{
"id": "room_to_think_out_loud",
"text": "Room to think out loud"
},
{
"id": "knowing_uncertainty_is_okay",
"text": "Knowing uncertainty is okay"
},
{
"id": "a_question_that_narrows_it_down",
"text": "A question that narrows it down"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_068",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How clear are we about what we want from conversations?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"conversation_goals",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Often unclear",
"max_label": "Usually very clear"
}
},
{
"id": "communication_069",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which conversation goals should we name more often?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conversation_goals",
"clarity",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_want_you_to_listen",
"text": "I want you to listen"
},
{
"id": "i_want_your_opinion",
"text": "I want your opinion"
},
{
"id": "i_need_help_deciding",
"text": "I need help deciding"
},
{
"id": "i_just_want_to_share_this",
"text": "I just want to share this"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_070",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you correct me without feeling rude?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"correction",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_quick_simple_correction",
"text": "A quick simple correction"
},
{
"id": "a_little_humor",
"text": "A little humor"
},
{
"id": "explaining_what_i_missed",
"text": "Explaining what I missed"
},
{
"id": "knowing_i_will_not_take_it_personally",
"text": "Knowing I will not take it personally"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_071",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which details help you understand a request faster?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"requests",
"clarity",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "why_it_matters",
"text": "Why it matters"
},
{
"id": "when_it_needs_to_happen",
"text": "When it needs to happen"
},
{
"id": "what_part_is_flexible",
"text": "What part is flexible"
},
{
"id": "what_you_want_me_to_handle",
"text": "What you want me to handle"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_072",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should we say when a hint is not landing?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"asking",
"humor",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "let_me_say_that_more_directly",
"text": "Let me say that more directly"
},
{
"id": "i_am_actually_asking_for_something",
"text": "I am actually asking for something"
},
{
"id": "can_i_try_that_again",
"text": "Can I try that again?"
},
{
"id": "okay_here_is_the_plain_version",
"text": "Okay, here is the plain version"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_073",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes it easier to share an unpopular opinion?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"opinions",
"clarity",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "knowing_disagreement_is_allowed",
"text": "Knowing disagreement is allowed"
},
{
"id": "a_calm_opening",
"text": "A calm opening"
},
{
"id": "no_teasing_while_i_explain",
"text": "No teasing while I explain"
},
{
"id": "a_real_chance_to_finish",
"text": "A real chance to finish"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_074",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which kinds of examples help you understand me?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"explaining",
"examples",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_recent_situation",
"text": "A recent situation"
},
{
"id": "a_made_up_example",
"text": "A made-up example"
},
{
"id": "a_comparison",
"text": "A comparison"
},
{
"id": "a_specific_version_of_what_i_mean",
"text": "A specific version of what I mean"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_075",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us turn complaints into clear requests?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"requests",
"clarity",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "naming_what_would_help",
"text": "Naming what would help"
},
{
"id": "keeping_it_about_one_issue",
"text": "Keeping it about one issue"
},
{
"id": "dropping_the_exaggeration",
"text": "Dropping the exaggeration"
},
{
"id": "making_the_request_doable",
"text": "Making the request doable"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_076",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which tone helps you stay most open?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tone",
"openness",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "calm_and_direct",
"text": "Calm and direct"
},
{
"id": "warm_and_gentle",
"text": "Warm and gentle"
},
{
"id": "light_with_a_little_humor",
"text": "Light with a little humor"
},
{
"id": "matter_of_fact",
"text": "Matter-of-fact"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_077",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What affects how you hear my words?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tone",
"context",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "my_tone",
"text": "My tone"
},
{
"id": "my_timing",
"text": "My timing"
},
{
"id": "my_facial_expression",
"text": "My facial expression"
},
{
"id": "what_happened_right_before",
"text": "What happened right before"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_078",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which conversation times usually work best for you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"timing",
"context",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "before_the_day_gets_busy",
"text": "Before the day gets busy"
},
{
"id": "after_we_have_eaten",
"text": "After we have eaten"
},
{
"id": "during_a_drive",
"text": "During a drive"
},
{
"id": "once_the_house_is_quiet",
"text": "Once the house is quiet"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_079",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we choose the right moment to talk?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"timing",
"awareness",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "We often miss it",
"max_label": "We usually get it right"
}
},
{
"id": "communication_080",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Talk now or schedule a better moment?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"timing",
"preferences",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "talk_now",
"text": "Talk now"
},
{
"id": "schedule_a_better_moment",
"text": "Schedule a better moment"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_081",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes “not right now” feel respectful?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"timing",
"respect",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_clear_reason",
"text": "A clear reason"
},
{
"id": "a_better_time_offered",
"text": "A better time offered"
},
{
"id": "a_warm_tone",
"text": "A warm tone"
},
{
"id": "reassurance_the_topic_matters",
"text": "Reassurance the topic matters"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_082",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which setting makes a hard topic easier?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"context",
"hard_topics",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sitting_side_by_side",
"text": "Sitting side by side"
},
{
"id": "taking_a_walk",
"text": "Taking a walk"
},
{
"id": "talking_in_the_car",
"text": "Talking in the car"
},
{
"id": "talking_at_home_with_no_distractions",
"text": "Talking at home with no distractions"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_083",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes direct feedback easier to hear?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tone",
"directness",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_calm_voice",
"text": "A calm voice"
},
{
"id": "no_loaded_language",
"text": "No loaded language"
},
{
"id": "one_clear_point",
"text": "One clear point"
},
{
"id": "a_reminder_that_we_are_on_the_same_side",
"text": "A reminder that we are on the same side"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_084",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which tones make you stop hearing the message?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tone",
"barriers",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sarcasm",
"text": "Sarcasm"
},
{
"id": "a_sharp_edge",
"text": "A sharp edge"
},
{
"id": "talking_down_to_you",
"text": "Talking down to you"
},
{
"id": "fake_calm_that_feels_cold",
"text": "Fake calm that feels cold"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_085",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it for us to reset our tone?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tone",
"awareness",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Still difficult",
"max_label": "Usually easy"
}
},
{
"id": "communication_086",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should we check before starting a serious talk?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"timing",
"hard_topics",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "do_we_have_time",
"text": "Do we have time?"
},
{
"id": "are_we_both_able_to_focus",
"text": "Are we both able to focus?"
},
{
"id": "is_this_private",
"text": "Is this private?"
},
{
"id": "does_it_need_to_happen_now",
"text": "Does it need to happen now?"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_087",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which opener makes an important talk feel least dramatic?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conversation_openers",
"tone",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_need_a_real_conversation",
"text": "I need a real conversation"
},
{
"id": "can_we_talk_about_something_important",
"text": "Can we talk about something important?"
},
{
"id": "i_have_something_on_my_mind",
"text": "I have something on my mind"
},
{
"id": "this_is_not_bad_but_it_matters",
"text": "This is not bad, but it matters"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_088",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes humor helpful during a conversation?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"humor",
"tone",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_lowers_the_tension",
"text": "It lowers the tension"
},
{
"id": "it_feels_like_us",
"text": "It feels like us"
},
{
"id": "it_is_not_aimed_at_either_person",
"text": "It is not aimed at either person"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_dodge_the_point",
"text": "It does not dodge the point"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_089",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When is it usually a bad time to talk?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"timing",
"awareness",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "right_before_sleep",
"text": "Right before sleep"
},
{
"id": "while_someone_is_rushing_out",
"text": "While someone is rushing out"
},
{
"id": "in_front_of_other_people",
"text": "In front of other people"
},
{
"id": "when_one_of_us_is_already_overloaded",
"text": "When one of us is already overloaded"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_090",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a conversation feel private enough?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"context",
"privacy",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_one_else_can_hear",
"text": "No one else can hear"
},
{
"id": "phones_are_not_pulling_attention",
"text": "Phones are not pulling attention"
},
{
"id": "we_know_we_will_not_be_interrupted",
"text": "We know we will not be interrupted"
},
{
"id": "we_can_speak_without_watching_the_clock",
"text": "We can speak without watching the clock"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_091",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What usually softens your tone fastest?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tone",
"awareness",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_slower_pace",
"text": "A slower pace"
},
{
"id": "a_little_reassurance",
"text": "A little reassurance"
},
{
"id": "a_sincere_question",
"text": "A sincere question"
},
{
"id": "realizing_we_misunderstood_each_other",
"text": "Realizing we misunderstood each other"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_092",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which openings make you brace for bad news?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"conversation_openers",
"tone",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_need_to_talk",
"text": "We need to talk"
},
{
"id": "do_not_get_mad_but",
"text": "Do not get mad, but…"
},
{
"id": "you_always_do_this",
"text": "You always do this"
},
{
"id": "i_should_not_have_to_say_this",
"text": "I should not have to say this"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_093",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often does our tone match what we actually mean?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tone",
"clarity",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not often enough",
"max_label": "Almost always"
}
},
{
"id": "communication_094",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you tell whether I am joking?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"humor",
"clarity",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "my_face_gives_it_away",
"text": "My face gives it away"
},
{
"id": "the_situation_makes_it_obvious",
"text": "The situation makes it obvious"
},
{
"id": "i_say_i_am_kidding",
"text": "I say I am kidding"
},
{
"id": "you_know_my_usual_humor",
"text": "You know my usual humor"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_095",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which context should I give before a request?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"context",
"requests",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "why_i_am_asking",
"text": "Why I am asking"
},
{
"id": "how_urgent_it_is",
"text": "How urgent it is"
},
{
"id": "what_i_have_already_tried",
"text": "What I have already tried"
},
{
"id": "what_part_i_need_from_you",
"text": "What part I need from you"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_096",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "What phrase helps you know a serious talk is still safe?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tone",
"hard_topics",
"written",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "communication_097",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps a direct conversation from feeling cold?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"tone",
"directness",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_warm_opening",
"text": "A warm opening"
},
{
"id": "a_normal_voice",
"text": "A normal voice"
},
{
"id": "a_little_appreciation",
"text": "A little appreciation"
},
{
"id": "time_to_respond",
"text": "Time to respond"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_098",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which pace helps you think while talking?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"pace",
"preferences",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "fast_and_lively",
"text": "Fast and lively"
},
{
"id": "steady_and_focused",
"text": "Steady and focused"
},
{
"id": "slow_with_pauses",
"text": "Slow with pauses"
},
{
"id": "a_mix_depending_on_the_topic",
"text": "A mix depending on the topic"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_099",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps when one of us needs more time to answer?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"pace",
"processing_time",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_filling_the_silence",
"text": "No filling the silence"
},
{
"id": "a_smaller_question",
"text": "A smaller question"
},
{
"id": "permission_to_come_back_later",
"text": "Permission to come back later"
},
{
"id": "knowing_a_pause_is_not_avoidance",
"text": "Knowing a pause is not avoidance"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_100",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs mean the timing is actually good?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"timing",
"awareness",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_are_both_present",
"text": "We are both present"
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{
"id": "no_one_is_rushing",
"text": "No one is rushing"
},
{
"id": "the_topic_fits_the_moment",
"text": "The topic fits the moment"
},
{
"id": "we_have_enough_energy_to_answer_honestly",
"text": "We have enough energy to answer honestly"
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],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What kind of text from me makes your day better?",
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"texting",
"digital",
"communication"
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"id": "something_funny",
"text": "Something funny"
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"id": "a_sweet_check_in",
"text": "A sweet check-in"
},
{
"id": "a_quick_update",
"text": "A quick update"
},
{
"id": "a_message_that_says_i_was_thinking_of_you",
"text": "A message that says I was thinking of you"
}
]
}
},
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"id": "communication_102",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes texting feel clear between us?",
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"tags": [
"texting",
"clarity",
"communication"
],
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"options": [
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"id": "enough_context",
"text": "Enough context"
},
{
"id": "a_direct_question",
"text": "A direct question"
},
{
"id": "no_guessing_at_tone",
"text": "No guessing at tone"
},
{
"id": "following_up_if_something_sounds_off",
"text": "Following up if something sounds off"
}
],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_103",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things are better said in person?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"channel_choice",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "anything_easy_to_misread",
"text": "Anything easy to misread"
},
{
"id": "big_decisions",
"text": "Big decisions"
},
{
"id": "sensitive_feedback",
"text": "Sensitive feedback"
},
{
"id": "long_explanations",
"text": "Long explanations"
}
],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_104",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do we understand each other over text?",
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"tags": [
"texting",
"clarity",
"communication"
],
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"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "We misread a lot",
"max_label": "We usually get it"
}
},
{
"id": "communication_105",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Voice note or long text?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"digital",
"preferences",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "voice_note",
"text": "Voice note"
},
{
"id": "long_text",
"text": "Long text"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_106",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which messages deserve more than a one-word reply?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"responses",
"communication"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "something_vulnerable",
"text": "Something vulnerable"
},
{
"id": "an_important_question",
"text": "An important question"
},
{
"id": "a_plan_that_needs_an_answer",
"text": "A plan that needs an answer"
},
{
"id": "a_story_you_clearly_care_about",
"text": "A story you clearly care about"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_107",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should “K” mean in our relationship?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"humor",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "okay_got_it",
"text": "Okay, got it"
},
{
"id": "i_am_busy_not_mad",
"text": "I am busy, not mad"
},
{
"id": "this_conversation_is_over",
"text": "This conversation is over"
},
{
"id": "it_should_never_be_trusted",
"text": "It should never be trusted"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_108",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a text sound warm instead of blunt?",
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"tags": [
"texting",
"tone",
"communication"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "a_greeting",
"text": "A greeting"
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{
"id": "a_little_context",
"text": "A little context"
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{
"id": "one_extra_sentence",
"text": "One extra sentence"
},
{
"id": "an_emoji_that_actually_fits",
"text": "An emoji that actually fits"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_109",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which texting habits cause the most confusion?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"clarity",
"communication"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "answering_only_one_question",
"text": "Answering only one question"
},
{
"id": "changing_the_subject_mid_thread",
"text": "Changing the subject mid-thread"
},
{
"id": "leaving_out_key_context",
"text": "Leaving out key context"
},
{
"id": "assuming_silence_means_something",
"text": "Assuming silence means something"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_110",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it to tell when a text needs a call?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"channel_choice",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "We often guess wrong",
"max_label": "We usually know"
}
},
{
"id": "communication_111",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a daytime check-in feel good?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"check_ins",
"communication"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "it_is_low_pressure",
"text": "It is low pressure"
},
{
"id": "it_shows_you_remembered_me",
"text": "It shows you remembered me"
},
{
"id": "it_gives_me_something_to_smile_about",
"text": "It gives me something to smile about"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_demand_an_immediate_answer",
"text": "It does not demand an immediate answer"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_112",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which reply delay needs the least explanation?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"expectations",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "while_working",
"text": "While working"
},
{
"id": "while_driving",
"text": "While driving"
},
{
"id": "while_with_family",
"text": "While with family"
},
{
"id": "any_delay_when_we_already_know_the_reason",
"text": "Any delay when we already know the reason"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_113",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should we do when a text sounds wrong?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"clarity",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_what_you_meant",
"text": "Ask what you meant"
},
{
"id": "assume_the_best_first",
"text": "Assume the best first"
},
{
"id": "call_if_it_matters",
"text": "Call if it matters"
},
{
"id": "wait_until_we_can_focus",
"text": "Wait until we can focus"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_114",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which digital habits help us stay connected?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"digital",
"habits",
"communication"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "sending_small_updates",
"text": "Sending small updates"
},
{
"id": "sharing_something_funny",
"text": "Sharing something funny"
},
{
"id": "letting_each_other_know_when_we_are_busy",
"text": "Letting each other know when we are busy"
},
{
"id": "actually_answering_important_questions",
"text": "Actually answering important questions"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_115",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a voice note better than a text?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"digital",
"voice_notes",
"communication"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "you_can_hear_the_tone",
"text": "You can hear the tone"
},
{
"id": "the_story_is_easier_to_tell",
"text": "The story is easier to tell"
},
{
"id": "it_feels_more_personal",
"text": "It feels more personal"
},
{
"id": "it_saves_a_wall_of_text",
"text": "It saves a wall of text"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_116",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the best use of our shared chat?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"digital",
"couple_voice",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "plans_and_reminders",
"text": "Plans and reminders"
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{
"id": "jokes_and_random_thoughts",
"text": "Jokes and random thoughts"
},
{
"id": "photos_and_little_updates",
"text": "Photos and little updates"
},
{
"id": "all_of_the_above_chaos",
"text": "All of the above chaos"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_117",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which messages make you feel remembered?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"thoughtfulness",
"communication"
],
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"options": [
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"id": "a_reference_to_an_earlier_conversation",
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{
"id": "a_picture_of_something_you_would_like",
"text": "A picture of something you would like"
},
{
"id": "a_good_luck_message",
"text": "A good-luck message"
},
{
"id": "a_follow_up_about_something_important",
"text": "A follow-up about something important"
}
],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_118",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How often do our texts match our real-life tone?",
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"tags": [
"texting",
"tone",
"communication"
],
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"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very often",
"max_label": "Almost always"
}
},
{
"id": "communication_119",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What information should a planning text include?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"planning",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_actual_time",
"text": "The actual time"
},
{
"id": "the_actual_place",
"text": "The actual place"
},
{
"id": "what_still_needs_deciding",
"text": "What still needs deciding"
},
{
"id": "whether_you_need_an_answer_soon",
"text": "Whether you need an answer soon"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_120",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which texts should wait until we can really talk?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"channel_choice",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_major_decision",
"text": "A major decision"
},
{
"id": "sensitive_feedback",
"text": "Sensitive feedback"
},
{
"id": "a_long_explanation",
"text": "A long explanation"
},
{
"id": "anything_easy_to_misread",
"text": "Anything easy to misread"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_121",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one text from me you still remember?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"memory",
"written",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "communication_122",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which details belong in a follow-up text?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"follow_up",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_refers_to_what_we_discussed",
"text": "It refers to what we discussed"
},
{
"id": "it_checks_whether_anything_changed",
"text": "It checks whether anything changed"
},
{
"id": "it_answers_the_part_left_open",
"text": "It answers the part left open"
},
{
"id": "it_suggests_when_to_talk_again",
"text": "It suggests when to talk again"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_123",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which emoji causes the most unnecessary confusion?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"humor",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
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"id": "the_thumbs_up",
"text": "The thumbs-up"
},
{
"id": "the_plain_smile",
"text": "The plain smile"
},
{
"id": "the_eye_roll",
"text": "The eye-roll"
},
{
"id": "the_mysterious_single_heart",
"text": "The mysterious single heart"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_124",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should we clarify about texting expectations?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"texting",
"expectations",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "how_quickly_replies_matter",
"text": "How quickly replies matter"
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{
"id": "when_a_call_is_better",
"text": "When a call is better"
},
{
"id": "how_we_signal_being_busy",
"text": "How we signal being busy"
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{
"id": "which_topics_need_real_time",
"text": "Which topics need real time"
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],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_125",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which digital moments make conversation feel more personal?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"digital",
"connection",
"communication"
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"options": [
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"id": "a_thoughtful_voice_note",
"text": "A thoughtful voice note"
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{
"id": "a_photo_from_your_day",
"text": "A photo from your day"
},
{
"id": "a_late_night_message",
"text": "A late-night message"
},
{
"id": "a_link_chosen_just_for_me",
"text": "A link chosen just for me"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_126",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What usually causes our smallest misunderstandings?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"misunderstandings",
"clarity",
"communication"
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"options": [
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"id": "missing_context",
"text": "Missing context"
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{
"id": "different_assumptions",
"text": "Different assumptions"
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{
"id": "bad_timing",
"text": "Bad timing"
},
{
"id": "a_tone_that_lands_wrong",
"text": "A tone that lands wrong"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_127",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us catch a misunderstanding early?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"misunderstandings",
"clarity",
"communication"
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"options": [
{
"id": "asking_what_you_meant",
"text": "Asking what you meant"
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{
"id": "noticing_a_weird_reaction",
"text": "Noticing a weird reaction"
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{
"id": "repeating_the_main_point",
"text": "Repeating the main point"
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{
"id": "stopping_before_adding_assumptions",
"text": "Stopping before adding assumptions"
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],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_128",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which assumptions should we check more often?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"assumptions",
"clarity",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "what_the_other_person_meant",
"text": "What the other person meant"
},
{
"id": "whether_something_is_urgent",
"text": "Whether something is urgent"
},
{
"id": "whether_advice_is_wanted",
"text": "Whether advice is wanted"
},
{
"id": "whether_silence_means_anything",
"text": "Whether silence means anything"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_129",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How quickly do we usually clear up confusion?",
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"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"misunderstandings",
"clarity",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "It can linger",
"max_label": "We clear it up quickly"
}
},
{
"id": "communication_130",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Clarify now or sit with it first?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "clarify_now",
"text": "Clarify now"
},
{
"id": "sit_with_it_first",
"text": "Sit with it first"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_131",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a clarification question sound respectful?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"questions",
"communication"
],
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"options": [
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"id": "a_neutral_tone",
"text": "A neutral tone"
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{
"id": "no_hidden_accusation",
"text": "No hidden accusation"
},
{
"id": "a_specific_point",
"text": "A specific point"
},
{
"id": "real_curiosity",
"text": "Real curiosity"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_132",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which phrase stops assumptions fastest?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"phrases",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "what_did_you_mean_by_that",
"text": "What did you mean by that?"
},
{
"id": "i_may_be_reading_this_wrong",
"text": "I may be reading this wrong"
},
{
"id": "can_you_say_that_another_way",
"text": "Can you say that another way?"
},
{
"id": "let_me_check_what_i_heard",
"text": "Let me check what I heard"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_133",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps when we remember a conversation differently?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"misunderstandings",
"memory",
"communication"
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "focus_on_the_main_point",
"text": "Focus on the main point"
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{
"id": "admit_memory_can_be_imperfect",
"text": "Admit memory can be imperfect"
},
{
"id": "avoid_turning_it_into_a_courtroom",
"text": "Avoid turning it into a courtroom"
},
{
"id": "decide_what_matters_now",
"text": "Decide what matters now"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_134",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which conversation habits deserve a regular tune-up?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"habits",
"communication_growth",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "how_we_interrupt",
"text": "How we interrupt"
},
{
"id": "how_we_ask_for_attention",
"text": "How we ask for attention"
},
{
"id": "how_we_give_updates",
"text": "How we give updates"
},
{
"id": "how_we_end_unfinished_talks",
"text": "How we end unfinished talks"
}
],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_135",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How confident are you that we can clear up mixed signals?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"misunderstandings",
"confidence",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very confident",
"max_label": "Very confident"
}
},
{
"id": "communication_136",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps you admit you misunderstood me?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"misunderstandings",
"humility",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_teasing_about_it",
"text": "No teasing about it"
},
{
"id": "a_chance_to_correct_it_quickly",
"text": "A chance to correct it quickly"
},
{
"id": "knowing_i_will_not_pile_on",
"text": "Knowing I will not pile on"
},
{
"id": "remembering_it_happens_to_both_of_us",
"text": "Remembering it happens to both of us"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_137",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which restart sounds most natural after a misunderstanding?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"misunderstandings",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "let_me_say_that_differently",
"text": "Let me say that differently"
},
{
"id": "what_did_you_hear_me_say",
"text": "What did you hear me say?"
},
{
"id": "we_are_talking_past_each_other",
"text": "We are talking past each other"
},
{
"id": "can_we_back_up_a_minute",
"text": "Can we back up a minute?"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_138",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which unfinished conversations should we circle back to?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"follow_up",
"unfinished_talks",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_question_that_never_got_answered",
"text": "A question that never got answered"
},
{
"id": "a_decision_still_hanging",
"text": "A decision still hanging"
},
{
"id": "something_important_interrupted",
"text": "Something important interrupted"
},
{
"id": "a_topic_one_of_us_asked_to_pause",
"text": "A topic one of us asked to pause"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_139",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a follow-up feel thoughtful?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"follow_up",
"thoughtfulness",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "you_remember_without_prompting",
"text": "You remember without prompting"
},
{
"id": "you_ask_at_a_good_time",
"text": "You ask at a good time"
},
{
"id": "you_refer_to_the_real_detail",
"text": "You refer to the real detail"
},
{
"id": "you_listen_to_what_changed",
"text": "You listen to what changed"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_140",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which things are worth saying twice?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"repetition",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "something_important",
"text": "Something important"
},
{
"id": "a_clear_appreciation",
"text": "A clear appreciation"
},
{
"id": "a_request_that_got_lost",
"text": "A request that got lost"
},
{
"id": "a_reassurance_that_did_not_land",
"text": "A reassurance that did not land"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_141",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which communication habit would improve us fastest?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"habits",
"communication_growth",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "fewer_assumptions",
"text": "Fewer assumptions"
},
{
"id": "better_timing",
"text": "Better timing"
},
{
"id": "clearer_requests",
"text": "Clearer requests"
},
{
"id": "more_follow_up",
"text": "More follow-up"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_142",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us keep conversations from becoming monologues?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"mutuality",
"habits",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "asking_each_other_questions",
"text": "Asking each other questions"
},
{
"id": "pausing_for_a_response",
"text": "Pausing for a response"
},
{
"id": "not_repeating_the_same_point",
"text": "Not repeating the same point"
},
{
"id": "noticing_when_the_other_person_checks_out",
"text": "Noticing when the other person checks out"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_143",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How balanced does our communication feel lately?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"mutuality",
"communication_growth",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "A little one-sided",
"max_label": "Very balanced"
}
},
{
"id": "communication_144",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which small habits make communication warmer?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"habits",
"warmth",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "saying_hello_like_we_mean_it",
"text": "Saying hello like we mean it"
},
{
"id": "using_each_other_s_names_kindly",
"text": "Using each other’s names kindly"
},
{
"id": "adding_appreciation",
"text": "Adding appreciation"
},
{
"id": "ending_with_a_clear_next_step",
"text": "Ending with a clear next step"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_145",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us disagree about facts without getting personal?",
"depth": 4,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"clarity",
"opinions",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "check_the_information",
"text": "Check the information"
},
{
"id": "separate_facts_from_guesses",
"text": "Separate facts from guesses"
},
{
"id": "stay_on_the_one_point",
"text": "Stay on the one point"
},
{
"id": "make_it_okay_to_be_mistaken",
"text": "Make it okay to be mistaken"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_146",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one communication habit you want us to keep forever?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"habits",
"written",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "communication_147",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show our communication is getting stronger?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"communication_growth",
"progress",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_ask_more_direct_questions",
"text": "We ask more direct questions"
},
{
"id": "we_recover_from_confusion_faster",
"text": "We recover from confusion faster"
},
{
"id": "we_can_say_what_we_need",
"text": "We can say what we need"
},
{
"id": "we_do_less_mind_reading",
"text": "We do less mind-reading"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_148",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should our unofficial communication motto be?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"couple_voice",
"fun_first",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_before_assuming",
"text": "Ask before assuming"
},
{
"id": "say_the_actual_thing",
"text": "Say the actual thing"
},
{
"id": "kind_and_clear",
"text": "Kind and clear"
},
{
"id": "we_can_try_that_again",
"text": "We can try that again"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "communication_149",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should show up more in the way we talk?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"couple_voice",
"communication_growth",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "more_humor",
"text": "More humor"
},
{
"id": "more_honesty",
"text": "More honesty"
},
{
"id": "more_curiosity",
"text": "More curiosity"
},
{
"id": "more_room_for_different_styles",
"text": "More room for different styles"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "communication_150",
"category_id": "communication",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which communication habits could we actually stick with?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"tags": [
"habits",
"commitments",
"communication"
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ask_instead_of_guess",
"text": "Ask instead of guess"
},
{
"id": "say_when_the_timing_is_bad",
"text": "Say when the timing is bad"
},
{
"id": "come_back_to_important_topics",
"text": "Come back to important topics"
},
{
"id": "do_not_let_silence_tell_the_whole_story",
"text": "Do not let silence tell the whole story"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
}
]
}
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