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{
"category" : {
"id" : "quality_time" ,
"display_name" : "Quality Time" ,
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"description" : "Warm, playful questions about how couples spend time together through ordinary routines, quiet company, shared activities, attention, conversation, flirting, realistic invitations, traditions, and accessible plans." ,
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"access" : "mixed" ,
"icon_name" : "schedule_heart" ,
"schema_version" : "question_v2" ,
"metadata" : {
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"total_questions" : 150 ,
"free_questions" : 45 ,
"premium_questions" : 105 ,
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"type_counts" : {
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"multi_choice" : 90 ,
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"single_choice" : 30 ,
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"scale" : 15 ,
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"this_or_that" : 10 ,
"written" : 5
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} ,
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"depth_counts" : {
"1" : 90 ,
"2" : 45 ,
"3" : 15
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} ,
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"depth_percentages" : {
"light" : 60.0 ,
"medium" : 30.0 ,
"deep" : 10.0
} ,
"content_version" : "quality_time_150_final_v14" ,
"rewrite_reason" : "Rebuilt as a complete 150-question production pack with a clearer boundary around how couples spend time together. The pack avoids duplicating emotional vulnerability, date-specific planning, physical affection preferences, or household task management." ,
"related_pack_boundary" : "Quality Time owns the shape of shared time: routines, presence, shared activities, quiet company, conversation settings, playfulness, invitations, traditions, low-energy connection, and accessible plans. Specific date ideas belong in date_night. Emotional vulnerability and feeling deeply known belong in emotional_intimacy. Touch preferences belong in physical_intimacy. General fun prompts without a together-time focus belong in fun." ,
"safety_boundary" : "Time together must not be framed as proof of love, an obligation, or a reason to remove healthy alone time. Either person may decline, shorten, adapt, or reschedule a plan without punishment." ,
"coverage_sections" : [
"at_home_time" ,
"routines_transitions" ,
"attention_presence" ,
"low_energy_busy_life" ,
"shared_activities" ,
"conversation_quiet" ,
"play_flirting" ,
"invitations_planning" ,
"couple_lore_traditions" ,
"accessibility_social_energy_future"
] ,
"review_workflow" : "Six 25-question production batches and three 50-question checkpoints with schema, option-fit, voice, repetition, access, depth, accessibility, and related-pack boundary checks." ,
"final_validation" : "pass" ,
"batch_review" : [
{
"batch" : 1 ,
"first_id" : "quality_time_001" ,
"last_id" : "quality_time_025" ,
"count" : 25 ,
"status" : "PASS"
} ,
{
"batch" : 2 ,
"first_id" : "quality_time_026" ,
"last_id" : "quality_time_050" ,
"count" : 25 ,
"status" : "PASS"
} ,
{
"batch" : 3 ,
"first_id" : "quality_time_051" ,
"last_id" : "quality_time_075" ,
"count" : 25 ,
"status" : "PASS"
} ,
{
"batch" : 4 ,
"first_id" : "quality_time_076" ,
"last_id" : "quality_time_100" ,
"count" : 25 ,
"status" : "PASS"
} ,
{
"batch" : 5 ,
"first_id" : "quality_time_101" ,
"last_id" : "quality_time_125" ,
"count" : 25 ,
"status" : "PASS"
} ,
{
"batch" : 6 ,
"first_id" : "quality_time_126" ,
"last_id" : "quality_time_150" ,
"count" : 25 ,
"status" : "PASS"
}
] ,
"fifty_question_checkpoints" : [
{
"checkpoint" : 1 ,
"first_id" : "quality_time_001" ,
"last_id" : "quality_time_050" ,
"count" : 50 ,
"status" : "PASS"
} ,
{
"checkpoint" : 2 ,
"first_id" : "quality_time_051" ,
"last_id" : "quality_time_100" ,
"count" : 50 ,
"status" : "PASS"
} ,
{
"checkpoint" : 3 ,
"first_id" : "quality_time_101" ,
"last_id" : "quality_time_150" ,
"count" : 50 ,
"status" : "PASS"
}
] ,
"final_editorial_patches" : 3 ,
"final_review" : "Final editorial and production pass completed. Tightened three prompts for clarity and stronger category boundaries, then revalidated schema, counts, depth balance, option fit, option mirroring, voice, repetition, accessibility, cross-pack uniqueness, six 25-question batches, and three 50-question checkpoints."
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}
} ,
"questions" : [
{
"id" : "quality_time_001" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes staying home together feel intentional instead of automatic?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"home_time" ,
"intentionality" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "choosing_what_we_will_do" ,
"text" : "Choosing what we will do"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "changing_the_usual_setup" ,
"text" : "Changing the usual setup"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "putting_distracting_tasks_away" ,
"text" : "Putting distracting tasks away"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "adding_one_small_treat" ,
"text" : "Adding one small treat"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "choosing_what_we_will_do" ,
"text" : "Choosing what we will do"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "changing_the_usual_setup" ,
"text" : "Changing the usual setup"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "putting_distracting_tasks_away" ,
"text" : "Putting distracting tasks away"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "adding_one_small_treat" ,
"text" : "Adding one small treat"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_002" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which low-effort evening sounds best tonight?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"home_time" ,
"low_energy" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_show_and_a_snack" ,
"text" : "A show and a snack"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "music_while_we_do_separate_things" ,
"text" : "Music while we do separate things"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_card_game" ,
"text" : "A card game"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "talking_on_the_porch" ,
"text" : "Talking on the porch"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_show_and_a_snack" ,
"text" : "A show and a snack"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "music_while_we_do_separate_things" ,
"text" : "Music while we do separate things"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_card_game" ,
"text" : "A card game"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "talking_on_the_porch" ,
"text" : "Talking on the porch"
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}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_003" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "One shared activity or separate hobbies in the same room?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"home_time" ,
"quick_choice" ,
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"quality_time"
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] ,
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "one_shared_activity" ,
"text" : "One shared activity"
} ,
{
"id" : "separate_hobbies_in_the_same_room" ,
"text" : "Separate hobbies in the same room"
}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "one_shared_activity" ,
"text" : "One shared activity"
} ,
{
"id" : "separate_hobbies_in_the_same_room" ,
"text" : "Separate hobbies in the same room"
}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_004" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which details can make an ordinary night feel more like ours?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"home_time" ,
"couple_identity" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_favorite_meal" ,
"text" : "A favorite meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_familiar_playlist" ,
"text" : "A familiar playlist"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_phone_free_hour" ,
"text" : "One phone-free hour"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "an_inside_joke_returning" ,
"text" : "An inside joke returning"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_favorite_meal" ,
"text" : "A favorite meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_familiar_playlist" ,
"text" : "A familiar playlist"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_phone_free_hour" ,
"text" : "One phone-free hour"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "an_inside_joke_returning" ,
"text" : "An inside joke returning"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_005" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What could make the couch feel like a plan instead of a default?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"home_time" ,
"humor" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "picking_the_show_before_sitting_down" ,
"text" : "Picking the show before sitting down"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "bringing_the_good_snacks" ,
"text" : "Bringing the good snacks"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "using_the_blanket_without_starting_a_border_dispute" ,
"text" : "Using the blanket without starting a border dispute"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_an_actual_start_time" ,
"text" : "Choosing an actual start time"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "picking_the_show_before_sitting_down" ,
"text" : "Picking the show before sitting down"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "bringing_the_good_snacks" ,
"text" : "Bringing the good snacks"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "using_the_blanket_without_starting_a_border_dispute" ,
"text" : "Using the blanket without starting a border dispute"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_an_actual_start_time" ,
"text" : "Choosing an actual start time"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_006" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which home activity has the best fun-to-effort ratio?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"home_time" ,
"preferences" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "cooking_something_easy" ,
"text" : "Cooking something easy"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "watching_a_movie" ,
"text" : "Watching a movie"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "playing_a_simple_game" ,
"text" : "Playing a simple game"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "listening_to_music" ,
"text" : "Listening to music"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "cooking_something_easy" ,
"text" : "Cooking something easy"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "watching_a_movie" ,
"text" : "Watching a movie"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "playing_a_simple_game" ,
"text" : "Playing a simple game"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "listening_to_music" ,
"text" : "Listening to music"
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}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_007" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which at-home moments are easiest to look forward to?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"home_time" ,
"anticipation" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "breakfast_together" ,
"text" : "Breakfast together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_quiet_evening" ,
"text" : "A quiet evening"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_lazy_weekend_morning" ,
"text" : "A lazy weekend morning"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_small_project_we_both_enjoy" ,
"text" : "A small project we both enjoy"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "breakfast_together" ,
"text" : "Breakfast together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_quiet_evening" ,
"text" : "A quiet evening"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_lazy_weekend_morning" ,
"text" : "A lazy weekend morning"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_small_project_we_both_enjoy" ,
"text" : "A small project we both enjoy"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
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{
"id" : "quality_time_008" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How enjoyable does our time at home feel lately?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
"tags" : [
"home_time" ,
"current_state" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Mostly routine" ,
"max_label" : "Genuinely enjoyable"
}
} ,
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{
"id" : "quality_time_009" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes a shared meal count as quality time?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"meals" ,
"presence" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sitting_down_together" ,
"text" : "Sitting down together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "not_rushing" ,
"text" : "Not rushing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "talking_about_more_than_logistics" ,
"text" : "Talking about more than logistics"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_food_we_both_like" ,
"text" : "Choosing food we both like"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sitting_down_together" ,
"text" : "Sitting down together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "not_rushing" ,
"text" : "Not rushing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "talking_about_more_than_logistics" ,
"text" : "Talking about more than logistics"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_food_we_both_like" ,
"text" : "Choosing food we both like"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_010" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which kitchen role sounds most like you during shared time?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"meals" ,
"humor" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "cooking" ,
"text" : "Cooking"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "helping" ,
"text" : "Helping"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_the_music" ,
"text" : "Choosing the music"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "providing_commentary_and_quality_control" ,
"text" : "Providing commentary and quality control"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "cooking" ,
"text" : "Cooking"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "helping" ,
"text" : "Helping"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_the_music" ,
"text" : "Choosing the music"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "providing_commentary_and_quality_control" ,
"text" : "Providing commentary and quality control"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_011" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps an at-home plan survive a tiring day?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"home_time" ,
"low_energy" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "keeping_it_short" ,
"text" : "Keeping it short"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "letting_the_tired_person_choose" ,
"text" : "Letting the tired person choose"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "dropping_unnecessary_preparation" ,
"text" : "Dropping unnecessary preparation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "counting_quiet_company_as_enough" ,
"text" : "Counting quiet company as enough"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "keeping_it_short" ,
"text" : "Keeping it short"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "letting_the_tired_person_choose" ,
"text" : "Letting the tired person choose"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "dropping_unnecessary_preparation" ,
"text" : "Dropping unnecessary preparation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "counting_quiet_company_as_enough" ,
"text" : "Counting quiet company as enough"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_012" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which small changes could refresh a familiar evening?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"home_time" ,
"novelty" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "eat_somewhere_different" ,
"text" : "Eat somewhere different"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "try_a_new_game" ,
"text" : "Try a new game"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_a_theme" ,
"text" : "Choose a theme"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "take_the_activity_outside" ,
"text" : "Take the activity outside"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "eat_somewhere_different" ,
"text" : "Eat somewhere different"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "try_a_new_game" ,
"text" : "Try a new game"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_a_theme" ,
"text" : "Choose a theme"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "take_the_activity_outside" ,
"text" : "Take the activity outside"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_013" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "written" ,
"text" : "What is one ordinary night together you remember being unexpectedly good?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"home_time" ,
"memory" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"max_length" : 500
}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_014" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What should stay optional during a night at home together?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "free" ,
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"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"home_time" ,
"autonomy" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "talking_the_whole_time" ,
"text" : "Talking the whole time"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "doing_the_same_activity" ,
"text" : "Doing the same activity"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "staying_up_late" ,
"text" : "Staying up late"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "turning_the_night_into_something_special" ,
"text" : "Turning the night into something special"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "talking_the_whole_time" ,
"text" : "Talking the whole time"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "doing_the_same_activity" ,
"text" : "Doing the same activity"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "staying_up_late" ,
"text" : "Staying up late"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "turning_the_night_into_something_special" ,
"text" : "Turning the night into something special"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_015" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which patterns can make being home together feel lonely?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"home_time" ,
"warning_signs" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "never_looking_up_from_separate_screens" ,
"text" : "Never looking up from separate screens"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "only_discussing_tasks" ,
"text" : "Only discussing tasks"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_person_choosing_everything" ,
"text" : "One person choosing everything"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "being_together_only_because_plans_fell_through" ,
"text" : "Being together only because plans fell through"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "never_looking_up_from_separate_screens" ,
"text" : "Never looking up from separate screens"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "only_discussing_tasks" ,
"text" : "Only discussing tasks"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_person_choosing_everything" ,
"text" : "One person choosing everything"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "being_together_only_because_plans_fell_through" ,
"text" : "Being together only because plans fell through"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_016" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which daily transitions could become good time for us?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"routines" ,
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"transitions" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "the_first_minutes_after_work" ,
"text" : "The first minutes after work"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_drive_home" ,
"text" : "The drive home"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_pause_before_dinner" ,
"text" : "The pause before dinner"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_last_few_minutes_before_sleep" ,
"text" : "The last few minutes before sleep"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "the_first_minutes_after_work" ,
"text" : "The first minutes after work"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_drive_home" ,
"text" : "The drive home"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_pause_before_dinner" ,
"text" : "The pause before dinner"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_last_few_minutes_before_sleep" ,
"text" : "The last few minutes before sleep"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_017" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which morning connection sounds most realistic?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"mornings" ,
"routines" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "coffee_together" ,
"text" : "Coffee together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_real_goodbye" ,
"text" : "A real goodbye"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "sharing_the_day_s_plan" ,
"text" : "Sharing the day's plan"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_thoughtful_message_later" ,
"text" : "One thoughtful message later"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "coffee_together" ,
"text" : "Coffee together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_real_goodbye" ,
"text" : "A real goodbye"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "sharing_the_day_s_plan" ,
"text" : "Sharing the day's plan"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_thoughtful_message_later" ,
"text" : "One thoughtful message later"
}
]
}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_018" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Protect a daily ten minutes or one longer block each week?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
"tags" : [
"routines" ,
"quick_choice" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_daily_ten_minutes" ,
"text" : "A daily ten minutes"
} ,
{
"id" : "one_longer_block_each_week" ,
"text" : "One longer block each week"
}
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_daily_ten_minutes" ,
"text" : "A daily ten minutes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_longer_block_each_week" ,
"text" : "One longer block each week"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_019" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What could make mornings feel more like shared time?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"mornings" ,
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"presence" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sit_together_for_the_first_drink" ,
"text" : "Sit together for the first drink"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "avoid_starting_with_chores" ,
"text" : "Avoid starting with chores"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "share_one_thing_about_the_day" ,
"text" : "Share one thing about the day"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "leave_with_a_real_goodbye" ,
"text" : "Leave with a real goodbye"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sit_together_for_the_first_drink" ,
"text" : "Sit together for the first drink"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "avoid_starting_with_chores" ,
"text" : "Avoid starting with chores"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "share_one_thing_about_the_day" ,
"text" : "Share one thing about the day"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "leave_with_a_real_goodbye" ,
"text" : "Leave with a real goodbye"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_020" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which routines create connection without adding another obligation?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"routines" ,
"low_pressure" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_short_evening_walk" ,
"text" : "A short evening walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_meal_together" ,
"text" : "One meal together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_weekly_coffee" ,
"text" : "A weekly coffee"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "checking_in_during_a_regular_drive" ,
"text" : "Checking in during a regular drive"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_short_evening_walk" ,
"text" : "A short evening walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_meal_together" ,
"text" : "One meal together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_weekly_coffee" ,
"text" : "A weekly coffee"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "checking_in_during_a_regular_drive" ,
"text" : "Checking in during a regular drive"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_021" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which recurring moment is easiest to rescue from autopilot?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"routines" ,
"humor" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "the_grocery_trip" ,
"text" : "The grocery trip"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_drive_somewhere" ,
"text" : "The drive somewhere"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_first_coffee" ,
"text" : "The first coffee"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_nightly_search_for_the_remote" ,
"text" : "The nightly search for the remote"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "the_grocery_trip" ,
"text" : "The grocery trip"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_drive_somewhere" ,
"text" : "The drive somewhere"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_first_coffee" ,
"text" : "The first coffee"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_nightly_search_for_the_remote" ,
"text" : "The nightly search for the remote"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_022" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps a routine stay warm instead of becoming mandatory?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"routines" ,
"flexibility" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "it_can_be_skipped_without_guilt" ,
"text" : "It can be skipped without guilt"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "both_people_shape_it" ,
"text" : "Both people shape it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_stays_simple" ,
"text" : "It stays simple"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_changes_when_life_changes" ,
"text" : "It changes when life changes"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "it_can_be_skipped_without_guilt" ,
"text" : "It can be skipped without guilt"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "both_people_shape_it" ,
"text" : "Both people shape it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_stays_simple" ,
"text" : "It stays simple"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_changes_when_life_changes" ,
"text" : "It changes when life changes"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_023" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How connected do our daily routines make you feel?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"routines" ,
"current_state" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Hardly connected" ,
"max_label" : "Very connected"
}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_024" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which end-of-day habits could help us reconnect?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
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"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"evenings" ,
"routines" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sit_together_before_starting_tasks" ,
"text" : "Sit together before starting tasks"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "share_the_best_or_strangest_moment" ,
"text" : "Share the best or strangest moment"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "take_a_short_walk" ,
"text" : "Take a short walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "put_phones_down_briefly" ,
"text" : "Put phones down briefly"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sit_together_before_starting_tasks" ,
"text" : "Sit together before starting tasks"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "share_the_best_or_strangest_moment" ,
"text" : "Share the best or strangest moment"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "take_a_short_walk" ,
"text" : "Take a short walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "put_phones_down_briefly" ,
"text" : "Put phones down briefly"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_025" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What should happen first when we finally have ten quiet minutes?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"routines" ,
"preferences" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "talk" ,
"text" : "Talk"
} ,
{
"id" : "sit_quietly" ,
"text" : "Sit quietly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "share_something_funny" ,
"text" : "Share something funny"
} ,
{
"id" : "decide_together_in_the_moment" ,
"text" : "Decide together in the moment"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "talk" ,
"text" : "Talk"
} ,
{
"id" : "sit_quietly" ,
"text" : "Sit quietly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "share_something_funny" ,
"text" : "Share something funny"
} ,
{
"id" : "decide_together_in_the_moment" ,
"text" : "Decide together in the moment"
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}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_026" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes a weekly ritual worth keeping?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"rituals" ,
"meaning" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "we_both_enjoy_it" ,
"text" : "We both enjoy it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_fits_real_life" ,
"text" : "It fits real life"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_gives_us_something_to_anticipate" ,
"text" : "It gives us something to anticipate"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_still_feels_chosen" ,
"text" : "It still feels chosen"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "we_both_enjoy_it" ,
"text" : "We both enjoy it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_fits_real_life" ,
"text" : "It fits real life"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_gives_us_something_to_anticipate" ,
"text" : "It gives us something to anticipate"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_still_feels_chosen" ,
"text" : "It still feels chosen"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_027" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which routines could work even when our schedules barely overlap?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"schedules" ,
"routines" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_voice_message" ,
"text" : "A voice message"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_shared_breakfast" ,
"text" : "A shared breakfast"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_note_left_behind" ,
"text" : "A note left behind"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_short_call_during_a_regular_break" ,
"text" : "A short call during a regular break"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_voice_message" ,
"text" : "A voice message"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_shared_breakfast" ,
"text" : "A shared breakfast"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_note_left_behind" ,
"text" : "A note left behind"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_short_call_during_a_regular_break" ,
"text" : "A short call during a regular break"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_028" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "written" ,
"text" : "What daily moment would you most like us to reclaim as ours?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"routines" ,
"shared_time" ,
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"quality_time"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"max_length" : 500
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_029" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps us notice when a routine no longer fits?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"routines" ,
"adaptability" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "one_person_keeps_avoiding_it" ,
"text" : "One person keeps avoiding it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_creates_more_stress_than_warmth" ,
"text" : "It creates more stress than warmth"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "our_schedule_has_changed" ,
"text" : "Our schedule has changed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_different_habit_sounds_easier" ,
"text" : "A different habit sounds easier"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "one_person_keeps_avoiding_it" ,
"text" : "One person keeps avoiding it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_creates_more_stress_than_warmth" ,
"text" : "It creates more stress than warmth"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "our_schedule_has_changed" ,
"text" : "Our schedule has changed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_different_habit_sounds_easier" ,
"text" : "A different habit sounds easier"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_030" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "When routines disappear, what helps connection survive the disruption?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"routines" ,
"change" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "choosing_one_temporary_anchor" ,
"text" : "Choosing one temporary anchor"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "saying_what_we_miss" ,
"text" : "Saying what we miss"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "lowering_expectations" ,
"text" : "Lowering expectations"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "making_a_new_plan_together" ,
"text" : "Making a new plan together"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "choosing_one_temporary_anchor" ,
"text" : "Choosing one temporary anchor"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "saying_what_we_miss" ,
"text" : "Saying what we miss"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "lowering_expectations" ,
"text" : "Lowering expectations"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "making_a_new_plan_together" ,
"text" : "Making a new plan together"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_031" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes you feel that you really have my attention?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"attention" ,
"presence" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "i_put_the_phone_down" ,
"text" : "I put the phone down"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_ask_a_follow_up_question" ,
"text" : "I ask a follow-up question"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_remember_the_important_part" ,
"text" : "I remember the important part"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_stop_doing_another_task" ,
"text" : "I stop doing another task"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "i_put_the_phone_down" ,
"text" : "I put the phone down"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_ask_a_follow_up_question" ,
"text" : "I ask a follow-up question"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_remember_the_important_part" ,
"text" : "I remember the important part"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_stop_doing_another_task" ,
"text" : "I stop doing another task"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_032" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "When do you most want my full attention?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"attention" ,
"preferences" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "when_telling_a_story" ,
"text" : "When telling a story"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "when_sharing_something_difficult" ,
"text" : "When sharing something difficult"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "when_making_a_plan" ,
"text" : "When making a plan"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "when_we_first_reconnect" ,
"text" : "When we first reconnect"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "when_telling_a_story" ,
"text" : "When telling a story"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "when_sharing_something_difficult" ,
"text" : "When sharing something difficult"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "when_making_a_plan" ,
"text" : "When making a plan"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "when_we_first_reconnect" ,
"text" : "When we first reconnect"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_033" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Phones out of sight or simply face down?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"phones" ,
"quick_choice" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "phones_out_of_sight" ,
"text" : "Phones out of sight"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "phones_face_down" ,
"text" : "Phones face down"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "phones_out_of_sight" ,
"text" : "Phones out of sight"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "phones_face_down" ,
"text" : "Phones face down"
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}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_034" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which distractions most often steal good time from us?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"distractions" ,
"awareness" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "phones" ,
"text" : "Phones"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "unfinished_chores" ,
"text" : "Unfinished chores"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "work_messages" ,
"text" : "Work messages"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "trying_to_multitask" ,
"text" : "Trying to multitask"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "phones" ,
"text" : "Phones"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "unfinished_chores" ,
"text" : "Unfinished chores"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "work_messages" ,
"text" : "Work messages"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "trying_to_multitask" ,
"text" : "Trying to multitask"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_035" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps a short conversation feel unrushed?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"conversation" ,
"presence" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sitting_down" ,
"text" : "Sitting down"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "not_checking_the_time_repeatedly" ,
"text" : "Not checking the time repeatedly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "letting_one_topic_finish" ,
"text" : "Letting one topic finish"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "avoiding_a_task_at_the_same_time" ,
"text" : "Avoiding a task at the same time"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sitting_down" ,
"text" : "Sitting down"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "not_checking_the_time_repeatedly" ,
"text" : "Not checking the time repeatedly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "letting_one_topic_finish" ,
"text" : "Letting one topic finish"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "avoiding_a_task_at_the_same_time" ,
"text" : "Avoiding a task at the same time"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_036" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which device is most likely to become the uninvited third person?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
"phones" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_phone" ,
"text" : "A phone"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_television" ,
"text" : "A television"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_work_laptop" ,
"text" : "A work laptop"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_smart_speaker_with_opinions" ,
"text" : "The smart speaker with opinions"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_phone" ,
"text" : "A phone"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_television" ,
"text" : "A television"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_work_laptop" ,
"text" : "A work laptop"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_smart_speaker_with_opinions" ,
"text" : "The smart speaker with opinions"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_037" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What could make screen time feel shared instead of separate?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"screens" ,
"shared_activity" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "choose_together" ,
"text" : "Choose together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "pause_to_talk" ,
"text" : "Pause to talk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_one_screen" ,
"text" : "Keep one screen"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "watch_something_both_people_actually_want" ,
"text" : "Watch something both people actually want"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "choose_together" ,
"text" : "Choose together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "pause_to_talk" ,
"text" : "Pause to talk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_one_screen" ,
"text" : "Keep one screen"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "watch_something_both_people_actually_want" ,
"text" : "Watch something both people actually want"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_038" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How present do we usually feel during time together?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"presence" ,
"current_state" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Often distracted" ,
"max_label" : "Fully present"
}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_039" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which signs show that one of us needs more attention right now?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "free" ,
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"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"signals" ,
"attention" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "repeating_a_story" ,
"text" : "Repeating a story"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "putting_the_phone_away_first" ,
"text" : "Putting the phone away first"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "asking_to_sit_together" ,
"text" : "Asking to sit together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "saying_the_day_was_hard" ,
"text" : "Saying the day was hard"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "repeating_a_story" ,
"text" : "Repeating a story"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "putting_the_phone_away_first" ,
"text" : "Putting the phone away first"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "asking_to_sit_together" ,
"text" : "Asking to sit together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "saying_the_day_was_hard" ,
"text" : "Saying the day was hard"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_040" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which phone rule sounds least likely to start a constitutional crisis?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
"phones" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "no_phones_during_one_meal" ,
"text" : "No phones during one meal"
} ,
{
"id" : "phones_away_for_twenty_minutes" ,
"text" : "Phones away for twenty minutes"
} ,
{
"id" : "only_urgent_messages" ,
"text" : "Only urgent messages"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_person_controls_the_emergency_snack_timer" ,
"text" : "One person controls the emergency snack timer"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "no_phones_during_one_meal" ,
"text" : "No phones during one meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "phones_away_for_twenty_minutes" ,
"text" : "Phones away for twenty minutes"
} ,
{
"id" : "only_urgent_messages" ,
"text" : "Only urgent messages"
} ,
{
"id" : "one_person_controls_the_emergency_snack_timer" ,
"text" : "One person controls the emergency snack timer"
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}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_041" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes divided attention feel less frustrating?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"attention" ,
"real_life" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "saying_when_you_can_listen_fully" ,
"text" : "Saying when you can listen fully"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "finishing_the_task_quickly" ,
"text" : "Finishing the task quickly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "returning_to_the_conversation" ,
"text" : "Returning to the conversation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "being_honest_that_now_is_not_a_good_moment" ,
"text" : "Being honest that now is not a good moment"
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}
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] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "saying_when_you_can_listen_fully" ,
"text" : "Saying when you can listen fully"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "finishing_the_task_quickly" ,
"text" : "Finishing the task quickly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "returning_to_the_conversation" ,
"text" : "Returning to the conversation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "being_honest_that_now_is_not_a_good_moment" ,
"text" : "Being honest that now is not a good moment"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_042" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which moments deserve protection from multitasking?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"presence" ,
"priorities" ,
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"quality_time"
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] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "important_news" ,
"text" : "Important news"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_planned_activity" ,
"text" : "A planned activity"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_difficult_conversation" ,
"text" : "A difficult conversation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_first_minutes_after_time_apart" ,
"text" : "The first minutes after time apart"
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}
] ,
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{
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"id" : "important_news" ,
"text" : "Important news"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_planned_activity" ,
"text" : "A planned activity"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_difficult_conversation" ,
"text" : "A difficult conversation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_first_minutes_after_time_apart" ,
"text" : "The first minutes after time apart"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_043" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "written" ,
"text" : "What is one time you felt especially noticed by me?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"attention" ,
"memory" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"max_length" : 500
}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_044" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "How can we ask for attention without sounding like a complaint?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "free" ,
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"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"attention" ,
"communication" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "can_we_have_ten_minutes" ,
"text" : "Can we have ten minutes?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_want_to_tell_you_something" ,
"text" : "I want to tell you something"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "when_can_you_listen_fully" ,
"text" : "When can you listen fully?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "could_we_put_this_aside_for_a_moment" ,
"text" : "Could we put this aside for a moment?"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "can_we_have_ten_minutes" ,
"text" : "Can we have ten minutes?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "i_want_to_tell_you_something" ,
"text" : "I want to tell you something"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "when_can_you_listen_fully" ,
"text" : "When can you listen fully?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "could_we_put_this_aside_for_a_moment" ,
"text" : "Could we put this aside for a moment?"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_045" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What happens when attention becomes something one person must compete for?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "free" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"attention" ,
"warning_signs" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "stories_get_shorter" ,
"text" : "Stories get shorter"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "invitations_stop" ,
"text" : "Invitations stop"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "resentment_builds" ,
"text" : "Resentment builds"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "being_together_stops_feeling_restful" ,
"text" : "Being together stops feeling restful"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "stories_get_shorter" ,
"text" : "Stories get shorter"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "invitations_stop" ,
"text" : "Invitations stop"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "resentment_builds" ,
"text" : "Resentment builds"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "being_together_stops_feeling_restful" ,
"text" : "Being together stops feeling restful"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_046" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What counts as quality time when we are both exhausted?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"low_energy" ,
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"busy_life" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "eating_together" ,
"text" : "Eating together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_short_check_in" ,
"text" : "A short check-in"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "sitting_quietly_nearby" ,
"text" : "Sitting quietly nearby"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_one_easy_thing_for_later" ,
"text" : "Choosing one easy thing for later"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "eating_together" ,
"text" : "Eating together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_short_check_in" ,
"text" : "A short check-in"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "sitting_quietly_nearby" ,
"text" : "Sitting quietly nearby"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_one_easy_thing_for_later" ,
"text" : "Choosing one easy thing for later"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_047" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which tired-night plan sounds most doable?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"low_energy" ,
"preferences" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_twenty_minute_show" ,
"text" : "A twenty-minute show"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "tea_and_conversation" ,
"text" : "Tea and conversation"
} ,
{
"id" : "separate_hobbies_together" ,
"text" : "Separate hobbies together"
} ,
{
"id" : "an_early_bedtime_after_a_real_goodnight" ,
"text" : "An early bedtime after a real goodnight"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_twenty_minute_show" ,
"text" : "A twenty-minute show"
} ,
{
"id" : "tea_and_conversation" ,
"text" : "Tea and conversation"
} ,
{
"id" : "separate_hobbies_together" ,
"text" : "Separate hobbies together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "an_early_bedtime_after_a_real_goodnight" ,
"text" : "An early bedtime after a real goodnight"
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}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_048" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Shorten the plan or move it to another day?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"low_energy" ,
"quick_choice" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "shorten_the_plan" ,
"text" : "Shorten the plan"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "move_it_to_another_day" ,
"text" : "Move it to another day"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "shorten_the_plan" ,
"text" : "Shorten the plan"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "move_it_to_another_day" ,
"text" : "Move it to another day"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_049" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps quality time work when one of us has less energy?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"low_energy" ,
"accessibility" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "the_lower_energy_person_chooses_the_pace" ,
"text" : "The lower-energy person chooses the pace"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "plans_can_end_early" ,
"text" : "Plans can end early"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "comfort_matters_more_than_novelty" ,
"text" : "Comfort matters more than novelty"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "quiet_company_counts" ,
"text" : "Quiet company counts"
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}
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] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "the_lower_energy_person_chooses_the_pace" ,
"text" : "The lower-energy person chooses the pace"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "plans_can_end_early" ,
"text" : "Plans can end early"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "comfort_matters_more_than_novelty" ,
"text" : "Comfort matters more than novelty"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "quiet_company_counts" ,
"text" : "Quiet company counts"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_050" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which connection ideas require almost no preparation?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"low_energy" ,
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"easy_plans" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sit_outside" ,
"text" : "Sit outside"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "share_a_snack" ,
"text" : "Share a snack"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "listen_to_one_album" ,
"text" : "Listen to one album"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "take_a_short_drive" ,
"text" : "Take a short drive"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sit_outside" ,
"text" : "Sit outside"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "share_a_snack" ,
"text" : "Share a snack"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "listen_to_one_album" ,
"text" : "Listen to one album"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "take_a_short_drive" ,
"text" : "Take a short drive"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_051" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which plan has the smallest chance of needing recovery afterward?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
"low_energy" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_blanket_and_one_episode" ,
"text" : "A blanket and one episode"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_porch_sit" ,
"text" : "A porch sit"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_drive_with_no_errands" ,
"text" : "A drive with no errands"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "going_nowhere_with_impressive_commitment" ,
"text" : "Going nowhere with impressive commitment"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_blanket_and_one_episode" ,
"text" : "A blanket and one episode"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_porch_sit" ,
"text" : "A porch sit"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_drive_with_no_errands" ,
"text" : "A drive with no errands"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "going_nowhere_with_impressive_commitment" ,
"text" : "Going nowhere with impressive commitment"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_052" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What can make a busy week feel less disconnected?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"busy_life" ,
"connection" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "one_protected_meal" ,
"text" : "One protected meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_short_daily_message" ,
"text" : "A short daily message"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "knowing_the_next_shared_plan" ,
"text" : "Knowing the next shared plan"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "helping_each_other_finish_sooner" ,
"text" : "Helping each other finish sooner"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "one_protected_meal" ,
"text" : "One protected meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_short_daily_message" ,
"text" : "A short daily message"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "knowing_the_next_shared_plan" ,
"text" : "Knowing the next shared plan"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "helping_each_other_finish_sooner" ,
"text" : "Helping each other finish sooner"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_053" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How well does our quality time fit our actual energy lately?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"low_energy" ,
"current_state" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Poorly" ,
"max_label" : "Very well"
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_054" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which plans are easiest to adapt when life changes suddenly?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"flexibility" ,
"busy_life" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_walk" ,
"text" : "A walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "an_at_home_meal" ,
"text" : "An at-home meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_short_drive" ,
"text" : "A short drive"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "anything_without_reservations" ,
"text" : "Anything without reservations"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_walk" ,
"text" : "A walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "an_at_home_meal" ,
"text" : "An at-home meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_short_drive" ,
"text" : "A short drive"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "anything_without_reservations" ,
"text" : "Anything without reservations"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_055" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "What should we cancel first when the week becomes ridiculous?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
"busy_life" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "unnecessary_errands" ,
"text" : "Unnecessary errands"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_complicated_plan" ,
"text" : "A complicated plan"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_idea_that_everything_must_be_productive" ,
"text" : "The idea that everything must be productive"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "nothing_until_we_inspect_the_snack_situation" ,
"text" : "Nothing until we inspect the snack situation"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "unnecessary_errands" ,
"text" : "Unnecessary errands"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_complicated_plan" ,
"text" : "A complicated plan"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_idea_that_everything_must_be_productive" ,
"text" : "The idea that everything must be productive"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "nothing_until_we_inspect_the_snack_situation" ,
"text" : "Nothing until we inspect the snack situation"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_056" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps a postponed plan feel like a rain check instead of rejection?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"planning" ,
"reassurance" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "naming_another_possible_time" ,
"text" : "Naming another possible time"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keeping_the_response_warm" ,
"text" : "Keeping the response warm"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "explaining_briefly" ,
"text" : "Explaining briefly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "following_through_later" ,
"text" : "Following through later"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "naming_another_possible_time" ,
"text" : "Naming another possible time"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keeping_the_response_warm" ,
"text" : "Keeping the response warm"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "explaining_briefly" ,
"text" : "Explaining briefly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "following_through_later" ,
"text" : "Following through later"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_057" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which forms of quality time can work during a stressful season?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"stress" ,
"low_energy" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "doing_a_simple_task_together" ,
"text" : "Doing a simple task together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_quiet_meal" ,
"text" : "A quiet meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_short_bedtime_check_in" ,
"text" : "A short bedtime check-in"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_low_pressure_outing" ,
"text" : "One low-pressure outing"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "doing_a_simple_task_together" ,
"text" : "Doing a simple task together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_quiet_meal" ,
"text" : "A quiet meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_short_bedtime_check_in" ,
"text" : "A short bedtime check-in"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_low_pressure_outing" ,
"text" : "One low-pressure outing"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_058" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "written" ,
"text" : "What is the easiest kind of time together that still matters to you?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"low_energy" ,
"preferences" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"max_length" : 500
}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_059" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "How can we protect time together without treating rest as wasted time?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"rest" ,
"balance" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "choose_restful_plans" ,
"text" : "Choose restful plans"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_either_person_shorten_them" ,
"text" : "Let either person shorten them"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "avoid_filling_every_free_hour" ,
"text" : "Avoid filling every free hour"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "count_recovery_as_part_of_the_plan" ,
"text" : "Count recovery as part of the plan"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "choose_restful_plans" ,
"text" : "Choose restful plans"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_either_person_shorten_them" ,
"text" : "Let either person shorten them"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "avoid_filling_every_free_hour" ,
"text" : "Avoid filling every free hour"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "count_recovery_as_part_of_the_plan" ,
"text" : "Count recovery as part of the plan"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_060" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which expectations become unfair during a hard season?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"busy_life" ,
"fairness" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "ignoring_different_energy_levels" ,
"text" : "Ignoring different energy levels"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "expecting_one_person_to_plan_everything" ,
"text" : "Expecting one person to plan everything"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "treating_exhaustion_as_lack_of_love" ,
"text" : "Treating exhaustion as lack of love"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "comparing_this_season_with_easier_years" ,
"text" : "Comparing this season with easier years"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "ignoring_different_energy_levels" ,
"text" : "Ignoring different energy levels"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "expecting_one_person_to_plan_everything" ,
"text" : "Expecting one person to plan everything"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "treating_exhaustion_as_lack_of_love" ,
"text" : "Treating exhaustion as lack of love"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "comparing_this_season_with_easier_years" ,
"text" : "Comparing this season with easier years"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_061" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which kinds of activities make conversation happen naturally?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"activities" ,
"conversation" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "walking" ,
"text" : "Walking"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "driving" ,
"text" : "Driving"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "cooking" ,
"text" : "Cooking"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "working_on_something_with_our_hands" ,
"text" : "Working on something with our hands"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "walking" ,
"text" : "Walking"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "driving" ,
"text" : "Driving"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "cooking" ,
"text" : "Cooking"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "working_on_something_with_our_hands" ,
"text" : "Working on something with our hands"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_062" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which shared activity sounds easiest to repeat?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"activities" ,
"preferences" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_weekly_walk" ,
"text" : "A weekly walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "cooking_one_meal" ,
"text" : "Cooking one meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_game_night" ,
"text" : "A game night"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "watching_a_series_together" ,
"text" : "Watching a series together"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_weekly_walk" ,
"text" : "A weekly walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "cooking_one_meal" ,
"text" : "Cooking one meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_game_night" ,
"text" : "A game night"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "watching_a_series_together" ,
"text" : "Watching a series together"
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}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_063" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Learn something together or teach each other something?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"learning" ,
"quick_choice" ,
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"quality_time"
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] ,
"options" : [
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{
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"id" : "learn_something_together" ,
"text" : "Learn something together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "teach_each_other_something" ,
"text" : "Teach each other something"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "learn_something_together" ,
"text" : "Learn something together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "teach_each_other_something" ,
"text" : "Teach each other something"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_064" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes trying a shared hobby feel low pressure?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"hobbies" ,
"novelty" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "starting_cheaply" ,
"text" : "Starting cheaply"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "being_beginners_together" ,
"text" : "Being beginners together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_demand_to_continue" ,
"text" : "No demand to continue"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_something_easy_to_stop" ,
"text" : "Choosing something easy to stop"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "starting_cheaply" ,
"text" : "Starting cheaply"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "being_beginners_together" ,
"text" : "Being beginners together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_demand_to_continue" ,
"text" : "No demand to continue"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_something_easy_to_stop" ,
"text" : "Choosing something easy to stop"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_065" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which shared projects could be fun without taking over the house?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"projects" ,
"humor" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_small_garden_bed" ,
"text" : "A small garden bed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_puzzle" ,
"text" : "A puzzle"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_photo_album" ,
"text" : "A photo album"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "anything_with_fewer_than_seventeen_labeled_bins" ,
"text" : "Anything with fewer than seventeen labeled bins"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_small_garden_bed" ,
"text" : "A small garden bed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_puzzle" ,
"text" : "A puzzle"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_photo_album" ,
"text" : "A photo album"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "anything_with_fewer_than_seventeen_labeled_bins" ,
"text" : "Anything with fewer than seventeen labeled bins"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_066" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which activity best reveals who becomes strangely competitive?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
"games" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "cards" ,
"text" : "Cards"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "mini_golf" ,
"text" : "Mini golf"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "trivia" ,
"text" : "Trivia"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "assembling_furniture_without_instructions" ,
"text" : "Assembling furniture without instructions"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "cards" ,
"text" : "Cards"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "mini_golf" ,
"text" : "Mini golf"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "trivia" ,
"text" : "Trivia"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "assembling_furniture_without_instructions" ,
"text" : "Assembling furniture without instructions"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_067" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps different activity preferences work together?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"activities" ,
"differences" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "take_turns_choosing" ,
"text" : "Take turns choosing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "find_the_shared_part" ,
"text" : "Find the shared part"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_one_person_watch_sometimes" ,
"text" : "Let one person watch sometimes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_separate_interests_too" ,
"text" : "Keep separate interests too"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "take_turns_choosing" ,
"text" : "Take turns choosing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "find_the_shared_part" ,
"text" : "Find the shared part"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_one_person_watch_sometimes" ,
"text" : "Let one person watch sometimes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_separate_interests_too" ,
"text" : "Keep separate interests too"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
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{
"id" : "quality_time_068" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How satisfied are you with the variety in our shared activities?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
"tags" : [
"activities" ,
"current_state" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "I want more variety" ,
"max_label" : "It feels varied enough"
}
} ,
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{
"id" : "quality_time_069" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which activities can feel good even if we are not equally skilled?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"activities" ,
"fairness" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "cooking" ,
"text" : "Cooking"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "dancing_at_home" ,
"text" : "Dancing at home"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_creative_project" ,
"text" : "A creative project"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "learning_something_new" ,
"text" : "Learning something new"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "cooking" ,
"text" : "Cooking"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "dancing_at_home" ,
"text" : "Dancing at home"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_creative_project" ,
"text" : "A creative project"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "learning_something_new" ,
"text" : "Learning something new"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_070" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which project should require a written promise not to become a lifestyle?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
"projects" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_renovation" ,
"text" : "A renovation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_collecting_hobby" ,
"text" : "A collecting hobby"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_giant_puzzle" ,
"text" : "A giant puzzle"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "anything_introduced_with_this_will_be_simple" ,
"text" : "Anything introduced with this will be simple"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_renovation" ,
"text" : "A renovation"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_collecting_hobby" ,
"text" : "A collecting hobby"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_giant_puzzle" ,
"text" : "A giant puzzle"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "anything_introduced_with_this_will_be_simple" ,
"text" : "Anything introduced with this will be simple"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_071" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes a shared activity feel connecting rather than performative?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"activities" ,
"connection" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "we_both_chose_it" ,
"text" : "We both chose it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "nobody_must_be_impressive" ,
"text" : "Nobody must be impressive"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_can_talk_naturally" ,
"text" : "We can talk naturally"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_activity_leaves_room_for_laughter" ,
"text" : "The activity leaves room for laughter"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "we_both_chose_it" ,
"text" : "We both chose it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "nobody_must_be_impressive" ,
"text" : "Nobody must be impressive"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_can_talk_naturally" ,
"text" : "We can talk naturally"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_activity_leaves_room_for_laughter" ,
"text" : "The activity leaves room for laughter"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_072" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which activities are good when conversation needs a little help?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"activities" ,
"conversation" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "looking_through_old_photos" ,
"text" : "Looking through old photos"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_question_game" ,
"text" : "A question game"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_scenic_drive" ,
"text" : "A scenic drive"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "cooking_from_a_new_recipe" ,
"text" : "Cooking from a new recipe"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "looking_through_old_photos" ,
"text" : "Looking through old photos"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_question_game" ,
"text" : "A question game"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_scenic_drive" ,
"text" : "A scenic drive"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "cooking_from_a_new_recipe" ,
"text" : "Cooking from a new recipe"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_073" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "written" ,
"text" : "What is one activity we tried together that surprised you?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"activities" ,
"memory" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"max_length" : 500
}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_074" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What should happen when one person stops enjoying a shared hobby?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"hobbies" ,
"change" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "say_so_without_guilt" ,
"text" : "Say so without guilt"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "change_the_way_we_do_it" ,
"text" : "Change the way we do it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_the_other_continue_alone" ,
"text" : "Let the other continue alone"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_something_new_together" ,
"text" : "Choose something new together"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "say_so_without_guilt" ,
"text" : "Say so without guilt"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "change_the_way_we_do_it" ,
"text" : "Change the way we do it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_the_other_continue_alone" ,
"text" : "Let the other continue alone"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_something_new_together" ,
"text" : "Choose something new together"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_075" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What can turn shared activities into another source of pressure?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"activities" ,
"warning_signs" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "keeping_score" ,
"text" : "Keeping score"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "forcing_equal_enthusiasm" ,
"text" : "Forcing equal enthusiasm"
} ,
{
"id" : "spending_more_than_agreed" ,
"text" : "Spending more than agreed"
} ,
{
"id" : "treating_improvement_as_the_point" ,
"text" : "Treating improvement as the point"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "keeping_score" ,
"text" : "Keeping score"
} ,
{
"id" : "forcing_equal_enthusiasm" ,
"text" : "Forcing equal enthusiasm"
} ,
{
"id" : "spending_more_than_agreed" ,
"text" : "Spending more than agreed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "treating_improvement_as_the_point" ,
"text" : "Treating improvement as the point"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_076" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which settings make talking together feel easiest?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"conversation" ,
"setting" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "in_the_car" ,
"text" : "In the car"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "on_a_walk" ,
"text" : "On a walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "over_a_meal" ,
"text" : "Over a meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "in_bed_before_sleep" ,
"text" : "In bed before sleep"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "in_the_car" ,
"text" : "In the car"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "on_a_walk" ,
"text" : "On a walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "over_a_meal" ,
"text" : "Over a meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "in_bed_before_sleep" ,
"text" : "In bed before sleep"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_077" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which conversation pace feels best on a relaxed evening?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"conversation" ,
"preferences" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "one_long_topic" ,
"text" : "One long topic"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "several_small_topics" ,
"text" : "Several small topics"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "stories_and_jokes" ,
"text" : "Stories and jokes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "very_little_talking" ,
"text" : "Very little talking"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "one_long_topic" ,
"text" : "One long topic"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "several_small_topics" ,
"text" : "Several small topics"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "stories_and_jokes" ,
"text" : "Stories and jokes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "very_little_talking" ,
"text" : "Very little talking"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_078" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How easy is it for us to enjoy silence together?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
"tags" : [
"quiet_time" ,
"current_state" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not easy" ,
"max_label" : "Very easy"
}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_079" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Talk about the day or escape into something completely different?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"conversation" ,
"quick_choice" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "talk_about_the_day" ,
"text" : "Talk about the day"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "escape_into_something_different" ,
"text" : "Escape into something different"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "talk_about_the_day" ,
"text" : "Talk about the day"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "escape_into_something_different" ,
"text" : "Escape into something different"
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}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_080" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes quiet time feel connected instead of awkward?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"quiet_time" ,
"presence" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sitting_close" ,
"text" : "Sitting close"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "doing_compatible_activities" ,
"text" : "Doing compatible activities"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_pressure_to_fill_silence" ,
"text" : "No pressure to fill silence"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "occasional_small_comments" ,
"text" : "Occasional small comments"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "sitting_close" ,
"text" : "Sitting close"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "doing_compatible_activities" ,
"text" : "Doing compatible activities"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_pressure_to_fill_silence" ,
"text" : "No pressure to fill silence"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "occasional_small_comments" ,
"text" : "Occasional small comments"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_081" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which conversation topics are fun without needing a serious purpose?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"conversation" ,
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"fun_first" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "strange_things_we_noticed" ,
"text" : "Strange things we noticed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_we_would_do_with_a_free_week" ,
"text" : "What we would do with a free week"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "old_stories" ,
"text" : "Old stories"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "ridiculous_opinions" ,
"text" : "Ridiculous opinions"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "strange_things_we_noticed" ,
"text" : "Strange things we noticed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_we_would_do_with_a_free_week" ,
"text" : "What we would do with a free week"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "old_stories" ,
"text" : "Old stories"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "ridiculous_opinions" ,
"text" : "Ridiculous opinions"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
}
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} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_082" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which topic could carry an entire porch conversation?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
"conversation" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "neighborhood_mysteries" ,
"text" : "Neighborhood mysteries"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "foods_with_undeserved_confidence" ,
"text" : "Foods with undeserved confidence"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "our_worst_fashion_eras" ,
"text" : "Our worst fashion eras"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_completely_unnecessary_future_invention" ,
"text" : "A completely unnecessary future invention"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "neighborhood_mysteries" ,
"text" : "Neighborhood mysteries"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "foods_with_undeserved_confidence" ,
"text" : "Foods with undeserved confidence"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "our_worst_fashion_eras" ,
"text" : "Our worst fashion eras"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_completely_unnecessary_future_invention" ,
"text" : "A completely unnecessary future invention"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_083" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps a deeper conversation happen naturally during quality time?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"conversation" ,
"meaningful" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "enough_time" ,
"text" : "Enough time"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_relaxed_setting" ,
"text" : "A relaxed setting"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_honest_question" ,
"text" : "One honest question"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_demand_to_finish_the_topic" ,
"text" : "No demand to finish the topic"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "enough_time" ,
"text" : "Enough time"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_relaxed_setting" ,
"text" : "A relaxed setting"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_honest_question" ,
"text" : "One honest question"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "no_demand_to_finish_the_topic" ,
"text" : "No demand to finish the topic"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_084" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How balanced does our talking and quiet time feel?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"conversation" ,
"balance" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Out of balance" ,
"max_label" : "Very balanced"
}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_085" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which signs show that tonight should stay light?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"conversation" ,
"energy" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "one_person_is_exhausted" ,
"text" : "One person is exhausted"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "jokes_are_landing_better_than_questions" ,
"text" : "Jokes are landing better than questions"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_serious_topic_feels_forced" ,
"text" : "A serious topic feels forced"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_mostly_need_comfort" ,
"text" : "We mostly need comfort"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "one_person_is_exhausted" ,
"text" : "One person is exhausted"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "jokes_are_landing_better_than_questions" ,
"text" : "Jokes are landing better than questions"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_serious_topic_feels_forced" ,
"text" : "A serious topic feels forced"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_mostly_need_comfort" ,
"text" : "We mostly need comfort"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_086" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "What is the best response when neither of us has anything interesting to report?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
"conversation" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "invent_a_ridiculous_question" ,
"text" : "Invent a ridiculous question"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "put_on_music" ,
"text" : "Put on music"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "sit_quietly" ,
"text" : "Sit quietly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "accept_that_we_are_not_a_nightly_news_program" ,
"text" : "Accept that we are not a nightly news program"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "invent_a_ridiculous_question" ,
"text" : "Invent a ridiculous question"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "put_on_music" ,
"text" : "Put on music"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "sit_quietly" ,
"text" : "Sit quietly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "accept_that_we_are_not_a_nightly_news_program" ,
"text" : "Accept that we are not a nightly news program"
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}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_087" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "How can we keep conversation from becoming only household administration?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"conversation" ,
"logistics" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "set_logistics_aside_after_a_few_minutes" ,
"text" : "Set logistics aside after a few minutes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "ask_about_something_enjoyable" ,
"text" : "Ask about something enjoyable"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "share_a_memory" ,
"text" : "Share a memory"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "plan_one_thing_we_want" ,
"text" : "Plan one thing we want"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "set_logistics_aside_after_a_few_minutes" ,
"text" : "Set logistics aside after a few minutes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "ask_about_something_enjoyable" ,
"text" : "Ask about something enjoyable"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "share_a_memory" ,
"text" : "Share a memory"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "plan_one_thing_we_want" ,
"text" : "Plan one thing we want"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_088" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which questions tend to create a good couple conversation?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"conversation" ,
"discovery" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "what_surprised_you_today" ,
"text" : "What surprised you today?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_are_you_looking_forward_to" ,
"text" : "What are you looking forward to?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_made_you_laugh" ,
"text" : "What made you laugh?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_should_we_do_more_often" ,
"text" : "What should we do more often?"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "what_surprised_you_today" ,
"text" : "What surprised you today?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_are_you_looking_forward_to" ,
"text" : "What are you looking forward to?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_made_you_laugh" ,
"text" : "What made you laugh?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "what_should_we_do_more_often" ,
"text" : "What should we do more often?"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_089" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which topics can turn an ordinary evening into a good conversation?" ,
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"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"quiet_time" ,
"warning_signs" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "unspoken_tension" ,
"text" : "Unspoken tension"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_person_trying_to_connect_repeatedly" ,
"text" : "One person trying to connect repeatedly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "silence_being_used_as_punishment" ,
"text" : "Silence being used as punishment"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "never_returning_to_conversation" ,
"text" : "Never returning to conversation"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "unspoken_tension" ,
"text" : "Unspoken tension"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_person_trying_to_connect_repeatedly" ,
"text" : "One person trying to connect repeatedly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "silence_being_used_as_punishment" ,
"text" : "Silence being used as punishment"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "never_returning_to_conversation" ,
"text" : "Never returning to conversation"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_090" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps us tell the difference between peaceful quiet and avoidance?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"quiet_time" ,
"clarity" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "either_person_can_start_talking" ,
"text" : "Either person can start talking"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_mood_still_feels_warm" ,
"text" : "The mood still feels warm"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "important_topics_are_revisited" ,
"text" : "Important topics are revisited"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "silence_is_not_used_to_control_the_room" ,
"text" : "Silence is not used to control the room"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "either_person_can_start_talking" ,
"text" : "Either person can start talking"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_mood_still_feels_warm" ,
"text" : "The mood still feels warm"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "important_topics_are_revisited" ,
"text" : "Important topics are revisited"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "silence_is_not_used_to_control_the_room" ,
"text" : "Silence is not used to control the room"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_091" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which playful moments make time together feel most like us?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"playfulness" ,
"couple_identity" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "inside_jokes" ,
"text" : "Inside jokes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "friendly_teasing" ,
"text" : "Friendly teasing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "making_up_stories" ,
"text" : "Making up stories"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "turning_a_boring_task_into_a_game" ,
"text" : "Turning a boring task into a game"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "inside_jokes" ,
"text" : "Inside jokes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "friendly_teasing" ,
"text" : "Friendly teasing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "making_up_stories" ,
"text" : "Making up stories"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "turning_a_boring_task_into_a_game" ,
"text" : "Turning a boring task into a game"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_092" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which low-key flirting move gets your attention fastest?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"flirting" ,
"preferences" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_quiet_compliment" ,
"text" : "A quiet compliment"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_meaningful_look" ,
"text" : "A meaningful look"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_playful_message" ,
"text" : "A playful message"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "an_invitation_to_sit_closer" ,
"text" : "An invitation to sit closer"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_quiet_compliment" ,
"text" : "A quiet compliment"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_meaningful_look" ,
"text" : "A meaningful look"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_playful_message" ,
"text" : "A playful message"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "an_invitation_to_sit_closer" ,
"text" : "An invitation to sit closer"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_093" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How playful does our time together feel lately?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"playfulness" ,
"current_state" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Not very playful" ,
"max_label" : "Very playful"
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_094" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Bring back an old inside joke or create a new one?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"couple_lore" ,
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"quick_choice" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "bring_back_an_old_inside_joke" ,
"text" : "Bring back an old inside joke"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "create_a_new_one" ,
"text" : "Create a new one"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "bring_back_an_old_inside_joke" ,
"text" : "Bring back an old inside joke"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "create_a_new_one" ,
"text" : "Create a new one"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_095" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes flirting fit naturally into quality time?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"flirting" ,
"low_pressure" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "it_stays_playful" ,
"text" : "It stays playful"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_does_not_demand_a_response" ,
"text" : "It does not demand a response"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_fits_the_setting" ,
"text" : "It fits the setting"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_sounds_like_us" ,
"text" : "It sounds like us"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "it_stays_playful" ,
"text" : "It stays playful"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_does_not_demand_a_response" ,
"text" : "It does not demand a response"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_fits_the_setting" ,
"text" : "It fits the setting"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_sounds_like_us" ,
"text" : "It sounds like us"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_096" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which ordinary activities become better with a little flirting?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"flirting" ,
"daily_life" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "cooking" ,
"text" : "Cooking"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "running_errands" ,
"text" : "Running errands"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "taking_a_walk" ,
"text" : "Taking a walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "cleaning_up_together" ,
"text" : "Cleaning up together"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "cooking" ,
"text" : "Cooking"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "running_errands" ,
"text" : "Running errands"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "taking_a_walk" ,
"text" : "Taking a walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "cleaning_up_together" ,
"text" : "Cleaning up together"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_097" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which boring task has the greatest untapped romantic potential?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
"flirting" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "folding_laundry" ,
"text" : "Folding laundry"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "grocery_shopping" ,
"text" : "Grocery shopping"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "washing_dishes" ,
"text" : "Washing dishes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "waiting_for_the_internet_to_restart" ,
"text" : "Waiting for the internet to restart"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "folding_laundry" ,
"text" : "Folding laundry"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "grocery_shopping" ,
"text" : "Grocery shopping"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "washing_dishes" ,
"text" : "Washing dishes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "waiting_for_the_internet_to_restart" ,
"text" : "Waiting for the internet to restart"
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}
]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_098" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps playfulness return after a serious week?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"playfulness" ,
"reconnection" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "doing_something_familiar" ,
"text" : "Doing something familiar"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "sharing_something_funny" ,
"text" : "Sharing something funny"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "leaving_one_evening_unscheduled" ,
"text" : "Leaving one evening unscheduled"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "not_forcing_a_big_mood_change" ,
"text" : "Not forcing a big mood change"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "doing_something_familiar" ,
"text" : "Doing something familiar"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "sharing_something_funny" ,
"text" : "Sharing something funny"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "leaving_one_evening_unscheduled" ,
"text" : "Leaving one evening unscheduled"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "not_forcing_a_big_mood_change" ,
"text" : "Not forcing a big mood change"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_099" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How much would a little more flirting improve our time together?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"flirting" ,
"current_need" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not much" ,
"max_label" : "A great deal"
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_100" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which playful challenges could be fun for one evening?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"games" ,
"playfulness" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "choose_each_other_s_snack" ,
"text" : "Choose each other's snack"
} ,
{
"id" : "make_the_worst_movie_pitch" ,
"text" : "Make the worst movie pitch"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "guess_old_answers" ,
"text" : "Guess old answers"
} ,
{
"id" : "create_a_ridiculous_house_award" ,
"text" : "Create a ridiculous house award"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "choose_each_other_s_snack" ,
"text" : "Choose each other's snack"
} ,
{
"id" : "make_the_worst_movie_pitch" ,
"text" : "Make the worst movie pitch"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "guess_old_answers" ,
"text" : "Guess old answers"
} ,
{
"id" : "create_a_ridiculous_house_award" ,
"text" : "Create a ridiculous house award"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_101" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which couple competition needs the least official oversight?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
"games" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "best_snack_choice" ,
"text" : "Best snack choice"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "worst_joke" ,
"text" : "Worst joke"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "fastest_puzzle" ,
"text" : "Fastest puzzle"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "who_can_avoid_changing_the_rules" ,
"text" : "Who can avoid changing the rules"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "best_snack_choice" ,
"text" : "Best snack choice"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "worst_joke" ,
"text" : "Worst joke"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "fastest_puzzle" ,
"text" : "Fastest puzzle"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "who_can_avoid_changing_the_rules" ,
"text" : "Who can avoid changing the rules"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_102" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What makes teasing affectionate rather than irritating?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"teasing" ,
"boundaries" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "the_topic_is_safe" ,
"text" : "The topic is safe"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "both_people_laugh" ,
"text" : "Both people laugh"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_stops_immediately_when_asked" ,
"text" : "It stops immediately when asked"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_never_targets_a_real_insecurity" ,
"text" : "It never targets a real insecurity"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "the_topic_is_safe" ,
"text" : "The topic is safe"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "both_people_laugh" ,
"text" : "Both people laugh"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_stops_immediately_when_asked" ,
"text" : "It stops immediately when asked"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_never_targets_a_real_insecurity" ,
"text" : "It never targets a real insecurity"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_103" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which kinds of compliments improve shared time without changing the subject?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"appreciation" ,
"flirting" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "something_about_your_company" ,
"text" : "Something about your company"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "something_you_handled_well" ,
"text" : "Something you handled well"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "something_attractive_i_noticed" ,
"text" : "Something attractive I noticed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "something_uniquely_you" ,
"text" : "Something uniquely you"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "something_about_your_company" ,
"text" : "Something about your company"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "something_you_handled_well" ,
"text" : "Something you handled well"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "something_attractive_i_noticed" ,
"text" : "Something attractive I noticed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "something_uniquely_you" ,
"text" : "Something uniquely you"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_104" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What can make playfulness feel unsafe or one-sided?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"playfulness" ,
"boundaries" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "jokes_target_a_sore_spot" ,
"text" : "Jokes target a sore spot"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_person_must_perform" ,
"text" : "One person must perform"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "teasing_continues_after_discomfort" ,
"text" : "Teasing continues after discomfort"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "laughter_is_used_to_dismiss_a_concern" ,
"text" : "Laughter is used to dismiss a concern"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "jokes_target_a_sore_spot" ,
"text" : "Jokes target a sore spot"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_person_must_perform" ,
"text" : "One person must perform"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "teasing_continues_after_discomfort" ,
"text" : "Teasing continues after discomfort"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "laughter_is_used_to_dismiss_a_concern" ,
"text" : "Laughter is used to dismiss a concern"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_105" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "How can flirting stay welcome when one person is not in a flirty mood?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"flirting" ,
"consent" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "accept_the_response" ,
"text" : "Accept the response"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "switch_to_ordinary_warmth" ,
"text" : "Switch to ordinary warmth"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "do_not_keep_escalating" ,
"text" : "Do not keep escalating"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "try_again_another_day_without_resentment" ,
"text" : "Try again another day without resentment"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "accept_the_response" ,
"text" : "Accept the response"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "switch_to_ordinary_warmth" ,
"text" : "Switch to ordinary warmth"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "do_not_keep_escalating" ,
"text" : "Do not keep escalating"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "try_again_another_day_without_resentment" ,
"text" : "Try again another day without resentment"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_106" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes an invitation to spend time together appealing?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"invitations" ,
"planning" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "it_is_specific" ,
"text" : "It is specific"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_fits_our_energy" ,
"text" : "It fits our energy"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_sounds_genuinely_wanted" ,
"text" : "It sounds genuinely wanted"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_leaves_room_for_another_idea" ,
"text" : "It leaves room for another idea"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "it_is_specific" ,
"text" : "It is specific"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_fits_our_energy" ,
"text" : "It fits our energy"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_sounds_genuinely_wanted" ,
"text" : "It sounds genuinely wanted"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_leaves_room_for_another_idea" ,
"text" : "It leaves room for another idea"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_107" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which invitation would be easiest to accept on a normal weekday?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"invitations" ,
"preferences" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "want_to_take_a_walk" ,
"text" : "Want to take a walk?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "want_to_eat_together" ,
"text" : "Want to eat together?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "can_we_sit_outside" ,
"text" : "Can we sit outside?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "want_twenty_minutes_with_no_phones" ,
"text" : "Want twenty minutes with no phones?"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "want_to_take_a_walk" ,
"text" : "Want to take a walk?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "want_to_eat_together" ,
"text" : "Want to eat together?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "can_we_sit_outside" ,
"text" : "Can we sit outside?"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "want_twenty_minutes_with_no_phones" ,
"text" : "Want twenty minutes with no phones?"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_108" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How easy is it for us to make plans that actually happen?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"planning" ,
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"current_state" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Not easy" ,
"max_label" : "Very easy"
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_109" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Put it on the calendar or decide the day of?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"planning" ,
"quick_choice" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "put_it_on_the_calendar" ,
"text" : "Put it on the calendar"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "decide_the_day_of" ,
"text" : "Decide the day of"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "put_it_on_the_calendar" ,
"text" : "Put it on the calendar"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "decide_the_day_of" ,
"text" : "Decide the day of"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_110" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which plans benefit most from being decided ahead of time?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"planning" ,
"timing" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_longer_outing" ,
"text" : "A longer outing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "time_requiring_childcare" ,
"text" : "Time requiring childcare"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_shared_project" ,
"text" : "A shared project"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_night_protected_from_other_commitments" ,
"text" : "A night protected from other commitments"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_longer_outing" ,
"text" : "A longer outing"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "time_requiring_childcare" ,
"text" : "Time requiring childcare"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_shared_project" ,
"text" : "A shared project"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_night_protected_from_other_commitments" ,
"text" : "A night protected from other commitments"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_111" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What keeps scheduled quality time from feeling like another appointment?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"planning" ,
"intentionality" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "the_activity_still_feels_optional" ,
"text" : "The activity still feels optional"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_choose_something_enjoyable" ,
"text" : "We choose something enjoyable"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_plan_has_breathing_room" ,
"text" : "The plan has breathing room"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_do_not_overplan_every_minute" ,
"text" : "We do not overplan every minute"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "the_activity_still_feels_optional" ,
"text" : "The activity still feels optional"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_choose_something_enjoyable" ,
"text" : "We choose something enjoyable"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_plan_has_breathing_room" ,
"text" : "The plan has breathing room"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "we_do_not_overplan_every_minute" ,
"text" : "We do not overplan every minute"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_112" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Who should choose when neither of us has a useful opinion?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
"decision_making" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "take_turns" ,
"text" : "Take turns"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "flip_a_coin" ,
"text" : "Flip a coin"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "use_the_shortest_option" ,
"text" : "Use the shortest option"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_person_who_rejects_the_first_three_ideas" ,
"text" : "The person who rejects the first three ideas"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "take_turns" ,
"text" : "Take turns"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "flip_a_coin" ,
"text" : "Flip a coin"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "use_the_shortest_option" ,
"text" : "Use the shortest option"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_person_who_rejects_the_first_three_ideas" ,
"text" : "The person who rejects the first three ideas"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_113" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "How can we make invitations easier when one person fears rejection?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"invitations" ,
"reassurance" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "keep_the_invitation_low_pressure" ,
"text" : "Keep the invitation low pressure"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "offer_more_than_one_time" ,
"text" : "Offer more than one time"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "accept_no_warmly" ,
"text" : "Accept no warmly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_the_other_person_invite_next" ,
"text" : "Let the other person invite next"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "keep_the_invitation_low_pressure" ,
"text" : "Keep the invitation low pressure"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "offer_more_than_one_time" ,
"text" : "Offer more than one time"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "accept_no_warmly" ,
"text" : "Accept no warmly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_the_other_person_invite_next" ,
"text" : "Let the other person invite next"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_114" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How wanted do you feel when I invite you to spend time together?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"invitations" ,
"feeling_wanted" ,
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"quality_time"
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Not very wanted" ,
"max_label" : "Clearly wanted"
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_115" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which planning habits create unnecessary friction?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"planning" ,
"humor" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "asking_what_do_you_want_repeatedly" ,
"text" : "Asking what do you want repeatedly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "offering_ideas_nobody_likes" ,
"text" : "Offering ideas nobody likes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "waiting_until_both_people_are_hungry" ,
"text" : "Waiting until both people are hungry"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "treating_a_two_hour_plan_like_a_summit" ,
"text" : "Treating a two-hour plan like a summit"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "asking_what_do_you_want_repeatedly" ,
"text" : "Asking what do you want repeatedly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "offering_ideas_nobody_likes" ,
"text" : "Offering ideas nobody likes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "waiting_until_both_people_are_hungry" ,
"text" : "Waiting until both people are hungry"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "treating_a_two_hour_plan_like_a_summit" ,
"text" : "Treating a two-hour plan like a summit"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_116" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "What is the best backup plan when our first idea falls apart?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"planning" ,
"flexibility" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "stay_home_intentionally" ,
"text" : "Stay home intentionally"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "pick_the_easiest_alternative" ,
"text" : "Pick the easiest alternative"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "reschedule_without_drama" ,
"text" : "Reschedule without drama"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_food_and_reassess" ,
"text" : "Choose food and reassess"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "stay_home_intentionally" ,
"text" : "Stay home intentionally"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "pick_the_easiest_alternative" ,
"text" : "Pick the easiest alternative"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "reschedule_without_drama" ,
"text" : "Reschedule without drama"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_food_and_reassess" ,
"text" : "Choose food and reassess"
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}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_117" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps shared plans feel fair when our preferences differ?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"planning" ,
"fairness" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "alternate_choices" ,
"text" : "Alternate choices"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "find_the_part_both_enjoy" ,
"text" : "Find the part both enjoy"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_some_plans_separate" ,
"text" : "Keep some plans separate"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "notice_who_has_compromised_recently" ,
"text" : "Notice who has compromised recently"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "alternate_choices" ,
"text" : "Alternate choices"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "find_the_part_both_enjoy" ,
"text" : "Find the part both enjoy"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_some_plans_separate" ,
"text" : "Keep some plans separate"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "notice_who_has_compromised_recently" ,
"text" : "Notice who has compromised recently"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_118" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which invitations can create connection without requiring a whole evening?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"invitations" ,
"low_energy" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_short_walk" ,
"text" : "A short walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "coffee_together" ,
"text" : "Coffee together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_episode" ,
"text" : "One episode"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_drive_with_no_errands" ,
"text" : "A drive with no errands"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_short_walk" ,
"text" : "A short walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "coffee_together" ,
"text" : "Coffee together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_episode" ,
"text" : "One episode"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_drive_with_no_errands" ,
"text" : "A drive with no errands"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_119" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What can make repeated declined invitations feel difficult?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"invitations" ,
"disconnection" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "no_alternative_is_suggested" ,
"text" : "No alternative is suggested"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_reason_is_never_discussed" ,
"text" : "The reason is never discussed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_person_stops_asking" ,
"text" : "One person stops asking"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_rejection_becomes_a_running_joke" ,
"text" : "The rejection becomes a running joke"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "no_alternative_is_suggested" ,
"text" : "No alternative is suggested"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_reason_is_never_discussed" ,
"text" : "The reason is never discussed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_person_stops_asking" ,
"text" : "One person stops asking"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_rejection_becomes_a_running_joke" ,
"text" : "The rejection becomes a running joke"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_120" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What would help us repair a pattern where one person plans everything?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"planning" ,
"fairness" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "name_the_imbalance" ,
"text" : "Name the imbalance"
} ,
{
"id" : "share_a_short_list_of_ideas" ,
"text" : "Share a short list of ideas"
} ,
{
"id" : "take_turns_initiating" ,
"text" : "Take turns initiating"
} ,
{
"id" : "value_simple_plans_as_real_effort" ,
"text" : "Value simple plans as real effort"
}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "name_the_imbalance" ,
"text" : "Name the imbalance"
} ,
{
"id" : "share_a_short_list_of_ideas" ,
"text" : "Share a short list of ideas"
} ,
{
"id" : "take_turns_initiating" ,
"text" : "Take turns initiating"
} ,
{
"id" : "value_simple_plans_as_real_effort" ,
"text" : "Value simple plans as real effort"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_121" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which parts of our history are most fun to revisit?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"couple_lore" ,
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"memory" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "how_we_first_met" ,
"text" : "How we first met"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "early_misunderstandings" ,
"text" : "Early misunderstandings"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "trips_that_went_sideways" ,
"text" : "Trips that went sideways"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "small_moments_nobody_else_remembers" ,
"text" : "Small moments nobody else remembers"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "how_we_first_met" ,
"text" : "How we first met"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "early_misunderstandings" ,
"text" : "Early misunderstandings"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "trips_that_went_sideways" ,
"text" : "Trips that went sideways"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "small_moments_nobody_else_remembers" ,
"text" : "Small moments nobody else remembers"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_122" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which memory category deserves its own unofficial archive?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"couple_lore" ,
"preferences" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "funny_mistakes" ,
"text" : "Funny mistakes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "favorite_trips" ,
"text" : "Favorite trips"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "ordinary_good_days" ,
"text" : "Ordinary good days"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "messages_we_still_quote" ,
"text" : "Messages we still quote"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "funny_mistakes" ,
"text" : "Funny mistakes"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "favorite_trips" ,
"text" : "Favorite trips"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "ordinary_good_days" ,
"text" : "Ordinary good days"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "messages_we_still_quote" ,
"text" : "Messages we still quote"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_123" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How connected do you feel to the story we have built together?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"couple_lore" ,
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"current_state" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Not very connected" ,
"max_label" : "Deeply connected"
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_124" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Recreate an old favorite day or invent a new tradition?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"traditions" ,
"quick_choice" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "recreate_an_old_favorite_day" ,
"text" : "Recreate an old favorite day"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "invent_a_new_tradition" ,
"text" : "Invent a new tradition"
}
] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
"id" : "recreate_an_old_favorite_day" ,
"text" : "Recreate an old favorite day"
} ,
{
"id" : "invent_a_new_tradition" ,
"text" : "Invent a new tradition"
}
]
}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_125" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What makes a tradition feel like ours?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
"tags" : [
"traditions" ,
"identity" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
"id" : "a_detail_only_we_care_about" ,
"text" : "A detail only we care about"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_began_naturally" ,
"text" : "It began naturally"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "both_people_enjoy_it" ,
"text" : "Both people enjoy it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_carries_a_story" ,
"text" : "It carries a story"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_detail_only_we_care_about" ,
"text" : "A detail only we care about"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_began_naturally" ,
"text" : "It began naturally"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "both_people_enjoy_it" ,
"text" : "Both people enjoy it"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_carries_a_story" ,
"text" : "It carries a story"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_126" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which traditions could be small enough to keep for years?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"traditions" ,
"sustainability" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "an_annual_meal" ,
"text" : "An annual meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_seasonal_walk" ,
"text" : "A seasonal walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_monthly_breakfast" ,
"text" : "A monthly breakfast"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_private_celebration_of_a_small_date" ,
"text" : "A private celebration of a small date"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "an_annual_meal" ,
"text" : "An annual meal"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_seasonal_walk" ,
"text" : "A seasonal walk"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_monthly_breakfast" ,
"text" : "A monthly breakfast"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_private_celebration_of_a_small_date" ,
"text" : "A private celebration of a small date"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_127" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which piece of couple history becomes funnier every year?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
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"couple_lore" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_terrible_first_impression" ,
"text" : "A terrible first impression"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_travel_disaster" ,
"text" : "A travel disaster"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_failed_project" ,
"text" : "A failed project"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_argument_neither_person_can_now_explain" ,
"text" : "The argument neither person can now explain"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_terrible_first_impression" ,
"text" : "A terrible first impression"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_travel_disaster" ,
"text" : "A travel disaster"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_failed_project" ,
"text" : "A failed project"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_argument_neither_person_can_now_explain" ,
"text" : "The argument neither person can now explain"
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}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_128" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps old memories create connection instead of comparison?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"memory" ,
"long_term" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "enjoy_them_without_demanding_life_feel_the_same" ,
"text" : "Enjoy them without demanding life feel the same"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "notice_what_has_improved" ,
"text" : "Notice what has improved"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_each_person_remember_differently" ,
"text" : "Let each person remember differently"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "use_them_as_inspiration_not_a_standard" ,
"text" : "Use them as inspiration, not a standard"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "enjoy_them_without_demanding_life_feel_the_same" ,
"text" : "Enjoy them without demanding life feel the same"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "notice_what_has_improved" ,
"text" : "Notice what has improved"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_each_person_remember_differently" ,
"text" : "Let each person remember differently"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "use_them_as_inspiration_not_a_standard" ,
"text" : "Use them as inspiration, not a standard"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_129" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How much do shared traditions matter to your idea of us?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"traditions" ,
"meaning" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not much" ,
"max_label" : "A great deal"
}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_130" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which objects can turn into good quality-time conversation?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
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"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"memory" ,
"conversation" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "old_photos" ,
"text" : "Old photos"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_saved_ticket" ,
"text" : "A saved ticket"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_familiar_recipe" ,
"text" : "A familiar recipe"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "something_from_our_first_home" ,
"text" : "Something from our first home"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "old_photos" ,
"text" : "Old photos"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_saved_ticket" ,
"text" : "A saved ticket"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_familiar_recipe" ,
"text" : "A familiar recipe"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "something_from_our_first_home" ,
"text" : "Something from our first home"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_131" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which tradition should be allowed to retire without an investigation?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
"traditions" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "the_one_everyone_dreads" ,
"text" : "The one everyone dreads"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_one_requiring_three_days_of_work" ,
"text" : "The one requiring three days of work"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_one_kept_only_from_guilt" ,
"text" : "The one kept only from guilt"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_one_nobody_remembers_starting" ,
"text" : "The one nobody remembers starting"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "the_one_everyone_dreads" ,
"text" : "The one everyone dreads"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_one_requiring_three_days_of_work" ,
"text" : "The one requiring three days of work"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_one_kept_only_from_guilt" ,
"text" : "The one kept only from guilt"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "the_one_nobody_remembers_starting" ,
"text" : "The one nobody remembers starting"
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}
]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_132" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What could make a new tradition feel natural?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"traditions" ,
"low_pressure" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "it_grows_from_something_we_already_enjoy" ,
"text" : "It grows from something we already enjoy"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_fits_our_schedule" ,
"text" : "It fits our schedule"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_can_change" ,
"text" : "It can change"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "missing_it_once_is_not_a_crisis" ,
"text" : "Missing it once is not a crisis"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "it_grows_from_something_we_already_enjoy" ,
"text" : "It grows from something we already enjoy"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_fits_our_schedule" ,
"text" : "It fits our schedule"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "it_can_change" ,
"text" : "It can change"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "missing_it_once_is_not_a_crisis" ,
"text" : "Missing it once is not a crisis"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_133" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which stories would you want us to keep telling?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"couple_lore" ,
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"legacy" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "how_we_handled_a_hard_year" ,
"text" : "How we handled a hard year"
} ,
{
"id" : "something_ridiculous_we_did" ,
"text" : "Something ridiculous we did"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_risk_that_worked_out" ,
"text" : "A risk that worked out"
} ,
{
"id" : "an_ordinary_moment_that_became_important" ,
"text" : "An ordinary moment that became important"
}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
"id" : "how_we_handled_a_hard_year" ,
"text" : "How we handled a hard year"
} ,
{
"id" : "something_ridiculous_we_did" ,
"text" : "Something ridiculous we did"
} ,
{
"id" : "a_risk_that_worked_out" ,
"text" : "A risk that worked out"
} ,
{
"id" : "an_ordinary_moment_that_became_important" ,
"text" : "An ordinary moment that became important"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_134" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which declined-invitation patterns can quietly create distance?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"memory" ,
"grief" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "using_the_past_to_criticize_the_present" ,
"text" : "Using the past to criticize the present"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "ignoring_what_has_changed" ,
"text" : "Ignoring what has changed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_person_feeling_pressured_to_perform_an_old_version" ,
"text" : "One person feeling pressured to perform an old version"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "only_remembering_what_was_lost" ,
"text" : "Only remembering what was lost"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "using_the_past_to_criticize_the_present" ,
"text" : "Using the past to criticize the present"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "ignoring_what_has_changed" ,
"text" : "Ignoring what has changed"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "one_person_feeling_pressured_to_perform_an_old_version" ,
"text" : "One person feeling pressured to perform an old version"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "only_remembering_what_was_lost" ,
"text" : "Only remembering what was lost"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_135" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "How can our traditions leave room for who we are becoming?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"traditions" ,
"change" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
"id" : "keep_the_meaning_and_change_the_details" ,
"text" : "Keep the meaning and change the details"
} ,
{
"id" : "retire_what_no_longer_fits" ,
"text" : "Retire what no longer fits"
} ,
{
"id" : "let_both_people_suggest_updates" ,
"text" : "Let both people suggest updates"
} ,
{
"id" : "create_new_traditions_without_replacing_every_old_one" ,
"text" : "Create new traditions without replacing every old one"
}
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
"id" : "keep_the_meaning_and_change_the_details" ,
"text" : "Keep the meaning and change the details"
} ,
{
"id" : "retire_what_no_longer_fits" ,
"text" : "Retire what no longer fits"
} ,
{
"id" : "let_both_people_suggest_updates" ,
"text" : "Let both people suggest updates"
} ,
{
"id" : "create_new_traditions_without_replacing_every_old_one" ,
"text" : "Create new traditions without replacing every old one"
}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
}
} ,
{
"id" : "quality_time_136" ,
"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "Which quality-time plans work well when mobility or pain is a factor?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"accessibility" ,
"comfort" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_comfortable_meal_at_home" ,
"text" : "A comfortable meal at home"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_scenic_drive" ,
"text" : "A scenic drive"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_seated_activity" ,
"text" : "A seated activity"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_short_outing_with_an_easy_exit" ,
"text" : "A short outing with an easy exit"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_comfortable_meal_at_home" ,
"text" : "A comfortable meal at home"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_scenic_drive" ,
"text" : "A scenic drive"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_seated_activity" ,
"text" : "A seated activity"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_short_outing_with_an_easy_exit" ,
"text" : "A short outing with an easy exit"
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}
] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_137" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which plan is easiest when social energy is low?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"social_energy" ,
"preferences" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "stay_home_together" ,
"text" : "Stay home together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "go_somewhere_quiet" ,
"text" : "Go somewhere quiet"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "see_one_trusted_person" ,
"text" : "See one trusted person"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_separate_plans_and_reconnect_later" ,
"text" : "Keep separate plans and reconnect later"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "stay_home_together" ,
"text" : "Stay home together"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "go_somewhere_quiet" ,
"text" : "Go somewhere quiet"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "see_one_trusted_person" ,
"text" : "See one trusted person"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_separate_plans_and_reconnect_later" ,
"text" : "Keep separate plans and reconnect later"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_138" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
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"text" : "How well do our plans respect each person's energy and comfort?" ,
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"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"accessibility" ,
"current_state" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
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"min_label" : "Not well enough" ,
"max_label" : "Very well"
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_139" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "this_or_that" ,
"text" : "Choose the more accessible plan or adapt the original idea?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"accessibility" ,
"quick_choice" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "choose_the_more_accessible_plan" ,
"text" : "Choose the more accessible plan"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "adapt_the_original_idea" ,
"text" : "Adapt the original idea"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "choose_the_more_accessible_plan" ,
"text" : "Choose the more accessible plan"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "adapt_the_original_idea" ,
"text" : "Adapt the original idea"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_140" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What helps an outing feel accessible without becoming a medical operation?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"accessibility" ,
"planning" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "know_where_we_can_sit" ,
"text" : "Know where we can sit"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_the_schedule_loose" ,
"text" : "Keep the schedule loose"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "plan_an_easy_exit" ,
"text" : "Plan an easy exit"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "bring_only_what_actually_helps" ,
"text" : "Bring only what actually helps"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "know_where_we_can_sit" ,
"text" : "Know where we can sit"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_the_schedule_loose" ,
"text" : "Keep the schedule loose"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "plan_an_easy_exit" ,
"text" : "Plan an easy exit"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "bring_only_what_actually_helps" ,
"text" : "Bring only what actually helps"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_141" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which shared-time options work when one person needs sensory calm?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"sensory" ,
"accessibility" ,
"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_quiet_room" ,
"text" : "A quiet room"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "low_volume_music" ,
"text" : "Low-volume music"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_familiar_activity" ,
"text" : "A familiar activity"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "time_together_without_conversation" ,
"text" : "Time together without conversation"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_quiet_room" ,
"text" : "A quiet room"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "low_volume_music" ,
"text" : "Low-volume music"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_familiar_activity" ,
"text" : "A familiar activity"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "time_together_without_conversation" ,
"text" : "Time together without conversation"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_142" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which preparation earns the biggest return on a comfortable outing?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"humor" ,
"accessibility" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "checking_the_seating" ,
"text" : "Checking the seating"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "bringing_water" ,
"text" : "Bringing water"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "avoiding_the_busiest_hour" ,
"text" : "Avoiding the busiest hour"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "knowing_where_the_nearest_acceptable_bathroom_is" ,
"text" : "Knowing where the nearest acceptable bathroom is"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "checking_the_seating" ,
"text" : "Checking the seating"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "bringing_water" ,
"text" : "Bringing water"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "avoiding_the_busiest_hour" ,
"text" : "Avoiding the busiest hour"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "knowing_where_the_nearest_acceptable_bathroom_is" ,
"text" : "Knowing where the nearest acceptable bathroom is"
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}
]
}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_143" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "How can we handle different social batteries respectfully?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"social_energy" ,
"differences" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "agree_on_an_exit_time" ,
"text" : "Agree on an exit time"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_one_person_leave_earlier" ,
"text" : "Let one person leave earlier"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_smaller_gatherings" ,
"text" : "Choose smaller gatherings"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "do_not_shame_the_need_for_recovery" ,
"text" : "Do not shame the need for recovery"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "agree_on_an_exit_time" ,
"text" : "Agree on an exit time"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_one_person_leave_earlier" ,
"text" : "Let one person leave earlier"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_smaller_gatherings" ,
"text" : "Choose smaller gatherings"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "do_not_shame_the_need_for_recovery" ,
"text" : "Do not shame the need for recovery"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_144" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "scale" ,
"text" : "How hopeful do you feel about making more good time for us?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
"future" ,
"hope" ,
"quality_time"
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] ,
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"answer_config" : {
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"min" : 1 ,
"max" : 5 ,
"min_label" : "Not hopeful yet" ,
"max_label" : "Very hopeful"
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_145" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which future changes could improve our quality time?" ,
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"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"future" ,
"small_changes" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_simpler_schedule" ,
"text" : "A simpler schedule"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "more_shared_routines" ,
"text" : "More shared routines"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "better_boundaries_around_work" ,
"text" : "Better boundaries around work"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_habit_of_inviting_each_other" ,
"text" : "A habit of inviting each other"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "a_simpler_schedule" ,
"text" : "A simpler schedule"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "more_shared_routines" ,
"text" : "More shared routines"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "better_boundaries_around_work" ,
"text" : "Better boundaries around work"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "a_habit_of_inviting_each_other" ,
"text" : "A habit of inviting each other"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_146" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "single_choice" ,
"text" : "Which future-us plan sounds most believable?" ,
"depth" : 1 ,
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"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"future" ,
"humor" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "still_taking_walks" ,
"text" : "Still taking walks"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "still_sharing_snacks" ,
"text" : "Still sharing snacks"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "still_arguing_about_what_to_watch" ,
"text" : "Still arguing about what to watch"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "still_protecting_one_quiet_hour" ,
"text" : "Still protecting one quiet hour"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "still_taking_walks" ,
"text" : "Still taking walks"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "still_sharing_snacks" ,
"text" : "Still sharing snacks"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "still_arguing_about_what_to_watch" ,
"text" : "Still arguing about what to watch"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "still_protecting_one_quiet_hour" ,
"text" : "Still protecting one quiet hour"
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}
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]
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_147" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
"text" : "What helps plans adapt when health or energy changes long term?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"accessibility" ,
"change" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "focus_on_the_purpose_not_the_exact_activity" ,
"text" : "Focus on the purpose, not the exact activity"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_comfort_lead" ,
"text" : "Let comfort lead"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_several_easy_options" ,
"text" : "Keep several easy options"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "review_what_still_feels_enjoyable" ,
"text" : "Review what still feels enjoyable"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "focus_on_the_purpose_not_the_exact_activity" ,
"text" : "Focus on the purpose, not the exact activity"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_comfort_lead" ,
"text" : "Let comfort lead"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "keep_several_easy_options" ,
"text" : "Keep several easy options"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "review_what_still_feels_enjoyable" ,
"text" : "Review what still feels enjoyable"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_148" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "Which signs show our quality time is healthy?" ,
"depth" : 2 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"wellbeing" ,
"quality_time" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "both_people_initiate" ,
"text" : "Both people initiate"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "plans_fit_real_life" ,
"text" : "Plans fit real life"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "separate_time_is_also_respected" ,
"text" : "Separate time is also respected"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "being_together_usually_restores_more_than_it_drains" ,
"text" : "Being together usually restores more than it drains"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "both_people_initiate" ,
"text" : "Both people initiate"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "plans_fit_real_life" ,
"text" : "Plans fit real life"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "separate_time_is_also_respected" ,
"text" : "Separate time is also respected"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "being_together_usually_restores_more_than_it_drains" ,
"text" : "Being together usually restores more than it drains"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_149" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What can make accessibility needs feel invisible during planning?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"accessibility" ,
"warning_signs" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
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"options" : [
{
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"id" : "assuming_the_old_plan_still_works" ,
"text" : "Assuming the old plan still works"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "treating_adjustments_as_inconvenience" ,
"text" : "Treating adjustments as inconvenience"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "expecting_one_person_to_explain_repeatedly" ,
"text" : "Expecting one person to explain repeatedly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_appearance_over_comfort" ,
"text" : "Choosing appearance over comfort"
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}
] ,
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"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "assuming_the_old_plan_still_works" ,
"text" : "Assuming the old plan still works"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "treating_adjustments_as_inconvenience" ,
"text" : "Treating adjustments as inconvenience"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "expecting_one_person_to_explain_repeatedly" ,
"text" : "Expecting one person to explain repeatedly"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choosing_appearance_over_comfort" ,
"text" : "Choosing appearance over comfort"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
} ,
{
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"id" : "quality_time_150" ,
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"category_id" : "quality_time" ,
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"type" : "multi_choice" ,
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"text" : "What would make quality time remain meaningful as our lives change?" ,
"depth" : 3 ,
"access" : "premium" ,
"sex" : "neutral" ,
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"tags" : [
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"future" ,
"long_term" ,
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"quality_time"
] ,
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "keep_learning_what_each_person_enjoys" ,
"text" : "Keep learning what each person enjoys"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "protect_simple_connection" ,
"text" : "Protect simple connection"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_traditions_evolve" ,
"text" : "Let traditions evolve"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_each_other_without_making_time_together_compulsory" ,
"text" : "Choose each other without making time together compulsory"
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}
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] ,
"answer_config" : {
"options" : [
{
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"id" : "keep_learning_what_each_person_enjoys" ,
"text" : "Keep learning what each person enjoys"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "protect_simple_connection" ,
"text" : "Protect simple connection"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "let_traditions_evolve" ,
"text" : "Let traditions evolve"
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} ,
{
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"id" : "choose_each_other_without_making_time_together_compulsory" ,
"text" : "Choose each other without making time together compulsory"
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}
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] ,
"min_selections" : 1 ,
"max_selections" : 3
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}
}
]
}