Closer/seed/questions/quality_time.json

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{
"category": {
"id": "quality_time",
"display_name": "Quality Time",
"description": "Warm, playful questions about how couples spend time together through ordinary routines, quiet company, shared activities, attention, conversation, flirting, realistic invitations, traditions, and accessible plans.",
"access": "mixed",
"icon_name": "schedule_heart",
"schema_version": "question_v2",
"metadata": {
"total_questions": 150,
"free_questions": 45,
"premium_questions": 105,
"type_counts": {
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"single_choice": 30,
"scale": 15,
"this_or_that": 10,
"written": 5
},
"depth_counts": {
"1": 90,
"2": 45,
"3": 15
},
"depth_percentages": {
"light": 60.0,
"medium": 30.0,
"deep": 10.0
},
"content_version": "quality_time_150_final_v14",
"rewrite_reason": "Rebuilt as a complete 150-question production pack with a clearer boundary around how couples spend time together. The pack avoids duplicating emotional vulnerability, date-specific planning, physical affection preferences, or household task management.",
"related_pack_boundary": "Quality Time owns the shape of shared time: routines, presence, shared activities, quiet company, conversation settings, playfulness, invitations, traditions, low-energy connection, and accessible plans. Specific date ideas belong in date_night. Emotional vulnerability and feeling deeply known belong in emotional_intimacy. Touch preferences belong in physical_intimacy. General fun prompts without a together-time focus belong in fun.",
"safety_boundary": "Time together must not be framed as proof of love, an obligation, or a reason to remove healthy alone time. Either person may decline, shorten, adapt, or reschedule a plan without punishment.",
"coverage_sections": [
"at_home_time",
"routines_transitions",
"attention_presence",
"low_energy_busy_life",
"shared_activities",
"conversation_quiet",
"play_flirting",
"invitations_planning",
"couple_lore_traditions",
"accessibility_social_energy_future"
],
"review_workflow": "Six 25-question production batches and three 50-question checkpoints with schema, option-fit, voice, repetition, access, depth, accessibility, and related-pack boundary checks.",
"final_validation": "pass",
"batch_review": [
{
"batch": 1,
"first_id": "quality_time_001",
"last_id": "quality_time_025",
"count": 25,
"status": "PASS"
},
{
"batch": 2,
"first_id": "quality_time_026",
"last_id": "quality_time_050",
"count": 25,
"status": "PASS"
},
{
"batch": 3,
"first_id": "quality_time_051",
"last_id": "quality_time_075",
"count": 25,
"status": "PASS"
},
{
"batch": 4,
"first_id": "quality_time_076",
"last_id": "quality_time_100",
"count": 25,
"status": "PASS"
},
{
"batch": 5,
"first_id": "quality_time_101",
"last_id": "quality_time_125",
"count": 25,
"status": "PASS"
},
{
"batch": 6,
"first_id": "quality_time_126",
"last_id": "quality_time_150",
"count": 25,
"status": "PASS"
}
],
"fifty_question_checkpoints": [
{
"checkpoint": 1,
"first_id": "quality_time_001",
"last_id": "quality_time_050",
"count": 50,
"status": "PASS"
},
{
"checkpoint": 2,
"first_id": "quality_time_051",
"last_id": "quality_time_100",
"count": 50,
"status": "PASS"
},
{
"checkpoint": 3,
"first_id": "quality_time_101",
"last_id": "quality_time_150",
"count": 50,
"status": "PASS"
}
],
"final_editorial_patches": 3,
"final_review": "Final editorial and production pass completed. Tightened three prompts for clarity and stronger category boundaries, then revalidated schema, counts, depth balance, option fit, option mirroring, voice, repetition, accessibility, cross-pack uniqueness, six 25-question batches, and three 50-question checkpoints."
}
},
"questions": [
{
"id": "quality_time_001",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes staying home together feel intentional instead of automatic?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"home_time",
"intentionality",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "choosing_what_we_will_do",
"text": "Choosing what we will do"
},
{
"id": "changing_the_usual_setup",
"text": "Changing the usual setup"
},
{
"id": "putting_distracting_tasks_away",
"text": "Putting distracting tasks away"
},
{
"id": "adding_one_small_treat",
"text": "Adding one small treat"
}
],
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"id": "choosing_what_we_will_do",
"text": "Choosing what we will do"
},
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"text": "Changing the usual setup"
},
{
"id": "putting_distracting_tasks_away",
"text": "Putting distracting tasks away"
},
{
"id": "adding_one_small_treat",
"text": "Adding one small treat"
}
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_002",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which low-effort evening sounds best tonight?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"home_time",
"low_energy",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_show_and_a_snack",
"text": "A show and a snack"
},
{
"id": "music_while_we_do_separate_things",
"text": "Music while we do separate things"
},
{
"id": "a_card_game",
"text": "A card game"
},
{
"id": "talking_on_the_porch",
"text": "Talking on the porch"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_show_and_a_snack",
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},
{
"id": "music_while_we_do_separate_things",
"text": "Music while we do separate things"
},
{
"id": "a_card_game",
"text": "A card game"
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{
"id": "talking_on_the_porch",
"text": "Talking on the porch"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_003",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "One shared activity or separate hobbies in the same room?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"home_time",
"quick_choice",
"quality_time"
],
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"id": "one_shared_activity",
"text": "One shared activity"
},
{
"id": "separate_hobbies_in_the_same_room",
"text": "Separate hobbies in the same room"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "one_shared_activity",
"text": "One shared activity"
},
{
"id": "separate_hobbies_in_the_same_room",
"text": "Separate hobbies in the same room"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_004",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which details can make an ordinary night feel more like ours?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"home_time",
"couple_identity",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_favorite_meal",
"text": "A favorite meal"
},
{
"id": "a_familiar_playlist",
"text": "A familiar playlist"
},
{
"id": "one_phone_free_hour",
"text": "One phone-free hour"
},
{
"id": "an_inside_joke_returning",
"text": "An inside joke returning"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_favorite_meal",
"text": "A favorite meal"
},
{
"id": "a_familiar_playlist",
"text": "A familiar playlist"
},
{
"id": "one_phone_free_hour",
"text": "One phone-free hour"
},
{
"id": "an_inside_joke_returning",
"text": "An inside joke returning"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_005",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What could make the couch feel like a plan instead of a default?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"home_time",
"humor",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "picking_the_show_before_sitting_down",
"text": "Picking the show before sitting down"
},
{
"id": "bringing_the_good_snacks",
"text": "Bringing the good snacks"
},
{
"id": "using_the_blanket_without_starting_a_border_dispute",
"text": "Using the blanket without starting a border dispute"
},
{
"id": "choosing_an_actual_start_time",
"text": "Choosing an actual start time"
}
],
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{
"id": "picking_the_show_before_sitting_down",
"text": "Picking the show before sitting down"
},
{
"id": "bringing_the_good_snacks",
"text": "Bringing the good snacks"
},
{
"id": "using_the_blanket_without_starting_a_border_dispute",
"text": "Using the blanket without starting a border dispute"
},
{
"id": "choosing_an_actual_start_time",
"text": "Choosing an actual start time"
}
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_006",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which home activity has the best fun-to-effort ratio?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"home_time",
"preferences",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "cooking_something_easy",
"text": "Cooking something easy"
},
{
"id": "watching_a_movie",
"text": "Watching a movie"
},
{
"id": "playing_a_simple_game",
"text": "Playing a simple game"
},
{
"id": "listening_to_music",
"text": "Listening to music"
}
],
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"id": "cooking_something_easy",
"text": "Cooking something easy"
},
{
"id": "watching_a_movie",
"text": "Watching a movie"
},
{
"id": "playing_a_simple_game",
"text": "Playing a simple game"
},
{
"id": "listening_to_music",
"text": "Listening to music"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_007",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which at-home moments are easiest to look forward to?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"home_time",
"anticipation",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "breakfast_together",
"text": "Breakfast together"
},
{
"id": "a_quiet_evening",
"text": "A quiet evening"
},
{
"id": "a_lazy_weekend_morning",
"text": "A lazy weekend morning"
},
{
"id": "a_small_project_we_both_enjoy",
"text": "A small project we both enjoy"
}
],
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{
"id": "breakfast_together",
"text": "Breakfast together"
},
{
"id": "a_quiet_evening",
"text": "A quiet evening"
},
{
"id": "a_lazy_weekend_morning",
"text": "A lazy weekend morning"
},
{
"id": "a_small_project_we_both_enjoy",
"text": "A small project we both enjoy"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_008",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How enjoyable does our time at home feel lately?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"home_time",
"current_state",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Mostly routine",
"max_label": "Genuinely enjoyable"
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_009",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a shared meal count as quality time?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"meals",
"presence",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "sitting_down_together",
"text": "Sitting down together"
},
{
"id": "not_rushing",
"text": "Not rushing"
},
{
"id": "talking_about_more_than_logistics",
"text": "Talking about more than logistics"
},
{
"id": "choosing_food_we_both_like",
"text": "Choosing food we both like"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
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"id": "sitting_down_together",
"text": "Sitting down together"
},
{
"id": "not_rushing",
"text": "Not rushing"
},
{
"id": "talking_about_more_than_logistics",
"text": "Talking about more than logistics"
},
{
"id": "choosing_food_we_both_like",
"text": "Choosing food we both like"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_010",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which kitchen role sounds most like you during shared time?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"meals",
"humor",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "cooking",
"text": "Cooking"
},
{
"id": "helping",
"text": "Helping"
},
{
"id": "choosing_the_music",
"text": "Choosing the music"
},
{
"id": "providing_commentary_and_quality_control",
"text": "Providing commentary and quality control"
}
],
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{
"id": "cooking",
"text": "Cooking"
},
{
"id": "helping",
"text": "Helping"
},
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"id": "choosing_the_music",
"text": "Choosing the music"
},
{
"id": "providing_commentary_and_quality_control",
"text": "Providing commentary and quality control"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_011",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps an at-home plan survive a tiring day?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"home_time",
"low_energy",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "keeping_it_short",
"text": "Keeping it short"
},
{
"id": "letting_the_tired_person_choose",
"text": "Letting the tired person choose"
},
{
"id": "dropping_unnecessary_preparation",
"text": "Dropping unnecessary preparation"
},
{
"id": "counting_quiet_company_as_enough",
"text": "Counting quiet company as enough"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "keeping_it_short",
"text": "Keeping it short"
},
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"id": "letting_the_tired_person_choose",
"text": "Letting the tired person choose"
},
{
"id": "dropping_unnecessary_preparation",
"text": "Dropping unnecessary preparation"
},
{
"id": "counting_quiet_company_as_enough",
"text": "Counting quiet company as enough"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_012",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which small changes could refresh a familiar evening?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"home_time",
"novelty",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "eat_somewhere_different",
"text": "Eat somewhere different"
},
{
"id": "try_a_new_game",
"text": "Try a new game"
},
{
"id": "choose_a_theme",
"text": "Choose a theme"
},
{
"id": "take_the_activity_outside",
"text": "Take the activity outside"
}
],
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"id": "eat_somewhere_different",
"text": "Eat somewhere different"
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"text": "Try a new game"
},
{
"id": "choose_a_theme",
"text": "Choose a theme"
},
{
"id": "take_the_activity_outside",
"text": "Take the activity outside"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_013",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one ordinary night together you remember being unexpectedly good?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"home_time",
"memory",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_014",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should stay optional during a night at home together?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"home_time",
"autonomy",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "talking_the_whole_time",
"text": "Talking the whole time"
},
{
"id": "doing_the_same_activity",
"text": "Doing the same activity"
},
{
"id": "staying_up_late",
"text": "Staying up late"
},
{
"id": "turning_the_night_into_something_special",
"text": "Turning the night into something special"
}
],
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{
"id": "talking_the_whole_time",
"text": "Talking the whole time"
},
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"id": "doing_the_same_activity",
"text": "Doing the same activity"
},
{
"id": "staying_up_late",
"text": "Staying up late"
},
{
"id": "turning_the_night_into_something_special",
"text": "Turning the night into something special"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_015",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which patterns can make being home together feel lonely?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"home_time",
"warning_signs",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "never_looking_up_from_separate_screens",
"text": "Never looking up from separate screens"
},
{
"id": "only_discussing_tasks",
"text": "Only discussing tasks"
},
{
"id": "one_person_choosing_everything",
"text": "One person choosing everything"
},
{
"id": "being_together_only_because_plans_fell_through",
"text": "Being together only because plans fell through"
}
],
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{
"id": "never_looking_up_from_separate_screens",
"text": "Never looking up from separate screens"
},
{
"id": "only_discussing_tasks",
"text": "Only discussing tasks"
},
{
"id": "one_person_choosing_everything",
"text": "One person choosing everything"
},
{
"id": "being_together_only_because_plans_fell_through",
"text": "Being together only because plans fell through"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_016",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which daily transitions could become good time for us?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"routines",
"transitions",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_first_minutes_after_work",
"text": "The first minutes after work"
},
{
"id": "the_drive_home",
"text": "The drive home"
},
{
"id": "the_pause_before_dinner",
"text": "The pause before dinner"
},
{
"id": "the_last_few_minutes_before_sleep",
"text": "The last few minutes before sleep"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "the_first_minutes_after_work",
"text": "The first minutes after work"
},
{
"id": "the_drive_home",
"text": "The drive home"
},
{
"id": "the_pause_before_dinner",
"text": "The pause before dinner"
},
{
"id": "the_last_few_minutes_before_sleep",
"text": "The last few minutes before sleep"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_017",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which morning connection sounds most realistic?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"mornings",
"routines",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "coffee_together",
"text": "Coffee together"
},
{
"id": "a_real_goodbye",
"text": "A real goodbye"
},
{
"id": "sharing_the_day_s_plan",
"text": "Sharing the day's plan"
},
{
"id": "one_thoughtful_message_later",
"text": "One thoughtful message later"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "coffee_together",
"text": "Coffee together"
},
{
"id": "a_real_goodbye",
"text": "A real goodbye"
},
{
"id": "sharing_the_day_s_plan",
"text": "Sharing the day's plan"
},
{
"id": "one_thoughtful_message_later",
"text": "One thoughtful message later"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_018",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Protect a daily ten minutes or one longer block each week?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"routines",
"quick_choice",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_daily_ten_minutes",
"text": "A daily ten minutes"
},
{
"id": "one_longer_block_each_week",
"text": "One longer block each week"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_daily_ten_minutes",
"text": "A daily ten minutes"
},
{
"id": "one_longer_block_each_week",
"text": "One longer block each week"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_019",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What could make mornings feel more like shared time?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"mornings",
"presence",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "sit_together_for_the_first_drink",
"text": "Sit together for the first drink"
},
{
"id": "avoid_starting_with_chores",
"text": "Avoid starting with chores"
},
{
"id": "share_one_thing_about_the_day",
"text": "Share one thing about the day"
},
{
"id": "leave_with_a_real_goodbye",
"text": "Leave with a real goodbye"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sit_together_for_the_first_drink",
"text": "Sit together for the first drink"
},
{
"id": "avoid_starting_with_chores",
"text": "Avoid starting with chores"
},
{
"id": "share_one_thing_about_the_day",
"text": "Share one thing about the day"
},
{
"id": "leave_with_a_real_goodbye",
"text": "Leave with a real goodbye"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_020",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which routines create connection without adding another obligation?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"routines",
"low_pressure",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_short_evening_walk",
"text": "A short evening walk"
},
{
"id": "one_meal_together",
"text": "One meal together"
},
{
"id": "a_weekly_coffee",
"text": "A weekly coffee"
},
{
"id": "checking_in_during_a_regular_drive",
"text": "Checking in during a regular drive"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_short_evening_walk",
"text": "A short evening walk"
},
{
"id": "one_meal_together",
"text": "One meal together"
},
{
"id": "a_weekly_coffee",
"text": "A weekly coffee"
},
{
"id": "checking_in_during_a_regular_drive",
"text": "Checking in during a regular drive"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_021",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which recurring moment is easiest to rescue from autopilot?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"routines",
"humor",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_grocery_trip",
"text": "The grocery trip"
},
{
"id": "the_drive_somewhere",
"text": "The drive somewhere"
},
{
"id": "the_first_coffee",
"text": "The first coffee"
},
{
"id": "the_nightly_search_for_the_remote",
"text": "The nightly search for the remote"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_grocery_trip",
"text": "The grocery trip"
},
{
"id": "the_drive_somewhere",
"text": "The drive somewhere"
},
{
"id": "the_first_coffee",
"text": "The first coffee"
},
{
"id": "the_nightly_search_for_the_remote",
"text": "The nightly search for the remote"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_022",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a routine stay warm instead of becoming mandatory?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"routines",
"flexibility",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_can_be_skipped_without_guilt",
"text": "It can be skipped without guilt"
},
{
"id": "both_people_shape_it",
"text": "Both people shape it"
},
{
"id": "it_stays_simple",
"text": "It stays simple"
},
{
"id": "it_changes_when_life_changes",
"text": "It changes when life changes"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_can_be_skipped_without_guilt",
"text": "It can be skipped without guilt"
},
{
"id": "both_people_shape_it",
"text": "Both people shape it"
},
{
"id": "it_stays_simple",
"text": "It stays simple"
},
{
"id": "it_changes_when_life_changes",
"text": "It changes when life changes"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_023",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How connected do our daily routines make you feel?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"routines",
"current_state",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Hardly connected",
"max_label": "Very connected"
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_024",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which end-of-day habits could help us reconnect?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"evenings",
"routines",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "sit_together_before_starting_tasks",
"text": "Sit together before starting tasks"
},
{
"id": "share_the_best_or_strangest_moment",
"text": "Share the best or strangest moment"
},
{
"id": "take_a_short_walk",
"text": "Take a short walk"
},
{
"id": "put_phones_down_briefly",
"text": "Put phones down briefly"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sit_together_before_starting_tasks",
"text": "Sit together before starting tasks"
},
{
"id": "share_the_best_or_strangest_moment",
"text": "Share the best or strangest moment"
},
{
"id": "take_a_short_walk",
"text": "Take a short walk"
},
{
"id": "put_phones_down_briefly",
"text": "Put phones down briefly"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_025",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should happen first when we finally have ten quiet minutes?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"routines",
"preferences",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "talk",
"text": "Talk"
},
{
"id": "sit_quietly",
"text": "Sit quietly"
},
{
"id": "share_something_funny",
"text": "Share something funny"
},
{
"id": "decide_together_in_the_moment",
"text": "Decide together in the moment"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "talk",
"text": "Talk"
},
{
"id": "sit_quietly",
"text": "Sit quietly"
},
{
"id": "share_something_funny",
"text": "Share something funny"
},
{
"id": "decide_together_in_the_moment",
"text": "Decide together in the moment"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_026",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a weekly ritual worth keeping?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"rituals",
"meaning",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "we_both_enjoy_it",
"text": "We both enjoy it"
},
{
"id": "it_fits_real_life",
"text": "It fits real life"
},
{
"id": "it_gives_us_something_to_anticipate",
"text": "It gives us something to anticipate"
},
{
"id": "it_still_feels_chosen",
"text": "It still feels chosen"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "we_both_enjoy_it",
"text": "We both enjoy it"
},
{
"id": "it_fits_real_life",
"text": "It fits real life"
},
{
"id": "it_gives_us_something_to_anticipate",
"text": "It gives us something to anticipate"
},
{
"id": "it_still_feels_chosen",
"text": "It still feels chosen"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_027",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which routines could work even when our schedules barely overlap?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"schedules",
"routines",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_voice_message",
"text": "A voice message"
},
{
"id": "a_shared_breakfast",
"text": "A shared breakfast"
},
{
"id": "a_note_left_behind",
"text": "A note left behind"
},
{
"id": "a_short_call_during_a_regular_break",
"text": "A short call during a regular break"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_voice_message",
"text": "A voice message"
},
{
"id": "a_shared_breakfast",
"text": "A shared breakfast"
},
{
"id": "a_note_left_behind",
"text": "A note left behind"
},
{
"id": "a_short_call_during_a_regular_break",
"text": "A short call during a regular break"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_028",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "written",
"text": "What daily moment would you most like us to reclaim as ours?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"routines",
"shared_time",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_029",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us notice when a routine no longer fits?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"routines",
"adaptability",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "one_person_keeps_avoiding_it",
"text": "One person keeps avoiding it"
},
{
"id": "it_creates_more_stress_than_warmth",
"text": "It creates more stress than warmth"
},
{
"id": "our_schedule_has_changed",
"text": "Our schedule has changed"
},
{
"id": "a_different_habit_sounds_easier",
"text": "A different habit sounds easier"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "one_person_keeps_avoiding_it",
"text": "One person keeps avoiding it"
},
{
"id": "it_creates_more_stress_than_warmth",
"text": "It creates more stress than warmth"
},
{
"id": "our_schedule_has_changed",
"text": "Our schedule has changed"
},
{
"id": "a_different_habit_sounds_easier",
"text": "A different habit sounds easier"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_030",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "When routines disappear, what helps connection survive the disruption?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"routines",
"change",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "choosing_one_temporary_anchor",
"text": "Choosing one temporary anchor"
},
{
"id": "saying_what_we_miss",
"text": "Saying what we miss"
},
{
"id": "lowering_expectations",
"text": "Lowering expectations"
},
{
"id": "making_a_new_plan_together",
"text": "Making a new plan together"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "choosing_one_temporary_anchor",
"text": "Choosing one temporary anchor"
},
{
"id": "saying_what_we_miss",
"text": "Saying what we miss"
},
{
"id": "lowering_expectations",
"text": "Lowering expectations"
},
{
"id": "making_a_new_plan_together",
"text": "Making a new plan together"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_031",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes you feel that you really have my attention?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"attention",
"presence",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "i_put_the_phone_down",
"text": "I put the phone down"
},
{
"id": "i_ask_a_follow_up_question",
"text": "I ask a follow-up question"
},
{
"id": "i_remember_the_important_part",
"text": "I remember the important part"
},
{
"id": "i_stop_doing_another_task",
"text": "I stop doing another task"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "i_put_the_phone_down",
"text": "I put the phone down"
},
{
"id": "i_ask_a_follow_up_question",
"text": "I ask a follow-up question"
},
{
"id": "i_remember_the_important_part",
"text": "I remember the important part"
},
{
"id": "i_stop_doing_another_task",
"text": "I stop doing another task"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_032",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "When do you most want my full attention?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"attention",
"preferences",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "when_telling_a_story",
"text": "When telling a story"
},
{
"id": "when_sharing_something_difficult",
"text": "When sharing something difficult"
},
{
"id": "when_making_a_plan",
"text": "When making a plan"
},
{
"id": "when_we_first_reconnect",
"text": "When we first reconnect"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "when_telling_a_story",
"text": "When telling a story"
},
{
"id": "when_sharing_something_difficult",
"text": "When sharing something difficult"
},
{
"id": "when_making_a_plan",
"text": "When making a plan"
},
{
"id": "when_we_first_reconnect",
"text": "When we first reconnect"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_033",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Phones out of sight or simply face down?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"phones",
"quick_choice",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "phones_out_of_sight",
"text": "Phones out of sight"
},
{
"id": "phones_face_down",
"text": "Phones face down"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "phones_out_of_sight",
"text": "Phones out of sight"
},
{
"id": "phones_face_down",
"text": "Phones face down"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_034",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which distractions most often steal good time from us?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"distractions",
"awareness",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "phones",
"text": "Phones"
},
{
"id": "unfinished_chores",
"text": "Unfinished chores"
},
{
"id": "work_messages",
"text": "Work messages"
},
{
"id": "trying_to_multitask",
"text": "Trying to multitask"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "phones",
"text": "Phones"
},
{
"id": "unfinished_chores",
"text": "Unfinished chores"
},
{
"id": "work_messages",
"text": "Work messages"
},
{
"id": "trying_to_multitask",
"text": "Trying to multitask"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_035",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a short conversation feel unrushed?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"conversation",
"presence",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "sitting_down",
"text": "Sitting down"
},
{
"id": "not_checking_the_time_repeatedly",
"text": "Not checking the time repeatedly"
},
{
"id": "letting_one_topic_finish",
"text": "Letting one topic finish"
},
{
"id": "avoiding_a_task_at_the_same_time",
"text": "Avoiding a task at the same time"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sitting_down",
"text": "Sitting down"
},
{
"id": "not_checking_the_time_repeatedly",
"text": "Not checking the time repeatedly"
},
{
"id": "letting_one_topic_finish",
"text": "Letting one topic finish"
},
{
"id": "avoiding_a_task_at_the_same_time",
"text": "Avoiding a task at the same time"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_036",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which device is most likely to become the uninvited third person?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"humor",
"phones",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_phone",
"text": "A phone"
},
{
"id": "a_television",
"text": "A television"
},
{
"id": "a_work_laptop",
"text": "A work laptop"
},
{
"id": "the_smart_speaker_with_opinions",
"text": "The smart speaker with opinions"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_phone",
"text": "A phone"
},
{
"id": "a_television",
"text": "A television"
},
{
"id": "a_work_laptop",
"text": "A work laptop"
},
{
"id": "the_smart_speaker_with_opinions",
"text": "The smart speaker with opinions"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_037",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What could make screen time feel shared instead of separate?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"screens",
"shared_activity",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "choose_together",
"text": "Choose together"
},
{
"id": "pause_to_talk",
"text": "Pause to talk"
},
{
"id": "keep_one_screen",
"text": "Keep one screen"
},
{
"id": "watch_something_both_people_actually_want",
"text": "Watch something both people actually want"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "choose_together",
"text": "Choose together"
},
{
"id": "pause_to_talk",
"text": "Pause to talk"
},
{
"id": "keep_one_screen",
"text": "Keep one screen"
},
{
"id": "watch_something_both_people_actually_want",
"text": "Watch something both people actually want"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_038",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How present do we usually feel during time together?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"presence",
"current_state",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Often distracted",
"max_label": "Fully present"
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_039",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show that one of us needs more attention right now?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"signals",
"attention",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "repeating_a_story",
"text": "Repeating a story"
},
{
"id": "putting_the_phone_away_first",
"text": "Putting the phone away first"
},
{
"id": "asking_to_sit_together",
"text": "Asking to sit together"
},
{
"id": "saying_the_day_was_hard",
"text": "Saying the day was hard"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "repeating_a_story",
"text": "Repeating a story"
},
{
"id": "putting_the_phone_away_first",
"text": "Putting the phone away first"
},
{
"id": "asking_to_sit_together",
"text": "Asking to sit together"
},
{
"id": "saying_the_day_was_hard",
"text": "Saying the day was hard"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_040",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which phone rule sounds least likely to start a constitutional crisis?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"humor",
"phones",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "no_phones_during_one_meal",
"text": "No phones during one meal"
},
{
"id": "phones_away_for_twenty_minutes",
"text": "Phones away for twenty minutes"
},
{
"id": "only_urgent_messages",
"text": "Only urgent messages"
},
{
"id": "one_person_controls_the_emergency_snack_timer",
"text": "One person controls the emergency snack timer"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_phones_during_one_meal",
"text": "No phones during one meal"
},
{
"id": "phones_away_for_twenty_minutes",
"text": "Phones away for twenty minutes"
},
{
"id": "only_urgent_messages",
"text": "Only urgent messages"
},
{
"id": "one_person_controls_the_emergency_snack_timer",
"text": "One person controls the emergency snack timer"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_041",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes divided attention feel less frustrating?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"attention",
"real_life",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "saying_when_you_can_listen_fully",
"text": "Saying when you can listen fully"
},
{
"id": "finishing_the_task_quickly",
"text": "Finishing the task quickly"
},
{
"id": "returning_to_the_conversation",
"text": "Returning to the conversation"
},
{
"id": "being_honest_that_now_is_not_a_good_moment",
"text": "Being honest that now is not a good moment"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "saying_when_you_can_listen_fully",
"text": "Saying when you can listen fully"
},
{
"id": "finishing_the_task_quickly",
"text": "Finishing the task quickly"
},
{
"id": "returning_to_the_conversation",
"text": "Returning to the conversation"
},
{
"id": "being_honest_that_now_is_not_a_good_moment",
"text": "Being honest that now is not a good moment"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_042",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which moments deserve protection from multitasking?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"presence",
"priorities",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "important_news",
"text": "Important news"
},
{
"id": "a_planned_activity",
"text": "A planned activity"
},
{
"id": "a_difficult_conversation",
"text": "A difficult conversation"
},
{
"id": "the_first_minutes_after_time_apart",
"text": "The first minutes after time apart"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "important_news",
"text": "Important news"
},
{
"id": "a_planned_activity",
"text": "A planned activity"
},
{
"id": "a_difficult_conversation",
"text": "A difficult conversation"
},
{
"id": "the_first_minutes_after_time_apart",
"text": "The first minutes after time apart"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_043",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one time you felt especially noticed by me?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"attention",
"memory",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_044",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we ask for attention without sounding like a complaint?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"attention",
"communication",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "can_we_have_ten_minutes",
"text": "Can we have ten minutes?"
},
{
"id": "i_want_to_tell_you_something",
"text": "I want to tell you something"
},
{
"id": "when_can_you_listen_fully",
"text": "When can you listen fully?"
},
{
"id": "could_we_put_this_aside_for_a_moment",
"text": "Could we put this aside for a moment?"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "can_we_have_ten_minutes",
"text": "Can we have ten minutes?"
},
{
"id": "i_want_to_tell_you_something",
"text": "I want to tell you something"
},
{
"id": "when_can_you_listen_fully",
"text": "When can you listen fully?"
},
{
"id": "could_we_put_this_aside_for_a_moment",
"text": "Could we put this aside for a moment?"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_045",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What happens when attention becomes something one person must compete for?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "free",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"attention",
"warning_signs",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "stories_get_shorter",
"text": "Stories get shorter"
},
{
"id": "invitations_stop",
"text": "Invitations stop"
},
{
"id": "resentment_builds",
"text": "Resentment builds"
},
{
"id": "being_together_stops_feeling_restful",
"text": "Being together stops feeling restful"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "stories_get_shorter",
"text": "Stories get shorter"
},
{
"id": "invitations_stop",
"text": "Invitations stop"
},
{
"id": "resentment_builds",
"text": "Resentment builds"
},
{
"id": "being_together_stops_feeling_restful",
"text": "Being together stops feeling restful"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_046",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What counts as quality time when we are both exhausted?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"low_energy",
"busy_life",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "eating_together",
"text": "Eating together"
},
{
"id": "a_short_check_in",
"text": "A short check-in"
},
{
"id": "sitting_quietly_nearby",
"text": "Sitting quietly nearby"
},
{
"id": "choosing_one_easy_thing_for_later",
"text": "Choosing one easy thing for later"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "eating_together",
"text": "Eating together"
},
{
"id": "a_short_check_in",
"text": "A short check-in"
},
{
"id": "sitting_quietly_nearby",
"text": "Sitting quietly nearby"
},
{
"id": "choosing_one_easy_thing_for_later",
"text": "Choosing one easy thing for later"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_047",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which tired-night plan sounds most doable?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"low_energy",
"preferences",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_twenty_minute_show",
"text": "A twenty-minute show"
},
{
"id": "tea_and_conversation",
"text": "Tea and conversation"
},
{
"id": "separate_hobbies_together",
"text": "Separate hobbies together"
},
{
"id": "an_early_bedtime_after_a_real_goodnight",
"text": "An early bedtime after a real goodnight"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_twenty_minute_show",
"text": "A twenty-minute show"
},
{
"id": "tea_and_conversation",
"text": "Tea and conversation"
},
{
"id": "separate_hobbies_together",
"text": "Separate hobbies together"
},
{
"id": "an_early_bedtime_after_a_real_goodnight",
"text": "An early bedtime after a real goodnight"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_048",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Shorten the plan or move it to another day?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"low_energy",
"quick_choice",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "shorten_the_plan",
"text": "Shorten the plan"
},
{
"id": "move_it_to_another_day",
"text": "Move it to another day"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "shorten_the_plan",
"text": "Shorten the plan"
},
{
"id": "move_it_to_another_day",
"text": "Move it to another day"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_049",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps quality time work when one of us has less energy?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"low_energy",
"accessibility",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_lower_energy_person_chooses_the_pace",
"text": "The lower-energy person chooses the pace"
},
{
"id": "plans_can_end_early",
"text": "Plans can end early"
},
{
"id": "comfort_matters_more_than_novelty",
"text": "Comfort matters more than novelty"
},
{
"id": "quiet_company_counts",
"text": "Quiet company counts"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_lower_energy_person_chooses_the_pace",
"text": "The lower-energy person chooses the pace"
},
{
"id": "plans_can_end_early",
"text": "Plans can end early"
},
{
"id": "comfort_matters_more_than_novelty",
"text": "Comfort matters more than novelty"
},
{
"id": "quiet_company_counts",
"text": "Quiet company counts"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_050",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which connection ideas require almost no preparation?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"low_energy",
"easy_plans",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "sit_outside",
"text": "Sit outside"
},
{
"id": "share_a_snack",
"text": "Share a snack"
},
{
"id": "listen_to_one_album",
"text": "Listen to one album"
},
{
"id": "take_a_short_drive",
"text": "Take a short drive"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "sit_outside",
"text": "Sit outside"
},
{
"id": "share_a_snack",
"text": "Share a snack"
},
{
"id": "listen_to_one_album",
"text": "Listen to one album"
},
{
"id": "take_a_short_drive",
"text": "Take a short drive"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_051",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which plan has the smallest chance of needing recovery afterward?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"humor",
"low_energy",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_blanket_and_one_episode",
"text": "A blanket and one episode"
},
{
"id": "a_porch_sit",
"text": "A porch sit"
},
{
"id": "a_drive_with_no_errands",
"text": "A drive with no errands"
},
{
"id": "going_nowhere_with_impressive_commitment",
"text": "Going nowhere with impressive commitment"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_blanket_and_one_episode",
"text": "A blanket and one episode"
},
{
"id": "a_porch_sit",
"text": "A porch sit"
},
{
"id": "a_drive_with_no_errands",
"text": "A drive with no errands"
},
{
"id": "going_nowhere_with_impressive_commitment",
"text": "Going nowhere with impressive commitment"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_052",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make a busy week feel less disconnected?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"busy_life",
"connection",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "one_protected_meal",
"text": "One protected meal"
},
{
"id": "a_short_daily_message",
"text": "A short daily message"
},
{
"id": "knowing_the_next_shared_plan",
"text": "Knowing the next shared plan"
},
{
"id": "helping_each_other_finish_sooner",
"text": "Helping each other finish sooner"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "one_protected_meal",
"text": "One protected meal"
},
{
"id": "a_short_daily_message",
"text": "A short daily message"
},
{
"id": "knowing_the_next_shared_plan",
"text": "Knowing the next shared plan"
},
{
"id": "helping_each_other_finish_sooner",
"text": "Helping each other finish sooner"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_053",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well does our quality time fit our actual energy lately?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"low_energy",
"current_state",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Poorly",
"max_label": "Very well"
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_054",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which plans are easiest to adapt when life changes suddenly?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"flexibility",
"busy_life",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_walk",
"text": "A walk"
},
{
"id": "an_at_home_meal",
"text": "An at-home meal"
},
{
"id": "a_short_drive",
"text": "A short drive"
},
{
"id": "anything_without_reservations",
"text": "Anything without reservations"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_walk",
"text": "A walk"
},
{
"id": "an_at_home_meal",
"text": "An at-home meal"
},
{
"id": "a_short_drive",
"text": "A short drive"
},
{
"id": "anything_without_reservations",
"text": "Anything without reservations"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_055",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What should we cancel first when the week becomes ridiculous?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"humor",
"busy_life",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "unnecessary_errands",
"text": "Unnecessary errands"
},
{
"id": "a_complicated_plan",
"text": "A complicated plan"
},
{
"id": "the_idea_that_everything_must_be_productive",
"text": "The idea that everything must be productive"
},
{
"id": "nothing_until_we_inspect_the_snack_situation",
"text": "Nothing until we inspect the snack situation"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "unnecessary_errands",
"text": "Unnecessary errands"
},
{
"id": "a_complicated_plan",
"text": "A complicated plan"
},
{
"id": "the_idea_that_everything_must_be_productive",
"text": "The idea that everything must be productive"
},
{
"id": "nothing_until_we_inspect_the_snack_situation",
"text": "Nothing until we inspect the snack situation"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_056",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a postponed plan feel like a rain check instead of rejection?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"planning",
"reassurance",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "naming_another_possible_time",
"text": "Naming another possible time"
},
{
"id": "keeping_the_response_warm",
"text": "Keeping the response warm"
},
{
"id": "explaining_briefly",
"text": "Explaining briefly"
},
{
"id": "following_through_later",
"text": "Following through later"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "naming_another_possible_time",
"text": "Naming another possible time"
},
{
"id": "keeping_the_response_warm",
"text": "Keeping the response warm"
},
{
"id": "explaining_briefly",
"text": "Explaining briefly"
},
{
"id": "following_through_later",
"text": "Following through later"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_057",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which forms of quality time can work during a stressful season?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"stress",
"low_energy",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "doing_a_simple_task_together",
"text": "Doing a simple task together"
},
{
"id": "a_quiet_meal",
"text": "A quiet meal"
},
{
"id": "a_short_bedtime_check_in",
"text": "A short bedtime check-in"
},
{
"id": "one_low_pressure_outing",
"text": "One low-pressure outing"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "doing_a_simple_task_together",
"text": "Doing a simple task together"
},
{
"id": "a_quiet_meal",
"text": "A quiet meal"
},
{
"id": "a_short_bedtime_check_in",
"text": "A short bedtime check-in"
},
{
"id": "one_low_pressure_outing",
"text": "One low-pressure outing"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_058",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is the easiest kind of time together that still matters to you?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"low_energy",
"preferences",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"max_length": 500
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_059",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we protect time together without treating rest as wasted time?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"rest",
"balance",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "choose_restful_plans",
"text": "Choose restful plans"
},
{
"id": "let_either_person_shorten_them",
"text": "Let either person shorten them"
},
{
"id": "avoid_filling_every_free_hour",
"text": "Avoid filling every free hour"
},
{
"id": "count_recovery_as_part_of_the_plan",
"text": "Count recovery as part of the plan"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "choose_restful_plans",
"text": "Choose restful plans"
},
{
"id": "let_either_person_shorten_them",
"text": "Let either person shorten them"
},
{
"id": "avoid_filling_every_free_hour",
"text": "Avoid filling every free hour"
},
{
"id": "count_recovery_as_part_of_the_plan",
"text": "Count recovery as part of the plan"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_060",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which expectations become unfair during a hard season?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"busy_life",
"fairness",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "ignoring_different_energy_levels",
"text": "Ignoring different energy levels"
},
{
"id": "expecting_one_person_to_plan_everything",
"text": "Expecting one person to plan everything"
},
{
"id": "treating_exhaustion_as_lack_of_love",
"text": "Treating exhaustion as lack of love"
},
{
"id": "comparing_this_season_with_easier_years",
"text": "Comparing this season with easier years"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "ignoring_different_energy_levels",
"text": "Ignoring different energy levels"
},
{
"id": "expecting_one_person_to_plan_everything",
"text": "Expecting one person to plan everything"
},
{
"id": "treating_exhaustion_as_lack_of_love",
"text": "Treating exhaustion as lack of love"
},
{
"id": "comparing_this_season_with_easier_years",
"text": "Comparing this season with easier years"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_061",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which kinds of activities make conversation happen naturally?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"activities",
"conversation",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "walking",
"text": "Walking"
},
{
"id": "driving",
"text": "Driving"
},
{
"id": "cooking",
"text": "Cooking"
},
{
"id": "working_on_something_with_our_hands",
"text": "Working on something with our hands"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "walking",
"text": "Walking"
},
{
"id": "driving",
"text": "Driving"
},
{
"id": "cooking",
"text": "Cooking"
},
{
"id": "working_on_something_with_our_hands",
"text": "Working on something with our hands"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_062",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which shared activity sounds easiest to repeat?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"activities",
"preferences",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_weekly_walk",
"text": "A weekly walk"
},
{
"id": "cooking_one_meal",
"text": "Cooking one meal"
},
{
"id": "a_game_night",
"text": "A game night"
},
{
"id": "watching_a_series_together",
"text": "Watching a series together"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_weekly_walk",
"text": "A weekly walk"
},
{
"id": "cooking_one_meal",
"text": "Cooking one meal"
},
{
"id": "a_game_night",
"text": "A game night"
},
{
"id": "watching_a_series_together",
"text": "Watching a series together"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_063",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Learn something together or teach each other something?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"learning",
"quick_choice",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "learn_something_together",
"text": "Learn something together"
},
{
"id": "teach_each_other_something",
"text": "Teach each other something"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "learn_something_together",
"text": "Learn something together"
},
{
"id": "teach_each_other_something",
"text": "Teach each other something"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_064",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes trying a shared hobby feel low pressure?",
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"text": "Starting cheaply"
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"id": "being_beginners_together",
"text": "Being beginners together"
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"id": "no_demand_to_continue",
"text": "No demand to continue"
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"id": "choosing_something_easy_to_stop",
"text": "Choosing something easy to stop"
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],
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}
},
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"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which shared projects could be fun without taking over the house?",
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"text": "A small garden bed"
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"text": "A puzzle"
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{
"id": "a_photo_album",
"text": "A photo album"
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"text": "Anything with fewer than seventeen labeled bins"
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],
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"text": "A photo album"
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"text": "Anything with fewer than seventeen labeled bins"
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],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which activity best reveals who becomes strangely competitive?",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"games",
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"id": "cards",
"text": "Cards"
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{
"id": "mini_golf",
"text": "Mini golf"
},
{
"id": "trivia",
"text": "Trivia"
},
{
"id": "assembling_furniture_without_instructions",
"text": "Assembling furniture without instructions"
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],
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"text": "Cards"
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"text": "Trivia"
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{
"id": "assembling_furniture_without_instructions",
"text": "Assembling furniture without instructions"
}
]
}
},
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"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps different activity preferences work together?",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"differences",
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],
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"id": "take_turns_choosing",
"text": "Take turns choosing"
},
{
"id": "find_the_shared_part",
"text": "Find the shared part"
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{
"id": "let_one_person_watch_sometimes",
"text": "Let one person watch sometimes"
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{
"id": "keep_separate_interests_too",
"text": "Keep separate interests too"
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],
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{
"id": "let_one_person_watch_sometimes",
"text": "Let one person watch sometimes"
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{
"id": "keep_separate_interests_too",
"text": "Keep separate interests too"
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],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How satisfied are you with the variety in our shared activities?",
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"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"activities",
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],
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"max": 5,
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"max_label": "It feels varied enough"
}
},
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"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which activities can feel good even if we are not equally skilled?",
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"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"activities",
"fairness",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "cooking",
"text": "Cooking"
},
{
"id": "dancing_at_home",
"text": "Dancing at home"
},
{
"id": "a_creative_project",
"text": "A creative project"
},
{
"id": "learning_something_new",
"text": "Learning something new"
}
],
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"text": "Cooking"
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"id": "a_creative_project",
"text": "A creative project"
},
{
"id": "learning_something_new",
"text": "Learning something new"
}
],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"id": "quality_time_070",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which project should require a written promise not to become a lifestyle?",
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"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"humor",
"projects",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_renovation",
"text": "A renovation"
},
{
"id": "a_collecting_hobby",
"text": "A collecting hobby"
},
{
"id": "a_giant_puzzle",
"text": "A giant puzzle"
},
{
"id": "anything_introduced_with_this_will_be_simple",
"text": "Anything introduced with this will be simple"
}
],
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"text": "A renovation"
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{
"id": "a_giant_puzzle",
"text": "A giant puzzle"
},
{
"id": "anything_introduced_with_this_will_be_simple",
"text": "Anything introduced with this will be simple"
}
]
}
},
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"id": "quality_time_071",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a shared activity feel connecting rather than performative?",
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"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
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"connection",
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],
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"id": "we_both_chose_it",
"text": "We both chose it"
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{
"id": "nobody_must_be_impressive",
"text": "Nobody must be impressive"
},
{
"id": "we_can_talk_naturally",
"text": "We can talk naturally"
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{
"id": "the_activity_leaves_room_for_laughter",
"text": "The activity leaves room for laughter"
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],
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"text": "We can talk naturally"
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"id": "the_activity_leaves_room_for_laughter",
"text": "The activity leaves room for laughter"
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],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which activities are good when conversation needs a little help?",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"text": "Looking through old photos"
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"text": "A question game"
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"id": "a_scenic_drive",
"text": "A scenic drive"
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"id": "cooking_from_a_new_recipe",
"text": "Cooking from a new recipe"
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"text": "A scenic drive"
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"text": "Cooking from a new recipe"
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],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"id": "quality_time_073",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "written",
"text": "What is one activity we tried together that surprised you?",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"memory",
"quality_time"
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}
},
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"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What should happen when one person stops enjoying a shared hobby?",
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"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
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],
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"text": "Say so without guilt"
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"id": "change_the_way_we_do_it",
"text": "Change the way we do it"
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{
"id": "let_the_other_continue_alone",
"text": "Let the other continue alone"
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"id": "choose_something_new_together",
"text": "Choose something new together"
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"text": "Let the other continue alone"
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
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"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can turn shared activities into another source of pressure?",
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"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
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"quality_time"
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"text": "Keeping score"
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"id": "forcing_equal_enthusiasm",
"text": "Forcing equal enthusiasm"
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{
"id": "spending_more_than_agreed",
"text": "Spending more than agreed"
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{
"id": "treating_improvement_as_the_point",
"text": "Treating improvement as the point"
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],
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"text": "Keeping score"
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"id": "spending_more_than_agreed",
"text": "Spending more than agreed"
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"id": "treating_improvement_as_the_point",
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_076",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which settings make talking together feel easiest?",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"setting",
"quality_time"
],
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"id": "in_the_car",
"text": "In the car"
},
{
"id": "on_a_walk",
"text": "On a walk"
},
{
"id": "over_a_meal",
"text": "Over a meal"
},
{
"id": "in_bed_before_sleep",
"text": "In bed before sleep"
}
],
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"text": "In the car"
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{
"id": "over_a_meal",
"text": "Over a meal"
},
{
"id": "in_bed_before_sleep",
"text": "In bed before sleep"
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],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_077",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which conversation pace feels best on a relaxed evening?",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"preferences",
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},
{
"id": "several_small_topics",
"text": "Several small topics"
},
{
"id": "stories_and_jokes",
"text": "Stories and jokes"
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"id": "very_little_talking",
"text": "Very little talking"
}
],
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{
"id": "stories_and_jokes",
"text": "Stories and jokes"
},
{
"id": "very_little_talking",
"text": "Very little talking"
}
]
}
},
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"id": "quality_time_078",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it for us to enjoy silence together?",
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"sex": "neutral",
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"current_state",
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"max": 5,
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"max_label": "Very easy"
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_079",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Talk about the day or escape into something completely different?",
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"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"conversation",
"quick_choice",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "talk_about_the_day",
"text": "Talk about the day"
},
{
"id": "escape_into_something_different",
"text": "Escape into something different"
}
],
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"id": "talk_about_the_day",
"text": "Talk about the day"
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{
"id": "escape_into_something_different",
"text": "Escape into something different"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_080",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes quiet time feel connected instead of awkward?",
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"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"quiet_time",
"presence",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "sitting_close",
"text": "Sitting close"
},
{
"id": "doing_compatible_activities",
"text": "Doing compatible activities"
},
{
"id": "no_pressure_to_fill_silence",
"text": "No pressure to fill silence"
},
{
"id": "occasional_small_comments",
"text": "Occasional small comments"
}
],
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"text": "Sitting close"
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{
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"text": "No pressure to fill silence"
},
{
"id": "occasional_small_comments",
"text": "Occasional small comments"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_081",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which conversation topics are fun without needing a serious purpose?",
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"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
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"options": [
{
"id": "strange_things_we_noticed",
"text": "Strange things we noticed"
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{
"id": "what_we_would_do_with_a_free_week",
"text": "What we would do with a free week"
},
{
"id": "old_stories",
"text": "Old stories"
},
{
"id": "ridiculous_opinions",
"text": "Ridiculous opinions"
}
],
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"text": "What we would do with a free week"
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"text": "Old stories"
},
{
"id": "ridiculous_opinions",
"text": "Ridiculous opinions"
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],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_082",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which topic could carry an entire porch conversation?",
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"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"humor",
"conversation",
"quality_time"
],
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"id": "neighborhood_mysteries",
"text": "Neighborhood mysteries"
},
{
"id": "foods_with_undeserved_confidence",
"text": "Foods with undeserved confidence"
},
{
"id": "our_worst_fashion_eras",
"text": "Our worst fashion eras"
},
{
"id": "a_completely_unnecessary_future_invention",
"text": "A completely unnecessary future invention"
}
],
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"id": "neighborhood_mysteries",
"text": "Neighborhood mysteries"
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},
{
"id": "our_worst_fashion_eras",
"text": "Our worst fashion eras"
},
{
"id": "a_completely_unnecessary_future_invention",
"text": "A completely unnecessary future invention"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_083",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps a deeper conversation happen naturally during quality time?",
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"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"conversation",
"meaningful",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "enough_time",
"text": "Enough time"
},
{
"id": "a_relaxed_setting",
"text": "A relaxed setting"
},
{
"id": "one_honest_question",
"text": "One honest question"
},
{
"id": "no_demand_to_finish_the_topic",
"text": "No demand to finish the topic"
}
],
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"text": "Enough time"
},
{
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{
"id": "one_honest_question",
"text": "One honest question"
},
{
"id": "no_demand_to_finish_the_topic",
"text": "No demand to finish the topic"
}
],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_084",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How balanced does our talking and quiet time feel?",
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"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"conversation",
"balance",
"quality_time"
],
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"max": 5,
"min_label": "Out of balance",
"max_label": "Very balanced"
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_085",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show that tonight should stay light?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"conversation",
"energy",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "one_person_is_exhausted",
"text": "One person is exhausted"
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{
"id": "jokes_are_landing_better_than_questions",
"text": "Jokes are landing better than questions"
},
{
"id": "a_serious_topic_feels_forced",
"text": "A serious topic feels forced"
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{
"id": "we_mostly_need_comfort",
"text": "We mostly need comfort"
}
],
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"text": "One person is exhausted"
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"text": "Jokes are landing better than questions"
},
{
"id": "a_serious_topic_feels_forced",
"text": "A serious topic feels forced"
},
{
"id": "we_mostly_need_comfort",
"text": "We mostly need comfort"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_086",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the best response when neither of us has anything interesting to report?",
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"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"humor",
"conversation",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "invent_a_ridiculous_question",
"text": "Invent a ridiculous question"
},
{
"id": "put_on_music",
"text": "Put on music"
},
{
"id": "sit_quietly",
"text": "Sit quietly"
},
{
"id": "accept_that_we_are_not_a_nightly_news_program",
"text": "Accept that we are not a nightly news program"
}
],
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"id": "invent_a_ridiculous_question",
"text": "Invent a ridiculous question"
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{
"id": "put_on_music",
"text": "Put on music"
},
{
"id": "sit_quietly",
"text": "Sit quietly"
},
{
"id": "accept_that_we_are_not_a_nightly_news_program",
"text": "Accept that we are not a nightly news program"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_087",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we keep conversation from becoming only household administration?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"conversation",
"logistics",
"quality_time"
],
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{
"id": "set_logistics_aside_after_a_few_minutes",
"text": "Set logistics aside after a few minutes"
},
{
"id": "ask_about_something_enjoyable",
"text": "Ask about something enjoyable"
},
{
"id": "share_a_memory",
"text": "Share a memory"
},
{
"id": "plan_one_thing_we_want",
"text": "Plan one thing we want"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "set_logistics_aside_after_a_few_minutes",
"text": "Set logistics aside after a few minutes"
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"id": "ask_about_something_enjoyable",
"text": "Ask about something enjoyable"
},
{
"id": "share_a_memory",
"text": "Share a memory"
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{
"id": "plan_one_thing_we_want",
"text": "Plan one thing we want"
}
],
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"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_088",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which questions tend to create a good couple conversation?",
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"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"conversation",
"discovery",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "what_surprised_you_today",
"text": "What surprised you today?"
},
{
"id": "what_are_you_looking_forward_to",
"text": "What are you looking forward to?"
},
{
"id": "what_made_you_laugh",
"text": "What made you laugh?"
},
{
"id": "what_should_we_do_more_often",
"text": "What should we do more often?"
}
],
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"options": [
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"id": "what_surprised_you_today",
"text": "What surprised you today?"
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{
"id": "what_are_you_looking_forward_to",
"text": "What are you looking forward to?"
},
{
"id": "what_made_you_laugh",
"text": "What made you laugh?"
},
{
"id": "what_should_we_do_more_often",
"text": "What should we do more often?"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_089",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which topics can turn an ordinary evening into a good conversation?",
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"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"quiet_time",
"warning_signs",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "unspoken_tension",
"text": "Unspoken tension"
},
{
"id": "one_person_trying_to_connect_repeatedly",
"text": "One person trying to connect repeatedly"
},
{
"id": "silence_being_used_as_punishment",
"text": "Silence being used as punishment"
},
{
"id": "never_returning_to_conversation",
"text": "Never returning to conversation"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "unspoken_tension",
"text": "Unspoken tension"
},
{
"id": "one_person_trying_to_connect_repeatedly",
"text": "One person trying to connect repeatedly"
},
{
"id": "silence_being_used_as_punishment",
"text": "Silence being used as punishment"
},
{
"id": "never_returning_to_conversation",
"text": "Never returning to conversation"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_090",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps us tell the difference between peaceful quiet and avoidance?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"quiet_time",
"clarity",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "either_person_can_start_talking",
"text": "Either person can start talking"
},
{
"id": "the_mood_still_feels_warm",
"text": "The mood still feels warm"
},
{
"id": "important_topics_are_revisited",
"text": "Important topics are revisited"
},
{
"id": "silence_is_not_used_to_control_the_room",
"text": "Silence is not used to control the room"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "either_person_can_start_talking",
"text": "Either person can start talking"
},
{
"id": "the_mood_still_feels_warm",
"text": "The mood still feels warm"
},
{
"id": "important_topics_are_revisited",
"text": "Important topics are revisited"
},
{
"id": "silence_is_not_used_to_control_the_room",
"text": "Silence is not used to control the room"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_091",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which playful moments make time together feel most like us?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"playfulness",
"couple_identity",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "inside_jokes",
"text": "Inside jokes"
},
{
"id": "friendly_teasing",
"text": "Friendly teasing"
},
{
"id": "making_up_stories",
"text": "Making up stories"
},
{
"id": "turning_a_boring_task_into_a_game",
"text": "Turning a boring task into a game"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "inside_jokes",
"text": "Inside jokes"
},
{
"id": "friendly_teasing",
"text": "Friendly teasing"
},
{
"id": "making_up_stories",
"text": "Making up stories"
},
{
"id": "turning_a_boring_task_into_a_game",
"text": "Turning a boring task into a game"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_092",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which low-key flirting move gets your attention fastest?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"flirting",
"preferences",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_quiet_compliment",
"text": "A quiet compliment"
},
{
"id": "a_meaningful_look",
"text": "A meaningful look"
},
{
"id": "a_playful_message",
"text": "A playful message"
},
{
"id": "an_invitation_to_sit_closer",
"text": "An invitation to sit closer"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_quiet_compliment",
"text": "A quiet compliment"
},
{
"id": "a_meaningful_look",
"text": "A meaningful look"
},
{
"id": "a_playful_message",
"text": "A playful message"
},
{
"id": "an_invitation_to_sit_closer",
"text": "An invitation to sit closer"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_093",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How playful does our time together feel lately?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"playfulness",
"current_state",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very playful",
"max_label": "Very playful"
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_094",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Bring back an old inside joke or create a new one?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"couple_lore",
"quick_choice",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "bring_back_an_old_inside_joke",
"text": "Bring back an old inside joke"
},
{
"id": "create_a_new_one",
"text": "Create a new one"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "bring_back_an_old_inside_joke",
"text": "Bring back an old inside joke"
},
{
"id": "create_a_new_one",
"text": "Create a new one"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_095",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes flirting fit naturally into quality time?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"flirting",
"low_pressure",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_stays_playful",
"text": "It stays playful"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_demand_a_response",
"text": "It does not demand a response"
},
{
"id": "it_fits_the_setting",
"text": "It fits the setting"
},
{
"id": "it_sounds_like_us",
"text": "It sounds like us"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_stays_playful",
"text": "It stays playful"
},
{
"id": "it_does_not_demand_a_response",
"text": "It does not demand a response"
},
{
"id": "it_fits_the_setting",
"text": "It fits the setting"
},
{
"id": "it_sounds_like_us",
"text": "It sounds like us"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_096",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which ordinary activities become better with a little flirting?",
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"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"flirting",
"daily_life",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "cooking",
"text": "Cooking"
},
{
"id": "running_errands",
"text": "Running errands"
},
{
"id": "taking_a_walk",
"text": "Taking a walk"
},
{
"id": "cleaning_up_together",
"text": "Cleaning up together"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "cooking",
"text": "Cooking"
},
{
"id": "running_errands",
"text": "Running errands"
},
{
"id": "taking_a_walk",
"text": "Taking a walk"
},
{
"id": "cleaning_up_together",
"text": "Cleaning up together"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_097",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which boring task has the greatest untapped romantic potential?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"humor",
"flirting",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "folding_laundry",
"text": "Folding laundry"
},
{
"id": "grocery_shopping",
"text": "Grocery shopping"
},
{
"id": "washing_dishes",
"text": "Washing dishes"
},
{
"id": "waiting_for_the_internet_to_restart",
"text": "Waiting for the internet to restart"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "folding_laundry",
"text": "Folding laundry"
},
{
"id": "grocery_shopping",
"text": "Grocery shopping"
},
{
"id": "washing_dishes",
"text": "Washing dishes"
},
{
"id": "waiting_for_the_internet_to_restart",
"text": "Waiting for the internet to restart"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_098",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps playfulness return after a serious week?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"playfulness",
"reconnection",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "doing_something_familiar",
"text": "Doing something familiar"
},
{
"id": "sharing_something_funny",
"text": "Sharing something funny"
},
{
"id": "leaving_one_evening_unscheduled",
"text": "Leaving one evening unscheduled"
},
{
"id": "not_forcing_a_big_mood_change",
"text": "Not forcing a big mood change"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
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"id": "doing_something_familiar",
"text": "Doing something familiar"
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"id": "sharing_something_funny",
"text": "Sharing something funny"
},
{
"id": "leaving_one_evening_unscheduled",
"text": "Leaving one evening unscheduled"
},
{
"id": "not_forcing_a_big_mood_change",
"text": "Not forcing a big mood change"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_099",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much would a little more flirting improve our time together?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"flirting",
"current_need",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A great deal"
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_100",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which playful challenges could be fun for one evening?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"games",
"playfulness",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "choose_each_other_s_snack",
"text": "Choose each other's snack"
},
{
"id": "make_the_worst_movie_pitch",
"text": "Make the worst movie pitch"
},
{
"id": "guess_old_answers",
"text": "Guess old answers"
},
{
"id": "create_a_ridiculous_house_award",
"text": "Create a ridiculous house award"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "choose_each_other_s_snack",
"text": "Choose each other's snack"
},
{
"id": "make_the_worst_movie_pitch",
"text": "Make the worst movie pitch"
},
{
"id": "guess_old_answers",
"text": "Guess old answers"
},
{
"id": "create_a_ridiculous_house_award",
"text": "Create a ridiculous house award"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_101",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which couple competition needs the least official oversight?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"humor",
"games",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "best_snack_choice",
"text": "Best snack choice"
},
{
"id": "worst_joke",
"text": "Worst joke"
},
{
"id": "fastest_puzzle",
"text": "Fastest puzzle"
},
{
"id": "who_can_avoid_changing_the_rules",
"text": "Who can avoid changing the rules"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "best_snack_choice",
"text": "Best snack choice"
},
{
"id": "worst_joke",
"text": "Worst joke"
},
{
"id": "fastest_puzzle",
"text": "Fastest puzzle"
},
{
"id": "who_can_avoid_changing_the_rules",
"text": "Who can avoid changing the rules"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_102",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes teasing affectionate rather than irritating?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"teasing",
"boundaries",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_topic_is_safe",
"text": "The topic is safe"
},
{
"id": "both_people_laugh",
"text": "Both people laugh"
},
{
"id": "it_stops_immediately_when_asked",
"text": "It stops immediately when asked"
},
{
"id": "it_never_targets_a_real_insecurity",
"text": "It never targets a real insecurity"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_topic_is_safe",
"text": "The topic is safe"
},
{
"id": "both_people_laugh",
"text": "Both people laugh"
},
{
"id": "it_stops_immediately_when_asked",
"text": "It stops immediately when asked"
},
{
"id": "it_never_targets_a_real_insecurity",
"text": "It never targets a real insecurity"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_103",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which kinds of compliments improve shared time without changing the subject?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"appreciation",
"flirting",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "something_about_your_company",
"text": "Something about your company"
},
{
"id": "something_you_handled_well",
"text": "Something you handled well"
},
{
"id": "something_attractive_i_noticed",
"text": "Something attractive I noticed"
},
{
"id": "something_uniquely_you",
"text": "Something uniquely you"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "something_about_your_company",
"text": "Something about your company"
},
{
"id": "something_you_handled_well",
"text": "Something you handled well"
},
{
"id": "something_attractive_i_noticed",
"text": "Something attractive I noticed"
},
{
"id": "something_uniquely_you",
"text": "Something uniquely you"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_104",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make playfulness feel unsafe or one-sided?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"playfulness",
"boundaries",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "jokes_target_a_sore_spot",
"text": "Jokes target a sore spot"
},
{
"id": "one_person_must_perform",
"text": "One person must perform"
},
{
"id": "teasing_continues_after_discomfort",
"text": "Teasing continues after discomfort"
},
{
"id": "laughter_is_used_to_dismiss_a_concern",
"text": "Laughter is used to dismiss a concern"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
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"id": "jokes_target_a_sore_spot",
"text": "Jokes target a sore spot"
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"id": "one_person_must_perform",
"text": "One person must perform"
},
{
"id": "teasing_continues_after_discomfort",
"text": "Teasing continues after discomfort"
},
{
"id": "laughter_is_used_to_dismiss_a_concern",
"text": "Laughter is used to dismiss a concern"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_105",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can flirting stay welcome when one person is not in a flirty mood?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"flirting",
"consent",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "accept_the_response",
"text": "Accept the response"
},
{
"id": "switch_to_ordinary_warmth",
"text": "Switch to ordinary warmth"
},
{
"id": "do_not_keep_escalating",
"text": "Do not keep escalating"
},
{
"id": "try_again_another_day_without_resentment",
"text": "Try again another day without resentment"
}
],
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"id": "accept_the_response",
"text": "Accept the response"
},
{
"id": "switch_to_ordinary_warmth",
"text": "Switch to ordinary warmth"
},
{
"id": "do_not_keep_escalating",
"text": "Do not keep escalating"
},
{
"id": "try_again_another_day_without_resentment",
"text": "Try again another day without resentment"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_106",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes an invitation to spend time together appealing?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"invitations",
"planning",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_is_specific",
"text": "It is specific"
},
{
"id": "it_fits_our_energy",
"text": "It fits our energy"
},
{
"id": "it_sounds_genuinely_wanted",
"text": "It sounds genuinely wanted"
},
{
"id": "it_leaves_room_for_another_idea",
"text": "It leaves room for another idea"
}
],
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"id": "it_is_specific",
"text": "It is specific"
},
{
"id": "it_fits_our_energy",
"text": "It fits our energy"
},
{
"id": "it_sounds_genuinely_wanted",
"text": "It sounds genuinely wanted"
},
{
"id": "it_leaves_room_for_another_idea",
"text": "It leaves room for another idea"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_107",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which invitation would be easiest to accept on a normal weekday?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"invitations",
"preferences",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "want_to_take_a_walk",
"text": "Want to take a walk?"
},
{
"id": "want_to_eat_together",
"text": "Want to eat together?"
},
{
"id": "can_we_sit_outside",
"text": "Can we sit outside?"
},
{
"id": "want_twenty_minutes_with_no_phones",
"text": "Want twenty minutes with no phones?"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "want_to_take_a_walk",
"text": "Want to take a walk?"
},
{
"id": "want_to_eat_together",
"text": "Want to eat together?"
},
{
"id": "can_we_sit_outside",
"text": "Can we sit outside?"
},
{
"id": "want_twenty_minutes_with_no_phones",
"text": "Want twenty minutes with no phones?"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_108",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How easy is it for us to make plans that actually happen?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"planning",
"current_state",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not easy",
"max_label": "Very easy"
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_109",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Put it on the calendar or decide the day of?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"planning",
"quick_choice",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "put_it_on_the_calendar",
"text": "Put it on the calendar"
},
{
"id": "decide_the_day_of",
"text": "Decide the day of"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "put_it_on_the_calendar",
"text": "Put it on the calendar"
},
{
"id": "decide_the_day_of",
"text": "Decide the day of"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_110",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which plans benefit most from being decided ahead of time?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"planning",
"timing",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_longer_outing",
"text": "A longer outing"
},
{
"id": "time_requiring_childcare",
"text": "Time requiring childcare"
},
{
"id": "a_shared_project",
"text": "A shared project"
},
{
"id": "a_night_protected_from_other_commitments",
"text": "A night protected from other commitments"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_longer_outing",
"text": "A longer outing"
},
{
"id": "time_requiring_childcare",
"text": "Time requiring childcare"
},
{
"id": "a_shared_project",
"text": "A shared project"
},
{
"id": "a_night_protected_from_other_commitments",
"text": "A night protected from other commitments"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_111",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What keeps scheduled quality time from feeling like another appointment?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"planning",
"intentionality",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_activity_still_feels_optional",
"text": "The activity still feels optional"
},
{
"id": "we_choose_something_enjoyable",
"text": "We choose something enjoyable"
},
{
"id": "the_plan_has_breathing_room",
"text": "The plan has breathing room"
},
{
"id": "we_do_not_overplan_every_minute",
"text": "We do not overplan every minute"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "the_activity_still_feels_optional",
"text": "The activity still feels optional"
},
{
"id": "we_choose_something_enjoyable",
"text": "We choose something enjoyable"
},
{
"id": "the_plan_has_breathing_room",
"text": "The plan has breathing room"
},
{
"id": "we_do_not_overplan_every_minute",
"text": "We do not overplan every minute"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_112",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Who should choose when neither of us has a useful opinion?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"humor",
"decision_making",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "take_turns",
"text": "Take turns"
},
{
"id": "flip_a_coin",
"text": "Flip a coin"
},
{
"id": "use_the_shortest_option",
"text": "Use the shortest option"
},
{
"id": "the_person_who_rejects_the_first_three_ideas",
"text": "The person who rejects the first three ideas"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "take_turns",
"text": "Take turns"
},
{
"id": "flip_a_coin",
"text": "Flip a coin"
},
{
"id": "use_the_shortest_option",
"text": "Use the shortest option"
},
{
"id": "the_person_who_rejects_the_first_three_ideas",
"text": "The person who rejects the first three ideas"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_113",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we make invitations easier when one person fears rejection?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"invitations",
"reassurance",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "keep_the_invitation_low_pressure",
"text": "Keep the invitation low pressure"
},
{
"id": "offer_more_than_one_time",
"text": "Offer more than one time"
},
{
"id": "accept_no_warmly",
"text": "Accept no warmly"
},
{
"id": "let_the_other_person_invite_next",
"text": "Let the other person invite next"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "keep_the_invitation_low_pressure",
"text": "Keep the invitation low pressure"
},
{
"id": "offer_more_than_one_time",
"text": "Offer more than one time"
},
{
"id": "accept_no_warmly",
"text": "Accept no warmly"
},
{
"id": "let_the_other_person_invite_next",
"text": "Let the other person invite next"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_114",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How wanted do you feel when I invite you to spend time together?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"invitations",
"feeling_wanted",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very wanted",
"max_label": "Clearly wanted"
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_115",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which planning habits create unnecessary friction?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"planning",
"humor",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "asking_what_do_you_want_repeatedly",
"text": "Asking what do you want repeatedly"
},
{
"id": "offering_ideas_nobody_likes",
"text": "Offering ideas nobody likes"
},
{
"id": "waiting_until_both_people_are_hungry",
"text": "Waiting until both people are hungry"
},
{
"id": "treating_a_two_hour_plan_like_a_summit",
"text": "Treating a two-hour plan like a summit"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "asking_what_do_you_want_repeatedly",
"text": "Asking what do you want repeatedly"
},
{
"id": "offering_ideas_nobody_likes",
"text": "Offering ideas nobody likes"
},
{
"id": "waiting_until_both_people_are_hungry",
"text": "Waiting until both people are hungry"
},
{
"id": "treating_a_two_hour_plan_like_a_summit",
"text": "Treating a two-hour plan like a summit"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_116",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "What is the best backup plan when our first idea falls apart?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"planning",
"flexibility",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "stay_home_intentionally",
"text": "Stay home intentionally"
},
{
"id": "pick_the_easiest_alternative",
"text": "Pick the easiest alternative"
},
{
"id": "reschedule_without_drama",
"text": "Reschedule without drama"
},
{
"id": "choose_food_and_reassess",
"text": "Choose food and reassess"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "stay_home_intentionally",
"text": "Stay home intentionally"
},
{
"id": "pick_the_easiest_alternative",
"text": "Pick the easiest alternative"
},
{
"id": "reschedule_without_drama",
"text": "Reschedule without drama"
},
{
"id": "choose_food_and_reassess",
"text": "Choose food and reassess"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_117",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps shared plans feel fair when our preferences differ?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"planning",
"fairness",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "alternate_choices",
"text": "Alternate choices"
},
{
"id": "find_the_part_both_enjoy",
"text": "Find the part both enjoy"
},
{
"id": "keep_some_plans_separate",
"text": "Keep some plans separate"
},
{
"id": "notice_who_has_compromised_recently",
"text": "Notice who has compromised recently"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "alternate_choices",
"text": "Alternate choices"
},
{
"id": "find_the_part_both_enjoy",
"text": "Find the part both enjoy"
},
{
"id": "keep_some_plans_separate",
"text": "Keep some plans separate"
},
{
"id": "notice_who_has_compromised_recently",
"text": "Notice who has compromised recently"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_118",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which invitations can create connection without requiring a whole evening?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"invitations",
"low_energy",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_short_walk",
"text": "A short walk"
},
{
"id": "coffee_together",
"text": "Coffee together"
},
{
"id": "one_episode",
"text": "One episode"
},
{
"id": "a_drive_with_no_errands",
"text": "A drive with no errands"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_short_walk",
"text": "A short walk"
},
{
"id": "coffee_together",
"text": "Coffee together"
},
{
"id": "one_episode",
"text": "One episode"
},
{
"id": "a_drive_with_no_errands",
"text": "A drive with no errands"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_119",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make repeated declined invitations feel difficult?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"invitations",
"disconnection",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "no_alternative_is_suggested",
"text": "No alternative is suggested"
},
{
"id": "the_reason_is_never_discussed",
"text": "The reason is never discussed"
},
{
"id": "one_person_stops_asking",
"text": "One person stops asking"
},
{
"id": "the_rejection_becomes_a_running_joke",
"text": "The rejection becomes a running joke"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "no_alternative_is_suggested",
"text": "No alternative is suggested"
},
{
"id": "the_reason_is_never_discussed",
"text": "The reason is never discussed"
},
{
"id": "one_person_stops_asking",
"text": "One person stops asking"
},
{
"id": "the_rejection_becomes_a_running_joke",
"text": "The rejection becomes a running joke"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_120",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would help us repair a pattern where one person plans everything?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"planning",
"fairness",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "name_the_imbalance",
"text": "Name the imbalance"
},
{
"id": "share_a_short_list_of_ideas",
"text": "Share a short list of ideas"
},
{
"id": "take_turns_initiating",
"text": "Take turns initiating"
},
{
"id": "value_simple_plans_as_real_effort",
"text": "Value simple plans as real effort"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "name_the_imbalance",
"text": "Name the imbalance"
},
{
"id": "share_a_short_list_of_ideas",
"text": "Share a short list of ideas"
},
{
"id": "take_turns_initiating",
"text": "Take turns initiating"
},
{
"id": "value_simple_plans_as_real_effort",
"text": "Value simple plans as real effort"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_121",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which parts of our history are most fun to revisit?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"couple_lore",
"memory",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "how_we_first_met",
"text": "How we first met"
},
{
"id": "early_misunderstandings",
"text": "Early misunderstandings"
},
{
"id": "trips_that_went_sideways",
"text": "Trips that went sideways"
},
{
"id": "small_moments_nobody_else_remembers",
"text": "Small moments nobody else remembers"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "how_we_first_met",
"text": "How we first met"
},
{
"id": "early_misunderstandings",
"text": "Early misunderstandings"
},
{
"id": "trips_that_went_sideways",
"text": "Trips that went sideways"
},
{
"id": "small_moments_nobody_else_remembers",
"text": "Small moments nobody else remembers"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_122",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which memory category deserves its own unofficial archive?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"couple_lore",
"preferences",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "funny_mistakes",
"text": "Funny mistakes"
},
{
"id": "favorite_trips",
"text": "Favorite trips"
},
{
"id": "ordinary_good_days",
"text": "Ordinary good days"
},
{
"id": "messages_we_still_quote",
"text": "Messages we still quote"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "funny_mistakes",
"text": "Funny mistakes"
},
{
"id": "favorite_trips",
"text": "Favorite trips"
},
{
"id": "ordinary_good_days",
"text": "Ordinary good days"
},
{
"id": "messages_we_still_quote",
"text": "Messages we still quote"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_123",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How connected do you feel to the story we have built together?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"couple_lore",
"current_state",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not very connected",
"max_label": "Deeply connected"
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_124",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Recreate an old favorite day or invent a new tradition?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"traditions",
"quick_choice",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "recreate_an_old_favorite_day",
"text": "Recreate an old favorite day"
},
{
"id": "invent_a_new_tradition",
"text": "Invent a new tradition"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "recreate_an_old_favorite_day",
"text": "Recreate an old favorite day"
},
{
"id": "invent_a_new_tradition",
"text": "Invent a new tradition"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_125",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What makes a tradition feel like ours?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"traditions",
"identity",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_detail_only_we_care_about",
"text": "A detail only we care about"
},
{
"id": "it_began_naturally",
"text": "It began naturally"
},
{
"id": "both_people_enjoy_it",
"text": "Both people enjoy it"
},
{
"id": "it_carries_a_story",
"text": "It carries a story"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_detail_only_we_care_about",
"text": "A detail only we care about"
},
{
"id": "it_began_naturally",
"text": "It began naturally"
},
{
"id": "both_people_enjoy_it",
"text": "Both people enjoy it"
},
{
"id": "it_carries_a_story",
"text": "It carries a story"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_126",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which traditions could be small enough to keep for years?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"traditions",
"sustainability",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "an_annual_meal",
"text": "An annual meal"
},
{
"id": "a_seasonal_walk",
"text": "A seasonal walk"
},
{
"id": "a_monthly_breakfast",
"text": "A monthly breakfast"
},
{
"id": "a_private_celebration_of_a_small_date",
"text": "A private celebration of a small date"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "an_annual_meal",
"text": "An annual meal"
},
{
"id": "a_seasonal_walk",
"text": "A seasonal walk"
},
{
"id": "a_monthly_breakfast",
"text": "A monthly breakfast"
},
{
"id": "a_private_celebration_of_a_small_date",
"text": "A private celebration of a small date"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_127",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which piece of couple history becomes funnier every year?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"humor",
"couple_lore",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_terrible_first_impression",
"text": "A terrible first impression"
},
{
"id": "a_travel_disaster",
"text": "A travel disaster"
},
{
"id": "a_failed_project",
"text": "A failed project"
},
{
"id": "the_argument_neither_person_can_now_explain",
"text": "The argument neither person can now explain"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_terrible_first_impression",
"text": "A terrible first impression"
},
{
"id": "a_travel_disaster",
"text": "A travel disaster"
},
{
"id": "a_failed_project",
"text": "A failed project"
},
{
"id": "the_argument_neither_person_can_now_explain",
"text": "The argument neither person can now explain"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_128",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps old memories create connection instead of comparison?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"memory",
"long_term",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "enjoy_them_without_demanding_life_feel_the_same",
"text": "Enjoy them without demanding life feel the same"
},
{
"id": "notice_what_has_improved",
"text": "Notice what has improved"
},
{
"id": "let_each_person_remember_differently",
"text": "Let each person remember differently"
},
{
"id": "use_them_as_inspiration_not_a_standard",
"text": "Use them as inspiration, not a standard"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "enjoy_them_without_demanding_life_feel_the_same",
"text": "Enjoy them without demanding life feel the same"
},
{
"id": "notice_what_has_improved",
"text": "Notice what has improved"
},
{
"id": "let_each_person_remember_differently",
"text": "Let each person remember differently"
},
{
"id": "use_them_as_inspiration_not_a_standard",
"text": "Use them as inspiration, not a standard"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_129",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How much do shared traditions matter to your idea of us?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"traditions",
"meaning",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not much",
"max_label": "A great deal"
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_130",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which objects can turn into good quality-time conversation?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"memory",
"conversation",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "old_photos",
"text": "Old photos"
},
{
"id": "a_saved_ticket",
"text": "A saved ticket"
},
{
"id": "a_familiar_recipe",
"text": "A familiar recipe"
},
{
"id": "something_from_our_first_home",
"text": "Something from our first home"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "old_photos",
"text": "Old photos"
},
{
"id": "a_saved_ticket",
"text": "A saved ticket"
},
{
"id": "a_familiar_recipe",
"text": "A familiar recipe"
},
{
"id": "something_from_our_first_home",
"text": "Something from our first home"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_131",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which tradition should be allowed to retire without an investigation?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"humor",
"traditions",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "the_one_everyone_dreads",
"text": "The one everyone dreads"
},
{
"id": "the_one_requiring_three_days_of_work",
"text": "The one requiring three days of work"
},
{
"id": "the_one_kept_only_from_guilt",
"text": "The one kept only from guilt"
},
{
"id": "the_one_nobody_remembers_starting",
"text": "The one nobody remembers starting"
}
],
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"options": [
{
"id": "the_one_everyone_dreads",
"text": "The one everyone dreads"
},
{
"id": "the_one_requiring_three_days_of_work",
"text": "The one requiring three days of work"
},
{
"id": "the_one_kept_only_from_guilt",
"text": "The one kept only from guilt"
},
{
"id": "the_one_nobody_remembers_starting",
"text": "The one nobody remembers starting"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_132",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What could make a new tradition feel natural?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"traditions",
"low_pressure",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "it_grows_from_something_we_already_enjoy",
"text": "It grows from something we already enjoy"
},
{
"id": "it_fits_our_schedule",
"text": "It fits our schedule"
},
{
"id": "it_can_change",
"text": "It can change"
},
{
"id": "missing_it_once_is_not_a_crisis",
"text": "Missing it once is not a crisis"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "it_grows_from_something_we_already_enjoy",
"text": "It grows from something we already enjoy"
},
{
"id": "it_fits_our_schedule",
"text": "It fits our schedule"
},
{
"id": "it_can_change",
"text": "It can change"
},
{
"id": "missing_it_once_is_not_a_crisis",
"text": "Missing it once is not a crisis"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_133",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which stories would you want us to keep telling?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"couple_lore",
"legacy",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "how_we_handled_a_hard_year",
"text": "How we handled a hard year"
},
{
"id": "something_ridiculous_we_did",
"text": "Something ridiculous we did"
},
{
"id": "a_risk_that_worked_out",
"text": "A risk that worked out"
},
{
"id": "an_ordinary_moment_that_became_important",
"text": "An ordinary moment that became important"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "how_we_handled_a_hard_year",
"text": "How we handled a hard year"
},
{
"id": "something_ridiculous_we_did",
"text": "Something ridiculous we did"
},
{
"id": "a_risk_that_worked_out",
"text": "A risk that worked out"
},
{
"id": "an_ordinary_moment_that_became_important",
"text": "An ordinary moment that became important"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_134",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which declined-invitation patterns can quietly create distance?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"memory",
"grief",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "using_the_past_to_criticize_the_present",
"text": "Using the past to criticize the present"
},
{
"id": "ignoring_what_has_changed",
"text": "Ignoring what has changed"
},
{
"id": "one_person_feeling_pressured_to_perform_an_old_version",
"text": "One person feeling pressured to perform an old version"
},
{
"id": "only_remembering_what_was_lost",
"text": "Only remembering what was lost"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "using_the_past_to_criticize_the_present",
"text": "Using the past to criticize the present"
},
{
"id": "ignoring_what_has_changed",
"text": "Ignoring what has changed"
},
{
"id": "one_person_feeling_pressured_to_perform_an_old_version",
"text": "One person feeling pressured to perform an old version"
},
{
"id": "only_remembering_what_was_lost",
"text": "Only remembering what was lost"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_135",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can our traditions leave room for who we are becoming?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"traditions",
"change",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "keep_the_meaning_and_change_the_details",
"text": "Keep the meaning and change the details"
},
{
"id": "retire_what_no_longer_fits",
"text": "Retire what no longer fits"
},
{
"id": "let_both_people_suggest_updates",
"text": "Let both people suggest updates"
},
{
"id": "create_new_traditions_without_replacing_every_old_one",
"text": "Create new traditions without replacing every old one"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "keep_the_meaning_and_change_the_details",
"text": "Keep the meaning and change the details"
},
{
"id": "retire_what_no_longer_fits",
"text": "Retire what no longer fits"
},
{
"id": "let_both_people_suggest_updates",
"text": "Let both people suggest updates"
},
{
"id": "create_new_traditions_without_replacing_every_old_one",
"text": "Create new traditions without replacing every old one"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_136",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which quality-time plans work well when mobility or pain is a factor?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"accessibility",
"comfort",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_comfortable_meal_at_home",
"text": "A comfortable meal at home"
},
{
"id": "a_scenic_drive",
"text": "A scenic drive"
},
{
"id": "a_seated_activity",
"text": "A seated activity"
},
{
"id": "a_short_outing_with_an_easy_exit",
"text": "A short outing with an easy exit"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_comfortable_meal_at_home",
"text": "A comfortable meal at home"
},
{
"id": "a_scenic_drive",
"text": "A scenic drive"
},
{
"id": "a_seated_activity",
"text": "A seated activity"
},
{
"id": "a_short_outing_with_an_easy_exit",
"text": "A short outing with an easy exit"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_137",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which plan is easiest when social energy is low?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"social_energy",
"preferences",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "stay_home_together",
"text": "Stay home together"
},
{
"id": "go_somewhere_quiet",
"text": "Go somewhere quiet"
},
{
"id": "see_one_trusted_person",
"text": "See one trusted person"
},
{
"id": "keep_separate_plans_and_reconnect_later",
"text": "Keep separate plans and reconnect later"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "stay_home_together",
"text": "Stay home together"
},
{
"id": "go_somewhere_quiet",
"text": "Go somewhere quiet"
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{
"id": "see_one_trusted_person",
"text": "See one trusted person"
},
{
"id": "keep_separate_plans_and_reconnect_later",
"text": "Keep separate plans and reconnect later"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_138",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How well do our plans respect each person's energy and comfort?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"accessibility",
"current_state",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not well enough",
"max_label": "Very well"
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_139",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "this_or_that",
"text": "Choose the more accessible plan or adapt the original idea?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"accessibility",
"quick_choice",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "choose_the_more_accessible_plan",
"text": "Choose the more accessible plan"
},
{
"id": "adapt_the_original_idea",
"text": "Adapt the original idea"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "choose_the_more_accessible_plan",
"text": "Choose the more accessible plan"
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{
"id": "adapt_the_original_idea",
"text": "Adapt the original idea"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_140",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps an outing feel accessible without becoming a medical operation?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"accessibility",
"planning",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "know_where_we_can_sit",
"text": "Know where we can sit"
},
{
"id": "keep_the_schedule_loose",
"text": "Keep the schedule loose"
},
{
"id": "plan_an_easy_exit",
"text": "Plan an easy exit"
},
{
"id": "bring_only_what_actually_helps",
"text": "Bring only what actually helps"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "know_where_we_can_sit",
"text": "Know where we can sit"
},
{
"id": "keep_the_schedule_loose",
"text": "Keep the schedule loose"
},
{
"id": "plan_an_easy_exit",
"text": "Plan an easy exit"
},
{
"id": "bring_only_what_actually_helps",
"text": "Bring only what actually helps"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_141",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which shared-time options work when one person needs sensory calm?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"sensory",
"accessibility",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_quiet_room",
"text": "A quiet room"
},
{
"id": "low_volume_music",
"text": "Low-volume music"
},
{
"id": "a_familiar_activity",
"text": "A familiar activity"
},
{
"id": "time_together_without_conversation",
"text": "Time together without conversation"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_quiet_room",
"text": "A quiet room"
},
{
"id": "low_volume_music",
"text": "Low-volume music"
},
{
"id": "a_familiar_activity",
"text": "A familiar activity"
},
{
"id": "time_together_without_conversation",
"text": "Time together without conversation"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_142",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which preparation earns the biggest return on a comfortable outing?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"humor",
"accessibility",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "checking_the_seating",
"text": "Checking the seating"
},
{
"id": "bringing_water",
"text": "Bringing water"
},
{
"id": "avoiding_the_busiest_hour",
"text": "Avoiding the busiest hour"
},
{
"id": "knowing_where_the_nearest_acceptable_bathroom_is",
"text": "Knowing where the nearest acceptable bathroom is"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "checking_the_seating",
"text": "Checking the seating"
},
{
"id": "bringing_water",
"text": "Bringing water"
},
{
"id": "avoiding_the_busiest_hour",
"text": "Avoiding the busiest hour"
},
{
"id": "knowing_where_the_nearest_acceptable_bathroom_is",
"text": "Knowing where the nearest acceptable bathroom is"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_143",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "How can we handle different social batteries respectfully?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"social_energy",
"differences",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "agree_on_an_exit_time",
"text": "Agree on an exit time"
},
{
"id": "let_one_person_leave_earlier",
"text": "Let one person leave earlier"
},
{
"id": "choose_smaller_gatherings",
"text": "Choose smaller gatherings"
},
{
"id": "do_not_shame_the_need_for_recovery",
"text": "Do not shame the need for recovery"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "agree_on_an_exit_time",
"text": "Agree on an exit time"
},
{
"id": "let_one_person_leave_earlier",
"text": "Let one person leave earlier"
},
{
"id": "choose_smaller_gatherings",
"text": "Choose smaller gatherings"
},
{
"id": "do_not_shame_the_need_for_recovery",
"text": "Do not shame the need for recovery"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_144",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "scale",
"text": "How hopeful do you feel about making more good time for us?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"future",
"hope",
"quality_time"
],
"answer_config": {
"min": 1,
"max": 5,
"min_label": "Not hopeful yet",
"max_label": "Very hopeful"
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_145",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which future changes could improve our quality time?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"future",
"small_changes",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "a_simpler_schedule",
"text": "A simpler schedule"
},
{
"id": "more_shared_routines",
"text": "More shared routines"
},
{
"id": "better_boundaries_around_work",
"text": "Better boundaries around work"
},
{
"id": "a_habit_of_inviting_each_other",
"text": "A habit of inviting each other"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "a_simpler_schedule",
"text": "A simpler schedule"
},
{
"id": "more_shared_routines",
"text": "More shared routines"
},
{
"id": "better_boundaries_around_work",
"text": "Better boundaries around work"
},
{
"id": "a_habit_of_inviting_each_other",
"text": "A habit of inviting each other"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_146",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "single_choice",
"text": "Which future-us plan sounds most believable?",
"depth": 1,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"future",
"humor",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "still_taking_walks",
"text": "Still taking walks"
},
{
"id": "still_sharing_snacks",
"text": "Still sharing snacks"
},
{
"id": "still_arguing_about_what_to_watch",
"text": "Still arguing about what to watch"
},
{
"id": "still_protecting_one_quiet_hour",
"text": "Still protecting one quiet hour"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "still_taking_walks",
"text": "Still taking walks"
},
{
"id": "still_sharing_snacks",
"text": "Still sharing snacks"
},
{
"id": "still_arguing_about_what_to_watch",
"text": "Still arguing about what to watch"
},
{
"id": "still_protecting_one_quiet_hour",
"text": "Still protecting one quiet hour"
}
]
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_147",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What helps plans adapt when health or energy changes long term?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"accessibility",
"change",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "focus_on_the_purpose_not_the_exact_activity",
"text": "Focus on the purpose, not the exact activity"
},
{
"id": "let_comfort_lead",
"text": "Let comfort lead"
},
{
"id": "keep_several_easy_options",
"text": "Keep several easy options"
},
{
"id": "review_what_still_feels_enjoyable",
"text": "Review what still feels enjoyable"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
{
"id": "focus_on_the_purpose_not_the_exact_activity",
"text": "Focus on the purpose, not the exact activity"
},
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"id": "let_comfort_lead",
"text": "Let comfort lead"
},
{
"id": "keep_several_easy_options",
"text": "Keep several easy options"
},
{
"id": "review_what_still_feels_enjoyable",
"text": "Review what still feels enjoyable"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_148",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "Which signs show our quality time is healthy?",
"depth": 2,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"wellbeing",
"quality_time",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "both_people_initiate",
"text": "Both people initiate"
},
{
"id": "plans_fit_real_life",
"text": "Plans fit real life"
},
{
"id": "separate_time_is_also_respected",
"text": "Separate time is also respected"
},
{
"id": "being_together_usually_restores_more_than_it_drains",
"text": "Being together usually restores more than it drains"
}
],
"answer_config": {
"options": [
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"id": "both_people_initiate",
"text": "Both people initiate"
},
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"id": "plans_fit_real_life",
"text": "Plans fit real life"
},
{
"id": "separate_time_is_also_respected",
"text": "Separate time is also respected"
},
{
"id": "being_together_usually_restores_more_than_it_drains",
"text": "Being together usually restores more than it drains"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_149",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What can make accessibility needs feel invisible during planning?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"accessibility",
"warning_signs",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "assuming_the_old_plan_still_works",
"text": "Assuming the old plan still works"
},
{
"id": "treating_adjustments_as_inconvenience",
"text": "Treating adjustments as inconvenience"
},
{
"id": "expecting_one_person_to_explain_repeatedly",
"text": "Expecting one person to explain repeatedly"
},
{
"id": "choosing_appearance_over_comfort",
"text": "Choosing appearance over comfort"
}
],
"answer_config": {
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{
"id": "assuming_the_old_plan_still_works",
"text": "Assuming the old plan still works"
},
{
"id": "treating_adjustments_as_inconvenience",
"text": "Treating adjustments as inconvenience"
},
{
"id": "expecting_one_person_to_explain_repeatedly",
"text": "Expecting one person to explain repeatedly"
},
{
"id": "choosing_appearance_over_comfort",
"text": "Choosing appearance over comfort"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
},
{
"id": "quality_time_150",
"category_id": "quality_time",
"type": "multi_choice",
"text": "What would make quality time remain meaningful as our lives change?",
"depth": 3,
"access": "premium",
"sex": "neutral",
"tags": [
"future",
"long_term",
"quality_time"
],
"options": [
{
"id": "keep_learning_what_each_person_enjoys",
"text": "Keep learning what each person enjoys"
},
{
"id": "protect_simple_connection",
"text": "Protect simple connection"
},
{
"id": "let_traditions_evolve",
"text": "Let traditions evolve"
},
{
"id": "choose_each_other_without_making_time_together_compulsory",
"text": "Choose each other without making time together compulsory"
}
],
"answer_config": {
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"id": "keep_learning_what_each_person_enjoys",
"text": "Keep learning what each person enjoys"
},
{
"id": "protect_simple_connection",
"text": "Protect simple connection"
},
{
"id": "let_traditions_evolve",
"text": "Let traditions evolve"
},
{
"id": "choose_each_other_without_making_time_together_compulsory",
"text": "Choose each other without making time together compulsory"
}
],
"min_selections": 1,
"max_selections": 3
}
}
]
}