7890 lines
212 KiB
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7890 lines
212 KiB
JSON
{
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"category": {
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"id": "rebuilding_trust",
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"display_name": "Rebuilding Trust",
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"description": "Careful, forward-looking questions for couples who both freely choose to repair trust through honesty, accountability, consistency, healthy boundaries, and respect for each person's independence.",
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"access": "mixed",
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"icon_name": "verified_user",
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"schema_version": "question_v2",
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"metadata": {
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"total_questions": 150,
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"free_questions": 45,
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"premium_questions": 105,
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"type_counts": {
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"multi_choice": 90,
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"single_choice": 30,
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"scale": 15,
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"this_or_that": 10,
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"written": 5
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},
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"depth_counts": {
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"1": 29,
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"2": 83,
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"3": 38
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},
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"legacy_question_count": 25,
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"preserved_legacy_question_ids": "rt_001 through rt_025",
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"content_version": "rebuilding_trust_150_final_v5",
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"pack_boundary": "This pack owns voluntary repair after trust has been hurt: apologies, truth-telling, follow-through, reassurance, setbacks, healthy privacy, rebuilding closeness, progress, and long-term maintenance. General everyday trust belongs in trust; argument mechanics belong in conflict.",
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"safety_boundary": "Repair must never require surveillance, location proof, device access, isolation, surrendered privacy, coerced disclosure, forced affection, forced forgiveness, or staying in a relationship that feels unsafe.",
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"rewrite_reason": "The legacy 25-question file used an invalid production wrapper, string depths, missing category_id and tags, missing mirrored answer_config options, top-level scale/answer objects, and one controlling option. The existing question IDs were retained while schema and documented content failures were corrected; 125 new questions were then added in five reviewed 25-question batches.",
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"review_workflow": "Six 25-question batches with schema, safety, voice, option-fit, repetition, and 50-question checkpoint reviews.",
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"final_validation": "pass",
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"batch_review": [
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{
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"batch": 1,
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"first_id": "rt_001",
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"last_id": "rt_025",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"batch": 2,
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"first_id": "rt_026",
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"last_id": "rt_050",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"batch": 3,
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"first_id": "rt_051",
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"last_id": "rt_075",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"batch": 4,
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"first_id": "rt_076",
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"last_id": "rt_100",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"batch": 5,
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"first_id": "rt_101",
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"last_id": "rt_125",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"batch": 6,
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"first_id": "rt_126",
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"last_id": "rt_150",
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"count": 25,
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"status": "PASS"
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}
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],
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"fifty_question_checkpoints": [
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{
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"checkpoint": 1,
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"first_id": "rt_001",
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"last_id": "rt_050",
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"count": 50,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"checkpoint": 2,
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"first_id": "rt_051",
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"last_id": "rt_100",
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"count": 50,
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"status": "PASS"
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},
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{
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"checkpoint": 3,
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"first_id": "rt_101",
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"last_id": "rt_150",
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"count": 50,
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"status": "PASS"
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}
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],
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"final_review": "Final production and editorial pass completed. Replaced remaining therapy-like phrasing with plain partner-to-partner language while preserving IDs, access, types, depths, and safety boundaries. Revalidated all schema fields, mirrored options, counts, uniqueness, prompt length, repetition, control-language context, six 25-question batches, and three 50-question checkpoints.",
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"final_editorial_patches": 14
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}
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},
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"questions": [
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{
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"id": "rt_001",
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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which small things I do lately have started to feel trustworthy?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"early_repair",
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"consistency",
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"rebuilding_trust"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "following_through_on_small_things",
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"text": "Following through on small things"
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},
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{
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"id": "telling_the_truth_quickly",
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"text": "Telling the truth quickly"
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},
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{
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"id": "checking_in_without_being_asked",
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"text": "Checking in without being asked"
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},
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{
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"id": "keeping_what_we_agreed_on",
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"text": "Keeping what we agreed on"
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},
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{
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"id": "being_where_i_said_i_would_be",
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"text": "Being where I said I would be"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "following_through_on_small_things",
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"text": "Following through on small things"
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},
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{
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"id": "telling_the_truth_quickly",
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"text": "Telling the truth quickly"
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},
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{
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"id": "checking_in_without_being_asked",
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"text": "Checking in without being asked"
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},
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{
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"id": "keeping_what_we_agreed_on",
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"text": "Keeping what we agreed on"
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},
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{
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"id": "being_where_i_said_i_would_be",
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"text": "Being where I said I would be"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "rt_002",
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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What helps you know I really listened?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"listening",
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"repair",
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"rebuilding_trust"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "letting_you_finish_the_thought",
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"text": "Letting you finish the thought"
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},
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{
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"id": "asking_a_specific_follow_up_question",
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"text": "Asking a specific follow-up question"
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},
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{
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"id": "remembering_the_important_part_later",
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"text": "Remembering the important part later"
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},
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{
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"id": "saying_back_what_i_understood",
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"text": "Saying back what I understood"
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},
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{
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"id": "not_jumping_straight_into_fixing_it",
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"text": "Not jumping straight into fixing it"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "letting_you_finish_the_thought",
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"text": "Letting you finish the thought"
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},
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{
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"id": "asking_a_specific_follow_up_question",
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"text": "Asking a specific follow-up question"
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},
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{
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"id": "remembering_the_important_part_later",
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"text": "Remembering the important part later"
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},
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{
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"id": "saying_back_what_i_understood",
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"text": "Saying back what I understood"
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},
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{
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"id": "not_jumping_straight_into_fixing_it",
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"text": "Not jumping straight into fixing it"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "rt_003",
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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which small wins would matter this week?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"small_wins",
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"early_repair",
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"rebuilding_trust"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_short_check_in_over_coffee",
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"text": "A short check-in over coffee"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_walk_with_no_phones",
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"text": "A walk with no phones"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_kind_message_while_apart",
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"text": "A kind message while apart"
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},
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{
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"id": "one_shared_meal_we_both_protect",
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"text": "One shared meal we both protect"
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},
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{
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"id": "ten_quiet_minutes_before_bed",
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"text": "Ten quiet minutes before bed"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_short_check_in_over_coffee",
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"text": "A short check-in over coffee"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_walk_with_no_phones",
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"text": "A walk with no phones"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_kind_message_while_apart",
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"text": "A kind message while apart"
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},
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{
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"id": "one_shared_meal_we_both_protect",
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"text": "One shared meal we both protect"
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},
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{
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"id": "ten_quiet_minutes_before_bed",
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"text": "Ten quiet minutes before bed"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "rt_004",
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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
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"type": "single_choice",
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"text": "Which part of an apology makes it believable to you?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"apology",
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"accountability",
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"rebuilding_trust"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "it_names_what_happened_clearly",
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"text": "It names what happened clearly"
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},
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{
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"id": "it_comes_without_being_forced",
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"text": "It comes without being forced"
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},
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{
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"id": "it_includes_a_specific_next_step",
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"text": "It includes a specific next step"
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},
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{
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"id": "changed_behavior_follows",
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"text": "Changed behavior follows"
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},
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{
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"id": "your_feelings_are_not_rushed",
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"text": "Your feelings are not rushed"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "it_names_what_happened_clearly",
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"text": "It names what happened clearly"
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},
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{
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"id": "it_comes_without_being_forced",
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"text": "It comes without being forced"
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},
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{
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"id": "it_includes_a_specific_next_step",
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"text": "It includes a specific next step"
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},
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{
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"id": "changed_behavior_follows",
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"text": "Changed behavior follows"
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},
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{
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"id": "your_feelings_are_not_rushed",
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"text": "Your feelings are not rushed"
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}
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]
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "rt_005",
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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
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"type": "scale",
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"text": "How steady does our relationship feel right now?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"current_state",
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"repair",
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"rebuilding_trust"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min": 1,
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"max": 5,
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"min_label": "Still shaky",
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"max_label": "Mostly steady"
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "rt_006",
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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "How would a useful check-in between us usually begin?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"check_in",
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"communication",
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"rebuilding_trust"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_simple_question_about_how_we_are_doing",
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"text": "A simple question about how we are doing"
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},
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{
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"id": "walking_side_by_side",
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"text": "Walking side by side"
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},
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{
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"id": "after_a_calm_moment",
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"text": "After a calm moment"
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},
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{
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"id": "with_one_clear_topic",
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"text": "With one clear topic"
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},
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{
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"id": "after_some_time_to_think",
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"text": "After some time to think"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_simple_question_about_how_we_are_doing",
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"text": "A simple question about how we are doing"
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},
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{
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"id": "walking_side_by_side",
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"text": "Walking side by side"
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},
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{
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"id": "after_a_calm_moment",
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"text": "After a calm moment"
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},
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{
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"id": "with_one_clear_topic",
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"text": "With one clear topic"
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},
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{
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"id": "after_some_time_to_think",
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"text": "After some time to think"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "rt_007",
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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
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"type": "this_or_that",
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"text": "Talk about it soon or think alone first?",
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"depth": 1,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"timing",
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"quick_choice",
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"rebuilding_trust"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "talk_about_it_soon",
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"text": "Talk about it soon"
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},
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{
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"id": "think_alone_first",
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"text": "Think alone first"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "talk_about_it_soon",
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"text": "Talk about it soon"
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},
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{
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"id": "think_alone_first",
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"text": "Think alone first"
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}
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]
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "rt_008",
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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which everyday habits help you believe I will be dependable?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"consistency",
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"follow_through",
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"rebuilding_trust"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "responding_when_i_reasonably_can",
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"text": "Responding when I reasonably can"
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},
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{
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"id": "saying_when_plans_change",
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"text": "Saying when plans change"
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},
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{
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"id": "following_through_on_small_promises",
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"text": "Following through on small promises"
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},
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{
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"id": "listening_after_asking_about_your_day",
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"text": "Listening after asking about your day"
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},
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{
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"id": "owning_a_mistake_quickly",
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"text": "Owning a mistake quickly"
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},
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{
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"id": "doing_what_i_said_i_would_do",
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"text": "Doing what I said I would do"
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}
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "responding_when_i_reasonably_can",
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"text": "Responding when I reasonably can"
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},
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{
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"id": "saying_when_plans_change",
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"text": "Saying when plans change"
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},
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{
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"id": "following_through_on_small_promises",
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"text": "Following through on small promises"
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},
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{
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"id": "listening_after_asking_about_your_day",
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"text": "Listening after asking about your day"
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},
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{
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"id": "owning_a_mistake_quickly",
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"text": "Owning a mistake quickly"
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},
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{
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"id": "doing_what_i_said_i_would_do",
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"text": "Doing what I said I would do"
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}
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],
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
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}
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},
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{
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"id": "rt_009",
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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which parts of an apology tend to land best for you?",
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"depth": 2,
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"access": "free",
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"tags": [
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"apology",
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"repair",
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"rebuilding_trust"
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],
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"options": [
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{
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"id": "a_clear_admission_without_excuses",
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"text": "A clear admission without excuses"
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},
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{
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"id": "hearing_that_your_reaction_makes_sense",
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"text": "Hearing that your reaction makes sense"
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},
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{
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"id": "a_specific_plan_for_what_changes",
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"text": "A specific plan for what changes"
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},
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{
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"id": "time_to_settle_before_talking",
|
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"text": "Time to settle before talking"
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "a_follow_up_after_a_few_days",
|
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"text": "A follow-up after a few days"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_admission_without_excuses",
|
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"text": "A clear admission without excuses"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "hearing_that_your_reaction_makes_sense",
|
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"text": "Hearing that your reaction makes sense"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "a_specific_plan_for_what_changes",
|
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"text": "A specific plan for what changes"
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "time_to_settle_before_talking",
|
|
"text": "Time to settle before talking"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "a_follow_up_after_a_few_days",
|
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"text": "A follow-up after a few days"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
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"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_010",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "What could help us remember the promises we make?",
|
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"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"agreements",
|
|
"follow_through",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "write_down_the_important_ones_together",
|
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"text": "Write down the important ones together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "mention_them_during_a_weekly_check_in",
|
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"text": "Mention them during a weekly check-in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repeat_back_what_each_person_agreed_to",
|
|
"text": "Repeat back what each person agreed to"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_one_shared_reminder",
|
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"text": "Use one shared reminder"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_the_system_simple_and_follow_through",
|
|
"text": "Keep the system simple and follow through"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "write_down_the_important_ones_together",
|
|
"text": "Write down the important ones together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "mention_them_during_a_weekly_check_in",
|
|
"text": "Mention them during a weekly check-in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repeat_back_what_each_person_agreed_to",
|
|
"text": "Repeat back what each person agreed to"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_one_shared_reminder",
|
|
"text": "Use one shared reminder"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_the_system_simple_and_follow_through",
|
|
"text": "Keep the system simple and follow through"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_011",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps a hard question feel caring rather than suspicious?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hard_questions",
|
|
"non_control",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_instead_of_assuming",
|
|
"text": "Asking instead of assuming"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_not_now_be_a_real_answer",
|
|
"text": "Letting not now be a real answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "starting_with_your_own_feeling",
|
|
"text": "Starting with your own feeling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_a_calm_tone",
|
|
"text": "Keeping a calm tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_that_understanding_matters_more_than_winning",
|
|
"text": "Saying that understanding matters more than winning"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_instead_of_assuming",
|
|
"text": "Asking instead of assuming"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "letting_not_now_be_a_real_answer",
|
|
"text": "Letting not now be a real answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "starting_with_your_own_feeling",
|
|
"text": "Starting with your own feeling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_a_calm_tone",
|
|
"text": "Keeping a calm tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_that_understanding_matters_more_than_winning",
|
|
"text": "Saying that understanding matters more than winning"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_012",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "When you tell me something hurt, which response helps you feel believed?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"validation",
|
|
"listening",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_a_moment_before_responding",
|
|
"text": "Taking a moment before responding"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_what_it_felt_like_for_you",
|
|
"text": "Asking what it felt like for you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_becoming_defensive_immediately",
|
|
"text": "Not becoming defensive immediately"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_back_what_i_heard",
|
|
"text": "Saying back what I heard"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "focusing_on_repair_instead_of_explanations",
|
|
"text": "Focusing on repair instead of explanations"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "taking_a_moment_before_responding",
|
|
"text": "Taking a moment before responding"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "asking_what_it_felt_like_for_you",
|
|
"text": "Asking what it felt like for you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "not_becoming_defensive_immediately",
|
|
"text": "Not becoming defensive immediately"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_back_what_i_heard",
|
|
"text": "Saying back what I heard"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "focusing_on_repair_instead_of_explanations",
|
|
"text": "Focusing on repair instead of explanations"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_013",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What pace for rebuilding feels most workable right now?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pace",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_small_step_at_a_time",
|
|
"text": "One small step at a time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "short_check_ins_more_often",
|
|
"text": "Short check-ins more often"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "longer_talks_with_space_between_them",
|
|
"text": "Longer talks with space between them"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "mostly_normal_life_with_talks_when_needed",
|
|
"text": "Mostly normal life with talks when needed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "still_figuring_out_the_pace",
|
|
"text": "Still figuring out the pace"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_small_step_at_a_time",
|
|
"text": "One small step at a time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "short_check_ins_more_often",
|
|
"text": "Short check-ins more often"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "longer_talks_with_space_between_them",
|
|
"text": "Longer talks with space between them"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "mostly_normal_life_with_talks_when_needed",
|
|
"text": "Mostly normal life with talks when needed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "still_figuring_out_the_pace",
|
|
"text": "Still figuring out the pace"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_014",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How manageable does the pace of rebuilding feel right now?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pace",
|
|
"current_state",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Too much right now",
|
|
"max_label": "Manageable"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_015",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make honesty about small things easier between us?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_the_reaction_will_stay_measured",
|
|
"text": "Knowing the reaction will stay measured"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calm_voice_even_when_it_is_hard",
|
|
"text": "A calm voice even when it is hard"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_to_think_before_answering",
|
|
"text": "Time to think before answering"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_about_the_issue_instead_of_attacking_character",
|
|
"text": "Talking about the issue instead of attacking character"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remembering_that_honesty_is_the_goal",
|
|
"text": "Remembering that honesty is the goal"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "knowing_the_reaction_will_stay_measured",
|
|
"text": "Knowing the reaction will stay measured"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calm_voice_even_when_it_is_hard",
|
|
"text": "A calm voice even when it is hard"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_to_think_before_answering",
|
|
"text": "Time to think before answering"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_about_the_issue_instead_of_attacking_character",
|
|
"text": "Talking about the issue instead of attacking character"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remembering_that_honesty_is_the_goal",
|
|
"text": "Remembering that honesty is the goal"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_016",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "When one of us slips, what is the most helpful first response?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"setback",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_it_gently_and_soon",
|
|
"text": "Name it gently and soon"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_a_breath_and_return_to_it",
|
|
"text": "Take a breath and return to it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_is_needed_first",
|
|
"text": "Ask what is needed first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "correct_the_behavior_and_check_in_later",
|
|
"text": "Correct the behavior and check in later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "decide_together_based_on_the_situation",
|
|
"text": "Decide together based on the situation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_it_gently_and_soon",
|
|
"text": "Name it gently and soon"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_a_breath_and_return_to_it",
|
|
"text": "Take a breath and return to it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_is_needed_first",
|
|
"text": "Ask what is needed first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "correct_the_behavior_and_check_in_later",
|
|
"text": "Correct the behavior and check in later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "decide_together_based_on_the_situation",
|
|
"text": "Decide together based on the situation"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_017",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of closeness would you want to rebuild first?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"pace",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "easy_time_together_without_heavy_topics",
|
|
"text": "Easy time together without heavy topics"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "unhurried_physical_affection",
|
|
"text": "Unhurried physical affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_time_in_the_same_room",
|
|
"text": "Quiet time in the same room"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "small_routines_done_together",
|
|
"text": "Small routines done together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honest_talks_with_recovery_time_afterward",
|
|
"text": "Honest talks with recovery time afterward"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "easy_time_together_without_heavy_topics",
|
|
"text": "Easy time together without heavy topics"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "unhurried_physical_affection",
|
|
"text": "Unhurried physical affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quiet_time_in_the_same_room",
|
|
"text": "Quiet time in the same room"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "small_routines_done_together",
|
|
"text": "Small routines done together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honest_talks_with_recovery_time_afterward",
|
|
"text": "Honest talks with recovery time afterward"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_018",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How comfortable are you with regular trust check-ins?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"check_in",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not comfortable yet",
|
|
"max_label": "Very comfortable"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_019",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "After a setback, what would help us regain our footing first?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"setback",
|
|
"recovery",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_honest_talk",
|
|
"text": "A short honest talk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_clear_change_for_next_time",
|
|
"text": "One clear change for next time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_to_cool_down",
|
|
"text": "Time to cool down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "returning_to_a_steady_routine",
|
|
"text": "Returning to a steady routine"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "naming_what_still_worked",
|
|
"text": "Naming what still worked"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_honest_talk",
|
|
"text": "A short honest talk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_clear_change_for_next_time",
|
|
"text": "One clear change for next time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_to_cool_down",
|
|
"text": "Time to cool down"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "returning_to_a_steady_routine",
|
|
"text": "Returning to a steady routine"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "naming_what_still_worked",
|
|
"text": "Naming what still worked"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_020",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which words from me help most when trust has been hurt?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reassurance",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_hear_what_you_are_saying",
|
|
"text": "I hear what you are saying"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_makes_sense_that_this_affected_you",
|
|
"text": "It makes sense that this affected you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "here_is_what_i_will_do_differently",
|
|
"text": "Here is what I will do differently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_do_not_have_to_answer_now",
|
|
"text": "You do not have to answer now"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_you_for_telling_me",
|
|
"text": "Thank you for telling me"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_hear_what_you_are_saying",
|
|
"text": "I hear what you are saying"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_makes_sense_that_this_affected_you",
|
|
"text": "It makes sense that this affected you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "here_is_what_i_will_do_differently",
|
|
"text": "Here is what I will do differently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_do_not_have_to_answer_now",
|
|
"text": "You do not have to answer now"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_you_for_telling_me",
|
|
"text": "Thank you for telling me"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_021",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which changes would feel like steady proof that things are improving?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"consistency",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fewer_repeats_of_the_same_problem",
|
|
"text": "Fewer repeats of the same problem"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_relaxed_time_together",
|
|
"text": "More relaxed time together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quicker_recovery_after_tension",
|
|
"text": "Quicker recovery after tension"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_honest_short_check_ins",
|
|
"text": "More honest short check-ins"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plans_that_actually_happen",
|
|
"text": "Plans that actually happen"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fewer_repeats_of_the_same_problem",
|
|
"text": "Fewer repeats of the same problem"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_relaxed_time_together",
|
|
"text": "More relaxed time together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "quicker_recovery_after_tension",
|
|
"text": "Quicker recovery after tension"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_honest_short_check_ins",
|
|
"text": "More honest short check-ins"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plans_that_actually_happen",
|
|
"text": "Plans that actually happen"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_022",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one thing you wish I understood about how this has affected you?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"understanding",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_023",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "After a hard day affects us, what would help most afterward?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stress",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_what_happened_gently",
|
|
"text": "Name what happened gently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_whether_something_deeper_is_going_on",
|
|
"text": "Ask whether something deeper is going on"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_space_and_return_later",
|
|
"text": "Take space and return later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plan_a_calmer_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Plan a calmer conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "decide_based_on_what_the_day_requires",
|
|
"text": "Decide based on what the day requires"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_what_happened_gently",
|
|
"text": "Name what happened gently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_whether_something_deeper_is_going_on",
|
|
"text": "Ask whether something deeper is going on"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_space_and_return_later",
|
|
"text": "Take space and return later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plan_a_calmer_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Plan a calmer conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "decide_based_on_what_the_day_requires",
|
|
"text": "Decide based on what the day requires"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_024",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should a useful trust check-in cover?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"check_in",
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_each_of_us_is_doing",
|
|
"text": "How each of us is doing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_thing_we_appreciate",
|
|
"text": "One thing we appreciate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "anything_small_that_felt_off",
|
|
"text": "Anything small that felt off"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_thing_we_want_to_do_together",
|
|
"text": "One thing we want to do together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "permission_to_say_nothing_is_wrong",
|
|
"text": "Permission to say nothing is wrong"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_each_of_us_is_doing",
|
|
"text": "How each of us is doing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_thing_we_appreciate",
|
|
"text": "One thing we appreciate"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "anything_small_that_felt_off",
|
|
"text": "Anything small that felt off"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_thing_we_want_to_do_together",
|
|
"text": "One thing we want to do together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "permission_to_say_nothing_is_wrong",
|
|
"text": "Permission to say nothing is wrong"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_025",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which simple things would feel good to do together this week?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"small_wins",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cook_a_meal_we_both_choose",
|
|
"text": "Cook a meal we both choose"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_a_short_walk_after_dinner",
|
|
"text": "Take a short walk after dinner"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "start_one_show_together",
|
|
"text": "Start one show together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sit_without_phones_for_twenty_minutes",
|
|
"text": "Sit without phones for twenty minutes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plan_something_small_to_anticipate",
|
|
"text": "Plan something small to anticipate"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cook_a_meal_we_both_choose",
|
|
"text": "Cook a meal we both choose"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_a_short_walk_after_dinner",
|
|
"text": "Take a short walk after dinner"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "start_one_show_together",
|
|
"text": "Start one show together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sit_without_phones_for_twenty_minutes",
|
|
"text": "Sit without phones for twenty minutes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plan_something_small_to_anticipate",
|
|
"text": "Plan something small to anticipate"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_026",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which forms of follow-through matter most after trust has been hurt?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"follow_through",
|
|
"consistency",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_the_promised_thing",
|
|
"text": "Doing the promised thing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "speaking_up_before_a_plan_changes",
|
|
"text": "Speaking up before a plan changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remembering_what_was_agreed",
|
|
"text": "Remembering what was agreed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "checking_back_without_being_prompted",
|
|
"text": "Checking back without being prompted"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "admitting_early_when_something_will_not_happen",
|
|
"text": "Admitting early when something will not happen"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "doing_the_promised_thing",
|
|
"text": "Doing the promised thing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "speaking_up_before_a_plan_changes",
|
|
"text": "Speaking up before a plan changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remembering_what_was_agreed",
|
|
"text": "Remembering what was agreed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "checking_back_without_being_prompted",
|
|
"text": "Checking back without being prompted"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "admitting_early_when_something_will_not_happen",
|
|
"text": "Admitting early when something will not happen"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_027",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What kind of promise feels easiest to trust right now?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"promises",
|
|
"pace",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_small_promise_kept_today",
|
|
"text": "A small promise kept today"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_plan_for_this_week",
|
|
"text": "A clear plan for this week"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_ongoing_habit",
|
|
"text": "One ongoing habit"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_new_promise_until_the_last_one_is_kept",
|
|
"text": "No new promise until the last one is kept"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_small_promise_kept_today",
|
|
"text": "A small promise kept today"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_plan_for_this_week",
|
|
"text": "A clear plan for this week"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_ongoing_habit",
|
|
"text": "One ongoing habit"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_new_promise_until_the_last_one_is_kept",
|
|
"text": "No new promise until the last one is kept"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_028",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes the truth easier to hear, even when it hurts?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hearing_it_directly",
|
|
"text": "Hearing it directly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_important_detail_being_hidden",
|
|
"text": "No important detail being hidden"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calm_setting",
|
|
"text": "A calm setting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "enough_time_to_respond",
|
|
"text": "Enough time to respond"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accountability_without_excuses",
|
|
"text": "Accountability without excuses"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hearing_it_directly",
|
|
"text": "Hearing it directly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_important_detail_being_hidden",
|
|
"text": "No important detail being hidden"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calm_setting",
|
|
"text": "A calm setting"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "enough_time_to_respond",
|
|
"text": "Enough time to respond"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accountability_without_excuses",
|
|
"text": "Accountability without excuses"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_029",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How predictable does my follow-through feel lately?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"consistency",
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Hard to predict",
|
|
"max_label": "Very dependable"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_030",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "One bigger repair step or several smaller ones?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pace",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_bigger_repair_step",
|
|
"text": "One bigger repair step"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "several_smaller_ones",
|
|
"text": "Several smaller ones"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_bigger_repair_step",
|
|
"text": "One bigger repair step"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "several_smaller_ones",
|
|
"text": "Several smaller ones"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_031",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which habits make honesty feel normal rather than dramatic?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"habits",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "mentioning_changes_early",
|
|
"text": "Mentioning changes early"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "answering_the_actual_question",
|
|
"text": "Answering the actual question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "correcting_a_mistaken_detail",
|
|
"text": "Correcting a mistaken detail"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_concerns_before_they_grow",
|
|
"text": "Sharing concerns before they grow"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_ordinary_conversations_open",
|
|
"text": "Keeping ordinary conversations open"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "mentioning_changes_early",
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"text": "Mentioning changes early"
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "answering_the_actual_question",
|
|
"text": "Answering the actual question"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "correcting_a_mistaken_detail",
|
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"text": "Correcting a mistaken detail"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_concerns_before_they_grow",
|
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"text": "Sharing concerns before they grow"
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "keeping_ordinary_conversations_open",
|
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"text": "Keeping ordinary conversations open"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
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"max_selections": 3
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_032",
|
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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "What helps a promise stay realistic?",
|
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"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"promises",
|
|
"planning",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "naming_exactly_what_will_happen",
|
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"text": "Naming exactly what will happen"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "choosing_a_reasonable_deadline",
|
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"text": "Choosing a reasonable deadline"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "planning_for_obstacles",
|
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"text": "Planning for obstacles"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agreeing_how_to_update_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Agreeing how to update each other"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_fewer_promises",
|
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"text": "Making fewer promises"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "naming_exactly_what_will_happen",
|
|
"text": "Naming exactly what will happen"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_a_reasonable_deadline",
|
|
"text": "Choosing a reasonable deadline"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "planning_for_obstacles",
|
|
"text": "Planning for obstacles"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agreeing_how_to_update_each_other",
|
|
"text": "Agreeing how to update each other"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_fewer_promises",
|
|
"text": "Making fewer promises"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_033",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "When plans change, what response rebuilds the most trust?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"plans",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tell_me_as_soon_as_you_know",
|
|
"text": "Tell me as soon as you know"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "explain_briefly_without_overdefending",
|
|
"text": "Explain briefly without overdefending"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offer_a_new_plan",
|
|
"text": "Offer a new plan"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "acknowledge_the_effect_on_me",
|
|
"text": "Acknowledge the effect on me"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tell_me_as_soon_as_you_know",
|
|
"text": "Tell me as soon as you know"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "explain_briefly_without_overdefending",
|
|
"text": "Explain briefly without overdefending"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offer_a_new_plan",
|
|
"text": "Offer a new plan"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "acknowledge_the_effect_on_me",
|
|
"text": "Acknowledge the effect on me"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_034",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which everyday moments reveal whether repair is becoming real?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"daily_life",
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_we_handle_a_small_mistake",
|
|
"text": "How we handle a small mistake"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_plans_stay_clear",
|
|
"text": "Whether plans stay clear"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_we_speak_under_stress",
|
|
"text": "How we speak under stress"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_apologies_lead_to_action",
|
|
"text": "Whether apologies lead to action"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_quickly_honesty_appears",
|
|
"text": "How quickly honesty appears"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_we_handle_a_small_mistake",
|
|
"text": "How we handle a small mistake"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_plans_stay_clear",
|
|
"text": "Whether plans stay clear"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_we_speak_under_stress",
|
|
"text": "How we speak under stress"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_apologies_lead_to_action",
|
|
"text": "Whether apologies lead to action"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_quickly_honesty_appears",
|
|
"text": "How quickly honesty appears"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_035",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one promise that would mean more through action than through words?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"promises",
|
|
"action",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_036",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would help us notice progress without pretending everything is fixed?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"realism",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_specific_improvements",
|
|
"text": "Name specific improvements"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "acknowledge_what_still_hurts",
|
|
"text": "Acknowledge what still hurts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "compare_patterns_rather_than_single_days",
|
|
"text": "Compare patterns rather than single days"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "celebrate_effort_without_declaring_victory",
|
|
"text": "Celebrate effort without declaring victory"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "review_what_needs_more_time",
|
|
"text": "Review what needs more time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_specific_improvements",
|
|
"text": "Name specific improvements"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "acknowledge_what_still_hurts",
|
|
"text": "Acknowledge what still hurts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "compare_patterns_rather_than_single_days",
|
|
"text": "Compare patterns rather than single days"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "celebrate_effort_without_declaring_victory",
|
|
"text": "Celebrate effort without declaring victory"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "review_what_needs_more_time",
|
|
"text": "Review what needs more time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_037",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signs show that accountability is becoming a habit?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "mistakes_are_admitted_sooner",
|
|
"text": "Mistakes are admitted sooner"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "excuses_become_shorter",
|
|
"text": "Excuses become shorter"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repairs_happen_without_reminders",
|
|
"text": "Repairs happen without reminders"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_same_issue_happens_less_often",
|
|
"text": "The same issue happens less often"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hard_questions_get_honest_answers",
|
|
"text": "Hard questions get honest answers"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "mistakes_are_admitted_sooner",
|
|
"text": "Mistakes are admitted sooner"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "excuses_become_shorter",
|
|
"text": "Excuses become shorter"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repairs_happen_without_reminders",
|
|
"text": "Repairs happen without reminders"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_same_issue_happens_less_often",
|
|
"text": "The same issue happens less often"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "hard_questions_get_honest_answers",
|
|
"text": "Hard questions get honest answers"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_038",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should happen when a promise cannot be kept?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"promises",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "say_so_before_the_deadline",
|
|
"text": "Say so before the deadline"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "explain_what_changed",
|
|
"text": "Explain what changed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offer_a_realistic_replacement",
|
|
"text": "Offer a realistic replacement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_would_reduce_the_impact",
|
|
"text": "Ask what would reduce the impact"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "say_so_before_the_deadline",
|
|
"text": "Say so before the deadline"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "explain_what_changed",
|
|
"text": "Explain what changed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offer_a_realistic_replacement",
|
|
"text": "Offer a realistic replacement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_would_reduce_the_impact",
|
|
"text": "Ask what would reduce the impact"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_039",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much do recent actions match recent words?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"action",
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Rarely match",
|
|
"max_label": "Consistently match"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_040",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a change feel lasting rather than temporary?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"change",
|
|
"consistency",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_continues_without_praise",
|
|
"text": "It continues without praise"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_holds_up_during_stress",
|
|
"text": "It holds up during stress"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_survives_an_inconvenient_week",
|
|
"text": "It survives an inconvenient week"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_discussed_honestly_when_it_slips",
|
|
"text": "It is discussed honestly when it slips"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_becomes_part_of_ordinary_life",
|
|
"text": "It becomes part of ordinary life"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_continues_without_praise",
|
|
"text": "It continues without praise"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_holds_up_during_stress",
|
|
"text": "It holds up during stress"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_survives_an_inconvenient_week",
|
|
"text": "It survives an inconvenient week"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_discussed_honestly_when_it_slips",
|
|
"text": "It is discussed honestly when it slips"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_becomes_part_of_ordinary_life",
|
|
"text": "It becomes part of ordinary life"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_041",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which truths are better shared early?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"timing",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_change_of_plans",
|
|
"text": "A change of plans"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_mistake_that_affects_us",
|
|
"text": "A mistake that affects us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_worry_about_an_agreement",
|
|
"text": "A worry about an agreement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_feeling_that_could_become_resentment",
|
|
"text": "A feeling that could become resentment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "uncertainty_about_keeping_a_promise",
|
|
"text": "Uncertainty about keeping a promise"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_change_of_plans",
|
|
"text": "A change of plans"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_mistake_that_affects_us",
|
|
"text": "A mistake that affects us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_worry_about_an_agreement",
|
|
"text": "A worry about an agreement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_feeling_that_could_become_resentment",
|
|
"text": "A feeling that could become resentment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "uncertainty_about_keeping_a_promise",
|
|
"text": "Uncertainty about keeping a promise"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_042",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kind of reminder feels least parental?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reminders",
|
|
"respect",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shared_calendar_note",
|
|
"text": "A shared calendar note"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_question",
|
|
"text": "A quick question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_reminder_we_both_agreed_to",
|
|
"text": "A reminder we both agreed to"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_reminder_unless_it_affects_a_deadline",
|
|
"text": "No reminder unless it affects a deadline"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shared_calendar_note",
|
|
"text": "A shared calendar note"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_quick_question",
|
|
"text": "A quick question"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_reminder_we_both_agreed_to",
|
|
"text": "A reminder we both agreed to"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_reminder_unless_it_affects_a_deadline",
|
|
"text": "No reminder unless it affects a deadline"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
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{
|
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"id": "rt_043",
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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "What helps responsibility stay mutual instead of becoming supervision?",
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"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"accountability",
|
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"non_control",
|
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"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
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"options": [
|
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{
|
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"id": "each_person_tracks_their_own_commitments",
|
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"text": "Each person tracks their own commitments"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "both_can_raise_concerns",
|
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"text": "Both can raise concerns"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "agreements_have_clear_limits",
|
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"text": "Agreements have clear limits"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "no_one_must_constantly_prove_innocence",
|
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"text": "No one must constantly prove innocence"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "independence_remains_respected",
|
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"text": "Independence remains respected"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "each_person_tracks_their_own_commitments",
|
|
"text": "Each person tracks their own commitments"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_can_raise_concerns",
|
|
"text": "Both can raise concerns"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agreements_have_clear_limits",
|
|
"text": "Agreements have clear limits"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_one_must_constantly_prove_innocence",
|
|
"text": "No one must constantly prove innocence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "independence_remains_respected",
|
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"text": "Independence remains respected"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_044",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Repair the missed promise first or discuss why it happened?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"setback",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repair_the_missed_promise_first",
|
|
"text": "Repair the missed promise first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "discuss_why_it_happened",
|
|
"text": "Discuss why it happened"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repair_the_missed_promise_first",
|
|
"text": "Repair the missed promise first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "discuss_why_it_happened",
|
|
"text": "Discuss why it happened"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_045",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which reactions encourage honesty the next time?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "free",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"response",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listen_before_deciding",
|
|
"text": "Listen before deciding"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_the_person_for_telling_you",
|
|
"text": "Thank the person for telling you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "address_the_issue_without_insults",
|
|
"text": "Address the issue without insults"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_a_break_if_emotions_rise",
|
|
"text": "Take a break if emotions rise"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_to_the_conversation_as_promised",
|
|
"text": "Return to the conversation as promised"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listen_before_deciding",
|
|
"text": "Listen before deciding"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_the_person_for_telling_you",
|
|
"text": "Thank the person for telling you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "address_the_issue_without_insults",
|
|
"text": "Address the issue without insults"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_a_break_if_emotions_rise",
|
|
"text": "Take a break if emotions rise"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_to_the_conversation_as_promised",
|
|
"text": "Return to the conversation as promised"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_046",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes an update feel reassuring without becoming a report?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"non_control",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_relevant_to_an_agreement",
|
|
"text": "It is relevant to an agreement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_freely_offered",
|
|
"text": "It is freely offered"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_stays_brief",
|
|
"text": "It stays brief"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_respects_normal_privacy",
|
|
"text": "It respects normal privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_follow_the_same_standard",
|
|
"text": "Both people follow the same standard"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_relevant_to_an_agreement",
|
|
"text": "It is relevant to an agreement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_freely_offered",
|
|
"text": "It is freely offered"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_stays_brief",
|
|
"text": "It stays brief"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_respects_normal_privacy",
|
|
"text": "It respects normal privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_follow_the_same_standard",
|
|
"text": "Both people follow the same standard"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_047",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which improvement would you notice first?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"daily_life",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_reliable_plans",
|
|
"text": "More reliable plans"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "faster_honesty",
|
|
"text": "Faster honesty"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "calmer_hard_talks",
|
|
"text": "Calmer hard talks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "less_need_to_ask_twice",
|
|
"text": "Less need to ask twice"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_reliable_plans",
|
|
"text": "More reliable plans"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "faster_honesty",
|
|
"text": "Faster honesty"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "calmer_hard_talks",
|
|
"text": "Calmer hard talks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "less_need_to_ask_twice",
|
|
"text": "Less need to ask twice"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_048",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can help us separate one mistake from a repeating pattern?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"patterns",
|
|
"setback",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "look_at_frequency",
|
|
"text": "Look at frequency"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "notice_whether_it_was_owned",
|
|
"text": "Notice whether it was owned"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "check_whether_repair_followed",
|
|
"text": "Check whether repair followed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "consider_what_changed_afterward",
|
|
"text": "Consider what changed afterward"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_deciding_in_the_hottest_moment",
|
|
"text": "Avoid deciding in the hottest moment"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "look_at_frequency",
|
|
"text": "Look at frequency"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "notice_whether_it_was_owned",
|
|
"text": "Notice whether it was owned"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "check_whether_repair_followed",
|
|
"text": "Check whether repair followed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "consider_what_changed_afterward",
|
|
"text": "Consider what changed afterward"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_deciding_in_the_hottest_moment",
|
|
"text": "Avoid deciding in the hottest moment"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_049",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which expectations should be written down rather than assumed?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"agreements",
|
|
"clarity",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "deadlines_that_matter",
|
|
"text": "Deadlines that matter"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_counts_as_an_update",
|
|
"text": "What counts as an update"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_to_handle_changes",
|
|
"text": "How to handle changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "which_decisions_are_shared",
|
|
"text": "Which decisions are shared"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_to_revisit_the_agreement",
|
|
"text": "When to revisit the agreement"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "deadlines_that_matter",
|
|
"text": "Deadlines that matter"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_counts_as_an_update",
|
|
"text": "What counts as an update"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_to_handle_changes",
|
|
"text": "How to handle changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "which_decisions_are_shared",
|
|
"text": "Which decisions are shared"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_to_revisit_the_agreement",
|
|
"text": "When to revisit the agreement"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_050",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make our agreements feel more trustworthy?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"agreements",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fewer_vague_promises",
|
|
"text": "Fewer vague promises"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_responsibility",
|
|
"text": "Clear responsibility"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "realistic_timing",
|
|
"text": "Realistic timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_plan_for_setbacks",
|
|
"text": "A plan for setbacks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "equal_room_to_question_the_agreement",
|
|
"text": "Equal room to question the agreement"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "fewer_vague_promises",
|
|
"text": "Fewer vague promises"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_responsibility",
|
|
"text": "Clear responsibility"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "realistic_timing",
|
|
"text": "Realistic timing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_plan_for_setbacks",
|
|
"text": "A plan for setbacks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "equal_room_to_question_the_agreement",
|
|
"text": "Equal room to question the agreement"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_051",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of reassurance respect both closeness and independence?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reassurance",
|
|
"independence",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "answering_a_reasonable_question_honestly",
|
|
"text": "Answering a reasonable question honestly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_relevant_changes",
|
|
"text": "Sharing relevant changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_agreed_commitments",
|
|
"text": "Keeping agreed commitments"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offering_affection_without_demanding_trust",
|
|
"text": "Offering affection without demanding trust"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respecting_time_apart",
|
|
"text": "Respecting time apart"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "answering_a_reasonable_question_honestly",
|
|
"text": "Answering a reasonable question honestly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_relevant_changes",
|
|
"text": "Sharing relevant changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_agreed_commitments",
|
|
"text": "Keeping agreed commitments"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offering_affection_without_demanding_trust",
|
|
"text": "Offering affection without demanding trust"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respecting_time_apart",
|
|
"text": "Respecting time apart"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_052",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What reassurance feels most useful when worry suddenly returns?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reassurance",
|
|
"trigger",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calm_factual_answer",
|
|
"text": "A calm factual answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_reminder_of_recent_follow_through",
|
|
"text": "A reminder of recent follow-through"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_moment_of_closeness",
|
|
"text": "A short moment of closeness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_to_settle_before_talking",
|
|
"text": "Time to settle before talking"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_calm_factual_answer",
|
|
"text": "A calm factual answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_reminder_of_recent_follow_through",
|
|
"text": "A reminder of recent follow-through"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_moment_of_closeness",
|
|
"text": "A short moment of closeness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_to_settle_before_talking",
|
|
"text": "Time to settle before talking"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_053",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which demands would worry you most during repair?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"non_control",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "giving_up_supportive_friendships",
|
|
"text": "Giving up supportive friendships"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "constant_location_proof",
|
|
"text": "Constant location proof"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "surrendering_all_privacy",
|
|
"text": "Surrendering all privacy"
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "accepting_insults_or_threats",
|
|
"text": "Accepting insults or threats"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "forgiving_before_it_feels_right",
|
|
"text": "Forgiving before it feels right"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "giving_up_supportive_friendships",
|
|
"text": "Giving up supportive friendships"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "constant_location_proof",
|
|
"text": "Constant location proof"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "surrendering_all_privacy",
|
|
"text": "Surrendering all privacy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accepting_insults_or_threats",
|
|
"text": "Accepting insults or threats"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "forgiving_before_it_feels_right",
|
|
"text": "Forgiving before it feels right"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_054",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
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"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How respected does your independence feel during this process?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"independence",
|
|
"respect",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not respected enough",
|
|
"max_label": "Fully respected"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_055",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Ask for reassurance now or revisit it after settling?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reassurance",
|
|
"timing",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_for_reassurance_now",
|
|
"text": "Ask for reassurance now"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "revisit_it_after_settling",
|
|
"text": "Revisit it after settling"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_for_reassurance_now",
|
|
"text": "Ask for reassurance now"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "revisit_it_after_settling",
|
|
"text": "Revisit it after settling"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_056",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which questions seek understanding without demanding proof?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"questions",
|
|
"non_control",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_would_help_me_understand_this",
|
|
"text": "What would help me understand this?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "is_there_a_detail_i_am_missing",
|
|
"text": "Is there a detail I am missing?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "can_we_revisit_what_we_agreed",
|
|
"text": "Can we revisit what we agreed?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_you_have_the_energy_to_talk_now",
|
|
"text": "Do you have the energy to talk now?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_would_make_this_conversation_clearer",
|
|
"text": "What would make this conversation clearer?"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_would_help_me_understand_this",
|
|
"text": "What would help me understand this?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "is_there_a_detail_i_am_missing",
|
|
"text": "Is there a detail I am missing?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "can_we_revisit_what_we_agreed",
|
|
"text": "Can we revisit what we agreed?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_you_have_the_energy_to_talk_now",
|
|
"text": "Do you have the energy to talk now?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_would_make_this_conversation_clearer",
|
|
"text": "What would make this conversation clearer?"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_057",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps protect normal privacy while trust is rebuilding?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"privacy",
|
|
"independence",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_shared_agreements",
|
|
"text": "Clear shared agreements"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_secret_rules",
|
|
"text": "No secret rules"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "freedom_from_device_searches",
|
|
"text": "Freedom from device searches"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honesty_about_matters_that_affect_us",
|
|
"text": "Honesty about matters that affect us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respect_for_personal_conversations",
|
|
"text": "Respect for personal conversations"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_shared_agreements",
|
|
"text": "Clear shared agreements"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_secret_rules",
|
|
"text": "No secret rules"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "freedom_from_device_searches",
|
|
"text": "Freedom from device searches"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honesty_about_matters_that_affect_us",
|
|
"text": "Honesty about matters that affect us"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respect_for_personal_conversations",
|
|
"text": "Respect for personal conversations"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_058",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which request would feel most reasonable during a worried moment?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reassurance",
|
|
"request",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "please_tell_me_what_changed",
|
|
"text": "Please tell me what changed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "can_we_review_the_agreement",
|
|
"text": "Can we review the agreement?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "could_we_talk_when_we_are_calmer",
|
|
"text": "Could we talk when we are calmer?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "would_you_remind_me_what_you_plan_to_do",
|
|
"text": "Would you remind me what you plan to do?"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "please_tell_me_what_changed",
|
|
"text": "Please tell me what changed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "can_we_review_the_agreement",
|
|
"text": "Can we review the agreement?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "could_we_talk_when_we_are_calmer",
|
|
"text": "Could we talk when we are calmer?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "would_you_remind_me_what_you_plan_to_do",
|
|
"text": "Would you remind me what you plan to do?"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_059",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can calm uncertainty without turning into checking behavior?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"uncertainty",
|
|
"non_control",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reviewing_known_facts",
|
|
"text": "Reviewing known facts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "waiting_before_asking_again",
|
|
"text": "Waiting before asking again"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "using_a_grounding_routine",
|
|
"text": "Using a grounding routine"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_at_an_agreed_time",
|
|
"text": "Talking at an agreed time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "noticing_recent_dependable_actions",
|
|
"text": "Noticing recent dependable actions"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reviewing_known_facts",
|
|
"text": "Reviewing known facts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "waiting_before_asking_again",
|
|
"text": "Waiting before asking again"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "using_a_grounding_routine",
|
|
"text": "Using a grounding routine"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_at_an_agreed_time",
|
|
"text": "Talking at an agreed time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "noticing_recent_dependable_actions",
|
|
"text": "Noticing recent dependable actions"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_060",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What kind of reassurance helps you without making either person feel controlled?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reassurance",
|
|
"non_control",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_061",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which boundaries keep the repair process respectful?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"respect",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_insults_during_questions",
|
|
"text": "No insults during questions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_forced_access_to_private_accounts",
|
|
"text": "No forced access to private accounts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "breaks_are_honored",
|
|
"text": "Breaks are honored"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "answers_can_wait_until_a_calm_time",
|
|
"text": "Answers can wait until a calm time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_may_reject_a_controlling_request",
|
|
"text": "Either person may reject a controlling request"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_insults_during_questions",
|
|
"text": "No insults during questions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_forced_access_to_private_accounts",
|
|
"text": "No forced access to private accounts"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "breaks_are_honored",
|
|
"text": "Breaks are honored"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "answers_can_wait_until_a_calm_time",
|
|
"text": "Answers can wait until a calm time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_may_reject_a_controlling_request",
|
|
"text": "Either person may reject a controlling request"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_062",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps a worried question stay separate from an accusation?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"questions",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_worry_as_your_own",
|
|
"text": "Name the worry as your own"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_one_clear_thing",
|
|
"text": "Ask one clear thing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_claiming_to_know_motives",
|
|
"text": "Avoid claiming to know motives"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listen_to_the_complete_answer",
|
|
"text": "Listen to the complete answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_before_asking_again",
|
|
"text": "Pause before asking again"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_worry_as_your_own",
|
|
"text": "Name the worry as your own"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_one_clear_thing",
|
|
"text": "Ask one clear thing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_claiming_to_know_motives",
|
|
"text": "Avoid claiming to know motives"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "listen_to_the_complete_answer",
|
|
"text": "Listen to the complete answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_before_asking_again",
|
|
"text": "Pause before asking again"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_063",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "When reassurance does not help immediately, what should happen next?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reassurance",
|
|
"pace",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "give_it_time",
|
|
"text": "Give it time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_to_the_facts_later",
|
|
"text": "Return to the facts later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_part_still_feels_unresolved",
|
|
"text": "Ask what part still feels unresolved"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stop_trying_to_force_relief",
|
|
"text": "Stop trying to force relief"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "give_it_time",
|
|
"text": "Give it time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_to_the_facts_later",
|
|
"text": "Return to the facts later"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_part_still_feels_unresolved",
|
|
"text": "Ask what part still feels unresolved"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stop_trying_to_force_relief",
|
|
"text": "Stop trying to force relief"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_064",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How free do you feel to say a request feels controlling?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"non_control",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not free yet",
|
|
"max_label": "Completely free"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_065",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which actions support trust without reducing normal freedom?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"independence",
|
|
"consistency",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_plans_clear",
|
|
"text": "Keeping plans clear"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "updating_relevant_changes",
|
|
"text": "Updating relevant changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "following_shared_agreements",
|
|
"text": "Following shared agreements"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "maintaining_separate_friendships",
|
|
"text": "Maintaining separate friendships"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "allowing_ordinary_private_time",
|
|
"text": "Allowing ordinary private time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_plans_clear",
|
|
"text": "Keeping plans clear"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "updating_relevant_changes",
|
|
"text": "Updating relevant changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "following_shared_agreements",
|
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"text": "Following shared agreements"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "maintaining_separate_friendships",
|
|
"text": "Maintaining separate friendships"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "allowing_ordinary_private_time",
|
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"text": "Allowing ordinary private time"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
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"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_066",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
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"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "What can help us tell reassurance from surveillance?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"non_control",
|
|
"clarity",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance_has_a_clear_purpose",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance has a clear purpose"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_request_is_limited",
|
|
"text": "The request is limited"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_can_discuss_it",
|
|
"text": "Both people can discuss it"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_punishment_follows_a_no",
|
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"text": "No punishment follows a no"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_does_not_expand_without_agreement",
|
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"text": "It does not expand without agreement"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassurance_has_a_clear_purpose",
|
|
"text": "Reassurance has a clear purpose"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_request_is_limited",
|
|
"text": "The request is limited"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_can_discuss_it",
|
|
"text": "Both people can discuss it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_punishment_follows_a_no",
|
|
"text": "No punishment follows a no"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_does_not_expand_without_agreement",
|
|
"text": "It does not expand without agreement"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_067",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which response would feel most respectful during a suspicious moment?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"respect",
|
|
"questions",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_will_answer_but_please_ask_calmly",
|
|
"text": "I will answer, but please ask calmly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_us_return_to_this_in_twenty_minutes",
|
|
"text": "Let us return to this in twenty minutes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_understand_why_you_are_worried",
|
|
"text": "I understand why you are worried"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_cannot_agree_to_being_searched",
|
|
"text": "I cannot agree to being searched"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_will_answer_but_please_ask_calmly",
|
|
"text": "I will answer, but please ask calmly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_us_return_to_this_in_twenty_minutes",
|
|
"text": "Let us return to this in twenty minutes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_understand_why_you_are_worried",
|
|
"text": "I understand why you are worried"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_cannot_agree_to_being_searched",
|
|
"text": "I cannot agree to being searched"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_068",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a temporary repair agreement fair?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"agreements",
|
|
"fairness",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_reason",
|
|
"text": "A clear reason"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_specific_end_date",
|
|
"text": "A specific end date"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "consent_from_both_people",
|
|
"text": "Consent from both people"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "regular_review",
|
|
"text": "Regular review"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_loss_of_basic_independence",
|
|
"text": "No loss of basic independence"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_reason",
|
|
"text": "A clear reason"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_specific_end_date",
|
|
"text": "A specific end date"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "consent_from_both_people",
|
|
"text": "Consent from both people"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "regular_review",
|
|
"text": "Regular review"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_loss_of_basic_independence",
|
|
"text": "No loss of basic independence"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_069",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "More information or more consistent action?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"reassurance",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_information",
|
|
"text": "More information"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_consistent_action",
|
|
"text": "More consistent action"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_information",
|
|
"text": "More information"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_consistent_action",
|
|
"text": "More consistent action"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_070",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signs suggest a reassurance request needs to be reconsidered?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"non_control",
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_keeps_expanding",
|
|
"text": "It keeps expanding"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_requires_constant_proof",
|
|
"text": "It requires constant proof"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_isolates_someone",
|
|
"text": "It isolates someone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_never_reduces_worry",
|
|
"text": "It never reduces worry"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_enforced_through_anger",
|
|
"text": "It is enforced through anger"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_keeps_expanding",
|
|
"text": "It keeps expanding"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_requires_constant_proof",
|
|
"text": "It requires constant proof"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_isolates_someone",
|
|
"text": "It isolates someone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_never_reduces_worry",
|
|
"text": "It never reduces worry"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_enforced_through_anger",
|
|
"text": "It is enforced through anger"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_071",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps trust grow while each person keeps a separate identity?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"identity",
|
|
"independence",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "supporting_individual_interests",
|
|
"text": "Supporting individual interests"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respecting_private_reflection",
|
|
"text": "Respecting private reflection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_honest_shared_plans",
|
|
"text": "Keeping honest shared plans"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "welcoming_outside_support",
|
|
"text": "Welcoming outside support"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_closeness_rather_than_requiring_it",
|
|
"text": "Choosing closeness rather than requiring it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "supporting_individual_interests",
|
|
"text": "Supporting individual interests"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respecting_private_reflection",
|
|
"text": "Respecting private reflection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_honest_shared_plans",
|
|
"text": "Keeping honest shared plans"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "welcoming_outside_support",
|
|
"text": "Welcoming outside support"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_closeness_rather_than_requiring_it",
|
|
"text": "Choosing closeness rather than requiring it"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_072",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What is the best response to an unreasonable proof request?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"non_control",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_concern_calmly",
|
|
"text": "Name the concern calmly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "decline_the_request",
|
|
"text": "Decline the request"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offer_a_healthier_alternative",
|
|
"text": "Offer a healthier alternative"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_the_conversation_if_pressure_continues",
|
|
"text": "Pause the conversation if pressure continues"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_concern_calmly",
|
|
"text": "Name the concern calmly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "decline_the_request",
|
|
"text": "Decline the request"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "offer_a_healthier_alternative",
|
|
"text": "Offer a healthier alternative"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_the_conversation_if_pressure_continues",
|
|
"text": "Pause the conversation if pressure continues"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_073",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which private areas matter most to protect during repair?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"privacy",
|
|
"support",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "therapy_or_counseling_conversations",
|
|
"text": "Therapy or counseling conversations"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_friend_s_personal_information",
|
|
"text": "A friend's personal information"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "private_journaling",
|
|
"text": "Private journaling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "work_matters_protected_by_confidentiality",
|
|
"text": "Work matters protected by confidentiality"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "support_conversations_that_do_not_hide_harmful_actions",
|
|
"text": "Support conversations that do not hide harmful actions"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "therapy_or_counseling_conversations",
|
|
"text": "Therapy or counseling conversations"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_friend_s_personal_information",
|
|
"text": "A friend's personal information"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "private_journaling",
|
|
"text": "Private journaling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "work_matters_protected_by_confidentiality",
|
|
"text": "Work matters protected by confidentiality"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "support_conversations_that_do_not_hide_harmful_actions",
|
|
"text": "Support conversations that do not hide harmful actions"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_074",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can make time apart feel less threatening?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"time_apart",
|
|
"reassurance",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_general_plan",
|
|
"text": "A clear general plan"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_warm_goodbye",
|
|
"text": "A warm goodbye"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_one_agreed_check_in",
|
|
"text": "Keeping one agreed check-in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "following_through_on_return_plans",
|
|
"text": "Following through on return plans"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "freedom_from_repeated_questioning",
|
|
"text": "Freedom from repeated questioning"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_general_plan",
|
|
"text": "A clear general plan"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_warm_goodbye",
|
|
"text": "A warm goodbye"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_one_agreed_check_in",
|
|
"text": "Keeping one agreed check-in"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "following_through_on_return_plans",
|
|
"text": "Following through on return plans"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "freedom_from_repeated_questioning",
|
|
"text": "Freedom from repeated questioning"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_075",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which freedoms should stay protected during repair?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"independence",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_friends",
|
|
"text": "Choosing friends"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_personal_interests",
|
|
"text": "Having personal interests"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_bodily_autonomy",
|
|
"text": "Keeping bodily autonomy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "seeking_outside_support",
|
|
"text": "Seeking outside support"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_no_to_coercive_demands",
|
|
"text": "Saying no to coercive demands"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_friends",
|
|
"text": "Choosing friends"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "having_personal_interests",
|
|
"text": "Having personal interests"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keeping_bodily_autonomy",
|
|
"text": "Keeping bodily autonomy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "seeking_outside_support",
|
|
"text": "Seeking outside support"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "saying_no_to_coercive_demands",
|
|
"text": "Saying no to coercive demands"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_076",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps us discuss the original hurt without reliving every detail?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hard_conversations",
|
|
"pace",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choose_one_part_at_a_time",
|
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"text": "Choose one part at a time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stop_when_either_person_is_overwhelmed",
|
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"text": "Stop when either person is overwhelmed"
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "focus_on_what_remains_unresolved",
|
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"text": "Focus on what remains unresolved"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_demanding_repeated_retelling",
|
|
"text": "Avoid demanding repeated retelling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agree_when_to_continue",
|
|
"text": "Agree when to continue"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choose_one_part_at_a_time",
|
|
"text": "Choose one part at a time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stop_when_either_person_is_overwhelmed",
|
|
"text": "Stop when either person is overwhelmed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "focus_on_what_remains_unresolved",
|
|
"text": "Focus on what remains unresolved"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_demanding_repeated_retelling",
|
|
"text": "Avoid demanding repeated retelling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agree_when_to_continue",
|
|
"text": "Agree when to continue"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_077",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should guide a conversation when our memories differ?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"memory",
|
|
"conflict",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_effect_on_each_person",
|
|
"text": "The effect on each person"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "facts_we_both_agree_on",
|
|
"text": "Facts we both agree on"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_repair_is_possible_now",
|
|
"text": "What repair is possible now"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_pause_before_deciding_what_it_means",
|
|
"text": "A pause before deciding what it means"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_effect_on_each_person",
|
|
"text": "The effect on each person"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "facts_we_both_agree_on",
|
|
"text": "Facts we both agree on"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_repair_is_possible_now",
|
|
"text": "What repair is possible now"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_pause_before_deciding_what_it_means",
|
|
"text": "A pause before deciding what it means"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_078",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which responses make defensiveness less likely?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_about_one_event",
|
|
"text": "Ask about one event"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_character_judgments",
|
|
"text": "Avoid character judgments"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_a_measured_tone",
|
|
"text": "Use a measured tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "acknowledge_what_is_already_understood",
|
|
"text": "Acknowledge what is already understood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "allow_time_before_answering",
|
|
"text": "Allow time before answering"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_about_one_event",
|
|
"text": "Ask about one event"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_character_judgments",
|
|
"text": "Avoid character judgments"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_a_measured_tone",
|
|
"text": "Use a measured tone"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "acknowledge_what_is_already_understood",
|
|
"text": "Acknowledge what is already understood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "allow_time_before_answering",
|
|
"text": "Allow time before answering"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_079",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How quickly do our hard conversations become defensive?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"defensiveness",
|
|
"current_state",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Very quickly",
|
|
"max_label": "Rarely"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_080",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Short conversation now or a longer one later?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"timing",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "short_conversation_now",
|
|
"text": "Short conversation now"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_longer_one_later",
|
|
"text": "A longer one later"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "short_conversation_now",
|
|
"text": "Short conversation now"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_longer_one_later",
|
|
"text": "A longer one later"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_081",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps an explanation avoid sounding like an excuse?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"explanation",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "start_by_owning_the_impact",
|
|
"text": "Start by owning the impact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_the_context_brief",
|
|
"text": "Keep the context brief"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_not_blame_the_other_person",
|
|
"text": "Do not blame the other person"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_what_changes_next",
|
|
"text": "Name what changes next"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_that_understanding_may_take_time",
|
|
"text": "Accept that understanding may take time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "start_by_owning_the_impact",
|
|
"text": "Start by owning the impact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_the_context_brief",
|
|
"text": "Keep the context brief"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_not_blame_the_other_person",
|
|
"text": "Do not blame the other person"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_what_changes_next",
|
|
"text": "Name what changes next"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_that_understanding_may_take_time",
|
|
"text": "Accept that understanding may take time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_082",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signs mean a conversation needs a break?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"hard_conversations",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "voices_keep_rising",
|
|
"text": "Voices keep rising"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_same_sentence_repeats",
|
|
"text": "The same sentence repeats"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "someone_cannot_think_clearly",
|
|
"text": "Someone cannot think clearly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "questions_become_accusations",
|
|
"text": "Questions become accusations"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_asks_to_stop",
|
|
"text": "Either person asks to stop"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "voices_keep_rising",
|
|
"text": "Voices keep rising"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_same_sentence_repeats",
|
|
"text": "The same sentence repeats"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "someone_cannot_think_clearly",
|
|
"text": "Someone cannot think clearly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "questions_become_accusations",
|
|
"text": "Questions become accusations"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_asks_to_stop",
|
|
"text": "Either person asks to stop"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_083",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What is the best way to return after a break?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"follow_through",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "at_the_agreed_time",
|
|
"text": "At the agreed time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "with_one_clear_topic",
|
|
"text": "With one clear topic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_checking_readiness",
|
|
"text": "After checking readiness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "with_a_calmer_opening",
|
|
"text": "With a calmer opening"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "at_the_agreed_time",
|
|
"text": "At the agreed time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "with_one_clear_topic",
|
|
"text": "With one clear topic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "after_checking_readiness",
|
|
"text": "After checking readiness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "with_a_calmer_opening",
|
|
"text": "With a calmer opening"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_084",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can keep one setback from erasing every improvement?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"setback",
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_what_changed_before_it",
|
|
"text": "Name what changed before it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repair_the_current_mistake",
|
|
"text": "Repair the current mistake"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_all_or_nothing_language",
|
|
"text": "Avoid all-or-nothing language"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "review_whether_the_pattern_returned",
|
|
"text": "Review whether the pattern returned"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_the_progress_that_is_still_real",
|
|
"text": "Keep the progress that is still real"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_what_changed_before_it",
|
|
"text": "Name what changed before it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repair_the_current_mistake",
|
|
"text": "Repair the current mistake"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_all_or_nothing_language",
|
|
"text": "Avoid all-or-nothing language"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "review_whether_the_pattern_returned",
|
|
"text": "Review whether the pattern returned"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_the_progress_that_is_still_real",
|
|
"text": "Keep the progress that is still real"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_085",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What would help you talk about a setback without feeling that all progress disappeared?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"setback",
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_086",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which first steps help after new information comes to light?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"new_information",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tell_the_full_relevant_truth",
|
|
"text": "Tell the full relevant truth"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "allow_an_immediate_pause",
|
|
"text": "Allow an immediate pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "answer_one_question_at_a_time",
|
|
"text": "Answer one question at a time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_not_demand_a_quick_decision",
|
|
"text": "Do not demand a quick decision"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "discuss_the_next_practical_step",
|
|
"text": "Discuss the next practical step"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "tell_the_full_relevant_truth",
|
|
"text": "Tell the full relevant truth"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "allow_an_immediate_pause",
|
|
"text": "Allow an immediate pause"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "answer_one_question_at_a_time",
|
|
"text": "Answer one question at a time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_not_demand_a_quick_decision",
|
|
"text": "Do not demand a quick decision"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "discuss_the_next_practical_step",
|
|
"text": "Discuss the next practical step"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_087",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a difficult answer easier to trust?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"hard_conversations",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_stays_consistent",
|
|
"text": "It stays consistent"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_includes_uncertainty_honestly",
|
|
"text": "It includes uncertainty honestly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_does_not_minimize_the_effect",
|
|
"text": "It does not minimize the effect"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_answers_the_question_asked",
|
|
"text": "It answers the question asked"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_can_be_revisited_without_changing",
|
|
"text": "It can be revisited without changing"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_stays_consistent",
|
|
"text": "It stays consistent"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_includes_uncertainty_honestly",
|
|
"text": "It includes uncertainty honestly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_does_not_minimize_the_effect",
|
|
"text": "It does not minimize the effect"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_answers_the_question_asked",
|
|
"text": "It answers the question asked"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_can_be_revisited_without_changing",
|
|
"text": "It can be revisited without changing"
|
|
}
|
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],
|
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"min_selections": 1,
|
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"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_088",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which response helps most when shame takes over?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"shame",
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_to_the_specific_behavior",
|
|
"text": "Return to the specific behavior"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_a_short_break",
|
|
"text": "Take a short break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remember_shame_is_not_repair",
|
|
"text": "Remember shame is not repair"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_action_is_needed_now",
|
|
"text": "Ask what action is needed now"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_to_the_specific_behavior",
|
|
"text": "Return to the specific behavior"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_a_short_break",
|
|
"text": "Take a short break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remember_shame_is_not_repair",
|
|
"text": "Remember shame is not repair"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_action_is_needed_now",
|
|
"text": "Ask what action is needed now"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_089",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How confident are you that we can recover from a smaller setback?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"setback",
|
|
"confidence",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not confident yet",
|
|
"max_label": "Very confident"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_090",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps accountability continue without endless punishment?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"non_punishing",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_consequences_tied_to_the_issue",
|
|
"text": "Clear consequences tied to the issue"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_real_path_to_improvement",
|
|
"text": "A real path to improvement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_repeated_humiliation",
|
|
"text": "No repeated humiliation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "progress_is_allowed_to_count",
|
|
"text": "Progress is allowed to count"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "boundaries_remain_consistent",
|
|
"text": "Boundaries remain consistent"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clear_consequences_tied_to_the_issue",
|
|
"text": "Clear consequences tied to the issue"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_real_path_to_improvement",
|
|
"text": "A real path to improvement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_repeated_humiliation",
|
|
"text": "No repeated humiliation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "progress_is_allowed_to_count",
|
|
"text": "Progress is allowed to count"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "boundaries_remain_consistent",
|
|
"text": "Boundaries remain consistent"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_091",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which phrases can slow down a defensive conversation?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_me_make_sure_i_understood",
|
|
"text": "Let me make sure I understood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_need_a_moment_before_i_answer",
|
|
"text": "I need a moment before I answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_can_see_why_that_matters",
|
|
"text": "I can see why that matters"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_discussing_one_thing",
|
|
"text": "We are discussing one thing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "can_we_return_to_this_calmly",
|
|
"text": "Can we return to this calmly?"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_me_make_sure_i_understood",
|
|
"text": "Let me make sure I understood"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_need_a_moment_before_i_answer",
|
|
"text": "I need a moment before I answer"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "i_can_see_why_that_matters",
|
|
"text": "I can see why that matters"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "we_are_discussing_one_thing",
|
|
"text": "We are discussing one thing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "can_we_return_to_this_calmly",
|
|
"text": "Can we return to this calmly?"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_092",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "When the same issue returns, what should we examine first?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"patterns",
|
|
"setback",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_the_agreement_was_clear",
|
|
"text": "Whether the agreement was clear"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_blocked_follow_through",
|
|
"text": "What blocked follow-through"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_the_issue_was_repaired",
|
|
"text": "How the issue was repaired"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_the_current_plan_is_realistic",
|
|
"text": "Whether the current plan is realistic"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_the_agreement_was_clear",
|
|
"text": "Whether the agreement was clear"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_blocked_follow_through",
|
|
"text": "What blocked follow-through"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "how_the_issue_was_repaired",
|
|
"text": "How the issue was repaired"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_the_current_plan_is_realistic",
|
|
"text": "Whether the current plan is realistic"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_093",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps distinguish a mistake from deception?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"patterns",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_it_was_corrected_voluntarily",
|
|
"text": "Whether it was corrected voluntarily"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_details_stayed_consistent",
|
|
"text": "Whether details stayed consistent"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_there_was_an_effort_to_hide_it",
|
|
"text": "Whether there was an effort to hide it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_responsibility_was_accepted",
|
|
"text": "Whether responsibility was accepted"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_the_behavior_continued",
|
|
"text": "Whether the behavior continued"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_it_was_corrected_voluntarily",
|
|
"text": "Whether it was corrected voluntarily"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_details_stayed_consistent",
|
|
"text": "Whether details stayed consistent"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_there_was_an_effort_to_hide_it",
|
|
"text": "Whether there was an effort to hide it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_responsibility_was_accepted",
|
|
"text": "Whether responsibility was accepted"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_the_behavior_continued",
|
|
"text": "Whether the behavior continued"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_094",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Focus on the impact or focus on the next action?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "focus_on_the_impact",
|
|
"text": "Focus on the impact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "focus_on_the_next_action",
|
|
"text": "Focus on the next action"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "focus_on_the_impact",
|
|
"text": "Focus on the impact"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "focus_on_the_next_action",
|
|
"text": "Focus on the next action"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_095",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which behaviors make a sincere apology harder to believe?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"apology",
|
|
"barriers",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rushing_for_forgiveness",
|
|
"text": "Rushing for forgiveness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "arguing_over_every_word",
|
|
"text": "Arguing over every word"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repeating_the_same_behavior",
|
|
"text": "Repeating the same behavior"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_the_hurt_person_provide_comfort",
|
|
"text": "Making the hurt person provide comfort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "treating_the_apology_as_the_end",
|
|
"text": "Treating the apology as the end"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rushing_for_forgiveness",
|
|
"text": "Rushing for forgiveness"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "arguing_over_every_word",
|
|
"text": "Arguing over every word"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repeating_the_same_behavior",
|
|
"text": "Repeating the same behavior"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_the_hurt_person_provide_comfort",
|
|
"text": "Making the hurt person provide comfort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "treating_the_apology_as_the_end",
|
|
"text": "Treating the apology as the end"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_096",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can help when one person needs more answers than the other can give at once?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"questions",
|
|
"pace",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "write_down_remaining_questions",
|
|
"text": "Write down remaining questions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "answer_in_smaller_conversations",
|
|
"text": "Answer in smaller conversations"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "be_honest_about_what_is_unknown",
|
|
"text": "Be honest about what is unknown"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "set_a_time_to_continue",
|
|
"text": "Set a time to continue"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_inventing_certainty",
|
|
"text": "Avoid inventing certainty"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "write_down_remaining_questions",
|
|
"text": "Write down remaining questions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "answer_in_smaller_conversations",
|
|
"text": "Answer in smaller conversations"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "be_honest_about_what_is_unknown",
|
|
"text": "Be honest about what is unknown"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "set_a_time_to_continue",
|
|
"text": "Set a time to continue"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_inventing_certainty",
|
|
"text": "Avoid inventing certainty"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_097",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What is the healthiest goal for a hard conversation?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hard_conversations",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "understand_one_thing_better",
|
|
"text": "Understand one thing better"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agree_on_one_next_step",
|
|
"text": "Agree on one next step"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clarify_what_remains_unresolved",
|
|
"text": "Clarify what remains unresolved"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "end_with_less_confusion",
|
|
"text": "End with less confusion"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "understand_one_thing_better",
|
|
"text": "Understand one thing better"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agree_on_one_next_step",
|
|
"text": "Agree on one next step"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "clarify_what_remains_unresolved",
|
|
"text": "Clarify what remains unresolved"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "end_with_less_confusion",
|
|
"text": "End with less confusion"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_098",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signs show a break is being used responsibly?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"pause",
|
|
"follow_through",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_return_time_is_named",
|
|
"text": "A return time is named"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_person_actually_comes_back",
|
|
"text": "The person actually comes back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_punishment_happens_during_the_break",
|
|
"text": "No punishment happens during the break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_topic_is_not_quietly_abandoned",
|
|
"text": "The topic is not quietly abandoned"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_use_the_time_to_settle",
|
|
"text": "Both people use the time to settle"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_return_time_is_named",
|
|
"text": "A return time is named"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_person_actually_comes_back",
|
|
"text": "The person actually comes back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_punishment_happens_during_the_break",
|
|
"text": "No punishment happens during the break"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_topic_is_not_quietly_abandoned",
|
|
"text": "The topic is not quietly abandoned"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_use_the_time_to_settle",
|
|
"text": "Both people use the time to settle"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_099",
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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "What helps a painful conversation stay honest without becoming cruel?",
|
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"depth": 2,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"hard_conversations",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
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"options": [
|
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{
|
|
"id": "plain_words",
|
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"text": "Plain words"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "no_exaggerated_promises",
|
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"text": "No exaggerated promises"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "room_for_mixed_feelings",
|
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"text": "Room for mixed feelings"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure_to_comfort_each_other_immediately",
|
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"text": "No pressure to comfort each other immediately"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "permission_to_say_the_answer_is_incomplete",
|
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"text": "Permission to say the answer is incomplete"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plain_words",
|
|
"text": "Plain words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_exaggerated_promises",
|
|
"text": "No exaggerated promises"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "room_for_mixed_feelings",
|
|
"text": "Room for mixed feelings"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_pressure_to_comfort_each_other_immediately",
|
|
"text": "No pressure to comfort each other immediately"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "permission_to_say_the_answer_is_incomplete",
|
|
"text": "Permission to say the answer is incomplete"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
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"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_100",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "Which repair steps matter after words become cruel?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"harmful_words",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stop_the_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Stop the conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "own_the_exact_words",
|
|
"text": "Own the exact words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "allow_space_without_retaliation",
|
|
"text": "Allow space without retaliation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "discuss_what_prevents_a_repeat",
|
|
"text": "Discuss what prevents a repeat"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_that_the_harm_may_take_time",
|
|
"text": "Accept that the harm may take time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stop_the_conversation",
|
|
"text": "Stop the conversation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "own_the_exact_words",
|
|
"text": "Own the exact words"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "allow_space_without_retaliation",
|
|
"text": "Allow space without retaliation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "discuss_what_prevents_a_repeat",
|
|
"text": "Discuss what prevents a repeat"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_that_the_harm_may_take_time",
|
|
"text": "Accept that the harm may take time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_101",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which kinds of closeness can return before full trust does?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"pace",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_an_ordinary_meal",
|
|
"text": "Sharing an ordinary meal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "laughing_at_something_together",
|
|
"text": "Laughing at something together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_nearby_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Sitting nearby without pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "working_on_a_small_task",
|
|
"text": "Working on a small task"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_about_a_neutral_memory",
|
|
"text": "Talking about a neutral memory"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sharing_an_ordinary_meal",
|
|
"text": "Sharing an ordinary meal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "laughing_at_something_together",
|
|
"text": "Laughing at something together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "sitting_nearby_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Sitting nearby without pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "working_on_a_small_task",
|
|
"text": "Working on a small task"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talking_about_a_neutral_memory",
|
|
"text": "Talking about a neutral memory"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_102",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make shared time feel least pressured?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"comfort",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_trust_talk_required",
|
|
"text": "No trust talk required"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_ending_time",
|
|
"text": "A clear ending time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_familiar_activity",
|
|
"text": "A familiar activity"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "permission_to_change_plans",
|
|
"text": "Permission to change plans"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_trust_talk_required",
|
|
"text": "No trust talk required"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_ending_time",
|
|
"text": "A clear ending time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_familiar_activity",
|
|
"text": "A familiar activity"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "permission_to_change_plans",
|
|
"text": "Permission to change plans"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_103",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What keeps affection from feeling required during repair?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"affection",
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_rather_than_assume",
|
|
"text": "Ask rather than assume"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_no_warmly",
|
|
"text": "Accept no warmly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_affection_from_becoming_proof",
|
|
"text": "Keep affection from becoming proof"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_closeness_stay_nonsexual",
|
|
"text": "Let closeness stay nonsexual"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_not_measure_love_by_the_response",
|
|
"text": "Do not measure love by the response"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_rather_than_assume",
|
|
"text": "Ask rather than assume"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_no_warmly",
|
|
"text": "Accept no warmly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_affection_from_becoming_proof",
|
|
"text": "Keep affection from becoming proof"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_closeness_stay_nonsexual",
|
|
"text": "Let closeness stay nonsexual"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_not_measure_love_by_the_response",
|
|
"text": "Do not measure love by the response"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_104",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How natural does ordinary affection feel between us lately?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"affection",
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not natural yet",
|
|
"max_label": "Very natural"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_105",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Rebuild routines first or create new memories first?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rebuild_routines_first",
|
|
"text": "Rebuild routines first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "create_new_memories_first",
|
|
"text": "Create new memories first"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rebuild_routines_first",
|
|
"text": "Rebuild routines first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "create_new_memories_first",
|
|
"text": "Create new memories first"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_106",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which shared moments could remind us that repair is not our whole relationship?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"identity",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_familiar_joke",
|
|
"text": "A familiar joke"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_relaxed_meal",
|
|
"text": "A relaxed meal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_small_plan_for_the_future",
|
|
"text": "A small plan for the future"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "music_we_both_like",
|
|
"text": "Music we both like"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_with_no_serious_agenda",
|
|
"text": "Time with no serious agenda"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_familiar_joke",
|
|
"text": "A familiar joke"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_relaxed_meal",
|
|
"text": "A relaxed meal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_small_plan_for_the_future",
|
|
"text": "A small plan for the future"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "music_we_both_like",
|
|
"text": "Music we both like"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_with_no_serious_agenda",
|
|
"text": "Time with no serious agenda"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_107",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a positive moment feel real rather than forced?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "nobody_announces_that_it_is_progress",
|
|
"text": "Nobody announces that it is progress"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_mood_arrives_naturally",
|
|
"text": "The mood arrives naturally"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_can_enjoy_it_without_a_heavy_talk",
|
|
"text": "Both can enjoy it without a heavy talk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_one_demands_that_it_prove_everything",
|
|
"text": "No one demands that it prove everything"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_allowed_to_be_brief",
|
|
"text": "It is allowed to be brief"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "nobody_announces_that_it_is_progress",
|
|
"text": "Nobody announces that it is progress"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_mood_arrives_naturally",
|
|
"text": "The mood arrives naturally"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_can_enjoy_it_without_a_heavy_talk",
|
|
"text": "Both can enjoy it without a heavy talk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_one_demands_that_it_prove_everything",
|
|
"text": "No one demands that it prove everything"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_allowed_to_be_brief",
|
|
"text": "It is allowed to be brief"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_108",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which sign of closeness would mean the most right now?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "easy_laughter",
|
|
"text": "Easy laughter"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfortable_silence",
|
|
"text": "Comfortable silence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "unprompted_affection",
|
|
"text": "Unprompted affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_a_future_plan",
|
|
"text": "Making a future plan"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "easy_laughter",
|
|
"text": "Easy laughter"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "comfortable_silence",
|
|
"text": "Comfortable silence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "unprompted_affection",
|
|
"text": "Unprompted affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "making_a_future_plan",
|
|
"text": "Making a future plan"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_109",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can help us enjoy a good day without fearing the next setback?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"uncertainty",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stay_in_the_current_day",
|
|
"text": "Stay in the current day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_declaring_everything_fixed",
|
|
"text": "Avoid declaring everything fixed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remember_progress_can_be_uneven",
|
|
"text": "Remember progress can be uneven"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_useful_agreements",
|
|
"text": "Keep useful agreements"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_joy_count_without_becoming_evidence",
|
|
"text": "Let joy count without becoming evidence"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stay_in_the_current_day",
|
|
"text": "Stay in the current day"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_declaring_everything_fixed",
|
|
"text": "Avoid declaring everything fixed"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "remember_progress_can_be_uneven",
|
|
"text": "Remember progress can be uneven"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_useful_agreements",
|
|
"text": "Keep useful agreements"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_joy_count_without_becoming_evidence",
|
|
"text": "Let joy count without becoming evidence"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_110",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "written",
|
|
"text": "What is one ordinary moment that would make us feel more like ourselves again?",
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"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"identity",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"max_length": 500
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_111",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
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"text": "Which signs suggest trust is becoming less fragile?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"stability",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "questions_can_be_answered_calmly",
|
|
"text": "Questions can be answered calmly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_apart_causes_less_panic",
|
|
"text": "Time apart causes less panic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_mistake_does_not_become_a_crisis",
|
|
"text": "A mistake does not become a crisis"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plans_feel_believable",
|
|
"text": "Plans feel believable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_is_not_used_as_reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Affection is not used as reassurance"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "questions_can_be_answered_calmly",
|
|
"text": "Questions can be answered calmly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "time_apart_causes_less_panic",
|
|
"text": "Time apart causes less panic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_mistake_does_not_become_a_crisis",
|
|
"text": "A mistake does not become a crisis"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "plans_feel_believable",
|
|
"text": "Plans feel believable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "affection_is_not_used_as_reassurance",
|
|
"text": "Affection is not used as reassurance"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_112",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make celebrating progress feel appropriate?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"recognition",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_change_has_lasted",
|
|
"text": "The change has lasted"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_notice_it",
|
|
"text": "Both people notice it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_celebration_stays_modest",
|
|
"text": "The celebration stays modest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "unresolved_pain_is_still_acknowledged",
|
|
"text": "Unresolved pain is still acknowledged"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "nobody_feels_pressured_to_move_on",
|
|
"text": "Nobody feels pressured to move on"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_change_has_lasted",
|
|
"text": "The change has lasted"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_notice_it",
|
|
"text": "Both people notice it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_celebration_stays_modest",
|
|
"text": "The celebration stays modest"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "unresolved_pain_is_still_acknowledged",
|
|
"text": "Unresolved pain is still acknowledged"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "nobody_feels_pressured_to_move_on",
|
|
"text": "Nobody feels pressured to move on"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_113",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which milestone would you want to acknowledge privately?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"milestone",
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_month_of_reliable_follow_through",
|
|
"text": "A month of reliable follow-through"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hard_conversation_handled_well",
|
|
"text": "A hard conversation handled well"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_trigger_that_passed_more_gently",
|
|
"text": "A trigger that passed more gently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_promise_kept_without_reminders",
|
|
"text": "A promise kept without reminders"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_month_of_reliable_follow_through",
|
|
"text": "A month of reliable follow-through"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_hard_conversation_handled_well",
|
|
"text": "A hard conversation handled well"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_trigger_that_passed_more_gently",
|
|
"text": "A trigger that passed more gently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_promise_kept_without_reminders",
|
|
"text": "A promise kept without reminders"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_114",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How hopeful do you feel about rebuilding something solid together?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hope",
|
|
"current_state",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not hopeful yet",
|
|
"max_label": "Very hopeful"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_115",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps hope stay realistic?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"hope",
|
|
"realism",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "base_it_on_actions",
|
|
"text": "Base it on actions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "allow_uncertainty",
|
|
"text": "Allow uncertainty"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_boundaries_in_place",
|
|
"text": "Keep boundaries in place"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "notice_patterns_over_time",
|
|
"text": "Notice patterns over time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_not_confuse_hope_with_obligation",
|
|
"text": "Do not confuse hope with obligation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "base_it_on_actions",
|
|
"text": "Base it on actions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "allow_uncertainty",
|
|
"text": "Allow uncertainty"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_boundaries_in_place",
|
|
"text": "Keep boundaries in place"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "notice_patterns_over_time",
|
|
"text": "Notice patterns over time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_not_confuse_hope_with_obligation",
|
|
"text": "Do not confuse hope with obligation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_116",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which activities could rebuild teamwork without becoming a trust exercise?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cooking_something_simple",
|
|
"text": "Cooking something simple"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "planning_a_short_outing",
|
|
"text": "Planning a short outing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "solving_a_practical_problem",
|
|
"text": "Solving a practical problem"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "learning_a_small_skill",
|
|
"text": "Learning a small skill"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_something_for_the_home_together",
|
|
"text": "Choosing something for the home together"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "cooking_something_simple",
|
|
"text": "Cooking something simple"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "planning_a_short_outing",
|
|
"text": "Planning a short outing"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "solving_a_practical_problem",
|
|
"text": "Solving a practical problem"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "learning_a_small_skill",
|
|
"text": "Learning a small skill"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choosing_something_for_the_home_together",
|
|
"text": "Choosing something for the home together"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_117",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should happen when a good moment suddenly feels complicated?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mixed_feelings",
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_change_gently",
|
|
"text": "Name the change gently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_without_blaming",
|
|
"text": "Pause without blaming"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_whether_closeness_or_space_helps",
|
|
"text": "Ask whether closeness or space helps"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_both_feelings_be_true",
|
|
"text": "Let both feelings be true"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_change_gently",
|
|
"text": "Name the change gently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_without_blaming",
|
|
"text": "Pause without blaming"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_whether_closeness_or_space_helps",
|
|
"text": "Ask whether closeness or space helps"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_both_feelings_be_true",
|
|
"text": "Let both feelings be true"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_118",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps mixed feelings fit inside the same day?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mixed_feelings",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_demand_to_choose_one_feeling",
|
|
"text": "No demand to choose one feeling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "acknowledge_the_good_and_the_hurt",
|
|
"text": "Acknowledge the good and the hurt"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_treating_sadness_as_failure",
|
|
"text": "Avoid treating sadness as failure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_breaks_from_repair_talk",
|
|
"text": "Take breaks from repair talk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_expectations_modest",
|
|
"text": "Keep expectations modest"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_demand_to_choose_one_feeling",
|
|
"text": "No demand to choose one feeling"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "acknowledge_the_good_and_the_hurt",
|
|
"text": "Acknowledge the good and the hurt"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_treating_sadness_as_failure",
|
|
"text": "Avoid treating sadness as failure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "take_breaks_from_repair_talk",
|
|
"text": "Take breaks from repair talk"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_expectations_modest",
|
|
"text": "Keep expectations modest"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_119",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "More ordinary time together or one meaningful conversation?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"closeness",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_ordinary_time_together",
|
|
"text": "More ordinary time together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_meaningful_conversation",
|
|
"text": "One meaningful conversation"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "more_ordinary_time_together",
|
|
"text": "More ordinary time together"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_meaningful_conversation",
|
|
"text": "One meaningful conversation"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_120",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which changes would make future plans easier to believe?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"future",
|
|
"consistency",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "past_plans_have_been_kept",
|
|
"text": "Past plans have been kept"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "details_stay_realistic",
|
|
"text": "Details stay realistic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_help_plan",
|
|
"text": "Both people help plan"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changes_are_shared_early",
|
|
"text": "Changes are shared early"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_promise_is_made_just_to_calm_the_moment",
|
|
"text": "No promise is made just to calm the moment"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "past_plans_have_been_kept",
|
|
"text": "Past plans have been kept"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "details_stay_realistic",
|
|
"text": "Details stay realistic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_help_plan",
|
|
"text": "Both people help plan"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "changes_are_shared_early",
|
|
"text": "Changes are shared early"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_promise_is_made_just_to_calm_the_moment",
|
|
"text": "No promise is made just to calm the moment"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_121",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can help physical closeness return at a respectful pace?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"affection",
|
|
"consent",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_feels_welcome",
|
|
"text": "Ask what feels welcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "begin_with_nonsexual_affection",
|
|
"text": "Begin with nonsexual affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_hesitation_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Accept hesitation without pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_either_person_stop",
|
|
"text": "Let either person stop"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_trust_separate_from_physical_access",
|
|
"text": "Keep trust separate from physical access"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_feels_welcome",
|
|
"text": "Ask what feels welcome"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "begin_with_nonsexual_affection",
|
|
"text": "Begin with nonsexual affection"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "accept_hesitation_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "Accept hesitation without pressure"
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "let_either_person_stop",
|
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"text": "Let either person stop"
|
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},
|
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{
|
|
"id": "keep_trust_separate_from_physical_access",
|
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"text": "Keep trust separate from physical access"
|
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}
|
|
],
|
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"min_selections": 1,
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"max_selections": 3
|
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}
|
|
},
|
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{
|
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"id": "rt_122",
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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
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"type": "single_choice",
|
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"text": "Which shared routine would be easiest to restart?",
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"depth": 1,
|
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"access": "premium",
|
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"tags": [
|
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"routines",
|
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"closeness",
|
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"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
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"options": [
|
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{
|
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"id": "coffee_together",
|
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"text": "Coffee together"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "a_short_evening_walk",
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"text": "A short evening walk"
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "one_weekly_meal",
|
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"text": "One weekly meal"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "a_regular_goodnight_check_in",
|
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"text": "A regular goodnight check-in"
|
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}
|
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],
|
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"answer_config": {
|
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"options": [
|
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{
|
|
"id": "coffee_together",
|
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"text": "Coffee together"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_short_evening_walk",
|
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"text": "A short evening walk"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "one_weekly_meal",
|
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"text": "One weekly meal"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "a_regular_goodnight_check_in",
|
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"text": "A regular goodnight check-in"
|
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}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_123",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a new memory feel safe to enjoy?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"memories",
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_expectation_that_it_erases_the_past",
|
|
"text": "No expectation that it erases the past"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_plan_is_mutually_chosen",
|
|
"text": "The plan is mutually chosen"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_mood_stays_flexible",
|
|
"text": "The mood stays flexible"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_can_step_back",
|
|
"text": "Either person can step back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_moment_is_allowed_to_stand_alone",
|
|
"text": "The moment is allowed to stand alone"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_expectation_that_it_erases_the_past",
|
|
"text": "No expectation that it erases the past"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_plan_is_mutually_chosen",
|
|
"text": "The plan is mutually chosen"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_mood_stays_flexible",
|
|
"text": "The mood stays flexible"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "either_person_can_step_back",
|
|
"text": "Either person can step back"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_moment_is_allowed_to_stand_alone",
|
|
"text": "The moment is allowed to stand alone"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_124",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which forms of appreciation support repair without rewarding basic decency?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"appreciation",
|
|
"accountability",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "notice_sustained_effort",
|
|
"text": "Notice sustained effort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_a_specific_improvement",
|
|
"text": "Name a specific improvement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_honesty_that_was_difficult",
|
|
"text": "Thank honesty that was difficult"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "appreciate_repair_without_lowering_standards",
|
|
"text": "Appreciate repair without lowering standards"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_praise_that_demands_forgiveness",
|
|
"text": "Avoid praise that demands forgiveness"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "notice_sustained_effort",
|
|
"text": "Notice sustained effort"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_a_specific_improvement",
|
|
"text": "Name a specific improvement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "thank_honesty_that_was_difficult",
|
|
"text": "Thank honesty that was difficult"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "appreciate_repair_without_lowering_standards",
|
|
"text": "Appreciate repair without lowering standards"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_praise_that_demands_forgiveness",
|
|
"text": "Avoid praise that demands forgiveness"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_125",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would help us feel like partners in repair rather than opponents?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"teamwork",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shared_goal",
|
|
"text": "A shared goal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "separate_responsibility_for_each_person_s_actions",
|
|
"text": "Separate responsibility for each person's actions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respectful_questions",
|
|
"text": "Respectful questions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "boundaries_that_apply_consistently",
|
|
"text": "Boundaries that apply consistently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "room_for_different_timelines",
|
|
"text": "Room for different timelines"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_shared_goal",
|
|
"text": "A shared goal"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "separate_responsibility_for_each_person_s_actions",
|
|
"text": "Separate responsibility for each person's actions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respectful_questions",
|
|
"text": "Respectful questions"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "boundaries_that_apply_consistently",
|
|
"text": "Boundaries that apply consistently"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "room_for_different_timelines",
|
|
"text": "Room for different timelines"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_126",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which habits would help protect rebuilt trust over time?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"maintenance",
|
|
"consistency",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "raise_concerns_early",
|
|
"text": "Raise concerns early"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_ordinary_promises",
|
|
"text": "Keep ordinary promises"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "admit_mistakes_promptly",
|
|
"text": "Admit mistakes promptly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "review_agreements_when_life_changes",
|
|
"text": "Review agreements when life changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protect_respectful_independence",
|
|
"text": "Protect respectful independence"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "raise_concerns_early",
|
|
"text": "Raise concerns early"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_ordinary_promises",
|
|
"text": "Keep ordinary promises"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "admit_mistakes_promptly",
|
|
"text": "Admit mistakes promptly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "review_agreements_when_life_changes",
|
|
"text": "Review agreements when life changes"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "protect_respectful_independence",
|
|
"text": "Protect respectful independence"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_127",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would tell you regular trust check-ins are no longer needed?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"maintenance",
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "concerns_come_up_naturally",
|
|
"text": "Concerns come up naturally"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agreements_feel_automatic",
|
|
"text": "Agreements feel automatic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "questions_no_longer_become_crises",
|
|
"text": "Questions no longer become crises"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_prefer_less_structure",
|
|
"text": "Both people prefer less structure"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "concerns_come_up_naturally",
|
|
"text": "Concerns come up naturally"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agreements_feel_automatic",
|
|
"text": "Agreements feel automatic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "questions_no_longer_become_crises",
|
|
"text": "Questions no longer become crises"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_prefer_less_structure",
|
|
"text": "Both people prefer less structure"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_128",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can keep an old hurt from becoming a weapon in every disagreement?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"past_hurt",
|
|
"non_punishing",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "discuss_the_current_issue_first",
|
|
"text": "Discuss the current issue first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_when_the_past_is_relevant",
|
|
"text": "Name when the past is relevant"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_using_it_to_win",
|
|
"text": "Avoid using it to win"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_boundaries_separate_from_punishment",
|
|
"text": "Keep boundaries separate from punishment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_to_unresolved_parts_at_a_planned_time",
|
|
"text": "Return to unresolved parts at a planned time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "discuss_the_current_issue_first",
|
|
"text": "Discuss the current issue first"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_when_the_past_is_relevant",
|
|
"text": "Name when the past is relevant"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_using_it_to_win",
|
|
"text": "Avoid using it to win"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_boundaries_separate_from_punishment",
|
|
"text": "Keep boundaries separate from punishment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "return_to_unresolved_parts_at_a_planned_time",
|
|
"text": "Return to unresolved parts at a planned time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_129",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How much do you trust your own judgment in this relationship right now?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"self_trust",
|
|
"current_state",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Very little right now",
|
|
"max_label": "A great deal"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_130",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "this_or_that",
|
|
"text": "Keep a repair routine or let conversations happen naturally?",
|
|
"depth": 1,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"maintenance",
|
|
"quick_choice",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_a_repair_routine",
|
|
"text": "Keep a repair routine"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_conversations_happen_naturally",
|
|
"text": "Let conversations happen naturally"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_a_repair_routine",
|
|
"text": "Keep a repair routine"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "let_conversations_happen_naturally",
|
|
"text": "Let conversations happen naturally"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_131",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which experiences can help rebuild trust in your own instincts?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"self_trust",
|
|
"agency",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_concerns_are_taken_seriously",
|
|
"text": "Your concerns are taken seriously"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_can_say_no_without_retaliation",
|
|
"text": "You can say no without retaliation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "actions_match_what_you_observe",
|
|
"text": "Actions match what you observe"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_make_decisions_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "You make decisions without pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "outside_support_remains_available",
|
|
"text": "Outside support remains available"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_concerns_are_taken_seriously",
|
|
"text": "Your concerns are taken seriously"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_can_say_no_without_retaliation",
|
|
"text": "You can say no without retaliation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "actions_match_what_you_observe",
|
|
"text": "Actions match what you observe"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "you_make_decisions_without_pressure",
|
|
"text": "You make decisions without pressure"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "outside_support_remains_available",
|
|
"text": "Outside support remains available"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_132",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should happen when one person believes repair has stalled?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"stalled_progress",
|
|
"communication",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_specific_concern",
|
|
"text": "Name the specific concern"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "review_recent_patterns",
|
|
"text": "Review recent patterns"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_each_person_is_willing_to_change",
|
|
"text": "Ask what each person is willing to change"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "revisit_boundaries",
|
|
"text": "Revisit boundaries"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "seek_outside_support_if_it_would_help",
|
|
"text": "Seek outside support if it would help"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "name_the_specific_concern",
|
|
"text": "Name the specific concern"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "review_recent_patterns",
|
|
"text": "Review recent patterns"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "ask_what_each_person_is_willing_to_change",
|
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"text": "Ask what each person is willing to change"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "revisit_boundaries",
|
|
"text": "Revisit boundaries"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "seek_outside_support_if_it_would_help",
|
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"text": "Seek outside support if it would help"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
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"max_selections": 3
|
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}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
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"id": "rt_133",
|
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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
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"type": "single_choice",
|
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"text": "Which question best checks whether progress is real?",
|
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"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"reflection",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_happens_under_stress_now",
|
|
"text": "What happens under stress now?"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "are_the_same_promises_being_broken",
|
|
"text": "Are the same promises being broken?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "can_concerns_be_raised_safely",
|
|
"text": "Can concerns be raised safely?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_actions_remain_consistent_without_reminders",
|
|
"text": "Do actions remain consistent without reminders?"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_happens_under_stress_now",
|
|
"text": "What happens under stress now?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "are_the_same_promises_being_broken",
|
|
"text": "Are the same promises being broken?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "can_concerns_be_raised_safely",
|
|
"text": "Can concerns be raised safely?"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_actions_remain_consistent_without_reminders",
|
|
"text": "Do actions remain consistent without reminders?"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_134",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What makes a boundary part of repair rather than a threat?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"repair",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_protects_a_clear_need",
|
|
"text": "It protects a clear need"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_consequence_is_realistic",
|
|
"text": "The consequence is realistic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_does_not_control_unrelated_choices",
|
|
"text": "It does not control unrelated choices"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_can_be_stated_calmly",
|
|
"text": "It can be stated calmly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_person_setting_it_can_follow_through",
|
|
"text": "The person setting it can follow through"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_protects_a_clear_need",
|
|
"text": "It protects a clear need"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_consequence_is_realistic",
|
|
"text": "The consequence is realistic"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_does_not_control_unrelated_choices",
|
|
"text": "It does not control unrelated choices"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_can_be_stated_calmly",
|
|
"text": "It can be stated calmly"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_person_setting_it_can_follow_through",
|
|
"text": "The person setting it can follow through"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_135",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How confident are you that current boundaries will be respected?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"boundaries",
|
|
"confidence",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not confident yet",
|
|
"max_label": "Very confident"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_136",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signs suggest an agreement needs to change?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"agreements",
|
|
"maintenance",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_vague",
|
|
"text": "It is vague"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_creates_constant_conflict",
|
|
"text": "It creates constant conflict"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_depends_on_surveillance",
|
|
"text": "It depends on surveillance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_no_longer_fits_the_situation",
|
|
"text": "It no longer fits the situation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_person_never_freely_agreed",
|
|
"text": "One person never freely agreed"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_is_vague",
|
|
"text": "It is vague"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_creates_constant_conflict",
|
|
"text": "It creates constant conflict"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_depends_on_surveillance",
|
|
"text": "It depends on surveillance"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "it_no_longer_fits_the_situation",
|
|
"text": "It no longer fits the situation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "one_person_never_freely_agreed",
|
|
"text": "One person never freely agreed"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_137",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps a repaired relationship stay honest during calm periods?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"maintenance",
|
|
"honesty",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_small_truths_easy_to_share",
|
|
"text": "Keep small truths easy to share"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_not_wait_for_a_crisis",
|
|
"text": "Do not wait for a crisis"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "mention_concerns_before_resentment_builds",
|
|
"text": "Mention concerns before resentment builds"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "continue_ordinary_check_ins",
|
|
"text": "Continue ordinary check-ins"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_assuming_repair_is_permanently_finished",
|
|
"text": "Avoid assuming repair is permanently finished"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_small_truths_easy_to_share",
|
|
"text": "Keep small truths easy to share"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "do_not_wait_for_a_crisis",
|
|
"text": "Do not wait for a crisis"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "mention_concerns_before_resentment_builds",
|
|
"text": "Mention concerns before resentment builds"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "continue_ordinary_check_ins",
|
|
"text": "Continue ordinary check-ins"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "avoid_assuming_repair_is_permanently_finished",
|
|
"text": "Avoid assuming repair is permanently finished"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_138",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which change would make you feel most secure about the future?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"future",
|
|
"security",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reliable_honesty",
|
|
"text": "Reliable honesty"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respectful_conflict",
|
|
"text": "Respectful conflict"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "room_to_remain_independent",
|
|
"text": "Room to remain independent"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "consistent_follow_through",
|
|
"text": "Consistent follow-through"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reliable_honesty",
|
|
"text": "Reliable honesty"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respectful_conflict",
|
|
"text": "Respectful conflict"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "room_to_remain_independent",
|
|
"text": "Room to remain independent"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "consistent_follow_through",
|
|
"text": "Consistent follow-through"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_139",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How free do you feel to decide the future of this relationship?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"agency",
|
|
"future",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"min": 1,
|
|
"max": 5,
|
|
"min_label": "Not free enough",
|
|
"max_label": "Completely my choice"
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_140",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which choices matter most to keep in your own hands during repair?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"agency",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_pace_of_difficult_talks",
|
|
"text": "The pace of difficult talks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_a_request_feels_acceptable",
|
|
"text": "Whether a request feels acceptable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_to_seek_outside_support",
|
|
"text": "When to seek outside support"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_boundaries_they_need",
|
|
"text": "What boundaries they need"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_continuing_the_relationship_is_right",
|
|
"text": "Whether continuing the relationship is right"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "the_pace_of_difficult_talks",
|
|
"text": "The pace of difficult talks"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_a_request_feels_acceptable",
|
|
"text": "Whether a request feels acceptable"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "when_to_seek_outside_support",
|
|
"text": "When to seek outside support"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "what_boundaries_they_need",
|
|
"text": "What boundaries they need"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "whether_continuing_the_relationship_is_right",
|
|
"text": "Whether continuing the relationship is right"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_141",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which actions show that trust is no longer being taken for granted?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"maintenance",
|
|
"appreciation",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agreements_are_still_respected",
|
|
"text": "Agreements are still respected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honesty_stays_prompt",
|
|
"text": "Honesty stays prompt"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "questions_are_answered_without_contempt",
|
|
"text": "Questions are answered without contempt"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "independence_remains_protected",
|
|
"text": "Independence remains protected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repair_habits_continue_when_inconvenient",
|
|
"text": "Repair habits continue when inconvenient"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "agreements_are_still_respected",
|
|
"text": "Agreements are still respected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honesty_stays_prompt",
|
|
"text": "Honesty stays prompt"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "questions_are_answered_without_contempt",
|
|
"text": "Questions are answered without contempt"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "independence_remains_protected",
|
|
"text": "Independence remains protected"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repair_habits_continue_when_inconvenient",
|
|
"text": "Repair habits continue when inconvenient"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_142",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "What should happen if rebuilding starts to feel harmful?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"agency",
|
|
"safety",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_the_process",
|
|
"text": "Pause the process"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassess_boundaries",
|
|
"text": "Reassess boundaries"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "seek_trusted_outside_support",
|
|
"text": "Seek trusted outside support"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "consider_whether_continuing_is_right",
|
|
"text": "Consider whether continuing is right"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "pause_the_process",
|
|
"text": "Pause the process"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "reassess_boundaries",
|
|
"text": "Reassess boundaries"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "seek_trusted_outside_support",
|
|
"text": "Seek trusted outside support"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "consider_whether_continuing_is_right",
|
|
"text": "Consider whether continuing is right"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_143",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What helps outside support remain useful rather than intrusive?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"outside_support",
|
|
"privacy",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choose_trustworthy_people",
|
|
"text": "Choose trustworthy people"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "share_only_your_own_experience",
|
|
"text": "Share only your own experience"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_private_details_limited",
|
|
"text": "Keep private details limited"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_support_for_clarity_not_retaliation",
|
|
"text": "Use support for clarity, not retaliation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respect_professional_confidentiality",
|
|
"text": "Respect professional confidentiality"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "choose_trustworthy_people",
|
|
"text": "Choose trustworthy people"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "share_only_your_own_experience",
|
|
"text": "Share only your own experience"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "keep_private_details_limited",
|
|
"text": "Keep private details limited"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "use_support_for_clarity_not_retaliation",
|
|
"text": "Use support for clarity, not retaliation"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respect_professional_confidentiality",
|
|
"text": "Respect professional confidentiality"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_144",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "scale",
|
|
"text": "How able do you feel to make decisions without pressure?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"agency",
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"current_state",
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"rebuilding_trust"
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],
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"answer_config": {
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"min": 1,
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"max": 5,
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"min_label": "Not able enough",
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"max_label": "Fully able"
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}
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},
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{
|
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"id": "rt_145",
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"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
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"type": "multi_choice",
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"text": "Which maintenance habits should become less formal over time?",
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"depth": 2,
|
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"access": "premium",
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"tags": [
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"maintenance",
|
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"progress",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
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"options": [
|
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{
|
|
"id": "scheduled_check_ins",
|
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"text": "Scheduled check-ins"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "written_reminders",
|
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"text": "Written reminders"
|
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},
|
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{
|
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"id": "repeated_reassurance_requests",
|
|
"text": "Repeated reassurance requests"
|
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},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "detailed_progress_reviews",
|
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"text": "Detailed progress reviews"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "temporary_repair_agreements",
|
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"text": "Temporary repair agreements"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "scheduled_check_ins",
|
|
"text": "Scheduled check-ins"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "written_reminders",
|
|
"text": "Written reminders"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repeated_reassurance_requests",
|
|
"text": "Repeated reassurance requests"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "detailed_progress_reviews",
|
|
"text": "Detailed progress reviews"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "temporary_repair_agreements",
|
|
"text": "Temporary repair agreements"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_146",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would make forgiveness feel genuinely optional?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"forgiveness",
|
|
"agency",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_deadline",
|
|
"text": "No deadline"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_reward_for_saying_it",
|
|
"text": "No reward for saying it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_punishment_for_not_feeling_it",
|
|
"text": "No punishment for not feeling it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repair_does_not_depend_on_the_word",
|
|
"text": "Repair does not depend on the word"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_decision_can_change_over_time",
|
|
"text": "Your decision can change over time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_deadline",
|
|
"text": "No deadline"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_reward_for_saying_it",
|
|
"text": "No reward for saying it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "no_punishment_for_not_feeling_it",
|
|
"text": "No punishment for not feeling it"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "repair_does_not_depend_on_the_word",
|
|
"text": "Repair does not depend on the word"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "your_decision_can_change_over_time",
|
|
"text": "Your decision can change over time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_147",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "single_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which outcome matters more than returning to how things were?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"future",
|
|
"growth",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_more_honest_relationship",
|
|
"text": "A more honest relationship"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stronger_boundaries",
|
|
"text": "Stronger boundaries"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trusting_your_own_judgment",
|
|
"text": "Trusting your own judgment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_decision_about_what_comes_next",
|
|
"text": "A clear decision about what comes next"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_more_honest_relationship",
|
|
"text": "A more honest relationship"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "stronger_boundaries",
|
|
"text": "Stronger boundaries"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "trusting_your_own_judgment",
|
|
"text": "Trusting your own judgment"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "a_clear_decision_about_what_comes_next",
|
|
"text": "A clear decision about what comes next"
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_148",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What can make a final decision feel clearer?",
|
|
"depth": 3,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"decision",
|
|
"agency",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "look_at_patterns_over_time",
|
|
"text": "Look at patterns over time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "separate_hope_from_evidence",
|
|
"text": "Separate hope from evidence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "consider_how_the_relationship_affects_you",
|
|
"text": "Consider how the relationship affects you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talk_with_someone_neutral_you_trust",
|
|
"text": "Talk with someone neutral you trust"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "allow_yourself_enough_time",
|
|
"text": "Allow yourself enough time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "look_at_patterns_over_time",
|
|
"text": "Look at patterns over time"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "separate_hope_from_evidence",
|
|
"text": "Separate hope from evidence"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "consider_how_the_relationship_affects_you",
|
|
"text": "Consider how the relationship affects you"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "talk_with_someone_neutral_you_trust",
|
|
"text": "Talk with someone neutral you trust"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "allow_yourself_enough_time",
|
|
"text": "Allow yourself enough time"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_149",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "Which signs show both people are doing the repair work?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"mutual_repair",
|
|
"progress",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_take_responsibility",
|
|
"text": "Both people take responsibility"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_can_raise_concerns",
|
|
"text": "Both can raise concerns"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_respect_boundaries",
|
|
"text": "Both respect boundaries"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "neither_person_carries_all_the_emotional_work",
|
|
"text": "Neither person carries all the emotional work"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "change_does_not_depend_on_constant_reminders",
|
|
"text": "Change does not depend on constant reminders"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_people_take_responsibility",
|
|
"text": "Both people take responsibility"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_can_raise_concerns",
|
|
"text": "Both can raise concerns"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "both_respect_boundaries",
|
|
"text": "Both respect boundaries"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "neither_person_carries_all_the_emotional_work",
|
|
"text": "Neither person carries all the emotional work"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "change_does_not_depend_on_constant_reminders",
|
|
"text": "Change does not depend on constant reminders"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "rt_150",
|
|
"category_id": "rebuilding_trust",
|
|
"type": "multi_choice",
|
|
"text": "What would help rebuilt trust remain something we choose every day?",
|
|
"depth": 2,
|
|
"access": "premium",
|
|
"tags": [
|
|
"maintenance",
|
|
"future",
|
|
"rebuilding_trust"
|
|
],
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honesty_before_convenience",
|
|
"text": "Honesty before convenience"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respect_during_disagreement",
|
|
"text": "Respect during disagreement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "follow_through_on_ordinary_promises",
|
|
"text": "Follow-through on ordinary promises"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "freedom_without_secrecy",
|
|
"text": "Freedom without secrecy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "care_that_does_not_require_control",
|
|
"text": "Care that does not require control"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"answer_config": {
|
|
"options": [
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "honesty_before_convenience",
|
|
"text": "Honesty before convenience"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "respect_during_disagreement",
|
|
"text": "Respect during disagreement"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "follow_through_on_ordinary_promises",
|
|
"text": "Follow-through on ordinary promises"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "freedom_without_secrecy",
|
|
"text": "Freedom without secrecy"
|
|
},
|
|
{
|
|
"id": "care_that_does_not_require_control",
|
|
"text": "Care that does not require control"
|
|
}
|
|
],
|
|
"min_selections": 1,
|
|
"max_selections": 3
|
|
}
|
|
}
|
|
]
|
|
}
|